1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,000 (rock music) 2 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:11,980 ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 3 00:00:12,020 --> 00:00:12,980 ♪ I'm steady walking ♪ 4 00:00:13,020 --> 00:00:14,639 ♪ Like I got three commas 5 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:15,980 in my bank account ♪ 6 00:00:16,020 --> 00:00:16,980 ♪ Living loud ♪ 7 00:00:17,020 --> 00:00:18,980 ♪ So get your cameras out ♪ 8 00:00:19,020 --> 00:00:20,612 ♪ I probably do the same 9 00:00:20,652 --> 00:00:21,980 thing if I was you ♪ 10 00:00:22,020 --> 00:00:24,000 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,980 ♪ Hmmn, put up your lights ♪ 12 00:00:29,020 --> 00:00:32,000 ♪ And keep 'em flashing ♪ 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,184 ♪ Don't ever put 'em 14 00:00:35,224 --> 00:00:36,980 down down down ♪ 15 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:38,340 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 16 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,000 (funky music plays) 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:43,020 - Come on, babe. 18 00:00:43,020 --> 00:00:44,980 - I am. 19 00:00:45,020 --> 00:00:46,459 ♪ Woke up with the feeling 20 00:00:46,499 --> 00:00:47,980 today is sweet like honey ♪ 21 00:00:48,020 --> 00:00:48,980 - We good, baby? 22 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:50,000 - Yeah. 23 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,020 (laughs) 24 00:00:50,020 --> 00:00:51,980 - What? Is the house- 25 00:00:52,020 --> 00:00:52,420 - It's been forever 26 00:00:52,460 --> 00:00:52,980 since I've ridden a bike. 27 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:53,986 Oh my God. 28 00:00:54,026 --> 00:00:54,980 - Oh yeah? 29 00:00:55,020 --> 00:00:55,980 - You know how they say like, 30 00:00:56,020 --> 00:00:56,390 you shouldn't 31 00:00:56,430 --> 00:00:56,980 focus on something, 32 00:00:57,020 --> 00:00:57,750 'cause you're 33 00:00:57,790 --> 00:00:58,980 going to crash on it? 34 00:00:59,020 --> 00:00:59,980 - Yeah. 35 00:01:00,020 --> 00:01:00,980 (Lesley squeals) 36 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:01,931 - (laughs) Honey, 37 00:01:01,971 --> 00:01:02,980 what are you doing? 38 00:01:03,020 --> 00:01:03,382 Wait, you know 39 00:01:03,422 --> 00:01:03,980 where the brakes are? 40 00:01:04,020 --> 00:01:05,980 - I'm about to hit you. 41 00:01:06,020 --> 00:01:08,000 No, I got the brakes. Okay. 42 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:10,490 - Are you glad I got 43 00:01:10,530 --> 00:01:10,980 these bikes for us? 44 00:01:11,020 --> 00:01:11,867 - Yeah. I think 45 00:01:11,907 --> 00:01:12,980 it's something new. 46 00:01:13,020 --> 00:01:14,056 You know, we can do it together, 47 00:01:14,096 --> 00:01:15,776 and this is a good exercise. 48 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,255 - My Mom told me, 49 00:01:17,295 --> 00:01:18,980 "Just marry that girl." 50 00:01:19,020 --> 00:01:19,980 - Mm-hmm. 51 00:01:20,020 --> 00:01:21,639 - That turned out to be the best 52 00:01:21,679 --> 00:01:22,980 decision that I ever made. 53 00:01:23,020 --> 00:01:24,550 Marrying you and listening 54 00:01:24,590 --> 00:01:26,030 to her at the same time. 55 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,065 - I know they say that you 56 00:01:29,105 --> 00:01:29,980 marry into the family, 57 00:01:30,020 --> 00:01:31,980 but I didn't realize 58 00:01:32,020 --> 00:01:33,401 that when I said my vows, 59 00:01:33,441 --> 00:01:34,980 I was saying it to her, too. 60 00:01:35,020 --> 00:01:35,931 - I think it's an 61 00:01:35,971 --> 00:01:37,000 Asian thing, right? 62 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:37,500 - What? 63 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,931 - You know, where you 64 00:01:39,971 --> 00:01:40,980 ask your parents, like, 65 00:01:41,020 --> 00:01:41,980 "What do you think?" 66 00:01:42,020 --> 00:01:43,365 - It's because we 67 00:01:43,405 --> 00:01:44,980 feel such obligation 68 00:01:45,020 --> 00:01:45,487 because they came over to 69 00:01:45,527 --> 00:01:45,980 this country with nothing 70 00:01:46,020 --> 00:01:48,339 and sacrifice so much for us. 71 00:01:48,379 --> 00:01:48,980 - Right. 72 00:01:49,020 --> 00:01:50,143 - And we've heard that 73 00:01:50,183 --> 00:01:50,980 our entire life. 74 00:01:51,020 --> 00:01:51,980 - (laughs) I know. 75 00:01:52,020 --> 00:01:53,312 - You know, so then you 76 00:01:53,352 --> 00:01:54,980 feel like you kind of have to 77 00:01:55,020 --> 00:01:55,980 do something to make them proud. 78 00:01:56,020 --> 00:01:57,000 - Right. 79 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,260 Does that bother you? 80 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,980 - Does it bother me that what? 81 00:02:03,020 --> 00:02:05,980 - That I married you, you know, 82 00:02:06,020 --> 00:02:07,547 and she kind of helped me 83 00:02:07,587 --> 00:02:08,980 make that decision, or? 84 00:02:09,020 --> 00:02:10,046 - I mean, I asked my mom, 85 00:02:10,086 --> 00:02:10,980 if I should marry you. 86 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:12,980 - You did? 87 00:02:13,020 --> 00:02:13,495 - Yeah, except for it's- it's 88 00:02:13,535 --> 00:02:14,960 kind of the opposite though. 89 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:15,428 - Really? 90 00:02:15,468 --> 00:02:15,980 - She said, 91 00:02:16,020 --> 00:02:17,324 "I don't know, he 92 00:02:17,364 --> 00:02:18,980 looks like a playboy, 93 00:02:19,020 --> 00:02:20,980 but if you want to you can." 94 00:02:21,020 --> 00:02:23,980 - (laughs) Is she... (laughs) 95 00:02:24,020 --> 00:02:25,980 (Car honking) 96 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:26,980 - I'll race you. 97 00:02:27,020 --> 00:02:31,000 - Woo, chasing my wife. 98 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:32,980 - You'll be always 99 00:02:33,020 --> 00:02:34,100 chasing me, honey. 100 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:35,020 (Car honking) 101 00:02:35,020 --> 00:02:36,000 - What up? 102 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,000 (funky music) 103 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,980 (restaurant chatter) 104 00:02:44,020 --> 00:02:44,529 - I'm just glad we finally 105 00:02:44,569 --> 00:02:44,980 all four got together. 106 00:02:45,020 --> 00:02:45,980 It's so hard. 107 00:02:46,020 --> 00:02:47,980 - So, how was the holidays? 108 00:02:48,020 --> 00:02:48,955 - I went to Cabo 109 00:02:48,995 --> 00:02:49,980 for Thanksgiving. 110 00:02:50,020 --> 00:02:50,527 - Got it. That's why this 111 00:02:50,567 --> 00:02:51,827 tan's not going away. 112 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:52,421 - You're not as 113 00:02:52,461 --> 00:02:52,980 tan as usually are. 114 00:02:53,020 --> 00:02:53,766 - I know. I haven't. 115 00:02:53,806 --> 00:02:54,980 I don't get to go to the beach. 116 00:02:55,020 --> 00:02:55,980 (laughter) 117 00:02:56,020 --> 00:02:56,980 I've been hibernating, girl. 118 00:02:57,020 --> 00:02:57,441 - It's cause you 119 00:02:57,481 --> 00:02:57,980 always go to Vegas. 120 00:02:58,020 --> 00:02:58,918 - Yeah, that's right. 121 00:02:58,958 --> 00:02:59,980 - You inside the casino. 122 00:03:00,020 --> 00:03:01,160 - Yeah, I'm inside. 123 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:02,634 - When my tan starts fading, 124 00:03:02,674 --> 00:03:02,980 I go to Mexico, 125 00:03:03,020 --> 00:03:04,072 but she misses that 126 00:03:04,112 --> 00:03:04,980 cha-ching sound. 127 00:03:05,020 --> 00:03:05,980 (laughter) 128 00:03:06,020 --> 00:03:06,980 - When I'm itching, 129 00:03:07,020 --> 00:03:07,614 something's not right. 130 00:03:07,654 --> 00:03:07,980 - Yeah, yeah. 131 00:03:08,020 --> 00:03:09,159 - I mean, talk about 132 00:03:09,199 --> 00:03:09,980 cha-cha-ching. 133 00:03:10,020 --> 00:03:10,858 Like, when are you 134 00:03:10,898 --> 00:03:11,980 going to get on Tinder? 135 00:03:12,020 --> 00:03:13,697 - Like, I could swipe for you? 136 00:03:13,737 --> 00:03:13,980 - Me? 137 00:03:14,020 --> 00:03:15,010 - It's like a little 138 00:03:15,050 --> 00:03:15,980 Vegas slot machine, 139 00:03:16,020 --> 00:03:16,523 like do do do. 140 00:03:16,563 --> 00:03:16,980 - Ding ding. 141 00:03:17,020 --> 00:03:17,701 - I want to swipe. 142 00:03:17,741 --> 00:03:18,980 - We think you need to have sex. 143 00:03:19,020 --> 00:03:19,980 (laughter) 144 00:03:20,020 --> 00:03:20,980 - Oh, I'm having sex. 145 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:21,608 - Oh. 146 00:03:21,648 --> 00:03:22,980 -Uh. And... 147 00:03:23,020 --> 00:03:24,980 - Okay, all I have to say is, 148 00:03:25,020 --> 00:03:26,484 I'm satisfied. Is that enough? 149 00:03:26,524 --> 00:03:26,980 - Hold up. 150 00:03:27,020 --> 00:03:27,769 (Anna And Karen 151 00:03:27,809 --> 00:03:28,980 Mocking) I'm satisfied. 152 00:03:29,020 --> 00:03:30,980 (Laughter) 153 00:03:31,020 --> 00:03:31,812 - Now have you guys 154 00:03:31,852 --> 00:03:32,980 noticed a difference in me? 155 00:03:33,020 --> 00:03:33,523 - Yeah. 156 00:03:33,563 --> 00:03:33,980 - Yes. 157 00:03:34,020 --> 00:03:36,000 - Yeah. So I'm dating. 158 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,200 - Like, like, you're talking 159 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:40,980 like you're dating 160 00:03:41,020 --> 00:03:41,980 someone seriously? 161 00:03:42,020 --> 00:03:44,980 - Uh, yeah. 162 00:03:45,020 --> 00:03:46,000 - Ooh, ooh. 163 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,230 And shot time? So my 164 00:03:48,270 --> 00:03:49,980 timing is much more perfect. 165 00:03:50,020 --> 00:03:50,218 - It is. 166 00:03:50,258 --> 00:03:50,980 - And now it's going to be 167 00:03:51,020 --> 00:03:51,980 shot in Maine. 168 00:03:52,020 --> 00:03:52,854 - Cheers. 169 00:03:52,894 --> 00:03:55,000 - So you're dating...? 170 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:56,521 Washington's best friend? 171 00:03:56,561 --> 00:03:56,980 - Is he from Houston? 172 00:03:57,020 --> 00:03:57,980 So we all have to know him. 173 00:03:58,020 --> 00:03:58,933 - Yeah, I'm dating 174 00:03:58,973 --> 00:03:59,980 Washington's bestie. 175 00:04:00,020 --> 00:04:01,980 - Channing Tatum? 176 00:04:02,020 --> 00:04:02,784 (Laughter) 177 00:04:02,824 --> 00:04:04,000 - I- I- I wish! 178 00:04:02,824 --> 00:04:04,980 likes Asian girls? 179 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:05,020 - You think he 180 00:04:05,020 --> 00:04:06,980 - Probably. 181 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:07,554 - Everybody likes asian girls. 182 00:04:07,594 --> 00:04:07,980 - You'll make him turn. 183 00:04:08,020 --> 00:04:08,570 You'll make him turn. 184 00:04:08,610 --> 00:04:08,980 - You're right. 185 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:10,980 Everyone likes Asian girls. 186 00:04:11,020 --> 00:04:11,906 They just haven't 187 00:04:11,946 --> 00:04:13,146 had the opportunity. 188 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:15,688 Uh, it is someone in Houston, 189 00:04:15,728 --> 00:04:16,980 and you guys know him. 190 00:04:17,020 --> 00:04:18,000 - Okay. 191 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,980 - It's Nate. 192 00:04:21,020 --> 00:04:21,980 - Nate, Nate. 193 00:04:22,020 --> 00:04:22,980 - Nate, Nate. Nate, Nate. 194 00:04:23,020 --> 00:04:24,000 - What? 195 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:25,466 - We've known each 196 00:04:25,506 --> 00:04:25,980 other for 20 years. 197 00:04:26,020 --> 00:04:26,980 - 20 years. 198 00:04:27,020 --> 00:04:28,963 - I just feel like for so long, 199 00:04:29,003 --> 00:04:30,000 I've been, like, 200 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,980 silently unhappy 201 00:04:34,020 --> 00:04:34,795 and not thinking of, 202 00:04:34,835 --> 00:04:35,980 and not being selfish enough. 203 00:04:36,020 --> 00:04:37,980 You know? I've- 204 00:04:38,020 --> 00:04:39,980 - Been a gift for yourself. 205 00:04:40,020 --> 00:04:40,805 - Yeah. I've been too 206 00:04:40,845 --> 00:04:42,645 considerate of everybody else. 207 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:43,487 - I mean, we told you that. 208 00:04:43,527 --> 00:04:43,980 - At the expense of my own 209 00:04:44,020 --> 00:04:44,572 happiness. 210 00:04:44,612 --> 00:04:45,112 - Yeah. 211 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:46,998 - So now I'm like, "Fuck 212 00:04:47,038 --> 00:04:48,418 everything. I'm happy." 213 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:49,980 - It's a little fast, but... 214 00:04:50,020 --> 00:04:51,000 - Uh! 215 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:52,980 Hey, I'm 39. 216 00:04:53,020 --> 00:04:54,090 - I mean, to be fair, 217 00:04:54,130 --> 00:04:54,980 we all love Nate. 218 00:04:55,020 --> 00:04:56,963 So, it's not a terrible choice. 219 00:04:57,003 --> 00:04:57,980 That's for sure. 220 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:58,617 - Thank you. 221 00:04:58,657 --> 00:04:58,980 - Yeah. 222 00:04:59,020 --> 00:05:00,603 - It's not like I met 223 00:05:00,643 --> 00:05:01,980 someone on Tinder. 224 00:05:02,020 --> 00:05:02,902 We've known each 225 00:05:02,942 --> 00:05:03,980 other for 20 years. 226 00:05:04,020 --> 00:05:04,943 We were married to other 227 00:05:04,983 --> 00:05:06,543 people during those times. 228 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:07,020 - Cheers. 229 00:05:07,020 --> 00:05:08,980 - But we were still friends. 230 00:05:09,020 --> 00:05:10,951 Now that I'm divorcing my ex- 231 00:05:10,991 --> 00:05:12,980 husband, dating someone again, 232 00:05:13,020 --> 00:05:14,980 I feel like a teenager. 233 00:05:15,020 --> 00:05:15,980 - What'd your parents say? 234 00:05:16,020 --> 00:05:16,980 - About what? 235 00:05:17,020 --> 00:05:19,000 - Are you gonna tell 'em? 236 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:20,980 - Yeah. 237 00:05:21,020 --> 00:05:21,980 - When? 238 00:05:22,020 --> 00:05:22,504 - Yeah. 239 00:05:22,544 --> 00:05:23,980 - I don't know when. 240 00:05:24,020 --> 00:05:25,433 I just feel like them even 241 00:05:25,473 --> 00:05:26,980 getting adjusted to the idea 242 00:05:27,020 --> 00:05:28,980 that number one, I'm divorced. 243 00:05:29,020 --> 00:05:30,980 You know, they're Catholic. 244 00:05:31,020 --> 00:05:32,046 And they were hoping that 245 00:05:32,086 --> 00:05:32,980 I'd be able to work it 246 00:05:33,020 --> 00:05:33,980 out with my ex. 247 00:05:34,020 --> 00:05:34,783 - Culturally, that's nice... 248 00:05:34,823 --> 00:05:34,980 I mean, 249 00:05:35,020 --> 00:05:37,980 we're supposed to show grit. 250 00:05:38,020 --> 00:05:38,170 - Yes. 251 00:05:38,210 --> 00:05:38,980 - Cause that's resilience. 252 00:05:39,020 --> 00:05:40,980 - Right. 253 00:05:41,020 --> 00:05:42,010 - So, doing anything 254 00:05:42,050 --> 00:05:42,980 other than what any 255 00:05:43,020 --> 00:05:45,980 of our parents have endured is- 256 00:05:46,020 --> 00:05:46,617 - Giving up. 257 00:05:46,657 --> 00:05:47,157 - Yeah. 258 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,000 - For my mom, I feel like, um, 259 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,539 it's hard for her to see me 260 00:05:52,579 --> 00:05:53,980 be so different from her. 261 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:54,301 - Yeah. 262 00:05:54,341 --> 00:05:54,980 - Oh, good one. 263 00:05:55,020 --> 00:05:55,251 - Yeah. 264 00:05:55,291 --> 00:05:55,980 - That makes sense. 265 00:05:56,020 --> 00:05:56,449 - It takes a lot of 266 00:05:56,489 --> 00:05:56,980 time for her to, like, 267 00:05:57,020 --> 00:05:58,460 wrap her mind around. Yes. 268 00:05:58,500 --> 00:05:59,980 - You're the only daughter. 269 00:06:00,020 --> 00:06:00,437 Yeah. 270 00:06:00,477 --> 00:06:01,980 - I'm the oldest. 271 00:06:02,020 --> 00:06:02,980 - Are you gonna to tell 'em? 272 00:06:03,020 --> 00:06:03,980 - Yeah. 273 00:06:04,020 --> 00:06:04,980 - When? 274 00:06:05,020 --> 00:06:05,504 - Yeah. 275 00:06:05,544 --> 00:06:06,980 - I don't know when. 276 00:06:07,020 --> 00:06:09,000 (suspenseful music) 277 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:11,980 (funky music) 278 00:06:12,020 --> 00:06:12,902 - I love it when 279 00:06:12,942 --> 00:06:13,980 you cook breakfast. 280 00:06:14,020 --> 00:06:15,341 - I always love it when 281 00:06:15,381 --> 00:06:17,061 you have time for breakfast. 282 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:18,980 - I know. 283 00:06:19,020 --> 00:06:19,980 Rare that I'm not working. 284 00:06:20,020 --> 00:06:20,980 - I know. 285 00:06:21,020 --> 00:06:22,400 Want some orange juice? 286 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,244 Freshly squeezed 287 00:06:24,284 --> 00:06:25,980 for my beautiful lady. 288 00:06:26,020 --> 00:06:27,980 (laughs) 289 00:06:28,020 --> 00:06:29,394 So I was wondering, uh, 290 00:06:29,434 --> 00:06:30,980 my dad's retirement party. 291 00:06:31,020 --> 00:06:31,980 - That's coming up. 292 00:06:32,020 --> 00:06:32,877 About a year ago 293 00:06:32,917 --> 00:06:33,980 my father-in-law had 294 00:06:34,020 --> 00:06:35,275 expressed that he was 295 00:06:35,315 --> 00:06:36,980 finally ready to be retired. 296 00:06:37,020 --> 00:06:38,561 We thought it needed 297 00:06:38,601 --> 00:06:40,000 a big celebration. 298 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,292 - It wouldn't be complete 299 00:06:43,332 --> 00:06:46,000 without, maybe, your parents. 300 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,000 - My mom? 301 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:49,980 - Yeah. Well, you know, 302 00:06:50,020 --> 00:06:50,985 my dad was going to 303 00:06:51,025 --> 00:06:52,165 invite your family, 304 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:53,401 but I think it's 305 00:06:53,441 --> 00:06:53,980 better if I call them, 306 00:06:54,020 --> 00:06:55,000 don't you think? 307 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:56,980 Just to invite her? 308 00:06:57,020 --> 00:06:57,980 - No. 309 00:06:58,020 --> 00:06:59,280 - You don't think so? 310 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,895 - No, because it has to be 311 00:07:00,935 --> 00:07:02,795 formally invited from your dad. 312 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:03,020 - Right? 313 00:07:03,020 --> 00:07:03,980 - If it's something- 314 00:07:04,020 --> 00:07:04,640 if it's something that formal- 315 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:05,640 - The Asian way. 316 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:06,356 - then yeah. 317 00:07:06,396 --> 00:07:06,980 Like, the Asian way. 318 00:07:07,020 --> 00:07:07,716 You know how it is. 319 00:07:07,756 --> 00:07:08,256 - Okay. 320 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,826 - My family sees the Ho's 321 00:07:10,866 --> 00:07:12,980 as a little less traditional. 322 00:07:13,020 --> 00:07:14,039 - You can call her, 323 00:07:14,079 --> 00:07:14,980 - Cause it's his- 324 00:07:15,020 --> 00:07:15,475 - but I guarantee you, 325 00:07:15,515 --> 00:07:15,980 - Cause it's his party. 326 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:16,980 she'll say no. 327 00:07:17,020 --> 00:07:17,980 I think the first time 328 00:07:18,020 --> 00:07:18,980 Washington met my mom, 329 00:07:19,020 --> 00:07:22,000 he said, "What's up?" 330 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:23,980 You know? And for me, 331 00:07:24,020 --> 00:07:24,980 when I first met his parents, 332 00:07:25,020 --> 00:07:26,980 I bowed my head and I said, 333 00:07:27,020 --> 00:07:28,980 (speaks vietnamese) 334 00:07:29,020 --> 00:07:30,980 That's more proper. 335 00:07:31,020 --> 00:07:31,980 When it comes to our culture, 336 00:07:32,020 --> 00:07:32,579 there's things that 337 00:07:32,619 --> 00:07:32,980 you don't do, 338 00:07:33,020 --> 00:07:34,980 especially to a mother-in-law. 339 00:07:35,020 --> 00:07:36,420 [Producer] So will he 340 00:07:36,460 --> 00:07:37,980 ever recover from that? 341 00:07:38,020 --> 00:07:39,460 - Slowly (laughs), which is 342 00:07:39,500 --> 00:07:41,180 why we see them once a year. 343 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:43,980 - Well, that actually 344 00:07:44,020 --> 00:07:44,980 makes my life easier. 345 00:07:45,020 --> 00:07:46,486 I just wanted you to 346 00:07:46,526 --> 00:07:48,000 know that, you know- 347 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:49,980 - Good morning. 348 00:07:50,020 --> 00:07:50,980 - Hey. 349 00:07:51,020 --> 00:07:51,980 - Hey Judy. 350 00:07:52,020 --> 00:07:52,980 - What are you guys up to? 351 00:07:53,020 --> 00:07:54,439 - Planning Dad's 352 00:07:54,479 --> 00:07:56,000 retirement party. 353 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:56,500 - Yeah? 354 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,214 - My dad's retirement 355 00:07:58,254 --> 00:07:58,980 is coming up, 356 00:07:59,020 --> 00:07:59,843 and you know 357 00:07:59,883 --> 00:08:01,000 what that means. 358 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,980 I'm taking over, 359 00:08:04,020 --> 00:08:05,552 and I'm looking forward 360 00:08:05,592 --> 00:08:06,980 to being much richer. 361 00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:07,565 - You usually eat eggs 362 00:08:07,605 --> 00:08:07,980 with chopsticks. 363 00:08:08,020 --> 00:08:08,167 - Here. 364 00:08:08,207 --> 00:08:08,980 - You eat eggs with chopsticks? 365 00:08:09,020 --> 00:08:09,980 - You do it white people way. 366 00:08:10,020 --> 00:08:10,305 - I know. 367 00:08:10,345 --> 00:08:10,980 - We're acting like 368 00:08:11,020 --> 00:08:11,980 white people today. 369 00:08:12,020 --> 00:08:12,452 - This is white 370 00:08:12,492 --> 00:08:13,512 people breakfast. 371 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:14,480 - So you guys have 372 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:14,980 booked everything? 373 00:08:15,020 --> 00:08:16,143 - You know how capable 374 00:08:16,183 --> 00:08:17,143 your husband is. 375 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,080 - I own this town. 376 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,431 - Why don't you tell 377 00:08:20,471 --> 00:08:20,980 her how much you've done 378 00:08:21,020 --> 00:08:21,455 on the party and 379 00:08:21,495 --> 00:08:22,575 see what she says. 380 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,414 - I got uh, I mean, I 381 00:08:24,454 --> 00:08:26,000 got shit taken care of. 382 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,338 - He made a 383 00:08:28,378 --> 00:08:28,980 vision board for it. 384 00:08:29,020 --> 00:08:29,980 Is that not enough, Lesley? 385 00:08:30,020 --> 00:08:31,980 - Yeah. 386 00:08:32,020 --> 00:08:33,980 I got this, baby. Trust me. 387 00:08:34,020 --> 00:08:35,072 - Famous last words 388 00:08:35,112 --> 00:08:36,000 from Washington. 389 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:36,020 He's got it. 390 00:08:36,020 --> 00:08:37,000 - I got it. 391 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:38,919 - Great. You know who's 392 00:08:38,959 --> 00:08:39,980 gonna get the blame of it? 393 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:40,072 Me. 394 00:08:40,112 --> 00:08:41,912 - Why would you get the blame? 395 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:42,520 - Because your parents think 396 00:08:42,560 --> 00:08:42,980 I'm the responsible one. 397 00:08:43,020 --> 00:08:43,980 - Oh, really? 398 00:08:44,020 --> 00:08:45,035 - They're gonna be like "Lesley, 399 00:08:45,075 --> 00:08:45,980 why didn't you say anything?" 400 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:46,881 - You should just 401 00:08:46,921 --> 00:08:48,181 have your wife do it. 402 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:50,714 - Being Washington's 403 00:08:50,754 --> 00:08:52,980 wife is a lot of pressure, 404 00:08:53,020 --> 00:08:54,909 because I am the one that 405 00:08:54,949 --> 00:08:56,980 has to make him accountable 406 00:08:57,020 --> 00:08:57,980 for his actions. 407 00:08:58,020 --> 00:08:59,349 His mom used to 408 00:08:59,389 --> 00:09:00,980 take that role on, 409 00:09:01,020 --> 00:09:02,184 but then now, because 410 00:09:02,224 --> 00:09:02,980 I married him, 411 00:09:03,020 --> 00:09:03,980 it's my role. 412 00:09:04,020 --> 00:09:05,562 It's a lot of 413 00:09:05,602 --> 00:09:07,980 pressure to help him 414 00:09:08,020 --> 00:09:09,902 and to watch him be who 415 00:09:09,942 --> 00:09:11,980 he wants to be ultimately 416 00:09:12,020 --> 00:09:13,443 and live up to his 417 00:09:13,483 --> 00:09:14,980 dad's expectations. 418 00:09:15,020 --> 00:09:15,498 - At least I got a 419 00:09:15,538 --> 00:09:15,980 lot of potential. 420 00:09:16,020 --> 00:09:17,013 - That's all I ever 421 00:09:17,053 --> 00:09:18,133 hear is potential. 422 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:19,953 Okay, no, let me just 423 00:09:19,993 --> 00:09:20,980 handle the party then. 424 00:09:21,020 --> 00:09:21,858 - Yeah. I think it 425 00:09:21,898 --> 00:09:22,980 would be less stressful 426 00:09:23,020 --> 00:09:24,064 for her if she knows 427 00:09:24,104 --> 00:09:25,124 she's in control. 428 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,000 (Funky music) 429 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:33,980 - Okay, what do you think? 430 00:09:34,020 --> 00:09:34,980 That right? 431 00:09:35,020 --> 00:09:36,980 - Yeah! 432 00:09:37,020 --> 00:09:39,980 I think, uh, a lot of my ideas 433 00:09:40,020 --> 00:09:41,279 and some of your 434 00:09:41,319 --> 00:09:42,980 ideas, too. Together. 435 00:09:43,020 --> 00:09:46,274 - See now, we got the tv, 436 00:09:46,314 --> 00:09:47,980 a chandelier. 437 00:09:48,020 --> 00:09:48,980 - Yeah. 438 00:09:49,020 --> 00:09:50,065 - And we got our own alarm 439 00:09:50,105 --> 00:09:50,980 system and everything. 440 00:09:51,020 --> 00:09:52,033 - Dad, dad, you're not 441 00:09:52,073 --> 00:09:53,273 a real estate agent. 442 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:54,980 No one's gonna, 443 00:09:55,020 --> 00:09:55,515 you're not selling 444 00:09:55,555 --> 00:09:55,980 the house, okay? 445 00:09:56,020 --> 00:09:56,980 (laughs) 446 00:09:57,020 --> 00:09:58,980 - Whatever belong to parent, 447 00:09:59,020 --> 00:10:00,000 belong to kid. 448 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,418 So even I spend for them 449 00:10:02,458 --> 00:10:03,980 today, I spend them later. 450 00:10:04,020 --> 00:10:05,220 It's the same thing. 451 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:06,980 I'd rather give them now 452 00:10:07,020 --> 00:10:07,980 than left in future because, 453 00:10:08,020 --> 00:10:09,980 I can see what they're doing. 454 00:10:10,020 --> 00:10:11,646 But one, one day when 455 00:10:11,686 --> 00:10:13,000 I'm gone, I'm die 456 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:14,850 I don't know what 457 00:10:14,890 --> 00:10:15,980 they do with my money. 458 00:10:16,020 --> 00:10:17,832 Here the key, you own the 459 00:10:17,872 --> 00:10:19,980 home, it belong to you, okay? 460 00:10:20,020 --> 00:10:20,322 - Yes. 461 00:10:20,362 --> 00:10:21,980 - You make your own decision. 462 00:10:22,020 --> 00:10:22,980 - I'm happy for you. 463 00:10:23,020 --> 00:10:23,980 - Thank you. 464 00:10:24,020 --> 00:10:24,385 - I'm happy. 465 00:10:24,425 --> 00:10:25,505 - We're neighbors. 466 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,040 - I feel like this 467 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:27,980 house symbolizes 468 00:10:28,020 --> 00:10:29,980 my second chance at life. 469 00:10:30,020 --> 00:10:30,704 Unfortunately, 470 00:10:30,744 --> 00:10:31,980 at this point in my life, 471 00:10:32,020 --> 00:10:32,980 I'm not financially independent, 472 00:10:33,020 --> 00:10:33,958 because I decided 473 00:10:33,998 --> 00:10:34,980 when I got married 474 00:10:35,020 --> 00:10:36,612 and had kids, that I would 475 00:10:36,652 --> 00:10:38,000 give up my law career. 476 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:39,980 - Now remember that, 477 00:10:40,020 --> 00:10:41,220 I bought that house, 478 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:42,020 for my grandbaby. 479 00:10:42,020 --> 00:10:43,000 - Mm-hmm. 480 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,067 - Take care of your 481 00:10:45,107 --> 00:10:46,067 kids well, okay? 482 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:48,560 - That's all I care about. 483 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,059 So, I'm depending on 484 00:10:50,099 --> 00:10:50,980 my dad right now, 485 00:10:51,020 --> 00:10:52,486 and that's hard because 486 00:10:52,526 --> 00:10:53,980 that means he has a say 487 00:10:54,020 --> 00:10:55,519 in my life, you know? If I 488 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:56,980 want to do anything major 489 00:10:57,020 --> 00:10:57,908 in my life, I would 490 00:10:57,948 --> 00:10:58,980 have to run it by him. 491 00:10:59,020 --> 00:11:00,488 He's just the type of guy that 492 00:11:00,528 --> 00:11:01,980 says, "My way or the highway," 493 00:11:02,020 --> 00:11:03,602 and he would have no problems 494 00:11:03,642 --> 00:11:04,980 cutting me off right now. 495 00:11:05,020 --> 00:11:06,000 - Hmm. 496 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:07,771 - Why are you 497 00:11:07,811 --> 00:11:09,011 breathing like that? 498 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,000 - Well, I know last week, 499 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:13,020 -Mm-hmm. 500 00:11:13,020 --> 00:11:15,000 - you have the week off, 501 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:15,500 - Yeah. 502 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:17,980 - when your kids go vacation, 503 00:11:18,020 --> 00:11:18,360 - Uh-huh. 504 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:19,300 - where you go? 505 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:20,980 You didn't come to help him. 506 00:11:21,020 --> 00:11:21,545 - This is the first 507 00:11:21,585 --> 00:11:22,485 time in my life 508 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:24,980 I have time away from my kids. 509 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:26,580 I think I deserve 510 00:11:26,620 --> 00:11:27,980 three days off, 511 00:11:28,020 --> 00:11:29,852 so if I go on vacation, 512 00:11:29,892 --> 00:11:30,980 and I'm happy- 513 00:11:31,020 --> 00:11:31,980 - Who you go with? 514 00:11:32,020 --> 00:11:33,980 - I went with my friend. 515 00:11:34,020 --> 00:11:34,980 - The boy or the girl? 516 00:11:35,020 --> 00:11:36,000 - A boy. 517 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,000 - You mean a boyfriend? 518 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,000 - Yeah. 519 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:45,980 (sighs) 520 00:11:46,020 --> 00:11:50,000 (speaks vietnamese) 521 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:51,980 ...and... 522 00:11:52,020 --> 00:11:57,000 (speaks vietnamese) 523 00:11:59,000 --> 00:11:59,980 ...good. 524 00:12:00,020 --> 00:12:01,328 That's why the parent 525 00:12:01,368 --> 00:12:03,000 don't want kid to divorce. 526 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:04,980 (sighs) 527 00:12:05,020 --> 00:12:06,000 It's... 528 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,020 very hard for me. 529 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,591 - I know you were hoping that, 530 00:12:14,631 --> 00:12:15,980 uh, me and my ex 531 00:12:16,020 --> 00:12:16,980 would get back together, right? 532 00:12:17,020 --> 00:12:18,540 - Yes. For your kids. 533 00:12:18,580 --> 00:12:18,980 - Yes. 534 00:12:19,020 --> 00:12:20,000 - Mm-hmm. 535 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:21,419 - You think he's a 536 00:12:21,459 --> 00:12:22,839 good person to be with? 537 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:24,329 - I, I don't live with him, 538 00:12:24,369 --> 00:12:24,980 I don't know. 539 00:12:25,020 --> 00:12:25,464 - Okay. 540 00:12:25,504 --> 00:12:26,980 - You know him better. 541 00:12:27,020 --> 00:12:27,980 - And I will tell you, 542 00:12:28,020 --> 00:12:28,355 - But. 543 00:12:28,395 --> 00:12:29,980 - I do knew better, and he 544 00:12:30,020 --> 00:12:32,000 is not a good person to be with. 545 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,860 - But why don't you talk to me? 546 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:35,980 - Talk to you? 547 00:12:36,020 --> 00:12:36,980 - For three years. 548 00:12:37,020 --> 00:12:38,111 - Yeah, cause I didn't 549 00:12:38,151 --> 00:12:38,980 wanna bother you, 550 00:12:39,020 --> 00:12:39,920 because I tried 551 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:40,980 to deal with him. 552 00:12:41,020 --> 00:12:42,691 I tried, I hoped that 553 00:12:42,731 --> 00:12:43,980 he would change. 554 00:12:44,020 --> 00:12:45,566 I told him, like, if you could 555 00:12:45,606 --> 00:12:46,980 just try to spend more time 556 00:12:47,020 --> 00:12:48,547 with us, have dinner, and 557 00:12:48,587 --> 00:12:49,980 be there with the kids. 558 00:12:50,020 --> 00:12:51,423 I would take all three 559 00:12:51,463 --> 00:12:53,000 kids meet you at church, 560 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,098 he's still sleeping 561 00:12:55,138 --> 00:12:55,980 when I go home. 562 00:12:56,020 --> 00:12:58,000 That's the kind of person he is. 563 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,717 So, I didn't know what 564 00:13:01,757 --> 00:13:02,980 else I could do. 565 00:13:03,020 --> 00:13:05,000 - You are, uh, 39 years old now, 566 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:06,540 - Mm-hmm. 567 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,980 - I hope you do it right. 568 00:13:10,020 --> 00:13:12,000 (suspenseful music) 569 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,000 (Hip-hop music) 570 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:19,980 (Door opening) 571 00:13:20,020 --> 00:13:21,980 - Hey, Lesley! 572 00:13:22,020 --> 00:13:22,435 - Tina? 573 00:13:22,475 --> 00:13:23,980 - Lesley, where are you? 574 00:13:24,020 --> 00:13:24,344 - I'm up here. 575 00:13:24,384 --> 00:13:24,980 I'm in the back bathroom. 576 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:26,980 - Oh, that's great. 577 00:13:27,020 --> 00:13:27,980 Perfect. 578 00:13:28,020 --> 00:13:28,980 - What are you doing here? 579 00:13:29,020 --> 00:13:30,640 - I brought you some stuff. 580 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:31,508 - What do you have? 581 00:13:31,548 --> 00:13:31,980 - For doing hair. 582 00:13:32,020 --> 00:13:32,980 - Oh, I need hair products. 583 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:34,980 - I brought shampoo, moose, gel. 584 00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:37,980 I'm a hairstylist for 31 years, 585 00:13:38,020 --> 00:13:39,980 but I don't care about her hair. 586 00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:41,085 I just wanted a little 587 00:13:41,125 --> 00:13:41,980 scoop from Lesley. 588 00:13:42,020 --> 00:13:43,018 She probably have 589 00:13:43,058 --> 00:13:43,980 some information 590 00:13:44,020 --> 00:13:46,980 about the guy Judy dating. 591 00:13:47,020 --> 00:13:48,040 I want some info. 592 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:49,980 How's everything? 593 00:13:50,020 --> 00:13:50,980 - Good. 594 00:13:51,020 --> 00:13:51,980 Be gentle. 595 00:13:52,020 --> 00:13:52,517 - Have you talked 596 00:13:52,557 --> 00:13:53,457 to Judy lately? 597 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:54,196 - Uh. 598 00:13:54,236 --> 00:13:54,980 - How's she doing? 599 00:13:55,020 --> 00:13:56,280 - I think she's fine. 600 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:57,524 - I heard something 601 00:13:57,564 --> 00:13:57,980 but I'm not sure 602 00:13:58,020 --> 00:13:58,980 if you know anything or not, 603 00:13:59,020 --> 00:13:59,902 but I heard Judy 604 00:13:59,942 --> 00:14:00,980 was dating somebody 605 00:14:01,020 --> 00:14:01,259 - Right. 606 00:14:01,299 --> 00:14:01,980 - or seeing somebody. 607 00:14:02,020 --> 00:14:02,980 Is that true? 608 00:14:03,020 --> 00:14:04,040 - I have no idea. 609 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:05,980 She's going out more. 610 00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:06,980 - Oh, wow. 611 00:14:07,020 --> 00:14:07,617 That's good. 612 00:14:07,657 --> 00:14:07,980 - Yeah. 613 00:14:08,020 --> 00:14:09,000 - Woo! 614 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:10,702 - In this family, 615 00:14:10,742 --> 00:14:11,980 information travels real fast. 616 00:14:12,020 --> 00:14:13,352 Everybody in our family is 617 00:14:13,392 --> 00:14:14,980 obsessed with Judy's love life, 618 00:14:15,020 --> 00:14:16,065 because that's the biggest 619 00:14:16,105 --> 00:14:16,980 thing that's happening 620 00:14:17,020 --> 00:14:18,980 in our family right now, 621 00:14:19,020 --> 00:14:19,485 and we're just all 622 00:14:19,525 --> 00:14:20,605 a little bit nosy. 623 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:21,980 Do you know who it is? 624 00:14:22,020 --> 00:14:22,620 - No, is that Caucasian, 625 00:14:22,660 --> 00:14:22,980 Asian or what? 626 00:14:23,020 --> 00:14:23,980 - I have no idea. 627 00:14:24,020 --> 00:14:24,980 - Uh-huh. 628 00:14:25,020 --> 00:14:25,980 You know, I'm kinda nosy. 629 00:14:26,020 --> 00:14:26,530 I just want to see 630 00:14:26,570 --> 00:14:27,470 how cute he is. 631 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:28,980 Blah, blah, blah. 632 00:14:29,020 --> 00:14:29,980 So, come on! 633 00:14:30,020 --> 00:14:30,919 - I, I'm, I don't know. 634 00:14:30,959 --> 00:14:31,980 I'm telling you the truth. 635 00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:33,320 - You are her sister-in-law. 636 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:33,980 - I know that. 637 00:14:34,020 --> 00:14:34,931 Did you come over 638 00:14:34,971 --> 00:14:35,980 here to torture me? 639 00:14:36,020 --> 00:14:37,334 To, to, to, torture secrets 640 00:14:37,374 --> 00:14:38,154 or something? 641 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:39,494 - She complaining. 642 00:14:39,534 --> 00:14:39,980 Blah, blah, blah. 643 00:14:40,020 --> 00:14:41,000 - Don't burn me! 644 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,465 - I don't care how she feels. 645 00:14:42,505 --> 00:14:42,980 That's okay. She can handle it. 646 00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:43,980 She's a big girl. 647 00:14:44,020 --> 00:14:45,149 If you don't like to wash 648 00:14:45,189 --> 00:14:45,980 hair, that's fine. 649 00:14:46,020 --> 00:14:46,980 Just tell me about Judy. 650 00:14:47,020 --> 00:14:47,810 - I don't know 651 00:14:47,850 --> 00:14:48,980 anything about that. 652 00:14:49,020 --> 00:14:49,397 - You sure you 653 00:14:49,437 --> 00:14:49,980 don't know anything? 654 00:14:50,020 --> 00:14:50,877 - I'm positive I 655 00:14:50,917 --> 00:14:51,980 don't know anything. 656 00:14:52,020 --> 00:14:52,300 - Ah, Jesus. 657 00:14:52,340 --> 00:14:53,900 - I keep telling you that. 658 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,620 - Lesley doesn't know shit. 659 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:56,980 Bye. Gotta go. Bye. 660 00:14:57,020 --> 00:14:58,980 - Bye. 661 00:14:59,020 --> 00:14:59,791 She didn't even 662 00:14:59,831 --> 00:15:00,980 leave me any products. 663 00:15:01,020 --> 00:15:02,980 You forgot your purse. 664 00:15:03,020 --> 00:15:04,000 - Oh shit, yeah. 665 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,980 (upbeat music) 666 00:15:09,020 --> 00:15:12,000 (train horn) 667 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,000 (upbeat music) 668 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,039 - That mirror is not made 669 00:15:19,079 --> 00:15:19,980 of plastic, Roosevelt, 670 00:15:20,020 --> 00:15:20,980 don't break it please. 671 00:15:21,020 --> 00:15:22,980 - I have a lot on my plate. 672 00:15:23,020 --> 00:15:24,989 I have two kids, 673 00:15:25,029 --> 00:15:26,980 a man-child, and 674 00:15:27,020 --> 00:15:28,487 technically I'm the only 675 00:15:28,527 --> 00:15:29,980 Ho with a full time job. 676 00:15:30,020 --> 00:15:31,940 Don't break my mirror Roosevelt. 677 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:32,980 - I'm breaking it gently, Mommy. 678 00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:34,409 - No, do not break 679 00:15:34,449 --> 00:15:36,000 it gently Roosevelt. 680 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,167 [Male Voice] Hello? 681 00:15:38,207 --> 00:15:38,980 Anybody home? 682 00:15:39,020 --> 00:15:40,980 Hi grandpa. 683 00:15:41,020 --> 00:15:43,000 - Hello Roosevelt, How are you? 684 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,000 - Lincoln, go give grandpa a hug 685 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,000 Lincoln! 686 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:53,980 - Are you busy? 687 00:15:54,020 --> 00:15:55,980 - Just working Ba. 688 00:15:56,020 --> 00:15:56,980 - Oh, I see. 689 00:15:57,020 --> 00:15:58,045 I know you're busy, but can 690 00:15:58,085 --> 00:15:58,980 you help with something? 691 00:15:59,020 --> 00:15:59,425 - Yeah, what do 692 00:15:59,465 --> 00:15:59,980 you need help with? 693 00:16:00,020 --> 00:16:01,520 - Okay. I bought for 694 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:02,980 your mom an iPhone, 695 00:16:03,020 --> 00:16:04,039 I don't know how to 696 00:16:04,079 --> 00:16:04,980 set up the email. 697 00:16:05,020 --> 00:16:05,980 Can you do it for me? 698 00:16:06,020 --> 00:16:06,204 - Yeah 699 00:16:06,244 --> 00:16:06,980 - Here is my account. 700 00:16:07,020 --> 00:16:08,980 - Okay. Your phone bill? 701 00:16:09,020 --> 00:16:09,980 Give me a second 702 00:16:10,020 --> 00:16:11,165 - I bought it brand new 703 00:16:11,205 --> 00:16:11,980 - Lincoln, stop. 704 00:16:12,020 --> 00:16:13,350 Well, now it's officially 705 00:16:13,390 --> 00:16:14,980 clear that I've taken the role 706 00:16:15,020 --> 00:16:15,980 of chief high in the family. 707 00:16:16,020 --> 00:16:17,980 It used to be Judy's job 708 00:16:18,020 --> 00:16:20,742 but his parents have leaned 709 00:16:20,782 --> 00:16:22,980 to me for more things. 710 00:16:23,020 --> 00:16:23,908 They've asked me to 711 00:16:23,948 --> 00:16:24,980 do a lot more errands. 712 00:16:25,020 --> 00:16:26,980 I think it started because 713 00:16:27,020 --> 00:16:28,466 if I'm capable of taking care 714 00:16:28,506 --> 00:16:29,980 of Washington, I can take care 715 00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:30,980 of the whole family. 716 00:16:31,020 --> 00:16:32,980 It gets a little stressful. 717 00:16:33,020 --> 00:16:33,841 I can set it up later 718 00:16:33,881 --> 00:16:34,980 tonight when I get off work. 719 00:16:35,020 --> 00:16:35,980 Is that okay? 720 00:16:36,020 --> 00:16:36,980 - Okay, that's fine 721 00:16:37,020 --> 00:16:37,944 - And then I want to go 722 00:16:37,984 --> 00:16:38,980 look at a venue with you. 723 00:16:39,020 --> 00:16:39,957 I just want to get 724 00:16:39,997 --> 00:16:41,000 your opinion on it. 725 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:41,020 - Okay, sure. 726 00:16:41,020 --> 00:16:41,980 - For the party. 727 00:16:42,020 --> 00:16:42,980 - I'm glad to go with you. 728 00:16:43,020 --> 00:16:44,650 I did get my opinion 729 00:16:44,690 --> 00:16:45,980 and what I think 730 00:16:46,020 --> 00:16:46,961 - Yeah. Let me just 731 00:16:47,001 --> 00:16:48,000 finish this one case 732 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:48,020 - Okay. Bye bye. 733 00:16:48,020 --> 00:16:48,980 Bye bye. 734 00:16:49,020 --> 00:16:49,980 - Say bye grandpa. 735 00:16:50,020 --> 00:16:51,000 Thank you. 736 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:51,720 Gimme a hug. 737 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:54,980 Alright, thank you. 738 00:16:55,020 --> 00:16:55,980 - Bye grandpa. 739 00:16:56,020 --> 00:16:57,980 - Hey, I'm singing a song! 740 00:16:58,020 --> 00:16:58,980 - Okay guys, 741 00:16:59,020 --> 00:16:59,980 be nice. 742 00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:01,460 ♪ Breaking a sweat ♪ 743 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:02,980 ♪ Harder to breath ♪ 744 00:17:03,020 --> 00:17:03,980 [Judy] It's been ingrained 745 00:17:04,020 --> 00:17:05,121 in me my whole 746 00:17:05,161 --> 00:17:06,980 life that whatever I do 747 00:17:07,020 --> 00:17:08,517 in life, I should seek my 748 00:17:08,557 --> 00:17:10,000 parents' approval first. 749 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:11,555 [Receptionist] Hi, welcome, 750 00:17:11,595 --> 00:17:11,980 [Judy] Good Monring. 751 00:17:12,020 --> 00:17:12,980 - how are you? 752 00:17:13,020 --> 00:17:13,455 - Good, checking 753 00:17:13,495 --> 00:17:13,980 in for Doctor Winn 754 00:17:14,020 --> 00:17:14,980 - May I have your name please? 755 00:17:15,020 --> 00:17:17,000 - Judy Ho. H-O. 756 00:17:15,020 --> 00:17:17,980 be right here. 757 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,020 - Doctor Winn will 758 00:17:18,020 --> 00:17:18,980 Please have a seat. 759 00:17:19,020 --> 00:17:19,984 - Thank you. 760 00:17:20,024 --> 00:17:20,980 - Yes ma'am. 761 00:17:21,020 --> 00:17:22,170 - I feel like the 762 00:17:22,210 --> 00:17:23,980 struggle for me is to kind 763 00:17:24,020 --> 00:17:25,552 of wash away everything 764 00:17:25,592 --> 00:17:26,980 that I've been taught 765 00:17:27,020 --> 00:17:28,980 since I've been a child. 766 00:17:29,020 --> 00:17:30,400 And I just want to look 767 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,527 out for myself and my kids, 768 00:17:33,567 --> 00:17:35,980 you know, seek a new life. 769 00:17:36,020 --> 00:17:37,980 ♪ We'll get a little bit crazy ♪ 770 00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:39,980 - Ms. Ho? Come on in. 771 00:17:40,020 --> 00:17:42,000 - Hi Doctor Winn 772 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:42,020 - How are you ma'am? 773 00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:43,000 - Uh, good. 774 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,000 - You look nice. 775 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:45,720 - Thank you. 776 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:47,980 - Let's close the door. 777 00:17:48,020 --> 00:17:49,000 - Yeah. 778 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:49,500 - Yeah. 779 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:51,480 - Don't want people see in, 780 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:52,960 what we're doing and stuff. 781 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:54,000 - I missed you. 782 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:54,020 - I missed you too. 783 00:17:54,020 --> 00:17:54,980 - Aww. 784 00:17:55,020 --> 00:17:55,980 - I know. I'm into that. 785 00:17:56,020 --> 00:17:57,980 - Let me tell you a secret. 786 00:17:58,020 --> 00:17:59,980 Yes, we are in love. 787 00:18:00,020 --> 00:18:01,045 Is this where you bring all 788 00:18:01,085 --> 00:18:01,980 the girls you're dating? 789 00:18:02,020 --> 00:18:02,980 To the exam room? 790 00:18:03,020 --> 00:18:05,980 - No, my office is being painted 791 00:18:06,020 --> 00:18:06,980 so we can't use it right now. 792 00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:07,980 It smells pretty bad. 793 00:18:08,020 --> 00:18:09,000 - Oh. 794 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,000 (kissing) 795 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,452 They said my name was not on 796 00:18:14,492 --> 00:18:15,980 the list when I came in here. 797 00:18:16,020 --> 00:18:16,834 - It should be 798 00:18:16,874 --> 00:18:17,980 always on the list. 799 00:18:18,020 --> 00:18:18,951 - And I had to wait for like 800 00:18:18,991 --> 00:18:19,980 10 minutes for you to come out 801 00:18:20,020 --> 00:18:20,980 - That was 10 minutes? 802 00:18:21,020 --> 00:18:21,980 I don't think it was 10 minutes. 803 00:18:22,020 --> 00:18:22,980 It was like three, max. 804 00:18:23,020 --> 00:18:23,984 (both laughing) 805 00:18:24,024 --> 00:18:25,000 - Oh, good one. 806 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,009 I feel like 807 00:18:27,049 --> 00:18:28,980 anything is possible. 808 00:18:29,020 --> 00:18:30,394 Like all the cliches in 809 00:18:30,434 --> 00:18:31,980 like a Nancy Meyers movie. 810 00:18:32,020 --> 00:18:32,980 I'm like, that's how I feel. 811 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:33,798 Everything is 812 00:18:33,838 --> 00:18:34,980 right in the world. 813 00:18:35,020 --> 00:18:36,062 I thought you said you need 814 00:18:36,102 --> 00:18:36,980 to check my blood work. 815 00:18:37,020 --> 00:18:37,980 You're worried about me. 816 00:18:38,020 --> 00:18:38,485 - Someone has to 817 00:18:38,525 --> 00:18:38,980 worry about you. 818 00:18:39,020 --> 00:18:39,980 - What are you worried about? 819 00:18:40,020 --> 00:18:40,951 - You have a tendency to eat 820 00:18:40,991 --> 00:18:42,791 a lot of, you know, Foie Gras. 821 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:43,774 And you put butter on that. 822 00:18:43,814 --> 00:18:43,980 - Yeah. 823 00:18:44,020 --> 00:18:45,559 - You put truffle on that. 824 00:18:45,599 --> 00:18:45,980 - Yeah. 825 00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:46,457 - That's why I need to 826 00:18:46,497 --> 00:18:46,980 check your truffle level. 827 00:18:47,020 --> 00:18:47,980 (Laughing) 828 00:18:48,020 --> 00:18:48,960 I think that's gonna 829 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:49,980 be ridiculously high. 830 00:18:50,020 --> 00:18:51,980 - It feels very natural 831 00:18:52,020 --> 00:18:53,122 and he feels like someone 832 00:18:53,162 --> 00:18:53,980 I can really trust. 833 00:18:54,020 --> 00:18:54,468 - I'll see you a 834 00:18:54,508 --> 00:18:54,980 little bit later? 835 00:18:55,020 --> 00:18:56,000 - Mmhmm. 836 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:56,500 - Okay. 837 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,980 (kissing) 838 00:19:00,020 --> 00:19:00,980 - All right. 839 00:19:01,020 --> 00:19:02,980 ♪ Baby girl I be like num num ♪ 840 00:19:03,020 --> 00:19:03,961 ♪ No double girl, 841 00:19:04,001 --> 00:19:04,980 I wanna bite off ♪ 842 00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:06,010 [Washington] So what 843 00:19:06,050 --> 00:19:07,190 do you think Sammy? 844 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:08,020 [Sammy] I like it. 845 00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:09,000 - You hear that? 846 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:11,980 ♪ When I see you baby boy ♪ 847 00:19:12,020 --> 00:19:12,980 The neighbors hate me, dude, 848 00:19:13,020 --> 00:19:13,407 They think I'm 849 00:19:13,447 --> 00:19:14,587 always like racing, 850 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:15,980 but it's just my car. 851 00:19:16,020 --> 00:19:17,406 [Washington] At this age and 852 00:19:17,446 --> 00:19:18,980 what I've been through in life. 853 00:19:19,020 --> 00:19:21,239 I think I do have the potential 854 00:19:21,279 --> 00:19:23,000 to take over the company 855 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,000 and that's very exciting for me. 856 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,572 Look, there's Judy's house 857 00:19:28,612 --> 00:19:29,980 right next to my dad's. 858 00:19:30,020 --> 00:19:32,487 She's about to move there 859 00:19:32,527 --> 00:19:34,980 and dude, like never care 860 00:19:35,020 --> 00:19:37,686 about what my parents built 861 00:19:37,726 --> 00:19:39,980 or want to help take it 862 00:19:40,020 --> 00:19:41,980 to the next level or is 863 00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:43,980 it just going to be me? 864 00:19:44,020 --> 00:19:44,880 Cause you know, my 865 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,240 dad's gonna, you know. 866 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:50,000 Dude, I'm fucking Ben Ho Jr. 867 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:50,900 That's my name. 868 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,372 Alright. In our culture, it 869 00:19:53,412 --> 00:19:54,980 doesn't matter how bad you are. 870 00:19:55,020 --> 00:19:55,980 Like how fucking much you argue. 871 00:19:56,020 --> 00:19:56,980 All right. 872 00:19:57,020 --> 00:19:57,980 Like yeah. 873 00:19:58,020 --> 00:19:59,594 I fucked up a lot, but 874 00:19:59,634 --> 00:20:00,980 it has to go to me. 875 00:20:01,020 --> 00:20:02,000 Right. 876 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:04,980 Don't you think so? 877 00:20:05,020 --> 00:20:05,407 - I don't know 878 00:20:05,447 --> 00:20:05,980 what, I don't know. 879 00:20:06,020 --> 00:20:08,980 Washington is entitled. 880 00:20:09,020 --> 00:20:10,860 He has a lot of 881 00:20:10,900 --> 00:20:12,980 room for mistakes 882 00:20:13,020 --> 00:20:15,028 and risks because the Ho 883 00:20:15,068 --> 00:20:16,980 family is rich as fuck. 884 00:20:17,020 --> 00:20:18,571 I don't really feel 885 00:20:18,611 --> 00:20:19,980 that'll ever end. 886 00:20:20,020 --> 00:20:20,980 I'm just a part of it. 887 00:20:21,020 --> 00:20:21,487 And I'm just 888 00:20:21,527 --> 00:20:21,980 sitting here 889 00:20:22,020 --> 00:20:22,980 I'm just like, Aw shit. 890 00:20:23,020 --> 00:20:25,000 Like it's it's coming. 891 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:25,020 It's coming. 892 00:20:25,020 --> 00:20:25,980 It's coming. 893 00:20:26,020 --> 00:20:27,520 I'm just rolling with it. 894 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:28,980 - It seems stressful. 895 00:20:29,020 --> 00:20:29,980 But you know, 896 00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:30,980 - It's not that bad 897 00:20:31,020 --> 00:20:33,000 - Dude, it's not. 898 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,114 Come on dude. 899 00:20:35,154 --> 00:20:35,980 Fuck that. 900 00:20:36,020 --> 00:20:36,448 (engine rev) 901 00:20:36,488 --> 00:20:36,980 - Just gun it. 902 00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:37,980 - Wanna Gun it? 903 00:20:38,020 --> 00:20:38,980 - Yeah. 904 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:40,056 [Washington] Fucking people just 905 00:20:40,096 --> 00:20:40,980 need to live they're fucking 906 00:20:41,020 --> 00:20:42,000 life, dude! 907 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,000 (uptempo music) 908 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:49,020 [Lesley] You ready to see it? 909 00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:50,980 [Binh] Oh yeah. 910 00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:51,409 - I know this party is 911 00:20:51,449 --> 00:20:51,980 important to my father-in-law. 912 00:20:52,020 --> 00:20:52,919 [Attendant] Hi, Welcome 913 00:20:52,959 --> 00:20:53,980 to the Saint Regis Houston 914 00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:54,350 - How are you? 915 00:20:54,390 --> 00:20:54,980 - Nice to see you again. 916 00:20:55,020 --> 00:20:55,980 - Nice to see you. 917 00:20:56,020 --> 00:20:57,795 [Lesley] And then at the 918 00:20:57,835 --> 00:20:59,980 same time, it is confirmation 919 00:21:00,020 --> 00:21:00,968 that Washington is ready 920 00:21:01,008 --> 00:21:01,980 to take over the company. 921 00:21:02,020 --> 00:21:03,022 - [Attendant] And here's the 922 00:21:03,062 --> 00:21:03,980 Astro Saint Regis Ballroom 923 00:21:04,020 --> 00:21:04,980 that we've been talking about 924 00:21:05,020 --> 00:21:05,891 - [Binh] Thank you, Matt. 925 00:21:05,931 --> 00:21:06,980 - I'll be right outside if you 926 00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:07,420 have any questions. 927 00:21:07,460 --> 00:21:07,980 - Thank you so much Matt. 928 00:21:08,020 --> 00:21:09,000 - Thank you. 929 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:10,980 [Lesley] What do you think? 930 00:21:11,020 --> 00:21:11,758 - Beautiful, 931 00:21:11,798 --> 00:21:12,980 - Beautiful, right? 932 00:21:13,020 --> 00:21:14,674 - Yeah. Fantastic. 933 00:21:14,714 --> 00:21:15,980 - I'm thinking 934 00:21:16,020 --> 00:21:17,103 maybe like a garden 935 00:21:17,143 --> 00:21:17,980 party, you know 936 00:21:18,020 --> 00:21:19,518 it's like a formal, we 937 00:21:19,558 --> 00:21:20,980 can do like black tie 938 00:21:21,020 --> 00:21:22,527 and then you can have 939 00:21:22,567 --> 00:21:23,980 flowers hanging here 940 00:21:24,020 --> 00:21:24,485 and then the band 941 00:21:24,525 --> 00:21:24,980 can go over there 942 00:21:25,020 --> 00:21:25,980 - Uh-huh. 943 00:21:26,020 --> 00:21:26,786 and then a big 944 00:21:26,826 --> 00:21:27,980 dance floor over here 945 00:21:28,020 --> 00:21:29,980 and then some cocktail tables 946 00:21:30,020 --> 00:21:31,980 like high top tables over here. 947 00:21:32,020 --> 00:21:32,980 What do you think? 948 00:21:33,020 --> 00:21:33,495 And then we can just 949 00:21:33,535 --> 00:21:33,980 have some, you know 950 00:21:34,020 --> 00:21:34,494 if these people want to sit 951 00:21:34,534 --> 00:21:34,980 down and eat, that's fine. 952 00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:36,400 - Yeah. That'd be nice. 953 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:37,441 - You know, I want 954 00:21:37,481 --> 00:21:37,980 you to have the best. 955 00:21:38,020 --> 00:21:38,894 We're all ready 956 00:21:38,934 --> 00:21:39,980 for you to retire. 957 00:21:40,020 --> 00:21:41,870 And everyone's so happy to 958 00:21:41,910 --> 00:21:43,980 see that you've finally given 959 00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:45,453 up the reins and want 960 00:21:45,493 --> 00:21:46,980 to relax a little bit. 961 00:21:47,020 --> 00:21:48,487 - Yes. I know my kids love 962 00:21:48,527 --> 00:21:50,087 me. They want me to relax. 963 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,130 But I don't feel... 964 00:21:52,170 --> 00:21:53,010 I'm not ready. 965 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,980 - Okay. It's just- 966 00:21:57,020 --> 00:21:57,525 - Well, I'll tell you 967 00:21:57,565 --> 00:21:58,645 what. My daughter, 968 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,320 she just got divorced. 969 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,721 So she needs time 970 00:22:02,761 --> 00:22:04,980 to stabilize her life. 971 00:22:05,020 --> 00:22:06,285 And with my son, it 972 00:22:06,325 --> 00:22:07,980 looks like he's immature. 973 00:22:08,020 --> 00:22:09,452 I gave him the chance, 974 00:22:09,492 --> 00:22:11,000 to handle some business 975 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000 but I don't see any good yet. 976 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,000 So I don't think he's ready yet. 977 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,671 - This whole family is dependent 978 00:22:19,711 --> 00:22:20,980 upon the family business. 979 00:22:21,020 --> 00:22:23,025 So where does that lead us 980 00:22:23,065 --> 00:22:24,980 for the Ho family future? 981 00:22:25,020 --> 00:22:25,980 So what does this mean then? 982 00:22:26,020 --> 00:22:28,420 So you have doubts 983 00:22:28,460 --> 00:22:30,980 on your retirement? 984 00:22:31,020 --> 00:22:32,980 - I know you help my son a lot. 985 00:22:33,020 --> 00:22:33,980 - Yeah. 986 00:22:34,020 --> 00:22:34,515 You share with him 987 00:22:34,555 --> 00:22:35,515 all the problems 988 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,810 and your share with him on 989 00:22:37,850 --> 00:22:39,980 the work here and the build up. 990 00:22:40,020 --> 00:22:41,000 But to me 991 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,376 I wait for someday when my 992 00:22:43,416 --> 00:22:44,980 son and my daughter are ready. 993 00:22:45,020 --> 00:22:46,980 And I turn it over. 994 00:22:47,020 --> 00:22:48,980 But my kids are not ready. 995 00:22:49,020 --> 00:22:49,958 They need to show 996 00:22:49,998 --> 00:22:51,078 me they are ready. 997 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,980 I'm sorry, but not right now. 998 00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:54,980 - But you're almost 80. 999 00:22:55,020 --> 00:22:56,392 Don't you think 1000 00:22:56,432 --> 00:22:57,980 you should relax? 1001 00:22:58,020 --> 00:22:59,000 - Don't know 1002 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:00,500 - Okay. 1003 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:01,844 My father-in-law 1004 00:23:01,884 --> 00:23:02,980 confirmed what I feel 1005 00:23:03,020 --> 00:23:04,485 like I've known in 1006 00:23:04,525 --> 00:23:05,980 my heart all along 1007 00:23:06,020 --> 00:23:06,580 that there are certain 1008 00:23:06,620 --> 00:23:06,980 characteristics 1009 00:23:07,020 --> 00:23:09,157 that Washington hasn't developed 1010 00:23:09,197 --> 00:23:10,980 yet to run a whole company. 1011 00:23:11,020 --> 00:23:12,044 It kind of woke up 1012 00:23:12,084 --> 00:23:12,980 something in me. 1013 00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:14,915 You know that I've also been 1014 00:23:14,955 --> 00:23:17,000 ignoring these issues as well. 1015 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,980 (acoustic guitar) 1016 00:23:21,020 --> 00:23:23,000 [Judy] This is nice. 1017 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:24,960 [Nate] Thanks. That's where 1018 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,000 I go to after work every day 1019 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:26,500 - Yeah? 1020 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:28,507 Is this what it's like 1021 00:23:28,547 --> 00:23:28,980 living in Sugarland? 1022 00:23:29,020 --> 00:23:29,980 (laughter) 1023 00:23:30,020 --> 00:23:30,980 - It is like this, quiet. 1024 00:23:31,020 --> 00:23:31,700 - One of the best Suburbs 1025 00:23:31,740 --> 00:23:31,980 - No cars. 1026 00:23:32,020 --> 00:23:32,980 in Houston. 1027 00:23:33,020 --> 00:23:34,627 - Number four, I think. 1028 00:23:34,667 --> 00:23:34,980 - Oh, 1029 00:23:35,020 --> 00:23:35,548 - but it's so different 1030 00:23:35,588 --> 00:23:36,668 from where I live. 1031 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:37,571 It takes some adjusting 1032 00:23:37,611 --> 00:23:38,571 for a city girl. 1033 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:39,980 (laughter) 1034 00:23:40,020 --> 00:23:40,960 - This isn't exactly 1035 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,980 the country, we have- 1036 00:23:42,020 --> 00:23:42,980 - Um, compared to where I live, 1037 00:23:43,020 --> 00:23:43,980 This is the country. 1038 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:45,980 - And it's nice and quiet here. 1039 00:23:46,020 --> 00:23:46,834 - And my parents and my 1040 00:23:46,874 --> 00:23:47,980 brother don't live a block away 1041 00:23:48,020 --> 00:23:49,488 - And then come to your house 1042 00:23:49,528 --> 00:23:50,980 anytime and knock on the door 1043 00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:51,424 and say, if you're 1044 00:23:51,464 --> 00:23:52,844 ready for dinner, yeah. 1045 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:53,980 - Are you worried? 1046 00:23:54,020 --> 00:23:54,816 If you're over there 1047 00:23:54,856 --> 00:23:56,000 he'll just show up suddenly? 1048 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,020 - Does he do that? 1049 00:23:56,020 --> 00:23:57,980 (laughter) 1050 00:23:58,020 --> 00:23:58,457 - You think my parents 1051 00:23:58,497 --> 00:23:58,980 just show up at my house. 1052 00:23:59,020 --> 00:23:59,980 Yes babe. 1053 00:24:00,020 --> 00:24:01,784 Nate does not know what 1054 00:24:01,824 --> 00:24:04,000 he's getting into, poor guy. 1055 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,980 I mean he has the master key. 1056 00:24:07,020 --> 00:24:07,523 - Okay. Well now I'm 1057 00:24:07,563 --> 00:24:08,000 worried about it. 1058 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:08,020 I wasn't worried about it. 1059 00:24:08,020 --> 00:24:09,980 Three minutes ago. 1060 00:24:10,020 --> 00:24:11,307 - I tried to warn Nate 1061 00:24:11,347 --> 00:24:12,980 before he started dating me. 1062 00:24:13,020 --> 00:24:14,349 That being a part of 1063 00:24:14,389 --> 00:24:15,980 this family is not easy. 1064 00:24:16,020 --> 00:24:17,392 It's very complicated, 1065 00:24:17,432 --> 00:24:18,980 but you know, when you're 1066 00:24:19,020 --> 00:24:20,324 in love, you just 1067 00:24:20,364 --> 00:24:21,980 don't think straight. 1068 00:24:22,020 --> 00:24:22,986 - So how do you feel 1069 00:24:23,026 --> 00:24:23,980 about Sugarland now? 1070 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:24,980 (laughter) 1071 00:24:25,020 --> 00:24:25,400 They can't walk 1072 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:26,700 over here with a key. 1073 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:27,980 - Yeah. They'd have to drive. 1074 00:24:28,020 --> 00:24:29,980 - Right? How would you feel if 1075 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:31,940 I ended up living there with you 1076 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:32,980 in the future or... 1077 00:24:33,020 --> 00:24:35,000 - I wouldn't want that. 1078 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:35,020 - You wouldn't want that? 1079 00:24:35,020 --> 00:24:36,000 - No. 1080 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,500 - Why? 1081 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:37,020 Because your dad owns it. 1082 00:24:37,020 --> 00:24:37,397 - Yeah. 1083 00:24:37,437 --> 00:24:38,037 - I agree. 1084 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,496 - I'm so indebted to him. 1085 00:24:40,536 --> 00:24:40,980 - Right. 1086 00:24:41,020 --> 00:24:41,918 - And he's not afraid 1087 00:24:41,958 --> 00:24:42,980 of reminding me of that. 1088 00:24:43,020 --> 00:24:44,000 - Right. 1089 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,269 - It's complicated 1090 00:24:46,309 --> 00:24:47,980 being part of my family, 1091 00:24:48,020 --> 00:24:48,920 even someone in 1092 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,000 Lesley's position 1093 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,181 you kind of just get solely 1094 00:24:53,221 --> 00:24:55,000 sucked into this life. 1095 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:56,494 - What do you mean 1096 00:24:56,534 --> 00:24:56,980 about that? Like- 1097 00:24:57,020 --> 00:24:58,244 - Like had her own 1098 00:24:58,284 --> 00:24:59,980 career, very independent. 1099 00:25:00,020 --> 00:25:01,008 But even now, like she's in, 1100 00:25:01,048 --> 00:25:01,980 almost in the same position 1101 00:25:02,020 --> 00:25:03,485 as me. Where you're 1102 00:25:03,525 --> 00:25:04,980 like living in this 1103 00:25:05,020 --> 00:25:06,715 life that is almost 1104 00:25:06,755 --> 00:25:08,980 totally dependent on him. 1105 00:25:09,020 --> 00:25:09,943 And that he has a say in 1106 00:25:09,983 --> 00:25:10,980 everything that's going on 1107 00:25:11,020 --> 00:25:12,000 in your life. 1108 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,417 [Judy] So then why are 1109 00:25:15,457 --> 00:25:16,980 you telling me all this? 1110 00:25:17,020 --> 00:25:17,955 - One day I will 1111 00:25:17,995 --> 00:25:18,980 tell all my kids, 1112 00:25:19,020 --> 00:25:20,097 but you're the first 1113 00:25:20,137 --> 00:25:20,980 one I'm telling, 1114 00:25:21,020 --> 00:25:22,075 Because I love you 1115 00:25:22,115 --> 00:25:22,980 and I trust you 1116 00:25:23,020 --> 00:25:24,818 and I believe that you 1117 00:25:24,858 --> 00:25:26,980 can help Washington a lot. 1118 00:25:27,020 --> 00:25:29,000 - Okay. But I feel like, 1119 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:30,904 I feel like there's 1120 00:25:30,944 --> 00:25:31,980 only so much I can do. 1121 00:25:32,020 --> 00:25:33,520 - Tell you what, if you 1122 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:34,980 take care of him well, 1123 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:35,980 - Mm-hmm. 1124 00:25:36,020 --> 00:25:37,038 you have him grow up 1125 00:25:37,078 --> 00:25:37,980 and be more mature 1126 00:25:38,020 --> 00:25:38,980 - Mm-hmm 1127 00:25:39,020 --> 00:25:41,146 and I might be ready 1128 00:25:41,186 --> 00:25:42,980 to retire faster. 1129 00:25:43,020 --> 00:25:43,980 - Really is the whole future 1130 00:25:44,020 --> 00:25:45,485 of the Ho family 1131 00:25:45,525 --> 00:25:46,980 on my shoulders? 1132 00:25:47,020 --> 00:25:47,985 I have no idea how 1133 00:25:48,025 --> 00:25:48,980 to turn Washington 1134 00:25:49,020 --> 00:25:50,980 into a respectable businessman. 1135 00:25:51,020 --> 00:25:52,520 Well, that's a lot on me. 1136 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:54,953 - Yes. But you are 1137 00:25:54,993 --> 00:25:55,980 now part of family. 1138 00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:56,980 - Okay. 1139 00:25:57,020 --> 00:25:58,226 - So you're responsible 1140 00:25:58,266 --> 00:25:59,106 for them, too. 1141 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,000 - Okay. 1142 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:03,980 (acoustic guitar) 1143 00:26:04,020 --> 00:26:04,867 [Judy] We don't 1144 00:26:04,907 --> 00:26:05,980 just have a typical 1145 00:26:06,020 --> 00:26:07,861 parent-child relationship 1146 00:26:07,901 --> 00:26:08,980 where I'm like, 1147 00:26:09,020 --> 00:26:09,893 "Hi Mom and Dad, I'm 1148 00:26:09,933 --> 00:26:10,980 coming over for dinner." 1149 00:26:11,020 --> 00:26:12,444 It's more like, it's 1150 00:26:12,484 --> 00:26:14,000 almost transactional. 1151 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:15,980 It's like a drug. 1152 00:26:16,020 --> 00:26:16,980 Right. You know what I mean? 1153 00:26:17,020 --> 00:26:18,980 You start with something little. 1154 00:26:19,020 --> 00:26:19,980 Oh yeah, 1155 00:26:20,020 --> 00:26:20,980 I'll pay for your wedding. 1156 00:26:21,020 --> 00:26:22,980 The next thing you know is 1157 00:26:23,020 --> 00:26:24,431 like, Oh, I'll help you put 1158 00:26:24,471 --> 00:26:25,980 a down payment on your house. 1159 00:26:26,020 --> 00:26:26,980 - You know-- 1160 00:26:27,020 --> 00:26:27,548 I'll help you with 1161 00:26:27,588 --> 00:26:27,980 your business. 1162 00:26:28,020 --> 00:26:28,929 I'll help you in 1163 00:26:28,969 --> 00:26:29,980 the next property. 1164 00:26:30,020 --> 00:26:31,049 I'll get it. Help 1165 00:26:31,089 --> 00:26:31,980 you get a loan. 1166 00:26:32,020 --> 00:26:33,195 - But you know the good 1167 00:26:33,235 --> 00:26:33,980 thing is I feel 1168 00:26:34,020 --> 00:26:35,640 very independent from that. 1169 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:36,471 I don't need any of 1170 00:26:36,511 --> 00:26:36,980 that, because I have 1171 00:26:37,020 --> 00:26:38,980 my own house, my own business, 1172 00:26:39,020 --> 00:26:40,737 you know, it's always 1173 00:26:40,777 --> 00:26:42,980 been independent on my own. 1174 00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:43,548 - And I don't want 1175 00:26:43,588 --> 00:26:43,980 you to change. 1176 00:26:44,020 --> 00:26:44,980 - Right. 1177 00:26:45,020 --> 00:26:46,980 - That's what I love about you. 1178 00:26:47,020 --> 00:26:47,775 The fact that you are 1179 00:26:47,815 --> 00:26:49,735 independent, I was born into it. 1180 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:50,020 - Mm-hmm 1181 00:26:50,020 --> 00:26:51,980 So I've grown up this way. 1182 00:26:52,020 --> 00:26:52,980 - Right. 1183 00:26:53,020 --> 00:26:54,900 - But I don't want you 1184 00:26:54,940 --> 00:26:56,980 to get sucked into that. 1185 00:26:57,020 --> 00:26:59,980 I am beholden to my family. 1186 00:27:00,020 --> 00:27:01,773 I'm trapped by my 1187 00:27:01,813 --> 00:27:03,980 dad's obsessive sense 1188 00:27:04,020 --> 00:27:05,042 of like, I want to control 1189 00:27:05,082 --> 00:27:05,980 everything that happens 1190 00:27:06,020 --> 00:27:07,980 in my children's lives. 1191 00:27:08,020 --> 00:27:08,980 But at the same time I live 1192 00:27:09,020 --> 00:27:09,460 in a two and a half 1193 00:27:09,500 --> 00:27:09,980 million dollar house. 1194 00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:11,980 Anybody looking in would be 1195 00:27:12,020 --> 00:27:12,485 like, Oh, what is 1196 00:27:12,525 --> 00:27:12,980 there to complain 1197 00:27:13,020 --> 00:27:14,980 about? But inside looking 1198 00:27:15,020 --> 00:27:16,527 out, you realize, Oh, 1199 00:27:16,567 --> 00:27:17,980 you're in handcuffs. 1200 00:27:18,020 --> 00:27:19,987 But being with Nate makes 1201 00:27:20,027 --> 00:27:21,980 me hopeful for my future. 1202 00:27:22,020 --> 00:27:23,443 Just can't believe 1203 00:27:23,483 --> 00:27:25,000 we're finally here. 1204 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:26,980 - That we're together. 1205 00:27:27,020 --> 00:27:28,980 - Yeah. It's a long journey 1206 00:27:29,020 --> 00:27:29,985 and definitely not 1207 00:27:30,025 --> 00:27:31,105 the straight path. 1208 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,980 We should have some champagne. 1209 00:27:33,020 --> 00:27:33,980 - We should. 1210 00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:34,980 - And you got strawberries. 1211 00:27:35,020 --> 00:27:35,980 - I did. 1212 00:27:36,020 --> 00:27:37,820 I heard you like strawberries. 1213 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,980 - I like cherries better, 1214 00:27:39,020 --> 00:27:40,000 but they're not in season. 1215 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,020 - You like cherries. 1216 00:27:40,020 --> 00:27:41,980 - Make it happen, Nate! 1217 00:27:42,020 --> 00:27:42,980 - The cherries? 1218 00:27:43,020 --> 00:27:45,271 - Yeah, make cherries happen out 1219 00:27:45,311 --> 00:27:45,980 of season. 1220 00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:46,980 If I said that to my dad 1221 00:27:47,020 --> 00:27:47,980 he'd have like a cherry orchard- 1222 00:27:48,020 --> 00:27:49,573 - He'll do it! He'll do it. 1223 00:27:49,613 --> 00:27:49,980 - Yeah. 1224 00:27:50,020 --> 00:27:50,592 In the backyard the next day. 1225 00:27:50,632 --> 00:27:50,980 - A cherry orchard. 1226 00:27:51,020 --> 00:27:52,011 - A cherry orchard 1227 00:27:52,051 --> 00:27:52,980 would be planted. 1228 00:27:53,020 --> 00:27:53,872 - I don't know what your 1229 00:27:53,912 --> 00:27:54,980 dad does, but I can't do that. 1230 00:27:55,020 --> 00:27:56,980 (laughter) 1231 00:27:57,020 --> 00:27:57,980 - Cheers. 1232 00:27:58,020 --> 00:27:59,215 - To 2020, a new 1233 00:27:59,255 --> 00:28:00,980 decade, for both of us. 1234 00:28:01,020 --> 00:28:01,536 - I think so, this is gonna 1235 00:28:01,576 --> 00:28:01,980 be a good year for us. 1236 00:28:02,020 --> 00:28:03,980 ♪All I think about is you ♪ 1237 00:28:04,020 --> 00:28:09,000 ♪ And I feel the day finally ♪ 1238 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,000 ♪ Mine ♪ 1239 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,980 (rockabilly music) 1240 00:28:27,020 --> 00:28:27,980 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 1241 00:28:28,020 --> 00:28:28,980 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 1242 00:28:29,020 --> 00:28:30,980 ♪ I don't care ♪ 1243 00:28:31,020 --> 00:28:33,980 ♪ Cuz' it's all the same ♪ 1244 00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:35,033 ♪ Imma make the best 1245 00:28:35,073 --> 00:28:36,273 of any situation ♪ 1246 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:37,020 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 1247 00:28:37,020 --> 00:28:38,220 ♪ Make it rain ♪ 1248 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,020 ♪ I don't care ♪ 1249 00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:43,980 ♪ Imma be happy ♪ 1250 00:28:44,020 --> 00:28:47,000 ♪ No, you can never rain on me ♪