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SINGER: ♪ Can't nobody

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hold me down ♪

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♪ I'm steady walking

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like I got ♪

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♪ Three commas in my bank

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account, living loud ♪

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♪ So get your cameras out ♪

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♪ I probably do the same thing

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if I was you ♪

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♪ Looking at me now ♪

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♪ Now ♪

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♪ Put up your lights ♪

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♪ And keep 'em flashing ♪

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♪ Don't ever put 'em down,

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down, down ♪

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♪ Look at me now ♪

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SINGER: ♪ Black was white

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and white was black ♪

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♪ You gave me a heart attack ♪

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♪ Oh ♪

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♪ I am shaking all over ♪

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♪ Oh, I got the chills ♪

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♪ And the fever ♪

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LESLEY HO: Oh, I'm so excited

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for dinner tonight.

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- You are?

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- Yeah.

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- We get out of the house.

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- Yeah.

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We haven't been out

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in a long time.

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You know when my glam team

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comes in sometimes?

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- Yeah.

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- I feel like

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I don't even look Asian.

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That's why I married you.

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I thought you married me

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because I was Asian

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and Catholic.

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I always liked big eyes

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and beautiful nose.

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We do have cute kids.

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Right.

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[laughs]

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I'm excited to go out with Judy.

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I don't know we ever double-

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dated with her.

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Well, let's show some love

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to my sister's new relationship.

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Yeah, that's exciting.

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And I wanna enjoy my San

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Pellegrino or some lime.

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- Are you gonna tell Nate--

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- What?

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- that you're not drinking or--

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- if it comes up, I mean--

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- Uh-hmm.

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- what's the big deal?

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- Will you just--

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- Are you gonna be embarrassed

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when I tell him

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I'm not drinking?

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Not--it's not embarrassed.

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It's just, you know, I want us

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to have a good dinner.

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I want us to have fun.

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It's the first time

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we've been out in a long time,

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and it's just a hard subject

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to talk about,

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especially, you know,

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in a culture aspect

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when the men think

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that, you know,

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drinking is a strength.

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it's to celebrate closing deals

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and a sign

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of how powerful they are.

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The alcohol is always around.

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Even with just Nate and Judy,

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you're still surrounded by it.

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And Nate's Asian obviously,

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so how do you think

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he's gonna react

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to you saying

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you're not having a drink?

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Let me tell you something,

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I've decided to quit

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for my family, for you,

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for the future.

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Being sober, it's gonna be

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the most difficult thing to do.

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I am super unmanageable.

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Let's just go in there,

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have fun, celebrate life.

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- Love you.

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- I love you, too.

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JUDY HO: Hey, Nate.

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You got to get

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this potato, this is so good.

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NATE: Get whatever you want.

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That's my favorite thing

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about you,

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because you always say,

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"Whatever you want."

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[clicks tongue] That's gonna be

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the mantra, right?

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- Keep Judy happy.

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JUDY:  Lunar New Year

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is only two days away,

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and it's a very significant time

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in our culture.

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It's a time for new beginnings,

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so now that I'm dating Nate

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I just want him

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to be a part of everything

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that's important to me.

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- Hi.

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- NATE: Hey.

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- Hi, guys.

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- Hey, guys, how are you?

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Hello. Hello.

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Good to see you.

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I want to hug Wash.

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WASHINGTON HO: I've known Nate

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for about 20 years,

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kind of like 90210,

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everybody knows each other.

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He's a good guy.

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So, I'm really happy for Judy.

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Who picked this restaurant?

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- I love it.

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- I know.

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It's good to see y'all

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outside of the house.

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- LESLEY: Yeah.

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- Judy, for you to go

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from where you were to now,

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I'm happy for you.

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- Thank you.

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- Yeah.

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NATE: Where were we--

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where is she now?

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I like--I like

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this choice a lot better

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than your past choice.

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- Oh, me? Okay.

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- Oh.

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That's what a divorce would do

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for you, you move on.

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Oh, good evening.

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How are we doing tonight?

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- Good to see you, sir.

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- Hey, it's good

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- to see you again.

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- Oh, somebody does know

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who you are here.

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Everybody knows this gentleman

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right here. It's a lovely time.

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Are we celebrating

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anything special?

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Just two couples in love.

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Ah, very special indeed.

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- Definitely, yeah.

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- So right here,

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we have all

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of our simple cocktails

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and martinis to choose from.

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Thank you.

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Do you have Litchi Martini here?

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the Litchi--

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- No, they don't have that.

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- [hisses] Judy.

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to the Asians here.

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Do you have anything

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that's a virgin?

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WAITER: I can certainly

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bring something

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- delicious for you.

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- Thank you.

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- Thank you.

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- You're welcome.

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- Thanks, Dylan.

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- He knew, too.

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Are you not drinking?

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I've decided to stop drinking.

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That's good that you can

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stop on your own.

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Well, you know,

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it's been an ongoing

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battle for me.

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I just wanna be more committed

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to my family.

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I've seen him drink

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and be just fine.

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- Right.

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- He has a point where beyond

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that there's no one

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that can talk him down.

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I mean, I'm just--I'm grateful

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that he loved me enough

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to do something about it.

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Well, you know, Washington's

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been dealing with this issue--

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- I know.

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- --even before you.

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Yeah, I think you're just

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self-medicating yourself,

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you know, drinking to get rid

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of, like, depression.

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I appreciate

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you always being honest with me.

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I remember we hang out

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at the clubs and you come up

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to me and you're like,

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"Wash, I have a younger brother

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and you remind me of him.

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And he just partied

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his life away.

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And I just don't want you

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to be like him."

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I'm surprised you remember that.

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- But, yeah, I do remember that.

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- Oh, you do?

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That's why I have such

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a soft spot for you.

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So when I found out

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she's dating you,

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I was like, "Wow."

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I never forgot that

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and that's why

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I always loved him.

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I love you for always

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being there for me,

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and I'm gonna make you

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proud, too.

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- Good. glad you,

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- All right?

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So cheers to love,

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family, and hope.

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- JUDY: Oh. We all need that.

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- LESLEY: Cheers.

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I'm proud of you, Wash.

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Yeah, me, too.

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I love that Judy and Nate

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support Wash not drinking.

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I feel like

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I finally have allies.

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I love that, you know, Nate

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is my brother

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because it's like--

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He's not your brother yet,

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- so don't give him ideas.

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- Next year.

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I'll marry him myself.

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- [laughter]

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- I love double dates.

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- Can we do more double dates?

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- [Nate chuckles]

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Especially if Washington pays,

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it's the best.

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[chuckles]

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- JUDY: Oh.

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- WASHINGTON: Oh.

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SINGER: ♪ I'm louder than aye ♪

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♪ And I'm feeling so good ♪

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♪ I do what I want

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and it's understood ♪

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♪ There's no stopping me

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when I'm doing my thing ♪

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♪ I'm doing my thing ♪

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♪ I'mma do me ♪

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♪ I got happy feet ♪

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♪ You know what I mean ♪

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♪ I got happy feet ♪

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♪ I'm on fire ♪

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AUNT TINA: Do you think

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the tea is strong?

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JUDY: Yeah, because I felt

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really awake.

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I got something

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will really make you strong.

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LESLEY: What's that?

296
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In tea?

297
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JUDY: Let me see.

298
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Let me smell it.

299
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Ugh.

300
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- You like tequila.

301
00:06:40,406 --> 00:06:40,980
- No, I don't. I don't like it.

302
00:06:41,020 --> 00:06:41,730
- I drink it to get drunk.

303
00:06:41,770 --> 00:06:42,310
- Uh-huh.

304
00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:43,765
- Not to enjoy it.

305
00:06:43,805 --> 00:06:43,980
- Oh.

306
00:06:44,020 --> 00:06:45,697
- I enjoy champagne, not this.

307
00:06:45,737 --> 00:06:45,980
- Oh.

308
00:06:46,020 --> 00:06:46,980
Have fun!

309
00:06:47,020 --> 00:06:47,980
Relax.

310
00:06:48,020 --> 00:06:49,357
That will help you more.

311
00:06:49,397 --> 00:06:49,980
- So nasty.

312
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It's a good stuff.

313
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I love fun Judy.

314
00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:54,660
Disgusting.

315
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I've had a long day,

316
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I don't mind.

317
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AUNT TINA: We need to go a pool.

318
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- JUDY: That's like--

319
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- Ugh.

320
00:07:00,020 --> 00:07:00,670
- I wanna get drunk so I don't

321
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have to think.

322
00:07:01,020 --> 00:07:01,471
- How long is that

323
00:07:01,511 --> 00:07:01,980
been in your purse?

324
00:07:02,020 --> 00:07:02,980
No, it's new.

325
00:07:03,020 --> 00:07:03,980
You better hide that.

326
00:07:04,020 --> 00:07:05,980
We're in a nice, classy place.

327
00:07:06,020 --> 00:07:06,722
This look nice

328
00:07:06,762 --> 00:07:07,980
and fancy, so-- [laughs]

329
00:07:08,020 --> 00:07:09,297
JUDY: It doesn't look

330
00:07:09,337 --> 00:07:09,980
appropriate

331
00:07:10,020 --> 00:07:10,980
at the St. Regis.

332
00:07:11,020 --> 00:07:11,980
Oh, Tina.

333
00:07:12,020 --> 00:07:13,980
I can't take you anywhere.

334
00:07:14,020 --> 00:07:14,980
Yesterday, I had a good talk

335
00:07:15,020 --> 00:07:16,261
- to your dad at lunch.

336
00:07:16,301 --> 00:07:16,980
- About what?

337
00:07:17,020 --> 00:07:17,506
- About Nate?

338
00:07:17,546 --> 00:07:17,980
- About you.

339
00:07:18,020 --> 00:07:18,538
- About my boyfriend?

340
00:07:18,578 --> 00:07:19,598
- Yeah. He say...

341
00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:20,980
It's okay; I'm open minded.

342
00:07:21,020 --> 00:07:22,726
I said, "Come on, you are not

343
00:07:22,766 --> 00:07:23,980
even supporting her."

344
00:07:24,020 --> 00:07:24,512
I'll say, if I brought

345
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out my boyfriend now

346
00:07:25,020 --> 00:07:26,099
and you started talking to him,

347
00:07:26,139 --> 00:07:26,980
you'd probably scare him,

348
00:07:27,020 --> 00:07:27,279
- like--

349
00:07:27,319 --> 00:07:27,980
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.

350
00:07:28,020 --> 00:07:29,062
You know, your dad

351
00:07:29,102 --> 00:07:30,980
is a manipulating person anyway.

352
00:07:31,020 --> 00:07:31,989
He know--he know

353
00:07:32,029 --> 00:07:32,980
how to do what--

354
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JUDY: He's been doing that

355
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since birth.

356
00:07:34,020 --> 00:07:34,980
AUNT TINA: Yeah.

357
00:07:35,020 --> 00:07:35,603
- For my 16th birthday--

358
00:07:35,643 --> 00:07:35,980
- LESLEY: Yeah?

359
00:07:36,020 --> 00:07:36,655
So I was dating this guy

360
00:07:36,695 --> 00:07:37,415
at the time.

361
00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:38,269
- Uh-hmm.

362
00:07:38,309 --> 00:07:38,980
- And my dad was like,

363
00:07:39,020 --> 00:07:40,263
"Okay. Well, if you're gonna

364
00:07:40,303 --> 00:07:40,980
have a boyfriend

365
00:07:41,020 --> 00:07:41,592
then we're just gonna cancel

366
00:07:41,632 --> 00:07:41,980
this whole party."

367
00:07:42,020 --> 00:07:42,484
- What?

368
00:07:42,524 --> 00:07:42,980
- Yeah.

369
00:07:43,020 --> 00:07:43,769
- He said that?

370
00:07:43,809 --> 00:07:44,980
- So I was like, "Fine.

371
00:07:45,020 --> 00:07:45,526
- Cancel it."

372
00:07:45,566 --> 00:07:45,980
- For real?

373
00:07:46,020 --> 00:07:46,405
So I didn't have

374
00:07:46,445 --> 00:07:46,980
a 16th birthday party.

375
00:07:47,020 --> 00:07:47,816
- Shut up.

376
00:07:47,856 --> 00:07:48,980
- Oh, shut up.

377
00:07:49,020 --> 00:07:49,466
- You serious?

378
00:07:49,506 --> 00:07:49,980
- JUDY: Uh-hmm.

379
00:07:50,020 --> 00:07:50,980
So that was his way of, like,

380
00:07:51,020 --> 00:07:51,980
"I'm gonna hurt you

381
00:07:52,020 --> 00:07:52,636
because you're not doing

382
00:07:52,676 --> 00:07:52,980
what I want."

383
00:07:53,020 --> 00:07:54,980
Yeah. He's manipulating.

384
00:07:55,020 --> 00:07:55,379
- This is true.

385
00:07:55,419 --> 00:07:55,980
- Okay. I've never seen

386
00:07:56,020 --> 00:07:56,980
that side of him.

387
00:07:57,020 --> 00:07:57,980
You have that viewpoint

388
00:07:58,020 --> 00:07:58,598
because you're married

389
00:07:58,638 --> 00:07:58,980
to Washington.

390
00:07:59,020 --> 00:08:00,578
- When he is with Washington...

391
00:08:00,618 --> 00:08:00,980
- Right.

392
00:08:01,020 --> 00:08:01,432
...he will go out

393
00:08:01,472 --> 00:08:02,732
of his way to make it

394
00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,980
as easy as possible for him.

395
00:08:04,020 --> 00:08:05,980
Where we with me, you know,

396
00:08:06,020 --> 00:08:06,980
it's not that way.

397
00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:08,389
So, um, Washington's doing

398
00:08:08,429 --> 00:08:08,980
pretty good

399
00:08:09,020 --> 00:08:10,980
with not drinking and--

400
00:08:11,020 --> 00:08:11,705
- Oh, that's good.

401
00:08:11,745 --> 00:08:11,980
- Yeah.

402
00:08:12,020 --> 00:08:12,786
But, you know,

403
00:08:12,826 --> 00:08:13,980
we still have issues.

404
00:08:14,020 --> 00:08:15,700
That's normal in a marriage.

405
00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:16,890
Washington have

406
00:08:16,930 --> 00:08:17,980
a very soft heart.

407
00:08:18,020 --> 00:08:18,915
- What do you mean by soft?

408
00:08:18,955 --> 00:08:19,980
- He's very good. Yeah. Uh-hmm.

409
00:08:20,020 --> 00:08:22,980
But if you know how to...

410
00:08:23,020 --> 00:08:24,980
hit it, he got it.

411
00:08:25,020 --> 00:08:25,980
Hit it?

412
00:08:26,020 --> 00:08:26,980
What does that mean, sex?

413
00:08:27,020 --> 00:08:27,638
- Hit it right.

414
00:08:27,678 --> 00:08:27,980
- Right.

415
00:08:28,020 --> 00:08:28,980
Yeah. Hit it right.

416
00:08:29,020 --> 00:08:29,468
He may have been

417
00:08:29,508 --> 00:08:29,980
hitting it wrong.

418
00:08:30,020 --> 00:08:30,256
- [sighs]

419
00:08:30,296 --> 00:08:31,736
- All men are like that.

420
00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:32,980
So is that your marriage advice?

421
00:08:33,020 --> 00:08:33,980
Yeah.

422
00:08:34,020 --> 00:08:35,980
I know how to hit it.

423
00:08:36,020 --> 00:08:36,980
And he love it.

424
00:08:37,020 --> 00:08:38,980
I said, "Uh-huh. Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

425
00:08:39,020 --> 00:08:40,980
You can go sleep, done, next."

426
00:08:41,020 --> 00:08:42,980
[laughter]

427
00:08:43,020 --> 00:08:44,980
This is how you control men.

428
00:08:45,020 --> 00:08:45,980
Try it. Try it.

429
00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:47,980
Because men is simple,

430
00:08:48,020 --> 00:08:48,985
a little bit stupid

431
00:08:49,025 --> 00:08:49,980
but they're simple.

432
00:08:50,020 --> 00:08:50,980
It sounds easier being single.

433
00:08:51,020 --> 00:08:51,850
- Oh, my God.

434
00:08:51,890 --> 00:08:53,000
- [Lesley laughs]

435
00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,008
SINGER: ♪ You got

436
00:09:01,048 --> 00:09:01,980
that heartbeat ♪

437
00:09:02,020 --> 00:09:03,980
♪ Run out of control ♪

438
00:09:04,020 --> 00:09:05,400
- ♪ It's that new feeling... ♪

439
00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:05,980
- [bell dings]

440
00:09:06,020 --> 00:09:07,000
JUDY: Hi, Danny.

441
00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,000
Your favorite clients are here.

442
00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:09,020
[chuckles]

443
00:09:09,020 --> 00:09:10,465
- How are you doing?

444
00:09:10,505 --> 00:09:10,980
- Good.

445
00:09:11,020 --> 00:09:11,980
We're here to pick up our Lunar

446
00:09:12,020 --> 00:09:12,980
New Year Ao Dai.

447
00:09:13,020 --> 00:09:13,985
Y'all are special

448
00:09:14,025 --> 00:09:14,980
so it's not rent,

449
00:09:15,020 --> 00:09:15,980
so it's good.

450
00:09:16,020 --> 00:09:17,980
Danny, Danny, Danny,

451
00:09:18,020 --> 00:09:19,090
sometimes I just like

452
00:09:19,130 --> 00:09:19,980
to go to his shop

453
00:09:20,020 --> 00:09:20,980
to see what he's wearing.

454
00:09:21,020 --> 00:09:21,461
We wanna stand out

455
00:09:21,501 --> 00:09:21,980
from everybody else.

456
00:09:22,020 --> 00:09:23,980
Yeah. And all our customer

457
00:09:24,020 --> 00:09:24,957
is pretty standout

458
00:09:24,997 --> 00:09:25,980
so that'd be great.

459
00:09:26,020 --> 00:09:26,980
But let me go get the dress

460
00:09:27,020 --> 00:09:27,535
- for you, okay?

461
00:09:27,575 --> 00:09:27,980
- JUDY: Yeah.

462
00:09:28,020 --> 00:09:28,162
- Okay.

463
00:09:28,202 --> 00:09:28,980
- JUDY: A Danny Nguyen original.

464
00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:30,980
Yeah, I know.

465
00:09:31,020 --> 00:09:32,221
What do you think the dresses

466
00:09:32,261 --> 00:09:32,980
are gonna be like?

467
00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,980
I hope they're extravagant.

468
00:09:34,020 --> 00:09:35,271
- Uh-hmm.

469
00:09:35,311 --> 00:09:37,000
- And bling.

470
00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:37,020
Bling?

471
00:09:37,020 --> 00:09:38,980
I'll be hosting Lunar New Year

472
00:09:39,020 --> 00:09:39,980
in my new home.

473
00:09:40,020 --> 00:09:41,980
We have a lot of superstitions.

474
00:09:42,020 --> 00:09:42,980
One of the biggest ones

475
00:09:43,020 --> 00:09:44,980
is that we should not be arguing

476
00:09:45,020 --> 00:09:45,980
on Lunar New Year Day

477
00:09:46,020 --> 00:09:47,940
because that will bring conflict

478
00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:48,980
for the rest of the year.

479
00:09:49,020 --> 00:09:49,533
Yeah, I didn't know people still

480
00:09:49,573 --> 00:09:49,980
use that word but go ahead.

481
00:09:50,020 --> 00:09:51,235
- I love bling.

482
00:09:51,275 --> 00:09:51,980
- Uh-huh.

483
00:09:52,020 --> 00:09:53,000
Wish us luck.

484
00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:54,980
DANNY: Yes. Let me see.

485
00:09:55,020 --> 00:09:56,980
Wow. Look at that.

486
00:09:57,020 --> 00:09:57,499
JUDY: You look like

487
00:09:57,539 --> 00:09:57,980
a Vietnamese Elsa.

488
00:09:58,020 --> 00:09:58,311
- I love it.

489
00:09:58,351 --> 00:09:58,980
- Or that you're gonna be

490
00:09:59,020 --> 00:10:00,666
- in a--oh, yeah, a pageant.

491
00:10:00,706 --> 00:10:01,980
- Wow. Very beautiful.

492
00:10:02,020 --> 00:10:03,980
Love that bling I put on there?

493
00:10:04,020 --> 00:10:05,456
I think that was at least

494
00:10:05,496 --> 00:10:05,980
500 stone

495
00:10:06,020 --> 00:10:07,980
we put on the neck and in arm.

496
00:10:08,020 --> 00:10:08,485
And he put each one

497
00:10:08,525 --> 00:10:08,980
by hand by himself.

498
00:10:09,020 --> 00:10:09,943
- Yeah. One by one. Yup.

499
00:10:09,983 --> 00:10:11,543
- Sow it by hand? [laughs]

500
00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:12,980
All the hard work I do it.

501
00:10:13,020 --> 00:10:13,914
- Looks good.

502
00:10:13,954 --> 00:10:14,980
- Yeah. Uh-huh.

503
00:10:15,020 --> 00:10:15,980
Yeah. This is what I envisioned.

504
00:10:16,020 --> 00:10:16,768
- I love the color palette, too.

505
00:10:16,808 --> 00:10:17,348
- I know.

506
00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:18,528
And the ostrich feather

507
00:10:18,568 --> 00:10:19,708
is very, very nice.

508
00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:20,494
Why did you choose

509
00:10:20,534 --> 00:10:20,980
this exact color?

510
00:10:21,020 --> 00:10:22,640
Because blue means hopeful.

511
00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:23,946
- Oh, I did not know that.

512
00:10:23,986 --> 00:10:24,980
- So I think that was--yeah.

513
00:10:25,020 --> 00:10:25,980
I did not know that either.

514
00:10:26,020 --> 00:10:26,980
Blue is hopeful so it's hopeful

515
00:10:27,020 --> 00:10:27,980
for the New Year.

516
00:10:28,020 --> 00:10:29,740
2020. That's the vision,

517
00:10:29,780 --> 00:10:30,980
right? Yeah. So--

518
00:10:31,020 --> 00:10:32,000
LESLEY: Perfect. And your turn.

519
00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:32,020
You wanna try yours on, Judy?

520
00:10:32,020 --> 00:10:33,230
- Yes, I'm ready.

521
00:10:33,270 --> 00:10:34,980
- Yeah? Let's try it on.

522
00:10:35,020 --> 00:10:35,980
LESLEY: How do you sit in this?

523
00:10:36,020 --> 00:10:36,579
Whip it to the side

524
00:10:36,619 --> 00:10:37,399
and sit down.

525
00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:38,818
This is so formal.

526
00:10:38,858 --> 00:10:39,980
It's made for like a girl

527
00:10:40,020 --> 00:10:41,980
that's a proper Vietnamese girl.

528
00:10:42,020 --> 00:10:42,552
- I have arrived.

529
00:10:42,592 --> 00:10:42,980
- DANNY: Wow.

530
00:10:43,020 --> 00:10:44,980
LESLEY: I love it.

531
00:10:45,020 --> 00:10:45,980
Look at this.

532
00:10:46,020 --> 00:10:47,827
Danny, you outdid yourself.

533
00:10:47,867 --> 00:10:48,980
- Wow, the queen.

534
00:10:49,020 --> 00:10:50,357
I feel like the princess

535
00:10:50,397 --> 00:10:50,980
of Vietnam.

536
00:10:51,020 --> 00:10:51,980
[laughter]

537
00:10:52,020 --> 00:10:52,980
Very royal.

538
00:10:53,020 --> 00:10:53,980
Lunar New Year, bring it.

539
00:10:54,020 --> 00:10:54,980
LESLEY: Big hair,

540
00:10:55,020 --> 00:10:55,980
big makeup, big dresses.

541
00:10:56,020 --> 00:10:57,980
I'm thinking about inviting Nate

542
00:10:58,020 --> 00:10:59,980
to the Lunar New Year party.

543
00:11:00,020 --> 00:11:02,980
Good idea or bad idea?

544
00:11:03,020 --> 00:11:03,980
I--

545
00:11:04,020 --> 00:11:04,980
Speak your truth.

546
00:11:05,020 --> 00:11:05,980
--don't know that's a good idea.

547
00:11:06,020 --> 00:11:06,335
- Why?

548
00:11:06,375 --> 00:11:07,980
- It's not even been a year.

549
00:11:08,020 --> 00:11:08,744
And your parents

550
00:11:08,784 --> 00:11:09,980
have made it so very clear

551
00:11:10,020 --> 00:11:10,724
- they're not ready.

552
00:11:10,764 --> 00:11:10,980
- Yeah.

553
00:11:11,020 --> 00:11:11,980
And you're all of a sudden gonna

554
00:11:12,020 --> 00:11:12,559
- bring him.

555
00:11:12,599 --> 00:11:13,139
- Uh-hmm.

556
00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:14,432
You don't think that's

557
00:11:14,472 --> 00:11:14,980
a little bit disrespectful?

558
00:11:15,020 --> 00:11:16,980
It's not like I'm 26 again

559
00:11:17,020 --> 00:11:18,235
asking for their blessing

560
00:11:18,275 --> 00:11:18,980
for a marriage.

561
00:11:19,020 --> 00:11:19,735
Your divorce

562
00:11:19,775 --> 00:11:20,980
isn't even finalized

563
00:11:21,020 --> 00:11:21,803
and there's been

564
00:11:21,843 --> 00:11:22,980
kind of tension between

565
00:11:23,020 --> 00:11:24,030
- you and your parents.

566
00:11:24,070 --> 00:11:24,980
- The tension is that

567
00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:25,980
I have moved on.

568
00:11:26,020 --> 00:11:26,980
And they have not.

569
00:11:27,020 --> 00:11:28,980
I don't know why Judy feels

570
00:11:29,020 --> 00:11:30,233
like she has to push

571
00:11:30,273 --> 00:11:30,980
her opinions

572
00:11:31,020 --> 00:11:31,980
onto her parents.

573
00:11:32,020 --> 00:11:32,810
I'm completely

574
00:11:32,850 --> 00:11:33,980
different than that.

575
00:11:34,020 --> 00:11:35,840
I hear their opinion,

576
00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,980
I embrace it,

577
00:11:37,020 --> 00:11:38,980
I respect it,

578
00:11:39,020 --> 00:11:39,980
and that's how it should be.

579
00:11:40,020 --> 00:11:41,079
And your daddy even said

580
00:11:41,119 --> 00:11:41,980
he's been so adamant

581
00:11:42,020 --> 00:11:42,980
about I'm not ready.

582
00:11:43,020 --> 00:11:44,097
And I'm very adamant

583
00:11:44,137 --> 00:11:44,980
about I'm ready.

584
00:11:45,020 --> 00:11:45,967
And you don't think that's

585
00:11:46,007 --> 00:11:46,980
a little bit disrespectful?

586
00:11:47,020 --> 00:11:47,757
Does he respect me?

587
00:11:47,797 --> 00:11:48,980
I think it's a two-way street.

588
00:11:49,020 --> 00:11:49,980
I am living my truth.

589
00:11:50,020 --> 00:11:52,980
I do not have time to sit around

590
00:11:53,020 --> 00:11:54,253
and wait for everyone else

591
00:11:54,293 --> 00:11:54,980
to get onboard.

592
00:11:55,020 --> 00:11:55,980
You asked for my opinion.

593
00:11:56,020 --> 00:11:56,753
- I know, girl.

594
00:11:56,793 --> 00:11:58,233
- I just gave it to you.

595
00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,980
[music]

596
00:12:04,020 --> 00:12:05,097
SINGER: ♪ So I sing doo doo

597
00:12:05,137 --> 00:12:05,980
doo, doo doo doo... ♪

598
00:12:06,020 --> 00:12:06,985
SARA RAZAVI ZAND:

599
00:12:07,025 --> 00:12:07,980
How's everything?

600
00:12:08,020 --> 00:12:08,647
JUDY: Well,

601
00:12:08,687 --> 00:12:09,980
you know why I'm here.

602
00:12:10,020 --> 00:12:10,931
- I know. I know.

603
00:12:10,971 --> 00:12:12,111
- I want to move on

604
00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:13,020
with my life.

605
00:12:13,020 --> 00:12:13,596
I just need

606
00:12:13,636 --> 00:12:14,980
to finalize this divorce.

607
00:12:15,020 --> 00:12:15,980
It's been dragging on forever.

608
00:12:16,020 --> 00:12:17,980
- It has. It has.

609
00:12:18,020 --> 00:12:18,520
You know, we still--we still

610
00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:19,960
have to go to mediation.

611
00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:20,469
We're not gonna be able

612
00:12:20,509 --> 00:12:20,980
to keep this trial date.

613
00:12:21,020 --> 00:12:22,243
I mean, do I have to, like,

614
00:12:22,283 --> 00:12:22,980
give in with him

615
00:12:23,020 --> 00:12:24,980
when it comes to the assets?

616
00:12:25,020 --> 00:12:25,360
- Uh-hmm.

617
00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:25,980
- If I gave him

618
00:12:26,020 --> 00:12:26,980
a little bit more,

619
00:12:27,020 --> 00:12:27,980
it would almost be enough for me

620
00:12:28,020 --> 00:12:28,980
to just move on.

621
00:12:29,020 --> 00:12:30,980
I don't wanna drag this into

622
00:12:31,020 --> 00:12:31,757
- the next chapter of my life.

623
00:12:31,797 --> 00:12:31,980
- I know.

624
00:12:32,020 --> 00:12:32,980
That's why we have to

625
00:12:33,020 --> 00:12:34,033
just keep pushing him,

626
00:12:34,073 --> 00:12:34,980
because if we don't,

627
00:12:35,020 --> 00:12:36,810
he's gonna keep dragging it out

628
00:12:36,850 --> 00:12:37,980
and dragging it out.

629
00:12:38,020 --> 00:12:38,614
JUDY:  To get divorce,

630
00:12:38,654 --> 00:12:38,980
it seems like

631
00:12:39,020 --> 00:12:39,711
I need to throw

632
00:12:39,751 --> 00:12:40,980
more money at the problem.

633
00:12:41,020 --> 00:12:41,825
But for me to throw

634
00:12:41,865 --> 00:12:42,980
more money at the problem,

635
00:12:43,020 --> 00:12:44,098
it requires me to be more

636
00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:44,980
dependent on my dad.

637
00:12:45,020 --> 00:12:46,111
I like hanging out with you

638
00:12:46,151 --> 00:12:46,980
but I don't wanna pay

639
00:12:47,020 --> 00:12:47,980
to hang out with you anymore.

640
00:12:48,020 --> 00:12:48,826
I'm stuck

641
00:12:48,866 --> 00:12:50,980
in a Vietnamese pickle.

642
00:12:51,020 --> 00:12:51,484
The value

643
00:12:51,524 --> 00:12:52,980
of being divorced is a lot.

644
00:12:53,020 --> 00:12:53,744
- Yes. It's priceless.

645
00:12:53,784 --> 00:12:53,980
- And--

646
00:12:54,020 --> 00:12:54,344
It's more than

647
00:12:54,384 --> 00:12:54,980
just giving him 10% more.

648
00:12:55,020 --> 00:12:56,328
No. I mean, I can tell you

649
00:12:56,368 --> 00:12:57,980
he does not wanna get a divorce.

650
00:12:58,020 --> 00:12:59,315
He will do anything

651
00:12:59,355 --> 00:13:01,000
to keep you as his wife.

652
00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:03,980
[sighs]

653
00:13:04,020 --> 00:13:06,000
[music]

654
00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,000
SINGER: ♪ I have a secret ♪

655
00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,000
♪ It's someone I love ♪

656
00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:16,956
JUDY: Our favorite,

657
00:13:16,996 --> 00:13:17,980
Mimosas on a Sunday.

658
00:13:18,020 --> 00:13:19,980
NATE: [chuckles] That is nice.

659
00:13:20,020 --> 00:13:20,517
It always puts me

660
00:13:20,557 --> 00:13:20,980
in a good mood.

661
00:13:21,020 --> 00:13:21,980
It puts me in a good mood, too.

662
00:13:22,020 --> 00:13:22,907
I wish I can start

663
00:13:22,947 --> 00:13:23,980
all my day like that.

664
00:13:24,020 --> 00:13:24,461
- I know.

665
00:13:24,501 --> 00:13:24,980
- Mimosas.

666
00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:25,929
- You look nice.

667
00:13:25,969 --> 00:13:26,980
- Thank you, babe.

668
00:13:27,020 --> 00:13:27,778
- I really like your dress.

669
00:13:27,818 --> 00:13:27,980
- Yeah?

670
00:13:28,020 --> 00:13:28,959
Remember when you got

671
00:13:28,999 --> 00:13:29,980
the belt with a scarf?

672
00:13:30,020 --> 00:13:31,980
[laughter]

673
00:13:32,020 --> 00:13:33,180
You we're like, "Why is your

674
00:13:33,220 --> 00:13:33,980
scarf on a buckle?"

675
00:13:34,020 --> 00:13:34,980
[laughter]

676
00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:36,980
Oops.

677
00:13:37,020 --> 00:13:38,000
My baby.

678
00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:39,705
It's not supposed to touch

679
00:13:39,745 --> 00:13:39,980
the floor.

680
00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:40,980
It's an Asian thing, right?

681
00:13:41,020 --> 00:13:41,834
All your money

682
00:13:41,874 --> 00:13:42,980
is gonna disappear.

683
00:13:43,020 --> 00:13:44,980
Oh, I didn't know about that.

684
00:13:45,020 --> 00:13:45,807
- You didn't know that?

685
00:13:45,847 --> 00:13:45,980
- No.

686
00:13:46,020 --> 00:13:46,555
Your purse is not supposed

687
00:13:46,595 --> 00:13:46,980
to touch the ground.

688
00:13:47,020 --> 00:13:48,220
I never had a purse.

689
00:13:47,020 --> 00:13:48,980
- Murse, a murse.

690
00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:49,020
- Oh, your wallet? Your wallet?

691
00:13:49,020 --> 00:13:49,906
It's not supposed

692
00:13:49,946 --> 00:13:50,980
to touch the ground?

693
00:13:51,020 --> 00:13:51,523
- Yeah.

694
00:13:51,563 --> 00:13:51,980
- Hmm.

695
00:13:52,020 --> 00:13:53,063
JUDY:  Coming from my

696
00:13:53,103 --> 00:13:53,980
attorney's office,

697
00:13:54,020 --> 00:13:54,886
it's so frustrating

698
00:13:54,926 --> 00:13:55,980
knowing that my divorce

699
00:13:56,020 --> 00:13:57,980
is taking so long.

700
00:13:58,020 --> 00:13:59,422
But I'm not gonna carry

701
00:13:59,462 --> 00:13:59,980
that over

702
00:14:00,020 --> 00:14:00,980
into my time with Nate.

703
00:14:01,020 --> 00:14:02,433
So what do you think about

704
00:14:02,473 --> 00:14:03,980
maybe taking that first step

705
00:14:04,020 --> 00:14:05,334
and going to the Lunar

706
00:14:05,374 --> 00:14:07,000
New Year party at my house?

707
00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:08,996
So, if that's the kind of stuff

708
00:14:09,036 --> 00:14:09,980
we need to think about, right?

709
00:14:10,020 --> 00:14:10,736
- Because, you know--

710
00:14:10,776 --> 00:14:10,980
- Yeah.

711
00:14:11,020 --> 00:14:11,499
--your whole family

712
00:14:11,539 --> 00:14:11,980
is gonna be there.

713
00:14:12,020 --> 00:14:12,533
- Yeah.

714
00:14:12,573 --> 00:14:14,980
- Your mom, your dad, the kids.

715
00:14:15,020 --> 00:14:15,509
- What are you worried about?

716
00:14:15,549 --> 00:14:15,980
- It's not like I'm worried

717
00:14:16,020 --> 00:14:16,887
about anything. I'm just

718
00:14:16,927 --> 00:14:17,980
thinking about things, right?

719
00:14:18,020 --> 00:14:18,194
- Okay.

720
00:14:18,234 --> 00:14:19,794
- Like, can we have, like,

721
00:14:18,234 --> 00:14:19,980
- [laughs]

722
00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:20,020
- coffee first?

723
00:14:20,020 --> 00:14:21,899
First, it's like meet

724
00:14:21,939 --> 00:14:22,980
your parents

725
00:14:23,020 --> 00:14:25,000
in front of everybody.

726
00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:25,020
[sighs]

727
00:14:25,020 --> 00:14:26,980
JUDY:  My dad wants to meet Nate

728
00:14:27,020 --> 00:14:29,980
but on his terms, one on one.

729
00:14:30,020 --> 00:14:31,263
And I just don't wanna do it

730
00:14:31,303 --> 00:14:31,980
his way anymore.

731
00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:32,588
You got to face the fire

732
00:14:32,628 --> 00:14:33,588
sometimes, babe.

733
00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:35,740
I mean, you've got

734
00:14:35,780 --> 00:14:36,980
Washington's approval, right?

735
00:14:37,020 --> 00:14:38,365
I have, but he's a lot easier

736
00:14:38,405 --> 00:14:38,980
than your dad

737
00:14:39,020 --> 00:14:39,957
that I didn't care

738
00:14:39,997 --> 00:14:40,980
about his approval.

739
00:14:41,020 --> 00:14:41,980
It would be nice.

740
00:14:42,020 --> 00:14:42,778
- It would make it easier--

741
00:14:42,818 --> 00:14:43,318
- Yeah.

742
00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:45,573
- --like, for family functions.

743
00:14:45,613 --> 00:14:45,980
- Right.

744
00:14:46,020 --> 00:14:47,132
Well, we--you don't need it.

745
00:14:47,172 --> 00:14:47,980
You know what I mean?

746
00:14:48,020 --> 00:14:48,529
I'm trying to think

747
00:14:48,569 --> 00:14:49,529
long-term, baby.

748
00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,000
So that's a no?

749
00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:53,980
Yeah.

750
00:14:54,020 --> 00:14:54,980
[sighs]

751
00:14:55,020 --> 00:14:56,980
You know, don't you think?

752
00:14:57,020 --> 00:14:57,487
- Long term.

753
00:14:57,527 --> 00:14:57,980
- Thank you.

754
00:14:58,020 --> 00:14:59,010
- Thank you so much.

755
00:14:59,050 --> 00:14:59,980
- WAITER: Pleasure.

756
00:15:00,020 --> 00:15:00,340
- You look great.

757
00:15:00,380 --> 00:15:01,960
- Hey, are you all doing today?

758
00:15:00,380 --> 00:15:02,000
- Excellent.

759
00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,000
- Good, how are you?

760
00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,289
- Good. This is for you, Nate.

761
00:15:04,329 --> 00:15:04,980
- Oh, thank you.

762
00:15:05,020 --> 00:15:05,980
And a truffle caprese for you.

763
00:15:06,020 --> 00:15:06,444
- JUDY: Oh, thank you.

764
00:15:06,484 --> 00:15:06,980
- WAITER: Thank you, guys.

765
00:15:07,020 --> 00:15:07,412
- NATE: Thank you.

766
00:15:07,452 --> 00:15:07,980
- WAITER: You all enjoy.

767
00:15:08,020 --> 00:15:09,980
I'm turning 40.

768
00:15:10,020 --> 00:15:10,980
I need to move on with my life.

769
00:15:11,020 --> 00:15:12,980
I need to take the next steps

770
00:15:13,020 --> 00:15:13,743
- to become my own woman.

771
00:15:13,783 --> 00:15:13,980
- Right.

772
00:15:14,020 --> 00:15:16,059
Like, I feel like I'm chained

773
00:15:16,099 --> 00:15:16,980
to my family.

774
00:15:17,020 --> 00:15:18,980
I agree. Either be independent

775
00:15:19,020 --> 00:15:20,067
or you're not

776
00:15:20,107 --> 00:15:21,980
and be stuck with them.

777
00:15:22,020 --> 00:15:23,063
I cannot believe Nate

778
00:15:23,103 --> 00:15:23,980
has said no to me,

779
00:15:24,020 --> 00:15:25,000
but I have faith

780
00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,007
that he's thinking

781
00:15:27,047 --> 00:15:27,980
of the long game,

782
00:15:28,020 --> 00:15:29,340
so I'm okay with that.

783
00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:30,533
I know I make looking

784
00:15:30,573 --> 00:15:31,593
like Judy Ho easy

785
00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:32,647
- but it's not easy.

786
00:15:32,687 --> 00:15:33,287
- [laughs]

787
00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:34,980
Cheers.

788
00:15:35,020 --> 00:15:35,980
What are we cheering to?

789
00:15:36,020 --> 00:15:36,735
To 2020 and you

790
00:15:36,775 --> 00:15:37,980
to be independent, right?

791
00:15:38,020 --> 00:15:38,980
Yes. To us.

792
00:15:39,020 --> 00:15:39,601
- To us.

793
00:15:39,641 --> 00:15:40,980
- [glass tinkling]

794
00:15:41,020 --> 00:15:41,340
- [laughs]

795
00:15:41,380 --> 00:15:41,980
- You are welcome.

796
00:15:42,020 --> 00:15:45,000
[music]

797
00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:48,214
BINH HO: Another year

798
00:15:48,254 --> 00:15:48,980
in the books.

799
00:15:49,020 --> 00:15:50,000
Cheers.

800
00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:54,670
So, it's that time

801
00:15:54,710 --> 00:15:55,980
of year again.

802
00:15:56,020 --> 00:15:56,980
Right.

803
00:15:57,020 --> 00:15:57,980
You brought some cash?

804
00:15:58,020 --> 00:15:58,980
Let me show you.

805
00:15:59,020 --> 00:16:00,980
Here we have the Lucky Money.

806
00:16:01,020 --> 00:16:02,980
We're in the Year of the Rat.

807
00:16:03,020 --> 00:16:04,005
But themain thing here is

808
00:16:04,045 --> 00:16:04,980
you look at the numbers.

809
00:16:05,020 --> 00:16:05,538
- Oh.

810
00:16:05,578 --> 00:16:06,980
- 8, 8, 8, 8.

811
00:16:07,020 --> 00:16:07,955
Right here, one,

812
00:16:07,995 --> 00:16:08,980
two, three, four.

813
00:16:09,020 --> 00:16:09,980
Yeah, everything 8.

814
00:16:10,020 --> 00:16:11,980
That number is very important.

815
00:16:12,020 --> 00:16:13,025
Whoever you love the most,

816
00:16:13,065 --> 00:16:13,980
you can give it to them.

817
00:16:14,020 --> 00:16:15,844
It's not about how big the

818
00:16:15,884 --> 00:16:16,980
money amount is,

819
00:16:17,020 --> 00:16:17,435
- So...

820
00:16:17,475 --> 00:16:18,980
- but how you love them.

821
00:16:19,020 --> 00:16:19,933
here, you do the 5s,

822
00:16:19,973 --> 00:16:20,980
I'll do the 2s, right?

823
00:16:21,020 --> 00:16:21,980
- All right.

824
00:16:22,020 --> 00:16:23,980
Lunar New Year very, very

825
00:16:24,020 --> 00:16:24,980
happy time for me.

826
00:16:25,020 --> 00:16:27,980
The red envelope to us

827
00:16:28,020 --> 00:16:29,980
is really the lucky.

828
00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:31,980
So when they give the kid

829
00:16:32,020 --> 00:16:32,854
the red envelope,

830
00:16:32,894 --> 00:16:33,980
that mean we wish them

831
00:16:34,020 --> 00:16:35,980
good fortune for the year come.

832
00:16:36,020 --> 00:16:37,980
You know, last year was a--

833
00:16:38,020 --> 00:16:39,899
it was a pretty tough

834
00:16:39,939 --> 00:16:41,000
year for me.

835
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,446
- Well, overall I think you're

836
00:16:44,486 --> 00:16:45,146
doing good.

837
00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:47,980
[sighs]

838
00:16:48,020 --> 00:16:49,980
Well, you know,

839
00:16:50,020 --> 00:16:51,980
I have a weakness,

840
00:16:52,020 --> 00:16:53,980
which is drinking.

841
00:16:54,020 --> 00:16:55,980
And I wanna quit drinking.

842
00:16:56,020 --> 00:16:57,980
[music]

843
00:16:58,020 --> 00:16:58,980
Well, let me tell you

844
00:16:59,020 --> 00:17:01,980
in our culture, they say

845
00:17:02,020 --> 00:17:04,980
"Take the diamond, test the lady

846
00:17:05,020 --> 00:17:07,215
and take the alcohol, test

847
00:17:07,255 --> 00:17:07,980
the man."

848
00:17:08,020 --> 00:17:09,980
So when they see you drinking

849
00:17:10,020 --> 00:17:11,980
they see how you're acting.

850
00:17:12,020 --> 00:17:13,980
Can you stop yourself?

851
00:17:14,020 --> 00:17:14,980
Or how you talk?

852
00:17:15,020 --> 00:17:16,980
The alcohol

853
00:17:17,020 --> 00:17:17,588
might be helping you

854
00:17:17,628 --> 00:17:17,980
a little bit.

855
00:17:18,020 --> 00:17:19,980
Make you more exciting.

856
00:17:20,020 --> 00:17:20,980
And make

857
00:17:21,020 --> 00:17:21,980
you feel happier.

858
00:17:22,020 --> 00:17:22,980
So to me

859
00:17:23,020 --> 00:17:25,980
the alcohol is not guilty.

860
00:17:26,020 --> 00:17:27,980
The people guilty.

861
00:17:28,020 --> 00:17:29,157
My dad might not

862
00:17:29,197 --> 00:17:30,980
like it or agree with it,

863
00:17:31,020 --> 00:17:33,655
but I don't love alcohol

864
00:17:33,695 --> 00:17:35,000
enough to...

865
00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,980
risk my family.

866
00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:38,980
[sigh]

867
00:17:39,020 --> 00:17:40,984
You know, I hope

868
00:17:41,024 --> 00:17:43,980
you're not disappointed,

869
00:17:44,020 --> 00:17:45,220
but now is the time.

870
00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,000
[music]

871
00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,980
Hi. Hi, sweetie.

872
00:17:59,020 --> 00:18:00,465
- Mommy, watch this.

873
00:18:00,505 --> 00:18:00,980
- What?

874
00:18:01,020 --> 00:18:03,034
- Yay. Look daddy caught it.

875
00:18:03,074 --> 00:18:03,980
- I fixed it.

876
00:18:04,020 --> 00:18:04,966
All right. Are you guys ready

877
00:18:05,006 --> 00:18:05,980
to go see Grandma and Grandpa?

878
00:18:06,020 --> 00:18:06,906
- Hi, honey.

879
00:18:06,946 --> 00:18:07,980
- I want this.

880
00:18:08,020 --> 00:18:09,355
Do you remember what to say

881
00:18:09,395 --> 00:18:10,980
to Grandpa for Chinese New Year?

882
00:18:11,020 --> 00:18:13,000
What do you say? Come here.

883
00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:14,940
- I'm so proud of you.

884
00:18:14,980 --> 00:18:15,980
- Okay. What do you say?

885
00:18:16,020 --> 00:18:17,980
[Speaking Vietnamese]

886
00:18:18,020 --> 00:18:18,980
LESLEY: Oh, I love that.

887
00:18:19,020 --> 00:18:20,156
- WASHINGTON: Roosevelt.

888
00:18:20,196 --> 00:18:20,980
- Okay. We go see

889
00:18:21,020 --> 00:18:21,935
Grandma and Grandpa

890
00:18:21,975 --> 00:18:22,980
for Chinese New Year.

891
00:18:23,020 --> 00:18:23,170
- Hmm.

892
00:18:23,210 --> 00:18:23,980
- What do you say to them?

893
00:18:24,020 --> 00:18:25,980
I wanna go back home?

894
00:18:26,020 --> 00:18:26,552
- WASHINGTON: Oh.

895
00:18:26,592 --> 00:18:26,980
- LESLEY: No.

896
00:18:27,020 --> 00:18:28,017
We'll go over there and we can

897
00:18:28,057 --> 00:18:28,980
give them some gifts, right?

898
00:18:29,020 --> 00:18:29,980
What do you say?

899
00:18:30,020 --> 00:18:31,980
[Speaking Vietnamese]

900
00:18:32,020 --> 00:18:32,306
- Good job.

901
00:18:32,346 --> 00:18:32,980
- WASHINGTON: Good job.

902
00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:33,769
- [laughs] What?

903
00:18:33,809 --> 00:18:35,309
- Family hug, family hug,

904
00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:36,684
- family hug.

905
00:18:36,724 --> 00:18:37,980
- All right, family hug.

906
00:18:38,020 --> 00:18:40,980
My mom and dadda -

907
00:18:41,020 --> 00:18:41,980
LESLEY:  I love Lunar New Year.

908
00:18:42,020 --> 00:18:44,000
I love the traditions.

909
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,363
In Oklahoma, we go door to door

910
00:18:47,403 --> 00:18:48,980
to our family's side.

911
00:18:49,020 --> 00:18:49,980
We give them some kind of gift.

912
00:18:50,020 --> 00:18:52,980
It's traditionally Asian pears

913
00:18:53,020 --> 00:18:54,398
and we wish them health,

914
00:18:54,438 --> 00:18:55,980
happiness for the New Year.

915
00:18:56,020 --> 00:18:58,158
I definitely want to keep

916
00:18:58,198 --> 00:19:00,000
that tradition alive.

917
00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:01,720
- Ring the doorbell.

918
00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:02,260
- Look.

919
00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:03,647
- Over here.

920
00:19:03,687 --> 00:19:04,980
- Oh, you give it to me?

921
00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:05,316
- Oh, yeah.

922
00:19:05,356 --> 00:19:05,980
- I got you a present.

923
00:19:06,020 --> 00:19:06,980
- You look beautiful.

924
00:19:07,020 --> 00:19:07,618
- LESLEY: Come back. Not yet.

925
00:19:07,658 --> 00:19:08,678
- Happy New Year.

926
00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:10,195
- Thank you. Thank you.

927
00:19:10,235 --> 00:19:10,980
- I love money.

928
00:19:11,020 --> 00:19:13,000
Money, money, money. Yeah.

929
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,980
BINH: Okay. Here's for you.

930
00:19:16,020 --> 00:19:16,740
- Happy New Year.

931
00:19:16,780 --> 00:19:17,980
- LESLEY: Say in Vietnamese.

932
00:19:18,020 --> 00:19:19,117
- WASHINGTON: Thanks, Dad.

933
00:19:19,157 --> 00:19:19,980
- I want you to have

934
00:19:20,020 --> 00:19:21,770
good health and happiness

935
00:19:21,810 --> 00:19:22,980
for the New Year.

936
00:19:23,020 --> 00:19:23,502
- Thank you both.

937
00:19:23,542 --> 00:19:23,980
- And that, too.

938
00:19:24,020 --> 00:19:24,906
- Yes. Thank you.

939
00:19:24,946 --> 00:19:25,980
- I wish both of you

940
00:19:26,020 --> 00:19:27,486
and your family

941
00:19:27,526 --> 00:19:29,980
a peaceful and happiness.

942
00:19:30,020 --> 00:19:30,415
- Uh-huh.

943
00:19:30,455 --> 00:19:30,980
- Thank you.

944
00:19:31,020 --> 00:19:31,485
When you get lucky,

945
00:19:31,525 --> 00:19:31,980
you get everything.

946
00:19:32,020 --> 00:19:32,861
Do you mind if I take

947
00:19:32,901 --> 00:19:34,521
one pair of that right now?

948
00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:35,494
- Yeah, you do it.

949
00:19:35,534 --> 00:19:35,980
- Can I have one?

950
00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:37,039
- You can have two.

951
00:19:37,079 --> 00:19:37,980
- I can take two?

952
00:19:38,020 --> 00:19:39,062
- GIRL: Mommy.

953
00:19:39,102 --> 00:19:39,980
- Thank you.

954
00:19:40,020 --> 00:19:41,473
- Bye, Grandma. Bye, Grandpa.

955
00:19:41,513 --> 00:19:41,980
- Bye-bye.

956
00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:42,369
SINGER:

957
00:19:42,409 --> 00:19:43,980
♪ This is the good life ♪

958
00:19:44,020 --> 00:19:46,980
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪

959
00:19:47,020 --> 00:19:48,980
♪ This is the good life ♪

960
00:19:49,020 --> 00:19:50,980
♪ Oh oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪

961
00:19:51,020 --> 00:19:52,908
♪ This is the good life

962
00:19:52,948 --> 00:19:53,980
Oh, oh, oh ♪

963
00:19:54,020 --> 00:19:54,285
- Oh!

964
00:19:54,325 --> 00:19:55,980
- SINGER: ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪

965
00:19:56,020 --> 00:19:57,902
♪ Out in the sunshine

966
00:19:57,942 --> 00:19:59,980
nothing but good life ♪

967
00:20:00,020 --> 00:20:01,001
Okay. There's a bag missing

968
00:20:01,041 --> 00:20:01,980
that's Lincoln's áo dài.

969
00:20:02,020 --> 00:20:02,965
BOTH: I took everything in the

970
00:20:03,005 --> 00:20:04,865
kitchen table into the cayenne.

971
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:05,421
You took everything

972
00:20:05,461 --> 00:20:05,980
out of that Uber, right?

973
00:20:06,020 --> 00:20:06,724
- Oh, yeah, got it--

974
00:20:06,764 --> 00:20:06,980
- Okay.

975
00:20:07,020 --> 00:20:07,594
- Everything in the Uber.

976
00:20:07,634 --> 00:20:07,980
- And you put it

977
00:20:08,020 --> 00:20:08,729
- on the kitchen table.

978
00:20:08,769 --> 00:20:08,980
- Table.

979
00:20:09,020 --> 00:20:10,446
- Into the cayenne.

980
00:20:10,486 --> 00:20:10,980
- Okay.

981
00:20:11,020 --> 00:20:11,907
I should--I should

982
00:20:11,947 --> 00:20:12,980
go check the cayenne.

983
00:20:13,020 --> 00:20:13,295
Okay.

984
00:20:13,335 --> 00:20:14,980
I better check the cayenne.

985
00:20:15,020 --> 00:20:15,948
I'm anxious about tonight

986
00:20:15,988 --> 00:20:16,980
'cause it's Lunar New Year.

987
00:20:17,020 --> 00:20:17,967
And I already know there's

988
00:20:18,007 --> 00:20:19,627
gonna be a lot of drinking.

989
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,221
It's the first time that Wash

990
00:20:21,261 --> 00:20:21,980
is gonna be around

991
00:20:22,020 --> 00:20:23,640
all his friends in alcohol.

992
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:24,480
I mean he says he's

993
00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:24,980
giving up drinking,

994
00:20:25,020 --> 00:20:26,486
but I think tonight's

995
00:20:26,526 --> 00:20:27,980
gonna be a true test.

996
00:20:28,020 --> 00:20:29,980
Here, son. Your favorite

997
00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:31,980
and my favorite, too,

998
00:20:32,020 --> 00:20:33,360
- Don Leon.

999
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:34,980
- Oh, my God.

1000
00:20:35,020 --> 00:20:36,980
It's from 2009, 10 years ago.

1001
00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:38,340
Forget about the past.

1002
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,680
Yeah. We'll forget the past.

1003
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:41,980
Move forward in the future.

1004
00:20:42,020 --> 00:20:43,000
Let's celebrate.

1005
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,980
[music]

1006
00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:47,980
LESLEY: It fell at my house.

1007
00:20:48,020 --> 00:20:48,554
- Where did it fall?

1008
00:20:48,594 --> 00:20:48,980
- I don't know.

1009
00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:49,967
You were supposed to carry

1010
00:20:50,007 --> 00:20:50,980
all the áo dài over here.

1011
00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:52,064
- Where did it fall?

1012
00:20:52,104 --> 00:20:52,980
- In the kitchen.

1013
00:20:53,020 --> 00:20:53,828
I'm freak--I'm freaking out

1014
00:20:53,868 --> 00:20:53,980
Judy.

1015
00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:54,769
Look at Lincoln

1016
00:20:54,809 --> 00:20:55,980
not having an áo dài?

1017
00:20:56,020 --> 00:20:56,980
We had it done for her.

1018
00:20:57,020 --> 00:20:57,881
Maybe I shouldn't

1019
00:20:57,921 --> 00:20:58,980
have given it to you.

1020
00:20:59,020 --> 00:20:59,980
Mom life.

1021
00:21:00,020 --> 00:21:00,985
It's like juggling

1022
00:21:01,025 --> 00:21:01,980
10 plates at once.

1023
00:21:02,020 --> 00:21:03,062
- WOMAN: Yeah.

1024
00:21:03,102 --> 00:21:03,980
- Roosevelt.

1025
00:21:04,020 --> 00:21:06,980
Come over here. Dad and Grandpa.

1026
00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:07,552
- Yeah?

1027
00:21:07,592 --> 00:21:09,980
- BINH: Yeah. Here, here, boy.

1028
00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:11,987
WASHINGTON: You're the next

1029
00:21:12,027 --> 00:21:13,980
generation of American Hos.

1030
00:21:14,020 --> 00:21:15,820
You're the next leader

1031
00:21:15,860 --> 00:21:17,000
in our family.

1032
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,082
BINH: Let's open the champagne.

1033
00:21:21,122 --> 00:21:22,980
Celebrate New Year.

1034
00:21:23,020 --> 00:21:24,235
- Oh, wow.

1035
00:21:24,275 --> 00:21:24,980
- Ugh.

1036
00:21:25,020 --> 00:21:26,485
I feel like my dad

1037
00:21:26,525 --> 00:21:27,980
doesn't understand

1038
00:21:28,020 --> 00:21:30,000
my decision to stop drinking.

1039
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:32,282
Of course, it hurts,

1040
00:21:32,322 --> 00:21:33,980
but I'm not gonna give up.

1041
00:21:34,020 --> 00:21:34,980
Well, Happy New Year, Dad.

1042
00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:36,546
- I love you.

1043
00:21:36,586 --> 00:21:37,980
- Thank you.

1044
00:21:38,020 --> 00:21:39,980
[glasses chiming]

1045
00:21:40,020 --> 00:21:40,441
- Let's go.

1046
00:21:40,481 --> 00:21:40,980
- Okay. Yeah.

1047
00:21:41,020 --> 00:21:41,736
- Let's go to Judy's.

1048
00:21:41,776 --> 00:21:41,980
- Yeah.

1049
00:21:42,020 --> 00:21:42,918
Let's go to the party

1050
00:21:42,958 --> 00:21:43,980
and let's do what we do.

1051
00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:46,401
SINGER: ♪ Woo. Yeah. Oh ♪

1052
00:21:46,441 --> 00:21:47,980
oh, oh, oh. Woo ♪

1053
00:21:48,020 --> 00:21:48,886
I like the flowers.

1054
00:21:48,926 --> 00:21:49,980
You look so good, Judy.

1055
00:21:50,020 --> 00:21:51,257
SINGER: ♪ There's no

1056
00:21:51,297 --> 00:21:52,980
better time than right now ♪

1057
00:21:53,020 --> 00:21:54,187
- Good to see you.

1058
00:21:54,227 --> 00:21:55,980
- JUDY: Hi. Happy New Year.

1059
00:21:56,020 --> 00:21:57,042
SINGER: ♪ To feel it all

1060
00:21:57,082 --> 00:21:57,980
and let it ring out ♪

1061
00:21:58,020 --> 00:21:58,529
- Hi, guys.

1062
00:21:58,569 --> 00:21:59,980
- WASHINGTON: Happy New Year.

1063
00:22:00,020 --> 00:22:00,980
Buddy, how are you?

1064
00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:02,285
This Lunar New Year

1065
00:22:02,325 --> 00:22:03,980
is very significant to me

1066
00:22:04,020 --> 00:22:05,235
in that we're celebrating

1067
00:22:05,275 --> 00:22:05,980
in my new home.

1068
00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:06,693
- A lot of food.

1069
00:22:06,733 --> 00:22:07,980
- I hope we have enough food.

1070
00:22:08,020 --> 00:22:08,383
- Yeah.

1071
00:22:08,423 --> 00:22:09,980
- JUDY:  I have been working

1072
00:22:10,020 --> 00:22:10,980
on the house for a long time.

1073
00:22:11,020 --> 00:22:12,063
- New house, new you.

1074
00:22:12,103 --> 00:22:12,980
- Remember when we

1075
00:22:13,020 --> 00:22:14,056
used to be at the club.

1076
00:22:14,096 --> 00:22:14,980
And now, look at us.

1077
00:22:15,020 --> 00:22:15,873
- What club?

1078
00:22:15,913 --> 00:22:16,980
- [Judy laughs]

1079
00:22:17,020 --> 00:22:17,527
JUDY:  The kids are here.

1080
00:22:17,567 --> 00:22:17,980
They enjoy themselves

1081
00:22:18,020 --> 00:22:19,226
with the red envelopes.

1082
00:22:19,266 --> 00:22:19,980
And everything

1083
00:22:20,020 --> 00:22:20,980
is beautifully decorated.

1084
00:22:21,020 --> 00:22:21,980
So, say Happy Lunar New Year

1085
00:22:22,020 --> 00:22:22,470
and then

1086
00:22:22,510 --> 00:22:23,980
you just hand it to them.

1087
00:22:24,020 --> 00:22:24,980
It brings you good luck.

1088
00:22:25,020 --> 00:22:26,980
The band's back together.

1089
00:22:27,020 --> 00:22:28,980
It's everything I would want.

1090
00:22:29,020 --> 00:22:29,980
Thank you.

1091
00:22:30,020 --> 00:22:32,162
Except that I don't have Nate

1092
00:22:32,202 --> 00:22:32,980
next to me,

1093
00:22:33,020 --> 00:22:34,460
and it feels incomplete.

1094
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:36,980
REAGAN HO:  I'll take it to you.

1095
00:22:37,020 --> 00:22:37,980
MAN:  No, no. We need to see

1096
00:22:38,020 --> 00:22:38,678
-  your driver's license.

1097
00:22:38,718 --> 00:22:38,980
-  But why?

1098
00:22:39,020 --> 00:22:40,520
Yeah. I don't drive.

1099
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:41,980
I have a chauffeur.

1100
00:22:42,020 --> 00:22:42,980
[laughs] Good one.

1101
00:22:43,020 --> 00:22:43,841
- Reagan.

1102
00:22:43,881 --> 00:22:44,980
- What's up?

1103
00:22:45,020 --> 00:22:45,297
Oh, shit.

1104
00:22:45,337 --> 00:22:45,980
Give me two of them.

1105
00:22:46,020 --> 00:22:47,980
My sister's gonna drink with me.

1106
00:22:48,020 --> 00:22:49,141
- What are we drinking to?

1107
00:22:49,181 --> 00:22:49,980
- Chinese New Year.

1108
00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:50,666
- What else?

1109
00:22:50,706 --> 00:22:52,000
- Cheers. What is this?

1110
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,000
- Tequila.

1111
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,020
- Oh, cheers.

1112
00:22:52,020 --> 00:22:53,352
You don't have to chug it.

1113
00:22:53,392 --> 00:22:53,980
Just sip it.

1114
00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:55,283
So how's everything been

1115
00:22:55,323 --> 00:22:55,980
since brunch?

1116
00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:56,987
Since brunch? Mom and dad

1117
00:22:57,027 --> 00:22:58,527
haven't changed her mind.

1118
00:22:59,000 --> 00:22:59,504
I don't think anything's

1119
00:22:59,544 --> 00:23:00,864
gonna change her mind.

1120
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:01,678
Just got to do

1121
00:23:01,718 --> 00:23:02,980
what you need to do and...

1122
00:23:03,020 --> 00:23:03,880
- Be happy, right?

1123
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:04,980
- They'll come around.

1124
00:23:05,020 --> 00:23:06,378
Oh, look who it is.

1125
00:23:06,418 --> 00:23:07,980
You want some tequila?

1126
00:23:08,020 --> 00:23:08,534
JUDY: Just try it, mom.

1127
00:23:08,574 --> 00:23:08,980
See if you like it.

1128
00:23:09,020 --> 00:23:10,100
It's good for you.

1129
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:12,980
[Judy laughs]

1130
00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:13,980
Every night you drink like that?

1131
00:23:14,020 --> 00:23:15,049
Don't worry, Mom.

1132
00:23:15,089 --> 00:23:15,980
He's a big boy.

1133
00:23:16,020 --> 00:23:17,000
Yeah.

1134
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:18,900
Happy New Year.

1135
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:19,020
Happy New Year, Mom.

1136
00:23:19,020 --> 00:23:20,980
I hope that New Year's

1137
00:23:21,020 --> 00:23:22,168
something new

1138
00:23:22,208 --> 00:23:23,980
is good come to you.

1139
00:23:24,020 --> 00:23:26,000
Something new did come to her.

1140
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:28,748
- Yes. And to you, too.

1141
00:23:28,788 --> 00:23:29,288
- Yeah.

1142
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:31,448
You're the best

1143
00:23:31,488 --> 00:23:31,980
mom in the world.

1144
00:23:32,020 --> 00:23:32,499
REAGAN: I love you.

1145
00:23:32,539 --> 00:23:32,980
HUE HO: Thank you.

1146
00:23:33,020 --> 00:23:34,040
[glasses chiming]

1147
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:35,980
JUDY:  Go this way.

1148
00:23:36,020 --> 00:23:36,980
You can get drinks outside.

1149
00:23:37,020 --> 00:23:38,980
There's a bar.

1150
00:23:39,020 --> 00:23:39,400
It's out there.

1151
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,700
The bar is out there.

1152
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,441
Is this your first

1153
00:23:41,481 --> 00:23:41,980
Lunar New Year party?

1154
00:23:42,020 --> 00:23:42,435
- Yeah.

1155
00:23:42,475 --> 00:23:43,980
- Asian food and the bar

1156
00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:44,980
is outside. So, help yourselves.

1157
00:23:45,020 --> 00:23:46,980
Okay. I'm gonna go get...

1158
00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:48,980
MAN: Um, I see a new Regan...

1159
00:23:49,020 --> 00:23:51,209
LESLEY:  Drinking is very much

1160
00:23:51,249 --> 00:23:52,980
a part of Asian culture.

1161
00:23:53,020 --> 00:23:53,666
I understand

1162
00:23:53,706 --> 00:23:54,980
it's confusing for Wash

1163
00:23:55,020 --> 00:23:56,161
because that's how

1164
00:23:56,201 --> 00:23:57,980
he spends time with his dad.

1165
00:23:58,020 --> 00:23:59,127
Hey, Happy New Year.

1166
00:23:59,167 --> 00:23:59,980
Happy New Year.

1167
00:24:00,020 --> 00:24:01,347
- Am I invited?

1168
00:24:01,387 --> 00:24:02,000
- Yeah.

1169
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:03,453
LESLEY:  And now,

1170
00:24:03,493 --> 00:24:04,633
he has to sit there

1171
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:05,953
with a glass of water

1172
00:24:05,993 --> 00:24:06,980
and all the other men,

1173
00:24:07,020 --> 00:24:08,980
you know, pressure him to drink.

1174
00:24:09,020 --> 00:24:10,980
It's not comfortable, for sure.

1175
00:24:11,020 --> 00:24:12,285
- I love you.

1176
00:24:12,325 --> 00:24:12,980
- Mwah.

1177
00:24:13,020 --> 00:24:13,980
Cheers. Happy New Year.

1178
00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:14,406
- Hi, guys.

1179
00:24:14,446 --> 00:24:14,980
- WOMAN: Hello.

1180
00:24:15,020 --> 00:24:15,368
- New boy.

1181
00:24:15,408 --> 00:24:16,368
- WOMAN: I know.

1182
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:17,428
What do you think

1183
00:24:17,468 --> 00:24:17,980
of the decor, Lesley?

1184
00:24:18,020 --> 00:24:18,303
- Uh.

1185
00:24:18,343 --> 00:24:19,980
- What do you think, Wash?

1186
00:24:20,020 --> 00:24:21,122
It looks kind of like

1187
00:24:21,162 --> 00:24:21,980
Valentine's Day.

1188
00:24:22,020 --> 00:24:23,864
I didn't realize cherry blossoms

1189
00:24:23,904 --> 00:24:24,980
and Chinese symbols

1190
00:24:25,020 --> 00:24:25,362
and lanterns

1191
00:24:25,402 --> 00:24:25,980
for Valentine's Day.

1192
00:24:26,020 --> 00:24:27,276
- I think you need more rats.

1193
00:24:27,316 --> 00:24:27,980
- I do have one.

1194
00:24:28,020 --> 00:24:28,227
- Where?

1195
00:24:28,267 --> 00:24:28,980
- I bought the right one,

1196
00:24:29,020 --> 00:24:30,434
- one stunning piece.

1197
00:24:30,474 --> 00:24:30,980
- Where?

1198
00:24:31,020 --> 00:24:31,679
It's over there.

1199
00:24:31,719 --> 00:24:32,980
I'm saving it for the dessert.

1200
00:24:33,020 --> 00:24:33,350
- Nice.

1201
00:24:33,390 --> 00:24:34,980
- That's the only rat you have?

1202
00:24:35,020 --> 00:24:36,220
I only need one rat.

1203
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,566
Lesley is definitely finding

1204
00:24:38,606 --> 00:24:39,980
her voice in this family.

1205
00:24:40,020 --> 00:24:41,980
Unfortunately, it sounds like

1206
00:24:42,020 --> 00:24:43,107
an old traditional

1207
00:24:43,147 --> 00:24:43,980
control freak.

1208
00:24:44,020 --> 00:24:45,980
So, basically my mom.

1209
00:24:46,020 --> 00:24:47,221
You know what really matters?

1210
00:24:47,261 --> 00:24:47,980
Having your family

1211
00:24:48,020 --> 00:24:48,742
and friends around,

1212
00:24:48,782 --> 00:24:49,980
not all of the external things.

1213
00:24:50,020 --> 00:24:50,495
You asked me about the decor.

1214
00:24:50,535 --> 00:24:50,980
What's wrong with the decor?

1215
00:24:51,020 --> 00:24:52,013
And I'm telling you

1216
00:24:52,053 --> 00:24:52,980
my answer, Lesley.

1217
00:24:53,020 --> 00:24:54,180
- I'm telling you my answer.

1218
00:24:54,220 --> 00:24:54,980
- Oh, when you walk

1219
00:24:55,020 --> 00:24:55,474
into other people's house

1220
00:24:55,514 --> 00:24:55,980
and they ask you about it,

1221
00:24:56,020 --> 00:24:56,843
you should say,

1222
00:24:56,883 --> 00:24:57,980
"I love it," period.

1223
00:24:58,020 --> 00:24:58,760
I didn't know.

1224
00:24:58,800 --> 00:24:59,980
Okay. I love it, Judy.

1225
00:25:00,020 --> 00:25:01,980
I love it. I love it. I love it.

1226
00:25:02,020 --> 00:25:03,980
It's the year of the rat.

1227
00:25:04,020 --> 00:25:04,906
If your theme was

1228
00:25:04,946 --> 00:25:05,980
family get together,

1229
00:25:06,020 --> 00:25:06,918
then we just could of

1230
00:25:06,958 --> 00:25:07,980
had Friday night dinner.

1231
00:25:08,020 --> 00:25:08,603
If you're gonna stick

1232
00:25:08,643 --> 00:25:08,980
with a theme,

1233
00:25:09,020 --> 00:25:10,916
stick with the theme, Judy.

1234
00:25:10,956 --> 00:25:11,980
Have more rats.

1235
00:25:12,020 --> 00:25:12,350
Do you all see

1236
00:25:12,390 --> 00:25:12,980
what I deal with lately?

1237
00:25:13,020 --> 00:25:14,980
[laughter]

1238
00:25:15,020 --> 00:25:16,940
- Ok. Talk about something else.

1239
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:17,422
JUDY: Thank you. Let me

1240
00:25:17,462 --> 00:25:17,980
get back to my real lfriends.

1241
00:25:18,020 --> 00:25:18,484
- Bye.

1242
00:25:18,524 --> 00:25:19,980
- I see how it is.

1243
00:25:20,020 --> 00:25:21,760
Not the ones I was born into.

1244
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,632
I just wanna thank everyone

1245
00:25:23,672 --> 00:25:24,980
for coming over today.

1246
00:25:25,020 --> 00:25:26,366
I'm so grateful that all of you

1247
00:25:26,406 --> 00:25:26,980
have been here

1248
00:25:27,020 --> 00:25:27,980
for us through a tough time.

1249
00:25:28,020 --> 00:25:29,422
A new home, a new year,

1250
00:25:29,462 --> 00:25:29,980
a new me.

1251
00:25:30,020 --> 00:25:30,545
- Yeah.

1252
00:25:30,585 --> 00:25:31,980
- [crowd cheering]

1253
00:25:32,020 --> 00:25:32,546
WASHINGTON:

1254
00:25:32,586 --> 00:25:33,980
Welcome to the neighborhood.

1255
00:25:34,020 --> 00:25:34,514
The mayor

1256
00:25:34,554 --> 00:25:35,980
of River Oaks has spoken.

1257
00:25:36,020 --> 00:25:36,812
You know what? There's

1258
00:25:36,852 --> 00:25:37,980
a new Ho on the block, brother.

1259
00:25:38,020 --> 00:25:39,980
Oh, really?

1260
00:25:40,020 --> 00:25:40,881
Are you all ready

1261
00:25:40,921 --> 00:25:41,980
for the dragon dance?

1262
00:25:42,020 --> 00:25:42,743
- Let's go.

1263
00:25:42,783 --> 00:25:43,980
- [crowd cheering]

1264
00:25:44,020 --> 00:25:46,980
New Year, the Hos.

1265
00:25:47,020 --> 00:25:48,160
It's a celebration.

1266
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:49,980
[music]

1267
00:25:50,020 --> 00:25:51,573
- Let's go, children.

1268
00:25:51,613 --> 00:25:53,980
-  It's all about starting over.

1269
00:25:54,020 --> 00:25:56,172
We forget the yesterdays

1270
00:25:56,212 --> 00:25:57,980
and we're brand new.

1271
00:25:58,020 --> 00:25:59,980
It brings together family.

1272
00:26:00,020 --> 00:26:01,023
Oh, look. They're coming.

1273
00:26:01,063 --> 00:26:01,980
Get behind, get behind.

1274
00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:02,605
We realize

1275
00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:03,980
how significant it is.

1276
00:26:04,020 --> 00:26:05,639
And we treasure those times

1277
00:26:05,679 --> 00:26:06,980
that we have together.

1278
00:26:07,020 --> 00:26:07,980
Oh, there's the Buddha.

1279
00:26:08,020 --> 00:26:09,899
- Are you guys ready?

1280
00:26:09,939 --> 00:26:10,980
- [cheering]

1281
00:26:11,020 --> 00:26:12,699
- [music]

1282
00:26:12,739 --> 00:26:14,980
- [cheering]

1283
00:26:15,020 --> 00:26:16,980
Let the past gone.

1284
00:26:17,020 --> 00:26:17,980
Let the old gone.

1285
00:26:18,020 --> 00:26:19,105
- Start fresh.

1286
00:26:19,145 --> 00:26:19,980
- JUDY: Oh.

1287
00:26:20,020 --> 00:26:21,980
It's a way for the elders...

1288
00:26:22,020 --> 00:26:22,980
[cheering]

1289
00:26:23,020 --> 00:26:23,405
LESLEY:

1290
00:26:23,445 --> 00:26:24,980
...to give wishes and hope

1291
00:26:25,020 --> 00:26:25,816
and dreams

1292
00:26:25,856 --> 00:26:27,980
to the younger generation.

1293
00:26:28,020 --> 00:26:29,740
The zodiac for this year

1294
00:26:29,780 --> 00:26:30,980
was a golden rat.

1295
00:26:31,020 --> 00:26:31,980
See? They're cute. It's the rat.

1296
00:26:32,020 --> 00:26:33,980
I know. They got the rat.

1297
00:26:34,020 --> 00:26:35,980
New day, new year.

1298
00:26:36,020 --> 00:26:37,980
It's all about keeping culture.

1299
00:26:38,020 --> 00:26:39,980
Reminding us that life is short.

1300
00:26:40,020 --> 00:26:41,460
And at the end of the day,

1301
00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:42,980
my own happiness is enough.

1302
00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:44,513
It's just all of our traditions.

1303
00:26:44,553 --> 00:26:44,980
I love it.

1304
00:26:45,020 --> 00:26:47,980
[crowd cheering]

1305
00:26:48,020 --> 00:26:52,000
[music]

1306
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,980
[crowd cheering]

1307
00:26:55,020 --> 00:26:56,584
- Everybody, say Ho.

1308
00:26:56,624 --> 00:26:57,000
- Ho!

1309
00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:58,765
- One, two, three.

1310
00:26:58,805 --> 00:26:58,980
- Ho!

1311
00:26:59,020 --> 00:27:02,000
[crowd cheering]

1312
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,440
- The wind did not work.

1313
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:09,980
[music]

1314
00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:12,651
- [birds chirping]

1315
00:27:12,691 --> 00:27:14,000
- [music]

1316
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:15,249
WASHINGTON:

1317
00:27:15,289 --> 00:27:15,980
You take off your shoes, baby.

1318
00:27:16,020 --> 00:27:17,980
LESLEY:  I can't bend over here.

1319
00:27:18,020 --> 00:27:18,724
- You got it?

1320
00:27:18,764 --> 00:27:20,084
- Yeah. Hold on, baby.

1321
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:22,531
Seriously,

1322
00:27:22,571 --> 00:27:23,980
I can't bend over in this.

1323
00:27:24,020 --> 00:27:25,360
So, what do you think

1324
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,980
about Judy's decorations?

1325
00:27:27,020 --> 00:27:28,379
What do you think about it?

1326
00:27:28,419 --> 00:27:29,980
Now, you can be honest with me.

1327
00:27:30,020 --> 00:27:30,980
I thought it was cool.

1328
00:27:31,020 --> 00:27:32,455
I don't know why you made

1329
00:27:32,495 --> 00:27:33,980
such a big deal out of it.

1330
00:27:34,020 --> 00:27:34,366
I didn't make

1331
00:27:34,406 --> 00:27:34,980
a big deal out of it.

1332
00:27:35,020 --> 00:27:36,023
- Your take on my sister.

1333
00:27:36,063 --> 00:27:36,980
- She asked my opinion.

1334
00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:37,338
I just told her.

1335
00:27:37,378 --> 00:27:37,980
I said it looked kind of like

1336
00:27:38,020 --> 00:27:39,075
- Valentine's Day.

1337
00:27:39,115 --> 00:27:39,980
- I know, but--

1338
00:27:40,020 --> 00:27:41,980
I'm just saying. If you wanna do

1339
00:27:42,020 --> 00:27:42,919
a Lunar New Year party,

1340
00:27:42,959 --> 00:27:44,519
do a Lunar New Year party.

1341
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,980
Yeah. Do you have lotion?

1342
00:27:47,020 --> 00:27:47,614
You need to put lotion

1343
00:27:47,654 --> 00:27:47,980
on your feet.

1344
00:27:48,020 --> 00:27:49,063
No, I've been walking

1345
00:27:49,103 --> 00:27:49,980
on them all night.

1346
00:27:50,020 --> 00:27:51,517
- Yeah. They're very dry.

1347
00:27:51,557 --> 00:27:53,000
- They need some saliva?

1348
00:27:51,557 --> 00:27:53,980
- Just kidding.

1349
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:54,020
- [Washington laughs]

1350
00:27:54,020 --> 00:27:55,451
- They need some lips.

1351
00:27:55,491 --> 00:27:55,980
- Gross.

1352
00:27:56,020 --> 00:27:58,980
Some of these big-ass lips.

1353
00:27:59,020 --> 00:27:59,761
- Ow, you're hurting me.

1354
00:27:59,801 --> 00:27:59,980
- Damn.

1355
00:28:00,020 --> 00:28:01,980
Okay. Stop.

1356
00:28:02,020 --> 00:28:03,107
I'm trying to kiss

1357
00:28:03,147 --> 00:28:03,980
the pain away.

1358
00:28:04,020 --> 00:28:05,520
Oh, my God. You're crazy.

1359
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:07,619
So, who did you talk to

1360
00:28:07,659 --> 00:28:07,980
at the party?

1361
00:28:08,020 --> 00:28:09,980
Everybody. It was nice to see

1362
00:28:10,020 --> 00:28:11,317
some of Judy's old friends

1363
00:28:11,357 --> 00:28:11,980
from the past

1364
00:28:12,020 --> 00:28:13,174
that I haven't seen

1365
00:28:13,214 --> 00:28:14,980
that we kind of grew up with.

1366
00:28:15,020 --> 00:28:16,246
I didn't like that she only had,

1367
00:28:16,286 --> 00:28:16,980
like, liquor there.

1368
00:28:17,020 --> 00:28:17,980
I couldn't find water anywhere.

1369
00:28:18,020 --> 00:28:19,980
I had water.

1370
00:28:20,020 --> 00:28:20,572
- You did?

1371
00:28:20,612 --> 00:28:20,980
- Yeah.

1372
00:28:21,020 --> 00:28:23,246
I had water with lime.

1373
00:28:23,286 --> 00:28:24,980
And I had like...

1374
00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:26,662
- I saw something dark, though.

1375
00:28:26,702 --> 00:28:26,980
- Hmm?

1376
00:28:27,020 --> 00:28:28,627
I had apple juice, too,

1377
00:28:28,667 --> 00:28:30,000
with the wineglass.

1378
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:31,980
And that's all you had?

1379
00:28:32,020 --> 00:28:32,600
- What do you mean?

1380
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,360
- I'm just--

1381
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:34,980
I already told you, I'm done.

1382
00:28:35,020 --> 00:28:36,573
- I know. I'm just asking--

1383
00:28:36,613 --> 00:28:36,980
- Yeah.

1384
00:28:37,020 --> 00:28:37,985
--'cause, you know,

1385
00:28:38,025 --> 00:28:38,980
your dad was there.

1386
00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:39,905
His friends were there.

1387
00:28:39,945 --> 00:28:41,565
I saw you sitting with him.

1388
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:42,894
And I don't know

1389
00:28:42,934 --> 00:28:43,980
if you're drinking.

1390
00:28:44,020 --> 00:28:45,980
So, I'm just asking.

1391
00:28:46,020 --> 00:28:47,980
Your questioning me now

1392
00:28:48,020 --> 00:28:48,444
- and we're through here--

1393
00:28:48,484 --> 00:28:49,960
- I'm just asking. I trust you.

1394
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,098
That means you're always

1395
00:28:51,138 --> 00:28:51,980
gonna be wondering.

1396
00:28:52,020 --> 00:28:52,404
- It's just--

1397
00:28:52,444 --> 00:28:53,524
- Do you blame me?

1398
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,980
I didn't drink.

1399
00:28:55,020 --> 00:28:55,820
- You probably just--

1400
00:28:55,860 --> 00:28:56,980
- I know it's gonna take time

1401
00:28:57,020 --> 00:28:58,360
to develop your trust.

1402
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:58,980
I promise.

1403
00:28:59,020 --> 00:29:00,980
Give me a little time to work on

1404
00:29:01,020 --> 00:29:02,277
how I'm gonna come out

1405
00:29:02,317 --> 00:29:02,980
and be like,

1406
00:29:03,020 --> 00:29:05,980
"Hey, I'm done," you know.

1407
00:29:06,020 --> 00:29:06,874
You know, Washington

1408
00:29:06,914 --> 00:29:07,980
tried to give up drinking

1409
00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:09,980
for good in the past.

1410
00:29:10,020 --> 00:29:10,669
But it's hard.

1411
00:29:10,709 --> 00:29:11,980
I don't know where he's at.

1412
00:29:12,020 --> 00:29:13,980
I can't gauge it.

1413
00:29:14,020 --> 00:29:14,612
So, I guess

1414
00:29:14,652 --> 00:29:15,980
I just got to trust him.

1415
00:29:16,020 --> 00:29:17,152
That's the only way

1416
00:29:17,192 --> 00:29:18,980
that we're gonna move forward.

1417
00:29:19,020 --> 00:29:19,417
- I love you.

1418
00:29:19,457 --> 00:29:20,477
- I love you too.

1419
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:21,980
[music]

1420
00:29:22,020 --> 00:29:22,417
- I love you.

1421
00:29:22,457 --> 00:29:23,477
- I love you too.

1422
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,980
[music]

1423
00:29:26,020 --> 00:29:27,841
SINGER: ♪ Don't you know

1424
00:29:27,881 --> 00:29:29,980
we're just better together ♪

1425
00:29:30,020 --> 00:29:34,980
♪ I can't do better by myself ♪

1426
00:29:35,020 --> 00:29:36,851
♪ I'm not giving up

1427
00:29:36,891 --> 00:29:38,980
live better together ♪

1428
00:29:39,020 --> 00:29:41,980
♪ So, say you are... ♪

1429
00:29:42,020 --> 00:29:42,650
Lunar New Year

1430
00:29:42,690 --> 00:29:43,980
is about setting intentions,

1431
00:29:44,020 --> 00:29:44,931
and I intend

1432
00:29:44,971 --> 00:29:46,980
for Nate to be by my side.

1433
00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:48,568
- Hi, Mom. Hi, Dad.

1434
00:29:48,608 --> 00:29:48,980
- Hi.

1435
00:29:49,020 --> 00:29:49,987
JUDY:  I'm not gonna wait

1436
00:29:50,027 --> 00:29:50,980
until my divorce is over.

1437
00:29:51,020 --> 00:29:52,336
I'm not gonna wait

1438
00:29:52,376 --> 00:29:53,980
for anyone's approval.

1439
00:29:54,020 --> 00:29:55,605
I'm about to turn 40

1440
00:29:55,645 --> 00:29:56,980
and it's my time.

1441
00:29:57,020 --> 00:29:58,980
You come to visit us?

1442
00:29:59,020 --> 00:30:00,173
Well, I wanted to come

1443
00:30:00,213 --> 00:30:00,980
to talk to you.

1444
00:30:01,020 --> 00:30:03,000
BINH: Oh.

1445
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,576
We're gonna have a party

1446
00:30:05,616 --> 00:30:06,980
for my 40th birthday.

1447
00:30:07,020 --> 00:30:07,700
- I wanted to invite you.

1448
00:30:07,740 --> 00:30:08,340
- - Great.

1449
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:09,813
- Oh.

1450
00:30:09,853 --> 00:30:10,980
- Yeah.

1451
00:30:11,020 --> 00:30:11,535
Turning 40

1452
00:30:11,575 --> 00:30:12,980
is a big milestone for me.

1453
00:30:13,020 --> 00:30:14,980
It's not just a party.

1454
00:30:15,020 --> 00:30:17,010
That's half the whole life,

1455
00:30:17,050 --> 00:30:17,980
right? Forty.

1456
00:30:18,020 --> 00:30:18,611
Well, I hope

1457
00:30:18,651 --> 00:30:19,980
the second half of my life

1458
00:30:20,020 --> 00:30:21,760
is better than my first half.

1459
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,980
That's what I want you.

1460
00:30:24,020 --> 00:30:25,980
I want you to be there.

1461
00:30:26,020 --> 00:30:27,090
So, I'm gonna be have

1462
00:30:27,130 --> 00:30:27,980
my friends there.

1463
00:30:28,020 --> 00:30:28,525
All right.

1464
00:30:28,565 --> 00:30:29,980
I'm glad to see them again.

1465
00:30:30,020 --> 00:30:31,698
Yes. And then, you know,

1466
00:30:31,738 --> 00:30:33,000
Washington, Lesley

1467
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,000
and my boyfriend will be there.

1468
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:38,801
- Uh-oh.

1469
00:30:38,841 --> 00:30:42,000
- Uh-oh. What is the uh-oh for?

1470
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,000
[music]

1471
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:45,953
Your boyfriend,

1472
00:30:45,993 --> 00:30:47,980
who's the guy I don't know yet.

1473
00:30:48,020 --> 00:30:51,011
But I would like to invite him,

1474
00:30:51,051 --> 00:30:51,980
come here,

1475
00:30:52,020 --> 00:30:54,980
talk to me and meet with him.

1476
00:30:55,020 --> 00:30:56,980
You can meet him at the party.

1477
00:30:57,020 --> 00:30:57,509
And then afterwards,

1478
00:30:57,549 --> 00:30:57,980
we can have dinner

1479
00:30:58,020 --> 00:30:58,672
- and you can speak more--

1480
00:30:58,712 --> 00:30:58,980
- Hey, Judy.

1481
00:30:59,020 --> 00:31:00,980
--in-depth with him. Yes?

1482
00:31:01,020 --> 00:31:02,934
I don't come to him.

1483
00:31:02,974 --> 00:31:04,980
He should come to me.

1484
00:31:05,020 --> 00:31:05,818
- But it's my birthday.

1485
00:31:05,858 --> 00:31:06,980
- He wants to marry my daughter?

1486
00:31:07,020 --> 00:31:08,122
- He comes to talk to me.

1487
00:31:08,162 --> 00:31:08,980
- We're not talking

1488
00:31:09,020 --> 00:31:09,933
about marriage, Dad.

1489
00:31:09,973 --> 00:31:10,980
It's just my birthday.

1490
00:31:11,020 --> 00:31:11,980
That means you intend to.

1491
00:31:12,020 --> 00:31:13,368
You didn't say so,

1492
00:31:13,408 --> 00:31:14,980
but I read your mind.

1493
00:31:15,020 --> 00:31:16,980
I'm having a birthday party

1494
00:31:17,020 --> 00:31:18,844
and I want you to be there

1495
00:31:18,884 --> 00:31:20,000
to celebrate me.

1496
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,111
- Uh, Judy, honestly--

1497
00:31:25,151 --> 00:31:26,000
- Uh-huh.

1498
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:27,544
I don't wanna hurt

1499
00:31:27,584 --> 00:31:27,980
your feelings.

1500
00:31:28,020 --> 00:31:29,298
But right now,

1501
00:31:29,338 --> 00:31:31,000
I can tell you no.

1502
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,980
- No?

1503
00:31:34,020 --> 00:31:35,000
- Yeah.

1504
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:36,716
Just because my boyfriend

1505
00:31:36,756 --> 00:31:37,296
is there?

1506
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:39,980
Yes, ma'am.

1507
00:31:40,020 --> 00:31:44,000
[music]

1508
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,080
I have done everything

1509
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,980
you have asked of me

1510
00:31:50,020 --> 00:31:51,000
my whole life.

1511
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,841
I know that you would have

1512
00:31:53,881 --> 00:31:55,980
preferred that I stay married.

1513
00:31:56,020 --> 00:31:56,798
But I'm not asking

1514
00:31:56,838 --> 00:31:57,980
for your approval anymore.

1515
00:31:58,020 --> 00:32:00,354
- That's what I'm telling you.

1516
00:32:00,394 --> 00:32:00,980
- Uh-uh.

1517
00:32:01,020 --> 00:32:02,561
Trust me that I made

1518
00:32:02,601 --> 00:32:03,980
the right decision

1519
00:32:04,020 --> 00:32:05,980
for me and for the kids

1520
00:32:06,020 --> 00:32:07,320
and just try to see what

1521
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,980
I'm trying to do with my life.

1522
00:32:09,020 --> 00:32:10,195
We're better off now

1523
00:32:10,235 --> 00:32:11,015
than we were.

1524
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,606
I'm just inviting you

1525
00:32:14,646 --> 00:32:15,980
to my party

1526
00:32:16,020 --> 00:32:17,520
because I want you there.

1527
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,980
I'll leave it up to you.

1528
00:32:21,020 --> 00:32:21,751
I'm sorry.

1529
00:32:21,791 --> 00:32:23,980
I got to be say no right now.

1530
00:32:24,020 --> 00:32:25,480
But this party is gonna happen.

1531
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,980
My boyfriend is gonna be there.

1532
00:32:27,020 --> 00:32:28,759
My life is gonna go ahead.

1533
00:32:28,799 --> 00:32:30,000
It's gonna happen.

1534
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:31,695
This is my fear

1535
00:32:31,735 --> 00:32:32,980
that I would have to choose

1536
00:32:33,020 --> 00:32:34,274
between my parents

1537
00:32:34,314 --> 00:32:35,980
and my future with Nate.

1538
00:32:36,020 --> 00:32:37,980
And right now, I choose Nate.

1539
00:32:38,020 --> 00:32:39,304
I think I've heard everything

1540
00:32:39,344 --> 00:32:39,980
I need to hear.

1541
00:32:40,020 --> 00:32:40,980
I need to leave.

1542
00:32:41,020 --> 00:32:43,000
- Alright, go.

1543
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:44,980
[Judy sighs]

1544
00:32:45,020 --> 00:32:46,000
[music]

1545
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,980
SINGER: ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪

1546
00:32:52,020 --> 00:32:53,430
♪ Make it rain,

1547
00:32:53,470 --> 00:32:55,980
make it rain, I don't care ♪

1548
00:32:56,020 --> 00:32:58,688
♪ 'cause it's all about

1549
00:32:58,728 --> 00:32:59,980
the same ♪

1550
00:33:00,020 --> 00:33:00,631
♪ I'mma make

1551
00:33:00,671 --> 00:33:01,980
the best of any situation ♪

1552
00:33:02,020 --> 00:33:03,980
♪ Make it rain, make it rain ♪

1553
00:33:04,020 --> 00:33:08,000
♪ I don't care, I'mma be happy ♪

1554
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,000
♪ No, you can never rain on me ♪