1 00:00:07,006 --> 00:00:08,842 - This is part of the contract of being a Ho. 2 00:00:08,925 --> 00:00:11,886 You have to be able to withstand private jets. 3 00:00:11,970 --> 00:00:13,972 - ♪ I can do this all day ♪ 4 00:00:14,055 --> 00:00:15,807 [all squealing] 5 00:00:15,890 --> 00:00:17,308 - My parents are refugees. 6 00:00:17,392 --> 00:00:19,227 Came over here in 1975 from Vietnam. 7 00:00:19,310 --> 00:00:21,646 No money, they didn't speak English. 8 00:00:23,022 --> 00:00:24,441 [bell ringing] - Oh, my God. 9 00:00:24,524 --> 00:00:26,109 - Whoo-hoo-hoo! 10 00:00:26,192 --> 00:00:28,278 [gunshots, cheering] 11 00:00:30,488 --> 00:00:31,823 And one day he did it. 12 00:00:31,906 --> 00:00:33,700 - My family loves being American, 13 00:00:33,783 --> 00:00:36,494 but at the same time, they're old-school Vietnamese. 14 00:00:36,578 --> 00:00:40,457 So I have an announcement that I want to share with everybody. 15 00:00:40,540 --> 00:00:43,418 - Okay. - I've decided to file divorce. 16 00:00:46,921 --> 00:00:48,465 Thank you, Dad. 17 00:00:49,883 --> 00:00:52,302 - How can I help you today? - She talk a lot. 18 00:00:52,385 --> 00:00:54,512 Her husband, that same thing. 19 00:00:54,596 --> 00:00:56,639 That's why they fight. They crazy. 20 00:00:56,723 --> 00:00:58,683 - I'm not crazy. 21 00:00:58,767 --> 00:01:00,643 - We think you need to have sex. 22 00:01:00,727 --> 00:01:02,479 [laughs] - Oh, I'm having sex. 23 00:01:02,562 --> 00:01:05,482 All I have to say is I'm satisfied. 24 00:01:05,565 --> 00:01:07,150 both: Satisfied. 25 00:01:07,233 --> 00:01:09,944 - I know that you would have preferred that I stay married, 26 00:01:10,028 --> 00:01:12,363 but I'm not asking for your approval anymore. 27 00:01:12,447 --> 00:01:13,990 That's what I'm telling you. - [clears throat] 28 00:01:14,073 --> 00:01:16,075 - This is my fear-- that I would have to choose 29 00:01:16,159 --> 00:01:18,578 between my parents and my future with Nate. 30 00:01:18,661 --> 00:01:20,330 Everything looks good from the outside, 31 00:01:20,413 --> 00:01:22,332 but the inside is just so hard. 32 00:01:22,415 --> 00:01:24,501 - My mom was like, "If you marry Lesley, 33 00:01:24,584 --> 00:01:26,336 "you don't owe me and Dad nothing 34 00:01:26,419 --> 00:01:27,712 for the rest of your life." 35 00:01:27,796 --> 00:01:29,130 - Should that be on TV? 36 00:01:29,214 --> 00:01:30,840 - I'm a spoiled rich kid. 37 00:01:30,924 --> 00:01:32,550 - Looking fly. 38 00:01:32,634 --> 00:01:35,094 Biggest issue is the alcohol. 39 00:01:35,178 --> 00:01:36,679 - Now let's get fucked up. 40 00:01:36,763 --> 00:01:40,058 - You're my first wife. I hope you're my only wife. 41 00:01:40,141 --> 00:01:41,059 - [sniffles] 42 00:01:41,142 --> 00:01:43,269 - Wash introduced me to Judy 43 00:01:43,353 --> 00:01:44,729 about 20 years ago. 44 00:01:44,813 --> 00:01:46,773 - I was shocked. 45 00:01:46,856 --> 00:01:48,608 - I'm really happy for Judy, 46 00:01:48,691 --> 00:01:52,111 but I'm not sure my family's gonna survive this. 47 00:01:52,195 --> 00:01:55,114 ♪ ♪ 48 00:01:55,198 --> 00:01:56,699 - ♪ Yeah ♪ 49 00:01:56,783 --> 00:01:59,786 ♪ No fear, only fight ♪ 50 00:01:59,869 --> 00:02:02,789 ♪ I'm fearless, it's only right ♪ 51 00:02:02,872 --> 00:02:05,708 ♪ My head's up, I stay strong ♪ 52 00:02:05,792 --> 00:02:07,418 - ♪ Stay strong ♪ - ♪ Forever young ♪ 53 00:02:07,502 --> 00:02:08,920 - ♪ I am fearless ♪ 54 00:02:09,003 --> 00:02:12,590 - ♪ Uh-huh, I am fearless ♪ 55 00:02:12,674 --> 00:02:15,301 ♪ You know ♪ - ♪ I am fearless ♪ 56 00:02:15,385 --> 00:02:18,429 - ♪ You know ♪ - ♪ I am fearless ♪ 57 00:02:18,513 --> 00:02:20,014 - What kind of pizza are you making? 58 00:02:20,098 --> 00:02:22,350 - Cheese, pepperoni, prosciutto, and arugula. 59 00:02:22,433 --> 00:02:23,852 - Wow. - Something easy. 60 00:02:23,935 --> 00:02:25,520 - But we'll make that Vietnamese one you like. 61 00:02:25,603 --> 00:02:27,063 - The one with lap xuong? - Yeah. 62 00:02:27,146 --> 00:02:28,731 - And hoisin sauce? - Fish sauce. 63 00:02:28,815 --> 00:02:31,025 - And basil? - And mam thom. 64 00:02:31,109 --> 00:02:33,069 - No mam thom. - Ooh, that looks good, babe. 65 00:02:33,152 --> 00:02:35,071 - I would say at this point in our lives, 66 00:02:35,155 --> 00:02:38,658 our family is still as united as ever. 67 00:02:38,741 --> 00:02:40,493 Brunches and family dinners 68 00:02:40,577 --> 00:02:41,995 have gotten bigger than before. 69 00:02:42,078 --> 00:02:43,496 - Nate has everything. - Don't say that. 70 00:02:43,580 --> 00:02:44,998 He said he claims he's not bougie. 71 00:02:45,081 --> 00:02:46,583 - I'm not bougie. 72 00:02:46,666 --> 00:02:48,251 - My cousins Bella and Kim are back in town. 73 00:02:48,334 --> 00:02:50,920 - What would you like? You want the sausage, right? 74 00:02:51,004 --> 00:02:52,922 - I want a cheese sausage. 75 00:02:53,006 --> 00:02:54,424 - And what else? - And no tomatoes. 76 00:02:54,507 --> 00:02:56,676 - Nate and I are together and happy. 77 00:02:56,759 --> 00:02:58,761 I realized after the proposal 78 00:02:58,845 --> 00:03:00,471 that maybe we should take a pause 79 00:03:00,555 --> 00:03:02,307 and that Nate should spend some time 80 00:03:02,390 --> 00:03:04,559 getting to know my parents and my family. 81 00:03:04,642 --> 00:03:07,103 I think they like him more than they like me. 82 00:03:07,186 --> 00:03:09,105 - Aunt Tina, you want to take some shots? 83 00:03:09,188 --> 00:03:10,481 - You're taking shots? 84 00:03:10,565 --> 00:03:11,941 - Oh, I got cigars today. 85 00:03:12,025 --> 00:03:15,111 [chuckling] - So... 86 00:03:15,194 --> 00:03:17,113 What? - This shit is crazy. 87 00:03:17,196 --> 00:03:19,198 - What's tickling you, just being interviewed again? 88 00:03:19,282 --> 00:03:22,577 - No, I'm just like, okay, I'm just--it's just surreal. 89 00:03:22,660 --> 00:03:25,955 Being sober and doing this... 90 00:03:26,039 --> 00:03:27,665 interview is amazing. 91 00:03:27,749 --> 00:03:29,167 It's a lot more fun. 92 00:03:29,250 --> 00:03:31,461 You want to go smoke a cigar, Miss Aunt Tina. 93 00:03:31,544 --> 00:03:33,421 - What else you smoking? 94 00:03:33,504 --> 00:03:35,173 - We got cash. 95 00:03:35,256 --> 00:03:36,549 I'm gonna practice for tonight. 96 00:03:36,633 --> 00:03:37,967 - You're gonna burn the dollar bill? 97 00:03:38,051 --> 00:03:39,844 - Tonight? Where you go tonight? 98 00:03:39,928 --> 00:03:41,471 [laughter] 99 00:03:41,554 --> 00:03:43,556 - Honestly, the last couple years have been a shitshow. 100 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,141 But I'm really optimistic. 101 00:03:45,224 --> 00:03:49,646 Washington's given up alcohol for me and the kids. 102 00:03:49,729 --> 00:03:51,981 [upbeat hip-hop music] 103 00:03:52,065 --> 00:03:55,151 - Look at him. He practice with money already. 104 00:03:55,234 --> 00:03:56,778 - But he's still Washington Ho. 105 00:03:56,861 --> 00:03:58,488 And, yeah, he slipped up here and there, 106 00:03:58,571 --> 00:04:01,157 but he understands how his actions 107 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,159 has affected me, has affected his family. 108 00:04:03,242 --> 00:04:04,994 Roosevelt, where'd you get all that money? 109 00:04:05,078 --> 00:04:06,496 - What? Outside. 110 00:04:06,579 --> 00:04:08,915 [indistinct chatter] 111 00:04:08,998 --> 00:04:11,626 - Hi, guys, how you doing? - My famous uncle! 112 00:04:11,709 --> 00:04:14,003 - Andy! - What's up, guys? 113 00:04:14,087 --> 00:04:15,672 - Oh, Andy, he come late. 114 00:04:15,755 --> 00:04:17,882 Now you can go pick the trash out and bring the trash out. 115 00:04:17,966 --> 00:04:19,801 - Oh, thanks, Uncle Andy! 116 00:04:19,884 --> 00:04:21,427 - Welcome. Welcome, right? 117 00:04:21,511 --> 00:04:23,805 - Andy-- this my little brother. 118 00:04:23,888 --> 00:04:25,306 My younger brother-- he's not little anymore. 119 00:04:25,390 --> 00:04:27,141 - Where's my drink? What are we starting on? 120 00:04:27,225 --> 00:04:29,435 - Sometimes he'll correct me and say, "No. 121 00:04:29,519 --> 00:04:31,646 "Call me younger brother, not little. 122 00:04:31,729 --> 00:04:33,606 I'm taller than you, Tina." 123 00:04:33,690 --> 00:04:34,816 - Where's my baby? 124 00:04:34,899 --> 00:04:36,484 - Hi, baby. - Where's my baby? 125 00:04:36,567 --> 00:04:38,820 - My baby. Mwah! 126 00:04:40,154 --> 00:04:41,197 - You too. 127 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,907 - We're first cousins. 128 00:04:42,991 --> 00:04:45,368 My dad and Bella's dad 129 00:04:45,451 --> 00:04:48,079 are one of the four brothers of the family. 130 00:04:48,162 --> 00:04:49,872 - Oh, making something-- dessert? 131 00:04:49,956 --> 00:04:52,417 - We're making Chè Thai. - Ay. 132 00:04:52,500 --> 00:04:54,377 - Do you happen to have a can opener in your car? 133 00:04:54,460 --> 00:04:57,213 - No, but I do have a beer opener. [laughs] 134 00:04:57,296 --> 00:04:59,340 - We were both in California at one point, 135 00:04:59,424 --> 00:05:02,343 but we decided we missed our family. 136 00:05:02,427 --> 00:05:03,803 - So here we are. 137 00:05:03,886 --> 00:05:05,638 We're not roommates, we're life mates. 138 00:05:05,722 --> 00:05:06,931 She can't get rid of me. 139 00:05:07,015 --> 00:05:08,599 - Blinking twice for "come help me." 140 00:05:08,683 --> 00:05:11,310 - Can't see her. I don't know what she's talking about. 141 00:05:11,394 --> 00:05:13,771 - All right, pizza's done. - Come sit. 142 00:05:13,855 --> 00:05:18,401 - Thank you, Judy, for letting us come today together. 143 00:05:18,484 --> 00:05:20,611 The happy family together. 144 00:05:20,695 --> 00:05:24,032 - Thanks for coming. - Cheers. 145 00:05:24,115 --> 00:05:26,034 - Sunday Funday here we go. 146 00:05:26,117 --> 00:05:28,745 - No matter, we're eating homemade pizza. 147 00:05:28,828 --> 00:05:30,038 - With love. 148 00:05:30,121 --> 00:05:31,998 - Are you smoking right now? [chuckles] 149 00:05:32,081 --> 00:05:33,332 - What? 150 00:05:33,416 --> 00:05:35,126 ♪ ♪ 151 00:05:35,209 --> 00:05:36,794 Y'all are drinking in front of me. 152 00:05:36,878 --> 00:05:39,630 - Only person drinking is Dad, Tina, and Lesley. 153 00:05:39,714 --> 00:05:41,090 - Mine's watered down. 154 00:05:41,174 --> 00:05:42,759 - You don't want us to drink in front of you? 155 00:05:42,842 --> 00:05:45,762 - No, it's fine. Y'all can drink in front of me. 156 00:05:45,845 --> 00:05:48,848 - Does it bother you? - Sometimes. 157 00:05:48,931 --> 00:05:51,434 - When I see Washington anxious around alcohol, 158 00:05:51,517 --> 00:05:53,019 it makes me nervous. 159 00:05:53,102 --> 00:05:56,981 That just shows me that he's not quite comfortable 160 00:05:57,065 --> 00:05:58,941 with his sobriety. 161 00:05:59,025 --> 00:06:00,318 - In what way? 162 00:06:00,401 --> 00:06:02,070 - I'm just smoking a cigar, guys. 163 00:06:02,153 --> 00:06:06,741 - We honestly kind of had a terrible moment 164 00:06:06,824 --> 00:06:08,284 a few months ago. 165 00:06:08,367 --> 00:06:10,620 Washington and I went to Tulum 166 00:06:10,703 --> 00:06:12,622 to celebrate his 40th birthday. 167 00:06:12,705 --> 00:06:14,624 Washington spent $25,000 168 00:06:14,707 --> 00:06:18,044 because he orders nothing but champagne 169 00:06:18,127 --> 00:06:19,962 and tried smoking some marijuana there, 170 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:22,715 and I don't even think he remembers half of it. 171 00:06:22,799 --> 00:06:24,675 The fact that he relapsed 172 00:06:24,759 --> 00:06:28,429 almost felt like history was repeating itself. 173 00:06:28,513 --> 00:06:30,681 Since then, he's gotten help, 174 00:06:30,765 --> 00:06:33,267 and through lots and lots of therapy, 175 00:06:33,351 --> 00:06:36,604 he's focusing on not just being sober 176 00:06:36,687 --> 00:06:38,481 but mental health as well. 177 00:06:38,564 --> 00:06:41,400 - You know, the day my dad was driving me 178 00:06:41,484 --> 00:06:43,653 to the recovery center 179 00:06:43,736 --> 00:06:45,988 and my wife packed my bags, 180 00:06:46,072 --> 00:06:50,827 I was gonna be gone for up to, like, six to eight weeks, 181 00:06:50,910 --> 00:06:52,662 and my mom was making me food. 182 00:06:52,745 --> 00:06:56,374 And, really, we were only going 45 miles down the street. 183 00:06:56,457 --> 00:07:00,837 And that was the longest 45-mile drive I ever had. 184 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,548 But maybe it was the best drive I ever had. 185 00:07:03,631 --> 00:07:06,050 [child speaks indistinctly] Um... 186 00:07:06,134 --> 00:07:09,595 Hey, baby. Love you. 187 00:07:09,679 --> 00:07:12,515 This is the reason why I wanted to change-- 188 00:07:12,598 --> 00:07:15,101 so I could be there for my kids. 189 00:07:15,184 --> 00:07:17,770 - Let's toast to a beautiful family. 190 00:07:17,854 --> 00:07:19,772 - Cheers. - Cheers to family. 191 00:07:19,856 --> 00:07:22,275 [overlapping voices] 192 00:07:22,358 --> 00:07:24,026 [birds chirping] 193 00:07:24,110 --> 00:07:26,863 ♪ ♪ 194 00:07:26,946 --> 00:07:29,031 - You want to help me pack Daddy's lunch? 195 00:07:29,115 --> 00:07:30,032 - Daddy? - Yeah. 196 00:07:30,116 --> 00:07:31,576 He's going to work today. 197 00:07:31,659 --> 00:07:33,953 So we got to give him good, positive vibes, right? 198 00:07:34,036 --> 00:07:36,497 What color is this in Vietnamese? 199 00:07:36,581 --> 00:07:39,458 - Yellow. - Say it in Vietnamese. 200 00:07:39,542 --> 00:07:42,211 - Vang. - Vang. Good job! 201 00:07:42,295 --> 00:07:43,671 Good girl. 202 00:07:46,465 --> 00:07:48,134 Good job. - What are y'all doing? 203 00:07:48,217 --> 00:07:49,385 - Morning, honey. 204 00:07:49,468 --> 00:07:51,846 - Mom's making Daddy lunch today. 205 00:07:51,929 --> 00:07:54,724 Are you making Daddy lunch? - No! Ow! 206 00:07:54,807 --> 00:07:57,310 - Today Daddy's gonna sell three cars. 207 00:07:57,393 --> 00:07:59,770 I'm gonna make more money 208 00:07:59,854 --> 00:08:02,899 than your grandfather ever did in one day, 209 00:08:02,982 --> 00:08:05,109 and I'm taking us on vacation. 210 00:08:05,193 --> 00:08:08,446 Son, you love cars? - No. 211 00:08:08,529 --> 00:08:10,823 - You love cars. - No, I don't. 212 00:08:10,907 --> 00:08:12,575 - Yeah, you do. - What do you love? 213 00:08:12,658 --> 00:08:14,118 - I love playing with blocks. 214 00:08:14,202 --> 00:08:15,703 - You were made in a car, Roosevelt. 215 00:08:15,786 --> 00:08:17,580 Did you know that? - Nope. 216 00:08:17,663 --> 00:08:20,750 I was not made in a car. - You were not made in a car. 217 00:08:20,833 --> 00:08:25,046 My father-in-law's dream is to own a car dealership. 218 00:08:25,129 --> 00:08:26,631 So now Washington 219 00:08:26,714 --> 00:08:29,592 is selling cars to learn the business. 220 00:08:29,675 --> 00:08:32,720 - You said you would respect me if I had a 9:00 to 5:00. 221 00:08:32,803 --> 00:08:34,055 - That's true. 222 00:08:34,138 --> 00:08:38,017 - Working in a job where I have a boss, 223 00:08:38,100 --> 00:08:39,685 it's weird. 224 00:08:39,769 --> 00:08:41,270 - You can't get away with anything. 225 00:08:41,354 --> 00:08:42,939 - Yeah, I know. 226 00:08:43,022 --> 00:08:45,608 But each day I work there is one step closer 227 00:08:45,691 --> 00:08:48,236 to the dream of owning a car dealership. 228 00:08:48,319 --> 00:08:50,821 Come buy a car. 229 00:08:50,905 --> 00:08:54,075 I'm gonna go sell some cars... 230 00:08:54,158 --> 00:08:56,702 make some money... 231 00:08:56,786 --> 00:08:58,329 and be king of the Ho. 232 00:08:58,412 --> 00:09:02,625 Roosevelt, let's do our song, okay? 233 00:09:02,708 --> 00:09:04,961 [hip-hop music plays on phone] 234 00:09:05,044 --> 00:09:06,712 I got to get in the mode, you know? 235 00:09:06,796 --> 00:09:08,673 Sales are sales, honey. 236 00:09:08,756 --> 00:09:10,466 Ah, don't touch it. 237 00:09:10,549 --> 00:09:12,426 - ♪ If I tell them I did it, they say how much bigger ♪ 238 00:09:12,510 --> 00:09:14,428 ♪ I tell them we big because I'm a Ho ♪ 239 00:09:14,512 --> 00:09:18,266 - Washington created his own song, "King of the Hos." 240 00:09:18,349 --> 00:09:19,767 - ♪ The king of the Ho ♪ 241 00:09:19,850 --> 00:09:22,144 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ - [laughs] 242 00:09:22,228 --> 00:09:23,479 - ♪ I don't care if you're ready or not ♪ 243 00:09:23,562 --> 00:09:25,231 - Every morning I hear it. 244 00:09:25,314 --> 00:09:26,816 - ♪ King of the Ho ♪ - And every night I hear it. 245 00:09:26,899 --> 00:09:28,651 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ - Yeah! 246 00:09:28,734 --> 00:09:29,986 - ♪ Came from the bottom... ♪ 247 00:09:30,069 --> 00:09:31,821 - And my kids are now rapping it. 248 00:09:31,904 --> 00:09:33,823 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 249 00:09:33,906 --> 00:09:35,741 ♪ I don't care if you're ready or not ♪ 250 00:09:35,825 --> 00:09:38,119 - This is the quirkiness of Washington sober. 251 00:09:38,202 --> 00:09:39,537 He wakes up one morning, 252 00:09:39,620 --> 00:09:41,330 and he thinks he's the next Kanye West. 253 00:09:41,414 --> 00:09:43,416 - ♪ I get on my knees, continue to pray ♪ 254 00:09:43,499 --> 00:09:45,251 ♪ So, you haters, get out my way ♪ 255 00:09:45,334 --> 00:09:46,877 ♪ ♪ 256 00:09:46,961 --> 00:09:48,004 ♪ King of the Ho ♪ 257 00:09:48,087 --> 00:09:50,339 both: Yeah, baby! 258 00:09:50,423 --> 00:09:52,425 - You guys are gonna ruin the couch! 259 00:09:52,508 --> 00:09:54,885 - King of the Ho! 260 00:09:54,969 --> 00:09:57,513 - ♪ 'Cause this life's what you make it ♪ 261 00:09:57,596 --> 00:09:59,598 ♪ And some rules are for breaking ♪ 262 00:09:59,682 --> 00:10:02,810 ♪ This daddy he will play its role, you know... ♪ 263 00:10:02,893 --> 00:10:06,689 - How are you gonna bring up the conversation with my dad? 264 00:10:06,772 --> 00:10:08,274 - [sighs] You know what? 265 00:10:08,357 --> 00:10:10,318 I've tried to prep myself for this, but I have no idea. 266 00:10:10,401 --> 00:10:12,236 Like, a, "Hey. 267 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,948 Thanks for meeting us." 268 00:10:16,032 --> 00:10:18,951 You know, taking time out of his busy schedule. 269 00:10:19,035 --> 00:10:20,995 - This isn't a business deal, okay? 270 00:10:21,078 --> 00:10:22,997 You got to be more casual about it. 271 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,207 How about you start with-- - Yo, Pops! 272 00:10:25,291 --> 00:10:26,500 [both laugh] 273 00:10:26,584 --> 00:10:28,252 - Okay, it's not "Fresh Prince of Bel-Air." 274 00:10:28,336 --> 00:10:30,129 - Right, right. - Take a deep breath 275 00:10:30,212 --> 00:10:31,881 and remember who you're dealing with. 276 00:10:31,964 --> 00:10:33,549 [laughs] - Mr. and Mrs. Ho. 277 00:10:33,632 --> 00:10:34,633 - Yes. 278 00:10:34,717 --> 00:10:37,428 - Now you made it worse. [laughs] 279 00:10:37,511 --> 00:10:38,763 Oh, well... 280 00:10:38,846 --> 00:10:40,389 ♪ ♪ 281 00:10:40,473 --> 00:10:41,932 How are you guys doing? - Hi, Dad, good to see you. 282 00:10:42,016 --> 00:10:43,225 - Good to see you. - Come in. 283 00:10:43,309 --> 00:10:44,560 - Let's go in. 284 00:10:44,644 --> 00:10:46,479 So thanks for letting us in today... 285 00:10:46,562 --> 00:10:48,064 [laughing] 'Cause we need talk to you. 286 00:10:48,147 --> 00:10:49,982 - Well, you say something important 287 00:10:50,066 --> 00:10:52,485 you want to talk with me--it make me a little bit nervous. 288 00:10:52,568 --> 00:10:54,070 What it is? 289 00:10:54,153 --> 00:10:55,988 - Well, you know, 290 00:10:56,072 --> 00:10:59,283 when I first asked Judy to get engaged, 291 00:10:59,367 --> 00:11:02,912 I know it was a shock for everyone, especially Judy, 292 00:11:02,995 --> 00:11:05,664 but, you know, for the family, too. 293 00:11:05,748 --> 00:11:07,583 And now that we've taken some time, 294 00:11:07,666 --> 00:11:11,670 I appreciate the time to get to know who you are, 295 00:11:11,754 --> 00:11:14,590 what we're getting into, what I'm getting into. 296 00:11:14,673 --> 00:11:19,762 And, you know, Judy is a wonderful person, mother. 297 00:11:19,845 --> 00:11:23,766 And, you know, I would like to ask 298 00:11:23,849 --> 00:11:25,267 her hand in marriage, 299 00:11:25,351 --> 00:11:28,479 and we would love to have your blessings. 300 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:32,942 - Well... 301 00:11:33,025 --> 00:11:37,405 Nate, I want to ask you some personal question, 302 00:11:37,488 --> 00:11:39,198 man-to-man. - Oh. 303 00:11:39,281 --> 00:11:40,950 - Do you want me and Mom to leave? 304 00:11:41,033 --> 00:11:42,284 - No. 305 00:11:45,454 --> 00:11:49,834 - Right. - And something... 306 00:11:49,917 --> 00:11:52,628 not good happened in the past 307 00:11:52,711 --> 00:11:56,006 for your children, you know. - Right. 308 00:11:56,090 --> 00:11:58,926 - So I'm sorry to hear that. 309 00:11:59,009 --> 00:12:01,929 [somber music] 310 00:12:02,012 --> 00:12:03,514 ♪ ♪ 311 00:12:03,597 --> 00:12:07,560 - Last year Nate lost his children. 312 00:12:07,643 --> 00:12:11,021 ♪ ♪ 313 00:12:11,105 --> 00:12:13,858 [voice breaking] I can't say it without crying. 314 00:12:20,322 --> 00:12:24,827 His grief is vast and profound. 315 00:12:24,910 --> 00:12:28,164 I think any parent can understand that. 316 00:12:28,247 --> 00:12:32,418 - And I'm bringing that to remind you that right now 317 00:12:32,501 --> 00:12:37,256 you will stay with my grandchildren. 318 00:12:37,339 --> 00:12:39,175 And it remind you sometime, you know-- 319 00:12:39,258 --> 00:12:41,343 I know that it's hard for you. 320 00:12:41,427 --> 00:12:46,390 But please love them like you love your kids, okay? 321 00:12:48,350 --> 00:12:52,229 - I can't imagine what he feels inside every day. 322 00:12:52,313 --> 00:12:56,192 And it's especially hard because he lives with me, 323 00:12:56,275 --> 00:12:59,320 with my three children. 324 00:12:59,403 --> 00:13:03,741 And I know it reminds him of his children. 325 00:13:03,824 --> 00:13:06,452 - Taking care and love my grandbaby. 326 00:13:06,535 --> 00:13:08,037 That all I want. 327 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,538 - I will. 328 00:13:09,622 --> 00:13:11,957 - Everyone around him has surrounded him 329 00:13:12,041 --> 00:13:13,751 with so much support and love. 330 00:13:13,834 --> 00:13:17,880 And that's the only way he's been able to survive this year. 331 00:13:17,963 --> 00:13:19,924 [breathes shakily] 332 00:13:20,007 --> 00:13:22,426 ♪ ♪ 333 00:13:22,510 --> 00:13:25,387 I just hope that... 334 00:13:25,471 --> 00:13:27,139 [sighs] 335 00:13:27,223 --> 00:13:32,937 [sniffles] Nate knows how much we all love him 336 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:35,523 and that we're here for him. 337 00:13:35,606 --> 00:13:39,401 - I know you love my daughter, and I appreciate it. 338 00:13:39,485 --> 00:13:41,487 - Thank you for understanding. 339 00:13:41,570 --> 00:13:45,241 ♪ ♪ 340 00:13:45,324 --> 00:13:49,119 - Hey, Nate, we want to thank you for you ask, 341 00:13:49,203 --> 00:13:50,996 you know, engage my daughter. 342 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,582 I need to talk to your parents. 343 00:13:53,666 --> 00:13:56,502 So we want to go tradition engagement party 344 00:13:56,585 --> 00:13:58,254 we call a tea party. 345 00:13:58,337 --> 00:13:59,755 - Okay. 346 00:13:59,838 --> 00:14:02,925 - In American culture, the groom usually just asks 347 00:14:03,008 --> 00:14:05,553 the bride's father, and then it's a simple yes or no. 348 00:14:05,636 --> 00:14:08,430 In the Vietnamese culture, it requires both families 349 00:14:08,514 --> 00:14:10,307 to agree to the marriage. 350 00:14:10,391 --> 00:14:13,185 'Cause I know this is very meaningful to my parents, 351 00:14:13,269 --> 00:14:15,563 so for them and for Nate's parents, 352 00:14:15,646 --> 00:14:19,066 I think this is what they need to see to give their blessing. 353 00:14:19,149 --> 00:14:21,485 - You think you can handle Judy? 354 00:14:21,569 --> 00:14:23,028 - [laughs] 355 00:14:23,112 --> 00:14:25,656 - We'll find out. It's been good so far. 356 00:14:25,739 --> 00:14:28,242 I am very confident I can handle her. 357 00:14:28,325 --> 00:14:31,120 - Oh, that's good. - Hey, her favorite daughter. 358 00:14:31,203 --> 00:14:33,497 [laughter] 359 00:14:33,581 --> 00:14:35,124 - I try to spoil her. 360 00:14:35,207 --> 00:14:38,836 - We're very happy for you, both of you. 361 00:14:38,919 --> 00:14:42,464 - ♪ All I ever need ♪ 362 00:14:42,548 --> 00:14:44,174 - Congratulations. 363 00:14:44,258 --> 00:14:46,010 [laughter] - Thank you very much. 364 00:14:46,093 --> 00:14:49,221 It means a lot to us. - Thanks, Dad. 365 00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,140 - Ah, thank you. 366 00:14:51,223 --> 00:14:53,726 ♪ ♪ 367 00:14:53,809 --> 00:14:54,852 - Thanks, Mom. 368 00:14:54,935 --> 00:14:59,189 - ♪ All I ever need ♪ 369 00:14:59,273 --> 00:15:04,069 ♪ Is you ♪ 370 00:15:04,153 --> 00:15:07,031 ♪ ♪ 371 00:15:07,114 --> 00:15:08,991 [upbeat music] 372 00:15:09,074 --> 00:15:11,535 - Grandpa! - Hello. Hello. 373 00:15:11,619 --> 00:15:13,203 Hello. Ha ha. 374 00:15:13,287 --> 00:15:15,748 - Hi, Dad. Look... 375 00:15:15,831 --> 00:15:18,417 - How are you, Roosevelt? - Your favorite person's here. 376 00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:22,129 - Nate and Judy just come by. - What happened? 377 00:15:22,212 --> 00:15:24,673 - Nate ask me-- he want to engage Judy. 378 00:15:24,757 --> 00:15:26,300 - What'd you tell him? 379 00:15:26,383 --> 00:15:29,803 - I said I'm happy, but I would talk to family first. 380 00:15:29,887 --> 00:15:32,014 - Well, they both been through a lot, 381 00:15:32,097 --> 00:15:34,058 so I'm happy for both of them. 382 00:15:34,141 --> 00:15:37,770 I'm happy for Judy, but I'm a lot more happy for Nathan. 383 00:15:37,853 --> 00:15:39,772 And, you know, once he marries Judy, 384 00:15:39,855 --> 00:15:41,899 he'll be able to drink all the good liquor 385 00:15:41,982 --> 00:15:43,942 my dad saved for me in the future. 386 00:15:44,026 --> 00:15:47,738 And I'm kind of jealous. [laughs] 387 00:15:47,821 --> 00:15:49,740 [whispering] Fuck him and Reagan. 388 00:15:49,823 --> 00:15:51,700 - Hey, ba, I thought I heard you. 389 00:15:51,784 --> 00:15:53,369 - Oh, hello, how are you? 390 00:15:53,452 --> 00:15:56,455 - Honey, aren't you supposed to be at work? 391 00:15:56,538 --> 00:15:58,040 - There's nobody there. 392 00:15:58,123 --> 00:16:01,168 Nobody's looking to buy a car this early in the day. 393 00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:04,046 - Ba, how often did you take off for work 394 00:16:04,129 --> 00:16:05,798 when you were working? 395 00:16:05,881 --> 00:16:07,758 - I usually to work for myself, 396 00:16:07,841 --> 00:16:10,969 so I got work seven day. 397 00:16:11,053 --> 00:16:13,055 - I'm all about balance. 398 00:16:13,138 --> 00:16:15,265 - Work never stops. 399 00:16:15,349 --> 00:16:19,311 - I'm doing my number-one job right now--being a father. 400 00:16:19,395 --> 00:16:20,729 I'm being your husband. 401 00:16:20,813 --> 00:16:23,524 And I'm not out there doing what I used to do, 402 00:16:23,607 --> 00:16:24,983 so you should be happy. 403 00:16:26,443 --> 00:16:28,654 - Huh? - Where's the furniture? 404 00:16:28,737 --> 00:16:30,614 - Uh, honey? 405 00:16:30,698 --> 00:16:34,910 - [sighs] Oh, guess what. It's time to go to work, guys. 406 00:16:34,993 --> 00:16:37,413 - What? Tell me what happened. 407 00:16:37,496 --> 00:16:38,997 - I got to go to work, guys. 408 00:16:39,081 --> 00:16:40,749 Y'all want me to lose my first job? 409 00:16:40,833 --> 00:16:42,000 - Oh, man. - [scoffs] 410 00:16:42,084 --> 00:16:44,086 - Bye, kids. - Why he leave? 411 00:16:44,169 --> 00:16:46,839 I just asked a question. - You have to ask him. 412 00:16:46,922 --> 00:16:48,340 - What that mean? 413 00:16:48,424 --> 00:16:49,675 - That means you need to ask your son 414 00:16:49,758 --> 00:16:51,093 where the furniture is. - What? 415 00:16:51,176 --> 00:16:54,763 I give you $25,000 for furniture. 416 00:16:54,847 --> 00:16:56,557 So how you spend that much? 417 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,226 - You remember Washington's birthday? 418 00:16:59,309 --> 00:17:00,978 He spent that money in Tulum. 419 00:17:01,061 --> 00:17:05,649 You know, he bought champagne, rented a yacht, caviar. 420 00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:10,779 No, I tried. I tried to control it. I did. 421 00:17:10,863 --> 00:17:12,573 - And you want furniture now? 422 00:17:12,656 --> 00:17:14,616 - You know, the only reason I want furniture now 423 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:17,411 is because má was the one that told me 424 00:17:17,494 --> 00:17:21,039 that a businessman needs a nice living room, right? 425 00:17:21,123 --> 00:17:22,291 To do business. 426 00:17:22,374 --> 00:17:24,626 My mother-in-law found various reasons 427 00:17:24,710 --> 00:17:26,962 throughout our marriage to not come over, 428 00:17:27,045 --> 00:17:29,131 and it's always because of something. 429 00:17:29,214 --> 00:17:31,967 So it's either... I didn't have enough Marys. 430 00:17:32,050 --> 00:17:34,970 - One more to put in here. - You have another one? 431 00:17:35,053 --> 00:17:36,638 - Yeah, small one. 432 00:17:38,390 --> 00:17:39,641 Beautiful. 433 00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:42,561 - Or my couch sucks. 434 00:17:42,644 --> 00:17:45,647 So, if my mother-in-law isn't happy about something, 435 00:17:45,731 --> 00:17:47,858 you know Binh Ho is gonna fix that. 436 00:17:47,941 --> 00:17:49,485 - So what you planning? 437 00:17:49,568 --> 00:17:51,278 Now you spend all the money I give you, 438 00:17:51,361 --> 00:17:52,613 so what you planning? 439 00:17:52,696 --> 00:17:54,072 - I'm planning on him working for it 440 00:17:54,156 --> 00:17:55,824 and replacing it himself. 441 00:17:55,908 --> 00:17:57,201 I'm thinking of... 442 00:17:57,284 --> 00:17:59,828 He spent the money. He needs to fix it. 443 00:17:59,912 --> 00:18:01,663 - Well... 444 00:18:01,747 --> 00:18:04,541 I think recently he tried to do the best he can. 445 00:18:04,625 --> 00:18:09,171 You know, I don't think that you do anything to tell on him. 446 00:18:09,254 --> 00:18:12,508 Washington come back from some problem. 447 00:18:12,591 --> 00:18:15,844 I don't want anybody around here to trigger him. 448 00:18:15,928 --> 00:18:17,346 I want everything smoothly. 449 00:18:17,429 --> 00:18:20,390 Don't put him in jail. Just put him on probation. 450 00:18:20,474 --> 00:18:22,935 [chuckles] 451 00:18:24,394 --> 00:18:27,314 [upbeat music] 452 00:18:27,397 --> 00:18:30,192 ♪ ♪ 453 00:18:30,275 --> 00:18:31,318 - Hi. - Hi. 454 00:18:31,401 --> 00:18:32,820 - Appointment for Judy Ho. 455 00:18:32,903 --> 00:18:35,030 - Wonderful. The nurse is ready for you. 456 00:18:35,114 --> 00:18:36,657 - All right, thanks. - Thanks. 457 00:18:36,740 --> 00:18:38,784 - After the tragedy in Nate's life, 458 00:18:38,867 --> 00:18:42,246 we decided that we were gonna try for a baby. 459 00:18:42,329 --> 00:18:44,039 We couldn't do it the regular way 460 00:18:44,122 --> 00:18:46,250 because Nate had got a vasectomy, 461 00:18:46,333 --> 00:18:48,460 so we decided to go through IVF. 462 00:18:48,544 --> 00:18:49,878 - Hey, Doc. - Hey. 463 00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:51,296 - How are you doing today? - Come on in. 464 00:18:51,380 --> 00:18:52,756 I'm good. Good to see you, guys. 465 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,091 How are you doing? 466 00:18:54,174 --> 00:18:55,676 - Doing all right. - Okay, wonderful. 467 00:18:55,759 --> 00:18:57,803 Well, it's so good to see both of you. 468 00:18:57,886 --> 00:19:00,472 - Going through IVF, I think the hardest part 469 00:19:00,556 --> 00:19:03,600 is that you have no control over your body. 470 00:19:03,684 --> 00:19:06,478 No matter how much you try, no matter how 471 00:19:06,562 --> 00:19:08,564 much you want it, it's not up to me. 472 00:19:08,647 --> 00:19:11,567 You know, I'm so used to having a plan, 473 00:19:11,650 --> 00:19:14,027 and if I do this and I do that, if I just try hard enough, 474 00:19:14,111 --> 00:19:15,362 it'll happen. 475 00:19:15,445 --> 00:19:17,239 Is that from the show "Grey's Anatomy"? 476 00:19:17,322 --> 00:19:18,907 - Actually, it's an anatomy textbook, 477 00:19:18,991 --> 00:19:20,492 that's what the show is named after. 478 00:19:20,576 --> 00:19:22,744 - Oh, but it's spelled incorrectly, right? 479 00:19:22,828 --> 00:19:24,037 - [laughs] - No? 480 00:19:24,121 --> 00:19:25,664 - It's spelled right. - Oh! 481 00:19:25,747 --> 00:19:27,583 - The show is spelled incorrectly, I think. 482 00:19:27,666 --> 00:19:28,834 - Oh. - Yeah. 483 00:19:28,917 --> 00:19:30,335 It's a play on the anatomy textbook. 484 00:19:30,419 --> 00:19:32,045 - Ah, good to know. - Anatomy's all right. 485 00:19:32,129 --> 00:19:33,672 - All right, so it's been 486 00:19:33,755 --> 00:19:35,757 kind of an entire journey to get to this point. 487 00:19:35,841 --> 00:19:37,509 I know it's been a long road for you guys, 488 00:19:37,593 --> 00:19:39,011 a lot of ups and downs. - Yeah. 489 00:19:39,094 --> 00:19:41,096 - We thought we had gone through the hard part. 490 00:19:41,179 --> 00:19:43,473 - I know. The waiting and then... 491 00:19:43,557 --> 00:19:45,100 - Yeah. - You know, finding out 492 00:19:45,183 --> 00:19:47,019 what's gonna happen-- the waiting's hard. 493 00:19:47,102 --> 00:19:48,812 - Yeah. - So that's been tough. 494 00:19:48,896 --> 00:19:51,023 - So hopefully it's good news from here on out. 495 00:19:51,106 --> 00:19:53,734 - Absolutely. Well, nobody deserves it more. 496 00:19:53,817 --> 00:19:55,110 - Thanks. 497 00:19:55,193 --> 00:19:56,820 Emotionally, I think it was 498 00:19:56,904 --> 00:19:59,156 more difficult for us than other couples, 499 00:19:59,239 --> 00:20:01,366 just with Nate-- what he had gone through. 500 00:20:01,450 --> 00:20:03,452 He told me he couldn't ever imagine 501 00:20:03,535 --> 00:20:05,412 not hearing the word "dad" again. 502 00:20:05,495 --> 00:20:08,665 And, you know, that puts a lot of pressure on this process. 503 00:20:08,749 --> 00:20:10,000 But I'm now pregnant, 504 00:20:10,083 --> 00:20:12,669 and so far, things are looking great. 505 00:20:12,753 --> 00:20:15,631 - I know, even with good news, it sometimes feels hard 506 00:20:15,714 --> 00:20:18,050 to really be excited about it and to believe that it's real. 507 00:20:18,133 --> 00:20:21,261 But I think at this point, we're ten weeks along. 508 00:20:21,345 --> 00:20:24,264 Things have been looking phenomenal, by the textbook. 509 00:20:24,348 --> 00:20:26,350 Everything has been looking wonderful. 510 00:20:26,433 --> 00:20:28,810 So, yay! - [laughs] 511 00:20:28,894 --> 00:20:30,896 - We're excited. That's good news. Ten weeks. 512 00:20:30,979 --> 00:20:33,440 - I haven't told my family that I'm pregnant. 513 00:20:33,523 --> 00:20:36,818 I'd like to wait until after the engagement ceremony, 514 00:20:36,902 --> 00:20:38,654 where I feel comfortable sharing it. 515 00:20:38,737 --> 00:20:41,114 So I shouldn't get my pregnancy advice from "Grey's Anatomy"? 516 00:20:41,198 --> 00:20:43,075 - [laughing] Probably not. 517 00:20:43,158 --> 00:20:45,911 - Or any advice from "Grey's Anatomy," the show. 518 00:20:45,994 --> 00:20:47,245 - This is my McDreamy. 519 00:20:47,329 --> 00:20:48,956 [laughter] - You're so funny. 520 00:20:49,039 --> 00:20:51,041 I don't watch the show, so I don't know what that means. 521 00:20:51,124 --> 00:20:52,584 - Well, obviously, it's a good thing. 522 00:20:52,668 --> 00:20:54,169 - It sounds like a good thing. 523 00:20:54,252 --> 00:20:56,254 - Well, you guys made some McDreamy embryos, so... 524 00:20:56,338 --> 00:20:57,839 - Aw. - Thanks. 525 00:20:57,923 --> 00:21:00,133 - ♪ You know, we feeling G-double-O-D ♪ 526 00:21:00,217 --> 00:21:02,761 ♪ We are feeling so G-double-O-D ♪ 527 00:21:02,844 --> 00:21:05,847 ♪ We are feeling so G-double-O-D ♪ 528 00:21:05,931 --> 00:21:07,933 - Don't tell me you like this one. 529 00:21:08,016 --> 00:21:09,351 This would not go in our house. 530 00:21:09,434 --> 00:21:11,687 - My mom would love this. 531 00:21:11,770 --> 00:21:13,355 - Your mom? - Yeah. 532 00:21:13,438 --> 00:21:15,816 She would think this is very, 533 00:21:15,899 --> 00:21:18,068 you know... - Asian? 534 00:21:18,151 --> 00:21:19,987 - Oh, gosh, she would love this. 535 00:21:20,070 --> 00:21:22,698 Look at this. Come here, sit here. 536 00:21:22,781 --> 00:21:25,075 Come here, honey. Let me show you something. 537 00:21:25,158 --> 00:21:26,702 - Yeah. Ah. - What? 538 00:21:26,785 --> 00:21:28,203 - It's not very comfortable. 539 00:21:28,286 --> 00:21:31,039 - This will match, like, all the, you know... 540 00:21:31,123 --> 00:21:32,499 - The Marys that she brings over? 541 00:21:32,582 --> 00:21:33,709 - The Marys she brings over. 542 00:21:33,792 --> 00:21:35,335 - I'm not trying to match Marys. 543 00:21:35,419 --> 00:21:36,837 - And look. - It's a fan. 544 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,714 - It's like a sun over the mountains of Asia, 545 00:21:38,797 --> 00:21:41,717 where my mom would always think about our family. 546 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,053 - I'm not picking out furniture that reminds me of your mother. 547 00:21:45,137 --> 00:21:48,348 - [sighs] God, it's so hard to make all you Hos happy. 548 00:21:48,432 --> 00:21:51,059 Whoa! These are baller. 549 00:21:51,143 --> 00:21:52,894 - Focus. Couch. 550 00:21:52,978 --> 00:21:54,604 - Couch? - Couch. 551 00:21:54,688 --> 00:21:57,065 - God, everything is so beautiful. 552 00:21:57,149 --> 00:21:59,276 - Sit. Try it out. 553 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,361 Let's see. 554 00:22:01,445 --> 00:22:04,573 - There's 8s all over it, baby. We got to get it. 555 00:22:04,656 --> 00:22:08,243 Are you gonna forgive me for the 40th birthday episode? 556 00:22:08,326 --> 00:22:10,078 - Do you know what accountability means? 557 00:22:10,162 --> 00:22:11,455 - "Accountability"? - Yeah. 558 00:22:11,538 --> 00:22:12,914 Do you know what that means? - Yeah. 559 00:22:12,998 --> 00:22:15,083 Taking responsibility... - Uh-huh. 560 00:22:15,167 --> 00:22:16,710 - For your actions. 561 00:22:16,793 --> 00:22:19,421 - Okay. - So... 562 00:22:19,504 --> 00:22:21,256 So... 563 00:22:21,339 --> 00:22:24,885 when Washington Ho got back from Tulum, 564 00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:27,012 I thought she was really gonna leave me. 565 00:22:27,095 --> 00:22:28,388 - So... 566 00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:32,225 is this taking responsibility for your actions? 567 00:22:32,309 --> 00:22:33,810 - No. 568 00:22:33,894 --> 00:22:36,146 I mean, yes. 569 00:22:36,229 --> 00:22:39,941 I mean, it's not like I killed anybody, but, jeez. 570 00:22:40,025 --> 00:22:41,193 - [scoffs] 571 00:22:42,861 --> 00:22:46,698 - Come here, baby. Got a warm spot for you. 572 00:22:48,033 --> 00:22:51,078 - All right. - Okay. 573 00:22:51,161 --> 00:22:53,121 - Come here. Let's practice. - [scoffs] 574 00:22:53,205 --> 00:22:55,582 - Let's see what it would feel like at home. 575 00:22:57,375 --> 00:22:59,628 - Oh! Stop. Okay, we're in public. 576 00:22:59,711 --> 00:23:01,171 - What? - We're in public. 577 00:23:01,254 --> 00:23:03,298 - Oh, my God, it's been so long. 578 00:23:03,381 --> 00:23:04,925 - Shut up. 579 00:23:05,008 --> 00:23:07,969 - Are you gonna forgive me for the 40th birthday episode? 580 00:23:08,053 --> 00:23:10,388 - No. Not until I get my couch. 581 00:23:10,472 --> 00:23:12,974 Let's see what else they have. - Ah. 582 00:23:13,058 --> 00:23:16,645 You're too much sometimes. - You're too much sometimes. 583 00:23:16,728 --> 00:23:19,314 [lively music] 584 00:23:19,397 --> 00:23:20,649 - ♪ Money, money ♪ 585 00:23:20,732 --> 00:23:22,776 ♪ I just can't get enough ♪ 586 00:23:22,859 --> 00:23:24,653 ♪ Money, money ♪ 587 00:23:24,736 --> 00:23:27,948 ♪ I just can't get enough, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 588 00:23:28,031 --> 00:23:30,200 - Money time. - Revenge time. 589 00:23:30,283 --> 00:23:31,576 Last time the girls took our money. 590 00:23:31,660 --> 00:23:34,871 Now the boys gonna take some money back. 591 00:23:34,955 --> 00:23:36,414 - What I got? 592 00:23:38,542 --> 00:23:40,585 - Okay, that's it. You're the best. 593 00:23:40,669 --> 00:23:41,962 - Lucky man. 594 00:23:42,045 --> 00:23:44,673 - Look how he is. He wear all the gold. 595 00:23:44,756 --> 00:23:46,007 - Yeah, it's good luck. Good luck. 596 00:23:46,091 --> 00:23:48,176 You have to wear green for money and gold. 597 00:23:48,260 --> 00:23:50,804 That's why I wear green today. 598 00:23:50,887 --> 00:23:54,182 - You think he get luck today? - Never know. 599 00:23:54,266 --> 00:23:56,685 - When we're family that play cards together, 600 00:23:56,768 --> 00:23:58,937 we got the chance to enjoy the life. 601 00:23:59,020 --> 00:24:01,439 We show how the brothers, sisters 602 00:24:01,523 --> 00:24:03,191 love each other and have a good time. 603 00:24:03,275 --> 00:24:05,861 And we got the chance to remind when we're the kid. 604 00:24:05,944 --> 00:24:08,864 That's not about money-- about the fun. 605 00:24:08,947 --> 00:24:10,323 Hey, why you touch my money? 606 00:24:10,407 --> 00:24:12,450 - Because it dropped on the floor--bad luck. 607 00:24:12,534 --> 00:24:15,537 - No. - I put my money right here. 608 00:24:15,620 --> 00:24:16,997 [laughter] 609 00:24:29,134 --> 00:24:31,469 - So far, so good. - [chuckles] 610 00:24:40,645 --> 00:24:42,898 - They have the privacy. I don't want to answer that. 611 00:24:42,981 --> 00:24:45,442 - I know it's her business. That's her choice. 612 00:24:45,525 --> 00:24:47,235 But I just want to see, how do you accept it? 613 00:24:47,319 --> 00:24:50,447 Like, for example, if she have a baby before the wedding. 614 00:24:50,530 --> 00:24:52,240 Right now maybe she probably doesn't show. 615 00:24:52,324 --> 00:24:55,118 Well, what about she have the baby before the wedding? 616 00:24:56,870 --> 00:25:00,749 - Let me tell you what-- Judy, she 40, okay? 617 00:25:00,832 --> 00:25:03,043 And, you know, when the lady is 40, 618 00:25:03,126 --> 00:25:05,253 it hard to get a baby. 619 00:25:05,337 --> 00:25:06,963 I understand that. - Okay. 620 00:25:07,047 --> 00:25:09,341 - But that's not my contrary decision. 621 00:25:09,424 --> 00:25:12,427 - You see-- - Very, very, very hard for me. 622 00:25:12,510 --> 00:25:14,554 - You'll be like your way or no way. 623 00:25:14,638 --> 00:25:17,682 But now it's 2022. - I understand that. 624 00:25:17,766 --> 00:25:19,267 - Hey, I heard a rumor 625 00:25:19,351 --> 00:25:22,312 that Lesley want to get pregnant, too. 626 00:25:22,395 --> 00:25:24,439 So you think they ready for another one? 627 00:25:24,522 --> 00:25:26,233 - As soon as they want the baby. 628 00:25:34,991 --> 00:25:37,035 - I have Reagan. You got one. - Uh-huh. 629 00:25:37,118 --> 00:25:41,373 Okay, what if Reagan have a baby without marry? 630 00:25:41,456 --> 00:25:42,874 - Ha ha ha. - [chuckles] 631 00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:45,835 - He wants more grandchildren. 632 00:25:45,919 --> 00:25:47,754 - Of course. 633 00:25:49,172 --> 00:25:51,925 [laughter] 634 00:25:52,008 --> 00:25:55,220 [upbeat music] 635 00:25:55,303 --> 00:25:57,681 - ♪ And let in the glow ♪ 636 00:25:57,764 --> 00:26:00,350 ♪ Let it glow, let in the glow ♪ 637 00:26:00,433 --> 00:26:03,144 ♪ Let it glow, let in the glow ♪ 638 00:26:03,228 --> 00:26:06,439 - After a long journey with this engagement, 639 00:26:06,523 --> 00:26:08,566 we decided to go the traditional route. 640 00:26:08,650 --> 00:26:10,193 - ♪ Just let in the glow ♪ 641 00:26:10,277 --> 00:26:12,112 - This is really for our family and for our parents, 642 00:26:12,195 --> 00:26:13,738 to make them happy, right? - Yeah. 643 00:26:13,822 --> 00:26:16,324 Binh Ho was like, "You got to do this." 644 00:26:16,408 --> 00:26:19,411 So the decision was pretty easy. 645 00:26:19,494 --> 00:26:21,788 [both laugh] 646 00:26:21,871 --> 00:26:23,707 ♪ ♪ 647 00:26:23,790 --> 00:26:26,584 - We always talk about how, like, when we were growing up, 648 00:26:26,668 --> 00:26:28,336 Judy wore off-the-shoulder tops. 649 00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:30,255 And Jenny's like, "I want to be like Judy." 650 00:26:30,338 --> 00:26:31,798 - When I had blond hair? 651 00:26:31,881 --> 00:26:33,341 - Yeah, we worshipped the ground 652 00:26:33,425 --> 00:26:35,343 that you guys walk on. - I love you guys more. 653 00:26:35,427 --> 00:26:37,595 I remember when you guys were born, okay? 654 00:26:37,679 --> 00:26:39,639 So that's how old I am. 655 00:26:39,723 --> 00:26:42,517 Bella and Kim are way ahead of the game at their age. 656 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,644 You know, they really are confident 657 00:26:44,728 --> 00:26:46,354 and secure in who they are. 658 00:26:46,438 --> 00:26:48,148 - I'm about to cry right now. I'm about to cry another time. 659 00:26:48,231 --> 00:26:49,858 - I know. I just want to give you a hug. 660 00:26:49,941 --> 00:26:52,277 - Why do you guys want to cry? This is a happy day. 661 00:26:52,360 --> 00:26:54,279 - She broke up with her boyfriend. 662 00:26:54,362 --> 00:26:56,656 - Oh, I didn't know that. Oh. 663 00:26:56,740 --> 00:26:59,117 - When did you know when it was time to call it quits 664 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,160 with your ex? 665 00:27:00,243 --> 00:27:01,828 - Um... 666 00:27:01,911 --> 00:27:04,289 when you're in a relationship and you feel like, 667 00:27:04,372 --> 00:27:07,375 "I can't fully be myself. I have to watch what I say. 668 00:27:07,459 --> 00:27:09,836 "I have to, like, walk on eggshells. 669 00:27:09,919 --> 00:27:11,379 I don't know what version 670 00:27:11,463 --> 00:27:13,381 I'm getting of my partner that day." 671 00:27:13,465 --> 00:27:16,551 - I saw that you were putting out 672 00:27:16,634 --> 00:27:18,720 more of an effort than he was. - Mm-hmm. 673 00:27:18,803 --> 00:27:21,723 I feel like any relationship that you're like, 674 00:27:21,806 --> 00:27:23,516 "Oh, my God, this is so difficult," 675 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,226 you know, it's not worth it. - When you're trying so hard. 676 00:27:25,310 --> 00:27:26,728 - Yeah, and then when they mess up 677 00:27:26,811 --> 00:27:28,521 and they don't take accountability for it, 678 00:27:28,605 --> 00:27:30,690 they're not responsible for their part in it, 679 00:27:30,774 --> 00:27:32,275 that makes it even worse, right? 680 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,235 You want to be with somebody who you're proud of, 681 00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:36,613 who you want to be like, "This is my partner. 682 00:27:36,696 --> 00:27:38,740 "He represents what I stand for 683 00:27:38,823 --> 00:27:41,034 and not someone I have to make excuses for." 684 00:27:41,117 --> 00:27:42,410 You don't want to be in a position 685 00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:43,912 where you're married to someone, 686 00:27:43,995 --> 00:27:45,663 and the only reason that you're with them 687 00:27:45,747 --> 00:27:47,457 is because you have kids together. 688 00:27:47,540 --> 00:27:49,209 You know what I mean? You don't want to be in that position. 689 00:27:49,292 --> 00:27:50,919 - And your kids will know. - Exactly. 690 00:27:51,002 --> 00:27:53,296 - Let me tell you-- marriage is so hard, you know, 691 00:27:53,380 --> 00:27:56,007 and it was easy for Washington and I when we were dating. 692 00:27:56,091 --> 00:27:59,636 And you know what we've gone through 693 00:27:59,719 --> 00:28:01,846 and that took time to get to where we're at, 694 00:28:01,930 --> 00:28:04,599 and I don't want that for you, you know what I'm saying? 695 00:28:04,682 --> 00:28:06,226 [voice breaking] Like, I don't want you to have 696 00:28:06,309 --> 00:28:09,104 to go into a relationship and have to think 697 00:28:09,187 --> 00:28:10,980 about, like, kids, and, you know-- 698 00:28:11,064 --> 00:28:13,775 - Oh, my God, we're all crying. [laughter] 699 00:28:13,858 --> 00:28:16,444 - Trust me, if I can get divorced at 40 with 3 kids, 700 00:28:16,528 --> 00:28:17,987 you can definitely move on from this. 701 00:28:18,071 --> 00:28:20,323 [laughs] If I were you-- - You'll look back, 702 00:28:20,407 --> 00:28:21,866 and you'll be like, "Oh, my gosh." 703 00:28:21,950 --> 00:28:23,410 - We're gonna take you to, like, Miami 704 00:28:23,493 --> 00:28:24,828 and, like, hook you up with some hotties, 705 00:28:24,911 --> 00:28:26,162 and you're gonna forget about this. 706 00:28:26,246 --> 00:28:27,539 - No more sadness. I'm so sorry. 707 00:28:27,622 --> 00:28:29,332 [laughter] - It's okay. It's okay. 708 00:28:29,416 --> 00:28:31,793 - This is your day. We're here for you. 709 00:28:31,876 --> 00:28:34,212 - Oh. - [laughs] 710 00:28:34,295 --> 00:28:36,297 - Should I go first? 711 00:28:36,381 --> 00:28:38,800 - Follow chú, then Mom and Dad will go, 712 00:28:38,883 --> 00:28:40,468 the procession, and then the rest. 713 00:28:40,552 --> 00:28:41,845 Okay? - Sounds good. 714 00:28:41,928 --> 00:28:44,264 The traditional engagement ceremony 715 00:28:44,347 --> 00:28:46,808 for Vietnamese people starts out 716 00:28:46,891 --> 00:28:51,521 with the groom's family walking over with gifts. 717 00:28:51,604 --> 00:28:53,815 - And each gift has a meaning to it. 718 00:28:53,898 --> 00:28:56,526 You guys walk up to the door, and you have a representative 719 00:28:56,609 --> 00:28:58,820 that knocks on my parents' door. 720 00:28:58,903 --> 00:29:00,697 - Waiting for permission to come into your house. 721 00:29:00,780 --> 00:29:02,949 - My side also has a representative 722 00:29:03,032 --> 00:29:06,077 that gives the groom's side permission to enter the house, 723 00:29:06,161 --> 00:29:08,455 and once that permission is granted... 724 00:29:08,538 --> 00:29:10,582 - Then your parents come out to greet us, 725 00:29:10,665 --> 00:29:13,334 saying that he's gonna welcome us into his home. 726 00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:16,254 - You look good, Nate. Don't cry. 727 00:29:16,337 --> 00:29:19,090 - You do look good, Nate. - You go, Nate. 728 00:29:19,174 --> 00:29:22,177 - Sexiest man of the year. [laughter] 729 00:29:22,260 --> 00:29:25,138 [mellow music] 730 00:29:25,221 --> 00:29:27,307 ♪ ♪ 731 00:29:27,390 --> 00:29:30,560 - Thank you. - Come in. 732 00:29:30,643 --> 00:29:32,812 - In all honesty, a lot of these traditions 733 00:29:32,896 --> 00:29:35,982 are lost on me. 734 00:29:36,065 --> 00:29:37,650 - Us. - On both of us. 735 00:29:37,734 --> 00:29:41,070 ♪ ♪ 736 00:29:49,287 --> 00:29:51,831 - You're so nervous? - Yeah. 737 00:29:51,915 --> 00:29:53,208 - Too late. Can't change your mind now. 738 00:29:53,291 --> 00:29:54,792 - I didn't change my mind. 739 00:29:54,876 --> 00:29:56,920 - You worked too hard for this. - Don't be nervous. 740 00:29:57,003 --> 00:29:59,088 - But what's not lost on me is how much I do love Judy... 741 00:29:59,172 --> 00:30:01,466 [cheers and applause] 742 00:30:01,549 --> 00:30:03,259 And how much it means to our family. 743 00:30:03,343 --> 00:30:06,346 - Oh, my God. - You look beautiful, Judy. 744 00:30:06,429 --> 00:30:08,014 - Thanks, Wash. 745 00:30:08,097 --> 00:30:10,058 - Sometimes going through the emotions 746 00:30:10,141 --> 00:30:12,185 is important for us. 747 00:30:24,656 --> 00:30:27,742 [cheers and applause] 748 00:30:33,831 --> 00:30:38,753 - The tea represents drinking to family and the ancestors... 749 00:30:38,836 --> 00:30:41,214 - Mm-hmm. - For their blessings. 750 00:30:41,297 --> 00:30:45,468 - And then we pour tea for your parents first... 751 00:30:45,552 --> 00:30:46,886 and then my parents. 752 00:30:46,970 --> 00:30:48,638 - Out of respect. - Yes. 753 00:30:48,721 --> 00:30:50,473 - Thank you. 754 00:30:50,557 --> 00:30:53,434 - During the tea ceremony, I realize how far 755 00:30:53,518 --> 00:30:56,354 me and Nate have come from the beginning of our relationship 756 00:30:56,437 --> 00:30:59,607 and knowing that we were about to receive my parent's 757 00:30:59,691 --> 00:31:01,234 blessing as well as his parents. 758 00:31:01,317 --> 00:31:03,444 - Thank you. 759 00:31:03,528 --> 00:31:06,197 - So now you are officially engaged. 760 00:31:06,281 --> 00:31:08,908 [cheers and applause] 761 00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:12,370 - My dad is really proud and happy to host us. 762 00:31:12,453 --> 00:31:14,581 To move forward with everyone's blessing 763 00:31:14,664 --> 00:31:16,916 makes it a lot easier for our relationship. 764 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,626 - First, thank you for coming here today 765 00:31:18,710 --> 00:31:20,545 and helping Judy and I celebrate 766 00:31:20,628 --> 00:31:21,546 our formal engagement. 767 00:31:21,629 --> 00:31:22,755 If you guys remember, 768 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:24,799 there was a previous engagement. 769 00:31:24,882 --> 00:31:28,595 It was a big moment for us. We were very in love. 770 00:31:28,678 --> 00:31:31,139 After that night, though, we took some time 771 00:31:31,222 --> 00:31:33,016 for our family to get to know each other, 772 00:31:33,099 --> 00:31:34,475 and I think they have. 773 00:31:34,559 --> 00:31:36,686 They're good friends, and they get along. 774 00:31:36,769 --> 00:31:38,980 - We got scared of my dad. - Yeah, so we took it-- 775 00:31:39,063 --> 00:31:41,566 Yeah, yeah, still very scared of you dad. 776 00:31:41,649 --> 00:31:42,900 [laughter] 777 00:31:42,984 --> 00:31:45,612 But, you know, finally, I do think 778 00:31:45,695 --> 00:31:49,365 the time is right to do that right now. 779 00:31:49,449 --> 00:31:51,784 And so, Judy... 780 00:31:53,202 --> 00:31:57,790 - Aah! - Will you officially marry me? 781 00:31:57,874 --> 00:32:01,419 [all cheering] Yes? 782 00:32:01,502 --> 00:32:02,629 - Yes! 783 00:32:02,712 --> 00:32:05,673 [percussive music playing] 784 00:32:05,757 --> 00:32:08,009 - [squeals happily] 785 00:32:08,092 --> 00:32:14,974 ♪ ♪ 786 00:32:15,058 --> 00:32:18,311 [romantic music] 787 00:32:18,394 --> 00:32:19,854 ♪ ♪ 788 00:32:19,937 --> 00:32:21,522 - This is the beginning 789 00:32:21,606 --> 00:32:24,108 of something that will last for the rest of my life. 790 00:32:25,777 --> 00:32:29,614 I truly feel like Nate is my soul mate. 791 00:32:29,697 --> 00:32:32,742 ♪ ♪ 792 00:32:32,825 --> 00:32:35,244 He understands me like no one else. 793 00:32:35,328 --> 00:32:39,207 And through it all, we've had each other. 794 00:32:39,290 --> 00:32:41,751 We've leaned on each other. 795 00:32:41,834 --> 00:32:45,171 And I feel at this point, we've been through the worst, 796 00:32:45,254 --> 00:32:47,715 so there's nothing that can stop us. 797 00:32:47,799 --> 00:32:54,555 - ♪ All I ever wanted ♪ 798 00:32:54,639 --> 00:33:01,145 ♪ All I ever need ♪ 799 00:33:01,229 --> 00:33:05,233 ♪ Is you ♪ 800 00:33:05,316 --> 00:33:09,362 [indistinct chatter] 801 00:33:09,445 --> 00:33:11,698 - [speaking Vietnamese] 802 00:33:11,781 --> 00:33:13,491 - Vanessa and I have got to know each other 803 00:33:13,574 --> 00:33:16,244 through various family get-togethers, 804 00:33:16,327 --> 00:33:20,873 and she just makes you feel so good when you see her. 805 00:33:23,251 --> 00:33:24,919 I'm a hugger. Vanessa's a hugger. 806 00:33:25,002 --> 00:33:26,546 I definitely feel like I don't get 807 00:33:26,629 --> 00:33:28,089 that kind of affection from Judy. 808 00:33:28,172 --> 00:33:31,843 In the seven years that I've known her... 809 00:33:31,926 --> 00:33:34,303 I think we've had one drunken hug. 810 00:33:34,387 --> 00:33:36,055 She'll deny it, but we did. 811 00:33:36,139 --> 00:33:37,807 - We love you so much. - Thank you 812 00:33:37,890 --> 00:33:39,726 for being so kind to me and welcoming me to your family. 813 00:33:39,809 --> 00:33:41,144 - Oh, my God, I love you. 814 00:33:41,227 --> 00:33:43,104 That's the best shit that ever happened to you. 815 00:33:43,187 --> 00:33:45,273 - What? Judy? - This, this--her. 816 00:33:45,356 --> 00:33:46,774 - Aw. - She is pretty great. 817 00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:50,111 - Happy right now because of you. 818 00:33:50,194 --> 00:33:53,239 - I love him very much, and I will take care of him. 819 00:33:53,322 --> 00:33:54,991 - You promise? - Yes. 820 00:33:55,074 --> 00:33:56,451 [laughs] 821 00:33:56,534 --> 00:33:58,286 - Yeah, always be there for him. 822 00:33:58,369 --> 00:33:59,954 - She's been drinking. - She's been drinking? 823 00:34:00,037 --> 00:34:01,080 - No. 824 00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:02,415 - A little bit. [laughter] 825 00:34:02,498 --> 00:34:04,125 - She has, but she's also emotional. 826 00:34:04,208 --> 00:34:06,252 - She always thinks I'm drinking when I hug her, too. 827 00:34:06,335 --> 00:34:08,921 - Oh, my God, don't say that. - Okay, okay. 828 00:34:09,005 --> 00:34:10,757 - You hug somebody, that's because we love...you. 829 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,343 - 'Cause we love you. - I love you, too. 830 00:34:14,427 --> 00:34:16,429 - Where's Reagan, though? 831 00:34:16,512 --> 00:34:17,805 Come on, Reagan. 832 00:34:17,889 --> 00:34:19,098 - You don't have to say anything. 833 00:34:19,182 --> 00:34:20,850 Just smile and drink with us. 834 00:34:20,933 --> 00:34:22,477 Can we get a drink and then toast? 835 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:23,811 Is that okay? - Shots. 836 00:34:23,895 --> 00:34:25,772 Happy to be back? Thanks for coming back. 837 00:34:25,855 --> 00:34:27,315 - Of course. - Yeah. 838 00:34:27,398 --> 00:34:29,317 I know that, you know, you're busy with work, 839 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,860 so I'm glad you're here to celebrate with me. 840 00:34:30,943 --> 00:34:32,528 - Anything for Judy. - You're my favorite. 841 00:34:32,612 --> 00:34:34,572 - I like that motto. Nate has that motto, too. 842 00:34:34,655 --> 00:34:36,365 - Yeah. - That's true. 843 00:34:36,449 --> 00:34:39,952 Judy has been taking care of us two since we were little kids. 844 00:34:40,036 --> 00:34:41,662 So... - Happy to do it. 845 00:34:41,746 --> 00:34:43,664 But I still take care of them now. 846 00:34:43,748 --> 00:34:45,249 - Yeah. Yes, you do, pretty much. 847 00:34:45,333 --> 00:34:47,835 - Both Nate and I have been married before, 848 00:34:47,919 --> 00:34:50,505 so we don't enter into this lightly. 849 00:34:50,588 --> 00:34:52,173 And we know that by getting married, 850 00:34:52,256 --> 00:34:54,467 we're marrying into each other's extended families. 851 00:34:54,550 --> 00:34:56,344 And sometimes that can be a lot. 852 00:34:56,427 --> 00:34:58,805 For better or worse, here we go. 853 00:34:58,888 --> 00:35:00,223 - One for you. 854 00:35:00,306 --> 00:35:01,933 - Reagan said his motto is "anything for Judy." 855 00:35:02,016 --> 00:35:03,893 I said you have the same motto. - I have the same motto! 856 00:35:03,976 --> 00:35:05,853 - That's what I said! - We should get T-shirts. 857 00:35:05,937 --> 00:35:09,106 [laughter] - Yes! Yes! 858 00:35:09,190 --> 00:35:10,107 - Cheers. 859 00:35:10,191 --> 00:35:12,360 - Cheers. Congrats, guys. 860 00:35:12,443 --> 00:35:14,529 - Whoo! 861 00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:15,905 - Cheers. 862 00:35:15,988 --> 00:35:19,116 [upbeat music] 863 00:35:21,035 --> 00:35:23,955 [van beeping] 864 00:35:24,038 --> 00:35:26,916 ♪ ♪ 865 00:35:26,999 --> 00:35:28,501 [van door opens] 866 00:35:28,584 --> 00:35:30,086 - Whoo! 867 00:35:30,169 --> 00:35:33,714 Got my butterfly chairs, baby. 868 00:35:33,798 --> 00:35:35,466 These chairs give me energy. 869 00:35:35,550 --> 00:35:37,510 These chairs cost more than a car. 870 00:35:37,593 --> 00:35:39,387 - Here we go again. 871 00:35:39,470 --> 00:35:42,348 Washington somehow manages to fix everything 872 00:35:42,431 --> 00:35:43,474 through Binh Ho. 873 00:35:43,558 --> 00:35:44,892 - You're welcome. 874 00:35:44,976 --> 00:35:46,686 - And how did you think this all happened? 875 00:35:46,769 --> 00:35:49,230 - 'Cause of my mojo, baby. - Whatever. 876 00:35:49,313 --> 00:35:52,733 - All right, guys, let's bring the chairs in. 877 00:35:52,817 --> 00:35:54,068 Okay. 878 00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:56,404 - I feel like I'm always the bad guy 879 00:35:56,487 --> 00:35:59,073 in trying to teach him these little lessons 880 00:35:59,156 --> 00:36:02,076 of being accountable for these little issues. 881 00:36:02,159 --> 00:36:06,289 How are you supposed to be successful in life 882 00:36:06,372 --> 00:36:10,126 if you don't understand these little basics? 883 00:36:12,378 --> 00:36:13,629 This doesn't close. 884 00:36:13,713 --> 00:36:16,132 - All right, I'm bringing it in. 885 00:36:16,215 --> 00:36:17,758 - Yeah, bring it in. 886 00:36:19,343 --> 00:36:20,928 And there goes my couch. 887 00:36:23,556 --> 00:36:25,933 - Oh, yeah, baby. 888 00:36:26,017 --> 00:36:28,102 - ♪ Yo, what's up? Y'all ready for this? ♪ 889 00:36:28,185 --> 00:36:29,812 - ♪ I'm so fierce ♪ 890 00:36:29,896 --> 00:36:31,772 [all cheering] 891 00:36:31,856 --> 00:36:34,066 ♪ ♪ 892 00:36:34,901 --> 00:36:36,360 [laughter] 893 00:36:36,444 --> 00:36:38,112 - Okay, it's a 30-day challenge. 894 00:36:38,195 --> 00:36:40,531 Prove that this is a career that you're gonna stick to, 895 00:36:40,615 --> 00:36:42,366 and then I will get off birth control. 896 00:36:42,450 --> 00:36:43,784 - I'll make it happen, 897 00:36:43,868 --> 00:36:46,078 'cause I'm king of the Hos, baby--ha ha! 898 00:36:46,162 --> 00:36:48,581 - So we're gonna be able to see and hear the heartbeat. 899 00:36:48,664 --> 00:36:50,583 - Okay, wait. - I always get scared. 900 00:36:50,666 --> 00:36:52,460 - All right, let me just brace myself, okay? 901 00:36:52,543 --> 00:36:54,337 - I didn't really like you that much at the beginning. 902 00:36:54,420 --> 00:36:55,713 - The feeling's mutual. 903 00:36:55,796 --> 00:36:57,840 all: Oh! [laughter] 904 00:37:00,968 --> 00:37:02,178 - No. 905 00:37:02,261 --> 00:37:03,888 - I don't like talking to Lesley 906 00:37:03,971 --> 00:37:04,931 about her and Washington. 907 00:37:05,014 --> 00:37:06,265 I don't think they know 908 00:37:06,349 --> 00:37:07,850 what's going on with their relationship. 909 00:37:07,934 --> 00:37:09,185 You're a united front. 910 00:37:09,268 --> 00:37:10,811 You can't come to my parents one-on-one. 911 00:37:10,895 --> 00:37:12,438 You're going to lose. - You really believe that? 912 00:37:12,521 --> 00:37:13,564 - Uh, yeah, Lesley. 913 00:37:13,648 --> 00:37:15,316 - My mom's coming into town. 914 00:37:15,399 --> 00:37:17,318 - If she could see you, I know she would reach out to you. 915 00:37:17,401 --> 00:37:18,819 - [crying] But she's not. - I know. 916 00:37:18,903 --> 00:37:21,489 - And it makes me feel like I could have been 917 00:37:21,572 --> 00:37:24,116 a better daughter, but I wasn't. 918 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,703 - Thanh Hà is the Justin Bieber of Vietnam. 919 00:37:27,787 --> 00:37:29,956 - Oh, Mom's here. 920 00:37:30,039 --> 00:37:32,625 - You ever talk to Washington? - No. 921 00:37:32,708 --> 00:37:34,377 I'm tired of being gaslit by Washington. 922 00:37:34,460 --> 00:37:36,420 To lie to me several times 923 00:37:36,504 --> 00:37:38,839 and just write it off is hurtful. 924 00:37:38,923 --> 00:37:41,008 - I have to make amends. 925 00:37:41,092 --> 00:37:43,260 Lesley is going to kill me 926 00:37:43,344 --> 00:37:46,597 because she thinks Sammy is a bad influence on me. 927 00:37:46,681 --> 00:37:49,225 I'm tired of giving up on my dreams 928 00:37:49,308 --> 00:37:51,686 to make someone else's dreams come true. 929 00:37:51,769 --> 00:37:53,104 - You think this is my dream? 930 00:37:53,187 --> 00:37:54,522 - Have you ever told her how much sadness 931 00:37:54,605 --> 00:37:56,399 this has caused you over the years? 932 00:37:56,482 --> 00:37:57,858 - Oh, yes. - You have? 933 00:37:57,942 --> 00:37:59,193 - I cry, and then she'll be like, 934 00:37:59,277 --> 00:38:00,611 "How dare you talk about it? 935 00:38:00,695 --> 00:38:02,530 You're the worst daughter I've ever had." 936 00:38:02,613 --> 00:38:04,740 - You know what this would be a nice setting for? 937 00:38:04,824 --> 00:38:06,701 [crow caws] - A murder mystery? 938 00:38:06,784 --> 00:38:10,079 - ♪ I'm feeling restless and reckless... ♪ 939 00:38:10,162 --> 00:38:11,539 - I want to say something to Reagan-- 940 00:38:11,622 --> 00:38:14,792 my youngest and the one I love the most. 941 00:38:14,875 --> 00:38:17,378 - Mm, I don't know about that. - Yeah, I don't know either. 942 00:38:17,461 --> 00:38:19,046 - The Hos! - Best girls' trip ever! 943 00:38:19,130 --> 00:38:20,798 - You're lucky, this is not in your frickin' face. 944 00:38:20,881 --> 00:38:22,133 - I know. I know. 945 00:38:24,135 --> 00:38:25,720 - I do know stuff. I'm his wife. 946 00:38:25,803 --> 00:38:27,888 - [laughs silently] - Why are you laughing? 947 00:38:27,972 --> 00:38:30,099 - Because you're pretending to give a shit. 948 00:38:30,182 --> 00:38:33,227 - ♪ I can't wait to get the gang back together ♪ 949 00:38:33,310 --> 00:38:34,979 - ♪ Come on, let's go ♪ 950 00:38:35,062 --> 00:38:38,149 - ♪ You know me, I'm always down for whatever ♪ 951 00:38:38,232 --> 00:38:40,192 - There's a war now. House divided. 952 00:38:40,276 --> 00:38:42,653 - ♪ I can't wait, I can't wait ♪ 953 00:38:42,737 --> 00:38:44,739 ♪ I can't wait ♪ 954 00:38:46,157 --> 00:38:48,868 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 955 00:38:48,951 --> 00:38:50,745 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 956 00:38:50,828 --> 00:38:52,580 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 957 00:38:52,663 --> 00:38:54,373 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 958 00:38:54,457 --> 00:38:56,250 ♪ Came from the bottom, straight to the top ♪ 959 00:38:56,333 --> 00:38:57,752 ♪ I'm ready to blow ♪ 960 00:38:57,835 --> 00:38:59,628 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 961 00:38:59,712 --> 00:39:04,925 ♪ ♪ 962 00:39:05,009 --> 00:39:06,635 ♪ I'm the King of the Ho ♪ 963 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:12,058 ♪ ♪ 964 00:39:12,141 --> 00:39:13,476 ♪ I'm the King of the Ho ♪