1 00:00:04,671 --> 00:00:07,757 [Paper Kings' "Look At Me Now"] 2 00:00:07,841 --> 00:00:10,969 ♪ ♪ 3 00:00:11,052 --> 00:00:12,595 - ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:12,679 --> 00:00:14,472 ♪ I'm steady walkin' like ♪ 5 00:00:14,556 --> 00:00:17,100 ♪ I got three commas in my bank account ♪ 6 00:00:17,183 --> 00:00:20,103 ♪ Livin' loud, so get your cameras out ♪ 7 00:00:20,186 --> 00:00:22,856 ♪ I'd probably do the same thing if I was you ♪ 8 00:00:22,939 --> 00:00:24,941 ♪ Lookin' at me now, now ♪ 9 00:00:25,024 --> 00:00:27,235 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 10 00:00:27,318 --> 00:00:30,280 ♪ Mm, put up your lights ♪ 11 00:00:30,363 --> 00:00:31,906 ♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪ 12 00:00:31,990 --> 00:00:33,700 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 13 00:00:33,783 --> 00:00:37,328 ♪ Don't ever put 'em down, down, down ♪ 14 00:00:37,412 --> 00:00:39,080 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 15 00:00:41,791 --> 00:00:45,295 - Thank you to the whole family for coming here, 16 00:00:45,378 --> 00:00:49,132 and really appreciate everybody helping me 17 00:00:49,215 --> 00:00:53,178 through this difficult journey that I battle every day. 18 00:00:53,261 --> 00:00:55,680 But I've made a commitment to quit. 19 00:00:55,764 --> 00:00:58,433 - 'Cause you'd miss me more? 20 00:00:58,516 --> 00:01:01,352 - Yeah, and for our family, 21 00:01:01,436 --> 00:01:04,814 'cause I'd rather lose this than lose you. 22 00:01:04,898 --> 00:01:06,691 But there's something else I quit, too, 23 00:01:06,775 --> 00:01:09,486 recently that I have to tell y'all about. 24 00:01:09,569 --> 00:01:12,530 - What's up? - I decided to quit my job. 25 00:01:12,614 --> 00:01:16,159 [tense music] 26 00:01:16,242 --> 00:01:18,453 Just wasn't happy, you know. 27 00:01:18,536 --> 00:01:23,374 ♪ ♪ 28 00:01:23,458 --> 00:01:25,502 - I'm not that surprised, because he had already 29 00:01:25,585 --> 00:01:28,379 spoken to me and Reagan that he was contemplating it, 30 00:01:28,463 --> 00:01:30,006 but this is the first time 31 00:01:30,089 --> 00:01:31,674 my parents have heard it and Lesley's heard it. 32 00:01:31,758 --> 00:01:33,718 I'm sure this is really disappointing for her, 33 00:01:33,802 --> 00:01:37,555 and I don't know what this is gonna do to their marriage. 34 00:01:37,639 --> 00:01:39,432 - It wasn't an easy decision to make, 35 00:01:39,516 --> 00:01:43,394 because my wife told me, if I sold ten cars a month, 36 00:01:43,478 --> 00:01:46,439 that she would let me make love to her 37 00:01:46,523 --> 00:01:48,566 and make babies. 38 00:01:48,650 --> 00:01:50,026 - [laughs] 39 00:01:50,109 --> 00:01:51,486 - She's just kidding. 40 00:01:51,569 --> 00:01:53,446 You should talk about that. She kidding. 41 00:01:53,530 --> 00:01:55,532 - No. I mean, we talked about it, though. 42 00:01:55,615 --> 00:01:57,200 You know, we talked about having a third child, and-- 43 00:01:57,283 --> 00:01:58,326 - No. 44 00:01:58,785 --> 00:02:00,912 Ten cars. It's hard. 45 00:02:03,498 --> 00:02:05,041 Just follow your dad. 46 00:02:05,124 --> 00:02:08,294 So life ain't easy. Don't have to worry. 47 00:02:08,378 --> 00:02:10,213 - That's typical of the Ho family. 48 00:02:10,296 --> 00:02:13,842 They can't stand to see their children struggle, 49 00:02:13,925 --> 00:02:17,720 but I had really hoped that all of his crazy ideas 50 00:02:17,804 --> 00:02:20,223 that he's had, over the past years, 51 00:02:20,306 --> 00:02:22,058 that this was gonna be the one that stuck. 52 00:02:22,141 --> 00:02:25,562 And I felt like I did everything I could, 53 00:02:25,645 --> 00:02:27,814 so that he could focus on the car dealership, 54 00:02:27,897 --> 00:02:30,441 so we can plan for a child, plan for a business. 55 00:02:30,525 --> 00:02:33,570 And then, now, I feel like we're back to square one. 56 00:02:33,653 --> 00:02:35,738 - We can make as many kids as you want now, 57 00:02:35,822 --> 00:02:38,074 'cause I have all the time in the world for you. 58 00:02:38,157 --> 00:02:40,910 - Just no way to pay for them. - Oh, don't worry. 59 00:02:40,994 --> 00:02:44,080 My mom'll handle it. Right, Mom? 60 00:02:45,373 --> 00:02:47,917 - You cannot force Washington do anything. 61 00:02:48,001 --> 00:02:50,086 He allowed to do whatever he want. 62 00:02:50,169 --> 00:02:53,923 He have his mom. His dad back him up. 63 00:02:54,007 --> 00:02:55,341 So I'm not surprised. 64 00:02:55,425 --> 00:02:58,553 I'm surprised if he last long, 65 00:02:58,636 --> 00:03:00,430 but I'm not surprised when he quit. 66 00:03:00,513 --> 00:03:03,600 - Whatever you decide-- you're not working 67 00:03:03,683 --> 00:03:05,935 or you work--up to you, okay? - Yeah. 68 00:03:06,019 --> 00:03:08,313 - And if you're not happy, okay. 69 00:03:08,396 --> 00:03:09,772 - Yeah. 70 00:03:09,856 --> 00:03:14,319 - And today I want to drink some champ though. 71 00:03:14,402 --> 00:03:18,656 Well, this one make and bottle in French. I like that. 72 00:03:18,740 --> 00:03:20,575 - I'm still processing the loss, 73 00:03:20,658 --> 00:03:22,243 and my father-in-law, 74 00:03:22,327 --> 00:03:24,162 all he can say is, "Pass the wine." 75 00:03:24,245 --> 00:03:27,081 Like, how come nobody else is as freaked-out as me? 76 00:03:27,165 --> 00:03:30,043 I just feel like my whole world just came crashing down. 77 00:03:30,126 --> 00:03:31,377 [indistinct chatter in background] 78 00:03:31,461 --> 00:03:33,963 - Yeah. Why? - What are you gonna do? 79 00:03:34,047 --> 00:03:35,465 - What do you mean, what am I gonna do? 80 00:03:35,548 --> 00:03:36,758 - After this. 81 00:03:36,841 --> 00:03:38,134 - Make money. 82 00:03:38,217 --> 00:03:39,719 Work on all my opportunities. 83 00:03:39,802 --> 00:03:43,973 The other shit that I was already working on. 84 00:03:44,057 --> 00:03:45,183 What? 85 00:03:45,266 --> 00:03:46,809 - Just tell me we're gonna be okay. 86 00:03:46,893 --> 00:03:50,188 - We'll be fine. We're not gonna be okay. 87 00:03:50,271 --> 00:03:52,065 We're fucking gonna be better than okay. 88 00:03:52,148 --> 00:03:54,150 I'm fucking Washington goddamn Ho. 89 00:03:54,233 --> 00:03:55,526 - I know you are. 90 00:03:55,610 --> 00:03:57,570 If I just sit still for two seconds, 91 00:03:57,654 --> 00:04:00,698 I am just gonna break down, and I don't want to, 92 00:04:00,782 --> 00:04:02,408 because then Wash feels bad, 93 00:04:02,492 --> 00:04:04,243 so I don't want to sit there and cry. 94 00:04:04,327 --> 00:04:05,870 I don't want to sit there and think about it. 95 00:04:05,954 --> 00:04:07,330 I'm just gonna focus on the party 96 00:04:07,413 --> 00:04:09,332 for my in-laws' 45th anniversary. 97 00:04:09,415 --> 00:04:11,167 Make sure all the details are perfect. 98 00:04:11,250 --> 00:04:12,710 You know, the worst thing that can happen right now 99 00:04:12,794 --> 00:04:15,004 is if I let all these emotions and fears 100 00:04:15,088 --> 00:04:18,257 affect my gift to my father-in-law. 101 00:04:18,341 --> 00:04:20,426 A man that can afford anything in the world. 102 00:04:20,510 --> 00:04:23,179 All he wants is his family together for the anniversary, 103 00:04:23,262 --> 00:04:25,264 and I'm gonna make sure that it's perfect. 104 00:04:25,348 --> 00:04:28,601 I will deal with all of Wash's stuff after. 105 00:04:28,685 --> 00:04:31,854 Does that mean we're putting a hold on the baby? 106 00:04:31,938 --> 00:04:34,732 - No. We'll have two babies. - How? 107 00:04:34,816 --> 00:04:38,277 - Having three to four kids was always in my plans. 108 00:04:38,361 --> 00:04:40,363 I just need to find something stable. 109 00:04:40,446 --> 00:04:43,032 I'm trying to explain to my wife 110 00:04:43,116 --> 00:04:45,952 you don't really need to worry about money that bad 111 00:04:46,035 --> 00:04:47,203 and let it stress you out. 112 00:04:47,286 --> 00:04:48,371 I'm trying to look for something 113 00:04:48,454 --> 00:04:49,706 I'm passionate about, 114 00:04:49,789 --> 00:04:52,250 and I'm gonna get into my creative side, 115 00:04:52,333 --> 00:04:54,043 'cause that's what makes me happy. 116 00:04:54,127 --> 00:04:55,336 When I met you, you said 117 00:04:55,420 --> 00:04:57,839 you loved rollercoaster rides, right? 118 00:04:57,922 --> 00:04:59,215 - I want off this ride. 119 00:04:59,298 --> 00:05:00,842 - Sooner or later, it's gonna be straighter. 120 00:05:00,925 --> 00:05:02,260 All right? - Mm-mm. 121 00:05:02,343 --> 00:05:04,220 - Just give me one more twist, baby. 122 00:05:04,303 --> 00:05:06,305 [quirky music] 123 00:05:06,389 --> 00:05:08,307 Okay. Let's go make love. Come on. 124 00:05:08,391 --> 00:05:09,767 - No. 125 00:05:11,978 --> 00:05:14,731 - ♪ Whoa ♪ 126 00:05:14,814 --> 00:05:16,774 ♪ Whoa ♪ 127 00:05:16,858 --> 00:05:18,109 ♪ All eyes on us ♪ 128 00:05:18,192 --> 00:05:19,569 ♪ All eyes on us ♪ 129 00:05:19,652 --> 00:05:20,653 - Do you remember the other day? 130 00:05:20,737 --> 00:05:21,654 We were at my house. 131 00:05:21,738 --> 00:05:23,156 Did you know that Tammy 132 00:05:23,239 --> 00:05:25,408 did not tell Chris that Linda carried the baby? 133 00:05:25,491 --> 00:05:28,411 - Oh, yeah. That conversation. - That--yeah. When was that? 134 00:05:28,494 --> 00:05:29,620 - I don't know. 135 00:05:29,704 --> 00:05:31,330 That was a couple days ago, but man. 136 00:05:31,414 --> 00:05:33,041 - Oh, my God. I can't stop thinking about it. 137 00:05:33,124 --> 00:05:34,375 I was like... - Why? 138 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:35,960 - What the fuck? That Chris doesn't know 139 00:05:36,044 --> 00:05:38,463 that Linda carried him for nine months. 140 00:05:38,546 --> 00:05:40,923 - So you think Tam should tell him? 141 00:05:41,007 --> 00:05:42,258 - Yes. 142 00:05:42,341 --> 00:05:43,634 - Oh, we should have put Legos together. 143 00:05:43,718 --> 00:05:45,428 Like, "Hey, I bought a box of Legos," 144 00:05:45,511 --> 00:05:46,804 and then we're putting it together. 145 00:05:46,888 --> 00:05:48,264 It's like, "Just like these Legos, 146 00:05:48,347 --> 00:05:49,599 "pieces come together, 147 00:05:49,682 --> 00:05:50,933 "and part of you came from Linda. 148 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:52,060 Did you know that?" - [laughs] 149 00:05:52,143 --> 00:05:53,227 [doorbell rings] 150 00:05:53,311 --> 00:05:54,896 - But you know, whatever, 'cause... 151 00:05:54,979 --> 00:05:57,607 - Someone's at the front door! - I invited her. 152 00:05:57,690 --> 00:05:58,941 Hey, Tam. I heard it... 153 00:05:59,025 --> 00:05:59,984 - Hello. - The first time. 154 00:06:00,068 --> 00:06:01,444 - Well, you know. 155 00:06:01,527 --> 00:06:03,446 - Tammy is very vague about everything. 156 00:06:03,529 --> 00:06:06,949 The fact that she didn't tell Chris that my oldest sister 157 00:06:07,033 --> 00:06:11,621 carried him for nine months is ludicrous to me. 158 00:06:11,704 --> 00:06:15,333 Especially when she's trying to have a baby with Tran. 159 00:06:15,416 --> 00:06:16,334 - Here. - Cheers. 160 00:06:16,417 --> 00:06:17,376 - Thanks. - Cheers. 161 00:06:17,460 --> 00:06:18,795 Thank you for inviting me. 162 00:06:18,878 --> 00:06:20,797 - Oh, you're welcome. Judy's mom gave me 163 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,381 a bunch of bread for my diet. - For your keto diet? 164 00:06:22,465 --> 00:06:23,925 - Oh, my God. This is delicious. 165 00:06:24,008 --> 00:06:25,468 - She thinks keto means something else. 166 00:06:25,551 --> 00:06:26,594 - Wait. Why are you on a diet? 167 00:06:26,677 --> 00:06:27,970 - I'm trying to lose weight, 168 00:06:28,054 --> 00:06:29,597 and I can't fit in my clothes anymore. 169 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,974 I don't want to buy more clothes. 170 00:06:32,058 --> 00:06:33,267 How are you and Tran? 171 00:06:33,351 --> 00:06:35,645 - Good. - Wow. 172 00:06:35,728 --> 00:06:37,939 That's--don't tell us too much. I'm not... 173 00:06:38,022 --> 00:06:39,148 - You guys... 174 00:06:39,232 --> 00:06:40,775 - Digging into your life or anything. 175 00:06:40,858 --> 00:06:43,319 - My personality is that I don't talk to anybody 176 00:06:43,402 --> 00:06:45,738 about what I want to do or what I should do. 177 00:06:45,822 --> 00:06:47,365 My siblings are a little bit different. 178 00:06:47,448 --> 00:06:49,158 They like to talk to each other, 179 00:06:49,242 --> 00:06:52,453 but when they voice something, it makes you doubt, 180 00:06:52,537 --> 00:06:55,456 and you know, I don't want to go back to anybody and say, 181 00:06:55,540 --> 00:06:57,708 you know, "I listened to you, and that's why I failed." 182 00:06:57,792 --> 00:06:59,085 - But you actually never really told us 183 00:06:59,168 --> 00:07:00,545 that you and Tran were together. 184 00:07:00,628 --> 00:07:02,338 - You didn't--oh. - I sort of figured it out. 185 00:07:02,421 --> 00:07:04,006 - She did. She did tell me. We went up--we went-- 186 00:07:04,090 --> 00:07:06,175 - Oh, my God. Okay. Miss busybody right here. 187 00:07:06,259 --> 00:07:08,010 - No. You told me. - I didn't tell anybody. 188 00:07:08,094 --> 00:07:10,346 I told Linda first. Linda must have told Van. 189 00:07:10,429 --> 00:07:12,515 - No. I did not know, at all. 190 00:07:12,598 --> 00:07:14,016 - So we-- - I did not know. 191 00:07:14,100 --> 00:07:18,271 - So we went to lunch, and I did tell Van. 192 00:07:18,354 --> 00:07:20,189 - Sometimes I feel like my sister Tammy 193 00:07:20,273 --> 00:07:23,067 is going through a midlife situation, 194 00:07:23,151 --> 00:07:24,861 and Tran happens to be there, 195 00:07:24,944 --> 00:07:27,822 so I don't know how authentic their relationship is. 196 00:07:27,905 --> 00:07:29,407 Tran is so young, 197 00:07:29,490 --> 00:07:33,202 and my sister Tammy's buying her all this cars, 198 00:07:33,286 --> 00:07:34,537 and I don't know if that's the reason 199 00:07:34,620 --> 00:07:35,538 why they're together. 200 00:07:35,621 --> 00:07:36,831 I just don't know. 201 00:07:36,914 --> 00:07:38,541 Still trying to figure that out myself. 202 00:07:38,624 --> 00:07:40,877 - The other day, we were talking about, 203 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,712 you know, you not telling Chris, 204 00:07:42,795 --> 00:07:45,756 'cause it never came up, about who was his surrogate. 205 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:47,592 - Mm-hmm. - We were thinking 206 00:07:47,675 --> 00:07:51,721 maybe--were you planning on doing it eventually? 207 00:07:51,804 --> 00:07:53,973 [soft tense music] 208 00:07:54,056 --> 00:07:55,725 - You know what? I really thought about it. 209 00:07:55,808 --> 00:07:58,060 Right now, I feel like it's not the time, so... 210 00:07:58,144 --> 00:07:59,937 - I know, but it's not just about you. 211 00:08:00,021 --> 00:08:02,899 The fact that Linda carried Chris, 212 00:08:02,982 --> 00:08:04,984 you know, for this-- for that nine months. 213 00:08:05,067 --> 00:08:06,903 - Mm-hmm. - It's such a generous gift, 214 00:08:06,986 --> 00:08:09,780 you know, and we don't talk about it anymore. 215 00:08:09,864 --> 00:08:11,324 - When I personally feel like he's ready, 216 00:08:11,407 --> 00:08:12,700 and when I personally feel... 217 00:08:12,783 --> 00:08:14,118 - Of course, it's your choice. 100%. 218 00:08:14,202 --> 00:08:15,244 - Like he'd understand... - Absolutely. 219 00:08:15,328 --> 00:08:16,621 - Then I'll tell him. 220 00:08:16,704 --> 00:08:17,914 - You shouldn't beat around the bush though. 221 00:08:17,997 --> 00:08:19,290 Just talk about-- 222 00:08:19,373 --> 00:08:21,292 - Don't say those kind of words around Tam. 223 00:08:21,375 --> 00:08:22,585 [laughter] - I like bushy. 224 00:08:22,668 --> 00:08:25,338 - I heard. [laughter] 225 00:08:25,421 --> 00:08:26,923 - [laughs] 226 00:08:28,674 --> 00:08:31,886 [upbeat music] 227 00:08:31,969 --> 00:08:33,387 ♪ ♪ 228 00:08:33,471 --> 00:08:35,181 - Hello. Hello. - Hi, Dad. 229 00:08:35,264 --> 00:08:36,724 - What are you doing? 230 00:08:36,807 --> 00:08:38,517 - Cleaning up after your grandkids. 231 00:08:38,601 --> 00:08:40,978 - Where's Washington? - He's chillin'. 232 00:08:41,062 --> 00:08:43,189 I can't even deal with an unemployed Wash right now. 233 00:08:43,272 --> 00:08:44,524 We haven't talked about it yet. 234 00:08:44,607 --> 00:08:45,942 I don't know what his plans are. 235 00:08:46,025 --> 00:08:47,318 I feel like with Wash 236 00:08:47,401 --> 00:08:48,778 deciding that he wants to do, 237 00:08:48,861 --> 00:08:50,863 that I have to take two steps back 238 00:08:50,947 --> 00:08:52,782 before I can take one step forward. 239 00:08:52,865 --> 00:08:54,909 At this point, I'm just trying to coast it through 240 00:08:54,992 --> 00:08:58,079 and just have some time to feel what I'm feeling, 241 00:08:58,162 --> 00:08:59,872 which is all over the place. 242 00:08:59,956 --> 00:09:02,166 - You told me you'd throw the party 243 00:09:02,250 --> 00:09:04,168 for our anniversary, right? For me? 244 00:09:04,252 --> 00:09:05,962 - Yep. - Can I request something? 245 00:09:06,045 --> 00:09:07,004 - Mm-hmm. 246 00:09:07,088 --> 00:09:08,464 - I want our guests 247 00:09:08,548 --> 00:09:10,800 to be reserved, nice, and elegant. 248 00:09:10,883 --> 00:09:12,176 - Okay. 249 00:09:12,260 --> 00:09:15,471 - Especially my brother and my sister too. 250 00:09:15,554 --> 00:09:17,848 - Oh, I can't control them. 251 00:09:17,932 --> 00:09:21,060 - I don't want to come in with jewelry around-- 252 00:09:21,143 --> 00:09:22,311 I don't want it to be, 253 00:09:22,395 --> 00:09:24,814 you know, like, lousy clothes. 254 00:09:24,897 --> 00:09:26,315 - What's up, guys? 255 00:09:26,399 --> 00:09:28,818 - Your Dad's talking about his anniversary request. 256 00:09:28,901 --> 00:09:31,028 - Now that I don't have a job, 257 00:09:31,112 --> 00:09:33,698 I can see that my wife's trying to hold it together. 258 00:09:33,781 --> 00:09:36,033 She's probably compartmentalizing 259 00:09:36,117 --> 00:09:38,536 her feelings so she doesn't say something 260 00:09:38,619 --> 00:09:41,289 that triggers me back to my old ways. 261 00:09:41,372 --> 00:09:43,833 - This a formal dinner, okay? - Okay. 262 00:09:43,916 --> 00:09:47,044 - So I want Andy-- suit and tie. 263 00:09:47,128 --> 00:09:48,838 Tina be elegant and nice. 264 00:09:48,921 --> 00:09:51,007 You know, dressed up like your age. 265 00:09:51,090 --> 00:09:52,425 They over 50. 266 00:09:52,508 --> 00:09:53,843 - I don't know about Andy and Tina. 267 00:09:53,926 --> 00:09:56,095 - When you go to big party like that, 268 00:09:56,178 --> 00:09:58,848 you need to show you respect. 269 00:09:58,931 --> 00:10:00,725 - Now that my father-in-law knows that I'm throwing 270 00:10:00,808 --> 00:10:04,228 a party for him, it's, like, the worst ever. 271 00:10:04,312 --> 00:10:05,855 On top of everything that I'm dealing with, 272 00:10:05,938 --> 00:10:07,940 now I have him in my ear telling me stuff 273 00:10:08,024 --> 00:10:11,027 that I wasn't even planning on doing. 274 00:10:11,110 --> 00:10:13,612 - I want my anniversary be nice. 275 00:10:13,696 --> 00:10:15,656 - Okay. - And if they don't want that, 276 00:10:15,740 --> 00:10:16,907 stop them at the door. 277 00:10:16,991 --> 00:10:18,451 - Okay. - Okay. 278 00:10:18,534 --> 00:10:20,620 I'm a party planner, not a bouncer. 279 00:10:20,703 --> 00:10:23,581 I don't want any drama at this dinner. 280 00:10:23,664 --> 00:10:25,291 It has to go perfect. 281 00:10:25,374 --> 00:10:27,501 - Bye, Dad. - Bye. 282 00:10:27,585 --> 00:10:28,961 [quirky music] 283 00:10:29,045 --> 00:10:32,340 - So are you calling Andy and Tina, or am I? 284 00:10:32,423 --> 00:10:35,051 - No. You call them. I can't change them. 285 00:10:35,134 --> 00:10:36,427 They're not scared of me. 286 00:10:36,510 --> 00:10:38,095 - Oh, they're not scared of me either. 287 00:10:38,179 --> 00:10:40,264 - Oh, they're scared of you. Everybody is. 288 00:10:40,348 --> 00:10:41,557 ♪ ♪ 289 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,351 - ♪ I do, oh ♪ 290 00:10:43,434 --> 00:10:46,354 [upbeat music] 291 00:10:46,437 --> 00:10:47,605 ♪ ♪ 292 00:10:47,688 --> 00:10:49,190 - I could never open one of those. 293 00:10:49,273 --> 00:10:50,566 - She hates it. 294 00:10:50,649 --> 00:10:52,068 She always make me open with a manual-- 295 00:10:52,151 --> 00:10:53,444 with an old-school-- - It's so fast. 296 00:10:53,527 --> 00:10:55,071 - Okay. For you. VIP. 297 00:10:55,154 --> 00:10:56,614 - Tell us the full story, from the beginning. 298 00:10:56,697 --> 00:10:59,241 - You know, Chris got into a fight this year, 299 00:10:59,325 --> 00:11:02,411 once he found out that I was dating Tran. 300 00:11:02,495 --> 00:11:03,579 - He fought him, 'cause he thought... 301 00:11:03,662 --> 00:11:04,622 - No. - He was-- 302 00:11:04,705 --> 00:11:05,956 - They were just making fun 303 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,917 of this guy who they thought was gay. 304 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,085 - Yeah. - But it's good. 305 00:11:09,168 --> 00:11:10,544 He should have stood up for him. 306 00:11:10,628 --> 00:11:12,254 Any person should've stood up for him. 307 00:11:12,338 --> 00:11:13,923 - But I'm saying that-- - But now it's more personal. 308 00:11:14,006 --> 00:11:15,383 - Yeah. To him. You see it? - Sensitive for him. 309 00:11:15,466 --> 00:11:16,801 - He's never gotten into trouble. 310 00:11:16,884 --> 00:11:17,968 That was the first time 311 00:11:18,052 --> 00:11:19,345 he's ever gotten into trouble, 312 00:11:19,428 --> 00:11:20,888 so I wanted to do it on my own time. 313 00:11:20,971 --> 00:11:22,431 I'm the only one in the family 314 00:11:22,515 --> 00:11:24,016 who has fertility problems. 315 00:11:24,100 --> 00:11:26,477 I went through a rough time, during that time, 316 00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:28,187 and this is--again, this is something 317 00:11:28,270 --> 00:11:31,273 that traditional family, Asian country, Asian culture 318 00:11:31,357 --> 00:11:33,150 doesn't really talk about it. 319 00:11:33,234 --> 00:11:37,363 But I think that my son Chris deserved to know the truth. 320 00:11:37,446 --> 00:11:39,448 He came into our bedroom, and I was sitting there, 321 00:11:39,532 --> 00:11:41,033 and I was like, "You know, Chris, 322 00:11:41,117 --> 00:11:44,912 do you remember how many miscarriages I had?" 323 00:11:44,995 --> 00:11:46,872 And he's like, "Yeah. I remember you telling me 324 00:11:46,956 --> 00:11:50,501 you had five, and I was pretty special." 325 00:11:50,584 --> 00:11:52,128 And I said, "Well, well, 326 00:11:52,211 --> 00:11:54,255 "you are quite special, you know. 327 00:11:54,338 --> 00:11:55,464 I needed help." 328 00:11:55,548 --> 00:11:57,633 - Yeah. - So he started crying. 329 00:11:57,716 --> 00:11:59,510 - Yeah. - You know, we tried 330 00:11:59,593 --> 00:12:01,137 a lot of times already. 331 00:12:01,220 --> 00:12:04,640 I told him that he was named after the first baby, 332 00:12:04,723 --> 00:12:06,892 and I told him that we had lost, like, 333 00:12:06,976 --> 00:12:09,728 two sets of twins, and I share with him a lot. 334 00:12:09,812 --> 00:12:11,647 You know, I went through all the procedure. 335 00:12:11,730 --> 00:12:14,817 All the testing. And you were my miracle baby. 336 00:12:14,900 --> 00:12:19,071 - Yeah. - But once we poured out that, 337 00:12:19,155 --> 00:12:21,157 hey, "Bac Linh actually carry you." 338 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:22,616 - Yeah. - He kinda-- 339 00:12:22,700 --> 00:12:24,827 - But I didn't even tell him. He guessed it. 340 00:12:24,910 --> 00:12:26,245 - Yeah. - Oh, he did? 341 00:12:26,328 --> 00:12:27,997 - He just-- - He's smart. He's smart. 342 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,040 Wait. Is it 'cause he's smart, or someone told him? 343 00:12:30,124 --> 00:12:32,835 I mean, I don't know. He's a smart kid. 344 00:12:32,918 --> 00:12:34,670 - Hold on. Wait, wait, wait. I need to know this part. 345 00:12:34,753 --> 00:12:37,131 Does he know that it wasn't the traditional surrogacy? 346 00:12:37,214 --> 00:12:38,507 - Yes! 347 00:12:38,591 --> 00:12:40,092 - No, that it wasn't traditional? 348 00:12:40,176 --> 00:12:41,719 - That I'm not the-- - You are the mom. 349 00:12:41,802 --> 00:12:43,179 - I'm not the carrier. - Traditional as in, like-- 350 00:12:43,262 --> 00:12:44,597 - Sonny went into Linda? 351 00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:46,807 - Yeah. - Damn, girl. Didn't know. 352 00:12:46,891 --> 00:12:48,517 - We did ask him-- - First of all, 353 00:12:48,601 --> 00:12:50,144 I don't think you understand what surrogacy means. 354 00:12:50,227 --> 00:12:51,645 - Do you understand what it means? 355 00:12:51,729 --> 00:12:53,147 - Yeah. You don't--that's not surrogacy. 356 00:12:53,230 --> 00:12:54,482 - See? See where his mind's at, all the time? 357 00:12:54,565 --> 00:12:55,733 - Yeah. - I'm just saying that 358 00:12:55,816 --> 00:12:56,859 I thought it was a direct contact-- 359 00:12:56,942 --> 00:12:58,486 - No. He's your guy to reason? 360 00:12:58,569 --> 00:13:00,196 Why is he your reasoning guy? - Exactly. 361 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:01,614 He doesn't make sense, man. - All right. All right. 362 00:13:01,697 --> 00:13:03,199 All right. Okay, okay. I'm being-- 363 00:13:03,282 --> 00:13:04,533 - He's just full of shit. - Let's be serious now. 364 00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:06,202 - We did ask him... - Yeah. 365 00:13:06,285 --> 00:13:07,786 - "What do you think about being--surrogate mother?" 366 00:13:07,870 --> 00:13:09,413 You know, things like-- and he understood. 367 00:13:09,497 --> 00:13:10,831 He's like, "What's the difference?" 368 00:13:10,915 --> 00:13:12,625 - Yeah. - You're still the child... 369 00:13:12,708 --> 00:13:14,168 - Yeah. - Biologically, you know? 370 00:13:14,251 --> 00:13:15,586 - Yeah. - So he understand, 371 00:13:15,669 --> 00:13:17,505 if we wanted kid, we need... - Yeah. 372 00:13:17,588 --> 00:13:20,049 - You know, an extra sperm donor. 373 00:13:20,132 --> 00:13:22,343 - Right. - Yeah. 374 00:13:22,426 --> 00:13:24,053 - You're too old, babe. - Yeah. You're too old. 375 00:13:24,136 --> 00:13:26,388 - If I think you're doing what you're gonna do-- 376 00:13:26,472 --> 00:13:29,391 - Hold on. You guys are--I was asking to 377 00:13:29,475 --> 00:13:31,769 just do a cheers real quick. Being able to-- 378 00:13:31,852 --> 00:13:33,521 - No. He's joking. Look at his face. 379 00:13:33,604 --> 00:13:35,231 - I'm also talking, but cheers up, guys. 380 00:13:35,314 --> 00:13:37,233 It's important. - Thank you. 381 00:13:37,316 --> 00:13:39,777 - You know, with you guys-- so needing the sperm donor. 382 00:13:39,860 --> 00:13:41,445 I'm totally up for it, 383 00:13:41,529 --> 00:13:42,905 'cause then you'll have some of Tam's DNA in there, 384 00:13:42,988 --> 00:13:45,074 'cause we're a family, and-- 385 00:13:45,157 --> 00:13:46,867 - Wait, so how does that work? - Then you have your egg. 386 00:13:46,951 --> 00:13:48,369 - My brother Nate, 387 00:13:48,452 --> 00:13:50,996 he is such a generous person. 388 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,499 When my sister needed a donor, he was, like, 389 00:13:53,582 --> 00:13:55,042 ready to do that for her. 390 00:13:55,125 --> 00:13:57,920 It takes a real man to do that. 391 00:13:58,003 --> 00:14:00,548 - My idea is I don't want to know the dad. 392 00:14:00,631 --> 00:14:02,508 - Oh. Okay. Well, that's fine too. 393 00:14:02,591 --> 00:14:04,218 - Why? - I think it's a good idea. 394 00:14:04,301 --> 00:14:05,970 - But that's fine, but I feel like that's part 395 00:14:06,053 --> 00:14:08,764 of both of our DNA-- - How come? I'm actually-- 396 00:14:08,847 --> 00:14:11,100 - I'd rather not know who the dad is. 397 00:14:11,183 --> 00:14:12,768 - Okay. Gotcha. - I have no idea 398 00:14:12,851 --> 00:14:14,353 what's gonna happen until it happens. 399 00:14:14,436 --> 00:14:15,688 - Would you feel closer to the baby, 400 00:14:15,771 --> 00:14:16,939 if it's, you know... 401 00:14:17,022 --> 00:14:18,607 - Partly Tam's DNA. - Partly-- 402 00:14:18,691 --> 00:14:20,943 - Yes. I don't want her to pick up my baby 403 00:14:21,026 --> 00:14:22,945 and leave, five years from now, if we decide to break up, 404 00:14:23,028 --> 00:14:24,655 because I don't have no genetic connection. 405 00:14:24,738 --> 00:14:27,616 - If my sister Tammy is talking about Tran 406 00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:31,745 leaving and taking the baby, if they're not together, 407 00:14:31,829 --> 00:14:34,039 I mean, that's the first sign right there you shouldn't be 408 00:14:34,123 --> 00:14:37,001 together thinking already that this is gonna happen. 409 00:14:37,084 --> 00:14:39,003 But Tammy is so in love with this girl 410 00:14:39,086 --> 00:14:41,463 who has another agenda, I feel like. 411 00:14:41,547 --> 00:14:42,840 - Yeah, and-- 412 00:14:42,923 --> 00:14:44,842 - I don't think she has a good egg left. 413 00:14:44,925 --> 00:14:46,218 - Hey, how do you know? 414 00:14:46,302 --> 00:14:48,178 - Because you almost like me, girl. 415 00:14:48,262 --> 00:14:51,473 - I look younger, though. - We'll get it done soon. 416 00:14:51,557 --> 00:14:53,601 - And they can make sure that they're COVID-free 417 00:14:53,684 --> 00:14:54,810 before birth even happens. 418 00:14:54,893 --> 00:14:56,562 - So why did we invite Carlton? 419 00:14:56,645 --> 00:14:58,814 I mean, I don't think... 420 00:14:58,897 --> 00:15:00,065 - He's no longer my voice of reason. 421 00:15:00,149 --> 00:15:01,358 - He adds a lot. - I told you. 422 00:15:01,442 --> 00:15:02,985 I've been telling you, you know-- 423 00:15:03,068 --> 00:15:04,612 - If he's your voice of reason, we are in trouble. 424 00:15:04,695 --> 00:15:06,363 - I didn't think you invited me... 425 00:15:06,447 --> 00:15:07,948 - Okay. Let's go. - That's a good point. 426 00:15:08,032 --> 00:15:09,617 - Can you leave? - But thanks for the wine. 427 00:15:09,700 --> 00:15:11,201 [laughter] 428 00:15:11,285 --> 00:15:13,329 ♪ ♪ 429 00:15:13,412 --> 00:15:15,581 - Yo, Washington. - What up, Joe? 430 00:15:15,664 --> 00:15:17,333 - You ready 431 00:15:17,416 --> 00:15:18,959 to show 'em what it's all about? 432 00:15:19,043 --> 00:15:20,711 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 433 00:15:20,794 --> 00:15:22,630 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ - ♪ Whoo! ♪ 434 00:15:22,713 --> 00:15:24,340 - ♪ I don't care if you ready or not ♪ 435 00:15:24,423 --> 00:15:25,674 ♪ I'm lettin' you know ♪ 436 00:15:25,758 --> 00:15:29,428 - I got a music project coming out. 437 00:15:29,511 --> 00:15:30,804 "King of the Ho." 438 00:15:30,888 --> 00:15:32,765 ♪ But every day I get on my knees ♪ 439 00:15:32,848 --> 00:15:33,932 ♪ Continue to pray ♪ 440 00:15:34,016 --> 00:15:37,227 ♪ Haters getting in my way ♪ 441 00:15:37,311 --> 00:15:40,522 ♪ King of the Ho! ♪ both: Yeah, baby! 442 00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:43,609 - And I can't wait to see how many millions 443 00:15:43,692 --> 00:15:47,613 of TikTok followers are gonna be dancing to my beats. 444 00:15:47,696 --> 00:15:49,615 Gonna be dancing to my lyrics. 445 00:15:49,698 --> 00:15:51,742 - I'm proud of you. I heard it, and I was like, 446 00:15:51,825 --> 00:15:53,035 "I need this beat." 447 00:15:53,118 --> 00:15:54,578 - That one beat. It was... - Mm-hmm. 448 00:15:54,662 --> 00:15:56,205 - Like, perfect timing. 449 00:15:56,288 --> 00:15:59,041 I was coming out of something difficult, in my life, 450 00:15:59,124 --> 00:16:01,877 and I needed to try something else 451 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,338 that could probably bring me some happiness, 452 00:16:04,421 --> 00:16:05,881 and that's "King of the Ho." 453 00:16:05,964 --> 00:16:09,385 Jeseka, she's, you know, the publisher for the song. 454 00:16:09,468 --> 00:16:13,222 She's the one that found the right beats for me, 455 00:16:13,305 --> 00:16:16,100 and I don't want to be a one-hit wonder. 456 00:16:16,183 --> 00:16:18,143 I'm working on new songs. 457 00:16:18,227 --> 00:16:20,312 It's a soundtrack of my life. 458 00:16:20,396 --> 00:16:23,607 You know, I saw P. Diddy and DJ Khaled 459 00:16:23,691 --> 00:16:24,900 doing it on their Instagrams, 460 00:16:24,983 --> 00:16:26,318 so I gotta follow suit. 461 00:16:26,402 --> 00:16:27,903 Those are the guys that are successful 462 00:16:27,986 --> 00:16:32,908 with 50 million followers and fans around the world. 463 00:16:32,991 --> 00:16:34,910 Stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. 464 00:16:34,993 --> 00:16:38,247 And that's my dream. I want to be that guy. 465 00:16:38,330 --> 00:16:41,875 Drex Lee, over--what, on TikTok, 466 00:16:41,959 --> 00:16:43,544 20 million followers. - Yeah. 467 00:16:43,627 --> 00:16:45,921 - He's coming down next week. - Oh. 468 00:16:46,004 --> 00:16:48,132 - We're gonna shoot a piece of the video, Jeseka. 469 00:16:48,215 --> 00:16:51,218 - Good for you. - Good for us, because-- 470 00:16:51,301 --> 00:16:53,429 - No. I'm just saying, like, that's awesome. 471 00:16:53,512 --> 00:16:55,055 - That's vision. - That's-- 472 00:16:55,139 --> 00:16:57,182 - What do you think? - Yeah. I like your vision. 473 00:16:57,266 --> 00:17:00,144 I think you're amazing. That's a smart idea. 474 00:17:00,227 --> 00:17:02,229 - I'm gonna make a music video, 475 00:17:02,312 --> 00:17:03,689 and it's gonna be legendary, 476 00:17:03,772 --> 00:17:06,316 and it's gonna have legendary people. 477 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,236 And it's gonna reflect inspiration. 478 00:17:09,319 --> 00:17:12,823 It's gonna reflect my hometown of Houston, Texas, 479 00:17:12,906 --> 00:17:15,367 and it's gonna reflect 480 00:17:15,451 --> 00:17:19,955 a bunch of Hos hanging out on yachts. 481 00:17:20,038 --> 00:17:23,292 I'm making my dreams come true right now, and... 482 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:25,127 - So am I. - You know, we're gonna-- 483 00:17:25,210 --> 00:17:26,503 - I'm just riding. 484 00:17:26,587 --> 00:17:28,297 - For me, I'm just gonna keep learning... 485 00:17:28,380 --> 00:17:30,716 - Oh, definitely. - And also do something 486 00:17:30,799 --> 00:17:32,801 I'm passionate about, which is create, 487 00:17:32,885 --> 00:17:35,637 and this song makes me feel so proud. 488 00:17:35,721 --> 00:17:38,766 You know, there's times when I hear it that I cry actually, 489 00:17:38,849 --> 00:17:40,726 because I'm just like... - Yeah. 490 00:17:40,809 --> 00:17:42,478 - I can't believe I made this song. 491 00:17:42,561 --> 00:17:47,649 I was not happy selling cars, and now I'm focused. 492 00:17:47,733 --> 00:17:49,151 I know what I want in life, 493 00:17:49,234 --> 00:17:51,612 and the music is reflecting that journey. 494 00:17:51,695 --> 00:17:54,948 You just have to find your north star, 495 00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:56,325 and that's where I'm going. 496 00:17:56,408 --> 00:17:59,828 I love what I do. I love working with you. 497 00:17:59,912 --> 00:18:02,498 - I do too! - I appreciate your hard work, 498 00:18:02,581 --> 00:18:08,253 so I was thinking we start an entertainment company. 499 00:18:08,337 --> 00:18:09,797 Blasian Entertainment. 500 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,466 - Oh, snap. That's actually really good. 501 00:18:12,549 --> 00:18:15,677 - You see, me and you, we're Blasian. 502 00:18:15,761 --> 00:18:17,471 - That's a good one though. I love it. 503 00:18:17,554 --> 00:18:19,264 - You know? - You're good with 504 00:18:19,348 --> 00:18:21,725 coming up with these things, you know? 505 00:18:21,809 --> 00:18:23,602 - So you know what? - Man. 506 00:18:23,685 --> 00:18:26,522 - I think it's time. Let's hit it. 507 00:18:26,605 --> 00:18:28,023 - Let's hit it. 508 00:18:28,106 --> 00:18:31,026 [upbeat music] 509 00:18:31,109 --> 00:18:34,196 ♪ ♪ 510 00:18:34,279 --> 00:18:35,948 - Okay. Let's take a look at all these. 511 00:18:36,031 --> 00:18:37,282 - My party clothes, girl. 512 00:18:37,366 --> 00:18:39,660 - These are your best party clothes? 513 00:18:39,743 --> 00:18:41,161 You know, this skirt might work. 514 00:18:41,245 --> 00:18:42,538 - It's not a skirt. That's a dress, honey. 515 00:18:42,621 --> 00:18:43,997 I'm sorry. - You know there's no 516 00:18:44,081 --> 00:18:46,041 single men at this anniversary party, right? 517 00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:47,709 - So? - Tina, 518 00:18:47,793 --> 00:18:49,002 I should just bring a measuring tape. 519 00:18:49,086 --> 00:18:51,171 Whichever one's the longest one. 520 00:18:51,255 --> 00:18:54,550 This is way too low-cut. I smell tequila on it. 521 00:18:54,633 --> 00:18:56,260 - Oh, my God! - Yeah. 522 00:18:56,343 --> 00:18:57,719 Definitely not see-through. 523 00:18:57,803 --> 00:18:59,680 It's your brother's anniversary. 524 00:18:59,763 --> 00:19:02,808 I would wear this for Washington, in our bedroom. 525 00:19:02,891 --> 00:19:05,394 - Hey, you're supposed to be wearing nothing in the bedroom. 526 00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:06,979 - Lord help me. 527 00:19:07,062 --> 00:19:08,897 The only time that Tina's ever dressed her age 528 00:19:08,981 --> 00:19:10,440 was when she was 21. 529 00:19:10,524 --> 00:19:11,942 Your nipples are showing! 530 00:19:12,025 --> 00:19:13,235 - It looked pretty! 531 00:19:13,318 --> 00:19:16,029 - And apparently, she has been forever 21. 532 00:19:19,992 --> 00:19:21,660 - You don't want anything. 533 00:19:21,743 --> 00:19:25,330 - Your boobs are ginormous in that! Oh, my... 534 00:19:25,414 --> 00:19:26,915 - Sorry I got big boobs. - God. 535 00:19:26,999 --> 00:19:28,500 - Nothing wrong with that. 536 00:19:28,584 --> 00:19:30,168 - I know, but they don't need runways to your... 537 00:19:30,252 --> 00:19:31,920 - Okay. - Nipples. My God. 538 00:19:32,004 --> 00:19:34,882 You look like Dolly Parton. Like an Asian Dolly Parton. 539 00:19:34,965 --> 00:19:36,341 Oh, my God. 540 00:19:36,425 --> 00:19:38,677 - My brother--he gonna complain, no matter what, 541 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,013 'cause he knows all my life is party, 542 00:19:41,096 --> 00:19:43,348 so he's like--what can you say? 543 00:19:43,432 --> 00:19:45,058 Just say, "Hey, that's your sister." 544 00:19:45,142 --> 00:19:47,436 - No, no, no. I cannot. This party has to be perfect. 545 00:19:47,519 --> 00:19:49,897 - I am who I am. I'm the Ho. 546 00:19:49,980 --> 00:19:51,356 ♪ ♪ 547 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,359 [upbeat music] 548 00:19:54,443 --> 00:19:58,030 ♪ ♪ 549 00:19:58,113 --> 00:20:00,115 - I was reading a little bit about your story 550 00:20:00,198 --> 00:20:01,658 in the paperwork. 551 00:20:01,742 --> 00:20:03,452 Just would love to talk through how I can help you. 552 00:20:03,535 --> 00:20:04,995 - We talked about going through 553 00:20:05,078 --> 00:20:06,955 the process--IVF process 554 00:20:07,039 --> 00:20:09,583 and maybe obtaining a sperm donor. 555 00:20:09,666 --> 00:20:13,211 - Original plan we wanted to use her egg 556 00:20:13,295 --> 00:20:15,172 with a sperm donor that I carry... 557 00:20:15,255 --> 00:20:16,465 - Mm-hmm. - Essentially. 558 00:20:16,548 --> 00:20:18,133 - Yeah. - And there's some risks, 559 00:20:18,216 --> 00:20:22,095 so the doctor suggest that I should be using my egg. 560 00:20:22,179 --> 00:20:23,639 - We got an egg count. 561 00:20:23,722 --> 00:20:26,141 We've tested everything on Tran, 562 00:20:26,224 --> 00:20:27,893 and everything looks good to go. 563 00:20:27,976 --> 00:20:30,312 Now it's just finding a sperm donor. 564 00:20:30,395 --> 00:20:36,193 - We haven't decided when to start. 565 00:20:36,276 --> 00:20:37,653 - When to proceed. 566 00:20:37,736 --> 00:20:41,073 Our only similarity is wanting a girl, 567 00:20:41,156 --> 00:20:45,118 and then, after that, it's completely different. 568 00:20:45,202 --> 00:20:48,080 - You know, given that you have regular cycles 569 00:20:48,163 --> 00:20:49,665 and your age, potentially 570 00:20:49,748 --> 00:20:51,833 it can open the door to IVF, 571 00:20:51,917 --> 00:20:54,419 but then also to consider insemination, 572 00:20:54,503 --> 00:20:57,089 which is an easier option, if we have a sperm donor 573 00:20:57,172 --> 00:20:59,091 where we can get a good amount of sperm. 574 00:20:59,174 --> 00:21:03,011 - My brother was very generous to offer us his sperm, 575 00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:04,638 which, for me, it's safe, 576 00:21:04,721 --> 00:21:07,057 so I really, really like that idea. 577 00:21:07,140 --> 00:21:08,976 Tran is a little bit different. 578 00:21:09,059 --> 00:21:13,021 - I just think I'd rather not know who's the dad. 579 00:21:13,105 --> 00:21:16,942 - She's afraid that Nate is making irrational decision 580 00:21:17,025 --> 00:21:19,319 that, in his time of pain, 581 00:21:19,403 --> 00:21:23,198 that he's offering without really consciously thinking 582 00:21:23,281 --> 00:21:24,908 what might be, in the future. 583 00:21:24,992 --> 00:21:31,123 - And my concern was would this offer ever available, 584 00:21:31,206 --> 00:21:33,417 if none of this ever happened? 585 00:21:33,500 --> 00:21:35,252 This is about us. 586 00:21:35,335 --> 00:21:36,920 This is our child. 587 00:21:37,004 --> 00:21:38,755 - And it will be. It doesn't matter who's donated... 588 00:21:38,839 --> 00:21:40,090 - However-- - The sperm. 589 00:21:40,173 --> 00:21:42,342 I know that you have lawyers... 590 00:21:42,426 --> 00:21:43,927 - Yeah. - Right? To make it legal, 591 00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:46,221 so we would be listed as the parent. 592 00:21:46,304 --> 00:21:48,056 I don't want her running off with the baby, 593 00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:49,891 if we get into a fight, you know? 594 00:21:49,975 --> 00:21:55,313 - At the beginning, I have had commitment issue, 595 00:21:55,397 --> 00:21:58,859 but I don't want to bring the child into this world 596 00:21:58,942 --> 00:22:03,697 be--for the reason to tie us together, you know. 597 00:22:03,780 --> 00:22:10,203 We are legally equal right to this child. 598 00:22:10,287 --> 00:22:13,290 And it's normal that a single mom come in 599 00:22:13,373 --> 00:22:15,917 and want to have a baby? 600 00:22:16,001 --> 00:22:18,003 - Absolutely. It's definitely normal. 601 00:22:18,086 --> 00:22:19,421 - Just want to let you know that you don't 602 00:22:19,504 --> 00:22:22,007 fall into that category: single mother. 603 00:22:22,090 --> 00:22:23,759 - Yes. Correct. - Okay. 604 00:22:23,842 --> 00:22:27,429 - This baby's gonna have two moms. Absolutely. 605 00:22:27,512 --> 00:22:31,016 - Tran has this tendency to just leave. 606 00:22:31,099 --> 00:22:34,603 Like, leave for days when we're in a fight. 607 00:22:34,686 --> 00:22:35,937 The fact that we're going through 608 00:22:36,021 --> 00:22:37,981 all this--five years from now, 609 00:22:38,065 --> 00:22:41,610 when I'm completely in love with this baby, 610 00:22:41,693 --> 00:22:43,945 and you're thinking that, "Hey. We got into a fight. 611 00:22:44,029 --> 00:22:45,739 "I didn't get what I want. I'm just gonna pick up 612 00:22:45,822 --> 00:22:48,617 the baby and go, because that baby is mine." 613 00:22:48,700 --> 00:22:50,327 I worry about that all the time. 614 00:22:50,410 --> 00:22:51,912 - I do hope you understand that we have to be 615 00:22:51,995 --> 00:22:54,331 100% ready to make decision. 616 00:22:54,414 --> 00:22:58,168 - I'm ready. You're the one I feel like has reservations. 617 00:22:58,251 --> 00:23:01,463 - [speaking non-English language] 618 00:23:09,054 --> 00:23:10,138 - I'm committed. 619 00:23:10,222 --> 00:23:12,182 It's you I'm more worried about. 620 00:23:12,265 --> 00:23:15,227 [upbeat music] 621 00:23:15,310 --> 00:23:21,733 ♪ ♪ 622 00:23:21,817 --> 00:23:22,859 - What picture is this? 623 00:23:22,943 --> 00:23:24,778 - This is Grandma and Grandpa. 624 00:23:24,861 --> 00:23:26,988 - That's not real Grandma and Grandpa. 625 00:23:27,072 --> 00:23:29,574 - That is the real Grandma and Grandpa. That is them... 626 00:23:29,658 --> 00:23:30,992 - What it says? - A long time ago. 627 00:23:31,076 --> 00:23:32,828 - And what about these? 628 00:23:32,911 --> 00:23:35,330 - That's Grandma and Grandpa, and they got married. 629 00:23:35,413 --> 00:23:37,374 - Married! - Married. 630 00:23:37,457 --> 00:23:39,084 Party's about to start. 631 00:23:39,167 --> 00:23:40,293 I am making sure that 632 00:23:40,377 --> 00:23:41,795 everything is in its place. 633 00:23:41,878 --> 00:23:44,339 The place cards are perfectly placed. 634 00:23:44,423 --> 00:23:46,341 Clean glasses. Clean plates. 635 00:23:46,424 --> 00:23:48,343 You know, I just want everything to be perfect 636 00:23:48,426 --> 00:23:50,220 when everyone gets there and walks in 637 00:23:50,303 --> 00:23:53,098 and sees how beautiful it is and how much hard work 638 00:23:53,181 --> 00:23:55,433 and effort that I put into this party. 639 00:23:55,517 --> 00:23:57,269 - You see pictures of Grandma and Grandpa? 640 00:23:57,352 --> 00:23:59,896 You can put the gift on the table, Kennedy. 641 00:23:59,980 --> 00:24:02,315 - Don't mess it up, Nate. - What? 642 00:24:02,399 --> 00:24:03,567 - I just arranged it. Here. 643 00:24:03,650 --> 00:24:05,152 - We're just putting gifts down. 644 00:24:05,235 --> 00:24:07,571 - I just put the Wash thing on the backburner. 645 00:24:07,654 --> 00:24:09,531 I'm just trying to stay as busy as possible 646 00:24:09,614 --> 00:24:11,908 and distract myself from the fact 647 00:24:11,992 --> 00:24:15,579 that my future is uncertain right now. 648 00:24:15,662 --> 00:24:17,789 [indistinct chatter] 649 00:24:17,873 --> 00:24:19,249 - Hi! - You want to join us? 650 00:24:19,332 --> 00:24:20,959 - We haven't started. How are you? 651 00:24:21,042 --> 00:24:22,210 - Let's get warmed up. 652 00:24:22,294 --> 00:24:24,254 I feel stupid and ugly! 653 00:24:24,337 --> 00:24:26,464 I was like, "Oh, my God." 654 00:24:26,548 --> 00:24:28,884 Everybody wearing normal dress. Why me? 655 00:24:28,967 --> 00:24:31,553 It doesn't look like it's supposed to be me. 656 00:24:31,636 --> 00:24:33,513 Then I see Andy wearing a suit and say, 657 00:24:33,597 --> 00:24:36,683 "Okay. He look nice," but he look normal, decent. 658 00:24:36,766 --> 00:24:38,101 I haven't seen this for a while. 659 00:24:38,185 --> 00:24:40,896 - The anti-pirate look? - Yeah. 660 00:24:40,979 --> 00:24:42,939 - Don't they sell software for that? 661 00:24:43,023 --> 00:24:44,608 [laughter] 662 00:24:44,691 --> 00:24:46,276 - Dad joke. She's doing dad jokes. 663 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:47,569 - Mom jokes. - So funny. 664 00:24:47,652 --> 00:24:48,737 - Even better. 665 00:24:48,820 --> 00:24:50,363 - I made the heavens open, 666 00:24:50,447 --> 00:24:53,533 and Tina's wearing something covered in a turtleneck, 667 00:24:53,617 --> 00:24:56,578 and Andy is wearing a suit and a tie. 668 00:24:56,661 --> 00:24:59,414 I mean, the best daughter-in-law ever. 669 00:24:59,497 --> 00:25:00,415 Ever. 670 00:25:00,498 --> 00:25:03,418 [hip-hop music] 671 00:25:03,501 --> 00:25:05,170 ♪ ♪ 672 00:25:05,253 --> 00:25:06,880 - ♪ Do you know my name ♪ 673 00:25:06,963 --> 00:25:10,926 ♪ ♪ 674 00:25:11,009 --> 00:25:13,511 ♪ My name is fire ♪ 675 00:25:13,595 --> 00:25:15,430 ♪ Power ♪ 676 00:25:15,513 --> 00:25:19,392 ♪ My name is legend ♪ 677 00:25:19,476 --> 00:25:20,810 - Hello! - Hi! 678 00:25:20,894 --> 00:25:22,771 - Hello. - Yeah. Thank you. 679 00:25:22,854 --> 00:25:23,939 - Oh, you got... - Hi, Dad! 680 00:25:24,022 --> 00:25:25,398 - A true escort right there. 681 00:25:25,482 --> 00:25:26,942 - I would kind of look at my brother, 682 00:25:27,025 --> 00:25:28,485 but he didn't even pay attention 683 00:25:28,568 --> 00:25:30,195 to what I'm wearing, either, 684 00:25:30,278 --> 00:25:32,364 so I said, "What the hell?" I learned my lesson. 685 00:25:32,447 --> 00:25:35,200 Next time, I'm gonna do whatever I want to wear. 686 00:25:35,283 --> 00:25:37,160 Don't care. Bottom up! Bottom up! 687 00:25:37,244 --> 00:25:39,162 Bottom up! all: Whoo! 688 00:25:39,246 --> 00:25:40,789 - Where's the kiss? 689 00:25:40,872 --> 00:25:42,707 Where's the kiss? Where's the kiss? 690 00:25:42,791 --> 00:25:45,043 [laughter] 691 00:25:45,126 --> 00:25:46,628 - Just, like, kissing him. - She's too shy. 692 00:25:46,711 --> 00:25:48,797 Like, 45 years. 693 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,632 - I strive to make my father-in-law happy 694 00:25:50,715 --> 00:25:54,469 when I can, because I know what he's done for me 695 00:25:54,552 --> 00:25:56,221 and Wash and our kids. 696 00:25:56,304 --> 00:25:59,599 And as of this moment, right now, my father-in-law 697 00:25:59,683 --> 00:26:03,311 is the only one that can solve our situation. 698 00:26:03,395 --> 00:26:05,105 And it'll feel good, at the end 699 00:26:05,188 --> 00:26:09,109 of this elegant dinner party, when I get the recognition 700 00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:11,861 and all the thanks for my thoughtful gift. 701 00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,364 - Thank you for everybody came in today 702 00:26:14,447 --> 00:26:16,324 for my 45 anniversary. 703 00:26:16,408 --> 00:26:19,577 - How many years? - 45 years in jail. 704 00:26:19,661 --> 00:26:23,248 - In jail? - Are you guys in jail? 705 00:26:23,331 --> 00:26:24,833 - No. 706 00:26:24,916 --> 00:26:27,127 - I will not ever refer to my marriage 707 00:26:27,210 --> 00:26:28,378 as being in jail. 708 00:26:28,461 --> 00:26:30,005 I think it translates differently 709 00:26:30,088 --> 00:26:31,339 in Vietnamese. 710 00:26:31,423 --> 00:26:32,465 - [laughs] 711 00:26:32,549 --> 00:26:33,842 - It's what I'm assuming, right? 712 00:26:33,925 --> 00:26:35,343 - My dad speaks English pretty well, 713 00:26:35,427 --> 00:26:37,804 but I think he knows exactly what he's saying. 714 00:26:37,887 --> 00:26:40,098 - Then yeah. I would never say that. 715 00:26:40,181 --> 00:26:41,850 About our marriage. No. 716 00:26:41,933 --> 00:26:43,810 - I'm gonna explain it for y'all, okay? 717 00:26:43,893 --> 00:26:45,228 - Oh. You? - Okay. 718 00:26:45,312 --> 00:26:47,355 - I've been in jail a few times, 719 00:26:47,439 --> 00:26:49,983 so I understand this. - Real jail. 720 00:26:50,066 --> 00:26:54,029 - But when Dad met Mom, it was a relief 721 00:26:54,112 --> 00:26:56,281 that he finally found the love of his life. 722 00:26:56,364 --> 00:26:57,741 When you're in jail, 723 00:26:57,824 --> 00:26:59,909 like I've been in jail for seven years almost-- 724 00:26:59,993 --> 00:27:01,453 - Oh, my God. 725 00:27:01,536 --> 00:27:03,121 - I think that Lesley's been in jail. 726 00:27:03,204 --> 00:27:05,206 - Follow your father's step. - The best thing... 727 00:27:05,290 --> 00:27:06,583 - What's going on right now? - For a Ho, sometimes, 728 00:27:06,666 --> 00:27:08,251 is to be locked up, 729 00:27:08,335 --> 00:27:10,003 and to have some structure in their life, 730 00:27:10,086 --> 00:27:12,714 so I'm happy for you. Come here, honey. 731 00:27:12,797 --> 00:27:15,383 Let's take a photo with both of our probation officers. 732 00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:17,260 [laughter] 733 00:27:17,344 --> 00:27:19,054 - It's funny because it's true. 734 00:27:19,137 --> 00:27:21,431 You broke the conditions of our arrangement. 735 00:27:21,514 --> 00:27:24,059 If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. 736 00:27:24,142 --> 00:27:26,144 - Okay. Let me--I want to say something to Reagan. 737 00:27:26,227 --> 00:27:28,063 - Uh-oh. Uh-oh. all: Ooh. 738 00:27:28,146 --> 00:27:31,149 - My youngest son and the one-- 739 00:27:31,232 --> 00:27:33,693 me and Hue love them the most. 740 00:27:33,777 --> 00:27:35,111 - He's your baby. - What did you just say? 741 00:27:35,195 --> 00:27:36,237 - He's the baby. - You love me the most? 742 00:27:36,321 --> 00:27:37,322 - Yes. - The most yeah. 743 00:27:37,405 --> 00:27:38,740 - Because you're youngest one. 744 00:27:38,823 --> 00:27:40,658 - Reagan looked really surprised at that. 745 00:27:40,742 --> 00:27:42,035 - Yeah. We all are. 746 00:27:42,118 --> 00:27:43,411 - I've never heard that, ever, in my life. 747 00:27:43,495 --> 00:27:44,871 - I've never heard that. 748 00:27:44,954 --> 00:27:46,122 - Never--I've never heard that before. 749 00:27:46,206 --> 00:27:47,582 - Reagan is not his favorite, 750 00:27:47,665 --> 00:27:49,709 because Washington's the oldest son, 751 00:27:49,793 --> 00:27:51,461 and that's just the way it is. 752 00:27:51,544 --> 00:27:52,796 I don't know about that. 753 00:27:52,879 --> 00:27:54,422 - Yeah. I don't know either. 754 00:27:54,506 --> 00:27:56,383 - I thought I was second, after Washington, but shit. 755 00:27:56,466 --> 00:27:58,718 I guess I'm last. 756 00:27:58,802 --> 00:28:01,596 - Thank you, Dad. I'm 38 years old now. 757 00:28:01,679 --> 00:28:03,098 This is the first time 758 00:28:03,181 --> 00:28:05,725 I've ever heard you say that I'm your favorite. 759 00:28:05,809 --> 00:28:07,936 - The reason is because he youngest one, 760 00:28:08,019 --> 00:28:10,230 and he lonely, okay? 761 00:28:10,313 --> 00:28:12,273 That the one we all were thinking about. 762 00:28:12,357 --> 00:28:15,610 - But listen, Dad, but I think you assume I'm single 763 00:28:15,693 --> 00:28:17,987 because, you know, I can't get a woman. 764 00:28:18,071 --> 00:28:19,406 - No, no... - Don't say that. 765 00:28:19,489 --> 00:28:22,325 - No. - I'm single on purpose. 766 00:28:22,409 --> 00:28:23,535 - Whoo! - No. Wait. Hold on. 767 00:28:23,618 --> 00:28:25,120 I'm single on purpose. 768 00:28:25,203 --> 00:28:29,833 It's actually very tough just dating any girl you want, 769 00:28:29,916 --> 00:28:32,293 and when I meet the right girl I'll meet her. 770 00:28:32,377 --> 00:28:34,546 And when it happens, it happens. 771 00:28:34,629 --> 00:28:35,839 I don't know why you always want 772 00:28:35,922 --> 00:28:38,091 to push me to marry somebody. 773 00:28:38,174 --> 00:28:40,093 - No, no. I don't push you. - Yes, you have. 774 00:28:40,176 --> 00:28:43,221 [dramatic music] 775 00:28:43,304 --> 00:28:46,015 - It took months for me to develop this party, 776 00:28:46,099 --> 00:28:47,767 and it's taking Reagan minutes 777 00:28:47,851 --> 00:28:50,728 to break down the spirit of it. 778 00:28:50,812 --> 00:28:52,105 This is not okay. 779 00:28:52,188 --> 00:28:53,815 Okay. If everyone would take your seats, 780 00:28:53,898 --> 00:28:56,484 your names are on your place cards. 781 00:28:56,568 --> 00:29:00,238 - Oh, just like prison. - Okay. 782 00:29:00,321 --> 00:29:03,825 Everyone, take your seat. Seat. Andy, sit. 783 00:29:03,908 --> 00:29:05,493 - To being the favorite son. 784 00:29:05,577 --> 00:29:07,162 - All right! - Or the favorite kid. 785 00:29:07,245 --> 00:29:08,705 all: Congratulations. 786 00:29:08,788 --> 00:29:11,541 - Whoa! [cheers] 787 00:29:12,584 --> 00:29:15,170 - Aunt Tina, were you there that day? 788 00:29:15,253 --> 00:29:16,337 - No, we didn't. - So you weren't 789 00:29:16,421 --> 00:29:18,256 at your big brother's wedding? 790 00:29:18,339 --> 00:29:19,966 - Yeah. When we were young, we didn't get 791 00:29:20,049 --> 00:29:21,968 to do a lot of things, like you guys. 792 00:29:22,051 --> 00:29:25,597 - So you weren't there. Andy, were you there? 793 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,724 - Yeah. I wasn't there then. - Why weren't you guys there 794 00:29:27,807 --> 00:29:30,477 for his--you know, his wedding day? 795 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:31,936 Probably the happiest day of his life. 796 00:29:32,020 --> 00:29:33,396 - We was too young. - Okay. 797 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,856 Well, did he invite you? 798 00:29:34,939 --> 00:29:36,357 - We don't get to travel. 799 00:29:36,441 --> 00:29:39,903 - Well, did my dad invite you to the wedding? 800 00:29:39,986 --> 00:29:41,279 - What is happening? 801 00:29:41,362 --> 00:29:43,156 This party is going off the rails, 802 00:29:43,239 --> 00:29:45,867 and it's not everything that I've hoped and planned for. 803 00:29:45,950 --> 00:29:47,202 - Hold on. Hold on. 804 00:29:47,285 --> 00:29:50,079 Were you invited to the wedding? 805 00:29:50,163 --> 00:29:51,789 It's your big brother's wedding day. 806 00:29:51,873 --> 00:29:53,249 Why wouldn't you go? 807 00:29:53,333 --> 00:29:54,709 - But my dad was not ready for him. 808 00:29:54,792 --> 00:29:56,377 - But knowing the fact that he took care 809 00:29:56,461 --> 00:29:58,213 of the whole family and took care of everyone... 810 00:29:58,296 --> 00:29:59,464 - Everybody. 811 00:29:59,547 --> 00:30:01,758 - Nobody showed up at his wedding? 812 00:30:01,841 --> 00:30:03,718 - I was so young that I couldn't remember 813 00:30:03,801 --> 00:30:04,886 if they even invited me. 814 00:30:04,969 --> 00:30:06,346 - So you weren't allowed to go? 815 00:30:06,429 --> 00:30:08,681 - You should ask your dad, 'cause I was 12. 816 00:30:08,765 --> 00:30:11,226 - It's a little complicated. - What's your question? 817 00:30:11,309 --> 00:30:14,103 - Is everything she's saying true? 818 00:30:14,187 --> 00:30:16,189 - Pretty much he eloped. 819 00:30:19,567 --> 00:30:21,653 - In that time, I'm wearing a lot of shoes. 820 00:30:21,736 --> 00:30:25,281 I'm being the son, I'm being a brother, 821 00:30:25,365 --> 00:30:29,035 and I'm being boyfriend to girl I will marry. 822 00:30:29,118 --> 00:30:32,121 Was really hard for my parents accept my marriage. 823 00:30:32,205 --> 00:30:35,333 I cannot let my girlfriend stay there forever, 824 00:30:35,416 --> 00:30:37,377 so I decided to marry myself. 825 00:30:37,460 --> 00:30:40,213 ♪ ♪ 826 00:30:40,296 --> 00:30:41,881 - Honey. - What? 827 00:30:41,965 --> 00:30:45,176 - Don't you think I deserve a toast? 828 00:30:45,260 --> 00:30:47,053 ♪ ♪ 829 00:30:47,136 --> 00:30:48,721 - All right, guys. I gotta make a toast 830 00:30:48,805 --> 00:30:50,181 to my beautiful wife... 831 00:30:50,265 --> 00:30:51,641 - Aw. - For setting this up. 832 00:30:51,724 --> 00:30:53,768 all: Cheers! - Thanks for setting this up. 833 00:30:53,851 --> 00:30:55,478 - Thank you for setting this up. 834 00:30:55,562 --> 00:30:56,688 - Thank you, Lesley. 835 00:30:56,771 --> 00:30:58,565 You are amazing daughter-in-law. 836 00:30:58,648 --> 00:31:00,733 - How many years have your parents been married? 837 00:31:00,817 --> 00:31:03,278 - They've been married for 37 years. 838 00:31:03,361 --> 00:31:04,654 - Wait till their 40th and do a big one. 839 00:31:04,737 --> 00:31:06,114 - Yeah. 40th. 840 00:31:06,197 --> 00:31:07,574 - That's a good... - You hear that? 841 00:31:07,657 --> 00:31:09,200 - Milestone year. - I'll set it up. 842 00:31:09,284 --> 00:31:11,327 - You will do that next year, for her, okay? 843 00:31:11,411 --> 00:31:12,745 - Okay. - No, you're not. 844 00:31:12,829 --> 00:31:14,122 You ain't setting nothing up. - Yeah. 845 00:31:14,205 --> 00:31:15,540 You're gonna make her do it. - I know. 846 00:31:15,623 --> 00:31:17,292 - Just like this. - Just like this. Yes. 847 00:31:17,375 --> 00:31:18,626 [glasses clink] 848 00:31:18,710 --> 00:31:21,671 [soft music] 849 00:31:21,754 --> 00:31:25,592 ♪ ♪ 850 00:31:25,675 --> 00:31:27,135 - Hi, baby. - You look tired. 851 00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:29,721 - I'm looking for recipes for whiskey sours, 852 00:31:29,804 --> 00:31:31,931 for the egg white, 'cause you know I like that... 853 00:31:32,015 --> 00:31:33,766 - Yeah. - At the restaurants. 854 00:31:33,850 --> 00:31:35,852 - Let me lube myself up. - Ooh. 855 00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:38,313 [both laughing] 856 00:31:38,396 --> 00:31:40,565 - Wrong body part? - Wrong place. 857 00:31:40,648 --> 00:31:43,234 - After I went away for college and law school, 858 00:31:43,318 --> 00:31:45,653 I always promised my parents that I would come back. 859 00:31:45,737 --> 00:31:48,197 I've done everything they've asked, and you know, 860 00:31:48,281 --> 00:31:50,992 they were--at this point, 861 00:31:51,075 --> 00:31:52,410 I'm like, "It's enough," you know? 862 00:31:52,493 --> 00:31:54,162 So we're gonna go to London, right? 863 00:31:54,245 --> 00:31:55,663 - Or France. - Okay sure. 864 00:31:55,747 --> 00:31:57,040 - Or Spain. - Oh! Or Spain. 865 00:31:57,123 --> 00:31:58,875 I would go anywhere in Europe almost. 866 00:31:58,958 --> 00:32:03,421 - So we've--both of us have not put ourselves ahead 867 00:32:03,504 --> 00:32:04,964 in a long time. 868 00:32:05,048 --> 00:32:07,508 I mean, it's hard. It's hard being in Houston, 869 00:32:07,592 --> 00:32:08,885 you know, with everything that's going on with us, 870 00:32:08,968 --> 00:32:10,178 and I think having a new start... 871 00:32:10,261 --> 00:32:11,846 - Yeah. - In a new country 872 00:32:11,929 --> 00:32:13,514 or a new place would be great. 873 00:32:13,598 --> 00:32:14,724 - Right? - Just happens to be London. 874 00:32:14,807 --> 00:32:16,184 - Yeah. 875 00:32:16,267 --> 00:32:17,685 It's not gonna happen anytime soon. 876 00:32:17,769 --> 00:32:19,854 It's probably, like, years down the line. 877 00:32:19,937 --> 00:32:21,230 - Starting something in England. 878 00:32:21,314 --> 00:32:22,398 - Yeah. 879 00:32:22,482 --> 00:32:24,025 - I thought so. - [laughs] 880 00:32:24,108 --> 00:32:25,443 [both laughing] 881 00:32:25,526 --> 00:32:27,945 - We need an ocean between us and our families. 882 00:32:28,029 --> 00:32:29,238 - We can talk to your dad. 883 00:32:29,322 --> 00:32:30,948 We can start a company over there 884 00:32:31,032 --> 00:32:32,659 under your dad's name, like, you know. 885 00:32:32,742 --> 00:32:34,035 - Uh, yeah. We can... 886 00:32:34,118 --> 00:32:35,536 - We'll buy property over there. 887 00:32:35,620 --> 00:32:36,871 - Do that. - We'll manage it for him. 888 00:32:36,954 --> 00:32:38,331 - Mm-hmm. - That way I don't need 889 00:32:38,414 --> 00:32:40,166 to get my license to practice medicine... 890 00:32:40,249 --> 00:32:41,542 - True. - Which is not easy. 891 00:32:41,626 --> 00:32:42,877 I don't know when we'll ever go there, 892 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,462 but I mean, it's... 893 00:32:44,545 --> 00:32:45,880 - I'd rather go sooner than later. 894 00:32:45,963 --> 00:32:47,131 - That'd be fine. 895 00:32:47,215 --> 00:32:49,884 If we can get out the logistics, you know. 896 00:32:49,967 --> 00:32:52,387 - What if the logistics were not an issue? 897 00:32:52,470 --> 00:32:54,389 - Yeah. If the logistics not an issue, I'd go anywhere. 898 00:32:54,472 --> 00:32:55,556 - Really? - Yeah. 899 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,808 - With me? - Yes. 900 00:32:56,891 --> 00:32:58,226 - I love you. You're the best. 901 00:32:58,309 --> 00:32:59,727 - You too. 902 00:32:59,811 --> 00:33:01,396 - Who wears the pants in our relationship? 903 00:33:01,479 --> 00:33:03,898 - I do, babe. You know that. - I wear the shirt. 904 00:33:03,981 --> 00:33:05,650 - No. You pick the pants. - Oh, okay! Sure, sure. 905 00:33:05,733 --> 00:33:07,568 - You tell me what to wear, but I'm like, 906 00:33:07,652 --> 00:33:08,986 "I'll put that on." 907 00:33:09,070 --> 00:33:10,238 [both laughing] 908 00:33:10,863 --> 00:33:13,533 - ♪ Follow me down, she said ♪ 909 00:33:13,616 --> 00:33:16,119 ♪ Down to the old oak tree ♪ 910 00:33:16,202 --> 00:33:17,995 ♪ We can build a fire there ♪ 911 00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:19,580 ♪ Set our hearts ablaze ♪ 912 00:33:19,664 --> 00:33:21,374 ♪ And our spirits free ♪ 913 00:33:21,457 --> 00:33:23,918 ♪ Follow me down, she said ♪ 914 00:33:24,001 --> 00:33:26,587 ♪ When the moon and the stars are high ♪ 915 00:33:26,671 --> 00:33:29,173 ♪ And when the fire's burning red ♪ 916 00:33:29,257 --> 00:33:31,551 ♪ You and me can touch the sky ♪ 917 00:33:31,634 --> 00:33:35,346 ♪ Free your mind, she said ♪ 918 00:33:35,430 --> 00:33:37,348 ♪ ♪