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[Paper Kings'
"Look At Me Now"]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Can't nobody
hold me down ♪
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♪ I'm steady walkin' like ♪
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♪ I got three commas
in my bank account ♪
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♪ Livin' loud,
so get your cameras out ♪
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♪ I'd probably do
the same thing if I was you ♪
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♪ Lookin' at me now, now ♪
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♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh,
oh-oh, oh-oh ♪
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♪ Mm, put up your lights ♪
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♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪
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♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh,
oh-oh, oh-oh ♪
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♪ Don't ever put 'em
down, down, down ♪
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♪ Look at me now ♪
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[up-tempo hip-hop music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Tell me I got it,
the mojo is drippin' ♪
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♪ That means that I want
the newest edition ♪
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♪ Don't call me crazy,
just tellin' my vision ♪
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- Have you ever
eaten here before?
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- Actually, the first time
I met her was here.
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- Happy hour for Tina?
both: Yes.
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- Thank you.
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- So this is their famous
Mind Eraser.
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- It's called a Mind Eraser?
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- It erases your mind.
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- To ladies who want change.
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- Yes.
- Cheers.
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- It's been nice to have Sammy
back in the fold
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with the family.
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I'm making more of an effort
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to get to know her.
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You know,
we have 60 first cousins,
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so obviously I can't
be close to all of them.
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But, you know, Sammy's
been through a tough time
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and I do care for her.
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- I'm gonna show you
a music video.
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And you're gonna love
your family.
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- More than I already do?
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- Oh, more than you already do.
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- I wanna see.
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- ♪ I'm the king of da Ho ♪
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♪ I don't care
if you ready or not ♪
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- Oh, my God.
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- ♪ I'm the king of da Ho ♪
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- Is he wearing a crown?
- Oh, my God--hahaha!
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- ♪ Came from the bottom,
straight to the top ♪
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♪ I'm ready to blow ♪
[laughter]
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- How's your dad gonna feel
about that?
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- He'll probably think
why did I pay for college?
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- [laughs]
- Has Lesley seen this?
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- I don't know.
- Poor Lesley.
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I mean, I know she wants
to be supportive of him
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because, you know, he says
this is his new passion,
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but it's hard for Lesley.
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So I think he really needs
to convince her,
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"This is, like,
my long-term goal.
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This isn't something
I'm just doing."
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- Being a producer,
is that...stability?
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- I don't know.
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- You think it's, like,
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what she thinks or what her--
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what she thinks that others
will think of her?
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- I think image is important
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to both of them.
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- Both of them. A lot.
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- And you know, Washington
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just likes that image
of "King of da Hos."
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- King of da Hos.
[laughter]
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- Does Lesley wanna
be "Queen of da Hos"?
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I doubt it. You know?
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- Oh, no.
Maybe she wants to be.
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- Not that version.
[laughter]
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- Was she at the music video?
- No.
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- Lesley wasn't there?
- No, she wasn't there.
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- And Tran was on the set,
and Tammy was really happy.
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Is it--
- She's shaking her head.
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She doesn't like the situation.
- Yeah.
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I just found out too.
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- What?
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- Tran is actually 28.
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- What did she say
she was before?
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- She told me she was 31.
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- Why would she lie
about her age?
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- Exactly.
What else is she lying about?
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Dude, Tammy bought her a car.
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- Like, you think
it's too much too soon.
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- They've only been together
for, like, less than a year.
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And honestly, in my heart,
Tran--she's a player.
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- What?
- Tran is a player.
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- You think that?
- Yes.
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- I don't know.
- I'm telling you this--yes.
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- Why would she lie
about the age thing?
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'Cause 28--
- That's so easy to prove.
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- Yeah.
- Yeah.
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But that small lie
really does showcase
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other kids of stuff
that she's just gonna
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make up for no reason.
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- Have you brought it up
to her?
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- No. I will.
I'll talk to Tam about it.
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Oh, the favorite.
- Ooh.
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- Thank you.
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- I love the food here.
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- Yeah. It's so dope.
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- All right,
I'm gonna eat this one.
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This is for the baby.
- For the baby.
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- Mmm.
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- I can't wait
for him to be born.
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I cannot wait. Yeah.
- Yeah.
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You know, me and your brother,
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maybe we should, like,
go to the courthouse
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and maybe get things formalized
before the baby comes.
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- Yeah.
- 'Cause, you know, to us
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it's just a piece of paper.
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- Who's gonna be there with you
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to witness all this?
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Family members?
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- We're just gonna keep it
between me and Nate.
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- Uh, wow.
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We wanna witness you getting
married.
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You know what I mean?
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- I just wanna keep it simple.
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- Are you serious? Why?
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- I just feel like once
my family gets involved,
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it gets complicated.
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- Well, can you invite
one person?
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- And that one person is you?
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- I wanna be there
for you guys.
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- I know you love your brother,
but it's between me and him.
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- Wow. Wow.
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- We know you're there
in spirit.
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How about that?
- It's not the same, girl.
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- I'll send you pictures.
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[tense music]
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[Ashley Clark's
"Flowing with the Breeze"]
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- ♪ Sunday wake up ♪
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♪ Feeling something ♪
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♪ Shout and shake up ♪
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♪ Got no plans ♪
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- It's a beautiful day, kids.
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Can you get the bait,
Roosevelt?
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Kennedy has it.
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You gotta hook it yourself.
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Grab it. Grab it, Roosevelt.
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- Too slimy.
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- Going out fishing
with my dad,
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it's always a great time.
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It brings back
the best memories.
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- Whoo. Wow.
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Catch the first one,
you get money, remember?
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- Taking my son fishing,
Judy's kids fishing
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always makes me feel happy.
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You can't just get lucky.
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I'm gonna set you up
on a secret fishing pole
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'cause you're
my favorite niece.
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[line whooshes]
[splash]
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- Good news, Daddy.
There's fish!
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- How do you know?
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- Because the fish ate
some of my worm.
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- Oh, really?
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- How many fish you think
you can catch today?
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Two? Great.
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- One thing I'm better
at you at is fishing.
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- Another one
you better than me,
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the kids' playboy.
- Yeah.
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Playing and having fun
is my thing.
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- Yeah.
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- Dad, my mother-in-law's
in town.
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- You get along right now?
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- She's difficult, Dad.
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You know, in America they make
a lot of in-law jokes.
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- Yeah. Monkey on the back?
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That what you say?
- Yeah, monkey on the back.
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When I married my wife,
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I thought I married my wife,
not my mother-in-law.
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- That true because, you know,
any mother,
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they try to protect the kid
no matter how old they are,
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so even they married to you,
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but she still try
to protect her daughter.
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- Protect her from what?
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- I cannot explain what,
but that the feeling.
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- Yeah, but before they come,
my wife makes, like,
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100 rules for me to follow.
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I wish my wife would be
Lesley Ho
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instead of the Lesley Ho,
"What does my mom think,
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and that's how you should be."
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But I think she's starting
to turn out like her mom,
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and it's pretty scary.
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- Your mom,
she don't make 100 rules.
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She make 1,000 rules.
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I just smile, but I pick
and I choose what I want.
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- When you and Mom
moved to America
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and her mom was back
in Vietnam--
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- Right.
- How long did it take
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until you got to tell her mom
that she was safe?
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- When I come back
the United States,
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friend of your mom, she told me
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she love me more than
her daughter.
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So you need to prove
to them you right.
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You show them
you love your wife,
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you take care of the family,
and she can see that.
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- I think it's super important
that I maintain my boundaries.
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I don't want to lean into
what my wife wants me to do.
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If I can just be myself,
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that would be
my dream come true.
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I can't just live
for my wife anymore.
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I gotta live for myself.
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- I caught one!
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- You got one?
- Yeah.
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- Yay!
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All right. Hold on.
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Don't clap yet.
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- Slow down.
- Let Uncle help you.
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All right.
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Whoo!
- Whoo-hoo!
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- Yay!
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Truman got one.
- You're the first one.
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Yeah. We're gonna take
a picture.
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- All right, now we know
where the fish is.
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Now we can change our strategy.
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- Take a picture.
- Okay, Roosevelt?
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There's still time
to catch the biggest one.
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Don't be sad.
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Don't be like your dad, okay?
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All right. Congrats, Truman.
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[bass-heavy electronic music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ All eyes on me ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Keep moving forward.
There's gonna be a step.
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Yeah, hump.
Straight forward.
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- Big hump.
- [speaking Vietnamese]
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- What are we doing?
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all: Surprise!
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- What?
[chatter, laughter]
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I thought I was at a bar.
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- Yeah.
- We are at the bar!
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- We're at the bar.
- It's your bartender.
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Congratulations.
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- So this is yours.
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- Aww.
- What a gift.
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- I know.
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- This is the first time
I heard you not speak.
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When Tran and I talked about
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starting a new family,
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you know,
in Vietnamese culture,
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if somebody gives you a baby,
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I mean, you have
to give them a gift.
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New stove for you
to cook for me.
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[laughter]
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So as a thank you for agreeing
to carry our baby,
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I bought her a house.
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Wanna see the house?
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- Okay,
I'll walk you this time.
255
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I don't trust you walking me.
256
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[Tammy laughs]
257
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- What the fuck? It's crazy.
258
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- What are you worried about?
259
00:08:39,018 --> 00:08:40,770
- Well, Tammy's so in love
right now.
260
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I wanna make sure she's,
you know--
261
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no one's fucking her over.
262
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I'm sorry.
263
00:08:45,233 --> 00:08:46,484
I'm worried that my sister's
264
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not thinking clearly because
265
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whatever Tran says goes.
266
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- This room--perfect nursery.
267
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- We might fit two in here.
268
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- We can fit four in here.
269
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- No, no, no, no.
[laughs]
270
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- I just wanna make sure
my sister Tammy
271
00:08:59,163 --> 00:09:01,582
is not gonna be played.
[sighs]
272
00:09:02,875 --> 00:09:06,337
- Baby, I never believed
in love until...
273
00:09:06,420 --> 00:09:07,505
you showed me.
274
00:09:07,588 --> 00:09:10,007
- [speaking Vietnamese]
275
00:09:10,091 --> 00:09:11,467
[laughs]
276
00:09:12,969 --> 00:09:14,136
- With you.
277
00:09:14,220 --> 00:09:15,471
- Okay.
278
00:09:15,554 --> 00:09:18,641
[sentimental music]
279
00:09:18,724 --> 00:09:20,643
♪ ♪
280
00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:24,397
Oh, don't cry.
You're gonna make me cry.
281
00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,066
♪ ♪
282
00:09:27,149 --> 00:09:30,987
I don't know how it's gonna be
once we add a baby to the mix,
283
00:09:31,070 --> 00:09:33,823
but I just think
this is a good place
284
00:09:33,906 --> 00:09:36,367
for us to start a family.
285
00:09:36,450 --> 00:09:39,578
♪ ♪
286
00:09:39,662 --> 00:09:42,164
- Did you always hear
that she calls Tam her--
287
00:09:42,248 --> 00:09:43,582
- Sugar mama?
- "Sugar mama."
288
00:09:43,666 --> 00:09:45,001
Tran spent the night
in my house
289
00:09:45,084 --> 00:09:46,961
when they were fighting,
and she said stuff
290
00:09:47,044 --> 00:09:49,046
that I wasn't
very comfortable with.
291
00:09:49,130 --> 00:09:50,506
They got into an argument,
292
00:09:50,589 --> 00:09:51,841
Tam left to go home,
293
00:09:51,924 --> 00:09:53,634
and Tran told us
a lot of stuff.
294
00:09:53,718 --> 00:09:54,844
She was drinking.
295
00:09:54,927 --> 00:09:58,639
She told me that
she can turn me lesbian.
296
00:09:58,723 --> 00:10:00,850
She said she's that good,
and that's why
297
00:10:00,933 --> 00:10:02,476
Tam deeply fell
in love with her.
298
00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,937
Tran is a freaking
smooth-talker,
299
00:10:05,021 --> 00:10:07,189
and I feel like
she's very confident
300
00:10:07,273 --> 00:10:08,858
and my sister likes that.
301
00:10:08,941 --> 00:10:11,569
- What if you speak up
and she doesn't agree with you
302
00:10:11,652 --> 00:10:13,863
and then Tran and her will--
303
00:10:13,946 --> 00:10:15,448
- Why would she be mad at me?
304
00:10:15,531 --> 00:10:17,491
I'm--I'm looking out for her.
I'm trying to--
305
00:10:17,575 --> 00:10:19,827
- That's not how relationships
work.
306
00:10:19,910 --> 00:10:21,454
- I worry
about Tammy's health.
307
00:10:21,537 --> 00:10:23,539
She's been through a lot.
Bad marriage.
308
00:10:23,622 --> 00:10:26,125
She has quadruple heart
bypass surgery
309
00:10:26,208 --> 00:10:27,918
and she didn't tell
anybody about.
310
00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:31,047
I will speak my mind
until she finds that person
311
00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:32,715
to treat her really well.
312
00:10:32,798 --> 00:10:34,508
[tense music]
313
00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:36,052
- Hey, Tam.
314
00:10:36,135 --> 00:10:37,303
How are you?
- Hey, guys.
315
00:10:37,386 --> 00:10:38,304
- Hello, guys.
316
00:10:38,387 --> 00:10:39,472
- Hey, Van had a question.
317
00:10:39,555 --> 00:10:41,140
- What's the question?
318
00:10:41,223 --> 00:10:42,600
- Tam, are you happy?
319
00:10:42,683 --> 00:10:45,061
[dramatic chords]
320
00:10:45,144 --> 00:10:47,396
- Yeah. It's a happy moment.
321
00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:48,773
- You're happy because, what?
322
00:10:48,856 --> 00:10:50,733
Because you bought a house
for her?
323
00:10:50,816 --> 00:10:51,942
How are you happy?
- No.
324
00:10:52,026 --> 00:10:53,444
I'm happy that she's happy,
325
00:10:53,527 --> 00:10:54,820
and if she's happy, I'm happy.
326
00:10:54,904 --> 00:10:57,365
- Whose name is it under,
yours or hers?
327
00:10:57,448 --> 00:10:58,699
- The deed's in her name.
328
00:10:58,783 --> 00:11:00,618
- You pay for it,
and then she owns it?
329
00:11:00,701 --> 00:11:01,744
- It's a gift.
330
00:11:01,827 --> 00:11:03,037
- I understand you're in love,
331
00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:04,580
but don't be dumb in love.
332
00:11:04,663 --> 00:11:05,998
You understand what I'm saying?
333
00:11:06,082 --> 00:11:08,209
I'm worried about someone
taking advantage of you,
334
00:11:08,292 --> 00:11:10,169
of your kindness.
335
00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:12,671
- I understand Vanessa,
but still,
336
00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:17,843
some opinion that I came
to Tammy because of money--
337
00:11:17,927 --> 00:11:21,013
people probably judge me
as a gold digger
338
00:11:21,097 --> 00:11:23,808
and I can't justify that
for myself.
339
00:11:23,891 --> 00:11:26,769
But I do hope that she
will understand us, too,
340
00:11:26,852 --> 00:11:28,646
and she'd have a peace of mind
341
00:11:28,729 --> 00:11:31,023
that I love her sister
with honest love.
342
00:11:31,107 --> 00:11:34,985
- Who wears the figurative
pants in the relationship?
343
00:11:35,069 --> 00:11:36,654
- Who wears the pants
in the family?
344
00:11:36,737 --> 00:11:37,947
- Decision-maker.
- Yeah.
345
00:11:38,030 --> 00:11:39,698
- Important decisions.
- Yeah.
346
00:11:39,782 --> 00:11:41,659
- I wear pants.
She makes the decisions.
347
00:11:41,742 --> 00:11:42,785
- How do you feel about that?
348
00:11:42,868 --> 00:11:44,912
- She listens to my opinion,
349
00:11:44,995 --> 00:11:46,789
then to make that decision.
350
00:11:46,872 --> 00:11:48,374
- Oh, she's like the Binh Ho
in the house.
351
00:11:48,457 --> 00:11:49,959
[laughs]
I heard what you said,
352
00:11:50,042 --> 00:11:51,836
but this is what
we're gonna do.
353
00:11:51,919 --> 00:11:53,045
[laughter]
354
00:11:53,129 --> 00:11:54,547
- So do you trust her decisions
355
00:11:54,630 --> 00:11:55,965
'cause she's a lot older
than you?
356
00:11:56,048 --> 00:11:57,299
- Is she older?
357
00:11:57,383 --> 00:11:58,801
- Fuck. Yes!
358
00:11:58,884 --> 00:12:00,970
- [laughs]
- Oh, my man, Carlton.
359
00:12:01,053 --> 00:12:02,555
You are invited
to every single party.
360
00:12:02,638 --> 00:12:03,973
- Are you serious?
- Yeah.
361
00:12:04,056 --> 00:12:05,349
- I didn't know who was older.
- I know.
362
00:12:05,433 --> 00:12:07,309
Cheers to that. [laughs]
- How many years?
363
00:12:07,393 --> 00:12:08,519
- 15.
- 15.
364
00:12:08,602 --> 00:12:09,979
- Whoa. Seriously?
365
00:12:10,062 --> 00:12:11,605
- But you always wanted
to find somebody--
366
00:12:11,689 --> 00:12:13,232
you told me this--
that you want someone
367
00:12:13,315 --> 00:12:14,650
to take care of you.
368
00:12:14,733 --> 00:12:16,318
Now it's you're taking care
of somebody else.
369
00:12:16,402 --> 00:12:17,987
- No, she is taking care
of her.
370
00:12:18,070 --> 00:12:19,655
When she says "I want somebody
to take care of me,"
371
00:12:19,738 --> 00:12:21,031
that doesn't mean that she's
saying she wants somebody
372
00:12:21,115 --> 00:12:22,658
to pay for everything.
373
00:12:22,741 --> 00:12:25,619
That means she wants somebody
to be her companion, to--
374
00:12:25,703 --> 00:12:28,789
- Or who's willing
to cook at 7:00 at night.
375
00:12:28,873 --> 00:12:31,000
You know?
- Who's willing to...
376
00:12:31,083 --> 00:12:33,043
take her pants off, you know?
377
00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:34,420
- Or skirt off.
- Yeah. Or skirt.
378
00:12:34,503 --> 00:12:36,088
- Yeah. Yeah.
[laughs]
379
00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:38,048
- That's all I'm trying to say.
- I'll cheer to that.
380
00:12:38,132 --> 00:12:39,842
- It could mean some other...
381
00:12:39,925 --> 00:12:41,510
[laughter]
382
00:12:41,594 --> 00:12:44,597
[moody acoustic music]
383
00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:51,604
♪ ♪
384
00:12:56,692 --> 00:12:58,569
- [speaking Vietnamese]
385
00:12:58,652 --> 00:13:00,821
- [speaking Vietnamese]
386
00:13:00,905 --> 00:13:02,198
- Oh.
387
00:13:02,281 --> 00:13:04,283
- But you have all day
with them tomorrow.
388
00:13:04,366 --> 00:13:05,576
[edgy string music]
389
00:13:05,659 --> 00:13:07,286
- I feel like I'm very
put together
390
00:13:07,369 --> 00:13:08,787
when my mom's not here
391
00:13:08,871 --> 00:13:09,997
because I play this role.
392
00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:11,540
I know my role very well.
393
00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:13,792
But it's hard
to play that role
394
00:13:13,876 --> 00:13:15,836
when my mom can see
right through me,
395
00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,880
especially when she's right
in front of your face.
396
00:13:17,963 --> 00:13:20,049
[footsteps approaching]
397
00:13:21,175 --> 00:13:22,551
- Hey, Mom.
398
00:13:22,635 --> 00:13:23,844
[speaking Vietnamese]
399
00:13:23,928 --> 00:13:25,179
- What are you wearing?
400
00:13:25,262 --> 00:13:27,306
- Your new style?
- Yeah.
401
00:13:27,389 --> 00:13:29,892
I'm wearing my favorite jacket.
402
00:13:29,975 --> 00:13:31,519
Told me no boxers.
403
00:13:31,602 --> 00:13:33,687
Completely covered up
in cashmere.
404
00:13:33,771 --> 00:13:35,606
Giorgio Armani.
405
00:13:35,689 --> 00:13:37,691
And Hermès scarf...
406
00:13:37,775 --> 00:13:38,901
for my nose.
407
00:13:39,985 --> 00:13:41,904
What do you think?
408
00:13:41,987 --> 00:13:43,572
See? No boxers.
409
00:13:43,656 --> 00:13:46,075
Just a bunch of long,
sexy legs.
410
00:13:46,992 --> 00:13:48,285
- I thought my mom was gonna
411
00:13:48,369 --> 00:13:49,578
have a heart attack
in the kitchen.
412
00:13:49,662 --> 00:13:51,080
- You're giving me
that look again.
413
00:13:51,163 --> 00:13:52,498
It's not feeling good.
414
00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:56,669
The energy that I get
from my mother-in-law...
415
00:13:56,752 --> 00:13:59,004
- I think you are crazy.
416
00:13:59,088 --> 00:14:01,757
- It makes me want
to do the opposite
417
00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,426
of what my wife
wants me to do.
418
00:14:04,510 --> 00:14:06,929
I'm following the rules.
419
00:14:07,012 --> 00:14:10,558
- Whatever you wear like this
and come to me.
420
00:14:10,641 --> 00:14:12,560
You know what you do.
421
00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:14,770
- I'm pretty sure her mom
told her
422
00:14:14,853 --> 00:14:16,981
"Don't marry this playboy."
423
00:14:17,064 --> 00:14:18,107
- [mouthing words]
424
00:14:18,190 --> 00:14:19,692
- Go back upstairs?
425
00:14:19,775 --> 00:14:21,527
- Please.
426
00:14:21,610 --> 00:14:23,445
- Already?
427
00:14:23,529 --> 00:14:25,155
In our Vietnamese culture,
428
00:14:25,239 --> 00:14:28,284
if you have a daughter,
there's a certain type of guy
429
00:14:28,367 --> 00:14:30,911
you want her to marry,
and that's someone...
430
00:14:30,995 --> 00:14:33,122
that's better
than your daughter.
431
00:14:33,205 --> 00:14:35,457
And I'm the total opposite
432
00:14:35,541 --> 00:14:37,376
of what her mom
wanted for Lesley.
433
00:14:37,459 --> 00:14:39,587
She doesn't think
I'm better than Lesley.
434
00:14:39,670 --> 00:14:41,839
That's the thing.
435
00:14:41,922 --> 00:14:44,216
But we're Hos,
so we know we're better.
436
00:14:44,300 --> 00:14:46,218
[chuckles]
437
00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:50,055
- [sighs]
438
00:14:51,265 --> 00:14:53,851
I just wish...
[speaking Vietnamese]
439
00:14:54,852 --> 00:14:56,061
You know?
440
00:15:00,316 --> 00:15:02,985
- I know. I know.
441
00:15:07,156 --> 00:15:08,407
You know?
[sniffles]
442
00:15:23,589 --> 00:15:25,966
- I love you too.
443
00:15:26,050 --> 00:15:27,551
- Try to work it out.
444
00:15:27,635 --> 00:15:29,678
- [speaking Vietnamese]
You know, I mean,
445
00:15:29,762 --> 00:15:31,472
And sometime...
[speaking Vietnamese]
446
00:15:42,107 --> 00:15:45,235
[sentimental music]
447
00:15:45,319 --> 00:15:46,779
♪ ♪
448
00:15:46,862 --> 00:15:48,614
[murmuring] I love you.
449
00:15:50,324 --> 00:15:52,576
Thank you for coming.
450
00:15:52,660 --> 00:15:55,579
[upbeat music]
451
00:15:55,663 --> 00:15:57,665
- Hi. Thanks for coming.
452
00:15:57,748 --> 00:15:58,707
- My pleasure.
453
00:15:58,791 --> 00:16:00,000
So what is going on?
454
00:16:00,084 --> 00:16:01,168
- Not a criminal issue.
455
00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:02,586
- Okay, good. Good.
456
00:16:02,670 --> 00:16:04,296
'Cause I can't advise
on that issue, right?
457
00:16:04,380 --> 00:16:07,341
- Nate and I are thinking
about a surprise elopement
458
00:16:07,424 --> 00:16:08,634
and we've invited
459
00:16:08,717 --> 00:16:10,386
Judge Jason Luong
to be a part of it.
460
00:16:10,469 --> 00:16:12,096
He could help for us
to make real plans
461
00:16:12,179 --> 00:16:13,889
before we share that
with our family
462
00:16:13,972 --> 00:16:17,059
and maybe officiate it
as our personal friend.
463
00:16:17,142 --> 00:16:18,435
- You know what elopement is?
464
00:16:18,519 --> 00:16:20,854
- I'm about to find out.
- [laughs]
465
00:16:20,938 --> 00:16:23,065
- Elopement is actually
a French word meaning
466
00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:25,317
too much family drama
to plan a wedding.
467
00:16:25,401 --> 00:16:27,194
- Ooh, that's exactly us.
468
00:16:27,277 --> 00:16:28,404
[both laugh]
469
00:16:28,487 --> 00:16:30,114
- So what are you planning
to do?
470
00:16:30,197 --> 00:16:32,783
- My preference is to keep it
as simple as possible.
471
00:16:32,866 --> 00:16:34,493
- Right.
- And then, you know,
472
00:16:34,576 --> 00:16:36,412
announce to everyone else
that we're married.
473
00:16:36,495 --> 00:16:38,247
- And I'm like,
I'll get in trouble once
474
00:16:38,330 --> 00:16:41,709
for not telling the family,
and I don't want to, you know--
475
00:16:41,792 --> 00:16:44,211
at least maybe tell them,
give them a heads up, you know?
476
00:16:44,294 --> 00:16:46,672
- He proposed without asking
for my father's blessing.
477
00:16:46,755 --> 00:16:48,298
- Yeah, and I heard
that's not right.
478
00:16:48,382 --> 00:16:50,801
- Well, how did he react
afterwards?
479
00:16:50,884 --> 00:16:52,344
- Ooh...
- Oh...
480
00:16:52,428 --> 00:16:53,512
- Wasn't good.
- Yeah.
481
00:16:53,595 --> 00:16:55,013
- Not his happiest face.
482
00:16:55,097 --> 00:16:56,807
- So how do you think
your parents will react
483
00:16:56,890 --> 00:16:58,142
when you tell them
you got married
484
00:16:58,225 --> 00:16:59,768
without letting them
be involved?
485
00:16:59,852 --> 00:17:01,311
- Well, I can still picture
that face.
486
00:17:01,395 --> 00:17:02,938
I'm like, wow.
- [laughs]
487
00:17:03,021 --> 00:17:04,940
Well, you know, you're right
about the family drama.
488
00:17:05,023 --> 00:17:06,692
- Okay.
- So our family,
489
00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:08,444
like typical Vietnamese family,
490
00:17:08,527 --> 00:17:10,904
we have parents
who are overbearing.
491
00:17:10,988 --> 00:17:11,947
- Mm-hmm.
492
00:17:12,030 --> 00:17:13,198
- We have siblings
493
00:17:13,282 --> 00:17:14,408
who wants to be involved
494
00:17:14,491 --> 00:17:16,201
every step of the way.
- Right.
495
00:17:16,285 --> 00:17:18,829
I know you wanna do it without
a lot of the family members--
496
00:17:18,912 --> 00:17:21,540
- Mm-hmm.
- But I'm gonna have to...
497
00:17:21,623 --> 00:17:25,794
mull over if my sisters
and family's gonna go nuts.
498
00:17:25,878 --> 00:17:28,297
I think eloping
is a great idea,
499
00:17:28,380 --> 00:17:30,507
but I think we still
have to discuss,
500
00:17:30,591 --> 00:17:32,801
'cause I've gotten a lot closer
to my family
501
00:17:32,885 --> 00:17:35,429
this last year,
and I'd like a little
502
00:17:35,512 --> 00:17:37,514
piece of, you know,
our family to come.
503
00:17:37,598 --> 00:17:38,766
We don't have
to invite everybody
504
00:17:38,849 --> 00:17:40,058
like our
first weddings, right?
505
00:17:40,142 --> 00:17:41,143
- Yeah.
506
00:17:41,226 --> 00:17:43,228
- So it's up to you.
507
00:17:43,312 --> 00:17:44,980
Just let us know
when we wanna do it.
508
00:17:45,063 --> 00:17:46,273
- We appreciate your help,
though.
509
00:17:46,356 --> 00:17:47,649
- Yes.
- 'Cause this is gonna be
510
00:17:47,733 --> 00:17:48,692
a tough decision for us.
511
00:17:48,776 --> 00:17:50,027
- You know, our court is wired
512
00:17:50,110 --> 00:17:51,320
for livestreaming too,
by the way.
513
00:17:51,403 --> 00:17:53,155
I can do a Zoom link.
- Right!
514
00:17:53,238 --> 00:17:54,448
- Oh, we should set it up
where we--
515
00:17:54,531 --> 00:17:55,574
they think we're going to jail,
516
00:17:55,657 --> 00:17:56,825
like, criminal court first,
517
00:17:56,909 --> 00:17:57,951
and then, like, surprise!
518
00:17:58,035 --> 00:17:59,244
We're actually getting married.
519
00:17:59,328 --> 00:18:00,412
[laughter]
520
00:18:00,496 --> 00:18:04,458
[sentimental music]
521
00:18:04,541 --> 00:18:11,048
♪ ♪
522
00:18:11,131 --> 00:18:12,424
- ♪ This thing called ♪
523
00:18:12,508 --> 00:18:16,762
♪ Lo-o-o-o-ove ♪
524
00:18:16,845 --> 00:18:19,306
♪ ♪
525
00:18:19,389 --> 00:18:24,144
♪ There are so many things
that love can take away ♪
526
00:18:24,228 --> 00:18:29,441
♪ ♪
527
00:18:29,525 --> 00:18:31,235
- Like, remember
how we used to be like this
528
00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:32,694
when we first met?
529
00:18:32,778 --> 00:18:34,655
Before we married?
530
00:18:34,738 --> 00:18:38,242
We used to sit here and talk
531
00:18:38,325 --> 00:18:40,369
and be open and honest
with each other.
532
00:18:40,452 --> 00:18:41,954
Don't you remember those days?
533
00:18:42,037 --> 00:18:44,540
- Yeah. Those were nice days.
- Yeah.
534
00:18:44,623 --> 00:18:47,251
After all we've been through...
- Mm-hmm.
535
00:18:47,334 --> 00:18:49,002
I have a question.
536
00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:52,548
You know how your mom's been
hanging out with us a lot?
537
00:18:52,631 --> 00:18:53,507
- Yeah.
538
00:18:53,590 --> 00:18:54,967
- Like, the older you get,
539
00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:57,719
the more it seems like
you're just like her.
540
00:18:57,803 --> 00:19:00,430
[tense music]
541
00:19:00,514 --> 00:19:03,100
And I am not like your dad.
542
00:19:03,183 --> 00:19:05,394
I like to be my own boss.
543
00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:07,187
But can you accept that?
544
00:19:07,271 --> 00:19:10,232
- To a certain extent,
but I think a marriage
545
00:19:10,315 --> 00:19:11,900
is like a partnership.
546
00:19:11,984 --> 00:19:14,945
It shouldn't be, you know,
that I have to do everything.
547
00:19:15,028 --> 00:19:17,281
- You told me
when we got married
548
00:19:17,364 --> 00:19:20,075
that you loved me
because I was ambitious.
549
00:19:20,158 --> 00:19:21,493
- Mm-hmm.
550
00:19:21,577 --> 00:19:24,413
- I'm so excited about
my new music career.
551
00:19:24,496 --> 00:19:26,874
Like, I finally
found something.
552
00:19:26,957 --> 00:19:29,918
I'm excited to actually
work on it.
553
00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:32,713
My new song
is called "Live Life."
554
00:19:32,796 --> 00:19:36,341
I have to be so authentic
to the lyrics in my song,
555
00:19:36,425 --> 00:19:38,719
with nobody telling me
how to live it.
556
00:19:38,802 --> 00:19:41,471
Look, here's the words.
Tell me what you think.
557
00:19:41,555 --> 00:19:43,056
[intense hip-hop music
playing]
558
00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:44,933
♪ I can't be who you want me
to be ♪
559
00:19:45,017 --> 00:19:47,269
♪ No! I can't speak how you
want me to speak ♪
560
00:19:47,352 --> 00:19:49,438
♪ Get up and get it,
don't live for regret ♪
561
00:19:49,521 --> 00:19:51,732
♪ You only live once,
so show 'em what you can ♪
562
00:19:51,815 --> 00:19:54,318
♪ Living out my life ♪
563
00:19:54,401 --> 00:19:57,154
I'm just going back
to the Washington that's, like,
564
00:19:57,237 --> 00:19:59,781
confident, happy,
565
00:19:59,865 --> 00:20:02,534
trying to make his dreams
come true.
566
00:20:03,827 --> 00:20:06,121
And it's mentally healthy
for me.
567
00:20:06,204 --> 00:20:08,790
Before, you know
all the businesses
568
00:20:08,874 --> 00:20:10,417
I was involved in.
569
00:20:10,500 --> 00:20:13,962
It was always like...
wasn't sure.
570
00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:17,049
And I think that led a lot
to my depression
571
00:20:17,132 --> 00:20:20,218
and me drinking and drugging
to numb myself.
572
00:20:20,302 --> 00:20:24,181
And now I've finally found
something that makes me happy,
573
00:20:24,264 --> 00:20:26,266
and I think
it has huge potential.
574
00:20:26,350 --> 00:20:27,809
- What does that mean
for us then?
575
00:20:27,893 --> 00:20:29,811
Like, am I a priority to you?
576
00:20:29,895 --> 00:20:31,647
- Yeah.
- I've always told you
577
00:20:31,730 --> 00:20:33,565
we grow together
or we grow apart.
578
00:20:33,649 --> 00:20:35,651
I mean, I didn't sign up
to be a single mother.
579
00:20:35,734 --> 00:20:38,737
I can't travel the world
with you and do all that.
580
00:20:38,820 --> 00:20:40,280
Like, I have responsibilities
here.
581
00:20:40,364 --> 00:20:41,573
- I know. You don't have to.
582
00:20:41,657 --> 00:20:43,909
- But you're not here.
That's my point.
583
00:20:43,992 --> 00:20:46,620
I need a partner.
I need a husband.
584
00:20:46,703 --> 00:20:49,873
When your goals and my goals
are completely different now.
585
00:20:49,957 --> 00:20:51,500
- Let's make a deal.
586
00:20:51,583 --> 00:20:53,543
Give me three years
587
00:20:53,627 --> 00:20:55,921
to give it my all into music
588
00:20:56,004 --> 00:20:57,965
and if I don't make a profit,
589
00:20:58,048 --> 00:21:00,801
I'll go back to an 8:00 to 5:00
590
00:21:00,884 --> 00:21:03,011
or whatever you want me to do.
591
00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:05,222
But I gotta get paid.
592
00:21:05,305 --> 00:21:08,350
If you want me to make money,
I have to sell myself.
593
00:21:08,433 --> 00:21:12,187
I gotta be in the studio
when Dr. Dre's in the studio.
594
00:21:12,270 --> 00:21:13,730
Can you handle that?
595
00:21:13,814 --> 00:21:15,732
Are you with me or not?
596
00:21:15,816 --> 00:21:18,443
[lightly edgy music]
597
00:21:18,527 --> 00:21:20,737
- I mean, I support you.
598
00:21:20,821 --> 00:21:24,616
I just don't know how
we're gonna make it work.
599
00:21:24,700 --> 00:21:27,869
I mean, I can't do
what you're asking me to do.
600
00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:29,871
I don't know.
I just feel like our paths
601
00:21:29,955 --> 00:21:33,208
are just not maybe going
the same direction.
602
00:21:33,291 --> 00:21:35,419
- Look, when you hold on
to me like this,
603
00:21:35,502 --> 00:21:38,296
I might die
in two to three years mentally.
604
00:21:38,380 --> 00:21:41,383
I'm tired of giving up
on my dreams
605
00:21:41,466 --> 00:21:44,302
to make someone else's dreams
come true.
606
00:21:44,386 --> 00:21:46,596
- You think this is my dream?
607
00:21:49,641 --> 00:21:51,518
- So what do you wanna do then?
608
00:21:51,601 --> 00:21:55,022
♪ ♪
609
00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:58,317
- What if you living
your life...
610
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,652
it doesn't make me happy?
611
00:22:00,736 --> 00:22:02,571
- Well, if it doesn't
make you happy,
612
00:22:02,654 --> 00:22:04,448
then it's over forever.
613
00:22:04,531 --> 00:22:06,783
[dramatic chords]
614
00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:09,703
♪ ♪
615
00:22:09,786 --> 00:22:10,912
- Whatever.
616
00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,873
[somber music]
617
00:22:12,956 --> 00:22:14,958
I feel like I'm in
"The Twilight Zone"...
618
00:22:15,042 --> 00:22:16,710
♪ ♪
619
00:22:16,793 --> 00:22:20,922
Bracing myself for these
constant changes that he does.
620
00:22:21,006 --> 00:22:23,425
My headspace right now
is just...
621
00:22:23,508 --> 00:22:28,221
head down, lay low,
and hopefully this blows over.
622
00:22:28,305 --> 00:22:30,390
You know, until his next
career move comes,
623
00:22:30,474 --> 00:22:32,476
and hopefully...
624
00:22:32,559 --> 00:22:35,062
maybe it's a little more
down-to-earth.
625
00:22:35,145 --> 00:22:38,648
It's never been a dull moment
in this marriage.
626
00:22:38,732 --> 00:22:41,276
That's what I wanted...
627
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,694
but not like this.
628
00:22:42,778 --> 00:22:47,991
♪ ♪
629
00:22:48,075 --> 00:22:49,451
[Washington sighs]
630
00:22:51,912 --> 00:22:53,455
[upbeat music]
631
00:22:53,538 --> 00:22:55,624
- ♪ Even so, I'm tryna chase
my dreams ♪
632
00:22:55,707 --> 00:22:58,460
♪ Seems like everything's
up against me ♪
633
00:22:58,543 --> 00:23:01,004
♪ Got the world on my back
and I don't know ♪
634
00:23:01,088 --> 00:23:03,256
♪ If I'm on the right
track, track, track ♪
635
00:23:03,340 --> 00:23:04,466
- That was a good lunch
the other day, right?
636
00:23:04,549 --> 00:23:06,051
- Yeah.
- It was fun.
637
00:23:06,134 --> 00:23:09,012
The restaurant Flora
is about to officially open
638
00:23:09,096 --> 00:23:10,514
in about three days.
639
00:23:10,597 --> 00:23:13,308
We're here for, you know,
the soft opening
640
00:23:13,391 --> 00:23:15,352
and just a family dinner,
641
00:23:15,435 --> 00:23:17,062
and I thought
it'd be the perfect space
642
00:23:17,145 --> 00:23:18,438
for our surprise.
643
00:23:18,522 --> 00:23:19,773
- All right, bet.
644
00:23:19,856 --> 00:23:21,399
Who's gonna get
the most lit tonight?
645
00:23:21,483 --> 00:23:23,735
- So the most lit as in the one
who's gonna be,
646
00:23:23,819 --> 00:23:25,278
like, the rowdiest?
- Who's the one
647
00:23:25,362 --> 00:23:26,822
we're gonna have
to hold a bucket for?
648
00:23:26,905 --> 00:23:29,199
- Whoever's not drinking
can sit with me.
649
00:23:29,282 --> 00:23:30,617
- What about Lesley?
650
00:23:30,700 --> 00:23:32,494
Maybe she's stressed out.
- She probably is.
651
00:23:32,577 --> 00:23:33,829
So let's put our money
on Lesley
652
00:23:33,912 --> 00:23:35,956
and also give her shots.
- Hi!
653
00:23:36,039 --> 00:23:37,332
- Will you take a shot with us?
654
00:23:37,415 --> 00:23:39,042
We have a special one
made for you.
655
00:23:39,126 --> 00:23:40,752
- You deserved it.
You've had a long day.
656
00:23:40,836 --> 00:23:42,254
- Mom's here.
- Mom is here.
657
00:23:42,337 --> 00:23:44,381
- How do you feel after that?
658
00:23:44,464 --> 00:23:46,967
- Mm. Talk about stressful.
659
00:23:47,050 --> 00:23:48,885
But in reality, as a mother,
660
00:23:48,969 --> 00:23:50,512
they just know
when something's wrong.
661
00:23:50,595 --> 00:23:52,848
Like your mom knows, you know,
when you're upset.
662
00:23:52,931 --> 00:23:55,350
But I think any of our moms
would drop anything
663
00:23:55,433 --> 00:23:57,519
at the last time
to fly and see us.
664
00:23:57,602 --> 00:23:59,604
- I used to think that a lot,
665
00:23:59,688 --> 00:24:01,857
but I am not sure anymore.
666
00:24:01,940 --> 00:24:05,735
I can see how she can love
her girlfriend at 100%,
667
00:24:05,819 --> 00:24:08,405
but I don't feel like
I'm getting that same 100%.
668
00:24:08,488 --> 00:24:11,032
- Loving your partner
and loving your children
669
00:24:11,116 --> 00:24:13,410
are two different loves.
- Don't you love your kids,
670
00:24:13,493 --> 00:24:16,246
like, a little bit more
than you love your husband?
671
00:24:16,329 --> 00:24:19,082
- I love Wash conditionally.
[laughs]
672
00:24:19,166 --> 00:24:20,542
- Yeah. So that's what I mean.
673
00:24:20,625 --> 00:24:22,252
You love your kids
unconditionally.
674
00:24:22,335 --> 00:24:23,753
- Yes.
- Well, I feel like
675
00:24:23,837 --> 00:24:25,255
she's loving me conditionally.
- No, no, no.
676
00:24:25,338 --> 00:24:26,381
You can't compare that.
677
00:24:26,464 --> 00:24:27,883
Your love is your love with her
678
00:24:27,966 --> 00:24:29,384
and her love with her partner
679
00:24:29,467 --> 00:24:30,552
is her love with her partner.
680
00:24:30,635 --> 00:24:31,636
You know what I'm saying?
681
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:32,679
End of the day,
682
00:24:32,762 --> 00:24:34,598
our moms are badass bitches,
683
00:24:34,681 --> 00:24:35,891
and they love us.
684
00:24:35,974 --> 00:24:37,893
- Did your mom put Wash
in his place?
685
00:24:37,976 --> 00:24:39,186
- Mom flat out told him.
686
00:24:39,269 --> 00:24:42,022
She was like,
I am not your friend.
687
00:24:42,105 --> 00:24:44,566
I am your mother,
and go put on some clothes.
688
00:24:44,649 --> 00:24:45,775
- Exactly.
689
00:24:45,859 --> 00:24:48,069
There's Binh Ho,
but then there's Van Do.
690
00:24:48,153 --> 00:24:49,404
- There's Van Do.
- [laughs]
691
00:24:49,487 --> 00:24:50,989
- There's two kingdoms
right now.
692
00:24:51,072 --> 00:24:53,366
Van Do does not go
with whatever Binh Ho says.
693
00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:54,826
- That's what we were
telling you.
694
00:24:54,910 --> 00:24:56,328
- Someone needs
to put him in his place,
695
00:24:56,411 --> 00:24:58,914
and it can't be any of us.
- Exactly.
696
00:24:58,997 --> 00:25:00,248
- Yes!
- Cheers.
697
00:25:00,332 --> 00:25:01,666
Cheers to what? To what?
698
00:25:01,750 --> 00:25:04,085
- Lot of work ahead
with the baby.
699
00:25:04,169 --> 00:25:05,545
- Yeah.
700
00:25:05,629 --> 00:25:07,380
- We're not ready for one,
but we're ready for two.
701
00:25:07,464 --> 00:25:09,299
- Are you really serious
about this?
702
00:25:09,382 --> 00:25:10,467
Tam.
703
00:25:10,550 --> 00:25:12,677
- Why are you crying?
It's okay.
704
00:25:12,761 --> 00:25:14,095
- I want you to be happy.
705
00:25:14,179 --> 00:25:15,597
Tran, I love you.
Like, you know,
706
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:16,973
I don't know you very well.
707
00:25:17,057 --> 00:25:19,559
I love the fact
that you make her happy
708
00:25:19,643 --> 00:25:22,854
and whatnot,
but do you love my sister?
709
00:25:23,521 --> 00:25:24,689
- I love her!
710
00:25:24,773 --> 00:25:26,274
- What do you love about her?
- What--
711
00:25:26,358 --> 00:25:28,151
- No. Uh, no. Look at me
in the face and tell me.
712
00:25:28,235 --> 00:25:29,611
Look at me in the eyes
and tell me.
713
00:25:29,694 --> 00:25:31,112
- It's okay.
- Tam--
714
00:25:31,196 --> 00:25:32,781
- You don't have to put her
in the middle.
715
00:25:32,864 --> 00:25:34,783
What do you think is wrong
about our relationship?
716
00:25:34,866 --> 00:25:37,285
- Tran, how old are you?
717
00:25:37,369 --> 00:25:38,870
- I'm 29.
718
00:25:38,954 --> 00:25:40,872
- You told us you were 31.
719
00:25:40,956 --> 00:25:42,249
- Why does it matter?
720
00:25:42,332 --> 00:25:44,292
Look, Carlton's younger
than you, right?
721
00:25:44,376 --> 00:25:45,919
- Three years younger.
- What?
722
00:25:46,002 --> 00:25:47,545
- Okay. See? So it's okay.
723
00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:50,131
- Tam, it's, like,
20 years younger, Tam.
724
00:25:50,215 --> 00:25:51,466
- Why do you care?
725
00:25:51,549 --> 00:25:52,884
I think you're stepping
out of line.
726
00:25:52,968 --> 00:25:54,135
Maybe you shouldn't drink this.
727
00:25:54,219 --> 00:25:55,512
- Oh, I'm not even--okay.
728
00:25:55,595 --> 00:25:56,930
- Maybe you shouldn't
drink this.
729
00:25:57,013 --> 00:25:59,349
- Tam, seriously.
- You know what?
730
00:25:59,432 --> 00:26:02,143
I live according
to what I want and what I do,
731
00:26:02,227 --> 00:26:03,603
and it doesn't really matter.
- No, you--
732
00:26:03,687 --> 00:26:05,981
you're rebounding,
and I feel like Tran
733
00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:09,067
is not telling you the whole
truth about a lot of shit,
734
00:26:09,150 --> 00:26:11,027
and you just overlook
that shit.
735
00:26:11,111 --> 00:26:14,823
Like, she told us she's 31
and she's really 28.
736
00:26:14,906 --> 00:26:16,408
Did you know that?
737
00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:18,034
- Yeah.
It doesn't matter, okay?
738
00:26:18,118 --> 00:26:20,078
This is my life.
This is my decision.
739
00:26:20,161 --> 00:26:21,413
- But you're not
thinking straight, Tam.
740
00:26:21,496 --> 00:26:22,831
- It doesn't matter
if you think
741
00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:23,915
I'm not thinking straight.
742
00:26:23,999 --> 00:26:25,375
- Okay, let's go cheers.
743
00:26:25,458 --> 00:26:27,002
- I'm happy I'm with Tran,
and that's it.
744
00:26:27,085 --> 00:26:28,336
- You're happy at the moment.
- Cheers. Cheers.
745
00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:29,504
- At the moment. At the moment.
746
00:26:29,587 --> 00:26:30,672
- Cheers for Nate and Judy.
747
00:26:30,755 --> 00:26:32,173
- And that's all that matters.
748
00:26:32,257 --> 00:26:34,301
Look, Carlton--Carlton--
Carlton's calling you.
749
00:26:34,384 --> 00:26:36,011
You need to go back
to your table.
750
00:26:36,094 --> 00:26:38,138
Just take that and be happy.
751
00:26:38,221 --> 00:26:39,556
Okay? Okay.
Cheers. Cheers. Cheers.
752
00:26:39,639 --> 00:26:40,890
I'll take it.
This is the first time
753
00:26:40,974 --> 00:26:42,726
I'm ever gonna take a shot.
Go.
754
00:26:43,810 --> 00:26:46,896
[all exclaim]
755
00:26:48,023 --> 00:26:49,524
- So I hear screaming,
756
00:26:49,607 --> 00:26:51,901
and I'm thinking all my fans
757
00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:54,070
are coming for King of da Ho.
758
00:26:54,154 --> 00:26:55,363
- Hello, my son.
759
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:57,949
- Reagan!
760
00:26:58,033 --> 00:27:01,328
[squealing]
761
00:27:01,411 --> 00:27:03,955
- Man, I didn't know
you were here.
762
00:27:04,706 --> 00:27:06,416
- I'm like, the f--
763
00:27:06,499 --> 00:27:07,876
it's just Reagan Ho.
764
00:27:07,959 --> 00:27:10,378
- Oh, look how excited she is.
765
00:27:10,462 --> 00:27:12,589
- I just got in
and I came to see you.
766
00:27:12,672 --> 00:27:13,882
- Are you happy?
767
00:27:13,965 --> 00:27:15,425
That's my surprise for you.
768
00:27:15,508 --> 00:27:18,053
My mom, she was so happy
to see Reagan.
769
00:27:18,136 --> 00:27:20,013
He doesn't come back often,
so when he does,
770
00:27:20,096 --> 00:27:22,515
my mom really just appreciates
771
00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:24,851
having all three of her kids
in one room.
772
00:27:24,934 --> 00:27:26,478
Mom and Dad look happy.
773
00:27:26,561 --> 00:27:28,438
- They're super happy. See?
774
00:27:28,521 --> 00:27:30,398
That makes our other surprise
like nothing.
775
00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:31,900
[both laugh]
776
00:27:31,983 --> 00:27:33,818
Like, look!
We already did one good thing.
777
00:27:33,902 --> 00:27:35,070
- Oh, you're mad?
778
00:27:35,153 --> 00:27:36,404
Oh, Reagan's here!
Reagan's here!
779
00:27:36,488 --> 00:27:37,739
- Remember Reagan?
780
00:27:37,822 --> 00:27:38,782
- Ladies.
781
00:27:38,865 --> 00:27:40,367
Can I get everyone's attention?
782
00:27:40,450 --> 00:27:41,493
Mom.
- Mom!
783
00:27:41,576 --> 00:27:42,827
- Dad...
784
00:27:42,911 --> 00:27:44,120
- Is he getting married?
785
00:27:44,204 --> 00:27:45,205
- I need everybody's attention.
786
00:27:45,288 --> 00:27:46,581
- Oh, my gosh.
787
00:27:46,664 --> 00:27:49,626
- I got invited here tonight
by my sister.
788
00:27:49,709 --> 00:27:51,086
- I knew it would make
Mom happy.
789
00:27:51,169 --> 00:27:52,712
- Yes.
- [laughs]
790
00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:55,590
- But really, I just wanna
introduce somebody tonight,
791
00:27:55,673 --> 00:27:58,051
which is Nate.
- We know Nate.
792
00:27:58,134 --> 00:27:59,636
- You know, thanks for coming,
but we have, like,
793
00:27:59,719 --> 00:28:01,930
just one more surprise.
Let's head up there,
794
00:28:02,013 --> 00:28:03,306
and we'll give you
our surprise.
795
00:28:03,390 --> 00:28:05,183
- Hey, wait.
Repeat. What's happening?
796
00:28:05,266 --> 00:28:07,560
- Wait, where are we going?
- I don't know.
797
00:28:07,644 --> 00:28:09,521
- So we appreciate you guys
coming here tonight.
798
00:28:09,604 --> 00:28:11,314
You know, Judy's pregnant.
799
00:28:11,398 --> 00:28:12,440
I don't know if you guys know.
800
00:28:12,524 --> 00:28:13,608
- We know that. We can tell.
801
00:28:13,691 --> 00:28:15,026
- We know.
- We know that.
802
00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:18,780
- In a few months,
we're gonna have a baby.
803
00:28:18,863 --> 00:28:21,199
So we have another surprise
for you guys,
804
00:28:21,282 --> 00:28:23,284
and we wanted
to invite everybody here
805
00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:25,954
because we wanted to do this
with you guys here--
806
00:28:26,037 --> 00:28:27,497
the people that we love
the most.
807
00:28:27,580 --> 00:28:29,124
- Because we love you,
808
00:28:29,207 --> 00:28:31,334
because you support us
and you have been there for us,
809
00:28:31,418 --> 00:28:32,627
once this baby arrives,
810
00:28:32,710 --> 00:28:35,004
we want to be officially
husband and wife,
811
00:28:35,088 --> 00:28:38,133
and today
is our surprise elopement.
812
00:28:38,216 --> 00:28:41,052
[laughs]
[cheers and applause]
813
00:28:41,970 --> 00:28:43,555
- After lots of discussion
814
00:28:43,638 --> 00:28:46,307
and discussing whether or not
we're gonna elope,
815
00:28:46,391 --> 00:28:49,686
we finally made the decision
that we will have a small party
816
00:28:49,769 --> 00:28:51,938
with just very close friends.
817
00:28:52,021 --> 00:28:53,815
- So we have
a special friend here.
818
00:28:53,898 --> 00:28:55,859
- Whoo!
- Good evening.
819
00:28:55,942 --> 00:28:57,318
- Let me walk you up.
820
00:28:57,402 --> 00:28:59,028
- I do want my family there,
821
00:28:59,112 --> 00:29:01,072
'cause they have been
a part of our journey
822
00:29:01,156 --> 00:29:02,699
and been very supportive of us.
823
00:29:02,782 --> 00:29:03,908
Thank you!
- These are for you.
824
00:29:03,992 --> 00:29:05,326
- Thank you for coming!
825
00:29:05,410 --> 00:29:07,454
- I have a small one here too.
- Oh, okay.
826
00:29:07,537 --> 00:29:08,997
- Whoo!
827
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,999
[cheers and applause]
828
00:29:11,082 --> 00:29:12,834
- Congratulations.
829
00:29:12,917 --> 00:29:14,252
[soft dramatic music]
830
00:29:14,335 --> 00:29:16,004
- We're gathered together
to celebrate
831
00:29:16,087 --> 00:29:19,132
the rites of matrimony
between Nate and Judy.
832
00:29:19,215 --> 00:29:20,717
♪ ♪
833
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,053
- ♪ In the fire
and in the storm ♪
834
00:29:24,137 --> 00:29:27,265
♪ I will be there
where you are ♪
835
00:29:27,348 --> 00:29:29,184
- Do you, Nate,
wish to go forward
836
00:29:29,267 --> 00:29:31,644
to pledge your love to Judy
in marriage?
837
00:29:31,728 --> 00:29:32,770
- Yes.
838
00:29:32,854 --> 00:29:34,481
♪ ♪
839
00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:37,192
- ♪ And when the tide comes
to pull you down ♪
840
00:29:37,275 --> 00:29:39,569
- Cheers.
- ♪ I'll be the anchor ♪
841
00:29:39,652 --> 00:29:41,404
♪ To hold you now ♪
842
00:29:41,488 --> 00:29:43,406
- Do you, Judy,
wish to go forward
843
00:29:43,490 --> 00:29:46,159
and pledge your love
to Nate in marriage?
844
00:29:46,242 --> 00:29:47,202
- I do.
845
00:29:47,285 --> 00:29:49,412
- Nate, will you have Judy
846
00:29:49,496 --> 00:29:51,539
to be your
lawfully wedded wife?
847
00:29:51,623 --> 00:29:53,291
- I do.
848
00:29:53,374 --> 00:29:57,295
- ♪ I will rescue you ♪
849
00:29:57,378 --> 00:29:59,214
♪ When the storms come ♪
850
00:29:59,297 --> 00:30:01,216
- This little one
is definitely growing.
851
00:30:01,299 --> 00:30:03,092
- ♪ I will rescue you ♪
852
00:30:03,176 --> 00:30:04,677
♪ ♪
853
00:30:04,761 --> 00:30:07,722
- Will you have Nate to be your
lawful wedded husband?
854
00:30:07,805 --> 00:30:09,265
- I certainly do.
855
00:30:09,349 --> 00:30:11,059
- Of course.
856
00:30:11,142 --> 00:30:14,979
- ♪ When there's nowhere
you can run ♪
857
00:30:15,063 --> 00:30:16,898
♪ When you can't move ♪
858
00:30:16,981 --> 00:30:20,026
- By the authority vested in me
by the State of Texas,
859
00:30:20,109 --> 00:30:22,987
I now pronounce you
husband and wife.
860
00:30:23,071 --> 00:30:25,907
[cheers and applause]
861
00:30:25,990 --> 00:30:28,910
- ♪ When the storms come ♪
862
00:30:28,993 --> 00:30:30,703
- Officially family!
863
00:30:30,787 --> 00:30:32,413
- Whoo!
864
00:30:32,497 --> 00:30:33,706
- Congrats.
- Thank you.
865
00:30:33,790 --> 00:30:35,667
- ♪ When the waves come ♪
866
00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:37,001
♪ ♪
867
00:30:37,085 --> 00:30:38,753
- What did you think, Dad?
868
00:30:38,836 --> 00:30:40,964
- Surprise me,
but happy surprise.
869
00:30:41,047 --> 00:30:42,549
- Oh!
- Oh!
870
00:30:42,632 --> 00:30:43,883
- Yeah.
871
00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,426
- And we've decided
that we are
872
00:30:45,510 --> 00:30:47,595
going to take my dad up
on his offer,
873
00:30:47,679 --> 00:30:49,472
especially with the baby
coming.
874
00:30:49,556 --> 00:30:51,766
It really is nice to be close
to our family,
875
00:30:51,849 --> 00:30:54,102
and I just feel like
there's so much going on...
876
00:30:54,185 --> 00:30:55,728
- Mm-hmm.
- In our personal lives
877
00:30:55,812 --> 00:30:57,981
that maybe in the next few
years we'll stay put,
878
00:30:58,064 --> 00:31:00,191
and after that,
once things are more settled,
879
00:31:00,275 --> 00:31:01,943
then we'll decide
where we'll move.
880
00:31:02,026 --> 00:31:04,571
- So in summary,
your dad gave us a house,
881
00:31:04,654 --> 00:31:06,030
and we decided to stay.
882
00:31:06,114 --> 00:31:07,282
[both laugh]
883
00:31:07,365 --> 00:31:09,367
- Who's ready?
- Who's ready?
884
00:31:09,450 --> 00:31:10,994
- Get in the middle.
- No, I'm okay.
885
00:31:11,077 --> 00:31:12,620
- No. No. You can't catch
it if you're--
886
00:31:12,704 --> 00:31:14,956
- No, no, no, no.
- Who wants to catch this?
887
00:31:17,125 --> 00:31:19,752
Who doesn't want to? Kim!
888
00:31:19,836 --> 00:31:20,962
Put your hand down.
- Why?
889
00:31:21,045 --> 00:31:22,505
- Bella, make your dad proud.
890
00:31:22,589 --> 00:31:23,673
Catch it.
- Why?
891
00:31:23,756 --> 00:31:25,425
- I'm not trying to catch it!
892
00:31:26,759 --> 00:31:28,136
- All right, throw it.
893
00:31:28,219 --> 00:31:29,470
- Throw it!
- Okay.
894
00:31:29,554 --> 00:31:31,264
- Get closer!
895
00:31:31,347 --> 00:31:32,640
- Ready?
896
00:31:32,724 --> 00:31:35,518
[screaming]
897
00:31:35,602 --> 00:31:37,478
- Oh, shit.
- What have you done?
898
00:31:37,562 --> 00:31:39,439
- None of the girls want
to catch the bouquet.
899
00:31:39,522 --> 00:31:41,899
If you don't want it,
why are you standing here?
900
00:31:41,983 --> 00:31:42,984
- Whoo!
901
00:31:43,067 --> 00:31:44,694
- Kim doesn't wanna catch it.
902
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,615
- You have good energy, though.
903
00:31:48,698 --> 00:31:50,992
- You do.
I love you guys' relationship.
904
00:31:51,075 --> 00:31:53,077
- Yeah.
- You guys are so sweet.
905
00:31:53,161 --> 00:31:55,246
- Being honest now,
the number one reason
906
00:31:55,330 --> 00:31:57,498
why people get divorced
is because in general
907
00:31:57,582 --> 00:31:59,500
people aren't willing
to work for it.
908
00:31:59,584 --> 00:32:01,502
- Yeah.
- You know, so a marriage is...
909
00:32:01,586 --> 00:32:03,087
it's a lot of work.
910
00:32:03,171 --> 00:32:07,175
- We've gone so far,
and to give up now
911
00:32:07,258 --> 00:32:09,510
would just be, uh...
912
00:32:09,594 --> 00:32:11,679
a weak move,
and I don't give up,
913
00:32:11,763 --> 00:32:16,643
and especially not
on somebody that loves me...
914
00:32:16,726 --> 00:32:18,770
has been patient with me,
915
00:32:18,853 --> 00:32:20,188
is the mother of my kids.
916
00:32:20,271 --> 00:32:21,773
- And I know she loves you.
917
00:32:21,856 --> 00:32:23,066
- No, I do love him, you know?
918
00:32:23,149 --> 00:32:25,860
And I--I would marry him again.
919
00:32:25,943 --> 00:32:28,112
And it's like,
I feel like everyone
920
00:32:28,196 --> 00:32:29,697
gives up so easily, you know?
921
00:32:29,781 --> 00:32:33,034
And the amount of effort
that we put into our marriage,
922
00:32:33,117 --> 00:32:36,454
I truly believe that
what we get out of it
923
00:32:36,537 --> 00:32:38,206
is gonna be even greater.
924
00:32:38,289 --> 00:32:42,043
You know, we're not
where we wanna be
925
00:32:42,126 --> 00:32:43,836
at this age
and at this point in our life,
926
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,131
but I have faith in God
and in him
927
00:32:47,215 --> 00:32:48,508
and it grows every day.
928
00:32:48,591 --> 00:32:52,345
I know that we were meant
to be together.
929
00:32:52,428 --> 00:32:56,182
- My marriage
is in a stage of growth.
930
00:32:56,265 --> 00:32:58,976
I don't think
it's a normal marriage.
931
00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:03,231
Most people are, like...
way more established
932
00:33:03,314 --> 00:33:05,608
after being married
for this long,
933
00:33:05,692 --> 00:33:07,735
and we're still trying
to figure it out.
934
00:33:07,819 --> 00:33:12,907
I'm just thankful that I have
a really patient wife.
935
00:33:14,117 --> 00:33:15,827
- Oh, kiss now.
[laughter]
936
00:33:15,910 --> 00:33:18,079
- But do you really
feel that way?
937
00:33:18,162 --> 00:33:19,330
- I do.
938
00:33:19,414 --> 00:33:21,082
- She's like,
unfortunately, yes.
939
00:33:21,165 --> 00:33:22,875
[both laugh]
940
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,044
- Hi, Mom. Hi, Dad.
941
00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:27,004
both: Hi, con.
942
00:33:27,088 --> 00:33:28,297
I just wanna thank bo me
943
00:33:28,381 --> 00:33:30,174
for coming and being here
944
00:33:30,258 --> 00:33:33,761
with con and I really,
really needed it.
945
00:33:33,845 --> 00:33:35,638
And, you know,
[speaking Vietnamese]
946
00:33:35,722 --> 00:33:37,390
you know, we talked a lot,
you know?
947
00:33:37,473 --> 00:33:40,059
And even though
it's hard right now,
948
00:33:40,143 --> 00:33:42,854
and, you know,
sometimes I forget
949
00:33:42,937 --> 00:33:44,939
what's real,
what's not real...
950
00:33:48,276 --> 00:33:50,278
You know, his cousins,
his sisters, you know?
951
00:33:50,361 --> 00:33:52,196
So, it's so nice to have
[speaking Vietnamese]
952
00:33:52,697 --> 00:33:55,032
like, you know,
that I can hear and--
953
00:33:55,116 --> 00:33:57,118
[sniffles] Remember.
954
00:33:57,201 --> 00:33:59,287
When I got married
to Washington,
955
00:33:59,370 --> 00:34:02,498
I just thought this was
my happily ever after,
956
00:34:02,582 --> 00:34:03,958
and it was nothing like that.
957
00:34:04,041 --> 00:34:05,126
[sentimental music]
958
00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:06,502
- You're all right.
- I know.
959
00:34:06,586 --> 00:34:08,421
I'm not crying. I'm not crying.
960
00:34:08,504 --> 00:34:10,798
I understand marriage
is a two-way street.
961
00:34:10,882 --> 00:34:12,425
I will compromise,
962
00:34:12,508 --> 00:34:14,969
but there are certain things
that are just dealbreakers
963
00:34:15,052 --> 00:34:16,888
and for the sake of me
and my kids,
964
00:34:16,971 --> 00:34:19,682
I will never accept.
965
00:34:19,766 --> 00:34:22,477
And having that voice
966
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,480
and not being afraid
to actually voice it out
967
00:34:25,563 --> 00:34:27,398
I think has made
all the difference.
968
00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:29,650
- I love you.
- I love you.
969
00:34:29,734 --> 00:34:31,652
- I will be here for you.
- I know.
970
00:34:31,736 --> 00:34:33,029
I love you.
971
00:34:33,112 --> 00:34:34,238
Love you, Daddy.
972
00:34:34,322 --> 00:34:35,823
I know.
- I love you.
973
00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,576
- Congratulations!
974
00:34:38,659 --> 00:34:40,328
- Guys, thanks for coming.
975
00:34:40,411 --> 00:34:42,997
You know, we did this
'cause we wanted you guys
976
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,332
to be here with us,
977
00:34:44,415 --> 00:34:46,000
and we wanna be
with people we love.
978
00:34:46,083 --> 00:34:47,168
- Yes.
- Right?
979
00:34:47,251 --> 00:34:48,753
And you guys are it.
980
00:34:48,836 --> 00:34:51,130
- My dad, he seems really
on top of the world.
981
00:34:51,214 --> 00:34:54,675
Everything's working out
according to his master plan.
982
00:34:54,759 --> 00:34:58,930
All his kids are back home
and back on the right path.
983
00:34:59,013 --> 00:35:00,556
Well played. Checkmate.
984
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,642
[laughs]
985
00:35:02,725 --> 00:35:03,851
Damn.
986
00:35:03,935 --> 00:35:05,269
Every time.
987
00:35:05,353 --> 00:35:06,771
[laughs]
988
00:35:06,854 --> 00:35:08,272
- Thanks for coming.
989
00:35:08,356 --> 00:35:09,524
Thanks for enjoying
the night with us.
990
00:35:09,607 --> 00:35:11,150
- Congrats.
- Yay!
991
00:35:11,234 --> 00:35:12,276
- To family.
992
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,362
- Yay!
- I love my family!
993
00:35:14,445 --> 00:35:15,530
- Whoo!
994
00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:19,200
- Cheers!
- Cheers!
995
00:35:19,283 --> 00:35:20,952
Have a drink.
- Congratulations.
996
00:35:21,035 --> 00:35:23,371
Oh, wait, that was me.
- Wasn't me.
997
00:35:23,454 --> 00:35:30,545
♪ ♪
998
00:35:33,339 --> 00:35:35,466
- ♪ I love you ♪
999
00:35:37,468 --> 00:35:38,886
- ♪ I will lift you ♪
1000
00:35:38,970 --> 00:35:43,099
♪ Oh oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
1001
00:35:43,182 --> 00:35:45,351
♪ I will lift you up ♪
1002
00:35:45,434 --> 00:35:48,646
- Let make some money
so we can go make my party.
1003
00:35:48,729 --> 00:35:50,398
[cork pops]
- Oh, shit!
1004
00:35:50,481 --> 00:35:51,399
- [laughs]
1005
00:35:51,482 --> 00:35:52,608
- Cheers.
- Cheers!
1006
00:35:52,692 --> 00:35:53,943
- Tilt your head
a little this way.
1007
00:35:54,026 --> 00:35:55,069
- You look good.
1008
00:35:55,152 --> 00:35:56,487
- So what do you think
about it?
1009
00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:58,281
- You're very active.
Just like you.
1010
00:35:58,364 --> 00:36:01,033
- How about we go
to a new restaurant?
1011
00:36:01,117 --> 00:36:04,036
- Or we go and buy something
that we can cook at home.
1012
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,830
- Hey, let's dress Ho-ish.
1013
00:36:05,913 --> 00:36:07,415
Ho-chic.
- Ho-chic.
1014
00:36:07,498 --> 00:36:10,042
- ♪ When the fire's ♪
1015
00:36:10,126 --> 00:36:12,420
♪ Raging near ♪
1016
00:36:12,503 --> 00:36:13,921
- Oh, my gosh.
1017
00:36:14,005 --> 00:36:16,173
- You know what?
That's a little bit small.
1018
00:36:16,257 --> 00:36:18,509
- You know I don't hug.
1019
00:36:18,593 --> 00:36:20,428
- Are you ready for that?
1020
00:36:20,511 --> 00:36:22,847
- ♪ I will lift you up ♪
1021
00:36:22,930 --> 00:36:25,600
♪ No, you're not on your own ♪
1022
00:36:25,683 --> 00:36:27,560
♪ I will be the light ♪
1023
00:36:27,643 --> 00:36:29,562
- I took Zumba.
1024
00:36:29,645 --> 00:36:30,521
- Zumba?
1025
00:36:30,605 --> 00:36:31,522
- With a bunch
1026
00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:33,107
of really old ladies.
1027
00:36:33,190 --> 00:36:34,108
- [laughs]
1028
00:36:34,192 --> 00:36:36,944
♪ ♪
1029
00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:39,614
[baby crying]
- Congratulations, Dad.
1030
00:36:39,697 --> 00:36:41,282
- I am just so grateful.
1031
00:36:41,365 --> 00:36:43,576
Nate and I have
a baby together.
1032
00:36:43,659 --> 00:36:46,287
- Having Grant here
just lets me know
1033
00:36:46,370 --> 00:36:48,956
that we can move
forward from something,
1034
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,541
and yet he will always
1035
00:36:50,625 --> 00:36:52,293
be there to remind me that
1036
00:36:52,376 --> 00:36:54,003
my other kids are happy too.
1037
00:36:54,086 --> 00:36:57,006
- ♪ I will lift you up ♪
1038
00:36:57,089 --> 00:36:59,342
♪ ♪
1039
00:36:59,425 --> 00:37:02,386
[upbeat pop music]
1040
00:37:02,470 --> 00:37:09,560
♪ ♪