1 00:00:04,671 --> 00:00:07,757 [Paper Kings' "Look At Me Now"] 2 00:00:07,841 --> 00:00:10,969 ♪ ♪ 3 00:00:11,052 --> 00:00:12,595 - ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:12,679 --> 00:00:14,389 ♪ I'm steady walkin' like ♪ 5 00:00:14,472 --> 00:00:17,100 ♪ I got three commas in my bank account ♪ 6 00:00:17,183 --> 00:00:20,103 ♪ Livin' loud, so get your cameras out ♪ 7 00:00:20,186 --> 00:00:22,856 ♪ I'd probably do the same thing if I was you ♪ 8 00:00:22,939 --> 00:00:24,941 ♪ Lookin' at me now, now ♪ 9 00:00:25,024 --> 00:00:27,235 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 10 00:00:27,318 --> 00:00:30,280 ♪ Mm, put up your lights ♪ 11 00:00:30,363 --> 00:00:31,906 ♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪ 12 00:00:31,990 --> 00:00:33,700 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 13 00:00:33,783 --> 00:00:37,328 ♪ Don't ever put 'em down, down, down ♪ 14 00:00:37,412 --> 00:00:39,205 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 15 00:00:39,289 --> 00:00:42,250 [up-tempo hip-hop music] 16 00:00:42,333 --> 00:00:44,002 ♪ ♪ 17 00:00:44,085 --> 00:00:46,296 - ♪ Tell me I got it, the mojo is drippin' ♪ 18 00:00:46,379 --> 00:00:48,465 ♪ That means that I want the newest edition ♪ 19 00:00:48,548 --> 00:00:51,259 ♪ Don't call me crazy, just tellin' my vision ♪ 20 00:00:51,342 --> 00:00:53,052 - Have you ever eaten here before? 21 00:00:53,136 --> 00:00:54,846 - Actually, the first time I met her was here. 22 00:00:54,929 --> 00:00:57,223 - Happy hour for Tina? both: Yes. 23 00:00:57,307 --> 00:00:58,475 - Thank you. 24 00:00:58,558 --> 00:00:59,976 - So this is their famous Mind Eraser. 25 00:01:00,059 --> 00:01:01,352 - It's called a Mind Eraser? 26 00:01:01,436 --> 00:01:02,979 - It erases your mind. 27 00:01:03,062 --> 00:01:05,190 - To ladies who want change. 28 00:01:05,273 --> 00:01:06,858 - Yes. - Cheers. 29 00:01:06,941 --> 00:01:08,985 - It's been nice to have Sammy back in the fold 30 00:01:09,068 --> 00:01:09,986 with the family. 31 00:01:10,069 --> 00:01:11,654 I'm making more of an effort 32 00:01:11,738 --> 00:01:12,822 to get to know her. 33 00:01:12,906 --> 00:01:14,324 You know, we have 60 first cousins, 34 00:01:14,407 --> 00:01:16,367 so obviously I can't be close to all of them. 35 00:01:16,451 --> 00:01:18,453 But, you know, Sammy's been through a tough time 36 00:01:18,536 --> 00:01:20,580 and I do care for her. 37 00:01:20,663 --> 00:01:22,499 - I'm gonna show you a music video. 38 00:01:22,582 --> 00:01:25,084 And you're gonna love your family. 39 00:01:25,168 --> 00:01:26,252 - More than I already do? 40 00:01:26,336 --> 00:01:28,505 - Oh, more than you already do. 41 00:01:28,588 --> 00:01:29,672 - I wanna see. 42 00:01:29,756 --> 00:01:31,341 - ♪ I'm the king of da Ho ♪ 43 00:01:31,424 --> 00:01:32,967 ♪ I don't care if you ready or not ♪ 44 00:01:33,051 --> 00:01:34,427 - Oh, my God. 45 00:01:34,511 --> 00:01:36,346 - ♪ I'm the king of da Ho ♪ 46 00:01:36,429 --> 00:01:38,556 - Is he wearing a crown? - Oh, my God--hahaha! 47 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,183 - ♪ Came from the bottom, straight to the top ♪ 48 00:01:40,266 --> 00:01:42,477 ♪ I'm ready to blow ♪ [laughter] 49 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,312 - How's your dad gonna feel about that? 50 00:01:44,395 --> 00:01:46,606 - He'll probably think why did I pay for college? 51 00:01:46,689 --> 00:01:49,025 - [laughs] - Has Lesley seen this? 52 00:01:49,108 --> 00:01:50,652 - I don't know. - Poor Lesley. 53 00:01:50,735 --> 00:01:53,238 I mean, I know she wants to be supportive of him 54 00:01:53,321 --> 00:01:56,032 because, you know, he says this is his new passion, 55 00:01:56,115 --> 00:01:58,034 but it's hard for Lesley. 56 00:01:58,117 --> 00:02:00,537 So I think he really needs to convince her, 57 00:02:00,620 --> 00:02:02,038 "This is, like, my long-term goal. 58 00:02:02,121 --> 00:02:03,540 This isn't something I'm just doing." 59 00:02:03,623 --> 00:02:07,210 - Being a producer, is that...stability? 60 00:02:07,293 --> 00:02:08,545 - I don't know. 61 00:02:08,628 --> 00:02:09,712 - You think it's, like, 62 00:02:09,796 --> 00:02:11,214 what she thinks or what her-- 63 00:02:11,297 --> 00:02:13,258 what she thinks that others will think of her? 64 00:02:13,341 --> 00:02:14,676 - I think image is important 65 00:02:14,759 --> 00:02:15,718 to both of them. 66 00:02:15,802 --> 00:02:16,719 - Both of them. A lot. 67 00:02:16,803 --> 00:02:18,137 - And you know, Washington 68 00:02:18,221 --> 00:02:19,764 just likes that image of "King of da Hos." 69 00:02:19,848 --> 00:02:21,224 - King of da Hos. [laughter] 70 00:02:21,307 --> 00:02:23,476 - Does Lesley wanna be "Queen of da Hos"? 71 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,019 I doubt it. You know? 72 00:02:25,103 --> 00:02:26,729 - Oh, no. Maybe she wants to be. 73 00:02:26,813 --> 00:02:28,982 - Not that version. [laughter] 74 00:02:29,065 --> 00:02:30,775 - Was she at the music video? - No. 75 00:02:30,859 --> 00:02:32,527 - Lesley wasn't there? - No, she wasn't there. 76 00:02:32,610 --> 00:02:36,406 - And Tran was on the set, and Tammy was really happy. 77 00:02:36,489 --> 00:02:38,533 Is it-- - She's shaking her head. 78 00:02:38,616 --> 00:02:40,910 She doesn't like the situation. - Yeah. 79 00:02:40,994 --> 00:02:42,287 I just found out too. 80 00:02:42,370 --> 00:02:43,413 - What? 81 00:02:43,496 --> 00:02:45,498 - Tran is actually 28. 82 00:02:45,582 --> 00:02:47,125 - What did she say she was before? 83 00:02:47,208 --> 00:02:48,418 - She told me she was 31. 84 00:02:48,501 --> 00:02:49,919 - Why would she lie about her age? 85 00:02:50,003 --> 00:02:51,629 - Exactly. What else is she lying about? 86 00:02:51,713 --> 00:02:53,214 Dude, Tammy bought her a car. 87 00:02:53,298 --> 00:02:54,966 - Like, you think it's too much too soon. 88 00:02:55,049 --> 00:02:57,510 - They've only been together for, like, less than a year. 89 00:02:57,594 --> 00:03:00,722 And honestly, in my heart, Tran--she's a player. 90 00:03:00,805 --> 00:03:02,015 - What? - Tran is a player. 91 00:03:02,098 --> 00:03:03,516 - You think that? - Yes. 92 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,268 - I don't know. - I'm telling you this--yes. 93 00:03:05,351 --> 00:03:07,186 - Why would she lie about the age thing? 94 00:03:07,270 --> 00:03:08,938 'Cause 28-- - That's so easy to prove. 95 00:03:09,022 --> 00:03:10,273 - Yeah. - Yeah. 96 00:03:10,356 --> 00:03:12,775 But that small lie really does showcase 97 00:03:12,859 --> 00:03:14,235 other kids of stuff that she's just gonna 98 00:03:14,319 --> 00:03:15,445 make up for no reason. 99 00:03:15,528 --> 00:03:16,905 - Have you brought it up to her? 100 00:03:16,988 --> 00:03:19,699 - No. I will. I'll talk to Tam about it. 101 00:03:19,782 --> 00:03:21,034 Oh, the favorite. - Ooh. 102 00:03:21,117 --> 00:03:22,160 - Thank you. 103 00:03:22,243 --> 00:03:23,161 - I love the food here. 104 00:03:23,244 --> 00:03:24,495 - Yeah. It's so dope. 105 00:03:24,579 --> 00:03:25,955 - All right, I'm gonna eat this one. 106 00:03:26,039 --> 00:03:27,457 This is for the baby. - For the baby. 107 00:03:27,540 --> 00:03:28,708 - Mmm. 108 00:03:28,791 --> 00:03:29,959 - I can't wait for him to be born. 109 00:03:30,043 --> 00:03:31,127 I cannot wait. Yeah. - Yeah. 110 00:03:31,210 --> 00:03:32,629 You know, me and your brother, 111 00:03:32,712 --> 00:03:34,714 maybe we should, like, go to the courthouse 112 00:03:34,797 --> 00:03:38,468 and maybe get things formalized before the baby comes. 113 00:03:38,551 --> 00:03:39,802 - Yeah. - 'Cause, you know, to us 114 00:03:39,886 --> 00:03:41,054 it's just a piece of paper. 115 00:03:41,137 --> 00:03:42,639 - Who's gonna be there with you 116 00:03:42,722 --> 00:03:44,057 to witness all this? 117 00:03:44,140 --> 00:03:45,516 Family members? 118 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,311 - We're just gonna keep it between me and Nate. 119 00:03:48,394 --> 00:03:49,646 - Uh, wow. 120 00:03:49,729 --> 00:03:51,272 We wanna witness you getting married. 121 00:03:51,356 --> 00:03:52,649 You know what I mean? 122 00:03:52,732 --> 00:03:54,150 - I just wanna keep it simple. 123 00:03:54,233 --> 00:03:55,610 - Are you serious? Why? 124 00:03:55,693 --> 00:03:58,321 - I just feel like once my family gets involved, 125 00:03:58,404 --> 00:03:59,572 it gets complicated. 126 00:03:59,656 --> 00:04:01,574 - Well, can you invite one person? 127 00:04:01,658 --> 00:04:03,868 - And that one person is you? 128 00:04:03,952 --> 00:04:05,662 - I wanna be there for you guys. 129 00:04:05,745 --> 00:04:09,040 - I know you love your brother, but it's between me and him. 130 00:04:09,123 --> 00:04:10,917 - Wow. Wow. 131 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,418 - We know you're there in spirit. 132 00:04:12,502 --> 00:04:14,671 How about that? - It's not the same, girl. 133 00:04:14,754 --> 00:04:16,297 - I'll send you pictures. 134 00:04:16,381 --> 00:04:18,174 [tense music] 135 00:04:18,257 --> 00:04:19,425 [Ashley Clark's "Flowing with the Breeze"] 136 00:04:19,509 --> 00:04:21,469 - ♪ Sunday wake up ♪ 137 00:04:21,552 --> 00:04:23,680 ♪ Feeling something ♪ 138 00:04:23,763 --> 00:04:25,974 ♪ Shout and shake up ♪ 139 00:04:26,057 --> 00:04:28,017 ♪ Got no plans ♪ 140 00:04:28,101 --> 00:04:30,353 - It's a beautiful day, kids. 141 00:04:30,436 --> 00:04:32,188 Can you get the bait, Roosevelt? 142 00:04:32,271 --> 00:04:33,356 Kennedy has it. 143 00:04:33,439 --> 00:04:35,358 You gotta hook it yourself. 144 00:04:35,441 --> 00:04:37,193 Grab it. Grab it, Roosevelt. 145 00:04:37,276 --> 00:04:38,861 - Too slimy. 146 00:04:38,945 --> 00:04:40,613 - Going out fishing with my dad, 147 00:04:40,697 --> 00:04:42,532 it's always a great time. 148 00:04:42,615 --> 00:04:45,994 It brings back the best memories. 149 00:04:46,077 --> 00:04:47,370 - Whoo. Wow. 150 00:04:47,453 --> 00:04:49,539 Catch the first one, you get money, remember? 151 00:04:49,622 --> 00:04:53,376 - Taking my son fishing, Judy's kids fishing 152 00:04:53,459 --> 00:04:56,713 always makes me feel happy. 153 00:04:56,796 --> 00:04:58,214 You can't just get lucky. 154 00:04:58,298 --> 00:05:00,758 I'm gonna set you up on a secret fishing pole 155 00:05:00,842 --> 00:05:02,552 'cause you're my favorite niece. 156 00:05:02,635 --> 00:05:04,345 [line whooshes] [splash] 157 00:05:04,429 --> 00:05:06,889 - Good news, Daddy. There's fish! 158 00:05:06,973 --> 00:05:08,141 - How do you know? 159 00:05:08,224 --> 00:05:10,476 - Because the fish ate some of my worm. 160 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,894 - Oh, really? 161 00:05:11,978 --> 00:05:13,980 - How many fish you think you can catch today? 162 00:05:14,063 --> 00:05:15,648 Two? Great. 163 00:05:15,732 --> 00:05:18,067 - One thing I'm better at you at is fishing. 164 00:05:18,151 --> 00:05:20,069 - Another one you better than me, 165 00:05:20,153 --> 00:05:21,779 the kids' playboy. - Yeah. 166 00:05:21,863 --> 00:05:24,115 Playing and having fun is my thing. 167 00:05:24,198 --> 00:05:25,450 - Yeah. 168 00:05:25,533 --> 00:05:28,161 - Dad, my mother-in-law's in town. 169 00:05:28,244 --> 00:05:29,912 - You get along right now? 170 00:05:29,996 --> 00:05:31,497 - She's difficult, Dad. 171 00:05:31,581 --> 00:05:34,751 You know, in America they make a lot of in-law jokes. 172 00:05:34,834 --> 00:05:36,294 - Yeah. Monkey on the back? 173 00:05:36,377 --> 00:05:38,254 That what you say? - Yeah, monkey on the back. 174 00:05:38,337 --> 00:05:39,922 When I married my wife, 175 00:05:40,006 --> 00:05:43,593 I thought I married my wife, not my mother-in-law. 176 00:05:43,676 --> 00:05:45,970 - That true because, you know, any mother, 177 00:05:46,054 --> 00:05:49,766 they try to protect the kid no matter how old they are, 178 00:05:49,849 --> 00:05:52,185 so even they married to you, 179 00:05:52,268 --> 00:05:54,687 but she still try to protect her daughter. 180 00:05:54,771 --> 00:05:56,272 - Protect her from what? 181 00:05:56,355 --> 00:05:58,649 - I cannot explain what, but that the feeling. 182 00:05:58,733 --> 00:06:01,235 - Yeah, but before they come, my wife makes, like, 183 00:06:01,319 --> 00:06:03,321 100 rules for me to follow. 184 00:06:03,404 --> 00:06:06,365 I wish my wife would be Lesley Ho 185 00:06:06,449 --> 00:06:10,244 instead of the Lesley Ho, "What does my mom think, 186 00:06:10,328 --> 00:06:12,288 and that's how you should be." 187 00:06:12,371 --> 00:06:14,707 But I think she's starting to turn out like her mom, 188 00:06:14,791 --> 00:06:16,000 and it's pretty scary. 189 00:06:16,084 --> 00:06:18,544 - Your mom, she don't make 100 rules. 190 00:06:18,628 --> 00:06:19,962 She make 1,000 rules. 191 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:23,174 I just smile, but I pick and I choose what I want. 192 00:06:23,257 --> 00:06:25,301 - When you and Mom moved to America 193 00:06:25,384 --> 00:06:27,678 and her mom was back in Vietnam-- 194 00:06:27,762 --> 00:06:29,263 - Right. - How long did it take 195 00:06:29,347 --> 00:06:31,516 until you got to tell her mom that she was safe? 196 00:06:31,599 --> 00:06:33,726 - When I come back the United States, 197 00:06:33,810 --> 00:06:36,229 friend of your mom, she told me 198 00:06:36,312 --> 00:06:38,564 she love me more than her daughter. 199 00:06:38,648 --> 00:06:40,983 So you need to prove to them you right. 200 00:06:41,067 --> 00:06:43,027 You show them you love your wife, 201 00:06:43,111 --> 00:06:45,613 you take care of the family, and she can see that. 202 00:06:45,696 --> 00:06:50,326 - I think it's super important that I maintain my boundaries. 203 00:06:50,409 --> 00:06:54,330 I don't want to lean into what my wife wants me to do. 204 00:06:54,413 --> 00:06:56,332 If I can just be myself, 205 00:06:56,415 --> 00:06:58,376 that would be my dream come true. 206 00:06:58,459 --> 00:07:00,503 I can't just live for my wife anymore. 207 00:07:00,586 --> 00:07:02,171 I gotta live for myself. 208 00:07:02,255 --> 00:07:03,256 - I caught one! 209 00:07:03,339 --> 00:07:04,423 - You got one? - Yeah. 210 00:07:04,507 --> 00:07:05,758 - Yay! 211 00:07:05,842 --> 00:07:07,635 All right. Hold on. 212 00:07:07,718 --> 00:07:09,053 Don't clap yet. 213 00:07:09,137 --> 00:07:11,764 - Slow down. - Let Uncle help you. 214 00:07:11,848 --> 00:07:12,974 All right. 215 00:07:13,057 --> 00:07:15,143 Whoo! - Whoo-hoo! 216 00:07:15,226 --> 00:07:16,477 - Yay! 217 00:07:16,561 --> 00:07:18,020 Truman got one. - You're the first one. 218 00:07:18,104 --> 00:07:19,480 Yeah. We're gonna take a picture. 219 00:07:19,564 --> 00:07:21,566 - All right, now we know where the fish is. 220 00:07:21,649 --> 00:07:23,442 Now we can change our strategy. 221 00:07:23,526 --> 00:07:25,528 - Take a picture. - Okay, Roosevelt? 222 00:07:25,611 --> 00:07:27,488 There's still time to catch the biggest one. 223 00:07:27,572 --> 00:07:28,531 Don't be sad. 224 00:07:28,614 --> 00:07:30,366 Don't be like your dad, okay? 225 00:07:30,449 --> 00:07:32,493 All right. Congrats, Truman. 226 00:07:32,577 --> 00:07:35,288 [bass-heavy electronic music] 227 00:07:35,371 --> 00:07:39,709 ♪ ♪ 228 00:07:39,792 --> 00:07:41,127 - ♪ All eyes on me ♪ 229 00:07:41,210 --> 00:07:43,379 ♪ ♪ 230 00:07:43,462 --> 00:07:45,631 - Keep moving forward. There's gonna be a step. 231 00:07:45,715 --> 00:07:47,008 Yeah, hump. Straight forward. 232 00:07:47,091 --> 00:07:49,886 - Big hump. - [speaking Vietnamese] 233 00:07:50,511 --> 00:07:51,804 - What are we doing? 234 00:07:51,888 --> 00:07:53,472 all: Surprise! 235 00:07:53,556 --> 00:07:55,183 - What? [chatter, laughter] 236 00:07:55,266 --> 00:07:57,059 I thought I was at a bar. 237 00:07:57,143 --> 00:07:59,228 - Yeah. - We are at the bar! 238 00:07:59,312 --> 00:08:01,230 - We're at the bar. - It's your bartender. 239 00:08:01,314 --> 00:08:02,648 Congratulations. 240 00:08:02,732 --> 00:08:04,692 - So this is yours. 241 00:08:05,735 --> 00:08:06,736 - Aww. - What a gift. 242 00:08:06,819 --> 00:08:08,154 - I know. 243 00:08:08,237 --> 00:08:10,740 - This is the first time I heard you not speak. 244 00:08:10,823 --> 00:08:11,908 When Tran and I talked about 245 00:08:11,991 --> 00:08:13,534 starting a new family, 246 00:08:13,618 --> 00:08:15,578 you know, in Vietnamese culture, 247 00:08:15,661 --> 00:08:17,747 if somebody gives you a baby, 248 00:08:17,830 --> 00:08:19,457 I mean, you have to give them a gift. 249 00:08:19,540 --> 00:08:21,834 New stove for you to cook for me. 250 00:08:21,918 --> 00:08:23,753 [laughter] 251 00:08:23,836 --> 00:08:27,298 So as a thank you for agreeing to carry our baby, 252 00:08:27,381 --> 00:08:29,133 I bought her a house. 253 00:08:29,217 --> 00:08:30,343 Wanna see the house? 254 00:08:30,426 --> 00:08:31,510 - Okay, I'll walk you this time. 255 00:08:31,594 --> 00:08:32,803 I don't trust you walking me. 256 00:08:32,887 --> 00:08:34,180 [Tammy laughs] 257 00:08:35,389 --> 00:08:37,475 - What the fuck? It's crazy. 258 00:08:37,558 --> 00:08:38,935 - What are you worried about? 259 00:08:39,018 --> 00:08:40,770 - Well, Tammy's so in love right now. 260 00:08:40,853 --> 00:08:42,772 I wanna make sure she's, you know-- 261 00:08:42,855 --> 00:08:44,106 no one's fucking her over. 262 00:08:44,190 --> 00:08:45,149 I'm sorry. 263 00:08:45,233 --> 00:08:46,484 I'm worried that my sister's 264 00:08:46,567 --> 00:08:48,569 not thinking clearly because 265 00:08:48,653 --> 00:08:50,321 whatever Tran says goes. 266 00:08:50,404 --> 00:08:52,823 - This room--perfect nursery. 267 00:08:52,907 --> 00:08:54,075 - We might fit two in here. 268 00:08:54,158 --> 00:08:55,826 - We can fit four in here. 269 00:08:55,910 --> 00:08:57,245 - No, no, no, no. [laughs] 270 00:08:57,328 --> 00:08:59,080 - I just wanna make sure my sister Tammy 271 00:08:59,163 --> 00:09:01,582 is not gonna be played. [sighs] 272 00:09:02,875 --> 00:09:06,337 - Baby, I never believed in love until... 273 00:09:06,420 --> 00:09:07,505 you showed me. 274 00:09:07,588 --> 00:09:10,007 - [speaking Vietnamese] 275 00:09:10,091 --> 00:09:11,467 [laughs] 276 00:09:12,969 --> 00:09:14,136 - With you. 277 00:09:14,220 --> 00:09:15,471 - Okay. 278 00:09:15,554 --> 00:09:18,641 [sentimental music] 279 00:09:18,724 --> 00:09:20,643 ♪ ♪ 280 00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:24,397 Oh, don't cry. You're gonna make me cry. 281 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,066 ♪ ♪ 282 00:09:27,149 --> 00:09:30,987 I don't know how it's gonna be once we add a baby to the mix, 283 00:09:31,070 --> 00:09:33,823 but I just think this is a good place 284 00:09:33,906 --> 00:09:36,367 for us to start a family. 285 00:09:36,450 --> 00:09:39,578 ♪ ♪ 286 00:09:39,662 --> 00:09:42,164 - Did you always hear that she calls Tam her-- 287 00:09:42,248 --> 00:09:43,582 - Sugar mama? - "Sugar mama." 288 00:09:43,666 --> 00:09:45,001 Tran spent the night in my house 289 00:09:45,084 --> 00:09:46,961 when they were fighting, and she said stuff 290 00:09:47,044 --> 00:09:49,046 that I wasn't very comfortable with. 291 00:09:49,130 --> 00:09:50,506 They got into an argument, 292 00:09:50,589 --> 00:09:51,841 Tam left to go home, 293 00:09:51,924 --> 00:09:53,634 and Tran told us a lot of stuff. 294 00:09:53,718 --> 00:09:54,844 She was drinking. 295 00:09:54,927 --> 00:09:58,639 She told me that she can turn me lesbian. 296 00:09:58,723 --> 00:10:00,850 She said she's that good, and that's why 297 00:10:00,933 --> 00:10:02,476 Tam deeply fell in love with her. 298 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,937 Tran is a freaking smooth-talker, 299 00:10:05,021 --> 00:10:07,189 and I feel like she's very confident 300 00:10:07,273 --> 00:10:08,858 and my sister likes that. 301 00:10:08,941 --> 00:10:11,569 - What if you speak up and she doesn't agree with you 302 00:10:11,652 --> 00:10:13,863 and then Tran and her will-- 303 00:10:13,946 --> 00:10:15,448 - Why would she be mad at me? 304 00:10:15,531 --> 00:10:17,491 I'm--I'm looking out for her. I'm trying to-- 305 00:10:17,575 --> 00:10:19,827 - That's not how relationships work. 306 00:10:19,910 --> 00:10:21,454 - I worry about Tammy's health. 307 00:10:21,537 --> 00:10:23,539 She's been through a lot. Bad marriage. 308 00:10:23,622 --> 00:10:26,125 She has quadruple heart bypass surgery 309 00:10:26,208 --> 00:10:27,918 and she didn't tell anybody about. 310 00:10:28,002 --> 00:10:31,047 I will speak my mind until she finds that person 311 00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:32,715 to treat her really well. 312 00:10:32,798 --> 00:10:34,508 [tense music] 313 00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:36,052 - Hey, Tam. 314 00:10:36,135 --> 00:10:37,303 How are you? - Hey, guys. 315 00:10:37,386 --> 00:10:38,304 - Hello, guys. 316 00:10:38,387 --> 00:10:39,472 - Hey, Van had a question. 317 00:10:39,555 --> 00:10:41,140 - What's the question? 318 00:10:41,223 --> 00:10:42,600 - Tam, are you happy? 319 00:10:42,683 --> 00:10:45,061 [dramatic chords] 320 00:10:45,144 --> 00:10:47,396 - Yeah. It's a happy moment. 321 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:48,773 - You're happy because, what? 322 00:10:48,856 --> 00:10:50,733 Because you bought a house for her? 323 00:10:50,816 --> 00:10:51,942 How are you happy? - No. 324 00:10:52,026 --> 00:10:53,444 I'm happy that she's happy, 325 00:10:53,527 --> 00:10:54,820 and if she's happy, I'm happy. 326 00:10:54,904 --> 00:10:57,365 - Whose name is it under, yours or hers? 327 00:10:57,448 --> 00:10:58,699 - The deed's in her name. 328 00:10:58,783 --> 00:11:00,618 - You pay for it, and then she owns it? 329 00:11:00,701 --> 00:11:01,744 - It's a gift. 330 00:11:01,827 --> 00:11:03,037 - I understand you're in love, 331 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:04,580 but don't be dumb in love. 332 00:11:04,663 --> 00:11:05,998 You understand what I'm saying? 333 00:11:06,082 --> 00:11:08,209 I'm worried about someone taking advantage of you, 334 00:11:08,292 --> 00:11:10,169 of your kindness. 335 00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:12,671 - I understand Vanessa, but still, 336 00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:17,843 some opinion that I came to Tammy because of money-- 337 00:11:17,927 --> 00:11:21,013 people probably judge me as a gold digger 338 00:11:21,097 --> 00:11:23,808 and I can't justify that for myself. 339 00:11:23,891 --> 00:11:26,769 But I do hope that she will understand us, too, 340 00:11:26,852 --> 00:11:28,646 and she'd have a peace of mind 341 00:11:28,729 --> 00:11:31,023 that I love her sister with honest love. 342 00:11:31,107 --> 00:11:34,985 - Who wears the figurative pants in the relationship? 343 00:11:35,069 --> 00:11:36,654 - Who wears the pants in the family? 344 00:11:36,737 --> 00:11:37,947 - Decision-maker. - Yeah. 345 00:11:38,030 --> 00:11:39,698 - Important decisions. - Yeah. 346 00:11:39,782 --> 00:11:41,659 - I wear pants. She makes the decisions. 347 00:11:41,742 --> 00:11:42,785 - How do you feel about that? 348 00:11:42,868 --> 00:11:44,912 - She listens to my opinion, 349 00:11:44,995 --> 00:11:46,789 then to make that decision. 350 00:11:46,872 --> 00:11:48,374 - Oh, she's like the Binh Ho in the house. 351 00:11:48,457 --> 00:11:49,959 [laughs] I heard what you said, 352 00:11:50,042 --> 00:11:51,836 but this is what we're gonna do. 353 00:11:51,919 --> 00:11:53,045 [laughter] 354 00:11:53,129 --> 00:11:54,547 - So do you trust her decisions 355 00:11:54,630 --> 00:11:55,965 'cause she's a lot older than you? 356 00:11:56,048 --> 00:11:57,299 - Is she older? 357 00:11:57,383 --> 00:11:58,801 - Fuck. Yes! 358 00:11:58,884 --> 00:12:00,970 - [laughs] - Oh, my man, Carlton. 359 00:12:01,053 --> 00:12:02,555 You are invited to every single party. 360 00:12:02,638 --> 00:12:03,973 - Are you serious? - Yeah. 361 00:12:04,056 --> 00:12:05,349 - I didn't know who was older. - I know. 362 00:12:05,433 --> 00:12:07,309 Cheers to that. [laughs] - How many years? 363 00:12:07,393 --> 00:12:08,519 - 15. - 15. 364 00:12:08,602 --> 00:12:09,979 - Whoa. Seriously? 365 00:12:10,062 --> 00:12:11,605 - But you always wanted to find somebody-- 366 00:12:11,689 --> 00:12:13,232 you told me this-- that you want someone 367 00:12:13,315 --> 00:12:14,650 to take care of you. 368 00:12:14,733 --> 00:12:16,318 Now it's you're taking care of somebody else. 369 00:12:16,402 --> 00:12:17,987 - No, she is taking care of her. 370 00:12:18,070 --> 00:12:19,655 When she says "I want somebody to take care of me," 371 00:12:19,738 --> 00:12:21,031 that doesn't mean that she's saying she wants somebody 372 00:12:21,115 --> 00:12:22,658 to pay for everything. 373 00:12:22,741 --> 00:12:25,619 That means she wants somebody to be her companion, to-- 374 00:12:25,703 --> 00:12:28,789 - Or who's willing to cook at 7:00 at night. 375 00:12:28,873 --> 00:12:31,000 You know? - Who's willing to... 376 00:12:31,083 --> 00:12:33,043 take her pants off, you know? 377 00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:34,420 - Or skirt off. - Yeah. Or skirt. 378 00:12:34,503 --> 00:12:36,088 - Yeah. Yeah. [laughs] 379 00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:38,048 - That's all I'm trying to say. - I'll cheer to that. 380 00:12:38,132 --> 00:12:39,842 - It could mean some other... 381 00:12:39,925 --> 00:12:41,510 [laughter] 382 00:12:41,594 --> 00:12:44,597 [moody acoustic music] 383 00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:51,604 ♪ ♪ 384 00:12:56,692 --> 00:12:58,569 - [speaking Vietnamese] 385 00:12:58,652 --> 00:13:00,821 - [speaking Vietnamese] 386 00:13:00,905 --> 00:13:02,198 - Oh. 387 00:13:02,281 --> 00:13:04,283 - But you have all day with them tomorrow. 388 00:13:04,366 --> 00:13:05,576 [edgy string music] 389 00:13:05,659 --> 00:13:07,286 - I feel like I'm very put together 390 00:13:07,369 --> 00:13:08,787 when my mom's not here 391 00:13:08,871 --> 00:13:09,997 because I play this role. 392 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:11,540 I know my role very well. 393 00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:13,792 But it's hard to play that role 394 00:13:13,876 --> 00:13:15,836 when my mom can see right through me, 395 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,880 especially when she's right in front of your face. 396 00:13:17,963 --> 00:13:20,049 [footsteps approaching] 397 00:13:21,175 --> 00:13:22,551 - Hey, Mom. 398 00:13:22,635 --> 00:13:23,844 [speaking Vietnamese] 399 00:13:23,928 --> 00:13:25,179 - What are you wearing? 400 00:13:25,262 --> 00:13:27,306 - Your new style? - Yeah. 401 00:13:27,389 --> 00:13:29,892 I'm wearing my favorite jacket. 402 00:13:29,975 --> 00:13:31,519 Told me no boxers. 403 00:13:31,602 --> 00:13:33,687 Completely covered up in cashmere. 404 00:13:33,771 --> 00:13:35,606 Giorgio Armani. 405 00:13:35,689 --> 00:13:37,691 And Hermès scarf... 406 00:13:37,775 --> 00:13:38,901 for my nose. 407 00:13:39,985 --> 00:13:41,904 What do you think? 408 00:13:41,987 --> 00:13:43,572 See? No boxers. 409 00:13:43,656 --> 00:13:46,075 Just a bunch of long, sexy legs. 410 00:13:46,992 --> 00:13:48,285 - I thought my mom was gonna 411 00:13:48,369 --> 00:13:49,578 have a heart attack in the kitchen. 412 00:13:49,662 --> 00:13:51,080 - You're giving me that look again. 413 00:13:51,163 --> 00:13:52,498 It's not feeling good. 414 00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:56,669 The energy that I get from my mother-in-law... 415 00:13:56,752 --> 00:13:59,004 - I think you are crazy. 416 00:13:59,088 --> 00:14:01,757 - It makes me want to do the opposite 417 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,426 of what my wife wants me to do. 418 00:14:04,510 --> 00:14:06,929 I'm following the rules. 419 00:14:07,012 --> 00:14:10,558 - Whatever you wear like this and come to me. 420 00:14:10,641 --> 00:14:12,560 You know what you do. 421 00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:14,770 - I'm pretty sure her mom told her 422 00:14:14,853 --> 00:14:16,981 "Don't marry this playboy." 423 00:14:17,064 --> 00:14:18,107 - [mouthing words] 424 00:14:18,190 --> 00:14:19,692 - Go back upstairs? 425 00:14:19,775 --> 00:14:21,527 - Please. 426 00:14:21,610 --> 00:14:23,445 - Already? 427 00:14:23,529 --> 00:14:25,155 In our Vietnamese culture, 428 00:14:25,239 --> 00:14:28,284 if you have a daughter, there's a certain type of guy 429 00:14:28,367 --> 00:14:30,911 you want her to marry, and that's someone... 430 00:14:30,995 --> 00:14:33,122 that's better than your daughter. 431 00:14:33,205 --> 00:14:35,457 And I'm the total opposite 432 00:14:35,541 --> 00:14:37,376 of what her mom wanted for Lesley. 433 00:14:37,459 --> 00:14:39,587 She doesn't think I'm better than Lesley. 434 00:14:39,670 --> 00:14:41,839 That's the thing. 435 00:14:41,922 --> 00:14:44,216 But we're Hos, so we know we're better. 436 00:14:44,300 --> 00:14:46,218 [chuckles] 437 00:14:48,387 --> 00:14:50,055 - [sighs] 438 00:14:51,265 --> 00:14:53,851 I just wish... [speaking Vietnamese] 439 00:14:54,852 --> 00:14:56,061 You know? 440 00:15:00,316 --> 00:15:02,985 - I know. I know. 441 00:15:07,156 --> 00:15:08,407 You know? [sniffles] 442 00:15:23,589 --> 00:15:25,966 - I love you too. 443 00:15:26,050 --> 00:15:27,551 - Try to work it out. 444 00:15:27,635 --> 00:15:29,678 - [speaking Vietnamese] You know, I mean, 445 00:15:29,762 --> 00:15:31,472 And sometime... [speaking Vietnamese] 446 00:15:42,107 --> 00:15:45,235 [sentimental music] 447 00:15:45,319 --> 00:15:46,779 ♪ ♪ 448 00:15:46,862 --> 00:15:48,614 [murmuring] I love you. 449 00:15:50,324 --> 00:15:52,576 Thank you for coming. 450 00:15:52,660 --> 00:15:55,579 [upbeat music] 451 00:15:55,663 --> 00:15:57,665 - Hi. Thanks for coming. 452 00:15:57,748 --> 00:15:58,707 - My pleasure. 453 00:15:58,791 --> 00:16:00,000 So what is going on? 454 00:16:00,084 --> 00:16:01,168 - Not a criminal issue. 455 00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:02,586 - Okay, good. Good. 456 00:16:02,670 --> 00:16:04,296 'Cause I can't advise on that issue, right? 457 00:16:04,380 --> 00:16:07,341 - Nate and I are thinking about a surprise elopement 458 00:16:07,424 --> 00:16:08,634 and we've invited 459 00:16:08,717 --> 00:16:10,386 Judge Jason Luong to be a part of it. 460 00:16:10,469 --> 00:16:12,096 He could help for us to make real plans 461 00:16:12,179 --> 00:16:13,889 before we share that with our family 462 00:16:13,972 --> 00:16:17,059 and maybe officiate it as our personal friend. 463 00:16:17,142 --> 00:16:18,435 - You know what elopement is? 464 00:16:18,519 --> 00:16:20,854 - I'm about to find out. - [laughs] 465 00:16:20,938 --> 00:16:23,065 - Elopement is actually a French word meaning 466 00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:25,317 too much family drama to plan a wedding. 467 00:16:25,401 --> 00:16:27,194 - Ooh, that's exactly us. 468 00:16:27,277 --> 00:16:28,404 [both laugh] 469 00:16:28,487 --> 00:16:30,114 - So what are you planning to do? 470 00:16:30,197 --> 00:16:32,783 - My preference is to keep it as simple as possible. 471 00:16:32,866 --> 00:16:34,493 - Right. - And then, you know, 472 00:16:34,576 --> 00:16:36,412 announce to everyone else that we're married. 473 00:16:36,495 --> 00:16:38,247 - And I'm like, I'll get in trouble once 474 00:16:38,330 --> 00:16:41,709 for not telling the family, and I don't want to, you know-- 475 00:16:41,792 --> 00:16:44,211 at least maybe tell them, give them a heads up, you know? 476 00:16:44,294 --> 00:16:46,672 - He proposed without asking for my father's blessing. 477 00:16:46,755 --> 00:16:48,298 - Yeah, and I heard that's not right. 478 00:16:48,382 --> 00:16:50,801 - Well, how did he react afterwards? 479 00:16:50,884 --> 00:16:52,344 - Ooh... - Oh... 480 00:16:52,428 --> 00:16:53,512 - Wasn't good. - Yeah. 481 00:16:53,595 --> 00:16:55,013 - Not his happiest face. 482 00:16:55,097 --> 00:16:56,807 - So how do you think your parents will react 483 00:16:56,890 --> 00:16:58,142 when you tell them you got married 484 00:16:58,225 --> 00:16:59,768 without letting them be involved? 485 00:16:59,852 --> 00:17:01,311 - Well, I can still picture that face. 486 00:17:01,395 --> 00:17:02,938 I'm like, wow. - [laughs] 487 00:17:03,021 --> 00:17:04,940 Well, you know, you're right about the family drama. 488 00:17:05,023 --> 00:17:06,692 - Okay. - So our family, 489 00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:08,444 like typical Vietnamese family, 490 00:17:08,527 --> 00:17:10,904 we have parents who are overbearing. 491 00:17:10,988 --> 00:17:11,947 - Mm-hmm. 492 00:17:12,030 --> 00:17:13,198 - We have siblings 493 00:17:13,282 --> 00:17:14,408 who wants to be involved 494 00:17:14,491 --> 00:17:16,201 every step of the way. - Right. 495 00:17:16,285 --> 00:17:18,829 I know you wanna do it without a lot of the family members-- 496 00:17:18,912 --> 00:17:21,540 - Mm-hmm. - But I'm gonna have to... 497 00:17:21,623 --> 00:17:25,794 mull over if my sisters and family's gonna go nuts. 498 00:17:25,878 --> 00:17:28,297 I think eloping is a great idea, 499 00:17:28,380 --> 00:17:30,507 but I think we still have to discuss, 500 00:17:30,591 --> 00:17:32,801 'cause I've gotten a lot closer to my family 501 00:17:32,885 --> 00:17:35,429 this last year, and I'd like a little 502 00:17:35,512 --> 00:17:37,514 piece of, you know, our family to come. 503 00:17:37,598 --> 00:17:38,766 We don't have to invite everybody 504 00:17:38,849 --> 00:17:40,058 like our first weddings, right? 505 00:17:40,142 --> 00:17:41,143 - Yeah. 506 00:17:41,226 --> 00:17:43,228 - So it's up to you. 507 00:17:43,312 --> 00:17:44,980 Just let us know when we wanna do it. 508 00:17:45,063 --> 00:17:46,273 - We appreciate your help, though. 509 00:17:46,356 --> 00:17:47,649 - Yes. - 'Cause this is gonna be 510 00:17:47,733 --> 00:17:48,692 a tough decision for us. 511 00:17:48,776 --> 00:17:50,027 - You know, our court is wired 512 00:17:50,110 --> 00:17:51,320 for livestreaming too, by the way. 513 00:17:51,403 --> 00:17:53,155 I can do a Zoom link. - Right! 514 00:17:53,238 --> 00:17:54,448 - Oh, we should set it up where we-- 515 00:17:54,531 --> 00:17:55,574 they think we're going to jail, 516 00:17:55,657 --> 00:17:56,825 like, criminal court first, 517 00:17:56,909 --> 00:17:57,951 and then, like, surprise! 518 00:17:58,035 --> 00:17:59,244 We're actually getting married. 519 00:17:59,328 --> 00:18:00,412 [laughter] 520 00:18:00,496 --> 00:18:04,458 [sentimental music] 521 00:18:04,541 --> 00:18:11,048 ♪ ♪ 522 00:18:11,131 --> 00:18:12,424 - ♪ This thing called ♪ 523 00:18:12,508 --> 00:18:16,762 ♪ Lo-o-o-o-ove ♪ 524 00:18:16,845 --> 00:18:19,306 ♪ ♪ 525 00:18:19,389 --> 00:18:24,144 ♪ There are so many things that love can take away ♪ 526 00:18:24,228 --> 00:18:29,441 ♪ ♪ 527 00:18:29,525 --> 00:18:31,235 - Like, remember how we used to be like this 528 00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:32,694 when we first met? 529 00:18:32,778 --> 00:18:34,655 Before we married? 530 00:18:34,738 --> 00:18:38,242 We used to sit here and talk 531 00:18:38,325 --> 00:18:40,369 and be open and honest with each other. 532 00:18:40,452 --> 00:18:41,954 Don't you remember those days? 533 00:18:42,037 --> 00:18:44,540 - Yeah. Those were nice days. - Yeah. 534 00:18:44,623 --> 00:18:47,251 After all we've been through... - Mm-hmm. 535 00:18:47,334 --> 00:18:49,002 I have a question. 536 00:18:49,962 --> 00:18:52,548 You know how your mom's been hanging out with us a lot? 537 00:18:52,631 --> 00:18:53,507 - Yeah. 538 00:18:53,590 --> 00:18:54,967 - Like, the older you get, 539 00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:57,719 the more it seems like you're just like her. 540 00:18:57,803 --> 00:19:00,430 [tense music] 541 00:19:00,514 --> 00:19:03,100 And I am not like your dad. 542 00:19:03,183 --> 00:19:05,394 I like to be my own boss. 543 00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:07,187 But can you accept that? 544 00:19:07,271 --> 00:19:10,232 - To a certain extent, but I think a marriage 545 00:19:10,315 --> 00:19:11,900 is like a partnership. 546 00:19:11,984 --> 00:19:14,945 It shouldn't be, you know, that I have to do everything. 547 00:19:15,028 --> 00:19:17,281 - You told me when we got married 548 00:19:17,364 --> 00:19:20,075 that you loved me because I was ambitious. 549 00:19:20,158 --> 00:19:21,493 - Mm-hmm. 550 00:19:21,577 --> 00:19:24,413 - I'm so excited about my new music career. 551 00:19:24,496 --> 00:19:26,874 Like, I finally found something. 552 00:19:26,957 --> 00:19:29,918 I'm excited to actually work on it. 553 00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:32,713 My new song is called "Live Life." 554 00:19:32,796 --> 00:19:36,341 I have to be so authentic to the lyrics in my song, 555 00:19:36,425 --> 00:19:38,719 with nobody telling me how to live it. 556 00:19:38,802 --> 00:19:41,471 Look, here's the words. Tell me what you think. 557 00:19:41,555 --> 00:19:43,056 [intense hip-hop music playing] 558 00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:44,933 ♪ I can't be who you want me to be ♪ 559 00:19:45,017 --> 00:19:47,269 ♪ No! I can't speak how you want me to speak ♪ 560 00:19:47,352 --> 00:19:49,438 ♪ Get up and get it, don't live for regret ♪ 561 00:19:49,521 --> 00:19:51,732 ♪ You only live once, so show 'em what you can ♪ 562 00:19:51,815 --> 00:19:54,318 ♪ Living out my life ♪ 563 00:19:54,401 --> 00:19:57,154 I'm just going back to the Washington that's, like, 564 00:19:57,237 --> 00:19:59,781 confident, happy, 565 00:19:59,865 --> 00:20:02,534 trying to make his dreams come true. 566 00:20:03,827 --> 00:20:06,121 And it's mentally healthy for me. 567 00:20:06,204 --> 00:20:08,790 Before, you know all the businesses 568 00:20:08,874 --> 00:20:10,417 I was involved in. 569 00:20:10,500 --> 00:20:13,962 It was always like... wasn't sure. 570 00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:17,049 And I think that led a lot to my depression 571 00:20:17,132 --> 00:20:20,218 and me drinking and drugging to numb myself. 572 00:20:20,302 --> 00:20:24,181 And now I've finally found something that makes me happy, 573 00:20:24,264 --> 00:20:26,266 and I think it has huge potential. 574 00:20:26,350 --> 00:20:27,809 - What does that mean for us then? 575 00:20:27,893 --> 00:20:29,811 Like, am I a priority to you? 576 00:20:29,895 --> 00:20:31,647 - Yeah. - I've always told you 577 00:20:31,730 --> 00:20:33,565 we grow together or we grow apart. 578 00:20:33,649 --> 00:20:35,651 I mean, I didn't sign up to be a single mother. 579 00:20:35,734 --> 00:20:38,737 I can't travel the world with you and do all that. 580 00:20:38,820 --> 00:20:40,280 Like, I have responsibilities here. 581 00:20:40,364 --> 00:20:41,573 - I know. You don't have to. 582 00:20:41,657 --> 00:20:43,909 - But you're not here. That's my point. 583 00:20:43,992 --> 00:20:46,620 I need a partner. I need a husband. 584 00:20:46,703 --> 00:20:49,873 When your goals and my goals are completely different now. 585 00:20:49,957 --> 00:20:51,500 - Let's make a deal. 586 00:20:51,583 --> 00:20:53,543 Give me three years 587 00:20:53,627 --> 00:20:55,921 to give it my all into music 588 00:20:56,004 --> 00:20:57,965 and if I don't make a profit, 589 00:20:58,048 --> 00:21:00,801 I'll go back to an 8:00 to 5:00 590 00:21:00,884 --> 00:21:03,011 or whatever you want me to do. 591 00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:05,222 But I gotta get paid. 592 00:21:05,305 --> 00:21:08,350 If you want me to make money, I have to sell myself. 593 00:21:08,433 --> 00:21:12,187 I gotta be in the studio when Dr. Dre's in the studio. 594 00:21:12,270 --> 00:21:13,730 Can you handle that? 595 00:21:13,814 --> 00:21:15,732 Are you with me or not? 596 00:21:15,816 --> 00:21:18,443 [lightly edgy music] 597 00:21:18,527 --> 00:21:20,737 - I mean, I support you. 598 00:21:20,821 --> 00:21:24,616 I just don't know how we're gonna make it work. 599 00:21:24,700 --> 00:21:27,869 I mean, I can't do what you're asking me to do. 600 00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:29,871 I don't know. I just feel like our paths 601 00:21:29,955 --> 00:21:33,208 are just not maybe going the same direction. 602 00:21:33,291 --> 00:21:35,419 - Look, when you hold on to me like this, 603 00:21:35,502 --> 00:21:38,296 I might die in two to three years mentally. 604 00:21:38,380 --> 00:21:41,383 I'm tired of giving up on my dreams 605 00:21:41,466 --> 00:21:44,302 to make someone else's dreams come true. 606 00:21:44,386 --> 00:21:46,596 - You think this is my dream? 607 00:21:49,641 --> 00:21:51,518 - So what do you wanna do then? 608 00:21:51,601 --> 00:21:55,022 ♪ ♪ 609 00:21:55,105 --> 00:21:58,317 - What if you living your life... 610 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,652 it doesn't make me happy? 611 00:22:00,736 --> 00:22:02,571 - Well, if it doesn't make you happy, 612 00:22:02,654 --> 00:22:04,448 then it's over forever. 613 00:22:04,531 --> 00:22:06,783 [dramatic chords] 614 00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:09,703 ♪ ♪ 615 00:22:09,786 --> 00:22:10,912 - Whatever. 616 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,873 [somber music] 617 00:22:12,956 --> 00:22:14,958 I feel like I'm in "The Twilight Zone"... 618 00:22:15,042 --> 00:22:16,710 ♪ ♪ 619 00:22:16,793 --> 00:22:20,922 Bracing myself for these constant changes that he does. 620 00:22:21,006 --> 00:22:23,425 My headspace right now is just... 621 00:22:23,508 --> 00:22:28,221 head down, lay low, and hopefully this blows over. 622 00:22:28,305 --> 00:22:30,390 You know, until his next career move comes, 623 00:22:30,474 --> 00:22:32,476 and hopefully... 624 00:22:32,559 --> 00:22:35,062 maybe it's a little more down-to-earth. 625 00:22:35,145 --> 00:22:38,648 It's never been a dull moment in this marriage. 626 00:22:38,732 --> 00:22:41,276 That's what I wanted... 627 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,694 but not like this. 628 00:22:42,778 --> 00:22:47,991 ♪ ♪ 629 00:22:48,075 --> 00:22:49,451 [Washington sighs] 630 00:22:51,912 --> 00:22:53,455 [upbeat music] 631 00:22:53,538 --> 00:22:55,624 - ♪ Even so, I'm tryna chase my dreams ♪ 632 00:22:55,707 --> 00:22:58,460 ♪ Seems like everything's up against me ♪ 633 00:22:58,543 --> 00:23:01,004 ♪ Got the world on my back and I don't know ♪ 634 00:23:01,088 --> 00:23:03,256 ♪ If I'm on the right track, track, track ♪ 635 00:23:03,340 --> 00:23:04,466 - That was a good lunch the other day, right? 636 00:23:04,549 --> 00:23:06,051 - Yeah. - It was fun. 637 00:23:06,134 --> 00:23:09,012 The restaurant Flora is about to officially open 638 00:23:09,096 --> 00:23:10,514 in about three days. 639 00:23:10,597 --> 00:23:13,308 We're here for, you know, the soft opening 640 00:23:13,391 --> 00:23:15,352 and just a family dinner, 641 00:23:15,435 --> 00:23:17,062 and I thought it'd be the perfect space 642 00:23:17,145 --> 00:23:18,438 for our surprise. 643 00:23:18,522 --> 00:23:19,773 - All right, bet. 644 00:23:19,856 --> 00:23:21,399 Who's gonna get the most lit tonight? 645 00:23:21,483 --> 00:23:23,735 - So the most lit as in the one who's gonna be, 646 00:23:23,819 --> 00:23:25,278 like, the rowdiest? - Who's the one 647 00:23:25,362 --> 00:23:26,822 we're gonna have to hold a bucket for? 648 00:23:26,905 --> 00:23:29,199 - Whoever's not drinking can sit with me. 649 00:23:29,282 --> 00:23:30,617 - What about Lesley? 650 00:23:30,700 --> 00:23:32,494 Maybe she's stressed out. - She probably is. 651 00:23:32,577 --> 00:23:33,829 So let's put our money on Lesley 652 00:23:33,912 --> 00:23:35,956 and also give her shots. - Hi! 653 00:23:36,039 --> 00:23:37,332 - Will you take a shot with us? 654 00:23:37,415 --> 00:23:39,042 We have a special one made for you. 655 00:23:39,126 --> 00:23:40,752 - You deserved it. You've had a long day. 656 00:23:40,836 --> 00:23:42,254 - Mom's here. - Mom is here. 657 00:23:42,337 --> 00:23:44,381 - How do you feel after that? 658 00:23:44,464 --> 00:23:46,967 - Mm. Talk about stressful. 659 00:23:47,050 --> 00:23:48,885 But in reality, as a mother, 660 00:23:48,969 --> 00:23:50,512 they just know when something's wrong. 661 00:23:50,595 --> 00:23:52,848 Like your mom knows, you know, when you're upset. 662 00:23:52,931 --> 00:23:55,350 But I think any of our moms would drop anything 663 00:23:55,433 --> 00:23:57,519 at the last time to fly and see us. 664 00:23:57,602 --> 00:23:59,604 - I used to think that a lot, 665 00:23:59,688 --> 00:24:01,857 but I am not sure anymore. 666 00:24:01,940 --> 00:24:05,735 I can see how she can love her girlfriend at 100%, 667 00:24:05,819 --> 00:24:08,405 but I don't feel like I'm getting that same 100%. 668 00:24:08,488 --> 00:24:11,032 - Loving your partner and loving your children 669 00:24:11,116 --> 00:24:13,410 are two different loves. - Don't you love your kids, 670 00:24:13,493 --> 00:24:16,246 like, a little bit more than you love your husband? 671 00:24:16,329 --> 00:24:19,082 - I love Wash conditionally. [laughs] 672 00:24:19,166 --> 00:24:20,542 - Yeah. So that's what I mean. 673 00:24:20,625 --> 00:24:22,252 You love your kids unconditionally. 674 00:24:22,335 --> 00:24:23,753 - Yes. - Well, I feel like 675 00:24:23,837 --> 00:24:25,255 she's loving me conditionally. - No, no, no. 676 00:24:25,338 --> 00:24:26,381 You can't compare that. 677 00:24:26,464 --> 00:24:27,883 Your love is your love with her 678 00:24:27,966 --> 00:24:29,384 and her love with her partner 679 00:24:29,467 --> 00:24:30,552 is her love with her partner. 680 00:24:30,635 --> 00:24:31,636 You know what I'm saying? 681 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:32,679 End of the day, 682 00:24:32,762 --> 00:24:34,598 our moms are badass bitches, 683 00:24:34,681 --> 00:24:35,891 and they love us. 684 00:24:35,974 --> 00:24:37,893 - Did your mom put Wash in his place? 685 00:24:37,976 --> 00:24:39,186 - Mom flat out told him. 686 00:24:39,269 --> 00:24:42,022 She was like, I am not your friend. 687 00:24:42,105 --> 00:24:44,566 I am your mother, and go put on some clothes. 688 00:24:44,649 --> 00:24:45,775 - Exactly. 689 00:24:45,859 --> 00:24:48,069 There's Binh Ho, but then there's Van Do. 690 00:24:48,153 --> 00:24:49,404 - There's Van Do. - [laughs] 691 00:24:49,487 --> 00:24:50,989 - There's two kingdoms right now. 692 00:24:51,072 --> 00:24:53,366 Van Do does not go with whatever Binh Ho says. 693 00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:54,826 - That's what we were telling you. 694 00:24:54,910 --> 00:24:56,328 - Someone needs to put him in his place, 695 00:24:56,411 --> 00:24:58,914 and it can't be any of us. - Exactly. 696 00:24:58,997 --> 00:25:00,248 - Yes! - Cheers. 697 00:25:00,332 --> 00:25:01,666 Cheers to what? To what? 698 00:25:01,750 --> 00:25:04,085 - Lot of work ahead with the baby. 699 00:25:04,169 --> 00:25:05,545 - Yeah. 700 00:25:05,629 --> 00:25:07,380 - We're not ready for one, but we're ready for two. 701 00:25:07,464 --> 00:25:09,299 - Are you really serious about this? 702 00:25:09,382 --> 00:25:10,467 Tam. 703 00:25:10,550 --> 00:25:12,677 - Why are you crying? It's okay. 704 00:25:12,761 --> 00:25:14,095 - I want you to be happy. 705 00:25:14,179 --> 00:25:15,597 Tran, I love you. Like, you know, 706 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:16,973 I don't know you very well. 707 00:25:17,057 --> 00:25:19,559 I love the fact that you make her happy 708 00:25:19,643 --> 00:25:22,854 and whatnot, but do you love my sister? 709 00:25:23,521 --> 00:25:24,689 - I love her! 710 00:25:24,773 --> 00:25:26,274 - What do you love about her? - What-- 711 00:25:26,358 --> 00:25:28,151 - No. Uh, no. Look at me in the face and tell me. 712 00:25:28,235 --> 00:25:29,611 Look at me in the eyes and tell me. 713 00:25:29,694 --> 00:25:31,112 - It's okay. - Tam-- 714 00:25:31,196 --> 00:25:32,781 - You don't have to put her in the middle. 715 00:25:32,864 --> 00:25:34,783 What do you think is wrong about our relationship? 716 00:25:34,866 --> 00:25:37,285 - Tran, how old are you? 717 00:25:37,369 --> 00:25:38,870 - I'm 29. 718 00:25:38,954 --> 00:25:40,872 - You told us you were 31. 719 00:25:40,956 --> 00:25:42,249 - Why does it matter? 720 00:25:42,332 --> 00:25:44,292 Look, Carlton's younger than you, right? 721 00:25:44,376 --> 00:25:45,919 - Three years younger. - What? 722 00:25:46,002 --> 00:25:47,545 - Okay. See? So it's okay. 723 00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:50,131 - Tam, it's, like, 20 years younger, Tam. 724 00:25:50,215 --> 00:25:51,466 - Why do you care? 725 00:25:51,549 --> 00:25:52,884 I think you're stepping out of line. 726 00:25:52,968 --> 00:25:54,135 Maybe you shouldn't drink this. 727 00:25:54,219 --> 00:25:55,512 - Oh, I'm not even--okay. 728 00:25:55,595 --> 00:25:56,930 - Maybe you shouldn't drink this. 729 00:25:57,013 --> 00:25:59,349 - Tam, seriously. - You know what? 730 00:25:59,432 --> 00:26:02,143 I live according to what I want and what I do, 731 00:26:02,227 --> 00:26:03,603 and it doesn't really matter. - No, you-- 732 00:26:03,687 --> 00:26:05,981 you're rebounding, and I feel like Tran 733 00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:09,067 is not telling you the whole truth about a lot of shit, 734 00:26:09,150 --> 00:26:11,027 and you just overlook that shit. 735 00:26:11,111 --> 00:26:14,823 Like, she told us she's 31 and she's really 28. 736 00:26:14,906 --> 00:26:16,408 Did you know that? 737 00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:18,034 - Yeah. It doesn't matter, okay? 738 00:26:18,118 --> 00:26:20,078 This is my life. This is my decision. 739 00:26:20,161 --> 00:26:21,413 - But you're not thinking straight, Tam. 740 00:26:21,496 --> 00:26:22,831 - It doesn't matter if you think 741 00:26:22,914 --> 00:26:23,915 I'm not thinking straight. 742 00:26:23,999 --> 00:26:25,375 - Okay, let's go cheers. 743 00:26:25,458 --> 00:26:27,002 - I'm happy I'm with Tran, and that's it. 744 00:26:27,085 --> 00:26:28,336 - You're happy at the moment. - Cheers. Cheers. 745 00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:29,504 - At the moment. At the moment. 746 00:26:29,587 --> 00:26:30,672 - Cheers for Nate and Judy. 747 00:26:30,755 --> 00:26:32,173 - And that's all that matters. 748 00:26:32,257 --> 00:26:34,301 Look, Carlton--Carlton-- Carlton's calling you. 749 00:26:34,384 --> 00:26:36,011 You need to go back to your table. 750 00:26:36,094 --> 00:26:38,138 Just take that and be happy. 751 00:26:38,221 --> 00:26:39,556 Okay? Okay. Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. 752 00:26:39,639 --> 00:26:40,890 I'll take it. This is the first time 753 00:26:40,974 --> 00:26:42,726 I'm ever gonna take a shot. Go. 754 00:26:43,810 --> 00:26:46,896 [all exclaim] 755 00:26:48,023 --> 00:26:49,524 - So I hear screaming, 756 00:26:49,607 --> 00:26:51,901 and I'm thinking all my fans 757 00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:54,070 are coming for King of da Ho. 758 00:26:54,154 --> 00:26:55,363 - Hello, my son. 759 00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:57,949 - Reagan! 760 00:26:58,033 --> 00:27:01,328 [squealing] 761 00:27:01,411 --> 00:27:03,955 - Man, I didn't know you were here. 762 00:27:04,706 --> 00:27:06,416 - I'm like, the f-- 763 00:27:06,499 --> 00:27:07,876 it's just Reagan Ho. 764 00:27:07,959 --> 00:27:10,378 - Oh, look how excited she is. 765 00:27:10,462 --> 00:27:12,589 - I just got in and I came to see you. 766 00:27:12,672 --> 00:27:13,882 - Are you happy? 767 00:27:13,965 --> 00:27:15,425 That's my surprise for you. 768 00:27:15,508 --> 00:27:18,053 My mom, she was so happy to see Reagan. 769 00:27:18,136 --> 00:27:20,013 He doesn't come back often, so when he does, 770 00:27:20,096 --> 00:27:22,515 my mom really just appreciates 771 00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:24,851 having all three of her kids in one room. 772 00:27:24,934 --> 00:27:26,478 Mom and Dad look happy. 773 00:27:26,561 --> 00:27:28,438 - They're super happy. See? 774 00:27:28,521 --> 00:27:30,398 That makes our other surprise like nothing. 775 00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:31,900 [both laugh] 776 00:27:31,983 --> 00:27:33,818 Like, look! We already did one good thing. 777 00:27:33,902 --> 00:27:35,070 - Oh, you're mad? 778 00:27:35,153 --> 00:27:36,404 Oh, Reagan's here! Reagan's here! 779 00:27:36,488 --> 00:27:37,739 - Remember Reagan? 780 00:27:37,822 --> 00:27:38,782 - Ladies. 781 00:27:38,865 --> 00:27:40,367 Can I get everyone's attention? 782 00:27:40,450 --> 00:27:41,493 Mom. - Mom! 783 00:27:41,576 --> 00:27:42,827 - Dad... 784 00:27:42,911 --> 00:27:44,120 - Is he getting married? 785 00:27:44,204 --> 00:27:45,205 - I need everybody's attention. 786 00:27:45,288 --> 00:27:46,581 - Oh, my gosh. 787 00:27:46,664 --> 00:27:49,626 - I got invited here tonight by my sister. 788 00:27:49,709 --> 00:27:51,086 - I knew it would make Mom happy. 789 00:27:51,169 --> 00:27:52,712 - Yes. - [laughs] 790 00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:55,590 - But really, I just wanna introduce somebody tonight, 791 00:27:55,673 --> 00:27:58,051 which is Nate. - We know Nate. 792 00:27:58,134 --> 00:27:59,636 - You know, thanks for coming, but we have, like, 793 00:27:59,719 --> 00:28:01,930 just one more surprise. Let's head up there, 794 00:28:02,013 --> 00:28:03,306 and we'll give you our surprise. 795 00:28:03,390 --> 00:28:05,183 - Hey, wait. Repeat. What's happening? 796 00:28:05,266 --> 00:28:07,560 - Wait, where are we going? - I don't know. 797 00:28:07,644 --> 00:28:09,521 - So we appreciate you guys coming here tonight. 798 00:28:09,604 --> 00:28:11,314 You know, Judy's pregnant. 799 00:28:11,398 --> 00:28:12,440 I don't know if you guys know. 800 00:28:12,524 --> 00:28:13,608 - We know that. We can tell. 801 00:28:13,691 --> 00:28:15,026 - We know. - We know that. 802 00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:18,780 - In a few months, we're gonna have a baby. 803 00:28:18,863 --> 00:28:21,199 So we have another surprise for you guys, 804 00:28:21,282 --> 00:28:23,284 and we wanted to invite everybody here 805 00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:25,954 because we wanted to do this with you guys here-- 806 00:28:26,037 --> 00:28:27,497 the people that we love the most. 807 00:28:27,580 --> 00:28:29,124 - Because we love you, 808 00:28:29,207 --> 00:28:31,334 because you support us and you have been there for us, 809 00:28:31,418 --> 00:28:32,627 once this baby arrives, 810 00:28:32,710 --> 00:28:35,004 we want to be officially husband and wife, 811 00:28:35,088 --> 00:28:38,133 and today is our surprise elopement. 812 00:28:38,216 --> 00:28:41,052 [laughs] [cheers and applause] 813 00:28:41,970 --> 00:28:43,555 - After lots of discussion 814 00:28:43,638 --> 00:28:46,307 and discussing whether or not we're gonna elope, 815 00:28:46,391 --> 00:28:49,686 we finally made the decision that we will have a small party 816 00:28:49,769 --> 00:28:51,938 with just very close friends. 817 00:28:52,021 --> 00:28:53,815 - So we have a special friend here. 818 00:28:53,898 --> 00:28:55,859 - Whoo! - Good evening. 819 00:28:55,942 --> 00:28:57,318 - Let me walk you up. 820 00:28:57,402 --> 00:28:59,028 - I do want my family there, 821 00:28:59,112 --> 00:29:01,072 'cause they have been a part of our journey 822 00:29:01,156 --> 00:29:02,699 and been very supportive of us. 823 00:29:02,782 --> 00:29:03,908 Thank you! - These are for you. 824 00:29:03,992 --> 00:29:05,326 - Thank you for coming! 825 00:29:05,410 --> 00:29:07,454 - I have a small one here too. - Oh, okay. 826 00:29:07,537 --> 00:29:08,997 - Whoo! 827 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,999 [cheers and applause] 828 00:29:11,082 --> 00:29:12,834 - Congratulations. 829 00:29:12,917 --> 00:29:14,252 [soft dramatic music] 830 00:29:14,335 --> 00:29:16,004 - We're gathered together to celebrate 831 00:29:16,087 --> 00:29:19,132 the rites of matrimony between Nate and Judy. 832 00:29:19,215 --> 00:29:20,717 ♪ ♪ 833 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,053 - ♪ In the fire and in the storm ♪ 834 00:29:24,137 --> 00:29:27,265 ♪ I will be there where you are ♪ 835 00:29:27,348 --> 00:29:29,184 - Do you, Nate, wish to go forward 836 00:29:29,267 --> 00:29:31,644 to pledge your love to Judy in marriage? 837 00:29:31,728 --> 00:29:32,770 - Yes. 838 00:29:32,854 --> 00:29:34,481 ♪ ♪ 839 00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:37,192 - ♪ And when the tide comes to pull you down ♪ 840 00:29:37,275 --> 00:29:39,569 - Cheers. - ♪ I'll be the anchor ♪ 841 00:29:39,652 --> 00:29:41,404 ♪ To hold you now ♪ 842 00:29:41,488 --> 00:29:43,406 - Do you, Judy, wish to go forward 843 00:29:43,490 --> 00:29:46,159 and pledge your love to Nate in marriage? 844 00:29:46,242 --> 00:29:47,202 - I do. 845 00:29:47,285 --> 00:29:49,412 - Nate, will you have Judy 846 00:29:49,496 --> 00:29:51,539 to be your lawfully wedded wife? 847 00:29:51,623 --> 00:29:53,291 - I do. 848 00:29:53,374 --> 00:29:57,295 - ♪ I will rescue you ♪ 849 00:29:57,378 --> 00:29:59,214 ♪ When the storms come ♪ 850 00:29:59,297 --> 00:30:01,216 - This little one is definitely growing. 851 00:30:01,299 --> 00:30:03,092 - ♪ I will rescue you ♪ 852 00:30:03,176 --> 00:30:04,677 ♪ ♪ 853 00:30:04,761 --> 00:30:07,722 - Will you have Nate to be your lawful wedded husband? 854 00:30:07,805 --> 00:30:09,265 - I certainly do. 855 00:30:09,349 --> 00:30:11,059 - Of course. 856 00:30:11,142 --> 00:30:14,979 - ♪ When there's nowhere you can run ♪ 857 00:30:15,063 --> 00:30:16,898 ♪ When you can't move ♪ 858 00:30:16,981 --> 00:30:20,026 - By the authority vested in me by the State of Texas, 859 00:30:20,109 --> 00:30:22,987 I now pronounce you husband and wife. 860 00:30:23,071 --> 00:30:25,907 [cheers and applause] 861 00:30:25,990 --> 00:30:28,910 - ♪ When the storms come ♪ 862 00:30:28,993 --> 00:30:30,703 - Officially family! 863 00:30:30,787 --> 00:30:32,413 - Whoo! 864 00:30:32,497 --> 00:30:33,706 - Congrats. - Thank you. 865 00:30:33,790 --> 00:30:35,667 - ♪ When the waves come ♪ 866 00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:37,001 ♪ ♪ 867 00:30:37,085 --> 00:30:38,753 - What did you think, Dad? 868 00:30:38,836 --> 00:30:40,964 - Surprise me, but happy surprise. 869 00:30:41,047 --> 00:30:42,549 - Oh! - Oh! 870 00:30:42,632 --> 00:30:43,883 - Yeah. 871 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,426 - And we've decided that we are 872 00:30:45,510 --> 00:30:47,595 going to take my dad up on his offer, 873 00:30:47,679 --> 00:30:49,472 especially with the baby coming. 874 00:30:49,556 --> 00:30:51,766 It really is nice to be close to our family, 875 00:30:51,849 --> 00:30:54,102 and I just feel like there's so much going on... 876 00:30:54,185 --> 00:30:55,728 - Mm-hmm. - In our personal lives 877 00:30:55,812 --> 00:30:57,981 that maybe in the next few years we'll stay put, 878 00:30:58,064 --> 00:31:00,191 and after that, once things are more settled, 879 00:31:00,275 --> 00:31:01,943 then we'll decide where we'll move. 880 00:31:02,026 --> 00:31:04,571 - So in summary, your dad gave us a house, 881 00:31:04,654 --> 00:31:06,030 and we decided to stay. 882 00:31:06,114 --> 00:31:07,282 [both laugh] 883 00:31:07,365 --> 00:31:09,367 - Who's ready? - Who's ready? 884 00:31:09,450 --> 00:31:10,994 - Get in the middle. - No, I'm okay. 885 00:31:11,077 --> 00:31:12,620 - No. No. You can't catch it if you're-- 886 00:31:12,704 --> 00:31:14,956 - No, no, no, no. - Who wants to catch this? 887 00:31:17,125 --> 00:31:19,752 Who doesn't want to? Kim! 888 00:31:19,836 --> 00:31:20,962 Put your hand down. - Why? 889 00:31:21,045 --> 00:31:22,505 - Bella, make your dad proud. 890 00:31:22,589 --> 00:31:23,673 Catch it. - Why? 891 00:31:23,756 --> 00:31:25,425 - I'm not trying to catch it! 892 00:31:26,759 --> 00:31:28,136 - All right, throw it. 893 00:31:28,219 --> 00:31:29,470 - Throw it! - Okay. 894 00:31:29,554 --> 00:31:31,264 - Get closer! 895 00:31:31,347 --> 00:31:32,640 - Ready? 896 00:31:32,724 --> 00:31:35,518 [screaming] 897 00:31:35,602 --> 00:31:37,478 - Oh, shit. - What have you done? 898 00:31:37,562 --> 00:31:39,439 - None of the girls want to catch the bouquet. 899 00:31:39,522 --> 00:31:41,899 If you don't want it, why are you standing here? 900 00:31:41,983 --> 00:31:42,984 - Whoo! 901 00:31:43,067 --> 00:31:44,694 - Kim doesn't wanna catch it. 902 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,615 - You have good energy, though. 903 00:31:48,698 --> 00:31:50,992 - You do. I love you guys' relationship. 904 00:31:51,075 --> 00:31:53,077 - Yeah. - You guys are so sweet. 905 00:31:53,161 --> 00:31:55,246 - Being honest now, the number one reason 906 00:31:55,330 --> 00:31:57,498 why people get divorced is because in general 907 00:31:57,582 --> 00:31:59,500 people aren't willing to work for it. 908 00:31:59,584 --> 00:32:01,502 - Yeah. - You know, so a marriage is... 909 00:32:01,586 --> 00:32:03,087 it's a lot of work. 910 00:32:03,171 --> 00:32:07,175 - We've gone so far, and to give up now 911 00:32:07,258 --> 00:32:09,510 would just be, uh... 912 00:32:09,594 --> 00:32:11,679 a weak move, and I don't give up, 913 00:32:11,763 --> 00:32:16,643 and especially not on somebody that loves me... 914 00:32:16,726 --> 00:32:18,770 has been patient with me, 915 00:32:18,853 --> 00:32:20,188 is the mother of my kids. 916 00:32:20,271 --> 00:32:21,773 - And I know she loves you. 917 00:32:21,856 --> 00:32:23,066 - No, I do love him, you know? 918 00:32:23,149 --> 00:32:25,860 And I--I would marry him again. 919 00:32:25,943 --> 00:32:28,112 And it's like, I feel like everyone 920 00:32:28,196 --> 00:32:29,697 gives up so easily, you know? 921 00:32:29,781 --> 00:32:33,034 And the amount of effort that we put into our marriage, 922 00:32:33,117 --> 00:32:36,454 I truly believe that what we get out of it 923 00:32:36,537 --> 00:32:38,206 is gonna be even greater. 924 00:32:38,289 --> 00:32:42,043 You know, we're not where we wanna be 925 00:32:42,126 --> 00:32:43,836 at this age and at this point in our life, 926 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,131 but I have faith in God and in him 927 00:32:47,215 --> 00:32:48,508 and it grows every day. 928 00:32:48,591 --> 00:32:52,345 I know that we were meant to be together. 929 00:32:52,428 --> 00:32:56,182 - My marriage is in a stage of growth. 930 00:32:56,265 --> 00:32:58,976 I don't think it's a normal marriage. 931 00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:03,231 Most people are, like... way more established 932 00:33:03,314 --> 00:33:05,608 after being married for this long, 933 00:33:05,692 --> 00:33:07,735 and we're still trying to figure it out. 934 00:33:07,819 --> 00:33:12,907 I'm just thankful that I have a really patient wife. 935 00:33:14,117 --> 00:33:15,827 - Oh, kiss now. [laughter] 936 00:33:15,910 --> 00:33:18,079 - But do you really feel that way? 937 00:33:18,162 --> 00:33:19,330 - I do. 938 00:33:19,414 --> 00:33:21,082 - She's like, unfortunately, yes. 939 00:33:21,165 --> 00:33:22,875 [both laugh] 940 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,044 - Hi, Mom. Hi, Dad. 941 00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:27,004 both: Hi, con. 942 00:33:27,088 --> 00:33:28,297 I just wanna thank bo me 943 00:33:28,381 --> 00:33:30,174 for coming and being here 944 00:33:30,258 --> 00:33:33,761 with con and I really, really needed it. 945 00:33:33,845 --> 00:33:35,638 And, you know, [speaking Vietnamese] 946 00:33:35,722 --> 00:33:37,390 you know, we talked a lot, you know? 947 00:33:37,473 --> 00:33:40,059 And even though it's hard right now, 948 00:33:40,143 --> 00:33:42,854 and, you know, sometimes I forget 949 00:33:42,937 --> 00:33:44,939 what's real, what's not real... 950 00:33:48,276 --> 00:33:50,278 You know, his cousins, his sisters, you know? 951 00:33:50,361 --> 00:33:52,196 So, it's so nice to have [speaking Vietnamese] 952 00:33:52,697 --> 00:33:55,032 like, you know, that I can hear and-- 953 00:33:55,116 --> 00:33:57,118 [sniffles] Remember. 954 00:33:57,201 --> 00:33:59,287 When I got married to Washington, 955 00:33:59,370 --> 00:34:02,498 I just thought this was my happily ever after, 956 00:34:02,582 --> 00:34:03,958 and it was nothing like that. 957 00:34:04,041 --> 00:34:05,126 [sentimental music] 958 00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:06,502 - You're all right. - I know. 959 00:34:06,586 --> 00:34:08,421 I'm not crying. I'm not crying. 960 00:34:08,504 --> 00:34:10,798 I understand marriage is a two-way street. 961 00:34:10,882 --> 00:34:12,425 I will compromise, 962 00:34:12,508 --> 00:34:14,969 but there are certain things that are just dealbreakers 963 00:34:15,052 --> 00:34:16,888 and for the sake of me and my kids, 964 00:34:16,971 --> 00:34:19,682 I will never accept. 965 00:34:19,766 --> 00:34:22,477 And having that voice 966 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,480 and not being afraid to actually voice it out 967 00:34:25,563 --> 00:34:27,398 I think has made all the difference. 968 00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:29,650 - I love you. - I love you. 969 00:34:29,734 --> 00:34:31,652 - I will be here for you. - I know. 970 00:34:31,736 --> 00:34:33,029 I love you. 971 00:34:33,112 --> 00:34:34,238 Love you, Daddy. 972 00:34:34,322 --> 00:34:35,823 I know. - I love you. 973 00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,576 - Congratulations! 974 00:34:38,659 --> 00:34:40,328 - Guys, thanks for coming. 975 00:34:40,411 --> 00:34:42,997 You know, we did this 'cause we wanted you guys 976 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,332 to be here with us, 977 00:34:44,415 --> 00:34:46,000 and we wanna be with people we love. 978 00:34:46,083 --> 00:34:47,168 - Yes. - Right? 979 00:34:47,251 --> 00:34:48,753 And you guys are it. 980 00:34:48,836 --> 00:34:51,130 - My dad, he seems really on top of the world. 981 00:34:51,214 --> 00:34:54,675 Everything's working out according to his master plan. 982 00:34:54,759 --> 00:34:58,930 All his kids are back home and back on the right path. 983 00:34:59,013 --> 00:35:00,556 Well played. Checkmate. 984 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,642 [laughs] 985 00:35:02,725 --> 00:35:03,851 Damn. 986 00:35:03,935 --> 00:35:05,269 Every time. 987 00:35:05,353 --> 00:35:06,771 [laughs] 988 00:35:06,854 --> 00:35:08,272 - Thanks for coming. 989 00:35:08,356 --> 00:35:09,524 Thanks for enjoying the night with us. 990 00:35:09,607 --> 00:35:11,150 - Congrats. - Yay! 991 00:35:11,234 --> 00:35:12,276 - To family. 992 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,362 - Yay! - I love my family! 993 00:35:14,445 --> 00:35:15,530 - Whoo! 994 00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:19,200 - Cheers! - Cheers! 995 00:35:19,283 --> 00:35:20,952 Have a drink. - Congratulations. 996 00:35:21,035 --> 00:35:23,371 Oh, wait, that was me. - Wasn't me. 997 00:35:23,454 --> 00:35:30,545 ♪ ♪ 998 00:35:33,339 --> 00:35:35,466 - ♪ I love you ♪ 999 00:35:37,468 --> 00:35:38,886 - ♪ I will lift you ♪ 1000 00:35:38,970 --> 00:35:43,099 ♪ Oh oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪ 1001 00:35:43,182 --> 00:35:45,351 ♪ I will lift you up ♪ 1002 00:35:45,434 --> 00:35:48,646 - Let make some money so we can go make my party. 1003 00:35:48,729 --> 00:35:50,398 [cork pops] - Oh, shit! 1004 00:35:50,481 --> 00:35:51,399 - [laughs] 1005 00:35:51,482 --> 00:35:52,608 - Cheers. - Cheers! 1006 00:35:52,692 --> 00:35:53,943 - Tilt your head a little this way. 1007 00:35:54,026 --> 00:35:55,069 - You look good. 1008 00:35:55,152 --> 00:35:56,487 - So what do you think about it? 1009 00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:58,281 - You're very active. Just like you. 1010 00:35:58,364 --> 00:36:01,033 - How about we go to a new restaurant? 1011 00:36:01,117 --> 00:36:04,036 - Or we go and buy something that we can cook at home. 1012 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,830 - Hey, let's dress Ho-ish. 1013 00:36:05,913 --> 00:36:07,415 Ho-chic. - Ho-chic. 1014 00:36:07,498 --> 00:36:10,042 - ♪ When the fire's ♪ 1015 00:36:10,126 --> 00:36:12,420 ♪ Raging near ♪ 1016 00:36:12,503 --> 00:36:13,921 - Oh, my gosh. 1017 00:36:14,005 --> 00:36:16,173 - You know what? That's a little bit small. 1018 00:36:16,257 --> 00:36:18,509 - You know I don't hug. 1019 00:36:18,593 --> 00:36:20,428 - Are you ready for that? 1020 00:36:20,511 --> 00:36:22,847 - ♪ I will lift you up ♪ 1021 00:36:22,930 --> 00:36:25,600 ♪ No, you're not on your own ♪ 1022 00:36:25,683 --> 00:36:27,560 ♪ I will be the light ♪ 1023 00:36:27,643 --> 00:36:29,562 - I took Zumba. 1024 00:36:29,645 --> 00:36:30,521 - Zumba? 1025 00:36:30,605 --> 00:36:31,522 - With a bunch 1026 00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:33,107 of really old ladies. 1027 00:36:33,190 --> 00:36:34,108 - [laughs] 1028 00:36:34,192 --> 00:36:36,944 ♪ ♪ 1029 00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:39,614 [baby crying] - Congratulations, Dad. 1030 00:36:39,697 --> 00:36:41,282 - I am just so grateful. 1031 00:36:41,365 --> 00:36:43,576 Nate and I have a baby together. 1032 00:36:43,659 --> 00:36:46,287 - Having Grant here just lets me know 1033 00:36:46,370 --> 00:36:48,956 that we can move forward from something, 1034 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:50,541 and yet he will always 1035 00:36:50,625 --> 00:36:52,293 be there to remind me that 1036 00:36:52,376 --> 00:36:54,003 my other kids are happy too. 1037 00:36:54,086 --> 00:36:57,006 - ♪ I will lift you up ♪ 1038 00:36:57,089 --> 00:36:59,342 ♪ ♪ 1039 00:36:59,425 --> 00:37:02,386 [upbeat pop music] 1040 00:37:02,470 --> 00:37:09,560 ♪ ♪