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[Paper Kings'
"Look At Me Now"]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Can't nobody
hold me down ♪
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♪ I'm steady walkin' like ♪
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♪ I got three commas
in my bank account ♪
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♪ Livin' loud,
so get your cameras out ♪
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♪ I'd probably do
the same thing if I was you ♪
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♪ Lookin' at me now, now ♪
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♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh,
oh-oh, oh-oh ♪
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♪ Mm, put up your lights ♪
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♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪
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♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh,
oh-oh, oh-oh ♪
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♪ Don't ever put 'em
down, down, down ♪
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♪ Look at me now ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- Wow.
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This is amazing.
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- Hello. Welcome
to Space Center Houston.
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Mr. Ho, such an honor
to meet you.
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- Glad to meet you.
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- My father-in-law loves,
loves, loves Roosevelt.
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That is his...
[speaks Vietnamese]
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That is the one that's
gonna carry on the Ho name.
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- Happy birthday.
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- And when Roosevelt says
he wants to be
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an astronaut when he grows up,
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Binh Ho will shut down
a space center
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to have Roosevelt's
birthday party there.
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- You're gonna get
to touch a piece of the Moon
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from Apollo 17,
and maybe we'll have Roosevelt
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do that first
since it's his birthday.
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Well, come on in.
Let's get the party started.
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- ♪ Ready, set, let's go ♪
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♪ It's gonna be a show ♪
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♪ Don't act like
you don't know ♪
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- Since when that he like
to be an astronaut?
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- Every year is different.
- Every year change?
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- Yeah.
- One, two, three.
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- He's like his daddy--you
know, like, different projects.
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His dad's the same way.
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- Roosevelt, look at this car.
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Wow. That's "E.T.".
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My favorite movie.
Take a photo with Dada.
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- Roosevelt grows up,
he's so similar to Wash
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that there's things
in his quirkiness,
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in his humor that I see now
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that I absolutely love
and will nourish.
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- You gonna go to the park?
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- But there are things that
Wash and I deal with daily
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that I don't want
for Roosevelt.
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So we just encourage it--
for both of them, you know?
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Like, whatever makes you happy.
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- But don't spoil him
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like Washington mom spoil
Washington.
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- No. No.
I'm not going to spoil him.
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Last thing I want to do is
for history to repeat itself.
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Roosevelt's future wife
will thank me later.
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- Ask Grandpa
if he's gonna buy that for you.
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- Better buy this one.
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- Oh, he's gonna
buy that for you.
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[laughs]
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I know my parents
love my kids.
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It's just Roosevelt's
extremely loved.
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[chuckles]
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Tell Grandpa what you got
in your report card.
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- An A.
- Tell Grandpa.
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- I got an A on my report card.
- Hmm?
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- I got an A-plus
on my report card.
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- Really? Good.
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Straight A? Great.
- Yeah.
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- I don't try to play
favorites, like, so openly.
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Like, I don't put the same
expectations on my kids.
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I just want my kids to be happy
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and secure
in their love for me.
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I don't want them to feel like
they have to work for it.
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Do you know what Grandpa
used to do
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when I didn't
get straight A's?
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- Yeah.
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- But if you don't
get straight A,
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you know what she got?
[speaks Vietnamese]
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[chuckles]
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- You know what
[speaks Vietnamese] is?
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- A chopstick.
- Yeah.
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Yeah. You think I wanted
[speaks Vietnamese]?
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It's hard for my parents
to own up to their faults.
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When they raised us, they had
just come to a new country,
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and they barely spoke English,
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so the top of their mind
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was not how to raise
happy children.
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- You know, when your mom
didn't get straight A's,
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she got [speaks Vietnamese],
you know what she do?
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- She cried.
- She run and eat banana.
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[chuckles]
- She eat bananas?
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- And cry.
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- My dad realizes
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that what he thought
was right back then
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in how he raised us
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was all that he knew
at the time,
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and he thought that was
how punishment should be.
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When I look back, I just can't
believe I lived through that
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and it just taught me
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that this is not how I'm gonna
raise my own children.
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Why don't you ask
what your uncles got?
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- F.
- [laughs]
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- Hi.
- Hi, guys.
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- Hello. Hello.
- Hey. How are you?
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- Good to see you.
- Good to see you, too.
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- Long time, no see.
- All right, you guys
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can go off and play
with the other kids now.
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- How have you been?
- Okay.
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Didn't see you long time.
- Yeah.
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- You okay?
- Yes. How about you?
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- I great.
- Yeah.
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Binh Ho is upset with me.
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That's not good, 'cause,
lately, in the last few months,
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there have been
several occasions and events
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and things like that,
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and I haven't been
showing up for stuff.
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Like, I wasn't,
like, feeling it, period.
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And Binh being old-school
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and having these traditions
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ingrained in his life...
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he takes them very seriously.
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- You guys want me to leave?
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You guys can have
a private conversation?
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- If that's okay.
- Okay.
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- Okay.
- Good luck.
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- You have a good time today?
- Yeah.
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- Hmm.
- Are you mad at me?
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- Mad at you?
- Yeah.
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- Why?
- Because--
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- Why am I mad at you?
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[dramatic music]
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- Because I haven't been...
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present.
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- Present where?
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- Physically, mentally,
and especially
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at...
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my mom's anniversary.
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- How many time do you come
to visit your mom
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after she passed away?
- Once.
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- Once.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Over a year later.
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- The one-year anniversary,
yeah.
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- You think that right
or not right?
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♪ ♪
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- I think that
it's not right or wrong.
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I think if--if--
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it could be wrong
if I didn't care.
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- So you think if you care,
there's nothing wrong.
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How you can show me
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or show other people
you care for your mom?
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- I show--
My mom's in my heart.
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- Oh, your heart.
- She is.
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So your logic that,
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if my mom pass away,
that mean she not there.
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I don't have to see her.
- No, she's still there.
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I still have to prove
so many things in my--
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for me...
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- Mm-hmm.
- With her.
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I wish that
I was better prepared,
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but, you know,
there's no blueprint
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to how you're supposed to be,
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act, feel after your mom dies.
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So I am sorry, like, for--
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I'm sorry
for not being present.
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♪ ♪
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- Hey.
- Hi.
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How are you?
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- Good.
- Good.
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- Just want to make sure
you're okay.
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- I'm okay.
- You're okay?
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- Yeah.
- Okay.
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- I understand, like,
not going,
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you know, to certain things,
but I don't think, like--
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It wasn't bad intentions.
You know what I mean?
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- Yeah. I know your heart's
in the right place.
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- Yeah, and I just--
the way I love my mom, like,
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I think about it all the time.
- Yeah.
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- You know,
and now it's just like,
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"Okay, like,
what would make her happy?"
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Every single day
that's what I think about.
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- I accept that.
You know, you're part right.
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Nobody perfect.
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- You know, my dad
is very different.
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He's very traditional.
- Yeah.
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- And they have their own ideas
about how to grieve,
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and, you know, just being
Nate's partner this past year
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and how he grieves, it's just--
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everybody grieves differently.
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I just think it's very brave
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that you even decided to talk
to my dad--it's not easy.
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It's not easy for me
to talk to him.
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So that's something
that you can be proud of.
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My dad is very good
at icing people out
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and making them feel like
they're on their own
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when they do things
that he doesn't agree with.
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And then everyone else
follows suit.
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- My mom did not like
to see me sad...
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- Mm-hmm.
- Or not on my A game.
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- Well, the only person
who can judge you is God,
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and He knows what's in your
heart and where you stand,
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so that's all that matters.
- Yeah.
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- Well, we're
at a birthday party.
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It's a kids' party.
Can we, like, go to the cake?
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We're gonna miss it.
- So let's go to celebrate.
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all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
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♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
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♪ Happy birthday,
dear Roosevelt ♪
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♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
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[cheers and applause]
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- ♪ Childhood joy land ♪
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♪ Mystic merry toy land ♪
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♪ Once you pass its borders ♪
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♪ You can never return again ♪
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- Here's some more.
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- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
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- There better be money
in there.
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- It better be money.
Oh, my God.
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- It is money!
It is money.
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It's 100, 10 hundred,
20 hundred.
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- Where does your money go?
- In my piggy bank.
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- What are you saving up for?
- Toys.
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- No. What are saving--
- College!
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- College. Good boy.
- Oh, my gosh.
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- Thank you.
- Thank you, Grandpa.
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- Aw.
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- ♪ You are ever happy there ♪
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[soul music]
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♪ ♪
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- Hi! Just in time!
- Hi!
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- So good to see you.
- Hi! Good to see you.
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This is gorgeous.
- Hi. I'm Phuong.
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- Hi. I'm Kim.
both: Nice to meet you.
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- Oh, my God,
this shop is gorgeous.
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- Thank you.
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- Valentine's Day, I would wait
for someone to send me flowers,
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and now that I'm married,
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I wait for Washington
to send me flowers.
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So I started sending
myself flowers, you know?
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I mean, it makes me happy.
I can make myself happy.
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I have 300 bucks.
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I can buy myself
my own flowers.
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I don't have to wait
for any man.
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- Phuong, like,
made this post one day.
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"Like, you know what?
Women, why the heck
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are you waiting for these men
to buy you flowers?"
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- I know.
- It's, like, very empowering,
250
00:10:13,070 --> 00:10:14,488
so I was like, "You know what?
251
00:10:14,572 --> 00:10:16,240
For years I waited for Wash
to send me flowers."
252
00:10:16,324 --> 00:10:18,075
Year after year,
I'm just disappointed,
253
00:10:18,159 --> 00:10:19,827
like, Valentine's Day,
Mother's Day.
254
00:10:19,910 --> 00:10:23,289
So, ever since then,
I buy my own flowers,
255
00:10:23,372 --> 00:10:24,832
and I write my own message.
- Yes!
256
00:10:24,915 --> 00:10:26,500
- As you should, queen.
- Yes!
257
00:10:26,584 --> 00:10:28,127
- I was like, "You know what?
You're fucking badass.
258
00:10:28,210 --> 00:10:29,754
Thank you so much
for being the best mom ever."
259
00:10:29,837 --> 00:10:31,047
- Thank you
for having my children.
260
00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:32,506
- Yeah.
Phuong's just giggling
261
00:10:32,590 --> 00:10:33,924
in the background,
like, writing like,
262
00:10:34,008 --> 00:10:35,468
"You're a badass mom."
- No, I mean,
263
00:10:35,551 --> 00:10:37,595
that's great that you are
telling yourself this.
264
00:10:37,678 --> 00:10:39,180
- Yeah.
265
00:10:39,263 --> 00:10:41,057
- And that you don't have to
need anyone to tell you this.
266
00:10:41,140 --> 00:10:43,184
- Right, so I wanted
to bring Kim here
267
00:10:43,267 --> 00:10:44,810
'cause I wanted
to let her know, like,
268
00:10:44,894 --> 00:10:46,395
"Hey, you're
a badass bitch, too."
269
00:10:46,479 --> 00:10:48,314
Have you ever been
on a blind date before?
270
00:10:48,397 --> 00:10:50,191
- No. I like to be
271
00:10:50,274 --> 00:10:51,734
around people, like,
I'm comfortable with,
272
00:10:51,817 --> 00:10:53,194
so usually I go on a date
with people,
273
00:10:53,277 --> 00:10:54,779
like, I've known
for a while already.
274
00:10:54,862 --> 00:10:56,864
- Well, do you remember
when we went to dinner
275
00:10:56,947 --> 00:10:59,450
and we bumped into
one of Wash's friends, Andrew?
276
00:10:59,533 --> 00:11:01,577
- Uh-huh.
- Andrew has a friend.
277
00:11:01,660 --> 00:11:03,579
His name is Jordan.
278
00:11:03,662 --> 00:11:05,414
I think this guy's perfect.
279
00:11:05,498 --> 00:11:07,166
I'm setting Kim up
on a blind date
280
00:11:07,249 --> 00:11:09,085
because I think
she just needs a shove.
281
00:11:09,168 --> 00:11:11,796
She's in this rut
where she's going back
282
00:11:11,879 --> 00:11:14,215
to the same person
over and over again
283
00:11:14,298 --> 00:11:15,674
because it's comfortable.
284
00:11:15,758 --> 00:11:17,510
I've been in
that situation as well,
285
00:11:17,593 --> 00:11:19,637
and, you know, the best way
to get over a guy
286
00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,222
is to get under a guy.
287
00:11:21,305 --> 00:11:23,933
- How old is this guy?
- Look, don't worry about it.
288
00:11:24,016 --> 00:11:25,434
I've already vetted him out.
289
00:11:25,518 --> 00:11:26,727
He's the right age,
290
00:11:26,811 --> 00:11:29,021
right profession,
but he seems like
291
00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:31,315
really, like, you know,
a good nerdy type guy.
292
00:11:31,399 --> 00:11:32,858
- Wash isn't a nerd.
- I know.
293
00:11:32,942 --> 00:11:34,360
But I'm saying
speaking from experience.
294
00:11:34,443 --> 00:11:36,278
- Ah, ah, ah.
- Nerds are the way to go.
295
00:11:36,362 --> 00:11:39,073
Like, I'm having so much work
to put into mine.
296
00:11:39,156 --> 00:11:42,618
Like, I don't want to see you
have to do what I have to do.
297
00:11:42,701 --> 00:11:46,080
That much effort it takes
to make something work--
298
00:11:46,163 --> 00:11:49,291
- Lesley has taught me
to be more particular
299
00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:51,752
in choosing my relationships,
300
00:11:51,836 --> 00:11:53,671
whether it's with a friend
301
00:11:53,754 --> 00:11:55,756
or with, you know,
a significant other.
302
00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,758
I respect Washington a lot.
303
00:11:57,842 --> 00:11:59,468
He's grown a lot as a person,
304
00:11:59,552 --> 00:12:01,762
but you want to be someone's
wife, not their mother.
305
00:12:01,846 --> 00:12:03,472
- But you'll go on a date?
306
00:12:03,556 --> 00:12:05,683
- I'm on this train of,
like, doing whatever right now.
307
00:12:05,766 --> 00:12:07,309
- Yeah?
- So whatever.
308
00:12:07,393 --> 00:12:10,271
I will, but if I see
a flashing light on his ankles,
309
00:12:10,354 --> 00:12:12,815
I'm done, I'm walking out.
- No. I will tackle him myself.
310
00:12:12,898 --> 00:12:14,400
- Okay, why's that?
311
00:12:14,483 --> 00:12:17,153
- 'Cause when I met Wash,
he had, like, a DUI on him.
312
00:12:17,236 --> 00:12:19,196
- Uh-huh.
- So he had an ankle monitor.
313
00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,573
And you understand,
314
00:12:20,656 --> 00:12:21,949
like, being a good
Vietnamese daughter
315
00:12:22,032 --> 00:12:23,367
from a good
Vietnamese family...
316
00:12:23,451 --> 00:12:24,827
- You don't know any of that.
- Yeah.
317
00:12:24,910 --> 00:12:26,579
So I didn't check his ankles,
obviously.
318
00:12:26,662 --> 00:12:28,289
- He's so slick.
- Yeah.
319
00:12:28,372 --> 00:12:29,957
- She still fell for it.
- Yeah, she did.
320
00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,500
- Like, look
at where we are now, so...
321
00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:33,377
- Well, you know,
after a while, like, you know,
322
00:12:33,461 --> 00:12:36,088
you fall in love, and he's
trying to be a better person.
323
00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:38,132
He's giving up alcohol.
- And he's doing great.
324
00:12:38,215 --> 00:12:40,009
- Yeah, but that's still not
where I want to be,
325
00:12:40,092 --> 00:12:42,470
you know, 'cause we started
from the very, like, bottom.
326
00:12:42,553 --> 00:12:43,971
I'm just exhausted.
327
00:12:44,054 --> 00:12:45,598
You know,
I don't have any more energy
328
00:12:45,681 --> 00:12:49,101
to put into my marriage, so...
- Yeah.
329
00:12:49,185 --> 00:12:51,604
- It's that balance
of, like, making him happy,
330
00:12:51,687 --> 00:12:53,731
but making sure I'm happy
and then--
331
00:12:53,814 --> 00:12:55,524
- And the family is secured.
- And the family secured, yeah.
332
00:12:55,608 --> 00:12:58,360
- You should tell 'em
about his new business venture.
333
00:12:58,444 --> 00:13:00,196
- He wrote a song...
- [chuckles]
334
00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:03,324
- A rap song.
- [laughs]
335
00:13:03,407 --> 00:13:04,825
Of course.
336
00:13:04,909 --> 00:13:06,994
- At this point, it's like,
whatever makes him happy.
337
00:13:07,077 --> 00:13:09,330
So now he's going
after his dreams.
338
00:13:09,413 --> 00:13:10,873
You know, I never had that.
339
00:13:10,956 --> 00:13:13,667
Like, I don't even think I had
the option to pursue
340
00:13:13,751 --> 00:13:15,377
what makes me happy
or what dreams I have.
341
00:13:15,461 --> 00:13:16,545
- But you're still so young.
342
00:13:16,629 --> 00:13:18,088
You don't have to just be a mom
343
00:13:18,172 --> 00:13:20,007
or just be a pharmacist
or anything like that.
344
00:13:20,090 --> 00:13:21,342
You can be a million things.
345
00:13:21,425 --> 00:13:22,843
Women can be anything
they want to be.
346
00:13:22,927 --> 00:13:24,595
- Yeah.
- A boss-ass bitch.
347
00:13:24,678 --> 00:13:25,971
- Yeah.
- I love that.
348
00:13:26,055 --> 00:13:27,473
- ♪ Oh, yeah ♪
349
00:13:27,556 --> 00:13:29,558
- ♪ I feel like
I could rule the world ♪
350
00:13:29,642 --> 00:13:31,810
♪ I know I could be
what I want to ♪
351
00:13:31,894 --> 00:13:33,354
- Wash should just come
right behind me
352
00:13:33,437 --> 00:13:35,189
and go something like this.
- I like that.
353
00:13:35,272 --> 00:13:36,524
- I'm gonna do
a Michael Jackson kick.
354
00:13:36,607 --> 00:13:38,400
I'm gonna be like...
355
00:13:38,484 --> 00:13:40,152
- And grab your nuts
afterwards.
356
00:13:40,236 --> 00:13:41,195
- No.
357
00:13:41,278 --> 00:13:43,697
I know everybody is like,
358
00:13:43,781 --> 00:13:46,534
"Here comes another
one of Washington's ideas.
359
00:13:46,617 --> 00:13:48,536
He's just not gonna
follow through."
360
00:13:48,619 --> 00:13:50,246
But look at me.
361
00:13:50,329 --> 00:13:53,707
I'm ready to make the hottest
music video of the year.
362
00:13:53,791 --> 00:13:55,292
My artist, Joe Black,
363
00:13:55,376 --> 00:13:57,336
is gonna film his portion
in the Bahamas,
364
00:13:57,419 --> 00:13:59,880
and then I'm gonna put it
all together.
365
00:13:59,964 --> 00:14:03,509
I'm putting all my efforts,
all my energy into it.
366
00:14:03,592 --> 00:14:07,054
This is gonna be your first
nine-figure-viewed video.
367
00:14:07,137 --> 00:14:08,973
- No, I got nine figures.
368
00:14:09,056 --> 00:14:10,474
- Oh, you got 100 million?
- Mm-hmm.
369
00:14:10,558 --> 00:14:12,142
- On one video?
- Mm-hmm.
370
00:14:12,226 --> 00:14:13,978
- Oh, we're gonna get ten then.
- Ten.
371
00:14:14,061 --> 00:14:17,898
- I've got Drex Lee,
who currently has over
372
00:14:17,982 --> 00:14:21,735
two billion views on TikTok,
directing this.
373
00:14:21,819 --> 00:14:24,488
[car engine revs]
What's up, my man?
374
00:14:24,572 --> 00:14:26,574
What it do?
Thank you for coming by.
375
00:14:26,657 --> 00:14:28,409
I've got Johnny Dang,
376
00:14:28,492 --> 00:14:30,953
a homegrown Houston talent.
377
00:14:31,036 --> 00:14:33,622
Everybody knows him. Every
artist has worked with him.
378
00:14:33,706 --> 00:14:35,249
King of bling.
- Yeah.
379
00:14:35,332 --> 00:14:38,669
- Show me what you got.
- This flawless game here.
380
00:14:38,752 --> 00:14:42,506
Yes, sir.
Damn, look at this.
381
00:14:42,590 --> 00:14:44,258
- I like this.
382
00:14:44,341 --> 00:14:47,553
And Sammy, my favorite cousin.
383
00:14:47,636 --> 00:14:49,888
- That flawless game.
- What's up?
384
00:14:49,972 --> 00:14:51,265
And then Tammy and Tran.
385
00:14:51,348 --> 00:14:53,934
Ooh, you brought
some sexy cars, ladies.
386
00:14:54,018 --> 00:14:55,352
I love Tammy.
387
00:14:55,436 --> 00:14:58,772
For a female entrepreneur
that's Vietnamese
388
00:14:58,856 --> 00:15:00,482
to have a McLaren...
389
00:15:00,566 --> 00:15:02,443
that's pretty badass.
390
00:15:02,526 --> 00:15:04,987
- I'm a very unconventional
filmmaker, okay?
391
00:15:05,070 --> 00:15:07,615
I shoot everything
with my phone, all right?
392
00:15:07,698 --> 00:15:09,325
So... Which means that
you see me in my video.
393
00:15:09,408 --> 00:15:10,909
I'm jumping around,
everything like that.
394
00:15:10,993 --> 00:15:12,578
So I'm gonna get
really close to you, like this.
395
00:15:12,661 --> 00:15:14,580
I'm gonna go around
and back up and out.
396
00:15:14,663 --> 00:15:16,457
Okay, let's do it.
- I'm ready, baby.
397
00:15:16,540 --> 00:15:18,125
- All right,
let's get the music rollin'.
398
00:15:18,208 --> 00:15:19,585
- ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
399
00:15:19,668 --> 00:15:21,962
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
400
00:15:22,046 --> 00:15:24,048
♪ I don't care
if you ready or not... ♪
401
00:15:24,131 --> 00:15:25,549
- I don't know how much better
your kick can get, but...
402
00:15:25,633 --> 00:15:26,800
- Having to kick all that ice.
403
00:15:26,884 --> 00:15:28,427
- ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
404
00:15:28,510 --> 00:15:31,013
- Getting into creative
and becoming a producer
405
00:15:31,096 --> 00:15:32,973
is long overdue,
406
00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:35,267
because as it's said
by many people--
407
00:15:35,351 --> 00:15:36,602
that he doesn't focus,
408
00:15:36,685 --> 00:15:38,062
and he switches
project to project.
409
00:15:38,145 --> 00:15:39,480
Well, bullshit.
410
00:15:39,563 --> 00:15:41,607
It's because
you're telling him what to do.
411
00:15:41,690 --> 00:15:45,444
I think that he can focus
when he wants to focus.
412
00:15:45,527 --> 00:15:46,612
I'm rooting for him.
413
00:15:46,695 --> 00:15:50,366
- Follow me, okay?
All right.
414
00:15:50,449 --> 00:15:53,827
Let's go.
[laughter]
415
00:15:53,911 --> 00:15:55,329
- Dude,
that's a tough kick, man.
416
00:15:55,412 --> 00:15:56,747
- Hey, thank you, guys.
Thank you, guys.
417
00:15:56,830 --> 00:15:58,499
You guys were fucking
all amazing.
418
00:15:58,582 --> 00:16:00,501
- Thank you.
- Thank you, guys. Thank you.
419
00:16:00,584 --> 00:16:03,170
[upbeat music]
420
00:16:03,253 --> 00:16:04,505
- What about the octopus?
421
00:16:04,588 --> 00:16:06,340
- We're gonna grill it
on the grill.
422
00:16:06,423 --> 00:16:07,800
So I was serious earlier
423
00:16:07,883 --> 00:16:09,760
about, like, I really want
more time at home.
424
00:16:09,843 --> 00:16:12,554
I mean, right now I'm just
working like crazy year round.
425
00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:13,972
I just don't like it.
426
00:16:14,056 --> 00:16:15,599
- I thought the plan was
after the baby,
427
00:16:15,683 --> 00:16:17,184
I go back to work,
I become the breadwinner,
428
00:16:17,267 --> 00:16:19,019
you stay home with the kids.
- I would do that.
429
00:16:19,103 --> 00:16:20,688
- You would do that?
- Yeah.
430
00:16:20,771 --> 00:16:22,398
- You wouldn't feel
less of a man?
431
00:16:22,481 --> 00:16:23,774
- Why would I feel
less of a man?
432
00:16:23,857 --> 00:16:26,610
- [laughs] I don't know.
[pan sizzling]
433
00:16:26,694 --> 00:16:28,570
After Nate's tragedy,
434
00:16:28,654 --> 00:16:31,323
his one regret was that
he had spent more time
435
00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:33,033
with his children
and less time working.
436
00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:36,036
When our baby arrives,
his goal is to work less
437
00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,122
and to spend more time
with the baby.
438
00:16:38,205 --> 00:16:40,040
It'd be hard to do that
in this house, though, right?
439
00:16:40,124 --> 00:16:42,418
I feel like we'd have to...
- Because of your dad?
440
00:16:42,501 --> 00:16:45,045
- Move or...
- Oh, in this house.
441
00:16:45,129 --> 00:16:46,547
- Downsize a little bit.
442
00:16:46,630 --> 00:16:48,882
Would you be opposed to that?
- No.
443
00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:50,926
- What is this
in the toaster oven?
444
00:16:51,009 --> 00:16:52,845
- It's a shrimp.
I was gonna put shrimp on top.
445
00:16:52,928 --> 00:16:55,514
What do you think?
- Hello. Hello. Anybody home?
446
00:16:55,597 --> 00:16:57,307
- Hi, Dad.
- Hey.
447
00:16:57,391 --> 00:16:58,809
- What you doing?
- Cooking.
448
00:16:58,892 --> 00:17:00,561
- We're just cooking.
- [speaks Vietnamese]
449
00:17:00,644 --> 00:17:03,397
You want to eat some?
- Thank you, but I ate already.
450
00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,482
I just walked around,
exercised.
451
00:17:05,566 --> 00:17:07,192
- Well, good.
- And I saw your car.
452
00:17:07,276 --> 00:17:09,945
And so I go home,
picked up some paperwork
453
00:17:10,028 --> 00:17:11,572
and some document
and bring them to you.
454
00:17:11,655 --> 00:17:12,906
- Oh.
455
00:17:12,990 --> 00:17:14,658
- Remember the day
we talk about the house?
456
00:17:14,742 --> 00:17:15,993
- Yes.
457
00:17:16,076 --> 00:17:18,412
- I brought to you
the deed and the title.
458
00:17:18,495 --> 00:17:20,247
That's yours.
459
00:17:21,749 --> 00:17:24,334
- After Binh heard that
we may be moving to London,
460
00:17:24,418 --> 00:17:27,629
he made me an offer
that I couldn't refuse.
461
00:17:27,713 --> 00:17:29,131
- That belong to you.
462
00:17:29,214 --> 00:17:31,008
- He says,
"Hey, we'll give you a house
463
00:17:31,091 --> 00:17:32,593
at a huge discount."
464
00:17:32,676 --> 00:17:34,762
- 'Cause you know his goal
has always been to keep us
465
00:17:34,845 --> 00:17:37,014
as close to him as possible.
466
00:17:41,143 --> 00:17:43,145
We haven't really decided
467
00:17:43,228 --> 00:17:46,064
on what we're gonna do
the house.
468
00:17:46,148 --> 00:17:47,524
- What make you hesitate?
469
00:17:47,608 --> 00:17:50,152
[dramatic music]
470
00:17:50,235 --> 00:17:51,445
- Uh...
471
00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:53,989
- Tell me.
We can work it out.
472
00:17:54,072 --> 00:17:56,950
♪ ♪
473
00:17:57,034 --> 00:18:01,789
- The house--even though
your very generous offer,
474
00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:03,165
it's still...
- Mm-hmm.
475
00:18:03,248 --> 00:18:05,292
- Very expensive to live here,
476
00:18:05,375 --> 00:18:07,628
and, you know, we just want
to be independent
477
00:18:07,711 --> 00:18:09,254
and to do it on our own.
478
00:18:10,798 --> 00:18:13,050
- That's great.
479
00:18:13,133 --> 00:18:16,220
- So I know that you said
that we could sell the house.
480
00:18:16,303 --> 00:18:17,679
- Yes.
- But--
481
00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:20,265
- You can walk out and
tell what you want to do.
482
00:18:20,349 --> 00:18:22,768
- I think you say that,
but if we actually did it,
483
00:18:22,851 --> 00:18:24,645
it would be
a lot more complicated.
484
00:18:24,728 --> 00:18:26,480
- What mean, "complicated"?
485
00:18:26,563 --> 00:18:29,149
- I don't think we could just
list the house and sell it.
486
00:18:29,233 --> 00:18:31,819
- I suggest you better wait
for your baby.
487
00:18:31,902 --> 00:18:33,195
You know...
- Yes.
488
00:18:33,278 --> 00:18:35,322
- It come, and let's see
what's going on.
489
00:18:35,405 --> 00:18:36,824
Up to you, huh?
490
00:18:36,907 --> 00:18:39,409
I think I can give you
491
00:18:39,493 --> 00:18:41,119
a better offer--
how about that?
492
00:18:41,203 --> 00:18:43,330
- I think the offer you gave
is very generous already.
493
00:18:43,413 --> 00:18:45,749
- It's really good, and,
you know, we just want to--
494
00:18:45,833 --> 00:18:50,337
- We appreciate the offer.
We very much do.
495
00:18:50,420 --> 00:18:53,006
- But right now
I know you cost you about--
496
00:18:53,090 --> 00:18:55,509
You know, three kids
to go to private school,
497
00:18:55,592 --> 00:18:58,011
cost you around
100,000 a year, right?
498
00:18:58,095 --> 00:18:59,763
- Mm-hmm.
- Right.
499
00:18:59,847 --> 00:19:03,141
- That--I think
that big money for you...
500
00:19:03,225 --> 00:19:04,393
- Mm-hmm.
- Right.
501
00:19:04,476 --> 00:19:06,144
- Beside the house.
- Right.
502
00:19:06,228 --> 00:19:09,857
- So how about I take that bill
503
00:19:09,940 --> 00:19:11,650
and take care my grandbaby
504
00:19:11,733 --> 00:19:14,027
for school, private school,
and tutor.
505
00:19:14,111 --> 00:19:16,822
So you don't have to pay
for it--I'll pay for it.
506
00:19:16,905 --> 00:19:18,490
You can take care of the house.
507
00:19:18,574 --> 00:19:20,617
- But if we moved to a house
that was less expensive,
508
00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,704
then we could afford
the kids' school and tutor.
509
00:19:23,787 --> 00:19:28,500
- Yes, that's true, but I want
to be close to my grandbaby.
510
00:19:28,584 --> 00:19:30,711
- I would rather you spend
your money freely
511
00:19:30,794 --> 00:19:32,212
and not have to worry about us.
512
00:19:32,296 --> 00:19:35,299
- I got enough of this money
to spend already,
513
00:19:35,382 --> 00:19:36,925
but I prefer you stay here
514
00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:40,846
because I can help you
whatever you need me.
515
00:19:40,929 --> 00:19:42,806
- For me,
it's like "The Godfather"
516
00:19:42,890 --> 00:19:44,433
I'm trying to get out,
517
00:19:44,516 --> 00:19:48,186
but, somehow,
I keep getting pulled back in
518
00:19:48,270 --> 00:19:49,938
every single time.
519
00:19:50,022 --> 00:19:53,984
♪ ♪
520
00:19:54,067 --> 00:19:55,944
- Okay, think it.
Let me know, okay?
521
00:19:56,028 --> 00:19:59,740
Whatever you want.
- We will think about it.
522
00:19:59,823 --> 00:20:02,784
[upbeat hip-hop music]
523
00:20:02,868 --> 00:20:07,247
♪ ♪
524
00:20:07,331 --> 00:20:09,207
- ♪ He keep movin'
like he never gonna stop ♪
525
00:20:09,291 --> 00:20:10,792
♪ Gotta get it poppin'... ♪
- Ooh.
526
00:20:10,876 --> 00:20:14,588
- Oh.
- One, zero.
527
00:20:14,671 --> 00:20:17,591
- ♪ Never gonna stop,
never, never gonna stop ♪
528
00:20:17,674 --> 00:20:19,259
- Oh.
- That was out, girl.
529
00:20:19,343 --> 00:20:20,969
- It was out of bounds!
- It was out.
530
00:20:21,053 --> 00:20:22,596
- I know, but you hit it,
so now it's on--
531
00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:23,972
- Two, zero.
- It's over the net.
532
00:20:24,056 --> 00:20:25,474
- Wait, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa.
533
00:20:25,557 --> 00:20:27,017
Where are these zeros
coming from?
534
00:20:27,100 --> 00:20:29,937
Lesley is 100%
super competitive.
535
00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:32,230
Okay.
- Going down!
536
00:20:32,314 --> 00:20:33,899
- Downtown.
- Out. Out.
537
00:20:33,982 --> 00:20:35,192
- That was an ace,
motherfuckers.
538
00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:36,944
- Ace.
- [laughs]
539
00:20:37,027 --> 00:20:38,278
She was most
definitely cheating.
540
00:20:38,362 --> 00:20:39,821
No one knows the rules.
541
00:20:39,905 --> 00:20:42,199
I don't even know if we were
playing the correct game.
542
00:20:42,282 --> 00:20:43,742
We were just hitting the ball
back and forth.
543
00:20:43,825 --> 00:20:45,494
Did you guys play any sports
growing up?
544
00:20:45,577 --> 00:20:46,828
- No, I didn't.
545
00:20:46,912 --> 00:20:48,956
My mom said it would give me
broad shoulders.
546
00:20:49,039 --> 00:20:51,750
Watch.
- I'm watching.
547
00:20:51,833 --> 00:20:54,127
- Ooh.
[both screaming]
548
00:20:54,211 --> 00:20:57,005
- That was a slice
with a big, fat knife.
549
00:20:57,089 --> 00:20:58,465
- Oh, gosh.
- [laughs]
550
00:20:58,548 --> 00:21:00,926
She just likes to win.
- Hell, yeah, I do.
551
00:21:01,009 --> 00:21:03,470
If I was to rate myself
from one to ten,
552
00:21:03,553 --> 00:21:05,973
I'm 100 when it comes
to my competitiveness.
553
00:21:06,056 --> 00:21:08,308
I hate losing.
I hate the feeling of losing.
554
00:21:08,392 --> 00:21:11,311
I'm not a loser.
I'm a winner.
555
00:21:11,395 --> 00:21:13,188
Yeah.
- [screams]
556
00:21:13,271 --> 00:21:14,815
- Oh. That was out.
- That was out.
557
00:21:14,898 --> 00:21:16,024
- Did you even look?
558
00:21:16,108 --> 00:21:18,402
- I think that's game
and point.
559
00:21:18,485 --> 00:21:21,488
I did not cheat.
I'm a very fair person.
560
00:21:21,571 --> 00:21:22,739
- So that was intense.
561
00:21:22,823 --> 00:21:23,991
- I'm just
a competitive person.
562
00:21:24,074 --> 00:21:25,158
- Really?
- Did you like
563
00:21:25,242 --> 00:21:26,576
the feeling of losing?
- Oh.
564
00:21:26,660 --> 00:21:28,078
- Oh, should we play again?
- Yeah.
565
00:21:28,161 --> 00:21:29,830
- You want to play again?
- You're going down.
566
00:21:29,913 --> 00:21:31,498
- You seemed like you were
trying to get some anger out
567
00:21:31,581 --> 00:21:33,083
or something--
like, so stressed.
568
00:21:33,166 --> 00:21:34,459
- Yeah, Chrissy knows me.
569
00:21:34,543 --> 00:21:36,378
So my mom called.
She's coming into town.
570
00:21:36,461 --> 00:21:37,504
- Yeah.
- She's coming to visit.
571
00:21:37,587 --> 00:21:38,505
- It's great.
- Wow.
572
00:21:38,588 --> 00:21:39,840
- I've been stressed out
573
00:21:39,923 --> 00:21:42,092
because our marriage
is just so hard
574
00:21:42,175 --> 00:21:43,927
and my mom just sees
nothing but bad.
575
00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:47,014
It's like the last time she was
here was at Lincoln's baptism,
576
00:21:47,097 --> 00:21:49,641
and Wash was still drinking
at the time.
577
00:21:49,725 --> 00:21:52,561
He was in his boxers,
smoking in bed,
578
00:21:52,644 --> 00:21:55,105
like, when she came, and she
could smell it down the hall.
579
00:21:55,188 --> 00:21:57,357
And, you know, she's like,
"Does he think I'm stupid?
580
00:21:57,441 --> 00:21:58,692
"Does he think
I don't have a nose?
581
00:21:58,775 --> 00:22:00,193
Like, I know what that is."
582
00:22:00,277 --> 00:22:02,320
And, you know, I'm trying
to make excuses for him.
583
00:22:02,404 --> 00:22:04,364
- Yeah.
- I think you both have evolved
584
00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:06,742
since the last time your mom
was here, I'm sure.
585
00:22:06,825 --> 00:22:09,286
- I mean, you know,
Wash is better.
586
00:22:09,369 --> 00:22:10,704
He's sober now.
587
00:22:10,787 --> 00:22:12,289
I keep telling him,
like, this is probably
588
00:22:12,372 --> 00:22:13,540
the best we've been.
589
00:22:13,623 --> 00:22:14,833
- That's great.
- That's good.
590
00:22:14,916 --> 00:22:16,084
- Yeah.
- But it's not, like,
591
00:22:16,168 --> 00:22:18,628
where I want us to be,
you know?
592
00:22:18,712 --> 00:22:20,047
Like, he lost his job.
593
00:22:20,130 --> 00:22:21,965
He's trying to find himself
in life.
594
00:22:22,049 --> 00:22:24,885
I didn't even tell her that
he's wanting to do music now.
595
00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:28,180
I don't talk to my mom
about marriage problems,
596
00:22:28,263 --> 00:22:30,682
mostly because
her and Washington
597
00:22:30,766 --> 00:22:34,895
didn't start off
with the best relationship.
598
00:22:34,978 --> 00:22:37,522
I feel like they're always
walking on eggshells
599
00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:38,899
with each other,
600
00:22:38,982 --> 00:22:40,525
so I sheltered my mom
from a lot of that,
601
00:22:40,609 --> 00:22:42,819
and I didn't want her
to resent him.
602
00:22:42,903 --> 00:22:44,404
What am I supposed to tell her?
603
00:22:44,488 --> 00:22:46,406
Like, I mean, all of a sudden,
he wants to be a rapper.
604
00:22:46,490 --> 00:22:48,158
- You tell her the truth.
- Tell her the truth.
605
00:22:48,241 --> 00:22:50,077
And, like,
if she has that reaction,
606
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,745
that's the correct reaction.
607
00:22:51,828 --> 00:22:53,914
[dramatic music]
608
00:22:53,997 --> 00:22:55,916
- My mom has always been
supportive of me.
609
00:22:55,999 --> 00:22:58,502
She's always, like,
hoping for the best,
610
00:22:58,585 --> 00:23:02,756
but, you know, she wasn't happy
when I was dating him,
611
00:23:02,839 --> 00:23:04,174
and she just knew--
612
00:23:04,257 --> 00:23:06,676
Like, when I met him,
he was still partying.
613
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,596
She was like, "I don't know
if he's ready to settle down."
614
00:23:09,679 --> 00:23:11,389
Now he wants to do music?
615
00:23:11,473 --> 00:23:13,266
Like, it's inspired
by Kanye West.
616
00:23:13,350 --> 00:23:14,976
- Do you think it's, like,
a good thing or a bad thing?
617
00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:17,813
Because, you know, Kim ended up
divorcing Kanye.
618
00:23:17,896 --> 00:23:20,190
♪ ♪
619
00:23:20,273 --> 00:23:23,026
Like, are you willing
to be with him
620
00:23:23,110 --> 00:23:24,945
knowing that
he might not ever change,
621
00:23:25,028 --> 00:23:27,823
he's gonna be the same
exact way that he is right now?
622
00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:32,661
[soft music]
623
00:23:32,744 --> 00:23:36,957
♪ ♪
624
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,209
- The trees are amazing.
- Yeah.
625
00:23:39,292 --> 00:23:42,254
You know what this would be
a nice setting for?
626
00:23:42,337 --> 00:23:44,589
- A murder mystery. No.
- No?
627
00:23:44,673 --> 00:23:46,633
Like, a low-key
kind of wedding.
628
00:23:46,716 --> 00:23:49,469
I mean, it's either this
or courthouse.
629
00:23:49,553 --> 00:23:51,346
But, remember,
we were talking about eloping
630
00:23:51,429 --> 00:23:53,932
and just kind of doing it
on our own terms?
631
00:23:54,015 --> 00:23:56,268
The day we decide
to get married...
632
00:23:56,351 --> 00:23:58,061
- Uh-huh.
- I just want to make sure
633
00:23:58,145 --> 00:24:01,648
that it's me and you and that
we have the right intentions
634
00:24:01,731 --> 00:24:03,608
and that we're husband
and wife.
635
00:24:03,692 --> 00:24:05,735
- Well, you know,
I'm just worried about...
636
00:24:05,819 --> 00:24:07,821
[sighs]
What our family would think.
637
00:24:07,904 --> 00:24:10,157
- Can they really be mad
if we went to the courthouse
638
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,659
and got a piece of paper
notarized?
639
00:24:12,742 --> 00:24:14,744
- You wouldn't think
they couldn't be mad,
640
00:24:14,828 --> 00:24:16,663
but I've seen them get mad
at weird stuff.
641
00:24:16,746 --> 00:24:18,290
[laughter]
642
00:24:18,373 --> 00:24:21,209
I mean, they get upset at us
moving and living our life.
643
00:24:21,293 --> 00:24:23,128
They get upset for us
getting engaged
644
00:24:23,211 --> 00:24:25,005
without talking, you know?
645
00:24:25,088 --> 00:24:29,467
You're not worried about, like,
what your dad would say?
646
00:24:29,551 --> 00:24:31,928
♪ ♪
647
00:24:32,012 --> 00:24:33,722
- I think
we're already having a baby.
648
00:24:33,805 --> 00:24:35,724
What's getting married
at this point?
649
00:24:35,807 --> 00:24:36,975
[laughs]
650
00:24:37,058 --> 00:24:38,560
Nate, he's such a nice guy.
651
00:24:38,643 --> 00:24:41,605
He doesn't want
to cause any waves.
652
00:24:41,688 --> 00:24:43,523
At the same time,
I think he's forgetting,
653
00:24:43,607 --> 00:24:45,525
you know, everything
that I've been through.
654
00:24:45,609 --> 00:24:48,153
It's very easy to get caught up
in this family
655
00:24:48,236 --> 00:24:50,488
and making sure
everyone else is happy.
656
00:24:50,572 --> 00:24:52,782
- I think the issue
is if we don't tell him.
657
00:24:52,866 --> 00:24:54,492
Like, he likes to know
what's going on.
658
00:24:54,576 --> 00:24:56,745
- Yeah, but then I feel like
if we open it up to him,
659
00:24:56,828 --> 00:24:58,288
that's when he's gonna be like,
660
00:24:58,371 --> 00:25:00,540
"I want this person there
and that person there."
661
00:25:00,624 --> 00:25:03,376
And you know what I mean?
It turns into a whole debacle.
662
00:25:03,460 --> 00:25:06,296
I feel like the last thing
that my dad wants for me
663
00:25:06,379 --> 00:25:07,631
is to be independent.
664
00:25:07,714 --> 00:25:10,383
It is what it is,
and I don't care anymore.
665
00:25:10,467 --> 00:25:11,927
I've evolved.
666
00:25:12,010 --> 00:25:14,054
- So what family members
would you want to have there?
667
00:25:14,137 --> 00:25:15,055
- Reagan.
668
00:25:15,138 --> 00:25:16,890
- Just Reagan?
- Yep.
669
00:25:16,973 --> 00:25:20,101
I just feel the closest to him
amongst my siblings,
670
00:25:20,185 --> 00:25:21,603
'cause I only have two.
- Yeah.
671
00:25:21,686 --> 00:25:23,021
- [laughs]
672
00:25:23,104 --> 00:25:24,731
'Cause I feel like
if Wash was there,
673
00:25:24,814 --> 00:25:27,234
he would turn it into, like,
a speech about himself.
674
00:25:27,317 --> 00:25:30,195
Reagan always comes through
for me when it really counts,
675
00:25:30,278 --> 00:25:32,239
so that means a lot to me.
676
00:25:32,322 --> 00:25:34,741
You know, he doesn't show up
often, but when he does,
677
00:25:34,824 --> 00:25:37,661
it's, you know, because his
heart is in the right place.
678
00:25:37,744 --> 00:25:39,579
- Yeah.
- And I very much
679
00:25:39,663 --> 00:25:41,456
appreciate that about Reagan.
680
00:25:41,539 --> 00:25:43,875
Everything he does
is very sincere.
681
00:25:43,959 --> 00:25:46,670
- Right, and now
I'm his favorite brother,
682
00:25:46,753 --> 00:25:48,964
so that's good.
[laughter]
683
00:25:49,047 --> 00:25:50,340
- As much as it annoys me
684
00:25:50,423 --> 00:25:52,425
that everyone wants to have
an opinion
685
00:25:52,509 --> 00:25:54,261
about what we're doing
with our lives...
686
00:25:54,344 --> 00:25:55,428
- Yeah.
- I don't care.
687
00:25:55,512 --> 00:25:56,972
I'm gonna do whatever I want.
688
00:25:57,055 --> 00:25:59,099
I think I want to move forward
with the elopement.
689
00:25:59,182 --> 00:26:00,600
- Wow.
That's one way to do it.
690
00:26:00,684 --> 00:26:03,061
But that's a lot of pressure.
691
00:26:03,144 --> 00:26:05,146
- [sighs]
692
00:26:05,230 --> 00:26:07,649
[electronic music]
693
00:26:07,732 --> 00:26:10,068
- ♪ Take a breath, let it go ♪
694
00:26:10,151 --> 00:26:14,072
♪ There's a spark inside,
I can feel it ♪
695
00:26:14,155 --> 00:26:15,782
♪ I'm alive, I'm alive ♪
696
00:26:15,865 --> 00:26:17,450
- I heard you're
from San Francisco.
697
00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:19,119
- Yeah.
I'm originally from here.
698
00:26:19,202 --> 00:26:21,538
- Oh, me too.
- Okay.
699
00:26:21,621 --> 00:26:23,790
When did you--
Did you live in the Bay Area?
700
00:26:23,873 --> 00:26:25,292
- I went to Berkeley.
- Okay.
701
00:26:25,375 --> 00:26:27,419
- So I lived in the Bay Area
for a little bit.
702
00:26:27,502 --> 00:26:28,962
- Okay.
703
00:26:29,045 --> 00:26:31,464
- And then I lived in SF,
and then I moved back recently.
704
00:26:31,548 --> 00:26:33,675
When I first moved to Houston,
there was no way
705
00:26:33,758 --> 00:26:35,844
anyone could convince me
to go on a blind date.
706
00:26:35,927 --> 00:26:36,970
- I'm a little nervous.
707
00:26:37,053 --> 00:26:38,513
I'm not gonna lie.
[laughs]
708
00:26:38,596 --> 00:26:39,764
- Oh, I haven't been on a date
in five years.
709
00:26:39,848 --> 00:26:40,807
I don't know what to say.
710
00:26:40,890 --> 00:26:42,225
Yeah.
- [laughs]
711
00:26:42,309 --> 00:26:44,269
- I'm very awkward,
and I'm very introverted,
712
00:26:44,352 --> 00:26:45,520
so this is a lot.
713
00:26:45,603 --> 00:26:47,856
The fact that Lesley
vetted the person
714
00:26:47,939 --> 00:26:50,775
to make sure he wasn't, like,
a serial killer or something,
715
00:26:50,859 --> 00:26:53,069
like, made me feel
a lot better about it.
716
00:26:53,153 --> 00:26:54,487
- Have you been here before?
717
00:26:54,571 --> 00:26:56,323
- No, but I heard
that their espresso martinis
718
00:26:56,406 --> 00:26:57,741
are really good.
- Oh, really?
719
00:26:57,824 --> 00:26:59,284
- Not that you drink
espresso martinis.
720
00:26:59,367 --> 00:27:00,869
I think
it's a girl drink, but...
721
00:27:00,952 --> 00:27:02,912
- It's okay. Well,
there's no shamin', you know.
722
00:27:02,996 --> 00:27:05,874
- Kim doesn't know we're here,
but what does she expect?
723
00:27:05,957 --> 00:27:08,084
I'm nosy. You know, it's,
like, my baby cousin.
724
00:27:08,168 --> 00:27:09,919
You know, I love her,
and I want to make sure
725
00:27:10,003 --> 00:27:11,671
she's okay
and she's having fun.
726
00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:14,215
And if I need to step in there
for some reason or another,
727
00:27:14,299 --> 00:27:16,468
I'm willing to, like, dive
in there.
728
00:27:16,551 --> 00:27:18,887
- Wow.
- Thank you.
729
00:27:18,970 --> 00:27:21,097
- Yeah, some more.
- Oh, can I see your ankles?
730
00:27:21,181 --> 00:27:22,390
- My ankles?
731
00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:23,975
- I know it's a really
weird request,
732
00:27:24,059 --> 00:27:25,352
but can I see your ankles?
733
00:27:25,435 --> 00:27:26,978
- Yeah, I mean--
- No, ankle monitor.
734
00:27:27,062 --> 00:27:28,521
- No.
- Your ankles are fine.
735
00:27:28,605 --> 00:27:31,358
All right. That's good.
- Is that, like--Okay.
736
00:27:31,441 --> 00:27:33,943
both: Cheers.
[glasses clink]
737
00:27:34,027 --> 00:27:35,320
- Thank you.
738
00:27:35,403 --> 00:27:37,322
- Would you like
to try some food or...
739
00:27:37,405 --> 00:27:39,074
- Sure.
- Is he cutting it for her?
740
00:27:39,157 --> 00:27:40,742
- He's cutting it for her.
He's cutting it for her.
741
00:27:40,825 --> 00:27:43,495
- This is a lot of cheese.
I'm lactose intolerant.
742
00:27:43,578 --> 00:27:45,205
- Miss I'm Not Gonna Order Food
Before My Date.
743
00:27:45,288 --> 00:27:46,539
- I'm not gonna eat
anything at all.
744
00:27:46,623 --> 00:27:48,750
- Is the meat
stuck in my teeth?
745
00:27:48,833 --> 00:27:50,293
I think it's going good.
746
00:27:50,377 --> 00:27:52,712
For someone who says
that she doesn't order food
747
00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:54,464
on dates because she's worried
748
00:27:54,547 --> 00:27:55,840
that food's gonna
get stuck in her teeth...
749
00:27:55,924 --> 00:27:57,634
- [mouth full]
Can I get a napkin?
750
00:27:57,717 --> 00:28:00,220
- She sure looked good eating
that charcuterie board.
751
00:28:00,303 --> 00:28:02,055
- I feel like--
Do you have, like, a tiger dad?
752
00:28:02,138 --> 00:28:04,224
Or, like, also,
a tiger mom, too?
753
00:28:04,307 --> 00:28:06,393
- They're, like, tiger
in a sense where
754
00:28:06,476 --> 00:28:08,978
they wanted me to be,
like, a perfect wife
755
00:28:09,062 --> 00:28:10,605
but not, like,
a perfect student.
756
00:28:10,688 --> 00:28:12,232
- Do you speak Vietnamese
at home?
757
00:28:12,315 --> 00:28:13,900
- Yeah,
I can read and write it.
758
00:28:13,983 --> 00:28:15,902
- I wouldn't even dare try
to, like, butcher Vietnamese
759
00:28:15,985 --> 00:28:17,404
because of the intonations.
760
00:28:17,487 --> 00:28:18,905
Do you want to have kids
or get married--
761
00:28:18,988 --> 00:28:20,198
- I do want to have kids.
762
00:28:20,281 --> 00:28:22,450
Like, maybe not anytime soon,
I think.
763
00:28:22,534 --> 00:28:23,827
- We're talking about kids.
- Shh.
764
00:28:23,910 --> 00:28:25,161
- They're talking about kids?
765
00:28:25,245 --> 00:28:26,746
I mean, it sounds like
they're planning
766
00:28:26,830 --> 00:28:28,790
their whole life together,
and I heard giggling.
767
00:28:28,873 --> 00:28:30,542
- [laughs]
768
00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:32,669
- I should start, like,
a matchmaking service.
769
00:28:32,752 --> 00:28:33,711
Just saying.
770
00:28:33,795 --> 00:28:35,004
- I'd love to hang out.
771
00:28:35,088 --> 00:28:37,799
- I'll give you my number.
- Okay.
772
00:28:37,882 --> 00:28:40,301
Oh, hey.
I think your family's here.
773
00:28:40,385 --> 00:28:43,012
- [laughs]
How's it going over there?
774
00:28:43,096 --> 00:28:44,889
- Do you recognize them?
They're waving at you.
775
00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:46,850
- Yes. They're my cousins.
- Your cousins are here?
776
00:28:46,933 --> 00:28:48,935
- Yeah. They're not
supposed to be here.
777
00:28:49,018 --> 00:28:50,061
- Hi.
[laughs]
778
00:28:50,145 --> 00:28:51,312
- Hi.
- I'm Jordan.
779
00:28:51,396 --> 00:28:54,315
- I'm Bella.
- Nice to meet you.
780
00:28:54,399 --> 00:28:57,444
- I was not expecting
Lesley and Bella
781
00:28:57,527 --> 00:29:00,196
to kind of sneak in
and spy on my date.
782
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,740
I probably definitely
would've been more awkward
783
00:29:02,824 --> 00:29:04,742
if I knew that they were
sitting behind me
784
00:29:04,826 --> 00:29:06,244
'cause I feel like
they would've made fun of me
785
00:29:06,327 --> 00:29:07,620
or something after.
- Hey, you two.
786
00:29:07,704 --> 00:29:09,122
- How long
have y'all been here?
787
00:29:09,205 --> 00:29:10,832
[chuckles]
- The entire time.
788
00:29:16,546 --> 00:29:17,964
- I feel like
I'm being grilled by--
789
00:29:18,047 --> 00:29:19,716
- No, no, no, no.
- Oh, you are being grilled.
790
00:29:19,799 --> 00:29:21,092
See? She's nice about it.
791
00:29:21,176 --> 00:29:22,677
- I don't know want you
to think that.
792
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,304
- I'm not grilling you.
It's nothing personal.
793
00:29:24,387 --> 00:29:25,680
- No.
- I mean, I am grilling you,
794
00:29:25,763 --> 00:29:27,307
but it's not personal
towards you.
795
00:29:27,390 --> 00:29:28,808
It's just...
- With love.
796
00:29:28,892 --> 00:29:30,435
- She's my best friend.
- Yeah, with love.
797
00:29:30,518 --> 00:29:32,145
- So I hope we didn't make
you too uncomfortable.
798
00:29:32,228 --> 00:29:33,480
- I know.
- I'm uncomfortable.
799
00:29:33,563 --> 00:29:34,939
- I don't care
if you're uncomfortable.
800
00:29:35,023 --> 00:29:36,483
- I think we're both
being a little bit
801
00:29:36,566 --> 00:29:38,026
introverted right now.
both: Aw.
802
00:29:38,109 --> 00:29:39,861
- I had very low expectations
coming into it,
803
00:29:39,944 --> 00:29:41,946
but I genuinely had
a good time,
804
00:29:42,030 --> 00:29:44,282
and we're gonna go
on a second date
805
00:29:44,365 --> 00:29:45,742
without any of you guys.
806
00:29:45,825 --> 00:29:47,660
- It's good to meet y'all.
- It's good to meet you.
807
00:29:47,744 --> 00:29:49,370
- I'll text you when I'm back.
- Okay.
808
00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:50,914
- We'll see you
on that next date.
809
00:29:50,997 --> 00:29:52,874
[laughing] Just kidding.
- Shh.
810
00:29:52,957 --> 00:29:55,919
[upbeat music]
811
00:29:56,002 --> 00:30:02,884
♪ ♪
812
00:30:02,967 --> 00:30:06,012
- Honey?
- What?
813
00:30:06,095 --> 00:30:08,848
- You ready? My parents
are about to pull up.
814
00:30:08,932 --> 00:30:10,141
- Fuck.
815
00:30:10,225 --> 00:30:12,060
- They're gonna be here
any minute.
816
00:30:12,143 --> 00:30:14,604
- What do you want me to do?
- Come down here.
817
00:30:14,687 --> 00:30:16,856
♪ ♪
818
00:30:16,940 --> 00:30:18,942
- [sighs]
819
00:30:19,025 --> 00:30:20,944
- Okay, come.
[claps hands]
820
00:30:21,027 --> 00:30:23,530
- What?
- Okay. Glasses off.
821
00:30:23,613 --> 00:30:25,365
Okay. I need you to focus.
822
00:30:25,448 --> 00:30:27,700
Okay, so, when they come,
I want you to greet them,
823
00:30:27,784 --> 00:30:29,202
like, bow.
824
00:30:32,789 --> 00:30:35,625
Make sure you say good morning,
good afternoon, good night.
825
00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:38,836
Ask her if she wants anything,
needs coffee.
826
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,506
Smile. Always smiling, okay?
827
00:30:41,589 --> 00:30:43,383
- Yeah.
- And just act more mature.
828
00:30:43,466 --> 00:30:46,135
Make sure you bring
the luggage upstairs for them.
829
00:30:46,219 --> 00:30:47,178
Okay?
830
00:30:47,262 --> 00:30:49,138
- So basically just act like
831
00:30:49,222 --> 00:30:51,516
a bell captain at a hotel?
832
00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:53,101
- Yes.
833
00:30:53,184 --> 00:30:55,228
They're our guests, okay?
- [sighs]
834
00:30:55,311 --> 00:30:58,231
- Last time she was here, you
were going around in boxers.
835
00:30:58,314 --> 00:30:59,774
Your wee-wee was hanging out.
836
00:30:59,857 --> 00:31:02,527
And I had to hear an earful
the next day from my mom,
837
00:31:02,610 --> 00:31:05,405
so let's not have
that happen again, okay?
838
00:31:05,488 --> 00:31:08,908
Fully clothed
would be nice, okay?
839
00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:11,786
- I'm going commando today.
- No, don't.
840
00:31:13,580 --> 00:31:15,290
- You have so many rules.
841
00:31:15,373 --> 00:31:17,917
It's not like I want
to drive her mom nuts,
842
00:31:18,001 --> 00:31:21,254
but subconsciously
I kind of do
843
00:31:21,337 --> 00:31:23,840
because I don't know
anyone that travels
844
00:31:23,923 --> 00:31:25,383
to someone else's house
845
00:31:25,466 --> 00:31:27,927
and then makes up rules
for them on how to live.
846
00:31:28,011 --> 00:31:31,055
Like, I think
that's blasphemous.
847
00:31:31,139 --> 00:31:34,142
- Make sure you talk to my mom
in a respectful way.
848
00:31:34,225 --> 00:31:35,268
- Bow down.
849
00:31:35,351 --> 00:31:37,312
[speaking Vietnamese]
850
00:31:37,395 --> 00:31:39,355
- No jokes.
- No jokes.
851
00:31:39,439 --> 00:31:41,983
- Don't be myself, basically.
- Yes, yes.
852
00:31:42,066 --> 00:31:45,361
- Jesus Christ,
you've given me more rules
853
00:31:45,445 --> 00:31:48,406
than I had when
I was in day-care center.
854
00:31:48,489 --> 00:31:49,907
Jeez.
855
00:31:49,991 --> 00:31:51,492
I got to be Kanye.
856
00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:53,202
That's my--
- Shh. No, stop.
857
00:31:53,286 --> 00:31:54,287
- Oh, yeah.
858
00:31:54,370 --> 00:31:55,788
Okay, you give me ten rules,
859
00:31:55,872 --> 00:31:59,417
I'm gonna break 20 rules
and see what happens.
860
00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:02,170
And here we go.
861
00:32:02,253 --> 00:32:04,464
[hip-hop music]
862
00:32:04,547 --> 00:32:06,466
- ♪ Don't be getting
fresh with me ♪
863
00:32:06,549 --> 00:32:07,967
♪ That ain't right ♪
864
00:32:08,051 --> 00:32:09,677
♪ Don't be starting
shit with me ♪
865
00:32:09,761 --> 00:32:11,220
♪ If you can't fight ♪
866
00:32:11,304 --> 00:32:12,972
♪ Know your place,
know your role ♪
867
00:32:13,056 --> 00:32:14,766
♪ Fix your face,
shut your hole ♪
868
00:32:14,849 --> 00:32:16,476
♪ Don't speak
unless spoken to ♪
869
00:32:16,559 --> 00:32:18,144
♪ Compliment my Jimmy Choos ♪
870
00:32:18,227 --> 00:32:19,812
♪ I'm the head bitch
in charge ♪
871
00:32:19,896 --> 00:32:21,147
- Hi, Mom.
- Hello.
872
00:32:21,230 --> 00:32:24,025
- Hi.
- How are you?
873
00:32:24,108 --> 00:32:25,526
How are you guys?
874
00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:30,073
- [laughs] Don't do that.
875
00:32:30,156 --> 00:32:32,825
[laughter]
876
00:32:32,909 --> 00:32:34,827
Yeah, come over.
Thank you.
877
00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:36,162
Here, let me help you.
Let me help you.
878
00:32:36,245 --> 00:32:37,205
I got it.
- You got it?
879
00:32:37,288 --> 00:32:38,247
- Yeah.
- Okay.
880
00:32:38,331 --> 00:32:39,999
Oh, hi, Mom.
881
00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:41,501
I'm so glad you're here.
882
00:32:41,584 --> 00:32:44,212
- Oh, I missed you so much.
883
00:32:44,295 --> 00:32:47,006
- How you feel?
- It's been a long time.
884
00:32:47,090 --> 00:32:49,842
You miss her?
- Yes, of course.
885
00:32:49,926 --> 00:32:51,386
- You miss me?
886
00:32:53,429 --> 00:32:55,765
[laughter]
887
00:32:55,848 --> 00:32:58,059
I don't think there's any way
888
00:32:58,142 --> 00:33:01,354
that I'll ever have
Lesley's mom approval.
889
00:33:01,437 --> 00:33:03,398
- Yeah, I miss you, too.
- You miss me, too?
890
00:33:03,481 --> 00:33:05,692
- Just kidding.
[laughter]
891
00:33:05,775 --> 00:33:07,944
- I'm never gonna be
the son-in-law
892
00:33:08,027 --> 00:33:11,781
that she expects me to be,
nor do I want to be.
893
00:33:11,864 --> 00:33:14,158
North Vietnamese people,
they care a lot
894
00:33:14,242 --> 00:33:15,993
about what people
think about them
895
00:33:16,077 --> 00:33:17,453
or what people say about them.
896
00:33:17,537 --> 00:33:19,455
Southern Vietnamese people,
like our family,
897
00:33:19,539 --> 00:33:20,581
we don't give a shit.
898
00:33:20,665 --> 00:33:22,834
But happy wife, happy life,
899
00:33:22,917 --> 00:33:26,045
so I'm willing to bow down
as much as I have to.
900
00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:27,130
[chuckles]
901
00:33:27,213 --> 00:33:29,298
Please, come inside.
902
00:33:29,382 --> 00:33:32,343
You want some tea, Dad?
- Yes, tea, okay.
903
00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:33,344
- Okay, tea.
904
00:33:33,428 --> 00:33:34,721
- Honey?
- What?
905
00:33:34,804 --> 00:33:37,056
- You want to take
their luggage upstairs?
906
00:33:37,140 --> 00:33:39,767
King, my king.
907
00:33:39,851 --> 00:33:42,437
- King,
I'll show you king tonight.
908
00:33:44,147 --> 00:33:45,356
[sighs]
909
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,776
- So how Wash?
- Wash is good.
910
00:33:48,860 --> 00:33:51,237
He's, you know--
911
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,740
You know, he quit drinking.
- That's good.
912
00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:56,367
- Yeah, you know,
so that's helped a lot.
913
00:33:57,702 --> 00:33:58,995
- They're in school right now.
914
00:33:59,078 --> 00:34:01,080
I love...
[speaks Vietnamese]
915
00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:02,498
like, down the street,
you know?
916
00:34:02,582 --> 00:34:04,083
I love that relationship,
you know,
917
00:34:04,167 --> 00:34:07,628
and I wish, like,
you're a little bit closer.
918
00:34:07,712 --> 00:34:09,797
[voice breaking] I--
- [laughs]
919
00:34:09,881 --> 00:34:13,259
- I miss home.
I miss having my family.
920
00:34:13,342 --> 00:34:15,678
I know.
- Don't cry.
921
00:34:15,762 --> 00:34:16,929
- [sniffles]
922
00:34:17,013 --> 00:34:19,015
You know, it's just hard
here sometimes
923
00:34:19,098 --> 00:34:20,767
'cause, you know,
I'm by myself.
924
00:34:20,850 --> 00:34:22,769
And...
925
00:34:22,852 --> 00:34:26,022
You know,
thank you for coming.
926
00:34:26,105 --> 00:34:28,566
- So I'm cry--I'm so--
- I know, I--
927
00:34:28,649 --> 00:34:31,277
That's where I get it from
'cause I'm a crier, too.
928
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,156
I've been going
through a lot...recently.
929
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,700
With Wash having
so many career changes,
930
00:34:37,784 --> 00:34:39,410
not knowing
where he is in life,
931
00:34:39,494 --> 00:34:41,746
it's been a lot,
so I called my mom.
932
00:34:41,829 --> 00:34:43,706
She could just hear it
in my voice, you know?
933
00:34:43,790 --> 00:34:45,374
She can see right through me.
934
00:34:45,458 --> 00:34:47,960
And she came down to Houston.
It wasn't for an event.
935
00:34:48,044 --> 00:34:50,379
It wasn't something
that was going on.
936
00:34:50,463 --> 00:34:54,091
She actually came
to just be with me.
937
00:34:55,259 --> 00:34:57,929
- Let me call him.
[line trilling]
938
00:34:58,012 --> 00:35:00,306
- Yes.
- Hey, honey, where are you?
939
00:35:00,389 --> 00:35:03,184
- Just up here
doing some work.
940
00:35:04,393 --> 00:35:07,230
- You should come down here
and hang out with my parents.
941
00:35:07,313 --> 00:35:09,774
You're on speaker.
- Okay.
942
00:35:09,857 --> 00:35:11,400
- Love you.
943
00:35:11,484 --> 00:35:14,529
- Bye, my princess.
- Bye.
944
00:35:16,155 --> 00:35:17,949
But he's coming down.
945
00:35:18,032 --> 00:35:20,117
- Hey.
- Hey, honey.
946
00:35:24,413 --> 00:35:26,332
Right, Mom?
Like--
947
00:35:27,917 --> 00:35:29,335
- Honey.
- How's your job?
948
00:35:29,418 --> 00:35:31,754
- My job?
I have my car business,
949
00:35:31,838 --> 00:35:34,006
but I don't work there
anymore, though.
950
00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:35,925
[dramatic note]
951
00:35:37,218 --> 00:35:38,928
My newest job
952
00:35:39,011 --> 00:35:40,888
is the most exciting job
I've ever had.
953
00:35:40,972 --> 00:35:42,682
- With what?
954
00:35:42,765 --> 00:35:45,101
[smooth music]
955
00:35:45,184 --> 00:35:48,521
- I want to get
in the music business.
956
00:35:48,604 --> 00:35:50,147
- Mm.
957
00:36:03,744 --> 00:36:05,371
- It's not about me singing.
958
00:36:05,454 --> 00:36:06,831
- [sighs]
Wash.
959
00:36:06,914 --> 00:36:08,374
I just--I wish we had talked
960
00:36:08,457 --> 00:36:10,376
about how we were gonna
tell my parents, you know?
961
00:36:10,459 --> 00:36:12,753
- Let me let you
hear a little bit, okay?
962
00:36:12,837 --> 00:36:15,756
♪ Ready? Let's show 'em
what it's all about ♪
963
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,466
♪ Started with nothing,
made a couple millions ♪
964
00:36:17,550 --> 00:36:19,385
♪ I told you my life
already a show ♪
965
00:36:19,468 --> 00:36:21,220
♪ I tell them I did it,
they say how much bigger ♪
966
00:36:21,304 --> 00:36:23,181
♪ I tell them real big
because I'm a Ho ♪
967
00:36:23,264 --> 00:36:25,558
- I would just hope
to ease my mom into that
968
00:36:25,641 --> 00:36:28,394
a little bit better
than just...
969
00:36:28,477 --> 00:36:33,399
you know, shoot her with it
when she first came in.
970
00:36:39,697 --> 00:36:42,617
- What do you think, Dad?
- It's good music.
971
00:36:42,700 --> 00:36:45,036
- Yay!
- You really think that?
972
00:36:45,119 --> 00:36:46,746
- I'm so happy.
973
00:36:53,628 --> 00:36:54,921
- My mom is very polite.
974
00:36:55,004 --> 00:36:58,299
Bac Ky people, up front,
very proper,
975
00:36:58,382 --> 00:37:01,427
very polite, but I know,
behind closed doors,
976
00:37:01,510 --> 00:37:04,764
she's gonna ask me, "What
the fuck is going on, Lesley?"
977
00:37:04,847 --> 00:37:09,268
- It's so exciting to wait
for him to make the music.
978
00:37:09,352 --> 00:37:11,270
- I'm dreading
being alone with her
979
00:37:11,354 --> 00:37:14,315
because I already know
she's gonna tell me the truth,
980
00:37:14,398 --> 00:37:16,150
and I have to answer to that.
981
00:37:16,233 --> 00:37:17,276
Not Washington, me.
982
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,362
Really?
- [laughs]
983
00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:25,701
- ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
984
00:37:25,785 --> 00:37:27,411
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
985
00:37:27,495 --> 00:37:29,246
♪ I don't care
if you're ready or not ♪
986
00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:30,748
♪ I'm letting you know ♪
987
00:37:30,831 --> 00:37:32,708
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
988
00:37:32,792 --> 00:37:34,460
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
989
00:37:34,543 --> 00:37:36,671
♪ Came from the bottom
straight to the top ♪
990
00:37:36,754 --> 00:37:37,922
♪ I'm ready to blow ♪
991
00:37:38,005 --> 00:37:40,091
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
992
00:37:40,174 --> 00:37:44,762
♪ ♪
993
00:37:44,845 --> 00:37:47,181
♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪
994
00:37:47,264 --> 00:37:51,102
♪ ♪