1 00:00:04,629 --> 00:00:07,716 [Paper Kings' "Look At Me Now"] 2 00:00:07,799 --> 00:00:10,927 ♪ ♪ 3 00:00:11,010 --> 00:00:12,721 - ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:12,804 --> 00:00:14,431 ♪ I'm steady walkin' like ♪ 5 00:00:14,514 --> 00:00:17,058 ♪ I got three commas in my bank account ♪ 6 00:00:17,142 --> 00:00:20,061 ♪ Livin' loud, so get your cameras out ♪ 7 00:00:20,145 --> 00:00:22,814 ♪ I'd probably do the same thing if I was you ♪ 8 00:00:22,897 --> 00:00:24,899 ♪ Lookin' at me now, now ♪ 9 00:00:24,983 --> 00:00:27,193 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 10 00:00:27,277 --> 00:00:30,238 ♪ Mm, put up your lights ♪ 11 00:00:30,321 --> 00:00:31,865 ♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪ 12 00:00:31,948 --> 00:00:33,658 ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh ♪ 13 00:00:33,742 --> 00:00:37,287 ♪ Don't ever put 'em down, down, down ♪ 14 00:00:37,370 --> 00:00:38,913 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 15 00:00:38,997 --> 00:00:41,958 [upbeat music] 16 00:00:42,041 --> 00:00:49,132 ♪ ♪ 17 00:00:58,057 --> 00:01:00,643 - Wow. 18 00:01:00,727 --> 00:01:01,936 This is amazing. 19 00:01:02,020 --> 00:01:04,689 - Hello. Welcome to Space Center Houston. 20 00:01:04,773 --> 00:01:07,275 Mr. Ho, such an honor to meet you. 21 00:01:07,358 --> 00:01:08,735 - Glad to meet you. 22 00:01:08,818 --> 00:01:11,946 - My father-in-law loves, loves, loves Roosevelt. 23 00:01:12,030 --> 00:01:13,740 That is his... [speaks Vietnamese] 24 00:01:13,823 --> 00:01:16,493 That is the one that's gonna carry on the Ho name. 25 00:01:16,576 --> 00:01:18,912 - Happy birthday. 26 00:01:18,995 --> 00:01:20,955 - And when Roosevelt says he wants to be 27 00:01:21,039 --> 00:01:22,457 an astronaut when he grows up, 28 00:01:22,540 --> 00:01:25,168 Binh Ho will shut down a space center 29 00:01:25,251 --> 00:01:27,128 to have Roosevelt's birthday party there. 30 00:01:27,212 --> 00:01:28,963 - You're gonna get to touch a piece of the Moon 31 00:01:29,047 --> 00:01:31,257 from Apollo 17, and maybe we'll have Roosevelt 32 00:01:31,341 --> 00:01:33,134 do that first since it's his birthday. 33 00:01:33,218 --> 00:01:35,136 Well, come on in. Let's get the party started. 34 00:01:35,220 --> 00:01:37,305 - ♪ Ready, set, let's go ♪ 35 00:01:37,388 --> 00:01:39,474 ♪ It's gonna be a show ♪ 36 00:01:39,557 --> 00:01:41,059 ♪ Don't act like you don't know ♪ 37 00:01:41,142 --> 00:01:42,977 - Since when that he like to be an astronaut? 38 00:01:43,061 --> 00:01:44,771 - Every year is different. - Every year change? 39 00:01:44,854 --> 00:01:48,608 - Yeah. - One, two, three. 40 00:01:48,691 --> 00:01:50,568 - He's like his daddy--you know, like, different projects. 41 00:01:50,652 --> 00:01:51,653 His dad's the same way. 42 00:01:51,736 --> 00:01:53,154 - Roosevelt, look at this car. 43 00:01:53,238 --> 00:01:55,323 Wow. That's "E.T.". 44 00:01:55,406 --> 00:01:57,909 My favorite movie. Take a photo with Dada. 45 00:01:57,992 --> 00:02:00,787 - Roosevelt grows up, he's so similar to Wash 46 00:02:00,870 --> 00:02:03,248 that there's things in his quirkiness, 47 00:02:03,331 --> 00:02:04,791 in his humor that I see now 48 00:02:04,874 --> 00:02:07,961 that I absolutely love and will nourish. 49 00:02:08,044 --> 00:02:09,712 - You gonna go to the park? 50 00:02:09,796 --> 00:02:12,841 - But there are things that Wash and I deal with daily 51 00:02:12,924 --> 00:02:14,551 that I don't want for Roosevelt. 52 00:02:14,634 --> 00:02:17,470 So we just encourage it-- for both of them, you know? 53 00:02:17,554 --> 00:02:19,180 Like, whatever makes you happy. 54 00:02:19,264 --> 00:02:20,473 - But don't spoil him 55 00:02:20,557 --> 00:02:21,891 like Washington mom spoil Washington. 56 00:02:21,975 --> 00:02:23,852 - No. No. I'm not going to spoil him. 57 00:02:23,935 --> 00:02:26,563 Last thing I want to do is for history to repeat itself. 58 00:02:26,646 --> 00:02:29,315 Roosevelt's future wife will thank me later. 59 00:02:29,399 --> 00:02:31,359 - Ask Grandpa if he's gonna buy that for you. 60 00:02:31,442 --> 00:02:32,819 - Better buy this one. 61 00:02:32,902 --> 00:02:34,529 - Oh, he's gonna buy that for you. 62 00:02:34,612 --> 00:02:35,864 [laughs] 63 00:02:35,947 --> 00:02:37,407 I know my parents love my kids. 64 00:02:37,490 --> 00:02:40,410 It's just Roosevelt's extremely loved. 65 00:02:40,493 --> 00:02:41,786 [chuckles] 66 00:02:41,870 --> 00:02:44,372 Tell Grandpa what you got in your report card. 67 00:02:44,455 --> 00:02:46,207 - An A. - Tell Grandpa. 68 00:02:46,291 --> 00:02:48,960 - I got an A on my report card. - Hmm? 69 00:02:49,043 --> 00:02:51,546 - I got an A-plus on my report card. 70 00:02:51,629 --> 00:02:53,381 - Really? Good. 71 00:02:53,464 --> 00:02:55,717 Straight A? Great. - Yeah. 72 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,137 - I don't try to play favorites, like, so openly. 73 00:02:59,220 --> 00:03:03,016 Like, I don't put the same expectations on my kids. 74 00:03:03,099 --> 00:03:04,851 I just want my kids to be happy 75 00:03:04,934 --> 00:03:06,519 and secure in their love for me. 76 00:03:06,603 --> 00:03:08,479 I don't want them to feel like they have to work for it. 77 00:03:08,563 --> 00:03:09,731 Do you know what Grandpa used to do 78 00:03:09,814 --> 00:03:12,066 when I didn't get straight A's? 79 00:03:12,150 --> 00:03:13,318 - Yeah. 80 00:03:13,401 --> 00:03:14,819 - But if you don't get straight A, 81 00:03:14,903 --> 00:03:17,113 you know what she got? [speaks Vietnamese] 82 00:03:17,196 --> 00:03:18,740 [chuckles] 83 00:03:18,823 --> 00:03:20,575 - You know what [speaks Vietnamese] is? 84 00:03:20,658 --> 00:03:22,201 - A chopstick. - Yeah. 85 00:03:23,953 --> 00:03:25,747 Yeah. You think I wanted [speaks Vietnamese]? 86 00:03:25,830 --> 00:03:28,583 It's hard for my parents to own up to their faults. 87 00:03:28,666 --> 00:03:31,628 When they raised us, they had just come to a new country, 88 00:03:31,711 --> 00:03:34,881 and they barely spoke English, 89 00:03:34,964 --> 00:03:36,341 so the top of their mind 90 00:03:36,424 --> 00:03:38,426 was not how to raise happy children. 91 00:03:38,509 --> 00:03:40,929 - You know, when your mom didn't get straight A's, 92 00:03:41,012 --> 00:03:42,722 she got [speaks Vietnamese], you know what she do? 93 00:03:42,805 --> 00:03:45,016 - She cried. - She run and eat banana. 94 00:03:45,099 --> 00:03:46,768 [chuckles] - She eat bananas? 95 00:03:46,851 --> 00:03:48,061 - And cry. 96 00:03:48,144 --> 00:03:49,729 - My dad realizes 97 00:03:49,812 --> 00:03:53,775 that what he thought was right back then 98 00:03:53,858 --> 00:03:55,526 in how he raised us 99 00:03:55,610 --> 00:03:57,987 was all that he knew at the time, 100 00:03:58,071 --> 00:04:02,200 and he thought that was how punishment should be. 101 00:04:02,283 --> 00:04:05,078 When I look back, I just can't believe I lived through that 102 00:04:05,161 --> 00:04:06,746 and it just taught me 103 00:04:06,829 --> 00:04:09,749 that this is not how I'm gonna raise my own children. 104 00:04:09,832 --> 00:04:11,542 Why don't you ask what your uncles got? 105 00:04:11,626 --> 00:04:14,796 - F. - [laughs] 106 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:16,130 - Hi. - Hi, guys. 107 00:04:16,214 --> 00:04:17,632 - Hello. Hello. - Hey. How are you? 108 00:04:17,715 --> 00:04:19,175 - Good to see you. - Good to see you, too. 109 00:04:19,258 --> 00:04:20,677 - Long time, no see. - All right, you guys 110 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,971 can go off and play with the other kids now. 111 00:04:23,054 --> 00:04:25,139 - How have you been? - Okay. 112 00:04:25,223 --> 00:04:28,601 Didn't see you long time. - Yeah. 113 00:04:28,685 --> 00:04:31,729 - You okay? - Yes. How about you? 114 00:04:31,813 --> 00:04:33,898 - I great. - Yeah. 115 00:04:33,982 --> 00:04:35,900 Binh Ho is upset with me. 116 00:04:35,984 --> 00:04:39,529 That's not good, 'cause, lately, in the last few months, 117 00:04:39,612 --> 00:04:41,531 there have been several occasions and events 118 00:04:41,614 --> 00:04:43,074 and things like that, 119 00:04:43,157 --> 00:04:44,701 and I haven't been showing up for stuff. 120 00:04:44,784 --> 00:04:46,661 Like, I wasn't, like, feeling it, period. 121 00:04:46,744 --> 00:04:49,038 And Binh being old-school 122 00:04:49,122 --> 00:04:52,166 and having these traditions 123 00:04:52,250 --> 00:04:55,670 ingrained in his life... 124 00:04:55,753 --> 00:04:59,132 he takes them very seriously. 125 00:04:59,215 --> 00:05:00,508 - You guys want me to leave? 126 00:05:00,591 --> 00:05:02,343 You guys can have a private conversation? 127 00:05:02,427 --> 00:05:03,678 - If that's okay. - Okay. 128 00:05:03,761 --> 00:05:05,013 - Okay. - Good luck. 129 00:05:05,096 --> 00:05:07,015 - You have a good time today? - Yeah. 130 00:05:07,098 --> 00:05:08,516 - Hmm. - Are you mad at me? 131 00:05:08,599 --> 00:05:10,018 - Mad at you? - Yeah. 132 00:05:10,101 --> 00:05:12,186 - Why? - Because-- 133 00:05:12,270 --> 00:05:14,188 - Why am I mad at you? 134 00:05:14,272 --> 00:05:17,900 [dramatic music] 135 00:05:17,984 --> 00:05:21,154 - Because I haven't been... 136 00:05:21,237 --> 00:05:23,740 present. 137 00:05:23,823 --> 00:05:25,658 - Present where? 138 00:05:25,742 --> 00:05:28,786 - Physically, mentally, and especially 139 00:05:28,870 --> 00:05:31,080 at... 140 00:05:31,164 --> 00:05:33,916 my mom's anniversary. 141 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:38,379 - How many time do you come to visit your mom 142 00:05:38,463 --> 00:05:41,257 after she passed away? - Once. 143 00:05:41,340 --> 00:05:42,925 - Once. - Mm-hmm. 144 00:05:43,009 --> 00:05:44,510 - Over a year later. 145 00:05:44,594 --> 00:05:47,722 - The one-year anniversary, yeah. 146 00:05:49,057 --> 00:05:51,559 - You think that right or not right? 147 00:05:51,642 --> 00:05:54,896 ♪ ♪ 148 00:05:54,979 --> 00:05:59,150 - I think that it's not right or wrong. 149 00:05:59,233 --> 00:06:03,071 I think if--if-- 150 00:06:03,154 --> 00:06:07,033 it could be wrong if I didn't care. 151 00:06:07,116 --> 00:06:11,537 - So you think if you care, there's nothing wrong. 152 00:06:11,621 --> 00:06:13,247 How you can show me 153 00:06:13,331 --> 00:06:15,958 or show other people you care for your mom? 154 00:06:16,042 --> 00:06:18,753 - I show-- My mom's in my heart. 155 00:06:18,836 --> 00:06:22,256 - Oh, your heart. - She is. 156 00:06:22,340 --> 00:06:23,591 So your logic that, 157 00:06:23,674 --> 00:06:25,426 if my mom pass away, that mean she not there. 158 00:06:25,510 --> 00:06:27,762 I don't have to see her. - No, she's still there. 159 00:06:27,845 --> 00:06:30,765 I still have to prove so many things in my-- 160 00:06:30,848 --> 00:06:32,016 for me... 161 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:34,102 - Mm-hmm. - With her. 162 00:06:34,185 --> 00:06:37,897 I wish that I was better prepared, 163 00:06:37,980 --> 00:06:40,775 but, you know, there's no blueprint 164 00:06:40,858 --> 00:06:45,530 to how you're supposed to be, 165 00:06:45,613 --> 00:06:48,574 act, feel after your mom dies. 166 00:06:48,658 --> 00:06:52,161 So I am sorry, like, for-- 167 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:55,873 I'm sorry for not being present. 168 00:06:55,957 --> 00:06:57,959 ♪ ♪ 169 00:06:58,042 --> 00:06:59,836 - Hey. - Hi. 170 00:06:59,919 --> 00:07:00,795 How are you? 171 00:07:00,878 --> 00:07:02,130 - Good. - Good. 172 00:07:02,213 --> 00:07:03,381 - Just want to make sure you're okay. 173 00:07:03,464 --> 00:07:04,966 - I'm okay. - You're okay? 174 00:07:05,049 --> 00:07:06,217 - Yeah. - Okay. 175 00:07:06,300 --> 00:07:08,678 - I understand, like, not going, 176 00:07:08,761 --> 00:07:12,265 you know, to certain things, but I don't think, like-- 177 00:07:12,348 --> 00:07:16,102 It wasn't bad intentions. You know what I mean? 178 00:07:16,185 --> 00:07:18,437 - Yeah. I know your heart's in the right place. 179 00:07:18,521 --> 00:07:21,524 - Yeah, and I just-- the way I love my mom, like, 180 00:07:21,607 --> 00:07:23,693 I think about it all the time. - Yeah. 181 00:07:23,776 --> 00:07:25,153 - You know, and now it's just like, 182 00:07:25,236 --> 00:07:26,654 "Okay, like, what would make her happy?" 183 00:07:26,737 --> 00:07:28,322 Every single day that's what I think about. 184 00:07:28,406 --> 00:07:31,284 - I accept that. You know, you're part right. 185 00:07:31,367 --> 00:07:32,785 Nobody perfect. 186 00:07:32,869 --> 00:07:34,620 - You know, my dad is very different. 187 00:07:34,704 --> 00:07:36,372 He's very traditional. - Yeah. 188 00:07:36,455 --> 00:07:39,375 - And they have their own ideas about how to grieve, 189 00:07:39,458 --> 00:07:42,420 and, you know, just being Nate's partner this past year 190 00:07:42,503 --> 00:07:44,213 and how he grieves, it's just-- 191 00:07:44,297 --> 00:07:45,840 everybody grieves differently. 192 00:07:45,923 --> 00:07:47,425 I just think it's very brave 193 00:07:47,508 --> 00:07:49,844 that you even decided to talk to my dad--it's not easy. 194 00:07:49,927 --> 00:07:51,762 It's not easy for me to talk to him. 195 00:07:51,846 --> 00:07:55,474 So that's something that you can be proud of. 196 00:07:55,558 --> 00:07:58,519 My dad is very good at icing people out 197 00:07:58,603 --> 00:08:01,606 and making them feel like they're on their own 198 00:08:01,689 --> 00:08:04,317 when they do things that he doesn't agree with. 199 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,235 And then everyone else follows suit. 200 00:08:06,319 --> 00:08:08,696 - My mom did not like to see me sad... 201 00:08:08,779 --> 00:08:12,074 - Mm-hmm. - Or not on my A game. 202 00:08:12,158 --> 00:08:15,036 - Well, the only person who can judge you is God, 203 00:08:15,119 --> 00:08:17,455 and He knows what's in your heart and where you stand, 204 00:08:17,538 --> 00:08:19,457 so that's all that matters. - Yeah. 205 00:08:19,540 --> 00:08:21,083 - Well, we're at a birthday party. 206 00:08:21,167 --> 00:08:23,336 It's a kids' party. Can we, like, go to the cake? 207 00:08:23,419 --> 00:08:26,547 We're gonna miss it. - So let's go to celebrate. 208 00:08:26,631 --> 00:08:30,718 all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 209 00:08:30,801 --> 00:08:34,305 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 210 00:08:34,388 --> 00:08:38,517 ♪ Happy birthday, dear Roosevelt ♪ 211 00:08:38,601 --> 00:08:42,730 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 212 00:08:42,813 --> 00:08:45,149 [cheers and applause] 213 00:08:45,233 --> 00:08:49,403 - ♪ Childhood joy land ♪ 214 00:08:49,487 --> 00:08:53,449 ♪ Mystic merry toy land ♪ 215 00:08:53,533 --> 00:08:57,245 ♪ Once you pass its borders ♪ 216 00:08:57,328 --> 00:09:01,749 ♪ You can never return again ♪ 217 00:09:01,832 --> 00:09:02,792 - Here's some more. 218 00:09:02,875 --> 00:09:06,254 - ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 219 00:09:06,337 --> 00:09:07,588 - There better be money in there. 220 00:09:07,672 --> 00:09:09,090 - It better be money. Oh, my God. 221 00:09:09,173 --> 00:09:11,259 - It is money! It is money. 222 00:09:11,342 --> 00:09:14,887 It's 100, 10 hundred, 20 hundred. 223 00:09:14,971 --> 00:09:17,431 - Where does your money go? - In my piggy bank. 224 00:09:17,515 --> 00:09:19,767 - What are you saving up for? - Toys. 225 00:09:19,850 --> 00:09:21,435 - No. What are saving-- - College! 226 00:09:21,519 --> 00:09:23,604 - College. Good boy. - Oh, my gosh. 227 00:09:23,688 --> 00:09:25,940 - Thank you. - Thank you, Grandpa. 228 00:09:26,023 --> 00:09:27,358 - Aw. 229 00:09:27,441 --> 00:09:34,073 - ♪ You are ever happy there ♪ 230 00:09:34,156 --> 00:09:37,076 [soul music] 231 00:09:37,159 --> 00:09:39,120 ♪ ♪ 232 00:09:39,203 --> 00:09:41,622 - Hi! Just in time! - Hi! 233 00:09:41,706 --> 00:09:43,958 - So good to see you. - Hi! Good to see you. 234 00:09:44,041 --> 00:09:45,376 This is gorgeous. - Hi. I'm Phuong. 235 00:09:45,459 --> 00:09:46,794 - Hi. I'm Kim. both: Nice to meet you. 236 00:09:46,877 --> 00:09:48,045 - Oh, my God, this shop is gorgeous. 237 00:09:48,129 --> 00:09:49,797 - Thank you. 238 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,425 - Valentine's Day, I would wait for someone to send me flowers, 239 00:09:52,508 --> 00:09:53,843 and now that I'm married, 240 00:09:53,926 --> 00:09:55,594 I wait for Washington to send me flowers. 241 00:09:55,678 --> 00:09:58,014 So I started sending myself flowers, you know? 242 00:09:58,097 --> 00:10:00,850 I mean, it makes me happy. I can make myself happy. 243 00:10:00,933 --> 00:10:02,143 I have 300 bucks. 244 00:10:02,226 --> 00:10:03,811 I can buy myself my own flowers. 245 00:10:03,894 --> 00:10:05,271 I don't have to wait for any man. 246 00:10:05,354 --> 00:10:07,148 - Phuong, like, made this post one day. 247 00:10:07,231 --> 00:10:09,150 "Like, you know what? Women, why the heck 248 00:10:09,233 --> 00:10:11,193 are you waiting for these men to buy you flowers?" 249 00:10:11,277 --> 00:10:12,987 - I know. - It's, like, very empowering, 250 00:10:13,070 --> 00:10:14,488 so I was like, "You know what? 251 00:10:14,572 --> 00:10:16,240 For years I waited for Wash to send me flowers." 252 00:10:16,324 --> 00:10:18,075 Year after year, I'm just disappointed, 253 00:10:18,159 --> 00:10:19,827 like, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day. 254 00:10:19,910 --> 00:10:23,289 So, ever since then, I buy my own flowers, 255 00:10:23,372 --> 00:10:24,832 and I write my own message. - Yes! 256 00:10:24,915 --> 00:10:26,500 - As you should, queen. - Yes! 257 00:10:26,584 --> 00:10:28,127 - I was like, "You know what? You're fucking badass. 258 00:10:28,210 --> 00:10:29,754 Thank you so much for being the best mom ever." 259 00:10:29,837 --> 00:10:31,047 - Thank you for having my children. 260 00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:32,506 - Yeah. Phuong's just giggling 261 00:10:32,590 --> 00:10:33,924 in the background, like, writing like, 262 00:10:34,008 --> 00:10:35,468 "You're a badass mom." - No, I mean, 263 00:10:35,551 --> 00:10:37,595 that's great that you are telling yourself this. 264 00:10:37,678 --> 00:10:39,180 - Yeah. 265 00:10:39,263 --> 00:10:41,057 - And that you don't have to need anyone to tell you this. 266 00:10:41,140 --> 00:10:43,184 - Right, so I wanted to bring Kim here 267 00:10:43,267 --> 00:10:44,810 'cause I wanted to let her know, like, 268 00:10:44,894 --> 00:10:46,395 "Hey, you're a badass bitch, too." 269 00:10:46,479 --> 00:10:48,314 Have you ever been on a blind date before? 270 00:10:48,397 --> 00:10:50,191 - No. I like to be 271 00:10:50,274 --> 00:10:51,734 around people, like, I'm comfortable with, 272 00:10:51,817 --> 00:10:53,194 so usually I go on a date with people, 273 00:10:53,277 --> 00:10:54,779 like, I've known for a while already. 274 00:10:54,862 --> 00:10:56,864 - Well, do you remember when we went to dinner 275 00:10:56,947 --> 00:10:59,450 and we bumped into one of Wash's friends, Andrew? 276 00:10:59,533 --> 00:11:01,577 - Uh-huh. - Andrew has a friend. 277 00:11:01,660 --> 00:11:03,579 His name is Jordan. 278 00:11:03,662 --> 00:11:05,414 I think this guy's perfect. 279 00:11:05,498 --> 00:11:07,166 I'm setting Kim up on a blind date 280 00:11:07,249 --> 00:11:09,085 because I think she just needs a shove. 281 00:11:09,168 --> 00:11:11,796 She's in this rut where she's going back 282 00:11:11,879 --> 00:11:14,215 to the same person over and over again 283 00:11:14,298 --> 00:11:15,674 because it's comfortable. 284 00:11:15,758 --> 00:11:17,510 I've been in that situation as well, 285 00:11:17,593 --> 00:11:19,637 and, you know, the best way to get over a guy 286 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,222 is to get under a guy. 287 00:11:21,305 --> 00:11:23,933 - How old is this guy? - Look, don't worry about it. 288 00:11:24,016 --> 00:11:25,434 I've already vetted him out. 289 00:11:25,518 --> 00:11:26,727 He's the right age, 290 00:11:26,811 --> 00:11:29,021 right profession, but he seems like 291 00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:31,315 really, like, you know, a good nerdy type guy. 292 00:11:31,399 --> 00:11:32,858 - Wash isn't a nerd. - I know. 293 00:11:32,942 --> 00:11:34,360 But I'm saying speaking from experience. 294 00:11:34,443 --> 00:11:36,278 - Ah, ah, ah. - Nerds are the way to go. 295 00:11:36,362 --> 00:11:39,073 Like, I'm having so much work to put into mine. 296 00:11:39,156 --> 00:11:42,618 Like, I don't want to see you have to do what I have to do. 297 00:11:42,701 --> 00:11:46,080 That much effort it takes to make something work-- 298 00:11:46,163 --> 00:11:49,291 - Lesley has taught me to be more particular 299 00:11:49,375 --> 00:11:51,752 in choosing my relationships, 300 00:11:51,836 --> 00:11:53,671 whether it's with a friend 301 00:11:53,754 --> 00:11:55,756 or with, you know, a significant other. 302 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,758 I respect Washington a lot. 303 00:11:57,842 --> 00:11:59,468 He's grown a lot as a person, 304 00:11:59,552 --> 00:12:01,762 but you want to be someone's wife, not their mother. 305 00:12:01,846 --> 00:12:03,472 - But you'll go on a date? 306 00:12:03,556 --> 00:12:05,683 - I'm on this train of, like, doing whatever right now. 307 00:12:05,766 --> 00:12:07,309 - Yeah? - So whatever. 308 00:12:07,393 --> 00:12:10,271 I will, but if I see a flashing light on his ankles, 309 00:12:10,354 --> 00:12:12,815 I'm done, I'm walking out. - No. I will tackle him myself. 310 00:12:12,898 --> 00:12:14,400 - Okay, why's that? 311 00:12:14,483 --> 00:12:17,153 - 'Cause when I met Wash, he had, like, a DUI on him. 312 00:12:17,236 --> 00:12:19,196 - Uh-huh. - So he had an ankle monitor. 313 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,573 And you understand, 314 00:12:20,656 --> 00:12:21,949 like, being a good Vietnamese daughter 315 00:12:22,032 --> 00:12:23,367 from a good Vietnamese family... 316 00:12:23,451 --> 00:12:24,827 - You don't know any of that. - Yeah. 317 00:12:24,910 --> 00:12:26,579 So I didn't check his ankles, obviously. 318 00:12:26,662 --> 00:12:28,289 - He's so slick. - Yeah. 319 00:12:28,372 --> 00:12:29,957 - She still fell for it. - Yeah, she did. 320 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,500 - Like, look at where we are now, so... 321 00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:33,377 - Well, you know, after a while, like, you know, 322 00:12:33,461 --> 00:12:36,088 you fall in love, and he's trying to be a better person. 323 00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:38,132 He's giving up alcohol. - And he's doing great. 324 00:12:38,215 --> 00:12:40,009 - Yeah, but that's still not where I want to be, 325 00:12:40,092 --> 00:12:42,470 you know, 'cause we started from the very, like, bottom. 326 00:12:42,553 --> 00:12:43,971 I'm just exhausted. 327 00:12:44,054 --> 00:12:45,598 You know, I don't have any more energy 328 00:12:45,681 --> 00:12:49,101 to put into my marriage, so... - Yeah. 329 00:12:49,185 --> 00:12:51,604 - It's that balance of, like, making him happy, 330 00:12:51,687 --> 00:12:53,731 but making sure I'm happy and then-- 331 00:12:53,814 --> 00:12:55,524 - And the family is secured. - And the family secured, yeah. 332 00:12:55,608 --> 00:12:58,360 - You should tell 'em about his new business venture. 333 00:12:58,444 --> 00:13:00,196 - He wrote a song... - [chuckles] 334 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:03,324 - A rap song. - [laughs] 335 00:13:03,407 --> 00:13:04,825 Of course. 336 00:13:04,909 --> 00:13:06,994 - At this point, it's like, whatever makes him happy. 337 00:13:07,077 --> 00:13:09,330 So now he's going after his dreams. 338 00:13:09,413 --> 00:13:10,873 You know, I never had that. 339 00:13:10,956 --> 00:13:13,667 Like, I don't even think I had the option to pursue 340 00:13:13,751 --> 00:13:15,377 what makes me happy or what dreams I have. 341 00:13:15,461 --> 00:13:16,545 - But you're still so young. 342 00:13:16,629 --> 00:13:18,088 You don't have to just be a mom 343 00:13:18,172 --> 00:13:20,007 or just be a pharmacist or anything like that. 344 00:13:20,090 --> 00:13:21,342 You can be a million things. 345 00:13:21,425 --> 00:13:22,843 Women can be anything they want to be. 346 00:13:22,927 --> 00:13:24,595 - Yeah. - A boss-ass bitch. 347 00:13:24,678 --> 00:13:25,971 - Yeah. - I love that. 348 00:13:26,055 --> 00:13:27,473 - ♪ Oh, yeah ♪ 349 00:13:27,556 --> 00:13:29,558 - ♪ I feel like I could rule the world ♪ 350 00:13:29,642 --> 00:13:31,810 ♪ I know I could be what I want to ♪ 351 00:13:31,894 --> 00:13:33,354 - Wash should just come right behind me 352 00:13:33,437 --> 00:13:35,189 and go something like this. - I like that. 353 00:13:35,272 --> 00:13:36,524 - I'm gonna do a Michael Jackson kick. 354 00:13:36,607 --> 00:13:38,400 I'm gonna be like... 355 00:13:38,484 --> 00:13:40,152 - And grab your nuts afterwards. 356 00:13:40,236 --> 00:13:41,195 - No. 357 00:13:41,278 --> 00:13:43,697 I know everybody is like, 358 00:13:43,781 --> 00:13:46,534 "Here comes another one of Washington's ideas. 359 00:13:46,617 --> 00:13:48,536 He's just not gonna follow through." 360 00:13:48,619 --> 00:13:50,246 But look at me. 361 00:13:50,329 --> 00:13:53,707 I'm ready to make the hottest music video of the year. 362 00:13:53,791 --> 00:13:55,292 My artist, Joe Black, 363 00:13:55,376 --> 00:13:57,336 is gonna film his portion in the Bahamas, 364 00:13:57,419 --> 00:13:59,880 and then I'm gonna put it all together. 365 00:13:59,964 --> 00:14:03,509 I'm putting all my efforts, all my energy into it. 366 00:14:03,592 --> 00:14:07,054 This is gonna be your first nine-figure-viewed video. 367 00:14:07,137 --> 00:14:08,973 - No, I got nine figures. 368 00:14:09,056 --> 00:14:10,474 - Oh, you got 100 million? - Mm-hmm. 369 00:14:10,558 --> 00:14:12,142 - On one video? - Mm-hmm. 370 00:14:12,226 --> 00:14:13,978 - Oh, we're gonna get ten then. - Ten. 371 00:14:14,061 --> 00:14:17,898 - I've got Drex Lee, who currently has over 372 00:14:17,982 --> 00:14:21,735 two billion views on TikTok, directing this. 373 00:14:21,819 --> 00:14:24,488 [car engine revs] What's up, my man? 374 00:14:24,572 --> 00:14:26,574 What it do? Thank you for coming by. 375 00:14:26,657 --> 00:14:28,409 I've got Johnny Dang, 376 00:14:28,492 --> 00:14:30,953 a homegrown Houston talent. 377 00:14:31,036 --> 00:14:33,622 Everybody knows him. Every artist has worked with him. 378 00:14:33,706 --> 00:14:35,249 King of bling. - Yeah. 379 00:14:35,332 --> 00:14:38,669 - Show me what you got. - This flawless game here. 380 00:14:38,752 --> 00:14:42,506 Yes, sir. Damn, look at this. 381 00:14:42,590 --> 00:14:44,258 - I like this. 382 00:14:44,341 --> 00:14:47,553 And Sammy, my favorite cousin. 383 00:14:47,636 --> 00:14:49,888 - That flawless game. - What's up? 384 00:14:49,972 --> 00:14:51,265 And then Tammy and Tran. 385 00:14:51,348 --> 00:14:53,934 Ooh, you brought some sexy cars, ladies. 386 00:14:54,018 --> 00:14:55,352 I love Tammy. 387 00:14:55,436 --> 00:14:58,772 For a female entrepreneur that's Vietnamese 388 00:14:58,856 --> 00:15:00,482 to have a McLaren... 389 00:15:00,566 --> 00:15:02,443 that's pretty badass. 390 00:15:02,526 --> 00:15:04,987 - I'm a very unconventional filmmaker, okay? 391 00:15:05,070 --> 00:15:07,615 I shoot everything with my phone, all right? 392 00:15:07,698 --> 00:15:09,325 So... Which means that you see me in my video. 393 00:15:09,408 --> 00:15:10,909 I'm jumping around, everything like that. 394 00:15:10,993 --> 00:15:12,578 So I'm gonna get really close to you, like this. 395 00:15:12,661 --> 00:15:14,580 I'm gonna go around and back up and out. 396 00:15:14,663 --> 00:15:16,457 Okay, let's do it. - I'm ready, baby. 397 00:15:16,540 --> 00:15:18,125 - All right, let's get the music rollin'. 398 00:15:18,208 --> 00:15:19,585 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 399 00:15:19,668 --> 00:15:21,962 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 400 00:15:22,046 --> 00:15:24,048 ♪ I don't care if you ready or not... ♪ 401 00:15:24,131 --> 00:15:25,549 - I don't know how much better your kick can get, but... 402 00:15:25,633 --> 00:15:26,800 - Having to kick all that ice. 403 00:15:26,884 --> 00:15:28,427 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 404 00:15:28,510 --> 00:15:31,013 - Getting into creative and becoming a producer 405 00:15:31,096 --> 00:15:32,973 is long overdue, 406 00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:35,267 because as it's said by many people-- 407 00:15:35,351 --> 00:15:36,602 that he doesn't focus, 408 00:15:36,685 --> 00:15:38,062 and he switches project to project. 409 00:15:38,145 --> 00:15:39,480 Well, bullshit. 410 00:15:39,563 --> 00:15:41,607 It's because you're telling him what to do. 411 00:15:41,690 --> 00:15:45,444 I think that he can focus when he wants to focus. 412 00:15:45,527 --> 00:15:46,612 I'm rooting for him. 413 00:15:46,695 --> 00:15:50,366 - Follow me, okay? All right. 414 00:15:50,449 --> 00:15:53,827 Let's go. [laughter] 415 00:15:53,911 --> 00:15:55,329 - Dude, that's a tough kick, man. 416 00:15:55,412 --> 00:15:56,747 - Hey, thank you, guys. Thank you, guys. 417 00:15:56,830 --> 00:15:58,499 You guys were fucking all amazing. 418 00:15:58,582 --> 00:16:00,501 - Thank you. - Thank you, guys. Thank you. 419 00:16:00,584 --> 00:16:03,170 [upbeat music] 420 00:16:03,253 --> 00:16:04,505 - What about the octopus? 421 00:16:04,588 --> 00:16:06,340 - We're gonna grill it on the grill. 422 00:16:06,423 --> 00:16:07,800 So I was serious earlier 423 00:16:07,883 --> 00:16:09,760 about, like, I really want more time at home. 424 00:16:09,843 --> 00:16:12,554 I mean, right now I'm just working like crazy year round. 425 00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:13,972 I just don't like it. 426 00:16:14,056 --> 00:16:15,599 - I thought the plan was after the baby, 427 00:16:15,683 --> 00:16:17,184 I go back to work, I become the breadwinner, 428 00:16:17,267 --> 00:16:19,019 you stay home with the kids. - I would do that. 429 00:16:19,103 --> 00:16:20,688 - You would do that? - Yeah. 430 00:16:20,771 --> 00:16:22,398 - You wouldn't feel less of a man? 431 00:16:22,481 --> 00:16:23,774 - Why would I feel less of a man? 432 00:16:23,857 --> 00:16:26,610 - [laughs] I don't know. [pan sizzling] 433 00:16:26,694 --> 00:16:28,570 After Nate's tragedy, 434 00:16:28,654 --> 00:16:31,323 his one regret was that he had spent more time 435 00:16:31,407 --> 00:16:33,033 with his children and less time working. 436 00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:36,036 When our baby arrives, his goal is to work less 437 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,122 and to spend more time with the baby. 438 00:16:38,205 --> 00:16:40,040 It'd be hard to do that in this house, though, right? 439 00:16:40,124 --> 00:16:42,418 I feel like we'd have to... - Because of your dad? 440 00:16:42,501 --> 00:16:45,045 - Move or... - Oh, in this house. 441 00:16:45,129 --> 00:16:46,547 - Downsize a little bit. 442 00:16:46,630 --> 00:16:48,882 Would you be opposed to that? - No. 443 00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:50,926 - What is this in the toaster oven? 444 00:16:51,009 --> 00:16:52,845 - It's a shrimp. I was gonna put shrimp on top. 445 00:16:52,928 --> 00:16:55,514 What do you think? - Hello. Hello. Anybody home? 446 00:16:55,597 --> 00:16:57,307 - Hi, Dad. - Hey. 447 00:16:57,391 --> 00:16:58,809 - What you doing? - Cooking. 448 00:16:58,892 --> 00:17:00,561 - We're just cooking. - [speaks Vietnamese] 449 00:17:00,644 --> 00:17:03,397 You want to eat some? - Thank you, but I ate already. 450 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,482 I just walked around, exercised. 451 00:17:05,566 --> 00:17:07,192 - Well, good. - And I saw your car. 452 00:17:07,276 --> 00:17:09,945 And so I go home, picked up some paperwork 453 00:17:10,028 --> 00:17:11,572 and some document and bring them to you. 454 00:17:11,655 --> 00:17:12,906 - Oh. 455 00:17:12,990 --> 00:17:14,658 - Remember the day we talk about the house? 456 00:17:14,742 --> 00:17:15,993 - Yes. 457 00:17:16,076 --> 00:17:18,412 - I brought to you the deed and the title. 458 00:17:18,495 --> 00:17:20,247 That's yours. 459 00:17:21,749 --> 00:17:24,334 - After Binh heard that we may be moving to London, 460 00:17:24,418 --> 00:17:27,629 he made me an offer that I couldn't refuse. 461 00:17:27,713 --> 00:17:29,131 - That belong to you. 462 00:17:29,214 --> 00:17:31,008 - He says, "Hey, we'll give you a house 463 00:17:31,091 --> 00:17:32,593 at a huge discount." 464 00:17:32,676 --> 00:17:34,762 - 'Cause you know his goal has always been to keep us 465 00:17:34,845 --> 00:17:37,014 as close to him as possible. 466 00:17:41,143 --> 00:17:43,145 We haven't really decided 467 00:17:43,228 --> 00:17:46,064 on what we're gonna do the house. 468 00:17:46,148 --> 00:17:47,524 - What make you hesitate? 469 00:17:47,608 --> 00:17:50,152 [dramatic music] 470 00:17:50,235 --> 00:17:51,445 - Uh... 471 00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:53,989 - Tell me. We can work it out. 472 00:17:54,072 --> 00:17:56,950 ♪ ♪ 473 00:17:57,034 --> 00:18:01,789 - The house--even though your very generous offer, 474 00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:03,165 it's still... - Mm-hmm. 475 00:18:03,248 --> 00:18:05,292 - Very expensive to live here, 476 00:18:05,375 --> 00:18:07,628 and, you know, we just want to be independent 477 00:18:07,711 --> 00:18:09,254 and to do it on our own. 478 00:18:10,798 --> 00:18:13,050 - That's great. 479 00:18:13,133 --> 00:18:16,220 - So I know that you said that we could sell the house. 480 00:18:16,303 --> 00:18:17,679 - Yes. - But-- 481 00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:20,265 - You can walk out and tell what you want to do. 482 00:18:20,349 --> 00:18:22,768 - I think you say that, but if we actually did it, 483 00:18:22,851 --> 00:18:24,645 it would be a lot more complicated. 484 00:18:24,728 --> 00:18:26,480 - What mean, "complicated"? 485 00:18:26,563 --> 00:18:29,149 - I don't think we could just list the house and sell it. 486 00:18:29,233 --> 00:18:31,819 - I suggest you better wait for your baby. 487 00:18:31,902 --> 00:18:33,195 You know... - Yes. 488 00:18:33,278 --> 00:18:35,322 - It come, and let's see what's going on. 489 00:18:35,405 --> 00:18:36,824 Up to you, huh? 490 00:18:36,907 --> 00:18:39,409 I think I can give you 491 00:18:39,493 --> 00:18:41,119 a better offer-- how about that? 492 00:18:41,203 --> 00:18:43,330 - I think the offer you gave is very generous already. 493 00:18:43,413 --> 00:18:45,749 - It's really good, and, you know, we just want to-- 494 00:18:45,833 --> 00:18:50,337 - We appreciate the offer. We very much do. 495 00:18:50,420 --> 00:18:53,006 - But right now I know you cost you about-- 496 00:18:53,090 --> 00:18:55,509 You know, three kids to go to private school, 497 00:18:55,592 --> 00:18:58,011 cost you around 100,000 a year, right? 498 00:18:58,095 --> 00:18:59,763 - Mm-hmm. - Right. 499 00:18:59,847 --> 00:19:03,141 - That--I think that big money for you... 500 00:19:03,225 --> 00:19:04,393 - Mm-hmm. - Right. 501 00:19:04,476 --> 00:19:06,144 - Beside the house. - Right. 502 00:19:06,228 --> 00:19:09,857 - So how about I take that bill 503 00:19:09,940 --> 00:19:11,650 and take care my grandbaby 504 00:19:11,733 --> 00:19:14,027 for school, private school, and tutor. 505 00:19:14,111 --> 00:19:16,822 So you don't have to pay for it--I'll pay for it. 506 00:19:16,905 --> 00:19:18,490 You can take care of the house. 507 00:19:18,574 --> 00:19:20,617 - But if we moved to a house that was less expensive, 508 00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,704 then we could afford the kids' school and tutor. 509 00:19:23,787 --> 00:19:28,500 - Yes, that's true, but I want to be close to my grandbaby. 510 00:19:28,584 --> 00:19:30,711 - I would rather you spend your money freely 511 00:19:30,794 --> 00:19:32,212 and not have to worry about us. 512 00:19:32,296 --> 00:19:35,299 - I got enough of this money to spend already, 513 00:19:35,382 --> 00:19:36,925 but I prefer you stay here 514 00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:40,846 because I can help you whatever you need me. 515 00:19:40,929 --> 00:19:42,806 - For me, it's like "The Godfather" 516 00:19:42,890 --> 00:19:44,433 I'm trying to get out, 517 00:19:44,516 --> 00:19:48,186 but, somehow, I keep getting pulled back in 518 00:19:48,270 --> 00:19:49,938 every single time. 519 00:19:50,022 --> 00:19:53,984 ♪ ♪ 520 00:19:54,067 --> 00:19:55,944 - Okay, think it. Let me know, okay? 521 00:19:56,028 --> 00:19:59,740 Whatever you want. - We will think about it. 522 00:19:59,823 --> 00:20:02,784 [upbeat hip-hop music] 523 00:20:02,868 --> 00:20:07,247 ♪ ♪ 524 00:20:07,331 --> 00:20:09,207 - ♪ He keep movin' like he never gonna stop ♪ 525 00:20:09,291 --> 00:20:10,792 ♪ Gotta get it poppin'... ♪ - Ooh. 526 00:20:10,876 --> 00:20:14,588 - Oh. - One, zero. 527 00:20:14,671 --> 00:20:17,591 - ♪ Never gonna stop, never, never gonna stop ♪ 528 00:20:17,674 --> 00:20:19,259 - Oh. - That was out, girl. 529 00:20:19,343 --> 00:20:20,969 - It was out of bounds! - It was out. 530 00:20:21,053 --> 00:20:22,596 - I know, but you hit it, so now it's on-- 531 00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:23,972 - Two, zero. - It's over the net. 532 00:20:24,056 --> 00:20:25,474 - Wait, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa. 533 00:20:25,557 --> 00:20:27,017 Where are these zeros coming from? 534 00:20:27,100 --> 00:20:29,937 Lesley is 100% super competitive. 535 00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:32,230 Okay. - Going down! 536 00:20:32,314 --> 00:20:33,899 - Downtown. - Out. Out. 537 00:20:33,982 --> 00:20:35,192 - That was an ace, motherfuckers. 538 00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:36,944 - Ace. - [laughs] 539 00:20:37,027 --> 00:20:38,278 She was most definitely cheating. 540 00:20:38,362 --> 00:20:39,821 No one knows the rules. 541 00:20:39,905 --> 00:20:42,199 I don't even know if we were playing the correct game. 542 00:20:42,282 --> 00:20:43,742 We were just hitting the ball back and forth. 543 00:20:43,825 --> 00:20:45,494 Did you guys play any sports growing up? 544 00:20:45,577 --> 00:20:46,828 - No, I didn't. 545 00:20:46,912 --> 00:20:48,956 My mom said it would give me broad shoulders. 546 00:20:49,039 --> 00:20:51,750 Watch. - I'm watching. 547 00:20:51,833 --> 00:20:54,127 - Ooh. [both screaming] 548 00:20:54,211 --> 00:20:57,005 - That was a slice with a big, fat knife. 549 00:20:57,089 --> 00:20:58,465 - Oh, gosh. - [laughs] 550 00:20:58,548 --> 00:21:00,926 She just likes to win. - Hell, yeah, I do. 551 00:21:01,009 --> 00:21:03,470 If I was to rate myself from one to ten, 552 00:21:03,553 --> 00:21:05,973 I'm 100 when it comes to my competitiveness. 553 00:21:06,056 --> 00:21:08,308 I hate losing. I hate the feeling of losing. 554 00:21:08,392 --> 00:21:11,311 I'm not a loser. I'm a winner. 555 00:21:11,395 --> 00:21:13,188 Yeah. - [screams] 556 00:21:13,271 --> 00:21:14,815 - Oh. That was out. - That was out. 557 00:21:14,898 --> 00:21:16,024 - Did you even look? 558 00:21:16,108 --> 00:21:18,402 - I think that's game and point. 559 00:21:18,485 --> 00:21:21,488 I did not cheat. I'm a very fair person. 560 00:21:21,571 --> 00:21:22,739 - So that was intense. 561 00:21:22,823 --> 00:21:23,991 - I'm just a competitive person. 562 00:21:24,074 --> 00:21:25,158 - Really? - Did you like 563 00:21:25,242 --> 00:21:26,576 the feeling of losing? - Oh. 564 00:21:26,660 --> 00:21:28,078 - Oh, should we play again? - Yeah. 565 00:21:28,161 --> 00:21:29,830 - You want to play again? - You're going down. 566 00:21:29,913 --> 00:21:31,498 - You seemed like you were trying to get some anger out 567 00:21:31,581 --> 00:21:33,083 or something-- like, so stressed. 568 00:21:33,166 --> 00:21:34,459 - Yeah, Chrissy knows me. 569 00:21:34,543 --> 00:21:36,378 So my mom called. She's coming into town. 570 00:21:36,461 --> 00:21:37,504 - Yeah. - She's coming to visit. 571 00:21:37,587 --> 00:21:38,505 - It's great. - Wow. 572 00:21:38,588 --> 00:21:39,840 - I've been stressed out 573 00:21:39,923 --> 00:21:42,092 because our marriage is just so hard 574 00:21:42,175 --> 00:21:43,927 and my mom just sees nothing but bad. 575 00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:47,014 It's like the last time she was here was at Lincoln's baptism, 576 00:21:47,097 --> 00:21:49,641 and Wash was still drinking at the time. 577 00:21:49,725 --> 00:21:52,561 He was in his boxers, smoking in bed, 578 00:21:52,644 --> 00:21:55,105 like, when she came, and she could smell it down the hall. 579 00:21:55,188 --> 00:21:57,357 And, you know, she's like, "Does he think I'm stupid? 580 00:21:57,441 --> 00:21:58,692 "Does he think I don't have a nose? 581 00:21:58,775 --> 00:22:00,193 Like, I know what that is." 582 00:22:00,277 --> 00:22:02,320 And, you know, I'm trying to make excuses for him. 583 00:22:02,404 --> 00:22:04,364 - Yeah. - I think you both have evolved 584 00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:06,742 since the last time your mom was here, I'm sure. 585 00:22:06,825 --> 00:22:09,286 - I mean, you know, Wash is better. 586 00:22:09,369 --> 00:22:10,704 He's sober now. 587 00:22:10,787 --> 00:22:12,289 I keep telling him, like, this is probably 588 00:22:12,372 --> 00:22:13,540 the best we've been. 589 00:22:13,623 --> 00:22:14,833 - That's great. - That's good. 590 00:22:14,916 --> 00:22:16,084 - Yeah. - But it's not, like, 591 00:22:16,168 --> 00:22:18,628 where I want us to be, you know? 592 00:22:18,712 --> 00:22:20,047 Like, he lost his job. 593 00:22:20,130 --> 00:22:21,965 He's trying to find himself in life. 594 00:22:22,049 --> 00:22:24,885 I didn't even tell her that he's wanting to do music now. 595 00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:28,180 I don't talk to my mom about marriage problems, 596 00:22:28,263 --> 00:22:30,682 mostly because her and Washington 597 00:22:30,766 --> 00:22:34,895 didn't start off with the best relationship. 598 00:22:34,978 --> 00:22:37,522 I feel like they're always walking on eggshells 599 00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:38,899 with each other, 600 00:22:38,982 --> 00:22:40,525 so I sheltered my mom from a lot of that, 601 00:22:40,609 --> 00:22:42,819 and I didn't want her to resent him. 602 00:22:42,903 --> 00:22:44,404 What am I supposed to tell her? 603 00:22:44,488 --> 00:22:46,406 Like, I mean, all of a sudden, he wants to be a rapper. 604 00:22:46,490 --> 00:22:48,158 - You tell her the truth. - Tell her the truth. 605 00:22:48,241 --> 00:22:50,077 And, like, if she has that reaction, 606 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,745 that's the correct reaction. 607 00:22:51,828 --> 00:22:53,914 [dramatic music] 608 00:22:53,997 --> 00:22:55,916 - My mom has always been supportive of me. 609 00:22:55,999 --> 00:22:58,502 She's always, like, hoping for the best, 610 00:22:58,585 --> 00:23:02,756 but, you know, she wasn't happy when I was dating him, 611 00:23:02,839 --> 00:23:04,174 and she just knew-- 612 00:23:04,257 --> 00:23:06,676 Like, when I met him, he was still partying. 613 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,596 She was like, "I don't know if he's ready to settle down." 614 00:23:09,679 --> 00:23:11,389 Now he wants to do music? 615 00:23:11,473 --> 00:23:13,266 Like, it's inspired by Kanye West. 616 00:23:13,350 --> 00:23:14,976 - Do you think it's, like, a good thing or a bad thing? 617 00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:17,813 Because, you know, Kim ended up divorcing Kanye. 618 00:23:17,896 --> 00:23:20,190 ♪ ♪ 619 00:23:20,273 --> 00:23:23,026 Like, are you willing to be with him 620 00:23:23,110 --> 00:23:24,945 knowing that he might not ever change, 621 00:23:25,028 --> 00:23:27,823 he's gonna be the same exact way that he is right now? 622 00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:32,661 [soft music] 623 00:23:32,744 --> 00:23:36,957 ♪ ♪ 624 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,209 - The trees are amazing. - Yeah. 625 00:23:39,292 --> 00:23:42,254 You know what this would be a nice setting for? 626 00:23:42,337 --> 00:23:44,589 - A murder mystery. No. - No? 627 00:23:44,673 --> 00:23:46,633 Like, a low-key kind of wedding. 628 00:23:46,716 --> 00:23:49,469 I mean, it's either this or courthouse. 629 00:23:49,553 --> 00:23:51,346 But, remember, we were talking about eloping 630 00:23:51,429 --> 00:23:53,932 and just kind of doing it on our own terms? 631 00:23:54,015 --> 00:23:56,268 The day we decide to get married... 632 00:23:56,351 --> 00:23:58,061 - Uh-huh. - I just want to make sure 633 00:23:58,145 --> 00:24:01,648 that it's me and you and that we have the right intentions 634 00:24:01,731 --> 00:24:03,608 and that we're husband and wife. 635 00:24:03,692 --> 00:24:05,735 - Well, you know, I'm just worried about... 636 00:24:05,819 --> 00:24:07,821 [sighs] What our family would think. 637 00:24:07,904 --> 00:24:10,157 - Can they really be mad if we went to the courthouse 638 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,659 and got a piece of paper notarized? 639 00:24:12,742 --> 00:24:14,744 - You wouldn't think they couldn't be mad, 640 00:24:14,828 --> 00:24:16,663 but I've seen them get mad at weird stuff. 641 00:24:16,746 --> 00:24:18,290 [laughter] 642 00:24:18,373 --> 00:24:21,209 I mean, they get upset at us moving and living our life. 643 00:24:21,293 --> 00:24:23,128 They get upset for us getting engaged 644 00:24:23,211 --> 00:24:25,005 without talking, you know? 645 00:24:25,088 --> 00:24:29,467 You're not worried about, like, what your dad would say? 646 00:24:29,551 --> 00:24:31,928 ♪ ♪ 647 00:24:32,012 --> 00:24:33,722 - I think we're already having a baby. 648 00:24:33,805 --> 00:24:35,724 What's getting married at this point? 649 00:24:35,807 --> 00:24:36,975 [laughs] 650 00:24:37,058 --> 00:24:38,560 Nate, he's such a nice guy. 651 00:24:38,643 --> 00:24:41,605 He doesn't want to cause any waves. 652 00:24:41,688 --> 00:24:43,523 At the same time, I think he's forgetting, 653 00:24:43,607 --> 00:24:45,525 you know, everything that I've been through. 654 00:24:45,609 --> 00:24:48,153 It's very easy to get caught up in this family 655 00:24:48,236 --> 00:24:50,488 and making sure everyone else is happy. 656 00:24:50,572 --> 00:24:52,782 - I think the issue is if we don't tell him. 657 00:24:52,866 --> 00:24:54,492 Like, he likes to know what's going on. 658 00:24:54,576 --> 00:24:56,745 - Yeah, but then I feel like if we open it up to him, 659 00:24:56,828 --> 00:24:58,288 that's when he's gonna be like, 660 00:24:58,371 --> 00:25:00,540 "I want this person there and that person there." 661 00:25:00,624 --> 00:25:03,376 And you know what I mean? It turns into a whole debacle. 662 00:25:03,460 --> 00:25:06,296 I feel like the last thing that my dad wants for me 663 00:25:06,379 --> 00:25:07,631 is to be independent. 664 00:25:07,714 --> 00:25:10,383 It is what it is, and I don't care anymore. 665 00:25:10,467 --> 00:25:11,927 I've evolved. 666 00:25:12,010 --> 00:25:14,054 - So what family members would you want to have there? 667 00:25:14,137 --> 00:25:15,055 - Reagan. 668 00:25:15,138 --> 00:25:16,890 - Just Reagan? - Yep. 669 00:25:16,973 --> 00:25:20,101 I just feel the closest to him amongst my siblings, 670 00:25:20,185 --> 00:25:21,603 'cause I only have two. - Yeah. 671 00:25:21,686 --> 00:25:23,021 - [laughs] 672 00:25:23,104 --> 00:25:24,731 'Cause I feel like if Wash was there, 673 00:25:24,814 --> 00:25:27,234 he would turn it into, like, a speech about himself. 674 00:25:27,317 --> 00:25:30,195 Reagan always comes through for me when it really counts, 675 00:25:30,278 --> 00:25:32,239 so that means a lot to me. 676 00:25:32,322 --> 00:25:34,741 You know, he doesn't show up often, but when he does, 677 00:25:34,824 --> 00:25:37,661 it's, you know, because his heart is in the right place. 678 00:25:37,744 --> 00:25:39,579 - Yeah. - And I very much 679 00:25:39,663 --> 00:25:41,456 appreciate that about Reagan. 680 00:25:41,539 --> 00:25:43,875 Everything he does is very sincere. 681 00:25:43,959 --> 00:25:46,670 - Right, and now I'm his favorite brother, 682 00:25:46,753 --> 00:25:48,964 so that's good. [laughter] 683 00:25:49,047 --> 00:25:50,340 - As much as it annoys me 684 00:25:50,423 --> 00:25:52,425 that everyone wants to have an opinion 685 00:25:52,509 --> 00:25:54,261 about what we're doing with our lives... 686 00:25:54,344 --> 00:25:55,428 - Yeah. - I don't care. 687 00:25:55,512 --> 00:25:56,972 I'm gonna do whatever I want. 688 00:25:57,055 --> 00:25:59,099 I think I want to move forward with the elopement. 689 00:25:59,182 --> 00:26:00,600 - Wow. That's one way to do it. 690 00:26:00,684 --> 00:26:03,061 But that's a lot of pressure. 691 00:26:03,144 --> 00:26:05,146 - [sighs] 692 00:26:05,230 --> 00:26:07,649 [electronic music] 693 00:26:07,732 --> 00:26:10,068 - ♪ Take a breath, let it go ♪ 694 00:26:10,151 --> 00:26:14,072 ♪ There's a spark inside, I can feel it ♪ 695 00:26:14,155 --> 00:26:15,782 ♪ I'm alive, I'm alive ♪ 696 00:26:15,865 --> 00:26:17,450 - I heard you're from San Francisco. 697 00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:19,119 - Yeah. I'm originally from here. 698 00:26:19,202 --> 00:26:21,538 - Oh, me too. - Okay. 699 00:26:21,621 --> 00:26:23,790 When did you-- Did you live in the Bay Area? 700 00:26:23,873 --> 00:26:25,292 - I went to Berkeley. - Okay. 701 00:26:25,375 --> 00:26:27,419 - So I lived in the Bay Area for a little bit. 702 00:26:27,502 --> 00:26:28,962 - Okay. 703 00:26:29,045 --> 00:26:31,464 - And then I lived in SF, and then I moved back recently. 704 00:26:31,548 --> 00:26:33,675 When I first moved to Houston, there was no way 705 00:26:33,758 --> 00:26:35,844 anyone could convince me to go on a blind date. 706 00:26:35,927 --> 00:26:36,970 - I'm a little nervous. 707 00:26:37,053 --> 00:26:38,513 I'm not gonna lie. [laughs] 708 00:26:38,596 --> 00:26:39,764 - Oh, I haven't been on a date in five years. 709 00:26:39,848 --> 00:26:40,807 I don't know what to say. 710 00:26:40,890 --> 00:26:42,225 Yeah. - [laughs] 711 00:26:42,309 --> 00:26:44,269 - I'm very awkward, and I'm very introverted, 712 00:26:44,352 --> 00:26:45,520 so this is a lot. 713 00:26:45,603 --> 00:26:47,856 The fact that Lesley vetted the person 714 00:26:47,939 --> 00:26:50,775 to make sure he wasn't, like, a serial killer or something, 715 00:26:50,859 --> 00:26:53,069 like, made me feel a lot better about it. 716 00:26:53,153 --> 00:26:54,487 - Have you been here before? 717 00:26:54,571 --> 00:26:56,323 - No, but I heard that their espresso martinis 718 00:26:56,406 --> 00:26:57,741 are really good. - Oh, really? 719 00:26:57,824 --> 00:26:59,284 - Not that you drink espresso martinis. 720 00:26:59,367 --> 00:27:00,869 I think it's a girl drink, but... 721 00:27:00,952 --> 00:27:02,912 - It's okay. Well, there's no shamin', you know. 722 00:27:02,996 --> 00:27:05,874 - Kim doesn't know we're here, but what does she expect? 723 00:27:05,957 --> 00:27:08,084 I'm nosy. You know, it's, like, my baby cousin. 724 00:27:08,168 --> 00:27:09,919 You know, I love her, and I want to make sure 725 00:27:10,003 --> 00:27:11,671 she's okay and she's having fun. 726 00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:14,215 And if I need to step in there for some reason or another, 727 00:27:14,299 --> 00:27:16,468 I'm willing to, like, dive in there. 728 00:27:16,551 --> 00:27:18,887 - Wow. - Thank you. 729 00:27:18,970 --> 00:27:21,097 - Yeah, some more. - Oh, can I see your ankles? 730 00:27:21,181 --> 00:27:22,390 - My ankles? 731 00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:23,975 - I know it's a really weird request, 732 00:27:24,059 --> 00:27:25,352 but can I see your ankles? 733 00:27:25,435 --> 00:27:26,978 - Yeah, I mean-- - No, ankle monitor. 734 00:27:27,062 --> 00:27:28,521 - No. - Your ankles are fine. 735 00:27:28,605 --> 00:27:31,358 All right. That's good. - Is that, like--Okay. 736 00:27:31,441 --> 00:27:33,943 both: Cheers. [glasses clink] 737 00:27:34,027 --> 00:27:35,320 - Thank you. 738 00:27:35,403 --> 00:27:37,322 - Would you like to try some food or... 739 00:27:37,405 --> 00:27:39,074 - Sure. - Is he cutting it for her? 740 00:27:39,157 --> 00:27:40,742 - He's cutting it for her. He's cutting it for her. 741 00:27:40,825 --> 00:27:43,495 - This is a lot of cheese. I'm lactose intolerant. 742 00:27:43,578 --> 00:27:45,205 - Miss I'm Not Gonna Order Food Before My Date. 743 00:27:45,288 --> 00:27:46,539 - I'm not gonna eat anything at all. 744 00:27:46,623 --> 00:27:48,750 - Is the meat stuck in my teeth? 745 00:27:48,833 --> 00:27:50,293 I think it's going good. 746 00:27:50,377 --> 00:27:52,712 For someone who says that she doesn't order food 747 00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:54,464 on dates because she's worried 748 00:27:54,547 --> 00:27:55,840 that food's gonna get stuck in her teeth... 749 00:27:55,924 --> 00:27:57,634 - [mouth full] Can I get a napkin? 750 00:27:57,717 --> 00:28:00,220 - She sure looked good eating that charcuterie board. 751 00:28:00,303 --> 00:28:02,055 - I feel like-- Do you have, like, a tiger dad? 752 00:28:02,138 --> 00:28:04,224 Or, like, also, a tiger mom, too? 753 00:28:04,307 --> 00:28:06,393 - They're, like, tiger in a sense where 754 00:28:06,476 --> 00:28:08,978 they wanted me to be, like, a perfect wife 755 00:28:09,062 --> 00:28:10,605 but not, like, a perfect student. 756 00:28:10,688 --> 00:28:12,232 - Do you speak Vietnamese at home? 757 00:28:12,315 --> 00:28:13,900 - Yeah, I can read and write it. 758 00:28:13,983 --> 00:28:15,902 - I wouldn't even dare try to, like, butcher Vietnamese 759 00:28:15,985 --> 00:28:17,404 because of the intonations. 760 00:28:17,487 --> 00:28:18,905 Do you want to have kids or get married-- 761 00:28:18,988 --> 00:28:20,198 - I do want to have kids. 762 00:28:20,281 --> 00:28:22,450 Like, maybe not anytime soon, I think. 763 00:28:22,534 --> 00:28:23,827 - We're talking about kids. - Shh. 764 00:28:23,910 --> 00:28:25,161 - They're talking about kids? 765 00:28:25,245 --> 00:28:26,746 I mean, it sounds like they're planning 766 00:28:26,830 --> 00:28:28,790 their whole life together, and I heard giggling. 767 00:28:28,873 --> 00:28:30,542 - [laughs] 768 00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:32,669 - I should start, like, a matchmaking service. 769 00:28:32,752 --> 00:28:33,711 Just saying. 770 00:28:33,795 --> 00:28:35,004 - I'd love to hang out. 771 00:28:35,088 --> 00:28:37,799 - I'll give you my number. - Okay. 772 00:28:37,882 --> 00:28:40,301 Oh, hey. I think your family's here. 773 00:28:40,385 --> 00:28:43,012 - [laughs] How's it going over there? 774 00:28:43,096 --> 00:28:44,889 - Do you recognize them? They're waving at you. 775 00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:46,850 - Yes. They're my cousins. - Your cousins are here? 776 00:28:46,933 --> 00:28:48,935 - Yeah. They're not supposed to be here. 777 00:28:49,018 --> 00:28:50,061 - Hi. [laughs] 778 00:28:50,145 --> 00:28:51,312 - Hi. - I'm Jordan. 779 00:28:51,396 --> 00:28:54,315 - I'm Bella. - Nice to meet you. 780 00:28:54,399 --> 00:28:57,444 - I was not expecting Lesley and Bella 781 00:28:57,527 --> 00:29:00,196 to kind of sneak in and spy on my date. 782 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,740 I probably definitely would've been more awkward 783 00:29:02,824 --> 00:29:04,742 if I knew that they were sitting behind me 784 00:29:04,826 --> 00:29:06,244 'cause I feel like they would've made fun of me 785 00:29:06,327 --> 00:29:07,620 or something after. - Hey, you two. 786 00:29:07,704 --> 00:29:09,122 - How long have y'all been here? 787 00:29:09,205 --> 00:29:10,832 [chuckles] - The entire time. 788 00:29:16,546 --> 00:29:17,964 - I feel like I'm being grilled by-- 789 00:29:18,047 --> 00:29:19,716 - No, no, no, no. - Oh, you are being grilled. 790 00:29:19,799 --> 00:29:21,092 See? She's nice about it. 791 00:29:21,176 --> 00:29:22,677 - I don't know want you to think that. 792 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,304 - I'm not grilling you. It's nothing personal. 793 00:29:24,387 --> 00:29:25,680 - No. - I mean, I am grilling you, 794 00:29:25,763 --> 00:29:27,307 but it's not personal towards you. 795 00:29:27,390 --> 00:29:28,808 It's just... - With love. 796 00:29:28,892 --> 00:29:30,435 - She's my best friend. - Yeah, with love. 797 00:29:30,518 --> 00:29:32,145 - So I hope we didn't make you too uncomfortable. 798 00:29:32,228 --> 00:29:33,480 - I know. - I'm uncomfortable. 799 00:29:33,563 --> 00:29:34,939 - I don't care if you're uncomfortable. 800 00:29:35,023 --> 00:29:36,483 - I think we're both being a little bit 801 00:29:36,566 --> 00:29:38,026 introverted right now. both: Aw. 802 00:29:38,109 --> 00:29:39,861 - I had very low expectations coming into it, 803 00:29:39,944 --> 00:29:41,946 but I genuinely had a good time, 804 00:29:42,030 --> 00:29:44,282 and we're gonna go on a second date 805 00:29:44,365 --> 00:29:45,742 without any of you guys. 806 00:29:45,825 --> 00:29:47,660 - It's good to meet y'all. - It's good to meet you. 807 00:29:47,744 --> 00:29:49,370 - I'll text you when I'm back. - Okay. 808 00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:50,914 - We'll see you on that next date. 809 00:29:50,997 --> 00:29:52,874 [laughing] Just kidding. - Shh. 810 00:29:52,957 --> 00:29:55,919 [upbeat music] 811 00:29:56,002 --> 00:30:02,884 ♪ ♪ 812 00:30:02,967 --> 00:30:06,012 - Honey? - What? 813 00:30:06,095 --> 00:30:08,848 - You ready? My parents are about to pull up. 814 00:30:08,932 --> 00:30:10,141 - Fuck. 815 00:30:10,225 --> 00:30:12,060 - They're gonna be here any minute. 816 00:30:12,143 --> 00:30:14,604 - What do you want me to do? - Come down here. 817 00:30:14,687 --> 00:30:16,856 ♪ ♪ 818 00:30:16,940 --> 00:30:18,942 - [sighs] 819 00:30:19,025 --> 00:30:20,944 - Okay, come. [claps hands] 820 00:30:21,027 --> 00:30:23,530 - What? - Okay. Glasses off. 821 00:30:23,613 --> 00:30:25,365 Okay. I need you to focus. 822 00:30:25,448 --> 00:30:27,700 Okay, so, when they come, I want you to greet them, 823 00:30:27,784 --> 00:30:29,202 like, bow. 824 00:30:32,789 --> 00:30:35,625 Make sure you say good morning, good afternoon, good night. 825 00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:38,836 Ask her if she wants anything, needs coffee. 826 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,506 Smile. Always smiling, okay? 827 00:30:41,589 --> 00:30:43,383 - Yeah. - And just act more mature. 828 00:30:43,466 --> 00:30:46,135 Make sure you bring the luggage upstairs for them. 829 00:30:46,219 --> 00:30:47,178 Okay? 830 00:30:47,262 --> 00:30:49,138 - So basically just act like 831 00:30:49,222 --> 00:30:51,516 a bell captain at a hotel? 832 00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:53,101 - Yes. 833 00:30:53,184 --> 00:30:55,228 They're our guests, okay? - [sighs] 834 00:30:55,311 --> 00:30:58,231 - Last time she was here, you were going around in boxers. 835 00:30:58,314 --> 00:30:59,774 Your wee-wee was hanging out. 836 00:30:59,857 --> 00:31:02,527 And I had to hear an earful the next day from my mom, 837 00:31:02,610 --> 00:31:05,405 so let's not have that happen again, okay? 838 00:31:05,488 --> 00:31:08,908 Fully clothed would be nice, okay? 839 00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:11,786 - I'm going commando today. - No, don't. 840 00:31:13,580 --> 00:31:15,290 - You have so many rules. 841 00:31:15,373 --> 00:31:17,917 It's not like I want to drive her mom nuts, 842 00:31:18,001 --> 00:31:21,254 but subconsciously I kind of do 843 00:31:21,337 --> 00:31:23,840 because I don't know anyone that travels 844 00:31:23,923 --> 00:31:25,383 to someone else's house 845 00:31:25,466 --> 00:31:27,927 and then makes up rules for them on how to live. 846 00:31:28,011 --> 00:31:31,055 Like, I think that's blasphemous. 847 00:31:31,139 --> 00:31:34,142 - Make sure you talk to my mom in a respectful way. 848 00:31:34,225 --> 00:31:35,268 - Bow down. 849 00:31:35,351 --> 00:31:37,312 [speaking Vietnamese] 850 00:31:37,395 --> 00:31:39,355 - No jokes. - No jokes. 851 00:31:39,439 --> 00:31:41,983 - Don't be myself, basically. - Yes, yes. 852 00:31:42,066 --> 00:31:45,361 - Jesus Christ, you've given me more rules 853 00:31:45,445 --> 00:31:48,406 than I had when I was in day-care center. 854 00:31:48,489 --> 00:31:49,907 Jeez. 855 00:31:49,991 --> 00:31:51,492 I got to be Kanye. 856 00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:53,202 That's my-- - Shh. No, stop. 857 00:31:53,286 --> 00:31:54,287 - Oh, yeah. 858 00:31:54,370 --> 00:31:55,788 Okay, you give me ten rules, 859 00:31:55,872 --> 00:31:59,417 I'm gonna break 20 rules and see what happens. 860 00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:02,170 And here we go. 861 00:32:02,253 --> 00:32:04,464 [hip-hop music] 862 00:32:04,547 --> 00:32:06,466 - ♪ Don't be getting fresh with me ♪ 863 00:32:06,549 --> 00:32:07,967 ♪ That ain't right ♪ 864 00:32:08,051 --> 00:32:09,677 ♪ Don't be starting shit with me ♪ 865 00:32:09,761 --> 00:32:11,220 ♪ If you can't fight ♪ 866 00:32:11,304 --> 00:32:12,972 ♪ Know your place, know your role ♪ 867 00:32:13,056 --> 00:32:14,766 ♪ Fix your face, shut your hole ♪ 868 00:32:14,849 --> 00:32:16,476 ♪ Don't speak unless spoken to ♪ 869 00:32:16,559 --> 00:32:18,144 ♪ Compliment my Jimmy Choos ♪ 870 00:32:18,227 --> 00:32:19,812 ♪ I'm the head bitch in charge ♪ 871 00:32:19,896 --> 00:32:21,147 - Hi, Mom. - Hello. 872 00:32:21,230 --> 00:32:24,025 - Hi. - How are you? 873 00:32:24,108 --> 00:32:25,526 How are you guys? 874 00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:30,073 - [laughs] Don't do that. 875 00:32:30,156 --> 00:32:32,825 [laughter] 876 00:32:32,909 --> 00:32:34,827 Yeah, come over. Thank you. 877 00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:36,162 Here, let me help you. Let me help you. 878 00:32:36,245 --> 00:32:37,205 I got it. - You got it? 879 00:32:37,288 --> 00:32:38,247 - Yeah. - Okay. 880 00:32:38,331 --> 00:32:39,999 Oh, hi, Mom. 881 00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:41,501 I'm so glad you're here. 882 00:32:41,584 --> 00:32:44,212 - Oh, I missed you so much. 883 00:32:44,295 --> 00:32:47,006 - How you feel? - It's been a long time. 884 00:32:47,090 --> 00:32:49,842 You miss her? - Yes, of course. 885 00:32:49,926 --> 00:32:51,386 - You miss me? 886 00:32:53,429 --> 00:32:55,765 [laughter] 887 00:32:55,848 --> 00:32:58,059 I don't think there's any way 888 00:32:58,142 --> 00:33:01,354 that I'll ever have Lesley's mom approval. 889 00:33:01,437 --> 00:33:03,398 - Yeah, I miss you, too. - You miss me, too? 890 00:33:03,481 --> 00:33:05,692 - Just kidding. [laughter] 891 00:33:05,775 --> 00:33:07,944 - I'm never gonna be the son-in-law 892 00:33:08,027 --> 00:33:11,781 that she expects me to be, nor do I want to be. 893 00:33:11,864 --> 00:33:14,158 North Vietnamese people, they care a lot 894 00:33:14,242 --> 00:33:15,993 about what people think about them 895 00:33:16,077 --> 00:33:17,453 or what people say about them. 896 00:33:17,537 --> 00:33:19,455 Southern Vietnamese people, like our family, 897 00:33:19,539 --> 00:33:20,581 we don't give a shit. 898 00:33:20,665 --> 00:33:22,834 But happy wife, happy life, 899 00:33:22,917 --> 00:33:26,045 so I'm willing to bow down as much as I have to. 900 00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:27,130 [chuckles] 901 00:33:27,213 --> 00:33:29,298 Please, come inside. 902 00:33:29,382 --> 00:33:32,343 You want some tea, Dad? - Yes, tea, okay. 903 00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:33,344 - Okay, tea. 904 00:33:33,428 --> 00:33:34,721 - Honey? - What? 905 00:33:34,804 --> 00:33:37,056 - You want to take their luggage upstairs? 906 00:33:37,140 --> 00:33:39,767 King, my king. 907 00:33:39,851 --> 00:33:42,437 - King, I'll show you king tonight. 908 00:33:44,147 --> 00:33:45,356 [sighs] 909 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,776 - So how Wash? - Wash is good. 910 00:33:48,860 --> 00:33:51,237 He's, you know-- 911 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,740 You know, he quit drinking. - That's good. 912 00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:56,367 - Yeah, you know, so that's helped a lot. 913 00:33:57,702 --> 00:33:58,995 - They're in school right now. 914 00:33:59,078 --> 00:34:01,080 I love... [speaks Vietnamese] 915 00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:02,498 like, down the street, you know? 916 00:34:02,582 --> 00:34:04,083 I love that relationship, you know, 917 00:34:04,167 --> 00:34:07,628 and I wish, like, you're a little bit closer. 918 00:34:07,712 --> 00:34:09,797 [voice breaking] I-- - [laughs] 919 00:34:09,881 --> 00:34:13,259 - I miss home. I miss having my family. 920 00:34:13,342 --> 00:34:15,678 I know. - Don't cry. 921 00:34:15,762 --> 00:34:16,929 - [sniffles] 922 00:34:17,013 --> 00:34:19,015 You know, it's just hard here sometimes 923 00:34:19,098 --> 00:34:20,767 'cause, you know, I'm by myself. 924 00:34:20,850 --> 00:34:22,769 And... 925 00:34:22,852 --> 00:34:26,022 You know, thank you for coming. 926 00:34:26,105 --> 00:34:28,566 - So I'm cry--I'm so-- - I know, I-- 927 00:34:28,649 --> 00:34:31,277 That's where I get it from 'cause I'm a crier, too. 928 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,156 I've been going through a lot...recently. 929 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,700 With Wash having so many career changes, 930 00:34:37,784 --> 00:34:39,410 not knowing where he is in life, 931 00:34:39,494 --> 00:34:41,746 it's been a lot, so I called my mom. 932 00:34:41,829 --> 00:34:43,706 She could just hear it in my voice, you know? 933 00:34:43,790 --> 00:34:45,374 She can see right through me. 934 00:34:45,458 --> 00:34:47,960 And she came down to Houston. It wasn't for an event. 935 00:34:48,044 --> 00:34:50,379 It wasn't something that was going on. 936 00:34:50,463 --> 00:34:54,091 She actually came to just be with me. 937 00:34:55,259 --> 00:34:57,929 - Let me call him. [line trilling] 938 00:34:58,012 --> 00:35:00,306 - Yes. - Hey, honey, where are you? 939 00:35:00,389 --> 00:35:03,184 - Just up here doing some work. 940 00:35:04,393 --> 00:35:07,230 - You should come down here and hang out with my parents. 941 00:35:07,313 --> 00:35:09,774 You're on speaker. - Okay. 942 00:35:09,857 --> 00:35:11,400 - Love you. 943 00:35:11,484 --> 00:35:14,529 - Bye, my princess. - Bye. 944 00:35:16,155 --> 00:35:17,949 But he's coming down. 945 00:35:18,032 --> 00:35:20,117 - Hey. - Hey, honey. 946 00:35:24,413 --> 00:35:26,332 Right, Mom? Like-- 947 00:35:27,917 --> 00:35:29,335 - Honey. - How's your job? 948 00:35:29,418 --> 00:35:31,754 - My job? I have my car business, 949 00:35:31,838 --> 00:35:34,006 but I don't work there anymore, though. 950 00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:35,925 [dramatic note] 951 00:35:37,218 --> 00:35:38,928 My newest job 952 00:35:39,011 --> 00:35:40,888 is the most exciting job I've ever had. 953 00:35:40,972 --> 00:35:42,682 - With what? 954 00:35:42,765 --> 00:35:45,101 [smooth music] 955 00:35:45,184 --> 00:35:48,521 - I want to get in the music business. 956 00:35:48,604 --> 00:35:50,147 - Mm. 957 00:36:03,744 --> 00:36:05,371 - It's not about me singing. 958 00:36:05,454 --> 00:36:06,831 - [sighs] Wash. 959 00:36:06,914 --> 00:36:08,374 I just--I wish we had talked 960 00:36:08,457 --> 00:36:10,376 about how we were gonna tell my parents, you know? 961 00:36:10,459 --> 00:36:12,753 - Let me let you hear a little bit, okay? 962 00:36:12,837 --> 00:36:15,756 ♪ Ready? Let's show 'em what it's all about ♪ 963 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,466 ♪ Started with nothing, made a couple millions ♪ 964 00:36:17,550 --> 00:36:19,385 ♪ I told you my life already a show ♪ 965 00:36:19,468 --> 00:36:21,220 ♪ I tell them I did it, they say how much bigger ♪ 966 00:36:21,304 --> 00:36:23,181 ♪ I tell them real big because I'm a Ho ♪ 967 00:36:23,264 --> 00:36:25,558 - I would just hope to ease my mom into that 968 00:36:25,641 --> 00:36:28,394 a little bit better than just... 969 00:36:28,477 --> 00:36:33,399 you know, shoot her with it when she first came in. 970 00:36:39,697 --> 00:36:42,617 - What do you think, Dad? - It's good music. 971 00:36:42,700 --> 00:36:45,036 - Yay! - You really think that? 972 00:36:45,119 --> 00:36:46,746 - I'm so happy. 973 00:36:53,628 --> 00:36:54,921 - My mom is very polite. 974 00:36:55,004 --> 00:36:58,299 Bac Ky people, up front, very proper, 975 00:36:58,382 --> 00:37:01,427 very polite, but I know, behind closed doors, 976 00:37:01,510 --> 00:37:04,764 she's gonna ask me, "What the fuck is going on, Lesley?" 977 00:37:04,847 --> 00:37:09,268 - It's so exciting to wait for him to make the music. 978 00:37:09,352 --> 00:37:11,270 - I'm dreading being alone with her 979 00:37:11,354 --> 00:37:14,315 because I already know she's gonna tell me the truth, 980 00:37:14,398 --> 00:37:16,150 and I have to answer to that. 981 00:37:16,233 --> 00:37:17,276 Not Washington, me. 982 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,362 Really? - [laughs] 983 00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:25,701 - ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 984 00:37:25,785 --> 00:37:27,411 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 985 00:37:27,495 --> 00:37:29,246 ♪ I don't care if you're ready or not ♪ 986 00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:30,748 ♪ I'm letting you know ♪ 987 00:37:30,831 --> 00:37:32,708 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 988 00:37:32,792 --> 00:37:34,460 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 989 00:37:34,543 --> 00:37:36,671 ♪ Came from the bottom straight to the top ♪ 990 00:37:36,754 --> 00:37:37,922 ♪ I'm ready to blow ♪ 991 00:37:38,005 --> 00:37:40,091 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 992 00:37:40,174 --> 00:37:44,762 ♪ ♪ 993 00:37:44,845 --> 00:37:47,181 ♪ I'm the king of the Ho ♪ 994 00:37:47,264 --> 00:37:51,102 ♪ ♪