1 00:00:05,576 --> 00:00:09,009 - (organ music) - (plastic crinkling) 2 00:00:10,515 --> 00:00:13,552 (birds chirping) 3 00:00:34,539 --> 00:00:37,740 (quiet chatter) 4 00:00:37,740 --> 00:00:41,041 (organ playing) 5 00:00:51,890 --> 00:00:53,922 (organ continues) 6 00:00:53,922 --> 00:00:57,229 (quiet church chatter) 7 00:01:20,952 --> 00:01:23,355 - Hi. - Hi. 8 00:01:36,167 --> 00:01:38,837 (organ stops) 9 00:01:39,904 --> 00:01:41,970 Look at how many of us came here 10 00:01:41,970 --> 00:01:44,709 to celebrate a beautiful life. 11 00:01:46,410 --> 00:01:48,777 Darlene would often say, 12 00:01:48,777 --> 00:01:51,883 "Imagine a life without music." 13 00:01:53,151 --> 00:01:54,950 (soft laugh) 14 00:01:54,950 --> 00:01:57,352 I'm sure many of you would join me 15 00:01:57,352 --> 00:02:00,121 in feeling grateful for that lesson. 16 00:02:00,121 --> 00:02:02,157 As she did with many of her students, 17 00:02:02,157 --> 00:02:04,126 Darlene taught me this song. 18 00:02:04,126 --> 00:02:06,228 So I would like to invite any fellow students 19 00:02:06,228 --> 00:02:09,164 who would like to, to rise and join me in singing 20 00:02:09,164 --> 00:02:12,596 "An die Musik" by Franz Schubert. 21 00:02:12,596 --> 00:02:15,707 (cheerful piano melody) 22 00:02:18,743 --> 00:02:21,780 (people singing in German) 23 00:02:25,817 --> 00:02:28,853 (singing in German) 24 00:02:45,904 --> 00:02:48,941 (piano and singing continue) 25 00:03:04,755 --> 00:03:07,792 ♪ ♪ 26 00:03:19,337 --> 00:03:22,574 (singing ends, piano continues) 27 00:03:27,011 --> 00:03:28,647 (sniffles) 28 00:03:32,416 --> 00:03:35,654 - (sniffles) - (hushed murmuring) 29 00:03:37,155 --> 00:03:39,391 - That was beautiful. - Yeah. 30 00:03:40,959 --> 00:03:42,995 - (sniffles) - (piano ends) 31 00:03:46,097 --> 00:03:48,901 - Joel, I'm sorry. - I'm sorry, too. 32 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,232 - I miss you. - (sniffles) 33 00:03:54,406 --> 00:03:55,971 I know. (sniffles) 34 00:03:55,971 --> 00:03:58,443 - (both laugh softly) - (sniffles) 35 00:04:02,279 --> 00:04:06,714 - (quiet chatter) - (birds chirping) 36 00:04:06,714 --> 00:04:09,288 Do you ever think about who's gonna come to your funeral? 37 00:04:10,522 --> 00:04:11,786 Hm... 38 00:04:11,786 --> 00:04:14,489 Maybe my dad'll come, and then I'll finally get to meet him. 39 00:04:14,489 --> 00:04:16,158 (laughs) 'Course, I'll be dead. 40 00:04:16,158 --> 00:04:20,029 - But, he showed up. - (laughs) Yeah. 41 00:04:20,029 --> 00:04:23,831 (indistinct chatter) 42 00:04:23,831 --> 00:04:26,702 - Uh, how's the song coming? - Oh, still struggling. 43 00:04:26,702 --> 00:04:28,469 - Yeah. - (clears throat) How about you? 44 00:04:28,469 --> 00:04:30,772 How's your, uh, thing coming together? 45 00:04:30,772 --> 00:04:33,075 Well, I dumped a lot of ideas on the page, 46 00:04:33,075 --> 00:04:36,311 but I haven't figured out the beginning. 47 00:04:36,311 --> 00:04:39,282 - Or the end, or the middle. - (both laugh) 48 00:04:39,282 --> 00:04:40,349 - Hi. - Hey. 49 00:04:40,349 --> 00:04:42,450 Uh, well, if you wanted, um, 50 00:04:42,450 --> 00:04:44,414 you know, you could come over and, later, 51 00:04:44,414 --> 00:04:46,321 and we could help each other out, work on 'em together. 52 00:04:46,321 --> 00:04:48,523 - Yeah, I would totally love that. - Great. 53 00:04:48,523 --> 00:04:50,726 You can come over, too, if you want. 54 00:04:50,726 --> 00:04:53,563 Oh, thank you. I have to grade papers. 55 00:04:53,563 --> 00:04:55,296 - Oh. (soft laugh) - Brad: Um, 56 00:04:55,296 --> 00:04:58,300 I'd love for you to come by some time for dinner. 57 00:04:58,300 --> 00:05:00,439 I roast a beautiful chicken. 58 00:05:01,439 --> 00:05:03,338 Oh, yeah, well, 59 00:05:03,338 --> 00:05:05,275 - everybody loves chicken. - (soft laughter) 60 00:05:05,275 --> 00:05:07,746 (birds chirping) 61 00:05:13,250 --> 00:05:14,486 (knocking) 62 00:05:16,220 --> 00:05:17,456 (sniffles) 63 00:05:19,057 --> 00:05:20,989 (sniffs) 64 00:05:20,989 --> 00:05:23,292 - Hi. - (Joel laughs quietly) 65 00:05:23,292 --> 00:05:24,964 - Come in. - Thank you. 66 00:05:26,197 --> 00:05:27,430 I brought snacks just in case. 67 00:05:27,430 --> 00:05:29,297 Oh, well, I, um, 68 00:05:29,297 --> 00:05:31,900 - I put some snacks out just in case. - Aw. 69 00:05:31,900 --> 00:05:34,837 - I learned from the best. - Is that me? 70 00:05:34,837 --> 00:05:36,372 - Yeah. - (laughs) 71 00:05:36,372 --> 00:05:37,706 Um, do you want a drink? 72 00:05:37,706 --> 00:05:39,775 I've been working on my teeny 'tinis. 73 00:05:39,775 --> 00:05:42,706 Maybe we should do our assignments first. 74 00:05:42,706 --> 00:05:44,416 Smart. (laughs) 75 00:05:45,783 --> 00:05:49,284 You know, I was thinking about the key. 76 00:05:49,284 --> 00:05:51,352 Maybe we could transpose it to A. 77 00:05:51,352 --> 00:05:54,256 I love your voice in A. It sounds so good. 78 00:05:54,256 --> 00:05:56,561 Um... Joel? 79 00:05:58,195 --> 00:05:59,862 (deep inhale) 80 00:05:59,862 --> 00:06:02,025 Um, I'm really sorry. 81 00:06:02,025 --> 00:06:03,832 Oh, no, it's okay. We're all good. 82 00:06:03,832 --> 00:06:05,137 No... 83 00:06:07,637 --> 00:06:10,575 I just wanna-- I wanna try to say something. 84 00:06:12,977 --> 00:06:15,514 I do this... (sighs) 85 00:06:16,613 --> 00:06:19,848 I don't know, I make all these rules for people 86 00:06:19,848 --> 00:06:21,983 and, um... 87 00:06:21,983 --> 00:06:24,286 I set a lot of... 88 00:06:24,286 --> 00:06:27,026 unfair expectations, um... 89 00:06:29,827 --> 00:06:32,664 because I think it keeps me safe. 90 00:06:37,336 --> 00:06:38,971 It doesn't. 91 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,077 Um... I don't wanna do that anymore. 92 00:06:50,114 --> 00:06:51,650 And, um... 93 00:06:54,051 --> 00:06:55,184 And it's your fault. 94 00:06:55,184 --> 00:06:58,490 (laughing) 95 00:07:01,892 --> 00:07:03,128 Joel: Sam... 96 00:07:05,663 --> 00:07:08,030 - I love you. - Mm... 97 00:07:08,030 --> 00:07:09,398 Joel: D-Don't do that face. 98 00:07:09,398 --> 00:07:12,071 - Just listen to me. - (sighs) 99 00:07:13,237 --> 00:07:14,940 I love you. 100 00:07:21,807 --> 00:07:23,048 Thank you. 101 00:07:27,384 --> 00:07:30,452 You know, I think, um... 102 00:07:30,452 --> 00:07:32,757 I think Brad's a really nice guy, Joel. 103 00:07:33,791 --> 00:07:36,095 And I really am happy for you. 104 00:07:36,795 --> 00:07:38,030 I, um... 105 00:07:39,097 --> 00:07:40,896 I am. 106 00:07:40,896 --> 00:07:42,201 Thank you. 107 00:07:45,336 --> 00:07:46,636 (sniffles) 108 00:07:46,636 --> 00:07:48,569 Why'd you shave your legs? 109 00:07:48,569 --> 00:07:51,140 Oh... because I'm gonna fuck my neighbor. 110 00:07:51,140 --> 00:07:54,246 (both laughing) 111 00:07:55,447 --> 00:07:56,715 The drug dealer? 112 00:07:57,449 --> 00:07:58,847 (sniffles) Yes. 113 00:07:58,847 --> 00:08:01,616 (both laugh) 114 00:08:01,616 --> 00:08:03,652 He's probably really good in bed. 115 00:08:03,652 --> 00:08:05,721 - Oh, I hope so. - (both laugh) 116 00:08:05,721 --> 00:08:07,726 I mean, we'll see, you know? 117 00:08:08,993 --> 00:08:10,725 One thing at a time. 118 00:08:10,725 --> 00:08:13,628 First, I open my heart to you, and then I open my legs to him. 119 00:08:13,628 --> 00:08:15,630 - I guess that seems like the logical progression. - (laughs) 120 00:08:15,630 --> 00:08:18,800 So, we'll see, but I don't-- No promises. 121 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,501 First, we gotta go to this fucking wedding, 122 00:08:20,501 --> 00:08:23,273 and sing fuckin' Ave fuckin' Maria . 123 00:08:23,273 --> 00:08:25,874 (both laughing) 124 00:08:25,874 --> 00:08:29,678 ♪ ♪ 125 00:08:29,678 --> 00:08:33,014 - (birds chirping) - (cows mooing) 126 00:08:33,014 --> 00:08:35,984 (insects chirping) 127 00:08:35,984 --> 00:08:38,520 - (rooster crowing) - (breeze blowing) 128 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:40,989 - Sam: Morning! - Hey. 129 00:08:40,989 --> 00:08:42,591 Wow. You must have started the crack of dawn. 130 00:08:42,591 --> 00:08:45,360 Yeah. Been here since about 6:00. 131 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,830 - A lot to do. - So... 132 00:08:47,830 --> 00:08:49,064 Wow, what's going on here? 133 00:08:49,064 --> 00:08:51,601 Is this like the Kansas rainbow, or is it a... 134 00:08:51,601 --> 00:08:52,901 No, it's like... 135 00:08:52,901 --> 00:08:55,905 I-It's a love rainbow. It's... 136 00:08:55,905 --> 00:08:58,268 You know, thought it kinda fit the occasion. 137 00:08:58,268 --> 00:08:59,708 - It's really pretty. - You like it? 138 00:08:59,708 --> 00:09:01,613 I love it. (soft laugh) 139 00:09:03,314 --> 00:09:05,047 Oh, I have your jacket. Are you gonna get ready here 140 00:09:05,047 --> 00:09:08,150 - or somewhere else? Okay. - No, no. I'm gonna run home. 141 00:09:08,150 --> 00:09:10,956 - Get ready there... - This one goes down here towards me. 142 00:09:12,624 --> 00:09:14,357 Just so you know, 143 00:09:14,357 --> 00:09:16,058 Joel and I made up. 144 00:09:16,058 --> 00:09:17,526 - You did? - Yep. 145 00:09:17,526 --> 00:09:20,462 Oh. That's... Wow. 146 00:09:20,462 --> 00:09:22,031 "Wow" what? 147 00:09:22,031 --> 00:09:23,565 Well, I mean, you just don't, you know, 148 00:09:23,565 --> 00:09:26,906 always let people back in once they've pissed you off, so... 149 00:09:29,841 --> 00:09:32,174 - Well, I did. Okay? - Yeah. 150 00:09:32,174 --> 00:09:35,577 And he and his boyfriend are gonna pick me up 151 00:09:35,577 --> 00:09:37,312 and bring me to the wedding, so... 152 00:09:37,312 --> 00:09:38,480 Oh, okay. Yeah. I see. 153 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,216 Huh. And you're okay with that, huh? 154 00:09:40,216 --> 00:09:41,316 Yeah. 155 00:09:41,316 --> 00:09:44,620 Good. I mean, you know, you're not always... 156 00:09:44,620 --> 00:09:46,188 that great at sharing, so. 157 00:09:46,188 --> 00:09:47,690 Well, I'm mature now, so. 158 00:09:47,690 --> 00:09:49,157 Okay. Well, yeah. Look at us. 159 00:09:49,157 --> 00:09:50,762 (Sam laughs) 160 00:09:51,963 --> 00:09:54,766 And, um, what about Holly? 161 00:09:57,401 --> 00:09:58,867 What, are you still mad at her? 162 00:09:58,867 --> 00:10:02,037 I mean, you've forgiven Joel and me, I think. 163 00:10:02,037 --> 00:10:05,841 - Mm. - You know, sh-she really was gonna tell you 164 00:10:05,841 --> 00:10:08,113 when she got better. She just... 165 00:10:09,246 --> 00:10:11,283 - Didn't. - Yeah. 166 00:10:13,951 --> 00:10:14,987 It's cool. 167 00:10:16,254 --> 00:10:18,987 (sighs) Chairs or what? 168 00:10:18,987 --> 00:10:22,191 Yeah. So, each... each table gets five. 169 00:10:22,191 --> 00:10:23,295 Sam: Okay. 170 00:10:24,061 --> 00:10:27,099 ♪ ♪ 171 00:10:33,104 --> 00:10:34,173 (spoon clanks) 172 00:11:17,682 --> 00:11:20,352 (door creaks, shuts) 173 00:11:25,284 --> 00:11:27,088 - Okay... - Drew: Hey. 174 00:11:27,088 --> 00:11:29,157 - Wow. You're all dressed up. - Sam: Oh. 175 00:11:29,157 --> 00:11:31,794 Yeah, I'm going to a wedding. There's an open bar, so. 176 00:11:31,794 --> 00:11:34,095 Oh, I love an open bar. 177 00:11:34,095 --> 00:11:35,764 Well, I'd say you could come by, 178 00:11:35,764 --> 00:11:37,099 but I don't want any trouble. 179 00:11:37,099 --> 00:11:39,534 - (Sam laughs softly) - (sighs) 180 00:11:39,534 --> 00:11:41,836 - Good call. Have fun. - Thank you. 181 00:11:41,836 --> 00:11:45,207 - (car door opens) - I'll be here, sending selfies to my probation officer. 182 00:11:45,207 --> 00:11:46,742 - Brad: Hi, Sam. - Hi. 183 00:11:46,742 --> 00:11:48,378 You look great. 184 00:11:48,378 --> 00:11:49,244 Oh, thank you. 185 00:11:49,244 --> 00:11:50,913 No, no, no. You've got the long legs. 186 00:11:50,913 --> 00:11:52,582 You sit in front. I'll get in the back. 187 00:11:52,582 --> 00:11:54,119 - You sure? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 188 00:11:56,421 --> 00:11:58,288 Joel: Um... 189 00:11:58,288 --> 00:11:59,391 Sam: What? 190 00:12:00,992 --> 00:12:02,591 We saw all of that. 191 00:12:02,591 --> 00:12:04,059 (all laugh) 192 00:12:04,059 --> 00:12:05,761 - I think you should go for it. - Sam: Can we just go? 193 00:12:05,761 --> 00:12:07,196 He's gonna think we're talking about him. 194 00:12:07,196 --> 00:12:09,969 - Joel: Oh, we are talking about him. - He is very cute. 195 00:12:11,001 --> 00:12:12,634 Would that be a pound? 196 00:12:12,634 --> 00:12:14,537 - Joel: Yeah, that'd be a pound. - Oh, my God. 197 00:12:14,537 --> 00:12:16,204 - (Joel laughs) - (car starts) 198 00:12:16,204 --> 00:12:19,111 (pops lips) Let's get to that wedding. 199 00:12:19,710 --> 00:12:22,948 ♪ ♪ 200 00:12:23,648 --> 00:12:25,514 (Joel laughs) 201 00:12:25,514 --> 00:12:26,882 - (gasps) - Sam: Hi. 202 00:12:26,882 --> 00:12:28,484 - Tricia: Hey, how's it going? - Good. 203 00:12:28,484 --> 00:12:29,518 - Have you met Brad? - No! 204 00:12:29,518 --> 00:12:30,786 - Brad: Hi. - Nice to meet you. 205 00:12:30,786 --> 00:12:32,522 Nice to meet you, Tricia. 206 00:12:32,522 --> 00:12:33,822 - (sighs) Hi. - Hi. 207 00:12:33,822 --> 00:12:35,791 - Well, it looks wonderful. - It really does. 208 00:12:35,791 --> 00:12:37,126 - Thanks. - Wanna look around? 209 00:12:37,126 --> 00:12:39,127 - Yeah. - Yeah, sure. Go ahead. 210 00:12:39,127 --> 00:12:41,597 Just, you know, just don't touch anything. 211 00:12:41,597 --> 00:12:43,831 - I won't. (laughs) - Okay? Good. 212 00:12:43,831 --> 00:12:46,035 - So, is that how you're wearing it? - Um, yeah. 213 00:12:46,035 --> 00:12:48,731 - Okay, good... Yeah. - Does it look okay? 214 00:12:48,731 --> 00:12:50,205 - Thank you. - Oh, good. There's the caterers. 215 00:12:50,205 --> 00:12:51,806 They're so fucking late. I'll be right back. 216 00:12:51,806 --> 00:12:53,812 - Uh, do you want some help? - Tricia: No, I'm good! 217 00:12:55,814 --> 00:12:58,383 Hi! The seats are just right that way. 218 00:12:59,684 --> 00:13:03,451 ♪ ♪ 219 00:13:03,451 --> 00:13:06,582 - (indistinct) - So this should be one brisket, one chicken. 220 00:13:06,582 --> 00:13:07,923 Okay. So, you're gonna take it in here, 221 00:13:07,923 --> 00:13:09,257 go to the right, far back. 222 00:13:09,257 --> 00:13:11,026 - Okay. - Right corner, right-hand corner. 223 00:13:11,026 --> 00:13:13,863 Tiffani: Uh, this is my date, Jen. 224 00:13:13,863 --> 00:13:14,963 Brad: Oh, hi. 225 00:13:14,963 --> 00:13:16,498 - How are you? - I'm good. 226 00:13:16,498 --> 00:13:18,534 Have you met Irma? 227 00:13:18,534 --> 00:13:20,869 Hi, Irma. I've heard about you. 228 00:13:20,869 --> 00:13:22,872 It's gonna go chicken, brisket, 229 00:13:22,872 --> 00:13:25,240 - biscuits, cornbread, beans! - Caterer: Mm-hmm. 230 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,275 Lemme make sure that you don't have anything left back here! 231 00:13:27,275 --> 00:13:30,582 - (plants rustling) - (birds chirping) 232 00:13:37,088 --> 00:13:38,621 Fred? 233 00:13:38,621 --> 00:13:40,556 - Hey. - Fred: Oh, hey. 234 00:13:40,556 --> 00:13:41,590 You two good? 235 00:13:41,590 --> 00:13:43,526 - (laughs) Yeah. - We're okay. 236 00:13:43,526 --> 00:13:45,294 - Oh, good. - Are you okay? 237 00:13:45,294 --> 00:13:47,329 - Yeah. - You sure? 238 00:13:47,329 --> 00:13:49,665 - Yeah. - Sam: It's not too late to back out. 239 00:13:49,665 --> 00:13:50,999 - No. - (both laugh) 240 00:13:50,999 --> 00:13:52,701 - Did you make her sign a prenup? - No. 241 00:13:52,701 --> 00:13:54,336 I'm the one that had to sign the prenup. 242 00:13:54,336 --> 00:13:55,470 (all laugh) 243 00:13:55,470 --> 00:13:57,106 I don't wanna rush you. I know you're having, like, 244 00:13:57,106 --> 00:13:59,074 - a moment, but it's time. - Yeah, I know. 245 00:13:59,074 --> 00:14:01,909 - You wanna go? - Yeah. 246 00:14:01,909 --> 00:14:05,546 - What's the worst that could happen? Let's do it. - (sighs) Alright. Now? 247 00:14:05,546 --> 00:14:07,877 - Fuck yeah, right now. - Yeah, we're actually gonna go now. 248 00:14:07,877 --> 00:14:10,185 - Come on, you're all dressed up. - It's so pretty. 249 00:14:10,185 --> 00:14:12,554 - Joel: It is gorgeous. - Sam: How about people see that beautiful suit? 250 00:14:12,554 --> 00:14:15,123 Joel: They get to see it from the behind. Come on. 251 00:14:15,123 --> 00:14:18,393 - Everybody can see this suit. - (laughs) That's right. 252 00:14:18,393 --> 00:14:20,795 - Joel: Stand right over there. - Sam: Alright, all your friends. Here we go. 253 00:14:20,795 --> 00:14:23,532 - Joel: Okay? You stand-- You just stand... - I'm gonna grab my music, 254 00:14:23,532 --> 00:14:26,167 - and let's get this shit started. - Joel: Alright. 255 00:14:26,167 --> 00:14:28,504 Fred: My God. Is she here yet? 256 00:14:28,504 --> 00:14:30,639 (quiet chatter) 257 00:14:30,639 --> 00:14:31,574 Alright, how do I look? 258 00:14:31,574 --> 00:14:32,474 - Sharp. - Great. 259 00:14:32,474 --> 00:14:34,179 - I know. - Joel: You good? 260 00:14:35,079 --> 00:14:37,212 She's late, right? 261 00:14:37,212 --> 00:14:38,847 - Ah. - Joel: Turn around. 262 00:14:38,847 --> 00:14:40,352 (door slides open) 263 00:14:49,561 --> 00:14:51,427 (Joel laughs softly) 264 00:14:51,427 --> 00:14:53,132 Fred (quietly): Hey. 265 00:14:53,698 --> 00:14:55,030 Oh, my God. 266 00:14:55,030 --> 00:15:02,241 ♪ Ave maria ♪ 267 00:15:05,710 --> 00:15:12,581 ♪ Gratia plena ♪ 268 00:15:12,581 --> 00:15:19,650 ♪ Maria gratia plena ♪ 269 00:15:20,090 --> 00:15:27,299 ♪ Maria gratia plena ♪ 270 00:15:28,099 --> 00:15:30,461 ♪ Ave ♪ 271 00:15:30,461 --> 00:15:31,900 (whispers): Hi, baby. 272 00:15:31,900 --> 00:15:35,837 ♪ Ave dominus ♪ 273 00:15:35,837 --> 00:15:37,573 She looks beautiful. 274 00:15:37,573 --> 00:15:44,316 ♪ Dominus tecum ♪ 275 00:15:50,988 --> 00:15:53,689 Joel: When Fred asked me 276 00:15:53,689 --> 00:15:56,959 to speak today, I-I felt so... 277 00:15:56,959 --> 00:15:58,727 terrified. (laughs) 278 00:15:58,727 --> 00:16:00,395 (guests laughing) 279 00:16:00,395 --> 00:16:03,765 You know, we're surrounded by these beautiful fields. 280 00:16:03,765 --> 00:16:07,302 Last year at this time, they were filled with corn. 281 00:16:07,302 --> 00:16:09,608 And, this year, they have soybeans. 282 00:16:10,742 --> 00:16:12,107 Fred taught me 283 00:16:12,107 --> 00:16:14,175 that the reason you change those crops 284 00:16:14,175 --> 00:16:17,345 is to keep the soil fertile and rich, 285 00:16:17,345 --> 00:16:20,315 so that it can provide new life 286 00:16:20,315 --> 00:16:22,621 year after year after year. 287 00:16:24,856 --> 00:16:27,189 I know from talking to Fred and Susan, 288 00:16:27,189 --> 00:16:29,757 they're so excited about this journey 289 00:16:29,757 --> 00:16:33,095 that they're taking together, but I also know that 290 00:16:33,095 --> 00:16:35,030 with any change, 291 00:16:35,030 --> 00:16:39,134 there's fear, apprehension. 292 00:16:39,134 --> 00:16:42,141 Sometimes though, just like with these crops, 293 00:16:43,174 --> 00:16:46,145 change can bring miraculous growth. 294 00:16:47,645 --> 00:16:49,745 So, Fred and Susan, 295 00:16:49,745 --> 00:16:53,248 here, in this special place 296 00:16:53,248 --> 00:16:55,717 where seeds have been planted, 297 00:16:55,717 --> 00:16:57,953 where hard work has been done, 298 00:16:57,953 --> 00:16:59,722 where there has been grief 299 00:16:59,722 --> 00:17:04,026 and joy, storms, and music, 300 00:17:04,026 --> 00:17:06,895 we promise to hold you 301 00:17:06,895 --> 00:17:08,529 as you go forward. 302 00:17:08,529 --> 00:17:12,267 We promise to do it with all of our actions, but... 303 00:17:12,267 --> 00:17:14,136 you know it's my job here right now 304 00:17:14,136 --> 00:17:16,208 to say it with words, too. 305 00:17:16,808 --> 00:17:18,774 You are loved. 306 00:17:18,774 --> 00:17:20,776 We love you. 307 00:17:20,776 --> 00:17:22,647 And we love your love. 308 00:17:25,649 --> 00:17:27,917 So now, let's get on with it, right? 309 00:17:27,917 --> 00:17:30,389 - The main event! - (guest chuckling) 310 00:17:31,089 --> 00:17:32,687 Fred and Susan... 311 00:17:32,687 --> 00:17:35,557 - (party chatter) - Oh, I could add that to my bracelet from the-- 312 00:17:35,557 --> 00:17:37,793 - Do you have a charm bracelet? - Yes, from the Vatican. 313 00:17:37,793 --> 00:17:41,100 (upbeat music playing) 314 00:17:43,734 --> 00:17:45,566 Tiffani (on microphone): What's going on, everybody? Welcome! 315 00:17:45,566 --> 00:17:49,372 - (guests cheering) - Yeah, we having a good time tonight? Let's go! 316 00:17:49,372 --> 00:17:51,907 (applause) 317 00:17:51,907 --> 00:17:53,241 Before we get down to it, 318 00:17:53,241 --> 00:17:56,178 it is my honor to introduce the newlyweds, 319 00:17:56,178 --> 00:17:57,812 Fred and Susan! 320 00:17:57,812 --> 00:18:01,717 - (Kansas State fight song playing) - (cheering) 321 00:18:01,717 --> 00:18:04,823 (applause) 322 00:18:05,723 --> 00:18:07,823 Thank you! 323 00:18:07,823 --> 00:18:09,161 Hey, baby! 324 00:18:09,694 --> 00:18:11,330 (inaudible) 325 00:18:12,196 --> 00:18:14,796 - Come on, baby. - (indistinct) 326 00:18:14,796 --> 00:18:17,800 (raucous cheering) 327 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:19,701 Ah, one more. 328 00:18:19,701 --> 00:18:22,637 - Hey! Thank you, thank you, Tiffani. - (song, cheering ends) 329 00:18:22,637 --> 00:18:26,041 Oh, we are so overwhelmed by all of this. 330 00:18:26,041 --> 00:18:28,978 Thank you. We love you all. 331 00:18:28,978 --> 00:18:30,912 And we wanted to thank Tricia Murphy 332 00:18:30,912 --> 00:18:34,883 and Trish Upon A Star for everything being so beautiful! 333 00:18:34,883 --> 00:18:37,753 - (applause, cheering) - Tricia! 334 00:18:37,753 --> 00:18:39,655 And, thanks, Dad. 335 00:18:39,655 --> 00:18:41,456 I, um... 336 00:18:41,456 --> 00:18:43,528 It means a lot that you're here. 337 00:18:44,661 --> 00:18:47,362 And now, I would like to pass this off 338 00:18:47,362 --> 00:18:49,431 to my husband! (laughs) 339 00:18:49,431 --> 00:18:52,328 - (guests cheering) - That's me! That's me! 340 00:18:52,328 --> 00:18:55,905 - That's the first time she said it. It's real! - Guests: Yeah! 341 00:18:55,905 --> 00:18:57,740 - And she's my wife! - Woo! 342 00:18:57,740 --> 00:19:01,110 (applause, cheering) 343 00:19:01,110 --> 00:19:03,411 And, uh, I'd like to say a few words 344 00:19:03,411 --> 00:19:05,576 about our host who's not here. 345 00:19:05,576 --> 00:19:07,315 About a year ago, 346 00:19:07,315 --> 00:19:10,218 Sam asked me to come out on the farm, 347 00:19:10,218 --> 00:19:12,120 uh, to help her out. 348 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:15,323 And from the moment I walked in, 349 00:19:15,323 --> 00:19:19,227 I felt such a deep connection with Ed. 350 00:19:19,227 --> 00:19:20,996 You know, we were just two guys 351 00:19:20,996 --> 00:19:23,531 who shared a love of the land. 352 00:19:23,531 --> 00:19:26,201 It wasn't about him accepting me. 353 00:19:26,201 --> 00:19:28,170 It wasn't about being nice. 354 00:19:28,170 --> 00:19:30,372 He just saw me. 355 00:19:30,372 --> 00:19:33,375 That's a rare thing, no matter where I am. 356 00:19:33,375 --> 00:19:36,577 So, if he were here today, 357 00:19:36,577 --> 00:19:40,715 my friend Ed would be my best man. 358 00:19:40,715 --> 00:19:44,687 So, raise your glasses, everybody. Raise 'em high! 359 00:19:44,687 --> 00:19:45,821 This is to Ed. 360 00:19:45,821 --> 00:19:47,656 Guests: To Ed! 361 00:19:47,656 --> 00:19:50,725 - (applause, cheering) - Fred: Thank you! 362 00:19:50,725 --> 00:19:53,862 Tiffani: Alright, alright, alright! Who's ready to party? 363 00:19:53,862 --> 00:19:55,064 (cheering) 364 00:19:55,064 --> 00:19:57,266 - (music playing) - (Irma singing) 365 00:19:57,266 --> 00:20:00,035 ♪ There goes "you'll never leave me alone" ♪ 366 00:20:00,035 --> 00:20:01,369 ♪ For all the lies you told ♪ 367 00:20:01,369 --> 00:20:04,172 - Somebody's trying to get laid. - (both laughing) 368 00:20:04,172 --> 00:20:05,607 ♪ Whoa, hey, ladies ♪ 369 00:20:05,607 --> 00:20:08,343 ♪ When your man wanna get buck wild ♪ 370 00:20:08,343 --> 00:20:11,480 - (continues singing) - Wow. (gasps) 371 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,582 I love it when you sing like that. 372 00:20:13,582 --> 00:20:15,654 I forgot how it makes me feel. 373 00:20:16,453 --> 00:20:19,354 - Thank you. - You killed it. 374 00:20:19,354 --> 00:20:21,323 You know what? You killed it. 375 00:20:21,323 --> 00:20:23,624 - Oh, come on. - No, you did. I mean, 376 00:20:23,624 --> 00:20:26,461 - this is not at all what I was expecting. - (laughs) 377 00:20:26,461 --> 00:20:27,729 Well, I had a million more ideas. 378 00:20:27,729 --> 00:20:29,926 Like, I wanted to do these little burlap flowers 379 00:20:29,926 --> 00:20:31,266 in mason jars on all the tables. 380 00:20:31,266 --> 00:20:33,001 And I had this, um, groom cake topper 381 00:20:33,001 --> 00:20:35,704 that was in a little three-piece suit. So cute. 382 00:20:35,704 --> 00:20:37,639 - Oh, you know what would've been great? - Hm? 383 00:20:37,639 --> 00:20:39,402 Some little monkey butts by the dessert spoons. 384 00:20:39,402 --> 00:20:42,177 - I knew that was you that took it, by the way. - (laughs) 385 00:20:42,177 --> 00:20:45,180 - Got it right by my toilet. - (laughs) 386 00:20:45,180 --> 00:20:47,247 It reminds me to keep it clean, you know? 387 00:20:48,586 --> 00:20:50,685 No, they said they wanted simple, and so... 388 00:20:50,685 --> 00:20:53,825 - You know, I think it turned out pretty great. - It definitely did. 389 00:20:55,860 --> 00:20:59,629 You know, I saw you during the ceremony 390 00:20:59,629 --> 00:21:00,924 gettin' all emo. 391 00:21:00,924 --> 00:21:02,863 - Oh, you stalking me? - Maybe. 392 00:21:02,863 --> 00:21:05,801 (laughs) I can't help it. I just can't help it. 393 00:21:05,801 --> 00:21:07,839 Seeing Fred and Susan like that? (sighs) 394 00:21:08,568 --> 00:21:09,439 Oh... 395 00:21:09,439 --> 00:21:12,541 Just love is so beautiful. 396 00:21:12,541 --> 00:21:14,443 Just a crazy thing that's been happening 397 00:21:14,443 --> 00:21:17,749 over and over again for thousands of years. It's... 398 00:21:18,717 --> 00:21:19,751 (sighs) 399 00:21:21,819 --> 00:21:22,951 I don't know. 400 00:21:22,951 --> 00:21:25,354 Kinda seemed like you were over it the other night. 401 00:21:25,354 --> 00:21:27,826 Well, yeah, I'm over Rick, but I'm not... 402 00:21:28,527 --> 00:21:30,795 I'm not over love. 403 00:21:32,629 --> 00:21:35,831 - (lively music playing) - (guest chatter) 404 00:21:35,831 --> 00:21:39,534 ♪ ♪ 405 00:21:39,534 --> 00:21:43,608 Oh, is it really? Happy birthday. 406 00:21:46,378 --> 00:21:48,610 Uh, hello? 407 00:21:48,610 --> 00:21:52,551 - Hello! (laughing) - (guests cheering) 408 00:21:53,950 --> 00:21:56,584 My name is Sam Miller. I'm friends with Fred. 409 00:21:56,584 --> 00:21:58,720 Congratulations, Fred and Susan! 410 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,324 - (guests cheering) - Thank you for the open bar. We appreciate it. 411 00:22:01,324 --> 00:22:04,960 (applause) 412 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,761 Fred asked me to sing something tonight 413 00:22:06,761 --> 00:22:08,797 that would make him happy, so that's what we're gonna do. 414 00:22:08,797 --> 00:22:10,900 We've never done this song before, but fuck it. 415 00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:12,668 What's the worst that can happen, right? 416 00:22:12,668 --> 00:22:14,437 - (guests laughing) - Hit the track! 417 00:22:14,437 --> 00:22:16,571 (band plays "Gloria") 418 00:22:16,571 --> 00:22:18,941 I think some of you might know this song. 419 00:22:18,941 --> 00:22:21,442 (music builds) 420 00:22:21,442 --> 00:22:23,679 (guests cheering and laughing) 421 00:22:23,679 --> 00:22:24,979 (laughing) 422 00:22:24,979 --> 00:22:27,683 - We got a super-fan in the house tonight! - (inaudible) 423 00:22:27,683 --> 00:22:30,990 (cheering, laughter continue) 424 00:22:36,428 --> 00:22:38,727 ♪ Gloria ♪ 425 00:22:38,727 --> 00:22:42,264 ♪ You're always on the run now ♪ 426 00:22:42,264 --> 00:22:44,934 ♪ Runnin' after somebody ♪ 427 00:22:44,934 --> 00:22:46,401 (cheering continues) 428 00:22:46,401 --> 00:22:48,807 ♪ Gotta get 'em somehow ♪ 429 00:22:49,974 --> 00:22:52,141 ♪ I think you better slow down ♪ 430 00:22:52,141 --> 00:22:53,474 (laughs) 431 00:22:53,474 --> 00:22:56,678 ♪ Before you start to blow it ♪ 432 00:22:56,678 --> 00:23:00,415 ♪ I think you're headed for a breakdown ♪ 433 00:23:00,415 --> 00:23:03,122 ♪ Just be careful not to show it ♪ 434 00:23:04,421 --> 00:23:06,922 ♪ You really don't remember ♪ 435 00:23:06,922 --> 00:23:07,889 Ah! 436 00:23:07,889 --> 00:23:10,892 ♪ Was it somethin' that he said? ♪ 437 00:23:10,892 --> 00:23:15,030 ♪ All the voices in your head ♪ 438 00:23:15,030 --> 00:23:18,037 ♪ Callin' Gloria ♪ 439 00:23:19,203 --> 00:23:20,068 We sing! 440 00:23:20,068 --> 00:23:21,337 ♪ Gloria ♪ 441 00:23:21,337 --> 00:23:22,570 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 442 00:23:22,570 --> 00:23:24,540 ♪ I think they got your number ♪ 443 00:23:24,540 --> 00:23:26,208 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 444 00:23:26,208 --> 00:23:28,411 ♪ If everybody wants you ♪ 445 00:23:28,411 --> 00:23:29,478 ♪ Gloria! ♪ 446 00:23:29,478 --> 00:23:33,481 ♪ Why isn't anybody callin'? ♪ 447 00:23:33,481 --> 00:23:35,720 ♪ You don't have to answer ♪ 448 00:23:36,853 --> 00:23:39,320 ♪ Leave 'em hangin' on the line ♪ 449 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:43,058 ♪ Whoa, callin' Gloria ♪ 450 00:23:43,058 --> 00:23:45,928 (band continues) 451 00:23:45,928 --> 00:23:47,996 (crowd cheering) 452 00:23:47,996 --> 00:23:50,332 ♪ I think they got your number ♪ 453 00:23:50,332 --> 00:23:51,701 ♪ Gloria ♪ 454 00:23:51,701 --> 00:23:53,369 ♪ I think they got the alias ♪ 455 00:23:53,369 --> 00:23:54,904 ♪ Gloria ♪ 456 00:23:54,904 --> 00:23:57,267 ♪ That you been livin' under ♪ 457 00:23:57,267 --> 00:23:58,974 - Come here, Tricia! - (crowd cheering) 458 00:23:58,974 --> 00:24:02,011 ♪ But you really don't remember ♪ 459 00:24:02,011 --> 00:24:04,914 ♪ Was it somethin' that they said? ♪ 460 00:24:04,914 --> 00:24:05,914 Hop on! 461 00:24:05,914 --> 00:24:08,451 ♪ Are the voices in your head ♪ 462 00:24:08,451 --> 00:24:09,485 (cheering) 463 00:24:09,485 --> 00:24:11,882 ♪ Calling Gloria ♪ 464 00:24:11,882 --> 00:24:15,290 (cheering, laughter) 465 00:24:15,290 --> 00:24:17,126 Dance, everybody! 466 00:24:17,126 --> 00:24:19,362 (wild cheering) 467 00:24:19,362 --> 00:24:22,331 (band continues) 468 00:24:22,331 --> 00:24:24,236 Come on! 469 00:24:33,611 --> 00:24:36,578 - (slow doo-wop music) - (quiet chatter) 470 00:24:36,578 --> 00:24:39,482 (insects chirping) 471 00:24:39,482 --> 00:24:42,284 Oh, right. (laughs) 472 00:24:42,284 --> 00:24:45,590 (indistinct soft singing) 473 00:24:48,793 --> 00:24:50,593 Brad: I'm getting a dog. 474 00:24:50,593 --> 00:24:52,895 Oh, I love dogs. I do love dogs. 475 00:24:52,895 --> 00:24:54,324 Can you hold on just a second, okay? 476 00:24:54,324 --> 00:24:58,100 - (singing continues) - (footsteps approaching) 477 00:24:58,100 --> 00:25:00,805 Hey. How you doin'? 478 00:25:01,934 --> 00:25:04,807 Good. I'm, uh... 479 00:25:04,807 --> 00:25:08,343 - I'm celebrating my triumph. - (both laugh) 480 00:25:08,343 --> 00:25:11,146 - It really was. - (ice clinking) 481 00:25:11,146 --> 00:25:12,848 You wanna come join us? 482 00:25:12,848 --> 00:25:15,418 Nah, nah, you go ahead. I'm havin' a... 483 00:25:15,418 --> 00:25:17,222 little me-time. 484 00:25:19,791 --> 00:25:20,825 (laughs) 485 00:25:22,427 --> 00:25:24,893 (sighs) Uh... 486 00:25:24,893 --> 00:25:28,233 We're gonna be okay, you know? Just... 487 00:25:30,235 --> 00:25:31,303 Meh. 488 00:25:32,002 --> 00:25:33,572 Meh. 489 00:25:36,340 --> 00:25:39,408 - (mumbling) - You have your me-time. You have your me-time. 490 00:25:39,408 --> 00:25:42,714 (gentle music continues) 491 00:25:47,118 --> 00:25:50,155 (soft singing) 492 00:25:52,522 --> 00:25:53,923 Joel: Oh, my God. I'm exhausted. 493 00:25:53,923 --> 00:25:56,058 Brad: I know. That was really fun. 494 00:25:56,058 --> 00:25:57,525 Sam: Alright, well... 495 00:25:57,525 --> 00:26:00,228 Joel: Okay. Front door service. 496 00:26:00,228 --> 00:26:01,564 Sam: Thank you. 497 00:26:01,564 --> 00:26:03,565 Brad: Have a good night. 498 00:26:03,565 --> 00:26:06,234 - Sam: Text me when you get home. - Brad: Okay. 499 00:26:06,234 --> 00:26:08,903 Joel: (laughs) You text us when you get home! 500 00:26:08,903 --> 00:26:12,211 - Sam: (laughs) I'm right here! - (Joel and Brad laugh) 501 00:26:23,521 --> 00:26:25,757 Brad: She's saying go. 502 00:26:33,698 --> 00:26:36,268 (door creaking) 503 00:26:41,172 --> 00:26:42,207 (chair slides) 504 00:26:47,212 --> 00:26:48,247 (sighs) 505 00:26:50,615 --> 00:26:53,052 (quiet mumbling, giggles) 506 00:26:54,519 --> 00:26:56,088 (giggles) 507 00:26:58,918 --> 00:27:00,159 Yeah. 508 00:27:03,127 --> 00:27:05,664 Are you seriously sleeping right now? 509 00:27:06,664 --> 00:27:09,134 (quietly): Drew! (whistling) 510 00:27:10,301 --> 00:27:12,067 (whistles) Shh. 511 00:27:12,067 --> 00:27:14,303 (whispering): Let's have a beer. 512 00:27:14,303 --> 00:27:16,008 Let's have a fuckin' beer. 513 00:27:16,908 --> 00:27:18,073 (sighs) 514 00:27:18,073 --> 00:27:20,075 I said I'd fuckin' have a beer with you. 515 00:27:20,075 --> 00:27:22,444 I said I'd have a fucking beer with you. (giggles) 516 00:27:22,444 --> 00:27:24,380 Please, come on. (laughing) Wake up. 517 00:27:24,380 --> 00:27:25,414 (glass shatters) 518 00:27:25,414 --> 00:27:26,982 - Oh! Oh, shit! - (dog barking) 519 00:27:26,982 --> 00:27:30,986 - ("Carry on Wayward Son" by Kansas playing) - (muttering) 520 00:27:30,986 --> 00:27:34,289 ♪ There'll be peace when you are done ♪ 521 00:27:34,289 --> 00:27:35,590 I gotta get my shoe... 522 00:27:35,590 --> 00:27:39,322 ♪ Lay your weary head to rest ♪ 523 00:27:39,322 --> 00:27:43,199 ♪ Don't you cry no more ♪ 524 00:27:43,199 --> 00:27:46,305 ♪ ♪ 525 00:28:03,921 --> 00:28:06,758 ♪ Ah... ♪ 526 00:28:08,492 --> 00:28:12,494 ♪ Once I rose above the noise and confusion ♪ 527 00:28:12,494 --> 00:28:16,666 ♪ Just to get a glimpse behind this illusion ♪ 528 00:28:16,666 --> 00:28:20,736 ♪ I was soaring ever higher ♪ 529 00:28:20,736 --> 00:28:24,505 ♪ But I flew too high ♪ 530 00:28:24,505 --> 00:28:28,209 ♪ Though my eyes could see, I still was a blind man ♪ 531 00:28:28,209 --> 00:28:31,880 ♪ Though my mind could think, I still was a madman ♪ 532 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,984 ♪ I hear the voices when I'm dreaming ♪ 533 00:28:35,984 --> 00:28:39,755 ♪ I can hear them say ♪ 534 00:28:39,755 --> 00:28:43,325 ♪ Carry on, my wayward son ♪ 535 00:28:43,325 --> 00:28:47,228 ♪ There'll be peace when you are done ♪ 536 00:28:47,228 --> 00:28:50,999 ♪ Lay your weary head to rest ♪ 537 00:28:50,999 --> 00:28:53,669 ♪ Don't you cry no more ♪ 538 00:28:53,669 --> 00:28:56,441 ♪ ♪