1 00:02:00,272 --> 00:02:02,939 (ominous music) 2 00:02:16,181 --> 00:02:19,181 (suspenseful music) 3 00:02:30,770 --> 00:02:33,520 (dramatic music) 4 00:02:40,173 --> 00:02:42,840 (ominous music) 5 00:03:16,317 --> 00:03:19,817 (ominous music continues) 6 00:03:56,433 --> 00:03:59,850 (dramatic ominous music) 7 00:04:37,476 --> 00:04:38,896 - I can't wait to start helping couples 8 00:04:38,896 --> 00:04:40,599 like my grandmother. 9 00:04:43,506 --> 00:04:45,218 The next generation. 10 00:04:45,218 --> 00:04:47,885 (ominous music) 11 00:05:16,285 --> 00:05:18,952 (ambient music) 12 00:05:27,542 --> 00:05:30,209 (hip hop music) 13 00:05:40,726 --> 00:05:43,846 - Thank you pop that's exactly what I needed to hear. 14 00:05:43,846 --> 00:05:46,003 - You're welcome baby, you're welcome. 15 00:05:46,003 --> 00:05:47,386 - Thank you so much. 16 00:05:47,386 --> 00:05:48,543 Oh my girls are here pop. 17 00:05:48,543 --> 00:05:49,904 (girls screaming) 18 00:05:49,904 --> 00:05:51,016 - Baby boo. 19 00:05:51,016 --> 00:05:52,379 - Ladies you made it. 20 00:05:53,386 --> 00:05:56,004 - Let me see the ring, ring. 21 00:05:56,004 --> 00:05:59,256 - Yes girl that is so good. - Beautiful. 22 00:05:59,256 --> 00:06:01,496 - Okay so he obviously has money 23 00:06:02,346 --> 00:06:03,566 not to sound insensitive 24 00:06:03,566 --> 00:06:05,456 but why aren't you having your engagement party 25 00:06:05,456 --> 00:06:06,756 at someplace like the Weston? 26 00:06:06,756 --> 00:06:07,716 - Girl? 27 00:06:07,716 --> 00:06:10,215 - Okay, there's nothing wrong with Lolo's 28 00:06:10,215 --> 00:06:13,246 okay, the besides the food is fire. 29 00:06:13,246 --> 00:06:14,426 - Thank you, thank you. 30 00:06:14,426 --> 00:06:15,896 - I got your girl. 31 00:06:15,896 --> 00:06:18,206 - But for an engagement party? 32 00:06:18,206 --> 00:06:19,916 - Actually, this is where Derek and I met. 33 00:06:19,916 --> 00:06:23,066 So this is fitting it's perfect for us. 34 00:06:23,066 --> 00:06:26,059 - Sorry I guess I'll need to learn to keep my mouth struck. 35 00:06:28,296 --> 00:06:30,196 - Look, I'm going to get a drink and I'll be right back. 36 00:06:30,196 --> 00:06:32,096 - Yes girl, go ahead and I'll see you. 37 00:06:33,506 --> 00:06:34,339 Really? 38 00:06:34,339 --> 00:06:35,172 We just got here. 39 00:06:35,172 --> 00:06:36,206 - This could have been our TGI Friday. 40 00:06:36,206 --> 00:06:37,039 You know what? 41 00:06:37,039 --> 00:06:38,366 always is open right now. 42 00:06:38,366 --> 00:06:40,596 (mumbles) 43 00:06:40,596 --> 00:06:43,496 - Turn around and let me look at you before we go in. 44 00:06:43,496 --> 00:06:45,596 - We don't have time for this we're already really late. 45 00:06:45,596 --> 00:06:47,846 - Look, I don't want to be embarrassed again. 46 00:06:49,666 --> 00:06:50,956 What's this? 47 00:06:50,956 --> 00:06:52,506 - A tie. 48 00:06:52,506 --> 00:06:53,796 - Don't get smart. 49 00:06:53,796 --> 00:06:55,886 This isn't the tie I picked out. 50 00:06:55,886 --> 00:06:57,016 - I don't want a stain on it. 51 00:06:57,016 --> 00:06:59,143 This one, it's the same color what's the big deal? 52 00:06:59,143 --> 00:07:00,626 - Are you blind? 53 00:07:00,626 --> 00:07:04,099 This is not the same color it's two shades darker. 54 00:07:05,276 --> 00:07:07,029 Just take it off. 55 00:07:09,236 --> 00:07:10,536 You know, sometimes I wonder 56 00:07:10,536 --> 00:07:12,599 if you really are this stupid. 57 00:07:13,786 --> 00:07:14,746 What are you waiting for? 58 00:07:14,746 --> 00:07:19,060 We're already really late remember, get the door for me. 59 00:07:19,060 --> 00:07:21,810 (car door opens) 60 00:07:24,991 --> 00:07:27,726 - That's what I'm talking about. 61 00:07:27,726 --> 00:07:29,776 Hey let me call you back Naomi is coming. 62 00:07:30,846 --> 00:07:32,186 Hey how are you feeling babe? 63 00:07:32,186 --> 00:07:35,119 - I'm good babe, Who was that on the phone? 64 00:07:35,119 --> 00:07:37,906 - That was nobody, it's just business. 65 00:07:37,906 --> 00:07:39,062 - Just some business? 66 00:07:39,062 --> 00:07:40,536 - Yeah. 67 00:07:40,536 --> 00:07:42,562 Did I tell you, you look nice tonight. 68 00:07:42,562 --> 00:07:43,476 - No, no you didn't. 69 00:07:44,542 --> 00:07:45,842 - But you do. 70 00:07:45,842 --> 00:07:46,683 - Thank you. 71 00:07:46,683 --> 00:07:49,992 - Got your hair done, nails done, everything done. 72 00:07:49,992 --> 00:07:50,825 - Stop. 73 00:07:50,825 --> 00:07:54,006 - I don't care where they met this is still tacky. 74 00:07:54,006 --> 00:07:57,809 - Girl why are (indistinct) you know you must stop that. 75 00:07:59,056 --> 00:08:01,226 - Girl you know I know what I'm talking about. 76 00:08:01,226 --> 00:08:04,556 Don't act like I haven't counsel you all these years. 77 00:08:04,556 --> 00:08:05,389 If it wasn't for me 78 00:08:05,389 --> 00:08:07,816 you would have ended up with one of those losers. 79 00:08:09,292 --> 00:08:10,210 - Oh really? 80 00:08:10,210 --> 00:08:11,127 - Oh, yeah. 81 00:08:12,703 --> 00:08:13,928 (scoffs) 82 00:08:13,928 --> 00:08:17,011 - Whatever, I'm hungry, I'll just go. 83 00:08:20,208 --> 00:08:22,004 (indistinct) 84 00:08:22,004 --> 00:08:23,219 - Oh, my bad. 85 00:08:28,859 --> 00:08:29,692 You all right. 86 00:08:29,692 --> 00:08:30,810 - Yeah, I'm good. 87 00:08:30,810 --> 00:08:31,643 - I'm sorry, I'm sorry 88 00:08:31,643 --> 00:08:32,686 - There's no worries. 89 00:08:32,686 --> 00:08:33,576 - Have you seen Naomi? 90 00:08:33,576 --> 00:08:36,539 - Oh yeah, she's right over there talking to Derek. 91 00:08:38,046 --> 00:08:38,979 I'll see you before I leave though okay? 92 00:08:38,979 --> 00:08:40,289 - I'll see you bye. 93 00:08:41,436 --> 00:08:44,346 - So what's the deal with you and Brockain? 94 00:08:44,346 --> 00:08:45,856 - We broke up. 95 00:08:45,856 --> 00:08:48,699 - Good, I told you he was cheating. 96 00:08:49,706 --> 00:08:52,889 Cheating mama's boy, what a combo. 97 00:08:53,784 --> 00:08:56,617 (phone vibrating) 98 00:09:02,366 --> 00:09:03,316 I'll be right back. 99 00:09:07,514 --> 00:09:09,764 (laughing) 100 00:09:12,696 --> 00:09:14,496 - May I have your attention, please? 101 00:09:15,696 --> 00:09:18,729 I just wanted to take this time to say a few words. 102 00:09:20,866 --> 00:09:25,356 You know, it seems like only yesterday that Derek 103 00:09:25,356 --> 00:09:29,676 was one of two incredibly joyous moments 104 00:09:34,386 --> 00:09:37,189 that my wife Grace and I shared God rest her soul. 105 00:09:39,216 --> 00:09:42,926 I won't lie, we had some rough patches through the years 106 00:09:45,306 --> 00:09:49,866 but Derek has grown into a man that any father 107 00:09:49,866 --> 00:09:51,609 would be proud to call son. 108 00:09:52,946 --> 00:09:55,816 I was worried that there we walk like Danny alone 109 00:09:56,966 --> 00:09:58,116 and I needed that word. 110 00:09:59,286 --> 00:10:01,286 God, always on time. 111 00:10:01,286 --> 00:10:02,556 - Yes sir. 112 00:10:02,556 --> 00:10:05,256 - I couldn't have prayed for them to make them my son. 113 00:10:06,496 --> 00:10:09,326 Naomi, I thank God for your baby. 114 00:10:09,326 --> 00:10:10,596 I do. 115 00:10:10,596 --> 00:10:13,246 I thank you for completing my son 116 00:10:14,806 --> 00:10:19,806 to Derek and Naomi may God eternally bless their unity. 117 00:10:20,626 --> 00:10:21,959 - [Crowd] cheers 118 00:10:24,966 --> 00:10:25,946 - This got good stuff. 119 00:10:25,946 --> 00:10:26,779 - Oh, yeah. 120 00:10:26,779 --> 00:10:28,193 (all laughing) 121 00:10:28,193 --> 00:10:30,776 (upbeat music) 122 00:10:41,509 --> 00:10:42,342 - You're shy man. 123 00:10:42,342 --> 00:10:43,506 - I'm just upset right now. 124 00:10:43,506 --> 00:10:44,339 (indistinct) 125 00:10:44,339 --> 00:10:45,239 - Hey Dad? 126 00:10:45,239 --> 00:10:46,486 - Lance son, you missed the first one. 127 00:10:46,486 --> 00:10:48,556 So how about another one? 128 00:10:48,556 --> 00:10:52,144 To the best sons, a man could ever have. 129 00:10:52,144 --> 00:10:54,394 (laughing) 130 00:10:57,146 --> 00:10:58,266 - I got one, I got one. 131 00:10:58,266 --> 00:11:00,916 To my big bro, Naomi is amazing. 132 00:11:00,916 --> 00:11:02,840 - Yes she is amazing. 133 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,507 - She is okay, okay. 134 00:11:05,654 --> 00:11:07,916 - Al right I got one for both y'all. 135 00:11:07,916 --> 00:11:11,456 Here's to a perfect marriage like yours pops. 136 00:11:11,456 --> 00:11:12,508 - You right about that. 137 00:11:12,508 --> 00:11:14,758 (laughing) 138 00:11:16,836 --> 00:11:19,935 - Man, you really taking the next step? 139 00:11:19,935 --> 00:11:21,606 - Nah, nah, nah, man Naomi 140 00:11:21,606 --> 00:11:24,055 and I has ready to taken the next step 141 00:11:24,055 --> 00:11:26,057 - It was not easy. 142 00:11:26,057 --> 00:11:28,207 But you brought a good one so you got this. 143 00:11:29,116 --> 00:11:29,949 - Yeah, that's true. 144 00:11:29,949 --> 00:11:31,691 So you got any pointers for me? 145 00:11:31,691 --> 00:11:33,636 You know I could use and learn some lessons over here. 146 00:11:33,636 --> 00:11:34,976 - Yeah, I got something, I got something. 147 00:11:34,976 --> 00:11:35,809 What you got? 148 00:11:35,809 --> 00:11:37,836 - If she's not a freak in the sheets now 149 00:11:37,836 --> 00:11:40,156 don't expect anything extra later. 150 00:11:40,156 --> 00:11:40,989 - Let me tell you something. 151 00:11:40,989 --> 00:11:41,822 Let me tell you something. 152 00:11:41,822 --> 00:11:42,655 Let me tell you something. 153 00:11:42,655 --> 00:11:43,969 Ain't worrying about nothing. 154 00:11:43,969 --> 00:11:44,989 - I ain't got nothing to worry about. 155 00:11:44,989 --> 00:11:47,332 - Aint worry about nothing. 156 00:11:47,332 --> 00:11:50,241 - Cheers to that, cheers to that. 157 00:11:50,241 --> 00:11:53,124 (all laughing) 158 00:11:53,124 --> 00:11:56,135 - You're a fool, you're a fool bro. 159 00:11:56,135 --> 00:11:58,063 (phone vibrating) 160 00:11:58,063 --> 00:11:59,234 - Oh, boy. 161 00:11:59,234 --> 00:12:00,836 - Work 24/7. 162 00:12:00,836 --> 00:12:02,249 - Hurry when duty calls. 163 00:12:03,263 --> 00:12:05,513 (laughing) 164 00:12:07,276 --> 00:12:09,169 - Oh, there she is. 165 00:12:10,756 --> 00:12:12,146 - Who is that? 166 00:12:12,146 --> 00:12:13,499 - Oh that's my therapist. 167 00:12:15,112 --> 00:12:17,876 - You and Naomi see a therapist she ain't crazy is she? 168 00:12:17,876 --> 00:12:21,496 - Nah, no, we just want to make sure everything is right 169 00:12:21,496 --> 00:12:22,476 with our marriage. 170 00:12:22,476 --> 00:12:23,749 - Oh, okay. 171 00:12:23,749 --> 00:12:24,582 - Yeah. 172 00:12:24,582 --> 00:12:25,415 - Al right. 173 00:12:25,415 --> 00:12:26,248 - You know I... 174 00:12:26,248 --> 00:12:27,081 - Hey. 175 00:12:27,081 --> 00:12:27,914 - Hey. 176 00:12:29,578 --> 00:12:33,273 - Okay, I see good looks run in the family. 177 00:12:33,273 --> 00:12:34,699 Ooh okay. 178 00:12:34,699 --> 00:12:36,005 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 179 00:12:36,005 --> 00:12:39,523 - So son we'll see you in a minute. 180 00:12:39,523 --> 00:12:40,356 - Okay. 181 00:12:46,443 --> 00:12:49,150 - So this is the retreat I was telling you about. 182 00:12:49,150 --> 00:12:49,983 - That is sweet. 183 00:12:50,886 --> 00:12:53,086 - I met what I was telling you on the phone. 184 00:12:54,052 --> 00:12:56,499 I bet Naomi the can't handle real man like you. 185 00:12:57,769 --> 00:13:01,631 I could teach you a few things if you know what I mean. 186 00:13:01,631 --> 00:13:04,271 - I know exactly what you mean. 187 00:13:04,271 --> 00:13:09,163 she's got a lot of private spaces for my lessons. 188 00:13:10,031 --> 00:13:13,026 - You just make sure you get Naomi on board. 189 00:13:13,026 --> 00:13:16,009 Cause this could be a very enlightened me. 190 00:13:18,916 --> 00:13:19,749 Until then. 191 00:13:20,821 --> 00:13:23,401 (upbeat music) 192 00:13:23,401 --> 00:13:25,818 (indistinct) 193 00:13:32,666 --> 00:13:34,226 - Hello baby girl? 194 00:13:34,226 --> 00:13:35,356 - I have a slight headache 195 00:13:35,356 --> 00:13:38,396 but I can tell it's going to be a full on migraine soon. 196 00:13:38,396 --> 00:13:40,223 - Oh, you need an asprin or something baby. 197 00:13:40,223 --> 00:13:41,836 - You're so sweet. 198 00:13:41,836 --> 00:13:44,766 No, I just need to go home and lay down. 199 00:13:44,766 --> 00:13:45,926 I'm so sorry. 200 00:13:45,926 --> 00:13:49,699 Anthony can tell you the only thing that helps is rest. 201 00:13:51,446 --> 00:13:53,096 Please tell Naomi goodbye for me. 202 00:13:54,152 --> 00:13:56,312 (mumbles) 203 00:13:56,312 --> 00:13:58,562 (laughing) 204 00:14:00,477 --> 00:14:01,986 - I'm so glad you got to come. 205 00:14:01,986 --> 00:14:02,819 Where's Tina? 206 00:14:02,819 --> 00:14:04,606 - Al right man, she probably out 207 00:14:04,606 --> 00:14:06,236 looking for another goldmine. 208 00:14:06,236 --> 00:14:08,736 - Oh damn Lance I'm sorry. 209 00:14:08,736 --> 00:14:10,524 Look you'll find somebody. 210 00:14:10,524 --> 00:14:13,459 Forget about me this is your big day. 211 00:14:13,459 --> 00:14:14,292 - Thank you. 212 00:14:14,292 --> 00:14:15,251 - I'm so happy girl. 213 00:14:15,251 --> 00:14:16,240 - Thank you. 214 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,519 - Hey dude, welcome to the family brother. 215 00:14:23,150 --> 00:14:24,821 Naomi and me go back to when we was like little kids, man. 216 00:14:24,821 --> 00:14:27,239 I was just, saying congratulations that's all. 217 00:14:29,216 --> 00:14:31,496 - Nah, bro, I was just messing with you bro. 218 00:14:31,496 --> 00:14:33,049 - I know how close you are man. 219 00:14:34,446 --> 00:14:36,256 Shake her sometime. 220 00:14:36,256 --> 00:14:38,199 - I'm down. - I love that. 221 00:14:39,464 --> 00:14:41,714 (laughing) 222 00:14:44,356 --> 00:14:45,756 - So what was that about? 223 00:14:45,756 --> 00:14:48,286 I don't know anything about you and headaches or migraines. 224 00:14:48,286 --> 00:14:51,956 - I told you that I needed to be home by 10 didn't I? 225 00:14:51,956 --> 00:14:52,899 Didn't I? 226 00:14:53,946 --> 00:14:56,414 It's not my fault that we got here late. 227 00:14:56,414 --> 00:14:59,266 Yeah, by you're the one that said let's... 228 00:14:59,266 --> 00:15:03,326 - Now it's 9:30 we live 35 minutes from here. 229 00:15:03,326 --> 00:15:04,636 According to my calculations 230 00:15:04,636 --> 00:15:06,806 we won't make it home until five after 10. 231 00:15:06,806 --> 00:15:09,976 Now what time did I say we needed to be home? 232 00:15:09,976 --> 00:15:11,416 - Ten. 233 00:15:11,416 --> 00:15:15,739 - Well, you've got some time to make up, drive. 234 00:15:15,739 --> 00:15:18,026 (car engine roaring) 235 00:15:18,026 --> 00:15:20,216 - Oh man. 236 00:15:20,216 --> 00:15:23,946 Look I need to get outta here, I'm a little tired. 237 00:15:23,946 --> 00:15:26,696 So I'll call you tomorrow. 238 00:15:26,696 --> 00:15:28,144 - Okay. 239 00:15:28,144 --> 00:15:29,369 - I almost forgot. 240 00:15:31,766 --> 00:15:33,696 Dr Sharma stopped by. 241 00:15:33,696 --> 00:15:35,386 - When I didn't see her. 242 00:15:35,386 --> 00:15:36,526 - Well she didn't stay long. 243 00:15:36,526 --> 00:15:40,526 She was dropping off this brochure about the Playhouse. 244 00:15:40,526 --> 00:15:41,906 what's this? 245 00:15:41,906 --> 00:15:44,226 - Well, its kinda a retreat. 246 00:15:44,226 --> 00:15:45,059 - Hmm. 247 00:15:45,059 --> 00:15:48,439 - So take a look at it and we'll talk about it tomorrow. 248 00:15:49,464 --> 00:15:50,297 All right. 249 00:15:50,297 --> 00:15:51,797 - Good night babe. 250 00:15:56,099 --> 00:15:56,932 Thank you. 251 00:16:00,304 --> 00:16:02,887 (gentle music) 252 00:16:14,564 --> 00:16:17,231 (phone ringing) 253 00:16:21,456 --> 00:16:23,606 - Thank for you for calling the Playhouse. 254 00:16:23,606 --> 00:16:25,316 How may I help you? 255 00:16:25,316 --> 00:16:28,756 - Hi Ms. Smith, this is Dr. Sharma. 256 00:16:28,756 --> 00:16:30,576 I was just calling to confirm my reservation 257 00:16:30,576 --> 00:16:32,126 for the last week in the month. 258 00:16:33,256 --> 00:16:36,306 - Oh, that's perfect. 259 00:16:36,306 --> 00:16:38,966 I look forward to meeting you. 260 00:16:38,966 --> 00:16:40,596 - You know I have to tell you that property looks 261 00:16:40,596 --> 00:16:44,406 absolutely amazing for the(indistinct) 262 00:16:44,406 --> 00:16:48,306 I really hope this session is just the beginning. 263 00:16:48,306 --> 00:16:49,139 - Me too. 264 00:16:50,725 --> 00:16:53,392 (ominous music) 265 00:17:03,985 --> 00:17:07,235 (breathes out heavily) 266 00:17:09,106 --> 00:17:12,226 - So this is gonna sound crazy, but I had a dream 267 00:17:12,226 --> 00:17:15,756 about the retreat as if something 268 00:17:15,756 --> 00:17:18,309 or someone's telling me I need to go. 269 00:17:19,846 --> 00:17:21,696 Do you think you're can come with us? 270 00:17:23,396 --> 00:17:25,599 - Go of course I will be there. 271 00:17:28,250 --> 00:17:31,750 (electric guitar playing) 272 00:17:35,135 --> 00:17:35,968 - Yeah. 273 00:17:35,968 --> 00:17:37,468 - So nice in here. 274 00:17:38,889 --> 00:17:40,915 - I told y'all. - I'm glad we came. 275 00:17:40,915 --> 00:17:41,945 - Did you like the brochure, 276 00:17:41,945 --> 00:17:43,243 did you like the brochure I told you. 277 00:17:44,506 --> 00:17:47,808 Oh, we got the suite, that's a lot. 278 00:17:47,808 --> 00:17:49,645 (indistinct) 279 00:17:49,645 --> 00:17:50,478 - Oh yeah. 280 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,486 - Hello, hello people? 281 00:17:52,486 --> 00:17:55,099 - Hi, hi. - Oh, you look fabulous. 282 00:17:56,310 --> 00:17:59,083 - It is you, this is pretty. - Thanks a lot. 283 00:17:59,083 --> 00:18:00,043 - Hi, hey are you ready? 284 00:18:00,043 --> 00:18:01,391 - I know take it off. 285 00:18:01,391 --> 00:18:04,474 (indistinct chatter) 286 00:18:06,603 --> 00:18:07,683 - Hey guys. 287 00:18:07,683 --> 00:18:08,663 - Hey. 288 00:18:08,663 --> 00:18:09,966 - Are you ready? 289 00:18:09,966 --> 00:18:12,586 - As ready as I'm going to be I guess. 290 00:18:12,586 --> 00:18:15,636 - Well, you know, I've been dreaming about this. 291 00:18:15,636 --> 00:18:17,946 Well, you know for the work on our relationship. 292 00:18:17,946 --> 00:18:18,779 - I hope so. 293 00:18:18,779 --> 00:18:19,796 - I am ready, okay 294 00:18:19,796 --> 00:18:21,976 I know this is supposed to be about therapy 295 00:18:21,976 --> 00:18:25,299 but this is about to be a nice little get away. 296 00:18:25,299 --> 00:18:27,549 (laughing) 297 00:18:30,279 --> 00:18:33,338 - So where's your boyfriend didn't he wanna come? 298 00:18:33,338 --> 00:18:36,716 - Wasn't his name Brandon? 299 00:18:36,716 --> 00:18:38,126 - His name was Bradley. 300 00:18:38,126 --> 00:18:42,104 - Oh yeah, Bradley and no we broke up. 301 00:18:42,104 --> 00:18:44,654 - Oh man I didn't know that I'm sorry to hear that. 302 00:18:46,436 --> 00:18:48,556 Tracy was going on with you? 303 00:18:48,556 --> 00:18:50,149 No one special in your life? 304 00:18:51,576 --> 00:18:53,766 - No, no one special. 305 00:18:53,766 --> 00:18:55,213 Just hanging with my bestie. 306 00:18:57,486 --> 00:18:58,400 - Bestie ha? (laughing) 307 00:18:58,400 --> 00:18:59,346 Just hanging out with bestie. 308 00:18:59,346 --> 00:19:01,009 - Where are we going with all of this? 309 00:19:01,009 --> 00:19:04,176 It just occurred to me that every time we going somewhere 310 00:19:04,176 --> 00:19:05,813 she gotta have to bring one of her boyfriend's around. 311 00:19:05,813 --> 00:19:07,346 That's all I'm saying. 312 00:19:07,346 --> 00:19:09,205 - Babe, babe that's non of our business. 313 00:19:09,205 --> 00:19:11,365 - Yeah you're right, you're right. 314 00:19:11,365 --> 00:19:12,745 (doorbell rings) 315 00:19:12,745 --> 00:19:15,319 - I'ma make it right up to you, I got a little surprise. 316 00:19:19,716 --> 00:19:21,013 Tim, there he is. 317 00:19:24,996 --> 00:19:26,376 Hey this is my boy Tim, 318 00:19:26,376 --> 00:19:29,056 you know I've invited Tim to even things up. 319 00:19:29,056 --> 00:19:30,024 You see. 320 00:19:30,024 --> 00:19:30,857 - How's everybody doing? 321 00:19:30,857 --> 00:19:32,256 - Hi, I'm Tracy. 322 00:19:32,256 --> 00:19:36,159 - Nice to meet you, I'm Tim, Derek and I work together. 323 00:19:37,796 --> 00:19:38,766 - Are we good to go? 324 00:19:38,766 --> 00:19:40,278 - Oh no we're just waiting on one more. 325 00:19:40,278 --> 00:19:41,111 - Okay. 326 00:19:41,111 --> 00:19:41,944 - I'm sorry. 327 00:19:41,944 --> 00:19:43,152 - That's okay. 328 00:19:43,152 --> 00:19:45,265 (door bell ringing) 329 00:19:45,265 --> 00:19:48,535 (all laughing) 330 00:19:48,535 --> 00:19:51,618 (indistinct chatter) 331 00:19:53,615 --> 00:19:54,448 - I'm I late? 332 00:19:54,448 --> 00:19:55,815 - Oh no, no, we all just got here. 333 00:19:55,815 --> 00:19:59,497 (indistinct chatter) 334 00:19:59,497 --> 00:20:00,330 - Al right. 335 00:20:00,330 --> 00:20:02,856 We'll I am so glad you guys were able to join us here 336 00:20:02,856 --> 00:20:03,769 for the retreat. 337 00:20:04,616 --> 00:20:05,876 I would like to introduce to you 338 00:20:05,876 --> 00:20:08,516 a good friend of mine, Rashida. 339 00:20:08,516 --> 00:20:09,677 - Hi. 340 00:20:09,677 --> 00:20:11,286 (ominous music) 341 00:20:11,286 --> 00:20:14,875 - Welcome you all to the Playhouse. 342 00:20:14,875 --> 00:20:15,774 - That's okay. 343 00:20:15,774 --> 00:20:16,874 - Playhouse. 344 00:20:16,874 --> 00:20:18,894 (clapping) 345 00:20:18,894 --> 00:20:19,986 (indistinct chatter) 346 00:20:19,986 --> 00:20:22,416 - Things are pretty informal here. 347 00:20:22,416 --> 00:20:26,006 I just have a couple rules to go over. 348 00:20:26,006 --> 00:20:29,216 This is a very special house. 349 00:20:29,216 --> 00:20:34,046 As you settle in, you will begin to feel its uniqueness. 350 00:20:41,606 --> 00:20:44,536 You are all very blessed to be having your therapy 351 00:20:44,536 --> 00:20:47,506 sessions conducted here by Dr. William. 352 00:20:47,506 --> 00:20:50,476 - Oh yes, he is a great friend of ours. 353 00:20:50,476 --> 00:20:53,457 He has a doctorate degree in counseling psychology 354 00:20:53,457 --> 00:20:57,316 and he possesses a unique ability to help people connect 355 00:20:57,316 --> 00:21:00,806 to their past, to bring healing into their future. 356 00:21:00,806 --> 00:21:02,355 So exciting. 357 00:21:02,355 --> 00:21:03,936 (ominous music) 358 00:21:03,936 --> 00:21:04,979 - Follow me. 359 00:21:06,234 --> 00:21:07,709 (indistinct chatter) 360 00:21:07,709 --> 00:21:08,715 - Let's go. 361 00:21:08,715 --> 00:21:09,934 (ominous music) 362 00:21:09,934 --> 00:21:11,335 (indistinct chatter) 363 00:21:11,335 --> 00:21:14,002 (piano playing) 364 00:21:46,636 --> 00:21:47,469 - Where's Lance? 365 00:21:48,566 --> 00:21:50,116 - Oh, he went to the rest room. 366 00:21:53,716 --> 00:21:55,016 Did anyone else feel that? 367 00:21:56,236 --> 00:21:57,069 - Feel what? 368 00:21:58,046 --> 00:21:59,396 - I just got sudden chills. 369 00:22:01,236 --> 00:22:03,336 - This room gives me the creeps 370 00:22:05,116 --> 00:22:08,959 - You're are required to be on time for all sessions. 371 00:22:10,126 --> 00:22:13,739 All meals will be provided in the dining room. 372 00:22:16,536 --> 00:22:19,389 Oh, I almost forgot. 373 00:22:20,396 --> 00:22:25,219 I offer a 25% discount, if you follow these two rules. 374 00:22:27,716 --> 00:22:29,666 I also require 375 00:22:29,666 --> 00:22:33,679 that you guys be all right with before and after pictures. 376 00:22:35,146 --> 00:22:36,666 - And why do we need to do that? 377 00:22:36,666 --> 00:22:38,316 This is not a weight loss clinic. 378 00:22:39,216 --> 00:22:43,406 - I asked for pictures because believe it or not 379 00:22:43,406 --> 00:22:46,619 you will be able to see the difference. 380 00:22:47,846 --> 00:22:49,889 It is an important tool. 381 00:22:50,934 --> 00:22:54,029 - Great the patient is running the asylum. 382 00:22:55,906 --> 00:22:57,376 - Another stipulation 383 00:22:57,376 --> 00:23:01,104 is that you must conduct all therapy sessions 384 00:23:01,104 --> 00:23:04,036 here in the playroom. 385 00:23:04,036 --> 00:23:06,149 - What's so special about the playroom? 386 00:23:08,226 --> 00:23:11,109 - Some say it's hunted. 387 00:23:12,876 --> 00:23:13,976 - You're joking right? 388 00:23:15,996 --> 00:23:16,829 - Okay. 389 00:23:18,216 --> 00:23:21,629 - Well that's all I have. 390 00:23:23,706 --> 00:23:27,759 Get settled and enjoy your retreat. 391 00:23:29,621 --> 00:23:32,136 (indistinct chatter) 392 00:23:32,136 --> 00:23:32,969 - Yeah, we bought the plane. 393 00:23:32,969 --> 00:23:34,599 - What did you sign us up for? 394 00:23:37,036 --> 00:23:41,066 - Oh, hell no, I'm not doing anything in this room. 395 00:23:41,066 --> 00:23:43,806 - Okay all right maybe she was just joking. 396 00:23:43,806 --> 00:23:44,683 - Maybe she wasn't. 397 00:23:44,683 --> 00:23:46,726 Maybe that's why she offers a discounts 398 00:23:46,726 --> 00:23:48,806 for you having the sessions in this room. 399 00:23:48,806 --> 00:23:49,676 Y'all have ever seen movie 400 00:23:49,676 --> 00:23:53,066 where they get locked in the haunted house to win money. 401 00:23:53,066 --> 00:23:55,656 - Y'all funny look, I don't believe in ghosts 402 00:23:55,656 --> 00:23:58,866 and spirits its just an eccentric weird lady. 403 00:23:58,866 --> 00:24:02,866 So I'm going to go lay down in my room for a bit. 404 00:24:02,866 --> 00:24:05,648 Just for lifestyle, I've got to take care of. 405 00:24:05,648 --> 00:24:06,908 (whispers) 406 00:24:06,908 --> 00:24:09,846 - Aah aah well we'll wait, did y'all hear that? 407 00:24:09,846 --> 00:24:12,146 No, I'll pay full price. 408 00:24:12,146 --> 00:24:14,229 I'm not doing nothing in this room. 409 00:24:14,229 --> 00:24:17,099 (indistinct chatter) 410 00:24:17,099 --> 00:24:19,766 (ominous music) 411 00:24:20,618 --> 00:24:22,829 (laughing) 412 00:24:22,829 --> 00:24:25,510 (ominous music) 413 00:24:25,510 --> 00:24:28,093 (gentle music) 414 00:24:43,068 --> 00:24:44,901 - Beautiful, isn't it? 415 00:24:45,789 --> 00:24:46,622 - Very. 416 00:24:47,996 --> 00:24:50,669 - Maybe we can go for a dip sometime. 417 00:24:52,776 --> 00:24:53,889 - Yeah, maybe. 418 00:24:57,825 --> 00:25:00,408 (gentle music) 419 00:25:08,676 --> 00:25:09,509 Aubrey, hey? 420 00:25:11,006 --> 00:25:12,509 - Your memory, Tim? 421 00:25:13,906 --> 00:25:15,620 - Yes, you too. 422 00:25:15,620 --> 00:25:17,870 (giggling) 423 00:25:20,980 --> 00:25:23,563 (gentle music) 424 00:25:25,678 --> 00:25:28,345 (ominous music) 425 00:25:32,456 --> 00:25:34,649 - Hello everyone, welcome. 426 00:25:35,506 --> 00:25:37,719 Thank you for coming out to this retreat. 427 00:25:38,596 --> 00:25:43,596 Tracy, Derek, Naomi, Lance, Aubrey, Elizabeth, Anthony. 428 00:25:52,146 --> 00:25:56,406 I would like to introduce you all to Dr. John Williams, Dr? 429 00:25:56,406 --> 00:25:59,646 - Thank you, Amber, has everyone signed the NDA? 430 00:25:59,646 --> 00:26:01,506 Yes they have. 431 00:26:01,506 --> 00:26:03,626 I am Dr. John Williams. 432 00:26:03,626 --> 00:26:06,566 Welcome to the Playhouse. 433 00:26:06,566 --> 00:26:09,696 You're going to experience some things over the next couple 434 00:26:09,696 --> 00:26:14,196 of days that are going to be mind boggling 435 00:26:14,196 --> 00:26:16,359 but you will never leave the same. 436 00:26:17,686 --> 00:26:21,879 I want to talk to Lance. 437 00:26:23,066 --> 00:26:26,031 He is going to be my focal point. 438 00:26:26,031 --> 00:26:27,099 - But why me? 439 00:26:28,376 --> 00:26:33,356 - Because you're the most resistant, defiant, cantankerous 440 00:26:34,206 --> 00:26:36,509 and you know what your true demons are. 441 00:26:38,246 --> 00:26:39,103 - How do you? 442 00:26:40,916 --> 00:26:43,579 - What are your issues? 443 00:26:46,536 --> 00:26:49,899 - Sorry to disappoint you doc, but I don't have any issues. 444 00:26:50,806 --> 00:26:53,066 - Are you sure about that? 445 00:26:53,066 --> 00:26:54,559 - Yes sir, good. 446 00:26:56,356 --> 00:27:01,343 - No failed relationships, no abandonment issues. 447 00:27:04,636 --> 00:27:07,106 - Nope, nope I'm good man so 448 00:27:08,494 --> 00:27:10,094 you can move on to someone else. 449 00:27:12,099 --> 00:27:15,266 (indistinct whispers) 450 00:27:22,636 --> 00:27:24,129 - Is he really lying to me? 451 00:27:26,453 --> 00:27:28,989 Is he really lying to me? 452 00:27:30,246 --> 00:27:31,649 He's lying to me isn't he? 453 00:27:50,926 --> 00:27:53,586 Let's talk about the little four year old boy sitting 454 00:27:53,586 --> 00:27:58,159 on the steps with a butter pecan ice cream. 455 00:28:00,796 --> 00:28:02,136 As a matter of fact 456 00:28:02,136 --> 00:28:04,709 that's not even your favorite flavor anymore. 457 00:28:06,276 --> 00:28:07,669 It's cookie mint. 458 00:28:09,016 --> 00:28:11,569 Lancey, Lancey. 459 00:28:14,196 --> 00:28:15,939 Why is he calling you Lancey. 460 00:28:17,043 --> 00:28:18,789 Oh. he's always your father. 461 00:28:20,526 --> 00:28:23,456 He said he was going to the store and he never returned. 462 00:28:23,456 --> 00:28:28,456 You sat by the door and the window for weeks and months 463 00:28:30,686 --> 00:28:33,536 you were just four years old he never returned. 464 00:28:33,536 --> 00:28:35,959 Seven years later. 465 00:28:37,406 --> 00:28:42,406 Your mother was trying to get something to eat 466 00:28:43,616 --> 00:28:46,249 for you her only child. 467 00:28:48,196 --> 00:28:50,919 Shoplifting now she's in prison. 468 00:28:53,987 --> 00:28:57,070 But your auntie, your favorite auntie 469 00:28:58,316 --> 00:28:59,963 is coming to catch you. 470 00:29:03,936 --> 00:29:05,586 - Dr. Williams, how do you know all of this? 471 00:29:05,586 --> 00:29:08,216 - Naomi just let them continue. 472 00:29:10,559 --> 00:29:12,866 - When you get to her house, six months later 473 00:29:12,866 --> 00:29:14,096 you thought it was a family 474 00:29:14,096 --> 00:29:17,819 but her boyfriend ran with all of the money. 475 00:29:18,796 --> 00:29:20,379 Cleaned her bank account out. 476 00:29:23,153 --> 00:29:27,809 Lance, Lancelot do you hear me? 477 00:29:29,864 --> 00:29:31,529 - Yes, I hear you. 478 00:29:32,596 --> 00:29:33,846 He's the only one talking 479 00:29:35,439 --> 00:29:40,439 sorry, trying to wrap my head around this crap. 480 00:29:41,146 --> 00:29:43,306 You literally beat yourself up 481 00:29:44,926 --> 00:29:49,246 about things that you have no control over. 482 00:29:49,246 --> 00:29:54,246 It was not your fault. 483 00:30:05,762 --> 00:30:06,912 - I am afraid to trust. 484 00:30:11,406 --> 00:30:13,529 Anyone I ever loved in life just gone. 485 00:30:19,336 --> 00:30:22,729 Every time I trust and love it ends up for men. 486 00:30:23,926 --> 00:30:26,169 Nothing ever lasts, nothing ever lasts. 487 00:30:29,876 --> 00:30:33,356 - You keep listening to the loud speaker. 488 00:30:33,356 --> 00:30:36,809 That keeps whispering in your mind. 489 00:30:37,871 --> 00:30:41,349 You're a failure you're a loser. 490 00:30:43,886 --> 00:30:46,121 You need to start listening to the inner voice 491 00:30:46,121 --> 00:30:47,221 that's in your spirit. 492 00:30:48,316 --> 00:30:53,316 God is telling you, I will bring you out. 493 00:30:58,322 --> 00:31:01,489 (indistinct whispers) 494 00:31:05,109 --> 00:31:07,526 (sips water) 495 00:31:09,166 --> 00:31:10,596 I'm ready for Derek. 496 00:31:10,596 --> 00:31:14,099 - No doc, I'm not playing those games. 497 00:31:15,491 --> 00:31:16,809 - In that case, 498 00:31:17,806 --> 00:31:19,856 I think the session should be over tonight. 499 00:31:19,856 --> 00:31:22,356 It's been a long day. 500 00:31:22,356 --> 00:31:23,566 - I agree doctor. 501 00:31:23,566 --> 00:31:26,226 Well everyone lets just pick up tomorrow, 502 00:31:26,226 --> 00:31:29,226 tomorrow evening we'll continue the sessions okay? 503 00:31:29,226 --> 00:31:32,699 That's(indistinct) she got me signed up for okay? 504 00:31:35,089 --> 00:31:36,589 What is this crap? 505 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,467 (ominous music) 506 00:31:51,429 --> 00:31:54,419 - You know Dr. Williams is right. 507 00:31:55,916 --> 00:31:57,666 You have to learn to trust somebody 508 00:31:59,306 --> 00:32:01,886 besides you are a great guy 509 00:32:01,886 --> 00:32:03,529 but everybody loves you at work. 510 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,126 - You think I'm a great guy? 511 00:32:06,126 --> 00:32:07,219 - Of course I do. 512 00:32:11,016 --> 00:32:12,376 - This is weird. 513 00:32:12,376 --> 00:32:14,199 I felt this presence. 514 00:32:15,442 --> 00:32:16,736 - The presence like what, 515 00:32:17,708 --> 00:32:20,702 does it scare you, or what do you mean? 516 00:32:20,702 --> 00:32:24,769 - No, it was almost like peaceful. 517 00:32:27,058 --> 00:32:28,641 - Peaceful is good. 518 00:32:29,578 --> 00:32:30,818 - Peaceful can be good. 519 00:32:30,818 --> 00:32:33,068 (giggling) 520 00:32:35,277 --> 00:32:36,777 Thanks by the way. 521 00:32:37,742 --> 00:32:39,828 (mumbles) 522 00:32:39,828 --> 00:32:42,495 (ominous music) 523 00:32:58,264 --> 00:32:59,097 - Brey? 524 00:32:59,097 --> 00:32:59,930 - Mmmh? 525 00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:00,976 - What's the deal with Lance? 526 00:33:00,976 --> 00:33:02,226 You ever go out with him? 527 00:33:03,866 --> 00:33:07,069 - I haven't, never really thought about it. 528 00:33:12,166 --> 00:33:13,899 He is really attractive though. 529 00:33:15,366 --> 00:33:18,663 - Yes he is maybe you should. 530 00:33:22,406 --> 00:33:23,947 - I sure hope the babysitter's following the instructions 531 00:33:23,947 --> 00:33:25,649 I gave her for the kids. 532 00:33:26,646 --> 00:33:28,019 She never listens to me. 533 00:33:29,046 --> 00:33:30,933 - Maybe that's because of all the reasons you give her. 534 00:33:30,933 --> 00:33:33,056 - And just, what are you trying to say? 535 00:33:33,056 --> 00:33:34,256 - Keep your voice down. 536 00:33:34,256 --> 00:33:35,839 - Have you lost your mind? 537 00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:37,839 Don't tell me what to do. 538 00:33:39,276 --> 00:33:40,366 - Well, if you speak too loud 539 00:33:40,366 --> 00:33:42,966 we won't be able to keep up this perfect couple act. 540 00:33:44,646 --> 00:33:46,936 - And what I was trying to say is that 541 00:33:46,936 --> 00:33:48,686 maybe give the babysitter a break 542 00:33:48,686 --> 00:33:50,286 and let her do her job for once. 543 00:33:54,236 --> 00:33:55,069 - What? 544 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:57,353 - Nothing. 545 00:34:11,732 --> 00:34:14,815 (footsteps plodding) 546 00:34:20,946 --> 00:34:21,816 (laughing) 547 00:34:21,816 --> 00:34:23,552 - Sorry to scare you. 548 00:34:23,552 --> 00:34:25,266 (laughing) 549 00:34:25,266 --> 00:34:26,316 - What are you doing? 550 00:34:27,526 --> 00:34:28,359 - Thirsty. 551 00:34:29,296 --> 00:34:30,732 - Yeah? 552 00:34:30,732 --> 00:34:33,016 - You know, but from what I seen, 553 00:34:33,016 --> 00:34:35,973 Oh you definitely got what I need to quench my thirst. 554 00:34:35,973 --> 00:34:37,743 (laughing) 555 00:34:37,743 --> 00:34:38,766 - So you like what you see? 556 00:34:38,766 --> 00:34:40,069 - Oh, hell yeah. 557 00:34:42,266 --> 00:34:46,089 No docs, I'm thinking it's time for my first lesson. 558 00:34:48,267 --> 00:34:49,116 No, no, no, no, no, no, no 559 00:34:49,116 --> 00:34:53,669 no don't, don't cover up, I'm enjoying the view. 560 00:34:57,886 --> 00:35:00,469 (door opening) 561 00:35:09,846 --> 00:35:11,346 - Okay, I got you. 562 00:35:26,216 --> 00:35:29,203 I want you to forget you ever saw Bradley and me at Lolo's. 563 00:35:32,491 --> 00:35:34,126 - What? 564 00:35:34,126 --> 00:35:35,019 - You heard me. 565 00:35:36,396 --> 00:35:39,096 And I don't appreciate trying to out me the other day. 566 00:35:41,996 --> 00:35:44,846 - You know Aubrey has been a really good friend to Naomi? 567 00:35:47,216 --> 00:35:49,716 I think she should know that you're dating her ex. 568 00:35:51,906 --> 00:35:54,689 - I don't see how that's any of your business, honestly. 569 00:35:55,696 --> 00:35:56,529 - Yeah. 570 00:35:57,376 --> 00:35:59,989 - Oh, by the way, but not to the pool lately. 571 00:36:06,675 --> 00:36:09,492 (footsteps prodding) 572 00:36:09,492 --> 00:36:12,159 (ominous music) 573 00:36:14,896 --> 00:36:17,479 - Last night was life changing. 574 00:36:19,276 --> 00:36:23,566 Success is the sum of all efforts repeated day in 575 00:36:23,566 --> 00:36:24,399 and day out. 576 00:36:25,986 --> 00:36:28,646 In these sessions it's important to remember 577 00:36:28,646 --> 00:36:33,646 that there is no such thing as failure until you just quit. 578 00:36:35,756 --> 00:36:38,019 Let's go ahead and get started with the session. 579 00:36:39,206 --> 00:36:44,206 - Emotional distress tends to stem from our childhood. 580 00:36:47,316 --> 00:36:51,786 It's interesting that the psychologist say 581 00:36:51,786 --> 00:36:55,806 the girl is in the woman and the boy is in the man 582 00:36:55,806 --> 00:37:00,806 and if the man never conquers the boy he'll always be a boy. 583 00:37:01,446 --> 00:37:02,846 And if the woman never conquers the girl 584 00:37:02,846 --> 00:37:06,499 she will always be a little girl. 585 00:37:08,536 --> 00:37:09,369 Aubrey. 586 00:37:12,256 --> 00:37:13,139 Interesting. 587 00:37:16,316 --> 00:37:18,839 - My childhood was pretty normal. 588 00:37:21,293 --> 00:37:24,460 (indistinct whispers) 589 00:37:31,523 --> 00:37:36,136 - This was supposed to be a session about honesty and truth. 590 00:37:36,136 --> 00:37:37,906 - I don't know what you mean Dr. Williams. 591 00:37:37,906 --> 00:37:41,939 - You have this affinity. 592 00:37:43,013 --> 00:37:46,180 (indistinct whispers) 593 00:37:52,566 --> 00:37:57,566 Tell me about the conversations that mom and dad 594 00:37:58,876 --> 00:38:00,886 would have when you were playing 595 00:38:00,886 --> 00:38:03,662 with your toys in the play room. 596 00:38:03,662 --> 00:38:06,329 (ominous music) 597 00:38:14,716 --> 00:38:18,816 - My dad was the light of my life 598 00:38:21,476 --> 00:38:23,026 and he always made time for me. 599 00:38:25,641 --> 00:38:26,791 I was this little girl. 600 00:38:28,538 --> 00:38:29,386 (ominous music) 601 00:38:29,386 --> 00:38:32,576 I didn't know it at the time, 602 00:38:32,576 --> 00:38:35,729 but my mother was, 603 00:38:41,486 --> 00:38:42,519 she was a drunk. 604 00:38:48,516 --> 00:38:53,409 She used to tell me how low down and no good my dad was. 605 00:38:55,336 --> 00:38:56,249 Correction, 606 00:38:59,066 --> 00:39:02,236 she would tell me how low down 607 00:39:02,236 --> 00:39:07,236 and no good all black men were. 608 00:39:15,817 --> 00:39:18,969 She once told me that she felt sorry for me. 609 00:39:20,956 --> 00:39:25,216 Because by the time I was ready to marry 610 00:39:27,646 --> 00:39:30,599 there wouldn't be any black men that wanted to marry me. 611 00:39:31,612 --> 00:39:35,077 (ominous music) 612 00:39:35,077 --> 00:39:36,327 I believed her. 613 00:39:38,537 --> 00:39:42,509 I was young and impressionable. 614 00:39:46,272 --> 00:39:51,272 She eventually drove my dad away. 615 00:40:01,736 --> 00:40:03,229 He wouldn't reach out to me, 616 00:40:06,486 --> 00:40:08,686 but my thoughts were so messed up 617 00:40:11,566 --> 00:40:13,016 that I would just ignore him. 618 00:40:14,700 --> 00:40:17,367 (Aubrey crying) 619 00:40:18,608 --> 00:40:23,583 I don't even know where he is or if he's even still alive. 620 00:40:26,436 --> 00:40:29,337 - Why don't you want to talk about your mom? 621 00:40:29,337 --> 00:40:32,004 (ominous music) 622 00:40:41,995 --> 00:40:43,809 - She drank herself into her grave. 623 00:40:47,036 --> 00:40:51,179 But the damage was already done. 624 00:40:53,166 --> 00:40:57,559 I vowed to never repeat her mistakes. 625 00:41:03,552 --> 00:41:07,469 And so I've never been with a black man before. 626 00:41:11,616 --> 00:41:12,559 - Oh Tracy? 627 00:41:15,886 --> 00:41:20,886 Tracy seems to be the advise girl. 628 00:41:24,742 --> 00:41:27,522 - I don't know what you're talking about. 629 00:41:27,522 --> 00:41:30,189 (ominous music) 630 00:41:34,313 --> 00:41:36,796 - All the creepy advice you've given her 631 00:41:36,796 --> 00:41:38,359 far has she come with that? 632 00:41:42,946 --> 00:41:45,959 - Tracy, what is he talking about? 633 00:41:49,846 --> 00:41:51,496 Tell me what is he talking about? 634 00:41:57,086 --> 00:41:57,986 - Nothing to tell. 635 00:42:00,466 --> 00:42:04,369 - Tracy I know you, you're lying to me. 636 00:42:05,769 --> 00:42:06,976 Tell me what's going on. 637 00:42:06,976 --> 00:42:10,229 - Okay fine, I dated one of your exes. 638 00:42:11,766 --> 00:42:12,886 - What? 639 00:42:12,886 --> 00:42:13,719 - Tracy? 640 00:42:17,026 --> 00:42:21,136 - Okay it's more like I slept with him. 641 00:42:21,136 --> 00:42:24,266 - Well, how many of her exes have you dated, Tracy? 642 00:42:24,266 --> 00:42:26,126 - And who in the hell are you? 643 00:42:26,126 --> 00:42:28,126 - It doesn't matter who I am. 644 00:42:33,586 --> 00:42:35,066 - What do you want me to say? 645 00:42:35,066 --> 00:42:40,066 - There was Wyatt, Connor, Josh, Bradley. 646 00:42:40,888 --> 00:42:42,937 - Tracy, how could do this to me 647 00:42:42,937 --> 00:42:44,466 (Aubrey sobbing) 648 00:42:44,466 --> 00:42:46,856 You're supposed to be my friend. 649 00:42:46,856 --> 00:42:51,399 My best friend, you don't even like white guys, what? 650 00:42:54,806 --> 00:42:57,483 - I've always been attracted to white men. 651 00:43:00,663 --> 00:43:02,513 They just never been attracted to me. 652 00:43:04,783 --> 00:43:06,946 You want to know what I went through growing up? 653 00:43:06,946 --> 00:43:10,636 I had no boobs, no ass, 654 00:43:10,636 --> 00:43:14,093 I was basically two parallel lines, still am . 655 00:43:15,142 --> 00:43:18,229 Then you see see all the window, Get off the Oxy honey. 656 00:43:19,086 --> 00:43:20,329 And that was in college. 657 00:43:21,696 --> 00:43:26,023 All I got was rejected and then I met you. 658 00:43:27,935 --> 00:43:29,486 And you were so free thinking 659 00:43:29,486 --> 00:43:32,219 and all the white guys loved you. 660 00:43:33,496 --> 00:43:35,056 Yeah I was jealous of you 661 00:43:36,216 --> 00:43:37,956 because I had to offer them sex to get them, 662 00:43:37,956 --> 00:43:39,056 to spend time with me. 663 00:43:40,896 --> 00:43:45,406 And so after they slept with me, I convinced you to break up 664 00:43:45,406 --> 00:43:47,776 with them because I could see how unfaithful they were. 665 00:43:47,776 --> 00:43:49,296 - Wait, wait, wait 666 00:43:51,956 --> 00:43:55,559 so you slept with them while they were still with me? 667 00:43:58,706 --> 00:43:59,539 Tracy? 668 00:44:02,726 --> 00:44:04,776 I've always been there for you 669 00:44:04,776 --> 00:44:06,959 and you do know how to do this to me. 670 00:44:08,003 --> 00:44:10,656 How could you do this to me Tracy? 671 00:44:10,656 --> 00:44:12,929 - I did it for you. 672 00:44:12,929 --> 00:44:16,996 - Ladies, ladies 673 00:44:20,406 --> 00:44:25,213 there are some issues that have 674 00:44:27,676 --> 00:44:31,389 been deep seated within Tracy. 675 00:44:33,706 --> 00:44:36,456 - And the sad commentary is that 676 00:44:40,836 --> 00:44:43,526 she allowed herself to be plan B 677 00:44:44,586 --> 00:44:47,619 when she could have been someone's plan A. 678 00:44:50,686 --> 00:44:55,669 Tracy and all of my professional years, 679 00:44:57,176 --> 00:44:58,869 I've never said this. 680 00:44:59,936 --> 00:45:03,276 They can probably take my license when this is over. 681 00:45:03,276 --> 00:45:05,849 But Tracy, you're a whore. 682 00:45:09,466 --> 00:45:13,706 - You schizophrenic old man. 683 00:45:13,706 --> 00:45:16,966 You are judging me because of how I look 684 00:45:16,966 --> 00:45:17,849 - Really. 685 00:45:19,006 --> 00:45:22,999 You've been sleeping with Lottie Dottie and every body. 686 00:45:26,446 --> 00:45:29,636 When you were 14 years old, something happened. 687 00:45:35,516 --> 00:45:37,076 You're bright. 688 00:45:37,076 --> 00:45:38,306 You're intelligent 689 00:45:39,246 --> 00:45:42,559 but this is not the first time of betrayal. 690 00:45:44,696 --> 00:45:48,709 You started sleeping with your sisters boyfriends. 691 00:45:51,066 --> 00:45:53,406 You've always been plan B. 692 00:45:53,406 --> 00:45:55,666 - Congratulations, you're a stalker. 693 00:45:55,666 --> 00:45:56,936 Let me tell you something. 694 00:45:56,936 --> 00:46:01,316 We did not come here and pay to have you sit here 695 00:46:01,316 --> 00:46:03,666 and judge us while you think you're telling us 696 00:46:03,666 --> 00:46:05,456 things that we don't already know about ourselves. 697 00:46:05,456 --> 00:46:08,916 We already know, nobody needs you. 698 00:46:08,916 --> 00:46:10,506 And where is it that you got your PhD again? 699 00:46:10,506 --> 00:46:13,036 Because I'm going to have to talk to them. 700 00:46:13,036 --> 00:46:14,136 - Harvard. 701 00:46:14,136 --> 00:46:15,606 - Oh, okay, cool. 702 00:46:15,606 --> 00:46:18,636 So Harvard is admitting clown fools 703 00:46:18,636 --> 00:46:20,626 who don't know how to tie a tie 704 00:46:20,626 --> 00:46:23,186 or don't know how to look people in their faces 705 00:46:23,186 --> 00:46:25,126 when they're going to judge people. 706 00:46:25,126 --> 00:46:28,076 Got it Harvard man, noted, noted. 707 00:46:28,076 --> 00:46:28,909 - Okay. 708 00:46:28,909 --> 00:46:33,286 Why don't we just wrap up this session here, doc? 709 00:46:33,286 --> 00:46:38,099 Let's just continue all this tomorrow, okay? 710 00:46:39,278 --> 00:46:42,028 (ominous music). 711 00:46:46,428 --> 00:46:49,928 - I don't care what you people think okay? 712 00:46:51,586 --> 00:46:53,819 I did this for Aubrey. 713 00:46:55,368 --> 00:46:58,035 (ominous music) 714 00:47:01,946 --> 00:47:03,416 - Don't don't even, 715 00:47:03,416 --> 00:47:06,396 she's not worth the energy or your tears. 716 00:47:06,396 --> 00:47:07,936 Your smart, you beautiful. 717 00:47:07,936 --> 00:47:10,836 And all these people are here because they care about you. 718 00:47:12,626 --> 00:47:13,579 I care about you. 719 00:47:16,476 --> 00:47:17,309 - Thanks. 720 00:47:18,468 --> 00:47:21,468 (crickets chirping) 721 00:47:23,496 --> 00:47:25,686 - Barry even worried about her. 722 00:47:25,686 --> 00:47:27,036 - Why babe what's going on? 723 00:47:27,986 --> 00:47:30,226 - He's by the pool drinking. 724 00:47:30,226 --> 00:47:33,207 - And he's a grown man he can have a drink. 725 00:47:33,207 --> 00:47:34,507 - No you don't understand. 726 00:47:36,586 --> 00:47:39,096 First of all, he doesn't drink 727 00:47:39,096 --> 00:47:42,686 second he was using a flask. 728 00:47:42,686 --> 00:47:43,668 - Really? 729 00:47:43,668 --> 00:47:44,501 - Yeah. 730 00:47:48,586 --> 00:47:50,536 I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow. 731 00:47:50,536 --> 00:47:51,889 - Look, I'm sure when he's ready, 732 00:47:51,889 --> 00:47:54,009 he'll reach out. 733 00:47:54,009 --> 00:47:55,848 - Yeah, you right. 734 00:47:55,848 --> 00:47:57,781 Al right babe goodnight. 735 00:47:57,781 --> 00:47:58,781 - Goodnight. 736 00:48:01,331 --> 00:48:03,998 (ominous music) 737 00:48:13,131 --> 00:48:16,298 (indistinct whispers) 738 00:48:24,649 --> 00:48:25,732 Just go away. 739 00:48:38,926 --> 00:48:39,759 Babe? 740 00:48:40,986 --> 00:48:45,153 (indistinct whispering continues) 741 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,033 Babe? 742 00:48:55,236 --> 00:48:59,403 (indistinct whispering continues) 743 00:49:07,102 --> 00:49:09,769 (ominous music) 744 00:49:13,372 --> 00:49:15,872 (Naomi gasps) 745 00:49:23,121 --> 00:49:25,826 (door opens) 746 00:49:25,826 --> 00:49:26,841 (indistinct whispering continues) 747 00:49:26,841 --> 00:49:29,508 (door creaking) 748 00:49:35,419 --> 00:49:39,586 (indistinct whispers gets louder) 749 00:49:47,602 --> 00:49:51,269 (ominous suspenseful music) 750 00:50:34,535 --> 00:50:35,785 Where is the... 751 00:50:37,283 --> 00:50:39,616 - Naomi what you doing here? 752 00:50:41,796 --> 00:50:44,546 (dramatic music) 753 00:50:57,842 --> 00:51:00,509 (ominous music) 754 00:51:23,092 --> 00:51:26,989 - So hey, what's going on? 755 00:51:29,761 --> 00:51:32,892 What's with you with all of this. 756 00:51:32,892 --> 00:51:33,846 - Bro you know what this is. 757 00:51:33,846 --> 00:51:36,256 - Yeah I know what it is, but what are you doing? 758 00:51:36,256 --> 00:51:37,379 You don't even drink. 759 00:51:43,946 --> 00:51:45,739 - There's a lot of things you don't know. 760 00:51:46,941 --> 00:51:47,774 - Then tell me. 761 00:51:53,136 --> 00:51:56,479 - Things aren't so great between me and Liz. 762 00:52:00,666 --> 00:52:02,406 - Do you want to talk about it? 763 00:52:05,402 --> 00:52:06,966 - I don't know brother, no. 764 00:52:06,966 --> 00:52:08,266 - Yeah, but it might help. 765 00:52:14,116 --> 00:52:15,959 - This is the only help I need. 766 00:52:20,456 --> 00:52:21,499 - That's cool, 767 00:52:23,706 --> 00:52:27,136 look if you decide to talk 768 00:52:29,566 --> 00:52:30,946 just know that I am here. 769 00:52:38,957 --> 00:52:42,040 (footsteps plodding) 770 00:52:54,036 --> 00:52:57,159 - How many times have I told you not to be drinking. 771 00:53:05,468 --> 00:53:07,024 (ominous music) 772 00:53:07,024 --> 00:53:10,389 - Go smoothly, help this to be a good retreat. 773 00:53:10,389 --> 00:53:15,029 Bless this house. (indistinct whispers) 774 00:53:16,206 --> 00:53:18,396 - Oh, sorry for interrupting. 775 00:53:18,396 --> 00:53:20,146 Were you on the phone or something? 776 00:53:21,456 --> 00:53:24,269 - No, why do you ask dear? 777 00:53:25,136 --> 00:53:27,819 - Because I heard you talking to someone. 778 00:53:28,676 --> 00:53:30,069 - I wasn't on the phone. 779 00:53:31,896 --> 00:53:34,386 - Okay, look, I'm just on my way out to the pool. 780 00:53:34,386 --> 00:53:38,546 - Naomi, I want you to remember something 781 00:53:38,546 --> 00:53:41,256 it's important to forgive and remember 782 00:53:41,256 --> 00:53:44,766 that sometimes the situation is bigger than yourself. 783 00:53:44,766 --> 00:53:48,186 God would not have brought the two of you down this path. 784 00:53:48,186 --> 00:53:51,739 If it wasn't the right one, just remember. 785 00:53:55,180 --> 00:53:56,815 - Okay. 786 00:53:56,815 --> 00:53:59,482 (ominous music) 787 00:54:04,056 --> 00:54:05,926 - Welcome back everybody. 788 00:54:05,926 --> 00:54:08,346 Now, please do not disrupt 789 00:54:08,346 --> 00:54:12,049 Dr. John while he's doing what he does best, okay? 790 00:54:13,276 --> 00:54:15,197 Now, if you like to do some more research on his style 791 00:54:15,197 --> 00:54:17,816 of therapy, you're welcome to pick up a copy 792 00:54:17,816 --> 00:54:20,509 of Dr. John Wynn's book wrestling with God. 793 00:54:21,366 --> 00:54:23,926 You can pick it up at Dr. JohnWynn.com. 794 00:54:23,926 --> 00:54:25,446 The G of god is lowercase 795 00:54:25,446 --> 00:54:27,806 because it represents consciousness. 796 00:54:27,806 --> 00:54:29,556 Now let's go ahead and get started. 797 00:54:32,326 --> 00:54:36,119 - Elizabeth, how do you usually respond when crisis comes? 798 00:54:37,966 --> 00:54:40,719 Do you react or do you think? 799 00:54:43,971 --> 00:54:46,056 - I have the tendency to react first? 800 00:54:46,056 --> 00:54:48,139 It's like human nature, right? 801 00:54:50,346 --> 00:54:55,169 - I am not talking to you Naomi. 802 00:54:56,740 --> 00:54:57,573 - Sorry. 803 00:55:00,366 --> 00:55:02,053 - I'm talking to Elizabeth. 804 00:55:04,486 --> 00:55:06,156 - I guess when you're in the heat of the moment 805 00:55:06,156 --> 00:55:08,080 I don't think it's possible to just stop 806 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,479 and assess the situation. 807 00:55:16,578 --> 00:55:19,161 - The situation, the situation. 808 00:55:22,240 --> 00:55:23,736 (indistinct whispers) 809 00:55:23,736 --> 00:55:25,456 It's kind of like, if you told 810 00:55:28,416 --> 00:55:29,306 Anthony 811 00:55:34,946 --> 00:55:38,529 you wish he was dead or you wish you'd never married him. 812 00:55:40,056 --> 00:55:43,276 You think the apology will just smooth things over 813 00:55:43,276 --> 00:55:48,256 but it really won't because in his mind 814 00:55:48,256 --> 00:55:53,176 there is probably something saying 815 00:55:53,176 --> 00:55:55,936 is there some truth behind it? 816 00:55:55,936 --> 00:55:59,159 Did she really mean what she said? 817 00:56:00,766 --> 00:56:02,676 - I guess I see your point. 818 00:56:02,676 --> 00:56:04,499 - Do you really see my point? 819 00:56:06,796 --> 00:56:10,906 Because it appears to me that you're not selfless. 820 00:56:10,906 --> 00:56:15,906 You're selfish and you're also narcissistic and controlling 821 00:56:17,936 --> 00:56:20,756 - Whatever can you move off me now? 822 00:56:20,756 --> 00:56:22,026 - Let me tell you the story 823 00:56:22,026 --> 00:56:25,206 about a little girl who was bullied 824 00:56:25,206 --> 00:56:30,206 and mishandled and mistreated by her friends and her family. 825 00:56:33,916 --> 00:56:36,499 Her parents went to the movies one day. 826 00:56:37,751 --> 00:56:40,279 She suffered from deep depression. 827 00:56:42,046 --> 00:56:44,773 She finally decided she get back at everybody. 828 00:56:44,773 --> 00:56:49,773 So she went to her mother's linen closet. 829 00:56:51,006 --> 00:56:53,986 She got sheets together and begin to tie the sheets up. 830 00:56:53,986 --> 00:56:57,356 Barriers up Archway over the front door. 831 00:56:57,356 --> 00:56:59,049 She threw the sheets over. 832 00:57:00,486 --> 00:57:02,586 Elizabeth, why don't you finish the story? 833 00:57:07,246 --> 00:57:08,079 - Who are you? 834 00:57:10,766 --> 00:57:12,909 Maybe Anthony has something to say? 835 00:57:14,446 --> 00:57:17,017 - Me, why would I have? 836 00:57:17,017 --> 00:57:20,706 (indistinct whispers) 837 00:57:20,706 --> 00:57:22,419 - He's treating me like an idiot. 838 00:57:26,016 --> 00:57:29,566 Do I reveal it now or I tell him about it later. 839 00:57:29,566 --> 00:57:31,326 I think I'll tell him. 840 00:57:31,326 --> 00:57:36,326 The drinking, the abuse, the physical, the mental, 841 00:57:39,653 --> 00:57:40,570 the verbal. 842 00:57:41,466 --> 00:57:43,345 - Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a minute. 843 00:57:43,345 --> 00:57:44,629 Anthony you been beating on her? 844 00:57:45,636 --> 00:57:47,636 Is this what all this drinking is about? 845 00:57:48,866 --> 00:57:50,616 You know bro, I don't even know who you are right now. 846 00:57:50,616 --> 00:57:54,739 - Derek, you seem to have a lot to say, 847 00:57:55,636 --> 00:57:57,839 I will have my time with you. 848 00:58:00,306 --> 00:58:01,816 - You think I would disrespect our parents 849 00:58:01,816 --> 00:58:03,802 by beating on my wife. 850 00:58:03,802 --> 00:58:06,146 You really think I'm capable of that? 851 00:58:06,146 --> 00:58:07,586 You want to know why I drink? 852 00:58:07,586 --> 00:58:08,786 You really want to know? 853 00:58:15,156 --> 00:58:18,096 Me and Liz over the past couple of years 854 00:58:18,096 --> 00:58:22,129 the relationship hasn't been the best, we've had problems. 855 00:58:25,786 --> 00:58:28,279 Like I love my kids and I love my wife. 856 00:58:30,413 --> 00:58:32,179 I just can't do it anymore. 857 00:58:36,396 --> 00:58:37,846 I don't want a divorce. 858 00:58:37,846 --> 00:58:38,679 - What? 859 00:58:38,679 --> 00:58:41,426 - But that's not something we do. 860 00:58:42,358 --> 00:58:43,943 I don't beat on my wife 861 00:58:47,706 --> 00:58:48,756 she beats on me. 862 00:58:48,756 --> 00:58:49,646 - Shut up Anthony. 863 00:58:49,646 --> 00:58:52,096 - No man, I'm tired of you telling me what to do. 864 00:58:55,226 --> 00:58:57,556 I'm tired of you calling me names. 865 00:58:57,556 --> 00:59:00,446 I'm tired of you yelling at me? 866 00:59:00,446 --> 00:59:02,079 And I'm tired of you hitting me. 867 00:59:03,206 --> 00:59:05,649 - Anthony why do you put up with this? 868 00:59:07,456 --> 00:59:11,376 Tell her to get a broom and dustpan 869 00:59:11,376 --> 00:59:14,116 and sweep around the entire house 870 00:59:14,116 --> 00:59:17,649 until she finds her mind because she's lost it. 871 00:59:22,156 --> 00:59:24,849 - Elizabeth nothing to say? 872 00:59:26,376 --> 00:59:31,376 - It's true, everything that Dr. John said is true. 873 00:59:33,956 --> 00:59:35,769 I didn't have a voice growing up. 874 00:59:37,356 --> 00:59:39,156 I was picked on by the popular girls 875 00:59:39,156 --> 00:59:40,909 and ignored by all the boys. 876 00:59:42,616 --> 00:59:44,656 My family treated me as if I was a mistake 877 00:59:44,656 --> 00:59:46,006 that they regretted having. 878 00:59:47,616 --> 00:59:50,256 Finally halfway through high school. 879 00:59:50,256 --> 00:59:53,286 I met this guy who treated me better 880 00:59:53,286 --> 00:59:55,189 than anyone I've ever known. 881 00:59:58,266 --> 00:59:59,709 We became very close. 882 01:00:02,986 --> 01:00:04,586 One day we were hanging out 883 01:00:04,586 --> 01:00:09,586 and we were hanging out and he tried to rape me. 884 01:00:14,796 --> 01:00:17,619 He tried to rape me, but I fought back. 885 01:00:19,956 --> 01:00:23,209 I kicked and screamed and scratched. 886 01:00:24,866 --> 01:00:26,516 And that's where I found my power 887 01:00:26,516 --> 01:00:30,546 and fighting, hitting back abusing. 888 01:00:35,376 --> 01:00:37,566 I made a decision that I would rather get my point 889 01:00:37,566 --> 01:00:39,176 across by hurting you 890 01:00:39,176 --> 01:00:42,229 than allowing others to take advantage of and hurt me. 891 01:00:46,166 --> 01:00:50,299 - Why do you tear his self-esteem down? 892 01:00:52,736 --> 01:00:55,086 - He's the best thing that ever happened to me. 893 01:00:56,706 --> 01:01:00,206 And when he came along, everything was perfect. 894 01:01:00,206 --> 01:01:03,099 I didn't need to fight anymore. 895 01:01:05,326 --> 01:01:08,406 But then the bills came and the kids came. 896 01:01:08,406 --> 01:01:13,146 Then he lost his job and it was up to me to carry everything 897 01:01:13,146 --> 01:01:15,476 life happened and I started losing myself 898 01:01:17,296 --> 01:01:18,946 and that childhood rage returned. 899 01:01:20,046 --> 01:01:23,146 I started lashing out at him 900 01:01:23,146 --> 01:01:24,729 first it was just yelling. 901 01:01:25,696 --> 01:01:29,199 He tried everything to please me, but it wasn't enough. 902 01:01:31,886 --> 01:01:36,356 Instead of fighting back he just started drinking 903 01:01:38,746 --> 01:01:39,596 it's gotten worse 904 01:01:39,596 --> 01:01:42,239 but I guess that's because I've gotten worse. 905 01:01:44,626 --> 01:01:48,356 Anthony never used to drink and now that's all he does. 906 01:01:48,356 --> 01:01:50,816 - What do you have to say, Anthony? 907 01:01:50,816 --> 01:01:52,299 You are silent. 908 01:01:53,346 --> 01:01:55,079 You're not saying a word. 909 01:01:55,986 --> 01:01:58,769 You could hear a rat licking on ice. 910 01:02:00,796 --> 01:02:01,839 - It's hard, man. 911 01:02:03,506 --> 01:02:06,269 Trying to take care of my kids, trying to find a job. 912 01:02:07,816 --> 01:02:09,099 Take care of my family. 913 01:02:13,586 --> 01:02:16,836 Every night I stare at the face of the woman I love. 914 01:02:16,836 --> 01:02:19,489 And she reminds me of how pitiful I am. 915 01:02:22,476 --> 01:02:24,396 All I have is my alcohol. 916 01:02:30,364 --> 01:02:34,114 Baby I didn't know someone tried to rape you. 917 01:02:35,965 --> 01:02:37,726 You never told me about your past 918 01:02:39,796 --> 01:02:42,406 and I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. 919 01:02:45,996 --> 01:02:50,589 You never told me, I love you. 920 01:02:50,589 --> 01:02:51,739 - I love you too. 921 01:02:53,916 --> 01:02:54,749 - Look at me. 922 01:02:56,776 --> 01:03:01,776 Get rid of the emotional anger, the internal frustration. 923 01:03:05,286 --> 01:03:08,329 Forgive them and move on. 924 01:03:10,406 --> 01:03:13,939 - This has been very powerful session. 925 01:03:15,326 --> 01:03:17,076 I think this is enough for tonight. 926 01:03:17,976 --> 01:03:19,269 We can call it a night guys. 927 01:03:35,229 --> 01:03:37,812 (gentle music) 928 01:03:49,946 --> 01:03:52,926 - Dr. Wynn, thank you so much for chopping this off. 929 01:03:52,926 --> 01:03:55,536 Your methods have been so transformative 930 01:03:55,536 --> 01:03:57,356 in the lives of all my clients. 931 01:03:57,356 --> 01:03:58,446 - Thank you so much. 932 01:03:58,446 --> 01:04:00,206 I hope they are getting everything they need 933 01:04:00,206 --> 01:04:01,656 from it to change their life. 934 01:04:01,656 --> 01:04:02,489 They are. 935 01:04:02,489 --> 01:04:03,356 Thank you so much. 936 01:04:03,356 --> 01:04:04,224 - Thank you again. 937 01:04:04,224 --> 01:04:06,134 - We'll see you soon. 938 01:04:06,134 --> 01:04:10,029 - So how has everything been going? 939 01:04:10,926 --> 01:04:14,456 - Everything that's been happening has been mind blowing. 940 01:04:14,456 --> 01:04:16,509 It's been very enlightening. 941 01:04:19,186 --> 01:04:21,129 - That is nice to hear. 942 01:04:23,086 --> 01:04:25,576 - What is it about this house 943 01:04:25,576 --> 01:04:28,719 that seems to stir such energy? 944 01:04:31,166 --> 01:04:32,796 - Energy? 945 01:04:32,796 --> 01:04:35,366 - This house seems to be pulling 946 01:04:35,366 --> 01:04:38,866 back the curtains and revealing childhood secrets. 947 01:04:38,866 --> 01:04:43,766 And it's almost as this fits alive and you Dr. John, 948 01:04:45,636 --> 01:04:47,993 I don't even know how to begin to describe 949 01:04:47,993 --> 01:04:50,039 whatever it is that you're doing. 950 01:04:52,676 --> 01:04:55,306 - Haven't you heard that they say wherever 951 01:04:55,306 --> 01:05:00,306 two or three are gathered together in God's name? 952 01:05:01,276 --> 01:05:02,176 He's in the midst. 953 01:05:06,526 --> 01:05:08,286 - Yeah, I have. 954 01:05:08,286 --> 01:05:13,286 But what you're doing seems to be a little bit more intense. 955 01:05:13,326 --> 01:05:18,326 - Yes, this house has been in my family for generations. 956 01:05:19,786 --> 01:05:24,359 My grandmother had a very troubled childhood. 957 01:05:25,656 --> 01:05:27,276 When she was young 958 01:05:27,276 --> 01:05:31,926 she would find comfort and security in her Playhouse. 959 01:05:31,926 --> 01:05:36,406 She would run to her Playhouse when things were going wrong 960 01:05:37,566 --> 01:05:41,019 she would pray to God who would comfort her. 961 01:05:42,566 --> 01:05:46,026 She vowed that when she was older 962 01:05:46,026 --> 01:05:48,446 she would have a house where people could come 963 01:05:49,326 --> 01:05:52,159 for healing and security. 964 01:05:55,361 --> 01:05:59,929 - Sounds great, but what about Tracy? 965 01:06:00,776 --> 01:06:03,639 She just seems ready to go right back to hauling around. 966 01:06:05,756 --> 01:06:09,786 - Tracy has the opportunity to be healed from her brokenness 967 01:06:09,786 --> 01:06:12,839 but Tracy has to want it. 968 01:06:14,046 --> 01:06:14,879 - Will she? 969 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,647 (indistinct whispers) 970 01:06:23,806 --> 01:06:28,806 I felt a pull on me, something's going on with Derek. 971 01:06:39,299 --> 01:06:41,466 - I just don't understand. 972 01:06:42,346 --> 01:06:45,773 Why didn't you tell me what was going on? 973 01:06:50,469 --> 01:06:53,349 - I didn't want any criticism from our family. 974 01:06:54,406 --> 01:06:57,579 I don't want anyone judging me or my wife. 975 01:07:00,276 --> 01:07:05,276 - I'm your brother, I'm not here to judge you about nothing. 976 01:07:08,366 --> 01:07:11,906 If you got a problem, no matter what it is 977 01:07:11,906 --> 01:07:14,166 I'm going to be here for you 978 01:07:14,166 --> 01:07:15,966 because that's what big brothers do. 979 01:07:18,146 --> 01:07:19,726 Just know that I love you man. 980 01:07:20,683 --> 01:07:23,119 - And I know and I love you too. 981 01:07:25,836 --> 01:07:29,518 - She was really just beating your ass? 982 01:07:29,518 --> 01:07:31,768 (laughing) 983 01:07:34,866 --> 01:07:37,449 (gentle music) 984 01:07:42,966 --> 01:07:46,006 - First of all, I would like to thank everyone 985 01:07:46,006 --> 01:07:48,876 for continuing to join us on these sessions 986 01:07:48,876 --> 01:07:52,716 so much has transpired in the past few days. 987 01:07:52,716 --> 01:07:55,489 And I'm so grateful that no one has quit on us. 988 01:07:56,926 --> 01:07:59,299 Let's go ahead and get started Dr. John? 989 01:08:01,146 --> 01:08:03,903 - Naomi what's troubling you? 990 01:08:09,666 --> 01:08:14,296 - Are you all right, what's going on? 991 01:08:16,265 --> 01:08:17,199 - I'm lonely. 992 01:08:22,336 --> 01:08:25,969 My father and brother died 10 years ago in a car accident. 993 01:08:27,566 --> 01:08:29,516 So my mother was the only person I had. 994 01:08:31,425 --> 01:08:32,429 That was my rock. 995 01:08:34,166 --> 01:08:36,659 And then she dies the same way last year. 996 01:08:37,805 --> 01:08:40,472 (Naomi sobbing) 997 01:08:41,676 --> 01:08:43,766 - The loss of a parent is devastating 998 01:08:43,766 --> 01:08:48,299 because they represent your protector 999 01:08:51,486 --> 01:08:55,366 your security blanket, and they represent your identity 1000 01:08:56,556 --> 01:09:00,506 which causes you oftentimes to go into relationships 1001 01:09:02,916 --> 01:09:04,096 to fill them as a void. 1002 01:09:04,096 --> 01:09:07,639 And then most of the time they become toxic. 1003 01:09:09,106 --> 01:09:11,236 - Derek when you asked me to marry you 1004 01:09:11,236 --> 01:09:13,916 I felt the loneliness and insecurity would go away 1005 01:09:13,916 --> 01:09:15,316 but it hasn't 1006 01:09:18,098 --> 01:09:20,009 and I really really think 1007 01:09:20,009 --> 01:09:21,939 that you're keeping something from me. 1008 01:09:22,974 --> 01:09:23,807 - What? 1009 01:09:25,596 --> 01:09:27,886 Baby I'm not doing anything, I swear 1010 01:09:30,746 --> 01:09:35,346 - Really Derek, tell me does Naomi know about you 1011 01:09:35,346 --> 01:09:37,409 and Dr. Amber by the pool? 1012 01:09:38,736 --> 01:09:40,139 - Baby don't listen to her, 1013 01:09:41,946 --> 01:09:44,953 Nothing is going on between me and Dr. Amber. 1014 01:09:44,953 --> 01:09:46,353 - But what about the others? 1015 01:09:47,552 --> 01:09:49,396 - What the hell are you talking about? 1016 01:09:49,396 --> 01:09:53,986 - At what point did I lose control here 1017 01:09:53,986 --> 01:09:56,426 - Doctor I am so sorry. 1018 01:09:56,426 --> 01:09:58,606 I have no idea what Tracy is talking about. 1019 01:09:58,606 --> 01:10:00,179 Let's just continue with the session. 1020 01:10:00,179 --> 01:10:01,499 - Come on doc? 1021 01:10:02,996 --> 01:10:06,739 What's that you said to me, you can't hide from truth. 1022 01:10:14,672 --> 01:10:16,936 - Doesn't that work for everyone? 1023 01:10:16,936 --> 01:10:20,856 Dr. let me interject Naomi, please just let me... 1024 01:10:20,856 --> 01:10:23,869 - No, we came to you for help. 1025 01:10:24,886 --> 01:10:27,466 What kind of doctor are you? 1026 01:10:27,466 --> 01:10:29,466 It was tough on our relationship 1027 01:10:30,772 --> 01:10:33,186 and you come on to Derek like this. 1028 01:10:33,186 --> 01:10:36,956 - Naomi, I would never sleep with a patient 1029 01:10:38,077 --> 01:10:42,069 nor disrespect one that I admire so much. 1030 01:10:44,226 --> 01:10:46,916 Part of my job is to help people recognize 1031 01:10:46,916 --> 01:10:50,639 where they're falling short, help them overcome it. 1032 01:10:51,736 --> 01:10:54,856 And yes, sometimes I have to think outside the box 1033 01:10:55,776 --> 01:11:00,469 pale me, Derek loves you so much. 1034 01:11:01,656 --> 01:11:04,406 I thought that maybe if he was confronted 1035 01:11:04,406 --> 01:11:05,866 with a situation like this with you 1036 01:11:05,866 --> 01:11:10,679 literally 20 feet away, maybe he would reconsider. 1037 01:11:20,195 --> 01:11:22,276 - She just saw something in me and I just 1038 01:11:23,624 --> 01:11:28,609 I knew she wasn't gonna follow up on her proposition. 1039 01:11:33,146 --> 01:11:34,196 - It's not our fault. 1040 01:11:35,616 --> 01:11:37,896 - She didn't, she wasn't trying to 1041 01:11:37,896 --> 01:11:40,746 she wasn't trying to come have sex or anything like that. 1042 01:11:42,849 --> 01:11:44,449 That wasn't her intention. 1043 01:11:49,099 --> 01:11:51,349 (clapping) 1044 01:11:58,596 --> 01:12:03,596 - Now that this exercise and self reliability is over. 1045 01:12:07,746 --> 01:12:10,829 Let's go a little deeper with Derek. 1046 01:12:13,786 --> 01:12:18,786 You laughed, you made jokes and you were very resistant 1047 01:12:22,716 --> 01:12:24,129 in the sessions. 1048 01:12:25,526 --> 01:12:26,919 Now it's your turn. 1049 01:12:30,959 --> 01:12:33,823 - I don't know what you talking about, 1050 01:12:33,823 --> 01:12:38,823 but I tell you this you ain't get nothing on me. 1051 01:12:41,826 --> 01:12:43,849 - You don't know what I'm talking about. 1052 01:12:45,916 --> 01:12:50,916 You had a basketball coach who trained you 1053 01:12:52,016 --> 01:12:53,566 and help develop you. 1054 01:12:53,566 --> 01:12:58,566 And he was an interesting character, Derek. 1055 01:13:03,596 --> 01:13:05,266 You care to share it with the others 1056 01:13:05,266 --> 01:13:07,306 or if you don't I will. 1057 01:13:07,306 --> 01:13:09,246 This is a healing session 1058 01:13:10,136 --> 01:13:12,999 and you're going to leave this place free. 1059 01:13:16,325 --> 01:13:18,992 (ominous music) 1060 01:13:30,496 --> 01:13:34,289 - I was just thirteen, basketball was my everything. 1061 01:13:42,716 --> 01:13:46,216 Oh my best friend, Jonathan Haley was like 1062 01:13:47,686 --> 01:13:49,489 there's like Colby, a shack. 1063 01:13:56,566 --> 01:13:57,879 We got to middle school. 1064 01:14:05,163 --> 01:14:08,359 We started getting attention from 1065 01:14:08,359 --> 01:14:11,969 all these different places and people. 1066 01:14:16,897 --> 01:14:19,576 In middle school, we won an eighth grade championship 1067 01:14:19,576 --> 01:14:21,126 and we even got more attention 1068 01:14:23,287 --> 01:14:28,287 from Scouts and coaches, private schools 1069 01:14:35,062 --> 01:14:36,145 and trainers. 1070 01:14:39,746 --> 01:14:42,106 It was this one guy. 1071 01:14:42,106 --> 01:14:46,506 His trainer from USC came in 1072 01:14:46,506 --> 01:14:50,979 and checked out me and Jonathan in this AAU tournament. 1073 01:14:53,156 --> 01:14:57,587 Oh, he said that we have skills. 1074 01:14:57,587 --> 01:14:59,637 We'll probably take it to the next level. 1075 01:15:04,576 --> 01:15:07,399 And Jonathan always dreamed about going to USC. 1076 01:15:10,496 --> 01:15:15,496 So he convinced our parents to let us now come 1077 01:15:19,146 --> 01:15:21,899 to the college and train. 1078 01:15:23,396 --> 01:15:26,756 Now he said, if we practice hard enough 1079 01:15:26,756 --> 01:15:29,399 we can get to that next level in our career. 1080 01:15:36,276 --> 01:15:38,939 He would individually train us over the summer. 1081 01:15:42,216 --> 01:15:44,066 That was the worst summer of my life. 1082 01:15:47,846 --> 01:15:51,069 We went to the college and you know 1083 01:15:56,386 --> 01:16:00,066 he worked as mean he, those first couple of days 1084 01:16:00,066 --> 01:16:02,396 you know me and Jonathan, we was balling. 1085 01:16:02,396 --> 01:16:03,846 Well, you know, who's 1086 01:16:03,846 --> 01:16:06,729 he's trying to show out now everything went good. 1087 01:16:08,916 --> 01:16:10,446 I was like, on that fourth day 1088 01:16:11,506 --> 01:16:15,296 I just was angry out as he was, he was mad at us 1089 01:16:15,296 --> 01:16:19,176 as he poked his heart, all these Ali's rants and 1090 01:16:20,184 --> 01:16:23,389 and all these, you know, games we played and it and weights. 1091 01:16:25,696 --> 01:16:30,696 I was so tired man, dead, tired, you know 1092 01:16:31,226 --> 01:16:33,413 barely make it after doing all that 1093 01:16:35,836 --> 01:16:37,099 to locker room. 1094 01:16:41,702 --> 01:16:43,119 And he said to us 1095 01:16:45,176 --> 01:16:47,396 the only other time our parents 1096 01:16:51,802 --> 01:16:53,606 would come pick us up. 1097 01:16:53,606 --> 01:16:58,606 Oh, we had trained so long now four hours 1098 01:17:00,172 --> 01:17:02,856 trying to just call her parents 1099 01:17:02,856 --> 01:17:05,416 and told us that he'd drop us off at home. 1100 01:17:18,441 --> 01:17:19,774 He molested us. 1101 01:17:27,676 --> 01:17:29,779 He told us that it would build chemistry. 1102 01:17:32,539 --> 01:17:33,372 He said that 1103 01:17:35,915 --> 01:17:37,049 that if we told anybody 1104 01:17:37,049 --> 01:17:41,546 that he would destroy us, he didn't destroy us 1105 01:17:41,546 --> 01:17:43,209 it is to our families. 1106 01:17:48,666 --> 01:17:50,406 Jonathan could take it no more 1107 01:17:54,386 --> 01:17:57,219 so he committed suicide two years later. 1108 01:18:01,636 --> 01:18:03,886 No, I always felt like it was my fault. 1109 01:18:03,886 --> 01:18:05,138 Cause my phone. 1110 01:18:05,138 --> 01:18:08,309 Well, you should say something like just to say nothing. 1111 01:18:08,309 --> 01:18:10,246 I couldn't say anything. 1112 01:18:10,246 --> 01:18:11,969 I just should have told somebody. 1113 01:18:14,246 --> 01:18:18,979 - What about sexting and phone calls? 1114 01:18:22,976 --> 01:18:26,639 Charmaine Sylvia. 1115 01:18:28,866 --> 01:18:30,409 - We were young, man. 1116 01:18:33,806 --> 01:18:35,349 I was confused. 1117 01:18:42,413 --> 01:18:45,299 He took something precious from us. 1118 01:18:47,096 --> 01:18:49,376 This is boy, he's just trying to play ball. 1119 01:18:49,376 --> 01:18:51,859 He took our innocence from us. 1120 01:18:53,927 --> 01:18:55,549 It messed me up. 1121 01:18:55,549 --> 01:19:00,189 I was so messed up mentally, psychologically, emotionally. 1122 01:19:05,659 --> 01:19:06,666 I had something to prove, 1123 01:19:06,666 --> 01:19:08,559 I had to prove that I was a man, 1124 01:19:08,559 --> 01:19:10,559 that I was a real man. 1125 01:19:13,524 --> 01:19:15,663 So bunch of stuff, it's just stupid stuff. 1126 01:19:18,706 --> 01:19:22,786 Klein chief, just trying to have sex with all these girls 1127 01:19:22,786 --> 01:19:25,106 just to prove that I was a man. 1128 01:19:25,106 --> 01:19:26,816 Just manipulating them. 1129 01:19:31,243 --> 01:19:33,649 I'm still trying to prove it today. 1130 01:19:36,546 --> 01:19:37,856 - I want to say to you 1131 01:19:37,856 --> 01:19:42,856 that sometimes it's very difficult to love others. 1132 01:19:42,976 --> 01:19:47,976 When we are dealing with having problems, loving ourselves 1133 01:19:51,646 --> 01:19:56,646 God has not forgotten about you. 1134 01:20:03,146 --> 01:20:04,299 It's not your fault. 1135 01:20:08,305 --> 01:20:11,805 - I've forgiven myself. 1136 01:20:11,805 --> 01:20:16,805 I forgive you brother, it's not your fault. 1137 01:20:18,929 --> 01:20:22,239 I forgive you as hard as it is I forgive him. 1138 01:20:23,278 --> 01:20:25,528 I forgive myself even more. 1139 01:20:33,976 --> 01:20:38,389 - Learning how to forgive is paramount. 1140 01:20:40,946 --> 01:20:44,786 And if you don't know how to forgive now 1141 01:20:48,186 --> 01:20:50,749 you will never be able to move beyond that point. 1142 01:20:51,966 --> 01:20:54,136 The best thing you could have ever done was come 1143 01:20:54,136 --> 01:20:55,069 to the retreat. 1144 01:20:56,996 --> 01:21:00,899 You were the last toughest nut to crack. 1145 01:21:03,646 --> 01:21:06,546 I feel change. 1146 01:21:06,546 --> 01:21:07,949 That's coming to your life. 1147 01:21:17,434 --> 01:21:18,267 Doc. 1148 01:21:20,606 --> 01:21:22,656 - This is the conclusion of the retreats. 1149 01:21:23,706 --> 01:21:27,099 I want you to remember that God is the ultimate champion. 1150 01:21:28,066 --> 01:21:30,546 And when you leave here, I hope you remember that. 1151 01:21:30,546 --> 01:21:34,256 No matter what you feel or what you go through 1152 01:21:35,336 --> 01:21:37,636 that all things work together 1153 01:21:37,636 --> 01:21:39,719 for the good of them that love God. 1154 01:21:42,576 --> 01:21:44,993 I hope to see you all again soon. 1155 01:21:44,993 --> 01:21:47,576 (gentle music) 1156 01:21:59,686 --> 01:22:02,566 - Did anyone else feel that last night? 1157 01:22:02,566 --> 01:22:05,206 Yeah right, I felt it girl. 1158 01:22:05,206 --> 01:22:09,133 - Girl, no energy in the room you got chills. 1159 01:22:09,133 --> 01:22:11,463 - That's so crazy. - That was crazy. 1160 01:22:11,463 --> 01:22:12,296 - I'm glad we made it through. 1161 01:22:12,296 --> 01:22:15,330 As the last day I'm gonna head to the pool. 1162 01:22:15,330 --> 01:22:16,530 (indistinct chatter) 1163 01:22:16,530 --> 01:22:17,496 - See you all later. 1164 01:22:17,496 --> 01:22:19,971 - Oh girl. 1165 01:22:19,971 --> 01:22:21,235 - So what are you about to do? 1166 01:22:21,235 --> 01:22:23,634 - Girl I'ma about to relax, what you about to do? 1167 01:22:23,634 --> 01:22:24,467 - No, that's right. 1168 01:22:27,521 --> 01:22:29,444 - Oh, I want to follow him. 1169 01:22:29,444 --> 01:22:30,886 - You guys talking? 1170 01:22:30,886 --> 01:22:32,166 - Me and Lance? 1171 01:22:32,166 --> 01:22:35,586 No, we just work together why would you think that? 1172 01:22:35,586 --> 01:22:37,966 - I saw you two on the couch earlier. 1173 01:22:37,966 --> 01:22:42,739 - Oh, there is someone in this house I'm interested in, 1174 01:22:43,632 --> 01:22:46,019 but it isn't Lance. 1175 01:22:47,626 --> 01:22:49,359 No, but I'm no, I'm not white. 1176 01:22:50,861 --> 01:22:51,694 (laughing) 1177 01:22:51,694 --> 01:22:52,986 - I know, I know. 1178 01:22:52,986 --> 01:22:55,859 But Derek and Naomi said, you're a really great guy. 1179 01:22:56,789 --> 01:22:57,736 And up until now 1180 01:22:57,736 --> 01:23:00,736 I didn't realize the impact 1181 01:23:00,736 --> 01:23:02,386 that my moms words has had on me. 1182 01:23:03,346 --> 01:23:05,969 So maybe it's time to try something new. 1183 01:23:07,503 --> 01:23:11,016 Plus, Tracy tried everything to get at you 1184 01:23:11,016 --> 01:23:14,529 and you still turned her down so that's a start. 1185 01:23:15,886 --> 01:23:18,296 - We go outside and talk for a bit. 1186 01:23:18,296 --> 01:23:19,822 - Okay, I'd like that. 1187 01:23:19,822 --> 01:23:21,986 - You know, my dad's a retired cop. 1188 01:23:21,986 --> 01:23:23,156 He's probably investigator now. 1189 01:23:23,156 --> 01:23:25,056 So he's pretty good at finding people. 1190 01:23:38,616 --> 01:23:39,926 The good doctor? 1191 01:23:39,926 --> 01:23:41,546 - Derek? 1192 01:23:41,546 --> 01:23:43,696 - I was just wanting to say, you were right 1193 01:23:44,586 --> 01:23:46,589 I should have stopped a long time ago. 1194 01:23:48,996 --> 01:23:50,866 You helped me with my crisis. 1195 01:23:50,866 --> 01:23:54,097 I've been holding onto this all my life. 1196 01:23:54,097 --> 01:23:56,347 And I just want to say once again, thank you. 1197 01:23:57,886 --> 01:24:00,756 - Well, you know, as Dr. John has said, 1198 01:24:00,756 --> 01:24:03,139 always acknowledge God, he'll direct. 1199 01:24:03,996 --> 01:24:04,829 You'll be good. 1200 01:24:04,829 --> 01:24:07,386 - You can tell Dr. John I said, thank you. 1201 01:24:12,946 --> 01:24:14,626 - Wassup bro? 1202 01:24:14,626 --> 01:24:18,226 (indistinct chatter) 1203 01:24:18,226 --> 01:24:19,229 - Was going on? 1204 01:24:20,956 --> 01:24:23,056 - Me and Liz are going to get some counseling. 1205 01:24:23,056 --> 01:24:24,786 See if we can put things back together. 1206 01:24:24,786 --> 01:24:27,745 - Oh, bro that's good, I'm happy for you. 1207 01:24:27,745 --> 01:24:28,578 - Thanks. 1208 01:24:34,788 --> 01:24:37,806 Bro why didn't you ever tell me? 1209 01:24:37,806 --> 01:24:39,474 - Guess the same reason you never told me 1210 01:24:39,474 --> 01:24:40,559 about you and Liz. 1211 01:24:41,596 --> 01:24:44,429 - Tisha Tusha that's right. 1212 01:24:45,416 --> 01:24:46,249 You got a point. 1213 01:24:47,454 --> 01:24:48,616 I just can't believe you've been holding 1214 01:24:48,616 --> 01:24:49,979 on for all of these years. 1215 01:24:53,532 --> 01:24:56,054 I just didn't want to deal with it. 1216 01:24:56,054 --> 01:24:58,343 But now that it's out, I feel 1217 01:24:59,241 --> 01:25:02,016 like a weight's been lifted off my shoulders, man. 1218 01:25:02,016 --> 01:25:04,526 So I'm good. 1219 01:25:04,526 --> 01:25:05,729 - It's good to hear man. 1220 01:25:07,286 --> 01:25:08,856 - Glad you're listening. 1221 01:25:08,856 --> 01:25:09,766 - I'm always here. 1222 01:25:09,766 --> 01:25:10,783 - Love you bro. 1223 01:25:10,783 --> 01:25:11,709 - Love you. 1224 01:25:13,366 --> 01:25:14,259 - Are you ready? 1225 01:25:19,712 --> 01:25:22,379 - Yeah, last night was powerful. 1226 01:25:25,096 --> 01:25:26,046 I'm a little tired. 1227 01:25:28,611 --> 01:25:31,194 (gentle music) 1228 01:25:50,926 --> 01:25:52,126 Ever since the accident, 1229 01:25:57,826 --> 01:26:00,656 my gifts and senses 1230 01:26:00,656 --> 01:26:05,656 have been hiding, all of us have trauma. 1231 01:26:07,749 --> 01:26:09,499 Derek can have faith. 1232 01:26:11,425 --> 01:26:14,008 (gentle music) 1233 01:26:25,230 --> 01:26:28,313 (indistinct chatter) 1234 01:27:07,049 --> 01:27:09,646 - Rashida thank you so much 1235 01:27:09,646 --> 01:27:12,096 for allowing us to have the wedding here. 1236 01:27:12,096 --> 01:27:15,869 I feel closer to my mother more than ever when I'm here. 1237 01:27:18,116 --> 01:27:18,949 Is she? 1238 01:27:20,636 --> 01:27:22,809 My grandmother left this house to me. 1239 01:27:23,976 --> 01:27:27,479 This place, this room is special. 1240 01:27:28,746 --> 01:27:30,606 When you first arrived 1241 01:27:30,606 --> 01:27:32,986 I told you that this place was content. 1242 01:27:32,986 --> 01:27:35,566 And quite frankly it is 1243 01:27:36,516 --> 01:27:39,239 but not like as crazy movies that people watch. 1244 01:27:40,076 --> 01:27:41,519 This is a sacred room. 1245 01:27:43,246 --> 01:27:45,116 God is all around 1246 01:27:47,116 --> 01:27:49,476 he speaks through Dr. John. 1247 01:27:49,476 --> 01:27:53,306 He speaks through through me and those who hold them sacred 1248 01:27:53,306 --> 01:27:55,056 in their hearts can be transformed. 1249 01:27:56,866 --> 01:27:58,839 - But is she here here? 1250 01:27:59,716 --> 01:28:01,743 - Hebrews 12:1 says 1251 01:28:01,743 --> 01:28:05,146 "We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses." 1252 01:28:05,146 --> 01:28:08,596 And for you that witness is your mother, 1253 01:28:08,596 --> 01:28:13,119 the dream the whisper voice, that was her. 1254 01:28:15,176 --> 01:28:20,176 She wanted you to be with Derek and she knew the only way 1255 01:28:20,466 --> 01:28:22,386 for your relationship to work was for him 1256 01:28:22,386 --> 01:28:24,206 to tell you everything. 1257 01:28:31,099 --> 01:28:32,349 I'll leave you. 1258 01:28:36,459 --> 01:28:37,459 - I knew it. 1259 01:28:39,079 --> 01:28:40,329 I love you too.