1 00:00:00,896 --> 00:00:02,172 [all] Under, under, front, back. 2 00:00:02,172 --> 00:00:05,689 [kids] Previously on Doubling Down with the Derricos... 3 00:00:08,206 --> 00:00:10,000 I actually saw a girl that I liked. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,000 You got a girlfriend from step class? 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,103 These boys are girl-crazy. 6 00:00:14,103 --> 00:00:16,000 -They text each other. -[Karen] Oh? 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,655 A lot. 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,206 What? 9 00:00:19,206 --> 00:00:22,586 She's told me point blank that she felt pressured. 10 00:00:22,586 --> 00:00:25,000 I discovered that Karen is pushing Darian 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,517 to go to college in New York. 12 00:00:26,517 --> 00:00:28,172 So, we're gonna talk to Darian, right? 13 00:00:28,172 --> 00:00:30,206 And when she tell you that she doesn't wanna go, 14 00:00:30,206 --> 00:00:31,310 you're going to accept that. 15 00:00:31,310 --> 00:00:33,689 I'm gonna really encourage her to go. 16 00:00:33,689 --> 00:00:37,206 This is just another thing that we don't agree on. 17 00:00:37,206 --> 00:00:40,275 This is the one time I feel like she just needs that push. 18 00:00:40,275 --> 00:00:42,793 Oh, my God, his man hasn't finished. 19 00:00:42,793 --> 00:00:45,000 -[Karen] I thought a lot more would have been done by now. -[Deon sighs] 20 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,586 We just keep getting further and further behind. 21 00:00:48,586 --> 00:00:50,482 This is supposed to be a great moment. 22 00:00:50,482 --> 00:00:51,793 of us moving in the house. 23 00:00:51,793 --> 00:00:52,896 -It's all stressful. -Karen. 24 00:00:52,896 --> 00:00:54,586 I don't like this. 25 00:00:54,586 --> 00:00:56,482 [Deon] Most couples have issues, 26 00:00:56,482 --> 00:00:58,758 but where we are right now, I, I hate it. 27 00:01:02,689 --> 00:01:04,688 Daician, what's your type? 28 00:01:04,688 --> 00:01:06,620 -He has to be fine. -[Deonee and Daiten] Fine. 29 00:01:06,620 --> 00:01:07,931 -So fine. -Fine like a bunch of wine. 30 00:01:07,931 --> 00:01:08,896 He has to be so... 31 00:01:08,896 --> 00:01:10,517 No, I don't even like wine. 32 00:01:10,517 --> 00:01:13,689 He has to be a bucket of passion fruit. 33 00:01:13,689 --> 00:01:15,103 Bucket of seafood. 34 00:01:15,103 --> 00:01:16,275 [Deonee] No, bucket of love. 35 00:01:16,275 --> 00:01:17,827 [Deonee and Daiten] Wow. 36 00:01:17,827 --> 00:01:19,896 -Dang. -Like, our mind blows, like, 37 00:01:19,896 --> 00:01:21,000 -wow. -Boom. 38 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,172 ♪ Yeah, we lit, yeah, we lit, Yeah, we lit ♪ 39 00:01:23,172 --> 00:01:26,000 ♪ We can turn the party up Till the sun come up ♪ 40 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,482 ♪ Yeah, we lit, yeah, we lit, Yeah, we lit ♪ 41 00:01:28,482 --> 00:01:32,000 ♪ We can turn the party up Till the sun come up ♪ 42 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,000 [Deon] Look at y'all Valentine's Day cookies. 43 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,378 I like yours, Daician. 44 00:01:36,378 --> 00:01:39,827 -Don't eat it. Don't eat it! -Eat it. 45 00:01:39,827 --> 00:01:42,000 [Deon] And don't y'all put your little fingers in it. 46 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,344 Yours look good. 47 00:01:44,482 --> 00:01:46,000 We're getting in the Valentine's Day spirit, 48 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,620 'cause we're decorating Valentine's cookies. 49 00:01:48,620 --> 00:01:50,000 Uh-huh. 50 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,482 [Karen] Y'all know what Valentine Day is all about though? 51 00:01:52,482 --> 00:01:55,413 -Love? -Love, that's right. 52 00:01:55,413 --> 00:01:58,103 Valentine Day just a little different from just love. 53 00:01:58,103 --> 00:02:02,586 Valentine Day is typically between romantic couples. 54 00:02:02,586 --> 00:02:04,655 -[GG] Intimate. -So-- Say what? 55 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,551 Intimate love. 56 00:02:20,896 --> 00:02:22,103 So what, y'all know what it means? 57 00:02:22,103 --> 00:02:23,689 [kids clamoring] 58 00:02:24,827 --> 00:02:26,000 Oh, yeah, we know. 59 00:02:26,379 --> 00:02:27,689 Whoo! 60 00:02:27,689 --> 00:02:29,689 My definition of intimate love is 61 00:02:29,689 --> 00:02:32,689 rose petals, fire, the good stuff. 62 00:02:32,689 --> 00:02:34,689 The good, good, good stuff. 63 00:02:34,689 --> 00:02:36,551 -Yeah, yeah. -And... 64 00:02:38,379 --> 00:02:39,379 chocolate. 65 00:02:39,379 --> 00:02:41,000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good stuff. 66 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,482 What do y'all know about dating? 67 00:02:42,482 --> 00:02:44,896 Cause y'all, y'all, the boys got fired up. 68 00:02:44,896 --> 00:02:46,344 You have sex with a boy. 69 00:02:47,724 --> 00:02:49,551 No. 70 00:02:49,896 --> 00:02:51,379 Oh, hell, no. 71 00:02:51,379 --> 00:02:53,172 -[kids clamoring] -[Karen] No. 72 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,241 -Yes! Oh, hallelujah. -[all applauding] 73 00:03:03,275 --> 00:03:04,206 [Eric] That's right. 74 00:03:04,206 --> 00:03:06,586 -[Karen] Lord Jesus... -Amen. 75 00:03:06,586 --> 00:03:08,517 We, we definitely have to educate y'all. 76 00:03:08,517 --> 00:03:12,482 -Yeah, because there's so much more to dating than sex. -Than sex. 77 00:03:12,482 --> 00:03:15,793 Poppy and I can watch a movie. We can eat dinner. 78 00:03:15,793 --> 00:03:17,827 We can read a newspaper together. 79 00:03:17,827 --> 00:03:21,310 When you can be intimate with someone without physical touch, 80 00:03:21,310 --> 00:03:24,275 now that is real intimacy. 81 00:03:24,275 --> 00:03:29,103 These older children are growing up way too fast. 82 00:03:29,103 --> 00:03:31,793 Before I know it, they will be teens. 83 00:03:31,793 --> 00:03:34,379 So, we need to have these conversations 84 00:03:34,379 --> 00:03:37,586 so that they'll understand the appropriate way to act 85 00:03:37,586 --> 00:03:39,103 when it comes to dating. 86 00:03:39,103 --> 00:03:41,793 We have to get ahead of it. Like, now. 87 00:03:41,793 --> 00:03:44,172 You know, y'all are far away from dating, actually. 88 00:03:44,172 --> 00:03:47,206 But I got something we're gonna do this year. 89 00:03:47,206 --> 00:03:52,930 So, the boys are gonna take Mommy out on a Valentines date, 90 00:03:52,930 --> 00:03:57,482 -and then Poppy is gonna take the girls out. -I love that. 91 00:03:57,482 --> 00:04:01,620 So that we can educate y'all on what dating consists of. 92 00:04:01,620 --> 00:04:03,310 Our early days of dating, 93 00:04:03,310 --> 00:04:06,689 it was moments where it was embarrassing 94 00:04:06,689 --> 00:04:09,103 and it was a little awkward. 95 00:04:09,103 --> 00:04:10,724 [Deon] When Karen and I first started dating, 96 00:04:10,724 --> 00:04:11,896 I just remember thinking, you know, 97 00:04:11,896 --> 00:04:13,655 "Wow, this woman is special." 98 00:04:14,586 --> 00:04:15,931 'Cause she never has gas. 99 00:04:15,931 --> 00:04:19,172 You know, she always seems to just be the perfect, 100 00:04:19,172 --> 00:04:22,482 you know, just so poised and just, just-- 101 00:04:22,482 --> 00:04:24,379 Hold on, you couldn't think of another story? 102 00:04:24,379 --> 00:04:27,586 -I mean... [laughing] -I mean, something with gas? 103 00:04:27,586 --> 00:04:28,793 Oh, my God. 104 00:04:28,793 --> 00:04:30,896 [Deon] I just remember leaving the house, 105 00:04:30,896 --> 00:04:32,827 but I had to run back in. 106 00:04:32,827 --> 00:04:36,344 -And I heard the longest... -[Karen laughing] 107 00:04:37,172 --> 00:04:40,689 ...loudest sound. 108 00:04:40,689 --> 00:04:42,172 And I'm like, "So, you've been holding--" 109 00:04:42,172 --> 00:04:43,172 I mean, as long as that was, 110 00:04:43,172 --> 00:04:44,862 that means you've been holding this all night. 111 00:04:46,172 --> 00:04:48,000 -I don't remember, honest to God. -Yes, you did. 112 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,827 -[Deon] And it had a head on it. -Nah. 113 00:04:49,827 --> 00:04:52,586 -[laughing] Really? -That means it smelled pretty bad. 114 00:04:52,586 --> 00:04:55,482 Mommy and Poppy, where are you guys gonna go? 115 00:04:55,482 --> 00:04:58,517 Um, we're taking y'all out. Y'all taking us out. 116 00:04:58,517 --> 00:05:00,344 No, you two. 117 00:05:04,413 --> 00:05:06,689 [Karen] So, I don't know what Mommy and Poppy is gonna do. 118 00:05:06,689 --> 00:05:09,689 I mean, we just got a lot going on with the move and all, so. 119 00:05:09,689 --> 00:05:13,379 We'll just be happy to enjoy this time with our babies. 120 00:05:13,379 --> 00:05:15,344 Yep. Mommy's right. 121 00:05:16,586 --> 00:05:18,482 You know, recently, 122 00:05:18,482 --> 00:05:22,379 Karen and I have faced some challenging times within our marriage. 123 00:05:22,379 --> 00:05:25,517 And it's very important for us to take the time 124 00:05:25,517 --> 00:05:30,000 to make sure our spouse or each other feel appreciated and seen. 125 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,482 And especially when we're going through an extra amount of stress. 126 00:05:33,482 --> 00:05:36,172 Right, it's very important. That's that communication. 127 00:05:36,172 --> 00:05:37,241 We, we need that 128 00:05:37,241 --> 00:05:39,896 so we can kinda update each other what's going on 129 00:05:39,896 --> 00:05:41,206 and have conversations 130 00:05:41,206 --> 00:05:43,241 so you can both be on the same page. 131 00:05:47,172 --> 00:05:48,793 I mean, that's a good question. 132 00:05:48,793 --> 00:05:50,620 I can't really give you an exact answer, 133 00:05:50,620 --> 00:05:53,275 but just know Poppy is trying 134 00:05:53,275 --> 00:05:55,344 to get us in that other house ASAP. 135 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:57,413 So, we have to all stay optimistic, 136 00:05:57,413 --> 00:05:58,793 stay excited. 137 00:05:58,793 --> 00:06:01,586 Look forward to-- We're moving in our new house. 138 00:06:01,586 --> 00:06:04,275 -So, we lit. -[kids exclaiming] 139 00:06:04,275 --> 00:06:05,241 [Deon] Yes! 140 00:06:11,310 --> 00:06:12,275 [Karen] This is the time for bed. 141 00:06:12,275 --> 00:06:14,275 Let's get these little teeth right here. 142 00:06:14,275 --> 00:06:15,344 [vocalizing] Brush! 143 00:06:15,344 --> 00:06:17,413 [in normal voice] Okay. I'm gonna start with Diez. 144 00:06:17,413 --> 00:06:18,931 Y'all step over there. 145 00:06:18,931 --> 00:06:20,896 [Dior speaking] 146 00:06:20,896 --> 00:06:23,103 -Diez has stinky breath. -And you. 147 00:06:23,103 --> 00:06:25,793 And me. I mean, not me. Not me, not me. 148 00:06:25,793 --> 00:06:28,655 So, you need to brush all around the sides, 149 00:06:28,896 --> 00:06:30,103 the bottom. 150 00:06:30,103 --> 00:06:32,689 We make sure that our five younger children 151 00:06:32,689 --> 00:06:34,793 understand the importance of brushing their teeth. 152 00:06:34,793 --> 00:06:36,068 Rinse. 153 00:06:36,068 --> 00:06:37,517 [Deon] We want them to understand great oral hygiene. 154 00:06:37,517 --> 00:06:38,724 That's for one. 155 00:06:38,724 --> 00:06:41,068 But also we do not want our babies 156 00:06:41,068 --> 00:06:43,379 infringing on someone else with some bad breath. 157 00:06:43,379 --> 00:06:45,103 -Hallelujah. -No. 158 00:06:45,103 --> 00:06:47,206 All right, Dyver, you saw me help them. 159 00:06:47,206 --> 00:06:49,241 So, let's-- Show me what you got, okay? 160 00:06:53,379 --> 00:06:54,379 You do. 161 00:06:54,379 --> 00:06:56,310 [Karen] Start with your tongue. 162 00:06:56,310 --> 00:06:58,482 That's where the stench is coming from. 163 00:06:58,689 --> 00:07:00,241 Ew! 164 00:07:02,103 --> 00:07:03,379 All right, Dior. 165 00:07:03,379 --> 00:07:04,896 [Dior speaking] 166 00:07:04,896 --> 00:07:06,206 [Karen] Oh, wait, put that up. 167 00:07:06,206 --> 00:07:08,000 -Go put that up. -Says his tooth hurt. 168 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,241 Where does it hurt? 169 00:07:10,379 --> 00:07:12,689 -You gotta get that checked out. -[Karen] Yeah, we do. 170 00:07:12,689 --> 00:07:14,482 Let me see, let me see. Open. 171 00:07:16,620 --> 00:07:17,793 Oh, yeah. 172 00:07:17,793 --> 00:07:20,275 Yeah, we gotta get them into the dentist chair. 173 00:07:20,275 --> 00:07:23,724 You know, I was hoping I could postpone the dentist visit 174 00:07:23,724 --> 00:07:25,793 until after we move into the new house. 175 00:07:25,793 --> 00:07:29,896 Because it is extremely tricky to make dental appointments 176 00:07:29,896 --> 00:07:32,000 for all of my 14 children. 177 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,172 But we can't have a child that's in pain either, so it's... 178 00:07:35,172 --> 00:07:37,172 We gotta get him there to see what's going on. 179 00:07:37,172 --> 00:07:39,172 [Deon] Yeah, I see it. It's inflamed. 180 00:07:43,103 --> 00:07:44,482 No. 181 00:07:44,482 --> 00:07:45,758 -No? -[Dior] No. 182 00:07:46,172 --> 00:07:47,689 [Diez speaking] 183 00:07:47,689 --> 00:07:49,482 [Dior] Mmm... mmm. 184 00:07:55,620 --> 00:07:57,793 ♪ You gotta hit the ground running ♪ 185 00:07:57,793 --> 00:08:01,586 ♪ And believe in yourself you gotta trust it ♪ 186 00:08:01,586 --> 00:08:04,000 [Deon] There's so much still to do. [sighs] 187 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,482 -One day at a time. -Yeah, one day at a time. 188 00:08:06,482 --> 00:08:08,103 But, I mean, look, 189 00:08:08,103 --> 00:08:10,413 there's still stuff up there that ain't finished. 190 00:08:10,413 --> 00:08:12,413 So, Eric and I are over at the new house today. 191 00:08:12,413 --> 00:08:15,586 I left the mold test there, and I'm praying God 192 00:08:15,586 --> 00:08:17,689 it does not show positive for mold. 193 00:08:17,689 --> 00:08:21,000 -We gotta check for some mold, huh? -[Deon] For black mold, yeah. 194 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:25,655 My contractor told me that he saw moisture in the wall. 195 00:08:26,379 --> 00:08:28,172 At this point, I regret I ever told Karen 196 00:08:28,172 --> 00:08:30,068 about having this house before it's ready. 197 00:08:30,068 --> 00:08:32,000 It was not for sure worth it, 198 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:33,275 with the pressure and tension that's put 199 00:08:33,275 --> 00:08:34,931 on Karen and our relationship. 200 00:08:34,931 --> 00:08:36,068 Oh, here you go. 201 00:08:38,275 --> 00:08:40,102 -Yeah, that's not nice. -Damn it! 202 00:08:40,102 --> 00:08:41,448 Just like I thought. 203 00:08:42,688 --> 00:08:44,379 Damn, I knew it! 204 00:08:45,413 --> 00:08:47,586 -[Eric speaking] -Yes. 205 00:08:47,586 --> 00:08:49,724 Now, add that to the list of crap 206 00:08:49,724 --> 00:08:51,310 that I already had to handle. 207 00:08:51,310 --> 00:08:54,482 Black mold is a major health concern. 208 00:08:54,482 --> 00:08:57,896 It could wreak havoc on anyone in perfect health, 209 00:08:57,896 --> 00:09:02,482 not to mention like, Dawsyn with her heart, GG when she visits. 210 00:09:02,482 --> 00:09:05,448 I just cannot put any of us in harm's way. 211 00:09:06,172 --> 00:09:07,689 Now I can't finish painting 212 00:09:07,689 --> 00:09:09,172 until the mold problem gets figured out. 213 00:09:09,172 --> 00:09:10,931 I'm so frustrated right now. 214 00:09:10,931 --> 00:09:14,689 This could throw us off at least three weeks, if not more. 215 00:09:17,206 --> 00:09:19,793 [mumbling indistinctly] 216 00:09:19,793 --> 00:09:23,172 Check and see if this-- if that's plugged up. 217 00:09:23,931 --> 00:09:25,172 [Eric] It's plugged up over here. 218 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,000 Yes. 219 00:09:30,172 --> 00:09:31,241 No! 220 00:09:33,379 --> 00:09:35,689 -Why not? -No light, no electricity. 221 00:09:35,689 --> 00:09:36,793 Have you used these before? 222 00:09:36,793 --> 00:09:37,965 -These are those-- -[Deon] Yes. 223 00:09:41,689 --> 00:09:43,551 Let me go check this breaker box. 224 00:09:43,827 --> 00:09:45,310 Not this, too. 225 00:09:45,310 --> 00:09:47,586 You know, we should be celebrating, 226 00:09:47,586 --> 00:09:49,793 considering we're getting ready to move. 227 00:09:49,793 --> 00:09:51,620 And I know Rico is beyond stretched 228 00:09:51,620 --> 00:09:53,068 trying to get this house ready. 229 00:09:53,068 --> 00:09:55,620 And definitely, you're not gonna meet deadline if that's the case, 230 00:09:55,620 --> 00:09:58,172 because you know, stress can harm anybody. 231 00:09:58,172 --> 00:09:59,172 Especially the heart. 232 00:09:59,517 --> 00:10:01,068 Okay, is it on? 233 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,344 No light. 234 00:10:04,482 --> 00:10:05,482 Now? 235 00:10:06,689 --> 00:10:07,965 [Eric] It's not. 236 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:09,965 [Deon] That? 237 00:10:11,896 --> 00:10:13,379 No. 238 00:10:13,379 --> 00:10:15,068 Oh my God, that's all of them. 239 00:10:15,586 --> 00:10:16,482 No light. 240 00:10:18,689 --> 00:10:21,000 [Deon] I had a budget for my repairs, 241 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,827 but the way things is going, 242 00:10:22,827 --> 00:10:24,931 this budget is quickly dwindling. 243 00:10:24,931 --> 00:10:27,068 Karen been texting, asking for updates 244 00:10:27,068 --> 00:10:29,275 because she can't figure out why is it taking so long, 245 00:10:29,275 --> 00:10:30,482 why is there so many issues. 246 00:10:30,482 --> 00:10:32,517 But I have not told her all the issues 247 00:10:32,517 --> 00:10:34,482 because that's more pressure, that's more-- 248 00:10:34,482 --> 00:10:35,931 You know, although Karen and I 249 00:10:35,931 --> 00:10:38,586 are working on proper communication in our relationship, 250 00:10:38,586 --> 00:10:41,103 I don't want to tell Karen about any new problems 251 00:10:41,103 --> 00:10:43,172 that will lead to further delays, 252 00:10:43,172 --> 00:10:45,689 that will also lead to pissing her off. 253 00:10:45,689 --> 00:10:48,000 It seems like as close as we get, 254 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,275 it moves further back. 255 00:10:50,172 --> 00:10:51,344 Yeah, man, I don't know. 256 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:53,137 I mean, what do I say? 257 00:10:54,827 --> 00:10:57,275 Which one of y'all have girlfriends or crushes? 258 00:10:57,275 --> 00:10:59,793 [Dallas] Deniko and Denver are probably the most girl crazy 259 00:10:59,793 --> 00:11:01,586 because you know, they're talking about 260 00:11:01,586 --> 00:11:02,827 "Oh, I want this girl, I want that girl, 261 00:11:02,827 --> 00:11:03,793 I want this girl, I want that girl." 262 00:11:03,793 --> 00:11:05,241 And what do you think you're looking for? 263 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,172 [all laughing] 264 00:11:11,931 --> 00:11:14,344 [Karen] Derrico hasn't updated me on the house yet. 265 00:11:14,793 --> 00:11:16,310 I've been asking him, 266 00:11:16,310 --> 00:11:21,000 and... it's like I'm just left on read. 267 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,206 This just adds to tension between the two of us. 268 00:11:24,206 --> 00:11:28,379 The lack of communication is really, really stressing me out. 269 00:11:34,896 --> 00:11:36,793 ♪ I feel good, baby I feel great ♪ 270 00:11:36,793 --> 00:11:39,275 ♪ I ain't got too much on my plate ♪ 271 00:11:39,275 --> 00:11:40,689 ♪ We're gonna have a good day ♪ 272 00:11:40,689 --> 00:11:42,793 [Karen] All right. Y'all ready to do some nails? 273 00:11:42,793 --> 00:11:44,482 [all exclaiming] Yes! 274 00:11:44,482 --> 00:11:47,482 Karen's nail salon is booked and busy today. 275 00:11:47,482 --> 00:11:49,482 -Who's first? -Me. 276 00:11:49,482 --> 00:11:51,344 [Karen] Sparkle clear. 277 00:11:51,793 --> 00:11:53,793 [both] Sparkle, clear. 278 00:11:53,793 --> 00:11:56,000 Right. Okay, let's go. 279 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,793 Today we are doing our nails in preparation of 280 00:11:58,793 --> 00:12:01,586 the girl's Valentine's Day date with Poppy. 281 00:12:01,586 --> 00:12:04,689 No woman should have dirty nails going on a date. 282 00:12:04,689 --> 00:12:07,172 You can't move your hand, Dawsyn. 283 00:12:07,172 --> 00:12:09,689 My mom did not talk to me about dating. 284 00:12:09,689 --> 00:12:11,482 Her rule was, "Don't bring a baby home." 285 00:12:11,482 --> 00:12:13,793 So, I didn't get serious with anyone 286 00:12:13,793 --> 00:12:16,379 because it was always in the back of my mind. 287 00:12:16,379 --> 00:12:18,965 But now, have 14 children. 288 00:12:21,275 --> 00:12:26,310 Oh my gosh, that is so cute, De'Aren. 289 00:12:26,310 --> 00:12:29,068 -[exclaiming] Yes, I like it. -You like it? 290 00:12:29,068 --> 00:12:31,793 [Karen] My expectations for my daughters is that 291 00:12:31,793 --> 00:12:35,000 is that they will have high self-esteem within themselves, 292 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:38,172 to not feel like a man has to validate them. 293 00:12:38,172 --> 00:12:42,655 So, girls, are y'all ready for your big date with Poppy? 294 00:12:42,896 --> 00:12:43,931 [all] Yes. 295 00:12:43,931 --> 00:12:45,413 Where do y'all think you're going? 296 00:12:45,413 --> 00:12:47,310 -A restaurant. -[Karen] A restaurant? 297 00:12:47,310 --> 00:12:50,034 -Fancy restaurant. -I wanna go to a restaurant. 298 00:12:51,896 --> 00:12:53,482 Now what if you get to the table? 299 00:12:53,482 --> 00:12:56,379 Is Poppy supposed to sit down first or you? 300 00:12:56,379 --> 00:12:57,689 -He's supposed to pull our chair. -Pull our chair. 301 00:12:57,689 --> 00:12:59,000 [Karen] Good job. 302 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:03,000 If you got out on a date with any man and he sits down first, 303 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,241 you don't even sit down. 304 00:13:07,103 --> 00:13:08,655 [indistinct] 305 00:13:09,758 --> 00:13:12,931 More than anything, I don't want them to feel that this is a man's world. 306 00:13:12,931 --> 00:13:15,103 Because it won't be nothing without a woman. 307 00:13:15,103 --> 00:13:16,586 And I mean, that's just the truth. 308 00:13:16,586 --> 00:13:19,310 -[indistinct] -[indistinct] 309 00:13:19,310 --> 00:13:21,551 That's right. That's right. 310 00:13:24,275 --> 00:13:27,793 So y'all get a chance to see our new barbershop. 311 00:13:27,793 --> 00:13:29,172 -In GG's house. -This is great. 312 00:13:29,172 --> 00:13:31,172 I likey, I likey. 313 00:13:32,068 --> 00:13:34,793 Welcome to the new barbershop at GG's house. 314 00:13:34,793 --> 00:13:36,413 All right, so we're gonna do this in birth order. 315 00:13:36,413 --> 00:13:38,206 Derrick, you're first up. 316 00:13:38,206 --> 00:13:43,413 This barbershop space gives us the opportunity to be with GG more. 317 00:13:43,413 --> 00:13:45,689 But, it also takes me out of my hot garage. 318 00:13:45,689 --> 00:13:48,586 It was very, very hot in the garage in the summertime. 319 00:13:48,586 --> 00:13:51,310 So today, I'm getting my boys ready and fresh 320 00:13:51,310 --> 00:13:53,896 for their Valentine's Day with Mommy. 321 00:13:53,896 --> 00:13:55,931 Y'all can't look bad going out with Mommy, 322 00:13:55,931 --> 00:13:57,206 because when I went out with Mommy 323 00:13:57,206 --> 00:13:59,000 for the first time, I was tight. 324 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,000 For me, growing up being in a barbershop, 325 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:03,896 the camaraderie that we shared, 326 00:14:03,896 --> 00:14:06,275 I want to give that to my boys, 327 00:14:06,275 --> 00:14:08,965 and this is my opportunity to give it my way. 328 00:14:11,068 --> 00:14:12,862 -Your mama so-- -[Deon] Wait, hold on. 329 00:14:12,862 --> 00:14:14,586 Cause y'all all have the same mama, 330 00:14:14,586 --> 00:14:16,931 -y'all better not say nothing about my mama. -[boys laughing] 331 00:14:16,931 --> 00:14:20,000 Smack talk, sports and talking about women, 332 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,068 that's a common conversation that you're gonna hear 333 00:14:23,068 --> 00:14:24,689 in every barbershop. 334 00:14:24,689 --> 00:14:27,206 So which one of y'all have girlfriends or crushes? 335 00:14:27,206 --> 00:14:28,482 Well, I'm a free agent. 336 00:14:28,482 --> 00:14:31,000 I don't really have nobody right now. Right now. 337 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,517 So, Derrick, what do you think you're looking for? 338 00:14:32,517 --> 00:14:36,586 I don't know, kind of like, people who enjoy watching sports 339 00:14:36,586 --> 00:14:38,379 or like someone who just likes to work out. 340 00:14:38,379 --> 00:14:39,758 [Deniko speaking] 341 00:14:42,586 --> 00:14:43,689 [all laughing] 342 00:14:43,689 --> 00:14:45,172 All right, so, wait a minute. 343 00:14:45,172 --> 00:14:46,965 Wait a minute, now, that's a good one, now wait. 344 00:14:49,103 --> 00:14:51,896 I want my girls to be... 345 00:14:51,896 --> 00:14:54,793 short a little bit because I don't want them to be taller than me. 346 00:14:54,793 --> 00:14:57,482 I want them to have donk. 347 00:14:57,482 --> 00:14:59,379 I don't know, someone nurturing and supportive. 348 00:14:59,379 --> 00:15:01,172 I kind of like shy girls, you know? 349 00:15:01,172 --> 00:15:02,482 [Dariz] What do you want your girls to look like? 350 00:15:02,482 --> 00:15:05,793 Do you want them to be bad, good, evil, mysterious? 351 00:15:05,793 --> 00:15:06,965 See, that's the thing. 352 00:15:10,758 --> 00:15:13,310 And by the way, girls like bad boys. 353 00:15:13,310 --> 00:15:15,103 [both] Yeah! 354 00:15:15,103 --> 00:15:18,896 So babies, do y'all know what chivalry is? 355 00:15:18,896 --> 00:15:19,896 [Derrick] I do. 356 00:15:19,896 --> 00:15:21,310 -[Deon] You do? -Yes. 357 00:15:21,310 --> 00:15:22,586 [Deon] Who else knows? 358 00:15:22,586 --> 00:15:24,413 -Nobody. -[Eric] They're supposed to know, Derrick. 359 00:15:24,413 --> 00:15:25,379 That's a reflection of you. 360 00:15:25,379 --> 00:15:27,379 You're supposed to be passing them game. 361 00:15:27,379 --> 00:15:30,896 Chivalry is when a man really goes out of his way 362 00:15:30,896 --> 00:15:34,275 to show his young lady that you know she's special. 363 00:15:35,172 --> 00:15:37,862 It's very important that I educate my boys 364 00:15:37,862 --> 00:15:39,103 on how to treat a woman 365 00:15:39,103 --> 00:15:41,896 and how to respect a woman. 366 00:15:41,896 --> 00:15:44,793 -So, you know, girls, y'all listening to me? -Yes. 367 00:15:44,793 --> 00:15:46,275 I want to make sure y'all know how to know 368 00:15:46,275 --> 00:15:48,793 that y'all are being respected. 369 00:15:48,793 --> 00:15:51,103 If he's a gentleman, he smells good, 370 00:15:51,103 --> 00:15:52,586 he takes care of the bill, 371 00:15:52,586 --> 00:15:55,068 he has a close relationship with his family, 372 00:15:55,068 --> 00:15:57,172 you know, all of that stuff. 373 00:15:57,172 --> 00:15:58,172 That's how y'all got here, 374 00:15:58,172 --> 00:16:00,275 because Poppy checked off every single box 375 00:16:00,275 --> 00:16:01,862 and then some. 376 00:16:01,862 --> 00:16:03,103 [Deon] Women love to be heard, 377 00:16:03,103 --> 00:16:05,517 so like, you want to be a good listener. 378 00:16:05,517 --> 00:16:08,000 You know, mommy always loved hugs, 379 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,482 and I would just give her just, I would hold her. 380 00:16:10,482 --> 00:16:13,000 I wouldn't just hug her, I would hold her. 381 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,517 And I'll never forget one time, 382 00:16:14,517 --> 00:16:15,689 I had picked her up from the airport, 383 00:16:15,689 --> 00:16:16,931 it was late at night, 384 00:16:16,931 --> 00:16:21,068 but she was disappointed because I forgot to hug her. 385 00:16:21,068 --> 00:16:22,517 And he pulled over on the side of the road, 386 00:16:22,517 --> 00:16:23,482 I'm like, why'd we pull over? 387 00:16:23,482 --> 00:16:25,379 I done forgot I just complained 388 00:16:25,379 --> 00:16:27,000 that he didn't give me a hug. 389 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,172 He got out the truck, he walked around, 390 00:16:29,172 --> 00:16:32,000 he opened up my door, he helped me out, 391 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,620 and he gave me a hug right there on the side of the road. 392 00:16:34,620 --> 00:16:37,310 -That was nice. -Very nice and sweet. 393 00:16:37,310 --> 00:16:40,000 That was what really got mommy, you know, 394 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,793 when I stopped and gave her that hug. 395 00:16:41,793 --> 00:16:44,310 You listened to her, you paid attention to her. 396 00:16:44,310 --> 00:16:48,000 Very good, yes, man, you're getting it, yes. 397 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:49,689 You know, sometimes the keys of life 398 00:16:49,689 --> 00:16:50,896 has always been a woman hug. 399 00:16:50,896 --> 00:16:52,206 Poppy gave it to her, and she was happy. 400 00:16:52,206 --> 00:16:53,862 [Denver] In that case, Mommy needed it. 401 00:16:53,862 --> 00:16:54,862 [Dallas] Yeah. 402 00:16:54,862 --> 00:16:56,103 Poppy definitely has game. 403 00:16:56,103 --> 00:16:57,517 He does. 404 00:16:57,517 --> 00:16:59,689 You do this. [blows air] 405 00:16:59,689 --> 00:17:02,000 Mmm-hmm, good job, keep doing that. 406 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,379 Keep doing it. 407 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:05,068 Mommy, here's a good one. 408 00:17:05,068 --> 00:17:08,482 What if they say that, "Oh, I forgot my wallet." 409 00:17:08,482 --> 00:17:12,000 Oh, my gosh, you call that waitress over 410 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:15,378 and you split that bill, you pay yours, and you bounce. 411 00:17:15,378 --> 00:17:18,000 -Bounce. -You bounce, that's right. 412 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,413 You bounce. 413 00:17:19,413 --> 00:17:22,103 It's very important for a lady to feel 414 00:17:22,103 --> 00:17:24,758 totally understood by her man. 415 00:17:24,758 --> 00:17:26,378 It goes a long way 416 00:17:26,378 --> 00:17:28,000 when it comes to a healthy relationship. 417 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:29,586 You know, you're building that trust. 418 00:17:29,586 --> 00:17:32,896 Y'all better be very good on your date with Poppy, okay? 419 00:17:32,896 --> 00:17:35,379 Because if y'all not, I'm gonna hear all about it. 420 00:17:35,379 --> 00:17:38,068 -[Dawsyn] Okay. -I want y'all to be on it, okay? 421 00:17:38,068 --> 00:17:39,000 On it. 422 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,896 So I want you babies to make me proud 423 00:17:40,896 --> 00:17:42,620 and press Mommy on this date. 424 00:17:42,620 --> 00:17:44,172 Do y'all have the assignment? 425 00:17:44,172 --> 00:17:46,103 Or do y'all have the assignment? 426 00:17:46,103 --> 00:17:48,379 [Derrico boys] I got the assignment! 427 00:17:48,379 --> 00:17:49,758 That's what I'm talking about. 428 00:17:49,758 --> 00:17:50,965 All right, who's next? 429 00:17:59,172 --> 00:18:00,793 -Oh. Hey, guys, welcome in. -[Karen] Hi. 430 00:18:00,793 --> 00:18:02,758 Hello. 431 00:18:02,758 --> 00:18:06,862 So today I am taking 13 of my 14 children 432 00:18:06,862 --> 00:18:08,793 to get some teeth cleaning. 433 00:18:08,793 --> 00:18:11,931 Thank God I was able to bring GG there to help. 434 00:18:11,931 --> 00:18:13,931 And thank God there's a dentist out there 435 00:18:13,931 --> 00:18:16,862 that is catering to our busy schedule. 436 00:18:16,862 --> 00:18:19,275 -Hi, I'm Dr. Jensen. -I'm Karen Derrico. 437 00:18:19,275 --> 00:18:20,344 This is amazing. 438 00:18:20,344 --> 00:18:21,896 I've never had one family fill my waiting room. 439 00:18:21,896 --> 00:18:24,758 -[laughing] -I don't even know how you handle this. 440 00:18:24,758 --> 00:18:27,586 We don't often get families as big as the Derricos. 441 00:18:27,586 --> 00:18:31,275 We do have some families in the six or seven kid range, 442 00:18:31,275 --> 00:18:34,000 which is pretty big, but never in the 14. 443 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,379 So that's a first for Smile Reef. 444 00:18:35,896 --> 00:18:37,000 [Karen] Come here, Dior. 445 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,103 So it started with him because his gums were sore. 446 00:18:40,103 --> 00:18:42,689 Oh wow, yeah, that is a little bit inflamed back there. 447 00:18:42,689 --> 00:18:43,827 [Karen] Yes. 448 00:18:43,827 --> 00:18:44,965 [Dr. Jensen] We're gonna have to get an x-ray of that. 449 00:18:50,793 --> 00:18:51,896 [Dior] Mmm. 450 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,000 [Dr. Jensen] Do you guys know what a sugar bug is? 451 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,689 -[Derrico kids] No. -Turn around. 452 00:18:57,689 --> 00:18:59,689 So when the food gets stuck in your teeth, 453 00:18:59,689 --> 00:19:02,689 they go in and eat it, and then they make acid. 454 00:19:02,689 --> 00:19:04,379 And that's what kind of eats through your teeth 455 00:19:04,379 --> 00:19:05,862 and makes little holes in your teeth. 456 00:19:06,482 --> 00:19:07,586 So to try to protect your teeth, 457 00:19:07,586 --> 00:19:09,172 we wanna make sure that you're brushing good 458 00:19:09,172 --> 00:19:10,655 and brush the sugar bugs off your teeth. 459 00:19:11,379 --> 00:19:13,103 Yeah, all right, let's go. 460 00:19:13,103 --> 00:19:14,172 -Come on. -[Karen] Come on, let's go. 461 00:19:14,172 --> 00:19:15,862 Babies, y'all go in front. 462 00:19:23,275 --> 00:19:25,068 [nurse] So one right over here and one right here. 463 00:19:25,068 --> 00:19:27,586 Getting 13 children's teeth clean 464 00:19:27,586 --> 00:19:30,275 takes a whole lot of coordination. 465 00:19:30,275 --> 00:19:31,379 You're gonna go over to one of those 466 00:19:31,379 --> 00:19:32,379 other chairs over there, 467 00:19:32,379 --> 00:19:33,379 and you wanna go to the green chair? 468 00:19:33,379 --> 00:19:35,482 So you're gonna come right over here, okay? 469 00:19:35,482 --> 00:19:37,379 Getting them situated, figuring out 470 00:19:37,379 --> 00:19:39,896 where GG and I need to be for support. 471 00:19:39,896 --> 00:19:41,586 You're gonna sit in this green chair, okay, sweetie? 472 00:19:41,586 --> 00:19:44,000 And doing our best to make the process 473 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,344 as smooth as possible. 474 00:19:46,896 --> 00:19:48,344 [nurse speaking] 475 00:19:49,896 --> 00:19:51,310 [indistinct chatter] 476 00:19:51,310 --> 00:19:52,862 -[nurse] No? -Yes, he likes it. 477 00:19:52,862 --> 00:19:54,379 [nurse] Oh, he does. [laughing] 478 00:19:54,379 --> 00:19:56,482 Tickle, tickle, tickle. Does it tickle you? 479 00:19:56,482 --> 00:19:58,758 -Yeah? -I got my teeth clean. 480 00:19:58,931 --> 00:19:59,931 See? 481 00:20:00,413 --> 00:20:01,793 Pearly white. 482 00:20:01,793 --> 00:20:02,931 [nurse] You have such pretty teeth. 483 00:20:03,586 --> 00:20:04,862 All right. 484 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,551 They're doing great. 485 00:20:08,689 --> 00:20:11,000 [Dr. Jensen] All right, Dior, we gotta protect your eyes. 486 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,620 [Karen] Cool dude. 487 00:20:12,620 --> 00:20:14,448 [Dr. Jensen] Yeah, you're looking awesome. 488 00:20:15,379 --> 00:20:17,000 And we're gonna use this really bright light. 489 00:20:18,275 --> 00:20:19,655 Go down to those bottom teeth. 490 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,482 Let me see here. 491 00:20:21,482 --> 00:20:24,000 All right, so looking down here, we can see 492 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,482 that we're getting a little bit of a shark tooth problem here, 493 00:20:26,482 --> 00:20:29,379 so this tooth is actually dissolving pretty good, 494 00:20:29,379 --> 00:20:30,896 -but this one's not. -[Karen] Oh, wow. 495 00:20:30,896 --> 00:20:32,000 [Dr. Jensen] So we call it shark teeth 496 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,793 because the teeth go in behind, 497 00:20:33,793 --> 00:20:35,517 and you get a layer of teeth. 498 00:20:35,517 --> 00:20:36,896 Let me see, open real big for me, bud. 499 00:20:36,896 --> 00:20:38,896 So right down in here, you can see 500 00:20:38,896 --> 00:20:39,896 those two teeth coming in. 501 00:20:39,896 --> 00:20:41,655 -[Karen] Yeah. -Open real big for me. Ah. 502 00:20:44,172 --> 00:20:45,172 Oh, my gosh. 503 00:20:45,172 --> 00:20:46,586 [Karen] What's going on? 504 00:20:46,586 --> 00:20:48,379 [Dr. Jensen] He has extra teeth. 505 00:20:48,379 --> 00:20:50,068 So you're only supposed to have four bottom ones, 506 00:20:50,068 --> 00:20:51,862 but he has one, two, three, four, five. 507 00:20:53,206 --> 00:20:55,000 Instead of taking out two, we'll take out three. 508 00:20:55,931 --> 00:20:57,793 Rule number one as a parent, 509 00:20:57,793 --> 00:20:58,758 you do not let your children see 510 00:20:58,758 --> 00:20:59,620 that you're freaking out. 511 00:20:59,620 --> 00:21:02,310 In my mind, I am so freaked out 512 00:21:02,310 --> 00:21:04,896 because we had no idea we was gonna come 513 00:21:04,896 --> 00:21:07,517 and have teeth pulled today, let alone three. 514 00:21:07,517 --> 00:21:10,517 And I hope that this procedure goes completely easy, 515 00:21:10,517 --> 00:21:13,000 painless, because if this goes wrong, 516 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,896 this can definitely scar him for life 517 00:21:14,896 --> 00:21:16,275 as far as going to the dentist. 518 00:21:16,275 --> 00:21:18,000 [Dr. Jensen] So what do you think about losing your teeth today? 519 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,103 [Karen] Mommy's right here. 520 00:21:19,103 --> 00:21:20,379 [Dr. Jensen] All right, you ready? 521 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,724 [Dr. Jensen] All right, can you stay like a statue for me? 522 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:31,931 Open big. 523 00:21:31,931 --> 00:21:33,344 We're gonna make a car wash in your mouth. 524 00:21:33,344 --> 00:21:34,241 Here we go. 525 00:21:34,241 --> 00:21:36,034 [laughing] 526 00:21:36,034 --> 00:21:39,068 [Karen laughs] Ooh, he's got that giggle. 527 00:21:40,137 --> 00:21:41,896 Dior has three teeth on the bottom 528 00:21:41,896 --> 00:21:44,000 that has to be extracted. 529 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,379 This is probably why Dior was in so much discomfort. 530 00:21:47,379 --> 00:21:48,793 [Dr. Jensen] What about that, does that hurt? 531 00:21:48,793 --> 00:21:50,206 [Dior speaking] 532 00:21:51,137 --> 00:21:53,172 [Dr. Jensen] Okay, so we're pulling that one out. 533 00:21:53,172 --> 00:21:55,275 -[gasps] One's out. -[Karen gasps] 534 00:21:55,275 --> 00:21:56,379 -[nurse] Good job. -It's out, Dior! 535 00:21:56,379 --> 00:21:57,793 [Dr. Jensen] Open big, ah. 536 00:21:57,793 --> 00:21:59,103 Number two. 537 00:21:59,103 --> 00:22:01,000 [Karen] You got two of them out. 538 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:02,965 [Dr. Jensen] All right, how did that feel? 539 00:22:02,965 --> 00:22:04,068 [Dior speaking] 540 00:22:04,068 --> 00:22:05,620 [Karen] You did so good. 541 00:22:06,689 --> 00:22:10,172 I absolutely hate to see any of my children in pain. 542 00:22:10,172 --> 00:22:13,793 So I'm so glad the dentist was able to make my baby 543 00:22:13,793 --> 00:22:15,379 feel so much better. 544 00:22:15,379 --> 00:22:17,482 All right, buddy, here's your teeth. 545 00:22:17,482 --> 00:22:18,655 Keep them in here and then you can put them 546 00:22:18,655 --> 00:22:20,103 under your pillow tonight, okay? 547 00:22:23,896 --> 00:22:25,965 You were the best patients ever. 548 00:22:29,482 --> 00:22:30,827 [Diez speaking] 549 00:22:36,965 --> 00:22:38,551 [both laughing] 550 00:22:51,275 --> 00:22:54,103 [Karen] Derrico hasn't updated me on the house yet. 551 00:22:54,103 --> 00:22:57,965 I've been asking him, I'm in the bed before he gets home. 552 00:22:57,965 --> 00:22:59,965 So I'll just send a text and be like, 553 00:22:59,965 --> 00:23:01,551 "Hey, what's going on with the house? 554 00:23:01,551 --> 00:23:02,586 Let me know." 555 00:23:02,586 --> 00:23:07,965 And... it's like, I'm just left on read. 556 00:23:07,965 --> 00:23:10,689 Derrico and I, we talk about everything. 557 00:23:10,689 --> 00:23:12,000 We communicate everything. 558 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,103 We update each other on everything. 559 00:23:14,103 --> 00:23:18,689 So the lack of communication is really, 560 00:23:18,689 --> 00:23:20,586 really stressing me out. 561 00:23:20,586 --> 00:23:24,000 This just adds to tension between the two of us. 562 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,241 But I'm not gonna keep asking. 563 00:23:28,344 --> 00:23:30,172 I'm just ready to move into the new house. 564 00:23:41,862 --> 00:23:43,551 [Deon] So, I just got the phone to electrician. 565 00:23:43,551 --> 00:23:47,379 The electric issue that I had is gone. 566 00:23:47,379 --> 00:23:48,965 It was very, very minimal. 567 00:23:48,965 --> 00:23:51,862 The remediation company, they were able to come out, 568 00:23:51,862 --> 00:23:53,586 take care of the black mold issue. 569 00:23:53,586 --> 00:23:58,103 It was a very small area, so they were able to get it rectified, 570 00:23:58,103 --> 00:24:00,275 but there's still so much more that has to be done. 571 00:24:00,275 --> 00:24:02,586 And I'm paying the mortgage, of course, here, 572 00:24:02,586 --> 00:24:05,793 the mortgage at our other house. That needs to end 573 00:24:05,793 --> 00:24:08,551 on top of all the things that I'm having to to do 574 00:24:08,551 --> 00:24:11,448 to do the seams that keep coming up with this house. 575 00:24:13,034 --> 00:24:14,206 Yeah. 576 00:24:14,206 --> 00:24:17,241 Every time I talk about it, it gets me stressed. Yeah. 577 00:24:24,689 --> 00:24:27,896 [Karen] Y'all excited to take Mommy out on her date? 578 00:24:27,896 --> 00:24:28,965 [children] Yes. 579 00:24:28,965 --> 00:24:30,931 [Karen] Whoo. 580 00:24:37,448 --> 00:24:39,206 [all laughing] 581 00:24:41,344 --> 00:24:44,862 -Isn't it a date for your mom, though? -[all] For your mom, though? 582 00:24:44,862 --> 00:24:47,758 [Karen] Let's get in here to our date. 583 00:24:47,758 --> 00:24:50,275 This is amazing! 584 00:24:50,275 --> 00:24:55,000 But next time, ask the woman where she wants to go on a date. 585 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,241 Because had I known we were coming here, I wouldn't have wore heels. 586 00:25:01,034 --> 00:25:02,551 Yeah, yeah. 587 00:25:03,793 --> 00:25:06,586 I can just sit-- I know, I'm gonna play with y'all, too. 588 00:25:06,586 --> 00:25:08,482 I wore heels to play golf, 589 00:25:08,482 --> 00:25:13,275 and I mean, I know I'm a... a bad mamma jamma and all, 590 00:25:13,275 --> 00:25:15,137 but heels, playing golf is a whole 'nother level. 591 00:25:15,137 --> 00:25:16,586 -Hey, Mommy. -[Karen] Mm-hmm. 592 00:25:16,586 --> 00:25:20,758 Ask whoever he saw his balls to the hole, gets to pay for a date. 593 00:25:20,758 --> 00:25:24,000 So, whoever doesn't get the ball in the hole 594 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,896 -has to pay for the date? -[Dariz] Yes. 595 00:25:25,896 --> 00:25:28,758 [Karen] Y'all are the men, y'all supposed to be paying for the date. 596 00:25:30,793 --> 00:25:32,034 [all] Not it. 597 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,551 -Not it. -I have 70 bucks, so I literally can't pay for it. 598 00:25:35,551 --> 00:25:37,000 I have 10 bucks. 599 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,793 So y'all know when y'all bring a woman on a date 600 00:25:39,793 --> 00:25:42,137 and if she gotta pay for it, 601 00:25:42,137 --> 00:25:44,586 we called men like that "scrubs," okay? 602 00:25:44,586 --> 00:25:46,655 Y'all are supposed to pay for the date? 603 00:25:48,379 --> 00:25:51,793 -Yeah! -Y'all ain't got no gold for me to dig! 604 00:25:51,793 --> 00:25:53,068 Boy, bye! 605 00:25:53,068 --> 00:25:54,551 Like, a girl doesn't like a man, 606 00:25:54,551 --> 00:25:56,172 -she'll gold dig for him. -Yeah. 607 00:25:56,172 --> 00:25:57,862 That's just true. 608 00:25:57,862 --> 00:26:01,344 So, look, who, whoever doesn't get the hole in one, 609 00:26:01,344 --> 00:26:03,379 -has to pay. So who's up? -Me. 610 00:26:03,379 --> 00:26:04,551 -[Karen] All right. -Oh, that's Derrick. 611 00:26:04,551 --> 00:26:07,344 Derek, get ready to pay for this meal for this. 612 00:26:08,275 --> 00:26:11,551 Okay, let's see what he gonna do, y'all. 613 00:26:12,275 --> 00:26:18,241 [Karen and children exclaims] 614 00:26:18,241 --> 00:26:20,068 [Karen] They missed. 615 00:26:20,068 --> 00:26:21,482 He missed the hole. 616 00:26:21,482 --> 00:26:23,689 Boys, I may miss the hole, like, one time, 617 00:26:23,689 --> 00:26:25,172 -but y'all missing, like, several. -No. 618 00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:27,758 [Karen] Show 'em, Dariz. Oh, God. 619 00:26:29,689 --> 00:26:31,241 -Bad shot. -[Derrick] Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 620 00:26:31,896 --> 00:26:33,000 It collided. It collided. 621 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,137 I think I'm good at golf. 622 00:26:34,137 --> 00:26:35,689 I think I'm extremely good at golf. 623 00:26:35,689 --> 00:26:38,275 I think I'm literally the best one ever. 624 00:26:38,275 --> 00:26:40,000 [Derrick] Okay. 625 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,275 [all laughing] 626 00:26:43,275 --> 00:26:46,034 [Karen] Take a look at Mommy. 627 00:26:46,034 --> 00:26:49,172 'Cause this seems like I can give birth to y'all, 628 00:26:49,172 --> 00:26:51,862 breastfeed y'all, homeschool y'all, 629 00:26:51,862 --> 00:26:53,689 and teach y'all about some golf. 630 00:26:53,689 --> 00:26:54,965 Ready? 631 00:26:55,965 --> 00:26:58,137 [Derrick] Set, go. 632 00:26:58,965 --> 00:27:01,482 Ooh. [gasps] 633 00:27:01,482 --> 00:27:02,793 [Denver] It doesn't go in the yellow. 634 00:27:02,793 --> 00:27:04,448 -It went in the hole. -[Derrick] Would it? 635 00:27:04,448 --> 00:27:11,689 [all exclaiming] 636 00:27:11,689 --> 00:27:15,793 I've showed the boys a thing or two about golfing and competition. 637 00:27:15,793 --> 00:27:17,793 None of y'all made a hole in one. 638 00:27:17,793 --> 00:27:21,896 -So, y'all are paying, right? -Fine. I'll pay. 639 00:27:21,896 --> 00:27:23,482 I appreciate that. 640 00:27:23,482 --> 00:27:25,275 The date was fun, 641 00:27:25,275 --> 00:27:27,586 but above all else, I hope they can learn 642 00:27:27,586 --> 00:27:29,896 about how important it is to communicate, 643 00:27:29,896 --> 00:27:33,482 because that's the key to making relationships work. 644 00:27:33,482 --> 00:27:35,793 You know, I wanna make sure y'all meet a girl 645 00:27:35,793 --> 00:27:38,379 that y'all know how to listen as well. 646 00:27:38,379 --> 00:27:40,275 Listening is important. 647 00:27:40,275 --> 00:27:41,896 And you're gonna communicate-- 648 00:27:41,896 --> 00:27:44,275 -Use our words -[Karen] And you're gonna use the right words. 649 00:27:44,275 --> 00:27:47,034 -Okay? -Yes. 650 00:27:47,034 --> 00:27:51,758 So, the boys still have a lot of work to do, but they're getting there. 651 00:27:51,758 --> 00:27:54,689 This date has been good. 652 00:27:54,689 --> 00:28:01,103 Unusual, but I'm so glad that I just happened to really love all of you. 653 00:28:01,103 --> 00:28:05,379 Because otherwise, I would've left y'all a little scrub selves, right? 654 00:28:05,379 --> 00:28:07,310 [laughs] 655 00:28:08,689 --> 00:28:11,172 So, why didn't you tell me what's going on in the house? 656 00:28:11,172 --> 00:28:13,344 Why would I bring this type of headache home to you? 657 00:28:13,344 --> 00:28:16,034 I just really need Derrico to understand 658 00:28:16,034 --> 00:28:18,379 that he has to communicate with me 659 00:28:18,379 --> 00:28:21,551 when it affects the whole entire family. 660 00:28:21,551 --> 00:28:25,241 I am not in the Valentine's dating room. 661 00:28:26,275 --> 00:28:27,344 Really? 662 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,896 [Deon] Miladies. 663 00:28:39,896 --> 00:28:42,758 -Ooh, this is nice. -Wow. 664 00:28:42,758 --> 00:28:44,137 [Deon] So, I'm taking my daughters out for tea 665 00:28:44,137 --> 00:28:46,172 and I'm also gonna give them the tea 666 00:28:46,172 --> 00:28:48,000 on what to expect from a gentleman 667 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,931 who's taken them out on a date. 668 00:28:50,586 --> 00:28:54,482 But I am setting the bar very high 669 00:28:54,482 --> 00:28:56,896 for all of my daughter's future boyfriends. 670 00:28:56,896 --> 00:28:58,137 This is so nice. 671 00:28:58,137 --> 00:29:00,793 -Look, I'm... I'm as excited as y'all are. -Uh, uh, uh. 672 00:29:00,793 --> 00:29:02,137 Strike one, Papi. 673 00:29:02,137 --> 00:29:03,793 You... You didn't even... You didn't even pull our chairs out. 674 00:29:03,793 --> 00:29:05,965 -Red flag. -[Deon] All right. 675 00:29:05,965 --> 00:29:07,517 Let me come pull your chairs out. 676 00:29:07,965 --> 00:29:09,448 All right, madame. 677 00:29:09,448 --> 00:29:12,172 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 678 00:29:12,172 --> 00:29:15,000 I've been a gentleman for 53 years. 679 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,896 I already have it down pat. 680 00:29:16,896 --> 00:29:18,655 I just forgot this one time. 681 00:29:18,655 --> 00:29:21,137 And here's your little teapot. 682 00:29:21,137 --> 00:29:23,275 [Daician] We're gonna have to come here more often. 683 00:29:23,275 --> 00:29:26,586 [Deon] It is very important For my daughters 684 00:29:26,586 --> 00:29:29,103 to understand how to be treated on a date. 685 00:29:29,103 --> 00:29:30,862 And remember, Darian is an adult. 686 00:29:30,862 --> 00:29:33,344 So at any point, Darian could be going on a date. 687 00:29:33,344 --> 00:29:35,862 This is so neat. I feel so fancy. 688 00:29:35,862 --> 00:29:39,482 I am currently not dating anyone, 689 00:29:39,482 --> 00:29:42,482 because I wanna focus on thinking about college 690 00:29:42,482 --> 00:29:46,275 but also, I have a crush on Cam Whitmore. 691 00:29:46,275 --> 00:29:47,482 He is a basketball player. 692 00:29:47,482 --> 00:29:50,655 [laughs] I just saw him on TV, ooh, he's cute. 693 00:29:50,655 --> 00:29:52,448 Oh, my gosh, that's good. 694 00:29:53,172 --> 00:29:54,655 Mmm! 695 00:29:54,655 --> 00:29:56,689 Nice and sweet. 696 00:29:56,689 --> 00:29:58,103 How many cubes you put of sugar? 697 00:29:58,103 --> 00:30:02,034 I don't know. But it got my mind right in a good way. 698 00:30:02,034 --> 00:30:04,758 [laughs] 699 00:30:04,758 --> 00:30:07,551 Papi, did you put your napkin on your lap? 700 00:30:07,551 --> 00:30:09,034 Oh, my God. 701 00:30:09,034 --> 00:30:12,344 -[laughs] Oh, my God. Red flag, for sure. -Red flag. 702 00:30:12,344 --> 00:30:14,586 See, Papi's not used to this. 703 00:30:14,586 --> 00:30:16,793 Papi has two red flags, so far. 704 00:30:16,793 --> 00:30:18,482 It was a lot of red flags. 705 00:30:18,482 --> 00:30:20,379 [speaking indistinctly] 706 00:30:20,379 --> 00:30:22,137 And he did not put a napkin on his-- 707 00:30:22,137 --> 00:30:24,000 Oh, yeah, 'cause he's really messy. 708 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,482 This date is not going well. 709 00:30:25,482 --> 00:30:27,034 Yes, sure isn't. 710 00:30:27,034 --> 00:30:29,379 Well, this is really good. 711 00:30:29,379 --> 00:30:30,896 [Deon] It is. 712 00:30:30,896 --> 00:30:34,655 So since we're on is a date, I have a few questions to get to know you. 713 00:30:34,655 --> 00:30:37,758 -Okay. -So, what do you do for a living? 714 00:30:37,758 --> 00:30:40,448 -I live in my mother's basement. -Whoa. 715 00:30:41,137 --> 00:30:43,241 -Mmm, okay. -And I'm a gamer. 716 00:30:44,172 --> 00:30:45,793 You sound like a 10-year-old. 717 00:30:45,793 --> 00:30:48,000 -[all laughing] -[Deonee] Security. Secur-- 718 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,793 We need security. 719 00:30:49,793 --> 00:30:51,758 How do you feel about having children? 720 00:30:51,758 --> 00:30:54,137 Honestly, I don't want children. 721 00:30:54,137 --> 00:30:57,000 I just feel like having children will take away 722 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,482 from the things that I wanna do for myself. 723 00:30:59,482 --> 00:31:03,275 -Yeah, that's... that's gonna be enough for me, dawg. -You don't wanna do nothing. 724 00:31:03,275 --> 00:31:09,172 You sound really lazy. I have two words for you, "boy, bye." 725 00:31:09,172 --> 00:31:11,965 -[all laughing] -"Boy." 726 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,068 Oh, my... 727 00:31:15,068 --> 00:31:17,482 He was a nice bum. 728 00:31:17,482 --> 00:31:19,758 -[all] Yeah. -A nice bum. 729 00:31:19,758 --> 00:31:24,034 An adult baby that needs his mum for every little thing. 730 00:31:24,034 --> 00:31:25,689 -That's sad. -That's very sad. 731 00:31:25,689 --> 00:31:27,379 That's extremely sad. 732 00:31:27,379 --> 00:31:30,689 So, the thing that I'm most impressed with, 733 00:31:30,689 --> 00:31:31,931 that all of you all did, 734 00:31:31,931 --> 00:31:38,551 y'all stood firm on what your expectations of me were. 735 00:31:38,551 --> 00:31:41,172 And that's the key to life and relationships, 736 00:31:41,172 --> 00:31:44,068 is to be upfront and to ask 737 00:31:44,068 --> 00:31:46,275 the very important questions that you all were asking. 738 00:31:46,275 --> 00:31:49,655 I love how you all caught the red flags, 739 00:31:50,275 --> 00:31:52,137 and you have to be able to do that. 740 00:31:52,137 --> 00:31:54,275 I have actually done that with women. 741 00:31:54,275 --> 00:31:55,793 I've asked a couple of questions 742 00:31:55,793 --> 00:31:58,275 and quickly knew like, "Yeah, this ain't gonna work." 743 00:31:58,275 --> 00:32:01,137 And mommy brought the opposite side of that. 744 00:32:01,896 --> 00:32:03,586 With every question I asked her, 745 00:32:03,586 --> 00:32:06,965 she answered it perfectly 746 00:32:06,965 --> 00:32:08,620 and you want to look for that. 747 00:32:10,379 --> 00:32:14,793 As a father, I am relieved and delighted 748 00:32:14,793 --> 00:32:17,379 that my daughters have a good grasp 749 00:32:17,379 --> 00:32:20,275 on what to expect in a young man. 750 00:32:20,275 --> 00:32:23,000 I feel confident that they will choose partners 751 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,137 that will align with their self-worth. 752 00:32:25,137 --> 00:32:28,068 Well, Poppy, I see why mommy kept you, 'cause you're a keeper. 753 00:32:28,068 --> 00:32:30,034 Thank you, baby. 754 00:32:30,655 --> 00:32:31,655 So I'm a keeper for mommy 755 00:32:31,655 --> 00:32:32,758 and I'm a keeper for my children. 756 00:32:32,758 --> 00:32:35,137 -Yes, of course. -Yeah, automatically. 757 00:32:35,137 --> 00:32:37,448 But I have thoroughly enjoyed our date. 758 00:32:38,275 --> 00:32:40,068 And we must have a second one, 759 00:32:40,068 --> 00:32:41,379 -and a third one. -Amen to that. 760 00:32:41,379 --> 00:32:43,482 Yeah, amen. 761 00:32:43,482 --> 00:32:46,068 That tea is something else. 762 00:32:48,172 --> 00:32:49,689 ♪ I'll be doing the most♪ 763 00:32:49,689 --> 00:32:51,344 ♪ When I'm outside 764 00:32:51,344 --> 00:32:54,241 ♪ Doing the most I'll be still so fly ♪ 765 00:32:57,965 --> 00:32:59,689 Babies, have you all brushed your teeth yet? 766 00:32:59,689 --> 00:33:02,000 -[kids] No! -[Deon] You haven't? 767 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,275 [kids] No! 768 00:33:03,275 --> 00:33:05,862 I can almost smell y'all breath in this room. 769 00:33:08,034 --> 00:33:10,586 No, you don't want no sugar bugs, Dawsyn. 770 00:33:10,586 --> 00:33:12,724 Well, you better get in here and get these sugar bugs out of there. 771 00:33:16,034 --> 00:33:17,448 Ew. 772 00:33:17,448 --> 00:33:21,034 Remember, you got to brush twice a day 773 00:33:21,034 --> 00:33:23,482 to keep the-- yup, yup... twice a day 774 00:33:23,482 --> 00:33:26,000 to keep the sugar bugs away. 775 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,793 It seems like the little ones are finally getting the concept 776 00:33:28,793 --> 00:33:31,000 of how important it is to brush their teeth. 777 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,965 -[breathes out] -[both laugh] 778 00:33:33,965 --> 00:33:37,586 And I'm hoping they can soon do this on their own. 779 00:33:37,586 --> 00:33:40,103 Well, baby, I must say, 780 00:33:40,103 --> 00:33:42,620 we've done a great job with our daughters. 781 00:33:43,655 --> 00:33:46,379 On our date, they told me where I was messing up 782 00:33:46,379 --> 00:33:49,896 and things that I was supposed to say differently and all of this. 783 00:33:49,896 --> 00:33:53,448 Yes, I'm glad that our girls did good, right? 784 00:33:53,448 --> 00:33:56,793 Because the boys need a lot... They need some practice. 785 00:33:56,793 --> 00:33:58,034 We played golf 786 00:33:58,034 --> 00:33:59,862 and they didn't bring no money. 787 00:33:59,862 --> 00:34:01,689 So I had to give them a lesson on, 788 00:34:01,689 --> 00:34:03,793 "Okay, so the first thing a woman don't want is a scrub 789 00:34:03,793 --> 00:34:07,482 -and it's coming off kinda scrub-ish. -Scrub-ish. [laughs] Right. 790 00:34:07,482 --> 00:34:09,068 And they learned it, technically, from me, 791 00:34:09,068 --> 00:34:10,275 -from my mishaps. -Uh-huh. 792 00:34:10,275 --> 00:34:12,068 Well, you know what? This will be my chance 793 00:34:12,068 --> 00:34:15,137 to sort of make it right for them and for myself. 794 00:34:15,137 --> 00:34:18,379 I wanna do something special for you for Valentine's Day. 795 00:34:18,379 --> 00:34:20,103 You really thought this through? 796 00:34:20,103 --> 00:34:21,896 [excitedly] Okay, come through, Poppy! 797 00:34:21,896 --> 00:34:24,172 [squealing] Come through, Poppy! 798 00:34:24,172 --> 00:34:28,551 Yeah, we can go out and just, you know, talk. 799 00:34:30,103 --> 00:34:32,551 [Deon] Having our dates with all the children 800 00:34:32,551 --> 00:34:34,793 put things in perspective for me. 801 00:34:34,793 --> 00:34:37,447 With the stress of two mortgages, 802 00:34:37,447 --> 00:34:40,585 packing up a house of 16 people, 803 00:34:40,585 --> 00:34:42,757 GG pausing chemo, 804 00:34:42,757 --> 00:34:45,344 Darian possibly going away to college 805 00:34:45,344 --> 00:34:48,344 and hemorrhaging money into a new house... 806 00:34:48,344 --> 00:34:53,310 We need this time to just appreciate one another. 807 00:34:53,688 --> 00:34:55,275 Amen. 808 00:34:55,275 --> 00:34:56,447 I like that. 809 00:34:56,447 --> 00:34:58,965 I like that. Thank you. I appreciate that. 810 00:34:58,965 --> 00:35:00,344 Oh, you're welcome, baby. 811 00:35:05,379 --> 00:35:07,448 [Karen] Can you give me a hint? 812 00:35:07,448 --> 00:35:10,586 Last time you surprised me, it was a... it's a house. 813 00:35:10,586 --> 00:35:12,275 Is the next one a mansion? 814 00:35:12,275 --> 00:35:13,586 Or are you gonna tell me, 815 00:35:13,586 --> 00:35:16,758 actually, we are, you know, billionaires, 816 00:35:16,758 --> 00:35:20,275 -and you about to show me all the money. [laughs] -Yes, now that's it. 817 00:35:20,275 --> 00:35:22,000 We're billionaires and I'm hiding it. 818 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,896 Just to see how much you really love me, 819 00:35:23,896 --> 00:35:25,655 to make sure you love me for me... 820 00:35:25,655 --> 00:35:27,275 -What, it took you over 20 years? -...and not my money. 821 00:35:27,275 --> 00:35:29,793 Yes, I'm still... I'm still making sure. 822 00:35:29,793 --> 00:35:32,241 -I'm setting it up. -I mean, 15 children? 823 00:35:32,241 --> 00:35:33,896 [Deon] Yes. I wanna make sure you're not using me. 824 00:35:33,896 --> 00:35:38,344 -[Karen laughs] Oh, my gosh. -I want to stop at the at the new house real quick. 825 00:35:38,344 --> 00:35:39,482 I need to check on something. 826 00:35:39,482 --> 00:35:41,000 [Karen] Okay. 827 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,448 I need to stop by the new house 828 00:35:42,448 --> 00:35:45,241 because I actually left Karen's Valentine's Day gift there. 829 00:35:45,241 --> 00:35:46,758 Hopefully she likes them, 830 00:35:46,758 --> 00:35:48,862 and the progress that's been made on the house. 831 00:35:54,965 --> 00:35:56,931 What do you think, Ma? 832 00:35:58,379 --> 00:36:02,344 -[hesitates] I... think-- -A happy Valentine's Day. 833 00:36:02,344 --> 00:36:03,896 Aw... 834 00:36:03,896 --> 00:36:05,344 Thank you. 835 00:36:05,344 --> 00:36:08,137 I love the these. These are beautiful. 836 00:36:08,896 --> 00:36:10,137 -Yeah. -Ah... 837 00:36:14,482 --> 00:36:16,000 Thanks. 838 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:20,689 Why do you have that grin that's a pretend grin? 839 00:36:20,689 --> 00:36:25,448 I really, really love what you're doing with the date. 840 00:36:25,448 --> 00:36:26,551 Mm-hmm? 841 00:36:27,482 --> 00:36:30,310 I just expected more from the house. 842 00:36:31,241 --> 00:36:34,758 Like, more closer to being ready. 843 00:36:34,758 --> 00:36:37,758 The color, I feel is beautiful. 844 00:36:37,758 --> 00:36:38,931 [Deon] Okay? 845 00:36:38,931 --> 00:36:42,275 [Karen] I just feel like we're at ground zero again. 846 00:36:42,275 --> 00:36:45,793 This is why I don't bring you to any of my real estate jobs 847 00:36:45,793 --> 00:36:47,758 because you don't have the vision and I get it. 848 00:36:47,758 --> 00:36:52,034 Any of your previous real estate jobs we aren't living in. 849 00:36:52,034 --> 00:36:54,000 All I'm waiting on for you to say is, 850 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,275 "We're in. Let's-- let's go ahead and start 851 00:36:56,275 --> 00:36:57,586 getting our furniture--" 852 00:36:57,586 --> 00:37:00,241 Baby, there's been all types of issues with this house. 853 00:37:01,241 --> 00:37:02,172 Mold. 854 00:37:02,172 --> 00:37:04,275 -Mold? -Mold, yes. 855 00:37:04,275 --> 00:37:06,379 Why didn't you tell me about the mold? 856 00:37:06,379 --> 00:37:07,965 -Black mold. -How serious is the mold? 857 00:37:07,965 --> 00:37:10,103 -Black mold? -No, baby, listen. 858 00:37:10,103 --> 00:37:11,172 I don't like you doing this. 859 00:37:11,172 --> 00:37:12,551 I'm not gonna put our family 860 00:37:12,551 --> 00:37:16,000 in a precarious or a dangerous situation ever. 861 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,896 -I know you won't. -So if I'm in here or you're in here, 862 00:37:18,896 --> 00:37:20,172 you know, I must have taken care of it. 863 00:37:20,172 --> 00:37:22,551 -I hired a company-- -I know you would take care of it, 864 00:37:22,551 --> 00:37:25,068 but why didn't you tell me what's going on in the house? 865 00:37:33,551 --> 00:37:34,896 [Karen] Black mold? 866 00:37:34,896 --> 00:37:37,448 So why didn't you tell me what's going on in the house? 867 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,000 Just tell me. 868 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,344 We were just... I was just talking 869 00:37:40,344 --> 00:37:42,241 -to the boys on our date-- -Why would I tell you that, baby? 870 00:37:42,241 --> 00:37:43,896 You're taking care of 14 children. 871 00:37:43,896 --> 00:37:46,275 You're taking care of things at the other house. 872 00:37:46,275 --> 00:37:48,448 Why would I bring this type of headache home to you? 873 00:37:49,482 --> 00:37:52,241 I just really need Derrico to understand 874 00:37:52,241 --> 00:37:54,586 that he has to communicate with me 875 00:37:54,586 --> 00:37:57,793 when it affects the whole entire family. 876 00:37:57,793 --> 00:37:59,551 I hear you. I just don't agree. 877 00:38:02,482 --> 00:38:07,344 I am not in the Valentine's dating mood right now. 878 00:38:08,793 --> 00:38:10,241 -Really? -Have it as you may. 879 00:38:10,241 --> 00:38:11,793 That's how I feel. 880 00:38:11,793 --> 00:38:13,206 Okay. 881 00:38:13,206 --> 00:38:16,034 Because I-- You don't... You're not realizing what I'm telling you. 882 00:38:16,034 --> 00:38:18,068 But you're not realizing what I'm telling you. 883 00:38:18,068 --> 00:38:19,896 -That's the thing. -What do I need to realize? 884 00:38:19,896 --> 00:38:21,379 -You need to realize that you need to... -I know that you-- 885 00:38:21,379 --> 00:38:23,241 -...tell me the stuff. -I know you've been waiting to get in the house. 886 00:38:23,241 --> 00:38:25,137 -Yes! -I know you complained over the other house, 887 00:38:25,137 --> 00:38:26,758 about every single thing at the other house. 888 00:38:26,758 --> 00:38:28,862 -Was the only one complaining? -At what point does the complaining stop? 889 00:38:28,862 --> 00:38:30,103 I just want to go home. 890 00:38:34,275 --> 00:38:37,172 This is definitely not how I imagined 891 00:38:37,172 --> 00:38:39,172 our Valentine's date going. 892 00:38:39,172 --> 00:38:41,137 It's just extremely frustrating. 893 00:38:41,137 --> 00:38:44,586 Derrico knows how much I care about this new house. 894 00:38:44,586 --> 00:38:46,068 And more than anything, 895 00:38:46,068 --> 00:38:48,172 how much he has to keep me in the loop with it. 896 00:38:51,551 --> 00:38:53,586 [Deon] The tension in this car is thick, 897 00:38:53,586 --> 00:38:56,000 and I don't want to be in a fight with her right now, 898 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,482 especially on Valentine's Day. 899 00:38:58,482 --> 00:39:00,551 I know we're both frustrated with the situation, 900 00:39:00,551 --> 00:39:03,310 but I also realize that Karen does have a point. 901 00:39:06,379 --> 00:39:07,655 [car beeps] 902 00:39:08,758 --> 00:39:09,862 Where are we? 903 00:39:11,689 --> 00:39:13,586 [whispers indistinctly] 904 00:39:13,586 --> 00:39:15,793 Seriously, where are-- Why you stopped the car? 905 00:39:15,793 --> 00:39:19,448 You just stopped in the middle of... I don't even know. 906 00:39:19,965 --> 00:39:21,034 Why are we here? 907 00:39:34,655 --> 00:39:37,517 -Step up. -Oh my gosh. 908 00:39:39,275 --> 00:39:40,965 -[Deon whispers indistinctly] -Oh... [cries] 909 00:39:41,344 --> 00:39:42,965 Just give me a hug. 910 00:39:45,275 --> 00:39:47,068 Seriously, baby, I heard you. 911 00:39:47,068 --> 00:39:48,620 I appreciate that. 912 00:39:49,586 --> 00:39:52,172 It's the place where we first met. 913 00:39:52,172 --> 00:39:56,344 -And you pulled the car over... [laughs] -That's why I did it. 914 00:39:56,344 --> 00:39:58,482 Do these more often. 915 00:39:58,482 --> 00:40:01,862 Yeah, see, I'm always full of surprises. 916 00:40:01,862 --> 00:40:03,793 -Yes, you are. -You never know what I'm gonna do next. 917 00:40:03,793 --> 00:40:05,482 -That's true. -See? 918 00:40:05,482 --> 00:40:07,517 That is so true. So thank you. 919 00:40:08,862 --> 00:40:09,965 You're welcome. 920 00:40:11,137 --> 00:40:12,310 All right. 921 00:40:12,689 --> 00:40:14,482 [exhales] 922 00:40:14,482 --> 00:40:18,137 I just want to let you know that I do apologize for not hearing you. 923 00:40:18,689 --> 00:40:19,655 Stop. 924 00:40:22,275 --> 00:40:24,482 I need to let those words simmer. 925 00:40:24,482 --> 00:40:26,689 -Because I rarely hear it. -I apologize for not hearing you. 926 00:40:26,689 --> 00:40:28,551 Oh, gosh, stay right here again. 927 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,862 I apologize for not hearing you. 928 00:40:31,862 --> 00:40:33,379 I'm just trying to fill you up with them. 929 00:40:33,379 --> 00:40:36,000 It's like a turn on to hear you apologizing. 930 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,103 I apologize for not hearing you, baby. 931 00:40:38,551 --> 00:40:41,172 [sighs] Oh, my gosh. 932 00:40:41,172 --> 00:40:43,793 [Deon] Well, I promise going forward, I'm gonna do my very best 933 00:40:43,793 --> 00:40:45,689 to keep you in the loop on the house. 934 00:40:45,689 --> 00:40:48,379 That means good or bad things. 935 00:40:48,379 --> 00:40:49,655 [Karen] I appreciate that. 936 00:40:49,655 --> 00:40:53,965 And I really appreciate just how hard you've been working, 937 00:40:53,965 --> 00:40:56,551 -you know, on the house. -I appreciate that. 938 00:40:58,965 --> 00:41:00,793 Progress. Look at that. 939 00:41:00,793 --> 00:41:02,103 All right. You ready? 940 00:41:02,103 --> 00:41:04,241 I am ready. Let's go home and... 941 00:41:05,172 --> 00:41:08,551 continue our Valentine's Day celebration. 942 00:41:08,551 --> 00:41:11,241 -Not with all of them 14 babies at home. -[Karen laughs] 943 00:41:11,241 --> 00:41:13,000 Plus GG and Eric. 944 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,000 -[Karen laughing] Oh, my gosh. -Roadblock. 945 00:41:17,275 --> 00:41:19,965 [Karen] Next time on Doubling Down With the Derricos... 946 00:41:19,965 --> 00:41:22,896 I'm going to go snow skiing, 947 00:41:22,896 --> 00:41:25,068 and I want all of you guys to come with me. 948 00:41:25,068 --> 00:41:26,172 [kids] Yes! 949 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,344 [Deon] I don't know about that. 950 00:41:28,896 --> 00:41:30,034 Living my best life. 951 00:41:30,034 --> 00:41:31,689 [humming indistinctly] 952 00:41:31,689 --> 00:41:33,413 -Black people don't ski. -Mmm-mmm. 953 00:41:34,758 --> 00:41:36,379 [screaming] 954 00:41:36,379 --> 00:41:38,655 Oh... [bleep] No! [bleep] 955 00:41:38,655 --> 00:41:40,241 It's hard on another level. 956 00:41:41,896 --> 00:41:43,551 I never saw the fun in cold. 957 00:41:45,379 --> 00:41:46,344 Oh! 958 00:41:48,551 --> 00:41:50,068 [woman] GG, you okay? 959 00:41:50,068 --> 00:41:52,379 Just feeling a little dizziness. 960 00:41:52,379 --> 00:41:55,448 How long have you been experiencing dizziness? 961 00:41:55,448 --> 00:41:57,275 At least a couple of weeks. 962 00:41:57,275 --> 00:41:59,482 [GG] Deon didn't want me to stop the chemo. 963 00:41:59,482 --> 00:42:02,655 So I dare not mention this to him. 964 00:42:02,655 --> 00:42:05,034 Because the first thing that's going to come up is, 965 00:42:05,034 --> 00:42:06,965 "I told you not to stop." 966 00:42:08,896 --> 00:42:09,965 [Deon] Come here, Dawsyn. 967 00:42:09,965 --> 00:42:12,862 -I've made you a snowball! -[Deon] Come here. 968 00:42:12,862 --> 00:42:15,172 It's so cold to go outside. 969 00:42:15,172 --> 00:42:17,517 -Mommy-Tommy -[girl] Mother. 970 00:42:19,965 --> 00:42:21,000 She's hurt. 971 00:42:21,448 --> 00:42:23,482 Karen, what happened? 972 00:42:23,482 --> 00:42:24,896 [man] Let me check her pulse. 973 00:42:24,896 --> 00:42:26,103 Let's not everybody crowd around. 974 00:42:26,103 --> 00:42:28,241 [Deon] Karen, what's wrong? 975 00:42:28,241 --> 00:42:30,241 -[Karen whispering] My heart. -[Deon] Your heart? 976 00:42:30,896 --> 00:42:32,344 [man] Call an ambulance. 977 00:42:32,344 --> 00:42:34,586 [siren blaring]