1 00:00:00,300 --> 00:00:01,166 This is your sister? 2 00:00:01,233 --> 00:00:02,734 They kidnapped my son. 3 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:03,700 - No. - No, ma'am. 4 00:00:03,767 --> 00:00:06,433 My kid was kidnapped. You took my kid from me. 5 00:00:06,500 --> 00:00:08,066 You kidnapped my son. No matter what... 6 00:00:09,033 --> 00:00:11,233 Just take a breath for a moment. 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,400 I want my son to come home. 8 00:00:16,467 --> 00:00:18,967 [announcer] This is Judy Justice. 9 00:00:19,033 --> 00:00:20,700 [theme music playing] 10 00:00:36,166 --> 00:00:40,600 {\an8}[announcer] Mary Farve and Jason Stockton are suing Mary's brother, 11 00:00:40,667 --> 00:00:44,367 {\an8}Michael Manry, for medical bills and personal belongings. 12 00:00:45,367 --> 00:00:47,734 [bailiff] Court, come to order. All rise. 13 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:48,633 Have a seat, please. 14 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:53,633 {\an8}Hello, Judge. Case 2117, Farve/Stockton versus Manry. 15 00:00:53,700 --> 00:00:55,433 - {\an8}- - Thank you, Kevin. - You're welcome. 16 00:00:55,500 --> 00:00:57,600 Mr. Manry, this is your sister? 17 00:00:57,667 --> 00:00:58,567 Correct. 18 00:00:58,633 --> 00:01:00,166 [Judy] And that is her...? 19 00:01:00,233 --> 00:01:01,133 Fiancé. 20 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,800 And you have a son who is 19? 21 00:01:03,867 --> 00:01:04,800 Yes, Your Honor. 22 00:01:04,867 --> 00:01:06,367 [Judy] How many other children do you have? 23 00:01:06,433 --> 00:01:08,000 - I have three altogether. - How old? 24 00:01:08,066 --> 00:01:10,567 One is almost 30, the other one is 18, 25 00:01:10,633 --> 00:01:13,333 and then I got the 19-year-old which ain't here. 26 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:19,233 Okay. And your son who is now 19 is the subject of this case. 27 00:01:19,300 --> 00:01:21,333 Who had custody of the children? 28 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,834 I got custody of Dakota now. 29 00:01:23,900 --> 00:01:25,600 When did you get custody of the children? 30 00:01:25,667 --> 00:01:26,867 [Michael] When he was 18 years old. 31 00:01:26,934 --> 00:01:27,867 [Judy] Do you have those papers, sir? 32 00:01:27,934 --> 00:01:28,934 Yes, I do. 33 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:29,934 [Judy] May I see them, please? 34 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:47,767 {\an8}Okay. So this grants you, sir, legal and physical custody 35 00:01:47,867 --> 00:01:51,300 {\an8}of Dakota Manry until further order of the court. 36 00:01:51,367 --> 00:01:56,867 So what this case is about now, and I assume from what I've read 37 00:01:56,934 --> 00:01:59,467 that Dakota has certain special needs. 38 00:01:59,533 --> 00:02:00,767 {\an8}Yes, ma'am. 39 00:02:00,834 --> 00:02:04,500 {\an8}And because of his special needs, he is unemployed. 40 00:02:04,567 --> 00:02:07,567 Did he finish any sort of a high school? Any... 41 00:02:07,633 --> 00:02:08,667 He graduated. 42 00:02:08,734 --> 00:02:10,500 - [Judy] He graduated from high school? - Yes. Yes. 43 00:02:10,567 --> 00:02:11,967 [Judy] Did he go to a special school? 44 00:02:12,033 --> 00:02:14,967 He went to a regular school, but he was in special education. 45 00:02:15,033 --> 00:02:16,066 And when he graduated, 46 00:02:16,133 --> 00:02:17,734 did he graduate when he was living with you? 47 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:18,900 Yes. 48 00:02:18,967 --> 00:02:20,467 [Judy] Okay. So this is what your case is about. 49 00:02:20,533 --> 00:02:24,000 At some point, according to you, you have a niece, 50 00:02:24,066 --> 00:02:27,000 and your niece wanted to have Dakota come and stay with her 51 00:02:27,066 --> 00:02:27,967 for a couple of days. 52 00:02:28,033 --> 00:02:30,400 You were at the time, according to your answer, 53 00:02:30,467 --> 00:02:32,500 sort of in between residences. 54 00:02:32,567 --> 00:02:36,633 You were evicted from one place and going someplace else? 55 00:02:36,700 --> 00:02:38,934 I was in the process of moving. 56 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,800 {\an8}I got my niece to go with me to, you know... 57 00:02:42,867 --> 00:02:45,567 {\an8}I asked her if she'll bring me to go get Dakota at my cousin's house. 58 00:02:45,633 --> 00:02:46,567 And she said, "Sure." 59 00:02:46,633 --> 00:02:51,734 Okay. Dakota went to live for a few days at least at your niece's house? 60 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,433 No, not live there. No, not live there. No, ma'am. 61 00:02:54,500 --> 00:02:56,667 Well, he was there overnight. 62 00:02:56,734 --> 00:02:58,667 He was over there overnight. 63 00:02:58,734 --> 00:03:00,867 [Judy] How many nights was he there overnight? 64 00:03:00,934 --> 00:03:03,300 I think about maybe a week. 65 00:03:03,367 --> 00:03:04,467 - [Judy] Okay. - Or three days. 66 00:03:04,533 --> 00:03:05,900 - [Judy] So he was there... - Yeah. 67 00:03:05,967 --> 00:03:09,567 {\an8}[Judy] During that time, you, who are his aunt... 68 00:03:09,633 --> 00:03:10,500 {\an8}Yes, ma'am. 69 00:03:10,567 --> 00:03:14,033 {\an8}[Judy] ...went to your niece's house and you saw Dakota there? 70 00:03:14,100 --> 00:03:14,967 Yes, ma'am. 71 00:03:15,033 --> 00:03:17,967 [Judy] And according to you, became concerned because, 72 00:03:18,033 --> 00:03:20,600 according to you, it looked like he hadn't showered in a week. 73 00:03:20,667 --> 00:03:25,133 He was in dirty clothes. He just looked awful. 74 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,900 [Judy] So you decided to take him to live with you. 75 00:03:27,967 --> 00:03:31,033 I asked him, I said, "Do you want to come to the house to stay, 76 00:03:31,100 --> 00:03:32,200 you know, a little while?" 77 00:03:32,266 --> 00:03:33,800 You know, where he can eat, 78 00:03:33,867 --> 00:03:36,734 because he looked like he hadn't ate either. 79 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,934 Okay. Well, this is what your case is about. 80 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,667 You decided to take him, didn't discuss it with his father. 81 00:03:41,734 --> 00:03:45,667 During the time he was with you, he had some expenses. 82 00:03:45,734 --> 00:03:48,934 You want his father to be responsible for those expenses, 83 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,600 and you want his father to return certain of his personal property. 84 00:03:53,667 --> 00:03:55,133 That's what the case is about. 85 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:56,200 - Yes, ma'am. - [Judy] Okay. 86 00:03:56,266 --> 00:03:58,800 First, let me deal with all things legal. 87 00:03:58,867 --> 00:04:04,133 I have an order here dated January 21st, 2021, 88 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:09,233 which grants physical and legal custody of Dakota to his father. 89 00:04:09,300 --> 00:04:15,200 Do you have any subsequent order granting you custody or guardianship? 90 00:04:15,266 --> 00:04:16,233 is my question. 91 00:04:16,300 --> 00:04:17,567 I have power of attorney. 92 00:04:17,633 --> 00:04:20,066 That is not the same thing. Can I see what they have? 93 00:04:20,133 --> 00:04:21,000 [Michael] How can she have power of attorney 94 00:04:21,066 --> 00:04:21,900 when I didn't give her permission? 95 00:04:21,967 --> 00:04:23,533 Shh. Shh. 96 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:24,600 Okay. 97 00:04:32,066 --> 00:04:36,000 {\an8}Okay. This was signed by Dakota. 98 00:04:36,066 --> 00:04:39,867 So he's giving you legal power to act on his behalf? 99 00:04:39,934 --> 00:04:41,266 {\an8}Yes, ma'am. 100 00:04:41,333 --> 00:04:44,700 {\an8}[Judy] Now, Dakota, by signing this power of attorney, 101 00:04:44,767 --> 00:04:49,734 he's saying that "I am a whole person, and I give you the right 102 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:53,834 to make medical decisions for me," if he can't do them. 103 00:04:53,900 --> 00:04:57,900 It's a general power of attorney in case he becomes unable 104 00:04:57,967 --> 00:05:00,834 to make decisions on his own. 105 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:04,800 This is an order of custody. You have power of attorney. 106 00:05:04,867 --> 00:05:08,333 Power of attorney suggests to me 107 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:12,300 that Dakota wants to emancipate himself from his father, 108 00:05:12,367 --> 00:05:16,233 wants someone else to act on his behalf. 109 00:05:16,300 --> 00:05:19,500 It becomes a complex question because if Dakota has special needs 110 00:05:19,567 --> 00:05:21,567 and if he can't act on his own 111 00:05:21,633 --> 00:05:25,633 and a court has already ruled that his father should have custody of him, 112 00:05:25,700 --> 00:05:28,967 either you have a power of attorney and he's emancipated, 113 00:05:29,033 --> 00:05:33,300 in which case his father's not responsible for any of his medical bills, 114 00:05:33,367 --> 00:05:38,767 or this is invalid because he can't sign a power of attorney 115 00:05:38,834 --> 00:05:43,533 because he doesn't have the mental capacity to understand 116 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,200 all of the implications of this power of attorney. 117 00:05:46,266 --> 00:05:49,467 Now, your nephew was in special classes. 118 00:05:49,533 --> 00:05:50,400 Yes, ma'am. 119 00:05:50,467 --> 00:05:53,867 And do you know what the nature of his disabilities are? 120 00:05:53,934 --> 00:05:55,900 Fetal alcohol syndrome. 121 00:05:55,967 --> 00:05:57,667 Is that his diagnosis, sir? 122 00:05:57,734 --> 00:05:58,600 Yes, Your Honor. 123 00:05:58,667 --> 00:06:04,367 [Judy] He had, according to you, after you took him from your niece's house 124 00:06:04,433 --> 00:06:07,467 and you do acknowledge you took him without his father's permission? 125 00:06:07,533 --> 00:06:08,867 - Yes, ma'am. - Yes, ma'am. 126 00:06:08,934 --> 00:06:11,500 We was not talking, me and him. 127 00:06:11,567 --> 00:06:13,867 Well, it doesn't make any difference if you were talking or not. 128 00:06:13,934 --> 00:06:15,934 I didn't have his number and I asked Dakota, 129 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,367 {\an8}I said, "Text your daddy to let him know you're coming with me." 130 00:06:19,433 --> 00:06:22,600 {\an8}Dakota said, and he showed me where he texted Michael. 131 00:06:22,667 --> 00:06:26,500 {\an8}Now, I don't know if it was on a different Facebook page. 132 00:06:26,567 --> 00:06:31,500 No. It's your responsibility to notify his guardian who has custody 133 00:06:31,567 --> 00:06:34,567 that you have taken physical custody of him. 134 00:06:34,633 --> 00:06:35,500 Right. 135 00:06:35,567 --> 00:06:37,367 [Judy] And when did you take physical custody of him? 136 00:06:37,433 --> 00:06:39,166 Give me the month, day, and year. 137 00:06:39,233 --> 00:06:42,367 May 20th of this year, 2022. 138 00:06:42,433 --> 00:06:45,567 [Judy] Now, while you had physical custody of Dakota, 139 00:06:45,633 --> 00:06:47,934 you indicate that he had surgery. 140 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:48,834 Yes, ma'am. 141 00:06:48,900 --> 00:06:52,867 And part of what you want Mr. Manry to pay for is the ambulance bill. 142 00:06:52,934 --> 00:06:55,467 What kind of surgery did he have? 143 00:06:55,533 --> 00:06:56,734 A brain surgery. 144 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,800 And he had a feeding tube put in him. 145 00:06:58,867 --> 00:06:59,934 [Judy] Just a second. 146 00:07:00,066 --> 00:07:04,266 What caused you to take him to a hospital or to a doctor? 147 00:07:04,333 --> 00:07:05,200 [Mary] His... 148 00:07:05,266 --> 00:07:09,900 Your Honor, when he arrived at the house on the 20th, 149 00:07:09,967 --> 00:07:13,066 he had very bad slurred speech 150 00:07:13,133 --> 00:07:17,266 and his balance was completely off. 151 00:07:17,333 --> 00:07:19,000 He was falling over. 152 00:07:19,066 --> 00:07:22,166 {\an8}Your Honor, it was like it was... he was a drunken man. 153 00:07:22,233 --> 00:07:24,467 {\an8}[Judy] Let me go back to you for a second, sir. 154 00:07:24,533 --> 00:07:28,767 While Dakota was with you in the months just prior to May, 155 00:07:28,834 --> 00:07:32,300 did you notice Dakota having difficulty in his gait? 156 00:07:32,367 --> 00:07:34,967 Not like he explained. Now, that's going overboard. 157 00:07:35,033 --> 00:07:38,433 {\an8}- [Judy] No. Did you... - But his balance was off. Okay. 158 00:07:38,500 --> 00:07:41,000 {\an8}Did you inquire? Did you take him to the doctor? 159 00:07:41,066 --> 00:07:43,700 Yes, I did. I took him actually right after I got him. 160 00:07:43,767 --> 00:07:47,100 [Judy] So you saw that balance was off a while ago? 161 00:07:47,166 --> 00:07:49,667 When I noticed that he had headaches, all right? 162 00:07:49,734 --> 00:07:52,700 'Cause his dream, thanks to me, was wrestling. 163 00:07:52,767 --> 00:07:54,033 - He loves wrestling. - Wrestling. 164 00:07:54,100 --> 00:07:55,200 [Michael] I put him in wrestling. 165 00:07:55,266 --> 00:07:57,433 I talked to the promoters and I did that for him. 166 00:07:57,500 --> 00:07:59,934 But when I seen they was telling me he got body slammed, 167 00:08:00,066 --> 00:08:01,867 you know, and this and that, I had to take him out of it. 168 00:08:01,934 --> 00:08:04,200 I got concerned 'cause he was complaining of headaches. 169 00:08:04,266 --> 00:08:07,233 So I made him an appointment and I waited for a referral. 170 00:08:07,300 --> 00:08:09,934 Well, when the referral came in, my kid was kidnapped. 171 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:13,233 [Judy] So he never actually saw the second doctor? 172 00:08:13,300 --> 00:08:15,100 - No. - [Judy] Okay. Do you have any records? 173 00:08:15,166 --> 00:08:16,967 Well, I couldn't get the records. I tried to get them. 174 00:08:17,033 --> 00:08:19,800 What if something went wrong and my kid died during surgery? 175 00:08:19,867 --> 00:08:22,400 I couldn't even be there for him? You know, anything could've happened. 176 00:08:22,467 --> 00:08:25,166 [Judy] Just a second, I'm following you, sir. 177 00:08:25,233 --> 00:08:29,000 Now, when did him take him for this brain surgery? 178 00:08:29,066 --> 00:08:31,100 [Mary] I took him the first week of June. 179 00:08:31,166 --> 00:08:35,600 I took him to do a CAT scan and as soon as she did that, 180 00:08:35,667 --> 00:08:36,967 we went to the hospital. 181 00:08:37,033 --> 00:08:38,467 We didn't leave the hospital. 182 00:08:38,533 --> 00:08:42,333 They put him in the ER and from the ER we went to to Florence, Alabama, 183 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,266 and then the surgeons there couldn't do it because it was so big. 184 00:08:45,333 --> 00:08:46,266 What was so big? 185 00:08:46,333 --> 00:08:48,300 - The brain. - Your Honor, they found a mass 186 00:08:48,367 --> 00:08:50,200 the size of a grapefruit. 187 00:08:50,266 --> 00:08:52,700 {\an8}The first week Dakota came to stay with us 188 00:08:52,767 --> 00:08:55,934 {\an8}after we noticed the balance issues and the slurred speech, 189 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,667 she took him to Doctor... 190 00:08:57,734 --> 00:09:00,633 who diagnosed him being severely malnutritioned. 191 00:09:00,700 --> 00:09:02,667 Your Honor, when he came to my house... 192 00:09:02,734 --> 00:09:04,800 - He's a liar. - No, no, no, no, no. 193 00:09:04,867 --> 00:09:07,433 Okay, I'm sorry. Your Honor, I'm sorry, my apologies. 194 00:09:07,500 --> 00:09:09,900 His leg was no bigger round than my wrist. 195 00:09:09,967 --> 00:09:13,567 I got it. Mr. Manry, everything has to be put in perspective. 196 00:09:13,633 --> 00:09:19,100 You had a lot of things going on and if Mr. Stockton's reporting to me 197 00:09:19,166 --> 00:09:24,300 is accurate, even though there might be some bad feeling of the way your sister 198 00:09:24,367 --> 00:09:28,467 and her fiancé took physical custody of Dakota, 199 00:09:28,533 --> 00:09:32,600 you really have to be in a position to say thank you to them. 200 00:09:32,667 --> 00:09:37,333 Because you, for whatever reason, not for lack of trying, 201 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:41,033 nobody is suggesting for lack of trying, you did try to take him to a doctor, 202 00:09:41,100 --> 00:09:43,133 you did see that there were things wrong with him. 203 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:48,700 I understand that it's not always that easy to get the right specialist 204 00:09:48,767 --> 00:09:51,633 to get involved in this kind of surgery. 205 00:09:51,700 --> 00:09:54,500 But you really have to take a breath. 206 00:09:54,567 --> 00:09:58,200 And I assume it's accurate because I cannot assume that anybody 207 00:09:58,266 --> 00:10:03,300 would perform brain surgery on a child that was not necessary. 208 00:10:03,367 --> 00:10:06,367 - That they... - Your Honor, why she couldn't call me 209 00:10:06,433 --> 00:10:08,967 - instead of calling her mother when... - [Judy] Just a second. Just a second. 210 00:10:09,033 --> 00:10:14,333 Your sister should have called you and told you that Dakota 211 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,100 was going into the hospital to have surgery. 212 00:10:17,166 --> 00:10:18,300 That would have been the nice thing to do. 213 00:10:18,367 --> 00:10:19,500 - [Jason] Your Honor, she did. - Did you do that? 214 00:10:19,567 --> 00:10:21,033 - She did. - No, she did not. 215 00:10:21,100 --> 00:10:22,734 - She called their mother. - I called my mama. 216 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:24,166 Well, calling your mother... 217 00:10:24,233 --> 00:10:25,633 His phone was disconnected. 218 00:10:25,700 --> 00:10:27,467 I did not have the new number 219 00:10:27,533 --> 00:10:31,333 until he called me or texted me with a bunch of drama. 220 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:32,233 That's when I got his number. 221 00:10:32,300 --> 00:10:34,633 Drama? You took my kid from me. You kidnapped my son. No matter what... 222 00:10:34,700 --> 00:10:36,266 [Judy] Mr. Manry. Mr. Manry. 223 00:10:36,333 --> 00:10:39,100 What I want you to do is just take a breath for a moment. 224 00:10:39,166 --> 00:10:40,934 Yes, ma'am. 225 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,200 [theme music playing] 226 00:10:44,266 --> 00:10:45,967 Dakota kept texting me, you know. 227 00:10:46,033 --> 00:10:48,367 He kept on, like, video chatting me and everything. 228 00:10:48,433 --> 00:10:50,166 And then all of a sudden, like a light switch, 229 00:10:50,233 --> 00:10:52,066 he changed and everything. 230 00:10:52,133 --> 00:10:54,033 The boy's mind has been poisoned by Mary and Jason. 231 00:10:54,100 --> 00:10:55,934 - No. - So far, Mr. Manry, 232 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,400 you're not losing this case. 233 00:10:57,467 --> 00:10:59,400 So I don't know what you're agitated about. 234 00:11:04,066 --> 00:11:06,767 {\an8}[theme music playing] 235 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:14,734 {\an8}[announcer] Mary Farve and Jason Stockton claim Mary's brother, 236 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,867 {\an8}Michael Manry, owes for medical bills and personal belongings. 237 00:11:18,934 --> 00:11:22,266 Michael is countersuing, saying they illegally took his son 238 00:11:22,333 --> 00:11:24,166 from his custody. 239 00:11:24,233 --> 00:11:28,000 Mr. Manry, Dakota was only at your niece's house for a short while. 240 00:11:28,066 --> 00:11:31,400 You already told me that when he came to you, his gait was off. 241 00:11:31,467 --> 00:11:34,533 So right before he went to stay for a couple of days 242 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,467 at your niece's house, was his speech slurring? 243 00:11:37,533 --> 00:11:41,166 {\an8}No. He always had a speech impairment because of the disability, 244 00:11:41,233 --> 00:11:44,734 but his speech was not slurred at all. 245 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:45,867 That is a lie. 246 00:11:45,934 --> 00:11:48,200 Him having the skinny arms and all that, that's all lies. 247 00:11:48,266 --> 00:11:49,734 [Judy] Okay. I'm not talking about skinny arms. 248 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,066 I'm talking about his slurred speech. 249 00:11:52,133 --> 00:11:56,600 What I was saying to, Mr. Manry, is that I don't think 250 00:11:56,667 --> 00:11:58,667 there are any bad guys here. 251 00:11:58,734 --> 00:12:00,800 I don't think that you're a bad guy. 252 00:12:00,867 --> 00:12:05,033 And I don't think that your sister and her fiancé meant any harm 253 00:12:05,100 --> 00:12:09,367 when they saw a situation that they thought was dangerous. 254 00:12:09,433 --> 00:12:12,767 And as it turned out, they were able to get him 255 00:12:12,834 --> 00:12:15,600 seriously needed medical care. 256 00:12:15,667 --> 00:12:18,533 That doesn't mean it was all done right. 257 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,500 But what you're asking for is 258 00:12:21,567 --> 00:12:24,734 to be compensated by the defendant 259 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:28,700 for the cost of the ambulance bill that you incurred. 260 00:12:28,767 --> 00:12:31,934 Now, this power of attorney was signed by Dakota, 261 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:36,066 if, in fact, he had capacity to sign this power of attorney. 262 00:12:36,133 --> 00:12:40,433 It was done two weeks after his first surgery. 263 00:12:40,500 --> 00:12:46,333 So up until that time, even if I could construe this as a valid document, 264 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:51,166 his father had legal and physical custody of Dakota. 265 00:12:51,233 --> 00:12:54,800 And I assume that's because he has special needs 266 00:12:54,867 --> 00:12:58,066 and is unable to live on his own. 267 00:12:58,133 --> 00:12:59,667 Is your son able to live on his own? 268 00:12:59,734 --> 00:13:01,200 No. He never will. 269 00:13:01,266 --> 00:13:05,266 Okay. So that's what I assume as a result of this order. 270 00:13:05,333 --> 00:13:07,467 If you want this order changed, 271 00:13:07,533 --> 00:13:10,867 you have to go back to the court in Mississippi. 272 00:13:10,934 --> 00:13:13,467 You have to be declared his guardian. 273 00:13:13,533 --> 00:13:16,767 Your Honor, we did not want to be declared his guardian. 274 00:13:16,834 --> 00:13:22,467 The reason the POA came about to start with during the entire surgical... 275 00:13:22,533 --> 00:13:23,433 Your Honor, can I say something? 276 00:13:23,500 --> 00:13:26,066 The father was aware of it. So was the mother. 277 00:13:26,133 --> 00:13:30,100 The mother was actually present at most all of the appointments. 278 00:13:30,166 --> 00:13:32,734 [Judy] It doesn't matter. The mother doesn't have custody, legal or physical. 279 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:36,533 But we were under the impression and were told she did, 280 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,600 that he only had a temporary custody. 281 00:13:39,667 --> 00:13:43,166 So she showed up to say she had to sign all the documents, 282 00:13:43,233 --> 00:13:45,233 she was gonna do this, she was gonna do this, she was gonna do this. 283 00:13:45,300 --> 00:13:46,700 [Judy] Did she sign the documents? 284 00:13:46,767 --> 00:13:51,033 She signed some, then under social services' directions, 285 00:13:51,100 --> 00:13:54,600 Mary was informed she should go after a power of attorney. 286 00:13:54,667 --> 00:13:56,700 It was discussed with both Dakota and her. She could make the... 287 00:13:56,767 --> 00:14:00,633 It may be. It may be. That's not a lawyer. That's bad advice. 288 00:14:00,700 --> 00:14:05,333 Now, just before I get to the issue of clothing, property, 289 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,734 whatever he has that's at your house and where it should go from here, 290 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:14,200 your first stop is to go back to the court in Mississippi that issued this order. 291 00:14:14,266 --> 00:14:15,133 [Mary] Yes, ma'am. 292 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,567 And say to them, "I need Dakota's law guardian." 293 00:14:18,633 --> 00:14:22,567 He'll be appointed a guardian for himself, independent of you, 294 00:14:22,633 --> 00:14:26,000 and they will interview him and they will do certain evaluations 295 00:14:26,066 --> 00:14:29,200 of him and determine where it is that he wants to live. 296 00:14:29,266 --> 00:14:30,800 But you have to do that in court. 297 00:14:30,867 --> 00:14:34,734 You can't do that ad hoc because you relied on his mother's statements 298 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,467 that she had the authority to sign off on these things. 299 00:14:37,533 --> 00:14:39,266 She did not until this is changed. 300 00:14:39,333 --> 00:14:42,800 And if you wanna change it, you are free to go in and try 301 00:14:42,867 --> 00:14:45,633 and then Dakota will be interviewed 302 00:14:45,700 --> 00:14:48,367 and seen by a psychologist or a psychiatrist 303 00:14:48,433 --> 00:14:50,467 and he'll have a medical evaluation and determine 304 00:14:50,533 --> 00:14:54,367 whether or not he is a person who actually requires guardianship. 305 00:14:54,433 --> 00:14:58,934 And if he requires guardianship, you can petition for that and you'll have a trial. 306 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:00,400 This is not that trial. 307 00:15:00,467 --> 00:15:01,333 Yes, ma'am. 308 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,433 Did Dakota have Medicare? 309 00:15:03,500 --> 00:15:04,400 - [Mary] Medicaid. - [Jason] Medicaid. 310 00:15:04,467 --> 00:15:05,400 He had Medicaid. 311 00:15:05,500 --> 00:15:07,000 That would pay for the ambulance ride. 312 00:15:07,066 --> 00:15:10,033 [Judy] Yeah, I just wanna know if he had Medicaid. He did. 313 00:15:10,100 --> 00:15:14,567 I did give them the Medicaid number and they keep sending me a bill 314 00:15:14,633 --> 00:15:18,000 {\an8}and I called them and they said because it's a different state, 315 00:15:18,066 --> 00:15:19,433 {\an8}it's not covered. 316 00:15:19,500 --> 00:15:22,166 It doesn't matter. Tell them to send their bills to his father. 317 00:15:22,233 --> 00:15:26,967 Tell them that you do not have custody or guardianship of this child. 318 00:15:27,033 --> 00:15:31,100 His father has custody guardianship and this bill is not yours. 319 00:15:31,166 --> 00:15:32,834 [Jason] The bill is going to Dakota. 320 00:15:32,900 --> 00:15:36,900 They're going after Dakota for it 'cause Medicaid didn't pay for it. 321 00:15:36,967 --> 00:15:38,867 They may be going after Dakota for it. 322 00:15:38,934 --> 00:15:43,567 They will be very smart seeking payment from people who can pay them, 323 00:15:43,633 --> 00:15:44,934 which is his parents. 324 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,900 Right now you're not legally responsible to pay for his ambulance bill. 325 00:15:48,967 --> 00:15:53,033 The only person who might be legally responsible for it is his father. 326 00:15:53,100 --> 00:15:55,567 And that will be up to the ambulance company to do. 327 00:15:55,633 --> 00:15:57,633 That's not your responsibility at all. 328 00:15:57,700 --> 00:15:59,734 So discount the ambulance bill. 329 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,233 Next are Dakota's things. 330 00:16:01,300 --> 00:16:03,834 You want property that he has at his father's house. 331 00:16:03,900 --> 00:16:09,100 So let me go back to you with regard to my statement to you four minutes ago. 332 00:16:09,166 --> 00:16:13,000 You have to have this custody order modified. 333 00:16:13,066 --> 00:16:14,967 You have to go back to the same court 334 00:16:15,033 --> 00:16:19,533 that issued a legal and physical custody order of Dakota to his father 335 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,066 and say, "We would like guardianship of him. 336 00:16:22,133 --> 00:16:25,533 He wants to stay with us. He's 19 years old." 337 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,934 He will be interviewed. He'll be analyzed. 338 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,200 And if at the end of the day you get guardianship of Dakota, 339 00:16:33,266 --> 00:16:38,367 then his father may or may not turn over whatever property he has. 340 00:16:38,433 --> 00:16:40,900 Dakota's never worked, so whatever property he has 341 00:16:40,967 --> 00:16:44,500 was either purchased or given to him by either his mother or his father 342 00:16:44,567 --> 00:16:45,467 or other relatives. 343 00:16:45,533 --> 00:16:48,433 A lot of it was his mom that paid for the stuff. 344 00:16:48,500 --> 00:16:49,400 [Judy] I don't know that. 345 00:16:49,467 --> 00:16:51,000 Well, the bottom line is, the bottom line is, 346 00:16:51,066 --> 00:16:52,467 what all this boils down to, Your Honor... 347 00:16:52,533 --> 00:16:55,934 So far, Mr. Manry, you're not losing this case. 348 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:57,633 So I don't know what you're agitated about. 349 00:16:57,700 --> 00:16:59,266 You're not losing. You're not losing. 350 00:16:59,333 --> 00:17:03,800 What I'm telling the plaintiffs is that if they think 351 00:17:03,867 --> 00:17:08,834 that they can provide a more pleasant, stable environment for Dakota, 352 00:17:08,900 --> 00:17:12,967 they have the right to petition for guardianship of him. 353 00:17:13,033 --> 00:17:18,633 Now, it would be in Dakota's best interest long-term if he were to have contact 354 00:17:18,700 --> 00:17:21,867 - with both his mother and his father. - [Jason] He does. 355 00:17:21,934 --> 00:17:23,266 Contact. I'm not saying live with. 356 00:17:23,333 --> 00:17:27,834 Mother, father, and his aunt and his soon-to-be uncle. 357 00:17:27,900 --> 00:17:30,200 Soon as you make up your mind and give her a ring. 358 00:17:30,266 --> 00:17:31,700 [laughs] 359 00:17:31,767 --> 00:17:32,867 [Judy] It's in his best interest. 360 00:17:32,934 --> 00:17:35,800 He needs the largest community that he can. 361 00:17:35,867 --> 00:17:36,700 I agree. 362 00:17:36,767 --> 00:17:42,600 Okay, we're gonna stop throwing barbs because that only serves to inflame 363 00:17:42,667 --> 00:17:44,200 already raw emotions. 364 00:17:44,266 --> 00:17:47,300 [theme music playing] 365 00:17:47,367 --> 00:17:50,700 I want you to say, "I am angry that 366 00:17:50,767 --> 00:17:54,767 I wasn't consulted in this massive surgery that your son had, 367 00:17:54,834 --> 00:17:57,700 but I'm grateful that it was done 368 00:17:57,767 --> 00:18:00,800 because if it wasn't done, in all probability, 369 00:18:00,867 --> 00:18:02,000 he wouldn't be here." 370 00:18:02,066 --> 00:18:03,767 You just have to think about that. 371 00:18:08,867 --> 00:18:11,433 [theme music playing] 372 00:18:15,533 --> 00:18:19,967 {\an8}[announcer] Mary Farve and Jason Stockton have accused Mary's brother, 373 00:18:20,033 --> 00:18:23,300 {\an8}Michael Manry, of owing for an ambulance bill. 374 00:18:23,367 --> 00:18:27,800 Michael claims Mary and Jason took his son without his permission. 375 00:18:27,867 --> 00:18:32,166 What I'm telling you is a very simple procedural thing 376 00:18:32,233 --> 00:18:33,467 where you have to go. 377 00:18:33,533 --> 00:18:36,934 You can't sue him for the return of Dakota's things 378 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,967 unless you have guardianship of Dakota. 379 00:18:39,033 --> 00:18:39,867 Understood. 380 00:18:39,934 --> 00:18:44,900 Because he already is the subject of a recent order of custody from a court. 381 00:18:44,967 --> 00:18:46,367 That's what you have to have. 382 00:18:46,433 --> 00:18:49,233 You can take that bill from the ambulance service, 383 00:18:49,300 --> 00:18:51,166 put it in an envelope, we'll get you the address 384 00:18:51,233 --> 00:18:52,567 and that's where that goes. 385 00:18:52,633 --> 00:18:56,500 That's his father, who is his legal parent under this order. 386 00:18:56,567 --> 00:18:57,734 So send that bill to them 387 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:59,433 so you don't have to worry about that bill. 388 00:18:59,500 --> 00:19:01,667 As far as his property is concerned, 389 00:19:01,734 --> 00:19:05,800 that has to go along with an order of custody or guardianship, 390 00:19:05,867 --> 00:19:07,834 and that's something that you should do. 391 00:19:07,900 --> 00:19:12,667 But, Mr. Manry, I am not making a decision with regard to his custody or not. 392 00:19:12,734 --> 00:19:16,834 What I'm asking you is, until a court reviews 393 00:19:16,900 --> 00:19:21,000 whatever orders they're going to make with regard to custody and guardianship first, 394 00:19:21,066 --> 00:19:25,166 I know you may be angry, but they probably saved his life 395 00:19:25,233 --> 00:19:27,533 by getting him to the doctor that they did. 396 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:31,433 And if they removed a massive tumor from his brain, 397 00:19:31,500 --> 00:19:33,533 you should say, "Thank you for doing that." 398 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,934 'Cause it was a month after he was living with you. 399 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:39,967 Someone else took your son and saved his life. 400 00:19:40,033 --> 00:19:42,800 And for that at least you have to be grateful. 401 00:19:42,867 --> 00:19:44,266 You can be angry. 402 00:19:44,333 --> 00:19:48,133 You can be angry that you didn't get it done before. 403 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:51,300 You can be angry that somebody else did it without consulting you. 404 00:19:51,367 --> 00:19:53,033 You can be angry at all of those things. 405 00:19:53,100 --> 00:19:54,300 But at the same time, 406 00:19:54,367 --> 00:19:56,300 you have to feel grateful that it was done. 407 00:19:56,367 --> 00:19:59,000 There wasn't no reason for them kidnapping my son. 408 00:19:59,066 --> 00:20:00,934 [Judy] Okay, Mr. Manry, you keep going back to the same song. 409 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,433 - Your Honor, may I address that? - [Michael] And I was worried about him. 410 00:20:02,500 --> 00:20:03,734 You keep going back to the same song. 411 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,567 And what I'm saying to you is, 412 00:20:05,633 --> 00:20:08,934 their next stop if Dakota wants to live with them, 413 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,133 and he's right now over 19 years old, 414 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:16,166 {\an8}is to the court who issued the order to modify that order. 415 00:20:16,233 --> 00:20:18,967 {\an8}All I'm saying to you is, I want you to say, 416 00:20:19,033 --> 00:20:22,266 "I am angry that I wasn't consulted 417 00:20:22,333 --> 00:20:26,867 or didn't participate in this massive surgery that your son had, 418 00:20:26,934 --> 00:20:29,500 but I'm grateful that it was done 419 00:20:29,567 --> 00:20:32,633 because if it wasn't done, in all probability, 420 00:20:32,700 --> 00:20:33,700 he wouldn't be here." 421 00:20:33,767 --> 00:20:35,467 You just have to think about that. 422 00:20:35,533 --> 00:20:39,100 What I'm telling you is, you have to love your child 423 00:20:39,166 --> 00:20:43,033 more than you at this moment dislike your sister and her fiancé 424 00:20:43,100 --> 00:20:46,300 because they were able to take control of a situation 425 00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:49,200 and get your child fixed. 426 00:20:49,266 --> 00:20:52,400 So is Dakota, just for my own, 427 00:20:52,467 --> 00:20:54,266 is Dakota angry with his father? 428 00:20:54,333 --> 00:20:57,967 He's angry that his father won't return any of his wrestling... 429 00:20:58,033 --> 00:21:02,033 He is correct. He is a huge wrestling fanatic. 430 00:21:02,100 --> 00:21:04,500 Okay. What particularly does he want? 431 00:21:04,567 --> 00:21:05,767 He wants his wrestling? 432 00:21:05,834 --> 00:21:08,600 He wants his wrestling belts. 433 00:21:08,667 --> 00:21:11,166 They have replica belts that were made. 434 00:21:11,233 --> 00:21:13,367 He wanted his PlayStation 4 and the wrestling game. 435 00:21:13,433 --> 00:21:15,734 Okay, well, PlayStation 4, I'm not interested in that. 436 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,800 He wants his wrestling belts? 437 00:21:17,867 --> 00:21:18,700 Yes, ma'am. 438 00:21:18,767 --> 00:21:20,700 Your Honor, can I show you something right quick on my phone? 439 00:21:20,767 --> 00:21:22,800 Dakota kept texting me, you know. 440 00:21:22,867 --> 00:21:25,000 He kept on, like, video chatting me and everything. 441 00:21:25,066 --> 00:21:27,000 And then all of a sudden, like a light switch, 442 00:21:27,066 --> 00:21:28,800 he changed and everything. 443 00:21:28,867 --> 00:21:30,667 The boy's mind has been poisoned by Mary and Jason. 444 00:21:30,734 --> 00:21:31,667 No. 445 00:21:31,734 --> 00:21:33,100 What I'm telling you, Mr. Manry, 446 00:21:33,166 --> 00:21:36,934 that's for enough court and another day when Dakota has a lawyer, 447 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,433 {\an8}you may have a lawyer, to modify this custody order. 448 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:43,600 {\an8}Right now he would like his wrestling belts. 449 00:21:43,667 --> 00:21:45,533 I want my son to come home to me. 450 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:49,500 Okay, then I strongly urge you to go to court, 451 00:21:49,567 --> 00:21:53,333 file a petition against them for custodial interference, 452 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,100 or you go to court and file an application for guardianship of Dakota, 453 00:21:57,166 --> 00:21:59,400 which is a much more positive thing to do, 454 00:21:59,467 --> 00:22:02,800 and let a court that has the social work services, 455 00:22:02,867 --> 00:22:04,367 the psychiatric services, 456 00:22:04,433 --> 00:22:07,066 evaluate Dakota and figure out 457 00:22:07,133 --> 00:22:11,700 in whose best interests are we supposed to place faith. 458 00:22:11,767 --> 00:22:14,600 And I think if he is a thinking young man, 459 00:22:14,667 --> 00:22:17,200 and you told me that he is because he wants these things 460 00:22:17,266 --> 00:22:18,300 that are important to him, 461 00:22:18,367 --> 00:22:21,800 he should be able to have a say with whom he lives. 462 00:22:21,867 --> 00:22:23,500 Now, you have my ruling. 463 00:22:23,567 --> 00:22:26,867 Your next stop, folks, is to modify the order 464 00:22:26,934 --> 00:22:30,200 of the court in Mississippi that gave his father custody, 465 00:22:30,266 --> 00:22:32,000 physical and legal custody of him. 466 00:22:32,066 --> 00:22:35,300 You have to petition for guardianship. That's your next step. 467 00:22:35,367 --> 00:22:37,367 So, in that regard, your case is dismissed. 468 00:22:37,433 --> 00:22:38,700 Send the ambulance bill to his father. 469 00:22:38,767 --> 00:22:39,633 [Michael] Hey, I got a countersuit, Your Honor. 470 00:22:39,700 --> 00:22:40,567 We're done. 471 00:22:40,633 --> 00:22:42,767 - [bailiff] This court is adjourned. - I'm not hearing it, sir. 472 00:22:42,834 --> 00:22:44,500 Okay. 473 00:22:44,567 --> 00:22:46,066 [theme music playing] 474 00:22:46,133 --> 00:22:48,433 {\an8}I did everything I can for my kids and... 475 00:22:48,500 --> 00:22:50,333 {\an8}My brother, he said nothing but lies. 476 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,800 {\an8}When somebody takes your kid without your permission... 477 00:22:52,867 --> 00:22:55,633 {\an8}But, you know, that's him. I mean, that's what he does. 478 00:22:55,700 --> 00:22:57,500 {\an8}You don't know where they're at and you're going crazy 479 00:22:57,567 --> 00:22:58,400 {\an8}because you don't know where your kid's at. 480 00:22:58,567 --> 00:22:59,433 {\an8}That's kidnapping. 481 00:22:59,500 --> 00:23:03,166 {\an8}I should get a thank-you out of it, but he's not gonna do that. 482 00:23:03,233 --> 00:23:05,533 {\an8}I want my son to come home to his daddy 'cause I love him very much. 483 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,467 {\an8}That's my son. 484 00:23:06,533 --> 00:23:09,400 {\an8}It's about him. It's not about her. It's not about her and her brother. 485 00:23:09,467 --> 00:23:10,467 {\an8}It's not about me and her brother. 486 00:23:10,533 --> 00:23:12,967 {\an8}My son, I love him. I'd do anything in the world for him. 487 00:23:13,033 --> 00:23:14,433 {\an8}It's about Dakota. 488 00:23:16,133 --> 00:23:19,266 So you didn't listen to the defendant's counterclaim back there 489 00:23:19,333 --> 00:23:22,600 for emotional distress, for I believe it was $3500. 490 00:23:22,667 --> 00:23:24,133 I would've given that to him. 491 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,166 I don't think anyone was acting maliciously in this case. 492 00:23:27,233 --> 00:23:28,367 Like you said to the father, 493 00:23:28,433 --> 00:23:32,066 he should be grateful that his son is alive and his sister took action 494 00:23:32,133 --> 00:23:33,967 when he might have been stumbling a little bit. 495 00:23:34,033 --> 00:23:36,700 But that's what that cause of action is for, 496 00:23:36,767 --> 00:23:39,367 when someone takes an action that was legally incorrect, 497 00:23:39,433 --> 00:23:41,633 and here the plaintiffs had no legal right 498 00:23:41,700 --> 00:23:43,066 to take him to get that surgery. 499 00:23:43,133 --> 00:23:46,133 I agree that he should have had it and it all came from a good place. 500 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,000 However, when you take an action that causes somebody else 501 00:23:49,066 --> 00:23:50,767 such severe emotional distress, 502 00:23:50,834 --> 00:23:54,033 and I would consider taking someone else's child 503 00:23:54,100 --> 00:23:57,133 in for the riskiest surgery that probably exists 504 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,100 qualifies as causing some severe emotional distress. 505 00:24:00,166 --> 00:24:02,567 So I probably would've awarded him that if I was ruling. 506 00:24:02,633 --> 00:24:07,133 Well, so let me give you the reason that I didn't even bother to hear it. 507 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,033 Mm-hmm. 508 00:24:08,100 --> 00:24:13,900 I think the aunt and her fiancé had nothing but pure motives 509 00:24:13,967 --> 00:24:19,133 in taking this 19-year-old who they say appeared to be malnourished. 510 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,033 Mm-hmm. 511 00:24:20,100 --> 00:24:23,233 And they say was diagnosed as being malnourished, 512 00:24:23,300 --> 00:24:25,633 which is possible, and it's possible that it was all related 513 00:24:25,700 --> 00:24:27,166 to this brain tumor that he clearly had... 514 00:24:27,233 --> 00:24:30,633 - Mm-hmm. Of course. - ...that was impairing his stability, 515 00:24:30,700 --> 00:24:32,233 and he was with his father for a year... 516 00:24:32,300 --> 00:24:34,467 - Yeah. - ...while this tumor was growing. 517 00:24:34,533 --> 00:24:36,600 I don't think that they had malicious intent. 518 00:24:36,667 --> 00:24:37,667 Neither do I. 519 00:24:37,734 --> 00:24:40,467 And I think that but for their actions, 520 00:24:40,533 --> 00:24:43,500 this 19-year-old boy probably would be dead. 521 00:24:43,567 --> 00:24:46,367 If they took out the tumor that was the size of a grapefruit, 522 00:24:46,433 --> 00:24:49,266 I would say, six months later or eight months later, 523 00:24:49,333 --> 00:24:52,600 there's a strong probability that it would affect the optic nerve. 524 00:24:52,667 --> 00:24:55,300 It would affect the carotid artery and gone. 525 00:24:55,367 --> 00:24:59,233 So although I could understand his annoyance, 526 00:24:59,300 --> 00:25:05,066 from the time he went to live with him until his surgery was a month, 527 00:25:05,133 --> 00:25:08,066 and I actually don't believe that this father didn't know 528 00:25:08,133 --> 00:25:12,066 where he was for a month because they evidently have a living mother 529 00:25:12,133 --> 00:25:13,767 who they're both in touch with. 530 00:25:13,834 --> 00:25:16,266 He was moving around, phone disconnected. 531 00:25:16,333 --> 00:25:19,233 At the hospital, the mother showed up. 532 00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:21,633 She said, "I can sign the documents." 533 00:25:21,700 --> 00:25:25,867 Well, you know, you're involved in major surgery for a child. 534 00:25:25,934 --> 00:25:30,900 Your focus is not on your brother who did not take care of business for a year. 535 00:25:30,967 --> 00:25:34,400 So I'm gonna leave that up to a family court judge 536 00:25:34,467 --> 00:25:36,567 to determine who should have custody. 537 00:25:36,633 --> 00:25:40,767 And I probably guarantee you that custody will remain with his aunt 538 00:25:40,834 --> 00:25:42,333 because that's what Dakota wants. 539 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,767 Father may be angry, but that's what's gonna happen. 540 00:25:44,834 --> 00:25:46,567 I have no doubt that the father loves him. 541 00:25:46,633 --> 00:25:48,667 He did not take good care of him for the year. 542 00:25:48,734 --> 00:25:49,667 Sure. 543 00:25:49,767 --> 00:25:53,200 And so I wasn't going to reward that by giving him any money 544 00:25:53,266 --> 00:25:56,900 against these people who had nothing but the child's best interest, 545 00:25:56,967 --> 00:26:01,033 when for a year he really didn't take care of business with his son. 546 00:26:01,100 --> 00:26:03,467 And that's why I didn't hear his case for emotional distress. 547 00:26:03,533 --> 00:26:05,100 Understood. 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