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[car engine roaring]

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[Beauty] Uh, do you wanna slow down a bit?

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[Tumi] It's the fucking fast lane,
asshole!

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-[Beauty] Tumi!
-[Tumi] What?

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We looked fucking lost out there.

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We don't have to become
a December statistic over it.

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What are you thinking?

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[Tumi] About comitting murder.

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You know when you run through exactly
what you're going to say to someone

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in your head?
Word-for-word and it sounds so good.

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So final.

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But when it finally comes out,
you mess it up?

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Sure.

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This is not going to be that
when I finally see her.

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-Fucking hypocrite.
-She's still our mother!

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[huffs] Is she?

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Really? Just now, you find out
I'm an orphan come New Year.

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Okay, calm down.

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Just bottle up the emotions, for me.

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Just until after the wedding.

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Am I missing something?

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That man shat on the both of us.

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Maybe.
But this wedding is all I have left.

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All you have?
You're not tired of pretending?

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We've been pretending all our lives,
what's three more days?

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No.

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[somber music playing]

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[Dineo] [in Tswana] What did that old man
have to say for himself?

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-Tumi, relax.
-You know we know, Dineo.

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[in Tswana] For Christ’s sake,
say something!

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Tumi.

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[in Tswana] Boitumelo,
that’s your mother you’re talking to.

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[Tumi] [in Tswana] Trust me, Aunty,
this is me still being respectful.

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[in Tswana] Uh, Aunt Grace,
how’s the food coming along?

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-How many courses do we have again?
-[Dineo] Five.

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Five. Yeah!

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And then?

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[in Tswana] What? No Bible verses
and amens to justify your bullshit!

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[in Tswana] I should’ve left you
with your grandmother.

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Oh! That'd be good.

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[in Tswana] Maybe, I'd be normal.

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-Tumi!
-Oh! And you just care

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is about this damn pregnancy of yours!

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Pregnancy?

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[dramatic music playing]

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[stammering] No.

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[Beauty] Baby.

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[Grace] [in Tswana] Mr. Twala. Mr. Twala.

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[Dineo] [in Tswana] Mr. Twala!

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[Tumi] Note to self,

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Google how to keep your mouth shut.

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[Dineo] [in Tswana] Oh, my goodness!
You are leaving?

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[Dineo] [in Tswana] Please, let’s talk!

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♪ Chilling with my boys ♪

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♪ Chilling and hanging out with my boys ♪

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[Beauty] Sbu!

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Sbu, wait.

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Sbu.

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[Sbu] What the hell?
[in Zulu] Beauty, why didn’t you tell me?

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No! Okay, I got scared. I panicked.

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Panicked?

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Sbu, you'd just proposed when I found out.

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I didn't want your family thinking
I was trapping you.

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Oh, my family?

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So you hid this from me

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because you're afraid of how it's going
to look to my family? What about me?

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-[in Zulu] You don't care about me?
-[in Zulu] I care about you.

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You're all that matters.

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Now that I'm walking away, right?

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We can work through this, baby.

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Putting a ring on your finger is supposed
to set us aside from the usual shit

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that every couple lets in.

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The hiding, the fears, the half-truths,
all that should be gone by now.

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This should be where you're as close
to trust as anyone can possibly get.

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Sbu, what are you saying?

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[sad music playing]

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You've broken something in us.

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[silently crying]

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[sad music continues]

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I'm sorry, B.

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Look, I tried to hold out, but…

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as soon as I saw her with
that righteous churchy look of hers, I…

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I just felt the blood rush to my head.

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I'm sorry.

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Don't you get tired

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of feeling bad about what you've done?

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Can't you stop yourself,
like, just before you're sorry?

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[laughs]

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It must be so exhausting being you.

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Hey…

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It's not the same.

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It's not every day that you find out
your dad's not your dad, you know.

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It could be anything with you.

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It could be family shit.

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It could be bad sushi.
You'll find a reason to break something.

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That is not true.

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I wanted all this for you. I was happy.

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You don't know what that is.

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Being my sister,
and this whole Maid of Honor thing,

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is all you had going for you.

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I knew you'd be bad at everything,

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like really bad at everything,

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but you can't be bad at being blood.

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No deadbeat dad
to walk me down the aisle, sure,

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but, hey, at least I have a sister.

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[in Tswana] Do you know what,
I will talk to Sbu.

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No.

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You're toxic, Tumi.

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I don't want you
near anything that I love.

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You know what, it's fine,
just go back to Cape Town,

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do whatever the hell it is
that you do down there.

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You don't have to pretend anymore, okay?

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I care, Beauty.

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Yeah…

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I don't.

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Tumi, I just lost my husband,

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and you just lost a sister.

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[sad music playing]

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B.

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[sad music continues]

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[Thando] Beauty. Friend.

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Friend, wait. Friend.

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[knock on door] Beauty, friend, come on.

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Go away.

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[Shadrack] [in Tswana]
You tried to tell me.

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[in Tswana] Hello, Ma.

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[in Tswana] You tried to tell me
that things wouldn't go well,

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[in Tswana] but I didn't listen
because-- Hello.

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[sad music continues]

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[in Tswana] Get in the front.

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[in Twana] Come on, get in the car,
Succulent. Come along!

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[in Tswana] Come along, man!

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[sad music continues]

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♪ What do I do ♪

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♪ With all these feelings ♪

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♪ Warming me up inside ♪

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♪ What do I do ♪

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♪ With all these precious hours
Dreaming of you ♪

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♪ But now would you recognize ♪

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♪ It's a need
I've been fighting for so long ♪

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♪ Would you recognize ♪

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♪ It's a hunger only you can fill ♪

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♪ Cause I'd like ♪

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♪ To call you sometime ♪

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♪ Oh, I would like to call you ♪

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♪ I'd like you to know… ♪

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-[whispers] Say anything.
-Okay, okay.

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[in Tswana] Listen, friend,
it could be worse, you know.

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-[whispers] Seriously?
-It's true.

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[Beauty] How so? Technically,
I've been divorced two times more

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than I've been married
in the last 48 hours.

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[Dineo] [in Tswana] What's going on here?

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Hi, Ma.

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[in Tswana] She’s locked herself in,
and she doesn't want to open the door.

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[in Tswana] Please, give us the room.

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[knocking on door]

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[in Tswana] My child?

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Uh-huh, Mom, I'm not coming with you.

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[in Tswana] You can't stay here.

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[Beauty] Sbu's parents paid for this,
okay, and there's no refund.

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So I'm going to sit here
and order everything on the menu.

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[in Tswana] My child,
but we have so much food at home.

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No, Mama, I'm talking about real food,
like room service.

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[in Tswana] Not my uncle's livestock.

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[in Tswana] You know
that you need your family right now.

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Which family is that, Ma?

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Hmm?

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My sister, who blows up weddings,

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or my mother,
who cuts and pastes our past?

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Hmm?

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Beauty.

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[in Tswana] Why didn't you tell me
that you're pregnant?

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Because I'm not like Tumi, Ma.

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[sniffs]

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It matters to me what you think.

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Okay? So I wanted to have the last name
before I had the kid.

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[in Tswana] You know, my child,

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I wanted the best for you.

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Yeah.

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Well, you did a good job, Ma.

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Because now I'm single,

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and I'm pregnant.

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[sighs]

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[in Tswana] You'll find me at home.

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Your home.

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[sad music playing]

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[soft groan]

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[pained breathing]

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What happened today?

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What didn't?

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Hmm.

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Sbu's going to be a father.
A single father, but a father.

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Maybe Tumi should also
do a pregnancy test,

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to check if there's no
surprise baby Twala on the way.

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[in Zulu] We used a condom.

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So you do remember?

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[sighs]

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It's a disease, you know.

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Then why am I the only one
getting sick, Themba?

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[groans]

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The painkillers are in the toiletry bag.

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[Moipone] Grace!

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Shadrack!

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[Grace sighs]

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[elevator beeps]

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[Thando] [in Tswana] May we get
two more shots, please.

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[Refiloe] [in Tswana] Let me finish
this one first.

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[Thando] Thank you. Thank you, so much.

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[in Tswana] It's just you and I!

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-[man] Last Round.
-[Thando] Last Round!

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-It's just you and I!
-Don't worry, girls, I'll cover it.

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Oh! Yes, bitch!

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It's free drinks!

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Relax.

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[in Tswana] How about
you round up your cents,

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[in Tswana] and pay for the dresses
we weren't able to wear.

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Actually!

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[in Tswana] Please leave us alone.

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[together] Cheers.

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[glass taps on table]

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[Refiloe] Hmm.

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[Tumi] Hey!

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Hey!

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[Siya] [in Zulu] Do we know each other?

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No, but it's a good thing.

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You're probably the only person
that won't spit in my drink.

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Tumi.

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[in Zulu] The one who slept
with my nephew.

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[in Zulu] Then you ruined a marriage
and exposed your own sister.

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[mocking laugh]

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[in Zulu] I left behind
some pretty rough people in jail,

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[in Zulu] people who commit
cash heists every December, but you…

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[in Zulu] I'm scared of you, girl.

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-[in Zulu] Do you drink?
-Yeah.

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Definitely, but you know what, um…

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[in Zulu] This place is actually boring.

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[in Zulu] I know a vibey spot
where we could get some drinks.

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-[in Zulu] That's cool.
-Sure.

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[in Zulu] Do you have a car?

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[in Zulu] There are Maserati's everywhere,
so we're good.

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Okay.

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Wow!

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[in Xhosa] She's a bit of a whore,
isn't she?

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[giggles]

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[in Tswana] I should've told them
from the beginning.

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[huffs]

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[in Tswana] Stewing on the past,

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00:14:23,708 --> 00:14:25,208
[in Tswana] it won't help anything.

249
00:14:25,666 --> 00:14:27,076
[in Tswana] It's just madness.

250
00:14:28,916 --> 00:14:31,166
[in Tswana] Hmm. But you know we Sellos,

251
00:14:32,541 --> 00:14:33,831
[in Tswana] we keep on walking.

252
00:14:34,541 --> 00:14:35,831
We keep on walking.

253
00:14:36,041 --> 00:14:37,041
Johnny Walker.

254
00:14:37,333 --> 00:14:40,673
[Moipone] [in Tswana] Where did they
even dig him up? I just don't understand.

255
00:14:40,750 --> 00:14:44,380
[Shadrack] [in Tswana] But you do know
that today's kids have Facebook,

256
00:14:44,541 --> 00:14:45,711
Twitter,

257
00:14:46,125 --> 00:14:47,455
and Instagram.

258
00:14:47,833 --> 00:14:50,753
[in Tswana] But Beauty doesn't poke,
I'm sure this was all Tumi.

259
00:14:52,333 --> 00:14:53,383
[in Tswana] It was me.

260
00:14:54,750 --> 00:14:58,420
I pointed Beauty in his direction.
I didn't expect her to go through with it.

261
00:14:58,791 --> 00:15:00,171
[in Tswana] Quite honestly, I’m impressed.

262
00:15:00,333 --> 00:15:01,333
[Dineo] Impressed?

263
00:15:01,500 --> 00:15:04,290
[in Tswana] I was trying to help. I was
doing it for their sakes, both of them.

264
00:15:05,125 --> 00:15:06,245
[in Tswana] Who asked you?

265
00:15:06,791 --> 00:15:08,001
[in Tswana] Beauty asked me.

266
00:15:08,875 --> 00:15:10,955
She asked me, and didn't ask you. Huh?

267
00:15:11,166 --> 00:15:12,286
Why?

268
00:15:16,750 --> 00:15:20,000
[in Tswana] It's not over yet, Dini,
they'll still need you,

269
00:15:20,375 --> 00:15:22,205
[in Tswana] even if they don't know it.

270
00:15:23,541 --> 00:15:24,671
[sheep bleats]

271
00:15:25,750 --> 00:15:26,750
Shadrack,

272
00:15:26,958 --> 00:15:28,038
[in Tswana] you brought it here?

273
00:15:28,416 --> 00:15:30,876
[in Tswana] It will cry all night
and we won't be able to sleep.

274
00:15:31,500 --> 00:15:35,000
[in Tswana] Would you rather
be annoyed by the sheep, or by Valencia?

275
00:15:37,666 --> 00:15:38,706
[sheep bleats]

276
00:15:45,916 --> 00:15:47,076
[sheep bleats]

277
00:15:47,375 --> 00:15:51,915
[laughing]

278
00:15:54,916 --> 00:15:56,206
[Dineo speaks in Tswana]

279
00:16:00,583 --> 00:16:02,793
[upbeat music playing]

280
00:16:02,875 --> 00:16:04,995
♪ I slept and woke up ♪

281
00:16:05,083 --> 00:16:07,043
♪ I bathed in the kitchen
Because it's worse in the bath ♪

282
00:16:07,125 --> 00:16:08,955
♪ Bathed with my Aunt's wash cloth ♪

283
00:16:09,041 --> 00:16:11,081
♪ Cause it's worse in the bath… ♪

284
00:16:19,125 --> 00:16:20,325
K Dawg.

285
00:16:20,541 --> 00:16:22,541
K Dizzle, K Money. What it do, son?

286
00:16:24,708 --> 00:16:25,918
What it do, son?

287
00:16:26,541 --> 00:16:27,581
How did you find me here?

288
00:16:27,958 --> 00:16:31,208
Your millennial ass can't even have
a cup of coffee without posting.

289
00:16:31,833 --> 00:16:34,003
And your lying ass
can't go a day without drama.

290
00:16:35,541 --> 00:16:38,581
[in Zulu] You know what,
let me go get a drink this side.

291
00:16:39,708 --> 00:16:40,708
Sure.

292
00:16:41,958 --> 00:16:43,498
-Can we talk?
-I don't have time.

293
00:16:43,666 --> 00:16:45,376
[scoffs] [in Zulu] You're full
of yourself.

294
00:16:46,041 --> 00:16:49,541
You do know that Instagram
and solo drinking are not fulltime jobs?

295
00:16:50,125 --> 00:16:51,285
Okay, Tumi,

296
00:16:53,125 --> 00:16:54,125
[in Xhosa] I don't have time for you.

297
00:16:56,791 --> 00:16:58,131
Look, I…

298
00:16:59,291 --> 00:17:01,921
I had a shitty day,
and I just really need my friend.

299
00:17:02,583 --> 00:17:03,753
I did come all the way.

300
00:17:03,916 --> 00:17:05,536
So I'm supposed to be grateful?

301
00:17:07,416 --> 00:17:09,246
You know what? Screw you!

302
00:17:09,541 --> 00:17:10,921
Been there. Done that.

303
00:17:11,166 --> 00:17:12,456
Fuck you, very much.

304
00:17:19,333 --> 00:17:22,083
-[in Zulu] Is that your ex?
-No, he just acts like one.

305
00:17:23,208 --> 00:17:24,788
[bottles clang against each other]

306
00:17:26,625 --> 00:17:28,285
[in Zulu] So this is your spot?

307
00:17:28,625 --> 00:17:30,375
[in Zulu] Is this what you call a vibe?

308
00:17:37,375 --> 00:17:38,625
[in Zulu] Please give us two drinks.

309
00:17:39,125 --> 00:17:40,125
Er…

310
00:17:44,583 --> 00:17:45,883
[Gogo Twala] [huffs]

311
00:17:46,041 --> 00:17:50,211
[in Zulu] I remember attending
a wedding in 1988,

312
00:17:50,458 --> 00:17:53,788
[in Zulu] The weather was so hot
that I didn't want to go.

313
00:17:54,083 --> 00:17:55,793
[in Zulu] I thought the ceremony
would take all day.

314
00:17:56,333 --> 00:18:00,833
[in Zulu] We were saved when the bride
fainted and died right in church.

315
00:18:02,750 --> 00:18:03,880
[in Zulu] Pass me the chicken feet.

316
00:18:09,791 --> 00:18:10,881
[clears throat]

317
00:18:11,750 --> 00:18:13,960
[in Zulu] You see Sbusiso, my child,

318
00:18:14,291 --> 00:18:15,831
this is a blessing.

319
00:18:16,083 --> 00:18:18,423
That girl, she's not our own.

320
00:18:18,625 --> 00:18:20,625
[in Zulu] You should've married
a Zulu girl.

321
00:18:21,875 --> 00:18:23,455
-Who do you think you are?
-Hmm?

322
00:18:23,666 --> 00:18:24,746
Who do you think you are?

323
00:18:25,083 --> 00:18:26,753
-[Themba] Sbusiso.
-Uh-huh, Themba.

324
00:18:27,833 --> 00:18:28,923
You're busy looking down
on the woman I love

325
00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,170
like she's stuck
on the bottom of your shoe.

326
00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:34,245
No, my boy, all I'm saying is,
you marry out of your circle,

327
00:18:34,458 --> 00:18:35,418
[in Zulu] you're asking for problems.

328
00:18:35,666 --> 00:18:37,126
And you say this because
your marriage is so golden?

329
00:18:37,708 --> 00:18:38,628
[in Zulu] We all know that

330
00:18:38,791 --> 00:18:40,331
you and Dad haven’t slept
in the same bed in years.

331
00:18:40,500 --> 00:18:41,500
[choking]

332
00:18:42,125 --> 00:18:43,575
What is that?

333
00:18:44,750 --> 00:18:45,710
How dare you

334
00:18:46,041 --> 00:18:47,461
[in Zulu] speak to me like that?

335
00:18:47,791 --> 00:18:49,541
[in Zulu] I'm not your friend,
I'm your mother!

336
00:18:54,750 --> 00:18:56,540
-[Themba] Sbusiso!
-[Lydia] If you cared about Sbusiso,

337
00:18:56,666 --> 00:19:00,576
you would've been with him
and not sinking in alcohol, Themba.

338
00:19:02,750 --> 00:19:04,670
[in Zulu] I would've also died,

339
00:19:04,833 --> 00:19:06,463
[in Zulu] if I was wearing the dress
she was wearing.

340
00:19:06,625 --> 00:19:08,375
[in Zulu] Even though it was the '80s.

341
00:19:17,458 --> 00:19:19,248
You know what I'm an expert in?

342
00:19:20,583 --> 00:19:22,003
Losing shit.

343
00:19:22,250 --> 00:19:26,250
Not phones or keys like normal people, no.

344
00:19:28,541 --> 00:19:29,751
[huffs]

345
00:19:30,333 --> 00:19:32,003
This girl loses a friend,

346
00:19:33,333 --> 00:19:34,963
a father, and a sister.

347
00:19:37,625 --> 00:19:39,165
Who the fuck loses a sister?

348
00:19:40,958 --> 00:19:43,208
Huh? No!

349
00:19:43,458 --> 00:19:45,788
[in Zulu] There's no feeling guilty here,
I don't do that.

350
00:19:49,291 --> 00:19:50,211
[Tumi] You know what?

351
00:19:50,875 --> 00:19:51,745
[Siya] Hmm?

352
00:19:52,083 --> 00:19:53,833
-You're right.
-Hmm.

353
00:19:54,833 --> 00:19:56,173
[in Zulu] Where are you going now?

354
00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,130
[in Zulu] I'm going to taste
some specials.

355
00:19:59,250 --> 00:20:00,460
[in Zulu] You never stop.

356
00:20:01,916 --> 00:20:04,456
Um, you know what a sommelier is?

357
00:20:05,958 --> 00:20:08,418
Someone who makes up wine lists and shit.

358
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:09,668
Close enough.

359
00:20:10,666 --> 00:20:15,246
You know, you deserve a drink
for being so damn cute and smart.

360
00:20:15,416 --> 00:20:17,326
-I'm good, thank you.
-Then you buy me one.

361
00:20:18,208 --> 00:20:19,498
It's probably not a good idea.

362
00:20:19,916 --> 00:20:20,876
Fuck the pleasantries.

363
00:20:21,250 --> 00:20:24,000
You… can just take me… home.

364
00:20:24,791 --> 00:20:25,881
Hmm.

365
00:20:27,041 --> 00:20:28,041
Is that your man?

366
00:20:28,500 --> 00:20:29,670
Sweetie, you know,

367
00:20:30,375 --> 00:20:32,575
you shouldn't leave your valuables alone.

368
00:20:32,708 --> 00:20:33,628
-Oh!
-Unattended.

369
00:20:33,875 --> 00:20:35,035
[in Tswana] You slut!

370
00:20:35,250 --> 00:20:36,790
[in Tswana] Huh?
What did you just call me?

371
00:20:37,125 --> 00:20:39,325
You're the slut!

372
00:20:39,666 --> 00:20:42,126
-[Siya] [in Zulu] You never listen.
-[Tumi] [in Zulu] I'm okay.

373
00:20:44,208 --> 00:20:45,998
[Tumi] [in Zulu] Oh, I forgot my handbag.

374
00:20:46,625 --> 00:20:47,665
Back.

375
00:20:48,666 --> 00:20:49,996
[in Zulu] I'll be back.

376
00:20:52,958 --> 00:20:54,078
[Siya] No, no, no!

377
00:20:54,500 --> 00:20:56,250
-[screams]
-[man] Restrain your girlfriend!

378
00:20:56,375 --> 00:20:57,875
[yelling]

379
00:20:58,083 --> 00:20:59,333
[in Zulu] Do you know what?

380
00:21:00,541 --> 00:21:02,041
[bartender] I'm calling the police!

381
00:21:02,166 --> 00:21:03,576
[man] It's okay, it's okay.

382
00:21:09,166 --> 00:21:12,326
[solemn music playing]

383
00:21:12,541 --> 00:21:15,001
24 DECEMBER CHRISTMAS EVE

384
00:21:15,166 --> 00:21:17,126
[Tumi] Merry fucking Christmas, Tumi.

385
00:21:18,416 --> 00:21:20,376
You've really outdone yourself this time.

386
00:21:24,541 --> 00:21:26,501
[in Tswana] She's actually a good girl.

387
00:21:27,250 --> 00:21:31,630
[in Tswana] When my colleagues put her
in the van, she swore at their mothers,

388
00:21:32,291 --> 00:21:33,881
[in Tswana] and their grandmothers.

389
00:21:35,041 --> 00:21:39,001
[in Tswana] Maybe, we can
take care of this right now?

390
00:21:40,333 --> 00:21:41,633
Maybe.

391
00:21:42,541 --> 00:21:44,001
[in Tswana] How about a sheep?

392
00:21:45,208 --> 00:21:50,208
[light playful music playing]

393
00:22:07,333 --> 00:22:08,173
[cell unlocks]

394
00:22:08,583 --> 00:22:10,213
[cell door squeaks]

395
00:22:21,458 --> 00:22:23,168
[Tumi] Great. Here we go.

396
00:22:23,375 --> 00:22:24,455
Why are you here?

397
00:22:25,500 --> 00:22:29,630
[in Tswana] I wouldn't leave my first-born
in a place like this on Christmas Eve.

398
00:22:31,583 --> 00:22:34,173
That's not the hymn
you were singing yesterday.

399
00:22:37,458 --> 00:22:39,168
I know it wasn't right,

400
00:22:39,416 --> 00:22:40,876
and it wasn't Christian.

401
00:22:41,125 --> 00:22:44,245
Mom, please, can we
just skip the sermon. Okay?

402
00:22:44,708 --> 00:22:47,668
I'll be on a plane to Cape Town
as soon as we get out of here.

403
00:22:50,416 --> 00:22:51,746
[in Tswana] You know, when I look at you,

404
00:22:52,208 --> 00:22:53,958
I see so much of me in you.

405
00:22:54,333 --> 00:22:55,383
[in Tswana] It scares me.

406
00:22:55,541 --> 00:22:56,881
That is impossible.

407
00:22:58,375 --> 00:23:01,665
How do you think I fell pregnant
at the age of seventeen?

408
00:23:01,875 --> 00:23:03,415
Okay, I was a mistake.

409
00:23:03,833 --> 00:23:05,713
Don't think you've never made me feel it.

410
00:23:08,375 --> 00:23:09,875
I was a child…

411
00:23:10,333 --> 00:23:11,753
with a child.

412
00:23:13,166 --> 00:23:16,376
[in Tswana] I didn't have anyone
that I could share my weight with.

413
00:23:18,333 --> 00:23:21,793
[in Tswana] That's why I left you
with your granny because I knew that…

414
00:23:22,625 --> 00:23:24,375
she'd give you what you needed.

415
00:23:24,875 --> 00:23:29,375
[sad music playing]

416
00:23:30,541 --> 00:23:31,711
Mama, Beauty got

417
00:23:32,125 --> 00:23:34,035
a full mother experience.

418
00:23:34,333 --> 00:23:36,043
Our scars are not the same.

419
00:23:37,083 --> 00:23:39,133
And that's why she's hiding in a bath.

420
00:23:46,375 --> 00:23:50,665
[chuckles]

421
00:23:53,750 --> 00:23:54,630
[sighs]

422
00:23:57,708 --> 00:24:00,328
[groans] I'm a mess.

423
00:24:02,250 --> 00:24:04,540
Tumi, look at me.

424
00:24:09,708 --> 00:24:10,878
I'm your mother,

425
00:24:13,750 --> 00:24:15,130
and I'll always be here.

426
00:24:15,875 --> 00:24:20,245
[sad music continues]

427
00:24:32,458 --> 00:24:33,958
[woman] That' s so sweet.

428
00:24:34,208 --> 00:24:35,038
[sad music ends]

429
00:24:36,083 --> 00:24:37,633
[Dineo] Home time.

430
00:24:38,041 --> 00:24:39,381
Yeah.

431
00:24:42,083 --> 00:24:43,173
[Tumi] So…

432
00:24:44,958 --> 00:24:46,208
[in Tswana] Who is my father?

433
00:24:46,416 --> 00:24:48,666
[in Tswana] We don't have to talk
about everything, let's go.

434
00:24:49,541 --> 00:24:51,461
[Tumi] Well, that didn't last long.

435
00:24:55,916 --> 00:24:56,826
[knock on door]

436
00:24:57,333 --> 00:24:58,503
[in Tswana] Are you busy?

437
00:24:58,875 --> 00:25:01,325
[in Tswana] Uh-huh. Was sending my friend
a text message.

438
00:25:01,666 --> 00:25:03,576
[in Tswana] Oh. That boy from yesterday?

439
00:25:05,333 --> 00:25:06,253
Yes.

440
00:25:06,750 --> 00:25:08,040
[in Tswana] Why're you asking?

441
00:25:10,875 --> 00:25:13,125
[in Tswana] Have I told you about

442
00:25:13,750 --> 00:25:16,670
[in Tswana] this girl
I went to school with?

443
00:25:18,541 --> 00:25:21,921
[in Tswana] She was dark-skinned,
very dark.

444
00:25:22,208 --> 00:25:23,878
[in Tswana] Midnight darkness.

445
00:25:24,250 --> 00:25:25,290
[in Tswana] Back then,

446
00:25:25,958 --> 00:25:28,538
[in Tswana] being dark-skinned
was deemed as being ugly.

447
00:25:28,625 --> 00:25:31,035
[in Tswana] She thought of herself
as ugly.

448
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,790
[in Tswana] She kept to herself.

449
00:25:35,125 --> 00:25:38,495
[in Tswana] I could tell she was hurting.

450
00:25:38,708 --> 00:25:43,378
[in Tswana] One day,
she didn't come to school at all.

451
00:25:43,666 --> 00:25:47,076
[in Tswana] Then the next day
and the days after that.

452
00:25:48,250 --> 00:25:49,920
[in Tswana] We never saw her again.

453
00:25:50,166 --> 00:25:51,416
[in Tswana] What happened to her?

454
00:25:51,625 --> 00:25:52,995
[in Tswana] She killed herself.

455
00:25:54,708 --> 00:25:58,168
[in Tswana] At her funeral,
all anyone could talk about,

456
00:25:58,666 --> 00:26:00,496
[in Tswana] was how beautiful she was.

457
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,000
Mom.

458
00:26:03,250 --> 00:26:04,420
Why…

459
00:26:05,041 --> 00:26:06,421
[in Tswana] Why are you telling me
all these things?

460
00:26:06,958 --> 00:26:08,828
[in Tswana] If only she had spoken out,

461
00:26:10,250 --> 00:26:13,040
[in Tswana] we would've told her
she was beautiful.

462
00:26:17,666 --> 00:26:21,536
[in Tswana] There's no life in shame,
Bokang.

463
00:26:23,166 --> 00:26:24,746
[in Tswana] We are who we are.

464
00:26:32,875 --> 00:26:35,035
[doorbell rings]

465
00:26:38,125 --> 00:26:39,375
[Tumi] Knock-knock.

466
00:26:42,500 --> 00:26:44,000
Whew! All of you.

467
00:26:44,083 --> 00:26:45,463
[in Zulu] Hello, everyone.

468
00:26:46,250 --> 00:26:47,250
Ma?

469
00:26:47,541 --> 00:26:49,881
Oh, sorry.

470
00:26:52,291 --> 00:26:54,251
I know what you must think of me.

471
00:26:54,375 --> 00:26:56,625
If you're not sure,
I'd love to let you know.

472
00:26:57,416 --> 00:27:00,956
I'm sorry for sleeping with your husband.

473
00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:03,455
And I'm sorry for ending Themba's sobriety

474
00:27:03,750 --> 00:27:05,710
because sobriety is good.

475
00:27:07,333 --> 00:27:09,753
Yeah, and also, it's the baby thing.

476
00:27:10,500 --> 00:27:12,380
To drop it on you like that, is not cool.

477
00:27:12,583 --> 00:27:14,253
[Valencia] Listen, I'm sure
if you're apologizing

478
00:27:14,375 --> 00:27:15,955
for everything that you've done,

479
00:27:16,125 --> 00:27:18,495
we'd all be standing here
until the second coming.

480
00:27:18,750 --> 00:27:21,380
-Let her finish, please.
-Thank you, Ma.

481
00:27:21,541 --> 00:27:22,831
Umm…

482
00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:26,960
This is my thing, right,
I don't want my family

483
00:27:27,666 --> 00:27:31,786
paying the debts
on the sins that I rack up.

484
00:27:32,458 --> 00:27:35,168
Because shame, these people
are really good people.

485
00:27:36,375 --> 00:27:37,665
And my sister, she…

486
00:27:39,833 --> 00:27:41,633
My sister's not like me.

487
00:27:42,083 --> 00:27:43,173
She's…

488
00:27:44,083 --> 00:27:46,503
She's the real deal. You saw it.

489
00:27:47,416 --> 00:27:51,496
Also, it's Christmas, guys.

490
00:27:51,916 --> 00:27:56,576
This is the time where
we get together, we break bread,

491
00:27:57,500 --> 00:28:01,920
we wash down the past with great wine,
which I can supply.

492
00:28:02,416 --> 00:28:05,286
Not you, Themba, water works too.

493
00:28:05,416 --> 00:28:08,626
We're all a little messed up.
We can build on crazy, right?

494
00:28:09,666 --> 00:28:11,166
Can we talk somewhere, please?

495
00:28:15,166 --> 00:28:16,376
[in Tswana] Let's go.

496
00:28:18,208 --> 00:28:19,538
Thank you.

497
00:28:21,708 --> 00:28:23,538
[in Tswana] Tumi, don't touch anything.

498
00:28:23,708 --> 00:28:24,958
[disgusted huff]

499
00:28:25,291 --> 00:28:26,631
Oh, jeez… Oh!

500
00:28:26,833 --> 00:28:28,583
[Themba] Oh. Umm…

501
00:28:28,958 --> 00:28:32,128
[balls clatter on the floor]

502
00:28:38,708 --> 00:28:40,328
[Dineo] You have a lovely home.

503
00:28:40,958 --> 00:28:41,788
I know.

504
00:28:45,125 --> 00:28:47,625
[in Tswana] Our budgets are worlds apart,

505
00:28:48,166 --> 00:28:49,746
but we're both mothers.

506
00:28:49,833 --> 00:28:51,133
[in Tswana] And our children,

507
00:28:51,333 --> 00:28:53,173
they're the most precious things
we have, right?

508
00:28:54,833 --> 00:28:56,673
[in Zulu] My sons, they hate me.

509
00:28:58,125 --> 00:29:01,075
[in Tswana] My daughters
aren't loving me either.

510
00:29:01,791 --> 00:29:03,881
These kids, they don't know
how good they have it.

511
00:29:04,583 --> 00:29:07,253
[in Zulu] We do everything for them.
[scoffs]

512
00:29:08,625 --> 00:29:10,245
[in Tswana] And the trustworthy God

513
00:29:10,916 --> 00:29:12,076
gave them free will.

514
00:29:12,833 --> 00:29:13,753
So who are we?

515
00:29:19,458 --> 00:29:21,828
We need to cut the cord at some point.

516
00:29:40,208 --> 00:29:41,378
[in Zulu] What is it, man?

517
00:29:42,166 --> 00:29:43,246
Hmm…

518
00:29:47,666 --> 00:29:48,826
[Themba] [in Zulu] Look here.

519
00:29:49,333 --> 00:29:52,713
[in Zulu] I know Beauty messed up,
not telling you everything that happened.

520
00:29:53,708 --> 00:29:55,458
But I mean,

521
00:29:55,791 --> 00:29:57,961
[in Zulu] don't let it all get to you,

522
00:29:58,375 --> 00:30:01,035
[in Zulu] and give Mom a reason
to hold you back.

523
00:30:01,208 --> 00:30:02,498
[in Zulu] Don't do that.

524
00:30:03,833 --> 00:30:06,253
[in Zulu] She's your woman
and you guys are annoyingly good together.

525
00:30:06,458 --> 00:30:08,748
[in Zulu] You are annoying.

526
00:30:10,208 --> 00:30:12,328
You can't give up on that, man.

527
00:30:13,875 --> 00:30:15,955
So you're giving me
relationship advice now?

528
00:30:16,666 --> 00:30:17,786
[in Zulu] What, are you now Sis Dolly?

529
00:30:18,166 --> 00:30:19,376
[in Zulu] You mean Sis Dolly
from Drum magazine?

530
00:30:19,500 --> 00:30:20,170
Yes.

531
00:30:20,250 --> 00:30:21,630
[in Zulu] I've always wanted to write
for Drum magazine.

532
00:30:21,958 --> 00:30:23,288
[laughing]

533
00:30:25,083 --> 00:30:26,753
Listen to your heart, man.

534
00:30:29,041 --> 00:30:31,081
[in Zulu] I know you want her.
You love her.

535
00:30:31,583 --> 00:30:33,753
[in Zulu] My brother, listen.
There's a voice in here

536
00:30:33,958 --> 00:30:35,248
[in Zulu] that wants that woman.

537
00:30:36,541 --> 00:30:39,831
[in Zulu] Go and get your woman.
Don't listen to Mom and Dad.

538
00:30:40,041 --> 00:30:42,881
[in Zulu] Go and get your woman.
I'm telling you.

539
00:30:43,958 --> 00:30:45,038
What about you?

540
00:30:46,625 --> 00:30:49,165
[in Zulu] I'm resilient like an old car.

541
00:30:54,041 --> 00:30:55,081
Yeah.

542
00:31:01,791 --> 00:31:06,331
[sad music playing]

543
00:31:07,125 --> 00:31:11,705
[phone ringing]

544
00:31:15,208 --> 00:31:16,498
[in Tswana] My goodness.

545
00:31:19,458 --> 00:31:20,878
[in Tswana] Beauty, my girl.

546
00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:22,540
[in Tswana] You know what?

547
00:31:22,666 --> 00:31:25,746
I can deal with you not giving me
the crown of Maid of Honor,

548
00:31:26,083 --> 00:31:28,583
[in Tswana] but this one-man pity party
is not going to work for me.

549
00:31:28,791 --> 00:31:31,251
[in Tswana] We're friends. We roll
together. People know us as a squad.

550
00:31:31,458 --> 00:31:33,578
[in Tswana] This thing of feeling
sorry for yourself is not going to work.

551
00:31:33,833 --> 00:31:37,503
[in Tswana] Now there's an aisle
out there, if you still want it, Sister.

552
00:31:39,166 --> 00:31:40,876
I should've made you my number one.

553
00:31:41,333 --> 00:31:42,463
Of course you should have!

554
00:31:42,541 --> 00:31:45,541
It is what it is.
You didn't, should've, could've…

555
00:31:45,625 --> 00:31:48,375
It's fine. It's okay.

556
00:31:50,166 --> 00:31:51,246
[Tumi] Hey.

557
00:31:51,375 --> 00:31:52,575
Umm…

558
00:31:52,791 --> 00:31:53,711
[in Tswana] I heard you were still here.

559
00:31:54,250 --> 00:31:55,250
Refiloe!

560
00:31:55,458 --> 00:31:57,708
-What?
-You weren't meant to let anyone in!

561
00:31:57,958 --> 00:31:58,878
Yeah.

562
00:31:59,083 --> 00:32:00,923
Could I please
have a moment with my sister?

563
00:32:01,208 --> 00:32:02,168
[Refiloe] [clears throat]

564
00:32:02,750 --> 00:32:04,710
Well, if you could read the room,

565
00:32:04,833 --> 00:32:06,543
[in Tswana] you'd see
that she doesn't want to talk to you.

566
00:32:06,708 --> 00:32:08,378
All I need is five minutes, guys.

567
00:32:09,958 --> 00:32:11,288
[Beauty] It's fine.

568
00:32:12,583 --> 00:32:13,673
[Thando] Five minutes!

569
00:32:13,833 --> 00:32:15,213
[in Tswana] I'll be waiting outside,
counting you down.

570
00:32:15,333 --> 00:32:16,793
[Refiloe] [in Tswana] No way!

571
00:32:19,750 --> 00:32:21,420
[phone vibrates]

572
00:32:25,125 --> 00:32:26,995
[Tumi] Do you want me
to answer that for you?

573
00:32:28,125 --> 00:32:29,165
[Beauty] It's Sbu.

574
00:32:29,958 --> 00:32:32,248
I don't even know what to say to him.

575
00:32:32,708 --> 00:32:33,748
[phone vibrates]

576
00:32:45,666 --> 00:32:47,326
I know how that feels.

577
00:32:51,916 --> 00:32:54,376
Sis, I want you to have what you deserve.

578
00:32:55,833 --> 00:32:57,503
And that's everything.

579
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,500
So forget about me and…

580
00:33:02,041 --> 00:33:03,751
Mom, Valencia,

581
00:33:04,875 --> 00:33:06,165
the sperm donor.

582
00:33:06,375 --> 00:33:09,455
Forget all of our drama.
Just… go get your man

583
00:33:10,958 --> 00:33:13,578
-and marry him to death.
-How?

584
00:33:15,333 --> 00:33:18,753
You know, that's what the Thandos are for.

585
00:33:18,875 --> 00:33:22,325
-[Thando] You've got one minute left.
-[giggles]

586
00:33:24,458 --> 00:33:25,918
I'm sorry.

587
00:33:27,666 --> 00:33:28,786
For what?

588
00:33:29,375 --> 00:33:31,915
I mean… You don't have friends,

589
00:33:33,291 --> 00:33:36,001
you don't have a man,
and now you don't have a dad.

590
00:33:39,041 --> 00:33:42,251
I shouldn't have said what I said
about you not being my sister.

591
00:33:43,541 --> 00:33:45,001
It's cool, babe.

592
00:33:47,916 --> 00:33:48,916
Get up.

593
00:33:49,166 --> 00:33:51,166
-Hmm.
-Go get your man.

594
00:34:05,041 --> 00:34:06,211
[in Zulu] What is it?

595
00:34:06,375 --> 00:34:07,375
[in Zulu] Nothing.

596
00:34:07,625 --> 00:34:10,415
[in Zulu] You're looking at me as if
I'm carrying a knife and I'll stab you.

597
00:34:10,708 --> 00:34:11,708
[in Zulu] There's nothing.

598
00:34:12,208 --> 00:34:13,168
[indistinct speech]

599
00:34:14,708 --> 00:34:17,288
I haven't seen you
in this bedroom in a long time,

600
00:34:17,916 --> 00:34:20,126
actually since we recalled Mbeki.

601
00:34:21,791 --> 00:34:22,791
All right.

602
00:34:23,333 --> 00:34:24,923
[in Zulu] Listen… Umm.

603
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,960
[in Zulu] I want us to talk
about the Sibusiso issue, you know.

604
00:34:28,166 --> 00:34:30,376
[in Zulu] I think we should
do something special for him.

605
00:34:31,625 --> 00:34:32,825
Something like what?

606
00:34:33,708 --> 00:34:35,498
Can we call in some favors?

607
00:34:59,541 --> 00:35:01,711
[alarm beeping]

608
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:24,330
[playful music playing]

609
00:35:46,541 --> 00:35:48,131
[gasps] What the fuck, Uncle?

610
00:35:48,458 --> 00:35:49,748
Merry Christmas!

611
00:35:50,333 --> 00:35:51,713
[in Zulu] Please get out.

612
00:35:51,916 --> 00:35:53,666
-[in Zulu] Go and take a bath, prisoner.
-Get out of my room.

613
00:35:54,166 --> 00:35:55,626
[in Zulu] Go and take a bath, prisoner!

614
00:35:56,250 --> 00:35:57,210
Okay, I'm going!

615
00:35:57,333 --> 00:35:58,793
[Siya] Enough with the questions.
Go and take a bath!

616
00:35:58,875 --> 00:35:59,995
[in Zulu] This boy!

617
00:36:00,083 --> 00:36:02,253
♪ And you know... ♪

618
00:36:02,333 --> 00:36:04,503
♪ And you know ♪

619
00:36:04,708 --> 00:36:06,708
♪ We ain't stopping ♪

620
00:36:06,875 --> 00:36:08,785
♪ We ain't dropping ♪

621
00:36:08,916 --> 00:36:10,956
♪ We ain't begging ♪

622
00:36:11,375 --> 00:36:13,205
♪ We're just climbing ♪

623
00:36:13,333 --> 00:36:14,963
♪ Until we reach the top… ♪

624
00:36:15,083 --> 00:36:17,883
[Siya] [in Zulu] You see, my boy,
at least you're not like Joseph.

625
00:36:18,458 --> 00:36:21,788
[in Zulu] They had sex with Mary
and claimed his child as well.

626
00:36:22,375 --> 00:36:23,495
[in Zulu] Just imagine.

627
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,080
[in Zulu] Life
is just like a game of dice.

628
00:36:25,666 --> 00:36:28,416
[in Zulu] Sometimes you win,
sometimes you lose,

629
00:36:28,583 --> 00:36:30,713
[in Zulu] sometimes you're like
a traffic light, sometimes you're…

630
00:36:30,875 --> 00:36:31,875
[Sbu] [in Zulu] Uncle.

631
00:36:32,333 --> 00:36:34,173
We've been driving around for hours now.

632
00:36:34,375 --> 00:36:36,165
[in Zulu] I'm getting sun-burnt.
Please, let's go back home.

633
00:36:36,333 --> 00:36:38,793
-Ah! Where's your Christmas spirit?
-[in Zulu] What Christmas spirit?

634
00:36:38,916 --> 00:36:40,876
When the woman I love
is not answering my phone calls.

635
00:36:41,083 --> 00:36:42,213
[phone rings]

636
00:36:43,541 --> 00:36:44,791
-[Siya] Hello.
-[Vusi] Where are you?

637
00:36:44,958 --> 00:36:47,078
[in Zulu] We'll be there just now!

638
00:36:47,833 --> 00:36:50,753
♪ Greetings, greetings, greetings… ♪

639
00:36:52,833 --> 00:36:57,133
♪ We'll do the Thobela dance
We'll do the Thobela dance ♪

640
00:37:02,541 --> 00:37:05,331
Um, um, what's…

641
00:37:10,333 --> 00:37:13,963
♪ …with a different style ♪

642
00:37:14,083 --> 00:37:16,173
♪ You've got to understand ♪

643
00:37:16,291 --> 00:37:18,131
♪ That we've got to move on ♪

644
00:37:18,250 --> 00:37:19,710
♪ So move on ♪

645
00:37:19,833 --> 00:37:22,963
♪ Move on, it's hurting ♪

646
00:37:23,041 --> 00:37:23,881
♪ Move on… ♪

647
00:37:26,125 --> 00:37:28,125
[laughing]

648
00:37:28,416 --> 00:37:29,826
[Sbu] Okay, what's going on?

649
00:37:30,125 --> 00:37:32,495
[Valencia] It's your mother
saying I'm so sorry my child.

650
00:37:32,791 --> 00:37:33,961
But how did you, guys…

651
00:37:34,208 --> 00:37:37,788
You do know I have Cyril's
inauguration guy on speed dial, right?

652
00:37:39,500 --> 00:37:41,250
Oh!

653
00:37:41,333 --> 00:37:47,173
[happy singing]

654
00:37:57,250 --> 00:37:58,920
[loud shout]

655
00:38:05,333 --> 00:38:06,833
[ululating]

656
00:38:36,875 --> 00:38:38,665
[singing dies down]

657
00:38:52,416 --> 00:38:59,376
[singing]

658
00:39:16,458 --> 00:39:17,628
[singing ends]

659
00:39:21,625 --> 00:39:22,535
[big sigh]

660
00:39:22,958 --> 00:39:26,248
I always thought the best part
about getting married was the dresses,

661
00:39:26,583 --> 00:39:28,833
or having a father
to walk you down the aisle,

662
00:39:29,041 --> 00:39:30,501
or having all the attention on me.

663
00:39:33,916 --> 00:39:35,206
I was wrong.

664
00:39:36,500 --> 00:39:37,710
The best part about getting married,

665
00:39:37,916 --> 00:39:40,036
is getting to spend
the rest of my life with you.

666
00:39:41,791 --> 00:39:43,081
That's if you'll have me.

667
00:39:43,333 --> 00:39:44,543
Well, us.

668
00:39:46,041 --> 00:39:47,421
I'm not going anywhere

669
00:39:47,916 --> 00:39:50,286
and I was crazy to even think that. Okay?

670
00:39:50,500 --> 00:39:51,500
I got us.

671
00:39:53,083 --> 00:39:55,753
-Just no more secrets, yeah?
-Yeah.

672
00:39:56,625 --> 00:39:57,665
[laughing]

673
00:39:58,750 --> 00:39:59,880
[shouts of protest]

674
00:39:59,958 --> 00:40:02,128
[Sbu] Sorry, sorry! I got carried away.

675
00:40:03,166 --> 00:40:05,246
[singing] [in Zulu] The bride is ours

676
00:40:05,666 --> 00:40:07,576
[in Zulu] She's actually ours

677
00:40:07,791 --> 00:40:12,421
[joyful singing continues]

678
00:40:22,083 --> 00:40:23,293
[in Zulu] Are you crying?

679
00:40:25,041 --> 00:40:27,671
-No, it's just something in my eye.
-[chuckles]

680
00:40:27,833 --> 00:40:29,003
[in Zulu] Okay, let's go.

681
00:40:29,166 --> 00:40:30,666
[Valencia laughs]

682
00:40:32,625 --> 00:40:33,665
[Dineo] [in Tswana] Be careful,
Sister Moipone.

683
00:40:33,833 --> 00:40:35,173
[Moipone] [in Tswana] Yes,
I'm being careful.

684
00:40:35,666 --> 00:40:37,036
[Dineo] [in Tswana] If you fall,
you're on your own.

685
00:40:37,291 --> 00:40:38,751
[Moipone] Oh, thank you.

686
00:40:38,958 --> 00:40:42,998
♪ Here, take my heart ♪

687
00:40:44,208 --> 00:40:46,708
♪ Here's my love, it's all yours ♪

688
00:40:47,750 --> 00:40:48,830
You came.

689
00:40:49,125 --> 00:40:53,665
Well, I mean, FOMO. I wasn't going to,
but intimate private wedding,

690
00:40:53,750 --> 00:40:55,380
Northern suburbs.

691
00:40:56,458 --> 00:40:58,918
So what? Am I here as a friend or…

692
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,380
[Vusi] All right,
can everybody take their seats.

693
00:41:01,583 --> 00:41:03,463
[in Zulu] We're about to start shortly.

694
00:41:03,583 --> 00:41:04,633
Thank you.

695
00:41:07,708 --> 00:41:13,168
[romantic singing]

696
00:41:17,208 --> 00:41:20,628
♪ It's raining, and I'm wet ♪

697
00:41:20,708 --> 00:41:26,038
♪ I'm wet from your love ♪

698
00:41:27,875 --> 00:41:31,035
♪ My love ♪

699
00:41:31,166 --> 00:41:36,326
♪ Things are ruined but I still love you ♪

700
00:41:37,958 --> 00:41:39,328
♪ I'm thinking of you ♪

701
00:41:40,750 --> 00:41:44,580
♪ I only want you… ♪

702
00:41:44,708 --> 00:41:46,748
[whistling and ululating]

703
00:41:46,833 --> 00:41:49,503
♪ Say it ♪

704
00:41:50,250 --> 00:41:52,000
♪ Hear it ♪

705
00:41:52,875 --> 00:41:56,875
♪ And sing it to me ♪

706
00:41:58,333 --> 00:42:01,383
♪ Break ♪

707
00:42:01,500 --> 00:42:03,210
♪ It ♪

708
00:42:03,875 --> 00:42:07,415
♪ Pull me apart at the seams ♪

709
00:42:08,625 --> 00:42:11,535
♪ I know when we broke it ♪

710
00:42:11,625 --> 00:42:14,035
♪ I felt it will last ♪

711
00:42:14,125 --> 00:42:15,955
♪ I trusted the process ♪

712
00:42:16,166 --> 00:42:17,746
♪ I thought we'd never make it… ♪

713
00:42:17,916 --> 00:42:20,126
[minister] You may now kiss the bride.

714
00:42:20,208 --> 00:42:22,078
♪ I don't wanna be a fool again ♪

715
00:42:22,208 --> 00:42:25,038
♪ I don't want to be the one to scream… ♪

716
00:42:25,833 --> 00:42:29,043
[cheering]

717
00:42:29,458 --> 00:42:32,128
♪ Let the road ♪

718
00:42:32,208 --> 00:42:34,128
♪ For... ♪

719
00:42:34,833 --> 00:42:37,173
[applause]

720
00:42:40,708 --> 00:42:43,498
♪ Come down… ♪

721
00:42:43,666 --> 00:42:48,076
[laughing] [background talking]

722
00:42:52,208 --> 00:42:54,748
[glass clinking]

723
00:42:55,583 --> 00:42:57,083
[Valencia] Attention, please.

724
00:43:04,666 --> 00:43:06,076
Here's to my children.

725
00:43:07,333 --> 00:43:08,963
All my children.

726
00:43:11,166 --> 00:43:12,536
You may not be Zulu,

727
00:43:13,333 --> 00:43:14,923
you may not be royalty,

728
00:43:15,875 --> 00:43:16,705
monied,

729
00:43:17,333 --> 00:43:19,423
-or raised right,
-[Thando] Huh?

730
00:43:19,500 --> 00:43:20,960
but we all fall short.

731
00:43:21,875 --> 00:43:23,375
What matters is

732
00:43:24,291 --> 00:43:25,881
[in Zulu] you're now one of us.

733
00:43:27,250 --> 00:43:30,880
[laughs] It's probably the nicest thing
she'll ever say to me.

734
00:43:32,041 --> 00:43:33,921
-[clears throat]
-[glass clinking]

735
00:43:34,416 --> 00:43:36,706
[Sbu] So, this is what I wanted.

736
00:43:37,291 --> 00:43:39,171
To be marrying the love of my life,

737
00:43:39,750 --> 00:43:42,540
in front of the people
that care about me the most.

738
00:43:43,541 --> 00:43:46,171
Ladies and gentlemen,
Christmas wishes do come true.

739
00:43:46,416 --> 00:43:48,536
Yeah, and I couldn't ask
for a more perfect day.

740
00:43:48,750 --> 00:43:50,000
[Vusi] Hear-hear!

741
00:43:50,083 --> 00:43:51,753
[cheering and applause]

742
00:43:51,916 --> 00:43:53,126
[glass clinking]

743
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,000
[Tumi] Umm…

744
00:43:55,166 --> 00:43:57,036
I too would like to say something

745
00:43:57,125 --> 00:43:59,165
just before the wine gets to my head.

746
00:43:59,458 --> 00:44:01,538
[in Tswana] Sweet Jesus on the cross,
come down, as in now, please.

747
00:44:01,625 --> 00:44:03,165
[clears throat]

748
00:44:04,208 --> 00:44:05,748
Yeah, so um…

749
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,170
I don't do speeches,

750
00:44:09,375 --> 00:44:12,705
but I have to do the one thing
that I was tasked with for this wedding.

751
00:44:13,500 --> 00:44:14,580
[sighs]

752
00:44:15,666 --> 00:44:16,666
You are…

753
00:44:17,583 --> 00:44:18,583
you were…

754
00:44:19,208 --> 00:44:20,208
and will be…

755
00:44:21,333 --> 00:44:23,423
the soul and the air that I breathe.

756
00:44:25,750 --> 00:44:27,880
A heart and the love that I need.

757
00:44:27,958 --> 00:44:29,328
[laughing]

758
00:44:29,541 --> 00:44:33,631
[singing off-key] You… are my destiny.

759
00:44:34,083 --> 00:44:35,713
[laughing]

760
00:44:36,041 --> 00:44:37,631
On a serious note,

761
00:44:39,166 --> 00:44:40,576
I don't know what to say.

762
00:44:41,250 --> 00:44:44,790
I'm not exactly
the relationship person in this family.

763
00:44:45,166 --> 00:44:48,496
-I'm sure you've all heard my stories.
-[Shadrack] Which one?

764
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:49,830
[soft laughter]

765
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:51,000
But I'm lucky

766
00:44:51,125 --> 00:44:54,035
to be surrounded with so much love
that I know what love is.

767
00:44:55,875 --> 00:44:57,745
Love is effortless.

768
00:44:58,541 --> 00:45:02,671
It's the fun times and the memories
that we create together.

769
00:45:03,375 --> 00:45:04,375
Whether it's…

770
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,040
singing at the side of the street or…

771
00:45:07,958 --> 00:45:10,378
teasing each other
without catching feelings.

772
00:45:12,583 --> 00:45:13,583
Love is…

773
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,080
It's unexpected.

774
00:45:17,333 --> 00:45:19,793
You have to open up your heart
to receive it,

775
00:45:20,375 --> 00:45:21,455
otherwise you…

776
00:45:22,541 --> 00:45:25,421
you might miss
that it's always been there for you.

777
00:45:25,791 --> 00:45:30,541
[soft romantic music playing]

778
00:45:32,333 --> 00:45:33,583
Love is accepting.

779
00:45:35,708 --> 00:45:38,918
You know, it's never ever dismissive,

780
00:45:39,666 --> 00:45:41,376
even if you're a hot mess.

781
00:45:42,666 --> 00:45:43,826
Love is uncomfortable.

782
00:45:44,208 --> 00:45:45,878
It's the ability to say sorry,

783
00:45:46,833 --> 00:45:49,213
even when sorry
is not part of your vocabulary.

784
00:45:50,125 --> 00:45:51,825
But love is a Beauty

785
00:45:52,583 --> 00:45:54,213
that can never be denied.

786
00:45:54,291 --> 00:45:56,961
♪ God gave us love ♪

787
00:45:57,083 --> 00:46:01,213
♪ God gave us love… ♪

788
00:46:02,250 --> 00:46:04,000
So here's to letting go

789
00:46:05,333 --> 00:46:06,753
and embracing love.

790
00:46:09,291 --> 00:46:10,251
To love.

791
00:46:11,041 --> 00:46:12,331
[everyone] To love!

792
00:46:16,375 --> 00:46:17,955
[music dies down and changes]

793
00:46:19,958 --> 00:46:23,998
[upbeat music playing]

794
00:47:06,208 --> 00:47:07,038
[music ends]

795
00:47:22,916 --> 00:47:25,626
Look, Themba, I'm not in the mood
to fight with you tonight.

796
00:47:28,250 --> 00:47:29,210
[in Zulu] Listen.

797
00:47:32,416 --> 00:47:36,456
[sad music playing]

798
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,630
I'm a piece of shit.

799
00:47:41,208 --> 00:47:43,458
[in Zulu] I'm a shitty person.

800
00:47:49,041 --> 00:47:51,631
You deserve so much more,

801
00:47:52,250 --> 00:47:53,250
and I hope…

802
00:47:53,708 --> 00:47:55,668
I… I hope

803
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,330
you find someone

804
00:47:57,500 --> 00:48:00,830
[in Zulu] who'll give you all of that.

805
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,170
Get out.

806
00:48:12,958 --> 00:48:13,958
[whispers] Get out.

807
00:48:34,916 --> 00:48:40,666
[upbeat music playing]

808
00:48:41,750 --> 00:48:43,710
♪ Hold it right there… ♪

809
00:48:49,125 --> 00:48:50,455
Happy!

810
00:49:12,625 --> 00:49:17,785
[upbeat music continues]

811
00:49:29,416 --> 00:49:31,246
♪ Jerusalem my home ♪

812
00:49:31,541 --> 00:49:32,501
♪ My home ♪

813
00:49:33,750 --> 00:49:36,540
♪ Keep me safe ♪

814
00:49:37,416 --> 00:49:40,326
♪ My home, keep me safe ♪

815
00:49:41,375 --> 00:49:43,995
♪ Don't leave me here… ♪

816
00:49:44,125 --> 00:49:47,495
[Tumi] So anyway, aren't you supposed
to be like feeding orphans or…

817
00:49:47,875 --> 00:49:49,875
saving the world or some shit like that?

818
00:49:50,083 --> 00:49:52,713
What? I figured the world could wait,
you know.

819
00:49:52,958 --> 00:49:54,378
[in Xhosa] Because you need me.

820
00:49:54,458 --> 00:49:56,128
♪ Walk with me ♪

821
00:49:56,208 --> 00:49:57,628
♪ Don't leave me here… ♪

822
00:49:57,750 --> 00:50:00,580
So, yes, your speech…
Your speech was blazing!

823
00:50:00,875 --> 00:50:03,245
[in Xhosa] I still think you should've
sung that song,

824
00:50:03,333 --> 00:50:05,083
it would've been so much better.

825
00:50:05,375 --> 00:50:06,745
-No.
-Yes!

826
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,250
Yes.

827
00:50:08,416 --> 00:50:11,206
♪ Keep me safe… ♪

828
00:50:11,333 --> 00:50:12,583
You know, I…

829
00:50:13,541 --> 00:50:15,291
I think about that night…

830
00:50:15,416 --> 00:50:16,496
♪ My home… ♪

831
00:50:16,625 --> 00:50:17,955
all the time.

832
00:50:18,125 --> 00:50:19,995
♪ My Kingdom… ♪

833
00:50:20,125 --> 00:50:21,495
It's just I'm a…

834
00:50:22,208 --> 00:50:24,168
walking list of fuck-ups,

835
00:50:24,291 --> 00:50:26,501
♪ Keep me safe… ♪

836
00:50:26,583 --> 00:50:28,673
and chances are I'm gonna mess this up.

837
00:50:28,791 --> 00:50:31,581
♪ Keep me safe… ♪

838
00:50:32,125 --> 00:50:33,285
You sure you want this?

839
00:50:34,458 --> 00:50:36,128
You sure you want me?

840
00:50:36,250 --> 00:50:38,830
♪ Do keep me safe ♪

841
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,170
♪ Do keep me safe… ♪

842
00:50:42,541 --> 00:50:43,581
I do.

843
00:50:43,708 --> 00:50:46,248
♪ Don't leave me here… ♪

844
00:50:46,666 --> 00:50:53,416
-[fireworks exploding]
-[cheering]

845
00:51:01,083 --> 00:51:02,253
[laughs]

846
00:51:04,041 --> 00:51:06,501
Oh, man. [groans]

847
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,380
Yeah…

848
00:51:08,541 --> 00:51:11,081
♪ Do keep me safe… ♪

849
00:51:11,208 --> 00:51:13,288
Look, seeing that we're…

850
00:51:13,916 --> 00:51:14,916
we're being real,

851
00:51:15,416 --> 00:51:19,076
and we're calling each other out
on our bullshit,

852
00:51:19,208 --> 00:51:22,418
♪ It's not here, my Kingdom… ♪

853
00:51:22,750 --> 00:51:24,750
there's something I have to tell you.

854
00:51:24,916 --> 00:51:29,076
♪ Do keep me safe ♪

855
00:51:29,208 --> 00:51:30,998
♪ Do walk with me… ♪

856
00:51:31,125 --> 00:51:33,575
[Tumi] Can't a girl catch a fucking break?

857
00:51:35,708 --> 00:51:39,668
[closing theme music playing]

858
00:52:18,333 --> 00:52:19,173
Subtitle translated by: Rolé Swiegers