1 00:00:52,166 --> 00:00:55,367 [theme music playing] 2 00:01:02,166 --> 00:01:04,567 [man] The thing inside of me, it's like... 3 00:01:04,567 --> 00:01:06,467 the appetite. 4 00:01:06,467 --> 00:01:08,567 It's like a wolf that's... 5 00:01:08,634 --> 00:01:12,433 feeling the hunger. 6 00:02:11,667 --> 00:02:15,767 [De La Torre] So the guys that actually work on the oil rigs, 7 00:02:15,834 --> 00:02:16,734 they're called roughnecks, 8 00:02:16,734 --> 00:02:18,367 and they're called roughnecks for a reason. 9 00:02:18,433 --> 00:02:21,166 This is a job where masculinity is key. 10 00:02:21,233 --> 00:02:23,467 You have to be strong, and you have to be tough. 11 00:02:23,533 --> 00:02:25,266 This kind of job is very, very dangerous. 12 00:02:25,333 --> 00:02:28,567 So everything is about the bravado and the machoism 13 00:02:28,634 --> 00:02:30,333 of working a job like that. 14 00:03:44,266 --> 00:03:47,000 [Tussey] It's a missing persons case at this point, 15 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,166 yet he's describing her in a way 16 00:03:50,166 --> 00:03:54,166 that he's almost blaming her for the circumstances. 17 00:03:54,233 --> 00:03:56,567 She dressed provocatively, 18 00:03:56,634 --> 00:04:00,767 she had a smart aleck attitude, she had a bad temper. 19 00:04:00,767 --> 00:04:03,667 He's got a lot of negative things to say about her, 20 00:04:03,734 --> 00:04:07,967 but you don't hear any concern about, where is she? 21 00:04:07,967 --> 00:04:09,367 Is she OK? 22 00:04:09,367 --> 00:04:12,867 It's just a lot more like potential victim blaming 23 00:04:12,867 --> 00:04:14,433 is what we're hearing here. 24 00:05:39,367 --> 00:05:42,066 The first big signal is the fact that he said, 25 00:05:42,066 --> 00:05:44,667 "I've never been arrested for beating somebody up." 26 00:05:44,667 --> 00:05:48,867 If somebody asked me, I would say, "I've never done it." 27 00:05:48,934 --> 00:05:52,266 So the fact that he's already saying I was never arrested 28 00:05:52,333 --> 00:05:54,767 shows he knows he can get away with this. 29 00:05:54,834 --> 00:05:57,266 He's done it before, and there was no consequences. 30 00:06:47,900 --> 00:06:51,767 One thing that people with psychopathy hate is 31 00:06:51,767 --> 00:06:53,000 being questioned. 32 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:54,767 It undercuts their authority, 33 00:06:54,767 --> 00:06:57,166 and so he's actually thinking, 34 00:06:57,233 --> 00:06:58,967 why should I have to answer to you? 35 00:06:59,033 --> 00:07:00,667 This is my situation. 36 00:07:00,734 --> 00:07:01,667 I'm in control. 37 00:07:01,667 --> 00:07:03,467 That's why he's getting so irritated throughout 38 00:07:03,467 --> 00:07:04,667 this conversation. 39 00:07:04,734 --> 00:07:06,767 He doesn't run, he stays. 40 00:07:06,767 --> 00:07:09,667 He thinks, I'm in control of the situation, 41 00:07:09,667 --> 00:07:11,533 and that really shows his narcissism. 42 00:09:14,166 --> 00:09:17,266 What we're seeing emerge is the start of pathological lying. 43 00:09:17,333 --> 00:09:18,467 I mean, he's changing his story. 44 00:09:18,467 --> 00:09:21,467 He knows he's at risk of getting caught, 45 00:09:21,467 --> 00:09:24,100 and you see him rapidly coming up with these 46 00:09:24,100 --> 00:09:26,734 quite manipulative, deceptive stories. 47 00:09:56,900 --> 00:09:59,667 He shows enthusiasm as he's telling the story of 48 00:09:59,667 --> 00:10:01,767 his girlfriend's head getting beaten in, 49 00:10:01,767 --> 00:10:04,367 and he's excited about it. 50 00:10:04,367 --> 00:10:05,967 It makes him -- 51 00:10:06,033 --> 00:10:08,166 the technical term would be aroused. 52 00:10:08,233 --> 00:10:10,567 He's clearly showing signs that this is something 53 00:10:10,567 --> 00:10:11,667 he's interested in, 54 00:10:11,667 --> 00:10:14,433 and that tends to happen in psychopathy. 55 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,567 [reporter] Horrific news out of Carlsbad tonight. 56 00:10:45,634 --> 00:10:48,667 Police say they found the body of missing third grade teacher 57 00:10:48,667 --> 00:10:50,767 and mother of two, Emily Lambert, 58 00:10:50,767 --> 00:10:54,467 beaten and barely clothed behind this bar near Loving. 59 00:10:54,467 --> 00:10:57,567 Her boyfriend, Robert Earley, initially told police that 60 00:10:57,567 --> 00:10:59,667 Lambert took off with another man. 61 00:10:59,667 --> 00:11:02,667 However, authorities now say Earley has confessed 62 00:11:02,667 --> 00:11:03,867 to her murder. 63 00:11:38,367 --> 00:11:43,066 For psychopaths, when they have a grandiose sense of self, 64 00:11:43,133 --> 00:11:45,567 it can often take particular forms. 65 00:11:45,567 --> 00:11:49,767 For Earley, it's related to his masculinity and being 66 00:11:49,834 --> 00:11:51,567 the most macho guy in the room. 67 00:11:51,567 --> 00:11:55,867 He has unconsciously already revealed the reality of what 68 00:11:55,867 --> 00:11:56,967 has happened. 69 00:11:56,967 --> 00:11:59,767 There was something that she did not like, 70 00:11:59,834 --> 00:12:03,066 and because she didn't like it, she decided that she was going 71 00:12:03,066 --> 00:12:06,767 to use her own agency and stop that thing from happening, 72 00:12:06,834 --> 00:12:09,667 but because that threatened his masculinity, 73 00:12:09,667 --> 00:12:11,433 he's going to be violent. 74 00:13:55,066 --> 00:13:58,367 Definition of first-degree murder is that you had 75 00:13:58,367 --> 00:14:02,166 an opportunity to cool off and still engage in 76 00:14:02,166 --> 00:14:03,367 the behavior anyway, 77 00:14:03,367 --> 00:14:07,367 and if his plausible story of 78 00:14:07,433 --> 00:14:10,166 "It was self-defense, we got into a fight," 79 00:14:10,233 --> 00:14:13,567 was true, none of these things would have happened. 80 00:14:13,567 --> 00:14:16,567 Emily wouldn't have been on the ground when he's kicking 81 00:14:16,634 --> 00:14:19,367 her in the head if he was engaging in self-defense, 82 00:14:19,367 --> 00:14:21,867 but he continues on with this. 83 00:14:21,867 --> 00:14:24,000 It's just getting worse and more brutal 84 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,100 and grotesque and sadistic, 85 00:14:26,100 --> 00:14:28,333 and he's just enjoying the torture of her. 86 00:14:53,867 --> 00:14:57,767 So after committing this heinous crime, Earley goes back 87 00:14:57,834 --> 00:15:00,467 to the hotel room and is able to fall asleep. 88 00:15:00,467 --> 00:15:04,567 Somebody who had remorse for their actions, or even just 89 00:15:04,567 --> 00:15:08,166 the physiological reaction we would expect someone to have 90 00:15:08,233 --> 00:15:11,467 after so violently hurting another human being, 91 00:15:11,467 --> 00:15:14,166 doesn't seem to be in place for Earley. 92 00:15:14,166 --> 00:15:16,834 He's able to just drive back to the hotel and go to bed. 93 00:16:48,467 --> 00:16:52,567 For a psychopath, they know the words that people 94 00:16:52,567 --> 00:16:55,066 expect them to say, but they just don't have 95 00:16:55,066 --> 00:16:56,367 the same definition. 96 00:16:56,433 --> 00:16:58,967 I think what he actually means when he says that he loves 97 00:16:58,967 --> 00:17:03,867 her was that Emily was willing to be the toy that I wanted 98 00:17:03,867 --> 00:17:05,166 her to be, 99 00:17:05,166 --> 00:17:08,667 and like any other little kid, when they're tired of the toy 100 00:17:08,667 --> 00:17:10,867 and they want to throw a temper tantrum, 101 00:17:10,867 --> 00:17:13,166 they're going to kick that toy. 102 00:17:13,233 --> 00:17:17,066 Psychopaths need other people in order for them to get 103 00:17:17,133 --> 00:17:20,166 their own wants and desires fulfilled, but they're only 104 00:17:20,233 --> 00:17:21,667 ever a tool. 105 00:17:21,734 --> 00:17:25,767 An object can be discarded once the object has threatened 106 00:17:25,834 --> 00:17:27,634 the person's own ego. 107 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:40,266 I think that he finally becomes aware that the investigators 108 00:18:40,266 --> 00:18:42,967 are going to charge him with murder, but he's thinking, 109 00:18:42,967 --> 00:18:45,166 how can I still control this situation? 110 00:18:45,166 --> 00:18:47,667 And I think he's trying to, even now, while he's 111 00:18:47,667 --> 00:18:49,767 essentially confessing to the murder, saying, 112 00:18:49,767 --> 00:18:53,433 "Well, if I can get the charges that I want, then I still won." 113 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:56,867 [reporter] It was our first look at Robert Earley, the oil worker from 114 00:19:56,867 --> 00:20:00,166 Texas accused of killing his girlfriend of three months, 115 00:20:00,233 --> 00:20:03,367 Emily Lambert, while working in Carlsbad. 116 00:20:03,367 --> 00:20:07,100 Lambert, a third grade teacher and mother of two, was visiting 117 00:20:07,100 --> 00:20:08,667 Earley for the weekend. 118 00:20:08,667 --> 00:20:11,567 Investigators found her body behind a barn. 119 00:20:11,634 --> 00:20:14,033 Earley is charged with first-degree murder. 120 00:20:31,100 --> 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