1 00:01:35,137 --> 00:01:38,723 [eerie theme music playing] 2 00:01:44,979 --> 00:01:46,940 The thing inside of me, it's like... 3 00:01:48,900 --> 00:01:50,444 the appetite, it's like a wolf that's... 4 00:01:52,696 --> 00:01:55,365 feeling... the hunger. 5 00:02:00,162 --> 00:02:01,663 [theme music concludes] 6 00:03:07,187 --> 00:03:10,691 We see Demich start to talk about how he felt 7 00:03:10,774 --> 00:03:12,234 rejected by Cynthia Cole. 8 00:03:12,359 --> 00:03:15,028 He talks about how he was attracted to her 9 00:03:15,112 --> 00:03:18,198 and he had feelings, but then she shut him down. 10 00:03:18,281 --> 00:03:22,953 So inherently, Demich took that rejection as this is not 11 00:03:23,036 --> 00:03:24,371 a good thing. 12 00:03:24,454 --> 00:03:28,458 His ego is hurt, but by sharing that he's a sex offender early, 13 00:03:28,542 --> 00:03:33,046 may seem like he's coming off as helpful and he's acting like 14 00:03:33,130 --> 00:03:36,383 he's her friend, But In reality, he's just 15 00:03:36,508 --> 00:03:39,219 constructing this narrative and this image that he wants 16 00:03:39,302 --> 00:03:40,470 police to see him as. 17 00:03:41,471 --> 00:03:43,724 It's very possible that he was just trying to hide 18 00:03:43,849 --> 00:03:45,851 who he really is, and that would make him 19 00:03:45,934 --> 00:03:47,894 sort of like, a suspect, 20 00:03:48,019 --> 00:03:51,690 because he had prior offenses that were sexual 21 00:03:51,773 --> 00:03:52,899 and violent in nature. 22 00:03:52,983 --> 00:03:56,194 So, it would be only natural for police to start 23 00:03:56,278 --> 00:03:57,821 paying attention to Demich at this point. 24 00:04:40,739 --> 00:04:45,202 I think Demich is trying to play this game by ear. 25 00:04:45,284 --> 00:04:48,455 I think he's still trying to send up test balloons to 26 00:04:48,580 --> 00:04:50,832 figure out what do the detectives know, 27 00:04:50,957 --> 00:04:53,960 how quickly can they tell it to me, 28 00:04:54,044 --> 00:04:58,006 and how fast can I make up a story that best fits 29 00:04:58,131 --> 00:05:01,843 the narrative that they're already trying to spin. 30 00:05:01,968 --> 00:05:04,095 So he seems like, when we take a look at him, 31 00:05:04,179 --> 00:05:06,640 he doesn't seem all that distressed, right? 32 00:05:06,723 --> 00:05:08,892 He's -- arms on the table and he's, you know, 33 00:05:08,975 --> 00:05:11,853 looking forward, but I think his mind is like, 34 00:05:11,978 --> 00:05:14,648 you know, the duck flapping in the lake 35 00:05:14,773 --> 00:05:17,317 where it's super calm up on of the lake, 36 00:05:17,442 --> 00:05:19,486 but he's spinning his flippers 37 00:05:19,569 --> 00:05:20,487 trying to figure out, 38 00:05:20,570 --> 00:05:23,240 what's the next thing that I need to say 39 00:05:23,323 --> 00:05:26,159 in order to make it seem like I'm not the bad guy. 40 00:06:33,643 --> 00:06:34,936 [Dr. Saraiya] I think he had a general idea 41 00:06:35,061 --> 00:06:37,731 that he would try to give 'em a certain timeline, 42 00:06:37,856 --> 00:06:41,234 but he's not that good at anticipating having to 43 00:06:41,359 --> 00:06:42,402 hide his tracks. 44 00:06:42,485 --> 00:06:45,238 I think that speaks to the grandiosity that he has. 45 00:06:45,363 --> 00:06:48,491 So, he does not have a sense 46 00:06:48,575 --> 00:06:52,454 that his story isn't so good and has holes in it. 47 00:06:52,579 --> 00:06:56,082 He's convinced himself, just because of this narcissism 48 00:06:56,207 --> 00:06:58,543 and grandiosity, that he can get away with things. 49 00:07:48,301 --> 00:07:50,762 [Dr. De La Torre] His psychopathy is about manipulating people, 50 00:07:50,845 --> 00:07:53,640 but it is more about getting back into the shadows. 51 00:07:53,723 --> 00:07:56,308 He doesn't like being out in the spotlight. 52 00:07:56,393 --> 00:07:58,269 Notice his overall appearance. 53 00:07:58,353 --> 00:08:01,648 He's not really someone that cares about having 54 00:08:01,731 --> 00:08:05,026 a bright light put on him. He prefers the darkness. 55 00:08:05,151 --> 00:08:07,904 He prefers to be out of sight. 56 00:08:07,988 --> 00:08:09,864 So he doesn't like all of this attention 57 00:08:09,990 --> 00:08:11,658 that is being brought to him. 58 00:08:11,741 --> 00:08:14,077 His psychopathy is not pronounced. 59 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,997 He's not trying to mitigate. He's not trying to obfuscate. 60 00:08:17,122 --> 00:08:19,832 He's not trying to even get a lesser sentence or even 61 00:08:19,957 --> 00:08:21,459 draw detectives in. 62 00:08:21,543 --> 00:08:26,214 He's just trying and hoping that they will let him go 63 00:08:26,339 --> 00:08:29,592 so he can go back to the shadows where he prefers to be. 64 00:08:29,676 --> 00:08:33,346 What he's trying to do is just deny 65 00:08:33,429 --> 00:08:35,765 and hopefully I can get released. 66 00:09:32,781 --> 00:09:34,491 [Dr. Saraiya] His interest in trying to control 67 00:09:34,616 --> 00:09:36,785 the narrative, and his belief that he's gonna be 68 00:09:36,910 --> 00:09:38,953 able to convince the police of something 69 00:09:39,037 --> 00:09:41,539 fits with the pattern that we see with psychopaths. 70 00:09:41,623 --> 00:09:44,501 They tend to think that they're smarter than everybody, 71 00:09:44,626 --> 00:09:47,212 and they do have a history of being able to 72 00:09:47,295 --> 00:09:49,297 manipulate other people. 73 00:09:49,380 --> 00:09:53,468 So they're going into these interactions thinking that 74 00:09:53,551 --> 00:09:55,845 they're gonna be able to manipulate the detectives 75 00:09:55,970 --> 00:09:58,264 the same way that they get through life, 76 00:09:58,348 --> 00:10:00,642 manipulating people and telling their own story. 77 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:03,394 But we can see that he's completely lost control of 78 00:10:03,478 --> 00:10:07,565 the story, but he's in it, you know, trying his best to 79 00:10:07,649 --> 00:10:11,945 maintain the control. But it's falling apart fast. 80 00:10:52,694 --> 00:10:55,196 Now to a disturbing story out of Martin County, 81 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,866 where the sheriff's office there says they have found 82 00:10:57,991 --> 00:11:00,201 a woman's body in Jensen Beach. 83 00:11:00,285 --> 00:11:03,746 Cynthia Cole was last seen on February 24th after a night out 84 00:11:03,872 --> 00:11:04,998 with her friends. 85 00:11:05,081 --> 00:11:08,084 The 57-year-old's body was found in the septic tank of 86 00:11:08,209 --> 00:11:10,545 her home during an overnight search. 87 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,306 [suspenseful music playing] 88 00:12:07,852 --> 00:12:11,439 Most sexual psychopaths we know from research tend to 89 00:12:11,564 --> 00:12:15,193 engage in a lot of fantasy because that really helps 90 00:12:15,276 --> 00:12:18,112 their arousal system that generally does not work in 91 00:12:18,238 --> 00:12:19,489 a typical fashion. 92 00:12:19,614 --> 00:12:24,118 And so fantasies are usually rigid, they're persistent, 93 00:12:24,244 --> 00:12:26,287 and they have to escalate over time. 94 00:12:26,412 --> 00:12:29,749 So the next plausible step after grabbing her underwear 95 00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:33,169 and going into the shower and waiting for her is probably 96 00:12:33,294 --> 00:12:34,796 to act out on those fantasies. 97 00:12:34,921 --> 00:12:39,133 They can only really suffice for the psychopath for so long 98 00:12:39,259 --> 00:12:41,219 until they just become saturated. 99 00:12:41,302 --> 00:12:42,595 And then novelty is needed to 100 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,305 get that arousal system back up again. 101 00:14:10,099 --> 00:14:13,394 [Dr. De La Torre] I don't know that he was fully prepared to engage in 102 00:14:13,519 --> 00:14:16,230 everything that he had been fantasizing about. 103 00:14:17,523 --> 00:14:20,026 You still have to cross that barrier. 104 00:14:20,109 --> 00:14:25,531 Now, yes, he has been convicted as a sex offender, sure, 105 00:14:25,615 --> 00:14:29,577 but his behaviors since then have not really demonstrated 106 00:14:29,702 --> 00:14:32,872 an ability to break that boundary 107 00:14:32,955 --> 00:14:35,792 and physically violate someone with touch. 108 00:14:37,335 --> 00:14:40,922 So I think he's probably fantasizing about how 109 00:14:41,047 --> 00:14:42,924 everything is gonna go down. 110 00:14:43,049 --> 00:14:45,760 And when it doesn't go down and she screeches 111 00:14:45,843 --> 00:14:50,223 and she runs away, things have to escalate very quickly. 112 00:14:50,306 --> 00:14:52,683 And since he's already upset with her, 113 00:14:52,767 --> 00:14:57,438 since he's already angry and wants to violate her, 114 00:14:57,563 --> 00:14:59,482 because she is running away, 115 00:14:59,607 --> 00:15:03,403 that is more evidence that he needs to what he wants 116 00:15:03,486 --> 00:15:05,905 from her because she's not gonna give it freely. 117 00:16:17,393 --> 00:16:21,105 [Dr. Vienna] It really shows his lack of attachment to 118 00:16:21,230 --> 00:16:23,524 anybody, a person, but particularly here, 119 00:16:23,608 --> 00:16:26,903 Cynthia Cole, because he has no distress 120 00:16:27,028 --> 00:16:28,571 over what just happened, 121 00:16:28,654 --> 00:16:31,741 he's back engaging in his normal everyday activities. 122 00:16:31,866 --> 00:16:34,744 So it's really a lack of emotional connection, 123 00:16:34,869 --> 00:16:36,704 a lack of empathy, a lack of remorse, 124 00:16:36,787 --> 00:16:39,415 and really highlights his level of callousness. 125 00:16:41,042 --> 00:16:44,086 Cynthia stopped being a person to him. 126 00:16:44,212 --> 00:16:48,925 Cynthia Cole became an object to Demich to serve his, 127 00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:53,513 you know, sexual needs, but again, more so to fulfill 128 00:16:53,596 --> 00:16:56,891 that psychological aspect of having power and control, 129 00:16:56,974 --> 00:16:59,894 and really that's feeding his ego, which is what he wants 130 00:16:59,977 --> 00:17:01,437 more than just a sexual connection. 131 00:17:59,453 --> 00:18:01,163 This is absolutely an element 132 00:18:01,289 --> 00:18:03,249 of the rejected sexual psychopath. 133 00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:07,670 There's no way that he's just gonna take no for an answer. 134 00:18:07,795 --> 00:18:11,173 Remember, he's already admitted that there's another way in 135 00:18:11,299 --> 00:18:13,217 which I can enter back into her life. 136 00:18:13,342 --> 00:18:16,345 There's another way in which I can try to convince her to go 137 00:18:16,470 --> 00:18:17,513 on a date with me. 138 00:18:17,597 --> 00:18:19,515 I can find another way to do all of these things. 139 00:18:19,599 --> 00:18:22,727 But she keeps saying no. That's what he's tired of. 140 00:18:22,852 --> 00:18:25,021 He's tired of being told no. 141 00:18:25,146 --> 00:18:28,733 He's heard no enough times from her that he's willing to 142 00:18:28,858 --> 00:18:30,192 now cross the boundary. 143 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:59,764 I think for Demich, he feels that this relationship 144 00:18:59,889 --> 00:19:02,558 had to end with him killing Cynthia Cole 145 00:19:02,642 --> 00:19:05,895 because she rejected him and she didn't take him. 146 00:19:06,020 --> 00:19:09,440 I don't think that he wanted another way out. 147 00:19:09,565 --> 00:19:12,360 I think he planned this. He wanted this to happen. 148 00:19:12,443 --> 00:19:14,570 It was very goal-directed behavior. 149 00:19:14,695 --> 00:19:17,907 It fulfilled all of his psychological needs. 150 00:19:18,032 --> 00:19:20,951 He wasn't really connected with her in any other way than 151 00:19:21,077 --> 00:19:24,080 seeing her as an object and a means to an end. 152 00:19:39,261 --> 00:19:40,930 [Dr. Saraiya] Mr. Demich is a psychopath. 153 00:19:41,013 --> 00:19:43,891 You know, it's anything that happens, even though 154 00:19:43,974 --> 00:19:45,893 it's driven by their own needs, 155 00:19:45,976 --> 00:19:48,062 people get what they deserve. 156 00:19:48,145 --> 00:19:52,274 You know, she didn't go along with what he wanted, 157 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,277 so therefore she got what she deserved. 158 00:19:55,403 --> 00:19:57,947 I mean, it's a simple calculus. It's cold. 159 00:19:59,115 --> 00:20:00,116 It's unfeeling. 160 00:20:01,242 --> 00:20:03,828 It has no recognition for her as a person, 161 00:20:03,953 --> 00:20:05,329 for their relationship. 162 00:20:05,454 --> 00:20:07,206 But again, those things don't exist in the mind 163 00:20:07,289 --> 00:20:10,584 of a psychopath. In the end, he's being honest. 164 00:20:10,668 --> 00:20:11,794 I had no feelings. 165 00:20:11,919 --> 00:20:15,131 I simply took what I wanted, and the flip side of that 166 00:20:15,256 --> 00:20:16,257 is she deserved it.