1 00:00:01,901 --> 00:00:02,868 [Lateshia] Previously on "Belle Collective. 2 00:00:03,033 --> 00:00:04,667 [overlapping greetings] 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:07,100 Tell me what tea. 4 00:00:07,267 --> 00:00:08,367 They were saying, were you coming with Ced? 5 00:00:08,534 --> 00:00:09,767 And I said, "They not together no more." 6 00:00:09,934 --> 00:00:12,467 No, we're not together anymore, unfortunately. 7 00:00:12,634 --> 00:00:14,200 -Well, she told the truth. -Yeah. 8 00:00:14,367 --> 00:00:15,801 Are we single and ready to mingle? 9 00:00:15,968 --> 00:00:18,167 I am single. I'm single again, yes. 10 00:00:18,334 --> 00:00:21,567 I am not above apologizing, dang. 11 00:00:21,734 --> 00:00:23,501 OK, we going -- we ain't going backwards. 12 00:00:23,667 --> 00:00:25,167 -OK. -We -- we gonna go -- we gonna move -- 13 00:00:25,334 --> 00:00:26,801 we gonna try to move forward. -We gonna try to move forward. 14 00:00:26,968 --> 00:00:30,367 OK -- I just want us to see what is it that we need to do, 15 00:00:30,534 --> 00:00:33,000 because we got to bring this back around. 16 00:00:33,167 --> 00:00:34,767 Well, what about... 17 00:00:34,934 --> 00:00:36,968 if we all... 18 00:00:37,133 --> 00:00:38,767 meet? 19 00:00:38,934 --> 00:00:39,868 You're a manager, right? 20 00:00:40,033 --> 00:00:40,934 Yeah, but she ain't gonna leave now. 21 00:00:41,100 --> 00:00:42,200 -Go -- go manage some [bleep]. -What? 22 00:00:42,367 --> 00:00:43,767 You need to go take a [bleep] seat now, bro. 23 00:00:43,934 --> 00:00:45,501 Take -- take the finger out the hand. 24 00:00:45,667 --> 00:00:47,767 Sit your bitch ass down some more. 25 00:00:47,934 --> 00:00:49,667 -[indistinct arguing] -What you gonna do, bro? 26 00:00:49,834 --> 00:00:51,100 [Lateshia] Be quiet. 27 00:00:57,267 --> 00:00:59,868 ♪ Gotta move like a butterfly, fly ♪ 28 00:01:00,100 --> 00:01:01,901 ♪ Can't caterpillar your whole life, fly ♪ 29 00:01:02,067 --> 00:01:04,267 ♪ Who said dreamers can't fly, fly ♪ 30 00:01:04,434 --> 00:01:07,100 ♪ Off the airplane, I'm fly, fly ♪ 31 00:01:08,868 --> 00:01:10,267 Everything is good. 32 00:01:10,434 --> 00:01:12,367 You got all the pamphlets in here. 33 00:01:12,534 --> 00:01:14,167 You know, when you do a giveaway, 34 00:01:14,334 --> 00:01:16,200 people, they come out. 35 00:01:16,367 --> 00:01:19,300 I'm just hoping that we got enough. 36 00:01:19,467 --> 00:01:22,067 I have always been an advocate for the community. 37 00:01:22,234 --> 00:01:24,767 After my one-on-one conversation with Lateshia... 38 00:01:24,934 --> 00:01:29,467 My peace offering, I guess, is I am having a Give Back 39 00:01:29,634 --> 00:01:30,901 at Taste. -Yay! 40 00:01:31,067 --> 00:01:33,467 And, you know, like, the way the economy is now, 41 00:01:33,634 --> 00:01:35,167 like, there's just so many different families 42 00:01:35,334 --> 00:01:38,467 that just can't make it, so I can do my part. -Mm-hmm, yeah. 43 00:01:38,634 --> 00:01:39,868 So I definitely wanna invite you. 44 00:01:40,033 --> 00:01:41,567 [Lateshia] Oh, thank you. Yes, for sure. 45 00:01:41,734 --> 00:01:42,667 I'll be there. 46 00:01:42,834 --> 00:01:45,100 I'm super excited about the event today. 47 00:01:45,267 --> 00:01:47,267 People are literally gonna drive up. 48 00:01:47,434 --> 00:01:50,200 We're gonna put boxes of food in their trunks 49 00:01:50,367 --> 00:01:53,300 or the cars, along with a gallon of water, 50 00:01:53,467 --> 00:01:54,667 like a drive-thru. 51 00:01:54,834 --> 00:01:56,868 I met with Lateshia. 52 00:01:57,968 --> 00:01:59,701 What? 53 00:01:59,868 --> 00:02:01,067 -So -- -[Selena] So you took your husband's advice? 54 00:02:01,234 --> 00:02:02,901 I took my husband's advice and I ended up meeting 55 00:02:03,067 --> 00:02:05,367 with her. -OK, what happened? 56 00:02:05,534 --> 00:02:07,667 Basically, she's -- she doesn't wanna fight with me anymore. 57 00:02:07,834 --> 00:02:08,901 She's tired. 58 00:02:09,067 --> 00:02:10,501 We have too many things going on, 59 00:02:10,667 --> 00:02:13,167 and me and her are hindering you guys. 60 00:02:13,334 --> 00:02:15,200 Like, I feel like being a grown woman is being able 61 00:02:15,367 --> 00:02:16,667 to talk things out. -[Selena] Yes. 62 00:02:16,834 --> 00:02:19,100 And, you know, just being able to... 63 00:02:19,267 --> 00:02:20,400 -[Selena] Coexist. -...coexist. 64 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,767 Yes, because I actually invited her to the event. 65 00:02:22,934 --> 00:02:24,901 -No, I don't see them. -I don't know how -- 66 00:02:25,067 --> 00:02:26,300 -OK, so... -They might be a little late. 67 00:02:26,467 --> 00:02:27,667 ...so when have you talked to Glen? 68 00:02:27,834 --> 00:02:28,767 I ain't talked to Glen. 69 00:02:28,934 --> 00:02:30,000 You haven't talked to him at all? 70 00:02:30,167 --> 00:02:31,400 [Cliff] I haven't talked to Glen, period. 71 00:02:33,868 --> 00:02:35,067 What are y'all gonna talk about? 72 00:02:35,234 --> 00:02:36,100 You gonna ask him? 73 00:02:36,267 --> 00:02:37,667 We gonna talk about the weather. 74 00:02:37,834 --> 00:02:39,000 I haven't talked to Glen since 75 00:02:47,567 --> 00:02:50,000 Hey, sisters, we got like 50 cars out here. 76 00:02:50,167 --> 00:02:52,167 -[Selena] OK. -It's time to give back. 77 00:02:52,334 --> 00:02:53,834 -It's time to give, OK. -It's time to give back. 78 00:02:53,834 --> 00:02:57,000 -OK, you gonna knock me down shaking all that back here. -[Pam] Hey! 79 00:02:57,167 --> 00:02:58,467 [Latrice speaks indistinctly] 80 00:02:58,634 --> 00:02:59,868 This event is a big deal. 81 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,467 Hey, boo! 82 00:03:02,634 --> 00:03:05,200 I have the Legacy Foundation. I have Walmart. 83 00:03:05,367 --> 00:03:10,701 And I have the news station and our state representative. 84 00:03:10,868 --> 00:03:13,167 [TV reporter] Talk about what we got going on here today. 85 00:03:13,334 --> 00:03:16,601 So today we're doing a community Give Back, 86 00:03:16,767 --> 00:03:19,167 because right now the economy is so fickled 87 00:03:19,334 --> 00:03:21,000 and there's so many people that -- 88 00:03:21,167 --> 00:03:23,767 that's not able to afford the essentials. 89 00:03:23,934 --> 00:03:27,200 I was once that child who parents did not have a lot. 90 00:03:27,367 --> 00:03:30,868 So being in the position that I'm in now, like, I'm always 91 00:03:31,033 --> 00:03:32,367 willing to help and give back. 92 00:03:32,534 --> 00:03:36,801 I come from a small town where I never had a lot. 93 00:03:36,968 --> 00:03:41,467 So I can all too well relate to not having enough food to eat. 94 00:03:41,634 --> 00:03:44,167 So it is very important for me to get the word out 95 00:03:44,334 --> 00:03:46,167 about food scarcity. 96 00:03:46,334 --> 00:03:49,367 It's nothing to be ashamed about, because a lot of people 97 00:03:49,534 --> 00:03:50,667 do go through this. 98 00:03:50,667 --> 00:03:52,868 We have to highlight, also, the fact that we have 99 00:03:53,033 --> 00:03:54,667 investors like Ms. Rogers. 100 00:03:54,834 --> 00:03:56,100 When she called me about this event, 101 00:03:56,267 --> 00:03:57,767 I had to get involved immediately. 102 00:03:57,934 --> 00:03:59,667 And we have to support people like her. 103 00:03:59,834 --> 00:04:01,000 She's the best of Jackson. 104 00:04:01,167 --> 00:04:03,701 So it's just really honorable for her to do this 105 00:04:03,868 --> 00:04:06,701 in this community. -All right, y'all, ready? 106 00:04:06,868 --> 00:04:10,400 -Let's give back, y'all. -[indistinct cheering] 107 00:04:10,567 --> 00:04:12,767 [Cliff] Let's all go down to your [indistinct]. 108 00:04:12,934 --> 00:04:13,934 Let's go all the way down. 109 00:04:13,934 --> 00:04:16,367 [Latrice] Grab a box and take it to a car. 110 00:04:17,467 --> 00:04:18,467 [Selena] A little faster. 111 00:04:18,634 --> 00:04:21,100 -Hello, come on down. -Come on down. 112 00:04:21,267 --> 00:04:22,667 -You're welcome. -You don't even have to get out the car. 113 00:04:22,834 --> 00:04:26,501 -Uh-huh, thank you. -She done got that one per car. 114 00:04:26,667 --> 00:04:27,701 Yeah, because there's so many. 115 00:04:27,868 --> 00:04:28,801 -Yeah. -Yes. 116 00:04:28,968 --> 00:04:29,968 But it's a good box. 117 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,567 -Hi. -There you go. 118 00:04:34,467 --> 00:04:37,367 ♪ Like that classic masterpiece, yeah ♪ 119 00:04:37,534 --> 00:04:39,667 ♪ Money would be jealous, you know ♪ 120 00:04:39,834 --> 00:04:41,167 ♪ Pop my booty ♪ 121 00:04:41,334 --> 00:04:42,667 -Keep it going around. -How you doing? 122 00:04:42,834 --> 00:04:45,167 -Is your back door open? -You can pull up a little bit. 123 00:04:45,334 --> 00:04:46,767 Hey, y'all. Hey. 124 00:04:46,934 --> 00:04:49,801 [indistinct chatter] 125 00:04:49,968 --> 00:04:51,968 I'm arriving at Latrice's Give Back, 126 00:04:52,133 --> 00:04:55,467 and this is my first time being at Taste in forever. 127 00:04:55,634 --> 00:04:57,567 I do feel weird. 128 00:04:57,734 --> 00:05:00,767 I do feel a little awkward, but I'm showing up. 129 00:05:01,767 --> 00:05:03,701 Well, thank you for coming, Ms. Pearson. 130 00:05:03,868 --> 00:05:05,567 This is what we call this cordial. 131 00:05:05,734 --> 00:05:07,601 -We're cordial. -Mm-hmm. 132 00:05:07,767 --> 00:05:09,667 -This is really nice, though. -Thank you. 133 00:05:09,834 --> 00:05:10,968 This is really, really nice. 134 00:05:11,133 --> 00:05:14,267 I told Glen, so he's gonna come, but he'll be late. 135 00:05:14,434 --> 00:05:15,667 Aw. 136 00:05:15,834 --> 00:05:18,767 I told my husband that I invited you guys or whatever. 137 00:05:18,934 --> 00:05:21,467 And, you know, he, "Well, if he come, you know, 138 00:05:21,634 --> 00:05:23,467 I'mma talk to him." -Yeah. 139 00:05:23,634 --> 00:05:25,567 I want Glen and Cliff to have a conversation 140 00:05:25,734 --> 00:05:28,267 because they really -- they really had a friendship. 141 00:05:28,434 --> 00:05:32,167 And I hope that Glen and Cliff can resolve issues. 142 00:05:32,334 --> 00:05:34,567 I hadn't had a conversation with Glen ever since 143 00:05:34,734 --> 00:05:36,801 he interrupted my photo shoot. 144 00:05:40,267 --> 00:05:43,367 [indistinct yelling] 145 00:05:43,534 --> 00:05:44,501 No, no, no. 146 00:05:44,667 --> 00:05:46,667 Getting of the [bleep]. 147 00:05:46,834 --> 00:05:48,267 -[indistinct yelling] -[Lateshia] Glen, that's my manger. 148 00:05:48,434 --> 00:05:50,100 -[bleep] -[indistinct yelling] 149 00:05:50,267 --> 00:05:54,000 I did invite him to stop by Taste, and after the event 150 00:05:54,167 --> 00:05:56,300 is over, he and I will go to dinner. 151 00:05:56,467 --> 00:06:00,300 -Come on down, yep come on down. -Hello -- hi! 152 00:06:00,467 --> 00:06:02,267 Hey, how y'all doing? 153 00:06:03,767 --> 00:06:05,167 Come on down. 154 00:06:05,334 --> 00:06:06,667 Once that car pull off, you just pull up 155 00:06:06,834 --> 00:06:09,100 and get your box, OK? -How you doing? 156 00:06:09,267 --> 00:06:10,367 How are you? 157 00:06:10,534 --> 00:06:11,701 Is the back seat open? 158 00:06:11,701 --> 00:06:13,501 We gonna drop it in and we gonna put it in the back. 159 00:06:18,267 --> 00:06:19,400 Mm-hmm. 160 00:06:19,567 --> 00:06:21,501 Yeah. Yeah. 161 00:06:21,667 --> 00:06:26,100 My dad is doing much better. 162 00:06:26,267 --> 00:06:30,167 Latrice has called every single day, 163 00:06:30,334 --> 00:06:32,901 multiple times a day. 164 00:06:33,067 --> 00:06:36,667 Trice has definitely been here for me. 165 00:06:36,834 --> 00:06:38,901 And I am here for her today. 166 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,200 You have a great weekend. Bye, baby. 167 00:06:43,367 --> 00:06:46,467 -Bye. -I think that's it. 168 00:06:46,634 --> 00:06:48,501 -Tambra, [indistinct], that's it! -That's it. 169 00:06:48,667 --> 00:06:50,467 -[cheering] 170 00:06:50,634 --> 00:06:51,567 [Cliff] That's it. 171 00:06:51,734 --> 00:06:54,667 [indistinct chatter] 172 00:06:54,834 --> 00:06:57,400 This event went absolutely amazing. 173 00:06:57,567 --> 00:07:01,868 I feel like it hit every goal that I was trying to achieve 174 00:07:02,033 --> 00:07:03,467 when it comes to the community. 175 00:07:06,868 --> 00:07:08,501 [Marie] Hey, ladies! 176 00:07:08,667 --> 00:07:09,767 Look, we gonna gave the last -- 177 00:07:09,934 --> 00:07:11,868 We gonna gave the last turkey away. 178 00:07:12,033 --> 00:07:13,868 [Marie] Listen Don't y'all do me. 179 00:07:14,033 --> 00:07:17,667 -I'm coming to drop food off, not pickup food. -You ain't coming to get food? 180 00:07:17,834 --> 00:07:22,300 Oh, my sweet grand boys had their first basketball game, 181 00:07:22,467 --> 00:07:23,467 so I'm late. 182 00:07:23,634 --> 00:07:25,167 But rather late than never, I'm here. 183 00:07:26,167 --> 00:07:29,167 Lateshia, are you here at the Taste? 184 00:07:29,334 --> 00:07:31,367 -[Lateshia] Here at the Taste. -[Tambra] It's all over girl. 185 00:07:31,534 --> 00:07:33,000 What did I miss? 186 00:07:35,367 --> 00:07:36,701 -Mm. -[Marie] What? 187 00:07:36,868 --> 00:07:38,501 Well, great for y'all. 188 00:07:38,667 --> 00:07:42,367 And this is an example of Tambra and I hate Kerri -- 189 00:07:42,534 --> 00:07:43,834 Kerri's not here? That's why you -- 190 00:07:43,834 --> 00:07:46,701 She texted me and said that she had to go to Atlanta for -- 191 00:07:46,868 --> 00:07:48,067 I forgot what it was for. 192 00:07:48,234 --> 00:07:50,100 OK, so like I said, you stay out of 193 00:07:50,267 --> 00:07:53,000 people's business. 'Cause people make up. 194 00:07:53,167 --> 00:07:54,367 We told you, it's bigger than us. 195 00:07:54,534 --> 00:07:55,767 -Yeah. -It's bigger than me -- 196 00:07:55,934 --> 00:07:57,968 it's bigger then what me and Latrice had going on. 197 00:07:58,133 --> 00:08:00,267 It's for the Collective. We're gonna do something. 198 00:08:00,434 --> 00:08:02,300 We can't -- we'll tell you guys later the details. 199 00:08:02,467 --> 00:08:04,100 Me and Latrice gonna put something together. 200 00:08:04,267 --> 00:08:06,868 But at the end of the day, we have to bring this back 201 00:08:07,033 --> 00:08:08,234 and remember why we started. 202 00:08:08,234 --> 00:08:11,667 So it's a really a real life-reset, and we're burying 203 00:08:11,834 --> 00:08:14,367 our differences, so dress like it's a funeral. 204 00:08:16,667 --> 00:08:17,968 What? 205 00:08:18,133 --> 00:08:21,267 I done been to enough funerals in my life, and I am not trying 206 00:08:21,434 --> 00:08:24,267 to go to another one here in the Collective. 207 00:08:24,434 --> 00:08:26,000 Who are we burying? 208 00:08:26,167 --> 00:08:28,701 I damn sure hope they not trying to bury me. 209 00:08:32,901 --> 00:08:34,968 -Hi! -Mmm-mmm. 210 00:08:35,133 --> 00:08:36,367 [smacking kisses] 211 00:08:36,534 --> 00:08:38,400 I have to go. I gotta get back. 212 00:08:38,567 --> 00:08:40,501 -[indistinct chatter] -Take care. 213 00:08:42,300 --> 00:08:43,367 -[sighs] -Thank you. 214 00:08:43,367 --> 00:08:45,000 -[Cliff] We appreciate y'all. -No, thank you. 215 00:08:45,167 --> 00:08:46,167 Absolutely. 216 00:08:46,334 --> 00:08:47,868 When you need us, you let us know. 217 00:08:48,033 --> 00:08:49,367 -Thank you. -Bye, baby. 218 00:08:49,534 --> 00:08:50,467 [Tambra] See y'all later. 219 00:08:50,634 --> 00:08:52,567 -I love y'all. -[Cliff] Y'all be safe. 220 00:08:52,734 --> 00:08:54,601 [Lateshia] Man, I haven't been in here in so long. 221 00:08:54,767 --> 00:08:56,701 I -- I know. How long has it been? 222 00:08:56,868 --> 00:09:00,167 -I mean, this was me and Glen's spot honey. -[squeals] 223 00:09:00,334 --> 00:09:02,400 We ain't been out nowhere together since then. 224 00:09:02,567 --> 00:09:05,100 -Oh, I mean. -Yes -- well, welcome back. 225 00:09:05,267 --> 00:09:07,601 -Welcome back. -Girl, I said, "Whoo." 226 00:09:08,767 --> 00:09:10,200 [Latrice] I'm glad you came today. 227 00:09:10,367 --> 00:09:11,467 [Lateshia] Thank you for inviting me. 228 00:09:11,634 --> 00:09:12,868 -I appreciate it. -What's up? 229 00:09:13,033 --> 00:09:14,000 -Hey! -Hey! 230 00:09:14,167 --> 00:09:16,100 Hey, how you doing? 231 00:09:16,267 --> 00:09:17,701 -Hey, hey, hey. -I'm good. 232 00:09:17,868 --> 00:09:22,567 -Hi, Glendale. -How you Trice -- feels weird, but... 233 00:09:22,734 --> 00:09:24,100 -What up, what up? -What's up, man? 234 00:09:24,267 --> 00:09:25,200 -You all right? -Yeah, I'm good, baby. 235 00:09:25,367 --> 00:09:26,901 [Glen] All right. 236 00:09:27,067 --> 00:09:28,100 Sorry, I'm late. 237 00:09:31,467 --> 00:09:32,467 Here we are. 238 00:09:35,968 --> 00:09:37,868 [Kerri] Coming up on "Belle Collective." 239 00:09:38,033 --> 00:09:42,000 I want to know what's going on between you and Cedric? 240 00:09:42,167 --> 00:09:45,367 -I'm not going back this time. -Are you for real? 241 00:09:45,534 --> 00:09:49,000 You did that last time. You went right on back. 242 00:09:49,167 --> 00:09:50,567 Why are you stuck, Teshia? 243 00:09:50,734 --> 00:09:52,167 It's no -- there's no need for you to be stuck. 244 00:09:52,334 --> 00:09:53,567 [Lateshia] Because I'm not thinking about you. 245 00:09:53,567 --> 00:09:55,501 -Because you shouldn't have came. -[Glen] It's not me. 246 00:09:55,667 --> 00:09:56,968 -Oh my God. -[Lateshia] I'm like, "Oh, my God." 247 00:09:57,133 --> 00:09:58,234 You're thinking about your brand. 248 00:09:58,234 --> 00:10:00,167 I have a huge opportunity coming down -- clowns. 249 00:10:00,334 --> 00:10:01,300 I understand. 250 00:10:01,467 --> 00:10:02,400 But you see how your mind immediately went 251 00:10:02,567 --> 00:10:04,567 to what you love? 252 00:10:04,734 --> 00:10:06,367 [Kerri] I'm not a rumor person. 253 00:10:06,534 --> 00:10:08,868 But somebody had said something -- 254 00:10:09,033 --> 00:10:10,267 something about a baby and Mike. 255 00:10:13,767 --> 00:10:15,267 2 -Ah. -Here we are. 256 00:10:15,434 --> 00:10:18,000 -[Glen] Here we are. -You finally got here. 257 00:10:18,167 --> 00:10:20,000 I mean, yeah. 258 00:10:23,667 --> 00:10:26,067 I want them to talk one-on-one. 259 00:10:26,234 --> 00:10:27,901 Oh, OK. We'll just step out. 260 00:10:28,067 --> 00:10:29,767 Just like how me and Teshia talked one-on-one. 261 00:10:29,934 --> 00:10:31,000 -OK. -Yeah. 262 00:10:31,167 --> 00:10:32,100 So y'all had a conversation? 263 00:10:32,267 --> 00:10:33,901 I'm sure y'all enjoy this moment. 264 00:10:34,067 --> 00:10:35,467 Oh, well, you didn't tell him about the conversation? 265 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,801 To be honest, I'm looking forward to having 266 00:10:38,968 --> 00:10:40,868 this conversation with Glen tonight. 267 00:10:41,033 --> 00:10:44,200 I need Glen to understand that my brand is my brand, 268 00:10:44,367 --> 00:10:46,100 and my marriage is my marriage. 269 00:10:46,267 --> 00:10:48,968 But I'm also dreading it because I know how Glen can be 270 00:10:49,133 --> 00:10:50,968 when it's time to have serious conversations. 271 00:10:51,968 --> 00:10:53,868 [Glen] I've been wanting to have this conversation for a minute. 272 00:10:54,033 --> 00:10:58,367 I just didn't know how to present it because I had a lot 273 00:10:58,534 --> 00:11:00,567 of mixed emotions going on. I'm not gonna lie. 274 00:11:00,734 --> 00:11:02,200 I looked up to you, and I still do. 275 00:11:02,367 --> 00:11:05,000 The only thing I was really wanted from you was 276 00:11:05,167 --> 00:11:07,300 you to be vocal, like you always are. 277 00:11:07,467 --> 00:11:09,467 Like, you usually a very outspoken person. 278 00:11:09,634 --> 00:11:12,567 And when that situation happened with Amanda, 279 00:11:12,734 --> 00:11:15,167 you said, me and my wife 280 00:11:15,334 --> 00:11:16,767 were trying to break up your marriage. 281 00:11:16,934 --> 00:11:19,367 Do you blame Latrice and Cliff for this? 282 00:11:19,534 --> 00:11:22,200 Um, to an extent. 283 00:11:22,367 --> 00:11:23,300 Glendale. 284 00:11:23,467 --> 00:11:24,501 That hurt me, you know what I'm saying? 285 00:11:24,667 --> 00:11:26,000 -Yeah. -Yeah, we were tight. 286 00:11:26,167 --> 00:11:27,767 Like, you called me unc, I [indistinct] you nephew. 287 00:11:27,934 --> 00:11:28,968 -[Glen] All right. -But when you did that, 288 00:11:29,133 --> 00:11:30,400 it took a lot from me. 289 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,601 Like I told why she didn't want me to talk to you, period. 290 00:11:32,767 --> 00:11:34,267 I got to get some rest and sleep. 291 00:11:34,434 --> 00:11:35,367 [Glen] I get it. 292 00:11:35,367 --> 00:11:36,367 I'm not trying to cause any commotion. 293 00:11:36,534 --> 00:11:38,901 I brought you guys something to drink. 294 00:11:39,067 --> 00:11:40,467 What? That's nice. 295 00:11:40,634 --> 00:11:43,501 -Let's switch drinks. -[laughing] 296 00:11:43,667 --> 00:11:46,701 You can give it back. You can give it back. 297 00:11:46,868 --> 00:11:48,667 Y'all trying to [bleep] me. 298 00:11:48,834 --> 00:11:52,000 -Yeah. -Just want to make sure. 299 00:11:52,167 --> 00:11:54,267 You know what I mean? Never can be too careful. 300 00:11:56,167 --> 00:11:59,300 Now your husband talking about some, um, let's switch drinks. 301 00:11:59,467 --> 00:12:00,868 Like, I done poison him. 302 00:12:01,033 --> 00:12:03,367 -That's what he said? -Yes, girl I cannot with Glendale. 303 00:12:03,534 --> 00:12:05,868 So what's the energy like with them? 304 00:12:06,033 --> 00:12:09,100 -Well, they are laughing. -Oh, they laughing? 305 00:12:09,267 --> 00:12:11,167 [Latrice] I can bet you anything. 306 00:12:11,334 --> 00:12:13,701 They had two minutes of just serious conversation. 307 00:12:13,868 --> 00:12:15,033 [Lateshia] Yeah. 308 00:12:15,033 --> 00:12:17,467 [Latrice] And the rest was laughter, back to normal, 309 00:12:17,634 --> 00:12:19,300 like nothing happened. 310 00:12:19,467 --> 00:12:21,367 And you had to give him permission, like, 311 00:12:21,534 --> 00:12:24,067 to even talk to Glen? -[Latrice] Yes, I did. 312 00:12:24,234 --> 00:12:27,367 -You know, of course, that goes back to everything that went on. -[Lateshia] Yeah. 313 00:12:27,534 --> 00:12:28,701 You know, so it's like, if me and Teshia 314 00:12:28,868 --> 00:12:29,767 not talking, then... 315 00:12:29,934 --> 00:12:30,868 [Lateshia] Neither can him, OK. 316 00:12:31,033 --> 00:12:32,167 -Mm-hmm. -...you're not talking to Glen. 317 00:12:32,334 --> 00:12:33,567 -Mm-hmm. -For what? 318 00:12:33,567 --> 00:12:34,601 -What is that conversation gonna be? -Gonna be like. 319 00:12:34,767 --> 00:12:36,267 Yeah, what are y'all talking about? 320 00:12:36,434 --> 00:12:38,400 Yeah, so we can't talk about what they talking about. 321 00:12:38,567 --> 00:12:40,767 -So just don't talk. -Exactly, so, no, don't talk at all. 322 00:12:40,934 --> 00:12:43,801 -Yeah. -[laughing] 323 00:12:43,968 --> 00:12:48,501 So, I need your honest opinion, like, for real, like, 324 00:12:48,667 --> 00:12:51,100 about this meeting we're gonna have with the Collective. 325 00:12:51,267 --> 00:12:52,400 Like, what do you think? 326 00:12:53,567 --> 00:12:58,167 So, like, for me, I think trust needs to be built. 327 00:12:58,334 --> 00:12:59,400 [Lateshia] OK. 328 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,701 Because I want me and you going in with, like, 329 00:13:01,868 --> 00:13:03,067 the same page. 330 00:13:03,234 --> 00:13:06,167 This event can be beneficial to the Collective because, 331 00:13:06,334 --> 00:13:09,868 for one, it's bringing us all together to discuss 332 00:13:10,033 --> 00:13:13,167 any issues and problems that we may have with one another. 333 00:13:13,334 --> 00:13:16,100 I feel like if you put anything out on the table, 334 00:13:16,267 --> 00:13:18,367 let's put it out there and get past it. 335 00:13:18,534 --> 00:13:20,067 I'm way in Colombia. 336 00:13:20,234 --> 00:13:23,300 Two thousand miles away. I get a crazy phone call. 337 00:13:23,467 --> 00:13:24,901 -She going to hell off... -[Glen] Mm-hmm. 338 00:13:25,067 --> 00:13:27,801 ...about this [bleep] happening at that other... 339 00:13:27,968 --> 00:13:30,100 -Selena and Mike party. -[indistinct yelling] 340 00:13:30,267 --> 00:13:32,367 Shony, Shony, Shony, Shony! 341 00:13:32,534 --> 00:13:34,667 -Hey, don't walk up on my wife, bro! -[indistinct yelling] 342 00:13:34,834 --> 00:13:36,767 -We good. -I was pissed about that. 343 00:13:36,934 --> 00:13:38,067 You pissed at me? 344 00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:39,567 She said that you got all up in her face. 345 00:13:39,734 --> 00:13:40,767 I don't know if it's true or not. 346 00:13:40,934 --> 00:13:43,000 What I done, I protected my wife. 347 00:13:43,167 --> 00:13:44,100 -[indistinct yelling] -[Glen] You can't do this. 348 00:13:44,267 --> 00:13:46,467 T, you have a [bleep] brand. 349 00:13:46,634 --> 00:13:48,167 Look at me. Calm down. 350 00:13:48,334 --> 00:13:49,667 They were surrounding my wife, man. 351 00:13:49,834 --> 00:13:52,000 I'm just out there making sure that she's -- she good. 352 00:13:52,167 --> 00:13:53,300 You know what I mean? 353 00:13:53,467 --> 00:13:54,467 I understand if you gotta protect your wife. 354 00:13:54,634 --> 00:13:55,667 [Glen] Right. 355 00:13:55,834 --> 00:13:57,400 As far as me getting in Latrice's face, no. 356 00:13:57,567 --> 00:14:00,067 I never got on Latrice's face. I wouldn't do that. 357 00:14:00,234 --> 00:14:02,000 I'm not that type of guy. 358 00:14:02,167 --> 00:14:04,200 [Cliff] Me and Glen is on a better term now. 359 00:14:04,367 --> 00:14:06,167 Glen knew I was a true friend to him. 360 00:14:06,334 --> 00:14:07,667 I think he understand. 361 00:14:07,834 --> 00:14:09,167 Glen got to take responsibility for 362 00:14:09,334 --> 00:14:11,167 what Glen do and quit putting it on his friends. 363 00:14:11,334 --> 00:14:12,334 He won't have no friends. 364 00:14:12,501 --> 00:14:15,467 Lately, man, everywhere I show up, it's chaos. 365 00:14:15,634 --> 00:14:18,467 -She had a -- a photo shoot... -Mm. 366 00:14:18,634 --> 00:14:20,567 ...and I popped up supporting, right? 367 00:14:20,734 --> 00:14:23,467 And her manager got sideways with me, 368 00:14:23,634 --> 00:14:25,000 and started talking crazy. 369 00:14:25,167 --> 00:14:28,767 Me and him had words, and my wife, she didn't come 370 00:14:28,934 --> 00:14:31,567 to my defense. -Is the manager gay? 371 00:14:31,734 --> 00:14:32,667 Nah. I don't know. 372 00:14:32,834 --> 00:14:34,200 He called me sexual chocolate. 373 00:14:34,367 --> 00:14:35,868 I'm not worried about her working with him. 374 00:14:36,033 --> 00:14:39,200 You need a picture, man? You can take it with you. 375 00:14:39,367 --> 00:14:40,667 [indistinct] 376 00:14:42,567 --> 00:14:43,667 Keep playing with me. 377 00:14:45,367 --> 00:14:48,100 He did call me sexual chocolate. [bleep] was weird. 378 00:14:48,267 --> 00:14:49,267 I've never been called sexual chocolate 379 00:14:49,434 --> 00:14:50,467 in the middle of an argument. 380 00:14:50,634 --> 00:14:51,901 Why would he call you sexual chocolate? 381 00:14:51,901 --> 00:14:53,901 That's some of the weirdest [bleep] I've ever seen, Cliff. 382 00:14:54,067 --> 00:14:55,000 I don't know. 383 00:14:56,167 --> 00:14:57,701 Hell, no. My pants ain't tight. 384 00:14:59,667 --> 00:15:01,300 [laughing] 385 00:15:03,767 --> 00:15:05,667 [Lateshia] Coming up on "Belle Collective." 386 00:15:05,834 --> 00:15:10,267 I'm so sorry that I want to elevate, I'm so sorry 387 00:15:10,434 --> 00:15:12,567 that I don't bow down to your ass no more, 388 00:15:12,734 --> 00:15:16,267 I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be. 389 00:15:19,667 --> 00:15:21,501 2 ♪ I want, want, want what I want ♪ 390 00:15:21,667 --> 00:15:23,167 ♪ And it's you, you, you that I want ♪ 391 00:15:23,334 --> 00:15:25,667 ♪ I want, want, want what I want ♪ 392 00:15:25,834 --> 00:15:28,501 ♪ And it's you, you, you that I want to end up with you ♪ 393 00:15:28,667 --> 00:15:30,801 ♪ I want, want, want what I want ♪ 394 00:15:30,968 --> 00:15:33,000 ♪ And it's you, you, you that I want ♪ 395 00:15:33,167 --> 00:15:36,100 ♪ I want, want, want what I want ♪ 396 00:15:36,267 --> 00:15:39,567 ♪ And it's you, you, you that I want to end up with you ♪ 397 00:15:39,734 --> 00:15:41,801 ♪ Yeah, I want the money in the bank ♪ 398 00:15:41,968 --> 00:15:43,367 -Thank you. -You are welcome. 399 00:15:43,534 --> 00:15:44,901 Amber is my bonus daughter. 400 00:15:45,067 --> 00:15:47,968 She's been in my life since she was 11 months old. 401 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,100 -Hey. -Hi, Hope. 402 00:15:50,267 --> 00:15:52,667 -How are you? -Oh. 403 00:15:52,834 --> 00:15:54,868 -It's good to see you again. -[Hope] Good to see you. 404 00:15:55,033 --> 00:15:57,367 Amber is home for the holidays. 405 00:15:57,534 --> 00:16:00,167 She enjoys drawing and painting. 406 00:16:00,334 --> 00:16:03,501 So Hope's studio is the perfect place to spend time 407 00:16:03,667 --> 00:16:04,667 with Amber and catch up. 408 00:16:04,834 --> 00:16:06,000 All right. 409 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,367 -[Hope] Y'all ready to get started? -Yes, ma'am. 410 00:16:08,534 --> 00:16:11,267 Amber is a huge part of my life. 411 00:16:11,434 --> 00:16:13,567 When Cedric and I split up, she continued to 412 00:16:13,734 --> 00:16:16,267 come and visit. Talk to her often. 413 00:16:16,434 --> 00:16:21,367 -So nothing changed. -So how's everything been? 414 00:16:21,534 --> 00:16:23,400 So where do I start? 415 00:16:23,567 --> 00:16:26,067 I want to know what's going on between 416 00:16:26,234 --> 00:16:29,567 you and Cedric, Mr. Cedric. -Your father? 417 00:16:29,734 --> 00:16:32,300 -[Amber] Not -- my father. -[Marie] I'm not talking to him. 418 00:16:32,467 --> 00:16:35,100 I'm not dealing with him. I feel betrayed. 419 00:16:35,267 --> 00:16:38,567 -Like, I didn't see it coming. -I did. 420 00:16:38,734 --> 00:16:40,868 -You did? -Man, I thought it, man. 421 00:16:41,033 --> 00:16:43,968 Look, it's a pattern with you and my dad. 422 00:16:44,133 --> 00:16:46,467 He'll lure you in some type of way. 423 00:16:46,634 --> 00:16:49,300 He'll get you back. And then y'all be back. 424 00:16:49,467 --> 00:16:52,000 Y'all be together for a little cool minute -- you've got love. 425 00:16:52,167 --> 00:16:54,801 I think my dad is a good father. 426 00:16:54,968 --> 00:16:58,000 But I feel like y'all just better apart. 427 00:16:58,167 --> 00:17:00,067 -Y'all need to be separated. -That's true. 428 00:17:01,100 --> 00:17:05,901 I am not surprised, because when I left Cedric before, 429 00:17:06,901 --> 00:17:08,868 Amber inspired me to do so. 430 00:17:09,033 --> 00:17:12,167 She was like, "Mama Marie, like, you gotta leave my dad. 431 00:17:12,334 --> 00:17:13,767 Like, you deserve so much better." 432 00:17:13,934 --> 00:17:16,400 So I've heard those words before -- she's right. 433 00:17:16,567 --> 00:17:19,000 We are better off apart. 434 00:17:19,167 --> 00:17:23,300 He's not capable of loving me the way that I deserve. 435 00:17:23,467 --> 00:17:26,667 -Why do you keep going back? -Because it's familiar. 436 00:17:26,834 --> 00:17:30,100 I keep going back to what's familiar. 437 00:17:30,267 --> 00:17:33,767 So I'm, you know, I'm -- I'm not going back this time. 438 00:17:35,767 --> 00:17:37,000 Are you for real? 439 00:17:37,167 --> 00:17:40,300 Because you said that last time. 440 00:17:40,467 --> 00:17:43,267 You said that last time. You went right on back. 441 00:17:43,434 --> 00:17:46,667 I know, Amber, I know. But I mean it this time. 442 00:17:46,834 --> 00:17:49,000 I am not getting back with your father. 443 00:17:49,167 --> 00:17:52,501 She's a straight shooter. You know, she don't sugarcoat. 444 00:17:52,667 --> 00:17:55,501 So are you thinking about dating somebody else? 445 00:17:55,667 --> 00:17:58,367 I'm outside. I'm ready for the next catch. 446 00:17:58,534 --> 00:17:59,734 I'm ready for my person. 447 00:17:59,901 --> 00:18:02,100 -You ready for the next catch? -I'm ready for my person. 448 00:18:02,267 --> 00:18:04,901 Look, in this season of my life, I'm not putting my life on hold. 449 00:18:05,067 --> 00:18:06,100 [Amber] Right. 450 00:18:06,267 --> 00:18:08,467 I'm living my life unapologetically. 451 00:18:08,634 --> 00:18:11,400 So are you talking to somebody right now? 452 00:18:11,567 --> 00:18:13,901 Not yet. But I am on the dating apps. 453 00:18:16,067 --> 00:18:18,300 On a dating app, you getting the leftovers. 454 00:18:18,467 --> 00:18:19,601 You getting men -- 455 00:18:19,767 --> 00:18:21,067 Yeah, you getting the leftovers. 456 00:18:21,234 --> 00:18:23,968 You getting the men that don't want to go outside 457 00:18:24,133 --> 00:18:25,901 and meet a quality woman. 458 00:18:26,067 --> 00:18:28,267 Go to the country club, go golfing, 459 00:18:28,434 --> 00:18:30,000 go to charity events. 460 00:18:30,167 --> 00:18:31,801 Like, that's where the high-quality men are, baby. 461 00:18:31,968 --> 00:18:34,100 If you on a dating app, you just gonna meet a man 462 00:18:34,267 --> 00:18:36,367 that's playing his video games and eating chips all day. 463 00:18:37,901 --> 00:18:39,667 -I didn't look at it like that. -[Amber] Mm-hmm. 464 00:18:39,834 --> 00:18:40,901 -So I'm getting people left over? -That's the leftovers. 465 00:18:41,067 --> 00:18:42,100 That's what's left. 466 00:18:43,868 --> 00:18:46,300 Amber, you know what? You're right. 467 00:18:46,467 --> 00:18:51,100 Most men on there just got a divorce, or they could 468 00:18:51,267 --> 00:18:53,501 potentially still be married. Hell, I don't know. 469 00:18:53,667 --> 00:18:55,100 I need to come off the dating app. 470 00:18:55,267 --> 00:18:57,267 Off of it. Throw that stuff away. 471 00:18:57,434 --> 00:19:00,167 Go to the country club in Madison. 472 00:19:00,334 --> 00:19:02,801 If you put on that red lipstick and put on that little bodysuit 473 00:19:02,968 --> 00:19:04,968 or your little dress, oh, you gonna meet you a man. 474 00:19:05,133 --> 00:19:08,100 -I promise you that. -My baby done school me. 475 00:19:08,267 --> 00:19:09,200 Mm-hmm. 476 00:19:10,367 --> 00:19:12,267 ♪ Hey, yeah, yeah ♪ 477 00:19:12,434 --> 00:19:13,901 ♪ I'm stunting on 'em, aye ♪ 478 00:19:14,067 --> 00:19:15,200 ♪ I got money ♪ 479 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,601 ♪ I've been balling since the second grade ♪ 480 00:19:16,767 --> 00:19:17,767 ♪ I've always been a boss ♪ 481 00:19:17,934 --> 00:19:19,501 ♪ Throwing money like grenades ♪ 482 00:19:19,667 --> 00:19:21,467 ♪ Never needed a man to hold me down, bro ♪ 483 00:19:21,634 --> 00:19:22,968 ♪ Self-made ♪ 484 00:19:23,133 --> 00:19:25,901 Party for two, please. Can we have the patio? 485 00:19:26,968 --> 00:19:29,267 I'm meeting Glen at Zea Restaurant, 486 00:19:29,434 --> 00:19:32,868 and even though we were at Taste together 487 00:19:33,033 --> 00:19:36,167 at the community event, we did not drive together. 488 00:19:36,334 --> 00:19:38,567 I'm super happy that him and Cliff had their, you know, 489 00:19:38,734 --> 00:19:40,267 their little, private conversation, 490 00:19:40,434 --> 00:19:42,868 but we still have things to talk about 491 00:19:43,033 --> 00:19:45,667 and everything that transpired at my photo shoot. 492 00:19:45,834 --> 00:19:48,267 ♪ You gon' tell me that you love me ♪ 493 00:19:48,434 --> 00:19:50,167 ♪ Turn around and stick a knife in me ♪ 494 00:19:55,501 --> 00:19:56,567 -Thank you. -[host] Enjoy. 495 00:19:56,734 --> 00:19:58,167 -Hi. -Hey. 496 00:19:58,334 --> 00:19:59,367 How are you? 497 00:20:00,767 --> 00:20:03,167 I'm happy that I'm having dinner with my wife. 498 00:20:03,334 --> 00:20:04,667 But at the same time, I'm kind of dreading 499 00:20:04,834 --> 00:20:07,467 what she's gonna say, especially after what happened 500 00:20:07,634 --> 00:20:09,200 with her manager and I. 501 00:20:09,367 --> 00:20:11,868 So let's just see where this goes. 502 00:20:12,033 --> 00:20:13,200 I'm hoping for the best. 503 00:20:13,367 --> 00:20:14,767 How you week been? 504 00:20:14,934 --> 00:20:16,901 It's been -- it's been interesting. 505 00:20:17,067 --> 00:20:19,667 Of course, coming off of the photo shoot. 506 00:20:19,834 --> 00:20:21,167 You need to go take a [bleep] seat. 507 00:20:21,334 --> 00:20:22,367 Take the finger out ya hand. 508 00:20:22,534 --> 00:20:25,167 -[indistinct yelling] -Come on. 509 00:20:25,334 --> 00:20:26,267 Sit your bitch ass down some. 510 00:20:27,467 --> 00:20:29,567 Like, that was a whole lot. And... 511 00:20:29,734 --> 00:20:31,601 You need to learn how to control your people. 512 00:20:31,767 --> 00:20:32,901 I need to learn? 513 00:20:33,067 --> 00:20:35,667 No, what I'm saying, speaking of that... 514 00:20:35,834 --> 00:20:37,968 You need to fire him immediately. 515 00:20:38,133 --> 00:20:40,901 Now you see why I said that it's important 516 00:20:41,067 --> 00:20:43,667 to keep stuff separate. I will say this. 517 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,467 First was absolutely wrong. 518 00:20:47,634 --> 00:20:50,467 Like that -- like, wrong for antagonizing you. 519 00:20:50,634 --> 00:20:53,667 So I decided he gonna have to take a leave of absence. 520 00:20:53,834 --> 00:20:56,100 Because regardless -- no, I'm being for real. 521 00:20:56,267 --> 00:20:57,234 A leave of absence. 522 00:20:59,167 --> 00:21:00,667 First been on a leave of absence, to me, 523 00:21:00,834 --> 00:21:02,667 is a paid vacation because he's a manager. 524 00:21:02,834 --> 00:21:05,467 He still get a percent and he ain't even working for it. 525 00:21:05,634 --> 00:21:07,167 So he should be fired. 526 00:21:07,334 --> 00:21:09,067 If anybody disrespected my wife like that, 527 00:21:09,234 --> 00:21:10,400 they would have been fired immediately. 528 00:21:11,567 --> 00:21:14,200 It seemed like everybody in your camp want to label me 529 00:21:14,367 --> 00:21:15,300 the bad guy so bad. 530 00:21:15,467 --> 00:21:17,467 They want me to be so [bleep] wrong. 531 00:21:17,634 --> 00:21:19,501 Even Shante. 532 00:21:19,667 --> 00:21:22,701 When I'm not the one that initiated anything, 533 00:21:22,868 --> 00:21:25,000 nobody had my back. -And I know that. 534 00:21:25,167 --> 00:21:27,601 Nobody defends Glen and everybody wonder why 535 00:21:27,767 --> 00:21:28,734 I'm on the defense. 536 00:21:28,734 --> 00:21:30,701 I'm not looking for you to have my back, 537 00:21:30,868 --> 00:21:33,167 but a damn sure would have been nice for somebody to say, 538 00:21:33,334 --> 00:21:34,868 "Damn, First, you wrong for that, bro." 539 00:21:35,033 --> 00:21:37,467 -And I said that. -You should have put Shante in her [bleep] place. 540 00:21:37,634 --> 00:21:38,567 Glen, I'm stuck. 541 00:21:38,734 --> 00:21:39,767 You should have put First in -- 542 00:21:39,934 --> 00:21:41,000 Why are you stuck, Teshia? 543 00:21:41,167 --> 00:21:42,400 There's no need for you to be stuck. 544 00:21:42,567 --> 00:21:43,868 [Lateshia] Because I'm not thinking about you. 545 00:21:44,033 --> 00:21:45,167 I'm not thinking about Shante. I'm thinking about First. 546 00:21:45,334 --> 00:21:46,200 [Glen] You're thinking about your business. 547 00:21:46,367 --> 00:21:47,267 [Lateshia] I'm like, "Oh my god." 548 00:21:47,434 --> 00:21:48,501 You're thinking about your brand. 549 00:21:48,501 --> 00:21:51,267 I have a huge -- a huge opportunity coming down 550 00:21:51,434 --> 00:21:53,100 with a big brand manager. -[Glen] I understand. 551 00:21:53,267 --> 00:21:55,000 And I'm like, oh Lord, I don't want people to think that 552 00:21:55,167 --> 00:21:58,000 I'm not able -- I can't, because I got these damn clowns. -Right. 553 00:21:58,167 --> 00:22:01,400 But you see how your mind immediately went to what you love? 554 00:22:01,567 --> 00:22:03,968 -Because you shouldn't have came. -It's not me. 555 00:22:04,133 --> 00:22:06,300 -Oh my God! -You shouldn't have came without talking to me. 556 00:22:06,467 --> 00:22:07,767 Your manager shouldn't have said [bleep] to me. 557 00:22:07,934 --> 00:22:09,467 He shouldn't have. He shouldn't have. 558 00:22:09,634 --> 00:22:11,968 That's why I don't put you in positions like that. 559 00:22:12,133 --> 00:22:13,701 -But you still want to pop up. -[Glen] All right, man. 560 00:22:13,868 --> 00:22:15,400 -[Lateshia] He shouldn't have said anything to you. -OK. 561 00:22:15,567 --> 00:22:17,000 Like, ain't nobody gonna disrespect you. 562 00:22:17,167 --> 00:22:19,534 If that's the case, First would still be here with me. 563 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000 You put that man on a paid vacation. 564 00:22:24,167 --> 00:22:25,167 -That's not having my back. -Stop saying that. 565 00:22:25,334 --> 00:22:26,701 You see how condescending you are? 566 00:22:26,868 --> 00:22:28,267 That's why I can't have no conversation with you. 567 00:22:28,434 --> 00:22:30,100 -[Glen] Right. That's what I'm the bad guy. -You wanna be the -- 568 00:22:30,267 --> 00:22:31,300 Glen, you were rough -- 569 00:22:31,467 --> 00:22:34,501 Glen, I'm so sorry that I didn't make my moment 570 00:22:34,667 --> 00:22:36,267 about your asses. 571 00:22:36,434 --> 00:22:39,467 I'm so sorry that I want to elevate. 572 00:22:39,634 --> 00:22:43,100 I'm so sorry that I don't bow down to your ass no more. 573 00:22:43,267 --> 00:22:46,801 I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be. 574 00:22:46,968 --> 00:22:50,067 I'm sorry. Here are your flowers. 575 00:22:50,234 --> 00:22:51,367 Here's -- here's your -- what you want? 576 00:22:51,534 --> 00:22:52,667 Some green beans? 577 00:22:52,834 --> 00:22:54,968 You want the rest of my rotisserie? 578 00:22:55,133 --> 00:22:56,868 I don't know what else you want from me. 579 00:22:57,033 --> 00:23:00,167 All I ask you to do is be my husband. 580 00:23:00,334 --> 00:23:02,267 [Selena] Coming up on "Belle Collective.' 581 00:23:02,434 --> 00:23:05,367 Every time I open up my heart to you, what, the same person 582 00:23:05,534 --> 00:23:07,167 that I'm out here trying to please is the same person 583 00:23:07,334 --> 00:23:08,801 that's out here hurting me constantly. 584 00:23:08,968 --> 00:23:11,667 You want to have your hand in it so that you can control me 585 00:23:11,834 --> 00:23:14,367 and keep me under that thumb that you've always had me under. 586 00:23:18,567 --> 00:23:21,801 2 I'm so sorry for wanting to become what God wants me to be. 587 00:23:21,968 --> 00:23:23,100 I'm sorry. 588 00:23:23,267 --> 00:23:24,367 Here are your flowers, 589 00:23:24,534 --> 00:23:26,400 here's -- here's your -- what you want? 590 00:23:26,567 --> 00:23:27,767 Some green beans? 591 00:23:27,934 --> 00:23:30,467 You want the rest of my rotisserie? 592 00:23:30,634 --> 00:23:32,067 I don't know what else you want from me. 593 00:23:32,234 --> 00:23:34,968 Only thing I'm asking you to do is be my husband! 594 00:23:35,133 --> 00:23:36,701 You see what I'm saying? 595 00:23:36,868 --> 00:23:39,667 I'm so stunned to hear Teshia talk this way. 596 00:23:39,834 --> 00:23:41,667 I've never seen her push back like this 597 00:23:41,834 --> 00:23:42,968 in our whole marriage. 598 00:23:43,133 --> 00:23:45,767 Not like this, not to this -- this degree. 599 00:23:45,934 --> 00:23:47,501 Every time I open up my heart to you, 600 00:23:47,667 --> 00:23:50,100 every time I put everything that I want to do second, 601 00:23:50,267 --> 00:23:52,467 third, fourth, fifth, what, the same person 602 00:23:52,634 --> 00:23:53,868 that I'm out here trying to please 603 00:23:54,033 --> 00:23:56,467 is the same person that's out here hurting me constantly. 604 00:23:56,634 --> 00:23:58,367 Something should click in your damn head. 605 00:23:58,534 --> 00:24:00,767 This girl should have been divorce me three, four, 606 00:24:00,934 --> 00:24:02,267 five, six, seven, eight times. 607 00:24:02,267 --> 00:24:04,701 This girl should have been left my ass, but she's still here. 608 00:24:04,868 --> 00:24:07,400 If the only thing she's asking me right now is to respect her, 609 00:24:07,567 --> 00:24:09,000 the only thing she's asking me is, like, this girl 610 00:24:09,167 --> 00:24:10,567 growing her brand. 611 00:24:10,734 --> 00:24:12,300 You don't want to have your hand in it because you want 612 00:24:12,467 --> 00:24:13,567 to help me and be an asset. 613 00:24:13,567 --> 00:24:15,567 You want to have your hand in it so that you can 614 00:24:15,734 --> 00:24:17,868 control me and keep me under that thumb 615 00:24:18,033 --> 00:24:20,100 that you always had me under. 616 00:24:20,267 --> 00:24:21,868 I am super proud of myself. 617 00:24:22,033 --> 00:24:23,400 For the first time, 618 00:24:23,567 --> 00:24:25,767 I am really setting these boundaries. 619 00:24:25,934 --> 00:24:29,300 I am done being the woman, the wife who just rolls over 620 00:24:29,467 --> 00:24:32,267 for her husband and do whatever he wants. 621 00:24:32,434 --> 00:24:33,501 That has expired. 622 00:24:33,667 --> 00:24:35,667 You got to respect my boundaries right now. 623 00:24:35,834 --> 00:24:38,767 I'm not that girl anymore. Period. 624 00:24:38,934 --> 00:24:40,167 She is gone. 625 00:24:40,334 --> 00:24:42,868 I never want to see her again in my life. 626 00:24:43,033 --> 00:24:44,367 I miss her dearly. 627 00:24:44,367 --> 00:24:46,267 [Lateshia] I know you do, because that was comfort for you. 628 00:24:46,434 --> 00:24:47,667 -It wasn't comfort. -[Lateshia] But it was misery for me. 629 00:24:47,834 --> 00:24:49,267 It wasn't comfort. It was love. 630 00:24:49,434 --> 00:24:51,567 Only thing I need you for, I don't need you to protect me 631 00:24:51,734 --> 00:24:53,601 from my brand. I need you to protect my heart. 632 00:24:55,868 --> 00:24:57,300 I feel like Teshia and I, 633 00:24:57,467 --> 00:25:00,100 we're not on the same page anymore. 634 00:25:00,267 --> 00:25:02,167 Hell, we ain't in the same book. 635 00:25:02,334 --> 00:25:06,367 I know I could be headstrong, and I got to figure it out. 636 00:25:06,534 --> 00:25:10,267 I got to come to realize that maybe that person gone, 637 00:25:10,434 --> 00:25:12,000 and it's time for me to focus more on me. 638 00:25:13,467 --> 00:25:14,868 I've held my family together for... 639 00:25:16,267 --> 00:25:20,100 what, 25 years, 30 years? I don't see a [bleep] problem. 640 00:25:20,267 --> 00:25:24,701 I am planning my future, and Glen, I would love for him 641 00:25:24,868 --> 00:25:26,100 to get on board with me, 642 00:25:26,267 --> 00:25:29,667 but if you're not going to be supportive... 643 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,567 you may just have to get left behind. 644 00:25:34,734 --> 00:25:36,868 Just let me shoot my shot for myself one time. 645 00:25:37,033 --> 00:25:38,667 Shoot your shot, child. 646 00:25:38,834 --> 00:25:40,467 Shoot that mother[bleep] to the moon. 647 00:25:44,767 --> 00:25:47,067 ♪ I've been doing this a long time ♪ 648 00:25:47,234 --> 00:25:49,100 ♪ I've been in it for a long ride ♪ 649 00:25:49,267 --> 00:25:51,667 ♪ No time to be second-guessing myself when I know ♪ 650 00:25:51,834 --> 00:25:53,467 ♪ That I did that all by myself ♪ 651 00:25:53,634 --> 00:25:55,167 ♪ Think I'll take a little vacation ♪ 652 00:25:55,334 --> 00:25:58,300 Today, I'm at Mike's house. I have my own home... 653 00:25:59,367 --> 00:26:00,634 and Mike has his. 654 00:26:01,868 --> 00:26:05,801 But Mike is always in my house. I rarely ever come here. 655 00:26:05,968 --> 00:26:08,267 And so I just want to surprise Mike, just straighten up 656 00:26:08,434 --> 00:26:09,467 a little bit around here. 657 00:26:10,467 --> 00:26:11,601 ♪ Go ♪ 658 00:26:13,567 --> 00:26:14,567 ♪ Go ♪ 659 00:26:14,734 --> 00:26:15,601 ♪ Bitch, shot a top dog ♪ 660 00:26:15,767 --> 00:26:16,701 ♪ I'm a go getter ♪ 661 00:26:16,868 --> 00:26:18,100 ♪ Beat the odds one-one ♪ 662 00:26:18,267 --> 00:26:19,501 ♪ Now I'm something bigger ♪ 663 00:26:19,667 --> 00:26:21,868 ♪ I'mma do what I want and I ain't backstabbing ♪ 664 00:26:22,033 --> 00:26:23,100 [automated voice] Front door. 665 00:26:23,267 --> 00:26:24,267 Did I hear a front door? 666 00:26:24,434 --> 00:26:25,534 Oh, you way back here? 667 00:26:25,534 --> 00:26:27,067 -What you doing back here? -Folding your clothes. 668 00:26:27,234 --> 00:26:30,167 [Mike] Oh, I see what you doing. Boy, I'm so glad you did this. 669 00:26:30,334 --> 00:26:32,467 Hey, honey. 670 00:26:32,634 --> 00:26:35,300 Meeting up with Marie, she's talking about make sure 671 00:26:35,467 --> 00:26:40,267 Mike do not keep that home as a bachelor pad. 672 00:26:40,434 --> 00:26:42,868 His bachelor pad, his house, y'all gonna move in together, 673 00:26:43,033 --> 00:26:44,033 he gonna get rid of that. 674 00:26:44,033 --> 00:26:45,601 That's not good for him to keep his space. 675 00:26:47,100 --> 00:26:50,667 Mike and I, we've been talking about moving in together in 676 00:26:50,834 --> 00:26:54,501 a new home together, but Mike is trying to back track. 677 00:26:54,667 --> 00:26:56,701 And he wants me to move into his house. 678 00:26:56,868 --> 00:26:59,067 Cheers to being home. 679 00:26:59,234 --> 00:27:01,167 I don't want to move into his house. 680 00:27:01,334 --> 00:27:05,701 I want us to have something new and fresh, um, of our own. 681 00:27:05,868 --> 00:27:11,367 I don't think that I could live here and feel like I'm at home. 682 00:27:12,367 --> 00:27:14,467 I don't want it to be my forever home. 683 00:27:14,634 --> 00:27:17,400 I want our forever home to be ours. 684 00:27:17,567 --> 00:27:18,968 [Mike] Tell me what the deal is. 685 00:27:19,133 --> 00:27:20,367 [Selena] You... 686 00:27:20,534 --> 00:27:21,634 your ex was here. 687 00:27:24,100 --> 00:27:27,701 This home holds so many memories of you two. 688 00:27:27,868 --> 00:27:29,501 -Because we got -- I got the picture. -[Selena] You got the picture. 689 00:27:29,667 --> 00:27:31,767 -Yeah. -[Selena] So we on the same page? 690 00:27:31,934 --> 00:27:33,701 No, you need to start seeing eye-to-eye with me, 691 00:27:33,868 --> 00:27:35,567 because all this stuff you ain't telling me. -Oh, I be telling you. 692 00:27:35,734 --> 00:27:38,100 You ain't telling me about this house thing. 693 00:27:38,267 --> 00:27:40,100 Mike and our communication is a lot better, 694 00:27:40,267 --> 00:27:42,100 but it's still not where it needs to be. 695 00:27:42,267 --> 00:27:45,100 Because he is clearly not hearing me. 696 00:27:45,267 --> 00:27:46,868 Do I need to say it another way? 697 00:27:47,033 --> 00:27:49,701 Like, Michael, open your ears, baby. 698 00:27:49,868 --> 00:27:50,968 Still want to get married? 699 00:27:51,133 --> 00:27:53,000 What they got to do with what we talking about? 700 00:27:53,167 --> 00:27:54,701 [Selena] I'm just asking questions. I just wanted to make sure. 701 00:28:00,100 --> 00:28:02,200 [Latrice] Coming up on "Belle Collective." 702 00:28:02,367 --> 00:28:04,167 [Tambra] Like you said, "The Collective." 703 00:28:04,334 --> 00:28:06,701 Look, I believe it's about the book as well. 704 00:28:06,868 --> 00:28:08,767 And the chapters are always gonna be different. 705 00:28:08,934 --> 00:28:10,100 [Lateshia] It is about the book. 706 00:28:10,267 --> 00:28:13,000 Your book, to me, has always been the same. 707 00:28:13,167 --> 00:28:15,567 If I have to fight through my hurt 708 00:28:15,734 --> 00:28:17,467 and I still have to show up, 709 00:28:17,634 --> 00:28:19,501 what makes y'all any different? 710 00:28:24,300 --> 00:28:30,701 2 ["Ave Maria" by Franz Schubert playing] 711 00:28:51,167 --> 00:28:52,567 ♪ Oh, yeah ♪ 712 00:28:52,734 --> 00:28:54,701 ♪ I'm a winner and you know that ♪ 713 00:28:54,868 --> 00:28:58,734 ♪ May have lost in the past, they ain't going back ♪ 714 00:29:01,267 --> 00:29:02,968 Teshia's gonna get a benediction. 715 00:29:03,133 --> 00:29:04,701 -OK, so who we bet -- -Oh? 716 00:29:04,868 --> 00:29:07,300 -Lord have mercy. -Hey, girl. 717 00:29:07,467 --> 00:29:10,467 She came for the after party of the memorial. 718 00:29:10,634 --> 00:29:12,467 -[indistinct chatter] -This the after party. 719 00:29:13,467 --> 00:29:16,601 Today is the day of the funeral that I am 720 00:29:16,767 --> 00:29:18,567 co-hosting with Latrice. 721 00:29:18,734 --> 00:29:22,267 And today is all about getting the Belles together, 722 00:29:22,434 --> 00:29:25,367 burying the old, and rebirthing 723 00:29:25,534 --> 00:29:26,601 a new collective. 724 00:29:26,767 --> 00:29:29,701 But Kerri, are you trying to entice the pastor? 725 00:29:29,868 --> 00:29:32,667 Like, you want to get the offering. 726 00:29:32,834 --> 00:29:34,067 [Latrice] Kerri, we gonna have to put you 727 00:29:34,234 --> 00:29:36,667 in the background, girl. The pastor cannot see you. 728 00:29:36,834 --> 00:29:38,968 She needs a little cloth over her. 729 00:29:39,133 --> 00:29:40,367 [laughing] 730 00:29:40,534 --> 00:29:42,467 Look, I'm trying to match y'all's vibe. 731 00:29:42,634 --> 00:29:45,300 I'm trying to match y'all's sexy vibes. 732 00:29:45,467 --> 00:29:48,667 Lateshia and Latrice asked us to show up for a funeral, 733 00:29:48,834 --> 00:29:50,467 and Kerri came in here showing up 734 00:29:50,634 --> 00:29:52,100 like she's going to the club. 735 00:29:52,267 --> 00:29:54,200 I guess Kerri said, "Y'all ain't gonna bury me. 736 00:29:54,367 --> 00:29:55,901 I'm coming to party." 737 00:29:56,067 --> 00:29:59,901 So we just want to first say thank you ladies for coming. 738 00:30:00,067 --> 00:30:01,300 This look amazing. 739 00:30:01,300 --> 00:30:05,767 And we want to lead in love, good energy, good vibes, OK? 740 00:30:05,934 --> 00:30:08,901 We're just here having an adult conversation. 741 00:30:09,067 --> 00:30:10,868 -A real conversation. -[Lateshia] A real conversation. 742 00:30:11,033 --> 00:30:13,100 That's it. So nothing else. 743 00:30:13,267 --> 00:30:14,601 And any time someone feels -- 744 00:30:14,767 --> 00:30:16,868 what we're gonna do, ring the bell. 745 00:30:17,033 --> 00:30:19,267 If you feel like, hey, going too far, 746 00:30:19,434 --> 00:30:20,501 let's just have some type of... 747 00:30:20,667 --> 00:30:23,100 -[bell ringing] -Hold on. 748 00:30:23,267 --> 00:30:24,667 -[Lateshia] You know, we'll just ring the bell. -This my bell. 749 00:30:24,834 --> 00:30:26,067 Well, where mine at? 750 00:30:26,234 --> 00:30:29,267 And let's not over-talk each other and let's not talk 751 00:30:29,434 --> 00:30:32,567 for a long time. -Short and sweet. 752 00:30:32,734 --> 00:30:35,968 Yeah, short and sweet. Tambra, you have a hard item. 753 00:30:36,133 --> 00:30:37,801 -How many minutes? -Girl... 754 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,200 I have to leave early. 755 00:30:43,367 --> 00:30:47,567 This is my baby's very first program ever 756 00:30:47,734 --> 00:30:50,100 and I have to be there. 757 00:30:50,267 --> 00:30:53,868 The Belles are just going to have to understand. 758 00:30:54,033 --> 00:30:55,033 Here it is, the obituary -- 759 00:30:55,033 --> 00:30:56,601 The Belle Collective was born from vision, 760 00:30:56,767 --> 00:30:58,667 sisterhood, and ambition. 761 00:30:58,834 --> 00:31:01,501 A platform created to spotlight women building businesses, 762 00:31:01,667 --> 00:31:04,300 breaking barriers, and becoming their highest selves. 763 00:31:04,467 --> 00:31:09,467 Over time, misalignment, mistrust, and silence crept in. 764 00:31:09,634 --> 00:31:12,801 Transparency faded, and stories went untold. 765 00:31:12,968 --> 00:31:15,667 All I have to think about is what the [bleep] she did to me. 766 00:31:15,834 --> 00:31:17,267 I ain't forgot that [bleep]. 767 00:31:17,434 --> 00:31:20,701 Today, we lay to rest the old ways of performative 768 00:31:20,868 --> 00:31:24,167 participation and caring what no longer serves The Collective. 769 00:31:24,334 --> 00:31:28,868 A renewed Belle Collective rooted in trust, truth, 770 00:31:29,033 --> 00:31:31,167 accountability, and purpose. 771 00:31:31,334 --> 00:31:34,767 May the Belle Collective be reborn stronger, 772 00:31:34,934 --> 00:31:36,501 clearer, and united. 773 00:31:36,667 --> 00:31:39,400 I'm confident in the rebirth of the Collective. 774 00:31:39,567 --> 00:31:41,567 And in order for it to work, 775 00:31:41,734 --> 00:31:44,267 everybody will have to be committed. 776 00:31:44,434 --> 00:31:47,767 Basically, today is for the rebuild, and how can 777 00:31:47,934 --> 00:31:49,968 we move forward, and how can we start over. 778 00:31:50,133 --> 00:31:51,567 We'll start with you, Tambra. 779 00:31:51,734 --> 00:31:53,667 [Tambra] When we started out, it was a good time. 780 00:31:53,834 --> 00:31:56,767 Right now, we're the hood. There's no sister in it. 781 00:31:56,934 --> 00:31:59,100 That's just the truth. That's why we're here, right? 782 00:31:59,267 --> 00:32:01,467 Because one thing all of us have in common, 783 00:32:01,634 --> 00:32:05,868 you've heard me say that I feel like it wasn't a safe space. 784 00:32:06,033 --> 00:32:08,200 I've heard you say it. I've heard Latrice say it. 785 00:32:08,367 --> 00:32:09,767 I've heard Marie say it. 786 00:32:09,934 --> 00:32:12,367 So I just want to know, are you willing 787 00:32:12,534 --> 00:32:14,100 to be a little more transparent? 788 00:32:14,267 --> 00:32:17,300 -[Tambra] I do talk more all day, every day to Latrice. -Mm-hmm. 789 00:32:17,467 --> 00:32:18,667 [Tambra] I talk more to Selena. 790 00:32:18,834 --> 00:32:21,300 So I am more transparent with them 791 00:32:21,467 --> 00:32:23,000 as they have made me comfortable. 792 00:32:23,167 --> 00:32:25,267 In other words, it's a two-way street. 793 00:32:25,434 --> 00:32:30,467 When you've been hurt by other Belles, or when you feel like 794 00:32:30,634 --> 00:32:32,868 the Belles do something to you, 795 00:32:33,033 --> 00:32:35,601 it makes you protect your peace. 796 00:32:35,767 --> 00:32:40,200 Because emotionally, my peace was a priority. 797 00:32:40,367 --> 00:32:43,167 The only time that I actually shied away was when 798 00:32:43,334 --> 00:32:44,534 I was pregnant. 799 00:32:44,534 --> 00:32:46,968 I do feel like at that time, I was attacked when I was 800 00:32:47,133 --> 00:32:48,467 in a vulnerable place. 801 00:32:48,634 --> 00:32:51,467 At that time, I was fighting postpartum depression. 802 00:32:51,634 --> 00:32:53,501 I did not want it, but I wanted to make sure 803 00:32:53,667 --> 00:32:55,367 I showed up for everyone. 804 00:32:55,534 --> 00:33:02,200 After my pregnancy, I heard from Latrice all the time. 805 00:33:02,367 --> 00:33:06,100 Selena, she is another that always checked on me. 806 00:33:06,267 --> 00:33:12,801 I actually did expect more support from some 807 00:33:12,968 --> 00:33:17,567 of the Belles, especially the ones who are mothers, 808 00:33:17,734 --> 00:33:19,601 no matter what we had going on. 809 00:33:19,767 --> 00:33:22,501 I mean, you just having a baby, that's a very 810 00:33:22,667 --> 00:33:24,400 vulnerable spot to be in. -Very. 811 00:33:24,567 --> 00:33:30,100 But I guess my standpoint is, if I have to fight through my hurt 812 00:33:30,267 --> 00:33:33,601 and I still have to show up, what makes y'all any different? 813 00:33:34,968 --> 00:33:39,000 We keep having these restart, rebirth, fresh start. 814 00:33:39,167 --> 00:33:43,000 Like, Tambra wants the prestige... 815 00:33:43,167 --> 00:33:45,567 but she's not interested in really getting 816 00:33:45,734 --> 00:33:47,467 to know us beyond... 817 00:33:48,767 --> 00:33:50,367 surface-level. 818 00:33:50,534 --> 00:33:52,901 Look, I believe it's about the book as well. 819 00:33:53,067 --> 00:33:54,801 Like you said, the Collective. 820 00:33:54,968 --> 00:33:57,267 The chapters, we make up the chapters. 821 00:33:57,434 --> 00:33:59,901 And the chapters are always gonna be different. 822 00:34:00,133 --> 00:34:01,467 I like the way you put that. 823 00:34:01,634 --> 00:34:03,868 It is about the book, and I love that. 824 00:34:04,033 --> 00:34:07,100 Your book, to me, has always been the same. 825 00:34:07,267 --> 00:34:10,467 I feel bad about Tambra going through postpartum after 826 00:34:10,634 --> 00:34:14,300 her baby, but I stand firm on my opinion. 827 00:34:14,467 --> 00:34:16,601 Like, that's an example. 828 00:34:16,767 --> 00:34:18,167 How are we supposed to know that? 829 00:34:18,334 --> 00:34:19,467 So, if you want support... 830 00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:22,100 honey, you got to show up 831 00:34:22,267 --> 00:34:23,601 and tell us what's going on. 832 00:34:23,767 --> 00:34:24,801 And that's OK. 833 00:34:24,801 --> 00:34:26,467 If you wanna still be here, we gonna do it. 834 00:34:26,634 --> 00:34:27,834 Let's adapt. 835 00:34:27,834 --> 00:34:33,067 It's just crazy that they look at Tambra and feels like 836 00:34:33,234 --> 00:34:36,367 she's -- she doesn't bring a lot because she does. 837 00:34:36,534 --> 00:34:39,467 Tambra is the true definition of a Belle, 838 00:34:39,634 --> 00:34:41,567 and she has every right to be here. 839 00:34:41,734 --> 00:34:43,701 Yeah, we can have -- and that brings me to Selena. 840 00:34:43,868 --> 00:34:45,067 So, Selena, what do you think? 841 00:34:45,234 --> 00:34:47,801 Well, I understand when she said, like, she don't feel 842 00:34:47,968 --> 00:34:50,901 comfortable because it's not a safe space for her. 843 00:34:51,067 --> 00:34:52,701 And if we do what we're saying on this paper, 844 00:34:52,868 --> 00:34:56,767 then we can make it a safe space for her to share more. 845 00:34:56,934 --> 00:34:58,100 That's fair. 846 00:34:58,267 --> 00:34:59,868 So, Tambra, in this moment, 847 00:35:00,100 --> 00:35:01,701 do you still want to be a part of the Collective? 848 00:35:13,167 --> 00:35:14,801 2 [Lateshia] So, Tambra, in this moment, 849 00:35:14,968 --> 00:35:16,801 do you still want to be a part of the Collective? 850 00:35:21,100 --> 00:35:22,868 [Tambra] I believe the Collective has purpose. 851 00:35:24,267 --> 00:35:26,000 We all want to have a purpose. 852 00:35:26,167 --> 00:35:28,167 You want to be a part of something that has a purpose. 853 00:35:28,334 --> 00:35:30,901 That's in your relationships, business. 854 00:35:31,067 --> 00:35:33,467 I can relate that to Marie. She always talks business. 855 00:35:33,634 --> 00:35:35,000 Business, professional. 856 00:35:35,167 --> 00:35:38,167 Everything has to have a purpose. 857 00:35:38,334 --> 00:35:42,767 I definitely consider myself purpose-driven, for sure. 858 00:35:42,934 --> 00:35:44,167 Family is very important to me. 859 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,367 And even Lateshia, she talks about protecting her peace. 860 00:35:48,534 --> 00:35:50,200 Don't be mad when I protect mine. 861 00:35:52,667 --> 00:35:54,267 Here, y'all, I'm sorry, like, can we just rip 862 00:35:54,434 --> 00:35:55,567 the Band Aid off? 863 00:35:55,734 --> 00:35:56,868 Like, y'all asking Tambra to step away, 864 00:35:57,033 --> 00:35:58,033 because that's what it feels like to me, 865 00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,767 and I'm not trying to put you on the spot, 866 00:35:59,934 --> 00:36:01,767 but I feel like, is that what it is, 867 00:36:01,934 --> 00:36:04,167 or is that not what it is? -No, not stepping away. 868 00:36:04,334 --> 00:36:06,000 I'm asking Tambra to step up. 869 00:36:06,167 --> 00:36:08,300 I think a lot of people are afraid to share 870 00:36:08,467 --> 00:36:10,300 and be vulnerable because they are afraid that it could be 871 00:36:10,467 --> 00:36:12,467 weaponized on them later. -OK, well, this is what I'm saying, 872 00:36:12,634 --> 00:36:16,000 why the Collective started to begin with, right? 873 00:36:16,167 --> 00:36:17,601 It was a vision. 874 00:36:17,767 --> 00:36:23,300 If we can't feel safe in doing that, it's time to step away. 875 00:36:23,467 --> 00:36:24,467 Don't be selfish. 876 00:36:25,567 --> 00:36:29,100 If either one of us, if we're not comfortable 877 00:36:29,267 --> 00:36:32,467 or willing to share life experiences 878 00:36:32,634 --> 00:36:35,100 that we all can learn and grow from, 879 00:36:35,267 --> 00:36:37,467 this group is not for you. 880 00:36:37,634 --> 00:36:40,000 I really wish I could stay for this. 881 00:36:40,167 --> 00:36:44,167 -[overlapping chatter] -[Tambra] My baby has her first program. 882 00:36:44,334 --> 00:36:47,868 -They put the babies on first. -[Selena] First -- mm-hmm. 883 00:36:48,033 --> 00:36:51,400 I do not feel bad about leaving. 884 00:36:51,567 --> 00:36:53,601 London Simone comes first. 885 00:36:53,767 --> 00:36:57,467 However, if we are really moving forward, 886 00:36:57,634 --> 00:37:00,400 I'll make it up to the Belle's later. 887 00:37:01,767 --> 00:37:04,000 OK, so you guys feel like Tambra shouldn't be 888 00:37:04,167 --> 00:37:06,400 in the Collective because she's not as transparent 889 00:37:06,567 --> 00:37:09,567 as the other Belle's, correct? 890 00:37:09,734 --> 00:37:11,467 Because she's transparent with me. 891 00:37:11,634 --> 00:37:13,367 We're not talking about personal relationships. 892 00:37:13,534 --> 00:37:14,601 We're talking about the relationship 893 00:37:14,767 --> 00:37:16,801 within the Collective. 894 00:37:16,968 --> 00:37:18,167 Well, hell, let me kick you out, too, 895 00:37:18,334 --> 00:37:19,534 because I don't feel like -- 896 00:37:19,534 --> 00:37:21,667 You get your ass on it. Wait a minute, don't do that. 897 00:37:21,834 --> 00:37:22,868 Don't y'all start. 898 00:37:23,033 --> 00:37:25,067 Well, I share everything. 899 00:37:25,234 --> 00:37:27,167 Well, we still ain't heard about the breakup yet. 900 00:37:27,334 --> 00:37:28,467 -I've been waiting. -[Marie] Kerri, look... 901 00:37:28,634 --> 00:37:29,868 -It sure was. -...you listen. 902 00:37:30,033 --> 00:37:31,467 -You want to stay out of my business. -Or what? 903 00:37:31,634 --> 00:37:33,367 Like, you going to have to take baby steps -- really. 904 00:37:33,534 --> 00:37:34,868 Do you sell it or do you don't sell it. 905 00:37:35,033 --> 00:37:37,100 You know what? You really a big my fan. 906 00:37:37,267 --> 00:37:38,868 You a fan of mine. You really are. 907 00:37:39,033 --> 00:37:40,167 I'm a fan of all of y'all. I am. 908 00:37:40,334 --> 00:37:41,667 -No, no, no, no, no. -I am a fan. 909 00:37:41,834 --> 00:37:44,367 But that's OK. Since you my fan, here you go. 910 00:37:44,534 --> 00:37:45,868 I'm a -- listen. 911 00:37:46,033 --> 00:37:47,467 -Let it be known. -Dr. Marie Monroe to my biggest fan. 912 00:37:47,634 --> 00:37:49,567 I'm a fan of everybody, baby. I'm a fan girl. 913 00:37:49,734 --> 00:37:51,767 You my biggest fan. You my biggest fan, baby. 914 00:37:51,934 --> 00:37:54,300 -You my biggest fan. -I said, girl, everybody. 915 00:37:54,467 --> 00:37:55,300 -I love everybody. -Listen. 916 00:37:55,467 --> 00:37:57,467 -She my biggest fan. -Listen. 917 00:37:57,634 --> 00:37:59,767 Girl, you can go sit down somewhere trying to have 918 00:37:59,934 --> 00:38:02,167 your moment off of me, OK? 919 00:38:02,334 --> 00:38:05,167 Because you know one thing about me and you, we love to go 920 00:38:05,334 --> 00:38:07,167 back and forth and we love to spar. 921 00:38:07,334 --> 00:38:09,801 Baby, I have not done you a darn thing 922 00:38:09,968 --> 00:38:11,367 but hype you up. 923 00:38:11,534 --> 00:38:14,100 So in that regard, you're welcome. 924 00:38:14,267 --> 00:38:17,067 Kerri, what you got going on down there on the Gulf Coast? 925 00:38:17,234 --> 00:38:19,100 Oh, honey, I got a lot going on, girl. 926 00:38:19,267 --> 00:38:20,767 These three restaurants killing me. 927 00:38:20,934 --> 00:38:22,567 You know, Brittany and I think we just gonna wave 928 00:38:22,734 --> 00:38:24,100 the magic wand like we do with all other stores, 929 00:38:24,267 --> 00:38:26,767 and it's gonna be great, but it's not as great. 930 00:38:26,934 --> 00:38:28,767 You know, we're thinking about selling. 931 00:38:28,934 --> 00:38:31,501 -Yeah, just close it, yeah. -Mobile? 932 00:38:31,667 --> 00:38:33,467 But sometimes you keep it open, you're gonna lose 933 00:38:33,634 --> 00:38:35,267 even more. -That's true. 934 00:38:35,434 --> 00:38:37,567 In business, sometimes you just have to know 935 00:38:37,734 --> 00:38:39,167 when to walk away. 936 00:38:39,334 --> 00:38:42,167 And that goes hand-in-hand with success. 937 00:38:42,334 --> 00:38:44,167 But me, I'm a person that I'm like I have it -- 938 00:38:44,334 --> 00:38:46,000 You don't want to be a failure, 939 00:38:46,167 --> 00:38:49,300 and that's not what it's about, because you're not a failure. 940 00:38:49,467 --> 00:38:51,400 Every time I start thinking about my business, 941 00:38:51,567 --> 00:38:56,300 it's like a weight gets put on my shoulders, and I may just 942 00:38:56,467 --> 00:38:59,100 have to close the doors forever, but, you know, 943 00:38:59,267 --> 00:39:02,100 it's good to be in a space with like-minded women. 944 00:39:02,267 --> 00:39:03,567 Even though we have our differences, 945 00:39:03,567 --> 00:39:06,767 they care about me, and it just feels good to be in a space 946 00:39:06,934 --> 00:39:09,767 where I can feel love and support from these women. 947 00:39:09,934 --> 00:39:11,167 And let's keep it here. 948 00:39:11,167 --> 00:39:13,167 If we share, let's just be like, "Hey, this what's going 949 00:39:13,334 --> 00:39:14,701 on with me, hell, right now?" 950 00:39:14,868 --> 00:39:16,567 -Yes. -So is there anything else? 951 00:39:16,734 --> 00:39:19,100 Because we are sisters. 952 00:39:19,267 --> 00:39:21,300 I've heard some little pity mess about 953 00:39:21,467 --> 00:39:24,100 Mike and Selena's relationship. 954 00:39:24,267 --> 00:39:26,667 I would never say something to intentionally 955 00:39:26,834 --> 00:39:29,000 or unintentionally hurt Selena, because she's such 956 00:39:29,167 --> 00:39:30,167 a beautiful person. 957 00:39:30,167 --> 00:39:32,968 But at the same time, I feel the pressure 958 00:39:33,133 --> 00:39:34,501 to put everything out on the table. 959 00:39:34,667 --> 00:39:37,901 So I hope Selena feels that she can answer honestly. 960 00:39:38,067 --> 00:39:40,267 Typically, I would never bring something like this 961 00:39:40,434 --> 00:39:42,667 to a table like this. 962 00:39:43,767 --> 00:39:45,100 I'm not a rumor person. 963 00:39:46,100 --> 00:39:49,367 And it -- it -- I ain't even gonna lie, but I feel, 964 00:39:49,534 --> 00:39:51,467 I'm believing in what we wrote about in here 965 00:39:51,634 --> 00:39:53,200 and transparency and authenticity. 966 00:39:53,367 --> 00:39:55,000 -Yeah. -[Kerri] So... 967 00:39:56,767 --> 00:39:58,167 So some of the guys were talking. 968 00:39:58,334 --> 00:40:00,567 And you know how you have pillow talk, you know, 969 00:40:00,734 --> 00:40:01,801 with your husband and stuff. 970 00:40:01,801 --> 00:40:04,467 And Matt has shared with me that somebody had 971 00:40:04,634 --> 00:40:06,501 said something... 972 00:40:06,667 --> 00:40:09,100 that is probably just some rumor, girl. 973 00:40:09,267 --> 00:40:11,000 People trying to attack and bring down. 974 00:40:11,167 --> 00:40:12,901 But something about a baby and Mike. 975 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,501 Girl, this is so uncomfortable for me to even say this. 976 00:40:19,667 --> 00:40:20,834 I'm sorry. 977 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,501 I'm not taking care of an outside baby, [indistinct]. 978 00:40:23,667 --> 00:40:26,000 It would be -- it would be over with if that was the case. 979 00:40:26,167 --> 00:40:28,567 If Mike stepped out on me and fathered a child... 980 00:40:29,667 --> 00:40:30,868 there's no wedding. 981 00:40:31,033 --> 00:40:32,601 There's no us. It's over. 982 00:40:37,868 --> 00:40:39,667 [Kerri] Next time on "Belle Collective." 983 00:40:39,834 --> 00:40:41,367 I want to show loyalty. 984 00:40:41,534 --> 00:40:43,767 So that's why I invited Shante here, because I feel like 985 00:40:43,934 --> 00:40:46,167 we're gonna cut stuff off at the root. 986 00:40:46,334 --> 00:40:49,100 She shares the information with me, said that you got 987 00:40:49,267 --> 00:40:51,200 a whole boyfriend. -What's his name? 988 00:40:52,501 --> 00:40:56,567 [laughing] Oh my God -- what? 989 00:40:56,734 --> 00:40:59,100 Met up with the Collective so we can just, 990 00:40:59,267 --> 00:41:00,868 I guess, squash everything. 991 00:41:01,033 --> 00:41:04,367 And one of the things that came up was you have a baby 992 00:41:04,534 --> 00:41:05,601 on the way. 993 00:41:05,767 --> 00:41:07,167 I'm trying to see who I can trust. 994 00:41:07,334 --> 00:41:10,200 How could something off of social media... 995 00:41:11,267 --> 00:41:14,467 end up in the Collective about my fiancé? 996 00:41:14,634 --> 00:41:16,968 I just have one question. 997 00:41:17,133 --> 00:41:19,067 Who brought it to the Collective? 998 00:41:23,167 --> 00:41:24,200 That's what I want to know.