1 00:00:01,502 --> 00:00:02,794 {\an8} Previously on "Belle Collective." 2 00:00:02,878 --> 00:00:04,671 {\an8}We just finished the condos upstairs. 3 00:00:04,755 --> 00:00:07,508 So we wants to do the Airbnbs, but we're getting pushback 4 00:00:07,591 --> 00:00:09,301 from the neighborhood. 5 00:00:09,384 --> 00:00:11,178 They wanna paint us as a nuisance. 6 00:00:13,722 --> 00:00:14,932 {\an8}Yes. 7 00:00:15,015 --> 00:00:16,767 What's the update on the Mobile location? 8 00:00:16,850 --> 00:00:18,393 We don't have that many interested buyers. 9 00:00:18,519 --> 00:00:19,937 Now is a waiting period. 10 00:00:20,020 --> 00:00:21,355 We have 20 people working for us. 11 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,273 I don't want them to just have to lose their jobs. 12 00:00:23,357 --> 00:00:25,317 With all due respect, by not making a decision, 13 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,861 it is starting to feel kind of selfish to me. 14 00:00:27,945 --> 00:00:29,738 You have, what, fibroids, right? 15 00:00:29,863 --> 00:00:33,450 They came back, so I have to get another surgery. 16 00:00:33,534 --> 00:00:37,621 And I came to the conclusion that I do want to have a baby. 17 00:00:37,704 --> 00:00:39,456 Yes! 18 00:00:39,540 --> 00:00:41,917 Just talking about it's always people on the outside 19 00:00:42,042 --> 00:00:44,044 that's bringing the rumors to us. 20 00:00:44,169 --> 00:00:47,714 With Teshia's friend, I'm like, "I don't even know this girl." 21 00:00:47,839 --> 00:00:49,258 - And you're bringing me-- - Shante? 22 00:00:49,383 --> 00:00:51,009 You're bringing me some mess. 23 00:00:51,093 --> 00:00:53,303 Something should click in your damn head. 24 00:00:53,387 --> 00:00:55,556 This girl should have been to divorce me three, four, 25 00:00:55,639 --> 00:00:56,890 five, six, seven, eight times. 26 00:00:56,974 --> 00:00:58,392 This girl should have been left my ass. 27 00:00:58,475 --> 00:01:00,602 You don't wanna have your hand in it because you wanna help me. 28 00:01:00,727 --> 00:01:03,438 You wanna have your hand in it so that you can control me. 29 00:01:07,568 --> 00:01:10,153 ♪ You don't have to worry about a thing, thing ♪ 30 00:01:10,237 --> 00:01:12,573 ♪ Call me up give me a ring, ring ♪ 31 00:01:12,656 --> 00:01:15,075 ♪ And I'll be there if you need me ♪ 32 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,078 ♪ Real fast in a jiffy ♪ 33 00:01:18,161 --> 00:01:20,289 ♪ You know I'm gonna show up for ya ♪ 34 00:01:20,414 --> 00:01:24,293 ♪ And show out all the time, all the time ♪ 35 00:01:24,418 --> 00:01:27,254 {\an8}I'm seeing a financial advisor today so that I can get 36 00:01:27,379 --> 00:01:29,089 my finances in order. 37 00:01:29,172 --> 00:01:32,175 Glen has been the primary leader in that department 38 00:01:32,259 --> 00:01:33,927 when it comes to our household. 39 00:01:34,052 --> 00:01:36,513 - Hi-- hey! - Hey, beautiful! 40 00:01:36,597 --> 00:01:38,974 - How are you? - How are you? 41 00:01:39,099 --> 00:01:42,686 And I wanna educate myself, and not only educate myself, 42 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:44,938 but line up my finances as well. 43 00:01:45,022 --> 00:01:47,274 {\an8}The last time we saw each other, 44 00:01:47,357 --> 00:01:51,278 {\an8}I was interviewing you at the Black Women's Business Expo 45 00:01:51,403 --> 00:01:54,323 a couple of months before . - Yes, yes. 46 00:01:54,448 --> 00:01:56,158 Well, you look amazing, and-- 47 00:01:56,283 --> 00:01:58,910 Now tell me, what prompted you to say, "OK, I need to get 48 00:01:58,994 --> 00:02:00,621 the appointment and I need to do it now?" 49 00:02:00,746 --> 00:02:03,081 - I'm still married. I'm still married to Glen. - Yes. 50 00:02:03,165 --> 00:02:04,416 - Do you remember Glen? - Yes, I remember Glen. 51 00:02:04,499 --> 00:02:05,876 Yes, still married to Glen. 52 00:02:05,959 --> 00:02:07,294 But where I am now, 53 00:02:07,419 --> 00:02:08,795 it's about financial independency. 54 00:02:08,920 --> 00:02:11,965 Like, I'm-- I am standing on my own. 55 00:02:12,090 --> 00:02:14,885 - Yes. - It's time to take this to another level. 56 00:02:14,968 --> 00:02:16,678 - I just got some things for you, like... - Yeah. 57 00:02:16,803 --> 00:02:18,889 ...a couple 1099s, my W-2s. 58 00:02:18,972 --> 00:02:20,766 I have a screenshot of my bank account. 59 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:25,312 OK-- first of all, kudos to you having all your papers together. 60 00:02:25,437 --> 00:02:27,606 And this meeting came at a time when you're ready to put 61 00:02:27,689 --> 00:02:29,650 all these things in order. - Yeah, absolutely. 62 00:02:29,733 --> 00:02:32,027 So when we talk about putting things in order, 63 00:02:32,152 --> 00:02:34,946 we talk about protection first. - Mm-hmm. 64 00:02:35,030 --> 00:02:38,283 What are you doing to protect your money today and tomorrow? 65 00:02:38,367 --> 00:02:40,869 Do we have life insurance on ourself and everybody 66 00:02:40,994 --> 00:02:42,746 in the household? - We do-- I do. 67 00:02:42,829 --> 00:02:44,539 Next thing, any retirement accounts 68 00:02:44,665 --> 00:02:47,084 that you have for you, not Glen. 69 00:02:47,167 --> 00:02:48,460 - Not for me. - OK. 70 00:02:48,543 --> 00:02:52,130 Do you have any investments currently? 71 00:02:52,214 --> 00:02:54,007 - No. - OK. 72 00:02:54,132 --> 00:02:58,679 With doing all that you do, what right now 73 00:02:58,762 --> 00:03:02,182 is your biggest concern? - Finding my own independency. 74 00:03:02,307 --> 00:03:03,975 - Yes. - And standing on my own. 75 00:03:04,059 --> 00:03:05,686 We're setting these things up for you 76 00:03:05,769 --> 00:03:07,854 so you can be financially stable... - Mm-hmm. 77 00:03:07,979 --> 00:03:10,691 ...no matter what season of life you're in, 78 00:03:10,774 --> 00:03:13,110 whether that means walking alone... - Mm-hmm. 79 00:03:13,193 --> 00:03:15,278 or walking with anyone, OK? - Yeah. 80 00:03:15,362 --> 00:03:18,115 After this blow up at the photo shoot, 81 00:03:18,198 --> 00:03:21,868 everything that I thought was impossible is now possible. 82 00:03:21,952 --> 00:03:23,120 I'm just in a season of my life 83 00:03:23,203 --> 00:03:26,039 for protecting everything for me. 84 00:03:26,123 --> 00:03:27,666 - So for clarity... - Yes. 85 00:03:27,749 --> 00:03:30,001 I know we hear all the time, "Oh, you signed a prenup, 86 00:03:30,085 --> 00:03:31,628 you signed a prenup." - Yes. 87 00:03:31,712 --> 00:03:34,548 - That's before you go on, you know, into the marriage. - Yes. 88 00:03:34,673 --> 00:03:39,052 - Can you, like, make it clear, clarify, what is the postnup? - Yes, OK. 89 00:03:39,136 --> 00:03:41,346 Like, nuptial, what does that look like? 90 00:03:41,430 --> 00:03:42,597 That's a good question. 91 00:03:42,723 --> 00:03:45,100 So just like a prenup was a legal agreement, 92 00:03:45,225 --> 00:03:46,893 postnuptials are too. - Mm-hmm. 93 00:03:47,018 --> 00:03:48,478 And you get to determine that 94 00:03:48,562 --> 00:03:50,981 while the marriage is still going on. 95 00:03:51,064 --> 00:03:53,525 So you get to determine, what are we going 96 00:03:53,608 --> 00:03:54,943 to continue to share? - OK. 97 00:03:55,068 --> 00:03:56,778 What is gonna be completely mine. 98 00:03:56,903 --> 00:04:00,031 - Oh-- mm-hmm. - These assets that you have, that you've accrued 99 00:04:00,115 --> 00:04:01,575 while we've been together. 100 00:04:01,700 --> 00:04:04,327 Having a postnup, especially at this stage in my life, 101 00:04:04,411 --> 00:04:06,663 is very important. I have worked so hard. 102 00:04:06,747 --> 00:04:09,916 And right now, stuff is really taking off for me. 103 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,420 So I wanna make sure that my business and my assets, 104 00:04:13,503 --> 00:04:15,088 that everything is protected. 105 00:04:15,213 --> 00:04:18,258 - So, listen, this, off the record a little bit. - Yes-- yeah. 106 00:04:18,383 --> 00:04:20,927 So my husband, he's asked to be like my manager, right? 107 00:04:21,052 --> 00:04:23,388 - Yeah. - So my question for you is, 108 00:04:23,472 --> 00:04:30,103 should I consider allowing him to be my manager? 109 00:04:30,187 --> 00:04:34,566 So you can step out and be CEO, president of your brand, 110 00:04:34,649 --> 00:04:39,154 and also hire someone to be the manager... - Mm-hmm. 111 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,032 ...and let him be as an advisory role. - OK. 112 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:44,284 - That's the conversation I'd like to have with Glen. - Yeah. 113 00:04:44,409 --> 00:04:46,244 I hope that Glen is on page 114 00:04:46,328 --> 00:04:48,038 with everything that I have going on. 115 00:04:48,121 --> 00:04:51,708 And this will, for one, help us move forward 116 00:04:51,792 --> 00:04:52,959 and establish trust. 117 00:04:55,462 --> 00:04:57,714 ♪ Yeah, ha-ha-ha ♪ 118 00:04:59,299 --> 00:05:01,760 ♪ Aye, I'm so pricey, pricey, pricey ♪ 119 00:05:01,843 --> 00:05:03,553 ♪ All this money, it get crazy ♪ 120 00:05:03,637 --> 00:05:04,721 ♪ Icy, icy, icy ♪ 121 00:05:04,805 --> 00:05:06,640 ♪ All these diamonds on me lately ♪ 122 00:05:06,723 --> 00:05:07,974 ♪ I be shining, shining, shining ♪ 123 00:05:08,058 --> 00:05:09,893 ♪ I'm too cool, I'm too wavy ♪ 124 00:05:09,976 --> 00:05:11,770 Jonathan! 125 00:05:11,853 --> 00:05:13,772 - Trice! - Oh, my God. 126 00:05:13,855 --> 00:05:16,399 - This looks so good. - You like it? 127 00:05:16,483 --> 00:05:18,151 Yes, I'm proud. 128 00:05:19,319 --> 00:05:20,695 - I am proud. - Thank you. 129 00:05:20,821 --> 00:05:23,281 {\an8}My godson just opened up a gentleman's club, 130 00:05:23,365 --> 00:05:26,868 {\an8}and I thought that it would be a great idea to bring Marie. 131 00:05:26,993 --> 00:05:29,996 I'm super excited to walk Marie on the wild side 132 00:05:30,121 --> 00:05:31,665 and see what she really wants. 133 00:05:31,790 --> 00:05:34,376 ♪ I got all the boys knocking at the door ♪ 134 00:05:35,460 --> 00:05:37,838 ♪ Lined up, waiting, wanting more ♪ 135 00:05:37,921 --> 00:05:43,051 ♪ But it ain't easy getting to me ♪ 136 00:05:43,176 --> 00:05:44,928 - Hi! - Hi, Rie-rie! 137 00:05:45,011 --> 00:05:46,680 How you doing? 138 00:05:46,805 --> 00:05:49,307 {\an8}- So this is my godson, Jonathan. - Hi, Marie. 139 00:05:49,391 --> 00:05:50,642 {\an8}- Hi, Jonathan. - Hey, I'm Trice's godson 140 00:05:50,725 --> 00:05:51,810 This is Marie. 141 00:05:51,893 --> 00:05:53,520 Yeah, let me show y'all to y'all's section-- come on. 142 00:05:53,603 --> 00:05:56,565 - OK. - He like, "Girl, get out my face." 143 00:05:56,690 --> 00:05:58,608 {\an8}The last time I've been to a strip club, 144 00:05:58,692 --> 00:06:02,696 {\an8}it was a very long time ago. But I did have fun. 145 00:06:04,823 --> 00:06:07,033 I am a little nervous. 146 00:06:07,158 --> 00:06:10,912 But hey, you know, I can adapt to any situation. 147 00:06:11,037 --> 00:06:12,038 I'm here. 148 00:06:12,122 --> 00:06:13,415 Oh, not the bottle, huh? 149 00:06:13,540 --> 00:06:16,001 Marie, I brought you here so you can loosen up, honey. 150 00:06:16,084 --> 00:06:17,043 - We gotta-- - I'm loosening up. 151 00:06:17,168 --> 00:06:18,587 Look, this caffeine gonna loosen me up. 152 00:06:18,712 --> 00:06:19,963 The caffeine gonna loosen you up. 153 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:21,965 - Yeah. - Because we gotta get you a man by the end. 154 00:06:22,048 --> 00:06:23,717 - Alright. - The best place to get a man. 155 00:06:23,842 --> 00:06:24,801 Talk to me. 156 00:06:24,885 --> 00:06:26,386 What's the best way to get a man? 157 00:06:26,469 --> 00:06:28,597 See, you work so much, but when it's time to play, 158 00:06:28,722 --> 00:06:30,056 it's time to play. - OK-- let me loosen up. 159 00:06:30,140 --> 00:06:32,350 - Let me get out the coat. - And I don't I-- alright, body. 160 00:06:32,434 --> 00:06:34,144 - Let me loosen up. - Body, come on. 161 00:06:34,227 --> 00:06:35,729 - Let's get low. - Yes. 162 00:06:35,854 --> 00:06:36,771 So we have to loosen up. 163 00:06:36,897 --> 00:06:40,066 And you remember when we was at Tambra's event, 164 00:06:40,150 --> 00:06:42,652 and you told us about your little rendezvous. 165 00:06:42,736 --> 00:06:44,154 When I was 18 years old... 166 00:06:45,322 --> 00:06:46,489 ...I had a threesome. 167 00:06:50,285 --> 00:06:53,246 Wait, that was so long ago. I was a teenager. 168 00:06:53,371 --> 00:06:57,667 See, I want you to be for sure as well. 169 00:06:57,751 --> 00:06:59,294 - So... - Let's play a game. 170 00:06:59,419 --> 00:07:01,463 OK, since you like playing games-- true or false? 171 00:07:01,588 --> 00:07:03,214 Before you got married to your husband, 172 00:07:03,298 --> 00:07:04,799 you dated a woman before, right? 173 00:07:05,842 --> 00:07:07,844 - No! - Trice. 174 00:07:07,928 --> 00:07:10,263 - I've never. - Come on, tell us, see, 175 00:07:10,347 --> 00:07:12,140 you know what? - I'm not you. 176 00:07:12,265 --> 00:07:14,559 - You're not telling the truth. - I'm not you-- no! 177 00:07:14,643 --> 00:07:17,479 - Ooh, Latrice - I-- I have never. 178 00:07:17,604 --> 00:07:19,272 Marie is the queen of deflection. 179 00:07:19,397 --> 00:07:22,609 The fact that every time I ask her, do she like women, 180 00:07:22,734 --> 00:07:24,194 and she can't give me a straight answer, 181 00:07:24,277 --> 00:07:26,613 but directs it back to me, tells me everything 182 00:07:26,738 --> 00:07:28,365 that I need to know. 183 00:07:28,448 --> 00:07:30,951 I'm glad ain't none of the other Belles here. 184 00:07:31,034 --> 00:07:32,410 Wait a minute. 185 00:07:32,494 --> 00:07:35,956 So, you know, speaking about the other Belles, 186 00:07:36,039 --> 00:07:39,834 it's been a lot of outside noise, you know, with Shante. 187 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,545 But Latrice, I just wanted to have, like, a quick little 188 00:07:42,629 --> 00:07:44,923 moment to see if you felt any differently 189 00:07:45,006 --> 00:07:47,467 about the situation between you and Teshia. 190 00:07:47,592 --> 00:07:49,177 - Oh-- - You Teshia's friend, 191 00:07:49,302 --> 00:07:50,428 you ain't got nothing to say to me. 192 00:07:50,512 --> 00:07:54,599 She comes around Lateshia, her events, all the time. 193 00:07:54,683 --> 00:07:57,310 My thing is, how's Shante trying to check, , 194 00:07:57,394 --> 00:07:59,771 check you over her friend when she talk about her friend? 195 00:08:01,314 --> 00:08:04,901 If it's an issue with Shante, why not address it 196 00:08:04,985 --> 00:08:06,569 with Shante, whatever the problem is? 197 00:08:06,653 --> 00:08:08,154 She's gonna come around. 198 00:08:08,279 --> 00:08:11,157 I don't have to address a single thing with Shante. 199 00:08:11,282 --> 00:08:12,993 I don't [bleep] with her. 200 00:08:13,118 --> 00:08:15,829 Shante was at Taste, and I heard her tell 201 00:08:15,912 --> 00:08:20,333 a mutual friend that Glendale tried to talk to her. 202 00:08:20,458 --> 00:08:23,670 To me, that's not a friend, because why would you withhold 203 00:08:23,753 --> 00:08:26,172 this information from your best friend? 204 00:08:26,256 --> 00:08:27,674 I wanna host a get together 205 00:08:27,799 --> 00:08:29,300 for us to get together-- Is Shante gonna be there? 206 00:08:29,384 --> 00:08:32,345 All of us to get together and just have a conversation. 207 00:08:32,470 --> 00:08:35,181 I'm sending out the message, and you all let Lateshia know 208 00:08:35,265 --> 00:08:37,392 how y'all feel and why. 209 00:08:37,517 --> 00:08:40,770 And maybe she-- she'll see y'all's perspective. 210 00:08:40,854 --> 00:08:42,480 - Imma pray on it. - Pray on it. 211 00:08:42,564 --> 00:08:44,733 I'm sending out this message. I said, "Hey, Belles, 212 00:08:44,858 --> 00:08:46,985 "stay tuned for our latest get together 213 00:08:47,068 --> 00:08:50,238 "and yes, all the ladies, and that includes you, Kerri, 214 00:08:50,363 --> 00:08:52,907 with your backpedaling swimming steps." - Girl! 215 00:08:53,033 --> 00:08:55,785 "Details coming soon." That's what I said. 216 00:08:55,869 --> 00:08:58,413 - Why did you do Kerri like that. - Let me-- 'cause I don't even wanna-- Kerri 217 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:00,040 - I don't really trust Kerri. - Why? 218 00:09:00,165 --> 00:09:02,709 You know, I just don't. Like, if you say something, 219 00:09:02,834 --> 00:09:04,419 just stand in it. 220 00:09:04,544 --> 00:09:06,880 Kerri pinning this-- this baby rumor on me, 221 00:09:07,005 --> 00:09:08,548 it don't sit well with me. 222 00:09:08,673 --> 00:09:09,841 I was not trying to throw your husband 223 00:09:09,924 --> 00:09:11,843 under the bus at all, or mine. I just was like, 224 00:09:11,926 --> 00:09:13,386 that's kind of where I'd heard it. 225 00:09:13,511 --> 00:09:15,221 But somebody else mentioned it because they said that you 226 00:09:15,346 --> 00:09:16,556 had said it at the party. 227 00:09:16,681 --> 00:09:17,849 Kerri denied it. 228 00:09:17,932 --> 00:09:19,350 Well, you said-- now, don't backpedal. 229 00:09:19,434 --> 00:09:20,351 You stated it. - No, no, no. 230 00:09:20,435 --> 00:09:21,728 I'm not backpedaling. I'm front pedaling. 231 00:09:21,853 --> 00:09:23,730 She is showing me her true colors 232 00:09:23,855 --> 00:09:26,524 and what she's capable of, lying. 233 00:09:26,608 --> 00:09:28,443 - Hello. - We get it. 234 00:09:28,568 --> 00:09:31,696 - OK, - I see you over there looking. 235 00:09:31,780 --> 00:09:36,076 - OK. - But I do have something for you. 236 00:09:36,159 --> 00:09:38,203 - Mm-hmm. - Alright. 237 00:09:38,286 --> 00:09:40,663 - This for you, boo. - OK-- this for me? 238 00:09:40,747 --> 00:09:41,915 - Yes. - OK. 239 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,249 - You ready, for real? - Yeah. 240 00:09:43,374 --> 00:09:44,417 - Let's go. - Let's go. 241 00:09:44,542 --> 00:09:46,211 Now, this is what you really like, right? 242 00:09:46,294 --> 00:09:48,797 No, we know this is what you really like. 243 00:09:48,922 --> 00:09:50,006 Uh, Ma'am. 244 00:09:50,090 --> 00:09:51,716 I need you to give her what she likes, OK? 245 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,551 Give her what she likes. 246 00:09:53,635 --> 00:09:56,596 ♪ Feeling sexy and you know it ♪ 247 00:09:56,721 --> 00:09:58,807 ♪ Ah, ah, ah ♪ 248 00:09:58,932 --> 00:10:01,518 ♪ Feeling wild and gonna show it ♪ 249 00:10:01,601 --> 00:10:03,436 ♪ Party, party, party ♪ 250 00:10:03,561 --> 00:10:05,438 ♪ Don't stop, don't stop ♪ 251 00:10:05,522 --> 00:10:08,900 - ♪ It's time to celebrate ♪ - Aye, aye, aye... 252 00:10:08,983 --> 00:10:13,154 {\an8}It's been a while since I have actually gotten out 253 00:10:13,279 --> 00:10:15,949 and just had a great time. 254 00:10:16,074 --> 00:10:19,035 I'm glad I stepped outside of my comfort zone. 255 00:10:19,119 --> 00:10:21,287 Latrice know how to show somebody a good time. 256 00:10:21,371 --> 00:10:22,705 She's a vibe. 257 00:10:22,789 --> 00:10:24,749 Rie, I can't believe it. 258 00:10:24,833 --> 00:10:27,418 - OK. - With the tonight-- you know what? 259 00:10:27,502 --> 00:10:29,796 You outside with , baby. 260 00:10:29,921 --> 00:10:33,633 - She is outside, OK? - I'm outside. 261 00:10:36,719 --> 00:10:38,805 {\an8} Coming up on "Belle Collective." 262 00:10:38,888 --> 00:10:40,515 {\an8}What does that look like with the stuff that you have? 263 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,309 {\an8}- I have none of that. - What do a post-nuptial look like? 264 00:10:43,393 --> 00:10:44,477 A divorce. 265 00:10:45,770 --> 00:10:49,357 So, Matt, what we gonna do about this entire situation? 266 00:10:49,482 --> 00:10:51,901 - That's called insanity. - You gonna have to get tough. 267 00:10:53,403 --> 00:10:55,780 Somebody does have to stand up for her and be like, 268 00:10:55,864 --> 00:10:57,574 "We are a Collective." 269 00:10:57,657 --> 00:10:59,325 So now you wanna stand up, but you didn't stand up 270 00:10:59,450 --> 00:11:00,910 for your friend. - Yeah, you're right. Now I'm standing up Shante. 271 00:11:00,994 --> 00:11:02,495 Who are you yelling at? Who are you yelling at? 272 00:11:02,620 --> 00:11:03,705 Because first of all, let me tell you. 273 00:11:03,830 --> 00:11:05,665 - Get your finger out my face. - Let me tell you. 274 00:11:08,710 --> 00:11:09,711 ♪ It's time to go up ♪ 275 00:11:09,794 --> 00:11:10,962 ♪ What a way up ♪ 276 00:11:11,045 --> 00:11:12,463 ♪ Let's go ♪ 277 00:11:12,547 --> 00:11:13,631 ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪ 278 00:11:13,715 --> 00:11:15,508 ♪ Wanna be down, it's on, it's on ♪ 279 00:11:15,592 --> 00:11:16,885 ♪ No more feeling all alone ♪ 280 00:11:16,968 --> 00:11:19,012 ♪ And what I'm feeling is grown ♪ 281 00:11:19,095 --> 00:11:21,347 ♪ And I wanna put it on, yeah ♪ 282 00:11:21,431 --> 00:11:24,058 {\an8}Today, I am meeting with Glen at Pig & Pint 283 00:11:24,142 --> 00:11:27,395 {\an8}to let him know that I did meet with a financial advisor. 284 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,939 And I am hoping and praying 285 00:11:30,064 --> 00:11:31,900 that he'll take this information well. 286 00:11:32,025 --> 00:11:36,154 But before Glen arrives, I am going to FaceTime my homegirl, 287 00:11:36,237 --> 00:11:39,490 Shante, to see if she's gonna attend this meeting that 288 00:11:39,574 --> 00:11:40,742 {\an8}Marie invited her to. 289 00:11:40,867 --> 00:11:42,827 {\an8}Girl, what's up? Where you? 290 00:11:44,579 --> 00:11:46,456 {\an8}I'm sitting out here, girl. That's what we're about to do. 291 00:11:46,581 --> 00:11:49,584 So Marie told me she invited you to the luncheon. 292 00:11:51,002 --> 00:11:52,212 {\an8}Don't roll your eyes. 293 00:11:57,592 --> 00:11:58,676 {\an8}Well... 294 00:12:01,721 --> 00:12:03,223 {\an8}The terrible T's? 295 00:12:09,771 --> 00:12:12,440 {\an8}So, OK, well, honey, I'll see you at the luncheon. 296 00:12:13,942 --> 00:12:15,777 {\an8}Girl, no, we're gonn get rid of that word. 297 00:12:16,861 --> 00:12:19,322 ♪ Please don't come and kill my vibe right now ♪ 298 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:21,616 - Oh, hello. - What's good, babe? 299 00:12:21,741 --> 00:12:23,243 I got a little blanket. So maybe, you know, 300 00:12:23,326 --> 00:12:25,119 if you get a little cold, we can cuddle. 301 00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:27,622 I mean, I'm cold, I'm freezing. 302 00:12:27,747 --> 00:12:29,290 {\an8}I love me some ribs. 303 00:12:29,374 --> 00:12:31,334 {\an8}So I'm excited about, you know, meeting Teshia 304 00:12:31,459 --> 00:12:34,087 {\an8}for some barbecue today. - Thank you. 305 00:12:34,170 --> 00:12:35,672 - You're very welcome, guys. - Alright, thank you. 306 00:12:35,797 --> 00:12:39,759 Us meeting for dinner and barbecue at the same time, 307 00:12:39,842 --> 00:12:42,637 like, it's showing me that she's trying. 308 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:46,599 - So what's going on with you? - Mm, where to start? 309 00:12:46,683 --> 00:12:49,477 Um, Marie invited me to a luncheon. 310 00:12:49,602 --> 00:12:53,314 She's inviting everybody. All the Belles plus Shante. 311 00:12:53,439 --> 00:12:54,816 - Plus Shante? - Yeah, I asked Shante-- 312 00:12:54,941 --> 00:12:56,192 - OK. - So basically, the Belles just, 313 00:12:56,317 --> 00:12:58,820 they got an issue with Shante. - Shante or Shante? 314 00:12:58,903 --> 00:13:00,488 Y'all have had y'all issues 315 00:13:00,613 --> 00:13:02,365 where she didn't like, you know. 316 00:13:02,490 --> 00:13:03,616 She didn't like me being with you. 317 00:13:03,700 --> 00:13:04,826 She didn't like you being with me. 318 00:13:04,909 --> 00:13:06,077 You think that? 319 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,497 I feel like Shante don't feel like Glen is the person 320 00:13:09,580 --> 00:13:10,707 that I need to be with. 321 00:13:10,832 --> 00:13:11,833 Hold on. 322 00:13:15,044 --> 00:13:16,087 No. 323 00:13:16,170 --> 00:13:18,506 I have no [bleep] to give about what Shante thinks 324 00:13:18,631 --> 00:13:20,842 about my relationship with Teshia. 325 00:13:20,925 --> 00:13:23,803 I went to have a conversation with a financial advisor, 326 00:13:23,886 --> 00:13:25,513 and it comes with growth. - You did what? 327 00:13:27,682 --> 00:13:30,560 You have, like, investments. You have 401K. 328 00:13:30,685 --> 00:13:32,061 - You have retirement. - Right. 329 00:13:32,186 --> 00:13:33,604 I don't even know if I'm on the things. 330 00:13:33,688 --> 00:13:37,317 Like, I know I'm on your 401K, but am I the beneficiary? 331 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,944 Like, I wanna know what's going on. 332 00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:41,612 My son is on there. 333 00:13:42,697 --> 00:13:44,574 - Yeah. - But me? 334 00:13:44,699 --> 00:13:46,409 Yes, you're-- you're-- you're on there. 335 00:13:48,202 --> 00:13:49,412 My mom is on there. 336 00:13:50,413 --> 00:13:52,206 On what? What's your mama on? 337 00:13:52,290 --> 00:13:54,042 Everything. 338 00:13:54,125 --> 00:13:57,545 - I have it split three ways. - You have-- it split three ways? 339 00:13:57,670 --> 00:13:59,339 - Yeah. - Wow. 340 00:14:00,757 --> 00:14:03,092 I made my mother a beneficiary on my assets, 341 00:14:03,217 --> 00:14:05,595 because that's what a son's supposed to do. 342 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:07,638 You know, this is a lady that took care of me 343 00:14:07,722 --> 00:14:10,308 and four other siblings by herself. 344 00:14:10,391 --> 00:14:12,477 I owe my mama the world. 345 00:14:12,560 --> 00:14:13,478 Is that a problem? 346 00:14:13,561 --> 00:14:16,230 Uh, yeah. 347 00:14:16,314 --> 00:14:18,524 Like, what else are you not telling me? 348 00:14:18,608 --> 00:14:21,527 What else? Because this is news to me. 349 00:14:21,611 --> 00:14:24,906 Now, I love your mama, but what we doing here? 350 00:14:24,989 --> 00:14:27,283 Um, we talked about, what else? 351 00:14:27,408 --> 00:14:32,538 - Um... post-nuptial agreement. - A post what? 352 00:14:32,622 --> 00:14:34,957 Nuptial-- I wanted to get educated on that, 353 00:14:35,083 --> 00:14:39,170 because we do have more, clearly, thank God, 354 00:14:39,253 --> 00:14:41,422 than we had when we first started out. 355 00:14:41,547 --> 00:14:44,300 And I just wanted for us to decide what's what. 356 00:14:44,425 --> 00:14:46,010 What does that look like with the stuff that you have? 357 00:14:46,094 --> 00:14:49,222 I have none of that. - What do a post-nuptial look like? 358 00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:50,306 A divorce. 359 00:14:51,682 --> 00:14:54,811 - Boy, you're something else. - We have to be adults. 360 00:14:54,936 --> 00:14:57,605 And I think that's something that we have lagged before. 361 00:14:57,730 --> 00:14:59,357 I'm not signing no post. 362 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:00,858 Absolutely not. 363 00:15:00,942 --> 00:15:03,861 Nah, so we ain't going to start these little games right now. 364 00:15:03,945 --> 00:15:05,405 We ain't never starting the games. 365 00:15:05,488 --> 00:15:06,948 Not be married to me. 366 00:15:08,116 --> 00:15:09,325 Nah, I'll walk away from it all. 367 00:15:10,701 --> 00:15:13,037 I did bring up the manager. 368 00:15:13,121 --> 00:15:16,457 I shared with her, I said, "Hypothetically, should I have 369 00:15:16,582 --> 00:15:18,918 my husband to be my manager?" 370 00:15:20,086 --> 00:15:21,421 What would that look like? 371 00:15:21,504 --> 00:15:24,966 She said that you can be my advisor. 372 00:15:26,968 --> 00:15:28,177 So think about that. 373 00:15:28,302 --> 00:15:29,387 No, no, no. Go here with me. 374 00:15:29,470 --> 00:15:33,099 Basically, you will be like a think tank. 375 00:15:33,182 --> 00:15:34,308 - We'll be a think tank. - A think tank? 376 00:15:34,434 --> 00:15:36,310 Me and you. Me and you. 377 00:15:36,436 --> 00:15:39,814 And I think an advisor sounds way better than a manager. 378 00:15:42,066 --> 00:15:43,234 You are my advisor. 379 00:15:43,317 --> 00:15:44,986 - You are my new advisor. - OK-- alright. 380 00:15:45,069 --> 00:15:46,737 And, how do you feel? 381 00:15:46,821 --> 00:15:49,157 - Great. - Thank you. 382 00:15:52,743 --> 00:15:55,997 I suddenly lost my appetite. 383 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,498 - Thank you so much. - You're welcome. 384 00:15:57,623 --> 00:15:59,417 I don't know this, Lateshia. 385 00:15:59,500 --> 00:16:02,837 Man, I'm-- I'm struggling. I'm struggling. 386 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,672 I really feel like if we didn't have a kid, 387 00:16:04,797 --> 00:16:07,633 that probably would have been the last straw for me. 388 00:16:07,717 --> 00:16:09,677 {\an8}Whatever makes you feel good. 389 00:16:14,599 --> 00:16:16,350 {\an8} Coming up on "Belle Collective." 390 00:16:16,476 --> 00:16:17,894 {\an8}You know, I try to trust 391 00:16:18,019 --> 00:16:20,354 {\an8}your partner to make good decisions. 392 00:16:20,438 --> 00:16:22,773 {\an8}She's not gonna change by you just going along 393 00:16:22,857 --> 00:16:25,485 with everything and everything's OK. 394 00:16:25,568 --> 00:16:27,528 That's what you've always done with Kerri. 395 00:16:31,532 --> 00:16:33,034 {\an8}♪ I'm just tryin' to have a little fun ♪ 396 00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:34,202 {\an8}♪ Let it loose in the sun ♪ 397 00:16:35,203 --> 00:16:38,206 ♪ If you're getting in the way, tell me what you doing ♪ 398 00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:40,374 ♪ Yeah, what has you done? ♪ 399 00:16:40,458 --> 00:16:42,335 ♪ I can't complain ♪ 400 00:16:42,418 --> 00:16:44,712 ♪ I'm just saying ♪ 401 00:16:44,795 --> 00:16:46,797 I'll sit right over here. 402 00:16:46,881 --> 00:16:47,882 How about that? 403 00:16:49,550 --> 00:16:51,802 Good, as far away from the street as I can. 404 00:16:51,886 --> 00:16:53,554 What you think gonna happen? 405 00:16:53,638 --> 00:16:55,348 Anything is possible. 406 00:16:55,431 --> 00:16:57,808 - Mm-hmm. - We in the country. 407 00:16:57,892 --> 00:17:00,061 {\an8}Kerri's been on the fence for such a long time 408 00:17:00,186 --> 00:17:03,189 {\an8}with the Brick & Spoon Mobile location. 409 00:17:03,272 --> 00:17:05,900 And I've given so much effort trying to help. 410 00:17:06,025 --> 00:17:08,528 But at some point, you know, I've got to focus on, 411 00:17:08,611 --> 00:17:10,905 uh, what's important in my industry as well. 412 00:17:10,988 --> 00:17:12,573 And I think sitting down with my mom 413 00:17:12,657 --> 00:17:14,534 will help clear my head a little bit. 414 00:17:14,617 --> 00:17:16,160 And knowing my mom, 415 00:17:16,244 --> 00:17:18,120 she's definitely gonna have some opinions. 416 00:17:18,246 --> 00:17:19,830 Well, I'm glad we could make some time 417 00:17:19,914 --> 00:17:22,250 to mother-son lunch, get together. 418 00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:24,877 Oh, you have a mama now, huh? 419 00:17:24,961 --> 00:17:27,129 {\an8}I ain't seen you in a minute. What's been going on? 420 00:17:27,255 --> 00:17:28,548 {\an8}Tired, busy. 421 00:17:28,631 --> 00:17:31,509 So I think I mentioned the idea a few months ago. 422 00:17:31,592 --> 00:17:35,346 I was looking into potentially making a move with my job. 423 00:17:35,429 --> 00:17:41,310 I really started to think about the importance of my kids, 424 00:17:41,435 --> 00:17:45,147 my legacy, building something that I can one day hopefully 425 00:17:45,273 --> 00:17:47,608 kind of give back to them. 426 00:17:47,692 --> 00:17:50,570 So I actually decided to go ahead and transition away 427 00:17:50,653 --> 00:17:52,905 from the company I was with. - OK. 428 00:17:52,989 --> 00:17:55,908 I'm moving forward in a partnership 429 00:17:55,992 --> 00:17:58,452 with someone that I've known for over 20 years. 430 00:17:58,536 --> 00:18:02,665 You know, and our plan is to create an agency that, for me, 431 00:18:02,790 --> 00:18:06,794 is the best and most respected small boutique agency 432 00:18:06,877 --> 00:18:09,005 in the game of baseball. - How do you feel about it? 433 00:18:09,130 --> 00:18:11,465 I know it's gonna be kind of scary at first. 434 00:18:11,591 --> 00:18:13,676 A little, you know, kind of hard, but I feel like 435 00:18:13,801 --> 00:18:14,969 I'm prepared for it. 436 00:18:15,094 --> 00:18:17,471 Yeah, and you enjoy what you do. 437 00:18:17,555 --> 00:18:18,931 - Yes. - That's very important. 438 00:18:19,015 --> 00:18:20,975 I feel like a weight's been lifted off my shoulder 439 00:18:21,058 --> 00:18:22,143 when I finally... 440 00:18:22,268 --> 00:18:25,146 You feel like a weight is lifted off of your shoulder? 441 00:18:25,229 --> 00:18:27,940 - You riding Kerri on your back? - Oh, no, . 442 00:18:28,024 --> 00:18:30,568 I ain't talking-- I'm not talking about Kerri. 443 00:18:30,651 --> 00:18:33,237 There they are, the opinions I've been waiting for. 444 00:18:33,321 --> 00:18:35,573 Since day one, the relationship between 445 00:18:35,656 --> 00:18:38,534 my wife and my mom has been pretty stressful. 446 00:18:38,659 --> 00:18:41,329 Things can get tense. My mom is very stubborn. 447 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:42,997 And my wife can be the same way. 448 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,582 How's everything going with the kids? 449 00:18:44,665 --> 00:18:46,709 It's time, you know, you gone a lot. 450 00:18:46,834 --> 00:18:49,712 - Yeah. - I've been there twice to sit with them. 451 00:18:49,837 --> 00:18:51,505 You were nowhere around, so... 452 00:18:51,589 --> 00:18:53,341 Yeah, well, you know, we both have a lot 453 00:18:53,424 --> 00:18:55,426 on our plate, Kerri and I. - Mm-hmm. 454 00:18:55,509 --> 00:18:58,054 With so much going on with both of our jobs, 455 00:18:58,179 --> 00:19:03,934 we're trying to find as much balance as we can. 456 00:19:04,018 --> 00:19:06,354 Like, how do we be good parents? 457 00:19:06,479 --> 00:19:08,439 The interesting thing about Kerri and I, 458 00:19:08,522 --> 00:19:11,692 we've been together since we were teenagers. 459 00:19:11,817 --> 00:19:14,945 You know, at times, especially as Kerri and I kind 460 00:19:15,029 --> 00:19:19,283 of chase success in two different lanes, it can become 461 00:19:19,367 --> 00:19:22,870 tough to juggle career and home life. 462 00:19:22,953 --> 00:19:24,914 And you know, with our kids getting older now, 463 00:19:25,039 --> 00:19:27,416 there's a lot going on. So it can become stressful. 464 00:19:27,541 --> 00:19:29,627 No, Kerri don't listen to too many people. 465 00:19:29,710 --> 00:19:31,253 That's something that we working on. 466 00:19:31,379 --> 00:19:34,215 She's not going to change, by you just going along 467 00:19:34,340 --> 00:19:36,717 with everything, and everything's OK. 468 00:19:36,842 --> 00:19:38,886 {\an8}That's what you always done with Kerri. 469 00:19:38,969 --> 00:19:40,554 You know, I try to trust... 470 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,015 ...your partner to make good decisions. 471 00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:47,395 But I agree, I probably gave her too much room to make 472 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:51,065 big decisions without me. - Right, you sure did. 473 00:19:51,148 --> 00:19:54,443 - You're gonna have to, you know, put your foot down. - Right. 474 00:19:54,568 --> 00:19:57,071 Kerri and I have been in the middle of this complicated 475 00:19:57,196 --> 00:20:00,324 situation with the Mobile location for a while now. 476 00:20:00,408 --> 00:20:03,744 It's beginning to become a strain financially 477 00:20:03,869 --> 00:20:04,954 for both of us. 478 00:20:05,079 --> 00:20:06,914 You can't be so supportive that you go broke-- 479 00:20:06,997 --> 00:20:07,957 I'm being too supportive. 480 00:20:08,082 --> 00:20:08,999 Being supportive-- right. 481 00:20:09,083 --> 00:20:10,292 So you gotta learn, too, that 482 00:20:10,418 --> 00:20:13,212 the most successful people in the world, they fail. 483 00:20:13,295 --> 00:20:14,880 Their businesses fail. 484 00:20:14,964 --> 00:20:17,842 - But they didn't keep doing the same thing over and over. - Right. 485 00:20:17,925 --> 00:20:20,344 - That's called insanity. - Yeah. 486 00:20:20,428 --> 00:20:23,806 So, Matt, what we gonna do about this entire situation? 487 00:20:23,931 --> 00:20:25,683 Me and her mom sat down with her. 488 00:20:25,766 --> 00:20:29,103 We're trying to push her as much as we can. 489 00:20:29,186 --> 00:20:31,439 You're just gonna have to cut your losses. 490 00:20:31,564 --> 00:20:32,898 By not making a decision, 491 00:20:32,982 --> 00:20:35,276 it is starting to feel kind of selfish to me. 492 00:20:37,486 --> 00:20:38,779 I could be giving her a message, 493 00:20:38,904 --> 00:20:40,448 her mom could be giving her the same message, 494 00:20:40,531 --> 00:20:42,992 but she'll hear it differently from somebody else. 495 00:20:43,117 --> 00:20:45,870 - Oh, she'll hear it differently from somebody else. - Yeah. 496 00:20:45,953 --> 00:20:47,496 Well, maybe she need to hear it from you, too. 497 00:20:47,621 --> 00:20:50,166 - I might have to be that somebody else. - Third person. 498 00:20:50,291 --> 00:20:52,918 Maybe you can give some advice to Kerri. 499 00:20:53,919 --> 00:20:55,880 And tell her what I've been trying to tell her. 500 00:20:55,963 --> 00:20:58,549 - Tell her what her mom's been trying to tell her. - Mm-hmm. 501 00:20:58,632 --> 00:21:00,718 I might do that. I might. 502 00:21:00,801 --> 00:21:03,304 She might not be happy to hear everything you got to say, 503 00:21:03,429 --> 00:21:06,557 but I think it'll really help. - Mm-hmm. 504 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,934 You got any boxing gloves around Mississippi? 505 00:21:09,977 --> 00:21:11,812 In the event, I need them. 506 00:21:12,980 --> 00:21:15,149 {\an8} Coming up on "Belle Collective." 507 00:21:15,232 --> 00:21:18,319 {\an8} I don't trust you to be my safe space. 508 00:21:18,402 --> 00:21:20,780 {\an8}I don't trust you to give me genuine advice 509 00:21:20,863 --> 00:21:22,656 when it comes to my business. 510 00:21:22,740 --> 00:21:25,993 I don't trust you to just be 100% loyal. 511 00:21:26,118 --> 00:21:28,037 Why the [bleep] am I here. 512 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,670 ♪ When I see her in the club, everything slows down ♪ 513 00:21:36,796 --> 00:21:39,173 ♪ I had to approach her ♪ 514 00:21:39,256 --> 00:21:41,175 ♪ Whispered in her ear, yeah ♪ 515 00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:47,348 {\an8}Now that First is back in place as being my manager, 516 00:21:47,431 --> 00:21:50,893 I can now focus on pushing my brand forward. 517 00:21:51,018 --> 00:21:54,563 My financial advisor suggested that instead of Glen being 518 00:21:54,688 --> 00:21:58,609 my business manager, I should bring him on as my advisor. 519 00:21:58,692 --> 00:22:00,361 And Glen actually agreed to that. 520 00:22:00,486 --> 00:22:02,530 I'm OK with giving it a chance. 521 00:22:04,406 --> 00:22:06,909 {\an8}- Hey. - Hey, hey, hey. 522 00:22:07,034 --> 00:22:08,869 {\an8}- How are you? - I'm good. 523 00:22:08,994 --> 00:22:10,412 I'm good. How you doing? 524 00:22:10,538 --> 00:22:14,542 I'm good, just working a little bit. - As usual. 525 00:22:14,625 --> 00:22:15,960 Yeah. So, I just hung up with First. 526 00:22:16,043 --> 00:22:17,628 I just got an update on everything. 527 00:22:17,711 --> 00:22:19,964 What did you get an update with First on? 528 00:22:20,047 --> 00:22:21,674 I thought he wasn't part of the team. 529 00:22:21,757 --> 00:22:22,842 I told you. 530 00:22:22,925 --> 00:22:24,385 I said, "First took a leave of absence." 531 00:22:24,510 --> 00:22:28,722 Quick question. Was First at your focus group? 532 00:22:28,848 --> 00:22:29,932 - No. - No? 533 00:22:30,057 --> 00:22:31,767 You know, I did put him on a leave of absence 534 00:22:31,892 --> 00:22:33,143 because I want to... 535 00:22:36,021 --> 00:22:37,731 And then he apologized. 536 00:22:37,815 --> 00:22:39,400 He just said, "New him, new me." 537 00:22:39,483 --> 00:22:41,068 Like, we still had loose ends 538 00:22:41,193 --> 00:22:43,195 that we were working on that I told you about. 539 00:22:43,279 --> 00:22:46,448 - Money over disrespect. - You being-- 540 00:22:46,574 --> 00:22:48,242 now, Glen, really. - Hey. 541 00:22:48,367 --> 00:22:51,829 I'm hoping to accomplish an understanding 542 00:22:51,912 --> 00:22:53,581 and a compromise with Glen. 543 00:22:53,706 --> 00:22:55,416 If you're gonna be a part of the team, 544 00:22:55,499 --> 00:22:59,795 then we have to separate business from pleasure. 545 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:00,963 That's you. 546 00:23:01,088 --> 00:23:02,590 You are the business advisor, right? 547 00:23:02,715 --> 00:23:04,174 - I'm the business advisor. - Right. 548 00:23:04,258 --> 00:23:06,594 Where do I fall in the chain of command? 549 00:23:06,719 --> 00:23:12,016 Is it you, Donald, First, Ashley, 550 00:23:12,099 --> 00:23:15,644 the pet, grass, worms? - What? 551 00:23:15,769 --> 00:23:18,856 Anything that's life and dangling? 552 00:23:19,899 --> 00:23:23,444 - How did that look? - So basically, you have me... 553 00:23:24,695 --> 00:23:25,654 Lateshia. 554 00:23:26,655 --> 00:23:27,865 First of all, gotta put God up here, 555 00:23:27,948 --> 00:23:29,950 all before all things, the brand. 556 00:23:30,034 --> 00:23:32,786 And then, right under the brand, 557 00:23:32,912 --> 00:23:36,123 we have the business advisor. 558 00:23:36,206 --> 00:23:37,416 Why you can't put Glen? 559 00:23:37,499 --> 00:23:38,626 See, that right there is one thing 560 00:23:38,709 --> 00:23:40,127 that's not allowed in the brand. 561 00:23:40,210 --> 00:23:41,295 That's selfishness. 562 00:23:41,378 --> 00:23:44,048 - That's prohibited, OK? - Oh, [bleep]-- selfishness. 563 00:23:44,131 --> 00:23:45,424 Selfishness. X that out. 564 00:23:45,507 --> 00:23:47,509 Get it out your mind. Would you like to proceed? 565 00:23:47,635 --> 00:23:49,011 - Go ahead. - So, do you want to write it? 566 00:23:50,012 --> 00:23:51,305 - I mean... - Your ideas? 567 00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:53,307 Yes, for sure. Brainstorm. 568 00:23:53,432 --> 00:23:54,892 - OK. - Brainstorm away. 569 00:23:54,975 --> 00:23:56,518 - Got it? - Thank you-- I got it. 570 00:23:56,644 --> 00:24:00,314 Other than the branding and the networking, 571 00:24:00,397 --> 00:24:04,276 I feel like you're gorgeous, you're beautiful. 572 00:24:04,360 --> 00:24:08,614 - Aww. - Only speaking, what about, like, modeling? 573 00:24:08,697 --> 00:24:10,950 - Like, plus-size modeling? - Plus-size modeling. 574 00:24:11,033 --> 00:24:13,494 - I didn't wanna say plus. - I love me. 575 00:24:13,619 --> 00:24:14,828 As you should. 576 00:24:14,954 --> 00:24:18,040 I'm doing some enhancements, of course. 577 00:24:18,165 --> 00:24:19,792 I'm gonna do chin lipo. 578 00:24:19,875 --> 00:24:23,671 Then I can go and have, like, full-body surgery. 579 00:24:23,754 --> 00:24:25,255 - What? - Yeah. 580 00:24:25,339 --> 00:24:26,840 I just wanna do everything right now. 581 00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:28,258 I'm in a season of me. 582 00:24:28,342 --> 00:24:30,094 Like, if I wanna just do it, I'm just gonna do it. 583 00:24:30,177 --> 00:24:33,138 - What are your thoughts? - You done lost your damn mind. 584 00:24:34,348 --> 00:24:36,809 I've decided now is the time to move forward 585 00:24:36,892 --> 00:24:40,145 with cosmetic surgery. I have PCOS. 586 00:24:40,229 --> 00:24:43,691 My weight fluctuates so bad, and I just wanna take 587 00:24:43,774 --> 00:24:47,152 another step in my health journey. 588 00:24:47,236 --> 00:24:49,238 I disagree with the cosmetic surgery. 589 00:24:49,363 --> 00:24:51,198 It's gonna bring unwanted attention, 590 00:24:51,323 --> 00:24:53,117 and you already know who you married to. 591 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,536 If God can't make you happy, how can I? 592 00:24:55,661 --> 00:24:57,371 Why don't you want me to have surgery? 593 00:24:57,454 --> 00:25:00,249 The intimacy. You just came off the celibacy [bleep]. 594 00:25:00,374 --> 00:25:01,667 - Do you feel cleansed? - I feel amazing. 595 00:25:01,750 --> 00:25:03,127 Well, there's no need for you to go have surgery. 596 00:25:03,210 --> 00:25:04,128 - You're clean. - I feel amazing. 597 00:25:04,211 --> 00:25:05,713 No. No. 598 00:25:05,796 --> 00:25:07,548 That has nothing to do with anything. 599 00:25:07,673 --> 00:25:10,300 Ending the celibacy was a way for me 600 00:25:10,384 --> 00:25:13,220 to try to reconnect with Glen. 601 00:25:13,345 --> 00:25:15,389 I regret ending the celibacy 602 00:25:15,514 --> 00:25:19,893 'cause we're back at step one again with the tension. 603 00:25:20,019 --> 00:25:21,729 Do you not like me working? 604 00:25:21,854 --> 00:25:23,230 I don't have a problem with you working. 605 00:25:23,313 --> 00:25:24,898 It's just... 606 00:25:25,024 --> 00:25:27,985 you make moves I don't know anything about. 607 00:25:28,068 --> 00:25:31,572 You used to call me 100 times on that boat and ask me, 608 00:25:31,655 --> 00:25:32,906 "Hey, what do you think about this? 609 00:25:33,032 --> 00:25:35,075 What's your thought on it? Am I lying?" 610 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,746 And you wanna know why? Because I trusted you then. 611 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,750 And right now, I don't. 612 00:25:42,875 --> 00:25:46,086 I don't trust you to be my safe space. 613 00:25:46,211 --> 00:25:48,380 I don't trust you to protect my heart. 614 00:25:48,464 --> 00:25:51,091 I don't trust you to give me genuine advice 615 00:25:51,175 --> 00:25:53,052 when it comes to my business. 616 00:25:53,135 --> 00:25:56,513 I don't trust you to just be 100% loyal. 617 00:25:56,597 --> 00:25:59,600 - Why the [bleep] am I here? - That's what I'm working on. 618 00:25:59,725 --> 00:26:01,977 Why am I here then? Why am I here? 619 00:26:02,102 --> 00:26:03,937 Did I ask "Why am I here?" when you said, 620 00:26:04,063 --> 00:26:06,648 you want this structure to me to just be stay-home. - Let me-- let me-- let me-- 621 00:26:06,774 --> 00:26:09,026 let me-- . - You always use that as an excuse when I say, 622 00:26:09,109 --> 00:26:11,278 "This is what I'm having," and I be just, 623 00:26:11,361 --> 00:26:13,155 "Well, why am I here? Well, Lateshia, let's just get a divorce." 624 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,449 - It's like, that's it. - I don't know what else to do. 625 00:26:15,574 --> 00:26:18,202 I have made the changes. What else can I do? 626 00:26:18,285 --> 00:26:22,331 - And that is built-- - Sometimes it's easier to start over. 627 00:26:25,626 --> 00:26:27,377 {\an8} Coming up on "Belle Collective." 628 00:26:27,461 --> 00:26:30,089 {\an8}I don't wanna wait too long to have kids 629 00:26:30,172 --> 00:26:31,632 {\an8}and not be able to have kids. 630 00:26:31,757 --> 00:26:34,968 {\an8}So, do you truly feel like you're ready? 631 00:26:37,471 --> 00:26:41,141 Could you explain to me exactly what a postnup is? 632 00:26:41,225 --> 00:26:44,311 It doesn't mean that you're headed for a divorce, 633 00:26:44,394 --> 00:26:46,814 unless you are. Are you thinking about? 634 00:26:49,191 --> 00:26:50,943 - Hey. - Hi. 635 00:26:51,026 --> 00:26:53,654 - What's going on? - I heard my name. 636 00:26:53,737 --> 00:26:58,492 We are all talking about eliminating outside noise. 637 00:26:58,617 --> 00:27:01,995 And here comes outside noise walking right through the door. 638 00:27:05,457 --> 00:27:07,709 ♪ When I come walking down the street ♪ 639 00:27:10,629 --> 00:27:12,047 Don't drive too fast 'cause I don't need my hair 640 00:27:12,172 --> 00:27:14,216 blowing out of place. 641 00:27:14,341 --> 00:27:17,511 {\an8}The Airbnbs are pretty much 95% complete. 642 00:27:17,636 --> 00:27:20,681 {\an8}The only thing that's left is just the last-minute touch up, 643 00:27:20,806 --> 00:27:23,809 {\an8}take the pictures, and list them on Airbnb. 644 00:27:23,892 --> 00:27:26,436 {\an8}This is on 300-acre property, so we got one single cabin 645 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,188 {\an8}before you get to the gate. 646 00:27:28,313 --> 00:27:31,525 {\an8}Then we got the other big lot, you know, zone, 647 00:27:31,608 --> 00:27:34,236 {\an8}it's probably about like 500 yards from the house. 648 00:27:34,361 --> 00:27:36,071 {\an8}It's like five football fields. 649 00:27:36,196 --> 00:27:38,574 {\an8} There's a lake. It's just so much privacy. 650 00:27:38,699 --> 00:27:39,825 {\an8}It's so secluded. 651 00:27:39,908 --> 00:27:42,244 {\an8}So we're here today just checking on everything, 652 00:27:42,369 --> 00:27:45,164 making sure that everything goes as planned. 653 00:27:45,247 --> 00:27:47,708 And I'm anticipating my mom stopping by today. 654 00:27:47,833 --> 00:27:49,209 I'm super excited. 655 00:27:49,334 --> 00:27:50,544 Everything looks so good. 656 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:52,754 Got everything done. 657 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,132 Still have to put a few more coffee cups, 658 00:27:55,215 --> 00:27:59,428 paper towel dispensers. But everything looks good. 659 00:27:59,553 --> 00:28:00,846 - Whatever you want. - Latrice! 660 00:28:00,929 --> 00:28:02,556 - Cliff. - It will be a... 661 00:28:02,681 --> 00:28:03,724 Is that my mom? 662 00:28:03,807 --> 00:28:06,810 - Where is everybody? - Hi, Mother! 663 00:28:06,894 --> 00:28:08,562 {\an8}- Come on, , Latrice. - Hi, girl! 664 00:28:08,645 --> 00:28:10,105 {\an8}Where is your clothes, girl? 665 00:28:10,230 --> 00:28:13,400 {\an8}Child, listen, trying to do a little workout. 666 00:28:13,525 --> 00:28:16,153 - I got to show you the Airbnb. - I got to run, so y'all get-- 667 00:28:16,236 --> 00:28:17,571 I got other stuff I got to get done. 668 00:28:17,696 --> 00:28:18,864 What you got to get done? 669 00:28:18,947 --> 00:28:20,115 A lot of stuff. 670 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,283 OK. 671 00:28:21,408 --> 00:28:23,911 Anytime there's a new venture, I always have to get 672 00:28:23,994 --> 00:28:25,412 my mom's approval. 673 00:28:25,495 --> 00:28:27,414 I'm super excited to show her exactly 674 00:28:27,497 --> 00:28:28,749 what I've been working on. 675 00:28:28,874 --> 00:28:31,251 - Oh, it is lovely. - I know. 676 00:28:31,376 --> 00:28:33,921 I think we need to put like a rug or something in here. 677 00:28:34,046 --> 00:28:37,007 Yes, you do. But it is beautiful. 678 00:28:37,090 --> 00:28:39,593 Let me get us some blankets so we can sit outside 679 00:28:39,676 --> 00:28:41,220 and catch up. 680 00:28:41,303 --> 00:28:43,472 I wanna talk to my mom because the things 681 00:28:43,597 --> 00:28:45,641 that my husband said on the double date 682 00:28:45,766 --> 00:28:48,185 with the Pearsons really bothered me. 683 00:28:48,268 --> 00:28:51,480 The fact that he now does not want a child, 684 00:28:51,605 --> 00:28:53,523 I definitely feel some type of way. 685 00:28:53,607 --> 00:28:56,610 My mom is the only one that I can express these feelings to. 686 00:28:56,735 --> 00:29:01,073 How you is with your so-called friend Belle, women's? 687 00:29:01,156 --> 00:29:05,202 Well, Tambra had an event because all the girls, 688 00:29:05,285 --> 00:29:08,372 you know, they want everybody to be so transparent. 689 00:29:08,455 --> 00:29:10,457 To me, they just want to be nosey 690 00:29:10,540 --> 00:29:12,084 and be in everybody's business. 691 00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:15,462 But they basically called Tambra out so bad, 692 00:29:15,587 --> 00:29:17,631 so she, so I guess she felt like she had to do 693 00:29:17,756 --> 00:29:20,384 a get-to-know-me, uh, event. 694 00:29:20,467 --> 00:29:25,347 But her baby came out in the end, and it was so cute. 695 00:29:25,472 --> 00:29:30,143 My biggest accomplishment! 696 00:29:31,895 --> 00:29:33,981 I just wanted to take her home with me. 697 00:29:34,106 --> 00:29:35,649 It makes you feel some type of way. 698 00:29:35,732 --> 00:29:36,817 Yeah. 699 00:29:36,942 --> 00:29:39,194 Kids have never been at my forefront, 700 00:29:39,319 --> 00:29:42,281 and my husband had been asking for years to have 701 00:29:42,364 --> 00:29:44,032 a baby, have a family, have kids. 702 00:29:44,157 --> 00:29:47,369 He always been, like, harassing me about children. 703 00:29:47,494 --> 00:29:51,999 So now that I do want a baby, he's like, "I don't wanna have kids." 704 00:29:52,124 --> 00:29:55,502 He even joked about having a vasectomy. 705 00:29:55,627 --> 00:29:58,380 You're not going to stop doing what you do to get the baby. 706 00:29:58,505 --> 00:30:01,133 - There's things I can do. - No, you can't. 707 00:30:01,216 --> 00:30:02,342 - That's right. - No. 708 00:30:02,467 --> 00:30:05,512 So what makes you wanna just have a child? 709 00:30:05,637 --> 00:30:07,055 You know, like with you, 710 00:30:07,180 --> 00:30:08,724 you have grandkids, you have children. 711 00:30:08,849 --> 00:30:10,767 We all come to your house for holidays. 712 00:30:10,851 --> 00:30:13,854 I just feel like that's something that I would want, 713 00:30:13,937 --> 00:30:16,356 and I don't wanna wait too long to have kids 714 00:30:16,481 --> 00:30:18,191 and not be able to have kids, you know. 715 00:30:18,317 --> 00:30:21,403 So do you truly feel like you're ready? 716 00:30:21,528 --> 00:30:22,946 I don't truly feel like I'm ready. 717 00:30:23,030 --> 00:30:24,740 We're just talking about it. 718 00:30:24,865 --> 00:30:27,034 For one, I'm numb when it comes to expressing my feelings 719 00:30:27,117 --> 00:30:29,161 to my husband. - Why? 720 00:30:29,244 --> 00:30:32,789 You know, I think growing up, after you left Dad, 721 00:30:32,873 --> 00:30:34,541 a lot happened, you know. 722 00:30:34,624 --> 00:30:36,418 From-- we had to go from house to house. 723 00:30:36,543 --> 00:30:39,379 Police is kicking in the door. You losing sons. 724 00:30:39,463 --> 00:30:41,673 Of course, we not in the hood anymore but just growing up 725 00:30:41,757 --> 00:30:43,342 in the hood, seeing so much. 726 00:30:43,425 --> 00:30:46,511 You had a hard life growing up, 727 00:30:46,595 --> 00:30:49,973 and I tried to do the best that I could. 728 00:30:50,057 --> 00:30:53,810 Anything that y'all had to have, I had to strap to get it, 729 00:30:53,894 --> 00:30:55,228 but I got it. 730 00:30:55,312 --> 00:30:58,774 But one thing you told me, you said, "Mom, when I grow up, 731 00:30:58,899 --> 00:31:00,025 "I'm gonna go to college, 732 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,445 and I'm gonna do something with my life." 733 00:31:03,570 --> 00:31:05,864 Went to college, made something out of yourself, 734 00:31:05,947 --> 00:31:08,033 and I'm very proud of you. 735 00:31:08,116 --> 00:31:11,036 - I am very proud of you. - Thank you, Mother. 736 00:31:12,204 --> 00:31:14,539 That means a lot, you saying that. 737 00:31:14,623 --> 00:31:17,209 Hearing my mom say that she's proud of me has been 738 00:31:17,292 --> 00:31:21,838 something that I've been wanting to hear since a little girl. 739 00:31:21,922 --> 00:31:25,592 My mom is what drives me. I wanna make her proud. 740 00:31:25,717 --> 00:31:28,762 {\an8}And if she approves anything that I do, 741 00:31:28,845 --> 00:31:31,473 that means that I did my job. 742 00:31:31,598 --> 00:31:34,267 Like, I know he can be a great father. 743 00:31:34,393 --> 00:31:36,770 So y'all just gonna have to sit down and talk? 744 00:31:36,895 --> 00:31:39,272 Well, you have to have a conversation with him. 745 00:31:39,356 --> 00:31:41,108 Well, you know, he always listen to you, 746 00:31:41,191 --> 00:31:43,443 so maybe when you talk to him, 747 00:31:43,568 --> 00:31:46,196 he'll have a different story, a different tune. 748 00:31:46,279 --> 00:31:49,116 It's very hard for me to be vulnerable with my husband, 749 00:31:49,241 --> 00:31:51,284 but I feel like my mom can reach him 750 00:31:51,410 --> 00:31:52,953 in ways that I cannot. 751 00:31:53,078 --> 00:31:55,163 He listens to her, he values her opinion, 752 00:31:55,288 --> 00:31:58,875 and he respects her, so I think that she can get more 753 00:31:58,959 --> 00:32:00,085 out of him than me. 754 00:32:00,168 --> 00:32:01,628 So what you want, a boy or a girl? 755 00:32:03,213 --> 00:32:07,843 I want a boy. I want a little junior. 756 00:32:07,968 --> 00:32:10,637 We gonna call him CJ, Clifton Junior, girl. 757 00:32:10,762 --> 00:32:13,557 - Mm-hmm, OK. - And if we have a girl, it's Cliffarella. 758 00:32:14,724 --> 00:32:17,269 - I hope not. - Or Gloritha, girl, I got you. 759 00:32:21,314 --> 00:32:22,899 ♪ I'm in the zone, pressure make a diamond out of coal 760 00:32:22,983 --> 00:32:24,317 ♪ Pressure make you cold ♪ 761 00:32:24,401 --> 00:32:26,319 ♪ Pressure when it pile up, make you fold ♪ 762 00:32:26,445 --> 00:32:29,489 {\an8}Teshia have spoke to a financial advisor. 763 00:32:29,614 --> 00:32:32,659 {\an8}She's been speaking to a lot of people without my knowledge. 764 00:32:32,742 --> 00:32:36,037 So today, Glendale got something up his sleeve. 765 00:32:36,163 --> 00:32:39,416 So I decided to go talk to an attorney as well. 766 00:32:39,499 --> 00:32:42,043 Just to get some clarity about a postnup. 767 00:32:42,169 --> 00:32:44,880 - Hello, Mr. Pearson. - Yes, ma'am. 768 00:32:45,005 --> 00:32:46,965 {\an8}Thank you for reaching out. Good. 769 00:32:47,048 --> 00:32:48,800 {\an8}- Good to meet you. - Yes, ma'am. 770 00:32:48,884 --> 00:32:50,385 {\an8}Yes, ma'am. Same, same, same. 771 00:32:51,386 --> 00:32:55,682 - What brings you by today? - A lot. 772 00:32:55,807 --> 00:32:58,351 Let me just give you a rundown of everything. 773 00:32:58,477 --> 00:33:01,646 I've been with my wife for going on 18 years. 774 00:33:01,730 --> 00:33:03,523 Been together for 23. 775 00:33:03,648 --> 00:33:06,485 I'm confused because the other day she hit me 776 00:33:06,568 --> 00:33:09,488 with she wants me to sign a postnup. - OK. 777 00:33:09,571 --> 00:33:13,033 Could you explain to me exactly what a postnup is? 778 00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:17,704 You're just trying to define financial responsibilities 779 00:33:17,787 --> 00:33:21,958 and certain things that you want to try to align 780 00:33:22,042 --> 00:33:23,877 and have insight about... - OK. 781 00:33:24,002 --> 00:33:26,505 ...regarding your finances and your assets 782 00:33:26,588 --> 00:33:31,343 as soon as possible, just in case of separation, 783 00:33:31,426 --> 00:33:33,553 you know, or divorce. - Mm-hmm. 784 00:33:33,637 --> 00:33:36,806 It doesn't mean that you're headed for a divorce, 785 00:33:36,890 --> 00:33:39,226 unless you are. Are you thinking about? 786 00:33:45,774 --> 00:33:48,318 {\an8}♪ You can't take what I have, you cannot get what I want ♪ 787 00:33:48,401 --> 00:33:49,945 ♪ You might see me in the mag ♪ 788 00:33:50,070 --> 00:33:51,404 ♪ And think that I'm here to flaunt ♪ 789 00:33:51,530 --> 00:33:52,822 ♪ You haven't been where I've been ♪ 790 00:33:52,906 --> 00:33:55,617 ♪ Might make it easy to taunt but Imma say it again ♪ 791 00:33:55,742 --> 00:33:57,244 ♪ You cannot get what I want ♪ 792 00:33:57,369 --> 00:33:58,370 Hi. 793 00:33:58,453 --> 00:33:59,829 {\an8}I'm well. 794 00:33:59,913 --> 00:34:00,914 {\an8}How are you? 795 00:34:02,415 --> 00:34:03,542 {\an8}I have a large party. 796 00:34:03,625 --> 00:34:05,961 {\an8}Today is the day for me to get 797 00:34:06,086 --> 00:34:08,547 all of the ladies together so we can address 798 00:34:08,630 --> 00:34:12,217 all of the outside noise, including Shante. 799 00:34:12,300 --> 00:34:15,345 ♪ Rowdy, rowdy, in the outie, why you looking pouty, pouty?♪ 800 00:34:15,428 --> 00:34:19,099 - Don't you look fabulous? - Thank you, you too. 801 00:34:19,182 --> 00:34:21,184 {\an8}♪ It's supposed to be a party, ain't it? ♪ 802 00:34:21,268 --> 00:34:22,769 Mwah! 803 00:34:22,894 --> 00:34:24,396 I know. 804 00:34:24,479 --> 00:34:25,939 You've been missing in action, girl. 805 00:34:26,064 --> 00:34:27,148 Where you been? 806 00:34:27,274 --> 00:34:29,317 - Miss M-I-A, Colombia, honey. - Exactly. 807 00:34:29,442 --> 00:34:32,612 ♪ The night is right for living our best life, best life ♪ 808 00:34:32,696 --> 00:34:34,948 Hey, baby. Good to see you. 809 00:34:35,031 --> 00:34:37,367 I've been waiting . 810 00:34:39,703 --> 00:34:42,497 {\an8}I cannot believe that that hater, Marie, 811 00:34:42,622 --> 00:34:45,458 tried to call me a flip-flopper in a group chat. 812 00:34:45,542 --> 00:34:48,128 She thinks she's witty, but, baby, I rule the game 813 00:34:48,211 --> 00:34:49,838 of tongues, OK? 814 00:34:49,963 --> 00:34:53,174 And, yes, this Gulf Coast Belle will be showing up, 815 00:34:53,300 --> 00:34:57,053 and this time in my Louboutins and not my flip-flops. 816 00:34:57,137 --> 00:35:00,390 - Hey, girl. - Hey, boo. 817 00:35:00,473 --> 00:35:02,309 Oh, I'm loving the new smile, baby. 818 00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:04,477 Thank you. Oh, my God. 819 00:35:04,603 --> 00:35:07,480 {\an8}It feels so good to be supported in this moment. 820 00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:08,815 {\an8}Lateshia's talking about 821 00:35:08,940 --> 00:35:10,734 she cannot stop looking at my smile. 822 00:35:10,817 --> 00:35:12,902 She cannot stop looking at my teeth. 823 00:35:12,986 --> 00:35:15,864 And I know all of these Belles was wondering how I was going 824 00:35:15,989 --> 00:35:19,492 to come back. And I'm just smiling. 825 00:35:19,576 --> 00:35:21,411 You see that, right? OK. 826 00:35:22,495 --> 00:35:24,039 Thank y'all for coming. 827 00:35:24,164 --> 00:35:26,249 And actually, you know, me and Latrice, 828 00:35:26,333 --> 00:35:31,004 she took me out, took me outside. - What? 829 00:35:31,129 --> 00:35:33,632 You know, I told her, you know, I wanted her here 830 00:35:33,715 --> 00:35:36,301 so we can all, you know, just come together and talk. 831 00:35:36,384 --> 00:35:39,012 I know we're moving forward as a Collective, and it was a big 832 00:35:39,137 --> 00:35:41,848 step in Tambra letting us get to know London Simone. 833 00:35:41,973 --> 00:35:43,558 That was everything. 834 00:35:43,683 --> 00:35:47,354 So that kind of solidified everything and just validated 835 00:35:47,437 --> 00:35:50,357 that, hey, we are moving forward as a Collective. 836 00:35:50,482 --> 00:35:51,524 - I love it. - I love it. 837 00:35:51,650 --> 00:35:54,319 As you all know, it has been a lot of outside noise 838 00:35:54,402 --> 00:35:56,363 in the past that I want us to... 839 00:35:57,530 --> 00:35:59,574 eliminate. - Why are we starting, where-- 840 00:35:59,699 --> 00:36:02,869 like, where's Latrice? - Latrice decided not to come. 841 00:36:02,952 --> 00:36:04,871 I wish Latrice was here. 842 00:36:04,996 --> 00:36:07,123 I did not tell most of the Belles 843 00:36:07,207 --> 00:36:10,377 that I invited Shante. Not just yet. 844 00:36:10,460 --> 00:36:12,087 - I feel like we're in a good place. - Mm-hmm. 845 00:36:12,212 --> 00:36:16,466 We all have our own friends, and we do support each other. 846 00:36:16,549 --> 00:36:20,637 - Mm-hmm. - So let's just say if Lateshia have an event, 847 00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:22,889 of course Shante is her friend. - Mm-hmm. 848 00:36:23,014 --> 00:36:24,891 She's been her friend since grade school. 849 00:36:24,974 --> 00:36:26,476 - She's going to invite her friend. - Right. 850 00:36:26,559 --> 00:36:28,353 So if Shante coming, OK, let's just say 851 00:36:28,436 --> 00:36:30,480 Tambra may not like Shante. 852 00:36:30,563 --> 00:36:32,816 Or if Latrice not feeling Shante, OK, they're not 853 00:36:32,899 --> 00:36:35,443 going to come and support you because she's present. 854 00:36:35,568 --> 00:36:37,737 So what do you do in a situation like that? 855 00:36:37,821 --> 00:36:40,240 Do what I did. I came to the give back. 856 00:36:40,365 --> 00:36:42,575 - And Amanda was there. - Yeah, she was. 857 00:36:42,659 --> 00:36:44,703 And I was there to support Latrice 858 00:36:44,786 --> 00:36:48,039 in what we're doing and moved on. 859 00:36:48,123 --> 00:36:49,666 I know this is your friend. 860 00:36:49,749 --> 00:36:52,669 I told you guys how I felt the first time that I ever 861 00:36:52,752 --> 00:36:54,337 sat down with Shante. 862 00:36:54,421 --> 00:36:56,005 And she brings me BS. 863 00:36:56,089 --> 00:36:59,050 The information was brought to me basically saying that, 864 00:36:59,134 --> 00:37:00,468 you know, her and Demond are not together. 865 00:37:00,593 --> 00:37:02,345 They're basically two friends that decided 866 00:37:02,429 --> 00:37:03,722 that they want to have a baby. 867 00:37:03,805 --> 00:37:06,224 So I think that's being messy. 868 00:37:06,307 --> 00:37:08,727 Then on top of that, we've heard 869 00:37:08,810 --> 00:37:11,563 that she has talked about Lateshia. 870 00:37:13,064 --> 00:37:15,442 And that to me, that's not a friend. 871 00:37:16,943 --> 00:37:19,988 I have heard that y'all had broken up the friendship 872 00:37:20,113 --> 00:37:21,865 and you guys got back together. 873 00:37:21,948 --> 00:37:24,534 I heard that she felt like you were trying to get back 874 00:37:24,617 --> 00:37:26,703 having a friendship with her because she has a new house 875 00:37:26,786 --> 00:37:28,121 and you wanted to do things at her house. 876 00:37:28,204 --> 00:37:30,248 - Because she said, you were broke. - What? 877 00:37:30,331 --> 00:37:32,792 She said that you borrowed money for your reunion dress 878 00:37:32,917 --> 00:37:34,627 from her because you did not have any money. 879 00:37:34,753 --> 00:37:37,005 How are you? You look handsome as always. 880 00:37:37,130 --> 00:37:38,506 You look gorgeous as always. 881 00:37:38,631 --> 00:37:39,924 I'm definitely shocked. 882 00:37:40,008 --> 00:37:43,011 I'm confused as to where is this information coming from 883 00:37:43,136 --> 00:37:44,512 because none of this is true. 884 00:37:44,637 --> 00:37:46,973 It does put us in an awkward position because you just said 885 00:37:47,098 --> 00:37:48,892 you all have been friends for so many years. - Yeah. 886 00:37:48,975 --> 00:37:50,101 We don't know her. 887 00:37:50,185 --> 00:37:52,562 So if we're moving forward and we're resetting, 888 00:37:52,645 --> 00:37:55,273 we got to keep other people out. - Exactly. 889 00:37:55,356 --> 00:37:57,734 After all the Collective has gone through, 890 00:37:57,817 --> 00:38:00,904 I finally feel like that we're all on the same page. 891 00:38:00,987 --> 00:38:05,325 {\an8}The Collective is finally going in the same direction. 892 00:38:05,408 --> 00:38:11,206 {\an8}It does feel like the Collective is trying to move forward. 893 00:38:11,331 --> 00:38:15,168 We just need to eliminate the outside noise. 894 00:38:15,293 --> 00:38:20,590 The outsiders are always the ones coming in with mess, 895 00:38:20,673 --> 00:38:25,053 drama, gossip, and we just need to eliminate it all together. 896 00:38:25,178 --> 00:38:27,347 {\an8}- Hey. - Hi. 897 00:38:27,472 --> 00:38:29,474 {\an8}- What's going on? - I heard my name. 898 00:38:32,018 --> 00:38:34,187 Hey, baby. I invited Shante here. 899 00:38:34,312 --> 00:38:35,855 Hi, Selena. 900 00:38:35,980 --> 00:38:38,566 - Hello, beautiful. - Hey, girl. 901 00:38:38,691 --> 00:38:39,943 Hi, Kerri Berry. 902 00:38:40,985 --> 00:38:42,278 - Hi, Tambra. - Oh you going down the whole. 903 00:38:42,362 --> 00:38:43,363 Hey. 904 00:38:44,656 --> 00:38:46,741 Now, listen. 905 00:38:46,866 --> 00:38:51,913 We are all talking about eliminating outside noise. 906 00:38:52,038 --> 00:38:55,208 And here comes outside noise walking right through the door. 907 00:39:02,715 --> 00:39:04,676 - How are you? - Good, good, good. 908 00:39:04,759 --> 00:39:07,220 - You look pretty. - Y'all look pretty. 909 00:39:07,303 --> 00:39:10,765 - Nice to see y'all. - Nice to see you too. 910 00:39:10,890 --> 00:39:12,100 {\an8}Nice to be seen. 911 00:39:16,729 --> 00:39:17,730 {\an8}Are you leaving? 912 00:39:17,814 --> 00:39:18,731 - Yes. - Tambra. 913 00:39:18,815 --> 00:39:21,317 We just talked about the Collective 914 00:39:21,401 --> 00:39:23,862 and being a Collective, and now we have a Belle 915 00:39:23,945 --> 00:39:28,408 who doesn't want to be around because of outside noise. 916 00:39:28,491 --> 00:39:30,326 Tambra instantly jumped up. You know what? 917 00:39:30,410 --> 00:39:31,578 I'm not doing this. I'm leaving. 918 00:39:31,661 --> 00:39:33,580 Latrice is not here, and I'm not doing this. 919 00:39:33,705 --> 00:39:35,582 And respectfully so. Rightfully so. 920 00:39:35,707 --> 00:39:36,666 I get it. 921 00:39:36,749 --> 00:39:38,751 So somebody does have to stand up for her. 922 00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:40,879 So now you want to stand up, but you didn't stand up for my friend. 923 00:39:40,962 --> 00:39:43,006 - Now you right-- now I am standing up Shante. - Who are you yelling at? 924 00:39:43,089 --> 00:39:45,049 - Who are you yelling at? - Because first of all, let me tell you. 925 00:39:45,133 --> 00:39:46,301 Get your finger out my face! 926 00:39:48,761 --> 00:39:50,930 - You want a spotlight. - I don't want-- 927 00:39:51,055 --> 00:39:52,724 baby I already have a spotlight. 928 00:39:52,807 --> 00:39:55,727 {\an8}- Don't play with me. - Westside Tam is activated. 929 00:39:55,810 --> 00:39:57,353 {\an8}Now her and Shante going at it. 930 00:39:57,437 --> 00:39:59,939 And Lord have mercy, what are we doing here? 931 00:40:00,023 --> 00:40:02,191 This is a luncheon. 932 00:40:02,275 --> 00:40:04,861 Oh, in everything that you're doing. 933 00:40:04,944 --> 00:40:06,446 She's not a Belle. I'm sorry. 934 00:40:06,529 --> 00:40:07,447 She's not. 935 00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:08,781 We're supposed to be a Collective. 936 00:40:08,907 --> 00:40:11,951 Latrice is not here. 937 00:40:12,035 --> 00:40:16,748 Latrice has actually been one of the Belles who has 938 00:40:16,831 --> 00:40:22,503 consistently checked on me during the entire time my dad 939 00:40:22,629 --> 00:40:25,673 was in the hospital. Latrice is not here. 940 00:40:25,798 --> 00:40:29,302 Therefore, I need to leave as well. 941 00:40:29,385 --> 00:40:31,471 One band, one sound. 942 00:40:31,596 --> 00:40:32,972 Can't even tell me what the issue is. 943 00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:34,766 She's making up stuff. 944 00:40:34,849 --> 00:40:36,601 Kerri, she's making up stuff. 945 00:40:36,684 --> 00:40:38,770 I've never said anything like that. 946 00:40:38,853 --> 00:40:40,647 {\an8} So don't-- don't do that. 947 00:40:40,772 --> 00:40:43,816 {\an8} Coming up this season on Belle Collective." 948 00:40:44,859 --> 00:40:46,778 I've been in this family since 1998. 949 00:40:46,861 --> 00:40:50,239 And if you want to stay in it, you got to start respecting me. 950 00:40:50,323 --> 00:40:51,699 No. Hell no! 951 00:40:51,824 --> 00:40:53,660 Now, that's a dress. 952 00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:55,828 Selena has a number of things 953 00:40:55,912 --> 00:40:59,082 that have not been done for this wedding. 954 00:40:59,165 --> 00:41:01,000 She doesn't have a venue, a caterer. 955 00:41:01,084 --> 00:41:03,086 {\an8}I don't know if it's going to be all right or not. 956 00:41:03,169 --> 00:41:05,004 {\an8}- Don't want to be. - Then [bleep] you. 957 00:41:05,129 --> 00:41:06,923 {\an8}Nah, if you ain't [bleep] me you gotta to make a baby. 958 00:41:07,006 --> 00:41:09,717 {\an8}Should I be expecting divorce papers? 959 00:41:09,842 --> 00:41:11,844 {\an8}Listen, we can't keep circling the drain. 960 00:41:11,970 --> 00:41:13,930 {\an8}I will whoop her. Do not play with me today. 961 00:41:14,013 --> 00:41:16,599 {\an8}- Marie you have said it. Kerri is a liar. - Uh-uh. 962 00:41:16,683 --> 00:41:18,142 {\an8}Say what you mean and mean what you say. 963 00:41:18,226 --> 00:41:20,186 {\an8}Don't tell me nothing a mother[bleep] say. 964 00:41:20,269 --> 00:41:23,356 {\an8}- Hey-- hey. - You tell me what you heard me say?