[hip hop music plays] ♪ Yeah! Think before you talk ♪
♪ I've been counting all the seconds On the clock ♪
♪ I'm a force to be feared To be feared ♪
♪ I cannot be stopped Yeah, yeah ♪
♪ I'm a force to be feared Yeah, yeah ♪
♪ I cannot be stopped Uh ♪
-[Florent] I'm ready. -We're doing yoga?
-[Anna] Yes. -[Kane] Have you done yoga in your life?
I did it once.
[chuckles] What kind of yoga? Like, sleepy yoga, or like,
stretching yoga, or like, Power yoga?
There's so many types of yoga.
I don't know. I did it with Russell Brand.
Show us what you know.
-[Anna grunts] -[Florent] Naked yoga…
-[Anna] Wait. We haven't-- -Anna, what are you doing? Go! [laughs]
-Guys, be serious. -Oh, hello.
I have a yoga teacher. There's my teacher.
So, I was thinking, what could we do besides spa day, spa day, spa day?
And I was talking to my girlfriend, and she said,
"Anna, why not do yoga? Have a yoga instructor."
-[Kane] This is your yoga teacher? -[Anna] Yes, because--
-I'm Kane. Nice to meet you. -[yoga teacher] How you doing?
[Florent, in French] You never get bored with Anna.
Any experience that might seem normal to your average person
becomes a life experience with Anna.
[laughs]
[yoga teacher] Exhale through your nose.
[all exhale]
[yoga teacher] Go to a slight bend in the knees.
Reach all the way up. Palms parallel.
From here, palms out,
keeping the knees straight, reaching down towards the toes.
[Anna] I can't reach.
[doorbell rings repeatedly]
Sorry, sorry.
-[Anna] Hey. You look cute. -[Christine] Hello.
Oh my goodness. Do you wear yoga clothes with diamonds every day?
-[Anna] Yes. -[Kane] Christine, what are you wearing?
-Oh, it's yoga class! -[Kane laughs]
-No one told me it was yoga class. -It was a last-minute thing.
I thought I was coming for cocktails. I didn't get the memo for yoga.
When Christine called me out at the party that she had,
I was extremely shocked.
I know that in the crowd
we have some anally-enthusiastic folk.
-[friends laugh] -And… [laughs]
-Anna. -What?
-[friends laugh] -Me?
Do you recommend, um, me doing yoga in this attire,
or do you have something you'd like me to wear?
Sure.
I'm actually very disappointed in myself
for not second-guessing Anna's invitation.
-Bathrobe or leggings. -Leggings, of course.
She invited me over for some friendly cocktails.
I should have read that as,
"I'm going to kill you, Christine." [chuckles]
All right, kids.
-[Anna] You're gonna yoga in that? -Yoga Gaultier style.
-Let's do this. Do you mind? -Oh, you'd like for me to help you.
-Okay, sure. -[Christine] Thank you, sir.
[yoga teacher] Let me see.
-Keep your hand on my shoulder. -[Christine] I'll back up-- Okay.
-Thank you. -[yoga teacher] You're welcome.
[Christine] Okay, Anna.
There are consequences to everything in life.
[yoga teacher] Okay, I'm gonna reach all the way down immediately from my toes.
I'm gonna walk it forward.
We'll hold a down dog first just to warm up.
From here, lead back with the hips.
[Kane laughs] What is this?
This is crazy, Anna.
Ugh. Like this. [laughs]
I'm getting hot.
[sensual music plays]
-Watch the hips. -[Kane laughs] Oh my God. What is this?
Anna, what kind of yoga did you invite us to?
This is not yoga.
[yoga teacher] From there, I usually like to take it to a slide.
[Christine] Does he slide in crow for you every day, Anna?
[Kane laughs]
Oh my. Oh my! I'm married. She is not.
[Kane continues to laugh]
What's happening? This is an ambush.
[Kane] Christine's squirming.
She's looking at me, she's like, "Help."
She's looking at me with eyes, like, "Help me, Kane." [chuckles]
I'm like, "No." [laughs]
Oh, my God. I was like, "I know why Anna did this."
[laughs] It was just to embarrass Christine.
I'm like, "I'm neutral." I'm just here to watch the show. [laughs]
I bring the hands up.
-I grab by the waist.Then I pick her up. -[chuckles, screams]
[Kane] Take her away. Take her.
-Take her home. -[Christine] I'm gonna be in trouble.
Anna! You do it.
Part of the rules of social warfare
is to never let your opponent see you sweat.
I don't sweat naturally, and I'm not about to let her see me sweat
in her dirty, haunted house.
Anna's sharing her sexual adventures with us,
and I'm loving it.
One more time right, and one more time…
Amazing.
[laughs]
[traditional Japanese music plays]
[Kevin chants a mantra]
-[doorbell rings] -[Kane] Hello.
-[doorbell rings again] -[Kevin sighs]
-Be right there. -[Kane] Kevin.
-[Kevin] Kane? -Is that how you greet your guests?
[Kevin] Yeah. Sorry. You're in my home.
-Hi. How are you? -Sorry. I was chanting.
In this?
Yeah. I just got up.
-[sighs] -What?
[Kane] That's so disrespectful.
-[Kevin] Why's it disrespectful? -Seriously?
You know, when we're chanting, it's like-- It's a kind of sacred place.
Imagine you going to church in underwear.
Oh, my God, Kevin. Come on, like--
Have some, like, common sense.
Do you wear your underwear to see your mom?
It's just-- You wanna be respectful.
-Kevin, can you feed your guests? -[Kevin] What's up?
-Yeah, do you want water? -[Kane] Sparkling.
-[Kevin] Your sparkling water. Not money. -Money for me? Thank you.
Uh… [exhales]
So, I reached out to this place
where I was adopted.
-To find my birth parents. -Your parents.
-Okay. -So--
Okay. I'll just read it out loud.
[exhales sharply]
Uh, "Dear Mr. Kreider."
That's me.
"We have received your inquiry concerning adoption information.
Unfortunately, the court is unable to provide you…
[sighs] …with much information,
as there are no specifics in the file
relative to the identity of your natural parents
or original birth certificate."
"Father, no record.
Mother, no record."
This says, "Abandoned child."
-Let me see it. -Mm-hmm.
"The family name, Kim, and the family origin, Hongyun,
are given in accordance with permission of the court."
Yeah. April 10th, 1986.
Do they know your parents? They just don't want to release it?
[Kevin] Let's find out-- Okay.
"Please remember that international adoption case files
do not include information that would enable a search for--"
What the fuck was I doing this for, then?
-Do you wanna find your parents? -Yeah.
Just go to Korea.
Right?
Nobody wants to just be an unknown in their history.
I want to know where I'm from.
I want to know my origins, and why did they give me up?
Was it a romance that wasn't supposed to happen?
Did they want a girl, and I disappointed them?
Was there a divorce? Was it finances?
Was there more to it than that?
I can make up all these stories in my head, but like, I wanna know why.
What is the reason?
[Kevin sighs]
So, I just don't-- I don't know.
[upbeat music plays]
-I'm pretty sure there's no meat. -[Kane] I don't think there is.
Wow.
Wow. Jadore, you want some?
Mm. This is really good.
You know how many calories in a moon cake? Five hundred.
-Five hundred. -[Kane] Five hundred.
Is that a new ring?
[Cherie] New ring? No. I've had it.
-I thought Jessey proposed. -[Cherie] Had it forever.
-[Kane] Finally. -No, he didn't.
-Like, no. No. -Cheap ring to propose.
I cleared out a lot of stuff, but I still kept some of the medicine,
in case if someone…
Grandma? Po Po?
-What is this? Po Po? -A lot of the lethal stuff I cleared out.
-[Jadore] Yeah. Po Po. That's Po Po. -Po Po? Buddha.
[Cherie] No, no. That's not Po Po. This is Po Po.
-[Kane] Po Po can be Buddha too. -[Cherie] I cleared out a lot already.
I feel I don't wanna clear out--
I want to clear it out, but I don't want to.
Uh, yeah, you wanna get rid of this stuff.
You wanna keep, like, her pictures, you know.
Something that makes you happy. I think the most important thing, Cherie,
is when you-- When you, like, look at her things, what makes you happy?
That's the most important. If it makes you sad, just throw it.
To me, you know, I'll practice to let go.
So, if it doesn't serve you, it doesn't, you know, make you happy,
then just-- Just dump it.
So, in Buddhism, when you let go of stuff, all these attachments in life,
you can see that spirits are real, spirits are, um, definitely all around us.
I-- Yeah, I don't have closure, still.
I mean, what is closure for you?
Do you wanna talk to her? Like, have a communication--
I wanna know when I'll see her again.
I definitely think that, you know, Cherie is--
She's trying to let go, but at the same time,
she's staying in the same house that her mom lived in,
and she's just questioning, like, "Is she still here?"
That's the big question.
I-- I like knowing that my mom is kinda here.
[Kane] Yeah. Closure can be, like, "My mom's here.
She's just in another form.
But I'm okay with it." And I'd honor them in the right way,
in the best way possible,
and be the best mom you can to Jadore.
-You know? -Yeah. They keep me really busy.
Yeah.
[heartfelt music plays]
[upbeat music plays]
[Kelly] There's always two voices in my head when it comes to Drew.
Kelly One's always like,
"Hey, Kelly, get him out of your house. It's bad. You're playing with fire."
[Andrew] Thank you. Cheers.
Nice night, huh?
But Kelly Two's always like,
"Ah, look at him. He's so sweet. He changed this time."
You look beautiful.
-Thanks. -[Andrew] You're welcome.
And Kelly Two always, for some reason, kicks Kelly One in the butt.
Why does your shirt say, "Love Sucks"? [chuckles]
Well, I mean, I'm a biter. You know that.
-Oh, it's, like, a vampire thing. -Yeah.
Oh, I get it. It's a vampire sucking.
Okay. All right.
I don't know.
Okay, cool, that's awesome.
-Cheers to sucking. -[laughs]
Let's sit down for a bit.
[Andrew] Do we have a coaster?
You don't feel awkward, do you?
Uh, do you feel awkward?
-Sometimes. -About?
Um…
[smacks lips] I know I'm flirting with you.
[chuckles]
Do we still flirt? No. I don't know.
I think-- I mean-- I'd-- Yes, is the answer.
-It's a little weird-- -'Cause you're a natural flirt.
I'm a natural flirt.
But the thing is that we've been together for so long,
and this is the first time I feel like we're nervous talking to each other.
I feel like I'm 19 again,
or like, in high school.
I don't know. It feels different.
Kelly and I, we're highly attracted to each other.
It's like a mother's embrace. It's real.
It is a once in a lifetime love.
I don't get why he never loses interest in that ball.
-Not that specific ball, but-- -You're my ball.
Okay. [laughs]
That was smooth.
[Andrew] Do you see a future with us?
Outside of a friendship? In the future.
I know for sure I can't go back to what we were.
If the anger issue gets fixed--
Because you, when you're unhappy,
and you're dealing with abandonment issues or insecurities or whatever it is,
it transfers over to our relationship.
And vice versa. I'm not saying I'm perfect. I'm not.
But the other person can't always be, like,
a punching bag.
You know what I'm saying?
Need a hug?
[soft pop music plays]
♪ Know that you think of me And maybe you still believe ♪
♪ In love ♪
♪ And I know what I said is cruel… ♪
Bye, Kilo.
♪ Missing you ♪
♪ Down on my knees, yeah ♪
♪ I pray that you come back to me ♪
[Kilo whimpers]
[upbeat music plays]
-[Kane, over phone] Hi, Cherie. -Hey, Kane.
I'm really excited today, because Tyler Henry's coming over.
-[Kane] I'm so excited for you too. -I know.
[Kane] He's legit. I heard so many good things about him.
Have a reading, Cherie. In fact, please let me know what happens.
-Like… [laughs] -[doorbell rings]
Oh, my gosh. I think he's here.
-Let me talk to you later. -[Kane] Are you serious?
-[Kane] Okay, bye. -Talk to you later. Okay. Bye.
[Tyler] Hello. How are you?
-It's lovely to meet you. -[Cherie] Hi. Look at you.
-You're so kind. -Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for having me. This is so cool.
-What a beautiful house you have. -Thank you.
[Tyler chuckles] My gosh.
I don't know if you've had an experience like this before.
-Have you ever received a reading? -First time.
[Tyler] So, I have my notepad here.
So, as I do this, I basically scribble,
and this is my way of meditating, kind of getting in the zone.
As I scribble, I just relay everything that I see, hear, and feel.
I think anybody can tell you your loved one loved you,
but it's the facts and the specifics and the details we hear
-that validate that connection. -Right.
Sometimes I work with an object. Sometimes people don't bring objects,
and that's totally fine either way. Do you have an object today?
I do. Um…
I have this monkey.
-[Tyler] Ooh. -[Cherie] And…
-[Tyler] Don't tell me too much, -[Cherie] Sorry.
No, it's all good. We'll see what comes in,
-and we'll pop in. -[Cherie] Okay.
[Tyler] So, let's see.
Okay. Just give me one second.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
All right.
And this very much felt like a parent situation, so…
This person that comes through
feels very much like passing away prematurely.
How old was this person when they died?
-[Cherie] Fifty-nine. -Fifty-nine.
-Um, I assume Mom would be passed? -[Cherie] Yeah.
But there is a reference to a little girl,
and there is actually an acknowledgment of turning,
like, a significant thing around turning two years old.
There also is a reference to a grandmother that keeps--
I feel I have to highlight the way this is coming across.
My mom passed when my daughter was still two.
[Tyler] Okay. One sec.
How about we talk about distance?
People weren't able to be at Mom's side right when she passed?
-Was there any situation of distance? -It was me.
Okay. So, you weren't able to be there?
-And I wanted to be. -This can be-- Gotcha.
Huh.
It's-- Feeling with this is wanting to wipe this clean.
Wanting to let this go.
There's a feeling of, "This is okay."
I want you to know there's a complete sense of, "This is okay."
There's-- They're okay with this in the way this comes through.
[scribbling]
Interesting. With her,
she's having me bring up scents and smells with this.
And there's a reference to perfume that mom would have had in some capacity.
And there's a feeling of smelling it,
and there's this feeling of being with this person as they're doing this.
There's an acknowledgement of that.
The funny thing is, I would bring her perfume to the hospital,
-spray her room. -[Tyler] Hilarious.
And the nurses come in like, "It smells like Chanel Number 5."
-I love it. [laughs] -Yeah, and, um…
Just because I wanted to make it a homey feeling for her,
because she couldn't come home. She was so sick.
That's a testament to your love. And the strength that you have.
I want to know, in the future, will I ever see her again?
Oh, absolutely. No doubt about it.
We see and are reunited with our loved ones.
And they're reunited with their loved ones too.
But how will I know, like--?
We can see. Let's look and see.
Let me scribble, and we'll see what comes through. One sec.
There is one thing coming through.
Let's see what this is.
It's going to be a sign that happens in this house.
And she feels like your daughter will see her.
So this is just good to keep in mind. Daughter will interact with her.
And she's having me refer to an instance
in which your daughter will be looking in a corner and talking or babbling.
I hope that as you see some of these signs, embrace them.
It's a positive thing.
So, is that when I reunite with my mom?
-I don't know. -That's a good question.
I hope you know that your mom will continue to be a part of,
not only your life, but your children's lives.
-Yeah. -And that she sees that. So…
[upbeat music plays]
♪ I got this newfound feeling ♪
♪ The sun is shining bright And we got this new thing going… ♪
Hi, guys.
-Who organized this? It's nice. -[Kevin] Hi. How's it going?
[Kane] How are you? Good to see you.
-[Guy] Have a seat. -[Jamie] Good to see you.
[Kane] Christine. Wow.
[Guy] Beach presents!
-[Kane] Do we get presents? -Presents!
I got you guys all--
-Oh, my God! -Oh, no!
-That's so nice. -Where'd you get these towels?
Is this real gold?
-Oh my God. -That is so cute.
[Kane] It's real gold.
-[Jamie] That is so cute. -[Kane] Here you go, guys.
[Jamie] I'm gonna try to take some photos.
-Here's the prop. Go. -Here, go.
Wait, wait, wait. I actually brought-- I brought something that's perfect. Here.
-[Aaron] Chanel. What is it? Badminton? -Okay.
-Chanel. It's carbon fiber. -[Jamie] Let's go.
The beach, not my favorite place,
'cause it's near the water, and I'm not a fan of water,
but I need content for Instagram.
-Ready? -I'm ready.
Okay.
[shutter clicking repeatedly]
-[Kelly] Go slower, Jaime. -More, Jaime! Do it again.
-[shutter clicks] -[Aaron] Tilt your head down a little bit.
Jaime's outfit is, like, questionable.
This is the first time I did not like Jaime's outfit. [chuckles]
I'm like, "Jaime, is your stylist dead or something?"
Who wears a turtleneck to the beach?
Let's do a piggyback race.
Okay, I have extensions in.
That adds a couple pounds.
[Jamie] Ready? Wait. How do we--?
Okay. Ready? One, two--
-Ready? One, two, three. -Wait, Kane.
[all screaming]
[Kevin] Yeah!
[Christine] Oh, my God.
-[Kane] I'm gonna sit. I'm tired. -[Jamie] Yeah, I'm good.
-[Kelly] Should we take a walk? -[Kevin] Yeah, let's walk.
[Kelly] Oh, fine. Just let me…
[Kevin] After going on a date with Kelly, I don't know where I stand with her.
She didn't call. She didn't text.
I left the ball in her court, and…
You haven't seen Andrew?
Uh, we met up at a park.
Was he practicing his Power Rangers move or something?
Oh, that only happens in the bedroom.
[chuckles]
Just kidding. Let's keep walking.
-I wanna be a Power Ranger now. -Keep walking. [laughs]
No, um… Yeah, we saw each other.
It was, like, kind of emotional.
You guys are just friends? You kept it clean?
Uh, right now, it's like--
We're trying to see if being friends will work, you know?
But, I mean, can you actually be friends?
I don't know if we can really be friends at this stage right now.
I think their type of relationship,
it just has to end.
There's just no way you can be friends with Drew.
-[Kelly] So… -How did you feel when you saw him?
It's a mixed feeling. We've been together for so long.
Naturally, I wanna touch him, hug him, kiss him, but like--
Did you do that?
[tense music plays]
-No. -That's a step.
[Kelly] It's not like I wanna lie to my friends
or not tell my friends the truth.
I just really don't wanna hear it.
I just want to live my life.
So…
You know I care about you a lot.
I just feel like, you know, everything's so fresh with me and Andrew,
I just wasn't in the right mind space,
when we went out.
And I think it's just better we stay friends.
You know? Because, like,
I mean,
I'm trying to be honest with you.
I just feel, like, we've been friends for so long, and,
you know, it just--
It's, like--
I don't know. I see you as a brother to me.
As a brother?
-Brother. [chuckles] -Oh, my God.
You gotta give me something better than that.
I just really need you as my friend right now.
You need me as a friend?
You give good advice. You know?
-I can do that. -We friends?
Oh, God. That's not what I expected.
I didn't expect to be friend-zoned so quickly with her.
I thought Kelly would give me a chance.
-Well, go look at the sunset. -[Kevin] Okay.
[Christine] Oh, my God!
[laughs]
-[Kelly] What's wrong with Kevin? -[Christine] No, Kevin, no!
-It's a public beach. -[Kane] Oh, my God.
-Take his underwear. -What the--
[Kane laughs]
[Cherie] Jadore.
Jadore?
Where are you?
[Jadore] Po Po.
Po Po.
[giggles]
[Cherie] Jadore? What are you doing in here? Hmm?
I talking about Po Po.
[Cherie] How come you're talking about Po Po?
-Po Po talked to… -[thumping in the house]
-[Cherie] What? -[indistinct words]
What, Jadore?
Po Po is Jevon.
Oh…
[Jevon coos]
Tyler told me to keep my eyes open
and look for signs of my mom.
This is Po Po.
-[Cherie] Really? -Really.
[Jevon coos]
Po Po means "Grandma" in Cantonese,
so when Jadore tells me, "Hey, Po Po's Jevon,"
I'm thinking it's a sign that he could be my mom.
Jevon, are you Po Po? Hmm?
-[Jevon coos] -[Cherie] Are you reincarnated?
In Buddhism, reincarnation is definitely possible.
It means that you can come back
as another person.
Jevon, are you telling me something? Hmm?
That you're Po Po, Jevon? Is that a yes?
Wow.
When she was at the hospital, I told my mom if she wants to
she can come back as Jevon and that I'll take care of her
and she can grow up with Jadore, and we'll be one happy family.
Jevon. Did you come to find me?
My mom looked me straight in the eye.
She said, "Okay."
And Mommy has to take care of you for the rest of Mommy's life, okay? Like,
even more so than ever.
[Jevon coos]
[Kane] How's everything? Um…
[Cherie] It's been good.
I've been spending a lot of time with Jevon and Jadore,
obviously, as a new mom.
And there are days where I feel like…
could my mom have reincarnated into Jevon?
I feel like Jevon might be my mom.
There are days where I feel like, you know…
-[sighs] -It's definitely someone related to you.
In Buddhism, it's always someone that is related to you
that comes back as your kid.
I totally believe in reincarnation.
For me to have such a fortunate life right now,
I must have given back a lot.
I definitely think I was someone who did good in this world.
Um,
I might be royalty. I don't know,
but people that are very sex-driven come back as pigeons.
So, for someone like Kevin, he might come back as a pigeon. [laughs]
Do you see any signs? Or, like--
I do. Like, Jadore was calling Jevon "Po Po".
-Is that weird? -Kids can usually see things.
In the Buddhist belief, when you're young, you don't have all these, um, attachments,
so they have a third eye.
So, they can see spirits, they can see things that we as adults can't see.
Can we see Jevon?
-I've only seen him in a carriage. -[Cherie] Yeah.
Okay, yeah. Let's go see Jevon. Hopefully he's…
-[Kane] Awake. -Awake. [sighs]
-[Kane] It's a good sign he's not crying. -[Cherie] While you're carrying him?
Yeah, it means I am-- I have good energy.
When they cry with certain people, it means there's a spirit with them.
Yeah, my mom adores you.
-Can I put him… -[Jevon coos]
-[Kane] My God, he just shat. -[Cherie] Just did a poo poo.
Oh, no! No! [chuckles] This is too hard. This is, like…
-[Cherie] Wait. Kane. -[Kane] I don't want to see him shitting.
[Cherie] Wanna change his diaper?
-No, I'm not gonna change his-- No. -[Cherie] I'm serious.
[Kane] Oh, my gosh. I don't wanna see her mom's penis.
[soft pop music plays]
-[woman] Hi, Kevin. -Hey, Doctor.
-Nice to meet you. Come in. -Nice to meet you too.
Since I can't get any more information about my birth parents
or why they even gave me up,
or the specifics of what happened,
I figure maybe hypnotherapy can unlock
those memories and blocks
that are stopping me from remembering anything about Korea.
I'm a little nervous coming into this,
because I want to be able to remember things,
but I'm scared that I won't.
So, memory can trick us a little bit,
and so for this work, what I'm asking you to do
is not judge any memories that come up…
Whatever.
[Linda] …until after we're finished.
[Kevin] I'm going in there with a ton of skepticism.
The best-case scenario is that I remember how to speak Korean,
or I can at least maybe even remember a face
of my mom or my dad.
[Linda] You may begin
by taking several slow, deep, relaxing breaths.
[exhales deeply]
[Linda] And with your eyes closed, you can begin to experience
that gradual alteration of awareness…
and drifting.
The first thing I would like you to do
is to imagine a beautiful, descending staircase.
And this staircase is going to take us back through time.
So, I'm going to be counting now from 20 to five,
and when I say the number five, you'll be able to describe for me
an early childhood memory from around the age of five.
So, moving back now, getting ready to step down the stairs…
as 20 is counted, stepping down.
Nineteen.
[echoing in the distance] Eighteen.
Seventeen.
Sixteen.
Nine, eight, seven.
[in normal voice] Six, and five.
Let me know when you're there.
[softly] It's my birthday.
Happy birthday, happy birthday, Hongyun.
Balloons.
I'm alone.
I think I'm up early.
So you got up and looked at the decorations and things?
-[Kevin] Mm-hmm. -[Linda] Mm-hmm.
So, we're gonna let that memory fade from your mind.
We're gonna go from five to three.
Just taking your time and floating back.
-Five, four, and three. -[exhales deeply]
Three years old.
Tell me where you are and what's happening.
I'm in an airplane.
And there's a person next to me.
It's an Asian woman.
I'm scared.
-I don't know where I'm going. -Mm-hmm.
So, I'm just curious,
you as the adult Kevin,
what you would say to that little boy who's scared.
I just wanna tell him he's going somewhere where he'll be loved.
[Linda] Mm-hmm.
[whimpers]
[sniffles, cries]
[Linda] And tell me what's happening now.
-[sniffs] I just feel sad. -Yeah.
[Kevin whimpers, sniffs]
Ugh.
[breathes deeply]
So, I want you to get in touch with your adult self.
I want you to give that little boy a hug and let him know it's all gonna be okay.
[breathes deeply]
Oh… [exhales]
So, I'm gonna count you back now.
I'm gonna count from three to zero.
When I say the number zero,
you're going to go all the way back
to a few days before you were born.
Are you able to tell me something about what you were aware of as a soul
before you came into your life as Kevin?
Three, two, one, zero.
Be there now, a few days before you were born.
We're not going through the birth,
we're just noticing what you're aware of as a soul.
It sounds like I'm in a pool.
-It feels really warm, though. -Yeah, warm. Yeah.
Take a moment and tune in to your mother's energy.
And tell me, what are you picking up from her?
She's scared too.
[Linda] She's scared? Yeah.
And how does she feel toward the baby?
I don't think she wants it.
So, I want you to release your connection with your mother.
[Kevin whimpers]
[breathes deeply]
And just take a moment. Gather yourself together here.
-[Kevin moans] -And I want you to give love to that baby.
[breathes deeply]
[Linda] 'Cause he's got a great life ahead of him,
and there's a mother that really wants him.
Just gonna take a while to find her.
Now I'm going to count slowly from one to five.
One,
taking a nice, deep breath.
-[breathes deeply] -[Linda] Good.
Two, three, and four.
Coming up.
Coming all the way up to the surface of full, conscious awareness.
Five, opening your eyes, coming all the way back,
feeling very good.
How you doing?
Mm.
[groans]
-[Linda] How was that for you? -That was quite an experience.
[Linda] Yeah.
A lot of emotions there.
How you feeling now?
Ugh.
-Relieved. -Yeah.
I feel really relieved.
I didn't expect it to be this way,
but it was an emotional déjà vu feeling.
And I feel crazy saying this,
but I kinda see where shamans get this. It's like spirits just talk to you.
I just felt like something was talking to me.
I think I've come to peace with it.
[Linda] Good.
[Kevin] Now I realize that it was really my mom.
She was just scared,
and it was her own life she was thinking about.
She wasn't thinking, "Kevin sucks."
I mean, the wound now feels like a scar.
It's healing.
-Can I give you a hug? -[Linda] Yes, absolutely.
-[sighs] Ugh. -[Linda] Mm.
[whimsical music plays]
[Cherie] Shh.
Let's call Ba Ba.
Hey, babe. What are you doing? You napping?
-Yeah. -[Cherie] What time is your meeting?
-What? Seven o'clock. -[Cherie] What time is your meeting? Okay.
Jessey's out of town,
and I really need someone to talk to.
I have to tell him how I feel,
and there are moments where I really feel that Jevon could be my mom.
I don't know. Last night, like, I was talking to Jevon,
and I feel like…
Do you think my mom, like, reincarnated to him?
To Dee Dee?
Yeah.
Like…
[Jessey] Well, I don't know, but I-- I don't know, I hope not.
[Cherie] Because Jadore started calling Jevon "Po Po".
I don't know. Do you think--? He has my mom's nose.
What do you think?
-Babe. Hello? -[Jessey] Huh?
[Cherie] Wake up.
[Jessey] I don't know what to say.
What if that's my mom, and she's, like, sucking on my boob?
That's kinda weird.
I should stop breast-feeding him.
Right? It's just so weird.
[Jessey] When I wake up from my nap,
you can let me know if this is a true conversation, or am I dreaming.
-[Cherie] What? -[Jadore] Ba Ba.
[upbeat music plays]
-[Kim] Hi. -[Kevin] What's up?
-[Kim] How are you? -Good. Who is this?
-This is the woman that raised me. -Is this Mrs. Lee?
Kevin. What's your name?
-Kimmy. Kim and Kimmy. -Kimmy. Oh, that's beautiful.
You know what? You're just like my son.
You kinda look like my brother.
-[Kimmy] Yeah, you kinda look like him. -[Kevin] That's why she picks on me.
[Kim] That is true!
I used to pick on my little brother all the time.
-How you been? What's new? -[Kevin] I've been good. Oh, my God.
I had the best experience.
So, I'm adopted, and I don't know who my birth parents are.
And somebody recommended a hypnotherapist
to unlock some memories that I can't remember.
Do they hypnotize you?
No. I wanted that. I wanted that so bad.
-[Kim] Yeah. -But, no.
It was, like, just listening to her talk, and it was--
-Whoa. -[Kevin] Yeah, it was intense.
There was no images that came up, but it was all a feeling.
But the thing that hit me the most is, like, she asked,
"What's your mom feeling?"
I was, like, so relaxed I could remember the feeling.
I-- I knew she didn't wanna have me,
and I said she was scared.
And I-- I-- I-- I, like, really didn't expect that to come up,
because I discovered that I'm 80% Korean,
20% Japanese.
My thesis is
somebody in the family mix
was a little Japanese,
and Koreans don't like Japanese at the time
because they invaded Korea
-and colonized them. -Right.
[Kevin] Somebody in the mix didn't like that, probably.
But really what I got from this was
she really didn't wanna have the baby.
And so,
I felt like I had a lot of closure with that,
because I felt so at ease and so much more light
when I went through that experience.
Yeah, I feel like a new person.
It made me love my family even more now,
the people I have.
Yeah.
The best thing that came from the regression therapy
is that deep need to know dissolved.
Like, there's just no urgency to go find them.
My parents are my parents.
It really isn't who owned the semen and the egg,
it really was who brought you up
and loved you.
And, really, when you're born to a family,
they have no choice.
But my family had a choice.
They could have adopted me, or they couldn't have.
And they chose specifically me to adopt me.
And that gave me a lot of comfort.
I was given a second chance with this family.
I raised my children.
Respect and love.
Like, good karma.
You do good things, good things come back to you.
[Kevin] Exactly. I believe that.
[Kimmy] So, when we leave this world, we don't bring anything with us.
So, count your blessing every day.
Can I talk to your mom every day?
-[chuckles] I'm a loving person. -[Kevin] My God.
-Dude, I just love your mom. -You love her long time?
[laughs hysterically]
Do you always have to ruin it with that shit?
I'm just asking you. That's all.
This conversation went on the weird turn.
[Cherie] Where d'you go? Shopping?
[Jessey] It's Shawn's custom watch I made.
[both] Only 11 made.
-[Jessey] Guess what number it is? -Eight?
-[laughs] -All right.
Yeah, anyways, yes. So you guessed it.
-What are you doing? -[Cherie] Thinking about my mom again.
-[Jessey] What are you thinking about Mom? -I don't know.
I'm just, like, feeling like she's here,
and then she's kinda not here,
and then I feel like
a part of me would love to be with my mom every day.
You know?
Listen, if your mom is around, she's around.
But I don't think it means your mom is Jevon.
Yeah.
I think that'd be very tough, right?
If-- If you have that mindset.
You know what I'm saying? Because you'll love Jevon for who he is.
Right? You shouldn't have your mom be kinda tied in with Jevon.
[sniffs]
Don't worry. It's okay.
[heartfelt music plays]
I know these feelings that Cherie's feeling about missing her mom,
it's gonna take a lot of time.
I think it's very good to still have her mom in her heart and her mind.
I think you're always gonna remember,
so you don't have to worry about losing it.
Your mom's probably here in this room, chillin' right there.
-[laughs] -[Jessey] Right there.
[Cherie] I wish.
Every time I see Cherie smile
and being happy,
it's just one of the most amazing feelings in the world.
Just love Jevon.
Be happy that your mom is around,
seeing the kids grow up, be around you.
That's all you need.
There's no guide to dealing with
how to lose your parent.
It's not easy. Um…
Even ten years down the road from now, it's not gonna be easy for me,
and I can't imagine going through all this
without Jessey.
Even though sometimes he thinks I'm crazy,
he's always there for me, no matter what.
Let's give Mommy a hug. Okay.
[Cherie] Thank you.
[gentle, acoustic music plays]
♪ Want to remember ♪
♪ What it was like to ♪
♪ Come home ♪
♪ I thought I'd ♪
♪ Go on a plane ride ♪
♪ There may be more to see ♪
♪ Than what's in front of me ♪
♪ Even though I'll miss this place ♪
♪ Make me take a stand ♪
♪ Make me change my plans ♪
♪ Tell me that I need to stay ♪