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Maria, stand on that.
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You let go, I die.
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Oh my God, the door--
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Palasco, the door is open. Open.
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Anna? Hey, guys.
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What are you doing?
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Working.
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Wow, this place looks great, Anna.
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I mean, your other place
was really nice, but this is…
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nice.
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-Yeah.
-Thanks.
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Come on. What are we doing?
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We're going to put up these things.
And they're--
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Yay, Kevin!
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-Did I do that? Did I do that?
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-I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
-It's okay.
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Oh my God!
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-Is that real crystal?
-Yes. We can buy a new one.
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Oh my God!
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All this crystal
just shattered on the ground.
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I just feel so bad.
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It must've been thousands of dollars
worth of crystal. Just pfff…
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-Look, it has to be--
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Oh my God.
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I'm no help at all.
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No, don't touch this.
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Okay, you sure?
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-Yes.
-Oh, fuck!
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-Why did you do that?
-I don't know. Things keep dropping.
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If you ever have a chandelier,
or anything breakable,
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my best advice would be keep Kevin away.
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Did any not break?
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-Yes. Okay, yay!
-I got it!
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-Now what?
-Now we--
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Oh my God.
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Let's go, guys. You guys need exercise.
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They're not chubby.
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Come on.
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-Anna, have you ever used the pool?
-No.
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Oh, Apollo, go!
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-Arrow.
-They used to all dive.
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Now they're so lazy.
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Shit. Is it cold?
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It's fucking cold!
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Buy a heater!
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What made you buy this house, Anna?
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I don't know.
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-I saw it, I liked the driveway.
-Yeah.
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This suits you, you know.
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-Yes.
-How many bedrooms?
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-Five.
-And are they all your closets?
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-Pretty much, upstairs.
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So, I had a really good time
at your party.
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-You did, why? I'm just kidding.
-'Cause the truffles were there.
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The truffle potato chip was so good.
I think we had a whole tray.
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-Christine was there, but she left early.
-Yes, I saw her.
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Yeah.
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-This time there was no table seating.
-I purposely did that.
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This way nobody could bitch.
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I had little round tables,
like King Arthur.
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Yeah.
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And you just sat in the other table?
So that was your seating.
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-Oh, come here.
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Give it to me!
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It's so funny. When you were
coming down, I just had to say something.
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I told Cherie, "Can we talk about it?"
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Leah basically shared the story
with us and the group
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that Jessey has another family out there.
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And then, we found out she actually knew
Jessey when he was married already.
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I've tried to reach out to Cherie.
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All I wanted was a conversation,
and all I got was nothing.
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She's ignoring us,
and I think it's because she realizes
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that we know about Jessey and Crystal.
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It's, I think, um, a lot to do
with Asian culture, of saving face.
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What does it matter to you?
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Be up-front about it.
Like I don't fucking care. I don't judge.
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I tried reaching out to her,
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and she didn't want to.
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She's not responding.
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She obviously thinks that I'm in the wrong
or she just doesn't want to talk it out.
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Stay out of it.
Didn't you learn your lesson by now?
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Let me ask you a question.
Is everything okay with your family?
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Um, obviously, there's drama
that's happening in Singapore.
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But, like, it's nothing to do
with my family.
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Gossip to me is absolutely diabolical.
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Kane's family has its own problems too.
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My dad's good. You know,
we left the family business 20 years ago.
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I remember,
you said your dad and your uncle?
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We left a long time ago.
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So I really, honestly
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don't know who he thinks he is
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to talk about people.
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This totally has nothing to do
with my family at all.
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-Everything's good?
-Everything's great.
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-No judgment?
-No.
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-Okay.
-My dad told me nothing. Yeah, my dad.
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We've been so good, so, yeah.
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That's why I say it's so weird.
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This is the first time in my life
that lawsuits and stuff is going on.
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Isn't… You know, every family
goes through different things in life.
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And right in this case,
like, it has nothing to do with us.
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You know. But it's tough because…
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Um…
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I'm sad for whatever is happening,
but I can't do anything about it.
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I really, genuinely, like,
don't want to talk about it anymore
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and just wanna,
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just wanna
close the chapter and leave it alone.
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That's why it's important
that you leave Cherie alone.
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Don't you get tired of gossip?
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It's not gossiping
when there's some facts towards it.
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You're telling me.
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I just think it's very wrong
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to talk about the bad things
that happen to a person.
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When you start talking about people…
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then you really, seriously have to think
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about what it's going to do to them,
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to their lives,
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to their family.
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There's a reason
why people do what they do.
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You're not here to judge them.
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-Put yourself in that position.
-I am. It sucks.
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I mean, given how much time
we've spent as friends,
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I don't know if we're able
to mend it at this point.
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I would just like Cherie to know that
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I don't think the intention
is to hurt anyone.
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So I'll give her some breathing space,
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and when she's ready, I would love
to just have a conversation with her.
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Can we get some food?
I wanna go shopping. Shopping's more fun.
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Shopping is good.
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Shopping is more fun than this.
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-Your ride is here!
-What about my luggage?
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Oh, yeah. Let me come out.
I got you. I got you.
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-Where are we going?
-Going to Solvang.
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I usually don't go
on road trips at all.
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-Never?
-Ever.
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-This is a big deal for you.
-It's a huge deal.
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-I'm so glad you're here with me.
-Yeah, you better feel special.
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-I do, I feel very special.
-Kim does not go on road trips at all.
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Going on this road trip with Kevin,
what am I getting myself into?
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I hate road trips.
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It's making me nervous because I've never
spent that much time with anybody.
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The only person I spend long hours with,
that I can stand, is my cat.
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-You know how to drive?
-I do.
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Should I trust you to drive?
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Of course, you should.
I used to drive stick.
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I should trust a person that rides
a skateboard every day to drive?
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But I'm renting this car.
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It has insurance. You're in safe hands.
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Okay.
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You ready?
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-I'm ready.
-All right.
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Have you ever dated a Korean guy?
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Um-hm. He was a lot more quiet than I am.
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-You're pretty loud.
-I'm pretty loud?
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-Not obnoxious though.
-Okay.
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I've never actually done a date
like this before.
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I think getting outside of LA
and doing a road trip with Kim
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will definitely get us closer together.
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It's so far.
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Or it's going to drive us apart.
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I made this special for you
since it's your first road trip.
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Did you bring me snacks?
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-I did!
-You did?
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-I got snacks!
-Oh my God!
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-This popcorn is pretty good.
-This is really cute.
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-Thank you.
-You're welcome.
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-Want some?
-You're eating already? This is for later.
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-Well just--
-You're eating?
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I need to drive.
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I thought you got this for me.
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-Not for yourself.
-I did, for us!
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Well, since you're eating,
I'm eating too then. What?
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You're not the only fat ass.
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I out-fat assed you.
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That was funny.
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-Hello!
-Kelly!
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-It's lovely to see you.
-It's so good to see you.
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I've been looking forward to seeing you.
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-Me too.
-Um, what's the latest?
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I feel like there's so much, um…
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Well, you know that Drew and I
are done for good.
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-Yeah.
-But it's still very hard.
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But I know, like,
a thousand percent, it is done.
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-There's no going back from this point.
-Hmm.
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-I am proud of you…
-Thank you.
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…for drawing a very, very firm boundary.
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It definitely took a very long time.
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But there must be a deep sense of loss.
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I've had a lot of nights already
by myself that I've cried a lot.
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You know, really grieved.
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Not just on him or our relationship
but me too, you know?
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Grieving the time I lost.
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Mm-hm.
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The reason I stayed with him for so long,
I was just hoping he can…
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be the person that he said he wants to be.
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And for us to,
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you know, like get married and have kids.
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You know, so that was
really disappointing too.
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That's so disappointing.
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Yeah, because obviously, I have
to start all over again. Because it's…
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Of course, it's in the back
of my mind, I'm 35.
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Like, I need to… I should be…
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I thought I'd be married by now,
have kids by now.
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You know,
when we first started dating, like,
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when he was telling me about
building a life with me, a family with me.
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I didn't think it was, you know…
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I feel really disappointed.
I feel scared to start over.
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-Mm-hm.
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It is scary.
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My dad took, you know,
the easy way out when I was younger.
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I've always, like,
my dad left just 'cause he left.
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I never blamed him.
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Until, like,
recently I was thinking about it.
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I was like, "No, he was weak."
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He didn't want to be in the US
and suffer with us,
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and build a new life with his family.
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But he wants to go back to China
and live his comfortable lifestyle.
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And so he would leave,
you know, his kid and his wife.
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Right there, what you just said
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is so profound.
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Yeah.
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It's at the heart
of what we're talking about.
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This is your life lesson,
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that you stop making excuses.
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I, for sure, made excuses
for people my whole life.
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Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
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Your history was broken.
your relationship was broken,
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but that doesn't mean you're broken.
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So can you see, this is about you learning
to be honest with yourself.
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Because if you can't be honest
with yourself,
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and you keep making excuses
for the men in your life,
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you'll keep repeating the pattern.
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That's why I want you to be more grounded
in your feelings and body
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so that you don't repeat
the same mistakes.
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Yeah.
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If you can't feel, you cannot change.
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In the past, I've always looked
for relationships that define me.
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Now I want to do things differently.
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And instead of putting all my energy,
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and time, and emotions,
into helping somebody else,
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I should be helping myself
and look within,
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looking at the problems I have.
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And, you know, and just try
to be a better version of myself.
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If you have strong feelings, let them out.
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Even if you have to,
you know, set your hair on fire
246
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and run around the block screaming.
247
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You know, let your feelings out.
248
00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:50,060
I definitely see things
a lot more clearly now,
249
00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:55,316
and I definitely know that that's not
the type of person I want to ever be with.
250
00:12:55,399 --> 00:12:58,152
And I don't want to be back
in a relationship
251
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or get back into a similar relationship.
252
00:13:06,660 --> 00:13:08,245
Ooh, I like this.
253
00:13:08,329 --> 00:13:09,455
Wow.
254
00:13:09,538 --> 00:13:10,831
No! You're hitting the…
255
00:13:12,291 --> 00:13:13,292
-We stopped?
-Yeah.
256
00:13:13,375 --> 00:13:14,919
Okay, good. You got it.
257
00:13:15,002 --> 00:13:17,171
That was so far.
258
00:13:18,214 --> 00:13:19,548
I know. I know.
259
00:13:20,174 --> 00:13:21,634
This is so pretty.
260
00:13:22,927 --> 00:13:24,094
Oh, it's pretty.
261
00:13:25,346 --> 00:13:27,515
Thanks. It's really cute.
262
00:13:28,432 --> 00:13:30,392
This date is so different
263
00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:32,645
than what I do with girls
on our first date.
264
00:13:32,728 --> 00:13:35,940
I mean, I'm putting
a lot of effort into this one,
265
00:13:36,023 --> 00:13:39,652
with no expectation
of even a kiss afterwards.
266
00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:42,696
That would be nice though.
267
00:13:42,780 --> 00:13:44,740
All right, let's go to your room first.
268
00:13:44,824 --> 00:13:48,160
I'll be right next door
if you need anything, feel better.
269
00:13:49,745 --> 00:13:51,163
-See ya.
-See you.
270
00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,133
Please leave your message
for three, two, three…
271
00:14:03,217 --> 00:14:04,468
Kane, help.
272
00:14:04,552 --> 00:14:05,845
Wassup!
273
00:14:06,595 --> 00:14:08,556
Dude, I just got here with Kim.
274
00:14:08,639 --> 00:14:11,183
You're in Solvang?
What did you guys do in the car?
275
00:14:11,267 --> 00:14:12,560
I know it's a long drive there.
276
00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:14,436
I know. She slept for an hour.
277
00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,355
She had to, she wasn't feeling good.
278
00:14:16,438 --> 00:14:19,358
This was our first road trip, she said.
Dude, that's like--
279
00:14:19,441 --> 00:14:21,485
It's cool she's doing something
you would do.
280
00:14:21,569 --> 00:14:22,653
Yeah, I know. I know.
281
00:14:22,736 --> 00:14:25,698
I think we're gonna head into town,
gonna go out to dinner.
282
00:14:27,950 --> 00:14:29,493
-Kane?
-Please leave your mess--
283
00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:30,494
Oh my God.
284
00:14:30,578 --> 00:14:33,747
Wait. What's going on?
Why is she calling me? I don't understand.
285
00:14:33,831 --> 00:14:36,917
She's calling you too?
Yo, make a three-way call.
286
00:14:38,127 --> 00:14:40,796
No, I'm not gonna do that.
I respect her too much.
287
00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:42,923
-Hold on, can I call you later?
Bye.
288
00:14:45,009 --> 00:14:46,635
-Kane!
-Hold on, wait.
289
00:14:46,719 --> 00:14:47,720
You hear me?
290
00:14:48,429 --> 00:14:50,264
-Yes.
-Where are you?
291
00:14:50,848 --> 00:14:54,435
I'm in a car. Kevin just called me.
Why aren't you guys calling me together?
292
00:14:54,518 --> 00:14:55,769
He's calling you too?
293
00:14:56,645 --> 00:14:58,272
He called me. He FaceTimed me.
294
00:14:58,355 --> 00:15:02,443
He got me in the middle of nowhere.
If something happens to me, I don't know--
295
00:15:02,526 --> 00:15:03,903
What do you mean?
What's gonna happen?
296
00:15:03,986 --> 00:15:07,031
I don't know.
It's like we're in the middle of nowhere.
297
00:15:07,114 --> 00:15:09,783
I told him, "Out of all places
you could have took me,
298
00:15:10,409 --> 00:15:12,286
why are we in the middle of nowhere?"
299
00:15:12,369 --> 00:15:15,205
Yeah, do you like, want me to…?
How's everything there?
300
00:15:15,289 --> 00:15:19,335
It looks like a cool city. He showed me
pictures of it, but, like, I don't know.
301
00:15:19,418 --> 00:15:24,214
I mean, it's pretty, don't get me wrong,
but like, I don't know.
302
00:15:24,298 --> 00:15:28,469
I shouldn't be that nervous,
but I haven't gone on a date in so long,
303
00:15:28,552 --> 00:15:31,055
and a lot can go wrong
304
00:15:31,138 --> 00:15:33,098
if you've never hung out with somebody,
305
00:15:33,182 --> 00:15:35,392
and all of a sudden
you spend 24 hours with them.
306
00:15:35,476 --> 00:15:38,896
I'm already thinking the worst, right?
That's not good.
307
00:15:38,979 --> 00:15:40,439
I understand, take your time,
308
00:15:40,522 --> 00:15:43,317
and, like, you know, if you're
obviously uncomfortable, call me.
309
00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,361
I'll, you know, I mean, we can
310
00:15:45,444 --> 00:15:49,281
obviously get you a helicopter
or a train out there, so…
311
00:15:49,365 --> 00:15:53,118
I think that it's a great thing
that Kevin and Kim are going to Solvang.
312
00:15:53,202 --> 00:15:58,457
'Cause I do feel like Kim will find out
that they're better off as friends,
313
00:15:58,540 --> 00:16:02,419
because I don't think he's ready
to settle with anyone at this moment.
314
00:16:02,503 --> 00:16:04,880
Basically, Kevin's a man-whore.
315
00:16:08,634 --> 00:16:09,510
Duh.
316
00:16:19,061 --> 00:16:19,895
Hi!
317
00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:21,146
-Hi.
-How are you?
318
00:16:21,230 --> 00:16:24,692
-I'm so excited to be meeting you.
-You have no idea how excited I am.
319
00:16:24,775 --> 00:16:27,111
I couldn't sleep last night.
I was so excited.
320
00:16:27,194 --> 00:16:29,947
Really? That makes me happy
because I didn't sleep either.
321
00:16:30,030 --> 00:16:31,532
My gosh. Have a seat.
322
00:16:31,615 --> 00:16:32,533
-Stunning.
-Thanks.
323
00:16:32,616 --> 00:16:36,078
We're about to start construction,
so this whole place will be gutted.
324
00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:38,038
-Okay.
-Next time, it'll be different.
325
00:16:38,122 --> 00:16:40,666
-Okay.
-I have no idea what to expect.
326
00:16:40,749 --> 00:16:44,086
I recently, um, went to see my therapist.
327
00:16:44,169 --> 00:16:46,338
She said I need to work more on, like,
328
00:16:47,214 --> 00:16:50,801
more confidence
and also be grounded in my body
329
00:16:50,884 --> 00:16:54,722
and like, stay present in my body,
and I'm like, "What does that even mean?"
330
00:16:54,805 --> 00:16:57,057
She was like, "You definitely need help."
331
00:16:57,141 --> 00:17:00,352
That's where you come in.
I'm really excited but a little scared.
332
00:17:00,436 --> 00:17:02,312
Okay, I can tell you what I do first,
333
00:17:02,396 --> 00:17:04,982
and then that will probably ease
334
00:17:05,065 --> 00:17:07,317
some of your tension or nervousness.
335
00:17:07,401 --> 00:17:08,235
Okay.
336
00:17:08,318 --> 00:17:10,320
Because what I do is,
337
00:17:10,404 --> 00:17:14,199
it sounds crazy, but it's a sexual
confidence and personal power coach.
338
00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:17,619
And I basically just walk people
onto their feminine,
339
00:17:17,703 --> 00:17:20,372
-sexy journey.
-Okay. Okay.
340
00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:23,709
-It's very rooted in your personal power.
-Okay.
341
00:17:23,792 --> 00:17:28,756
So I want to hear
about how you feel about your sexuality.
342
00:17:28,839 --> 00:17:30,424
What do you want to improve on?
343
00:17:30,507 --> 00:17:34,136
Well, first of all, I haven't had
any action at all for, like, ever.
344
00:17:34,219 --> 00:17:36,138
Okay, so including with yourself?
345
00:17:36,221 --> 00:17:38,182
Oh, no. That doesn't… Does that count?
346
00:17:38,265 --> 00:17:40,642
-I think it counts.
-My vibrator is working overtime.
347
00:17:40,726 --> 00:17:42,603
Okay, her… Okay, that's good.
348
00:17:42,686 --> 00:17:45,647
The good thing is
I don't have to pay for overtime.
349
00:17:45,731 --> 00:17:47,649
You're like, in your kitchen,
350
00:17:48,233 --> 00:17:49,985
on your couch, on the table.
351
00:17:50,069 --> 00:17:52,780
Vacuuming, okay.
352
00:17:52,863 --> 00:17:54,865
Not that excess, but, yeah.
353
00:17:54,948 --> 00:17:57,034
No, of course, that's a given, I think.
354
00:17:57,117 --> 00:18:00,704
I think everybody should have a vibrator.
Every woman should have a vibrator.
355
00:18:00,788 --> 00:18:04,041
Okay, so what I would like to do is,
we are going to ground.
356
00:18:04,124 --> 00:18:08,754
I want to literally sun our buttholes.
357
00:18:10,756 --> 00:18:13,467
-Have you heard of this before?
-I've never heard of that.
358
00:18:13,550 --> 00:18:15,427
So it's called sunning your perineum.
359
00:18:15,511 --> 00:18:19,306
It is actually a Tibetan
Eastern ancient experience,
360
00:18:19,389 --> 00:18:21,850
and what it does is it brings prana,
361
00:18:21,934 --> 00:18:26,063
it brings energy from the sun, to regulate
our sexuality to feel powerful.
362
00:18:26,146 --> 00:18:27,564
-All right.
363
00:18:27,648 --> 00:18:30,275
So with that,
let's get changed into something
364
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,445
that you can take your pants off
and not be completely naked.
365
00:18:33,529 --> 00:18:34,655
Okay, all right.
366
00:18:35,155 --> 00:18:38,742
Not sure this is what Dr. Bethany means
when she said I need to ground myself.
367
00:18:38,826 --> 00:18:42,663
But for me right now it's the, you know,
the year of the yes, so why not?
368
00:18:42,746 --> 00:18:43,747
It wouldn't hurt.
369
00:18:43,831 --> 00:18:45,541
-Are you ready?
-What are we doing?
370
00:18:45,624 --> 00:18:48,544
What we're going to do
is we're going to take our pants off.
371
00:18:48,627 --> 00:18:51,672
-Take our underwears off?
-We're putting our buttholes to the sun!
372
00:18:51,755 --> 00:18:53,799
What if there's bugs
that crawl in our butt?
373
00:18:53,882 --> 00:18:55,342
I don't think there will be.
374
00:18:55,425 --> 00:18:56,969
-All right.
-I'll do it with you.
375
00:18:57,052 --> 00:18:59,096
So it'll be weird together.
376
00:18:59,179 --> 00:19:00,430
Let's do this.
377
00:19:00,514 --> 00:19:02,516
-What do we do?
-You're doing so great.
378
00:19:02,599 --> 00:19:05,394
So as we're laying here,
go ahead and get comfortable.
379
00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:08,397
Let's bring our feet to the earth,
and bend your knees.
380
00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:12,526
You can go ahead
and allow the sun, just like this,
381
00:19:12,609 --> 00:19:14,736
to sun your womanhood.
382
00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:17,030
I'm sunbathing my vagina!
383
00:19:17,114 --> 00:19:20,200
-How does it feel?
-I've never done this in my life.
384
00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:23,453
-I don't think I'll do it again but okay.
-Isn't it crazy?
385
00:19:23,537 --> 00:19:25,539
So let's bring our legs up like this.
386
00:19:25,622 --> 00:19:28,250
We're literally gonna do
happy baby like towards the sky.
387
00:19:28,333 --> 00:19:29,918
-Isn't happy baby like this?
-Yes.
388
00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:31,420
Do you feel the sun
389
00:19:31,503 --> 00:19:33,964
just, like, charging your body
and feeling great?
390
00:19:34,047 --> 00:19:37,551
-I feel warm. Is that charging?
-Yes. Yes, it is.
391
00:19:37,634 --> 00:19:41,305
This is definitely a memorable experience.
392
00:19:41,388 --> 00:19:44,224
-Yeah.
-This is beyond what I had imagined.
393
00:19:44,933 --> 00:19:47,227
-Let's move to the mirror.
-Okay.
394
00:19:47,311 --> 00:19:51,064
I'd like you to scream some affirmations
with me, okay?
395
00:19:51,148 --> 00:19:52,566
I'd like you to repeat after me.
396
00:19:53,150 --> 00:19:54,985
Okay, ready? Inhale.
397
00:19:56,278 --> 00:19:57,196
Exhale.
398
00:19:58,197 --> 00:19:59,281
I am sexy.
399
00:19:59,364 --> 00:20:00,574
I am sexy.
400
00:20:00,657 --> 00:20:02,242
And my voice matters.
401
00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:03,619
And my voice matters.
402
00:20:03,702 --> 00:20:04,870
Good.
403
00:20:05,454 --> 00:20:06,663
I am worthy.
404
00:20:07,748 --> 00:20:09,082
I am worthy.
405
00:20:09,166 --> 00:20:10,542
I am beautiful.
406
00:20:10,626 --> 00:20:11,627
I am beautiful.
407
00:20:11,710 --> 00:20:13,629
I am powerful in my body.
408
00:20:13,712 --> 00:20:15,881
I am powerful in my body.
409
00:20:15,964 --> 00:20:16,798
Yes.
410
00:20:16,882 --> 00:20:20,802
Okay, now together we're going
to scream at the top of our lungs.
411
00:20:20,886 --> 00:20:22,846
-Okay, ready?
-What's the first one?
412
00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:23,931
I trust myself.
413
00:20:24,014 --> 00:20:26,099
I want you to really imagine these words
414
00:20:26,183 --> 00:20:28,894
coming up from your uterus,
from your vagina.
415
00:20:28,977 --> 00:20:31,688
-Really from your feminine center, okay?
-Okay.
416
00:20:31,772 --> 00:20:33,857
-One…
417
00:20:33,941 --> 00:20:35,943
…two, three.
418
00:20:36,026 --> 00:20:38,695
-I trust myself!
-I trust myself!
419
00:20:38,779 --> 00:20:40,530
-Good, again. That same one.
-Okay.
420
00:20:40,614 --> 00:20:43,033
-I trust myself!
-I trust myself!
421
00:20:51,041 --> 00:20:53,335
-Do you eat oysters? You do?
-I do.
422
00:20:53,418 --> 00:20:55,212
-Is it too high-end?
-A little, for you.
423
00:20:55,295 --> 00:20:56,838
-Really?
-I'm joking.
424
00:20:56,922 --> 00:20:57,798
Up.
425
00:20:59,132 --> 00:21:01,260
Thanks for having me. This is really nice.
426
00:21:02,469 --> 00:21:05,264
-Oh, it tastes good with all that stuff.
-Mm-hm.
427
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,732
-Calm down! Are you okay?
-I'm sorry.
428
00:21:15,816 --> 00:21:18,777
I'm eating it
before he takes it away from me.
429
00:21:20,112 --> 00:21:22,906
It's hilarious
going to eat with Kevin sometimes.
430
00:21:22,990 --> 00:21:25,951
It's like he starves himself
all day or something.
431
00:21:26,034 --> 00:21:27,869
You know we can order more, you know?
432
00:21:29,329 --> 00:21:33,250
It's so cute and sad
at the same time.
433
00:21:33,333 --> 00:21:35,711
-I don't want to assume anything…
-What?
434
00:21:35,794 --> 00:21:37,045
…but what
435
00:21:38,213 --> 00:21:40,924
do you want in a relationship?
436
00:21:41,717 --> 00:21:44,761
The new Kim is looking for real.
437
00:21:45,345 --> 00:21:47,848
-Real?
-Yeah, you can be successful.
438
00:21:47,931 --> 00:21:52,019
But what's the point of having a person
that's not loyal, not honest to you?
439
00:21:53,228 --> 00:21:55,522
He's gotta be funny too.
He's gotta have a sense of humor.
440
00:21:55,605 --> 00:21:56,815
Right, yeah.
441
00:21:56,898 --> 00:21:59,192
Yeah, he's got to be cute.
442
00:21:59,276 --> 00:22:01,028
I'm very much like you.
443
00:22:01,111 --> 00:22:03,572
Like, I really like somebody
who's grounded,
444
00:22:03,655 --> 00:22:05,866
a good head
on their shoulders, good values--
445
00:22:05,949 --> 00:22:08,952
-You don't care about looks?
-Looks obviously matters.
446
00:22:09,036 --> 00:22:10,912
You're obviously very beautiful.
447
00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:13,206
That's not the first thing
I noticed about you.
448
00:22:13,290 --> 00:22:14,791
What did you notice?
449
00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:21,256
-It's the laugh.
-What? My laugh?
450
00:22:21,340 --> 00:22:22,507
-Yeah.
-What about it?
451
00:22:22,591 --> 00:22:23,467
I like it.
452
00:22:24,343 --> 00:22:26,803
And, um, when we first met, especially.
453
00:22:26,887 --> 00:22:30,849
I went straight to just being friends
454
00:22:30,932 --> 00:22:34,478
'cause I never thought someone like you
would be interested in someone like me.
455
00:22:34,561 --> 00:22:35,395
Really?
456
00:22:35,479 --> 00:22:37,522
Like, the guys you dated,
457
00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:42,027
like the résumé would have just been like,
blah, blah, blah, and then Kevin.
458
00:22:43,528 --> 00:22:46,615
My ex-girlfriend
who was also Vietnamese, I mean we dated.
459
00:22:46,698 --> 00:22:47,574
Oh, right.
460
00:22:47,657 --> 00:22:50,035
But at the end,
she told me I wasn't up to her level.
461
00:22:50,118 --> 00:22:51,703
Do you think that affected you?
462
00:22:53,705 --> 00:22:55,457
I want to be a rock for someone.
463
00:22:55,540 --> 00:22:58,835
I don't want to be a rock
weighing someone down.
464
00:22:59,503 --> 00:23:01,630
Sometimes it's not about your status.
465
00:23:01,713 --> 00:23:04,091
Not all women care about status.
466
00:23:04,174 --> 00:23:05,926
It's really how you carry yourself.
467
00:23:06,426 --> 00:23:09,304
You gotta remind yourself,
everyone's journey is very different.
468
00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:10,222
Yeah.
469
00:23:10,305 --> 00:23:13,850
I always thought Kevin is just
so great at communicating, you know.
470
00:23:13,934 --> 00:23:17,104
Like there's never a dull moment
between me and Kevin, you know.
471
00:23:17,187 --> 00:23:19,314
Obviously the chemistry's there.
472
00:23:19,398 --> 00:23:21,608
We laugh. We have fun.
473
00:23:21,691 --> 00:23:26,029
So I think that's what I like
about what we have.
474
00:23:27,364 --> 00:23:28,824
I appreciate you, you know,
475
00:23:29,408 --> 00:23:30,283
opening up.
476
00:23:31,076 --> 00:23:34,454
And, um,
I didn't know this other side of you.
477
00:23:34,538 --> 00:23:36,790
You said you want a guy
who's honest, right?
478
00:23:36,873 --> 00:23:37,707
Oh, yeah.
479
00:23:37,791 --> 00:23:41,461
And I want to be really honest
with you from this point on.
480
00:23:42,421 --> 00:23:45,549
There's another layer
that I think you should know about.
481
00:23:46,508 --> 00:23:47,634
And that's like,
482
00:23:48,260 --> 00:23:51,680
I am sober and, like,
483
00:23:51,763 --> 00:23:54,558
I'm in a 12-step program.
484
00:23:55,517 --> 00:23:56,935
Like AA?
485
00:23:57,018 --> 00:23:58,395
AA stuff, yeah.
486
00:23:58,478 --> 00:23:59,563
Wow.
487
00:24:00,355 --> 00:24:02,023
Going to meetings every day,
488
00:24:02,858 --> 00:24:03,775
I have a sponsor.
489
00:24:09,030 --> 00:24:10,866
Yeah.
490
00:24:15,620 --> 00:24:17,122
If anything, that's inspiring.
491
00:24:18,665 --> 00:24:20,542
The fact that you're trying,
492
00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:22,961
that you put an effort,
493
00:24:23,044 --> 00:24:24,129
I'm all for that.
494
00:24:25,213 --> 00:24:28,800
I've told a lot of girls on dates
about me being sober.
495
00:24:28,884 --> 00:24:30,927
It never seems to get easier.
496
00:24:31,011 --> 00:24:35,056
I mean, the fact that I tell Kim
that I'm sober, and she's just like,
497
00:24:35,140 --> 00:24:37,476
"Man, I respect that,"
498
00:24:37,559 --> 00:24:40,562
it just made me feel
really good because now I realize
499
00:24:40,645 --> 00:24:42,564
my impression of Kim is right.
500
00:24:42,647 --> 00:24:44,566
Like, she is a genuine person.
501
00:24:44,649 --> 00:24:47,777
And I think that's just a clear sign
of, like, this is special.
502
00:24:48,445 --> 00:24:51,781
I just want you to know,
like, I want to take it more seriously.
503
00:24:53,325 --> 00:24:54,576
Like truly.
504
00:24:55,744 --> 00:24:58,663
I'd really… I'm just going to say it,
505
00:24:58,747 --> 00:25:00,123
what do you think
506
00:25:00,916 --> 00:25:02,959
about, um, like, letting me know,
507
00:25:03,043 --> 00:25:07,005
like, what I can do
to make you feel more assured
508
00:25:07,088 --> 00:25:10,008
and, like, that I would
take this more seriously?
509
00:25:11,301 --> 00:25:12,594
Let me see your phone.
510
00:25:12,677 --> 00:25:13,970
What do you wanna see?
511
00:25:15,347 --> 00:25:16,932
-Social media.
-I don't have my phone.
512
00:25:17,015 --> 00:25:18,767
-Where's your phone?
-It's in the car.
513
00:25:18,850 --> 00:25:20,602
Like literally, it's in the car.
514
00:25:21,686 --> 00:25:23,647
What a coincidence.
Your phone's in your car.
515
00:25:23,730 --> 00:25:25,857
I'm being serious.
I would let you see my phone.
516
00:25:25,941 --> 00:25:27,692
-You would do that?
-I would.
517
00:25:27,776 --> 00:25:30,904
When I find someone, I close all doors.
518
00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:32,155
Even the back door?
519
00:25:32,906 --> 00:25:34,950
I can't promise that.
I like the back door.
520
00:25:54,427 --> 00:25:57,097
Thank you for coming.
So are you Japanese?
521
00:25:57,180 --> 00:25:58,723
-I am.
-Oh.
522
00:25:58,807 --> 00:26:01,017
-Do you speak Japanese?
523
00:26:01,101 --> 00:26:03,937
-Ah. I don't. I'm sorry.
524
00:26:04,020 --> 00:26:06,022
Oh, coming, coming.
525
00:26:07,607 --> 00:26:09,109
Can I take those flowers?
526
00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:11,570
-These are actually from Provence.
-Oh, really?
527
00:26:11,653 --> 00:26:15,490
They're picked in Provence,
and so this has a symbolic meaning.
528
00:26:15,574 --> 00:26:18,076
-It's called Pope's flower or something.
-Wow.
529
00:26:18,159 --> 00:26:23,373
So actually, I really am thankful
for you sharing with me about your mom.
530
00:26:23,456 --> 00:26:27,210
And this is something small
to remind you of your mom, so…
531
00:26:27,294 --> 00:26:28,378
Aw.
532
00:26:28,461 --> 00:26:31,548
Oh my gosh, you're so sweet.
533
00:26:32,340 --> 00:26:34,801
Oh my gosh.
534
00:26:35,468 --> 00:26:37,220
You can change the initials.
535
00:26:37,304 --> 00:26:39,639
I asked Dr. Chiu,
"What's your mom's initials?"
536
00:26:39,723 --> 00:26:43,226
It's something that you can look
at it, and it's going to be forever.
537
00:26:43,310 --> 00:26:45,645
-This is so sweet.
-Real diamonds.
538
00:26:45,729 --> 00:26:47,230
This is so sweet.
539
00:26:47,814 --> 00:26:49,941
My mom passed a year ago.
540
00:26:50,025 --> 00:26:54,696
I wish I had one more second,
one more millisecond with my mother.
541
00:26:54,779 --> 00:26:58,783
All of my clothes, all of my shoes,
all of my jewelry, all of my cars,
542
00:26:58,867 --> 00:27:00,827
I would trade it all for my mom.
543
00:27:00,910 --> 00:27:04,581
And I think about that every single day.
544
00:27:05,373 --> 00:27:08,168
My parents were always
really busy when I was a kid.
545
00:27:08,251 --> 00:27:12,422
I think the only time
I got to spend with my mom
546
00:27:13,381 --> 00:27:15,425
was when she was making mochi.
547
00:27:15,508 --> 00:27:18,345
Kane has really shown himself
to be a good friend
548
00:27:18,428 --> 00:27:21,640
and has reached out
during really tough times.
549
00:27:21,723 --> 00:27:24,434
So I can't wait
to spend some time with him.
550
00:27:24,517 --> 00:27:28,396
Mochi, actually, is seasonal. Uh…
551
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,315
Special occasion we do in Japan.
552
00:27:30,398 --> 00:27:34,653
Those one and eating in The New Year.
So they're holding wealth.
553
00:27:34,736 --> 00:27:37,906
So, the bigger the mochi,
the more wealth? Or is there a--
554
00:27:37,989 --> 00:27:40,075
-It's not about size.
-Sometimes it is.
555
00:27:41,701 --> 00:27:44,037
Chef, you do one,
Christina and I do one, you judge.
556
00:27:44,120 --> 00:27:45,038
Okay.
557
00:27:45,121 --> 00:27:47,749
-Oh, no, chef, this is a competition.
-What?
558
00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:49,000
Are you ready?
559
00:27:49,084 --> 00:27:49,959
Gold.
560
00:27:50,043 --> 00:27:51,169
What?
561
00:27:51,252 --> 00:27:53,254
-Fuck yes.
-How did you get gold?
562
00:27:53,338 --> 00:27:55,382
Where did you whip that out?
563
00:27:55,465 --> 00:27:56,841
Oh, I got an idea.
564
00:27:56,925 --> 00:27:58,635
-You just wait.
565
00:27:58,718 --> 00:28:02,138
Judging my mochi,
it's going to be beautiful.
566
00:28:02,222 --> 00:28:04,683
Look, Christine, look!
It's like a ball sack.
567
00:28:07,185 --> 00:28:08,436
Kane.
568
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,523
-Eat it. I'll teach you a trick.
-You are destroying Japanese--
569
00:28:11,606 --> 00:28:13,483
No, it's my artwork, hold on.
570
00:28:13,566 --> 00:28:14,609
I'm going to name it.
571
00:28:14,693 --> 00:28:16,403
-No, this is--
-Wait, are you done--
572
00:28:16,486 --> 00:28:18,405
-This is like a modern interpretation.
-No!
573
00:28:19,489 --> 00:28:21,658
-I'm gonna…
-My God, I can't win that.
574
00:28:21,741 --> 00:28:23,618
All right, chef, are you ready?
575
00:28:24,285 --> 00:28:26,955
This is a mochi made of love,
576
00:28:27,038 --> 00:28:28,331
compassion…
577
00:28:28,415 --> 00:28:29,708
Compassion?
578
00:28:31,793 --> 00:28:34,003
He's like, "Where's the door?"
579
00:28:34,087 --> 00:28:37,215
Chef, you said that mochis are a symbol
580
00:28:37,298 --> 00:28:39,676
of wealth and prosperity.
581
00:28:39,759 --> 00:28:40,593
You win.
582
00:28:40,677 --> 00:28:44,180
And I present you,
583
00:28:44,264 --> 00:28:46,182
the blingiest fucking mochi ever!
584
00:28:47,642 --> 00:28:49,519
You win at that.
585
00:28:49,602 --> 00:28:51,271
-Okay.
-Okay, I take it home.
586
00:29:01,990 --> 00:29:03,241
Hello.
587
00:29:03,324 --> 00:29:05,535
These are my friends.
This is Athena and June.
588
00:29:05,618 --> 00:29:07,036
I brought them with me.
589
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,706
This is the first look. Uh…
590
00:29:09,789 --> 00:29:11,875
We're gonna do
some digital film, as usual.
591
00:29:11,958 --> 00:29:12,792
Yeah.
592
00:29:12,876 --> 00:29:15,378
Yoshi is a photographer I met last year.
593
00:29:15,462 --> 00:29:19,299
And I love him
because he's so kind and funny,
594
00:29:19,382 --> 00:29:22,677
and him and I are very good
at kinda collaborating on ideas
595
00:29:22,761 --> 00:29:25,930
and coming up with something cool,
which is what I love.
596
00:29:27,265 --> 00:29:28,933
Crazy, right there on that.
597
00:29:29,642 --> 00:29:30,602
Higher, there you go.
598
00:29:32,353 --> 00:29:33,980
Right there, love that.
599
00:29:34,063 --> 00:29:35,315
A few more.
600
00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:37,484
And fire.
601
00:29:37,984 --> 00:29:41,905
Go and change. Yeah, Anna is supposed
to be here, but she's, like, always late.
602
00:29:45,909 --> 00:29:47,202
Hi, guys.
603
00:29:48,244 --> 00:29:51,456
-Anna, you're here.
-Yes, on time.
604
00:29:52,749 --> 00:29:55,210
Hello! Good to see you. It's so--
605
00:29:55,293 --> 00:29:58,379
-Hi, how are you?
-You smell good. Good to see you.
606
00:29:58,463 --> 00:29:59,380
Nice to see you.
607
00:29:59,464 --> 00:30:02,926
This is my go-to photographer here, Yoshi.
608
00:30:03,009 --> 00:30:04,636
-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
609
00:30:04,719 --> 00:30:07,138
-You have a Japanese name, Yoshi.
-I know.
610
00:30:07,222 --> 00:30:09,098
-You're half?
-I'm half Japanese.
611
00:30:09,182 --> 00:30:11,059
-Do you speak Japanese?
-A little bit.
612
00:30:11,142 --> 00:30:12,727
So, you speak some.
613
00:30:12,811 --> 00:30:14,395
-I don't.
614
00:30:14,479 --> 00:30:16,606
No, of course you-- you're not Japanese.
615
00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:18,691
-I know. I only know--
-We are Japanese.
616
00:30:18,775 --> 00:30:21,027
-A little bit.
-Half.
617
00:30:21,110 --> 00:30:24,072
-We're all half.
-All right. Wanna take some pictures?
618
00:30:24,155 --> 00:30:26,866
-I'd like to watch you.
-You wanna watch me take pictures?
619
00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:31,120
I already took some. I should change
because I took a bunch in this outfit.
620
00:30:31,204 --> 00:30:32,622
Jaime is so much fun.
621
00:30:33,915 --> 00:30:36,626
And we have so many things in common.
622
00:30:36,709 --> 00:30:38,795
Unlike some people that we seem to know.
623
00:30:38,878 --> 00:30:41,756
I don't need to hear gossip,
624
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,049
and neither does Jaime.
625
00:30:43,132 --> 00:30:46,678
She doesn't play all this bullshit game.
626
00:30:46,761 --> 00:30:48,471
It's just so refreshing.
627
00:30:49,764 --> 00:30:51,975
It's, like, falling off my… Okay.
628
00:31:01,025 --> 00:31:02,986
Jaime, why are you doing this?
629
00:31:03,069 --> 00:31:05,113
Huh? Oh, for content.
630
00:31:06,614 --> 00:31:08,408
-What content?
-I don't know.
631
00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:10,827
Like, you know, for Instagram.
632
00:31:10,910 --> 00:31:12,412
-Instagram?
-Yeah.
633
00:31:13,204 --> 00:31:14,873
-How now?
-I'll have to teach you.
634
00:31:14,956 --> 00:31:17,000
No, I know like, you know, uh…
635
00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:19,127
-You have--
-I'm too old for this.
636
00:31:19,210 --> 00:31:21,671
-You can't be too old for Instagram.
-Yes.
637
00:31:21,754 --> 00:31:22,922
Mm…
638
00:31:23,006 --> 00:31:24,632
Even my dad has one.
639
00:31:24,716 --> 00:31:26,634
-I'm older than your father.
640
00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:28,636
I'm older than your father.
641
00:31:30,138 --> 00:31:31,180
I…
642
00:31:31,764 --> 00:31:34,058
I, I feel like
you need to get more into it.
643
00:31:34,142 --> 00:31:37,353
'Cause you have a young,
fun energy. And people like that, so…
644
00:31:37,437 --> 00:31:38,980
That looks amazing.
645
00:31:39,063 --> 00:31:39,939
Right?
646
00:31:40,023 --> 00:31:43,484
I know, that and I need
some photos to add some--
647
00:31:43,568 --> 00:31:44,444
All right, okay.
648
00:31:44,527 --> 00:31:46,529
-Yeah.
-This is cool.
649
00:31:46,613 --> 00:31:47,780
Damn, this is cool.
650
00:31:47,864 --> 00:31:50,116
My family is pretty serious,
651
00:31:50,199 --> 00:31:52,994
and they all kinda
just do their own thing.
652
00:31:53,077 --> 00:31:57,832
So I'm so happy to have developed
a friendship with Anna,
653
00:31:57,916 --> 00:32:02,545
who also loves to do crazy, spontaneous
things and adventures with me.
654
00:32:02,629 --> 00:32:08,134
She's like my LA mom,
and a more fun version of my real mom.
655
00:32:09,260 --> 00:32:10,261
Right there.
656
00:32:11,846 --> 00:32:13,181
Yes, yes.
657
00:32:13,264 --> 00:32:14,265
Oh, wow.
658
00:32:15,808 --> 00:32:16,976
Okay.
659
00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:20,855
Love that, right there.
660
00:32:22,315 --> 00:32:23,608
Perfect.
661
00:32:23,691 --> 00:32:24,817
Check it out.
662
00:32:25,693 --> 00:32:27,570
This would be cute
for a story on Instagram.
663
00:32:27,654 --> 00:32:30,365
-For Instagram story.
-Tell her how to do it.
664
00:32:30,448 --> 00:32:34,369
Now to do it on Instagram, go to the app,
665
00:32:34,452 --> 00:32:35,703
click on "post,"
666
00:32:35,787 --> 00:32:38,581
then you press "select multiple," right?
667
00:32:38,665 --> 00:32:39,999
Now tap on that one.
668
00:32:41,250 --> 00:32:43,503
There. You click "next."
669
00:32:43,586 --> 00:32:45,672
Okay, now you have to think of a caption.
670
00:32:45,755 --> 00:32:49,008
Here, I'm really bad at captions,
so I just put some emojis.
671
00:32:49,092 --> 00:32:52,971
You don't want to be like Christine
or Kane and do those really long ones,
672
00:32:53,054 --> 00:32:55,974
with the big deep quotes
'cause nobody even reads that anyway.
673
00:32:56,057 --> 00:32:57,976
This is the first thing people will see.
674
00:32:58,059 --> 00:33:00,228
How about alien emojis, the green ones?
675
00:33:00,311 --> 00:33:03,147
Yeah, or I'll put a bunch
of random green emojis.
676
00:33:03,231 --> 00:33:04,732
Like, I put, like, an avocado.
677
00:33:04,816 --> 00:33:06,651
You can do the frog.
678
00:33:06,734 --> 00:33:07,652
Oh, yeah.
679
00:33:07,735 --> 00:33:10,571
The frog.
And there's, like, some broccoli.
680
00:33:10,655 --> 00:33:12,907
Then you click "share," and then it posts.
681
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:14,117
-Ready?
-Here?
682
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,910
-Yeah. Ready, it's…
-Ready?
683
00:33:15,994 --> 00:33:17,704
-Go.
-You press it.
684
00:33:18,705 --> 00:33:20,164
Oops. No, press…
685
00:33:20,999 --> 00:33:22,500
It's not let…
686
00:33:24,085 --> 00:33:25,378
Oops.
687
00:33:25,461 --> 00:33:26,754
I don't understand it.
688
00:33:26,838 --> 00:33:28,172
Mmm…
689
00:33:29,257 --> 00:33:30,133
Uh-oh.
690
00:33:30,216 --> 00:33:31,676
Oh, okay, it posted.
691
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:33,761
-Yay!
-Yeah, we did it!
692
00:33:33,845 --> 00:33:35,680
251 likes.
693
00:33:36,889 --> 00:33:37,974
Crazy shit!
694
00:33:38,516 --> 00:33:39,809
Yeah, it's cool, right?
695
00:33:39,892 --> 00:33:41,352
This is so much fun.
696
00:33:41,936 --> 00:33:43,187
I know, it's fun.
697
00:33:43,271 --> 00:33:46,607
I just think that Jaime
is fucking amazing.
698
00:33:47,275 --> 00:33:49,694
She's genius. She's creative.
699
00:33:49,777 --> 00:33:50,820
She's funny.
700
00:33:51,404 --> 00:33:54,907
And when I see her,
I feel sometimes it reminds me
701
00:33:54,991 --> 00:33:56,826
of the things that I would do.
702
00:33:57,368 --> 00:33:58,745
I'm looking.
703
00:33:59,871 --> 00:34:01,414
-I think maybe--
704
00:34:01,497 --> 00:34:05,001
-I, I was almost… Oh my gosh!
705
00:34:05,084 --> 00:34:08,463
We are several decades apart…
706
00:34:09,338 --> 00:34:11,215
Shit!
707
00:34:11,299 --> 00:34:13,342
…but it doesn't seem like it.
708
00:34:15,178 --> 00:34:17,805
-Oh my gosh!
-Okay, I got it!
709
00:34:17,889 --> 00:34:19,807
-Don't move.
-I'm not moving.
710
00:34:20,349 --> 00:34:23,061
-Are they coming back?
711
00:34:37,575 --> 00:34:39,285
It's so cold.
712
00:34:39,368 --> 00:34:40,870
Ooh, this is fun!
713
00:34:40,953 --> 00:34:42,163
Yeah.
714
00:34:42,246 --> 00:34:44,665
I've never done this in my life.
715
00:34:44,749 --> 00:34:47,627
Ever? This is your first?
God, so many firsts today, huh?
716
00:34:48,252 --> 00:34:50,713
I know. You popped my cherry
on everything tonight.
717
00:34:50,797 --> 00:34:53,091
-It's very memorable.
718
00:34:53,966 --> 00:34:55,259
Wait, it's melting.
719
00:34:55,343 --> 00:34:57,136
-Not supposed to put it all the way.
720
00:34:57,220 --> 00:35:00,556
Wait, we got an emergency
graham cracker situation.
721
00:35:01,057 --> 00:35:03,893
-Ready? There we are.
-It looks like someone's saggy balls.
722
00:35:05,561 --> 00:35:08,314
-What balls are you looking at?
723
00:35:08,397 --> 00:35:12,193
I definitely feel my attraction
towards Kim is way more than physical.
724
00:35:12,276 --> 00:35:14,529
Because to be real, I know she's hot,
725
00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:17,198
but I never really felt
that physically attracted to her.
726
00:35:17,281 --> 00:35:21,035
And as we get to share more
of each other's life experiences together,
727
00:35:21,119 --> 00:35:23,496
I mean, it's like magic
connecting with her.
728
00:35:23,579 --> 00:35:24,956
Right?
729
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:27,250
This is very good.
730
00:35:27,333 --> 00:35:29,210
I wish I would have booked two nights.
731
00:35:29,293 --> 00:35:31,337
Can't believe
we're leaving tomorrow already.
732
00:35:31,921 --> 00:35:34,340
-Yeah, I know. I know.
-Hm?
733
00:35:34,966 --> 00:35:39,387
Before I turned three, around the time
as my birthday, I came to the US.
734
00:35:39,470 --> 00:35:40,429
You still remember?
735
00:35:40,513 --> 00:35:43,182
I still remember, like in my dad's arms,
736
00:35:43,266 --> 00:35:46,561
coming into my home for the first time,
and just being scared.
737
00:35:46,644 --> 00:35:48,479
You were like, "Who are these people?"
738
00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:50,815
I don't think I was like,
"Who are these people?"
739
00:35:50,898 --> 00:35:52,400
-Like--
-Where are you going?
740
00:35:52,483 --> 00:35:53,317
Yeah.
741
00:35:53,401 --> 00:35:55,486
Like, "What's going to happen from here?"
742
00:35:56,112 --> 00:36:00,366
And, uh, shortly after, my mom
had my brother about a month later.
743
00:36:02,451 --> 00:36:04,287
-Whoa.
-Yeah, and he's white.
744
00:36:04,370 --> 00:36:05,997
He's biological.
745
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,292
He not once told me,
like, "You're adopted."
746
00:36:09,876 --> 00:36:13,963
That's a good thing. They look at you
as their brother. That's a good thing.
747
00:36:14,046 --> 00:36:15,089
Thank you.
748
00:36:19,093 --> 00:36:21,012
Can you stop eating?
749
00:36:23,181 --> 00:36:24,932
You have a piece in your mouth here.
750
00:36:25,016 --> 00:36:26,517
Like right here.
751
00:36:26,601 --> 00:36:28,394
You got a long tongue.
752
00:36:28,477 --> 00:36:29,896
Jesus Christ.
753
00:36:33,024 --> 00:36:35,067
-Tonight was so much fun.
-Yeah.
754
00:36:35,151 --> 00:36:38,696
I honestly didn't think
it'll turn out like this.
755
00:36:38,779 --> 00:36:42,033
-I would've given you a ride.
-If I said, "You're boring. Take me back"?
756
00:36:42,116 --> 00:36:44,911
-Yeah, if you really--
-In that case, let's go back now.
757
00:36:47,038 --> 00:36:49,040
No, no, I'm joking. No.
758
00:36:49,582 --> 00:36:50,583
Um…
759
00:36:51,500 --> 00:36:54,253
Yeah, it's, um…
You definitely surprised me tonight.
760
00:36:56,005 --> 00:36:57,590
I think you did too for me.
761
00:36:57,673 --> 00:36:59,383
You're not just…
762
00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:01,802
I don't look at you as just, a fuck boy.
763
00:37:03,846 --> 00:37:05,973
-Is that originally what you thought?
-Yes!
764
00:37:06,057 --> 00:37:06,933
Really?
765
00:37:08,476 --> 00:37:10,811
Yeah, but I didn't think…
766
00:37:13,689 --> 00:37:14,607
Yeah.