1 00:00:09,926 --> 00:00:11,428 [instrumental music playing] 2 00:00:13,179 --> 00:00:14,222 [vocalizing] 3 00:00:16,057 --> 00:00:18,476 ♪ Yeah, you call me on the show ♪ 4 00:00:19,227 --> 00:00:21,312 ♪ Got me forgettin' who I am ♪ 5 00:00:22,188 --> 00:00:24,232 ♪ I'm gonna love myself ♪ 6 00:00:25,483 --> 00:00:27,485 ♪ Better than you can ♪ 7 00:00:28,361 --> 00:00:29,529 [Anna] Maria, stand on that. 8 00:00:30,405 --> 00:00:32,157 You let go, I die. 9 00:00:34,784 --> 00:00:35,618 [doorbell rings] 10 00:00:35,702 --> 00:00:37,037 [dog barks] 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,705 Oh my God, the door-- 12 00:00:38,788 --> 00:00:40,415 Palasco, the door is open. Open. 13 00:00:40,498 --> 00:00:42,375 Anna? Hey, guys. 14 00:00:43,001 --> 00:00:44,294 What are you doing? 15 00:00:44,377 --> 00:00:45,628 [Anna] Working. 16 00:00:45,712 --> 00:00:47,839 [Kevin] Wow, this place looks great, Anna. 17 00:00:47,922 --> 00:00:50,675 I mean, your other place was really nice, but this is… 18 00:00:52,343 --> 00:00:53,261 nice. 19 00:00:53,344 --> 00:00:54,721 -Yeah. -Thanks. 20 00:00:56,598 --> 00:00:58,516 Come on. What are we doing? 21 00:00:59,017 --> 00:01:02,103 We're going to put up these things. And they're-- 22 00:01:02,187 --> 00:01:03,730 -[screaming] -[glass shatters] 23 00:01:03,813 --> 00:01:05,315 [whimpers] 24 00:01:05,398 --> 00:01:06,316 [Anna] Yay, Kevin! 25 00:01:06,399 --> 00:01:08,443 -[laughs] -Did I do that? Did I do that? 26 00:01:08,526 --> 00:01:10,945 -I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. -[Anna] It's okay. 27 00:01:11,029 --> 00:01:12,864 Oh my God! 28 00:01:12,947 --> 00:01:15,867 -[Kevin] Is that real crystal? -Yes. We can buy a new one. 29 00:01:15,950 --> 00:01:17,118 Oh my God! 30 00:01:17,202 --> 00:01:19,704 All this crystal just shattered on the ground. 31 00:01:19,788 --> 00:01:21,664 I just feel so bad. 32 00:01:21,748 --> 00:01:25,877 It must've been thousands of dollars worth of crystal. Just pfff… 33 00:01:26,461 --> 00:01:27,837 -Look, it has to be-- -[yells] 34 00:01:27,921 --> 00:01:28,880 [Anna] Oh my God. 35 00:01:28,963 --> 00:01:30,465 I'm no help at all. [scoffs] 36 00:01:30,548 --> 00:01:31,883 No, don't touch this. 37 00:01:31,966 --> 00:01:33,218 [Kevin] Okay, you sure? 38 00:01:33,301 --> 00:01:35,011 -Yes. -[Kevin] Oh, fuck! 39 00:01:35,095 --> 00:01:38,056 -[Anna] Why did you do that? -I don't know. Things keep dropping. 40 00:01:39,516 --> 00:01:42,727 If you ever have a chandelier, or anything breakable, 41 00:01:42,811 --> 00:01:45,772 my best advice would be keep Kevin away. 42 00:01:45,855 --> 00:01:47,273 [Kevin] Did any not break? 43 00:01:47,357 --> 00:01:49,317 -[Anna] Yes. Okay, yay! -I got it! 44 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:50,360 -Now what? -Now we-- 45 00:01:50,443 --> 00:01:52,570 -[screaming] -[glass shatters] 46 00:01:52,654 --> 00:01:53,738 [Kevin] Oh my God. 47 00:01:57,283 --> 00:02:00,245 ♪ Just gotta get my money ride Money ride ♪ 48 00:02:00,328 --> 00:02:02,747 ♪ Just gotta get my money ride Money ride ♪ 49 00:02:02,831 --> 00:02:04,415 [vocalizing] 50 00:02:07,836 --> 00:02:10,004 Let's go, guys. You guys need exercise. 51 00:02:10,088 --> 00:02:11,923 They're not chubby. 52 00:02:12,006 --> 00:02:12,882 Come on. 53 00:02:12,966 --> 00:02:15,343 -Anna, have you ever used the pool? -No. 54 00:02:16,803 --> 00:02:18,263 Oh, Apollo, go! 55 00:02:20,223 --> 00:02:21,891 -Arrow. -They used to all dive. 56 00:02:21,975 --> 00:02:23,101 Now they're so lazy. 57 00:02:23,184 --> 00:02:24,352 Shit. Is it cold? 58 00:02:24,435 --> 00:02:25,603 It's fucking cold! 59 00:02:25,687 --> 00:02:27,272 [both laugh] 60 00:02:27,355 --> 00:02:28,273 Buy a heater! 61 00:02:29,399 --> 00:02:31,192 What made you buy this house, Anna? 62 00:02:31,776 --> 00:02:32,819 I don't know. 63 00:02:32,902 --> 00:02:35,238 -I saw it, I liked the driveway. -[Kane] Yeah. 64 00:02:35,321 --> 00:02:36,990 This suits you, you know. 65 00:02:37,073 --> 00:02:38,783 -[Anna] Yes. -How many bedrooms? 66 00:02:39,284 --> 00:02:41,703 -[Anna] Five. -And are they all your closets? 67 00:02:42,203 --> 00:02:44,831 -Pretty much, upstairs. -[Kane laughs] 68 00:02:44,914 --> 00:02:47,125 So, I had a really good time at your party. 69 00:02:47,208 --> 00:02:51,004 -You did, why? I'm just kidding. -'Cause the truffles were there. [laughs] 70 00:02:51,087 --> 00:02:54,257 The truffle potato chip was so good. I think we had a whole tray. 71 00:02:54,340 --> 00:02:57,010 -Christine was there, but she left early. -Yes, I saw her. 72 00:02:57,093 --> 00:02:57,969 [Kane] Yeah. 73 00:02:58,052 --> 00:03:01,139 -This time there was no table seating. -[Anna] I purposely did that. 74 00:03:01,222 --> 00:03:02,056 [laughs] 75 00:03:02,140 --> 00:03:04,851 This way nobody could bitch. [laughs] 76 00:03:04,934 --> 00:03:07,478 I had little round tables, like King Arthur. 77 00:03:07,562 --> 00:03:08,730 [Kane] Yeah. 78 00:03:08,813 --> 00:03:11,900 And you just sat in the other table? So that was your seating. 79 00:03:11,983 --> 00:03:14,485 [laughing] 80 00:03:14,569 --> 00:03:16,029 -[dog squeals] -Oh, come here. 81 00:03:16,571 --> 00:03:17,488 Give it to me! 82 00:03:19,741 --> 00:03:23,369 [Kane] It's so funny. When you were coming down, I just had to say something. 83 00:03:23,453 --> 00:03:25,246 I told Cherie, "Can we talk about it?" 84 00:03:25,330 --> 00:03:29,083 Leah basically shared the story with us and the group 85 00:03:29,167 --> 00:03:31,252 that Jessey has another family out there. 86 00:03:31,336 --> 00:03:35,882 And then, we found out she actually knew Jessey when he was married already. 87 00:03:35,965 --> 00:03:37,550 I've tried to reach out to Cherie. 88 00:03:37,634 --> 00:03:41,179 All I wanted was a conversation, and all I got was nothing. 89 00:03:41,262 --> 00:03:44,182 She's ignoring us, and I think it's because she realizes 90 00:03:44,265 --> 00:03:46,267 that we know about Jessey and Crystal. 91 00:03:46,351 --> 00:03:50,480 It's, I think, um, a lot to do with Asian culture, of saving face. 92 00:03:51,064 --> 00:03:52,649 What does it matter to you? 93 00:03:52,732 --> 00:03:56,069 Be up-front about it. Like I don't fucking care. I don't judge. 94 00:03:56,152 --> 00:03:58,154 I tried reaching out to her, 95 00:03:58,238 --> 00:04:00,448 and she didn't want to. 96 00:04:00,531 --> 00:04:01,866 She's not responding. 97 00:04:01,950 --> 00:04:06,621 She obviously thinks that I'm in the wrong or she just doesn't want to talk it out. 98 00:04:07,288 --> 00:04:10,541 Stay out of it. Didn't you learn your lesson by now? 99 00:04:10,625 --> 00:04:12,335 [exhales sharply] 100 00:04:12,418 --> 00:04:15,380 Let me ask you a question. Is everything okay with your family? 101 00:04:17,257 --> 00:04:20,677 Um, obviously, there's drama that's happening in Singapore. 102 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,846 But, like, it's nothing to do with my family. 103 00:04:23,930 --> 00:04:27,767 Gossip to me is absolutely diabolical. 104 00:04:28,726 --> 00:04:31,562 Kane's family has its own problems too. 105 00:04:31,646 --> 00:04:35,024 My dad's good. You know, we left the family business 20 years ago. 106 00:04:35,108 --> 00:04:37,485 I remember, you said your dad and your uncle? 107 00:04:37,568 --> 00:04:38,861 We left a long time ago. 108 00:04:38,945 --> 00:04:40,863 So I really, honestly 109 00:04:40,947 --> 00:04:43,283 don't know who he thinks he is 110 00:04:43,992 --> 00:04:45,285 to talk about people. 111 00:04:45,368 --> 00:04:49,580 This totally has nothing to do with my family at all. [scoffs] 112 00:04:50,498 --> 00:04:52,292 -Everything's good? -[Kane] Everything's great. 113 00:04:53,293 --> 00:04:54,711 -[Anna] No judgment? -No. 114 00:04:54,794 --> 00:04:58,006 -[Anna] Okay. -My dad told me nothing. Yeah, my dad. 115 00:04:58,089 --> 00:05:00,133 We've been so good, so, yeah. 116 00:05:00,758 --> 00:05:02,343 That's why I say it's so weird. 117 00:05:02,427 --> 00:05:05,722 This is the first time in my life that lawsuits and stuff is going on. 118 00:05:06,556 --> 00:05:10,768 Isn't… You know, every family goes through different things in life. 119 00:05:10,852 --> 00:05:13,813 And right in this case, like, it has nothing to do with us. 120 00:05:14,314 --> 00:05:16,858 You know. But it's tough because… 121 00:05:16,941 --> 00:05:18,109 Um… 122 00:05:19,110 --> 00:05:22,613 I'm sad for whatever is happening, but I can't do anything about it. 123 00:05:23,948 --> 00:05:28,077 I really, genuinely, like, don't want to talk about it anymore 124 00:05:28,161 --> 00:05:29,329 and just wanna, 125 00:05:30,121 --> 00:05:32,498 just wanna close the chapter and leave it alone. 126 00:05:33,583 --> 00:05:36,294 That's why it's important that you leave Cherie alone. 127 00:05:37,420 --> 00:05:39,130 Don't you get tired of gossip? 128 00:05:39,213 --> 00:05:42,842 It's not gossiping when there's some facts towards it. 129 00:05:42,925 --> 00:05:43,885 You're telling me. 130 00:05:44,677 --> 00:05:46,262 I just think it's very wrong 131 00:05:46,346 --> 00:05:50,391 to talk about the bad things that happen to a person. 132 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:53,102 When you start talking about people… 133 00:05:55,104 --> 00:05:58,191 then you really, seriously have to think 134 00:05:58,274 --> 00:06:00,109 about what it's going to do to them, 135 00:06:00,193 --> 00:06:01,861 to their lives, 136 00:06:01,944 --> 00:06:03,196 to their family. 137 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,740 There's a reason why people do what they do. 138 00:06:05,823 --> 00:06:07,241 You're not here to judge them. 139 00:06:08,117 --> 00:06:10,995 -Put yourself in that position. -I am. It sucks. 140 00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:14,624 I mean, given how much time we've spent as friends, 141 00:06:14,707 --> 00:06:18,169 I don't know if we're able to mend it at this point. 142 00:06:18,252 --> 00:06:20,213 I would just like Cherie to know that 143 00:06:20,296 --> 00:06:22,632 I don't think the intention is to hurt anyone. 144 00:06:22,715 --> 00:06:25,134 So I'll give her some breathing space, 145 00:06:25,218 --> 00:06:29,180 and when she's ready, I would love to just have a conversation with her. 146 00:06:29,263 --> 00:06:32,266 Can we get some food? I wanna go shopping. Shopping's more fun. 147 00:06:32,350 --> 00:06:33,351 Shopping is good. 148 00:06:33,434 --> 00:06:35,520 Shopping is more fun than this. [giggles] 149 00:06:35,603 --> 00:06:37,605 ♪ You can live away ♪ 150 00:06:37,688 --> 00:06:39,524 ♪ As long as I'm with you ♪ 151 00:06:39,607 --> 00:06:41,359 ♪ Mondays are good ♪ 152 00:06:41,442 --> 00:06:42,902 ♪ As long as I'm with you ♪ 153 00:06:42,985 --> 00:06:45,238 ♪ I feel so special ♪ 154 00:06:45,321 --> 00:06:46,531 ♪ As long as I'm with you ♪ 155 00:06:46,614 --> 00:06:50,159 -Your ride is here! -[Kim] What about my luggage? 156 00:06:50,243 --> 00:06:53,037 Oh, yeah. Let me come out. I got you. I got you. 157 00:06:53,121 --> 00:06:55,331 ♪ As long as I'm with you ♪ 158 00:06:57,166 --> 00:06:58,668 ♪ As long as I'm with you ♪ 159 00:06:58,751 --> 00:07:01,295 ♪ I feel so special As long as I'm with you ♪ 160 00:07:01,379 --> 00:07:03,256 -Where are we going? -[Kevin] Going to Solvang. 161 00:07:03,339 --> 00:07:05,800 [Kim] I usually don't go on road trips at all. 162 00:07:05,883 --> 00:07:07,385 -Never? -[Kim] Ever. 163 00:07:07,468 --> 00:07:10,346 -[Kevin] This is a big deal for you. -It's a huge deal. 164 00:07:10,430 --> 00:07:13,766 -I'm so glad you're here with me. -Yeah, you better feel special. 165 00:07:13,850 --> 00:07:18,020 -I do, I feel very special. [laughs] -Kim does not go on road trips at all. 166 00:07:18,104 --> 00:07:21,607 Going on this road trip with Kevin, what am I getting myself into? 167 00:07:21,691 --> 00:07:23,443 I hate road trips. 168 00:07:23,526 --> 00:07:27,238 It's making me nervous because I've never spent that much time with anybody. 169 00:07:27,321 --> 00:07:31,784 The only person I spend long hours with, that I can stand, is my cat. 170 00:07:33,202 --> 00:07:35,204 -You know how to drive? -[Kevin] I do. 171 00:07:35,288 --> 00:07:36,622 Should I trust you to drive? 172 00:07:36,706 --> 00:07:38,749 [Kevin] Of course, you should. I used to drive stick. 173 00:07:39,459 --> 00:07:44,088 I should trust a person that rides a skateboard every day to drive? 174 00:07:44,172 --> 00:07:45,465 [Kevin] But I'm renting this car. 175 00:07:45,548 --> 00:07:48,384 It has insurance. You're in safe hands. 176 00:07:49,510 --> 00:07:50,428 Okay. 177 00:07:51,345 --> 00:07:52,263 You ready? 178 00:07:53,222 --> 00:07:54,807 -I'm ready. -All right. 179 00:07:54,891 --> 00:07:56,350 [upbeat music playing] 180 00:08:00,021 --> 00:08:02,231 [Kevin] Have you ever dated a Korean guy? 181 00:08:02,315 --> 00:08:06,569 Um-hm. He was a lot more quiet than I am. 182 00:08:06,652 --> 00:08:08,779 -[Kevin] You're pretty loud. -[Kim] I'm pretty loud? 183 00:08:08,863 --> 00:08:10,656 -Not obnoxious though. -Okay. [laughs] 184 00:08:12,325 --> 00:08:14,577 [Kevin] I've never actually done a date like this before. 185 00:08:14,660 --> 00:08:17,622 I think getting outside of LA and doing a road trip with Kim 186 00:08:17,705 --> 00:08:19,832 will definitely get us closer together. 187 00:08:21,709 --> 00:08:23,127 It's so far. 188 00:08:23,669 --> 00:08:26,172 Or it's going to drive us apart. 189 00:08:26,255 --> 00:08:29,884 I made this special for you since it's your first road trip. 190 00:08:30,468 --> 00:08:31,636 Did you bring me snacks? 191 00:08:31,719 --> 00:08:32,929 -[Kevin] I did! -You did? 192 00:08:33,012 --> 00:08:35,223 -I got snacks! -[screams] Oh my God! 193 00:08:35,306 --> 00:08:37,934 -This popcorn is pretty good. -This is really cute. 194 00:08:38,017 --> 00:08:39,769 -Thank you. -[Kevin] You're welcome. 195 00:08:41,354 --> 00:08:44,023 -Want some? -You're eating already? This is for later. 196 00:08:44,106 --> 00:08:45,525 -Well just-- -[Kim] You're eating? 197 00:08:45,608 --> 00:08:46,651 I need to drive. 198 00:08:46,734 --> 00:08:48,361 I thought you got this for me. 199 00:08:48,444 --> 00:08:50,821 -Not for yourself. -I did, for us! 200 00:08:50,905 --> 00:08:54,367 Well, since you're eating, I'm eating too then. What? 201 00:08:54,450 --> 00:08:55,660 [laughing] 202 00:08:57,036 --> 00:08:58,454 You're not the only fat ass. 203 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:00,164 I out-fat assed you. [laughs] 204 00:09:02,083 --> 00:09:03,334 That was funny. 205 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:08,631 ♪ I'll reach for the stars ♪ 206 00:09:08,714 --> 00:09:10,841 ♪ No matter how far they are ♪ 207 00:09:10,925 --> 00:09:15,263 ♪ I'll reach for the stars ♪ 208 00:09:15,346 --> 00:09:18,057 ♪ No matter how far they are ♪ 209 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,643 -Hello! -Kelly! 210 00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:23,604 -It's lovely to see you. -It's so good to see you. 211 00:09:23,688 --> 00:09:25,856 I've been looking forward to seeing you. 212 00:09:25,940 --> 00:09:28,818 -Me too. -[Bethany] Um, what's the latest? 213 00:09:29,777 --> 00:09:32,071 I feel like there's so much, um… 214 00:09:32,738 --> 00:09:36,325 Well, you know that Drew and I are done for good. 215 00:09:36,409 --> 00:09:38,411 -Yeah. -[Kelly] But it's still very hard. 216 00:09:38,494 --> 00:09:41,205 But I know, like, a thousand percent, it is done. 217 00:09:41,289 --> 00:09:44,166 -There's no going back from this point. -Hmm. 218 00:09:44,250 --> 00:09:45,668 -I am proud of you… -Thank you. 219 00:09:45,751 --> 00:09:49,088 …for drawing a very, very firm boundary. 220 00:09:49,171 --> 00:09:51,507 It definitely took a very long time. 221 00:09:51,591 --> 00:09:54,802 But there must be a deep sense of loss. 222 00:09:55,595 --> 00:09:59,974 [Kelly] I've had a lot of nights already by myself that I've cried a lot. 223 00:10:00,683 --> 00:10:02,977 You know, really grieved. 224 00:10:04,061 --> 00:10:07,481 Not just on him or our relationship but me too, you know? 225 00:10:07,565 --> 00:10:09,317 Grieving the time I lost. 226 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:10,735 Mm-hm. 227 00:10:12,069 --> 00:10:15,948 The reason I stayed with him for so long, I was just hoping he can… 228 00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:20,620 be the person that he said he wants to be. 229 00:10:20,703 --> 00:10:21,787 And for us to, 230 00:10:23,247 --> 00:10:25,750 you know, like get married and have kids. 231 00:10:25,833 --> 00:10:28,336 You know, so that was really disappointing too. 232 00:10:28,919 --> 00:10:31,172 [Bethany] That's so disappointing. 233 00:10:31,255 --> 00:10:34,634 Yeah, because obviously, I have to start all over again. Because it's… 234 00:10:36,093 --> 00:10:38,346 Of course, it's in the back of my mind, I'm 35. 235 00:10:38,429 --> 00:10:41,182 Like, I need to… I should be… 236 00:10:41,265 --> 00:10:43,559 I thought I'd be married by now, have kids by now. 237 00:10:43,643 --> 00:10:45,978 You know, when we first started dating, like, 238 00:10:46,062 --> 00:10:49,857 when he was telling me about building a life with me, a family with me. 239 00:10:49,940 --> 00:10:51,901 I didn't think it was, you know… 240 00:10:53,277 --> 00:10:56,030 I feel really disappointed. I feel scared to start over. 241 00:10:56,113 --> 00:10:57,323 -[sniffles] -Mm-hm. 242 00:10:57,948 --> 00:10:59,033 It is scary. 243 00:10:59,659 --> 00:11:03,704 My dad took, you know, the easy way out when I was younger. 244 00:11:04,246 --> 00:11:07,958 I've always, like, my dad left just 'cause he left. 245 00:11:08,042 --> 00:11:09,210 I never blamed him. 246 00:11:09,293 --> 00:11:12,380 Until, like, recently I was thinking about it. 247 00:11:12,463 --> 00:11:14,006 I was like, "No, he was weak." 248 00:11:14,090 --> 00:11:16,676 He didn't want to be in the US and suffer with us, 249 00:11:16,759 --> 00:11:19,053 and build a new life with his family. 250 00:11:19,136 --> 00:11:22,515 But he wants to go back to China and live his comfortable lifestyle. 251 00:11:22,598 --> 00:11:26,519 And so he would leave, you know, his kid and his wife. 252 00:11:27,269 --> 00:11:29,397 [Bethany] Right there, what you just said 253 00:11:30,356 --> 00:11:31,857 is so profound. 254 00:11:31,941 --> 00:11:32,817 [Kelly] Yeah. 255 00:11:32,900 --> 00:11:36,237 It's at the heart of what we're talking about. 256 00:11:37,113 --> 00:11:38,823 This is your life lesson, 257 00:11:39,657 --> 00:11:41,409 that you stop making excuses. 258 00:11:41,492 --> 00:11:44,662 I, for sure, made excuses for people my whole life. 259 00:11:44,745 --> 00:11:46,956 [Bethany] Mm-hm. Mm-hm. 260 00:11:47,873 --> 00:11:51,711 Your history was broken. your relationship was broken, 261 00:11:52,586 --> 00:11:54,547 but that doesn't mean you're broken. 262 00:11:55,089 --> 00:11:58,551 So can you see, this is about you learning to be honest with yourself. 263 00:11:58,634 --> 00:12:00,678 Because if you can't be honest with yourself, 264 00:12:00,761 --> 00:12:03,764 and you keep making excuses for the men in your life, 265 00:12:03,848 --> 00:12:05,975 you'll keep repeating the pattern. 266 00:12:06,058 --> 00:12:09,562 That's why I want you to be more grounded in your feelings and body 267 00:12:09,645 --> 00:12:11,814 so that you don't repeat the same mistakes. 268 00:12:11,897 --> 00:12:13,107 Yeah. [sniffles] 269 00:12:13,858 --> 00:12:17,528 If you can't feel, you cannot change. 270 00:12:18,821 --> 00:12:22,032 In the past, I've always looked for relationships that define me. 271 00:12:22,116 --> 00:12:23,951 Now I want to do things differently. 272 00:12:24,034 --> 00:12:26,370 And instead of putting all my energy, 273 00:12:26,454 --> 00:12:29,498 and time, and emotions, into helping somebody else, 274 00:12:29,582 --> 00:12:31,751 I should be helping myself and look within, 275 00:12:31,834 --> 00:12:33,753 looking at the problems I have. 276 00:12:33,836 --> 00:12:37,298 And, you know, and just try to be a better version of myself. 277 00:12:37,381 --> 00:12:40,342 If you have strong feelings, let them out. 278 00:12:40,843 --> 00:12:43,262 Even if you have to, you know, set your hair on fire 279 00:12:43,345 --> 00:12:45,514 and run around the block screaming. 280 00:12:45,598 --> 00:12:47,808 You know, let your feelings out. 281 00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:50,060 I definitely see things a lot more clearly now, 282 00:12:50,144 --> 00:12:55,316 and I definitely know that that's not the type of person I want to ever be with. 283 00:12:55,399 --> 00:12:58,152 And I don't want to be back in a relationship 284 00:12:58,235 --> 00:13:00,488 or get back into a similar relationship. 285 00:13:02,406 --> 00:13:04,408 [vibrant music playing] 286 00:13:06,660 --> 00:13:08,245 [Kevin] Ooh, I like this. 287 00:13:08,329 --> 00:13:09,455 [Kim] Wow. 288 00:13:09,538 --> 00:13:10,831 No! You're hitting the… 289 00:13:12,291 --> 00:13:13,292 -We stopped? -[Kim] Yeah. 290 00:13:13,375 --> 00:13:14,919 Okay, good. You got it. 291 00:13:15,002 --> 00:13:17,171 [Kim] That was so far. 292 00:13:18,214 --> 00:13:19,548 [Kevin] I know. I know. 293 00:13:20,174 --> 00:13:21,634 This is so pretty. 294 00:13:22,927 --> 00:13:24,094 [Kim] Oh, it's pretty. 295 00:13:25,346 --> 00:13:27,515 Thanks. It's really cute. 296 00:13:28,432 --> 00:13:30,392 This date is so different 297 00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:32,645 than what I do with girls on our first date. 298 00:13:32,728 --> 00:13:35,940 I mean, I'm putting a lot of effort into this one, 299 00:13:36,023 --> 00:13:39,652 with no expectation of even a kiss afterwards. 300 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:42,696 That would be nice though. 301 00:13:42,780 --> 00:13:44,740 All right, let's go to your room first. 302 00:13:44,824 --> 00:13:48,160 I'll be right next door if you need anything, feel better. 303 00:13:49,745 --> 00:13:51,163 -See ya. -[Kim] See you. 304 00:13:54,917 --> 00:13:56,168 [sighs] 305 00:13:58,295 --> 00:13:59,797 [phone rings] 306 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,133 [voice] Please leave your message for three, two, three… 307 00:14:03,217 --> 00:14:04,468 Kane, help. 308 00:14:04,552 --> 00:14:05,845 Wassup! 309 00:14:06,595 --> 00:14:08,556 Dude, I just got here with Kim. 310 00:14:08,639 --> 00:14:11,183 You're in Solvang? What did you guys do in the car? 311 00:14:11,267 --> 00:14:12,560 I know it's a long drive there. 312 00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:14,436 I know. She slept for an hour. 313 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,355 She had to, she wasn't feeling good. 314 00:14:16,438 --> 00:14:19,358 This was our first road trip, she said. Dude, that's like-- 315 00:14:19,441 --> 00:14:21,485 [Kane] It's cool she's doing something you would do. 316 00:14:21,569 --> 00:14:22,653 Yeah, I know. I know. 317 00:14:22,736 --> 00:14:25,698 I think we're gonna head into town, gonna go out to dinner. 318 00:14:25,781 --> 00:14:27,867 [phone ringing] 319 00:14:27,950 --> 00:14:29,493 -Kane? -[voice] Please leave your mess-- 320 00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:30,494 Oh my God. 321 00:14:30,578 --> 00:14:33,747 Wait. What's going on? Why is she calling me? I don't understand. 322 00:14:33,831 --> 00:14:36,917 She's calling you too? Yo, make a three-way call. 323 00:14:38,127 --> 00:14:40,796 [Kane] No, I'm not gonna do that. I respect her too much. 324 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:42,923 -Hold on, can I call you later? -Bye. 325 00:14:43,007 --> 00:14:44,925 [phone ringing] 326 00:14:45,009 --> 00:14:46,635 -Kane! -[Kane] Hold on, wait. 327 00:14:46,719 --> 00:14:47,720 [Kim] You hear me? 328 00:14:48,429 --> 00:14:50,264 -[Kane] Yes. -[Kim] Where are you? 329 00:14:50,848 --> 00:14:54,435 [Kane] I'm in a car. Kevin just called me. Why aren't you guys calling me together? 330 00:14:54,518 --> 00:14:55,769 He's calling you too? 331 00:14:56,645 --> 00:14:58,272 [Kane] He called me. He FaceTimed me. 332 00:14:58,355 --> 00:15:02,443 [Kim] He got me in the middle of nowhere. If something happens to me, I don't know-- 333 00:15:02,526 --> 00:15:03,903 [Kane] What do you mean? What's gonna happen? 334 00:15:03,986 --> 00:15:07,031 I don't know. It's like we're in the middle of nowhere. 335 00:15:07,114 --> 00:15:09,783 I told him, "Out of all places you could have took me, 336 00:15:10,409 --> 00:15:12,286 why are we in the middle of nowhere?" 337 00:15:12,369 --> 00:15:15,205 [Kane] Yeah, do you like, want me to…? How's everything there? 338 00:15:15,289 --> 00:15:19,335 It looks like a cool city. He showed me pictures of it, but, like, I don't know. 339 00:15:19,418 --> 00:15:24,214 I mean, it's pretty, don't get me wrong, but like, I don't know. 340 00:15:24,298 --> 00:15:28,469 I shouldn't be that nervous, but I haven't gone on a date in so long, 341 00:15:28,552 --> 00:15:31,055 and a lot can go wrong 342 00:15:31,138 --> 00:15:33,098 if you've never hung out with somebody, 343 00:15:33,182 --> 00:15:35,392 and all of a sudden you spend 24 hours with them. 344 00:15:35,476 --> 00:15:38,896 I'm already thinking the worst, right? That's not good. [laughs] 345 00:15:38,979 --> 00:15:40,439 [Kane] I understand, take your time, 346 00:15:40,522 --> 00:15:43,317 and, like, you know, if you're obviously uncomfortable, call me. 347 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,361 I'll, you know, I mean, we can 348 00:15:45,444 --> 00:15:49,281 obviously get you a helicopter or a train out there, so… 349 00:15:49,365 --> 00:15:53,118 I think that it's a great thing that Kevin and Kim are going to Solvang. 350 00:15:53,202 --> 00:15:58,457 'Cause I do feel like Kim will find out that they're better off as friends, 351 00:15:58,540 --> 00:16:02,419 because I don't think he's ready to settle with anyone at this moment. 352 00:16:02,503 --> 00:16:04,880 Basically, Kevin's a man-whore. 353 00:16:04,964 --> 00:16:06,548 [laughing] 354 00:16:06,632 --> 00:16:08,550 [Kim laughing] 355 00:16:08,634 --> 00:16:09,510 Duh. 356 00:16:11,220 --> 00:16:14,306 ♪ I can feel it coming over me ♪ 357 00:16:14,390 --> 00:16:17,309 ♪ Like it's not what's supposed to be… ♪ 358 00:16:19,061 --> 00:16:19,895 [Kelly] Hi! 359 00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:21,146 -Hi. -How are you? 360 00:16:21,230 --> 00:16:24,692 -I'm so excited to be meeting you. -You have no idea how excited I am. 361 00:16:24,775 --> 00:16:27,111 I couldn't sleep last night. I was so excited. 362 00:16:27,194 --> 00:16:29,947 [Lauren] Really? That makes me happy because I didn't sleep either. 363 00:16:30,030 --> 00:16:31,532 [Kelly] My gosh. Have a seat. 364 00:16:31,615 --> 00:16:32,533 -Stunning. -Thanks. 365 00:16:32,616 --> 00:16:36,078 We're about to start construction, so this whole place will be gutted. 366 00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:38,038 -Okay. -Next time, it'll be different. 367 00:16:38,122 --> 00:16:40,666 -Okay. -[Kelly] I have no idea what to expect. 368 00:16:40,749 --> 00:16:44,086 I recently, um, went to see my therapist. 369 00:16:44,169 --> 00:16:46,338 She said I need to work more on, like, 370 00:16:47,214 --> 00:16:50,801 more confidence and also be grounded in my body 371 00:16:50,884 --> 00:16:54,722 and like, stay present in my body, and I'm like, "What does that even mean?" 372 00:16:54,805 --> 00:16:57,057 She was like, "You definitely need help." 373 00:16:57,141 --> 00:17:00,352 That's where you come in. I'm really excited but a little scared. 374 00:17:00,436 --> 00:17:02,312 Okay, I can tell you what I do first, 375 00:17:02,396 --> 00:17:04,982 and then that will probably ease 376 00:17:05,065 --> 00:17:07,317 some of your tension or nervousness. 377 00:17:07,401 --> 00:17:08,235 Okay. 378 00:17:08,318 --> 00:17:10,320 Because what I do is, 379 00:17:10,404 --> 00:17:14,199 it sounds crazy, but it's a sexual confidence and personal power coach. 380 00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:17,619 And I basically just walk people onto their feminine, 381 00:17:17,703 --> 00:17:20,372 -sexy journey. -Okay. Okay. 382 00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:23,709 -It's very rooted in your personal power. -Okay. 383 00:17:23,792 --> 00:17:28,756 So I want to hear about how you feel about your sexuality. 384 00:17:28,839 --> 00:17:30,424 What do you want to improve on? 385 00:17:30,507 --> 00:17:34,136 Well, first of all, I haven't had any action at all for, like, ever. 386 00:17:34,219 --> 00:17:36,138 Okay, so including with yourself? 387 00:17:36,221 --> 00:17:38,182 Oh, no. That doesn't… Does that count? 388 00:17:38,265 --> 00:17:40,642 -[Lauren] I think it counts. -My vibrator is working overtime. 389 00:17:40,726 --> 00:17:42,603 Okay, her… Okay, that's good. 390 00:17:42,686 --> 00:17:45,647 The good thing is I don't have to pay for overtime. [laughs] 391 00:17:45,731 --> 00:17:47,649 [laughs] You're like, in your kitchen, 392 00:17:48,233 --> 00:17:49,985 on your couch, on the table. 393 00:17:50,069 --> 00:17:52,780 [laughs] Vacuuming, okay. 394 00:17:52,863 --> 00:17:54,865 [Kelly] Not that excess, but, yeah. 395 00:17:54,948 --> 00:17:57,034 No, of course, that's a given, I think. 396 00:17:57,117 --> 00:18:00,704 I think everybody should have a vibrator. Every woman should have a vibrator. 397 00:18:00,788 --> 00:18:04,041 Okay, so what I would like to do is, we are going to ground. 398 00:18:04,124 --> 00:18:08,754 I want to literally sun our buttholes. 399 00:18:08,837 --> 00:18:10,672 [chuckles] 400 00:18:10,756 --> 00:18:13,467 -Have you heard of this before? -I've never heard of that. 401 00:18:13,550 --> 00:18:15,427 So it's called sunning your perineum. 402 00:18:15,511 --> 00:18:19,306 It is actually a Tibetan Eastern ancient experience, 403 00:18:19,389 --> 00:18:21,850 and what it does is it brings prana, 404 00:18:21,934 --> 00:18:26,063 it brings energy from the sun, to regulate our sexuality to feel powerful. 405 00:18:26,146 --> 00:18:27,564 -All right. -[laughs] 406 00:18:27,648 --> 00:18:30,275 So with that, let's get changed into something 407 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,445 that you can take your pants off and not be completely naked. 408 00:18:33,529 --> 00:18:34,655 Okay, all right. 409 00:18:35,155 --> 00:18:38,742 Not sure this is what Dr. Bethany means when she said I need to ground myself. 410 00:18:38,826 --> 00:18:42,663 But for me right now it's the, you know, the year of the yes, so why not? 411 00:18:42,746 --> 00:18:43,747 It wouldn't hurt. 412 00:18:43,831 --> 00:18:45,541 -Are you ready? -What are we doing? 413 00:18:45,624 --> 00:18:48,544 [Lauren] What we're going to do is we're going to take our pants off. 414 00:18:48,627 --> 00:18:51,672 -[Kelly] Take our underwears off? -We're putting our buttholes to the sun! 415 00:18:51,755 --> 00:18:53,799 What if there's bugs that crawl in our butt? 416 00:18:53,882 --> 00:18:55,342 I don't think there will be. 417 00:18:55,425 --> 00:18:56,969 -[Kelly] All right. -I'll do it with you. 418 00:18:57,052 --> 00:18:59,096 So it'll be weird together. [laughs] 419 00:18:59,179 --> 00:19:00,430 [Kelly] Let's do this. 420 00:19:00,514 --> 00:19:02,516 -What do we do? -[Lauren] You're doing so great. 421 00:19:02,599 --> 00:19:05,394 So as we're laying here, go ahead and get comfortable. 422 00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:08,397 Let's bring our feet to the earth, and bend your knees. 423 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:12,526 You can go ahead and allow the sun, just like this, 424 00:19:12,609 --> 00:19:14,736 to sun your womanhood. 425 00:19:14,820 --> 00:19:17,030 [Kelly] I'm sunbathing my vagina! 426 00:19:17,114 --> 00:19:20,200 -[Lauren laughs] How does it feel? -I've never done this in my life. 427 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:23,453 -I don't think I'll do it again but okay. -[Lauren] Isn't it crazy? 428 00:19:23,537 --> 00:19:25,539 So let's bring our legs up like this. 429 00:19:25,622 --> 00:19:28,250 We're literally gonna do happy baby like towards the sky. 430 00:19:28,333 --> 00:19:29,918 -[Kelly] Isn't happy baby like this? -Yes. 431 00:19:30,002 --> 00:19:31,420 [Lauren] Do you feel the sun 432 00:19:31,503 --> 00:19:33,964 just, like, charging your body and feeling great? 433 00:19:34,047 --> 00:19:37,551 -[Kelly] I feel warm. Is that charging? -[Lauren] Yes. Yes, it is. 434 00:19:37,634 --> 00:19:41,305 This is definitely a memorable experience. 435 00:19:41,388 --> 00:19:44,224 -[Lauren laughs] Yeah. -This is beyond what I had imagined. 436 00:19:44,933 --> 00:19:47,227 -[Lauren] Let's move to the mirror. -Okay. 437 00:19:47,311 --> 00:19:51,064 I'd like you to scream some affirmations with me, okay? [chuckles] 438 00:19:51,148 --> 00:19:52,566 I'd like you to repeat after me. 439 00:19:53,150 --> 00:19:54,985 [sighs deeply] Okay, ready? Inhale. 440 00:19:56,278 --> 00:19:57,196 Exhale. 441 00:19:57,279 --> 00:19:58,113 [sighing] 442 00:19:58,197 --> 00:19:59,281 [Lauren] I am sexy. 443 00:19:59,364 --> 00:20:00,574 I am sexy. 444 00:20:00,657 --> 00:20:02,242 [Lauren] And my voice matters. 445 00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:03,619 And my voice matters. 446 00:20:03,702 --> 00:20:04,870 Good. 447 00:20:05,454 --> 00:20:06,663 [Lauren] I am worthy. 448 00:20:07,748 --> 00:20:09,082 I am worthy. 449 00:20:09,166 --> 00:20:10,542 [Lauren] I am beautiful. 450 00:20:10,626 --> 00:20:11,627 I am beautiful. 451 00:20:11,710 --> 00:20:13,629 I am powerful in my body. 452 00:20:13,712 --> 00:20:15,881 I am powerful in my body. 453 00:20:15,964 --> 00:20:16,798 [Lauren] Yes. 454 00:20:16,882 --> 00:20:20,802 Okay, now together we're going to scream at the top of our lungs. 455 00:20:20,886 --> 00:20:22,846 -Okay, ready? -What's the first one? 456 00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:23,931 I trust myself. 457 00:20:24,014 --> 00:20:26,099 I want you to really imagine these words 458 00:20:26,183 --> 00:20:28,894 coming up from your uterus, from your vagina. 459 00:20:28,977 --> 00:20:31,688 -Really from your feminine center, okay? -Okay. 460 00:20:31,772 --> 00:20:33,857 -One… -[exhales] 461 00:20:33,941 --> 00:20:35,943 …two, three. 462 00:20:36,026 --> 00:20:38,695 -I trust myself! [chuckles] -I trust myself! 463 00:20:38,779 --> 00:20:40,530 -Good, again. That same one. -Okay. 464 00:20:40,614 --> 00:20:43,033 -I trust myself! -I trust myself! 465 00:20:43,116 --> 00:20:45,118 [upbeat music playing] 466 00:20:51,041 --> 00:20:53,335 -[Kim] Do you eat oysters? You do? -[Kevin] I do. 467 00:20:53,418 --> 00:20:55,212 -Is it too high-end? -[Kim] A little, for you. 468 00:20:55,295 --> 00:20:56,838 -[Kevin] Really? -[Kim] I'm joking. 469 00:20:56,922 --> 00:20:57,798 Up. 470 00:20:59,132 --> 00:21:01,260 Thanks for having me. This is really nice. 471 00:21:02,469 --> 00:21:05,264 -Oh, it tastes good with all that stuff. -Mm-hm. 472 00:21:05,347 --> 00:21:07,891 [people speaking indistinctly] 473 00:21:12,104 --> 00:21:13,397 [slurps, coughs] 474 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,732 -Calm down! Are you okay? -[Kevin] I'm sorry. 475 00:21:15,816 --> 00:21:18,777 I'm eating it before he takes it away from me. 476 00:21:18,860 --> 00:21:20,028 [laughs] 477 00:21:20,112 --> 00:21:22,906 It's hilarious going to eat with Kevin sometimes. 478 00:21:22,990 --> 00:21:25,951 It's like he starves himself all day or something. 479 00:21:26,034 --> 00:21:27,869 You know we can order more, you know? 480 00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:29,246 [chuckles] 481 00:21:29,329 --> 00:21:33,250 It's so cute and sad at the same time. [chuckles] 482 00:21:33,333 --> 00:21:35,711 -[Kevin] I don't want to assume anything… -What? 483 00:21:35,794 --> 00:21:37,045 …but what 484 00:21:38,213 --> 00:21:40,924 do you want in a relationship? 485 00:21:41,717 --> 00:21:44,761 The new Kim is looking for real. 486 00:21:45,345 --> 00:21:47,848 -[Kevin] Real? -Yeah, you can be successful. 487 00:21:47,931 --> 00:21:52,019 But what's the point of having a person that's not loyal, not honest to you? 488 00:21:53,228 --> 00:21:55,522 He's gotta be funny too. He's gotta have a sense of humor. 489 00:21:55,605 --> 00:21:56,815 Right, yeah. 490 00:21:56,898 --> 00:21:59,192 Yeah, he's got to be cute. [laughs] 491 00:21:59,276 --> 00:22:01,028 [Kevin] I'm very much like you. 492 00:22:01,111 --> 00:22:03,572 Like, I really like somebody who's grounded, 493 00:22:03,655 --> 00:22:05,866 a good head on their shoulders, good values-- 494 00:22:05,949 --> 00:22:08,952 -You don't care about looks? -[Kevin] Looks obviously matters. 495 00:22:09,036 --> 00:22:10,912 You're obviously very beautiful. 496 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:13,206 That's not the first thing I noticed about you. 497 00:22:13,290 --> 00:22:14,791 [Kim] What did you notice? 498 00:22:16,793 --> 00:22:18,337 [laughs] 499 00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:21,256 -It's the laugh. -What? My laugh? 500 00:22:21,340 --> 00:22:22,507 -Yeah. -[Kim] What about it? 501 00:22:22,591 --> 00:22:23,467 I like it. 502 00:22:24,343 --> 00:22:26,803 And, um, when we first met, especially. 503 00:22:26,887 --> 00:22:30,849 I went straight to just being friends 504 00:22:30,932 --> 00:22:34,478 'cause I never thought someone like you would be interested in someone like me. 505 00:22:34,561 --> 00:22:35,395 Really? 506 00:22:35,479 --> 00:22:37,522 Like, the guys you dated, 507 00:22:37,606 --> 00:22:42,027 like the résumé would have just been like, blah, blah, blah, and then Kevin. 508 00:22:43,528 --> 00:22:46,615 My ex-girlfriend who was also Vietnamese, I mean we dated. 509 00:22:46,698 --> 00:22:47,574 Oh, right. 510 00:22:47,657 --> 00:22:50,035 But at the end, she told me I wasn't up to her level. 511 00:22:50,118 --> 00:22:51,703 Do you think that affected you? 512 00:22:53,705 --> 00:22:55,457 I want to be a rock for someone. 513 00:22:55,540 --> 00:22:58,835 I don't want to be a rock weighing someone down. 514 00:22:59,503 --> 00:23:01,630 Sometimes it's not about your status. 515 00:23:01,713 --> 00:23:04,091 Not all women care about status. 516 00:23:04,174 --> 00:23:05,926 It's really how you carry yourself. 517 00:23:06,426 --> 00:23:09,304 You gotta remind yourself, everyone's journey is very different. 518 00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:10,222 [Kevin] Yeah. 519 00:23:10,305 --> 00:23:13,850 I always thought Kevin is just so great at communicating, you know. 520 00:23:13,934 --> 00:23:17,104 Like there's never a dull moment between me and Kevin, you know. 521 00:23:17,187 --> 00:23:19,314 Obviously the chemistry's there. 522 00:23:19,398 --> 00:23:21,608 We laugh. We have fun. 523 00:23:21,691 --> 00:23:26,029 So I think that's what I like about what we have. 524 00:23:27,364 --> 00:23:28,824 I appreciate you, you know, 525 00:23:29,408 --> 00:23:30,283 opening up. 526 00:23:31,076 --> 00:23:34,454 And, um, I didn't know this other side of you. 527 00:23:34,538 --> 00:23:36,790 You said you want a guy who's honest, right? 528 00:23:36,873 --> 00:23:37,707 Oh, yeah. 529 00:23:37,791 --> 00:23:41,461 And I want to be really honest with you from this point on. 530 00:23:42,421 --> 00:23:45,549 There's another layer that I think you should know about. 531 00:23:46,508 --> 00:23:47,634 And that's like, 532 00:23:48,260 --> 00:23:51,680 I am sober and, like, 533 00:23:51,763 --> 00:23:54,558 I'm in a 12-step program. 534 00:23:55,517 --> 00:23:56,935 Like AA? 535 00:23:57,018 --> 00:23:58,395 AA stuff, yeah. 536 00:23:58,478 --> 00:23:59,563 Wow. 537 00:24:00,355 --> 00:24:02,023 Going to meetings every day, 538 00:24:02,858 --> 00:24:03,775 I have a sponsor. 539 00:24:07,237 --> 00:24:08,321 [clicks lips] 540 00:24:09,030 --> 00:24:10,866 [exhales sharply] Yeah. 541 00:24:15,620 --> 00:24:17,122 If anything, that's inspiring. 542 00:24:18,665 --> 00:24:20,542 The fact that you're trying, 543 00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:22,961 that you put an effort, 544 00:24:23,044 --> 00:24:24,129 I'm all for that. 545 00:24:25,213 --> 00:24:28,800 I've told a lot of girls on dates about me being sober. 546 00:24:28,884 --> 00:24:30,927 It never seems to get easier. 547 00:24:31,011 --> 00:24:35,056 I mean, the fact that I tell Kim that I'm sober, and she's just like, 548 00:24:35,140 --> 00:24:37,476 "Man, I respect that," 549 00:24:37,559 --> 00:24:40,562 it just made me feel really good because now I realize 550 00:24:40,645 --> 00:24:42,564 my impression of Kim is right. 551 00:24:42,647 --> 00:24:44,566 Like, she is a genuine person. 552 00:24:44,649 --> 00:24:47,777 And I think that's just a clear sign of, like, this is special. 553 00:24:48,445 --> 00:24:51,781 I just want you to know, like, I want to take it more seriously. 554 00:24:53,325 --> 00:24:54,576 Like truly. 555 00:24:55,744 --> 00:24:58,663 I'd really… I'm just going to say it, 556 00:24:58,747 --> 00:25:00,123 what do you think 557 00:25:00,916 --> 00:25:02,959 about, um, like, letting me know, 558 00:25:03,043 --> 00:25:07,005 like, what I can do to make you feel more assured 559 00:25:07,088 --> 00:25:10,008 and, like, that I would take this more seriously? 560 00:25:11,301 --> 00:25:12,594 Let me see your phone. 561 00:25:12,677 --> 00:25:13,970 What do you wanna see? 562 00:25:15,347 --> 00:25:16,932 -Social media. -I don't have my phone. 563 00:25:17,015 --> 00:25:18,767 -Where's your phone? -[Kevin] It's in the car. 564 00:25:18,850 --> 00:25:20,602 Like literally, it's in the car. 565 00:25:21,686 --> 00:25:23,647 [Kim] What a coincidence. Your phone's in your car. 566 00:25:23,730 --> 00:25:25,857 [Kevin] I'm being serious. I would let you see my phone. 567 00:25:25,941 --> 00:25:27,692 -[Kim] You would do that? -I would. 568 00:25:27,776 --> 00:25:30,904 When I find someone, I close all doors. 569 00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:32,155 Even the back door? 570 00:25:32,906 --> 00:25:34,950 I can't promise that. I like the back door. 571 00:25:35,033 --> 00:25:36,159 [both laugh] 572 00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:41,248 [uneasy music playing] 573 00:25:54,427 --> 00:25:57,097 [Christine] Thank you for coming. So are you Japanese? 574 00:25:57,180 --> 00:25:58,723 -[Chef] I am. -Oh. 575 00:25:58,807 --> 00:26:01,017 -Do you speak Japanese? -[speaks Japanese] 576 00:26:01,101 --> 00:26:03,937 -Ah. I don't. I'm sorry. -[laughs] 577 00:26:04,020 --> 00:26:06,022 Oh, coming, coming. 578 00:26:07,607 --> 00:26:09,109 Can I take those flowers? 579 00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:11,570 -These are actually from Provence. -Oh, really? 580 00:26:11,653 --> 00:26:15,490 They're picked in Provence, and so this has a symbolic meaning. 581 00:26:15,574 --> 00:26:18,076 -It's called Pope's flower or something. -Wow. 582 00:26:18,159 --> 00:26:23,373 So actually, I really am thankful for you sharing with me about your mom. 583 00:26:23,456 --> 00:26:27,210 And this is something small to remind you of your mom, so… 584 00:26:27,294 --> 00:26:28,378 Aw. 585 00:26:28,461 --> 00:26:31,548 Oh my gosh, you're so sweet. 586 00:26:32,340 --> 00:26:34,801 Oh my gosh. [gasps] 587 00:26:35,468 --> 00:26:37,220 [Kane] You can change the initials. 588 00:26:37,304 --> 00:26:39,639 I asked Dr. Chiu, "What's your mom's initials?" 589 00:26:39,723 --> 00:26:43,226 It's something that you can look at it, and it's going to be forever. 590 00:26:43,310 --> 00:26:45,645 -This is so sweet. -Real diamonds. [laughs] 591 00:26:45,729 --> 00:26:47,230 This is so sweet. 592 00:26:47,814 --> 00:26:49,941 My mom passed a year ago. 593 00:26:50,025 --> 00:26:54,696 I wish I had one more second, one more millisecond with my mother. 594 00:26:54,779 --> 00:26:58,783 All of my clothes, all of my shoes, all of my jewelry, all of my cars, 595 00:26:58,867 --> 00:27:00,827 I would trade it all for my mom. 596 00:27:00,910 --> 00:27:04,581 And I think about that every single day. 597 00:27:05,373 --> 00:27:08,168 My parents were always really busy when I was a kid. 598 00:27:08,251 --> 00:27:12,422 I think the only time I got to spend with my mom 599 00:27:13,381 --> 00:27:15,425 was when she was making mochi. 600 00:27:15,508 --> 00:27:18,345 Kane has really shown himself to be a good friend 601 00:27:18,428 --> 00:27:21,640 and has reached out during really tough times. 602 00:27:21,723 --> 00:27:24,434 So I can't wait to spend some time with him. 603 00:27:24,517 --> 00:27:28,396 Mochi, actually, is seasonal. Uh… 604 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,315 Special occasion we do in Japan. 605 00:27:30,398 --> 00:27:34,653 Those one and eating in The New Year. So they're holding wealth. 606 00:27:34,736 --> 00:27:37,906 So, the bigger the mochi, the more wealth? Or is there a-- 607 00:27:37,989 --> 00:27:40,075 -It's not about size. -Sometimes it is. 608 00:27:40,158 --> 00:27:41,618 [laughing] 609 00:27:41,701 --> 00:27:44,037 [Kane] Chef, you do one, Christina and I do one, you judge. 610 00:27:44,120 --> 00:27:45,038 [chef] Okay. 611 00:27:45,121 --> 00:27:47,749 -Oh, no, chef, this is a competition. -What? 612 00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:49,000 [Kane] Are you ready? 613 00:27:49,084 --> 00:27:49,959 Gold. 614 00:27:50,043 --> 00:27:51,169 What? 615 00:27:51,252 --> 00:27:53,254 -Fuck yes. -[Christine] How did you get gold? 616 00:27:53,338 --> 00:27:55,382 Where did you whip that out? 617 00:27:55,465 --> 00:27:56,841 Oh, I got an idea. 618 00:27:56,925 --> 00:27:58,635 -You just wait. -[Kane laughs] 619 00:27:58,718 --> 00:28:02,138 Judging my mochi, it's going to be beautiful. 620 00:28:02,222 --> 00:28:04,683 Look, Christine, look! It's like a ball sack. 621 00:28:04,766 --> 00:28:07,102 [both laugh] 622 00:28:07,185 --> 00:28:08,436 Kane. 623 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,523 -Eat it. I'll teach you a trick. -You are destroying Japanese-- 624 00:28:11,606 --> 00:28:13,483 [Kane] No, it's my artwork, hold on. 625 00:28:13,566 --> 00:28:14,609 I'm going to name it. 626 00:28:14,693 --> 00:28:16,403 -No, this is-- -Wait, are you done-- 627 00:28:16,486 --> 00:28:18,405 -This is like a modern interpretation. -[Kane] No! 628 00:28:19,489 --> 00:28:21,658 -[Christine] I'm gonna… -[Kane] My God, I can't win that. 629 00:28:21,741 --> 00:28:23,618 All right, chef, are you ready? 630 00:28:24,285 --> 00:28:26,955 This is a mochi made of love, 631 00:28:27,038 --> 00:28:28,331 compassion… 632 00:28:28,415 --> 00:28:29,708 [chef] Compassion? 633 00:28:29,791 --> 00:28:31,710 [laughing] 634 00:28:31,793 --> 00:28:34,003 [Christine] He's like, "Where's the door?" 635 00:28:34,087 --> 00:28:37,215 Chef, you said that mochis are a symbol 636 00:28:37,298 --> 00:28:39,676 of wealth and prosperity. 637 00:28:39,759 --> 00:28:40,593 [Kane] You win. 638 00:28:40,677 --> 00:28:44,180 And I present you, 639 00:28:44,264 --> 00:28:46,182 the blingiest fucking mochi ever! 640 00:28:46,266 --> 00:28:47,559 [laughing] 641 00:28:47,642 --> 00:28:49,519 You win at that. [laughs] 642 00:28:49,602 --> 00:28:51,271 -Okay. -Okay, I take it home. 643 00:28:51,354 --> 00:28:52,230 [laughing] 644 00:28:55,191 --> 00:28:56,818 [vibrant music playing] 645 00:29:01,990 --> 00:29:03,241 [Jaime] Hello. 646 00:29:03,324 --> 00:29:05,535 These are my friends. This is Athena and June. 647 00:29:05,618 --> 00:29:07,036 I brought them with me. 648 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,706 This is the first look. Uh… 649 00:29:09,789 --> 00:29:11,875 We're gonna do some digital film, as usual. 650 00:29:11,958 --> 00:29:12,792 [Jaime] Yeah. 651 00:29:12,876 --> 00:29:15,378 Yoshi is a photographer I met last year. 652 00:29:15,462 --> 00:29:19,299 And I love him because he's so kind and funny, 653 00:29:19,382 --> 00:29:22,677 and him and I are very good at kinda collaborating on ideas 654 00:29:22,761 --> 00:29:25,930 and coming up with something cool, which is what I love. 655 00:29:27,265 --> 00:29:28,933 [Yoshi] Crazy, right there on that. 656 00:29:29,642 --> 00:29:30,602 Higher, there you go. 657 00:29:32,353 --> 00:29:33,980 Right there, love that. 658 00:29:34,063 --> 00:29:35,315 A few more. 659 00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:37,484 And fire. 660 00:29:37,984 --> 00:29:41,905 Go and change. Yeah, Anna is supposed to be here, but she's, like, always late. 661 00:29:45,909 --> 00:29:47,202 Hi, guys. 662 00:29:48,244 --> 00:29:51,456 -[Jaime] Anna, you're here. -Yes, on time. 663 00:29:51,539 --> 00:29:52,665 [laughing] 664 00:29:52,749 --> 00:29:55,210 [Jaime] Hello! Good to see you. It's so-- 665 00:29:55,293 --> 00:29:58,379 -Hi, how are you? [kisses] -You smell good. Good to see you. 666 00:29:58,463 --> 00:29:59,380 [Anna] Nice to see you. 667 00:29:59,464 --> 00:30:02,926 This is my go-to photographer here, Yoshi. 668 00:30:03,009 --> 00:30:04,636 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 669 00:30:04,719 --> 00:30:07,138 -You have a Japanese name, Yoshi. -[Anna] I know. 670 00:30:07,222 --> 00:30:09,098 -[in Japanese] You're half? -I'm half Japanese. 671 00:30:09,182 --> 00:30:11,059 -Do you speak Japanese? -A little bit. 672 00:30:11,142 --> 00:30:12,727 [Nicola] So, you speak some. 673 00:30:12,811 --> 00:30:14,395 -[in English] I don't. -[laughing] 674 00:30:14,479 --> 00:30:16,606 No, of course you-- you're not Japanese. 675 00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:18,691 -I know. I only know-- -We are Japanese. 676 00:30:18,775 --> 00:30:21,027 -A little bit. -Half. 677 00:30:21,110 --> 00:30:24,072 -[Anna] We're all half. -All right. Wanna take some pictures? 678 00:30:24,155 --> 00:30:26,866 -I'd like to watch you. -You wanna watch me take pictures? 679 00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:31,120 I already took some. I should change because I took a bunch in this outfit. 680 00:30:31,204 --> 00:30:32,622 [Anna] Jaime is so much fun. 681 00:30:33,915 --> 00:30:36,626 And we have so many things in common. 682 00:30:36,709 --> 00:30:38,795 Unlike some people that we seem to know. 683 00:30:38,878 --> 00:30:41,756 I don't need to hear gossip, 684 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,049 and neither does Jaime. 685 00:30:43,132 --> 00:30:46,678 She doesn't play all this bullshit game. 686 00:30:46,761 --> 00:30:48,471 It's just so refreshing. 687 00:30:49,764 --> 00:30:51,975 It's, like, falling off my… Okay. 688 00:31:01,025 --> 00:31:02,986 [Anna] Jaime, why are you doing this? 689 00:31:03,069 --> 00:31:05,113 Huh? Oh, for content. 690 00:31:06,614 --> 00:31:08,408 -What content? -I don't know. 691 00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:10,827 Like, you know, for Instagram. 692 00:31:10,910 --> 00:31:12,412 -Instagram? -[Jaime] Yeah. 693 00:31:13,204 --> 00:31:14,873 -How now? -I'll have to teach you. 694 00:31:14,956 --> 00:31:17,000 No, I know like, you know, uh… 695 00:31:17,083 --> 00:31:19,127 -You have-- -I'm too old for this. 696 00:31:19,210 --> 00:31:21,671 -You can't be too old for Instagram. -Yes. 697 00:31:21,754 --> 00:31:22,922 [Jaime] Mm… 698 00:31:23,006 --> 00:31:24,632 Even my dad has one. 699 00:31:24,716 --> 00:31:26,634 -I'm older than your father. -[all laugh] 700 00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:28,636 I'm older than your father. 701 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,054 [laughing] 702 00:31:30,138 --> 00:31:31,180 I… [laughs] 703 00:31:31,764 --> 00:31:34,058 I, I feel like you need to get more into it. 704 00:31:34,142 --> 00:31:37,353 'Cause you have a young, fun energy. And people like that, so… 705 00:31:37,437 --> 00:31:38,980 [Nicola] That looks amazing. 706 00:31:39,063 --> 00:31:39,939 Right? 707 00:31:40,023 --> 00:31:43,484 I know, that and I need some photos to add some-- 708 00:31:43,568 --> 00:31:44,444 All right, okay. 709 00:31:44,527 --> 00:31:46,529 -[Jaime] Yeah. -This is cool. 710 00:31:46,613 --> 00:31:47,780 Damn, this is cool. 711 00:31:47,864 --> 00:31:50,116 My family is pretty serious, 712 00:31:50,199 --> 00:31:52,994 and they all kinda just do their own thing. 713 00:31:53,077 --> 00:31:57,832 So I'm so happy to have developed a friendship with Anna, 714 00:31:57,916 --> 00:32:02,545 who also loves to do crazy, spontaneous things and adventures with me. 715 00:32:02,629 --> 00:32:08,134 She's like my LA mom, and a more fun version of my real mom. 716 00:32:09,260 --> 00:32:10,261 [Yoshi] Right there. 717 00:32:11,846 --> 00:32:13,181 Yes, yes. 718 00:32:13,264 --> 00:32:14,265 Oh, wow. 719 00:32:15,808 --> 00:32:16,976 Okay. 720 00:32:17,810 --> 00:32:19,103 [shutter clicking] 721 00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:20,855 Love that, right there. 722 00:32:22,315 --> 00:32:23,608 Perfect. 723 00:32:23,691 --> 00:32:24,817 [Nicola] Check it out. 724 00:32:25,693 --> 00:32:27,570 This would be cute for a story on Instagram. 725 00:32:27,654 --> 00:32:30,365 -[Jaime] For Instagram story. -Tell her how to do it. 726 00:32:30,448 --> 00:32:34,369 Now to do it on Instagram, go to the app, 727 00:32:34,452 --> 00:32:35,703 click on "post," 728 00:32:35,787 --> 00:32:38,581 then you press "select multiple," right? 729 00:32:38,665 --> 00:32:39,999 Now tap on that one. 730 00:32:41,250 --> 00:32:43,503 There. You click "next." 731 00:32:43,586 --> 00:32:45,672 Okay, now you have to think of a caption. 732 00:32:45,755 --> 00:32:49,008 Here, I'm really bad at captions, so I just put some emojis. 733 00:32:49,092 --> 00:32:52,971 You don't want to be like Christine or Kane and do those really long ones, 734 00:32:53,054 --> 00:32:55,974 with the big deep quotes 'cause nobody even reads that anyway. 735 00:32:56,057 --> 00:32:57,976 This is the first thing people will see. 736 00:32:58,059 --> 00:33:00,228 How about alien emojis, the green ones? 737 00:33:00,311 --> 00:33:03,147 Yeah, or I'll put a bunch of random green emojis. 738 00:33:03,231 --> 00:33:04,732 Like, I put, like, an avocado. 739 00:33:04,816 --> 00:33:06,651 You can do the frog. 740 00:33:06,734 --> 00:33:07,652 [Anna] Oh, yeah. 741 00:33:07,735 --> 00:33:10,571 [Jaime] The frog. And there's, like, some broccoli. 742 00:33:10,655 --> 00:33:12,907 Then you click "share," and then it posts. 743 00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:14,117 -Ready? -Here? 744 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,910 -Yeah. Ready, it's… -Ready? 745 00:33:15,994 --> 00:33:17,704 -[Anna] Go. -[Jaime] You press it. 746 00:33:18,705 --> 00:33:20,164 Oops. No, press… 747 00:33:20,999 --> 00:33:22,500 It's not let… [chuckles] 748 00:33:24,085 --> 00:33:25,378 Oops. 749 00:33:25,461 --> 00:33:26,754 [Anna] I don't understand it. 750 00:33:26,838 --> 00:33:28,172 [Jaime] Mmm… 751 00:33:29,257 --> 00:33:30,133 [Anna] Uh-oh. 752 00:33:30,216 --> 00:33:31,676 Oh, okay, it posted. 753 00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:33,761 -Yay! -Yeah, we did it! 754 00:33:33,845 --> 00:33:35,680 [Nicola] 251 likes. 755 00:33:36,889 --> 00:33:37,974 Crazy shit! 756 00:33:38,516 --> 00:33:39,809 Yeah, it's cool, right? 757 00:33:39,892 --> 00:33:41,352 [Anna] This is so much fun. 758 00:33:41,936 --> 00:33:43,187 [Jaime] I know, it's fun. 759 00:33:43,271 --> 00:33:46,607 I just think that Jaime is fucking amazing. 760 00:33:47,275 --> 00:33:49,694 She's genius. She's creative. 761 00:33:49,777 --> 00:33:50,820 She's funny. 762 00:33:51,404 --> 00:33:54,907 And when I see her, I feel sometimes it reminds me 763 00:33:54,991 --> 00:33:56,826 of the things that I would do. 764 00:33:57,368 --> 00:33:58,745 I'm looking. 765 00:33:58,828 --> 00:33:59,787 [bell dings] 766 00:33:59,871 --> 00:34:01,414 -I think maybe-- -[gasps] 767 00:34:01,497 --> 00:34:05,001 -I, I was almost… Oh my gosh! -[yells] 768 00:34:05,084 --> 00:34:08,463 We are several decades apart… 769 00:34:09,338 --> 00:34:11,215 Shit! [laughs] 770 00:34:11,299 --> 00:34:13,342 …but it doesn't seem like it. 771 00:34:13,426 --> 00:34:15,094 [screaming, cheering] 772 00:34:15,178 --> 00:34:17,805 -[Anna] Oh my gosh! -[Jaime] Okay, I got it! 773 00:34:17,889 --> 00:34:19,807 -[Anna] Don't move. -[Jaime] I'm not moving. 774 00:34:20,349 --> 00:34:23,061 -[Nicola] Are they coming back? -[Anna speaking indistinctly] 775 00:34:23,144 --> 00:34:25,146 [vibrant music playing] 776 00:34:32,361 --> 00:34:34,572 ♪ I drop like Muhammad Ali ♪ 777 00:34:36,032 --> 00:34:37,492 ♪ There's Kim Lee ♪ 778 00:34:37,575 --> 00:34:39,285 [Kim] It's so cold. 779 00:34:39,368 --> 00:34:40,870 Ooh, this is fun! 780 00:34:40,953 --> 00:34:42,163 Yeah. 781 00:34:42,246 --> 00:34:44,665 [Kim] I've never done this in my life. 782 00:34:44,749 --> 00:34:47,627 Ever? This is your first? God, so many firsts today, huh? 783 00:34:48,252 --> 00:34:50,713 I know. You popped my cherry on everything tonight. 784 00:34:50,797 --> 00:34:53,091 -[Kevin] It's very memorable. -[Kim laughs] 785 00:34:53,966 --> 00:34:55,259 Wait, it's melting. 786 00:34:55,343 --> 00:34:57,136 -Not supposed to put it all the way. -[screams] 787 00:34:57,220 --> 00:35:00,556 Wait, we got an emergency graham cracker situation. 788 00:35:01,057 --> 00:35:03,893 -Ready? There we are. -It looks like someone's saggy balls. 789 00:35:03,976 --> 00:35:05,478 [Kim laughs] 790 00:35:05,561 --> 00:35:08,314 -What balls are you looking at? -[laughing] 791 00:35:08,397 --> 00:35:12,193 I definitely feel my attraction towards Kim is way more than physical. 792 00:35:12,276 --> 00:35:14,529 Because to be real, I know she's hot, 793 00:35:14,612 --> 00:35:17,198 but I never really felt that physically attracted to her. 794 00:35:17,281 --> 00:35:21,035 And as we get to share more of each other's life experiences together, 795 00:35:21,119 --> 00:35:23,496 I mean, it's like magic connecting with her. 796 00:35:23,579 --> 00:35:24,956 Right? 797 00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:27,250 This is very good. [chuckles] 798 00:35:27,333 --> 00:35:29,210 I wish I would have booked two nights. 799 00:35:29,293 --> 00:35:31,337 [Kim] Can't believe we're leaving tomorrow already. 800 00:35:31,921 --> 00:35:34,340 -Yeah, I know. I know. -Hm? 801 00:35:34,966 --> 00:35:39,387 Before I turned three, around the time as my birthday, I came to the US. 802 00:35:39,470 --> 00:35:40,429 You still remember? 803 00:35:40,513 --> 00:35:43,182 I still remember, like in my dad's arms, 804 00:35:43,266 --> 00:35:46,561 coming into my home for the first time, and just being scared. 805 00:35:46,644 --> 00:35:48,479 You were like, "Who are these people?" 806 00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:50,815 I don't think I was like, "Who are these people?" 807 00:35:50,898 --> 00:35:52,400 -Like-- -Where are you going? 808 00:35:52,483 --> 00:35:53,317 [Kevin] Yeah. 809 00:35:53,401 --> 00:35:55,486 Like, "What's going to happen from here?" 810 00:35:56,112 --> 00:36:00,366 And, uh, shortly after, my mom had my brother about a month later. 811 00:36:02,451 --> 00:36:04,287 -Whoa. -Yeah, and he's white. 812 00:36:04,370 --> 00:36:05,997 He's biological. 813 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,292 He not once told me, like, "You're adopted." 814 00:36:09,876 --> 00:36:13,963 That's a good thing. They look at you as their brother. That's a good thing. 815 00:36:14,046 --> 00:36:15,089 Thank you. 816 00:36:15,173 --> 00:36:16,424 [laughing] 817 00:36:19,093 --> 00:36:21,012 Can you stop eating? [laughs] 818 00:36:23,181 --> 00:36:24,932 You have a piece in your mouth here. 819 00:36:25,016 --> 00:36:26,517 Like right here. 820 00:36:26,601 --> 00:36:28,394 You got a long tongue. 821 00:36:28,477 --> 00:36:29,896 Jesus Christ. 822 00:36:33,024 --> 00:36:35,067 -Tonight was so much fun. -[Kevin] Yeah. 823 00:36:35,151 --> 00:36:38,696 I honestly didn't think it'll turn out like this. 824 00:36:38,779 --> 00:36:42,033 -[Kevin] I would've given you a ride. -If I said, "You're boring. Take me back"? 825 00:36:42,116 --> 00:36:44,911 -Yeah, if you really-- -[Kim] In that case, let's go back now. 826 00:36:44,994 --> 00:36:46,954 [laughing] 827 00:36:47,038 --> 00:36:49,040 No, no, I'm joking. No. 828 00:36:49,582 --> 00:36:50,583 Um… 829 00:36:51,500 --> 00:36:54,253 Yeah, it's, um… You definitely surprised me tonight. 830 00:36:56,005 --> 00:36:57,590 I think you did too for me. 831 00:36:57,673 --> 00:36:59,383 You're not just… 832 00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:01,802 I don't look at you as just, a fuck boy. 833 00:37:01,886 --> 00:37:03,763 [laughing] 834 00:37:03,846 --> 00:37:05,973 -Is that originally what you thought? -[Kim] Yes! 835 00:37:06,057 --> 00:37:06,933 Really? 836 00:37:08,476 --> 00:37:10,811 Yeah, but I didn't think… 837 00:37:13,689 --> 00:37:14,607 Yeah. 838 00:37:16,901 --> 00:37:21,739 ♪ Why, why, why, why Do we fight all day and all night? ♪ 839 00:37:21,822 --> 00:37:27,662 ♪ We should be making sweet love All day and all night ♪ 840 00:37:27,745 --> 00:37:33,334 ♪ Why, why, why, why Do we fight all day and all night? ♪ 841 00:37:34,210 --> 00:37:36,671 ♪ The sun went Gaylon ♪ 842 00:37:36,754 --> 00:37:39,840 ♪ We should be making sweet love ♪ 843 00:37:45,888 --> 00:37:48,432 ♪ The sun went Gaylon ♪ 844 00:37:48,516 --> 00:37:51,477 ♪ We should be making sweet love ♪