1 00:00:15,056 --> 00:00:17,475 Unbreakable! Wow! 2 00:00:17,559 --> 00:00:21,354 -Oh, wow. This is a nice gym. -Nice, right? 3 00:00:21,438 --> 00:00:23,690 How you been? Like, what you been up to? 4 00:00:23,773 --> 00:00:26,067 -I'm good. How you been? -I've been good. 5 00:00:26,151 --> 00:00:28,528 -So much has been happening. -I know. I see that. 6 00:00:28,611 --> 00:00:31,322 Lewis Tan is a very talented actor. 7 00:00:31,406 --> 00:00:35,785 He's been in lots of movies, Mortal Kombat, Wu Assassins. 8 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:36,953 And he's a… 9 00:00:37,787 --> 00:00:39,414 he's a very attractive guy. 10 00:00:40,582 --> 00:00:43,043 -All right, so what are we doing? -Open your hand. 11 00:00:44,085 --> 00:00:44,919 Yeah. 12 00:00:46,629 --> 00:00:47,922 So, sweet. 13 00:00:48,006 --> 00:00:50,050 -Feel like I can kick ass right now. -Yep. 14 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:53,261 I'm trying to get a six-pack like you. How many… how many packs do you have? 15 00:00:53,344 --> 00:00:54,888 -I don't know, I-- 16 00:00:54,971 --> 00:00:57,015 -Not bad! -Getting there. 17 00:00:57,098 --> 00:00:59,601 You feeling loose and warm? Stretched out? 18 00:00:59,684 --> 00:01:01,853 I'm a little feeling tight. Not loose. 19 00:01:01,936 --> 00:01:03,021 Okay. 20 00:01:03,104 --> 00:01:05,732 So Lewis Tan and I have been friends for many years. 21 00:01:05,815 --> 00:01:08,610 And he's been trying to hang out for a while now. 22 00:01:08,693 --> 00:01:10,403 I've been doing a lot of healing lately. 23 00:01:10,487 --> 00:01:14,574 And I feel like I just wanna… go out there and have fun. 24 00:01:15,158 --> 00:01:17,660 I feel like that's what I need in my life. 25 00:01:17,744 --> 00:01:21,122 -We're gonna do some Muay Thai today. -Muay Thai, what's that? 26 00:01:21,206 --> 00:01:23,583 Muay Thai is, uh, Thai boxing. 27 00:01:23,666 --> 00:01:28,088 See, the full combination is one, two, three, four, five, six. 28 00:01:28,171 --> 00:01:29,089 It's all hands. 29 00:01:29,923 --> 00:01:31,216 Seeing him hit that bag. 30 00:01:31,299 --> 00:01:34,719 Oh my God. Do it again. 31 00:01:34,803 --> 00:01:39,182 Just one more time. 32 00:01:39,265 --> 00:01:42,018 Ooh, it's getting hot in here! 33 00:01:42,102 --> 00:01:43,937 What's your… your star sign? 34 00:01:44,020 --> 00:01:45,063 I'm a Gemini. 35 00:01:45,146 --> 00:01:47,357 You're a Gemini. Oh yeah. I think we talked about this-- 36 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,483 We talked-- 37 00:01:48,566 --> 00:01:51,277 -Wait, you're an Aquarius! -I'm an Aquarius. Yeah. 38 00:01:51,361 --> 00:01:56,032 Google it, right now. Who is Aquarius', uh, soul mate? 39 00:01:56,116 --> 00:01:59,202 "Gemini and Aquarius, sexual intimacy compat--" 40 00:01:59,285 --> 00:02:02,163 -That's all we need to know, right? 41 00:02:02,247 --> 00:02:04,165 -Cut straight to the chase. -Right. 42 00:02:04,249 --> 00:02:05,959 "Gemini and Aquarius will have great sex." 43 00:02:06,042 --> 00:02:08,503 "They don't need to be naked to have a sexual experience." 44 00:02:08,586 --> 00:02:11,381 "Although, they will want to be naked all the time 45 00:02:11,464 --> 00:02:13,508 to set themselves free from human restrictions 46 00:02:13,591 --> 00:02:15,844 represented through clothes." 47 00:02:16,928 --> 00:02:17,762 I mean… 48 00:02:17,846 --> 00:02:20,974 You seem like a passionate person too. Are you? 49 00:02:21,057 --> 00:02:22,100 -Yeah. Very. -Right? 50 00:02:22,183 --> 00:02:23,143 -I can tell. -Yeah. 51 00:02:23,226 --> 00:02:24,435 I can read you. 52 00:02:25,270 --> 00:02:26,437 -No, I do-- -See what it is-- 53 00:02:26,521 --> 00:02:29,065 I honestly feel that same way. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 54 00:02:29,691 --> 00:02:30,525 You do? 55 00:02:30,608 --> 00:02:32,569 -Yeah. -Same. Yeah. 56 00:02:32,652 --> 00:02:33,862 Yeah. 57 00:02:33,945 --> 00:02:34,779 Oh yeah. 58 00:02:48,543 --> 00:02:52,505 -I haven't seen you in forever. -I know! It's so nice to see you. 59 00:02:52,589 --> 00:02:53,464 Ooh. 60 00:02:53,548 --> 00:02:55,508 I definitely needed the extra-long session today. 61 00:02:55,592 --> 00:02:57,177 You do need an extra-long session. 62 00:02:59,721 --> 00:03:01,306 I don't even know what to catch you up on. 63 00:03:01,389 --> 00:03:03,516 Let's talk about your dating relationships. 64 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,059 Have you been able to date? 65 00:03:05,143 --> 00:03:09,564 I did go out with this guy John that Kane set me up with. 66 00:03:09,647 --> 00:03:12,609 But I just think the chemistry just wasn't really there. 67 00:03:12,692 --> 00:03:14,152 After we got back from Cabo, 68 00:03:14,235 --> 00:03:17,071 he's messaged me a couple of times, you know, to get together. 69 00:03:17,155 --> 00:03:19,199 I… did meet up with him. 70 00:03:19,782 --> 00:03:20,867 I just feel like, 71 00:03:21,951 --> 00:03:24,495 you know, that-- I don't know. I feel like 72 00:03:25,205 --> 00:03:26,873 it's not really working out. 73 00:03:28,458 --> 00:03:31,794 I just feel closed off, and I think I need some more healing to do. 74 00:03:31,878 --> 00:03:34,839 And then I'm just not ready to date yet. 75 00:03:34,923 --> 00:03:36,925 If that changes, you know where to find me. 76 00:03:37,008 --> 00:03:40,720 In the meantime, I'm your friend, and I'll support the shit out of you. 77 00:03:40,803 --> 00:03:41,638 Thank you. 78 00:03:42,347 --> 00:03:47,393 You know, I'm so proud of you because you allowed yourself to feel 79 00:03:47,477 --> 00:03:49,812 your own reservation about the relationship. 80 00:03:49,896 --> 00:03:53,691 You gave yourself permission to tell him you weren't interested. 81 00:03:53,775 --> 00:03:55,860 -Yeah. I'm learning slowly. -Yeah. 82 00:03:55,944 --> 00:03:58,571 Slowly. But, you know, in my past, 83 00:03:58,655 --> 00:04:01,324 it was always about what the other person wants. 84 00:04:01,407 --> 00:04:03,034 It could be as simple as having dinner. 85 00:04:03,117 --> 00:04:05,078 -What does the other person wanna eat? -Mm-hmm. 86 00:04:05,161 --> 00:04:08,581 That was pretty much what I did for everything in my life 87 00:04:08,665 --> 00:04:12,627 because I feel like… I'm not good enough for the other person, 88 00:04:12,710 --> 00:04:14,963 or I'm not doing enough for the other person. 89 00:04:15,046 --> 00:04:16,881 Part of it is because of my mom. 90 00:04:16,965 --> 00:04:18,967 What was the issue with your mother? 91 00:04:19,050 --> 00:04:24,222 Well, she was brought up in the traditional Asian society which is, 92 00:04:24,305 --> 00:04:25,974 "Nothing is ever good enough." 93 00:04:26,557 --> 00:04:29,060 It's like, "Mom, I worked so hard, did all of this extra credit." 94 00:04:29,143 --> 00:04:33,106 "I got 90 on this assignment." And it's like, "Why didn't you get 100?" 95 00:04:33,189 --> 00:04:35,900 Both of them are A's, it's the same, but you know the difference. 96 00:04:35,984 --> 00:04:39,320 -Mmm. -A in school is… it stands for average. 97 00:04:39,404 --> 00:04:42,573 -Uh-huh. -And B, I call it below average. 98 00:04:43,074 --> 00:04:45,618 I have so much love and respect for my mom. 99 00:04:45,702 --> 00:04:48,037 She is a superwoman. She's my hero. 100 00:04:48,121 --> 00:04:51,124 She sacrificed so much moving to this country 101 00:04:51,207 --> 00:04:53,584 just so I can have more opportunities and better education 102 00:04:53,668 --> 00:04:55,753 then raised me as a single mom. 103 00:04:55,837 --> 00:04:58,673 However, we're not as close as I would like to be. 104 00:04:59,257 --> 00:05:01,509 Growing up, we didn't learn how to communicate. 105 00:05:01,592 --> 00:05:05,680 Still nowadays, when my mom and I talk, we talk about business stuff, house stuff. 106 00:05:05,763 --> 00:05:07,223 We don't talk about feelings. 107 00:05:07,807 --> 00:05:11,519 Like, my mom triggers me. I have very little patience with my mom. 108 00:05:11,602 --> 00:05:15,440 Like, it's definitely a little frustrating to hear from my mom all the time 109 00:05:15,523 --> 00:05:18,234 about how I need to get married, I need to slow down, have babies. 110 00:05:18,318 --> 00:05:21,696 I think if I freeze my eggs, there won't be so much pressure. 111 00:05:21,779 --> 00:05:26,159 So, I don't really want you to just freeze your eggs. 112 00:05:26,242 --> 00:05:29,412 I think I want a real kid. 113 00:05:29,495 --> 00:05:30,330 Okay. 114 00:05:31,331 --> 00:05:33,583 And the earlier the better. 115 00:05:33,666 --> 00:05:35,543 It's definitely a challenge. 116 00:05:36,627 --> 00:05:40,381 Like, I just don't have an open doorway to communicate with her 117 00:05:40,465 --> 00:05:43,843 because we were never taught that. And I was never taught that. 118 00:05:43,926 --> 00:05:46,679 But she doesn't know how to either because she wasn't taught that. 119 00:05:46,763 --> 00:05:50,099 I've been focusing a lot on, you know, how my dad leaving 120 00:05:50,183 --> 00:05:52,143 has affected me and my relationships. 121 00:05:52,769 --> 00:05:55,813 But I didn't realize my mom has also affected me. 122 00:05:55,897 --> 00:06:00,234 I'm wondering if you would consider saying to your mom, 123 00:06:00,318 --> 00:06:04,364 "I don't want to just talk about business and, you know, being this super-achiever." 124 00:06:04,447 --> 00:06:06,908 "I want to talk about our feelings together." 125 00:06:23,216 --> 00:06:24,092 Kane! 126 00:06:24,175 --> 00:06:26,886 Thank you, I know my doorbell works. 127 00:06:26,969 --> 00:06:28,596 -My doorbell works. -Hey. 128 00:06:28,679 --> 00:06:30,431 -How's it going? -Hi. How are you? 129 00:06:31,182 --> 00:06:33,226 -You want anything? Coffee, matcha? -Uh… 130 00:06:33,309 --> 00:06:34,602 -Matcha is good. -Okay. 131 00:06:35,395 --> 00:06:36,437 Oh! 132 00:06:36,938 --> 00:06:39,399 Where do you find this, at, like, a flea market? 133 00:06:39,482 --> 00:06:40,358 Do you like them? 134 00:06:40,441 --> 00:06:43,778 It's okay. Not like Baccarat or something, but you're almost there. 135 00:06:43,861 --> 00:06:44,862 Baccarat? What's that? 136 00:06:44,946 --> 00:06:47,156 Baccarat's a famous Parisian crystal. 137 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:48,866 Uh… Thank you. 138 00:06:49,492 --> 00:06:50,535 What the fuck is this? 139 00:06:51,119 --> 00:06:53,079 It's called art. Interpret it. 140 00:06:53,162 --> 00:06:55,665 Can you really help me out with this money tree, though? 141 00:06:55,748 --> 00:06:57,041 -Why? Is it dying? -It's dying. 142 00:06:57,667 --> 00:06:59,794 -It might be. -Can you overfeed this? 143 00:06:59,877 --> 00:07:02,755 I don't know. I don't have a money tree. My money tree is for my dad. 144 00:07:05,049 --> 00:07:06,801 I don't like this rug. It's ugly. 145 00:07:06,884 --> 00:07:09,804 -It matches that. -No, it doesn't. It looks-- 146 00:07:09,887 --> 00:07:12,473 -No, no, no. -What happened to your cheek? 147 00:07:12,557 --> 00:07:16,436 Right now, I'm still a little swollen because I had fillers done here, 148 00:07:16,519 --> 00:07:18,479 and, like, my smile's a little tight. 149 00:07:18,563 --> 00:07:20,189 What else do you think you'll do? 150 00:07:20,273 --> 00:07:21,274 My eyelids. 151 00:07:22,984 --> 00:07:24,235 Why are you so depressed? 152 00:07:24,318 --> 00:07:26,946 Because double eyelid surgery is the Western look. 153 00:07:27,029 --> 00:07:28,364 -No, it's not. -Yes, it is. 154 00:07:28,448 --> 00:07:31,492 -In my mind, it's not a Western look. -I know you don't think it is. 155 00:07:31,576 --> 00:07:33,369 I just feel it makes your eyes bigger. 156 00:07:33,453 --> 00:07:34,871 Which is a Western look. 157 00:07:34,954 --> 00:07:36,247 -No. -Yes, it is. 158 00:07:36,330 --> 00:07:39,834 -Some people have bigger eyes in Asia. -Yeah, it's plastic surgery. 159 00:07:39,917 --> 00:07:42,253 It's not! Indians have big eyes. 160 00:07:42,336 --> 00:07:45,465 Run a list for me. What are all the things you've done? 161 00:07:45,548 --> 00:07:47,049 -Everything? -Yeah. What have you done? 162 00:07:47,133 --> 00:07:49,886 -Since I was 17? -Everything in your whole lifetime. 163 00:07:49,969 --> 00:07:52,930 Okay. I've done, like, Botox for my mastics for chewing. 164 00:07:53,014 --> 00:07:56,392 I've done, like, Botox for my… forehead, 165 00:07:56,476 --> 00:08:00,229 threading for my nose, for my jawline, for my neck, cheekbone. 166 00:08:00,313 --> 00:08:04,025 Fillers for my temples. I did fillers for my cheekbones. 167 00:08:04,108 --> 00:08:06,819 Laser therapy. I've done like-- I had a lot of excess skin, 168 00:08:06,903 --> 00:08:09,322 so I did, like, an HD skin revision. 169 00:08:09,405 --> 00:08:13,784 Lasers, red light therapy, IV drip. I took the fat. I didn't wanna waste it 170 00:08:13,868 --> 00:08:15,870 because recycling's important in Los Angeles. 171 00:08:15,953 --> 00:08:17,997 So I took the fat, I put it back in my chest. 172 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,791 I wanted a bigger chest. Not too much. You can't see a difference. 173 00:08:20,875 --> 00:08:22,543 -Did I say fillers? -Yeah… 174 00:08:22,627 --> 00:08:25,421 I've done fillers on my nose, fillers for my jawline. 175 00:08:25,505 --> 00:08:28,341 I've done micro-needling. I've done, like, Morpheus. I've done-- 176 00:08:28,424 --> 00:08:31,636 -Oh my God, this could be a rap song. -Yeah, it's all rhyming to me. 177 00:08:31,719 --> 00:08:33,012 Yeah, that's it. 178 00:08:33,095 --> 00:08:35,139 -That's it? -Yeah. For now. 179 00:08:35,223 --> 00:08:37,517 -You're not addicted to this stuff? -No. 180 00:08:38,142 --> 00:08:40,937 -Oh, my veneers were 50,000. -Oh, yeah. 181 00:08:42,855 --> 00:08:44,398 Oh my God! 182 00:08:44,482 --> 00:08:47,652 -I forgot my veneers were 55,000. -A hundred and fifty thousand dollars. 183 00:08:50,279 --> 00:08:53,908 I could even see you going to the extent of trying to get, like, 184 00:08:53,991 --> 00:08:55,451 your balls even or something. 185 00:08:55,535 --> 00:08:58,454 -No. I don't care about that. -It's supposed to be uneven, you know? 186 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:01,123 -Your balls? Are they? -Yeah. So they don't slap each other. 187 00:09:01,207 --> 00:09:02,083 So there's no pain. 188 00:09:03,543 --> 00:09:04,377 Oh, wow. 189 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:05,920 Mm… 190 00:09:06,504 --> 00:09:10,550 All I'm saying is part of what makes us Asians are our eyes. 191 00:09:10,633 --> 00:09:14,053 I'm not doing it because I wanna look like a white person. 192 00:09:14,136 --> 00:09:16,389 I'm doing it because I wanna look cuter. 193 00:09:16,472 --> 00:09:19,809 You have to understand me. I've wanted to do this since I was, like, 194 00:09:19,892 --> 00:09:21,561 six years, seven years ago. 195 00:09:21,644 --> 00:09:23,521 Since you came to America. 196 00:09:23,604 --> 00:09:24,438 How ironic. 197 00:09:24,522 --> 00:09:26,065 No, don't use America-- 198 00:09:26,148 --> 00:09:28,192 It is, because you know why? Everybody looks towards… 199 00:09:28,276 --> 00:09:29,485 I don't wanna be white. 200 00:09:29,569 --> 00:09:30,861 …white America. 201 00:09:30,945 --> 00:09:33,906 Me growing up here in a white world… 202 00:09:33,990 --> 00:09:34,824 Mm-hmm. 203 00:09:34,907 --> 00:09:37,326 …I always compared myself to white beauty. 204 00:09:37,410 --> 00:09:40,413 And I was ashamed of being Asian and my Asian features. 205 00:09:40,496 --> 00:09:43,541 -I know you don't quite have that-- -I love Asian wealth. 206 00:09:43,624 --> 00:09:45,293 I get that you love Asian wealth, 207 00:09:45,376 --> 00:09:48,588 but I literally just don't want to see you go in that-- 208 00:09:48,671 --> 00:09:52,174 It took me years to start to appreciate the way I look, and I regret-- 209 00:09:52,258 --> 00:09:54,760 -What do you mean "regret"? -I regret the surgery. 210 00:09:54,844 --> 00:09:55,886 What surgery? 211 00:09:55,970 --> 00:09:58,764 -The double eyelids. -They look great! I want your eyes! 212 00:09:59,557 --> 00:10:03,686 I grew up hating my eyes. I had single eyelids. 213 00:10:03,769 --> 00:10:05,938 They were smaller, a little more slanted. 214 00:10:06,022 --> 00:10:08,649 Kids would taunt me for it, and I hated that. 215 00:10:08,733 --> 00:10:10,651 And it made me feel shitty about myself. 216 00:10:10,735 --> 00:10:14,822 As an Asian model, I just felt so shameful of my eyes 217 00:10:14,905 --> 00:10:16,824 that I chose to do the double eyelids. 218 00:10:16,907 --> 00:10:19,035 Afterwards, I didn't like the way I looked. 219 00:10:19,118 --> 00:10:20,911 I didn't know who I was again. 220 00:10:20,995 --> 00:10:22,955 And I felt ashamed more to be Asian. 221 00:10:24,206 --> 00:10:27,543 I just hate to see, even if it was from different circumstances, 222 00:10:27,627 --> 00:10:29,754 somebody just hating so much being in their body. 223 00:10:29,837 --> 00:10:32,089 I get that. I go through that all the time. 224 00:10:32,173 --> 00:10:36,052 Not being Asian, but, like, why am I with this physical appearance? 225 00:10:36,135 --> 00:10:38,054 Like, growing up, I was overweight. 226 00:10:38,137 --> 00:10:41,015 I always felt like the ugly duckling because I was the big one. 227 00:10:41,098 --> 00:10:44,685 -Mm. -My pants were like 36, 38. 228 00:10:44,769 --> 00:10:47,897 My friends used to call me "fish ball," like an Asian delicacy. 229 00:10:47,980 --> 00:10:50,524 You know, like, fish ball, meatball, whatever. 230 00:10:50,608 --> 00:10:52,026 They used to call me "fish ball." 231 00:10:52,109 --> 00:10:56,364 It really affected me because imagine being called "fish ball" for years. 232 00:10:56,447 --> 00:11:01,243 All this you're trying to change. I think maybe someone needs to tell you 233 00:11:01,744 --> 00:11:04,705 you don't have to follow this standard. 234 00:11:06,916 --> 00:11:07,917 I-- Yeah. 235 00:11:23,057 --> 00:11:24,183 -How are you? -Good. 236 00:11:24,266 --> 00:11:26,727 Mom, what the heck did you pack? 237 00:11:26,811 --> 00:11:29,271 What's that? Mimi brought more luggage than you guys. 238 00:11:29,355 --> 00:11:31,607 Really? Oh, I thought this was a lot. 239 00:11:32,191 --> 00:11:35,653 I think we could go to Europe easier than going to San Francisco. 240 00:11:35,736 --> 00:11:36,570 Oh my God. 241 00:11:37,988 --> 00:11:39,615 Happy birthday, Mimi! 242 00:11:39,699 --> 00:11:44,745 We have a private jet to San Francisco. We're here to celebrate Mimi's birthday. 243 00:11:44,829 --> 00:11:48,207 Everything about her is expensive. And I'm like, "Yay, friends!" 244 00:11:48,290 --> 00:11:50,209 -Look at her! She's fancy. -Oh, yeah! 245 00:11:50,292 --> 00:11:51,168 We're all fancy. 246 00:11:51,752 --> 00:11:53,170 Bye, LA. 247 00:11:54,547 --> 00:11:56,799 -Happy birthday! -Happy birthday! 248 00:11:56,882 --> 00:11:58,843 -It's your birthday! -Yeah, it's your birthday! 249 00:12:01,345 --> 00:12:03,389 -Yay! -Happy birthday! 250 00:12:03,472 --> 00:12:05,057 -Yes! -Yay! 251 00:12:05,141 --> 00:12:07,935 -I'm so excited. You've met my mom. -I love your mom. 252 00:12:08,018 --> 00:12:13,733 So I decided to invite my mom because I want to get closer to her. 253 00:12:13,816 --> 00:12:16,193 It's weird to say, but I wanna develop a friendship with her. 254 00:12:16,277 --> 00:12:17,653 I want her to be my best friend. 255 00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:21,073 I feel so much pressure now because your mom-- 256 00:12:21,157 --> 00:12:23,033 -My mom will judge you. -I know! 257 00:12:23,117 --> 00:12:26,120 She will judge the hell out of you. I'm kidding. She won't. 258 00:12:26,203 --> 00:12:29,081 -She loves Kane. She adores Kane. -Oh my God. 259 00:12:29,165 --> 00:12:31,333 Growing up with the Asian culture, like-- 260 00:12:33,002 --> 00:12:35,838 She gave me so much pressure. As you know with your parents, 261 00:12:35,921 --> 00:12:38,090 so much pressure where… 262 00:12:38,174 --> 00:12:41,343 …growing up, I always felt like I was never good enough. 263 00:12:41,427 --> 00:12:44,054 I feel like I was never comfortable talking to her. 264 00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:46,557 -You know-- There we go. -I love you. 265 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,017 -Oh, Skyler! -Skyler! 266 00:12:48,100 --> 00:12:49,560 -I love you too! -Yeah! 267 00:12:49,643 --> 00:12:52,062 -Which one do you love more? -I can't choose! 268 00:12:52,146 --> 00:12:54,064 -You can't? -That's the best answer! 269 00:12:54,148 --> 00:12:58,235 Well, guys, Kelly, you have to say-- We're in San Francisco! 270 00:12:59,570 --> 00:13:01,030 Yes! 271 00:13:16,504 --> 00:13:17,755 -Hey. -Hey. 272 00:13:19,757 --> 00:13:21,133 -Wow. -Hi! 273 00:13:21,217 --> 00:13:22,885 You look, uh, stunning. 274 00:13:22,968 --> 00:13:24,762 -Thank you. -How's it going? 275 00:13:24,845 --> 00:13:26,222 -I'm doing really good. -Yeah? 276 00:13:26,305 --> 00:13:27,932 Did you notice, uh…? 277 00:13:28,557 --> 00:13:30,518 -You wear glasses. -Yeah. I just wanted-- 278 00:13:30,601 --> 00:13:34,104 -I actually used to wear glasses too. -Really? What happened? 279 00:13:34,188 --> 00:13:37,566 I was brave enough to take them off. I used to hide behind my glasses. 280 00:13:37,650 --> 00:13:40,069 Eventually, I got really comfortable not wearing them. 281 00:13:40,152 --> 00:13:43,030 I remember being a kid and wanting glasses really bad. 282 00:13:43,113 --> 00:13:45,991 So bad, I looked at the sun for a little bit. 283 00:13:46,075 --> 00:13:47,159 Oh my God. 284 00:13:47,243 --> 00:13:50,871 -Yes, I'm so stupid. -To try to, like, fry your eyes? 285 00:13:50,955 --> 00:13:54,875 Well, I thought-- I was a kid. Superman got his powers from the sun. 286 00:13:54,959 --> 00:13:57,753 -Oh. -I thought I could do the same thing and-- 287 00:13:57,837 --> 00:14:01,340 Could be. You have the muscles like Superman. 288 00:14:01,423 --> 00:14:02,341 Thank you. 289 00:14:04,385 --> 00:14:06,804 After everything that happened with me and Kim, 290 00:14:06,887 --> 00:14:12,601 the best thing for me to do was get back out there again, go on dates, 291 00:14:12,685 --> 00:14:14,270 be a little romantic. 292 00:14:14,353 --> 00:14:16,897 And there was a real connection between Janice and I, 293 00:14:16,981 --> 00:14:19,608 so I figured, like, "I'm gonna ask her out." 294 00:14:19,692 --> 00:14:21,360 Should we end on a group hug? 295 00:14:21,443 --> 00:14:22,444 -Yes. -Yeah. 296 00:14:22,528 --> 00:14:24,280 -Thank you, everyone. -Thank you. 297 00:14:25,489 --> 00:14:28,951 I find it interesting when you said you have never dated an Asian guy 298 00:14:29,034 --> 00:14:32,413 because what I find challenging dating Asian women now 299 00:14:32,496 --> 00:14:34,707 is that I grew up only around white people. 300 00:14:34,790 --> 00:14:36,959 -So that's all I-- -Me too. 301 00:14:37,042 --> 00:14:39,128 You too? Wait, were you adopted? 302 00:14:39,211 --> 00:14:41,714 No, but I grew up all around white people. 303 00:14:42,298 --> 00:14:44,800 -Where? -In Lancaster, Pennsylvania. 304 00:14:44,884 --> 00:14:49,221 -It's, like, Amish country. -That's where my family's business is. 305 00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,724 -Are you kidding me, Kevin? -I swear to God. 306 00:14:51,807 --> 00:14:56,186 I remember, like, growing up with, like, horse and buggies just in front of you. 307 00:14:56,270 --> 00:14:57,104 Shut up! Yes. 308 00:14:57,187 --> 00:14:59,440 -I thought that was normal. -Dutch Wonderland. 309 00:14:59,523 --> 00:15:01,233 -Dutch-- Hersheypark. -Loved it! 310 00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,193 -Did you go to Hersheypark? -Yes! Yes! 311 00:15:03,277 --> 00:15:05,738 -This is wild. This is wild. -Wow! 312 00:15:06,238 --> 00:15:09,033 -Where would you like this? -Right here is good. 313 00:15:09,116 --> 00:15:11,201 -I'm finished with this, thank you. -Thank you. 314 00:15:11,785 --> 00:15:14,455 I like to bless my food. I'm gonna take a moment. 315 00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:20,836 -Okay. Thank you. -Wow. That was it? 316 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,796 -Yeah, I did it internally. -Oh. 317 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,633 -I don't need to make a fiasco of it. -Gotcha. 318 00:15:25,716 --> 00:15:29,678 Basically just thanking all hands it took to get this meal in front of us. 319 00:15:29,762 --> 00:15:31,388 -Amazing. -Yeah. 320 00:15:31,472 --> 00:15:32,973 How are we gonna eat and talk? 321 00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:35,351 I do it all the time. You just get used to it. 322 00:15:37,436 --> 00:15:40,064 One thing I like about you is that I feel safe around you. 323 00:15:40,147 --> 00:15:41,273 Aw. 324 00:15:41,357 --> 00:15:43,275 -That's so important. Yeah. -Yeah. 325 00:15:43,359 --> 00:15:47,071 I mean, You do have a little bit of a bad side to you? A little bit? 326 00:15:47,154 --> 00:15:48,656 Definitely. I'm a Gemini. 327 00:15:50,115 --> 00:15:52,201 I've been on a lot of first dates before, 328 00:15:52,284 --> 00:15:55,037 and this first date with Janice is going real smooth. 329 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,207 -So I definitely want to do this again. -Me too. 330 00:15:58,290 --> 00:16:02,628 And her voice was nice. It was soft like… like a… like a cloud. 331 00:16:02,711 --> 00:16:06,090 If a cloud could make a sound, that's what her voice would sound like. 332 00:16:06,173 --> 00:16:08,175 -Super good seeing you. -Mm-hmm. 333 00:16:08,258 --> 00:16:09,468 Mmm. 334 00:16:25,859 --> 00:16:28,445 -Skyler! -Hi, Skyler! 335 00:16:28,529 --> 00:16:30,614 Skyler, how are you? Give me a hug. 336 00:16:30,698 --> 00:16:33,033 -Hey! -Give me a hug, give me a hug. 337 00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:34,743 -Skyler. -Happy birthday, Mimi! 338 00:16:34,827 --> 00:16:36,537 -Thank you. -Happy birthday. Oh my God. 339 00:16:36,620 --> 00:16:39,665 -This is my first time-- -Happy birthday, Mimi! 340 00:16:41,166 --> 00:16:42,501 -How are you? -Good. 341 00:16:42,584 --> 00:16:44,336 -Hi, Mama. -Happy birthday. 342 00:16:45,587 --> 00:16:47,965 -Come in. -Oh my God, Don. This is sick. 343 00:16:48,048 --> 00:16:50,592 She keeps talking about your property, 344 00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:52,678 but, like, this is insane. 345 00:16:52,761 --> 00:16:57,850 Mimi and Don have this amazing penthouse that overlooks the Bay Bridge, 346 00:16:57,933 --> 00:17:00,602 you know, the best views of the city, 347 00:17:00,686 --> 00:17:03,480 and I've heard it costs over ten million dollars. 348 00:17:03,564 --> 00:17:07,151 It's 4,000 square feet, and it's blinged out to the nines. 349 00:17:07,234 --> 00:17:08,610 Mimi has great taste. 350 00:17:08,694 --> 00:17:13,073 Yeah, she did all of the interiors. I just write checks. That's my job. 351 00:17:13,157 --> 00:17:14,908 Mimi, my surprise-- 352 00:17:14,992 --> 00:17:18,454 Actually, Kelly and I's surprise was the chef today. I know he's here. 353 00:17:18,954 --> 00:17:20,873 Auntie, do you know who I invited? 354 00:17:20,956 --> 00:17:23,292 -Oh. I don't know. -Do you know Martin Yan? 355 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:26,253 -Ooh! 356 00:17:26,336 --> 00:17:28,881 Crazy! I want to see! 357 00:17:29,548 --> 00:17:32,634 -Martin. -Hey! How's it going? I'm ready. 358 00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:33,552 I am ready. 359 00:17:33,635 --> 00:17:35,012 -How are you? -Very good. 360 00:17:35,095 --> 00:17:37,097 Thank you so much. Oh my God. 361 00:17:37,181 --> 00:17:39,224 -How are you? -This is Kelly. 362 00:17:39,308 --> 00:17:41,977 Chef Martin Yan is a James Beard Award winner 363 00:17:42,061 --> 00:17:43,604 and just a legend growing up. 364 00:17:44,271 --> 00:17:47,775 You know, watching him on TV, every Asian household 365 00:17:47,858 --> 00:17:49,818 would know who Chef Martin Yan is. 366 00:17:49,902 --> 00:17:52,738 He's famous for saying, "If Yan can cook, so can you!" 367 00:17:53,322 --> 00:17:54,615 This is my mom. 368 00:17:54,698 --> 00:17:56,116 -Hi, Mom! -I'm your fan! 369 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,077 -Nice to see you. -Hmm! Beautiful mom! 370 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,245 Everybody get involved. That's the key. 371 00:18:00,329 --> 00:18:04,083 I'm gonna ask you to do this very, very carefully. 372 00:18:04,166 --> 00:18:05,667 Look at that. She is good! 373 00:18:05,751 --> 00:18:08,087 Oh my God, this one done. Who wants to cook? 374 00:18:08,170 --> 00:18:09,755 -Kelly, you wanna cook? -Mm-mm. 375 00:18:09,838 --> 00:18:11,757 Let me cook it! Let me cook it! 376 00:18:13,342 --> 00:18:15,094 -Oh, I want to cook. -She's so happy. 377 00:18:16,136 --> 00:18:17,429 Do you wanna take this off? 378 00:18:17,513 --> 00:18:19,014 -Okay. -Good. 379 00:18:19,681 --> 00:18:21,266 Seeing Chef Martin in person, 380 00:18:21,350 --> 00:18:24,937 I'm like, "Oh my God, like, what kind of Botox do you use?" 381 00:18:25,020 --> 00:18:30,818 Because he's 71, and he looks exactly the same as when he was 40. 382 00:18:30,901 --> 00:18:33,153 -And then-- -Very colorful. 383 00:18:33,237 --> 00:18:34,988 I'm gonna put the sauce. 384 00:18:35,072 --> 00:18:37,241 -What sauce is this? -This is the orange… 385 00:18:37,324 --> 00:18:38,867 -Sauce. -…sauce. 386 00:18:38,951 --> 00:18:41,662 He's just a ball of energy, and, like, it's so surreal. 387 00:18:41,745 --> 00:18:42,913 Kelly, this is epic. 388 00:18:43,497 --> 00:18:46,708 Like, cooking nine dishes in, like, half an hour? That's crazy. 389 00:18:46,792 --> 00:18:47,751 Dinner's ready! 390 00:18:49,336 --> 00:18:51,588 -Yay! -Let's go! 391 00:18:57,261 --> 00:18:59,555 It's definitely getting cold in LA, huh? 392 00:18:59,638 --> 00:19:00,472 Yeah. 393 00:19:01,140 --> 00:19:03,392 I'd offer you my coat, but it's really cold. 394 00:19:07,271 --> 00:19:09,606 -You're such a gentleman. -Do you want my coat? 395 00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:11,108 -No, it's okay. -Okay, good. 396 00:19:11,191 --> 00:19:13,694 -I know you need it more than I do. -I am cold, so… 397 00:19:14,361 --> 00:19:15,946 Boba makes me cold. 398 00:19:16,655 --> 00:19:18,198 -It does. -Mm-hmm. 399 00:19:18,782 --> 00:19:19,992 What have you been up to? 400 00:19:23,453 --> 00:19:27,958 You know when you finally wanna go to a spiritual healing, 401 00:19:28,041 --> 00:19:31,545 and then all of a sudden, your friend supports you with that, 402 00:19:31,628 --> 00:19:33,881 but they also wanna try to date your spiritual healer? 403 00:19:33,964 --> 00:19:35,674 Is this what it's really about? 404 00:19:35,757 --> 00:19:38,468 I've told Janice a lot of my personal issues, 405 00:19:38,552 --> 00:19:41,305 and now she's going out with Kevin. 406 00:19:41,889 --> 00:19:44,016 I mean, I feel really uncomfortable about that. 407 00:19:44,099 --> 00:19:45,893 What do you think? That's kinda shady. 408 00:19:45,976 --> 00:19:46,977 -No. -No? 409 00:19:47,060 --> 00:19:48,103 What's shady is, 410 00:19:48,187 --> 00:19:51,231 if I didn't have feelings for this other person, 411 00:19:51,315 --> 00:19:53,567 I'd say, "Please, I want you to be happy." 412 00:19:53,650 --> 00:19:57,446 But instead, you're throwing this shade underneath me saying, 413 00:19:57,529 --> 00:20:00,574 "Oh, but you can't do this. You can't date that way." 414 00:20:00,657 --> 00:20:04,244 You don't control me. You don't own me. I'm not your boyfriend, nothing. 415 00:20:04,328 --> 00:20:05,871 That would've been nice. 416 00:20:06,371 --> 00:20:08,040 But instead, you go and say, 417 00:20:08,123 --> 00:20:10,709 "I don't wanna date. I'm too hurt. I need to heal." 418 00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:13,086 -You don't-- Yes. -"We're just gonna be friends." 419 00:20:13,170 --> 00:20:14,838 You don't date my spiritual healer! 420 00:20:14,922 --> 00:20:17,716 Who… who are you to tell me who to date and who not to, though? 421 00:20:17,799 --> 00:20:20,469 -Really? Out of all people-- -You cannot tell me-- 422 00:20:20,552 --> 00:20:22,596 -I'm not telling you-- -You have no right. 423 00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:24,097 That is the problem! 424 00:20:24,181 --> 00:20:25,515 You have no right to tell me… 425 00:20:25,599 --> 00:20:27,392 -Okay. -…who I should date and who I shouldn't. 426 00:20:27,476 --> 00:20:29,686 Unless you have feelings for me, then that's different. 427 00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:32,898 -It's just kind of weird, that's all. -No! You had a chance. 428 00:20:32,981 --> 00:20:35,317 I gave every… everything. 429 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,903 I'm fucked up from trying to date you, actually. 430 00:20:37,986 --> 00:20:40,405 I have no trust in relationships so much anymore. 431 00:20:40,489 --> 00:20:41,907 -I'm being serious. 432 00:20:41,990 --> 00:20:45,410 No. You need healing too. Hopefully, she'll give you a discount or something. 433 00:20:45,494 --> 00:20:46,703 It's great. It's good for you. 434 00:20:46,787 --> 00:20:47,663 Don't say that shit 435 00:20:47,746 --> 00:20:51,708 if you don't have feelings for me and be happy for me then maybe, okay? 436 00:20:51,792 --> 00:20:54,253 I don't give a shit. I promise you I don't. 437 00:20:54,336 --> 00:20:56,380 It shows what type of person you are. That's all. 438 00:20:56,463 --> 00:20:58,340 -Why do you always say that? -That's all. 439 00:20:58,423 --> 00:21:01,009 You know what your problem is? You only think about yourself. 440 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:02,469 Moving on! 441 00:21:02,552 --> 00:21:06,181 We're both grown people. We're not dating. 442 00:21:06,265 --> 00:21:09,226 So let's stop arguing like we're a married couple. 443 00:21:09,309 --> 00:21:11,436 Fuck this shit. I'm calling Uber. 444 00:21:32,582 --> 00:21:34,960 -Patience, Kane, patience. -Good morning, Kelly. 445 00:21:35,043 --> 00:21:36,461 Good morning. How are you? 446 00:21:36,545 --> 00:21:38,630 -How'd you sleep last night? -I slept good. 447 00:21:38,714 --> 00:21:40,424 I got us some breakfast. 448 00:21:40,507 --> 00:21:42,301 I know you don't eat, so I got you some fruit. 449 00:21:42,384 --> 00:21:45,846 -Is your room bigger than mine? -Maybe, I don't know. 450 00:21:45,929 --> 00:21:48,640 -Why is your room so much bigger? -Who cares? 451 00:21:48,724 --> 00:21:52,394 -Your room is so much nicer. -How are you? Kane, it's fine. Who cares? 452 00:21:52,477 --> 00:21:53,395 I care. 453 00:21:53,478 --> 00:21:57,316 -I called ahead, actually. -Oh my God! It's such a nice room. 454 00:21:57,399 --> 00:22:00,360 Oh, did you hear about Christine on Dancing with the Stars? 455 00:22:00,444 --> 00:22:02,904 Are you gonna go and support her? She's been asking me. 456 00:22:02,988 --> 00:22:05,324 -I almost feel guilty. -Why do you feel guilty? 457 00:22:05,407 --> 00:22:06,783 Oh. Okay. 458 00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:10,454 She gives me this whole talk, like, "Kelly, we all go and support each other 459 00:22:10,537 --> 00:22:13,582 and not just in our bad times but more importantly in the good times." 460 00:22:13,665 --> 00:22:15,917 -Yeah. -You think Kevin will go and support her? 461 00:22:16,001 --> 00:22:18,253 -A hundred percent. -You think so? 462 00:22:18,337 --> 00:22:20,005 He's gonna get a free dinner. 463 00:22:20,088 --> 00:22:21,673 That's right! 464 00:22:21,757 --> 00:22:25,218 They're going to Craig's after, so he's gonna… he's gonna go. 465 00:22:25,302 --> 00:22:28,388 She did ask me, just like, "Hey, Kane. I'd love for you to come." 466 00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:32,142 And I was like, "Shit, how do I fucking escape this shit?" 467 00:22:32,225 --> 00:22:33,226 So you're not gonna go. 468 00:22:33,310 --> 00:22:36,855 It's probably gonna be like, "It's Prada. Oh my God, I'm wearing Gucci." 469 00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:38,565 "Oh my God, look, it's couture." 470 00:22:38,648 --> 00:22:41,943 I can't stand it. Can you imagine on the carpet? 471 00:22:42,027 --> 00:22:45,238 Just dance, bitch, like no one's here for… 472 00:22:45,322 --> 00:22:47,866 -Oh my God. -No one's here for your outfit. 473 00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:50,369 Oh my God. Anyways… 474 00:22:50,452 --> 00:22:53,330 -I'm so tired, Kelly. I have no time. -I know. 475 00:22:53,413 --> 00:22:56,166 And like no social life. I have no, um… 476 00:22:56,249 --> 00:22:59,836 Be careful with that because, like I told you, I used to work so hard. 477 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:03,965 I never learned a work-life balance until my body gave out, you know? 478 00:23:04,049 --> 00:23:07,803 Do you feel like you're doing this to, like, prove yourself to your mom? 479 00:23:08,387 --> 00:23:10,639 Sometimes I still feel like I'm a disappointment to her. 480 00:23:10,722 --> 00:23:13,266 -Have you asked her or talked to her? -No. 481 00:23:13,892 --> 00:23:15,727 It's, like, awkward. I feel like our… 482 00:23:16,228 --> 00:23:18,814 our relationship is very surface, you know? 483 00:23:18,897 --> 00:23:22,692 If you look at your mom, she seems like someone that bottles everything… 484 00:23:22,776 --> 00:23:23,610 Yeah. 485 00:23:24,277 --> 00:23:25,445 -…inside. -Yeah. 486 00:23:26,363 --> 00:23:30,867 'Cause my dad's the same way. Like, once you've broken down the walls, 487 00:23:30,951 --> 00:23:34,121 oh my God, it's been the best relationship ever. 488 00:23:34,204 --> 00:23:38,875 -How did you break down the walls? -I forced myself to be… open. 489 00:23:38,959 --> 00:23:42,838 I forced myself to hug him. I forced myself to say, um, 490 00:23:42,921 --> 00:23:45,590 "I miss you." And it's so uncomfortable, 491 00:23:46,258 --> 00:23:48,135 because my dad was like, you know, 492 00:23:48,718 --> 00:23:51,555 mostly raised Chinese background, mainland Chinese. 493 00:23:52,055 --> 00:23:54,933 -They don't know how to hug, when to hug. -It is so awkward. 494 00:23:55,016 --> 00:23:59,938 It's so awkward. Over time, you know, the hugging was easier. 495 00:24:00,605 --> 00:24:02,649 Now I put down the phone, I'm like, "I love you, Dad." 496 00:24:02,732 --> 00:24:05,986 It's easy! In the past, you'd be like, "Oh my God, this is so weird." 497 00:24:06,069 --> 00:24:07,696 Imagine tomorrow's our last day. 498 00:24:08,905 --> 00:24:09,739 Spend it. 499 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,116 Yeah. 500 00:24:11,616 --> 00:24:12,534 No, you're right. 501 00:24:13,452 --> 00:24:15,787 -Your parents are always there for you… -Yeah. 502 00:24:15,871 --> 00:24:17,539 …even if you're a hooker. 503 00:24:17,622 --> 00:24:19,708 My mom might disown me if I'm a hooker. Just like-- 504 00:24:19,791 --> 00:24:23,545 -For a while, then she'd be, "I love you." -"I see you making money." 505 00:24:23,628 --> 00:24:26,006 Good for you, Kelly. How much do you charge? 506 00:24:26,089 --> 00:24:27,674 Too low! Too low! 507 00:24:38,226 --> 00:24:39,853 Mind if I raid your kitchen? 508 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:42,731 Um… 509 00:24:42,814 --> 00:24:44,316 -Can I have this? -Yes. 510 00:24:44,399 --> 00:24:45,692 -Yes. 511 00:24:46,610 --> 00:24:48,403 -Looks so delicious. -It's breast milk. 512 00:24:49,029 --> 00:24:51,948 -It's not breast milk. -Kidding. You're like, "Yes, I want it." 513 00:24:52,032 --> 00:24:52,949 Oh! 514 00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:57,204 -So guess what dance I have prepared? -For Dancing with the Stars? 515 00:24:57,287 --> 00:24:58,330 -Yeah. -Yeah. 516 00:24:58,413 --> 00:25:02,000 -Salsa! Oh! -Ooh! I know a little bit of salsa! 517 00:25:02,083 --> 00:25:04,669 -You have experience in salsa. -A little bit. 518 00:25:04,753 --> 00:25:07,464 -Teach me. -It's like, one step, two step. 519 00:25:09,591 --> 00:25:10,425 Right? 520 00:25:11,510 --> 00:25:12,928 -Yeah? 521 00:25:13,512 --> 00:25:16,264 I feel like you just ripped off moves from Baby G. 522 00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:18,517 What's the best move you learned? 523 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,851 -I just did it. -Oh… 524 00:25:20,435 --> 00:25:21,603 Look, it's just… 525 00:25:25,106 --> 00:25:29,361 -Why are you laughing? -Please don't do that on a date! 526 00:25:29,945 --> 00:25:32,739 How was your date with Janice? 527 00:25:32,822 --> 00:25:34,658 -That good, huh? 528 00:25:34,741 --> 00:25:36,576 -It was that good. -Yeah? 529 00:25:36,660 --> 00:25:39,412 Oh, yeah. I want to see her again. It was good. 530 00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:42,749 She's cool. We found out we have a lot in common, actually. 531 00:25:42,832 --> 00:25:46,044 She's from Lancaster, and I've been there my whole life. 532 00:25:46,127 --> 00:25:47,003 That's interesting. 533 00:25:47,087 --> 00:25:51,591 Does that make you, like, instantly feel more bonded with her? 534 00:25:51,675 --> 00:25:56,763 Yeah, I think so. She's grown up in such a… American environment. 535 00:25:56,846 --> 00:25:59,432 Mm-hmm. So what's next between you and her? 536 00:26:00,517 --> 00:26:02,978 She's… she's in Costa Rica right now. 537 00:26:04,688 --> 00:26:06,898 That doesn't look too bright for your second date. 538 00:26:06,982 --> 00:26:09,693 -She actually splits her time there. -Okay. 539 00:26:09,776 --> 00:26:13,446 Like, I don't know how long in LA, how long in Costa Rica, 540 00:26:13,530 --> 00:26:14,781 but she jumps around. 541 00:26:14,864 --> 00:26:17,450 Like, I don't know what to do because it's like, 542 00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:21,788 how do you keep the spark going when someone's in a different country? 543 00:26:21,871 --> 00:26:23,540 -That, I don't know. -Mmm. 544 00:26:23,623 --> 00:26:27,168 Maybe, like… maybe you need to show her the goods, you know? 545 00:26:28,587 --> 00:26:30,839 What are you saying with that? 546 00:26:30,922 --> 00:26:32,424 Oh… 547 00:26:33,008 --> 00:26:37,095 -I've never sent a dick pic. -Not like… your junk per se. 548 00:26:37,178 --> 00:26:39,139 Like-- Okay, fine. For instance… 549 00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:46,187 …I find men who are busy and living their lives and working 550 00:26:46,271 --> 00:26:49,524 but still think about me constantly very sexy. 551 00:26:49,608 --> 00:26:53,236 So maybe you should send her some pictures. 552 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,530 Okay, we're super busy cooking. 553 00:26:56,197 --> 00:26:58,742 -Oh, no, no, no, no! -Ooh, baking. 554 00:26:58,825 --> 00:27:01,244 Okay, I have an idea. We're gonna go outside. 555 00:27:01,328 --> 00:27:03,705 I love Kevin. He's kind of like a brother to me. 556 00:27:03,788 --> 00:27:06,041 I am a hopeless romantic, 557 00:27:06,124 --> 00:27:09,210 and I've been married for a very long time. 558 00:27:09,294 --> 00:27:12,380 I know a thing or two about changing things up. 559 00:27:12,464 --> 00:27:15,008 You know what would look really great for Janice? 560 00:27:15,091 --> 00:27:15,925 What's that? 561 00:27:16,426 --> 00:27:19,262 I don't know what's hotter than a man who does yard work. 562 00:27:19,346 --> 00:27:21,598 -Let's have you lift this chair. -Really? 563 00:27:21,681 --> 00:27:23,099 Yeah. It's heavy. 564 00:27:23,183 --> 00:27:25,685 Let's see you lifting in motion and walking. 565 00:27:25,769 --> 00:27:28,063 Yeah. That looks fantastic. See? 566 00:27:28,146 --> 00:27:30,899 Like, the biceps come out and the triceps. 567 00:27:30,982 --> 00:27:33,234 Place it right there. Perfect. 568 00:27:33,318 --> 00:27:35,737 How do you feel about your attire? 569 00:27:35,820 --> 00:27:38,114 -It's great. -Maybe we lose some of it? 570 00:27:38,198 --> 00:27:40,700 -Okay. -Place that right there. 571 00:27:41,618 --> 00:27:43,203 In motion. 572 00:27:43,286 --> 00:27:45,914 -You're not taking photos. -I'm doing, like, candid shots. 573 00:27:45,997 --> 00:27:46,956 You don't need to stop. 574 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,000 You don't even have the camera on me. 575 00:27:49,084 --> 00:27:52,879 Getting undressed in front of Christine when Dr. Chiu's not home 576 00:27:54,214 --> 00:27:55,840 feels a little naughty. 577 00:27:55,924 --> 00:27:59,177 -There's nothing sexier than a pole. -Okay. 578 00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:01,554 I think it looks best, though, in the water. 579 00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:06,017 Fantastic. You're doing a great job, Kevin. 580 00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:10,939 It's too easy to just sit around and take a shirtless picture. 581 00:28:11,022 --> 00:28:15,610 It's much harder and sexier to be pushing a wheelbarrow. 582 00:28:16,277 --> 00:28:18,863 Slow motion. Yes. 583 00:28:18,947 --> 00:28:20,198 No, not you slow motion. 584 00:28:20,281 --> 00:28:21,700 -Oh. -I'm on slow motion. 585 00:28:21,783 --> 00:28:23,827 Or trimming my hedges. 586 00:28:23,910 --> 00:28:26,287 Put your back into it. Yes. 587 00:28:26,371 --> 00:28:28,748 Wait! That's so dirty! 588 00:28:28,832 --> 00:28:30,834 -That is so dirty! 589 00:28:30,917 --> 00:28:33,712 That's not what I meant. Not what I meant! 590 00:28:35,338 --> 00:28:37,882 I actually don't think Janice will appreciate these photos. 591 00:28:37,966 --> 00:28:40,385 She comes from the spiritual realm. 592 00:28:40,468 --> 00:28:43,513 Although, maybe because she comes from the spiritual realm, 593 00:28:43,596 --> 00:28:47,016 getting closer to our natural place in life, 594 00:28:47,100 --> 00:28:50,186 naked selves, she'll appreciate this. 595 00:28:50,270 --> 00:28:53,857 I think we got it all. And you're gonna thank me. 596 00:28:53,940 --> 00:28:56,067 I need a break from this. It's hard work. 597 00:28:56,151 --> 00:28:58,778 -Was that a lot of work for you? -It was! I've never-- 598 00:28:58,862 --> 00:29:01,406 -Is-- -Selfies, I thought, did the trick. 599 00:29:01,489 --> 00:29:03,616 Um, can I get your advice on something? 600 00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:04,659 Sure. 601 00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:10,582 So, Kim really doesn't like me going on a date or seeing Janice at all. 602 00:29:11,499 --> 00:29:13,960 And… she's telling me 603 00:29:14,043 --> 00:29:20,216 because this Reiki healer is her healer, I shouldn't be going on a date with her. 604 00:29:20,300 --> 00:29:23,428 -Kim did Reiki with Janice? -Yeah. Yeah. 605 00:29:23,511 --> 00:29:26,848 Oh my gosh! How did you meet Janice? 606 00:29:26,931 --> 00:29:31,519 So we were in Malibu, me, Kim, Kelly, Kane. 607 00:29:31,603 --> 00:29:35,273 And she came to do the Reiki healing for all of us. 608 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:42,071 So, you met Janice while Kim was next to you? 609 00:29:42,155 --> 00:29:44,866 -Yeah. -Oh my gosh! Kevin! 610 00:29:44,949 --> 00:29:46,367 That is so… 611 00:29:47,076 --> 00:29:49,370 that's so bad, Kevin. 612 00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:50,622 But why? I don't get it. 613 00:29:50,705 --> 00:29:53,750 Here's the thing, if you friend zone me and you don't want anything, 614 00:29:54,375 --> 00:29:57,712 who cares who I meet when I meet them? 615 00:29:58,213 --> 00:30:00,882 It's too close for comfort. It's too familiar. 616 00:30:00,965 --> 00:30:04,636 Yeah, but that seems very unfair for me to be responsible for her. 617 00:30:04,719 --> 00:30:08,223 You need to decide, is she worth all of this? 618 00:30:08,932 --> 00:30:10,058 It's a good question. 619 00:30:10,141 --> 00:30:14,312 You gotta decide because if you go on another date with miss Reiki healer, 620 00:30:14,395 --> 00:30:16,105 you're gonna lose Kim forever. 621 00:30:21,277 --> 00:30:23,905 I'm spending a day with my mom in the San Francisco Zoo. 622 00:30:24,489 --> 00:30:28,535 I'm definitely really nervous. It's been years since we had 623 00:30:28,618 --> 00:30:32,288 any kind of conversation that's not about… work. 624 00:30:32,372 --> 00:30:33,748 Wow! 625 00:30:33,832 --> 00:30:36,334 -Oh my God, they're so pretty. -Yeah. 626 00:30:36,417 --> 00:30:37,377 Hi! 627 00:30:37,460 --> 00:30:40,380 -Hi, I'm Amy. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 628 00:30:40,463 --> 00:30:41,923 Welcome to the zoo. 629 00:30:42,006 --> 00:30:43,591 -Oh my God! -Um, this is Sarah. 630 00:30:43,675 --> 00:30:46,636 And Sarah is gonna be very happy to receive 631 00:30:46,719 --> 00:30:48,304 some snacks from you today. 632 00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:49,347 There you go. 633 00:30:49,430 --> 00:30:51,057 -OK. -It's a little slimy. 634 00:30:51,140 --> 00:30:53,643 -It's okay. Aw! -She drools a lot for a giraffe. 635 00:30:53,726 --> 00:30:54,811 Hi, Sarah! 636 00:30:54,894 --> 00:30:56,187 Wanna see if she'll give you a kiss? 637 00:30:56,271 --> 00:30:58,606 -How do I do that? -You're gonna stand here. 638 00:30:58,690 --> 00:31:01,150 And she's gonna raise her upper lip to her face. 639 00:31:01,234 --> 00:31:04,279 Sarah, can you give her a kiss? Good girl! 640 00:31:04,362 --> 00:31:06,489 -Aw! 641 00:31:06,573 --> 00:31:08,032 I'm in love! 642 00:31:08,116 --> 00:31:11,202 -You wanna have her kiss you? -No. Maybe I not try this. 643 00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:14,080 -No. 644 00:31:14,163 --> 00:31:17,750 -Thank you so much. Oh my God! -You're welcome. Nice to meet you. 645 00:31:17,834 --> 00:31:20,670 -Nice to meet you as well. -Nice to meet you. Thank you. 646 00:31:25,550 --> 00:31:27,135 Where are we going now? 647 00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:28,469 Leisure day. 648 00:31:28,553 --> 00:31:30,889 -You don't need to know where we're going. -Okay. 649 00:31:30,972 --> 00:31:33,224 -You can just enjoy the present. -Yeah, I know. 650 00:31:33,308 --> 00:31:35,852 I'm happy you're here 'cause we can spend time together. 651 00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:40,064 I know, I know. You have, uh, very good, successful career. 652 00:31:40,148 --> 00:31:42,191 I know you work hard every day, 653 00:31:42,817 --> 00:31:44,694 but, uh, 654 00:31:44,777 --> 00:31:46,279 if you take care of yourself-- 655 00:31:46,362 --> 00:31:48,323 And I want you to have your kids. 656 00:31:50,909 --> 00:31:53,411 Oh my gosh, uh… 657 00:31:53,912 --> 00:31:54,746 How many kids? 658 00:31:54,829 --> 00:31:57,665 As much as you can! 659 00:31:58,791 --> 00:32:01,085 I do wanna have kids, you know that, 660 00:32:01,169 --> 00:32:03,880 but the thing is I don't wanna just be with anybody. 661 00:32:04,672 --> 00:32:07,216 You know, when I went through my divorce before, 662 00:32:07,300 --> 00:32:10,261 I didn't tell you any of the stuff until after it was done 663 00:32:10,345 --> 00:32:13,014 because I didn't even know how to talk to you. 664 00:32:14,474 --> 00:32:18,436 Even, like, saying "I love you," it's so weird to me. 665 00:32:19,312 --> 00:32:22,690 Yeah, this is, uh, Chinese cultural tradition. 666 00:32:22,774 --> 00:32:26,069 We love each other but in the heart. It's not speaking out. 667 00:32:26,152 --> 00:32:28,655 I feel like… I was never good enough. 668 00:32:29,530 --> 00:32:31,157 -You know? Because… -No, no. 669 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,827 …when we lived in China, there was so much pressure to do better. 670 00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:36,955 -To always be number one in class. -I know, I know. 671 00:32:37,038 --> 00:32:41,876 And then ballet and then tap dancing, Chinese traditional dancing, piano. 672 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:46,214 It was so much pressure all the time. You know, you worked so hard. 673 00:32:46,297 --> 00:32:48,633 You did three jobs when you first moved to the US. 674 00:32:48,716 --> 00:32:52,887 You'd have to work, like, six hours for one hour of my private piano lesson. 675 00:32:52,971 --> 00:32:55,348 But the thing is, I didn't even like piano. 676 00:32:57,517 --> 00:33:00,228 I'm sorry about that. I gave you too much pressure. 677 00:33:00,728 --> 00:33:04,273 -I'm sorry about-- -No. It's not your fault. It's just like… 678 00:33:08,861 --> 00:33:11,990 Why I push you sometimes, it's like I want my kids 679 00:33:12,073 --> 00:33:15,493 to be like a benefit for society, okay? 680 00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:18,705 I want you to be a good person, uh… 681 00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:19,831 With virtue. 682 00:33:19,914 --> 00:33:22,500 The most important thing will be moral education. 683 00:33:22,583 --> 00:33:25,837 Second, for my kids should be healthy. 684 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,630 To be very healthy. 685 00:33:31,217 --> 00:33:34,220 You are my treasure. You are only one kid for me. 686 00:33:34,303 --> 00:33:37,724 I want take care of you. I want, you know, your best. 687 00:33:37,807 --> 00:33:39,809 Maybe we need to talk more. 688 00:33:39,892 --> 00:33:42,895 Uh, when you have something to speak about, let me know. 689 00:33:42,979 --> 00:33:44,647 Tell me if I'm not good. 690 00:33:45,231 --> 00:33:46,816 -And vice versa, yeah. -Yeah. 691 00:33:47,567 --> 00:33:48,443 Aw. 692 00:33:52,321 --> 00:33:56,784 I'm actually really surprised that my mom… is apologizing. 693 00:33:56,868 --> 00:34:00,246 I was almost expecting her to be defensive. 694 00:34:00,329 --> 00:34:01,748 We're on the same page. 695 00:34:01,831 --> 00:34:04,375 I'm like, "Why did I wait so long to have this conversation?" 696 00:34:04,459 --> 00:34:05,710 Let's practice. 697 00:34:05,793 --> 00:34:08,254 -I wanna say, "I love you." -Okay. 698 00:34:08,337 --> 00:34:10,048 And then you have to say it back to me. 699 00:34:10,131 --> 00:34:12,550 I love you. Oh my gosh! 700 00:34:12,633 --> 00:34:14,677 Sometimes it's difficult to say. 701 00:34:14,761 --> 00:34:17,180 -But I love you from my heart. -I know. 702 00:34:17,263 --> 00:34:18,931 I didn't say it often, so-- 703 00:34:19,015 --> 00:34:22,477 -We have to practice. -I love you, girl. I love you, my girl. 704 00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:47,126 -Priscilla! Hello! -Hey! Kane! 705 00:34:47,210 --> 00:34:50,296 -Good morning. -Good morning. You look fresh. 706 00:34:50,379 --> 00:34:52,215 I did a spin class before this. 707 00:34:52,298 --> 00:34:53,633 Well, you look good. 708 00:34:53,716 --> 00:34:55,551 -Thank you. -So this is the shoot. 709 00:34:55,635 --> 00:34:58,679 -This is the setup they have. Yes. -Oh my gosh, let me check this out. 710 00:34:58,763 --> 00:35:01,265 So this is, like, where we're gonna do our photos. 711 00:35:01,349 --> 00:35:03,684 And then we have all the products here. 712 00:35:03,768 --> 00:35:05,853 It's gonna be, like, behind the scenes? 713 00:35:05,937 --> 00:35:08,231 -Yeah, the whole like-- -Oh. I love that. 714 00:35:08,314 --> 00:35:11,818 Today is the big day of my campaign with Fenty. 715 00:35:11,901 --> 00:35:15,655 It's so surreal because there are, like, 20 people from the Fenty team. 716 00:35:15,738 --> 00:35:19,742 Like, ten years ago, 20 years ago, that I would be here in Milk Studios 717 00:35:19,826 --> 00:35:23,621 having like a campaign shoot for one of the biggest brands in the world? 718 00:35:25,498 --> 00:35:26,582 I feel so spoiled. 719 00:35:26,666 --> 00:35:29,669 -You're looking great, honey. -Oh my God, love this. 720 00:35:29,752 --> 00:35:31,420 So this is not really contour. 721 00:35:31,504 --> 00:35:32,672 -This is bronzer. -Yeah. 722 00:35:32,755 --> 00:35:35,049 So I don't think you really need "contour" contour. 723 00:35:35,133 --> 00:35:39,428 -This is just bronzer to give you a bit-- -What do you think about my eyes? 724 00:35:39,512 --> 00:35:41,848 -What do I think about your eyes? -Yeah. 725 00:35:41,931 --> 00:35:43,933 -I think they're beautiful. -Look. Eyelids. 726 00:35:44,016 --> 00:35:45,017 Gorgeous. 727 00:35:45,101 --> 00:35:47,395 Do you notice I have one missing eyelid? 728 00:35:47,895 --> 00:35:50,523 -Not… not really. -I do. I have-- 729 00:35:50,606 --> 00:35:54,986 I think my left has a double lid, my right has a single. 730 00:35:55,069 --> 00:35:58,865 I mean, Fenty Beauty reached out to you because of the way you look. 731 00:35:58,948 --> 00:36:01,450 This is a beauty brand. It's all about the face. 732 00:36:01,534 --> 00:36:03,536 -So we think your face is perfect. -Yeah. 733 00:36:03,619 --> 00:36:05,246 Growing up, I had big eyes. 734 00:36:05,329 --> 00:36:08,166 -Kids would call me "frog eyes." -They're gorgeous, your best asset. 735 00:36:08,249 --> 00:36:09,458 Kids would call me "frog eyes." 736 00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:11,335 -Frog eyes? -Frog eyes. 737 00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:14,505 Because-- I feel like no matter who you are or what you look like, 738 00:36:14,589 --> 00:36:17,008 if you have confidence, you have swag, you look good. 739 00:36:17,091 --> 00:36:20,386 Yeah. Oh, this is amazing. Yeah, it's amazing to hear. 740 00:36:20,469 --> 00:36:22,430 Ooh! I'm so excited! 741 00:36:23,097 --> 00:36:24,223 Okay, let's go. 742 00:36:27,268 --> 00:36:29,395 That looks great with the bling. 743 00:36:30,897 --> 00:36:33,316 -Nice there. 744 00:36:35,067 --> 00:36:36,944 Okay, poses. 745 00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:38,571 Getting this new deal with Fenty, 746 00:36:38,654 --> 00:36:41,532 I'm so grateful and also, like, proud of myself. 747 00:36:41,616 --> 00:36:43,701 We'll try a standing version with the blazer. 748 00:36:43,784 --> 00:36:46,495 Maybe we bring everything up a foot and a half? 749 00:36:46,579 --> 00:36:48,706 Let's check that out. Let's see how that feels. 750 00:36:50,583 --> 00:36:51,667 That's great. Great. 751 00:36:51,751 --> 00:36:55,129 I'm loving the jacket movement. You don't need any directing. 752 00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:58,716 I love Rihanna because what she represents most is, 753 00:36:58,799 --> 00:37:01,594 um, just being authentic and true to yourself. 754 00:37:01,677 --> 00:37:05,765 I feel like fixing my eyelids at this point wouldn't make me happier. 755 00:37:05,848 --> 00:37:08,434 So, I don't think I need this at this point. 756 00:37:08,517 --> 00:37:13,189 I'm good with myself, and I should improve on my inner self than this single eyelid. 757 00:37:13,689 --> 00:37:16,984 Cute. Cute. Cute. That's a wrap, Kane! 758 00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:18,778 -That's a wrap? 759 00:37:43,135 --> 00:37:45,429 -Hi, Kevin. -Hey. What's up, Janice? 760 00:37:46,597 --> 00:37:47,765 How are you? 761 00:37:47,848 --> 00:37:51,227 Good. Just, uh, about to leave, actually. 762 00:37:51,310 --> 00:37:52,812 I'm going to the East Coast. 763 00:37:54,105 --> 00:37:55,189 Hmm. 764 00:37:55,273 --> 00:37:58,442 -Are you gonna go visit your family? -Yeah, I'm gonna go visit my family. 765 00:37:58,526 --> 00:38:00,152 You're in Costa Rica, right? 766 00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:02,822 Yeah, I am in Costa Rica. I got here two days ago. 767 00:38:02,905 --> 00:38:05,992 We haven't talked for a while, so I'm sorry. I've just been really busy. 768 00:38:06,075 --> 00:38:08,244 I didn't mean to ignore you or anything. 769 00:38:08,995 --> 00:38:11,205 I'd love to see you when I'm back. 770 00:38:13,874 --> 00:38:16,460 Maybe it's, like, just better if we kind of, um, 771 00:38:17,420 --> 00:38:19,797 just be, like, friends or something, you know? 772 00:38:21,299 --> 00:38:23,592 It's not okay? What's going on? 773 00:38:24,343 --> 00:38:27,221 I know that I had a really good time with you. 774 00:38:27,305 --> 00:38:29,640 -I think you had a good time with me. -Mm-hmm. 775 00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:33,853 We got off to a really hot… like a really hot start. 776 00:38:34,562 --> 00:38:36,355 Yeah, uh… 777 00:38:37,857 --> 00:38:40,943 Going on a date with Janice right after 778 00:38:41,027 --> 00:38:43,904 Kim and I established we'd just be friends in Malibu 779 00:38:44,488 --> 00:38:46,324 maybe was just too fast. 780 00:38:46,407 --> 00:38:50,036 The last thing I wanna do is interfere with Kim's healing. 781 00:38:50,119 --> 00:38:52,038 I'd like to help her along the way. 782 00:38:52,121 --> 00:38:55,082 And I'll do my best to try to keep this friendship with Kim going 783 00:38:55,166 --> 00:38:56,584 because that's what I promised. 784 00:38:56,667 --> 00:39:01,213 I'd just feel even like more distant from you and stuff, so… 785 00:39:01,797 --> 00:39:04,717 Okay. I'm grateful for the time we spent together. 786 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,427 Yeah, me too. It was really nice. 787 00:39:06,510 --> 00:39:09,221 All right. Well, enjoy your trip in Costa Rica, okay? 788 00:39:09,305 --> 00:39:11,724 -Thank you. -Yeah. Okay. Bye.