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Unbreakable! Wow!
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-Oh, wow. This is a nice gym.
-Nice, right?
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How you been? Like, what you been up to?
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-I'm good. How you been?
-I've been good.
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-So much has been happening.
-I know. I see that.
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Lewis Tan is a very talented actor.
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He's been in lots of movies,
Mortal Kombat, Wu Assassins.
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And he's a…
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he's a very attractive guy.
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-All right, so what are we doing?
-Open your hand.
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Yeah.
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So, sweet.
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-Feel like I can kick ass right now.
-Yep.
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I'm trying to get a six-pack like you.
How many… how many packs do you have?
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-I don't know, I--
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-Not bad!
-Getting there.
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You feeling loose and warm? Stretched out?
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I'm a little feeling tight.
Not loose.
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Okay.
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So Lewis Tan and I
have been friends for many years.
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And he's been trying to hang out
for a while now.
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I've been doing a lot of healing lately.
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And I feel like I just wanna…
go out there and have fun.
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I feel like that's what I need in my life.
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-We're gonna do some Muay Thai today.
-Muay Thai, what's that?
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Muay Thai is, uh, Thai boxing.
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See, the full combination
is one, two, three, four, five, six.
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It's all hands.
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Seeing him hit that bag.
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Oh my God. Do it again.
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Just one more time.
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Ooh, it's getting hot in here!
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What's your… your star sign?
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I'm a Gemini.
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You're a Gemini. Oh yeah.
I think we talked about this--
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We talked--
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-Wait, you're an Aquarius!
-I'm an Aquarius. Yeah.
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Google it, right now.
Who is Aquarius', uh, soul mate?
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"Gemini and Aquarius,
sexual intimacy compat--"
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-That's all we need to know, right?
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-Cut straight to the chase.
-Right.
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"Gemini and Aquarius will have great sex."
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"They don't need to be naked
to have a sexual experience."
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"Although, they will want
to be naked all the time
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to set themselves free
from human restrictions
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represented through clothes."
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I mean…
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You seem like
a passionate person too. Are you?
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-Yeah. Very.
-Right?
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-I can tell.
-Yeah.
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I can read you.
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-No, I do--
-See what it is--
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I honestly feel that same way.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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You do?
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-Yeah.
-Same. Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Oh yeah.
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-I haven't seen you in forever.
-I know! It's so nice to see you.
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Ooh.
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I definitely needed
the extra-long session today.
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You do need an extra-long session.
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I don't even know what to catch you up on.
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Let's talk about
your dating relationships.
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Have you been able to date?
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I did go out with this guy John
that Kane set me up with.
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But I just think the chemistry
just wasn't really there.
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After we got back from Cabo,
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he's messaged me a couple of times,
you know, to get together.
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I… did meet up with him.
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I just feel like,
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you know, that-- I don't know. I feel like
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it's not really working out.
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I just feel closed off, and I think
I need some more healing to do.
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And then I'm just not ready to date yet.
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If that changes,
you know where to find me.
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In the meantime, I'm your friend,
and I'll support the shit out of you.
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Thank you.
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You know, I'm so proud of you
because you allowed yourself to feel
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your own reservation
about the relationship.
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You gave yourself permission
to tell him you weren't interested.
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-Yeah. I'm learning slowly.
-Yeah.
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Slowly. But, you know, in my past,
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it was always about
what the other person wants.
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It could be as simple as having dinner.
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-What does the other person wanna eat?
-Mm-hmm.
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That was pretty much
what I did for everything in my life
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because I feel like… I'm not good enough
for the other person,
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or I'm not doing enough
for the other person.
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Part of it is because of my mom.
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What was the issue with your mother?
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Well, she was brought up
in the traditional Asian society which is,
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"Nothing is ever good enough."
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It's like, "Mom, I worked so hard,
did all of this extra credit."
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"I got 90 on this assignment."
And it's like, "Why didn't you get 100?"
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Both of them are A's, it's the same,
but you know the difference.
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-Mmm.
-A in school is… it stands for average.
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-Uh-huh.
-And B, I call it below average.
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I have so much love
and respect for my mom.
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She is a superwoman. She's my hero.
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She sacrificed so much
moving to this country
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just so I can have
more opportunities and better education
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then raised me as a single mom.
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However, we're not as close
as I would like to be.
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Growing up,
we didn't learn how to communicate.
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Still nowadays, when my mom and I talk,
we talk about business stuff, house stuff.
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We don't talk about feelings.
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Like, my mom triggers me.
I have very little patience with my mom.
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Like, it's definitely a little frustrating
to hear from my mom all the time
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about how I need to get married,
I need to slow down, have babies.
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I think if I freeze my eggs,
there won't be so much pressure.
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So, I don't really want you
to just freeze your eggs.
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I think I want a real kid.
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Okay.
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And the earlier the better.
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It's definitely a challenge.
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Like, I just don't have an open doorway
to communicate with her
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because we were never taught that.
And I was never taught that.
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But she doesn't know how to either
because she wasn't taught that.
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I've been focusing a lot on,
you know, how my dad leaving
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has affected me and my relationships.
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But I didn't realize my mom
has also affected me.
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I'm wondering if you would consider
saying to your mom,
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"I don't want to just talk about business
and, you know, being this super-achiever."
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"I want to talk
about our feelings together."
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Kane!
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Thank you,
I know my doorbell works.
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-My doorbell works.
-Hey.
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-How's it going?
-Hi. How are you?
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-You want anything? Coffee, matcha?
-Uh…
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-Matcha is good.
-Okay.
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Oh!
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Where do you find this,
at, like, a flea market?
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Do you like them?
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It's okay. Not like Baccarat or something,
but you're almost there.
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Baccarat? What's that?
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Baccarat's
a famous Parisian crystal.
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Uh… Thank you.
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What the fuck is this?
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It's called art. Interpret it.
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Can you really help me out
with this money tree, though?
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-Why? Is it dying?
-It's dying.
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-It might be.
-Can you overfeed this?
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I don't know. I don't have a money tree.
My money tree is for my dad.
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I don't like this rug. It's ugly.
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-It matches that.
-No, it doesn't. It looks--
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-No, no, no.
-What happened to your cheek?
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Right now, I'm still a little swollen
because I had fillers done here,
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and, like, my smile's a little tight.
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What else do you think you'll do?
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My eyelids.
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Why are you so depressed?
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Because double eyelid surgery
is the Western look.
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-No, it's not.
-Yes, it is.
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-In my mind, it's not a Western look.
-I know you don't think it is.
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I just feel
it makes your eyes bigger.
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Which is a Western look.
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-No.
-Yes, it is.
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-Some people have bigger eyes in Asia.
-Yeah, it's plastic surgery.
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It's not! Indians have big eyes.
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Run a list for me.
What are all the things you've done?
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-Everything?
-Yeah. What have you done?
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-Since I was 17?
-Everything in your whole lifetime.
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Okay. I've done, like,
Botox for my mastics for chewing.
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I've done, like, Botox for my… forehead,
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threading for my nose,
for my jawline, for my neck, cheekbone.
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Fillers for my temples.
I did fillers for my cheekbones.
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Laser therapy. I've done like--
I had a lot of excess skin,
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so I did, like, an HD skin revision.
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Lasers, red light therapy, IV drip.
I took the fat. I didn't wanna waste it
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because recycling's important
in Los Angeles.
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So I took the fat,
I put it back in my chest.
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I wanted a bigger chest.
Not too much. You can't see a difference.
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-Did I say fillers?
-Yeah…
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I've done fillers on my nose,
fillers for my jawline.
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I've done micro-needling.
I've done, like, Morpheus. I've done--
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-Oh my God, this could be a rap song.
-Yeah, it's all rhyming to me.
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Yeah, that's it.
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-That's it?
-Yeah. For now.
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-You're not addicted to this stuff?
-No.
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-Oh, my veneers were 50,000.
-Oh, yeah.
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Oh my God!
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-I forgot my veneers were 55,000.
-A hundred and fifty thousand dollars.
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I could even see you going
to the extent of trying to get, like,
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your balls even or something.
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-No. I don't care about that.
-It's supposed to be uneven, you know?
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-Your balls? Are they?
-Yeah. So they don't slap each other.
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So there's no pain.
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Oh, wow.
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Mm…
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All I'm saying is
part of what makes us Asians are our eyes.
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I'm not doing it
because I wanna look like a white person.
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I'm doing it because I wanna look cuter.
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You have to understand me.
I've wanted to do this since I was, like,
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six years, seven years ago.
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Since you came to America.
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How ironic.
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No, don't use America--
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It is, because you know why?
Everybody looks towards…
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I don't wanna be white.
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…white America.
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Me growing up here in a white world…
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Mm-hmm.
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…I always compared myself to white beauty.
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And I was ashamed of being Asian
and my Asian features.
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-I know you don't quite have that--
-I love Asian wealth.
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I get that you love Asian wealth,
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but I literally just don't want
to see you go in that--
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It took me years to start to appreciate
the way I look, and I regret--
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-What do you mean "regret"?
-I regret the surgery.
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What surgery?
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-The double eyelids.
-They look great! I want your eyes!
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I grew up hating my eyes.
I had single eyelids.
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They were smaller, a little more slanted.
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Kids would taunt me for it,
and I hated that.
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And it made me feel shitty about myself.
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As an Asian model,
I just felt so shameful of my eyes
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that I chose to do the double eyelids.
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Afterwards, I didn't like
the way I looked.
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I didn't know who I was again.
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And I felt ashamed more to be Asian.
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I just hate to see, even if it was
from different circumstances,
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somebody just hating so much
being in their body.
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I get that.
I go through that all the time.
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Not being Asian, but, like, why am I
with this physical appearance?
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Like, growing up, I was overweight.
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I always felt like the ugly duckling
because I was the big one.
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-Mm.
-My pants were like 36, 38.
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My friends used to call me "fish ball,"
like an Asian delicacy.
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You know, like,
fish ball, meatball, whatever.
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They used to call me "fish ball."
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It really affected me because imagine
being called "fish ball" for years.
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All this you're trying to change.
I think maybe someone needs to tell you
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you don't have to follow this standard.
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I-- Yeah.
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-How are you?
-Good.
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Mom, what the heck did you pack?
237
00:11:26,811 --> 00:11:29,271
What's that?
Mimi brought more luggage than you guys.
238
00:11:29,355 --> 00:11:31,607
Really? Oh, I thought this was a lot.
239
00:11:32,191 --> 00:11:35,653
I think we could go to Europe easier
than going to San Francisco.
240
00:11:35,736 --> 00:11:36,570
Oh my God.
241
00:11:37,988 --> 00:11:39,615
Happy birthday, Mimi!
242
00:11:39,699 --> 00:11:44,745
We have a private jet to San Francisco.
We're here to celebrate Mimi's birthday.
243
00:11:44,829 --> 00:11:48,207
Everything about her is expensive.
And I'm like, "Yay, friends!"
244
00:11:48,290 --> 00:11:50,209
-Look at her! She's fancy.
-Oh, yeah!
245
00:11:50,292 --> 00:11:51,168
We're all fancy.
246
00:11:51,752 --> 00:11:53,170
Bye, LA.
247
00:11:54,547 --> 00:11:56,799
-Happy birthday!
-Happy birthday!
248
00:11:56,882 --> 00:11:58,843
-It's your birthday!
-Yeah, it's your birthday!
249
00:12:01,345 --> 00:12:03,389
-Yay!
-Happy birthday!
250
00:12:03,472 --> 00:12:05,057
-Yes!
-Yay!
251
00:12:05,141 --> 00:12:07,935
-I'm so excited. You've met my mom.
-I love your mom.
252
00:12:08,018 --> 00:12:13,733
So I decided to invite my mom
because I want to get closer to her.
253
00:12:13,816 --> 00:12:16,193
It's weird to say, but I wanna develop
a friendship with her.
254
00:12:16,277 --> 00:12:17,653
I want her to be my best friend.
255
00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:21,073
I feel so much pressure now
because your mom--
256
00:12:21,157 --> 00:12:23,033
-My mom will judge you.
-I know!
257
00:12:23,117 --> 00:12:26,120
She will judge the hell out of you.
I'm kidding. She won't.
258
00:12:26,203 --> 00:12:29,081
-She loves Kane. She adores Kane.
-Oh my God.
259
00:12:29,165 --> 00:12:31,333
Growing up
with the Asian culture, like--
260
00:12:33,002 --> 00:12:35,838
She gave me so much pressure.
As you know with your parents,
261
00:12:35,921 --> 00:12:38,090
so much pressure where…
262
00:12:38,174 --> 00:12:41,343
…growing up, I always felt
like I was never good enough.
263
00:12:41,427 --> 00:12:44,054
I feel like I was
never comfortable talking to her.
264
00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:46,557
-You know-- There we go.
-I love you.
265
00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,017
-Oh, Skyler!
-Skyler!
266
00:12:48,100 --> 00:12:49,560
-I love you too!
-Yeah!
267
00:12:49,643 --> 00:12:52,062
-Which one do you love more?
-I can't choose!
268
00:12:52,146 --> 00:12:54,064
-You can't?
-That's the best answer!
269
00:12:54,148 --> 00:12:58,235
Well, guys, Kelly, you have to say--
We're in San Francisco!
270
00:12:59,570 --> 00:13:01,030
Yes!
271
00:13:16,504 --> 00:13:17,755
-Hey.
-Hey.
272
00:13:19,757 --> 00:13:21,133
-Wow.
-Hi!
273
00:13:21,217 --> 00:13:22,885
You look, uh, stunning.
274
00:13:22,968 --> 00:13:24,762
-Thank you.
-How's it going?
275
00:13:24,845 --> 00:13:26,222
-I'm doing really good.
-Yeah?
276
00:13:26,305 --> 00:13:27,932
Did you notice, uh…?
277
00:13:28,557 --> 00:13:30,518
-You wear glasses.
-Yeah. I just wanted--
278
00:13:30,601 --> 00:13:34,104
-I actually used to wear glasses too.
-Really? What happened?
279
00:13:34,188 --> 00:13:37,566
I was brave enough to take them off.
I used to hide behind my glasses.
280
00:13:37,650 --> 00:13:40,069
Eventually, I got really comfortable
not wearing them.
281
00:13:40,152 --> 00:13:43,030
I remember being a kid
and wanting glasses really bad.
282
00:13:43,113 --> 00:13:45,991
So bad,
I looked at the sun for a little bit.
283
00:13:46,075 --> 00:13:47,159
Oh my God.
284
00:13:47,243 --> 00:13:50,871
-Yes, I'm so stupid.
-To try to, like, fry your eyes?
285
00:13:50,955 --> 00:13:54,875
Well, I thought-- I was a kid.
Superman got his powers from the sun.
286
00:13:54,959 --> 00:13:57,753
-Oh.
-I thought I could do the same thing and--
287
00:13:57,837 --> 00:14:01,340
Could be. You have
the muscles like Superman.
288
00:14:01,423 --> 00:14:02,341
Thank you.
289
00:14:04,385 --> 00:14:06,804
After everything that happened
with me and Kim,
290
00:14:06,887 --> 00:14:12,601
the best thing for me to do
was get back out there again, go on dates,
291
00:14:12,685 --> 00:14:14,270
be a little romantic.
292
00:14:14,353 --> 00:14:16,897
And there was a real connection
between Janice and I,
293
00:14:16,981 --> 00:14:19,608
so I figured, like,
"I'm gonna ask her out."
294
00:14:19,692 --> 00:14:21,360
Should we end on a group hug?
295
00:14:21,443 --> 00:14:22,444
-Yes.
-Yeah.
296
00:14:22,528 --> 00:14:24,280
-Thank you, everyone.
-Thank you.
297
00:14:25,489 --> 00:14:28,951
I find it interesting when you said
you have never dated an Asian guy
298
00:14:29,034 --> 00:14:32,413
because what I find challenging
dating Asian women now
299
00:14:32,496 --> 00:14:34,707
is that I grew up
only around white people.
300
00:14:34,790 --> 00:14:36,959
-So that's all I--
-Me too.
301
00:14:37,042 --> 00:14:39,128
You too? Wait, were you adopted?
302
00:14:39,211 --> 00:14:41,714
No, but I grew up all around white people.
303
00:14:42,298 --> 00:14:44,800
-Where?
-In Lancaster, Pennsylvania.
304
00:14:44,884 --> 00:14:49,221
-It's, like, Amish country.
-That's where my family's business is.
305
00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:51,724
-Are you kidding me, Kevin?
-I swear to God.
306
00:14:51,807 --> 00:14:56,186
I remember, like, growing up with, like,
horse and buggies just in front of you.
307
00:14:56,270 --> 00:14:57,104
Shut up! Yes.
308
00:14:57,187 --> 00:14:59,440
-I thought that was normal.
-Dutch Wonderland.
309
00:14:59,523 --> 00:15:01,233
-Dutch-- Hersheypark.
-Loved it!
310
00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,193
-Did you go to Hersheypark?
-Yes! Yes!
311
00:15:03,277 --> 00:15:05,738
-This is wild. This is wild.
-Wow!
312
00:15:06,238 --> 00:15:09,033
-Where would you like this?
-Right here is good.
313
00:15:09,116 --> 00:15:11,201
-I'm finished with this, thank you.
-Thank you.
314
00:15:11,785 --> 00:15:14,455
I like to bless my food.
I'm gonna take a moment.
315
00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:20,836
-Okay. Thank you.
-Wow. That was it?
316
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,796
-Yeah, I did it internally.
-Oh.
317
00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,633
-I don't need to make a fiasco of it.
-Gotcha.
318
00:15:25,716 --> 00:15:29,678
Basically just thanking all hands it took
to get this meal in front of us.
319
00:15:29,762 --> 00:15:31,388
-Amazing.
-Yeah.
320
00:15:31,472 --> 00:15:32,973
How are we gonna eat and talk?
321
00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:35,351
I do it all the time.
You just get used to it.
322
00:15:37,436 --> 00:15:40,064
One thing I like about you
is that I feel safe around you.
323
00:15:40,147 --> 00:15:41,273
Aw.
324
00:15:41,357 --> 00:15:43,275
-That's so important. Yeah.
-Yeah.
325
00:15:43,359 --> 00:15:47,071
I mean, You do have a little bit
of a bad side to you? A little bit?
326
00:15:47,154 --> 00:15:48,656
Definitely. I'm a Gemini.
327
00:15:50,115 --> 00:15:52,201
I've been on a lot of first dates before,
328
00:15:52,284 --> 00:15:55,037
and this first date with Janice
is going real smooth.
329
00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,207
-So I definitely want to do this again.
-Me too.
330
00:15:58,290 --> 00:16:02,628
And her voice was nice.
It was soft like… like a… like a cloud.
331
00:16:02,711 --> 00:16:06,090
If a cloud could make a sound,
that's what her voice would sound like.
332
00:16:06,173 --> 00:16:08,175
-Super good seeing you.
-Mm-hmm.
333
00:16:08,258 --> 00:16:09,468
Mmm.
334
00:16:25,859 --> 00:16:28,445
-Skyler!
-Hi, Skyler!
335
00:16:28,529 --> 00:16:30,614
Skyler, how are you? Give me a hug.
336
00:16:30,698 --> 00:16:33,033
-Hey!
-Give me a hug, give me a hug.
337
00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:34,743
-Skyler.
-Happy birthday, Mimi!
338
00:16:34,827 --> 00:16:36,537
-Thank you.
-Happy birthday. Oh my God.
339
00:16:36,620 --> 00:16:39,665
-This is my first time--
-Happy birthday, Mimi!
340
00:16:41,166 --> 00:16:42,501
-How are you?
-Good.
341
00:16:42,584 --> 00:16:44,336
-Hi, Mama.
-Happy birthday.
342
00:16:45,587 --> 00:16:47,965
-Come in.
-Oh my God, Don. This is sick.
343
00:16:48,048 --> 00:16:50,592
She keeps talking about your property,
344
00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:52,678
but, like, this is insane.
345
00:16:52,761 --> 00:16:57,850
Mimi and Don have this amazing penthouse
that overlooks the Bay Bridge,
346
00:16:57,933 --> 00:17:00,602
you know, the best views of the city,
347
00:17:00,686 --> 00:17:03,480
and I've heard
it costs over ten million dollars.
348
00:17:03,564 --> 00:17:07,151
It's 4,000 square feet,
and it's blinged out to the nines.
349
00:17:07,234 --> 00:17:08,610
Mimi has great taste.
350
00:17:08,694 --> 00:17:13,073
Yeah, she did all of the interiors.
I just write checks. That's my job.
351
00:17:13,157 --> 00:17:14,908
Mimi, my surprise--
352
00:17:14,992 --> 00:17:18,454
Actually, Kelly and I's surprise
was the chef today. I know he's here.
353
00:17:18,954 --> 00:17:20,873
Auntie, do you know who I invited?
354
00:17:20,956 --> 00:17:23,292
-Oh. I don't know.
-Do you know Martin Yan?
355
00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:26,253
-Ooh!
356
00:17:26,336 --> 00:17:28,881
Crazy! I want to see!
357
00:17:29,548 --> 00:17:32,634
-Martin.
-Hey! How's it going? I'm ready.
358
00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:33,552
I am ready.
359
00:17:33,635 --> 00:17:35,012
-How are you?
-Very good.
360
00:17:35,095 --> 00:17:37,097
Thank you so much. Oh my God.
361
00:17:37,181 --> 00:17:39,224
-How are you?
-This is Kelly.
362
00:17:39,308 --> 00:17:41,977
Chef Martin Yan is
a James Beard Award winner
363
00:17:42,061 --> 00:17:43,604
and just a legend growing up.
364
00:17:44,271 --> 00:17:47,775
You know, watching him on TV,
every Asian household
365
00:17:47,858 --> 00:17:49,818
would know who Chef Martin Yan is.
366
00:17:49,902 --> 00:17:52,738
He's famous for saying,
"If Yan can cook, so can you!"
367
00:17:53,322 --> 00:17:54,615
This is my mom.
368
00:17:54,698 --> 00:17:56,116
-Hi, Mom!
-I'm your fan!
369
00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,077
-Nice to see you.
-Hmm! Beautiful mom!
370
00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,245
Everybody get involved. That's the key.
371
00:18:00,329 --> 00:18:04,083
I'm gonna ask you
to do this very, very carefully.
372
00:18:04,166 --> 00:18:05,667
Look at that. She is good!
373
00:18:05,751 --> 00:18:08,087
Oh my God, this one done.
Who wants to cook?
374
00:18:08,170 --> 00:18:09,755
-Kelly, you wanna cook?
-Mm-mm.
375
00:18:09,838 --> 00:18:11,757
Let me cook it! Let me cook it!
376
00:18:13,342 --> 00:18:15,094
-Oh, I want to cook.
-She's so happy.
377
00:18:16,136 --> 00:18:17,429
Do you wanna take this off?
378
00:18:17,513 --> 00:18:19,014
-Okay.
-Good.
379
00:18:19,681 --> 00:18:21,266
Seeing Chef Martin in person,
380
00:18:21,350 --> 00:18:24,937
I'm like, "Oh my God, like,
what kind of Botox do you use?"
381
00:18:25,020 --> 00:18:30,818
Because he's 71, and he looks
exactly the same as when he was 40.
382
00:18:30,901 --> 00:18:33,153
-And then--
-Very colorful.
383
00:18:33,237 --> 00:18:34,988
I'm gonna put the sauce.
384
00:18:35,072 --> 00:18:37,241
-What sauce is this?
-This is the orange…
385
00:18:37,324 --> 00:18:38,867
-Sauce.
-…sauce.
386
00:18:38,951 --> 00:18:41,662
He's just a ball of energy,
and, like, it's so surreal.
387
00:18:41,745 --> 00:18:42,913
Kelly, this is epic.
388
00:18:43,497 --> 00:18:46,708
Like, cooking nine dishes in,
like, half an hour? That's crazy.
389
00:18:46,792 --> 00:18:47,751
Dinner's ready!
390
00:18:49,336 --> 00:18:51,588
-Yay!
-Let's go!
391
00:18:57,261 --> 00:18:59,555
It's definitely getting cold
in LA, huh?
392
00:18:59,638 --> 00:19:00,472
Yeah.
393
00:19:01,140 --> 00:19:03,392
I'd offer you my coat,
but it's really cold.
394
00:19:07,271 --> 00:19:09,606
-You're such a gentleman.
-Do you want my coat?
395
00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:11,108
-No, it's okay.
-Okay, good.
396
00:19:11,191 --> 00:19:13,694
-I know you need it more than I do.
-I am cold, so…
397
00:19:14,361 --> 00:19:15,946
Boba makes me cold.
398
00:19:16,655 --> 00:19:18,198
-It does.
-Mm-hmm.
399
00:19:18,782 --> 00:19:19,992
What have you been up to?
400
00:19:23,453 --> 00:19:27,958
You know when you finally wanna go
to a spiritual healing,
401
00:19:28,041 --> 00:19:31,545
and then all of a sudden,
your friend supports you with that,
402
00:19:31,628 --> 00:19:33,881
but they also wanna try
to date your spiritual healer?
403
00:19:33,964 --> 00:19:35,674
Is this what it's really about?
404
00:19:35,757 --> 00:19:38,468
I've told Janice
a lot of my personal issues,
405
00:19:38,552 --> 00:19:41,305
and now she's going out with Kevin.
406
00:19:41,889 --> 00:19:44,016
I mean,
I feel really uncomfortable about that.
407
00:19:44,099 --> 00:19:45,893
What do you think? That's kinda shady.
408
00:19:45,976 --> 00:19:46,977
-No.
-No?
409
00:19:47,060 --> 00:19:48,103
What's shady is,
410
00:19:48,187 --> 00:19:51,231
if I didn't have feelings
for this other person,
411
00:19:51,315 --> 00:19:53,567
I'd say, "Please, I want you to be happy."
412
00:19:53,650 --> 00:19:57,446
But instead, you're throwing this shade
underneath me saying,
413
00:19:57,529 --> 00:20:00,574
"Oh, but you can't do this.
You can't date that way."
414
00:20:00,657 --> 00:20:04,244
You don't control me. You don't own me.
I'm not your boyfriend, nothing.
415
00:20:04,328 --> 00:20:05,871
That would've been nice.
416
00:20:06,371 --> 00:20:08,040
But instead, you go and say,
417
00:20:08,123 --> 00:20:10,709
"I don't wanna date.
I'm too hurt. I need to heal."
418
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:13,086
-You don't-- Yes.
-"We're just gonna be friends."
419
00:20:13,170 --> 00:20:14,838
You don't date my spiritual healer!
420
00:20:14,922 --> 00:20:17,716
Who… who are you to tell me
who to date and who not to, though?
421
00:20:17,799 --> 00:20:20,469
-Really? Out of all people--
-You cannot tell me--
422
00:20:20,552 --> 00:20:22,596
-I'm not telling you--
-You have no right.
423
00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:24,097
That is the problem!
424
00:20:24,181 --> 00:20:25,515
You have no right to tell me…
425
00:20:25,599 --> 00:20:27,392
-Okay.
-…who I should date and who I shouldn't.
426
00:20:27,476 --> 00:20:29,686
Unless you have feelings for me,
then that's different.
427
00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:32,898
-It's just kind of weird, that's all.
-No! You had a chance.
428
00:20:32,981 --> 00:20:35,317
I gave every… everything.
429
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,903
I'm fucked up
from trying to date you, actually.
430
00:20:37,986 --> 00:20:40,405
I have no trust in relationships
so much anymore.
431
00:20:40,489 --> 00:20:41,907
-I'm being serious.
432
00:20:41,990 --> 00:20:45,410
No. You need healing too. Hopefully,
she'll give you a discount or something.
433
00:20:45,494 --> 00:20:46,703
It's great. It's good for you.
434
00:20:46,787 --> 00:20:47,663
Don't say that shit
435
00:20:47,746 --> 00:20:51,708
if you don't have feelings for me
and be happy for me then maybe, okay?
436
00:20:51,792 --> 00:20:54,253
I don't give a shit.
I promise you I don't.
437
00:20:54,336 --> 00:20:56,380
It shows what type of person you are.
That's all.
438
00:20:56,463 --> 00:20:58,340
-Why do you always say that?
-That's all.
439
00:20:58,423 --> 00:21:01,009
You know what your problem is?
You only think about yourself.
440
00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:02,469
Moving on!
441
00:21:02,552 --> 00:21:06,181
We're both grown people. We're not dating.
442
00:21:06,265 --> 00:21:09,226
So let's stop arguing
like we're a married couple.
443
00:21:09,309 --> 00:21:11,436
Fuck this shit. I'm calling Uber.
444
00:21:32,582 --> 00:21:34,960
-Patience, Kane, patience.
-Good morning, Kelly.
445
00:21:35,043 --> 00:21:36,461
Good morning. How are you?
446
00:21:36,545 --> 00:21:38,630
-How'd you sleep last night?
-I slept good.
447
00:21:38,714 --> 00:21:40,424
I got us some breakfast.
448
00:21:40,507 --> 00:21:42,301
I know you don't eat,
so I got you some fruit.
449
00:21:42,384 --> 00:21:45,846
-Is your room bigger than mine?
-Maybe, I don't know.
450
00:21:45,929 --> 00:21:48,640
-Why is your room so much bigger?
-Who cares?
451
00:21:48,724 --> 00:21:52,394
-Your room is so much nicer.
-How are you? Kane, it's fine. Who cares?
452
00:21:52,477 --> 00:21:53,395
I care.
453
00:21:53,478 --> 00:21:57,316
-I called ahead, actually.
-Oh my God! It's such a nice room.
454
00:21:57,399 --> 00:22:00,360
Oh, did you hear about Christine
on Dancing with the Stars?
455
00:22:00,444 --> 00:22:02,904
Are you gonna go and support her?
She's been asking me.
456
00:22:02,988 --> 00:22:05,324
-I almost feel guilty.
-Why do you feel guilty?
457
00:22:05,407 --> 00:22:06,783
Oh. Okay.
458
00:22:06,867 --> 00:22:10,454
She gives me this whole talk, like,
"Kelly, we all go and support each other
459
00:22:10,537 --> 00:22:13,582
and not just in our bad times
but more importantly in the good times."
460
00:22:13,665 --> 00:22:15,917
-Yeah.
-You think Kevin will go and support her?
461
00:22:16,001 --> 00:22:18,253
-A hundred percent.
-You think so?
462
00:22:18,337 --> 00:22:20,005
He's gonna get a free dinner.
463
00:22:20,088 --> 00:22:21,673
That's right!
464
00:22:21,757 --> 00:22:25,218
They're going to Craig's after,
so he's gonna… he's gonna go.
465
00:22:25,302 --> 00:22:28,388
She did ask me, just like,
"Hey, Kane. I'd love for you to come."
466
00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:32,142
And I was like, "Shit, how do
I fucking escape this shit?"
467
00:22:32,225 --> 00:22:33,226
So you're not gonna go.
468
00:22:33,310 --> 00:22:36,855
It's probably gonna be like, "It's Prada.
Oh my God, I'm wearing Gucci."
469
00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:38,565
"Oh my God, look, it's couture."
470
00:22:38,648 --> 00:22:41,943
I can't stand it.
Can you imagine on the carpet?
471
00:22:42,027 --> 00:22:45,238
Just dance, bitch,
like no one's here for…
472
00:22:45,322 --> 00:22:47,866
-Oh my God.
-No one's here for your outfit.
473
00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:50,369
Oh my God. Anyways…
474
00:22:50,452 --> 00:22:53,330
-I'm so tired, Kelly. I have no time.
-I know.
475
00:22:53,413 --> 00:22:56,166
And like no social life. I have no, um…
476
00:22:56,249 --> 00:22:59,836
Be careful with that because,
like I told you, I used to work so hard.
477
00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:03,965
I never learned a work-life balance
until my body gave out, you know?
478
00:23:04,049 --> 00:23:07,803
Do you feel like you're doing this to,
like, prove yourself to your mom?
479
00:23:08,387 --> 00:23:10,639
Sometimes I still feel like
I'm a disappointment to her.
480
00:23:10,722 --> 00:23:13,266
-Have you asked her or talked to her?
-No.
481
00:23:13,892 --> 00:23:15,727
It's, like, awkward. I feel like our…
482
00:23:16,228 --> 00:23:18,814
our relationship is
very surface, you know?
483
00:23:18,897 --> 00:23:22,692
If you look at your mom, she seems
like someone that bottles everything…
484
00:23:22,776 --> 00:23:23,610
Yeah.
485
00:23:24,277 --> 00:23:25,445
-…inside.
-Yeah.
486
00:23:26,363 --> 00:23:30,867
'Cause my dad's the same way.
Like, once you've broken down the walls,
487
00:23:30,951 --> 00:23:34,121
oh my God,
it's been the best relationship ever.
488
00:23:34,204 --> 00:23:38,875
-How did you break down the walls?
-I forced myself to be… open.
489
00:23:38,959 --> 00:23:42,838
I forced myself to hug him.
I forced myself to say, um,
490
00:23:42,921 --> 00:23:45,590
"I miss you." And it's so uncomfortable,
491
00:23:46,258 --> 00:23:48,135
because my dad was like, you know,
492
00:23:48,718 --> 00:23:51,555
mostly raised Chinese background,
mainland Chinese.
493
00:23:52,055 --> 00:23:54,933
-They don't know how to hug, when to hug.
-It is so awkward.
494
00:23:55,016 --> 00:23:59,938
It's so awkward. Over time,
you know, the hugging was easier.
495
00:24:00,605 --> 00:24:02,649
Now I put down the phone, I'm like,
"I love you, Dad."
496
00:24:02,732 --> 00:24:05,986
It's easy! In the past, you'd be like,
"Oh my God, this is so weird."
497
00:24:06,069 --> 00:24:07,696
Imagine tomorrow's our last day.
498
00:24:08,905 --> 00:24:09,739
Spend it.
499
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,116
Yeah.
500
00:24:11,616 --> 00:24:12,534
No, you're right.
501
00:24:13,452 --> 00:24:15,787
-Your parents are always there for you…
-Yeah.
502
00:24:15,871 --> 00:24:17,539
…even if you're a hooker.
503
00:24:17,622 --> 00:24:19,708
My mom might disown me
if I'm a hooker. Just like--
504
00:24:19,791 --> 00:24:23,545
-For a while, then she'd be, "I love you."
-"I see you making money."
505
00:24:23,628 --> 00:24:26,006
Good for you, Kelly.
How much do you charge?
506
00:24:26,089 --> 00:24:27,674
Too low! Too low!
507
00:24:38,226 --> 00:24:39,853
Mind if I raid your kitchen?
508
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:42,731
Um…
509
00:24:42,814 --> 00:24:44,316
-Can I have this?
-Yes.
510
00:24:44,399 --> 00:24:45,692
-Yes.
511
00:24:46,610 --> 00:24:48,403
-Looks so delicious.
-It's breast milk.
512
00:24:49,029 --> 00:24:51,948
-It's not breast milk.
-Kidding. You're like, "Yes, I want it."
513
00:24:52,032 --> 00:24:52,949
Oh!
514
00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:57,204
-So guess what dance I have prepared?
-For Dancing with the Stars?
515
00:24:57,287 --> 00:24:58,330
-Yeah.
-Yeah.
516
00:24:58,413 --> 00:25:02,000
-Salsa! Oh!
-Ooh! I know a little bit of salsa!
517
00:25:02,083 --> 00:25:04,669
-You have experience in salsa.
-A little bit.
518
00:25:04,753 --> 00:25:07,464
-Teach me.
-It's like, one step, two step.
519
00:25:09,591 --> 00:25:10,425
Right?
520
00:25:11,510 --> 00:25:12,928
-Yeah?
521
00:25:13,512 --> 00:25:16,264
I feel like you just ripped off moves
from Baby G.
522
00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:18,517
What's
the best move you learned?
523
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,851
-I just did it.
-Oh…
524
00:25:20,435 --> 00:25:21,603
Look, it's just…
525
00:25:25,106 --> 00:25:29,361
-Why are you laughing?
-Please don't do that on a date!
526
00:25:29,945 --> 00:25:32,739
How was your date with Janice?
527
00:25:32,822 --> 00:25:34,658
-That good, huh?
528
00:25:34,741 --> 00:25:36,576
-It was that good.
-Yeah?
529
00:25:36,660 --> 00:25:39,412
Oh, yeah. I want to see her again.
It was good.
530
00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:42,749
She's cool. We found out
we have a lot in common, actually.
531
00:25:42,832 --> 00:25:46,044
She's from Lancaster,
and I've been there my whole life.
532
00:25:46,127 --> 00:25:47,003
That's interesting.
533
00:25:47,087 --> 00:25:51,591
Does that make you, like,
instantly feel more bonded with her?
534
00:25:51,675 --> 00:25:56,763
Yeah, I think so. She's grown up
in such a… American environment.
535
00:25:56,846 --> 00:25:59,432
Mm-hmm.
So what's next between you and her?
536
00:26:00,517 --> 00:26:02,978
She's… she's in Costa Rica right now.
537
00:26:04,688 --> 00:26:06,898
That doesn't look too bright
for your second date.
538
00:26:06,982 --> 00:26:09,693
-She actually splits her time there.
-Okay.
539
00:26:09,776 --> 00:26:13,446
Like, I don't know how long in LA,
how long in Costa Rica,
540
00:26:13,530 --> 00:26:14,781
but she jumps around.
541
00:26:14,864 --> 00:26:17,450
Like, I don't know what to do
because it's like,
542
00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:21,788
how do you keep the spark going
when someone's in a different country?
543
00:26:21,871 --> 00:26:23,540
-That, I don't know.
-Mmm.
544
00:26:23,623 --> 00:26:27,168
Maybe, like… maybe you need
to show her the goods, you know?
545
00:26:28,587 --> 00:26:30,839
What are you saying with that?
546
00:26:30,922 --> 00:26:32,424
Oh…
547
00:26:33,008 --> 00:26:37,095
-I've never sent a dick pic.
-Not like… your junk per se.
548
00:26:37,178 --> 00:26:39,139
Like-- Okay, fine. For instance…
549
00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:46,187
…I find men who are busy
and living their lives and working
550
00:26:46,271 --> 00:26:49,524
but still think about me constantly
very sexy.
551
00:26:49,608 --> 00:26:53,236
So maybe you should send her
some pictures.
552
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,530
Okay, we're super busy cooking.
553
00:26:56,197 --> 00:26:58,742
-Oh, no, no, no, no!
-Ooh, baking.
554
00:26:58,825 --> 00:27:01,244
Okay, I have an idea.
We're gonna go outside.
555
00:27:01,328 --> 00:27:03,705
I love Kevin.
He's kind of like a brother to me.
556
00:27:03,788 --> 00:27:06,041
I am a hopeless romantic,
557
00:27:06,124 --> 00:27:09,210
and I've been married
for a very long time.
558
00:27:09,294 --> 00:27:12,380
I know a thing or two
about changing things up.
559
00:27:12,464 --> 00:27:15,008
You know what would look
really great for Janice?
560
00:27:15,091 --> 00:27:15,925
What's that?
561
00:27:16,426 --> 00:27:19,262
I don't know what's hotter
than a man who does yard work.
562
00:27:19,346 --> 00:27:21,598
-Let's have you lift this chair.
-Really?
563
00:27:21,681 --> 00:27:23,099
Yeah. It's heavy.
564
00:27:23,183 --> 00:27:25,685
Let's see you lifting
in motion and walking.
565
00:27:25,769 --> 00:27:28,063
Yeah. That looks fantastic. See?
566
00:27:28,146 --> 00:27:30,899
Like, the biceps come out and the triceps.
567
00:27:30,982 --> 00:27:33,234
Place it right there. Perfect.
568
00:27:33,318 --> 00:27:35,737
How do you feel about your attire?
569
00:27:35,820 --> 00:27:38,114
-It's great.
-Maybe we lose some of it?
570
00:27:38,198 --> 00:27:40,700
-Okay.
-Place that right there.
571
00:27:41,618 --> 00:27:43,203
In motion.
572
00:27:43,286 --> 00:27:45,914
-You're not taking photos.
-I'm doing, like, candid shots.
573
00:27:45,997 --> 00:27:46,956
You don't need to stop.
574
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,000
You don't even have
the camera on me.
575
00:27:49,084 --> 00:27:52,879
Getting undressed in front of Christine
when Dr. Chiu's not home
576
00:27:54,214 --> 00:27:55,840
feels a little naughty.
577
00:27:55,924 --> 00:27:59,177
-There's nothing sexier than a pole.
-Okay.
578
00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:01,554
I think it looks best,
though, in the water.
579
00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:06,017
Fantastic.
You're doing a great job, Kevin.
580
00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:10,939
It's too easy to just sit around
and take a shirtless picture.
581
00:28:11,022 --> 00:28:15,610
It's much harder and sexier
to be pushing a wheelbarrow.
582
00:28:16,277 --> 00:28:18,863
Slow motion. Yes.
583
00:28:18,947 --> 00:28:20,198
No, not you slow motion.
584
00:28:20,281 --> 00:28:21,700
-Oh.
-I'm on slow motion.
585
00:28:21,783 --> 00:28:23,827
Or trimming my hedges.
586
00:28:23,910 --> 00:28:26,287
Put your back into it. Yes.
587
00:28:26,371 --> 00:28:28,748
Wait! That's so dirty!
588
00:28:28,832 --> 00:28:30,834
-That is so dirty!
589
00:28:30,917 --> 00:28:33,712
That's not what I meant. Not what I meant!
590
00:28:35,338 --> 00:28:37,882
I actually don't think
Janice will appreciate these photos.
591
00:28:37,966 --> 00:28:40,385
She comes from the spiritual realm.
592
00:28:40,468 --> 00:28:43,513
Although, maybe because she comes
from the spiritual realm,
593
00:28:43,596 --> 00:28:47,016
getting closer
to our natural place in life,
594
00:28:47,100 --> 00:28:50,186
naked selves, she'll appreciate this.
595
00:28:50,270 --> 00:28:53,857
I think we got it all.
And you're gonna thank me.
596
00:28:53,940 --> 00:28:56,067
I need a break from this. It's hard work.
597
00:28:56,151 --> 00:28:58,778
-Was that a lot of work for you?
-It was! I've never--
598
00:28:58,862 --> 00:29:01,406
-Is--
-Selfies, I thought, did the trick.
599
00:29:01,489 --> 00:29:03,616
Um, can I get your advice on something?
600
00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:04,659
Sure.
601
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:10,582
So, Kim really doesn't like me
going on a date or seeing Janice at all.
602
00:29:11,499 --> 00:29:13,960
And… she's telling me
603
00:29:14,043 --> 00:29:20,216
because this Reiki healer is her healer,
I shouldn't be going on a date with her.
604
00:29:20,300 --> 00:29:23,428
-Kim did Reiki with Janice?
-Yeah. Yeah.
605
00:29:23,511 --> 00:29:26,848
Oh my gosh! How did you meet Janice?
606
00:29:26,931 --> 00:29:31,519
So we were in Malibu,
me, Kim, Kelly, Kane.
607
00:29:31,603 --> 00:29:35,273
And she came to do
the Reiki healing for all of us.
608
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:42,071
So, you met Janice
while Kim was next to you?
609
00:29:42,155 --> 00:29:44,866
-Yeah.
-Oh my gosh! Kevin!
610
00:29:44,949 --> 00:29:46,367
That is so…
611
00:29:47,076 --> 00:29:49,370
that's so bad, Kevin.
612
00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:50,622
But why? I don't get it.
613
00:29:50,705 --> 00:29:53,750
Here's the thing, if you friend zone me
and you don't want anything,
614
00:29:54,375 --> 00:29:57,712
who cares who I meet when I meet them?
615
00:29:58,213 --> 00:30:00,882
It's too close for comfort.
It's too familiar.
616
00:30:00,965 --> 00:30:04,636
Yeah, but that seems very unfair
for me to be responsible for her.
617
00:30:04,719 --> 00:30:08,223
You need to decide,
is she worth all of this?
618
00:30:08,932 --> 00:30:10,058
It's a good question.
619
00:30:10,141 --> 00:30:14,312
You gotta decide because if you go
on another date with miss Reiki healer,
620
00:30:14,395 --> 00:30:16,105
you're gonna lose Kim forever.
621
00:30:21,277 --> 00:30:23,905
I'm spending a day with my mom
in the San Francisco Zoo.
622
00:30:24,489 --> 00:30:28,535
I'm definitely really nervous.
It's been years since we had
623
00:30:28,618 --> 00:30:32,288
any kind of conversation
that's not about… work.
624
00:30:32,372 --> 00:30:33,748
Wow!
625
00:30:33,832 --> 00:30:36,334
-Oh my God, they're so pretty.
-Yeah.
626
00:30:36,417 --> 00:30:37,377
Hi!
627
00:30:37,460 --> 00:30:40,380
-Hi, I'm Amy. Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
628
00:30:40,463 --> 00:30:41,923
Welcome to the zoo.
629
00:30:42,006 --> 00:30:43,591
-Oh my God!
-Um, this is Sarah.
630
00:30:43,675 --> 00:30:46,636
And Sarah is gonna be
very happy to receive
631
00:30:46,719 --> 00:30:48,304
some snacks from you today.
632
00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:49,347
There you go.
633
00:30:49,430 --> 00:30:51,057
-OK.
-It's a little slimy.
634
00:30:51,140 --> 00:30:53,643
-It's okay. Aw!
-She drools a lot for a giraffe.
635
00:30:53,726 --> 00:30:54,811
Hi, Sarah!
636
00:30:54,894 --> 00:30:56,187
Wanna see if she'll give you a kiss?
637
00:30:56,271 --> 00:30:58,606
-How do I do that?
-You're gonna stand here.
638
00:30:58,690 --> 00:31:01,150
And she's gonna raise
her upper lip to her face.
639
00:31:01,234 --> 00:31:04,279
Sarah, can you give her a kiss? Good girl!
640
00:31:04,362 --> 00:31:06,489
-Aw!
641
00:31:06,573 --> 00:31:08,032
I'm in love!
642
00:31:08,116 --> 00:31:11,202
-You wanna have her kiss you?
-No. Maybe I not try this.
643
00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:14,080
-No.
644
00:31:14,163 --> 00:31:17,750
-Thank you so much. Oh my God!
-You're welcome. Nice to meet you.
645
00:31:17,834 --> 00:31:20,670
-Nice to meet you as well.
-Nice to meet you. Thank you.
646
00:31:25,550 --> 00:31:27,135
Where are we going now?
647
00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:28,469
Leisure day.
648
00:31:28,553 --> 00:31:30,889
-You don't need to know where we're going.
-Okay.
649
00:31:30,972 --> 00:31:33,224
-You can just enjoy the present.
-Yeah, I know.
650
00:31:33,308 --> 00:31:35,852
I'm happy you're here
'cause we can spend time together.
651
00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:40,064
I know, I know. You have, uh,
very good, successful career.
652
00:31:40,148 --> 00:31:42,191
I know you work hard every day,
653
00:31:42,817 --> 00:31:44,694
but, uh,
654
00:31:44,777 --> 00:31:46,279
if you take care of yourself--
655
00:31:46,362 --> 00:31:48,323
And I want you to have your kids.
656
00:31:50,909 --> 00:31:53,411
Oh my gosh, uh…
657
00:31:53,912 --> 00:31:54,746
How many kids?
658
00:31:54,829 --> 00:31:57,665
As much as you can!
659
00:31:58,791 --> 00:32:01,085
I do wanna have kids, you know that,
660
00:32:01,169 --> 00:32:03,880
but the thing is
I don't wanna just be with anybody.
661
00:32:04,672 --> 00:32:07,216
You know,
when I went through my divorce before,
662
00:32:07,300 --> 00:32:10,261
I didn't tell you any of the stuff
until after it was done
663
00:32:10,345 --> 00:32:13,014
because I didn't even know
how to talk to you.
664
00:32:14,474 --> 00:32:18,436
Even, like, saying "I love you,"
it's so weird to me.
665
00:32:19,312 --> 00:32:22,690
Yeah, this is, uh,
Chinese cultural tradition.
666
00:32:22,774 --> 00:32:26,069
We love each other but in the heart.
It's not speaking out.
667
00:32:26,152 --> 00:32:28,655
I feel like… I was never good enough.
668
00:32:29,530 --> 00:32:31,157
-You know? Because…
-No, no.
669
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,827
…when we lived in China,
there was so much pressure to do better.
670
00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:36,955
-To always be number one in class.
-I know, I know.
671
00:32:37,038 --> 00:32:41,876
And then ballet and then tap dancing,
Chinese traditional dancing, piano.
672
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:46,214
It was so much pressure all the time.
You know, you worked so hard.
673
00:32:46,297 --> 00:32:48,633
You did three jobs
when you first moved to the US.
674
00:32:48,716 --> 00:32:52,887
You'd have to work, like, six hours
for one hour of my private piano lesson.
675
00:32:52,971 --> 00:32:55,348
But the thing is,
I didn't even like piano.
676
00:32:57,517 --> 00:33:00,228
I'm sorry about that.
I gave you too much pressure.
677
00:33:00,728 --> 00:33:04,273
-I'm sorry about--
-No. It's not your fault. It's just like…
678
00:33:08,861 --> 00:33:11,990
Why I push you sometimes,
it's like I want my kids
679
00:33:12,073 --> 00:33:15,493
to be like a benefit for society, okay?
680
00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:18,705
I want you to be a good person, uh…
681
00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:19,831
With virtue.
682
00:33:19,914 --> 00:33:22,500
The most important thing will be
moral education.
683
00:33:22,583 --> 00:33:25,837
Second,
for my kids should be healthy.
684
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,630
To be very healthy.
685
00:33:31,217 --> 00:33:34,220
You are my treasure.
You are only one kid for me.
686
00:33:34,303 --> 00:33:37,724
I want take care of you.
I want, you know, your best.
687
00:33:37,807 --> 00:33:39,809
Maybe we need to talk more.
688
00:33:39,892 --> 00:33:42,895
Uh, when you have something
to speak about, let me know.
689
00:33:42,979 --> 00:33:44,647
Tell me if I'm not good.
690
00:33:45,231 --> 00:33:46,816
-And vice versa, yeah.
-Yeah.
691
00:33:47,567 --> 00:33:48,443
Aw.
692
00:33:52,321 --> 00:33:56,784
I'm actually really surprised
that my mom… is apologizing.
693
00:33:56,868 --> 00:34:00,246
I was almost expecting her
to be defensive.
694
00:34:00,329 --> 00:34:01,748
We're on the same page.
695
00:34:01,831 --> 00:34:04,375
I'm like, "Why did I wait so long
to have this conversation?"
696
00:34:04,459 --> 00:34:05,710
Let's practice.
697
00:34:05,793 --> 00:34:08,254
-I wanna say, "I love you."
-Okay.
698
00:34:08,337 --> 00:34:10,048
And then you have to say it back to me.
699
00:34:10,131 --> 00:34:12,550
I love you. Oh my gosh!
700
00:34:12,633 --> 00:34:14,677
Sometimes it's difficult to say.
701
00:34:14,761 --> 00:34:17,180
-But I love you from my heart.
-I know.
702
00:34:17,263 --> 00:34:18,931
I didn't say it often, so--
703
00:34:19,015 --> 00:34:22,477
-We have to practice.
-I love you, girl. I love you, my girl.
704
00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:47,126
-Priscilla! Hello!
-Hey! Kane!
705
00:34:47,210 --> 00:34:50,296
-Good morning.
-Good morning. You look fresh.
706
00:34:50,379 --> 00:34:52,215
I did a spin class before this.
707
00:34:52,298 --> 00:34:53,633
Well, you look good.
708
00:34:53,716 --> 00:34:55,551
-Thank you.
-So this is the shoot.
709
00:34:55,635 --> 00:34:58,679
-This is the setup they have. Yes.
-Oh my gosh, let me check this out.
710
00:34:58,763 --> 00:35:01,265
So this is, like,
where we're gonna do our photos.
711
00:35:01,349 --> 00:35:03,684
And then we have all the products here.
712
00:35:03,768 --> 00:35:05,853
It's gonna be, like,
behind the scenes?
713
00:35:05,937 --> 00:35:08,231
-Yeah, the whole like--
-Oh. I love that.
714
00:35:08,314 --> 00:35:11,818
Today is the big day
of my campaign with Fenty.
715
00:35:11,901 --> 00:35:15,655
It's so surreal because there are,
like, 20 people from the Fenty team.
716
00:35:15,738 --> 00:35:19,742
Like, ten years ago, 20 years ago,
that I would be here in Milk Studios
717
00:35:19,826 --> 00:35:23,621
having like a campaign shoot for one
of the biggest brands in the world?
718
00:35:25,498 --> 00:35:26,582
I feel so spoiled.
719
00:35:26,666 --> 00:35:29,669
-You're looking great, honey.
-Oh my God, love this.
720
00:35:29,752 --> 00:35:31,420
So this is not really contour.
721
00:35:31,504 --> 00:35:32,672
-This is bronzer.
-Yeah.
722
00:35:32,755 --> 00:35:35,049
So I don't think
you really need "contour" contour.
723
00:35:35,133 --> 00:35:39,428
-This is just bronzer to give you a bit--
-What do you think about my eyes?
724
00:35:39,512 --> 00:35:41,848
-What do I think about your eyes?
-Yeah.
725
00:35:41,931 --> 00:35:43,933
-I think they're beautiful.
-Look. Eyelids.
726
00:35:44,016 --> 00:35:45,017
Gorgeous.
727
00:35:45,101 --> 00:35:47,395
Do you notice I have one missing eyelid?
728
00:35:47,895 --> 00:35:50,523
-Not… not really.
-I do. I have--
729
00:35:50,606 --> 00:35:54,986
I think my left has a double lid,
my right has a single.
730
00:35:55,069 --> 00:35:58,865
I mean, Fenty Beauty reached out to you
because of the way you look.
731
00:35:58,948 --> 00:36:01,450
This is a beauty brand.
It's all about the face.
732
00:36:01,534 --> 00:36:03,536
-So we think your face is perfect.
-Yeah.
733
00:36:03,619 --> 00:36:05,246
Growing up, I had big eyes.
734
00:36:05,329 --> 00:36:08,166
-Kids would call me "frog eyes."
-They're gorgeous, your best asset.
735
00:36:08,249 --> 00:36:09,458
Kids would call me "frog eyes."
736
00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:11,335
-Frog eyes?
-Frog eyes.
737
00:36:11,419 --> 00:36:14,505
Because-- I feel like no matter
who you are or what you look like,
738
00:36:14,589 --> 00:36:17,008
if you have confidence,
you have swag, you look good.
739
00:36:17,091 --> 00:36:20,386
Yeah. Oh, this is amazing.
Yeah, it's amazing to hear.
740
00:36:20,469 --> 00:36:22,430
Ooh! I'm so excited!
741
00:36:23,097 --> 00:36:24,223
Okay, let's go.
742
00:36:27,268 --> 00:36:29,395
That looks great
with the bling.
743
00:36:30,897 --> 00:36:33,316
-Nice there.
744
00:36:35,067 --> 00:36:36,944
Okay, poses.
745
00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:38,571
Getting this new deal with Fenty,
746
00:36:38,654 --> 00:36:41,532
I'm so grateful
and also, like, proud of myself.
747
00:36:41,616 --> 00:36:43,701
We'll try
a standing version with the blazer.
748
00:36:43,784 --> 00:36:46,495
Maybe we bring everything up
a foot and a half?
749
00:36:46,579 --> 00:36:48,706
Let's check that out.
Let's see how that feels.
750
00:36:50,583 --> 00:36:51,667
That's great. Great.
751
00:36:51,751 --> 00:36:55,129
I'm loving the jacket movement.
You don't need any directing.
752
00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:58,716
I love Rihanna
because what she represents most is,
753
00:36:58,799 --> 00:37:01,594
um, just being authentic
and true to yourself.
754
00:37:01,677 --> 00:37:05,765
I feel like fixing my eyelids
at this point wouldn't make me happier.
755
00:37:05,848 --> 00:37:08,434
So, I don't think I need this
at this point.
756
00:37:08,517 --> 00:37:13,189
I'm good with myself, and I should improve
on my inner self than this single eyelid.
757
00:37:13,689 --> 00:37:16,984
Cute. Cute. Cute.
That's a wrap, Kane!
758
00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:18,778
-That's a wrap?
759
00:37:43,135 --> 00:37:45,429
-Hi, Kevin.
-Hey. What's up, Janice?
760
00:37:46,597 --> 00:37:47,765
How are you?
761
00:37:47,848 --> 00:37:51,227
Good. Just, uh, about to leave, actually.
762
00:37:51,310 --> 00:37:52,812
I'm going to the East Coast.
763
00:37:54,105 --> 00:37:55,189
Hmm.
764
00:37:55,273 --> 00:37:58,442
-Are you gonna go visit your family?
-Yeah, I'm gonna go visit my family.
765
00:37:58,526 --> 00:38:00,152
You're in Costa Rica, right?
766
00:38:00,236 --> 00:38:02,822
Yeah, I am in Costa Rica.
I got here two days ago.
767
00:38:02,905 --> 00:38:05,992
We haven't talked for a while,
so I'm sorry. I've just been really busy.
768
00:38:06,075 --> 00:38:08,244
I didn't mean to ignore you or anything.
769
00:38:08,995 --> 00:38:11,205
I'd love to see you
when I'm back.
770
00:38:13,874 --> 00:38:16,460
Maybe it's, like, just better
if we kind of, um,
771
00:38:17,420 --> 00:38:19,797
just be, like, friends or something,
you know?
772
00:38:21,299 --> 00:38:23,592
It's not okay? What's going on?
773
00:38:24,343 --> 00:38:27,221
I know that I had
a really good time with you.
774
00:38:27,305 --> 00:38:29,640
-I think you had a good time with me.
-Mm-hmm.
775
00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:33,853
We got off to a really hot…
like a really hot start.
776
00:38:34,562 --> 00:38:36,355
Yeah, uh…
777
00:38:37,857 --> 00:38:40,943
Going on a date
with Janice right after
778
00:38:41,027 --> 00:38:43,904
Kim and I established
we'd just be friends in Malibu
779
00:38:44,488 --> 00:38:46,324
maybe was just too fast.
780
00:38:46,407 --> 00:38:50,036
The last thing I wanna do
is interfere with Kim's healing.
781
00:38:50,119 --> 00:38:52,038
I'd like to help her along the way.
782
00:38:52,121 --> 00:38:55,082
And I'll do my best to try to keep
this friendship with Kim going
783
00:38:55,166 --> 00:38:56,584
because that's what I promised.
784
00:38:56,667 --> 00:39:01,213
I'd just feel even like
more distant from you and stuff, so…
785
00:39:01,797 --> 00:39:04,717
Okay. I'm grateful
for the time we spent together.
786
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,427
Yeah, me too. It was really nice.
787
00:39:06,510 --> 00:39:09,221
All right. Well, enjoy your trip
in Costa Rica, okay?
788
00:39:09,305 --> 00:39:11,724
-Thank you.
-Yeah. Okay. Bye.