1 00:00:09,867 --> 00:00:11,266 I got a nice little pop-up tent, 2 00:00:11,834 --> 00:00:12,500 should be nice and easy. 3 00:00:14,767 --> 00:00:16,367 Bye, Nani. 4 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:20,867 Bye, sweetie. 5 00:00:25,867 --> 00:00:31,266 Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date. 6 00:00:31,700 --> 00:00:32,900 Let's do this. 7 00:00:34,033 --> 00:00:38,300 I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office 8 00:00:38,834 --> 00:00:42,200 and I am so nervous. 9 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:43,800 How are you? 10 00:00:44,433 --> 00:00:45,667 -Good. -Good to see you. 11 00:00:46,333 --> 00:00:48,100 -This is Matthew. -Hello. 12 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,667 First thing that is really striking me is 13 00:00:51,367 --> 00:00:52,567 he's got, like, this long hair. 14 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:53,767 Is that a wig? 15 00:00:54,667 --> 00:00:55,367 Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect. 16 00:00:56,300 --> 00:00:57,467 Mine's not. It's blown all over the place. 17 00:01:03,266 --> 00:01:04,700 -Yep, that's right. -Yep. 18 00:01:05,667 --> 00:01:06,867 [Tyray] I've been overweight my entire life, 19 00:01:07,767 --> 00:01:09,400 and I feel like surgery is the only route 20 00:01:10,333 --> 00:01:11,300 that I can take that'll help me lose weight. 21 00:01:15,266 --> 00:01:16,467 [Tyray] OK. 22 00:01:18,266 --> 00:01:20,867 [Tyray] I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half, 23 00:01:21,333 --> 00:01:22,300 and I'm scared. 24 00:01:22,967 --> 00:01:24,000 [anticipatory music playing] 25 00:01:25,767 --> 00:01:27,700 -I love the new sunglasses. -Yeah, yeah. 26 00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:29,166 I'm sure they serve their purpose. 27 00:01:29,834 --> 00:01:30,300 What are you talking about? 28 00:01:31,767 --> 00:01:34,000 [John] It's been tense with my fiance, Meghan. 29 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,767 If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating. 30 00:01:37,734 --> 00:01:39,000 You have my location, I'm wearing this ring. 31 00:01:39,900 --> 00:01:40,367 And you tell me I'm doing all this [bleep] 32 00:01:40,900 --> 00:01:41,500 that I'm not doing. 33 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,266 I feel like it's always excuses. 34 00:01:43,900 --> 00:01:45,066 Excuses? Guess what, lady? 35 00:01:46,133 --> 00:01:47,200 This is what I think about your excuses right here. 36 00:01:47,900 --> 00:01:48,667 See? The [bleep] ring's gone. 37 00:01:49,867 --> 00:01:51,300 [tense music playing] 38 00:01:53,467 --> 00:01:56,066 ♪ I'm in the shadows ♪ 39 00:01:56,834 --> 00:01:58,200 ♪ Waiting for our time to come ♪ 40 00:01:59,266 --> 00:02:00,867 ♪ I'm coming to get you ♪ 41 00:02:01,467 --> 00:02:03,400 ♪ Take it to the top ♪ 42 00:02:04,100 --> 00:02:06,500 ♪ Nowhere, just can't stop ♪ 43 00:02:06,867 --> 00:02:08,900 [grunting] 44 00:02:09,533 --> 00:02:11,667 ♪ Be a champion, be... ♪ 45 00:02:12,266 --> 00:02:13,767 What did you say? Ha! 46 00:02:17,567 --> 00:02:19,700 [Meghan] What the [bleep] is going on in here? 47 00:02:20,467 --> 00:02:22,367 Some of us are actually working. 48 00:02:23,066 --> 00:02:24,800 I'm John, I'm 41 years old, 49 00:02:25,500 --> 00:02:26,600 originally from Massachusetts. 50 00:02:27,867 --> 00:02:29,867 I'm Meghan, I'm 36 years old, 51 00:02:30,467 --> 00:02:31,266 from San Antonio, Texas. 52 00:02:31,633 --> 00:02:33,000 [grunting] 53 00:02:36,667 --> 00:02:38,567 [John speaking] 54 00:02:46,867 --> 00:02:48,000 It was my heart. 55 00:02:49,300 --> 00:02:51,266 ♪ Get ready for the best new thing ♪ 56 00:02:52,433 --> 00:02:53,600 [John] After chatting with Meghan for about four months, 57 00:02:54,233 --> 00:02:55,400 I went down to San Antonio 58 00:02:56,433 --> 00:02:57,367 and we got to hang out and get to know each other 59 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:58,400 and it was good. 60 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:00,100 I think it went well, physically. 61 00:03:00,667 --> 00:03:02,000 I think we had good sex. 62 00:03:02,433 --> 00:03:03,266 Good sex helps. 63 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,767 [John] Next thing you know, I'm moving down to San Antonio 64 00:03:08,700 --> 00:03:10,767 to be with Meghan and her daughter, River. 65 00:03:11,767 --> 00:03:13,266 Now I'm the family man. 66 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,600 After a few months, 67 00:03:15,633 --> 00:03:16,166 Meghan was looking for me to make a bigger move. 68 00:03:17,100 --> 00:03:19,266 In three months, it's almost gonna be a year, 69 00:03:20,533 --> 00:03:22,900 so I would hope that you were wanting some kind of commitment 70 00:03:23,834 --> 00:03:25,500 as far as, like, a ring or something, but... 71 00:03:26,433 --> 00:03:27,467 I have no doubt about who I want to spend 72 00:03:28,467 --> 00:03:29,166 the rest of my life with -- that's you, babes. 73 00:03:29,467 --> 00:03:31,066 Mm-hmm. 74 00:03:32,033 --> 00:03:33,266 So I decided to take the hint and, you know, 75 00:03:33,967 --> 00:03:35,266 make the move at the Tell All. 76 00:03:36,133 --> 00:03:37,867 My timeline, well, you know, you know, 77 00:03:39,033 --> 00:03:39,667 it's like whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying? 78 00:03:40,300 --> 00:03:41,166 Because right now, baby... 79 00:03:42,467 --> 00:03:45,166 would you do me the honors of being my wife? 80 00:03:46,467 --> 00:03:48,000 -I love you. -Love you, babe. 81 00:03:49,567 --> 00:03:52,567 We've been engaged two short years. 82 00:03:53,233 --> 00:03:54,467 And we're still not married. 83 00:03:55,033 --> 00:03:55,567 I mean, it's been tense. 84 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,567 We've been fighting a lot. 85 00:03:58,467 --> 00:04:00,100 We haven't seen eye-to-eye a lot lately. 86 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:01,600 But we're still here together. 87 00:04:02,533 --> 00:04:05,100 -Still holding strong. -That gives me hope. 88 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,567 -Look, let's go see what -- -[Meghan speaking] 89 00:04:09,934 --> 00:04:11,500 Hey, babe. 90 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,300 What? 91 00:04:14,133 --> 00:04:14,767 I see that you're working very hard. 92 00:04:15,700 --> 00:04:17,867 Let me show everybody how great you look. 93 00:04:18,533 --> 00:04:20,266 This is my beautiful fiance. 94 00:04:21,300 --> 00:04:23,066 Hi -- this is your little setup that's taken over. 95 00:04:23,633 --> 00:04:24,166 Oh, yeah. No, look. 96 00:04:25,066 --> 00:04:26,367 Come to my office. Welcome to my office. 97 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:28,667 -[John] Take a little look here. -I got a facility right here. 98 00:04:29,166 --> 00:04:30,567 It's ready to go. 99 00:04:31,266 --> 00:04:31,967 [John] Well, the good news is 100 00:04:32,900 --> 00:04:33,667 you don't have to go far to [bleep], right? 101 00:04:34,633 --> 00:04:36,100 Oh, yeah -- no, it definitely saves me time. 102 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,066 So I was in a car accident, which was really scary. 103 00:04:41,266 --> 00:04:43,467 And I ended up suffering from some, like, mild concussion, 104 00:04:44,033 --> 00:04:45,100 some cognitive issues. 105 00:04:45,967 --> 00:04:47,500 I've just been having some, like, PTSD 106 00:04:48,066 --> 00:04:49,900 and sensory sensitivity. 107 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,166 This little closet right here... 108 00:04:52,066 --> 00:04:53,400 -Oh, right there, yeah. -...is soundproof. 109 00:04:53,934 --> 00:04:54,600 Sound -- soundproof? 110 00:04:55,100 --> 00:04:56,667 [Meghan speaking] 111 00:05:01,166 --> 00:05:03,166 You know, it's for the best in my interests, you know. 112 00:05:04,166 --> 00:05:04,967 Even though it might not be the best for him. 113 00:05:06,867 --> 00:05:07,967 I love it. 114 00:05:10,667 --> 00:05:13,266 I got to get done working, and I got to get this done. 115 00:05:14,467 --> 00:05:16,700 And then we can enjoy our time. We have a little getaway. 116 00:05:17,233 --> 00:05:18,500 Hopefully, you know, 117 00:05:19,300 --> 00:05:20,266 we get some alone time. -Oh, yeah -- 118 00:05:21,133 --> 00:05:21,500 we're gonna get some alone time, honey. 119 00:05:21,934 --> 00:05:22,667 Hopefully, yeah. 120 00:05:23,567 --> 00:05:24,266 Let's try and make sure it's a positive... 121 00:05:25,100 --> 00:05:25,767 -Yeah, let's try. -...positive trip. 122 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,467 -It takes two to do that. -Oh, yeah. 123 00:05:28,266 --> 00:05:28,667 -Yes, it does. -Two to tango, baby. 124 00:05:29,633 --> 00:05:30,166 -It takes two to tango. -Oh, yeah -- for sure. 125 00:05:30,767 --> 00:05:31,667 So, not just me. You too. 126 00:05:32,533 --> 00:05:33,300 Right, exactly. So, while I'm working -- 127 00:05:34,333 --> 00:05:35,266 So, while you're working -- why don't you work, 128 00:05:35,900 --> 00:05:37,567 and I will go do my thing? 129 00:05:38,533 --> 00:05:40,100 Meghan and I are heading to South Padre Island 130 00:05:41,033 --> 00:05:42,667 for some relaxation, but more importantly, 131 00:05:43,333 --> 00:05:44,367 to work on our relationship. 132 00:05:45,567 --> 00:05:47,367 I'm hoping we can get back to, like, smiling at each other, 133 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:48,567 laughing with each other, 134 00:05:49,367 --> 00:05:50,166 having a good time with each other. 135 00:05:50,967 --> 00:05:51,567 -I can't wait for this! -I am ready. 136 00:05:51,967 --> 00:05:53,367 OK! [laughs] 137 00:05:53,900 --> 00:05:54,767 Yes, I'm ready, too. 138 00:05:55,066 --> 00:05:56,100 Oh... 139 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,500 Oh, I'm so ready. 140 00:05:58,266 --> 00:05:59,000 I hope there's a lot of alcohol, 141 00:05:59,900 --> 00:06:00,667 because I'm gonna need a lot of alcohol. 142 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,867 ♪ Yeah, yeah, man... ♪ 143 00:06:06,767 --> 00:06:08,100 Let me call Patrick, see if he's around. 144 00:06:13,667 --> 00:06:15,166 [phone ringing] 145 00:06:17,867 --> 00:06:20,567 -What's up, bro? -What's up? 146 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,767 I'm trying to get some video game action going on, you know? 147 00:06:24,667 --> 00:06:25,600 Kinda like to let out some frustration, 148 00:06:26,233 --> 00:06:26,767 you know what I'm saying? 149 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,166 I got a trip with Meghan. 150 00:06:29,333 --> 00:06:32,000 This is our trip to try to, you know, make things better 151 00:06:32,700 --> 00:06:34,500 and try to, like, work on us. 152 00:06:35,066 --> 00:06:36,000 We fight every night. 153 00:06:37,166 --> 00:06:38,200 It's the trust issues. 154 00:06:38,967 --> 00:06:40,266 It's the, you know, accusations. 155 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,867 I'm talking to someone, I'm cheating on her. 156 00:06:43,834 --> 00:06:46,066 I'm doing something. It's not good, you know? 157 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,467 This is just like... 158 00:06:48,333 --> 00:06:48,567 I'm sleeping on the couch every night 159 00:06:49,533 --> 00:06:49,734 because we're fighting every night. 160 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,266 No, your situation is horrible. 161 00:06:53,266 --> 00:06:54,567 [John] We've had these issues for a while now, 162 00:06:55,233 --> 00:06:56,400 but it's gotten even worse. 163 00:06:57,367 --> 00:06:59,200 If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating. 164 00:07:00,433 --> 00:07:02,500 If I'm so much as talking to another girl, I'm cheating. 165 00:07:03,433 --> 00:07:04,467 I have to share my location all the time, 166 00:07:05,166 --> 00:07:06,166 where I am, who I'm texting. 167 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,567 And worst of all, I have to wear an engagement ring 168 00:07:09,667 --> 00:07:11,667 because, you know, she thinks it's gonna keep women 169 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:12,667 from hitting on me. 170 00:07:13,433 --> 00:07:14,467 And, you know, well, it's taxing. 171 00:07:16,467 --> 00:07:18,467 I mean, you guys are engaged now. 172 00:07:19,500 --> 00:07:20,867 Like, I don't know how you can make it more clear 173 00:07:21,667 --> 00:07:22,800 that you're not [bleep] other girls. 174 00:07:24,066 --> 00:07:26,867 You don't want to take the next step if things aren't resolved, 175 00:07:27,633 --> 00:07:28,300 because that [bleep] never works. 176 00:07:30,066 --> 00:07:32,300 -All right, I'm just going to let you go, bro. -All right. 177 00:07:33,066 --> 00:07:36,266 And I will go get stuff packing. 178 00:07:45,467 --> 00:07:47,367 So we're going to South Padre, 179 00:07:48,166 --> 00:07:49,000 got all the stuff ready, finally. 180 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:50,166 Let's see how long we can make it. 181 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:51,467 It's gonna be a long five-hour drive. 182 00:07:52,433 --> 00:07:54,066 Yeah, like four-and-a-half hours, five hours. 183 00:07:54,567 --> 00:07:55,500 -But... -Let's go. 184 00:07:56,433 --> 00:07:57,367 I'm just looking forward to the destination, 185 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,467 so we'll see how it goes. 186 00:08:01,467 --> 00:08:03,367 Things have been really tense lately. 187 00:08:04,333 --> 00:08:05,800 It's just frustrating, because John's saying 188 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,567 that we would be married within, like, two years. 189 00:08:09,266 --> 00:08:10,767 So I'm like, "Clock's ticking." 190 00:08:11,266 --> 00:08:12,400 And still nothing. 191 00:08:13,467 --> 00:08:14,367 I don't know, like, does he not want to marry me? 192 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:16,500 Or like, does he want somebody else? 193 00:08:17,533 --> 00:08:18,967 I'm really hoping that we can work on our issues 194 00:08:19,633 --> 00:08:20,367 just to really see if, like, 195 00:08:21,133 --> 00:08:22,767 we even do have a future together. 196 00:08:26,266 --> 00:08:30,266 We are...set. 197 00:08:31,166 --> 00:08:31,967 -[Meghan] Ready? -[John] All right, well... 198 00:08:32,767 --> 00:08:33,467 I guess I'll catch you guys later, 199 00:08:34,266 --> 00:08:35,867 and we're gonna start our adventure. 200 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:37,800 -Oh! -I'm so sorry. 201 00:08:38,233 --> 00:08:38,967 -Whoo! -Whoo! 202 00:08:40,900 --> 00:08:41,967 -We're here! -Hey. 203 00:08:42,367 --> 00:08:43,166 South Padre! 204 00:08:44,066 --> 00:08:44,867 -South Padre heaven! -Look at the beach. 205 00:08:49,500 --> 00:08:51,400 She's smiling. She's in a good mood. 206 00:08:52,433 --> 00:08:54,500 I'm in a good mood, so, so far, I think, you know, 207 00:08:55,300 --> 00:08:56,066 I think we're onto something here. 208 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,967 We made it! Whoo-hoo-hoo! 209 00:09:00,567 --> 00:09:02,367 Oh, isn't this nice, huh? 210 00:09:03,266 --> 00:09:04,166 -Yay! Love you. -All right, I'm excited. 211 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,600 Oh, no, honey, that's not gonna happen, so... 212 00:09:08,300 --> 00:09:09,367 we gotta figure something out. 213 00:09:10,133 --> 00:09:12,166 But this? Never be quiet, ever. 214 00:09:19,300 --> 00:09:21,166 All right, well... 215 00:09:22,066 --> 00:09:22,467 now Meghan's going to take a little bit, 216 00:09:23,433 --> 00:09:25,367 so I figured Johnny will get the tent set up. 217 00:09:26,133 --> 00:09:26,900 I got a nice little pop-up tent. 218 00:09:27,567 --> 00:09:28,166 It should be nice and easy. 219 00:09:29,667 --> 00:09:33,166 Look at that, huh? Look at this view! 220 00:09:33,467 --> 00:09:34,200 Whoo! 221 00:09:34,734 --> 00:09:35,300 In the description, 222 00:09:35,934 --> 00:09:36,500 when I bought this online, 223 00:09:37,433 --> 00:09:39,200 supposedly you can just toss it in the air. 224 00:09:40,100 --> 00:09:41,400 This thing will open up, so we'll find out. 225 00:09:42,066 --> 00:09:43,767 Well, don't fail me, buddy. 226 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:48,500 Oh! 227 00:09:49,066 --> 00:09:50,300 [lively music playing] 228 00:09:56,500 --> 00:09:58,400 All right! Ooh! 229 00:09:59,700 --> 00:10:00,900 It works. 230 00:10:03,867 --> 00:10:06,100 -Oh, look who I found! -[Meghan giggles] 231 00:10:06,767 --> 00:10:07,867 -Hello, beautiful! -Hello! 232 00:10:09,467 --> 00:10:10,567 Hi. 233 00:10:19,967 --> 00:10:21,500 Whoo! 234 00:10:22,567 --> 00:10:24,800 ♪ It's been a long time coming, but I'm on my way ♪ 235 00:10:25,934 --> 00:10:27,867 ♪ I got some pretty great things we should celebrate ♪ 236 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:29,867 ♪ We celebrate! ♪ 237 00:10:30,367 --> 00:10:31,667 -Hey, babes. -Hi! 238 00:10:41,100 --> 00:10:42,667 [Meghan] I love the new sunglasses. 239 00:10:43,467 --> 00:10:44,567 I'm sure they serve their purpose. 240 00:10:45,367 --> 00:10:46,200 -What are you talking about? -Wow! 241 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,166 What? 242 00:10:51,166 --> 00:10:53,000 I know what these glasses are for, look at him. 243 00:10:54,700 --> 00:10:56,300 -What are you talking about? -You're sly, aren't you? 244 00:10:56,967 --> 00:10:57,667 What are you talking about? 245 00:11:01,100 --> 00:11:04,400 I'm not here because I'm like, trying to cover my eyes. 246 00:11:05,333 --> 00:11:07,000 It's a sunny day out, poolside, all right? 247 00:11:08,100 --> 00:11:09,000 It's not because I'm trying to stare at other women. 248 00:11:09,900 --> 00:11:10,600 At some point, you just got to trust me, 249 00:11:11,266 --> 00:11:12,367 because this isn't working. 250 00:11:13,433 --> 00:11:15,066 I -- I really just think you're trying to be sneaky, 251 00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:17,667 but, yeah, no, for sure, protect your eyes. 252 00:11:20,467 --> 00:11:22,967 He's smart, I'll give him that, but he's, uh... 253 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,166 he'd be smart and stupid at the same time, so... 254 00:11:26,867 --> 00:11:28,066 God dang. 255 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,367 [rock music playing] 256 00:11:33,166 --> 00:11:35,400 Beautiful. Beautiful day. 257 00:11:36,367 --> 00:11:38,166 That's an romantic date, huh? What a sight! 258 00:11:38,734 --> 00:11:39,700 Nobody in sight, though. 259 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:40,900 It's probably six. 260 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,000 I can't be in a relationship if there's no trust 261 00:12:03,867 --> 00:12:05,300 and everything I do is a question mark. 262 00:12:06,500 --> 00:12:07,700 I think it's time me and Meghan have a serious conversation 263 00:12:08,567 --> 00:12:09,867 because I can't live like this anymore. 264 00:12:15,967 --> 00:12:18,467 ♪ I'm feeling lonely, and I think you could help ♪ 265 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,166 ♪ I know you won't believe me ♪ 266 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:22,867 ♪ If I said how I felt ♪ 267 00:12:23,300 --> 00:12:25,500 [Tyray speaking] 268 00:12:26,767 --> 00:12:28,266 Ooh, spilling. 269 00:12:32,967 --> 00:12:35,100 What's up, everyone? It's Tyray, your boy. 270 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,367 I'm 35 years old, and I live in Modesto, California. 271 00:12:39,500 --> 00:12:41,166 And this week, I'm gonna be making a huge life change. 272 00:12:42,066 --> 00:12:43,000 I'm gonna be having weight-loss surgery. 273 00:12:43,700 --> 00:12:45,066 I'm really excited about that. 274 00:12:46,066 --> 00:12:47,567 I have to go and find something to wear for... 275 00:12:48,700 --> 00:12:50,900 while I'm in the hospital, so, yeah. 276 00:12:52,700 --> 00:12:54,300 [Tyray] My 90 Day journey began 277 00:12:55,233 --> 00:12:57,367 once I met someone online named Carmella. 278 00:12:57,900 --> 00:12:58,867 ♪ Do your thing ♪ 279 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:01,200 ♪ Come on, do your thing, do your thing ♪ 280 00:13:04,467 --> 00:13:05,800 I quickly fell in love, 281 00:13:06,867 --> 00:13:08,500 and then I ended up finding out that Carmella wasn't 282 00:13:09,066 --> 00:13:09,767 who she said she was. 283 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,266 The person you've been messaging with 284 00:13:14,967 --> 00:13:16,667 for the last several years... 285 00:13:17,734 --> 00:13:19,667 is not the same woman in the pictures and videos. 286 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:23,367 Wow. 287 00:13:24,233 --> 00:13:25,567 She was actually a man named Christian 288 00:13:26,500 --> 00:13:28,300 who had been catfishing me for four years. 289 00:13:29,300 --> 00:13:31,100 It took a while for me to accept that the girl 290 00:13:31,934 --> 00:13:33,567 that I fell in love with did not exist. 291 00:13:34,367 --> 00:13:35,000 I just thought the worst about dating 292 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,100 after the whole Carmella situation. 293 00:13:38,367 --> 00:13:40,467 -Hell yeah, son. -[Tyray] Cheers. 294 00:13:41,567 --> 00:13:43,367 So, me and my brothers ended up going to New Orleans 295 00:13:44,333 --> 00:13:45,300 just because we thought it would be, you know, 296 00:13:45,934 --> 00:13:47,066 a fun time and good vibe. 297 00:13:48,133 --> 00:13:48,900 -That's all you got to do, brother. -Compliment. 298 00:13:49,700 --> 00:13:50,100 I could have got a number right now. 299 00:13:50,533 --> 00:13:51,467 You could have. 300 00:13:52,233 --> 00:13:52,767 [Tyray] And while in New Orleans, 301 00:13:53,667 --> 00:13:55,166 I ended up meeting a girl named Shannon. 302 00:13:55,734 --> 00:13:56,467 I don't know what to do! 303 00:13:57,467 --> 00:13:59,000 We ended up meeting up, again, at the Tell All, 304 00:13:59,767 --> 00:14:00,767 where she gave me my first kiss. 305 00:14:01,133 --> 00:14:02,867 [cheering] 306 00:14:03,767 --> 00:14:04,667 And I did want to hang out with her more. 307 00:14:05,767 --> 00:14:08,000 But unfortunately, I live in Modesto 308 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:10,867 and she lives five hours away in Los Angeles. 309 00:14:11,900 --> 00:14:13,100 I plan on moving to San Diego after the surgery, 310 00:14:13,633 --> 00:14:14,367 to be closer to her. 311 00:14:15,066 --> 00:14:16,567 So, hopefully that's gonna be 312 00:14:17,133 --> 00:14:18,467 happening really soon. 313 00:14:19,266 --> 00:14:20,100 Always do this to get it off here. 314 00:14:20,467 --> 00:14:21,367 [chuckles] 315 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:36,266 OK, I made it to the hospital for my pre-surgery testing. 316 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:38,967 Look at this beautiful view of the rain. 317 00:14:40,967 --> 00:14:42,667 My weight-loss surgery is next week. 318 00:14:43,767 --> 00:14:45,467 Today, I'm going to the doctor for my final check-in. 319 00:14:46,100 --> 00:14:46,667 I'm super nervous because 320 00:14:47,533 --> 00:14:48,867 it is my last weigh-in before surgery. 321 00:14:52,500 --> 00:14:53,567 [nurse] Tyray? 322 00:14:54,233 --> 00:14:55,767 [anticipatory music playing] 323 00:14:57,100 --> 00:14:59,266 [Tyray] At my first visit with the bariatric clinic, 324 00:15:00,066 --> 00:15:01,367 I was advised to lose 20 pounds, 325 00:15:02,300 --> 00:15:03,500 but honestly, I'm not sure if I did or not. 326 00:15:03,934 --> 00:15:05,867 [nurse speaking] 327 00:15:06,166 --> 00:15:07,000 Oh, OK. 328 00:15:07,700 --> 00:15:08,400 [Tyray] What if it's too high 329 00:15:09,066 --> 00:15:09,467 and it counts on my surgery? 330 00:15:10,033 --> 00:15:11,500 So I have a lot of -- 331 00:15:12,567 --> 00:15:13,600 a lot of things going on that are making me nervous. 332 00:15:22,500 --> 00:15:24,467 -All right, thank you. -You're welcome. 333 00:15:25,867 --> 00:15:28,600 [Tyray] The scale says that I'm 405 pounds, 334 00:15:29,300 --> 00:15:30,266 which is the same amount I was 335 00:15:31,133 --> 00:15:32,066 when I first started the whole process. 336 00:15:33,033 --> 00:15:34,400 [nurse] And we're gonna be in this room here. 337 00:15:34,834 --> 00:15:35,667 OK, thank you. 338 00:15:37,567 --> 00:15:39,000 I'm kind of freaking out. 339 00:15:40,066 --> 00:15:41,100 I don't know if they're gonna cancel the surgery, 340 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,266 because I failed to lose any weight at all. 341 00:15:46,900 --> 00:15:48,166 -OK, perfect. -Thank you. 342 00:15:48,734 --> 00:15:49,367 All right, thank you. 343 00:15:51,667 --> 00:15:54,200 If I can't get this surgery, I don't know what I'm gonna do. 344 00:15:56,567 --> 00:15:58,767 I feel like my weight has been holding me back 345 00:15:59,900 --> 00:16:02,166 when it comes to dating and, you know, relationships. 346 00:16:04,700 --> 00:16:06,967 I haven't had a lot of experience with girls. 347 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:08,867 I'm still a virgin. 348 00:16:09,900 --> 00:16:12,300 And I feel like it is mainly due to my weight... 349 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,567 when it comes to, you know, intimacy. 350 00:16:16,633 --> 00:16:18,867 I want the person I'm dating to want and desire me. 351 00:16:19,934 --> 00:16:21,467 You know what I mean? I want them to like my body. 352 00:16:22,567 --> 00:16:24,367 And I don't think anyone else is gonna like my body 353 00:16:24,934 --> 00:16:25,767 if I don't like my body. 354 00:16:27,100 --> 00:16:28,166 -Hello. -Hello, hi. 355 00:16:28,667 --> 00:16:29,266 [Alyssa speaking] 356 00:16:29,700 --> 00:16:31,266 Oh, thank you. 357 00:16:31,767 --> 00:16:32,567 [Alyssa speaking] 358 00:16:35,767 --> 00:16:37,400 -Yep, that's right. -Yep. 359 00:16:37,900 --> 00:16:39,800 [Alyssa speaking] 360 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:46,867 OK. 361 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,700 [Alyssa speaking] 362 00:16:56,767 --> 00:16:57,867 [Tyray] OK. 363 00:16:58,367 --> 00:16:59,467 [Alyssa speaking] 364 00:17:05,300 --> 00:17:07,900 OK -- OK! 365 00:17:08,333 --> 00:17:08,900 Other than that, 366 00:17:09,767 --> 00:17:10,166 we'll see you the morning of surgery. 367 00:17:10,934 --> 00:17:11,467 The hospital's gonna let you know 368 00:17:12,433 --> 00:17:13,367 what time you need to be there next week, OK? 369 00:17:14,367 --> 00:17:14,800 -All right, you are good to go. -Appreciate it. 370 00:17:15,500 --> 00:17:15,967 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 371 00:17:16,533 --> 00:17:17,600 -All right, bye. -Bye. 372 00:17:18,533 --> 00:17:19,967 I got approved for the surgery, but barely. 373 00:17:21,567 --> 00:17:25,166 So I have to be strong and find the discipline to make changes 374 00:17:25,834 --> 00:17:27,266 to my lifestyle and my diet, 375 00:17:28,100 --> 00:17:29,266 so I can reach my weight-loss goals. 376 00:17:36,567 --> 00:17:39,100 I got a pizza, I'm gonna bake it for my sister. 377 00:17:39,734 --> 00:17:40,867 She's gonna come through. 378 00:17:41,433 --> 00:17:42,166 Yummy, it looks so good! 379 00:17:42,734 --> 00:17:43,400 It's not for me though. 380 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,600 My sister and my nieces are coming over before my surgery, 381 00:17:48,467 --> 00:17:49,700 and I decided to make them some food. 382 00:17:50,500 --> 00:17:51,367 And since tomorrow is my surgery, 383 00:17:52,300 --> 00:17:54,266 my dinner is something a little different. 384 00:17:54,967 --> 00:17:56,900 Good old organic broth, yummy! 385 00:17:58,300 --> 00:17:59,367 Now let it simmer. 386 00:18:02,066 --> 00:18:03,800 -[Tyray] Hey! -Hi. 387 00:18:04,700 --> 00:18:05,367 [Tyray] How you guys doing? Come on in! 388 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:06,467 [Prea] Hello. 389 00:18:07,767 --> 00:18:09,600 Wow, you're tall! Where do you come from? 390 00:18:09,867 --> 00:18:11,166 Hi! 391 00:18:12,033 --> 00:18:13,100 I made some food. You want some food? 392 00:18:13,667 --> 00:18:14,367 -Yeah. -And a drink? 393 00:18:14,667 --> 00:18:16,100 Sure. 394 00:18:17,166 --> 00:18:18,867 Being around family, there is a lot of temptation, 395 00:18:19,633 --> 00:18:21,266 and it is hard to stick to a diet. 396 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:22,867 OK, wine glass. OK! 397 00:18:23,300 --> 00:18:23,867 Yeah, super big. 398 00:18:25,066 --> 00:18:27,166 [Tyray] But I don't want to avoid gatherings just because 399 00:18:28,033 --> 00:18:28,867 I'm afraid that I'll cheat on my diet. 400 00:18:29,834 --> 00:18:32,100 I feel bad eating in front of you like this. 401 00:18:32,667 --> 00:18:33,300 Oh, I'm used to it now. 402 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:36,567 -Yeah, chicken broth. -Ugh! 403 00:18:37,767 --> 00:18:38,967 [Prea] So, how are you feeling about the surgery tomorrow? 404 00:18:39,900 --> 00:18:41,266 Um, yeah, I'm excited. 405 00:18:41,967 --> 00:18:42,467 I'm a little nervous, though, 406 00:18:43,433 --> 00:18:44,600 just I've never been, like, under, you know? 407 00:18:49,500 --> 00:18:50,567 Well, you won't wake up. 408 00:19:06,567 --> 00:19:07,967 Yeah, cheers. I have nothing. 409 00:19:08,834 --> 00:19:09,800 No more broth or anything, but cheers. 410 00:19:12,367 --> 00:19:13,767 Thank you, thank you. 411 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,567 Today is the day, surgery day, 412 00:19:21,266 --> 00:19:23,300 so just got up, it's 5:00 AM. 413 00:19:24,133 --> 00:19:25,700 I have to be at the hospital at 6:30, 414 00:19:26,633 --> 00:19:27,166 so I'm going to get dressed really quick. 415 00:19:28,300 --> 00:19:28,867 They told me just to wash my face and brush my teeth, 416 00:19:29,433 --> 00:19:29,867 so I'm going to do that. 417 00:19:30,533 --> 00:19:31,467 So it's the day of surgery. 418 00:19:32,500 --> 00:19:34,967 I am up and ready to go. I have my clothes packed. 419 00:19:35,500 --> 00:19:36,567 I have my bag ready. 420 00:19:37,300 --> 00:19:38,000 I'm gonna do one final weigh-in. 421 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:39,667 I'm gonna weigh myself on my scale. 422 00:19:41,166 --> 00:19:43,166 Oh, wow! I lost seven pounds. 423 00:19:44,166 --> 00:19:46,000 This is the start of a new Tyray. 424 00:19:47,033 --> 00:19:49,300 Ready to go, so I'll see you then. 425 00:19:55,567 --> 00:19:56,900 [Tyray] Made it to the hospital. 426 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,000 It's 6:00, like 6:35. I'm a little late. 427 00:20:03,567 --> 00:20:06,367 I am happy to have my family here with me. 428 00:20:08,867 --> 00:20:11,266 Now my mom and my aunts and my sisters, 429 00:20:11,767 --> 00:20:12,567 they both made it. 430 00:20:13,367 --> 00:20:14,100 I have to put on my gown and my robe 431 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,166 and wipe myself down again, so. 432 00:20:16,934 --> 00:20:18,266 I'm gonna do that really quick. 433 00:20:19,300 --> 00:20:21,767 As I put on my surgery gown, it really gets real. 434 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:23,667 Like, I'm really about to have this surgery done 435 00:20:24,700 --> 00:20:26,767 and I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half. 436 00:20:28,166 --> 00:20:29,767 Ooh, sexy! 437 00:20:31,900 --> 00:20:34,467 [laughing] 438 00:20:35,367 --> 00:20:36,500 I really don't know what's gonna happen. 439 00:20:37,133 --> 00:20:38,367 And, you know, I'm scared. 440 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:44,266 OK. 441 00:20:48,567 --> 00:20:49,567 Any questions? 442 00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:50,767 -[Tyray] No questions. -Perfect. 443 00:20:51,700 --> 00:20:52,567 -Thank you so much, Dr. Huber. -Thank you. 444 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,800 Just praying for a fast, safe surgery. 445 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,166 ♪ There's no stopping us! ♪ 446 00:21:17,734 --> 00:21:19,400 [vibrant music playing] 447 00:21:22,767 --> 00:21:24,100 ♪ There's no stopping us! ♪ 448 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,967 I just got out of mass. It was beautiful. 449 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,500 Beautiful service, beautiful day. 450 00:21:33,667 --> 00:21:37,000 Now I'm going to go meet up with my beautiful daughter. 451 00:21:37,867 --> 00:21:40,066 Hi, my name is Meisha, I'm 45 years old 452 00:21:40,767 --> 00:21:42,266 and I am from Blaine, Minnesota. 453 00:21:43,133 --> 00:21:45,600 She asked me to go to brunch with her, 454 00:21:46,500 --> 00:21:47,467 which I absolutely love, but she also said 455 00:21:48,700 --> 00:21:50,867 that she wanted to talk to me about something, so we'll see. 456 00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:53,667 Seven-plus years ago... 457 00:21:55,100 --> 00:21:57,367 I met Nicola online. 458 00:21:58,333 --> 00:22:00,700 We connected over talking about Catholicism. 459 00:22:01,834 --> 00:22:05,000 We started off as friends, and our friendship ended up 460 00:22:05,834 --> 00:22:07,700 turning into a romantic relationship. 461 00:22:09,667 --> 00:22:12,667 I ended up hopping on an airplane, 462 00:22:13,333 --> 00:22:14,567 traveling across the world, 463 00:22:15,567 --> 00:22:18,000 and I met with him for the first time in person 464 00:22:18,500 --> 00:22:19,266 in the Holy Land. 465 00:22:21,567 --> 00:22:22,700 Oh, hey! 466 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,967 [Meisha] Oh, my! 467 00:22:26,233 --> 00:22:27,066 Hi! 468 00:22:29,166 --> 00:22:31,600 [Meisha] Oh, my God! 469 00:22:32,300 --> 00:22:34,166 I was over in the Middle East 470 00:22:34,867 --> 00:22:36,066 for a handful of weeks with him. 471 00:22:36,700 --> 00:22:38,800 And by the end of my trip, 472 00:22:39,433 --> 00:22:41,100 we ultimately got engaged. 473 00:22:45,667 --> 00:22:46,867 Yes, I will! 474 00:22:50,867 --> 00:22:54,000 Oh, my gosh, Nicola! 475 00:22:55,166 --> 00:22:56,567 [Meisha] Nicola ended up coming over to the United States. 476 00:22:57,133 --> 00:22:58,767 And I think right away, 477 00:22:59,333 --> 00:23:00,667 we just realized that, 478 00:23:01,467 --> 00:23:02,700 culturally, we were so different. 479 00:23:03,500 --> 00:23:04,767 We had such different worldviews. 480 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,266 So a few months ago, 481 00:23:08,133 --> 00:23:09,367 we decided to call off our engagement. 482 00:23:10,233 --> 00:23:12,100 And now he is back in the Middle East. 483 00:23:13,166 --> 00:23:15,600 I'm here in America, and my life is moving forward. 484 00:23:18,700 --> 00:23:21,100 All right. Pulling in here. 485 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,467 Let me see. Is her car here? 486 00:23:24,100 --> 00:23:25,567 Yes, it is. Interesting! 487 00:23:26,233 --> 00:23:29,000 My daughter is never early. 488 00:23:32,567 --> 00:23:36,200 Hi, honey! Thank you, sweetheart! 489 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,567 Hi, babe! How are you? 490 00:23:40,300 --> 00:23:41,667 Yeah, I'm doing a diary cam. 491 00:23:42,467 --> 00:23:43,100 -OK, all right. -Hi! Hi, sweetie. 492 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,867 because they're so busy away at college. 493 00:23:53,934 --> 00:23:57,567 So now I am genuinely really interested as to what 494 00:23:58,266 --> 00:23:59,400 this meeting today is all about. 495 00:24:00,333 --> 00:24:01,667 I was so surprised when you were like, 496 00:24:02,367 --> 00:24:03,166 "Do you want to go to brunch?" 497 00:24:04,133 --> 00:24:05,467 I mean, are you sure I shouldn't be nervous? 498 00:24:06,433 --> 00:24:08,667 No, well, I don't think you should be nervous. 499 00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:10,166 Well, me and Svea just feel so bad. 500 00:24:11,233 --> 00:24:12,000 Like, we're away all the time and we don't see you 501 00:24:12,567 --> 00:24:13,900 a whole bunch anymore, 502 00:24:14,867 --> 00:24:15,767 and we're kind of hoping you would get back out 503 00:24:16,567 --> 00:24:17,667 in the dating scene a little bit. 504 00:24:18,433 --> 00:24:21,900 We...set you up with a matchmaker. 505 00:24:22,333 --> 00:24:24,100 Oh, Morea, no! 506 00:24:24,667 --> 00:24:25,367 No, I'm not doing that. 507 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:26,800 -Yes, you are. -I am not doing that. 508 00:24:27,633 --> 00:24:29,467 [Meisha] My daughter, God love her, 509 00:24:29,900 --> 00:24:31,100 but oh, my gosh! 510 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,467 Have you gone mad? 511 00:24:33,300 --> 00:24:35,667 Like, you know that is not who I am. 512 00:24:36,300 --> 00:24:38,100 No. Just full-stop, no. 513 00:24:39,233 --> 00:24:42,166 I just don't feel like I need to go out 514 00:24:42,967 --> 00:24:43,867 and search for something like that, 515 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,700 I just want to lean into divine providence 516 00:24:47,133 --> 00:24:48,066 and trust God. 517 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:49,567 I'm not doing that. 518 00:24:50,967 --> 00:24:52,166 What? 519 00:24:53,100 --> 00:24:55,266 Me and Svea put so much effort into this. 520 00:24:55,967 --> 00:24:56,767 We had to put a couple pictures 521 00:24:57,667 --> 00:24:59,367 and, like, talk about you a little bit... 522 00:24:59,867 --> 00:25:00,867 To the matchmaker? 523 00:25:01,934 --> 00:25:02,767 Yep, we already have cleared your schedule for you. 524 00:25:03,567 --> 00:25:04,467 -What? -Everything is already done. 525 00:25:05,133 --> 00:25:05,800 You guys are like stalkers! 526 00:25:06,700 --> 00:25:07,266 All you have to do is get ready and go. 527 00:25:07,633 --> 00:25:08,800 That's it! 528 00:25:09,333 --> 00:25:10,166 I don't know, honey. 529 00:25:10,934 --> 00:25:11,867 Don't even say it, you're going. 530 00:25:12,266 --> 00:25:13,867 You have to. 531 00:25:14,734 --> 00:25:16,100 I will show up there with an open mind 532 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,000 for you and Svea. 533 00:25:18,633 --> 00:25:20,367 But I will not promise... 534 00:25:21,500 --> 00:25:23,066 that I'll walk out of there with a date. 535 00:25:23,867 --> 00:25:24,967 I think you'll have a lot of fun. 536 00:25:25,900 --> 00:25:27,667 I feel very sickly nervous all of a sudden. 537 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,767 [upbeat music playing] 538 00:25:37,767 --> 00:25:41,467 So right now I am on my way 539 00:25:42,266 --> 00:25:44,166 to the infamous matchmaker's office. 540 00:25:47,266 --> 00:25:48,967 I actually feel sick. 541 00:25:50,166 --> 00:25:52,200 I'm having a lot of internal struggles, 542 00:25:52,834 --> 00:25:53,867 a lot of internal battle. 543 00:25:54,867 --> 00:25:56,767 Here we go. Here we go. 544 00:25:57,834 --> 00:25:58,867 I'm thinking, like, "Meisha, what are you doing?" 545 00:25:59,900 --> 00:26:00,867 Like, "Did you all of a sudden become depressed?" 546 00:26:01,734 --> 00:26:02,867 Like, "You should not be doing this." 547 00:26:03,700 --> 00:26:05,000 -Hi! -Hi! 548 00:26:05,500 --> 00:26:07,367 Oh, my gosh! Hi! 549 00:26:07,967 --> 00:26:09,467 -Nice to meet you. -Hi! 550 00:26:09,900 --> 00:26:10,600 Oh, hi, Wendy! 551 00:26:11,500 --> 00:26:12,066 -Nice to meet you. -It's such a pleasure. 552 00:26:12,834 --> 00:26:13,166 We're so excited to have you here. 553 00:26:13,867 --> 00:26:14,567 [Meisha] Pleasure is all mine. 554 00:26:15,233 --> 00:26:17,500 It still feels hella weird. 555 00:26:18,166 --> 00:26:19,667 It feels very transactional. 556 00:26:20,300 --> 00:26:21,100 Like, it shouldn't, like, 557 00:26:22,100 --> 00:26:23,066 part of me was like, "This shouldn't be legal." 558 00:26:24,100 --> 00:26:26,467 God bless you! Yeah, OK. 559 00:26:27,266 --> 00:26:27,867 [Jill] Welcome to Minneapolis City. 560 00:26:28,700 --> 00:26:29,200 -Oh, exciting, cheers. -Yeah, cheers. 561 00:26:29,900 --> 00:26:30,567 By the way, I'm so nervous. 562 00:26:31,633 --> 00:26:32,166 So you guys are all making me feel so much better, 563 00:26:32,867 --> 00:26:33,367 so, thank you. -I'm so glad. 564 00:26:34,300 --> 00:26:34,800 [Jill] I know that there are several things 565 00:26:35,500 --> 00:26:36,266 that are very important to you, 566 00:26:36,967 --> 00:26:37,900 just kind of as a concrete... 567 00:26:38,633 --> 00:26:39,900 -[Meisha] Yeah. -...foundation. 568 00:26:40,467 --> 00:26:41,867 -Yes. -I know faith. 569 00:26:42,233 --> 00:26:43,667 Yes, yeah. 570 00:26:44,533 --> 00:26:45,367 So talk to me a little bit about that? 571 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,367 Yeah, so I -- 572 00:26:48,166 --> 00:26:50,467 my whole life is surrounded by faith. 573 00:26:51,166 --> 00:26:52,200 Now I work for the Archdiocese. 574 00:26:53,166 --> 00:26:56,500 So when I say that that is an absolute must, 575 00:26:57,033 --> 00:26:57,867 I really mean that. 576 00:26:58,967 --> 00:26:59,767 So we definitely have some great candidates for you. 577 00:27:00,100 --> 00:27:01,000 OK. 578 00:27:01,967 --> 00:27:03,100 We have a wonderful gentleman named Matthew. 579 00:27:03,767 --> 00:27:05,867 -He has his doctorate. -OK. 580 00:27:06,433 --> 00:27:07,767 He is a dedicated father 581 00:27:08,467 --> 00:27:09,967 of two beautiful girls, as well. 582 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:11,667 OK, so, if -- 583 00:27:12,433 --> 00:27:13,066 I don't know if this is possible, 584 00:27:13,834 --> 00:27:14,467 but can I see the video? -You bet! 585 00:27:14,867 --> 00:27:15,700 Oh, amazing! 586 00:27:16,667 --> 00:27:17,166 I don't know where we'll watch those, but... 587 00:27:17,700 --> 00:27:19,367 [Jill] Absolutely. 588 00:27:20,300 --> 00:27:21,867 We are not a matchmaking service to the point 589 00:27:22,667 --> 00:27:24,266 where we send them out a blind date 590 00:27:24,700 --> 00:27:25,266 or all of that. 591 00:27:25,967 --> 00:27:26,900 We do the research based upon 592 00:27:27,533 --> 00:27:28,367 what our clients tell us. 593 00:27:29,066 --> 00:27:30,100 And then we try and match them 594 00:27:31,266 --> 00:27:32,500 based upon their key points of what they're looking for. 595 00:27:33,533 --> 00:27:35,000 And then the rest is just gonna happen naturally. 596 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,800 [Jill] Let's click on video here for Matthew. 597 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,667 I'm 41. I'm a single dad. 598 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,100 I'm a Twin Cities native. I'm a physician. 599 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,867 I like to play chess. I like to do arts and drawing. 600 00:27:50,567 --> 00:27:53,567 I'm a great guy, down-to-earth, 601 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,800 um, those kinds of things. 602 00:27:59,266 --> 00:28:01,066 [Meisha] Watching Matthew's video, 603 00:28:02,033 --> 00:28:03,767 the first thing that is really striking me is 604 00:28:04,467 --> 00:28:05,767 he's got, like, this long hair, 605 00:28:06,967 --> 00:28:08,800 I was like, "Is that a wig or like a toupee or something?" 606 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,467 Men that age just don't typically have hair that long. 607 00:28:16,500 --> 00:28:18,667 And I don't know if luscious is the right word, 608 00:28:19,467 --> 00:28:21,166 but I'm questioning if it's a wig. 609 00:28:23,100 --> 00:28:24,767 Just kind of... 610 00:28:25,266 --> 00:28:26,300 excited to enroll 611 00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:28,467 into the Minneapolis singles here. 612 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,767 [Meisha] I'm also noticing that he's pretty timid, 613 00:28:34,300 --> 00:28:35,300 he's acting nervous. 614 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,867 That's always what I'm most fearful of, 615 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,066 like a stick in the mud, and they don't talk, 616 00:28:40,900 --> 00:28:41,767 and I feel like I'm having to, like... 617 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,567 pull questions out of him. 618 00:28:44,700 --> 00:28:46,166 I'll give it a whirl, I mean, I don't know, poor man. 619 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,100 He doesn't know the crazy he's in for, 620 00:28:48,767 --> 00:28:50,000 but I'll give it a go, girl. 621 00:28:50,300 --> 00:28:51,266 Great. 622 00:28:51,533 --> 00:28:52,600 Yes. 623 00:28:56,100 --> 00:28:58,900 ♪ Whoa ♪ 624 00:29:02,667 --> 00:29:03,867 Bye, Nani! 625 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,300 Bye, sweetie. 626 00:29:07,767 --> 00:29:11,500 All I can hear in my mind when I say that is my daughter 627 00:29:12,367 --> 00:29:13,166 saying, "Don't be the crazy cat lady. 628 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:14,900 "Get out and date someone. 629 00:29:15,767 --> 00:29:16,667 Don't just sit at home with your cats." 630 00:29:18,266 --> 00:29:20,100 Here I go, guys! This is it! 631 00:29:21,100 --> 00:29:25,800 So I am on my way to my big date with Matthew. 632 00:29:26,367 --> 00:29:29,767 And I'm very nervous. 633 00:29:31,066 --> 00:29:34,467 A pumpkin patch seems a bit weird, 634 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,066 especially a pumpkin patch in the morning, 635 00:29:37,633 --> 00:29:40,066 seems a bit weird for... 636 00:29:41,667 --> 00:29:44,367 a date, a first date, but maybe that's cute? 637 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,967 I mean, is that what people are doing nowadays? 638 00:29:51,367 --> 00:29:52,500 Let's do this. 639 00:29:59,867 --> 00:30:01,967 I think I see Matthew. 640 00:30:03,367 --> 00:30:04,567 Hi! 641 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,300 -How are you? -[Matthew] I'm good! 642 00:30:07,767 --> 00:30:08,800 Good to see you. 643 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,367 Oh, it's so nice to meet you as well. 644 00:30:12,233 --> 00:30:13,600 -By the way, this is Matthew. -Hello. 645 00:30:14,433 --> 00:30:16,100 -How are you? -Oh, you look lovely! 646 00:30:17,100 --> 00:30:17,600 -Nice to see you. -I'm so excited to meet you. 647 00:30:18,166 --> 00:30:18,900 Look at you! You too! 648 00:30:19,433 --> 00:30:21,266 [soft music playing] 649 00:30:21,667 --> 00:30:23,867 I'm shocked. 650 00:30:25,033 --> 00:30:27,200 Matthew is way cuter in person than what I was expecting. 651 00:30:28,166 --> 00:30:31,367 And I can also tell he is not wearing a wig, 652 00:30:31,934 --> 00:30:33,867 which is very good news. 653 00:30:34,900 --> 00:30:36,266 So what is that over there? Like, you peel corn? 654 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,100 [Matthew] No, you walk through it, like a corn maze. 655 00:30:39,066 --> 00:30:39,400 -Oh, that's... -You could probably get lost. 656 00:30:40,266 --> 00:30:41,000 -Should we go back there? -I think... 657 00:30:41,700 --> 00:30:42,600 OK, we'll totally go back there. 658 00:30:42,967 --> 00:30:43,800 [giggling] 659 00:30:44,767 --> 00:30:46,367 Don't worry, Matthew, if you get kidnapped, 660 00:30:47,066 --> 00:30:48,166 I will keep looking for you, OK? 661 00:30:48,900 --> 00:30:50,100 -I like it, -I won't give up. 662 00:30:50,967 --> 00:30:53,166 So, tell me a little bit about yourself. 663 00:30:54,033 --> 00:30:55,500 I was raised Catholic in kindergarten 664 00:30:56,266 --> 00:30:57,367 through eighth grade. -Oh, sure. 665 00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:59,266 I went to a Catholic private school in St. Paul. 666 00:30:59,533 --> 00:31:00,367 OK. 667 00:31:02,767 --> 00:31:04,867 OK, so I love that so much 668 00:31:05,433 --> 00:31:06,200 because I feel like... 669 00:31:07,300 --> 00:31:09,867 you have to have a different kind of heart for that. 670 00:31:10,734 --> 00:31:12,166 My dad actually does a faith formation 671 00:31:13,266 --> 00:31:14,900 for fifth graders at the church. -Oh, my gosh, he does? 672 00:31:15,767 --> 00:31:16,367 -So sweet. -And my mom attends kind of, 673 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,266 like the adult faith formation group. 674 00:31:18,900 --> 00:31:19,667 Oh my goodness, I love it! 675 00:31:20,500 --> 00:31:21,166 And then does gardening at the church. 676 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,367 -That's so awesome! -[Matthew] Yeah. 677 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:28,266 Wow! I wouldn't have thought that the matchmakers would have 678 00:31:28,900 --> 00:31:31,000 exceeded my expectations, 679 00:31:31,567 --> 00:31:33,000 but they matched me up 680 00:31:33,867 --> 00:31:35,667 with someone who's a total sweetheart. 681 00:31:36,467 --> 00:31:37,467 [Meisha] Ready? Here we go, Matthew! 682 00:31:39,367 --> 00:31:41,200 [Matthew] Look at all that! 683 00:31:41,934 --> 00:31:42,500 [Meisha] You would totally.... 684 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:43,633 I can't even tell there's a maze there. 685 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:45,100 I'm sorry, we would never have come out of it. 686 00:31:45,633 --> 00:31:46,367 -No. -[both laugh] 687 00:31:47,133 --> 00:31:47,500 [Meisha] We would literally never. 688 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,000 Everything just feels so easy. 689 00:31:51,166 --> 00:31:54,100 And this is resurrecting all these feelings inside of me 690 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,100 of like that little school girl, 691 00:31:57,033 --> 00:31:58,467 like, "Oh my gosh, like, what's gonna happen? 692 00:31:59,300 --> 00:32:00,667 What do I do if he tries to kiss me?" 693 00:32:00,967 --> 00:32:01,900 [laughs] 694 00:32:03,467 --> 00:32:04,567 -[Matthew] OK, now... -[Meisha] Yeah, let's do it. 695 00:32:05,433 --> 00:32:05,800 -I'll get you, all right. -OK, ready? 696 00:32:06,533 --> 00:32:07,567 -One, two, three, go. -OK, go! 697 00:32:08,266 --> 00:32:09,767 ♪ Hey, you're almost back ♪ 698 00:32:10,834 --> 00:32:12,066 ♪ And you're never, ever, ever gonna stop that ♪ 699 00:32:12,900 --> 00:32:14,600 ♪ Because, oh, with a come back... ♪ 700 00:32:15,367 --> 00:32:16,100 Good job, Matthew. Give me a hug. 701 00:32:16,667 --> 00:32:17,500 You did so good, I won. 702 00:32:18,233 --> 00:32:18,700 [Matthew] You're a sport, yes. 703 00:32:19,667 --> 00:32:20,467 [Meisha] You still -- you still did so good. 704 00:32:21,667 --> 00:32:23,166 I kind of had a feeling you were going to win. 705 00:32:24,033 --> 00:32:24,867 No, you didn't. You're just too sweet. 706 00:32:25,767 --> 00:32:28,100 Meisha's stunningly beautiful, 707 00:32:28,533 --> 00:32:30,066 kind-hearted, 708 00:32:30,633 --> 00:32:31,867 caring, and intelligent. 709 00:32:32,567 --> 00:32:33,900 I definitely felt comfortable, 710 00:32:34,900 --> 00:32:36,767 and I do feel like there's some chemistry there 711 00:32:37,266 --> 00:32:38,166 between she and I. 712 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,367 That's awesome. 713 00:32:46,367 --> 00:32:49,667 Overall, the date went really well. 714 00:32:50,533 --> 00:32:51,767 [laughing] Oh, I love our [indistinct] 715 00:32:52,500 --> 00:32:53,767 It's like, "Oh, my God." My God! 716 00:32:54,667 --> 00:32:57,367 I don't know exactly what is next for me, 717 00:32:58,066 --> 00:33:00,567 but I definitely know this -- 718 00:33:01,266 --> 00:33:03,600 If Matthew asks me out again, 719 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,667 I will not say no, I will say yes. 720 00:33:07,467 --> 00:33:09,166 I'm giving myself the green light 721 00:33:10,133 --> 00:33:11,600 to get back out there a little bit and date, 722 00:33:12,033 --> 00:33:12,767 and I love it. 723 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,000 I can't wait! 724 00:33:15,100 --> 00:33:17,266 Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect, mine's not. 725 00:33:17,967 --> 00:33:18,467 It's blown all over the place. 726 00:33:32,166 --> 00:33:33,567 All right. 727 00:33:34,500 --> 00:33:36,000 Let's get out of here. 728 00:33:40,700 --> 00:33:43,200 Hey, I'm John. I'm 41 years old. 729 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,000 I'm originally from Massachusetts, 730 00:33:45,867 --> 00:33:47,500 but now I live in good old San Antonio. 731 00:33:51,266 --> 00:33:53,367 I'm here on vacation with my fiance, Meghan, 732 00:33:54,066 --> 00:33:55,100 and things ain't going so well. 733 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,667 I can't stay in a relationship where there's no trust 734 00:33:58,467 --> 00:33:59,567 and everything I do is questioned. 735 00:34:00,834 --> 00:34:02,100 I think it's time me and Meghan have a serious conversation, 736 00:34:02,967 --> 00:34:04,300 because I can't live like this anymore. 737 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,567 Well, that was a trip. 738 00:34:15,367 --> 00:34:20,066 I mean, you know, it's like it always goes the same way. 739 00:34:20,500 --> 00:34:21,467 Never smooth. 740 00:34:50,967 --> 00:34:52,867 Yeah, well, I mean, you're a very possessive person, too. 741 00:34:53,633 --> 00:34:54,100 -So, like, it's very -- -I am not. 742 00:34:54,934 --> 00:34:55,266 -It goes both ways. -Everybody's... 743 00:34:55,633 --> 00:34:56,467 I am not. 744 00:34:57,166 --> 00:34:58,900 -I am not that bad. -Oh, OK. 745 00:34:59,867 --> 00:35:01,166 You have my location. I'm wearing this ring. 746 00:35:02,133 --> 00:35:02,767 You're telling me I'm doing all this [bleep] 747 00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:03,800 that I'm not doing. 748 00:35:04,500 --> 00:35:05,467 You know, something has to give. 749 00:35:09,266 --> 00:35:12,266 When it comes down to it, like, it all goes back to, like, 750 00:35:13,100 --> 00:35:13,867 "Does he really want to be with me?" 751 00:35:16,467 --> 00:35:17,700 "Does he really want to marry me?" 752 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,700 Because I feel like it's always excuses. 753 00:35:20,433 --> 00:35:21,567 Why would I want to get married? 754 00:35:22,433 --> 00:35:23,467 Why would I want to get married, Meghan? 755 00:35:24,333 --> 00:35:24,767 If you don't want to get married now, 756 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:26,200 you're not going to want to get married in a year. 757 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:27,867 No, Meghan, I told you. I told you. 758 00:35:28,934 --> 00:35:30,600 I'm coming to the understanding that right now that 759 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:32,300 I'm kind of letting go of the idea of marriage, 760 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:33,767 because I'm getting so turned off of it, 761 00:35:34,667 --> 00:35:36,867 because all I'm hearing is excuses, so... 762 00:35:37,633 --> 00:35:38,166 -Oh, excuses, huh? -And I get it. 763 00:35:38,633 --> 00:35:40,000 Excuses? Excuses? 764 00:35:40,500 --> 00:35:41,166 Guess what, lady? 765 00:35:42,166 --> 00:35:43,000 This is what I think about your excuses, right? 766 00:35:43,700 --> 00:35:44,467 See? The [bleep] ring's gone. 767 00:36:13,367 --> 00:36:14,600 I mean, do I take this off? 768 00:36:15,300 --> 00:36:16,266 Like, do I take the ring off? 769 00:36:16,900 --> 00:36:18,000 Take it off. Take it off. 770 00:36:18,667 --> 00:36:19,467 I'm not making you wear it. 771 00:36:20,567 --> 00:36:21,767 I'm not gonna make you, tell you you have to wear it. 772 00:36:22,734 --> 00:36:24,100 -While I don't wear mine and mine's gone. -OK. 773 00:36:24,667 --> 00:36:25,400 So, yeah, there you go. 774 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,266 Oh, there you go. 775 00:36:39,867 --> 00:36:42,867 [tense music playing] 776 00:36:45,700 --> 00:36:47,567 I'm just trying to figure out, like, 777 00:36:48,500 --> 00:36:50,400 what we're doing. 778 00:36:51,100 --> 00:36:51,567 Are we ever gonna get married? 779 00:36:51,967 --> 00:36:53,500 And then... 780 00:36:54,066 --> 00:36:55,400 and then this happens. 781 00:36:55,934 --> 00:36:56,867 You acting like this 782 00:36:57,734 --> 00:36:58,667 and throwing your ring out the window. 783 00:36:59,900 --> 00:37:03,200 Yeah, that's because I keep telling you over and over again, 784 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,967 all I get from you is, I'm talking to someone, 785 00:37:06,500 --> 00:37:07,166 I'm [bleep] someone, 786 00:37:08,033 --> 00:37:09,066 I'm doing this when I'm doing nothing. 787 00:37:09,900 --> 00:37:11,767 And so, therefore, I'm getting tired. 788 00:37:12,333 --> 00:37:13,667 I'm getting frustrated. 789 00:37:14,734 --> 00:37:15,800 You know, it doesn't matter how much we have sex, 790 00:37:16,667 --> 00:37:17,700 you know, if I'm sleeping on the couch 791 00:37:18,667 --> 00:37:19,967 and we're fighting every day, I'm miserable. 792 00:37:21,500 --> 00:37:23,600 I've already told you, I'm miserable. 793 00:37:24,500 --> 00:37:25,200 This freaking ring doesn't mean nothing! 794 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,767 I get to relax for a little while. 795 00:37:46,266 --> 00:37:47,567 So that's my plan. 796 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,767 My name is Tyray, I'm 35 years old, 797 00:37:50,567 --> 00:37:51,667 and I live in Modesto, California. 798 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,367 Today, I'm finally gonna get my gastric sleeve surgery. 799 00:37:56,233 --> 00:37:59,367 I am terrified and nervous and scared. 800 00:38:11,467 --> 00:38:13,767 [machinery beeping] 801 00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:25,200 Coming out of surgery, the first thing I remember is 802 00:38:26,133 --> 00:38:27,700 the anesthesiologist trying to wake me up. 803 00:38:28,266 --> 00:38:29,400 He's calling my name, 804 00:38:30,266 --> 00:38:31,700 and I'm having a hard time breathing. 805 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,300 I just was really... 806 00:38:38,066 --> 00:38:39,767 I felt like I was high. [chuckles] 807 00:38:40,667 --> 00:38:42,367 Um, and everything was just like a blur. 808 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,500 [doctor speaking] 809 00:38:49,166 --> 00:38:52,266 [Tyray] But I finally got the surgery done, and I did it. 810 00:38:53,233 --> 00:38:55,000 This is a big step towards some of the goals 811 00:38:55,633 --> 00:38:56,400 that I want to accomplish. 812 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:03,867 But, yeah. 813 00:39:10,166 --> 00:39:12,266 ♪♪ 814 00:39:13,900 --> 00:39:16,367 OK, so it's day four. 815 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,000 I had surgery on Thursday. Right now it's Monday. 816 00:39:20,567 --> 00:39:21,567 I'm feeling pretty good. 817 00:39:22,500 --> 00:39:24,266 I was able to down an entire protein shake. 818 00:39:24,967 --> 00:39:27,100 Haven't had that much pain, um, 819 00:39:28,066 --> 00:39:29,166 other than, like, the gas pain occasionally. 820 00:39:30,100 --> 00:39:31,367 With the surgery, I know that the weight loss 821 00:39:31,934 --> 00:39:32,967 isn't gonna be instant, 822 00:39:33,967 --> 00:39:36,200 but the goal is to lose five pounds every week. 823 00:39:37,333 --> 00:39:39,266 So I really have to be strong and find the discipline 824 00:39:39,967 --> 00:39:41,467 to stick to this strict diet. 825 00:39:42,033 --> 00:39:43,166 My incisions are good. 826 00:39:44,033 --> 00:39:45,367 Looks good. I went and I changed them. 827 00:39:46,367 --> 00:39:48,400 I like made them extra secure. 828 00:39:49,266 --> 00:39:50,367 Yesterday we had a party for my niece. 829 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,467 She turned 13 and went over to my sister's house 830 00:39:54,300 --> 00:39:55,767 and everyone was eating and drinking. 831 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:57,967 I just sipped on my Gatorade all day. 832 00:39:58,533 --> 00:39:59,967 So yeah, it's not easy. 833 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,266 And, um...yeah, that's it. 834 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,767 ♪ Let that sunshine hit your face ♪ 835 00:40:07,934 --> 00:40:09,467 ♪ All we need is clear skies in the summertime, hey ♪ 836 00:40:11,066 --> 00:40:12,467 It fits! [chuckles] 837 00:40:12,734 --> 00:40:13,667 Yes! 838 00:40:14,066 --> 00:40:14,767 Oh, my God! 839 00:40:15,433 --> 00:40:16,100 When I first got this shirt, 840 00:40:16,734 --> 00:40:17,400 it was, like... [chuckles] 841 00:40:18,367 --> 00:40:20,367 stuffed on me -- I couldn't even breathe in it. 842 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:22,767 ♪ Keep that smile on your face... ♪ 843 00:40:24,066 --> 00:40:25,667 [Tyray] So it's been three months since my weight-loss surgery. 844 00:40:26,166 --> 00:40:27,166 How am I looking? 845 00:40:27,533 --> 00:40:28,667 [chuckles] 846 00:40:28,967 --> 00:40:30,266 Not yet. 847 00:40:31,100 --> 00:40:32,100 Still big, but they're getting there. 848 00:40:33,266 --> 00:40:35,567 Now I can fit it, and I fit really good. 849 00:40:36,166 --> 00:40:37,467 You know? Oh, my God! 850 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,400 I just feel so much better. It makes me feel...great. 851 00:40:42,367 --> 00:40:44,200 Man, I'm really emotional. 852 00:40:47,967 --> 00:40:51,200 I feel a lot more confident. I feel a lot more comfortable. 853 00:40:52,367 --> 00:40:53,567 I've been doing really good with the lifestyle changes, 854 00:40:54,533 --> 00:40:55,867 and I've been working out, going to the gym, 855 00:40:56,934 --> 00:40:59,367 and I'm officially down 80 pounds, which is amazing. 856 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:00,567 I feel great. 857 00:41:01,367 --> 00:41:02,467 I'm feeling like a whole new person. 858 00:41:03,433 --> 00:41:04,467 I'm still not exactly where I want to be at, 859 00:41:05,166 --> 00:41:06,266 but I know that it's a process, 860 00:41:07,133 --> 00:41:08,000 and I'm really happy with the progress 861 00:41:08,567 --> 00:41:09,200 that I've made so far. 862 00:41:10,166 --> 00:41:11,567 I feel like I'm finally in control of my life. 863 00:41:12,900 --> 00:41:15,900 And now it feels like the world is finally my oyster. 864 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,367 Oysters are good. [chuckles] 865 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:20,900 This is just the beginning, guys, so stay tuned. 866 00:41:21,700 --> 00:41:22,867 Yeah, I think it looks pretty good. 867 00:41:23,333 --> 00:41:24,900 [chuckles] Yes! 868 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,400 ♪ Coming with the sun rise ♪ 869 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,667 Go! 870 00:41:32,066 --> 00:41:34,467 [bleep] Agh! 871 00:41:35,133 --> 00:41:36,467 The bees are headbutting me. 872 00:41:36,734 --> 00:41:37,800 Ow! 873 00:41:38,900 --> 00:41:40,266 I'm not happy we're here. 874 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,700 No. Don't do-- 875 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,767 We try to put in his crib, but he ends up in our bed. 876 00:41:55,333 --> 00:41:56,867 [baby whining] Stop! 877 00:41:57,633 --> 00:41:59,367 -He's kicking us. -He's crying. 878 00:41:59,633 --> 00:42:00,867 Agh! 879 00:42:01,500 --> 00:42:02,300 And we can't be intimate. 880 00:42:03,367 --> 00:42:04,867 We really need to change our sleeping arrangements. 881 00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:08,400 I'm tired of not having a sex life. 882 00:42:13,867 --> 00:42:16,000 I would like it if you didn't have your stupid 883 00:42:16,867 --> 00:42:19,467 ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro. 884 00:42:20,500 --> 00:42:21,767 I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point. 885 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,600 For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola. 886 00:42:26,033 --> 00:42:29,500 You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo or hypersensitivity. 887 00:42:30,300 --> 00:42:31,867 There are a lot of risks that go into 888 00:42:32,533 --> 00:42:34,000 getting your boobs reducted. 889 00:42:34,700 --> 00:42:37,367 I could lose nipple sensation, 890 00:42:38,266 --> 00:42:40,100 have an ugly scar or maybe be lopsided. 891 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,300 Oh my God, I'm getting anxious. 892 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,667 I see this. Hmm. 893 00:42:46,100 --> 00:42:47,400 [phone ringing] 894 00:42:53,667 --> 00:42:55,867 I feel like Sied is completely withdrawing 895 00:42:56,500 --> 00:42:57,667 from me and this marriage. 896 00:42:58,734 --> 00:43:00,767 And, it just makes me really suspicious especially 897 00:43:01,633 --> 00:43:02,600 after finding him with another woman. 898 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,266 [music intensifies]