1 00:00:09,977 --> 00:00:11,111 - Good morning! - Hello! 2 00:00:11,211 --> 00:00:12,279 How you doing? 3 00:00:12,379 --> 00:00:13,647 Glad to be back in San Diego. 4 00:00:13,747 --> 00:00:14,948 We're gonna play racquetball. 5 00:00:16,283 --> 00:00:17,484 - Damn. - Yes! 6 00:00:17,584 --> 00:00:20,521 Ohh-- ahh! 7 00:00:22,689 --> 00:00:24,691 Here we go. Time to get ready. 8 00:00:24,791 --> 00:00:27,294 Today, I'm going on a date with Stephanie. 9 00:00:28,495 --> 00:00:29,396 - Yeah! - Ooh. 10 00:00:29,496 --> 00:00:31,098 I hope I don't blow it. 11 00:00:31,198 --> 00:00:32,366 I would love to worship you. 12 00:00:36,703 --> 00:00:38,839 A girl DMed me, and the DM reads... 13 00:00:45,512 --> 00:00:47,848 I'm... sick to my stomach. 14 00:00:49,950 --> 00:00:52,419 So, what's really holding you back 15 00:00:52,519 --> 00:00:53,720 from getting a divorce? 16 00:00:53,820 --> 00:00:54,888 You scared of this bitch? 17 00:00:54,988 --> 00:00:56,189 - Yes, I am, yes. - Oh, you a wuss? 18 00:00:56,290 --> 00:00:58,325 You just got to man up and deal with the fallout. 19 00:00:58,425 --> 00:01:01,028 I need to start this divorce process from Isabel, 20 00:01:01,128 --> 00:01:04,197 but I really don't know how she's gonna react. 21 00:01:04,298 --> 00:01:06,366 I believe she may make it difficult. 22 00:01:06,466 --> 00:01:07,768 I'm a little scared. 23 00:01:07,868 --> 00:01:10,504 So, if Isabel wants to fight this, 24 00:01:10,604 --> 00:01:11,872 is that possible? 25 00:01:11,972 --> 00:01:12,973 Yeah... 26 00:01:23,150 --> 00:01:25,752 Hey, you guys, what's up? I'm here in sunny San Diego. 27 00:01:26,987 --> 00:01:28,622 I'm gonna hang out with some of my peeps. 28 00:01:28,722 --> 00:01:30,824 It should be a good time. 29 00:01:30,924 --> 00:01:33,126 Hi, I'm Ed. I'm 60 years young. 30 00:01:33,226 --> 00:01:35,362 I'm from San Diego, 31 00:01:35,462 --> 00:01:37,664 but I recently moved back to Northwest Arkansas. 32 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:45,038 I'm back in San Diego for work. 33 00:01:45,138 --> 00:01:49,643 I'm launching my own wine brand, and I also want to catch up 34 00:01:49,743 --> 00:01:50,911 with some very important people. 35 00:01:52,679 --> 00:01:54,014 - Good morning! - Hello! 36 00:01:54,114 --> 00:01:55,482 - How you doing? - Eduardo! 37 00:01:55,582 --> 00:01:56,984 - How are you? - Hey, baby doll. 38 00:01:57,084 --> 00:01:58,652 You look great. It's so nice here. 39 00:01:58,752 --> 00:02:00,587 I'm actually sweating right now. 40 00:02:00,687 --> 00:02:02,456 Now, Jamal and I are bros, 41 00:02:02,556 --> 00:02:04,691 and then Kim and I, for a while, 42 00:02:04,791 --> 00:02:06,226 we were not friends, 43 00:02:06,326 --> 00:02:08,328 but now we're best buddies. I love Kim. 44 00:02:08,428 --> 00:02:11,398 - Glad to be back in San Diego. - Well, let's go outside. 45 00:02:11,498 --> 00:02:13,200 I got us some coffee and some croissants. 46 00:02:13,300 --> 00:02:14,434 - OK, yeah. - And I thought 47 00:02:14,534 --> 00:02:16,470 we could just go have a little sit-down outside. 48 00:02:16,570 --> 00:02:18,438 - You ready to go outside? - Yeah, let's go get naked. 49 00:02:18,538 --> 00:02:20,107 OK, I don't know about that. 50 00:02:20,207 --> 00:02:25,345 My 90 Day journey began when I met Rose on social media 51 00:02:25,445 --> 00:02:27,714 and I traveled to the Philippines to meet her. 52 00:02:28,882 --> 00:02:31,418 I can feed you coconut. Nice. 53 00:02:31,518 --> 00:02:33,120 Are you having a good time? 54 00:02:33,220 --> 00:02:34,588 Yeah, you like the room? 55 00:02:38,692 --> 00:02:41,728 Rose was beautiful, even more beautiful in person, 56 00:02:41,828 --> 00:02:45,165 but things went sour pretty quickly. 57 00:02:52,739 --> 00:02:55,742 This is a bit of a shock to me. I'm very shocked. 58 00:02:56,910 --> 00:02:59,112 After I came back from the Philippines, 59 00:02:59,212 --> 00:03:01,948 I was single for a while until I met Liz. 60 00:03:02,049 --> 00:03:03,917 She worked at a local restaurant, 61 00:03:04,017 --> 00:03:05,552 and we became friends. 62 00:03:05,652 --> 00:03:07,721 You're one of the hardest working people I've ever met. 63 00:03:07,821 --> 00:03:08,822 You make me feel lazy. 64 00:03:10,057 --> 00:03:11,425 I want to get to know you. 65 00:03:11,525 --> 00:03:14,795 We eventually became boyfriend and girlfriend, 66 00:03:14,895 --> 00:03:17,931 and Liz ended up asking me to marry her. 67 00:03:18,031 --> 00:03:20,033 Will you marry me? 68 00:03:20,133 --> 00:03:21,234 God. 69 00:03:21,334 --> 00:03:22,469 Oh, my God. 70 00:03:23,570 --> 00:03:25,238 Yes, I will marry you. 71 00:03:25,338 --> 00:03:26,606 Beautiful! 72 00:03:28,041 --> 00:03:29,176 Oh, God! 73 00:03:29,276 --> 00:03:31,011 Michael, they're getting married. 74 00:03:36,950 --> 00:03:39,519 I want you to know that I think I've been kind of 75 00:03:39,619 --> 00:03:41,555 just looking for an excuse... 76 00:03:41,655 --> 00:03:43,356 To call off the wedding? 77 00:03:45,025 --> 00:03:48,028 You know, don't you think that I should've known first? 78 00:03:49,563 --> 00:03:50,530 Yeah. 79 00:03:50,630 --> 00:03:52,532 I had to find out through your friend, Ed. 80 00:03:54,334 --> 00:03:55,335 I know. 81 00:03:56,970 --> 00:03:59,339 So, since Liz and I are no longer together, 82 00:03:59,439 --> 00:04:02,409 I want to get back into the dating scene. 83 00:04:02,509 --> 00:04:05,345 And there are some that I met that I want to try to pursue. 84 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:07,914 Cheers. Welcome. 85 00:04:08,014 --> 00:04:09,816 - Welcome to San Diego. - Welcome. 86 00:04:09,916 --> 00:04:11,251 - Thank you for having me. - Yeah. 87 00:04:11,351 --> 00:04:13,520 My name is Kim. I'm 55 years old, 88 00:04:13,620 --> 00:04:15,889 and I'm from San Diego, California. 89 00:04:15,989 --> 00:04:19,025 My 90 Day journey began when I met Usman, A.K.A. 90 00:04:19,126 --> 00:04:21,795 SojaBoy, on social media. 91 00:04:21,895 --> 00:04:26,066 ♪ Girl, I want you in my life ♪ 92 00:04:26,166 --> 00:04:30,771 ♪ Girl, I want you in my life ♪ 93 00:04:30,871 --> 00:04:32,172 I liked his charm. 94 00:04:32,272 --> 00:04:35,008 I liked his smile. I liked his style. 95 00:04:35,108 --> 00:04:39,146 And I liked his music. I was A.K.A. a super fan. 96 00:04:44,684 --> 00:04:46,219 - These are for you. - Oh, thank you. 97 00:04:46,319 --> 00:04:48,021 - Thank you. - Oh, my God. 98 00:04:48,121 --> 00:04:50,657 But we couldn't agree on anything. 99 00:04:50,757 --> 00:04:53,827 We just kept arguing. He wanted to have children. 100 00:04:53,927 --> 00:04:56,963 We couldn't agree on that, so I decided to just walk away. 101 00:04:58,064 --> 00:05:00,367 Tired of feeling like I'm not [bleep] enough. 102 00:05:04,538 --> 00:05:06,339 I'm done here. 103 00:05:06,439 --> 00:05:08,809 The last couple years, I started dating casually, 104 00:05:08,909 --> 00:05:10,010 but there was no spark. 105 00:05:10,110 --> 00:05:11,978 There was no-- it was just blah, 106 00:05:12,078 --> 00:05:14,381 until I met Wayne. 107 00:05:14,481 --> 00:05:17,217 I met Wayne about nine months ago on social media, 108 00:05:17,317 --> 00:05:20,587 and we have been talking, voice noting, 109 00:05:20,687 --> 00:05:22,823 calling each other every day since then. 110 00:05:22,923 --> 00:05:25,225 About two months ago, I traveled to England 111 00:05:25,325 --> 00:05:27,127 to meet Wayne for the first time. 112 00:05:30,096 --> 00:05:32,199 - Hi! - Oh, wow. 113 00:05:35,535 --> 00:05:37,971 - Oh, my God. It's crazy, right? - Yes. 114 00:05:38,071 --> 00:05:41,241 At the end of my trip, Wayne and I decided to keep dating, 115 00:05:41,341 --> 00:05:43,910 try this long-distance relationship out 116 00:05:44,010 --> 00:05:45,078 and see where it lands. 117 00:05:47,013 --> 00:05:49,182 - When was I here last? - Mm. 118 00:05:49,282 --> 00:05:51,251 - Six months ago, right? - Oh, my God, that long? 119 00:05:51,351 --> 00:05:53,053 Yeah, it's been that long. 120 00:05:53,153 --> 00:05:55,288 Ed and I are friends now. 121 00:05:55,388 --> 00:05:57,757 It has not always been this way because I thought 122 00:05:57,858 --> 00:05:59,426 he was a dick. 123 00:06:01,528 --> 00:06:03,430 You seem to think that your [bleep] doesn't stink. 124 00:06:03,530 --> 00:06:06,032 - Oh, no, my [bleep] stinks, believe me. - Well, why don't you own it? 125 00:06:06,132 --> 00:06:07,901 - I do own it. - And you're so quick to judge me. 126 00:06:08,001 --> 00:06:09,903 - I hope-- - I'm not no bitch. I'm not no little punk. 127 00:06:10,003 --> 00:06:11,738 I'm gonna own my [bleep]. 128 00:06:11,838 --> 00:06:15,375 But Jamal just decided to bring Ed over my house 129 00:06:15,475 --> 00:06:17,077 and make us squash the beef. 130 00:06:17,177 --> 00:06:19,279 He apologized. I apologized. 131 00:06:19,379 --> 00:06:21,781 And I discovered he's a very genuine person. 132 00:06:21,882 --> 00:06:23,783 He's got a very good heart. 133 00:06:23,884 --> 00:06:26,786 And if I need somebody to talk to, I can call him. 134 00:06:26,887 --> 00:06:29,623 - Hi, Big Daddy. - What's going on, sweetheart? 135 00:06:29,723 --> 00:06:31,725 - I love you. - I love you, too. 136 00:06:31,825 --> 00:06:33,693 - God bless you. - All right. 137 00:06:33,793 --> 00:06:34,928 I mean, he's really turned out 138 00:06:35,028 --> 00:06:36,630 to be somebody that's in my corner. 139 00:06:37,664 --> 00:06:39,266 What are you doing for Valentine's Day? 140 00:06:45,605 --> 00:06:46,606 Oh, cool. 141 00:06:48,341 --> 00:06:49,376 - Um... - Ed. 142 00:06:49,476 --> 00:06:50,644 What? 143 00:06:50,744 --> 00:06:52,612 - With clothes. - Oh. 144 00:06:52,712 --> 00:06:55,548 I'm really excited for this video chat with Wayne. 145 00:06:55,649 --> 00:06:58,385 I don't even know the last time I've had a Valentine. 146 00:06:58,485 --> 00:07:00,954 It's probably been years and years and years and years. 147 00:07:01,054 --> 00:07:03,156 And it does give me butterflies in my stomach. 148 00:07:03,256 --> 00:07:04,858 The spark is definitely there. 149 00:07:04,958 --> 00:07:06,593 And I'm just excited to see my man. 150 00:07:09,562 --> 00:07:11,731 - OK, so I need some advice. - Is that why you came over here? 151 00:07:13,566 --> 00:07:16,169 I met a girl out here about a year ago, 152 00:07:16,269 --> 00:07:18,004 and I've never forgot about her. 153 00:07:18,104 --> 00:07:19,606 So I met Stephanie about a year ago 154 00:07:19,706 --> 00:07:22,642 in San Diego one time at my friend's restaurant. 155 00:07:22,742 --> 00:07:24,978 So I don't even know if she's gonna remember me. 156 00:07:25,078 --> 00:07:26,346 But I've never forgot about her. 157 00:07:26,446 --> 00:07:28,114 I think about her all the time. 158 00:07:28,214 --> 00:07:32,118 She is a four-alarm fire. 159 00:07:32,218 --> 00:07:34,020 She kind of reminds me of a supermodel. 160 00:07:37,023 --> 00:07:38,024 Yeah. 161 00:07:41,161 --> 00:07:42,228 - OK. - And I don't know 162 00:07:42,329 --> 00:07:44,698 if I should be Big Ed or just Ed. 163 00:07:44,798 --> 00:07:45,932 Ed, I think you should do 164 00:07:46,032 --> 00:07:48,201 something really romantic and cute. 165 00:07:48,301 --> 00:07:50,036 Not over-the-top, because, you know, 166 00:07:50,136 --> 00:07:52,439 sometimes the things you do are over-the-top. 167 00:07:52,539 --> 00:07:53,807 - Yeah. - For example? 168 00:07:53,907 --> 00:07:55,875 - I'm kidding. - Um, let me see. 169 00:07:55,976 --> 00:07:57,477 Walking around with a sombrero. 170 00:07:57,577 --> 00:08:01,314 Getting naked in a jacuzzi with your little round self. 171 00:08:03,183 --> 00:08:04,718 Oh. 172 00:08:04,818 --> 00:08:06,920 And dressing up in these crazy costumes. 173 00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:08,888 Prrrr. 174 00:08:08,989 --> 00:08:10,590 I think you should go big, but I think it should 175 00:08:10,690 --> 00:08:11,758 be classic. - Go big or go home. 176 00:08:11,858 --> 00:08:13,026 - Go big or go home. - Yeah. 177 00:08:13,126 --> 00:08:15,462 But it should be classy big, like three dozen roses 178 00:08:15,562 --> 00:08:17,397 or, you know, something classy. 179 00:08:17,497 --> 00:08:19,299 You know, read her a poem or something, you know? 180 00:08:21,101 --> 00:08:24,504 Kim thinks I should do a romantic gesture, 181 00:08:24,604 --> 00:08:26,940 you know, something not too forward. 182 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,542 But I think I need to do something kind of over-the-top, 183 00:08:29,642 --> 00:08:31,478 because that really is who I am. 184 00:08:31,578 --> 00:08:34,347 They don't call me Big Ed for nothing, as you can imagine. 185 00:08:35,582 --> 00:08:38,485 Your gesture should be sweet and romantic. 186 00:08:38,585 --> 00:08:40,920 Sweet... and romantic. 187 00:08:48,762 --> 00:08:50,430 OK, you guys, tonight's the night. 188 00:08:50,530 --> 00:08:52,399 I'm going to the restaurant to meet Stephanie. 189 00:08:52,499 --> 00:08:55,035 I'm a little bit nervous, but it's gonna be awesome. 190 00:08:56,302 --> 00:08:58,605 I'm gonna go ahead and get ready, so let's do it. 191 00:08:58,705 --> 00:09:03,076 I got some input from Kim on how I should ask Stephanie out, 192 00:09:03,176 --> 00:09:05,145 and she's like, "Be romantic. 193 00:09:05,245 --> 00:09:08,281 You know, write her a poem." I thought about that for 194 00:09:08,381 --> 00:09:11,384 about a second and said, "I'm gonna be Big Ed. 195 00:09:11,484 --> 00:09:13,520 I'm going to be me." For me, it's like, 196 00:09:13,620 --> 00:09:14,621 go big or go home. 197 00:09:15,722 --> 00:09:17,657 Here we go. Time to get ready. 198 00:09:18,825 --> 00:09:19,826 OK, this is the look. 199 00:09:20,927 --> 00:09:22,228 My friends, this is 200 00:09:23,263 --> 00:09:25,532 the outfit of the century. 201 00:09:25,632 --> 00:09:28,068 I kind of went with a Roman Cupid theme, 202 00:09:28,168 --> 00:09:31,137 but I got my headdress. I got my bow and arrow. 203 00:09:31,237 --> 00:09:33,973 I even got my sandals, which will probably take me 204 00:09:34,074 --> 00:09:36,376 a lot longer than anticipated. So let's get dressed. 205 00:09:37,744 --> 00:09:40,180 I'm sure Stephanie has millions of guys trying to 206 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,582 get her attention. I have to be different. 207 00:09:42,682 --> 00:09:46,119 I have to show up in the funniest, amazing costume, 208 00:09:46,219 --> 00:09:49,389 so I'm dressing up as a Roman Cupid, 209 00:09:49,489 --> 00:09:51,224 complete with a bow and arrow. 210 00:09:51,324 --> 00:09:53,226 OK, I think I look 211 00:09:54,394 --> 00:09:55,895 somewhat like the God of love. 212 00:09:57,163 --> 00:09:58,731 OK, let's go find some love. 213 00:10:01,201 --> 00:10:02,202 OK, let's go. 214 00:10:08,408 --> 00:10:10,343 - Hi, honey. - Look at me, look at this. 215 00:10:10,443 --> 00:10:12,445 Look at the, hey, look, Kim, look at this. 216 00:10:12,545 --> 00:10:15,048 Oh, my. Why are you wearing that? 217 00:10:15,148 --> 00:10:16,516 We didn't talk about that. 218 00:10:16,616 --> 00:10:19,552 So, I told you I wanted to do a romantic gesture. 219 00:10:19,652 --> 00:10:20,887 What do you think? 220 00:10:20,987 --> 00:10:24,190 I'm dressed up like a Roman god of love. 221 00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:26,092 Oh, my goodness. 222 00:10:26,192 --> 00:10:27,393 Ed, what is wrong with you? 223 00:10:27,494 --> 00:10:29,295 She's gonna be horrified. 224 00:10:29,395 --> 00:10:32,665 But I am not one to knock down Ed's confidence. 225 00:10:32,765 --> 00:10:36,069 If this is what he wants to do, brother, go for it. 226 00:10:36,169 --> 00:10:37,637 But ugh, I'm a little scared. 227 00:10:37,737 --> 00:10:38,705 I love you. 228 00:10:38,805 --> 00:10:39,839 I'll let you know how it turns out. 229 00:10:39,939 --> 00:10:40,940 All right. Love you. 230 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,609 OK. Love you. 231 00:10:42,709 --> 00:10:43,743 - Bye. - Besos. 232 00:10:43,843 --> 00:10:44,844 Bye-bye. 233 00:10:47,747 --> 00:10:50,984 OK, guys, I'm dressed up like a Roman Cupid. 234 00:10:51,084 --> 00:10:53,553 Here we go. I don't have any flowers, so... 235 00:10:53,653 --> 00:10:54,854 Oh, wait, here's one right here. 236 00:10:54,954 --> 00:10:56,990 Oh, my God, look. You guys, I found it. 237 00:10:57,090 --> 00:10:58,591 I have a flower. OK, here we go. 238 00:10:58,691 --> 00:11:00,293 I'm gonna go into this restaurant. 239 00:11:00,393 --> 00:11:01,427 I'm gonna make a fool of myself. 240 00:11:01,528 --> 00:11:03,696 I don't care. OK, where is she at? 241 00:11:05,031 --> 00:11:06,032 Where's love? 242 00:11:10,170 --> 00:11:11,471 Hello. 243 00:11:11,571 --> 00:11:13,373 How are you doing? 244 00:11:13,473 --> 00:11:15,141 I'm good. I'm Mr. Love. 245 00:11:16,409 --> 00:11:17,777 Oh, where'd you go? 246 00:11:17,877 --> 00:11:19,579 Yeah, I bought you a rose. 247 00:11:21,314 --> 00:11:22,982 Yes. 248 00:11:23,082 --> 00:11:24,083 And a bow and arrow. 249 00:11:25,185 --> 00:11:27,053 Actually, um... 250 00:11:27,153 --> 00:11:28,154 I met you before. 251 00:11:32,158 --> 00:11:33,493 At your other restaurant. 252 00:11:37,197 --> 00:11:38,231 I think. 253 00:11:38,331 --> 00:11:39,332 - Mm hmm. - I think-- 254 00:11:41,568 --> 00:11:42,569 Yeah. 255 00:11:43,903 --> 00:11:45,104 Not-- not like this. 256 00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:46,472 I don't normally dress like this. 257 00:11:48,041 --> 00:11:49,042 I was, yeah. 258 00:11:51,678 --> 00:11:52,845 - Yeah, we'll get rid of this. - Yeah. 259 00:11:55,748 --> 00:11:57,951 Oh my God, you're gonna pour me a glass of wine? 260 00:11:58,051 --> 00:12:00,653 Yeah, it's bad luck to pour your own wine. 261 00:12:00,753 --> 00:12:02,622 - I never knew that. - Yeah. 262 00:12:02,722 --> 00:12:03,823 Oh my God. 263 00:12:05,058 --> 00:12:06,059 Nice to meet you. 264 00:12:07,860 --> 00:12:08,928 A chance meeting. 265 00:12:10,830 --> 00:12:11,831 Stephanie. 266 00:12:11,931 --> 00:12:15,301 She's actually more beautiful than I remember. 267 00:12:15,401 --> 00:12:18,638 Now I'm feeling like, "Was this really a good idea? 268 00:12:18,738 --> 00:12:22,408 Am I going too far?" And I'm nervous. 269 00:12:22,508 --> 00:12:23,509 Shoo. 270 00:12:24,744 --> 00:12:26,980 If you're open, I would love to see you tomorrow. 271 00:12:31,384 --> 00:12:32,385 Um... 272 00:12:40,026 --> 00:12:41,227 ♪ I don't want to be your crush ♪ 273 00:12:41,327 --> 00:12:42,762 ♪ I don't want to be too much ♪ 274 00:12:42,862 --> 00:12:46,165 ♪ I don't want to say I just want your hand all over me ♪ 275 00:12:46,266 --> 00:12:47,967 Hey, bitch, hey! 276 00:12:48,067 --> 00:12:50,670 I have so much tea, I've got to tell you. 277 00:12:50,770 --> 00:12:51,771 Oh, my God. 278 00:12:57,710 --> 00:12:59,646 I'm Elise. I'm 33 years old, 279 00:12:59,746 --> 00:13:01,080 and I'm from Miami Beach, Florida. 280 00:13:02,248 --> 00:13:04,550 This is your vodka on vodka. 281 00:13:04,651 --> 00:13:06,252 - Thank you for the vodka. - You're welcome. 282 00:13:06,352 --> 00:13:08,354 I feel like I haven't seen you in forever. 283 00:13:08,454 --> 00:13:09,989 I feel like my life is just like... 284 00:13:10,089 --> 00:13:11,291 "lifing," you know? 285 00:13:11,391 --> 00:13:14,093 My 90 Day journey began when I decided that 286 00:13:14,193 --> 00:13:17,430 I needed a lot of help in the dating world, 287 00:13:17,530 --> 00:13:20,266 considering I've been proposed to five times, 288 00:13:20,366 --> 00:13:23,503 engaged three times, and walked down the aisle 289 00:13:23,603 --> 00:13:25,038 zero times. 290 00:13:25,138 --> 00:13:28,308 So I decided to go to a singles retreat in Mexico. 291 00:13:28,408 --> 00:13:31,411 - Cheers. - Cheers to love. 292 00:13:31,511 --> 00:13:33,880 Cheers to Tulum and to love. 293 00:13:33,980 --> 00:13:36,783 After a few failed connections, I met Carlo, 294 00:13:36,883 --> 00:13:38,551 and I thought he was super cute, 295 00:13:38,651 --> 00:13:40,520 and he definitely made me laugh a lot. 296 00:13:42,188 --> 00:13:44,624 And I developed really strong feelings for him. 297 00:13:44,724 --> 00:13:47,060 Things were going really good between us, so I decided 298 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,995 to leave the resort with him. 299 00:13:49,095 --> 00:13:51,998 - I offer you... - It's the bet! 300 00:13:53,566 --> 00:13:54,767 I thought he was about to propose. 301 00:13:59,305 --> 00:14:00,306 Yes. 302 00:14:00,406 --> 00:14:01,541 Yes. 303 00:14:05,878 --> 00:14:07,313 And we did try to make it work. 304 00:14:07,413 --> 00:14:10,850 I mean, he visited me in Miami, I visited him in L.A., 305 00:14:10,950 --> 00:14:13,786 but it turned out to be just another failed relationship 306 00:14:13,886 --> 00:14:16,155 because he was so controlling. 307 00:14:16,255 --> 00:14:18,091 After I broke things off with Carlo, 308 00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:22,095 the sexiest Australian man, Josh, slid in my DMs. 309 00:14:22,195 --> 00:14:24,397 I was like, "Holy [bleep]." 310 00:14:24,497 --> 00:14:26,466 He's tall, he's adventurous, 311 00:14:26,566 --> 00:14:29,235 he's sweet, he's sincere, that accent. 312 00:14:29,335 --> 00:14:31,537 I was like, "OK, give me some of that." 313 00:14:31,637 --> 00:14:34,941 So I went to Australia to see if we can continue our relationship 314 00:14:35,041 --> 00:14:36,476 and make it serious. 315 00:14:39,412 --> 00:14:40,413 Oh, my God. 316 00:14:41,414 --> 00:14:43,182 Oh. 317 00:14:43,282 --> 00:14:45,651 - You're sexy. - So are you. 318 00:14:45,752 --> 00:14:47,353 Don't leave my side. 319 00:14:47,453 --> 00:14:51,491 But when I got to Australia, I found some unsavory things 320 00:14:51,591 --> 00:14:52,592 about Josh. 321 00:14:52,692 --> 00:14:54,660 Like, he didn't have a job. 322 00:14:54,761 --> 00:14:57,663 He told me that he was living with his parents, when in fact, 323 00:14:57,764 --> 00:14:59,632 he was living with a girl. 324 00:14:59,732 --> 00:15:03,436 All his lies just kept unraveling, and I did not want 325 00:15:03,536 --> 00:15:05,905 to be caught up in that mess. 326 00:15:06,005 --> 00:15:07,440 I'm falling for you. 327 00:15:07,540 --> 00:15:09,976 I care about you more than you ever know. 328 00:15:10,076 --> 00:15:14,147 I wanted it to work, but I think I'm gonna be settling, 329 00:15:14,247 --> 00:15:16,249 and, like, it's not gonna work out. 330 00:15:18,851 --> 00:15:23,256 Josh was persistent on not letting me go. 331 00:15:23,356 --> 00:15:27,260 So three weeks after I left Australia, Josh came to Miami, 332 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,695 and we got back in a relationship. 333 00:15:29,796 --> 00:15:31,831 It was truly the best time of my life. 334 00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:35,134 - Unconditional love. - That's what you said today. 335 00:15:36,936 --> 00:15:38,905 Then at the Tell All, he told everyone 336 00:15:39,005 --> 00:15:42,408 that he was going to buy me a ticket to go to Australia. 337 00:15:42,508 --> 00:15:44,844 Josh, tell him what you just did the other day. 338 00:15:44,944 --> 00:15:47,580 Um, bought you a ticket to Australia? 339 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,450 So he bought me a ticket to Australia, like one-way. 340 00:15:50,550 --> 00:15:52,919 Are you actually coming over here to stay permanently with Josh? 341 00:15:55,588 --> 00:15:57,156 - Oh, absolutely. - Like, that's the plan. 342 00:15:58,357 --> 00:16:01,761 So, in a week, I'll be flying back to Australia, 343 00:16:01,861 --> 00:16:04,297 and there's something happening in Australia that, like, 344 00:16:04,397 --> 00:16:06,499 could take us to the next level. 345 00:16:06,599 --> 00:16:08,835 - My parents and Josh have not met yet. - OK. 346 00:16:08,935 --> 00:16:10,837 But when I go to Australia. 347 00:16:10,937 --> 00:16:12,805 My parents, ironically, will be there 348 00:16:12,905 --> 00:16:14,941 because they're on a world cruise right now. 349 00:16:15,041 --> 00:16:18,144 So my parents are gonna meet Josh while I'm in Australia. 350 00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:23,249 - Yeah, they don't like him at all. - Mm-hmm. 351 00:16:23,349 --> 00:16:26,152 But my hope is for my parents and Josh to get along 352 00:16:26,252 --> 00:16:27,587 and my parents to like Josh. 353 00:16:27,687 --> 00:16:29,889 But my parents have high expectations of me 354 00:16:29,989 --> 00:16:31,424 because of, like, my past record. 355 00:16:32,492 --> 00:16:34,160 But, like, I'm 33 now, and, like, 356 00:16:34,260 --> 00:16:36,829 I want to get married, and I want to have kids. 357 00:16:36,929 --> 00:16:39,365 And, like, I understand he's made some mistakes. 358 00:16:39,465 --> 00:16:42,468 He's not perfect, and as I'm getting older, 359 00:16:42,568 --> 00:16:45,204 my boxes aren't gonna get completely checked by anyone, 360 00:16:45,304 --> 00:16:47,940 you know? - No, totally, and I agree. 361 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:49,942 I mean, in our 30s, it's not easy to find 362 00:16:50,042 --> 00:16:51,544 the right person. - No. 363 00:16:51,644 --> 00:16:54,580 But you also-- it's important to see how people rise above 364 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,517 their mistakes and how they work through them and if they become 365 00:16:57,617 --> 00:16:59,485 a better person after them. - Right. 366 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:03,022 Since the last time I was in Australia, 367 00:17:03,122 --> 00:17:05,191 Josh has really grown and changed. 368 00:17:05,291 --> 00:17:06,826 Josh has got a new job. 369 00:17:06,926 --> 00:17:09,362 He's moving into a new place. 370 00:17:09,462 --> 00:17:12,031 He's even sharing his location with me again, 371 00:17:12,131 --> 00:17:14,834 so I know he's not out there [bleep] around. 372 00:17:14,934 --> 00:17:18,538 The chemistry with Josh and I, like, it's just undeniable. 373 00:17:18,638 --> 00:17:20,706 It feels like he's my missing puzzle piece. 374 00:17:20,806 --> 00:17:22,775 And the love I have for him, I just... 375 00:17:22,875 --> 00:17:24,110 I have to go with my heart. 376 00:17:40,059 --> 00:17:44,530 So last night, I found out something absolutely horrible. 377 00:17:44,630 --> 00:17:47,733 Josh called me, and we were talking about getting married, 378 00:17:47,833 --> 00:17:51,337 having kids, and me going to Australia in a few days. 379 00:17:51,437 --> 00:17:54,240 And I woke up to his location completely turned off. 380 00:17:55,341 --> 00:17:56,909 And then, like, nine hours later, 381 00:17:57,009 --> 00:18:01,514 he calls me off his mom's phone and told me his phone broke. 382 00:18:01,614 --> 00:18:03,115 His phone is not broken at all. 383 00:18:03,215 --> 00:18:05,284 And matter of fact, when I see his phone, 384 00:18:05,384 --> 00:18:09,055 I see messages from three different girls in his messages. 385 00:18:09,155 --> 00:18:11,357 I asked to see it. He instantly hangs up. 386 00:18:15,161 --> 00:18:18,297 A girl DMed me, and the DM reads... 387 00:18:30,276 --> 00:18:33,779 I cannot believe that he would cheat on me. 388 00:18:33,879 --> 00:18:36,115 I was literally about to get on that 389 00:18:36,215 --> 00:18:37,583 [bleep] flight to Australia. 390 00:18:40,086 --> 00:18:41,854 I ended things and I'm-- I'm... 391 00:18:43,055 --> 00:18:45,958 really... sick to my stomach. 392 00:18:55,635 --> 00:19:00,640 ♪ All the girls just wanna have some fun ♪ 393 00:19:00,740 --> 00:19:04,143 Somehow, someway, I made it outside, 394 00:19:04,243 --> 00:19:06,479 freezing in Miami right now, 395 00:19:06,579 --> 00:19:08,481 but I'm excited to see Yuliya 396 00:19:08,581 --> 00:19:10,650 because she always talks some sense into me. 397 00:19:10,750 --> 00:19:14,186 And honestly, I need her to, like, get me back to reality. 398 00:19:14,286 --> 00:19:16,789 - Hi, Yuliya. - Nice to see you. 399 00:19:16,889 --> 00:19:18,457 Oh! 400 00:19:22,628 --> 00:19:23,629 Hi. 401 00:19:27,900 --> 00:19:29,068 Me too. 402 00:19:32,071 --> 00:19:33,673 Let's do the vibration plates. 403 00:19:33,773 --> 00:19:37,610 - I know, I love this thing. - They're the [bleep] best. 404 00:19:37,710 --> 00:19:39,712 Here we go, here we go-- hey, hey. 405 00:19:39,812 --> 00:19:41,280 Ohh-- ahh! 406 00:19:46,152 --> 00:19:48,688 Do you think this is shaking the fat off us too? 407 00:19:48,788 --> 00:19:50,056 No. 408 00:19:50,156 --> 00:19:53,225 I think it's shaking like all the trauma. 409 00:19:53,325 --> 00:19:55,594 I hope all of Josh leaves my body. 410 00:19:55,695 --> 00:19:57,029 I know. 411 00:19:57,129 --> 00:19:58,898 What the worst part about all this is, 412 00:19:58,998 --> 00:20:00,833 is once I found out he cheated on me, 413 00:20:00,933 --> 00:20:02,468 he didn't try and fight for me back. 414 00:20:02,568 --> 00:20:04,470 I just flew around the world for this guy, 415 00:20:04,570 --> 00:20:06,706 and he came to Miami, he lived with me for three weeks. - Yeah. 416 00:20:06,806 --> 00:20:09,041 - And I spent my money on him. - Yeah. 417 00:20:09,141 --> 00:20:11,110 - Here we go. - He didn't drop a dime. 418 00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:13,279 I honestly hated Josh from the beginning because 419 00:20:13,379 --> 00:20:15,581 of his lack of communication. 420 00:20:15,681 --> 00:20:19,118 And I just want to make sure that Elise recovers from this, 421 00:20:19,218 --> 00:20:22,455 and she can find somebody 10 times better. 422 00:21:04,163 --> 00:21:05,965 Yuliya is right, and moving forward, 423 00:21:06,065 --> 00:21:08,901 I'm gonna start approaching things very differently. 424 00:21:09,001 --> 00:21:11,303 The Elise Era starts now. 425 00:21:11,403 --> 00:21:15,040 Self-aware, happy, motivated, loves herself, 426 00:21:15,141 --> 00:21:17,710 doesn't put up with douchebags, doesn't put up with losers, 427 00:21:17,810 --> 00:21:21,714 doesn't put up with cheaters, poor guys, nothing. 428 00:21:21,814 --> 00:21:24,717 I am ready to find my Mr. Right. 429 00:21:24,817 --> 00:21:26,185 So if you're watching this, 430 00:21:26,285 --> 00:21:27,686 hit me up. Just kidding. 431 00:21:30,823 --> 00:21:32,424 - I love y'all. - Thank you for everything. 432 00:21:32,525 --> 00:21:33,559 I love you a lot. 433 00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:36,028 Just remember, this is a new beginning. 434 00:21:36,128 --> 00:21:37,163 - Period. - Period. 435 00:21:37,263 --> 00:21:38,664 I'm gonna learn. Better than ever. 436 00:21:53,045 --> 00:21:55,214 ♪ Yada, yada, yada, everybody wanna ♪ 437 00:21:55,314 --> 00:21:56,949 ♪ Everybody wants a piece of this ♪ 438 00:21:57,049 --> 00:21:58,951 ♪ You can't resist my name on the lips ♪ 439 00:21:59,051 --> 00:22:00,886 ♪ Yada, yada, yada, everybody wanna ♪ 440 00:22:02,922 --> 00:22:05,257 I'm in San Diego for a couple days. 441 00:22:05,357 --> 00:22:06,358 I would love... 442 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,528 If you're open, I would love to see you tomorrow. 443 00:22:11,964 --> 00:22:13,933 I haven't seen Stephanie in over a year, 444 00:22:14,033 --> 00:22:16,268 but I have not stopped thinking about her. 445 00:22:16,368 --> 00:22:18,003 So I decided to ask her out. 446 00:22:18,103 --> 00:22:20,472 But I don't know if she's gonna say yes or not. 447 00:22:20,573 --> 00:22:23,108 She might think I'm too silly. 448 00:22:23,209 --> 00:22:24,810 Maybe she thinks I'm an idiot, 449 00:22:24,910 --> 00:22:27,847 or she thinks I'm not attractive and she'll run, or she'll leave. 450 00:22:30,282 --> 00:22:31,283 Um... 451 00:22:38,357 --> 00:22:40,159 Really? 452 00:22:40,259 --> 00:22:41,427 Yeah. 453 00:22:41,527 --> 00:22:44,430 Ed, when I first saw him, I thought he was kind of like 454 00:22:44,530 --> 00:22:48,734 a comedian, like a little bit of a joke, not in a mean way, 455 00:22:48,834 --> 00:22:52,404 but he really turned out to really, like, win me over 456 00:22:52,504 --> 00:22:56,442 with his words and his, like, charismatic charm. 457 00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:58,611 I think there's something here for sure. 458 00:22:58,711 --> 00:23:01,146 It's so nice to meet you. Oh my god, thank you. 459 00:23:01,247 --> 00:23:02,982 OK, I better go. 460 00:23:03,082 --> 00:23:05,851 I gotta go make other people fall in love. 461 00:23:05,951 --> 00:23:08,087 Until tomorrow. Oh, my gosh. 462 00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:11,957 Oh, my God. I just shot my arrow. 463 00:23:12,057 --> 00:23:13,626 Pew. 464 00:23:13,726 --> 00:23:14,994 And it hit her right in the heart. 465 00:23:15,094 --> 00:23:16,629 She said, "Yes." 466 00:23:16,729 --> 00:23:19,899 I just have to hope for the best and leave it in God's hands 467 00:23:19,999 --> 00:23:21,000 and Cupid's hands. 468 00:23:22,434 --> 00:23:23,435 Ooh. 469 00:23:24,570 --> 00:23:25,571 Happy Valentine's Day. 470 00:23:33,545 --> 00:23:35,281 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 471 00:23:35,381 --> 00:23:36,749 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 472 00:23:39,551 --> 00:23:42,187 OK, guys. Today is the big day. 473 00:23:42,288 --> 00:23:46,592 It is my Valentine's video chat with my Valentine, Wayne. 474 00:23:48,827 --> 00:23:50,596 I'm starting to sweat now. 475 00:23:50,696 --> 00:23:53,365 I'm a little nervous because my last 476 00:23:53,465 --> 00:23:56,535 long-distance relationship gave me a lot of PTSD 477 00:23:56,635 --> 00:23:58,404 as far as, like, trust issues. 478 00:23:58,504 --> 00:24:01,540 All right, let me go call Wayne. 479 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,777 And when I left England, Wayne invited me back, 480 00:24:04,877 --> 00:24:07,980 but he hasn't said anything about it lately. 481 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,250 So am I coming back to England? Are we pursuing a relationship? 482 00:24:11,350 --> 00:24:14,219 Like, what is going on? I really hope this goes well. 483 00:24:19,959 --> 00:24:22,761 - Well, hello. Happy Valentine's Day. - Hello. 484 00:24:22,861 --> 00:24:25,297 Happy Valentine's Day. How are you today? 485 00:24:25,397 --> 00:24:26,799 I'm good. I'm good. 486 00:24:26,899 --> 00:24:29,101 Look at you just laying on the bed. 487 00:24:29,201 --> 00:24:32,037 - Do you like the outfit? - Yes, yes. 488 00:24:32,137 --> 00:24:34,039 - Is that your pajamas? - Cute, right? 489 00:24:34,139 --> 00:24:35,307 Yeah, I got heart ones and I'm wearing 490 00:24:35,407 --> 00:24:36,875 my little heart necklace too. 491 00:24:36,976 --> 00:24:38,877 And I have the champagne you sent. 492 00:24:40,179 --> 00:24:41,714 Cheers. Happy Valentine's Day. 493 00:24:41,814 --> 00:24:42,815 Happy Valentine's. 494 00:24:44,183 --> 00:24:45,150 Whoo! 495 00:24:45,250 --> 00:24:47,553 My man is in here looking sexy as hell. 496 00:24:47,653 --> 00:24:50,389 I wish I was there, and I could just jump in bed with him 497 00:24:50,489 --> 00:24:52,391 and mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, all over the place. 498 00:24:54,827 --> 00:24:56,428 I have to tell you what I call you here, 499 00:24:56,528 --> 00:24:59,164 and I hope you don't get mad. I say it all the time. 500 00:24:59,264 --> 00:25:00,499 What do you call me? 501 00:25:00,599 --> 00:25:02,267 I call you my little English muffin. 502 00:25:04,003 --> 00:25:05,871 They're like, "No, you have to call him like a crumpet." 503 00:25:05,971 --> 00:25:08,240 I'm like, "No, he's my little English muffin." 504 00:25:08,340 --> 00:25:09,508 Not little. I don't mean little. 505 00:25:09,608 --> 00:25:10,676 I mean you're my English muffin. 506 00:25:10,776 --> 00:25:11,777 That's what I call you. 507 00:25:14,213 --> 00:25:15,314 So, but I miss you, though. 508 00:25:18,951 --> 00:25:19,952 Yeah, I miss you too, 509 00:25:21,387 --> 00:25:24,123 so I know we're gonna have to make arrangements. 510 00:25:24,223 --> 00:25:25,457 I think you should come and visit me again. 511 00:25:28,360 --> 00:25:29,561 My birthday's next month. 512 00:25:29,661 --> 00:25:31,964 We should just... What do you think? 513 00:25:32,064 --> 00:25:33,532 Yeah, you can come here for your birthday. 514 00:25:38,570 --> 00:25:39,671 Yeah. 515 00:25:42,674 --> 00:25:44,176 OK. 516 00:25:44,276 --> 00:25:46,278 You can have this side of the bed. 517 00:25:46,378 --> 00:25:48,480 But I don't wear any pajamas, though. 518 00:25:48,580 --> 00:25:50,682 - I might have to buy some. - No, you're fine. 519 00:25:50,783 --> 00:25:52,284 You can sleep naked. Be yourself. 520 00:25:52,384 --> 00:25:53,919 Be your authentic self. 521 00:25:54,019 --> 00:25:55,320 My face is red. 522 00:25:56,522 --> 00:25:57,723 You're blushing. 523 00:25:57,823 --> 00:26:01,927 It's so nice that I know that Wayne misses me, 524 00:26:02,027 --> 00:26:04,663 and he wants me to come visit him in England. 525 00:26:04,763 --> 00:26:07,566 I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my chest. 526 00:26:07,666 --> 00:26:10,035 It makes me feel super confident that I know 527 00:26:10,135 --> 00:26:11,837 where this relationship is going, 528 00:26:11,937 --> 00:26:14,373 and I can't get to England fast enough. 529 00:26:14,473 --> 00:26:16,241 All right, Imma look at some plane tickets. 530 00:26:16,341 --> 00:26:19,178 - All right, happy Valentine's. - I'll see you soon, OK? 531 00:26:19,278 --> 00:26:20,846 - See you later. - All right, bye. 532 00:26:25,617 --> 00:26:26,618 ♪ Oh ♪ 533 00:26:28,053 --> 00:26:30,956 I think I found the spot. Let's go check it out. 534 00:26:31,056 --> 00:26:31,957 Yeah. 535 00:26:32,057 --> 00:26:33,225 Go ahead and show you guys the view. 536 00:26:33,325 --> 00:26:35,094 Here we go. 537 00:26:35,194 --> 00:26:37,429 Hey, hey, I like the view. 538 00:26:37,529 --> 00:26:39,131 I hope she likes the view too. 539 00:26:39,231 --> 00:26:42,367 Today, I'm going on a date with Stephanie. 540 00:26:42,468 --> 00:26:45,070 Stephanie has been running through my mind since the day 541 00:26:45,170 --> 00:26:46,939 I met her, which was about a year ago. 542 00:26:47,039 --> 00:26:50,576 I asked her out. I didn't expect her to say yes. 543 00:26:50,676 --> 00:26:53,245 And now that she said yes, I have a hundred things running 544 00:26:53,345 --> 00:26:54,646 through my mind. Like, what are we gonna do? 545 00:26:54,746 --> 00:26:56,548 What am I gonna say? 546 00:26:56,648 --> 00:26:58,617 Kind of get everything all set up. 547 00:26:58,717 --> 00:27:00,853 She's definitely out of my league, for sure. 548 00:27:00,953 --> 00:27:04,022 So, the worst possible scenario would be 549 00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:05,724 if she doesn't show up. 550 00:27:15,100 --> 00:27:16,502 ♪ Are you getting ♪ 551 00:27:16,602 --> 00:27:18,804 ♪ Are you getting enough? ♪ 552 00:27:18,904 --> 00:27:20,305 ♪ Are you getting enough? ♪ 553 00:27:20,405 --> 00:27:22,774 All right, guys, we are here at the park. 554 00:27:22,875 --> 00:27:24,309 We are gonna play racquetball. 555 00:27:24,409 --> 00:27:25,811 Racquetball. 556 00:27:25,911 --> 00:27:28,547 Loser has to make the margaritas. 557 00:27:28,647 --> 00:27:29,781 You ready, baby girl? 558 00:27:32,050 --> 00:27:34,419 My name is Gabe. I'm 35 years old. 559 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,155 I'm originally from South Florida, 560 00:27:36,255 --> 00:27:38,423 but I am currently living in Colombia. 561 00:27:38,524 --> 00:27:40,159 - Hold your racket. - Too much fishing. 562 00:27:40,259 --> 00:27:41,860 Look at these nails, Gabe. 563 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,595 - I was gardening. - Oh, my God. 564 00:27:43,695 --> 00:27:45,330 I was gardening. I was-- 565 00:27:45,430 --> 00:27:48,867 The loser might need a manicure, Gabe. 566 00:27:48,967 --> 00:27:51,803 So right now, I'm in Florida for a couple weeks, catching up 567 00:27:51,904 --> 00:27:54,506 with my sister, and I have something to tell her 568 00:27:54,606 --> 00:27:56,775 because my life has been pretty crazy. 569 00:27:56,875 --> 00:27:59,344 So I hit it, then you hit it, I hit it, then you hit it. 570 00:27:59,444 --> 00:28:00,746 - OK. - OK, so let's go. 571 00:28:00,846 --> 00:28:02,181 Ready? 572 00:28:02,281 --> 00:28:04,116 My journey started when I met Isabel 573 00:28:04,216 --> 00:28:06,685 when I traveled to Medellín, Colombia. 574 00:28:06,785 --> 00:28:08,353 We really hit it off. 575 00:28:08,453 --> 00:28:10,589 We had a great time together. 576 00:28:10,689 --> 00:28:13,659 I revealed to her that I was transgender, 577 00:28:13,759 --> 00:28:16,228 and she accepted me for who I am. 578 00:28:17,696 --> 00:28:18,964 Ay, no. 579 00:28:25,337 --> 00:28:27,339 Everything was great, and we decided to get married. 580 00:28:30,409 --> 00:28:32,844 But since then, our relationship went south 581 00:28:32,945 --> 00:28:34,680 pretty quickly. 582 00:28:34,780 --> 00:28:36,415 - Ahh! - Whoo! 583 00:28:36,515 --> 00:28:38,417 After the wedding, we started arguing, 584 00:28:38,517 --> 00:28:40,752 and we just became distant. 585 00:28:40,852 --> 00:28:42,621 So after being together for two years 586 00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:45,357 and then five months married, we ended up separating. 587 00:28:46,358 --> 00:28:48,660 Technically, we're still married, but I haven't talked 588 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,463 to her in over a year and a half. 589 00:28:54,299 --> 00:28:55,701 Oh, snap. 590 00:28:55,801 --> 00:28:57,302 - Damn. - Yes! 591 00:28:58,437 --> 00:29:00,239 All right, you win. 592 00:29:00,339 --> 00:29:01,607 Yeah. 593 00:29:01,707 --> 00:29:04,643 ♪ Kicking it poolside ♪ 594 00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,179 ♪ Kicking with you to the bottom of the pool ♪ 595 00:29:08,780 --> 00:29:09,848 Well, cheers. Thank you. 596 00:29:09,948 --> 00:29:11,416 - To exercise. - To exercise. 597 00:29:11,516 --> 00:29:13,318 - Cheers. - Ching. 598 00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:14,353 I made it strong 599 00:29:14,453 --> 00:29:16,622 because I wanted to have a chat with you. 600 00:29:19,224 --> 00:29:21,460 - What do you want to know? - So... 601 00:29:24,329 --> 00:29:25,931 I am. 602 00:29:26,031 --> 00:29:28,000 You remember the girl that I used to talk about? 603 00:29:28,100 --> 00:29:29,234 Her name is Cora. 604 00:29:29,334 --> 00:29:31,036 We've actually been going out for a while now. 605 00:29:34,906 --> 00:29:38,110 I met her last year. 606 00:29:38,210 --> 00:29:40,512 There was a Pride event in Medellín, and she was just 607 00:29:40,612 --> 00:29:42,347 working at a random restaurant. 608 00:29:42,447 --> 00:29:45,851 I got hungry, I went there, and I saw her, and I was like, 609 00:29:45,951 --> 00:29:47,586 "Girl, she is cute." 610 00:29:47,686 --> 00:29:48,987 I gave her my social media, 611 00:29:49,087 --> 00:29:51,056 and we just started talking from there. 612 00:29:51,156 --> 00:29:52,457 We quickly fell in love, 613 00:29:52,557 --> 00:29:53,792 and we've been going strong ever since. 614 00:29:54,893 --> 00:29:56,595 Do I hear wedding bells? 615 00:29:56,695 --> 00:29:57,663 What do you mean, wedding bells? 616 00:29:57,763 --> 00:29:58,897 I'm still married. 617 00:29:58,997 --> 00:30:02,367 So what's really, like, holding you back? 618 00:30:02,467 --> 00:30:04,269 It's like, oh, now I have to talk to her. 619 00:30:04,369 --> 00:30:05,771 Now I have to see a lawyer. 620 00:30:05,871 --> 00:30:08,440 Maybe she does want to say, "Oh, well, Gabriel, 621 00:30:08,540 --> 00:30:10,509 "we've been married for three years. 622 00:30:10,609 --> 00:30:12,978 Oh, well, that means I'm entitled to this." 623 00:30:14,179 --> 00:30:16,114 I believe she may make it difficult. 624 00:30:18,216 --> 00:30:21,586 On the opposite end, if I was Cora, I would think, 625 00:30:21,687 --> 00:30:25,557 "Oh, are you scared of her? You scared of this bitch?" 626 00:30:25,657 --> 00:30:26,958 - Yeah, scared-- - "You scared, you a wuss?" 627 00:30:27,059 --> 00:30:28,193 Yes, yes, yes! 628 00:30:28,293 --> 00:30:30,462 And now I'm like, "Oh, you scared of her." 629 00:30:30,562 --> 00:30:33,131 So it gives the impression of you're siding with her. 630 00:30:34,232 --> 00:30:36,268 Sometimes, Gabe, you just gotta man up and you gotta bite 631 00:30:36,368 --> 00:30:38,704 the bullet and then you have to deal with the fallout. 632 00:30:40,405 --> 00:30:43,542 Monica, I know, I know, I know. 633 00:30:43,642 --> 00:30:49,047 I bet by your birthday, you will not have even signed 634 00:30:49,147 --> 00:30:52,684 a document or gotten a lawyer to get the process started. 635 00:30:52,784 --> 00:30:54,986 Bet-- how much you giving me? A hundred-- 636 00:30:55,087 --> 00:30:57,189 - $300. - $300? 637 00:30:57,289 --> 00:30:59,324 Girl, you paying for my divorce. 638 00:30:59,424 --> 00:31:01,326 ♪ Quiero más-- give me, give me more, give me more ♪ 639 00:31:01,426 --> 00:31:03,295 ♪ Dame más-- yeah, I want it all, I want it all ♪ 640 00:31:03,395 --> 00:31:04,496 ♪ Quiero más ♪ 641 00:31:04,596 --> 00:31:08,633 So today is moving day, and I have one more thing 642 00:31:08,734 --> 00:31:10,068 that I need to move, unfortunately. 643 00:31:10,168 --> 00:31:11,803 It's the one that sucks the most. 644 00:31:11,903 --> 00:31:14,106 - Hey, guys. - And here is Juan, featuring Juan, 645 00:31:14,206 --> 00:31:15,807 'cause he's gonna do most of the work. 646 00:31:15,907 --> 00:31:18,910 I recently moved from El Carmen to Medellín, 647 00:31:19,010 --> 00:31:21,279 because I do have a girlfriend, and she lives in Medellín, 648 00:31:21,380 --> 00:31:23,014 and I do want to be closer to her. 649 00:31:27,452 --> 00:31:30,455 Another reason why I wanted to move away from El Carmen is 650 00:31:30,555 --> 00:31:34,259 it is a very small town, and I didn't want to run into 651 00:31:34,359 --> 00:31:35,727 Isabel at all. 652 00:31:35,827 --> 00:31:37,496 Every time we stepped out of my house, I'm like, 653 00:31:38,497 --> 00:31:41,299 "Lord, please do not let us run into each other." 654 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:42,467 It would not be good. 655 00:31:48,039 --> 00:31:51,810 As you can see, I have the beautiful bed, which is 656 00:31:51,910 --> 00:31:53,145 also in my office. 657 00:31:55,947 --> 00:31:57,916 And my laundry room is also 658 00:31:58,016 --> 00:31:59,684 my everything else room, my kitchen. 659 00:32:02,888 --> 00:32:03,889 The refrigerator? 660 00:32:05,724 --> 00:32:07,793 So I don't have a refrigerator, so this is 661 00:32:07,893 --> 00:32:09,628 what I've been doing. 662 00:32:10,862 --> 00:32:13,932 So I have some ground beef in my freezer, 663 00:32:14,032 --> 00:32:15,734 but I need to buy some more ice. 664 00:32:15,834 --> 00:32:18,270 Listen, the beef in a trash can, 665 00:32:18,370 --> 00:32:21,373 in my defense, it has only been in there 666 00:32:21,473 --> 00:32:23,842 since this morning, OK? 667 00:32:23,942 --> 00:32:26,044 Now I do need some more ice, but my system works. 668 00:32:30,115 --> 00:32:31,783 Yeah, but my stomach is a lot stronger than yours. 669 00:32:31,883 --> 00:32:32,884 You remember? 670 00:32:36,555 --> 00:32:37,556 Bro. 671 00:32:46,364 --> 00:32:48,433 How are you, Edgar? 672 00:32:48,533 --> 00:32:51,002 I've been thinking about what Monica said, and today 673 00:32:51,102 --> 00:32:52,304 I have a meeting with a lawyer. 674 00:32:52,404 --> 00:32:54,206 I just need to bite the bullet 675 00:32:54,306 --> 00:32:55,707 and get this out of the way already. 676 00:32:57,108 --> 00:32:58,243 OK, so... 677 00:33:01,613 --> 00:33:05,283 So things just did not work out. 678 00:33:05,383 --> 00:33:08,453 I haven't spoken to her in maybe a year. 679 00:33:08,553 --> 00:33:11,423 We don't have children, we don't have property together, 680 00:33:11,523 --> 00:33:13,024 we don't have anything together. 681 00:33:13,124 --> 00:33:16,962 So let's say that Isabel wants to fight this, 682 00:33:17,062 --> 00:33:20,932 and she wants to try and get alimony from me. 683 00:33:21,032 --> 00:33:22,067 Is that possible? 684 00:33:35,714 --> 00:33:39,751 So let's say that she does win some type of alimony, 685 00:33:39,851 --> 00:33:41,353 how long is that good for? 686 00:33:55,300 --> 00:34:01,573 I know she did have a job, and I've heard that she has had 687 00:34:01,673 --> 00:34:03,174 a couple relationships already. 688 00:34:16,721 --> 00:34:18,456 Yeah, OK. Well, that's good to know. 689 00:34:30,902 --> 00:34:34,406 All right, I feel a little bit better now about this. 690 00:34:34,506 --> 00:34:36,641 I'm a little relieved about the information 691 00:34:36,741 --> 00:34:38,944 that I've gotten, you know, because I don't want to have 692 00:34:39,044 --> 00:34:40,278 a wife and a girlfriend. 693 00:34:40,378 --> 00:34:42,213 I just want to be with one person, 694 00:34:42,314 --> 00:34:45,717 and I don't want any ties to Isabel anymore. 695 00:34:45,817 --> 00:34:48,887 So I'm hoping that we cut our losses, 696 00:34:48,987 --> 00:34:51,056 go our separate ways, and bada bing, bada boom, 697 00:34:51,156 --> 00:34:52,157 we're done. 698 00:34:52,257 --> 00:34:54,392 And hopefully, you know, I can prove Monica wrong. 699 00:34:54,492 --> 00:34:56,127 I'll get divorced by my birthday. 700 00:34:56,227 --> 00:34:57,395 I'll get the $300. 701 00:34:57,495 --> 00:34:59,664 That's gonna be my refrigerator money 702 00:34:59,764 --> 00:35:01,933 instead of my trash can with ice. 703 00:35:03,301 --> 00:35:04,836 All right. Well, thank you so much, Edgar. 704 00:35:04,936 --> 00:35:05,971 I appreciate it. 705 00:35:09,341 --> 00:35:10,342 OK. 706 00:35:22,187 --> 00:35:26,257 Today I am hoping to have a date with Stephanie. 707 00:35:26,358 --> 00:35:27,759 I have a hundred things running through my mind, 708 00:35:27,859 --> 00:35:29,060 like "What if she doesn't show up?" 709 00:35:32,397 --> 00:35:33,598 Oh, there she is. 710 00:35:34,866 --> 00:35:35,867 How you doing? 711 00:35:37,535 --> 00:35:38,536 You did? 712 00:35:40,005 --> 00:35:43,008 She was running a little bit late, but now that she's here, 713 00:35:43,108 --> 00:35:45,477 I'm praying to God that I don't screw this up. 714 00:35:45,577 --> 00:35:46,745 I really like this girl. 715 00:35:47,846 --> 00:35:48,847 I hope she likes me. 716 00:35:49,848 --> 00:35:53,251 So I have a little picnic here for us. 717 00:35:53,351 --> 00:35:56,054 I was a little hesitant for coming out, 718 00:35:56,154 --> 00:35:57,255 if I'm being completely honest. 719 00:35:57,355 --> 00:35:59,724 I almost didn't show up. 720 00:35:59,824 --> 00:36:02,060 You know, when you're kind of just, like, going on dates, 721 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,562 you really have to ask yourself, is it worth it? 722 00:36:04,663 --> 00:36:07,465 Is it really worth checking it out? 723 00:36:07,565 --> 00:36:08,566 So we'll see. 724 00:36:10,735 --> 00:36:12,604 Ooh! Yeah! 725 00:36:12,704 --> 00:36:14,839 Um, and I'm gonna let you hold that. 726 00:36:14,939 --> 00:36:15,940 I'm gonna slowly pour it. 727 00:36:18,276 --> 00:36:19,277 Oh, thank you, doll. 728 00:36:21,046 --> 00:36:23,114 So, here, here's to the view, 729 00:36:23,214 --> 00:36:24,182 To the best view, 730 00:36:24,282 --> 00:36:26,251 - The best view, there you go. - Me or this? 731 00:36:27,318 --> 00:36:29,020 - Oh, you, come on. - OK, good answer. 732 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,089 That's a trick question, of course. 733 00:36:31,189 --> 00:36:32,824 Do you like olives? 734 00:36:32,924 --> 00:36:35,060 Oh, my God, here we go. I don't. 735 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,895 Have you ever heard of the olive theory? 736 00:36:36,995 --> 00:36:38,329 No, I have never. 737 00:36:38,430 --> 00:36:39,931 You know you're with your soulmate is 738 00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:42,267 when one person loves olives 739 00:36:42,367 --> 00:36:44,069 and the other person hates olives. 740 00:36:44,169 --> 00:36:45,203 So what do you do? You like? 741 00:36:45,303 --> 00:36:46,971 I hate olives. 742 00:36:47,072 --> 00:36:48,473 - I love them. - Oh, you love them? 743 00:36:48,573 --> 00:36:50,108 - Now I do. - Now you do. 744 00:36:50,208 --> 00:36:51,876 - Now I love them. - Well, there we go. 745 00:36:51,976 --> 00:36:54,012 Do you want to eat one if I feed it to you? 746 00:36:54,112 --> 00:36:55,113 Yeah. 747 00:37:01,786 --> 00:37:03,455 - Oh, my God. - Is it yummy? 748 00:37:03,555 --> 00:37:05,824 - It looks so good. - Oh, my God. 749 00:37:06,991 --> 00:37:08,727 There's two things in this world I can't stand. 750 00:37:08,827 --> 00:37:11,730 One is snakes, and two is olives. 751 00:37:11,830 --> 00:37:12,964 It's gross. 752 00:37:13,064 --> 00:37:17,602 But I now love olives because I love Stephanie. 753 00:37:19,204 --> 00:37:20,538 Deli-- Kidding. 754 00:37:22,407 --> 00:37:24,142 Well, first of all, what are you looking for? 755 00:37:25,376 --> 00:37:27,645 I just need someone with, like, a very good heart, 756 00:37:27,746 --> 00:37:31,549 treats everyone with kindness, respects others. 757 00:37:31,649 --> 00:37:34,018 But I just want someone to, like, love, like, 758 00:37:34,119 --> 00:37:36,020 everything about me and just, like, completely, like, 759 00:37:36,121 --> 00:37:37,822 worship and, like, adore me. 760 00:37:39,090 --> 00:37:40,091 - Yeah, well... - Yeah. 761 00:37:43,261 --> 00:37:45,697 - I would love to worship you. - Oh. 762 00:37:45,797 --> 00:37:47,332 How do you feel about... 763 00:37:47,432 --> 00:37:48,433 older men? 764 00:37:49,501 --> 00:37:51,302 Um... 765 00:37:51,402 --> 00:37:52,771 Wait, let me give you some more alcohol. 766 00:37:52,871 --> 00:37:53,872 OK, yeah. 767 00:37:53,972 --> 00:37:55,874 And then answer that question. Take another sip. 768 00:37:57,642 --> 00:37:59,277 I'm not opposed to it. 769 00:37:59,377 --> 00:38:00,979 Is that what you're looking for right now? 770 00:38:01,079 --> 00:38:03,014 Like you are ready to settle down? 771 00:38:03,114 --> 00:38:05,183 I'm not ready to rush. 772 00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:06,718 OK, yeah. OK, good. 773 00:38:06,818 --> 00:38:09,621 Because you're still obviously super young. 774 00:38:09,721 --> 00:38:11,956 So don't rush at all for anything. 775 00:38:12,056 --> 00:38:13,091 Thank you very much. Thank you. 776 00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:18,329 So I need somebody like you in my life kicking my ass. 777 00:38:18,429 --> 00:38:20,532 No, but all my other relationships, 778 00:38:20,632 --> 00:38:22,634 I always rush things and I don't want to do that. - Did you? 779 00:38:22,734 --> 00:38:24,669 - I want to take my time, have fun. - Yeah. 780 00:38:26,337 --> 00:38:28,973 With Stephanie, I feel something. 781 00:38:29,073 --> 00:38:32,076 I'm liking this girl so much, but I'm kind of worried about 782 00:38:32,177 --> 00:38:34,445 what she thinks. I want to see her again. 783 00:38:34,546 --> 00:38:36,681 So I'm going to shoot my shot. 784 00:38:39,651 --> 00:38:42,287 I would love, you know, to see you again. 785 00:38:42,387 --> 00:38:46,391 I live in Arkansas, but I'm here like probably 786 00:38:46,491 --> 00:38:48,059 once a month. 787 00:38:48,159 --> 00:38:50,328 I did a long distance relationship once. 788 00:38:52,630 --> 00:38:56,701 But I would be interested in seeing you again 789 00:38:56,801 --> 00:38:59,137 if maybe you want to see me again. 790 00:38:59,237 --> 00:39:00,238 I would love it. 791 00:39:01,372 --> 00:39:03,274 Ed makes me laugh, which is hard. 792 00:39:03,374 --> 00:39:06,978 I don't find people, especially men, funny. 793 00:39:07,078 --> 00:39:09,547 He actually is really easy to converse with, 794 00:39:09,647 --> 00:39:11,216 and he's respectful. 795 00:39:11,316 --> 00:39:12,684 I'm really happy I showed up. I mean, every time 796 00:39:12,784 --> 00:39:14,219 I talk to you, it just kind of seems to 797 00:39:14,319 --> 00:39:15,420 be getting better, so... - Yeah-- yeah. 798 00:39:18,223 --> 00:39:20,091 Now you can compliment me or something. 799 00:39:20,191 --> 00:39:21,826 You're beautiful. You're a goddess. 800 00:39:22,894 --> 00:39:24,629 And on that note... 801 00:39:24,729 --> 00:39:26,197 What? 802 00:39:26,297 --> 00:39:27,265 On that note, I'm not-- 803 00:39:27,365 --> 00:39:28,867 yeah, like, it was just, like, a saying. 804 00:39:28,967 --> 00:39:30,068 - It was a joke. - OK, sorry. 805 00:39:30,168 --> 00:39:32,637 Like, clearly not a funny one. It went over your head. 806 00:39:32,737 --> 00:39:34,205 - Over your head. - Yeah. 807 00:39:34,305 --> 00:39:35,707 Do a lot of things go over your head? 808 00:39:38,009 --> 00:39:40,078 OK, look, stop making me like you. 809 00:39:40,178 --> 00:39:41,479 Stop it. 810 00:39:41,579 --> 00:39:44,249 I did not expect the day to go this well. 811 00:39:46,751 --> 00:39:50,822 I think my arrow landed exactly where it should have. 812 00:39:50,922 --> 00:39:53,024 I just hope my other arrow would land as well. 813 00:39:54,225 --> 00:39:57,128 I'm excited to see where this can go. 814 00:39:58,630 --> 00:40:00,164 You're so sweet. You're really sweet. 815 00:40:05,837 --> 00:40:07,071 Oh, my God. 816 00:40:08,806 --> 00:40:11,276 We're keeping it cute. Yeah, yeah. 817 00:40:11,376 --> 00:40:12,810 Oh, look at those moves. 818 00:40:13,811 --> 00:40:16,214 Hell, yeah. Let's get that money, baby. 819 00:40:17,782 --> 00:40:19,884 Woo-woo! 820 00:40:19,984 --> 00:40:21,819 Oh, we have lights. 821 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,121 This will be my first time 822 00:40:23,221 --> 00:40:26,024 living actually on my own, 823 00:40:26,124 --> 00:40:29,027 and I'm just so overwhelmed. 824 00:40:33,264 --> 00:40:34,899 - Yes-- yeah. - Yeah. 825 00:40:39,537 --> 00:40:40,538 Definitely. 826 00:40:46,744 --> 00:40:48,379 Stop being a wimp and put up. 827 00:40:48,479 --> 00:40:51,282 If I want another baby, I'll make it happen. 828 00:40:55,887 --> 00:40:56,888 Absolutely. 829 00:40:59,190 --> 00:41:03,795 I have a gigantic man-child bitching at me. 830 00:41:03,895 --> 00:41:06,898 I'm sick of being belittled and taken advantage of, 831 00:41:06,998 --> 00:41:09,434 so I'm going to have to decide if I want to stay 832 00:41:09,534 --> 00:41:10,868 in this marriage or not. 833 00:41:10,969 --> 00:41:12,337 I think you take me for granted. 834 00:41:12,437 --> 00:41:13,471 I've spoiled you. 835 00:41:14,806 --> 00:41:16,774 No! Hombre chillon!