Tonight, part one of an unbelievable 90 Day Fiancé event.
When was the last time you two spoke to each other?
I mean, she slept over last night. I don't know.
Still, Joshua.
Let's just cut this down pretty simple, all right?
He has feelings for you, but he's not gonna marry you.
Once every two weeks, there's an issue about jealousy.
There's nothing really to be jealous about 'cause I ain't doing nothing.
An example, you know, I'll be like, "Are you messaging somebody?"
Little stuff like that, you know, it's just normal stuff.
I don't think that's "normal" in a relationship.
And if it is, like, God, I don't want that relationship.
You know, between the location sharing
and having to be called home,
something that is gonna destroy any relationship.
Karen, you told Chantel not to bring home another man
who needs a visa.
Yes. You need to get your own visa to come here. 50-50 in effort.
You're grilling my partners
and you're, like, really hard on them. Yeah, especially
when they give me the wrong answers.
I agree that you gotta use it to know how to use it.
What?
You know, sex is important to everybody.
I mean, you know, to me it's important.
You acting like a dog.
You're a man, you gotta represent.
And we don't represent with our ding dong all the time.
- He broke up with you... - In text.
...over a text message... In a text message.
Yeah. - ...with a peace sign emoji.
Yeah. Quality, dude.
That's all you do, is talk [bleep].
You didn't even call me. Yes, I did.
- And what did you say? - You said, "Take care." Peace sign emoji.
Like you're 17.
It's not what happened. So here we are.
Wow. Oh, my God.
It's either you're together or not together
Um, well, Natalie...
Oh, I love it. Oh, my God.
The first ever tell-all proposals.
I've been through the wringer.
I don't give a [bleep] anymore.
My last relationship was holding me back so much.
I feel amazing coming into this tell-all as a single woman.
You know, all the other times before, it was, like,
fighting with my family, fighting with Pedro.
And now I'm happy.
I haven't seen Giannis since Greece,
and I can't wait to see him.
Well, he tickles my loins.
Ah, man, it's cold out here.
Good morning.
I'm here.
I got a little new swag going on, you know.
I'm feeling myself a little more.
Uh, I got a little more confidence.
Tyray in the past would take dating kinda slow.
But now I am ready to kinda, you know, make it go a little faster.
Whatever happens, happens.
I'm not gonna live in that little bubble I was in anymore.
I'm pressing fast forward now.
You know, I can handle pretty much anything.
And on the other hand, you know, for some reason,
I always get in trouble. So, I just... it's just bound to happen.
I mean, there's probably tons of stuff I've said to Patrick and I didn't tell Megan,
and I imagine my brother will bring it up.
I wasn't that bad,
but then again, I don't remember everything I say.
Wow, New York City.
You dress to express,
and today, I am fire.
There's gonna be some people here that are kind of intimidating.
So I said, "Let me put on my armor, man.
It's like, I'm ready.
It's like, Ms. Debbie to the rescue."
The thing with me and Ruben the Cuban,
I've gotta see if he's gonna show up.
I've learned some stuff about Ruben
that he needs to answer for.
My love life has been all over the place since you last saw me.
It's been a rollercoaster of a year.
I definitely came today,
I do wanna have Veronica's back
because Veronica has definitely gone through
some pretty strong emotions with the whole Jamal thing,
I think she got hurt.
I'm definitely worried
that Tim and Jamal are gonna get into it.
I plan on just... It's...
It's not my... It's not my... What is it?
"Not my horse, not my race, not my dog, not my--"
"Not my... Not my monkey and not my circus."
But you can conjoin 'em like if you want to... Okay.
...if you chose to. All right.
What's up, Tyray? How's it going?
- Good. Safe trip? - Yeah, it was cool.
It was, uh, it was smooth.
Smooth? - Yeah. It was... It went by fast, though.
Like, the fastest flight ever. Yeah?
What about any of the other cast members, did you meet them?
I... I met, uh, Ms. Debbie, Tim and Veronica. Ms. Debbie? Nice.
And, uh, Chantel.
You know, I'm curious to see what's going on with her
since getting divorced, you know?
Well, I mean, all she does is talk about her ex.
Yeah, yeah. - I mean, that's all I hear, is Pedro.
So I mean, how could you be over somebody
if it's always Pedro, always Pedro?
What's up? - Hey, Tim, what's up?
- How are you, man? - How's everything?
- Good, man. It's good to see you, bro. - Oh, yeah. Good.
- How are you, sir? - What's up? I like the shoes, wow.
Those are nice. Thank you, man.
Thank you very much.
All right, let's talk about our girl,
little Natalie over there, you know what I'm saying?
From what you saw on the screen, her and Mike end up not together, right?
I don't think so. Yeah, exactly. That's like the... Yeah.
Good for Big Mike, man. Big Mike needs to be happy.
I don't even wanna say it,
'cause that stuff, like... I don't think it's gonna come out wrong.
But, like, it's like...
But also, I think she wants, like, it to be like ancient Rome,
where they're fighting over her
and she's like Rapunzel and her hair is out,
- the castle-- - Oh, Rapunzel, Rapunzel, huh?
Yeah, I think that's what she wants. Oh.
Natalie, obviously, you know what you're working with.
You know what you came into and you're still crying.
So I mean, that... And then you wanna go get Big Mike back.
Yeah.
Tyray and Nata-lay.
Huh? There's a ring to it. Tyray and Nata-lay. Oh, my God.
Yeah. Huh?
That would be crazy.
Well, that would be crazy. That would be-- I don't think
- I can handle it. - I don't know, Tyray.
So, yeah, like, I was gonna ask you,
so you're 33...
and never had sex?
- Never had sex? - Nope.
Is it, like, a religious thing with you? Like...
Ugh, man, you know, I just... I just kind of never did it.
And then, I just got old.
Well, I remember, like, seeing
they asked you like, what your perfect first time would be like,
and you were like, "I wanted to go to the kitchen and the laundry room and--"
But, like, like, I'mma be real honest here
and I hope John is too, because--
It's gonna be a couple pumps and you're done, brother.
Bro, thank you.
Let's be honest here, first time you hit that honey...
Yeah. - I think he works pretty good.
He works pretty well.
What's that? - My penis.
What's up, Natalie? - Hello.
As a woman, when you hear he's a man that's 33
that has waited, how do you feel about that?
Oh, thank you. I appreciate it.
All he's trying to ask her is, is basically
would, you know, you want somebody with experience or...
Right. ...would you want to teach
a man that's never had... been with a woman?
Okay.
Um, I would say all the singles that are currently single
are not qualified to talk about my dating life.
Like, John, you value purity, right?
You don't wanna be with a woman that's slept
- with, like, a ton of dudes. - No.
Hey, Tyray, I love you, Tyray.
It's been a while. Hey, y'all.
- Hey, Mr. Tim. - What's up?
You know, I've been scared of him for so long
because of that, that piercing look
and that look of disdain.
You know what disdain is? Like--
I've got resting bitch face, yeah.
But you do kind of look down your nose on people.
That's the feeling I get. I do not. I do not.
Because-- Oh.
Yes, you... I-- You never said hi to me
for, like, a long time, you know?
A little bit what?
- But I forgive you because-- - I'm sorry, yeah.
But you... And I love the way you dress, by the way.
- Well, thank you. - And it is wonderful.
I get a guy that knows he's a walking work of art
- and I love that. - Oh, a walking work of art?
That's one way to put it.
Hello. Oh, look at Ms. Hot Stuff!
Hi, everyone. I can cuddle with you? Oh, yeah.
Come on. All right, good. How's it going?
You look like, uh, you're about to turn some numbers on a game show.
But hold on, where's Chantel?
I don't know. - Did you scare her off?
Then, so she's probably doing makeup is what I would assume.
I heard she has her own makeup team.
It's like, "Whoa, we're with, uh, royalty now."
Chantel bragging about not wearing any underwear.
"I'm not wearing panties."
It's like, uh-uh.
That's not a good way to define yourself.
She's nice. It's the confidence.
Confidence says a lot.
Thank you.
You're welcome. Let's go this way.
Which way am I going?
Okay.
- Oh, okay.
Oh, all right.
Like, no woman has their actual shoes on.
Super stunning.
Hey, you, too. Look at you. - Super--
Wow. Oh, my goodness, it's so pretty!
I'm a little nervous.
Oh, I'm sitting by you, yeah. Okay. I'm next to you.
Hello, hello.
I'm definitely worried that Tim and Jamal
are gonna be confrontational today because I think that if Jamal
and I hadn't been dating when they last got into it,
I think Jamal probably would have hit Tim.
And Tim cannot defend himself.
So, we'll... we'll see how it plays out.
I'm excited for everybody to come for each other's heads, necks, toes,
arms, hands, everything.
Hi. Hello.
Hey.
Five, four, three, two...
Welcome to 90 Day: The Single Life Tell All.
I'm Shaun Robinson.
The seven singles on the stage were all on the search for that special someone.
Some traveled long distances to find love,
others made major sacrifices that changed their lives completely.
But they all learned important things
about themselves along the way.
And while some are happy with where their journeys took them,
others were left brokenhearted.
So, let's get right into it.
Chantel, it is good to see you again.
It's so good to see you. It's been so long. I know.
It has been a while. You look very, very lovely. Well, thank you.
Um, we watched you form a bond with Giannis in beautiful Greece.
Yes.
Are you still in contact with him?
And I could see by that smile on your face,
- you probably are. - Oh, yes, I am. Yes, I am.
Oh, my goodness, I like Giannis so much. Uh-huh.
Something about a foreign man,
it does attract me very much, yeah. Uh-oh. Uh-oh.
Yeah, you were getting hot and bothered when you were in Greece.
So can't wait to find out more... Yeah.
...about your journey and to see if there is a future
with, uh, with Giannis.
Veronica and Tim, good to see both of you.
Good to see you too, Shaun.
Veronica, the last, uh, time you were sitting here,
you were with Mr. Jamal. That was an introduction
that we were really shocked about.
How are things going with the two of you?
Are you still together?
We are not. Ooh.
We are not, and, uh, things ended very badly and very quickly.
Okay, uh, did Tim have a lot to say about that?
Tim was actually very kind
and has kept most of his thoughts to himself
and hasn't once yet told me, "I told you so." Oh, really?
I'm sure he's thought it
because I've received the telepathy. Uh-huh.
But he hasn't said it out loud.
I'm actually thinking it right now.
I'm thinking it right now.
Ooh. Well, we're gonna hear more about that.
- Uh, Tim, you started dating Luisa recently. - Mm-hmm.
How are things going there?
So there was some, like, revelations as the dating went on.
You know, like, we've just really not progressed at all. Uh-huh. Yeah.
Uh, and there's some different reasons
that I'm sure we'll get into.
All right. Lot to unpack there, Tim.
John, how are you?
Good, how you doing? Good to see you again, John.
Well, things with Megan, um, seemed a bit tense
the first day that you moved to Texas.
Are you still living in Texas with Megan?
I'm still living in Texas.
We always have our days, you know, we're still, like...
You know, when you start living with someone,
you know, it's a little different
from, you know, long distance relationships.
So, you know, it's adjustment.
There's a lot. - There's a lot.
Can't wait to get into it.
Uh, but I'm gonna move over right now to Miss Debbie. Good to see you again.
You look beautiful.
Well, thank you, Shaun. Yes, you look very stunning.
Uh, the last time we saw you,
- you left Miami and Ruben behind. - Yes.
Um, have you and Ruben stayed in contact? - Yes, we have.
You have? - Yes.
It's like a seed was planted in Miami.
So now I'm kinda watching and seeing how it grows.
Interesting.
You know, I could use some help.
I feel like I'm in dating 101. Uh-oh.
And it's like, you know, I'm trying to fumble my way through stuff.
Well, there will be a lot of people
who will give you their opinions today. Good.
I can guarantee you that.
- Tyray, hi, Tyray, good to see you. - What's up, Shaun?
Um, the last time we saw you on your journey,
you successfully got a telephone number...
...from a woman named Raina, in New Orleans.
How, uh, how are things going with her?
Uh, we still talk a little bit here and there.
Um, we talked about, uh, two weeks ago. Okay.
She's really cool. She's a good person.
Okay, all right.
So, I can't wait to find out what has been happening.
Uh, Natalie.
Very good to see you again. Hi.
How are you?
Uh, last we saw you,
you had broken things off with Josh.
Um, are you two still broken up?
Um...
Wow, Josh asked for another chance? Yeah.
We have got a lot to get to.
Is everybody ready?
Yeah! Yep.
Ready. All right, let's get started.
Veronica and Jamal started off dating casually,
and we saw that turn into a committed long distance relationship,
but not without its fair share of issues.
And Tim began dating Luisa, and in typical Tim fashion,
he didn't wanna rush into anything.
Well, we're all curious to hear
how Luisa and Jamal are both feeling
about how everything went down.
But first, how are things going between Veronica and Tim?
- Well, I think we're in a good place. - Yeah, uh--
He's taken a lot of pity on me this year.
It was a rough year for me.
- It was a rough year for me, and he's been very kind. - Yeah.
- And I'm very grateful. - We had some ups and downs, like always,
but right now, we're... We don't hate each other today.
- Exactly. So we're winning. - So, yeah, we're good today.
Here we are winning.
Hmm?
All right, let's bring them out now.
Please welcome Luisa and Jamal.
Hi. Hi. Hello.
Hi, Luisa. Hi.
So hi, Jamal. Hey, Shaun.
Jamal, Luisa, thank you for joining us.
I wanna revisit one of the hardest things
- for Veronica and Jamal... - Oh, wonderful. Yeah.
...to get past
and that was Veronica's relationship with Tim.
Tim and Jamal's anger towards each other
had been building for a while,
and it culminated in a confrontation where Tim said
Jamal wasn't good enough for Veronica.
Let's take a look.
So I mean, Jamal, what is it you don't like about Charlotte?
Um, it's a little slower here.
I guess time will tell, like, you know, if...
- if he treats you well, he treats Chloe well. - Yeah, like--
- But he has. Hasn't he done that? - But I haven't seen that.
Yeah, 'cause we're gonna sit here and act like
Tim is just as the father of the year.
We're gonna keep pretending that that's a thing.
Tim did raise her for 12 years.
You know that, right? What is the truth now?
- Dude, y'all wanna sit here and act like you're, like... - No.
-"...parent of the year." You're not, dude. - I'm not.
I'm not a parent of the year, right.
But then why do you keep acting like it?
Look, Tim, you're a [bleep] bitch, dude.
- Why do you-- - Did I-- Whoa!
- Did I ever claim to be father of the year? - Also, what you're not gonna
- do is raise your voice at me. - What you're not gonna do
is question me being a [bleep] dad to Chloe! Guys, no.
- You're way below the line. - Dude-- No, dude.
- I know the truth. - You're way below the line.
- I know the truth. - Oh, okay, okay.
Hey, you don't know [bleep].
I... I raised her for 12 [bleep] years.
Did he? Did he look after her?
- I raised her for 12 [bleep] years. - Guys--
Wow.
Okay, I wanna know,
do both of you stand by everything you said?
Honestly, I don't wanna blame the tequila,
but it was a long night.
I just personally feel like you kept coming for me
and kept saying to Veronica.
Veronica has told me a lot of things,
and I was just like, "I'm gonna air this boy out."
Because I'm just, I'm so tired of it.
I mean, that's the other thing,
the way that Veronica and Tim talk [bleep] about each other to both of us,
I don't even know why you're... how you're sitting next to each other.
Yeah, because it... Like, that's a known fact
that Veronica and I joke about all the time.
Like, we can be best of friends, we can be worst of enemies,
but at the end of the day,
we still got each other's back.
Oh, [bleep] ...
"We're so close. We're so tight."
Yeah, but we-- I mean--
- But they were-- - ...you're full of [bleep].
You're just-- The whole thing.
Y'all were saying that, like, it was an epiphany.
Veronica and I know we talk about each other.
It's a bond, number one, that--
It's [bleep] stupid.
Well, that's your opinion.
No, it's a [bleep] fact.
Nothing you ever say, Jamal, is gonna be a fact.
- It's an opinion you have. - No, it's a fact. Trust me.
Don't get it twisted.
Yeah, I have receipts, too, sweetheart.
Did you call me "sweetheart"?
Yeah, 'cause you're looking like one.
Okay, do you wanna me, Jamal?
Like, that's kind of a strange term...
...to say to a man. That's really--
That's weird.
Wow. Oh, my God.
Coming up...
Mira, look, it's okay.
I'll go. You guys stay here fighting as long as you want.
And later...
Was there something wrong with my trip to Greece?
There's nothing wrong with going to Greece,
but we can't brag about not wearing panties.
What are your future children gonna think
when they watch that someday?
Did you call me "sweetheart"?
Yeah, 'cause you're looking like one.
Okay, do you wanna [bleep] me, Jamal?
Like, that's kind of a strange term...
...to say to a man. That's really--
That's weird.
- Wow. - Well, he's right about some of that.
I mean, like, we do talk about each other,
like, we do have, oh, the huge disagreements in parenting
- and personality. What was he talking about-- - Tim, the person
you try to act like, you're not this person.
I don't even like sharing the stage with you, dude.
Veronica, I'm interested to find out
if you are gonna defend Tim against what Jamal and Luisa are saying.
Well, I think Tim and I, at this point,
we've graduated from best friend to family.
And the relationship that Tim and I have
is not the relationship we had five years ago. No.
And that is just a fact.
- We have... We have grown apart. - Yeah.
He has gotten very busy, you know?
- And Luisa is not the only one-- - But y'all post on Instagram
every-- Y'all post on Instagram every day... Okay and he goes--
- ...like, y'all are best [bleep] friends... - Please sit down.
Let's not-- Okay. ...and you're not.
Please sit down. Let's not-- So just stop with the--
No, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Let's not escalate things.
Just stop with the whole we're buddy, buddy.
We have each other's back. I was literally just actually saying
exactly what you're saying.
No, you're [bleep] not.
You're gonna do that you always do
- and spin it and make it seem like y'all are fine. - Yes, yeah.
And it's... Well, hold on.
She did say that their relationship isn't the same
as it was five years ago. So... let's be fair here.
Veronica told me that Tim's a narcissist, only cares about himself.
He's 43, with roommates, like, only drinks around you.
He doesn't really help out Veronica when she needs him.
Wow, that's really sad to hear that.
And I say that to his face, he knows it. Yeah.
True.
It's all true.
I'm so tired of it.
I didn't even wanna come here
'cause I don't even like looking at this dude.
I literally tried.
I tried to be nice for you, too. No,
- you kept, you kept-- - Neither of you guys tried [bleep], okay?
You kept whispering to her-- - You both have been trying
to show off who has the bigger [bleep].
And I don't know if any of you feel the same way,
you can't really be friends with your ex and date someone.
You definitely can't be best friends with them.
They shouldn't be walking into your house.
You shouldn't be talking about your significant to your ex
when the already doesn't like me.
I'm sorry, I would never wanna be with somebody
who is still friends with their ex,
because I feel, that's just me, I wouldn't want it.
Okay. I wanna focus on Veronica now.
When we last saw you, we weren't clear
on what the future held for you and Jamal.
How did the breakup happen?
So I thought it was pretty clear
when we left things off,
he was supposed to come back for a long visit.
And he texted me and said he couldn't come.
When I asked him why, he said that
he didn't owe me an explanation.
And so I tried to wait a couple days and like,
you know, just my usual check-ins,
"Good morning, baby," whatever.
And finally when I pressed him and I was like,
"What's going on?"
He was like, "Take care."
And then a peace sign emoji.
He broke up with you over a text message... In text.
Yeah.
...with a peace sign emoji?
Yeah, quality dude.
Okay.
And let me tell you, as her friend, like,
and I get this because she makes fun of me.
I'm real big on closure, right?
Like I need closure.
She was very depressed, like, it affected her.
Like, I mean, to a point that I haven't seen
someone affect her that badly in years
because it was just so much just like
our normal conversation.
Like, "Nope, we're done."
And when she asked him very nicely,
cause I read the text, "What happened?"
He just was like, "I'm not even going
to take the time to explain to you."
You were so cold. You were so, you didn't care.
I even told you, I said, I'm really, I'm shocked.
I'm really hurt.
I can't believe you're doing...
It was just like you couldn't be bothered.
I didn't ghost you.
Was there a peace sign?
I don't think there was a peace sign.
I'm just curious cause I mean, a peace...
A peace sign really does say something.
If I was to be like, you know,
peace, you know, that is a [bleep] you.
You know, it is...
I did not. I did not break up with her through text.
That is
When do you think you broke up with me?
We never... we didn't break up.
Oh, so then, ooh.
- Until you said you didn't want to talk to me anymore. - See ya later, baby.
It really took me by such surprise.
I thought we were in such a good place.
We'd been making these plans.
So what happened is literally I told her I couldn't go
because my mom was going through
a lot of emotional stuff.
- And you told me - Jamal.
You said, "Oh, Jamal, you don't need to be there for your mom."
Just come to me.
- She can do that-- - That is so not true.
I even offered to come.
- I was supposed to go to San Diego. - I did not want you there.
I was supposed to go to San Diego.
Why would I want you there?
- Didn't even call me. - Yes, I did.
And what did you say?
You said, "Take care." Peace sign emoji.
- And then what did I do? - Like you're 17.
Two weeks after, I text you saying, "Can we talk?"
Yeah, two weeks after.
And you said, "Oh no, I'm in a good place."
I did.
So it was done.
I said please leave me and my peace.
Peace.
I needed space.
We ended it.
My mom ended up having to sell her house.
You told me [bleep] that. Just come.
You don't need to help her.
I'm the only family she has.
I moved from New York to California to help her.
And you spun that and said, "Jamal's living with his mom
and doesn't have a job and he's a [bleep] deadbeat.
No, I assure you I never said that.
Because I've had a job this whole time.
I have a [beep] apartment
in the most expensive city in the country.
And you're trying to play me Jamal.
like I was [bleep] broke.
And that was [bleep] up.
Did you really?
I've never called a human trash in my life.
This... impossible.
You've called Tim trash.
Impossible.
I never, again, trash is not a word I use.
I know you don't. That's why I'm surprised.
I didn't know you and I had beef
that you're making things up now.
Oh, my God.
What?
Look, it's okay.
You guys stay here fighting as long as you want.
Coming up...
Tyray, are you still a virgin?
Uh, yeah.
He's a man of integrity.
He's not going to just find any port in the storm.
Well, there's a fine balance between every port
in the storm and, you know, nothing.
A little bit never hurt nobody.
You guys stay here fighting as long as you want.
Okay, anybody speak Spanish?
So Veronica, Veronica, I think...
What did she, what did she just...
Veronica said that she did not say what Luisa said
and she's really pissed about it.
Oh, boy.
For people to so resolutely lie and say,
"No, you said this."
You know, when... Look, I own my
I'm very, very far from perfect,
but I own my imperfections.
So for someone to try to say that I did something
that I didn't do, that I know I didn't do
or know I didn't say, like, that's unnecessary.
The trash comment, I guess Veronica is like
really offended because she's like,
"I didn't say that." And--
Okay, but I'm telling you--
You good?
I'm good. Okay.
I'm sorry I abandoned you.
So Jamal, at the time,
why did you pull back from Veronica?
I just, first thing, feel like I kept getting told
I was doing a lot of things wrong.
I wasn't like communicating to her liking.
And then I was dealing with the [bleep] with my mom.
And I was just like, I was like [bleep] I'm stuck.
I don't know what to do.
- Let me run away. - Veronica is not trying to hear me out.
And yeah, and I'll be real.
- There was no... I wanted to hear you out. - I run.
There was nothing you...
I was waiting for the explanation.
You just hid.
We didn't work.
We knew from the jump it was going to be hard.
We both said there was a 0.1% chance,
but when we were good, we were good.
We just didn't work.
- I do have a knack of running, you know? - I know.
And that wasn't fair to you.
I should have communicated better.
I should have probably put in a more consistent effort.
And I'm sorry.
It's fine.
I have no ill will.
I appreciate the apology.
Like, truly.
- Seems like it could be rekindled maybe someday. - Nah, nah.
- No, no. - No, thank you.
- We're good there. - You never know, y'all.
Jamal and Luisa, we are going to take a pause
with you two and bring you back out
a little bit later so we can talk all about
Tim and Luisa's relationship.
Thank you very much.
Thank you, Shaun.
Bye, guys.
Okay.
I want to move on to Tyray now.
Tyray's experience onBefore the 90 Days became devastating
when he learned that his relationship
with a woman named Carmella
was nothing more than a catfishing scheme
by a man named Christian.
But he vowed to push ahead
in a search for his very first girlfriend.
Let's learn if he's found what he is looking for.
Tyray, we saw you navigate a few potential relationships.
What did you learn about yourself in the process?
I'll say I learned about myself
is just to not be so afraid and not be so insecure.
I kind of get too much in my head and overthink things.
You know, being with someone, afraid of a heartbreak.
Can I ask you...
Why are you so scared of rejection?
It's like, the worst they can say is no.
You know what I mean?
It doesn't really affect you after that.
There's going to be women all throughout your life
that you're just not their type.
I mean, and it's nothing personal.
I agree.
I think you're right because that's my fear.
There's a fear of rejection.
It's almost like when you get rejected,
they have one up on you.
You need to think like Tim because it's true.
Not everybody is everybody's type.
So rejection is part of life, right?
So no matter what,
you can be the nicest person in the world.
There's always going to be somebody that doesn't like you.
And that's okay. That's life.
Okay.
One aspect we need to talk about is sex.
Tyray, are you still a virgin?
Uh, yeah.
Thank you.
Good.
Miss Debbie, you said good, huh?
Yes, yes.
He's a man of integrity.
He's not going to just find any port in a storm.
So I respect Tyray.
Well, there's a fine balance between
every port in a storm and, you know, none.
You know what I mean?
You can get a little bit.
A little bit never hurt nobody.
Well, he's not going to settle for,
you know, just something that he can...
I think one night with Johnny,
I could get him pretty settled in.
Tyray, your brother said
that you need to be more of a bad guy.
Do you agree with that?
I think he has a point for sure
because I have that image of,
you know, relationship and all that.
I need to get...
I think you friend zone yourself.
It's kind of what you're saying
because you're so nice that it just instantly
puts you in that friend zone.
I think he wants me to like go out and just like
act like a [bleep] boy, basically.
I think that's what he wants.
Don't follow that advice, Tyray.
Yeah, that's not good advice.
You each got to play your cards.
Some people can play boy.
- Yeah. - Some people can't.
That ain't going to work for you.
You know what I'm saying? Be nice guy.
You're a nice guy.
Don't change. Right.
Well, we know a guy who refers to himself as a bad boy.
He claims to have been with more than 2,500 women
- No. - and he actually wanted to come on
and share some advice with Tyray.
Oh no, no, no.
My God.
This [bleep] guy.
Please welcome...
Coming up...
You need to do some self-examination.
You acting like a dog and you're trying to teach
this honorable man to be like a beast.
What did your parents teach you?
We know a guy who refers to himself as a bad boy.
He claims to have been with more than 2,500 women
- No. - and he actually wanted to come on
and share some advice with Tyray.
Oh no, no, no.
Connecting to us from--
This [bleep] guy.
Please welcome...
Sarper.
Don't listen, Tyray.
You've been watching Tyray's journey.
What are your thoughts about
why he can't connect with women?
Here we go.
I think it makes you appear jovial.
It's a nervous reaction, yeah, like...
Yeah, it's bad.
See, I just did it right now.
I have a nervous giggle too, so I can really relate.
And I think it just... You smile a lot.
It just makes you a cheery looking person.
I don't think that's the end all be all
to why you're getting no nanny.
- You know what I'm saying? - Agreed.
I think it's endearing.
The insecurity part for sure.
Not being confident, absolutely.
- Confidence is huge. - But not the giggling?
I think it's endearing.
And it shows me that, oh, he's safe.
He can smile.
And it's like, I can let my hair hang down around Tyray.
Well, maybe he doesn't want 2,500 women, Sarper.
She hates you, Sarper.
No, no, man.
Tiger attack.
This sounds like a [bleep] horror movie.
Tyray, please.
- You're going to get slapped. - Somebody call the police.
What?
Oh, my God.
I said the same thing.
I agree that you got to use it to know how to use it.
You know, I mean, the whole point of it
is to get confidence, right?
The more you do it, the more confident you get.
And in the end, you'll just know it's just sex.
Well, it becomes meaningless when it's just sex.
Well, it's never just sex,
but you know, sex is important to everybody.
I mean, you know, to me, it's important.
No, it ain't about self-gratification,
you know, and that's where
Sarper's missing the boat, you know.
Sarper, you need to do some self-examination.
You acting like a dog and you're trying to teach
this honorable man to be like a beast.
You know, you're a beast.
What did your parents teach you?
At least respect your mother and father
and don't brag about screwing 2,500 women.
Coming up...
I did want some male attention and I know how to get it.
Chantel, you're beautiful.
Just your face is enough.
You don't need any other asset to get attention from men.
Like, I don't want to be with somebody
that I think is like half the city.
You sent the wrong signals
to the men that were around you.
You know, you're a beast, Sarper.
This is a shame upon your family.
Like at least respect your mother and father
and don't brag about screwing 2,500 women.
And that's right. It's your choice.
But please don't try to pollute and corrupt
somebody innocent and honorable.
You're a man. You got to represent.
And we don't represent with our ding dong all the time.
You got that right. You got that right.
Tyray, before we let Sarper go,
he's giving you some very interesting advice.
What other question would you have for him?
Uh, man, what do you do for your confidence, Sarper?
You seem very confident.
This is...
Well, Sarper, I am sure that Tyray
appreciates your advice and your guidance.
Thank you so much for sharing it with him.
And with us, it's been very interesting.
- Thank you, Sarper. - Thank you, man. Appreciate it.
So, Debbie, if Sarper was the last dude on Earth.
No.
Tyray, there is still so much more to talk to you about.
And we're going to come back to you a little bit later.
Right now, I want to move on to Chantel.
With her divorce from Pedro finalized,
Chantel was eager to jump back into the dating pool.
And she decided to do it
in one of the most romantic places on Earth,
Greece.
And what a vacation you had, Chantel.
You know, it has been over seven years
since you have been on the dating scene.
What did it feel like to put yourself back out there?
Before I met Pedro, I hadn't had
a lot of dating experience.
So I struggled with how do you find a person to date?
I did look in the DMs and talk to some of those people.
It felt very awkward at first.
But now I'm having a lot of fun with it.
I understand that there was a famous artist,
musical artist, that slid into your DMs.
Boo, hoo, hoo.
Well, I mean, one time I got really excited
about, um, Waka Flocka.
And yeah, we did hang out.
I met his mom and we spent some time together,
talked on the phone, text, whatever.
I mean, I heard that Drake had hollered at you.
Ooh.
I don't know the validity of it.
Crickets.
Yeah, it's going to be crickets.
I'd rather not.
We're not saying nothing happened,
but like, you know, Drake hollered.
Okay, I have another topic I want to move on to.
Chantel, you said you wanted a Spartan man
who was totally different, adventurous, successful,
compassionate, patient, and well-endowed.
Yeah, of course.
Do you think you were asking for too much?
No, I think I deserve everything
that I want for what I've been through.
I'm 32 years old. I look good.
I want my man to look good, too.
And I want them to have a career.
I want them to be honest, generous, all the things.
I think I deserve it.
I had a laundry list longer than that
when Tim and I split up and I was 30.
And clearly I'm still single.
And every year I just like remove a thing from the list.
Oh, you don't build on it. You remove.
I want a companion. I do.
The laundry list of what you want in a man
was a little out there.
You're vulnerable right now.
And a guy with the six pack abs
or hung like a horse and got bucks,
it's like it's not going to fix the broken part of you
because Pedro compromised your trust.
And your friends, they were like getting you
in a direction of like, yeah, it's all about
harvesting the cucumber and the eggplant.
That's not a good place to start out.
We can't brag about not wearing panties.
What are your future children going to think
when they watch that someday?
When they come of age, they'll understand.
I did want some male attention and I know how to get it.
You got that right.
I was just trying to have a good vacation
with my friends in Greece.
I think her point is that Chantel, you're beautiful.
Just your face is enough.
You don't need any other asset to get attention from men.
Some women need that.
That's all they've got to get attention.
I don't want to think about my girlfriend
or my future wife that she was like walking around
pantyless with a bunch of dudes.
Basically a guy wants family, guy wants commitment,
guy wants loyalty.
- Purity. - Purity.
See, exactly.
Like, I don't want to be with somebody
that I think has like half the city.
Chantel does not need to do that.
Wait, was there something wrong with my trip to Greece?
I feel pretty much attacked about my vacation.
There's nothing wrong with going to Greece,
but she doesn't have to advertise she's going pantyless.
But I had some coverage.
Well, the coverage was like a thin piece of paper
that you're supposed to crack it.
I can wear a bikini and what's the difference?
It's the location where you're at.
You sent the wrong signals
to the men that were around you.
You want a high class man that,
you know, has his [bleep] together.
And I don't think you're going to find
high class men that like really want that type of behavior.
You were like, "Okay, I'm a piece of meat and I'm desirable."
This is how I live my life and this is me.
You're more than that, Chantel.
Oh, Lord.
Do I get to go?
Next time on The Single Life Tell All.
We can't look for a man that's hung like a horse.
- I want what I've never had. - Oh, my God.
It's not fair to talk about a man's penis
when he's not here to defend himself. Listen.
Pinky winky.
I am not here to break you down.
Not what I'm trying to do.
You want to hear all the issues?
I'm not going to just air out
your dirty laundry of like what I think.
Let's just cut this down pretty simple.
He has feelings for you,
but he's not going to marry you.
There's nothing wrong with being sexy,
but we don't broadcast,
"I'm not wearing panties tonight."
We're both mothers.
We want to protect our daughters.
She's a beautiful, lovely treasure,
but it sends out a wrong message
that your daughter is a sex object.
We're more than sex objects, but we are sexy women.
You called her needy.
Yes.
Well, you don't want our words for you.
Trust me.
Josh, you are the most disgusting human being ever.
You got to listen.
So what I said. She doesn't.
It's like a dog whistle when she talks.
It's like Okay.
I'm trying to still believe in love,
but there's still like, you know, something for me,
something more.