[Shaun] Previously on 90 Day: The Single Life Tell All...
John, things with Megan seemed a bit tense the first day.
-Are you still living in Texas with Megan? -[John] Still living in Texas.
You know, when you start living with someone,
you know, it's a little different from,
you know, long distance relationships.
So you know, it's adjustment.
-[Shaun] There's a lot. -There's a lot.
Tyray, are you still a virgin?
Uh, yeah.
[speaking in English]
[Tyray] See, I just did it right now. It's bad. [chuckles]
I don't think that's the end all, be all
to why you're getting no nanny, you know what I'm saying?
I'm wondering, Giannis, do you feel like Chantel
is not ready to be in an exclusive relationship?
[speaking in English]
It still hurts but I'm trying to still believe
that there's still, like, you know,
something for me. Something more.
Josh is known to do this. He's charitable, he gives,
and the money that he has been spending
all of a sudden puts him in a sugar daddy category with you guys?
Let me reword it. Josh is giving her money
but sleeping with her, but won't commit to her.
[speaking in English]
-Natalie. Natalie. Natalie. -[speaking in English]
[Josh] It's not what he means.
It's not what he means.
Wait, wait, wait.
[Natalie speaking in English]
[Josh] Yes. Yes.
Nobody's... Nobody... Nobody is disrespecting you.
[Chantel] I feel like it's disrespectful.
I feel like what's disrespectful is...
is claiming to wanna help somebody
and you're sleeping with them and leading...
leading them on that they might have a relationship.
-No, no, no, no. -[Natalie speaking in English]
I think that if you wanna help her, help her,
but you shouldn't sleep with her
if you do not want the relationship with her.
-Yeah, it's been more ca-- -[Natalie speaking]
[Josh] Okay. Just relax.
Relax. Nobody's attacking you.
Relax.
[Shaun] Ty and Peyton, I want to ask you a question.
You've said that you've seen this behavior by Josh before
in other relationships.
Can you tell us a little bit more about that?
[speaking in English]
What I mean is what I've seen in the past
is he will get into relationships with people
that need help in some capacity.
It might not be monetary.
He likes fixing people.
And then what happens is he gets in this, you know,
domino like snowball effect that it goes on and on and on.
And nobody knows when to end it for their best interests.
Lost puppy, right?
Exactly. Yeah.
Well, I don't even think he realizes that sometimes.
Ty and Peyton,
thank you so much for coming on
and speaking so candidly.
Uh, hopefully, uh, business is only good in the future.
-Thank you. -Thank you.
So, Natalie, you said that you broke things off with Josh.
One of the reasons is that you wanted to start a family.
[speaking in English]
Yeah. Where are you in that process now?
[speaking in English]
[Josh] Okay.
I... No... I don't... Yeah.
Right. We're not even on the family topic.
Like, we're not... we're not even a couple right now.
So, what are we talking about?
Josh, you said that you and Natalie were together last night?
-[Josh] Yeah. -Do you expect to see her again?
Yeah, I do.
[speaking in English]
Uh... Well--
[Josh] What... what... what do you want the status to be?
What do you... what do you want?
You want me to propose to you?
I don't understand what you need here.
[speaking in English]
And I don't think bad about you.
I don't know what you're talking about.
[speaking in English]
Natalie, you're all over the place.
You're...It's... No... You're all over the place.
You never know, like, there's no definitive answer
of, like, what you actually want.
[Shaun] Okay, we have to take a break.
Natalie and Josh, we have much more to talk about a bit later.
[Tyray whispers] Oh, my God, that was crazy.
[Chantel] That was intense.
-[Debbie] I wanna tell you, Natalie. -[Natalie speaking in English]
[Tyray] You all right?
[Natalie speaking in English]
[Debbie] I don't know all the details,
but I know it's wrong to be called a charity case by Josh.
You know what that means? "A charity case."
That means somebody poor that can't help themselves and just throw them some money.
-[speaking in English] -[Debbie] Yeah, yeah. Josh and his friends.
[Debbie] Yes. And he went, like,
when they said charity case, he went like this.
On the video. You watch. You watch that video.
Like, I think Josh is a good guy, but he's just scary.
Josh is like wishy washy, you know.
He... he won't stand up for her.
[Chantel] You know what kept coming to my mind was
you have to accept somebody where they are
and not for what they're going to change into.
[Debbie] Right. Exactly.
See that's words of wisdom from a young person right here.
It does sound like he provides, but it just seems like
you guys aren't on the same page when it comes to anything else.
But, you know, it's like Natalie was put to the wolves, you know.
Basically looked like, to me, everyone was sharpening their teeth,
taking a bite out and not caring about people's feelings.
But I get really upset when I...
And I get outraged when I see someone crumbling,
that does have emotional challenges,
and then people abuse her trust.
And you're stronger than you think you are.
You're going to be okay.
And I know this is like the unpopular opinion, I... I like Josh.
I get a good read off him, like, he's not a bad guy.
[speaking in English]
When you needed him he answered the phone, Natalie,
and he came and he helped you.
I mean, I can say a lot of people in my life
that won't show up when I need them.
I'll suggest this too.
-Don't sleep with him, honestly. -[Chantel] Yeah.
-Don't do that. Don't give it up. -[Chantel] Take control.
-[Tyray] Yeah. -You know what's powerful?
Your [bleep].
Your cookie. Your cookie's all your power.
You give it up and you give it away.
-[Tim] That is true. -Don't do that.
[speaking in English]
[Veronica gasps] I'm so happy you're here.
-Hey, how's it going? -[Veronica] She needs...
You need to be here right now.
[indistinct chatter]
If you guys don't mind, I was gonna steal her for a moment.
Yes, please do.
[Tim] Oh, God. [sighs]
Does anyone else want a water?
[Josh] Sit down.
-[Natalie] Oh, God. -Are you okay?
Are you upset a little bit?
You okay? You want to talk later about it?
[speaking in English]
I don't think... Just relax.
No, no, no, no. I never said that.
-Let me tell you something really quickly. Stop. Stop. -[speaking in English]
[Josh] Payton likes you a lot.
Payton likes you. That was old. That was a long time ago.
He likes you. He cares you. He respects you. We all do.
[Natalie speaking in English]
[Josh] You are. You are.
[Natalie speaking in English]
Let's not... Let's... let's stop.
Let's stop now and let's focus on moving forward.
Before we can, like, be in a healthy relationship,
we need to fix now.
[speaking in English]
[producer] All right, cutting to Shaun in
five, four, three, two...
[Shaun] I want to get back to Tyray.
-Tyray, you've never had a real girlfriend. -Yeah.
[Shaun] What do you think is the obstacle
to you really meeting somebody and connecting with them on a more intimate level?
Uh, I think I'm the obstacle, honestly.
I think it's just me, like in my head,
like we were talking earlier about, you know,
our own things when it comes to, like, relationships.
And, you know, I have trust issues and I have, um,
issues [chuckles] in general.
Do you think that sometimes you might not know
if a woman is interested in you?
Oh, 100%. 90% of the time. [chuckles]
-[Shaun] 90%of the time? Really? -90%. Yeah.
-You kind of misread cues? -Yeah.
[Shaun] Okay, Natalie, what would be some signs
that Tyray can look out for that a woman could be interested in him?
[speaking in English]
[Veronica] Oh, I mean, I think it's like even simpler than that.
Like, if you're at a party and you keep seeing her
right next to you, like multiple times,
she's going out of her way to come around you.
If she was with a group of friends, and then you see her alone.
She has gotten alone so that you can approach her so you can talk to her.
If she throws her tongue in your mouth after meeting for two minutes.
[Veronica] When I met Tim, I kissed him right away.
I, like, walked up to him and I was like, "Nice to meet you.
-What's your name?" -See, I need something like that to happen.
[John] Tyray, they'll give you eye contact, they will let you know,
and if you're interested, you make the eye contact back.
If you're not, you play stupid.
Well, despite his best efforts,
Tyray didn't always make the best choices
in his attempts to pick up women.
Let's take a look back.
[phone ringing]
[automated voice speaking] Please leave your message for 2, 7, 9...
So it's been an hour now that I've been waiting for Tiffany
and she hasn't responded to my texts or call me back or anything.
So, I guess I got stood up.
So, how do you feel about, like, long distance relationships?
I am cautious with long distance.
Uh, I've seen a lot of relationships go south just being military
-because we are separated all the time... -[Tyray] Oh, true.
...So like right off the jump, trying to be in a committed
long distance relationship, I think would be really hard.
Where'd you get these beads?
[Tyray] Do you want them?
-The beads? -[Tyray] Yeah.
You want to give them to them?
Yeah, but you know what?
You got to do something to get them.
[chuckles]
[whispering] Oh, my God.
[Shaun] Okay, so, Tyray,
how does it feel watching yourself back in those scenarios?
Man, cringe alert. [chuckles nervously]
Let's talk about Tiffany. Ugh.
Uh, she seemed very interested in you at first,
but then she ghosted you.
What happened?
Uh, you know, I don't really know.
It was just kind of weird, you know?
And I was like, uh, you know, I really don't want to
mess with her. She's doing all that.
-It was... It was a red flag, you know? -[Shaun] Yeah.
And what about Raina? You mentioned you're still talking to her?
How have your conversations been?
Um, like... like, casual.
-[Shaun] Okay. -Like, "how are you doing?" You know.
"What's going on?" We were just kind of catching up.
-No, like kissy on the phone or anything like that? -[Tyray] Nothing like that.
[Shaun] Okay, it doesn't sound like a relationship, right?
[Tyray chuckles] No.
So we saw you get stood up by Tiffany.
Then things did not work out with Raina.
Do you have any other prospects right now?
Uh, I actually met another girl in New Orleans
-while I was there. -[Shaun] Oh! Okay.
Me and my brother went to go grab some food, and she was out there.
And then we started talking, and we exchanged social media.
And then we kind of start talking stuff.
Okay, so you, uh,
-DM each other on social media? -[Tyray] Yeah.
-Occasionally, you know, not too much. Nothing serious. -[Shaun] Yeah.
[Tyray] Little flirts here and there.
And what's her name?
I don't know. [chuckles]
I was drunk when she told me,
and she doesn't have it on social media.
I know that's bad. That's bad, bad, bad.
Well, Tyray, we know her name.
-It's Shannon... -[Tyray] Oh.
...and Shannon is here with us today.
Oh, my goodness.
[Tyray] Oh, my God. No.
[Shaun] Come on out, Shannon.
All right, I'm so excited.
You forgot her name, bro.
[Shaun] Coming up...
[Tim] How do you feel about him being
a 33-year-old virgin?
-Does that concern you? -[woman 1] Um...
Oh, my God.
[Shaun] And later...
There was timelines on him moving to San Antonio.
There were timelines on, like, when he was going to get engaged,
I've heard all about the timeline.
I know my worth.
Well, so, what's the timeline for the engagement?
I mean, I... I'm not a timeline guy.
Well, Tyray, we know her name.
-It's Shannon... -[Tyray] Oh.
...and Shannon is here with us today.
God. No.
Come on out, Shannon.
All right, I'm so excited.
My name is Shannon, by the way.
Hi, Shannon.
Oh, my God, what's up? You look nice.
[Shannon] Thank you.
We can all little... Look... We can... Here, here.
-Squeeze in. -Oh, you can sit here, Shannon. [chuckles]
[Shaun] Okay. All right.
Well, Shannon, uh, you look beautiful.
Thank you.
[Shaun] This is the first time
that you've seen each other since that day in New Orleans?
Yes, that is correct.
Okay, Tyray, what do you want to say to Shannon?
God! Wow. I'm like, shocked you came. [chuckles]
Honestly, I had no idea. Honestly.
Ask her if she's staying at the same hotel as you.
That's... that's the first step.
I'm glad you're here. [chuckles]
[Shaun] Okay, tell me about meeting Tyray.
Well, so I met him when I was in New Orleans on Bourbon Street.
I just happened to see him randomly, so I did go up to him.
And we started talking, and we really just, like, hit it off.
I felt like I've actually known him, like,
it didn't feel like meeting a new person.
And we've been talking ever since.
[Shaun] And what kinds of things do you talk about?
Well, it hasn't been that serious, but kind of flirty.
We've both been a little flirty.
-Probably me more so than him. -[Shaun] Uh-huh.
Um, but, you know, we've talked about, like, hanging out, getting together
but it hasn't happened until today.
[Shaun] Okay. And why not, Tyray?
Why didn't you ask her to see her again?
I was just, like, afraid to make that first step.
Like, I didn't want to, you know, approach things when I wasn't ready, you know?
Okay. Okay.
Do you think you're ready now?
Definitely. Yeah, definitely.
-It's a different... -[Shaun] Uh-huh.
like, a whole different ball game now.
[Shaun] All right. And what do you like about Tyray?
What do you find attractive about him?
First thing, his heart.
-[Shaun] Uh-huh. -He's such a kind person.
And he really has, like, an outgoing personality.
He's so easy to talk to.
Of course, he's very handsome, also.
[Shaun] Nice. He is blushing over there.
-There's a confidence booster. -[Shaun] Yeah.
I feel good now.
What are we doing tonight?
Now that's the right question.
Ask her on a date.
Yeah, we should hang out.
-Definitely. -I'm down for that.
So what would you do with her for a first date, like...
Uh, man, I don't know, honestly. Um...
First of all, ask her what she likes to do, Tyray.
-Yeah, that's a good idea. -So, mainly, try to go with whatever she's into.
You know, sacrifices, right?
So ask her. Let's, like, practice here
-while you guys, um-- -[John] I know. Come on, Tyray.
You got this. She's right there for you.
-Right, exactly. -[John] She's ready for the tiger.
[Tyray] So, what do you like to do? What would you like to do?
I think we should, like, go out to eat, like, go to a nice restaurant
and then I don't know, maybe find something touristy to do or something.
There's a Mexican spot, too, right by, like,
down the street.
Stay away from the beans, brother.
-Let's... let's not Mexican. -Yeah, not Mexican.
-[John] Bad, bad choice of food, Tyray. -Oh, okay.
So you don't want anything that's gonna fill you up.
Stay away from pasta, too. You know what I'm saying?
I wouldn't... I wouldn't do fish either.
No fish. Okay. [chuckles]
[Veronica] It's New York City. Let's bump it up a bit.
Let's go skate around Rockefeller and buy those peanuts in a cone thing and...
-[Tim] Cotton candy. -...you know.
That's like, that would be cute. That's a cute date.
Shannon, so you heard Sarper give Tyray some advice.
-There's that giggling going again, Tyray. -I know, right?
It's just a little nervous giggle.
I think laughter is the best medicine.
I'm on board with that. I like to laugh a lot, too, so I'm here for it.
How do you feel about him being a 33-year-old virgin?
Like, for you, does that concern you, or does that intrigue you?
Um, I mean, it really doesn't move me either way.
It's not a negative thing to me at all.
Like, it doesn't bother me at all.
Better than 2500 women, right?
I mean, I will take it.
And Shannon, you know, Tyray says he's never even been kissed.
-My God. -He did not say that.
-Now that part, I didn't know. -Oh, my God.
Well, Shannon, if you want to,
you can be Tyray's first kiss.
-Are you game? -[Tyray] Oh, God.
[Shaun] Coming up...
Patrick, do you think John is ready
to take on a stepfather role?
-No. -That's where you're wrong, Patrick.
But he's already done it. He's been doing it.
I don't think John wants to have kids.
Well, Shannon, if you want to
you can be Tyray's first kiss.
-Are you game? -[Tyray] Oh, God.
Why not right now?
I mean, why not right now?
[all exclaiming]
-Tyray, you ready? -Come on.
Oh, God. All right, I'm game.
-I mean if... -[Veronica] It's okay.
[Shaun] Tyray's gonna get up.
[Tim] Hey, that's what's up.
Stand up and nobody's watching, Tyray. Nobody.
Keep it G, now.
Sorry. Let me put some chapstick on.
He said, "Put some chapstick."
Oh, I love this. Yes!
Have you heard of spontaneous?
If you guys don't watch, it didn't happen.
We need witnesses, okay? You guys got it?
[Tim] Oh, it's on... It's on tape.
All right, I don't know what to do.
[Natalie speaking in English]
All right.
[all cheering]
I'm so proud of Tyray.
And y'all look good together.
That was definitely PG-13.
Oh, God.
Oh, I just love it.
[Tim speaking]
Oh, he better.
[Tyray] Oh, my God.
-I feel so bad. -You're... you're in trouble for that.
Shannon, this has certainly been a treat
for not only Tyray, but all of us.
Thank you so much for joining us today.
You and Tyray really seem to have a connection
that we hope continues to grow.
So, Shannon, thank you so much.
-Thank you guys for having me. -[Shaun] Thank you.
How about if Tyray walks you out?
-Perfect. -[John] There you go.
-[Shaun] Okay. -[John] Come on, buddy.
[all] It was nice to meet you, Shannon.
No... no tiger, now. No tiger.
Not until later.
-What? -Tyray, yeah, let's go.
-Put your arm around her. -[all laughing]
-[all cheering and applauding] -[Tim] Yeah.
It's so cute, though.
How sweet.
Yeah. Okay.
Are we gonna start this next segment without Tyray?
-Oh. -Well, he may not have to wait until tonight.
We're gonna have to, uh, get started without him.
Okay?
Now, we have asked our viewers to submit questions for all of you,
and we found some really interesting ones.
-Are you ready to answer everybody? -Sure.
Okay. So first, Liz from Saugerties, New York,
says, Chantel, we saw you twerking multiple times,
and you even have a twerk instructor.
What's the secret to twerking? And can you teach us?
Well, first you have to keep loose knees,
move them really fast and stand up on your tippy toes.
I think you should demonstrate.
-Uh, John, what about... -[all laughing]
Okay, you can show us.
Um, um, let's see. [chuckles]
Let's see.
I mean, my outfit's a little, uh, let's see.
You have to keep a loose back and activate all of this.
-All of this. -[Shaun] Yeah.
And then just...
[all laughing]
Listen, it's really all about the jiggle.
Natalie, you look like you're game.
Well, you know, I'm really not a professional.
That's why I have an instructor.
-[Shaun] Oh, okay. -Miss Debbie, you wanna try it?
Oh, no, I wasn't endowed with a backside.
Chantel, you got everybody feeling self-conscious.
-Nobody can even deal with that, so... -Oh, dang.
No. You know who taught me?
Actually... Okay, I have an instructor,
but the first person who taught me
was my grandmother, Grandmama Everett.
-[Shaun] Really? -Grandmother. [chuckles]
[Chantel] Yeah, turn on Beyonce
-and Destiny's Child all the time. -Okay.
[Chantel] And we'd be twerking.
Well, it doesn't seem like we have any takers, Chantel.
Our next viewer question.
Bradley, from Iowa, had this to say.
John, what were you thinking
showing up in Texas to visit Megan
with a suitcase full of sex toys?
Somebody remember that?
-Oh, I remember it. -[Shaun] Do you remember that?
What was in that suitcase?
-Vibrators and dildos. -Yes, sir.
-[John] Yeah, no dildos, no dildos. -Yes.
There was vibrators.
But, you know, you wanna make sure,
you know, your significant others getting taken care of, too.
And, you know, sometimes you're tired.
So, you know, it makes things a lot easier, you know.
You got the wand, you got your [bleep].
-You know, you got both, you know, you're multitasking. -[chuckles]
[Debbie] If someone would have showed up
with a suitcase full of adult pleasure devices,
I would have been intimidated and scared.
-Somebody said, "Does he do this... -[laughing]
...with all women?"
It's, like, so it would have, you know,
put me outside of my comfort zone.
They were sealed at least.
They were brand-new.
It's not like I'm going around, you know.
[laughing]
Well, he's making sure she's taken care of, regardless.
It was a lot of reinforcements. I'm not gonna lie.
But at least he's thinking about her.
[John] I found it very handy. They charge up.
It's got different speeds.
-Different motions. -[Debbie] John, the handyman
has a whole new meaning to it, y'all.
-The handyman can. You know what they say? -[all laughing]
All right. Our next viewer question,
Norah from Pennsylvania wants to know,
Natalie, what do you think your perfect movie part would be?
A film.
-Play a what? A vampire. -[Natalie speaking]
-[Natalie] Yes. -A vampire.
Okay. Can you show us how you would perform it?
Yes.
I'm very scared.
[speaking in Ukrainian]
-She lost them? -[Natalie speaking Ukrainian]
[speaking in English]
-[all cheering] -Yeah.
[Natalie] So into it. [chuckles]
That was pretty good. That was pretty good.
That was so good.
-That was pretty good. -[chuckling]
So, Chantel, do you think Natalie has talent as an actress?
I think so. But it's just since you're here,
I think you gotta, um, work on it in English
so that you can get more parts here.
But you're really good. I think so.
Yeah. Yeah.
[Debbie] I see Natalie as, like, old Hollywood,
Jean Harlow, Greta Garbo.
-[Shaun] Yeah. -Yeah, you've got that look. It's a special look.
-And your eyes, you know, they're hypnotic. -Piercing.
-[Tim] They're full. -So I think you could do quite a bit, you know?
And as far as in the movies.
John, what kind of role do you think would be good for Natalie?
[chuckles] Me, I don't... Wicked Witch of the West.
[blows raspberry]
[John]I think it would be good, right?
No, no, no, no spells.
I take it back.
[Shaun] Okay, hold up, everybody.
We are about to be rejoined by Tyray.
-[all cheering] -Tyray, my hero.
[Tyray] Told you I was gonna be fast.
-[Tim] Hey, tell us the deets. -[laughs]
-Okay, spill the tea, all right. -[Tyray] Yeah.
Oh, we were just talking for a little while [chuckles].
And, um, you know I like her.
-Did you get a kiss goodbye? Was there two kisses? -[Tyray] Yeah.
-Ooh. -Oh.
-You got a second kiss, Tyray? -[Tyray] Yeah.
-Did you get a boner? -[all laughing]
I had to make some adjustments, so...
-There you go, you had a shifty, you know. -[all laughing]
[John] There's nothing wrong with that.
-[Tim] Y'all got plans to go out? -Yeah.
We're gonna hang out tonight, and I have her number now.
-Oh. -Oh, he got the digits.
-[Tyray] Thank you, appreciate it. -[speaking]
[chuckling]
Well, we are glad you are back, Tyray.
We were wondering what was going on.
-That date, yeah. -Can't wait to hear about tonight.
[Tyray] Yeah.
I wanna move on to John now.
Well, when we first met John on season 9 of 90 Day Fiance,
he was a third wheel to his brother Patrick and Patrick's fiance Thais.
Everyone thought he was an eternal bachelor,
but then he fell in love with Megan.
And while things have gotten quite serious between them,
there have also been some cracks in their relationship.
So, John, um, as I said, when we first met you,
you were crashing couches and drinking breakfast beers.
What is life like for you now?
Well, it's a lot different, you know.
I wake up, and now we've got River.
So you know, you know, as time's gone on,
I'm like a father figure now,
so she'll jump off the bunk bed.
I call her a little flying squirrel
'cause she'll jump off, jump in,
she'll cuddle for a little bit, and that's my morning now.
Are there any things that you miss about Las Vegas and the single life?
I've already lived that lifestyle enough in my life,
and it's good to have a family.
So I'm happy where I'm at.
And I'm excited for the future.
And you know, I wouldn't want to do it with anybody else.
Oh, okay.
Well, let's bring out the woman who may have finally tamed John's wild side.
Please welcome Megan.
-[all applauding] -[Shaun]Hi, Megan.
Oh, she's gorgeous.
Sup, beautiful.
-Hello. -Hello.
-You look great. -Thank you.
-[kisses] -Love it.
Aw.
[Shaun] Well, seems like, uh, things are going really well.
Megan, how is life now that John is living with you and your daughter, River?
Well, it's definitely different 'cause I'm used to just me and my daughter,
like on, on our own.
-I was pretty content with that. -[Shaun] Mmm-hmm.
[Megan] I mean, I wasn't really looking for anything,
but I guess that's usually when it happens
-is like when you're not looking, but... -[Shaun] Yeah.
-So paint us the picture of John the father figure. -[Megan chuckles]
-John the father figure is... -[chuckling]
...I know it's gonna to be a surprise to everybody,
but he's actually, like, he's... he's a family man, like, at heart, you know.
It actually doesn't surprise me for some reason.
-It doesn't. Why not, Tim? -[Tim] I don't know.
I... I get a feeling from John,
yeah, that we see him.
They like playing games and drinking all the time.
But it takes a special guy that can step in
and be a father figure to someone else's child.
I think, I don't know,
he just strikes me as the type of guy
that actually would be a family dude.
[John] I'm definitely a homebody.
I think she... we're kind of similar in that way too.
We're kind of like, rather stay in
and, you know, just chill with each other.
Okay, so, John,
you've said that you don't want a biological child.
It's not really something necessary for me.
It's not one of those things that I need.
But if it was to happen, you know, obviously,
I'd love, like, a child and stuff.
I mean, I don't try not to have it happen, you know what I'm saying?
So it's like, I wouldn't say that I'm trying to,
but, you know, like...
We're not wearing protection.
You're not pulling out?
If you're actively having sex with no protection.
The fact that it's been this long and we haven't had any scares,
I'm like, you know.
-You're both prepared if it does happen. -Right.
It does happen, it happens.
-Megan, you're not concerned at all about that. -She wants another baby.
[Megan] The other thing is, is like, I maybe changed my mind.
I love him enough to where that's enough.
Like, and, you know, I have my daughter,
and if he's okay with not having another kid, then I'm okay with it.
But I'm not going out of my way to have a child.
Obviously, I'm... I'm not going out of my way to not have one either, right?
Because I'm... I'm not taking precautions.
Okay, well, no one knows John better than his brother, Patrick.
We have him here today to weigh in on John's new relationship.
-Please welcome Patrick. -Oh.
[Debbie] Yay, Patrick.
[all applauding]
-[Shaun] Hi, Patrick. -[Patrick] Hi.
[Shaun] How are you? Good to see you again.
[Patrick] I'm good. How are you?
[Shaun] Thanks for being here. Now, Patrick, do you think
that John is ready to take on a stepfather role?
-No, I don't. -[Shaun] You don't.
-Really? -Wow.
[Patrick] John getting into a relationship and, like,
having to be a stepfather, like, wasn't an ideal situation.
But he's already done it. He's been doing it.
Well, I mean, I just know John.
I feel like it's just a lot for him.
That's where you're wrong, Patrick.
Yeah, and I was doing majority of the work anyway when he came along.
So I'm not gonna stop doing that
just because a man comes into my life.
Just it's a lot.
I don't think John wants to have kids.
[Shaun] Coming up.
-Do you think Megan is a jealous person? -From what I hear.
I wonder who he could have heard it from.
Hey, whoa, whoa, whoa.
You know, between the location sharing, you know...
-Oh. -...you know, having problems when he's working.
Y'all gotta stop playing around with this.
I disagree. I know my relationship.
I don't think John wants to have kids.
Well, John just said that he's kind of changed his mind
about possibly having kids.
So this is something that could happen.
-How do you feel about that? -[Patrick] I like the idea.
But I mean, you know, John's been... been clear on that for a long time.
Like, he didn't want to have his own kids.
That was kind of, like, another reason why I'm like,
you know, well, being a stepdad's
kind of like being a dad. It should be.
I mean, we had stepdads. We grew up with stepdads.
So, like, we know what it's like
from the kid's perspective.
[Veronica] He's been doing it, and he's been loving it,
and she's been saying he's doing great at it, so...
My daughter has support from me,
uh, but John makes her life easier,
and he does a lot of things for her
that I wouldn't be able to do if I was alone, so...
Well, that's what you're supposed to do, though.
-You're a team, right? So... -[Shaun] Right.
[Debbie] And I think you have a really big heart.
-Thank you, Debbie. -[Debbie] And you love and care for her.
-I do. -So her child is the same as your child,
and you will protect and nourish that child with love.
Does he have a big heart?
Is he gonna take care of her? Like, yeah, absolutely.
But it's just it's a lot.
[Shaun] Well, Patrick raised a lot of concerns
about John's ability to be a good partner.
Are these concerns valid? Let's watch.
You think John, I mean, you can see John being a good father figure.
It's kinda scary. I ain't gonna lie, but I can do it.
John is a 39-year-old child.
I'm a little concerned that Megan,
you know, she's looking for someone to support her,
and John might be someone that she's gonna have to support.
I mean, John's not really the... the responsible type up until this point,
[Thais speaking]
All right, Megan, what gave you some pause there?
Yeah, just because obviously, like, he's used to that life,
like just being able to get up and go.
And... and that's not how my life is.
Like, I don't have a choice to wake up late. [chuckles]
I have to wake up when my daughter wakes up and get her ready for school.
So, I know it's a big change for him.
So that was the part I was scared for him.
[John] What can I say? You know,
I... I lived a lifestyle that, you know, fit me.
And, you know, at that point, that's what I was living, you know.
And, uh, you know, but luckily for me, I can adjust.
Patrick, do you regret revealing too much about your brother to Megan?
No, I have no regrets on, you know,
telling Megan about John, or anything like that, like...
You never said to yourself, "Gosh, maybe I shared
a little bit too much about him?"
No, I think, uh, I mean, she should know.
I mean, if you're gonna be in a relationship for a long time,
like, it's gonna come out either way.
Like, you should know what you're getting yourself into.
And John should know a lot about Megan, too, so,
I don't feel like I overshared.
-But shouldn't it be for John to tell her that, though? -Uh, you'd imagine.
John probably did tell her, but just in a different way.
Do you have any red flags with Megan, or what do you think about her?
Especially her for John.
Uh, the only red flags I have with Megan
is really just, like, some of the jealousy stuff that's come up.
-[Shaun] Oh, okay. -Hmm.
-[chuckles] -[Shaun] Do you think Megan is jealous, a jealous person?
From what I hear.
I wonder who he could have heard it from.
Maybe I used the word jealous, but it's a trust thing
because there's nothing really to be jealous about 'cause I ain't doing nothing.
I mean, I'm very open about like, having trust issues. I'm working on it.
And I told him, like, it's a process.
But, you know, he gets jealous too.
And, you know, there's... there's always two sides to everything.
But, you know.
Patrick, what did John tell you?
You know, between the location sharing,
-you know... -Oh.
...you know, having problems when he's working,
and having to be called home.
I mean, there's just a lot of things.
It's like, you know, come up.
Like, he was on installs for too long,
and, like, he was at someone's house for a while.
And I was like, "Well, why are you there?"
-Megan was saying... -[Patrick] Yeah.
-...and questioning John about... -Yeah.
...why was he on an install for so long?
Yeah, you know, just, like, things like that.
Why do you guys share locations?
I don't know. I just, I guess when we had, like, the long distance,
like, we started that.
It's, like, I get long distance.
Like, that brings a look of insecurity for everyone.
But, man, it's like,
you know, you guys have been together for a while. You live in the same house.
I think that the sharing the location can build trust in a lot of relationships.
But for you, I think maybe delete that
'cause you're obsessed with it.
-Just like... -No, I don't... I don't check his location, though.
That's the thing, I don't.
I don't check it constantly. [chuckles]
So do you trust John 100%?
-Maybe 99.9. -Okay.
-[laughs]
I'm human. Like, that's... that's... I'm just... That's human nature.
Like, that means I really, truly love him if, like,
I have that fear in me a little bit
that, like, I don't want him to hurt me, like, you know?
Honestly, like, our instances of jealousy,
like, I would say once every two weeks.
And then if that's crazy, then it's crazy.
But I think it's normal.
I think that if there was no issues at all,
then that would worry me.
Once every two weeks,
there is an issue about jealousy, is that what you said?
[Megan] Yeah, like, maybe once. That's... that's a ballpark.
Give us an example of the last one.
An example, like, we were at the bar, like, yesterday, he said,
"I was looking at some guy's butt."
Okay, that was something, right?
There's been other times where if, like, we're at the grocer,
I'm like, "Are you looking... Are you, like, looking at somebody," like...
And that's it, just, like, and it's small.
And then there's other times where you know he'll be like, "Are you texting somebody?"
Or I'll be like, "Are you like... Are you messaging somebody?"
Little stuff like that, and that might blow up to a bigger fight.
And then it lasts for a day. And then we are fine.
Like, you know, it's just normal stuff, right?
Oh, those comments, they're just not healthy.
They're not gonna nourish that relationship.
Y'all gotta stop playing around with this.
I'm... Look, I disagree. I disagree.
I know my relationship, so I wouldn't be with someone if it was the case.
But maybe... maybe John feels differently.
Well, a lot of times, sometimes I joke around about it,
but then it upsets her 'cause, you know, I'm just not...
I don't always think when I talk.
And then, like I said,
sometimes her not questioning me all the time gets my head going
-because I'm not doing anything. -Yeah.
So to have it come up, I'm just like this.
"But why the [bleep] is she saying this [bleep]?
Usually when somebody brings it up
they're doing something. What's going on?"
Well, it sounds like you both have very similar jealous issues.
So I think maybe you accept each other for that.
But I don't... I don't think that's normal in a relationship.
And if it is like, God, I don't want that relationship.
I just want peace in my life.
You guys are just fueling this fire
where you're just always on edge.
No, I disagree.
It is a bigger deal than they're making out to be.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. No, no, that's...
[Shaun] Coming up...
So what's the next timeline?
I guess the engagement is supposed to be coming up.
Well, so what's the timeline for the engagement?
Like, five years?
My timeline, you know, you know, uh,
you know, it's whenever, you know, it's, like, whenever it happens,
you know what I'm saying?
[Veronica] You guys are just fueling this fire
where you're just always on edge.
No, I disagree.
It is a bigger deal than they're making out to be.
And I know how important it is in a relationship to have trust.
It's, like, what the whole thing is about.
I think you need to cut Megan some slack.
-[Debbie] It's like you're going hard on her. -Thank you, Debbie.
-[Debbie] It's, like, you need to be building
up their relationship.
No, I wanna make sure you guys are in a good relationship.
And so if, like... like, I think you get
caught up on a trap really quick that things are gonna change.
And, like, you know, the reality is they don't,
unless, like, you bring awareness to them and make them change, so...
-I mean... -What needs to change, though, What needs to change?
[Patrick] Well, just to the trust issues.
That's a big, huge, massive deal.
It's something that, like, it is gonna destroy any relationship.
[Megan] Like, I'm doing everything I can,
so sometimes I get a little crazy
and I have a little bit of trust issues.
But it's only because he's so good to me
and he's so good to my daughter, so...
Considering, you know, how fast things happen,
and, you know, short term, you gotta figure things out, you know.
-We're not perfect. -[Megan] Right.
[Veronica] So have you guys gotten engaged?
'Cause you had a timeline, didn't you?
Yeah, but realistically, you know, that's not like me
to kind of put, like, an ultimatum on somebody.
Because in the beginning, I wasn't even about marriage.
-What... Patrick, your face. -[Shaun] Patrick, your face.
-Yeah. -Uh, Tim caught that too.
You just made a face when Megan said
she wasn't one to put timelines, or...
I've heard there's timelines.
What... What have you heard?
[Veronica] Patrick, tell us. Spill the tea. Come on now.
There was timelines on him moving to San Antonio.
There were timelines on, like, when he's gonna get engaged.
I've heard all about the timeline.
And the timeline to move to San Antonio, he caved. She got her way.
Yeah, and that was fast.
And you did say you don't like ultimatums, but...
Yeah, no, for sure, I don't, I don't.
But at the same time, when I think about it,
like, I know my worth and, like,
I'm not... I don't have time right now to be, like, really lollygagging.
[Shaun] Was John not comfortable with that timeline?
Did he not want to move to Texas that quickly?
I mean, not really.
He doesn't really like San Antonio that much, right?
We've talked about that, like... It's not...
No, down the line, eventually, I'd like to get out of San Antonio.
But it's gonna take some time. You gotta...
You know, our daughter, you know, factors into that
because she just got into schooling. Just got it going.
-So, you know, that's pretty important, you know? -Yeah.
So what's the next timeline?
I guess the engagement is supposed to be coming up.
Well, so what's the timeline for the engagement?
Like, five years?
Oh, no, honey, that... that's too long.
-No, that's a little too long. -[Veronica] Okay.
I think the future is, uh, you know,
I'm madly in love with Megan, you know?
So, uh, as long as she's still madly in love with me, then, you know we're gonna...
Obviously, nobody's perfect, right?
So obviously, we do need to work on the trust issues
because we want... I want this to work.
You know, I don't wanna spend my life with anybody else.
Like, what's the general time frame for engagement?
Your expectations.
I mean, my expectation, I would hope that it's within, like,
you know, a year and a half, yeah.
Well, you just never... I mean, I... I'm not a timeline guy.
-But am I crazy about her? Of course. -But she's a timeline girl.
Well, she... I mean, she is.
You know, some people, you know, when they have tasks to do,
-it really bothers them till they get the task done. -Mmm-hmm.
[John] I'm the opposite.
Like, I forget the task even exists.
I don't need, like, the whole ceremony of marriage. I just need the commitment.
And that's the main thing.
So an engagement.
-You need an engagement within a year and a half... -[Megan] Right. Mmm-hmm.
...or else...
Goddamn! Give a man a break.
Then, yeah, we're gonna have to, like, figure out what's going on.
John, so in your mind,
do you feel like if things progress
and just keep going at this rate,
that you'd propose to her on her timeline?
-John? -My timeline.
Well, you know, you know, you know, it's whenever you know,
it's like, whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying?
'Cause right now, baby,
Miss Megan Brown.
Oh!
[Natalie speaking]
[Shaun] Next time on the The Single Life Tell All...
-How many years did you shave off? -Ten.
[Tim] I mean, it's not a white lie.
I don't think, like, two years is a white lie. [chuckles]
Yeah, two years is a white light. Ten years is like...
[Tim] Ten years is a lot, you know?
I don't ever lie about my age. I never have.
Why can't you accept your age? I don't understand that.
I think Mama Debbie's on the attack to Miss Debbie.
You were definitely interested.
That's not true.
[Shaun] What do you mean by that?
Oh, [bleep].
[Luisa speaking]
[Julian speaking]
[Shaun] Debbie, do you think that Ruben is hiding anything?
Well, there is one thing, Ruben.
She's a knockout. I know that, you know,
and he's a man, and he's a good looking man.
You think I'm handsome?
Ooh!
And I'm gonna tell you something,
but please don't go back and say you've heard it from me.
It's probably nothing,
but I saw Luisa and I saw Jamal
out at the restaurant, at the hotel.