1 00:00:01,379 --> 00:00:05,275 [Shaun] Previously on 90 Day: The Single Life Tell All... 2 00:00:05,275 --> 00:00:09,482 John, things with Megan seemed a bit tense the first day. 3 00:00:09,482 --> 00:00:12,689 -Are you still living in Texas with Megan? -[John] Still living in Texas. 4 00:00:12,689 --> 00:00:14,310 You know, when you start living with someone, 5 00:00:14,310 --> 00:00:15,724 you know, it's a little different from, 6 00:00:15,724 --> 00:00:17,793 you know, long distance relationships. 7 00:00:17,793 --> 00:00:19,103 So you know, it's adjustment. 8 00:00:19,103 --> 00:00:21,103 -[Shaun] There's a lot. -There's a lot. 9 00:00:21,103 --> 00:00:23,344 Tyray, are you still a virgin? 10 00:00:23,620 --> 00:00:25,275 Uh, yeah. 11 00:00:25,275 --> 00:00:27,862 [speaking in English] 12 00:00:35,931 --> 00:00:38,689 [Tyray] See, I just did it right now. It's bad. [chuckles] 13 00:00:38,689 --> 00:00:40,517 I don't think that's the end all, be all 14 00:00:40,517 --> 00:00:42,344 to why you're getting no nanny, you know what I'm saying? 15 00:00:44,689 --> 00:00:47,620 I'm wondering, Giannis, do you feel like Chantel 16 00:00:47,620 --> 00:00:51,482 is not ready to be in an exclusive relationship? 17 00:00:51,482 --> 00:00:55,172 [speaking in English] 18 00:00:56,413 --> 00:00:59,931 It still hurts but I'm trying to still believe 19 00:00:59,931 --> 00:01:02,137 that there's still, like, you know, 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,137 something for me. Something more. 21 00:01:06,793 --> 00:01:10,172 Josh is known to do this. He's charitable, he gives, 22 00:01:10,172 --> 00:01:12,206 and the money that he has been spending 23 00:01:12,206 --> 00:01:15,689 all of a sudden puts him in a sugar daddy category with you guys? 24 00:01:15,689 --> 00:01:18,275 Let me reword it. Josh is giving her money 25 00:01:18,275 --> 00:01:20,172 but sleeping with her, but won't commit to her. 26 00:01:20,172 --> 00:01:22,068 [speaking in English] 27 00:01:22,068 --> 00:01:24,241 -Natalie. Natalie. Natalie. -[speaking in English] 28 00:01:27,172 --> 00:01:28,896 [Josh] It's not what he means. 29 00:01:28,896 --> 00:01:30,655 It's not what he means. 30 00:01:31,482 --> 00:01:33,241 Wait, wait, wait. 31 00:01:46,378 --> 00:01:48,965 [Natalie speaking in English] 32 00:01:54,310 --> 00:01:56,689 [Josh] Yes. Yes. 33 00:01:56,689 --> 00:01:59,378 Nobody's... Nobody... Nobody is disrespecting you. 34 00:01:59,378 --> 00:02:02,172 [Chantel] I feel like it's disrespectful. 35 00:02:02,172 --> 00:02:04,827 I feel like what's disrespectful is... 36 00:02:04,827 --> 00:02:07,586 is claiming to wanna help somebody 37 00:02:07,586 --> 00:02:09,689 and you're sleeping with them and leading... 38 00:02:09,689 --> 00:02:12,103 leading them on that they might have a relationship. 39 00:02:12,103 --> 00:02:13,620 -No, no, no, no. -[Natalie speaking in English] 40 00:02:13,620 --> 00:02:16,586 I think that if you wanna help her, help her, 41 00:02:16,586 --> 00:02:17,827 but you shouldn't sleep with her 42 00:02:17,827 --> 00:02:20,000 if you do not want the relationship with her. 43 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,275 -Yeah, it's been more ca-- -[Natalie speaking] 44 00:02:22,275 --> 00:02:24,620 [Josh] Okay. Just relax. 45 00:02:24,620 --> 00:02:26,482 Relax. Nobody's attacking you. 46 00:02:27,931 --> 00:02:29,068 Relax. 47 00:02:32,689 --> 00:02:34,413 [Shaun] Ty and Peyton, I want to ask you a question. 48 00:02:34,413 --> 00:02:39,965 You've said that you've seen this behavior by Josh before 49 00:02:40,482 --> 00:02:42,586 in other relationships. 50 00:02:42,586 --> 00:02:44,620 Can you tell us a little bit more about that? 51 00:02:44,620 --> 00:02:45,827 [speaking in English] 52 00:02:45,827 --> 00:02:48,310 What I mean is what I've seen in the past 53 00:02:48,310 --> 00:02:51,930 is he will get into relationships with people 54 00:02:51,930 --> 00:02:55,000 that need help in some capacity. 55 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,793 It might not be monetary. 56 00:02:56,793 --> 00:02:59,689 He likes fixing people. 57 00:02:59,689 --> 00:03:03,793 And then what happens is he gets in this, you know, 58 00:03:03,793 --> 00:03:08,379 domino like snowball effect that it goes on and on and on. 59 00:03:08,379 --> 00:03:12,000 And nobody knows when to end it for their best interests. 60 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,482 Lost puppy, right? 61 00:03:13,482 --> 00:03:14,793 Exactly. Yeah. 62 00:03:14,793 --> 00:03:17,068 Well, I don't even think he realizes that sometimes. 63 00:03:17,586 --> 00:03:19,275 Ty and Peyton, 64 00:03:19,275 --> 00:03:21,000 thank you so much for coming on 65 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,586 and speaking so candidly. 66 00:03:22,586 --> 00:03:26,413 Uh, hopefully, uh, business is only good in the future. 67 00:03:26,413 --> 00:03:28,068 -Thank you. -Thank you. 68 00:03:33,793 --> 00:03:37,689 So, Natalie, you said that you broke things off with Josh. 69 00:03:37,689 --> 00:03:40,137 One of the reasons is that you wanted to start a family. 70 00:03:40,896 --> 00:03:43,793 [speaking in English] 71 00:03:43,793 --> 00:03:47,206 Yeah. Where are you in that process now? 72 00:03:47,206 --> 00:03:50,482 [speaking in English] 73 00:04:00,689 --> 00:04:02,482 [Josh] Okay. 74 00:04:02,482 --> 00:04:05,137 I... No... I don't... Yeah. 75 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,275 Right. We're not even on the family topic. 76 00:04:13,275 --> 00:04:15,896 Like, we're not... we're not even a couple right now. 77 00:04:15,896 --> 00:04:17,654 So, what are we talking about? 78 00:04:18,930 --> 00:04:22,689 Josh, you said that you and Natalie were together last night? 79 00:04:22,689 --> 00:04:25,758 -[Josh] Yeah. -Do you expect to see her again? 80 00:04:26,275 --> 00:04:27,448 Yeah, I do. 81 00:04:28,482 --> 00:04:29,965 [speaking in English] 82 00:04:31,379 --> 00:04:32,620 Uh... Well-- 83 00:04:34,310 --> 00:04:36,275 [Josh] What... what... what do you want the status to be? 84 00:04:36,275 --> 00:04:37,344 What do you... what do you want? 85 00:04:40,275 --> 00:04:41,586 You want me to propose to you? 86 00:04:41,586 --> 00:04:43,586 I don't understand what you need here. 87 00:04:43,586 --> 00:04:45,241 [speaking in English] 88 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,793 And I don't think bad about you. 89 00:04:49,793 --> 00:04:51,482 I don't know what you're talking about. 90 00:04:51,482 --> 00:04:53,172 [speaking in English] 91 00:04:54,103 --> 00:04:55,896 Natalie, you're all over the place. 92 00:04:55,896 --> 00:04:58,827 You're...It's... No... You're all over the place. 93 00:04:58,827 --> 00:05:01,482 You never know, like, there's no definitive answer 94 00:05:01,482 --> 00:05:03,551 of, like, what you actually want. 95 00:05:04,689 --> 00:05:06,896 [Shaun] Okay, we have to take a break. 96 00:05:06,896 --> 00:05:10,137 Natalie and Josh, we have much more to talk about a bit later. 97 00:05:12,206 --> 00:05:14,000 [Tyray whispers] Oh, my God, that was crazy. 98 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,517 [Chantel] That was intense. 99 00:05:15,517 --> 00:05:18,000 -[Debbie] I wanna tell you, Natalie. -[Natalie speaking in English] 100 00:05:22,379 --> 00:05:23,413 [Tyray] You all right? 101 00:05:23,413 --> 00:05:25,689 [Natalie speaking in English] 102 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,103 [Debbie] I don't know all the details, 103 00:05:32,103 --> 00:05:36,379 but I know it's wrong to be called a charity case by Josh. 104 00:05:36,379 --> 00:05:38,586 You know what that means? "A charity case." 105 00:05:38,586 --> 00:05:42,931 That means somebody poor that can't help themselves and just throw them some money. 106 00:05:42,931 --> 00:05:46,689 -[speaking in English] -[Debbie] Yeah, yeah. Josh and his friends. 107 00:05:47,620 --> 00:05:48,793 [Debbie] Yes. And he went, like, 108 00:05:48,793 --> 00:05:51,379 when they said charity case, he went like this. 109 00:05:51,379 --> 00:05:54,275 On the video. You watch. You watch that video. 110 00:05:54,275 --> 00:05:57,793 Like, I think Josh is a good guy, but he's just scary. 111 00:05:57,793 --> 00:06:00,689 Josh is like wishy washy, you know. 112 00:06:00,689 --> 00:06:03,275 He... he won't stand up for her. 113 00:06:03,275 --> 00:06:05,517 [Chantel] You know what kept coming to my mind was 114 00:06:05,517 --> 00:06:08,000 you have to accept somebody where they are 115 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,689 and not for what they're going to change into. 116 00:06:10,689 --> 00:06:12,689 [Debbie] Right. Exactly. 117 00:06:12,689 --> 00:06:15,689 See that's words of wisdom from a young person right here. 118 00:06:15,689 --> 00:06:18,482 It does sound like he provides, but it just seems like 119 00:06:18,482 --> 00:06:20,689 you guys aren't on the same page when it comes to anything else. 120 00:06:20,689 --> 00:06:24,206 But, you know, it's like Natalie was put to the wolves, you know. 121 00:06:24,206 --> 00:06:28,103 Basically looked like, to me, everyone was sharpening their teeth, 122 00:06:28,103 --> 00:06:31,620 taking a bite out and not caring about people's feelings. 123 00:06:31,620 --> 00:06:33,724 But I get really upset when I... 124 00:06:33,724 --> 00:06:37,586 And I get outraged when I see someone crumbling, 125 00:06:37,586 --> 00:06:40,103 that does have emotional challenges, 126 00:06:40,103 --> 00:06:43,448 and then people abuse her trust. 127 00:06:44,517 --> 00:06:47,379 And you're stronger than you think you are. 128 00:06:47,379 --> 00:06:49,689 You're going to be okay. 129 00:06:49,689 --> 00:06:54,275 And I know this is like the unpopular opinion, I... I like Josh. 130 00:06:54,275 --> 00:06:57,724 I get a good read off him, like, he's not a bad guy. 131 00:06:57,724 --> 00:06:59,172 [speaking in English] 132 00:07:02,482 --> 00:07:04,413 When you needed him he answered the phone, Natalie, 133 00:07:04,413 --> 00:07:05,931 and he came and he helped you. 134 00:07:05,931 --> 00:07:08,103 I mean, I can say a lot of people in my life 135 00:07:08,103 --> 00:07:10,275 that won't show up when I need them. 136 00:07:10,275 --> 00:07:11,724 I'll suggest this too. 137 00:07:11,724 --> 00:07:13,482 -Don't sleep with him, honestly. -[Chantel] Yeah. 138 00:07:13,482 --> 00:07:15,172 -Don't do that. Don't give it up. -[Chantel] Take control. 139 00:07:15,172 --> 00:07:17,275 -[Tyray] Yeah. -You know what's powerful? 140 00:07:17,275 --> 00:07:18,517 Your [bleep]. 141 00:07:18,517 --> 00:07:21,000 Your cookie. Your cookie's all your power. 142 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,724 You give it up and you give it away. 143 00:07:22,724 --> 00:07:24,206 -[Tim] That is true. -Don't do that. 144 00:07:24,206 --> 00:07:25,965 [speaking in English] 145 00:07:37,413 --> 00:07:38,827 [Veronica gasps] I'm so happy you're here. 146 00:07:38,827 --> 00:07:40,000 -Hey, how's it going? -[Veronica] She needs... 147 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,068 You need to be here right now. 148 00:07:42,068 --> 00:07:43,379 [indistinct chatter] 149 00:07:43,379 --> 00:07:45,000 If you guys don't mind, I was gonna steal her for a moment. 150 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:46,172 Yes, please do. 151 00:07:47,793 --> 00:07:49,931 [Tim] Oh, God. [sighs] 152 00:07:49,931 --> 00:07:51,448 Does anyone else want a water? 153 00:07:55,793 --> 00:07:56,758 [Josh] Sit down. 154 00:07:59,103 --> 00:08:01,379 -[Natalie] Oh, God. -Are you okay? 155 00:08:03,103 --> 00:08:04,172 Are you upset a little bit? 156 00:08:05,103 --> 00:08:07,241 You okay? You want to talk later about it? 157 00:08:09,206 --> 00:08:11,758 [speaking in English] 158 00:08:12,827 --> 00:08:14,689 I don't think... Just relax. 159 00:08:19,310 --> 00:08:21,172 No, no, no, no. I never said that. 160 00:08:23,172 --> 00:08:26,448 -Let me tell you something really quickly. Stop. Stop. -[speaking in English] 161 00:08:29,620 --> 00:08:30,862 [Josh] Payton likes you a lot. 162 00:08:34,688 --> 00:08:38,102 Payton likes you. That was old. That was a long time ago. 163 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,793 He likes you. He cares you. He respects you. We all do. 164 00:08:40,793 --> 00:08:42,551 [Natalie speaking in English] 165 00:08:46,103 --> 00:08:47,379 [Josh] You are. You are. 166 00:08:47,379 --> 00:08:50,068 [Natalie speaking in English] 167 00:09:03,379 --> 00:09:08,172 Let's not... Let's... let's stop. 168 00:09:08,172 --> 00:09:11,379 Let's stop now and let's focus on moving forward. 169 00:09:11,379 --> 00:09:15,000 Before we can, like, be in a healthy relationship, 170 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,275 we need to fix now. 171 00:09:17,275 --> 00:09:18,758 [speaking in English] 172 00:09:50,896 --> 00:09:53,793 [producer] All right, cutting to Shaun in 173 00:09:53,793 --> 00:09:56,965 five, four, three, two... 174 00:09:58,413 --> 00:10:01,827 [Shaun] I want to get back to Tyray. 175 00:10:01,827 --> 00:10:05,620 -Tyray, you've never had a real girlfriend. -Yeah. 176 00:10:05,620 --> 00:10:08,413 [Shaun] What do you think is the obstacle 177 00:10:08,413 --> 00:10:13,379 to you really meeting somebody and connecting with them on a more intimate level? 178 00:10:13,379 --> 00:10:15,413 Uh, I think I'm the obstacle, honestly. 179 00:10:15,413 --> 00:10:17,172 I think it's just me, like in my head, 180 00:10:17,172 --> 00:10:19,103 like we were talking earlier about, you know, 181 00:10:19,103 --> 00:10:21,896 our own things when it comes to, like, relationships. 182 00:10:21,896 --> 00:10:25,241 And, you know, I have trust issues and I have, um, 183 00:10:25,896 --> 00:10:27,482 issues [chuckles] in general. 184 00:10:27,482 --> 00:10:30,379 Do you think that sometimes you might not know 185 00:10:30,379 --> 00:10:32,620 if a woman is interested in you? 186 00:10:32,620 --> 00:10:35,172 Oh, 100%. 90% of the time. [chuckles] 187 00:10:35,172 --> 00:10:37,413 -[Shaun] 90%of the time? Really? -90%. Yeah. 188 00:10:37,413 --> 00:10:39,965 -You kind of misread cues? -Yeah. 189 00:10:41,103 --> 00:10:44,379 [Shaun] Okay, Natalie, what would be some signs 190 00:10:44,379 --> 00:10:49,000 that Tyray can look out for that a woman could be interested in him? 191 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,896 [speaking in English] 192 00:10:57,517 --> 00:10:59,379 [Veronica] Oh, I mean, I think it's like even simpler than that. 193 00:10:59,379 --> 00:11:02,275 Like, if you're at a party and you keep seeing her 194 00:11:02,275 --> 00:11:04,413 right next to you, like multiple times, 195 00:11:04,413 --> 00:11:06,586 she's going out of her way to come around you. 196 00:11:06,586 --> 00:11:08,793 If she was with a group of friends, and then you see her alone. 197 00:11:08,793 --> 00:11:13,000 She has gotten alone so that you can approach her so you can talk to her. 198 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:16,689 If she throws her tongue in your mouth after meeting for two minutes. 199 00:11:16,689 --> 00:11:18,724 [Veronica] When I met Tim, I kissed him right away. 200 00:11:18,724 --> 00:11:20,689 I, like, walked up to him and I was like, "Nice to meet you. 201 00:11:20,689 --> 00:11:23,724 -What's your name?" -See, I need something like that to happen. 202 00:11:23,724 --> 00:11:26,482 [John] Tyray, they'll give you eye contact, they will let you know, 203 00:11:26,482 --> 00:11:28,724 and if you're interested, you make the eye contact back. 204 00:11:28,724 --> 00:11:29,758 If you're not, you play stupid. 205 00:11:30,827 --> 00:11:32,586 Well, despite his best efforts, 206 00:11:32,586 --> 00:11:35,379 Tyray didn't always make the best choices 207 00:11:35,379 --> 00:11:37,275 in his attempts to pick up women. 208 00:11:37,275 --> 00:11:38,551 Let's take a look back. 209 00:11:40,724 --> 00:11:44,000 [phone ringing] 210 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,482 [automated voice speaking] Please leave your message for 2, 7, 9... 211 00:11:58,689 --> 00:12:01,379 So it's been an hour now that I've been waiting for Tiffany 212 00:12:01,379 --> 00:12:04,896 and she hasn't responded to my texts or call me back or anything. 213 00:12:04,896 --> 00:12:06,862 So, I guess I got stood up. 214 00:12:10,103 --> 00:12:12,586 So, how do you feel about, like, long distance relationships? 215 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:20,344 I am cautious with long distance. 216 00:12:22,379 --> 00:12:26,620 Uh, I've seen a lot of relationships go south just being military 217 00:12:26,620 --> 00:12:28,793 -because we are separated all the time... -[Tyray] Oh, true. 218 00:12:28,793 --> 00:12:32,379 ...So like right off the jump, trying to be in a committed 219 00:12:32,379 --> 00:12:34,862 long distance relationship, I think would be really hard. 220 00:12:39,206 --> 00:12:40,275 Where'd you get these beads? 221 00:12:40,827 --> 00:12:42,068 [Tyray] Do you want them? 222 00:12:42,068 --> 00:12:43,172 -The beads? -[Tyray] Yeah. 223 00:12:43,172 --> 00:12:44,344 You want to give them to them? 224 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,517 Yeah, but you know what? 225 00:12:47,517 --> 00:12:48,689 You got to do something to get them. 226 00:12:51,379 --> 00:12:52,862 [chuckles] 227 00:13:00,896 --> 00:13:02,000 [whispering] Oh, my God. 228 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,689 [Shaun] Okay, so, Tyray, 229 00:13:04,689 --> 00:13:07,896 how does it feel watching yourself back in those scenarios? 230 00:13:07,896 --> 00:13:10,551 Man, cringe alert. [chuckles nervously] 231 00:13:11,586 --> 00:13:14,586 Let's talk about Tiffany. Ugh. 232 00:13:14,586 --> 00:13:17,689 Uh, she seemed very interested in you at first, 233 00:13:17,689 --> 00:13:19,724 but then she ghosted you. 234 00:13:19,724 --> 00:13:21,379 What happened? 235 00:13:21,379 --> 00:13:23,275 Uh, you know, I don't really know. 236 00:13:23,275 --> 00:13:24,793 It was just kind of weird, you know? 237 00:13:24,793 --> 00:13:27,517 And I was like, uh, you know, I really don't want to 238 00:13:27,517 --> 00:13:29,689 mess with her. She's doing all that. 239 00:13:29,689 --> 00:13:32,482 -It was... It was a red flag, you know? -[Shaun] Yeah. 240 00:13:32,482 --> 00:13:35,896 And what about Raina? You mentioned you're still talking to her? 241 00:13:35,896 --> 00:13:37,586 How have your conversations been? 242 00:13:37,586 --> 00:13:40,586 Um, like... like, casual. 243 00:13:40,586 --> 00:13:41,793 -[Shaun] Okay. -Like, "how are you doing?" You know. 244 00:13:41,793 --> 00:13:43,931 "What's going on?" We were just kind of catching up. 245 00:13:43,931 --> 00:13:47,172 -No, like kissy on the phone or anything like that? -[Tyray] Nothing like that. 246 00:13:47,172 --> 00:13:49,379 [Shaun] Okay, it doesn't sound like a relationship, right? 247 00:13:49,379 --> 00:13:51,275 [Tyray chuckles] No. 248 00:13:51,275 --> 00:13:55,103 So we saw you get stood up by Tiffany. 249 00:13:55,103 --> 00:13:58,379 Then things did not work out with Raina. 250 00:13:58,379 --> 00:14:01,310 Do you have any other prospects right now? 251 00:14:01,310 --> 00:14:03,413 Uh, I actually met another girl in New Orleans 252 00:14:03,413 --> 00:14:05,724 -while I was there. -[Shaun] Oh! Okay. 253 00:14:05,724 --> 00:14:08,482 Me and my brother went to go grab some food, and she was out there. 254 00:14:08,482 --> 00:14:11,310 And then we started talking, and we exchanged social media. 255 00:14:11,310 --> 00:14:13,413 And then we kind of start talking stuff. 256 00:14:13,413 --> 00:14:15,275 Okay, so you, uh, 257 00:14:15,275 --> 00:14:17,793 -DM each other on social media? -[Tyray] Yeah. 258 00:14:17,793 --> 00:14:20,724 -Occasionally, you know, not too much. Nothing serious. -[Shaun] Yeah. 259 00:14:20,724 --> 00:14:22,896 [Tyray] Little flirts here and there. 260 00:14:22,896 --> 00:14:24,000 And what's her name? 261 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,068 I don't know. [chuckles] 262 00:14:26,068 --> 00:14:28,206 I was drunk when she told me, 263 00:14:28,206 --> 00:14:30,103 and she doesn't have it on social media. 264 00:14:30,103 --> 00:14:32,517 I know that's bad. That's bad, bad, bad. 265 00:14:32,517 --> 00:14:35,172 Well, Tyray, we know her name. 266 00:14:36,206 --> 00:14:38,068 -It's Shannon... -[Tyray] Oh. 267 00:14:38,068 --> 00:14:40,275 ...and Shannon is here with us today. 268 00:14:40,275 --> 00:14:42,068 Oh, my goodness. 269 00:14:42,068 --> 00:14:45,000 [Tyray] Oh, my God. No. 270 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,689 [Shaun] Come on out, Shannon. 271 00:14:46,689 --> 00:14:48,482 All right, I'm so excited. 272 00:14:48,482 --> 00:14:50,655 You forgot her name, bro. 273 00:14:52,931 --> 00:14:54,000 [Shaun] Coming up... 274 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,068 [Tim] How do you feel about him being 275 00:14:56,068 --> 00:14:58,517 a 33-year-old virgin? 276 00:14:58,517 --> 00:15:01,068 -Does that concern you? -[woman 1] Um... 277 00:15:01,068 --> 00:15:02,172 Oh, my God. 278 00:15:02,793 --> 00:15:03,896 [Shaun] And later... 279 00:15:03,896 --> 00:15:07,689 There was timelines on him moving to San Antonio. 280 00:15:07,689 --> 00:15:11,103 There were timelines on, like, when he was going to get engaged, 281 00:15:11,103 --> 00:15:12,896 I've heard all about the timeline. 282 00:15:12,896 --> 00:15:14,172 I know my worth. 283 00:15:14,172 --> 00:15:15,896 Well, so, what's the timeline for the engagement? 284 00:15:15,896 --> 00:15:18,793 I mean, I... I'm not a timeline guy. 285 00:15:31,586 --> 00:15:34,034 Well, Tyray, we know her name. 286 00:15:35,172 --> 00:15:37,000 -It's Shannon... -[Tyray] Oh. 287 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:39,482 ...and Shannon is here with us today. 288 00:15:39,482 --> 00:15:41,551 God. No. 289 00:15:42,586 --> 00:15:44,275 Come on out, Shannon. 290 00:15:44,275 --> 00:15:46,275 All right, I'm so excited. 291 00:15:46,275 --> 00:15:48,275 My name is Shannon, by the way. 292 00:15:48,275 --> 00:15:49,655 Hi, Shannon. 293 00:15:50,586 --> 00:15:52,482 Oh, my God, what's up? You look nice. 294 00:15:52,482 --> 00:15:53,896 [Shannon] Thank you. 295 00:15:53,896 --> 00:15:55,862 We can all little... Look... We can... Here, here. 296 00:15:55,862 --> 00:15:58,344 -Squeeze in. -Oh, you can sit here, Shannon. [chuckles] 297 00:15:59,379 --> 00:16:01,689 [Shaun] Okay. All right. 298 00:16:01,689 --> 00:16:04,275 Well, Shannon, uh, you look beautiful. 299 00:16:04,275 --> 00:16:05,310 Thank you. 300 00:16:05,310 --> 00:16:07,931 [Shaun] This is the first time 301 00:16:07,931 --> 00:16:11,586 that you've seen each other since that day in New Orleans? 302 00:16:11,586 --> 00:16:12,931 Yes, that is correct. 303 00:16:12,931 --> 00:16:15,896 Okay, Tyray, what do you want to say to Shannon? 304 00:16:15,896 --> 00:16:18,931 God! Wow. I'm like, shocked you came. [chuckles] 305 00:16:18,931 --> 00:16:21,206 Honestly, I had no idea. Honestly. 306 00:16:21,206 --> 00:16:23,896 Ask her if she's staying at the same hotel as you. 307 00:16:23,896 --> 00:16:26,103 That's... that's the first step. 308 00:16:26,103 --> 00:16:29,206 I'm glad you're here. [chuckles] 309 00:16:29,206 --> 00:16:33,000 [Shaun] Okay, tell me about meeting Tyray. 310 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:37,103 Well, so I met him when I was in New Orleans on Bourbon Street. 311 00:16:37,103 --> 00:16:41,862 I just happened to see him randomly, so I did go up to him. 312 00:16:41,862 --> 00:16:45,517 And we started talking, and we really just, like, hit it off. 313 00:16:45,517 --> 00:16:47,586 I felt like I've actually known him, like, 314 00:16:47,586 --> 00:16:49,758 it didn't feel like meeting a new person. 315 00:16:49,758 --> 00:16:51,689 And we've been talking ever since. 316 00:16:51,689 --> 00:16:53,862 [Shaun] And what kinds of things do you talk about? 317 00:16:53,862 --> 00:16:57,241 Well, it hasn't been that serious, but kind of flirty. 318 00:16:58,103 --> 00:16:59,482 We've both been a little flirty. 319 00:16:59,482 --> 00:17:02,275 -Probably me more so than him. -[Shaun] Uh-huh. 320 00:17:02,275 --> 00:17:05,482 Um, but, you know, we've talked about, like, hanging out, getting together 321 00:17:05,482 --> 00:17:07,931 but it hasn't happened until today. 322 00:17:07,931 --> 00:17:10,896 [Shaun] Okay. And why not, Tyray? 323 00:17:10,896 --> 00:17:13,034 Why didn't you ask her to see her again? 324 00:17:15,103 --> 00:17:18,896 I was just, like, afraid to make that first step. 325 00:17:18,896 --> 00:17:22,586 Like, I didn't want to, you know, approach things when I wasn't ready, you know? 326 00:17:22,586 --> 00:17:24,413 Okay. Okay. 327 00:17:24,413 --> 00:17:25,931 Do you think you're ready now? 328 00:17:25,931 --> 00:17:27,205 Definitely. Yeah, definitely. 329 00:17:27,205 --> 00:17:28,586 -It's a different... -[Shaun] Uh-huh. 330 00:17:28,586 --> 00:17:30,620 like, a whole different ball game now. 331 00:17:30,620 --> 00:17:32,586 [Shaun] All right. And what do you like about Tyray? 332 00:17:32,586 --> 00:17:35,068 What do you find attractive about him? 333 00:17:35,068 --> 00:17:36,206 First thing, his heart. 334 00:17:36,206 --> 00:17:37,896 -[Shaun] Uh-huh. -He's such a kind person. 335 00:17:37,896 --> 00:17:40,586 And he really has, like, an outgoing personality. 336 00:17:40,586 --> 00:17:42,482 He's so easy to talk to. 337 00:17:42,482 --> 00:17:44,551 Of course, he's very handsome, also. 338 00:17:45,275 --> 00:17:48,103 [Shaun] Nice. He is blushing over there. 339 00:17:48,103 --> 00:17:50,862 -There's a confidence booster. -[Shaun] Yeah. 340 00:17:50,862 --> 00:17:51,965 I feel good now. 341 00:17:53,793 --> 00:17:54,862 What are we doing tonight? 342 00:17:55,482 --> 00:17:57,379 Now that's the right question. 343 00:17:57,379 --> 00:17:58,655 Ask her on a date. 344 00:17:59,689 --> 00:18:01,000 Yeah, we should hang out. 345 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:02,482 -Definitely. -I'm down for that. 346 00:18:02,482 --> 00:18:05,172 So what would you do with her for a first date, like... 347 00:18:05,172 --> 00:18:08,586 Uh, man, I don't know, honestly. Um... 348 00:18:08,586 --> 00:18:11,275 First of all, ask her what she likes to do, Tyray. 349 00:18:11,275 --> 00:18:14,172 -Yeah, that's a good idea. -So, mainly, try to go with whatever she's into. 350 00:18:14,172 --> 00:18:15,586 You know, sacrifices, right? 351 00:18:15,586 --> 00:18:17,275 So ask her. Let's, like, practice here 352 00:18:17,275 --> 00:18:18,689 -while you guys, um-- -[John] I know. Come on, Tyray. 353 00:18:18,689 --> 00:18:20,379 You got this. She's right there for you. 354 00:18:20,379 --> 00:18:22,896 -Right, exactly. -[John] She's ready for the tiger. 355 00:18:22,896 --> 00:18:25,172 [Tyray] So, what do you like to do? What would you like to do? 356 00:18:26,482 --> 00:18:29,482 I think we should, like, go out to eat, like, go to a nice restaurant 357 00:18:29,482 --> 00:18:33,103 and then I don't know, maybe find something touristy to do or something. 358 00:18:33,103 --> 00:18:35,448 There's a Mexican spot, too, right by, like, 359 00:18:36,103 --> 00:18:37,275 down the street. 360 00:18:37,275 --> 00:18:38,620 Stay away from the beans, brother. 361 00:18:38,620 --> 00:18:41,000 -Let's... let's not Mexican. -Yeah, not Mexican. 362 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,000 -[John] Bad, bad choice of food, Tyray. -Oh, okay. 363 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,482 So you don't want anything that's gonna fill you up. 364 00:18:45,482 --> 00:18:47,275 Stay away from pasta, too. You know what I'm saying? 365 00:18:47,275 --> 00:18:49,103 I wouldn't... I wouldn't do fish either. 366 00:18:49,103 --> 00:18:50,689 No fish. Okay. [chuckles] 367 00:18:50,689 --> 00:18:53,482 [Veronica] It's New York City. Let's bump it up a bit. 368 00:18:53,482 --> 00:18:59,517 Let's go skate around Rockefeller and buy those peanuts in a cone thing and... 369 00:18:59,517 --> 00:19:01,413 -[Tim] Cotton candy. -...you know. 370 00:19:01,413 --> 00:19:04,172 That's like, that would be cute. That's a cute date. 371 00:19:04,172 --> 00:19:08,586 Shannon, so you heard Sarper give Tyray some advice. 372 00:19:08,586 --> 00:19:11,103 -There's that giggling going again, Tyray. -I know, right? 373 00:19:11,103 --> 00:19:13,172 It's just a little nervous giggle. 374 00:19:13,172 --> 00:19:15,000 I think laughter is the best medicine. 375 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,000 I'm on board with that. I like to laugh a lot, too, so I'm here for it. 376 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:22,793 How do you feel about him being a 33-year-old virgin? 377 00:19:22,793 --> 00:19:27,103 Like, for you, does that concern you, or does that intrigue you? 378 00:19:27,103 --> 00:19:29,517 Um, I mean, it really doesn't move me either way. 379 00:19:29,517 --> 00:19:31,620 It's not a negative thing to me at all. 380 00:19:31,620 --> 00:19:33,793 Like, it doesn't bother me at all. 381 00:19:33,793 --> 00:19:35,689 Better than 2500 women, right? 382 00:19:35,689 --> 00:19:37,448 I mean, I will take it. 383 00:19:39,413 --> 00:19:42,586 And Shannon, you know, Tyray says he's never even been kissed. 384 00:19:42,586 --> 00:19:46,172 -My God. -He did not say that. 385 00:19:46,172 --> 00:19:48,655 -Now that part, I didn't know. -Oh, my God. 386 00:19:49,482 --> 00:19:52,103 Well, Shannon, if you want to, 387 00:19:52,103 --> 00:19:55,551 you can be Tyray's first kiss. 388 00:19:59,758 --> 00:20:01,172 -Are you game? -[Tyray] Oh, God. 389 00:20:05,689 --> 00:20:07,172 [Shaun] Coming up... 390 00:20:07,172 --> 00:20:10,000 Patrick, do you think John is ready 391 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,206 to take on a stepfather role? 392 00:20:13,206 --> 00:20:15,482 -No. -That's where you're wrong, Patrick. 393 00:20:15,482 --> 00:20:17,586 But he's already done it. He's been doing it. 394 00:20:17,586 --> 00:20:19,689 I don't think John wants to have kids. 395 00:20:34,172 --> 00:20:36,862 Well, Shannon, if you want to 396 00:20:36,862 --> 00:20:40,241 you can be Tyray's first kiss. 397 00:20:41,068 --> 00:20:42,448 -Are you game? -[Tyray] Oh, God. 398 00:20:44,689 --> 00:20:46,103 Why not right now? 399 00:20:46,793 --> 00:20:48,758 I mean, why not right now? 400 00:20:49,172 --> 00:20:51,103 [all exclaiming] 401 00:20:51,103 --> 00:20:53,068 -Tyray, you ready? -Come on. 402 00:20:53,068 --> 00:20:55,000 Oh, God. All right, I'm game. 403 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,586 -I mean if... -[Veronica] It's okay. 404 00:20:56,586 --> 00:20:58,379 [Shaun] Tyray's gonna get up. 405 00:20:58,379 --> 00:20:59,379 [Tim] Hey, that's what's up. 406 00:20:59,379 --> 00:21:03,000 Stand up and nobody's watching, Tyray. Nobody. 407 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,586 Keep it G, now. 408 00:21:04,586 --> 00:21:05,965 Sorry. Let me put some chapstick on. 409 00:21:06,793 --> 00:21:08,275 He said, "Put some chapstick." 410 00:21:08,275 --> 00:21:10,000 Oh, I love this. Yes! 411 00:21:11,689 --> 00:21:13,586 Have you heard of spontaneous? 412 00:21:13,586 --> 00:21:15,862 If you guys don't watch, it didn't happen. 413 00:21:15,862 --> 00:21:17,793 We need witnesses, okay? You guys got it? 414 00:21:17,793 --> 00:21:19,172 [Tim] Oh, it's on... It's on tape. 415 00:21:19,862 --> 00:21:21,103 All right, I don't know what to do. 416 00:21:22,655 --> 00:21:24,000 [Natalie speaking in English] 417 00:21:27,689 --> 00:21:28,758 All right. 418 00:21:29,379 --> 00:21:30,965 [all cheering] 419 00:21:32,172 --> 00:21:34,793 I'm so proud of Tyray. 420 00:21:34,793 --> 00:21:37,275 And y'all look good together. 421 00:21:37,275 --> 00:21:39,172 That was definitely PG-13. 422 00:21:40,172 --> 00:21:41,241 Oh, God. 423 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,448 Oh, I just love it. 424 00:21:43,758 --> 00:21:45,172 [Tim speaking] 425 00:21:45,172 --> 00:21:46,931 Oh, he better. 426 00:21:47,758 --> 00:21:49,655 [Tyray] Oh, my God. 427 00:21:49,655 --> 00:21:52,172 -I feel so bad. -You're... you're in trouble for that. 428 00:21:53,068 --> 00:21:55,275 Shannon, this has certainly been a treat 429 00:21:55,275 --> 00:21:57,793 for not only Tyray, but all of us. 430 00:21:57,793 --> 00:22:00,241 Thank you so much for joining us today. 431 00:22:00,241 --> 00:22:02,758 You and Tyray really seem to have a connection 432 00:22:02,758 --> 00:22:04,482 that we hope continues to grow. 433 00:22:04,482 --> 00:22:05,965 So, Shannon, thank you so much. 434 00:22:05,965 --> 00:22:08,137 -Thank you guys for having me. -[Shaun] Thank you. 435 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,103 How about if Tyray walks you out? 436 00:22:11,103 --> 00:22:12,689 -Perfect. -[John] There you go. 437 00:22:12,689 --> 00:22:13,862 -[Shaun] Okay. -[John] Come on, buddy. 438 00:22:15,137 --> 00:22:17,241 [all] It was nice to meet you, Shannon. 439 00:22:18,482 --> 00:22:20,862 No... no tiger, now. No tiger. 440 00:22:22,103 --> 00:22:23,793 Not until later. 441 00:22:23,793 --> 00:22:26,655 -What? -Tyray, yeah, let's go. 442 00:22:26,655 --> 00:22:28,896 -Put your arm around her. -[all laughing] 443 00:22:28,896 --> 00:22:32,758 -[all cheering and applauding] -[Tim] Yeah. 444 00:22:34,482 --> 00:22:35,758 It's so cute, though. 445 00:22:35,758 --> 00:22:36,965 How sweet. 446 00:22:38,551 --> 00:22:40,344 Yeah. Okay. 447 00:22:44,793 --> 00:22:47,448 Are we gonna start this next segment without Tyray? 448 00:22:48,758 --> 00:22:52,103 -Oh. -Well, he may not have to wait until tonight. 449 00:22:53,103 --> 00:22:55,931 We're gonna have to, uh, get started without him. 450 00:22:56,379 --> 00:22:57,793 Okay? 451 00:22:57,793 --> 00:23:02,172 Now, we have asked our viewers to submit questions for all of you, 452 00:23:02,172 --> 00:23:04,379 and we found some really interesting ones. 453 00:23:04,379 --> 00:23:06,793 -Are you ready to answer everybody? -Sure. 454 00:23:06,793 --> 00:23:11,379 Okay. So first, Liz from Saugerties, New York, 455 00:23:11,379 --> 00:23:16,172 says, Chantel, we saw you twerking multiple times, 456 00:23:16,172 --> 00:23:19,068 and you even have a twerk instructor. 457 00:23:19,068 --> 00:23:23,241 What's the secret to twerking? And can you teach us? 458 00:23:23,241 --> 00:23:26,448 Well, first you have to keep loose knees, 459 00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:29,068 move them really fast and stand up on your tippy toes. 460 00:23:30,344 --> 00:23:31,689 I think you should demonstrate. 461 00:23:31,689 --> 00:23:34,275 -Uh, John, what about... -[all laughing] 462 00:23:34,275 --> 00:23:35,827 Okay, you can show us. 463 00:23:36,379 --> 00:23:39,137 Um, um, let's see. [chuckles] 464 00:23:39,137 --> 00:23:40,482 Let's see. 465 00:23:40,482 --> 00:23:43,689 I mean, my outfit's a little, uh, let's see. 466 00:23:43,689 --> 00:23:46,793 You have to keep a loose back and activate all of this. 467 00:23:46,793 --> 00:23:48,275 -All of this. -[Shaun] Yeah. 468 00:23:48,275 --> 00:23:49,448 And then just... 469 00:23:50,758 --> 00:23:52,448 [all laughing] 470 00:23:52,448 --> 00:23:55,172 Listen, it's really all about the jiggle. 471 00:23:55,172 --> 00:23:57,206 Natalie, you look like you're game. 472 00:24:02,034 --> 00:24:04,103 Well, you know, I'm really not a professional. 473 00:24:04,103 --> 00:24:05,689 That's why I have an instructor. 474 00:24:05,689 --> 00:24:08,793 -[Shaun] Oh, okay. -Miss Debbie, you wanna try it? 475 00:24:08,793 --> 00:24:12,655 Oh, no, I wasn't endowed with a backside. 476 00:24:12,655 --> 00:24:15,000 Chantel, you got everybody feeling self-conscious. 477 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,103 -Nobody can even deal with that, so... -Oh, dang. 478 00:24:17,103 --> 00:24:18,379 No. You know who taught me? 479 00:24:18,379 --> 00:24:20,482 Actually... Okay, I have an instructor, 480 00:24:20,482 --> 00:24:21,586 but the first person who taught me 481 00:24:21,586 --> 00:24:25,137 was my grandmother, Grandmama Everett. 482 00:24:25,137 --> 00:24:26,172 -[Shaun] Really? -Grandmother. [chuckles] 483 00:24:26,172 --> 00:24:27,758 [Chantel] Yeah, turn on Beyonce 484 00:24:27,758 --> 00:24:29,586 -and Destiny's Child all the time. -Okay. 485 00:24:29,586 --> 00:24:31,586 [Chantel] And we'd be twerking. 486 00:24:31,586 --> 00:24:34,517 Well, it doesn't seem like we have any takers, Chantel. 487 00:24:36,344 --> 00:24:38,000 Our next viewer question. 488 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:42,000 Bradley, from Iowa, had this to say. 489 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,068 John, what were you thinking 490 00:24:44,068 --> 00:24:45,965 showing up in Texas to visit Megan 491 00:24:45,965 --> 00:24:48,206 with a suitcase full of sex toys? 492 00:24:49,172 --> 00:24:50,275 Somebody remember that? 493 00:24:50,275 --> 00:24:51,379 -Oh, I remember it. -[Shaun] Do you remember that? 494 00:24:51,379 --> 00:24:53,000 What was in that suitcase? 495 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,275 -Vibrators and dildos. -Yes, sir. 496 00:24:55,275 --> 00:24:57,793 -[John] Yeah, no dildos, no dildos. -Yes. 497 00:24:57,793 --> 00:24:59,586 There was vibrators. 498 00:24:59,586 --> 00:25:01,103 But, you know, you wanna make sure, 499 00:25:01,103 --> 00:25:04,103 you know, your significant others getting taken care of, too. 500 00:25:04,103 --> 00:25:05,793 And, you know, sometimes you're tired. 501 00:25:05,793 --> 00:25:07,896 So, you know, it makes things a lot easier, you know. 502 00:25:07,896 --> 00:25:09,758 You got the wand, you got your [bleep]. 503 00:25:09,758 --> 00:25:12,827 -You know, you got both, you know, you're multitasking. -[chuckles] 504 00:25:14,172 --> 00:25:16,103 [Debbie] If someone would have showed up 505 00:25:16,103 --> 00:25:20,000 with a suitcase full of adult pleasure devices, 506 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,275 I would have been intimidated and scared. 507 00:25:23,275 --> 00:25:24,793 -Somebody said, "Does he do this... -[laughing] 508 00:25:24,793 --> 00:25:26,137 ...with all women?" 509 00:25:26,137 --> 00:25:28,379 It's, like, so it would have, you know, 510 00:25:28,379 --> 00:25:30,379 put me outside of my comfort zone. 511 00:25:30,379 --> 00:25:31,896 They were sealed at least. 512 00:25:31,896 --> 00:25:32,896 They were brand-new. 513 00:25:32,896 --> 00:25:34,586 It's not like I'm going around, you know. 514 00:25:34,586 --> 00:25:37,172 [laughing] 515 00:25:37,172 --> 00:25:40,172 Well, he's making sure she's taken care of, regardless. 516 00:25:40,172 --> 00:25:42,379 It was a lot of reinforcements. I'm not gonna lie. 517 00:25:42,379 --> 00:25:44,068 But at least he's thinking about her. 518 00:25:44,068 --> 00:25:46,586 [John] I found it very handy. They charge up. 519 00:25:46,586 --> 00:25:47,793 It's got different speeds. 520 00:25:47,793 --> 00:25:50,172 -Different motions. -[Debbie] John, the handyman 521 00:25:50,172 --> 00:25:52,793 has a whole new meaning to it, y'all. 522 00:25:52,793 --> 00:25:56,241 -The handyman can. You know what they say? -[all laughing] 523 00:25:57,034 --> 00:25:58,758 All right. Our next viewer question, 524 00:25:58,758 --> 00:26:01,689 Norah from Pennsylvania wants to know, 525 00:26:01,689 --> 00:26:05,965 Natalie, what do you think your perfect movie part would be? 526 00:26:06,655 --> 00:26:07,758 A film. 527 00:26:09,137 --> 00:26:11,103 -Play a what? A vampire. -[Natalie speaking] 528 00:26:11,103 --> 00:26:12,689 -[Natalie] Yes. -A vampire. 529 00:26:12,689 --> 00:26:14,551 Okay. Can you show us how you would perform it? 530 00:26:15,551 --> 00:26:16,655 Yes. 531 00:26:20,793 --> 00:26:21,862 I'm very scared. 532 00:26:25,965 --> 00:26:28,517 [speaking in Ukrainian] 533 00:26:53,172 --> 00:26:55,241 -She lost them? -[Natalie speaking Ukrainian] 534 00:27:02,965 --> 00:27:04,000 [speaking in English] 535 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,655 -[all cheering] -Yeah. 536 00:27:05,655 --> 00:27:07,482 [Natalie] So into it. [chuckles] 537 00:27:07,482 --> 00:27:09,379 That was pretty good. That was pretty good. 538 00:27:09,379 --> 00:27:10,758 That was so good. 539 00:27:10,758 --> 00:27:12,793 -That was pretty good. -[chuckling] 540 00:27:12,793 --> 00:27:16,000 So, Chantel, do you think Natalie has talent as an actress? 541 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,344 I think so. But it's just since you're here, 542 00:27:19,344 --> 00:27:22,000 I think you gotta, um, work on it in English 543 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,689 so that you can get more parts here. 544 00:27:23,689 --> 00:27:25,896 But you're really good. I think so. 545 00:27:25,896 --> 00:27:28,655 Yeah. Yeah. 546 00:27:30,241 --> 00:27:33,758 [Debbie] I see Natalie as, like, old Hollywood, 547 00:27:33,758 --> 00:27:37,172 Jean Harlow, Greta Garbo. 548 00:27:37,172 --> 00:27:40,793 -[Shaun] Yeah. -Yeah, you've got that look. It's a special look. 549 00:27:40,793 --> 00:27:44,103 -And your eyes, you know, they're hypnotic. -Piercing. 550 00:27:44,103 --> 00:27:48,034 -[Tim] They're full. -So I think you could do quite a bit, you know? 551 00:27:48,034 --> 00:27:50,000 And as far as in the movies. 552 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,586 John, what kind of role do you think would be good for Natalie? 553 00:27:52,586 --> 00:27:56,551 [chuckles] Me, I don't... Wicked Witch of the West. 554 00:27:56,551 --> 00:27:59,344 [blows raspberry] 555 00:27:59,344 --> 00:28:02,241 [John]I think it would be good, right? 556 00:28:02,241 --> 00:28:03,931 No, no, no, no spells. 557 00:28:04,379 --> 00:28:05,448 I take it back. 558 00:28:05,448 --> 00:28:07,137 [Shaun] Okay, hold up, everybody. 559 00:28:07,137 --> 00:28:12,275 We are about to be rejoined by Tyray. 560 00:28:12,275 --> 00:28:17,068 -[all cheering] -Tyray, my hero. 561 00:28:17,068 --> 00:28:18,689 [Tyray] Told you I was gonna be fast. 562 00:28:18,689 --> 00:28:21,000 -[Tim] Hey, tell us the deets. -[laughs] 563 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,172 -Okay, spill the tea, all right. -[Tyray] Yeah. 564 00:28:23,172 --> 00:28:27,379 Oh, we were just talking for a little while [chuckles]. 565 00:28:27,379 --> 00:28:29,068 And, um, you know I like her. 566 00:28:29,068 --> 00:28:31,172 -Did you get a kiss goodbye? Was there two kisses? -[Tyray] Yeah. 567 00:28:31,172 --> 00:28:32,862 -Ooh. -Oh. 568 00:28:32,862 --> 00:28:34,724 -You got a second kiss, Tyray? -[Tyray] Yeah. 569 00:28:35,758 --> 00:28:38,689 -Did you get a boner? -[all laughing] 570 00:28:38,689 --> 00:28:40,586 I had to make some adjustments, so... 571 00:28:40,586 --> 00:28:43,448 -There you go, you had a shifty, you know. -[all laughing] 572 00:28:43,448 --> 00:28:44,965 [John] There's nothing wrong with that. 573 00:28:44,965 --> 00:28:46,689 -[Tim] Y'all got plans to go out? -Yeah. 574 00:28:46,689 --> 00:28:49,068 We're gonna hang out tonight, and I have her number now. 575 00:28:49,068 --> 00:28:51,275 -Oh. -Oh, he got the digits. 576 00:28:51,275 --> 00:28:53,241 -[Tyray] Thank you, appreciate it. -[speaking] 577 00:28:53,241 --> 00:28:54,896 [chuckling] 578 00:28:54,896 --> 00:28:56,793 Well, we are glad you are back, Tyray. 579 00:28:56,793 --> 00:28:58,103 We were wondering what was going on. 580 00:28:58,103 --> 00:29:00,000 -That date, yeah. -Can't wait to hear about tonight. 581 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,034 [Tyray] Yeah. 582 00:29:01,034 --> 00:29:03,275 I wanna move on to John now. 583 00:29:03,275 --> 00:29:07,862 Well, when we first met John on season 9 of 90 Day Fiance, 584 00:29:07,862 --> 00:29:12,793 he was a third wheel to his brother Patrick and Patrick's fiance Thais. 585 00:29:12,793 --> 00:29:17,172 Everyone thought he was an eternal bachelor, 586 00:29:17,172 --> 00:29:20,172 but then he fell in love with Megan. 587 00:29:20,172 --> 00:29:23,344 And while things have gotten quite serious between them, 588 00:29:23,344 --> 00:29:28,034 there have also been some cracks in their relationship. 589 00:29:28,034 --> 00:29:30,482 So, John, um, as I said, when we first met you, 590 00:29:30,482 --> 00:29:34,000 you were crashing couches and drinking breakfast beers. 591 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,586 What is life like for you now? 592 00:29:35,586 --> 00:29:36,758 Well, it's a lot different, you know. 593 00:29:36,758 --> 00:29:38,379 I wake up, and now we've got River. 594 00:29:38,379 --> 00:29:41,379 So you know, you know, as time's gone on, 595 00:29:41,379 --> 00:29:42,793 I'm like a father figure now, 596 00:29:42,793 --> 00:29:44,172 so she'll jump off the bunk bed. 597 00:29:44,172 --> 00:29:45,689 I call her a little flying squirrel 598 00:29:45,689 --> 00:29:47,586 'cause she'll jump off, jump in, 599 00:29:47,586 --> 00:29:50,068 she'll cuddle for a little bit, and that's my morning now. 600 00:29:50,068 --> 00:29:54,896 Are there any things that you miss about Las Vegas and the single life? 601 00:29:54,896 --> 00:29:56,896 I've already lived that lifestyle enough in my life, 602 00:29:56,896 --> 00:29:58,793 and it's good to have a family. 603 00:29:58,793 --> 00:30:00,482 So I'm happy where I'm at. 604 00:30:00,482 --> 00:30:02,137 And I'm excited for the future. 605 00:30:02,137 --> 00:30:04,172 And you know, I wouldn't want to do it with anybody else. 606 00:30:04,172 --> 00:30:06,000 Oh, okay. 607 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:11,172 Well, let's bring out the woman who may have finally tamed John's wild side. 608 00:30:11,172 --> 00:30:12,586 Please welcome Megan. 609 00:30:12,586 --> 00:30:14,896 -[all applauding] -[Shaun]Hi, Megan. 610 00:30:14,896 --> 00:30:16,689 Oh, she's gorgeous. 611 00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:17,862 Sup, beautiful. 612 00:30:18,172 --> 00:30:19,275 -Hello. -Hello. 613 00:30:19,275 --> 00:30:20,758 -You look great. -Thank you. 614 00:30:20,758 --> 00:30:21,793 -[kisses] -Love it. 615 00:30:21,793 --> 00:30:24,137 Aw. 616 00:30:24,137 --> 00:30:27,379 [Shaun] Well, seems like, uh, things are going really well. 617 00:30:27,379 --> 00:30:31,310 Megan, how is life now that John is living with you and your daughter, River? 618 00:30:34,034 --> 00:30:37,344 Well, it's definitely different 'cause I'm used to just me and my daughter, 619 00:30:37,344 --> 00:30:38,689 like on, on our own. 620 00:30:38,689 --> 00:30:40,344 -I was pretty content with that. -[Shaun] Mmm-hmm. 621 00:30:40,344 --> 00:30:43,172 [Megan] I mean, I wasn't really looking for anything, 622 00:30:43,172 --> 00:30:45,000 but I guess that's usually when it happens 623 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:46,896 -is like when you're not looking, but... -[Shaun] Yeah. 624 00:30:46,896 --> 00:30:51,137 -So paint us the picture of John the father figure. -[Megan chuckles] 625 00:30:52,344 --> 00:30:53,793 -John the father figure is... -[chuckling] 626 00:30:53,793 --> 00:30:55,586 ...I know it's gonna to be a surprise to everybody, 627 00:30:55,586 --> 00:30:59,862 but he's actually, like, he's... he's a family man, like, at heart, you know. 628 00:30:59,862 --> 00:31:02,034 It actually doesn't surprise me for some reason. 629 00:31:02,034 --> 00:31:03,689 -It doesn't. Why not, Tim? -[Tim] I don't know. 630 00:31:03,689 --> 00:31:05,689 I... I get a feeling from John, 631 00:31:05,689 --> 00:31:07,689 yeah, that we see him. 632 00:31:07,689 --> 00:31:10,241 They like playing games and drinking all the time. 633 00:31:10,241 --> 00:31:12,689 But it takes a special guy that can step in 634 00:31:12,689 --> 00:31:15,241 and be a father figure to someone else's child. 635 00:31:15,689 --> 00:31:16,758 I think, I don't know, 636 00:31:16,758 --> 00:31:18,172 he just strikes me as the type of guy 637 00:31:18,172 --> 00:31:20,586 that actually would be a family dude. 638 00:31:20,586 --> 00:31:22,000 [John] I'm definitely a homebody. 639 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,344 I think she... we're kind of similar in that way too. 640 00:31:24,344 --> 00:31:26,241 We're kind of like, rather stay in 641 00:31:26,241 --> 00:31:27,965 and, you know, just chill with each other. 642 00:31:28,793 --> 00:31:29,896 Okay, so, John, 643 00:31:29,896 --> 00:31:34,689 you've said that you don't want a biological child. 644 00:31:34,689 --> 00:31:36,862 It's not really something necessary for me. 645 00:31:36,862 --> 00:31:38,689 It's not one of those things that I need. 646 00:31:38,689 --> 00:31:40,862 But if it was to happen, you know, obviously, 647 00:31:40,862 --> 00:31:42,655 I'd love, like, a child and stuff. 648 00:31:42,655 --> 00:31:46,896 I mean, I don't try not to have it happen, you know what I'm saying? 649 00:31:46,896 --> 00:31:49,482 So it's like, I wouldn't say that I'm trying to, 650 00:31:49,482 --> 00:31:50,620 but, you know, like... 651 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,517 We're not wearing protection. 652 00:31:56,551 --> 00:31:57,758 You're not pulling out? 653 00:31:58,896 --> 00:32:02,000 If you're actively having sex with no protection. 654 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,689 The fact that it's been this long and we haven't had any scares, 655 00:32:04,689 --> 00:32:06,758 I'm like, you know. 656 00:32:06,758 --> 00:32:09,482 -You're both prepared if it does happen. -Right. 657 00:32:09,482 --> 00:32:10,965 It does happen, it happens. 658 00:32:10,965 --> 00:32:14,275 -Megan, you're not concerned at all about that. -She wants another baby. 659 00:32:14,275 --> 00:32:16,655 [Megan] The other thing is, is like, I maybe changed my mind. 660 00:32:16,655 --> 00:32:19,000 I love him enough to where that's enough. 661 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,379 Like, and, you know, I have my daughter, 662 00:32:20,379 --> 00:32:23,758 and if he's okay with not having another kid, then I'm okay with it. 663 00:32:24,793 --> 00:32:26,758 But I'm not going out of my way to have a child. 664 00:32:26,758 --> 00:32:29,793 Obviously, I'm... I'm not going out of my way to not have one either, right? 665 00:32:29,793 --> 00:32:32,344 Because I'm... I'm not taking precautions. 666 00:32:32,344 --> 00:32:37,586 Okay, well, no one knows John better than his brother, Patrick. 667 00:32:37,586 --> 00:32:41,137 We have him here today to weigh in on John's new relationship. 668 00:32:41,137 --> 00:32:43,172 -Please welcome Patrick. -Oh. 669 00:32:43,172 --> 00:32:45,172 [Debbie] Yay, Patrick. 670 00:32:45,172 --> 00:32:47,275 [all applauding] 671 00:32:47,275 --> 00:32:48,655 -[Shaun] Hi, Patrick. -[Patrick] Hi. 672 00:32:49,793 --> 00:32:51,965 [Shaun] How are you? Good to see you again. 673 00:32:51,965 --> 00:32:53,137 [Patrick] I'm good. How are you? 674 00:32:53,137 --> 00:32:55,758 [Shaun] Thanks for being here. Now, Patrick, do you think 675 00:32:55,758 --> 00:33:00,758 that John is ready to take on a stepfather role? 676 00:33:04,241 --> 00:33:06,172 -No, I don't. -[Shaun] You don't. 677 00:33:06,172 --> 00:33:07,586 -Really? -Wow. 678 00:33:07,586 --> 00:33:09,896 [Patrick] John getting into a relationship and, like, 679 00:33:09,896 --> 00:33:14,379 having to be a stepfather, like, wasn't an ideal situation. 680 00:33:14,379 --> 00:33:16,482 But he's already done it. He's been doing it. 681 00:33:16,482 --> 00:33:17,965 Well, I mean, I just know John. 682 00:33:17,965 --> 00:33:19,758 I feel like it's just a lot for him. 683 00:33:19,758 --> 00:33:21,241 That's where you're wrong, Patrick. 684 00:33:21,241 --> 00:33:23,896 Yeah, and I was doing majority of the work anyway when he came along. 685 00:33:23,896 --> 00:33:25,379 So I'm not gonna stop doing that 686 00:33:25,379 --> 00:33:27,655 just because a man comes into my life. 687 00:33:28,275 --> 00:33:29,413 Just it's a lot. 688 00:33:30,172 --> 00:33:32,241 I don't think John wants to have kids. 689 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,275 [Shaun] Coming up. 690 00:33:38,275 --> 00:33:41,620 -Do you think Megan is a jealous person? -From what I hear. 691 00:33:42,655 --> 00:33:43,896 I wonder who he could have heard it from. 692 00:33:43,896 --> 00:33:45,379 Hey, whoa, whoa, whoa. 693 00:33:45,379 --> 00:33:48,689 You know, between the location sharing, you know... 694 00:33:48,689 --> 00:33:52,551 -Oh. -...you know, having problems when he's working. 695 00:33:52,551 --> 00:33:54,482 Y'all gotta stop playing around with this. 696 00:33:54,482 --> 00:33:56,344 I disagree. I know my relationship. 697 00:34:06,586 --> 00:34:08,447 I don't think John wants to have kids. 698 00:34:09,757 --> 00:34:13,862 Well, John just said that he's kind of changed his mind 699 00:34:13,862 --> 00:34:15,896 about possibly having kids. 700 00:34:15,896 --> 00:34:18,793 So this is something that could happen. 701 00:34:18,793 --> 00:34:21,447 -How do you feel about that? -[Patrick] I like the idea. 702 00:34:21,447 --> 00:34:25,103 But I mean, you know, John's been... been clear on that for a long time. 703 00:34:25,103 --> 00:34:26,931 Like, he didn't want to have his own kids. 704 00:34:28,379 --> 00:34:30,275 That was kind of, like, another reason why I'm like, 705 00:34:30,275 --> 00:34:32,275 you know, well, being a stepdad's 706 00:34:32,275 --> 00:34:33,793 kind of like being a dad. It should be. 707 00:34:33,793 --> 00:34:36,241 I mean, we had stepdads. We grew up with stepdads. 708 00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:38,551 So, like, we know what it's like 709 00:34:38,551 --> 00:34:40,447 from the kid's perspective. 710 00:34:40,447 --> 00:34:43,137 [Veronica] He's been doing it, and he's been loving it, 711 00:34:43,137 --> 00:34:46,413 and she's been saying he's doing great at it, so... 712 00:34:47,965 --> 00:34:50,034 My daughter has support from me, 713 00:34:50,034 --> 00:34:51,793 uh, but John makes her life easier, 714 00:34:51,793 --> 00:34:53,172 and he does a lot of things for her 715 00:34:53,172 --> 00:34:55,757 that I wouldn't be able to do if I was alone, so... 716 00:34:55,757 --> 00:34:57,482 Well, that's what you're supposed to do, though. 717 00:34:57,482 --> 00:34:59,379 -You're a team, right? So... -[Shaun] Right. 718 00:34:59,379 --> 00:35:01,862 [Debbie] And I think you have a really big heart. 719 00:35:01,862 --> 00:35:04,448 -Thank you, Debbie. -[Debbie] And you love and care for her. 720 00:35:04,448 --> 00:35:08,068 -I do. -So her child is the same as your child, 721 00:35:08,068 --> 00:35:11,241 and you will protect and nourish that child with love. 722 00:35:12,344 --> 00:35:14,000 Does he have a big heart? 723 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,586 Is he gonna take care of her? Like, yeah, absolutely. 724 00:35:16,586 --> 00:35:19,379 But it's just it's a lot. 725 00:35:19,379 --> 00:35:21,862 [Shaun] Well, Patrick raised a lot of concerns 726 00:35:21,862 --> 00:35:24,689 about John's ability to be a good partner. 727 00:35:24,689 --> 00:35:28,758 Are these concerns valid? Let's watch. 728 00:35:28,758 --> 00:35:32,137 You think John, I mean, you can see John being a good father figure. 729 00:35:32,137 --> 00:35:34,758 It's kinda scary. I ain't gonna lie, but I can do it. 730 00:35:34,758 --> 00:35:38,344 John is a 39-year-old child. 731 00:35:38,344 --> 00:35:41,586 I'm a little concerned that Megan, 732 00:35:41,586 --> 00:35:45,000 you know, she's looking for someone to support her, 733 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,172 and John might be someone that she's gonna have to support. 734 00:35:49,172 --> 00:35:53,827 I mean, John's not really the... the responsible type up until this point, 735 00:35:55,379 --> 00:35:57,103 [Thais speaking] 736 00:35:59,896 --> 00:36:04,034 All right, Megan, what gave you some pause there? 737 00:36:04,034 --> 00:36:08,275 Yeah, just because obviously, like, he's used to that life, 738 00:36:08,275 --> 00:36:09,896 like just being able to get up and go. 739 00:36:09,896 --> 00:36:11,965 And... and that's not how my life is. 740 00:36:11,965 --> 00:36:14,586 Like, I don't have a choice to wake up late. [chuckles] 741 00:36:14,586 --> 00:36:18,482 I have to wake up when my daughter wakes up and get her ready for school. 742 00:36:18,482 --> 00:36:20,482 So, I know it's a big change for him. 743 00:36:20,482 --> 00:36:22,586 So that was the part I was scared for him. 744 00:36:22,586 --> 00:36:23,689 [John] What can I say? You know, 745 00:36:23,689 --> 00:36:26,551 I... I lived a lifestyle that, you know, fit me. 746 00:36:26,551 --> 00:36:29,586 And, you know, at that point, that's what I was living, you know. 747 00:36:29,586 --> 00:36:33,000 And, uh, you know, but luckily for me, I can adjust. 748 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:39,000 Patrick, do you regret revealing too much about your brother to Megan? 749 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,758 No, I have no regrets on, you know, 750 00:36:42,758 --> 00:36:45,482 telling Megan about John, or anything like that, like... 751 00:36:45,482 --> 00:36:47,137 You never said to yourself, "Gosh, maybe I shared 752 00:36:47,137 --> 00:36:48,793 a little bit too much about him?" 753 00:36:48,793 --> 00:36:52,689 No, I think, uh, I mean, she should know. 754 00:36:52,689 --> 00:36:55,689 I mean, if you're gonna be in a relationship for a long time, 755 00:36:55,689 --> 00:36:58,000 like, it's gonna come out either way. 756 00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,896 Like, you should know what you're getting yourself into. 757 00:36:59,896 --> 00:37:02,551 And John should know a lot about Megan, too, so, 758 00:37:02,551 --> 00:37:04,793 I don't feel like I overshared. 759 00:37:04,793 --> 00:37:08,793 -But shouldn't it be for John to tell her that, though? -Uh, you'd imagine. 760 00:37:08,793 --> 00:37:11,586 John probably did tell her, but just in a different way. 761 00:37:11,586 --> 00:37:15,448 Do you have any red flags with Megan, or what do you think about her? 762 00:37:15,448 --> 00:37:17,448 Especially her for John. 763 00:37:18,551 --> 00:37:21,034 Uh, the only red flags I have with Megan 764 00:37:21,034 --> 00:37:24,793 is really just, like, some of the jealousy stuff that's come up. 765 00:37:24,793 --> 00:37:26,275 -[Shaun] Oh, okay. -Hmm. 766 00:37:26,275 --> 00:37:30,896 -[chuckles] -[Shaun] Do you think Megan is jealous, a jealous person? 767 00:37:30,896 --> 00:37:32,896 From what I hear. 768 00:37:32,896 --> 00:37:35,689 I wonder who he could have heard it from. 769 00:37:35,689 --> 00:37:38,689 Maybe I used the word jealous, but it's a trust thing 770 00:37:38,689 --> 00:37:42,275 because there's nothing really to be jealous about 'cause I ain't doing nothing. 771 00:37:42,275 --> 00:37:45,275 I mean, I'm very open about like, having trust issues. I'm working on it. 772 00:37:45,275 --> 00:37:47,000 And I told him, like, it's a process. 773 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,000 But, you know, he gets jealous too. 774 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,793 And, you know, there's... there's always two sides to everything. 775 00:37:51,793 --> 00:37:53,000 But, you know. 776 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,551 Patrick, what did John tell you? 777 00:37:55,551 --> 00:37:58,275 You know, between the location sharing, 778 00:37:58,275 --> 00:37:59,586 -you know... -Oh. 779 00:37:59,586 --> 00:38:02,000 ...you know, having problems when he's working, 780 00:38:02,896 --> 00:38:03,965 and having to be called home. 781 00:38:03,965 --> 00:38:05,275 I mean, there's just a lot of things. 782 00:38:05,275 --> 00:38:07,241 It's like, you know, come up. 783 00:38:07,241 --> 00:38:09,275 Like, he was on installs for too long, 784 00:38:09,275 --> 00:38:11,241 and, like, he was at someone's house for a while. 785 00:38:11,241 --> 00:38:12,689 And I was like, "Well, why are you there?" 786 00:38:12,689 --> 00:38:13,793 -Megan was saying... -[Patrick] Yeah. 787 00:38:13,793 --> 00:38:15,137 -...and questioning John about... -Yeah. 788 00:38:15,137 --> 00:38:17,068 ...why was he on an install for so long? 789 00:38:17,068 --> 00:38:19,103 Yeah, you know, just, like, things like that. 790 00:38:20,379 --> 00:38:22,000 Why do you guys share locations? 791 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,586 I don't know. I just, I guess when we had, like, the long distance, 792 00:38:24,586 --> 00:38:26,000 like, we started that. 793 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,862 It's, like, I get long distance. 794 00:38:27,862 --> 00:38:30,344 Like, that brings a look of insecurity for everyone. 795 00:38:30,793 --> 00:38:32,344 But, man, it's like, 796 00:38:32,344 --> 00:38:35,793 you know, you guys have been together for a while. You live in the same house. 797 00:38:35,793 --> 00:38:40,000 I think that the sharing the location can build trust in a lot of relationships. 798 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,689 But for you, I think maybe delete that 799 00:38:42,689 --> 00:38:44,068 'cause you're obsessed with it. 800 00:38:44,068 --> 00:38:46,758 -Just like... -No, I don't... I don't check his location, though. 801 00:38:46,758 --> 00:38:48,000 That's the thing, I don't. 802 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,103 I don't check it constantly. [chuckles] 803 00:38:51,862 --> 00:38:55,551 So do you trust John 100%? 804 00:38:57,862 --> 00:39:00,724 -Maybe 99.9. -Okay. 805 00:39:01,275 --> 00:39:02,689 -Okay. -[laughs] 806 00:39:02,689 --> 00:39:05,344 I'm human. Like, that's... that's... I'm just... That's human nature. 807 00:39:05,344 --> 00:39:07,275 Like, that means I really, truly love him if, like, 808 00:39:07,275 --> 00:39:08,862 I have that fear in me a little bit 809 00:39:08,862 --> 00:39:11,482 that, like, I don't want him to hurt me, like, you know? 810 00:39:11,482 --> 00:39:13,793 Honestly, like, our instances of jealousy, 811 00:39:13,793 --> 00:39:17,689 like, I would say once every two weeks. 812 00:39:17,689 --> 00:39:19,379 And then if that's crazy, then it's crazy. 813 00:39:19,379 --> 00:39:20,793 But I think it's normal. 814 00:39:20,793 --> 00:39:22,862 I think that if there was no issues at all, 815 00:39:22,862 --> 00:39:24,137 then that would worry me. 816 00:39:25,172 --> 00:39:26,655 Once every two weeks, 817 00:39:26,655 --> 00:39:29,000 there is an issue about jealousy, is that what you said? 818 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,275 [Megan] Yeah, like, maybe once. That's... that's a ballpark. 819 00:39:31,275 --> 00:39:33,000 Give us an example of the last one. 820 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,379 An example, like, we were at the bar, like, yesterday, he said, 821 00:39:35,379 --> 00:39:37,103 "I was looking at some guy's butt." 822 00:39:37,103 --> 00:39:39,586 Okay, that was something, right? 823 00:39:39,586 --> 00:39:41,655 There's been other times where if, like, we're at the grocer, 824 00:39:41,655 --> 00:39:44,000 I'm like, "Are you looking... Are you, like, looking at somebody," like... 825 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,793 And that's it, just, like, and it's small. 826 00:39:45,793 --> 00:39:48,551 And then there's other times where you know he'll be like, "Are you texting somebody?" 827 00:39:48,551 --> 00:39:50,482 Or I'll be like, "Are you like... Are you messaging somebody?" 828 00:39:50,482 --> 00:39:53,586 Little stuff like that, and that might blow up to a bigger fight. 829 00:39:53,586 --> 00:39:56,034 And then it lasts for a day. And then we are fine. 830 00:39:56,034 --> 00:39:58,482 Like, you know, it's just normal stuff, right? 831 00:39:58,482 --> 00:40:01,068 Oh, those comments, they're just not healthy. 832 00:40:01,068 --> 00:40:03,655 They're not gonna nourish that relationship. 833 00:40:03,655 --> 00:40:05,448 Y'all gotta stop playing around with this. 834 00:40:05,448 --> 00:40:07,379 I'm... Look, I disagree. I disagree. 835 00:40:07,379 --> 00:40:10,655 I know my relationship, so I wouldn't be with someone if it was the case. 836 00:40:10,655 --> 00:40:12,482 But maybe... maybe John feels differently. 837 00:40:12,482 --> 00:40:15,000 Well, a lot of times, sometimes I joke around about it, 838 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,275 but then it upsets her 'cause, you know, I'm just not... 839 00:40:17,275 --> 00:40:18,758 I don't always think when I talk. 840 00:40:18,758 --> 00:40:20,379 And then, like I said, 841 00:40:20,379 --> 00:40:24,034 sometimes her not questioning me all the time gets my head going 842 00:40:24,034 --> 00:40:25,862 -because I'm not doing anything. -Yeah. 843 00:40:25,862 --> 00:40:28,344 So to have it come up, I'm just like this. 844 00:40:28,344 --> 00:40:30,034 "But why the [bleep] is she saying this [bleep]? 845 00:40:30,034 --> 00:40:31,379 Usually when somebody brings it up 846 00:40:31,379 --> 00:40:32,965 they're doing something. What's going on?" 847 00:40:32,965 --> 00:40:35,586 Well, it sounds like you both have very similar jealous issues. 848 00:40:35,586 --> 00:40:37,448 So I think maybe you accept each other for that. 849 00:40:37,448 --> 00:40:40,241 But I don't... I don't think that's normal in a relationship. 850 00:40:40,241 --> 00:40:42,655 And if it is like, God, I don't want that relationship. 851 00:40:43,655 --> 00:40:45,241 I just want peace in my life. 852 00:40:47,137 --> 00:40:48,241 You guys are just fueling this fire 853 00:40:48,241 --> 00:40:50,758 where you're just always on edge. 854 00:40:52,172 --> 00:40:53,310 No, I disagree. 855 00:40:55,172 --> 00:40:57,793 It is a bigger deal than they're making out to be. 856 00:40:57,793 --> 00:41:01,206 Whoa, whoa, whoa. No, no, that's... 857 00:41:03,758 --> 00:41:05,379 [Shaun] Coming up... 858 00:41:05,379 --> 00:41:06,586 So what's the next timeline? 859 00:41:06,586 --> 00:41:08,965 I guess the engagement is supposed to be coming up. 860 00:41:08,965 --> 00:41:10,793 Well, so what's the timeline for the engagement? 861 00:41:10,793 --> 00:41:12,137 Like, five years? 862 00:41:12,137 --> 00:41:14,137 My timeline, you know, you know, uh, 863 00:41:14,137 --> 00:41:16,793 you know, it's whenever, you know, it's, like, whenever it happens, 864 00:41:16,793 --> 00:41:17,965 you know what I'm saying? 865 00:41:30,689 --> 00:41:32,103 [Veronica] You guys are just fueling this fire 866 00:41:32,103 --> 00:41:34,655 where you're just always on edge. 867 00:41:36,034 --> 00:41:37,172 No, I disagree. 868 00:41:39,103 --> 00:41:41,758 It is a bigger deal than they're making out to be. 869 00:41:44,344 --> 00:41:46,896 And I know how important it is in a relationship to have trust. 870 00:41:46,896 --> 00:41:48,655 It's, like, what the whole thing is about. 871 00:41:48,655 --> 00:41:51,689 I think you need to cut Megan some slack. 872 00:41:51,689 --> 00:41:54,034 -[Debbie] It's like you're going hard on her. -Thank you, Debbie. 873 00:41:54,034 --> 00:41:56,000 -Thank you, Debbie. -[Debbie] It's, like, you need to be building 874 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,586 up their relationship. 875 00:41:57,586 --> 00:42:00,000 No, I wanna make sure you guys are in a good relationship. 876 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,172 And so if, like... like, I think you get 877 00:42:02,172 --> 00:42:06,000 caught up on a trap really quick that things are gonna change. 878 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,034 And, like, you know, the reality is they don't, 879 00:42:08,034 --> 00:42:11,000 unless, like, you bring awareness to them and make them change, so... 880 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,896 -I mean... -What needs to change, though, What needs to change? 881 00:42:12,896 --> 00:42:14,275 [Patrick] Well, just to the trust issues. 882 00:42:14,275 --> 00:42:16,793 That's a big, huge, massive deal. 883 00:42:16,793 --> 00:42:20,965 It's something that, like, it is gonna destroy any relationship. 884 00:42:20,965 --> 00:42:22,896 [Megan] Like, I'm doing everything I can, 885 00:42:22,896 --> 00:42:24,344 so sometimes I get a little crazy 886 00:42:24,344 --> 00:42:26,275 and I have a little bit of trust issues. 887 00:42:26,275 --> 00:42:28,965 But it's only because he's so good to me 888 00:42:28,965 --> 00:42:30,965 and he's so good to my daughter, so... 889 00:42:31,793 --> 00:42:34,000 Considering, you know, how fast things happen, 890 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,793 and, you know, short term, you gotta figure things out, you know. 891 00:42:36,793 --> 00:42:39,034 -We're not perfect. -[Megan] Right. 892 00:42:39,034 --> 00:42:40,172 [Veronica] So have you guys gotten engaged? 893 00:42:40,172 --> 00:42:42,275 'Cause you had a timeline, didn't you? 894 00:42:42,275 --> 00:42:45,482 Yeah, but realistically, you know, that's not like me 895 00:42:45,482 --> 00:42:47,793 to kind of put, like, an ultimatum on somebody. 896 00:42:47,793 --> 00:42:50,000 Because in the beginning, I wasn't even about marriage. 897 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,551 -What... Patrick, your face. -[Shaun] Patrick, your face. 898 00:42:52,551 --> 00:42:54,172 -Yeah. -Uh, Tim caught that too. 899 00:42:54,172 --> 00:42:56,551 You just made a face when Megan said 900 00:42:56,551 --> 00:42:59,448 she wasn't one to put timelines, or... 901 00:42:59,448 --> 00:43:01,241 I've heard there's timelines. 902 00:43:02,965 --> 00:43:04,241 What... What have you heard? 903 00:43:06,586 --> 00:43:09,965 [Veronica] Patrick, tell us. Spill the tea. Come on now. 904 00:43:09,965 --> 00:43:13,586 There was timelines on him moving to San Antonio. 905 00:43:13,586 --> 00:43:17,034 There were timelines on, like, when he's gonna get engaged. 906 00:43:17,034 --> 00:43:18,862 I've heard all about the timeline. 907 00:43:20,034 --> 00:43:23,068 And the timeline to move to San Antonio, he caved. She got her way. 908 00:43:23,068 --> 00:43:26,172 Yeah, and that was fast. 909 00:43:26,172 --> 00:43:28,896 And you did say you don't like ultimatums, but... 910 00:43:28,896 --> 00:43:30,551 Yeah, no, for sure, I don't, I don't. 911 00:43:30,551 --> 00:43:32,241 But at the same time, when I think about it, 912 00:43:32,241 --> 00:43:33,965 like, I know my worth and, like, 913 00:43:33,965 --> 00:43:39,172 I'm not... I don't have time right now to be, like, really lollygagging. 914 00:43:39,172 --> 00:43:41,793 [Shaun] Was John not comfortable with that timeline? 915 00:43:41,793 --> 00:43:43,724 Did he not want to move to Texas that quickly? 916 00:43:44,379 --> 00:43:46,241 I mean, not really. 917 00:43:46,241 --> 00:43:48,379 He doesn't really like San Antonio that much, right? 918 00:43:48,379 --> 00:43:49,793 We've talked about that, like... It's not... 919 00:43:49,793 --> 00:43:53,000 No, down the line, eventually, I'd like to get out of San Antonio. 920 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,000 But it's gonna take some time. You gotta... 921 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,068 You know, our daughter, you know, factors into that 922 00:43:57,068 --> 00:44:00,172 because she just got into schooling. Just got it going. 923 00:44:00,172 --> 00:44:02,689 -So, you know, that's pretty important, you know? -Yeah. 924 00:44:02,689 --> 00:44:04,068 So what's the next timeline? 925 00:44:05,896 --> 00:44:09,137 I guess the engagement is supposed to be coming up. 926 00:44:09,137 --> 00:44:10,862 Well, so what's the timeline for the engagement? 927 00:44:10,862 --> 00:44:12,793 Like, five years? 928 00:44:12,793 --> 00:44:14,344 Oh, no, honey, that... that's too long. 929 00:44:14,344 --> 00:44:15,758 -No, that's a little too long. -[Veronica] Okay. 930 00:44:16,586 --> 00:44:18,482 I think the future is, uh, you know, 931 00:44:18,482 --> 00:44:20,482 I'm madly in love with Megan, you know? 932 00:44:20,482 --> 00:44:24,793 So, uh, as long as she's still madly in love with me, then, you know we're gonna... 933 00:44:24,793 --> 00:44:27,137 Obviously, nobody's perfect, right? 934 00:44:27,137 --> 00:44:31,275 So obviously, we do need to work on the trust issues 935 00:44:31,275 --> 00:44:32,482 because we want... I want this to work. 936 00:44:32,482 --> 00:44:35,034 You know, I don't wanna spend my life with anybody else. 937 00:44:35,034 --> 00:44:37,793 Like, what's the general time frame for engagement? 938 00:44:37,793 --> 00:44:39,034 Your expectations. 939 00:44:39,034 --> 00:44:42,034 I mean, my expectation, I would hope that it's within, like, 940 00:44:42,034 --> 00:44:44,896 you know, a year and a half, yeah. 941 00:44:44,896 --> 00:44:48,482 Well, you just never... I mean, I... I'm not a timeline guy. 942 00:44:48,482 --> 00:44:50,896 -But am I crazy about her? Of course. -But she's a timeline girl. 943 00:44:50,896 --> 00:44:52,344 Well, she... I mean, she is. 944 00:44:52,344 --> 00:44:55,172 You know, some people, you know, when they have tasks to do, 945 00:44:55,172 --> 00:44:57,965 -it really bothers them till they get the task done. -Mmm-hmm. 946 00:44:57,965 --> 00:44:59,137 [John] I'm the opposite. 947 00:44:59,137 --> 00:45:01,965 Like, I forget the task even exists. 948 00:45:01,965 --> 00:45:05,586 I don't need, like, the whole ceremony of marriage. I just need the commitment. 949 00:45:05,586 --> 00:45:06,965 And that's the main thing. 950 00:45:06,965 --> 00:45:08,689 So an engagement. 951 00:45:08,689 --> 00:45:11,655 -You need an engagement within a year and a half... -[Megan] Right. Mmm-hmm. 952 00:45:11,655 --> 00:45:12,862 ...or else... 953 00:45:15,172 --> 00:45:16,965 Goddamn! Give a man a break. 954 00:45:19,689 --> 00:45:22,413 Then, yeah, we're gonna have to, like, figure out what's going on. 955 00:45:23,586 --> 00:45:25,793 John, so in your mind, 956 00:45:25,793 --> 00:45:28,137 do you feel like if things progress 957 00:45:28,137 --> 00:45:29,793 and just keep going at this rate, 958 00:45:29,793 --> 00:45:32,034 that you'd propose to her on her timeline? 959 00:45:34,655 --> 00:45:36,655 -John? -My timeline. 960 00:45:36,655 --> 00:45:39,862 Well, you know, you know, you know, it's whenever you know, 961 00:45:39,862 --> 00:45:41,862 it's like, whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying? 962 00:45:41,862 --> 00:45:43,310 'Cause right now, baby, 963 00:45:46,137 --> 00:45:47,793 Miss Megan Brown. 964 00:45:47,793 --> 00:45:49,103 Oh! 965 00:45:49,103 --> 00:45:50,413 [Natalie speaking] 966 00:45:53,034 --> 00:45:56,551 [Shaun] Next time on the The Single Life Tell All... 967 00:45:57,275 --> 00:46:00,172 -How many years did you shave off? -Ten. 968 00:46:00,172 --> 00:46:01,655 [Tim] I mean, it's not a white lie. 969 00:46:01,655 --> 00:46:04,000 I don't think, like, two years is a white lie. [chuckles] 970 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,344 Yeah, two years is a white light. Ten years is like... 971 00:46:06,344 --> 00:46:08,103 [Tim] Ten years is a lot, you know? 972 00:46:08,103 --> 00:46:10,551 I don't ever lie about my age. I never have. 973 00:46:12,241 --> 00:46:14,896 Why can't you accept your age? I don't understand that. 974 00:46:14,896 --> 00:46:18,551 I think Mama Debbie's on the attack to Miss Debbie. 975 00:46:21,137 --> 00:46:23,172 You were definitely interested. 976 00:46:33,862 --> 00:46:35,310 That's not true. 977 00:46:40,758 --> 00:46:41,965 [Shaun] What do you mean by that? 978 00:46:44,172 --> 00:46:45,482 Oh, [bleep]. 979 00:46:45,482 --> 00:46:46,655 [Luisa speaking] 980 00:46:49,689 --> 00:46:51,862 [Julian speaking] 981 00:46:55,068 --> 00:46:58,172 [Shaun] Debbie, do you think that Ruben is hiding anything? 982 00:46:59,482 --> 00:47:03,241 Well, there is one thing, Ruben. 983 00:47:06,068 --> 00:47:08,793 She's a knockout. I know that, you know, 984 00:47:08,793 --> 00:47:11,758 and he's a man, and he's a good looking man. 985 00:47:11,758 --> 00:47:12,931 You think I'm handsome? 986 00:47:13,344 --> 00:47:14,448 Ooh! 987 00:47:16,448 --> 00:47:18,344 And I'm gonna tell you something, 988 00:47:18,344 --> 00:47:21,137 but please don't go back and say you've heard it from me. 989 00:47:21,137 --> 00:47:22,344 It's probably nothing, 990 00:47:22,344 --> 00:47:25,793 but I saw Luisa and I saw Jamal 991 00:47:25,793 --> 00:47:28,448 out at the restaurant, at the hotel.