Previously on... 90 Day: The Single Life Tell All.
You're in a good place, I'm in a good place.
Are we... Are we in a good place?
I mean... Call me later and we'll find out
how good of a place we're in.
All right. Okay.
-I'll see you later. -Mm-hmm.
-Bye. -Bye.
Josh, you said that you and Natalie
were together last night.
-Yeah. -Do you expect to see her again?
Yeah, I do.
-Well... -[Natalie speaking]
You want me to propose to you?
I don't understand what you need here.
You are definitely interested.
That's not true.
What do you mean by that?
Oh, [bleep].
Nobody's disrespecting you.
[Chantel] I feel like what's disrespectful is...
I think that if you want to help her, help her.
But you shouldn't sleep with her
if you do not want the relationship with her.
Josh, you are the most disgusting human being ever.
I saw Luisa and I saw Jamal
out at the restaurant at the hotel.
Listen, we all know they spent the night, right?
Hanging out together?
I mean, they were probably just sitting there, you know,
talking about their... their relationships.
-Yeah. -Yeah.
[Luisa exclaims]
[giggles]
-Hi, Tim. -Hello.
Today did not go the way I expected it,
mostly in my own world.
I did not expect Jamal to apologize,
or provide any sort of clarity or anything.
Um...
I did not expect Louisa to go for Tim the way she did.
[Tim] Oh, yeah.
I'm shocked in a way, because I wasn't expecting
like, that... that reaction.
Yeah. I've never seen that before.
I was, too, 'cause that means she cares, Tim.
-Well... -For her to have gotten that angry...
Yeah, I mean, like, I mean, I'm--
Where do you find these girls? 'Cause the last one...
...was obsessed too.
-Let's go get a drink. -Yes.
[man sighs]
[indistinct chatter]
-Hey, guys. -Hi, girl, look at you and your cozies.
You look so cute.
-Yes, I can twerk better now -Oh, my...
Yes. Do the twerk now.
Do the twerk now.
Okay, look, now that we're back to-- Yes. Let me-- Okay.
-I'm gonna try to twerk. -This is how we're gonna do it.
-Okay. -So, first of all.
-Okay. Okay. -Knees bent, hands on your knees.
-One and two-- -I feel like a pervert, guys.
[laughs] I'm not gonna look.
One, two, three, four, left!
-One, two, three, four, right! -Oh, which way are we?
One, two, three, four, and...
Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
-Yaay! -Wohoo! [laughs]
Thanks, girl.
-Yeah, yeah. -It's kind of like a victory dance.
-[indistinct chatter] -[laughs]
Well, you know, you gotta activate from here.
-You know-- -You gotta sit down like this.
-Yeah. -You wanna-- Okay.
-Right here. -What do you do with your hands?
On your knees.
-On your knees. -And you lift it up.
-Oh! -And drop it down.
-Drop it down. -Yeah.
Say five, six, seven, eight.
One-- Yes! Sister, yes!
-Throw my hair around. -Yes.
I'd rather just do the boogie.
Detroit style.
Yeah! Whoo! [laughs]
Thank you, Chantel.
Thank you.
We appreciate it.
I can say I twerked with Chantel. [giggles]
That was fun.
-Oh... Okay. -Yay!
[crew member] Five, four, three, two...
All right, everyone, I want to move on now
I have to ask you each a very tough question.
All right. You ready?
As 90 Day singles,
Who would you date
in the entire 90 Day universe?
Okay, Tim, who would you date in the entire 90 Day universe?
Uh... Man, that's a tough one. Uh...
I mean, Chantel is really hot.
Ooh, look at that.
I think Natalie is beautiful.
Fernanda is very beautiful.
And I like Paola because she wrestles now.
-Oh, my goodness. -Yeah, would that be one of your first dates?
Not that I want to wrestle her.
She would kick my ass for sure.
But I follow her on social media
and like, she's really determined
and it's gotten good. I'm impressed.
Seem like you guys would have fun on a date. Do you think?
I think they would have a great time.
Oh, yeah. She would like me for a date or two.
And then she would get tired of me.
Yeah, she'd be like, "Why are you always playing video games?"
"What is boys night Fridays?"
[laughs] Yeah.
All right. Veronica, you next.
Who would you date in the entire 90 Day universe?
You know who I will say, I-- who is a married person,
and I love them both dearly.
So, no offense, Libby.
But, girl, Andre is so sweet.
He is so handsome.
He is so fun to hang out with.
So if he was a single man, I might at least want to hang out with him.
If I were gay, I would be all up on Andre.
Yeah.
All right. Chantel, your turn.
-Who would you pick? -Okay.
Respect to Loren and Alexei.
But for the quality that--
You know, he really wanted her for love,
and I loved their marriage.
I'd probably want to be with someone like Alexei.
But as far as, like, single people in the universe, umm...
-Debbie's son. -ALL: Ooh!
Debbie's son, because he's a cop
-that's a respectful... -Too bad he left.
-...profession and he... -He lives in Atlanta.
-...lives in Atlanta. -Do you like a man in uniform?
I do like a man in uniform.
-Oh, goodness -Miss Debbie. Okay.
Miss Debbie knows.
Do you think Julian and Chantel would make a good couple?
-What do you think? -Oh, I think so.
It's like, you're such a princess.
And Julian likes the princess type.
So, I could make that happen, Chantel.
[all chuckling]
-Okay. Well, we'll leave that door partially open. -I wanna see that.
-Oh, certainly, call Julian. -Make sure to film that. I want to see it.
I want to see that date.
And Tyray, in all of the 90 Day universe,
who would you be interested in to go out on a date with?
[chuckles] Probably Larissa.
-ALL: Ooh! -Larissa!
-Okay. -Bro, you want to be dead?
Like, Larissa back then or Larissa now?
Both. [chuckles] I like a little bit of crazy.
I guess so, buddy.
So I'm interested to know, none of the women here picked Sarper.
-[blows raspberry] -[chuckles] Uh-uh.
I don't think any of the women on the planet
are picking Sarper, other than Shekinah.
You'd have to dress up in a hazmat suit
to go on a date with Sarper. That's how I feel.
All right. Well, hopefully, those 90 Day -ers were watching,
and if so, maybe we'll have some future love connections.
Okay. Now, I want to return to Natalie.
Things got pretty heated earlier between her and Josh.
I'd like to welcome back out Josh, Mama Debbie and Caesar to continue where we left off.
-Hi, Josh. -Hey, what's up? What's up?
-Hey. Hey. -[howling]
Hi.
Hi, Caesar. Hey there, Debbie.
Okay, guys.
After breaking up with Josh,
Natalie's estranged husband, Mike, visited her.
But while she thought
there could be a possible reconnection,
things moved in a very different direction.
Let's bring him out to see what has happened since
that very difficult conversation. Please welcome Mike.
-Hey, Mike. -Hey.
-Hey, Mike. -How's it going, everybody?
-So, I'm back where it began. -You're looking good.
-Good to see you. -Thank you, man.
-Yeah. You look good, man. -Thank you.
-Yeah. -You want to say hi to Natalie, Mike?
-Hi. -How've you been?
Here we are again, Mike.
Um, you've been listening backstage.
-A little bit, yeah. -What are your thoughts about what's been happening
in Natalie's life?
Umm...
Sounds like there's a lot going on, on both sides.
A lot of indecisiveness.
Sounds complicated. [chuckles]
I want to talk about a shocking question Natalie asked Mike.
Josh, you may be seeing this for the very first time.
Let's take a look.
Mm-hmm.
You did.
No.
Because I'm ready to move on, Natalie.
We've been separated for years.
I don't know, Natalie.
But, you can't backtrack towards me.
I'm not your backup plan.
I've fought for years for you to come here.
I cared. I supported you.
I took care of you. I loved you.
But none of that mattered.
[sighs in exasperation]
Mike, what was going through your mind when Natalie asked
to start a family with you?
Uh, I was shocked.
After... Yeah, after everything, I was just shocked.
'Cause we're absolutely not together.
Why am I going to donate my sperm, knowing that
I have a kid with her and we're not together?
Like, that's not what I want.
And I've always just wanted a family.
Natalie, were you shocked by Mike's answer?
Josh, what was your reaction to seeing that clip?
[sighs]
I think that she just needs to really figure out what she wants,
because I still don't even know what that is.
I-- I don't.
She had Mike. She had what she wanted.
She left him. Like, I'm-- I'm also looking out for myself.
Tyray, what did you think about
Natalie asking Mike to be the sperm donor?
I feel like it was like, her attempt to get what she wanted.
Which is the baby, you know. That's her ultimate goal.
-It seems like-- -No, I don't even know if that's right.
If she really wants that, you know?
Honestly, you know, we're cool.
But it is odd to ask your husband,
who you're not really in a great place with.
I feel like she felt like she lost something.
She knew what was valuable.
You're a family man, and I think she was like,
"Man, let me try to make it work,
and really create a family."
Yeah.
Natalie, what is it like seeing Mike and Josh
in the same room again?
What is it like seeing Mike and Josh in the same room again?
That's not true.
Mike, have you moved on?
Are you in a new relationship?
I am.
How long has this been going on, Mike?
We've been talking for a year and dating for six months.
Oh, wow. Okay.
So is this somebody who is very serious?
Yes.
-What can you tell us? -Yeah.
We've been seeing each other
for a good year now since last December.
-Uh-huh. -She's great.
I absolutely love and adore her.
She just cares about me
and wants to be with me for who I am.
And I just feel really appreciated and loved by her.
So I mean...
So, Mike, you and Natalie are still married.
Have you started the divorce process?
I, uh... Yeah. I have.
[sighs]
What have you done so far?
Well, you got that piece of paper?
Oh, you got it? Okay.
Mike, where is Debbie going?
She's grabbing something real quick.
Wait. Okay, wait. Hold up.
[Shaun] Coming up...
You know, you shouldn't have done this
on national T.V., man. You just shouldn't have.
-We got married on national T.V. -That was a low blow.
I'm just-- I'm just being honest.
Marriage is a happy event. Look at her.
-Does she look very happy? -I'm just being honest.
-Don't pick on Mike.
Guys, this is none of your business. Don't pick on Mike.
And you're a Judas, man.
And later...
You know, I saw how you acted
in your son's personal affairs, and no wonder
they wanted you out of the house.
You're very destructive and demanding.
Don't you dare talk about my family.
You have no right to talk about my family.
Then get my name out of your mouth, woman.
You got that piece of paper?
Mike, where is Debbie going?
She's grabbing something real quick.
Wait. Okay, wait. Hold up.
Debbie?
Hey, Debbie?
-I know. -What is that?
It's your divorce papers.
[sighs]
Oh, wow.
[Debbie] I'm so sorry.
Mike, why did you give those papers to Debbie?
Because I needed someone to serve her.
You could not hand them?
I can't serve them myself. No.
Umm... So, Mike, when did you have these papers drawn up?
Two weeks ago.
You got 90 days to respond. You don't--
You don't have to sign it right now.
-Just 90 days. -Unless you just want to end it.
Just wait.
-Wait till you have time to read it. -Wait a second.
-Just wait a second. -It's just--
I'm serving you paperwork. That's the paperwork.
-I filed for divorce. -She can't sign it anyway.
It needs to be notarized.
-Just wait a second. -She can't.
-It'll void the paperwork. -Wait. Put it in envelope.
Don't sign it, Natalie.
Yeah, just wait. Put it in the envelope.
Wait till you have time to look through it and read it, girl.
Don't sign it.
It's the legal way things are done.
-It's nothing weird. -It's the legal way to do it.
I have to give you paperwork after I file it,
but I cannot give it to you.
I have to have someone else give you the paperwork.
So, Natalie. So you obviously need somebody else
to look over these papers for you.
It's just the way things are done here.
It has to be done that way.
It's just a notification. It's just a notice.
It's the way things are done here.
But you have to sign in front of a legal notary
that can verify that it's actually you signing.
And we don't have a notary here.
So if you sign them, it will be invalid.
No, no, no. There's nothing extra.
It's not going to be valid. Someone has to verify it.
Mike's a good guy. I promise it's probably...
Mike is a good guy.
Just put it in the envelope.
I'm sorry, Natalie. I really am.
That was a Judas move, man.
[whimpers]
-It's gonna be okay, Natalie. -No, I'm fine.
Deep breathe.
You're taking control of your life now.
[sarcastically] Yeah.
You're not signing any documents like this
until you get professional advice.
-No. -No.
This was extremely cruel.
It will not affect your mom in any way, Natalie.
Your mom... your mom is fine.
You could have done this privately.
Debbie, you say that. But I personally think
it coming from Mama Debbie is probably a lot nicer
than a sheriff coming and knocking on her door.
No, I'm saying that this is cruel
for Mike to wait to this moment on T.V.
to serve her after she's been traumatized
by this guy she slept with last night.
Oh, no, Josh.
Yeah, it's funny to you, but look at her.
You know, she's really shook up.
Debbie, the last time Natalie refused to sign them.
So this has been like, a couple of years thing.
Who cares? Look at her.
She's not in any shape to sign anything.
This has been coming for years.
Like it's not cruel on my part.
You know, you shouldn't have done this
on national T.V., man. You just shouldn't have.
-We got married on national T.V. -That was a low blow.
I'm just-- I'm just being honest.
Marriage is a happy event. Look at her.
-Does she look very happy? -I'm just being honest.
-Don't pick on Mike.
Guys, this is none of your business. Don't pick on Mike.
And you're a Judas, man.
You know, coming up here to pretend
to be all nicey-nice and handing her--
Everybody, he asked me to do it.
It would have been somebody on this set.
You should have asked somebody...
-Shut up, I don't have to do anything you say. -...a stranger.
Why didn't you ask a stranger or somebody from the crew here?
Your opinion means crap to me, lady.
Is it better if some stranger walks in here and hands her the papers?
At least she knows I care about her.
You know I do.
Oh, just get real. You know, that's like--
-I am real. -That's cruelty.
-Look at her. Does she look-- -She's my friend,
and she knows I didn't do it-- anything.
-I'm sorry, Natalie. -That's her problem.
You know I love you and you are my best friend.
She's got these friends...
The guy she sleeps with last night,
her friend that calls her a charity case.
-She's got her ex-husband... -I didn't-- I didn't say that.
...that breaks her heart on national T.V.
Shut up. You don't know anything about it.
And then, she's got "Debbie."
You know, "Mama Debbie."
That didn't look very damn motherly to me, honey.
You're a [bleep] bitch.
Ooh!
Coming up...
You never know, like there's no definitive answer of like,
what you actually want.
Mike was getting ready to give you everything you wanted
in the beginning and you left.
And I'm still here, giving you things.
If I give you everything, you're just gonna leave.
Like, how do I know that's not gonna happen?
Okay. Everybody, can we give just Natalie a moment here?
You're a [bleep] bitch.
Ooh!
-You're welcome. Okay? -You are.
Miss Debbie.
-Clown of the century. -Thank you.
Okay.
So, Natalie, um, I want to ask you...
This has obviously been a shock to you.
Um, you and Mike have talked about divorce for a while.
Now it's becoming more of a reality.
Mike served you with the papers.
What are your feelings about this?
Mike, does this have anything to do with your new relationship?
-[stammers] Both, yes. -It does.
Yes, I can't. I can't move on and start a relationship with someone else.
They're gonna feel that way.
You know, you're still married.
How can, you know, she can't take me serious until I move on.
-Um, are you at the point in this new relationship... -And I feel that's unfair.
...where you're thinking about marriage?
[chuckles] No, it's too early to think about marriage.
We're just barely beginning to move in.
We've been honestly taking our time and there's no rush.
He can take his time. I can't take mine.
She's moving in in a month and they've been dating for six months.
Yeah, she's moving in next month, so...
Like, we just started talking, like...
Oh, my.
Mike, I know you said you're not ready for marriage with your new girlfriend yet,
but do you think you're moving in that direction?
Yes.
I see a very long, loving road down the line.
-And having children with this woman? -Yes.
[sobs]
Well, good for you, Mike. I'm happy for you.
It's still in the same spot that you left it.
[hyperventilating]
Okay, everybody. Can we give just Natalie a moment here?
Yeah.
[whimpers]
Mama Debbie, I'm interested.
What conversation did Mike have with you about the papers?
He just asked if someone wanted to serve Natalie,
and I felt that it would be better from me because we're friends.
And I know if I was getting served by somebody,
if somebody walked in, a stranger, it's just...
You don't make the laws, Debbie. Yeah, none of us do.
-Like, it's the way it is. -I did, I agreed to do it.
Mama Debbie, why are you crying?
I just don't want Natalie to be mad at me for doing that.
It's not her fault, either. Please don't be mad at her.
Are you mad at her, Natalie?
I'm sorry to put you in a situation, I...
I thought it'd be better from me than a stranger walking up and doing it.
As much as I dislike you, I think that was really good what you did.
And I actually, I'm glad that you did that.
And, you know, I think it was caring for you to actually give those to her.
-Well, thank you. -Yeah.
And now, Josh, now you can show her what a real man is.
I'm just getting out of the way.
You and Josh are up to bat.
-That's it. -Yeah, well, I, so...
Yes, but I, I think that she just needs to really
figure out what she wants, because I still don't even know what that is.
I don't.
Mike was getting ready to give you everything you wanted in the beginning, and you left.
And I'm still here giving you things.
Well, like, if I give you everything, you're just gonna leave?
Like, how do I know that's not gonna happen?
I don't know, but you did leave him.
You'd never know, like there's no definitive answer of like what you actually want.
I think that things need to be fixed first
before we get into, like a serious relationship.
And then the healthy relationship,
you meet your kids, you meet the family,
like, that's what happens. You take those steps.
And I'm protecting my family
to make sure that this is the person, but I'm not sure.
Do you want to get back to a girlfriend, boyfriend?
-Or are you good, like where things are? -I mean...
I mean, I don't know, I'm open,
and I think that we've been having a lot more fun,
and she's come a long way.
But, you know, dude, we have some moments where it's just like,
what the f... What?
Like, what happened? Um...
And so, like, those are things that really stop us from being in an actual relationship,
because it's like, things will go good, and then it's just, [vocalizes]
atomic bomb, and that's just what it is.
Caesar, Debbie, thank you for being here today.
I know this was very emotional for you, Debbie, but we appreciate you being here.
Hope to see you again soon.
Bye, guys.
Good to see you.
Take care of her, or I swear to God, I'll kill you.
I know. I'm doing my best.
Be careful.
Bye. Okay.
Mama Debbie.
Well, Mike, now that you are truly ready to move on from Natalie,
we wish you the best in the future.
-Thank you so much. -Thank you so much.
And, Josh, we will be curious to see what happens next between you and Nat.
-Thank you. -Yeah.
[scattered applause]
Thank you. All right.
No. Come on.
-Take it easy, everyone. -Later, Mike.
Natalie, I know this was very difficult for you,
but hopefully you can heal and move on.
I hope you're able to find what you are looking for.
[chuckles]
We have come to the end of 90 Day: The Single Life Tell All.
Thank you all for your honesty and your openness.
It has been a pleasure having you here.
I'm Shaun Robinson and I'll see you next time.
-Thanks, Shaun. -Thank you, Shaun.
-Thanks, guys. -Thank you.
I know that you can't see it now,
but I promise you, it's a blessing in disguise.
It's going to work out for the best.
Even though you're hurting right now, is what I'm trying to tell you.
-Everything alright? -Yeah, I'm okay.
Yes.
Single Life!
We're gonna get you divorced, and then we're gonna celebrate.
[roars]
-We should go to Italy. The three of us! -Oh, my God, yes!
-Yes! -Let's go to Italy!
-Yeah, I got divorced... -We have to sign these papers first and get you divorced.
I will say, I was divorced before divorce parties were a thing.
Poor Natalie.
She is very vulnerable and gullible.
And then Mama Debbie has the audacity to say,
"I'm doing her a favor delivering these papers because she knows I love her."
That ain't no kind of love I've ever seen.
You look really good. You're happy. I can tell you're happy.
-I am. -That's good.
-Yeah. -Yeah. You can tell.
It's done, it's over with now.
I'm choosing to move on for greener pastures.
I helped save her mom, her and her mom.
So, I mean, at least I got her mom out, you know?
Yeah, that's a good thing.
Natalie and her mom, I hope, you know, going forth,
they can live long, happy lives and now they can figure out what she wants.
[Shaun] Coming up...
You've called me a clown, you've insulted me, right when you first came in.
Do you have to lie about your age to get a date?
I don't want to talk to you. You're pathetic.
There's a mean girl club going on, and I don't like it.
I don't feel like everybody really, fully understands me and my side
and like the story and where I'm coming from.
It's not about a physical relationship.
That's not why this whole thing exists.
Um, it's because I genuinely care for her and her mom.
No, no.
That was wild.
No, I didn't.
It was a surprise.
I know.
I'm still here. I'm still here for you.
You're doing, you're doing...
No, she's gonna be fine.
Everything's gonna be okay.
Nothing's gonna... Nothing's gonna change.
Okay?
Just relax.
Take it all in, and let's discuss it later.
Okay? You're doing good.
You're doing a good job.
Don't sign it yet, not yet.
Great job.
Don't think about the negatives. This year's going to be great for you.
Okay? We're gonna make sure of that.
Okay?
Hey.
I'll see you for dinner.
What's next for me and Natalie is...
um, dinner.
We'll go from there.
Are you okay?
How are you, my buddy?
You're beautiful.
I thought it was definitely kind. A very big kindness.
Yeah, and I would rather be served by somebody... Some stranger...
It sucks, but yeah, better you than some sheriff come knocking at your door.
I know.
Chantel, you look absolutely beautiful, gorgeous.
If you want to tweak or twerk or whatever they call it...
-"Tweak"! -Any way, any way you want.
You do it, girl, because you're young and you have a right to have fun.
Debbie had a lot to say about my outfits, actually.
Um... So that really means a lot to me.
-Yeah, absolutely. -She just
didn't like the fact that I wasn't wearing any panties
-in Greece. -Miss Debbie's coming in on your outfit?
Really?
-Yeah. -The clothing expert?
From hell?
You've called me a clown. You've insulted me, right when you first came in,
and then because I defended someone that was fragile emotionally--
Look, you're not a very kind person.
There's a mean girl club going on, and I don't participate.
You know, you're very insulting.
So you have to lie about your age to get a date.
Well, you know, go ahead, have at it.
I'm just saying what you say
-in your interview. -Have at it. Have at it.
I'm thankful that I'm 68 and I have good health,
and I'm helping other people.
I don't know what you're doing with your life.
But I feel fine about what I'm doing.
Mama Debbie actually has helped me a lot.
This whole year, all that Jamal drama.
She's the one who, when I didn't want to annoy Tim, I'd text Mama Debbie.
I'd send her an email, I'd give her a call.
I don't need friends that want to serve court papers and say,
"Oh, I'm doing this as a favor to you."
But you think that a sheriff knocking at Natalie's door would've been better?
A stranger, a cop, anybody?
Ask Natalie how she feels about it.
I see you, Miss Debbie.
Because, me, I wouldn't want someone I know to give me the papers, you know,
so I guess it just depends on the person, you know?
And I don't know Natalie that well, so I don't know what she would prefer.
Natalie doesn't know how she feels right now.
She's coming from a place of pain.
And guess what? It turned out to be like a freak show and a circus.
You're making her feel a lot worse by your comments, you know?
But you called me a clown.
You insulted me earlier.
You were right out of the gate.
You lied about your age.
It's like gee whiz, if that's the only thing I've ever done wrong...
-It doesn't matter. -Whatever.
Oh, no, I don't want to talk to you. You're pathetic.
Well, you know, I saw how you acted in your son's personal affairs.
And no wonder they wanted you out of the house.
You're a very destructive and demanding woman.
Don't you dare talk about my family.
You have no right to talk about my family.
Then get my name out of your mouth, woman.
Don't you dare talk about my family.
You have no right to talk about my family.
Then get my name out of your mouth, woman.
Get your [bleep] face out of my... look.
-See? Who resorts to trailer trash... -Yeah, I [bleep]--
Right, right. You're so privileged.
Here we go. You defined yourself.
To think that a... How old...
So I'm 23.
-Girls being girls. -23?
-All over again. -Here is a 68-year-old woman
thinking that a 23-year-old man's
madly in love with her and he's gonna... she's gonna...
oh, he's going to offer her the world, the world.
"I love you, Miss Debbie.
-I love you." How old are you, 23? -And you've made all perfect,
wonderful decisions in your whole life.
-I under-- -I'm a happy camper, lady, I don't know your problem.
I understand you, but I'd rather lie 10 years off my age
than be a mean-spirited person.
What she was saying was you should be proud of your age.
And you took it as like this whole attack against you,
-like, you're making mountains out of molehills. -No, it was--
-[Mama Debbie babbling] -It was a litany, a litany of criticism directed at me.
-It was not. -Do you ever shut up and listen?
I don't think so.
See, and now I'm being told to shut up.
I pity you.
Don't pity me. I'm happy, I get laid all the time.
I have a man that loves me.
Oh, that's your intellectual stimulation, is getting laid all the time.
Sex. You're damn right. Sex.
Why are you looking for a man then, if you're not looking for sex?
-Well, your mind is in the gutter, honey. -What are you gonna do?
And my mind is someplace else.
Your mind is [bleep] up.
-I'll tell you. Sorry, it is. -Here we go.
And yes, I said [bleep] up.
How dare you say she shouldn't look sexy?
-How dare you? -Constructive criticism.
Just because you can't look sexy?
No, because I have a daughter her age.
Does my outfit choices change the kind of person
you think I would be for your son if I was interested?
Okay, here's the deal.
I love what you wear tonight.
This is classy and tasteful.
I just didn't like the no-panty dress.
That's the only thing I would've disapproved of,
and my son would have felt, I don't know, put off by it.
You both have, like, incredibly strong love for your sons.
-You're both like mama bears. -Very true.
-Yes. -And so for that, I mean...
Yeah.
We can all be on an island united in that.
Right, that's true. We love our children.
But I believe in respecting other people.
Well...
-Good evening. -Good evening.
I'm going to miss you, Tyray.
-I'm gonna miss you too. -But we're gonna see each other again.
Yeah. Have a safe flight.
[cackles]
You know...
Honey, it got ugly tonight.
I'm gonna keep my eye on Ruben the Cuban.
I do accept his explanations about the dating app.
But part of me is saying to myself,
You still gotta be careful, Debbie.
Because so many guys do want the younger Hot Tater Tot.
And I can't compete with that.
I've got to see if he's sincere, if he's gonna delete that app, and you know,
it's not easy for me to trust, you know, because of my ex-husband.
Because of the Osama thing.
But I want to trust someone so badly, you know?
So I'm hoping he'll be a stand-up guy.
But I need to see more.
But don't, you know what though, don't change yourself too much
because you keep meeting these different guys
and they each want a different type of woman.
And I hope you realize that, like,
you're fine the way you are.
Don't put up with any [bleep]. You're beautiful,
any man would love to have you.
And don't think that, like, these men can run all over you,
because look at the rest of the world.
No. Nobody looks like you.
Come on, you're exotic.
You're a beautiful tall blonde.
Yeah, but I support you because I know that you're actually like...
Yeah.
Let's get out of here.
Oh, you're welcome.
You're welcome, come on. You know...
You know I love you. You know it.
This experience today has been crazy,
like, I was not expecting what happened to happen. [chuckles]
I never thought I would lose it today.
I mean, in a way, I do feel like the belle of the ball.
I don't look as good as Debbie and Chantel
and the rest of the ladies in their outfits.
But, hey, I'm feeling good.
I have a new person that I'm gonna be talking to,
and I'm gonna see where it goes.
-Are you serious? -Yes, I smell so badly.
-Your armpits on my deodorant? -Well, my armpits at least don't have hair.
Mmm, oh, I feel fresh.
Oh, my God, I'm ready to go.
The hardest part about today was people blatantly lying on me.
I mean, that's when I got really, really angry,
because for people to so resolutely, you know, lie and say "No, you said this."
You know, when... Look, I own my [bleep].
I will say that Louisa's behavior today was probably the most shocking.
We went on a couple of dates, we're still friends, it's fine.
And like she came in like, you know, I proposed to her
and just, like, disappeared and left her at the altar.
I mean, it was just very, very weird.
So, Veronica is leaving tonight. Excited.
I'm not looking. It's exhausting.
I am single and mingling with my friends.
From here, like I'm single and I'm just living life.
It's about taking time for myself, for once.
You know, I'm not opposed to falling in love,
but I'm not, like, searching for it.
If I end up seeing Jamal tonight, depending on how things go, I mean,
that could probably hold me over for a little bit.
If we're around and we're single,
and we want to hang out and hook up, we can hang out and hook up.
So, you know, we'll see.
We'll see what the world sends my way.
Nine months ago, you know, I was single, and you know, now I'm engaged, you know,
and a stepdaddy.
I'd take this advice, people,
anytime you think you're in trouble, just propose.
Everything goes away.
You know what I'm saying?
Hey, my man.
-See you later, bro. -Take care, bro.
I do take some of the stuff I heard today in the heart.
You know, communication, trust.
Hopefully, with time, those things get better.
Especially if you haven't done nothing.
[Chantel] Getting divorced definitely freed me,
and I feel like I am over my ex-husband and I am ready to move on.
My mom seems to have a good feeling about Yanis,
which speaks volumes to me, and I'm not gonna get in a relationship
with another person who can't get along with my family.
I'm gonna leave the ball in his court.
And I'm gonna tell him where I am.
And since I'm 100% worth the effort, in his words,
he should come and meet me halfway.