1 00:00:01,167 --> 00:00:02,919 [Sophie] Previously on "The Single Life." 2 00:00:03,003 --> 00:00:05,005 Girl's trip -- Whoo! 3 00:00:05,088 --> 00:00:06,631 I've recently filed for divorce. 4 00:00:06,715 --> 00:00:09,175 So what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip? 5 00:00:09,259 --> 00:00:11,344 [Julia speaking] 6 00:00:14,472 --> 00:00:16,766 I've been talking to this guy. His name is Pedro. 7 00:00:18,977 --> 00:00:22,063 And yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro. 8 00:00:23,273 --> 00:00:24,941 But I don't wanna rush it the same way 9 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:26,067 I rushed my marriage. 10 00:00:28,695 --> 00:00:30,113 I'm still technically married. 11 00:00:31,364 --> 00:00:32,365 Yeah. 12 00:00:40,790 --> 00:00:42,292 [Gino] I wanna look good for Natalie, 13 00:00:42,375 --> 00:00:44,878 so I bought a couple of new shirts. 14 00:00:45,003 --> 00:00:46,546 My first attempt at dating Natalie, 15 00:00:46,671 --> 00:00:47,797 it didn't go very well. 16 00:00:47,881 --> 00:00:52,052 But I asked her if I could visit her, and she said, "Yes." 17 00:00:52,177 --> 00:00:55,138 I have some nervousness. It's a little nerve-wracking. 18 00:00:55,221 --> 00:00:58,391 I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up. 19 00:01:00,018 --> 00:01:02,604 -I have two roommates. -Oh, [bleep] two. 20 00:01:02,729 --> 00:01:06,024 I used to date one of them. Sadly, I cheated on her. 21 00:01:07,358 --> 00:01:10,779 It is hard as [bleep] to find a good man in your 50's. 22 00:01:10,904 --> 00:01:13,239 [Jamal] Maybe dating isn't something you should be 23 00:01:13,364 --> 00:01:14,657 stressing too hard about. 24 00:01:14,741 --> 00:01:17,410 You have a lot of other things going on. 25 00:01:17,535 --> 00:01:21,039 I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years. 26 00:01:21,122 --> 00:01:22,832 Jamal has an older brother named Larry 27 00:01:22,916 --> 00:01:24,709 that I put up for adoption. 28 00:01:24,793 --> 00:01:26,878 You think you're gonna have a deep talk with him? 29 00:01:26,961 --> 00:01:28,420 I have to have a deep talk with him. 30 00:01:28,505 --> 00:01:29,506 About what? 31 00:01:31,758 --> 00:01:34,551 Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption. 32 00:01:34,636 --> 00:01:36,387 I also had a daughter. 33 00:01:36,471 --> 00:01:38,473 [sobs] 34 00:01:44,979 --> 00:01:46,940 [upbeat music playing] 35 00:01:53,571 --> 00:01:55,907 [Rafael speaking Spanish] 36 00:01:55,990 --> 00:01:56,991 [Pedro speaking] 37 00:02:05,875 --> 00:02:07,877 [singing in Spanish] 38 00:02:14,801 --> 00:02:16,803 [Pedro speaking Spanish] 39 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:22,058 [in English] 40 00:02:52,005 --> 00:02:53,840 How'd your conversation go? 41 00:02:53,923 --> 00:02:56,426 We're getting to know each other, but that's the extent 42 00:02:56,509 --> 00:03:01,014 that I'm ready for right now. He just lets me open up myself 43 00:03:01,139 --> 00:03:02,515 It will be better for me. 44 00:03:03,850 --> 00:03:05,435 Yes. 45 00:03:05,518 --> 00:03:07,312 Step forward. Yeah, yeah. 46 00:03:07,395 --> 00:03:09,397 Pedro's coming on very strong. 47 00:03:09,522 --> 00:03:12,525 You know what Pedro asked me? He asked me if I [bleep] Rob. 48 00:03:12,609 --> 00:03:13,526 And what do you say? 49 00:03:13,610 --> 00:03:14,694 -I said... -True? 50 00:03:14,777 --> 00:03:16,404 Yeah, I said the truth. Why am I going to lie? 51 00:03:16,529 --> 00:03:17,989 And what did he say? 52 00:03:18,072 --> 00:03:19,782 -He was not happy. -[gasps] 53 00:03:19,866 --> 00:03:22,160 Like, I feel like he kind of was, like, judging me. 54 00:03:31,294 --> 00:03:32,295 [Sophie speaking] 55 00:03:35,340 --> 00:03:37,759 -Hi, sorry. -Oh, hi [laughs]. 56 00:03:37,884 --> 00:03:39,260 -Villa. -What's up, bro? 57 00:03:39,385 --> 00:03:40,345 -Man. -Hi. 58 00:03:40,428 --> 00:03:42,722 -How you doing? -I'm having a great time. 59 00:03:45,016 --> 00:03:48,728 So Sophie's definitely been like, like, "He's the first guy 60 00:03:48,811 --> 00:03:50,230 to buy me flowers." 61 00:03:50,313 --> 00:03:54,400 And she said that you're so, like, respectful. 62 00:03:54,525 --> 00:03:57,779 Like, very sweet. You're very sweet and romantic. 63 00:03:57,904 --> 00:03:59,989 -Are we serious about her? -I am. 64 00:04:00,073 --> 00:04:01,491 [Liz] Are y'all? 65 00:04:01,574 --> 00:04:02,867 -[Pedro] I am. -OK 66 00:04:07,413 --> 00:04:10,291 I think, you know, she just recently is just 67 00:04:10,416 --> 00:04:12,418 getting out of this 68 00:04:12,543 --> 00:04:14,045 marriage and relationship. 69 00:04:14,128 --> 00:04:15,588 And it seems like you've been kind of separated 70 00:04:15,672 --> 00:04:16,964 and divorced for a while. 71 00:04:17,089 --> 00:04:19,300 She's in the beginning stages of trying to, like, 72 00:04:19,425 --> 00:04:21,594 discover, like, where she's at. 73 00:04:25,348 --> 00:04:27,433 No, no, no, not discover more. 74 00:04:27,558 --> 00:04:29,936 She needs to -- she's still healing. 75 00:04:31,688 --> 00:04:33,523 [Liz] Healing, yeah -- yeah. 76 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:54,335 [Villa yelling] 77 00:04:54,460 --> 00:04:55,712 [Villa] What are we interrupting right now? 78 00:04:55,795 --> 00:04:56,879 -Nothing, absolutely nothing. -[Pedro] What are we doing? 79 00:04:56,963 --> 00:04:58,006 [Villa] Nothing? 80 00:05:00,133 --> 00:05:01,134 No. 81 00:05:03,011 --> 00:05:04,804 I'm ready for bed. 82 00:05:04,887 --> 00:05:07,056 [Pedro speaking] 83 00:05:10,184 --> 00:05:14,856 I came to the DR to be single and mingle, and first night, 84 00:05:14,981 --> 00:05:15,982 crushed it. 85 00:05:16,107 --> 00:05:17,233 I'll see you tomorrow, OK? 86 00:05:17,317 --> 00:05:18,443 Make sure he gets home safe. 87 00:05:18,526 --> 00:05:19,986 I'll go ahead and give you a text so you have 88 00:05:20,069 --> 00:05:21,070 my number, OK? -Thank you. 89 00:05:21,154 --> 00:05:22,363 -All right. -All right, have a good night. 90 00:05:22,488 --> 00:05:26,451 I even got a number. Villa is so sexy and so sweet. 91 00:05:26,534 --> 00:05:27,744 I'm so excited to see him again. 92 00:05:29,662 --> 00:05:30,663 Yes. 93 00:05:32,290 --> 00:05:33,416 Yeah, let me know what you wanna do. 94 00:05:33,499 --> 00:05:34,500 OK. 95 00:05:35,835 --> 00:05:37,420 Yeah, I wanna go to the beach. 96 00:05:37,503 --> 00:05:39,797 Honestly, for me, the night has just been very overwhelming. 97 00:05:39,881 --> 00:05:42,925 And Pedro definitely came on a lot stronger tonight 98 00:05:43,009 --> 00:05:44,761 than I anticipated. Him 99 00:05:44,844 --> 00:05:46,846 pushing me forward or trying to pressure me 100 00:05:46,929 --> 00:05:49,182 to something is only gonna make me step back. 101 00:05:49,307 --> 00:05:51,308 And things between us are just gonna end 102 00:05:51,392 --> 00:05:52,810 before they've even started. 103 00:05:52,894 --> 00:05:55,146 Pedro just needs to take things a little bit slower. 104 00:05:56,981 --> 00:05:57,940 Thank you. 105 00:05:58,024 --> 00:05:59,192 And then... 106 00:06:00,902 --> 00:06:02,195 [Sophie] OK, see you tomorrow. 107 00:06:09,660 --> 00:06:11,788 [Sophie] Bye. You too. 108 00:06:27,387 --> 00:06:28,888 [seagulls squawking] 109 00:06:28,971 --> 00:06:30,723 [birds chirping] 110 00:06:30,807 --> 00:06:32,850 [soft, tense music playing] 111 00:06:35,061 --> 00:06:39,440 As much as I wanna sit here and talk about how I feel bad 112 00:06:39,565 --> 00:06:41,234 for you and stuff, -I don't expect you to feel bad 113 00:06:41,359 --> 00:06:42,360 for me. I never asked you to. 114 00:06:42,443 --> 00:06:43,403 I know, I don't. 115 00:06:43,486 --> 00:06:46,489 [soft, tense foreign music playing] 116 00:06:52,662 --> 00:06:55,665 Like, I know it's a lot for you. 117 00:06:55,748 --> 00:06:56,791 But I caused it. 118 00:06:56,916 --> 00:06:57,917 [Jamal] Yeah, it's your fault. 119 00:07:01,003 --> 00:07:03,005 So I just don't have Jamal as a son. 120 00:07:04,257 --> 00:07:07,176 I have Larry, who I put up for adoption when I was 121 00:07:07,260 --> 00:07:08,803 21 years old. 122 00:07:11,055 --> 00:07:13,641 Last year, when I told Jamal all of this, 123 00:07:13,766 --> 00:07:15,351 and all of this opened, 124 00:07:16,602 --> 00:07:19,313 it hurt worse, because hid it for so long. 125 00:07:22,275 --> 00:07:24,360 [Jamal] It just sucks, dude. 126 00:07:24,444 --> 00:07:26,279 Like, me thinking I was the only child, 127 00:07:26,362 --> 00:07:29,073 but then finding out not only my not only child, I have, 128 00:07:29,157 --> 00:07:30,199 like, multiple siblings. 129 00:07:34,745 --> 00:07:37,457 Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption. 130 00:07:37,540 --> 00:07:40,126 I also had a daughter a year later. 131 00:07:40,251 --> 00:07:43,212 My relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good, 132 00:07:43,296 --> 00:07:45,673 and I had to do what was best for me at the time. 133 00:07:48,801 --> 00:07:51,471 I don't regret what I did, but I'm not happy 134 00:07:51,554 --> 00:07:53,764 with what I did either. 135 00:07:53,848 --> 00:07:54,849 Um... 136 00:07:56,142 --> 00:07:58,227 Because you're bringing these beautiful beings 137 00:07:58,311 --> 00:07:59,645 into this world. 138 00:08:02,607 --> 00:08:04,150 And you feel that motherly love, 139 00:08:04,275 --> 00:08:05,610 and you feel that maternal thing, 140 00:08:05,693 --> 00:08:08,154 and knowing what you're doing and knowing that you're giving 141 00:08:08,237 --> 00:08:09,280 them up for adoption 142 00:08:11,782 --> 00:08:16,078 is probably one of the hardest thing I think any birth mother 143 00:08:16,162 --> 00:08:17,163 has to go through. 144 00:08:18,164 --> 00:08:19,874 I knew about my sister when I was 12, 145 00:08:19,999 --> 00:08:21,792 and then I found out about Larry 146 00:08:21,876 --> 00:08:24,921 'cause he found you a year ago. 147 00:08:25,004 --> 00:08:28,841 It's like, why in that gap you didn't just tell me 148 00:08:28,925 --> 00:08:31,219 about him? -I just didn't know how. 149 00:08:31,344 --> 00:08:34,429 I really just did not know how. 150 00:08:34,514 --> 00:08:35,681 When Jamal was 12, 151 00:08:35,806 --> 00:08:39,352 he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister, 152 00:08:39,477 --> 00:08:41,479 and that's how Jamal found out. 153 00:08:41,562 --> 00:08:44,982 I think I only told Jamal about Gwen because I just thought 154 00:08:45,066 --> 00:08:48,694 to me, like, one would make sense, but to do it twice? 155 00:08:48,819 --> 00:08:50,029 I didn't wanna [bleep] him up. 156 00:08:53,533 --> 00:08:55,326 Did I handle it well? -- No. 157 00:08:55,409 --> 00:08:57,245 Not at all. 158 00:08:57,370 --> 00:08:59,789 [Jamal] I don't know. I really feel for Larry 159 00:08:59,872 --> 00:09:03,042 not telling him about our full blood sister. 160 00:09:04,377 --> 00:09:06,754 I feel like, every time I talk to him it's like I'm, like, 161 00:09:06,879 --> 00:09:08,589 hiding a truth from him, 162 00:09:08,714 --> 00:09:10,758 and I feel like [bleep] about it. 163 00:09:12,009 --> 00:09:13,719 Do you not think I feel like [bleep] too? 164 00:09:16,639 --> 00:09:18,266 I didn't tell Larry about his sister 165 00:09:18,391 --> 00:09:19,600 when he first found me, 166 00:09:19,725 --> 00:09:22,645 because I was trying to get to know him. 167 00:09:22,728 --> 00:09:24,105 He was trying to get to know me, 168 00:09:24,230 --> 00:09:26,274 and I just couldn't figure out a way to tell him. 169 00:09:27,858 --> 00:09:30,236 But now Larry wants to come visit us, 170 00:09:30,361 --> 00:09:34,156 and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent. 171 00:09:35,658 --> 00:09:38,286 We can't build a strong, honest relationship 172 00:09:38,411 --> 00:09:39,745 if I'm keeping secrets from him. 173 00:09:43,749 --> 00:09:46,252 So I'm gonna tell him about his sister, 174 00:09:46,377 --> 00:09:48,421 but I feel like I don't want you to be there when I tell him, 175 00:09:48,546 --> 00:09:50,464 so don't worry about that. I'll take care of it myself. 176 00:09:50,590 --> 00:09:51,799 [Jamal] Why would I not be there? 177 00:09:51,924 --> 00:09:55,094 I feel like I do wanna be there 'cause, like, 178 00:09:55,177 --> 00:09:58,264 and I don't wanna sound like a dick, but I don't know 179 00:09:58,389 --> 00:09:59,432 what you're gonna tell him. 180 00:09:59,557 --> 00:10:00,683 [Kim] I'm gonna tell him the truth. 181 00:10:00,766 --> 00:10:03,185 I don't know. I don't know. 182 00:10:06,272 --> 00:10:08,024 I feel... 183 00:10:08,107 --> 00:10:11,527 really protective of Larry, because I don't want my mom 184 00:10:11,611 --> 00:10:14,030 to lie to him like she lied to me. 185 00:10:15,948 --> 00:10:21,621 I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be. 186 00:10:21,704 --> 00:10:25,625 But it's gonna take a lot of rebuilding of trust, 187 00:10:25,750 --> 00:10:28,836 like her actually being transparent with Larry. 188 00:10:28,961 --> 00:10:32,423 'Cause right now, I just don't trust her anymore. 189 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:40,640 [sighs], anyway, let me know when Larry's coming. 190 00:10:40,723 --> 00:10:41,724 [groans] 191 00:10:48,481 --> 00:10:49,899 -Al right, I'm out. -[Kim] All right, love you. 192 00:10:49,982 --> 00:10:50,983 [Jamal] Bye. 193 00:10:54,111 --> 00:10:56,113 [sobs] 194 00:10:57,406 --> 00:10:59,450 [Kim] Telling Larry about his sister is gonna be 195 00:10:59,533 --> 00:11:00,826 really difficult. 196 00:11:00,910 --> 00:11:03,621 But I know I have to do this because it's killing me. 197 00:11:03,704 --> 00:11:04,789 It is literally killing me. 198 00:11:06,165 --> 00:11:08,668 And it's like -- I feel like I'm, like, drowning sometimes, 199 00:11:08,793 --> 00:11:11,128 and I have to, like, swim just to get to the top. 200 00:11:11,212 --> 00:11:13,214 ♪♪ 201 00:11:15,299 --> 00:11:16,842 You know, the way I handled it was terrible. 202 00:11:16,926 --> 00:11:18,010 It was awful. 203 00:11:18,135 --> 00:11:20,304 Do you think this was easy for me to live with 204 00:11:20,388 --> 00:11:21,722 my whole life? 205 00:11:21,847 --> 00:11:24,809 For 35 years? 34 years? 206 00:11:24,892 --> 00:11:26,227 It was awful. 207 00:11:26,352 --> 00:11:29,522 All of this has affected my self-esteem, my self-worth. 208 00:11:30,856 --> 00:11:34,652 But I feel like now I have to, like, gain Jamal's trust back. 209 00:11:34,735 --> 00:11:37,947 I want to build a bigger relationship with Larry, 210 00:11:38,030 --> 00:11:40,616 and I feel like I wanna find love. 211 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:43,369 I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness 212 00:11:43,452 --> 00:11:44,912 that's going on. 213 00:11:45,037 --> 00:11:47,415 I think having Larry out here and just talking to him 214 00:11:47,540 --> 00:11:49,375 and being real and then, you know, just having 215 00:11:49,458 --> 00:11:51,419 transparent conversations is gonna help a lot. 216 00:11:51,544 --> 00:11:52,545 That's what I'm hopeful for. 217 00:11:56,590 --> 00:11:58,134 [Colt] Morning, family. 218 00:11:58,217 --> 00:12:00,970 -Good morning. -Morning. 219 00:12:01,053 --> 00:12:03,556 Cortney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat 220 00:12:03,681 --> 00:12:06,392 in Mexico. Things got romantic. 221 00:12:06,475 --> 00:12:08,728 So she invited me to live with her in Florida 222 00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:10,020 at her parents' house. 223 00:12:12,523 --> 00:12:13,482 [Jane] There it is. There it is. 224 00:12:13,566 --> 00:12:14,900 Ooh, nice one. 225 00:12:34,670 --> 00:12:36,088 Wait, what did she exactly say? 226 00:12:37,381 --> 00:12:39,967 To go behind my back, that's breaking girl code. 227 00:12:40,092 --> 00:12:42,595 Like, you don't do that. I'm really pissed. 228 00:12:48,434 --> 00:12:50,186 [romantic music playing] 229 00:13:02,531 --> 00:13:05,326 -No, just us. -OK, OK. 230 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:14,043 How come most golfers bring two pairs of pants with them? 231 00:13:14,126 --> 00:13:15,419 I don't know -- why? 232 00:13:15,544 --> 00:13:16,754 In case they get a hole in one. 233 00:13:16,837 --> 00:13:19,173 [laughs] I like that. 234 00:13:19,256 --> 00:13:20,925 So I got to bring three pair with me. 235 00:13:21,050 --> 00:13:22,343 [Jane continues laughing] 236 00:13:22,426 --> 00:13:23,803 Get some more pants, yeah. 237 00:13:23,928 --> 00:13:25,262 -[laughs] -[Fred] Huh. 238 00:13:27,223 --> 00:13:28,766 [rattling] 239 00:13:28,849 --> 00:13:30,100 [Cortney speaking] 240 00:13:30,184 --> 00:13:31,227 -So-so. -[Fred] Huh? 241 00:13:36,148 --> 00:13:38,067 [Jane] Good morning, sunshine. 242 00:13:39,944 --> 00:13:42,071 ♪ Watch out, I'm a clever, clever girl ♪ 243 00:13:42,154 --> 00:13:44,990 ♪ Trip you up in conversation ♪ 244 00:13:45,115 --> 00:13:47,576 ♪ Watch out, Imma rock your world ♪ 245 00:13:47,660 --> 00:13:49,787 ♪ Race to the punch, you'll find I've been waiting ♪ 246 00:13:49,912 --> 00:13:52,748 Well, I'm glad you're up, Cortney, because this morning 247 00:13:52,832 --> 00:13:55,459 I woke up at four o'clock, 'cause I was freezing, 248 00:13:55,543 --> 00:14:01,549 and I looked at the thermostat, and it was set on 67 degrees. 249 00:14:01,632 --> 00:14:04,134 -What does that say right now? -76. 250 00:14:04,260 --> 00:14:05,678 Yeah, and that's where it's gonna stay, 251 00:14:05,803 --> 00:14:07,680 because we pay the bills. 252 00:14:07,805 --> 00:14:09,348 I'm Cortney. I'm 34. 253 00:14:09,473 --> 00:14:12,393 I live with my parents in Orlando, Florida. 254 00:14:12,476 --> 00:14:14,311 So hot last night, I couldn't sleep. 255 00:14:14,436 --> 00:14:17,314 Cortney, when you own your own house, you can freeze 256 00:14:17,439 --> 00:14:18,482 all you want. 257 00:14:18,566 --> 00:14:21,193 I live with my parents because they're better 258 00:14:21,318 --> 00:14:22,736 than any roommate I've had. 259 00:14:22,820 --> 00:14:23,821 Sorry. 260 00:14:23,904 --> 00:14:26,407 Yeah, sorry. That don't pay the bills. 261 00:14:26,490 --> 00:14:28,742 And also, when I've lived with roommates, 262 00:14:28,826 --> 00:14:30,160 it's so much drama. 263 00:14:30,286 --> 00:14:32,454 It's almost like being in the jungle or something. 264 00:14:32,538 --> 00:14:34,081 I think I'm just, like, prancing around 265 00:14:34,164 --> 00:14:37,167 like a little just gazelle, whatever they're called, 266 00:14:37,251 --> 00:14:38,711 and people are just like, "Ah!" 267 00:14:38,836 --> 00:14:42,172 I don't need that in my life. I just want peace, quiet. 268 00:14:42,256 --> 00:14:45,426 Like, live a nice retirement lifestyle. 269 00:14:45,509 --> 00:14:47,386 When we were your age, we were almost 270 00:14:47,511 --> 00:14:49,138 on our second home by then. 271 00:14:49,221 --> 00:14:52,182 With two little kids and mouths to feed. 272 00:14:52,308 --> 00:14:53,976 [giggles nervously] 273 00:14:54,059 --> 00:14:55,394 [Cortney] I've been telling my parents for years 274 00:14:55,519 --> 00:14:57,229 I don't wanna move out until I get married, 275 00:14:57,354 --> 00:15:00,441 but my love life has been 9all drama. 276 00:15:04,194 --> 00:15:05,863 [both laugh] 277 00:15:05,988 --> 00:15:08,616 [Cortney] One of my biggest heartbreaks was Antonio. 278 00:15:08,699 --> 00:15:11,535 We met online. I flew to Spain to meet him. 279 00:15:11,619 --> 00:15:15,331 We got along great. Like, I thought he was the one, 280 00:15:15,414 --> 00:15:17,541 but there were too many trust issues. 281 00:15:17,625 --> 00:15:19,919 Like, I picked up your phone for, like, five seconds, 282 00:15:20,044 --> 00:15:22,004 and you're, like, texting, like, Angel, 283 00:15:22,087 --> 00:15:24,506 Paulina, Maria. 284 00:15:24,590 --> 00:15:26,717 [Antonio] What's the problem? I got friends. 285 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:27,927 OK. 286 00:15:28,052 --> 00:15:31,722 Since Antonio, I've dated a bunch, but it seems like 287 00:15:31,805 --> 00:15:34,391 things always end with me in tears. 288 00:15:34,516 --> 00:15:37,603 It makes me sad how much you've changed, and like how -- 289 00:15:38,896 --> 00:15:40,397 I don't like it. 290 00:15:40,522 --> 00:15:45,027 And I think my parents are starting to worry that I might 291 00:15:45,110 --> 00:15:47,613 be living with them forever. 292 00:15:47,738 --> 00:15:48,906 I love living with you guys. 293 00:15:49,031 --> 00:15:51,575 I think you're the best roommates I've had. 294 00:15:51,700 --> 00:15:54,495 Well, yeah, because Mom does your laundry for you and cooks 295 00:15:54,578 --> 00:15:56,789 for you and gets your groceries and... 296 00:15:56,914 --> 00:15:59,083 -What is this? -Oh, my God! 297 00:15:59,165 --> 00:16:01,669 -Oh. -Sorry, Mom. 298 00:16:03,462 --> 00:16:06,256 -[Fred] What's that all about? -I have no idea. 299 00:16:07,841 --> 00:16:09,885 You put your underwear in my mom's laundry. 300 00:16:09,969 --> 00:16:11,679 -Again. -What? 301 00:16:11,762 --> 00:16:14,014 This is like the third time you've done it. 302 00:16:14,098 --> 00:16:15,099 [Colt exhales] 303 00:16:16,433 --> 00:16:17,685 Good morning. 304 00:16:17,768 --> 00:16:21,605 ♪ No, I'm not delusional ♪ 305 00:16:21,730 --> 00:16:24,441 ♪ I'm just unusual ♪ 306 00:16:24,525 --> 00:16:29,196 ♪ So my God you're so obsessed with me ♪ 307 00:16:29,279 --> 00:16:32,241 I just woke up and my dad's already mad at me for messing 308 00:16:32,324 --> 00:16:33,701 with the thermostat. 309 00:16:33,784 --> 00:16:36,120 -Keeps it a bit too high. -[Cortney laughs] 310 00:16:36,245 --> 00:16:40,082 I'm Colt, I'm 39 years old, and I live in Orlando, Florida, 311 00:16:40,165 --> 00:16:43,168 with my girlfriend, Cortney, and her parents. 312 00:16:43,293 --> 00:16:44,962 I know it's one of his number-one rules. 313 00:16:45,045 --> 00:16:46,380 [Cortney laughs] 314 00:16:46,463 --> 00:16:48,382 Thou shall not change the thermostat. 315 00:16:48,465 --> 00:16:51,510 Yeah, and put your dirty underwear in the laundry. 316 00:16:51,635 --> 00:16:55,055 I didn't put it in the laundry. I put it in the basket. 317 00:16:55,139 --> 00:16:57,641 Cortney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat 318 00:16:57,725 --> 00:16:58,767 in Mexico. 319 00:16:58,851 --> 00:17:01,353 I was there because, unfortunately, I have not been 320 00:17:01,478 --> 00:17:02,479 lucky in love. 321 00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:09,944 Larissa was my first wife, a fiery Brazilian. 322 00:17:10,029 --> 00:17:12,071 [Larissa speaking 323 00:17:13,031 --> 00:17:15,284 [Colt] But unfortunately, things got toxic really fast. 324 00:17:18,954 --> 00:17:21,165 I met Jess after my divorce from Larissa. 325 00:17:23,333 --> 00:17:25,335 What? -- Oh! 326 00:17:25,461 --> 00:17:26,837 -What the [bleep]? -You lied! 327 00:17:26,962 --> 00:17:28,505 [Colt] What are you talking about? 328 00:17:31,091 --> 00:17:34,595 I cheated on Jess with a woman named Vanessa, 329 00:17:34,678 --> 00:17:36,597 who would later become my second wife. 330 00:17:37,890 --> 00:17:39,433 But after being married for three years, 331 00:17:39,516 --> 00:17:41,560 she told me that she didn't wanna be with me anymore 332 00:17:41,685 --> 00:17:45,189 and she wasn't in love with me. And it broke my [bleep] heart. 333 00:17:48,734 --> 00:17:51,403 I always go into relationships with the best of intentions. 334 00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:55,032 I want things to work out. But somehow or another, 335 00:17:55,115 --> 00:17:56,533 I mess things up. 336 00:17:56,617 --> 00:17:58,327 I hope things can be different with Cortney. 337 00:17:59,703 --> 00:18:02,748 -Morning, family. -[Fred] Good morning. 338 00:18:02,873 --> 00:18:05,125 [Colt] Sorry about the laundry, guys. 339 00:18:05,209 --> 00:18:07,586 I really appreciate everything, than you guys have been doing. 340 00:18:07,711 --> 00:18:08,921 How is your leg? 341 00:18:09,046 --> 00:18:11,965 You know, I still feel a lot of pain most days. 342 00:18:12,049 --> 00:18:14,843 [Cortney] But I think everything happens for a reason. 343 00:18:14,927 --> 00:18:17,387 Like, we're together because of it. 344 00:18:17,513 --> 00:18:19,681 -[Tiffany]Oh, my God. -Are you OK, bro? 345 00:18:24,061 --> 00:18:26,021 While I was at the singles retreat in Mexico, 346 00:18:26,105 --> 00:18:29,525 I was leaving Cortney's room, and I slipped and fell, 347 00:18:29,608 --> 00:18:31,068 and I broke my leg. 348 00:18:31,193 --> 00:18:33,779 I have five fractures in my knee. 349 00:18:33,904 --> 00:18:36,865 [Cortney] Colt was in the hospital for about three weeks. 350 00:18:36,949 --> 00:18:40,410 I was there with him almost 24/7, 351 00:18:40,536 --> 00:18:43,288 so that's when we really started bonding. 352 00:18:43,413 --> 00:18:45,082 [Colt speaking] 353 00:18:45,165 --> 00:18:46,750 Aw. 354 00:18:46,834 --> 00:18:48,752 [Colt] Things got romantic. 355 00:18:48,836 --> 00:18:51,088 So when I was discharged, she invited me to live 356 00:18:51,171 --> 00:18:53,006 with her in Florida. 357 00:18:53,090 --> 00:18:54,925 She knew I didn't have anywhere to go. 358 00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:58,095 I had a long road to recovery, and she wanted to help me 359 00:18:58,220 --> 00:18:59,721 as much as possible. 360 00:18:59,805 --> 00:19:01,557 -I'm glad you're here. -I'm glad I'm here too. 361 00:19:02,975 --> 00:19:04,768 I know you're in a lot of pain, 362 00:19:04,852 --> 00:19:06,770 but why don't you guys come golf with us? 363 00:19:06,895 --> 00:19:09,731 You can ride in the golf cart, get some fresh air. 364 00:19:09,815 --> 00:19:11,733 -Do you wanna go? -Yeah, that'd be great. 365 00:19:11,817 --> 00:19:13,735 OK, if you're gonna go, let's go. 366 00:19:13,819 --> 00:19:15,028 [Cortney] Let's go get ready. I'll help you. 367 00:19:15,112 --> 00:19:16,029 OK. 368 00:19:16,113 --> 00:19:18,115 [fun piano playing] 369 00:19:22,286 --> 00:19:23,954 [Cortney speaking] 370 00:19:24,079 --> 00:19:25,747 I guess. 371 00:19:25,831 --> 00:19:27,958 Oh, look at that. 372 00:19:28,041 --> 00:19:31,753 [Cortney] I brought him to Florida to help him go through 373 00:19:31,837 --> 00:19:33,922 physical therapy, take care of him, 374 00:19:34,006 --> 00:19:36,133 and I really hoped he'd be 375 00:19:36,258 --> 00:19:39,553 further along in his recovery by now, but basically, 376 00:19:39,636 --> 00:19:41,597 I'm his full time nurse. 377 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,265 Do you want more of the green or the tan? 378 00:19:43,348 --> 00:19:45,392 -[Colt] I'll take the tan. -OK. 379 00:19:45,475 --> 00:19:49,271 He could barely even wipe his ass by himself. 380 00:19:49,354 --> 00:19:51,106 -They're tight. -They're tight. 381 00:19:52,274 --> 00:19:55,152 I feel something should probably be left unseen, 382 00:19:55,235 --> 00:19:58,780 especially so early on in a relationship. 383 00:20:00,991 --> 00:20:02,826 Ah! Push. 384 00:20:02,951 --> 00:20:04,536 Oh my God, you're gonna knock me over. 385 00:20:06,330 --> 00:20:09,499 [fun music playing] 386 00:20:09,625 --> 00:20:12,628 -Off-road driving. -[laughs] 387 00:20:12,711 --> 00:20:14,463 Here. 388 00:20:14,546 --> 00:20:16,048 OK. 389 00:20:16,173 --> 00:20:17,925 -Straight ahead, I believe. -[Colt] You got this. 390 00:20:18,008 --> 00:20:19,676 I have confidence in you. 391 00:20:20,844 --> 00:20:22,596 [Jane] Your turn, Cortney. 392 00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:24,723 Good luck. 393 00:20:24,848 --> 00:20:25,807 [Cortney] Oh, [bleep]. 394 00:20:25,891 --> 00:20:28,810 -You got this. -[Fred] You went up too steep. 395 00:20:28,894 --> 00:20:30,187 -[Jane] There you go. -[Colt] Yay, Cortney. 396 00:20:30,270 --> 00:20:32,439 -[bleep] -[Fred] I see it. 397 00:20:35,984 --> 00:20:37,027 [Jane] There it is. There it is. 398 00:20:37,152 --> 00:20:38,820 Ooh, nice one. 399 00:20:38,904 --> 00:20:39,905 They're so cute. 400 00:20:42,199 --> 00:20:43,158 Oh, my God. 401 00:20:43,242 --> 00:20:44,993 Like, ew, why are you thinking that? 402 00:20:49,706 --> 00:20:50,707 Yeah. 403 00:20:52,417 --> 00:20:55,545 We haven't had sex, full on sex yet. 404 00:20:55,629 --> 00:20:57,798 Right now, the plumbing doesn't work so well. 405 00:20:59,383 --> 00:21:00,884 Oh, my God. 406 00:21:01,009 --> 00:21:02,010 We'll get there. 407 00:21:04,471 --> 00:21:05,889 But it's very majestic when it's fully, 408 00:21:06,014 --> 00:21:08,892 you know, realized. -[whispers] Oh, my God. 409 00:21:09,017 --> 00:21:12,271 [Cortney] It makes me feel, like, insecure. 410 00:21:12,396 --> 00:21:14,731 -Like, am I your type? -You're definitely my type. 411 00:21:14,856 --> 00:21:18,235 I mean, you know, we've had some success, 412 00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:21,905 but it's just when we transition into penetration, 413 00:21:23,115 --> 00:21:25,450 then I kinda... 414 00:21:25,575 --> 00:21:27,744 [blows through mouth] go down. -But why? 415 00:21:27,869 --> 00:21:29,162 I don't know. It hurts. 416 00:21:29,246 --> 00:21:31,498 I'm moving my body around. There's a lot of expectation. 417 00:21:31,581 --> 00:21:33,083 I'm still on medicine. 418 00:21:35,168 --> 00:21:38,588 Colt is, like, known for being, like, a horny bunny. 419 00:21:38,672 --> 00:21:41,133 Like, he wants to do it hourly. He wants it all the time. 420 00:21:41,258 --> 00:21:43,969 So the fact he can't get it up for me, 421 00:21:44,094 --> 00:21:45,429 it's making me wonder, 422 00:21:45,512 --> 00:21:48,724 like, is Colt here because he's into me, 423 00:21:48,807 --> 00:21:50,726 or is he here out of convenience? 424 00:21:50,809 --> 00:21:53,103 Because he basically has everything provided for him. 425 00:21:53,228 --> 00:21:55,605 He's not paying rents. He's not paying bills. 426 00:21:55,689 --> 00:21:57,482 He has it pretty good. 427 00:21:57,607 --> 00:22:00,152 We're in this weird situation, 'cause I feel 428 00:22:00,277 --> 00:22:03,113 like I've known you forever. We get along. 429 00:22:03,196 --> 00:22:04,239 We don't argue. 430 00:22:04,323 --> 00:22:06,908 But then it's like, OK, I don't really know you. 431 00:22:06,992 --> 00:22:09,036 I've only known you like a month or two. 432 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,120 Yeah. 433 00:22:10,203 --> 00:22:12,122 Let's be honest, like, your exes are constantly 434 00:22:12,247 --> 00:22:13,874 online, like, "Oh, you're a liar, 435 00:22:13,957 --> 00:22:14,916 you're a cheater." 436 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,752 Like, they're not saying anything good about you. 437 00:22:16,835 --> 00:22:19,046 Why were they with me then? 438 00:22:19,129 --> 00:22:21,465 [Cortney] I mean, I'm sure they liked you in the beginning 439 00:22:21,590 --> 00:22:22,966 until you cheated on them. 440 00:22:24,301 --> 00:22:27,471 I mean, sure, I have a past, but it doesn't mean 441 00:22:27,554 --> 00:22:28,680 I'm always gonna do that. 442 00:22:28,805 --> 00:22:31,558 It doesn't mean I can't be a good guy for you. 443 00:22:31,641 --> 00:22:33,435 Trust is everything in a relationship, 444 00:22:33,518 --> 00:22:38,106 but I do struggle to trust men in general because a lot of them 445 00:22:38,190 --> 00:22:39,566 do lie and cheat. 446 00:22:39,649 --> 00:22:42,069 I want to believe that Colt has changed. 447 00:22:42,152 --> 00:22:44,654 Maybe he's matured. Maybe he's grown up. 448 00:22:44,738 --> 00:22:47,199 Look, I know that we have a lot to figure out, 449 00:22:47,324 --> 00:22:48,825 but I wanna do it with you. 450 00:22:48,950 --> 00:22:50,869 I wanna figure out all these problems 451 00:22:50,994 --> 00:22:53,288 with you every day as we grow old together. 452 00:22:53,372 --> 00:22:54,915 Aw. 453 00:22:54,998 --> 00:22:57,751 I mean, I've always wanted to get married, have kids, 454 00:22:57,834 --> 00:22:58,835 have a family. 455 00:22:58,919 --> 00:23:01,171 Like, I feel me and Colt are aligned. 456 00:23:01,296 --> 00:23:02,631 We have a lot of the same goals. 457 00:23:03,673 --> 00:23:06,343 So I'm hoping it works. It has to work. 458 00:23:07,636 --> 00:23:08,762 We'll get there. 459 00:23:11,932 --> 00:23:13,892 I didn't like the way it ended for us. 460 00:23:14,017 --> 00:23:17,396 I understand that you didn't create the havoc, 461 00:23:17,521 --> 00:23:20,607 but there's a lot I felt I didn't know. 462 00:23:20,690 --> 00:23:22,275 I haven't seen Gino in almost a year. 463 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,195 I wanna believe that he truly made a mistake, 464 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,447 but I don't know if I can trust Gino. 465 00:23:27,531 --> 00:23:29,866 I don't know if I can trust anything he says. 466 00:23:34,830 --> 00:23:37,833 [cheerful music plays] 467 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,133 It's a little nerve-wracking, 'cause I haven't seen Natalie 468 00:23:46,216 --> 00:23:48,343 in a long time. This is my chance. 469 00:23:49,511 --> 00:23:52,681 ♪ One, two, three, turn around. Don't you watch me now ♪ 470 00:23:52,764 --> 00:23:54,683 ♪ Just turn around. Touch your knees ♪ 471 00:23:54,766 --> 00:23:56,977 ♪ Don't look. Just turn around ♪ 472 00:23:57,060 --> 00:24:00,188 ♪ Do it now. Don't make me count to four ♪ 473 00:24:00,272 --> 00:24:02,899 -Hey. -Gino. 474 00:24:03,024 --> 00:24:05,110 -How are you? -I'm good. 475 00:24:05,193 --> 00:24:07,779 -How are you? -Doing good. 476 00:24:07,863 --> 00:24:09,698 Long time no see. How are you? 477 00:24:09,781 --> 00:24:11,199 -[Gino] How are you? -I'm good. 478 00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:12,909 I'm good. You look thinner. 479 00:24:13,034 --> 00:24:15,203 -[kisses smack] -You look thinner. 480 00:24:15,287 --> 00:24:19,040 After all the drama that happened, I did not expect 481 00:24:19,124 --> 00:24:20,959 Natalie to give me a second chance. 482 00:24:21,042 --> 00:24:22,461 I'm on your home turf this time. 483 00:24:22,544 --> 00:24:25,380 I know. This time you're in D.C. 484 00:24:25,505 --> 00:24:29,968 I am absolutely super excited to have this opportunity 485 00:24:30,051 --> 00:24:34,222 to reconnect with her and make things right. 486 00:24:34,306 --> 00:24:36,850 -Oh my gosh, it's so cool here. -Yeah. 487 00:24:36,933 --> 00:24:41,354 You have some beautiful trees and hills and parks. 488 00:24:41,438 --> 00:24:43,273 Um... 489 00:24:43,398 --> 00:24:47,736 You seem a little nervous. Are you OK? 490 00:24:47,819 --> 00:24:49,529 Well, I am nervous. 491 00:24:49,613 --> 00:24:52,324 I do have a little nerves coming here, because last time 492 00:24:52,407 --> 00:24:54,868 we were together, you know, it didn't end very well. 493 00:24:54,951 --> 00:24:56,077 No, it didn't. 494 00:24:56,203 --> 00:25:00,165 You stormed out of the hotel and you were upset with me. 495 00:25:00,248 --> 00:25:03,919 Well, yeah. I mean, that was a disaster. 496 00:25:05,754 --> 00:25:08,715 So I haven't seen Gino in almost a year in person. 497 00:25:08,798 --> 00:25:11,259 And I really don't know how I feel about it right now, 498 00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:15,055 because Gino has a lot of explaining to do. 499 00:25:15,138 --> 00:25:16,431 When I met Gino, 500 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:18,225 one of my first questions that I asked 501 00:25:18,308 --> 00:25:20,352 him is, "Are you single?" 502 00:25:20,435 --> 00:25:23,897 He said he was separated, about to get a divorce. 503 00:25:23,980 --> 00:25:26,900 But then he invited me to come to Michigan 504 00:25:26,983 --> 00:25:28,777 and meet his family. 505 00:25:28,860 --> 00:25:33,031 And I was kind of surprised by some of his cousin 506 00:25:33,114 --> 00:25:35,325 Michelle's comments. 507 00:25:35,450 --> 00:25:37,452 [Michelle] What's the deal with you and Jasmine? 508 00:25:37,536 --> 00:25:40,664 I mean, you guys just actually went out 509 00:25:40,789 --> 00:25:41,790 and had dinner. 510 00:25:43,625 --> 00:25:46,211 Was there hope for progress when you went? 511 00:25:47,462 --> 00:25:50,966 I mean, slight, slight. 512 00:25:51,091 --> 00:25:53,635 You know, he basically lied to me. 513 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,638 So I just wanted to get out of there. 514 00:25:56,721 --> 00:26:00,183 And before I could, Jasmine walked in the door 515 00:26:01,184 --> 00:26:02,435 and attacked me. 516 00:26:08,066 --> 00:26:09,484 -Don't touch me. -Don't you [bleep]. 517 00:26:09,568 --> 00:26:11,027 -Relax, relax. -No, no. 518 00:26:11,152 --> 00:26:13,154 Don't you [bleep] -- Listen. 519 00:26:14,281 --> 00:26:15,407 Get off me. 520 00:26:18,201 --> 00:26:21,121 [Gino] I totally understand why you're upset after all that 521 00:26:21,204 --> 00:26:22,539 chaos at the party. 522 00:26:22,664 --> 00:26:26,585 I understand that you didn't create the havoc, 523 00:26:26,668 --> 00:26:30,839 but you kind of did create the havoc because I... 524 00:26:30,922 --> 00:26:33,008 There's a lot I felt I didn't know. 525 00:26:35,468 --> 00:26:37,804 I shouldn't have been there in the first place. 526 00:26:37,887 --> 00:26:39,014 You know, that's how I felt. 527 00:26:39,097 --> 00:26:42,601 OK, that makes a little more sense because I didn't like 528 00:26:42,684 --> 00:26:45,061 the way it ended for us. -Neither did I. 529 00:26:45,186 --> 00:26:49,524 And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess. 530 00:26:49,608 --> 00:26:50,692 -Well, that's good. -Now I am. 531 00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:52,944 Now I am. It's taken some time. 532 00:26:53,028 --> 00:26:55,488 -It doesn't happen right away. -I know that. 533 00:26:55,572 --> 00:26:57,657 Back then, I wasn't fully recovered... 534 00:26:57,741 --> 00:27:00,910 No, and I could tell. But anyway, it's all over. 535 00:27:01,036 --> 00:27:02,162 It's all over. It's done with. 536 00:27:02,245 --> 00:27:06,750 Like, you're here now. Like, what do you want? 537 00:27:06,875 --> 00:27:08,710 [both laugh] 538 00:27:08,835 --> 00:27:13,131 Well, obviously, I want to, like, just hang out like we did 539 00:27:13,214 --> 00:27:15,925 in Vegas. We had fun together, 540 00:27:16,051 --> 00:27:19,220 and it was, you know, a good vibe, you know? 541 00:27:19,304 --> 00:27:21,556 I mean, I like that idea, you know? 542 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,933 I like putting the past in the past and, you know, 543 00:27:24,059 --> 00:27:25,435 starting new. -Yeah. 544 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,605 ♪♪ 545 00:27:28,730 --> 00:27:30,273 You know, as much as I like Gino, 546 00:27:30,398 --> 00:27:32,734 I'm approaching this weekend with a lot of caution. 547 00:27:32,817 --> 00:27:35,487 I'm not gonna deny that he's hurt me, but, you know, 548 00:27:35,570 --> 00:27:38,907 I understand what it's like to go through a destructive 549 00:27:38,990 --> 00:27:40,742 marriage and things happen. 550 00:27:40,825 --> 00:27:44,079 I wanna believe that he truly made a mistake. 551 00:27:44,162 --> 00:27:46,748 The weather's pretty [bleep], but we can go back to my place. 552 00:27:48,416 --> 00:27:50,460 Ooh, you're inviting me to your place. 553 00:27:50,585 --> 00:27:53,338 Oh, my gosh. I'm just kidding. 554 00:27:53,421 --> 00:27:55,423 [Natalie] But I don't know if I can trust Gino. 555 00:27:55,548 --> 00:27:57,759 I don't know if I can trust anything he says. 556 00:27:57,884 --> 00:27:59,260 Let's go. Let's do it. 557 00:27:59,344 --> 00:28:00,345 [Natalie] I got an umbrella too. 558 00:28:02,180 --> 00:28:04,391 If Gino wants something romantic with me, 559 00:28:04,474 --> 00:28:05,725 more than friends, 560 00:28:05,809 --> 00:28:07,894 he's gotta prove that he's gonna be honest. 561 00:28:07,977 --> 00:28:10,939 He's gotta prove that he really wants this. 562 00:28:11,064 --> 00:28:12,148 So, we'll see if he can. 563 00:28:13,483 --> 00:28:14,484 [Gino] Rock and roll. 564 00:28:20,532 --> 00:28:21,574 I've been clear to you. 565 00:28:27,330 --> 00:28:30,500 I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever. 566 00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:32,377 [Pedro speaking] 567 00:28:44,431 --> 00:28:46,599 ♪ I'm craving something wild ♪ 568 00:28:48,977 --> 00:28:51,438 ♪ Look at my evil smile ♪ 569 00:28:52,522 --> 00:28:54,190 [Sophie] OK, I have this yellow dress. 570 00:28:56,651 --> 00:28:57,652 [Sophie] It's pretty cute. 571 00:28:58,737 --> 00:29:00,113 [Sophie] Yeah, it needs to be beachy. 572 00:29:03,116 --> 00:29:04,367 Because I'm gonna wear this one. 573 00:29:04,451 --> 00:29:05,869 [Julia] Seriously? 574 00:29:07,746 --> 00:29:08,788 [both laugh] 575 00:29:08,872 --> 00:29:10,874 [singing in Spanish] 576 00:29:16,546 --> 00:29:18,047 -[Sophie] I'm gonna get ready. -[Julia] OK. 577 00:29:18,131 --> 00:29:19,382 [Julia speaking] 578 00:29:19,466 --> 00:29:20,467 [Sophie] Thank you. 579 00:29:20,550 --> 00:29:22,135 I'll let you know how it goes. 580 00:29:22,218 --> 00:29:24,262 Last night with Pedro and his friends was just 581 00:29:24,345 --> 00:29:25,847 very awkward for me. 582 00:29:27,474 --> 00:29:30,101 Pedro was just coming on a lot stronger than he has 583 00:29:30,185 --> 00:29:31,394 in the past. 584 00:29:31,478 --> 00:29:33,563 It's not even that I don't appreciate the effort 585 00:29:33,646 --> 00:29:35,315 that he's making. It's not that. 586 00:29:35,398 --> 00:29:37,734 It's more so, I can just feel he's... 587 00:29:38,735 --> 00:29:40,069 putting too much pressure on it. 588 00:29:42,697 --> 00:29:43,907 [Sophie] Hello -- Thank you. How are you? 589 00:29:43,990 --> 00:29:44,991 Good. How are you? 590 00:29:45,074 --> 00:29:46,409 [Sophie] I'm good. 591 00:29:46,493 --> 00:29:47,494 I do like Pedro. 592 00:29:47,577 --> 00:29:48,912 Like, I want to get to know him. 593 00:29:48,995 --> 00:29:50,830 I wanna go on dates and see where things go. 594 00:29:52,707 --> 00:29:54,125 -Thank you. -[Pedro] You're welcome. 595 00:29:54,209 --> 00:29:56,085 [Sophie] But I just finished with my marriage, 596 00:29:56,169 --> 00:29:57,504 and I'm healing from it. 597 00:29:57,587 --> 00:29:58,671 -You feel good? -Yeah. 598 00:30:02,091 --> 00:30:04,761 And let us get to know each other naturally, and... 599 00:30:04,844 --> 00:30:06,930 like people usually do when they just meet. 600 00:30:13,561 --> 00:30:14,854 I feel good. I'm kinda tired. 601 00:30:17,106 --> 00:30:18,066 Thank you. 602 00:30:18,191 --> 00:30:19,651 Do you prefer it straight or curly? 603 00:30:23,780 --> 00:30:25,198 -[Sophie] Ooh. -Oh, wow. 604 00:30:28,493 --> 00:30:30,036 [Sophie] Did you have a good time yesterday? 605 00:30:30,119 --> 00:30:31,204 Yeah, 606 00:30:33,248 --> 00:30:34,707 It was really awkward. 607 00:31:01,150 --> 00:31:02,402 Wait, what did she exactly say? 608 00:31:18,751 --> 00:31:20,670 [Sophie] I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic. 609 00:31:20,753 --> 00:31:23,256 I thought we was friends, and then to go behind my back, 610 00:31:23,339 --> 00:31:26,384 she knows it's [bleep] up. She just met Pedro. 611 00:31:26,467 --> 00:31:29,345 That's not even her friend. That's breaking girl code. 612 00:31:29,429 --> 00:31:32,599 Like, you don't do that. I'm really pissed. 613 00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:37,979 I was in a relationship from when I was 20 years old, 614 00:31:38,104 --> 00:31:39,731 pretty much my whole adult life. 615 00:31:39,814 --> 00:31:41,149 I wanna figure out what I want. 616 00:31:41,274 --> 00:31:42,400 I don't know what it is. 617 00:31:43,776 --> 00:31:44,777 Yeah. 618 00:31:49,532 --> 00:31:51,784 I don't want you to, like, wait around 619 00:31:51,910 --> 00:31:53,244 for when I'm ready. 620 00:31:53,328 --> 00:31:55,163 I just want us to, like, get to know each other, like -- 621 00:31:59,042 --> 00:32:02,170 If someone comes along and she's, like, ready right 622 00:32:02,295 --> 00:32:05,173 now to settle down and have kids and everything you want, 623 00:32:05,298 --> 00:32:07,759 I'm not gonna say to you, "No, be loyal to me 624 00:32:07,842 --> 00:32:09,469 when I'm not ready." That's extremely selfish. 625 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:18,311 I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever. 626 00:32:18,394 --> 00:32:21,064 [tense music playing] 627 00:32:21,147 --> 00:32:22,857 [Pedro speaking] 628 00:32:45,254 --> 00:32:46,297 I've been clear to you. 629 00:32:51,052 --> 00:32:52,178 Yes, I did. 630 00:32:57,892 --> 00:33:00,019 I have never once told you I have healed and I'm ready 631 00:33:00,144 --> 00:33:01,521 for a relationship. I have never told you that. 632 00:33:01,604 --> 00:33:03,106 -Sophie. -No, never told you that. 633 00:33:03,189 --> 00:33:04,190 Never told you that. 634 00:33:06,317 --> 00:33:08,319 I'm really not understanding why he's acting like this is, 635 00:33:08,403 --> 00:33:09,862 like, brand new information. 636 00:33:09,988 --> 00:33:11,990 I know I've said this because I've made a point, 637 00:33:12,073 --> 00:33:13,324 because it's so important to me. 638 00:33:13,408 --> 00:33:14,617 And I've told him that. 639 00:33:14,701 --> 00:33:16,911 So for him to then say, "Oh, you've never told me that," 640 00:33:17,036 --> 00:33:19,956 it's like, it's frustrating. 641 00:33:20,039 --> 00:33:22,375 Don't act like I've said something I haven't said. 642 00:33:27,255 --> 00:33:29,716 You are lying to me right now. Yes, you are. 643 00:33:33,177 --> 00:33:36,305 And even last night, I wasn't acting like "That's my man." 644 00:33:36,389 --> 00:33:39,100 I wasn't being all over him and touching him. 645 00:33:39,225 --> 00:33:42,311 I'm literally making sure I'm not giving him mixed signals 646 00:33:42,395 --> 00:33:43,521 at all. 647 00:33:48,234 --> 00:33:49,736 I don't like when people say I'm a liar. 648 00:33:51,612 --> 00:33:53,114 [Sophie speaking] 649 00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:59,037 [soft, tense music playing] 650 00:34:07,795 --> 00:34:08,920 You ready? 651 00:34:23,101 --> 00:34:24,103 Miss? 652 00:34:30,150 --> 00:34:34,155 He's having issues right now. He's not able to get, like, up. 653 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:35,281 Oh, [bleep]. 654 00:34:35,406 --> 00:34:36,824 [Cortney] It's like blowing up a balloon. 655 00:34:36,949 --> 00:34:38,409 It's like [gasps]. 656 00:34:38,493 --> 00:34:39,911 It's getting there, getting there, and then it's like, 657 00:34:39,994 --> 00:34:40,995 [imitates balloon deflating] 658 00:34:43,331 --> 00:34:47,502 There is a girl that I was talking to before I even went 659 00:34:47,627 --> 00:34:49,545 to the resort. -Where does she live? 660 00:34:49,629 --> 00:34:51,589 -[Colt] She's in Brazil. -Oh. 661 00:34:51,672 --> 00:34:53,466 -Yeah. -Here we go again. 662 00:34:53,549 --> 00:34:56,010 [Colt] Diana and I met a year ago online. 663 00:35:00,473 --> 00:35:01,474 [Mark] Do the right thing. 664 00:35:06,604 --> 00:35:08,022 ♪ Ooh. Ah, ah, ooh ♪ 665 00:35:09,232 --> 00:35:10,233 ♪ Ooh ♪ 666 00:35:13,111 --> 00:35:15,613 ♪ Summer night. Sipping off the vibe ♪ 667 00:35:15,696 --> 00:35:18,116 [Sandy] Let's get wet and juicy. 668 00:35:18,199 --> 00:35:19,784 [Marie] Ew, that doesn't sound right. 669 00:35:19,909 --> 00:35:21,619 [Lexy] I think it sounds delicious. 670 00:35:21,744 --> 00:35:22,745 [Cortney laughs] 671 00:35:24,872 --> 00:35:26,958 ♪ We got the game. Cool champagne ♪ 672 00:35:27,083 --> 00:35:29,085 ♪ Light it up tonight ♪ 673 00:35:29,168 --> 00:35:32,004 [Lexy] How was your trip? I heard you got a boy now. 674 00:35:32,130 --> 00:35:34,173 -[Cortney] Yeah. -You don't miss being single? 675 00:35:35,174 --> 00:35:37,135 -[sighs] -[Sandy speaking] 676 00:35:40,847 --> 00:35:44,475 As much as I love Colt, it's a little like dragging 677 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,145 down my vibe being a full-time caregiver, 678 00:35:47,228 --> 00:35:48,688 I feel like a caged animal. 679 00:35:48,813 --> 00:35:51,482 Like, I'm a cat stuck inside the house 680 00:35:51,607 --> 00:35:54,026 when really I wanna be out roaming the streets. 681 00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:57,780 So I'm so excited for girls' day, for cocktails, 682 00:35:57,864 --> 00:36:01,325 to have a good time, turn up -- whoo. 683 00:36:01,450 --> 00:36:03,202 [Lexy] So what do you like about him? 684 00:36:03,327 --> 00:36:05,496 I feel like we connect on a deep level. 685 00:36:05,621 --> 00:36:06,998 Like, I feel comfortable with him. 686 00:36:07,123 --> 00:36:09,167 I could be myself with him. 687 00:36:09,250 --> 00:36:11,294 But he's having issues right now. 688 00:36:12,587 --> 00:36:16,007 Like, he's not able to get, like, up. 689 00:36:16,132 --> 00:36:19,302 -He's not able to get what? -Uh, like... 690 00:36:19,385 --> 00:36:21,179 -His thing doesn't work? -Yeah. 691 00:36:21,262 --> 00:36:22,305 [Lexy] Oh. 692 00:36:22,388 --> 00:36:23,389 Oh, [bleep]. 693 00:36:25,516 --> 00:36:28,394 We'll cuddle or kiss, or, like, he's done stuff 694 00:36:28,519 --> 00:36:30,313 to me, but I haven't done stuff to him. 695 00:36:33,900 --> 00:36:35,318 Like, I don't know what you want me to do. 696 00:36:35,401 --> 00:36:36,402 That's never fun. 697 00:36:37,445 --> 00:36:39,280 It's like blowing up a balloon. 698 00:36:39,363 --> 00:36:40,531 It's like [gasps]. 699 00:36:40,656 --> 00:36:41,657 It's getting there, getting there, 700 00:36:41,741 --> 00:36:43,159 and then it's like [imitates balloon deflating]. 701 00:36:47,830 --> 00:36:53,461 ♪ I've got you to thank for so much ♪ 702 00:36:53,544 --> 00:36:54,879 ♪ But if I ever show it ♪ 703 00:36:55,004 --> 00:36:57,673 [phone rings] 704 00:36:57,757 --> 00:37:00,009 -How you doing, Mark? -What's going on, dude? 705 00:37:00,092 --> 00:37:03,554 Been a while, man. Well, a lot has happened. 706 00:37:03,638 --> 00:37:06,724 I broke my leg in Mexico. 707 00:37:06,849 --> 00:37:08,267 Dude, we gotta get you, like, a bubble wrap 708 00:37:08,392 --> 00:37:10,394 outfit or something. -[Colt laughs] 709 00:37:10,478 --> 00:37:13,773 [Colt] Mark has been a really good friend for the past few years. 710 00:37:13,898 --> 00:37:16,984 He's been there with me through several relationships, 711 00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:19,820 and he's definitely aware of my dating mishaps, 712 00:37:19,904 --> 00:37:22,281 and he's not afraid to call out my bull [bleep]. 713 00:37:22,406 --> 00:37:25,451 And right now, I really need an honest perspective. 714 00:37:25,576 --> 00:37:27,787 So when I was at the retreat, I met somebody. 715 00:37:27,912 --> 00:37:30,539 -All right, let's hear it. -[Colt] Her name's Cortney. 716 00:37:30,623 --> 00:37:32,792 We connected on a lot of different levels, 717 00:37:32,917 --> 00:37:34,919 and we kind of got this, like, relationship going 718 00:37:35,002 --> 00:37:36,212 while we were there. 719 00:37:36,295 --> 00:37:38,881 And then she asked me if I wanted to come back 720 00:37:38,965 --> 00:37:40,675 with her and live with her in Florida. 721 00:37:40,758 --> 00:37:43,052 Wait, stop it. You're in her house right now? 722 00:37:43,135 --> 00:37:44,971 -I'm in her house right now. -You guys live together? 723 00:37:45,096 --> 00:37:47,473 We live together. Been here for over a month now. 724 00:37:47,598 --> 00:37:49,725 Holy crap! Congratulations, dude! 725 00:37:49,809 --> 00:37:51,185 -Wow! -[Colt] Yeah. 726 00:37:51,269 --> 00:37:52,770 But Cortney lives with her parents, 727 00:37:52,895 --> 00:37:54,855 so I live with Cortney and her mom and dad. 728 00:37:57,233 --> 00:37:58,192 Here we go. 729 00:37:58,276 --> 00:38:00,861 Here we go. All right, how's that going? 730 00:38:00,945 --> 00:38:02,613 -What's that look like? -[Colt] Uh. 731 00:38:02,738 --> 00:38:04,365 It's been pretty good. They're very patient. 732 00:38:04,448 --> 00:38:08,286 They're very sweet people. But the energy is weird. 733 00:38:08,369 --> 00:38:11,455 Cortney is very shy, and our intimacy isn't exactly 734 00:38:11,539 --> 00:38:13,582 where I want it to be. 735 00:38:13,666 --> 00:38:17,128 My past relationships have been very spicy. 736 00:38:18,045 --> 00:38:20,131 I've dated a few Brazilian women, 737 00:38:20,214 --> 00:38:21,424 and they liked to [bleep]. 738 00:38:24,510 --> 00:38:25,845 Uh. 739 00:38:32,810 --> 00:38:34,478 On the other hand, Cortney's like watching 740 00:38:34,562 --> 00:38:35,938 "Little House on the Prairie." 741 00:38:36,022 --> 00:38:37,773 It's quality, but after a while, 742 00:38:37,857 --> 00:38:39,191 it gets a little boring. 743 00:38:40,443 --> 00:38:42,611 I don't know. You have a girl that just gets 744 00:38:42,695 --> 00:38:44,697 so energetic they just [bleep] on your [bleep] 745 00:38:44,822 --> 00:38:46,907 and [bleep] that like her life depends upon it. 746 00:38:48,075 --> 00:38:49,827 That type of energy, you know? 747 00:38:49,952 --> 00:38:51,120 And then you go to somebody that's just like, 748 00:38:51,203 --> 00:38:53,706 "Yeah, do whatever you want." You know what I mean? 749 00:38:53,831 --> 00:38:57,251 It's just not the same. It's hard to go back to that. 750 00:38:57,335 --> 00:39:00,546 [laughing] Oh...OK. 751 00:39:02,548 --> 00:39:04,508 I don't know if he's not attracted to me 752 00:39:04,592 --> 00:39:07,011 or if it's just, like, he's not getting enough blood flow 753 00:39:07,136 --> 00:39:09,096 'cause of his broken leg. 754 00:39:09,180 --> 00:39:10,514 So I'm trying to be supportive. 755 00:39:10,639 --> 00:39:13,184 I'm trying to be his rock, I feel like, but then, yeah, 756 00:39:13,309 --> 00:39:14,935 I do have, like, doubts or fears. 757 00:39:15,019 --> 00:39:16,687 Like, what's he doing behind my back? 758 00:39:16,771 --> 00:39:17,730 [Sandy] What do you mean? 759 00:39:17,855 --> 00:39:18,856 [Cortney] I was helping him upload 760 00:39:18,981 --> 00:39:20,191 something on social media, 761 00:39:20,316 --> 00:39:22,693 and then it shows me all the women 762 00:39:22,818 --> 00:39:24,028 he's been messaging, and I'm like... 763 00:39:24,111 --> 00:39:25,780 -[Lexy] All? -I didn't even dig deep. 764 00:39:25,863 --> 00:39:28,157 I just went to, like, a few messages down, 765 00:39:28,240 --> 00:39:29,992 and he told a girl, "Hey, gorgeous." 766 00:39:30,076 --> 00:39:31,702 I'm doing all this stuff for you, 767 00:39:31,827 --> 00:39:33,037 and then you're, 768 00:39:33,162 --> 00:39:37,041 like, messaging other women. Like, are you kidding me? 769 00:39:37,124 --> 00:39:39,710 I know you want, like, to get married and stuff like that, 770 00:39:39,794 --> 00:39:42,713 but something's fishy about this. 771 00:39:42,797 --> 00:39:44,924 [Lexy] He definitely doesn't sound like Mr. Right. 772 00:39:45,049 --> 00:39:47,051 He's talking to other girls behind her back, 773 00:39:47,134 --> 00:39:48,719 and I've had that happen in relationships, 774 00:39:48,803 --> 00:39:50,054 and it never works out. 775 00:39:50,179 --> 00:39:54,433 -He can't even get it up. -He can't provide anything. 776 00:39:54,558 --> 00:39:58,104 -Way too many red flags. -He is the red flag. 777 00:39:58,229 --> 00:40:01,857 [Marie] He needs to realize that he's actually lucky to have you, 778 00:40:01,941 --> 00:40:02,942 'cause he is. 779 00:40:04,652 --> 00:40:06,362 Are you able to talk to her about, like, 780 00:40:06,445 --> 00:40:08,280 deep stuff and the future... -[Colt] Yeah. 781 00:40:08,406 --> 00:40:10,366 -...and relationships? -Yeah. 782 00:40:10,449 --> 00:40:13,411 But she knows my reputation, and she thinks, like, I'm just 783 00:40:13,494 --> 00:40:16,414 gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day. 784 00:40:16,497 --> 00:40:17,706 So Cortney's worried that she'll be, like, 785 00:40:17,790 --> 00:40:19,375 another victim, basically. 786 00:40:19,458 --> 00:40:20,876 Are you still living that way, dude? 787 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:21,961 Be honest with me. 788 00:40:25,005 --> 00:40:27,299 [Colt] So, um... 789 00:40:27,425 --> 00:40:31,679 Well, there is a girl that I was talking to before I even 790 00:40:31,762 --> 00:40:33,848 went to the resort. -Where does she live? 791 00:40:33,931 --> 00:40:35,558 [Colt] She's in Brazil. 792 00:40:35,641 --> 00:40:36,976 -Oh. -[Colt] Yeah. 793 00:40:37,101 --> 00:40:38,811 -Here we go again. -Yeah. 794 00:40:39,937 --> 00:40:43,399 Diana and I met a year ago online. 795 00:40:43,482 --> 00:40:46,360 Originally, I had plans to meet Diana in Brazil 796 00:40:46,444 --> 00:40:47,862 after the singles retreat ended. 797 00:40:48,904 --> 00:40:52,491 But meeting Cortney and my injury ultimately 798 00:40:52,616 --> 00:40:54,034 changed those plans. 799 00:40:57,872 --> 00:40:59,331 I still talk to Diana. 800 00:41:00,624 --> 00:41:03,043 It's been hard to let her go. 801 00:41:03,127 --> 00:41:05,337 Me and Cortney, right now, I'm taking it one day 802 00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:07,214 at a time, but I don't wanna hurt her. 803 00:41:07,298 --> 00:41:08,466 I care about her. 804 00:41:08,549 --> 00:41:10,801 There's definitely feelings there, but I don't -- 805 00:41:10,926 --> 00:41:12,470 I really don't know what to do. 806 00:41:12,553 --> 00:41:16,307 I mean, this does sound a lot like things you've been through 807 00:41:16,390 --> 00:41:19,101 in the past, right? -Yeah. 808 00:41:19,185 --> 00:41:21,520 And there's a situation where you could hurt her, 809 00:41:21,645 --> 00:41:23,147 and I know you don't wanna do that. 810 00:41:23,230 --> 00:41:25,691 You wanna get out of these cycles. 811 00:41:25,816 --> 00:41:28,027 Every relationship I've been in 812 00:41:28,152 --> 00:41:31,113 has ended because I've cheated or lied 813 00:41:31,197 --> 00:41:32,948 or a combination of both. 814 00:41:33,991 --> 00:41:34,950 I love Cortney. 815 00:41:35,034 --> 00:41:37,369 I never wanted to keep secrets from her. 816 00:41:37,495 --> 00:41:38,871 But if I tell her about Diana, 817 00:41:39,872 --> 00:41:41,540 she's never gonna trust me again. 818 00:41:41,665 --> 00:41:44,502 This might be an opportunity for you to sort of take 819 00:41:44,585 --> 00:41:46,420 that next step in your personal growth 820 00:41:46,504 --> 00:41:48,714 and have some hard conversations. 821 00:41:48,839 --> 00:41:51,050 -[Colt] Yeah. -You know, do the right thing. 822 00:41:51,175 --> 00:41:52,384 -I don't know, man. 823 00:41:55,554 --> 00:41:56,847 -[Gino] -Next time on "The Single Life." 824 00:41:58,265 --> 00:41:59,391 I am Vanja. 825 00:41:59,517 --> 00:42:01,977 I have been single for about a year. 826 00:42:07,191 --> 00:42:08,484 His name is Tony. 827 00:42:09,693 --> 00:42:11,737 -Is that your friend, Tony? -Yeah. 828 00:42:11,862 --> 00:42:14,240 -I kissed him. -Oh, my God, girl! 829 00:42:14,365 --> 00:42:16,700 We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive, 830 00:42:16,825 --> 00:42:18,327 if we're dating. 831 00:42:18,410 --> 00:42:20,246 You need to have a conversation with him. 832 00:42:20,371 --> 00:42:23,541 If I have this conversation, there is no going back. 833 00:42:23,624 --> 00:42:25,376 Our friendship will be changed forever. 834 00:42:28,254 --> 00:42:30,714 We definitely did not mesh well at the end. 835 00:42:30,798 --> 00:42:31,924 He flipped so quick. 836 00:42:32,049 --> 00:42:34,635 And he's ignored me since the day. 837 00:42:34,718 --> 00:42:36,720 At this point, I am starting to panic a bit, 838 00:42:36,845 --> 00:42:39,056 because what if Pedro just never texts me back? 839 00:42:42,226 --> 00:42:44,353 You know, I'm happy that you came here, 840 00:42:44,436 --> 00:42:47,439 but I just keep seeing 841 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:50,693 that you have this online battle still 842 00:42:50,776 --> 00:42:52,361 with Jasmine back and forth. 843 00:42:52,444 --> 00:42:56,240 To me, it's a red flag because there's a thin line 844 00:42:56,365 --> 00:42:57,866 between love and hate. 845 00:42:57,950 --> 00:43:00,202 Does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine? 846 00:43:02,246 --> 00:43:03,914 -[Colt speaking] -Yeah. 847 00:43:03,998 --> 00:43:07,001 [Cortney laughs] Oh, yes. 848 00:43:07,084 --> 00:43:09,587 Sexy. [laughs] 849 00:43:12,673 --> 00:43:15,134 I really want this relationship to work with Colt, 850 00:43:15,259 --> 00:43:17,386 but we have major issues. 851 00:43:17,469 --> 00:43:19,930 His leg is broken, trust issues, 852 00:43:20,014 --> 00:43:23,475 His erectile dysfunction. We're not able to have sex. 853 00:43:23,601 --> 00:43:25,769 So now you're fully committed to Cortney at this point? 854 00:43:25,894 --> 00:43:27,563 Hundred percent. 855 00:43:27,646 --> 00:43:29,773 I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her. 856 00:43:29,857 --> 00:43:31,150 -Using her? -[Sandy] Yes. 857 00:43:31,275 --> 00:43:32,443 Do you have, like, a gut feeling? 858 00:43:32,568 --> 00:43:34,987 'Cause, like, that's usually what we go by.