[Sophie] Previously on "The Single Life."
We went on this beautiful trip to Key West.
Then I find out there was a girl living with you.
I've been burned by guys who I thought had
all the good intentions,
only to find out that it was all in my head.
[Tony] I can label this right now.
I would love to be your boyfriend.
Whew!
Yes.
I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
I have another daughter...
Please don't hate me.
You don't have to beat yourself up.
It's out now.
You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years,
and it just feels like I'm finally free.
Last night, Cortney came into my room.
She grabbed my phone.
Colt was exactly who everybody said he was.
Cortney gracefully put all my stuff
on the side of the road.
An Uber came and took me away to the hotel.
You don't love or care about me.
You only care about yourself and your [bleep].
I felt Colt was my happy ending.
Now, like, my whole future just got ripped from me.
I thought you were my best friend,
but I feel all of it's just a lie.
[Nicole speaking]
First, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable.
And then I have his mom
just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
[Lidia speaking Spanish]
[Sophie] There's only so much I can take
before I'm gonna lose my cool.
-[Sophie] You wanna talk about [bleep]... -[Nicole] OK...
Yes, OK, my mom doesn't love me? My mom doesn't love me?
[speaking Spanish]
[Nicole] No, no, no, no, no.
You and your family are [bleep] weird.
Weirdos.
♪ Don't blame it on me ♪
Ugh...
♪ Huh, oh ♪
♪ Don't blame it on me ♪
Ah!
♪ Huh, oh ♪
♪ Blame it on the hustle ♪
♪ Hustle, hustle ♪
♪ Blame it on your one-track mind ♪
[Colt] Cortney broke up with me a few days ago.
I've been living in this motel ever since.
And when I'm at the rock bottom of my life,
there's only one person I can call.
[Tony] There you go.
It's so nice out here.
My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
to save the day.
How are you? Don't get up.
I'm OK.
-Yeah? -How's it doing?
[Colt] 41 stitches.
[Debbie] Wow.
[Colt] I haven't seen my mother in person for six months,
but when I told her that Cortney threw me out
of the house and we broke up, she came down
with her boyfriend from Canada to check in on me
and make sure I'm OK.
I don't think she has a lot of confidence in my ability
to take care of myself.
Can you move it at all, or are you not allowed?
[Colt] Oh, yeah, I can move it.
You're not supposed to put any weight on it.
[Colt] But I can't really put weight on it, I'm --
I'm not -- I can't walk on it yet.
[Debbie] What's going on with you and Cortney?
We talked a little bit, but just -- she's just crying
and she's angry at me.
She's upset, disappointed, very disappointed, very sad.
So...
I know I've been running from relationship
to relationship, woman to woman, and I'm still doing that.
But I love Cortney.
Cortney's not gonna take me back, dude.
So you're not gonna get back together?
I don't think she wants to get back together with me.
Like, you know I -- what I did, right?
Like, I -- I -- I'm having a relationship
with another woman in Brazil.
And it wasn't just a friendship.
-We were actually exchanging... -[Debbie] Yeah.
...adult imagery.
But you weren't with Cortney when that was going on?
Well, I was doing this from her house.
[Debbie] Wow.
[Tony, under breath] Jesus.
-[Tony] Really? -I don't know.
I don't wanna get into that.
I feel like there should be this sense of shame
that my mother and I have about talking about
my [bleep] or my bad behavior, but we're pretty cool.
We're like bros.
She's always kind of treated me more like a --
like a friend than like a mother.
So me talking to her about cheating,
she's always kind of got my back.
If you want to get back into a relationship
with Cortney, I can talk to her,
and I can do my best to see.
-Just talk to her. -[Debbie] I will, I'm going to.
Try to tell her... I don't know.
I know, I will, I'll talk to her.
-Well, thank you. -[Debbie] Well, of course.
♪ Oh, na, na, na, na, hey ♪
♪ Oh ♪
♪ Oh, na, na, na, na, hey ♪
♪ Nowhere to go ♪
♪ Oh ♪
♪ Nowhere to run ♪
♪ When you hear that, oh ♪
♪ Na, na, na, na, hey ♪
[speaking Spanish]
The relationship between Pedro, his sister, and his mom
is not normal. They're so full-on about him.
Yeah, [indistinct].
Yeah, I don't know.
-[indistinct] -Your mom [bleep] loves you
[bleep] in a weird [bleep] way, bro.
His mama, as soon as I met him,
"Hey, why haven't you [bleep] my son?"
That's a weird [bleep] relationship, sorry.
As soon as I met her, she said, "Why have you not [bleep]
my son, why have you not got his banana?"
She said that to me.
[Julia speaking]
He told her, I guess they talk about Pedro's [bleep].
[Pedro speaking]
[speaking Spanish]
-No, but... -I say, no, excuse me.
[speaking Spanish]
Yeah, yeah, but --
Yeah, OK.
Why the [bleep]? I was chill.
I was chillin', I don't know if you [indistinct]...
[Pedro speaking]
Like, you call my [bleep]...
What did I say? I didn't say [bleep] about your mom.
-[Pedro] No, you say you, you... -I said, "You guys are grilling me," yeah.
-[Pedro] No, no, no, no. -That's what I said, I said [bleep] --
[Nicole speaking]
No, you enough -- I'm -- [indistinct]
OK, cool, I'm talking here.
-OK, cool, happy birthday. Have a great birthday. -Let's go.
-[Sophie] I said -- -[Pedro speaking]
What did I call? I called your mom?
[Sophie] I said, "You and your mom are grilling me."
No, no, no, no, no.
[Sophie] I didn't say nothing about your mom.
No...
Yeah, that's not, you know -- I don't know if there's
a language, but that's not insulting. -That's -- that's...
I said, "You and your mom, yes, are grilling me."
It was misunderstood that I said, "Your [bleep] mom."
I didn't say "[bleep] your mom."
Why would I say, "[bleep] your mom?"
I've been nothing but respectful to your mom
who's been disrespecting me the whole night.
-OK, English language, we say "[bleep] this, [bleep] that." -Yeah, but no, no, no meaning.
I didn't -- I never said anything wrong about your mom.
I said, "You guys are grilling me, you guys are too involved."
-That's what I said. -Sophie.
-That's what I said, I never insulted your mother.
[Sophie speaking]
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[Sophie speaking]
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
But you --
Like...
He was meant to have my back, but I'm like, "OK, have
your mom and your sister's back."
And this is why he will be single forever.
Damn.
[bleep]
Come in!
A lot of things have been happening.
I am in Maine visiting my cousin, Sanela.
Sanela.
[Sanela speaking]
Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
If something traumatic has happened to my daughter,
or she needed me for something,
I won't be able to live with myself.
And I want you guys on this journey with me.
Um...
♪ I just do what I want, do what I want, do what I wanna do ♪
♪ I just do what I do, do what I do, do what I'm gonna do ♪
♪ If you let me ♪
♪ I can take you ♪
♪ Where you wanna go ♪
[Vanja] Hello!
It's finally happening. I'm so excited.
♪ I just do what I want, do what I want, do what I wanna do ♪
♪ I just do what I do, do what I do, do what I'm gonna do ♪
I just arrived in Maine, and I'm super excited
to finally get to see my cousin.
This is awesome.
I am in Maine visiting my cousin Sanela and her husband Marinko,
and it is an amazing weekend, because it's my birthday.
My birthday is July 4th.
As you can tell, I'm a firecracker.
Tony is also coming in.
He's coming in on a later flight,
and he's just going to meet us at Sanela's place later.
Ever since Tony and I went on our little romantic date,
we're now official, and this is our first trip as a couple,
and it's a big deal.
I am a little nervous about Tony and Sanela hanging out.
You know how they always say, when you date a girl,
you date a girl and her best friend,
so poor Tony.
Sanela can be very critical, but I totally believe that when
the right guy comes along, Sanela is going to be able
to recognize it, and she will fully support our relationship.
And I hope it's Tony. It better be Tony,
[bleep]!
I am here!
[squealing]
-Finally! -Yes!
-So good to see you again! -Good to see you too!
-Oh, my God, you're so pretty. -I missed you.
-[Vanja] It's not even fair. -Look at you, all from Florida.
Well, very much Florida-like.
Are you ready for the touch up?
Oh, maybe, I'm excited.
-Can't wait to hear everything about you. -Let's go.
[Vanja] Uh-oh.
Sanela has her own salon, and she's touching up
my beautiful permanent makeup.
Alright, come on in.
A lot of things have been happening.
So I'm excited that I have someone like her in my life
to -- to keep this up.
So now it's official.
You don't have a single cousin anymore.
I still don't understand. What took him so long?
I don't know. I don't know.
It beats me too.
But good things come to those who wait.
So here we are.
Have you guys had a talk? A sex talk?
You mean the celibacy talk? No, we have not.
But that's definitely something that needs to be brought up.
I wonder, when it comes to sleeping at your house,
what we're gonna do. I think maybe it might be
a good idea for me to not be
in the same with him, just to not give him
any mixed messages or wrong ideas.
-Yeah. -It would be too soon for that anyways.
-Yeah. -[Sanela] Yeah, yeah.
[Vanja] Even though Tony and I have been friends for about
a year and a half at this point, I still haven't shared with him
my thoughts about sex and my celibacy.
Because even though we were just friends,
I always liked him.
And I also felt that he always liked me.
I feel like that tension between us prevented me
from ever bringing up a sexual encounter
with other people,
because it would just be weird.
But now that we are in a relationship,
I just wanna make sure that we're on the same page so that
our expectations match going forward.
You know, he had shown some red flags.
I mean, he's been good to you, but he's also been a little
bizarre with certain moves he has made.
[Vanja] I know.
There's something that did happen that really
got me upset.
So he took me out for dinner, and it was amazing.
It was so much fun.
And then he ended up going to another restaurant afterwards
and a club by himself.
-No, I -- I -- I was livid. -[Sanela] I would be too.
And -- and especially because he was just trying to defend it
like -- like it's something perfectly normal.
Like, "Oh, it doesn't mean anything."
I'm like, "Uh..." -Normal?
Oh, my God.
-OK, we'll see how you feel when I start doing that. -[Sanela] That's -- yeah.
Oh, wow. This is beautiful.
[Sanela speaking]
I love it, OK.
[Sanela speaking]
Alright, Vanja, just so you know,
when I see Tony,
I have a lot of questions.
Sanela!
Vanja, he's in my house, and I have the right...
to ask the questions, 'cause no one's playing
with my cousin.
OK, fair.
I do want Sanela to grill him, because who takes
their girlfriend out for dinner, send her home,
and then you go on to a bar to sit there by yourself?
Like, what's the purpose of you sitting at a bar?
Like, unless it's to pick up another girl.
I -- I see no other reason.
[Sanela speaking]
Of course he does.
Well, we'll find out.
We definitely need some answers, because I've dealt
with enough of playboys in my life.
Not looking forward to another one.
♪ Yeah ♪
♪ Uh-uh, wait, hold up, is that me ♪
♪ Looking in the mirror, who I see ♪
♪ Know I can overcome anything ♪
♪ Not in my circumstances to keep ♪
Yesterday was such a roller coaster, you know?
It wasn't really a roller coaster, 'cause it --
it went down quick. -I didn't have a choice.
-But then -- but it got brought back up. -I just had to do it.
-Yeah, yeah. -It was like overtaking my body, you know?
♪ I'm determined to do better, my future looking clean ♪
♪ I'm determined to do better, you know just what I mean ♪
♪ I know I could do better ♪
[Kim] Oh, here we are.
[Jamal] Hey.
[Kim] Where is he?
-Oh, there he is. -[Jamal] Yo.
Yo, yo. What's up, man?
-[Jamal] What's up, brother? -Doing alright?
-[Jamal] Nice fit. -Oh, thank you.
[Kim] Yesterday, I came clean to Larry about the daughter
I put up for adoption.
And it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do
in my life.
-How are you, you doing good? -[Kim] I'm better today.
No crying today, today's gonna be agreat day
[Jamal] Hopefully, no crying today.
Larry was so accepting and so understanding,
more than I ever could think possible.
I just feel like I'm ready to shed my past
and move forward now.
And I want Larry definitely in my life, you know?
I want for us to build a family together, so...
-Let's just go walk and talk and I don't know... -Let's go.
...I just wanna , like, hang out with my boys. -[Jamal] Hang out, alright.
-[Larry] Alright, alright. -My boys, it's my boys, it's my boys.
I never thought I'd say that. My boys.
-Yeah, it's weird. -Alright, right, y'all ready?
-[Larry] Yeah. -[Jamal] Shotgun.
[Larry] I'm the older brother, get in the back.
-[Jamal] Shotgun. -Just get your ass in the back seat.
-[Larry] He got it, he got it. -No, he's our guest.
Then you should get in the front seat.
-No, he gets the best. -Yeah, y'all are chauffeuring me.
Put your seat belt on, sir.
[Jamal] God.
Can you tell your brother to put his seat belt on, though?
-[Larry speaking] -[Jamal] Yeah, you're right.
She can't drive, for real.
Even though Larry and Jamal weren't raised together,
the energy between them is just crazy.
Like, Larry has the typical older brother vibes,
while Jamal's just like the baby brother.
It's very endearing to me being their mom.
I feel the lightest I've felt in 34 years.
30 -- 30 years.
[Kim] Yeah.
You are. You're glowing.
That's why -- that's why I'm wearing my shades today.
-[Jamal] Alright, let's hit the trail. -[Kim] Alright, let's go, guys!
-♪ You make me wanna go crazy ♪ -[seal barking]
♪ I'm diving with my eyes closed ♪
[Kim and Larry speaking]
[Larry] Yeah.
-[Jamal] Wow, isn't it weird seeing him? -[Kim] It is.
-[Jamal] San Diego looks like me. -I know.
-Not as good looking. -[Kim] You look like him, you just look like him.
-I keep telling him that. -[Jamal] What?
[Larry] You look like me.
[Jamal] Agh.
It's so cool coming out here, getting to spend pretty much
the day with just them two. You know what I'm saying? So.
It is real cool out here, isn't it?
I'm definitely feeling the brotherly love.
-I don't know about you. -I do.
I feel like we should do
things we were supposed to, like play catch...
and raid the fridge at mom's. You wanna race?
Let's do it.
Alright, we're gonna race to that pole right there.
You ready?
-[Larry] Uh-huh. -You can even do the three, two, one.
[Larry] OK. Three, two, one.
[laughing]
Whoo!
I love him.
-Do you love me? -I love you.
Aw.
You're supposed to say it back.
I love you, too. Aw.
So how are you feeling since yesterday, Larry?
Feeling good.
It was a surprising news, absolutely.
But, you know, glad it's out.
I'm glad there are no more secrets.
So she says... nah -- [snickering].
I'll let you know.
-[Kim] There isn't. -No, I know.
-I know, I know, but I'm good, though. -[Kim] There isn't.
It -- it's all good, man, we -- we're moving on from here.
[Kim] Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
And I want you guys on this journey with me,
but how do you feel about it?
I'm with you, I'm -- I'm ready to -- I'm ready to find her over here.
What about you?
Yeah, I've been ready, you know?
Before yesterday, I felt so alone with my secrets
and really ashamed.
But now, with the support of both of my sons,
we can start the journey to find my daughter.
I did name her Jennifer, and it might not be
her name now. -[Larry] Right, right, right.
You know, they probably did change it, but it was my way
of identifying with her, you know?
It was a closed adoption, so I don't have a lot of information
about my daughter.
The adoption agency will have to reach out to her and then
see if she wants contact with me.
But there is the possibility she might not want to see me.
You gave her a life, like you gave me.
-She don't know anything else. -I think, yeah.
But you know, not everybody is -- is --
feels the same way you do, right? -[Jamal] Yeah.
[Kim] And I -- and I love you for that.
I truly, truly love you 'cause you've made this
really easy for me. -[Larry] Mm-hmm.
But she really might just...
she might be angry.
I'm preparing my mental for that.
You know what I mean?
The best case scenario is that I can fly her out here,
get to know her, she can meet her brothers.
That would be, um...
that would be like a dream come true for me.
-Look, it's the seals. -Oh!
-Oh, yeah, you haven't seen them here, go right there. -[Larry] No.
-[Kim] Isn't that crazy? -They're really right there.
-They're right there. -Look at them.
-Look, look at them, I know.
As for the worst case scenario, it's not the fact that
she won't talk to me.
It's that she's either not living or that she needed me
for something and I wasn't there for her.
And I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
And if I can't make peace with my past, I don't know
if I'll ever find love and happiness,
which is something that I've been looking for my whole life.
[Jamal] It's your favorite animal, right?
[Kim] It's my favorite animal. You know why?
Why?
[Kim] 'Cause they're loud and fat, just like I am.
[laughing] It's true.
[Sophie] Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
And you're mad because I said the word [bleep]?
-Yes, I am. -Whoa.
[Pedro speaking]
Your family are gonna push people in your life away.
You know that, right?
♪ Is she a good one ♪
♪ 10 out of 10, very good one ♪
♪ Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to hit, I wanna [indistinct] ♪
♪ Yeah, we get to it, keep the boots on ♪
♪ Boots on ♪
♪ [singing in Spanish] ♪
[Pedro speaking]
♪ Nobody, she does it like nobody, nobody ♪
♪ Nobody, nobody ♪
♪ Step in the room like nobody, nobody, I know ♪
[knocking]
-[Sophie] Good morning. -How you doing?
[Sophie] I'm doing OK.
Um, the whole night,
your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me, and I still
was respectful all the way up until the end.
I wanted to have a fun time,
you know, just be at your sister's birthday.
I didn't think they'd really care that I was there,
to be honest. I thought I'd meet them.
They'd be like, "Hey, how are you?"
And that was it -- I didn't know
I was there to be grilled.
[Pedro speaking]
[Sophie] I have explained to you that it is a language barrier.
-"Your [bleep] mom" does not mean "[bleep] your mom." -Yeah, that's...
So did you not see what
they all were saying to me the whole night?
I said, "You and your [bleep] mom,"
I didn't say "[bleep] your mom."
Like, there's a difference.
All I was saying was "You and your mom."
I just swore. "You and your [bleep] mom."
And what I'm finding hurtful is that Pedro is not even,
like, standing up for me. It's kind of a turn off.
They wasn't respecting it,
and you're mad at me.
So I acted like Chantel?
Huh?
[Sophie] I know Chantel called your sister a bitch,
and Chantel did a lot worse than me.
I did not act like your ex.
-Sorry, but I didn't. -Yuck.
I did not act like...
She was judging me the whole night, Pedro.
And you're mad because I said the word [bleep].
-Yes, I am. -Whoa.
Before everything happened at the party, me and Pedro
were actually having a really nice day.
Like, I was really getting to know him,
I felt more comfortable with him.
And honestly if all that [bleep] didn't happen, I was even like,
"I might sleep in his bed or he can sleep in my bed,"
because I was feeling a connection and I was like,
OK, maybe we can get closer, so yeah,
his family, which is weird, but they [bleep] blocked him.
Your family are gonna push people in your life away.
You know that, right?
If that's how they talk to people, like if you just
introduce a girl and they do that every time, I don't think
it's possible that would ever work out with them acting like
that, you know? -You know...
I'm sorry if I made you feel I disrespected your mom.
That's not -- wasn't my intention.
And I should have been more chill with Nicole.
[Pedro speaking]
[Sophie] I think I just, like, after last night,
like, it's just a lot, so I just need to, like, step back
a little bit.
I'm still getting over all the drama I went through
with my marriage, so I'm not ready
to deal with someone else's crazy.
So even though I do really like Pedro and I'm not ready to call
it quits with him, I do need some time to figure out
what's best for me at this point.
I still like you and I still
wanna get to know you, you know?
It's not -- it's not changed my feelings about you.
It's more so like, well, what if I get to like you more?
Now I also have to deal with your family like coming for me.
Is that something I actually want?
So I just need a bit of, like, time.
[Pedro speaking]
[Debbie] Thank you for seeing us.
[Cortney] I think Debbie is an enabler.
"Oh, you wanna go cheat? Oh, don't worry, son.
I'll go fix that for you."
He's gonna keep doing it.
Like, what the [bleep]?
I don't know if Debbie even believes the words
coming out of her mouth.
♪ Don't let this face fool you ♪
♪ I'm no angel ♪
It is.
Yeah, I know.
I know. Give him one last chance.
[Debbie speaking]
♪ I'm a little fire, doing what I want ♪
♪ Don't say I didn't warn ya ♪
And then, yeah, we'll scoop it out,
and then we'll add all the -- the good stuff.
[knocking on door]
[Cortney] So Colt sent me a text.
His mom's in town, and she wants to talk to me,
I'm like, "What the [bleep]?"
Like, why would she wanna come talk to me?
-Hey, how are you? -Hello!
-[Tony] Hello. -[Cortney] Come in.
Here, yeah.
I haven't met Debbie in person, but I've gotten to
know her over the past few months through video chat.
Of course.
[Debbie speaking]
Oh, thank you, you too.
She has the history of meddling
in all of his relationships,
but I wonder if Colt told his mom that
he was sending jerk-off videos to other women.
-I like your shirt, cute. -[Debbie] Hi.
-[Tony] Hi. -Hello, welcome to our home.
You too, yeah.
[Debbie speaking]
-No problem. -Nice meeting you.
Well, thank you.
I'm very surprised that Debbie came.
Colt really hurt our -- our flesh and blood.
-Yeah. -[Fred] Our daughter, you know.
-Yeah, terrible. -Oh, it was heartbreaking seeing Cortney so upset.
I had totally lost respect for him.
Yeah, and she never cusses neither.
[Debbie speaking]
[Cortney] Here's some tissues.
I've been crying so much.
Like, I have bags under my eyes.
I've been crying so much the past, like,
four or five days.
And I saw he's, like, messaging this other woman, I'm like,
"OK, I'm done," like...
"I can never trust you again."
Yeah, that's not a good way to find out, that's for sure.
[Fred] Right.
I mean, she's had situations like this before where
she's been really serious with guys... -[Tony] Yeah.
...and then all of a sudden she finds out
they're two-timing her.
He's gonna keep doing it.
So he goes back and forth on what he wants.
-[Debbie] He -- -I feel he's lost and confused.
So it's like I'm not gonna be one of his options
or in his love triangle. -[Fred] Yeah.
It's like "You had me and you've lost me."
I think Debbie is an enabler. "Oh, you wanna go cheat?
"Oh, don't worry, son.
"I'll go fix that for you and go tell them what a great guy
you are, and to give you another chance."
Like, I don't know if Debbie even believes the words
coming out of her mouth.
Like, oh, he learned his lesson? After the hundredth time
he's done this to a woman?
[Cortney] Yeah, I feel like
on a relationship standpoint, I'm done, like...
[heavy exhale]
I was so proud of Cortney to tell Debbie that
she's done with Colt.
This is a betrayal on us, as well as Cortney,
because we opened up our house to a stranger.
And he was taking advantage of our hospitality.
-[Cortney] Yeah, it's disappointing. -[Jane] Yeah, we are too, yeah.
[Fred] Yeah.
I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom, but I need
to be honest with her, I need to be honest with myself.
There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
Bye.
[Tony] It was nice meeting you.
[Cortney] I've pretty much been a full-time nurse
for this lying, cheating piece of [bleep].
Like, I need Debbie to just take over now so I can move on.
-[Debbie] Bye. -[Jane and Fred] Bye, bye.
OK.
You're worried that I'm a player.
-[Sanela] Yeah. -Is that what you're getting at?
Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanja.
She's told her a lot about my past that now someone's
using against me.
She just, like, full out assaulted me out there.
♪ I need a boy with really soft hair ♪
♪ Who lets me run my hands ♪
♪ Through it and doesn't care ♪
Come on in, Vanja.
-OK, ooh. -[Sanela] You need help?
[Vanja] A lot.
That's a big one.
[Vanja] This is -- this is packing for three days.
♪ Give me, give me what I want, give me, give me all my dreams ♪
♪ Give me all my dreams, I don't need too much ♪
[Marinko] Look who it is, hi.
[Vanja] So good to see you.
-Give me a hug, good to see you. -[Vanja speaks indistinctly]
I am just arriving to Sanela and Marinko's house in Maine.
And they are hosting Tony and I for my birthday weekend.
Thanks for having me.
So what are you making?
[Marinko] I gotta feed my rabbits.
-[Vanja] He's got two of them now. -I know.
-[Vanja] Two vegans. -You guys can catch up.
-I'm just gonna go change my clothes 'cause I'm sweaty. -OK.
-[Vanja] OK. -[Sanela] Alright.
-I'll see you in a minute. -Sounds good, sounds good.
So...tell me a little bit about -- about this guy.
-[Vanja] Tony. -Yeah.
So he's actually a doctor.
He's very, very smart.
And that's one of the things that I really love about him,
is that, you know, we can have all these awesome
intellectual conversations, and that's important,
because, you know, I get bored so easily.
So I love that.
Well, I can't -- I can't wait to meet him, so...
-[doorbell ringing] -Mm-hmm, I hope you like him.
-Hi, Tony. -[Tony] Hello.
-[both] How are you? -[Sanela] Come on in.
-Thank you, thank you. -[Sanela] Nice to see you.
Nice to see you, too. I leave it here?
[Sanela] Yes, that's fine. Welcome to Maine.
-[Tony] Alright. -Alright, come on in.
-Thank you for having me. -[Sanela] This is Marinko.
Nice, beautiful house. Marinko?
-Tony. -Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
-My lady. -[Vanja] Hi!
[Marinko] So Tony, can I get you something to drink?
[Tony] Yeah, actually, I could use a bourbon neat.
Sure, we gotta go downstairs to the bar.
My expectations for Tony this weekend are to get along
with everybody, present himself in the best light.
I definitely want Sanela to give her stamp of approval.
It would mean the world to me to know that she is on board
with this relationship.
[Tony] This is beautiful.
-Thank you. -Absolutely serene.
[both] Thank you.
[Tony] How long you guys lived here for?
-[Marinko] Uh... about nine years. -Nine years.
Yeah.
[Tony] You guys were married for how long?
-Oh, 19. -19, actually, yeah.
-[Tony] 19 years? -What's the secret?
Foundation is very, very important.
-Absolutely. -[Marinko] You know, building a strong, strong foundation.
We were friends.
-We were good friends back then. -Before settling.
[Tony] Me and Vanja were best friends for a year and a half.
[Marinko] Yeah.
But I think after my divorce, it's a little bit harder,
so I'm being extra cautious.
[Marinko] Yeah.
Well, how long were you married for?
I was only married for eight months.
Very short.
There was a -- a lack of communication on both ends
in the end. -It's -- it's work.
It's not easy.
No marriage, no friend -- relationship, nothing is easy.
You know, you just have to, like, communicate
and talk about it, and somebody's gotta apologize.
[Vanja] So I thought we were gonna be making s'mores.
-What happened to that? Let's -- let's get it. -[Marinko] Let's go.
-Let's get them. -Let's go get the stuff.
[Marinko] Yeah.
I know the Sanela wants to grill Tony, and with me
and Marinko walking away, I am definitely giving her
the opportunity to do that.
Now there's two of us.
He went to a bar alone after our date, and I still
can't figure out what he was doing,
where his head was at.
I'm hoping Sanela can get to the bottom of that,
because I still have questions on it.
[Sanela speaking]
No.
Yeah, I went to a bar afterwards, but it was nothing
more than that.
And I told her about the whole experience.
You're worried -- you're worried that I'm a player.
[Sanela] Yeah.
Is that what you're getting at?
I never hung out with her, or I never hung out with Vanja
when I was dating her.
-We were always friends. We kept it... -Mm.
Absolutely, 100%.
[Sanela] Well, uh...
Yeah, timeline doesn't match up.
I am coming here for Vanja's birthday and to spend time
with the family, and I've barely been here for an hour,
and Sanela just gave me the third degree.
Honestly, I feel...
betrayed by Vanja, because I feel like she's told her a lot
about my past that now Sanela's using against me.
You're looking at my past.
You're not looking at right now.
-And right now, I'm... -[Vanja] What did we miss?
A lovely talk, a lovely discussion.
Yeah?
Alright, well, dessert's here.
Oh, I'm gonna hit the hay, I'm tired.
-I'm exhausted. -Why?
I'm just tired. I mean, long day, long day.
-[Vanja] Really? -[Tony] Yeah, I'm tired.
I'm exhausted. I just need to get out of here.
OK, well, I'm -- I'm -- I'm gonna come with.
Alright, thanks, guys.
-Good night, guys. -I'm sorry.
What happened?
I hope you didn't go too far.
He's just getting defensive over nothing.
Like, he's just not giving me anything to prove to me that
he really means well. -[Marinko] So you did go too far?
[Tony] What have you been talking to her about?
I mean, she just, like,
full out assaulted me out there.
I mean, I -- I just don't appreciate
her line of questioning.
What -- what did she say?
I mean, I don't wanna get into it.
I'm -- I'm exhausted and...
is this where we're sleeping tonight, or...?
Well, this is where you're sleeping.
I'm gonna be sleeping upstairs.
Great.
I planned on talking to Tony about my celibacy
and the reason for not sharing the bed with him,
but he's really angry and he's shutting down,
and now might not be the best time
to have that conversation.
I guess that is what it is, then, good night.
I absolutely cannot believe that this trip is off
to such a bad start.
And this tension between Tony and Sanela
is only the beginning. It's not even the half of it.
Something happened with Tony today that I'm not even ready
to share with Sanela yet.
♪ It's dangerous, playing with the heart of a woman ♪
Still to come on The Single Life.
[energetic music playing]
♪ Show me what you do with it ♪
♪ This is it ♪
Oh my goodness.
♪ This is it ♪
You're getting me all hot.
Oh yeah, well, dancing can lead to that.
I'm really excited to see where this can take us
♪ 'Cause I like you. ♪
[classical music playing]
Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
Hello, peasants.
Hello.
I've been talking to a man from Derbyshire, England named Wayne.
-Hi! -Oh, wow.
This legit might be my person.
[kissing]
Ahh.
[exciting music playing]
I'm single, I'm on holiday,
and I've told Pedro I need some space.
Let me touch it.
Oh wow, OK,
This guy looks like the right amount of space.
[speaking Spanish]
[intriguing music playing]
This is my daughter.
I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
I didn't expect that.
I'm surprised you're even here.
If there's gonna be any chance for our relationship to work,
I'm gonna have to win Bella over.
I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself with a troll
like Gino, a spineless loser like him.
[disconnection tone beeping]
You OK?
No.
I wanna throw up.
[suspenseful music playing]
Diana and Cortney,
I was treating both women equally wrong.
I'm gonna fight like hell to get her back.
[exhales]
Good question.
Yeah.
I care about him, and he thinks I don't,
because I went on one [bleep] date,
one date.
I went on one date.
I just feel [bleep] bad.
I just feel terrible.
It's my girl.
Are you serious?
I'm just like really done with the [bleep]
[Vanja] The fact that he's projecting
this insecurity on me, it's not right.
I'm not gonna stand for it.
So you're stopping me from being who I am.
You don't see a problem here at all?
What is the freaking problem?
The problem is actually us.
We might have even bigger problems
than I originally thought.
I'm [bleep] done with this [bleep].
I'm done Tony.
[ominous chord strikes]