1 00:00:05,213 --> 00:00:07,716 # Don't make me look bad no more # 2 00:00:07,799 --> 00:00:10,385 MACK: Does that mean it's over? Was it over when... 3 00:00:10,468 --> 00:00:11,511 (PHONE BEEPS) 4 00:00:11,594 --> 00:00:13,346 MACK: Even though Maria broke my heart, 5 00:00:13,430 --> 00:00:15,557 I'm not gonna give up on finding love. 6 00:00:16,766 --> 00:00:18,810 EDWARD: I didn't feel a love connection, 7 00:00:18,893 --> 00:00:20,520 I hope we can be friends. 8 00:00:20,603 --> 00:00:25,025 It would be nice to celebrate my 70th with someone close to my heart. 9 00:00:25,108 --> 00:00:26,526 (LAUGHS) 10 00:00:26,609 --> 00:00:29,988 You just do what you wanna do, and you're gonna step over everyone. 11 00:00:31,990 --> 00:00:33,408 Right. 12 00:00:33,491 --> 00:00:35,744 NATALIE: I came to America to have a child. 13 00:00:40,790 --> 00:00:43,251 Just be happy, OK? 14 00:00:43,335 --> 00:00:45,920 TANIA: There was so much unhappiness with Syngin. 15 00:00:46,004 --> 00:00:47,881 I'm ready to start a new chapter. 16 00:00:47,964 --> 00:00:51,801 I've wanted to be with a bald guy, I've never licked a bald head. 17 00:00:51,885 --> 00:00:53,428 (CHUCKLES) 18 00:00:54,637 --> 00:00:57,599 CAESAR: No, no I'm ready for love. Wow. 19 00:00:57,682 --> 00:01:00,393 MACK: Ukrainian women are my dream come true. 20 00:01:00,477 --> 00:01:03,480 And I'm not gonna stop until I find the future Mrs. Mack. 21 00:01:12,530 --> 00:01:15,575 VERONICA: I met a fellow, he actually kind of looks like you. 22 00:01:15,658 --> 00:01:16,785 TIM: Oh, my God. 23 00:01:16,868 --> 00:01:20,705 Our relationship could change if we get more serious with partners. 24 00:01:20,789 --> 00:01:23,208 What's in your pocket, chap stick? A chap stick. 25 00:01:23,291 --> 00:01:26,252 (LAUGHS) 26 00:01:26,336 --> 00:01:30,006 TIFFANY: Dating as a single mum with two kids is ridiculous. 27 00:01:30,090 --> 00:01:32,759 I could rearrange the alphabet and put you and I together. 28 00:01:32,842 --> 00:01:34,219 (CHUCKLES) 29 00:01:34,302 --> 00:01:35,595 TONY: It's chocolate. 30 00:01:35,679 --> 00:01:36,721 Oh... 31 00:01:39,057 --> 00:01:41,976 I'm gonna do a lot of making up for the past. 32 00:01:43,645 --> 00:01:44,938 (SCREAMS) 33 00:01:45,021 --> 00:01:47,607 TANIA: Newly separated. On paper. 34 00:01:47,691 --> 00:01:50,527 Not on paper. If anyone asks, I say I'm divorced. 35 00:01:51,945 --> 00:01:53,196 It's not lying. 36 00:01:57,617 --> 00:01:58,910 With being with Syngin? 37 00:02:00,870 --> 00:02:03,248 DEBBIE: I needed you, you're my son, you... 38 00:02:04,916 --> 00:02:06,710 That's why, you don't care about me. 39 00:02:11,923 --> 00:02:13,258 (CRIES) 40 00:02:15,176 --> 00:02:19,180 TIM: Hello, how are you, man? VERONICA: You're here. Yeah. 41 00:02:19,264 --> 00:02:21,099 This used to be my house... 42 00:02:29,107 --> 00:02:30,900 (SOBS) 43 00:02:37,157 --> 00:02:39,325 MIKE: How's it going? NATALIE: Hi. 44 00:02:54,883 --> 00:02:56,593 # Got the wind in my hair 45 00:02:56,676 --> 00:02:58,845 # I'm driving to LA 46 00:03:00,472 --> 00:03:04,476 # I'm not fooling around I'm going all the way 47 00:03:06,311 --> 00:03:09,397 # Oh, the skies are never grey 48 00:03:09,481 --> 00:03:12,484 # If you love a sunny day 49 00:03:12,567 --> 00:03:15,737 # The one thing I know is nothing beats LA # 50 00:03:23,661 --> 00:03:26,289 I'm in Hollywood, yeah. 51 00:03:27,624 --> 00:03:30,418 My name is Natalie, I'm 37. 52 00:03:32,379 --> 00:03:33,755 So, buckle up. 53 00:03:43,807 --> 00:03:45,975 Oh, wow the stars yeah. 54 00:03:52,524 --> 00:03:53,983 That's me. 55 00:03:55,276 --> 00:03:57,862 Where are you from? I'm from Ukraine. 56 00:03:57,946 --> 00:03:59,155 Oh, really? Yeah. 57 00:03:59,239 --> 00:04:00,990 How long you been here? Two years. 58 00:04:01,074 --> 00:04:03,410 Oh, my God. Yeah, I know. 59 00:04:03,493 --> 00:04:04,828 I love it here. 60 00:04:06,663 --> 00:04:10,166 NATALIE: I'm from Ukraine and I live in Florida, 61 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,710 but... 62 00:04:11,793 --> 00:04:14,838 and I'm seeing incredible buildings and people. 63 00:04:14,921 --> 00:04:16,047 And I feel like... 64 00:04:26,433 --> 00:04:28,518 MAN 1: We are on the Sunset Strip. 65 00:04:32,981 --> 00:04:34,482 Oh my God, Madonna. 66 00:04:35,942 --> 00:04:38,111 Maybe I will find love here too. 67 00:04:51,750 --> 00:04:54,002 MAN 1: Where they filmed the first Godfather movie. 68 00:04:54,085 --> 00:04:57,672 Oh, wow. 1972. It's so beautiful, oh my God. 69 00:05:29,788 --> 00:05:32,332 NATALIE: I came to America for love. 70 00:05:44,302 --> 00:05:45,720 (LAUGHS) 71 00:05:45,804 --> 00:05:50,809 I came to America on the K-1 visa. I got married to Michael. 72 00:05:50,892 --> 00:05:53,395 MICHAEL: Yes. Yeah. 73 00:05:53,478 --> 00:05:57,649 I loved Michael and I wanted to have a child with him. 74 00:05:59,067 --> 00:06:02,612 But after a few months, it was a nightmare. 75 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:06,991 She did nothing to you, so why are you acting like this? 76 00:06:07,075 --> 00:06:08,159 MICHAEL: Be an adult. 77 00:06:12,539 --> 00:06:15,000 Get with the fucking program or get out. 78 00:06:16,793 --> 00:06:18,837 NATALIE: We couldn't agree on anything. 79 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,339 And he didn't support my dreams. 80 00:06:41,943 --> 00:06:48,074 He's good looking, confident, charming, sexy, all above. 81 00:06:48,158 --> 00:06:49,367 JOSH: Nice, good. 82 00:06:53,538 --> 00:06:55,665 Great job, you look beautiful. NATALIE: Thank you. 83 00:06:55,749 --> 00:06:57,375 We went on a date. 84 00:07:00,295 --> 00:07:01,796 Can I do like that? 85 00:07:03,548 --> 00:07:06,176 I never met a guy like Josh in my life. 86 00:07:06,259 --> 00:07:08,011 (CHUCKLES) 87 00:07:10,388 --> 00:07:13,516 Mike is mama's boy and Josh is... 88 00:07:20,398 --> 00:07:25,153 But I had concerns with Josh working with beautiful women all the time. 89 00:07:25,236 --> 00:07:28,823 I am attracted to you but, I think all are attracted to you. 90 00:07:28,907 --> 00:07:29,949 And I hate... 91 00:07:35,413 --> 00:07:38,583 I don't know why, I'm sorry, I'm very like, you know... 92 00:07:44,964 --> 00:07:48,760 JOSH: So, I have two kids, with two different women. 93 00:07:48,843 --> 00:07:50,053 Yeah. Yeah. Really? 94 00:07:53,765 --> 00:07:55,975 NATALIE: First thought was... 95 00:07:56,059 --> 00:07:59,104 which is good. But second thought was... 96 00:08:06,861 --> 00:08:08,154 No. 97 00:08:09,197 --> 00:08:12,617 Why don't you come out to L.A. and let me take you around. 98 00:08:12,701 --> 00:08:13,743 But... 99 00:08:14,786 --> 00:08:17,789 I just can't stay away. So... 100 00:08:19,624 --> 00:08:21,376 I was like, hell yes. 101 00:08:21,459 --> 00:08:23,253 (GIGGLES) 102 00:08:24,546 --> 00:08:27,549 JOSH: Take a lot of pictures, folks. WOMAN 2: Oh, my God. 103 00:08:28,967 --> 00:08:30,468 Look at that. All righty. 104 00:08:33,555 --> 00:08:36,307 Josh he's been really busy, but... 105 00:08:40,603 --> 00:08:41,980 So, I'm excited. 106 00:08:45,150 --> 00:08:46,860 (HUMMING) 107 00:08:48,028 --> 00:08:49,696 (CLICKS) 108 00:08:51,906 --> 00:08:53,783 I'm texting Josh now. 109 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,214 Oh, cute, can't wait to see you. 110 00:09:13,428 --> 00:09:16,431 Uh-oh I'm very busy and can't make it until eight, fuck. 111 00:09:19,934 --> 00:09:22,979 Josh invited me to L.A. 112 00:09:23,063 --> 00:09:27,942 He should be on this bus with me, taking selfie, enjoying time. 113 00:09:28,026 --> 00:09:29,861 But he says I'm busy. 114 00:09:40,622 --> 00:09:43,124 And I don't know if I can trust him. 115 00:09:44,459 --> 00:09:47,504 I had a lot of mistakes made with Mike. 116 00:10:01,518 --> 00:10:03,103 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING) 117 00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:08,900 DEMIAN: Here we go and perfect. 118 00:10:08,983 --> 00:10:12,112 # When I walk in, it's a party # 119 00:10:12,195 --> 00:10:13,697 DEMIAN: Oh, this looks great. 120 00:10:15,073 --> 00:10:16,658 DEMIAN: Oh, nice. 121 00:10:21,246 --> 00:10:24,207 So, we are planning together this photoshoot 122 00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:25,709 with his friend Demian. 123 00:10:28,294 --> 00:10:30,588 Good go and look a little off this way. 124 00:10:30,672 --> 00:10:32,257 I don't know what to do. 125 00:10:32,340 --> 00:10:35,468 You kind of like you're grabbing the... nice. 126 00:10:42,684 --> 00:10:44,686 Show these legs. You have very good legs. 127 00:10:44,769 --> 00:10:48,690 But since Josh is to be to be with me, 128 00:10:48,773 --> 00:10:51,067 I'm gonna use this time for my advantage. 129 00:10:51,151 --> 00:10:52,694 Oh, that was cool. 130 00:10:52,777 --> 00:10:54,070 So, while I'm here, 131 00:11:00,493 --> 00:11:03,496 DEMIAN: This one's very cool. Oh my God, I love it. 132 00:11:04,914 --> 00:11:07,917 I'm a fan of that one, you did a really good job. 133 00:11:10,045 --> 00:11:12,714 All right I'll let Josh know. 134 00:11:12,797 --> 00:11:16,343 Here we go. What exactly are work in the pictures? 135 00:11:27,437 --> 00:11:29,814 What exactly are you wanting to know about Josh? 136 00:11:29,898 --> 00:11:31,232 What can you tell me? 137 00:11:33,526 --> 00:11:36,696 He has you know multiple businesses. 138 00:11:38,281 --> 00:11:41,868 He's going to all these castings all around the world. 139 00:11:41,951 --> 00:11:45,538 I don't want a man who is involved with beautiful woman all the time 140 00:11:45,622 --> 00:11:49,167 and I know it for sure, I will not be involved with a guy 141 00:11:49,250 --> 00:11:51,044 who involved with so many beautiful women. 142 00:11:51,127 --> 00:11:52,879 Because I mean come on. 143 00:11:53,963 --> 00:11:57,050 Would you say you're jealous? I am very jealous. 144 00:11:58,510 --> 00:12:00,261 Josh is out and about you know, 145 00:12:00,345 --> 00:12:02,639 hanging out with a lot of attractive women. 146 00:12:02,722 --> 00:12:05,558 But that's the kind of life that he's living right now, 147 00:12:05,642 --> 00:12:09,145 and it's something that she needs to like accept. 148 00:12:09,229 --> 00:12:13,066 He's still trying to give her reassurance and affection, 149 00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:16,236 it's something that she should be happy with. 150 00:12:16,319 --> 00:12:18,988 I met Josh in very difficult time of my life, 151 00:12:19,072 --> 00:12:21,991 and I feel like, a lot vulnerable and insecure. 152 00:12:23,535 --> 00:12:27,539 I'm going through a struggle because I really like him, a lot. 153 00:12:27,622 --> 00:12:32,127 And I will not invest myself, my time, my feelings, my heart 154 00:12:32,210 --> 00:12:37,382 into something that will not lead me to what makes me secure. 155 00:12:41,011 --> 00:12:42,762 And what is it that you want? 156 00:12:45,849 --> 00:12:47,434 Get married and have a child. 157 00:12:51,521 --> 00:12:54,524 And you've never talked to Josh about this at all? 158 00:12:56,484 --> 00:12:57,777 Mm-mm. 159 00:13:02,532 --> 00:13:04,534 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYING) 160 00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:08,496 I came to America to build a family and have a child, but I... 161 00:13:16,421 --> 00:13:20,508 I need to make sure that Josh wants to be committed and have a family. 162 00:13:24,971 --> 00:13:25,232 2 00:13:14.360 -- 00:13:16.280 align:middle line:90% position:50% MACK: I wanted to ask you a question. 163 00:13:50,372 --> 00:13:52,374 WOMAN 3: Oh, sure. 164 00:13:52,457 --> 00:13:55,001 Because you've been running through my mind all day. 165 00:13:55,085 --> 00:13:56,961 Has that line worked? No. 166 00:13:57,045 --> 00:13:59,464 (LAUGHS) 167 00:13:59,547 --> 00:14:03,551 I'm Caesar Mack, I'm 49 and I'm from Jacksonville, North Carolina. 168 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:08,973 LATESSE: When you fell from heaven. 169 00:14:09,057 --> 00:14:11,685 (LAUGHS) 170 00:14:11,768 --> 00:14:15,021 I got you, I got you. That is so sweet. I appreciate that. 171 00:14:16,189 --> 00:14:20,193 You know I'm gonna be turning 50 years old, very soon. 172 00:14:20,276 --> 00:14:21,736 And I'm still single. 173 00:14:21,820 --> 00:14:23,321 At this point in my life. 174 00:14:23,405 --> 00:14:25,907 I thought, I would find somebody to be my wife. 175 00:14:25,990 --> 00:14:30,453 I want somebody to share life with me and to be able to make memories. 176 00:14:30,537 --> 00:14:32,288 That's all I've ever wanted. 177 00:14:32,372 --> 00:14:35,125 I see you have a little bit of skill over there. 178 00:14:35,208 --> 00:14:37,043 It's all from rubbing feet. 179 00:14:40,380 --> 00:14:42,090 I work in a nail shop. 180 00:14:42,173 --> 00:14:45,010 Oh OK, OK, OK, OK, OK, OK. 181 00:14:46,302 --> 00:14:49,180 I've been a nail technician for 18 years. 182 00:14:49,264 --> 00:14:51,307 It has not always helped my dating life. 183 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,853 But I come to places like this 184 00:14:54,936 --> 00:14:59,399 because it's an opportunity for me to meet beautiful women. 185 00:14:59,482 --> 00:15:02,193 So, did you come over here with your husband? 186 00:15:02,277 --> 00:15:04,320 I left him at home. 187 00:15:04,404 --> 00:15:07,282 He's a lucky man to have a beautiful woman like you. 188 00:15:07,365 --> 00:15:09,034 Oh, thank you. You're welcome. 189 00:15:09,117 --> 00:15:11,161 You're funny. Yeah. 190 00:15:11,244 --> 00:15:13,329 Caesar's pick up lines did not work on me. 191 00:15:13,413 --> 00:15:15,290 I thought they were funny. 192 00:15:15,373 --> 00:15:19,169 I would love to give him pointers, we could definitely be friends. 193 00:15:19,252 --> 00:15:20,754 And I don't have a husband. 194 00:15:22,630 --> 00:15:26,634 Is that your cat? Yeah, yep that's Sebastian. 195 00:15:27,802 --> 00:15:31,848 Sebastian is more than just a pet, he's like, like my best friend. 196 00:15:34,142 --> 00:15:36,478 He like part of my family, 197 00:15:36,561 --> 00:15:39,064 because it's only me and him. 198 00:15:39,147 --> 00:15:42,525 I was lonely, and I just needed somebody to be there 199 00:15:42,609 --> 00:15:46,363 with somebody I can pet, take care of. 200 00:15:46,446 --> 00:15:49,157 Especially two years ago, when a woman that I thought, 201 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:52,952 I spend the rest of my life with broke my heart. 202 00:15:56,748 --> 00:15:59,459 I met Maria on an international dating website. 203 00:15:59,542 --> 00:16:03,254 Maria was from Ukraine, she was like 26 years old. 204 00:16:04,255 --> 00:16:07,050 And I fell in love right away. 205 00:16:07,133 --> 00:16:09,803 We talked online and on the phone for five years. 206 00:16:17,727 --> 00:16:21,981 I thought Maria was gonna be the one, and thought she felt the same. 207 00:16:22,065 --> 00:16:24,150 I gave her money when she needed it. 208 00:16:24,234 --> 00:16:25,985 How are you doing today? 209 00:16:26,069 --> 00:16:28,780 I'm doing pretty good, I was sending this, 210 00:16:28,863 --> 00:16:31,282 this 2,000 dollars to Ukraine. 211 00:16:31,366 --> 00:16:34,452 I'd say it was like around 800 dollars every two weeks. 212 00:16:35,870 --> 00:16:38,665 Even though me and Maria were dating for five years, 213 00:16:38,748 --> 00:16:41,418 she always had some excuse why we couldn't meet up. 214 00:16:44,170 --> 00:16:45,922 Hey babe, what's going on with Ukraine? 215 00:16:48,049 --> 00:16:52,095 Maria told me, it was too dangerous for me to meet with her in Ukraine. 216 00:16:52,178 --> 00:16:55,265 So, instead I booked us a trip to Mexico. 217 00:16:55,348 --> 00:16:56,933 That's where I was gonna propose. 218 00:16:58,143 --> 00:17:00,353 The most important thing right here. 219 00:17:00,437 --> 00:17:03,982 Is the ring. Let me make sure that's here. 220 00:17:05,692 --> 00:17:07,110 But Maria never came. 221 00:17:08,486 --> 00:17:12,282 We have a special dinner for you, and your fiancée. 222 00:17:12,365 --> 00:17:16,494 You know, she didn't, she didn't come, so I'm eating by myself. 223 00:17:16,578 --> 00:17:18,747 OK, oh I'm so sorry. 224 00:17:20,874 --> 00:17:23,960 And then Maria called me and she told me we were done. 225 00:17:25,754 --> 00:17:29,049 So, does that mean it's over, is that it, was it over when... 226 00:17:30,091 --> 00:17:31,134 (BEEPS) 227 00:17:34,346 --> 00:17:35,805 I was devastated. 228 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:39,601 Maria took advantage of my kindness and you know, I feel like, 229 00:17:39,684 --> 00:17:41,269 I feel really stupid. 230 00:17:41,353 --> 00:17:47,400 Because in our entire relationship, I gave Maria 40,000 dollars. 231 00:17:47,484 --> 00:17:49,361 I'm never gonna make that same mistake. 232 00:17:52,030 --> 00:17:56,034 I, oh see look at that? Oh that is pretty. I like that. 233 00:17:56,117 --> 00:17:57,869 You did a great job. Thank you. 234 00:17:57,952 --> 00:18:00,455 The detail in the eyes though is what gets me. 235 00:18:00,538 --> 00:18:02,123 That's because he's half asleep, 236 00:18:02,207 --> 00:18:04,417 that's why that one eye is halfway shut. 237 00:18:06,961 --> 00:18:08,713 All right girls, I really appreciate it, 238 00:18:08,797 --> 00:18:11,341 let me take my cat with me. 239 00:18:11,424 --> 00:18:13,051 Even though Maria broke my heart, 240 00:18:13,134 --> 00:18:16,054 I'm not gonna give up on finding real love. 241 00:18:16,137 --> 00:18:17,889 I know, the right one's out there 242 00:18:17,972 --> 00:18:20,308 and I'm not gonna stop until I find somebody. 243 00:18:23,895 --> 00:18:26,940 (GRUNTS) 244 00:18:28,775 --> 00:18:31,820 My perfect woman would be, you know I like them curvy. 245 00:18:31,903 --> 00:18:34,864 I like like thighs, hips, 246 00:18:38,326 --> 00:18:43,081 I'm looking for someone around my age, from 32 to 40. 247 00:18:43,164 --> 00:18:45,542 Someone, that is financially independent. 248 00:18:47,002 --> 00:18:49,754 A person that can be best friends with me, 249 00:18:49,838 --> 00:18:53,633 and we can have a romantic picnic with some finger foods 250 00:18:53,717 --> 00:18:55,635 and just sit and enjoy the moment. 251 00:19:02,809 --> 00:19:04,394 Since I broke up with Maria, 252 00:19:04,477 --> 00:19:07,605 I've been trying to date, and I've been striking out at home. 253 00:19:07,689 --> 00:19:10,233 So, now I decided to do online dating again. 254 00:19:11,818 --> 00:19:14,529 This time I'm really changing my approach to dating. 255 00:19:17,991 --> 00:19:19,659 WOMAN 5: Here's your peppermint mocha. 256 00:19:19,743 --> 00:19:22,287 I appreciate it. That is great. WOMAN 5: Enjoy. 257 00:19:22,370 --> 00:19:26,791 I'm casting a wider net, So, I can meet the future Mrs. Mack. 258 00:19:26,875 --> 00:19:28,585 But I need a little help. 259 00:19:38,178 --> 00:19:39,304 Hello. 260 00:19:40,722 --> 00:19:42,432 Yes. Yes, yes. 261 00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:44,434 Uh-huh can you see me? 262 00:19:45,477 --> 00:19:46,519 Yeah hi. 263 00:19:47,771 --> 00:19:50,273 Oh I'm doing good, wow you look beautiful. 264 00:19:57,989 --> 00:20:01,993 Kateryna is a professional matchmaker. 265 00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:06,748 And so I'm leaving for Ukraine in five days 266 00:20:06,831 --> 00:20:09,793 and she's gonna help me find the love of my life. 267 00:20:19,594 --> 00:20:23,640 I am interested in Ukrainian women 268 00:20:23,723 --> 00:20:27,268 because Ukrainian women are articulate, motivated, 269 00:20:27,352 --> 00:20:30,021 intelligent, smart, funny, 270 00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:34,567 you know, they're, they care about the man for himself, 271 00:20:34,651 --> 00:20:36,695 and not about his looks or anything. 272 00:20:36,778 --> 00:20:38,822 They care about his soul. 273 00:20:48,289 --> 00:20:51,793 In the past, when I was with my ex-girlfriend, 274 00:20:51,876 --> 00:20:53,670 you know Maria, she had felt like 275 00:20:53,753 --> 00:20:56,006 she was just pretty much taking advantage of me, 276 00:20:56,089 --> 00:20:58,717 and thinking that all American men had money. 277 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,427 So, since that didn't work out, 278 00:21:00,510 --> 00:21:02,512 I wanted to come to a trained professional 279 00:21:02,595 --> 00:21:03,972 that can match me up, 280 00:21:04,055 --> 00:21:07,392 with somebody that I can really build a relationship with. 281 00:21:07,475 --> 00:21:09,811 You know it's like, if you feel you're crazy 282 00:21:09,894 --> 00:21:12,939 and you just need to talk to somebody that's a doctor. 283 00:21:13,023 --> 00:21:14,774 (LAUGHS) 284 00:21:22,490 --> 00:21:25,243 You know they really don't worry about looks or anything, 285 00:21:25,326 --> 00:21:27,746 I mean, I know I'm handsome, I'm sexy already. 286 00:21:27,829 --> 00:21:29,414 you know what I mean. But, 287 00:21:29,497 --> 00:21:32,959 I feel that they really don't, they really don't care about looks, 288 00:21:33,043 --> 00:21:36,254 they just want somebody to treat them right, love them. 289 00:21:46,765 --> 00:21:48,350 OK, all right. 290 00:21:48,433 --> 00:21:52,103 You can choose those ladies you like. 291 00:22:08,078 --> 00:22:09,954 OK, I think that's gonna be awesome. 292 00:22:11,539 --> 00:22:14,084 Kateryna is gonna send me some profiles 293 00:22:14,167 --> 00:22:16,503 that she thinks are the best matches for me. 294 00:22:16,586 --> 00:22:18,338 And then at the meet and greet, 295 00:22:18,421 --> 00:22:21,925 I can actually meet these ladies in real life and not online. 296 00:22:22,008 --> 00:22:24,552 When you see them in person you kind of know, 297 00:22:24,636 --> 00:22:26,012 if they're not into you, 298 00:22:26,096 --> 00:22:29,349 you can kind of get in tune and get some charisma going on 299 00:22:29,432 --> 00:22:32,435 between both you guys, and see if you guys can gel together. 300 00:22:32,519 --> 00:22:35,230 Hopefully I'll have more luck with Kateryna 301 00:22:35,313 --> 00:22:38,316 because she's doing all the legwork for me. 302 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,985 Now how is the situation in Ukraine right now? 303 00:22:41,069 --> 00:22:42,821 Is it OK, is it safe? 304 00:22:45,407 --> 00:22:47,200 No, I heard something going on... 305 00:22:49,953 --> 00:22:51,037 Oh, yeah. 306 00:23:02,841 --> 00:23:04,884 OK great, gotcha. I'm ready. 307 00:23:20,483 --> 00:23:21,609 Uh-huh. 308 00:23:22,902 --> 00:23:25,238 MACK: This trip to Ukraine is not cheap. 309 00:23:25,321 --> 00:23:27,991 You know, I still have to pay for the flight, 310 00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:32,245 the hotel cost and Kateryna's services. 311 00:23:32,328 --> 00:23:35,457 I'm really trying to get my life straight from Maria. 312 00:23:37,584 --> 00:23:42,589 Even if it's me working extra hours seven days a week, it's worth it. 313 00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:47,010 OK, bye-bye. I appreciate it. 314 00:23:48,595 --> 00:23:51,139 I'll do whatever it takes for me to find love. 315 00:23:52,599 --> 00:23:55,352 I'm going to Ukraine, I'm gonna find a woman. 316 00:23:55,435 --> 00:23:58,438 I'm bringing her back to the United States to be my wife. 317 00:24:04,152 --> 00:24:07,030 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING) 318 00:24:21,503 --> 00:24:23,672 # Don't it feel so good 319 00:24:25,256 --> 00:24:31,262 # Don't it feel so good to be alive Don't it feel so good 320 00:24:32,722 --> 00:24:36,434 # Don't it feel so good To be alive # 321 00:24:36,518 --> 00:24:40,397 I'm Debbie. I'm from Las Vegas, I'm 69 years old. 322 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,982 And I'm not looking to be in the friend zone. 323 00:24:43,066 --> 00:24:44,192 Mm-mm. 324 00:24:46,152 --> 00:24:51,533 Let's see, brand new, brand new. 325 00:24:51,616 --> 00:24:54,244 Six months ago, I decided to change everything about me. 326 00:24:58,039 --> 00:25:02,460 Because I just started dating for the first time in 40 years. 327 00:25:03,628 --> 00:25:06,840 Oh yeah, that's trash. 328 00:25:07,966 --> 00:25:10,343 I'm gonna be 70 years old this year. 329 00:25:10,427 --> 00:25:13,096 I have people that say what's this bitch doing? 330 00:25:13,179 --> 00:25:16,349 What does she think, she's gonna get out there 70 years old? 331 00:25:16,433 --> 00:25:18,309 You're fucking right I am. 332 00:25:19,769 --> 00:25:22,439 I'll have to figure it out, what I wanna wear. 333 00:25:24,024 --> 00:25:27,902 Purple sweatshirt, no not very sexy. 334 00:25:28,903 --> 00:25:31,322 I've been single for 13 years. 335 00:25:31,406 --> 00:25:33,825 I decided, I wanna make up for lost time, 336 00:25:33,908 --> 00:25:35,910 because my husband passed away. 337 00:25:35,994 --> 00:25:40,040 Since then, I've dedicated my life to my adult son Colt, 338 00:25:40,123 --> 00:25:42,709 who lived with me all of his life. 339 00:25:42,792 --> 00:25:45,754 But things right now are not that good between us. 340 00:25:45,837 --> 00:25:48,673 It all started when Colt and his wife Vanessa 341 00:25:48,757 --> 00:25:51,551 blindsided me about them leaving me. 342 00:25:51,634 --> 00:25:53,762 We're gonna move out in three months. 343 00:25:53,845 --> 00:25:55,638 Well thanks for sharing this with me. 344 00:25:57,474 --> 00:26:00,810 And Colt just got more and more angry with me. 345 00:26:01,895 --> 00:26:04,898 I am 36 years old, stop treating me like I'm a kid. 346 00:26:04,981 --> 00:26:08,360 It's just crazy, do this, do that, go get my bag, do this. 347 00:26:08,443 --> 00:26:12,405 If our door's closed, ''Hey, Colt, hey, Colt'' It's non-stop. 348 00:26:13,907 --> 00:26:14,991 We're done. 349 00:26:16,368 --> 00:26:18,370 The way they treated me was so hurtful. 350 00:26:18,453 --> 00:26:20,163 I can't help but feeling betrayed. 351 00:26:20,246 --> 00:26:24,000 He and I have problems, and I don't know that we can work them out. 352 00:26:24,084 --> 00:26:26,294 And for now I'm alone. 353 00:26:26,378 --> 00:26:29,047 But there's so much more to me than Colt's mum. 354 00:26:29,130 --> 00:26:31,299 I want my own life now. 355 00:26:31,383 --> 00:26:35,303 I'm looking for a relationship, I'm putting myself out there, 356 00:26:45,647 --> 00:26:49,317 I do have to say that I didn't feel a love connection. OK? 357 00:26:54,698 --> 00:26:58,743 I really hate to cut this short, but I have to get up early for work. 358 00:27:00,620 --> 00:27:01,788 (GASPS) 359 00:27:01,871 --> 00:27:06,459 (BLEEP) married. Wow. Son of a bitch. 360 00:27:08,044 --> 00:27:09,254 Woo... 361 00:27:11,214 --> 00:27:12,507 Sexy. 362 00:27:13,550 --> 00:27:15,552 I really wanna find the type of love, 363 00:27:15,635 --> 00:27:18,596 I've only felt once before with my late husband, Harley. 364 00:27:20,390 --> 00:27:23,476 When I met Harley, I was 31 years old, 365 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,813 I went into the bar and I just knew he was the one. 366 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,319 And we sat down and talked for a couple of hours. 367 00:27:33,403 --> 00:27:37,824 And destiny. I went home with him that night, 368 00:27:37,907 --> 00:27:39,993 stayed with him for a couple of weeks. 369 00:27:40,076 --> 00:27:41,578 We got married six months later. 370 00:27:48,376 --> 00:27:51,546 Until he passed away 13 years ago. 371 00:27:51,629 --> 00:27:54,591 My husband and I had a great relationship. 372 00:27:54,674 --> 00:27:57,385 He was a great father, he was a great provider, 373 00:27:57,469 --> 00:27:59,346 he loved... 374 00:28:00,847 --> 00:28:04,309 Hello. We had at one time... 375 00:28:08,188 --> 00:28:09,731 Stay. 376 00:28:09,814 --> 00:28:11,399 Uh-oh, there goes Cookie. 377 00:28:11,483 --> 00:28:14,194 The day came, when we had to take them back. 378 00:28:14,277 --> 00:28:15,528 So, they could be adopted. 379 00:28:20,408 --> 00:28:21,826 So, I said that's fine. 380 00:28:23,036 --> 00:28:25,538 Besides my five cats that are alive here, we have... 381 00:28:27,374 --> 00:28:29,417 We had them cremated. 382 00:28:29,501 --> 00:28:31,920 Then we have Harley. 383 00:28:41,846 --> 00:28:43,098 But right now, 384 00:28:43,181 --> 00:28:46,309 I'm keeping all the cats and Harley's ashes altogether, 385 00:28:46,393 --> 00:28:48,603 because I think, Harley would really like that. 386 00:28:50,313 --> 00:28:51,481 So, this is, 387 00:28:52,649 --> 00:28:55,193 Harley, really heavy but yeah. 388 00:28:59,572 --> 00:29:03,618 After Harley passed away, it was difficult. 389 00:29:03,702 --> 00:29:05,578 I was 56 years old, 390 00:29:12,877 --> 00:29:14,421 I just didn't feel... 391 00:29:16,089 --> 00:29:17,674 ..ready to. 392 00:29:17,757 --> 00:29:19,676 But after 13 years, 393 00:29:19,759 --> 00:29:22,512 I don't wanna be alone, I wanna fall in love. 394 00:29:22,595 --> 00:29:25,849 I need love now. And that's for damn sure. 395 00:29:27,434 --> 00:29:31,271 # That body work it, work it # 396 00:29:32,272 --> 00:29:34,149 DEBBIE: The more I get out there, 397 00:29:34,482 --> 00:29:36,609 and though I've been having really bad dates, 398 00:29:36,693 --> 00:29:38,403 I have a lot more confidence. 399 00:29:38,486 --> 00:29:40,488 And I'm feeling more like my old self. 400 00:29:44,117 --> 00:29:46,161 I like a man that's six foot one, 401 00:29:46,244 --> 00:29:48,830 preferably with some hair, that would be nice. 402 00:29:52,417 --> 00:29:55,462 What turns me on the most is the way he compliments me. 403 00:29:55,545 --> 00:29:56,671 I get twinges, 404 00:29:56,755 --> 00:30:01,176 if that man can do those twinges, damn, I can date that. 405 00:30:01,259 --> 00:30:04,637 I can also take him home and have a good time with him. 406 00:30:07,390 --> 00:30:08,933 Woo-hoo. 407 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,276 Battery operated boyfriend, Bob. 408 00:30:20,945 --> 00:30:24,699 But it's not the same thing as a real human being. 409 00:30:24,783 --> 00:30:27,911 I guess sometimes it could be better, I don't know. 410 00:30:27,994 --> 00:30:29,579 Depends on the person you're with. 411 00:30:32,791 --> 00:30:34,584 Perfect, thank you. Thank you. 412 00:30:35,627 --> 00:30:38,213 For an old broad, you can still move it huh? 413 00:30:38,296 --> 00:30:40,298 WOMAN 6: Yeah, very good. WOMAN 7: Yeah. 414 00:30:42,175 --> 00:30:43,677 Yeah, I know. 415 00:30:44,678 --> 00:30:46,805 Woo, nice ass, dude. 416 00:30:46,888 --> 00:30:48,306 (LAUGHS) 417 00:30:48,390 --> 00:30:49,766 Oh, my God. 418 00:30:50,809 --> 00:30:55,188 Debbie since I've known her, she's really blossomed a lot. 419 00:30:55,271 --> 00:30:58,274 And she's even getting more adventurous. 420 00:30:58,358 --> 00:31:01,611 Hello there, how are you? Awesome, fantastic. 421 00:31:01,695 --> 00:31:03,655 I need a cocktail. 422 00:31:03,738 --> 00:31:07,826 She's taking more pride in herself and she looks great, 423 00:31:07,909 --> 00:31:10,078 and when she looks great, she feels great. 424 00:31:10,161 --> 00:31:11,788 She's sparkling tonight. 425 00:31:11,871 --> 00:31:14,165 In more than one sense of the word, huh? 426 00:31:14,249 --> 00:31:15,792 (LAUGHS) 427 00:31:16,876 --> 00:31:19,754 Let's get down to it Debbie, get down to it. 428 00:31:24,009 --> 00:31:27,137 Yes. Oh, really? Yeah. 429 00:31:28,555 --> 00:31:32,434 He's cute, he has a nice voice, he's very sweet. 430 00:31:34,060 --> 00:31:35,478 And that's what I want. 431 00:31:38,314 --> 00:31:40,567 I have a friend who lives in Canada. 432 00:31:40,650 --> 00:31:42,068 And she messaged me 433 00:31:42,152 --> 00:31:45,155 that her landlord, Tony, and I would be perfect for each other. 434 00:31:45,238 --> 00:31:47,157 So, I said OK. 435 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,826 And pretty soon we were on the phone talking further. 436 00:31:49,909 --> 00:31:51,995 We haven't video chatted, 437 00:31:52,078 --> 00:31:54,414 but I know, I already really do like him. 438 00:31:58,209 --> 00:32:01,880 So potential then? Yeah, I really like him. 439 00:32:01,963 --> 00:32:05,050 He's really easy to talk to. He's a gentleman. 440 00:32:05,133 --> 00:32:07,260 He's very caring. Oh, that's great. Yeah. 441 00:32:14,267 --> 00:32:16,311 No just texting. No... 442 00:32:18,271 --> 00:32:21,274 We're just texting. I have too much self-respect. 443 00:32:23,401 --> 00:32:24,652 Yeah, right. 444 00:32:28,031 --> 00:32:29,866 Or we don't do phone sex. 445 00:32:29,949 --> 00:32:33,495 Because when he says something kind of sexual, I get twinges. 446 00:32:33,578 --> 00:32:36,373 And I'll tell him, you better stop talking like that 447 00:32:36,456 --> 00:32:38,667 because I hear Bob in my drawer screaming, 448 00:32:38,750 --> 00:32:41,336 let me out, let me out, let me out. 449 00:32:43,421 --> 00:32:45,173 Tony asked me not to use Bob 450 00:32:45,256 --> 00:32:47,801 because he said it would be cheating on him. 451 00:32:54,265 --> 00:32:56,309 So tomorrow, we have a date planned... 452 00:32:58,228 --> 00:33:00,271 Oh, really? Yeah. 453 00:33:01,564 --> 00:33:05,110 I'm excited like a teenager. 454 00:33:05,443 --> 00:33:09,614 We have a date on video chat. Talking on the phone and texting, 455 00:33:09,698 --> 00:33:12,992 is totally different than seeing someone on video chat. 456 00:33:13,076 --> 00:33:15,078 That's when you find out, 457 00:33:15,161 --> 00:33:17,997 some kind of a connection when you're face to face. 458 00:33:18,081 --> 00:33:20,000 So yeah, I'm very nervous 459 00:33:20,083 --> 00:33:24,921 but also really excited to see him for the first time. 460 00:33:25,005 --> 00:33:26,256 So, yeah. 461 00:33:29,759 --> 00:33:33,430 I'm hopeful, I really would like this to work, I really would. 462 00:33:33,513 --> 00:33:36,266 I really would because he's really a nice guy, 463 00:33:36,349 --> 00:33:37,684 we get along really well. 464 00:33:51,823 --> 00:33:53,199 DEBBIE: I'm turning 70, 465 00:33:53,283 --> 00:33:56,786 and it would be nice to celebrate my 70th birthday 466 00:33:56,870 --> 00:33:59,831 with the person that's close to my heart. 467 00:33:59,914 --> 00:34:01,458 And good in bed, no. 468 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,755 I'd like to fall in love for the last time. 469 00:34:06,838 --> 00:34:11,009 And I wanna spend the rest of my life with someone cares about me 470 00:34:11,092 --> 00:34:12,344 as much as Harley did. 471 00:34:12,427 --> 00:34:14,220 I just hope Tony's that guy. 472 00:34:17,265 --> 00:34:17,526 2 00:32:53.840 -- 00:32:58.800 align:middle line:90% position:50% # I wanna a little bit more I wanna a little bit more 473 00:34:23,396 --> 00:34:26,399 # I wanna a little bit more I wanna a little bit more # 474 00:34:33,323 --> 00:34:35,158 OK, what should I wear? 475 00:34:35,241 --> 00:34:37,077 I have black.. 476 00:34:38,328 --> 00:34:39,662 ..this I like a lot, 477 00:35:12,612 --> 00:35:13,697 Whatever. 478 00:35:14,864 --> 00:35:15,907 Mm-hm. 479 00:35:17,033 --> 00:35:20,745 Oh God, I just hope that my... 480 00:35:28,420 --> 00:35:30,046 Because I am. I'm cute. 481 00:35:36,094 --> 00:35:37,345 I'm ready to go. 482 00:36:07,917 --> 00:36:09,252 JOSH: Natalie flew in earlier, 483 00:36:10,587 --> 00:36:13,381 this anticipation of seeing Natalie again, 484 00:36:13,465 --> 00:36:15,216 giving her a hug, holding her. 485 00:36:16,301 --> 00:36:18,845 I know that she's wanted to spend time with me, 486 00:36:18,928 --> 00:36:21,848 so... I'm hoping it's like, 487 00:36:21,931 --> 00:36:24,684 where we left off, like when we last saw each other. 488 00:36:46,206 --> 00:36:47,374 Hi. 489 00:36:48,500 --> 00:36:51,252 Hi. I'm sorry. 490 00:36:51,336 --> 00:36:53,088 (CHUCKLES) 491 00:36:55,131 --> 00:36:58,009 You look great. Thank you, I'm cold. You look beautiful. 492 00:36:58,093 --> 00:37:00,303 Cold, I have brought something for you. 493 00:37:07,602 --> 00:37:09,646 You look really good. 494 00:37:35,213 --> 00:37:38,591 We're gonna go on these swan boats. 495 00:37:38,675 --> 00:37:40,927 And pedal, are you ready for that? Yes. 496 00:37:43,763 --> 00:37:46,516 Here you go. 497 00:37:46,599 --> 00:37:47,642 I can't. 498 00:37:47,726 --> 00:37:50,228 That's OK, I'll help you down. Don't worry about it. 499 00:37:50,311 --> 00:37:52,355 OK, careful, careful. 500 00:37:53,940 --> 00:37:54,983 You are, 501 00:37:56,860 --> 00:37:57,902 You look great. 502 00:37:57,986 --> 00:37:59,612 You look, I'm gonna tell you, 503 00:37:59,696 --> 00:38:01,448 you're gonna be the most beautiful girl 504 00:38:01,531 --> 00:38:03,742 on this actual boat ride ever. 505 00:38:19,924 --> 00:38:21,259 And I'm like fuck, 506 00:38:22,594 --> 00:38:24,012 so fucking desperate... 507 00:38:27,223 --> 00:38:30,643 This is gonna be your seat here. OK. All right? 508 00:38:32,020 --> 00:38:34,522 I got it, I got it. OK. Here. 509 00:38:34,606 --> 00:38:37,150 (CHUCKLES) 510 00:38:43,782 --> 00:38:45,533 You got it? OK, I feel better. 511 00:38:45,617 --> 00:38:48,411 Here we go. Don't tell me I have to do it. 512 00:38:48,495 --> 00:38:50,830 We'll figure it out here in a second. 513 00:38:53,792 --> 00:38:56,127 You know, I've actually never done this thing before. 514 00:38:58,088 --> 00:38:59,130 All right. 515 00:39:00,757 --> 00:39:01,841 Here we go. 516 00:39:01,925 --> 00:39:03,259 (LAUGHS) 517 00:39:07,305 --> 00:39:08,348 JOSH: Huh? 518 00:39:11,351 --> 00:39:13,770 (LAUGHS) 519 00:39:17,565 --> 00:39:18,608 No. 520 00:39:40,797 --> 00:39:41,923 I don't know. 521 00:39:43,091 --> 00:39:45,010 JOSH: How's that? Is that OK? 522 00:39:45,093 --> 00:39:47,303 Yes, I have on... Be careful. 523 00:39:48,596 --> 00:39:51,266 Can I just, no, I calmed down, thank you. 524 00:39:52,851 --> 00:39:55,854 Luckily, I was in the navy and I know how to pedal. 525 00:39:55,937 --> 00:39:57,397 What? 526 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,399 (LAUGHS) 527 00:40:03,153 --> 00:40:05,655 And I was like I should actually be with him, 528 00:40:05,739 --> 00:40:08,908 you know like show him, being equal I can also do but... 529 00:40:15,957 --> 00:40:18,501 JOSH: That was fun, we had a good time, thanks. 530 00:40:21,504 --> 00:40:24,215 I think the chemistry is definitely still there. 531 00:40:24,299 --> 00:40:26,801 And I think that it's actually stronger than ever. 532 00:40:26,885 --> 00:40:30,388 After the boat ride, I wanted to just go have a quick drink 533 00:40:30,472 --> 00:40:32,098 and just kind of reconnect. 534 00:40:32,182 --> 00:40:33,975 I'm hoping that we have good times 535 00:40:34,059 --> 00:40:35,602 and some really good conversations. 536 00:40:40,899 --> 00:40:45,487 It's been a long, long time, like a big build up... 537 00:40:45,570 --> 00:40:46,821 ..to see you. 538 00:40:46,905 --> 00:40:49,866 Like I was like really, I was excited to see you. 539 00:40:50,992 --> 00:40:52,410 Were you? Yeah. 540 00:40:52,494 --> 00:40:53,745 (LAUGHS) 541 00:40:55,163 --> 00:40:58,166 Oh my God, I knew it, thank you. Thank you. 542 00:41:03,463 --> 00:41:04,798 Yeah? 543 00:41:10,762 --> 00:41:11,805 OK. 544 00:41:19,813 --> 00:41:21,523 You can hypnotise me? Yes. 545 00:41:22,524 --> 00:41:25,610 I would love for you to try. OK. Later. 546 00:41:25,694 --> 00:41:28,446 What do I have to do though? Are you gonna... 547 00:41:31,324 --> 00:41:33,076 Is that what happens? You turn your, 548 00:41:33,159 --> 00:41:35,328 you turn your men into cats, don't you? 549 00:41:41,126 --> 00:41:42,168 OK. 550 00:41:42,252 --> 00:41:44,504 (LAUGHS) 551 00:41:45,797 --> 00:41:47,716 Thank you. Of course. 552 00:41:52,804 --> 00:41:53,847 Come. 553 00:41:56,850 --> 00:41:58,351 And most important... 554 00:42:23,501 --> 00:42:27,505 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING) 555 00:42:27,589 --> 00:42:29,341 # It's up to you 556 00:42:30,925 --> 00:42:32,761 # I've been waiting for you 557 00:42:32,844 --> 00:42:35,388 # To make a move 558 00:42:35,472 --> 00:42:40,477 # Yeah it's up to you yeah # 559 00:42:46,441 --> 00:42:48,151 I'm leaving for Ukraine tomorrow, 560 00:42:48,234 --> 00:42:50,487 but I'm watching the news, hearing about tensions 561 00:42:50,570 --> 00:42:52,489 between Russia and Ukraine. 562 00:42:56,159 --> 00:42:59,662 I really need to make sure that it's OK for me to go there. 563 00:43:01,539 --> 00:43:03,041 I've been looking at the news, 564 00:43:03,124 --> 00:43:05,377 and I've been seeing a lot of concerning articles 565 00:43:05,460 --> 00:43:07,003 that are coming up right now. 566 00:43:08,588 --> 00:43:13,176 NATO schedules special meeting with Russia and Ukraine crisis. 567 00:43:16,262 --> 00:43:18,848 Russia is around the perimeter of Ukraine 568 00:43:18,932 --> 00:43:20,642 and they're doing exercises. 569 00:43:22,894 --> 00:43:24,521 Man, that sounds dangerous. 570 00:43:24,604 --> 00:43:25,647 But, you know, 571 00:43:25,730 --> 00:43:29,234 I'm seeing a lot of other articles about them working it out. 572 00:43:29,317 --> 00:43:32,320 You know, I feel like I talked to the matchmaker, 573 00:43:32,404 --> 00:43:33,863 you know, she lives there. 574 00:43:33,947 --> 00:43:37,701 She told me that everything is OK and, you know, Kyiv is fine 575 00:43:37,784 --> 00:43:39,327 and everything is safe. 576 00:43:41,871 --> 00:43:46,042 I'm almost going to be 50 years old. I feel like time has passed me by. 577 00:43:46,126 --> 00:43:50,130 I don't wanna spend another year of my life being single and alone. 578 00:43:50,213 --> 00:43:51,464 So, this is it. 579 00:43:53,216 --> 00:43:55,719 I'm just gonna still go to Ukraine, 580 00:43:55,802 --> 00:43:58,930 because the woman of my dreams is out there. 581 00:43:59,973 --> 00:44:03,893 If I don't go now, there might not be another time that I can go. 582 00:44:16,698 --> 00:44:18,408 What's up? Oh, hi, Caesar. 583 00:44:18,491 --> 00:44:22,454 How you doing? How you doing? Doing all right. 584 00:44:22,537 --> 00:44:25,582 I'm so excited, I'm leaving for Ukraine tomorrow 585 00:44:25,665 --> 00:44:28,209 and finally I get to meet some of the women 586 00:44:28,293 --> 00:44:30,628 that the matchmaker set me up with. 587 00:44:30,712 --> 00:44:33,631 That way I can find my Mrs Right. 588 00:44:33,715 --> 00:44:34,758 Yeah. 589 00:44:35,884 --> 00:44:38,636 And so I asked my friend April to meet up 590 00:44:38,720 --> 00:44:43,183 and help me go over profiles that the matchmaker had sent me. 591 00:44:43,266 --> 00:44:45,769 So, that way I can kind of get April's input. 592 00:44:45,852 --> 00:44:47,604 Are these like all of you matches? 593 00:44:47,687 --> 00:44:49,439 These are the candidates right here, OK? 594 00:44:49,522 --> 00:44:51,691 Oh, good lord. There's a lot of them. 595 00:44:51,775 --> 00:44:54,694 I trust April's opinion. 596 00:44:54,778 --> 00:44:58,656 She has that female intuition to give me good advice. 597 00:44:58,740 --> 00:44:59,991 You know, womanly advice. 598 00:45:00,075 --> 00:45:03,119 And you know, sometimes I think a man needs that. 599 00:45:03,203 --> 00:45:06,247 Oh, so that's one? What's her name? OK, let me go back. 600 00:45:06,331 --> 00:45:10,168 Katrina. That says there Katarina. 601 00:45:11,336 --> 00:45:14,089 Yeah, yeah, that's what I said. Katarina. 602 00:45:16,466 --> 00:45:18,301 What does her profile say? 603 00:45:18,385 --> 00:45:19,928 Single and ready for Caesar. 604 00:45:20,011 --> 00:45:21,930 Single and ready for Caesar? Heck yeah. 605 00:45:23,056 --> 00:45:26,518 And look it. She says, she likes washing dishes. 606 00:45:26,601 --> 00:45:28,144 I don't have to clean nothing. 607 00:45:28,228 --> 00:45:30,480 That's not what it says. What does it say? 608 00:45:30,563 --> 00:45:33,274 ..do you like to cook? Which dishes? 609 00:45:33,358 --> 00:45:35,193 (LAUGHS) 610 00:45:35,276 --> 00:45:36,611 Washing dishes. 611 00:45:38,238 --> 00:45:40,198 Look at this one. 612 00:45:40,281 --> 00:45:42,742 The hair? Oh, that's gold right there. 613 00:45:44,202 --> 00:45:45,578 She's pretty. 614 00:45:45,662 --> 00:45:47,205 You can't know anything by looking. 615 00:45:47,288 --> 00:45:49,749 They could have the personality of a rock. 616 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,169 Yeah. 617 00:45:53,253 --> 00:45:56,089 What makes any of these girls different from Maria? 618 00:45:56,172 --> 00:45:58,425 Are they all supposed to be looking for love 619 00:45:58,508 --> 00:46:00,343 or are they looking for an American? 620 00:46:00,427 --> 00:46:03,513 How do you know that this site isn't a scam? 621 00:46:03,596 --> 00:46:04,931 Because the matchmaker, 622 00:46:05,015 --> 00:46:07,517 we actually talked, had a conversation. 623 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,811 It's not gonna be nothing like Maria. 624 00:46:11,730 --> 00:46:14,816 Dating Maria, he just got scammed out of a lot of money. 625 00:46:14,899 --> 00:46:19,279 He was sad and depressed and just not himself. 626 00:46:19,362 --> 00:46:22,365 And I just don't want to see him go through that again. 627 00:46:22,449 --> 00:46:25,910 I know that Caesar really appreciates my honesty. 628 00:46:25,994 --> 00:46:27,620 Because you know, like before, 629 00:46:27,704 --> 00:46:29,956 everybody just told him what he wanted to hear 630 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,666 and they smiled in his face 631 00:46:31,750 --> 00:46:33,835 and they talked about him behind his back. 632 00:46:33,918 --> 00:46:37,088 And he knows that I'm gonna tell him the truth. 633 00:46:37,172 --> 00:46:38,381 It's a dating agency. 634 00:46:38,465 --> 00:46:41,593 I can go down there and meet the person in person. 635 00:46:41,676 --> 00:46:43,928 You're going to Ukraine? Yeah I'm going to Ukraine. 636 00:46:44,012 --> 00:46:46,931 The Ukrainians don't even want to be in Ukraine right now. 637 00:46:47,015 --> 00:46:51,394 Russia is at the border. Like ready to invade them. 638 00:46:52,395 --> 00:46:54,189 You know I watch the news, 639 00:46:54,272 --> 00:46:57,525 and the matchmaker said everything is totally safe. 640 00:46:57,609 --> 00:47:00,737 So, I'm pretty sure that I'm gonna be safe. 641 00:47:00,820 --> 00:47:02,364 Why not get an American? 642 00:47:03,448 --> 00:47:05,033 Because I tried it already. 643 00:47:05,116 --> 00:47:08,828 None, if I would have went to one of these girls right here, 644 00:47:08,912 --> 00:47:10,955 nobody would have gave me their phone number. 645 00:47:12,123 --> 00:47:15,210 It's been like two years after Maria, and now I'm just trying, 646 00:47:15,293 --> 00:47:17,295 trying to try and get my life back. 647 00:47:17,379 --> 00:47:21,341 But I'm really looking for somebody that, that, that loves me. 648 00:47:22,676 --> 00:47:26,805 I feel like by me going to Ukraine and meet them face to face 649 00:47:26,888 --> 00:47:28,139 and get to see them. 650 00:47:28,223 --> 00:47:30,392 And then they can see if they like me. 651 00:47:30,475 --> 00:47:33,728 I want you to be careful. I don't want you to get hurt, 652 00:47:34,062 --> 00:47:36,398 and if you want somebody that's gonna love you, 653 00:47:36,481 --> 00:47:39,359 you have to quit going for the wrong things. 654 00:47:39,442 --> 00:47:42,946 Yeah. You know? It's, it's gonna work out. 655 00:47:43,029 --> 00:47:47,659 I wish I could find a man to love me as much as you love these strangers. 656 00:47:47,742 --> 00:47:49,160 (LAUGHS) 657 00:47:50,704 --> 00:47:52,455 I know April's really worried about me, 658 00:47:52,539 --> 00:47:54,582 you know, going on this trip. 659 00:47:54,666 --> 00:47:57,544 But the way I feel is nothing's get in my way. 660 00:47:57,627 --> 00:48:00,755 All right, April. OK. Let me know, if you need anything, OK? 661 00:48:00,839 --> 00:48:04,467 And be careful, please. OK, I will. All right. All right. 662 00:48:04,551 --> 00:48:06,052 I have a plan in place 663 00:48:06,136 --> 00:48:09,431 and I have a matchmaker backing me up all the way. 664 00:48:09,514 --> 00:48:11,141 I'm ready to take the risk 665 00:48:11,224 --> 00:48:13,727 and find my soulmate in Ukraine 666 00:48:13,810 --> 00:48:15,937 and bring her back to the United States. 667 00:48:20,817 --> 00:48:21,078 2 00:46:30.720 -- 00:46:34.000 align:middle line:90% position:50% # I'm feeling so good I can't even take it 668 00:48:34,456 --> 00:48:37,959 # The dancefloor is pumping We about to shake it 669 00:48:39,336 --> 00:48:43,131 # This is what I call The good life # 670 00:48:43,214 --> 00:48:45,550 (LAUGHS) 671 00:48:52,515 --> 00:48:55,810 I'm Tania. I'm 32 years old and I'm from Connecticut. 672 00:48:58,021 --> 00:49:00,190 But I'm currently in Aruba. 673 00:49:01,775 --> 00:49:04,027 I came to Aruba a couple of months ago 674 00:49:04,110 --> 00:49:07,489 for my friend's birthday and I fell in love instantly. 675 00:49:07,572 --> 00:49:10,325 With the people, the culture and the island life. 676 00:49:11,826 --> 00:49:14,621 Plus they definitely do have some sexy men out here. 677 00:49:16,122 --> 00:49:17,707 Right now, Aruba's island vibes 678 00:49:17,791 --> 00:49:20,794 make it seem like a great place to heal a broken heart. 679 00:49:20,877 --> 00:49:22,253 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING) 680 00:49:27,258 --> 00:49:30,512 # Welcome to the ra cha cha cha 681 00:49:30,595 --> 00:49:34,891 # Shake it shake it woo woo Shake it shake it woo woo # 682 00:49:34,974 --> 00:49:38,061 TANIA: My husband and I separated seven months ago 683 00:49:38,311 --> 00:49:40,980 and I'm finding out who Tania is again. 684 00:49:41,064 --> 00:49:43,316 There was such a bond with Syngin and I. 685 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:47,362 So, I still need to fully process what happened. 686 00:49:47,445 --> 00:49:50,573 I'm just in this moment of wanting to just heal. 687 00:49:54,077 --> 00:49:58,832 Five years ago, I met Syngin at a bar in South Africa. 688 00:49:58,915 --> 00:50:03,211 I expected a one night stand and ended up staying for four months. 689 00:50:03,294 --> 00:50:05,880 And then from there, I applied for the K-1 visa. 690 00:50:05,964 --> 00:50:08,717 A year and a half later, he was in the States. 691 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,051 (LAUGHS) 692 00:50:10,135 --> 00:50:12,262 I don't know how to pop it. 693 00:50:14,097 --> 00:50:16,975 Three months after that, we were married. 694 00:50:17,058 --> 00:50:20,603 I hereby pronounce you husband and wife. 695 00:50:20,687 --> 00:50:23,732 You may kiss the bride. 696 00:50:25,191 --> 00:50:30,196 But his carefree lifestyle and obsession with being free 697 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,157 gave me so much stress and anxiety. 698 00:50:36,578 --> 00:50:38,997 I don't even worry about the future. 699 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,375 But I'm telling you though I don't have much more time. 700 00:50:42,459 --> 00:50:46,379 But no matter what I said or did, nothing changed. 701 00:50:46,463 --> 00:50:49,007 Nervous that you're going to come home drunk every night. 702 00:50:49,090 --> 00:50:50,592 And then you're gonna tell me, 703 00:50:50,675 --> 00:50:53,470 "oh, what babe, I just had a couple drinks." 704 00:50:53,553 --> 00:50:54,596 Exactly. 705 00:50:56,723 --> 00:51:00,060 But the biggest deal breaker was the fact 706 00:51:00,143 --> 00:51:03,271 that Syngin finally decided he didn't see himself having kids. 707 00:51:03,355 --> 00:51:04,731 I have decided... 708 00:51:07,150 --> 00:51:09,527 I don't want any children at all with anybody. 709 00:51:10,612 --> 00:51:14,032 Saying goodbye to Syngin was probably one of the hardest things, 710 00:51:14,115 --> 00:51:15,367 I ever had to do. 711 00:51:24,167 --> 00:51:27,587 Find happiness. Just be happy OK? 712 00:51:28,922 --> 00:51:30,340 I'll always love you. 713 00:51:31,675 --> 00:51:35,053 Even though, we love each other so much, 714 00:51:35,136 --> 00:51:38,932 love isn't enough to make a fulfilling marriage. 715 00:51:39,015 --> 00:51:40,600 Syngin really left me. 716 00:51:42,936 --> 00:51:45,438 That's why I chose to come to Aruba and just, 717 00:51:45,522 --> 00:51:48,316 start the process of letting go. 718 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,861 I'm gonna take my time and figure out where I'm going 719 00:51:51,945 --> 00:51:53,697 and what my next steps are. 720 00:51:57,367 --> 00:52:00,704 (UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING) 721 00:52:02,706 --> 00:52:05,166 The new Tania is broadening my horizons, 722 00:52:05,250 --> 00:52:07,210 because I just never have before. 723 00:52:10,797 --> 00:52:14,843 And I would love to just experiment, new pleasures. 724 00:52:17,512 --> 00:52:20,390 Syngin and I always talked about exploring things sexually, 725 00:52:20,473 --> 00:52:22,475 we talked about tantra, we talked about BDSM, 726 00:52:22,559 --> 00:52:26,104 we talked about kink, we talked about going to sex parties. 727 00:52:26,187 --> 00:52:29,691 But our relationship just never got strong enough to the point 728 00:52:29,774 --> 00:52:32,152 where we could go down the road exploring sex. 729 00:52:34,779 --> 00:52:38,408 My array of men that I like go anywhere 730 00:52:38,491 --> 00:52:43,913 from a man who wears suits five days a week to a mountain man. 731 00:52:43,997 --> 00:52:45,999 I've wanted to be with a bald guy, 732 00:52:46,082 --> 00:52:49,461 I've never licked a bald head before, that kind of turns me on. 733 00:52:49,544 --> 00:52:51,421 (LAUGHS) 734 00:52:51,504 --> 00:52:53,965 Beautiful, I love it. It was so nice. 735 00:52:54,049 --> 00:52:55,342 Right. 736 00:52:55,425 --> 00:52:59,971 But dating can be daunting. Where do I even start. 737 00:53:00,055 --> 00:53:04,601 I feel like I'm almost 25 again, but seven years later and I don't, 738 00:53:04,684 --> 00:53:05,852 it's scary. 739 00:53:05,935 --> 00:53:07,812 I wish like my next partner, 740 00:53:07,896 --> 00:53:10,440 I'm just gonna be somewhere, twist and ankle 741 00:53:10,523 --> 00:53:13,526 and he's gonna just come and save me and pick me up. 742 00:53:13,610 --> 00:53:16,363 We're just gonna look into each other's eyes and then boom, 743 00:53:16,446 --> 00:53:18,823 we're married and kids. Travelling the world together. 744 00:53:20,075 --> 00:53:21,534 Cheers. 745 00:53:22,911 --> 00:53:24,913 Always TANIA: Yes. 746 00:53:24,996 --> 00:53:27,332 I'm happy you're here. TANIA: Yeah. 747 00:53:27,415 --> 00:53:30,168 Literally feel a whole shift in my mood and my energy 748 00:53:30,251 --> 00:53:32,504 just being here in the warm and the sun, 749 00:53:32,587 --> 00:53:34,673 and the beach at night's like my favourite. 750 00:53:34,756 --> 00:53:37,509 Before my ex, like I used to travel during the winters, 751 00:53:37,592 --> 00:53:40,095 like I would leave Connecticut and live in other places 752 00:53:40,178 --> 00:53:41,221 for the wintertime. 753 00:53:41,304 --> 00:53:45,392 Let me go back to doing what I used to do. So, you feel in a way 754 00:53:45,475 --> 00:53:47,977 you're just trying to find your new self, 755 00:53:48,061 --> 00:53:51,815 by kind of returning to some of the things you used to do. 756 00:53:51,898 --> 00:53:54,984 Yeah, I feel like I went through the steps of like, 757 00:53:55,068 --> 00:53:56,778 denial, anger, depression. 758 00:53:56,861 --> 00:53:59,614 All the seven stages or whatever. TANIA: Yeah, I feel like, 759 00:53:59,698 --> 00:54:01,032 I've slowly been moving on. 760 00:54:01,116 --> 00:54:04,869 And now like, I wish, I had an Aruban bae, 761 00:54:04,953 --> 00:54:09,082 because it's lonely after being with someone for so long. 762 00:54:09,165 --> 00:54:12,168 I wanna cuddle and I want, I want somebody to be like 763 00:54:12,252 --> 00:54:14,462 hey, I'm coming over after work. OK cool. 764 00:54:14,546 --> 00:54:16,548 And that's where I'm struggling a little bit, 765 00:54:16,631 --> 00:54:18,883 because like I wanna date and have fun. 766 00:54:18,967 --> 00:54:22,470 But I do wanna find, like I do wanna be in love, 767 00:54:22,554 --> 00:54:24,305 and I do wanna have a family. 768 00:54:24,389 --> 00:54:27,142 But I also don't wanna wait six more years for it. 769 00:54:28,309 --> 00:54:30,270 Dating is just like weird to me. 770 00:54:31,521 --> 00:54:34,441 So, I'm not really good at dating. 771 00:54:34,524 --> 00:54:35,734 My best friend says... 772 00:54:40,196 --> 00:54:42,157 It's actually in my dating profile now. 773 00:54:45,952 --> 00:54:47,412 I'm looking for someone 774 00:54:47,495 --> 00:54:51,791 that I can be intellectually, spiritually, emotionally 775 00:54:51,875 --> 00:54:53,835 and physically compatible with. 776 00:54:55,003 --> 00:54:56,504 So, one thing you don't know, 777 00:54:56,588 --> 00:54:59,841 I met my ex, he was a bartender, while I was on vacation. 778 00:54:59,924 --> 00:55:03,553 And now I've met another bartender out here recently. 779 00:55:03,636 --> 00:55:05,930 And you're on vacation. And I'm on vacation. 780 00:55:06,014 --> 00:55:07,057 Right. 781 00:55:07,140 --> 00:55:09,517 Also we happened to match on a dating site. 782 00:55:09,601 --> 00:55:12,103 What does he look like? I wanna see a picture. 783 00:55:12,187 --> 00:55:14,189 Oh yeah, so I'm actually a little surprised, 784 00:55:14,272 --> 00:55:16,691 I like did swipe on him, he's so pretty. 785 00:55:17,942 --> 00:55:21,488 Wow, definitely cute. 786 00:55:21,571 --> 00:55:24,240 TANIA: He's so cute, but he's just so pretty. 787 00:55:25,408 --> 00:55:28,787 There's this hottie bartender that I matched online with. 788 00:55:28,870 --> 00:55:31,373 His name is Joel, he's 35, 789 00:55:31,456 --> 00:55:35,043 he actually is from Aruba but was living in the Netherlands 790 00:55:35,126 --> 00:55:36,836 for the past 16 years. 791 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,173 And recently just came back to the island to stay for good. 792 00:55:42,050 --> 00:55:45,095 Syngin was definitely rough, had this gruff rough. 793 00:55:45,178 --> 00:55:49,849 Where Joel is very pretty boy, like he has the muscles and stuff, 794 00:55:49,933 --> 00:55:54,229 but it's very clean cut, very fresh shaven. 795 00:55:54,312 --> 00:55:57,524 Like if the apocalypse happened, could he fight off zombies? 796 00:55:57,607 --> 00:56:00,485 Physically he might be able to, but like would he actually? 797 00:56:00,568 --> 00:56:01,736 I don't know. 798 00:56:02,862 --> 00:56:06,700 I just usually never go for like... It's not your typical man? 799 00:56:06,783 --> 00:56:08,535 It's part of the discovering, yeah. 800 00:56:08,618 --> 00:56:10,995 Yeah like, let myself try something new. 801 00:56:11,079 --> 00:56:13,331 There potential for a date? Yeah. 802 00:56:14,666 --> 00:56:17,752 we're gonna rent a Jeep, we're going to the national park. 803 00:56:17,836 --> 00:56:19,587 Love it. TANIA: I'm super excited. 804 00:56:19,671 --> 00:56:22,465 I heard the national park is absolutely beautiful. 805 00:56:22,549 --> 00:56:25,010 It's just, it's a little scary like... 806 00:56:25,093 --> 00:56:28,179 Well, I find someone who love me unconditionally like my ex did 807 00:56:28,263 --> 00:56:30,682 you know, that could be scary feeing? 808 00:56:30,765 --> 00:56:34,394 Our love was deep and real. Right. 809 00:56:34,477 --> 00:56:37,480 I could have 100% be myself around him. 810 00:56:37,564 --> 00:56:41,109 Will I find someone I can be that comfortable again? 811 00:56:41,192 --> 00:56:45,613 Now would you ever see yourself trying to find a person who can... 812 00:56:46,614 --> 00:56:47,657 keep up with you, 813 00:56:47,741 --> 00:56:51,244 or are you trying to find a person that you can keep up with? 814 00:56:51,327 --> 00:56:53,079 Yes, someone I can keep up with, 815 00:56:53,163 --> 00:56:56,624 I feel like my past, my ex and my ex-ex from, 816 00:56:56,708 --> 00:56:58,793 what, now like ten years ago. 817 00:56:58,877 --> 00:57:01,129 I feel like, I helped them level up. 818 00:57:02,339 --> 00:57:04,549 I want someone to help me level up. 819 00:57:04,632 --> 00:57:06,426 And it's like reciprocating. 820 00:57:06,509 --> 00:57:12,515 But I believe it's always good to discuss this before going deeper. 821 00:57:12,599 --> 00:57:14,684 Yeah. TANIA: You know? 822 00:57:14,768 --> 00:57:17,103 It's like after the sex, you can be like, 823 00:57:17,187 --> 00:57:18,855 "Hey, this is my vision." 824 00:57:18,938 --> 00:57:21,691 TANIA: Yeah. Do you like my vision? Or you know? 825 00:57:21,775 --> 00:57:23,777 And I think that's what happened last time, 826 00:57:23,860 --> 00:57:25,612 I fell in love with a dream. 827 00:57:25,695 --> 00:57:28,948 He would talk and say, what he envisioned for his future. 828 00:57:29,032 --> 00:57:31,534 this aligns so well with what I wanna do. 829 00:57:31,618 --> 00:57:33,912 But then I realised like I like, 830 00:57:33,995 --> 00:57:37,290 this is my dream, and now, here are my steps to get there. 831 00:57:37,374 --> 00:57:40,960 Yeah. VINCENT: Right. And he was like this is my dream. 832 00:57:41,044 --> 00:57:42,545 But there was no... 833 00:57:42,629 --> 00:57:45,548 I feel like boom understood yeah. TANIA: This is my dream. 834 00:57:45,632 --> 00:57:49,344 Yes, yes, yes, yes. It was, I'll somehow figure it out. 835 00:57:51,054 --> 00:57:53,348 One of my biggest fears is, 836 00:57:53,431 --> 00:57:56,351 I won't find someone who will love me 837 00:57:56,434 --> 00:57:58,770 as deep and as intense as Syngin did. 838 00:58:00,105 --> 00:58:02,107 But I can't let that hold me back, 839 00:58:02,190 --> 00:58:05,735 I need to open myself up and open myself up to the possibility 840 00:58:05,819 --> 00:58:09,197 of deeply and truly being loved. 841 00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:11,032 I just wanna see how he vibes. 842 00:58:11,116 --> 00:58:13,535 Like for me, it's all about vibes for me. 843 00:58:13,618 --> 00:58:17,372 The last guy, I met in a random country, I ended up marrying him. 844 00:58:17,455 --> 00:58:19,040 (LAUGHS) 845 00:58:21,376 --> 00:58:23,253 # You can be my flip flop 846 00:58:23,336 --> 00:58:26,881 # To the top. Don't you stop Shaking and rattle and roll 847 00:58:26,965 --> 00:58:32,554 # We gonna do it fine We're gonna go all night 848 00:58:32,637 --> 00:58:36,516 # We're gonna speed things up Dancing the night away # 849 00:58:38,601 --> 00:58:39,769 DEBBIE: OK. 850 00:58:43,023 --> 00:58:44,733 I'm putting on some make-up, 851 00:58:44,816 --> 00:58:46,985 because I wanna look sexy for Tony... 852 00:58:47,068 --> 00:58:49,863 because we're doing a video chat for the first time. 853 00:58:51,531 --> 00:58:53,241 Tony is a guy from Canada 854 00:58:53,324 --> 00:58:55,160 that I've met through a mutual friend. 855 00:58:56,453 --> 00:58:57,495 He's from... 856 00:59:05,211 --> 00:59:08,256 Tony does some kind of computer networking thing, 857 00:59:08,340 --> 00:59:09,424 I have no idea. 858 00:59:09,507 --> 00:59:11,009 But he works from home, 859 00:59:11,092 --> 00:59:15,430 he's 363 days younger than I am, so he calls me the older woman. 860 00:59:15,513 --> 00:59:18,350 That makes me a cougar and him a boy toy. 861 00:59:24,105 --> 00:59:28,276 Tony has a very dry sense of humour like I do, we are so much alike, 862 00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:30,612 it's really strange that we get along so well. 863 00:59:30,695 --> 00:59:35,283 I make him laugh, he makes me laugh, really crazy about each other. 864 00:59:36,910 --> 00:59:39,412 It's one thing to talk or text on the phone, 865 00:59:39,496 --> 00:59:42,040 but to do face to face is a little scary. 866 00:59:44,876 --> 00:59:47,128 But Tony suggested we have a video chat. 867 00:59:48,171 --> 00:59:49,673 So, I'm really nervous about it 868 00:59:49,756 --> 00:59:52,509 and I wanna come off natural and sweet, 869 00:59:52,592 --> 00:59:54,302 and give him a good impression. 870 00:59:56,096 --> 00:59:58,598 Even though, I sent him a recent photo of me, 871 00:59:58,682 --> 01:00:02,310 it's still different than doing a video chat. 872 01:00:02,394 --> 01:00:05,814 I hope he finds me hot, sexy, attractive, something. 873 01:00:08,525 --> 01:00:10,026 (RINGING) 874 01:00:12,654 --> 01:00:13,738 (SIGHS) 875 01:00:13,822 --> 01:00:15,490 So nervous. 876 01:00:24,916 --> 01:00:27,585 Hello. Hello. 877 01:00:30,130 --> 01:00:32,048 How are you doing? 878 01:00:32,132 --> 01:00:35,844 I'm doing great and it is great to finally see you, 879 01:00:35,927 --> 01:00:37,012 when we're talking. 880 01:00:37,095 --> 01:00:38,930 I know it's fantastic seeing you. 881 01:00:39,014 --> 01:00:41,266 I could do this all day long. 882 01:00:41,349 --> 01:00:43,810 Aw, you're a sweetheart. 883 01:00:43,893 --> 01:00:48,940 I think, you're blushing you know. Yes, I'm blushing. 884 01:00:49,024 --> 01:00:53,153 You're adorable. Really? Yeah, very sexy. 885 01:00:54,529 --> 01:00:56,156 Now, we're getting somewhere here. 886 01:01:00,452 --> 01:01:03,246 So, how long's your hair in the back, I wanna see? 887 01:01:03,329 --> 01:01:05,790 Oh, you mean this? Yeah. Yeah. 888 01:01:05,874 --> 01:01:10,253 It's been there forever. That's a turn on. 889 01:01:10,337 --> 01:01:12,964 (CHUCKLES) 890 01:01:13,048 --> 01:01:16,718 He looks like Santa Claus. Except smaller. 891 01:01:19,054 --> 01:01:21,681 Thinner, yeah, he has a white beard... 892 01:01:23,558 --> 01:01:25,435 ..white ponytail. 893 01:01:25,518 --> 01:01:28,229 And I wonder, what he has in his Christmas bag. 894 01:01:29,773 --> 01:01:31,191 Merry Christmas, Debbie. 895 01:01:31,274 --> 01:01:33,526 (LAUGHS) 896 01:01:34,903 --> 01:01:37,614 Oh, now you've got that librarian look. 897 01:01:37,697 --> 01:01:40,241 I'm putting my glasses on for a minute. 898 01:01:40,325 --> 01:01:42,118 I'm checking out the details. 899 01:01:44,871 --> 01:01:47,457 Because I'm blind as a bat. 900 01:01:47,540 --> 01:01:50,710 It's nice taking to you. I really enjoy talking to you. 901 01:01:50,794 --> 01:01:52,003 I know. 902 01:01:52,087 --> 01:01:54,047 When you're messaging back and forth, 903 01:01:54,130 --> 01:01:55,924 you miss the vocal inflexions. 904 01:01:56,007 --> 01:01:58,343 Talking on the phone is a bit better, but, 905 01:01:58,426 --> 01:02:03,014 you know, you still don't visualise the other person. Yeah. 906 01:02:07,227 --> 01:02:13,024 If I was to pick out my ideal man, he would not be Tony, 907 01:02:13,108 --> 01:02:15,902 I usually go for a much bigger person. 908 01:02:17,070 --> 01:02:20,365 Harley was much more heavy set than Tony. 909 01:02:21,950 --> 01:02:25,954 Harley did not have any tattoos, but Tony is covered in them. 910 01:02:27,622 --> 01:02:30,166 The person you think you wanna fall in love with, 911 01:02:30,250 --> 01:02:33,962 is not always exactly what you imagine them to be. 912 01:02:35,380 --> 01:02:37,882 So, you've never been to Las Vegas? 913 01:02:37,966 --> 01:02:40,844 Never, made it as far as let's see, 914 01:02:42,470 --> 01:02:44,180 Portland, Tacoma, 915 01:02:45,348 --> 01:02:46,391 Seattle. 916 01:02:46,474 --> 01:02:49,227 Washington and Portland, that's the lowest you've come down? 917 01:02:49,310 --> 01:02:51,938 Yep, and those were strictly for conference. 918 01:02:53,565 --> 01:02:57,027 Should I come to Vegas and pay you a visit and then you can, 919 01:02:57,110 --> 01:02:58,987 you know, show me all those sights? 920 01:03:00,238 --> 01:03:01,906 I think that would be fantastic, 921 01:03:01,990 --> 01:03:05,326 I would love for you to come to Vegas. Absolutely. 922 01:03:05,410 --> 01:03:09,539 Yeah, And come down for the weekend and then we can wander around 923 01:03:09,622 --> 01:03:11,833 and see all the sights. 924 01:03:11,916 --> 01:03:14,461 Yeah, I'll show you all the tourist places 925 01:03:14,544 --> 01:03:19,382 and some other places and get to know each other. 926 01:03:19,466 --> 01:03:22,761 You're gonna have to figure out things to do in the daytime. 927 01:03:23,970 --> 01:03:26,890 What you have the nights, you have the nights all planned? 928 01:03:26,973 --> 01:03:28,016 Yeah. 929 01:03:28,099 --> 01:03:31,019 (LAUGHS) 930 01:03:31,102 --> 01:03:32,645 I am visualising. 931 01:03:36,358 --> 01:03:38,568 When Tony tells me he's coming to town, 932 01:03:38,651 --> 01:03:41,613 I thought whoa, this is really fast, 933 01:03:41,696 --> 01:03:44,699 but I'm crazy about him, and I think he's fantastic. 934 01:03:46,618 --> 01:03:49,704 Sometimes I wonder, if Tony's too good to be true, 935 01:03:49,788 --> 01:03:52,540 I've had some very bad experiences in the past. 936 01:03:52,624 --> 01:03:57,754 And it's scary to be almost 70 and doing this, it really is. 937 01:03:57,837 --> 01:03:59,673 But I'm gonna take a chance. 938 01:04:00,882 --> 01:04:05,053 I will let you go. OK, you take care. 939 01:04:05,136 --> 01:04:06,513 Bye. Bye. 940 01:04:08,556 --> 01:04:11,893 I don't know how to hang up, there we go. 941 01:04:12,811 --> 01:04:13,071 2 01:01:37.240 -- 01:01:38.560 align:middle line:90% position:50% # Gimme gimme gimme gimme 942 01:04:16,606 --> 01:04:18,900 # Gimme that swing Give me that swing 943 01:04:18,983 --> 01:04:20,026 # Give me that swing 944 01:04:20,110 --> 01:04:24,447 # My heart is giving you love 945 01:04:24,531 --> 01:04:28,368 # Try not to need you so much # 946 01:04:31,246 --> 01:04:32,288 Isn't this beautiful? 947 01:04:38,086 --> 01:04:41,589 You look good, do you want a drink? Mm-hm. 948 01:04:47,929 --> 01:04:51,474 And it's like God, what is he thinking about me now? 949 01:04:51,558 --> 01:04:53,143 Hope not bad, I don't know. 950 01:04:54,310 --> 01:04:56,062 Now we are back at the hotel... 951 01:04:58,064 --> 01:04:59,983 Yeah, can I get an old fashioned? 952 01:05:00,066 --> 01:05:03,445 And she'll take a Casamigos and soda with lime. 953 01:05:04,738 --> 01:05:08,491 And I feel like I need to talk to him serious conversation, to... 954 01:05:09,868 --> 01:05:11,453 ..see his intention. 955 01:05:15,999 --> 01:05:19,627 Cheers, good day. They have a good, a good view here. 956 01:05:21,421 --> 01:05:23,506 So, how was the photoshoot today? 957 01:05:30,013 --> 01:05:32,515 Demian text me he said that you did really well. 958 01:05:32,599 --> 01:05:34,684 He said, you looked really good. 959 01:05:34,768 --> 01:05:36,895 Thank you. Yeah, you're welcome. 960 01:05:36,978 --> 01:05:40,273 I'm sorry, I couldn't be there today. I'm sorry too. 961 01:05:42,609 --> 01:05:45,862 Are you upset that I wasn't there today or? Yes. A lot. Yeah? 962 01:05:49,157 --> 01:05:52,118 I wrapped it up as soon as I could. 963 01:05:52,202 --> 01:05:54,454 Took at little bit longer than I thought though. 964 01:05:56,623 --> 01:05:57,957 I came here... 965 01:06:01,628 --> 01:06:03,338 Like it's hard for me, because... 966 01:06:04,464 --> 01:06:07,759 you live in another state and you travel constantly. 967 01:06:09,469 --> 01:06:10,512 So I... 968 01:06:15,350 --> 01:06:16,393 OK. 969 01:06:19,187 --> 01:06:23,191 I haven't drink alcohol for nine years I think. 970 01:06:23,274 --> 01:06:24,943 And... 971 01:06:25,026 --> 01:06:29,656 I'm sorry, I got so excited to meet him and I got very nervous. 972 01:06:29,739 --> 01:06:33,076 I didn't know how to deal with tension. 973 01:06:37,330 --> 01:06:39,082 Yeah. 974 01:06:42,627 --> 01:06:45,171 Who has your type of work. 975 01:06:45,255 --> 01:06:46,965 Never. My type of work how? 976 01:06:47,048 --> 01:06:48,091 Because... 977 01:06:51,970 --> 01:06:53,221 You work with. 978 01:06:53,304 --> 01:06:56,141 And... for me it's kind of... 979 01:06:58,435 --> 01:06:59,853 I don't know. 980 01:07:02,981 --> 01:07:07,444 Sure, of course, but, that's how I make a living. 981 01:07:09,821 --> 01:07:13,783 Like honestly, are you involved with someone? 982 01:07:13,867 --> 01:07:16,911 What do you mean romantically? No. 983 01:07:16,995 --> 01:07:18,496 Yeah. 984 01:07:18,580 --> 01:07:19,914 Million percent, yes. 985 01:07:27,213 --> 01:07:28,840 I mean... 986 01:07:30,675 --> 01:07:33,011 No I think it's too early, 987 01:07:33,094 --> 01:07:36,222 you know, on our second date to talk about being exclusive. 988 01:07:42,479 --> 01:07:46,232 I think, we just need to get to know each other a little bit longer. 989 01:07:47,317 --> 01:07:48,360 Don't you? 990 01:07:50,904 --> 01:07:51,946 This is bullshit. 991 01:07:52,030 --> 01:07:56,117 I fly to L.A. to see him and what, what I get? 992 01:07:56,201 --> 01:07:59,829 That I'm not enough to be exclusive with me. 993 01:07:59,913 --> 01:08:02,415 We have to make clear things I mean, 994 01:08:05,877 --> 01:08:09,714 It's an unusual situation for me. I like to be in charge. 995 01:08:17,847 --> 01:08:20,183 I have my life, you have yours, OK? 996 01:08:20,266 --> 01:08:22,394 It's different. It's definitely different. 997 01:08:22,477 --> 01:08:24,813 Million percent different, but I like you, 998 01:08:24,896 --> 01:08:27,148 and I'm happy to see you. 999 01:08:27,232 --> 01:08:28,274 But... 1000 01:08:31,778 --> 01:08:34,280 I understand that. Even if I like him a lot. 1001 01:08:34,364 --> 01:08:35,865 But I feel like, 1002 01:08:35,949 --> 01:08:37,867 that's what we're doing here, we're seeing... 1003 01:08:37,951 --> 01:08:41,996 ..we're seeing if that is even a thing, right? Yes. OK. 1004 01:08:43,581 --> 01:08:46,376 Are you cold? You wanna go inside? 1005 01:08:48,545 --> 01:08:50,672 Mm-hm. All right, come on. 1006 01:08:55,301 --> 01:08:58,805 Natalie definitely has to get used to my work environment, 1007 01:08:58,888 --> 01:08:59,931 me being busy, 1008 01:09:00,015 --> 01:09:04,644 and also, you know, being surrounded by maybe beautiful people. 1009 01:09:06,062 --> 01:09:09,274 It's definitely too early to be thinking 1010 01:09:09,357 --> 01:09:11,818 of any type of exclusivity. 1011 01:09:11,901 --> 01:09:15,196 But I feel like we're getting to know each other a lot more. 1012 01:09:16,364 --> 01:09:18,408 I got us separate rooms in the hotel, 1013 01:09:18,491 --> 01:09:21,703 so she feels comfortable, her own space. 1014 01:09:21,786 --> 01:09:23,788 And there's like no expectations. 1015 01:09:25,749 --> 01:09:27,959 What time you getting up? Eight o'clock, nine. 1016 01:09:28,043 --> 01:09:31,921 OK. This is mine. This you? Yeah. OK. 1017 01:09:33,590 --> 01:09:34,632 Goodnight. 1018 01:09:41,306 --> 01:09:42,932 What? 1019 01:09:43,016 --> 01:09:45,727 (LAUGHS) 1020 01:09:48,563 --> 01:09:50,648 I'll see you in the morning. OK. 1021 01:10:36,152 --> 01:10:37,487 # Ya yeah 1022 01:10:38,738 --> 01:10:41,449 # Yeah. I'm a lover When you're touching me 1023 01:10:41,533 --> 01:10:43,284 # I go crazy when you're touching me 1024 01:10:43,368 --> 01:10:46,788 # Let's go Yeah you got my love tonight 1025 01:10:46,871 --> 01:10:49,332 # We have a party through the night 1026 01:10:49,416 --> 01:10:50,959 # Your touch touch touch 1027 01:10:51,042 --> 01:10:53,294 # Your touch your touch, Touch, touch # 1028 01:11:00,510 --> 01:11:04,305 It's like my workout, my squats have been working. 1029 01:11:06,391 --> 01:11:09,561 I'm getting ready to hang out with this guy named Joel. 1030 01:11:09,644 --> 01:11:13,982 I met him at a bar and I also matched online with him 1031 01:11:14,065 --> 01:11:15,525 a couple of weeks ago. 1032 01:11:15,608 --> 01:11:18,445 We've been messaging each other quite a bit, 1033 01:11:18,528 --> 01:11:22,782 and one day he asks me if I have explored the island yet? 1034 01:11:22,866 --> 01:11:24,284 And I tell him no, 1035 01:11:24,367 --> 01:11:27,287 and bada bing, bada boom, he makes these plans. 1036 01:11:28,788 --> 01:11:31,499 Wow, sweating. 1037 01:11:33,335 --> 01:11:34,669 This is the island life. 1038 01:11:36,629 --> 01:11:39,049 I brought a few bikinis, 1039 01:11:39,132 --> 01:11:43,970 what I love about this one is that it's like, I can change it. 1040 01:11:44,054 --> 01:11:47,057 So, I can make it open, if I'm running into a store 1041 01:11:47,140 --> 01:11:49,142 and wanna cover up a little bit more. 1042 01:11:49,225 --> 01:11:51,519 And I can make it smaller and skinnier 1043 01:11:51,603 --> 01:11:54,856 when I'm at the beach I have the tatas out, getting some sun. 1044 01:11:57,150 --> 01:12:01,654 I'm excited to dip my toes back in the sand. 1045 01:12:01,738 --> 01:12:03,740 I just hope, we have good conversations. 1046 01:12:05,158 --> 01:12:06,951 It's not we're going out to dinner, 1047 01:12:07,035 --> 01:12:09,704 so if it's awkward it's like, OK, goodbye. 1048 01:12:09,788 --> 01:12:11,664 This is like a full day adventure, 1049 01:12:11,748 --> 01:12:15,085 so like if it turns awkward, I'm kind of stuck a little bit. 1050 01:12:27,722 --> 01:12:31,226 This is my first time going on a date with a guy since Syngin. 1051 01:12:33,186 --> 01:12:34,479 And it's a little scary. 1052 01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:41,653 (KNOCKS) 1053 01:12:46,658 --> 01:12:48,243 Come in hey. Hi. 1054 01:12:50,370 --> 01:12:53,790 How are you? Fine, how are you? You ready? 1055 01:12:53,873 --> 01:12:56,626 Yeah, have a couple more things, I got to pack. 1056 01:12:56,710 --> 01:12:58,003 OK, no problem. 1057 01:12:58,086 --> 01:13:01,131 I saw Tania the first time, dancing on the beach. 1058 01:13:02,507 --> 01:13:05,218 She caught my eye. She has nice features. 1059 01:13:08,179 --> 01:13:09,806 The eyes, the eyes, they're beautiful. 1060 01:13:12,100 --> 01:13:14,519 Wow. This is nice. 1061 01:13:16,104 --> 01:13:19,107 I'd like to get to know her, and just experience the day. 1062 01:13:19,190 --> 01:13:22,235 That's the best way to approach it, always have a good time 1063 01:13:22,318 --> 01:13:26,114 and if you have fun with somebody, who know what the future will bring. 1064 01:13:26,197 --> 01:13:27,615 We'll see, we'll see. 1065 01:13:31,619 --> 01:13:32,829 What is that? 1066 01:13:34,289 --> 01:13:35,749 Very beautiful. 1067 01:13:35,832 --> 01:13:37,667 Oh, look at the donkeys. 1068 01:13:44,341 --> 01:13:47,052 Or are you wiping yourself? Oh, you were smelling yourself. 1069 01:13:47,135 --> 01:13:49,846 I got deodorant. I put some on. No, I'm good. 1070 01:13:49,929 --> 01:13:51,931 I just put some on yesterday, I'm good. 1071 01:13:52,015 --> 01:13:53,641 (LAUGHS) 1072 01:13:53,725 --> 01:13:54,768 Joel is pretty. 1073 01:13:56,936 --> 01:14:00,190 I think, I would love to see him like super dressed up, like, 1074 01:14:00,273 --> 01:14:02,192 Syngin definitely wasn't a pretty boy. 1075 01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:06,279 Do you like to fish? I do like to fish. Yes. 1076 01:14:06,363 --> 01:14:08,365 Can you cook, are you a good cook? 1077 01:14:08,448 --> 01:14:11,242 I can cook, I make the best rice in my family. 1078 01:14:11,326 --> 01:14:13,161 The best rice? Rice is not hard. 1079 01:14:13,244 --> 01:14:15,747 Have you ever talked to the women in your family? 1080 01:14:15,830 --> 01:14:18,917 You don't think it's hard. Talk to the women in your family. 1081 01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,044 You have the cooker, you put them on. 1082 01:14:21,127 --> 01:14:24,798 No, how dare you use a cooker, no. 1083 01:14:29,135 --> 01:14:32,180 Unfortunately, no, I only speak English. 1084 01:14:32,263 --> 01:14:34,974 Yes, it was like cool like hearing donkey and stuff. 1085 01:14:37,018 --> 01:14:39,771 Danki. Danki, not donkey. Donkey. Danki. 1086 01:14:39,854 --> 01:14:44,317 Danki. I try, I try. 1087 01:14:44,401 --> 01:14:46,569 But... Did you learn other Arubian words? 1088 01:14:50,448 --> 01:14:53,034 I laugh a lot when I'm nervous. 1089 01:14:54,494 --> 01:14:56,746 I like that he keeps the conversation going. 1090 01:14:56,830 --> 01:14:59,040 I'm not good with keeping small chatter, 1091 01:14:59,124 --> 01:15:02,419 banter going, so it's feels easy to keep conversing with him. 1092 01:15:04,504 --> 01:15:07,132 So tell me, I know, you're actually Aruban, 1093 01:15:07,215 --> 01:15:08,758 but you haven't lived here? 1094 01:15:08,842 --> 01:15:11,386 I grew up here, I lived here for 16 years 1095 01:15:11,469 --> 01:15:12,512 and... 1096 01:15:13,763 --> 01:15:15,515 OK. I lived there for 20 years. 1097 01:15:16,683 --> 01:15:17,726 What brought you back? 1098 01:15:17,809 --> 01:15:19,811 The island vibe is great you know, where... 1099 01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:23,815 Everybody's just working, working, working. 1100 01:15:23,898 --> 01:15:26,026 And you, what's your story actually? 1101 01:15:26,109 --> 01:15:29,237 I'm Venezuelan, but I was born in Connecticut. 1102 01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:33,658 I travelled a lot, newly separated. 1103 01:15:33,742 --> 01:15:35,577 You are separated now. Separated yes. 1104 01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:39,414 On paper? Not on paper. 1105 01:15:42,709 --> 01:15:44,502 If you've been separated, why don't you... 1106 01:15:46,921 --> 01:15:50,550 Because to me, like, paperwork doesn't mean that much. 1107 01:15:54,804 --> 01:15:55,847 You wanna stay married? 1108 01:15:55,930 --> 01:15:58,683 No, I don't wanna stay married, Also, I don't feel married. 1109 01:15:58,767 --> 01:16:01,311 So, I don't think it's like something, I think about. 1110 01:16:01,394 --> 01:16:03,688 Yeah, but it's not really fair to another person. 1111 01:16:08,818 --> 01:16:09,861 That's crazy. 1112 01:16:09,944 --> 01:16:11,821 In the beginning, it was very important 1113 01:16:11,905 --> 01:16:13,865 to get it all right on paper, 1114 01:16:13,948 --> 01:16:17,702 but now you're done with it, and, you don't take the effort. 1115 01:16:17,786 --> 01:16:19,537 Like come on, it's weird. 1116 01:16:19,621 --> 01:16:21,331 Move on with your life. 1117 01:16:21,414 --> 01:16:25,460 If anyone asks, I say I'm divorced. But that's lying. It's not lying. 1118 01:16:25,543 --> 01:16:28,546 You're lying. I say I'm separated. We're separated. 1119 01:16:28,630 --> 01:16:29,964 Yeah. OK. 1120 01:16:31,049 --> 01:16:34,969 Signing divorce papers doesn't make my marriage 1121 01:16:35,053 --> 01:16:37,222 any more over than it already is. 1122 01:16:37,305 --> 01:16:39,057 I'm emotionally and mentally divorced. 1123 01:16:44,396 --> 01:16:46,064 What, being with Syngin? 1124 01:16:50,860 --> 01:16:51,121 2 01:13:44.760 -- 01:13:46.640 align:middle line:90% position:50% # You got to get ready for love 1125 01:16:55,782 --> 01:17:00,704 # Because it's ready for you You better hurry come and get it 1126 01:17:00,787 --> 01:17:04,416 # Hold tight You better get ready for love 1127 01:17:04,499 --> 01:17:06,292 # Better get ready for love # 1128 01:17:06,376 --> 01:17:09,045 Got my charger, phone. 1129 01:17:10,922 --> 01:17:13,049 I also have my... 1130 01:17:13,133 --> 01:17:16,261 Ukrainian, Russian book for Dummies right here. 1131 01:17:17,971 --> 01:17:21,349 Today is Ukraine day. 1132 01:17:21,433 --> 01:17:23,727 I'm feeling awesome, ready to go, 1133 01:17:23,810 --> 01:17:27,731 I'm ready to fly on out and find the love of the my life. 1134 01:17:27,814 --> 01:17:30,900 I talked to Kateryna the matchmaker and I told her, 1135 01:17:30,984 --> 01:17:32,610 what women I wanna meet. 1136 01:17:32,694 --> 01:17:35,613 So, I'm ready man, I'm excited, I'm ready. 1137 01:17:35,697 --> 01:17:37,532 (KNOCKS) 1138 01:17:39,534 --> 01:17:42,287 MACK: Hey, what's going on, man? CHEWIE: Hey, what's up, bro? 1139 01:17:43,455 --> 01:17:45,957 My best friend, Chewie, is coming to pick me up 1140 01:17:46,041 --> 01:17:47,709 and drive me to the airport. 1141 01:17:47,792 --> 01:17:48,835 Where your cologne at? 1142 01:17:48,918 --> 01:17:50,503 Oh, I've got cologne. 1143 01:17:50,587 --> 01:17:52,797 Yeah, I have my cologne in here. 1144 01:17:52,881 --> 01:17:56,801 He's like family because I dated his sister, Liz. 1145 01:17:56,885 --> 01:17:59,471 He's practically my brother-in-law. 1146 01:17:59,554 --> 01:18:01,681 Liz was my high school sweetheart. 1147 01:18:01,765 --> 01:18:03,558 And my first real girlfriend 1148 01:18:03,641 --> 01:18:06,436 and, you know, I loved her with all my heart. 1149 01:18:06,519 --> 01:18:09,647 You know, we really cared about each other. 1150 01:18:09,731 --> 01:18:11,316 We took care of each other. 1151 01:18:11,399 --> 01:18:13,151 She was my first love. 1152 01:18:13,234 --> 01:18:17,113 But we grew apart and we separated. 1153 01:18:17,197 --> 01:18:19,115 But Chewie and I, we remained friends. 1154 01:18:26,164 --> 01:18:27,957 Rocking and rolling. Yep. 1155 01:18:32,837 --> 01:18:35,715 Big day. Heck yeah, man. 1156 01:18:35,799 --> 01:18:37,801 I feel excited, you know all giggly. 1157 01:18:37,884 --> 01:18:39,636 You know, what I mean right? Yeah. 1158 01:18:39,719 --> 01:18:45,100 I support you and I wish and hope you the best, bro. 1159 01:18:46,434 --> 01:18:49,479 I hope, you don't find another fricking, oh my Lord. 1160 01:18:49,562 --> 01:18:51,731 Yeah, another, another Maria down there. 1161 01:18:51,815 --> 01:18:52,899 Jesus. 1162 01:18:52,982 --> 01:18:55,276 What kind of Ukrainian girl has the name Maria, 1163 01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:58,738 that's a Spanish Yeah, I know. Maria. 1164 01:18:58,822 --> 01:19:01,199 I can't believe you did that. 1165 01:19:01,282 --> 01:19:02,784 You just got to be careful, 1166 01:19:02,867 --> 01:19:04,911 don't let these females take advantage of you. 1167 01:19:04,994 --> 01:19:06,579 Yep, that's exactly right. 1168 01:19:11,418 --> 01:19:13,670 Going to Ukraine makes me a little bit nervous 1169 01:19:13,753 --> 01:19:16,047 because I don't want the same situation 1170 01:19:16,131 --> 01:19:17,298 to happen like Maria. 1171 01:19:19,467 --> 01:19:21,636 But that's why, I have the matchmaker. 1172 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,180 She's gonna make sure that that doesn't happen again. 1173 01:19:24,264 --> 01:19:28,393 This is gonna be a once in a lifetime trip to find love. 1174 01:19:28,476 --> 01:19:31,563 I deserve it now, this is my time to shine. 1175 01:19:31,646 --> 01:19:33,481 And I feel like I need somebody 1176 01:19:33,565 --> 01:19:36,067 that can love me how I'm supposed to be loved. 1177 01:19:37,902 --> 01:19:39,404 All right, brother. All right bro. 1178 01:19:39,487 --> 01:19:42,907 You need me to help you? Yeah, help me. Help me take this. 1179 01:19:47,412 --> 01:19:50,957 I think, Caesar is over his head going to the Ukraine. 1180 01:19:51,041 --> 01:19:56,463 Because the chances of Caesar getting scammed again is high. 1181 01:19:56,546 --> 01:19:58,214 # Hold onto hope 1182 01:19:58,298 --> 01:20:00,633 # Don't be afraid of the dark # 1183 01:20:00,717 --> 01:20:05,305 CHEWIE: But I wish him the best of luck and I hope he finds somebody 1184 01:20:05,388 --> 01:20:07,223 that is genuine as he is. 1185 01:20:09,351 --> 01:20:11,102 # So no more games 1186 01:20:11,186 --> 01:20:13,938 # I hold my hands up to the sky # 1187 01:20:17,734 --> 01:20:20,070 I don't know, what's gonna happen in this trip, 1188 01:20:20,153 --> 01:20:22,447 but I hope the matchmaker can work some magic. 1189 01:20:22,530 --> 01:20:24,574 I wanna come back to the US saying, 1190 01:20:24,657 --> 01:20:28,078 here's my girlfriend, or hey, guys, this is my wife. 1191 01:20:29,454 --> 01:20:31,623 # I will give you my all 1192 01:20:31,706 --> 01:20:34,459 # Never alone coming to you 1193 01:20:34,542 --> 01:20:37,754 # Yeah you know I'm gonna carry you home 1194 01:20:42,926 --> 01:20:45,845 # I carry carry carry 1195 01:20:45,929 --> 01:20:48,014 # Carry you home 1196 01:20:49,057 --> 01:20:51,559 # I'm gonna carry you home 1197 01:20:58,733 --> 01:21:02,487 # I'm walking on moonbeams 1198 01:21:02,570 --> 01:21:06,574 # I'm walking on clouds 1199 01:21:06,658 --> 01:21:09,911 # High above the world am I 1200 01:21:09,994 --> 01:21:13,081 # I'm not coming down # 1201 01:21:17,585 --> 01:21:21,339 DEBBIE: I need to get some trash bags in here. 1202 01:21:21,423 --> 01:21:23,675 Things with Tony and I are going really great. 1203 01:21:23,758 --> 01:21:25,927 It's like a dream, I mean 1204 01:21:28,096 --> 01:21:33,351 we text three to four hours every day, off and on all day. 1205 01:21:33,435 --> 01:21:37,480 And usually two three hours on the phone at night, every night. 1206 01:21:38,523 --> 01:21:40,233 But is it for real? 1207 01:21:40,316 --> 01:21:42,444 It maybe it's too good to be true? 1208 01:21:42,527 --> 01:21:43,737 I don't know yet. 1209 01:21:47,532 --> 01:21:49,409 Shit. 1210 01:21:49,492 --> 01:21:51,286 He's coming to visit tomorrow, 1211 01:21:51,369 --> 01:21:54,414 all the way from Canada just in time for my 70th birthday, 1212 01:21:55,457 --> 01:21:56,833 I'm freaking out. 1213 01:21:58,251 --> 01:22:01,338 He's gonna stay in a hotel, but I'm cleaning up the house, 1214 01:22:01,421 --> 01:22:03,882 just in case, he wants to come over here. 1215 01:22:03,965 --> 01:22:05,717 God. 1216 01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:06,968 Nightmare. 1217 01:22:13,683 --> 01:22:15,977 My son Colt and I are having some problems, 1218 01:22:16,061 --> 01:22:18,855 and we had a huge fight. 1219 01:22:18,938 --> 01:22:21,358 He and his wife Vanessa came and told me, 1220 01:22:21,441 --> 01:22:23,526 we're moving out in three months. 1221 01:22:23,610 --> 01:22:25,695 OK, we have a huge rent 1222 01:22:25,779 --> 01:22:28,365 and I can't afford all the bills on my own. 1223 01:22:28,448 --> 01:22:30,492 So, I felt really broken. 1224 01:22:31,743 --> 01:22:34,662 Colt and Vanessa moved out about a month ago 1225 01:22:34,746 --> 01:22:36,623 and I haven't seen them since. 1226 01:22:36,706 --> 01:22:38,541 What the hell is all this shit? 1227 01:22:41,461 --> 01:22:43,004 Colt said he's gonna come by 1228 01:22:43,088 --> 01:22:45,090 and he wants to get of his things. 1229 01:22:45,173 --> 01:22:47,217 And he said he wanted to talk. 1230 01:22:48,426 --> 01:22:50,679 This is the longest time that I have gone 1231 01:22:50,762 --> 01:22:53,348 without talking to him or seeing him. 1232 01:22:53,431 --> 01:22:55,183 It's very difficult for me. 1233 01:22:56,267 --> 01:22:57,811 God... 1234 01:22:57,894 --> 01:22:59,437 I need it to stop. 1235 01:23:04,859 --> 01:23:06,653 COLT: Whoa, hello. Whoa. 1236 01:23:13,118 --> 01:23:15,286 I'm just starting cleaning out your room, 1237 01:23:15,370 --> 01:23:16,830 since you guys moved out. 1238 01:23:16,913 --> 01:23:17,997 Might as well. 1239 01:23:18,081 --> 01:23:20,458 Do you wanna sit down? Yeah, sure. 1240 01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:24,254 I haven't seen my mother for a month 1241 01:23:24,337 --> 01:23:27,215 because my wife and I, have been living with her cousin. 1242 01:23:27,298 --> 01:23:28,842 I'm back at the house now 1243 01:23:28,925 --> 01:23:32,679 because I didn't get a chance to pack anything before I left. 1244 01:23:32,762 --> 01:23:35,640 My mother and I have this weird co-dependency. 1245 01:23:35,724 --> 01:23:37,308 Ever since my father died, 1246 01:23:37,392 --> 01:23:41,187 I was the surrogate son slash best friend, slash husband. 1247 01:23:41,271 --> 01:23:43,523 But something's got to give. 1248 01:23:46,026 --> 01:23:48,153 How's it going? Great. 1249 01:23:49,279 --> 01:23:52,407 I mean, I haven't talked to you, so I don't know really. 1250 01:23:52,490 --> 01:23:53,742 Anything, honestly. 1251 01:23:54,826 --> 01:23:58,955 Lot of stuff going on. I think, I texted you... 1252 01:24:00,165 --> 01:24:03,335 ..happy Thanksgiving and you did not respond. 1253 01:24:03,418 --> 01:24:05,211 I'm still... 1254 01:24:05,295 --> 01:24:06,963 What? I don't know. 1255 01:24:07,047 --> 01:24:08,089 I don't know really, 1256 01:24:08,173 --> 01:24:10,884 I feel like there's just so much tension between us. 1257 01:24:10,967 --> 01:24:14,387 Gee, let's see, why is there tension between us? 1258 01:24:15,472 --> 01:24:19,017 I understand that you and Vanessa have a life, 1259 01:24:19,100 --> 01:24:21,603 and I don't wanna interfere with it. 1260 01:24:21,686 --> 01:24:26,149 But I can't live here and pay all the finances. 1261 01:24:26,232 --> 01:24:29,069 Vanessa moved out and then you moved out. 1262 01:24:29,152 --> 01:24:32,989 We have a lease, we signed it, we all knew. 1263 01:24:33,073 --> 01:24:36,576 So, how do you not see what you did to me? 1264 01:24:36,659 --> 01:24:39,079 How do you see what you done to me? 1265 01:24:39,162 --> 01:24:41,414 You treated me very poorly. I don't know why. 1266 01:24:41,498 --> 01:24:44,501 I've always asked you, why do you treat me like a child? 1267 01:24:44,584 --> 01:24:46,252 I'll always be your son, but... 1268 01:24:46,336 --> 01:24:49,047 I'm definitely not a small child anymore. 1269 01:24:49,130 --> 01:24:52,133 So, there has to be some kind of respect and distance. 1270 01:24:52,217 --> 01:24:55,970 You know, this is what you totally don't understand. 1271 01:24:56,971 --> 01:25:00,475 You think that because I am so connected to you 1272 01:25:00,558 --> 01:25:03,520 that I think you need me. 1273 01:25:03,603 --> 01:25:06,398 Have you ever thought that it was the other way around 1274 01:25:06,481 --> 01:25:08,108 and I needed you? 1275 01:25:11,027 --> 01:25:12,696 I needed you... 1276 01:25:18,743 --> 01:25:20,870 Guilt trip, guilt trip, guilt trip, guilt trip. 1277 01:25:20,954 --> 01:25:23,039 Hello, my name is Debbie. 1278 01:25:23,123 --> 01:25:25,625 guilt trip, guilt trip, you wanna take a vacation today? 1279 01:25:25,709 --> 01:25:27,627 Guilt trip, guilt trip, guilt trip. What? 1280 01:25:27,711 --> 01:25:31,172 Guilt trip, you guilt trip me all the time. 1281 01:25:31,256 --> 01:25:36,136 I'm 36, 13, don't matter. What do you want from me? 1282 01:25:36,219 --> 01:25:38,596 I just want-- No, no, seriously, 1283 01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:42,475 what do you want me as a mother, what do you want? 1284 01:25:44,310 --> 01:25:46,438 Whatever, I don't care, this is ridiculous. 1285 01:25:46,521 --> 01:25:49,941 You don't care? I can't, I'm sorry, I tried. 1286 01:25:50,025 --> 01:25:51,526 Goodbye, Mum. 1287 01:25:53,194 --> 01:25:54,237 (SIGHS) 1288 01:25:54,320 --> 01:25:56,448 Jesus Christ, I just wanna talk to you, 1289 01:25:56,531 --> 01:25:58,450 I just wanna have a relationship. 1290 01:25:58,533 --> 01:26:01,578 Hello? Just wanna have a relationship. 1291 01:26:01,661 --> 01:26:03,538 What (BLEEP) bullshit is this? 1292 01:26:04,956 --> 01:26:06,875 OK, so I get my shit tomorrow. 1293 01:26:11,296 --> 01:26:13,298 I'm leaving for real, she's yelling at me. 1294 01:26:13,381 --> 01:26:15,091 she's treating me disrespect. 1295 01:26:15,175 --> 01:26:17,302 I don't wanna deal with that. 1296 01:26:17,385 --> 01:26:18,845 DEBBIE: Good luck, shit. 1297 01:26:18,928 --> 01:26:23,058 Leave the house keys, you're not allowed back in here. 1298 01:26:31,107 --> 01:26:32,150 COLT: Go away. 1299 01:26:34,986 --> 01:26:37,906 That's right you don't, you do not care about me. 1300 01:26:37,989 --> 01:26:40,909 I do, I love you. No, you don't. 1301 01:26:40,992 --> 01:26:43,745 You just said you know what you know, (BLEEP) you, Mum, 1302 01:26:43,828 --> 01:26:45,163 you've been there too much. 1303 01:26:45,246 --> 01:26:48,625 What the (BLEEP) have I done to destroy your life? 1304 01:26:48,708 --> 01:26:50,460 My entire life has been your life, 1305 01:26:50,543 --> 01:26:53,046 you've been the bus driver of my life. 1306 01:26:53,129 --> 01:26:55,256 DEBBIE: What the hell is wrong with you? 1307 01:26:56,549 --> 01:26:59,177 Your dad would be so disappointed in you. 1308 01:27:02,263 --> 01:27:03,807 You know what Colt, we're done. 1309 01:27:05,100 --> 01:27:07,936 You treat me like, a second class citizen. 1310 01:27:08,019 --> 01:27:11,064 (BLEEP) you. Out of here. 1311 01:27:12,315 --> 01:27:13,858 (SOBS) 1312 01:27:24,452 --> 01:27:26,705 I'm done, I'm done with my mother, 1313 01:27:32,168 --> 01:27:34,421 At this point, I don't even wanna come back. 1314 01:27:34,504 --> 01:27:36,047 I have no reason to. 1315 01:27:36,131 --> 01:27:37,924 Everything I need is with my wife. 1316 01:27:49,394 --> 01:27:51,146 (SOBS) 1317 01:27:56,443 --> 01:27:57,485 DEBBIE: Hey. 1318 01:28:02,699 --> 01:28:06,244 Colt was such an ass, oh my God. 1319 01:28:06,327 --> 01:28:08,329 (SOBS) 1320 01:28:11,041 --> 01:28:13,460 DEBBIE: Oh, yeah. 1321 01:28:13,543 --> 01:28:15,295 My heart is broken. 1322 01:28:15,378 --> 01:28:17,881 I won't ever see him again, I know it. 1323 01:28:39,903 --> 01:28:41,404 I mean I, I... 1324 01:28:49,329 --> 01:28:52,540 DEBBIE: Oh, Tony, I wanna be with you so much. 1325 01:28:52,624 --> 01:28:53,667 You know? 1326 01:28:59,798 --> 01:29:03,301 (SOBS) 1327 01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:11,935 This season on 90 Day The Single Life. 1328 01:29:14,270 --> 01:29:16,022 # Looking for love # 1329 01:29:16,106 --> 01:29:17,357 (CHEERS) 1330 01:29:17,440 --> 01:29:21,027 I want, I deserve, I need love in my life. 1331 01:29:21,111 --> 01:29:23,321 And love is actually really hard to find. 1332 01:29:23,405 --> 01:29:25,824 # As you're looking for love # 1333 01:29:25,907 --> 01:29:29,077 Hello. MACK: I need to figure out 1334 01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:30,995 which Ukrainian woman is right for me. 1335 01:29:33,498 --> 01:29:34,582 Nothing. 1336 01:29:42,716 --> 01:29:44,467 I've been single for six months 1337 01:29:44,551 --> 01:29:47,512 and I'm determined to not let Ronald pull me back in. 1338 01:29:53,351 --> 01:29:55,854 TANIA: There's still more healing I need to do. 1339 01:29:55,937 --> 01:29:58,565 But I'm just now allowing myself to question these things. 1340 01:30:00,025 --> 01:30:01,693 TANIA: No, I'm not dating anyone. 1341 01:30:04,070 --> 01:30:05,947 Go. WOMAN 9: Oh, my God. 1342 01:30:06,031 --> 01:30:09,325 With Tim, it bothered me that he was just kind of there waiting. 1343 01:30:09,409 --> 01:30:10,744 He wasn't there, yes. 1344 01:30:13,413 --> 01:30:15,665 Wow, we're getting close. Woo. 1345 01:30:15,749 --> 01:30:17,000 We just met. 1346 01:30:17,083 --> 01:30:19,502 For all I know, Tony could be a psycho. 1347 01:30:19,586 --> 01:30:21,421 Do you see the dragon? 1348 01:30:21,504 --> 01:30:24,007 I don't know what I got myself into. 1349 01:30:24,090 --> 01:30:25,342 Whoa. 1350 01:30:30,430 --> 01:30:34,267 Josh is still friends with his ex. And I'm like, fuck. 1351 01:30:34,351 --> 01:30:38,313 Josh and I have always been close. And it's never gonna change. 1352 01:30:38,396 --> 01:30:40,190 Is that a problem for you? 1353 01:30:41,983 --> 01:30:46,154 You're asking me to prioritise your ex and your child over mine. 1354 01:30:46,237 --> 01:30:49,991 Is he ready and willing to fight for me and for us? 1355 01:30:50,075 --> 01:30:52,077 It's always just this math equation. 1356 01:30:52,160 --> 01:30:53,828 You get your way and I get 1357 01:30:53,953 --> 01:30:55,747 whatever bullshit is left over afterward. 1358 01:30:58,625 --> 01:31:00,502 Are you willing to take a chance, 1359 01:31:00,585 --> 01:31:02,796 pack up everything, and move in with me? 1360 01:31:04,631 --> 01:31:06,174 What if it doesn't last? 1361 01:31:06,257 --> 01:31:08,802 It's the biggest decision, I've ever made in my life. 1362 01:31:11,179 --> 01:31:13,264 Finally I found what I wanted, 1363 01:31:13,348 --> 01:31:15,767 and it's just being taken away from me. 1364 01:31:15,850 --> 01:31:19,437 Russia planning sabotage operations in Ukraine. 1365 01:31:19,521 --> 01:31:21,272 I don't know what to do now. 1366 01:31:22,565 --> 01:31:25,985 You ran off and I was still here struggling by myself. 1367 01:31:31,116 --> 01:31:32,450 It's bad. 1368 01:31:32,534 --> 01:31:34,786 Why would he want to stay married to you? 1369 01:31:34,869 --> 01:31:36,871 You don't act like a wife at all. 1370 01:31:36,955 --> 01:31:39,416 (SOBS)