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And welcome back
to <i>Good Day Portland.</i>

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I'm Bink Williams.

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With me, as always,
my delightful co-host--

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Misty McAllister.

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And with us in our second hour,

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Dr. Miranda Faraday,

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founder of a new
breakup boot camp

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that's taking Portland
by storm.

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Now, correct me
if I'm wrong, Miranda,

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you're a psychologist?

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A Ph.D., yes.

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Right, and you provide

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a six-week
health and wellness program

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to heal the recently
broken-hearted?

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Exactly.

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When you typically
get out of a relationship,

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you want one of two things,

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to have the relationship
not be over,

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or to be over the relationship,

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and one of those things
we can't control,

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but the other
is well within our power.

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Well, it sounds like something

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that could help someone

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who maybe
can't get over lost love.

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Well, sometimes,
people hide their true selves

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until six months in,

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when you witness her
scream at a waiter,

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making him cry,

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but tell us how this all works.

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Each week has a theme.

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"Release, Endurance, Teamwork,

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Connection, Trust,
and Closure,"

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and we do a coordinated
activity or exercise

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in keeping with
the word of the week.

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People may feel like
broken hearts last forever,

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but I am here to tell them
that it doesn't.

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[applause]

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Okay, folks,

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we're going to go to Rick
for the weather,

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and when we return,

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Dr. Miranda Faraday
will tell us more

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about her program.

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[applause]

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Uh, Miranda?

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Mm-hmm.

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He's going to need
your business card,

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like, right now.

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Yeah.

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[♪]

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Well, everyone kept saying

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how he's this young,
financial genius,

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and they're crediting
my reporting

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for taking down
what turned out to be

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this massive Ponzi scheme.

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The reason I didn't see you
for three weeks.

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Jen, I'm doing this for us.

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I'm working really hard
to prove myself,

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and they're finally
starting to take notice.

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That's great,

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but I need you to take notice
of other things.

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Like what?

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[chuckles]

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It's been six months.

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Where are we going?

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Right now,
we're going to dinner.

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Ben, we hardly see each other
these days.

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I'm on track
to become an editor,

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and then I get to be the one
handing out the assignments,

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but in the meantime,

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I kinda gotta write
what they tell me to write.

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And I need someone
who is present.

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I am.
I'm right here.

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Look, let's not focus

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on the time
that we don't spend together,

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and instead
enjoy the time that we do.

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That's not enough for me, Ben.

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Something's got to give.

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Are you asking me to choose

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between you and my career?

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I'm saying,
the right answer

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is, "You, Jen.
I choose you."

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I do...

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and I choose my career.

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I'm sorry,

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that's not enough for me.

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Goodbye, Ben.

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[♪]

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[♪]

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He went looking for my car
ages ago.

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I have no idea where he is.

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Think he took it
for a joy ride?

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That would be about right
for the night I'm having.

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I swear, it has nothing to do

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with the woman
who just got in a cab

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with my heart
on the bottom of her shoe.

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I think they charge
an extra cleaning fee for that.

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[chuckles]
Probably.

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Well, I'm sorry to hear

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that both your car
and your heart are MIA.

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That's all right,

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I didn't really like it
that much anyways.

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Thinking about trading it in
for a newer model.

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The car or the heart?

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I need one of them
to get home,

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so I guess the heart
is of less use at the moment.

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And the girlfriend?

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Ex-girlfriend, actually,

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but the bread was great,

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so I guess that sort of
makes up a little

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for getting dumped.

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Do you want to talk about it?

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Ah, you've heard the story
a thousand times.

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Boy meets girl.

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Girl gives boy
an unreasonable ultimatum.

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Girl storms out.

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Boy eats both entrees.

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Yeah, we all have one of those.

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Do tell.

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Comfort me with your pain.

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[chuckles]

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Uh, you've heard it
a million times.

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Girl meets boy,
girl marries boy.

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Boy leaves girl,
girl takes up kickboxing,

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pretends bag is boy.

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[chuckles]

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I feel bad for the bag.

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Not so much for the boy.

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[chuckles]

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This is me.

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Hey...

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Broken hearts do heal.

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I've seen it happen.

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Thanks.

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[♪]

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This letter is your chance
to say it all

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to that person
who broke your heart.

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It's only two minutes,

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so don't hold back.

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This is about you now,

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and you are not the same person

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who signed up for this program
a month and a half ago.

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You have overcome obstacles,

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you have stepped
outside of yourself.

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You have changed in ways
you never thought possible.

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Three, two, one...

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pens down.

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How are we feeling?

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Mine has
a lot of swears in it.

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That's perfect.

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Excellent.

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So, as closure week
comes to a close,

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you have to decide
at our bonfire,

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do you send your letter,

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or do you burn it?

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That's all for today.

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I'll see you tomorrow.

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Oh, and remember
the first rule,

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no cyberstalking your ex.

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You know I'm right.

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Stay off Instagram.

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[sharp knock on door]

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Chloe, hi.

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The phone has been ringing
off the hook

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since the segment
on <i>Good Day Portland.</i>

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And Bink Williams
signed up for the program,

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so that's
our best publicity ever.

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We are at capacity again,

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so I had to add
another session.

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Good.

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Maybe soon we can get
a dance studio or something,

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so we don't have to share
the space.

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I know.

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It's all happening.

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Are you ready
to lead a session yet?

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You know why
this business works?

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Hmm.

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Because I know
how to stay in my lane.

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I handle the business,
you handle the clients.

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Well, it would be pretty easy
for you to just, like,

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toss your blinker on
and change lanes.

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You know this program
like the back of your hand.

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Mm-hmm,

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and you are the heart
of the business,

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and I am the head,

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but I am sorting
through resumes,

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and there are
some great candidates.

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I'll set up interviews
this week.

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You will not be on your own
forever, I promise,

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and then, maybe
when the pressure is off,

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you can take
some time for you.

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I take plenty of time
for myself.

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I'm going to the rock wall
tonight for a climb.

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That's not what I mean.

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You need to stop moving,
and doing, and climbing,

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and get back out there.

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What would you say to a client
who refused to move on?

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I'm not refusing to move on.

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I will get back out there,
eventually.

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I'm just...

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You know, success
is happening for us right now,

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and I want to ride that wave.

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Thank you.

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Mm-hmm.

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[ship's horn blares]

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[♪]

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Hey, Kim.

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Hi.

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Mom and Dad okay?

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Oh, yeah, they're fine.

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I just need you to talk me
out of doing something.

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Ah, my greatest skill.

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Darren's engaged.

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I know it's been a year
since we broke up,

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but it still stings.

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What exactly
am I talking you out of?

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Don't let me call him.

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Okay.

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Or email.

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Yeah, no, don't do that.

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Or ride my bike by his house.

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I will literally
stand in the street

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in front of your bike.

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[chuckles]

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Aw, look at us.

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It's like we're some
sibling lonely hearts club.

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Oh, speak for yourself.
I'm fine.

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You just think
you're fine, Ben,

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because that's what you do
after a breakup,

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ever since Serena.

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Why do you always
have to bring her up?

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That was, like, 10 years ago.

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Because it broke you,

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and ever since,

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you've just been putting
a Band-Aid over a bullet hole.

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Have not.

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I was almost
about to talk to Jen

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about taking it
to the next level.

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"Almost about to"?

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- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah, big step.

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So, there is this program

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that helps people
get over a breakup,

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and I want you to come with me.

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You remember the last one,

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where they just yelled at you,

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and told you
all the stuff you did wrong?

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Or the walking on hot coals guy

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that promised you
all this empowerment,

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and the coals
weren't even real?

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Yeah, I'm still
paying that one off.

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But at least I'm trying.

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Unlike some people
who pretend that they're fine

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and then probably cry
in their cereal every morning.

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I don't even eat cereal.

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Look...

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I just don't want to see you
taken advantage of, okay?

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Give me some credit.

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I did my research.

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She has a great reputation,

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and it's in Campbell Park.

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You love Campbell Park.

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Come on, I'm tired
of feeling like this,

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and I don't
want to do it alone,

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and remember?

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Helping your sister?

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Your greatest strength?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I hate it when my words
come back to haunt me.

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[chuckles]

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Fine.

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Thank you.

271
00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,293
Look at her resume.

272
00:09:42,293 --> 00:09:43,793
Advanced psychology degree,

273
00:09:43,877 --> 00:09:45,209
was in private practice,

274
00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:46,209
and she's a Reiki instructor.

275
00:09:46,293 --> 00:09:48,585
I don't know what that means,

276
00:09:48,585 --> 00:09:49,918
but it sounds like
teaching experience to me.

277
00:09:50,002 --> 00:09:51,752
Sounds great,

278
00:09:51,752 --> 00:09:53,543
but I mean, qualifications
aren't everything.

279
00:09:53,543 --> 00:09:55,793
We need to find somebody
who gets what we do.

280
00:09:55,877 --> 00:09:58,209
I have a good feeling
about her.

281
00:09:58,293 --> 00:10:00,293
And what I've learned
in my practice

282
00:10:00,293 --> 00:10:02,209
is it's not one size fits all.

283
00:10:02,293 --> 00:10:05,002
You can't treat everyone
out of a textbook.

284
00:10:05,084 --> 00:10:06,668
I could not agree more.

285
00:10:06,752 --> 00:10:08,585
I think that
too much talk therapy,

286
00:10:08,585 --> 00:10:10,460
instead of real action,

287
00:10:10,460 --> 00:10:11,543
can keep people stuck.

288
00:10:11,543 --> 00:10:12,960
Exactly.

289
00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,418
So, I was wondering...

290
00:10:14,418 --> 00:10:15,710
how do you feel

291
00:10:15,710 --> 00:10:18,126
about incorporating
past-life regression

292
00:10:18,126 --> 00:10:19,626
into your program?

293
00:10:21,126 --> 00:10:22,918
Uh... wow.

294
00:10:23,002 --> 00:10:25,835
Well, that is...

295
00:10:25,835 --> 00:10:27,293
not really what--
what we do.

296
00:10:27,293 --> 00:10:28,752
But you should.

297
00:10:28,752 --> 00:10:31,043
Because we aren't always
dealing with trauma

298
00:10:31,043 --> 00:10:33,126
from this lifetime.

299
00:10:34,626 --> 00:10:35,752
Mm-hmm.

300
00:10:35,752 --> 00:10:38,501
Okay, uh, thanks, Gayle.

301
00:10:38,585 --> 00:10:40,376
We will be in touch.

302
00:10:44,334 --> 00:10:45,334
Thank you.

303
00:10:45,418 --> 00:10:47,543
Namaste.

304
00:10:52,668 --> 00:10:54,793
Hi.

305
00:10:54,877 --> 00:10:55,835
Hi. I'm Helen.

306
00:10:55,835 --> 00:10:57,585
It's my second go-round.

307
00:10:57,585 --> 00:10:59,501
I guess it takes more
than six weeks

308
00:10:59,585 --> 00:11:01,084
to get over
a 30-year marriage.

309
00:11:01,168 --> 00:11:04,501
Oh, my goodness,
Bink Williams!

310
00:11:04,585 --> 00:11:05,877
I watch you every morning.

311
00:11:05,877 --> 00:11:08,460
I guess no one's immune
from heartbreak.

312
00:11:08,460 --> 00:11:10,668
Uh, I guess not.

313
00:11:10,752 --> 00:11:12,126
I'm just gonna...

314
00:11:13,626 --> 00:11:14,752
I'm Kim. Hi.

315
00:11:14,752 --> 00:11:15,877
Hi.

316
00:11:15,877 --> 00:11:18,293
I'm here for moral support.

317
00:11:18,293 --> 00:11:20,960
Oh, yes, my brother
is completely unaffected

318
00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,084
by his recent breakup,

319
00:11:22,168 --> 00:11:23,251
or any other breakups

320
00:11:23,251 --> 00:11:25,209
that may have happened
in the past.

321
00:11:25,293 --> 00:11:27,126
At least, that's the story
we're going with.

322
00:11:27,126 --> 00:11:28,793
Well, that's because
it's the truth.

323
00:11:28,877 --> 00:11:30,043
- Ben.
- Hi.

324
00:11:30,043 --> 00:11:31,793
We all go at our own pace.

325
00:11:31,877 --> 00:11:33,376
It takes as long as it takes.
No pressure.

326
00:11:33,460 --> 00:11:35,710
Well, we'll remember that.

327
00:11:35,710 --> 00:11:37,543
- [phone vibrating]
- Oh.

328
00:11:37,543 --> 00:11:39,168
It's work.

329
00:11:39,168 --> 00:11:40,835
I'm gonna take this outside.

330
00:11:40,835 --> 00:11:42,543
You're gonna want a muffin.

331
00:11:42,543 --> 00:11:43,960
Yeah, I'll see you
in the morning, Leo.

332
00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:45,835
Yeah, bye.

333
00:11:49,293 --> 00:11:50,626
You.

334
00:11:50,710 --> 00:11:52,960
Of all the boot camps
in all the world, right?

335
00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,126
Do you know of many others?

336
00:11:54,126 --> 00:11:55,668
Only the military kind.

337
00:11:55,752 --> 00:11:57,126
Hmm.

338
00:11:59,084 --> 00:12:00,293
What are you doing?

339
00:12:00,293 --> 00:12:03,084
Just trying to picture you
with a buzz cut.

340
00:12:03,168 --> 00:12:04,209
And how's that?

341
00:12:04,293 --> 00:12:05,460
I think you picked
the right boot camp.

342
00:12:05,460 --> 00:12:07,251
[chuckling]

343
00:12:09,126 --> 00:12:10,877
Well, you don't sound
too thrilled about it.

344
00:12:10,877 --> 00:12:12,710
Well, my sister
wanted to go to this one.

345
00:12:12,710 --> 00:12:14,835
I'm here for moral support.

346
00:12:14,835 --> 00:12:17,418
That, and she knows
all my secrets.

347
00:12:17,418 --> 00:12:19,585
I mean, it's got
a pretty good reputation,

348
00:12:19,585 --> 00:12:21,543
and you can't beat
the view, so...

349
00:12:21,543 --> 00:12:23,918
Well... yeah,

350
00:12:24,002 --> 00:12:26,084
but Miranda's
Breakup Boot Camp?

351
00:12:26,168 --> 00:12:27,293
Come on,
I cannot be the only one

352
00:12:27,293 --> 00:12:28,835
that thinks this is
a little out there.

353
00:12:28,835 --> 00:12:32,043
I mean, maybe this lady thinks
she can start some new fad,

354
00:12:32,043 --> 00:12:33,168
make a couple bucks,

355
00:12:33,168 --> 00:12:35,002
I've seen it before.

356
00:12:35,084 --> 00:12:35,918
Everybody likes a quick fix.

357
00:12:36,002 --> 00:12:37,334
Mm.

358
00:12:37,418 --> 00:12:39,084
You have some pretty
strong feelings about it.

359
00:12:39,168 --> 00:12:41,668
Pretty strong feelings
about a lot of things.

360
00:12:41,752 --> 00:12:43,293
Like pizza.

361
00:12:43,293 --> 00:12:45,209
Want to go grab a slice?

362
00:12:45,293 --> 00:12:46,668
[mirthless chuckle]

363
00:12:46,752 --> 00:12:48,877
Maybe you shouldn't
knock it before you try it.

364
00:12:48,877 --> 00:12:52,460
I don't know, the whole
kumbaya, circle time,

365
00:12:52,460 --> 00:12:54,710
chanting with strangers
isn't really my thing.

366
00:12:54,710 --> 00:12:57,293
Yeah, no, that's not
my thing at all either, so.

367
00:12:57,293 --> 00:12:59,668
Excellent.
Then we're in agreement.

368
00:12:59,752 --> 00:13:01,084
So, pizza?

369
00:13:02,460 --> 00:13:05,418
Let's just go in,
and just--just give it a try.

370
00:13:05,418 --> 00:13:07,084
You're not going to save me
from this, are you?

371
00:13:07,168 --> 00:13:08,209
Is that what you're saying?

372
00:13:08,293 --> 00:13:10,376
I think only you
can save yourself.

373
00:13:11,334 --> 00:13:12,334
Come on.

374
00:13:14,585 --> 00:13:18,168
Okay, everybody,
give Bink a little space.

375
00:13:18,168 --> 00:13:19,626
And the first thing
that you're gonna learn here

376
00:13:19,710 --> 00:13:20,793
is that we don't date
on the rebound,

377
00:13:20,877 --> 00:13:22,585
yours or anyone else's.

378
00:13:22,585 --> 00:13:24,002
So...

379
00:13:24,084 --> 00:13:26,460
Thank you.

380
00:13:26,460 --> 00:13:27,877
So you're the teacher.

381
00:13:27,877 --> 00:13:30,418
The... breakup boot camper.

382
00:13:30,418 --> 00:13:31,626
Miranda Faraday.

383
00:13:33,126 --> 00:13:35,376
Ready for a little kumbaya,
circle time?

384
00:13:37,043 --> 00:13:38,835
...And by the time
we reach week three,

385
00:13:38,835 --> 00:13:40,376
"Teamwork,"

386
00:13:40,460 --> 00:13:42,418
you are going to feel like
completely different people,

387
00:13:42,418 --> 00:13:44,126
and that'll bring us
right into to week four,

388
00:13:44,126 --> 00:13:45,209
"Connection."

389
00:13:45,293 --> 00:13:47,293
Uh, can I chime in really fast?

390
00:13:47,293 --> 00:13:49,585
I'm sorry, is that a thing
we're allowed to do here?

391
00:13:49,585 --> 00:13:52,418
Yes, this is an open dialogue.

392
00:13:52,418 --> 00:13:54,126
What about fear?

393
00:13:54,251 --> 00:13:55,918
What about fear?

394
00:13:56,002 --> 00:13:57,293
Well, I don't see it
on your list.

395
00:13:57,293 --> 00:13:58,376
You have all these buzzwords,

396
00:13:58,460 --> 00:14:00,793
"Trust, Release, Endurance,"

397
00:14:00,877 --> 00:14:02,918
but when do we deal with fear?

398
00:14:03,002 --> 00:14:04,209
Because that's why
we're all here, right?

399
00:14:04,293 --> 00:14:06,585
We're afraid to deal with life,

400
00:14:06,585 --> 00:14:08,002
without that person
that just broke our hearts.

401
00:14:08,084 --> 00:14:09,043
Ben--

402
00:14:09,043 --> 00:14:11,168
He's right.

403
00:14:11,168 --> 00:14:12,668
I'm scared to be on my own,

404
00:14:12,752 --> 00:14:15,002
and I can't just move on

405
00:14:15,084 --> 00:14:16,710
since I have to see Bethany
and her new girlfriend,

406
00:14:16,710 --> 00:14:17,793
every other week,

407
00:14:17,877 --> 00:14:19,877
because of Ruth.

408
00:14:19,877 --> 00:14:22,918
We share custody.

409
00:14:23,002 --> 00:14:25,877
It's so hard on the kids,
going back and forth.

410
00:14:25,877 --> 00:14:27,877
Thankfully,
mine are grown now.

411
00:14:27,877 --> 00:14:30,043
Oh, Ruth is a cat,

412
00:14:30,043 --> 00:14:34,877
but she's definitely struggling.

413
00:14:34,877 --> 00:14:36,752
See, fear is a powerful
motivator for people.

414
00:14:36,752 --> 00:14:39,043
Fear is a symptom.

415
00:14:39,043 --> 00:14:40,793
Trust, endurance,

416
00:14:40,877 --> 00:14:42,626
those are solutions,

417
00:14:42,710 --> 00:14:44,710
and here in my boot camp,

418
00:14:44,710 --> 00:14:46,835
we choose to focus
on the buzzwords that uplift.

419
00:14:46,835 --> 00:14:49,585
Yeah, perhaps the person
with the Ph.D.

420
00:14:49,585 --> 00:14:51,251
can continue
with the orientation.

421
00:14:51,251 --> 00:14:52,418
Unless, of course,

422
00:14:52,418 --> 00:14:53,543
you have a post graduate degree
as well?

423
00:14:53,543 --> 00:14:56,126
No, no,
just asking questions.

424
00:14:56,126 --> 00:14:57,168
She said it was allowed.

425
00:14:57,168 --> 00:14:58,293
[Miranda] It's okay.

426
00:14:58,293 --> 00:14:59,168
We're all just
breaking the ice here,

427
00:14:59,168 --> 00:15:00,626
but I do think

428
00:15:00,710 --> 00:15:03,418
that you should do one thing
every day that scares you,

429
00:15:03,418 --> 00:15:04,960
but I call that empowerment.

430
00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,168
What are you afraid of?

431
00:15:07,168 --> 00:15:08,209
Heights.

432
00:15:08,293 --> 00:15:09,168
Spiders.

433
00:15:09,168 --> 00:15:11,293
Dentist...

434
00:15:11,293 --> 00:15:13,918
but I'm not going
to the dentist every day.

435
00:15:14,002 --> 00:15:16,251
No, no, no one
is asking you to do that,

436
00:15:16,251 --> 00:15:17,668
but when you face those fears,

437
00:15:17,752 --> 00:15:19,002
the heights, the spiders,
the dentist,

438
00:15:19,084 --> 00:15:21,585
you feel like
you can overcome anything,

439
00:15:21,585 --> 00:15:22,752
including a broken heart,

440
00:15:22,752 --> 00:15:25,376
and that is empowerment.

441
00:15:25,460 --> 00:15:28,460
Because it's easy
to just be negative and cynical

442
00:15:28,460 --> 00:15:30,752
and want to tear things down.

443
00:15:30,752 --> 00:15:32,334
So, this program,

444
00:15:32,418 --> 00:15:34,334
we're gonna focus
on the positive,

445
00:15:34,418 --> 00:15:35,543
and you will see
exactly what I mean

446
00:15:35,543 --> 00:15:37,585
in our kickstart session,
on Thursday,

447
00:15:37,585 --> 00:15:38,418
called "Release."

448
00:15:46,877 --> 00:15:47,626
Ben...

449
00:15:49,376 --> 00:15:51,334
I'll wait for you outside.

450
00:15:51,418 --> 00:15:52,293
Apologize.

451
00:15:56,043 --> 00:15:57,960
You didn't tell me
who you were.

452
00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,209
You didn't ask.

453
00:15:59,293 --> 00:16:00,752
I just wanted to say

454
00:16:00,752 --> 00:16:02,793
that I know it might be weird

455
00:16:02,877 --> 00:16:05,251
because you were so vulnerable
with me the other night,

456
00:16:05,251 --> 00:16:07,460
but there's no shame
in having your heart broken.

457
00:16:09,168 --> 00:16:12,168
My heart's not broken,
it's gently bruised.

458
00:16:12,168 --> 00:16:14,209
Bruises heal faster
than breaks.

459
00:16:14,293 --> 00:16:17,084
Maybe there's
an underlying injury

460
00:16:17,168 --> 00:16:18,043
you don't know about?

461
00:16:19,376 --> 00:16:20,209
Come on, I was there.

462
00:16:20,293 --> 00:16:22,501
I saw you.

463
00:16:22,585 --> 00:16:24,043
It's not as bad
as you're making it out to be.

464
00:16:24,043 --> 00:16:25,543
I'm doing great now.

465
00:16:25,543 --> 00:16:26,585
I'm processing things.

466
00:16:26,585 --> 00:16:27,752
Moving on.

467
00:16:27,752 --> 00:16:28,877
In four days?

468
00:16:28,877 --> 00:16:30,626
Sometimes, four days
is all you need.

469
00:16:32,376 --> 00:16:34,918
Okay.

470
00:16:35,002 --> 00:16:36,002
I think there's
something you want to say,

471
00:16:36,084 --> 00:16:37,209
and I think it has to do
with the fact

472
00:16:37,293 --> 00:16:38,334
that you're famished,

473
00:16:38,418 --> 00:16:39,710
and you really want
to take me up

474
00:16:39,710 --> 00:16:41,084
on that pizza offer right now.

475
00:16:41,168 --> 00:16:43,126
Yeah, that's not
what I was going to say.

476
00:16:43,126 --> 00:16:44,585
I do wonder

477
00:16:44,585 --> 00:16:45,960
if this program
is the right fit for you?

478
00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:49,334
Are you booting me out
of boot camp?

479
00:16:49,418 --> 00:16:50,501
No, I wouldn't do that,

480
00:16:50,585 --> 00:16:52,168
because I can help you,

481
00:16:52,168 --> 00:16:54,293
but it only works
if you take it seriously,

482
00:16:54,293 --> 00:16:56,418
so I think that is something
that you need to figure out.

483
00:17:03,877 --> 00:17:05,543
You just can't help yourself.

484
00:17:05,543 --> 00:17:06,960
You always
have to say something.

485
00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:08,251
Editor of the Harvard Crimson.

486
00:17:08,251 --> 00:17:10,585
You went to an Ivy,
and became a know-it-all.

487
00:17:10,585 --> 00:17:11,752
Oh, stop.

488
00:17:11,752 --> 00:17:13,626
I was a know-it-all
way before Harvard.

489
00:17:13,710 --> 00:17:14,877
[chuckles]

490
00:17:14,877 --> 00:17:16,168
You know what, I'm fine.

491
00:17:16,168 --> 00:17:17,710
I can do this on my own.

492
00:17:17,710 --> 00:17:18,918
I mean, it's obvious

493
00:17:19,002 --> 00:17:20,209
you're never going to deal
with your stuff.

494
00:17:20,293 --> 00:17:21,376
Or is it

495
00:17:21,460 --> 00:17:22,460
that I've already
dealt with my stuff,

496
00:17:22,460 --> 00:17:23,585
and this is redundant?

497
00:17:25,293 --> 00:17:26,960
You don't have to come back
on Thursday.

498
00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,626
Well, you can't say
we didn't try.

499
00:17:29,710 --> 00:17:31,501
Sure I can.

500
00:17:31,585 --> 00:17:33,168
[laughing]

501
00:17:33,168 --> 00:17:34,752
[♪]

502
00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,126
<i>You've reached</i>
<i>Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.</i>

503
00:17:40,126 --> 00:17:41,877
<i>Please leave your name</i>
<i>and number,</i>

504
00:17:41,877 --> 00:17:42,752
<i>and someone</i>
<i>will get back to you</i>

505
00:17:42,752 --> 00:17:44,043
<i>as soon as possible.</i>

506
00:17:44,043 --> 00:17:45,209
<i>Thanks.</i>
<i>[beep]</i>

507
00:17:45,293 --> 00:17:47,168
Miranda, hey,
Ben Myers here.

508
00:17:47,168 --> 00:17:49,251
Listen, I was thinking
about what you said,

509
00:17:49,251 --> 00:17:53,793
and I think that the program
is not for me,

510
00:17:53,877 --> 00:17:55,710
but I did want to say thank you,

511
00:17:55,710 --> 00:17:57,209
and good luck,

512
00:17:57,293 --> 00:18:01,293
and if you change your mind
about that pizza...

513
00:18:01,293 --> 00:18:04,126
Yeah. Bye.

514
00:18:06,043 --> 00:18:07,043
You got a minute?

515
00:18:07,043 --> 00:18:07,960
I have some news.

516
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:08,835
Yeah, yeah, sure.

517
00:18:10,460 --> 00:18:12,501
Dean Rossi
got a job in Austin.

518
00:18:12,585 --> 00:18:13,835
He's leaving
at the end of the month.

519
00:18:13,835 --> 00:18:16,126
So there's an opening
for a features editor?

520
00:18:16,126 --> 00:18:17,918
The board doesn't know
if you're ready,

521
00:18:18,002 --> 00:18:19,168
but I'm working on them.

522
00:18:19,168 --> 00:18:20,626
You just keep doing
what you're doing.

523
00:18:20,710 --> 00:18:22,209
Whatever it takes.

524
00:18:22,293 --> 00:18:25,043
I appreciate the vote
of confidence, Leo, really.

525
00:18:28,835 --> 00:18:31,251
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.

526
00:18:31,251 --> 00:18:32,960
I saw this lady
on <i>Good Day Portland.</i>

527
00:18:34,334 --> 00:18:36,334
- Are you doing this?
- Well, no.

528
00:18:36,418 --> 00:18:38,668
I went once,
but just to help my sister,

529
00:18:38,752 --> 00:18:40,043
I'm not gonna go back.

530
00:18:40,043 --> 00:18:43,168
She's always into
that self-help, fad stuff.

531
00:18:43,168 --> 00:18:44,126
No, Ben...

532
00:18:44,126 --> 00:18:45,293
You need to go back.

533
00:18:45,293 --> 00:18:47,501
I don't need this, Leo.
I'm fine.

534
00:18:47,585 --> 00:18:49,793
No, I mean, on assignment.

535
00:18:49,877 --> 00:18:51,334
You know more than anyone

536
00:18:51,418 --> 00:18:52,835
that once you start digging
beneath the surface,

537
00:18:52,835 --> 00:18:53,793
sometimes, you strike oil,

538
00:18:53,877 --> 00:18:55,293
like with that Ponzi thing.

539
00:18:55,293 --> 00:18:57,626
Well, I don't know that
this is like the Ponzi thing.

540
00:18:57,710 --> 00:18:59,168
Well, maybe not,

541
00:18:59,168 --> 00:19:00,043
but is this the real deal,

542
00:19:00,043 --> 00:19:01,376
or is it just some fad,

543
00:19:01,460 --> 00:19:03,043
full of empty promises?

544
00:19:03,043 --> 00:19:05,626
These people are everywhere.

545
00:19:05,710 --> 00:19:07,043
Nobody is better than you

546
00:19:07,043 --> 00:19:08,418
at finding the story
beneath the story.

547
00:19:08,418 --> 00:19:10,293
Go back, dig around,

548
00:19:10,293 --> 00:19:11,668
and bring me something good,

549
00:19:11,752 --> 00:19:13,793
and if it turns out as well
as the last piece,

550
00:19:13,877 --> 00:19:16,334
well, that editor job
is as good as yours.

551
00:19:16,418 --> 00:19:18,168
[♪]

552
00:19:27,002 --> 00:19:28,043
Hey.

553
00:19:28,043 --> 00:19:29,960
Ben isn't gonna be coming back,

554
00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,793
so I'll use the extra bag
for demonstration.

555
00:19:31,877 --> 00:19:33,793
- Can I talk to you for a sec?
- Yeah, what's up?

556
00:19:33,877 --> 00:19:36,002
There's a voicemail
you need to listen to.

557
00:19:36,084 --> 00:19:37,334
<i>[voicemail beeps]</i>

558
00:19:37,418 --> 00:19:39,918
<i>Hi, um... it's Dex.</i>

559
00:19:40,002 --> 00:19:41,835
<i>You're probably surprised</i>
<i>to hear from me,</i>

560
00:19:41,835 --> 00:19:43,918
<i>but I, uh,</i>

561
00:19:44,002 --> 00:19:47,543
<i>noticed you liked</i>
<i>one of my photos online,</i>

562
00:19:47,543 --> 00:19:49,918
<i>which was kind of strange,</i>

563
00:19:50,002 --> 00:19:52,293
<i>uh, and I think we should talk.</i>

564
00:19:52,293 --> 00:19:53,460
<i>So can you call me?</i>

565
00:19:53,460 --> 00:19:54,877
<i>Thanks.</i>

566
00:19:54,877 --> 00:19:56,960
You liked one of
your ex-husband's photos?

567
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:58,002
No!

568
00:19:58,084 --> 00:20:00,251
Not on purpose.

569
00:20:00,251 --> 00:20:02,126
You were cyberstalking him?

570
00:20:02,126 --> 00:20:02,960
I was curious,

571
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,460
I...

572
00:20:04,460 --> 00:20:06,084
kind of like when you're
watching the nature channel,

573
00:20:06,168 --> 00:20:07,918
and you see, like,
a snake eating a frog,

574
00:20:08,002 --> 00:20:10,251
and you just... keep watching.

575
00:20:10,251 --> 00:20:12,126
That is such a weird analogy,

576
00:20:12,126 --> 00:20:13,752
and I don't know
what is going on with you,

577
00:20:13,752 --> 00:20:16,960
but that is exactly what
we tell our clients not to do.

578
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,251
Dex does not deserve
any more of your attention.

579
00:20:19,251 --> 00:20:21,043
I know.
It was one time, Chloe.

580
00:20:21,043 --> 00:20:22,126
Are you gonna call him?

581
00:20:22,126 --> 00:20:23,460
No.

582
00:20:23,460 --> 00:20:25,710
He clearly thinks
that I'm pining over him,

583
00:20:25,710 --> 00:20:26,752
and if I call him back,

584
00:20:26,752 --> 00:20:27,835
it's just gonna confirm that,

585
00:20:27,835 --> 00:20:29,877
so no, I'm not calling him back.

586
00:20:29,877 --> 00:20:31,043
Tell me that you are not.

587
00:20:31,043 --> 00:20:32,043
Not what?

588
00:20:32,043 --> 00:20:33,334
Pining over him.

589
00:20:33,418 --> 00:20:34,626
No!

590
00:20:34,710 --> 00:20:38,168
I am totally, definitely,
categorically

591
00:20:38,168 --> 00:20:39,710
not pining over him.

592
00:20:39,710 --> 00:20:42,543
I don't need to call him back
to prove that.

593
00:20:42,543 --> 00:20:44,668
So, yeah, no,
I'm not calling him back.

594
00:20:44,752 --> 00:20:47,084
And you are deleting
that app off your phone.

595
00:20:54,793 --> 00:20:56,126
[♪]

596
00:20:56,126 --> 00:20:58,168
I mean, I'm the first one
there in the morning,

597
00:20:58,168 --> 00:21:00,418
I'm the last to leave at night,

598
00:21:00,418 --> 00:21:02,084
I do every assignment
that they give me,

599
00:21:02,168 --> 00:21:03,752
and he still has to sell me
to the board.

600
00:21:03,752 --> 00:21:05,251
You've only been
at the magazine for two years.

601
00:21:05,251 --> 00:21:06,543
These things take time.

602
00:21:06,543 --> 00:21:08,793
But I'm so ready.

603
00:21:08,877 --> 00:21:11,126
I'll do whatever it takes
to prove I'm up to the task.

604
00:21:11,126 --> 00:21:12,293
You'll get there.

605
00:21:12,293 --> 00:21:13,209
Just keep doing
what you're doing.

606
00:21:13,293 --> 00:21:14,376
Yeah.

607
00:21:15,543 --> 00:21:17,877
- Jen.
- Ben.

608
00:21:17,877 --> 00:21:19,002
Hey.

609
00:21:19,084 --> 00:21:21,585
It's not what it looks like.

610
00:21:21,585 --> 00:21:23,209
We just... went to lunch.

611
00:21:23,293 --> 00:21:25,168
Right.

612
00:21:26,793 --> 00:21:29,002
You remember Emmett
from my office?

613
00:21:29,084 --> 00:21:30,710
Yeah. Sure.

614
00:21:30,710 --> 00:21:32,209
No hard feelings,
right, bro?

615
00:21:34,501 --> 00:21:35,418
No.

616
00:21:38,501 --> 00:21:40,293
We gotta go to work.

617
00:21:40,293 --> 00:21:41,960
Yeah, us too.

618
00:21:46,334 --> 00:21:48,668
So at least that wasn't awkward.

619
00:21:48,752 --> 00:21:50,501
Well, he seems
perfectly terrible.

620
00:21:50,585 --> 00:21:51,793
Oh, I've met him.
He is.

621
00:21:51,877 --> 00:21:54,334
You okay?

622
00:21:54,418 --> 00:21:56,668
I didn't realize
I was that replaceable.

623
00:21:56,752 --> 00:21:58,376
Hey...

624
00:21:58,460 --> 00:22:00,209
this says way more about her
than it does you.

625
00:22:00,293 --> 00:22:02,376
Don't self-help me.

626
00:22:02,460 --> 00:22:04,460
Come on, you sound like
the boot camp instructor.

627
00:22:04,460 --> 00:22:06,126
I'll take that as a compliment.

628
00:22:06,126 --> 00:22:07,293
She's very smart.

629
00:22:07,293 --> 00:22:09,460
- Lots of five-star reviews
- Oh.

630
00:22:09,460 --> 00:22:11,960
Come on, we can
get over this together.

631
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,585
Me and you,

632
00:22:13,585 --> 00:22:14,752
and you and me.

633
00:22:14,752 --> 00:22:15,835
Us. Team.

634
00:22:15,835 --> 00:22:17,251
Power healing.

635
00:22:17,251 --> 00:22:18,668
[chuckling]

636
00:22:18,752 --> 00:22:20,585
Fine. I'll go back with you,

637
00:22:20,585 --> 00:22:22,002
but only because I want
to take care of you, all right?

638
00:22:22,084 --> 00:22:23,334
I want to make sure
you don't get sucked in.

639
00:22:23,418 --> 00:22:25,793
Yeah, I don't think
that's the only reason.

640
00:22:27,126 --> 00:22:28,501
Thank you.

641
00:22:29,585 --> 00:22:30,460
Miranda?

642
00:22:31,835 --> 00:22:34,168
Oh, hi, uh, refund.

643
00:22:34,168 --> 00:22:36,126
I'll have Chloe
cut you a check.

644
00:22:36,126 --> 00:22:37,168
No, actually...

645
00:22:38,501 --> 00:22:40,752
Um, I've been thinking about it,

646
00:22:40,752 --> 00:22:42,084
and I'm ready to do the work.

647
00:22:42,168 --> 00:22:44,668
That's a pretty big change
from before

648
00:22:44,752 --> 00:22:46,251
when you called it a fad,

649
00:22:46,251 --> 00:22:49,002
and said that I was trying
to con vulnerable people

650
00:22:49,084 --> 00:22:50,126
out of their hard-earned money.

651
00:22:50,126 --> 00:22:51,126
I didn't say that
about you specifically--

652
00:22:51,126 --> 00:22:52,710
- It was implied.
- But not intended.

653
00:22:52,710 --> 00:22:53,918
So, what changed?

654
00:22:54,002 --> 00:22:55,793
I'm a man who knows his flaws.

655
00:22:55,877 --> 00:22:57,960
Oh, do go on.

656
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,877
Okay, I ran into
my ex-girlfriend,

657
00:23:00,877 --> 00:23:02,835
already on a date.

658
00:23:02,835 --> 00:23:04,293
[sighs] That sucks.

659
00:23:04,293 --> 00:23:05,501
I'm sorry to hear that.

660
00:23:05,585 --> 00:23:07,126
Sounds like a textbook rebound.

661
00:23:07,126 --> 00:23:09,002
Yeah.
The guy called me, "Bro," too

662
00:23:09,084 --> 00:23:10,168
Yikes.

663
00:23:10,168 --> 00:23:11,376
Extra sorry.

664
00:23:11,460 --> 00:23:13,835
Okay, well, are you ready

665
00:23:13,835 --> 00:23:15,334
to check your inner cynic
at the door?

666
00:23:15,418 --> 00:23:17,543
Because tonight
we sign the pledge.

667
00:23:17,543 --> 00:23:18,752
Of allegiance?

668
00:23:18,752 --> 00:23:20,877
Because if not,

669
00:23:20,877 --> 00:23:22,418
that sounds a little culty,
you know that, right?

670
00:23:22,418 --> 00:23:23,752
What am I signing exactly?

671
00:23:23,752 --> 00:23:24,918
It's a pledge of commitment,

672
00:23:25,002 --> 00:23:25,918
and it's not to me,

673
00:23:26,002 --> 00:23:27,293
it's to you.

674
00:23:27,293 --> 00:23:28,334
If you think you can commit.

675
00:23:28,418 --> 00:23:29,501
Oh, I can commit.

676
00:23:29,585 --> 00:23:30,543
I've had the same ficus
for 10 years,

677
00:23:30,543 --> 00:23:32,043
but I never sign anything

678
00:23:32,043 --> 00:23:33,460
until I see the fine print.

679
00:23:33,460 --> 00:23:35,293
Listen, Ben,
I want you to know

680
00:23:35,293 --> 00:23:36,668
that I am committed

681
00:23:36,752 --> 00:23:38,543
to helping you
get over your breakup.

682
00:23:38,543 --> 00:23:40,293
And I'm committed
to helping you get over yours.

683
00:23:40,293 --> 00:23:42,710
Mm, that's not
how this is gonna work.

684
00:23:42,710 --> 00:23:43,918
Ah, but is it, though?

685
00:23:44,002 --> 00:23:46,002
Okay, how about

686
00:23:46,084 --> 00:23:48,126
we just lose
all preconceived notions

687
00:23:48,126 --> 00:23:50,043
we have about one another,

688
00:23:50,043 --> 00:23:50,960
and we start fresh.

689
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:51,835
Deal?

690
00:23:54,002 --> 00:23:55,251
Deal.

691
00:23:55,251 --> 00:23:57,251
Good.

692
00:24:01,460 --> 00:24:03,168
Kick!

693
00:24:03,168 --> 00:24:06,543
Welcome to week one, "Release".

694
00:24:06,543 --> 00:24:07,877
Punch!

695
00:24:07,877 --> 00:24:09,626
Kick! Come on!

696
00:24:10,752 --> 00:24:11,626
Atta way.

697
00:24:11,710 --> 00:24:13,293
You have anger.

698
00:24:13,293 --> 00:24:15,960
You have pain, you have fear.

699
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,877
Accept those emotions,

700
00:24:17,877 --> 00:24:20,126
and then release them
into that bag.

701
00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:21,668
Just like that.

702
00:24:21,752 --> 00:24:24,334
Kim, do not go easy
on that bag.

703
00:24:24,418 --> 00:24:25,793
Did what's-his-name
go easy on your heart?

704
00:24:25,877 --> 00:24:26,960
Darren?

705
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:28,918
No, he did not.

706
00:24:29,002 --> 00:24:29,960
Atta girl.

707
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,209
Let it out, let it out!

708
00:24:31,293 --> 00:24:33,585
What is going on over here?

709
00:24:33,585 --> 00:24:35,209
I just, I don't see
what good this is doing.

710
00:24:35,293 --> 00:24:37,209
I'm a lover, not a fighter.

711
00:24:37,293 --> 00:24:38,334
[mirthless chuckle]

712
00:24:38,418 --> 00:24:40,126
Less talking, more punching.

713
00:24:43,043 --> 00:24:45,543
Oh, come on, Ben,
a nine-year-old could take you.

714
00:24:45,543 --> 00:24:46,877
Do better.
You're holding on too tight.

715
00:24:46,877 --> 00:24:49,418
I don't want to pretend
the bag is Jen.

716
00:24:49,418 --> 00:24:51,002
Or someone else
from your past?

717
00:24:53,002 --> 00:24:54,251
Okay, then,

718
00:24:54,251 --> 00:24:58,084
why don't you just
give it a hit... bro?

719
00:25:01,710 --> 00:25:02,877
Yes! Better.

720
00:25:02,877 --> 00:25:04,793
Thank you, Ben,
for joining us.

721
00:25:04,877 --> 00:25:05,585
Kick!

722
00:25:06,793 --> 00:25:07,918
Ooh! Ow!

723
00:25:09,209 --> 00:25:10,334
Sorry.

724
00:25:10,418 --> 00:25:12,543
You're okay.
Let's walk it off.

725
00:25:12,543 --> 00:25:14,668
[Bink back-kicks bag]

726
00:25:18,002 --> 00:25:20,376
So, Bink Williams hates me.

727
00:25:20,460 --> 00:25:21,710
I never thought I'd say that.

728
00:25:21,710 --> 00:25:23,251
[laughs]

729
00:25:23,251 --> 00:25:24,418
This does feel good,
though, right?

730
00:25:25,877 --> 00:25:27,334
Yeah, I guess.

731
00:25:30,376 --> 00:25:32,126
- Have a good night.
- See ya.

732
00:25:33,668 --> 00:25:35,501
[cell phone ringing]

733
00:25:35,585 --> 00:25:37,668
- Yo, hey.
- How was it?

734
00:25:37,752 --> 00:25:39,501
It was about
what you'd expect,

735
00:25:39,585 --> 00:25:40,668
but I got a good workout,

736
00:25:40,752 --> 00:25:42,877
which is a win
since you keep me so busy,

737
00:25:42,877 --> 00:25:44,168
<i>I had to cancel the gym.</i>

738
00:25:44,168 --> 00:25:45,668
So what's the deal?

739
00:25:45,752 --> 00:25:48,002
I don't know yet,
still sussing it out,

740
00:25:48,084 --> 00:25:50,376
<i>but there was</i>
<i>one red flag, though.</i>

741
00:25:50,460 --> 00:25:52,334
This commitment thing
she wants us to sign.

742
00:25:52,418 --> 00:25:53,585
Hmm.

743
00:25:53,585 --> 00:25:55,168
Well, make sure
you read the fine print.

744
00:25:55,168 --> 00:25:56,501
Oh, I intend to.

745
00:25:56,585 --> 00:25:57,668
Okay, keep digging, Ben.

746
00:25:57,752 --> 00:25:59,209
Yeah.

747
00:26:07,168 --> 00:26:07,877
Hey...

748
00:26:07,877 --> 00:26:09,585
Hey.

749
00:26:09,585 --> 00:26:10,793
Uh, I just wanted to say

750
00:26:10,877 --> 00:26:13,209
that was really good in there.

751
00:26:13,293 --> 00:26:14,793
Uh, I'm just really feeling it.

752
00:26:14,877 --> 00:26:17,877
See, once you stop resisting,
it's not so bad.

753
00:26:17,877 --> 00:26:19,543
Yeah...

754
00:26:19,543 --> 00:26:22,293
and starting with Release Week
was super intense.

755
00:26:22,293 --> 00:26:23,043
Anybody ever ask
for their money back

756
00:26:23,043 --> 00:26:24,002
after this point?

757
00:26:24,084 --> 00:26:27,543
I was checking out your terms,

758
00:26:27,543 --> 00:26:30,209
and you're pretty tough
on refunds.

759
00:26:30,293 --> 00:26:31,626
Well, I'm only tough on them
because--

760
00:26:31,710 --> 00:26:33,793
Miranda.

761
00:26:35,752 --> 00:26:36,668
Dex.

762
00:26:36,752 --> 00:26:38,418
You, um...

763
00:26:38,418 --> 00:26:41,002
you didn't call me back,
and I think we should talk.

764
00:26:41,084 --> 00:26:44,084
Uh, y-yeah,
we totally should, uh,

765
00:26:44,168 --> 00:26:46,251
but tonight is not good for me.

766
00:26:46,251 --> 00:26:48,002
I, uh...

767
00:26:48,084 --> 00:26:50,334
W-we have a thing.

768
00:26:53,376 --> 00:26:54,668
Right,

769
00:26:54,752 --> 00:26:56,877
and we're late for that thing.

770
00:26:56,877 --> 00:26:58,835
Yeah.

771
00:26:58,835 --> 00:26:59,918
Reservations.
Our favorite restaurant.

772
00:27:00,002 --> 00:27:01,168
Sushi restaurant.

773
00:27:01,168 --> 00:27:04,251
Chef Koji
keeps the hand rolls coming.

774
00:27:05,376 --> 00:27:06,960
They are... good.

775
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,168
Mm-hmm.

776
00:27:08,168 --> 00:27:10,084
And then after,

777
00:27:10,168 --> 00:27:12,918
we go to the overlook,

778
00:27:13,002 --> 00:27:14,460
and drink some wine,

779
00:27:14,460 --> 00:27:16,710
and look out over the city,

780
00:27:16,710 --> 00:27:19,334
and plot out our lives.

781
00:27:22,543 --> 00:27:23,543
Yup, that's us.

782
00:27:23,543 --> 00:27:25,209
Every Thursday night.

783
00:27:27,334 --> 00:27:28,960
Super fun.

784
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,084
You bet.

785
00:27:30,168 --> 00:27:32,002
Right...

786
00:27:32,084 --> 00:27:34,043
Okay, um...

787
00:27:34,043 --> 00:27:35,752
So, you'll call me
to set up a time?

788
00:27:35,752 --> 00:27:37,293
Yeah, totally, um...

789
00:27:37,293 --> 00:27:39,501
[scoffs awkwardly] Bye.

790
00:27:51,460 --> 00:27:54,002
You want to talk about it?

791
00:27:54,084 --> 00:27:55,168
No.

792
00:27:55,168 --> 00:27:56,376
Ah-hah.

793
00:27:56,460 --> 00:27:59,460
Invisible teacher-client line, huh?

794
00:27:59,460 --> 00:28:01,543
But I am kind of involved now,

795
00:28:01,543 --> 00:28:04,002
if you did
want to talk about it.

796
00:28:04,084 --> 00:28:05,918
I promise
I wouldn't tell anybody.

797
00:28:06,002 --> 00:28:07,002
[sighs]

798
00:28:07,084 --> 00:28:08,543
That was my ex-husband.

799
00:28:08,543 --> 00:28:09,752
I sort of assumed.

800
00:28:09,752 --> 00:28:11,002
Hmm, well, you know
what they say

801
00:28:11,084 --> 00:28:12,376
about people who assume...

802
00:28:12,460 --> 00:28:13,626
They're very charming.

803
00:28:13,710 --> 00:28:14,710
[laughs]

804
00:28:15,877 --> 00:28:17,501
So, are you going to call him?

805
00:28:17,585 --> 00:28:19,209
No.

806
00:28:19,293 --> 00:28:20,668
Look, I know
we don't get to closure

807
00:28:20,752 --> 00:28:21,877
until, like, week six,

808
00:28:21,877 --> 00:28:24,460
but maybe
that's why he was here?

809
00:28:24,460 --> 00:28:26,293
I don't need closure.

810
00:28:26,293 --> 00:28:28,043
Oh, come on, you tell
everybody in your classes

811
00:28:28,043 --> 00:28:29,084
to do these things,

812
00:28:29,168 --> 00:28:30,251
but you don't
believe it yourself?

813
00:28:30,251 --> 00:28:31,793
No, that's not what...

814
00:28:31,877 --> 00:28:33,877
Look, he doesn't get
to just leave

815
00:28:33,877 --> 00:28:34,752
without saying a word,

816
00:28:34,752 --> 00:28:36,626
and show back up out of...

817
00:28:36,710 --> 00:28:38,002
What were you talking about,

818
00:28:38,084 --> 00:28:40,084
because that stuff
was very specific.

819
00:28:40,168 --> 00:28:44,710
Uh, I was just...
mentioning my favorite place.

820
00:28:44,710 --> 00:28:45,543
I know what you're doing.

821
00:28:45,543 --> 00:28:46,835
What am I doing?

822
00:28:46,835 --> 00:28:48,126
Well, you're turning it
back around on me,

823
00:28:48,126 --> 00:28:49,626
when the moment
was most definitely about you.

824
00:28:49,710 --> 00:28:50,877
Yeah,
but you made it about you

825
00:28:50,877 --> 00:28:53,002
when you started getting
super descriptive.

826
00:28:53,084 --> 00:28:54,543
It was hypothetical.

827
00:28:54,543 --> 00:28:56,084
Was it, though?

828
00:28:56,168 --> 00:28:57,251
Yeah.

829
00:28:57,251 --> 00:28:59,168
Yeah, it was...

830
00:28:59,168 --> 00:29:01,710
I would be happy to do that
in real life sometime,

831
00:29:01,710 --> 00:29:02,710
if you're game.

832
00:29:02,710 --> 00:29:03,918
[mirthless laugh]

833
00:29:05,376 --> 00:29:08,209
I have to go prep a class
that starts tomorrow,

834
00:29:08,293 --> 00:29:10,668
but thank you very much

835
00:29:10,752 --> 00:29:11,501
for your help,

836
00:29:11,585 --> 00:29:12,752
Ben.

837
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,002
Tough love, but then
I leave out the love part,

838
00:29:23,084 --> 00:29:24,376
because you can't go too easy
on your clients,

839
00:29:24,460 --> 00:29:25,793
or they never learn.

840
00:29:25,877 --> 00:29:28,501
What we're looking for
in our new instructor, Simon,

841
00:29:28,585 --> 00:29:30,251
is someone
who can approach things

842
00:29:30,251 --> 00:29:32,126
from a place of kindness.

843
00:29:32,126 --> 00:29:34,460
Kindness can be mistaken
for weakness,

844
00:29:34,460 --> 00:29:36,418
and I'm not weak.

845
00:29:38,002 --> 00:29:40,251
There's certainly
no question about that.

846
00:29:43,126 --> 00:29:45,251
[typing rapidly]

847
00:29:48,918 --> 00:29:49,877
Well, they can't be all good.

848
00:29:49,877 --> 00:29:51,460
What's that?

849
00:29:51,460 --> 00:29:53,376
47 five-star reviews.

850
00:29:53,460 --> 00:29:55,543
Well, you know people are able
to get those things removed

851
00:29:55,543 --> 00:29:56,752
when they're
particularly scathing.

852
00:29:56,752 --> 00:29:57,793
Yeah.

853
00:29:59,043 --> 00:30:00,251
Miranda did say one thing

854
00:30:00,251 --> 00:30:02,501
that was sort of cryptic
the other night.

855
00:30:02,585 --> 00:30:05,376
Almost as if she doesn't believe
in the things that she's doing,

856
00:30:05,460 --> 00:30:07,084
or follow them herself.

857
00:30:07,168 --> 00:30:10,752
Hmm, sounds like something
worth looking into.

858
00:30:10,752 --> 00:30:12,209
I have a meeting in the morning,

859
00:30:12,293 --> 00:30:13,668
so do you mind covering
the feature department meeting

860
00:30:13,752 --> 00:30:15,043
till I get there?

861
00:30:15,043 --> 00:30:16,626
Yeah, for sure, I can do that.

862
00:30:16,710 --> 00:30:18,460
It'll be good practice for you.

863
00:30:18,460 --> 00:30:21,002
You know, for the future.

864
00:30:28,002 --> 00:30:29,918
Welcome to week two.

865
00:30:30,002 --> 00:30:31,002
Endurance.

866
00:30:31,084 --> 00:30:34,460
I hated this week last time.

867
00:30:34,460 --> 00:30:35,668
And squats.

868
00:30:35,752 --> 00:30:38,084
[panting]

869
00:30:38,168 --> 00:30:39,668
I mean,
it's not like I wasn't warned--

870
00:30:39,752 --> 00:30:41,334
by Misty,

871
00:30:41,418 --> 00:30:44,002
my guy friends...

872
00:30:44,084 --> 00:30:45,376
even my mom--

873
00:30:45,460 --> 00:30:47,960
but she hates everyone,
so I can't really count her.

874
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,418
I get it, Bink.

875
00:30:49,418 --> 00:30:50,918
My dog hated Darren.

876
00:30:51,002 --> 00:30:52,209
That should've been
my first sign.

877
00:30:52,293 --> 00:30:53,752
Dogs know, Kim.

878
00:30:53,752 --> 00:30:54,793
Dogs know.

879
00:30:56,043 --> 00:30:57,543
I should have, too.

880
00:30:57,543 --> 00:30:59,168
I feel like such an idiot.

881
00:30:59,168 --> 00:31:01,960
But there was this undeniable
connection, you know?

882
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,251
[Kim] Mm-hmm.

883
00:31:03,251 --> 00:31:05,334
She got me in a way
that no one else ever has.

884
00:31:05,418 --> 00:31:07,460
[Miranda] And you're good.

885
00:31:07,460 --> 00:31:11,251
Somebody else will get you
like that again one day, Bink.

886
00:31:11,251 --> 00:31:13,626
In relationships,
we see what we want to see.

887
00:31:13,710 --> 00:31:15,793
This was a lesson
you needed to learn on your own,

888
00:31:15,877 --> 00:31:16,835
and you did.

889
00:31:19,585 --> 00:31:21,251
Okay, jumping jacks, people!
This is endurance!

890
00:31:21,251 --> 00:31:22,418
Come on, come on, come on!

891
00:31:26,585 --> 00:31:28,501
Like a boss, Kim!

892
00:31:30,126 --> 00:31:31,002
Good job!

893
00:31:32,168 --> 00:31:33,251
I don't understand

894
00:31:33,251 --> 00:31:34,626
how this is supposed

895
00:31:34,710 --> 00:31:35,835
to help somebody
get over a breakup.

896
00:31:35,835 --> 00:31:37,668
Challenging yourself

897
00:31:37,752 --> 00:31:40,251
at a point where your confidence
may be depleted

898
00:31:40,251 --> 00:31:41,626
can make you feel powerful.

899
00:31:43,710 --> 00:31:47,376
So I went bungee jumping
this weekend.

900
00:31:47,460 --> 00:31:49,293
I wanted to face my fear,

901
00:31:49,293 --> 00:31:50,585
and it was terrifying--

902
00:31:50,585 --> 00:31:52,002
but in a good way.

903
00:31:53,209 --> 00:31:54,209
She used one of the bad words.

904
00:31:54,293 --> 00:31:56,084
Never mind him.
Go on, Helen.

905
00:31:57,293 --> 00:31:58,376
Well, it was either that,

906
00:31:58,460 --> 00:32:00,418
or call Roger,

907
00:32:00,418 --> 00:32:05,293
so I opted for diving
head first toward the concrete

908
00:32:05,293 --> 00:32:08,209
and praying that the ropes hold.

909
00:32:08,293 --> 00:32:11,002
Well, I'm glad you chose
the safe option.

910
00:32:11,084 --> 00:32:12,460
[Helen] I wanted to feel alive,

911
00:32:12,460 --> 00:32:15,835
which I really actually
haven't felt since my divorce.

912
00:32:17,084 --> 00:32:19,251
And now
everything looks different.

913
00:32:19,251 --> 00:32:20,418
I feel different.

914
00:32:20,418 --> 00:32:21,418
Whoo!

915
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,376
You're really inspiring, Helen.

916
00:32:24,460 --> 00:32:25,710
I am?

917
00:32:27,168 --> 00:32:28,752
Maybe I'm not so wrong.
You should add a fear week.

918
00:32:28,752 --> 00:32:29,793
Maybe I should,

919
00:32:29,877 --> 00:32:30,960
but I would call it
transcendence.

920
00:32:32,334 --> 00:32:33,877
Good job!

921
00:32:33,877 --> 00:32:37,418
Remember, in this life,
you are not alone.

922
00:32:37,418 --> 00:32:40,126
You have a support system.

923
00:32:40,126 --> 00:32:43,084
We'll get more into it during
the Trust and Teamwork week,

924
00:32:43,168 --> 00:32:45,460
but lean on each other, here.

925
00:32:45,460 --> 00:32:46,543
[Ben] Your turn.

926
00:32:46,543 --> 00:32:48,918
Get across that beam.

927
00:32:49,002 --> 00:32:50,126
[Ben] You're so pushy.

928
00:32:50,126 --> 00:32:51,168
Please.

929
00:32:52,418 --> 00:32:53,918
Whoo.

930
00:32:54,002 --> 00:32:56,209
Look at that course.

931
00:32:56,293 --> 00:32:57,251
All of you made it.

932
00:32:57,251 --> 00:33:00,334
Not a single one of you quit.

933
00:33:00,418 --> 00:33:01,960
Next time your confidence
takes a hit,

934
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,209
I want you to remember that,

935
00:33:03,293 --> 00:33:04,793
and I want you to relish it.

936
00:33:06,501 --> 00:33:07,501
Well done.

937
00:33:07,585 --> 00:33:08,460
Helen, how are you feeling?

938
00:33:08,460 --> 00:33:09,710
Oh, yeah.

939
00:33:16,835 --> 00:33:21,002
[♪]

940
00:33:21,084 --> 00:33:22,460
[typing]

941
00:33:35,752 --> 00:33:37,334
Huh.

942
00:33:37,418 --> 00:33:39,418
Looks like I need to find myself
an end-of-the-week ritual, too.

943
00:33:44,043 --> 00:33:45,918
And my sister's yoga teacher
is selling her studio

944
00:33:46,002 --> 00:33:47,460
when she moves
at the end of the summer.

945
00:33:48,793 --> 00:33:50,002
It could be the place.

946
00:33:50,084 --> 00:33:52,043
I mean, if new sign-ups
continue like this,

947
00:33:52,043 --> 00:33:53,793
it's a definite possibility.

948
00:33:55,251 --> 00:33:58,002
So this candidate
has two degrees.

949
00:33:58,084 --> 00:34:00,418
Early childhood education
from NYU

950
00:34:00,418 --> 00:34:02,710
and psychology
from Carnegie Mellon.

951
00:34:02,710 --> 00:34:03,960
Sounds good,

952
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,418
but I know somebody
with an MBA from Columbia

953
00:34:06,418 --> 00:34:07,668
who would be perfect.

954
00:34:07,752 --> 00:34:08,835
This is our business, Miranda.

955
00:34:08,835 --> 00:34:10,168
It's too risky.

956
00:34:11,710 --> 00:34:13,877
Chloe, you've been with me
every step of the way,

957
00:34:13,877 --> 00:34:15,251
since Dex left.

958
00:34:15,251 --> 00:34:18,126
You know this program
better than me, probably.

959
00:34:18,126 --> 00:34:20,293
I just don't have your...

960
00:34:20,293 --> 00:34:21,293
vitality.

961
00:34:23,043 --> 00:34:24,002
Please, between the two of us,

962
00:34:24,084 --> 00:34:25,626
you are the most...

963
00:34:25,710 --> 00:34:27,251
vitalitous.

964
00:34:27,251 --> 00:34:28,084
That is not a word.

965
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,626
It could be, in Canada.

966
00:34:33,460 --> 00:34:34,376
There she is.

967
00:34:38,918 --> 00:34:42,793
[♪]

968
00:34:45,209 --> 00:34:46,209
You?

969
00:34:46,293 --> 00:34:48,084
Me? You?

970
00:34:48,168 --> 00:34:49,835
You climb here?
I climb here.

971
00:34:49,835 --> 00:34:51,418
Like, all the time.

972
00:34:51,418 --> 00:34:52,585
Funny, I've never seen you.

973
00:34:52,585 --> 00:34:55,002
I was thinking about
the obstacle course.

974
00:34:55,084 --> 00:34:58,501
It was empowering.

975
00:34:58,585 --> 00:35:00,376
Didn't want to lose
the momentum.

976
00:35:00,460 --> 00:35:01,752
Good.

977
00:35:01,752 --> 00:35:03,334
Want to race to the top?

978
00:35:03,418 --> 00:35:06,084
I'm more of a slow and steady
kind of climber.

979
00:35:06,168 --> 00:35:07,293
I'm more of

980
00:35:07,293 --> 00:35:08,251
a challenge yourself,
beat your best time

981
00:35:08,251 --> 00:35:09,752
kinda climber.

982
00:35:09,752 --> 00:35:11,084
Kind of figured.

983
00:35:11,168 --> 00:35:12,460
Always on the move, right?

984
00:35:12,460 --> 00:35:14,376
Classes by day,
climbing walls by night?

985
00:35:14,460 --> 00:35:16,168
Uh...

986
00:35:16,168 --> 00:35:17,710
it's how I manage my stress,
I guess.

987
00:35:17,710 --> 00:35:18,877
That's fine,

988
00:35:18,877 --> 00:35:20,626
as long as it's not
an avoidance tactic.

989
00:35:22,002 --> 00:35:23,043
I manage mine by sitting still.

990
00:35:26,334 --> 00:35:28,002
You know, your class is a lot
more expensive than you think.

991
00:35:28,084 --> 00:35:30,126
I've had to go
to the chiropractor three times

992
00:35:30,126 --> 00:35:31,793
since I started--my back.

993
00:35:31,877 --> 00:35:34,501
My class is very affordable.

994
00:35:34,585 --> 00:35:35,626
And I'm sorry about your back.

995
00:35:37,209 --> 00:35:38,084
What about your heart?

996
00:35:40,418 --> 00:35:41,251
Strong and sturdy.

997
00:35:43,084 --> 00:35:44,710
Okay. Not ready
to talk about your stuff yet.

998
00:35:44,710 --> 00:35:46,460
That's fine.

999
00:35:46,460 --> 00:35:47,460
We'll work on it.

1000
00:35:49,793 --> 00:35:51,002
I don't have stuff.

1001
00:35:53,752 --> 00:35:57,793
[♪]

1002
00:36:01,918 --> 00:36:02,752
I'm getting there.

1003
00:36:05,376 --> 00:36:06,293
Whoa!

1004
00:36:11,710 --> 00:36:12,543
You done already?

1005
00:36:15,752 --> 00:36:16,626
Okay.

1006
00:36:17,918 --> 00:36:18,793
You want to switch walls?

1007
00:36:18,877 --> 00:36:20,418
Yeah, sure.

1008
00:36:20,418 --> 00:36:21,293
Can I get some water first?

1009
00:36:21,293 --> 00:36:22,585
Sure.

1010
00:36:23,543 --> 00:36:24,501
So boot camp?

1011
00:36:24,585 --> 00:36:25,626
Where did that come from?

1012
00:36:26,877 --> 00:36:28,710
Necessity is the mother of invention.

1013
00:36:28,710 --> 00:36:29,752
Necessity for you?

1014
00:36:30,918 --> 00:36:31,918
You're a Ph.D.

1015
00:36:32,002 --> 00:36:33,501
You had to be making
a nice living.

1016
00:36:35,168 --> 00:36:36,501
It's never
about the money for me.

1017
00:36:36,585 --> 00:36:38,043
It says on your website

1018
00:36:38,043 --> 00:36:42,918
that you have 417 healed hearts
under your belt.

1019
00:36:43,002 --> 00:36:44,418
How many unhealed?

1020
00:36:44,418 --> 00:36:46,418
You know, looking for problems
where none exist

1021
00:36:46,418 --> 00:36:47,501
is a very unhealthy outlook.

1022
00:36:49,084 --> 00:36:51,209
Or focusing on the negative
from time to time

1023
00:36:51,293 --> 00:36:52,376
is how we improve.

1024
00:36:52,460 --> 00:36:54,293
Grow.

1025
00:36:54,293 --> 00:36:55,710
Which I understand
is sort of your thing.

1026
00:36:57,002 --> 00:36:59,209
See, I pay attention in class.

1027
00:37:01,251 --> 00:37:02,835
Well, sometimes.

1028
00:37:02,835 --> 00:37:04,168
But not in my boot camp.

1029
00:37:04,168 --> 00:37:08,126
Look, this is how I healed
after a broken heart,

1030
00:37:08,126 --> 00:37:09,168
so now it's how I help others.

1031
00:37:09,168 --> 00:37:11,543
Ah, so the business
was your rebound?

1032
00:37:13,293 --> 00:37:15,251
What, is this a workout
or an interrogation?

1033
00:37:17,209 --> 00:37:18,668
I'm placing my trust in you,

1034
00:37:18,752 --> 00:37:20,043
and I just...

1035
00:37:20,043 --> 00:37:22,209
I kind of want to understand
what I should.

1036
00:37:22,293 --> 00:37:23,918
Because it works.

1037
00:37:25,376 --> 00:37:26,251
You'll see.

1038
00:37:26,251 --> 00:37:27,585
Okay.

1039
00:37:29,084 --> 00:37:30,334
As long as you're not diving
into other people's problems

1040
00:37:30,418 --> 00:37:32,084
so you don't have to deal
with your own.

1041
00:37:32,168 --> 00:37:34,168
Is that what you think,
Dr. Freud?

1042
00:37:35,626 --> 00:37:36,835
Go. You can have
a head start this time

1043
00:37:36,835 --> 00:37:38,460
so it's not
so embarrassing for you.

1044
00:37:38,460 --> 00:37:40,334
Right. Here we go again.

1045
00:37:41,918 --> 00:37:42,793
Time's up.

1046
00:37:44,251 --> 00:37:45,585
Okay...

1047
00:37:47,501 --> 00:37:48,918
That's...

1048
00:37:49,002 --> 00:37:50,460
as far as I go.

1049
00:37:53,543 --> 00:37:54,960
- You're doing great.
- I know.

1050
00:37:56,209 --> 00:37:57,376
I'm on to you, you know.

1051
00:37:58,710 --> 00:38:00,002
You can tell me the truth.

1052
00:38:01,418 --> 00:38:02,793
This was your first time,
wasn't it?

1053
00:38:02,877 --> 00:38:04,251
- [laughs]
- Mm-hmm.

1054
00:38:04,251 --> 00:38:05,918
You got me.

1055
00:38:07,668 --> 00:38:08,918
As you can see,

1056
00:38:09,002 --> 00:38:11,251
I'm not so good
at being not so good at things.

1057
00:38:11,251 --> 00:38:12,877
That's why you need
to challenge yourself,

1058
00:38:12,877 --> 00:38:14,543
so that you're not
in your head so much.

1059
00:38:16,626 --> 00:38:18,960
Well, I'm a chronic
over-thinker.

1060
00:38:20,626 --> 00:38:22,752
It's hard for me
to just turn it off.

1061
00:38:23,752 --> 00:38:24,793
There he is.

1062
00:38:24,877 --> 00:38:26,293
I was waiting for that guy
to get here.

1063
00:38:26,293 --> 00:38:27,626
What guy?

1064
00:38:27,710 --> 00:38:29,918
Valet stand Ben.

1065
00:38:30,002 --> 00:38:31,002
The one who thought

1066
00:38:31,084 --> 00:38:32,002
he was never
going to see me again,

1067
00:38:32,084 --> 00:38:33,334
so he was completely real.

1068
00:38:34,710 --> 00:38:37,002
Well, I feel the same way
about valet stand Miranda.

1069
00:38:37,084 --> 00:38:38,209
She just listened.

1070
00:38:38,293 --> 00:38:40,376
She didn't try
to analyze or fix me.

1071
00:38:40,460 --> 00:38:41,710
But that's exactly

1072
00:38:41,710 --> 00:38:43,543
what you're paying
Boot Camp Miranda to do, so.

1073
00:38:44,668 --> 00:38:45,793
Not tonight.

1074
00:38:45,877 --> 00:38:47,084
Tonight, we're just
a couple of climbers.

1075
00:38:47,168 --> 00:38:50,209
One very accomplished climber.

1076
00:38:50,293 --> 00:38:51,752
One who's just happy
he didn't break any bones.

1077
00:38:54,585 --> 00:38:55,793
The night I met you...

1078
00:38:55,877 --> 00:38:57,460
I think Serena did me a favor.

1079
00:39:00,460 --> 00:39:01,460
Did she?

1080
00:39:01,460 --> 00:39:02,668
Yeah.

1081
00:39:02,752 --> 00:39:04,418
I was always talking about

1082
00:39:04,418 --> 00:39:06,543
"maybe almost" taking things
to the next level.

1083
00:39:07,793 --> 00:39:09,168
Jen's problem with me.

1084
00:39:09,168 --> 00:39:11,585
I could never get past
"maybe almost."

1085
00:39:15,460 --> 00:39:16,501
What? Why are you
smirking at me?

1086
00:39:16,585 --> 00:39:19,126
It's not a smirk.

1087
00:39:19,126 --> 00:39:20,376
This is exactly
where you should be

1088
00:39:20,460 --> 00:39:21,418
at this point of the program.

1089
00:39:22,835 --> 00:39:24,002
The letting-go stage.

1090
00:39:26,710 --> 00:39:28,334
That means it's working.

1091
00:39:38,251 --> 00:39:40,543
[♪]

1092
00:39:44,918 --> 00:39:48,084
[♪]

1093
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,626
Well, everyone,
welcome to week three.

1094
00:40:06,710 --> 00:40:07,585
Teamwork.

1095
00:40:08,626 --> 00:40:10,168
After a breakup,

1096
00:40:10,168 --> 00:40:12,376
we can feel like
our trust is shattered

1097
00:40:12,460 --> 00:40:13,543
and that we're alone,

1098
00:40:13,543 --> 00:40:14,710
but we're not.

1099
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,752
We can rely on other people

1100
00:40:17,752 --> 00:40:19,960
to help us through anything.

1101
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,334
So, today,
we are going to work together--

1102
00:40:23,418 --> 00:40:25,168
or we are all going to die!

1103
00:40:26,710 --> 00:40:28,376
There is a bomb in this room

1104
00:40:28,460 --> 00:40:30,793
that is big enough
to destroy the entire city,

1105
00:40:30,877 --> 00:40:33,209
and we have 60 minutes
to dismantle it.

1106
00:40:33,293 --> 00:40:34,376
Start the clock!

1107
00:40:36,002 --> 00:40:38,168
The fate of the people
rests in our collective hands.

1108
00:40:38,168 --> 00:40:39,418
Do not let them down.

1109
00:40:39,418 --> 00:40:40,543
Start.

1110
00:40:40,543 --> 00:40:41,626
Seriously, come on.
There's a bomb!

1111
00:40:46,585 --> 00:40:49,752
Okay... One, two...

1112
00:40:49,752 --> 00:40:50,793
five.

1113
00:40:50,877 --> 00:40:52,209
- Come on.
- Four...

1114
00:40:52,293 --> 00:40:53,084
I'm trying to get this right.

1115
00:40:53,168 --> 00:40:55,209
It's not right!

1116
00:40:55,293 --> 00:40:57,084
Don't yell at your partner.
Lean on them.

1117
00:40:57,168 --> 00:40:58,835
Don't make me do math!

1118
00:40:58,835 --> 00:41:00,251
Okay, switch places.

1119
00:41:00,251 --> 00:41:01,209
- Okay.
- Okay.

1120
00:41:03,002 --> 00:41:05,418
In relationships,

1121
00:41:05,418 --> 00:41:06,877
just as in life,

1122
00:41:06,877 --> 00:41:08,710
if something's not working,
we try a different tactic.

1123
00:41:13,668 --> 00:41:14,585
Ben, how you doing?

1124
00:41:14,585 --> 00:41:16,084
Uh...

1125
00:41:16,168 --> 00:41:17,585
[lock clicks]

1126
00:41:17,585 --> 00:41:18,543
Pretty good, actually.

1127
00:41:18,543 --> 00:41:20,168
You want to, uh...

1128
00:41:20,168 --> 00:41:21,960
you want to press
the big red button?

1129
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,877
Just don't blow up the city.

1130
00:41:30,543 --> 00:41:31,960
Uh...

1131
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,084
cool.

1132
00:41:33,168 --> 00:41:34,418
Secret passage.

1133
00:41:34,418 --> 00:41:35,293
There's no door knob.

1134
00:41:38,293 --> 00:41:39,543
- Yikes.
- Yeah.

1135
00:41:42,418 --> 00:41:44,293
Um...

1136
00:41:44,293 --> 00:41:45,835
There's no door knob.

1137
00:41:45,835 --> 00:41:47,126
[man over P.A.]
<i>Your teammates have encroached</i>

1138
00:41:47,126 --> 00:41:48,334
<i>on enemy territory</i>

1139
00:41:48,418 --> 00:41:49,460
<i>and have been captured.</i>

1140
00:41:49,460 --> 00:41:50,835
<i>You must rescue them</i>

1141
00:41:50,835 --> 00:41:52,251
<i>in order to receive</i>
<i>your next clue.</i>

1142
00:41:54,501 --> 00:41:56,043
Hang in there, Miranda,
we'll save you!

1143
00:41:58,084 --> 00:41:59,877
And my brother.

1144
00:41:59,877 --> 00:42:01,251
Yeah. Sure, whatever.

1145
00:42:02,626 --> 00:42:03,710
[Ben] Tell my mother
I love her.

1146
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,002
[groans]

1147
00:42:06,084 --> 00:42:07,501
I'm not a big fan
of small spaces.

1148
00:42:07,585 --> 00:42:11,460
I have never been a big fan
of small spaces.

1149
00:42:11,460 --> 00:42:13,002
Can...

1150
00:42:13,084 --> 00:42:14,460
[exhales]

1151
00:42:15,668 --> 00:42:17,002
Okay, um...

1152
00:42:18,334 --> 00:42:19,334
[exhales]

1153
00:42:19,418 --> 00:42:21,334
Hey, hey, are you okay?

1154
00:42:21,418 --> 00:42:22,960
Yeah.

1155
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,002
I'm-I'm totally not panicking.

1156
00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:26,501
Except for the part

1157
00:42:26,585 --> 00:42:28,835
where I'm kind of
a little bit panicking.

1158
00:42:28,835 --> 00:42:30,084
Can you just ask me a question

1159
00:42:30,168 --> 00:42:32,043
or distract me
or something, please?

1160
00:42:32,043 --> 00:42:33,334
Yeah. Yeah.

1161
00:42:35,334 --> 00:42:36,334
Uh...

1162
00:42:36,418 --> 00:42:37,334
favorite ice cream?

1163
00:42:37,418 --> 00:42:38,418
Vanilla.

1164
00:42:38,418 --> 00:42:40,168
Come on, that's so boring.

1165
00:42:40,168 --> 00:42:41,209
What's yours?

1166
00:42:41,293 --> 00:42:42,752
Chocolate chip cookie dough.

1167
00:42:42,752 --> 00:42:44,501
Way too complicated.
I'm a purist.

1168
00:42:44,585 --> 00:42:46,585
[chuckles]

1169
00:42:46,585 --> 00:42:49,043
We're working on it, you guys!
Making real good progress here.

1170
00:42:50,209 --> 00:42:51,043
[Helen] No, we're not!

1171
00:42:52,585 --> 00:42:54,793
I know sitting still is not
your favorite activity.

1172
00:42:54,877 --> 00:42:57,501
It's actually right above
being trapped in small spaces,

1173
00:42:57,585 --> 00:42:58,877
so I'm really killing it here.

1174
00:42:58,877 --> 00:43:00,126
Oh, good.

1175
00:43:01,710 --> 00:43:03,293
Oh, can you not tell anyone
out there about this, please?

1176
00:43:03,293 --> 00:43:04,626
Because I do need to maintain

1177
00:43:04,710 --> 00:43:06,585
some sort of
street cred with them.

1178
00:43:08,126 --> 00:43:10,084
I'm not so great
at letting my guard down.

1179
00:43:11,293 --> 00:43:13,043
Ah, see,
but by telling me that,

1180
00:43:13,043 --> 00:43:14,501
that's exactly
what you're doing.

1181
00:43:15,668 --> 00:43:16,752
Very astute.

1182
00:43:16,752 --> 00:43:18,293
Maybe you should be
teaching this class.

1183
00:43:18,293 --> 00:43:20,002
I'm just trying
to return the favor.

1184
00:43:21,793 --> 00:43:23,209
You take care of everybody else.

1185
00:43:24,710 --> 00:43:26,002
You know...

1186
00:43:26,084 --> 00:43:27,960
you could let
your guard down, too.

1187
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,668
See, that's one of
my least favorite activities--

1188
00:43:29,752 --> 00:43:32,293
right up there with...

1189
00:43:32,293 --> 00:43:34,501
failing at
pretty much anything,

1190
00:43:34,585 --> 00:43:36,626
and getting attacked by a shark.

1191
00:43:36,710 --> 00:43:37,793
Well, the shark thing's normal.

1192
00:43:39,418 --> 00:43:40,835
And you don't really strike me
as the type who fails at much.

1193
00:43:40,835 --> 00:43:42,126
See, that's the thing,

1194
00:43:42,126 --> 00:43:45,209
I work really hard
to not fail at much.

1195
00:43:45,293 --> 00:43:46,460
In my business life, at least.

1196
00:43:47,877 --> 00:43:49,543
Hmm. And in your relationships?

1197
00:43:52,126 --> 00:43:55,126
Suppose I could've
paid those equal attention.

1198
00:43:56,710 --> 00:43:58,251
Yeah...

1199
00:43:58,251 --> 00:43:59,668
same.

1200
00:43:59,752 --> 00:44:01,376
[explosion]

1201
00:44:04,043 --> 00:44:04,960
Oh, uh...

1202
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:05,960
everyone's dead.

1203
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:07,084
Great!

1204
00:44:10,585 --> 00:44:11,960
Well, you can't win 'em all,

1205
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:12,960
but we worked together,

1206
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:13,960
we enjoyed the journey,

1207
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,710
and that is the lesson.

1208
00:44:16,668 --> 00:44:18,418
So... smile.

1209
00:44:18,418 --> 00:44:19,793
[shutter clicks]

1210
00:44:19,877 --> 00:44:21,585
Great. Thank you.

1211
00:44:21,585 --> 00:44:23,043
Get home safe.
I'll see you all next week.

1212
00:44:24,251 --> 00:44:25,251
Hey...

1213
00:44:25,251 --> 00:44:26,168
I had a question.

1214
00:44:26,168 --> 00:44:27,626
Shoot.

1215
00:44:27,710 --> 00:44:28,585
About the letter,

1216
00:44:28,585 --> 00:44:29,918
at the end,

1217
00:44:30,002 --> 00:44:31,418
where we burn it
or send it or whatever.

1218
00:44:32,710 --> 00:44:33,793
Are there rules there,

1219
00:44:33,877 --> 00:44:35,334
or can we change who it's for?

1220
00:44:35,418 --> 00:44:36,460
I mean, you're getting
a little ahead of yourself,

1221
00:44:36,460 --> 00:44:37,501
that's week six,

1222
00:44:37,585 --> 00:44:39,251
but you'll be writing it

1223
00:44:39,251 --> 00:44:41,043
to the person you need
to let go of the most.

1224
00:44:41,043 --> 00:44:42,209
Yeah.

1225
00:44:42,293 --> 00:44:43,126
That's kind of what I thought.

1226
00:44:44,501 --> 00:44:45,418
Serena?

1227
00:44:49,251 --> 00:44:50,168
Kim tell you that?

1228
00:44:50,168 --> 00:44:51,126
You told me that.

1229
00:44:51,126 --> 00:44:52,460
At Rock Wall.

1230
00:44:52,460 --> 00:44:53,585
Freudian slip, maybe,

1231
00:44:53,585 --> 00:44:54,752
when you said Serena,
instead of Jen.

1232
00:44:56,126 --> 00:44:57,418
You're a really good listener.

1233
00:44:57,418 --> 00:44:58,501
That's--that's really annoying.

1234
00:44:58,585 --> 00:44:59,418
It's kind of the job.

1235
00:45:00,626 --> 00:45:01,501
Why the change?

1236
00:45:03,501 --> 00:45:05,626
You know...

1237
00:45:05,710 --> 00:45:08,793
because I was always just
toeing the line with Jen,

1238
00:45:08,877 --> 00:45:09,918
couldn't figure out
why I couldn't really commit.

1239
00:45:11,126 --> 00:45:12,334
Maybe because

1240
00:45:12,418 --> 00:45:14,084
you never really let go
of your one?

1241
00:45:16,543 --> 00:45:17,543
I'll see you next week.

1242
00:45:25,585 --> 00:45:27,752
Welcome to week four--

1243
00:45:27,752 --> 00:45:29,334
Connection.

1244
00:45:29,418 --> 00:45:30,626
This week is all about

1245
00:45:30,710 --> 00:45:34,002
getting back in touch
with our vulnerability.

1246
00:45:34,084 --> 00:45:36,543
And this here is a safe space
where you can feel that.

1247
00:45:36,543 --> 00:45:38,918
This was my favorite week
last go-around,

1248
00:45:39,002 --> 00:45:41,710
and I have to say,
I was pretty darn good at it.

1249
00:45:43,293 --> 00:45:44,501
This is Senora Cornejo.

1250
00:45:44,585 --> 00:45:46,835
She is a world champion
on the salsa circuit.

1251
00:45:46,835 --> 00:45:48,376
She's going to teach us
some moves today.

1252
00:45:48,460 --> 00:45:51,084
We are one short today
because Jess is out,

1253
00:45:51,168 --> 00:45:52,793
so, Bink,
I will be your partner.

1254
00:45:53,835 --> 00:45:55,710
Salsa is not only
a dance of love.

1255
00:45:55,710 --> 00:45:57,126
It's a dance of feeling.

1256
00:45:57,126 --> 00:45:59,334
So I want you
to be in your body,

1257
00:45:59,418 --> 00:46:01,084
and don't worry
about how you look,

1258
00:46:01,168 --> 00:46:03,293
just feel the music
with all of your being.

1259
00:46:03,293 --> 00:46:07,376
We're going to be doing
a very simple dance I created

1260
00:46:07,460 --> 00:46:09,710
called "La Vida Del Amor,"
"A Life of Love".

1261
00:46:09,710 --> 00:46:10,668
Is everybody ready?

1262
00:46:11,793 --> 00:46:13,543
I'm sorry.

1263
00:46:13,543 --> 00:46:14,835
This is weird.

1264
00:46:14,835 --> 00:46:17,376
I cannot be partnered
with my brother for this.

1265
00:46:17,460 --> 00:46:18,793
- Yeah.
- [Bink] Let's switch.

1266
00:46:18,877 --> 00:46:20,668
I'll dance with you
and Ben can dance with Miranda.

1267
00:46:20,752 --> 00:46:21,793
Thank you.

1268
00:46:29,376 --> 00:46:30,877
Trust your partner.

1269
00:46:30,877 --> 00:46:33,126
Do not be afraid
to hold onto each other.

1270
00:46:35,585 --> 00:46:37,543
Dance is an unspoken language.

1271
00:46:37,543 --> 00:46:40,209
We say so much in silence

1272
00:46:40,293 --> 00:46:42,752
as we move, together,
to the music.

1273
00:46:45,543 --> 00:46:47,543
And step, two, three, four.

1274
00:46:47,543 --> 00:46:49,334
And back, two, three, four.

1275
00:46:49,418 --> 00:46:50,334
Twirl out,

1276
00:46:50,418 --> 00:46:52,043
twirl in...

1277
00:46:52,043 --> 00:46:53,002
[Miranda's foot hits Ben's]

1278
00:46:53,084 --> 00:46:54,126
- Oops, sorry.
- Sorry.

1279
00:46:54,126 --> 00:46:54,960
- I'm sorry.
- [instructor] That's okay.

1280
00:46:59,585 --> 00:47:01,501
And step, two, three, four.

1281
00:47:01,585 --> 00:47:03,752
And back, two, three, four.

1282
00:47:03,752 --> 00:47:06,460
Twirl out, twirl in, and dip.

1283
00:47:06,460 --> 00:47:07,418
Try that again.

1284
00:47:07,418 --> 00:47:08,793
Okay.

1285
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,084
And step, two, three, four.

1286
00:47:18,168 --> 00:47:20,209
And back, two, three, four.

1287
00:47:20,293 --> 00:47:21,918
Twirl out,

1288
00:47:22,002 --> 00:47:23,293
twirl in,

1289
00:47:23,293 --> 00:47:24,376
and dip.

1290
00:47:28,126 --> 00:47:32,334
[♪]

1291
00:47:34,126 --> 00:47:36,002
Remember...

1292
00:47:36,084 --> 00:47:37,293
remember what it's like

1293
00:47:37,293 --> 00:47:39,543
to feel safe
in the arms of another person.

1294
00:47:40,626 --> 00:47:41,835
You get to have that again.

1295
00:47:44,209 --> 00:47:45,334
We all do.

1296
00:47:48,376 --> 00:47:50,293
[♪]

1297
00:47:54,043 --> 00:47:58,376
[♪]

1298
00:48:04,501 --> 00:48:08,918
[♪]

1299
00:48:15,918 --> 00:48:18,418
[♪]

1300
00:48:19,793 --> 00:48:20,960
[phone rings]

1301
00:48:22,084 --> 00:48:23,002
Ben. Hi.

1302
00:48:23,084 --> 00:48:24,710
Hey.

1303
00:48:24,710 --> 00:48:26,126
I know this is
sort of outside of your realm,

1304
00:48:26,126 --> 00:48:27,543
but I need your help
with something,

1305
00:48:27,543 --> 00:48:29,002
and I don't think I'm equipped
to handle it alone.

1306
00:48:29,084 --> 00:48:30,209
What's going on?

1307
00:48:30,293 --> 00:48:31,460
<i>It's Kim.</i>

1308
00:48:31,460 --> 00:48:32,626
She wrote
her week-six letter early,

1309
00:48:32,710 --> 00:48:33,960
went to drop it off
to Darren today,

1310
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,376
to show him that
she's doing fine without him,

1311
00:48:35,460 --> 00:48:36,418
and it did not go well.

1312
00:48:36,418 --> 00:48:38,168
Oh, no.
Where is she?

1313
00:48:38,168 --> 00:48:39,668
I'm meeting her at my place
in 10 minutes.

1314
00:48:39,752 --> 00:48:40,543
Can I text you the address?

1315
00:48:40,543 --> 00:48:42,043
Yeah.

1316
00:48:42,043 --> 00:48:43,418
I'll be right there.

1317
00:48:46,334 --> 00:48:48,043
[Kim] Weekend in Laguna?
Delete.

1318
00:48:49,668 --> 00:48:51,043
Epcot Center?

1319
00:48:51,043 --> 00:48:51,960
Never happened.

1320
00:48:55,168 --> 00:48:57,251
Mom and Dad's
40th wedding anniversary.

1321
00:48:57,251 --> 00:48:59,126
Hey, don't delete them.

1322
00:48:59,126 --> 00:49:00,418
We'll photoshop him out.

1323
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,043
Make George Clooney your date.

1324
00:49:04,877 --> 00:49:06,334
We have a really good
art department at the magazine.

1325
00:49:06,418 --> 00:49:08,460
Okay, but can Chris Pine
be my date?

1326
00:49:08,460 --> 00:49:09,418
[chuckles]

1327
00:49:09,418 --> 00:49:10,418
Done.

1328
00:49:13,334 --> 00:49:14,251
I'm so stupid.

1329
00:49:15,752 --> 00:49:18,376
I saw his fiancée
and I burst into tears.

1330
00:49:18,460 --> 00:49:20,043
I didn't want to wait.

1331
00:49:20,043 --> 00:49:21,209
I wanted him to know right now.

1332
00:49:22,543 --> 00:49:23,334
That I'm doing just fine.

1333
00:49:26,084 --> 00:49:28,418
But we send those letters
or we burn them for us.

1334
00:49:29,543 --> 00:49:30,418
Not for them.

1335
00:49:31,585 --> 00:49:32,877
I really thought I was okay.

1336
00:49:34,002 --> 00:49:35,501
Yeah.

1337
00:49:35,585 --> 00:49:37,376
Sometimes, it's so much easier
just to be angry at someone

1338
00:49:37,460 --> 00:49:38,376
than it is to forgive them.

1339
00:49:39,460 --> 00:49:40,710
Why is that?

1340
00:49:40,710 --> 00:49:43,168
I guess because
when somebody's wronged us,

1341
00:49:43,168 --> 00:49:44,543
we don't want them
to get away with it.

1342
00:49:44,543 --> 00:49:46,501
I mean, how's that fair?
Why do they get to be happy?

1343
00:49:46,585 --> 00:49:47,877
That's exactly how I feel.

1344
00:49:49,418 --> 00:49:51,418
But all that does
is steal our joy,

1345
00:49:51,418 --> 00:49:52,793
while they're out there,
living their lives,

1346
00:49:52,877 --> 00:49:54,002
none the wiser.

1347
00:49:55,501 --> 00:49:57,418
So don't let him have
that much power over you.

1348
00:49:57,418 --> 00:49:59,126
Don't let him steal your joy.

1349
00:50:01,168 --> 00:50:02,043
You're right.

1350
00:50:04,209 --> 00:50:06,877
And I have
a potential new client to meet.

1351
00:50:06,877 --> 00:50:08,334
So, I am going to go home,

1352
00:50:08,418 --> 00:50:09,835
clean myself up,

1353
00:50:09,835 --> 00:50:12,543
and continue being
hugely successful in my career.

1354
00:50:13,752 --> 00:50:14,626
Way better.

1355
00:50:23,043 --> 00:50:23,960
Thank you.

1356
00:50:26,877 --> 00:50:28,501
[Ben] That was
pretty great back there.

1357
00:50:28,585 --> 00:50:29,752
[Miranda] Thanks.

1358
00:50:29,752 --> 00:50:32,002
Empowerment can kind of be
a mirage at first.

1359
00:50:33,293 --> 00:50:34,835
It feels so good,
that you think your work's done,

1360
00:50:34,835 --> 00:50:35,918
but...

1361
00:50:36,002 --> 00:50:38,293
really, you're just
getting started.

1362
00:50:38,293 --> 00:50:39,585
It's a process.

1363
00:50:39,585 --> 00:50:42,710
Kind of like two steps forward,
10 steps back.

1364
00:50:42,710 --> 00:50:44,168
Well, how many steps
does it usually take?

1365
00:50:44,168 --> 00:50:45,460
Is this, like,

1366
00:50:45,460 --> 00:50:46,918
a "I need to buy
new running shoes" kind of thing

1367
00:50:47,002 --> 00:50:49,043
or a flip-flop level distance?

1368
00:50:50,293 --> 00:50:51,626
Everybody's different.

1369
00:50:52,877 --> 00:50:53,626
How many steps
did it take for you?

1370
00:50:56,418 --> 00:50:58,543
I will let you know
when I get there.

1371
00:51:00,334 --> 00:51:02,793
Bit of a work in progress?

1372
00:51:02,877 --> 00:51:03,710
Something like that.

1373
00:51:08,460 --> 00:51:09,918
We started with one class

1374
00:51:10,002 --> 00:51:12,877
and now we have five
that run simultaneously.

1375
00:51:12,877 --> 00:51:14,376
Miranda covers them all,

1376
00:51:14,460 --> 00:51:16,918
so you can see
why we need a new instructor,

1377
00:51:17,002 --> 00:51:18,002
especially now that
there's interest

1378
00:51:18,084 --> 00:51:19,960
in expanding outside Portland.

1379
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,668
But Miranda will go over

1380
00:51:21,752 --> 00:51:23,209
the nuts and bolts with you
when she gets here.

1381
00:51:23,293 --> 00:51:25,126
Hmm.

1382
00:51:25,126 --> 00:51:27,251
And there's
our illustrious leader now.

1383
00:51:27,251 --> 00:51:28,710
Excuse me for a moment.

1384
00:51:30,626 --> 00:51:31,585
Hey.

1385
00:51:31,585 --> 00:51:33,668
Dex called again.

1386
00:51:33,752 --> 00:51:34,877
He won't stop calling.

1387
00:51:34,877 --> 00:51:36,002
He started talking to me

1388
00:51:36,084 --> 00:51:37,668
about how we were
all such good friends,

1389
00:51:37,752 --> 00:51:38,626
playing on my sympathies.

1390
00:51:38,710 --> 00:51:39,752
What did you say?

1391
00:51:39,752 --> 00:51:40,918
All I could say.

1392
00:51:41,002 --> 00:51:42,543
That I would relay
the message to you.

1393
00:51:45,043 --> 00:51:45,835
I don't think
he's going to let up.

1394
00:51:45,835 --> 00:51:46,918
What are you going to do?

1395
00:51:49,334 --> 00:51:50,334
I don't know.

1396
00:51:50,418 --> 00:51:51,585
Maybe you should
hear him out.

1397
00:51:53,084 --> 00:51:55,084
Once you step out
of your comfort zone,

1398
00:51:55,168 --> 00:51:56,293
it becomes a lot easier.

1399
00:51:58,501 --> 00:52:00,668
And you say you're not ready
to run a class.

1400
00:52:03,002 --> 00:52:04,084
He's waiting.

1401
00:52:06,501 --> 00:52:08,043
You did a good job
with that staff meeting.

1402
00:52:08,168 --> 00:52:09,084
You're a natural born leader.

1403
00:52:09,168 --> 00:52:10,084
You think so?

1404
00:52:10,168 --> 00:52:11,752
I do.

1405
00:52:11,752 --> 00:52:13,043
They're coming around
upstairs, too.

1406
00:52:13,043 --> 00:52:15,626
I can be very convincing
when I want to be.

1407
00:52:15,710 --> 00:52:16,710
I appreciate that about you.

1408
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,501
So how's the boot camp
piece coming?

1409
00:52:19,585 --> 00:52:20,543
Anything I can look at yet?

1410
00:52:20,543 --> 00:52:22,710
Still kind of
piecing it together,

1411
00:52:22,710 --> 00:52:26,418
compiling notes, research,
background, stuff like that.

1412
00:52:26,418 --> 00:52:27,585
Plus, there's still

1413
00:52:27,585 --> 00:52:28,793
a couple of weeks left
in the program.

1414
00:52:28,877 --> 00:52:30,418
I have to admit,

1415
00:52:30,418 --> 00:52:32,084
it's not at all what I thought
it was going to be like.

1416
00:52:32,168 --> 00:52:33,877
Uh-oh.

1417
00:52:33,877 --> 00:52:35,752
You're getting involved,
I can tell.

1418
00:52:35,752 --> 00:52:37,084
Are we going
to have to deprogram you?

1419
00:52:37,168 --> 00:52:38,668
Sometimes, the truth
can be ugly, you know?

1420
00:52:38,752 --> 00:52:39,918
It's not like that.

1421
00:52:41,376 --> 00:52:43,918
Listen, don't worry about
how far along it is.

1422
00:52:44,002 --> 00:52:45,793
Just get me your notes,
whatever they are,

1423
00:52:45,877 --> 00:52:47,002
just so I can get an idea

1424
00:52:47,084 --> 00:52:47,668
of how it will best fit
in the next issue.

1425
00:52:49,293 --> 00:52:50,376
And let's talk deadline
later today.

1426
00:52:50,460 --> 00:52:51,960
You think
you can get me some photos?

1427
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,209
Yeah.

1428
00:52:53,293 --> 00:52:54,376
Nice.

1429
00:53:00,585 --> 00:53:01,501
[Ben, writing]
<i>In this day and age,</i>

1430
00:53:01,585 --> 00:53:02,918
<i>where millionaires are made</i>

1431
00:53:03,002 --> 00:53:03,835
<i>in the self-help aisle</i>
<i>of a Barnes & Noble,</i>

1432
00:53:03,835 --> 00:53:06,043
<i>one has to ask oneself,</i>

1433
00:53:06,043 --> 00:53:08,460
<i>can you get over a broken heart</i>
<i>in six short weeks?</i>

1434
00:53:09,877 --> 00:53:12,002
<i>Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp</i>
<i>in Portland, Oregon</i>

1435
00:53:12,084 --> 00:53:13,251
<i>seems to think you can.</i>

1436
00:53:18,543 --> 00:53:20,334
So, should I call her in
for a second interview?

1437
00:53:20,418 --> 00:53:21,626
No.

1438
00:53:21,710 --> 00:53:23,043
You are not going
to let up, are you?

1439
00:53:23,043 --> 00:53:24,126
You've known me
since I was 19.

1440
00:53:24,126 --> 00:53:25,168
Have I ever let up?

1441
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:29,585
Looks like you have a visitor.

1442
00:53:30,710 --> 00:53:32,376
See you.
'Night, Ben.

1443
00:53:32,460 --> 00:53:33,626
'Night.

1444
00:53:33,710 --> 00:53:35,710
You.

1445
00:53:35,710 --> 00:53:37,626
Hey.

1446
00:53:37,710 --> 00:53:39,501
Sorry. I hope this isn't
a bad time.

1447
00:53:39,585 --> 00:53:41,002
I just needed to talk to you.

1448
00:53:41,084 --> 00:53:42,168
No, I was just heading
to Rock Wall.

1449
00:53:42,168 --> 00:53:43,293
You want a rematch?

1450
00:53:43,293 --> 00:53:45,002
Would you be up
for something different?

1451
00:53:46,251 --> 00:53:47,293
Maybe go to one of
my favorite places,

1452
00:53:47,293 --> 00:53:48,543
when I've got
to shake off the cobwebs?

1453
00:53:52,585 --> 00:53:54,668
I guess I could be up
for something different

1454
00:53:54,752 --> 00:53:56,002
this one time.

1455
00:54:04,835 --> 00:54:08,293
[♪]

1456
00:54:18,002 --> 00:54:19,002
When I was just out of college,

1457
00:54:19,084 --> 00:54:20,501
I used to come up here,

1458
00:54:20,585 --> 00:54:22,460
look out at the city,

1459
00:54:22,460 --> 00:54:23,793
and think...

1460
00:54:23,877 --> 00:54:25,043
I'm going to make it here.

1461
00:54:26,209 --> 00:54:27,251
[Miranda] It's so beautiful.

1462
00:54:28,585 --> 00:54:29,585
It's too bad
we blew it all up.

1463
00:54:31,209 --> 00:54:32,418
We'll save the city next time.

1464
00:54:36,043 --> 00:54:37,002
- I wanted...
- Look...

1465
00:54:37,084 --> 00:54:37,960
Can I say something?

1466
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:38,877
Yeah, sure.

1467
00:54:40,460 --> 00:54:41,460
I'm sorry.

1468
00:54:41,460 --> 00:54:43,418
What do you have
to be sorry about?

1469
00:54:43,418 --> 00:54:44,835
I misjudged you.

1470
00:54:44,835 --> 00:54:46,418
I called you a cynic,

1471
00:54:46,418 --> 00:54:48,376
and I didn't give you
the benefit of the doubt

1472
00:54:48,460 --> 00:54:50,501
that I give everyone else
who takes my program.

1473
00:54:53,418 --> 00:54:54,835
But after the escape room
the other day...

1474
00:54:56,376 --> 00:54:57,209
You're a good guy, Ben.

1475
00:55:00,293 --> 00:55:01,293
Well...

1476
00:55:01,293 --> 00:55:02,334
You were sort of
right about me.

1477
00:55:03,543 --> 00:55:04,626
Go on.

1478
00:55:06,543 --> 00:55:07,418
Serena.

1479
00:55:07,418 --> 00:55:08,460
Jen.

1480
00:55:10,543 --> 00:55:12,585
Every girlfriend in between.

1481
00:55:12,585 --> 00:55:14,209
It's like for the last 10 years,

1482
00:55:14,293 --> 00:55:16,877
I've kept everybody
at arm's length.

1483
00:55:16,877 --> 00:55:18,209
Avoiding.

1484
00:55:20,460 --> 00:55:21,626
Yeah...

1485
00:55:21,710 --> 00:55:23,960
you maybe...

1486
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,209
were a little bit right
about me, too.

1487
00:55:26,293 --> 00:55:27,960
I'm sorry,
can you say that again?

1488
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:29,126
I just want to make sure
I heard that right.

1489
00:55:29,126 --> 00:55:30,585
Don't ruin it.

1490
00:55:32,793 --> 00:55:33,960
Boot camp was my rebound.

1491
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,209
After Dex left,

1492
00:55:35,293 --> 00:55:37,543
I threw myself into it,
and it worked.

1493
00:55:37,543 --> 00:55:38,752
So, I just--

1494
00:55:38,752 --> 00:55:40,293
I never really addressed
any underlying issues.

1495
00:55:41,793 --> 00:55:43,752
But your program has helped
so many people to let go.

1496
00:55:43,752 --> 00:55:45,460
And I speak from experience.

1497
00:55:45,460 --> 00:55:46,710
I'd never be here

1498
00:55:46,710 --> 00:55:47,960
if you hadn't dragged it
out of me.

1499
00:55:50,918 --> 00:55:52,501
So, uh...

1500
00:55:52,585 --> 00:55:53,460
what's next?

1501
00:55:55,168 --> 00:55:56,543
Why don't we just stay here?

1502
00:55:57,877 --> 00:55:59,418
It's okay to just stop, Miranda.

1503
00:55:59,418 --> 00:56:00,501
You don't have to do
anything right now,

1504
00:56:00,585 --> 00:56:01,460
except be here.

1505
00:56:01,460 --> 00:56:02,543
With me.

1506
00:56:05,877 --> 00:56:07,209
Okay.

1507
00:56:10,460 --> 00:56:13,877
[♪]

1508
00:56:17,334 --> 00:56:18,668
Welcome to week five.

1509
00:56:20,251 --> 00:56:22,710
Trust. Ben?

1510
00:56:22,710 --> 00:56:25,002
So, I was 24 years-old,

1511
00:56:25,084 --> 00:56:27,126
and I'm shaking, I'm so nervous.

1512
00:56:28,418 --> 00:56:30,501
And I take the ring box
out of my jacket,

1513
00:56:30,585 --> 00:56:31,626
and I get on one knee,

1514
00:56:31,710 --> 00:56:33,710
and I open the box,

1515
00:56:33,710 --> 00:56:34,752
she tells me to get up.

1516
00:56:34,752 --> 00:56:36,251
Says she can't marry me.

1517
00:56:37,376 --> 00:56:38,626
Which, I understand,

1518
00:56:38,710 --> 00:56:40,710
is sort of not how
these things are supposed to go.

1519
00:56:40,710 --> 00:56:41,918
Anyways,

1520
00:56:42,002 --> 00:56:43,293
within three days,
she's packed up,

1521
00:56:43,293 --> 00:56:44,418
moving to Chicago,

1522
00:56:44,418 --> 00:56:46,043
with Dave Friedman,
her first love.

1523
00:56:48,626 --> 00:56:50,918
Totally derailed my life.

1524
00:56:51,002 --> 00:56:51,877
[Kim] It was bad.

1525
00:56:53,043 --> 00:56:54,293
I'd never seen him
like that before.

1526
00:56:56,043 --> 00:56:57,084
Or since.

1527
00:56:58,752 --> 00:57:00,376
[Miranda] Well, the past
isn't prologue.

1528
00:57:01,793 --> 00:57:03,668
You can put your trust
in the next person,

1529
00:57:03,752 --> 00:57:05,334
that they won't let you fall.

1530
00:57:08,209 --> 00:57:09,084
You ready?

1531
00:57:12,418 --> 00:57:13,418
Okay. Three.

1532
00:57:13,418 --> 00:57:14,585
Two.

1533
00:57:14,585 --> 00:57:16,002
One.

1534
00:57:16,084 --> 00:57:17,002
Go.

1535
00:57:28,043 --> 00:57:29,334
[phone buzzing]

1536
00:57:34,002 --> 00:57:35,043
Hi, Dex.

1537
00:57:36,084 --> 00:57:37,418
Yeah, sorry.
I've been busy.

1538
00:57:40,585 --> 00:57:41,460
What time?

1539
00:57:42,752 --> 00:57:44,084
Yeah.
I'll meet you there.

1540
00:57:51,168 --> 00:57:54,209
[♪]

1541
00:57:54,293 --> 00:57:55,710
[Dex] I'm glad
you agreed to meet.

1542
00:57:57,251 --> 00:57:58,418
I was starting to think
you weren't going to.

1543
00:57:59,877 --> 00:58:01,334
To be honest, I wasn't,

1544
00:58:01,418 --> 00:58:04,585
but I think it's finally time
for you and I to talk.

1545
00:58:04,585 --> 00:58:05,668
I agree.

1546
00:58:07,209 --> 00:58:09,668
And I...

1547
00:58:09,752 --> 00:58:11,585
I didn't want you to hear
this news from anyone else.

1548
00:58:13,002 --> 00:58:13,877
I'm getting married.

1549
00:58:15,168 --> 00:58:16,251
In June.

1550
00:58:16,251 --> 00:58:18,209
I'm sorry if that's hard
for you to hear.

1551
00:58:26,585 --> 00:58:28,835
Actually, I'm...

1552
00:58:28,835 --> 00:58:29,960
I'm happy for you.

1553
00:58:32,084 --> 00:58:33,043
Really?

1554
00:58:34,877 --> 00:58:35,960
You have no idea

1555
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,418
how much I appreciate you
saying that.

1556
00:58:38,418 --> 00:58:39,752
Yeah. I--

1557
00:58:39,752 --> 00:58:42,376
You know, I was so mad
for so long.

1558
00:58:42,460 --> 00:58:44,251
I mean, you left
without saying anything,

1559
00:58:44,251 --> 00:58:47,084
but I was dreading this moment,

1560
00:58:47,168 --> 00:58:49,501
and now I don't...

1561
00:58:49,585 --> 00:58:51,126
I don't understand why.

1562
00:58:51,126 --> 00:58:53,710
I mean, I know
why I was dreading it.

1563
00:58:53,710 --> 00:58:55,960
But this...

1564
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:57,460
This is not the reaction
I thought I was going to get.

1565
00:58:59,626 --> 00:59:00,585
You're not mad?

1566
00:59:03,043 --> 00:59:05,835
I wasn't expecting it either,
but no, I'm not mad at all.

1567
00:59:08,460 --> 00:59:09,710
I just see very clearly now

1568
00:59:09,710 --> 00:59:11,668
that you and I
were not right for each other.

1569
00:59:11,752 --> 00:59:12,710
Wow...

1570
00:59:12,710 --> 00:59:14,877
I'm...

1571
00:59:14,877 --> 00:59:18,585
I'm kind of speechless.

1572
00:59:18,585 --> 00:59:19,668
Yeah, it's crazy.

1573
00:59:19,752 --> 00:59:20,835
I talk about it all the time,

1574
00:59:20,835 --> 00:59:22,168
that we...

1575
00:59:22,168 --> 00:59:23,626
we create these scenarios
in our head,

1576
00:59:23,710 --> 00:59:25,334
we build this whole world
around it,

1577
00:59:25,418 --> 00:59:26,877
and...

1578
00:59:26,877 --> 00:59:28,793
it doesn't...

1579
00:59:28,877 --> 00:59:30,752
You know, I just--
I feel lighter.

1580
00:59:33,418 --> 00:59:34,793
Yeah.

1581
00:59:34,877 --> 00:59:36,126
Me too.

1582
00:59:37,752 --> 00:59:38,793
Congratulations.

1583
00:59:40,835 --> 00:59:44,376
[♪]

1584
00:59:49,084 --> 00:59:50,002
Hi.

1585
00:59:51,626 --> 00:59:53,293
Hey, hi.

1586
00:59:53,293 --> 00:59:56,209
Sorry, they said
I could just come back here.

1587
00:59:56,293 --> 00:59:58,209
Yeah. Yeah, please.
Come in.

1588
01:00:02,835 --> 01:00:03,918
So, what's up?

1589
01:00:05,334 --> 01:00:06,710
Let me guess.

1590
01:00:06,710 --> 01:00:08,084
You haven't seen me in 48 hours,
you kind of missed me?

1591
01:00:08,168 --> 01:00:09,877
[chuckles]
Smooth.

1592
01:00:09,877 --> 01:00:11,209
You don't have to
say it out loud.

1593
01:00:11,293 --> 01:00:12,251
I can tell these things.

1594
01:00:13,334 --> 01:00:14,960
- Can you?
- Mm-hmm.

1595
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,334
Interesting, because what
I was actually going to say

1596
01:00:17,418 --> 01:00:18,501
was that I wanted to thank you

1597
01:00:18,585 --> 01:00:20,251
for your friendship
the other night.

1598
01:00:21,626 --> 01:00:22,626
My friendship?

1599
01:00:22,710 --> 01:00:23,668
I'm friend zoned.

1600
01:00:23,752 --> 01:00:25,877
You are my client,

1601
01:00:25,877 --> 01:00:28,460
and you just got out
of a relationship.

1602
01:00:28,460 --> 01:00:29,960
How's that article coming?

1603
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:31,209
Hey. Hi.

1604
01:00:31,293 --> 01:00:32,585
It's...

1605
01:00:32,585 --> 01:00:33,710
coming along.

1606
01:00:33,710 --> 01:00:34,710
I'm working on it right now.

1607
01:00:36,168 --> 01:00:37,084
I know you.

1608
01:00:37,168 --> 01:00:38,251
Sorry?

1609
01:00:38,251 --> 01:00:39,293
Ahem.

1610
01:00:41,501 --> 01:00:43,084
Oh, I'm sorry.

1611
01:00:43,168 --> 01:00:44,334
I thought you were someone else.

1612
01:00:44,418 --> 01:00:45,585
My mistake.

1613
01:00:47,251 --> 01:00:49,835
I need a first draft
by tomorrow for the print copy.

1614
01:00:49,835 --> 01:00:51,376
And we'll send
the online version

1615
01:00:51,460 --> 01:00:52,835
to the web team later?

1616
01:00:52,835 --> 01:00:54,168
Yup, mm-hmm.

1617
01:00:55,418 --> 01:00:56,460
- I'm working on away.
- Good deal.

1618
01:00:56,460 --> 01:00:57,710
[Ben] Mm-hmm.

1619
01:01:00,626 --> 01:01:01,835
You want to get out of here?
Grab a bite?

1620
01:01:03,585 --> 01:01:04,877
I only have an hour
before my next class,

1621
01:01:04,877 --> 01:01:09,334
but if it's a quick,
friendly bite, sure.

1622
01:01:09,418 --> 01:01:10,626
Excellent.
I know just the place.

1623
01:01:10,710 --> 01:01:11,918
Okay.

1624
01:01:16,209 --> 01:01:17,626
[Miranda] Street meat?

1625
01:01:17,710 --> 01:01:18,835
What's wrong with street meat?

1626
01:01:18,835 --> 01:01:19,918
This guy's an institution.

1627
01:01:20,002 --> 01:01:21,293
He's been on this corner
for decades.

1628
01:01:21,293 --> 01:01:22,376
No, nothing.

1629
01:01:22,460 --> 01:01:23,501
It's just not
what I was expecting.

1630
01:01:23,585 --> 01:01:24,460
Come on, don't be a snob.

1631
01:01:24,460 --> 01:01:26,084
I'm not being a snob.

1632
01:01:26,168 --> 01:01:27,293
You said you had an hour.

1633
01:01:27,293 --> 01:01:28,543
I had to do the best I could
with what I had.

1634
01:01:28,543 --> 01:01:29,501
Beef with mustard, please.

1635
01:01:29,585 --> 01:01:31,585
[Ben] The usual for me.

1636
01:01:31,585 --> 01:01:32,501
[Miranda] Thank you.

1637
01:01:32,585 --> 01:01:34,043
So...

1638
01:01:34,043 --> 01:01:35,334
don't knock it
till you try it.

1639
01:01:35,418 --> 01:01:36,585
Oh, you're one to talk.

1640
01:01:37,835 --> 01:01:39,877
Okay, I'll admit,
I was off to a rocky start,

1641
01:01:39,877 --> 01:01:41,460
but you can't say
that I'm not embracing it.

1642
01:01:41,460 --> 01:01:42,793
This is so good.

1643
01:01:42,877 --> 01:01:44,251
Right?

1644
01:01:44,251 --> 01:01:47,126
No, you have actually
been doing very well--

1645
01:01:47,126 --> 01:01:48,752
and so have I,

1646
01:01:48,752 --> 01:01:50,251
especially with Dex
this morning.

1647
01:01:51,710 --> 01:01:52,918
You saw Dex?

1648
01:01:53,002 --> 01:01:54,002
I did.

1649
01:01:54,084 --> 01:01:56,209
And I...

1650
01:01:56,293 --> 01:01:57,376
I closed the book.

1651
01:01:58,752 --> 01:01:59,793
I don't know why I wanted
to tell you that, but...

1652
01:01:59,877 --> 01:02:02,084
after the other night,
I just did.

1653
01:02:02,168 --> 01:02:04,460
This is progress.

1654
01:02:04,460 --> 01:02:06,752
I could tell you were
holding on to something.

1655
01:02:06,752 --> 01:02:07,501
Did you learn anything
in week one?

1656
01:02:07,585 --> 01:02:08,585
That was--

1657
01:02:08,585 --> 01:02:10,460
that was release week,
by the way.

1658
01:02:10,460 --> 01:02:12,752
Well, we go at our own pace,

1659
01:02:12,752 --> 01:02:14,002
and I just took

1660
01:02:14,084 --> 01:02:15,668
a few years longer
than everyone else, so.

1661
01:02:15,752 --> 01:02:17,918
I would maybe not put that
in the brochure.

1662
01:02:20,293 --> 01:02:21,793
So, later on,

1663
01:02:21,877 --> 01:02:24,084
do you want to go
sit in silence again?

1664
01:02:24,168 --> 01:02:26,002
See what else that drums up?

1665
01:02:27,835 --> 01:02:29,585
Sorry.

1666
01:02:29,585 --> 01:02:31,043
We just agreed to be friends.

1667
01:02:31,043 --> 01:02:32,043
Did we?

1668
01:02:32,043 --> 01:02:33,543
Mm-hmm.

1669
01:02:33,543 --> 01:02:35,293
I said you are my client,
and how you're on the rebound,

1670
01:02:35,293 --> 01:02:38,835
and I'm kind of
on the rebound, so.

1671
01:02:38,835 --> 01:02:40,501
Yeah, this would be
a terrible idea.

1672
01:02:40,585 --> 01:02:41,960
I won't tell anybody
if you won't.

1673
01:02:43,626 --> 01:02:44,501
I got to go.

1674
01:02:46,084 --> 01:02:46,960
Oh, come on.

1675
01:02:48,334 --> 01:02:49,293
Friends?

1676
01:02:49,293 --> 01:02:50,793
- Friends.
- Friends.

1677
01:02:55,376 --> 01:02:57,793
Ben! That was a close one.

1678
01:02:57,877 --> 01:02:59,501
Next time, let me know
when she's coming by the office.

1679
01:02:59,585 --> 01:03:02,043
I didn't know.
She just stopped by.

1680
01:03:02,043 --> 01:03:03,043
Well, anyways...

1681
01:03:03,043 --> 01:03:04,334
rest assured

1682
01:03:04,418 --> 01:03:06,251
that extra dedication
is not going unnoticed.

1683
01:03:13,209 --> 01:03:15,126
When I first started
at Harvard,

1684
01:03:15,126 --> 01:03:16,460
I thought I wanted
to be pre-med.

1685
01:03:16,460 --> 01:03:18,376
- Really?
- Yeah.

1686
01:03:18,460 --> 01:03:20,752
Until they took us
to an operating suite,

1687
01:03:20,752 --> 01:03:24,209
and I took one look
at the surgery and I fainted.

1688
01:03:25,501 --> 01:03:27,168
- Stop.
- Oh, it gets worse.

1689
01:03:28,710 --> 01:03:31,793
There was a girl in this class
that I really wanted to impress,

1690
01:03:31,877 --> 01:03:33,918
and I fainted on her...

1691
01:03:35,168 --> 01:03:36,418
and I broke her tibia.

1692
01:03:36,418 --> 01:03:39,043
Oh...
That's embarrassing.

1693
01:03:39,043 --> 01:03:41,543
Yeah, it is. It is.

1694
01:03:41,543 --> 01:03:43,960
So I shifted my focus
to journalism,

1695
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,126
and I found my calling there
pretty quick.

1696
01:03:47,376 --> 01:03:48,585
- Happy accident.
- Yeah.

1697
01:03:50,168 --> 01:03:52,293
I liked that my words could...

1698
01:03:52,293 --> 01:03:55,126
educate and inspire...

1699
01:03:55,126 --> 01:03:56,585
protect.

1700
01:03:56,585 --> 01:03:58,334
Very happy accident.

1701
01:04:00,251 --> 01:04:03,543
Kind of like stumbling across
this crazy boot camp

1702
01:04:03,543 --> 01:04:04,668
and meeting this instructor

1703
01:04:04,752 --> 01:04:07,043
who just will not let you
avoid your stuff.

1704
01:04:08,376 --> 01:04:09,752
Well, sometimes,

1705
01:04:09,752 --> 01:04:11,418
that instructor
comes across a student,

1706
01:04:11,418 --> 01:04:14,418
who calls her out
on her stuff, too.

1707
01:04:17,710 --> 01:04:18,710
I love my job...

1708
01:04:20,209 --> 01:04:21,293
and I'm on track
for this promotion...

1709
01:04:22,918 --> 01:04:23,960
and I've been thinking

1710
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,293
that I never really figured out

1711
01:04:26,293 --> 01:04:28,668
that whole
work/life balance thing.

1712
01:04:28,752 --> 01:04:30,293
Mm.

1713
01:04:30,293 --> 01:04:31,710
Me either, really--

1714
01:04:31,710 --> 01:04:33,251
which is awful,

1715
01:04:33,251 --> 01:04:35,043
because I talk about it
in class all the time.

1716
01:04:36,877 --> 01:04:37,877
I was thinking about

1717
01:04:37,877 --> 01:04:38,752
something else
you said in class.

1718
01:04:41,501 --> 01:04:43,209
Maybe not all rebounds are bad?

1719
01:04:47,460 --> 01:04:48,835
Like...

1720
01:04:48,835 --> 01:04:53,002
maybe they lead you
away from the wrong thing,

1721
01:04:53,084 --> 01:04:56,251
so you can go towards
the right one?

1722
01:04:56,251 --> 01:04:58,043
Exactly.

1723
01:05:00,877 --> 01:05:02,293
I felt it that first night,

1724
01:05:02,293 --> 01:05:03,793
and I think you did, too.

1725
01:05:06,626 --> 01:05:09,418
Maybe rebounds show us
how we really feel.

1726
01:05:16,002 --> 01:05:20,501
[♪]

1727
01:05:26,460 --> 01:05:27,376
And then...

1728
01:05:27,460 --> 01:05:28,626
he kissed me.

1729
01:05:28,710 --> 01:05:32,209
Like, he kissed me.

1730
01:05:32,293 --> 01:05:33,752
Well, you certainly had a day,
didn't you?

1731
01:05:33,752 --> 01:05:34,710
Yes, I did.

1732
01:05:35,835 --> 01:05:36,877
I am speechless!

1733
01:05:36,877 --> 01:05:39,168
And you know me,
I am never speechless.

1734
01:05:39,168 --> 01:05:41,376
But it was a mistake.
He's a client.

1735
01:05:41,460 --> 01:05:42,543
I just--
I got caught up in the moment.

1736
01:05:42,543 --> 01:05:43,501
That's a good thing.

1737
01:05:45,043 --> 01:05:46,418
That is a great thing.

1738
01:05:46,418 --> 01:05:48,376
I haven't seen you like this
in a long time.

1739
01:05:50,209 --> 01:05:51,209
I really like her.

1740
01:05:51,293 --> 01:05:52,168
You like him.

1741
01:05:54,501 --> 01:05:55,585
Why couldn't he
have just stayed

1742
01:05:55,585 --> 01:05:57,460
a random stranger
outside of a restaurant?

1743
01:05:57,460 --> 01:05:59,334
Why did he have to join
my class?

1744
01:06:01,793 --> 01:06:03,168
Kim, I got
to tell you something.

1745
01:06:08,043 --> 01:06:09,168
You were right.

1746
01:06:09,168 --> 01:06:10,543
I really needed this class.

1747
01:06:11,543 --> 01:06:12,710
See!

1748
01:06:12,710 --> 01:06:14,251
You should take my advice
more often.

1749
01:06:14,251 --> 01:06:15,543
I'm very smart.

1750
01:06:15,543 --> 01:06:16,626
I know.

1751
01:06:16,710 --> 01:06:18,209
Oh, I crossed a line.

1752
01:06:19,835 --> 01:06:21,918
Whatever you decide,

1753
01:06:22,002 --> 01:06:23,710
at least you're finally
over Dex,

1754
01:06:23,710 --> 01:06:25,752
and I don't think
that would've happened,

1755
01:06:25,752 --> 01:06:27,293
if it weren't for Ben.

1756
01:06:28,460 --> 01:06:30,168
My job is to help my clients.

1757
01:06:30,168 --> 01:06:31,501
Not confuse them.

1758
01:06:31,585 --> 01:06:32,543
I can't make this about me.

1759
01:06:32,543 --> 01:06:34,585
I get that,

1760
01:06:34,585 --> 01:06:35,752
but you get to be
happy again, too.

1761
01:06:35,752 --> 01:06:37,626
Remember that?

1762
01:06:39,752 --> 01:06:40,918
Oh, there you are.

1763
01:06:41,002 --> 01:06:42,668
What's going on with you, Ben?

1764
01:06:42,752 --> 01:06:44,126
What are you talking about?

1765
01:06:44,126 --> 01:06:45,126
I just read your first draft.

1766
01:06:45,126 --> 01:06:46,668
It's all over the place.

1767
01:06:46,752 --> 01:06:48,585
There's no point of view.

1768
01:06:48,585 --> 01:06:50,501
You're straddling the line.

1769
01:06:50,585 --> 01:06:51,543
I don't understand

1770
01:06:51,543 --> 01:06:52,835
what this boot camp
is all about.

1771
01:06:52,835 --> 01:06:55,626
Where's the conviction?

1772
01:06:55,710 --> 01:06:57,209
Like, take a stand.

1773
01:06:58,585 --> 01:07:00,168
It's just a first draft.

1774
01:07:00,168 --> 01:07:01,543
Good.

1775
01:07:01,543 --> 01:07:02,668
Because I don't think

1776
01:07:02,752 --> 01:07:03,668
you even believe
what you're writing here.

1777
01:07:03,752 --> 01:07:04,877
This is not you.

1778
01:07:14,043 --> 01:07:18,376
[♪]

1779
01:07:21,626 --> 01:07:22,585
<i>[line ringing]</i>

1780
01:07:23,918 --> 01:07:25,043
[phone buzzing]

1781
01:07:25,043 --> 01:07:26,501
I don't know
what to say to him.

1782
01:07:26,585 --> 01:07:28,501
You're going to have to talk
to Ben sometime.

1783
01:07:28,585 --> 01:07:30,543
I'll see him
in class tomorrow.

1784
01:07:30,543 --> 01:07:31,960
What are you waiting for?

1785
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:33,501
Why don't you just
kick him out of class

1786
01:07:33,585 --> 01:07:35,710
and ask him out
on a date, already.

1787
01:07:35,710 --> 01:07:37,543
Or better yet, just wait.
The session's almost over.

1788
01:07:39,168 --> 01:07:41,126
Okay, say we do
give it a shot...

1789
01:07:41,126 --> 01:07:43,710
we'd be doing the exact thing
I tell my clients not to do.

1790
01:07:43,710 --> 01:07:45,043
What's that?

1791
01:07:45,043 --> 01:07:47,126
Transfer your feelings
from one person to the next.

1792
01:07:47,126 --> 01:07:48,710
Wait, you still
have feelings for Dex?

1793
01:07:48,710 --> 01:07:49,877
No, no,

1794
01:07:49,877 --> 01:07:51,334
but what if I'm just
a band-aid for Ben?

1795
01:07:51,418 --> 01:07:53,835
And what if
a sinkhole opens up

1796
01:07:53,835 --> 01:07:55,209
and swallows the studio whole?

1797
01:07:55,293 --> 01:07:56,209
"What ifs" are pointless.

1798
01:07:56,293 --> 01:07:58,251
No. They are preparation.

1799
01:07:58,251 --> 01:07:59,460
For a sinkhole?

1800
01:07:59,460 --> 01:08:00,835
No. You know what I mean.

1801
01:08:00,835 --> 01:08:03,043
People change their minds
all the time.

1802
01:08:03,043 --> 01:08:04,626
Love is a risk,

1803
01:08:04,710 --> 01:08:06,084
and you're just going
to have to consider...

1804
01:08:06,168 --> 01:08:07,877
is Ben worth the risk?

1805
01:08:09,752 --> 01:08:10,752
You sound like someone.

1806
01:08:10,752 --> 01:08:12,209
Oh, what is it?

1807
01:08:12,293 --> 01:08:14,418
A teacher!

1808
01:08:14,418 --> 01:08:15,501
Man, I knew--

1809
01:08:15,585 --> 01:08:16,793
it just sounded so natural.

1810
01:08:16,877 --> 01:08:18,376
You're good at it.

1811
01:08:18,460 --> 01:08:19,460
No...

1812
01:08:19,460 --> 01:08:21,126
On how to handle love,
and breakups,

1813
01:08:21,126 --> 01:08:22,793
and the heart,
and all of those things.

1814
01:08:22,877 --> 01:08:24,126
You could get paid for it!

1815
01:08:29,334 --> 01:08:30,585
Hey, Miranda,

1816
01:08:30,585 --> 01:08:32,084
for the bonfire,

1817
01:08:32,168 --> 01:08:33,626
do we only burn our letters?

1818
01:08:33,710 --> 01:08:36,626
Because Darren left
this sweatshirt at my place,

1819
01:08:36,710 --> 01:08:38,585
and I'm sick of looking at it,

1820
01:08:38,585 --> 01:08:39,626
and I'm definitely

1821
01:08:39,710 --> 01:08:40,877
not going back there
to return it.

1822
01:08:40,877 --> 01:08:42,334
No, you can burn
whatever you like.

1823
01:08:42,418 --> 01:08:44,334
It's anything
to help you let go.

1824
01:08:44,418 --> 01:08:45,501
This ceremony is about you.

1825
01:08:45,585 --> 01:08:46,752
Thanks.

1826
01:08:46,752 --> 01:08:48,376
Good to know.

1827
01:08:48,460 --> 01:08:51,585
Miranda, I'd love
to have you back on the show.

1828
01:08:51,585 --> 01:08:53,084
I could talk about
my experience,

1829
01:08:53,168 --> 01:08:55,668
we could delve
a bit deeper than last time.

1830
01:08:55,752 --> 01:08:57,835
I know you're thinking about
expanding locally,

1831
01:08:57,835 --> 01:08:59,668
but you have the potential
to go national.

1832
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:02,168
Books, merchandising...

1833
01:09:03,626 --> 01:09:05,418
Let's get you
some real exposure.

1834
01:09:06,543 --> 01:09:07,877
I would love that.
Thank you.

1835
01:09:09,877 --> 01:09:10,793
Ben...

1836
01:09:10,877 --> 01:09:11,877
Bink...

1837
01:09:14,126 --> 01:09:15,126
I think he's coming around.

1838
01:09:18,835 --> 01:09:20,501
Look, I really need
to talk to you about something.

1839
01:09:21,626 --> 01:09:22,585
After class?

1840
01:09:24,002 --> 01:09:25,002
Yeah.

1841
01:09:25,084 --> 01:09:26,376
Street meat for dinner?
It's on me.

1842
01:09:27,835 --> 01:09:29,460
Sounds good.
I'll meet you there.

1843
01:09:32,209 --> 01:09:35,209
Welcome to week six.
Closure.

1844
01:09:35,293 --> 01:09:36,668
You are not the same person

1845
01:09:36,752 --> 01:09:39,960
who signed up for this class
a month and a half ago.

1846
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:41,209
You have grown.

1847
01:09:41,293 --> 01:09:42,752
You have changed.

1848
01:09:42,752 --> 01:09:45,251
You have overcome obstacles.

1849
01:09:46,376 --> 01:09:47,334
This letter

1850
01:09:47,418 --> 01:09:48,710
is your chance to say it all

1851
01:09:48,710 --> 01:09:50,209
to the person
who broke your heart--

1852
01:09:50,293 --> 01:09:51,710
the person who put you here.

1853
01:09:51,710 --> 01:09:53,918
It's only two minutes,
so don't hold back.

1854
01:09:54,002 --> 01:09:55,710
This is about you now.

1855
01:09:57,626 --> 01:09:59,877
Three, two, one...

1856
01:09:59,877 --> 01:10:00,877
pens down.

1857
01:10:02,293 --> 01:10:03,501
How are we feeling?

1858
01:10:03,585 --> 01:10:05,710
This letter is way better
than the last one.

1859
01:10:05,710 --> 01:10:07,418
Good.

1860
01:10:07,418 --> 01:10:08,918
And tomorrow night
at the bonfire,

1861
01:10:09,002 --> 01:10:10,209
you will make the decision--

1862
01:10:10,293 --> 01:10:11,668
do you send it...

1863
01:10:15,626 --> 01:10:16,918
or do you burn it?

1864
01:10:21,918 --> 01:10:22,960
I'm heading home.

1865
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,418
Here's some stuff
they left at the studio.

1866
01:10:25,418 --> 01:10:26,626
I don't know whose this is.

1867
01:10:26,710 --> 01:10:29,002
That's Ben's.
I'll give it to him later.

1868
01:10:29,084 --> 01:10:29,918
Cool.

1869
01:10:30,002 --> 01:10:31,376
See you tomorrow.

1870
01:10:31,460 --> 01:10:33,043
Bye.

1871
01:10:38,543 --> 01:10:39,918
"Fad or phenomenon?"

1872
01:10:42,668 --> 01:10:46,877
[♪]

1873
01:10:50,418 --> 01:10:55,002
[♪]

1874
01:10:58,543 --> 01:11:00,002
There you are.
I got you a chili dog.

1875
01:11:00,084 --> 01:11:01,793
You left these at the studio.

1876
01:11:03,710 --> 01:11:04,793
- I can explain.
- Can you?

1877
01:11:04,877 --> 01:11:06,835
Because you've had
plenty of opportunities

1878
01:11:06,835 --> 01:11:08,084
and you never mentioned
any article.

1879
01:11:08,168 --> 01:11:09,710
Look, I--

1880
01:11:09,710 --> 01:11:10,918
It's not like I wasn't willing
to do press, Ben.

1881
01:11:11,002 --> 01:11:12,084
You could've just asked me
for an interview.

1882
01:11:12,168 --> 01:11:13,543
Miranda--

1883
01:11:13,543 --> 01:11:14,585
This whole thing

1884
01:11:14,585 --> 01:11:16,126
has been a lie.

1885
01:11:16,126 --> 01:11:17,126
Was there even a Jen?

1886
01:11:17,126 --> 01:11:18,168
Or a Serena?

1887
01:11:18,168 --> 01:11:19,334
Was Kim in on this?

1888
01:11:19,418 --> 01:11:21,002
No. Kim didn't know
anything about this.

1889
01:11:21,084 --> 01:11:22,043
Look, I didn't even know
I was writing it

1890
01:11:22,043 --> 01:11:23,209
when I joined the group.

1891
01:11:23,293 --> 01:11:25,293
But you saw an opportunity
to bring me down

1892
01:11:25,293 --> 01:11:26,752
and you seized it.

1893
01:11:26,752 --> 01:11:27,877
No. Miranda,
everything that I've told you

1894
01:11:27,877 --> 01:11:28,793
from the beginning
has been the truth.

1895
01:11:28,877 --> 01:11:29,918
Except for the part

1896
01:11:30,002 --> 01:11:31,626
about writing
an expose on my business.

1897
01:11:31,710 --> 01:11:32,793
It's not what you think.

1898
01:11:32,877 --> 01:11:34,752
What I think

1899
01:11:34,752 --> 01:11:36,626
is that maybe journalism
wasn't your calling.

1900
01:11:37,793 --> 01:11:38,752
You should've been an actor,

1901
01:11:38,752 --> 01:11:40,543
because that was
a killer performance.

1902
01:11:46,334 --> 01:11:50,334
[♪]

1903
01:12:09,002 --> 01:12:13,543
[♪]

1904
01:12:16,543 --> 01:12:17,877
[sobs]

1905
01:12:32,626 --> 01:12:33,460
[knocking on door]

1906
01:12:37,626 --> 01:12:39,418
You've really done it
this time, haven't you?

1907
01:12:39,418 --> 01:12:40,877
Come on.
Let's open this.

1908
01:12:44,710 --> 01:12:48,668
[♪]

1909
01:12:54,501 --> 01:12:55,418
Hey.

1910
01:12:55,418 --> 01:12:56,418
You okay?

1911
01:12:56,418 --> 01:12:57,877
I'm fine.

1912
01:13:00,084 --> 01:13:01,251
No, you're not fine.

1913
01:13:02,460 --> 01:13:04,043
And that's okay, Miranda.

1914
01:13:04,043 --> 01:13:06,293
Why don't you go home,
take the rest of the day off?

1915
01:13:08,002 --> 01:13:09,084
I can't.

1916
01:13:09,168 --> 01:13:10,543
It's kickstart day
for this class.

1917
01:13:10,543 --> 01:13:11,543
We're partners.

1918
01:13:11,543 --> 01:13:12,752
I've got this.

1919
01:13:14,168 --> 01:13:16,376
Plus, if we're going
to buy that yoga studio,

1920
01:13:16,460 --> 01:13:17,918
I should really
work on my teaching skills.

1921
01:13:19,084 --> 01:13:19,960
Are you sure?

1922
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:21,501
I'm sure.

1923
01:13:21,585 --> 01:13:22,877
Go home.

1924
01:13:22,877 --> 01:13:24,002
Clear your head.

1925
01:13:24,084 --> 01:13:24,918
See you at the bonfire tonight.

1926
01:13:26,418 --> 01:13:27,877
Okay.

1927
01:13:27,877 --> 01:13:30,752
Look, I know things with Ben
didn't go the way you wanted,

1928
01:13:30,752 --> 01:13:31,918
but it was a big step.

1929
01:13:32,002 --> 01:13:35,002
You inspire everyone
to be better.

1930
01:13:35,084 --> 01:13:36,418
To believe in their own power.

1931
01:13:36,418 --> 01:13:39,002
And that's
what I'm going to do.

1932
01:13:39,084 --> 01:13:41,418
We are going to expand
this business together.

1933
01:13:41,418 --> 01:13:42,710
Yeah, we are.

1934
01:13:42,710 --> 01:13:44,710
We're going to need,
like, 10 more instructors,

1935
01:13:44,710 --> 01:13:45,793
but I'll do for now.

1936
01:13:47,293 --> 01:13:48,501
I'll see you
at the bonfire tonight.

1937
01:13:48,585 --> 01:13:50,168
- Thank you.
- Mm-hmm.

1938
01:14:02,209 --> 01:14:04,293
Hey, Miranda,
can I talk to you for a second?

1939
01:14:04,293 --> 01:14:05,585
Sure.

1940
01:14:05,585 --> 01:14:07,418
I swear I didn't know
about the article,

1941
01:14:07,418 --> 01:14:09,418
and I'm furious with him.

1942
01:14:09,418 --> 01:14:10,835
I know you didn't, Kim,

1943
01:14:10,835 --> 01:14:12,376
and I don't hold any of it
against you.

1944
01:14:12,460 --> 01:14:13,918
Thank you.

1945
01:14:14,002 --> 01:14:15,877
But I will say this, Miranda...

1946
01:14:15,877 --> 01:14:17,251
I know he joined the group
for the wrong reason,

1947
01:14:17,251 --> 01:14:19,002
and he can be combative
and annoying,

1948
01:14:19,084 --> 01:14:20,460
but you really did change him.

1949
01:14:21,626 --> 01:14:22,585
I don't know about that.

1950
01:14:22,585 --> 01:14:23,460
Hey...

1951
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:26,752
...he's a different person,

1952
01:14:26,752 --> 01:14:28,543
and it's 100% because of you.

1953
01:14:32,501 --> 01:14:33,710
I would love
to believe that, but...

1954
01:14:38,293 --> 01:14:39,418
We should go join the group.

1955
01:14:42,084 --> 01:14:44,460
And while we had
three good years together

1956
01:14:44,460 --> 01:14:48,084
and two not so good years,

1957
01:14:48,168 --> 01:14:49,334
I set you free.

1958
01:14:50,543 --> 01:14:52,585
And I set myself free.

1959
01:14:54,835 --> 01:14:56,002
So, that's everyone.

1960
01:14:56,084 --> 01:14:57,918
Actually, there is one more.

1961
01:15:01,543 --> 01:15:03,877
Sometimes, the teacher
learns a thing or two.

1962
01:15:03,877 --> 01:15:05,002
I'm not going
to read it out loud,

1963
01:15:05,084 --> 01:15:07,585
but I will say
to this person,

1964
01:15:07,585 --> 01:15:10,209
thank you for your lessons...

1965
01:15:10,293 --> 01:15:11,752
and I release you.

1966
01:15:16,710 --> 01:15:18,710
Now...

1967
01:15:18,710 --> 01:15:20,043
it's time for the big decision.

1968
01:15:20,043 --> 01:15:21,334
Do you burn your letters--

1969
01:15:21,418 --> 01:15:22,710
And this.

1970
01:15:22,710 --> 01:15:23,793
Right.

1971
01:15:23,877 --> 01:15:25,251
Or do we send them?

1972
01:15:27,084 --> 01:15:28,209
Kim?

1973
01:15:28,293 --> 01:15:30,543
I gave Darren
his letter in person,

1974
01:15:30,543 --> 01:15:32,002
but this will do.

1975
01:15:35,293 --> 01:15:36,626
Bethany,

1976
01:15:36,710 --> 01:15:40,043
I wish all the best for you
and your new girlfriend.

1977
01:15:40,043 --> 01:15:42,418
And I am comforted by the fact

1978
01:15:42,418 --> 01:15:43,877
that Ruth will always love me
more than her.

1979
01:15:49,501 --> 01:15:50,418
The first time around,

1980
01:15:50,418 --> 01:15:52,543
I burned my letter.

1981
01:15:52,543 --> 01:15:54,543
But this time...

1982
01:15:54,543 --> 01:15:55,793
I'm sending it.

1983
01:15:55,877 --> 01:15:58,293
Roger is getting
a piece of my mind.

1984
01:15:59,418 --> 01:16:00,668
Thatta girl.

1985
01:16:00,752 --> 01:16:01,710
Bink?

1986
01:16:03,251 --> 01:16:04,126
One second.

1987
01:16:06,293 --> 01:16:07,251
I thought he brought that

1988
01:16:07,251 --> 01:16:08,710
so he'd have
something to sit on.

1989
01:16:08,710 --> 01:16:09,877
Celebrities, you know?

1990
01:16:11,543 --> 01:16:12,752
This...

1991
01:16:12,752 --> 01:16:13,835
this was
Catherine's favorite chair

1992
01:16:13,835 --> 01:16:15,168
at my house.

1993
01:16:15,168 --> 01:16:17,126
I can't look at it
without seeing her mean face.

1994
01:16:22,626 --> 01:16:23,710
Good riddance, Catherine.

1995
01:16:24,918 --> 01:16:26,126
And stop shouting at waiters.

1996
01:16:28,835 --> 01:16:29,835
Someone else will get me.

1997
01:16:42,293 --> 01:16:44,209
Burning the midnight oil,
are we?

1998
01:16:44,293 --> 01:16:45,251
Yeah.

1999
01:16:45,251 --> 01:16:46,334
You asked for conviction.

2000
01:16:46,418 --> 01:16:47,043
That's what
I'm going to give you.

2001
01:16:47,043 --> 01:16:48,293
Great.

2002
01:16:48,293 --> 01:16:49,752
It'll be on your desk
in the morning.

2003
01:16:49,752 --> 01:16:51,209
Can't wait to read it.

2004
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,543
[♪]

2005
01:17:02,543 --> 01:17:04,418
I've seen army cadets
do this course

2006
01:17:04,418 --> 01:17:06,293
and you are blowing them
out of the water.

2007
01:17:06,293 --> 01:17:07,460
Now keep going!

2008
01:17:08,626 --> 01:17:09,710
Three weeks in

2009
01:17:09,710 --> 01:17:10,918
and your class loves you

2010
01:17:11,002 --> 01:17:12,293
more than any of my classes
have loved me.

2011
01:17:12,293 --> 01:17:13,793
[laughs]

2012
01:17:13,877 --> 01:17:16,418
Margaret is turning a color
I've never seen before.

2013
01:17:16,418 --> 01:17:18,960
Yeah, maybe give her a break
before the next one,

2014
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:21,501
but keep with
the inspiring words to the rest.

2015
01:17:21,585 --> 01:17:23,460
Look what you are accomplishing.

2016
01:17:23,460 --> 01:17:26,752
After this, a broken heart
will feel like a hangnail.

2017
01:17:30,710 --> 01:17:31,668
[alerts chiming]

2018
01:17:31,752 --> 01:17:33,251
Whoa, nine missed calls.

2019
01:17:33,251 --> 01:17:34,626
Yeah, I've got five.

2020
01:17:34,710 --> 01:17:36,668
It's the office.
I hope everything's okay.

2021
01:17:36,752 --> 01:17:38,168
I'll call them.

2022
01:17:40,293 --> 01:17:42,002
Hi, it's Chloe.
What's going on?

2023
01:17:43,752 --> 01:17:45,168
No, I don't know
anything about it.

2024
01:17:45,168 --> 01:17:46,960
We didn't give any interview.

2025
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:48,501
Is it online?

2026
01:17:48,585 --> 01:17:51,084
No? Okay.
We'll pick one up.

2027
01:17:52,710 --> 01:17:53,626
Ben's article.

2028
01:17:53,710 --> 01:17:55,126
Yeah.

2029
01:18:08,002 --> 01:18:09,710
[Ben]
<i>We live in a cynical world.</i>

2030
01:18:09,710 --> 01:18:11,043
<i>It's easy to assume</i>

2031
01:18:11,043 --> 01:18:12,418
<i>that everyone has</i>
<i>ulterior motives</i>

2032
01:18:12,418 --> 01:18:14,585
<i>because negativity sells.</i>

2033
01:18:14,585 --> 01:18:16,293
<i>Bad news</i>
<i>takes the superhighway</i>

2034
01:18:16,293 --> 01:18:18,960
<i>and good news</i>
<i>rides the pony express.</i>

2035
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:21,168
<i>So, when I joined</i>
<i>Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,</i>

2036
01:18:21,168 --> 01:18:22,334
<i>little did I know</i>

2037
01:18:22,418 --> 01:18:24,002
<i>that, in six short weeks,</i>

2038
01:18:24,084 --> 01:18:26,168
<i>I would be</i>
<i>a completely different man.</i>

2039
01:18:26,168 --> 01:18:28,418
<i>Each carefully-crafted step</i>
<i>of boot camp</i>

2040
01:18:28,418 --> 01:18:31,334
<i>brought me back</i>
<i>to the man I used to be</i>

2041
01:18:31,418 --> 01:18:32,668
<i>before I had my heart broken</i>

2042
01:18:32,752 --> 01:18:35,209
<i>by the woman</i>
<i>I once thought I'd marry.</i>

2043
01:18:35,293 --> 01:18:37,918
<i>The man, who once believed</i>
<i>in possibility.</i>

2044
01:18:38,002 --> 01:18:39,168
<i>In goodness.</i>

2045
01:18:39,168 --> 01:18:40,460
<i>In love.</i>

2046
01:18:41,626 --> 01:18:42,752
<i>As this article</i>

2047
01:18:42,752 --> 01:18:43,918
<i>walks you through</i>
<i>the steps I took</i>

2048
01:18:44,002 --> 01:18:46,376
<i>to find my way back to myself,</i>

2049
01:18:46,460 --> 01:18:48,877
<i>I invite the reader</i>
<i>to give this program a shot.</i>

2050
01:18:48,877 --> 01:18:50,668
Or two.

2051
01:18:50,752 --> 01:18:52,960
<i>...because healing</i>
<i>is yours for the taking.</i>

2052
01:18:55,293 --> 01:18:56,626
<i>And Dr. Miranda Faraday</i>

2053
01:18:56,710 --> 01:18:58,293
<i>has found</i>
<i>the step-by-step guide</i>

2054
01:18:58,293 --> 01:18:59,626
<i>to get you there.</i>

2055
01:19:01,543 --> 01:19:04,084
You want me
to hold down the fort?

2056
01:19:04,168 --> 01:19:05,334
Yes, please.

2057
01:19:10,376 --> 01:19:12,918
[Leo] That's good.

2058
01:19:13,002 --> 01:19:14,334
Looks good to me.

2059
01:19:16,501 --> 01:19:17,835
Back again?

2060
01:19:17,835 --> 01:19:18,960
Do you know
where I can find Ben?

2061
01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:20,918
Upstairs.
Executive floor.

2062
01:19:21,002 --> 01:19:21,877
With the other editors.

2063
01:19:21,877 --> 01:19:23,293
He got the promotion?

2064
01:19:23,293 --> 01:19:25,960
He did right by you,

2065
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:27,168
threatened to quit

2066
01:19:27,168 --> 01:19:28,543
if I didn't print his article
word for word.

2067
01:19:28,543 --> 01:19:29,585
But good or bad,

2068
01:19:29,585 --> 01:19:31,293
all I ask for is the truth.

2069
01:19:31,293 --> 01:19:32,668
Negativity sells a bit better.

2070
01:19:32,752 --> 01:19:34,835
Gets more clicks, but...

2071
01:19:34,835 --> 01:19:36,793
I think this is going to be
pretty good for you.

2072
01:19:36,877 --> 01:19:38,877
8th floor.
Corner office.

2073
01:19:38,877 --> 01:19:39,918
Lots of windows.

2074
01:19:40,918 --> 01:19:41,877
Thank you.

2075
01:19:49,376 --> 01:19:51,168
They'll give the corner office
to anyone these days.

2076
01:19:55,668 --> 01:19:56,543
I liked your article.

2077
01:19:57,877 --> 01:20:00,002
I'm glad.

2078
01:20:00,084 --> 01:20:02,126
Sort of wrote it
for an audience of one.

2079
01:20:02,126 --> 01:20:03,460
Yeah, well, my phone
has been ringing off the hook.

2080
01:20:03,460 --> 01:20:05,334
Now I'm in a real situation
because of you.

2081
01:20:05,418 --> 01:20:06,585
Sorry about that.

2082
01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:09,793
In my defense,
not the worst problem to have.

2083
01:20:10,877 --> 01:20:11,877
It's not so bad.

2084
01:20:14,418 --> 01:20:15,960
I really am sorry, Miranda.

2085
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:17,793
About everything.

2086
01:20:17,877 --> 01:20:19,334
I know.

2087
01:20:19,418 --> 01:20:23,126
And if there were only a way
for you to make it up to me.

2088
01:20:23,126 --> 01:20:25,043
My article wasn't enough?

2089
01:20:25,043 --> 01:20:27,043
It was
a very good starting point,

2090
01:20:27,043 --> 01:20:29,002
but I was thinking

2091
01:20:29,084 --> 01:20:32,626
something more along the lines
of, you know, maybe...

2092
01:20:32,710 --> 01:20:33,585
being my rebound?

2093
01:20:35,793 --> 01:20:36,877
I was in the market
for one of those

2094
01:20:36,877 --> 01:20:38,710
and then I met
this really smart doctor,

2095
01:20:38,710 --> 01:20:39,918
and she said
those were terrible.

2096
01:20:41,126 --> 01:20:42,084
Oh...

2097
01:20:42,168 --> 01:20:43,793
She's a work in progress.

2098
01:20:45,585 --> 01:20:47,376
Aren't we all?

2099
01:20:49,209 --> 01:20:51,334
[♪]

2100
01:20:53,585 --> 01:20:57,752
♪ I wonder what it's like... ♪

2101
01:20:57,752 --> 01:20:58,835
♪ I wonder... ♪

2102
01:20:58,835 --> 01:21:00,668
And, aside from helping me

2103
01:21:00,752 --> 01:21:03,126
to get over
she who shall remain nameless,

2104
01:21:03,126 --> 01:21:05,793
your program helped you
to find love again, as well,

2105
01:21:05,877 --> 01:21:07,084
with Ben here,

2106
01:21:07,168 --> 01:21:08,585
who wrote what I have to say

2107
01:21:08,585 --> 01:21:11,251
was a fantastic article
in <i>Advantage Monthly Magazine</i>

2108
01:21:11,251 --> 01:21:13,543
about his own experience
at your boot camp.

2109
01:21:13,543 --> 01:21:14,626
She's very good
at what she does.

2110
01:21:15,877 --> 01:21:17,043
Thank you.

2111
01:21:17,043 --> 01:21:19,501
It was a job, but...

2112
01:21:19,585 --> 01:21:22,793
once you realize
that you can commit to the work,

2113
01:21:22,877 --> 01:21:25,126
I guess anything's possible.

2114
01:21:26,543 --> 01:21:27,585
[Bink] You see, Misty.

2115
01:21:27,585 --> 01:21:28,585
The sooner one begins the work,

2116
01:21:28,585 --> 01:21:30,126
the sooner one can get over

2117
01:21:30,126 --> 01:21:32,460
the guy who pretended
to be a pilot

2118
01:21:32,460 --> 01:21:33,460
and catfished her
over the Internet.

2119
01:21:33,460 --> 01:21:34,877
[Misty] I know, Bink,

2120
01:21:34,877 --> 01:21:35,918
and she will.

2121
01:21:37,084 --> 01:21:38,043
And coming this Fall,

2122
01:21:38,043 --> 01:21:40,626
Dr. Miranda Faraday's new book,

2123
01:21:40,710 --> 01:21:41,710
<i>Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,</i>

2124
01:21:41,710 --> 01:21:42,960
will be available

2125
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:45,002
in all good bookstores
and online retailers,

2126
01:21:45,084 --> 01:21:46,501
so be on the lookout for that.

2127
01:21:46,585 --> 01:21:48,043
Meanwhile, you can sign up
for her classes

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01:21:48,043 --> 01:21:50,293
at her brand-new studio,
downtown.

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01:21:50,293 --> 01:21:51,960
[applause]

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01:21:55,043 --> 01:21:59,501
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪

2131
01:21:59,585 --> 01:22:02,293
♪ Yeah... ♪

2132
01:22:02,293 --> 01:22:06,376
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you... ♪

2133
01:22:06,460 --> 01:22:11,126
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪

2134
01:22:11,126 --> 01:22:14,543
♪ Right before
I close my eyes ♪

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01:22:14,543 --> 01:22:18,168
♪ The only thing
that's on my mind ♪

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01:22:18,168 --> 01:22:21,209
♪ Been dreamin'
that you feel it, too ♪

2137
01:22:21,293 --> 01:22:23,960
♪ I wonder what it's like
to be loved by you ♪

2138
01:22:27,293 --> 01:22:32,209
[♪]