[Randi and Jordan] Previously on Extreme Sisters...
[exclaims]
-I'm married to Daniel. -And I am Derek's girlfriend.
We always had this dream of marrying twin men.
-Has he asked you anything about a ring, or, like... -No.
-[Randi] ...what you like? -And that's why I'm concerned.
I just don't want you to give up on motherhood.
It's not worth it if we can't experience it together.
We were trying to have babies.
We have decided to put it on hold.
-And I wouldn't imagine... -I... Yeah, I couldn't.
-We can't imagine it. -I couldn't be pregnant without you.
I'm telling Demetrius that I have agreed
to be a surrogate for my sister.
I just don't want this to come between your marriage, Sis.
He's gonna be livid.
♪ We gonna celebrate like a million different ways ♪
♪ Anything that you want ♪
♪ You can be who you are ♪
♪ Feeling good inside ♪
-Make sure it's like the same. -Same. The same.
-The same as mine. -Yep. Mmm-hmm.
-You've got the silk one today, don't you? -Yep.
Just fluff it out.
Fluff it out.
You fluff it out with me.
-Fluff it with me. -Mmm-hmm.
♪ And let it shine bright ♪
♪ Whoa ♪
-Nice. -[Jeana] Girls, come downstairs, please.
[Lucy] What is this?
[Anna] You got us a present?
Kind of, yeah.
-Just be gentle. -[Anna] What is in it?
Is there a cat in there or something?
-There's a cat or something. -I wouldn't put a cat in a box, girls.
-For goodness sake. -A cat.
-[Lucy] Yeah. -[Anna] Yeah.
-I've got this side. -[Lucy] Let me do that side.
-Well, just be careful, apparently. So... -[Lucy] Yeah.
-Just be careful 'cause we don't know what it is. -Might help if you...
It might jump at us.
[Jeana] Nothing is going to jump at you.
-Gentle. -I did it.
[Anna] Well, be careful. Just take your time.
-Oh, my God. -[Lucy] My God.
[Jeana] Oh, dear.
-Oh, my God. -God.
Is there one each?
-I think so. -There's two.
The girls have decided to pause on trying to have children.
It's too hard for them to have the same pregnancy at the same time.
It makes me sad because motherhood is such a joy.
So, I have given the girls two little dolls as an experiment.
I just hope to show them how absolutely beautiful it can be.
[Anna] Oh.
-Oh my... -You got us two babies.
Oh, my God.
-Two baby dolls. -Two baby dolls.
-And I'm looking at Mum thinking... -And babies.
...What have you done?
-What is this?" -[Anna] "Why have you done this?"
Like, when we were kids, we loved playing with dolls, loved playing dress ups.
-But not, like, adults. -But not now. We're adults.
-Like, what are we meant to do with them? -This is so strange and weird.
They actually look quite real.
[Jeana] This is like a practice run.
Just...
...seeing how you feel about it.
-You really want us to have a baby. -To have a baby.
To pursue the thing of, you know, having a baby.
-So, we can keep these dolls. -They're your dolls.
To keep?
-[Jeana] Mmm. -And play with.
-Well, I know it seems strange.
You can't carry them by the arms, mate...
-[laughing] -Is that what it said?
-I don't think so. -...or by the head or the legs.
-You must hold its head up, love. -[both] Yeah.
How Lucy is holding the baby.
-Yeah, you have to copy me. -Oh.
Yeah, like that. Yeah, very good.
You actually look the part. It's...
Isn't it amazing?
Ooh... [bleep]
[Jeana] Back of the neck, yeah.
-We don't really hold newborns. -Borns.
-Like, this was pretty new. -Well, we never have
-really before. -We... Yeah.
So this is like a first time for us.
-And Mum was there guiding us through... -Yeah.
...how to hold the babies.
-Giving us advice. -Advice.
-Do this. -Hold its neck.
Do this, do that.
-I thought. -[Anna] Mum was happy.
-Mum was enjoying this moment with us. -With us.
-The eyelashes are soft. -[Jeana] Mmm.
See how much fun you could have with babies.
[Lucy] Well, they're so pretty.
-[Anna] Yeah, they really are pretty. -[Lucy] Pretty.
When I see the girls holding the dolls,
it's really a beautiful sight.
It's lovely just to watch.
Let's see you from far away.
Yeah, let's see what you look like.
-Oh, my God. -Oh, my God.
[Lucy] It feels amazing, you know.
And you look amazing.
[Anna] Do we look good?
It brings out just life in you.
-I mean, it was weird. -At first I thought it was weird.
-But then... -But then it was a learning curve.
It just grew on us.
[Anna] And it was an eye-opener.
I might take...
-[Lucy] Yeah. -[Lucy and Anna] Aw.
-Oh, look at this. -Look at this.
Mum doesn't want us to give up motherhood,
give up our dream of having children.
She wants us to experience it,
-and I... -I mean, it's gonna make Mum happy.
Like, just try it for a week.
-Like, make Mum. -Yeah, just give it a go.
Give it a go, mate.
Ooh.
We're just gonna roll with it.
-Yeah, we're just gonna roll with it. -With it.
[both] Oh, look at this.
You just look like you're made for motherhood. [chuckles]
You really do.
I'm just wondering how Ben will feel about all of this.
Uh, surprised.
[Anna and Lucy] Yeah, definitely.
Yeah.
I mean, do you reckon he'll freak out, or...
I'm not quite sure.
♪ We are heading to unchartered waters ♪
♪ I don't know what we'll see ♪
♪ Ooh-ooh ♪
Jess, make sure it's not too hot.
Not too cold either, though.
The water is the perfect temperature.
-I know what you like. -Okay.
Okay.
-We're just in that good space, you know? -Yes, mmm-hmm.
-I'm Jessica. -I'm Christina.
-And we're 38 now, right? Yeah. -30... Yeah.
[both] We're 38.
And we're from Gig Harbor, Washington.
♪ Never be alone again ♪
We have a very unique bond
because we are not only sisters,
but we are psychically connected.
[Jessica] Good vibrations.
We feel things. We hear things.
We can predict the future.
-That's our job. That's what pays our bills. -[Jessica] Yeah.
[Christina] That's what puts food on the table.
Like, we share our gift to clients around the world.
Good sister vibes. Sister spirit.
-We're just recovering from... -Yeah.
...a lot of fighting that was going on.
-So... -Yeah. We had one of our worst blow outs,
like, that we've ever had.
I mean, we didn't talk for three months.
I blocked her on everything.
What time are you bringing her back?
Does she need to have a curfew?
John got between our sisterly bond.
And I wasn't gonna let someone come in
and take away what we've had our whole life.
'Cause you love me, Jessica,
-you'll let me love who I want. -[Jessica] Okay.
-I have done nothing wrong to you. -Honestly,
I wanna talk to my sister for a minute,
-'cause guess what? -She doesn't wanna talk to you!
-[Christina] No, don't. -I'll make sure she leaves your ass.
I felt like she was trying to sabotage my relationship.
I had to set really clear boundaries with her.
I felt like the only way to get her to respect them
was for me just to cut off communication with her.
Then during the time that my sister and I weren't speaking,
John and I decided to get married.
And I chose not to have my sister at my wedding.
I feel like if my sister was at my wedding,
I would have had to feel that tension that her and John put out,
and I just didn't want that energy to ruin my experience.
I found out that my sister and John were getting married
through a text message about an hour before the wedding.
She was afraid that her witness wasn't going to be there on time,
and text me to be the backup plan.
What a horrible feeling...
...to be a backup
to such a huge important part of your life.
I wasn't invited at my sister's wedding
because John didn't want me there.
That's why.
-[whispers] Good vibrations. -[Christina] Yes.
[Jessica] After the wedding we didn't talk for a couple of months,
and then all of a sudden, I started feeling really nauseous.
And I called Christina up
and I asked her, "Are you pregnant?"
And yeah, sure enough, I was.
[groans]
At that point, you know,
we were so excited about the new baby,
that we just forgot about the past, forgot about the fight,
and just started hanging out again.
And I definitely feel that me getting pregnant
brought my sister and I back together again.
It's something we get to both be really excited about.
And we love the family dynamic, and we love our kids,
and it's something to celebrate.
I couldn't celebrate that fully without my sister.
-[Christina] Oh, I love it. -You like it?
-[Christina] Yes. -[Jessica] Like the vibe.
[Christina] Yes, this is so my vibe.
-It's so the vibe. -[Christina] Yeah.
We're back to hanging out like we used to.
We're back to calling, texting,
and just having fun together.
-Your boobs are huge. Oh, my God. [laughs] -I know.
-I haven't seen you pregnant in a minute. -No. They have gotten so big.
-Christina, your boobs are huge. -I know. [gasps]
Oh, so relaxing.
So, I am going to have a home birth.
All natural. I'm going to do it in water.
My plan is to turn my living room
into a euphoric experience.
I wanted to actually birth my baby in the woods,
in the middle of the forest, surrounded by trees,
but John didn't like that idea.
I think I should get naked.
-Let's both be spiritual. -[Christina] Yeah, get in here.
-Yeah, I was gonna say... -Yeah, get in here with me, girl.
Yeah, I think that's a great idea.
I'm on my period, though.
Okay. Put a tampon in.
During the birth, I plan on being in the tub.
I'm gonna be right there next to her,
pulling the baby out,
putting the baby on her chest.
Like, I am fully immersing into this power womanhood right there with you.
Okay. Okay.
Close your eyes. Don't look. This is gonna be gross.
[laughing]
I definitely want Jessica to be a part of this whole experience with me.
You know, she's a huge...
...added benefit to this for me, you know.
Right. Okay. We're good.
-Okay. Wait a minute. -I really wanna like straddle.
-You know. Oh. Okay. -Okay. This is weird.
'Cause I literally feel your vagina
-like scratching my back. -Am I touching?
-Okay. -[laughing] I feel your...
Do you really? Like you feel the lips.
-[both laughing] -What do you feel?
I don't know. It just... Okay.
It might distract me feeling your vagina on my back.
Well, I have a tampon in so we're good.
And just go back a little bit so we're not so snug.
-Okay. Okay. Okay. -Okay.
-So, mother spirit. -Mother spirit.
-[whispers] Shh. I'm talking to her. -Okay.
[whispers] Okay. Sorry.
-I'm gonna be serious, girl. -Okay. Mother spirit...
-[whispers] Yes. -...you need to
put your energy around me and the baby right now,
and keep us protected, and...
...help John and Jessica get along before the baby too.
If you can kind of throw that little thing in there too,
that'd be great.
I just... Gosh.
I just want my sister and John to get along so bad.
I don't wanna go back to where we were.
Just surround us with good energy.
And bless us. Bless the baby.
[kisses and exhales]
[humming]
My relationship with John is fake, fake, fake, fake, fake, fake, fake, and fake.
I gotta be fake.
I don't like John.
John doesn't like me.
That's... It's apparent.
I... I'm keeping it cool.
I'm keeping everything in.
I'm literally just smiling and doing whatever for my sister.
But there is gonna come a point...
There's gonna come a point where I can't hold it in anymore.
It's, like, so important to me
that this is a very sacred experience.
He doesn't want me to be her number one.
You know, he doesn't want her to need me for anything.
He doesn't want me in her life.
And I feel like if you and John are still in this space
where it's just so uncomfortable and negative,
like, it's gonna ruin the whole vibe for me.
So, like, it's so important.
You can't just... You can't just say sorry or whatever
-'cause to him it'd be like... -[water bubbling]
-[both laugh] -[bleep] you!
-[bleep] Oh, just kind of... -[Christina] That's [bleep] up.
-Get out. You're gross. -[laughing]
[both laughing]
Hate you.
Obviously, John will be at the labor.
I mean, he's the father of the child,
and he's my husband.
But there's something about a sister's love
that only she can give me.
I don't wanna feel any constraints.
If they can't work through their issues,
I don't want either of them there.
I feel like if it's this beautiful,
it could be a little bit out of price range.
Jordan definitely can push people to do what she wants to do.
It's just a lot. It's a lot.
He's basically like a mannequin that I'm controlling.
You act like I gotta lay down with a man to have the baby!
I don't!
[Demetrius] Vee is choosing her sister over me.
That's a stab in the back.
I'm not changing my mind...
...for nobody.
♪ I do it my way ♪
♪ They say it can't be done ♪
♪ Well, watch me do it ♪
♪ Yeah, do it for fun ♪
My way. Yeah, I get it done ♪
♪ And I don't need your opinion ♪
I have decided...
...that I'm gonna be a surrogate mother for Ashley.
-[all] What? -[man] No.
-Wait. What? -What?
Wait a minute. Wait. Hold on.
Run that back.
I'm gonna carry a baby for Ashley.
[all] Oh.
-Yeah. -Oh.
So, we got twenty years together, right?
-We got 20 years together. -[Demetrius] 20 whole years together.
[Vee] And this is my body.
I understand that. I understand that.
-I can do what I want with my body. -You have to make a choice.
You gonna choose your sister, or you gonna choose me.
Well, I'm carrying my sister's baby.
-All right. -I will support you
with whatever the [bleep] you wanna do.
[Demetrius] Nah. Nah. That's totally different.
That ain't totally different. How is it?
-[Demetrius] All right. -You act like I gotta lay down with a man to have the baby.
I don't.
-All right. -[Vee] She wanna have another baby.
So, you've made your choice, right?
I made my choice, and I'm having a baby.
Okay.
Vee has chosen her path in life without me
by choosing Ashley to carry a baby that I knew nothing about.
That's a stab in the back to me, honestly.
That's a stab in the back.
-Ready to chill out? -Yeah.
So y'all just gonna leave like that.
All right. Yo.
Who wants another man's DNA inside their woman?
Doesn't make sense.
I can't see that happening.
[Vee] I regret telling him...
...tonight about the surrogacy.
I thought that everybody would be happy, kids and all.
They [bleep] shocked me.
I'm not changing my mind...
...for nobody.
I'm having this baby,
and I'm having this baby for my sister.
♪ 'Cause you know deep in his heart ♪
♪ He always wanted more ♪
-[woman] Hi. -Hello.
How can I help you today?
So, I'm actually meeting my hopefully soon to be brother-in-law here,
and we're looking for my sister,
an engagement ring.
-Fun. All right. -Yes, long-awaited.
-We've waited a while, so I'm excited. -[woman laughs]
I think Derek not proposing to Randi yet
is definitely affecting our dynamic as a whole.
Our masterplan is
for Randi and I to basically live our lives together,
and then also, Derek and Daniel can be a part of it as well.
In order for this to be complete,
the missing puzzle piece is Derek moving into the house with us.
But in order for that to happen,
he must first propose.
I believe Daniel and I were only together
a little under a year before he proposed to me.
She's been waiting a year and a half,
and Derek still has yet to propose to my sister.
[Derek] What's up?
-[woman] Hi. -Hi, Derek.
-Just looking at some rocks for you. -Yeah.
-You gonna send me some money or what? -Yeah.
-No, sorry, unfortunately not. -[laughing]
I'm guessing you don't know much about diamonds.
No, I do not.
Well, I know a smidge, but, um,
we'll figure something out by the end of today.
I guarantee it.
-Okay. -But I know for sure one thing,
probably two carats or up.
[Derek] Do you know what she wants? Like, what it looks like.
-[Jordan] Probably a pear. -[Derek] Pear-shape.
-[Jordan] Yeah. -Okay. Nailed it.
Of course, I'm choosing the ring, ultimately.
I know exactly what she wants.
Derek knows nothing about diamonds.
I've actually educated myself.
So I will make sure that we leave with the ring of my sister's dreams.
And Derek can present his wallet,
but that's pretty much all I'll need from him.
-Um... -You getting nervous?
-A little bit. -You seem kind of anxious.
Uh, yeah. I just have no idea what I'm doing.
-So, I'm glad you're here. -[Jordan] No. I mean, are you nervous
-to finally take the plunge? -[Derek] No.
-I'm not... -Do you have any doubts?
No, I'm not nervous about that.
-It's just. -[Jordan] Really? Not at all?
-No. -[Jordan] Okay.
But I wanna do it on my time.
So, now we're here,
-just you and me. -Are you saying I was pushing you?
-[Derek] A little bit. -Okay.
The usual.
-It's a lot. Well, let's do it. -Do I need to get a fan?
-No. No. Let's do it. -Okay.
Uh, ma'am. Hi.
-Can we pick out a few to try on? -Hello.
-Yes. -Okay.
My original time frame in my mind,
two, three years.
That didn't go well with the family
and, uh, especially Jordan
because she knows that Randy doesn't wait for things.
She's not very patient.
You know, Jordan is the alpha twin.
She likes to run the ship.
It's just a little bit extra on my shoulders right now.
[woman] This one's a 1.90 carat.
-[Derek] Mmm-hmm. -[Jordan] Lord, have mercy.
-This one gives me major princess vibes. -[Jordan] Aw. Yes.
-This is like... -And how much are we looking at for all of these?
-Like, let's just be real. -[woman] So, let's see.
-That's so pretty. -Oh, yeah.
-This one right here is at $11,000 for this one. -Mmm-hmm.
-That's including. -I don't think we're gonna go with that one then.
-[woman] No, for this one. -That seems low.
Right?
We want somewhere around 20.
-[woman] Okay. -[Jordan] 20, 25.
[woman] Well, this one's at $32,400.
When it comes to my sister, there is no budget.
She deserves everything in the world and more.
Derek has no clue what my sister wants.
I'm just hoping that with me telling him a few things here and there,
he kind of grasps why we need to go a little bit over budget.
He may not have planned for this,
but here we are, and it's here, it's happening.
I think we should broaden our horizons to 20 to 35.
-[chuckles] -Wait. [chuckles]
That's what monthly payments are for if you need to.
[Derek chuckles] It were exactly like it's her engagement.
She has this big-ass rock on her hand,
and she wants Randi to have that same thing.
But she can't tell me exactly what I'm gonna spend.
We're not spending money on you here.
You've already got your ring.
We're picking out what I wanna buy my fiancee.
So... which is your sister, but...
we've gotta rein it in a little bit.
I feel like if it's this beautiful,
it could be a little bit out of price range.
It's just a lot. It's a lot.
I think this is the one.
I think it's...
I think we should do it.
-Yeah. -[Jordan] I'm so excited!
[Derek] Jordan definitely can push people to do what she wants to do.
And I'm probably gonna spend more than I wanted to
and maybe throw up in the parking lot,
but it's gonna be perfect, and Randi's gonna love it.
-I'm so excited! Yay! -I might have a--
-Teamwork makes the dream work. -Yeah, I might have a...
-[woman] I'm so happy. -I'll buy you dinner.
...heart attack outside.
It's very much like I'm proposing to my sister
because I'm choosing the ring,
I'm gonna tell him kind of in a nutshell what to say and how to do it.
So he's basically like a mannequin that I'm controlling, in a way.
It's all coming together now.
The next step in our little game of life here,
nut up, and get down on a knee, and do the dang thing.
-Randi's worth it. -I know she's worth it. That's what I'm saying.
I would never spend this... I wouldn't spend so much money on my truck.
[both] You just watch them on your part.
[Ben] Why are there dolls on the floor?
We're, like, going all-out. We're making this experiment as real as possible for us.
Possible.
You get the best of both worlds out of this.
This would be ideal and perfect.
-Are you okay? -I don't know if it's gonna be the same.
-Uh-oh. -[sniffs]
♪ What did you say? ♪
♪ Yeah, yeah ♪
♪ Rendezvous ♪
♪ We could go anywhere ♪
-Be careful. -Be careful.
♪ We could be anyone ♪
Here. Hold it. Hold her. Hold her. Hold her. Hold her.
You do it neatly.
-They have to be in the middle. -How?
-In the middle, in the middle, in the middle! -How?
-Yeah. Look, you don't know how to do it. -I don't know how to do it.
I'll do it. I'll do it. I'll do it. I'll do it. I'll do it.
-Here. -Hurry. This is too long doing this. Hurry.
I know. There, I've got it. I got it. I did it. I did it.
So, we spent all day with the babies,
and all we wanna do is show Ben these dolls.
Like, look at this amazing idea Mom's got for us, to look after dolls.
-We did it. Look. -Aww!
[Anna] We're, like, going all out.
-We're making this experiment as real as possible for us. -Possible.
[Anna] Babies or no babies, we won't be separated in the shower.
We won't be separated in any task, really, no matter what.
[Ben] I'm home.
[both] Oh, hey!
[Ben] Why are there dolls on the floor?
-And... Surprise! -Surprise!
What do you mean, do I mind?
So what? I've got to treat it like it's real?
Don't leave one out!
[Ben] Well, how am I supposed to do...
I can do this.
Aww!
The girls are pretending these dolls are, like, actual babies.
I don't get it.
It's ridiculous.
What the hell?
What the hell am I supposed to do with these things?
[Lucy] Are you okay? We'll just be a few minutes.
[both] We're just gonna quickly get changed.
Just look after them, please.
Well, they're not gonna do anything.
Well, just, you know, play with them.
[Ben] Play with them?
[Lucy] Yeah, play with them.
[Ben growls]
It's important for us for him to get with this idea
because we're taking it seriously, so should he.
-Like, we wanna see if we can... -Do this.
And look after babies.
[Ben growls]
[fighting noises]
[both] Aww!
Aww!
How old are you?
What?
I mean, we should have thought of this ages ago.
-I think people do this as practice. -People really do this.
Yeah, when they're five years old.
Oh.
-Don't do that. -Don't do that.
What is this? Are you...
You know, are you still wanting to try for babies, or what's going on?
Um...
Here is the ultimate dream.
They're together. They're identical.
[sniffs]
Are you okay?
-Uh-oh. -[Ben] Come here.
Come on.
-Come here. -Well, they're together now.
Yeah, I know, but this was, like, the closest thing that could happen to us.
[cries]
This would be ideal and perfect.
You get the best of both worlds out of this.
You don't have to feed them, you don't, you know,
you don't have to put up with their crying.
-[chuckles] -Don't have to change their nappies.
I could kind of see where they were going with this.
I thought...
This would be good practice for all of us, I think.
So, what if we give these the name?
-That make you happy? -Yeah.
-Definitely.
Do you like Annalise?
Well, if that's Annalise, then what's that one?
Allana?
-[chuckles] -They still have two A's and two L's in it.
I don't know.
Okay. Annalise and Allana.
[Ben] All right. We'll go with that.
Like, spending time with the dolls has...
Has brought something in us.
Naturally. Just... It's brought out, like, motherhood with us.
This is what we've always wanted. This is our dream.
It's the ultimate dream, but it could be a miracle if it could happen.
Mum and her sister got pregnant at the same time,
and they were, like, days apart.
And she said, "Miracles do happen, girls."
-"It can happen." -And, "Don't give up."
So, now it's your turn. Do a bit of a rock.
Just a bit of a rock. You have to hold its head.
-Be careful. -Be careful. Gently.
Obviously, you know, this is an unusual situation.
The girls are adamant
that they live identical lives.
Raising a family is gonna be an issue for us.
So, you know, I'm worried that this experience might upset them.
We just found the whole moment surreal for us and really nice and calming.
-I can see you in them. -Yeah.
Can't you?
[John] It's our baby, our ultrasound.
There's no reason for you to be there.
And I'm gonna be around when my sister wants me around.
This isn't a tit-for-tat. "Who's better? Who knows her better?" okay?
I win, okay? So shut up. I win, John.
Pregnancy hormones are enough, you guys.
These vibes, this energy, it's not gonna work long-term. It's just not.
What do you guys want for dinner?
What sounds good?
[Christina] Do you guys wanna make nuggets?
Do you guys wanna color or anything?
-I'm gonna steam some broccoli, as well. -Okay, yeah. Do broccoli.
You guys want broccoli?
Right now, my life, it's so blessed.
I have everything I've ever wanted.
I have an amazing husband. I've got the kids and a baby on the way.
But there's something missing,
and it's Jessica and John getting along.
And until that happens, I feel like my life won't be fully complete.
-Hey! -[Christina] Oh, hey, girl.
-[John] Hi! -Hi! What's up?
Just, you know, making gourmet dinner for the kids.
You look all dressed up.
Hi! What's up, guys? Aw!
Good healthy dinner, you guys.
Every kid's dream. Eat up.
I think things are still awkward between Jess and I.
Jessica lives right down the street,
and she comes over all the time, uninvited.
And it's just not cool.
Okay. Can I have some water, or, like...?
Yeah. Get some.
-I can do it. Thank you. -Welcome.
I definitely think Jessica doesn't support Christina and I's relationship.
She definitely doesn't support us as a married couple.
And I'm not going anywhere any time soon.
So that's why we are uncomfortable around each other.
[Jessica] What else did you guys do tonight?
[Christina] We have to get up kind of early tomorrow
'cause we have the ultrasound at what? 10:00?
-Like what? The big... Like, the big kahuna, the big one? -[John] Yeah.
[Jessica] Where you see everything?
-Uh-huh. -Yeah.
-No. -[Christina] Yeah. We haven't even had an ultrasound yet,
so this is, like, our first one.
Do I get to go to the ultrasound?
[John] You don't need to be there.
It's not a big deal 'cause the parents are going to the ultrasound.
I'm not being mean, I'm just saying, like, you don't need to be there.
-That's an adult life. -What if Christina wants me there?
I know, Christina, that you would want me at the ultrasound.
-I know you'd want me there, so. -Okay.
Christina wants me to be at the ultrasound.
She'd rather have me at the ultrasound than John.
And that's a fact.
I was at her ultrasounds, her labors.
I always was welcomed. Always.
[John] How about this? How about this?
Since you can't be there, you can be at his first haircut.
I thought you guys were gonna grow the hair out.
You said you guys were gonna have a man-bun.
It's like a joke. This is not funny.
I don't... Why is this funny?
'Cause it's our thing.
John doesn't realize that my sister and I are close again.
So I feel like John thinks he's protecting me.
I think he is doing what he feels is best for us.
But I feel like this is, like, one of those situations
where I just wanna avoid, you know, some conflicts right now.
Like, I hope you guys think about it
and see that it's... I'm of love and...
It's not that we don't think that.
It's just, I don't want you to be there.
Well, I mean, you keep saying, "We", and it's, like, you know,
we're a "We". We're a "We", too, John.
Your "We" is different than our "We".
I know. Our "We" is kind of... It's a little...
Husband.
Sibling.
Christina and I, we share the same DNA, okay?
John, you share a court document with my sister. That's it.
So what you need to do, John, is accept my relationship with my sister
and embrace it, not compare it.
This isn't a tit-for-tat. "Who's better? Who knows her better?" Okay?
I win, okay? So shut up. I win, John.
It's a reality of accepting that you're now married to a twin.
Are you done?
Okay, cool. You can go watch a movie.
[Jessica] I'm gonna sit.
Pregnancy hormones are enough, you guys.
-So I can't take on this right now. -Yeah.
I just don't want the whole experience to be Aunty and Daddy...
-[Jessica] Mmm-hmm. -...and I'm in the middle.
-Like... -I don't want that.
[John] It's not.
Neither of them have asked me what I want or have made it about me.
They're just selfishly making it about themselves.
That's not fair.
Whatever this is, these vibes, this energy...
We've got what? Three months.
Their [bleep] isn't healed yet, so they just...
We're still stuck. It's like time is frozen, you know,
where they're still stuck in the past and I'm trying to move forward.
In order for John and Jessica to both be at the birth,
they're gonna have to heal their relationship.
And we don't have a lot of time, so I'm scared.
Whatever this family dynamic is right now, it's not gonna work long-term. It's just not.
I'm my own person. She didn't put a gun to my head and tell me,
"Neecie, have a baby for me."
I offered, I sure did 'cause I'm my own woman. I got my own brain.
What is he afraid of?
I... don't... know.
I'm your sister, and he don't want me to surrogate for you.
[Ashley] I've never seen Demetrius like that. Never.
Vee is trying to do something for me, you know?
And it's like she's... You're already using your body to carry a baby for me,
but now you gonna lose your family for me.
And I don't wanna be the reason why you lose your family.
It's what I was afraid of.
[Vee] What?
It's my decision at the end of the day.
I'm gonna hold my head up, straighten my spine,
and I'm gonna carry this baby with pride and dignity
because I know you would do it for me.
I would. I wouldn't think twice about it.
And I didn't think twice about it.
So it is what it is.
I'm having the baby. I'm having a baby. Period.
I'm gonna let y'all talk.
Call me if you need me.
All right, so...
I'm not here to argue with you. I'm here to get facts, information,
-something I need to know. -[Vee] Okay.
-We have a 20-year relationship. -Yeah.
I have to say something in this situation, don't you agree?
Nah, I don't think you do.
Demetrius, I have two children.
I don't wanna have another baby.
I don't want a baby.
I'm using my shell to carry her baby.
If you listen to what you're saying.
If you carry that baby, that's your baby.
-No it's not! -Bull [bleep]
That would be your baby.
The baby is getting created in a lab.
-I'm going to that lab... -Mmm-hmm.
...and they're just inserting the embryo in me.
-Mmm-hmm. -That's it.
I'm not having another man's baby.
You having a baby for her, that breaks our bond.
-How does it? -'Cause you didn't tell me.
You understand that?
Can you understand that?
Yeah, I can understand it.
And you're still going forward with your situation?
With your decision, should I say.
That's my decision.
-And that's final? -That's final.
20 years mean nothing to her, I feel.
I feel like it doesn't mean anything to her right now.
Based off Ashley can't have kids.
That's not my problem.
And Ashley is making that my problem.
[Vee] You can do whatever you wanna do.
I'm having a baby whether you say, "F you",
you walk out the door, that's not gonna change my mind.
I'm having the baby. Period.
It's not my baby, it's her baby.
And that's just it. And I'm done with the conversation.
-Good luck with that baby. -Yeah, good luck.
I'm with it.
If y'all like it, I love it.
[Ashley] So now you just wanna be sarcastic?
If y'all like it, I love it.
-We'll leave it at that. -[Ashley and Vee] Love what? Love what?
[bleep] y'all, this [bleep] y'all got going on.
What you saying, "What y'all got going on."
I'm my own person.
She didn't put a gun to my head and tell me, "Neecie, have a baby for me."
She did not do it. I made that decision on my own.
-You made that decision on your own? -[Vee] She didn't even ask me.
She didn't even ask me, I offered.
-Okay. -[Vee] I offered. I offered.
Because those fibroids was growing, and they was going to kill her.
I offered. I sure did
'cause I'm my own woman. I got my own brain.
I put y'all together.
So, that's how you really feel?
[Vee] Yeah, that's how the [bleep] he feels.
You don't want her to carry a baby for me?
I don't know how you want me to respond to that.
My response is I didn't know that she even agreed to carry your baby.
I didn't agree. I offered.
So there's nothing else I really have to say.
-All right. -All right.
[Demetrius] It's tough for me to even deal with.
Her and Ashley basically have something going on that I don't know nothing about.
We have a secret language.
[speaking in gibberish]
English. English.
This is the first time that we've lived on our own.
-We're finally being adults and-- -We're getting there.
Get a job, how about that?
I'm too busy hanging out with Hannah and Catherine. That's it.
I know.
All of you need to grow up. You need to move on.
-Was this supposed to be Sunday dinner or what? -Or an interrogation?
-You look cute. -You look great.
Aww.
You're gonna ask Josh to give you a baby?
Pretty much.
Now that Christina's pregnant, I need to get pregnant.
I don't think that's gonna scare him. I think he's gonna be, like, down for it.
You may have to babysit them.
-We've got a dentist appointment. -Well, I do.
The dentist. He told me, third time it gets infected,
we're pulling it out. That's it.
I'm really worried. Like, what about if Dr. Arnard
can't take out one of my teeth?
-[cries] -She's, like, been really upset about it.
I don't know what you're gonna do.
Well, Sis, time is ticking. Who is gonna be the papi?
I want a baby, and I want the baby with you.
I think Ashley and Vee wants to have a baby together
more than she wants to have a baby with me.
It ain't like you carried it.
Where you going?
How dare he bring up the fact that I cannot carry any more babies?
He didn't have to throw that [bleep] in my face. I've been struggling with it.