1 00:00:07,716 --> 00:00:12,595 Joy is a guide for a person to live a happy life. 2 00:00:13,346 --> 00:00:16,224 Along the way, it will evolve. 3 00:00:20,020 --> 00:00:25,316 Whether you move across the country or just into the next stage of your life, 4 00:00:27,527 --> 00:00:29,821 it is important to ask yourself, 5 00:00:29,904 --> 00:00:32,949 "Does everything I've kept with me still spark joy?" 6 00:00:34,034 --> 00:00:37,829 I'm going to meet someone who has traveled a long way. 7 00:00:45,378 --> 00:00:47,088 Jonathan! Blair! 8 00:00:47,756 --> 00:00:49,007 I'm gonna make some… 9 00:00:50,175 --> 00:00:52,135 --Oh Lord. 10 00:00:55,638 --> 00:00:58,600 - I just spilled the sugar. - How did that even happen? 11 00:00:58,683 --> 00:01:01,144 Because it's just all cluttered in there. 12 00:01:01,227 --> 00:01:03,063 My name is Lorri. 13 00:01:03,938 --> 00:01:06,900 I am a single mother with two children. 14 00:01:06,983 --> 00:01:10,445 My oldest is Tyler. He is in college. 15 00:01:10,528 --> 00:01:13,740 And then I have Jonathan, senior in high school. 16 00:01:13,823 --> 00:01:18,536 And then I have a third child. Blair has become my daughter. 17 00:01:18,620 --> 00:01:20,497 And Blair is going to graduate high school. 18 00:01:20,580 --> 00:01:25,585 Blair, Jonathan, where's my shell that I wanted to wear? 19 00:01:25,668 --> 00:01:27,545 I grew up in Long Island, New York, 20 00:01:28,129 --> 00:01:32,383 and then transplanted to Texas, and now to Burbank, California. 21 00:01:32,467 --> 00:01:36,513 Oh boy. I'm trying to see where I put it. 22 00:01:36,596 --> 00:01:38,848 When I moved from Texas to California, 23 00:01:38,932 --> 00:01:42,769 I didn't get rid of anything, because everything meant something. 24 00:01:43,353 --> 00:01:45,855 Where…? Oh! Nope. That's not it. 25 00:01:45,939 --> 00:01:49,609 I never imagined that I would be a single mom. 26 00:01:50,110 --> 00:01:54,364 My parents have been married for 57 years. I just wanted that to be me. 27 00:01:54,447 --> 00:01:59,327 Like, I wanted this white picket fence, perfect relationship, perfect life. 28 00:01:59,953 --> 00:02:01,037 Oh boy. 29 00:02:01,121 --> 00:02:04,958 But the end of my ex and I… I was devastated. 30 00:02:05,458 --> 00:02:08,919 So, I threw myself into service and all these other projects and things. 31 00:02:10,088 --> 00:02:11,047 Freakin' nerves. 32 00:02:11,131 --> 00:02:14,801 I feel like her tidiness is a little all over the place sometimes 33 00:02:14,884 --> 00:02:17,470 just because she's not at home as much, 34 00:02:17,554 --> 00:02:19,264 because she's out doing things, 35 00:02:19,347 --> 00:02:21,975 or she's in the kitchen, like, cooking for people, 36 00:02:22,058 --> 00:02:25,812 at the church, scheduling charity events or something like that. 37 00:02:25,895 --> 00:02:29,023 So, she never really has time to focus on herself. 38 00:02:29,107 --> 00:02:30,358 Check! Oh, here it is! 39 00:02:30,441 --> 00:02:34,821 Hopefully, Marie can help me at home and at the church. 40 00:02:34,904 --> 00:02:35,864 I need guidance. 41 00:02:35,947 --> 00:02:38,533 Lord Jesus, help me! 42 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,453 - Hi, Marie! - Hi! Nice to meet you. 43 00:02:42,537 --> 00:02:45,999 This is my son, Jonathan, my daughter, Blair. 44 00:02:46,082 --> 00:02:47,834 Hi. Nice to meet you. 45 00:02:47,917 --> 00:02:49,419 This is the main area. 46 00:02:49,502 --> 00:02:51,671 --Beautiful home. 47 00:02:52,130 --> 00:02:56,676 Moving from my house in Texas into an apartment, 48 00:02:56,759 --> 00:03:01,139 it was really hard to move into more of a confined space. 49 00:03:02,223 --> 00:03:04,851 It's a little sad that the flowers look a little dead here. 50 00:03:04,934 --> 00:03:07,854 'Cause when people give me flowers, I can't throw them out. 51 00:03:07,937 --> 00:03:09,814 Like, I feel like I gotta keep 'em. 52 00:03:10,481 --> 00:03:12,942 This is on purpose that you still have it up here? 53 00:03:13,026 --> 00:03:14,485 Yes. 54 00:03:14,569 --> 00:03:16,529 I think this one's alive, though. 55 00:03:16,613 --> 00:03:22,827 For people like Lorri, who tend to take care of others, 56 00:03:22,911 --> 00:03:26,414 I always ask what is joyful for them. 57 00:03:26,497 --> 00:03:30,627 By repeatedly asking yourself what gives you joy, 58 00:03:30,710 --> 00:03:35,590 you will be able to truly take care of yourself. 59 00:03:35,673 --> 00:03:38,343 So this is, like, our living room area. So… 60 00:03:39,552 --> 00:03:42,305 - Can we look at your bedroom? - Sure. Let's go. 61 00:03:43,014 --> 00:03:46,434 So, this is my room. 62 00:03:46,517 --> 00:03:47,352 Mm! 63 00:03:48,770 --> 00:03:51,189 My first impression, it looks pretty neat. 64 00:03:51,272 --> 00:03:55,109 Okay, until you maybe come this way. 65 00:03:55,193 --> 00:03:57,028 I'm gonna show you these cabinets. 66 00:03:57,111 --> 00:03:58,196 This! 67 00:03:58,279 --> 00:04:01,574 --Do you briefly know what's in there? 68 00:04:01,658 --> 00:04:04,911 Uh… I don't know what's back there, Marie! 69 00:04:04,994 --> 00:04:08,915 Let me show you this. This is my closet! 70 00:04:09,791 --> 00:04:13,711 - There's, like, shoes in here and… - There's shoes over here, too. 71 00:04:14,212 --> 00:04:15,797 I don't know what's in there. 72 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:20,009 -Your kids are revealing a lot about you. -Oh, they like this! They love this! 73 00:04:20,093 --> 00:04:22,303 I'm not gonna lie, I'm a little scared 74 00:04:22,387 --> 00:04:25,181 that when I come home for, like, winter break in college, 75 00:04:25,265 --> 00:04:26,933 stuff's just gonna be all over the place 76 00:04:27,016 --> 00:04:29,435 and I'll be like, "Girl, what are you doing?" 77 00:04:29,519 --> 00:04:33,231 Using this closet, is there something that you find as an issue? 78 00:04:33,314 --> 00:04:35,233 - Um… - Can I say something? 79 00:04:35,316 --> 00:04:37,944 -Okay. -I feel like not having sections. 80 00:04:38,027 --> 00:04:40,697 Like, you have pants over here and then pants over there 81 00:04:40,780 --> 00:04:42,865 and jackets over here and there. 82 00:04:42,949 --> 00:04:45,618 You need to find a way to put everything in one section 83 00:04:45,702 --> 00:04:47,578 because then you could go straight to it 84 00:04:47,662 --> 00:04:50,123 and know what you're getting. You know what I mean? 85 00:04:50,206 --> 00:04:53,001 --What he's saying is absolutely right. 86 00:04:53,084 --> 00:04:55,795 He sees all of the important tidying points here. 87 00:04:55,878 --> 00:04:59,173 --Well, why didn't he do it, then? 88 00:05:00,717 --> 00:05:03,970 You know? But I wish I could do something with this. 89 00:05:04,053 --> 00:05:05,263 It'd make me feel better. 90 00:05:05,346 --> 00:05:08,099 Sometimes I come in here and I just, like, wanna cry. 91 00:05:09,726 --> 00:05:12,812 So, through tidying, you're gonna have an opportunity 92 00:05:12,895 --> 00:05:17,608 to really look at each item and decide what you want in your life. 93 00:05:17,692 --> 00:05:20,069 Maybe there's arrangements or adjustments you can make. 94 00:05:20,153 --> 00:05:22,405 Okay. I'm willing to do that. 95 00:05:23,281 --> 00:05:24,907 I feel like a lot of the stuff in there, 96 00:05:24,991 --> 00:05:28,494 she says that she "needs" it, but I don't think she needs it anymore 97 00:05:28,578 --> 00:05:31,706 because it was for when she was freshman queen in her sorority, 98 00:05:31,789 --> 00:05:35,335 or when she became a teacher and then a principal, which she's not anymore. 99 00:05:35,418 --> 00:05:39,714 It's like, "What if I need it?" and not like, "I need it." You never know. 100 00:05:39,797 --> 00:05:42,383 We'll leave you guys to it, but have fun. 101 00:05:42,467 --> 00:05:43,551 -All right. -Bye. 102 00:05:44,052 --> 00:05:47,055 And I know stuff has some sentimental value, 103 00:05:47,555 --> 00:05:50,266 but sometimes you just have to let things go. 104 00:05:50,350 --> 00:05:52,185 Out here, we have… 105 00:05:54,812 --> 00:05:58,816 Jonathan. Jonathan. Jonathan. Jonathan. 106 00:05:58,900 --> 00:06:01,319 - Jonathan. 107 00:06:01,402 --> 00:06:05,198 I hear you, all about Jonathan, but it's a mystery, for some reason, 108 00:06:05,281 --> 00:06:07,867 people really notice other people's clutter… 109 00:06:07,950 --> 00:06:11,496 --…when your room is not tidy. 110 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,999 But let's set Jonathan's items first aside, 111 00:06:15,083 --> 00:06:17,960 and then we'll focus on you and then try to finish that. 112 00:06:18,044 --> 00:06:19,712 Yes. Let's do that. 113 00:06:20,630 --> 00:06:23,341 -It's easier to imagine in your own room. -All right. 114 00:06:24,217 --> 00:06:27,929 I'd like to hear about what kind of life you would like to lead. 115 00:06:28,012 --> 00:06:30,598 Okay, so, for… 116 00:06:32,433 --> 00:06:34,143 Let me see. Um… 117 00:06:35,061 --> 00:06:38,398 It's just so hard to think about me, and so… 118 00:06:39,232 --> 00:06:43,027 I'd spent a lot of time focused on my older son, Tyler, 119 00:06:43,111 --> 00:06:44,529 and now Jonathan and Blair. 120 00:06:44,612 --> 00:06:47,740 Volunteering for their school and for church and so… 121 00:06:48,658 --> 00:06:52,954 In my head, I can clearly imagine that you're gonna be letting things go 122 00:06:53,037 --> 00:06:55,164 and where everything just looks very tidy. 123 00:06:55,248 --> 00:06:58,209 - That'd be exciting. 124 00:06:58,292 --> 00:07:00,002 Just remember that the home itself 125 00:07:00,086 --> 00:07:03,005 and the different items in your home are cheering for you. 126 00:07:03,089 --> 00:07:07,009 They want you to be happy, and they are rooting for you to do that. 127 00:07:07,093 --> 00:07:07,927 Okay. 128 00:07:08,594 --> 00:07:10,012 The first step would be 129 00:07:10,096 --> 00:07:14,434 to put every clothing item that you have in one spot. 130 00:07:16,227 --> 00:07:18,855 So let's get everybody involved in helping. 131 00:07:18,938 --> 00:07:22,316 Yes. Jonathan! Blair! Come help! 132 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,027 We have to take every single thing. 133 00:07:25,111 --> 00:07:27,530 I'll take her jackets. 134 00:07:29,615 --> 00:07:31,742 Yes. Tidying is a festival. 135 00:07:31,826 --> 00:07:33,703 Yeah! It's a party! 136 00:07:33,786 --> 00:07:38,708 I can't even tell you the number of shirts that I have from school. 137 00:07:38,791 --> 00:07:40,877 -For you. You okay? -Thank you. 138 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,754 I was a high school principal. I loved it. 139 00:07:43,838 --> 00:07:48,509 Just excitement, being around the students, 140 00:07:48,593 --> 00:07:53,055 the activities, the parents, was the best thing in the world for me. 141 00:07:53,139 --> 00:07:55,391 To be able to give back to the community, 142 00:07:55,475 --> 00:07:59,020 to children, and just be a difference maker. 143 00:07:59,103 --> 00:08:03,524 I can't reach up there because I'm short. 144 00:08:03,608 --> 00:08:05,234 This is a perfect height to sit. 145 00:08:07,987 --> 00:08:12,158 You know, I did not sell my house in Texas when we first moved here 146 00:08:12,742 --> 00:08:14,994 because I thought I was gonna go back. 147 00:08:15,077 --> 00:08:16,621 And work and work and work! 148 00:08:16,704 --> 00:08:21,375 I have to keep every single shirt, because I'm gonna wear this to this event, 149 00:08:21,459 --> 00:08:24,045 and that event, a spirit day for this group. 150 00:08:24,128 --> 00:08:25,880 I have this that I'm gonna pull out. 151 00:08:25,963 --> 00:08:28,257 So, I wasn't-- I didn't wanna get rid of anything. 152 00:08:28,341 --> 00:08:29,342 Oh my gosh. 153 00:08:29,425 --> 00:08:31,928 - That fabric. - Oh my gosh. 154 00:08:32,929 --> 00:08:36,724 How do you feel looking at all your clothes in one place like this? 155 00:08:37,517 --> 00:08:40,394 It's a lot. It's overwhelming. I feel a little… 156 00:08:40,477 --> 00:08:43,481 I feel a little overwhelmed. 157 00:08:43,563 --> 00:08:48,986 So, I taught in the classroom a lot longer than most people do. 158 00:08:53,449 --> 00:08:58,996 But, unfortunately, I was diagnosed, uh, with cancer, 159 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,082 and I had to go on chemotherapy. 160 00:09:02,124 --> 00:09:05,962 I wanted to come back to work right away, but it was too dangerous 161 00:09:06,045 --> 00:09:08,172 with my immune system to be in the school, 162 00:09:08,839 --> 00:09:10,091 and I had to resign. 163 00:09:10,174 --> 00:09:14,387 It was really hard to leave my last school 164 00:09:14,971 --> 00:09:16,722 'cause I loved everybody so much. 165 00:09:16,806 --> 00:09:18,724 --Yeah. 166 00:09:18,808 --> 00:09:22,228 So, it's really important for everything to come out of the closet, 167 00:09:22,311 --> 00:09:25,481 and then you really see how much items you have. 168 00:09:25,565 --> 00:09:30,695 And then we finally get to start selecting items that really spark joy for you. 169 00:09:30,778 --> 00:09:34,282 I probably haven't seen some of these things in, like, two years. 170 00:09:34,365 --> 00:09:36,576 What I love about clothes is when you touch it, 171 00:09:36,659 --> 00:09:39,537 there's an immediate reaction or memory that sparks. 172 00:09:41,998 --> 00:09:46,877 So, I recommend that you start with items that you can lightheartedly decide. 173 00:09:46,961 --> 00:09:49,880 Something that you always wear and obviously know it sparks joy, 174 00:09:49,964 --> 00:09:52,091 or something that you obviously don't need. 175 00:09:52,174 --> 00:09:56,679 And then eventually you'll get to a point where you'll be able to face some things 176 00:09:56,762 --> 00:09:58,931 that have a little bit more sentiment to you. 177 00:09:59,015 --> 00:10:00,433 Oh, okay. Let me see. 178 00:10:00,516 --> 00:10:02,101 This dress. 179 00:10:02,685 --> 00:10:06,480 I wore it when I went on the last cruise with my family. 180 00:10:06,564 --> 00:10:10,192 It was 44 of us on a family cruise. These were good times. 181 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,155 So, if it sparks joy, keep it with confidence. 182 00:10:14,238 --> 00:10:15,990 Yes. Keep. 183 00:10:17,074 --> 00:10:18,451 These are pajamas. 184 00:10:18,534 --> 00:10:21,412 -As a pajama, does it spark joy for you? -Yes. 185 00:10:21,495 --> 00:10:22,788 Sparking joy pajamas. 186 00:10:24,665 --> 00:10:25,666 What do you think? 187 00:10:26,584 --> 00:10:28,127 -Okay. -Thank you. 188 00:10:28,210 --> 00:10:29,253 Thank you. 189 00:10:29,337 --> 00:10:30,880 Thank you so much. 190 00:10:30,963 --> 00:10:32,548 So, this dress… 191 00:10:33,674 --> 00:10:37,136 Like, I wore it when I was a principal. 192 00:10:37,219 --> 00:10:39,096 Like, when I was teaching. 193 00:10:39,180 --> 00:10:43,559 I mean, you know, in the schools and the kids, like… I remember wearing it. 194 00:10:45,478 --> 00:10:47,563 You know, it makes me sad, like… 195 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:48,773 - Mmm. 196 00:10:51,192 --> 00:10:54,654 You know, sometimes I… get that I'm sick and I can't go back to work. 197 00:10:54,737 --> 00:10:58,199 Like, I haven't worn this… Like, that was one of my favorite dresses 198 00:10:58,282 --> 00:11:01,911 when I was at my last high school, you know? Just, like… 199 00:11:01,994 --> 00:11:03,704 It brought joy to me, 200 00:11:03,788 --> 00:11:08,125 and I don't have that joy anymore, and I won't have it anymore 'cause… 201 00:11:08,709 --> 00:11:11,212 I just… you know, with my health condition, 202 00:11:11,295 --> 00:11:14,548 I just can't go back into the schools, and so… 203 00:11:15,383 --> 00:11:18,344 It just kind of gets overwhelming a little. 204 00:11:18,427 --> 00:11:20,680 I mean, not all sad. 205 00:11:20,763 --> 00:11:22,723 These were good times, but… 206 00:11:24,350 --> 00:11:29,563 When you serve as an educator, what we do, we do because we truly love it. 207 00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:32,316 We love to see the smiles on the children's faces. 208 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,277 We love to see them succeed. 209 00:11:35,361 --> 00:11:40,449 It defined me. And losing that, I felt like I lost a part of me. 210 00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:42,952 It's been hard to let go 211 00:11:43,035 --> 00:11:47,331 because it's saying that I moved on from this part of my life. 212 00:11:48,791 --> 00:11:52,253 Thank you for sharing all your memories that all these items carry. 213 00:11:52,336 --> 00:11:54,088 Thank you. Thank you. 214 00:11:58,259 --> 00:12:01,303 So, through tidying, it is an act of really 215 00:12:01,387 --> 00:12:05,850 facing those emotions as you pick up one of these one by one. 216 00:12:07,393 --> 00:12:09,770 So, I'll come back. So please enjoy tidying. 217 00:12:09,854 --> 00:12:12,523 -I'll see you at the church tomorrow. -Okay. 218 00:12:12,606 --> 00:12:15,860 -Thank you. -Thank you. Bye. 219 00:12:16,485 --> 00:12:19,155 What about this? What do you think about this? 220 00:12:26,370 --> 00:12:28,831 ♪ This little light of mine ♪ 221 00:12:29,957 --> 00:12:32,668 ♪ I'm gonna let it shine… ♪ 222 00:12:32,752 --> 00:12:35,588 I wake up with the mission of helping somebody else. 223 00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:40,801 My mother raised us to always give back and to serve others. 224 00:12:40,885 --> 00:12:44,555 To be able to be there for other people, it makes me happy. 225 00:12:44,638 --> 00:12:48,142 ♪ Let it shine ♪ 226 00:12:50,186 --> 00:12:52,271 Hello. 227 00:12:52,354 --> 00:12:55,566 I'm looking forward to helping the church tidy. 228 00:12:55,649 --> 00:13:00,529 Working with a group will be something new for me. 229 00:13:01,322 --> 00:13:03,991 We gotta make sure every bag has everything. 230 00:13:04,074 --> 00:13:06,368 We may need some gum or something 'cause… 231 00:13:06,452 --> 00:13:09,705 - It'll be fun. - I'm looking forward to it. 232 00:13:10,748 --> 00:13:13,918 Okay. So you know what? We'll take these and just make some extra. 233 00:13:14,001 --> 00:13:17,296 When we arrived in Burbank, we didn't know anybody. 234 00:13:17,379 --> 00:13:22,134 But when we attended South Hills Burbank, it was "come as you are." 235 00:13:22,218 --> 00:13:26,388 And now we have family. I've taken over the homeless group. 236 00:13:26,472 --> 00:13:28,974 "Keep calm and listen to Shawn Mendes." 237 00:13:30,434 --> 00:13:36,106 South Hills is a family of people that want to serve, that want to give back, 238 00:13:36,190 --> 00:13:37,691 and I-- and I love that. 239 00:13:37,775 --> 00:13:38,692 Ah… 240 00:13:39,693 --> 00:13:43,197 -Hi. -Hi, Marie! How are you? 241 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,575 And I'm excited for Marie to see the church. 242 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:50,830 This is our wonderful, creative pastor's wife, Karrie. 243 00:13:50,913 --> 00:13:52,498 Nice to meet you. 244 00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:54,333 And this is Pastor Dave. 245 00:13:54,416 --> 00:13:56,836 -Welcome. So nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 246 00:13:56,919 --> 00:13:59,463 We wanna show you something about our church, 247 00:13:59,547 --> 00:14:01,966 something that we really need help with. 248 00:14:02,049 --> 00:14:03,008 It's this way. 249 00:14:05,052 --> 00:14:06,804 -Be careful, Marie. -Okay. 250 00:14:11,392 --> 00:14:13,102 So it's storage. Right? 251 00:14:13,185 --> 00:14:14,687 Yes. It's storage, 252 00:14:14,770 --> 00:14:18,232 and it helps us to get all of our projects together 253 00:14:18,315 --> 00:14:20,484 and things like that. Oh, I hear something. 254 00:14:20,568 --> 00:14:23,112 It could be a creature. No. I'm kidding. 255 00:14:23,195 --> 00:14:27,741 This church is full of people like Lorri, who are so incredible to us. 256 00:14:27,825 --> 00:14:32,121 Lorri is Mama Lorri because that's what she becomes to everybody she meets, 257 00:14:32,204 --> 00:14:34,123 the way she cares for everyone. 258 00:14:34,623 --> 00:14:37,793 She has had some tough seasons in her life. 259 00:14:37,877 --> 00:14:40,170 And we see this side of her 260 00:14:40,254 --> 00:14:42,464 that she would rather be loving other people. 261 00:14:42,548 --> 00:14:46,302 Even sometimes more than accepting love for herself. 262 00:14:46,385 --> 00:14:49,972 She just wants to serve people and make their lives better. 263 00:14:50,055 --> 00:14:55,185 Toys for projects, and bleach and rugs, and just everything, 264 00:14:55,269 --> 00:14:57,271 'cause the church does so much. 265 00:14:58,939 --> 00:15:02,234 - Like this. - Different kinds of stuff. 266 00:15:02,318 --> 00:15:05,321 - Absolutely. - Right? We have a little dust. 267 00:15:11,452 --> 00:15:13,996 So each time, when I go in and tidy a place, 268 00:15:14,079 --> 00:15:16,081 I always greet the space first. 269 00:15:16,165 --> 00:15:18,042 And would you mind if I do that too? 270 00:15:18,125 --> 00:15:19,335 That'd be wonderful. 271 00:15:20,002 --> 00:15:22,671 For the space at the church, 272 00:15:22,755 --> 00:15:25,841 several people will be working together to tidy. 273 00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:31,347 Greeting the space brings them together before the work begins. 274 00:15:38,771 --> 00:15:40,564 Let's greet the space with everybody. 275 00:15:56,872 --> 00:15:59,083 --Let's start tidying! 276 00:16:01,877 --> 00:16:04,546 The key to tidying up a shared space 277 00:16:04,630 --> 00:16:07,132 is to create a clear storage system. 278 00:16:08,175 --> 00:16:12,805 Group like items together. 279 00:16:12,888 --> 00:16:16,058 Clearly label the overall category. 280 00:16:16,141 --> 00:16:20,646 By doing this, it is easy for everyone to know where to put things back, 281 00:16:20,729 --> 00:16:23,941 and it creates a joyful space for everyone who uses it. 282 00:16:28,946 --> 00:16:30,864 Oh goodness gracious. 283 00:16:32,574 --> 00:16:34,368 -We got it. -This cord cover. 284 00:16:34,451 --> 00:16:37,496 Uh-oh. Ah! 285 00:16:37,579 --> 00:16:39,623 -It's okay. I got it. -Thank you. 286 00:16:39,707 --> 00:16:42,209 Oh my goodness. What in the world? 287 00:16:42,292 --> 00:16:44,712 - Whoops! 288 00:16:44,795 --> 00:16:48,507 What we do is we pull things out with the different categories, 289 00:16:48,590 --> 00:16:51,218 and then we look at each item and decide 290 00:16:51,301 --> 00:16:53,721 if it's something we'd like to keep or let go. 291 00:16:54,847 --> 00:16:57,391 To determine, you need to touch it with your hands 292 00:16:57,474 --> 00:17:00,019 and if it sparks joy or not. 293 00:17:01,311 --> 00:17:03,355 No. This doesn't spark joy. 294 00:17:03,439 --> 00:17:04,732 -Thank you. -Arigato. 295 00:17:04,815 --> 00:17:06,233 That is a flag stand. 296 00:17:06,316 --> 00:17:09,361 -I think we should keep these. -So I'll put it back here. 297 00:17:09,444 --> 00:17:11,905 - Okay. 298 00:17:11,989 --> 00:17:14,950 Looking at the storage in here, I think I have an idea. 299 00:17:15,034 --> 00:17:17,578 So, I have a little surprise ready for you all. 300 00:17:19,121 --> 00:17:21,498 -Sounds good. -Ooh, exciting. 301 00:17:21,582 --> 00:17:25,461 Please continue tidying the church while Lorri tidies her home. 302 00:17:25,544 --> 00:17:27,796 --This is homework to you all. 303 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,798 --Thank you. 304 00:17:29,882 --> 00:17:31,925 Thank you very much. 305 00:17:32,009 --> 00:17:36,180 ♪ Take it all back, back, back But it's too late now, yeah ♪ 306 00:17:36,847 --> 00:17:40,976 ♪ You're everything, everything Everything to me ♪ 307 00:17:41,518 --> 00:17:42,603 ♪ I held you high… ♪ 308 00:17:42,686 --> 00:17:44,897 There's just so much stuff. 309 00:17:44,980 --> 00:17:48,525 Before Marie comes back, we got work to do! 310 00:17:48,609 --> 00:17:51,028 This is our keep, and then this is the-- 311 00:17:51,111 --> 00:17:51,945 Donating pile. 312 00:17:52,029 --> 00:17:54,448 We'll donate. I don't wanna give anything up to trash. 313 00:17:54,531 --> 00:17:58,994 - This has a tag on it, but they're like… - Brand new. Yes. 314 00:17:59,078 --> 00:18:02,498 -Why don't you wear these things? -I didn't know they were in the bottom-- 315 00:18:02,581 --> 00:18:04,875 This is brand new. Why didn't you wear it? 316 00:18:04,958 --> 00:18:06,919 Look what you're doing to my piles! 317 00:18:07,002 --> 00:18:08,754 She said we're supposed to have three piles. 318 00:18:08,837 --> 00:18:10,255 Okay. Let's see. 319 00:18:14,176 --> 00:18:16,970 These are my pajama bottoms! I've been looking for these-- 320 00:18:17,054 --> 00:18:18,722 Why are you looking at me like that? 321 00:18:18,806 --> 00:18:24,061 -You looked so excited about pajama pants! -Five pairs of those same pants! 322 00:18:24,144 --> 00:18:25,437 No. No, I don't. 323 00:18:25,521 --> 00:18:29,650 -What about this? I like this. -Yes. Simple, black. Keep, love it. 324 00:18:29,733 --> 00:18:34,404 You know, I always say that my greatest joy is being a mother. 325 00:18:34,488 --> 00:18:36,031 Weave check. 326 00:18:36,115 --> 00:18:37,533 - Weave check. 327 00:18:37,616 --> 00:18:41,328 I never imagined that I would be a single mom. 328 00:18:41,912 --> 00:18:45,499 And I would never trade Tyler and Jonathan 329 00:18:45,582 --> 00:18:50,462 and our life together, and our struggles, and our happiness, 330 00:18:50,546 --> 00:18:53,215 and now Blair, for anything in the world. 331 00:18:53,298 --> 00:18:54,466 Do you want this? 332 00:18:54,550 --> 00:18:58,595 -Yes. That's for my hair. This is like-- -I've never seen her wear that! 333 00:18:58,679 --> 00:19:01,598 -I've never seen you wear it. -Okay. All right. Thank you. 334 00:19:01,682 --> 00:19:02,683 Mama Lorri, 335 00:19:02,766 --> 00:19:05,644 she has always been very motherly with me. 336 00:19:05,727 --> 00:19:08,772 You can't even, like, comprehend what she's done for my life. 337 00:19:09,273 --> 00:19:10,816 Blair, I think you should wear that. 338 00:19:10,899 --> 00:19:12,025 -Mmm… -It's like a… 339 00:19:12,109 --> 00:19:15,445 Blair, why wouldn't you like it? It's like a cute pajama gown. 340 00:19:15,529 --> 00:19:17,948 I would not have been going to college 341 00:19:18,031 --> 00:19:22,494 or be applying or anything if it were not for a Mama Lorri. 342 00:19:22,578 --> 00:19:26,748 Look, Jonathan. To think that I would ever wear this. 343 00:19:26,832 --> 00:19:28,584 You have worn this. 344 00:19:28,667 --> 00:19:30,502 - Okay. Jon-- Really? 345 00:19:30,586 --> 00:19:33,881 After my family kicked me out because I came out as transgender, 346 00:19:33,964 --> 00:19:35,507 Mama Lorri found out… 347 00:19:35,591 --> 00:19:37,259 - What about this? 348 00:19:37,342 --> 00:19:40,679 She was really upset and she took me in. 349 00:19:40,762 --> 00:19:41,722 This is just cute. 350 00:19:41,805 --> 00:19:44,725 And just said that, like, I'm her daughter. 351 00:19:45,684 --> 00:19:48,812 She has to stay. So she can go in with my dresses. 352 00:19:48,896 --> 00:19:49,771 -Keep. -Keep this. 353 00:19:50,397 --> 00:19:53,775 That's one of the things that I'm not surprised about honestly, 354 00:19:53,859 --> 00:19:56,403 because she's always trying to be strong for other people, 355 00:19:56,486 --> 00:20:00,657 and she literally never has time for herself. 356 00:20:00,741 --> 00:20:02,034 Yes. I love that. 357 00:20:02,117 --> 00:20:03,702 Look at the sleeves on this. 358 00:20:03,785 --> 00:20:05,787 -Yes. -Look at them. It's very like… 359 00:20:05,871 --> 00:20:09,249 -On a date. Maybe brunch. -Yes. 360 00:20:09,333 --> 00:20:12,669 I want that to change. I want her to come first in her own head 361 00:20:12,753 --> 00:20:16,215 'cause you can't help someone if you're not taking care of yourself. 362 00:20:16,298 --> 00:20:18,884 -What? -Some of these have tags on them. 363 00:20:18,967 --> 00:20:19,801 I know. 364 00:20:27,017 --> 00:20:28,185 Hey, guys! 365 00:20:28,268 --> 00:20:31,355 - Hey, Lorri! How are you? - Hey. How are y'all? 366 00:20:31,438 --> 00:20:33,732 - Look at all this stuff. - Oh! Okay. Wait. 367 00:20:33,815 --> 00:20:35,442 This can't be in the closet. 368 00:20:35,525 --> 00:20:37,569 - Yeah. And more. - All of this and more. 369 00:20:37,653 --> 00:20:39,363 This is, like, phase one. 370 00:20:39,446 --> 00:20:44,868 I love how you followed what Marie said in terms of you categorized everything. 371 00:20:44,952 --> 00:20:48,580 Like, this looks like cleaning, this looks like Dave's tools. 372 00:20:48,664 --> 00:20:52,251 Aw, this is damaged. Okay. It doesn't bring me joy anymore. 373 00:20:52,334 --> 00:20:55,087 -Bye-bye. Thank you. -Thank you. You were nice. 374 00:20:55,170 --> 00:20:58,757 Seriously, there are every type of lightbulb that you can have. 375 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,385 Steve and Kayla, over here is donate. 376 00:21:01,468 --> 00:21:02,844 -How you doing? -Good. 377 00:21:02,928 --> 00:21:06,598 You know, it's just hard. I think about joy and stuff like that 378 00:21:06,682 --> 00:21:09,643 and letting go of the things in my past. 379 00:21:09,726 --> 00:21:11,353 What do I do? 'Cause I've… 380 00:21:12,187 --> 00:21:15,023 For my whole life, I was soccer mom and… 381 00:21:15,107 --> 00:21:16,858 -Yeah. -…head this and that. 382 00:21:16,942 --> 00:21:19,111 I was married for 14 years, 383 00:21:19,194 --> 00:21:22,739 and it was kind of a hard split between my ex and I, 384 00:21:22,823 --> 00:21:24,366 and so I was devastated. 385 00:21:24,449 --> 00:21:27,119 I mean, I just didn't want to date anybody else. 386 00:21:27,202 --> 00:21:29,705 I just didn't know how to kind of move on. 387 00:21:29,788 --> 00:21:32,833 So, I just focused everything on my children. 388 00:21:32,916 --> 00:21:36,837 Like, I volunteered more, even if I was sick. 389 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,172 And that was the way I was able to cope. 390 00:21:39,256 --> 00:21:45,846 How do I let go when Jonathan and Blair go away to college, you know? 391 00:21:45,929 --> 00:21:48,432 -What do I do? I struggle with that. -Yeah. 392 00:21:48,515 --> 00:21:51,476 So I think it's the challenge of letting go but also a joy, 393 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,688 'cause you get to see them become their own. 394 00:21:54,771 --> 00:21:57,566 Part of that is knowing, "I've done everything I can do 395 00:21:57,649 --> 00:22:00,485 to help prepare them for the next step in their life," 396 00:22:00,569 --> 00:22:04,906 and so I think, as a parent, you have to let your children experience life, 397 00:22:04,990 --> 00:22:10,203 and really allow yourself to sit in that place of being thankful… 398 00:22:10,287 --> 00:22:12,205 -Sorry. -…for what has happened. 399 00:22:12,289 --> 00:22:15,625 And it's all in preparation for what's next. 400 00:22:15,709 --> 00:22:19,338 And I think it's what is so cool with what Marie Kondo does, is it's… 401 00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:22,382 It's helping you to let go of things, 402 00:22:22,466 --> 00:22:28,263 and at the same time, you're letting go of pieces of your past that hold you back. 403 00:22:28,347 --> 00:22:32,351 You know, you've always had an identity in what you do. 404 00:22:32,434 --> 00:22:37,773 You're PTA Lorri, you're Choir Mom Lorri, you're Jonathan's Mom Lorri, you know, 405 00:22:37,856 --> 00:22:41,318 and I think this could be a really unique opportunity for you 406 00:22:42,402 --> 00:22:43,278 to become Lorri. 407 00:22:43,362 --> 00:22:46,323 Really become the best version of you. 408 00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:49,951 You are doing a-- a great job. 409 00:22:50,035 --> 00:22:52,162 --Oh! 410 00:22:52,245 --> 00:22:53,080 You're good. 411 00:23:00,379 --> 00:23:02,672 - You're getting ready for college. - Yeah. 412 00:23:02,756 --> 00:23:05,634 - Let's see what you have in here. - Okay. 413 00:23:05,717 --> 00:23:07,260 Oh, what's this? 414 00:23:07,344 --> 00:23:09,638 Oh! I used to love these. 415 00:23:09,721 --> 00:23:13,183 They're so cute. But I'm gonna say bye. You know why? 416 00:23:13,266 --> 00:23:16,686 -Because I haven't worn these-- -In so many years. 417 00:23:16,770 --> 00:23:17,729 Five years. 418 00:23:17,813 --> 00:23:22,234 With my children leaving, I'm realizing that if I want happiness, 419 00:23:22,317 --> 00:23:24,319 I have to find it within. 420 00:23:24,403 --> 00:23:29,282 And I can't look for external forces to bring me happiness. 421 00:23:29,366 --> 00:23:35,997 So, I need to live for myself to be able to start the next chapter in my life. 422 00:23:36,081 --> 00:23:40,627 I need to date so that maybe I can go on vacation or do something with somebody. 423 00:23:40,710 --> 00:23:43,755 So, I have to start living for Lorri. 424 00:23:44,339 --> 00:23:47,217 - Mama not getting rid of these. - Those are cute! 425 00:23:47,300 --> 00:23:50,387 This is when mama goes on a first date! 426 00:23:50,470 --> 00:23:54,057 -We're getting a mans with these shoes. -I'm wearing these. All right? 427 00:23:54,141 --> 00:23:56,309 - Right. - Let's do it. All right. 428 00:23:56,393 --> 00:24:00,105 It makes me happy to see her happy, because seeing her as a single mom 429 00:24:00,188 --> 00:24:03,358 struggling through chemotherapy and different types of cancer, 430 00:24:03,442 --> 00:24:06,486 it feels good to finally have done something for herself 431 00:24:06,570 --> 00:24:08,613 instead of stressing over me, Blair, or Tyler. 432 00:24:08,697 --> 00:24:12,367 Oh! I can still-- Yes. Oh yeah. I'm keeping these. 433 00:24:12,451 --> 00:24:15,203 And now I can see that she has her shoulders back more. 434 00:24:15,287 --> 00:24:16,663 She's already more confident. 435 00:24:16,746 --> 00:24:19,541 And I just feel like it's so much better for her already. 436 00:24:20,333 --> 00:24:23,211 Jewelry, toothpaste, lotion. 437 00:24:23,295 --> 00:24:27,007 This expired six months ago. 438 00:24:27,090 --> 00:24:30,469 Oh boy. I need to figure out what to do with all this stuff. 439 00:24:30,552 --> 00:24:32,429 --Hi! 440 00:24:32,512 --> 00:24:36,016 -How are you? -Good to see you both. How's it going? 441 00:24:36,099 --> 00:24:36,975 So good. 442 00:24:37,058 --> 00:24:37,893 Look! 443 00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:39,769 Wow. Great! 444 00:24:39,853 --> 00:24:42,522 This is all to go bye-bye! 445 00:24:42,606 --> 00:24:45,650 --I can tell that you worked really hard. 446 00:24:45,734 --> 00:24:46,568 Look. 447 00:24:47,027 --> 00:24:48,403 All my shoes! 448 00:24:49,070 --> 00:24:51,072 -Keeping? -Keeping. 449 00:24:51,156 --> 00:24:57,537 And I'm cracking up because, like, these I never even wore. 450 00:24:57,621 --> 00:24:59,414 -Mmm. -Because I forgot about them. 451 00:24:59,498 --> 00:25:01,875 And these, same thing. 452 00:25:01,958 --> 00:25:05,337 It's just… this process has been amazing. 453 00:25:05,420 --> 00:25:07,130 And I feel lighter. 454 00:25:07,214 --> 00:25:10,467 It's exactly what you said. I think going through the tidying process, 455 00:25:10,550 --> 00:25:13,386 you feel that naturally, so it's really coming to you. 456 00:25:13,470 --> 00:25:14,679 I love it. 457 00:25:16,097 --> 00:25:19,768 So today, I'd like to teach you how to put these back in an organized way. 458 00:25:19,851 --> 00:25:21,811 And then you're done with your clothes, correct? 459 00:25:21,895 --> 00:25:23,021 Yes. 460 00:25:23,104 --> 00:25:25,941 We would like to go see the closet. 461 00:25:26,983 --> 00:25:28,735 - Oh, wow. 462 00:25:28,818 --> 00:25:31,530 This looks exact-- So different from what it was. 463 00:25:32,239 --> 00:25:34,908 --You worked so hard. I can tell. 464 00:25:34,991 --> 00:25:37,494 - Yes! - This is great. 465 00:25:37,577 --> 00:25:39,955 So, like you said to categorize, so… 466 00:25:40,455 --> 00:25:45,794 pants, dresses, coats, and sweaters and jackets. 467 00:25:45,877 --> 00:25:47,963 --This is perfect. 468 00:25:49,756 --> 00:25:52,300 You pretty much got it since you have it in categories. 469 00:25:52,384 --> 00:25:54,761 This is great. But I have one tip to tell you. 470 00:25:54,844 --> 00:25:55,762 Okay. 471 00:25:55,845 --> 00:25:57,389 So, sweater's next to sweater 472 00:25:57,472 --> 00:26:00,684 because they have a similar feel and material to it. 473 00:26:00,767 --> 00:26:03,812 This should go here. 474 00:26:03,895 --> 00:26:05,897 --Exactly. 475 00:26:08,233 --> 00:26:11,069 So, pants. Try to keep similar-looking items… 476 00:26:11,152 --> 00:26:12,821 -Oh! -…similar color together. 477 00:26:12,904 --> 00:26:15,574 - So, it's sort of uniform in that way. - I love that. 478 00:26:15,657 --> 00:26:18,285 Like, in the similar-looking items, 479 00:26:18,368 --> 00:26:22,664 try to put the darker colors to your left and lighter colors to your right. 480 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:23,623 Oh! 481 00:26:23,707 --> 00:26:26,167 Then you don't have to think where to put things back. 482 00:26:26,251 --> 00:26:30,130 Dark to the left, light to the right. 483 00:26:30,213 --> 00:26:33,925 Imagine you're creating a line that goes up to the right. 484 00:26:34,009 --> 00:26:35,552 Ah, oh! 485 00:26:35,635 --> 00:26:36,928 Got it. Got it. 486 00:26:37,012 --> 00:26:39,764 --So, I call it Sparking Joy Line. 487 00:26:39,848 --> 00:26:41,182 Oh, I love that. 488 00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:44,728 In the past, when I'd go to get dressed and I can't find anything, 489 00:26:44,811 --> 00:26:48,898 I would be frustrated about the clutter and the mess. 490 00:26:48,982 --> 00:26:53,737 I feel like a weight has been lifted off of me. 491 00:26:55,405 --> 00:26:58,366 So, uh, the bottom area, we can use for your shoes. 492 00:27:00,493 --> 00:27:02,412 - I brought some special racks for you… 493 00:27:02,495 --> 00:27:07,751 -…so we can show you how to put it in. -Oh my goodness! I'm getting spoiled! 494 00:27:09,085 --> 00:27:12,505 It's the same idea with the shoes. We have similar boots. 495 00:27:12,589 --> 00:27:15,383 -They would also go together. -Oh. 496 00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:18,470 And then sandals can go with the other sandals. 497 00:27:18,553 --> 00:27:19,387 Okay. 498 00:27:20,347 --> 00:27:22,891 So you can, let's say, put the sneakers in the bottom, 499 00:27:22,974 --> 00:27:25,477 and then with the rack, there's height, so you can stack it. 500 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:26,394 I love it. 501 00:27:26,936 --> 00:27:28,980 They can also stack on top of each other, 502 00:27:29,064 --> 00:27:31,650 so if you need more, we can give you more space. 503 00:27:31,733 --> 00:27:33,318 Oh, wow. 504 00:27:33,401 --> 00:27:35,028 Let's move on to toiletries. 505 00:27:35,111 --> 00:27:39,324 We went through a lot of our, uh, toiletries, 506 00:27:39,407 --> 00:27:41,910 and now I don't know what to do with it. 507 00:27:41,993 --> 00:27:46,289 I think you did a really good job. Moving forward, organizing this is easy. 508 00:27:46,373 --> 00:27:47,332 Is it? 509 00:27:47,415 --> 00:27:50,627 - Doesn't seem easy to me. I'm so like… Ah! 510 00:27:51,836 --> 00:27:53,922 So, when we're organizing a drawer, 511 00:27:54,005 --> 00:27:57,384 it's very important that we keep smaller container boxes in there 512 00:27:57,467 --> 00:27:59,177 so that things don't get mixed up. 513 00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:00,553 So pretty. 514 00:28:02,931 --> 00:28:04,140 This is hair. 515 00:28:04,683 --> 00:28:07,102 Okay. Let's put that together too. 516 00:28:09,020 --> 00:28:14,359 I don't necessarily have an order of how to do these, but whenever you see a clump 517 00:28:14,442 --> 00:28:17,862 of different similar-looking items, you can all put them together. 518 00:28:17,946 --> 00:28:20,532 - Oh my goodness. I love that. 519 00:28:20,615 --> 00:28:23,159 Imagine how you would see these in the store 520 00:28:23,243 --> 00:28:25,203 and how it would be displayed. 521 00:28:25,286 --> 00:28:27,330 So, what about, like, the jewelry? 522 00:28:27,414 --> 00:28:29,082 Ooh, and let's take the tag off. 523 00:28:29,165 --> 00:28:30,625 Oh, okay. 524 00:28:30,709 --> 00:28:34,796 Because the tag is on, you may not necessarily reach for it and use it. 525 00:28:35,588 --> 00:28:36,756 Wow. 526 00:28:37,424 --> 00:28:42,095 The moment you take the tag off, it's like you've adopted this child into your home. 527 00:28:42,178 --> 00:28:44,597 -Now it belongs here. -Oh! Yay. 528 00:28:45,515 --> 00:28:52,439 So, yesterday, I was telling Pastor Dave that, um, it's been hard for me, 529 00:28:52,522 --> 00:28:55,567 because Jonathan and Blair are gonna leave for college, 530 00:28:55,650 --> 00:28:59,362 and then I'll be all by myself here. 531 00:28:59,446 --> 00:29:00,280 -Mm. -Like… 532 00:29:01,531 --> 00:29:07,579 It's always been so hard for me to do that because I felt like it was being selfish. 533 00:29:12,459 --> 00:29:15,754 Please remember that you select what sparks joy 534 00:29:15,837 --> 00:29:19,549 and that you live that life is what brings other people joy. 535 00:29:19,632 --> 00:29:22,635 Oh. You make me feel so good. 536 00:29:22,719 --> 00:29:25,013 Try moving on with the tidying too. 537 00:29:25,096 --> 00:29:28,767 I think it'll keep trying to remind you that you are important. 538 00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:29,976 Thank you. 539 00:29:35,190 --> 00:29:37,609 Let's do it. Let's break this thing in. 540 00:29:39,903 --> 00:29:42,238 - My goodness. - This is amazing. 541 00:29:42,322 --> 00:29:44,407 Hey, everybody! 542 00:29:44,491 --> 00:29:48,203 - Lorri, come check this out. 543 00:29:48,703 --> 00:29:51,831 -Oh my gosh. -It just gets everything off the floor. 544 00:29:51,915 --> 00:29:54,042 -Look at these. -It's amazing. 545 00:29:54,125 --> 00:29:55,543 - These are awesome. 546 00:29:55,627 --> 00:29:58,922 This is gonna make it so much easier to find things. 547 00:29:59,005 --> 00:30:01,424 - Volunteers can find it. - I seriously have the chills. 548 00:30:01,508 --> 00:30:02,425 So great. 549 00:30:02,509 --> 00:30:07,514 Marie showed me everything needs to be vertical 550 00:30:07,597 --> 00:30:09,098 so you can see what it is… 551 00:30:09,182 --> 00:30:10,767 -That's good. -…standing up. 552 00:30:10,850 --> 00:30:12,727 - Let's do it. - Well, let's load it up. 553 00:30:12,811 --> 00:30:13,728 All right. 554 00:30:15,438 --> 00:30:19,275 And then the other thing is, if something is higher, 555 00:30:19,359 --> 00:30:23,404 then it would go in the back so that you work your way. 556 00:30:23,488 --> 00:30:26,032 So, she said, you kind of like, do this. 557 00:30:26,115 --> 00:30:29,035 We take it out of the plastic. For example, this. 558 00:30:29,118 --> 00:30:29,994 Okay. 559 00:30:30,078 --> 00:30:32,288 So that then when you go to get it, 560 00:30:32,372 --> 00:30:35,583 you're not then ripping off the outside plastic. 561 00:30:35,667 --> 00:30:39,087 - I'll just kind of put this here. - It's beautiful. 562 00:30:42,423 --> 00:30:47,220 I create a rhythm by doing a routine at the beginning of the day. 563 00:30:47,303 --> 00:30:50,473 First, open windows and release negative energy. 564 00:30:57,897 --> 00:31:01,150 Use healing sounds to clear your mind. 565 00:31:02,151 --> 00:31:07,574 Burn incense to regulate energy of your home and yourself. 566 00:31:08,074 --> 00:31:10,410 This helps refresh my mind and body. 567 00:31:10,493 --> 00:31:12,328 I can start the day with joy. 568 00:31:18,751 --> 00:31:21,087 Boots here. 569 00:31:21,170 --> 00:31:25,550 Okay. All right. Oh, I love it. 570 00:31:27,635 --> 00:31:29,512 So easy to find. 571 00:31:30,388 --> 00:31:31,514 Let's see. 572 00:31:31,598 --> 00:31:33,433 -It feels fresh and cleaner. -It does. 573 00:31:33,516 --> 00:31:37,353 Like, I have this new sense of relief almost. 574 00:31:37,437 --> 00:31:38,271 Yeah. 575 00:31:39,230 --> 00:31:41,107 Hi. 576 00:31:41,190 --> 00:31:42,942 Wow. Hi! Good! How are you? 577 00:31:43,026 --> 00:31:45,904 -Hi, Marie! How are you? -Good. How are you? 578 00:31:45,987 --> 00:31:49,032 -You look beautiful! -Thank you! 579 00:31:49,866 --> 00:31:52,285 Oh my gosh. Big difference. 580 00:31:54,579 --> 00:31:57,874 Yes. And see, we put the new flowers, new joy. 581 00:31:57,957 --> 00:32:00,919 - We had a flower there that had died. - Aw. 582 00:32:03,922 --> 00:32:05,924 You're not gonna believe this. 583 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,720 All the shoes look great. They look neat in there. 584 00:32:11,262 --> 00:32:15,350 Now the shoe storage isn't only for shoes, but it's somewhere you can feel joy. 585 00:32:15,433 --> 00:32:17,435 I do. I feel joy here. 586 00:32:17,518 --> 00:32:21,481 Jonathan and I both, we have our shoes here. So, we're excited. 587 00:32:21,564 --> 00:32:22,941 I am so excited-- 588 00:32:25,568 --> 00:32:28,404 - It looks so different! - So different. 589 00:32:28,488 --> 00:32:32,784 And look. Just everything, how bright. I am so thankful to you. 590 00:32:32,867 --> 00:32:34,494 Look in here. 591 00:32:35,620 --> 00:32:38,790 -It's so stylish and pretty. -Thank you! 592 00:32:38,873 --> 00:32:40,458 Look. 593 00:32:43,378 --> 00:32:46,172 -This is exactly what I wanted you to do! -Yay! 594 00:32:46,255 --> 00:32:49,801 I followed what you said. The higher, the lower, the colors. 595 00:32:49,884 --> 00:32:53,262 These drawers. It's exactly like it would be displayed in the store. 596 00:32:53,346 --> 00:32:55,098 - Oh, thank you. 597 00:32:55,181 --> 00:32:57,809 - It's perfect. - Yay! 598 00:32:57,892 --> 00:32:59,644 - But look! - Wow! 599 00:33:02,313 --> 00:33:03,648 I couldn't believe my eyes. 600 00:33:03,731 --> 00:33:06,526 I thought I was looking at something completely different. 601 00:33:07,026 --> 00:33:10,863 All of the containers that you gave me 602 00:33:10,947 --> 00:33:14,242 and the shelves, just everything. It just made-- 603 00:33:14,325 --> 00:33:16,119 It makes such a difference. 604 00:33:16,202 --> 00:33:19,998 I go to put my pants on this morning, I could just grab them really fast. 605 00:33:23,042 --> 00:33:26,963 Just like the sweaters here, it's as if there's a rainbow came into your closet. 606 00:33:27,046 --> 00:33:29,465 Thank you! And look at my shoes. 607 00:33:29,549 --> 00:33:33,553 I followed the boots, and the sandals, and the sneakers. 608 00:33:33,636 --> 00:33:35,638 Now it looks so different. 609 00:33:35,722 --> 00:33:38,891 Does it match what you visualize as your ideal life here? 610 00:33:38,975 --> 00:33:43,938 Oh my gosh. If my life can be as put together as this, I'm ready. 611 00:33:44,022 --> 00:33:46,441 This has been a long time since I've focused on Lorri. 612 00:33:46,524 --> 00:33:48,067 I don't even know when. 613 00:33:48,151 --> 00:33:51,612 I feel like zing. Zen. Zen? 614 00:33:51,696 --> 00:33:56,200 I said zing. Maybe I am a little zingy, but I feel like zen. 615 00:33:56,284 --> 00:33:58,161 - This too. 616 00:33:58,244 --> 00:34:02,415 I actually have two of these in my home, and it's my favorite item, too. 617 00:34:02,498 --> 00:34:05,126 I've been avoiding certain things in my life, 618 00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:09,005 and the tidying process has really helped me to see 619 00:34:09,088 --> 00:34:11,007 that I had clutter 620 00:34:11,090 --> 00:34:15,469 because everything meant something from a past… 621 00:34:15,553 --> 00:34:20,475 either relationship, a past job, a past something, 622 00:34:21,059 --> 00:34:23,518 and that kept me in a holding pattern 623 00:34:23,603 --> 00:34:26,856 because I didn't wanna say goodbye to the life I knew. 624 00:34:27,356 --> 00:34:30,109 I've learned that you really shouldn't look back. 625 00:34:30,193 --> 00:34:32,904 You have to look forward to what's next. 626 00:34:34,447 --> 00:34:38,034 I feel a sense of just peace over us, 627 00:34:38,117 --> 00:34:40,911 and… and air and clean. 628 00:34:40,995 --> 00:34:42,621 -And relief. -Yeah. 629 00:34:42,705 --> 00:34:43,873 -Don't we? -Relaxed. 630 00:34:43,956 --> 00:34:45,958 Yeah. We feel relaxed and happy. 631 00:34:46,042 --> 00:34:51,297 We're so appreciative for you and for your method and for everything. 632 00:34:51,380 --> 00:34:54,801 We're gonna follow through. We're gonna keep it. And we're gonna what? 633 00:34:55,635 --> 00:34:57,178 - Ding! - Ding! 634 00:34:58,596 --> 00:35:00,389 Thank you, Marie! 635 00:35:00,473 --> 00:35:04,227 Thank you. I was really glad I was able to tidy with you all. 636 00:35:04,310 --> 00:35:08,314 All week long, we've been working in the church, so I'm so excited to see 637 00:35:08,397 --> 00:35:10,399 how you feel about our tidying. 638 00:35:10,483 --> 00:35:12,360 I'm so excited to see it. 639 00:35:12,443 --> 00:35:13,277 Let's go. 640 00:35:13,361 --> 00:35:14,195 All right. 641 00:35:14,278 --> 00:35:15,196 Bye. 642 00:35:15,279 --> 00:35:17,698 Lorri's house is filled with a lot of love 643 00:35:17,782 --> 00:35:21,285 and now, a positive atmosphere to match. 644 00:35:26,874 --> 00:35:30,962 I am still on, like, full of joy from my room. 645 00:35:31,045 --> 00:35:34,298 -I'm so happy to hear that. Nice. -And my house. 646 00:35:35,883 --> 00:35:38,469 Put this… Do you wanna start sorting that one? 647 00:35:38,553 --> 00:35:40,346 Okay. So-- 648 00:35:40,429 --> 00:35:42,098 -Hi! -Hello, hello. 649 00:35:42,181 --> 00:35:43,891 -How have you been? -Good. How're you? 650 00:35:43,975 --> 00:35:44,809 Welcome back. 651 00:35:44,892 --> 00:35:47,228 -So good to see you. -Good to see you. 652 00:35:47,311 --> 00:35:49,730 -You had a busy week? -Yes. So busy. 653 00:35:49,814 --> 00:35:50,982 Yeah. 654 00:35:51,065 --> 00:35:53,317 How's everything going with Lorri's place? 655 00:35:53,401 --> 00:35:56,279 - Amazing, beautiful, and perfect. - I can't wait. 656 00:35:56,362 --> 00:35:59,365 - Wanna know what else looks amazing? 657 00:35:59,448 --> 00:36:00,783 I'd love to see it. 658 00:36:00,867 --> 00:36:01,951 If you would like… 659 00:36:07,039 --> 00:36:08,416 Oh, wow! 660 00:36:10,668 --> 00:36:12,128 It's so big! 661 00:36:12,211 --> 00:36:14,964 You can see it all. Everything is visible. 662 00:36:15,047 --> 00:36:16,841 It's so wonderful. 663 00:36:19,385 --> 00:36:23,556 These items are all of the items that we use to serve our community. 664 00:36:23,639 --> 00:36:26,934 - And everything now has a home. 665 00:36:27,018 --> 00:36:30,605 - Wow. Now, there's a very specific system? - Absolutely. 666 00:36:30,688 --> 00:36:34,775 There's actually some open spaces that we can continue to accept donations, 667 00:36:34,859 --> 00:36:37,069 so we can get them to the right people. 668 00:36:37,153 --> 00:36:39,655 That's something that we've had to turn away sometimes, 669 00:36:39,739 --> 00:36:41,657 because we just haven't had the space. 670 00:36:41,741 --> 00:36:44,535 This makes us feel so much more confident. 671 00:36:44,619 --> 00:36:45,995 So, thank you so much. 672 00:36:46,078 --> 00:36:47,663 Lorri has a great year ahead. 673 00:36:47,747 --> 00:36:49,749 I'm ready for it. I'm excited for it. 674 00:36:49,832 --> 00:36:52,919 Marie, you've given a blessing to so many people. 675 00:36:53,002 --> 00:36:55,087 - It's just countless. 676 00:36:55,171 --> 00:36:57,965 It was actually my first time to really be able to 677 00:36:58,049 --> 00:37:00,051 spend time with a church community. 678 00:37:00,134 --> 00:37:05,640 So it was great to be able to see how you really affect the local community 679 00:37:05,723 --> 00:37:08,726 and how you try to reach out to them, and it's really inspiring. 680 00:37:08,809 --> 00:37:10,728 -That makes the heart so happy. -Yeah. 681 00:37:10,811 --> 00:37:14,565 Joy to me before was, "What can I do for somebody else?" 682 00:37:14,649 --> 00:37:16,692 And now, joy is going to be, 683 00:37:17,276 --> 00:37:20,279 "What can I do for Lorri?" Because life is so short. 684 00:37:20,363 --> 00:37:23,574 You have to live for today 'cause tomorrow's not promised. 685 00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:26,452 --This community isn't the end. 686 00:37:26,535 --> 00:37:30,873 There's more communities, and, hopefully, this will, you know, continue to spread. 687 00:37:30,957 --> 00:37:33,167 We will always be Team Marie. 688 00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:36,587 Team Marie! 689 00:37:37,338 --> 00:37:39,632 -Again, thank you! -Bye! Thank you! 690 00:37:39,715 --> 00:37:42,260 -Thank you! -We will never forget this. 691 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,146 I'm gonna go get ready. 692 00:37:54,230 --> 00:37:56,524 Promise, promise, promise. 693 00:37:56,607 --> 00:38:00,611 I've been tidying up since the age of five. 694 00:38:03,531 --> 00:38:06,951 Through this recent experience, I was able to learn 695 00:38:07,034 --> 00:38:11,372 how the idea of sparking joy can help connect people. 696 00:38:11,455 --> 00:38:13,374 It's hot out here, let me tell you. 697 00:38:13,457 --> 00:38:16,711 - Run! - Be careful, Satsuki! 698 00:38:16,794 --> 00:38:20,464 - I wanted to get in the shade! - I get it. 699 00:38:21,549 --> 00:38:24,677 Furthermore, I hope that even one more individual can discover 700 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,262 what sparks joy for them. 701 00:38:26,345 --> 00:38:31,267 And I hope to continue to broaden this and expand it throughout the world. 702 00:38:32,852 --> 00:38:35,521 - Not now, Papa.