1 00:00:19,854 --> 00:00:22,607 (dramatic music) 2 00:00:26,652 --> 00:00:27,737 - If this gonna be his fight. - Let's go. 3 00:00:27,737 --> 00:00:28,863 - [Miller] Your nigga don't wanna fight. 4 00:00:28,863 --> 00:00:30,073 Your nigga don't wanna fight. - That's that kumbaya shit. 5 00:00:30,073 --> 00:00:31,574 Now I tell you to apologize. 6 00:00:31,574 --> 00:00:33,076 - Your nigga don't wanna fight. 7 00:00:33,076 --> 00:00:34,202 - [Kali] We can be cool, 8 00:00:34,202 --> 00:00:36,120 but you need to apologize. 9 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,791 (ominous music and yelling) 10 00:00:41,334 --> 00:00:42,835 - Come on bruh, you popping it way too much. 11 00:00:42,835 --> 00:00:43,669 - [Miller] Let's do it. 12 00:00:43,669 --> 00:00:45,088 - I'm ready to start with the apology. 13 00:00:45,088 --> 00:00:48,299 I apologize for what happened to you, 14 00:00:48,299 --> 00:00:50,009 how it happened to you. 15 00:00:50,009 --> 00:00:51,719 I apologize to you. 16 00:00:51,719 --> 00:00:53,012 - Hi. - Hey. 17 00:00:53,012 --> 00:00:54,013 - Hey. 18 00:00:54,013 --> 00:00:55,598 - We on good vibes this time, right? 19 00:00:55,598 --> 00:00:57,266 - Of course. 20 00:00:57,266 --> 00:00:58,101 Good to see you. 21 00:00:58,101 --> 00:00:59,352 - We was all chilling, that's what I'm saying, 22 00:00:59,352 --> 00:01:00,603 like outta nowhere I came home 23 00:01:00,603 --> 00:01:02,355 and your momma wasn't chilling no more, 24 00:01:02,355 --> 00:01:03,648 and I'm like, "Oh." 25 00:01:03,648 --> 00:01:04,690 (Chrisean and Kali laughing) 26 00:01:04,690 --> 00:01:05,900 - [Kali] Like you don't wanna fuck with her no more 27 00:01:05,900 --> 00:01:07,610 or you're just like? - Nah, I'm just 28 00:01:07,610 --> 00:01:09,570 putting your mom in that trust factor like my moms, 29 00:01:09,570 --> 00:01:14,575 she kinda would use whatever you tell her against you. 30 00:01:14,700 --> 00:01:17,745 - I'm your ma, I would never do anything to hurt you 31 00:01:17,745 --> 00:01:18,955 or take from you. 32 00:01:18,955 --> 00:01:21,165 Whoever said something like that 33 00:01:21,165 --> 00:01:24,168 is what generated it to be worse than what it was, 34 00:01:24,168 --> 00:01:25,586 and I know you know who I'm talking about. 35 00:01:25,586 --> 00:01:27,171 - Yeah, we just basically hashed it out, 36 00:01:27,171 --> 00:01:28,589 if there was anything to hash out. 37 00:01:28,589 --> 00:01:30,800 - And talk about how crazy you are. 38 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:32,176 - Yeah, I get a little crazy. 39 00:01:32,176 --> 00:01:33,344 - When she opened up to you, 40 00:01:33,344 --> 00:01:35,513 you like to use what we tell you against us. 41 00:01:35,513 --> 00:01:37,306 You ain't gonna be throwing us under the bus no more. 42 00:01:37,306 --> 00:01:39,100 - I can't promise you that. 43 00:01:39,100 --> 00:01:40,309 - You guys talked it out, it's good. 44 00:01:40,309 --> 00:01:41,686 - Well, we didn't punch it out. 45 00:01:41,686 --> 00:01:43,146 - Thank you guys, 46 00:01:43,146 --> 00:01:44,230 love you guys. 47 00:01:44,230 --> 00:01:45,606 We'll do this again sometime. 48 00:01:45,606 --> 00:01:48,359 (dramatic music) 49 00:01:50,903 --> 00:01:51,863 (siren wailing) ♪ Bitch I'm really popping, ♪ 50 00:01:51,863 --> 00:01:53,614 ♪ I don't ever see the threat to me ♪ 51 00:01:53,614 --> 00:01:54,824 ♪ Blues inside my pocket ♪ 52 00:01:54,824 --> 00:01:56,617 ♪ While you bitches steady stressing me ♪ 53 00:01:56,617 --> 00:01:59,245 ♪ 12 sisters and brothers, they all depend on me ♪ 54 00:01:59,245 --> 00:02:02,456 ♪ I watch my sister turn quickly into my enemy ♪ 55 00:02:02,456 --> 00:02:06,711 ♪ All a sudden your friends turn to your frenemies ♪ 56 00:02:06,711 --> 00:02:09,130 ♪ Pink is a color, blue is another ♪ 57 00:02:09,130 --> 00:02:12,175 ♪ I'm a Baltimore lover, bad motherfucker ♪ 58 00:02:12,175 --> 00:02:16,470 ♪ I don't take no shit from bald-head bitches like you ♪ 59 00:02:16,470 --> 00:02:18,347 (Chrisean laughing) 60 00:02:18,347 --> 00:02:21,642 ♪ It's a vibe all the time ♪ 61 00:02:21,642 --> 00:02:24,645 (melancholic music) 62 00:02:30,318 --> 00:02:32,820 - I'm finna go get my face in check, you got me. 63 00:02:34,488 --> 00:02:39,452 Where that bottle be at? 64 00:02:47,418 --> 00:02:48,252 Yikes. 65 00:02:50,546 --> 00:02:55,551 Babe I don't know where to start. 66 00:02:57,678 --> 00:03:00,598 I don't know where to start at all. 67 00:03:08,439 --> 00:03:11,108 - When she finds a shirt. - What outfit you're changing, 68 00:03:11,108 --> 00:03:14,403 we're solidified with just that dress? 69 00:03:14,403 --> 00:03:16,072 We solidified before I pack this stuff up? 70 00:03:16,072 --> 00:03:18,491 We solidified on this one? - Yes. 71 00:03:18,491 --> 00:03:19,742 - All right I'm packing this up, 72 00:03:19,742 --> 00:03:22,036 I'm gonna rush myself. - I do. 73 00:03:22,036 --> 00:03:24,538 - [Elle] All right, you don't pay me (voice fades) 74 00:03:24,538 --> 00:03:27,124 (gentle music) 75 00:03:35,758 --> 00:03:36,592 - What? 76 00:03:38,010 --> 00:03:39,303 (gentle music) 77 00:03:39,303 --> 00:03:41,138 - You take too long. - You want me to do it? 78 00:03:42,807 --> 00:03:44,433 Just what are you wearing babe? 79 00:03:45,851 --> 00:03:48,312 - I know, you got a lot to do over here. 80 00:03:48,312 --> 00:03:50,523 - So you don't need to be in here. 81 00:03:50,523 --> 00:03:52,942 - I'm actually getting hungry 82 00:03:54,151 --> 00:03:56,362 - Please don't get hangry. - Please don't take forever. 83 00:03:56,362 --> 00:03:58,531 - Okay, don't get hangry. 84 00:03:58,531 --> 00:04:01,117 (gentle music) 85 00:04:09,500 --> 00:04:12,920 (gentle music continues) 86 00:04:18,259 --> 00:04:19,844 - Babe. - Yes. 87 00:04:19,844 --> 00:04:21,345 - Are you excited? 88 00:04:21,345 --> 00:04:22,680 - Yeah, I guess. 89 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,016 He just walked out the door? 90 00:04:32,732 --> 00:04:35,735 (suspenseful music) 91 00:04:43,576 --> 00:04:47,413 (suspenseful music continues) 92 00:04:56,881 --> 00:04:59,467 Hey that's a little bit better. 93 00:05:01,093 --> 00:05:03,095 What, you sit right there? 94 00:05:03,095 --> 00:05:04,764 - Why you ain't gonna sit with me? 95 00:05:04,764 --> 00:05:06,265 You wanna sit with me? 96 00:05:06,265 --> 00:05:08,351 - I feel like on a date you usually sit like. 97 00:05:08,351 --> 00:05:11,145 - Babe we on a date nigga. 98 00:05:11,145 --> 00:05:12,438 Are we not feeling each other? 99 00:05:12,438 --> 00:05:15,066 - That's the sign. - We not feeling each other? 100 00:05:15,066 --> 00:05:16,192 - You thought I was feeling you? 101 00:05:16,192 --> 00:05:17,943 - I'm asking you. 102 00:05:17,943 --> 00:05:19,528 - Yeah I'm always feeling you baby. 103 00:05:19,528 --> 00:05:20,780 Give me a kiss. 104 00:05:22,948 --> 00:05:23,866 - Babe I'm. 105 00:05:25,368 --> 00:05:27,078 - Little thing, little yak in there. 106 00:05:27,078 --> 00:05:28,746 - You how you are. 107 00:05:28,746 --> 00:05:30,081 - With a little. 108 00:05:33,292 --> 00:05:35,586 - I'm already fucked up. - A glass of wine. 109 00:05:35,586 --> 00:05:36,420 - Oh baby, you know I'm drunk, 110 00:05:36,420 --> 00:05:38,422 you know you gonna get the tears. 111 00:05:40,674 --> 00:05:42,635 Hey. 112 00:05:42,635 --> 00:05:43,886 Cheers. - Yay. 113 00:05:43,886 --> 00:05:46,263 - What you mean yay? 114 00:05:46,263 --> 00:05:47,765 Talking about hey. 115 00:05:48,641 --> 00:05:49,558 - Drink, it's some real nice drink. 116 00:05:49,558 --> 00:05:51,227 - Oh you got my chaser. 117 00:05:52,686 --> 00:05:53,687 Babe put our chaser. 118 00:05:59,068 --> 00:06:00,319 - So how did you think 119 00:06:01,487 --> 00:06:03,781 the meeting with the evil twins went? 120 00:06:03,781 --> 00:06:04,907 My mom and my sister. 121 00:06:06,117 --> 00:06:08,577 - I just feel like everybody's hurt, that's it. 122 00:06:08,577 --> 00:06:11,914 I don't really know what there is to talk about. 123 00:06:11,914 --> 00:06:13,833 I really don't want to talk to anybody 124 00:06:14,959 --> 00:06:17,336 but I guess I have to. 125 00:06:17,336 --> 00:06:18,421 - I mean it must have went well, 126 00:06:18,421 --> 00:06:19,463 you follow 'em? 127 00:06:22,174 --> 00:06:26,137 (background chattering) 128 00:06:26,137 --> 00:06:29,056 - I follow a lot of people. 129 00:06:29,056 --> 00:06:30,933 I don't even care about following, 130 00:06:30,933 --> 00:06:32,685 I just followed them, 131 00:06:32,685 --> 00:06:34,812 that don't mean shit. 132 00:06:34,812 --> 00:06:36,355 - It means a lot in this world, 133 00:06:36,355 --> 00:06:37,898 I don't know if you were aware. 134 00:06:39,024 --> 00:06:40,693 But you know, following people usually means 135 00:06:40,693 --> 00:06:41,527 you want to keep up with 'em, 136 00:06:41,527 --> 00:06:43,737 you wanna see what they're doing. 137 00:06:44,655 --> 00:06:46,782 - That mean I should unfollow everybody right now, 138 00:06:46,782 --> 00:06:49,702 you right. - So why'd you follow them? 139 00:06:49,702 --> 00:06:51,620 - Follow who? - My mom and my sister. 140 00:06:51,620 --> 00:06:53,539 - I don't really care about people that much. 141 00:06:53,539 --> 00:06:54,373 - No but I'm saying- 142 00:06:54,373 --> 00:06:55,207 - I like you, that's it. 143 00:06:55,207 --> 00:06:56,459 - Not but I'm saying- - I don't really like people. 144 00:06:56,459 --> 00:06:57,793 - You're playing with their feelings 145 00:06:57,793 --> 00:06:59,503 when you do that type of stuff. 146 00:06:59,503 --> 00:07:01,755 - That don't got nothing to do with me and you. 147 00:07:01,755 --> 00:07:02,882 - Alright. 148 00:07:02,882 --> 00:07:06,093 But you're playing with they feelings based off me and you. 149 00:07:06,093 --> 00:07:06,927 - Oops. 150 00:07:08,429 --> 00:07:11,515 - I think that everyone blames me for everything 151 00:07:11,515 --> 00:07:13,392 so what can I do? 152 00:07:13,392 --> 00:07:14,351 - No baby, you're just very- 153 00:07:14,351 --> 00:07:16,645 - I'm the only person with a penis in the situation so. 154 00:07:16,645 --> 00:07:18,147 - No, you just very nonchalant. 155 00:07:18,147 --> 00:07:19,690 - You know how society is these days, 156 00:07:19,690 --> 00:07:21,150 blame the dick. - No. 157 00:07:21,150 --> 00:07:22,401 If you're like the king, 158 00:07:22,401 --> 00:07:24,820 and if you're like the head of everything, yeah. 159 00:07:24,820 --> 00:07:28,199 - I'm that fault if it doesn't work out. 160 00:07:28,199 --> 00:07:29,867 - No. - Yeah. 161 00:07:29,867 --> 00:07:30,701 - More like- 162 00:07:30,701 --> 00:07:32,203 - If the president, if something happens in the country- 163 00:07:32,203 --> 00:07:34,830 - More like I want you to show me that you care 164 00:07:34,830 --> 00:07:36,499 and you very nonchalant. 165 00:07:36,499 --> 00:07:37,708 Your mom, your sister, 166 00:07:37,708 --> 00:07:40,127 they like acting like that 'cause you're nonchalant. 167 00:07:40,127 --> 00:07:41,420 You care. - Acting like what? 168 00:07:41,420 --> 00:07:42,838 - But you wont say you care. 169 00:07:43,797 --> 00:07:45,633 - I start to lose care for, you know, 170 00:07:47,259 --> 00:07:51,263 people who don't like see the wrong that they do. 171 00:07:51,263 --> 00:07:53,015 They never like reflected. - Yeah but that- 172 00:07:53,015 --> 00:07:53,849 - [Blueface] They never reflected. 173 00:07:53,849 --> 00:07:56,810 - But when we went to their house or whatever they- 174 00:07:56,810 --> 00:07:57,895 - They weren't reflective at all. 175 00:07:57,895 --> 00:07:59,688 They still wasn't like, "I was wrong." 176 00:07:59,688 --> 00:08:01,273 They're like, "If she do it again, 177 00:08:01,273 --> 00:08:03,442 "then I need you to do something different." 178 00:08:03,442 --> 00:08:04,485 Like what the hell? 179 00:08:04,485 --> 00:08:06,111 Why would she do it again? 180 00:08:06,111 --> 00:08:07,071 - But listen, think about it, 181 00:08:07,071 --> 00:08:08,155 you just gotta accept them for who they are. 182 00:08:08,155 --> 00:08:10,616 - You don't gotta accept nobody for nothing 183 00:08:10,616 --> 00:08:11,742 that you don't want- 184 00:08:11,742 --> 00:08:15,454 - And just leave them out the way, you feel me? 185 00:08:16,622 --> 00:08:18,082 - You follow them socially, 186 00:08:18,082 --> 00:08:19,750 so you want to see them every day, right. 187 00:08:21,418 --> 00:08:23,295 Why is that hard for you to admit? 188 00:08:23,295 --> 00:08:26,632 - I'm gonna unfollow everybody right now, today. 189 00:08:26,632 --> 00:08:27,675 - Why? 190 00:08:27,675 --> 00:08:30,010 - 'Cause, I was just doing shit. 191 00:08:30,010 --> 00:08:31,470 - That's weird. 192 00:08:31,470 --> 00:08:33,055 - How? 193 00:08:33,055 --> 00:08:34,390 This shit nasty. 194 00:08:36,392 --> 00:08:38,143 - 'Cause people take that personal. 195 00:08:41,355 --> 00:08:44,275 - So just wait, what you mean? 196 00:08:44,275 --> 00:08:45,317 - When you unfollow them, 197 00:08:45,317 --> 00:08:48,320 they take it as like a disregard of friendship. 198 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,197 Like, "Oh, we're not friends anymore." 199 00:08:51,115 --> 00:08:52,741 - I was never friends. 200 00:08:52,741 --> 00:08:53,701 Babe, what are you- 201 00:08:53,701 --> 00:08:54,994 - I'm just telling you it's rude 202 00:08:54,994 --> 00:08:57,121 if you just randomly one day wake up like 203 00:08:57,121 --> 00:08:58,080 I'm unfollowing everybody, 204 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,082 they're gonna be like, yeah. 205 00:09:00,082 --> 00:09:01,125 - And then two, 206 00:09:01,125 --> 00:09:02,918 we was going through something so I was being petty. 207 00:09:02,918 --> 00:09:05,129 - So you followed them to be petty for me? 208 00:09:05,129 --> 00:09:06,297 What you thought- 209 00:09:06,297 --> 00:09:09,049 - Nah, I just followed everybody just to- 210 00:09:09,049 --> 00:09:10,301 - Because we had a good meeting, 211 00:09:10,301 --> 00:09:11,135 y'all had a good meeting, 212 00:09:11,135 --> 00:09:11,969 y'all talked it out. 213 00:09:11,969 --> 00:09:14,722 Y'all kumbaya, y'all. - That's not why. 214 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:17,099 - Oh okay. 215 00:09:17,099 --> 00:09:19,977 - I was drunk as shit at the studio just being petty, 216 00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:22,563 like drunk as fuck following everybody. 217 00:09:22,563 --> 00:09:23,564 Your baby mama, 218 00:09:23,564 --> 00:09:25,107 the bitches you used to fuck. 219 00:09:25,107 --> 00:09:27,985 - Yeah, that's strange. - I'm strange. 220 00:09:28,944 --> 00:09:32,031 I don't really think- - Can't disagree with that. 221 00:09:32,031 --> 00:09:34,825 - I just did it 'cause I don't give a fuck. 222 00:09:34,825 --> 00:09:37,119 Fuck them, sorry. 223 00:09:37,119 --> 00:09:39,747 Fuck them. - Sheesh, that's harsh. 224 00:09:39,747 --> 00:09:40,706 My mom, my sister and you, 225 00:09:40,706 --> 00:09:43,125 are y'all cool or not? 226 00:09:43,125 --> 00:09:44,418 - Babe, I'm cool with whatever, 227 00:09:44,418 --> 00:09:45,252 What are you talking about? 228 00:09:45,252 --> 00:09:46,962 We together. - All right. 229 00:09:46,962 --> 00:09:48,714 - What do you mean? - That's all I was asking. 230 00:09:48,714 --> 00:09:49,548 - I came with you, 231 00:09:49,548 --> 00:09:50,466 are you cool with them? 232 00:09:51,383 --> 00:09:53,677 - I'll never be cool with them. 233 00:09:53,677 --> 00:09:55,346 I guess, I don't know. 234 00:09:55,346 --> 00:09:56,513 I mean I love them, 235 00:09:56,513 --> 00:09:58,223 you know I have love for them 236 00:09:58,223 --> 00:10:00,809 but I just, at this point in my life, 237 00:10:00,809 --> 00:10:04,563 I get to choose the people who I have close to me. 238 00:10:06,982 --> 00:10:08,442 Damn. 239 00:10:08,442 --> 00:10:11,028 Slow down baby, slow down a little bit all right. 240 00:10:11,028 --> 00:10:11,862 - Why? 241 00:10:14,198 --> 00:10:15,032 I wanna have a fun tonight. 242 00:10:15,032 --> 00:10:16,408 Are you gonna fuck me? 243 00:10:17,284 --> 00:10:18,202 - We gone have a good time. 244 00:10:18,202 --> 00:10:19,536 - Are you gonna fuck me? 245 00:10:19,536 --> 00:10:21,497 You be like, we beefing, 246 00:10:22,331 --> 00:10:24,917 like you're the type of nigga that's not horny. 247 00:10:24,917 --> 00:10:27,503 Like we beefing so I'm not horny, 248 00:10:27,503 --> 00:10:30,089 like we beefing I'm horny like. 249 00:10:31,924 --> 00:10:33,425 - I guess. 250 00:10:33,425 --> 00:10:35,010 - I be wanting to fuck, like what? 251 00:10:35,010 --> 00:10:35,844 - I feel you. 252 00:10:35,844 --> 00:10:37,304 - We beefing, you don't wanna fuck? 253 00:10:37,304 --> 00:10:40,140 We could be beefing, I still wanna fuck. 254 00:10:42,351 --> 00:10:43,936 - That feels so good. - That's lit. 255 00:10:43,936 --> 00:10:45,187 - It feels so good as hell. 256 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,982 - You sound like a fucking G. 257 00:10:50,359 --> 00:10:52,152 - Here you go with that TikTok shit. 258 00:10:53,696 --> 00:10:54,530 - Nah, I feel you though, 259 00:10:54,530 --> 00:10:55,364 I mean I be- - What? 260 00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:56,198 - It's not that I don't want to fuck, 261 00:10:56,198 --> 00:10:58,826 I just don't be horny like, you know, 262 00:10:58,826 --> 00:10:59,993 I gotta be horny to fuck, I can't just- 263 00:10:59,993 --> 00:11:00,828 - I'm horny. 264 00:11:00,828 --> 00:11:02,746 - No I'm saying I don't be horny. 265 00:11:02,746 --> 00:11:04,373 If I'm not horny, you can't say I'm- 266 00:11:04,373 --> 00:11:05,374 - Nah it's like 267 00:11:06,792 --> 00:11:10,379 you horny, you just what you be like. 268 00:11:10,379 --> 00:11:13,173 So me- 269 00:11:13,173 --> 00:11:14,299 - I feel like that's how anybody would act 270 00:11:14,299 --> 00:11:15,175 with somebody that they're not- 271 00:11:15,175 --> 00:11:16,009 - What? 272 00:11:16,885 --> 00:11:18,345 - They're not interested in at the time. 273 00:11:18,345 --> 00:11:19,513 - Why you not interested in me right now 274 00:11:19,513 --> 00:11:21,557 because what we beefing about? 275 00:11:21,557 --> 00:11:22,641 - I'm interested in you right now, 276 00:11:22,641 --> 00:11:23,517 that's what I'm saying, 277 00:11:23,517 --> 00:11:24,476 I'm trying to tell you like, 278 00:11:24,476 --> 00:11:25,978 if I'm mad at you, 279 00:11:25,978 --> 00:11:27,688 not even mad at you if I'm not like. 280 00:11:27,688 --> 00:11:28,897 - What? 281 00:11:28,897 --> 00:11:32,067 - Talking about when we in our problems and we beefing, 282 00:11:32,067 --> 00:11:35,362 you do stuff to make me not feel you. 283 00:11:35,362 --> 00:11:37,197 Yeah, you a little evil motherfucker, 284 00:11:37,197 --> 00:11:39,658 you just do some wild shit 285 00:11:39,658 --> 00:11:42,244 and then I be like, "What the fuck?" 286 00:11:42,244 --> 00:11:44,288 How I'm supposed to be feeling you like? 287 00:11:44,288 --> 00:11:47,291 - Baby you do do stuff to me. - No I don't. 288 00:11:48,625 --> 00:11:50,127 - Then why you do it? 289 00:11:50,127 --> 00:11:52,045 - Because I'm fried. - For what? 290 00:11:53,589 --> 00:11:55,340 - 'Cause that's how I've been my whole life. 291 00:11:55,340 --> 00:11:57,885 - Stop being fried. - Fix me. 292 00:11:57,885 --> 00:11:59,470 - I don't want to fix you daddy. 293 00:11:59,470 --> 00:12:00,304 Stop being fried. 294 00:12:00,304 --> 00:12:01,513 - You gotta fix me, I don't know. 295 00:12:01,513 --> 00:12:03,849 - So what do you want to do? 296 00:12:05,017 --> 00:12:07,728 - I don't know, what do you think about therapy? 297 00:12:07,728 --> 00:12:08,979 Do you think that'll fix me 298 00:12:08,979 --> 00:12:10,355 or help you understand me, 299 00:12:10,355 --> 00:12:11,607 or me understand you? 300 00:12:11,607 --> 00:12:15,736 (background chattering) 301 00:12:15,736 --> 00:12:18,030 - People like you don't need therapy. 302 00:12:19,573 --> 00:12:20,407 You know what you- 303 00:12:20,407 --> 00:12:21,950 What about people like you? - You know what you want. 304 00:12:21,950 --> 00:12:24,453 - What about people like you? - I'm like you. 305 00:12:24,453 --> 00:12:25,662 - You know what you want? 306 00:12:25,662 --> 00:12:27,664 - For real. - What you want girl? 307 00:12:27,664 --> 00:12:28,499 - You. 308 00:12:29,833 --> 00:12:31,210 I do daddy, hell. 309 00:12:34,963 --> 00:12:38,050 But nigga, you so like that nigga, 310 00:12:38,050 --> 00:12:38,884 you don't need none of that. 311 00:12:38,884 --> 00:12:41,428 You just need to like get with the program 312 00:12:41,428 --> 00:12:42,971 or like let's do it, 313 00:12:42,971 --> 00:12:44,139 like what we doing? 314 00:12:45,182 --> 00:12:46,099 That's it. 315 00:12:46,099 --> 00:12:48,268 We don't need no mother fucking therapy. 316 00:12:48,268 --> 00:12:50,103 I love you but- 317 00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:50,938 - I'm just curious to see what- 318 00:12:50,938 --> 00:12:52,439 - If you want certain things, 319 00:12:52,439 --> 00:12:54,149 like different things, tell me. 320 00:12:56,527 --> 00:12:57,361 I'm drunk. 321 00:12:57,361 --> 00:12:59,696 - You're drunk. - Yeah. 322 00:12:59,696 --> 00:13:01,532 - I'm sorry, I'm just emotional. 323 00:13:02,366 --> 00:13:03,408 - Why are you crying? 324 00:13:04,868 --> 00:13:06,411 - I love you. - Telling the real reason. 325 00:13:06,411 --> 00:13:07,287 - I love you. 326 00:13:08,997 --> 00:13:10,499 - Just brings tears to your eyes. 327 00:13:10,499 --> 00:13:11,333 - Yeah. 328 00:13:12,626 --> 00:13:14,419 You're like a dream. 329 00:13:14,419 --> 00:13:17,339 You like a dream baby, like whatever. 330 00:13:17,339 --> 00:13:18,590 - You living your dreams? 331 00:13:20,467 --> 00:13:21,301 - Yeah. 332 00:13:22,219 --> 00:13:23,053 - That's good. 333 00:13:24,847 --> 00:13:27,307 I'm happy to be a part of the dream. 334 00:13:29,768 --> 00:13:30,602 - I guess. 335 00:13:32,145 --> 00:13:34,398 - You not the best communicator. 336 00:13:34,398 --> 00:13:35,399 - Yeah not like talking. - Not the best. 337 00:13:35,399 --> 00:13:36,733 Yeah, you're not the best at. 338 00:13:36,733 --> 00:13:38,777 - I don't like talking. - Explaining yourself. 339 00:13:38,777 --> 00:13:40,153 - I don't want to explain myself. 340 00:13:40,153 --> 00:13:43,490 - So maybe a therapist will make you more comfortable 341 00:13:43,490 --> 00:13:46,368 and say the right things that maybe I don't say 342 00:13:46,368 --> 00:13:47,870 to get you to communicate. 343 00:13:47,870 --> 00:13:49,329 - There's no right things to say. 344 00:13:49,329 --> 00:13:50,622 - Because I like to communicate, 345 00:13:50,622 --> 00:13:52,332 I like to be like- 346 00:13:52,332 --> 00:13:55,252 - What am I communicating, waste my breath for? 347 00:13:55,252 --> 00:13:57,671 I already knew who you are and what's going on 348 00:13:57,671 --> 00:13:59,298 and how it's going. 349 00:13:59,298 --> 00:14:00,465 It's no point in opening up, 350 00:14:00,465 --> 00:14:03,886 it's more like it's a painful situation. 351 00:14:03,886 --> 00:14:05,762 We're not in a real relationship 352 00:14:05,762 --> 00:14:07,472 where it's something that's like whatever, 353 00:14:07,472 --> 00:14:09,558 you want your cake and eat it too 354 00:14:09,558 --> 00:14:11,602 and I have to be like these bitches with a yes man, 355 00:14:11,602 --> 00:14:13,395 I don't want to be that with a yes man. 356 00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:15,981 Like I don't want to be that person that make you feel bad 357 00:14:15,981 --> 00:14:17,691 for not doing what you're supposed to be doing. 358 00:14:17,691 --> 00:14:20,694 Like I really want to be that person 359 00:14:20,694 --> 00:14:21,778 just to have your back. 360 00:14:21,778 --> 00:14:22,738 I just wanna be your rock, 361 00:14:22,738 --> 00:14:25,324 I don't wanna be your girlfriend like, I'm your a rock. 362 00:14:25,324 --> 00:14:27,117 Like that's cool. 363 00:14:27,117 --> 00:14:29,369 All that other stuff is so confusing, 364 00:14:29,369 --> 00:14:30,203 I don't even want to talk about it 365 00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:33,290 'cause it's like you don't even know what I'm trying to say, 366 00:14:33,290 --> 00:14:34,166 like, so I don't. 367 00:14:34,166 --> 00:14:36,168 like it's no point in talking about it. 368 00:14:36,168 --> 00:14:37,628 Can we change the subject? 369 00:14:37,628 --> 00:14:38,587 - I understand you trying to talk to me. 370 00:14:38,587 --> 00:14:40,631 - It's not a good subject. - It's a great subject. 371 00:14:40,631 --> 00:14:43,759 - Can we talk about a better one that's nicer like? 372 00:14:45,135 --> 00:14:46,011 - Like what. 373 00:14:46,011 --> 00:14:49,473 - Less whatever, this is too serious. 374 00:14:49,473 --> 00:14:51,058 - Yeah, I don't like to be too serious. 375 00:14:51,058 --> 00:14:51,892 - Yeah. 376 00:14:54,019 --> 00:14:55,020 - So. 377 00:14:55,020 --> 00:14:56,271 - Don't be saying my lyrics and- 378 00:14:56,271 --> 00:14:57,773 - You steady throwing food on me. 379 00:14:57,773 --> 00:15:00,192 - I'm trying to try it. - Like damn. 380 00:15:12,829 --> 00:15:15,832 (Chrisean laughing) 381 00:15:17,417 --> 00:15:19,127 - You are the worst date ever. 382 00:15:20,295 --> 00:15:22,506 I fucking promise you're the worst date ever. 383 00:15:22,506 --> 00:15:23,966 - I'm the worst date? - Yeah. 384 00:15:23,966 --> 00:15:25,384 - I fuck you right now at the table, 385 00:15:25,384 --> 00:15:26,301 how I'm the worst date? 386 00:15:26,301 --> 00:15:27,803 - You done threw food on me. 387 00:15:29,221 --> 00:15:30,472 - Babe, the food nasty. 388 00:15:30,472 --> 00:15:31,640 - So why you throwing them? 389 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:33,141 - Why you been- - You act like I made it. 390 00:15:33,141 --> 00:15:36,353 - Daddy, why you been so, take it back. 391 00:15:36,353 --> 00:15:37,479 - Okay, I'm sorry I take it back. 392 00:15:37,479 --> 00:15:40,899 - Take that back, I'm not the worst date ever, really? 393 00:15:40,899 --> 00:15:42,192 I'm not here to be playing with you right now, 394 00:15:42,192 --> 00:15:43,610 are you for real? 395 00:15:44,653 --> 00:15:45,487 The worst date? 396 00:15:45,487 --> 00:15:47,406 - I've had worse dates. 397 00:15:48,824 --> 00:15:51,743 (Chrisean sighing) 398 00:15:54,913 --> 00:15:57,499 To us. - Look like you just fun. 399 00:16:03,296 --> 00:16:04,464 - Baby. - What. 400 00:16:06,591 --> 00:16:08,260 - Let's rock. 401 00:16:08,260 --> 00:16:11,596 - All right, can we go. - Yeah, come on. 402 00:16:11,596 --> 00:16:14,016 (slow music) 403 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,736 - We're leaving. - Yeah. 404 00:16:25,736 --> 00:16:26,570 - Okay. 405 00:16:29,698 --> 00:16:31,033 - You all right? 406 00:16:32,743 --> 00:16:33,994 - Okay come on. 407 00:16:38,290 --> 00:16:40,959 And they got all this damn food. 408 00:16:43,628 --> 00:16:45,505 - It might be better than ours, 409 00:16:45,505 --> 00:16:47,382 baby you want a plate? 410 00:16:47,382 --> 00:16:48,967 - No, same person made it. 411 00:16:48,967 --> 00:16:51,553 (gentle music) 412 00:16:58,727 --> 00:17:02,147 (gentle music continues) 413 00:17:09,946 --> 00:17:13,366 (gentle music continues) 414 00:17:13,366 --> 00:17:14,284 - Hey babe. 415 00:17:25,587 --> 00:17:28,173 (cars hooting) 416 00:17:30,258 --> 00:17:32,844 (somber music) 417 00:17:45,774 --> 00:17:48,068 (loud knocking) 418 00:17:48,068 --> 00:17:49,736 - Oh shit. - Oh hey. 419 00:17:49,736 --> 00:17:50,946 - Oh hey. 420 00:17:50,946 --> 00:17:51,780 - How are you? 421 00:17:51,780 --> 00:17:52,948 - Kicking in my door like man, 422 00:17:52,948 --> 00:17:54,407 come on in here. - Oh my bad. 423 00:17:54,407 --> 00:17:55,325 - What's up? - How you doing bro? 424 00:17:55,325 --> 00:17:56,368 - How you doing? - Blue. 425 00:17:56,368 --> 00:17:57,202 Like the suit. 426 00:17:57,202 --> 00:17:58,787 - Appreciate you brother, I appreciate you. 427 00:17:58,787 --> 00:17:59,788 Hey Miss, how are you? - Hi. 428 00:17:59,788 --> 00:18:01,456 How are you? - Chrisean. 429 00:18:01,456 --> 00:18:02,290 - Come on over brother, 430 00:18:02,290 --> 00:18:03,416 come on over man, come on over. 431 00:18:03,416 --> 00:18:05,043 - [Chrisean] Oh so what are we doing, sitting now? 432 00:18:05,043 --> 00:18:06,002 - Yeah, no so- 433 00:18:06,002 --> 00:18:07,754 - Daddy need to sit down. 434 00:18:07,754 --> 00:18:09,214 - Yeah, like that. 435 00:18:10,090 --> 00:18:11,299 Well I'm glad y'all are here. 436 00:18:11,299 --> 00:18:12,134 - Me too. 437 00:18:13,009 --> 00:18:14,386 - How y'all feeling? - Lit. 438 00:18:15,929 --> 00:18:17,806 - Yeah. - Yeah. 439 00:18:18,682 --> 00:18:20,392 We came here to wonder what you gotta tell us 440 00:18:20,392 --> 00:18:22,060 that we don't know about ourselves. 441 00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:25,313 - Well y'all been lit a lot lately, right? 442 00:18:25,313 --> 00:18:27,107 There's a lot happening. - Yeah. 443 00:18:27,107 --> 00:18:28,859 - So you know, 444 00:18:28,859 --> 00:18:30,777 I'm here to see if I may be able to help y'all 445 00:18:30,777 --> 00:18:33,572 do things a little bit easier, you know? 446 00:18:33,572 --> 00:18:35,157 Right, y'all up for that? 447 00:18:36,741 --> 00:18:39,578 That's a yes? - Yeah, why not, shit yeah. 448 00:18:39,578 --> 00:18:40,453 Definitely right. 449 00:18:41,413 --> 00:18:42,914 - So listen, you know, 450 00:18:42,914 --> 00:18:45,375 there's a couple things I want to do 451 00:18:45,375 --> 00:18:46,459 to get to know you guys a little bit better, 452 00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:50,172 and then hopefully before we get outta here 453 00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:51,464 I can kind of offer y'all some stuff 454 00:18:51,464 --> 00:18:53,008 that maybe can help you do this thing 455 00:18:53,008 --> 00:18:54,259 a little bit easier, 456 00:18:54,259 --> 00:18:55,594 a little bit smoother. 457 00:18:55,594 --> 00:18:57,387 If that works. - Okay. 458 00:18:57,387 --> 00:18:58,972 - Yeah? - Let's do it. 459 00:18:58,972 --> 00:19:01,474 - So usually it works better 460 00:19:01,474 --> 00:19:04,477 if I talk to each of you one-on-one first, 461 00:19:04,477 --> 00:19:07,689 and then bringing both back in together as a couple. 462 00:19:07,689 --> 00:19:09,149 - Okay. - Y'all good with that? 463 00:19:09,149 --> 00:19:09,983 - Yeah, let's do it. 464 00:19:09,983 --> 00:19:12,777 - And look, I'm from the south, so ladies always go first. 465 00:19:12,777 --> 00:19:13,570 You're up my dear. 466 00:19:13,570 --> 00:19:16,531 - Oh, gentlemen, come on. 467 00:19:16,531 --> 00:19:17,782 - Babe you are like that. 468 00:19:17,782 --> 00:19:18,742 - What a gentleman. 469 00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:21,995 - All right, hang out, see you in a bit. 470 00:19:21,995 --> 00:19:22,829 - All right man. - All right bro. 471 00:19:22,829 --> 00:19:23,663 - Where you going? 472 00:19:25,123 --> 00:19:26,416 - Oh, don't sneak out now. 473 00:19:27,751 --> 00:19:29,628 No, no, come on in, come on. 474 00:19:29,628 --> 00:19:30,837 It's gonna be all right. 475 00:19:31,796 --> 00:19:32,631 - You got this. 476 00:19:32,631 --> 00:19:33,798 - Babe, can you pass me the blunt? 477 00:19:33,798 --> 00:19:35,133 - Go get up. - Pass me the blunt. 478 00:19:35,133 --> 00:19:37,677 - No, you can't smoke here. 479 00:19:37,677 --> 00:19:41,890 - Have a seat, have a seat. - I really can't smoke here? 480 00:19:41,890 --> 00:19:44,935 - So I'm glad you're here. 481 00:19:44,935 --> 00:19:46,436 Tell me what's been happening. 482 00:19:47,604 --> 00:19:48,438 Tell me about it, 483 00:19:48,438 --> 00:19:51,691 talk to me about what's been going on. 484 00:19:51,691 --> 00:19:53,860 - I don't know where to start, this is hard. 485 00:19:53,860 --> 00:19:54,694 - It is. 486 00:19:54,694 --> 00:19:56,613 But the easy part is you get to start wherever you want. 487 00:19:56,613 --> 00:19:58,281 You got family stuff, 488 00:19:58,281 --> 00:20:00,492 obviously everything happens on social media, 489 00:20:00,492 --> 00:20:01,493 so we got all that stuff. 490 00:20:01,493 --> 00:20:03,912 What's been like the craziest part for you? 491 00:20:03,912 --> 00:20:05,413 - Forgetting yourself in it. 492 00:20:07,707 --> 00:20:08,959 - What does that mean, like what? 493 00:20:10,710 --> 00:20:13,505 - Like you forget about yourself, I don't know. 494 00:20:13,505 --> 00:20:16,841 Sometimes like you make selfish moves for another person, 495 00:20:16,841 --> 00:20:20,095 it's not really for yourself, but- 496 00:20:20,095 --> 00:20:21,596 - Kinda lose yourself a little bit in all of it. 497 00:20:21,596 --> 00:20:22,430 - Yeah. 498 00:20:22,430 --> 00:20:25,976 - Talk to me about the stuff that's going good, 499 00:20:25,976 --> 00:20:27,394 like with you and Blue. 500 00:20:31,147 --> 00:20:33,316 - What's good, okay. 501 00:20:33,316 --> 00:20:34,985 - If you gotta think about it that long, 502 00:20:34,985 --> 00:20:36,194 that's a bad sign. 503 00:20:36,194 --> 00:20:38,238 - What's going good between me and Blue. 504 00:20:39,197 --> 00:20:40,073 Everything. 505 00:20:44,035 --> 00:20:45,412 I'm cool. - Yeah. 506 00:20:46,705 --> 00:20:48,498 Talk to me about when it ain't going good, 507 00:20:48,498 --> 00:20:50,542 because it ain't all good, right? 508 00:20:50,542 --> 00:20:51,584 Tell me about y'alls bumps. 509 00:20:51,584 --> 00:20:53,503 When things are not going good, 510 00:20:53,503 --> 00:20:55,463 tell me what's happening. 511 00:20:55,463 --> 00:20:56,298 - I gotta take a deep breath 512 00:20:56,298 --> 00:21:00,260 and then like go numb real quick. 513 00:21:00,260 --> 00:21:03,013 - What's happening? - Like it's like, 514 00:21:03,013 --> 00:21:05,974 oh, he want to be like, I don't know, 515 00:21:05,974 --> 00:21:08,518 like kissing a bitch on the Gram or something. 516 00:21:09,561 --> 00:21:11,938 I'm just like, oh, I thought we had this understanding, 517 00:21:11,938 --> 00:21:12,939 but you feel me? 518 00:21:12,939 --> 00:21:14,858 You can't force nobody to be somebody they not. 519 00:21:14,858 --> 00:21:16,192 It just hurt. 520 00:21:16,192 --> 00:21:17,027 - Does it hurt 521 00:21:17,027 --> 00:21:18,320 because you wouldn't do the same thing to him? 522 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:22,449 - No, it's honestly like it hurt because I want it to last. 523 00:21:22,449 --> 00:21:24,784 - Okay, you love him? - Yeah. 524 00:21:24,784 --> 00:21:27,078 - Yeah. - And he got a good heart. 525 00:21:27,078 --> 00:21:27,912 A big one. 526 00:21:27,912 --> 00:21:29,914 - Seems like a good dude. - He's a great dude. 527 00:21:29,914 --> 00:21:30,790 - Seems like a good dude. 528 00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:32,000 And when stuff like that happens, 529 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,127 it makes you feel like maybe he's not as committed 530 00:21:34,127 --> 00:21:35,211 as you want him to be. 531 00:21:35,211 --> 00:21:37,505 You're in love and when stuff happens 532 00:21:37,505 --> 00:21:39,049 that looks like it's threatening that 533 00:21:39,049 --> 00:21:41,426 it just hurts your feelings. - Yeah and I flip out. 534 00:21:41,426 --> 00:21:43,136 - Right? 535 00:21:43,136 --> 00:21:44,763 - If he don't wanna be committed that's on him, 536 00:21:44,763 --> 00:21:47,432 that got nothing to do with what we got going like. 537 00:21:47,432 --> 00:21:49,392 So like some shit do you hit the fan, 538 00:21:49,392 --> 00:21:50,477 like would you switch up? 539 00:21:50,477 --> 00:21:52,187 Would you move different? 540 00:21:52,187 --> 00:21:54,356 So like, yeah, I'll do like certain things 541 00:21:54,356 --> 00:21:55,523 that catch his attention 542 00:21:55,523 --> 00:21:57,567 but that's only because I want it my way. 543 00:21:58,485 --> 00:21:59,319 - Yeah. 544 00:21:59,319 --> 00:22:01,237 Talk to me about them flip outs, 545 00:22:01,237 --> 00:22:02,072 because you don't flip out, 546 00:22:02,072 --> 00:22:03,698 you like flip all the way out. 547 00:22:03,698 --> 00:22:05,575 - Yeah. - Right. 548 00:22:05,575 --> 00:22:06,576 It's not like a little bit. 549 00:22:06,576 --> 00:22:08,119 - Right I be like in jail that day. 550 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,996 - Right, right. 551 00:22:09,996 --> 00:22:11,081 - Yeah, right. - Right. 552 00:22:11,081 --> 00:22:13,249 So we want that to not happen, 553 00:22:13,249 --> 00:22:14,334 you know what I mean? 554 00:22:17,045 --> 00:22:19,047 - But the type of nigga he is (laughs), 555 00:22:22,217 --> 00:22:23,676 it gotta happen like that. 556 00:22:23,676 --> 00:22:25,678 - But does it though? 557 00:22:26,888 --> 00:22:27,722 - I don't know. 558 00:22:27,722 --> 00:22:29,432 - You like it like that? 559 00:22:29,432 --> 00:22:31,434 - No, but it's just, it is what it is. 560 00:22:31,434 --> 00:22:33,686 - I mean 'cause look from some of the stuff I've seen- 561 00:22:33,686 --> 00:22:35,563 - [Chrisean] What you seen my nigga? 562 00:22:35,563 --> 00:22:40,568 - It seems like you having to fight for a lot, 563 00:22:40,860 --> 00:22:42,695 for like everything. - Yeah, everything. 564 00:22:42,695 --> 00:22:44,781 - Right, you fight for your career stuff, 565 00:22:44,781 --> 00:22:46,825 you got the family stuff back home 566 00:22:46,825 --> 00:22:48,576 you're trying to do for them but, right, 567 00:22:48,576 --> 00:22:49,869 and they're looking to you for all this, 568 00:22:49,869 --> 00:22:51,955 but then do they really appreciate it or do they not? 569 00:22:51,955 --> 00:22:53,248 So you're fighting with that. 570 00:22:53,248 --> 00:22:54,624 You're fighting with your dude. 571 00:22:54,624 --> 00:22:57,961 Sometimes it's good and then sometimes it ain't that good. 572 00:22:57,961 --> 00:22:59,337 And then when it's not that good, 573 00:22:59,337 --> 00:23:01,673 you gotta flip out and you can't flip out a little, 574 00:23:01,673 --> 00:23:04,050 you flip all the way out so that's hard. 575 00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:05,218 - Not too much. - Right? 576 00:23:05,218 --> 00:23:06,052 And then you got- - I kinda run nowhere. 577 00:23:06,052 --> 00:23:07,929 - Then you got the Twitter folks, 578 00:23:07,929 --> 00:23:08,972 and you got the Gram folks. 579 00:23:08,972 --> 00:23:09,806 - It's just not that bad, 580 00:23:09,806 --> 00:23:11,933 like I don't flip out to the point where like, 581 00:23:11,933 --> 00:23:15,186 oh, I'm like, I run to him. 582 00:23:15,186 --> 00:23:16,354 - Yeah. - Or just go home. 583 00:23:16,354 --> 00:23:18,231 - That's a lot of fighting though baby girl. 584 00:23:18,231 --> 00:23:20,483 - It's not that much man, I'm chilling. 585 00:23:20,483 --> 00:23:22,026 - It looks like it's exhausting. 586 00:23:22,026 --> 00:23:23,278 I would be tired. 587 00:23:23,278 --> 00:23:25,155 - Nah, I'm not exhausted. 588 00:23:25,155 --> 00:23:26,990 I like a challenge for sure. 589 00:23:26,990 --> 00:23:28,491 I just feel like I'm in a situation 590 00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:29,993 and that's what it is. 591 00:23:29,993 --> 00:23:33,830 It's up to him to make up like his mind 592 00:23:33,830 --> 00:23:35,582 at when he want to make up his mind, 593 00:23:35,582 --> 00:23:36,666 like you feel me, like? 594 00:23:36,666 --> 00:23:38,668 - And so what are you doing in the meantime? 595 00:23:38,668 --> 00:23:40,920 You just waiting? - Getting money. 596 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:41,754 Getting money. 597 00:23:41,754 --> 00:23:43,047 - I mean him okay, so that part's happening. 598 00:23:43,047 --> 00:23:45,049 But like for you though, like right? 599 00:23:45,049 --> 00:23:46,009 For you, right? 600 00:23:46,009 --> 00:23:47,260 The money stuff's gonna happen though, 601 00:23:47,260 --> 00:23:49,012 the TV's stuff, all that's happening. 602 00:23:49,012 --> 00:23:50,805 But like on the inside, for you, 603 00:23:50,805 --> 00:23:52,515 while you waiting on him to make up his mind 604 00:23:52,515 --> 00:23:54,601 about how serious he wants to be about you, 605 00:23:54,601 --> 00:23:55,685 what's going on with you 606 00:23:55,685 --> 00:23:57,228 and what do you want to happen? 607 00:23:58,146 --> 00:23:59,856 If you could snap your fingers right now 608 00:23:59,856 --> 00:24:03,067 and have your relationship with him exactly how you want it, 609 00:24:03,067 --> 00:24:04,986 what would you want it to be? 610 00:24:04,986 --> 00:24:06,362 - Why are you asking me that? 611 00:24:06,362 --> 00:24:07,572 - Because right, 612 00:24:07,572 --> 00:24:08,865 because if you don't know where you're going, 613 00:24:08,865 --> 00:24:10,742 how you gonna get there? 614 00:24:10,742 --> 00:24:12,452 - I know where I'm going. - Right so. 615 00:24:12,452 --> 00:24:14,662 - To the top. - Okay. 616 00:24:14,662 --> 00:24:16,664 So we can do that too. - Right. 617 00:24:16,664 --> 00:24:18,750 - But I want to know what you want from this. 618 00:24:18,750 --> 00:24:19,876 - I got everything. 619 00:24:21,169 --> 00:24:23,171 I'm very grateful. 620 00:24:23,171 --> 00:24:24,589 - I get all that, 621 00:24:24,589 --> 00:24:26,049 but that's not the question. 622 00:24:26,049 --> 00:24:26,883 - What's the question? 623 00:24:26,883 --> 00:24:27,926 The question is, 624 00:24:27,926 --> 00:24:29,427 if you could snap your fingers 625 00:24:29,427 --> 00:24:32,931 and have this thing exactly how you wanted it. 626 00:24:36,142 --> 00:24:39,062 - What, what you mean how? 627 00:24:39,062 --> 00:24:40,855 - It's all right. 628 00:24:40,855 --> 00:24:43,191 - More sure what's going on? 629 00:24:44,567 --> 00:24:47,737 Like it's us, not them. 630 00:24:47,737 --> 00:24:49,572 Sometimes it's us and them. 631 00:24:51,574 --> 00:24:52,825 That's all right, I guess. 632 00:24:52,825 --> 00:24:54,953 You asking me a question and I don't, 633 00:24:56,663 --> 00:24:58,039 what's that question, like? 634 00:25:02,252 --> 00:25:03,127 (bottle clattering) 635 00:25:03,127 --> 00:25:04,754 What? 636 00:25:04,754 --> 00:25:06,214 Why are you looking at me like that? 637 00:25:07,257 --> 00:25:08,841 - Because I'm always interested 638 00:25:10,134 --> 00:25:12,136 when young women have a hard time telling me 639 00:25:12,136 --> 00:25:14,347 exactly what it is they need and they want to be happy. 640 00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:15,765 - Because I don't need shit. 641 00:25:15,765 --> 00:25:17,392 - No, no, no, no, no- - I don't want shit. 642 00:25:17,392 --> 00:25:18,810 - We all have needs, right, 643 00:25:18,810 --> 00:25:19,852 that don't make us weak. 644 00:25:19,852 --> 00:25:21,229 What I'm asking you is, 645 00:25:21,229 --> 00:25:22,188 just what do you want, right? 646 00:25:22,188 --> 00:25:23,523 Do you want- - I got everything I want. 647 00:25:23,523 --> 00:25:26,067 - You want just to be you and him, you said that. 648 00:25:26,067 --> 00:25:26,901 What else? 649 00:25:26,901 --> 00:25:27,860 Keep going, you're doing good, 650 00:25:27,860 --> 00:25:28,945 you got emotional about it, 651 00:25:28,945 --> 00:25:30,238 when you thought about it. 652 00:25:31,114 --> 00:25:32,657 What's happening right now? 653 00:25:32,657 --> 00:25:33,491 - A family. 654 00:25:36,244 --> 00:25:38,246 That's probably it, you know. 655 00:25:39,414 --> 00:25:43,626 As a kid growing up and then when things not going right, 656 00:25:43,626 --> 00:25:46,296 I don't know like, yeah, 657 00:25:46,296 --> 00:25:49,507 I did have family but then I lost it, I don't know. 658 00:25:49,507 --> 00:25:50,633 - How'd you lose it? 659 00:25:50,633 --> 00:25:52,760 - I don't know, my mom went through some shit with my dad 660 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,138 and my mom ended up depending on like drugs 661 00:25:55,138 --> 00:25:59,517 and then like giving up and forgetting us, but not really. 662 00:25:59,517 --> 00:26:04,480 But consequences was homelessness, abuse, neglect, 663 00:26:04,522 --> 00:26:06,649 and you don't have nobody to show up for you. 664 00:26:06,649 --> 00:26:09,360 - How old were you when all that was happening? 665 00:26:13,990 --> 00:26:14,949 - Out the room for real, 666 00:26:14,949 --> 00:26:17,035 I don't know what you mean. 667 00:26:17,035 --> 00:26:18,661 - They were never married? 668 00:26:18,661 --> 00:26:21,039 - No, my mom got married then she re-married. 669 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,334 - [Dr. Ish] Was he living in the house with y'all or no? 670 00:26:24,334 --> 00:26:26,044 - He was. - Yeah. 671 00:26:26,044 --> 00:26:28,921 And he was abusive to who? 672 00:26:28,921 --> 00:26:30,840 - My mother and my sisters. 673 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:31,924 - Like how, what would he do? 674 00:26:31,924 --> 00:26:33,384 Like yell, fight, hit. 675 00:26:33,384 --> 00:26:35,678 - No he would hit them, like slapping them. 676 00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,347 Like my mother, he would go to the woods, 677 00:26:37,347 --> 00:26:39,307 tie her up and beat her up, and my sister- 678 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:40,141 - Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 679 00:26:40,141 --> 00:26:41,601 - He'll line all my sisters up 680 00:26:41,601 --> 00:26:43,061 with our back be against the wall, 681 00:26:43,061 --> 00:26:43,895 he'll put me against the wall 682 00:26:43,895 --> 00:26:45,313 and I ain't do nothing with them. 683 00:26:45,313 --> 00:26:46,564 Like I'm young as fuck, 684 00:26:46,564 --> 00:26:47,565 I don't know what's going on. 685 00:26:47,565 --> 00:26:49,609 So my big sisters be, 686 00:26:49,609 --> 00:26:51,277 I don't know, probably came after curfew 687 00:26:51,277 --> 00:26:53,529 or have a boyfriend not supposed to. 688 00:26:53,529 --> 00:26:55,740 So they get lined up on the wall 689 00:26:55,740 --> 00:26:56,866 and I'll be right with them. 690 00:26:56,866 --> 00:26:58,618 - He would slap y'all? 691 00:26:58,618 --> 00:27:01,412 - Yeah, but it was more like he asks a question, 692 00:27:01,412 --> 00:27:04,874 we'll give him our answer, slap. 693 00:27:04,874 --> 00:27:07,460 Then he'd be like, he asked the question again 694 00:27:07,460 --> 00:27:09,379 you know the right answer you're supposed to say 695 00:27:09,379 --> 00:27:11,255 because you'll make an excuse 696 00:27:11,255 --> 00:27:14,425 rather than say the real answer 'cause you're scared 697 00:27:14,425 --> 00:27:18,262 so like he make sure he slap one on each cheek. 698 00:27:18,262 --> 00:27:19,764 He'll get to me and be like, 699 00:27:21,265 --> 00:27:22,725 "So Chrisean," 700 00:27:22,725 --> 00:27:26,229 and he'll jack me up and I'd just be scared already but. 701 00:27:26,229 --> 00:27:27,730 - You just have to be terrified. 702 00:27:27,730 --> 00:27:29,524 - Not really, I don't know. 703 00:27:29,524 --> 00:27:31,442 - You were a kid though. - Yeah but- 704 00:27:32,318 --> 00:27:33,736 - Let me ask you a question. - What? 705 00:27:33,736 --> 00:27:34,612 - You ever have any days 706 00:27:34,612 --> 00:27:38,991 where you feel like it's just kind of an empty feeling 707 00:27:38,991 --> 00:27:39,826 on the inside? 708 00:27:39,826 --> 00:27:41,619 You ever had a day like that? 709 00:27:41,619 --> 00:27:44,414 - No, it's days when you like just sleep in all day 710 00:27:44,414 --> 00:27:45,581 and you like (sighs). 711 00:27:48,835 --> 00:27:51,087 Like it hurts so much you don't wanna move. 712 00:27:52,171 --> 00:27:54,340 - You're young but you've lived a lot. 713 00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:56,634 There's been a lot that's gone on. 714 00:27:56,634 --> 00:27:57,468 - Oh yeah. 715 00:27:57,468 --> 00:27:58,511 - And a lot of stuff, 716 00:27:58,511 --> 00:28:00,388 quite honestly that just shouldn't have happened. 717 00:28:00,388 --> 00:28:02,849 And I'm sorry a lot of that stuff happened to you. 718 00:28:04,016 --> 00:28:05,351 - No biggie, that's just life. 719 00:28:05,351 --> 00:28:06,519 - It's a biggie though, 720 00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:09,647 it is a biggie because it affects, right? 721 00:28:09,647 --> 00:28:10,648 We carry that. 722 00:28:11,607 --> 00:28:12,400 - Not really. 723 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,738 If you cast all your worries and baggages to God, 724 00:28:16,738 --> 00:28:18,740 you ain't carrying shit but emotion 725 00:28:18,740 --> 00:28:21,659 and I don't really think like I carry. 726 00:28:21,659 --> 00:28:23,244 Like yeah, I go through it, 727 00:28:23,244 --> 00:28:24,120 and I cry through it, 728 00:28:24,120 --> 00:28:24,954 and I fight through it, 729 00:28:24,954 --> 00:28:26,372 and I go to jail for it, 730 00:28:26,372 --> 00:28:28,166 and then after that I'm over it. 731 00:28:28,166 --> 00:28:30,376 - You ever talk to somebody like me before? 732 00:28:30,376 --> 00:28:31,753 - Yeah, in school. 733 00:28:31,753 --> 00:28:33,755 - In school, like school counselor or something? 734 00:28:33,755 --> 00:28:34,589 - Yeah. - Yeah. 735 00:28:34,589 --> 00:28:36,424 Was it a good experience or not great? 736 00:28:36,424 --> 00:28:37,925 - No, it was cool. 737 00:28:37,925 --> 00:28:40,011 More like transparent. 738 00:28:40,011 --> 00:28:43,014 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, vulnerable okay. 739 00:28:43,014 --> 00:28:44,098 Well thank you for talking to me darling. 740 00:28:44,098 --> 00:28:45,433 - You know what, oh okay so we're done? 741 00:28:45,433 --> 00:28:46,768 - Yeah. - Oh my bad. 742 00:28:46,768 --> 00:28:48,686 - Yeah, no you're good. 743 00:28:48,686 --> 00:28:50,813 - Have fun with Blue. - Come on. 744 00:28:50,813 --> 00:28:51,898 - He's very nonchalant 745 00:28:51,898 --> 00:28:53,900 and he don't like talking, 746 00:28:53,900 --> 00:28:55,818 he don't like eye contact. - Yeah. 747 00:28:55,818 --> 00:28:59,363 - And he probably not as drunk as me. 748 00:28:59,363 --> 00:29:02,366 (suspenseful music) 749 00:29:07,330 --> 00:29:09,999 (Blue knocking) 750 00:29:10,875 --> 00:29:11,709 - Blue. - Yo. 751 00:29:11,709 --> 00:29:13,544 - Come on in here brother. 752 00:29:13,544 --> 00:29:14,504 - Love the suit. 753 00:29:14,504 --> 00:29:16,798 - Appreciate that man, appreciate that. 754 00:29:16,798 --> 00:29:19,801 (suspenseful music) 755 00:29:20,843 --> 00:29:22,178 How you feeling? 756 00:29:22,178 --> 00:29:23,179 - Great. 757 00:29:23,179 --> 00:29:24,597 - Yeah. - Yeah. 758 00:29:24,597 --> 00:29:25,598 - So let's talk about you 759 00:29:25,598 --> 00:29:28,226 because she takes up a lot of the air in the room. 760 00:29:28,226 --> 00:29:32,522 She walks in and everybody's trying to deal with that. 761 00:29:32,522 --> 00:29:33,356 - Yeah. 762 00:29:33,356 --> 00:29:34,357 And we named her Rockhead 763 00:29:34,357 --> 00:29:36,901 because she does not listen to a mother fucking thing 764 00:29:36,901 --> 00:29:37,944 that anybody tells her. 765 00:29:37,944 --> 00:29:40,822 So we'll be like, yo, literally police her. 766 00:29:41,823 --> 00:29:43,157 So that's how she got the name Rock. 767 00:29:43,157 --> 00:29:45,159 Her name is Rockhead because she just don't listen, 768 00:29:45,159 --> 00:29:47,328 she got a hard head. - Hard head. 769 00:29:47,328 --> 00:29:48,162 Yeah. 770 00:29:48,162 --> 00:29:50,164 - [Blueface] Mother fucker is a rock for real. 771 00:29:50,164 --> 00:29:51,457 - How do you deal with it? 772 00:29:54,377 --> 00:29:57,046 - I deal with it by not dealing with it. 773 00:29:57,046 --> 00:29:59,090 - So she'll do the most, 774 00:29:59,090 --> 00:30:00,716 you'll try to do the least. 775 00:30:00,716 --> 00:30:01,676 - Exactly. 776 00:30:01,676 --> 00:30:03,511 - When she's full on Chrisean, 777 00:30:03,511 --> 00:30:05,721 I don't know if that's a fire that can be put out, 778 00:30:05,721 --> 00:30:06,764 but you're just trying to maintain, right. 779 00:30:06,764 --> 00:30:09,267 - Yeah, yeah, and keep it from spreading too far. 780 00:30:09,267 --> 00:30:10,226 - Right, right. 781 00:30:10,226 --> 00:30:11,561 We just trying to contain this thing, 782 00:30:11,561 --> 00:30:12,395 what does that look like? 783 00:30:12,395 --> 00:30:13,646 What are you doing, tell me? 784 00:30:14,897 --> 00:30:17,692 - I try to like mentor her a little bit, you know, 785 00:30:17,692 --> 00:30:19,527 make her less rough around edges. 786 00:30:19,527 --> 00:30:21,070 - And how does she take that? 787 00:30:21,070 --> 00:30:22,446 Because for what I've seen, not good. 788 00:30:22,446 --> 00:30:24,198 - Yeah, she doesn't take it good at all. 789 00:30:24,198 --> 00:30:25,032 - Right. 790 00:30:25,032 --> 00:30:27,577 - She takes it and steps on it, 791 00:30:27,577 --> 00:30:30,913 kicks it, cries on it. 792 00:30:30,913 --> 00:30:32,206 - Yeah. - All that type of stuff. 793 00:30:32,206 --> 00:30:33,040 - Yeah. 794 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,542 - [Blueface] How do you think I should go about it? 795 00:30:34,542 --> 00:30:36,544 - Depends on your personality, 796 00:30:36,544 --> 00:30:38,838 and quite frankly, it depends on what you want. 797 00:30:38,838 --> 00:30:41,507 And I want you to use this time to just really focus on you 798 00:30:41,507 --> 00:30:43,926 and hopefully I can help point out some things 799 00:30:43,926 --> 00:30:45,595 about yourself and about her 800 00:30:45,595 --> 00:30:47,513 to help y'alls do y'all's thing a little bit better. 801 00:30:47,513 --> 00:30:48,431 - Okay. 802 00:30:48,431 --> 00:30:49,223 - Or just help y'all decide 803 00:30:49,223 --> 00:30:50,725 if y'all want to continue to do it this way or not. 804 00:30:50,725 --> 00:30:52,101 Because it's weird, right? 805 00:30:52,101 --> 00:30:53,352 Like on the one hand, 806 00:30:53,352 --> 00:30:55,521 y'all are young and y'all are successful, 807 00:30:55,521 --> 00:30:56,898 and y'all are super talented, 808 00:30:56,898 --> 00:30:58,190 and the world is opening up, 809 00:30:58,190 --> 00:30:59,233 we got some fame coming, 810 00:30:59,233 --> 00:31:00,234 we got some money coming, 811 00:31:00,234 --> 00:31:02,403 we got, right, we got all these cool things happening 812 00:31:02,403 --> 00:31:03,446 and you just wanna be able to enjoy it 813 00:31:03,446 --> 00:31:04,697 and share it with each other. 814 00:31:04,697 --> 00:31:07,992 And you got this really interesting, 815 00:31:07,992 --> 00:31:10,828 beautiful, passionate woman 816 00:31:10,828 --> 00:31:14,206 who's like super into you, right? 817 00:31:15,333 --> 00:31:19,754 She literally has your face on her body into you, right? 818 00:31:20,963 --> 00:31:21,797 - [Blueface] Right. 819 00:31:21,797 --> 00:31:22,715 - And you see that look you just gave me? 820 00:31:22,715 --> 00:31:24,508 You know what that look says? 821 00:31:24,508 --> 00:31:25,343 - What, what does it say? 822 00:31:25,343 --> 00:31:28,220 - That look says that that part feels good, 823 00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:30,306 as it should, right? 824 00:31:30,306 --> 00:31:31,974 Let's keep it real. 825 00:31:31,974 --> 00:31:32,934 - I mean, yes, it's a nice gesture. 826 00:31:32,934 --> 00:31:33,768 - Of course. - Yeah. 827 00:31:33,768 --> 00:31:35,645 - Of course it feels good. - Yeah, yeah. 828 00:31:35,645 --> 00:31:37,772 - But you're also a different kind of brother. 829 00:31:37,772 --> 00:31:40,524 I'm betting that a part of you also knows 830 00:31:40,524 --> 00:31:42,318 that that shit ain't sustainable. 831 00:31:44,487 --> 00:31:45,696 Right? - The tattoos? 832 00:31:47,281 --> 00:31:49,367 - The blowups, the explosions. - Yeah. 833 00:31:49,367 --> 00:31:50,826 - Up on TMZ every other week. 834 00:31:50,826 --> 00:31:52,161 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Right. 835 00:31:53,204 --> 00:31:54,038 What do you think? 836 00:31:54,038 --> 00:31:56,624 'Cause that's a lot man, it's exhausting. 837 00:31:56,624 --> 00:31:58,709 - Yeah, it is but I mean it makes her, 838 00:32:00,878 --> 00:32:01,712 you know, lit I guess. 839 00:32:01,712 --> 00:32:03,965 - What do you love the most about it, tell me? 840 00:32:05,967 --> 00:32:09,178 - I like how intimate she is. - Yeah. 841 00:32:09,178 --> 00:32:10,930 - So I like how affectionate she is, 842 00:32:10,930 --> 00:32:13,099 but I don't like how emotional she is. 843 00:32:13,099 --> 00:32:14,809 - You know what I see her doing a lot 844 00:32:14,809 --> 00:32:17,186 is try to make other people be responsible 845 00:32:17,186 --> 00:32:20,231 for how she feels, right? 846 00:32:22,483 --> 00:32:24,068 (Blueface clapping) Right. 847 00:32:24,068 --> 00:32:26,362 - Hell yeah. - Right, you feel me, bro. 848 00:32:26,362 --> 00:32:27,363 - I do feel you. 849 00:32:27,363 --> 00:32:29,073 - You feeling me. - Right. 850 00:32:29,073 --> 00:32:32,118 And when that's happening three, four days a week. 851 00:32:32,118 --> 00:32:34,495 - Three, four times a day. - Right. 852 00:32:34,495 --> 00:32:35,329 That's a lot Blue, 853 00:32:35,329 --> 00:32:36,539 so how do you handle that? 854 00:32:37,957 --> 00:32:39,375 - Just put less energy into it. 855 00:32:39,375 --> 00:32:40,584 Yeah I just lay down. 856 00:32:40,584 --> 00:32:43,587 I'll be just like, you know, more boring. 857 00:32:44,588 --> 00:32:45,756 - And does that work? 858 00:32:47,341 --> 00:32:48,175 - I don't know. - So that's a no, right? 859 00:32:48,175 --> 00:32:50,511 - I don't know, it has no in it. 860 00:32:50,511 --> 00:32:51,929 - And let me tell you why, 861 00:32:51,929 --> 00:32:53,723 because the thing she's trying to do 862 00:32:53,723 --> 00:32:55,766 is she's trying to connect, right? 863 00:32:55,766 --> 00:32:57,059 She's showing up 864 00:32:57,059 --> 00:33:01,647 and she's looking for any little piece of evidence 865 00:33:01,647 --> 00:33:04,442 that says that you don't like her or love her enough 866 00:33:04,442 --> 00:33:06,027 for her to be okay. 867 00:33:06,027 --> 00:33:07,778 And when that happens, she's getting triggered, 868 00:33:07,778 --> 00:33:11,407 and when she gets triggered she goes boom, right? 869 00:33:11,407 --> 00:33:12,241 - Right. 870 00:33:12,241 --> 00:33:15,077 - And your go-to mechanism to deal with that 871 00:33:15,077 --> 00:33:17,788 is to not feed the fire. - Yeah. 872 00:33:17,788 --> 00:33:19,832 - And to pull back even more. 873 00:33:19,832 --> 00:33:22,460 - Yeah. - And guess what that's doing? 874 00:33:22,460 --> 00:33:23,294 - What. 875 00:33:23,294 --> 00:33:26,213 - That's triggered her even more, right. 876 00:33:26,213 --> 00:33:28,007 So by you trying to not feed the fire, 877 00:33:28,007 --> 00:33:30,384 which is a smart thing to do in your mind, 878 00:33:30,384 --> 00:33:31,218 it's like, "Hey, you know what, 879 00:33:31,218 --> 00:33:33,387 "let me just pull back and you know, 880 00:33:33,387 --> 00:33:34,722 "and just not engage." 881 00:33:34,722 --> 00:33:36,932 That's the thing that scares her even more. 882 00:33:36,932 --> 00:33:38,476 - So what do you suggest I do? 883 00:33:38,476 --> 00:33:40,311 - What do you think you should do? 884 00:33:40,311 --> 00:33:41,604 I'm gonna tell you some stuff. 885 00:33:41,604 --> 00:33:43,397 - Shit, I thought I was doing the right thing. 886 00:33:43,397 --> 00:33:44,648 That sound like you finna tell me 887 00:33:44,648 --> 00:33:46,859 to throw some more gasoline on the fire. 888 00:33:46,859 --> 00:33:48,444 - No, no. - Make her crazier. 889 00:33:48,444 --> 00:33:49,820 - We gotta recognize the patterns. 890 00:33:49,820 --> 00:33:50,654 - I believe in patterns. 891 00:33:50,654 --> 00:33:52,239 - Right, you played football, right? 892 00:33:52,239 --> 00:33:53,074 - Yeah. 893 00:33:53,074 --> 00:33:53,908 - You're a damn good quarterback, right? 894 00:33:53,908 --> 00:33:56,077 You know what play to call. - Makes sense. 895 00:33:56,077 --> 00:33:57,953 - You gotta recognize her patterns 896 00:33:57,953 --> 00:33:59,246 so you can start calling the play 897 00:33:59,246 --> 00:34:03,709 before you get the emotion that you don't want. 898 00:34:03,709 --> 00:34:05,461 - Well why do I have to adjust myself to somebody else 899 00:34:05,461 --> 00:34:07,171 and then they don't have to adjust they self. 900 00:34:07,171 --> 00:34:08,547 - Because this is who you got, 901 00:34:08,547 --> 00:34:10,174 you got Chrisean. - Oh shit. 902 00:34:10,174 --> 00:34:11,717 - You see what I'm saying? - That's the reason. 903 00:34:11,717 --> 00:34:14,720 - That's who she is right now, right, 904 00:34:14,720 --> 00:34:16,764 and you get the girl you pick, 905 00:34:16,764 --> 00:34:17,932 not the girl you want her to be, 906 00:34:17,932 --> 00:34:18,974 or the girl she could be. 907 00:34:18,974 --> 00:34:21,560 Today this is where she is, 908 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,270 she's an emotional person today. 909 00:34:23,270 --> 00:34:25,564 I think she's been through some stuff, brother, 910 00:34:25,564 --> 00:34:27,650 some stuff you're not gonna help her heal. 911 00:34:27,650 --> 00:34:29,193 It's not your problem to help her fix. 912 00:34:29,193 --> 00:34:31,195 - Yeah there's no way, it's impossible. 913 00:34:31,195 --> 00:34:32,113 - Right, it's impossible. 914 00:34:32,113 --> 00:34:33,364 But you're a good dude and you love her 915 00:34:33,364 --> 00:34:36,283 so you want to, right, 916 00:34:36,283 --> 00:34:38,661 And it's frustrating when you can't. 917 00:34:38,661 --> 00:34:40,538 That gets hard after a while. 918 00:34:40,538 --> 00:34:41,872 What's the hardest part for you? 919 00:34:41,872 --> 00:34:43,415 Like just as her dude, 920 00:34:43,415 --> 00:34:47,128 like man, if this part was gone we would be straight. 921 00:34:48,379 --> 00:34:51,173 - I don't like how irresponsible she is. 922 00:34:52,341 --> 00:34:55,344 I don't like how she treats people. 923 00:34:55,344 --> 00:34:56,178 - Yeah. 924 00:34:56,178 --> 00:34:59,098 - I've been living this lifestyle for a long time 925 00:34:59,098 --> 00:35:00,641 so I've already like, you know, 926 00:35:01,475 --> 00:35:03,769 figured out just how to not deal with things. 927 00:35:03,769 --> 00:35:05,062 And even though bad shit does, 928 00:35:05,062 --> 00:35:06,355 you know, the trauma or whatever, 929 00:35:06,355 --> 00:35:10,401 I feel like it's just better not to care about it. 930 00:35:12,653 --> 00:35:14,572 - So you try to avoid thinking about it? 931 00:35:15,698 --> 00:35:17,992 - I reflect on it and then I get over it. 932 00:35:17,992 --> 00:35:19,160 - Yeah, yeah. 933 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,786 How old were you since you were on your own 934 00:35:20,786 --> 00:35:22,163 doing your own thing? 935 00:35:22,163 --> 00:35:25,040 - 17, 18. - Okay, so young, young. 936 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,169 And closer to mom or closer to daddy? 937 00:35:28,169 --> 00:35:29,420 - Well now closer to dad, 938 00:35:29,420 --> 00:35:32,006 but I grew up with my mom so it was like, you know. 939 00:35:33,048 --> 00:35:35,384 - And how's the relationship with you and mom? 940 00:35:37,344 --> 00:35:38,179 - Like I said, I told you I deal with it 941 00:35:38,179 --> 00:35:39,972 but I'm not dealing with it. 942 00:35:39,972 --> 00:35:41,473 So I just don't deal with her. 943 00:35:42,766 --> 00:35:44,518 - You won't have to deal with it. 944 00:35:44,518 --> 00:35:47,062 - No, my mom kind of acts like 945 00:35:47,062 --> 00:35:50,149 she wants to be my girlfriend or something so it's like. 946 00:35:50,149 --> 00:35:52,526 Not like incestuously, incest type- 947 00:35:52,526 --> 00:35:54,028 - I understand. - Just more like 948 00:35:54,028 --> 00:35:55,779 territorial type, like you know. 949 00:35:55,779 --> 00:35:57,072 - Like how, explain it. 950 00:35:57,072 --> 00:36:00,701 - It's almost if she like forces me to like pick sides 951 00:36:00,701 --> 00:36:03,078 between her and the woman in my life or- 952 00:36:03,078 --> 00:36:04,205 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 953 00:36:04,205 --> 00:36:05,664 - The woman I bring in the house, 954 00:36:05,664 --> 00:36:07,333 the woman I leave out the house and it's like, what? 955 00:36:07,333 --> 00:36:09,710 This is my house. - Right. 956 00:36:09,710 --> 00:36:10,878 What's that stuff like for you though? 957 00:36:10,878 --> 00:36:11,754 Like honestly man, 958 00:36:11,754 --> 00:36:14,256 when stuff like starts popping off like that 959 00:36:14,256 --> 00:36:15,299 with the women in your life, 960 00:36:15,299 --> 00:36:16,717 whether it's mom or this? 961 00:36:16,717 --> 00:36:19,178 - I feel like my mom is older 962 00:36:19,178 --> 00:36:22,848 and she should be a woman way more mature enough 963 00:36:22,848 --> 00:36:23,933 to not be getting through it 964 00:36:23,933 --> 00:36:26,227 with the females that I'm dealing with. 965 00:36:26,227 --> 00:36:27,478 I don't get into it with her husband. 966 00:36:27,478 --> 00:36:29,188 - Yeah. - Mind my business. 967 00:36:29,188 --> 00:36:30,272 - Yeah. 968 00:36:30,272 --> 00:36:31,482 So I know you care, 969 00:36:31,482 --> 00:36:35,236 but in the moment if we don't know how to put the fire out, 970 00:36:35,236 --> 00:36:37,196 then it's easier to detach, right, 971 00:36:37,196 --> 00:36:39,573 and just say, "Hey, you know what, I don't really, 972 00:36:39,573 --> 00:36:41,450 "I'm gonna back off of this." 973 00:36:41,450 --> 00:36:42,284 You know what I mean? - Yeah exactly. 974 00:36:42,284 --> 00:36:43,535 I care enough to reflect on it 975 00:36:43,535 --> 00:36:46,372 and admit where I could have. - Right, right, right. 976 00:36:46,372 --> 00:36:47,206 - Made it better. 977 00:36:47,206 --> 00:36:48,916 But like I'm onto the next player, 978 00:36:48,916 --> 00:36:49,750 it's not like- - Right. 979 00:36:49,750 --> 00:36:51,460 - I'm finna like dwell on it so. 980 00:36:51,460 --> 00:36:53,963 - Right, spoken like a true quarterback. 981 00:36:53,963 --> 00:36:55,214 So what do you want it to be? 982 00:36:55,214 --> 00:36:56,674 Where do you see this going? 983 00:36:59,301 --> 00:37:00,719 It's a hard question. 984 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:05,724 - I think it's gonna go, 985 00:37:09,478 --> 00:37:11,522 I don't know, I just want her to grow up. 986 00:37:12,439 --> 00:37:13,607 That's all. 987 00:37:13,607 --> 00:37:14,441 - Do me a favor, 988 00:37:16,568 --> 00:37:18,279 go see what she's doing 989 00:37:18,279 --> 00:37:19,530 and then both of y'all come back in. 990 00:37:19,530 --> 00:37:20,489 You got it. - All right. 991 00:37:20,489 --> 00:37:21,532 You did a good job man. 992 00:37:21,532 --> 00:37:22,950 You ever talked to somebody like me before? 993 00:37:22,950 --> 00:37:24,368 - Nope. 994 00:37:24,368 --> 00:37:26,495 Never. - Did a good job, it was good. 995 00:37:26,495 --> 00:37:28,622 - You ever talked to somebody like me before? 996 00:37:28,622 --> 00:37:30,416 - Not really. - Damn. 997 00:37:34,545 --> 00:37:35,629 - Where you going? 998 00:37:38,841 --> 00:37:40,509 You ain't gonna get drunk no more? 999 00:37:41,844 --> 00:37:45,347 - You drank it all didn't you? - Nope, it's right there. 1000 00:37:45,347 --> 00:37:46,432 I didn't drank it all. 1001 00:37:48,017 --> 00:37:49,268 - I'll take one, go on. 1002 00:37:50,185 --> 00:37:52,855 - You know like people who have like unsure answers 1003 00:37:52,855 --> 00:37:54,898 and I was so sure of everything answer I said 1004 00:37:54,898 --> 00:37:56,066 so it was like, 1005 00:37:56,066 --> 00:37:57,443 and it's not therapy session, 1006 00:37:57,443 --> 00:38:00,446 it's more like let's talk real nigga to real nigga 1007 00:38:00,446 --> 00:38:02,740 'cause bitch, what the fuck are you saying? 1008 00:38:02,740 --> 00:38:03,866 It's nothing he couldn't really say. 1009 00:38:03,866 --> 00:38:05,534 It was more like, what did he say? 1010 00:38:05,534 --> 00:38:07,494 I'm trying to think, like, 1011 00:38:07,494 --> 00:38:09,455 it was nothing he could say like. 1012 00:38:10,664 --> 00:38:14,585 Okay, he will ask like questions that make me feel like, 1013 00:38:15,711 --> 00:38:17,546 let me take a deep breath from that one 1014 00:38:18,505 --> 00:38:22,509 and I answer them because you know I'm gonna answer you 1015 00:38:22,509 --> 00:38:24,011 'cause that's what it is. 1016 00:38:24,011 --> 00:38:26,847 But it wasn't like, 1017 00:38:29,767 --> 00:38:31,894 babe it's not really nothing. 1018 00:38:32,978 --> 00:38:34,646 Like talking to a nosy mother fucker 1019 00:38:34,646 --> 00:38:36,148 that wanna know your business. 1020 00:38:37,107 --> 00:38:41,487 If I was like, you know it's like a dumb, ditzy bitch, 1021 00:38:41,487 --> 00:38:42,905 yeah I'll be like, you know, 1022 00:38:42,905 --> 00:38:45,282 like all up in there like, 1023 00:38:45,282 --> 00:38:47,743 yeah and yeah, and yeah, and yeah. 1024 00:38:47,743 --> 00:38:50,454 I was more like, I don't know, 1025 00:38:50,454 --> 00:38:52,039 I knew what I was talking about. 1026 00:38:57,336 --> 00:39:00,547 You want Red Bull? 1027 00:39:00,547 --> 00:39:02,800 I'm not, let me do this. 1028 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,345 (knocking on door) 1029 00:39:06,345 --> 00:39:07,471 - Hello. 1030 00:39:07,471 --> 00:39:09,056 There they are. - Hey what's up man? 1031 00:39:09,056 --> 00:39:10,182 - Come on in, come on in. 1032 00:39:10,182 --> 00:39:11,100 - Welcome back. 1033 00:39:13,310 --> 00:39:14,395 Hey babe, take a seat. 1034 00:39:16,855 --> 00:39:17,689 Our first therapy session, 1035 00:39:17,689 --> 00:39:19,566 how you feeling? - How y'all feeling? 1036 00:39:19,566 --> 00:39:20,567 - Good. - Fun. 1037 00:39:20,567 --> 00:39:21,402 - Yeah. 1038 00:39:21,402 --> 00:39:23,070 First of all, y'all are doing an amazing job. 1039 00:39:23,070 --> 00:39:24,530 So lemme just say that I'm glad y'all are here, 1040 00:39:24,530 --> 00:39:26,615 I'm glad y'all sat and talked to me 'cause that's hard. 1041 00:39:26,615 --> 00:39:28,033 I'm not here to save your relationship, 1042 00:39:28,033 --> 00:39:29,076 I'm not here to help you break up, 1043 00:39:29,076 --> 00:39:31,286 I'm here to help y'all make it a little bit easier 1044 00:39:31,286 --> 00:39:32,746 to tell each other the truth. 1045 00:39:32,746 --> 00:39:33,580 Does that make sense? 1046 00:39:33,580 --> 00:39:35,249 - Yes. - Yep. 1047 00:39:35,249 --> 00:39:37,209 - Chrisean, you all right? 1048 00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:38,961 - Yeah, I wanna sit over there. 1049 00:39:38,961 --> 00:39:40,838 - You wanna sit where? - Over there. 1050 00:39:40,838 --> 00:39:42,256 - Where? - On him. 1051 00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:43,924 - Oh. 1052 00:39:45,175 --> 00:39:46,009 Chrisean, lemme ask you a question. 1053 00:39:46,009 --> 00:39:47,636 How many tattoos of him do you have? 1054 00:39:47,636 --> 00:39:49,680 - Seven. - Seven. 1055 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,891 Why? - I like him that much. 1056 00:39:52,891 --> 00:39:55,185 - And does that help you feel connected and close to him? 1057 00:39:55,185 --> 00:39:57,146 - No, that's some shit I just want do 1058 00:39:57,146 --> 00:39:59,064 'cause I'm bored. - Now see, what I just say? 1059 00:39:59,064 --> 00:40:00,732 This is about telling the truth. 1060 00:40:01,733 --> 00:40:02,568 - That was the truth. 1061 00:40:02,568 --> 00:40:04,278 - And you know damn well that's not the truth. 1062 00:40:04,278 --> 00:40:05,904 - [Blueface] You be bored? 1063 00:40:05,904 --> 00:40:07,656 - What? - That's why you do it 1064 00:40:07,656 --> 00:40:09,241 'cause you be bored? 1065 00:40:09,241 --> 00:40:11,535 - I mean like, not like bored but like free time. 1066 00:40:11,535 --> 00:40:13,787 On my free time time my nigga, dang yeah that's fun. 1067 00:40:13,787 --> 00:40:15,998 - Chrisean look at me. - What? 1068 00:40:15,998 --> 00:40:18,917 - That makes zero sense. - I don't make sense. 1069 00:40:18,917 --> 00:40:19,751 That's the thing about, 1070 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:20,919 it's not here for you. - No, no, no. 1071 00:40:20,919 --> 00:40:23,464 You do make sense when you're telling the truth. 1072 00:40:23,464 --> 00:40:24,923 - Don't help me feel shit, 1073 00:40:24,923 --> 00:40:27,009 I just like that shit, I like him. 1074 00:40:27,009 --> 00:40:27,843 I get what you saying. 1075 00:40:27,843 --> 00:40:30,554 - You have his face on your neck, right? 1076 00:40:30,554 --> 00:40:31,638 - Okay, I said yeah. 1077 00:40:31,638 --> 00:40:34,975 - So that means right, that's saying something. 1078 00:40:34,975 --> 00:40:36,351 - That I'm his. 1079 00:40:36,351 --> 00:40:38,312 - Okay, so that's the truth, 1080 00:40:38,312 --> 00:40:39,980 why is that so hard for you to go there. 1081 00:40:39,980 --> 00:40:43,400 And how do you feel about it? - I like it, yeah. 1082 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,319 It's not something I request or anything, 1083 00:40:45,319 --> 00:40:46,695 but it's hard not to like. 1084 00:40:46,695 --> 00:40:49,239 - It's like a nice accessory. 1085 00:40:50,908 --> 00:40:54,703 - So listen, here's where we are guys. 1086 00:40:54,703 --> 00:40:55,621 - Yeah, where we at? - You know, 1087 00:40:55,621 --> 00:40:59,541 y'all are very, very different in some ways, 1088 00:40:59,541 --> 00:41:01,919 and then y'all are very, very alike in a lot of ways. 1089 00:41:01,919 --> 00:41:04,087 And the way that I have found that y'all are alike tonight 1090 00:41:04,087 --> 00:41:09,092 is when I ask each one of you what you want from this, 1091 00:41:09,176 --> 00:41:11,386 neither one of you can give a straight answer. 1092 00:41:11,386 --> 00:41:14,806 And both of you say 1093 00:41:14,806 --> 00:41:17,559 that you want something for the other person, 1094 00:41:17,559 --> 00:41:18,685 but both of you struggled 1095 00:41:18,685 --> 00:41:22,439 when it came to saying what is it that I want from this? 1096 00:41:22,439 --> 00:41:24,358 It's not sustainable. 1097 00:41:24,358 --> 00:41:25,984 'Cause I've seen a lot of couples like y'all 1098 00:41:25,984 --> 00:41:28,737 who thought that nothing was ever gonna 1099 00:41:28,737 --> 00:41:29,988 blow that house down, 1100 00:41:29,988 --> 00:41:32,074 and you know where they are, not together. 1101 00:41:33,867 --> 00:41:35,369 Hey Chrisean, come on. 1102 00:41:35,369 --> 00:41:36,495 You're a grown woman now, 1103 00:41:36,495 --> 00:41:39,206 this is the time to act grown, come on. 1104 00:41:39,206 --> 00:41:42,501 (Chrisean and Blueface laughing) 1105 00:41:42,501 --> 00:41:44,127 - Y'all gotta see his face. 1106 00:41:44,127 --> 00:41:47,005 - Does she always not listen like this? 1107 00:41:47,005 --> 00:41:48,507 - Her name is Rockhead doc. 1108 00:41:50,425 --> 00:41:51,260 - Bet. 1109 00:41:52,177 --> 00:41:53,178 - What? 1110 00:41:53,178 --> 00:41:56,014 - So grab her hand, look at each other now. 1111 00:41:56,014 --> 00:41:57,474 Look at each other like y'all love each other, 1112 00:41:57,474 --> 00:41:58,642 what's happening here? 1113 00:41:58,642 --> 00:42:00,435 - She tries to distract you. 1114 00:42:00,435 --> 00:42:04,982 I feel like giving less energy 1115 00:42:06,191 --> 00:42:07,734 but you know that already. 1116 00:42:07,734 --> 00:42:09,111 - When you do the burst thing, 1117 00:42:09,111 --> 00:42:10,571 the emotional outbursts, 1118 00:42:10,571 --> 00:42:13,615 he says then I feel like giving it less energy 1119 00:42:13,615 --> 00:42:14,825 so he pulls away. 1120 00:42:14,825 --> 00:42:16,994 - Babe you can pull away, I don't care, what? 1121 00:42:16,994 --> 00:42:19,705 - But you got seven tattoos of him on your body. 1122 00:42:19,705 --> 00:42:21,081 - Yeah, I care about him. - He pulls away 1123 00:42:21,081 --> 00:42:22,040 and you don't care? 1124 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:23,959 - You can do what you want, like just. 1125 00:42:25,043 --> 00:42:27,170 What, I'm chilling. 1126 00:42:27,170 --> 00:42:28,714 I would already left if I didn't like it. 1127 00:42:28,714 --> 00:42:31,341 - You know you're working real hard not to go deep. 1128 00:42:31,341 --> 00:42:32,593 - I'm not. - And that tells me 1129 00:42:32,593 --> 00:42:35,637 that there's a lot of emotion under there darling. 1130 00:42:36,805 --> 00:42:39,474 And I know it is 'cause he sees it everyday. 1131 00:42:39,474 --> 00:42:41,476 Matter of fact he said he sees it four times a day. 1132 00:42:41,476 --> 00:42:42,519 - If I don't like something 1133 00:42:42,519 --> 00:42:45,272 and I feel like if it's not worth me saying anything, 1134 00:42:45,272 --> 00:42:46,815 I'm going to do something. 1135 00:42:48,525 --> 00:42:49,735 - And what's the thing that's happened 1136 00:42:49,735 --> 00:42:51,153 that you're not liking? 1137 00:42:51,153 --> 00:42:53,780 - What, what do I have to say? - Give me an example. 1138 00:42:53,780 --> 00:42:54,656 For example? 1139 00:42:57,451 --> 00:42:58,910 (Chrisean chuckles) 1140 00:42:58,910 --> 00:43:00,287 Well it's not funny because it keep happening 1141 00:43:00,287 --> 00:43:01,371 y'all are not gonna stay together. 1142 00:43:01,371 --> 00:43:02,205 You understand that, right? 1143 00:43:02,205 --> 00:43:04,625 - You take the lowest, what? 1144 00:43:04,625 --> 00:43:06,710 - Go ahead. - Go ahead. 1145 00:43:06,710 --> 00:43:07,878 You're gonna give me an example 1146 00:43:07,878 --> 00:43:10,047 of something happened that you don't like 1147 00:43:10,047 --> 00:43:11,381 that just helps you wanna flip out. 1148 00:43:11,381 --> 00:43:13,592 - I'm don't wanna talk more about it. 1149 00:43:13,592 --> 00:43:16,845 (suspenseful music) 1150 00:43:16,845 --> 00:43:18,889 - Guess we'll go with other women. 1151 00:43:18,889 --> 00:43:19,723 - Say that again? 1152 00:43:19,723 --> 00:43:21,808 - I said I guess we'll go with other women. 1153 00:43:21,808 --> 00:43:22,643 - So say that. 1154 00:43:22,643 --> 00:43:24,353 If that's what it is, say that. 1155 00:43:24,353 --> 00:43:25,979 - It's not just that, 1156 00:43:25,979 --> 00:43:26,897 I don't know what to say. 1157 00:43:26,897 --> 00:43:28,482 - If that's one of the things, right, 1158 00:43:28,482 --> 00:43:29,608 if that's what it is, tell him, 1159 00:43:29,608 --> 00:43:33,654 "Hey, when you pull other women into this, into our thing, 1160 00:43:33,654 --> 00:43:34,488 "I'm about to lose it, 1161 00:43:34,488 --> 00:43:35,864 "I'm about to lose my shit." 1162 00:43:35,864 --> 00:43:38,367 Tell him, grab his hand and tell him. 1163 00:43:38,367 --> 00:43:40,869 - Nah, I just really feel like it's like a risk. 1164 00:43:40,869 --> 00:43:42,954 - Tell him. - Oh, it's so annoying. 1165 00:43:42,954 --> 00:43:44,331 - Look at him and tell him. 1166 00:43:45,207 --> 00:43:46,917 That's your man over there, right? 1167 00:43:46,917 --> 00:43:49,378 - Okay. - Tell your man girl. 1168 00:43:49,378 --> 00:43:50,879 - Oh you my man, okay. 1169 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,216 All right, what am I supposed to tell this nigga? 1170 00:43:54,216 --> 00:43:56,093 - The thing that you're trying not to say 1171 00:43:56,093 --> 00:43:57,511 because you're trying not to be vulnerable 1172 00:43:57,511 --> 00:43:58,720 and you're trying to be so hard. 1173 00:43:58,720 --> 00:44:00,389 - I'm not trying to be hard. 1174 00:44:01,556 --> 00:44:03,058 This is who I am. 1175 00:44:03,058 --> 00:44:04,518 When other woman comes in the picture, 1176 00:44:04,518 --> 00:44:06,895 I feel like it's just risk whatever we got going on, 1177 00:44:06,895 --> 00:44:08,939 that's it, and I'm very like territorial. 1178 00:44:10,607 --> 00:44:11,441 - Repeat it back to her, 1179 00:44:11,441 --> 00:44:12,275 what'd you just hear her say. 1180 00:44:12,275 --> 00:44:13,276 - Well it's vice versa, 1181 00:44:13,276 --> 00:44:14,194 it's is like how you feel about like how me. 1182 00:44:14,194 --> 00:44:15,821 - When I bring other women in, 1183 00:44:15,821 --> 00:44:18,323 it makes her feel like there's a risk of- 1184 00:44:18,323 --> 00:44:20,409 - Like whatever we got going on. 1185 00:44:20,409 --> 00:44:22,744 - Risk of what we got going on - It's not a insecure part, 1186 00:44:22,744 --> 00:44:27,207 but it's like why are you have to deal with that part? 1187 00:44:27,207 --> 00:44:28,625 - Ask him, that's a great question. 1188 00:44:28,625 --> 00:44:29,835 - I don't wanna ask that question 1189 00:44:29,835 --> 00:44:32,337 'cause I know the answer to it. 1190 00:44:32,337 --> 00:44:33,922 - Let's get his answer, ask him. 1191 00:44:33,922 --> 00:44:34,840 - I know the answer to it, 1192 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:35,674 that's what he wanna do, 1193 00:44:35,674 --> 00:44:37,134 what do you mean? - Ask him that question. 1194 00:44:37,134 --> 00:44:38,135 - Oh God. 1195 00:44:38,135 --> 00:44:39,553 - Here's here to listen, right. 1196 00:44:39,553 --> 00:44:41,096 He's trying to fight for this thing like you are. 1197 00:44:41,096 --> 00:44:43,223 Now either you gonna fight for it or not. 1198 00:44:43,223 --> 00:44:45,142 Grab her hand, right. - Spit that shit. 1199 00:44:45,142 --> 00:44:46,643 - This is not the time to pull away. 1200 00:44:46,643 --> 00:44:48,812 See what she's doing now, right? 1201 00:44:48,812 --> 00:44:50,105 This is the time to engage her. 1202 00:44:50,105 --> 00:44:51,022 - Spit it out. 1203 00:44:51,022 --> 00:44:53,275 - Alright baby, I don't wanna talk no more. 1204 00:44:53,275 --> 00:44:56,236 Can we go? 1205 00:44:56,236 --> 00:44:59,448 You got enough problems of yours, don't be slipping. 1206 00:44:59,448 --> 00:45:00,782 Forget him. 1207 00:45:00,782 --> 00:45:01,867 - Come on, tell me. 1208 00:45:01,867 --> 00:45:03,910 - I'm talking, I'm telling, let's go. 1209 00:45:05,287 --> 00:45:07,539 - So do y'all have an open relationship? 1210 00:45:07,539 --> 00:45:08,790 Like what's the status? 1211 00:45:08,790 --> 00:45:10,333 Is this supposed to be exclusive or no? 1212 00:45:10,333 --> 00:45:12,169 - No, it's like he can do what he do 1213 00:45:12,169 --> 00:45:13,420 and I just gotta be cool. 1214 00:45:16,465 --> 00:45:18,550 I don't know, that's what it is. 1215 00:45:18,550 --> 00:45:19,760 - Is that accurate Blue? 1216 00:45:21,094 --> 00:45:24,973 - No, not necessarily. - Oh he lying. 1217 00:45:24,973 --> 00:45:25,807 - She just- 1218 00:45:25,807 --> 00:45:26,933 - He be checking my phone all types of shit, 1219 00:45:26,933 --> 00:45:28,518 being all types of shit, all types of shit. 1220 00:45:28,518 --> 00:45:29,352 - Talk to him. 1221 00:45:29,352 --> 00:45:31,062 - And if I get to checking his phone, 1222 00:45:33,273 --> 00:45:34,691 it's like I can't pull that card. 1223 00:45:34,691 --> 00:45:35,776 He pull this card, 1224 00:45:35,776 --> 00:45:39,529 I gotta like be a good girl and not be like, 1225 00:45:39,529 --> 00:45:41,156 oh I'm sorry 'cause he's upset, 1226 00:45:41,156 --> 00:45:43,074 I gotta like say, "Fuck it." 1227 00:45:44,493 --> 00:45:45,535 And when I didn't say fuck it, 1228 00:45:45,535 --> 00:45:47,245 I didn't like it anyway, like, 1229 00:45:47,245 --> 00:45:49,748 but it didn't do nothing for me, like I didn't- 1230 00:45:49,748 --> 00:45:50,874 - Why didn't it do anything for you? 1231 00:45:50,874 --> 00:45:52,417 Tell him that part. 1232 00:45:52,417 --> 00:45:53,835 - Because I like him so much. 1233 00:45:53,835 --> 00:45:55,086 - Tell him that part. 1234 00:45:55,086 --> 00:45:55,921 Look at him and tell him - He knows that. 1235 00:45:55,921 --> 00:45:57,255 - Don't talk to me, talk to him. 1236 00:45:57,255 --> 00:45:58,465 - I told him already. 1237 00:45:58,465 --> 00:45:59,299 - Tell him again. 1238 00:45:59,299 --> 00:46:00,258 Look how he's looking at you right now. 1239 00:46:00,258 --> 00:46:02,219 - Why is he looking at me like that? 1240 00:46:02,219 --> 00:46:04,346 Babe, what you look like. 1241 00:46:04,346 --> 00:46:06,223 Babe, what are we talking about? 1242 00:46:06,223 --> 00:46:08,850 I don't like this, it's uncomfortable. 1243 00:46:08,850 --> 00:46:10,227 - That means you're growing a little bit. 1244 00:46:10,227 --> 00:46:11,061 - Now I gotta get drunk. 1245 00:46:11,061 --> 00:46:12,062 - No, that means you're growing, 1246 00:46:12,062 --> 00:46:13,647 that means you're feeling something real 1247 00:46:13,647 --> 00:46:15,232 and you're growing a little bit, 1248 00:46:15,232 --> 00:46:16,191 that's what it feels like. 1249 00:46:16,191 --> 00:46:18,652 - Are you feeling it? - Feeling what? 1250 00:46:18,652 --> 00:46:21,154 - Something real. - What's real? 1251 00:46:21,154 --> 00:46:24,115 - He just said we feeling something. 1252 00:46:24,115 --> 00:46:25,659 - You said, "I don't like this, it's uncomfortable." 1253 00:46:25,659 --> 00:46:27,786 I said, "Yeah that's what growth feels like." 1254 00:46:27,786 --> 00:46:29,204 It feels very uncomfortable. 1255 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,456 It's embarrassing, it makes you feel shame, 1256 00:46:31,456 --> 00:46:32,791 it makes you feel all these things. 1257 00:46:32,791 --> 00:46:35,877 But on the other side of it is growth 1258 00:46:35,877 --> 00:46:36,711 because the next time you feel it 1259 00:46:36,711 --> 00:46:38,213 you know what to do with it. 1260 00:46:38,213 --> 00:46:39,923 - Right. - And you don't have to tweak. 1261 00:46:39,923 --> 00:46:41,716 You can just deal with it. - I'm gonna tweet. 1262 00:46:41,716 --> 00:46:46,721 - You're very good at making uncomfortable moments funny. 1263 00:46:46,763 --> 00:46:48,306 Which is cool because that's the most- 1264 00:46:48,306 --> 00:46:49,140 (Chrisean laughing) 1265 00:46:49,140 --> 00:46:50,684 Because well, lemme tell you something right, 1266 00:46:50,684 --> 00:46:52,227 I'm about to give you a compliment, 1267 00:46:52,227 --> 00:46:54,813 that is the most intelligent defense mechanism that we have. 1268 00:46:54,813 --> 00:46:56,565 - Can we get a bigger couch? 1269 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,942 - You sit right there. - Why? 1270 00:46:58,942 --> 00:47:01,820 - So listen guys, we're gonna wrap this up. 1271 00:47:02,946 --> 00:47:04,739 Y'all did good, all right. 1272 00:47:06,199 --> 00:47:07,576 - Are you okay? - Thanks. 1273 00:47:08,743 --> 00:47:10,078 - We're done? - Yes ma'am. 1274 00:47:10,078 --> 00:47:11,204 - This was great. 1275 00:47:12,455 --> 00:47:14,875 Thank you Mr. Ish. - You're welcome. 1276 00:47:14,875 --> 00:47:16,918 - Dr. Ish. - Dr. Ish. 1277 00:47:16,918 --> 00:47:18,628 - Pray for me man. 1278 00:47:18,628 --> 00:47:20,839 - I will. - Why you trying to be funny? 1279 00:47:20,839 --> 00:47:21,673 - I told him to pray for me. 1280 00:47:21,673 --> 00:47:22,757 - He need to pray for me. 1281 00:47:24,050 --> 00:47:25,927 - I'll pray for both of y'all 1282 00:47:25,927 --> 00:47:27,387 'cause I just want y'all to be happy. 1283 00:47:27,387 --> 00:47:29,055 - Yeah, don't be like pray for me man. 1284 00:47:29,055 --> 00:47:30,640 That's not a cool joke. 1285 00:47:32,183 --> 00:47:34,060 I need the prayer, not you. 1286 00:47:35,437 --> 00:47:36,271 - Woo. 1287 00:47:38,273 --> 00:47:40,191 - [Chrisean] Oh y'all are questioning? 1288 00:47:42,652 --> 00:47:45,864 Well now what, action can we go home? 1289 00:47:45,864 --> 00:47:48,450 (gentle music) 1290 00:47:58,668 --> 00:48:02,088 (gentle music continues) 1291 00:48:18,271 --> 00:48:21,691 (gentle music continues) 1292 00:48:31,368 --> 00:48:33,954 (somber music) 1293 00:48:40,961 --> 00:48:44,381 (somber music continues) 1294 00:48:50,804 --> 00:48:54,224 (somber music continues) 1295 00:49:00,897 --> 00:49:04,317 (somber music continues) 1296 00:49:21,334 --> 00:49:24,170 (slow jazz music) 1297 00:49:27,048 --> 00:49:30,051 - [Blueface] Never have I ever cheated, damn. 1298 00:49:30,051 --> 00:49:31,511 - [Chrisean] While we be together? 1299 00:49:31,511 --> 00:49:33,430 - [Blueface] Or anybody in your whole entire life. 1300 00:49:33,430 --> 00:49:37,100 - You may kiss the bride. - Babe. 1301 00:49:37,100 --> 00:49:38,018 - Why you crying? 1302 00:49:40,145 --> 00:49:41,688 - Some say he's toxic, 1303 00:49:41,688 --> 00:49:43,356 some say he's super real, 1304 00:49:43,356 --> 00:49:45,358 some say that's hood love. 1305 00:49:45,358 --> 00:49:46,192 - I'm here for you. 1306 00:49:46,192 --> 00:49:48,820 I came all the way to Baltimore to meet your family. 1307 00:49:50,530 --> 00:49:52,824 - Where you going. - Oh shit, she taking, my toe. 1308 00:49:52,824 --> 00:49:53,992 There we go right there. 1309 00:49:56,911 --> 00:49:58,371 - Fuck all of you nigga. 1310 00:49:58,371 --> 00:50:01,291 - Oh yeah, yeah. - I don't give a fuck. 1311 00:50:01,291 --> 00:50:04,044 - He's like keeping tabs on me, got my location, 1312 00:50:04,044 --> 00:50:06,171 making sure I come home at 3:00 AM. 1313 00:50:06,171 --> 00:50:08,173 - There comes a point where you gotta tap in with yourself. 1314 00:50:08,173 --> 00:50:10,717 It'll tear you apart if you let it. 1315 00:50:10,717 --> 00:50:12,635 - Are you ready for court? - No. 1316 00:50:12,635 --> 00:50:13,970 You're not coming with me. 1317 00:50:13,970 --> 00:50:15,346 - But you'll be back in one day. 1318 00:50:15,346 --> 00:50:17,974 (upbeat music) 1319 00:50:17,974 --> 00:50:20,435 - You have been charged with possession with intent, 1320 00:50:20,435 --> 00:50:23,021 she would not reduce that to a misdemeanor. 1321 00:50:23,021 --> 00:50:26,649 (upbeat music) (Chrisean crying) 1322 00:50:26,649 --> 00:50:28,902 - You wanna see my head? 1323 00:50:28,902 --> 00:50:30,195 You see it looks like. 1324 00:50:30,195 --> 00:50:31,613 If I just let her do what she do, 1325 00:50:31,613 --> 00:50:33,490 she'll run over me all day long. 1326 00:50:33,490 --> 00:50:34,449 ♪ Court date after court date ♪ 1327 00:50:34,449 --> 00:50:35,700 ♪ It's always the same old shit ♪ 1328 00:50:35,700 --> 00:50:38,286 ♪ Man lil man I be a dad to my brother's kids ♪ 1329 00:50:38,286 --> 00:50:40,371 ♪ God forbid I get locked up for something ♪ 1330 00:50:40,371 --> 00:50:41,831 - Know that shit girl and all that, 1331 00:50:41,831 --> 00:50:44,626 but we trying to dig ourselves out of the ditch. 1332 00:50:44,626 --> 00:50:46,461 - [Chrisean] I get what you talking about, the negative, 1333 00:50:46,461 --> 00:50:49,756 cool that's some regular ass shit that can be fixed. 1334 00:50:49,756 --> 00:50:51,633 - You poppin' it way too much. - What you doing? 1335 00:50:51,633 --> 00:50:53,009 - Outta nowhere I came home, 1336 00:50:53,009 --> 00:50:55,428 your mama wasn't chilling no more I'm like oh. 1337 00:50:55,428 --> 00:50:56,513 (both laughing) 1338 00:50:56,513 --> 00:50:57,722 - Yeah, I get a little crazy. 1339 00:50:57,722 --> 00:50:58,556 - Fuck with me bitch. 1340 00:50:58,556 --> 00:51:02,102 Hey queen, don't let him call you a bitch again. 1341 00:51:03,311 --> 00:51:04,854 Bust the head open again. 1342 00:51:04,854 --> 00:51:06,481 All right shawty, I got you. 1343 00:51:06,481 --> 00:51:07,482 We got this. 1344 00:51:08,733 --> 00:51:11,486 ♪ Hanging in the ghetto ♪ 1345 00:51:11,486 --> 00:51:13,780 ♪ I'm tryna fight for something inside of this ♪ 1346 00:51:13,780 --> 00:51:15,990 ♪ Something gotta give ♪ 1347 00:51:15,990 --> 00:51:18,368 (slow music)