1 00:00:05,463 --> 00:00:07,590 [dramatic music] 2 00:00:07,674 --> 00:00:09,050 - What happened with me and you 3 00:00:09,134 --> 00:00:11,052 could have happened to anybody. 4 00:00:11,136 --> 00:00:13,888 - For you to say that it was, like, no personal energy... 5 00:00:13,972 --> 00:00:15,473 - I don't know you, bro. I don't really care. 6 00:00:15,557 --> 00:00:17,851 - I think that's cap, bro. I think that's cap. 7 00:00:17,934 --> 00:00:19,811 - I've talked shit about you, bro. 8 00:00:19,894 --> 00:00:21,604 Rob has been right there next to me. 9 00:00:21,688 --> 00:00:23,606 So when it came to the Bri shit, 10 00:00:23,690 --> 00:00:24,607 bro, what the fuck? 11 00:00:24,691 --> 00:00:26,151 Like, you defended a nigga 12 00:00:26,234 --> 00:00:29,320 that we done, like, kind of talked shit about. 13 00:00:30,530 --> 00:00:31,781 You had to get checked, bro. 14 00:00:31,865 --> 00:00:33,199 - Jaylenn! Jaylenn, what the fuck? 15 00:00:33,283 --> 00:00:35,118 [indistinct yelling] 16 00:00:35,201 --> 00:00:37,287 ♪ ♪ 17 00:00:37,370 --> 00:00:38,538 - Hey, Rob! 18 00:00:40,832 --> 00:00:42,041 - Why'd y'all call me over? 19 00:00:42,125 --> 00:00:43,918 It feels like y'all getting to it. 20 00:00:44,002 --> 00:00:45,962 - He was saying that prior to all this, 21 00:00:46,045 --> 00:00:48,423 y'all both felt some type of way about me or, like, 22 00:00:48,506 --> 00:00:50,842 talked shit behind my back or whatever. 23 00:00:53,887 --> 00:00:55,138 - Why is Jay bringing me 24 00:00:55,221 --> 00:00:56,765 into this situation with him and P'Jae? 25 00:00:56,848 --> 00:00:58,600 I'm on a high right now from the comedy show, 26 00:00:58,683 --> 00:01:01,686 so I'm not expecting to be dragged into some more drama. 27 00:01:01,770 --> 00:01:05,064 I don't know, it's kind of fucked up at this point. 28 00:01:07,567 --> 00:01:09,235 - For me, P'Jae, I ain't gonna lie, 29 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,571 I feel like, yeah, there might have been some times 30 00:01:11,654 --> 00:01:13,740 where because I didn't know you, I was saying 31 00:01:13,823 --> 00:01:16,826 some things that you might not have been favorable about. 32 00:01:16,910 --> 00:01:18,036 I didn't know you. 33 00:01:18,119 --> 00:01:19,496 Now I've--getting to know you, 34 00:01:19,579 --> 00:01:21,122 those things may not be the same thing. 35 00:01:21,206 --> 00:01:22,624 You know? - I hear you, bro, but look. 36 00:01:22,707 --> 00:01:26,002 Do you feel like y'all knew me enough 37 00:01:26,085 --> 00:01:28,171 to even speak on me like that? 38 00:01:28,254 --> 00:01:30,381 Like, I wasn't even speaking on y'all behind y'all back. 39 00:01:30,465 --> 00:01:32,133 - Nobody's speaking about you personally, though, bro. 40 00:01:32,217 --> 00:01:34,010 That's the thing. Like, I think you're trying to-- 41 00:01:34,093 --> 00:01:35,595 - So what would you call it? - It's old shit, bro. 42 00:01:35,678 --> 00:01:37,806 With the whole Becky and Myami shit, 43 00:01:37,889 --> 00:01:40,391 I'm just honestly doing what a real nigga does 44 00:01:40,475 --> 00:01:42,018 and clearing the air now, bro. 45 00:01:42,101 --> 00:01:44,020 You think niggas not talking about you, bro, 46 00:01:44,103 --> 00:01:45,939 because they haven't said it to your face, nigga. 47 00:01:46,022 --> 00:01:47,857 - I'm sure-- - I'm telling you, bro. 48 00:01:47,941 --> 00:01:51,194 It goes back to him breaking up with Becky on the boat 49 00:01:51,277 --> 00:01:52,987 or him always, like, looking like he, like, 50 00:01:53,071 --> 00:01:55,782 is in a--he's flustered in an argument with these women. 51 00:01:55,865 --> 00:01:57,116 You doing some lame shit. 52 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,535 You feel me? If it walk like a duck, 53 00:01:58,618 --> 00:02:00,036 quack like a duck, it's a duck. 54 00:02:00,119 --> 00:02:02,330 Like, you being lame, it's lame, you lame. 55 00:02:02,413 --> 00:02:04,499 - Hold that, you feel me? 56 00:02:04,582 --> 00:02:05,959 Niggas talking behind my back or whatever, 57 00:02:06,042 --> 00:02:07,544 I'm not really with that. 58 00:02:07,627 --> 00:02:09,045 I don't get down like that, you know what I'm saying? 59 00:02:09,128 --> 00:02:11,589 So I'ma let y'all have this right here, bro. 60 00:02:11,673 --> 00:02:14,050 I'll get at you another time, but right now, 61 00:02:14,133 --> 00:02:15,218 I'm just not feeling it, bro. 62 00:02:15,301 --> 00:02:16,427 - I get that. 63 00:02:16,511 --> 00:02:17,846 - So I'll catch y'all later, brother. 64 00:02:17,929 --> 00:02:20,181 - I get that. I get that. - A'ight? A'ight. 65 00:02:22,976 --> 00:02:25,895 - Oh, that nigga is lame. 66 00:02:25,979 --> 00:02:28,398 [Blxst's "Gang Slide"] 67 00:02:28,481 --> 00:02:31,651 - ♪ It was a midnight gang slide ♪ 68 00:02:31,734 --> 00:02:34,737 ♪ I had to pull up, get right ♪ 69 00:02:34,821 --> 00:02:37,949 ♪ A stick and move on the Westside ♪ 70 00:02:38,032 --> 00:02:41,035 ♪ 'Cause you know you give me the best high, ayy ♪ 71 00:02:41,119 --> 00:02:44,247 ♪ It was a midnight gang slide ♪ 72 00:02:44,330 --> 00:02:47,292 ♪ I had to pull up, get right ♪ 73 00:02:47,375 --> 00:02:50,628 ♪ A stick and move on the Westside ♪ 74 00:02:50,712 --> 00:02:54,841 ♪ 'Cause you know you give me the best high, ayy ♪ 75 00:02:54,924 --> 00:03:01,097 ♪ ♪ 76 00:03:01,180 --> 00:03:04,225 [Hope Tala & Aminé's "Cherries"] 77 00:03:04,309 --> 00:03:06,185 ♪ ♪ 78 00:03:06,269 --> 00:03:08,688 - ♪ The cherries in your mouth spill stars ♪ 79 00:03:08,771 --> 00:03:11,232 ♪ Scarlet venom to keep in jam jars ♪ 80 00:03:11,316 --> 00:03:13,443 ♪ We all build worlds with joined-up scars ♪ 81 00:03:13,526 --> 00:03:16,404 ♪ But your constellation has stained my guitar ♪ 82 00:03:16,487 --> 00:03:18,239 ♪ And the French in your mouth ♪ 83 00:03:18,323 --> 00:03:19,949 - Yo, how you gonna pack this? 84 00:03:20,033 --> 00:03:21,242 - I'm gonna carry it on the plane. 85 00:03:21,326 --> 00:03:22,410 - You gonna carry it? - Mm-hmm. 86 00:03:22,493 --> 00:03:23,786 - TSA gonna let that through? 87 00:03:23,870 --> 00:03:25,830 - Um, they let me bring it here. 88 00:03:25,914 --> 00:03:26,873 - Okay. 89 00:03:26,956 --> 00:03:28,291 What else you need help with? 90 00:03:28,374 --> 00:03:29,918 - Nothing, really, honestly. 91 00:03:30,001 --> 00:03:31,794 I don't want you all in my luggage, I'll be honest. 92 00:03:31,878 --> 00:03:33,421 I have dirty clothes in here. 93 00:03:33,504 --> 00:03:35,340 - Well, yeah, I mean, you got your toothbrush out, 94 00:03:35,423 --> 00:03:36,507 all raw. 95 00:03:36,591 --> 00:03:38,927 [laughter] 96 00:03:39,010 --> 00:03:40,303 - Oh, I had to charge it. 97 00:03:40,386 --> 00:03:42,639 You know it died last night. - Yeah. 98 00:03:42,722 --> 00:03:45,141 - I had fun last night. - I know. Me too. 99 00:03:45,224 --> 00:03:47,477 Oh, man. How was the trip overall, though? 100 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:48,978 - It was really fun. 101 00:03:49,062 --> 00:03:50,647 I feel like I got some good girl time. 102 00:03:50,730 --> 00:03:52,523 I feel like we had some time together. 103 00:03:52,607 --> 00:03:54,317 - Okay. 104 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,153 - Look, I don't want this to be the end of it, you know? 105 00:03:57,236 --> 00:03:58,905 - It's not gonna be. 106 00:03:58,988 --> 00:04:00,365 It's really not. 107 00:04:00,448 --> 00:04:02,158 - Like, I really like you, and... 108 00:04:02,241 --> 00:04:03,660 yeah, this was fun. 109 00:04:03,743 --> 00:04:05,662 - No, this was a lot of fun, and I like you too. 110 00:04:05,745 --> 00:04:07,497 But I'm sure you know that. 111 00:04:07,580 --> 00:04:10,583 - It's giving long-distance lover, okay? 112 00:04:10,667 --> 00:04:12,502 After spending time with Petiri in New York, 113 00:04:12,585 --> 00:04:14,170 I feel really hopeful that we can make 114 00:04:14,253 --> 00:04:15,964 this long-distance shit work. 115 00:04:16,047 --> 00:04:18,174 It just always feels so good to be in person 116 00:04:18,257 --> 00:04:21,010 and to just really be able to feel each other's energy. 117 00:04:21,094 --> 00:04:24,013 And it just makes leaving him so much harder. 118 00:04:25,098 --> 00:04:26,474 [sighs] Thank you. 119 00:04:26,557 --> 00:04:28,226 Oh, my God. It's so cold. 120 00:04:28,309 --> 00:04:29,769 - Just a little brick. - Mm-hmm. 121 00:04:29,852 --> 00:04:32,063 I'm gonna miss you. - Gonna miss you too. 122 00:04:32,146 --> 00:04:33,773 - Are you really? - Mm-hmm. 123 00:04:33,856 --> 00:04:36,025 - Okay. You gonna come see me? - Only if you come see me. 124 00:04:36,109 --> 00:04:37,402 - And we'll figure out long distance. 125 00:04:37,485 --> 00:04:38,736 - Yeah. 126 00:04:38,820 --> 00:04:39,904 - 'Cause I want to be able to touch you. 127 00:04:39,988 --> 00:04:41,030 - Yeah, me too. - Often. 128 00:04:41,114 --> 00:04:42,949 - Yeah. Thanks for coming out. 129 00:04:43,032 --> 00:04:45,118 Tell your peoples I said thank you, too, 130 00:04:45,201 --> 00:04:47,161 and Becky for giving me some of your time. 131 00:04:47,245 --> 00:04:50,707 - I will. I have to make it up to her, honestly still, but... 132 00:04:50,790 --> 00:04:52,709 Okay. - See you. 133 00:04:52,792 --> 00:04:54,794 - I'll miss you. I'll miss you so much. 134 00:04:54,877 --> 00:04:56,713 - Mm, yup. 135 00:04:58,798 --> 00:05:00,133 - Okay. [chuckles] 136 00:05:00,216 --> 00:05:01,634 - I'ma holla at you. - Get home safe, okay? 137 00:05:01,718 --> 00:05:03,803 - You too. Safe flight. 138 00:05:03,886 --> 00:05:06,806 [soft music] 139 00:05:06,889 --> 00:05:13,563 ♪ ♪ 140 00:05:13,646 --> 00:05:16,065 - Oh, my goodness. 141 00:05:16,149 --> 00:05:18,651 [Bas & Gunna's "Admire Her"] 142 00:05:18,735 --> 00:05:20,528 - ♪ I'm in my bag, I roll up a sack ♪ 143 00:05:20,611 --> 00:05:22,238 ♪ And pull up beside her, huh ♪ 144 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:23,865 ♪ Follow the passion, she hit the gas ♪ 145 00:05:23,948 --> 00:05:25,575 ♪ And put out the fire, you know ♪ 146 00:05:25,658 --> 00:05:27,535 ♪ The shit in the past, she movin' right past ♪ 147 00:05:27,618 --> 00:05:28,995 ♪ You gotta admire her, yeah ♪ 148 00:05:29,078 --> 00:05:30,747 ♪ Gotta admire her, yeah ♪ 149 00:05:30,830 --> 00:05:32,373 ♪ Gotta admire her ♪ 150 00:05:32,457 --> 00:05:34,417 ♪ I'm not with the act, I pull out my cash ♪ 151 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:37,253 ♪ Gotta admire her ♪ 152 00:05:37,336 --> 00:05:38,379 - Hi. - Hey. 153 00:05:38,463 --> 00:05:40,882 Oh. - Yee-hee. You see? 154 00:05:40,965 --> 00:05:42,216 - You got me bagels? 155 00:05:42,300 --> 00:05:43,593 - You know I'm the full package, girl. 156 00:05:43,676 --> 00:05:45,553 - Aw, thank you. 157 00:05:45,636 --> 00:05:48,514 - There's coffee. - Thank you. Thank you. 158 00:05:48,598 --> 00:05:50,099 both: Mwah! 159 00:05:50,183 --> 00:05:52,060 - Reeeeh! - [laughs] Oh, my-- 160 00:05:52,143 --> 00:05:53,770 - So you back at it, huh? 161 00:05:53,853 --> 00:05:55,605 - Mm-hmm. - Just right back to it? 162 00:05:55,688 --> 00:05:57,106 You're not gonna take a chill pill? 163 00:05:57,190 --> 00:06:01,527 - No. After New York, like, less chill. 164 00:06:01,611 --> 00:06:02,904 - While you was out there, you know, 165 00:06:02,987 --> 00:06:04,447 we was at the comedy show for Rob. 166 00:06:04,530 --> 00:06:06,157 - And how did that go? I didn't get no calls. 167 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:07,492 - Like, he's real professional, bro. 168 00:06:07,575 --> 00:06:09,285 He had me rolling. - Mm-hmm. 169 00:06:09,368 --> 00:06:11,120 - So I'm just glad, you know what I mean, he didn't bomb. 170 00:06:11,204 --> 00:06:14,165 Yeah, and then me and P'Jae had a face-to-face. 171 00:06:15,458 --> 00:06:18,086 I don't think that we came to, like, a agreement. 172 00:06:18,169 --> 00:06:19,962 You know what I mean? - Yeah, but that's a trend. 173 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:22,423 - Yes. I was low-key arguing back with him. 174 00:06:22,507 --> 00:06:23,925 Like, bro, it was nothing personal. 175 00:06:24,008 --> 00:06:25,635 Kind of just was, like, a respect thing. 176 00:06:25,718 --> 00:06:27,512 And out of respect, I told P'Jae, like, "Yeah, bro, 177 00:06:27,595 --> 00:06:30,890 "like, me and Rob have talked shit about you, bro, 178 00:06:30,973 --> 00:06:32,475 "on a surface level, bro, 179 00:06:32,558 --> 00:06:34,769 honestly 'cause we just don't know you like that." 180 00:06:34,852 --> 00:06:36,729 So I was, like, looking in-- 181 00:06:36,813 --> 00:06:39,816 - Did you ever apologize to P'Jae? 182 00:06:41,609 --> 00:06:43,111 - Uh... 183 00:06:43,194 --> 00:06:46,489 I mean, I don't think I officially apologized to him. 184 00:06:46,572 --> 00:06:50,326 I feel like people be, like, so, like-- 185 00:06:50,409 --> 00:06:52,620 I don't know what, you know what I mean, what-- 186 00:06:52,703 --> 00:06:53,996 how he feel. 187 00:06:56,457 --> 00:06:58,876 Especially with the way he stormed off. 188 00:07:00,253 --> 00:07:02,463 - I know I wasn't the only one telling Jaylenn 189 00:07:02,547 --> 00:07:04,841 that he needed to apologize to P'Jae, 190 00:07:04,924 --> 00:07:07,218 but not only did he skip the apology. 191 00:07:07,301 --> 00:07:09,846 He said some shit to make P'Jae storm off. 192 00:07:09,929 --> 00:07:12,348 And I mean, this is exactly why I need to step in, 193 00:07:12,431 --> 00:07:14,433 so shit like this doesn't happen. 194 00:07:14,517 --> 00:07:16,894 So I think his reaction was valid. 195 00:07:16,978 --> 00:07:18,187 - Yeah. - So you gotta kind of 196 00:07:18,271 --> 00:07:19,522 see where he's coming from too. 197 00:07:19,605 --> 00:07:22,900 Like, men are sensitive beings, 198 00:07:22,984 --> 00:07:26,362 and even though you're over it doesn't mean that he is. 199 00:07:26,445 --> 00:07:29,240 At a certain point, you gotta grow up too. 200 00:07:29,323 --> 00:07:30,533 - Yeah. 201 00:07:30,616 --> 00:07:31,993 Did you miss me while you was gone? 202 00:07:32,076 --> 00:07:33,202 - Yeah. 203 00:07:33,286 --> 00:07:35,204 - I missed you. - I missed you. 204 00:07:35,288 --> 00:07:37,790 - I couldn't rub your booty for, like, four or five days. 205 00:07:37,874 --> 00:07:40,084 - I know. 206 00:07:40,168 --> 00:07:42,879 I missed you. - I missed you more. 207 00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:44,255 Mm. - Mm. 208 00:07:44,338 --> 00:07:45,882 - So we gonna get to-- 209 00:07:45,965 --> 00:07:47,383 we gonna get back to business. 210 00:07:47,466 --> 00:07:49,969 You know what I want? - What do you want? 211 00:07:50,052 --> 00:07:53,139 - A "wah-wah." - Oh, nah-nah. 212 00:07:53,222 --> 00:07:55,558 [laughter] 213 00:07:55,641 --> 00:07:57,643 - So we're still on that? - Mm-hmm. 214 00:07:57,727 --> 00:07:59,812 - What is the main reason we're not? 215 00:07:59,896 --> 00:08:02,064 - It's--at the end of the day, it's my body. 216 00:08:02,148 --> 00:08:04,775 Me and Jaylenn, we're not on the same page. 217 00:08:04,859 --> 00:08:06,903 Like, he definitely wants children. 218 00:08:06,986 --> 00:08:08,279 I've definitely expressed to him 219 00:08:08,362 --> 00:08:10,406 that I at least want to be engaged. 220 00:08:10,489 --> 00:08:13,743 There's a lot of stuff that we need to work on individually, 221 00:08:13,826 --> 00:08:17,121 from communication, dealing with past traumas. 222 00:08:17,205 --> 00:08:20,291 At this point, therapy should be a priority, period. 223 00:08:20,374 --> 00:08:21,834 So we need to work through that 224 00:08:21,918 --> 00:08:23,920 before we even think about having children. 225 00:08:24,003 --> 00:08:26,088 When I'm in the right headspace, 226 00:08:26,172 --> 00:08:27,590 when you're in the right headspace, 227 00:08:27,673 --> 00:08:29,342 we can just think about the kid. 228 00:08:29,425 --> 00:08:31,844 - I'm personally okay with having children before marriage 229 00:08:31,928 --> 00:08:35,306 because that's the environment that I was raised in. 230 00:08:35,389 --> 00:08:37,308 When you get marriage involved, it's like you're just 231 00:08:37,391 --> 00:08:39,101 basically saying, "We're taking this relationship 232 00:08:39,185 --> 00:08:40,645 to, like, a business standpoint." 233 00:08:40,728 --> 00:08:42,396 A kid doesn't involve that. 234 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,358 Everything is not gonna fit like a perfect puzzle in life. 235 00:08:45,441 --> 00:08:48,778 And if I keep waiting on that, I will never have a kid. 236 00:08:48,861 --> 00:08:51,155 - After therapy, we can just, you know, 237 00:08:51,239 --> 00:08:53,407 work on some next steps. 238 00:08:53,491 --> 00:08:55,910 - Breaking my ass. 239 00:08:55,993 --> 00:08:57,912 - ♪ Face beat, blonde hair with the ass ♪ 240 00:08:57,995 --> 00:08:59,705 ♪ First class, touch down to the bag ♪ 241 00:08:59,789 --> 00:09:01,165 ♪ Rich bitch, yeah, I came from the rags ♪ 242 00:09:01,249 --> 00:09:03,584 - Everybody should be Team Myami. 243 00:09:03,668 --> 00:09:05,586 - ♪ Fuck, sis, fuck 'em up, sis ♪ 244 00:09:05,670 --> 00:09:08,923 ♪ Fuck, sis, fuck 'em up, sis ♪ 245 00:09:09,006 --> 00:09:11,300 - What's up? - What's up, bitch? 246 00:09:11,384 --> 00:09:13,719 - How you doing? - Good, how are you? 247 00:09:13,803 --> 00:09:15,221 - You know, thirsty. 248 00:09:15,304 --> 00:09:16,764 I'm trying to get drunk before this little shift. 249 00:09:16,847 --> 00:09:18,182 - You know I got you a drink on the way here. 250 00:09:18,266 --> 00:09:19,558 - Okay! I know that's right. - Okay. 251 00:09:19,642 --> 00:09:21,102 - By the way, first and foremost, 252 00:09:21,185 --> 00:09:22,687 you look good as fuck. - You know how we do. 253 00:09:22,770 --> 00:09:25,815 Robb with two Bs, the Bs stand for "best bitch," 254 00:09:25,898 --> 00:09:28,276 'cause he's been my best bitch for a minute now. 255 00:09:28,359 --> 00:09:31,654 I mean, one thing about him is, he does not play about me. 256 00:09:31,737 --> 00:09:33,698 The last time he's heard about this group 257 00:09:33,781 --> 00:09:35,366 is when they had me fucked up. 258 00:09:35,449 --> 00:09:37,159 So I may have forgiven them, 259 00:09:37,243 --> 00:09:39,704 but I can't say the same for him. 260 00:09:39,787 --> 00:09:41,038 - What you been up to? 261 00:09:41,122 --> 00:09:42,832 - So I just came back from New York. 262 00:09:42,915 --> 00:09:45,209 I've been trying to, you know, get in everybody's 263 00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:48,671 good graces, but I feel like I was tried. 264 00:09:48,754 --> 00:09:51,549 And you know me, like, I normally just go ahead 265 00:09:51,632 --> 00:09:53,676 and just say what the fuck is on my mind. 266 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:55,970 But I'm like, I have to coexist with them 267 00:09:56,053 --> 00:09:58,180 just because I fuck with Tylynn so much. 268 00:09:58,264 --> 00:10:01,684 Like, Becky, surprisingly, she seems like a sweet girl. 269 00:10:01,767 --> 00:10:04,312 We're trying to start a new friendship. 270 00:10:04,395 --> 00:10:05,938 And same for Bri, 'cause they're, like, 271 00:10:06,022 --> 00:10:07,398 literally besties, like-- 272 00:10:07,481 --> 00:10:08,733 - From what I know about them, 273 00:10:08,816 --> 00:10:10,234 shit, Becky's always up Bri's ass. 274 00:10:10,318 --> 00:10:11,861 - I feel like Becky bites her tongue a lot 275 00:10:11,944 --> 00:10:13,112 when it comes to her friends. 276 00:10:13,195 --> 00:10:15,031 - She's a punk. 277 00:10:15,114 --> 00:10:16,574 She's a punk. - [laughs] 278 00:10:16,657 --> 00:10:18,451 - Anytime you choose to talk about 279 00:10:18,534 --> 00:10:20,911 somebody behind their back, aka you... 280 00:10:20,995 --> 00:10:22,330 - [laughs] 281 00:10:22,413 --> 00:10:23,956 - And when you approached her, what did she say? 282 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,374 "Oh, no, I didn't do that. I didn't say that." 283 00:10:25,458 --> 00:10:26,876 Girl, shut the fuck up. - [laughs] 284 00:10:26,959 --> 00:10:28,878 - Why are you hanging out with motherfuckers 285 00:10:28,961 --> 00:10:30,379 that don't even like you? 286 00:10:30,463 --> 00:10:32,048 - Well, it's just like, I'm tired of this fucking 287 00:10:32,131 --> 00:10:35,384 unnecessary beef over a nigga that I don't want. 288 00:10:35,468 --> 00:10:37,219 - Over a nigga that didn't want her. 289 00:10:38,137 --> 00:10:39,847 Ooh, you picked the right environment, 290 00:10:39,930 --> 00:10:41,557 because let me tell you something, if I met them 291 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,060 on a different day, it'd be a lot different. 292 00:10:44,143 --> 00:10:45,770 - You know how to shut me the fuck up. 293 00:10:45,853 --> 00:10:47,229 This is why we are so close. 294 00:10:47,313 --> 00:10:49,065 - I still don't know why you're so forgiving, 295 00:10:49,148 --> 00:10:50,399 but, you know, it is what it is. 296 00:10:50,483 --> 00:10:51,859 I will definitely-- - Hey, girl! 297 00:10:51,942 --> 00:10:54,195 - Hi. - Hi, boo. 298 00:10:54,278 --> 00:10:56,197 - Hello. 299 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,406 This is Robb. - How you doing? 300 00:10:57,490 --> 00:10:58,741 - Hi. 301 00:10:58,824 --> 00:11:00,117 - Mwah. You look so cute. Hi. - Thank you. 302 00:11:00,201 --> 00:11:01,619 - Can I move this bag? 303 00:11:01,702 --> 00:11:03,704 - Don't touch my bag. Hi. 304 00:11:03,788 --> 00:11:05,289 You can move it. - Thank you. 305 00:11:05,373 --> 00:11:08,668 - So this is my main bitch, Robb. 306 00:11:08,751 --> 00:11:10,211 - Hey, Robb. - What's up? 307 00:11:10,294 --> 00:11:11,754 Nice to meet you guys. - Nice to meet you too. 308 00:11:11,837 --> 00:11:13,172 - But it's Robb with two Bs, all right? 309 00:11:13,255 --> 00:11:14,924 So don't fuck that up. - Rrrrrobb. 310 00:11:15,007 --> 00:11:16,425 - Yeah. - Let's not fuck that up. 311 00:11:16,509 --> 00:11:17,718 - Got you. 312 00:11:17,802 --> 00:11:19,095 - What y'all been talking about? 313 00:11:19,178 --> 00:11:20,346 - Shit. You guys. 314 00:11:20,429 --> 00:11:21,806 [laughter] 315 00:11:21,889 --> 00:11:23,015 Here we go. 316 00:11:23,099 --> 00:11:24,183 - What's the tea? 317 00:11:26,185 --> 00:11:27,728 I thought we was past that. 318 00:11:27,812 --> 00:11:29,688 - We are, but I had to catch him up a little bit. 319 00:11:29,772 --> 00:11:31,732 - [laughs] - Right. What's the tea? 320 00:11:31,816 --> 00:11:33,109 - Oh, no, she didn't tell me nothing, 321 00:11:33,192 --> 00:11:34,819 but how the fuck did this become a thing? 322 00:11:34,902 --> 00:11:36,612 - We're just getting to know each other. 323 00:11:36,695 --> 00:11:38,739 - Mm-hmm, but you didn't give her a chance at first, so... 324 00:11:38,823 --> 00:11:41,283 - Ooh. You weren't there, so I don't think you can, 325 00:11:41,367 --> 00:11:43,119 you know, speak on it, huh? 326 00:11:43,202 --> 00:11:44,954 - My friend told me. My friend told me. 327 00:11:45,037 --> 00:11:47,248 - Robb plays devil's advocate for me 328 00:11:47,331 --> 00:11:50,668 because it's like, I'm so fucking forgiving. 329 00:11:50,751 --> 00:11:53,087 So he's like, "Uh-uh, bitch, hold on. Why?" 330 00:11:53,170 --> 00:11:55,965 - She's too forgiving. - "How? When?" 331 00:11:56,048 --> 00:11:59,135 He asks questions. - And you didn't know her. 332 00:11:59,218 --> 00:12:01,804 - Mm-hmm. We've already had that conversation. 333 00:12:01,887 --> 00:12:03,889 I feel like Myami and I just are past 334 00:12:03,973 --> 00:12:06,142 everything that happened in Palm Springs. 335 00:12:06,225 --> 00:12:07,643 - Wait, can I ask you a question? 336 00:12:07,726 --> 00:12:09,645 But, like, what made you get past it, though? 337 00:12:09,728 --> 00:12:10,729 Is it the fact that you're not talking 338 00:12:10,813 --> 00:12:13,315 to old boy no more or... 339 00:12:13,399 --> 00:12:15,025 - I mean... 340 00:12:15,109 --> 00:12:16,819 First of all, who is this nigga? 341 00:12:16,902 --> 00:12:18,362 Why is he coming for me? 342 00:12:18,446 --> 00:12:21,282 And does he seriously think I owe him an explanation? 343 00:12:21,365 --> 00:12:22,533 Boy, bye. 344 00:12:22,616 --> 00:12:24,368 - I feel like it had the least amount 345 00:12:24,452 --> 00:12:25,369 to do with P'Jae. 346 00:12:25,453 --> 00:12:26,829 - Don't come to her defense 347 00:12:26,912 --> 00:12:28,330 just 'cause she's up your ass all the time. 348 00:12:28,414 --> 00:12:30,875 - Robert, no. - Robb. Robb. 349 00:12:30,958 --> 00:12:32,460 - No, because you're acting like-- 350 00:12:32,543 --> 00:12:34,003 I can't call you Robb-- 'cause you're acting very 351 00:12:34,086 --> 00:12:36,172 just malicious right now for no reason, sir. 352 00:12:36,255 --> 00:12:38,048 We came to this brunch to get to know you. 353 00:12:38,132 --> 00:12:39,592 Just chill the fuck out a little. 354 00:12:39,675 --> 00:12:42,011 - So you just--generally just did not like her? 355 00:12:42,094 --> 00:12:43,512 - That's not technically-- 356 00:12:43,596 --> 00:12:45,055 - Well, I didn't really, to be honest. 357 00:12:45,139 --> 00:12:47,183 - Okay, I like-- - No, I didn't really like you. 358 00:12:47,266 --> 00:12:48,684 - There we go. I like the honesty. 359 00:12:48,767 --> 00:12:50,394 There we go. - Well, fuck you too, Bri. 360 00:12:50,478 --> 00:12:51,937 - No. - Real, bitch. 361 00:12:52,021 --> 00:12:53,439 That's usually how the best friendships start, 362 00:12:53,522 --> 00:12:54,815 to be honest. 363 00:12:54,899 --> 00:12:56,233 Like, I think when you don't like someone 364 00:12:56,317 --> 00:12:57,860 initially, like, each person has to work 365 00:12:57,943 --> 00:12:59,320 a little harder for the relationship, and, like, 366 00:12:59,403 --> 00:13:01,155 sometimes that ends up being your bitch. 367 00:13:01,238 --> 00:13:02,740 - Briana, you're optimistic like Myami, 368 00:13:02,823 --> 00:13:04,366 so that makes sense. 369 00:13:04,450 --> 00:13:07,495 - He thinks that's my biggest gift and my biggest flaw. 370 00:13:07,578 --> 00:13:08,704 - She most definitely is. 371 00:13:08,787 --> 00:13:10,206 She's hanging out with you guys. 372 00:13:10,289 --> 00:13:12,374 But I'm open-minded too. I'm open minded too. 373 00:13:12,458 --> 00:13:14,126 - You see why he's my friend, right. 374 00:13:14,210 --> 00:13:15,419 - We're baddies, okay? 375 00:13:15,503 --> 00:13:16,837 - I'm just a sweet bitch at heart, 376 00:13:16,921 --> 00:13:18,506 and I feel like no one understands this. 377 00:13:18,589 --> 00:13:20,549 - You have a sweet face, so that's why I was confused. 378 00:13:20,633 --> 00:13:22,510 - We've established what it was. 379 00:13:22,593 --> 00:13:24,011 Can we just blame this shit all on P'Jae? 380 00:13:24,094 --> 00:13:25,429 Like, 90% of it... 381 00:13:25,513 --> 00:13:27,014 - Yeah, cheers to that. - Was on his fault. 382 00:13:27,097 --> 00:13:28,557 And let's just move the fuck on. 383 00:13:28,641 --> 00:13:29,725 - Cheers to, you know... - You know what it is now. 384 00:13:29,808 --> 00:13:31,227 - Meeting you guys. 385 00:13:31,310 --> 00:13:33,062 - Fuck P'Jae. I'm just kidding. 386 00:13:33,145 --> 00:13:34,438 - Not cheersing to that. 387 00:13:34,522 --> 00:13:37,566 - Finally, someone has said it besides me. 388 00:13:37,650 --> 00:13:40,110 P'Jae's fuckboy antics is the reason why me 389 00:13:40,194 --> 00:13:42,363 and Rebecca are even beefin' to begin with. 390 00:13:42,446 --> 00:13:44,532 Cheers to never beefin' over a nigga again. 391 00:13:44,615 --> 00:13:46,116 This is growth right here. 392 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:47,701 - No, cheers to you, Robb. Cheers to meeting you. 393 00:13:47,785 --> 00:13:49,286 - Yes, cheers to meeting you. - Here we go. 394 00:13:49,370 --> 00:13:51,413 - Robb does not play about his friend, okay? 395 00:13:51,497 --> 00:13:52,915 - I'm glad that I'm on this side, 396 00:13:52,998 --> 00:13:54,583 because I feel like I'm that for Rebecca too. 397 00:13:54,667 --> 00:13:56,210 - There we go, okay. So we balancing out the table? 398 00:13:56,293 --> 00:13:58,087 - Exactly. - Okay. 399 00:13:58,170 --> 00:14:00,589 - But speaking of men... [chuckles] 400 00:14:00,673 --> 00:14:03,509 I've been having a guy in my DMs. 401 00:14:03,592 --> 00:14:05,886 The guy who DM'ed me, his name is A.Q. 402 00:14:05,970 --> 00:14:08,097 He literally wants to go on a date, 403 00:14:08,180 --> 00:14:11,767 but I'm just like, I do not want to go alone. 404 00:14:11,850 --> 00:14:13,978 Do you want to come with me and be my little wingman? 405 00:14:14,061 --> 00:14:15,062 - Little double date? 406 00:14:15,145 --> 00:14:16,355 - Yes. - Okay. 407 00:14:16,438 --> 00:14:17,690 - That's cute. That's real cute. 408 00:14:17,773 --> 00:14:20,109 - Okay, so it's A.Q. and who else? 409 00:14:20,192 --> 00:14:22,570 - That's the mystery. It's like a big question mark. 410 00:14:22,653 --> 00:14:25,197 But A.Q. has such a, like, big friend group, 411 00:14:25,281 --> 00:14:26,824 from, like, what I see on social media, 412 00:14:26,907 --> 00:14:30,452 so it could be a baller, shot caller. 413 00:14:30,536 --> 00:14:31,829 - Well, if I'm not interested in these men, 414 00:14:31,912 --> 00:14:33,372 I'm not gonna show it. 415 00:14:33,455 --> 00:14:34,790 - I don't expect nothing less from you, 416 00:14:34,873 --> 00:14:36,125 but I know you're gonna be with me. 417 00:14:36,208 --> 00:14:37,918 It's gonna be a good time. - Okay. 418 00:14:38,002 --> 00:14:39,795 I'm coming just... 419 00:14:39,878 --> 00:14:41,839 - For the drinks and me? - For the drinks, 420 00:14:41,922 --> 00:14:43,382 uh-huh, and for you. 421 00:14:43,465 --> 00:14:44,842 - Don't fuck it up. 422 00:14:44,925 --> 00:14:46,427 - You need to not fuck this date up. 423 00:14:46,510 --> 00:14:47,720 - Ooh. 424 00:14:47,803 --> 00:14:49,179 - You been real back and forth for me. 425 00:14:49,263 --> 00:14:51,432 - Okay, first and foremost... [laughter] 426 00:14:51,515 --> 00:14:53,559 - ♪ Lil Dyllie from the bottom of the map ♪ 427 00:14:53,642 --> 00:14:55,185 ♪ I ain't gotta have the strap ♪ 428 00:14:55,269 --> 00:14:56,645 ♪ I still get 'em with the rap ♪ 429 00:14:56,729 --> 00:14:59,273 - Don't let these tattoos fool you. 430 00:14:59,356 --> 00:15:01,775 I'm a scholar. I read every day. 431 00:15:01,859 --> 00:15:04,486 - ♪ You tryin' to flex on me, don't be silly ♪ 432 00:15:04,570 --> 00:15:07,072 ♪ Wild, wild West, and yes, I'm big Willy ♪ 433 00:15:07,156 --> 00:15:09,742 ♪ Dressed like I came here fresh from West Philly ♪ 434 00:15:09,825 --> 00:15:12,202 ♪ Who gon' protect your neck, Inspectah Deck ♪ 435 00:15:12,286 --> 00:15:13,787 ♪ ♪ 436 00:15:13,871 --> 00:15:15,331 - Yo! - What up, brothers? 437 00:15:15,414 --> 00:15:17,124 What up with you, Jay? How you doing, baby? 438 00:15:17,207 --> 00:15:18,417 - How you doing? 439 00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:19,627 - Hey. - How you doing? 440 00:15:19,710 --> 00:15:21,462 - What's going on with you, man? 441 00:15:21,545 --> 00:15:23,839 - My brother. 442 00:15:23,922 --> 00:15:26,008 It's been a minute, y'all. - It has been. 443 00:15:26,091 --> 00:15:27,468 - We haven't been together, what, since, like, 444 00:15:27,551 --> 00:15:29,720 Jada graduated. - Yeah, graduation. 445 00:15:29,803 --> 00:15:31,347 Love to see all y'all together. 446 00:15:31,430 --> 00:15:33,265 - Is it crazy that we're so close and we're-- 447 00:15:33,349 --> 00:15:35,517 like, have different, like, mothers? 448 00:15:35,601 --> 00:15:37,645 - Yes. - All four of us. 449 00:15:37,728 --> 00:15:39,521 - Well, that was something mandatory, though, 450 00:15:39,605 --> 00:15:41,357 'cause you guys stayed, you know, with me a lot 451 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,026 till Fi and Jasharae moved to Texas, but, you know... 452 00:15:44,109 --> 00:15:45,861 - I'll give you really some kudos to that, 453 00:15:45,944 --> 00:15:48,364 because, like, you were there the whole time, like, I was-- 454 00:15:48,447 --> 00:15:50,699 - I tried to be. I tried to be. I tried my best. 455 00:15:50,783 --> 00:15:53,077 - I have such a special relationship and bond 456 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,787 with my brothers and sister. 457 00:15:54,870 --> 00:15:56,372 It really just highlights my dad 458 00:15:56,455 --> 00:15:57,706 and what he's installed in us. 459 00:15:57,790 --> 00:16:00,292 He showed me how to carry himself 460 00:16:00,376 --> 00:16:02,920 as the leader or the alpha of a family. 461 00:16:03,003 --> 00:16:06,131 - Y'all are, like, real close in age. 462 00:16:06,215 --> 00:16:08,425 - And you give me the hardest time. 463 00:16:08,509 --> 00:16:10,010 - You're the little pup. 464 00:16:10,094 --> 00:16:11,929 - Like, why I didn't get another little pup, too, then? 465 00:16:12,012 --> 00:16:13,889 - No. - Well, I was done. 466 00:16:13,972 --> 00:16:16,141 I was really done before you got here. 467 00:16:16,225 --> 00:16:17,393 - [laughs] 468 00:16:17,476 --> 00:16:18,560 - Hey, I'm gonna be honest with you, 469 00:16:18,644 --> 00:16:19,895 you guys' parents tricked me. 470 00:16:19,978 --> 00:16:23,065 [laughter] I got--I got tricked. 471 00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:25,234 - My mom-- - Your mom tricked me for sure. 472 00:16:25,317 --> 00:16:26,860 - Yeah, I kind of... - How did--what did you-- 473 00:16:26,944 --> 00:16:28,237 - Jasharae was-- - Wait, so, Pops, 474 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:29,655 were you married? 475 00:16:29,738 --> 00:16:30,906 - I do believe I married your mom. 476 00:16:30,989 --> 00:16:32,199 I think I did. 477 00:16:32,282 --> 00:16:34,034 I think I was trapped into that too. 478 00:16:34,118 --> 00:16:36,078 [laughter] 479 00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:37,538 - That's one thing I can't do. 480 00:16:37,621 --> 00:16:40,290 I can't get peer pressured into marriage. 481 00:16:40,374 --> 00:16:41,834 It just gotta be natural. 482 00:16:41,917 --> 00:16:43,544 - So when do you think about doing that? 483 00:16:43,627 --> 00:16:45,838 - Yeah, I know Ty is the person that I want to marry, 484 00:16:45,921 --> 00:16:47,756 but it's just about the timing, you know what I mean? 485 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,883 - What about kids? - I want to have kids-- 486 00:16:49,967 --> 00:16:51,260 - What you gonna do first? - Can you please? 487 00:16:51,343 --> 00:16:52,761 - You know, that's the thing with Ty. 488 00:16:52,845 --> 00:16:54,096 Like, that's kind of the issue right now. 489 00:16:54,179 --> 00:16:56,098 Like, I want to have kids first. 490 00:16:56,181 --> 00:16:57,641 - Why do you feel like that, though? 491 00:16:57,725 --> 00:17:00,477 - Honestly, it's just, like... first--first-- 492 00:17:00,561 --> 00:17:02,354 - Does it have anything to do with your dad? 493 00:17:02,438 --> 00:17:03,856 - It have a lot to do with you, you know what I mean? 494 00:17:03,939 --> 00:17:05,315 I really want-- - Like, it has something 495 00:17:05,399 --> 00:17:06,483 to do with me 'cause that's what you saw 496 00:17:06,567 --> 00:17:07,901 with me or that's because... 497 00:17:07,985 --> 00:17:09,611 - I mean, well, first is your health. 498 00:17:09,695 --> 00:17:12,906 Since Pop's been sick, sometimes we may get that call, 499 00:17:12,990 --> 00:17:16,952 like, he's in surgery or he just had some type of episode. 500 00:17:17,035 --> 00:17:19,496 That makes me even more persistent in telling her, 501 00:17:19,580 --> 00:17:20,706 like, "I'm trying to have a kid, bro, like"-- 502 00:17:20,789 --> 00:17:21,999 - Exactly. - Right. 503 00:17:22,082 --> 00:17:23,167 - That's kind of, like, unfair to her, 504 00:17:23,250 --> 00:17:24,543 but it's still what I want. 505 00:17:24,626 --> 00:17:25,794 - It's what you want. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 506 00:17:25,878 --> 00:17:27,337 - I want my kids to be around you. 507 00:17:27,421 --> 00:17:29,298 I want to experience that. Like, I'd like that. 508 00:17:29,381 --> 00:17:31,800 - I would love to experience that. 509 00:17:31,884 --> 00:17:35,345 - I know, traditionally, marriage comes before kids, 510 00:17:35,429 --> 00:17:38,432 but my dad has been on dialysis 511 00:17:38,515 --> 00:17:40,058 and had kidney failure, 512 00:17:40,142 --> 00:17:41,810 you know what I mean, since I can remember. 513 00:17:41,894 --> 00:17:43,645 It's gonna be a time where my dad's not always there. 514 00:17:43,729 --> 00:17:45,814 I want my kids to know their grandfather. 515 00:17:45,898 --> 00:17:48,150 It's bigger than me. It's bigger than me. 516 00:17:49,234 --> 00:17:50,611 - The food is ready. Y'all ready to eat? 517 00:17:50,694 --> 00:17:52,654 - Yes. - Hey, hold on, Pop. 518 00:17:52,738 --> 00:17:54,323 Let me chop it up with you for a sec. 519 00:17:54,406 --> 00:17:56,033 - Can you help me with this chicken over here, bro? 520 00:17:56,116 --> 00:17:57,701 - Yeah, so I wanted to chop it up with you more-- 521 00:17:57,785 --> 00:17:59,161 really on more the topic of the kids thing, 522 00:17:59,244 --> 00:18:01,789 'cause I am being serious about that. 523 00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:04,500 She doesn't want to entertain the whole 524 00:18:04,583 --> 00:18:06,210 idea of it, you know what I mean? 525 00:18:06,293 --> 00:18:07,544 So I was just like, well, now it's like, 526 00:18:07,628 --> 00:18:10,506 I'm low-key getting, like-- 527 00:18:10,589 --> 00:18:11,757 - Impatient? 528 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:12,841 - I mean, now Ty is trying to have me 529 00:18:12,925 --> 00:18:14,176 go to therapy with her. 530 00:18:14,259 --> 00:18:15,719 I don't want to be pulling teeth. 531 00:18:15,803 --> 00:18:17,346 Like, you know what I mean? It's like, if-- 532 00:18:17,429 --> 00:18:19,139 - Your situation is kind of hard, because, like, 533 00:18:19,223 --> 00:18:21,475 you know the women run the show when it comes to that. 534 00:18:21,558 --> 00:18:23,852 You have to have a deadline, though. 535 00:18:23,936 --> 00:18:25,354 - What's the dead-- what you mean? 536 00:18:25,437 --> 00:18:26,855 - Yeah, if you want to start a family now, 537 00:18:26,939 --> 00:18:28,857 she may say, "I want it ten years from now 538 00:18:28,941 --> 00:18:30,526 or five years." - That's a deal breaker. 539 00:18:30,609 --> 00:18:31,985 It's a deal breaker for me. 540 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:35,948 - I don't know what you can say or what you can do. 541 00:18:36,990 --> 00:18:40,744 You have to have a certain time and whatever, or... 542 00:18:40,828 --> 00:18:42,287 you gotta move-- 543 00:18:42,371 --> 00:18:44,456 I hate to say it, you gotta move forward. 544 00:18:47,209 --> 00:18:50,462 - ♪ Ay ♪ 545 00:18:50,546 --> 00:18:53,298 ♪ We don't sell dope, I got six cell phones ♪ 546 00:18:53,382 --> 00:18:57,886 ♪ We don't sell dope, I got six cell phones, nigga ♪ 547 00:18:57,970 --> 00:18:59,263 - Making moves happen. 548 00:18:59,346 --> 00:19:00,556 - We at-- - Hold on, hold on. 549 00:19:00,639 --> 00:19:02,182 - Oh, oh, two phones. My bad. 550 00:19:02,266 --> 00:19:03,725 - ♪ I got six cell phones ♪ 551 00:19:03,809 --> 00:19:05,310 ♪ I'm so dangerous ♪ 552 00:19:05,394 --> 00:19:06,979 ♪ 2:00 a.m., I'm fighting sleep ♪ 553 00:19:07,062 --> 00:19:08,647 ♪ You can't hang with us ♪ 554 00:19:08,730 --> 00:19:12,192 ♪ She like presidential suite, nigga ♪ 555 00:19:12,276 --> 00:19:14,444 - Fresh out the classroom. 556 00:19:14,528 --> 00:19:17,072 - Yes, sir. Yes, sir. - It's the professor. 557 00:19:17,155 --> 00:19:18,949 - [laughs] - What's up with you, my boy? 558 00:19:19,032 --> 00:19:20,534 - What up, Jae? Good? 559 00:19:20,617 --> 00:19:22,578 - Yup, good. - Okay. 560 00:19:22,661 --> 00:19:24,204 - ♪ I got six cell phones ♪ 561 00:19:24,288 --> 00:19:27,165 - How you been, man? - I been cool, man. 562 00:19:27,249 --> 00:19:28,917 I been on this, like, high, 563 00:19:29,001 --> 00:19:30,669 I ain't gonna lie, since the comedy show. 564 00:19:30,752 --> 00:19:32,087 You set up the whole play. 565 00:19:32,170 --> 00:19:33,589 It exceeded my expectations. 566 00:19:33,672 --> 00:19:34,965 When you had some people come there, 567 00:19:35,048 --> 00:19:36,550 that was a super cool look. 568 00:19:36,633 --> 00:19:38,427 You could have just came and laughed or not laughed, 569 00:19:38,510 --> 00:19:40,637 but you brought people, so that was super cool. 570 00:19:40,721 --> 00:19:42,264 So I just wanted to, you know, show love and be like, 571 00:19:42,347 --> 00:19:43,891 yeah, man, I appreciate it. 572 00:19:43,974 --> 00:19:46,101 - Me being a good homey, like, anything that I could do 573 00:19:46,184 --> 00:19:48,145 to be helpful in any situation like that, 574 00:19:48,228 --> 00:19:50,022 glad to do it, bro, and I'd do it again. 575 00:19:50,105 --> 00:19:52,024 - Cool. That's hella cool to hear, man. 576 00:19:55,277 --> 00:19:56,570 - Why are you so quiet? 577 00:19:56,653 --> 00:19:58,071 - Right? You good, man? 578 00:19:58,155 --> 00:20:00,699 - Nah, I'm just here. - What's going on here? 579 00:20:00,782 --> 00:20:02,242 - After the show, some energy was off. 580 00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:03,702 I can kind of sense it now. 581 00:20:03,785 --> 00:20:05,287 I just want to get right to it. 582 00:20:05,370 --> 00:20:08,165 Jaylenn said we were talking shit about you before. 583 00:20:08,248 --> 00:20:10,125 I didn't know you before. - The way I feel right now, 584 00:20:10,208 --> 00:20:11,793 any of us would feel that way, you feel me? 585 00:20:11,877 --> 00:20:13,879 Like, somebody I'm rocking with, like, oh, cool, 586 00:20:13,962 --> 00:20:15,756 we get into business together, 587 00:20:15,839 --> 00:20:17,507 and you find out that person was, like, 588 00:20:17,591 --> 00:20:19,635 talking shit about you... - Mm-hmm. 589 00:20:19,718 --> 00:20:21,470 - It just don't sit right with me, it's just weird. 590 00:20:21,553 --> 00:20:23,805 Like, none of it makes sense to me, so... 591 00:20:23,889 --> 00:20:26,308 shit, maybe you could make it make sense to me, like. 592 00:20:26,391 --> 00:20:27,559 - There has been times before, 593 00:20:27,643 --> 00:20:29,102 like, yeah, okay, I didn't know you. 594 00:20:29,186 --> 00:20:30,896 I've gotten to know you now. 595 00:20:30,979 --> 00:20:33,440 You can see I'll go to bat for you, like, literally 596 00:20:33,523 --> 00:20:37,694 against my girlfriend's friend, essentially, you know, for you. 597 00:20:37,778 --> 00:20:39,404 I'm sorry, bro. 598 00:20:39,488 --> 00:20:42,616 What was said before, like I said, I didn't know you. 599 00:20:42,699 --> 00:20:44,159 - From my perspective, 600 00:20:44,242 --> 00:20:46,161 Jaylenn owed P'Jae an apology in that situation. 601 00:20:46,244 --> 00:20:48,622 - I'm expecting an apology 'cause from the jump, 602 00:20:48,705 --> 00:20:51,750 like, I wasn't even 100% cool with him being there 603 00:20:51,833 --> 00:20:54,086 without getting an apology prior to that. 604 00:20:54,169 --> 00:20:56,505 I'm big on trust. 605 00:20:56,588 --> 00:20:58,966 I appreciate you at least, you know, acknowledging, like, 606 00:20:59,049 --> 00:21:00,884 "Yo, yeah, I did do this. 607 00:21:00,968 --> 00:21:02,636 Should I have done it? Probably not." 608 00:21:03,929 --> 00:21:06,014 But I mean, you-- 609 00:21:06,098 --> 00:21:08,809 just going forward, I want you to know we solid, bro. 610 00:21:08,892 --> 00:21:10,477 We good, I appreciate you 611 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,980 even being man enough to, like, own up to it 612 00:21:13,063 --> 00:21:15,774 and just have this conversation. 613 00:21:15,857 --> 00:21:19,069 But as far as me and Jaylenn, bro, 614 00:21:19,152 --> 00:21:21,363 I don't think me and him are ever probably 615 00:21:21,446 --> 00:21:24,449 gon' be on the same page and see eye to eye. 616 00:21:24,533 --> 00:21:26,994 It's no bad energy, it's just no energy, you feel me? 617 00:21:27,077 --> 00:21:28,495 It's just like, do your thing, I'ma do my thing, 618 00:21:28,578 --> 00:21:29,913 and I'ma keep elevating. 619 00:21:29,997 --> 00:21:31,123 - I probably shouldn't have tried to get you 620 00:21:31,206 --> 00:21:32,374 to talk to Jaylenn that night. 621 00:21:32,457 --> 00:21:33,667 - Time and a place, bro. 622 00:21:33,750 --> 00:21:35,210 - Like, I had a-- I had my experience 623 00:21:35,293 --> 00:21:37,337 where I really felt like I shared things, 624 00:21:37,421 --> 00:21:39,464 and it really kind of didn't go the way that I... 625 00:21:39,548 --> 00:21:40,841 - Yeah. - Would have wanted. 626 00:21:40,924 --> 00:21:42,384 - It's crazy that you say that, bro, 627 00:21:42,467 --> 00:21:43,969 because I feel the same way 628 00:21:44,052 --> 00:21:45,595 after all the shit that happened last year 629 00:21:45,679 --> 00:21:47,347 after the podcast. 630 00:21:47,431 --> 00:21:50,225 Literally seems like whenever somebody that goes against... 631 00:21:50,308 --> 00:21:51,935 - Yeah, it's like a pendulum down there. 632 00:21:52,019 --> 00:21:54,563 - What the hierarchy of what Ty is saying, you know, 633 00:21:54,646 --> 00:21:56,231 then it's kind of just like, oh, you're my enemy. 634 00:21:56,314 --> 00:21:58,483 - It's the pendulum, it's the, if I agree 635 00:21:58,567 --> 00:22:00,027 with what you say, then that mean 636 00:22:00,110 --> 00:22:01,778 I'm disagreeing with what somebody else says. 637 00:22:01,862 --> 00:22:03,405 - I just want to talk about how I was called 638 00:22:03,488 --> 00:22:05,407 a sociopath on national TV. 639 00:22:05,490 --> 00:22:06,742 - Oh, I can't trust Jerrold. 640 00:22:06,825 --> 00:22:09,036 He's, like, actually a sociopath. 641 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,912 - But, like, that was never addressed. 642 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,831 You know, like, in the altercation 643 00:22:12,914 --> 00:22:14,541 at Buttrd by Bri, 644 00:22:14,624 --> 00:22:16,501 the way that she blew up in that situation, 645 00:22:16,585 --> 00:22:18,086 I was like, you know, like, did it-- 646 00:22:18,170 --> 00:22:19,755 it just didn't seem like he deserved that. 647 00:22:19,838 --> 00:22:22,549 And then there was no, like, formal apology issued, 648 00:22:22,632 --> 00:22:23,884 or was there? 649 00:22:23,967 --> 00:22:25,218 - From Tylynn, I would say yeah. 650 00:22:25,302 --> 00:22:26,344 She apologized, for sure. - She did? 651 00:22:26,428 --> 00:22:27,804 - Really? - Absolutely. 652 00:22:27,888 --> 00:22:28,930 - It's just interesting, man, to hear, you know, 653 00:22:29,014 --> 00:22:30,307 Rob got an apology. 654 00:22:30,390 --> 00:22:31,933 Cheryl got an apology at the group chat. 655 00:22:32,017 --> 00:22:33,518 Apologies are being shelled out. 656 00:22:33,602 --> 00:22:35,103 I'm telling you, bro, like-- - Y'all was tight. 657 00:22:35,187 --> 00:22:36,772 - I've known Ty since, like, high school, 658 00:22:36,855 --> 00:22:38,774 and for me to sit here and, like, hear all of this, 659 00:22:38,857 --> 00:22:42,069 the nature of friendship just can't be the same. 660 00:22:43,570 --> 00:22:45,238 - That is tough. Shit, I don't know. 661 00:22:45,322 --> 00:22:47,741 You don't think you'll ever be able to go back that way? 662 00:22:47,824 --> 00:22:49,785 - It's not like I hate her. Like, I love her. 663 00:22:49,868 --> 00:22:52,662 At some point in time, somebody need to tell her that, 664 00:22:52,746 --> 00:22:54,164 you know, like, she can't keep 665 00:22:54,247 --> 00:22:56,124 coming at people the way that she coming at them. 666 00:22:56,208 --> 00:22:57,334 - Best of luck, brother. 667 00:22:57,417 --> 00:22:58,543 [chuckles] Best of luck, brother. 668 00:22:58,627 --> 00:22:59,544 - I know many have tried. 669 00:22:59,628 --> 00:23:00,962 I know many have tried. 670 00:23:01,046 --> 00:23:02,380 I guess she trying to change, but, like, 671 00:23:02,464 --> 00:23:03,757 until I see that change, 672 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:04,966 I feel like somebody need to tell her. 673 00:23:05,050 --> 00:23:06,885 - Rob tried to tell her. 674 00:23:06,968 --> 00:23:08,178 - Been it. 675 00:23:08,261 --> 00:23:09,471 [laughter] 676 00:23:09,554 --> 00:23:11,723 Facts, facts. [sighs] 677 00:23:11,807 --> 00:23:13,016 - ♪ Like talking in the mirror ♪ 678 00:23:13,100 --> 00:23:14,726 ♪ Who a bad bitch, me, me ♪ 679 00:23:14,810 --> 00:23:16,269 ♪ Money and respect, who gonna have it, me ♪ 680 00:23:16,353 --> 00:23:17,771 - I don't know what to expect tonight, 681 00:23:17,854 --> 00:23:19,272 but I do expect to look good 682 00:23:19,356 --> 00:23:20,816 while whatever transpires. 683 00:23:20,899 --> 00:23:22,609 - ♪ I got the gold now, like a champion ♪ 684 00:23:22,692 --> 00:23:24,361 ♪ Keep raising that bar by working so hard ♪ 685 00:23:24,444 --> 00:23:27,114 ♪ Singing ooh-la-la, yeah, ay ♪ 686 00:23:27,197 --> 00:23:29,533 ♪ See that boy over there, he fly ♪ 687 00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:31,660 ♪ That girl over there, oh, my ♪ 688 00:23:31,743 --> 00:23:33,703 ♪ That boy over there, he fly ♪ 689 00:23:33,787 --> 00:23:35,997 - I don't know about you, but I'm ready to eat. 690 00:23:36,081 --> 00:23:37,499 I'm ready to drink. 691 00:23:37,582 --> 00:23:40,544 - Yes, let's get some shots. - I'm ready to mingle. 692 00:23:40,627 --> 00:23:41,753 - Who we mingling with? 693 00:23:41,837 --> 00:23:44,339 - [chuckles] You will see. 694 00:23:44,423 --> 00:23:46,633 [laughter] 695 00:23:46,716 --> 00:23:49,177 Honestly, like, we've been having fun together. 696 00:23:49,261 --> 00:23:50,512 And that's all that matters. 697 00:23:50,595 --> 00:23:52,097 'Cause, like, you're here today. 698 00:23:52,180 --> 00:23:53,849 - Yes. - And I appreciate you 699 00:23:53,932 --> 00:23:56,017 for being my wing woman, you know. 700 00:23:56,101 --> 00:23:57,686 - Ladies, ladies, ladies. 701 00:23:57,769 --> 00:23:59,646 How y'all doing? - Hi. 702 00:23:59,729 --> 00:24:01,022 Hello, hello. 703 00:24:01,106 --> 00:24:02,357 How are you? - Good, girl. 704 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,109 - You guys look gorgeous tonight. 705 00:24:04,192 --> 00:24:06,570 The cranberry and the orange, I'm liking that. 706 00:24:06,653 --> 00:24:08,196 Did y'all order drinks yet? 707 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,490 - Are we starting with shots? Is that what we doing? 708 00:24:10,574 --> 00:24:12,325 - Can you guys just introduce yourselves? 709 00:24:12,409 --> 00:24:14,536 - Oh, I'm A.Q. - A.Q. 710 00:24:14,619 --> 00:24:16,830 I feel like I met you one time this summer. 711 00:24:16,913 --> 00:24:18,373 - Yeah, for sure. 712 00:24:18,456 --> 00:24:19,624 - Apologize. Marcus. 713 00:24:19,708 --> 00:24:21,877 - Marcus. - Pleasure. How you doing? 714 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:23,420 - What the fuck is going on? 715 00:24:23,503 --> 00:24:25,922 I'm happy Myami and I are getting closer. 716 00:24:26,006 --> 00:24:29,176 But, girl, we gotta work on the surprise guest. 717 00:24:29,259 --> 00:24:31,011 Didn't you go on, like, a date or something 718 00:24:31,094 --> 00:24:32,387 with my homegirl Briana? 719 00:24:32,471 --> 00:24:34,181 - Ooh, spicy. 720 00:24:34,264 --> 00:24:37,142 - Briana, we had--you're right. - LA is small. 721 00:24:37,225 --> 00:24:40,687 - We did have a hangout workout not too long ago. 722 00:24:40,770 --> 00:24:42,480 - Hangout workout situation. - Yeah. 723 00:24:42,564 --> 00:24:44,232 - That was it, just a workout? - Yeah. 724 00:24:44,316 --> 00:24:45,734 - You know that's my best friend. 725 00:24:45,817 --> 00:24:47,819 - Now I know. - Okay. 726 00:24:47,903 --> 00:24:49,988 'Cause you attended her BBB event, right? 727 00:24:50,071 --> 00:24:52,282 - I did. I was invited to that. It was a good event. 728 00:24:52,365 --> 00:24:53,450 - I feel like I remember seeing you. 729 00:24:53,533 --> 00:24:55,035 - Yeah, I did see you, though. 730 00:24:55,118 --> 00:24:58,413 And, you know, very attractive. 731 00:24:59,706 --> 00:25:01,249 - Bri looked good as well, obviously. 732 00:25:01,333 --> 00:25:02,667 - Eh. - Ooh. 733 00:25:02,751 --> 00:25:04,044 - Well, shit, can we-- let's check the menus. 734 00:25:04,127 --> 00:25:05,587 - Where the fuck are the drinks at? 735 00:25:05,670 --> 00:25:07,088 - Did you know that I was gonna be here? 736 00:25:07,172 --> 00:25:08,423 What did A.Q. tell you? 737 00:25:08,506 --> 00:25:09,925 - I just told my boy, "Hey, 738 00:25:10,008 --> 00:25:11,259 "I got a setup blind for us. 739 00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:12,594 Just pull up with me." 740 00:25:12,677 --> 00:25:13,929 - Can we get a quick cheer? 741 00:25:14,012 --> 00:25:15,263 - Yeah, what we cheersing to? 742 00:25:15,347 --> 00:25:17,474 - Here's to two beautiful women, 743 00:25:17,557 --> 00:25:19,684 two friends, getting to know each other. 744 00:25:19,768 --> 00:25:20,936 It's a good Friday. 745 00:25:21,019 --> 00:25:22,604 A vibe. Cheers to a vibe. - Cheers. 746 00:25:22,687 --> 00:25:25,815 - I like that. - A good LA vibe. 747 00:25:25,899 --> 00:25:27,484 - Are you single? 748 00:25:27,567 --> 00:25:30,111 - You're getting to it. 749 00:25:30,195 --> 00:25:32,072 - Yes, I am single. 750 00:25:32,155 --> 00:25:33,281 I am single. 751 00:25:33,365 --> 00:25:35,075 - I've been single for a bit now, 752 00:25:35,158 --> 00:25:37,869 'cause I was gonna get married in May of this year. 753 00:25:37,953 --> 00:25:39,412 - Of this year? - Yeah. 754 00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:41,873 - So did your ex-fiancée like your scarves? 755 00:25:43,041 --> 00:25:44,876 - What was the question? - [laughs] 756 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,795 She ain't feeling that scarf. 757 00:25:46,878 --> 00:25:50,799 [laughter] - You're not feeling the scarf? 758 00:25:50,882 --> 00:25:52,300 - Honestly, take the scarf off 759 00:25:52,384 --> 00:25:54,010 and I would feel everything else. 760 00:25:54,094 --> 00:25:56,137 - Oh, this is my swag, so I'ma keep it on. 761 00:25:56,221 --> 00:25:57,597 - She feeling that cashmere you got on. 762 00:25:57,681 --> 00:25:59,015 Boy, you gotta take that scarf off. 763 00:25:59,099 --> 00:26:01,476 - I really would--like, yeah. 764 00:26:01,559 --> 00:26:03,561 - Anyhoo, so... 765 00:26:03,645 --> 00:26:05,105 [laughter] 766 00:26:05,188 --> 00:26:06,773 How you feeling the vibe so far? 767 00:26:06,856 --> 00:26:07,857 - It's great. 768 00:26:07,941 --> 00:26:09,150 - Yeah? - Good vibes. 769 00:26:09,234 --> 00:26:10,485 - So would you-- is that your type? 770 00:26:10,568 --> 00:26:11,820 - "Is that your type?" 771 00:26:11,903 --> 00:26:13,822 - Right. - Damn, you treating me 772 00:26:13,905 --> 00:26:15,949 like a object. - [laughs] 773 00:26:16,032 --> 00:26:17,617 - This is the first time we're hanging out, 774 00:26:17,701 --> 00:26:21,288 so I don't know my type right off the bat. 775 00:26:21,371 --> 00:26:22,664 [laughter] 776 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:24,291 - Yeah, what happened? 777 00:26:24,374 --> 00:26:26,167 - So what do you look for in a woman? 778 00:26:26,251 --> 00:26:28,336 Like, what attracted you to Myami? 779 00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:31,423 - I like the game. I like the game of power. 780 00:26:31,506 --> 00:26:33,383 - You like games. [laughter] 781 00:26:33,466 --> 00:26:34,801 - I'm definitely liking your vibe 782 00:26:34,884 --> 00:26:36,553 right now, though, fo' sho'. 783 00:26:36,636 --> 00:26:38,930 - I actually like how persistent A.Q. has been. 784 00:26:39,014 --> 00:26:41,641 He's showing me the attention that I need at the moment. 785 00:26:41,725 --> 00:26:43,852 So that's an A-plus for A.Q. 786 00:26:43,935 --> 00:26:45,312 - Like, I was tapping in with her 787 00:26:45,395 --> 00:26:47,355 and she wasn't responding, so I'm like, oh. 788 00:26:47,439 --> 00:26:49,149 - So you like the chase. 789 00:26:49,232 --> 00:26:50,191 - Don't we all? 790 00:26:50,275 --> 00:26:51,359 - Shit, I like to be chased. 791 00:26:51,443 --> 00:26:52,944 - And you like--oh, shit. - Yes. 792 00:26:53,028 --> 00:26:54,904 Every woman likes to be chased. 793 00:26:54,988 --> 00:26:56,072 - [growls] - [laughs] 794 00:26:56,156 --> 00:26:57,407 He's like...[growls] - Hello. 795 00:26:58,366 --> 00:27:01,119 - ♪ Come and stay the night with a real one ♪ 796 00:27:01,202 --> 00:27:03,538 ♪ It's a lot of fake love in LA ♪ 797 00:27:03,621 --> 00:27:06,875 ♪ We can get high and forget the world ♪ 798 00:27:06,958 --> 00:27:09,336 ♪ I know you could use a getaway ♪ 799 00:27:09,419 --> 00:27:12,130 ♪ You could use a break from all the lames ♪ 800 00:27:12,213 --> 00:27:14,507 ♪ You could use a change of the pace ♪ 801 00:27:14,591 --> 00:27:17,510 ♪ Top down, PCH, switching lanes ♪ 802 00:27:17,594 --> 00:27:20,889 ♪ I know you could use a getaway ♪ 803 00:27:20,972 --> 00:27:22,515 - Oh, wow. 804 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,769 - Hello. - What is this? 805 00:27:25,852 --> 00:27:27,937 - Welcome. You like? 806 00:27:28,021 --> 00:27:29,439 - Okay. 807 00:27:29,522 --> 00:27:31,983 Okay, that's why you had me come out to the beach. 808 00:27:32,067 --> 00:27:34,110 Aww, "Rob's biggest fan." 809 00:27:34,194 --> 00:27:35,528 That's cool. 810 00:27:35,612 --> 00:27:37,197 I like that. 811 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,949 You got somebody to do this, you hired somebody? 812 00:27:40,033 --> 00:27:41,117 - Don't disrespect me. 813 00:27:41,201 --> 00:27:42,410 - Oh, you--you know what? 814 00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:44,871 - Yes, I did it myself. - Okay. 815 00:27:46,122 --> 00:27:47,665 [cork pops] - Whoo! 816 00:27:47,749 --> 00:27:50,752 - ♪ I know you could use a getaway ♪ 817 00:27:50,835 --> 00:27:52,420 - So, like, what's this? 818 00:27:52,504 --> 00:27:54,005 What is it for? 819 00:27:54,089 --> 00:27:56,716 - So I just wanted to do something nice 820 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,426 to tell you that I'm sorry. 821 00:27:58,510 --> 00:28:00,220 Sorry for missing your show. 822 00:28:00,303 --> 00:28:03,973 I just wanted to extend my apology beyond words. 823 00:28:04,057 --> 00:28:05,266 - This is super nice. 824 00:28:05,350 --> 00:28:07,435 Oh, I like this. Thank you for this. 825 00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:09,187 I want you to know for sure 826 00:28:09,270 --> 00:28:11,398 this is the last semester of Mr. Lee right here. 827 00:28:12,399 --> 00:28:14,025 - Ah, so proud of you. 828 00:28:14,109 --> 00:28:16,403 - So next one, front and center. 829 00:28:16,486 --> 00:28:18,154 - I will be there. 830 00:28:18,238 --> 00:28:19,572 Rob wants to chase his dreams, 831 00:28:19,656 --> 00:28:21,157 and I want to support him in that. 832 00:28:21,241 --> 00:28:24,035 I hope that this date can show him that I am 833 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,453 really rooting him on 834 00:28:25,537 --> 00:28:27,330 and I'm ready to keep building with him. 835 00:28:27,414 --> 00:28:29,666 - I'm not gonna lie, hearing you say you went to New York 836 00:28:29,749 --> 00:28:31,918 and you did your thing, that was awesome for me too. 837 00:28:32,001 --> 00:28:33,837 Like, we all out here trying to chase our dreams. 838 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:34,921 It's not just me. 839 00:28:35,004 --> 00:28:36,047 I just want to let you know 840 00:28:36,131 --> 00:28:37,424 I want to support you too. 841 00:28:37,507 --> 00:28:38,967 I want to be there for you on this journey. 842 00:28:39,050 --> 00:28:40,927 And we kind of--we kind of growing together. 843 00:28:41,010 --> 00:28:42,720 So not this. 844 00:28:42,804 --> 00:28:44,222 This. 845 00:28:44,305 --> 00:28:46,307 - Okay, we gotta cheers. - Yes. 846 00:28:46,391 --> 00:28:48,726 - I think we should cheers to... 847 00:28:48,810 --> 00:28:51,062 understanding 848 00:28:51,146 --> 00:28:54,315 and chasing our dreams 849 00:28:54,399 --> 00:28:56,484 and doing it together 850 00:28:56,568 --> 00:28:58,111 as a team. - Yes, yes, together. 851 00:28:58,194 --> 00:28:59,571 Emphasis on together. - That rhymed. 852 00:28:59,654 --> 00:29:01,573 [light music] 853 00:29:01,656 --> 00:29:03,116 - I feel like this is a good time to, like, 854 00:29:03,199 --> 00:29:05,326 reset and think about, you know, what's next. 855 00:29:05,410 --> 00:29:06,661 What do we want to do next? 856 00:29:06,744 --> 00:29:08,705 - I really want to go on vacation. 857 00:29:08,788 --> 00:29:10,081 - Oh, okay. 858 00:29:10,165 --> 00:29:13,001 - I mean, the girls, we pretty much, you know, 859 00:29:13,084 --> 00:29:14,669 got along when we were in New York, 860 00:29:14,752 --> 00:29:18,673 so we could do bae-cations, singles, plus-ones, 861 00:29:18,756 --> 00:29:20,258 you know, potential boo, whatever. 862 00:29:20,341 --> 00:29:22,719 - So we are--we're good with the plus-ones? 863 00:29:22,802 --> 00:29:24,679 'Cause I know plus-ones is-- 864 00:29:24,762 --> 00:29:26,014 [laughs] - Ah! 865 00:29:26,097 --> 00:29:28,600 - Shit get iffy. Shit get iffy, so just-- 866 00:29:28,683 --> 00:29:30,059 - Funny. - We gotta put that 867 00:29:30,143 --> 00:29:31,102 in writing or something. 868 00:29:31,186 --> 00:29:32,937 - Shut up, shut up. 869 00:29:33,021 --> 00:29:34,481 - But, like, I hear you on the girls. 870 00:29:34,564 --> 00:29:36,441 Y'all are good, but I don't necessarily know 871 00:29:36,524 --> 00:29:39,319 if the guys are really kind of there yet. 872 00:29:39,402 --> 00:29:41,362 P'Jae and Jay, they're not really cool. 873 00:29:41,446 --> 00:29:43,573 They're not really-- - They never been cool. 874 00:29:43,656 --> 00:29:45,617 It ain't just P'Jae and Jaylenn going on the trip, bae. 875 00:29:45,700 --> 00:29:46,993 - I mean, I know. 876 00:29:47,076 --> 00:29:48,536 I'm telling them, "Yeah, me and Tylynn talked 877 00:29:48,620 --> 00:29:49,996 and were able to apologize to each other," 878 00:29:50,079 --> 00:29:51,414 things like that. 879 00:29:51,498 --> 00:29:53,750 And Jerrold is basically like, "Wait, what?" 880 00:29:53,833 --> 00:29:55,543 He feels like there's a hierarchy 881 00:29:55,627 --> 00:29:58,171 where it's basically, like, Tylynn, then you and Jaylenn, 882 00:29:58,254 --> 00:30:00,215 and then it's like, people fall in their line. 883 00:30:00,298 --> 00:30:02,967 - I think it's a conversation worth having. 884 00:30:03,051 --> 00:30:05,386 [birds cawing] 885 00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:07,472 - ♪ You got me geeked up ♪ 886 00:30:07,555 --> 00:30:10,099 ♪ Don't play humble, I know you a freak, uh ♪ 887 00:30:10,183 --> 00:30:13,186 - Ty said she want to go to this therapy session, 888 00:30:13,269 --> 00:30:14,437 I'ma go. 889 00:30:14,521 --> 00:30:15,730 I'm gonna be a better man than I was 890 00:30:15,813 --> 00:30:17,065 when I walked in that motherfucker. 891 00:30:17,148 --> 00:30:18,650 - ♪ That's all me, uh ♪ 892 00:30:18,733 --> 00:30:20,610 ♪ And through the good-good-good, bad ♪ 893 00:30:20,693 --> 00:30:22,779 ♪ Ups and the downs, I'll still be here for you ♪ 894 00:30:22,862 --> 00:30:26,074 ♪ Let-let me cater to you, just be for real, dog ♪ 895 00:30:26,157 --> 00:30:27,534 ♪ Just be for real ♪ 896 00:30:27,617 --> 00:30:29,118 - Come in. - Hi. 897 00:30:29,202 --> 00:30:30,954 - What's up, TB? How are you? 898 00:30:31,037 --> 00:30:32,747 - Good, good to see you. - Hey. 899 00:30:32,830 --> 00:30:34,165 - What's good, my man? both: Nice to meet you. 900 00:30:34,249 --> 00:30:35,333 - Nice to meet you, nice to meet you. 901 00:30:35,416 --> 00:30:36,417 - Awesome. 902 00:30:36,501 --> 00:30:37,669 Welcome to therapy. 903 00:30:37,752 --> 00:30:39,087 - Hey, man, thanks for having me. 904 00:30:39,170 --> 00:30:41,464 - His first time. - Of course, of course. 905 00:30:41,548 --> 00:30:42,882 So first question. 906 00:30:42,966 --> 00:30:44,968 What brought us into couples therapy? 907 00:30:46,135 --> 00:30:48,263 - I feel like recently, 908 00:30:48,346 --> 00:30:53,434 we've been having differences in regards to family building. 909 00:30:53,518 --> 00:30:56,437 We just want to make sure that we're actually aligned 910 00:30:56,521 --> 00:30:58,439 and that we have the same goals. 911 00:30:58,523 --> 00:31:00,733 And what are some steps to communicate that 912 00:31:00,817 --> 00:31:02,277 and work through that? 913 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,070 - Communication is something that we want to work on. 914 00:31:04,153 --> 00:31:07,156 I want you to describe each other's communication style. 915 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,159 - Jaylenn is reactive. 916 00:31:10,243 --> 00:31:12,745 Like, when he's upset, he doesn't really care 917 00:31:12,829 --> 00:31:14,455 too much about the other person's feeling 918 00:31:14,539 --> 00:31:16,040 on the other end. 919 00:31:16,124 --> 00:31:17,333 - Mm-hmm. 920 00:31:17,417 --> 00:31:18,835 - Her communication style, to me, 921 00:31:18,918 --> 00:31:22,130 I feel like it's very, like, abrupt. 922 00:31:22,213 --> 00:31:24,591 My mind will switch from what we're actually-- 923 00:31:24,674 --> 00:31:26,884 the issue is to time-out. 924 00:31:26,968 --> 00:31:29,470 Like, you don't--you know we have to act like that. 925 00:31:29,554 --> 00:31:32,515 - Okay, are you guys okay if we revisit the past a little bit? 926 00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:33,808 - Sure. - Mm-hmm. 927 00:31:33,891 --> 00:31:34,851 - How long have we been together? 928 00:31:34,934 --> 00:31:36,311 - Almost four years. 929 00:31:36,394 --> 00:31:37,812 - What was the beginning of the relationship like, 930 00:31:37,895 --> 00:31:40,565 and how long did our honeymoon phase last? 931 00:31:40,648 --> 00:31:43,276 - The beginning was really, really fast. 932 00:31:43,359 --> 00:31:44,485 - Okay. 933 00:31:44,569 --> 00:31:46,779 - We only talked for, like, two months 934 00:31:46,863 --> 00:31:50,908 until, like, we had a situation 935 00:31:50,992 --> 00:31:54,787 and had to part ways. 936 00:31:54,871 --> 00:31:55,997 - Okay. 937 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,167 - I had ended up getting pregnant, 938 00:31:59,250 --> 00:32:02,086 and I told him what I was going to do. 939 00:32:02,170 --> 00:32:03,713 - What was the thing that you were gonna do? 940 00:32:03,796 --> 00:32:05,840 - I was gonna get an abortion. 941 00:32:11,763 --> 00:32:13,848 - You already made that decision on your own. 942 00:32:13,931 --> 00:32:15,224 - Yeah. 943 00:32:15,308 --> 00:32:17,101 No one around me 944 00:32:17,185 --> 00:32:18,728 has ever told me they had an abortion. 945 00:32:18,811 --> 00:32:20,313 - Hmm. - So I was really, like, 946 00:32:20,396 --> 00:32:21,397 the first one. 947 00:32:21,481 --> 00:32:23,775 And I feel like my family has 948 00:32:23,858 --> 00:32:26,402 this idealized version of me in their head, 949 00:32:26,486 --> 00:32:29,447 so I just felt like I would be failing them 950 00:32:29,530 --> 00:32:31,324 by telling them that I, like, got pregnant 951 00:32:31,407 --> 00:32:33,368 by someone I just met. 952 00:32:33,451 --> 00:32:35,495 - How did that affect you, Jay? 953 00:32:36,871 --> 00:32:41,125 - So on one end, I was, like, relieved. 954 00:32:41,209 --> 00:32:42,835 But then on the other end, I kind of wanted 955 00:32:42,919 --> 00:32:45,380 to step up to the plate and just figure it out. 956 00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:49,467 Like, I didn't communicate that. 957 00:32:49,550 --> 00:32:50,968 I get distant. 958 00:32:51,052 --> 00:32:53,513 So I couldn't just man up and tell her. 959 00:32:53,596 --> 00:32:57,225 - When I made the abortion appointment, 960 00:32:57,308 --> 00:32:58,601 everything was cool. 961 00:32:58,685 --> 00:33:02,063 And then he kind of stopped talking to me. 962 00:33:02,146 --> 00:33:03,731 - Okay. Where did that take you? 963 00:33:03,815 --> 00:33:06,734 - I felt like I was spiraling. 964 00:33:06,818 --> 00:33:09,487 I was just hitting him up so much, 965 00:33:09,570 --> 00:33:11,948 and he just wasn't responding. 966 00:33:12,031 --> 00:33:14,450 And then there was one time he sent me this note, like, 967 00:33:14,534 --> 00:33:16,411 "You're applying too much pressure," 968 00:33:16,494 --> 00:33:18,579 and, like, that's, like, scarred in my memory. 969 00:33:19,497 --> 00:33:20,915 - Mm. 970 00:33:20,998 --> 00:33:22,709 - I don't know, like, I felt like I was going crazy 971 00:33:22,792 --> 00:33:24,627 'cause it was just-- we were all good. 972 00:33:24,711 --> 00:33:26,629 And then the week of the appointment, 973 00:33:26,713 --> 00:33:29,090 it--like, complete 360. 974 00:33:29,173 --> 00:33:30,633 - Okay, so then how did we go 975 00:33:30,717 --> 00:33:33,720 from being supportive to then that behavior? 976 00:33:33,803 --> 00:33:37,390 Was there any outside influences in our ear 977 00:33:37,473 --> 00:33:39,142 that we were venting to? 978 00:33:39,225 --> 00:33:40,601 - Yes. - Okay. 979 00:33:40,685 --> 00:33:42,437 - What did they say? 980 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,230 - "Shit, is she even really pregnant?" 981 00:33:44,313 --> 00:33:47,442 Or, "Is she just trying to get money for it 982 00:33:47,525 --> 00:33:48,735 from you, from this abortion?" 983 00:33:48,818 --> 00:33:50,361 It's, like, just a bunch of noise. 984 00:33:50,445 --> 00:33:51,946 - Mm-hmm. 985 00:33:52,029 --> 00:33:53,489 - I was more, like, you know what I mean, 986 00:33:53,573 --> 00:33:57,118 fearful of just being, like, a bad boyfriend. 987 00:33:57,201 --> 00:33:58,911 - Mm. 988 00:33:58,995 --> 00:34:01,748 - I didn't need him to be my boyfriend. 989 00:34:01,831 --> 00:34:03,624 Like, the thing is, 990 00:34:03,708 --> 00:34:05,251 it's like, you didn't need to be my boyfriend 991 00:34:05,334 --> 00:34:06,544 when you had sex with me. 992 00:34:06,627 --> 00:34:07,920 You didn't need to be my boyfriend 993 00:34:08,004 --> 00:34:09,338 for me to get pregnant. 994 00:34:09,422 --> 00:34:11,090 Like, you don't need to be my boyfriend now 995 00:34:11,174 --> 00:34:13,134 that I'm having an abortion, you just need to be there. 996 00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:15,762 Now I'm scrambling to, like, have my friend 997 00:34:15,845 --> 00:34:17,388 take me to the appointment 998 00:34:17,472 --> 00:34:19,056 because you can't drive home that day. 999 00:34:19,140 --> 00:34:20,683 - Mm. 1000 00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:23,144 - Okay, now I have to forget this person 1001 00:34:23,227 --> 00:34:25,646 and just, like, focus on Ty. 1002 00:34:25,730 --> 00:34:28,524 - Honestly, until she told me that-- 1003 00:34:28,608 --> 00:34:29,984 when she went to the appointment 1004 00:34:30,067 --> 00:34:33,571 and that the lady said that it was twins, 1005 00:34:33,654 --> 00:34:36,324 that's when I kind of was like, 1006 00:34:36,407 --> 00:34:40,328 "Damn, like, you didn't have a second thought then?" 1007 00:34:40,411 --> 00:34:43,831 She was on birth control, and she took a Plan B the next day 1008 00:34:43,915 --> 00:34:45,666 and still had twins. 1009 00:34:46,501 --> 00:34:47,502 I don't know why, but selfishly, 1010 00:34:47,585 --> 00:34:49,003 my feelings was hurt. 1011 00:34:49,086 --> 00:34:51,589 Twins, I just felt like, damn, like, that's special. 1012 00:34:51,672 --> 00:34:54,217 We could have came back to the table 1013 00:34:54,300 --> 00:34:55,676 and talked about it. 1014 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:56,928 - Well, if you were there, 1015 00:34:57,011 --> 00:34:58,346 maybe I would have thought twice. 1016 00:34:58,429 --> 00:35:00,097 But, like, fuck no, like, 1017 00:35:00,181 --> 00:35:01,849 I'm not having anything. 1018 00:35:01,933 --> 00:35:03,726 Like, I was alone. 1019 00:35:05,103 --> 00:35:08,981 [Odunsi (The Engine)'s "Decided"] 1020 00:35:09,065 --> 00:35:13,194 - ♪ I dive in the deep end ♪ 1021 00:35:13,277 --> 00:35:18,324 ♪ I've been sinking to begin with ♪ 1022 00:35:18,407 --> 00:35:21,202 - This what I gotta do at Target now with this one. 1023 00:35:21,285 --> 00:35:23,287 Fucking ridiculous. 1024 00:35:23,371 --> 00:35:25,957 - ♪ Death is silent ♪ 1025 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,377 ♪ I decided ♪ 1026 00:35:29,460 --> 00:35:31,379 ♪ I need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1027 00:35:31,462 --> 00:35:34,257 - Honestly, I feel like I'm just toxic. 1028 00:35:34,340 --> 00:35:37,134 - ♪ Need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1029 00:35:37,218 --> 00:35:40,096 ♪ Need to go deeper ♪ 1030 00:35:40,179 --> 00:35:44,976 ♪ Never known my dad, never understood ♪ 1031 00:35:45,059 --> 00:35:47,562 ♪ He's been in my life but never in the loop ♪ 1032 00:35:47,645 --> 00:35:50,982 - Me and Jaylenn go through so much that people don't see. 1033 00:35:51,065 --> 00:35:53,025 We just love each other. 1034 00:35:53,109 --> 00:35:55,236 - ♪ Since I was a youth ♪ 1035 00:35:55,319 --> 00:35:59,282 - ♪ If I lost him now, don't know what I'd do ♪ 1036 00:35:59,365 --> 00:36:01,868 ♪ I need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1037 00:36:01,951 --> 00:36:04,412 ♪ Need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1038 00:36:04,495 --> 00:36:06,914 ♪ Need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1039 00:36:06,998 --> 00:36:09,166 ♪ Need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1040 00:36:09,250 --> 00:36:12,670 - Babe, I need you to come home now. 1041 00:36:12,753 --> 00:36:14,505 You see what happens when you leave? 1042 00:36:14,589 --> 00:36:16,966 - ♪ Need to go deeper, mm-hmm ♪ 1043 00:36:17,049 --> 00:36:19,260 ♪ Need to go deeper ♪ 1044 00:36:19,343 --> 00:36:24,348 ♪ ♪