-[narrator] Previously on Love in Paradise... -Are you ready?
[Alliya] What do you think?
That's very form-fitting.
Alliya is way different than Douglas was,
so I'm struggling
to decide if this is something I can sign up on,
or if it's gonna rub me the wrong way.
I don't have a job anymore, baby.
So, we don't have any more money coming in.
This is real.
[Luke] I also have to tell Madelein that this isn't my permanent move to Colombia.
I am absolutely dreading the [bleep] storm
that is about to rain down on me.
I don't like it.
But I'm telling you, I don't want that for myself anymore.
It's not going to happen.
-Did you have sex with another woman there? -[Kyle] I don't...
[Ani] Tell me.
I had intercourse to get somebody pregnant in Australia.
If we want to be in a serious relationship, I cannot do this.
You have to just stop it now.
[upbeat instrumental music]
[playful instrumental music]
[Luke] Baby.
-[Luke] I'm back! -Okay.
[Luke] I got you something.
-[squeals] -For you, baby.
[Luke] Do you like it?
[Luke] It's my first morning back in Colombia,
and I'm with the person that I love.
Historically, when I come to visit,
Madelein and I live a lavish lifestyle.
We'll go out clubbing. We'll go to restaurants.
We'll go shopping.
Here, let me open the door for you, baby.
But we can't afford to do that anymore.
So, today, I thought we'd try something different.
[upbeat instrumental music]
Colombia is famous for its coffee,
so I've always wanted to go to this coffee farm.
[Madelein speaking]
Wow.
It will, hopefully, be a very cheap and fun time.
Babe.
-What? -[Luke] I forgot to show you...
I got glasses made. The prototypes came in.
And I have a pair for you, too.
[gasps] Baby!
-So cute! I love it. -Do you like this?
Yeah, for a whole year.
One of the many businesses that I'm trying to get up and running
is my sunglass line.
So far, I have spent over $30,000 hiring a designer,
and a manufacturer to make prototype glasses.
So, I got this chain on,
so that you can wear them.
And, then, since they fold up,
it looks like a medallion.
Everything about the glasses is the highest level of quality,
and I think, once they're available on the market,
they'll sell out super-quickly,
and I know all my money problems will be solved.
Right before I flew,
I just paid just under 11 grand to get 300 made.
How do you pay for these glasses?
My 401-k.
After I got let go from my job,
I cashed in my 401-k for $20,000
and I sent another $10,000 to the manufacturer,
and they're gonna be making me 300 pairs of glasses.
Sometimes, there's decisions that just need to be made on the fly.
I know it must sound crazy to put half of what I have
into furthering glasses,
but I'm so confident that this is gonna work.
I am so honest with you. I am telling you everything all the time.
I never do this thing to you, never.
The money is already spent.
We'll get glasses in three months.
[Madelein speaking]
[tense instrumental music]
Don't touch me.
Do you want your glasses?
No. [bleep]
Sorry.
I just needed to make sure that it was paid for
before we run out of money.
The day's just getting started.
[tense instrumental music]
[upbeat instrumental music]
How are they able to build
-on the mountains like this? -I have no idea.
[both laugh]
It's my second day in Italy visiting my boyfriend, Adriano.
Our relationship had some challenging times,
but when we're good, we're good.
And the sex is... is amazing. [chuckles]
It's stunning!
So, even though dinner last night was a little rough,
I'm excited to spend the day at a local vineyard with him.
[soft instrumental music]
[Alex] Yes.
All right, let's go.
Sometimes, being with Adriano, it feels so calm and easygoing,
and I wish that it's always like this.
I feel like I can walk this all day.
-[Adriano] Yeah. -[Alex laughs]
[Alex] But I'm feeling pressured right now
to go along with all his plans.
[Adriano] We go from here.
-Yeah, I'm too tall for this place. -[both laugh]
[Alex] He wants to move to Australia.
He wants threesomes.
It's always about him, and it's never about us.
-Cheers to this beautiful girl and to this beautiful view. -Thank you.
But I love Adriano,
and I am hopeful that we can find that compromise,
that common ground,
and I can just live a happily-ever-after
with this beautiful Italian man.
This is fun.
[chuckles] Handsome.
[upbeat instrumental music]
Are you excited to meet my cousin?
Yeah, so excited.
You'll like her, I promise.
My cousin, Tiffaney, is traveling through Europe.
And, so, she decided to stop in Italy
when she found out I was going to be here.
I'm ready.
-[Adriano] Oh, wow. -I'm just about ready.
-[Adriano] You look so nice. -Thank you.
I want her to like Adriano,
but I did tell her some of the issues we were having.
-Nervous? -[Adriano] Just a little bit.
So, I know she has concerns about our relationship.
-Hey! -[Tiffaney] Hello, hello, hello!
I made it.
[Alex] Hello, my little love muffin.
-I'm so happy you're here. -Thank you.
-[Adriano speaking] -Okay. Well, hello.
-Well, we hug in this family. -[Adriano] Yeah.
Hello, Fabio.
I call him Fabio.
He just reminds me of one of those old school,
[gasps] handsome-looking Italian guys.
Italiano guys.
-There we go. -Thank you.
I can definitely see why Alex likes him.
[Alex] Yes.
Let's go. I'm excited.
But I'm very interested to see how he answers my questions
and make sure he's family material.
[upbeat instrumental music]
Mmm, that smells good.
It's so much. I'm so excited.
Ooh!
-[Tiffaney] Oh, and then, the cheese. -[Alex] Yes.
You did well ordering.
-[Adriano] Yeah? -You have a gift.
You give me free choice, that's what I did for you.
[all laughing]
So, are you gonna pray over this food?
Before we...
-You don't? Okay. -[Adriano] No.
I'm not really a believer.
You're an atheist?
[Tiffaney] And are you okay with that?
Right now, I'm okay.
But I do see it being a problem.
Having a relationship with God is a big part of who I am,
and it is very important to my family.
Up until now,
I haven't thought about how it would affect our relationship
or our future together.
So, it's not a deal-breaker for me just yet.
[Tiffaney] So, Adriano,
what do you follow? 'Cause I think that's a big part of Christianity.
That's where right and wrong, those type of things come into place.
Like, for example,
I don't think you're supposed to have threesomes.
[chuckles] But...
And just slide that on over here. Thank you very much. Appreciate that.
-[Alex] Mmm-hmm. -Oh, would you like some?
-[laughing] -After you.
So, this threesome thing is this something you're gonna wanna do forever?
"I'd just like to play with a whole another woman."
How much does it bother you?
Like, on a scale of one to ten, with ten being the...
highest.
Ten.
Oh, it's... Oh.
[tense instrumental music]
They say, I don't know who they are,
but they say, "Once a ho, always a ho."
[Alex] So, y'all ready to go?
-I'm already. -[Alex] All righty.
And if he's just got a taste of threesomes,
he's gonna have fun until he get tired,
his [bleep] fall off, or he get an STD.
Thank you.
[Adriano speaking]
[chuckles]
So you know how there's, like, points, right?
So, I was doing the math.
You have three points.
-So, what I would get for three points, then? -[Kyle] Uh...
That is one kiss.
[soft instrumental music]
[Ani] I knew my boyfriend, Kyle, was donating
sperm to women all over the world.
But, yesterday, Kyle admitted that he still has been donating sperm through sex.
I assumed that he was stopping because he fall in love with me,
and I'm really disappointed.
I don't know if I can be with him if he don't stop.
I'm willing to give him another chance
and, hopefully, with some time together, he is going to sacrifice it
and choose our relationship.
[upbeat instrumental music]
We are going together on a yacht cruise,
and it will be such a romantic setting.
I just want to feel relaxed and cozy with him,
and not to overthink right now.
Hey, hey! There she is.
I got my jeans.
-[Ani] How are you? You good? -Ooh! Better that I am with you.
Yes!
He has new trousers on, and I love it! He looks like a new person.
He actually looks really hot in the new trousers.
[romantic instrumental music]
[Kyle] Look at that view.
-It looks very romantic. -[Ani] Yeah.
Oh, look, these big boats.
-You should get me one. -Maybe.
I like that one.
-That one is cool. -It's a bit small, I think, you know?
[Kyle] When Ani found out about me donating naturally in Australia,
I didn't expect that her reaction would be so harsh.
But we're moving forward, it seems like.
I want her and I care about her,
so I'm gonna do what I can to fight for this woman.
Look at this.
-So good. -[Kyle] It does.
This is a nice little setup.
Yeah.
-Thank you. -[server] Bon appetit.
What?
Mmm.
So, you want to be forever traveling around with your little bag?
Well, I wanna travel with my little bag with you.
You can also have a little bag.
Mmm-hmm.
So, what we're doing with the kids, then? They travel with us?
Yeah, it would be fun to do that.
When you work during the day, who is going to take care of the baby or the child?
It's not like you put it in the corner in the place all eight hours alone.
Well, you put him in the crib.
No, you don't put it in the crib.
You need to teach that child things like showing the colors,
teaching the numbers.
[playful instrumental music]
When you have over 70 children,
you should know that kids are hard work.
They need diapers and walks,
and the job is not done by itself.
But he doesn't get it, I think.
But, you know, the kids, like, you know, like,
one, the kid doesn't remember.
-Did your mom do this to you? -[Kyle] I don't remember.
Did your mom work eight hours and put you on the side?
I don't remember what we did.
[laughing]
[Kyle] There was a surprise tonight.
-Yeah, what is it? -So you know how there's, like, points, right?
You did good on the points. I was doing the math.
-[Ani] Yeah? -You did good.
Well, for what I got the points, then?
You ate healthy tonight.
-You got a point for that. -[chuckles]
You look sexy tonight.
You get some points for that.
You have three points.
-So, what I get for three points, then? -[Kyle] Um...
That is one kiss.
Do I have your consent?
-I'm asking... I have to ask you for consent. -Aww, this is sweet
that you're asking.
Do I have your verbal consent?
Yeah, you have my consent.
[grunts]
-So, we're doing this? We're doing this. -All right. Okay.
And then, I'm going to put my hands on your leg.
-Okay. All right. So, here we go. -Okay, let's do one...
-Here we go. -Let's do one kiss.
I'm going to... How do I do? You gotta get closer.
Okay, wait. Hold up.
-Okay. -Okay. I can't see you.
-What are you doing? -[Kyle] I'm trying to figure this out.
The moment needs to be right.
Okay, so, come here.
Okay, one, two, three.
[Kyle moaning]
[laughing] What is this?
-[Kyle] That was it. -[laughing]
-That was so short. -[Kyle] That was our first kiss.
I thought that was a good kiss. What are you talking about?
-I'm in heaven right now. -[laughs]
I feel like...
-[Ani] All right. -...I'm in heaven.
[Ani] Tonight was interesting.
So, between all these awkward moments,
I can see his cute personality shining through.
Look at this. Now, I'm with a sexy lady.
-What is this? -In the skylight. Look at that.
Yeah.
I feel like things get in a better direction.
I just hope that his kissing skills will improve.
God, we're just like the power couple right now.
[Ani laughing]
[upbeat instrumental music]
Nice to meet you. Welcome to coffee farm.
I was so excited to spend this day
with Madelein at the coffee farm.
But she flipped out because I cashed out my retirement fund
and put half of it towards my new sunglasses line.
Really?
[Luke] She doesn't understand that, in order to make money,
you need to spend money.
And I have spent all my money on these different opportunities.
[host] We're gonna do one here.
It's almost like I have lottery tickets,
and I'm one step closer to having one of my tickets hit.
And it will hit.
-[host] Do you wanna do it? -Do you wanna do the thing?
Do you want to try it?
Here, I'll hold it for you.
Thank you.
[playful instrumental music]
Split.
Yeah. Get that out.
I am so [bleep] mad with him.
First of all, he lost his job and he don't told me for one [bleep] month.
[Luke] Good job!
[Madelein speaking]
Baby, maybe we should open a coffee bar.
[laughing]
[Madelein speaking]
-[hostess speaking] -[Luke speaking]
This coffee farm offers different coffee-themed spa treatments,
one of which is a coffee-exfoliating massage.
Baby, do you want to go first?
[Luke] Okay.
I decided to give Madelein the massage myself
because I need to butter her up.
She's already mad about the glasses,
and there's something else I need to tell her.
And I know if I keep any more secrets from her,
things can only get worse.
I'll start with your legs first.
[Madelein] Oh.
Does this feel good?
-[Madelein] Mmm-hmm. -Yeah.
Madelein thought that this trip is my permanent move to Colombia,
because it was supposed to be.
But now that I don't have my job anymore,
I feel less comfortable about moving
because I need to figure my [bleep] out.
But I know she's gonna be really upset.
[tense instrumental music]
About moving to Colombia...
I'm going all in on these businesses. I'm trying every single day.
But I don't have any money coming in.
So, I...
I want everything to work out, baby. Obviously.
[Luke] I don't know if this time is the trip
that I fully move here.
[tense instrumental music]
I'm thinking three weeks, baby.
Are you [bleep] kidding me?
[Luke] It really is financially driven, baby.
I am so sad because I hate to be alone here.
You're my best friend and I don't wanna be separated from you.
That's why I try so hard
to do what I do, to make this work.
[somber instrumental music]
I never wanna disappoint her.
I feel bad.
That makes me wanna try harder to...
to try and make things right.
I picture, like, my life, and I picture having
the perfect, happily-ever-after fairy tale.
And I'm not gonna [bleep] stop for nothing
until I get to where I need to be.
I just hope that, no matter what, she's gonna wait for me.
♪ Nothing I can say ♪
♪ There's nothing I can do ♪
♪ When you play With the heart of a woman ♪
I'm the same person that you met.
They also enjoyed and loved the quiet and the shy Douglas.
[upbeat instrumental music]
[grunting]
I arrived in Brazil several days ago
to spend time with my partner, Alliya.
She went to go get her nails done,
so I decided I should start organizing
because Alliya has turned this apartment already
into her own private beauty salon.
There's hair everywhere, makeup everywhere.
Did I tell you about this?
Our Adventure Book.
So, Alliya has been keeping a scrapbook calledOur Adventure Book.
It's the Shawn and Douglas story,
or at least that's how it begins.
[soft instrumental music]
He's handsome as Douglas, right?
Very manly.
I'm so glad that she's happier now than she was before,
but I don't think she understands my side of this situation.
This is one of my favorite pictures.
When you're in love with somebody,
it's not just a switch you can turn off.
I have to process how I can let go.
[somber instrumental music]
And then,
the Adventure Book ends.
At this point in time, I wanna
talk to Alliya more about what's going on with me
because I feel like there's an elephant in the room
that we're not addressing.
I don't know if Douglas will get ripped out of this.
So, I'm just gonna hope
that she can put herself in my shoes,
and be patient with me.
[upbeat instrumental music]
That looks great.
[Alliya speaking]
It's amazing.
[Shawn] We're right here.
-[both laughing] -Cheers.
So, I was in New York,
and I went to a boutique.
-[Alliya] Mmm. -[Shawn] And...
Ta-da!
Hopefully, you like it.
[romantic instrumental music]
So, that's something that you can wear
-around your neck, around your chest. -Oh, it's amazing.
-I wanna see what it looks like. -[Alliya] Okay.
As much as we're on this great barge and having this romantic night,
I feel like I also, after seeing the book,
need to talk to her about things that are on my mind and get that out.
This is crazy beautiful.
[Shawn] I still need to have some sort of
answers and considerations about my feelings and about where we're going.
I saw that you broughtOur Adventure Book
-that you made for us. -Yes.
I know the first page says "Shawn and Douglas,"
and I was, like, thinking, "Oh."
Like...
"What's gonna happen here?"
-The Alliya and Shawn story? -Yeah. [laughs]
I have an investment into the Douglas part of things,
as well as the Alliya part,
so I don't wanna act like
that never was part of our story when it's part of our story, right?
Yeah.
Do you think I'm other person now?
I'm here to find out, basically, yes?
Like I'm...
I'm the same person that you met.
And that's my choice.
It's like...
I was always the same person all of my life.
I always was Alliya.
Because I need to fight with family and with people
to be who I am, to be, like, free.
[sniffles]
I saw how much happier, how much more outgoing, you became as Alliya.
But I also enjoyed and loved the quiet and the shy, the timid,
this kind of scared Douglas.
And there are two different personality styles.
[tense instrumental music]
[Alliya] Hearing Shawn say that he liked Douglas
because Douglas was shy, timid, and scared
makes me feel confused.
Why do you want the person you love to feel scared?
I feel very sad because I really want him to understand
and to love the person that I am.
But he's trying to bring out
all that feelings and bad things that I wanna put in the past
because not part of my life anymore.
Maybe you...
you need, like, more time.
[sniffles]
If we're talking about moving forward,
you're gonna have Black kids.
What if my little girl come home from school
and someone told her she looked different?
'Cause I know what you say to me.
You tell me to suck it up.
He needs to try to be a little bit more understanding
towards the Black experience.
[upbeat instrumental music]
What?
But I'm happy because...
So ready for this? [laughs]
[Adriano] Where do we start?
[chef] So, you need a little bit of that one to put it on the...
[Alex] With my hands?
-[Alex] Oh, man, I love it. -[chef laughing]
Last night's dinner with Tiffaney gave me a lot to think about
in regards to our relationship.
It reminds me that he is culturally different
and we still have a lot to talk about.
But there's something about him that keeps me intrigued and wanting more.
All right.
He isn't afraid to show me that he cares,
and that's different than the American men that I've dated in the past.
[Adriano speaking]
American men like to play it cool,
and they're not as forward as European men.
I think I like the foreignness because at least I know where I stand with you.
-Tastes so good! -[laughing]
[Alex] Cheers.
[Adriano] Mmm.
[Alex] Yummy.
[Adriano] Hmm.
I really appreciate you taking me here.
So, about last night...
Yeah. I...
Well, and that's what I kind of wanted to talk to you about,
because if we're talking about moving forward,
when it comes to kids,
like, I'm gonna want my kids to go to church with me every Sunday.
[intriguing instrumental music]
Well... [sighs]
The person that you love, the kind, loving, caring individual,
came from the religion.
[Adriano speaking]
You're trying to convince me that what I believe in is stupid.
But when kids are involved, that's when it becomes a problem.
Another thing, though, in regarding to kids
is that you're gonna have Black kids.
I mean, you could be fine with that.
But what if my little girl come home from school
and she's crying because someone told her she looked different
and was making fun of her?
What are you gonna say? 'Cause I know what you say to me.
You tell me to suck it up.
And that hurts my feelings.
And I'm a grown person.
Adriano is the first white guy I've ever been in a relationship with,
and the hardest part is us not understanding each other.
He doesn't see the things that I see,
the little micro aggressions that I notice.
I would expect him to at least validate my feelings,
because my feelings are valid.
But he couldn't even do that.
When it comes to my kids, I want to protect my kids.
[Alex] I see a life with Adriano,
but he needs to try to be a little bit more understanding
towards the Black experience,
because I need him to be a safe place for our children.
I don't want my kids to then have that fear.
That's just a part of life.
That's what you're gonna have to go through. We all have to go through that.
Donating to women and not stopping
is like you're almost addicted to it.
I'm not addicted.
Who are you, like you're the saver of the world,
and you have to give all women babies?
I don't want my boyfriend to donate that.
I don't know what to say to you right now. I'm trying to, like...
[Ani] Oh, gosh. I don't know.
I have to stop this.
[upbeat instrumental music]
-[Kyle] Hey! -[Ani] How's it going?
-[Kyle] What's up? -[Ani] I'm waiting for you.
-[Kyle] I know. -[Ani] How are you?
-[Kyle] Ooh! -Mouth? Okay.
[Kyle] Fine, you get a kiss.
-One kiss for you. -Only one?
-One. Save the rest for later. -So, we're...
-So, we're going shopping? -Yes.
All right, so I think I have found a good shop for you, though.
The dinner cruise last night went very well, even though...
We had our first kiss,
and that makes me a little bit more hopeful
that we could have a potential relationship.
-Here's the men's section. -[Kyle] Oh, nice!
[Ani] So, let's see.
One of the best thing about last night
was him wearing the proper outfit,
like, including a shirt and a trouser.
I love men who have a little bit of style and know how to dress.
-What about trousers? You want to start looking at trousers? -Yes! Have a trouser.
-[Kyle] How do you know what this is? Oh, slim fit. -Let me check.
-I like that. That's slim fit. That's really good. -[laughing] Are you slim fit?
No, that's good. I like...
No, no! I like small.
But I feel like this might be too tight for you.
-[Kyle] I could probably fit it if I squeeze in. -[Ani scoffs]
They'll see your penis in the trouser.
-I don't mind if they see my-- -[Ani] No, I don't want that.
I don't mind it.
I wear extra small because they show off your curves,
your... your muscles and everything.
So I think it looks better.
-Why is it small? -[Kyle] It has to be extra small.
-All right. -Extra small.
Extra small.
[laughing] Oh, God.
Everything about me is extra small, except my penis.
Three, two, one.
[Ani] Ooh, I like it!
You look so cute in this.
-Does it look sexy? -Yeah, you look sexy.
Ooh!
I feel like, sometimes, you're not yourself yet.
-But now, I feel like you're... -Myself?
[Ani] ...showing your true colors now.
-[Kyle] Maybe I'm still opening up. -Yeah.
You're probably thinking, like, "Oh, I wish he would've jumped on me
just the first day. Started kissing me and everything."
But I didn't want you to feel like, "Oh, my God.
-He's just coming here 'cause he wanted to have sex." -No.
[Ani speaking]
Kyle and me haven't even kissed yet with the tongue.
But he has sex with strangers that he donates to.
I think the physical part of a relationship is really important
because that's where most women fall in love with,
when they have great sex with a man.
And so, for me, it's very, very important.
I feel like he's trying to make our relationship
differ from the relationships he has with his donors.
But I just hate that him being a donor
is affecting our physical relationship.
Donating to women and not stopping,
it's like you're almost addicted to it.
I'm not addicted. No.
-No, I just wanna put up a point here. -Yeah.
This girl has a baby.
This woman doesn't have a baby.
-She's running out of time. -I don't care about this.
I'm so nice to her.
[Ani] Yeah, but I don't care about these things anymore.
I don't care about other women.
If they run out of time, they can find other man.
I don't want my boyfriend to donate that, you know?
Who are you, like you're the saver of the world
and you have to give all women babies?
I mean, if you wanna be with me,
I don't care if there's women who are in need.
Because I'm your woman then, you know?
I don't know how to respond. I don't know what to say.
-I don't know what to say. -Because you don't want to stop donating.
I don't know what to say right now.
I don't know how to respond to this.
I don't know the answer right now.
[tense instrumental music]
-Oh, God! -I don't know the answer to the question right now.
I don't really know the answer to the question right now.
I'm trying to like...
[Ani] Oh, gosh, I don't know. I have to stop this. [sobbing]
[Ani speaking]
[sobbing]
Still to come on Love in Paradise...
♪ Oh stay ♪
♪ As long as we don't let this moment go ♪
-[singing indistinctly] -Oh!
[laughing]
I don't really like this long hair
that's, like, very masculine.
And I want my face to look more feminine.
Alliya wants to look more and more feminine,
and now I'm realizing that I either need
to get on board or let go of both Alliya and Douglas.
He said he wouldn't mind having
a threesome with me and Tiffaney.
Girl!
That's not okay.
My cousin? That shouldn't even cross your mind.
I'm going home, and I'm staying home.
I want to marry you,
but with the financial concerns, it brings up the prenup.
Everybody does it, for protection.
Last night, me and Ani,
we had sex for the first time.
It was good -- I think it was great.
I -- we didn't bring that up.
Right now, I'm just feeling like a hot mess,
and panic attacks.
I'm not ready to have a baby with Kyle.
Definitely not.