1 00:00:06,047 --> 00:00:08,633 Previously on Love in Paradise... 2 00:00:17,100 --> 00:00:21,021 I made a huge mistake keeping the truth from Gabby. 3 00:00:27,402 --> 00:00:32,157 He basically said he's seen some other women in the past year. 4 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,034 I'm trying to kinda hold back on the conflict. 5 00:00:34,117 --> 00:00:37,829 That's the problem with you. You can't be holding back. 6 00:00:37,912 --> 00:00:41,458 She deserves a partner that's going to be someone that she can rely on 7 00:00:41,541 --> 00:00:44,127 and I definitely hope that it's somebody else 8 00:00:44,210 --> 00:00:46,796 that she can really share her life with. 9 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:50,216 You were outright trying to control my actions. 10 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:54,262 Maybe you are acting like this because you don't feel good with me. 11 00:00:54,346 --> 00:00:58,308 Before I came to Colombia, my plan was to propose to Carlos, 12 00:00:58,391 --> 00:01:05,023 but I can't propose until I'm sure this relationship has a future. 13 00:01:08,151 --> 00:01:09,819 He feels like he's the man of the house 14 00:01:09,903 --> 00:01:12,322 and he wants to know who's coming. Of course I'm the man of the house. 15 00:01:12,405 --> 00:01:15,950 He is paying rent, so if he wants to bring somebody back, he can. 16 00:01:22,123 --> 00:01:24,084 This is your fault. 17 00:01:56,241 --> 00:01:58,952 I go get your chair for ya. 18 00:02:00,370 --> 00:02:03,540 My mum is in town to meet Aryanna and Odin 19 00:02:03,623 --> 00:02:05,333 and Karen for the first time. 20 00:02:06,668 --> 00:02:09,629 My parents divorced when I was ten years old 21 00:02:09,713 --> 00:02:11,965 and my mum moved to the US. 22 00:02:12,048 --> 00:02:13,758 We still have a special bond, 23 00:02:13,842 --> 00:02:16,970 but talking on the phone to my mum on video chat 24 00:02:17,053 --> 00:02:20,056 is not like actually seeing her in person. 25 00:02:20,140 --> 00:02:24,060 And right now, I'm over the moon that she's here so I could hug her. 26 00:02:24,811 --> 00:02:26,479 Yes, sir. So how does it feel 27 00:02:26,563 --> 00:02:28,440 to be back in Jamaica, my mother? 28 00:02:28,523 --> 00:02:30,233 Grateful. 29 00:02:37,532 --> 00:02:41,536 Aryanna's mum arrive in Jamaica today too. 30 00:02:41,619 --> 00:02:44,164 Tonight, we're all getting together for dinner. 31 00:02:44,247 --> 00:02:48,960 So is everything OK with you and Aryanna? 32 00:02:49,044 --> 00:02:51,755 Well, we've been having some good days, 33 00:02:51,838 --> 00:02:54,924 but I don't know what she's telling her mum. 34 00:02:55,008 --> 00:02:57,510 So, you know, I don't know what to expect. 35 00:02:59,262 --> 00:03:05,310 I would like to see Sherlon getting married at some point in his life 36 00:03:05,393 --> 00:03:09,022 and settled down, raise his child. 37 00:03:10,690 --> 00:03:13,985 I would love to see Sherlon and Aryanna together. 38 00:03:14,069 --> 00:03:17,113 It's my wish, but it's up to them. 39 00:03:18,615 --> 00:03:20,367 I see 'em coming there, Mummy. 40 00:03:24,204 --> 00:03:27,082 I wonder if the baby is sleeping. 41 00:03:27,165 --> 00:03:29,167 Hello. Hi. 42 00:03:29,250 --> 00:03:32,796 You need help there or you got it? 43 00:03:34,339 --> 00:03:39,135 Earlier today, I filled my mum in that Sherlon 44 00:03:39,219 --> 00:03:41,179 has been sleeping around for the last year 45 00:03:41,262 --> 00:03:44,307 and she was not pleased to hear that. 46 00:03:44,391 --> 00:03:46,142 Hello. Hello, nice to meet you. 47 00:03:46,226 --> 00:03:47,936 I'm Karen. Very nice to meet you. I'm Joan. 48 00:03:48,019 --> 00:03:50,897 Joan, very nice to meet you. This is Aryanna. 49 00:03:50,980 --> 00:03:53,441 I know. It's so good to see you in person. 50 00:03:54,025 --> 00:03:58,905 So I am very anxious as to how this dinner is gonna go. 51 00:04:00,156 --> 00:04:02,367 Oh, my God, and the little man over there. 52 00:04:02,450 --> 00:04:06,746 Oh, my God, he's so, so super cute. 53 00:04:09,874 --> 00:04:12,752 Mr Sherlon, seeing your son for the first time. 54 00:04:12,836 --> 00:04:14,963 Has it been pretty emotional for you? 55 00:04:15,046 --> 00:04:19,050 Can I tell you, like, my love for him 56 00:04:19,134 --> 00:04:24,055 has only gotten stronger seeing him. 57 00:04:30,395 --> 00:04:33,023 Is everything OK with you and this guy here? 58 00:04:34,149 --> 00:04:36,317 I would say, if it's OK, it's just OK. 59 00:04:36,401 --> 00:04:39,612 I think things could always be better, right? 60 00:04:39,696 --> 00:04:43,783 Definitely. But I think we're working on it. 61 00:04:45,827 --> 00:04:49,831 Working on it? It what? We are working on us, Mum. 62 00:04:49,914 --> 00:04:51,916 We are working on us. OK. 63 00:04:53,585 --> 00:04:57,922 Like, he came her so quick, like, it happened fast. 64 00:04:58,006 --> 00:04:59,674 It happened fast. 65 00:05:04,220 --> 00:05:06,306 I get what you're saying. 66 00:05:06,389 --> 00:05:09,851 But the choices you two made doesn't give you that opportunity 67 00:05:09,934 --> 00:05:12,187 like a normal couple would. That's right. 68 00:05:12,270 --> 00:05:14,272 You know both have a responsibility 69 00:05:14,356 --> 00:05:16,816 that's a big deal. I agree. 70 00:05:16,900 --> 00:05:19,110 Because I don't think you really understand 71 00:05:19,194 --> 00:05:23,823 just how difficult this is for her on her own. 72 00:05:27,452 --> 00:05:29,913 I know Miss Karen is not my biggest fan, 73 00:05:29,996 --> 00:05:33,166 but I wasn't expecting her to come in this hot, 74 00:05:33,249 --> 00:05:35,126 especially in front of my mum. 75 00:05:35,210 --> 00:05:40,924 There are times I come home from work and she is in the shower crying 76 00:05:41,007 --> 00:05:42,967 because she's had a rough day with Odin. 77 00:05:43,051 --> 00:05:45,470 She doesn't have anybody she can turn to. 78 00:05:45,553 --> 00:05:48,890 I call her every day, or I try to call her every day. 79 00:05:48,973 --> 00:05:52,060 Sometimes two times a day. But you never ask about me. 80 00:05:52,143 --> 00:05:54,562 You talk about you and you talk about Odin. 81 00:05:54,646 --> 00:05:57,023 You never ask about me. 82 00:05:57,107 --> 00:06:00,193 So you don't open up, you don't say nothing to him? 83 00:06:00,276 --> 00:06:02,070 If I try to bring, like, certain things up to him, 84 00:06:02,153 --> 00:06:03,947 it's just like and he doesn't like it, 85 00:06:04,030 --> 00:06:06,741 it's just like then I won't hear from him for, three or four days. 86 00:06:06,825 --> 00:06:08,743 Yeah, I have seen that happen. 87 00:06:10,370 --> 00:06:13,581 All right, I tell her all the time that I appreciate her, 88 00:06:13,665 --> 00:06:19,796 but sometimes me, I don't like to hear the... 89 00:06:21,047 --> 00:06:27,929 sad stuff and I will pull her up, because it makes me feel guilty. 90 00:06:28,013 --> 00:06:29,764 But is that fair? 91 00:06:34,686 --> 00:06:39,024 Hearing how Sherlon is not doing the right thing 92 00:06:39,107 --> 00:06:42,652 by supporting her emotionally... 93 00:06:47,282 --> 00:06:49,325 I'm shocked. 94 00:06:49,409 --> 00:06:51,161 I didn't grow him up that way. 95 00:06:51,786 --> 00:06:55,081 Sherlon, I'm gonna say my two cents. 96 00:06:55,165 --> 00:06:57,208 Get yourself together. 97 00:06:57,292 --> 00:07:02,213 Yes, you will call for your baby and talk to him or whatever, 98 00:07:02,297 --> 00:07:03,965 but you got to talk to her too. 99 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,555 Yes, Mummy. 100 00:07:13,725 --> 00:07:16,728 Aryanna, it don't matter what it is, 101 00:07:16,811 --> 00:07:20,315 say how you truly feel and what you truly want... 102 00:07:29,616 --> 00:07:31,368 It's just, like, when I first met you, 103 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:35,497 like, you we just so nice and loving and caring to me. 104 00:07:35,580 --> 00:07:37,374 And I really looked at you 105 00:07:37,457 --> 00:07:41,086 like, "OK, this is somebody I could really be with." 106 00:07:41,169 --> 00:07:45,423 And then literally as soon as I was pregnant, you changed completely. 107 00:07:47,133 --> 00:07:49,260 You misled me in a lot of ways. 108 00:07:50,136 --> 00:07:52,681 You literally got what you wanted from me, you have a son, 109 00:07:52,764 --> 00:07:55,767 where I'm there doing all the hard work by myself. 110 00:07:56,559 --> 00:07:59,104 And it's like my feelings go out the window. 111 00:08:04,025 --> 00:08:06,903 All right, ladies. Ladies, ladies, ladies. 112 00:08:06,986 --> 00:08:09,197 This conversation is making my head hurt. 113 00:08:13,910 --> 00:08:16,204 How come every time we bring up something difficult like this 114 00:08:16,287 --> 00:08:18,164 you say your head hurts or you don't wanna continue? 115 00:08:18,248 --> 00:08:19,916 All right, no. Talk about it. 116 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,837 Let us talk about what's on your mind. Just keep it real. 117 00:08:24,462 --> 00:08:27,090 You gotta do the right thing. I'm serious. 118 00:08:30,093 --> 00:08:32,554 Even my own mother is against me on this one. 119 00:08:32,637 --> 00:08:35,098 So, I cannot beat around the bush no more. 120 00:08:35,181 --> 00:08:37,851 I have to be honest and tell her the truth. 121 00:08:38,560 --> 00:08:40,437 Go ahead, sir. 122 00:09:07,088 --> 00:09:09,132 It's kimono night. I know. Girl's night. 123 00:09:09,215 --> 00:09:11,968 Cheers! Cos we're fabulous. 124 00:09:14,220 --> 00:09:16,723 My friend Ashton has been living with us for a week now 125 00:09:16,806 --> 00:09:21,478 and although Daniel's not happy, I love it. 126 00:09:22,228 --> 00:09:24,856 Do you wanna do a body shot. Oh, come on. 127 00:09:24,939 --> 00:09:28,193 No, no, no, no, no. Come on, now. 128 00:09:28,276 --> 00:09:31,821 After being at work all day and having to come home to just Daniel, 129 00:09:31,905 --> 00:09:33,573 he's usually miserable, 130 00:09:33,656 --> 00:09:38,161 so I do like having Ashton here, so I can laugh and just let loose. 131 00:09:41,373 --> 00:09:43,375 Wanna see me do a handstand? I can do a handstand. 132 00:09:43,458 --> 00:09:46,127 I can do, no, not a handstand, a headstand. 133 00:09:46,211 --> 00:09:50,090 I would do, but my scrotum would fall out. 134 00:09:52,384 --> 00:09:54,469 I knew all this was gonna happen. 135 00:09:55,345 --> 00:09:57,180 Nope. 136 00:10:10,402 --> 00:10:12,070 We need a pool. 137 00:10:12,153 --> 00:10:14,823 Yeah, we can swim around and be drinking in the pool. 138 00:10:14,906 --> 00:10:16,783 In the pool... Cos right now, I wish we was-- 139 00:10:16,866 --> 00:10:18,618 Heated pool. 140 00:10:23,248 --> 00:10:24,916 I want to say something, 141 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,961 but the last time I say something about the house. 142 00:10:32,298 --> 00:10:36,094 I just want my wife to consider my feelings. 143 00:10:37,929 --> 00:10:40,056 How about we make a little cat parade? 144 00:10:40,140 --> 00:10:43,101 Yeah! Cat parade. 145 00:10:46,062 --> 00:10:47,731 Kitty! 146 00:10:52,318 --> 00:10:54,112 Calvin! 147 00:10:56,573 --> 00:10:58,533 Cat parade! Come here. 148 00:10:59,284 --> 00:11:02,037 Pappy! Pappy... 149 00:11:04,497 --> 00:11:06,916 Come here. Meow, meow! 150 00:11:09,878 --> 00:11:14,132 This situation make me miss my life in Costa Rica, 151 00:11:14,215 --> 00:11:19,262 so I call my brother, David, because he is my best friend. 152 00:11:58,343 --> 00:12:02,972 I always want to bring my brother here to United State. 153 00:12:06,142 --> 00:12:12,148 For that, I need a Green Card and I don't even have my work permit yet, 154 00:12:12,232 --> 00:12:13,900 so it's... 155 00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:34,087 Meow! Meow! 156 00:13:23,470 --> 00:13:25,388 I love Amber. 157 00:13:35,899 --> 00:13:41,696 Yours. You did not shut the treat bag and it feel out the cupboard. 158 00:13:43,948 --> 00:13:45,658 I don't wanna. 159 00:13:46,409 --> 00:13:48,328 I don't wanna. 160 00:14:04,094 --> 00:14:06,346 Let me have fun, please? 161 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:10,308 We used to have fun in Costa Rica. What changed? 162 00:14:12,185 --> 00:14:15,188 I don't know who I am anymore. I don't know my identity. 163 00:14:15,271 --> 00:14:18,692 I don't know where I'm headed. Like, I feel lost. 164 00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:24,489 For two seconds, I'm allowed to forget, Daniel. 165 00:14:25,407 --> 00:14:28,243 Forget this hot mess. This is a hot mess. 166 00:14:28,326 --> 00:14:31,079 Do you know how hard this is? You're not working full-time. 167 00:14:31,162 --> 00:14:32,956 You're not the driver for everything. You're not the mother. 168 00:14:33,039 --> 00:14:35,417 You're not the teacher, translator. You're not the secretary. 169 00:14:35,500 --> 00:14:37,669 You're not making sure we lose all of our money. 170 00:14:39,879 --> 00:14:41,965 No, no one told me this. 171 00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:43,800 No one told me this! 172 00:14:44,467 --> 00:14:46,636 Nobody told me this, Daniel! 173 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,139 Nobody told me this, so give me a fucking break! 174 00:14:50,140 --> 00:14:53,852 Gimme a break! Please, gimme a break! 175 00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:09,503 2 00:14:50.120 -- 00:14:54.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% Last night was the most horrible night of my entire life. 176 00:15:32,724 --> 00:15:38,021 I finally tell Gaby my plans to marry Frankie and go to the US. 177 00:15:39,105 --> 00:15:40,815 She was so hurt. 178 00:15:40,899 --> 00:15:46,404 She get her own hotel room and now she don't want to talk with me. 179 00:15:50,325 --> 00:15:52,786 Hi. Hey, sister. 180 00:15:53,828 --> 00:15:55,830 How are you? I'm good. How about yourself? 181 00:15:55,914 --> 00:15:59,209 How about yourself? Oh, I don't know. 182 00:16:01,127 --> 00:16:03,505 Rodney asked to meet up today 183 00:16:03,588 --> 00:16:06,341 because he has some more questions for me. 184 00:16:06,925 --> 00:16:09,803 And I want to make sure that he understand 185 00:16:09,886 --> 00:16:13,640 that I never meant to mislead anyone. 186 00:16:13,723 --> 00:16:15,934 So, what happened last night after we left? 187 00:16:16,017 --> 00:16:18,269 It seemed like you guys wasn't in a good spot. 188 00:16:18,353 --> 00:16:20,605 Gaby say that I lied to her. 189 00:16:29,072 --> 00:16:31,950 See, I feel bad because I thought 190 00:16:32,033 --> 00:16:34,077 when you guys realised he wasn't coming, 191 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,371 I thought that y'all had communicated. 192 00:16:36,454 --> 00:16:38,248 So I'd like to apologise for bringing it up last... 193 00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:40,792 No, no, no, don't apologise. It was my fault. 194 00:17:11,406 --> 00:17:16,036 She feel like I am gonna leave her here in Mexico 195 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:21,624 and I go only searching for my own love with Frankie. 196 00:17:21,708 --> 00:17:27,213 And I explained that the first plan was that Frankie cames 197 00:17:27,297 --> 00:17:31,926 and proposed to me and get married in United States 198 00:17:32,010 --> 00:17:38,516 and after that, I'm gonna search the way to bring Gaby with me, 199 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:41,436 but she doesn't understand so clearly. 200 00:17:46,983 --> 00:17:51,780 My understanding was Frankie was exclusively with you. 201 00:17:52,739 --> 00:17:55,075 Even when he went to go buy the ring, 202 00:17:55,158 --> 00:17:57,369 he was only focused about you and him. 203 00:17:58,203 --> 00:18:01,956 He never mentioned to me about bringing Gaby back. 204 00:18:02,665 --> 00:18:06,336 When we talk for the first time about the marriage, 205 00:18:06,419 --> 00:18:11,299 he say that he will search the way to bring Gaby with me. 206 00:18:13,551 --> 00:18:17,806 There's now way you can bring two girls back to the United States. 207 00:18:17,889 --> 00:18:19,808 No. There's no way. 208 00:18:21,059 --> 00:18:25,855 It's impossible to bring two women back to the United States. 209 00:18:25,939 --> 00:18:27,732 I'm not sure if Abby knew that 210 00:18:27,816 --> 00:18:30,360 or if she was trying to mislead Frankie. 211 00:18:30,443 --> 00:18:32,487 I'm still unclear about that. 212 00:18:32,570 --> 00:18:35,198 But I felt like there was some secrets there 213 00:18:35,281 --> 00:18:39,244 and that makes me sceptical about Frankie's relationship with Abby. 214 00:18:39,327 --> 00:18:41,371 Cos I'm like, if she's not honest with this person 215 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,456 that she's been with for ten years, 216 00:18:43,540 --> 00:18:46,251 what makes you think she's gonna be honest with you? 217 00:18:47,544 --> 00:18:50,588 So, one of the concerns that I had was, 218 00:18:50,672 --> 00:18:53,008 were you taking advantage of the opportunity 219 00:18:53,091 --> 00:18:56,553 to try to come to the United States? Was it a financial gain? 220 00:18:56,636 --> 00:18:58,888 I mean, that was just something, because I was like, it was too soon. 221 00:18:58,972 --> 00:19:02,392 It's a possibility, I know. It was happening too fast. 222 00:19:03,101 --> 00:19:05,979 I never asked him for money, 223 00:19:06,062 --> 00:19:11,901 but he say, "Maybe if you came in here to United States, 224 00:19:11,985 --> 00:19:16,656 we can be together and you can have more opportunity. 225 00:19:16,740 --> 00:19:19,367 And we'll be happy." 226 00:19:19,451 --> 00:19:21,828 So that connection was real. Yeah. 227 00:19:22,579 --> 00:19:25,957 But he broke my heart and he didn't care. 228 00:19:27,667 --> 00:19:30,462 I only went to be with Frankie 229 00:19:30,545 --> 00:19:33,840 because I thought that we were in love. 230 00:19:34,382 --> 00:19:36,760 I was always honest with him. 231 00:19:37,844 --> 00:19:40,597 If anyone was a liar, it's Frankie. 232 00:19:41,222 --> 00:19:45,143 He didn't tell Rodney we are talking about bring Gaby with us 233 00:19:45,226 --> 00:19:48,021 and he makes me believe that it was possible 234 00:19:48,104 --> 00:19:51,733 the three of us we can live together in the US. 235 00:19:52,942 --> 00:19:56,613 Even though he doesn't wanna hurt you guys or come between you two, 236 00:19:56,696 --> 00:19:58,406 he still shoulda explained 237 00:19:58,490 --> 00:20:01,034 "Hey, I don't wanna do this because this, this and that." 238 00:20:01,117 --> 00:20:05,538 I really appreciate your honestly and your love for us. 239 00:20:05,622 --> 00:20:07,499 But for right now... 240 00:20:20,470 --> 00:20:23,014 It's best to be transparent and upfront. 241 00:20:23,098 --> 00:20:24,891 The relationship will be better. 242 00:20:24,974 --> 00:20:28,436 It just works for the best when you're upfront and honest. 243 00:20:29,813 --> 00:20:33,149 I really love Gaby and I don't know what I was thinking 244 00:20:33,233 --> 00:20:38,113 risking everything for a man I only met for five days. 245 00:20:38,196 --> 00:20:42,659 I'm so afraid that I have destroyed everything and might lose her. 246 00:21:05,265 --> 00:21:07,017 Look at this. 247 00:21:23,491 --> 00:21:25,952 I don't wanna have to feel like I have to defend myself 248 00:21:26,036 --> 00:21:27,996 or explain myself every five seconds. 249 00:21:28,079 --> 00:21:30,165 It's condescending. Stop it. 250 00:21:30,248 --> 00:21:34,919 You know, the attitude, the tone you use, you are not listening. 251 00:21:35,003 --> 00:21:36,838 Leave me along. 252 00:21:41,426 --> 00:21:46,598 Luckily, we talked last night and we are in a better place now. 253 00:22:31,976 --> 00:22:36,147 God, that was fun. Thank you for kiss the experience. 254 00:22:36,231 --> 00:22:41,277 He's so sexy and hot and I'm just dying for him. 255 00:22:42,946 --> 00:22:45,448 I wanna come back and do it again one day. 256 00:22:45,532 --> 00:22:47,951 Yep, definitely all of it was good. 257 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:49,869 I even seen you a little bit more comfortable 258 00:22:49,953 --> 00:22:53,581 with being more intimate out here versus when we were in Barranquilla. 259 00:22:54,958 --> 00:22:58,253 Gimme a kiss. Love you. 260 00:22:58,962 --> 00:23:01,464 I can tell that Carlos is much more open. 261 00:23:01,548 --> 00:23:06,845 His body language, the excitement in his voice, 262 00:23:06,928 --> 00:23:08,722 the energy I feel from him, 263 00:23:08,805 --> 00:23:13,184 let's me know that he feels supers comfortable in Santa Marta. 264 00:23:14,602 --> 00:23:16,312 I hope this newfound openness 265 00:23:16,396 --> 00:23:18,732 expands to other areas in our relationship. 266 00:23:21,484 --> 00:23:26,156 We still have some time left on this trip together and see how it goes. 267 00:23:26,239 --> 00:23:28,533 I hope to figure shit out. 268 00:23:29,909 --> 00:23:32,037 I know you always is looking at my butt 269 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:33,997 and grabbing my butt and being like, "Well, you got a fat ass." 270 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,625 I'm always looking at your butt and "Ooh, your ass is so perfect." 271 00:23:38,626 --> 00:23:40,670 We are both tops. 272 00:23:41,504 --> 00:23:46,384 I have hope in my soul that you, maybe one day, could be bottom. 273 00:23:47,260 --> 00:23:49,054 "Maybe one day." You so funny. 274 00:23:50,889 --> 00:23:53,850 Since Carlos and I both identify as tops, 275 00:23:53,933 --> 00:23:56,311 we have been enjoying sex without penetration 276 00:23:56,394 --> 00:23:58,605 ever since I arrived in Colombia, 277 00:23:58,688 --> 00:24:01,691 but I know Carlos has been hoping that I will be verse, 278 00:24:01,775 --> 00:24:07,447 which means being open to doing a combination of top and bottom. 279 00:24:07,530 --> 00:24:09,991 But that just ain't me. 280 00:24:10,075 --> 00:24:14,120 As a polyamorous person, my solution is to introduce a third person 281 00:24:14,204 --> 00:24:16,706 into the relationship that identifies as a bottom. 282 00:24:17,415 --> 00:24:20,794 I just have to get Carlos on board with the idea. 283 00:24:21,711 --> 00:24:24,089 Did you ever think you would fall for somebody that was polyamorous 284 00:24:24,172 --> 00:24:27,217 or did you even know what polyamory was before you met me? 285 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:32,639 Actually, the first time I heard the polyamorous word was with you. 286 00:24:34,474 --> 00:24:39,187 I know we talked about bringing a third person in and I'm ready now. 287 00:24:39,270 --> 00:24:41,648 I need for you to feel more confident 288 00:24:41,731 --> 00:24:43,983 that we could handle something like that. 289 00:24:46,695 --> 00:24:51,950 I know you have the capacity to love different person at the same time 290 00:24:52,033 --> 00:24:58,832 and I think that we need time to understand better each other. 291 00:25:07,257 --> 00:25:11,344 I understand Carlos's hesitation with polyamory 292 00:25:11,428 --> 00:25:14,472 and I agree, considering how much Carlos and I have been fighting 293 00:25:14,556 --> 00:25:16,349 since I arrived. 294 00:25:17,392 --> 00:25:21,396 Maybe we do need more time as couple before we venture out 295 00:25:21,479 --> 00:25:24,983 and consider adding a third person to this relationship. 296 00:25:25,066 --> 00:25:29,487 How about we spend two or three years monogamous 297 00:25:29,571 --> 00:25:32,866 and after three years or so, go from there? 298 00:25:33,908 --> 00:25:35,785 That gives plenty of time. 299 00:25:43,209 --> 00:25:45,503 Perfect to me. All right. 300 00:25:46,588 --> 00:25:50,550 I was hoping that VaLentine will become bottom, 301 00:25:50,633 --> 00:25:54,346 but right now he's really good at other things 302 00:25:54,429 --> 00:25:59,809 and I feel completely satisfied without penetration. 303 00:25:59,893 --> 00:26:02,854 The benefits to wait two or three years 304 00:26:02,937 --> 00:26:05,482 to be polyamorous in this relationship 305 00:26:05,565 --> 00:26:09,986 are that we will have time to know each other more 306 00:26:10,070 --> 00:26:12,864 before including a third person. 307 00:26:12,947 --> 00:26:15,700 Three years, yes? Thank you, yeah. 308 00:26:18,787 --> 00:26:22,582 I do really appreciate that, because I know that is hard for you. 309 00:26:23,958 --> 00:26:27,337 I'm willing to make this compromise for Carlos because I love him. 310 00:26:27,420 --> 00:26:31,174 And I have to trust that Carlos will stick to this agreement 311 00:26:31,257 --> 00:26:35,470 and that we can revisit the idea of polyamory in two to three years. 312 00:26:35,553 --> 00:26:41,184 But if Carlos can't accept polyamory and totally shuts it down altogether 313 00:26:41,267 --> 00:26:44,896 and say he's not willing to do it, 314 00:26:44,979 --> 00:26:48,441 that could be the end of our relationship, I think. 315 00:26:49,442 --> 00:26:51,778 Yeah, I mean, it'll almost be inevitable. 316 00:32:10,055 --> 00:32:10,315 2 00:31:10.200 -- 00:31:13.520 align:middle line:90% position:50% I haven't seen Gaby since our fight last night, 317 00:32:33,620 --> 00:32:36,831 but now she has finally agreed to talk with me. 318 00:32:42,754 --> 00:32:47,509 I only hope that Gaby understands that I love her so much 319 00:32:47,592 --> 00:32:51,429 and my plans with Frankie always included her. 320 00:35:13,113 --> 00:35:17,325 I really did feel equal love for Frankie and Gaby 321 00:35:17,409 --> 00:35:19,536 and I don't regret it. 322 00:35:20,078 --> 00:35:23,039 But I know I should include Gaby 323 00:35:23,123 --> 00:35:26,626 in my conversation with Frankie about our plans 324 00:35:26,710 --> 00:35:29,629 because she was in the plan from the beginning. 325 00:37:03,056 --> 00:37:03,317 2 00:35:43.120 -- 00:35:44.760 align:middle line:90% position:50% Go ahead, sir. 326 00:37:24,035 --> 00:37:26,913 I take full ownership of... 327 00:37:29,624 --> 00:37:31,626 misleading you, Aryanna. 328 00:37:32,836 --> 00:37:35,547 Everything that you said, yes, it's true. 329 00:37:38,550 --> 00:37:43,722 I get what I want in terms of sexual stuff. 330 00:37:43,805 --> 00:37:48,268 I get what I want, sometimes I lose interest. 331 00:37:50,061 --> 00:37:52,063 When we just met, it was all fun. 332 00:37:52,147 --> 00:37:57,777 That was it for me and I didn't take it as seriously as Aryanna. 333 00:37:58,903 --> 00:38:01,531 In the beginning, I charmed Aryanna 334 00:38:01,614 --> 00:38:05,744 to think that I wanted a serious relationship and I didn't mean it. 335 00:38:05,827 --> 00:38:08,329 But when she got pregnant, it got complicated. 336 00:38:08,413 --> 00:38:11,374 And I couldn't just run away like I normally do. 337 00:38:14,711 --> 00:38:17,422 ...we are tied because of Odin. 338 00:38:17,505 --> 00:38:21,092 I wouldn't have got into this situation with you 339 00:38:21,176 --> 00:38:24,554 if I had any doubts about what kind of person you were. 340 00:38:24,637 --> 00:38:26,723 You presented yourself in a way to me 341 00:38:26,806 --> 00:38:29,684 that it was just kind of like, all a lie. 342 00:38:32,937 --> 00:38:34,773 For a long time now, 343 00:38:34,856 --> 00:38:39,277 I've suspected that Sherlon has misled me from the start. 344 00:38:40,153 --> 00:38:44,741 How do you say you love someone and wanna share a life with them 345 00:38:44,824 --> 00:38:49,662 and then completely shut down once they've had your baby? 346 00:38:49,746 --> 00:38:54,584 But any time we've talked about it, he would change the subject. 347 00:38:54,668 --> 00:38:59,506 The truth stings, but I finally got it out of him. 348 00:39:00,965 --> 00:39:03,134 Well, guess what, you need to stop going around 349 00:39:03,218 --> 00:39:06,638 and messing with people's daughters. 350 00:39:06,721 --> 00:39:11,685 Because this conversation right now, you know what I feel like? 351 00:39:11,768 --> 00:39:15,021 I feel like I want the best for my daughter and I want someone. 352 00:39:15,105 --> 00:39:18,775 Right now, from hearing you, I don't think that you might be the one, 353 00:39:18,858 --> 00:39:23,571 because you are too into how you feel 354 00:39:23,655 --> 00:39:25,323 to open up to anybody else. 355 00:39:25,407 --> 00:39:27,784 And she deserves better than that. That's all there is to it. 356 00:39:27,867 --> 00:39:29,744 She deserves better. 357 00:39:29,828 --> 00:39:33,915 She deserves someone that's going to cherish and love her. 358 00:39:33,998 --> 00:39:35,750 Love her, cherish her and nourish her, 359 00:39:35,834 --> 00:39:39,796 because I would want a man in my life that would take care of me. 360 00:39:45,969 --> 00:39:48,596 To see Aryanna get emotional... 361 00:39:50,098 --> 00:39:53,435 I get emotional too, 362 00:39:53,518 --> 00:39:57,564 because I feel her pain and I feel for her. 363 00:39:58,815 --> 00:40:02,652 Because I would not want anybody to treat me 364 00:40:02,736 --> 00:40:05,113 the way that he is treating Aryanna. 365 00:40:07,449 --> 00:40:11,619 As hard as the conversation will be, if you truly do not feel 366 00:40:11,703 --> 00:40:15,040 that there's any chance of any type of relationship between you two, 367 00:40:15,123 --> 00:40:16,833 then she needs to move on. 368 00:40:16,916 --> 00:40:18,668 And if you really are a good person, 369 00:40:18,752 --> 00:40:20,670 you will realise that and you will give her that opportunity 370 00:40:20,754 --> 00:40:23,131 if that's how you truly feel in your heart. 371 00:40:23,214 --> 00:40:25,342 Don't dance around that one. Yes. 372 00:40:28,928 --> 00:40:31,181 Hold on, can I ask you a question, sir? 373 00:40:35,226 --> 00:40:37,354 Are you scared of being loved? 374 00:40:39,272 --> 00:40:42,650 It's not afraid of being loved, man. 375 00:40:42,734 --> 00:40:47,489 It's about being afraid of making myself vulnerable. 376 00:40:48,156 --> 00:40:54,287 Do you know why? When I was in the tenth grade, right, 377 00:40:54,371 --> 00:40:57,248 I had this little girlfriend from school days, 378 00:40:57,332 --> 00:40:59,668 I just generally love her. 379 00:40:59,751 --> 00:41:02,921 But then her own family member told me that, 380 00:41:03,004 --> 00:41:04,673 "Sherlon, she's cheating on you." 381 00:41:06,466 --> 00:41:09,010 That made my heart cold. 382 00:41:09,094 --> 00:41:14,933 And from that day, I put a wall up around my heart. 383 00:41:21,064 --> 00:41:26,945 I mean, at this point, I'm, like, bro ,you're a 36-year-old man. 384 00:41:27,028 --> 00:41:29,989 That was 20 years ago. 385 00:41:30,073 --> 00:41:33,410 Like, I had my heart broke at 16 too, 386 00:41:33,493 --> 00:41:37,497 but you don't see it, directing the rest of my life. 387 00:41:37,580 --> 00:41:40,834 Like, that is something you should a laid to rest a long time ago. 388 00:41:42,335 --> 00:41:45,005 Everybody's had a bad heartbreak in their life, 389 00:41:45,088 --> 00:41:48,550 but you don't shut down your life forever. That's not healthy. 390 00:41:48,633 --> 00:41:52,762 I just have to fix my trust issues and commitment issues. 391 00:41:52,846 --> 00:41:54,514 I got to work on me. 392 00:41:54,597 --> 00:41:56,641 But do you have a plan to fix yourself? 393 00:41:56,725 --> 00:41:59,102 Cos you can't just say that I'm gonna fix myself. 394 00:41:59,185 --> 00:42:02,647 If I have to see a psychiatrist to fix myself, I will. 395 00:42:02,731 --> 00:42:04,816 If that's what it takes. 396 00:42:04,899 --> 00:42:08,236 Do you think you could have a relationship, 397 00:42:08,319 --> 00:42:12,824 like a serious relationship with Aryanna, 398 00:42:12,907 --> 00:42:14,868 not dancing around anything? 399 00:42:18,955 --> 00:42:22,751 Mum, of course. OK. 400 00:42:22,834 --> 00:42:25,045 Yeah, and we are working on us. 401 00:42:26,421 --> 00:42:29,424 Because, again, I don't want her to keep... 402 00:42:31,009 --> 00:42:32,969 Waiting on you? ...waiting on me, 403 00:42:33,053 --> 00:42:35,138 because it's unfair to her. 404 00:42:37,015 --> 00:42:40,185 If Sherlon does not follow through on his promises 405 00:42:40,268 --> 00:42:44,731 he's making about changing, I will be very disappointed in him, 406 00:42:44,814 --> 00:42:48,485 but I'm also probably not gonna be too surprised. 407 00:42:50,236 --> 00:42:53,573 I just don't think he's right for her. Not at all. 408 00:42:55,867 --> 00:42:58,328 Your mum and I have told you all what we feel like 409 00:42:58,411 --> 00:43:01,039 and it's you two, you've gotta work this out. 410 00:43:01,122 --> 00:43:04,918 I'm more than willing to watch Odin 411 00:43:05,001 --> 00:43:06,961 so you guys can have some time together, 412 00:43:07,045 --> 00:43:10,924 because by the end of this trip, you need to decide what's gonna go on. 413 00:43:13,176 --> 00:43:15,929 Here I have this beautiful girl that wants to be with me 414 00:43:16,012 --> 00:43:19,057 and a son who deserve his father in his life. 415 00:43:19,140 --> 00:43:22,894 It would be selfish of me not to try to make it work, 416 00:43:22,977 --> 00:43:25,980 but it's something I've never done in my life, 417 00:43:26,064 --> 00:43:30,276 so I will just have to try harder 418 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:33,822 to, like, not fall back... 419 00:43:35,407 --> 00:43:37,158 and go back to my dirty ways. 420 00:43:39,077 --> 00:43:42,497 We say our peace, we can't make you do anything. 421 00:43:42,580 --> 00:43:44,708 So it's up to you. It's up to you. 422 00:43:45,834 --> 00:43:47,627 Choose wisely. 423 00:43:56,845 --> 00:43:58,847 Next time on Love in Paradise. 424 00:43:58,930 --> 00:44:01,641 I've never been to a Venezuelan barbecue. 425 00:44:07,063 --> 00:44:12,110 It just wasn't exactly like a normal American barbecue 426 00:44:12,193 --> 00:44:14,070 with hot dogs and hamburgers. 427 00:44:14,154 --> 00:44:15,989 What is this? 428 00:44:17,991 --> 00:44:20,118 No! 429 00:44:35,884 --> 00:44:41,681 This pretty little face that you have and your fat-ass booty. 430 00:44:46,811 --> 00:44:51,232 This is the first time since Odin was conceived 431 00:44:51,316 --> 00:44:55,904 that Sherlon and I are flirting again. 432 00:44:59,908 --> 00:45:01,576 What have you told her? 433 00:45:01,659 --> 00:45:03,912 I didn't give her so many details. 434 00:45:03,995 --> 00:45:07,582 I'm planning to tell my sister that I'm homosexual. 435 00:45:07,665 --> 00:45:10,168 Oh, my God, she's here. 436 00:45:11,294 --> 00:45:14,214 My heart is beating so fast.