1 00:00:05,714 --> 00:00:07,924 NARRATOR: Previously on Love In Paradise... 2 00:00:14,806 --> 00:00:16,725 ABBY: I hope that Gaby understands 3 00:00:16,808 --> 00:00:21,980 that I love her so much and my plans with Frankie always included her. 4 00:00:31,489 --> 00:00:33,533 ARYANNA: Tonight we can just kind of like... 5 00:00:33,616 --> 00:00:35,368 Enjoy each other's company. 6 00:00:36,327 --> 00:00:40,707 ARYANNA: It's nice to feel those butterflies and sparks again. 7 00:00:40,790 --> 00:00:44,127 Making the lions stir. 8 00:00:44,210 --> 00:00:47,255 GROWLS 9 00:00:49,382 --> 00:00:52,218 CARLOS: Oh, my God she is here. 10 00:00:52,302 --> 00:00:57,182 Tonight, I'm planning to tell my sister that I'm homosexual. 11 00:01:01,144 --> 00:01:03,855 I just don't know how to jump into it. 12 00:01:03,938 --> 00:01:05,857 After that I'm gonna have a heart attack. 13 00:01:15,283 --> 00:01:18,787 DANIELE: I really believed in the beginning that Yohan loved me for me 14 00:01:18,870 --> 00:01:22,040 and when you have love, you can get through anything, 15 00:01:22,582 --> 00:01:25,377 but I don't know if that's what this is any more. 16 00:01:25,460 --> 00:01:27,337 I really don't. 17 00:01:28,588 --> 00:01:31,132 Right now I don't know that I wanna marry him. 18 00:01:59,744 --> 00:02:04,040 Tonight, I invite my sister to a restaurant 19 00:02:04,124 --> 00:02:09,212 because I want to tell her the truth that I'm homosexual 20 00:02:09,838 --> 00:02:14,217 and I'm going to introduce Valentine to her as my boyfriend. 21 00:02:28,690 --> 00:02:33,194 This is one of the hardest things that I ever have to do. 22 00:02:33,278 --> 00:02:36,406 My whole life I tried to keep this part of me 23 00:02:36,489 --> 00:02:38,199 hiding from my family 24 00:02:38,283 --> 00:02:42,829 because I was really worried maybe they will not accept me. 25 00:02:43,955 --> 00:02:48,001 But, you know, I can't continue doing that any more. 26 00:02:48,084 --> 00:02:51,546 Valentine is so important in my life 27 00:02:51,629 --> 00:02:54,799 and he doesn't want to feel like he has to hide. 28 00:04:55,045 --> 00:04:57,756 I feel so good 29 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:03,678 like I don't know how come I lose all these years 30 00:05:03,762 --> 00:05:05,513 hiding who I really was. 31 00:05:07,891 --> 00:05:11,186 I'm with my boyfriend, with my sister. 32 00:05:11,269 --> 00:05:13,021 She's not judging me. 33 00:05:18,234 --> 00:05:21,279 VALENTINE: Carlos, is it OK? I mean what is... 34 00:05:21,363 --> 00:05:24,282 She says she's OK. She's my sister. She love me. 35 00:05:29,454 --> 00:05:31,456 LAUGHS 36 00:05:33,083 --> 00:05:35,126 Can I hug you? 37 00:05:36,836 --> 00:05:38,963 Nice to meet you. 38 00:06:06,116 --> 00:06:08,451 I want to thank you for being open minded 39 00:06:08,535 --> 00:06:10,662 and being loving because sometimes that luxury 40 00:06:10,745 --> 00:06:13,665 is not extended by family members 41 00:06:13,748 --> 00:06:17,293 and it can really crush a person's spirit. 42 00:06:17,377 --> 00:06:20,630 I was afraid this conversation would go badly 43 00:06:23,383 --> 00:06:25,552 and he wouldn't... 44 00:06:25,635 --> 00:06:29,014 I didn't know how to I was gonna deal with it 45 00:06:29,097 --> 00:06:33,518 and so thank you for being kind 46 00:06:33,601 --> 00:06:37,689 and open hearted and supporting him. 47 00:06:39,566 --> 00:06:41,776 VALENTINE: This actually means so much 48 00:06:41,860 --> 00:06:44,154 for my relationship with Carlos. 49 00:06:44,237 --> 00:06:47,323 Now he can live his life freely and openly. 50 00:06:47,407 --> 00:06:49,492 He doesn't have to sacrifice his family. 51 00:06:49,743 --> 00:06:51,870 He can have them as well as have me. 52 00:07:30,450 --> 00:07:32,243 CARLOS: Seeing my sister being supportive 53 00:07:32,327 --> 00:07:36,122 and loving to me right now means the world to me 54 00:07:36,206 --> 00:07:40,001 but it also makes harder decision 55 00:07:40,085 --> 00:07:44,130 to go to America and live a life with Valentine. 56 00:07:47,842 --> 00:07:51,721 I've been knowing Valentine in person just for five days 57 00:07:51,805 --> 00:07:55,225 but I've been waiting to have a honest relationship 58 00:07:55,308 --> 00:07:57,185 with my sister for my whole life. 59 00:07:58,937 --> 00:08:00,855 This is a turning point for me 60 00:08:00,939 --> 00:08:03,900 because things with Valentine are really working out. 61 00:08:03,983 --> 00:08:06,736 I just hope that things will stay like that 62 00:08:06,820 --> 00:08:10,573 otherwise it will be totally difficult for me 63 00:08:10,657 --> 00:08:14,202 to leave everything behind and go with him. 64 00:08:46,192 --> 00:08:47,986 DANIELE: Yohan and I just left his hometown 65 00:08:48,069 --> 00:08:51,573 and we're driving back to the hotel in Santo Domingo. 66 00:08:51,656 --> 00:08:53,450 We're supposed to get married tomorrow 67 00:08:53,533 --> 00:08:55,952 and I have more doubts than ever. 68 00:09:13,053 --> 00:09:17,432 I'm never sure of anything, Yohan. You can never be sure. 69 00:09:20,310 --> 00:09:21,978 Before this week we've always talked 70 00:09:22,062 --> 00:09:24,147 about me moving to the Dominican Republic 71 00:09:24,230 --> 00:09:26,316 but as we get closer to the wedding, 72 00:09:26,399 --> 00:09:28,943 it seems like he's more and more adamant about him 73 00:09:29,027 --> 00:09:32,072 moving to New York which makes me really suspicious. 74 00:09:36,785 --> 00:09:40,830 I really believe in the beginning that Yohan loved me for me. 75 00:09:40,914 --> 00:09:43,375 But right now I don't know, 76 00:09:43,458 --> 00:09:47,587 like is this love or is this just him looking for an opportunity? 77 00:09:56,680 --> 00:09:59,349 Because I wanted to be a little bit traditional 78 00:09:59,432 --> 00:10:02,352 about something I decided to book Yohan a separate hotel room 79 00:10:02,435 --> 00:10:05,480 the night before our wedding and I'm so glad that I did 80 00:10:05,563 --> 00:10:08,817 because I feel like I need some space from him 81 00:10:08,900 --> 00:10:11,653 and I really want to talk to one of my girlfriends. 82 00:10:13,238 --> 00:10:15,657 Hi. Hey. 83 00:10:15,740 --> 00:10:17,701 How are you? 84 00:10:17,784 --> 00:10:20,036 So, I didn't realise you were still in D.R. 85 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:24,332 Yeah, and I'm supposed to get married tomorrow 86 00:10:25,583 --> 00:10:27,919 at like 9:00 in the morning. 87 00:10:31,089 --> 00:10:33,008 DANIELE: Lizzette is one of my closest friends 88 00:10:33,091 --> 00:10:35,552 and what I love about her, she's just no bullshit. 89 00:10:35,635 --> 00:10:37,429 She tells it exactly how it is 90 00:10:37,512 --> 00:10:42,017 and so if I ask her to look at this from a different lens, 91 00:10:42,100 --> 00:10:44,185 she'll be able to offer me some insight 92 00:10:44,269 --> 00:10:46,062 that maybe I can't see right now. 93 00:10:47,564 --> 00:10:51,860 This has been a very eventful trip for sure. 94 00:10:52,485 --> 00:10:57,240 "Eventful?" Eventful, a very eventful trip. 95 00:10:57,323 --> 00:11:01,870 Like it was very clear that my goal was to leave New York and come here 96 00:11:01,953 --> 00:11:05,415 and now I feel like as time has passed, 97 00:11:05,498 --> 00:11:08,543 he's like more and more intent on spending time in the U.S. 98 00:11:10,045 --> 00:11:11,796 If that's what he wants to do 99 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,966 but if you don't want to do that isn't that compromising? 100 00:11:15,050 --> 00:11:17,802 I mean this is beyond a compromise, OK? 101 00:11:17,886 --> 00:11:22,098 I think the issue is, Yohan wants to help his family 102 00:11:22,182 --> 00:11:25,268 and he wants to be able to work in the United States 103 00:11:25,352 --> 00:11:27,062 and send money home 104 00:11:27,145 --> 00:11:32,484 and so for me one of my concerns is like if I'm trying to move 105 00:11:32,567 --> 00:11:34,569 and have a life with more peace 106 00:11:34,652 --> 00:11:38,490 and like not working so much, am I in a place in my life 107 00:11:38,573 --> 00:11:43,995 where I want to take on helping someone else's family? 108 00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:49,042 For some reason he thinks that I have millions of dollars like, 109 00:11:49,125 --> 00:11:52,462 like millions and millions of dollars 110 00:11:52,545 --> 00:11:56,883 but in reality my life in New York is very fucking expensive. 111 00:11:56,966 --> 00:11:59,469 I make as much money as I spend. 112 00:11:59,552 --> 00:12:01,388 And I'd like to downgrade 113 00:12:01,471 --> 00:12:04,057 and like do half of the work that I do 114 00:12:04,140 --> 00:12:06,309 or a quarter of the work that I be able to survive 115 00:12:06,393 --> 00:12:09,479 and live the same life somewhere else. 116 00:12:09,896 --> 00:12:13,149 And that's why I think you and him need to really sit down. 117 00:12:13,233 --> 00:12:15,026 how are we building this life 118 00:12:15,110 --> 00:12:18,113 because those are so many questions still 119 00:12:18,196 --> 00:12:20,073 and sorry no offence 120 00:12:20,156 --> 00:12:22,492 but he doesn't have anything that you want right now, 121 00:12:22,575 --> 00:12:26,621 financially, so you have more to lose 122 00:12:26,705 --> 00:12:30,583 and I don't know him, I don't know if this was all theatrics 123 00:12:30,667 --> 00:12:34,546 but it's hard for me to think 124 00:12:34,629 --> 00:12:38,550 that you would just ignore those questions. 125 00:12:40,093 --> 00:12:44,556 In my heart I really don't feel like he has bad intentions. 126 00:12:44,639 --> 00:12:48,685 I really don't feel that and I'm... I'm crazy but I'm not naive. 127 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:51,104 But you know you don't really know somebody 128 00:12:51,187 --> 00:12:55,692 until you're with them, that's the part that that worries me. 129 00:12:57,944 --> 00:13:00,155 DANIELE: I understand why Lizzette is so concerned 130 00:13:00,238 --> 00:13:02,907 because I've only known Yohan for five months. 131 00:13:02,991 --> 00:13:05,076 Historically I always operate with my heart 132 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,203 and I really act quickly 133 00:13:07,287 --> 00:13:09,873 because I go with my intuition and my gut instinct 134 00:13:09,956 --> 00:13:13,001 but I'm wondering, I need to check in with my head 135 00:13:13,084 --> 00:13:17,047 a little bit more and think more rationally than what I'm used to. 136 00:13:19,341 --> 00:13:22,677 And again I'm going to go back to why the rush? 137 00:13:22,761 --> 00:13:25,305 Even if you said I wanna leave New York 138 00:13:25,388 --> 00:13:29,309 that can still happen without necessarily marrying him. 139 00:13:29,392 --> 00:13:32,896 That's the part that that just I struggle with right. 140 00:13:32,979 --> 00:13:35,315 One of the things that I'm concerned about 141 00:13:35,398 --> 00:13:38,068 is the chances of me having a baby, 142 00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:44,407 you know, are slim so like, I don't feel like I have time. 143 00:13:46,034 --> 00:13:49,120 One of the biggest reasons why I've been rushing to marry Yohan 144 00:13:49,204 --> 00:13:51,498 is because we're already trying to have a baby 145 00:13:51,581 --> 00:13:55,043 and in my past, my life has been so chaotic and unstable 146 00:13:55,126 --> 00:13:58,046 and all over the place and I wanna bring a child into the world 147 00:13:58,129 --> 00:14:01,007 in like a stable, solid, loving family. 148 00:14:01,508 --> 00:14:04,511 And while I've realised that I don't have to marry Yohan 149 00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:07,347 to have a baby with him, it's really what I want. 150 00:14:07,972 --> 00:14:11,184 Is there a rush because you wanna have this potential baby 151 00:14:11,267 --> 00:14:14,354 or is it because you wanna be in this partnership with him? 152 00:14:14,437 --> 00:14:17,565 I think it's both. So, I, we have talked about that 153 00:14:17,649 --> 00:14:21,861 and I had said, like, if we don't have a baby, 154 00:14:21,945 --> 00:14:24,948 is this still a relationship that you want? And he says, "Yes." 155 00:14:25,031 --> 00:14:27,158 And if I couldn't have a baby, 156 00:14:27,242 --> 00:14:29,327 this would still be a relationship I want. 157 00:14:29,411 --> 00:14:31,955 What I really want is to have a baby with him. 158 00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:34,374 If you saw how he is with children and... 159 00:14:34,457 --> 00:14:37,544 what kind of person he is, he is such a beautiful human 160 00:14:37,627 --> 00:14:39,629 and has such a good heart. I don't know. 161 00:14:39,713 --> 00:14:45,010 I keep hearing everybody's concerns and I think they're so valid, 162 00:14:45,093 --> 00:14:48,805 but it's also like, I feel like I know him. 163 00:14:49,180 --> 00:14:54,185 How? You know him in La La Land right now. 164 00:14:54,269 --> 00:14:58,023 Like, you say you know him but you know him in the biblical sense, 165 00:14:58,106 --> 00:15:01,484 but like how else do you really know him? 166 00:15:02,902 --> 00:15:05,405 Everybody keeps saying to me to give myself time 167 00:15:05,488 --> 00:15:09,284 and what I really have to think about is 168 00:15:09,367 --> 00:15:11,953 if I want to give myself more time. 169 00:15:18,418 --> 00:15:20,420 DANIELE: I'm supposed to marry Yohan tomorrow 170 00:15:20,503 --> 00:15:22,505 and don't know what I'm gonna do 171 00:15:22,589 --> 00:15:25,550 but I'm just hoping that whatever decision I make 172 00:15:25,633 --> 00:15:28,178 it's not the biggest mistake of my life. 173 00:15:28,970 --> 00:15:31,848 You say you want this life of peace. 174 00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:33,725 This is all the opposite of that. 175 00:15:39,939 --> 00:15:42,650 There's something telling me something's not sitting right 176 00:15:42,734 --> 00:15:45,153 and I'm just thinking why not, 177 00:15:45,236 --> 00:15:47,530 why not just hold off on the wedding? 178 00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:51,211 2 00:19:18.640 -- 00:19:23.000 align:middle line:90% position:50% ABBY: I don't need any person in my life only Gaby 179 00:20:12,754 --> 00:20:15,173 and I'm making my commitment 180 00:20:15,256 --> 00:20:19,969 to love her and respect her all the rest of my life. 181 00:20:29,854 --> 00:20:33,274 # Let's get lost in paradise # 182 00:20:40,031 --> 00:20:42,909 # Let's get lost in paradise # 183 00:20:51,251 --> 00:20:54,671 ARYANNA: Last night Sherlon and I left Odin 184 00:20:54,754 --> 00:20:57,257 with my mum for a sleepover, 185 00:20:57,340 --> 00:21:02,595 so we could go on our first date in over a year. 186 00:21:03,346 --> 00:21:06,224 # Let's get lost in paradise # 187 00:21:06,307 --> 00:21:08,810 And we were in our comfort zone. We were. 188 00:21:08,893 --> 00:21:12,063 Because like that spot was like the first place we actually met. 189 00:21:12,147 --> 00:21:15,900 You know it was nice to end that night on a... 190 00:21:15,984 --> 00:21:19,070 Good basis. On a good basis, yeah. 191 00:21:20,655 --> 00:21:26,036 Last night was it was like good old times. 192 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:31,583 Definitely. I had to try my best and not to make another Odin. 193 00:21:35,378 --> 00:21:37,922 But we had protection so... 194 00:21:38,006 --> 00:21:41,301 But, you know, you never know. 195 00:21:42,385 --> 00:21:44,179 Stop blushing, man. 196 00:21:44,262 --> 00:21:46,473 CHUCKLES 197 00:21:53,772 --> 00:21:55,440 It was just good you know. 198 00:21:56,858 --> 00:21:59,736 Sexy time? What's that? 199 00:21:59,819 --> 00:22:01,780 You acting like a teenager bro. 200 00:22:01,863 --> 00:22:04,032 LAUGHS 201 00:22:05,116 --> 00:22:07,494 But on a real note did you enjoy yourself? 202 00:22:07,577 --> 00:22:10,497 I did. I enjoyed myself a lot. OK. 203 00:22:11,122 --> 00:22:16,461 ARYANNA: Last night was fun but now it's time to hash out 204 00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:20,465 all of the things I came down here stressing about. 205 00:22:22,342 --> 00:22:25,136 I only have a few days to spend with my boy 206 00:22:25,220 --> 00:22:27,764 and it's like literally breaking my heart, 207 00:22:27,847 --> 00:22:30,266 ripping it out and stomping on it. 208 00:22:32,352 --> 00:22:35,939 It's more than what I expected. You know? 209 00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:39,109 There has been some really nice family moments for us. 210 00:22:39,192 --> 00:22:41,277 Definitely. 211 00:22:42,237 --> 00:22:45,323 I just want you to be able to see your son 212 00:22:45,407 --> 00:22:48,910 but I wonder when we will even be able to see you again. 213 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,080 For me it will be unfair for me to ask you like, 214 00:22:52,163 --> 00:22:55,250 "Aryanna, take him now and just see me whenever." 215 00:22:55,333 --> 00:22:57,085 Right. Right? 216 00:22:57,168 --> 00:23:01,673 So what does that mean in terms of like, you know, a visa? 217 00:23:03,216 --> 00:23:05,635 ARYANNA: I haven't brought up the tourist visa 218 00:23:05,719 --> 00:23:10,932 since earlier in the trip because it happens to always lead to a fight. 219 00:23:11,599 --> 00:23:15,645 But in reality it's still the most practical way 220 00:23:15,729 --> 00:23:19,649 for us to spend more time together 221 00:23:19,733 --> 00:23:23,278 and for Odin to spend more time with his dad. 222 00:23:23,820 --> 00:23:26,072 I mean the tourist visa would take a while 223 00:23:26,156 --> 00:23:29,993 but I want to just, you know, really try and push for that. 224 00:23:36,624 --> 00:23:38,918 The best-case scenario 225 00:23:41,546 --> 00:23:46,718 is that I get the visa and I could come when I want. 226 00:23:46,801 --> 00:23:51,556 So I'm going to do what I have to do to make the application. 227 00:23:53,808 --> 00:23:56,519 I am feeling like locked to that little boy 228 00:23:56,603 --> 00:23:59,689 I don't want to let him out of my sight, you know? 229 00:24:00,774 --> 00:24:03,151 I'm gonna do everything in my powers 230 00:24:03,234 --> 00:24:08,281 to get a date set regardless of embassy situation. 231 00:24:09,657 --> 00:24:11,993 SHERLON: In the past I was on the fence 232 00:24:12,077 --> 00:24:14,621 about me committing to the tourist visa 233 00:24:15,497 --> 00:24:19,626 because I've lived my life for me, myself and I, you know? 234 00:24:19,709 --> 00:24:23,254 But now that I have bonded so strong with Odin, 235 00:24:23,338 --> 00:24:26,716 the tourist visa is definitely a priority for me, 236 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,344 but because of the pandemic the embassy has been closed, 237 00:24:29,427 --> 00:24:32,222 so it's impossible to get a visa right now. 238 00:24:32,305 --> 00:24:37,310 So the minute the embassy is open I will be the first in line 239 00:24:37,394 --> 00:24:40,605 because I need to see my son and I cannot do this 240 00:24:40,689 --> 00:24:42,565 from across the ocean. 241 00:24:42,649 --> 00:24:47,570 I'm gonna do all of that, what I have to do to make the application. 242 00:24:47,654 --> 00:24:49,572 Yeah, because I just feel like,.. 243 00:24:49,656 --> 00:24:51,324 it would be, you know, 244 00:24:51,408 --> 00:24:53,576 'cos you've like verbally committed to it before... 245 00:24:53,660 --> 00:24:55,537 ..so it would be nice... Nah man. 246 00:24:55,620 --> 00:24:57,414 ..to see like the action. Action. 247 00:24:57,497 --> 00:24:59,207 Actions speak louder than words. 248 00:24:59,290 --> 00:25:04,462 And even if I don't get it like when I get the date set, 249 00:25:05,380 --> 00:25:07,173 like, we'd have to talk and say, 250 00:25:07,257 --> 00:25:10,427 "Look. If we have to even split the fare 251 00:25:10,510 --> 00:25:12,721 for you guys to come, you know?" 252 00:25:12,804 --> 00:25:14,723 Right like split the flights. Exactly. 253 00:25:14,806 --> 00:25:19,227 Like, we have to consider all options at this point. 254 00:25:19,310 --> 00:25:22,063 'Cos the tourist visa would take a while but, you know, 255 00:25:22,147 --> 00:25:26,151 and we would still, we could work like work stuff out in between, 256 00:25:26,234 --> 00:25:28,194 but I wanna just, you know, 257 00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:31,823 really try and push for that for the sake of Odin, you know. 258 00:25:31,906 --> 00:25:33,575 Hey, I agree. 259 00:25:33,658 --> 00:25:39,289 And for me I would say like I still got things I need to fix in me, 260 00:25:39,372 --> 00:25:41,416 but family over everything. 261 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,252 I know. 262 00:25:44,336 --> 00:25:49,424 I'm extremely happy that Sherlon and I are on the same page 263 00:25:49,507 --> 00:25:53,470 when it comes to making the tourist visa a priority, 264 00:25:53,553 --> 00:25:57,557 so he's able to come and spend more time with Odin in person, 265 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,935 but I still need answers from him 266 00:26:01,019 --> 00:26:04,689 about where he sees our relationship going. 267 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,277 I guess I just feel like the past, 268 00:26:09,361 --> 00:26:12,197 you know the couple days have been... 269 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,407 Good? Super good? Yeah. 270 00:26:14,491 --> 00:26:17,410 Yeah, like being able to like re-spark, you know, 271 00:26:17,494 --> 00:26:19,454 our feelings for each other. 272 00:26:19,537 --> 00:26:22,415 Or why are we even here in the first place. 273 00:26:22,499 --> 00:26:26,336 And so it's been nice and so now I would love to leave here 274 00:26:26,419 --> 00:26:30,173 and continue that work but that also means being exclusive. 275 00:26:31,216 --> 00:26:34,678 Yes, so what do you mean by exclusive though? 276 00:26:34,761 --> 00:26:37,597 Not having sex with other women. 277 00:26:38,515 --> 00:26:40,934 You know, only seeing each other. 278 00:26:41,017 --> 00:26:43,353 I feel like if you're working on a relationship, 279 00:26:43,436 --> 00:26:45,438 you're not seeing other people. 280 00:26:45,897 --> 00:26:48,191 If we're not gonna be committed to each other 281 00:26:48,274 --> 00:26:50,235 then we're not gonna be together. 282 00:26:52,404 --> 00:26:57,117 I want to be honest, yeah? For me I don't have an answer yet. 283 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:03,164 I'm still processing the changes I have to make. 284 00:27:03,248 --> 00:27:05,250 It's a process. All right? 285 00:27:05,875 --> 00:27:08,962 SHERLON: My feelings for Aryanna have grown on this trip 286 00:27:09,045 --> 00:27:11,214 more than I ever expect 287 00:27:11,297 --> 00:27:14,259 and I'm willing to continue to work on us 288 00:27:14,342 --> 00:27:18,638 but exclusively I'm not sure if I'm there yet. 289 00:27:20,181 --> 00:27:22,767 I'll give you an answer at some point. 290 00:27:23,268 --> 00:27:25,687 OK, well, I'm not gonna, no. 291 00:27:26,563 --> 00:27:28,690 Like not at some point. 292 00:27:29,733 --> 00:27:32,235 We've been in this position too many times 293 00:27:32,318 --> 00:27:34,320 where you've tried to leave me in limbo 294 00:27:34,404 --> 00:27:37,365 and I'm not gonna leave that way again, 295 00:27:37,449 --> 00:27:40,910 so before we leave you have to give me a solid answer. 296 00:27:42,996 --> 00:27:45,248 Well, that sounds like an ultimatum 297 00:27:45,331 --> 00:27:48,376 and I do not like to be boxed in the corner. 298 00:27:49,127 --> 00:27:51,921 It feels like I'm getting a knife hold to my neck. 299 00:27:52,005 --> 00:27:55,050 Well, you know what that's just the way it is. 300 00:27:58,762 --> 00:27:59,022 2 00:27:09.920 -- 00:27:11.520 align:middle line:90% position:50% Are you excited? 301 00:28:23,286 --> 00:28:27,248 DANIELE: I think I'm more nervous than anything. 302 00:28:28,375 --> 00:28:35,465 Yesterday we were arguing a lot about where we're going to live 303 00:28:36,675 --> 00:28:41,054 and now he is like sleeping in another room. 304 00:28:41,596 --> 00:28:44,599 I'm not sure if he even knows I'm getting my make-up done right now, 305 00:28:44,683 --> 00:28:46,935 so I feel kind of bad that I left him hanging 306 00:28:47,018 --> 00:28:49,104 but I need to make sure this is the right decision. 307 00:28:49,187 --> 00:28:51,356 I made it very quickly. 308 00:28:52,399 --> 00:28:54,442 DANIELE: Yohan stayed in another room last night 309 00:28:54,526 --> 00:28:58,321 because I wanted to be traditional and now I'm so glad that I did. 310 00:28:58,405 --> 00:29:02,450 I just needed time to think and work through my feelings. 311 00:29:02,534 --> 00:29:04,369 I'm still not a hundred percent sure 312 00:29:04,452 --> 00:29:06,538 that I want to go through with this wedding 313 00:29:06,621 --> 00:29:08,707 but I've decided to get ready 314 00:29:08,957 --> 00:29:12,585 and ask Yohan to come to my room, so that we can have a conversation. 315 00:29:12,669 --> 00:29:14,504 KNOCKS 316 00:29:24,973 --> 00:29:26,891 Good morning. 317 00:31:31,349 --> 00:31:34,644 I love you. I love you, mi amor. 318 00:31:36,312 --> 00:31:39,733 DANIELE: I feel like our entire purpose on this earth is to love. 319 00:31:40,233 --> 00:31:44,070 When you find someone that you are connected to 320 00:31:44,154 --> 00:31:46,573 at like a soul level, 321 00:31:46,656 --> 00:31:49,909 you have to do everything you can to hold onto that 322 00:31:49,993 --> 00:31:53,288 and so even when everyone in my life is telling me I'm out of my mind, 323 00:31:53,371 --> 00:31:55,874 I trust my intuition above all things 324 00:31:55,957 --> 00:31:59,085 and I would be stupid to not go through with this wedding. 325 00:32:03,256 --> 00:32:07,052 Hey, wait, before you go, do not look at my dress. 326 00:32:11,431 --> 00:32:14,476 I love you. I love you. 327 00:32:14,559 --> 00:32:16,561 Bye. 328 00:32:34,496 --> 00:32:38,917 # They say there's fireworks # 329 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:43,338 # In an empty sky # 330 00:32:43,421 --> 00:32:47,092 # They say your stomach # 331 00:32:47,175 --> 00:32:51,554 # Fills up with butterflies # 332 00:32:53,556 --> 00:32:56,768 DANIELE: After only spending three weeks together in person 333 00:32:56,851 --> 00:32:58,937 and only meeting five months ago, 334 00:32:59,020 --> 00:33:04,275 I feel like this is still the best decision that I've made in my life. 335 00:33:32,262 --> 00:33:34,556 You look beautiful, mi amor. 336 00:33:38,184 --> 00:33:40,270 GIGGLES 337 00:33:55,785 --> 00:33:58,038 APPLAUSE 338 00:34:19,851 --> 00:34:21,728 CLEARS THROAT 339 00:34:23,730 --> 00:34:25,774 You are the love of my life. 340 00:34:26,649 --> 00:34:28,777 You are the reason... 341 00:34:33,114 --> 00:34:36,701 You are the reason I have been waiting so long 342 00:34:36,785 --> 00:34:39,120 to make a real commitment to something. 343 00:34:39,996 --> 00:34:44,209 So, thank you for giving me a reason to slow down and make room for love. 344 00:34:45,168 --> 00:34:46,878 Your turn. 345 00:34:46,961 --> 00:34:49,172 LAUGHS 346 00:35:15,448 --> 00:35:17,784 APPLAUSE 347 00:35:20,036 --> 00:35:21,871 LAUGHS 348 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,591 I love you forever. Si. 349 00:35:33,675 --> 00:35:35,343 LAUGHS 350 00:35:48,982 --> 00:35:50,984 DANIELE: I absolutely made the right decision. 351 00:35:51,067 --> 00:35:53,903 I know that no matter where we decide to live, 352 00:35:53,987 --> 00:35:56,865 no matter what happens with whether or not we can have a baby, 353 00:35:56,948 --> 00:35:59,701 our love for each other is more important than anything else. 354 00:36:00,952 --> 00:36:03,997 # I love every moment with you # 355 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,376 # And I want you to know I do # 356 00:36:08,460 --> 00:36:11,421 # I'm in love # 357 00:36:12,339 --> 00:36:14,549 # Yeah, I'm in love # 358 00:36:16,593 --> 00:36:19,137 # I'm in love # 359 00:36:20,430 --> 00:36:23,099 # Yeah, I'm in love # 360 00:36:29,689 --> 00:36:29,950 2 00:35:16.480 -- 00:35:18.520 align:middle line:90% position:50% FRANKIE: It's been a couple of weeks since I decided 361 00:36:49,084 --> 00:36:51,878 not to go to Mexico and propose to Abby. 362 00:36:52,504 --> 00:36:55,590 It was a tough decision but the more I thought about it, 363 00:36:55,674 --> 00:36:58,093 I realised it was the right move for me. 364 00:36:58,885 --> 00:37:01,680 What up, bro? What up man? 365 00:37:01,763 --> 00:37:05,433 Not much. That's what's up any way. 366 00:37:05,517 --> 00:37:07,185 I just couldn't propose to someone 367 00:37:07,268 --> 00:37:09,604 that was in a relationship with somebody already. 368 00:37:09,688 --> 00:37:12,482 That just didn't feel right. There you go. 369 00:37:13,525 --> 00:37:16,111 Let's go out here, man. 370 00:37:16,194 --> 00:37:18,780 My friend, Rodney and his fiancée Selina 371 00:37:18,863 --> 00:37:22,283 were supposed to be going to Mexico together 372 00:37:22,367 --> 00:37:24,661 and they went on the trip without me. 373 00:37:24,744 --> 00:37:28,707 All right, so I came over to just talk with you 374 00:37:28,790 --> 00:37:31,209 about what happened down there in Mexico. 375 00:37:31,292 --> 00:37:33,003 OK. 376 00:37:33,086 --> 00:37:37,507 So me and Selina we flew to Mexico 377 00:37:37,590 --> 00:37:40,176 because we had already paid for the trip 378 00:37:40,885 --> 00:37:46,558 and when we first got there we rented a yacht with the girls. 379 00:37:46,641 --> 00:37:49,728 So while we were on the yacht, 380 00:37:49,811 --> 00:37:54,399 Abby was like, "So where's Frankie, why isn't he here?" 381 00:37:54,482 --> 00:37:57,110 I said I think the reason why he didn't come 382 00:37:57,193 --> 00:37:59,195 is because you didn't want to come between them. 383 00:37:59,571 --> 00:38:05,201 I mean I had time to sit back and reflect. 384 00:38:05,285 --> 00:38:07,912 I ain't trying to break up a happy home, nothing like that. 385 00:38:07,996 --> 00:38:11,332 I had to think about if you in a ten-year relationship with somebody 386 00:38:12,125 --> 00:38:15,128 and you claim you love this person 387 00:38:15,211 --> 00:38:17,047 and you never hurt them 388 00:38:17,130 --> 00:38:19,716 but you going to leave them for me, 389 00:38:20,050 --> 00:38:24,512 it's a possibility you know that Abby left Gaby for me. 390 00:38:25,347 --> 00:38:29,476 Abby can come over here and like leave me for somebody else. 391 00:38:29,559 --> 00:38:32,687 Once I had time to sit and reflect on everything, 392 00:38:32,771 --> 00:38:35,315 I was just thinking to myself, 393 00:38:35,398 --> 00:38:38,860 who's to say she wouldn't break my heart somewhere on down the line 394 00:38:38,943 --> 00:38:41,071 if a better option came along. 395 00:38:49,079 --> 00:38:51,956 I was down there delivering a message to the girls. 396 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,084 But you didn't have to go there and deliver it. 397 00:38:54,167 --> 00:38:57,671 They needed it and they deserved the info... Yes they deserved. 398 00:38:57,754 --> 00:39:01,049 You can't just leave them girls down there like where's Frankie? 399 00:39:01,132 --> 00:39:02,884 Where's Frankie? 400 00:39:02,967 --> 00:39:05,387 Well, technically there was only one girl. 401 00:39:05,470 --> 00:39:07,764 That wasn't the case. 402 00:39:07,847 --> 00:39:10,934 What exactly did you tell Abby? 403 00:39:11,976 --> 00:39:15,355 Did you promise Abby you was going to bring Gaby over here? 404 00:39:17,524 --> 00:39:19,192 Nope. 405 00:39:21,695 --> 00:39:24,572 Abby's plan was to bring Gaby over 406 00:39:24,656 --> 00:39:27,492 and Frankie's telling me he's never heard of this plan 407 00:39:27,575 --> 00:39:30,245 and I'm getting two different stories from both parties. 408 00:39:30,328 --> 00:39:34,457 Abby was under the pretence that you were bringing Gaby back too. 409 00:39:34,541 --> 00:39:36,459 Well how am I gonna bring two people back? 410 00:39:36,543 --> 00:39:38,336 That's what I was trying to explain to them. 411 00:39:38,420 --> 00:39:41,006 That's what I was trying to explain to them. 412 00:39:41,089 --> 00:39:43,174 I told them as far as my knowledge 413 00:39:43,258 --> 00:39:46,052 you were only supposed to bring Abby back 414 00:39:46,136 --> 00:39:48,221 and Gaby was like wait a minute, 415 00:39:48,304 --> 00:39:51,099 you're telling me that you all had a separate relationship 416 00:39:51,182 --> 00:39:53,101 without me knowing? 417 00:39:54,352 --> 00:39:58,064 So, their relationship went into turmoil at that point. 418 00:39:58,898 --> 00:40:01,067 That was a yacht trip from hell. 419 00:40:03,403 --> 00:40:05,697 I mean I wasn't trying to hide anything 420 00:40:05,780 --> 00:40:08,783 but Abby was the one that said we should wait for me to arrive 421 00:40:08,867 --> 00:40:12,454 to Mexico before we tell Gaby what was going on, 422 00:40:13,288 --> 00:40:18,793 but since I didn't go I thought Abby was going to tell Gaby the truth. 423 00:40:20,086 --> 00:40:22,756 They was arguing or beefing or whatever they was 424 00:40:22,839 --> 00:40:26,885 and Abby told me that they had to sleep in separate rooms. 425 00:40:26,968 --> 00:40:29,220 It was definitely rocky 426 00:40:29,304 --> 00:40:33,933 but somewhere in between they connected back with each other 427 00:40:34,017 --> 00:40:37,270 and I think Abby proposed to Gaby 428 00:40:39,356 --> 00:40:45,487 and they had this ceremony and I was a part of the ceremony. 429 00:40:45,570 --> 00:40:48,406 A ceremony? Yeah, there was a ceremony. 430 00:41:32,367 --> 00:41:34,327 It was a beautiful thing. 431 00:41:34,411 --> 00:41:36,705 Abby's mum was there. Her sister was there. 432 00:41:36,788 --> 00:41:42,210 So you attended a wedding. Pretty, pretty much. 433 00:41:43,044 --> 00:41:44,796 HUFFS 434 00:41:45,672 --> 00:41:49,092 Well, you just said you wanted them two to be happy, 435 00:41:49,175 --> 00:41:51,219 so it all worked out. 436 00:41:54,139 --> 00:41:59,894 FRANKIE: I feel betrayed a little bit by everybody. 437 00:41:59,978 --> 00:42:01,813 Just hearing that they had a ceremony, 438 00:42:01,896 --> 00:42:05,567 I feel like that's some bullshit, honestly. 439 00:42:06,192 --> 00:42:11,489 So if Abby can have a commitment ceremony with Gaby so fast, 440 00:42:11,573 --> 00:42:14,367 I mean how could she really love me? 441 00:42:14,451 --> 00:42:17,120 But did she really love me at all? 442 00:42:18,288 --> 00:42:21,374 You didn't go down there to protect me, 443 00:42:21,458 --> 00:42:23,501 answer any questions or none of that. 444 00:42:23,585 --> 00:42:26,671 I respect what you did but you ain't had to do that. 445 00:42:32,177 --> 00:42:34,262 I didn't ask him to speak for me 446 00:42:34,346 --> 00:42:36,848 until Abby told Gaby what I was thinking 447 00:42:37,974 --> 00:42:40,226 because he didn't know what I was thinking. 448 00:42:42,020 --> 00:42:44,272 In real talk it wasn't even your place though. 449 00:42:46,066 --> 00:42:48,026 They said they hadn't heard from you. 450 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,161 After hearing everything that happened down in Mexico, 451 00:42:58,244 --> 00:43:00,830 I feel like I need to call Abby and Gaby. 452 00:43:00,914 --> 00:43:03,917 I should be the one to speak for myself, not Rodney 453 00:43:04,751 --> 00:43:08,213 and plus I really don't know what Abby is talking about 454 00:43:08,296 --> 00:43:14,344 because Gaby was never in the plan to be a part of us. 455 00:43:15,428 --> 00:43:18,973 I mean just think about that I give them a call 456 00:43:19,057 --> 00:43:22,686 and just explain my side of the story. 457 00:43:24,562 --> 00:43:27,440 No more secrets. No more lies. No more hidden agendas. 458 00:43:27,524 --> 00:43:29,359 No more nothing. 459 00:43:29,859 --> 00:43:33,154 Gaby needs to know everything. I'm putting it all on the table. 460 00:43:33,238 --> 00:43:36,282 The truth needs to be heard and I'm going to tell it. 461 00:43:55,552 --> 00:43:57,220 Hello. 462 00:43:59,931 --> 00:44:01,808 Oh, it's really nice. 463 00:44:02,559 --> 00:44:04,602 VALENTINE: I arrived in Colombia two weeks ago 464 00:44:04,686 --> 00:44:08,523 and my time with Carlos has been quite the rollercoaster. 465 00:44:09,190 --> 00:44:11,276 I'm gonna use my translator. OK. 466 00:44:11,359 --> 00:44:13,820 But after he came out to his sister two days ago 467 00:44:13,903 --> 00:44:17,323 she accepted him as an openly gay man and myself, 468 00:44:17,407 --> 00:44:21,161 as his boyfriend, I feel like things are on a much better track. 469 00:44:21,244 --> 00:44:24,581 Would you happen to have any candles that we could use later on? 470 00:44:28,335 --> 00:44:30,295 Yes. 471 00:44:33,757 --> 00:44:36,009 Oh, and you have torches. 472 00:44:38,511 --> 00:44:40,513 Thank you so much. It looks really good. 473 00:44:40,597 --> 00:44:44,559 I love the torches. I love the candles lining up the walkway. 474 00:44:44,642 --> 00:44:47,228 Carlos and I still have a lot to figure out. 475 00:44:47,312 --> 00:44:50,315 I'm sure our cultural and personal differences will continue 476 00:44:50,398 --> 00:44:54,861 to be an issue for us but my love for him outweighs everything else 477 00:44:54,944 --> 00:44:57,739 and I definitely do not wanna spend my life without him. 478 00:45:00,992 --> 00:45:03,328 Rose petals for the driveway. The entrance. 479 00:45:03,411 --> 00:45:06,539 Yes, see. It looks beautiful. 480 00:45:06,623 --> 00:45:09,250 So, tonight I'm gonna propose. 481 00:45:11,961 --> 00:45:14,005 So, all of these lights will light up? 482 00:45:16,549 --> 00:45:19,969 Yes. Yes. OK. Let's see. 483 00:45:20,053 --> 00:45:22,180 VALENTINE: Proposing to Carlos is to insure 484 00:45:22,263 --> 00:45:25,058 that we can apply for the K-1 visa 485 00:45:25,141 --> 00:45:27,977 and Carlos can come over to the United States 486 00:45:28,687 --> 00:45:33,274 and then be together on a more consistent basis like every day. 487 00:45:35,985 --> 00:45:39,531 Carlos has absolutely no idea this is happening tonight, 488 00:45:40,198 --> 00:45:42,409 so I want everything to be perfect 489 00:45:42,492 --> 00:45:45,286 and I need to blow this out of the park. 490 00:45:45,370 --> 00:45:48,498 Can you take away these place settings? 491 00:45:48,998 --> 00:45:52,085 The two extra guests are a surprise for him. 492 00:45:52,836 --> 00:45:55,505 Oh, OK, yes. 493 00:45:57,382 --> 00:45:59,259 The biggest surprise that I have tonight 494 00:45:59,342 --> 00:46:03,888 is that I invited Carlos's sister, Vianis, and his cousin, Janner. 495 00:46:03,972 --> 00:46:07,434 I'm going to keep them out of sight until after the proposal 496 00:46:07,517 --> 00:46:11,312 and then after he says yes they'll come out and have dinner with us. 497 00:46:11,396 --> 00:46:14,607 Oh, look. The lights are on. Cool. 498 00:46:15,442 --> 00:46:17,277 I definitely think this is gonna be 499 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,946 a very emotional moment for Carlos for sure. 500 00:46:54,898 --> 00:46:58,026 I'm pulling out all the stops for this proposal, 501 00:46:58,109 --> 00:47:01,780 but none of this matters if Carlos doesn't say yes, 502 00:47:01,863 --> 00:47:05,492 and the truth is I don't know what his answer is gonna be. 503 00:47:07,035 --> 00:47:08,828 Well, this is it. 504 00:47:10,789 --> 00:47:13,875 Even though we've been talking for a year and a half, 505 00:47:13,958 --> 00:47:17,545 Carlos and I have only been together for the last two weeks in person, 506 00:47:18,797 --> 00:47:21,049 and a lot of that time we spent arguing, 507 00:47:22,425 --> 00:47:26,012 so while I will understand if Carlos says no, 508 00:47:26,554 --> 00:47:28,848 I will be completely devastated. 509 00:47:30,558 --> 00:47:32,686 I don't know if I myself will be able to go on 510 00:47:32,769 --> 00:47:34,646 with this relationship. 511 00:47:41,736 --> 00:47:43,530 Oh, my God. 512 00:47:48,493 --> 00:47:48,754 2 00:46:06.680 -- 00:46:08.280 align:middle line:18% position:50% Baby. 513 00:48:13,518 --> 00:48:16,855 I know. I know, but I'll be back in a month. 514 00:48:18,773 --> 00:48:21,317 When I be back, I'll be back as your wife. 515 00:48:22,277 --> 00:48:24,070 DANIELE: Yohan and I got married yesterday 516 00:48:24,154 --> 00:48:26,114 and it was one of the happiest days of my life, 517 00:48:26,197 --> 00:48:28,616 but I feel like today is one of the saddest 518 00:48:28,700 --> 00:48:31,828 because now I have to leave Yohan behind, 519 00:48:32,954 --> 00:48:35,999 so I can go back to New York for my teaching job. 520 00:49:20,335 --> 00:49:22,295 I love you. 521 00:49:50,949 --> 00:49:53,743 Yohan and I still haven't decided where we're going to live, 522 00:49:53,827 --> 00:49:56,663 but for now I'm just gonna come back and visit him 523 00:49:56,746 --> 00:49:59,249 as often as I can, and then when school ends 524 00:49:59,332 --> 00:50:02,377 I'm gonna come and spend the whole summer in the Dominican Republic 525 00:50:02,460 --> 00:50:05,088 and hopefully in that time I can convince him 526 00:50:05,171 --> 00:50:07,090 that this is where we should stay. 527 00:50:16,099 --> 00:50:18,560 Should I take it? Si. 528 00:50:19,728 --> 00:50:21,646 DANIELE: After meeting the fertility doctor, 529 00:50:21,730 --> 00:50:23,732 I know the chances of getting pregnant actually 530 00:50:23,815 --> 00:50:26,943 are really slim, but I agreed to take the test 531 00:50:27,027 --> 00:50:30,071 because Yohan is so excited about the possibility, 532 00:50:30,155 --> 00:50:33,575 and I'd hate to go back to the US and be pregnant 533 00:50:33,658 --> 00:50:37,037 and not be able to share that news with Yohan in person. 534 00:50:43,668 --> 00:50:45,795 In the stick. 535 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,167 OK. 536 00:51:29,464 --> 00:51:32,217 DANIELE: Seeing Yohan so excited about taking this test 537 00:51:32,300 --> 00:51:35,136 breaks my heart a little bit, because he really wants 538 00:51:35,220 --> 00:51:39,724 to be a father, but I don't know if we're gonna be able to conceive, 539 00:51:39,808 --> 00:51:41,476 either with or without help, 540 00:51:41,559 --> 00:51:45,230 and I know that he says that he loves me no matter what, 541 00:51:46,606 --> 00:51:50,235 but I'm worried that this could be the thing that actually breaks us. 542 00:52:14,467 --> 00:52:16,761 FRANKIE: It's been a couple of weeks since I had decided 543 00:52:16,845 --> 00:52:19,222 not to go to Mexico and propose to Abby. 544 00:52:19,305 --> 00:52:22,100 I'm not that guy to come between two people 545 00:52:22,183 --> 00:52:24,310 that have been together for ten years. 546 00:52:25,729 --> 00:52:28,481 But after finding out my friend Rodney went to Mexico 547 00:52:28,565 --> 00:52:32,068 to speak for me, I wanted to talk to them myself. 548 00:52:33,153 --> 00:52:36,698 So I texted them to see if they'd do a video call with me 549 00:52:36,781 --> 00:52:38,700 and they agreed. 550 00:52:38,783 --> 00:52:41,494 I guess I really want to confront Abby 551 00:52:41,578 --> 00:52:45,790 because Abby lied about bringing Gaby to the US with us. 552 00:52:45,874 --> 00:52:48,126 That was never in our plan. 553 00:52:48,710 --> 00:52:52,088 I mean I think it's very important for Gaby to know the truth. 554 00:53:03,433 --> 00:53:05,727 ABBY: This morning I received a message 555 00:53:05,810 --> 00:53:10,023 from Frankie asking us to have a video call with him. 556 00:53:10,899 --> 00:53:13,360 I was surprised to hear from him 557 00:53:13,443 --> 00:53:18,323 because I just assumed that he never talk with me again. 558 00:53:19,657 --> 00:53:22,494 I agreed to make this video call 559 00:53:22,577 --> 00:53:26,831 because Gaby needs to hear from him all the truth. 560 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:33,004 But I'm so nervous because things between Gaby and me, 561 00:53:33,088 --> 00:53:36,966 it's so good these days, and I just don't want this call 562 00:53:37,050 --> 00:53:42,097 ruin everything that we been working in this relationship. 563 00:54:31,271 --> 00:54:33,606 Hello. Hey. Hi 564 00:54:34,607 --> 00:54:36,901 How you all doing? 565 00:54:38,361 --> 00:54:40,530 Very good. 566 00:54:41,197 --> 00:54:42,949 I wanted to say congratulations. 567 00:54:43,033 --> 00:54:49,789 Rodney did tell me that you guys had like a ceremony, so congratulations. 568 00:54:49,873 --> 00:54:52,292 I'm happy for you all. 569 00:54:56,379 --> 00:55:02,802 Yeah, well, Gaby and I we realised that we want to be together forever. 570 00:55:03,553 --> 00:55:05,472 That's good. 571 00:55:10,060 --> 00:55:12,479 Why do you want to make this call? 572 00:55:13,396 --> 00:55:17,692 I said I owed it to both of you to contact you all 573 00:55:17,776 --> 00:55:19,778 and let you know what was going on, 574 00:55:19,861 --> 00:55:24,574 and I felt bad that I wasn't going to end up hurting. 575 00:55:24,657 --> 00:55:27,327 We was going to end up hurting Gaby and I wasn't trying to hurt her, 576 00:55:27,410 --> 00:55:29,788 and I really want to apologise to you Gaby. 577 00:55:29,871 --> 00:55:32,624 I wasn't trying to come between you all relationship. 578 00:55:37,379 --> 00:55:39,673 You don't get inside of our relationship. 579 00:55:39,756 --> 00:55:42,217 We let you in. 580 00:55:42,300 --> 00:55:44,594 Let's be clear though. 581 00:55:44,678 --> 00:55:48,181 So, Abby, you didn't... you didn't want to marry me? 582 00:55:48,264 --> 00:55:50,642 Was the love even real? 583 00:55:52,143 --> 00:55:54,813 I mean was you even serious about this? Because I was serious. 584 00:55:54,896 --> 00:55:56,940 I went and got a ring and everything. 585 00:55:57,023 --> 00:56:01,653 So, you all good that means that you never really cared about me. 586 00:56:03,238 --> 00:56:08,493 You never tell me that you only love me instead of Gaby. 587 00:56:08,576 --> 00:56:12,247 The plan was I'm coming to get you. I'm coming to marry you. 588 00:56:12,330 --> 00:56:14,874 Gonna make you my wife, and we coming back here. 589 00:56:14,958 --> 00:56:18,962 We going to live happily ever after and it was going to be me and you. 590 00:56:19,587 --> 00:56:22,590 We always talked about we gonna search 591 00:56:22,674 --> 00:56:25,969 the way to bring Gaby with us. 592 00:56:27,053 --> 00:56:29,139 We always talked about that. 593 00:56:31,766 --> 00:56:34,185 But after that, we never talked about that again. 594 00:56:34,269 --> 00:56:37,063 It was pretty much like it was just me and you, 595 00:56:37,897 --> 00:56:40,650 and stopped being about Gaby. 596 00:56:41,568 --> 00:56:45,155 I never talk about me and you only. 597 00:56:45,238 --> 00:56:47,407 You only think that. 598 00:56:47,490 --> 00:56:51,411 I never left Gaby out of my life never. 599 00:56:52,620 --> 00:56:55,290 I feel so mad and disappointed with Frankie 600 00:56:55,373 --> 00:57:01,296 because I'm so sure that I always tell him that I never leave Gaby 601 00:57:01,379 --> 00:57:05,008 and now he is only change the story. 602 00:57:11,681 --> 00:57:13,975 She feels so betrayed. 603 00:57:14,976 --> 00:57:17,937 I mean, all of this is because you lied. 604 00:57:18,021 --> 00:57:22,859 You lied to me first, telling me that you came for the two of us. 605 00:57:24,235 --> 00:57:26,071 This is a real shocker to me. 606 00:57:26,154 --> 00:57:30,950 Abby understood it was only one plan and one plan only, 607 00:57:32,035 --> 00:57:35,914 and that was the plan of me and her without Gaby. 608 00:57:37,832 --> 00:57:42,587 She's lying her ass off and she just trying to save face, 609 00:57:42,671 --> 00:57:46,841 and it makes me question what type of person Abby truly is. 610 00:57:47,634 --> 00:57:49,469 Abby, you tell her the truth. 611 00:57:49,552 --> 00:57:52,681 Stop lying because that what you doing. Let's be real. 612 00:58:02,399 --> 00:58:04,484 I'm happy that you don't came here. 613 00:58:04,567 --> 00:58:07,028 Hey, you all was together. 614 00:58:07,112 --> 00:58:11,825 Y'all was together. You was going to leave her for me. 615 00:58:12,367 --> 00:58:14,536 You the one that's not trustworthy. 616 00:58:14,619 --> 00:58:16,496 You're telling me that I'm a liar. 617 00:58:16,579 --> 00:58:20,458 I'm not a liar and you know it. You are a liar. 618 00:58:22,460 --> 00:58:22,721 2 00:56:13.480 -- 00:56:15.320 align:middle line:90% position:50% VALENTINE: I arrived in Colombia two weeks ago 619 00:58:39,561 --> 00:58:42,105 to meet Carlos for the very first time, 620 00:58:42,188 --> 00:58:46,776 and now I'm about to ask this man to spend the rest of his life with me. 621 00:58:46,860 --> 00:58:48,945 All right, this is it. 622 00:58:53,533 --> 00:58:56,369 I pulled out all the stops for this proposal. 623 00:58:57,245 --> 00:59:00,749 I just hope Carlos sees a future with me like I do with him, 624 00:59:00,832 --> 00:59:03,418 because if not, I'm gonna go back to America tomorrow 625 00:59:03,501 --> 00:59:05,378 completely heartbroken. 626 00:59:16,431 --> 00:59:18,600 Oh, my God. 627 00:59:25,690 --> 00:59:27,567 Oh, my God. 628 00:59:29,110 --> 00:59:30,945 SIGHS 629 00:59:49,005 --> 00:59:51,508 # No matter what they say # 630 00:59:52,217 --> 00:59:57,472 # I'm going to be here anyway # 631 00:59:57,555 --> 01:00:01,142 # No matter what the problem # 632 01:00:01,893 --> 01:00:04,688 # No matter what the outcome # 633 01:00:04,771 --> 01:00:09,567 # Baby, even if the world Is against it # 634 01:00:09,651 --> 01:00:14,197 # And everyone's full of opinions # 635 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:17,951 # But believe me when I say it 'Cos it's true # 636 01:00:18,034 --> 01:00:20,870 # I do truly adore you # 637 01:00:20,954 --> 01:00:23,915 # These words you can hold onto # 638 01:00:25,083 --> 01:00:30,964 # I do, I do truly adore you # 639 01:00:31,047 --> 01:00:32,716 One second. 640 01:00:32,799 --> 01:00:36,469 "Adore You" is a song that I wrote specifically for Carlos, 641 01:00:36,553 --> 01:00:39,431 and it really embodies truly 642 01:00:39,514 --> 01:00:45,020 how I feel about him and encompasses our journey. 643 01:00:45,103 --> 01:00:47,105 SOBS 644 01:00:47,188 --> 01:00:49,065 OK. 645 01:00:52,110 --> 01:00:53,778 Will you marry me, Carlos? 646 01:00:57,699 --> 01:00:59,868 SOBS 647 01:01:03,038 --> 01:01:04,748 Yes? 648 01:01:04,831 --> 01:01:07,208 BLASTS 649 01:01:07,876 --> 01:01:11,421 # You make me come alive # 650 01:01:11,504 --> 01:01:15,175 I love you. I love you. 651 01:01:15,717 --> 01:01:20,305 # You make me come alive # 652 01:01:20,388 --> 01:01:22,974 CARLOS: This is the moment I always dream, 653 01:01:23,058 --> 01:01:25,769 to have somebody who is willing 654 01:01:25,852 --> 01:01:30,357 to spend the rest of his life with you, that's priceless. 655 01:01:31,983 --> 01:01:35,570 Wow, and this is happening to me. 656 01:01:35,653 --> 01:01:38,490 I don't know who, God, universe, came in, 657 01:01:38,573 --> 01:01:41,785 whatever it is, put this man in my life, 658 01:01:41,868 --> 01:01:44,537 and I'm so grateful for that. I'm so happy. 659 01:01:52,128 --> 01:01:54,130 I love you. 660 01:01:54,214 --> 01:01:55,965 Being gay in Colombia, 661 01:01:56,049 --> 01:02:00,553 I never expect that that could happen to me and it's happening now. 662 01:02:00,637 --> 01:02:02,347 More fireworks. 663 01:02:02,430 --> 01:02:04,182 This is way better than I imagine like. 664 01:02:04,265 --> 01:02:07,435 Is it? Oh, my God, so I did well? Yes. 665 01:02:07,519 --> 01:02:09,562 I thought the best day of my life 666 01:02:09,646 --> 01:02:11,898 was coming out of the closet with my sister, 667 01:02:11,981 --> 01:02:15,902 but now, I'm sorry, this is the best day of my life. 668 01:02:18,238 --> 01:02:20,490 Let's try it. Let me do the same. 669 01:02:22,742 --> 01:02:24,911 VALENTINE: I bought two rings, of course, 670 01:02:24,994 --> 01:02:27,622 because, hello, I wanna show off, 671 01:02:27,706 --> 01:02:31,376 I'm, you know, I's got a man too, you know what I mean? 672 01:02:31,459 --> 01:02:33,253 So, yeah. 673 01:02:33,336 --> 01:02:35,463 CHUCKLES 674 01:02:35,547 --> 01:02:37,298 I love you. 675 01:02:37,382 --> 01:02:41,803 I wanna feel like I'm... in case I'm someone's fiancé, 676 01:02:41,886 --> 01:02:44,723 I have a fiancé, and coming back home a different man. 677 01:02:46,641 --> 01:02:49,144 OK, so stay right here. I'll be right back, OK? 678 01:02:49,644 --> 01:02:51,896 Right here, I'll be right back. 679 01:02:57,318 --> 01:03:00,697 I think I've blown Carlos away, but I have one more surprise. 680 01:03:08,913 --> 01:03:11,291 LAUGHS 681 01:03:19,507 --> 01:03:23,261 CARLOS: I'm recovering myself from all the emotion, 682 01:03:23,345 --> 01:03:26,181 and then I see my sister. 683 01:03:26,264 --> 01:03:28,516 I'm seeing my cousin. 684 01:03:31,436 --> 01:03:35,523 I mean that was completely out of this world. 685 01:03:35,607 --> 01:03:40,862 I never thought that my family was gonna be in my proposal. 686 01:03:46,493 --> 01:03:49,245 But they are right there. They are supporting me. 687 01:03:49,621 --> 01:03:54,834 I'm so happy. My man is thinking of everything. 688 01:03:55,418 --> 01:04:00,131 And I pour the champagne for you guys. 689 01:04:00,215 --> 01:04:02,175 LAUGHS 690 01:04:02,258 --> 01:04:04,552 I feel like he like. Yes? 691 01:04:08,348 --> 01:04:10,475 Yes. 692 01:04:12,310 --> 01:04:14,020 Thank you so much. 693 01:05:06,281 --> 01:05:07,991 Let's make a toast. 694 01:05:08,074 --> 01:05:11,161 This means the world to me and I love you so much. 695 01:05:11,244 --> 01:05:14,289 I want to make you happy for the rest of our lives. 696 01:05:14,372 --> 01:05:16,666 You already make me happy. 697 01:05:20,754 --> 01:05:24,007 VALENTINE: Now that Carlos and I are engaged, 698 01:05:24,090 --> 01:05:27,260 I am most excited 699 01:05:27,344 --> 01:05:31,181 and looking forward to getting his K-1 visa done, 700 01:05:31,264 --> 01:05:33,767 and then him coming to America. 701 01:05:33,850 --> 01:05:35,643 This is the best. 702 01:05:35,727 --> 01:05:38,897 This is a moment that definitely I will never forget. 703 01:05:38,980 --> 01:05:43,818 And then getting married. Saying I do, I can't wait. 704 01:05:43,902 --> 01:05:45,904 I love you. I love you back. 705 01:05:46,988 --> 01:05:49,657 I love you. 706 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,390 So, how are you doing? 707 01:06:13,473 --> 01:06:15,809 Good, I guess. 708 01:06:15,892 --> 01:06:18,520 Just getting sad to leave. 709 01:06:19,646 --> 01:06:22,982 ARYANNA: Odin and I have been in Jamaica for two weeks, 710 01:06:23,066 --> 01:06:26,361 and this is our last morning together with Sherlon 711 01:06:26,444 --> 01:06:28,530 until who knows when. 712 01:06:28,905 --> 01:06:30,990 I can't believe this trip has already came 713 01:06:31,074 --> 01:06:33,785 and is over and we're going home. 714 01:06:33,868 --> 01:06:37,038 It's gonna be pretty tough not to wake up 715 01:06:37,122 --> 01:06:40,959 to this guy cries at night, you know. 716 01:06:41,042 --> 01:06:46,256 This past couple of days have been the best days of my life so far. 717 01:06:47,424 --> 01:06:51,428 ARYANNA: I came into this trip with a lot of expectations. 718 01:06:51,511 --> 01:06:55,515 Would Sherlon step up as a dad to Odin? 719 01:06:55,598 --> 01:07:00,145 Would Sherlon step up as a partner to me? 720 01:07:00,729 --> 01:07:04,774 It was nice to have get some much-needed family time, you know. 721 01:07:06,192 --> 01:07:09,487 And so we get time for ourself as well right? 722 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:12,198 Yeah. 723 01:07:15,035 --> 01:07:17,787 So, do you feel like all of our little good moments 724 01:07:17,871 --> 01:07:21,541 together kind of re-sparked our connection. 725 01:07:22,459 --> 01:07:24,627 It definitely did for me. 726 01:07:25,628 --> 01:07:27,881 I enjoyed myself greatly. Me too. 727 01:07:28,256 --> 01:07:31,009 I enjoyed myself, you know. 728 01:07:31,384 --> 01:07:33,720 So with that being said, 729 01:07:33,803 --> 01:07:38,600 what are we going to, you know, continue once I'm gone? 730 01:07:39,309 --> 01:07:42,270 We have to build on what has been started. 731 01:07:43,104 --> 01:07:46,191 And I'm willing to make this relationship work. 732 01:07:46,274 --> 01:07:48,443 So does that mean, you know, 733 01:07:48,526 --> 01:07:52,655 being like exclusive to each other and not seeing other people? 734 01:07:56,618 --> 01:08:01,748 Exactly... that's exactly what it means, you know. 735 01:08:01,831 --> 01:08:05,377 OK. If we are going to do this and work on our relationship, 736 01:08:05,460 --> 01:08:07,545 and only see each other, I think that means 737 01:08:07,629 --> 01:08:10,757 there has to be better communication between us, you know, 738 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,885 I need your emotional support for me as his mum, 739 01:08:13,968 --> 01:08:18,890 and then for me as, like, somebody in a relationship with you know? 740 01:08:18,973 --> 01:08:24,771 Yeah, I understand. I will try my best to do the right thing. 741 01:08:24,854 --> 01:08:29,275 Not only for Odin's sake but also for your sake. All right? 742 01:08:32,028 --> 01:08:34,030 SHERLON: Aside from being Odin's mum, 743 01:08:34,114 --> 01:08:35,824 I want to make this work with Aryanna 744 01:08:35,907 --> 01:08:38,451 because she makes me want to be a better man. 745 01:08:38,535 --> 01:08:41,204 She challenges me and she's stood beside me 746 01:08:41,287 --> 01:08:43,832 when I didn't deserve it, 747 01:08:43,915 --> 01:08:47,836 and for that she's a woman that I want to commit to. 748 01:08:48,169 --> 01:08:52,465 Come here, papi. Come here. Dad's going to miss you papi. 749 01:08:54,259 --> 01:08:56,219 Dad's gonna miss you so much. 750 01:09:03,351 --> 01:09:05,854 And I'm gonna miss you as well all right. 751 01:09:05,937 --> 01:09:08,023 Definitely gonna miss you. 752 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:15,739 ARYANNA: A lot of the time Sherlon tells me what I want to hear 753 01:09:15,822 --> 01:09:19,993 to get me off his back and to avoid hurting my feelings, 754 01:09:20,076 --> 01:09:24,831 but I truly feel like he's being genuine in this moment 755 01:09:24,914 --> 01:09:29,127 and I really hope that he means what he's saying. 756 01:09:39,429 --> 01:09:41,431 Thank you. 757 01:09:55,236 --> 01:09:59,282 How you feeling, Ary? Fine, I guess. 758 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:02,118 You don't sound fine. 759 01:10:02,952 --> 01:10:05,997 You kind of sad, hon? Yeah. 760 01:10:07,123 --> 01:10:09,751 Well, you guys have had such an emotional trip. 761 01:10:10,335 --> 01:10:13,129 We definitely did some work on our relationship 762 01:10:13,213 --> 01:10:17,634 and I think we decided we are gonna be together and... 763 01:10:18,843 --> 01:10:21,054 You are? Yeah. 764 01:10:21,137 --> 01:10:24,099 OK, if you both are sure this is what you want. 765 01:10:24,182 --> 01:10:26,226 Definitely. 766 01:10:26,309 --> 01:10:29,479 He's going to work really hard to try and be the guy 767 01:10:29,562 --> 01:10:32,482 me and Odie want him to be, right? 768 01:10:33,858 --> 01:10:35,527 Wow, well. 769 01:10:37,028 --> 01:10:42,867 Miss Karen, I've never been and I'm willing to try 770 01:10:42,951 --> 01:10:46,121 and exclusive for my family, all right? 771 01:10:46,204 --> 01:10:48,373 OK. 772 01:10:48,456 --> 01:10:51,334 My heart wants to say I hope Sherlon can be loyal 773 01:10:51,418 --> 01:10:53,962 and I sure hope he really means it, 774 01:10:54,045 --> 01:10:57,841 but I also know it's easy to fall away 775 01:10:57,924 --> 01:11:01,970 from your good intentions as time goes by. 776 01:11:06,725 --> 01:11:08,810 Here we are. 777 01:11:13,106 --> 01:11:14,983 Being a bachelor has been fun, 778 01:11:15,066 --> 01:11:20,196 but at some point I have to be a grown-up and settle down. 779 01:11:22,157 --> 01:11:24,909 All right, I'm gonna head on over there, guys, OK? 780 01:11:25,618 --> 01:11:27,454 All right, Miss Karen. 781 01:11:27,537 --> 01:11:32,167 There is a committed man somewhere deep down in my heart, you know, 782 01:11:32,250 --> 01:11:36,379 and I need to give him a chance, you know, to come to life. 783 01:11:37,922 --> 01:11:40,675 All right, so we are gonna do it? 784 01:11:41,843 --> 01:11:46,514 We gonna do it all right? Yes. Not seeing other people. 785 01:11:46,598 --> 01:11:49,851 I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm off the market, 786 01:11:49,934 --> 01:11:54,356 you know, trying to be a good partner and a good father. 787 01:11:56,775 --> 01:11:59,819 Gonna miss you guys, all right? Gonna miss you too. 788 01:12:06,493 --> 01:12:09,204 Say "Dad we're gonna miss you." 789 01:12:11,122 --> 01:12:14,209 Hey, you going to miss Daddy? 790 01:12:15,585 --> 01:12:18,880 You going to miss Dada? Tell me you're gonna miss Dada? 791 01:12:21,132 --> 01:12:23,968 ARYANNA: I have no idea when we'll see Sherlon again, 792 01:12:24,052 --> 01:12:30,642 but I do have hope that Sherlon will get a tourist visa 793 01:12:30,725 --> 01:12:35,647 and give it a chance to raise our son together in the US. 794 01:12:35,730 --> 01:12:37,607 Bye, Ary. 795 01:12:38,233 --> 01:12:43,113 I'm excited to see what the future holds for us as parents, 796 01:12:44,030 --> 01:12:46,991 and hopefully as a couple. 797 01:12:47,075 --> 01:12:49,327 All right. I'm committed with you. 798 01:12:51,287 --> 01:12:53,456 One more hug. 799 01:13:01,923 --> 01:13:04,551 All right? All right. 800 01:13:11,307 --> 01:13:13,268 We love you, we love you. Ditto. 801 01:13:25,447 --> 01:13:25,707 2 01:11:23.920 -- 01:11:26.920 align:middle line:90% position:50% DANIELE: Even though I didn't expect the test to be positive, 802 01:14:30,095 --> 01:14:32,347 getting a negative result when you really want a baby 803 01:14:32,430 --> 01:14:34,557 is always heart-breaking, 804 01:14:34,641 --> 01:14:36,976 and then seeing the disappointment on Yohan's face 805 01:14:37,060 --> 01:14:39,187 really makes me feel sad. 806 01:14:47,487 --> 01:14:49,406 It's not gonna change. 807 01:15:20,311 --> 01:15:22,564 DANIELE: One of the things that adds to my stress 808 01:15:22,647 --> 01:15:26,192 is how naive Yohan is about conception and fertility. 809 01:15:26,276 --> 01:15:28,486 He thinks that you can get have sex at any time 810 01:15:28,570 --> 01:15:31,406 and get pregnant, but in reality, 811 01:15:31,489 --> 01:15:33,908 it's going to be much harder than he realises, 812 01:15:33,992 --> 01:15:36,953 and I think that's just now setting in for him. 813 01:16:31,341 --> 01:16:33,760 DANIELE: I'm going to continue to come back as often as I can 814 01:16:33,843 --> 01:16:36,346 when I'm ovulating over the next five months, 815 01:16:36,429 --> 01:16:38,682 and then in the summer, I'll be living here, 816 01:16:38,765 --> 01:16:43,353 so if after six months we're not able to have a baby naturally, 817 01:16:43,436 --> 01:16:46,064 we're going to have to consider fertility treatments. 818 01:16:47,857 --> 01:16:51,111 I don't know right now how we're gonna pay for an egg donor, 819 01:16:51,194 --> 01:16:53,947 but it's so important to have a child with Yohan 820 01:16:54,030 --> 01:16:57,784 that I know that we'll do whatever we have to do to figure it out. 821 01:17:07,669 --> 01:17:10,213 I know, it feels like I just got here yesterday. 822 01:17:22,809 --> 01:17:26,896 If you had told me a year ago that I was going to meet a man in paradise, 823 01:17:26,980 --> 01:17:31,026 get married, and try to have a baby, I would have told you were crazy. 824 01:17:32,527 --> 01:17:34,446 No. 825 01:17:38,158 --> 01:17:41,786 DANIELE: But I feel like that makes it even more magical, 826 01:17:41,870 --> 01:17:46,291 because I am someone who truly believes in love. 827 01:17:47,083 --> 01:17:49,002 I believe in how powerful it is. 828 01:17:49,085 --> 01:17:52,839 I believe that our purpose on this Earth is to love. 829 01:17:52,922 --> 01:17:56,092 So, I'm willing to take a chance on love 830 01:17:56,176 --> 01:17:59,012 and to take risks and leaps for love. 831 01:18:02,849 --> 01:18:04,601 I love you. 832 01:18:08,063 --> 01:18:10,190 Really? 833 01:18:16,029 --> 01:18:19,074 Even though Yohan and I still have a lot of things to work out, 834 01:18:19,157 --> 01:18:21,993 I know that with Yohan I found true love, 835 01:18:22,077 --> 01:18:25,372 and I'm willing to never stop fighting for it. 836 01:18:25,455 --> 01:18:28,458 I can't wait to see what the future holds for us. 837 01:18:49,312 --> 01:18:51,356 # Home is where you are # 838 01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,526 # It's where I'll never be lost again # 839 01:18:54,609 --> 01:18:57,362 # It's where you are # 840 01:19:09,541 --> 01:19:09,801 2 01:16:13.920 -- 01:16:16.000 align:middle line:90% position:50% ABBY: You are telling me that I am a liar. 841 01:19:33,815 --> 01:19:36,359 I'm not a liar and you know it. 842 01:19:37,861 --> 01:19:40,280 FRANKIE: I haven't been in touch with Abby in over two weeks 843 01:19:40,363 --> 01:19:42,574 since I cancelled my trip to Mexico. 844 01:19:43,408 --> 01:19:46,119 But today I'm going to talk to her and Gaby, 845 01:19:46,202 --> 01:19:48,955 because I don't feel right about the way I left things. 846 01:19:49,956 --> 01:19:52,834 You are a liar. Not me. 847 01:19:52,917 --> 01:19:56,254 Y'all was together. Y'all... y'all was together. 848 01:19:56,338 --> 01:20:00,008 You was going to leave her for me. You are telling me that I'm a liar. 849 01:20:00,091 --> 01:20:02,510 You the one that's not trustworthy. Now don't be like that 850 01:20:02,594 --> 01:20:04,471 'cos she's sitting right there. Don't do that 851 01:20:04,554 --> 01:20:07,182 'cos she's sitting right there. You not being truthful either. 852 01:20:11,770 --> 01:20:15,482 FRANKIE: What's really disappointing is how Abby's acting right now. 853 01:20:15,565 --> 01:20:20,612 She calls me a liar and starts saying that the plan the whole time 854 01:20:20,695 --> 01:20:22,947 was to bring Gaby to the US with us, 855 01:20:23,031 --> 01:20:26,534 but that was never in our plan, never. 856 01:20:27,994 --> 01:20:30,038 Abby is caught in a lie right now, 857 01:20:30,121 --> 01:20:33,083 and she's just saying whatever she can say 858 01:20:33,166 --> 01:20:35,919 to try to save her relationship with Gaby. 859 01:20:36,836 --> 01:20:40,924 You could have told her everything but did you tell her? No. 860 01:20:41,007 --> 01:20:44,135 She didn't know nothing. I didn't lie to her. 861 01:20:45,595 --> 01:20:47,389 You did. 862 01:21:11,454 --> 01:21:15,500 ABBY: But I didn't tell Gaby all the plans to move with Frankie 863 01:21:15,583 --> 01:21:22,465 because was his idea and I just want that he tell her. 864 01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,686 We have a chat group. 865 01:21:38,690 --> 01:21:41,109 Why didn't you tell her? 866 01:21:43,653 --> 01:21:47,032 Why you exclude me of your plans? 867 01:21:47,115 --> 01:21:49,868 Well, you're right, we did have a group chat, 868 01:21:50,660 --> 01:21:54,539 but also Abby said don't text the group chat, 869 01:21:54,622 --> 01:21:57,709 so me and Abby was just texting on our own. 870 01:21:59,669 --> 01:22:01,421 No, no, no. 871 01:22:10,805 --> 01:22:13,016 I don't remember that. 872 01:22:14,184 --> 01:22:18,563 So, you didn't say that. No. I'm not making this up. OK. 873 01:22:20,482 --> 01:22:22,901 It's not a plan any more. 874 01:23:35,682 --> 01:23:37,976 ABBY: You act like an asshole. 875 01:23:38,810 --> 01:23:41,229 A selfish asshole. 876 01:23:44,607 --> 01:23:47,318 I just like how you gonna flip the script 877 01:23:47,402 --> 01:23:51,990 and you be changing your tone, you know what I'm saying. 878 01:23:52,073 --> 01:23:54,993 I can be honest and be real and come clean. 879 01:23:55,285 --> 01:23:58,663 You need to do that, so I hope you can do that one day. 880 01:24:00,874 --> 01:24:03,752 I don't have anything else to say to you. 881 01:24:03,835 --> 01:24:07,255 I don't want to see you your face any more. 882 01:24:07,339 --> 01:24:09,591 I hope that you have a great life. 883 01:24:11,509 --> 01:24:14,346 Thank you. Bye. 884 01:24:17,766 --> 01:24:21,061 She bullshitting, man, straight up lying and shit, man. 885 01:24:24,356 --> 01:24:26,441 I mean, how you gonna lie though. 886 01:24:26,524 --> 01:24:28,735 You know what I'm saying, like for real. 887 01:24:29,903 --> 01:24:32,197 But I ain't telling. 888 01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:36,368 (BLEEP) her. I ain't, whatever. 889 01:24:40,914 --> 01:24:43,750 I feel like I did get closure from the video call 890 01:24:43,833 --> 01:24:49,130 because I found out how Abby really operates. 891 01:24:49,756 --> 01:24:52,175 I thought she was so sweet and kind, 892 01:24:52,258 --> 01:24:54,969 but it's safe to say I didn't really know her at all. 893 01:24:56,096 --> 01:25:00,308 She can't be trusted. She's not loyal. 894 01:25:00,392 --> 01:25:02,894 And I really feel like I did dodge a bullet. 895 01:25:14,656 --> 01:25:17,826 My feelings for Abby was really strong, 896 01:25:18,827 --> 01:25:20,620 but at the same time, 897 01:25:21,788 --> 01:25:27,460 if I can be honest with myself, I don't think it was love. 898 01:25:27,544 --> 01:25:29,337 It was lust. 899 01:25:30,797 --> 01:25:32,549 When it comes to the future, 900 01:25:32,632 --> 01:25:35,468 I'm really looking for a woman that I can settle down 901 01:25:35,552 --> 01:25:37,262 and be with for the rest of my life, 902 01:25:37,345 --> 01:25:41,933 and this time around I'm not going to mistake love for lust. 903 01:25:49,733 --> 01:25:52,110 Never say never. 904 01:26:00,368 --> 01:26:00,629 2 01:22:47.320 -- 01:22:48.920 align:middle line:90% position:50% CARLOS: Hey, babe, what are you doing? 905 01:26:21,222 --> 01:26:23,933 Just trying to get through this registration, 906 01:26:24,017 --> 01:26:27,312 so I can get on a flight without any issues. 907 01:26:27,687 --> 01:26:30,648 Man, you look cute. Thank you, babe. 908 01:26:30,732 --> 01:26:33,026 VALENTINE: Last night I asked Carlos to marry me. 909 01:26:33,109 --> 01:26:39,115 He said yes, and I am elated. I'm excited. I am happy. 910 01:26:39,199 --> 01:26:43,286 I'm gonna miss you so much. Me too. We engaged now. 911 01:26:43,370 --> 01:26:47,832 But I am very sad that I have to leave all of it behind 912 01:26:47,916 --> 01:26:51,086 and go back to being long distance for the time being. 913 01:26:51,169 --> 01:26:53,797 Let me help you with this. 914 01:26:55,382 --> 01:26:57,550 All right. 915 01:26:59,886 --> 01:27:02,389 Why do you got to live on the top floor? 916 01:27:03,556 --> 01:27:07,894 Couldn't you at least be on the second floor? Damn. 917 01:27:07,977 --> 01:27:10,313 I'm going to miss Carlos so much. 918 01:27:10,397 --> 01:27:12,524 Oh, thank God for the roller. 919 01:27:12,607 --> 01:27:15,819 I'm gonna miss the little things like watching movies. 920 01:27:15,902 --> 01:27:18,697 He cuddles, he loves to cuddle, and I love that. 921 01:27:18,780 --> 01:27:21,366 And his hair. 922 01:27:21,449 --> 01:27:23,535 LAUGHS 923 01:27:24,119 --> 01:27:27,288 I'm gonna miss all of that a lot, 924 01:27:27,372 --> 01:27:31,042 but even though it's hard to leave him at the same time 925 01:27:31,126 --> 01:27:35,255 going home is part of us being together permanently, 926 01:27:35,338 --> 01:27:39,592 because I'm going to apply for the K-1 visa as soon as I get home. 927 01:27:39,676 --> 01:27:41,845 This morning actually I didn't wake up. 928 01:27:41,928 --> 01:27:44,139 I did this with my eye closed. 929 01:27:46,516 --> 01:27:49,519 You know, when you did this, wow, that was, 930 01:27:49,602 --> 01:27:53,440 that was I mean I didn't know exactly what was that, that I mean, 931 01:27:53,523 --> 01:27:57,736 but this actually was what I need. 932 01:27:58,611 --> 01:28:02,615 This extra mile showed me that you really love me, 933 01:28:02,699 --> 01:28:06,703 that you really want to be with me, and that was magic. 934 01:28:06,786 --> 01:28:08,621 Thank you for that. 935 01:28:09,956 --> 01:28:15,920 Being engaged was a huge step that we took on our relationship, 936 01:28:16,004 --> 01:28:19,090 and now saying goodbye is hard. 937 01:28:19,174 --> 01:28:21,634 When you wake up this morning, what were your first thought? 938 01:28:21,718 --> 01:28:26,348 Like, I mean, you just get engaged and you're leaving Colombia today. 939 01:28:26,431 --> 01:28:28,558 You're leaving me, actually. 940 01:28:29,851 --> 01:28:32,187 I just want to lay there though with you 941 01:28:32,270 --> 01:28:34,439 and cuddle for as long as we could. 942 01:28:35,190 --> 01:28:38,193 That's what I wanted to do. I want to do that now. 943 01:28:39,736 --> 01:28:41,613 I can't believe this is over. 944 01:28:41,696 --> 01:28:45,367 Almost. I mean you staying here. Yeah. 945 01:28:55,168 --> 01:28:57,545 No one can predict the future, 946 01:28:57,629 --> 01:29:01,424 but my hope is I can make it with Valentine, 947 01:29:01,966 --> 01:29:05,053 but I'm nervous, I'm anxious 948 01:29:05,136 --> 01:29:07,972 because we have so many challenges, 949 01:29:09,474 --> 01:29:13,395 and the biggest piece we have is our sexual part. 950 01:29:13,478 --> 01:29:17,857 Are we going to be able to keep being monogamous? 951 01:29:17,941 --> 01:29:20,235 Is this going to be an issue for us 952 01:29:20,318 --> 01:29:23,530 if we bring a third person to our relationship? 953 01:29:25,156 --> 01:29:27,909 You OK? You're so quiet. 954 01:29:28,993 --> 01:29:33,081 Because I don't want you to go. I don't want him to go to the US 955 01:29:33,164 --> 01:29:37,919 and maybe find another person who can fulfil his needs. 956 01:29:39,838 --> 01:29:42,298 I'm scared about that because I don't wanna, 957 01:29:42,382 --> 01:29:44,342 I don't want to lose my man. 958 01:29:44,968 --> 01:29:47,345 I love you. I love you too. 959 01:29:48,096 --> 01:29:52,142 Baby, no. Don't cry. 960 01:29:52,726 --> 01:29:56,896 I'll be back in like a month and a half, God willing. 961 01:29:58,648 --> 01:30:03,403 Yes. Don't take it off. I won't. 962 01:30:05,697 --> 01:30:07,657 Goodbye. 963 01:30:08,491 --> 01:30:11,703 I love you. You hear me? 964 01:30:11,786 --> 01:30:15,081 Thank you for loving me and saying yes. 965 01:30:17,459 --> 01:30:22,005 My heart is completely breaking. 966 01:30:27,927 --> 01:30:29,679 All right. 967 01:30:29,763 --> 01:30:33,475 Take care. I will. Don't forget to text me. 968 01:30:33,558 --> 01:30:37,228 He leaving now is like a part of me is leaving too. 969 01:30:37,312 --> 01:30:39,522 A part of me that I cannot live without it. 970 01:30:40,982 --> 01:30:43,902 I love you. I love you. Get home safely. 971 01:30:45,904 --> 01:30:48,365 I'm not so good at goodbye. 972 01:30:48,448 --> 01:30:50,575 Love you, Carlos. I'm gonna call you. 973 01:30:59,793 --> 01:31:01,961 VALENTINE: It could take months, maybe even a year, 974 01:31:02,045 --> 01:31:04,422 for Carlos to get his K-1 visa approved, 975 01:31:04,506 --> 01:31:06,633 so it's really gonna be hard on us. 976 01:31:07,133 --> 01:31:10,053 But my relationship with Carlos is the best thing 977 01:31:10,136 --> 01:31:11,888 that has ever happened to me, 978 01:31:11,971 --> 01:31:16,559 and I am praying that this thing grows into something 979 01:31:16,643 --> 01:31:19,396 that much more amazing for both of us, 980 01:31:20,146 --> 01:31:23,483 and I'm ready for what's to come.