1 00:00:00,725 --> 00:00:01,987 Raffo: Not sure how I'm allowed to be, 2 00:00:02,087 --> 00:00:03,148 to be honest. 3 00:00:03,248 --> 00:00:05,951 OhmyGod, she's like a specimen on display. 4 00:00:06,051 --> 00:00:06,952 Jealous? 5 00:00:07,052 --> 00:00:08,233 Are you gonna be like a bitch to me 6 00:00:08,333 --> 00:00:09,434 for the rest of our lives? 7 00:00:09,534 --> 00:00:10,996 I think I just realised I'm moving out. 8 00:00:11,096 --> 00:00:12,477 What? 9 00:00:12,577 --> 00:00:13,418 Paul: I feel like I can finally trust her 10 00:00:13,418 --> 00:00:14,839 for the first time in a while. 11 00:00:14,939 --> 00:00:17,162 We both knew it was wrong the second it happened. 12 00:00:17,262 --> 00:00:18,603 I do feel betrayed. 13 00:00:18,703 --> 00:00:21,086 Sabi: Maybe you should get some help for the eating stuff? 14 00:00:21,186 --> 00:00:22,807 7ven: I've decided we're moving in together. 15 00:00:22,907 --> 00:00:24,529 Eeeeee! 16 00:00:24,629 --> 00:00:26,030 Mumtaz: Your sister-in-law is disrespecting her husband, 17 00:00:26,030 --> 00:00:27,012 and Sabi- 18 00:00:27,112 --> 00:00:28,213 Okay, enough! 19 00:00:28,313 --> 00:00:29,214 [people gasping] 20 00:00:29,314 --> 00:00:31,216 It looks like you're moving out. 21 00:00:31,316 --> 00:00:32,217 Mom- 22 00:00:32,317 --> 00:00:34,219 Oh no, you're pregnant. 23 00:00:34,319 --> 00:00:35,700 Actually, yeah. 24 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:37,462 Weird and not funny. 25 00:00:37,562 --> 00:00:39,564 I'm not joking. 26 00:00:41,366 --> 00:00:42,827 [sirens wailing] 27 00:00:42,927 --> 00:00:44,929 [horns blaring] 28 00:00:46,331 --> 00:00:48,333 And what about marriage? 29 00:00:50,335 --> 00:00:52,337 What about marriage? 30 00:00:53,178 --> 00:00:54,319 Aqsa if you... 31 00:00:54,419 --> 00:00:55,480 if you... 32 00:00:55,580 --> 00:00:57,362 then you should... 33 00:00:57,462 --> 00:00:59,464 if... 34 00:01:01,186 --> 00:01:03,188 What do you want me to say? 35 00:01:04,389 --> 00:01:06,331 Aqsa: Mom, I need you to understand 36 00:01:06,431 --> 00:01:09,033 I'm not marrying Izzy because I'm pregnant. 37 00:01:10,195 --> 00:01:12,197 What other reason is there to marry a person? 38 00:01:13,198 --> 00:01:14,539 Love? 39 00:01:14,639 --> 00:01:16,641 You don't love each other? 40 00:01:18,403 --> 00:01:21,186 I'm about to lose autonomy over my body 41 00:01:21,286 --> 00:01:23,308 so can we just pause on giving me away 42 00:01:23,408 --> 00:01:24,829 in freaking matrimony? 43 00:01:24,929 --> 00:01:26,631 If you do not marry Ismail, 44 00:01:26,731 --> 00:01:28,153 this baby will be... 45 00:01:28,253 --> 00:01:29,594 undocumented. 46 00:01:29,694 --> 00:01:31,696 I don't think that's the right word. 47 00:01:33,258 --> 00:01:35,160 The baby will not be accepted. 48 00:01:35,260 --> 00:01:36,361 By who? 49 00:01:36,461 --> 00:01:41,065 Aqsa, are you so ignorant of how this world of ours works? 50 00:01:42,147 --> 00:01:43,808 Bye. 51 00:01:43,908 --> 00:01:45,210 Elope. Do whatever. 52 00:01:45,310 --> 00:01:46,971 But just do it. 53 00:01:47,071 --> 00:01:49,174 For the sake of the child. 54 00:01:49,274 --> 00:01:51,276 Please. 55 00:01:52,477 --> 00:01:55,240 I don't know what to say again. 56 00:01:56,681 --> 00:01:58,263 I get a bad feeling 57 00:01:58,363 --> 00:02:00,225 when I think about doing it for this reason. 58 00:02:00,325 --> 00:02:02,427 How you feel doesn't matter. 59 00:02:02,527 --> 00:02:04,529 Yeah, it never fucking seems to! 60 00:02:05,610 --> 00:02:08,433 This child belonging to its people is what matters! 61 00:02:08,533 --> 00:02:11,296 Mom, can we chill? 62 00:02:13,338 --> 00:02:15,340 Hm. 63 00:02:17,342 --> 00:02:19,284 What's that smell? 64 00:02:19,384 --> 00:02:21,246 A mother's pain. 65 00:02:21,346 --> 00:02:22,447 Sorry. 66 00:02:22,547 --> 00:02:25,049 I, um, I lit the sage stick in my room 67 00:02:25,149 --> 00:02:26,851 and then realised I had nothing to put it out in. 68 00:02:26,951 --> 00:02:28,693 So, ignore me. 69 00:02:28,793 --> 00:02:29,894 [7ven coughing] 70 00:02:29,994 --> 00:02:31,736 7ven: Sorry, oh my God. 71 00:02:31,836 --> 00:02:33,338 Um... 72 00:02:33,438 --> 00:02:40,745 [soft electronica music] 73 00:02:40,845 --> 00:02:42,187 Good morning, babe. 74 00:02:42,287 --> 00:02:43,988 Hey, hey, knocking is a thing. 75 00:02:44,088 --> 00:02:46,090 Sorry, sorry. Ohmygosh. 76 00:02:46,691 --> 00:02:48,193 How'd you sleep? 77 00:02:48,293 --> 00:02:49,314 I slept so bad! 78 00:02:49,414 --> 00:02:50,755 We're roommates! 79 00:02:50,855 --> 00:02:52,757 I'm so pumped! 80 00:02:52,857 --> 00:02:53,758 [7ven knocks] 81 00:02:53,858 --> 00:02:54,999 7ven: Can I come in? 82 00:02:55,099 --> 00:02:57,101 Yes. 83 00:02:58,423 --> 00:03:00,525 [7ven squealing] 84 00:03:00,625 --> 00:03:02,627 I'm so happy! 85 00:03:04,309 --> 00:03:06,571 Ah, I'm so happy! 86 00:03:06,671 --> 00:03:08,253 It feels so right! 87 00:03:08,353 --> 00:03:11,576 You and me finally together! 88 00:03:11,676 --> 00:03:12,977 We're like... 89 00:03:13,077 --> 00:03:15,079 we're like... 90 00:03:17,081 --> 00:03:20,024 I can't think of a famous duo that applies to us. 91 00:03:20,124 --> 00:03:22,187 Why did you decide this was okay? 92 00:03:22,287 --> 00:03:23,228 You were right. 93 00:03:23,328 --> 00:03:26,231 Um, it kinda made sense. 94 00:03:26,331 --> 00:03:28,233 Oh! - Oh my God! 95 00:03:28,333 --> 00:03:29,594 Let's go to work together! 96 00:03:29,694 --> 00:03:30,795 Let's get caffeine! 97 00:03:30,895 --> 00:03:32,897 Ugh, you wanna add caffeine to this? 98 00:03:33,698 --> 00:03:34,839 Get changed. 99 00:03:34,939 --> 00:03:36,401 ♪ Beautiful Dreamer 100 00:03:36,501 --> 00:03:37,402 ♪ won't you come and play ♪ 101 00:03:37,502 --> 00:03:38,883 7ven: Pregnant Aqsa. 102 00:03:38,983 --> 00:03:40,325 So joyful! 103 00:03:40,425 --> 00:03:41,926 So bleak. 104 00:03:42,026 --> 00:03:43,928 It's totally both of those. 105 00:03:44,028 --> 00:03:45,250 There's gonna be a beebee 106 00:03:45,350 --> 00:03:47,252 and we're gonna be aunties. 107 00:03:47,352 --> 00:03:48,653 Joyful. 108 00:03:48,753 --> 00:03:50,455 Bleak because I feel sad for the world 109 00:03:50,555 --> 00:03:53,137 when people as cool as Aqsa become normies. 110 00:03:53,237 --> 00:03:54,659 It's an unplanned pregnancy 111 00:03:54,759 --> 00:03:56,261 so that's still cool. 112 00:03:56,361 --> 00:03:57,342 True. 113 00:03:57,442 --> 00:03:58,903 I'm so worried it's gonna like, 114 00:03:59,003 --> 00:04:01,205 divide Aqsa and my mom forever. 115 00:04:03,368 --> 00:04:04,749 Can I just point out 116 00:04:04,849 --> 00:04:07,171 that I didn't make this convo about me once? 117 00:04:08,252 --> 00:04:09,674 Congrats. 118 00:04:09,774 --> 00:04:14,199 ♪ Save yourself for another 119 00:04:14,299 --> 00:04:16,301 ♪ Beautiful Dreamer ♪ 120 00:04:16,621 --> 00:04:18,623 Hey. 121 00:04:19,624 --> 00:04:21,326 It's gonna be fun. 122 00:04:21,426 --> 00:04:23,328 Where are we going? 123 00:04:23,428 --> 00:04:25,430 [gentle music] 124 00:04:31,636 --> 00:04:33,638 Okay, okay, okay. 125 00:04:37,241 --> 00:04:39,143 Instructor: Who's ready to ride the wheel? 126 00:04:39,243 --> 00:04:42,547 Okay, so you've got your clay and, uh- 127 00:04:42,647 --> 00:04:44,649 Oh, we know what we're doing. 128 00:04:47,492 --> 00:04:49,494 All right, have at it. 129 00:04:50,695 --> 00:04:51,596 Hey, I wonder if Demi Moore- 130 00:04:51,696 --> 00:04:52,877 Don't make a 'Ghost' joke. 131 00:04:52,977 --> 00:04:54,979 Okay. 132 00:04:56,781 --> 00:04:58,243 [on phone] Deenzie: Buenos morning, y'all! 133 00:04:58,343 --> 00:05:00,044 Dad, you don't have to be on this call. 134 00:05:00,144 --> 00:05:01,045 Enjoy your vacation. 135 00:05:01,145 --> 00:05:02,046 Where's he at? 136 00:05:02,146 --> 00:05:03,928 Costa Rica. 137 00:05:04,028 --> 00:05:05,650 [on phone] Deenzie: I will always be there for monthly Monday. 138 00:05:05,750 --> 00:05:07,051 Violet, where we at? 139 00:05:07,151 --> 00:05:08,293 About to go over customer feedback. 140 00:05:08,393 --> 00:05:09,414 [on phone] Deenzie: Got it. 141 00:05:09,514 --> 00:05:11,215 Sabi, kick us off. 142 00:05:11,315 --> 00:05:13,298 Aqsa's pregnant. I'm processing. 143 00:05:13,398 --> 00:05:14,419 [on phone] Deenzie: That's great! 144 00:05:14,519 --> 00:05:17,221 I mean, is it? 145 00:05:17,321 --> 00:05:21,666 It is, um, but it's also, like, kinda complicated. 146 00:05:21,766 --> 00:05:25,069 The whole not being married thing is breaking my mom. 147 00:05:25,169 --> 00:05:26,471 [on phone] Deenzie: Yeah, I actually get that. 148 00:05:26,571 --> 00:05:27,672 When I got knocked up, 149 00:05:27,772 --> 00:05:30,114 Wolf's dad and I had a civil union. 150 00:05:30,214 --> 00:05:33,217 Felt like we needed a ritual to kinda join us as a family. 151 00:05:33,578 --> 00:05:35,280 Ah, did it? 152 00:05:35,380 --> 00:05:36,841 [on phone] Deenzie: It wasn't legally binding, 153 00:05:36,941 --> 00:05:39,484 but it changed the way we were, like, seen by our people. 154 00:05:39,584 --> 00:05:40,685 Oh my gosh! 155 00:05:40,785 --> 00:05:42,487 Guaro time! 156 00:05:42,587 --> 00:05:43,928 Yes, si, si, si, I'm coming! 157 00:05:44,028 --> 00:05:47,572 I'm coming! I'm coming! I'm coming! I'm coming! 158 00:05:47,672 --> 00:05:49,674 I gotta go. 159 00:05:52,597 --> 00:05:54,138 Izzy: How would that even work? 160 00:05:54,238 --> 00:05:55,980 Sabi: We just take some pics and video, 161 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,022 Mom gets to tell everybody you got married. 162 00:05:58,122 --> 00:05:59,384 OhmyGod, we'll get all dressed up 163 00:05:59,484 --> 00:06:01,826 and our template will be Connie Corleone's wedding. 164 00:06:01,926 --> 00:06:04,429 Satin, silk, violence, and la busta! 165 00:06:04,529 --> 00:06:06,190 Is a garter too patriarchal? 166 00:06:06,290 --> 00:06:07,952 Their people don't do that. 167 00:06:08,052 --> 00:06:09,754 Sorry, that was culturally insensitive. 168 00:06:09,854 --> 00:06:12,156 Izzy: What and-and no family there? 169 00:06:12,256 --> 00:06:14,399 Well, we gotta probably make it look like you did it 170 00:06:14,499 --> 00:06:16,561 without mom knowing otherwise she'll get grief 171 00:06:16,661 --> 00:06:18,563 for letting you get married this way. 172 00:06:18,663 --> 00:06:20,164 Why should we do this? 173 00:06:20,264 --> 00:06:22,567 Well, for Mom. 174 00:06:22,667 --> 00:06:24,008 We'll have mehndi, 175 00:06:24,108 --> 00:06:26,811 and I totally have the perfect mirror for the Arsi Mushaf 176 00:06:26,911 --> 00:06:29,614 and OMG I'm gonna check in on renting an elephant! 177 00:06:29,714 --> 00:06:31,255 Aqsa: Are you serious? 178 00:06:31,355 --> 00:06:33,357 Ugh. 179 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,822 [soft music] 180 00:06:37,922 --> 00:06:39,924 The elephant was too much? 181 00:06:40,605 --> 00:06:43,888 Hm, yeah, the elephant was too much. 182 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,500 [upbeat music] 183 00:06:47,601 --> 00:06:48,903 ♪ Go on take up space in my head 184 00:06:49,003 --> 00:06:50,224 ♪ Make a mess now ♪ 185 00:06:50,324 --> 00:06:52,146 No, the issue isn't the number of claims submitted. 186 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,947 It's if you- [door knocking] 187 00:06:54,048 --> 00:06:55,349 Uh, one sec. 188 00:06:55,449 --> 00:06:57,351 Helloooo. 189 00:06:57,451 --> 00:06:59,634 Sorry, Klaus, my sibling just dropped in. 190 00:06:59,733 --> 00:07:01,355 Do you mind if I put you on mute for a second? 191 00:07:01,455 --> 00:07:03,156 I'm fine. 192 00:07:03,257 --> 00:07:04,759 Sabi: Hey, I um, 193 00:07:04,858 --> 00:07:06,160 I just wanted to check in. 194 00:07:06,260 --> 00:07:07,440 Are you gonna try to convince me 195 00:07:07,541 --> 00:07:09,163 to do this sham wedding thing? 196 00:07:09,262 --> 00:07:11,806 No, um, I'm like seriously here 197 00:07:11,906 --> 00:07:14,208 'cause I know how messed up all of this is 198 00:07:14,308 --> 00:07:17,671 and how out of control I would feel if I were you. 199 00:07:19,072 --> 00:07:20,975 Okay. 200 00:07:21,075 --> 00:07:22,056 Thanks. 201 00:07:22,156 --> 00:07:28,663 [gentle music] 202 00:07:28,762 --> 00:07:30,865 Do you know what I was weirdly thinking about today? 203 00:07:30,964 --> 00:07:33,908 Remember when we were trying to explain 204 00:07:34,007 --> 00:07:35,629 what camping was to Dad? 205 00:07:35,729 --> 00:07:37,872 Oh my God. 206 00:07:37,971 --> 00:07:39,834 [imitating Imran] "Oh, we moved from Pakistan 207 00:07:39,934 --> 00:07:41,515 "so you wouldn't have to live like this. 208 00:07:41,615 --> 00:07:44,517 "Now you want to do this for fun, huh?" 209 00:07:44,618 --> 00:07:46,640 They went through a bit with us. 210 00:07:46,740 --> 00:07:47,842 Well, hey, I mean, 211 00:07:47,942 --> 00:07:49,923 I was harder for them than you were. 212 00:07:50,024 --> 00:07:51,445 You were more of a mind-fuck, 213 00:07:51,545 --> 00:07:53,546 but I wasn't easy. 214 00:07:58,352 --> 00:08:00,354 Can I say something? 215 00:08:00,834 --> 00:08:02,697 Mm-hmm. 216 00:08:02,797 --> 00:08:06,901 I see how much shit you handle 'cause of who you are 217 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:11,105 and I know what I get away with 'cause of who I am 218 00:08:11,205 --> 00:08:14,507 or like how I'm perceived or whatever. 219 00:08:14,608 --> 00:08:15,990 And now Dad is gone 220 00:08:16,089 --> 00:08:18,713 and there's still some weird expectation for you 221 00:08:18,813 --> 00:08:20,975 to be this like good Paki girl. 222 00:08:22,416 --> 00:08:24,798 But in spite of what you've done for this fam, 223 00:08:24,898 --> 00:08:27,521 you can never be a good girl. 224 00:08:27,620 --> 00:08:32,165 You will always be a slutty, pregnant-out of-wedlock, 225 00:08:32,266 --> 00:08:35,628 wild-ass woman who cannot be domesticated. 226 00:08:38,672 --> 00:08:40,674 Ah, thank you for saying that. 227 00:08:43,717 --> 00:08:48,682 This child's gonna bring some joy I hope. 228 00:08:49,323 --> 00:08:51,325 Yeah, that would be nice. 229 00:08:54,488 --> 00:08:56,871 'Kay. If I do this, 230 00:08:56,971 --> 00:08:59,272 get fake married or whatever, 231 00:08:59,373 --> 00:09:02,036 let's not pretend it's not what it is, okay? 232 00:09:02,136 --> 00:09:06,000 Which is a firewall to protect Mom 233 00:09:06,099 --> 00:09:07,842 and whoever is inside me 234 00:09:07,941 --> 00:09:11,125 against the ridiculousness of this world. 235 00:09:11,224 --> 00:09:12,887 Gotcha. 236 00:09:12,987 --> 00:09:14,929 Okay. 237 00:09:15,029 --> 00:09:17,031 I have to get back to work. 238 00:09:17,550 --> 00:09:19,453 All marriage is fake anyways. 239 00:09:19,553 --> 00:09:21,454 Oh, nice. 240 00:09:21,555 --> 00:09:23,797 Life is a big empty void and then you die. 241 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,762 Paul: I've been going to meetings again. 242 00:09:31,005 --> 00:09:33,007 Food stuff? 243 00:09:35,009 --> 00:09:36,951 Has it been bad? 244 00:09:37,050 --> 00:09:39,051 Problematic for sure. 245 00:09:39,573 --> 00:09:41,714 For how long? 246 00:09:41,815 --> 00:09:43,816 Ever since you went into the hospital. 247 00:09:44,617 --> 00:09:46,618 I've been sharing at the meetings and it feels weird. 248 00:09:48,021 --> 00:09:49,963 How's it going? - We're good. 249 00:09:50,064 --> 00:09:52,066 Okay. 250 00:09:52,626 --> 00:09:54,627 Ah, what have you been sharing? 251 00:09:55,628 --> 00:09:59,573 Mostly stuff around us. 252 00:09:59,673 --> 00:10:02,936 [soft hip hop music] 253 00:10:03,037 --> 00:10:06,540 7ven: You gotta look at these nikah flower sculptures 254 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,622 I found on Etsy. 255 00:10:08,722 --> 00:10:09,623 You need to tamp yourself down, 256 00:10:09,723 --> 00:10:10,743 it's a fake wedding. 257 00:10:10,844 --> 00:10:11,743 It can't feel too real. 258 00:10:11,845 --> 00:10:12,987 Aqsa doesn't want that. 259 00:10:13,087 --> 00:10:14,627 She wants to be celebrated though. 260 00:10:14,728 --> 00:10:15,829 Everybody does. 261 00:10:15,930 --> 00:10:17,310 Not everybody. 262 00:10:17,411 --> 00:10:19,993 While I applaud the level of sensitivity you are exhibiting, 263 00:10:20,094 --> 00:10:22,276 y'all's limited perception of the label of marriage 264 00:10:22,376 --> 00:10:23,597 is your own shit. 265 00:10:23,695 --> 00:10:26,040 Now, rose petals I'm thinking- 266 00:10:26,140 --> 00:10:28,002 I don't know how you manage to do that. 267 00:10:28,102 --> 00:10:31,864 You're being, like, so positive about something so fake. 268 00:10:33,107 --> 00:10:34,407 Yeah, sure. 269 00:10:34,508 --> 00:10:37,011 It's a wretched institution about ownership 270 00:10:37,111 --> 00:10:39,854 and possibly the end of voluntary affection. 271 00:10:39,954 --> 00:10:42,016 But you know what else marriage is? 272 00:10:42,116 --> 00:10:43,617 Whatever you make it. 273 00:10:43,717 --> 00:10:46,060 ♪ Whatever you make it, mm ♪ 274 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,162 No rose petals though. 275 00:10:49,162 --> 00:10:51,906 ♪ Beautiful Dreamer 276 00:10:52,006 --> 00:10:53,867 ♪ Won't you come and play ♪ 277 00:10:53,968 --> 00:10:55,069 I can't believe this is happening. 278 00:10:55,169 --> 00:10:56,670 But it is. And it's beautiful. 279 00:10:56,770 --> 00:10:58,112 Shut up. 280 00:10:58,212 --> 00:11:00,534 Think of the story you'll be able to tell little 7ven Junior. 281 00:11:01,855 --> 00:11:02,916 Aw! 282 00:11:03,017 --> 00:11:04,959 Okay, so you're just gonna go to camera here 283 00:11:05,059 --> 00:11:06,680 and then video is here. 284 00:11:06,780 --> 00:11:07,681 Got it. 285 00:11:07,781 --> 00:11:09,782 Yeah, yeah. 286 00:11:11,825 --> 00:11:14,348 Why do I feel like, ah, throwing up right now? 287 00:11:16,190 --> 00:11:18,232 Aqsa: What if Mom finds out this is a sham? 288 00:11:19,272 --> 00:11:20,935 I think she's gonna know it's a sham 289 00:11:21,035 --> 00:11:22,175 just like everyone else will 290 00:11:22,276 --> 00:11:23,978 but none of them will dare admit it. 291 00:11:24,078 --> 00:11:25,338 You think so? 292 00:11:25,439 --> 00:11:26,618 Sabi: Oh yeah. 293 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,541 Oh my God, remember Memoona's abortion 294 00:11:28,642 --> 00:11:31,025 and her mom told everyone it was a miscarriage 295 00:11:31,125 --> 00:11:32,826 but then no one really bought it 296 00:11:32,925 --> 00:11:35,189 and no one really said anything? 297 00:11:35,289 --> 00:11:37,290 Same thing. 298 00:11:38,092 --> 00:11:41,555 Memoona's abortion story always made me feel hopeful. 299 00:11:41,655 --> 00:11:43,656 Sabi: Me too. 300 00:11:44,338 --> 00:11:45,559 Welcome back. 301 00:11:45,659 --> 00:11:46,839 Good job on your vases. 302 00:11:46,940 --> 00:11:48,941 The first firing was fine. 303 00:11:49,541 --> 00:11:50,964 Which dildo is your dildo? 304 00:11:51,065 --> 00:11:52,806 Oh, mine's the good one. 305 00:11:52,906 --> 00:11:55,647 Bessy: Oh, well you wouldn't know a good one if you sat on it. 306 00:11:55,749 --> 00:11:57,611 Paul: Is it hard to imagine a straight cis man 307 00:11:57,711 --> 00:11:59,713 recognising an effective sex toy? 308 00:12:00,914 --> 00:12:02,915 Ooh. - Please, come in. 309 00:12:03,717 --> 00:12:06,300 Like, I-I feel fine in my head 310 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,622 but my body is jumping out of the plane. 311 00:12:08,722 --> 00:12:12,086 All right, let's get your anxiety outta your body. 312 00:12:13,207 --> 00:12:16,069 Talk it out, you know, just start talking. 313 00:12:16,170 --> 00:12:19,433 Izzy: Mm, mm-hmm, no I mean I, I, I had a, 314 00:12:19,532 --> 00:12:21,435 oh, I had a simple life. 315 00:12:21,535 --> 00:12:24,478 Well, I-I-I would go to work and be happy 316 00:12:24,578 --> 00:12:27,481 and then I would come home and get high and be happy. 317 00:12:27,580 --> 00:12:29,983 And now, now, I'm gonna be a dad 318 00:12:30,983 --> 00:12:32,986 with a woman who is just... 319 00:12:33,827 --> 00:12:35,689 way out of my league. 320 00:12:35,789 --> 00:12:38,132 Izzy, you're a significantly solid catch. 321 00:12:38,232 --> 00:12:40,794 Wait, so-so-so-so Aqsa's not outta my league? 322 00:12:43,237 --> 00:12:45,439 Aqsa's kind of outta everybody's league. 323 00:12:46,599 --> 00:12:48,622 Aqsa: I need to know that Izzy looks good. 324 00:12:48,722 --> 00:12:50,184 What do you think he's wearing right now? 325 00:12:50,284 --> 00:12:51,704 He's always a smoke show. 326 00:12:51,805 --> 00:12:53,107 Tiger of Sweden I think. 327 00:12:53,207 --> 00:12:54,708 Okay, good. 328 00:12:54,808 --> 00:12:57,911 And everything's been arranged, yeah? 329 00:12:58,011 --> 00:12:59,752 In terms of...? 330 00:12:59,853 --> 00:13:01,954 You paid an event fee or whatever? 331 00:13:02,055 --> 00:13:05,018 There's a certain area that's been reserved for us? 332 00:13:09,262 --> 00:13:12,445 If you made me get wedding-ed up for nothing 333 00:13:12,546 --> 00:13:15,169 I am going to murder you. 334 00:13:15,268 --> 00:13:17,211 Bessy: Your dildo has too much girth. 335 00:13:17,310 --> 00:13:18,570 Yeah, but look at my curvature. 336 00:13:18,672 --> 00:13:20,374 Yeah, but your girth is garbage. 337 00:13:20,473 --> 00:13:21,454 I don't think my girth is garbage. 338 00:13:21,555 --> 00:13:22,656 Look at my girth. 339 00:13:22,756 --> 00:13:24,218 Look at it. 340 00:13:24,318 --> 00:13:25,259 It's elegant. 341 00:13:25,358 --> 00:13:26,980 Your girth is obscene. 342 00:13:27,079 --> 00:13:28,622 Be honest with yourself. 343 00:13:28,722 --> 00:13:30,064 Honestly? 344 00:13:30,164 --> 00:13:32,925 I like us saying the word girth over and over again. 345 00:13:36,329 --> 00:13:37,271 Hey. 346 00:13:37,371 --> 00:13:39,373 Yeah? 347 00:13:39,933 --> 00:13:42,714 I'd like to ask you to share, 348 00:13:42,816 --> 00:13:45,118 like you would at your meetings? 349 00:13:45,219 --> 00:13:46,839 On what topic? 350 00:13:46,940 --> 00:13:48,922 Maybe what it was like for you 351 00:13:49,021 --> 00:13:51,022 when I was in the hospital? 352 00:13:51,345 --> 00:13:54,127 You know, I don't really have a, 353 00:13:54,228 --> 00:13:56,250 a sense. 354 00:13:56,349 --> 00:13:58,352 Um... 355 00:14:01,194 --> 00:14:05,259 When I first got the call that you were non-responsive 356 00:14:05,358 --> 00:14:07,361 they asked me all these questions about you. 357 00:14:08,642 --> 00:14:11,165 I didn't know the answers to a whole bunch of stuff. 358 00:14:13,646 --> 00:14:16,410 I felt like I was disappointing you? 359 00:14:17,211 --> 00:14:19,313 Izzy: No, no, no, no. 360 00:14:19,412 --> 00:14:20,314 I can't do this. 361 00:14:20,414 --> 00:14:21,595 I can't do this! 362 00:14:21,694 --> 00:14:23,316 How am I gonna do this? 363 00:14:23,416 --> 00:14:26,920 I am gonna disappoint her over and over and over 364 00:14:27,020 --> 00:14:29,603 until she realises that-that she is too good for me! 365 00:14:29,703 --> 00:14:31,325 Okay, you're just jumping a smidge 366 00:14:31,425 --> 00:14:32,566 too far ahead in the timeline. 367 00:14:32,665 --> 00:14:34,568 Let's just come back to right now, okay? 368 00:14:34,666 --> 00:14:36,329 Aqsa: Okay, this is what we're gonna do. 369 00:14:36,430 --> 00:14:38,332 Get ten pics in front of the castle 370 00:14:38,432 --> 00:14:40,213 and one video of the two of us in front of the barns 371 00:14:40,314 --> 00:14:43,176 feeding each other cake and then we're out, got it? 372 00:14:43,277 --> 00:14:45,279 Got it. 373 00:14:47,079 --> 00:14:48,820 Where's Izzy? 374 00:14:48,922 --> 00:14:50,204 ♪ Here goes nothin', I am doin' something ♪ [Izzy panting] 375 00:14:50,204 --> 00:14:51,984 In for a count of four. 376 00:14:52,085 --> 00:14:53,186 Oh God! 377 00:14:53,287 --> 00:14:55,189 Oh, oh, oh God! 378 00:14:55,289 --> 00:14:56,989 OhmyGod, I think I'm gonna pass out. 379 00:14:57,089 --> 00:14:58,632 ♪ Emotion peeling off my sweater ♪ 380 00:14:58,732 --> 00:15:00,733 Hey, what is happening?! 381 00:15:01,935 --> 00:15:03,597 I don't know if he can do this. 382 00:15:03,695 --> 00:15:06,200 Oh God! Oh God! 383 00:15:06,300 --> 00:15:08,202 You cannot leave my sister at the altar. 384 00:15:08,301 --> 00:15:09,683 Castle. Whatever. 385 00:15:09,782 --> 00:15:11,785 Izzy: Oh God! Oh God! Oh God! 386 00:15:13,534 --> 00:15:14,955 Sabi: It's a fake wedding, Iz. 387 00:15:15,056 --> 00:15:16,237 You already got her real pregnant. 388 00:15:16,337 --> 00:15:18,559 You kinda did the part you can't come back from. 389 00:15:18,659 --> 00:15:23,364 Sabi, I have loved Aqsa since before I can remember. 390 00:15:23,463 --> 00:15:25,205 Okay, so what is the problem? 391 00:15:25,306 --> 00:15:27,969 She really didn't see me in a romantic way 392 00:15:28,069 --> 00:15:30,251 until your dad died. 393 00:15:30,349 --> 00:15:32,412 And now she is knocked up 394 00:15:32,512 --> 00:15:35,076 and she keeps getting pushed into this corner and I... 395 00:15:36,477 --> 00:15:38,479 how do I even know if she likes me? 396 00:15:39,881 --> 00:15:42,864 She loves you and all marriage is fake 397 00:15:42,963 --> 00:15:46,708 and marriage is this, like, totally wretched institution 398 00:15:46,808 --> 00:15:49,230 that's all about ownership and is, like, 399 00:15:49,329 --> 00:15:51,512 the end of voluntary affection. 400 00:15:51,612 --> 00:15:54,035 But you wanna know what else it is? 401 00:15:54,135 --> 00:15:56,137 Whatever you make it. 402 00:15:56,978 --> 00:16:00,040 That was your marriage pep talk? 403 00:16:00,141 --> 00:16:01,082 Wow. 404 00:16:01,182 --> 00:16:04,285 Okay, yeah, I wanna be alone forever now. 405 00:16:04,385 --> 00:16:09,849 [soothing music] 406 00:16:09,951 --> 00:16:11,953 It did sound better when 7ven said it. 407 00:16:12,954 --> 00:16:14,935 Paul: When I found out you were on an antidepressant 408 00:16:15,036 --> 00:16:19,380 I felt angry with myself because... 409 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:20,702 what was it about me 410 00:16:20,801 --> 00:16:23,564 that made you feel you couldn't tell me that? 411 00:16:25,006 --> 00:16:27,387 Then we weren't sure whether or not 412 00:16:27,488 --> 00:16:29,489 you were ever gonna be functional again. 413 00:16:31,012 --> 00:16:33,012 I felt deeply powerless. 414 00:16:35,656 --> 00:16:38,319 But also, in-in case you got better, 415 00:16:38,419 --> 00:16:41,462 I had this fantasy that our relationship would become like, 416 00:16:43,064 --> 00:16:45,066 radically honest? 417 00:16:45,626 --> 00:16:46,926 Where you could literally tell me anything 418 00:16:47,028 --> 00:16:49,030 and I could tell you anything... 419 00:16:51,070 --> 00:16:54,753 without fear the other would bail on the other. 420 00:17:01,883 --> 00:17:04,764 I'm impressed with your curvature. 421 00:17:08,928 --> 00:17:10,932 It is satisfying, isn't it? 422 00:17:12,092 --> 00:17:14,195 Aqsa: Izzy, what the serious fuck?! 423 00:17:14,294 --> 00:17:16,597 He's concerned that, um, you don't love him 424 00:17:16,697 --> 00:17:17,999 as much as he loves you. 425 00:17:18,099 --> 00:17:19,280 Did I say that okay? 426 00:17:19,379 --> 00:17:20,681 That's pretty accurate. 427 00:17:20,781 --> 00:17:22,443 Aqsa: Izzy! I am having a baby with you! 428 00:17:22,543 --> 00:17:25,284 What more of a declaration of love do you need? 429 00:17:25,386 --> 00:17:28,850 Sorry, I'm-I'm just like freaking out right now. 430 00:17:28,950 --> 00:17:30,649 Do you need me to propose? 431 00:17:30,751 --> 00:17:33,514 [thunder rumbles] 432 00:17:35,396 --> 00:17:38,339 Ugh, oh my God, I can't believe I'm doing this. 433 00:17:38,438 --> 00:17:42,904 Okay, um, Izzy Shak, 434 00:17:43,004 --> 00:17:45,867 will you fake marry me? 435 00:17:45,966 --> 00:17:47,748 Oh shit! 436 00:17:47,848 --> 00:17:50,872 I'm sorry, I know that you're probably freaking out too. 437 00:17:50,972 --> 00:17:52,393 I am completely losing it. 438 00:17:52,493 --> 00:17:54,916 So please let's get this shit going before we get arrested. 439 00:17:55,015 --> 00:17:56,998 [upbeat music] 440 00:17:57,098 --> 00:18:00,321 7ven! Get those fucking rose petals ready. 441 00:18:00,421 --> 00:18:02,322 [7ven squealing] 442 00:18:02,423 --> 00:18:04,125 [thunder rumbles] 443 00:18:04,225 --> 00:18:05,927 Sabi, take the umbrellas! 444 00:18:06,027 --> 00:18:07,528 Okay, okay, give me a second. 445 00:18:07,628 --> 00:18:09,370 7ven: Wedding day rain, it's good luck my baby. 446 00:18:09,470 --> 00:18:10,972 Sabi: How do I even close mine? 447 00:18:11,072 --> 00:18:12,934 7ven: Get in front of the flowers. 448 00:18:13,033 --> 00:18:13,935 [people clamouring] 449 00:18:14,034 --> 00:18:14,975 Get in there. 450 00:18:15,076 --> 00:18:16,937 Throw it up in the air and let it cascade down. 451 00:18:17,038 --> 00:18:18,539 Izzy: Are you taking the photos? 452 00:18:18,639 --> 00:18:19,540 Yes. - Okay, there we go. 453 00:18:19,639 --> 00:18:20,541 Slow it down. 454 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:21,581 How do you put it on video mode? 455 00:18:21,682 --> 00:18:22,582 Are you kidding? 456 00:18:22,683 --> 00:18:23,582 I forgot. 457 00:18:23,684 --> 00:18:24,585 Sorry, sorry, there. 458 00:18:24,685 --> 00:18:26,947 [people clamouring] 459 00:18:27,048 --> 00:18:29,070 Yes, we're getting the flowers, geez. 460 00:18:29,169 --> 00:18:30,591 Okay, oh my God! 461 00:18:30,691 --> 00:18:35,656 [upbeat music] [rain pattering] 462 00:18:38,099 --> 00:18:39,399 ♪ Go on take up space in my head ♪ 463 00:18:39,500 --> 00:18:41,002 We love you, Mom. [camera clicking] 464 00:18:41,101 --> 00:18:42,101 Oh my God, pack up! Pack up! [people clamouring] 465 00:18:42,101 --> 00:18:44,205 Hey! You got a permit? 466 00:18:44,302 --> 00:18:45,284 We have to go! 467 00:18:45,386 --> 00:18:46,807 Security: You can't be here. 468 00:18:46,907 --> 00:18:48,089 I will call the police. 469 00:18:48,188 --> 00:18:49,450 7ven: Get outta here! 470 00:18:49,550 --> 00:18:51,012 It's a public space, sir! 471 00:18:51,111 --> 00:18:52,213 Sabi: I'm so sorry. 472 00:18:52,312 --> 00:18:53,454 7ven, hurry! 473 00:18:53,552 --> 00:18:54,815 We have to run! Come on, guys! 474 00:18:54,915 --> 00:18:56,456 This cake is so heavy! 475 00:18:56,557 --> 00:18:57,697 Let's go! 476 00:18:57,798 --> 00:18:59,300 Suck it! 477 00:18:59,399 --> 00:19:01,022 ♪ Go on take up space in my head, make a mess now ♪ 478 00:19:01,121 --> 00:19:02,463 Hey. 479 00:19:02,562 --> 00:19:04,504 What? 480 00:19:04,605 --> 00:19:06,908 You got through an incredibly difficult time 481 00:19:07,008 --> 00:19:08,469 and you got our kids through it, 482 00:19:08,569 --> 00:19:10,110 and you were there for me 483 00:19:10,211 --> 00:19:14,895 and you let a hard time make you... softer. 484 00:19:17,378 --> 00:19:20,081 And I think that's kind of exceptional. 485 00:19:20,181 --> 00:19:21,762 Thank you for saying that. 486 00:19:21,861 --> 00:19:23,484 But I think our pottery days are over. 487 00:19:23,582 --> 00:19:24,485 Seriously? 488 00:19:24,585 --> 00:19:25,765 I was kind of getting back into it. 489 00:19:25,866 --> 00:19:28,829 [soothing music] 490 00:19:31,192 --> 00:19:33,194 Shehraz: So, they eloped? 491 00:19:34,075 --> 00:19:36,157 Sort of like that, yeah. 492 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,242 Casa Loma? 493 00:19:41,682 --> 00:19:43,684 Something like that. 494 00:19:47,288 --> 00:19:49,290 Classy. 495 00:19:53,332 --> 00:19:56,297 I would've liked to have seen my daughter getting married. 496 00:20:06,907 --> 00:20:08,908 I'll share it with the family? 497 00:20:11,111 --> 00:20:13,114 Haan, teekh hai. 498 00:20:16,117 --> 00:20:17,658 [on video] Aqsa: We love you, Mom. 499 00:20:17,758 --> 00:20:20,461 [soft upbeat music] 500 00:20:20,561 --> 00:20:22,223 Oh my God, this is so good. 501 00:20:22,322 --> 00:20:23,904 Oh my God, that's [laughs]- 502 00:20:24,004 --> 00:20:25,225 [laughing] Oh my God! 503 00:20:25,326 --> 00:20:26,226 [soft upbeat music] 504 00:20:26,327 --> 00:20:27,828 That's so mean! 505 00:20:27,927 --> 00:20:30,071 Yeah, you deserved it! - Oh yeah I did. 506 00:20:30,171 --> 00:20:31,872 Aqsa: Oh, that cake was so good. 507 00:20:31,972 --> 00:20:34,313 Izzy: I know, they did, oh no! [Izzy laughing] 508 00:20:34,415 --> 00:20:37,038 [soft upbeat music] 509 00:20:37,138 --> 00:20:39,139 [on video] Aqsa: We love you, Mom. 510 00:20:40,020 --> 00:20:42,983 I can't believe I'm real crying about a fake wedding. 511 00:20:49,389 --> 00:20:51,492 ♪ It's just imaginary 512 00:20:51,591 --> 00:20:56,557 ♪ Feels like something left behind, deja vu ♪ 513 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,444 ♪ Feels like something left behind, deja vu ♪