I will die hard for all of my friends.
So don't make this exclusive to Bonang.
So long as you're my friend, regardless of whatever,
I'm fighting for you. You all know that. So what's the shock?
- My "die hardness" is not exclusive. - This situation was with him and Bonang.
No, that's a wrong thing to say. You can't tell me, oh, I was...
- Die hard for what? - That's your friend.
I die hard for all of my friends, and it's not selective.
- Bonang is your friend. I am your friend. - If it was you, or Zari, I'd do the same.
- Don't say, "Sitting with her die-hard..." - She's talking about Luis and Bonang.
- That's bullshit. - It's Luis and Bonang.
I'm very confused about the emotions that are coming out of Swanky right now.
It's not the Swanky I know. The Swanky I know is very levelheaded,
but right now, I feel like he's listening to respond.
Listen to understand.
I'd die hard for Khanyi if she was in that situation.
- So what was that? - She knows that, and I know that,
- but she's saying in this situation-- - [Kayleigh] Bye, babe.
I love you.
Swanky is mourning the loss of his best friend.
This is a man in pain.
And this is why he keeps bringing in different female friends.
And anything that seems to give him a bit of loyalty,
he's gonna latch on it.
He's in a rebound state.
You guys are fucking crazy.
- All of you are crazy. - No, friend, she didn't mean it like that.
You guys wanna push me and talk shit about my friend in front of me,
and you say-- Oh, you expect I'll be like, "Oh, it's all cute and nice." No.
Are you okay?
I'm good. Thank you.
- For what? - I'm not a fighter. I'm sure you can tell.
No, you don't need to fight, especially in this case, you did nothing.
But we will fight for you, because we know that you did nothing.
And if you know your story, you don't need to explain yourself.
You've apologized once in life. You don't keep apologizing.
[Luis] I'm feeling a sense of relief,
because I can confirm I'm not crazy,
and everybody else sees or understands what I've been trying to say.
So, I'm actually happy this came out.
- You're good, right? - I'm good.
- [chuckling] I'm good, I'm 100. - Don't worry about that one.
You'll get used to him. He's like that. He shouts at everyone.
Okay, cool.
Cool, so...
[sniffs] I'm...
[Luis] I want Khanyi's advice. Khanyi is 100.
She will tell it to me like it is. She won't spare anything.
You know, for the past, um-- for the past two birthdays that I've had,
- I've had a request. - Yes.
And, so, basically, I want to have a child.
A child?
You can't have a child with me. I got a man.
- [both laugh] - No, I'm not gonna have a child.
And now he's grabbing my hand, making this thing so awkward.
[exclaims] I don't even want to pull away,
because I know the guy's hurting, but... [exclaims]
At the polo, um, Zari mentioned
that she's also interested in the whole surrogate situation thing.
I don't want to ask her, I'm just like,
do you think it's a good idea for me and her
to find out more about surrogacy?
Because this is something that's not out there in Namibia.
So, two things will happen.
It's either Zari and myself are going to go and research about surrogacy,
and have individual surrogates,
or Zari might be my egg donor, and I become her sperm donor.
What does Luis think?
[mellow music playing]
[Swanky] I didn't expect to be the only one standing up for Bonang
at the gin event,
so I was at the doctor's yesterday,
and my doctor has advised me to not trust one more bitch.
- Hmm. - [laughing] Like, what the hell was that?
I feel like they were trying to bully me,
but, like, I'm like, "You guys know you can't bully Swanky."
- Yeah. - Like, I was very disappointed.
They didn't just make it make sense to me,
because, like, there's no way you're going all out like this for Luis,
when you've not even heard from Bonang.
How do you hear one side of the story and make a conclusion?
If Zari was the most angry person,
I could have understood, because Zari was at the dinner.
For me, I didn't see any reason why they took the announcement so bitter,
like, what is the aggression?
- Is it because it's Bonang? - Like...
[smooth music playing]
[Khanyi] Every female friend that Swanky has brought to the group
has brought nothing but drama.
With Annie, it was, "African queen, royalty."
"Bonang, queen of everything, queen of this."
And it gets to their heads.
Then they think we need to put them on a throne.
[Nadia] I find it weird that Swanky had to announce
that Bonang had left the WhatsApp group.
Friends come and go.
I really feel like he's trying to make it look like we're all the bad guys,
but then it clearly shows that he's chosen his side,
and he's sticking to it, and I thought we were friends.
I was very surprised by him.
His whole friendship group right now is being attacked
over some assumption that he's built up in his head,
- and he's holding on to. - Yeah. Yeah.
We weren't even at the dinner.
Why are we talking about it?
From all the things we're talking about, it looks like Luis... is a misogynistic pig.
It's like he's refusing to hear Luis' side at all.
He's holding on to one side of the narrative constantly,
and it's just unlike him.
I really don't understand why he's being so hectic.
I feel like... Swanky is on the lookout for a new Annie,
- and he thought he found it in Bonang. - Maybe.
- Do you feel me? - Yeah.
Swanky loves Bonang. He doesn't see her do any wrong.
I feel like he's really blinded by her, but I get where you're probably saying
that he's trying to find his new best friend.
Yeah, in his mind he's thinking, "Now I'm alone again."
- Yeah. But he's not. - But he's not. He's got all of us.
So, he will risk us to get someone to fill Annie's space.
Now Zari's birthday is coming. Like, I know there's going to be drama.
I'm like, am I going to be there?
I don't know if I'm excited for all of these things anymore.
I'm not even excited, like--
Do I go and spend money on an outfit just to leave early,
because I'm not gonna deal with the same shit again, or--
I'll call you to check on you. If there's any drama, let me know.
No, you're coming. Bitch, I better see you there.
Well...
Let's see what the vibes are when I wake up.
[both laugh]
I feel a certain way about going to Zari's birthday.
I'm just, like, you know, I'm over, like, all of this bullshit.
Anyone tries to get me worked out again,
like any single person tries to work me out,
the side of me that they're gonna see, they've never seen it before, I swear.
["Move For Me" by Cassper Nyovest featuring Boskasie plays]
♪ Move for me ♪
♪ Oh, I like the way you move ♪
♪ Girl, you really got me in the mood Out here with your friends acting loose... ♪
[Luis] The dynamics in this group,
there's so much drama happening all the time.
Finally, today I take Fantana out on a date.
[romantic hip-hop music playing]
[Fantana] Coming to this date with Luis, it's very awkward
because of the ongoing issue between him and Bonang.
But I kind of also just want to get to know him for myself.
- Hey. - Hi.
[both chuckle]
- How are you? - Good. How are you?
- You look good. - Thanks.
What is this?
Um, surprise!
[chuckles]
I've chosen to do dance classes, Kizomba,
because I just want to see if she can move, you know?
You got hips, neh? Don't-- Don't make them lie.
So you go hips one, two, three, four, five--
- Oh, my God. - Oh, no, no, no.
- My hips lie. - It's okay, it's okay, it's okay.
I can't dance.
- One, two-- - This is so embarrassing.
- [laughs] - [Fantana] I'm tryin'.
[in Oshiwambo] Wow, guys, it's so difficult.
The woman cannot move.
It's not easy.
[laughs]
[in English] She said she can't dance, so I'm like, ah...
[laughs]
I can twerk, but I can't dance.
And then you go, one, two, tap.
- One, two-- - Okay, I can do this.
Okay, I'm like an average twerker,
but all those other dancing stuff, it's just not-- It's-- I can't do it.
It's never going to happen. I'm going to try. [chuckles]
- Three, one, two, tap, and one, two, tap. - One, two, three. One, two, three.
[Luis] She's moving, but she's not moving at the same time.
I don't know how to describe it, so I'm just like-- I'm so confused.
I'm like, you have this big booty, but it don't move.
The booty don't move, so it's like-- It's not making sense.
[in Oshiwambo] Wow, guys, come on.
[chuckling]
[Luis] This is for you.
[Fantana] What's that behind your back? I want to see.
[both chuckle]
- These are for you. - Thanks. They are big. Okay!
Thank you.
They are big. That's good.
He's moving up on the ladder. [chuckles]
I have one rule for tonight, just one rule.
- What? - We don't talk about anybody else.
- It's just about us. Yes. - Okay.
- [both chuckling] - Why?
It's just about us.
This is about you.
So you're saying you don't want to talk about whatever happened,
and all the stuff that's happened.
Honestly, with what's been going on,
I'm actually glad what happened the other night happened,
because I thought, like, I was going crazy, you know.
I'm glad everybody else saw it from my perspective,
and that we got that out of the way, so right now, I'm just ready to move on.
Well, I mean, I was talking to Swanky, whatever,
about, like, obviously, me, like, coming out with you
- like a date. - Okay.
And at the end of the day, I'm old enough to make my own decisions.
But because those are my friends, I don't want to make it seem
like I'm being sneaky, you know? And... Yeah.
- Okay, so where Swanky is concerned, um... - Yeah.
...I think I need a one-on-one with him as well.
- Yeah, exactly. - Just-- Just to-- Because, to me,
it's like twice he invites me to his event, and twice it's...
- Ah! You know what I'm saying? - Swanky likes you, don't get me wrong.
But I think you also need to sit down with him,
and explain to him, so then we can move forward.
As for Bonang, I don't really know that situation, I don't know.
I don't know!
- Okay... - But, yeah, so...
I will meet with Swanky, and then we'll take it from there.
Before we go inside,
thank you for agreeing to come see me.
I really appreciate it.
Thank you for dancing with me. [chuckles]
- I know you don't dance. - Yeah, that was a lot!
I know you don't dance, that's why I'm like-- I'm really grateful.
I appreciate you,
- and I hope we go on another date soon. - [both laugh]
I reached out, I've done the whole let's-go-out-thing,
so I want to see if she's feeling me too, you know?
I'm feeling her right now, but I want to see are you feeling me too.
So, the ball is in her court.
[smooth hip-hop music playing]
[Andile] So anybody that knows me knows I enjoy a good suit.
I like my suits to almost silhouette me.
- Andile, thanks again. - I very much appreciate it.
- Enjoy, and we will see you again soon. - Indeed.
I can only speak to Naked, and-- and share with Naked
my thoughts, my feelings.
We've been a lot of things to each other, and at times,
even a shoulder to each other when needed.
- Hey. - Hello, boy.
- What's up? - You're good?
I'm nice. I'm nice.
[Andile] There's been a lot that has forced one
to reflect over the past couple of months,
but more so my break-up with Zari.
So, who dumped who? And tell me the truth.
We had an amicable understanding and parting of ways
due to constraints of who and where we are,
and others associated with us.
So, basically, if I translate that into isiZulu...
[in Zulu] She dumped you.
[both laughing]
Yeah, that's what you get. You deserve this.
[in English] She didn't dump me. It didn't work out.
- No! - But--
- Rejection looks good on you. You know? - [laughs] What?
You know me?
[both laughing]
I found clarity with Zari,
and the clarity is,
I was just a pawn in a game that her and Dia play.
I'm sad and I'm hurt that I was just part of a game,
because it was real for me.
So, the Zari-thing not working out,
that made me realize how badly I wanted it to work out.
If that's what I wanted at the time, and I was so hurt that it didn't happen,
it means I'm ready, doesn't it?
I want you to heal first.
You're not supposed to jump from healing to another relationship.
Men don't heal, we ho.
- [laughs] - I prefer you in the streets.
I'm at a place where I am ready to have a partner again.
It's taken me three years to get here.
I feel like I'm stagnantly sitting in one place,
and everybody I've been with is moving on and finding love,
so therefore, the issue is me.
Andile is feeling some pressure,
and, I mean, he has four children.
His daughters are getting older,
so they need to see some stability in his life.
He needs to be some sort of role model to them.
So, yes, I think, finally, he's seeing the light.
Think about it. Look at my track record. Where are those people?
They're happily married, happily loved.
No, I've seen some of your hoes at the club just last week.
- You don't call women that. - [laughing]
The-- This is the love.
Now you even want a sense of...
- [mocking] - I just don't want you to call women hoes.
"You're not allowed to--" They're not here.
- Even in their absence, bitch. - No, come on--
- Oh, but you can call me a bitch. - Hell yeah.
[both laughing]
Walking away from here, every room I walk into,
I'm going to walk into it with the will to being loved,
because that's the first step to love.
[exciting music playing]
[Andile] So, one of the biggest hurdles on my journey to love
is the two beautiful mothers of my children.
You know, one is practically my best friend,
and the other one, there's unresolved, unspoken of complications.
And that's why I've invited the Idibias for lunch.
Hey, la familia.
- What?! - Hey! The player of Sandton City!
[Andile] Their love journey resonates with me,
and there's actually many similarities between their relationship,
and mine and Sebabatso's.
[pleasant music playing]
[Andile] Sebabatso, she is one of the two mothers of my children.
She and I have two children together.
Hello.
- Hey. - There she is.
Seba.
Dating Andile was tumultuous.
It was a mess, but when we are together,
just him and-- It's almost like the world stops.
Sebabatso and I have been broken up for almost three years.
We met other people, got married, even,
but ultimately always find a way back to each other,
which is the Idibia story.
- Good to see you. - Nice to see you too.
- How are the babies? - The little one is walking.
He's got a personality, and, yeah.
[Annie laughs]
[2Baba] Wow! Andile and Sebabatso,
their body language is giving me plenty different vibes.
[Annie] I see chemistry with those two people.
I'm telling you, I see it.
I don't know how he does it, but I love what he's doing.
You guys seem like you are in a very good place.
We don't always get along.
- Nah, you can't say that. - I don't think so.
There's no way that happened by-- by, you know, chance.
- The thing that is binding you guys-- - [Annie] Yes.
That's the babies. Two kids.
There's 100 percent chemistry between Andile and I.
We've tried to deny it, but it will always catch up.
It catches up to us.
Until we find our place of whether we are just exes
trying to co-parent as friends, it will be easier.
What is a fling, though? I want to know, like, the coming back?
'Cause I've had different flings with him.
We lived together for two years.
I've had flings with him.
[Seba] No, we didn't have flings.
Like break up and then catch up, and then we have a fling.
And I don't see him again.
- [laughs] - You know? I'm embarrassing him, but yes.
[Andile] We've been on and off for, jeez, what is it? Twenty years.
I think a lot of who we are is still up in the air.
Every time we see each other,
we're almost reminded of what could have been.
How did you finally know that this is the one?
How did you finally know that I can't keep leaving what's mine?
I think for me was when I bought my first house,
when I bought my first house in Lagos.
And it just occurred to me that,
"Wow, man, this-- this place is massive,"
and that's when I-- I didn't even put any furniture. Nothing.
I just called her.
[gentle music playing]
That literally sent my head spinning,
because I thought to myself, "I am building a house,
and I'm going to walk into that house alone."
Do I wait to be hit with that reality,
or do I learn from those that have done it before me?
We have a problem with unfinished business, clearly,
him and I.
- [exciting music playing] - ♪ You know I'm cold ♪
♪ You know it, don't you ♪
♪ I'll never fold ♪
[Zari] Khanyi has called me for a meeting.
Because of our past, I don't really trust Khanyi,
so whatever it is that she wants to tell me,
I'm going to take it with a pinch of salt.
[breathes deeply] That's another problem.
- Hello, hello, hello, hello! - Hi.
[Khanyi] I don't know why Luis found it very easy to tell me what he just told me.
But nonetheless, I'm just the messenger. I will pass on the message.
- I have a request for you. - Oh, okay.
- So Luis... - [clears throat]
...for his birthday has always wanted a child.
[chuckles]
So his proposal is,
he wants to come and ask you to...
Carry his child?
Well, through a surrogate, so just put your...
- together. - My eggs?
Luis wants to have a baby with me?
Oh, no, I'm sorry, I can't. [chuckles]
I'm just finding out if he can...
- attempt. - Oh!
And it might happen on your birthday, so be careful.
What happens to my boyfriend? He also wants children.
Hey, Zari, I told you, "Cut down on the Ugandan sauce."
- Oh, my God. - This thing is causing a problem.
Luis, you are a joke right now.
I'm a little bit disappointed in you.
You should see me in high regard,
not as a baby-making machine just because I can.
Dude!
[sighs]
["Whipped" by Tellaman plays]
[Andile] So, if I'm going to pursue something with Sebabatso,
I'll first have to revisit my past,
and get the two mothers of my children to make a truce.
That's why I'm meeting with Rosette.
Rosette is the first mother of my children.
We dated before the second stint of dating with Sebabatso and I.
Rosette and I had a relationship and had some kids.
Andile and I were together for, I think, four years
before we had our first child, Gabrielle.
[Andile] We had some amazing times, but the downers were really, really down.
We've had such a toxic relationship.
I remember we were trying to have a child,
and when we did, everything just fell apart,
way more than it did before.
It was-- It was quite deep, it was emotional...
[inhales sharply]
...very emotional.
My pregnancy happened.
I had Gabriella.
There was bits and pieces he was there.
I felt like I was having a baby by myself.
And having this child, I don't know what we were both thinking, but...
It was-- We thought that was a good idea.
We broke up. We had shared beautiful children,
but we found a way back to each other
as... as good friends.
My relationship now with Andile, we are at a very good place.
He's an amazing father. He's brilliant with the children.
Hello, hello, hello.
- Jeez, look at you, sunshine. - [chuckles]
Hello. You look gorgeous.
[in Sotho] Can you see how good my make-up is?
I look hot, but you don't want me.
- [groans] Oh, go away. - [snickers]
[Rosette in English] Andile is still a catch, definitely.
I mean, we complement each other. It could work.
- Are you dating right now? - It's not dating,
it's trying the waters out.
- What does that mean? - Um, I'm not seeing anyone.
- So what are you doing? - I'm trying to get you.
[mellow music playing]
- Can you imagine? [chuckles] - You don't want?
He's like, "Mm-mm. Never again."
[in Sotho] I should give him a love potion.
- [music stops] - [laughs]
My relationship with you is... It threatens everybody that I date,
- and they're all-- all like-- - Even Sebabatso?
[music slows, stops]
That was the last, unless there's another that's threatened
and I don't know about her.
[Andile] When Sebabatso came back into my life,
she was loved and accepted by everyone, including Rosette.
But at some point Seba deviated from that.
Every girl he sees, they don't like our friendship.
Apparently we're just too close. It just makes them uncomfortable.
Seba also said that we don't have boundaries around each other.
She caught a bit of an attitude towards Rosette,
which Rosette didn't take so kindly to.
I don't know what boundaries will be there,
but it is what it is. We can't change it.
I don't know what we'll change 'cause we're not aware of what we're doing.
It just feels so natural.
- That is something that should be sorted. - Well, did you try to sort it?
- Would you be keen? - Would I be keen to meet her?
Yeah, just to get us to where we were.
I guess.
I don't resent her.
I... I'm not a cheerleader for her either,
and I wouldn't even cheerlead for her to get back with Andile.
I'd rather see him with someone else.
["Iwalk Ya Phara" plays]
[Zari] The day has arrived. It's my birthday celebrations today.
What is a birthday going to be when you're African,
and you're just not showcasing Africa?
[Nadia] After the gin party, honestly, things were so awkward and tense.
I have no idea what to expect.
I'd rather not be at this party.
I haven't seen everyone in a while, but I'm honoring Andile's invite.
- Hello, hello, hello, hello. - [Zari] Oh, hi.
- Oh, Rosette is here. Yes. - I know.
- Did you invite-- - I invited Andile, not her.
- Are they back together? - [chuckles]
I don't know.
[amusing music plays]
[Andile groans] Oh, God damn it.
[Andile] So, I must be honest, I'm-- I'm a little nervous about today,
because in my efforts to get
both the mothers of my children on speaking terms,
I've invited them both to Zari's birthday party.
And it could just backfire on me badly,
because I know my friends,
and sometimes they're like a pack of hyenas.
I-- I don't want drama, guys, not today, not today.
- Aloha. - Hello, daddy-oh.
- How are you, hon? - I'm good. [laughs]
- You look pretty. - Thank you.
Immediately, I can feel the room exhale.
- [in Sotho] Look at my figure. - [both chuckle]
[in English] They're all expecting drama.
We're not giving them drama tonight.
We're about to become one big family.
- [Kayleigh] Wow. - [Zari] Mm.
Rosette and Andile's co-parenting style is really weird for me.
I mean, you know, their relationship is between the parents and the children.
It looks like they're dealing with their own relationship
at the same time.
Andile and I are so playful, but it's not uncomfortable playness.
Oh, you're sitting that far?
- I was about to move-- - Far from what?
- Sorry. I thought you'd want to sit here. - That's rude.
[Zari] Over here?
- I'm okay here, thank you very much. - [Rosette] Okay.
That's fine.
[Khanyi] Friend, this looks pretty.
- Oh, wow. - [all cheering]
[exciting music playing]
I'm looking forward to seeing everyone that I haven't seen.
The last time I saw them was at Andile's all-white,
so this should be exciting.
I am a little bit nervous at the same time,
but I hope no glasses fall into people's faces, or anything.
It should be fun.
[tense music playing]
Guess who just walked in?
Seba!
- Well, well, well. - Hi, everybody.
- [Andile] Hi. - [Seba] Hey, mister.
- How are you? - Fine.
[Zari clears throat]
- [Zari sighs] - Stop it.
Wasn't it cold, like, a few minutes ago?
Now it's a little bit hot. Why?
[Rosette] Okay, this is awkward.
Andile didn't tell me he also invited Seba.
I mean, I haven't seen her for a year, and here she is.
- Hi. - How are you, darling?
- I'm good. How are you? - You are?
- [in Sotho] Yes, I'm good. You? - [in English] Great.
I'm not surprised that Rosette got up to hug me.
We greet each other. We just don't hang out in the same spaces.
[Rosette] I mean, I can't pretend, but at least--
'Cause I saw Andile give me eyes so I was like, okay, great, "Hi."
Gave her a hug.
- Seba. - [Seba] Yeah?
There's a seat right next to Khanyi there.
- Oh, not next to you? - [Andile] No, just right there.
- Oh, okay. That's fine. - [amusing music playing]
Thanks for directing me.
Why am I being told where to sit? That's weird. Like, I just arrived.
I don't know anyone.
Who am I sitting next to? There's an empty chair.
That's awkward.
I was pissed off, already.
[Andile] It's a very tricky evening for me.
I'm trying to place myself, Sebabatso and Rosette strategically
in order for us not to be able to have awkward conversations
in front of people.
Oh, you two know each other?
To start with, we're both baby mamas to that guy that's over there.
- Oh, really? - Can't you see he's got the same taste?
Okay.
I've never been to a party where there were two baby mamas,
and the baby daddy is right there, so it was very awkward for me.
Do you know that we got along?
Literally, when they started dating, we were almost like best friends.
- We were, like, good. - And then as time went,
you just went under.
I don't think I went under.
- I didn't. Babe... - Misunderstanding what was going on.
You were also not comfortable with the relationship I had with Andile.
- [tense music playing] - [Seba] Look, we got along before.
The biggest boundary that Rosette went over
was not knowing when to stop.
I wasn't comfortable with how you are as someone who's married and a mom.
I'm not married. Who am I married to?
I said, "Someone who was married". Was.
Oh.
If you're a lady and you're in a relationship with someone,
you can't ask another man to do stuff in your house,
and that man being with someone else on top of that.
As my friend, you should know what your boundaries are.
[Rosette] Andile has always been my support system, either or.
In any relationship, in anything I've done,
he's always been there.
So, literally, any time I can't do anything,
and he comes to my aid...
It felt like, because we were now serious,
now you must intervene.
Why? Was-- Was this supposed to be a fly-by-night,
and now that it's serious, now you have, you know--
Is that why you had a baby then?
Because it looked like you thought it was fly-by-night?
[dramatic sting]
Yoh!
Wow. What a mess.
- [Seba] Why I had a baby? - [Rosette] Yeah.
Is that why you had a baby?
Babe, my situation came way longer than you.
It doesn't matter. You were still with someone else.
[Seba] I'm actually puzzled
that Rosette doesn't understand where she went wrong,
because you're an adult.
You've been married, so you should know what boundaries are.
When you started seeing the relationship is serious,
- now you want to-- - How serious were you?
We were living together.
Because you were divorced. You had nowhere else to go.
I didn't need to move in anywhere. Andile made me move into his house.
I was living in Sunninghill, babe.
With the other guy you cheated on with your husband?
[tense music playing]
[Seba] What other guy?
I'm not mentioning names. You want me to put names out there?
I didn't cheat on my husband with that guy.
- Of course you did. - No, I didn't.
You need to get your facts straight.
[Andile groans]
What is happening?
Not at Za's party!
We were just trying to, actually, iron our shit now,
but everybody is here.
[Seba] But why is Andile involved in this?
'Cause it is about him. What do you mean, "Why is he involved?"
Andile doesn't step into the conversation.
Rosette brings Andile to the conversation,
'cause she knows that Andile is going to back her up.
[Seba] I had that conversation with you already, as my man.
Why as your man?
Yes, as my man.
- I'm having a conversation with Rosette-- - Why as your man? [chuckles]
- Whatever. - Sorry.
- [laughing] - [Andile] She's saying in the past tense.
- She just asked. - But listen. You're not listening again.
Wow, Andile, okay. Speak.
[laughing]
No, I'm irritated. That pissed me the fuck off,
like, I lost my shit.
- Why is this happening at your birthday? - Just step in there, Fantana.
Just ask if everything is okay.
Andile, you know, it's Zari's birthday, guys.
- What does that mean? - You're arguing at her birthday.
- It's not nice. - [Rosette] We're not.
I don't know what Andile is defending, and I'm getting upset.
It's irritating me. Stop it.
[tense sting]
[smooth techno music playing faintly]
[Swanky] I am still very upset about what happened with Bonang and Luis,
and everyone is out here acting like everything is fine.
Oh, are you ruling with Luis' side of the story
just because maybe you and Bonang are not exactly, like, cool friends?
- Hello, guys. Hi. - [Nadia] You look gorgeous.
Everyone is revealing who they truly, really are
with this whole Bonang-situation, and I'm just like, "Make it make sense."
- Happy birthday! - Baby.
[Luis] Swanky's mood towards me has changed since his dinner,
and since I had an altercation with Bonang.
What's up? How are you? Oh, please stand up.
- [Zari] All rise. - [Luis] How are you, Swanky?
How are you sitting down greeting the god? How are you?
And he's blaming me for-- for, uh, Bonang leaving,
which isn't fair. It's very unfair.
[glass clinking]
[Zari] Hello!
[sighs] There's been so much going on in this group.
For me tonight, I'm just so happy that we're all here.
We are a representation of what African beauty means.
We look great today.
I don't really have much to say other than to say, "Let's enjoy."
- Hear! Hear! -[Zari] Salute!
Salute, babes.
- [mellow music playing] - ♪ Happy birthday to you... ♪
Zari, let me-- let me bless you first.
- Please, cleanse me. - So... here and here.
[Zari] I'm blessing Zari, I'm giving her well-wishes,
sending her positive light, positive energy, so it's all good vibes.
You're over-demonstrating and you're over-reaching, bro.
Like, just say your speech and move on.
You are someone who understands me.
You know what I'm trying to say even when words fail me.
I appreciate you,
and I think I might have the perfect gift,
which is better than everybody's gift here on the table.
[amusing music playing]
Oh, okay.
What is that gift, Luis?
It's perfect, you know.
[giggling]
- Girl, you know he asked her for her eggs? - Who?
- Luis asked. - For what?
[Nadia] For Zari's eggs.
[Fantana chuckling] Girl, the what? The who?
[Luis] The last time I saw Khanyi, I asked her for advice
on whether or not I should do research on surrogacy with Zari,
or ask for one of Zari's eggs,
so I'm waiting for feedback just to hear what she has to say
before I actually ask Zari.
[Fantana] I just feel like that's really weird and creepy.
You're here asking Zari for her eggs
after you just took me on a date,
and it's just like, what are you-- Are you bored? Are you seeking attention?
I don't understand what you're doing.
- Did you get a chance to speak to Luis? - No, not yet.
- Not yet? - Yeah, probably do that today.
The things he's doing, I regret going on a date.
[Nadia] Jeez, he asked for Zari's eggs.
- For Zari's what? - [both] Eggs.
As in, he wants Zari to carry his baby, or what?
A hundred percent.
I definitely feel like Luis is just all-round confused.
In attempt to fit into the group,
it's making him act all kind of crazy ways.
I'm even feeling weird now. I was on his side at first, but now, no.
You took me on a date, whatever me and Diamond have going on,
now you're asking Zari for her eggs?
And on top of that, me and Diamond? Like, come on, it's just messy.
- It's weird. - And now with us,
it's just going to cause too many hollers.
Whatever the situation is you're playing, like you can't use my friend.
I don't want Luis talking shit to Fantana anyway,
so it's like, keep the distance.
Yeah, Fantana, put one seat in the middle, and then put the other one and then sit.
- [Andile and Kayleigh] What? - Huh?
- Put the seat closer. - [Zari] Uh-huh.
Bring that closer.
And then sit.
- Okay. - Yeah, you must communicate from there.
Did you put a seat between them?
He did.
Why would he want a seat between them?
Why are you asking her to-- to-- to, like, have a seat between me and her?
For a reason.
- What reason? What reason? - Swanky. This is not the place.
I don't understand.
- What do you mean? - [Fantana] Talking shit?
I just said my family friend should move seats.
Like, what's the big deal?
Swanky is trying to provoke me, you know, he's antagonizing me.
He's-- He's trying to poke at me, and he's looking for a reaction.
[Swanky] Luis, why are you looking at me like that?
Like how?
Like you're rolling your eyes, like, "Oh, Swanky."
You can see through my glasses, I'm not rolling my eyes.
First the Fanta-thing, now, "Why are you rolling your eyes?"
Dude, I'm not rolling my eyes.
So I think he's looking for it, and I just want to leave right now.
'Cause that's not who I am. I don't fight.
Zari, you're sitting right here. Friend, I love you.
- I'm out. - Hmm.
Luis, you're not waiting for the toast?
Uh, no, I'm good. I-- There's too much negativity here.
- The energy is-- - Negativity?
- Yeah, coming from you, from your side. - How?
Why are you asking her to, like, sit away from me?
Why are you asking people to have-- to get Zari pregnant?
- I never asked to get Zari pregnant. - Boy, bye with that bullshit.
[Fantana] Oh my God!
You have disrespected me on two occasions.
- How have I disrespected you? - At both your events you shouted at me.
- My events? - Yes.
- Where was I shouting at you? - Without talking to me.
- [Swanky] The gin event. - [Luis] But you didn't say a word.
So I wasn't even talking to you.
- You were talking about me. - [Swanky] I was not talking to you.
- [Luis] I was there. - Four women were talking for you.
I wasn't talking about you. I said, "Fantana, sit in the next chair."
Because I don't know what your intentions are for her.
- I want to have a conversation with her. - Zari, can you cheers?
Please. This is just too much.
Exactly! Now this nigga stands up to say there's negativity. What are you saying?
- Here we go again. You're shouting again. - [Swanky] Why're you making it a big deal?
Why are you making it a big deal?
I just feel like you're being fake right now.
- Oh! - I'm being fake?
- Yeah, you're being fake. - Says the man who has 78 personalities?
- [Luis] Seventy-eight personalities? - [Swanky] Boy, sit down.
I don't understand this whole drama--
You're not going to shout at me a third time,
and think I'm going to allow it.
A third time.
[Swanky] Like I say, you're always a different person,
every fucking single damn time, with every fucking person.
You're like the weirdest motherfucker in this bitch.
["FNSHT" by MSCMKRS plays]