Honestly speaking, it feels like everybody ruined Zari's party.
This whole group needs a holiday,
and I think a trip to Cape Town may just be the ticket.
It's a great space for friends
to have a good time.
Touch down!
Cape Town feels like Wakanda.
Cape Town is about luxury, it's about culinary experiences,
it's about the beach, it's about wine tasting,
going for swims, going on yachts. We need this.
The Cape Town trip comes fresh from Zari's party
where there was a lot of drama.
I hope everyone sorted their shit out,
and if they haven't, if we're out at sea,
somebody is gonna go missing.
Dude, I just don't want bullshit.
I don't want Luis' bullshit this week.
Him and Swanky are at it.
I think Swanky is right to be, you know, trying to defend other people's honor.
Usually, it's the ladies that have drama in this group.
Like, Swanky and Luis need to sort their shit out,
because I know, like, this is not Swanky.
He is so out of character.
♪ I got an attitude and I'm arrogant You ain't got money, how embarrassing ♪
- ♪ I got a Billie-Jean, bling bling ♪
I still haven't spoken to Swanky since Zari's event.
So one of the reasons I came is just to hash it out. Let's talk.
Swanky and Luis, having both of them here in Cape Town,
whew, we could use some incense
for all the negative energy.
- Where's Annie? - Hopefully she'll be here by midnight.
I don't expect Annie on any trip. I hope she comes, I really do,
but I'm not holding my breath.
- Swanky is gonna be the last one. - Obviously.
I'm tired of him always being late.
Swanky is always late. I don't know if it's the dressing up,
or he just loves being the last person to walk into the room
so that everybody is seated, and like, "Oh, here I am. I'm Swanky."
♪ Feelin' hot ♪
♪ Fresh white tee Matching socks ♪
♪ Now watch me... ♪
As you know, the don dada is in the house.
You know, the king of style has to arrive in style.
- Finally! - Hello, Cape Town!
What's up, guys?
I think Luis trying to fit into the group is making him act all kind of weird ways,
and, like, Swanky is not the one to fuck around with like that.
Like, if you disrespect me,
be ready for whatever.
I feel like Cape Town is for us to get close to each other.
- We fought with each other... - Bring back the spark.
...and make up, so this is just to say, friends--
And find a baby mama in Cape Town, you mean.
- For those tryna impregnate. - Yeah. Have babies.
I mean, from Zari's birthday there was a lot of drama...
- Yes! - ...and I definitely had bones to pick
with Luis at Zari's thing,
'cause, like, he just started acting up over some energy that wasn't there.
So I decided to buy Luis a gift,
- and I want to give it to him here. - Aw.
Okay, nice! You guys made up since my birthday.
Where have I been? Why wasn't I, like, filled in?
Please open it there in case it's a bomb.
Swanky saying he has a gift
and it's not coming out in a Louis Vuitton bag or a Gucci green bag,
that's already suspicious. Adidas?
- You must open it and show everyone. - Show everyone.
- Is it a condom? - Oh, my God.
"Seventy-eight persons in you. Be real."
Who makes such an effort to get someone such a shady gift?
I cut so deep that you thought about this thing,
you carried this thing the whole day, and you want everybody to see.
You want me to be humiliated.
Thank you.
Thank you, Swanky.
You are literally throwing a whole tree. That is shade.
- Not a shade, that's a whole tree. - Zari, don't make a scene. It's a gift.
I saw Luis' jaw drop.
It was shady, friend, I'm not gonna lie.
It's so embarrassing I can't even look at Luis right now.
- Swanky. - How's this shady?
- It's shady, shady. - Jeremiah.
That is petty as fuck.
I honestly do not care how the rest of the group is taking it,
because I'm the one that has been disrespected.
Nobody is about to tell me how to react to disrespect.
I'm out of here. Yo, this is fucking weird.
- He has become so petty. He is so petty. - He's so petty.
This solidifies what I had already thought.
He doesn't want to hear me out.
This is like the third straw, this is the nail in the coffin.
So I'm like, "Okay, cool."
It is what it is, because not everybody is for you.
Zari's dinner was a drama-filled evening,
and Luis is fast getting a reputation for being the problem,
so I've invited him to find out where this reputation comes from.
What I would like to address with Luis,
is obviously the egg-situation from Zari's party,
because just how it came out,
just to me is just not sitting right.
Nku-lu-le-ko!
After the stunt that Swanky pulled,
I'm looking forward to having, like, a nice drama-free lunch.
And Fantana is coming along.
I wanna see what she's like when Swanky's not around.
- Dinner last night, what did you do? - Yeah, he got a gift.
- You got a gift? - From Swanky.
Oh, that's nice. You guys kissed and made up.
- It's a shady gift. - There's no kissing there.
- It's a shady gift. - And you took it?
What was I supposed to do? Lash out?
- Had to take it. - Thanks.
I think you've done a lot of stuff that just irritates him and annoys him.
Like what?
At Zari's birthday they said how you asked Zari for her eggs.
That's weird to me.
Honestly, I don't think Luis understands how, like, weird and strange it is
to ask a woman for her eggs.
I like to believe we are friends, yeah?
So, as a friend, you are taking what is being said on the streets,
and you are judging me for it already, you know what I'm saying?
Without having to speak to me, to understand where this is coming from.
Even-- Even, like, Swanky himself,
I don't know where he got it from,
- but I never went to Zari and said-- - From Khanyi,
to Zari, and then Nadia, and then to me, and then to Swanky,
- so that's what we were talking about. - It's a whole thing.
Sounds messy.
Fantana doesn't seem to realize
her role in the whole Luis-Swanky situation,
because she's very blinded.
She's like a sheep, she'll follow what Swanky says.
She's the type of person who is easily led,
so she doesn't understand, really, what's going on.
Yeah, but if he's your friend, why don't you confront him directly?
Because I just felt like that was just strange,
and because everybody was saying it,
I felt like, okay, maybe it's... it's true. I mean...
Fantana is seemingly not thinking for herself,
and saying, "No, I allow Swanky to think for me."
She's looking rather dull-witted right now.
So, we're going to the beach club.
Are you all coming?
- Um, we'll catch up. - Yeah.
You can go, we'll catch up.
- I'll see you later. - Let's kiss here.
You know, Rosette always, uh, poking at me.
At times I'm not sure if she's joking,
but every now and then, a part of me believes her.
So, Rosette is always testing me. She always says things like that.
- He walks away all the time. - You know what you're doing.
- I'm trying to get in there.
- Again. - Back in there.
Rosette and I are best friends,
despite what my wishes could have been,
but with Seba and I, there's still a romantic connection
that's there, but also unresolved feelings.
We are joining the rest of the crew at the beach,
and it's so cute, it's so pretty.
There's a few people, but it's not as full as it normally is
at the other side of the beach.
We're at, like, the nice side of the beach.
Andile is here. He arrived this morning.
- Did you see him? - I did see him.
- And I saw him arriving with Seba today. - What's happening there?
I think they're having, like, threesomes low-key.
It's very Diddy vibes. I really think they're just kumbaya-ing together.
They're just being a, you know, blended family, which is great.
- Nadia, I need to get out of the sun. - Okay, babes, I know.
My skin and this plastic bag I'm wearing--
- Also you, plastic bag at the beach-- - Hey, my skin comes first.
Khanyi's outfit is ridiculous, I'm sorry. You're wearing plastic head to toe.
Like, it's hot!
- What's with all the pillows? - How--
- Oh, it is Khanyi. - It is me.
Hello, beautiful.
Why are you dressed this way?
Khanyi is out here looking like a black bag.
And Swanky looks like he just stepped out of The Matrix.
Guess who's in the building?
Like, did they not get the memo, "It's a beach day."
Seba, what's happening between you and Andile?
You're not dating?
Would you date-- Like, if you had an opportunity to date again, would you?
We haven't discussed all of that, like, I think him and I need to find out
- what we're doing. - Yeah.
The conversation that Andile and I need to have is,
are we together, or are we not.
Because he's been there the whole time.
It's probably the reason why I haven't had anyone in my life,
because he makes sure,
no, we're not giving anyone else room to come here.
I'm not one to jump to conclusions fast.
I'm not going to preempt Luis.
I want to know about him, not the drama around him.
I want to hear about him.
This is beautiful, man.
Zari, at her party, she pulled me aside...
- Okay. - ...and she told me about the situation.
That you sent Khanyi to her because you want to have a baby with her.
That's not what happened.
I've been hearing so many theories about the egg-situation.
I want to propose, I want to give my baby to Zari,
I want Zari to give birth to my child.
Where is all of this coming from?
Zari mentioned that she is interested in surrogacy,
so I asked Khanyi for advice.
So, at no point did I ask Khanyi to go to Zari.
I felt a bit betrayed and disappointed,
because I asked Khanyi in confidence.
Khanyi is the person that misinterpreted all of this
and is sitting there,
allows all that's happening to Luis to happen,
as if she didn't start it.
To me, this is something very personal.
It's something that I didn't want to be made fun of, or made light of.
Like, it's deeper than that, you know?
It's-- It's deeper than that.
Seven years ago, um, Big Brother Africa...
- Yeah. -...I was 21.
- I had sex in the house. - Okay.
Yeah, and-- and-- and I come from an extremely religious background.
- Um...
So upon me coming out,
I-- I got excommunicated from-- from the congregation.
- So basically, what that means,
is I cannot have any contact with anybody who is part of the organization,
including my family and friends whom I grew up with.
I'm on my own.
You've not seen your mother and your father in seven years?
So-- So the rules are, anybody who is part of the church,
I-- I'm not allowed to communicate with.
The last time I heard my mom's voice, and my dad's voice as well,
was last year.
They're getting old and they're changing.
They are-- They are becoming different.
I mean, a lot can happen in seven years, so...
I miss all of them, yeah.
I miss all of them.
These are some of the things that I deal with,
so-- so when I... when I bring up the whole "I want a child right now" thing--
Are you trying to create a family...
- I'm not trying to replace, no. - ...to fill the void?
Not to replace, but fill the void.
Why do people start families?
Some for the lineage. Others want to-- want to share their love.
It's all the above.
I have love. I have so much love to give, you know what I'm saying?
Who is giving you love?
I don't know, man.
When you're sitting alone at home,
who says, "Hey...
I'm proud of you?"
Nobody.
Fuck, man.
There's so much I want to say.
There's so many moments I want to share.
There are achievements that I want to celebrate with my family,
but I can't, you know, so... it's just bitter-sweet.
Yeah.
Never in my wildest dreams did I think this was Luis' story.
Everything now makes sense.
Luis giving Fantana advice
is because he wants to feel like he's a big brother to someone.
Luis getting involved in every conversation
is because he wants to feel a part of something.
Luis wanting children
is because he wants to build his own family that he doesn't have.
- I appreciate you. And... - Thanks for listening.
- ...I think you're fucking amazing. - Thanks for listening.
- You're doing well. - Yeah.
You're gonna be an example that even those that have turned their backs on you,
are gonna say to their kids, "Look at him go."
How do you chase your dreams?
When your dreams are the very thing
that your family stands head and toe against,
what do you do?
Luis' story cuts me deep, and has brought a realization in me
that I love the family unit and stability,
and there's a conversation I need to have with Sebabatso
that I've put off for too... too long.
Today is absolutely beautiful.
I can't wait for this wine tasting,
but Andile pulls me to the side and says he wants to chat.
I think maybe someone wanted some quality time.
You are flirting, and I know you when you flirt.
- Flirting with who? - With me.
I don't know what you're expecting me to say, you know?
It's weird. Like, what do you want?
I'm ready to be in a relationship,
but I've never been looking.
But if I were,
should I be looking closer to home?
What I know for sure is I'm not sure I want to be alone right now.
- Okay. - But what I don't know is,
is that a fair reason to want to be with someone.
I can tell you for free it's not a fair reason
to want to be with me,
because your reason should be you want to be with me,
not that you're lonely.
Can I tell you the craziest thing? I don't wanna...
I wouldn't say, it's because I want to be with you...
- Yeah. - ...but I would say,
it's hard to be without you.
What do I do with all of that?
I will always love Andile, right?
But where I am right now, I need all or nothing.
Yeah, I need a complete person, I don't want half an Andile.
I don't deserve half.
I want full, or nothing.
I think maybe take time and...
think about what you want here.
If we are doing this or trying this,
it can't be like what it was before,
because we know that didn't work.
Sebabatso had issues with my relationship with Rosette.
This feels like Sebabatso saying, "It's now or never."
"It's all of you or nothing."
So if I am to pursue this, I'm gonna have to speak to Rosette.
Don't flirt with me.
Also, you need to start liking my friends if you and I are gonna make this work,
'cause I'm forced to like Rosette.
You're not forced to like Rosette, you must love Rosette.
Forget it. I'm not doing that.
Look, our dynamic between myself, Rosette and Andile is strange.
I'm still trying to wrap my mind around it.
But, yeah, we can get along at some point, not now.
Seeing Seba and Rosette on this trip, I'm just like,
"Lord Jesus, I hope there's no drama."
But like with Luis, he is just the drama king.
My mind is not here. I overthink things.
So in my mind I'm just playing out different scenarios.
"What is gonna happen here? Is it gonna be another situation?"
"Am I gonna go back and forth?"
- Hi. - Hello, guys. Hi.
- How are you? - Swanky!
I'm not surprised Swanky isn't greeting me.
Because it's mutual. You don't greet me, I don't greet you.
You go your way, I go mine. It is what it is, we move on.
So, Swanky,
I heard about the T-shirt.
What T-shirt?
The T-shirt you sent to Luis.
You don't think that was embarrassing for him, and hurtful?
Embarrassing?
Khanyi confirmed that he told Khanyi that he wanted to have babies with Zari.
It's just ridiculous.
She... is a big part of the misunderstanding.
Khanyi takes pleasure from spreading false information,
and in doing so, she's painting a picture of Luis
that... is unfortunate.
I think if you found out the real story about that Zari thing,
I think you will be very disappointed at somebody else, and not Luis.
He's lying to you.
It's a little bit more complex than that.
Well, then defend yourself, speak up for yourself.
Correct the narrative, don't let things linger.
Like, why can't you just speak up when everyone else is there?
Like, what are you afraid of?
Why do you have to single people out in the corner?
I just feel like he just tries to manipulate a story
that kind of suits his situation.
I'm respectfully containing myself,
and just telling myself, "Don't do it. Don't do it."
"Don't start something again. They'll think you're crazy."
I don't know Luis well, but I could never stand by
and listen to lies about me
when I'm in the room.
Being away from everyone
and just spending some quality time with Kayleigh is phenomenal.
We've had a spectacular six months,
and I think what I've come to realize, is that I do want something more.
It's nice to be away from everybody for a change.
You know, there's only so much I can take.
- Oh, wow. - It's perfect for skinny-dipping.
- Baby! - What happened to the fun Kayleigh?
You know, this romance thing is a tedious task.
The weirdest thing about it
is I wouldn't mind doing it, but every time I do something romantic,
it's like Kayleigh doesn't believe it's happening.
- Yes. Oh, you got Turkish Delight? - Are you comfy?
- I know they're your favorite. - Thank you, baby.
- I know all your favorite stuff.
Thank you. I don't know, babe. I didn't know you know.
So, how do you force me to be romantic,
and then when the romance is thrust upon thee,
you don't know how to act.
This is what you wanted.
What a view.
- I could look at this view forever.
Oh, baby! Wow.
I love you.
I love you more.
Why are you acting so weird?
- Are you gonna ask me to marry you?
- How... What would the problem be with that? - I'm kidding. I'm kidding.
- No, what would the problem be with that? - No, it just would be very surprising.
Why do you think I'm scared of commitment?
You always make it seem like I'm afraid of commitment.
Because you never speak about it.
Like, be intentional about the things you do, about the things you say.
- I am, though. - You're not, babe.
You think I'm just stringing you along for the ride?
No, I just feel like you never tell me, like,
what the next step in our relationship is.
I think this relationship has reached another step.
That's the-- That's the thing.
I feel like it's not reaching the next step,
like it's very stagnant.
And also, I want to know, like, what's gonna happen with us?
Like, do you have real intentions of marrying me?
Do you have real intentions of having a kid,
or is it just fun and games when we talk about it?
Kayleigh wants to fast-forward life.
I don't want to get married to get divorced.
Let's take time, but I also have to reassure Kayleigh
that I'm here for the long run.
We're here to have Turkish Delight.
- Damn, and you out here... - My favorites.
...talking heavy stuff to me. Jeez.
Did you really organize these?
You?
A year ago, Quinton was not the most romantic person,
but it looks like somebody is stepping his game up.
I've asked to meet Khanyi today because I think it's time
I take my relationship with Kayleigh to a different level.
Khanyi is the best person to help me.
She knows where I am at this stage of my life.
Even though we have our ups and downs,
Kayleigh has had a positive impact in my life
for the past almost three years now,
so I'd just like to know how do I as a man reassure a woman
that she's the only person for me.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
You know, this is so unlike you, from Tequila-us to now this.
- We're growing up, dude. - Is this what we're becoming?
- We can't be 12 forever. - You're right.
- Okay, he's gone. Let's eat his food. - Let's eat. I was looking at his food.
- But how are you, honestly speaking? - Eish.
You know I'm really into this person.
She's given me so much.
I really... want to reassure her of how I feel about her.
What are you saying?
I'm ready for the next step.
I never imagined that I'd ever have such a conversation with Quinton
regarding Kayleigh.
The question is, is this a woman that you'd be sitting with on the porch
at the age of 70?
Hello?
This is a big step, I'm thinking.
- Like, can I think about the answer? - Okay, think.
Three years, you're still thinking?
I know that I'm not ready for that huge step,
but I also think that it's time that I reassure her
that I don't want to go anywhere.
There's nobody else out there for me.
If I could plan it, I would say, "Let's have a trailer proposal."
A trailer proposal?
You're not proposing, but it's a trailer. You know what you see before the movie.
- Like a movie trailer? - Yeah.
And then you decide I'm actually gonna see that movie.
It's a serious conversation with all of your loved ones around,
of you declaring and asking her.
That sounds like marriage.
No, do you see yourself as my wife one day?
But why do I have to do it in front of people?
It makes it more legit.
Look, this is gonna be a bit tricky,
because Kayleigh is gonna think I'm about to propose.
Now there's not gonna be a ring,
but if Khanyi knows what it's gonna take for Kayleigh to feel reassured,
I'm willing to pay the price for reassurance,
because, as long as Kayleigh is not reassured...
...I will be paying the price for that too.
So one thing that you can't do is come to Cape Town
and not do some sort of boat cruise bobs.
Luis and Swanky is obviously going to be joining us on the boat,
and I swear, I'm not the person to be tried with,
especially in open seas, you are going to become missing.
I will throw you overboard.
Swanky believes that Luis needs to speak up and defend himself. From what?
You're making it as if it was such a big issue.
Swanky should see that, "Uh, Swanky, you are the drama."
Swanky as a friend is very loyal,
but the moment you aren't in his good graces anymore,
it's a complete flip.
I'm gonna come for you, and I want blood.
Luis, I have to call the gods from heaven to come carry you out,
because, mm-mm, I'm addressing this shit right here, right now.
Luis, how are you feeling?
What did I do this time, Swanky?
I'm in a group of friends, hearing,
"Oh, Luis said he wants Zari to have his baby."
"No, you got the wrong story."
"That's not the story, and what, what, what," right?
Now, many times that we've hung out together,
that conversation has come up, and Luis is there.
I'm expecting that if you are there,
and people was saying these things that is not true,
why are you not correcting the narrative?
Why let the poison spread across the group?
This is my issue.
And I'm like, "This-- This doesn't just feel right to me."
You know what I mean?
Do you want to tell me the real story?
I've been talking about surrogacy since I came, since day one,
because that is something I really want to have.
- Yeah. - So Zari mentioned surrogacy.
I was like, "Oh, there's somebody else in the group
who is-- who is also interested in doing surrogacy.
So then, before going to Zari, I went to Khanyi,
and I asked Khanyi for advice.
"Khanyi, do you think it's a good idea for me to go to Zari,
and ask her if I can join in on this surrogacy,
to do research with her--"
So you're saying that he didn't send Khanyi to ask her.
- I didn't send her. - You asked Khanyi for advice.
Her statement was, "I've been... Oh, by the way, Luis has asked me
to come and ask you if it would be okay for you to have his child."
No.
I'm so confused right now, what Khanyi said, what Luis is saying.
Why would Khanyi say such a thing?
- Don't you think you're misunderstood? - He is!
Honestly, I also apologize for that, because that's not my character.
I also don't feel, like, if there's a problem,
or there is a situation going on that involves you,
and you are there and you're not speaking, that shit fucks me up.
- Like, it gets me-- - So I should speak up more?
Yes! Because at the end of the day, if you sit here,
and you keep letting people misunderstand you,
or misunderstand the things you say,
and the thing is poisonous across the group,
- and it's spreading like wildfire... - Yeah.
...then you are gonna end up looking like the bad guy.
Swanky is saying that, "What is your story?"
And encourage me to, you know what, just tell the people what's going on.
Maybe they might understand.
While I was upstairs, Swanky made me realize
that it's important to speak up and not bottle things in.
I have something to say to you.
You're not offering us sperm again, are you?
- Speak. Let him speak.
Um...
Seven years ago, I got excommunicated from the church.
So that means I can't have contact with anybody who is part of the church,
including my own family.
Your whole family? I'll die, like...
If you spent so many years of your life
not being able to communicate with your family,
it's like, who do you communicate to?
Part of the reason for me to have a child is for me to start my own family.
I don't see myself going back to that church
because that would mean I would have to give up my "wordly" life,
and my wordly life is my work, you know?
It's a very complicated situation.
We were so quick to start judging, "Oh, he wants to have a child,"
or these and all these things, and I mean--
- Don't include us. Speak for yourself. - Swanky, of all people,
coming so hard on you like that.
People always go through so much and we don't even know.
We only see the outside.
I understand Luis now more than anything.
And sometimes we are so quick to judge people
without even knowing exactly what they're going through.
Until you hear somebody's story,
do not judge.
It's okay to not wait until you find the Mrs. Right,
- before you could have your baby. - Yeah.
If you feel like this is the right time for you,
then go get it.
At the end of the day, like, you don't know the weights
people are carrying on their shoulders,
and that's why it's important to have conversations, speak to someone.
You can't always figure everything out by yourself.
You know, sometimes we need that little spark to help us
get to where we need to be at.
And I'm definitely glad that we got to the root of it.
Cheers to love...
Sex and money!
- Cheers! - Cheers, guys!
I feel a sense of relief.
I feel like a huge burden has been lifted.
I feel like I can start my healing process right now.
I mean, I'm opening up my life,
because people take for granted
the-- the time they have with their family,
and they can't get it back, they can't get those moments back.
From the last event,
I feel like we threw all of the negativity, the animosity,
the drama, the misunderstanding, everything was thrown in the ocean.
Why can't life just be like this?
Oh, look at this.
Africa.
Stunning!
I won't lie.
I'm afraid of confined spaces.
The view is absolutely spectacular,
but inside, I'm shit scared.
So today, I'm your tour guide, guys.
- I'll take you guys all the way up. - Yes, Swanky.
I hope Swanky and I are really cool,
because coming here to the mountain,
I hope this wasn't a ploy to get me up here,
then he throws me off the mountain.
Now this is the view. Wow.
I told you I have a surprise, right?
- There we go!
- Whoo!
Well, I feel like very light,
also like from last night, it's like...
You know what I mean, the weight is like, everyone is like cool, everybody is like,
"We all understand each other better."
And I feel like it's always a good idea to like, you know,
change locations sometimes.
You know like how you travel with your friends somewhere else,
and you get to actually discover, maybe, more about the person,
more about the people that you hang with,
and it's just refreshing.
I definitely feel a lot lighter
now that Luis and I have settled our differences.
It's all good vibes, good energy, and I'm like, "Wow, I'm here for this."
- How amazing is that? - Wow. This is gorgeous. Wow.
Listen, imagine you try to propose to someone here,
and they say, "No." One person would die.
They'd probably throw the ring over.
Naked, this is where you should bring out the ring,
and propose to Kayleigh.
- Move back, guys. Hey! - Come on.
Take your spots!
You know when you walk into a space, and it just screams, "Propose here."
- Kayleigh, come. Naked has something. - Babe.
He doesn't know how to get down on his knee.
- He will learn today. - It's called duress.
Stay there. Bring my phone.
- I want to take a picture. - Okay.
I feel that if he wants me to marry him, he needs to... to go down on one knee,
but Quinton will never.
Oh my God. Oh my God, what is happening?
- Oh my God! - It's really happening.
This isn't real. Impossible.
This guy's down on his knees, like, no ways.
I'm just so confused.
- Oh, my God!
So when Swanky says, "Naked, you should propose here..."
Say yes!
...I'm thinking, "Why the fuck not?"