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("Get Along" by Kenny Chesney
playing)
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♪♪ Get along on down the road ♪♪
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♪♪ We've got
a long, long way to go ♪♪
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♪♪ Scared to live,
scared to die ♪♪
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♪♪ We ain't perfect but we try ♪♪
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♪♪ Get along while we can ♪♪
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♪♪ Always give love
the upper hand ♪♪
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♪♪ Paint a wall, learn to dance ♪♪
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♪♪ Call your mom,
can't we all get along? ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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(knocking)
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(chuckles): My God.
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Sam.
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This is a surprise.
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Yeah.
I guess I should've called.
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Are you okay?
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Yeah. I j... I...
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I'm in therapy,
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and my therapist said
that I should...
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come and talk to you.
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You're in therapy?
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Mm-hmm.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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(clicks tongue)
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H-How's Hara doing?
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She just turned 12 last month.
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Mm.
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Her reading's getting better.
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It turns out she's pretty fast.
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She likes running races
against the boys.
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(chuckles softly)
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Have you heard
of panta bhat and fuchka?
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No.
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That's what she eats.
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Her favorites.
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I'm surprised
you haven't heard of those,
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with all the...
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places you eat.
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Did you tell her about us?
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That's against the rules.
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You don't tell them
about divorce or anything...
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upsetting in your family.
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Mm. Right.
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I actually have
another one now, too.
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Muntaha.
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(chuckles softly)
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Wow.
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Do you want to see a picture?
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-(chuckles)
-Sure.
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(chuckles)
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Wow.
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She's cute.
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Yeah, and she also likes
panta bhat and fuchka.
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ELIAS:
Alan, can you
come closer to the door?
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(chain jangling)
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I'm here.
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Listen.
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Your hands are free, right?
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Yeah.
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And you said you have...
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like, meetings with him.
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Appointments?
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-Sessions.
-Sessions.
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Do you think you could have one
with him here now?
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We... actually do.
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We do have them here.
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Great.
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That's weird. Right?
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Yeah, it's weird.
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I don't really have a choice.
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We're both prob-probably going
to be dead soon.
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I say we go down swinging.
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Next time you have
one of your sessions,
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I want you to convince him
to bring me in.
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Make up some...
good therapy reason.
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(panting)
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And once I'm there,
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you jump him.
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And I'll, like...
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throw my body on him, too.
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Did you see Kenny last summer?
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Mm-hmm. Twice.
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Raleigh and Chicago.
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Chicago was...
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What did your therapist
want you to talk to me about?
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I don't know. He just said
I should come talk to you.
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So...
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You never picked up
your La-Z-Boy.
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Do you still want it?
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(whimpers)
Okay.
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-All right?
-Mm-hmm.
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All right.
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Okay, just try and get it in.
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All right, go. One, two, three.
(grunts)
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-(groans) That's...
-No? Okay.
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-No. (chuckles)
-All right.
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Okay.
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(grunts)
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Go.
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Thanks.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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(urinating)
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(zips)
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(chain jangling)
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Elias?
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ELIAS:
Yeah.
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You gave me a message
for your family.
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But you may be the one
who gets out of here. So...
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I'd like to give you a message
for mine, too.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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Tell my daughter, Shoshana,
that I love her.
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And that I treasured
our life together.
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And that...
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I want her to find a way
to move on.
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Ezra, my son--
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tell him I loved him very much
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and that his mother
loved him, too.
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Even when it was difficult
between them.
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And that I'm...
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sorry that there was so much...
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conflict in the family
when she was dying
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and that I...
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That's a lot to remember.
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Um, just...
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Just tell them
what you can remember.
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Can you k...
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keep talking?
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Please?
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When Ezra went to college...
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...he fell in with one of
those rabbis with the black hats
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and...
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suddenly he's an Orthodox Jew.
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No parties.
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Doesn't turn the lights on
or off during the Sabbath.
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Beth, my wife...
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(chuckles softly)
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...this all...
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just drove her crazy.
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Everybody following
their own paths
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wasn't exactly her cup of tea.
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I did my best
to help her with it, but...
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...Ezra did not make it easy.
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His family could not
even come over to our house
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without bringing their own food.
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You know about kosher food?
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It's regular food
with a thousand rules.
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This one birthday party
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for Ezra's son...
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she wanted to bring some...
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(vehicle approaching)
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He's back.
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-(engine shuts off)
-(car door opens)
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(car door shuts)
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(gate creaks)
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(footsteps approaching)
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(grunts)
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(Sam exhales)
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I got my chair back.
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So you saw her?
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Yeah.
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What did you talk about?
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(sighs)
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She's got these kids...
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...who we adopted in Bangladesh.
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We adopted 'em from this...
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organization.
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I mean,
we-we adopted one of 'em.
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She just got another one.
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And...
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she loves them a lot.
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How did it feel seeing her?
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Yeah.
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I liked it.
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Mm.
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But I don't think
it accomplished
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what you were hoping.
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Like, diverting me.
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These kids of Mary's
and yours...
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...when they grow up,
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I bet you want them
to be responsible
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for the things they do in life.
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It has to be hard in Bangladesh.
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You want them to overcome,
not...
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blame everything
on their circumstances
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or the people who hurt them.
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That's part of what
we're talking about here, Sam...
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Can you imagine me beating
the shit out of those kids?
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Like...
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punching 'em, hitting 'em
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like they're
worthless pieces of shit?
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How can anybody...
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Yeah, I'm gonna do this now.
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Wait. Wait. Wait! Sam!
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-No. Listen to me!
-This guy's gonna get it.
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-He's gonna get it right now.
-Candace! Get down here!
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Get down here! Right now!
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-We have a problem down here!
-No! No! (whimpering)
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-CANDACE: Sam?
-(grunts) No! No, no, no...
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No, please. (whimpers)
Please.
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-Oh, Sam, stop!
-ELIAS: Wait, please, please.
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-Wait, wait.
-Mom, go back upstairs.
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No. You listen to me.
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Stop right now.
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You are supposed
to be protecting me
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by not doing this.
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-(clapping)
-Get back here!
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What?
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Go to your room.
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Right now.
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-I don't want to.
-CANDACE: Sam.
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You need
your good night's sleep.
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You know, sometimes
you feel better after that.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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(lock clicks)
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(door opens)
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(door slams)
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("I Go Back" by Kenny Chesney
playing over stereo)
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SAM:
Fuck!
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(quietly): I'm okay.
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(volume increasing)
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♪♪ "Jack and Diane"
painted a picture of my life ♪♪
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♪♪ And my dreams ♪♪
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♪♪ Suddenly this crazy world ♪♪
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♪♪ Made more sense to me ♪♪
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♪♪ Well, I heard it today
and I couldn't help ♪♪
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♪♪ But sing along ♪♪
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♪♪ 'Cause every time
I hear that song ♪♪
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♪♪ And I go back to a two-toned
short-bed Chevy ♪♪
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♪♪ Driving my first love
out to the levee ♪♪
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♪♪ Living life
with no sense of time ♪♪
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-♪♪ And I go back to the feel
of a 50-yard line ♪♪
-ELIAS: Alan?
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-♪♪ A blanket, a girl,
some raspberry wine ♪♪
-Yeah.
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♪♪ Wishing time would stop
right in its tracks ♪♪
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ELIAS:
They gone?
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-♪♪ Every time I hear that song ♪♪
-ALAN: Yes.
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-(Elias shuddering)
-♪♪ I go back... ♪♪
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(grunts, panting)
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-♪♪ I go back ♪♪
-His mother. (panting)
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His mother-- sh-she seems okay.
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♪♪ I used to rock
all night long ♪♪
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♪♪ To "Keep On Rockin' Me,
Baby" ♪♪
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♪♪ Frat parties, college bars ♪♪
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♪♪ Just trying
to impress the ladies ♪♪
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♪♪ Well, I heard it today and I
couldn't help but sing along ♪♪
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♪♪ 'Cause every time
I hear that song ♪♪
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♪♪ And I go back to the smell
of an old gym floor ♪♪
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♪♪ The taste of salt
on a Carolina shore ♪♪
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♪♪ After graduation and drinking
goodbye to friends ♪♪
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-(computer chimes)
-♪♪ Every time ♪♪
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♪♪ I hear that song ♪♪
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♪♪ I go back... ♪♪
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♪♪ I go back. ♪♪
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♪♪ I got a feeling ♪♪
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♪♪ Are you feeling it, too? ♪♪
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♪♪ I guess
I've all but said it now ♪♪
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♪♪ So much for hoping
you'd go first ♪♪
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♪♪ Say you couldn't
sleep last night ♪♪
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♪♪ Swore that
you could feel me breathe ♪♪
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♪♪ Had you wanting me there
by your side ♪♪
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♪♪ Yeah, baby,
I know what you mean ♪♪
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♪♪ I got a feeling ♪♪
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♪♪ My head's reeling ♪♪
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♪♪ My heart is screaming ♪♪
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♪♪ I'm about to bust loose ♪♪
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♪♪ Bottled-up emotion ♪♪
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♪♪ It's more than a notion ♪♪
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♪♪ It starts with an I
and ends with a you ♪♪
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♪♪ I got a feeling ♪♪
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♪♪ You're feeling it, too. ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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BETH:
♪♪ Ma yafeh hayom ♪♪
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♪♪ Shabbat shalom ♪♪
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-♪♪ Shabbat ♪♪
-EZRA: Mommy! Mommy!
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-♪♪ Shabbat shalom ♪♪
-Mommy! That's my mommy!
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-Shh. (chuckles)
-Mommy!
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♪♪ Shabbat ♪♪
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-♪♪ Shabbat shalom ♪♪
-Mommy! Mommy!
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-Mommy.
-♪♪ Shabbat ♪♪
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♪♪ Shalom. ♪♪
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-I'm a cantor, but I'm also
a mommy. This is my son Ezra.
-Mommy.
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Here, come sit with me
over here.
283
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Why don't we play one
of your favorite songs, then?
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What song should we play?
285
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-What's your favorite song?
-"Got That Shabbat."
286
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"I Got That Shabbat Feeling"?
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Okay. Here we go.
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(playing guitar)
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♪♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪♪
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♪♪ Up in my head ♪♪
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(chuckles): Head.
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♪♪ Up in my head ♪♪
293
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♪♪ Up in
my head ♪♪
294
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♪♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪♪
295
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♪♪ Up in my head ♪♪
296
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♪♪ Up in my head today. ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
298
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(groans softly)
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♪♪ ♪♪
300
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(door opens)
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(chain jangling)
302
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Come, sit down.
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(inhales deeply)
304
00:19:24,905 --> 00:19:27,243
(exhales)
305
00:19:29,247 --> 00:19:32,688
You told me
that you get very angry
306
00:19:32,755 --> 00:19:35,259
with people
who treat you rudely.
307
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That everyone you hurt
308
00:19:38,500 --> 00:19:41,606
somehow deserves
what happens to them.
309
00:19:41,672 --> 00:19:43,609
And...
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I'm starting to think that
311
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that's not actually
what's going on, Sam.
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What do you mean?
313
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What I mean is, after everything
you went through as a child,
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you are angry,
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as anyone would be
who experienced that.
316
00:20:02,914 --> 00:20:06,054
And that anger
has made you violent.
317
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Which is also very human. So...
318
00:20:08,827 --> 00:20:10,062
really, Sam,
319
00:20:10,129 --> 00:20:13,469
you are just looking for people
320
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who will serve as an excuse
321
00:20:15,874 --> 00:20:18,846
for you to act out
those feelings.
322
00:20:20,082 --> 00:20:22,186
And the people
that you choose--
323
00:20:22,253 --> 00:20:24,992
I-I think it's almost random.
324
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,000
If you run into someone when
you are in that state of mind,
325
00:20:29,066 --> 00:20:32,741
I think you will find a way
326
00:20:32,808 --> 00:20:36,148
-to be offended by them.
-No, you're wrong.
327
00:20:36,215 --> 00:20:38,653
Those people, each and every
one of those people
328
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,757
is a fucking asshole.
You weren't there.
329
00:20:40,823 --> 00:20:43,262
You were never there.
That piece of shit,
330
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he acts however he wants.
331
00:20:45,098 --> 00:20:46,468
He treats people like shit.
332
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I understand why
you feel that way.
333
00:20:48,873 --> 00:20:50,610
I know
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00:20:50,677 --> 00:20:53,215
that is what
you are experiencing.
335
00:20:53,282 --> 00:20:55,285
But part of therapy
336
00:20:55,352 --> 00:20:59,461
is finding a way to look beyond
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00:20:59,529 --> 00:21:02,299
what you are experiencing
in the moment
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00:21:02,366 --> 00:21:05,439
and to search more deeply.
339
00:21:06,374 --> 00:21:09,447
Sam, I think this
is a great opportunity
340
00:21:09,515 --> 00:21:11,652
for you to search more deeply.
341
00:21:11,719 --> 00:21:13,990
I know it's what you want.
342
00:21:14,056 --> 00:21:17,864
I know it's why we are
both here right now.
343
00:21:20,036 --> 00:21:23,709
I want you to consider
what I just told you.
344
00:21:26,181 --> 00:21:28,351
May I tell you something more?
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00:21:29,555 --> 00:21:31,158
I don't know.
346
00:21:31,224 --> 00:21:33,194
I think you are angry
347
00:21:33,261 --> 00:21:37,469
because of what your father did,
like you always said.
348
00:21:37,537 --> 00:21:39,474
But I think it connects
with your father
349
00:21:39,541 --> 00:21:41,110
on deeper levels as well.
350
00:21:41,177 --> 00:21:44,050
You said that he would beat you
351
00:21:44,117 --> 00:21:46,254
if you didn't do
352
00:21:46,321 --> 00:21:48,560
exactly what he said instantly.
353
00:21:48,626 --> 00:21:51,165
If you even took a moment
to think about it.
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00:21:51,231 --> 00:21:53,335
Isn't that what you said?
355
00:21:53,402 --> 00:21:55,807
Mm-hmm.
356
00:21:55,874 --> 00:21:58,145
So that was, like, his reason
357
00:21:58,211 --> 00:22:00,784
to hurt you, in his mind.
358
00:22:00,851 --> 00:22:02,453
But then that
got into your mind.
359
00:22:02,521 --> 00:22:05,359
So you-you think
that there is a reason
360
00:22:05,425 --> 00:22:09,000
that all of these people are
behaving this way towards you,
361
00:22:09,067 --> 00:22:10,637
when in reality,
362
00:22:10,704 --> 00:22:13,241
they're just
going about their business.
363
00:22:14,010 --> 00:22:17,784
They didn't do anything
to provoke your attacks
364
00:22:17,851 --> 00:22:20,022
any more than you did
to provoke your father.
365
00:22:20,089 --> 00:22:24,464
He was just a violent,
out of control abuser.
366
00:22:24,532 --> 00:22:28,339
You weren't responsible.
367
00:22:28,405 --> 00:22:30,777
You were just a little boy.
368
00:22:32,246 --> 00:22:34,351
Elias Petraki in there...
369
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,091
...he didn't do anything
to deserve this either.
370
00:22:38,158 --> 00:22:42,033
He's just a guy who cooks,
manages a Greek restaurant,
371
00:22:42,099 --> 00:22:43,603
makes food that you like.
372
00:22:43,669 --> 00:22:46,007
He got into a little tangle
with you
373
00:22:46,074 --> 00:22:48,580
over an inspection,
374
00:22:48,647 --> 00:22:50,817
and he might have
looked at you funny
375
00:22:50,884 --> 00:22:53,523
or been obnoxious
or disrespectful.
376
00:22:53,590 --> 00:22:55,392
He looked at me...
377
00:22:56,228 --> 00:22:58,231
He looked at me like I was...
378
00:22:58,298 --> 00:23:01,606
I was... a son of a bitch.
379
00:23:01,673 --> 00:23:02,975
You know,
it doesn't-it doesn't...
380
00:23:03,041 --> 00:23:04,611
-it doesn't-it doesn't matter.
-Sam.
381
00:23:04,678 --> 00:23:06,347
-He's-he's... he's...
-Sam.
382
00:23:06,414 --> 00:23:09,187
I want you
to bring Elias out here
383
00:23:09,253 --> 00:23:10,389
so the three of us can talk.
384
00:23:10,456 --> 00:23:12,527
(scoffs)
385
00:23:13,395 --> 00:23:15,099
What would the point
of that be?
386
00:23:15,166 --> 00:23:17,671
You seem to think that
he is such a horrible person
387
00:23:17,737 --> 00:23:20,243
that he doesn't deserve to live.
388
00:23:20,309 --> 00:23:22,647
Let's see
389
00:23:22,714 --> 00:23:24,885
-if there's more to him.
-I don't want to.
390
00:23:27,457 --> 00:23:29,160
-I want him dead.
-I know you do,
391
00:23:29,227 --> 00:23:31,598
but I think
392
00:23:31,665 --> 00:23:33,970
the three of us talking
could be an important
393
00:23:34,037 --> 00:23:35,974
-part of our work.
-These aren't his
therapy sessions. These are
394
00:23:36,041 --> 00:23:38,278
-my therapy sessions.
-I'm not suggesting that
395
00:23:38,345 --> 00:23:40,249
we do this for him.
396
00:23:40,315 --> 00:23:42,186
This is your therapy.
397
00:23:56,583 --> 00:23:59,020
(door opens)
398
00:24:01,892 --> 00:24:03,830
-(Sam speaking indistinctly)
-(clattering)
399
00:24:03,897 --> 00:24:06,167
-(duct tape ripping)
-(Elias grunting, whimpering)
400
00:24:16,755 --> 00:24:19,795
(Elias panting)
401
00:24:19,862 --> 00:24:21,632
(grunts)
402
00:24:41,572 --> 00:24:45,045
I've gotten to know Elias some,
403
00:24:45,112 --> 00:24:48,085
and I think he's
a good young man.
404
00:24:48,151 --> 00:24:52,627
And I think
if you get to know him,
405
00:24:52,694 --> 00:24:56,234
you will feel differently
about him.
406
00:25:01,945 --> 00:25:03,749
Elias,
407
00:25:03,816 --> 00:25:07,691
we want you to show
your full self here
408
00:25:07,758 --> 00:25:11,364
so he can see you
as something more
409
00:25:11,431 --> 00:25:13,035
than he does right now.
410
00:25:13,903 --> 00:25:15,941
Do you think that
you could tell him
411
00:25:16,007 --> 00:25:19,080
a little bit about yourself?
412
00:25:19,147 --> 00:25:22,219
I know how hard this is,
given the circumstances,
413
00:25:22,286 --> 00:25:25,760
but... do your best.
414
00:25:26,529 --> 00:25:28,198
(sniffles)
415
00:25:29,034 --> 00:25:32,139
Okay. Um...
416
00:25:32,206 --> 00:25:33,977
♪♪ ♪♪
417
00:25:34,043 --> 00:25:36,749
Why don't you tell him
about the pastitsio,
418
00:25:36,815 --> 00:25:39,921
and how you
came up with that idea.
419
00:25:42,259 --> 00:25:44,464
O... Okay.
420
00:25:44,531 --> 00:25:46,201
Um...
421
00:25:46,268 --> 00:25:48,506
(whimpering)
422
00:25:48,572 --> 00:25:52,079
It's okay.
I know this is hard.
423
00:25:52,146 --> 00:25:54,919
Tell him about it.
424
00:25:54,985 --> 00:25:57,223
How you were in Asia.
425
00:25:57,290 --> 00:26:01,030
Okay.
Yeah, I...
426
00:26:01,097 --> 00:26:02,667
(exhales sharply)
427
00:26:02,734 --> 00:26:06,441
Okay.
(clears throat)
428
00:26:06,508 --> 00:26:07,811
I work in a restaurant
429
00:26:07,878 --> 00:26:11,853
with... with my parents.
(sniffles)
430
00:26:11,919 --> 00:26:15,058
They-they came from Greece.
431
00:26:15,125 --> 00:26:17,162
All that way.
They...
432
00:26:17,229 --> 00:26:18,766
they had a-a dream to...
433
00:26:18,833 --> 00:26:23,208
What? What? Wh...
434
00:26:23,274 --> 00:26:24,778
Should I, uh...
435
00:26:24,845 --> 00:26:27,216
I-I... Okay.
436
00:26:27,984 --> 00:26:29,822
So, I-I had this idea
437
00:26:29,889 --> 00:26:32,293
-to com-to combine
udon noodles...
-I...
438
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,932
-No, no. No, no, no!
-(whimpering, screaming)
439
00:26:34,998 --> 00:26:36,536
-Alan!
-No, no, no! No.
440
00:26:36,603 --> 00:26:38,572
No! Candace!
441
00:26:38,639 --> 00:26:41,177
ELIAS:
No! (coughs) Don't...
442
00:26:41,244 --> 00:26:43,248
No, God. Candace!
443
00:26:44,651 --> 00:26:47,423
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!
444
00:26:47,490 --> 00:26:50,563
-(Elias gasping)
-Oh, God, no!
445
00:26:50,630 --> 00:26:55,005
No. Oh!
446
00:26:55,072 --> 00:26:57,075
No!
447
00:27:03,355 --> 00:27:05,226
No! No, God!
448
00:27:05,292 --> 00:27:08,666
No, no, no, no!
449
00:27:08,733 --> 00:27:10,436
No!
450
00:27:10,503 --> 00:27:12,774
(gagging)
451
00:27:14,477 --> 00:27:16,247
No.
452
00:27:24,029 --> 00:27:26,300
-(whimpering)
-(Sam continues panting)
453
00:27:52,588 --> 00:27:54,156
(door shuts)
454
00:28:21,377 --> 00:28:23,448
♪♪ ♪♪
455
00:28:50,570 --> 00:28:52,840
♪♪ ♪♪
456
00:29:11,344 --> 00:29:13,414
♪♪ ♪♪
457
00:31:08,645 --> 00:31:10,916
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