1 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,199 Woman 1: Durban is energetic, warm, 2 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,599 passionate, people are friendly. 3 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,440 We're just amazing in terms of a province. 4 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,800 We've got a good beach, we've got the best weather 5 00:00:19,839 --> 00:00:21,559 and we're just, we're dynamic. 6 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,440 Woman 2: There's a saying, uh, in fact, Durban rocks. 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:28,160 I believe in that a 105 percent. 8 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,799 Sorisha: I have a billion reasons to smile. 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,840 My family and furries are just some of them. 10 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,840 [theme music] 11 00:00:42,399 --> 00:00:45,200 Annie: I've choreographed my life perfectly. 12 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,640 It's Mrs. Ambition to you. 13 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:54,000 Ayanda: Music is the business, 14 00:00:54,039 --> 00:00:56,439 and I am its boss. 15 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,840 Kgomotso: I've spent my life learning the game 16 00:01:06,879 --> 00:01:09,239 and I know just how to play it. 17 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,680 Nonku: In a world full of choices, I know I am enough. 18 00:01:19,719 --> 00:01:22,640 [music continues] 19 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,319 Laconco: I never stumble. 20 00:01:28,359 --> 00:01:31,000 Distinctive as the center piece of my table. 21 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,120 [music continues] 22 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,159 [upbeat music] 23 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,079 Sorisha: I'm Sorisha Naidu. 24 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,239 I am 43 years old. Yeah. 25 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,519 I'm-- I'm very comfortable in those 43 years. 26 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,079 I think it brings a lot of wisdom to a woman 27 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,519 and I think it can only get better from there. 28 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,159 I've been living here for ten years, 29 00:02:08,199 --> 00:02:12,319 and the reason I always remember that is my little one, Kalina, 30 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,520 was born in 2010. 31 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,479 I am married to Vivian Reddy. 32 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,080 Um, that is a full-time job. 33 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,520 Um, being a mom is a full-time job. 34 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:26,599 But Vivian is on a whole new level of, uh, 35 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,919 what work should and should not be as a wife. 36 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,599 And my wife's here. I've gotta sign off. Bye. 37 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,560 - Hey, love. Hi, how are you? - Hello. 38 00:02:34,599 --> 00:02:38,000 My husband and I met, uh, about 16 years ago. 39 00:02:38,039 --> 00:02:42,639 Um, we met at an opening of a casino. Not his own, though. 40 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:47,479 It wasn't instant connection, but we spoke over the phone. 41 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,599 I remember, he used to call me 42 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:53,599 when I DJ'ed on a local radio station on the hotline. 43 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,360 And I remember saying to him, "How did you get this number?" 44 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,120 "Only management has this number." 45 00:02:58,159 --> 00:03:01,039 And he's like, "I have my ways." 46 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,199 [instrumental music] 47 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,400 I have two kids. They are ten and twelve. 48 00:03:07,439 --> 00:03:10,280 I have lots and lots of pugs. 49 00:03:10,319 --> 00:03:12,960 Love, love, love dogs. Love animals. 50 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:17,120 And, uh, Drew is the mind of all fur babies, 51 00:03:17,159 --> 00:03:19,000 so he has full control over them. 52 00:03:19,039 --> 00:03:21,960 He just has to call them and they're there. 53 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,039 He is literally the dog man. 54 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,439 [singing in foreign language] 55 00:03:27,479 --> 00:03:29,960 Spirituality is an important part of my life. 56 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,400 It's the essence of who I am. 57 00:03:31,439 --> 00:03:34,639 And I live by the principles of Hinduism. 58 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,800 I live by, um, love, I live by respect, 59 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,680 I live by respecting people around me, 60 00:03:40,719 --> 00:03:43,120 treating them the way I want to be treated. 61 00:03:43,159 --> 00:03:46,280 That, for me, is a huge deal in my life. 62 00:03:46,319 --> 00:03:48,639 [instrumental music] 63 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,759 I've been living here for ten years and it's been, 64 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,879 um, a beautiful experience and I love the fact 65 00:03:55,919 --> 00:03:58,759 that we always put our heart and soul into our homes. 66 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,800 Basically, every single piece here, Viv and I have, like, 67 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,400 travelled and we, we get things that we like. 68 00:04:04,439 --> 00:04:07,280 So we don't rely on people to make the home beautiful. 69 00:04:07,319 --> 00:04:10,759 We just, we try and do it the way we want to do it. 70 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,800 I have two businesses, one is import-export 71 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,240 and one is in aesthetic clinics. 72 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,720 [instrumental music] 73 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,759 Kgomotso: My name is Kgomotso Ndungane. 74 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,680 I live in Durban, Glen Ashley. 75 00:04:35,439 --> 00:04:40,360 I am a mother of two, and my age is my secret. 76 00:04:40,399 --> 00:04:41,319 [laughs] 77 00:04:44,079 --> 00:04:46,800 I'm a cool mom. That's all we need to know. 78 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,800 [upbeat music] 79 00:04:51,399 --> 00:04:53,120 Kgomotso: Hey... Odwa: Hey, my love. 80 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,079 - How are you? - Good. And you? 81 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,360 Good. 82 00:04:56,399 --> 00:04:58,800 I'm married to Odwa Ndungane. 83 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,199 He's an ex-Springbok player. 84 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:05,040 We met in Pretoria at a mall. 85 00:05:05,079 --> 00:05:07,600 He just took a liking to me. 86 00:05:07,639 --> 00:05:11,399 Before I met him, I'd never even watched a rugby game. 87 00:05:11,439 --> 00:05:13,600 I still actually don't have a clue 88 00:05:13,639 --> 00:05:15,879 what happens on that rugby field. 89 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,920 I just know a try is score 90 00:05:18,959 --> 00:05:20,839 and there's a five. 91 00:05:20,879 --> 00:05:24,399 There's a conversion. Bob's your uncle. 92 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,120 It's in here. 93 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:30,839 I'm a very hands-on mum. 94 00:05:30,879 --> 00:05:35,199 Um, we do everything for our kids, me and Odwa. 95 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,600 And, um, those are the values 96 00:05:37,639 --> 00:05:40,439 that we want to instill in our kids. 97 00:05:41,399 --> 00:05:43,480 I'm a self-made businesswoman. 98 00:05:43,519 --> 00:05:47,800 Um, from, um, IT background of corporate SE. 99 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,560 I've managed to open three entities, 100 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,600 where I have a florist business, I have an event company 101 00:05:55,639 --> 00:05:57,839 and now I've recently just launched 102 00:05:57,879 --> 00:06:01,199 my home, body and bath product range, LeLaPa. 103 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:05,199 I have a very high-profile clientele. 104 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,360 [instrumental music] 105 00:06:14,439 --> 00:06:16,120 - Hi, babe. - Hi, my love. 106 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,240 - You're ready. - Getting ready. 107 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,480 To, to go off to Cape Town and-- 108 00:06:20,519 --> 00:06:22,360 - Oh, don't forget your mask. - All, all organized. They jus-- 109 00:06:22,399 --> 00:06:24,560 Oh, and the mask is something I've gotta have. 110 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,279 I must put it into my pocket. 111 00:06:26,319 --> 00:06:28,000 Viv travels so much. 112 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,279 If, I mean, if he's here at home, it's, it's a rarity. 113 00:06:32,319 --> 00:06:34,600 So, babe, um, how's the Cape Town thing going? 114 00:06:34,639 --> 00:06:37,040 I'm sorry I couldn't come with you. 115 00:06:37,079 --> 00:06:39,240 No, it-- it's something that, um, 116 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:40,959 it's actually got very busy meetings today. 117 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,399 This evening I'm having, uh, this meeting 118 00:06:43,439 --> 00:06:45,560 with the, uh, new CEO of Radisson Hotel 119 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,000 for our new Radisson Blu at, uh, Oceans Umhlanga. 120 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,800 And in the morning it's an exciting morning where we, uh, 121 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:55,480 looking at all the interior decor, uh, decor for the hotel. 122 00:06:55,519 --> 00:06:58,519 And I'll be back home to my family tomorrow afternoon. 123 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:59,959 Sorisha: Tomorrow. So you're staying over. 124 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,759 I was thinking of hosting the ladies, you know, 125 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:06,040 for like, uh, like a Eastern experience 126 00:07:06,079 --> 00:07:07,720 for Diwali. What are you thinking? 127 00:07:07,759 --> 00:07:10,199 No, I-- I think, uh, it'll be an excellent thing. 128 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,800 You know, culture is something so important today. 129 00:07:12,839 --> 00:07:14,879 You know, we talk about different cultures 130 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,360 and understanding, and I think it'll be a great opportunity 131 00:07:17,399 --> 00:07:20,399 to educate, you know, your friends in culture, 132 00:07:20,439 --> 00:07:22,199 because I did that on Sunday morning 133 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,800 when I had a business colleague of mine. 134 00:07:23,839 --> 00:07:27,439 Covid has been really hard, but also really amazing, 135 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,600 because I got to spend time with my family. 136 00:07:30,639 --> 00:07:33,639 But I also missed spending time with my friends. 137 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,800 - You'll be back in time, so... - No, I'll be back in time. 138 00:07:35,839 --> 00:07:38,800 - Are you ready? Sorry, I'm-- - I know, that's it, love. 139 00:07:38,839 --> 00:07:41,720 Sorisha: I hate seeing him go, but I also love my space, 140 00:07:41,759 --> 00:07:43,319 because when he is around, I feel 141 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,360 there's so much I need to do for him. 142 00:07:45,399 --> 00:07:47,120 So when he does leave to Johannesburg 143 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:48,959 or Cape Town or overseas, 144 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,519 it's nice to have that breather, so I can focus on other things 145 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,759 or other aspects of the home life. 146 00:07:56,879 --> 00:07:59,360 My plan for Diwali is to have it at home. 147 00:07:59,399 --> 00:08:01,800 I think my first point of call would be Kgomotso 148 00:08:01,839 --> 00:08:05,000 because she's, uh, an amazing events planner 149 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,480 and she would be able to advise me further and tell me 150 00:08:07,519 --> 00:08:09,600 how we can manage the entire event. 151 00:08:09,639 --> 00:08:11,199 Kgomotso on phone: Hey, it's Kgomotso. 152 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,199 Hey, Kgomotso. It's Sorisha. How are you? 153 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,800 Hey, Sorisha, I'm good. And you? 154 00:08:15,839 --> 00:08:18,680 Sorisha on phone: Okay, so, uh, can you chat quickly? 155 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:22,399 Yeah, I'm just busy doing some flower arrangements now, 156 00:08:22,439 --> 00:08:24,399 but I can definitely chat. 157 00:08:24,439 --> 00:08:29,079 Speaking of flowers, [chuckles] I am hosting something at home 158 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,399 and I was hoping you could help me with the flower bit. 159 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,320 Alright. Business is back. 160 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,720 Are you able to, maybe, just, um, come home, 161 00:08:37,759 --> 00:08:40,559 so we could just have a look at the, uh, different spaces 162 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,120 and decide, you know, how we would set it up? 163 00:08:43,159 --> 00:08:46,080 Sure. Absolutely. I'll be there. 164 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,799 I'm excited because, um, 165 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:53,440 you know, as much as I know her, I have never been to her house. 166 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,200 Kgomotso: Alright. See you... - I'll see you later. 167 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,559 - Thanks, my angel. Bye. Bye. - Buh-bye. 168 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,000 Female narrator: Coming up on "The 169 00:09:01,039 --> 00:09:03,240 Real Housewives Of Durban..." 170 00:09:03,279 --> 00:09:06,240 I just need to do a fabulous flower arrangement. 171 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:07,639 Sorisha: This is where I want it. 172 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,840 - Sure, come have a seat. Kgomotso: Sorry. 173 00:09:10,879 --> 00:09:12,399 [dog whining] 174 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,159 So how was the kids' drop off this morning? 175 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,159 It was fine. We were on time. 176 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,399 - And, um, Ashley was okay. - Hm. 177 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,480 You know how she always gets excited, nervous. 178 00:09:32,519 --> 00:09:34,720 - Yeah. Oh, okay. - And Nat, he was also fine. 179 00:09:34,759 --> 00:09:38,039 So what I love about Odwa is his love for family. 180 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,519 Anyway, I've got news for you. 181 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,440 - What got you all excited now? - Ha-ha... 182 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,440 You won't believe who called me. 183 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,679 - Sorisha Naidu. Yes! - Oh, nice. 184 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,279 So she called me and she wants me to help her 185 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,039 with her Diwali event. 186 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,159 Oh, nice. 187 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,840 Geez, I'm feeling so overwhelmed. 188 00:09:57,879 --> 00:10:00,679 I'll probably just drive in there and there's, like, 189 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,840 a whole fleet of cars on the driveway. 190 00:10:03,879 --> 00:10:08,240 And I'm sure it's nice cars, too, but you like the nice cars. 191 00:10:08,279 --> 00:10:10,440 - I like the nice-- - Yeah, you love the nice cars. 192 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,440 So that'll be very nice. I'm sure you'll enjoy it. 193 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,200 But that'll be a nice client to have. 194 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,440 Yeah, I know, absolutely. 195 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,960 Like, I'm feeling a bit nervous 196 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,639 because I haven't really done an Eastern event before. 197 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,519 But look at it this way, for the fact that she called you 198 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,840 to, to do a event, which means you're doing something right. 199 00:10:28,879 --> 00:10:32,480 So be excited for that and, and look forward to it, 200 00:10:32,519 --> 00:10:35,120 because there's a tick, and-- and that's nice 201 00:10:35,159 --> 00:10:38,240 and can open a lot more doors for you, which is wonderful. 202 00:10:38,279 --> 00:10:40,440 - Yeah, absolutely. Holly. - No, that's great. 203 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,440 - He's also excited for you. - He is also excited for me. 204 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,960 Oh, but that's very nice, love. Alright. 205 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,080 [instrumental music] 206 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,799 Kgomotso: Oh, there's a fleet of cars. 207 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,799 But not just any car. Luxury. 208 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,120 - Hello! - Hello... 209 00:11:08,159 --> 00:11:10,519 Sorisha: So lovely to see you again. 210 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,240 And these are all the babies. 211 00:11:12,279 --> 00:11:15,360 They look gorgeous. Hello. 212 00:11:15,399 --> 00:11:19,840 I have one dog, and it already drives me crazy. 213 00:11:19,879 --> 00:11:23,919 And how do you have so many dogs? Like, how do you cope? 214 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,240 I just need to do a fabulous flower arrangement 215 00:11:27,279 --> 00:11:29,360 on your entrance ta-- table. 216 00:11:29,399 --> 00:11:30,519 This is where I want it. 217 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:31,519 Oh, my word. 218 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,480 I'm just in love with the house. 219 00:11:33,519 --> 00:11:37,960 This is an absolutely beautiful family portrait. 220 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,600 - I think it's a similar friend. - Who got you plugged in? 221 00:11:40,639 --> 00:11:43,320 I think we-- we, you've used him, his name is Craig. 222 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,000 - Oh, yes. Craig. Of course. - Yeah, yes, he's amazing. 223 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:48,399 - This is the entire family. - Beautiful. Mm... 224 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,240 Uh, there's a few, like, uh, Viv's younger son has now, 225 00:11:52,279 --> 00:11:53,919 from his previous marriage, has gotten married, 226 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,600 so, obviously, we have to re-shoot this. It's been... 227 00:11:56,639 --> 00:11:59,440 My kids are very young here, so it's like... 228 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,200 Yeah, so it's his kids and this is all his kids, so, um, 229 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,879 his three sons, his two daughters, yeah. 230 00:12:05,919 --> 00:12:09,320 I have two kids, but I like to think I have five kids 231 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,559 because Viv has three kids from a previous marriage. 232 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,279 Sorisha: They're amazing, they're supportive. 233 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,919 They lend me their ear. You don't get this every day. 234 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,879 So I treasure t-- these bonds that we have. 235 00:12:19,919 --> 00:12:23,799 - Sure, come, have a seat. - Ooh! Sorry. 236 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,519 Sorisha: No, that happens a lot. Don't even stress. 237 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,440 Kgomotso: So sorry there. 238 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,559 Sorisha: So many, though, you know? 239 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:30,679 [both laughing] 240 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,159 [laughing] 241 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:37,440 So, doll, I was, I wanna thank you for coming out so quickly. 242 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,080 That means so much to me because I feel 243 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:41,919 it's happening, like, yesterday 244 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,600 and I-- I feel very unprepared and I'm so grateful 245 00:12:45,639 --> 00:12:47,639 to, to, like, get your expertise on it. 246 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,440 So it's an Eastern evening, so I'm not sure 247 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,919 if that's something you're in tune with or, you know, 248 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,840 in terms of functions or events. 249 00:12:54,879 --> 00:12:59,159 It's an event I've never done it in my life. You know? 250 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,440 Um, so how are we going to do this? 251 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,440 Coming off Diwali, I just thought it would be 252 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,039 a great experience to, like, share, 253 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:09,039 the, you know, the significance. 254 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,960 What I know about Diwali is the fireworks. 255 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,440 Kgomotso: You know, to be honest with you, I haven't had 256 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:18,039 an Eastern function, even function before. 257 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,639 And I've also never attended one, too. 258 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,039 Kgomotso has never done Diwali before, 259 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,840 so I'm a bit skeptical. 260 00:13:24,879 --> 00:13:26,720 Sorisha: Firstly, we need to change the fact that 261 00:13:26,759 --> 00:13:29,200 you've never attended one, so you have to be here. 262 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,399 Okay, I think that's very important. 263 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,000 And, Kgomotso, I just, I saw that your, 264 00:13:34,039 --> 00:13:36,440 your flowers are mind-blowing. 265 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,039 I mean, I've looked at flowers and then there's your flowers, 266 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,720 so I'm really, really keen to explore, like, something, 267 00:13:42,759 --> 00:13:45,559 like, massive and big and dynamic and, like... 268 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,279 Um, in terms of a color pallet with flowers, 269 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:51,080 do you think we could get, like, 270 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,440 bright beautiful colors, like, meshing together? 271 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:56,440 Apparently, that's what Diwali is all about. 272 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,840 So I thought we could have dancers, like, 273 00:13:57,879 --> 00:14:01,279 as the ladies, like, entered, and I don't know, 274 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,000 maybe a fire, something with fire, beautiful-- 275 00:14:04,039 --> 00:14:07,279 I might know somebody who can help us with that. 276 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:08,639 Are you open to that suggestion? 277 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,080 I am open to that, yes. 278 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,240 [instrumental music] 279 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,639 Annie: I'm Annie Ludick. I'm 38 years old. 280 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:21,200 I'm born in Joburg, but I live in Durban. 281 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:26,159 I would describe myself as sassy... 282 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,440 energetic and hardworking. 283 00:14:33,519 --> 00:14:37,600 I am married to a guy called Kgolo Da Guru, to you guys, 284 00:14:37,639 --> 00:14:40,279 Kgolo Mthembu to me, I won't tell you his real name 285 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,440 because, yeah, it's my business. 286 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,840 I have three children. Well, the, my eldest child, she's 15. 287 00:14:45,879 --> 00:14:49,559 She's not mine, she's Kgolo's daughter, but she's obviously 288 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:54,200 still my child, and then I have two, who, hm... 289 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,399 They're called Irish twins. 290 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:59,600 My husband was very forward when he realized 291 00:14:59,639 --> 00:15:03,720 I could conceive, and he did not give up until more came. 292 00:15:03,759 --> 00:15:06,200 So I have a 15-month-old baby 293 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,679 and I have a two-month-old baby. 294 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,840 [babbling] 295 00:15:10,879 --> 00:15:13,240 They are lovely, lovely kids. It's a boy and a girl. 296 00:15:13,279 --> 00:15:15,799 The youngest is a boy and the elder one is a girl. 297 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:17,639 We have a lot of fun together. 298 00:15:17,679 --> 00:15:20,279 My daughter loves to dance, I love to dance. 299 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,639 So we're always dancing all over the place. 300 00:15:22,679 --> 00:15:25,639 [upbeat music] 301 00:15:27,039 --> 00:15:28,519 So I do own a dance company as well. 302 00:15:28,559 --> 00:15:30,559 It's called Leopardprint Dance Agency 303 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,240 and we provide dancers for corporate work 304 00:15:34,279 --> 00:15:38,080 or music videos or whatever it is. 305 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,000 I run an event and marketing agency. 306 00:15:40,039 --> 00:15:41,799 It's called WeDO Marketing. 307 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:44,240 Uh, we do below-the-line events. 308 00:15:44,279 --> 00:15:47,879 We have some big-named clients. Ha-ha... 309 00:15:47,919 --> 00:15:51,320 And then we own some night clubs, restaurants 310 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,440 and lounges as well. 311 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,000 - Hey, sassy nails. - Good morning. 312 00:15:56,039 --> 00:15:57,879 And I also own a salon. 313 00:15:57,919 --> 00:15:59,919 It's called Annaesthetic Beauty Studio. 314 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:01,879 It is based in Morningside. 315 00:16:01,919 --> 00:16:04,399 It's fabulous. It's pink, obviously. 316 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:05,559 Well, what do we got? 317 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,799 So today we've got Kubu and Putle 318 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,039 that are booked at ten o'clock 319 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,960 for two deluxe-signature caviar pedicures 320 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:13,919 and then a wig wash, treat and style. 321 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:18,200 I like to be part of the woman's revolution through beauty. Yes. 322 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:19,840 [instrumental music] 323 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,519 So where do you envision having the event? 324 00:16:24,559 --> 00:16:26,919 So I thought we could, like, could do a quick walkabout 325 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,159 and decide where we could set up, maybe give me ideas... 326 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,639 - You wanna do a quick walk? - Yeah, let's do that. Yeah. 327 00:16:32,679 --> 00:16:34,679 Sorisha: Oh. Let's unpack all these dogs. 328 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,279 [both chuckling] 329 00:16:38,279 --> 00:16:39,840 - Come, let's go. - Okay. 330 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,279 - This piece! - Here... 331 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,519 - Like, this table, Sorisha. - Do you like... 332 00:16:45,559 --> 00:16:48,120 Sorisha: Do you love this table? I see that you love this table. 333 00:16:48,159 --> 00:16:51,360 It's beautiful! I mean, people dance on tables. 334 00:16:51,399 --> 00:16:54,039 I could just have a photoshoot on this thing. 335 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:56,480 The minute I see an art piece, 336 00:16:56,519 --> 00:16:59,600 it actually just quietens my mind down 337 00:16:59,639 --> 00:17:02,240 and I just really get to appreciate it. 338 00:17:02,279 --> 00:17:05,680 It's very organic, it's original, it's heavy. 339 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:09,440 - And we didn't-- - It says money. 340 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,680 Do you know what we can do actually? 341 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,160 If we have it in the inside, we can then have 342 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,039 a big, you know, like a harvest table. 343 00:17:19,079 --> 00:17:21,920 Actually, let's break the rules. Okay? 344 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:26,039 Who said a harvest table always has to have all these, like 345 00:17:26,079 --> 00:17:31,200 you know, meats and, you know, cold meats and this botong or... 346 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,920 Whoever wants meat must bring their own... 347 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,440 Oh! No. Come on. 348 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,200 [laughs] No. I wasn't saying anything. 349 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:42,759 It's gonna look gorgeous. 350 00:17:42,799 --> 00:17:44,920 It already looks natural, like, from the front. 351 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:49,079 So it's good. Okay. Now this is a good job. Thank you. 352 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,359 Hi, Kgomotso. How are you? 353 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,119 Kgomotso on phone: Hi, Anne. I'm good. And you? 354 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:54,240 Me and Kgomotso, we know each 355 00:17:54,279 --> 00:17:55,960 other through the event industry. 356 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,079 Kgomotso: I've been working so hard, 357 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,519 picking up flowers for one of the events 358 00:18:00,559 --> 00:18:02,640 that I, that I'm doing. Um... 359 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,519 It's an, it's an Eastern-themed, uh, event. 360 00:18:06,559 --> 00:18:10,039 - I have to do flowers for them. - Okay, nice. 361 00:18:10,079 --> 00:18:13,240 Kgomotso: One other thing they need is dancers. 362 00:18:13,279 --> 00:18:16,200 So I just thought you're the perfect person 363 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:17,640 that can put me up with that. 364 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:20,559 Awesome. Thank you. Just text me all the details. 365 00:18:20,599 --> 00:18:22,000 Kgomotso: Yeah, sure. - Okay. 366 00:18:22,039 --> 00:18:25,119 [upbeat music] 367 00:18:29,519 --> 00:18:31,319 - Hello, gorgeous. - Oh, hey! 368 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,119 I see you got here before me. 369 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,039 - You beat me. - I beat you. 370 00:18:36,079 --> 00:18:37,240 - How are you? - For a change, right? 371 00:18:37,279 --> 00:18:40,119 [instrumental music] 372 00:18:42,039 --> 00:18:45,400 My name is Ayanda Ncwane. I am a businesswoman. 373 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,680 Ayanda: Um, a music executive, 374 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,960 uh, a mother of two gorgeous boys. 375 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,640 I live with my two children. 376 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,039 And my brother. 377 00:18:57,079 --> 00:19:00,559 He is my best friend, um, my stylist. 378 00:19:00,599 --> 00:19:03,359 He dropped out from school, from medicine, 379 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,720 to pursue his career in fashion, without telling mom. 380 00:19:06,759 --> 00:19:10,359 Born and raised in KwaZulu-Natal, Ndwedwe, 381 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,599 but lived in between two cities 382 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,319 which is Johannesburg and Durban. 383 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,839 Because of the kind of business that I'm in 384 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,559 which commands me to be all over the show, 385 00:19:21,599 --> 00:19:23,720 my children are based in Johannesburg. 386 00:19:23,759 --> 00:19:27,759 They are very much used to the system as the Ncwanes. 387 00:19:28,759 --> 00:19:30,480 [upbeat music] 388 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:36,839 My late husband, Sfiso Ncwane, was a superstar. 389 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:40,880 We were literally living on the road, through and through. 390 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:45,440 We were forced, uh, to travel with the kids. 391 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,640 My relationship with the boys 392 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,000 wasn't so strong 393 00:19:51,039 --> 00:19:52,440 before my husband passed away. 394 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,920 Immediately after his passing, 395 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,759 I started bonding strongly with the children. 396 00:19:56,799 --> 00:19:59,559 * Yay yay * * There is a love ** 397 00:19:59,599 --> 00:20:01,400 Okay, can I just say you look fabulous? 398 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,119 - Oh, thank you, darling. - As always. 399 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,599 - This old thing. - Oh, sure, sure. 400 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:06,720 [both laughing] 401 00:20:06,759 --> 00:20:09,519 I've known Sorisha for quite a long time, 402 00:20:09,559 --> 00:20:12,920 um, even though we hardly spend time together. 403 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,039 Sorisha: But, doll, I have not seen you in forever. 404 00:20:15,079 --> 00:20:16,480 - I know, right? - Yeah. 405 00:20:16,519 --> 00:20:18,839 Thank you, for, like, meeting. I-- 406 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,160 It sounded, it sounded very important, honey. 407 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,240 I was like, I'm dropping everything. 408 00:20:23,279 --> 00:20:24,799 The queen has called. 409 00:20:24,839 --> 00:20:29,039 Um, Sorisha is, um, living this posh life. 410 00:20:29,079 --> 00:20:33,000 Um, I call her a blue swan. 411 00:20:33,039 --> 00:20:37,359 She is so calm, so coll... 412 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,960 It's like, you know, you know, a choir conductor... 413 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,400 [vocalizing] 414 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:47,759 You know that sound when angels are singing, that's Sorisha. 415 00:20:47,799 --> 00:20:50,640 Are you still going back to acting, Sorisha? 416 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,880 I don't know. I... 417 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,480 Well, I just finished a movie last year, 418 00:20:54,519 --> 00:20:56,519 uh, which was on-- on the big screens, 419 00:20:56,559 --> 00:20:58,519 which was amazing for me. It was great to be-- 420 00:20:58,559 --> 00:21:00,440 I remember that. I remember that. 421 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,480 So you, coming and going. Joburg, Durban, how's that, 422 00:21:03,519 --> 00:21:05,279 how's that working for you? It's a lot. 423 00:21:05,319 --> 00:21:06,839 Traveling has been our thing. 424 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,000 And being a music executive who actually believes to be 425 00:21:11,039 --> 00:21:13,039 on the ground at the same time, 426 00:21:13,079 --> 00:21:15,839 so, for me, it means nothing. 427 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,480 I love the way she immerses herself in, 428 00:21:18,519 --> 00:21:22,440 in anything, um, artsy and the, the way her beliefs are 429 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,359 with regards to artists and what she does for them 430 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,880 and how she promotes them. She's an incredible woman. 431 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,680 Sorisha: So Diwali is coming up, uh, and then I just thought, 432 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,759 if you're around, you know, we're just gonna have, like, 433 00:21:32,799 --> 00:21:35,720 a beautiful Diwali celebration with a few guests. 434 00:21:35,759 --> 00:21:39,559 It's very intimate. So please come. 435 00:21:39,599 --> 00:21:41,359 I must warn you, it's vegetarian. 436 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:42,680 - Vegetarian? - Yes. But, you know... 437 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,640 - Vegetarian's good for you. - Let... 438 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,359 Let me tell you something about Indian food. 439 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,359 Any day, anytime. 440 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:53,119 The Eastern couture is one of the best 441 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,119 because it has bling all the way. 442 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,880 Honey, you know I go all out, right? 443 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,599 I know. This is why you have to be there. 444 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,079 - It's about you, doll. - I-- I ain't complain. 445 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,759 - Don't be late. - Ha-ha-ha! 446 00:22:04,799 --> 00:22:07,720 Ooh, child. [laughs] 447 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,599 Get-- get the outfit ready now. 448 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,599 So cute. I'm gonna be the first one to arrive. 449 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,200 Here's to that, doll. Cheers. 450 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,640 Female narrator: Coming up on "The 451 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,440 Real Housewives Of Durban..." 452 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,640 Kgomotso said I could have it vegetarian, it's fine. 453 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,440 - Oh, girl. - Hey! Hey! 454 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,759 Me and Sorisha always have vegetarian, you know? 455 00:22:30,799 --> 00:22:33,240 Oh... [scoffs] 456 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:52,279 Thobekile is a successful businesswoman in her own right. 457 00:22:52,319 --> 00:22:55,799 Hey, my name is Thobekile. They all call me Thobe. 458 00:22:55,839 --> 00:22:57,319 [indistinct] 459 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,920 I live in Durban, in Mpumalanga. 460 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,680 You look beautiful. Look at that dress. 461 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,680 - Thanks, doll. You, too. - Who does your makeup? 462 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,759 Look at yourself. 463 00:23:03,799 --> 00:23:06,200 I do my makeup. [laughs] 464 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,440 That's one thing I struggle with, hey. 465 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,839 If I could only learn the skill. 466 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,720 You must come to me. I'll teach you the easy stuff. 467 00:23:12,759 --> 00:23:15,559 Yeah, so you can do it yourself. 468 00:23:15,599 --> 00:23:17,359 We are in the same industry, by the way... 469 00:23:23,839 --> 00:23:26,279 What about you, yourself, in terms of, like, 470 00:23:26,319 --> 00:23:28,160 your industry in terms of construction, 471 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,279 how's that, like, impacted you? Like, what has been the rollout? 472 00:23:31,319 --> 00:23:34,680 I think Covid has affected a number of businesses. 473 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,519 Thobekile: It took a lot of jobs from many contractors. 474 00:23:37,559 --> 00:23:40,400 I mean, a lady who can be on site every day, just, 475 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,359 and has it every single day, 476 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:43,640 you've got to admire someone like that. 477 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,599 I'm going to have a little dinner at home. 478 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,720 And I just wanted to have just a few people over. 479 00:23:50,759 --> 00:23:53,440 I just thought we could just get a few of the ladies together 480 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,279 that you and I both kind of know 481 00:23:55,319 --> 00:23:58,480 and have, like, a proper Diwali evening. 482 00:23:58,519 --> 00:24:02,359 Oh, gosh, I know nothing about Diwalis, 483 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,480 Indian cultures and so on. 484 00:24:04,519 --> 00:24:05,920 So please tell me you're available. 485 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,680 I'm-- I'm literally giving you a personal invitation. 486 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,240 - This is why I'm here. - So I will not say no. 487 00:24:11,279 --> 00:24:12,680 I'll definitely be there. 488 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,680 So, uh, it's Eastern, so, it's like a Eastern... 489 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,000 You, you decide on what sort of Eastern vibe you wanna go for. 490 00:24:19,039 --> 00:24:20,319 - Okay. Okay. - It's all you. 491 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,079 I don't have an Indian outfit. 492 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,680 Challenge number two, I've never been to Diwali. 493 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,519 I don't even know what to expect. 494 00:24:28,559 --> 00:24:30,119 So tell me, do you have something to wear? 495 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,440 - Don't worry about me. - Okay. 496 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,079 I'm just checking if I could help you. 497 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,440 If that's an offer, then I'm- I'm welcoming it-- 498 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,319 Because I'm not sure, like, what do you... 499 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,519 Did you have any, like, Indian, like, outfits... 500 00:24:40,559 --> 00:24:43,279 I was gonna look for it, but if you're offering, 501 00:24:43,319 --> 00:24:44,599 definitely I'll appreciate that. 502 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,119 - Okay, cool. - I'll appreciate that. 503 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,759 - To ladies. - To ladies. 504 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,920 [instrumental music] 505 00:24:58,319 --> 00:25:00,359 Annie: Today we're at Mangwanani Spa. 506 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,160 I'm going to meet Sorisha, we are gonna have a quick spa day, 507 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,759 we're gonna find out more about the event, uh, the Diwali event 508 00:25:07,799 --> 00:25:10,599 and what she needs in terms of dancers. 509 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:15,599 You said now, now that you were at Sorisha's house yesterday. 510 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:20,079 Wow, I was actually, uh, so inspired. 511 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,279 - Yeah. - She lives in, uh, Mpumalanga. 512 00:25:23,319 --> 00:25:24,759 - Okay. - Right, so... 513 00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:27,200 I drove in and, oh, wow. 514 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,519 The first thing that I saw, her Rolls Royce. 515 00:25:30,559 --> 00:25:31,799 - Her Rolls Royce. - Her Bentley. 516 00:25:31,839 --> 00:25:35,079 - Oh. - Babes, I was so inspired. 517 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,079 - Yo. - The house is gorgeous. 518 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,440 - I can imagine. Kgomotso: So beautiful. 519 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,200 Did you get in the Rolls Royce? 520 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,119 - Uh, I wish. - Ha-ha-ha-ha. 521 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,519 I wish-- 522 00:25:47,559 --> 00:25:50,279 Just to touch it and get that energy. 523 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,279 I was telling Annie that, uh, we celebrating Diwali. 524 00:26:00,319 --> 00:26:03,160 You giving us the whole experience. 525 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,480 - Babes, I'm talking fireworks. - Alright. 526 00:26:06,519 --> 00:26:08,480 So you gotta bring your A game. 527 00:26:08,519 --> 00:26:10,799 - I'm doing-- - Am I invited as well? 528 00:26:10,839 --> 00:26:13,279 [indistinct chatter] 529 00:26:14,519 --> 00:26:16,880 I blab so much. I blab so much. Sorry. 530 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,400 You know, I kinda like forgot about that. 531 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,519 And I was, like, thinking about having dancers. 532 00:26:21,559 --> 00:26:25,400 Uh, so I'm not sure, Annes, if you've like, you know, 533 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,000 'cause it's an Eastern evening. 534 00:26:27,039 --> 00:26:29,440 Okay. So how many dancers were you looking for? 535 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,759 Well, one, between one and two, 'cause it's just, 536 00:26:31,799 --> 00:26:34,599 it's such an intimate kind of experience for the ladies. 537 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,680 So it's like, the way you would, like, have Diwali... 538 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,799 She wants a classical 539 00:26:39,839 --> 00:26:42,160 Indian dancer, which I've never heard of. 540 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,640 Kgomotso said I could have it vegetarian, it's fine 'cause-- 541 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,519 - Oh, girl. - Hey. What do you think? 542 00:26:46,559 --> 00:26:49,200 I'm down with the vegetarian. I'm surprised you are, too. 543 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,920 [all laughing] 544 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,279 Me and Sorisha always have vegetarian, you know? 545 00:26:54,319 --> 00:26:56,359 Oh... [scoffs] 546 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,680 What sort of thing do you wear? 547 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,599 Well, yeah, so like a really, whatever your take 548 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,240 on an Eastern kinda outfit is. 549 00:27:04,279 --> 00:27:07,440 But this is so intimate, so it's gonna be so nice for all of us 550 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,240 to experience together. Okay, okay, darlings. 551 00:27:10,279 --> 00:27:12,519 - Sure thing. - I will see you soon. Okay. 552 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,200 Female narrator: Coming up on "The 553 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,400 Real Housewives Of Durban..." 554 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,480 Is Diwali, um, like, a vegetarian event? 555 00:27:21,519 --> 00:27:24,279 - No meat, baby. - Oh, my Gosh! I love my meat. 556 00:27:24,319 --> 00:27:27,079 - I'm an O-positive. - Okay. 557 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,519 So it means I'm a wild carnivore. 558 00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:30,680 [laughs] 559 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,559 Babe, your flowers... I can't, right? 560 00:27:39,599 --> 00:27:42,039 Seriously, I think I've sent you so many texts saying that. 561 00:27:42,079 --> 00:27:45,920 You actually listened to me. So thank you for listening. 562 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,000 It's like, you know, it's, you're amazing. 563 00:27:48,039 --> 00:27:50,200 These flowers are mind-blowing. 564 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,359 [music continues] 565 00:28:02,839 --> 00:28:05,759 [Indian music] 566 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,119 - Good evening, ladies. - Hello. 567 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,160 When Sorisha invited me, um, 568 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,640 I invited Nonku to come along with me. 569 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,319 Ladies, welcome. Babes, look at you. 570 00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:43,039 - Oh, my gosh! - Amazing! 571 00:28:43,079 --> 00:28:47,279 Thank you. Thank you so much. This is Nonku, my friend. 572 00:28:47,319 --> 00:28:50,400 Nonku: My name is Nonkululeko Williams. 573 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:54,559 Ms. Williams. Believe it or not, I am 41. 574 00:28:54,599 --> 00:28:56,960 I know I look good, hey! [laughs] 575 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,960 I'm real like that, honey. What you see is what you get. 576 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,839 Um, I stay in Durban. 577 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,480 I stay at Hillcrest, to be precise. 578 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:06,960 I have three beautiful children. 579 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,240 I have one daughter and two boys. 580 00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:11,000 I'm a businesswoman. 581 00:29:11,039 --> 00:29:14,359 Self-employed, I do a whole lot of things. 582 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,400 But right now I have a construction company, 583 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,240 I have a logistics company 584 00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:22,240 and pretty soon I'll be launching 585 00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:24,000 a wine company. 586 00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:26,079 Like, no, like a brand wine. 587 00:29:26,119 --> 00:29:27,559 I love being my own boss. 588 00:29:27,599 --> 00:29:30,880 Honestly, I-- I don't see a need for a man. 589 00:29:32,559 --> 00:29:34,839 I was married for five years. 590 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,079 I didn't have a pleasant marriage at all. 591 00:29:38,119 --> 00:29:40,880 It was very bad, and I just thank God 592 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,559 that I finally had the courage to walk out of it. 593 00:29:44,599 --> 00:29:47,599 And I've never been happier. I've never looked back. 594 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,920 I'm enjoying my space right now. 595 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:51,519 [instrumental music] 596 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,519 And you look absolutely gorgeous. 597 00:29:54,559 --> 00:29:56,000 Thank you, darling. So do you. 598 00:29:56,039 --> 00:29:57,279 So do you. I hope you're hungry. 599 00:29:57,319 --> 00:29:59,359 Definitely, we saved our tummies for-- 600 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:00,599 [indistinct chatter] 601 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,079 Your home is beautiful, by the way. 602 00:30:02,119 --> 00:30:04,200 Thank you. Thanks so much, my love. 603 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,000 I am in love with this woman's bag. 604 00:30:07,039 --> 00:30:10,000 Um, she didn't dress Eastern like my invitation, 605 00:30:10,039 --> 00:30:14,359 but I'm assuming even, um, Thobe forgot to give her the invite. 606 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,400 But she's lovely. 607 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,359 Thank you for bringing me here. 608 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,519 - Thanks, twinnie. Thank you. - Ha-ha-ha. 609 00:30:24,559 --> 00:30:28,119 I needed this, oh, after hectic week I've had, you know? 610 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,319 We call each other twinnie 'cause, um, we're born 611 00:30:31,359 --> 00:30:35,160 on the same day, same date, same year. 612 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,319 [Indian music] 613 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,920 [upbeat music] 614 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,519 Ladies. 615 00:30:54,559 --> 00:30:56,839 Thobe: Look at you. - Kgomotso. 616 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,559 I know Kgomotso because she once did an event for me. 617 00:30:59,599 --> 00:31:02,079 Oh, my word. It has been a while, hey? 618 00:31:02,119 --> 00:31:04,599 - Yes, since your event. - I know. 619 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,400 And you did an amazing work there, hey. 620 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,640 - Thank you so much. - Because uh, this is beautiful. 621 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,599 I'm just admiring your outfit, you're like wow. 622 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,200 Okay, please can you also admire all my flowers? 623 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,000 - Hey... - It's, it's her. 624 00:31:16,039 --> 00:31:17,680 - Are you serious? - Yes. 625 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,079 - Oh, you do events? - She is the best in the game. 626 00:31:20,119 --> 00:31:21,200 - Yeah. - You do events? 627 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,519 She does events. 628 00:31:22,559 --> 00:31:24,119 Not just events, top ones. 629 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,599 There's nothing that I love and admire 630 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,319 like women that support one another. 631 00:31:27,359 --> 00:31:30,119 So she came in today holding flowers like this. 632 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,599 - Wow! - Like, literally like-- 633 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,759 - Your work is beautiful. - Like a professional. 634 00:31:33,799 --> 00:31:35,680 I must follow you on social media. 635 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,559 - Yeah. - We'll get to know, like to... 636 00:31:38,599 --> 00:31:40,480 No, you must use her services. Don't follow, use her-- 637 00:31:40,519 --> 00:31:42,599 - Of course, I will. - Yes, yes... 638 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,119 If you can give me something like this, 639 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:45,680 then definitely I'll use. 640 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,799 I love that Thobekile can make everything so serious, 641 00:31:48,839 --> 00:31:50,960 and, like, bring it, bring it back home, you know? 642 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,440 So she always reminds you about things. 643 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,599 When you, you start to be very airy-fairy, 644 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:56,880 she'll bring it back home. 645 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,839 So she's always very grounding for me. 646 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,559 Um, th-- that's something I like, because it's like 647 00:32:01,599 --> 00:32:04,680 I have very, various diverse girls in my life, 648 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,359 and Thobekile is that, "Mm-hmm, we gonna do it" 649 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,920 you know, kind of vibe, and I love that about her. 650 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,200 Nonku: So where did you actually get this outfit from? 651 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,480 Sorisha: Well, I told her about a store in Gateway... 652 00:32:14,519 --> 00:32:16,160 - Yes. Sorisha: When I met, we met-- 653 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,599 You should have told me, twinnie, though. 654 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:18,960 You should have told me, I mean, after-- 655 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,720 I didn't know you don't have this, you know... 656 00:32:20,759 --> 00:32:23,880 And I mean, I look beautiful as always. 657 00:32:26,559 --> 00:32:29,160 No, we, I think we complimented each other. 658 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,039 So what is on the menu, Sorisha? 659 00:32:33,079 --> 00:32:34,799 Um, okay, so here's the mains. 660 00:32:34,839 --> 00:32:36,839 These are the mains and then there's starters. 661 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,920 There's, um, like, uh, pooriand baja, 662 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,720 well, little edible, um, things, 663 00:32:42,759 --> 00:32:46,079 and these are like your, uh, buffet options. 664 00:32:46,119 --> 00:32:48,759 So, guys, you, um, I mentioned to you, Kgomotso, 665 00:32:48,799 --> 00:32:52,480 it was also Kgomotso's idea to have vegetarian. 666 00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:54,240 - Oh, oh, yeah? - She's smiling at me. 667 00:32:54,279 --> 00:32:55,519 [indistinct chatter] 668 00:32:55,559 --> 00:32:58,519 - No. - No, it wasn't my idea. 669 00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:00,839 Sorisha: No, it isn't her idea. Kgomotso: It is. No, no, wait. 670 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,960 So it's, uh, Diwali event... 671 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,400 - Yes, yes. - Right? 672 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,240 - The cuisine is vegetarian. Sorisha: Vegetarian. 673 00:33:06,279 --> 00:33:09,880 So is Diwali a, like a vegetarian event? 674 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:11,000 Well, because it's, uh... 675 00:33:11,039 --> 00:33:12,079 [all laughing] 676 00:33:12,119 --> 00:33:14,240 So there's no meat? 677 00:33:14,279 --> 00:33:16,640 Oh, my gosh, I love my meat. 678 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,480 I love my meat, you know? Like, you invite me, please... 679 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,519 - Guys, no meat? Sorisha: No meat, baby. 680 00:33:24,559 --> 00:33:26,720 - But, come on. - Not even chicken? 681 00:33:26,759 --> 00:33:29,039 No, that is meat. That falls under the classifi-- 682 00:33:29,079 --> 00:33:31,759 And seafood? Prawns? Oh, my God. 683 00:33:31,799 --> 00:33:33,799 - Sorry, I don't know. - Diwali doesn't have that. 684 00:33:33,839 --> 00:33:36,920 Anything that was moving with, uh, supposed heads, 685 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,400 we will not be eating tonight, specifically. 686 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,480 But I will specifically have another evening 687 00:33:41,519 --> 00:33:43,039 just for you, Nonks. 688 00:33:43,079 --> 00:33:45,319 And, no, there's no meat. 689 00:33:45,359 --> 00:33:48,119 - Okay. - Thobs, you'll be fine, right? 690 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,519 - No, I'll be fine. - Okay, great. 691 00:33:49,559 --> 00:33:50,759 [laughs] 692 00:33:50,799 --> 00:33:53,440 Just let it be noted that I'm actually, uh... 693 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,880 - I'm a O-positive. Sorisha: Okay. 694 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,440 So that means I'm a wild carnivore. 695 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,240 Sorisha: Wow. - I'm a meat-eater. 696 00:34:00,279 --> 00:34:02,039 [all laughing] 697 00:34:02,079 --> 00:34:03,799 Nonku: Yeah. 698 00:34:03,839 --> 00:34:06,759 [Indian music] 699 00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:14,440 Tonight I'm at Sorisha's house for the Diwali event. 700 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,480 This is where my dancers are gonna perform, 701 00:34:16,519 --> 00:34:18,599 so I'm super, super excited about that. 702 00:34:18,639 --> 00:34:21,320 Annie: And, you know, I'm gonna be with Kgomotso 703 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:22,719 and, you know, we might just have 704 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,599 like a young dinner and a good evening. 705 00:34:26,639 --> 00:34:28,440 - Oh, wow! - Oh, look at you. 706 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,639 She's so gorgeous. You're so gorgeous. 707 00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:33,239 You look stunning. I love that. 708 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,679 It's too gorgeous. Oh, I love the eyes. 709 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,760 [both laughing] 710 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,119 Annie's arrived. 711 00:34:38,159 --> 00:34:41,400 I love her take on Eastern chic. 712 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,320 And she had a lot of bronzer glow. 713 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:45,559 Hey, y'all. 714 00:34:45,599 --> 00:34:47,079 - Hi. - This is my friend Ann. 715 00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:48,840 - Hi, guys. - Hello, Ann. 716 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,239 Are we standing, are we hugging? What's going on? 717 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,719 We're shouldering, right? 718 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,960 [laughing] 719 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,239 - Ann. - Nice to meet you. 720 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,760 - Pleased to meet you, too. - This is Nonku. 721 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,159 Nonku is fabulous, you know? I love her outfit. 722 00:35:02,199 --> 00:35:06,119 Annie: Um, I just think she did not stick to the theme tonight. 723 00:35:06,159 --> 00:35:09,519 I love themes, guys, but maybe I overdid the theme, 724 00:35:09,559 --> 00:35:12,119 but she definitely did not do the theme. [laughs] 725 00:35:12,159 --> 00:35:15,280 [music continues] 726 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,199 Female narrator: Coming up on "The 727 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,360 Real Housewives Of Durban..." 728 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,440 This is the elephant that you're talking about, 729 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:26,880 the big elephant in the room. 730 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,320 [sighs] 731 00:35:31,079 --> 00:35:34,159 [dramatic music] 732 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:52,679 It looks like I'm literally entering... 733 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:54,800 India, Mumbai. 734 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,960 - Hello. How are you? - Oh, good evening. How are you? 735 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,559 - Very well. Welcome, Ayanda. - Very well. 736 00:35:59,599 --> 00:36:01,599 Come, come through, the ladies are waiting. 737 00:36:01,639 --> 00:36:03,760 When my husband was alive, it was easy. 738 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:08,280 "Hey, Mr. Reddy, how you doing, babe?" And I'll hug Viv. 739 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,440 Now you never know if, "Hey, Viv," 740 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,320 it's still the "Hey, Viv," you know? [laughs] 741 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,800 - Look at you. - Hello! 742 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,440 - Ladies. - Hello. 743 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,800 - Hi, everyone. - Hi, Sorisha. 744 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,880 - Oh, you look gorgeous. Mwah. - Mwah. 745 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,679 Oh, Ayanda looked fabulous, darling, shoo! 746 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,119 - How are you? - You look so relevant today. 747 00:36:30,159 --> 00:36:33,199 Outfit, it's just per-- perfect on you. 748 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,440 Today I'm, um, Aisha... 749 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,559 Ayanda looks like a hot Indian aunty. 750 00:36:41,599 --> 00:36:43,440 I-- I was joking about Aisha. 751 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,760 I'm actually... My name is Ayanda Ncwane. 752 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,280 [laughing] 753 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,960 - Thobe, stop. Nonku: Oh, I know you, Ayanda. 754 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,159 Ayanda: You know me? Nonku: Everybody knows you. 755 00:36:53,199 --> 00:36:55,199 [all laughing] 756 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,639 [indistinct chatter] 757 00:36:56,679 --> 00:36:58,199 I feel like everyone else at the table 758 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,559 doesn't get that, you know, something is going on here, 759 00:37:01,599 --> 00:37:03,760 because, it's like, they just brushed it off. 760 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,920 Nonku: I'm Nonku Williams. - Nonku Williams. 761 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,280 Lovely to meet you. 762 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:09,679 I think she's just pretending. 763 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,320 Aren't you gonna ask who I am? 764 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:13,679 Ayanda: You did. - She did. 765 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,960 You just did. You just told me who you are. 766 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,519 Okay, okay. It's fine, guys. Let's leave it there. It's fine. 767 00:37:18,559 --> 00:37:20,000 What? What is this? 768 00:37:20,039 --> 00:37:21,440 Oh, is there a bit more? 769 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,079 Exactly, is there anything? 770 00:37:23,119 --> 00:37:25,039 Do I get to know who you are, honey? 771 00:37:25,079 --> 00:37:28,440 Oh, my gosh, no. I don't wanna be honest, wench. No. 772 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,760 - No, my darling. No. - Yes? 773 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,519 We'll, we'll talk later. 774 00:37:31,559 --> 00:37:33,800 - But I just, um... - Ha-ha-ha. 775 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,599 We'll just have our own conversation. 776 00:37:35,639 --> 00:37:37,079 - Okay. - Yeah, but I'll just-- 777 00:37:37,119 --> 00:37:38,519 It's a pleasure to meet you. 778 00:37:38,559 --> 00:37:39,920 - What? - And cheers to that. 779 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,960 - Cheers to that. - Oh... 780 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,559 Hey... what's happening? 781 00:37:45,599 --> 00:37:48,559 But, no, we better be out of their conversation. 782 00:37:48,599 --> 00:37:50,119 [indistinct chatter] 783 00:37:50,159 --> 00:37:53,239 It has nothing to do, it has nothing to do with you, ladies. 784 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,719 It makes me curious as to why 785 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,519 she thinks Ayanda should know her. 786 00:37:59,559 --> 00:38:01,920 I don't know about you, but I'm ready to dance. 787 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,880 [singing in foreign language] 788 00:38:07,079 --> 00:38:08,639 Sorisha: The music is South Indian, 789 00:38:08,679 --> 00:38:12,159 and it has great significance and meaning to Diwali. 790 00:38:12,199 --> 00:38:15,559 So it's a dance of invocation, 791 00:38:15,599 --> 00:38:18,360 of celebrating the gods, of welcoming the gods. 792 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,840 [instrumental music] 793 00:38:24,559 --> 00:38:26,760 Apparently, a classical Indian dancer 794 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,440 is trained from when they're very young 795 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,679 to do these very intricate Indian dance moves. 796 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,800 [singing in foreign language] 797 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:43,320 I'm feeling very nervous, um, about providing this dancer, 798 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,639 because I have not seen the dance routine, 799 00:38:46,679 --> 00:38:48,360 I've not seen the outfits, 800 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,719 I'm not sure is this the right dancer, 801 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,559 is it the right dance style, 802 00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:55,960 did I find what exactly what she was looking for... 803 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,159 Um, is she at the right level? 804 00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:00,400 I'm very, very unsure right now 805 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,920 as to whether I'm doing the right thing. 806 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,400 [singing continues] 807 00:39:06,679 --> 00:39:07,719 [applause] 808 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,199 I think I shouldn't have said what I said. 809 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:13,519 - What did you say? - I mean... 810 00:39:13,559 --> 00:39:15,159 I was like, "Oh, you don't know me." 811 00:39:15,199 --> 00:39:17,639 I didn't mean it like that, you know? 812 00:39:17,679 --> 00:39:20,920 You know what I'm talking about. Be honest about this. 813 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,599 Okay... 814 00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:24,760 Right now 'cause I'm-- I'm lost. 815 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,119 Well, I, um, for one... 816 00:39:27,159 --> 00:39:29,360 Yes. 817 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,559 Didn't you feel this big elephant in the room? Like... 818 00:39:32,599 --> 00:39:35,679 What do you mean? I didn't feel any elephant, whatever. 819 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,840 It's okay, love. I need to go to the ladies room. 820 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,119 I'm so lost. 821 00:39:40,159 --> 00:39:43,360 Sorisha: Ladies and gentlemen, if we could turn our direction 822 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,800 to the garden... 823 00:39:46,039 --> 00:39:47,079 [fireworks bursting] 824 00:39:47,119 --> 00:39:48,480 Sorisha: Fireworks 825 00:39:48,519 --> 00:39:50,920 is something quite huge. 826 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,159 But the symbolism of fireworks 827 00:39:53,199 --> 00:39:56,559 is that Lord Rama is arriving 828 00:39:56,599 --> 00:40:00,159 after 14 years away from his kingdom. 829 00:40:00,199 --> 00:40:03,639 We are showing the lord that he can now come home again, 830 00:40:03,679 --> 00:40:05,840 and here we are, here is your landmark. 831 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,559 So the-- the skies literally light up 832 00:40:08,599 --> 00:40:10,559 to bring him home, to invite him home. 833 00:40:10,599 --> 00:40:12,039 Yeah. 834 00:40:12,079 --> 00:40:14,519 Do you not feel like there's, like, this eleph... 835 00:40:14,559 --> 00:40:16,440 - In the room. - Just hanging to... 836 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,239 Nonku: What elephant? - Ha-ha-ha... 837 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:20,280 Nonku: What elephant? - Guys... 838 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,000 I don't wanna seem forward there 839 00:40:22,039 --> 00:40:23,800 but it was a gist here. 840 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,840 Guys, I'm not really a forward person, you know? 841 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,440 I think that when you lay something on the table, 842 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,159 everybody needs to eat. 843 00:40:31,199 --> 00:40:33,280 - What was that you asked? - Heh-heh... 844 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,360 Referring to the fact that, uh, you said, uh, 845 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,920 "Don't you know me?" or something like that. 846 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,559 [speaking in foreign language] 847 00:40:45,599 --> 00:40:47,960 No, no, I'll take that back, I was just joking. 848 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,559 - I said... Yes. Annie: Oh, it was a joke? 849 00:40:50,599 --> 00:40:52,599 [fireworks bursting] 850 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,840 Oh, my gosh. I'm so annoyed with Anne. 851 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:59,440 At this stage I'm like... Just leave this alone. 852 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,519 - We're gonna be talking first. - Do you know what I mean? 853 00:41:01,559 --> 00:41:03,519 And then everyone is gonna start gossiping. 854 00:41:03,559 --> 00:41:05,280 So, so, so it's better-- 855 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:06,960 Hey, just get it from the horse's mouth. 856 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,159 - Because we don't know-- - Who's the horse? 857 00:41:08,199 --> 00:41:11,679 - We don't know-- - Ha-ha-ha! 858 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,320 You know what I mean, don't you? 859 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,719 - No, I don't. - Yeah. 860 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,760 We gonna be asking each other. 861 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,599 I'll ask Sorisha, I'll ask maybe Thobe... 862 00:41:19,639 --> 00:41:21,360 Annie: Baby, I've already asked Thobe. 863 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,559 - She refused to tell me. - What did you ask her? 864 00:41:24,599 --> 00:41:27,719 - I asked her if she knew you. - Oh, she's interested. 865 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,599 Annie: 'Cause I'm like, do you know her? 866 00:41:29,639 --> 00:41:31,639 You guys, I'm concerned. And why are you so curious? 867 00:41:31,679 --> 00:41:34,320 - There is anything you know? - Okay, are you not curious? 868 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,920 She was here. I'm pretty sure she was here. 869 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,199 She introduced you guys. 870 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:39,480 Nonku: Can we talk about the food? 871 00:41:39,519 --> 00:41:40,920 Can you talk about this chicken, guys? 872 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,440 I'm not the only one who's enjoying the chicken. 873 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,480 Kgomotso: No, we all enjoyed the chicken. 874 00:41:44,519 --> 00:41:47,519 Nonku: I'm still enjoying it. Can I enjoy the chicken? 875 00:41:47,559 --> 00:41:49,360 Ayanda, how's the chicken? 876 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,039 Ayanda: Honey, this is no chicken, baby. 877 00:41:51,079 --> 00:41:53,480 [indistinct chatter] 878 00:41:53,519 --> 00:41:57,039 It's-- it's-- it's a complete, um, vegetarian course. 879 00:41:57,079 --> 00:41:58,800 Nonku: No, just don't use the word vegetarian. 880 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,320 - Okay, it's chicken. - This is chicken. 881 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,119 Yes, that's what I said. I said just say chicken. 882 00:42:02,159 --> 00:42:04,400 Because, if you say vegetarian I'm, like, I'm bored already. 883 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,760 Because I'm so tired, I'm like, 884 00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,360 "Yes, Nonku, that is butter chicken." 885 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,039 Indian spices will make you eat literally anything. 886 00:42:13,079 --> 00:42:15,000 I love Indian biryani. 887 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,039 Indian biryani? 888 00:42:17,079 --> 00:42:19,800 [laughing] 889 00:42:21,119 --> 00:42:22,880 Thobe: How can it be Indian biryani? 890 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,480 Hey, Nonku, I must really take you to Indian restaurants. 891 00:42:26,519 --> 00:42:30,280 What has she been drinking? Thobe, can you check on... Wow! 892 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,400 [laughing] 893 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,960 [indistinct chatter] 894 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,159 Nonku, chew a carrot. 895 00:42:39,199 --> 00:42:40,440 [laughing] 896 00:42:42,159 --> 00:42:45,880 Like, for me, I think for me, when it comes to, uh, food... 897 00:42:47,199 --> 00:42:49,960 - It's Indian food. Yes. Nonku: Really? 898 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,360 Ayanda: It's Nigerian food. - I've never tasted Nigerian. 899 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,360 Ayanda: Honey, where have you been? 900 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,320 - In South Africa. - Me, too. Both born and bred. 901 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,119 [laughing] Like, it's-- it's-- it's actually-- 902 00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:02,599 [laughing] 903 00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:04,199 Come on, Nonku. 904 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,000 [laughing] 905 00:43:06,039 --> 00:43:08,639 Your husband was gifted, yo. He was a blessing. 906 00:43:08,679 --> 00:43:10,119 [speaking in foreign language] 907 00:43:10,159 --> 00:43:11,519 Not just to you and your family, but to-- 908 00:43:11,559 --> 00:43:12,760 Ayanda: Yeah, absolutely. 909 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,400 I know Sfiso as the Gospel artist. 910 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,719 Do I listen to Gospel? No. 911 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,239 - But you're so strong. - I'm telling you. 912 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,159 - I look strong. - Hm. 913 00:43:23,199 --> 00:43:25,320 Kgomotso: How do you deal with it? 914 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,119 It's different. 915 00:43:27,159 --> 00:43:28,519 When someone used to be your lover, 916 00:43:28,559 --> 00:43:30,559 your best friend, your business partner... 917 00:43:30,599 --> 00:43:31,760 [chuckles] 918 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:35,199 At the beginning you are literally sure 919 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,599 that you're going to crash. 920 00:43:36,639 --> 00:43:38,440 Oh, my gosh! How are the kids? 921 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:39,960 - Um, like... - I can imagine... 922 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:41,639 Ayanda: The kids-- - But they seem stronger. 923 00:43:41,679 --> 00:43:44,199 They, yes, the kid, the kids actually, 924 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,280 they recover very, very fast 925 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,079 'cause kids don't need God. 926 00:43:50,119 --> 00:43:52,840 When they lose their one parent, they need their mum. 927 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,320 I had a responsibility because, uh, had I crashed, 928 00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,559 it was going to affect them even more. 929 00:43:58,599 --> 00:43:59,960 And you had to deal with the media, 930 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,000 with all those throws that people were throwing. 931 00:44:02,039 --> 00:44:05,280 Ayanda: Actually, consciously and subconsciously 932 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,719 closed that, um... 933 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,760 I built the, I built the-- the-- the 934 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,360 the biggest wall ever to shut down from the media. 935 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,280 Everything that was written about me, 936 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,360 um, or was said about me in the media, 937 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,960 I made sure I don't read those nonsense. 938 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:23,360 But now if people telling you, how do you deal with that? 939 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,679 - Like, you might as well-- - Telling me? 940 00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,000 Okay, you can obviously not bluff. 941 00:44:27,039 --> 00:44:30,280 But the people, like, Thobe can just come to you and say... 942 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:33,920 I think, uh, I don't hang, 943 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,119 yeah, I don't hang around with dumb people. 944 00:44:36,159 --> 00:44:38,880 [laughing] Wow. 945 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:42,599 I think you're a brave woman and I salute you. 946 00:44:42,639 --> 00:44:45,199 And you're an incredible mom to your kids. 947 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,159 People don't tell you, oh, we don't tell 948 00:44:47,199 --> 00:44:48,960 each other that as women. 949 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,719 Um, being a single parent is not easy, I'm sure. 950 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,880 - Absolutely. - I'm not one, but I can tell... 951 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,920 - Such a brave woman. - Thank you. 952 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,039 Yeah, may God give you more strength. 953 00:44:59,079 --> 00:45:00,679 - Amen. - And He will. 954 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:02,440 And I just happened to come in there, 955 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,679 um, I don't know if you feel that, but 956 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,920 I think we can have a heart-to-heart... 957 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,039 When you started talking about Sfiso... 958 00:45:11,079 --> 00:45:14,039 Okay, let me just go back to that, and I think, 959 00:45:14,079 --> 00:45:16,559 this is, this is the elephant that you were talking about, 960 00:45:16,599 --> 00:45:18,000 the big elephant in the room. 961 00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:19,639 [intense music] 962 00:45:21,199 --> 00:45:24,119 I know, we-- we don't know each other, we've never met, 963 00:45:24,159 --> 00:45:26,760 but I know of you and I know that you know of me. 964 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,239 [fireworks bursting] 965 00:45:32,519 --> 00:45:35,559 [laughs] I'm so hot. 966 00:45:35,599 --> 00:45:39,559 Um, you know, you know about Nothile, my daughter. 967 00:45:39,599 --> 00:45:40,719 [sighs] 968 00:45:41,559 --> 00:45:43,360 And I know about who, 969 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,440 you know, so... 970 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:47,239 Well, Nothile, you know, um... 971 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,559 Obviously, she's Sfiso's, um... 972 00:45:50,599 --> 00:45:53,960 how do you call it, Sfiso's child. 973 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,079 Your late husband's child. 974 00:45:56,119 --> 00:45:58,559 [fireworks bursting] 975 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,599 [laughing] 976 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:06,960 [sighs] 977 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:08,599 You're aware of that. 978 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,960 So this is the Nonku. 979 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,119 [dramatic music] 980 00:46:15,159 --> 00:46:18,239 [fireworks bursting] 981 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,400 Female narrator: This season on 982 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,519 "The Real Housewives Of Durban..." 983 00:46:23,559 --> 00:46:27,760 Somebody made a grand entrance, like... 984 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,119 It was a big disaster. Can we be honest? 985 00:46:30,159 --> 00:46:33,880 Nonku-Nonku is actually the Nonku. 986 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,440 [upbeat music] 987 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,559 Wow! Ha-ha-ha! So much juice. 988 00:46:39,599 --> 00:46:41,960 * Oh oh oh oh you're prefect ** 989 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,920 [singing in foreign language] 990 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,119 - Hello. Oh, La... - This is Laconco. 991 00:46:46,159 --> 00:46:48,960 La-co-co-conco. 992 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,199 No dice, Laconco, just Google. 993 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,039 - Okay. - Alright! 994 00:46:54,079 --> 00:46:56,480 - Ah! - Nice! 995 00:46:56,519 --> 00:46:59,039 She just came at me like so. 996 00:46:59,079 --> 00:47:02,519 No, fam, you ask me. Ask me, ask me in future. 997 00:47:02,559 --> 00:47:04,599 - Don't, don't shout. - No, I'm actually pissed. 998 00:47:04,639 --> 00:47:06,880 I feel like Ann didn't like the surprise. 999 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,840 [dramatic music] 1000 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,239 [instrumental music] 1001 00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:19,840 Man 1: Oh, wait. I'm not... What? 1002 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,920 [upbeat music]