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[gentle guitar music playing]
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[Tia, singsongy] Hello?
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[footsteps]
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Hello?
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Can you see me from down there?
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Whoo.
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Hello!
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- See y'all, slowpokes.
- [laughing]
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Remember when Tia would
say we were hiking too slow,
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and she'd run ahead
and then wave goodbye like a lunatic?
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I don't remember because
I wasn't invited on hikes back then
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because you guys used to think
I was edgy and difficult.
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And now we don't.
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I am who I am.
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But look at our girl back in wild pants.
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Yeah, those are my favorite.
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Yeah, I'm trending up. [sighs]
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Rewatched the animated Hobbit,
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did my nails, tried to paint
little tiny swords on 'em.
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Turned out a little phallic. It looks
like a bunch of little Hobbit dicks.
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- [Liz] Mm-mmm.
- Now I got my man on his first hike.
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Yeah, I don't know about hiking.
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What? Do you just walk when it's hot?
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Sometimes your thighs chafe a little.
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- Can we stay on Gaby, please?
- [clicks tongue] Aw, thank you.
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So does that mean, uh,
you're coming back to work tomorrow?
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I'm still processing shit.
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She's processing shit, Jimmy.
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Jesus, back off, dude.
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Okay, why is everybody ganging up on me?
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- Funsies.
- I like hiking now.
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- [laughs] Yeah.
- Jimmy, I need, like,
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another week at least.
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What? Are you tired of
driving Paul around?
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It's just every morning
he makes me stop for "akaya."
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It's acai.
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And who introduced this guy
to Smash Mouth?
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Me.
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[Alice] Should I do something new
with my hair before college again?
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Maybe go blue or pink?
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Or you could be a total badass
and just shave it all off.
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- Mmm.
- Supporting that.
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People will think that you're a psycho
or, like, deathly ill.
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Either way, everyone's gonna let you do
whatever the hell you want, so, a win-win.
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- Hey, man.
- Hey.
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You finished your lunch,
like, an hour ago.
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What you still doing here?
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Maybe I'm just chilling with my peers.
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- Who's gonna break it to him?
- I got it.
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Brian, we love you,
but you're old, my guy.
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I am so close to slapping you right now.
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And anyway, I am not an old.
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Finish this sentence.
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- "Whoop..."
- There it is.
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Oh, damn it.
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Okay, fine. I needed a break from Charlie.
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We've been sleep training Sutton
and we're at each other's throats.
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Last night, he was being a bitch
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and I told him that he wasn't the father,
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which is inarguably true,
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but then he yelled back,
"Neither are you,"
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which was really just
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so hurtful.
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- Mmm.
- [phone buzzing]
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Oh, shit. It's Dre Thibodeaux.
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- Oh, that's a fun name.
- I know, right?
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It's a real firsty-lasty.
You gotta say both.
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Hey, Dre... Thibodeaux.
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- Told you.
- [chuckles]
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Okay. Sounds great.
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Mm-hmm. I'm sorry to hear that.
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Yeah, thanks for calling.
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Shit. Did you not get the job?
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No, his aunt died.
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But I got it. I fucking got it.
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I'm a sous-chef, baby!
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- Baby! Yes! [squealing]
- Whoo!
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[Marisol, Sean laughing]
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[Marisol] Oh, my God.
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- What?
- Oh, shit.
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Hey, Jorge doesn't know about this yet,
so cover me.
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Hey, what are you guys celebrating?
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Oh, um...
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my baby said her first words.
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- That's crazy.
- [laughs] Yeah.
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What did she say?
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[Brian] She said,
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"Dada so young."
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Dude, you were there when I was born.
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You have a landline.
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You still call it Czechoslovakia.
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Why? What happened?
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- Oh. Okay. [laughs]
- Mmm.
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Ooh. [smacks lips]
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I'm glad you were in the neighborhood.
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Well, maybe I wasn't in the neighborhood.
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Maybe I just wanted to see you.
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That's what I was hoping you would say.
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No, I was in the neighborhood.
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- Oh, goddamn it.
- [laughs]
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My Pilates is across the street.
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I would love to say
you'll be seeing me three times a week,
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but it's more like once every two weeks
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after I eat a bunch of donuts
and I hate myself.
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- Mmm.
- More whipped cream, please.
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Of course.
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- Hmm.
- [inhales deeply]
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So I have to wait
until you're filled with self-loathing
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until I get to see you again, huh?
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Yeah, but I can access that
at almost any time.
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- Cool. Me too.
- Okay. [laughs]
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Uh, how about tonight?
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[sighs] Shit.
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I rarely have anything going on, ever,
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but unfortunately,
my dad is coming into town tonight.
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Right. And meeting parents
might be too soon.
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I mean, you already met
my ex-husband and my kid
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and felt up my house bra a little,
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so maybe we're there.
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Listen, I'm not afraid of us
moving too quick.
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We're rule breakers.
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[laughs]
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Good morning, Jimmy.
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Morning, random woman.
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Paul, this is Sofi.
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Sofi, this is Paul,
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- my pimp.
- [laughing]
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Hey. I took a little fall this weekend.
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Julie made me use this.
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But go ahead, have your fun.
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You leave your fur coat
in the car? [laughs]
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I don't know why I said that.
I don't even know you.
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She's perfect for you.
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You don't mean that as a compliment,
do you?
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I do not. [laughs]
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[Sofi] Okay, well, I gotta get going.
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- I'll, uh... I'll talk to you soon. Okay.
- Okay.
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Mmm. Nice to meet you, Paul.
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[laughs] Nice to meet you.
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Wow.
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Oh, shut up.
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- [scoffs]
- What?
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I seem to remember someone at my wedding
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encouraging you to get back out there.
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I thought you might wanna thank
whoever did that for their wisdom.
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Thank you, Paul.
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I'm proud of you.
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Keep being brave.
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Gaby in yet? [sighs]
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She said she needed another week.
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Damn it. That's not good.
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I can go talk to her again if you want.
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No. I broke it. I'll fix it.
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If I have to,
I'll drag that woman back to work myself.
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That sounds like something
a pimp would say.
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Be cool, player.
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[all laughing]
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Any requests?
Give me a quarter, I'll play anything.
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Just name it.
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[guitar stops]
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- Hi.
- Hey. [sighs]
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Wow, full house, huh?
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Yeah, you know, I was stuck at home bored.
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I saw your dad walk up,
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and like you always say,
"Su casa es mi casa."
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I've never once said that.
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- Well, you should.
- Okay.
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You know, Jimmy plays piano.
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Yeah, we're all painfully aware.
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I'll take a little credit for that.
I, you know...
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One time I had tickets to see Billy Joel.
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My friend dropped out. And I, you know...
I thought, "I mean, I'll take Jimmy."
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You know, it was a school night.
His mom wasn't into it,
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but I wanted him to experience
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- the joy of live music, so...
- [Derek] Yeah.
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He was so blown away. He walked around
in a daze for, like, a week.
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I was not in a daze.
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I was traumatized.
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The 60-year-old woman standing next to me
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ripped off her panties
and threw 'em on stage.
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I saw things
no seven-year-old should ever see.
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Then I signed him up for piano lessons
and the rest is history.
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Her name was Valerie Schoenberger.
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[Derek] Now, that's a story.
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- I wish you were my dad.
- [laughing]
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That story reminds me.
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One time, I tried to get backstage
at an Ed Sheeran concert
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by saying I was his secret daughter.
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But turns out so many redheads do that
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that he has a paternity test guy
that travels with him.
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Who wants coffee?
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["Frightening Fishes"
by Benjamin Gibbard playing]
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{\an8}What are you guys doing tomorrow?
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{\an8}I'm, uh, picking up a new car
that needs a little love.
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{\an8}Thought we could spend the day
detailing her up, listening to some music.
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{\an8}As fun as providing free labor sounds,
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{\an8}we actually plan to buy stuff
for Alice's dorm room tomorrow.
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{\an8}Well, we can do that anytime.
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{\an8}I wanna do car stuff with Grandpa.
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{\an8}My bad. I-I forgot about
your passion for "car stuff."
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{\an8}Okay, yeah, you two should go do that.
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{\an8}I have, uh... I have plenty of work stuff
to catch up on, so...
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{\an8}Cool. Well, think I'll turn in early.
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{\an8}Derek wore me out when he gave me
ten bucks to play all that Steely Dan.
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{\an8}- He's fun.
- He seems to really enjoy you too, Dad.
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{\an8}All right, get some rest.
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{\an8}- [Alice] Bye, Grandpa.
- Catch you in a few.
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{\an8}- You know what's weird?
- Huh?
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{\an8}I can tell it bothers you
when other people like him.
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{\an8}What? No. Come on.
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{\an8}[inhales deeply] Okay, maybe a little.
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{\an8}Look, kiddo.
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{\an8}Grandpa's a charmer.
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{\an8}It means
people only get to see one side of him.
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{\an8}Look, Dad, it's my graduation week
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{\an8}and you two are all I've got,
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{\an8}so I just want us to be together.
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{\an8}Do the car stuff with us,
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{\an8}and please be chill with him, for me.
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{\an8}Anything for you.
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{\an8}- Thank you.
- Yeah.
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{\an8}You're still gonna get me that stuff
for my dorm room though, right?
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{\an8}Who needs twinkly lights
and a beanbag chair
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{\an8}when you have Grandpa's love?
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{\an8}Damn it.
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{\an8}Look, I appreciate the house call,
but I already know why you're here.
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{\an8}Oh, great. Then, I'll see you tomorrow.
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{\an8}Nice try.
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{\an8}Look, how about I just
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{\an8}- download you where I'm at?
- Hit me.
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{\an8}You know, I really let myself start
dreaming about that trauma center idea.
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{\an8}So now, the thought of just doing
the same old same old
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{\an8}feels like I'm going backwards,
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{\an8}and it depresses the hell out of me,
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{\an8}even though I crush that shit.
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{\an8}- You do crush that shit.
- Thank you.
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{\an8}I feel like I'm stuck on an island
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{\an8}like Tom Hanks in the movie
where he fucked that volleyball.
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{\an8}I'm not sure that happened.
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{\an8}What? He was there for two years.
What else was he gonna do with it?
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{\an8}Well, I'm not saying
he didn't fuck something.
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{\an8}I'm just saying
that I think him and Wilson were more...
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{\an8}friends.
244
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{\an8}Look, it is not going backwards
to do something you excel at.
245
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{\an8}[tender music playing]
246
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{\an8}This is my last week at work.
247
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Forever.
248
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And if you won't come back for yourself...
249
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do it for me.
250
00:10:15,157 --> 00:10:18,034
And-And if you... if you can't stand it,
and you quit in a month,
251
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you can come see me on my boat
in Connecticut and rub it in my face.
252
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- Okay.
- Okay.
253
00:10:27,085 --> 00:10:28,754
But I'm not ever coming to Connecticut.
254
00:10:29,254 --> 00:10:31,173
That place is just white privilege
and boat shoes.
255
00:10:32,049 --> 00:10:33,800
Don't mock my culture.
256
00:10:39,181 --> 00:10:40,431
[Derek] Hey, buddy.
257
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[playful music playing]
258
00:10:41,517 --> 00:10:42,892
I heard about the job.
259
00:10:42,893 --> 00:10:43,976
Congrats.
260
00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:45,645
Yeah, thanks, D.
261
00:10:45,646 --> 00:10:48,022
You can get excited with me.
My heart can take it.
262
00:10:48,023 --> 00:10:51,443
I'm just not allowed
to get excited in other ways.
263
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Sexually.
264
00:10:52,945 --> 00:10:55,905
I got it. [chuckles]
Think the whole neighborhood did.
265
00:10:55,906 --> 00:10:57,199
[chuckles]
266
00:10:58,450 --> 00:10:59,743
I'm just spinning.
267
00:11:00,244 --> 00:11:01,703
All right, let's talk it out.
268
00:11:02,371 --> 00:11:04,498
You wanna come up here,
or should I go down there?
269
00:11:05,082 --> 00:11:06,290
Are you kidding me?
270
00:11:06,291 --> 00:11:08,751
Man, this view is insane.
271
00:11:08,752 --> 00:11:11,879
- Hey, you wanna try peeing off the deck?
- Definitely.
272
00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,257
Absolutely not.
273
00:11:14,258 --> 00:11:18,303
You have to stop inviting people
up here to pee.
274
00:11:18,971 --> 00:11:20,429
Okay. Next time.
275
00:11:20,430 --> 00:11:22,223
No. No next time.
276
00:11:22,224 --> 00:11:23,724
[whispering] Next time.
277
00:11:23,725 --> 00:11:26,435
[normal voice]
So, uh, what's got you spinning?
278
00:11:26,436 --> 00:11:27,771
[sighs]
279
00:11:28,272 --> 00:11:30,022
I don't think I can take this job.
280
00:11:30,023 --> 00:11:31,190
May I butt in?
281
00:11:31,191 --> 00:11:34,068
Depends. Is it going to result
in me getting mad at you again?
282
00:11:34,069 --> 00:11:36,237
Certainly one of the possible outcomes.
283
00:11:36,238 --> 00:11:37,823
- Then pass.
- Ugh.
284
00:11:38,574 --> 00:11:40,033
[Derek] I thought this was your dream job.
285
00:11:40,951 --> 00:11:43,871
Do you remember when I said the universe
will tell you when you're ready?
286
00:11:44,538 --> 00:11:46,747
Well, you are so ready.
287
00:11:46,748 --> 00:11:51,419
The universe is dipping you in butter
and seasoning you with Lawry's.
288
00:11:51,420 --> 00:11:55,173
[clicks tongue] You got no idea
the shit I've been through with Jorge.
289
00:11:55,174 --> 00:11:58,176
- Shit you can't tell other people.
- Yeah.
290
00:11:58,177 --> 00:11:59,761
My truck goes away...
291
00:12:01,471 --> 00:12:02,472
He's got nothing.
292
00:12:03,056 --> 00:12:04,349
You're a good friend, Sean,
293
00:12:04,933 --> 00:12:06,142
but for once in your life,
294
00:12:06,143 --> 00:12:08,145
you have to put yourself first.
295
00:12:08,729 --> 00:12:11,147
- That's... It's hard for me, man.
- N-No, I get it.
296
00:12:11,148 --> 00:12:13,941
I'm-I'm not good at being selfish either.
297
00:12:13,942 --> 00:12:15,235
[sighs]
298
00:12:15,819 --> 00:12:17,862
We need to get some advice from an expert.
299
00:12:17,863 --> 00:12:19,322
[mischievous music playing]
300
00:12:19,323 --> 00:12:22,033
To what do you owe the pleasure?
301
00:12:22,034 --> 00:12:23,118
Told you.
302
00:12:24,953 --> 00:12:26,913
Suspension is a little loose.
303
00:12:26,914 --> 00:12:29,582
Alice, hand me
that GearWrench flex socket.
304
00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:31,000
No idea what that is.
305
00:12:31,001 --> 00:12:33,629
Oh, uh, it's the one that looks
like a flashlight with a hunchback.
306
00:12:34,213 --> 00:12:37,840
She's pretty, and she knows
her way around a toolbox. Jackpot.
307
00:12:37,841 --> 00:12:39,592
I mean, I know stuff too, Dad.
308
00:12:39,593 --> 00:12:41,552
Oh, you know stuff, huh?
309
00:12:41,553 --> 00:12:42,637
- Yeah.
- Okay.
310
00:12:42,638 --> 00:12:45,098
Uh, what's hula girl's story?
311
00:12:45,682 --> 00:12:47,726
Her name is Luna. She was born in Hawaii.
312
00:12:48,227 --> 00:12:50,520
She had one dream, to dance the hula,
313
00:12:50,521 --> 00:12:51,855
but she failed.
314
00:12:52,356 --> 00:12:53,648
'Cause she's too tiny.
315
00:12:53,649 --> 00:12:55,566
God, why am I getting so emotional?
316
00:12:55,567 --> 00:12:57,276
Yeah, it's a full-grown woman's game.
317
00:12:57,277 --> 00:12:58,528
If you ignore them, they stop
318
00:12:58,529 --> 00:12:59,821
on their own.
319
00:13:00,531 --> 00:13:03,032
This is a classy car, Grandpa.
What year is she?
320
00:13:03,033 --> 00:13:04,868
Or he? And have you named it yet?
321
00:13:05,452 --> 00:13:07,578
Sally is a she, '89.
322
00:13:07,579 --> 00:13:08,955
And what a year that was.
323
00:13:08,956 --> 00:13:10,706
Opened my first dealership.
324
00:13:10,707 --> 00:13:12,334
Goddamn Berlin Wall fell.
325
00:13:12,918 --> 00:13:15,963
Also, the year Jimmy hit a home run
326
00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:20,174
to win the Little League Championship
for his team,
327
00:13:20,175 --> 00:13:21,300
- the Badgers.
- Yeah.
328
00:13:21,301 --> 00:13:23,219
- Okay, Dad.
- [both chuckle]
329
00:13:23,220 --> 00:13:25,763
Met him at home plate.
We were celebrating so hard
330
00:13:25,764 --> 00:13:29,433
he didn't even realize
he hollered one of his baby teeth
331
00:13:29,434 --> 00:13:32,645
straight out of his mouth,
right into my shirt pocket.
332
00:13:32,646 --> 00:13:33,938
- [chuckles]
- No.
333
00:13:33,939 --> 00:13:37,233
Damn near gave his mom a heart attack
when she was doing the laundry that night.
334
00:13:37,234 --> 00:13:41,112
God, if I found someone else's
bloody tooth in my husband's pocket,
335
00:13:41,113 --> 00:13:43,406
I would think that he was a serial killer.
336
00:13:43,407 --> 00:13:45,741
She's funny too.
I-I think this one's a keeper.
337
00:13:45,742 --> 00:13:46,909
So are you.
338
00:13:46,910 --> 00:13:49,580
I-I mean, not for me. Uh, someone else.
339
00:13:50,330 --> 00:13:52,164
Sometimes, just thanks is enough.
340
00:13:52,165 --> 00:13:54,208
- [chuckles]
- Thanks. [chuckles]
341
00:13:54,209 --> 00:13:56,085
All right, I'm gonna grab us some waters.
342
00:13:56,086 --> 00:13:57,212
Cool.
343
00:13:59,006 --> 00:14:00,047
Ah, come on, kiddo.
344
00:14:00,048 --> 00:14:02,509
Let's, uh, tighten up some lug nuts.
345
00:14:09,391 --> 00:14:11,392
Oh, you're actually getting water.
346
00:14:11,393 --> 00:14:12,810
I thought that was code for
347
00:14:12,811 --> 00:14:15,647
let's let them do all the work. [laughs]
348
00:14:16,815 --> 00:14:17,816
I like him. [chuckles]
349
00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:19,735
Yeah, everybody does.
350
00:14:20,819 --> 00:14:21,819
Sorry. It's just...
351
00:14:21,820 --> 00:14:25,490
He likes to tell these idyllic stories
about my childhood that are like...
352
00:14:26,408 --> 00:14:27,533
almost true.
353
00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:30,536
So, you didn't hit a home run
to win a championship?
354
00:14:30,537 --> 00:14:32,289
Oh, no, I did. It was fucking awesome.
355
00:14:34,082 --> 00:14:37,336
No, it's just the fact that he was
there is just, like, totally random.
356
00:14:37,836 --> 00:14:40,087
- Oh.
- Look, when my dad was around,
357
00:14:40,088 --> 00:14:41,173
it was good.
358
00:14:43,008 --> 00:14:44,718
It just always seemed like he had
359
00:14:46,178 --> 00:14:48,555
- something else he had to do.
- Mmm.
360
00:14:49,556 --> 00:14:52,350
And then when Tia died,
he came to the funeral,
361
00:14:52,351 --> 00:14:53,936
and he gave this speech
362
00:14:54,686 --> 00:14:58,481
about how he was gonna
prioritize me and Alice
363
00:14:58,482 --> 00:15:00,275
and really be there for us.
364
00:15:00,776 --> 00:15:03,694
And then I don't know. Some, like,
super cool shit must've come up
365
00:15:03,695 --> 00:15:05,571
because we didn't see him again
for two years.
366
00:15:05,572 --> 00:15:07,324
- Wowza.
- Right?
367
00:15:07,908 --> 00:15:11,410
You're a 42-year-old therapist
with daddy issues.
368
00:15:11,411 --> 00:15:12,787
[sighs] Fuck. [chuckles]
369
00:15:12,788 --> 00:15:13,997
Look, I get it.
370
00:15:14,831 --> 00:15:16,624
Your dad did you dirty.
371
00:15:16,625 --> 00:15:18,918
Yeah, if it helps,
my mom texted me this morning
372
00:15:18,919 --> 00:15:20,920
that my haircut
only works on younger women.
373
00:15:20,921 --> 00:15:22,255
Oh, shit.
374
00:15:22,256 --> 00:15:25,174
But you are an adult, Jimmy,
and you're pretty great.
375
00:15:25,175 --> 00:15:26,634
- [chuckles]
- [chuckles]
376
00:15:26,635 --> 00:15:28,720
So your dad did do something right.
377
00:15:29,346 --> 00:15:32,598
Plus, Alice is graduating,
and I know you want to enjoy it,
378
00:15:32,599 --> 00:15:35,561
so maybe try to let go of the past.
379
00:15:36,478 --> 00:15:37,562
Who knows?
380
00:15:37,563 --> 00:15:39,730
You know, maybe he'll surprise you.
381
00:15:39,731 --> 00:15:43,359
I mean, look, he already surprised me
by even showing up for Alice's graduation.
382
00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,112
Yeah, okay.
383
00:15:46,488 --> 00:15:47,489
Oh, I almost forgot.
384
00:15:48,824 --> 00:15:50,658
- Your haircut's perfect.
- Thank God.
385
00:15:50,659 --> 00:15:52,369
We were almost over.
386
00:15:52,953 --> 00:15:55,496
I hear you, Lisa.
Who hasn't sent an angry text they regret?
387
00:15:55,497 --> 00:15:57,498
Did I once text this guy
who stood me up on a date,
388
00:15:57,499 --> 00:15:58,875
"Screw you, skinny bald bitch.
389
00:15:58,876 --> 00:16:00,418
You look like Slender Man anyway"?
390
00:16:00,419 --> 00:16:01,586
- Yes.
- [laughs]
391
00:16:01,587 --> 00:16:03,338
Was I at the wrong TGI Fridays?
392
00:16:03,839 --> 00:16:05,006
- Also, yes.
- [laughing]
393
00:16:05,007 --> 00:16:07,258
[chuckles] The key is getting to a place
394
00:16:07,259 --> 00:16:09,510
where you can sit with
your discomfort, okay?
395
00:16:09,511 --> 00:16:11,471
Instead of popping off
in the heat of the moment.
396
00:16:12,055 --> 00:16:13,514
In the meantime, you have my number.
397
00:16:13,515 --> 00:16:16,475
When you get that urge, I want you
to send all your angry texts to me.
398
00:16:16,476 --> 00:16:19,145
Just start it with "Not About Gaby,"
so I remember not to come back at you,
399
00:16:19,146 --> 00:16:21,314
- all right?
- [laughing] Yeah, I will. Thanks.
400
00:16:21,315 --> 00:16:23,692
It's really good to have you back.
401
00:16:24,568 --> 00:16:25,651
It's good to be back.
402
00:16:25,652 --> 00:16:27,571
[upbeat music playing]
403
00:16:29,489 --> 00:16:31,490
Too late. I saw that.
404
00:16:31,491 --> 00:16:33,326
Okay, fine. Yeah,
405
00:16:33,327 --> 00:16:36,412
I'm a rock star, okay.
If there's a Mount Rushmore of therapists,
406
00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:39,498
it would be Freud, Jung,
Lucy from Charlie Brown, and me.
407
00:16:39,499 --> 00:16:41,959
Like I said, just say the word.
408
00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:43,419
All this could be yours.
409
00:16:43,420 --> 00:16:44,755
How would that even work?
410
00:16:45,923 --> 00:16:47,089
Do I get your desk?
411
00:16:47,090 --> 00:16:48,174
Your office?
412
00:16:48,175 --> 00:16:49,258
Julie?
413
00:16:49,259 --> 00:16:51,802
Because if so, I'm spending most
of my time oiling up those gams
414
00:16:51,803 --> 00:16:54,431
and using them as a Slip 'N Slide,
nah mean? [chuckles]
415
00:16:55,349 --> 00:16:56,432
- No worries.
- Sit.
416
00:16:56,433 --> 00:16:57,851
Okay.
417
00:16:58,810 --> 00:17:00,521
That was more graphic
than I thought it'd be.
418
00:17:02,356 --> 00:17:04,650
I've spent my life doing this work.
419
00:17:05,358 --> 00:17:07,694
Learning, refining.
420
00:17:08,278 --> 00:17:10,531
Because I've seen
how much it helps people,
421
00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,991
and I've been thinking about how you said
422
00:17:13,992 --> 00:17:17,870
I've become more of a mentor to you
in the last couple of years.
423
00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:19,038
Yeah?
424
00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:23,961
It would mean the world to me
if I could share my knowledge with you
425
00:17:24,711 --> 00:17:28,257
so that you could carry it forward.
426
00:17:30,759 --> 00:17:31,843
What do I get out of it?
427
00:17:31,844 --> 00:17:36,138
What do you get out of me offering to...
share my wisdom?
428
00:17:36,139 --> 00:17:37,473
You tipped your hand.
429
00:17:37,474 --> 00:17:38,766
You want it too badly.
430
00:17:38,767 --> 00:17:39,852
Fine.
431
00:17:40,352 --> 00:17:41,353
What are your terms?
432
00:17:41,979 --> 00:17:43,479
You got to work around my schedule.
433
00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:44,897
- You gotta occasionally admit...
- Okay.
434
00:17:44,898 --> 00:17:45,982
...that I have good ideas,
435
00:17:45,983 --> 00:17:49,110
and you have to take me
to an expensive sushi lunch.
436
00:17:49,111 --> 00:17:50,736
None of that boring spicy tuna stuff.
437
00:17:50,737 --> 00:17:52,822
I'm talking blowfish
that can kill you type shit.
438
00:17:52,823 --> 00:17:55,950
Agreed on two conditions.
439
00:17:55,951 --> 00:17:59,204
You got to let me have one sake
without telling on me.
440
00:17:59,705 --> 00:18:00,955
And two,
441
00:18:00,956 --> 00:18:03,833
you got to put me up
on your Mount Rushmore,
442
00:18:03,834 --> 00:18:05,210
swap me out for Freud.
443
00:18:07,713 --> 00:18:08,714
Deal.
444
00:18:11,091 --> 00:18:13,134
Okay, this is fun
because I bet a bunch of my friends
445
00:18:13,135 --> 00:18:16,638
that I could riff a TED Talk
and absolutely slay,
446
00:18:17,139 --> 00:18:20,517
which I am allowed to say
because I am not old.
447
00:18:22,102 --> 00:18:24,396
[sighs] Okay, here we go. [clears throat]
448
00:18:27,566 --> 00:18:28,567
Selfishness.
449
00:18:29,276 --> 00:18:32,529
I, Brian Lorenzo, am a selfish person.
450
00:18:33,447 --> 00:18:34,698
Selfish people
451
00:18:36,408 --> 00:18:37,783
are winners.
452
00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:40,536
How many times have we
all thought to ourselves...
453
00:18:40,537 --> 00:18:44,290
[groans] ..."If only I would go after
the things that I really want.
454
00:18:44,291 --> 00:18:48,002
But unlike this handsome
young gay man before me,
455
00:18:48,003 --> 00:18:51,672
I am burdened by thoughts of
being a good person,
456
00:18:51,673 --> 00:18:53,799
of putting others first,
457
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,802
of not grabbing someone
named Angela's coffee
458
00:18:56,803 --> 00:18:59,889
if their order is similar enough to mine
and I'm ready to leave."
459
00:18:59,890 --> 00:19:01,683
- [sighs]
- News flash.
460
00:19:02,267 --> 00:19:05,645
We are all already selfish people.
461
00:19:05,646 --> 00:19:07,396
[imitates opening
of Beethoven's Symphony No. 5]
462
00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:11,318
- Yep.
- Even Mother Teresa was selfish.
463
00:19:11,818 --> 00:19:17,783
She only helped others because
it's what brought her the most joy.
464
00:19:18,575 --> 00:19:21,745
The point is,
Mother Teresa and I are the same.
465
00:19:22,329 --> 00:19:24,956
Whatever makes me happiest,
I fucking go for it,
466
00:19:24,957 --> 00:19:26,749
just like that crazy nun.
467
00:19:26,750 --> 00:19:29,710
If I wanna eat something, I eat it.
If I want to buy something, I buy it.
468
00:19:29,711 --> 00:19:31,796
If I want to have sex
with a hot stranger, I...
469
00:19:31,797 --> 00:19:33,172
Actually, I don't do that anymore,
470
00:19:33,173 --> 00:19:36,008
and I imagine neither does Mother Teresa.
471
00:19:36,009 --> 00:19:37,635
- Well...
- And you want to know something?
472
00:19:37,636 --> 00:19:41,430
All that energy that I get
from treating myself like a fucking prince
473
00:19:41,431 --> 00:19:45,601
fuels me
to be there for Charlie and Sutton.
474
00:19:45,602 --> 00:19:49,356
I mean, how can I be
any good for anyone in my life
475
00:19:50,232 --> 00:19:51,775
if I'm not happy myself?
476
00:19:52,276 --> 00:19:55,194
Bingo! He finally
said something that mattered.
477
00:19:55,195 --> 00:19:56,821
- I caught it.
- All right.
478
00:19:56,822 --> 00:19:58,281
Oh, shit, I should have recorded it.
479
00:19:58,282 --> 00:20:00,533
- Okay. Here we go. From the top.
- Okay. Thanks for the scone.
480
00:20:00,534 --> 00:20:03,953
[clears throat] I, Brian Lorenzo, am a s...
481
00:20:03,954 --> 00:20:07,582
Oh, I see. You got what you wanted
and so now you're just leaving, huh?
482
00:20:07,583 --> 00:20:08,791
Ha!
483
00:20:08,792 --> 00:20:09,917
I taught them that.
484
00:20:09,918 --> 00:20:11,794
All right, what do we think?
485
00:20:11,795 --> 00:20:13,713
Oh, she is ready to go.
486
00:20:13,714 --> 00:20:15,215
Yeah, she's looking slick.
487
00:20:15,716 --> 00:20:17,258
Yeah, yeah, boy.
488
00:20:17,259 --> 00:20:18,968
This hot rod,
489
00:20:18,969 --> 00:20:20,720
it's gonna be taking off,
490
00:20:20,721 --> 00:20:23,015
vrooming through the...
through these avenues.
491
00:20:24,016 --> 00:20:26,434
Grandpa, you're gonna be
a real lady magnet driving this thing.
492
00:20:26,435 --> 00:20:29,395
Well, I'll have to rely on
my looks, kiddo,
493
00:20:29,396 --> 00:20:30,772
'cause it's not my car.
494
00:20:31,481 --> 00:20:33,357
- It's yours.
- What?
495
00:20:33,358 --> 00:20:36,278
[chuckling] Are you serious? I mean...
496
00:20:37,988 --> 00:20:38,989
Um...
497
00:20:39,823 --> 00:20:41,532
This is so incredibly kind of you,
498
00:20:41,533 --> 00:20:43,243
but Dad already got me a car.
499
00:20:44,453 --> 00:20:45,454
For her birthday.
500
00:20:46,038 --> 00:20:49,208
It's the same, uh, yellow Mini Cooper
that Tia drove when she was a kid.
501
00:20:49,791 --> 00:20:51,626
It's how Sofi and I met.
She sold it to me.
502
00:20:51,627 --> 00:20:52,710
Yeah, sucker. [chuckles]
503
00:20:52,711 --> 00:20:54,629
Well, now I feel like an idiot.
504
00:20:54,630 --> 00:20:57,173
Look, I wa... I wasn't trying
to step on any toes here.
505
00:20:57,174 --> 00:20:58,258
This is just
506
00:20:59,092 --> 00:21:02,678
my way of apologizing for life getting
in the way of me being around more
507
00:21:02,679 --> 00:21:03,763
the last few years.
508
00:21:03,764 --> 00:21:05,431
Anyway, I mean, maybe you could have,
509
00:21:05,432 --> 00:21:07,642
uh, an East Coast car
and a West Coast car.
510
00:21:07,643 --> 00:21:10,520
Or I don't know,
feel free to just sell this one.
511
00:21:10,521 --> 00:21:11,854
I'm going to keep it. [chuckles]
512
00:21:11,855 --> 00:21:13,564
Thank you so much, Grandpa.
513
00:21:13,565 --> 00:21:15,441
- I love it. Thank you.
- Oh. [chuckles]
514
00:21:15,442 --> 00:21:16,901
You're welcome.
515
00:21:16,902 --> 00:21:17,985
[Alice] And thank you, Dad.
516
00:21:17,986 --> 00:21:19,820
Yeah, are you kidding? How cool.
517
00:21:19,821 --> 00:21:21,782
[tender music playing]
518
00:21:23,033 --> 00:21:26,869
This car is going to be
a real conversation starter with the boys.
519
00:21:26,870 --> 00:21:29,914
I can't wait to meet all the guys who
are gonna come up and explain it to me.
520
00:21:29,915 --> 00:21:32,208
Okay, so what was the name of
the last tool you mentioned?
521
00:21:32,209 --> 00:21:33,501
Space anger?
522
00:21:33,502 --> 00:21:34,919
Cosmic rage.
523
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,129
It's when you feel attacked or judged.
524
00:21:37,130 --> 00:21:38,756
Paul, these names are wild.
525
00:21:38,757 --> 00:21:40,800
- The Vortex, the Black Sun...
- [chuckles]
526
00:21:40,801 --> 00:21:41,884
...Projection Dissolving.
527
00:21:41,885 --> 00:21:44,512
Be honest,
how much weed was you smoking back then?
528
00:21:44,513 --> 00:21:46,097
- Maybe just a little.
- Mm-hmm.
529
00:21:46,098 --> 00:21:48,808
- Look, let me rename one of these.
- Okay,
530
00:21:48,809 --> 00:21:50,852
but it can't contain the word ho.
531
00:21:50,853 --> 00:21:53,020
We're going to negotiate that tomorrow.
We have all week.
532
00:21:53,021 --> 00:21:55,648
What? [stammers]
I can't get through all this in a week.
533
00:21:55,649 --> 00:21:58,861
You're going to have to keep
in touch with me even after I move.
534
00:21:59,444 --> 00:22:02,698
What I'm thinking is first thing
in the morning, a couple of hours on Zoom.
535
00:22:03,198 --> 00:22:04,866
[Gaby] You should've seen
how happy he was.
536
00:22:04,867 --> 00:22:07,869
The upside is I'm making him take me
to an expensive-ass omakase.
537
00:22:07,870 --> 00:22:09,370
- You can come too.
- Konnichiwa!
538
00:22:09,371 --> 00:22:10,997
Nope, bad Liz.
539
00:22:10,998 --> 00:22:13,165
Why? I took Japanese in college.
540
00:22:13,166 --> 00:22:14,917
- No, you didn't.
- I didn't.
541
00:22:14,918 --> 00:22:16,794
The weird thing is,
I expected him to call me out
542
00:22:16,795 --> 00:22:19,213
for being a chickenshit
and bailing on my trauma work,
543
00:22:19,214 --> 00:22:20,548
but he didn't.
544
00:22:20,549 --> 00:22:22,718
It's like he also knows
I'm not cut out for that stuff.
545
00:22:25,262 --> 00:22:26,513
- What?
- Nothing.
546
00:22:28,473 --> 00:22:30,141
What the fuck are you doing?
547
00:22:30,142 --> 00:22:33,519
Why do I always have to come in here
and yell at you about Gaby?
548
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,190
'Cause you're a sociopath
and you got no boundaries.
549
00:22:36,857 --> 00:22:38,192
Get the hell out of my office.
550
00:22:38,942 --> 00:22:39,943
Huh.
551
00:22:40,569 --> 00:22:43,362
You're in the covenant of the rock.
552
00:22:43,363 --> 00:22:45,531
- Do you want to keep this?
- [stammers]
553
00:22:45,532 --> 00:22:47,868
Then sit your ass down and listen to me.
554
00:22:49,703 --> 00:22:50,704
[scoffs]
555
00:23:01,965 --> 00:23:04,218
- Hey.
- Hey.
556
00:23:05,636 --> 00:23:07,136
It's very cool what you did for Alice.
557
00:23:07,137 --> 00:23:09,222
Well, she's my only granddaughter.
558
00:23:09,223 --> 00:23:10,765
I don't just mean the car though.
559
00:23:10,766 --> 00:23:13,434
What you said and...
and being here for graduation.
560
00:23:13,435 --> 00:23:14,686
I know it means the world to her.
561
00:23:15,646 --> 00:23:17,231
It does to me too, Dad.
562
00:23:18,148 --> 00:23:19,816
- Well, I'm glad.
- Mm-hmm.
563
00:23:21,485 --> 00:23:23,237
About graduation, uh...
564
00:23:24,071 --> 00:23:26,364
Won't actually be able
to make the ceremony.
565
00:23:26,365 --> 00:23:28,491
A buddy of mine invited me
deep-sea fishing
566
00:23:28,492 --> 00:23:29,951
off the coast of Catalina.
567
00:23:29,952 --> 00:23:32,454
This is once in a lifetime.
568
00:23:33,038 --> 00:23:34,497
So is her graduation day.
569
00:23:34,498 --> 00:23:37,626
Come on, it's...
[stammers, laughs] It's high school.
570
00:23:38,126 --> 00:23:42,381
I mean, besides, she is so happy
with the car, she'll understand.
571
00:23:43,966 --> 00:23:45,132
Have you told Alice yet?
572
00:23:45,133 --> 00:23:46,926
Probably better to wait
till I'm heading out.
573
00:23:46,927 --> 00:23:48,344
You know, say something came up.
574
00:23:48,345 --> 00:23:50,805
She's a cool kid.
She won't even think twice about it.
575
00:23:50,806 --> 00:23:51,890
Dad...
576
00:23:52,474 --> 00:23:55,059
Let's go to Summer's.
I want to show her my new whip.
577
00:23:55,060 --> 00:23:58,312
I love being a part of your life, Alice,
but it's her or me.
578
00:23:58,313 --> 00:23:59,981
Fine, let's get ice cream.
579
00:23:59,982 --> 00:24:01,400
Come on, Sofi's in the car.
580
00:24:03,235 --> 00:24:04,236
You know,
581
00:24:06,029 --> 00:24:10,116
I know Tia and I didn't get along,
but I get good vibes off Sofi.
582
00:24:10,117 --> 00:24:12,118
I really like this one.
583
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,246
Honestly, she may even be
a better fit for you.
584
00:24:15,247 --> 00:24:16,331
[clicks tongue]
585
00:24:21,879 --> 00:24:24,672
I get the whole legacy thing.
586
00:24:24,673 --> 00:24:28,467
I would kill to have a daughter
who could carry on my tradition
587
00:24:28,468 --> 00:24:32,597
of being simultaneously difficult
and well loved.
588
00:24:32,598 --> 00:24:36,058
I just thought you were more of a, like,
589
00:24:36,059 --> 00:24:38,687
legacy schmegacy kind of guy.
590
00:24:39,271 --> 00:24:45,318
Please don't confuse your sadness over
having three very charming but dumb boys
591
00:24:45,319 --> 00:24:48,697
with my wanting to pass on my life's work.
592
00:24:49,281 --> 00:24:51,617
Only two of them are dumb.
593
00:24:52,367 --> 00:24:53,659
- Oh.
- Listen,
594
00:24:53,660 --> 00:24:57,914
all Gaby wanted was for you
to just call her out
595
00:24:57,915 --> 00:25:00,333
on running away from her dream,
596
00:25:00,334 --> 00:25:03,794
and you didn't
because you're being selfish.
597
00:25:03,795 --> 00:25:05,546
Thank you for your input.
598
00:25:05,547 --> 00:25:08,758
I can't deal with you right now.
I've got a patient coming in.
599
00:25:08,759 --> 00:25:11,928
I'm happy to leave
'cause now I'm in your head,
600
00:25:11,929 --> 00:25:17,100
and when it hits you that I'm right,
you're gonna be so mad.
601
00:25:17,726 --> 00:25:20,062
It's gonna blow your mind.
602
00:25:20,562 --> 00:25:22,104
- Mic drop.
- [sighs]
603
00:25:22,105 --> 00:25:23,731
Oh, wait. Sorry. Gotta pick that up.
604
00:25:23,732 --> 00:25:25,692
- Mic to the head.
- Hey.
605
00:25:26,777 --> 00:25:28,153
You... You could have hurt me.
606
00:25:28,737 --> 00:25:32,658
I would rather give you a concussion
than kill someone's dream.
607
00:25:33,158 --> 00:25:34,158
Double mic drop.
608
00:25:34,159 --> 00:25:36,619
You can't do multiple mic drops.
609
00:25:36,620 --> 00:25:38,162
What? What's...
610
00:25:38,163 --> 00:25:39,706
You know what's in my pocket?
611
00:25:40,290 --> 00:25:41,291
Triple.
612
00:25:44,002 --> 00:25:46,171
[sighs]
613
00:25:47,005 --> 00:25:49,882
And I get that it's last minute,
but the job starts next week,
614
00:25:49,883 --> 00:25:51,717
and I still got enough cash
to pay you for the...
615
00:25:51,718 --> 00:25:52,802
Are you fucking kidding me?
616
00:25:52,803 --> 00:25:55,888
What? You think paying me off
is gonna make me feel better about it?
617
00:25:55,889 --> 00:25:58,307
Bruh, what happened to
having each other's backs?
618
00:25:58,308 --> 00:26:00,352
I looked out for you.
619
00:26:01,019 --> 00:26:03,271
Overseas, when Marisol
tore your little heart out,
620
00:26:03,272 --> 00:26:06,524
I pulled double duty
to cover for your ass, pal.
621
00:26:06,525 --> 00:26:08,860
Why do you do this
to everybody in your life?
622
00:26:08,861 --> 00:26:10,486
[distorted]
Everyone you've ever cared about,
623
00:26:10,487 --> 00:26:12,196
you do the same fucking thing.
624
00:26:12,197 --> 00:26:14,240
[Sean] And he just kept yelling
625
00:26:14,241 --> 00:26:16,492
and normally that's when
shit will go all white
626
00:26:16,493 --> 00:26:18,536
- and I start to lose myself...
- [mouthing] Fuck you.
627
00:26:18,537 --> 00:26:19,662
...but I didn't.
628
00:26:19,663 --> 00:26:21,289
I mean, it was awful.
629
00:26:21,290 --> 00:26:22,999
He threw shrimp at me
630
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,001
and he called me "pal."
631
00:26:25,002 --> 00:26:28,421
Pal? It's like
when the deli guy calls me "chief."
632
00:26:28,422 --> 00:26:30,174
Exactly, it's the worst.
633
00:26:31,758 --> 00:26:33,092
But I stayed zen.
634
00:26:33,093 --> 00:26:34,510
Good.
635
00:26:34,511 --> 00:26:35,846
It's all you, Paul.
636
00:26:36,513 --> 00:26:37,763
All this free therapy.
637
00:26:37,764 --> 00:26:38,848
[groans]
638
00:26:38,849 --> 00:26:42,351
Hey, how much do you think it would
have cost if you actually charged me?
639
00:26:42,352 --> 00:26:43,979
A hundred and twenty grand.
640
00:26:44,563 --> 00:26:46,106
Not that I'm keeping track.
641
00:26:48,066 --> 00:26:49,067
[sighs]
642
00:26:49,693 --> 00:26:51,778
Still can't believe
this is our last session.
643
00:26:53,363 --> 00:26:55,449
- Any final tools?
- Yeah.
644
00:26:57,492 --> 00:26:59,493
This one's called... [sighs]
645
00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,745
...a hug.
646
00:27:00,746 --> 00:27:03,456
[chuckles] Come here, man.
647
00:27:03,457 --> 00:27:06,335
[chuckles, sighs]
648
00:27:08,378 --> 00:27:09,421
Are you really that corny?
649
00:27:10,005 --> 00:27:11,423
No, but I know that you are.
650
00:27:12,883 --> 00:27:17,596
It's been a privilege to watch
how much you've changed
651
00:27:18,305 --> 00:27:19,764
and grown.
652
00:27:19,765 --> 00:27:21,058
Not just me, Paul.
653
00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:24,686
You've changed. So much.
654
00:27:25,604 --> 00:27:28,065
Come on, man. I barely even recognize you.
655
00:27:31,777 --> 00:27:32,819
[door opens]
656
00:27:33,779 --> 00:27:35,571
[sighs] Fucking Liz.
657
00:27:35,572 --> 00:27:36,698
[door closes]
658
00:27:39,076 --> 00:27:40,369
Goddamn it.
659
00:27:46,083 --> 00:27:48,544
Hey, there you are.
660
00:27:49,795 --> 00:27:50,879
Everything okay?
661
00:27:52,256 --> 00:27:53,923
My dad's not coming to graduation.
662
00:27:53,924 --> 00:27:55,716
Wait, what do you mean? He's... He's here.
663
00:27:55,717 --> 00:27:57,845
Yeah. A fishing trip came up.
664
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,764
Was it at least an emergency fishing trip?
665
00:28:01,348 --> 00:28:02,808
- [chuckles]
- Too soon.
666
00:28:04,142 --> 00:28:05,519
I'm really sorry, Jimmy.
667
00:28:06,478 --> 00:28:08,230
Don't be. I mean, it's what he does.
668
00:28:09,022 --> 00:28:10,523
- Should have known better.
- [sighs]
669
00:28:10,524 --> 00:28:15,112
I should have just kept my mouth shut
and-and stayed out of it.
670
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,489
[sighs]
671
00:28:19,283 --> 00:28:20,325
What's this?
672
00:28:22,411 --> 00:28:24,120
- What?
- The shutting down thing.
673
00:28:24,121 --> 00:28:25,622
I'm not shutting down.
674
00:28:26,206 --> 00:28:28,082
Look, if you're upset with me,
we can talk about it.
675
00:28:28,083 --> 00:28:29,375
[stammers, sighs]
676
00:28:29,376 --> 00:28:31,211
I don't wanna talk about it.
I'm good, okay?
677
00:28:31,795 --> 00:28:33,880
I mean... [chuckles]
678
00:28:33,881 --> 00:28:36,883
You were married a long time.
Is this how you always handled conflict?
679
00:28:36,884 --> 00:28:39,678
Tia and I saw eye to eye on most things,
680
00:28:40,262 --> 00:28:41,889
especially when it came to my dad.
681
00:28:42,931 --> 00:28:44,349
That's what I miss most about her.
682
00:28:45,642 --> 00:28:48,477
The thing you miss most about your wife
is that she didn't like your dad.
683
00:28:48,478 --> 00:28:49,646
One of the things.
684
00:28:51,064 --> 00:28:52,231
- Top five.
- Okay.
685
00:28:52,232 --> 00:28:53,317
Okay.
686
00:28:54,401 --> 00:28:55,568
[clicks tongue]
687
00:28:55,569 --> 00:28:56,737
Uh...
688
00:28:57,946 --> 00:29:01,490
[chuckles] Well, you're definitely
tapping into one of my fears,
689
00:29:01,491 --> 00:29:03,702
so I'm just... I'm gonna say it, um...
690
00:29:05,037 --> 00:29:07,706
I feel like throwing your wife
in my face isn't fair.
691
00:29:09,041 --> 00:29:11,543
Is this something
I'm just gonna have to deal with?
692
00:29:12,753 --> 00:29:13,879
I'm not ready for this.
693
00:29:16,423 --> 00:29:17,549
I'm not ready for us.
694
00:29:18,300 --> 00:29:19,885
I really thought I was. I'm sorry.
695
00:29:21,178 --> 00:29:22,179
I'm not.
696
00:29:22,679 --> 00:29:25,056
[melancholy music plays]
697
00:29:25,057 --> 00:29:26,892
- Wow.
- [sighs]
698
00:29:29,728 --> 00:29:32,022
We really did move quick, didn't we?
699
00:29:37,819 --> 00:29:38,820
Okay.
700
00:29:44,451 --> 00:29:45,619
[sighs]
701
00:29:55,420 --> 00:29:58,131
From my first day at Bellevue,
702
00:29:59,091 --> 00:30:00,758
I was uncomfortable.
703
00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:01,843
Nervous.
704
00:30:01,844 --> 00:30:04,011
I'm working here.
You're just gonna dive into a story,
705
00:30:04,012 --> 00:30:05,597
not even explain yourself? What the hell?
706
00:30:06,181 --> 00:30:07,850
When I lost my first patient,
707
00:30:08,892 --> 00:30:11,602
it rattled me so hard I split.
708
00:30:11,603 --> 00:30:13,355
I regretted that
709
00:30:14,356 --> 00:30:15,774
for a very long time.
710
00:30:16,483 --> 00:30:18,025
- How long?
- A couple of weeks.
711
00:30:18,026 --> 00:30:19,778
I didn't think you were gonna ask me that.
712
00:30:20,445 --> 00:30:25,367
Anyway, I got into
my own brand of CBT instead.
713
00:30:26,785 --> 00:30:30,122
Helping people with their...
their everyday shit.
714
00:30:31,164 --> 00:30:34,168
But that real trauma work...
715
00:30:35,085 --> 00:30:36,461
That life and death shit...
716
00:30:38,797 --> 00:30:40,716
[sighs] I couldn't handle it.
717
00:30:41,508 --> 00:30:43,927
- Samesies.
- Not samesies.
718
00:30:45,095 --> 00:30:46,554
You're stronger than I am.
719
00:30:46,555 --> 00:30:48,014
[poignant music plays]
720
00:30:48,015 --> 00:30:49,975
I know that
721
00:30:50,559 --> 00:30:51,685
because you helped me
722
00:30:52,686 --> 00:30:53,812
so much.
723
00:30:54,479 --> 00:30:55,479
Paul...
724
00:30:55,480 --> 00:31:01,695
I've carried around a lot of dark shit
from growing up with my father.
725
00:31:02,863 --> 00:31:04,072
The motherfucker.
726
00:31:04,990 --> 00:31:05,991
Violent.
727
00:31:07,993 --> 00:31:10,162
That's what made me a closed-off person.
728
00:31:10,746 --> 00:31:12,456
I'm sorry. That sucks.
729
00:31:14,041 --> 00:31:18,086
But today I was reminded
of how much I've grown.
730
00:31:18,670 --> 00:31:20,797
And I give a lot of that credit to you.
731
00:31:21,507 --> 00:31:23,675
You've opened me up to new things.
732
00:31:25,010 --> 00:31:28,138
Look, I'm hydrated AF.
733
00:31:28,722 --> 00:31:31,308
Congratulations on using that
correctly for the first time.
734
00:31:31,892 --> 00:31:33,602
I've let people in my life.
735
00:31:37,648 --> 00:31:39,107
I married Julie.
736
00:31:40,317 --> 00:31:42,860
I sing in cars. [chuckles]
737
00:31:42,861 --> 00:31:44,654
I know who En Vogue are.
738
00:31:44,655 --> 00:31:47,157
Free your mind, baby. [chuckles]
739
00:31:48,325 --> 00:31:50,077
You've changed my life.
740
00:31:50,911 --> 00:31:52,871
Forget about all that other shit.
741
00:31:53,497 --> 00:31:54,915
Gaby...
742
00:31:55,541 --> 00:31:56,750
you are my legacy.
743
00:32:00,087 --> 00:32:01,463
Damn, Paul.
744
00:32:02,339 --> 00:32:05,592
If you want my practice, it's yours.
745
00:32:07,135 --> 00:32:11,890
Hell, you can have
the whole fucking building for all I care.
746
00:32:12,891 --> 00:32:15,310
But if you use it for
the same old, same old,
747
00:32:15,894 --> 00:32:18,897
I'm going to charge you
a million billion dollars.
748
00:32:19,481 --> 00:32:22,316
Or you can have it for a buck a month,
749
00:32:22,317 --> 00:32:24,695
but it's gotta be a trauma center.
750
00:32:26,238 --> 00:32:28,322
["Right Now" playing]
751
00:32:28,323 --> 00:32:29,408
Hey.
752
00:32:31,243 --> 00:32:32,870
Stop being a chickenshit.
753
00:32:33,453 --> 00:32:34,495
Okay.
754
00:32:34,496 --> 00:32:35,664
Come here.
755
00:32:38,584 --> 00:32:39,585
[chuckles]
756
00:32:41,837 --> 00:32:44,672
But you got to call it
The Rhodes Trauma Center.
757
00:32:44,673 --> 00:32:46,133
Hell no.
758
00:32:47,676 --> 00:32:48,677
Okay.
759
00:32:49,928 --> 00:32:53,974
♪ How the boards in the floor
Left a crease in your shirt ♪
760
00:32:54,892 --> 00:32:57,727
[Randy] When I come to your soccer games
in college, if it's not a hassle,
761
00:32:57,728 --> 00:32:59,729
I'd love you to single me out
when you score,
762
00:32:59,730 --> 00:33:01,272
but don't make it obvious.
763
00:33:01,273 --> 00:33:03,775
I've got you. I'll do something subtle.
764
00:33:04,359 --> 00:33:05,443
- Like that.
- Love it.
765
00:33:05,444 --> 00:33:07,904
And I'll point back the same way.
Smooth. No big deal.
766
00:33:07,905 --> 00:33:08,988
[both chuckle]
767
00:33:08,989 --> 00:33:10,531
Hey, where's Sofi? Did she leave?
768
00:33:10,532 --> 00:33:12,409
I was thinking
I should invite her to graduation.
769
00:33:13,952 --> 00:33:15,203
[sighs]
770
00:33:15,204 --> 00:33:17,205
No, let's... let's keep it just family.
771
00:33:17,206 --> 00:33:20,500
♪ Somewhere in the walls
Of your second story flat ♪
772
00:33:20,501 --> 00:33:23,377
♪ I hid a love letter
That I can't get back ♪
773
00:33:23,378 --> 00:33:27,215
♪ With a picture of your dad
And a word on a key ♪
774
00:33:27,216 --> 00:33:29,510
♪ I hope you remember me ♪
775
00:33:30,427 --> 00:33:33,471
♪ Like the cracks in the earth
And your eyes when you hurt ♪
776
00:33:33,472 --> 00:33:36,807
♪ How the boards in the floor
Left a crease in your shirt ♪
777
00:33:36,808 --> 00:33:41,271
♪ That's how I remember you right now ♪
778
00:33:42,773 --> 00:33:45,858
♪ Like the fog on the street
How it made me feel ♪
779
00:33:45,859 --> 00:33:49,195
♪ When you worked till you crashed
With your hands on the wheel ♪
780
00:33:49,196 --> 00:33:53,367
♪ That's how I remember you right now ♪
781
00:33:55,911 --> 00:34:00,499
♪ I know I shouldn't pull the thread
On the sweater that I'm wearing ♪
782
00:34:00,999 --> 00:34:03,752
♪ But I can't help but unravel ♪
783
00:34:04,628 --> 00:34:07,755
♪ My heart
It gets the best of me ♪
784
00:34:07,756 --> 00:34:12,886
♪ You said you'd never fall in love
In the dead of the winter ♪