- Previously, on
"The Real Housewives of Dubai"...
- Can I advice you?
I-I do hypnotherapy.
- Oh, you do? - Yes.
- What happens if the baby can't happen?
- Baby, the baby is gonna happen.
I have to believe-- - But, darling,
I am 45 years old. You need to understand that.
- My grand--
- I really want you guys to be with me on Nurai Island,
just girls, no husbands, no kids.
- Oh, my God, you guys! - It's gorgeous.
- Welcome home. - Thank you.
- Wow.
- Oh, my God... - God, right?
- We pop together. - What the hell?
- Ready? - Ahh!
- I think Chanel wears a strap-on at night
with her husband. [laughing]
- It takes ----ing character
for making an ex-boyfriend and an ex-husband
to invest in her. - Thank you, Caroline.
- If you run your own business--
- Caroline, this is the second time you've asked me
what I do, and I feel like I've explained to you.
- I love you, Chanel. This is not to take you down.
- No, you will never take me down
because I'm always on top.
- I know that. - Oh, Jesus Christ.
- Whoa.
- Okay, I don't feel like it needs to go there.
- I'm just saying.
- Okay, I'm, like-like, really good with this.
I'm gonna go home.
- We're trying to have fun, guys. Come on.
- Please, no. Caroline, sit down.
- Caroline, just stay. - No, no, I'm--
We're-we're gonna be leaving soon.
- Caroline, sit down. - Caroline, no.
- Excuse me for a minute.
No, you're not.
- Caroline-- - You're not. You're not.
- This is the third time she's asked me this question.
- I get it. I get it. - Literally, third time.
- Don't ----ing cry. - Every time-- every time.
- 'Cause I am your friend. I followed you out here.
I'm your friend, okay?
And this was the moment for you guys to talk it out.
- You know what you say next time?
"Don't ask me, again.
"I've explained it to you once or twice."
- Three times, it becomes rude.
- "Please, I don't appreciate you asking me,"
and end it.
- We're on vacation. Don't fight.
Please, I'm begging you. [laughing]
- She was trying to piss me off. Come on.
- Why do you open the door and allow them?
- Don't allow them. Don't allow them.
- Caroline, I've had a rough time with them,
and you've even told me to just back down.
Speak less. Listen more. Back down.
I practiced what you preached to me.
- Yeah.
Ayan is just constantly, constantly putting me down
whenever I open my mouth.
I've worked extremely hard to get to where I am,
and maybe I threaten her.
I just cannot deal with this woman anymore.
- Which causes an uproar 'cause what I usually do--
- Nina, you never say anything.
- Listen, 'cause you know what? - No, no, sit down.
- It's gotten-- no, no, no. Stop.
- You never say anything. - I told you stop.
Caroline, there's a lot of misinterpretation and--
- No, now you have a voice?
Like, literally, now you have a voice?
But you don't have one-- - B-because I don't understand
both of you.
That's why I kept telling you stop.
She kept saying, "Oh, you've asked me several times."
But listen-- - I simply said,
"What do you do?"
If she really listened to me, I was being nice to her.
But every time I ask her a question,
it isn't a double entendre to put her down.
It was meant to be a nice back and forth,
but it dissolved into a sh-- show.
[rewinding]
- I depend on my husband. - Chanel, no.
- When you live with them, and you sleep with them,
that's a commitment with you. - No, no, no.
There is a difference between dependent
and investment. - Agree.
- If you run your own business-- - This is the second time,
actually, you've asked me what I do,
and I feel like I've explained to you.
- No, I did not say that.
You just sit there like ----ing Switzerland.
- Well, it's just I try to stop.
- You can't be ----ing Switzerland sometimes.
- It's-- because-- - Sometimes you have to find
a ----ing voice.
- I'm trying to stop you from talking
because you-- because-- - Why?
- Why? Because she-- - She doesn't wanna talk.
- You cannot be telling people, "I'm more successful than you."
If you think you are-- - I am. Yeah.
- Or you know you are, then the end.
- I know I am.
- Of course, Chanel Ayan is more successful
than Caroline Stanbury, in the pages of "Vogue,"
on the pages of Instagram,
but I'm also not that friend
that's gonna gas you up when you're in the wrong.
She's the host. It's her trip.
Let's be gracious.
Are you gonna apologize?
- Okay, let's go. I'll be nice and kind.
- Yeah, because I wanna have fun.
- Okay, let's go. Let's go.
- Oh, no, no, I'm not going over there.
I'm not-- That's a little bit too far.
I'm over here.
- Are you gonna talk? - It's okay.
I'm gonna talk to her. - Come, come.
- Yeah. - Come, talk to her. Yeah.
- Guys, can they talk alone? - Hi, Caroline.
I need to talk to you. I just wanted to say you--
- No, no, no. Chanel, I'm tired.
- Yes, alone. Walk-- Walk away. Walk away.
- I'm actually coming to say something nice, so--
- Walk away. Walk away. Walk away.
- No, no, no, I'm good. - No, no, sit down.
- Oh, you don't wanna talk? Okay. It's your choice.
- No, no, no. - No, sit down. No, no, no.
- Sit down. Sit, sit. She-she wants to talk to you.
- We are all tired. - Sit down. Sit down.
- But I just wanted to say to you,
because you asked me this question three times,
and maybe I should have not reacted the way I did
because I actually feel like
we are both very successful in our own way.
I just wanna apologize because, actually,
to be honest, I've been having fun.
Thank you for having me here.
We are really, like, working on our relationship,
and I actually think we were really in a good place,
and I don't wanna go in a wrong place. So...
- Thank you very much. - No, come. Come on.
- Sara, Sara, Sara. - Dessert. Come on.
- No. - She apologized.
- No, I said-- yes and no. - She apologized.
- Here she comes.
- I don't understand why she's asking me what I do
when she clearly knows what I do.
So, it bothers me that she keeps asking me what I do,
and she knows I'm very successful,
but I did my part by saying, "Hey, I'm sorry."
Thank God I'm not in the 1800s.
I made a white woman cry. I would not be here.
- So, you're leaving. - I'm le-- guys, I-I can't.
I just don't feel good.
I'm gonna go take a shower-- check up on my kids.
- Oh, okay, bye, Nina. Bye.
- Bye. - Bye.
- Bye. Yeah, bye. - I just--
It's just too much. I can't.
- What was too much, Nina?
- I don't like what Nina did.
We're all friends.
Instead of her encouraging our friend to stay,
this one, Switzerland, was over here
grabbing her handbag,
gathering her goodies, ready to go.
- Honestly, I feel like I'm the one
that's most in shock when it comes to Nina.
- Nina? - Only because
a lot of my apprehension that I have with Stanbury
comes from Nina. - Yes.
- And all the things that she told me about Stanbury.
So, it's almost like she's not practicing
what she's preaching. - Preaching.
- Nina is a social climber,
but I don't know how far she thinks she's gonna get
trying to climb a little white picket fence.
- Let's go. Yeah, yeah, let's go.
**
[phone ringing] - Hello.
- Hi, honey. - How are you?
- Uh-uh, not good.
- Aw, honey... are you okay?
- No. - Are you crying?
- Mm-hmm. - Honey!
Baby, don't cry.
What, what they were saying to you?
They were, like, very bad?
- Chanel, again.
- What's she done?
- She's, like, "I'm more successful
"than you in every way."
- What? - I'm, like,
I wasn't even talking to her about--
- She was saying that to you?
- Yeah.
- This is absolutely not true.
This is like a ----ing bitch.
So sorry, aww.
- Okay, I love you. I'm gonna go.
- Yeah, I'm okay.
- Okay, I love you.
- I love you, too. Bye. - Bye.
- Are you gonna change?
- I have no pajamas because you didn't bring me Mina Roe.
- You wanna wear something of mine?
- I left it at home because somebody promised me--
I'm not gonna name her-- something from Mina Roe.
- [indistinct].
- Get the pants, Lesa. - I have the exact same one.
- Jump, girl.
- I would never leave anyone to feel left out.
- Okay, just you guys need to talk to each other.
- Me, I have no issues with Nina.
Do you have issues with me? - No.
- No, and that you guys are, like, upset
because she left with her.
- Nobody is upset that you left with her.
I just said-- Nina--
- I just wasn't gonna let her go.
I mean, she's crying. She's--
- Nina-Nina, if you felt like you needed to leave with her,
it's okay for you to leave with her. - It's not about that.
We were supposed to have a good night.
- It was a good night until she ask--
- I lost my appetite. - Okay.
- I wanted to go. I didn't feel good, Ayan.
- Nina, let's not turn this about you
because I'm gonna ----ing walk away. Goodbye.
- It's not about-- okay, walk away.
- Stop, stop. Both of you, hey, hey, hey.
- Goodbye. I'm not. - She asks me a question,
and I can't even talk. - I'm not gonna do that.
- It's unbelievable.
- What is it? What is it? [sighs]
- No, about-- - About what?
- About her leaving? - No, no, it's--
- I don't think we were upset that you left.
We just felt like, if you stayed,
that would have prompted her to come back to the table.
- She was already gone. Lesa, she was gone.
- To be honest, Nina, I feel like my issue is,
everything that I felt towards her
came from the things that you said about her,
warning me.
- I didn't like Stanbury when I first met her.
- I know. You told me.
- Nina has been the only person
that has ever talked so badly about Caroline.
- I've always liked you despite everything
that I've heard and people--
- And that's true. - What does that mean?
Everything I've heard about you?
- And to see you now just, like, boots and buddy with her,
it's like-- - Well, exactly,
but I've told you what I've heard about her.
- Yeah, I don't care about what you heard about her.
- Then I got to know her.
- I'm just saying it's like you, all of a sudden, being,
like, besties is, like-- - But you told--
I know, but, Lesa,
but it's not even about being besties.
Why does it have to be about sides, though, Lesa?
- That's how I feel.
You would have done it for anybody,
basically, what you're saying.
- Yeah, but she's-- - And I get it.
- But she's my friend. - I get it.
She's your friend now. I get it.
- She-- yes, she is a friend of mine,
and I'm not gonna, like, watch any of my friends cry and leave.
- That's fine. I get it.
- I can't. - I get it.
So, I wanna end on a good note.
- Let's go have fun. Let's go.
- Let's go smoke shisha. Who-who is gonna be cold?
Take a blanket.
- It kinda makes me wonder.
Did she always want me to not get along with Stanbury
so that she can swoop in
because why tell me all of these things,
and now you're kissing her ass?
I think Nina is really the one that we need to keep an eye on.
[sighs]
- This is my favorite thing about living in desert.
It's, like, you-you get a hookah anywhere you want.
- A hooker? [laughing]
- Yeah, a hookah.
- Hookah. - Hookah.
- Shisha.
- Nina has a surprise for you guys
that we are doing tomorrow. I'm gonna let her tell you.
- So, I've planned for someone
to come and do a sound bath ceremony for us.
- Oh, nice. - We need it. We need it.
- Yes, that, and you can help.
- Yes. I've always wanted to try this.
- Yeah, especially after everything that's happened.
- Oh, my God.
- I don't know about you guys.
I'm sure we're all drained emotionally.
[laughing] - Shh.
- The point of it is that the vibrations
make your mind blank.
- Oh, that's good. - Yeah.
- Why do you think I always zone out?
- You don't-- you don't think of any--
- Especially when there's tension,
I just tend to just Zen. - But it's so good.
We don't have any type of tension.
[coughing] [laughing]
- Coming up next...
- I'm tired. I'm tired of fighting to people,
and I'm tired of making people not understand.
Like, I'm tired of it. I'm really tired.
**
- Hey, baby.
- How are you?
- I'm good. How are you?
What do you mean you found a head?
Well, Maktoum!
- Hi. - Hi, hi, hi.
Okay, this is stressing me out. Go on.
- You're so stressed, is that why you're in Nurai Island
and... we're doing the move?
Yes, Karen. Yes.
Yes, 'cause I know you'd do it better than me.
Go on. Tell me. Hi, Nichelle.
- So, ah. We've just been over the to see the bedroom now...
and see what you want to...
Okay, listen to me.
The-the real art, like, the big pieces,
those all are going to the new apartment.
Leave my bed and my TV because if I get home,
and I can't chill tonight and watch TV,
I'll murder somebody.
I am in a rented house, and, sadly, it's been bought,
so I have to move.
Hello? Karen?
My new home that I've bought is not ready,
so there is so much to be done.
Obviously, at this point,
I really wish I hadn't hosted this trip.
Karen, this is the worst reception.
Start with all that,
and then if it doesn't work, call me back.
- Moving is one of the most stressful things ever.
Couldn't they just wait one extra day and do it tomorrow?
- No, no. - No?
- 'Cause they're there now. [sighs]
- How is Ayan?
I haven't seen her all morning.
- I don't know. I feel like, last night,
just kinda went left outta nowhere.
- Ayan probably feels that she's put in this box.
People think models are just models.
Like, they-they can't be multifaceted.
They can't have so many businesses.
- Yeah, and she-- right,
and she is one multifaceted model.
- Correct. - I mean, yeah.
- So, that's something that I feel like
she needs to explain to Caroline and why that upsets her.
- Especially as black women, come on.
- Mm-hmm.
- We're always having to prove ourselves.
- Over and over again.
- Whether it's to prove yourself that
you're not just a model, or you're proving yourself
that you're not just a housewife.
- I think we have to prove ourselves more than anyone.
I wear so many hats, but, yeah,
people just wanna dub me as one thing.
- And I think that's the issue with Ayan.
[phone ringing]
- Hello. - Hi, honey. How are you?
- I am good. How are you?
- Not bad, just getting ready, packing to come home.
Yeah. Do-do-- I miss you, too, honestly.
I was sleeping with your underwears this whole week.
[laughing]
So, I was missing you.
But, oh, my God, honey, yesterday was a lot at dinner.
The moment we sat down, Caroline was, like,
talking about, like, how much money she makes.
And then, in the middle of the dinner,
she goes, "Lesa, you do this. Brooks, you do this.
Chanel Ayan, what do you do?"
And I'm like, you've asked me this three times.
I do so many things, and she knows this
because we've discussed this, and I've told her.
I've been a big model.
I book models, musicians, dancers.
Whatever you want in Dubai, you come.
I have friends who come in Dubai,
wanna buy houses, villas, I'm talking $10 million houses.
I am connected.
I just don't do one thing
because not everybody does video and Instagram.
Some of us, we actually work hard.
I feel like she doesn't want to get to know me.
She wants to make me feel bad, like I'm not good enough.
- You are... a loving...
caring... wife and mother.
It's-it's about caring about people,
about getting to know people. - Yes.
Yeah, exactly. - Right?
And you are perfect at that.
You-you-you are actually are a very real individual
that loves everyone you're around.
- I'm tired of it, honey. I'm tired.
You know me. I'm tired of fighting to people,
and I'm tired of making people not understand.
Like, I'm tired of it. I'm really tired.
I have to explain 24-7 who I am.
- Maybe you should talk to her and just try and get to,
you know, get to an understanding
and know her a little bit.
- I'm gonna talk to her. - I'm sure it'll work out.
- I know. - But I love you.
You always have support here, okay?
- Thank you, honey. I love you, too.
Thank you so much. Bye, honey.
Bye. - Bye-bye.
- Now, this is my element, right here.
- Wow! - Oh, wow!
Hey. - Look at this!
- This looks so amazing.
- Oh, my God, I'm so excited for this.
- This is amazing. What's that brown stuff?
- It's cacao. - It's a chocolate?
- Yes, like pure chocolate.
- I see a bumblebee, and I'm-I'm allergic.
Get my Epi pen.
- Do-do you wanna get-- like, God forbid, this--
- I don't have it with me,
but I'm-I'm heavily allergic to bees.
- Oh.
- We're gonna begin the ceremony,
and I'm gonna open the space with a chant.
So, find yourself in a comfortable position,
and you can close down your eyes.
- I hear a bee buzzing around me.
I hear it. - That's a plane.
- It's a plane. - Oh.
[chanting]
- Deep exhalation, cleansing.
- Ladies, just pick up your cacao
and place it into your hands.
Cacao is a medicine that is for the heart.
As you drink the medicine,
take the medicine into your heart,
filling your heart with love from the earth,
from the elements of this planet.
[laughing]
It's a little bit bitter, but, like, medicine, right,
it's not so flavorsome.
Just receive it like you would receiving medicine
that is going to help you access this opening.
- I'm all in. I hate tension.
I get on with everybody in my life,
but I think we're going to need
a lot more than a sound bath to solve me and Ayan.
**
- Ah!
I don't want bees crawling up every inch of my body.
He's on me, again. I don't wanna lay in the grass
and listen to people saying, "Namaste."
That's not the thing I wanna do when I'm on vacation.
I wanna go on vacation and be fabulous.
Bees. I can't.
It's on my head. Please?
Look great in all the 10,000 bikinis
I packed in my bag.
[chanting]
[motor rumbling]
Oh, the Somalians are here for you.
- Oh, they came? - They came.
- Oh, they get to take me.
- Oh, my God! What the (BLEEP)?
- Coming up next...
- You are making me feel like all I do, is a model,
and nothing else better to do with my life.
- No, that is not what happened.
[chanting softly]
- Shanti. Shanti. Shanti.
[motor approaching]
- Morning, honey! - Oh, my God!
Is that Sergio?
- Is that Sergio?
Sergio!
What the (BLEEP) is Sergio doing here?
**
- Three days. - Oh, baby!
Why did it take you so long, honey?
- Why is Sergio at a girls trip?
Like, none of our husbands are here.
- We missed you! - I'm angry.
- I don't want that male energy around us.
I have three boys and a husband.
If I want male energy, I stay home.
- Where do they make men like that?
I thought it was very romantic.
You know, chivalry is dead.
- He literally rode in on a jet ski for his woman.
- It was like a scene out of a movie.
"Honey!"
- That was great. - How are you?
- How are you? All good?
- I mean, yes.
- I'm ----ing over it!
Like, seriously, I went through something
with Stanbury last night.
So, if people are calling their husbands,
I should have called my husband, too.
Is he there to support her?
Take Instagram pictures of themselves?
What is the mother----ing purpose of him visiting?
Why?
We both yesterday were questioning each other--
why she was trying to make me feel like I'm not good enough.
Like, you're just a model.
There's nothing good about you.
- There is this whole stigma that Black women,
you know, we're tough. We can take it.
We're strong. - No, I'm weak.
- Like, we don't need emotional support, too,
and I genuinely don't like it.
- Ayan had every reason to be upset.
Caroline gets to call her husband to come
and rescue her, because, gosh, the horror.
Why are Ayan's feelings less valid than Caroline?
We're always looked at like we have to be strong.
But when a white woman is breaking down,
let's console her.
But a Black girl is breaking down,
just toughen up. You're a strong person.
I've heard this my whole life.
I hate this.
- I don't wanna cry anymore, but, honestly--
- Yeah, let me get you a tissue. - Don't-don't-don't cry.
We're here.
- Are you feeling better, baby?
- Is it okay if I spray you guys with water?
- You can get me. I love it!
**
- I don't think I've ever been more grateful for Sergio.
It's just like a weight is off my shoulders.
- Go, Sara! Go, Sara!
Go, Sara! - Whoo!
- Show 'em how the Arabs do it!
[laughing]
**
- Guys, let's go by the table and have champagne.
**
Caroline, thank you so much for being such a gracious host.
- Yes.
Should we go get our bags?
- Yeah. - Let's get our bags.
Let's get outta here. - Yeah.
- Bye, guys! Thank you! - Stanbury, can we talk?
- Okay. - Cheers 'til the next one.
- Are you staying? Yeah? - Yeah, I'll stay.
I'll speak to this girl. - Okay, cool.
Just let me know if you need anything.
I'll be just there. - Well, okay.
I'll-I'll scream your name. - Yeah, yeah.
- If I need you to save me. - Okay.
Thanks, again, Caroline.
- Guys, I'm wet, and I'm cold. Bye.
Love you. - Yeah.
I love you, too.
- Positive vibes!
Namaste, bitches. - I love you.
- When I said I feel like I was more successful than you,
it had nothing to do with money.
- You said you were more--
"I'm more successful than you in every way."
- Yes, because every way-- - Every way.
- Do you what every way to me is?
I started working at seven years old, okay?
I paid for my brothers and my sisters' college.
I take care of my mom. I buy my mom a house.
I take care of my family.
It's different way of success in every way that I have.
Has nothing to do with finances.
Oh, you're this.
- Every time I get two steps forward,
I take ten back, okay, with you.
- Okay, I am very proud of who I am
and where I come from. - And all--
- And you are making me feel like I--
all I do, is a model. - I was actually--
- And I have nothing else better to do with my life.
- No, that is not what happened.
I was actually sticking up for you.
I understand where Chanel comes from
and the fight that she's had to get into where she is,
but she's not listening.
And this has been on, and on, and on.
To raise yourself, you need to put me down,
okay, every single time.
I'm sorry that you thought that I said something,
which I didn't, because, last night, honestly,
I was only bigging you up.
Ayan needs help to look inside
and understand why I trigger her so much.
- It seems like I felt what you said was different.
- You took it the wrong way. - And I took it the wrong way.
- Yes. - So, if I--
if I did that, I wanna apologize to you,
because that was not my intention.
- I'm sorry that you feel
that you have to fight your corner every time,
because when you're around friends who love you,
then you shouldn't have to feel that way.
- I will get better. - I was bigging you up.
- I felt like it was just me being belittled,
and it just comes from a place-- it just comes from--
- The whole conversation was about lifting women.
- I know, but it just-- - Why the (BLEEP)
would I just point you out and put you down?
Last night threw me for a loop but give me my days,
and I'm sure I'll be fine.
- I'm good. I feel good.
- You need to be less defensive with me
and less willing just to think that
that's all I'm here to do, is to make you feel small.
It's not.
For what reason do I have to do that to you?
I have none.
- Okay. Okay, thank you.
- Mm-hmm. - Thank you. Yeah.
- All right. - Let's go home and pack.
Good. Cheers. - Cheers.
- Cheers to this.
Goodbye!
- Coming up next...
- Oh, my God!
[laughing] - Yeah, honey.
- Are you going into labor, honey?
- Honey, do you have to bring guests here to the house
when I am ----ing do this? I'm literally gonna kill you.
**
- What is this? - Get everything out.
Oh, that is--
- Oh.
[laughing]
- You forgot your vows. You left my favorite things.
- I, actually, I love this one, honey.
- I feel like it can just go to storage. Yeah.
- You don't want it anywhere else?
Okay.
- I'm totally over moving in Dubai.
I'm now in a temporary apartment
until my new house is built.
How do you feel like yesterday went?
- It went amazing.
I have 85 million espermatozoides flying around.
It was incredible.
- What is... [mumbling]
- Like, these tiny little fish coming up and down.
I told my mom that,
and she literally freak out until--
- Did she understand the concept because you don't?
- No, she doesn't.
- Do you know what women go through to have babies?
- I don't.
- Why you don't, like, try it?
[laughing]
Like, see how it feels.
- No, I don't need to see anything.
I'm very fine. Thank you.
- Where I am in the IFV process,
is doing all the hormones and all the injections,
which is the most unpleasant part.
- I'm not trying anything now, honey.
- I'm trying to stimulate my body to make as many eggs
on my next cycle as we possibly can
so that we can get a baby with Sergio.
We're seeing what it would be like for Sergio
to be pregnant for nine months.
- You guys just gets weirder every time I come.
- Help [indistinct] 'cause I've got his boobs here.
- I'll tell you. Now, I feel so much better.
[indistinct], please come here. - No, please.
[indistinct yelling]
There you go.
- Yeah. - Wow.
- Wait, my hand is stuck in you.
- Oh, the nipples, the nipples.
Oh, my God!
- It's very heavy, my friends.
- Now see what you can do.
See if you can tie your shoelaces.
Have a little walk around.
- Sergio knows absolutely nothing about babies,
women, pregnancy, IVF, any of this.
- This is really hard. [laughing]
- So, I want Sergio to know what it's like to be pregnant
because he's utterly clueless.
Hi. - Hi.
Oh, my goodness. Muah.
Is this the new digs? - Come in. It is. It is.
We're getting there. - Wow. Hi, guys.
- Getting there. - Oh, my God, show me around.
Uh, where is Sergio?
[laughing] Oh, my God!
Are you going into labor, honey?
- Are those nipples? - I am so sorry.
- Major melons. This is a crazy house!
- Yes, you're gonna keep that on for the next few hours.
So, would you like rose or tea?
- No, I can't. No, I can't do it.
- I'll have rose. - Rose, okay.
- Would I ever deny a glass of wine?
- I will-- I will get it for you.
Honey, I will get it. - Girl, this is embarrassing.
Imagine strapping a watermelon to your stomach
and thinking that's cute.
I'm laughing because, girl, I'm laughing at you,
not with you. That's crazy.
- The nipple inside is hurting me a lot, so...
- Because you turned that one. - Oh, really?
It's been there for ten minutes.
Why are you breathing like that?
- Because I'm suffering. Because it's ----ing heavy.
- You're suffering already?
- Yes.
- Cheers to that. Let him suffer.
- What have you been up to?
- Just more family stuff than anything.
After our trip,
I don't feel like I, like, had a chance
to talk to you about, like, Chanel.
Like, that was intense that night,
and I just wanted to make sure you're okay.
Like, did you guys make things right with each other?
- I feel like Chanel throws a lot,
and then she's goes, "I'm sorry.
I didn't, uh, I didn't mean it that way
'cause I-I don't speak English."
And I feel like she uses that for her rudeness
very many times.
Like, she does speak English. She's married to an American.
- For 17 years. - Yes.
When she wants to understand, she fully understands.
So, let's be clear. - For sure, for sure.
When you're friends with two different people,
and they really don't care for each other,
it's difficult to call one person out
on something that they're saying about the other person.
It puts you in a hard place. You get divided.
And what are we? In high school?
I have to choose sides?
No, I understand your side,
and I understand your side,
and I'm gonna meet you guys both somewhere in the middle.
- That is a $50,000 two-day weekend,
okay, which is not my intention to ever say,
you know, look at what I'm, uh, putting on,
but not, at one time, did she say,
"Wow, thank you, Caroline. Thank you for the invite."
- Thank you for having me here.
Thank you for having us in your house.
Honestly, I appreciate it.
- You did. Everyone else did.
- Of course. - Okay,
said, at some point, "Thank you. This is a wonderful weekend.
What a beautiful place." - It's a polite thing.
We had a really good time. - Yeah.
I've tried many times.
She'd been out for dinner with me.
She's met my family. - We welcome her like family.
- Wow. - I've opened my house to her.
And every time I get remotely comfortable,
it gets thrown back.
You know, I know she has a lot of insecurities.
- I don't think it's only that.
I think that she's easily influenced.
- Well, then Chanel is just a puppet,
and, at that point,
I wouldn't want a puppet in my corner, either.
I don't care who is pulling her strings, at this point.
- Yeah. - You know,
she's the one that actually flipped every time.
- Is-is throwing the daggers.
Lesa doesn't like Caroline.
- Why can't we all be team players?
Just put the ----ing thing on.
It's not that deep.
- Everybody confirmed. - Oh, that's nice.
- Except your best friend.
- No. - Stanbury.
- I feel like Ayan is Lesa's puppet,
and Lesa is the brains behind the operation.
- Are you gonna apologize?
- Okay, let's go. Let's go.
- Oh, no, no, I'm not going over there.
That's a little bit too far.
- You still have some unresolved issues with Caroline.
- It was weird that I was singled out.
- She needs to come and apologize to Ayan
'cause Ayan is not going over there to apologize to her.
- Their relationship is a little bit odd.
It's weird.
- Oh, my God, I got my period.
You know, when I ran upstairs, I got my period.
- Shut up. - I didn't even think about.
- So, the egg is popping out while you have your period,
or how does that go? - No, you--
well, the first day of the period,
they wanna collect more eggs from me.
So, he said come back with the first--
- Do they-- do you start, like-like,
ovulating, right now? - Yes,
I just did it today. - Yes.
- You put-- is that-- - Oh, my God, you're drinking wine.
You're, like, killing the eggs.
- Isn't that the-- no, I'm not.
Don't say that. - It-- yes. Stop, honey.
Yes, give me the wine. - Okay.
- Honey.
Honey. - No, stop it.
He said I could drink.
I've only had a glass. - I don't know about that.
- Baby, he didn't say that. Please, come on.
Give me it, por favor.
- Let's give him a c-section.
I'm-I'm ready to see, like, the flat tummy.
You have, like, the most eye candy husband, don't you?
- Are you happy with it? I'm so tired of it, baby.
Here you go. No, you gotta hold it.
Come on, come on.
- Yeah, yeah, both hands. - Por favor?
- Holy sh--!
- I'm tell you. - That was on my honey.
- I'm really not enjoying seeing you just left with tits.
- Deliver-deliver the tits. [laughing]
- Go-go give your boobs to the--
give your-- - Oh, my major melons.
That's like a two-year-old kid, by the way.
- Hey, we're having the baby. Honey, come on.
- We're not having a baby, for (BLEEP) sake.
- Baby, first day of the period.
- I should not have told you. - In 24 hours, the alcohol,
like, burns out of your system. Don't worry about that.
- This period, we are not doing it, honey, okay?
We'll wait another two weeks.
- Okay.
- Two weeks?
A menstrual cycle is not two weeks, my friend.
- Shh.
- I love this guy. - Maybe you should get the book.
- Like, the birds and bees?
He doesn't need to redo the birds and bees book,
how babies are made. - No, I know.
- Coming up next...
The crying and sadness,
the-the beatings,
that's what I remember, a lot of pain.
- Okay, you remember that.
**
- I can't believe you let him get the queen.
- I'm letting him because I need no queen.
- Why do you not need a queen?
- Mama, these are like a queen.
- The king can only move one step, though.
So, your queen was literally more valuable.
- Bro. - Did you just say, "Bro?"
**
- Is that daddy? Can I talk to daddy, please?
- Okay.
- Look, Kristian. Who is that?
Hi, daddy. We miss you.
How was school? - Good.
- How is your trip? - It's good, guys.
- We love you, we'll see you when you get back.
Say, "Bye." - Bye, daddy.
- Bye, boys.
- I want you to come home.
We're gonna pie in the face.
- A pie in the face, Sebastian?
- Yeah, boy.
- Mommy is gonna grill tonight.
Are you nervous for me to be on the grill?
- Yeah.
- You need gloves. - What?
- You need gloves. - You need gloves.
You're going to get dirty.
- Yeah. - Oh, my God, eww.
Oh, my God. - I told you.
- Oh, my-- not on my Margiela, I'm not.
Like, I can't.
I'm having a panic attack.
- You're such a dramatic queen. Oh!
**
- So, how are you doing, my love?
- I am good.
I'm just so excited for you to do this.
- Sara, I hope you directed in the right path
of life, you know? [laughing]
- You can trust me, girl. - Yeah? I'll sit here.
- Yes.
So, how do you feel about this?
- Um, I'm-I'm excited about it
because I like to do things that I've never tried.
- Yeah. - Brooks was saying she's had a therapist.
So, I'm like, why not?
Let me try this for the time in my life, right?
- Which is amazing,
but I still think that hypnotherapy
will change your life
because you need to go back to your childhood.
- Right now, I'm open to trying anything in life.
- I love it.
I salute you because I know it's not easy.
It's scary. - Mm-hmm.
Sara is the type of person that tells me
she's gone through a lot in life,
and the hypnotherapy helped her.
So, if it could help her, maybe it could help me, too.
- Hi, ladies. Lovely to meet you.
- Oh, hi. - How are you?
- I'm Chanel Ayan. Nice to meet you.
- Hi, Chanel Ayan. Nice to meet you.
Should we go in and do this? - Yeah, of course.
- Yes, please. - Amazing.
Take a seat. - Oh, thank you.
I'm a bit cold.
- How has your morning been? - Oh, it was pretty good.
- Good? - Pretty good, yeah.
I woke up with good energy
'cause I'm hanging out with this one. - Oh, I like that.
[laughing]
- I'm so glad I'm here for her on this day.
I know it's not easy. - Thank you, yeah.
I love you. - I love you.
- No, it's nice to have that support.
- Yeah. - Yeah, and I've never done it,
so I'm here because of her.
She recommended this. - Right.
- I'm so proud of her. - Yeah, amazing.
- And I'm so happy she-she wants me to be
next to her on this day. I love you.
- Yes, I will not invite anyone except you here.
I promise, yeah. - I love you.
- Oh, that's so lovely. - Yeah, yeah.
- So, Ayan, tell me. What are you here for?
What are we going to work on today?
- I'm 99% happy as a human being.
- Yes, which is amazing. - And I'm really happy
with everything that I have. - Okay.
- But then sometimes I get, like, really jealous
when I watch, like, my son's relationship
with my-my husband, not in a bad way.
It's just because I've never experienced that.
It's like an alien world to me.
- Right. - Yeah.
- So, when you say you've never had it,
can we drill down a little bit more on that?
- Yeah. - Where were you born?
Where did you grow up? - Yeah.
So, I was born in a border of Kenya and Uganda.
It's very far. - Yeah, okay.
- It's, like, it's called, uh, Malaba.
- Yeah. - It's a very small village,
and I grew up there, and I lived there with
my mom, and my brothers, and my sister.
- How would you describe your life, say, from-from when,
if you can remember-- - Yeah, yeah.
- From when you were born to when you were five.
- Uh, I don't have a lot of memories
because I feel like sometimes I block things.
So, I'll try to remember, like, when I was born
until I was five,
I remember living with my mom, and my dad,
and my brothers, and my sister.
- Right.
- I remember a lot of my mom crying.
- So, you remem-- you remember seeing that,
the crying from--
- Aww. - Yeah, yeah,
yeah, the crying, the sadness,
the-the beatings.
That's what I remember, a lot of pain.
- Okay, okay.
This is so hard. - No, it's okay.
- But it's hard. It's so good to get it out,
and we'll work on that today.
Let's move on to from 5 to 12,
if that's okay with you.
What do you remember from that time?
- Um, uh, at 5 years old, um,
my aunt and my grandma came to pick us up.
- Okay.
- Uh, to take us to another town,
and we went there, and they cooked.
There was good food.
And then the next day, in the morning, at 6 AM,
I didn't know what was going on whatsoever,
and then they took us to this man's house,
and they just tied us on the bed,
and we were circumcised.
[crying]
Oh, God.
- Oh, sugar, okay.
- I didn't know what it was about.
- Oh, Ayan, I'm so sorry.
How old were you then? 12?
- No, I was 5. - 5?
- I was 5, and my sister was, I think, 6 1/2.
- Okay. - I was circumcised,
and then we were tied on the legs.
Couldn't pee. Couldn't move.
Just, like, when we wanted to pee,
they would carry us and put us on the grass.
Like, I just did not understand
what the hell was going on whatsoever,
and my mom didn't know that was happening to us.
I wanted to get married,
and then I had to go back to the doctor.
I had to open it again 'cause it was sewn,
couldn't have sex,
and then I had to wait until it healed.
I just feel like I--
I've had so much pain in this life,
so much ----ing pain. - Yeah, okay.
Wow, okay. I'm so sorry, Ayan.
- I've tried to understand it.
I've tried to learn about it. Like, why was that happened?
And it's because we need to be a virgin
when we get married,
so our families could get our, like, dowry.
Like, that's some ----ed up sh--.
It's like a torture. It's abuse.
I don't think our girls should be going through this.
The reason why I'm talking about it
is to bring awareness to it,
and I want people to understand
that this happens every single day,
and if I can stop it, I will really do it.
If that's my mission,
maybe this is what I should be doing.
- So, you mentioned that you reconnected
with your dad when you were 13.
- He tried to sell me out to get married.
- Okay. - Yeah, at 14.
**
- So, you mentioned that you reconnected
with your dad when you were 13.
- He tried to sell me out to get married.
- Okay. - Yeah, at 14.
- What happened with that?
It didn't happen. Okay.
- No, it didn't happen
because my sister protected me.
- That's a lot for you to deal with.
- I actually love life. That is the sad part.
I love life. I like to be happy.
I like to enjoy everything.
I have a good family.
So, I'm not gonna say I'm a victim
because I really am not.
I have a good life. - Yes.
- You're a hero. - Yeah, you're amazing.
- I have a good life. I have a good life.
- That's-- - This is just
the saddest things in my life,
but I have good things.
- Under hypnosis,
I can't erase these memories for you,
but what I can do is lessen the attachment that you have.
Are you comfortable doing the hypnosis now?
- Yeah. Yeah, I am comfortable
because I wanna-- - You can do this.
You can do it. - Yes, Sara.
She is here, so it's a good support system.
- Yeah, I'm very kind. I promise.
[laughing] - Yeah.
- Understanding that Chanel went through
a lot of bad things in her life
explains to me a lot about her behavior
and how she is.
I will wait for you. Go do this.
- No, no, you're not coming in?
- No, you need to do this on your own.
She needs this for her to fold that chapter in her life,
accept it, move on, and just, like,
be a better version of herself.
- So, what I'm gonna do is I'm going to ask you
to count from 50 to 0. - Okay, okay.
- So, gently close your eyes. Take a deep breath in.
[inhales, exhales]
As you breathe out, just feel your body relaxing.
You can feel your mind becoming calm.
I need you to visualize yourself
standing in a very large garden.
What stands out most in this garden
is the magnificent tree in the middle.
It is a majestic tree.
It is the tree of your life.
The leaves and branches, the twigs on the tree,
they somehow represent events and emotions,
but as you're looking, you see that
some of these leaves are not quite right.
They represent any unwanted emotions you no longer want.
You are going to really enjoy
cutting these out of your life.
It's time to forgive, so you can feel light.
Amazing. How are you feeling?
You all right? - Yeah.
I feel light. It's like, you know,
the mountain is off my shoulder.
- Yes. - Yeah.
- Good. Perfect. - Yeah. Thank you so much.
- No, you're very welcome.
- I'm starting to heal.
I'm starting to understand
that I trusted people that hurt me,
and they don't have power over me anymore.
I've chosen, for the first time in my life,
to forgive them
and to accept what happened to me.
I still have a lot of life,
and I still have a lot of love to give to myself.
Thank you so much for your help.
- Aww. - I'll give you a hug.
I'm a hugger. Thank you. Thank you very much.
Hello. - Hi.
- Oh, God, I feel dizzy and sleepy.
- Of course. - Is that what you felt?
- Yeah, it's normal. - Yeah?
- How do you-- it's draining, a little.
- Yeah. I feel, like, much better.
I'm coming back.
I'm-I'm definitely coming back.
- Don't stop. - You are right.
I should listen more to you. - I'm so happy for you.
- Thank you so much.
You're such a sweetheart, honestly.
- I love you. - I'm gonna take a nap,
have some noodle soup... - Reflect. Reflect.
- And reflect and just-- - Put-put on--
put on some, like, classic music.
Just let loose. Yeah. - Yes, or Nicki Minaj.
- No, no, don't put that right on.
- Yeah, I know. [laughing]
- Next time, on the season finale
of "Real Housewives of Dubai"...
- Darlings!
This is [indistinct] darlings!
Bring me to my villa. [vocalizing]
- It's camels and couture. [screaming]
[laughing] - Oh, my God!
- Shut up!
- Why didn't you guys wanna learn?
- I feel seduced.
Slowly, Ayan, like a little worm.
[laughing]
- You good? - Yes.
How was it?
- So, we had five eggs. - Five?
- Do you remember when aabbe tried to sell me
when I was 14 to get married, and you stopped me?
If I went with him,
who knows what would have happened to me?
[speaking foreign language]
- No, no. I cry. It's okay.
- So, you think I'm negative? - For me, yes, you were.
[indistinct conversation] Yeah.
- Yeah, when she called me poison on the rooftop.
- You called me messy. - 'Cause you are.