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- Previously on
"Teen Mom Family Reunion"...
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- I tested positive for COVID.
I'll be in here by myself.
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- This reunion,
me and my mom--
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we've grown so much,
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and it sucks 'cause
I can't just be like,
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"Oh, let me go give her a hug"
'cause she's quarantining.
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- Y'all gotta put on helmets.
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- Why?
- I don't know.
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- There's no sleeve
to go in there?
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I'm literally wearing
somebody else's sweat
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on my [bleep] head.
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- Zach is just...
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He doesn't listen
to the rules.
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- I'm gonna miss you,
but I'll be home in three days
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after you get there.
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- Bye, room.
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- Hello?
- Hey, Gary.
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Maybe you and Leah
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could come out here.
- Um...
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[The Chainsmokers and Kygo's
"Family"]
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- ♪ I know some people ♪
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♪ They would die for me,
die for me ♪
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♪ We run together,
they're my family ♪
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♪ I'll say forever,
my family ♪
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- ♪ Yeah, I'm a true believer,
I believe ♪
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[line trilling]
- Hello?
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- Hey, Gary, this is Maci.
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- Hey, how are you?
- So I was wondering
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if you and Leah
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could come out here
for a day or so
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just to visit with Amber.
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Truth be told,
I think that Amber--
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she's going
through the hardest time
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right now
that she's ever gone through.
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The custody situation
with James...
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I just really wanna do
something nice for her.
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- Um, I don't know
if I can
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because of school
and stuff, so...
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- I really hope
they can come out here,
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because that will make it
all worth it
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and change everything.
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I thought this would be--
this would be a good time
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for them to hang out,
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maybe, like, outside
of just their norm.
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- If you just wanna let me
know exactly what day...
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- I'll text you and then--
and then see
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if you can get, like, a flight
booked or whatever.
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And then I'm not gonna say
anything to anybody
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so it'll be
a big surprise for her.
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Like, nobody but me
and you and Leah will know.
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- Sounds like a plan.
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- All right, well,
that sounds good.
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Thanks, Gary.
- All right, yep.
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See you guys soon.
Be safe.
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- Okay, bye.
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- Bye.
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- I love Gary.
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- ♪ I'm living
my best life ♪
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- Cornhole.
You know how to play?
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- I know how to play it.
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- All right, you go first.
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Oh, man. Come on, dog.
- Ooh.
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- Ooh, first time?
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- ♪ I'm living my best life ♪
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- Ooh.
- Uh-oh.
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- I won.
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- ♪ I know
what it's gonna take ♪
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- So I've been in quarantine
now for four days.
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Prayers, everybody.
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Hope everybody's having fun,
because I miss everybody.
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I've been sitting
in this room, coloring,
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doing puzzles, wishing I was
with everybody else.
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- Hey!
What are you doing?
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- Hey!
That's--hey, ladies!
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- Hi!
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- This reunion--I'm sad
that it's coming to an end.
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And even though I'm stuck
in a room because of COVID,
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I'm glad that the girls
that can
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are still going out
and doing things.
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- All right, well,
you guys have fun.
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- ♪ On top of the world ♪
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♪ And there's nothing
that can bring me down ♪
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♪ On top of the world ♪
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♪ Moving at the speed
of sound ♪
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- You wanna play
tic-tac-toe or hangman?
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- Mm, you said tic-tac-toe.
Tic-tac-toe.
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- Okay.
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- I feel like I could kick ass
at tic-tac-toe.
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- Trying to be careful
or my cootie cat will come out.
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- Whoo!
- No, Zach.
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- So is Coach B back?
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- Coach B is back.
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She's been focusing on, like,
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the mother-daughter
relationships
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and, like, traumas or anything
that you wanna work on.
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I think it would be good
for you to talk to her.
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- See, I was coming here
in hopes
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that I can sit down
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with Coach B, this time.
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I've had my trauma
in the past.
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And last year, I didn't
really get a chance
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to sit down and talk
with Coach B.
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I never talked
with anybody directly about it.
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I just found a way
to, you know, mask it
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and get through my problems.
And it's kind of hitting me.
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I need to work on taking care
of my responsibilities.
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And I can't just sweep things
under the rug.
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No, you see the articles.
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They think I have
five, six DUIs
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when that's not the case.
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I just never went to court,
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so it's mandatory jail time.
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So it'd be 60 days.
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- There's a possibility
you'll be locked up
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during your wedding?
- It's possible.
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- It happened a while back.
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[tense music]
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But are you a smarter person
today than you were back then?
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- I think it's worth a try.
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I feel like it would be good
for you to do it by yourself
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for a little bit,
just 'cause that's
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something you've never done.
- What?
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- Yes.
- No!
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See, I was thinking more so--
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- No, you just said it.
- Hey, stop.
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No, I was thinking more so
us as a couple.
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- All right, all right.
- Just how you standing tall.
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- All right,
can we go get a drink?
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- Let's go.
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- I wanna have
this session with Zach,
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because this reunion
is coming to an end
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and we get married
in a couple weeks.
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And I do think that there
are some things
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that we still have
to talk about.
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I couldn't, so I did ♪
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♪ They call it luck,
I call it determination ♪
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- It's day six,
and I still have COVID,
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and honestly, I'm just
so ready for this [bleep]
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to be over with.
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- Okay, I tested negative
again.
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- You're negative.
Whew!
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Yeah, bitch!
- Best day.
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- Okay, we're going.
We're out.
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Let's go.
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- I'm about-- mom's
about to go hard today.
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- What is that--mimosas?
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- Mimosas? [bleep] it.
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I don't even care
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Tequila?
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- [laughing] Yeah, bitch.
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- Oh, I don't think we're
dressed for the farm.
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- So we're coming to the end
of our trip here.
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And this trip has been
kind of a bummer for Jade,
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so I have an idea for a date
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and really talk
about our future,
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since we're getting
married soon.
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It's just nice to have
some quality time with Jade,
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because we don't really get
too much of that at home
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with the little youngling
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So if you haven't
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we are at an alpaca farm.
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- Obviously.
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We're gonna feed
some alpaca today.
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- I'm excited to just spend
time with Sean
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and just have a little bit
of alone time.
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[quacking noise]
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- What?
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- Are they ducks?
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Ugh, no!
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They just spit on us.
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I knew they spit.
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- Oh, [bleep] no.
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- Mother[bleep].
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- Dude.
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- The alpacas definitely
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Aah!
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Okay, we're gonna call
that one Ashley
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'cause that was
a really full-face spit.
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No, thank you.
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It's really surreal,
like, being here today,
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compared to last year,
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when we didn't know
where we really stood.
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- You're making it
a huge [bleep] deal!
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- Because it is a big deal.
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- Not to me!
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I'm done talking to you.
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Seriously, all you do is bitch.
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- You're [bleep] rude.
- Really?
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- Don't [bleep] talk to me.
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- I'm done with [bleep].
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- I'm so [bleep] mad right now!
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No one understands how...
- Yes, we do.
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- [bleep] mad I am!
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You were in rehab.
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I was trying to figure out
kind of, like, who I was.
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Starting to now,
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I feel like it's like
completely day and night.
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I'm very content
with where we are
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and where my relationship's at
with Sean,
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where my relationship's at
with my mom,
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and with myself too.
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I feel like I've gotten
that closure over the last year
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and I'm in a really good spot.
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- I'm just really, really
grateful for everything,
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you know, that you've done.
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I definitely see a huge change
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in our relationship
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since I've been out
of treatment,
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you know what I mean?
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- I know we talked
about having more kids,
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like, after the wedding
and when we move
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into our new,
like, forever home.
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- Shoot, I'm ready
when you're ready.
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I mean, you're the one
that's gotta pop it out.
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- I know.
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I feel like we're in
this like great place
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that I only, like,
dreamed about having.
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[laughs]
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I love you.
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This is the happiest
I've ever been.
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We used to have this really
toxic relationship years ago,
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and it's evolved so much.
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So I'm almost excited
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to, like, show off our growth
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and our happiness.
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- Biggest prize is that
luxury car on your ring.
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I can be myself around her.
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She can be herself around me.
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We're, you know,
better than ever.
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Everything is exciting
every day.
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I can't get enough of her.
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- I'm definitely ready
to be Sean's wife.
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- ♪ It's time,
let's live it up ♪
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♪ Good times,
can't get enough ♪
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- I'm gonna miss everyone.
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I'm gonna miss
this beautiful resort
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and just waking up
to this beautiful golf course
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every day.
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It's just--I'm gonna miss it.
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- I'm so sad
to be going home,
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but I'm so ready
to see my kids.
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- Oh, absolutely.
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- It's definitely bittersweet
to go home.
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I'm ready to see my kids,
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but I know I'm gonna miss
everybody.
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- Ooh, it smells good in here.
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- Hi.
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- Hey!
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- Surprise, I'm back.
255
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- Hey, Cate!
256
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- Finally.
257
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- Timeout's over.
258
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- ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪
259
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[upbeat music]
260
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- Hi!
- Hey, Cate!
261
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- Oh, my God, Cate is back.
262
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She's out of quarantine.
263
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It's been a long time.
264
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You're out of quarantine!
- Finally.
265
00:09:00,448 --> 00:09:02,050
- How do you feel?
266
00:09:02,050 --> 00:09:04,686
- So after finally
testing negative,
267
00:09:04,686 --> 00:09:08,256
I am completely free
to leave quarantine,
268
00:09:08,256 --> 00:09:09,891
and I'm so excited.
269
00:09:09,891 --> 00:09:11,226
All right, ladies,
let's go outside.
270
00:09:11,226 --> 00:09:12,961
- Let's get
a beautiful scenery photo.
271
00:09:12,961 --> 00:09:15,563
- Cate--she planned
this whole trip,
272
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so it was such a bummer that
she couldn't participate more.
273
00:09:18,733 --> 00:09:20,368
- I'm gonna set the timer.
274
00:09:20,368 --> 00:09:25,206
- So seeing Cate back
with the girls is so amazing.
275
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- On the count of three,
everybody say,
276
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"Teen Mom Family Reunion."
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Ready?
All right, one, two, three.
278
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all: "Team Mom Family Reunion"!
279
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[all cheering]
280
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[soft music]
281
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♪ ♪
282
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- There you go.
283
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You want any of that?
284
00:09:48,296 --> 00:09:49,364
Okay, I'm gonna put it here
if you do.
285
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- Okay.
286
00:09:50,798 --> 00:09:53,334
- Maci called and asked me
to come and surprise
287
00:09:53,334 --> 00:09:55,170
Amber with bringing Leah.
288
00:09:55,170 --> 00:09:56,571
And I thought it'd be
a good idea 'cause I know
289
00:09:56,571 --> 00:09:57,972
that Amber has been
going through a lot
290
00:09:57,972 --> 00:10:00,975
and me bringing Leah
would kind of help fill
291
00:10:00,975 --> 00:10:02,710
maybe some of the loss
she's feeling.
292
00:10:06,781 --> 00:10:08,249
- ♪ Amber ♪
293
00:10:08,249 --> 00:10:09,684
I have to take you somewhere.
- Oh.
294
00:10:09,684 --> 00:10:12,787
- Beautiful necklace, girl,
with them pearls.
295
00:10:12,787 --> 00:10:16,558
- Gary calls me, and him
and Leah are here.
296
00:10:16,558 --> 00:10:17,992
It's so pretty out here.
297
00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:21,129
- This, it feels amazing
today, even for this.
298
00:10:21,129 --> 00:10:22,597
- It's go time.
299
00:10:22,597 --> 00:10:26,434
I'm really hoping that
she appreciates this surprise.
300
00:10:26,434 --> 00:10:27,902
Usually the sun is brutal
301
00:10:27,902 --> 00:10:29,304
and there's not really a breeze
this time of day.
302
00:10:33,341 --> 00:10:35,076
- Aw, are you excited?
303
00:10:37,579 --> 00:10:38,713
- I don't know.
304
00:10:41,916 --> 00:10:44,085
- So Leah's
and Amber's relationship
305
00:10:44,085 --> 00:10:46,955
has been kind of rocky
in the last year or so.
306
00:10:46,955 --> 00:10:48,623
- I'm sure we have,
like, good memories,
307
00:10:48,623 --> 00:10:50,458
but I couldn't tell
if, like, the crying
308
00:10:50,458 --> 00:10:51,926
or anything, if that was fake.
309
00:10:51,926 --> 00:10:53,528
So I really don't know
what to think of it.
310
00:10:53,528 --> 00:10:55,196
- We're trying
to get to a place
311
00:10:55,196 --> 00:10:58,600
where we all want it to be
and definitely where
312
00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,201
Amber wants it to be, so...
313
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all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
314
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- ♪ And many more ♪
315
00:11:06,274 --> 00:11:07,675
Make a wish.
316
00:11:07,675 --> 00:11:08,710
- Are you glad you got
your mom there?
317
00:11:08,710 --> 00:11:10,078
- Yeah.
318
00:11:10,078 --> 00:11:11,813
I mean, I want us to be,
like, friendly together
319
00:11:11,813 --> 00:11:13,248
and, like, not have
any issues or anything.
320
00:11:13,248 --> 00:11:15,183
- It's definitely
recovered quite well.
321
00:11:15,183 --> 00:11:17,085
- Oh, I wanted to
go in here and see that.
322
00:11:17,085 --> 00:11:20,421
- Oh, this cottage?
- Mm-hmm.
323
00:11:20,421 --> 00:11:22,857
Amber thinks we were just
taking a tour of the property,
324
00:11:22,857 --> 00:11:24,759
but it's all a part
of my master plan.
325
00:11:24,759 --> 00:11:27,829
She has absolutely no idea
326
00:11:27,829 --> 00:11:30,331
that this is happening
right now.
327
00:11:30,331 --> 00:11:32,267
And I am nervous.
328
00:11:35,303 --> 00:11:36,804
- Oh, my God.
329
00:11:38,439 --> 00:11:40,174
Oh, baby.
330
00:11:40,174 --> 00:11:41,476
- Welcome home.
331
00:11:41,476 --> 00:11:43,945
- I am so excited.
332
00:11:43,945 --> 00:11:46,347
Definitely,
definitely a surprise.
333
00:11:46,347 --> 00:11:47,815
Hey, honey.
334
00:11:47,815 --> 00:11:49,617
Hi, sweetie.
335
00:11:49,617 --> 00:11:50,718
You look beautiful.
336
00:11:50,718 --> 00:11:51,886
- Thank you.
337
00:11:51,886 --> 00:11:53,855
- Hi, darling.
338
00:11:53,855 --> 00:11:56,891
- Us coming to Oregon
is my way of showing Amber,
339
00:11:56,891 --> 00:11:58,726
you know, we're here still.
340
00:11:58,726 --> 00:12:00,595
You know, I know
not everything is perfect,
341
00:12:00,595 --> 00:12:02,063
but you've still got people
that care about you.
342
00:12:02,063 --> 00:12:03,998
Here's Leah.
Here's me.
343
00:12:03,998 --> 00:12:05,767
You know,
we're a phone call away.
344
00:12:05,767 --> 00:12:07,268
Now we're here.
345
00:12:07,268 --> 00:12:08,503
- How was the flight?
346
00:12:08,503 --> 00:12:10,238
- Good.
- Yeah?
347
00:12:10,238 --> 00:12:11,773
- Long.
- You feeling all right?
348
00:12:11,773 --> 00:12:12,840
- Yeah.
349
00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,710
- Amber and Leah
have been working
350
00:12:15,710 --> 00:12:17,111
on their relationship.
351
00:12:17,111 --> 00:12:19,947
And I really hope
they have a good time
352
00:12:19,947 --> 00:12:21,816
catching up and hanging out.
353
00:12:21,816 --> 00:12:23,284
- I love you.
354
00:12:23,284 --> 00:12:25,920
That was really sweet
of Maci to do that.
355
00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,755
Like, she's awesome.
356
00:12:27,755 --> 00:12:29,724
- I love you.
357
00:12:29,724 --> 00:12:31,192
- Talk to you soon.
358
00:12:31,192 --> 00:12:32,960
- Bye, y'all.
- Bye, I love you.
359
00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:33,961
- Love you.
Bye, Gary.
360
00:12:33,961 --> 00:12:35,263
Bye, Leah.
- Bye-bye.
361
00:12:35,263 --> 00:12:39,267
- You guys, I'm, like,
beyond happy seeing you.
362
00:12:39,267 --> 00:12:41,336
- Yeah?
363
00:12:41,336 --> 00:12:44,339
- I can't even believe
that you came.
364
00:12:44,339 --> 00:12:46,674
I am feeling
365
00:12:46,674 --> 00:12:50,912
a million times better
seeing you.
366
00:12:50,912 --> 00:12:52,947
Are you okay?
367
00:12:54,682 --> 00:12:58,086
[chuckles] Baby, wow.
368
00:12:58,086 --> 00:13:00,588
- Leah is actually to the age
where she can handle herself,
369
00:13:00,588 --> 00:13:02,957
so I just let her loose,
you know.
370
00:13:02,957 --> 00:13:05,727
And she's sitting there
like she's on the fence
371
00:13:05,727 --> 00:13:07,028
a little bit.
372
00:13:07,028 --> 00:13:09,063
We'll see how it goes.
373
00:13:09,063 --> 00:13:10,665
- Let's get, like, some
ice cream or something
374
00:13:10,665 --> 00:13:12,033
or walk around,
375
00:13:12,033 --> 00:13:14,635
kind of go outside
a little bit.
376
00:13:14,635 --> 00:13:15,803
- ♪ Still in my element ♪
377
00:13:15,803 --> 00:13:17,405
♪ Go ahead and tell a friend ♪
378
00:13:17,405 --> 00:13:18,940
♪ I should be televised,
headline and main event ♪
379
00:13:18,940 --> 00:13:20,475
- I like the big ones better.
380
00:13:20,475 --> 00:13:21,676
- I do too.
It's fun.
381
00:13:21,676 --> 00:13:23,111
- It's so much more intense.
- Yeah.
382
00:13:23,111 --> 00:13:24,245
- Oh!
383
00:13:24,245 --> 00:13:25,446
[laughing]
384
00:13:27,515 --> 00:13:28,683
- How are you feeling?
385
00:13:28,683 --> 00:13:30,318
- I'm tired.
I can't lie.
386
00:13:30,318 --> 00:13:31,486
- Yeah?
387
00:13:31,486 --> 00:13:32,887
- I stayed up too late
last night.
388
00:13:32,887 --> 00:13:35,490
- Doing what?
389
00:13:35,490 --> 00:13:36,691
- With your ass.
390
00:13:36,691 --> 00:13:38,192
- [giggles]
391
00:13:38,192 --> 00:13:39,260
- Weirdo.
392
00:13:41,462 --> 00:13:43,431
Hello.
- Hi.
393
00:13:43,431 --> 00:13:46,901
- I definitely think Zach
can benefit from Coach B.
394
00:13:46,901 --> 00:13:49,070
We've been through a lot,
395
00:13:49,070 --> 00:13:51,339
so I hope that the session
goes well.
396
00:13:51,339 --> 00:13:52,974
- It's finally time
for our two-on-one.
397
00:13:52,974 --> 00:13:54,976
We didn't get to do it
last reunion.
398
00:13:54,976 --> 00:13:57,478
Y'all excited?
- I am, actually, yeah.
399
00:13:57,478 --> 00:13:59,080
- Good. Good stuff.
All right, follow me.
400
00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,782
Let's just come over here.
- All right.
401
00:14:02,817 --> 00:14:04,685
- Okay.
- All right.
402
00:14:04,685 --> 00:14:06,087
So finally.
403
00:14:06,087 --> 00:14:07,889
- I can't lie.
I'm a little nervous.
404
00:14:07,889 --> 00:14:09,924
From all the other moms,
I hear Coach B--
405
00:14:09,924 --> 00:14:11,426
she's got a way with people.
406
00:14:11,426 --> 00:14:14,462
She knows how to, you know,
pull it up out of you.
407
00:14:14,462 --> 00:14:16,664
So, you know, I'm trying
to go in with an open mind.
408
00:14:16,664 --> 00:14:18,766
I'm not trying to be reserved.
I'm trying to let it out.
409
00:14:18,766 --> 00:14:20,435
So we'll see where it goes.
410
00:14:20,435 --> 00:14:22,503
- How's everything been going
between you two?
411
00:14:22,503 --> 00:14:24,539
- I think we've had
a rough year.
412
00:14:24,539 --> 00:14:25,840
- It's just been rough.
413
00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,042
I mean, for me,
I had my legal issues.
414
00:14:28,042 --> 00:14:31,078
- We broke up
because I was mad at him.
415
00:14:31,078 --> 00:14:32,213
'Cause I could see
your potential,
416
00:14:32,213 --> 00:14:33,281
but you're not
applying yourself.
417
00:14:33,281 --> 00:14:36,651
- Mm.
- This case is from 2016.
418
00:14:36,651 --> 00:14:38,920
We're in 2022.
- Yeah.
419
00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:39,921
- What the [bleep]
were you doing?
420
00:14:39,921 --> 00:14:41,322
- Yeah.
421
00:14:41,322 --> 00:14:43,858
- Did you think it was
just gonna disappear?
422
00:14:43,858 --> 00:14:46,127
- I mean, it's the wedding
of your dreams
423
00:14:46,127 --> 00:14:47,428
that you've been planning.
424
00:14:47,428 --> 00:14:49,063
It's been so much
leading up to it.
425
00:14:49,063 --> 00:14:50,898
Nothing's been going right.
426
00:14:50,898 --> 00:14:54,168
So how are you coping with it?
427
00:14:54,168 --> 00:14:56,571
- I'm [bleep] pissed.
428
00:14:56,571 --> 00:14:57,839
I love him.
429
00:14:57,839 --> 00:14:59,707
I just get so mad
at him sometimes
430
00:14:59,707 --> 00:15:01,075
because we wouldn't be here
431
00:15:01,075 --> 00:15:03,911
if he'd just handled
his [bleep].
432
00:15:03,911 --> 00:15:05,880
- So I wanna do an exercise
with y'all,
433
00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,114
'cause I love
where you're at right now
434
00:15:07,114 --> 00:15:08,282
and I think it's gonna help.
435
00:15:08,282 --> 00:15:09,650
Zach, you'll sit where Chey is.
436
00:15:09,650 --> 00:15:12,687
And then sit here, Chey.
437
00:15:12,687 --> 00:15:15,423
Face each other.
438
00:15:15,423 --> 00:15:17,091
- Feel like a bad kid
at detention.
439
00:15:17,091 --> 00:15:18,659
- I just got called
to the principal's office.
440
00:15:18,659 --> 00:15:19,894
- Ha, ha.
441
00:15:19,894 --> 00:15:23,664
- So, Chey,
I want you to tell Zach,
442
00:15:23,664 --> 00:15:28,202
what are some of the concerns
you have with being married?
443
00:15:30,137 --> 00:15:35,343
- That I don't want you
to go back to past ways.
444
00:15:35,343 --> 00:15:37,945
And you beating yourself up
about it
445
00:15:37,945 --> 00:15:39,680
isn't gonna do anything.
446
00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,582
- Zach, where'd you learn
to beat yourself up at?
447
00:15:41,582 --> 00:15:42,817
- I don't think
it was a learning.
448
00:15:42,817 --> 00:15:44,085
I don't know.
449
00:15:44,085 --> 00:15:44,952
- Oh, it's learned behavior,
yeah.
450
00:15:44,952 --> 00:15:47,088
- Really?
451
00:15:47,088 --> 00:15:49,323
- Dad was in your life?
- Yep.
452
00:15:49,323 --> 00:15:50,791
- Still is?
- Yep.
453
00:15:50,791 --> 00:15:52,360
- Mom was?
454
00:15:55,897 --> 00:15:58,266
- Not so much.
455
00:15:58,266 --> 00:16:01,769
The thing with my mom, it was,
I wanna say all the way up
456
00:16:01,769 --> 00:16:05,006
until, like, ninth-grade year,
every other weekend,
457
00:16:05,006 --> 00:16:06,240
I was going to her house.
458
00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,875
And then it just stopped.
459
00:16:07,875 --> 00:16:09,477
- And now you say
you guys are still not...
460
00:16:09,477 --> 00:16:11,412
- Yeah, we just kind of
at a distance.
461
00:16:11,412 --> 00:16:13,614
We probably talk, like,
once a month.
462
00:16:13,614 --> 00:16:15,116
- Okay.
463
00:16:15,116 --> 00:16:17,518
And so there goes your
"I'm not good enough."
464
00:16:20,221 --> 00:16:23,624
- As a mother,
I don't know what--
465
00:16:23,624 --> 00:16:26,227
I couldn't--
466
00:16:26,227 --> 00:16:28,296
it's not talking bad
about your mom,
467
00:16:28,296 --> 00:16:31,065
but I just couldn't see myself
only seeing my kids
468
00:16:31,065 --> 00:16:32,633
every other weekend, you know.
469
00:16:32,633 --> 00:16:35,903
I feel like that aspect
I don't understand.
470
00:16:35,903 --> 00:16:39,707
- And that is called
abandonment.
471
00:16:39,707 --> 00:16:41,475
Are you ready to receive it?
472
00:16:41,475 --> 00:16:43,177
I don't wanna push you, but are
you ready to receive that?
473
00:16:43,177 --> 00:16:44,879
- I'm listening.
I'm hearing.
474
00:16:44,879 --> 00:16:46,213
- Open your hands.
475
00:16:46,213 --> 00:16:48,883
We're both going to give him
his abandonment
476
00:16:48,883 --> 00:16:50,585
that he's gonna receive.
You ready?
477
00:16:50,585 --> 00:16:51,619
Let's go.
478
00:16:51,619 --> 00:16:53,688
- Drop it in.
479
00:16:53,688 --> 00:16:57,758
- Now I want you to do what
you wanna do with it.
480
00:16:57,758 --> 00:16:59,493
Mm-mm.
481
00:17:03,130 --> 00:17:04,932
- Why would you eat it?
- Hold on.
482
00:17:04,932 --> 00:17:08,402
Because that's what
he's been doing.
483
00:17:08,402 --> 00:17:09,971
Did you see what you just did?
484
00:17:09,971 --> 00:17:11,973
- Yes.
- You just said what to him?
485
00:17:11,973 --> 00:17:13,107
- Why would you eat it?
- Stop.
486
00:17:13,107 --> 00:17:15,076
That's the mama bear in you.
487
00:17:15,076 --> 00:17:16,277
You see it and you call it out.
488
00:17:16,277 --> 00:17:17,712
- Yeah.
- Wait.
489
00:17:17,712 --> 00:17:19,614
You didn't even say, like,
"Man, I'm done with it."
490
00:17:19,614 --> 00:17:22,016
You didn't even say, like,
"I've gotta figure it out."
491
00:17:22,016 --> 00:17:24,752
You looked to her for
guidance and you--
492
00:17:24,752 --> 00:17:27,488
and I'm not knocking you
for that--stick with me.
493
00:17:27,488 --> 00:17:29,123
But you looked to her
for guidance
494
00:17:29,123 --> 00:17:31,892
more in a little boy way.
495
00:17:31,892 --> 00:17:36,297
- I have to work on letting
Zach be a man and husband
496
00:17:36,297 --> 00:17:38,366
and realize that...
497
00:17:40,701 --> 00:17:42,970
- Chey, can you commit
to falling back
498
00:17:42,970 --> 00:17:44,772
and letting your boy
become a man?
499
00:17:44,772 --> 00:17:46,574
Or do you wanna marry a boy?
500
00:17:51,521 --> 00:17:54,290
[tense music]
501
00:17:54,290 --> 00:17:58,594
- She's gonna need a man,
not a son.
502
00:17:58,594 --> 00:18:01,330
I want you to work on
the little boy in you
503
00:18:01,330 --> 00:18:03,533
so that she can have a husband.
504
00:18:03,533 --> 00:18:05,935
Chey, can you commit
to falling back and letting
505
00:18:05,935 --> 00:18:07,436
your boy become a man?
506
00:18:07,436 --> 00:18:10,640
Or do you wanna marry a boy?
507
00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:17,046
- I can commit to allowing
growth in the relationship.
508
00:18:17,046 --> 00:18:18,314
That's what I can commit to.
509
00:18:18,314 --> 00:18:20,283
- And within himself.
- Yes.
510
00:18:20,283 --> 00:18:22,618
- I always wanna take care
of everyone around me,
511
00:18:22,618 --> 00:18:23,920
not just Zach.
512
00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,187
- Come give me a hug.
513
00:18:25,187 --> 00:18:26,622
- I'm just that person.
514
00:18:26,622 --> 00:18:28,758
And I have to realize
that sometimes,
515
00:18:28,758 --> 00:18:32,228
I have to sit back and let
Zach just take care of me.
516
00:18:32,228 --> 00:18:34,096
- I wasn't expecting
to, you know, step into this.
517
00:18:34,096 --> 00:18:36,699
I wasn't expecting to hear none
of this this whole trip, so...
518
00:18:36,699 --> 00:18:38,200
But I'm glad.
519
00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,202
I'm happy to work through
these type of things.
520
00:18:40,202 --> 00:18:42,004
I was battling
a lot of things,
521
00:18:42,004 --> 00:18:44,373
things that I didn't know
that Coach B brought to light.
522
00:18:44,373 --> 00:18:46,375
So nothing but positivity
comes from this.
523
00:18:46,375 --> 00:18:49,445
I'm feeling like I had a weight
off my shoulders.
524
00:18:49,445 --> 00:18:50,713
Thank you.
- So proud.
525
00:18:52,582 --> 00:18:55,484
- ♪ All about that feeling ♪
526
00:18:55,484 --> 00:18:57,987
♪ All about that feeling ♪
527
00:18:57,987 --> 00:19:00,056
♪ ♪
528
00:19:00,056 --> 00:19:02,558
- Hi.
- Hi, how are you?
529
00:19:02,558 --> 00:19:04,160
- All right.
Here's that first one.
530
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,396
- Thank you.
Cheers, my babe.
531
00:19:07,396 --> 00:19:08,764
- It's been a while
since we've seen Amber
532
00:19:08,764 --> 00:19:11,367
because with the court,
with everything
533
00:19:11,367 --> 00:19:12,568
that's been going on,
534
00:19:12,568 --> 00:19:14,403
it's probably been
about a month.
535
00:19:14,403 --> 00:19:15,838
Amber, heard back
from the courts
536
00:19:15,838 --> 00:19:18,774
that I guess Andrew
gets to take James.
537
00:19:18,774 --> 00:19:20,443
From what I understand,
538
00:19:20,443 --> 00:19:21,978
he's allowed to take James
out of state,
539
00:19:21,978 --> 00:19:23,112
which he more than likely will.
540
00:19:23,112 --> 00:19:24,647
- It sucks.
541
00:19:25,615 --> 00:19:27,183
- There you go.
542
00:19:27,183 --> 00:19:30,553
I do want Leah and Amber to
have a relationship, you know.
543
00:19:30,553 --> 00:19:32,588
It just has to be
a consistent one.
544
00:19:32,588 --> 00:19:34,323
- This is my first time
having gelato.
545
00:19:34,323 --> 00:19:35,324
- Is it really?
546
00:19:35,324 --> 00:19:36,359
- Yeah.
- No.
547
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,060
- Yeah.
- Do you like it?
548
00:19:38,060 --> 00:19:39,228
- Mm-hmm.
549
00:19:40,696 --> 00:19:44,567
- What's you favorite thing
so far, like coming in?
550
00:19:45,501 --> 00:19:46,736
- Getting to see your mom.
551
00:19:46,736 --> 00:19:48,170
- Mm-hmm.
552
00:19:48,170 --> 00:19:50,206
I mean, I haven't seen you
in a while.
553
00:19:50,206 --> 00:19:52,141
- I mean, I feel like
it's been forever
554
00:19:52,141 --> 00:19:54,343
since we've even seen
each other.
555
00:19:54,343 --> 00:19:56,946
[soft music]
556
00:19:56,946 --> 00:19:59,482
- Yeah.
557
00:19:59,482 --> 00:20:00,983
- I know.
558
00:20:00,983 --> 00:20:05,488
Before she came, I called her,
actually, and explained
559
00:20:05,488 --> 00:20:08,357
why I wasn't present for her
as much this year
560
00:20:08,357 --> 00:20:09,859
because of court
561
00:20:09,859 --> 00:20:11,927
and everything that happened
with my son.
562
00:20:11,927 --> 00:20:14,797
I feel like that's
what I had to focus on.
563
00:20:14,797 --> 00:20:17,600
I'm still just trying
to figure out, like,
564
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,035
how you guys are here
right now, though.
565
00:20:19,035 --> 00:20:23,372
I mean, it's--I'm glad you
made the decision though.
566
00:20:23,372 --> 00:20:25,074
It must have been hard.
567
00:20:25,074 --> 00:20:28,544
She will not miss school
for anything.
568
00:20:28,544 --> 00:20:30,980
Like, for her to even miss
school and do this,
569
00:20:30,980 --> 00:20:32,648
like, it's super big.
570
00:20:32,648 --> 00:20:34,850
I'm sure you knew, like,
how much it would mean
571
00:20:34,850 --> 00:20:36,152
to me to bring her here.
572
00:20:36,152 --> 00:20:39,255
I mean,
I think when I get back,
573
00:20:39,255 --> 00:20:41,323
obviously, you know,
I'm gonna call you again
574
00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:45,027
and see you
when you're not busy.
575
00:20:45,027 --> 00:20:47,396
Mine and Leah's relationship
576
00:20:47,396 --> 00:20:49,432
is something that I'm trying
to work on.
577
00:20:49,432 --> 00:20:51,000
I want to just get to a point
578
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,269
that we're comfortable enough
to just hug each other
579
00:20:53,269 --> 00:20:55,004
whenever we feel like it,
580
00:20:55,004 --> 00:20:56,338
to say "I love you,"
581
00:20:56,338 --> 00:20:57,807
to do normal things
582
00:20:57,807 --> 00:21:01,177
that a mother and a daughter
would do.
583
00:21:01,177 --> 00:21:02,912
But that's just
gonna take time.
584
00:21:02,912 --> 00:21:06,182
- I'm glad I get to be here
and see you.
585
00:21:06,182 --> 00:21:07,616
- I missed you.
586
00:21:07,616 --> 00:21:10,319
To be honest,
it's been too damn long.
587
00:21:10,319 --> 00:21:12,822
It's made this whole time
being out here worth it.
588
00:21:12,822 --> 00:21:14,356
It's been so stressful.
589
00:21:14,356 --> 00:21:16,592
Even though my son was
relocated with his father
590
00:21:16,592 --> 00:21:19,295
to California, Leah is here,
591
00:21:19,295 --> 00:21:20,696
and she is obviously one
592
00:21:20,696 --> 00:21:22,832
of the most precious things
in my life.
593
00:21:27,503 --> 00:21:32,441
- ♪ Just look at me now ♪
594
00:21:32,441 --> 00:21:33,843
♪ Just look at me now ♪
595
00:21:33,843 --> 00:21:34,944
- Go home to Chloe.
596
00:21:34,944 --> 00:21:36,645
- Oh, yeah.
597
00:21:36,645 --> 00:21:38,347
- ♪ Just look at me now ♪
598
00:21:38,347 --> 00:21:39,782
- I'm so glad I came.
599
00:21:39,782 --> 00:21:41,717
I'm so glad I came
and got COVID.
600
00:21:41,717 --> 00:21:44,286
I wouldn't have been happier
to get COVID anywhere else
601
00:21:44,286 --> 00:21:45,821
but Bend, Oregon.
602
00:21:45,821 --> 00:21:47,923
I will say a couple
of net positive things is,
603
00:21:47,923 --> 00:21:51,694
I got to spend time with Jade
and get to know the grandmas.
604
00:21:51,694 --> 00:21:53,362
And the grandmas
are cool as hell.
605
00:21:53,362 --> 00:21:54,663
We had a good time.
606
00:21:56,332 --> 00:21:57,867
- I'm not a little boy.
607
00:21:57,867 --> 00:21:58,934
- [laughing]
608
00:21:58,934 --> 00:22:00,536
- I'm a man, mama.
609
00:22:02,505 --> 00:22:04,640
Coach B put it
into perspective.
610
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,242
Me in my old days
would have snapped.
611
00:22:06,242 --> 00:22:07,710
She called me a little boy.
612
00:22:07,710 --> 00:22:10,913
She said--but the thing is,
I had to--
613
00:22:10,913 --> 00:22:12,815
I had to sit and breathe
for a second
614
00:22:12,815 --> 00:22:14,850
and realize I need to hear
her out and see
615
00:22:14,850 --> 00:22:16,852
what point she's trying
to get across,
616
00:22:16,852 --> 00:22:18,387
which I did.
617
00:22:18,387 --> 00:22:19,922
- How do you feel?
618
00:22:19,922 --> 00:22:21,290
- I feel good.
619
00:22:21,290 --> 00:22:22,558
I actually do feel
a little lighter.
620
00:22:22,558 --> 00:22:24,560
- For real?
I'm proud of you.
621
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,961
- You still wanna marry me?
622
00:22:25,961 --> 00:22:27,263
[laughs]
623
00:22:27,263 --> 00:22:29,431
- That wasn't her question.
624
00:22:29,431 --> 00:22:31,967
At what point
were we questioning that?
625
00:22:31,967 --> 00:22:35,437
- I'm just [bleep] with you.
626
00:22:35,437 --> 00:22:36,872
Don't pat my head
like I'm a little boy.
627
00:22:36,872 --> 00:22:38,674
- Okay, all right.
Everything I do now.
628
00:22:38,674 --> 00:22:42,211
- I'm a man, damn it.
[laughs]
629
00:22:42,211 --> 00:22:43,445
- ♪ Okay, I get it ♪
630
00:22:43,445 --> 00:22:44,747
♪ They jealous ♪
631
00:22:44,747 --> 00:22:46,215
♪ They see why I'm stacking ♪
632
00:22:46,215 --> 00:22:47,383
- All right, ladies.
633
00:22:47,383 --> 00:22:48,384
- Wait,
can we make some of these?
634
00:22:48,384 --> 00:22:49,351
- Are these crafts?
635
00:22:49,351 --> 00:22:50,820
- Yes, ma'am.
636
00:22:50,820 --> 00:22:53,122
Okay, so we have a scrapbook
that we're gonna make.
637
00:22:53,122 --> 00:22:54,256
- Whoo, yay!
638
00:22:54,256 --> 00:22:56,458
- And then we have pictures.
639
00:22:56,458 --> 00:22:58,327
- Did you bring me
craft supplies?
640
00:22:58,327 --> 00:22:59,461
- Pictures of who?
Of us?
641
00:22:59,461 --> 00:23:01,964
- Yeah, pictures
that we've taken.
642
00:23:01,964 --> 00:23:04,099
I wanted to start a scrapbook
with the moms.
643
00:23:04,099 --> 00:23:06,936
Like, it would be fun to watch
throughout all of the years,
644
00:23:06,936 --> 00:23:09,905
all of us together,
and different people,
645
00:23:09,905 --> 00:23:12,241
all the different places
that we've been.
646
00:23:12,241 --> 00:23:13,943
- ♪ Lit, lit, lit, lit, lit ♪
647
00:23:13,943 --> 00:23:16,779
♪ That's why we lit, lit,
lit, lit, everybody ♪
648
00:23:16,779 --> 00:23:18,314
- I'm doing, like,
a sisters page.
649
00:23:18,314 --> 00:23:19,448
- Look at this.
- Do you guys see?
650
00:23:19,448 --> 00:23:20,883
- Oh, I love that.
651
00:23:22,751 --> 00:23:25,454
- This page is called
"Made It Out The Mud."
652
00:23:25,454 --> 00:23:27,523
- All right.
- What--hey, question.
653
00:23:27,523 --> 00:23:29,091
We have--
- [gasps]
654
00:23:29,091 --> 00:23:30,993
[laughter]
655
00:23:30,993 --> 00:23:32,394
- Surprise!
656
00:23:32,394 --> 00:23:34,163
- I love glitter, and it
was just hella glitter.
657
00:23:34,163 --> 00:23:36,198
We had glitter tape.
We had loose glitter.
658
00:23:36,198 --> 00:23:37,466
We had stickers with glitter.
659
00:23:37,466 --> 00:23:38,601
And I just love glitter.
660
00:23:38,601 --> 00:23:39,568
- ♪ Lit, lit, lit ♪
661
00:23:39,568 --> 00:23:40,636
♪ Come on ♪
662
00:23:40,636 --> 00:23:42,671
♪ Get lit, lit, lit, lit ♪
663
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,442
- When I'm done with this,
664
00:23:46,442 --> 00:23:48,711
I'm going in the other room
real quick.
665
00:23:48,711 --> 00:23:50,379
- I'm, like,
watching everybody,
666
00:23:50,379 --> 00:23:52,381
and I'm like,
"Yeah, good job."
667
00:23:52,381 --> 00:23:54,183
And I'm not good
at, like, scrapbooking.
668
00:23:54,183 --> 00:23:55,517
[laughs]
669
00:23:55,517 --> 00:23:56,485
- Amber, where are you going?
670
00:23:56,485 --> 00:23:57,653
- I'm writing this poem.
671
00:23:57,653 --> 00:23:59,421
I'm writing this poem for us.
672
00:23:59,421 --> 00:24:01,156
And I want you guys to listen
to me
673
00:24:01,156 --> 00:24:02,758
when I come back and read it.
674
00:24:02,758 --> 00:24:05,361
Let me do something personal
for everybody, like how I feel.
675
00:24:08,297 --> 00:24:10,099
- Who has the moms page?
- I've got it.
676
00:24:10,099 --> 00:24:12,334
- This sticker is
"Home is where your mom is."
677
00:24:12,334 --> 00:24:13,602
- I've got it.
678
00:24:15,437 --> 00:24:17,773
- Jade, I like
what you did there.
679
00:24:17,773 --> 00:24:18,807
- I thought--I was thinking--
680
00:24:18,807 --> 00:24:20,709
I'm like, "I love that there."
681
00:24:20,709 --> 00:24:23,479
But I was like, "If we have
more photos of the ATVs,
682
00:24:23,479 --> 00:24:25,381
that would have been
a good title for it."
683
00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:27,016
- Right.
- All right.
684
00:24:27,016 --> 00:24:29,551
My beautiful people,
this is not just for me.
685
00:24:29,551 --> 00:24:31,220
This is literally
for all of us.
686
00:24:31,220 --> 00:24:33,188
And that's all I thought about
in my head.
687
00:24:33,188 --> 00:24:34,623
Let me sit down.
688
00:24:36,725 --> 00:24:40,796
Everybody, get really calm,
calm, calm, right?
689
00:24:40,796 --> 00:24:42,932
- Mm-hmm.
- All right, guys.
690
00:24:42,932 --> 00:24:44,466
Everybody's calm?
691
00:24:44,466 --> 00:24:46,101
You guys good?
692
00:24:46,101 --> 00:24:47,403
Chapter one.
693
00:24:47,403 --> 00:24:50,172
[tense music]
694
00:24:50,172 --> 00:24:55,644
- When she said "chapter one,"
I was like, "What the [bleep]?"
695
00:24:55,644 --> 00:24:57,179
- Chapter one, guys.
696
00:24:57,179 --> 00:25:00,149
- I just wanna know,
how many chapters are there?
697
00:25:02,484 --> 00:25:05,087
[upbeat music]
698
00:25:06,088 --> 00:25:09,525
- Chapter one, guys.
699
00:25:09,525 --> 00:25:11,060
This is chapter one.
700
00:25:11,060 --> 00:25:12,828
Years pass as we grow
into people
701
00:25:12,828 --> 00:25:14,797
we will one day try
to remember.
702
00:25:14,797 --> 00:25:16,832
Our memories fade
and run through our minds
703
00:25:16,832 --> 00:25:18,100
like our movies.
704
00:25:18,100 --> 00:25:19,702
To grow is to let go
of the pain of the past.
705
00:25:19,702 --> 00:25:22,338
This chapter is what we create.
706
00:25:22,338 --> 00:25:25,240
In one life,
we started a new life.
707
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,009
We speak for the teen mothers.
708
00:25:27,009 --> 00:25:28,277
We change.
709
00:25:28,277 --> 00:25:31,080
...internally was
our only guidance.
710
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,514
And that's it.
711
00:25:35,484 --> 00:25:37,653
- Amber scared me
when she said "chapter one,"
712
00:25:37,653 --> 00:25:40,189
but listen, it was a nice poem.
713
00:25:40,189 --> 00:25:41,256
- Oh.
714
00:25:41,256 --> 00:25:43,092
[clapping]
715
00:25:43,092 --> 00:25:45,260
- It was so deep to me.
716
00:25:45,260 --> 00:25:49,264
And like, it just, like,
tugged my heartstrings.
717
00:25:49,264 --> 00:25:50,899
- I'm gonna cry.
718
00:25:50,899 --> 00:25:53,035
- She said one line.
[all talking at once]
719
00:25:53,035 --> 00:25:55,838
- I thought it was
the best nightcap
720
00:25:55,838 --> 00:26:00,642
to this year for our scrapbook.
721
00:26:00,642 --> 00:26:04,380
- Seeing all
the pictures from this trip,
722
00:26:04,380 --> 00:26:06,682
we had a lot of fun.
723
00:26:06,682 --> 00:26:09,118
I'm really gonna miss
everybody.
724
00:26:09,118 --> 00:26:10,452
- Oh, that's so beautiful.
725
00:26:10,452 --> 00:26:12,287
- Oh, I love y'all.
726
00:26:12,287 --> 00:26:14,089
- We love y'all.
727
00:26:14,089 --> 00:26:16,759
- So we have
one last shing-ding.
728
00:26:16,759 --> 00:26:18,460
Everybody needs to go back,
get ready.
729
00:26:18,460 --> 00:26:19,995
I would bring
a sweatshirt, too,
730
00:26:19,995 --> 00:26:21,463
because we're going
into the mountains.
731
00:26:21,463 --> 00:26:22,998
- What?
- Are we going in a car?
732
00:26:22,998 --> 00:26:24,266
- Yes.
733
00:26:24,266 --> 00:26:25,768
Everybody dress nice.
734
00:26:25,768 --> 00:26:27,302
- Okay, this is gonna be a lot
of fun.
735
00:26:27,302 --> 00:26:28,937
Let's go get dressed.
736
00:26:28,937 --> 00:26:30,239
- Yeah, okay.
- Let's get dressed.
737
00:26:30,239 --> 00:26:31,440
- Whoo-hoo!
738
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,409
[upbeat music]
739
00:26:33,409 --> 00:26:36,011
- They said bring a sweater.
740
00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:38,480
- Cate says that she has
a big surprise,
741
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,115
and I have no idea what it is.
742
00:26:40,115 --> 00:26:41,216
- I'm wearing this.
- That one?
743
00:26:41,216 --> 00:26:42,818
- Yeah.
744
00:26:42,818 --> 00:26:44,920
- So honestly, I'm not really
sure what I'm expecting.
745
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:46,722
But I know it's
probably gonna be
746
00:26:46,722 --> 00:26:48,824
somewhere with, like,
really pretty scenery.
747
00:26:49,925 --> 00:26:52,061
- This week, prepare myself
748
00:26:52,061 --> 00:26:54,797
because I'm thinking it's about
to be more bugs.
749
00:26:54,797 --> 00:26:59,001
- ♪ Thank you
for being here in my life ♪
750
00:26:59,001 --> 00:27:01,270
- Here we go.
751
00:27:01,270 --> 00:27:02,938
- And we're off.
752
00:27:02,938 --> 00:27:05,407
- ♪ So thank you for always ♪
753
00:27:05,407 --> 00:27:07,509
- Damn. Okay.
- Let's go.
754
00:27:07,509 --> 00:27:08,644
- ♪ Spending the time ♪
755
00:27:08,644 --> 00:27:10,312
♪ Oh yes we do ♪
756
00:27:10,312 --> 00:27:11,580
- This is gorgeous.
757
00:27:11,580 --> 00:27:15,284
- ♪ Celebrate ♪
758
00:27:15,284 --> 00:27:17,453
- That's so cute.
759
00:27:17,453 --> 00:27:19,788
- ♪ Baby, thank you ♪
760
00:27:19,788 --> 00:27:21,457
- Wait,
do we have assigned seats?
761
00:27:21,457 --> 00:27:22,991
- Oh, Maci. Okay.
762
00:27:22,991 --> 00:27:24,960
- There couldn't be
a better ending than this,
763
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,763
but it just sucks that
Kayla's still not here
764
00:27:27,763 --> 00:27:29,565
and she's still on quarantine.
765
00:27:29,565 --> 00:27:32,468
♪ ♪
766
00:27:32,468 --> 00:27:34,937
- I've gained and learned
so much at this reunion.
767
00:27:34,937 --> 00:27:37,473
I think the session I had
with Coach B and my mom,
768
00:27:37,473 --> 00:27:39,241
I just learned so much.
769
00:27:39,241 --> 00:27:41,944
I do wanna go home
because I miss my kids.
770
00:27:41,944 --> 00:27:45,247
I'm not getting to participate
in any of the activities.
771
00:27:45,247 --> 00:27:46,748
I'm not getting to bond.
772
00:27:46,748 --> 00:27:48,617
I'm not getting to improve
my relationship with my mom.
773
00:27:48,617 --> 00:27:51,086
So I'm just kind of like,
what am I doing here?
774
00:27:51,086 --> 00:27:53,021
- You don't see this
in Indiana.
775
00:27:53,021 --> 00:27:54,523
- We're all
really missing her.
776
00:27:54,523 --> 00:27:56,792
This is like
the final family dinner,
777
00:27:56,792 --> 00:27:59,294
and I feel like
she's missing out.
778
00:27:59,294 --> 00:28:00,596
- Oh, look at that.
779
00:28:00,596 --> 00:28:02,030
- What is this?
780
00:28:02,030 --> 00:28:04,867
- It's from your mommy.
- It's from your mom.
781
00:28:04,867 --> 00:28:06,702
- I see, like,
all these canvases,
782
00:28:06,702 --> 00:28:08,237
like, around the table,
783
00:28:08,237 --> 00:28:12,007
and I see like one
and it's from my mom.
784
00:28:12,007 --> 00:28:14,176
"Amber,
hi, my daughter dearest.
785
00:28:14,176 --> 00:28:16,645
"I hope and pray you are
having a wonderful time
786
00:28:16,645 --> 00:28:18,213
"with the girls and their moms.
787
00:28:18,213 --> 00:28:19,948
"I would have loved
to have gone with you
788
00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:22,251
"and experienced
this memorable time with you.
789
00:28:22,251 --> 00:28:24,653
"I want you to know that
you are smart, beautiful,
790
00:28:24,653 --> 00:28:28,290
"so unique, and unstoppable.
791
00:28:28,290 --> 00:28:31,059
"And I am so proud
of the woman you're becoming.
792
00:28:31,059 --> 00:28:33,929
"Love you more than all
the raindrops in the ocean
793
00:28:33,929 --> 00:28:35,464
"and to the Moon and back.
794
00:28:35,464 --> 00:28:37,599
Love, Tonya."
- Aw.
795
00:28:37,599 --> 00:28:39,968
- To me, like, it feels,
like, really good
796
00:28:39,968 --> 00:28:42,437
to have something from her.
797
00:28:42,437 --> 00:28:44,006
Because I miss her.
798
00:28:44,006 --> 00:28:47,075
- It says, "Maci, I remember
when you started this journey.
799
00:28:47,075 --> 00:28:51,013
"As a teen mom myself,
I was so worried
800
00:28:51,013 --> 00:28:53,348
"because I knew the struggles
that would lie ahead of you.
801
00:28:53,348 --> 00:28:55,384
"But in true Maci fashion,
802
00:28:55,384 --> 00:28:57,586
you've handled them
one after another..."
803
00:28:57,586 --> 00:28:59,087
- Aw.
- "In such a way
804
00:28:59,087 --> 00:29:02,057
"that I and so many others
stand in awe.
805
00:29:02,057 --> 00:29:05,961
"You're an amazing woman,
friend, wife, mother,
806
00:29:05,961 --> 00:29:08,197
"and I am so proud
to call you my daughter.
807
00:29:08,197 --> 00:29:09,398
"I love you, Maci.
808
00:29:09,398 --> 00:29:11,200
Love, your mama, Sharon."
809
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,635
I'm really sad
she couldn't be on this trip.
810
00:29:13,635 --> 00:29:15,504
But honestly, it's making me
811
00:29:15,504 --> 00:29:18,073
not so sad about leaving,
812
00:29:18,073 --> 00:29:21,176
because I'm excited to go home
and just hug my mom.
813
00:29:21,176 --> 00:29:22,945
- "Catelynn Judith,
I'm so proud
814
00:29:22,945 --> 00:29:24,179
"of the woman you have become:
815
00:29:24,179 --> 00:29:25,981
"strong, beautiful,
and free spirited.
816
00:29:25,981 --> 00:29:28,383
Amazing mom,
kind-hearted, good friend."
817
00:29:28,383 --> 00:29:30,285
- "My baby girl Chey,
you're beyond special.
818
00:29:30,285 --> 00:29:31,386
"Keep shining.
819
00:29:31,386 --> 00:29:32,854
"Proud is an understatement.
820
00:29:32,854 --> 00:29:34,523
Love, Mommy."
821
00:29:34,523 --> 00:29:37,459
- "I am very, very proud
of the mother you are to Chloe.
822
00:29:37,459 --> 00:29:38,827
I am so proud to be your mom."
823
00:29:38,827 --> 00:29:39,895
I'm gonna cry.
824
00:29:39,895 --> 00:29:41,463
- It's okay, Jade.
825
00:29:41,463 --> 00:29:45,968
- "I'm genuinely proud of you.
826
00:29:45,968 --> 00:29:47,836
"I'm proud you are
such a great person
827
00:29:47,836 --> 00:29:49,238
"with such a great heart.
828
00:29:49,238 --> 00:29:50,672
Love, your mom."
829
00:29:50,672 --> 00:29:51,740
- That was beautiful.
830
00:29:51,740 --> 00:29:53,108
- You like that
little surprise?
831
00:29:53,108 --> 00:29:54,343
Do y'all wanna sit down
and have a glass of wine?
832
00:29:54,343 --> 00:29:55,877
- I'm so down.
833
00:29:55,877 --> 00:29:56,878
[dramatic music]
834
00:29:56,878 --> 00:29:58,213
[wasp buzzing]
835
00:29:58,213 --> 00:29:59,748
- There are yellow jackets
everywhere.
836
00:29:59,748 --> 00:30:01,283
[indistinct]
837
00:30:01,283 --> 00:30:02,751
- I'm telling you,
just don't worry about them.
838
00:30:02,751 --> 00:30:04,219
- Yeah.
839
00:30:04,219 --> 00:30:05,487
We're gonna tell her
don't worry about them,
840
00:30:05,487 --> 00:30:06,622
then her ass gonna get stung,
841
00:30:06,622 --> 00:30:07,823
and then she gonna hate us
for life.
842
00:30:07,823 --> 00:30:08,890
- Stop.
- Kiaya hates bugs,
843
00:30:08,890 --> 00:30:10,025
but for some reason,
844
00:30:10,025 --> 00:30:11,693
bugs love being around Kiaya.
845
00:30:11,693 --> 00:30:13,462
- [yelps]
846
00:30:13,462 --> 00:30:15,230
It was too many [bleep] bees.
847
00:30:15,230 --> 00:30:18,300
[wasp buzzing]
848
00:30:23,872 --> 00:30:25,641
[screaming]
849
00:30:25,641 --> 00:30:27,809
- I would.
850
00:30:27,809 --> 00:30:29,077
- Kiaya, come here.
Come here.
851
00:30:29,077 --> 00:30:30,279
Come here.
852
00:30:30,279 --> 00:30:32,314
- No, it was in my ear.
I'm like...
853
00:30:32,314 --> 00:30:33,782
- Guys, there's, like,
literally five.
854
00:30:33,782 --> 00:30:35,150
Come on.
- This is insane.
855
00:30:35,150 --> 00:30:36,385
- Too much.
856
00:30:36,385 --> 00:30:38,287
- I'm not gonna
sit around like that.
857
00:30:38,287 --> 00:30:41,123
I was trying to hold
my [bleep] together.
858
00:30:41,123 --> 00:30:43,025
The bugs ruined
my whole [bleep] day.
859
00:30:43,025 --> 00:30:45,227
Like, at this point,
[bleep] this picnic.
860
00:30:45,227 --> 00:30:46,561
Take me home.
861
00:30:46,561 --> 00:30:48,063
Uh-uh, I can't.
862
00:30:49,591 --> 00:30:50,725
- ♪ Baby, I'm stylish ♪
863
00:30:50,725 --> 00:30:51,827
♪ Bougie ♪
864
00:30:51,827 --> 00:30:53,095
♪ Sweet low down ♪
865
00:30:53,095 --> 00:30:55,230
- Sorry, buddy.
Yep, we're good.
866
00:30:55,230 --> 00:30:57,065
- I'm sitting here.
I'm trying to thug it out.
867
00:30:57,065 --> 00:31:01,136
Bugs is trying to eat us alive,
and nobody cares but me.
868
00:31:01,136 --> 00:31:04,106
So I kindly removed myself
from the situation
869
00:31:04,106 --> 00:31:06,708
until we got it under control.
870
00:31:06,708 --> 00:31:08,076
- I wanna ask you guys.
871
00:31:08,076 --> 00:31:10,745
Can you tell us
your high moment of the trip
872
00:31:10,745 --> 00:31:12,547
and your funniest moment
of the trip?
873
00:31:12,547 --> 00:31:14,950
- So first day was
the welcome party,
874
00:31:14,950 --> 00:31:17,986
which I thought was
really pretty and nice.
875
00:31:17,986 --> 00:31:20,255
But I think what was even
better is
876
00:31:20,255 --> 00:31:23,024
the whole bungee jumping
experience.
877
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,295
- You see the bridge
that we're standing on?
878
00:31:27,295 --> 00:31:30,065
We're gonna jump out
of our fears, off of this.
879
00:31:30,065 --> 00:31:31,633
- Don't look down.
Just walk right off the edge.
880
00:31:31,633 --> 00:31:32,634
- Just walk right off.
881
00:31:32,634 --> 00:31:35,403
[group screaming]
882
00:31:35,403 --> 00:31:38,006
- Oh, my God!
883
00:31:38,006 --> 00:31:39,674
- You've got bigger balls
than your mom!
884
00:31:39,674 --> 00:31:41,076
[laughter]
885
00:31:41,076 --> 00:31:43,211
- I wish more people
would have done it.
886
00:31:43,211 --> 00:31:45,380
- Wait, who did it,
and who did not do it?
887
00:31:45,380 --> 00:31:46,715
- I wasn't there.
- I did it.
888
00:31:46,715 --> 00:31:47,749
- You did it.
- Mm-hmm.
889
00:31:47,749 --> 00:31:48,783
She did it.
- We did it.
890
00:31:48,783 --> 00:31:50,218
We did it.
891
00:31:50,218 --> 00:31:52,621
- So Chey mentioned
you guys went rock climbing.
892
00:31:52,621 --> 00:31:54,022
- He is not holding back.
893
00:31:54,022 --> 00:31:55,190
- I'm a little jealous
'cause that's
894
00:31:55,190 --> 00:31:56,825
something that I wanted to do.
895
00:31:58,894 --> 00:32:00,128
- Don't give up.
You got this.
896
00:32:00,128 --> 00:32:02,898
- My feet hurt really bad.
897
00:32:02,898 --> 00:32:05,033
- Yeah, go Jade.
898
00:32:06,268 --> 00:32:08,036
- You got this.
- Good job.
899
00:32:08,036 --> 00:32:09,671
Go, Cate. Good job.
900
00:32:09,671 --> 00:32:10,739
- Spiderwoman.
901
00:32:10,739 --> 00:32:14,142
[all cheering]
902
00:32:14,142 --> 00:32:15,577
- Did you go?
- I went!
903
00:32:15,577 --> 00:32:16,745
- She went to the top.
904
00:32:16,745 --> 00:32:17,913
She got
her little booty picture.
905
00:32:17,913 --> 00:32:20,448
- Chey, turn around!
Flex!
906
00:32:20,448 --> 00:32:22,617
- Did anybody get
my booty picture?
907
00:32:22,617 --> 00:32:23,652
- Keep it there.
908
00:32:23,652 --> 00:32:25,053
- Does it look like Jade?
909
00:32:25,053 --> 00:32:27,455
- All right,
I want whitewater rapids.
910
00:32:27,455 --> 00:32:28,790
- Yeah.
- That's what I want.
911
00:32:28,790 --> 00:32:29,691
- That was fun.
- That was good.
912
00:32:29,691 --> 00:32:32,160
[all cheering]
913
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,562
- Oh, you're good.
914
00:32:33,562 --> 00:32:35,897
- Looks like
some scary [bleep].
915
00:32:36,731 --> 00:32:38,633
[screaming]
916
00:32:38,633 --> 00:32:41,002
- Hard left!
917
00:32:41,002 --> 00:32:43,572
- I fell in the water.
It was fun.
918
00:32:43,572 --> 00:32:44,773
- You didn't even get
all the way in, bitch.
919
00:32:44,773 --> 00:32:46,208
Shut up.
- You did.
920
00:32:46,208 --> 00:32:47,842
- She dipped her coochie
[bleep] in and said,
921
00:32:47,842 --> 00:32:50,812
"I regret it!"
922
00:32:50,812 --> 00:32:53,548
[laughter]
923
00:32:53,548 --> 00:32:55,016
- Wait, the oar!
924
00:32:55,016 --> 00:32:58,053
- [shouting indistinctly]
925
00:32:58,053 --> 00:33:00,488
Help me! Someone, please!
Aah!
926
00:33:00,488 --> 00:33:02,157
- She dipped
her coochie [bleep] in,
927
00:33:02,157 --> 00:33:03,291
she tried to get out,
928
00:33:03,291 --> 00:33:04,726
and then her ass fell in.
929
00:33:04,726 --> 00:33:06,228
- Exactly, bitch.
930
00:33:06,228 --> 00:33:07,796
- I had a really good time
at the pool.
931
00:33:07,796 --> 00:33:09,364
That's my element.
932
00:33:09,364 --> 00:33:11,933
Pool, bathing suit,
little drinky-drink in my hand.
933
00:33:11,933 --> 00:33:13,201
- It was so nice.
934
00:33:13,201 --> 00:33:14,569
- And then when
Coach B showed up,
935
00:33:14,569 --> 00:33:17,305
I knew we were getting
into some [bleep].
936
00:33:17,305 --> 00:33:18,840
- We really got
into some [bleep].
937
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,175
- We got into some mud.
938
00:33:21,276 --> 00:33:23,211
- Oh, there's a pit.
939
00:33:23,211 --> 00:33:24,980
- Are we some [bleep] pigs?
940
00:33:24,980 --> 00:33:26,648
This is mud!
941
00:33:26,648 --> 00:33:29,918
I don't wanna roll around
in the mud.
942
00:33:29,918 --> 00:33:31,186
- It looked nasty.
943
00:33:31,186 --> 00:33:33,488
- That looks like it's deep!
944
00:33:33,488 --> 00:33:34,623
- Cheyenne,
you can get in there,
945
00:33:34,623 --> 00:33:36,725
but I'm not getting
in that mud.
946
00:33:36,725 --> 00:33:39,761
- Something that was so hurtful
and devastating to me
947
00:33:39,761 --> 00:33:43,999
was watching April sit there
and literally grab that rope
948
00:33:43,999 --> 00:33:46,868
and yank you so hard that mud
is hitting you in the mouth.
949
00:33:46,868 --> 00:33:49,604
- You raised a strong enough
[bleep] woman to stand up
950
00:33:49,604 --> 00:33:50,739
for what the [bleep]
she believes in.
951
00:33:50,739 --> 00:33:51,873
- I don't worry about you
952
00:33:51,873 --> 00:33:53,008
because you're
so [bleep] strong,
953
00:33:53,008 --> 00:33:54,743
I don't have
to worry about you.
954
00:33:54,743 --> 00:33:56,444
You always have been.
955
00:33:56,444 --> 00:33:57,746
You've been
the best [bleep] kid
956
00:33:57,746 --> 00:33:59,281
in the whole [bleep] world.
- Stop, stop.
957
00:33:59,281 --> 00:34:00,649
Stay right there.
Stay right there.
958
00:34:00,649 --> 00:34:02,851
- I never had
to worry about you.
959
00:34:02,851 --> 00:34:04,119
- This is your mom.
960
00:34:04,119 --> 00:34:06,621
Why isn't your mom
calming down?
961
00:34:06,621 --> 00:34:08,590
And then I realized,
"Oh, my God, that's how
962
00:34:08,590 --> 00:34:09,958
April handles issues."
963
00:34:09,958 --> 00:34:11,726
She literally just reacts.
964
00:34:11,726 --> 00:34:13,028
And she doesn't care
who else is around
965
00:34:13,028 --> 00:34:14,696
and getting affected.
966
00:34:14,696 --> 00:34:16,398
- I have to say something.
967
00:34:16,398 --> 00:34:19,267
I can see Cate is
getting upset, you know,
968
00:34:19,267 --> 00:34:20,602
and I don't like that.
969
00:34:20,602 --> 00:34:22,904
With April, she has guilt
970
00:34:22,904 --> 00:34:25,006
because she knows what she did.
971
00:34:25,006 --> 00:34:26,374
Her yanking that hard
and [bleep].
972
00:34:26,374 --> 00:34:28,777
- It's just trying
to get Cate out of it.
973
00:34:28,777 --> 00:34:30,211
- The guilt is not yours
to hold.
974
00:34:30,211 --> 00:34:32,514
- Exactly.
- And it's not yours to feel.
975
00:34:32,514 --> 00:34:35,016
April--she might not see
how some of that behavior
976
00:34:35,016 --> 00:34:36,551
comes off to Cate.
977
00:34:36,551 --> 00:34:38,586
My mom feels guilt,
but my mom's
978
00:34:38,586 --> 00:34:40,322
not gonna sit
and yank me till I cry
979
00:34:40,322 --> 00:34:41,890
and I say I'm in pain.
980
00:34:41,890 --> 00:34:42,957
- Oh, my gosh.
981
00:34:42,957 --> 00:34:44,426
I'm like--I'm here.
982
00:34:44,426 --> 00:34:46,428
I'm riding the river,
going with the flow.
983
00:34:46,428 --> 00:34:49,197
But calm the [bleep] down.
984
00:34:52,784 --> 00:34:55,454
[percussive music]
985
00:34:55,454 --> 00:34:58,590
- My mom feels guilt,
but my mom's not gonna sit
986
00:34:58,590 --> 00:35:00,792
and yank me till I cry
and I say I'm in pain.
987
00:35:00,792 --> 00:35:02,995
At the end of the day, Cate,
who's it hurting?
988
00:35:02,995 --> 00:35:04,196
It's hurting you.
- Right.
989
00:35:04,196 --> 00:35:05,197
- It's not hurting--
990
00:35:05,197 --> 00:35:06,865
It's hurting April.
991
00:35:06,865 --> 00:35:09,301
- At this point, I'm just
kind of, like, over drama.
992
00:35:09,301 --> 00:35:11,403
- I have to say that April
has been trying for years.
993
00:35:11,403 --> 00:35:12,738
- But April's not a bad mom.
994
00:35:12,738 --> 00:35:14,273
No.
- Right, yeah.
995
00:35:14,273 --> 00:35:15,874
- We're saying
these are coping mechanisms
996
00:35:15,874 --> 00:35:17,542
that April uses.
997
00:35:17,542 --> 00:35:19,745
These are the things that
we witness from the outside,
998
00:35:19,745 --> 00:35:21,647
looking in, as thinking
like, "Oh, my God,
999
00:35:21,647 --> 00:35:24,783
so that's a metaphor for Cate
and April's relationship."
1000
00:35:24,783 --> 00:35:26,518
And I'm not saying
that's all April is.
1001
00:35:26,518 --> 00:35:28,120
- No, it is.
It's like that though.
1002
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,188
- I wanna ask what
your low of the trip was,
1003
00:35:30,188 --> 00:35:31,890
but I don't wanna make it
a negative thing.
1004
00:35:31,890 --> 00:35:33,759
I wanna turn it
into a positive.
1005
00:35:33,759 --> 00:35:36,762
So almost if you answer
with what your low is
1006
00:35:36,762 --> 00:35:39,431
and what you think
next year can be better.
1007
00:35:39,431 --> 00:35:42,034
Like, how do we fix it almost?
You get what I mean?
1008
00:35:42,034 --> 00:35:44,336
- I think we need to be
more aware
1009
00:35:44,336 --> 00:35:47,873
of people being physical
that put us in positions
1010
00:35:47,873 --> 00:35:50,075
that we are having issues with.
1011
00:35:50,075 --> 00:35:51,043
- No.
So I can kick you
1012
00:35:51,043 --> 00:35:52,444
in your [bleep] throat.
1013
00:35:52,444 --> 00:35:53,745
- 'Cause you can't fight?
- No.
1014
00:35:53,745 --> 00:35:54,980
[bleep] you, bitch.
- 'Cause you can't fight?
1015
00:35:54,980 --> 00:35:55,981
- [bleep] you.
- Sit down.
1016
00:35:55,981 --> 00:35:57,082
- [bleep] you.
1017
00:35:57,082 --> 00:35:58,617
- Come down, baby.
- Ash.
1018
00:35:58,617 --> 00:35:59,651
- [bleep] you.
1019
00:35:59,651 --> 00:36:01,653
- Come on!
Come on, bitch!
1020
00:36:01,653 --> 00:36:02,854
Come on, bitch!
1021
00:36:02,854 --> 00:36:04,623
- What happened that night
was a low.
1022
00:36:04,623 --> 00:36:06,658
- I think what Amber
is talking about is good.
1023
00:36:06,658 --> 00:36:08,593
I feel like we do
need to be more aware.
1024
00:36:08,593 --> 00:36:11,029
Like if there's drama between
certain people or anything,
1025
00:36:11,029 --> 00:36:12,364
like talking.
1026
00:36:12,364 --> 00:36:13,965
And things don't have
to get physical.
1027
00:36:13,965 --> 00:36:16,702
- For me, next year,
so it doesn't happen again,
1028
00:36:16,702 --> 00:36:19,671
if two people that we know
are coming into the situation
1029
00:36:19,671 --> 00:36:21,873
with some drama
or with some beef,
1030
00:36:21,873 --> 00:36:25,177
let's sit them down
with the mediator immediately.
1031
00:36:25,177 --> 00:36:26,845
- But also,
I feel like if people
1032
00:36:26,845 --> 00:36:29,247
aren't taking accountability,
we can't get anywhere.
1033
00:36:29,247 --> 00:36:31,283
So maybe, as a group,
we have to...
1034
00:36:31,283 --> 00:36:32,617
- Hold them accountable.
- Hold people...
1035
00:36:32,617 --> 00:36:34,119
- Yes.
- Accountable and say,
1036
00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:36,388
"Hey, you're diverting
from what we're talking about."
1037
00:36:36,388 --> 00:36:38,457
If two people aren't willing
to be adults
1038
00:36:38,457 --> 00:36:40,992
and really figure out an issue,
1039
00:36:40,992 --> 00:36:44,262
I don't know if the mediator
is, honestly, gonna be helpful.
1040
00:36:44,262 --> 00:36:45,597
- Seeing me and Leah today,
1041
00:36:45,597 --> 00:36:47,899
this is what
means the most to me.
1042
00:36:47,899 --> 00:36:49,301
I had this--
1043
00:36:49,301 --> 00:36:50,869
[crow cawing]
1044
00:36:50,869 --> 00:36:52,037
Shut the--
1045
00:36:52,037 --> 00:36:54,406
[laughter]
1046
00:36:54,406 --> 00:36:56,108
- This crow is like, aah.
1047
00:36:56,108 --> 00:36:57,209
[crow cawing]
1048
00:36:57,209 --> 00:36:59,111
- Come on, now!
Listen!
1049
00:36:59,111 --> 00:37:00,379
- All right, okay.
1050
00:37:00,379 --> 00:37:01,580
So, all right,
I'm just gonna say.
1051
00:37:01,580 --> 00:37:02,914
When I had...
[crow cawing]
1052
00:37:02,914 --> 00:37:05,417
A completely...
- Stop.
1053
00:37:05,417 --> 00:37:06,585
- It just kept
interrupting Amber.
1054
00:37:06,585 --> 00:37:08,120
It was funny as hell.
I can't lie.
1055
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,888
But you know, [bleep] happens.
1056
00:37:09,888 --> 00:37:11,289
- I still love the nature.
1057
00:37:11,289 --> 00:37:13,258
They're just--they're just
giving me some props.
1058
00:37:13,258 --> 00:37:15,060
[crow cawing]
1059
00:37:15,060 --> 00:37:16,361
- I wanna do a cheers.
1060
00:37:16,361 --> 00:37:17,662
- Okay.
- Yes.
1061
00:37:17,662 --> 00:37:19,631
- Okay, here's to another
Teen Mom Family Reunion.
1062
00:37:19,631 --> 00:37:21,366
Here's to us being
amazing parents
1063
00:37:21,366 --> 00:37:23,235
and doing better than what
our parents have done.
1064
00:37:23,235 --> 00:37:24,503
- Whew.
- Right?
1065
00:37:24,503 --> 00:37:26,204
Even if we had
the best lives ever,
1066
00:37:26,204 --> 00:37:28,340
we're at least doing something
at least a little different.
1067
00:37:28,340 --> 00:37:30,375
Cheers to us.
- Cheers to us.
1068
00:37:30,375 --> 00:37:32,911
- Cheers!
all: Cheers.
1069
00:37:32,911 --> 00:37:34,212
- Now let's go on a boat.
1070
00:37:34,212 --> 00:37:35,647
- What?
- We're going on a boat.
1071
00:37:35,647 --> 00:37:40,419
- ♪ Let's go someplace
we can lay low ♪
1072
00:37:40,419 --> 00:37:45,390
♪ Throw your cares
in the ocean breeze ♪
1073
00:37:45,390 --> 00:37:46,725
- I don't get--
1074
00:37:46,725 --> 00:37:49,394
- You guys, have you
been on a sailboat?
1075
00:37:49,394 --> 00:37:50,896
- Take a picture!
1076
00:37:50,896 --> 00:37:52,898
♪ ♪
1077
00:37:52,898 --> 00:37:55,834
- The boat ride at sunset
is the perfect way
1078
00:37:55,834 --> 00:38:00,172
to end this crazy
Teen Mom Family Reunion.
1079
00:38:00,172 --> 00:38:04,910
- Oh! Whoo!
1080
00:38:04,910 --> 00:38:07,345
- Bucket list for sure.
1081
00:38:07,345 --> 00:38:09,648
Been dying my whole life
to go on a sailboat.
1082
00:38:09,648 --> 00:38:13,485
♪ ♪
1083
00:38:13,485 --> 00:38:15,987
- I'm just so proud
of this group.
1084
00:38:15,987 --> 00:38:17,289
[dramatic music]
1085
00:38:17,289 --> 00:38:20,325
- Hey, it's a great day.
1086
00:38:20,325 --> 00:38:23,595
- This is the best ending
to this reunion.
1087
00:38:23,595 --> 00:38:24,796
- Skipper!
- Aah.
1088
00:38:24,796 --> 00:38:26,231
- What the--
that's what his name was.
1089
00:38:26,231 --> 00:38:27,899
- Enjoy.
1090
00:38:27,899 --> 00:38:31,970
- When I came to Teen Mom
Family Reunion last year,
1091
00:38:31,970 --> 00:38:34,506
I felt a little lost in life.
1092
00:38:34,506 --> 00:38:38,577
And I feel like this year,
after this whole experience
1093
00:38:38,577 --> 00:38:42,147
with my mom and Sean,
I feel happy and confident.
1094
00:38:42,147 --> 00:38:45,517
- ♪ You know you make me,
you make me stronger ♪
1095
00:38:45,517 --> 00:38:47,919
- It's so pretty out here.
1096
00:38:47,919 --> 00:38:49,287
- I learned a lot
at this reunion.
1097
00:38:49,287 --> 00:38:51,289
Not just about myself, though.
1098
00:38:51,289 --> 00:38:53,558
I just learned that
a lot of people
1099
00:38:53,558 --> 00:38:55,327
go through a lot of things
and basically,
1100
00:38:55,327 --> 00:38:56,895
it's just a part of life.
1101
00:38:56,895 --> 00:39:00,098
Everybody has to figure
[bleep] out, not just me.
1102
00:39:00,098 --> 00:39:02,467
- Just quietness.
1103
00:39:02,467 --> 00:39:04,769
- I'm so happy
that Zach and I
1104
00:39:04,769 --> 00:39:06,505
went through this experience
together.
1105
00:39:06,505 --> 00:39:08,340
And I'm hoping
that we can continue
1106
00:39:08,340 --> 00:39:10,842
to work on our relationship.
1107
00:39:10,842 --> 00:39:11,877
- This all we need.
1108
00:39:11,877 --> 00:39:13,044
We don't wanna move.
1109
00:39:13,044 --> 00:39:14,412
We wanna float and live.
1110
00:39:14,412 --> 00:39:15,580
- The biggest thing
that I learned,
1111
00:39:15,580 --> 00:39:17,415
I think,
from the reunion this year
1112
00:39:17,415 --> 00:39:20,085
is being present
in a positive way
1113
00:39:20,085 --> 00:39:22,587
for my family and myself.
1114
00:39:22,587 --> 00:39:24,789
- We're on a sailboat
in Oregon!
1115
00:39:24,789 --> 00:39:27,692
This Family Reunion
has not disappointed.
1116
00:39:27,692 --> 00:39:30,428
I feel like there's been
so much growth.
1117
00:39:30,428 --> 00:39:34,499
- [trilling]
- [trilling]
1118
00:39:34,499 --> 00:39:36,434
- Leaving this reunion,
I feel good.
1119
00:39:36,434 --> 00:39:38,169
I know that there's some things
1120
00:39:38,169 --> 00:39:39,838
that I need to, like, work on
1121
00:39:39,838 --> 00:39:42,207
as far as my mom's relationship
with me.
1122
00:39:42,207 --> 00:39:47,112
We have a long journey
to get to where we need to be.
1123
00:39:47,112 --> 00:39:48,780
But we'll be okay.
1124
00:39:48,780 --> 00:39:50,982
- All right, y'all.
- We'll do this. We'll do this.
1125
00:39:50,982 --> 00:39:53,652
- This is, I feel like,
1126
00:39:53,652 --> 00:39:55,620
such a good way
to end our reunion.
1127
00:39:55,620 --> 00:39:59,057
Despite everything--
the traumas, the issues,
1128
00:39:59,057 --> 00:40:02,494
everything--this has brought
us all together.
1129
00:40:02,494 --> 00:40:05,130
And we have to all realize
that we are so fortunate
1130
00:40:05,130 --> 00:40:06,264
and blessed and beautiful.
1131
00:40:06,264 --> 00:40:07,399
- Yeah!
1132
00:40:07,399 --> 00:40:08,967
- Whoo!
1133
00:40:08,967 --> 00:40:11,136
[all cheer]
1134
00:40:11,136 --> 00:40:14,973
- ♪ I found peace
in the melody ♪
1135
00:40:14,973 --> 00:40:18,977
♪ I'm riding to the rhythm
of my heartbeat ♪
1136
00:40:18,977 --> 00:40:22,914
♪ The world and I in harmony ♪
1137
00:40:22,914 --> 00:40:25,383
♪ Through syncopation
find my weakness ♪
1138
00:40:25,383 --> 00:40:26,518
♪ ♪
1139
00:40:26,518 --> 00:40:29,654
♪ Got to love this feeling ♪
1140
00:40:29,654 --> 00:40:32,123
♪ Being me, myself, and I ♪
1141
00:40:32,123 --> 00:40:34,092
♪ Building
freedom by the sky ♪
1142
00:40:34,092 --> 00:40:38,063
♪ Letting go revealing ♪
1143
00:40:38,063 --> 00:40:39,965
♪ Feel the wind blow
on my skin ♪
1144
00:40:39,965 --> 00:40:42,400
♪ The one I'm loving
living in ♪
1145
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,604
♪ Got to love this feeling ♪
1146
00:40:45,604 --> 00:40:48,540
♪ Being me, myself, and I ♪
1147
00:40:48,540 --> 00:40:50,008
♪ I'm free and by the sky ♪
1148
00:40:50,008 --> 00:40:53,979
[all cheering]
1149
00:40:53,979 --> 00:40:55,947
- ♪ Feel the wind
blow on my skin ♪
1150
00:40:55,947 --> 00:40:59,417
♪ The one I'm loving
living in ♪
1151
00:41:01,336 --> 00:41:02,237
- Up next on
"Teen Mom Family Reunion:
1152
00:41:02,237 --> 00:41:03,538
The Aftermath"...
1153
00:41:03,538 --> 00:41:05,240
- It definitely looked like
a bump to me.
1154
00:41:05,240 --> 00:41:07,209
- Bumped or not,
you don't spit.
1155
00:41:07,209 --> 00:41:08,944
- She's a snake. She's messy.
1156
00:41:08,944 --> 00:41:11,680
She's a fake-ass, selective,
wannabe bully.
1157
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:13,315
- Hey, me and my mom
are gonna leave.
1158
00:41:13,315 --> 00:41:14,649
- It finally happens;
1159
00:41:14,649 --> 00:41:16,818
Maci and Ryan on the couch
together.
1160
00:41:16,818 --> 00:41:19,421
Ryan, why didn't you want to
attend Family Reunion?