1 00:00:01,969 --> 00:00:03,970 [music] 2 00:00:05,306 --> 00:00:06,640 [Jade] We're taking y'all to... 3 00:00:06,740 --> 00:00:09,443 [Both] Colombia! 4 00:00:09,543 --> 00:00:13,680 [Woman] Previously on Teen Mom Family Reunion. 5 00:00:13,780 --> 00:00:16,750 [Chey] This time, it's all about couples, love-- 6 00:00:16,850 --> 00:00:18,952 -[Jade] Relationships. - [Chey] A little bit of drama. 7 00:00:19,052 --> 00:00:22,757 It's time to party! 8 00:00:22,857 --> 00:00:24,191 How's the wedding stuff? 9 00:00:24,291 --> 00:00:28,062 We went over our budget, probably, like, $45,000. 10 00:00:28,529 --> 00:00:30,097 Yeah, yeah, yeah! 11 00:00:30,197 --> 00:00:33,434 [Maci] Cory has a lot of energy, but a little over the top. 12 00:00:33,534 --> 00:00:35,536 I'm not sure where this night's gonna go. 13 00:00:35,636 --> 00:00:36,903 [Cory] You're gonna be mad at me? 14 00:00:37,003 --> 00:00:38,538 I don't wanna talk about that right now. 15 00:00:38,639 --> 00:00:41,475 -I wanna talk about it, though. -Because you are drunk! 16 00:00:41,575 --> 00:00:44,277 Just calm the [bleep] down. 17 00:00:44,845 --> 00:00:45,846 [door slams] 18 00:00:45,946 --> 00:00:47,048 -Hey! -No! 19 00:00:47,148 --> 00:00:49,650 [indistinct shouting] 20 00:00:49,750 --> 00:00:52,186 [Jade] We have one more little surprise for you guys. 21 00:00:52,286 --> 00:00:54,354 Jenelle, say hello. Come on! 22 00:00:54,454 --> 00:00:56,856 It's your time to come out now! 23 00:00:59,059 --> 00:01:00,560 [Man] ♪ Here we go ♪ 24 00:01:00,661 --> 00:01:02,496 [Woman] ♪ You show up, you show up, you show up ♪ 25 00:01:02,596 --> 00:01:03,931 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 26 00:01:04,031 --> 00:01:05,699 ♪ You show up, you show up, you show up ♪ 27 00:01:05,799 --> 00:01:07,067 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 28 00:01:10,904 --> 00:01:12,706 What's that? 29 00:01:14,808 --> 00:01:18,346 Who is coming in? Like, I'm kinda nervous. 30 00:01:18,446 --> 00:01:19,746 Who the [bleep] is that? 31 00:01:21,115 --> 00:01:23,883 -Hey, I know that guy! -I hear there's a party here. 32 00:01:23,984 --> 00:01:26,320 Welcome, welcome! 33 00:01:26,420 --> 00:01:29,623 ♪ Hey, hey It's another day ♪ 34 00:01:29,723 --> 00:01:32,192 [Jade] Me and Cheyenne chose new coaches this season that 35 00:01:32,292 --> 00:01:35,595 specialize in everything couples 36 00:01:35,695 --> 00:01:39,032 because it is a couples retreat. 37 00:01:39,132 --> 00:01:41,468 -Dr. Mike! -What's up, Tyler? 38 00:01:41,568 --> 00:01:43,704 I cannot believe Dr. Mike is here. 39 00:01:43,804 --> 00:01:45,573 Dr. Mike, I was with him for a while. 40 00:01:45,673 --> 00:01:47,575 I know how good he is at what he does. 41 00:01:47,675 --> 00:01:51,078 What is your adult self telling that little boy? 42 00:01:51,178 --> 00:01:52,546 It's gonna be okay. 43 00:01:52,646 --> 00:01:54,381 So that's makes me even more excited, not just for me, 44 00:01:54,481 --> 00:01:55,682 but for all the other couples. 45 00:01:55,782 --> 00:01:57,852 I know we're about to get in some deep work. 46 00:01:57,952 --> 00:02:00,254 Cate and Ty, you guys obviously know me. 47 00:02:00,354 --> 00:02:01,388 Ten years I've known you, right? 48 00:02:01,488 --> 00:02:03,090 Yeah. 49 00:02:03,190 --> 00:02:04,791 [Maci] I'm glad it's the coaches because I thought that it 50 00:02:04,891 --> 00:02:07,394 might be Farrah, Ashley, or Jenelle coming in. 51 00:02:07,494 --> 00:02:09,596 I feel like our group is good right now. 52 00:02:09,697 --> 00:02:12,298 Any newcomers might change things. 53 00:02:12,399 --> 00:02:14,868 I don't know the rest of you. None of you know Michaiah. 54 00:02:14,969 --> 00:02:16,703 So let us just introduce ourselves. 55 00:02:16,804 --> 00:02:18,638 We are your coaches. I'm Dr. Mike. 56 00:02:18,738 --> 00:02:21,642 I specialize in couples and sex therapy. 57 00:02:21,742 --> 00:02:25,179 -I'm Michaiah. -[Group] Hi, Michaiah! 58 00:02:25,279 --> 00:02:27,080 I am a relationship expert. 59 00:02:27,180 --> 00:02:30,383 I think Dr. Mike and Michaiah are gonna be really good for us. 60 00:02:30,483 --> 00:02:32,819 I feel like they're gonna do some serious work 61 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,055 with me and Cory. God knows we need it. 62 00:02:35,155 --> 00:02:38,659 My specialty is really helping y'all to dig deep, 63 00:02:38,759 --> 00:02:41,062 whether it's childhood trauma, the past wounds 64 00:02:41,162 --> 00:02:42,429 of your relationship. 65 00:02:42,529 --> 00:02:44,631 I know that if we can heal the wounds underneath, 66 00:02:44,731 --> 00:02:47,267 it's gonna to take all of your relationships to the next level. 67 00:02:47,367 --> 00:02:51,638 I am the complement to Dr. Mike. While he does the trauma work, 68 00:02:51,738 --> 00:02:54,174 childhood stuff, I meet you in the here and now 69 00:02:54,274 --> 00:02:58,846 to see how those things are influencing you today. 70 00:02:58,946 --> 00:03:01,948 Michaiah comes in with that positive vibe that automatically 71 00:03:02,048 --> 00:03:05,018 makes you feel like you wanna tell her all your dirty secrets. 72 00:03:05,118 --> 00:03:06,553 And the reason we're doing this in a group 73 00:03:06,653 --> 00:03:08,355 is because the power of the group 74 00:03:08,456 --> 00:03:10,891 can be so beneficial to that healing. 75 00:03:10,991 --> 00:03:14,662 We want to be sure that you can leave here as masters 76 00:03:14,762 --> 00:03:16,530 of your relationships. 77 00:03:16,630 --> 00:03:18,031 ♪ Don't say I love you ♪ 78 00:03:18,131 --> 00:03:21,301 [Jade] Dr. Mike and Michaiah are ideal for what this 79 00:03:21,401 --> 00:03:23,404 Teen Mom Family Reunion is all about, 80 00:03:23,504 --> 00:03:25,572 which is couples, love, intimacy, 81 00:03:25,672 --> 00:03:27,574 communication, understanding. 82 00:03:27,674 --> 00:03:30,844 And they are going to touch on all of those. 83 00:03:30,944 --> 00:03:35,315 Guess what, y'all? The healing starts right now. 84 00:03:35,415 --> 00:03:36,450 Now? 85 00:03:36,550 --> 00:03:38,586 Hell, no. 86 00:03:38,686 --> 00:03:41,655 -Follow us. Here we go. -Drinks down. Come with us. 87 00:03:41,755 --> 00:03:43,257 [Dr. Mike] Your first exercise. 88 00:03:43,357 --> 00:03:44,658 [Cory] We're just having a party. 89 00:03:44,758 --> 00:03:45,892 Everyone's having fun. 90 00:03:45,993 --> 00:03:48,262 And now we gotta go do a workshop. 91 00:03:48,362 --> 00:03:49,763 Let's go. 92 00:03:49,863 --> 00:03:53,967 [music] 93 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:57,671 We go outside and we see tiki torches. 94 00:03:57,771 --> 00:03:59,840 We see these pink X's. 95 00:03:59,940 --> 00:04:01,308 I'm thinking we're about to get eliminated. 96 00:04:01,408 --> 00:04:03,810 I watch enough Survivor. I know how this goes. 97 00:04:03,911 --> 00:04:06,513 The target's already on us. We've been arguing tonight. 98 00:04:06,613 --> 00:04:08,682 I'm not trying to get voted off first. 99 00:04:08,782 --> 00:04:12,118 All right, we talked about digging deep. 100 00:04:12,219 --> 00:04:16,223 We don't yet know your level of commitment to yourselves, 101 00:04:16,323 --> 00:04:18,091 to each other, to the group. 102 00:04:18,191 --> 00:04:21,595 What you have to do first is, as a couple, go to the X, 103 00:04:21,695 --> 00:04:25,932 which marks the spot. And you are going to dig deep 104 00:04:26,032 --> 00:04:28,802 to find that proverbial buried treasure. 105 00:04:28,902 --> 00:04:31,138 I'm really trying to be a team player, but it's like, 106 00:04:31,238 --> 00:04:34,208 it's been a long day. I just got my nails done. 107 00:04:34,308 --> 00:04:35,676 You dig in the dirt. 108 00:04:35,776 --> 00:04:39,346 Then take that buried treasure and figure out as a group 109 00:04:39,447 --> 00:04:44,018 how to put it together there in the center of this beach. 110 00:04:44,118 --> 00:04:45,352 Wait, wait, question! 111 00:04:45,452 --> 00:04:48,422 Is the buried treasure a metaphor, or is it physical? 112 00:04:48,522 --> 00:04:50,491 -It is real. -Okay. 113 00:04:50,591 --> 00:04:53,494 Are you ready? Set. Go! 114 00:04:53,594 --> 00:04:55,562 Go, babe! 115 00:04:58,432 --> 00:04:59,733 You got it? 116 00:04:59,833 --> 00:05:01,101 [Maci] I know this isn't a competition, 117 00:05:01,201 --> 00:05:04,338 but we want to get whatever the hell this is 118 00:05:04,438 --> 00:05:06,106 out of the sand first. 119 00:05:06,206 --> 00:05:08,942 Right here. Right here. Oh, hey. Got it? 120 00:05:09,043 --> 00:05:11,244 I'm H-B-I-C, head bitch in charge. 121 00:05:11,344 --> 00:05:12,979 I handle a lot of stuff at home. 122 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,149 I want him sometimes to just jump in. 123 00:05:15,249 --> 00:05:17,684 This is our opportunity to work on that 124 00:05:17,784 --> 00:05:19,387 and for him to step up. 125 00:05:19,487 --> 00:05:20,453 Dig parallel with me. 126 00:05:20,553 --> 00:05:22,756 Get it, babe! Get it, babe! 127 00:05:22,856 --> 00:05:25,426 -My nails are gonna break. -If you love me, you'll get it! 128 00:05:25,526 --> 00:05:30,831 It's so funny to watch everybody in their different dynamics. 129 00:05:30,931 --> 00:05:32,732 Get in there, babe! 130 00:05:32,832 --> 00:05:35,702 [Chey] We co-parent with Cory and Taylor. 131 00:05:35,802 --> 00:05:37,738 I see their dynamic all the time. 132 00:05:37,838 --> 00:05:41,075 It's a lot of, like, Cory coaching Taylor. 133 00:05:41,175 --> 00:05:42,776 He's like, "Dah, dah, dah, dah, dah!" 134 00:05:42,876 --> 00:05:43,977 Like he's a coach! 135 00:05:44,077 --> 00:05:46,680 Cheyenne and Zach may be the first couple. 136 00:05:46,780 --> 00:05:49,150 -Oh, no, no, no. -Oh, oh, oh! 137 00:05:49,250 --> 00:05:50,884 Cate and Ty for the win! 138 00:05:50,984 --> 00:05:52,419 [Taylor] Of course, the couple that's been together the longest 139 00:05:52,519 --> 00:05:54,254 gets it out first, Cate and Ty. 140 00:05:54,354 --> 00:05:56,624 The least competitive couple. 141 00:05:56,724 --> 00:05:58,158 What the hell is this? 142 00:05:58,258 --> 00:05:59,726 [Cate] We're literally killing this [bleep]. 143 00:05:59,826 --> 00:06:02,029 We're the first ones to get all the stuff out. 144 00:06:02,129 --> 00:06:04,197 I don't know if this means we're the best communicators 145 00:06:04,297 --> 00:06:06,399 in the group, but we're kicking butt. 146 00:06:06,499 --> 00:06:08,335 [Dr. Mike] And now, working together as a group 147 00:06:08,435 --> 00:06:10,037 to figure this all out. 148 00:06:10,137 --> 00:06:11,706 It's like putting together furniture! 149 00:06:11,806 --> 00:06:12,939 So we pull out this bag. 150 00:06:13,039 --> 00:06:14,408 It's got all these wooden pieces in it. 151 00:06:14,508 --> 00:06:16,410 So I'm like, "What the hell are we supposed to do with 152 00:06:16,510 --> 00:06:17,978 this wooden [bleep]?" 153 00:06:18,078 --> 00:06:20,147 I was ordering [bleep] around. 154 00:06:20,247 --> 00:06:21,281 Yo. 155 00:06:24,818 --> 00:06:28,188 Oh, it's a puzzle. 156 00:06:28,288 --> 00:06:30,724 We have to clear the sand off of this. 157 00:06:30,824 --> 00:06:33,326 -What is this damn thing? -It's a heart, it's a heart. 158 00:06:33,427 --> 00:06:34,495 Oh, it's a heart! 159 00:06:34,595 --> 00:06:35,796 All right, now I got it. 160 00:06:35,896 --> 00:06:37,797 Mine's a corner piece, guys. 161 00:06:37,898 --> 00:06:39,333 Yellow and pink are on the bottom. 162 00:06:39,433 --> 00:06:41,368 That's it. Color code it. Pink's at the bottom. 163 00:06:41,468 --> 00:06:46,006 Yellow, pink, baby blue, green, dark blue, light blue. 164 00:06:46,106 --> 00:06:48,441 The most competitive is Maci. 165 00:06:48,542 --> 00:06:50,210 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey! 166 00:06:50,310 --> 00:06:52,546 She's screaming at everyone. It took her two seconds. 167 00:06:52,646 --> 00:06:53,980 She's, "Hey!" 168 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,216 I don't like to yell, but we gotta work as a team. 169 00:06:56,316 --> 00:06:59,520 Let's find all the curved pieces and work the outside, 170 00:06:59,620 --> 00:07:01,021 and then put the middle in. 171 00:07:01,121 --> 00:07:02,823 -Nice strategy, Maci. -[Michaiah] There it is. 172 00:07:02,923 --> 00:07:04,124 [Dr. Mike] Nice strategy. 173 00:07:04,224 --> 00:07:05,358 I like the fact we're all working together 174 00:07:05,458 --> 00:07:07,027 and not breaking off individually into couples 175 00:07:07,127 --> 00:07:09,863 'cause we're all here together. We're all family. 176 00:07:09,963 --> 00:07:11,966 This one goes right there. Look. 177 00:07:12,066 --> 00:07:13,734 Making some progress. 178 00:07:13,834 --> 00:07:16,036 Down at the bottom looks kind of wonky. 179 00:07:16,136 --> 00:07:17,738 There we go. This is it. 180 00:07:17,838 --> 00:07:19,806 The bottom is done! 181 00:07:19,906 --> 00:07:21,408 [Tyler] I think there's a line in the middle. 182 00:07:21,508 --> 00:07:22,943 [Sean] Yeah. Boom, right there. 183 00:07:23,043 --> 00:07:23,944 Oh, yeah, yeah. You're right. You're right. 184 00:07:24,044 --> 00:07:25,245 Good job. Good job. 185 00:07:25,345 --> 00:07:26,713 [Michaiah] Just a few more pieces left. 186 00:07:26,813 --> 00:07:28,582 All right! Oh! 187 00:07:28,682 --> 00:07:31,351 [clapping] 188 00:07:31,452 --> 00:07:32,386 Oh, my God. Whoa! 189 00:07:32,486 --> 00:07:33,954 We all gotta go this way and take a look. 190 00:07:34,054 --> 00:07:35,422 -Let's take a look at it. -You guys did it. 191 00:07:35,522 --> 00:07:36,956 [Michaiah] Okay. Let's take a look at your work. 192 00:07:37,057 --> 00:07:39,793 From start to finish, we really killed the task, I think. 193 00:07:39,893 --> 00:07:41,162 Teamwork makes the dream work. 194 00:07:41,262 --> 00:07:43,998 [Michaiah] You really dug in immediately. 195 00:07:44,098 --> 00:07:46,400 You heard the challenge, you addressed the task. 196 00:07:46,500 --> 00:07:47,534 You did it together. 197 00:07:47,635 --> 00:07:49,336 So I thank you for that enthusiasm 198 00:07:49,436 --> 00:07:52,973 and your willingness to really be committed to this process. 199 00:07:53,073 --> 00:07:55,809 The power of the group, that's what this exercise 200 00:07:55,909 --> 00:07:58,746 and these next two weeks are all about. 201 00:07:58,846 --> 00:08:00,081 Really great work today. 202 00:08:00,181 --> 00:08:01,815 Yeah, I feel the strength in this circle. 203 00:08:01,915 --> 00:08:04,084 All right. 204 00:08:04,184 --> 00:08:09,890 This give me that soul! We can conquer anything! 205 00:08:09,990 --> 00:08:12,426 I'm yelling about the power of the group, 206 00:08:12,526 --> 00:08:13,961 but my mind isn't there. 207 00:08:14,061 --> 00:08:16,196 Me and Taylor, we just got into an argument. 208 00:08:16,296 --> 00:08:18,432 I just hope that after this workshop, 209 00:08:18,532 --> 00:08:21,868 we can get a one-on-one session with the coaches. 210 00:08:21,968 --> 00:08:24,604 The first day was not a good representation 211 00:08:24,704 --> 00:08:26,340 of our relationship. 212 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,309 And I'm just a little nervous about what's in store for us. 213 00:08:29,409 --> 00:08:32,246 -Good night! -Great night. Great night. 214 00:08:32,346 --> 00:08:35,415 The first day was awesome. We partied. We ate. 215 00:08:35,515 --> 00:08:36,783 We did a workshop. 216 00:08:36,883 --> 00:08:39,920 Now, the real work is about to start. 217 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:43,090 But that's what this reunion is all about. 218 00:08:43,190 --> 00:08:46,159 -Say "Love!" -[All] Love! 219 00:08:51,431 --> 00:08:52,232 ♪ Woo ♪ 220 00:08:52,332 --> 00:08:53,667 ♪ Yo ♪ 221 00:08:53,767 --> 00:08:55,736 ♪ Good morning I'm stretching my legs ♪ 222 00:08:55,836 --> 00:08:57,905 ♪ Rubbing my eyes I blink two times ♪ 223 00:08:58,005 --> 00:09:02,542 ♪ Then get out of my bed It's time to rise and grind ♪ 224 00:09:02,643 --> 00:09:05,679 First morning in Colombia. I'm not used to this freedom. 225 00:09:05,779 --> 00:09:06,947 I have all these kids. 226 00:09:07,047 --> 00:09:08,582 I'm the one that gets up with them every morning, 227 00:09:08,682 --> 00:09:09,917 gets them to school, bus stop, all that stuff. 228 00:09:10,017 --> 00:09:11,419 No one's around. No one's bothering me. 229 00:09:11,519 --> 00:09:14,421 No one's talking. It's just me and my head. 230 00:09:15,789 --> 00:09:17,991 We're in Colombia. I need to learn Spanish, 231 00:09:18,091 --> 00:09:20,661 so I'm trying to, like, do a word a day, 232 00:09:20,761 --> 00:09:22,997 to kind of build up my Spanish vocabulary. 233 00:09:23,097 --> 00:09:24,498 Levantate! 234 00:09:24,598 --> 00:09:26,400 I'm gonna go practice my levantate word 235 00:09:26,500 --> 00:09:27,634 and get Cate up. 236 00:09:27,734 --> 00:09:29,370 ♪ Let's wake up the world ♪ 237 00:09:29,470 --> 00:09:30,337 [whispers] Babe... 238 00:09:30,437 --> 00:09:31,972 - Levantate. -What? 239 00:09:32,072 --> 00:09:33,540 Levantate. 240 00:09:35,142 --> 00:09:38,545 -It means time to get up. -Just leave me alone! 241 00:09:38,645 --> 00:09:40,614 I don't think I pronounced it right 242 00:09:40,714 --> 00:09:42,183 'cause Cate did not respond. 243 00:09:42,283 --> 00:09:43,684 Levantate! 244 00:09:43,784 --> 00:09:45,452 [Cate] I'm finally away from the kids, 245 00:09:45,553 --> 00:09:47,621 trying to just have a good vacation. 246 00:09:47,721 --> 00:09:48,956 But here comes my husband 247 00:09:49,056 --> 00:09:51,591 screaming random Spanish words at me. 248 00:09:51,691 --> 00:09:53,460 [Tyler] Levantate! 249 00:09:53,560 --> 00:09:55,829 Like, how do you say "annoying" in Spanish? 250 00:09:55,929 --> 00:09:58,798 [music] 251 00:09:58,899 --> 00:10:01,068 I brought you some breakfast in bed. 252 00:10:01,168 --> 00:10:03,537 -Leave me alone. -[laughs] 253 00:10:03,637 --> 00:10:04,605 I'm probably gonna jump in the ocean. 254 00:10:04,705 --> 00:10:06,306 I ain't gonna lie. It's hot. 255 00:10:06,407 --> 00:10:07,574 Legs is dripping. 256 00:10:09,409 --> 00:10:10,244 Is that what you're doing, running? 257 00:10:10,344 --> 00:10:13,113 -Yeah. -No. 258 00:10:13,780 --> 00:10:15,916 I'm curious to know, what do you hope to be able 259 00:10:16,016 --> 00:10:17,250 to do or get out of this? 260 00:10:17,350 --> 00:10:19,787 I don't know if there's anything I hope to get out of it 261 00:10:19,887 --> 00:10:22,222 other than we're getting some, like-- 262 00:10:22,322 --> 00:10:24,124 One-on-one time without kids? Yeah. 263 00:10:24,224 --> 00:10:28,095 What Taylor and I need to work on the most would be 264 00:10:28,195 --> 00:10:30,263 prioritizing each other. 265 00:10:30,363 --> 00:10:33,700 I feel like Colombia is gonna be kind of like a restart button. 266 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:35,569 I'm super excited to get to know everybody more. 267 00:10:35,669 --> 00:10:37,404 They're a blast. And they're easy. 268 00:10:37,504 --> 00:10:38,672 It's a great group. 269 00:10:38,772 --> 00:10:42,709 Everyone wants everyone to have a purpose 270 00:10:42,809 --> 00:10:45,546 and, like, feel the purpose for being here. 271 00:10:45,646 --> 00:10:48,248 To be given this opportunity around other couples 272 00:10:48,348 --> 00:10:49,883 that are going through the same things 273 00:10:49,983 --> 00:10:51,318 we're going through, 274 00:10:51,418 --> 00:10:53,587 it'll be a huge growth for us. It will give us time to reflect. 275 00:10:53,687 --> 00:10:55,890 We think it'll make us better parents and better partners. 276 00:10:55,990 --> 00:10:58,692 -I'm happy that you're here. -It's wild. 277 00:10:58,792 --> 00:11:01,728 ♪ Takin' time for me ♪ 278 00:11:02,696 --> 00:11:04,465 -What's up, Cory? -Good mornin'. 279 00:11:04,565 --> 00:11:06,500 Where do I get an old-school cup of joe? 280 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,034 Right there. 281 00:11:08,135 --> 00:11:11,238 Taylor needs her coffee or it's gonna to be a long day. 282 00:11:11,338 --> 00:11:12,840 So, how's Taylor doing today? 283 00:11:12,940 --> 00:11:14,641 She seemed like she was anxious yesterday. 284 00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:16,043 I don't know what was going on between y'all. 285 00:11:16,143 --> 00:11:18,011 She doesn't like doing this type of stuff. 286 00:11:18,111 --> 00:11:21,248 I drag her in here and I'm like, a big personality. 287 00:11:21,348 --> 00:11:24,085 That's just not her, so, like, it's been a struggle. 288 00:11:24,185 --> 00:11:24,952 Yeah. 289 00:11:25,052 --> 00:11:26,253 She just misses the girls a lot. 290 00:11:26,353 --> 00:11:28,322 I get it. We miss our kids and this [bleep] is hard, 291 00:11:28,422 --> 00:11:29,957 but sometimes it's good to just get away. 292 00:11:30,057 --> 00:11:32,626 I definitely relate to Taylor's anxiety 293 00:11:32,726 --> 00:11:35,195 and how being away from the kids can trigger that. 294 00:11:35,295 --> 00:11:37,998 I hope, for Taylor's sake, that she just realizes that 295 00:11:38,098 --> 00:11:42,002 we are here to support her, and to be friends to her. 296 00:11:42,102 --> 00:11:45,639 You already have an identity as a mother, but now it's time to, 297 00:11:45,739 --> 00:11:47,441 who is Taylor now, right? 298 00:11:47,541 --> 00:11:49,276 Because you lose that self-identity when you 299 00:11:49,376 --> 00:11:50,544 -become a parent. -[Cate] You really will. 300 00:11:50,644 --> 00:11:52,145 You could drown in the parent role. 301 00:11:52,245 --> 00:11:53,280 Cory and Taylor have jumped into 302 00:11:53,380 --> 00:11:55,115 that whole parenting role super fast. 303 00:11:55,215 --> 00:11:57,217 They started dating already when Cory found out 304 00:11:57,317 --> 00:11:58,686 he was a dad to Ryder. 305 00:11:58,786 --> 00:11:59,820 They didn't really get a chance to, like, 306 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:01,522 date and just be themselves. 307 00:12:01,622 --> 00:12:05,125 So I feel like they could spend a lot of time just figuring out 308 00:12:05,225 --> 00:12:08,729 who each other are outside of being parents. 309 00:12:08,829 --> 00:12:09,896 It's gonna be great. 310 00:12:09,996 --> 00:12:11,865 Two weeks just for us to sit, talk. 311 00:12:11,965 --> 00:12:13,800 Yeah, use whatever the coaches have got to give us. 312 00:12:13,901 --> 00:12:15,235 And hopefully the couples sessions 313 00:12:15,335 --> 00:12:16,637 should be helpful. 314 00:12:16,737 --> 00:12:18,439 I really want this experience to be positive. 315 00:12:18,539 --> 00:12:19,907 And I think it will be. 316 00:12:20,007 --> 00:12:21,541 On the first day, Taylor got upset 317 00:12:21,642 --> 00:12:22,876 and I got upset. 318 00:12:22,976 --> 00:12:25,145 It's not always gonna be rainbows and sunshine. 319 00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:28,048 And we got a lot to work on. And that's why we're here. 320 00:12:28,148 --> 00:12:30,050 We're gonna have a better day than we did yesterday. 321 00:12:31,485 --> 00:12:34,754 It's her coffee that's cold now, so I'm gonna bring it up to her, 322 00:12:34,854 --> 00:12:37,124 since we have a session with Michaiah soon. 323 00:12:37,224 --> 00:12:38,458 ♪ I gotta know ♪ 324 00:12:38,558 --> 00:12:39,960 I'm so damn hot. 325 00:12:40,060 --> 00:12:42,062 [music] 326 00:12:45,599 --> 00:12:48,735 That's it. Our own private room. 327 00:12:49,302 --> 00:12:52,506 -Hello, hello. -[Both] Hi. 328 00:12:52,606 --> 00:12:53,974 Here we are. 329 00:12:54,074 --> 00:12:55,675 Me and Taylor came down here knowing we wanted to work 330 00:12:55,776 --> 00:12:57,411 on some things. 331 00:12:57,511 --> 00:12:58,646 And after last night, 332 00:12:58,746 --> 00:12:59,980 I need to be the first one pulled 333 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,649 because it is obvious that we have our issues. 334 00:13:02,749 --> 00:13:05,619 -How are you today? -Good. 335 00:13:05,719 --> 00:13:07,888 I am super nervous to meet with Michaiah 336 00:13:07,988 --> 00:13:09,990 just because everything that happened last night. 337 00:13:10,090 --> 00:13:11,759 And I honestly have a lot to get off my chest 338 00:13:11,859 --> 00:13:13,360 about our relationship. 339 00:13:13,461 --> 00:13:18,031 I really do wanna get into what was going on last night. 340 00:13:18,132 --> 00:13:20,434 I heard it was a little emotional. 341 00:13:20,534 --> 00:13:25,405 I want you to share and really lean into your own experience. 342 00:13:25,505 --> 00:13:28,475 So let's start, Taylor, with you. 343 00:13:28,575 --> 00:13:31,879 I have a lot of anxiety just in general. 344 00:13:31,979 --> 00:13:34,815 And coming here gives me a lot of anxiety. 345 00:13:34,915 --> 00:13:38,152 Us starting to argue came from him just getting mad. 346 00:13:38,252 --> 00:13:40,588 And when he drinks, he just keeps going. 347 00:13:40,688 --> 00:13:43,123 And then I tried to calm him down. 348 00:13:43,224 --> 00:13:44,892 And he doesn't like to hear that. 349 00:13:44,992 --> 00:13:46,526 Nobody likes to hear that when they're mad. 350 00:13:46,626 --> 00:13:47,861 So I would imagine for you 351 00:13:47,961 --> 00:13:50,531 that that could sometimes feel like... 352 00:13:50,631 --> 00:13:52,366 walking through a landmine. 353 00:13:52,466 --> 00:13:53,767 [Cory] I have anger issues. 354 00:13:53,867 --> 00:13:55,702 You know, I like to bottle up my emotions. 355 00:13:55,802 --> 00:13:57,605 And then it just triggers and you're like, 356 00:13:57,705 --> 00:13:59,439 "Why the hell are you getting this upset 357 00:13:59,539 --> 00:14:00,941 over something like that?" 358 00:14:01,042 --> 00:14:02,943 And that just goes back to, like, 359 00:14:03,043 --> 00:14:05,879 a lot of, like, my childhood and how I was raised. 360 00:14:05,979 --> 00:14:07,748 My dad was in jail my whole life. 361 00:14:07,848 --> 00:14:09,016 I was raised by my mom. 362 00:14:09,116 --> 00:14:11,719 She was in a messed-up relationship. 363 00:14:11,819 --> 00:14:15,155 Whew. I get emotional about it. 364 00:14:19,994 --> 00:14:21,895 Whew. 365 00:14:23,063 --> 00:14:24,264 If you have different understandings of what 366 00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:27,568 respect means, that could also have impacts 367 00:14:27,668 --> 00:14:29,002 on your relationship. 368 00:14:29,103 --> 00:14:30,604 I think that's where we're different, 369 00:14:30,704 --> 00:14:32,939 is I had a really great childhood. 370 00:14:33,039 --> 00:14:35,476 My parents have been together since they were 15. 371 00:14:35,576 --> 00:14:37,311 I've seen them in love my whole life. 372 00:14:37,411 --> 00:14:39,546 Very different upbringings, different understanding 373 00:14:39,646 --> 00:14:41,948 of what love and what the world looks like. 374 00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:43,917 I mean, I came down here with a purpose. 375 00:14:44,018 --> 00:14:45,452 And I want to give everything I have 376 00:14:45,552 --> 00:14:46,954 towards this relationship. 377 00:14:47,054 --> 00:14:48,989 There's a lot to learn from one another 378 00:14:49,089 --> 00:14:51,825 about how to create your own relationship dynamic. 379 00:14:51,925 --> 00:14:53,793 And you get to decide by your own rules 380 00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:55,195 of what worked and didn't work. 381 00:14:55,295 --> 00:14:58,064 I mean, it brings us up to your story now. 382 00:14:58,165 --> 00:14:58,932 -Yeah. -Okay. 383 00:14:59,032 --> 00:15:00,334 -You met on a show. -Yeah. 384 00:15:00,434 --> 00:15:01,902 That's not the typical setup. 385 00:15:02,002 --> 00:15:04,504 I knew she was mine before we even got there. 386 00:15:04,604 --> 00:15:08,642 -Hi, Cory. -What's up? 387 00:15:08,743 --> 00:15:10,210 I already knew. 388 00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:12,412 And I was starstruck by, like, how beautiful she is. 389 00:15:12,512 --> 00:15:14,248 Like, I was all about you. 390 00:15:14,348 --> 00:15:16,283 How was life off camera? 391 00:15:16,383 --> 00:15:17,851 We were up and down at the beginning. 392 00:15:17,951 --> 00:15:20,086 We were breaking up, getting back together. 393 00:15:20,186 --> 00:15:23,424 What was it that always had you breaking up? 394 00:15:23,524 --> 00:15:25,092 Him wanting to be single. 395 00:15:25,192 --> 00:15:27,561 -Okay. -[Cory] Yeah, commitment. 396 00:15:27,661 --> 00:15:29,062 I've never been great with commitment-- 397 00:15:29,162 --> 00:15:30,764 [Taylor] And I'm very committed. 398 00:15:30,864 --> 00:15:32,732 Like, when I'm with somebody, I'm with somebody. 399 00:15:32,833 --> 00:15:34,267 That's what I love about her, too. 400 00:15:34,367 --> 00:15:37,137 It's like, I don't have to worry about her messing 401 00:15:37,237 --> 00:15:39,039 -with somebody behind my back. -[Taylor] 'Cause I wouldn't. 402 00:15:39,139 --> 00:15:41,041 And do you ever worry about him? 403 00:15:41,141 --> 00:15:42,676 Yes. 404 00:15:42,776 --> 00:15:44,111 Because of that make-up/breakup past? 405 00:15:44,211 --> 00:15:46,847 -Or is there something-- -It's because of the past. 406 00:15:46,947 --> 00:15:49,116 I've been cheated on in every relationship. 407 00:15:49,216 --> 00:15:50,684 In this one? 408 00:15:50,784 --> 00:15:53,420 [music] 409 00:15:57,958 --> 00:15:59,860 [music] 410 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:02,329 I've been cheated on in every relationship. 411 00:16:02,429 --> 00:16:03,964 In this one? 412 00:16:04,064 --> 00:16:06,300 [music] 413 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,602 Yeah. 414 00:16:09,036 --> 00:16:11,571 -How far in the past was that? -Six years ago. 415 00:16:11,672 --> 00:16:13,207 Was this before or after the kids? 416 00:16:13,307 --> 00:16:14,407 Before. 417 00:16:14,508 --> 00:16:15,342 So there hasn't been nothing after? 418 00:16:15,442 --> 00:16:17,478 -Mm-mm. -Okay. 419 00:16:17,578 --> 00:16:20,547 And I can see that it takes a toll on her. 420 00:16:20,647 --> 00:16:22,416 That needs some attention. 421 00:16:22,516 --> 00:16:23,851 [Taylor] I don't trust him when he drinks. 422 00:16:23,951 --> 00:16:26,887 I don't trust the way he acts when he drinks. 423 00:16:26,987 --> 00:16:31,725 Um, I don't trust his friends. They have some strippers around. 424 00:16:31,825 --> 00:16:33,560 They're cool. They're just in the streets. 425 00:16:33,660 --> 00:16:35,162 They're in the streets, but you are not. 426 00:16:35,262 --> 00:16:36,296 You are in a relationship. 427 00:16:36,396 --> 00:16:38,565 But I never do anything, though. 428 00:16:38,665 --> 00:16:41,602 You're doing what she says hurts. 429 00:16:41,702 --> 00:16:43,204 -I always come home to you... -No, no. 430 00:16:43,304 --> 00:16:45,339 But listen, 431 00:16:45,439 --> 00:16:50,110 you are [bleep] belligerent every time. 432 00:16:50,210 --> 00:16:51,278 And that's what scares me, 433 00:16:51,379 --> 00:16:52,813 is you being in that state of mind 434 00:16:52,913 --> 00:16:56,316 where you're barely coherent, and then you doing something. 435 00:16:56,416 --> 00:16:57,952 [Cory] I wanna be the best man I can be, 436 00:16:58,052 --> 00:16:59,553 but at the same time, 437 00:16:59,653 --> 00:17:02,189 I wanna hang out with my friends and I like to have some drinks. 438 00:17:02,289 --> 00:17:05,425 So then when she says, "It hurts me that you go out, 439 00:17:05,525 --> 00:17:06,960 and that you get super drunk 'cause I don't know 440 00:17:07,060 --> 00:17:09,863 what you're capable of doing in that state," 441 00:17:09,963 --> 00:17:13,099 and you choose to do that exact same thing, 442 00:17:13,199 --> 00:17:15,168 is what's sending the message that you don't care. 443 00:17:15,268 --> 00:17:16,336 [Cory] I know I'm selfish, 444 00:17:16,437 --> 00:17:17,604 but I don't know how to change that. 445 00:17:17,704 --> 00:17:19,906 Oh, you took it! I didn't even have to say it. 446 00:17:20,006 --> 00:17:21,141 -Okay. -No. Yeah. 447 00:17:21,242 --> 00:17:22,743 -He knows. -[Michaiah] You own that. 448 00:17:22,843 --> 00:17:24,811 I know, but I don't know how to change that 'cause it's not me. 449 00:17:24,912 --> 00:17:29,616 By making a decision to be different. 450 00:17:31,418 --> 00:17:33,854 Well, I can see that you don't want to lose parts of yourself. 451 00:17:33,954 --> 00:17:36,723 No. I feel like I always have to keep my wings down 452 00:17:36,823 --> 00:17:38,993 when I'm with you. I'm like a damn butterfly. 453 00:17:39,093 --> 00:17:42,462 I just see it so, like, different being a mom. 454 00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:46,600 -That's, like, my world. -She is an amazing mother. 455 00:17:46,700 --> 00:17:49,903 I want her to find herself. Listen, if you wanna be great, 456 00:17:50,003 --> 00:17:51,471 if you wanna be exceptional, then you need to do 457 00:17:51,572 --> 00:17:53,774 exceptional things and great things. 458 00:17:53,874 --> 00:17:59,680 So what about motherhood is not exceptional? 459 00:17:59,780 --> 00:18:02,916 The both of you are doing exceptional work, 460 00:18:03,017 --> 00:18:05,920 but when there's verbiage like that, 461 00:18:06,020 --> 00:18:10,924 how it sounds is, you're not [bleep] doing enough. 462 00:18:12,659 --> 00:18:15,829 And you're just a mom. 463 00:18:15,929 --> 00:18:19,500 -How does that feel? -It hurts. 464 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,336 And I'm sorry. I'm sorry that it does hurt. 465 00:18:22,436 --> 00:18:24,704 I'm gonna work on it. 466 00:18:27,274 --> 00:18:29,509 I'm really happy to see your level of commitment 467 00:18:29,609 --> 00:18:30,844 to each other. 468 00:18:30,945 --> 00:18:33,080 I'm happy to see that you're willing. 469 00:18:33,180 --> 00:18:35,649 Yeah. 470 00:18:35,750 --> 00:18:38,184 I felt really good after the session 471 00:18:38,284 --> 00:18:41,688 because I felt like there was somebody hearing me 472 00:18:41,788 --> 00:18:44,391 and understanding my relationship with Cory. 473 00:18:44,491 --> 00:18:46,427 And I think this is a really good start 474 00:18:46,527 --> 00:18:49,296 to figuring out what our problems are. 475 00:18:49,396 --> 00:18:51,431 But there is more we need to work on. 476 00:18:51,531 --> 00:18:53,501 -Thank you, guys. -Thank you. 477 00:18:53,601 --> 00:18:54,869 [Cory] Yes, thank you. 478 00:18:54,969 --> 00:18:57,037 The number one takeaway from this session was 479 00:18:57,137 --> 00:19:00,140 I need to have a better understanding for the value 480 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,675 of my relationship. 481 00:19:01,775 --> 00:19:03,210 When I messed up a couple of years ago, 482 00:19:03,310 --> 00:19:06,647 I could see the pain on how she still holds that against me. 483 00:19:06,747 --> 00:19:08,916 When I go out with my friends, I could definitely change 484 00:19:09,016 --> 00:19:10,050 a little bit. 485 00:19:10,150 --> 00:19:14,054 First one down! Good luck, everybody else! 486 00:19:14,154 --> 00:19:18,959 [music] 487 00:19:19,994 --> 00:19:21,895 "I need your signature in the next 30 minutes 488 00:19:21,995 --> 00:19:23,831 or the offer is gonna expire." 489 00:19:23,931 --> 00:19:25,632 While I was in treatment two and a half years ago, 490 00:19:25,732 --> 00:19:27,167 Jade bought a house. 491 00:19:27,267 --> 00:19:28,535 [Jade] Your new house! 492 00:19:28,635 --> 00:19:30,504 -Are you excited to show me? -Look at the house! 493 00:19:30,604 --> 00:19:32,006 [Jade] Wow! 494 00:19:32,106 --> 00:19:33,607 We just recently bought another house, 495 00:19:33,707 --> 00:19:35,643 so we put our old house on the market. 496 00:19:35,743 --> 00:19:37,144 Sign that [bleep]. 497 00:19:37,244 --> 00:19:38,612 Can you get on your laptop? 498 00:19:38,712 --> 00:19:41,215 It's been on the market for about three months now, 499 00:19:41,315 --> 00:19:43,951 but we just got a word that we got an offer on the house. 500 00:19:44,051 --> 00:19:46,153 Yeah. Okay. So they agreed at my counter. 501 00:19:46,253 --> 00:19:48,589 A lot of what I've invested my money in 502 00:19:48,689 --> 00:19:50,257 is tied up in this property. 503 00:19:50,357 --> 00:19:52,126 [Sean] You think you're gonna be able to sign it in time? 504 00:19:52,226 --> 00:19:55,896 And we're over budget on the wedding, like, 40, 45,000. 505 00:19:55,996 --> 00:19:57,898 And I feel like that profit from selling 506 00:19:57,998 --> 00:20:00,000 will pay off the wedding. 507 00:20:00,801 --> 00:20:03,770 Okay, I just heard back. Let me know if that looks good. 508 00:20:03,871 --> 00:20:05,706 It's contingent on them signing this 509 00:20:05,806 --> 00:20:07,741 by the end of the night. 510 00:20:07,842 --> 00:20:09,009 But it sounds like they're going to. 511 00:20:09,109 --> 00:20:10,144 I think so. 512 00:20:10,244 --> 00:20:12,345 It feels so good to get the house sold. 513 00:20:12,446 --> 00:20:15,215 I feel like that was my first baby. 514 00:20:15,316 --> 00:20:18,953 I'm so excited! 515 00:20:19,253 --> 00:20:20,488 I just want my money. 516 00:20:20,588 --> 00:20:22,589 It was the first house I ever owned. 517 00:20:22,689 --> 00:20:24,825 It was my first project. Sean was in rehab. 518 00:20:24,925 --> 00:20:26,827 I completely did this solo. 519 00:20:26,927 --> 00:20:30,331 [Sean] Guess what? They accepted the counter offer! 520 00:20:30,431 --> 00:20:31,532 -Well, congratulations. -Yes! 521 00:20:31,632 --> 00:20:35,669 [music] 522 00:20:35,770 --> 00:20:37,871 ♪ I'm confident I'm queen, too ♪ 523 00:20:37,971 --> 00:20:39,940 ♪ You know what that means ♪ 524 00:20:40,041 --> 00:20:43,343 So tonight, we have [bleep] planned. 525 00:20:43,443 --> 00:20:44,878 -Okay. -We're going downtown. 526 00:20:44,978 --> 00:20:46,647 We're going to meet with the coaches. 527 00:20:46,747 --> 00:20:48,816 A little bit of party, but also a little bit of, 528 00:20:48,916 --> 00:20:51,251 like, love, relationship. 529 00:20:51,351 --> 00:20:53,154 We don't know what's gonna happen, but we arranged 530 00:20:53,254 --> 00:20:55,256 to get us downtown in style. 531 00:20:55,356 --> 00:20:58,959 Cheers to tonight. It's gonna to be so amazing. 532 00:20:59,059 --> 00:21:02,062 -And cheers to Colombia. -Cheers to Cartagena. 533 00:21:02,162 --> 00:21:05,766 [music] 534 00:21:05,866 --> 00:21:07,634 ♪ Uh, it's a movie ♪ 535 00:21:07,734 --> 00:21:09,603 ♪ Red carpet The light's going through me ♪ 536 00:21:09,703 --> 00:21:11,839 ♪ Any time I arrive, it's the new me ♪ 537 00:21:11,939 --> 00:21:13,974 -Okay, party people! -Rock and roll, baby. 538 00:21:14,074 --> 00:21:15,443 Jade and Cheyenne said we're going out tonight. 539 00:21:15,543 --> 00:21:16,910 Get ready. We're about to have some fun. 540 00:21:17,010 --> 00:21:18,579 -Oh, my God! -Hey, hey! 541 00:21:18,679 --> 00:21:20,080 Is that us? 542 00:21:20,180 --> 00:21:21,448 We're all hanging out outside, drinking some drinks. 543 00:21:21,548 --> 00:21:23,817 Out of nowhere, this thing pulls up. 544 00:21:23,917 --> 00:21:25,886 Looks like a bus, playing loud music. 545 00:21:25,986 --> 00:21:28,422 And we're like, "What the hell is going on?" 546 00:21:28,522 --> 00:21:30,157 Whoo! 547 00:21:30,257 --> 00:21:33,060 I'm so excited. So now we got a Chiva bus. 548 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,596 This is like a party bus, like Colombian vibes. 549 00:21:35,696 --> 00:21:37,464 Our bus is here! 550 00:21:37,564 --> 00:21:39,299 Dude, this is about to be lit! 551 00:21:39,399 --> 00:21:41,135 Yay! 552 00:21:41,235 --> 00:21:42,636 Chiva! 553 00:21:46,273 --> 00:21:47,074 [Cory] Let's go! 554 00:21:47,174 --> 00:21:48,142 Whoo! 555 00:21:48,242 --> 00:21:49,577 [Chey] We got a Chiva bus. 556 00:21:49,677 --> 00:21:51,912 And this is like a party bus, like Colombian vibes. 557 00:21:52,012 --> 00:21:54,048 So I'm ready to turn up. 558 00:21:54,148 --> 00:21:55,415 Chiva! 559 00:21:55,515 --> 00:21:58,185 I hope you guys have fun tonight. I'm excited. 560 00:21:58,285 --> 00:22:00,587 The bus is fully loaded. 561 00:22:00,687 --> 00:22:02,723 We got little shot glasses hanging up. 562 00:22:02,823 --> 00:22:06,193 We have confetti shooters. We got the drinks. 563 00:22:06,293 --> 00:22:08,996 And we're about to turn this whole bus up 564 00:22:09,096 --> 00:22:10,965 and have a good-ass time. 565 00:22:11,065 --> 00:22:12,699 Chiva! 566 00:22:12,799 --> 00:22:14,735 [music] 567 00:22:14,835 --> 00:22:17,637 Let's cheers to the fact that Jade and Sean 568 00:22:17,737 --> 00:22:19,106 sold their house today and they're getting married. 569 00:22:19,206 --> 00:22:21,275 [everyone cheering] 570 00:22:21,375 --> 00:22:22,976 We're ready to go home to some money. 571 00:22:23,076 --> 00:22:24,978 Cheers! 572 00:22:25,079 --> 00:22:26,646 AS long as they sign the document. 573 00:22:26,746 --> 00:22:29,683 Welcome to Colombia. Welcome to the party bus. 574 00:22:31,886 --> 00:22:35,088 Yeah! 575 00:22:35,188 --> 00:22:37,057 [cheering] 576 00:22:37,157 --> 00:22:39,927 Let's go! That's my fiancée! 577 00:22:40,027 --> 00:22:45,933 [music] 578 00:22:46,033 --> 00:22:47,934 No, man! 579 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:49,169 I got glitter in my drink. 580 00:22:49,269 --> 00:22:50,604 I'm gonna [bleep] out sparkles later. 581 00:22:50,704 --> 00:22:56,643 [music] 582 00:23:03,383 --> 00:23:06,487 It feels really good to just be out and about. 583 00:23:06,587 --> 00:23:09,289 It's like our own little bubble of fun 584 00:23:09,389 --> 00:23:11,291 and we're ready to party. 585 00:23:13,861 --> 00:23:16,429 We're about to pull up to our destination. 586 00:23:16,530 --> 00:23:18,499 I don't actually know what the coaches have planned. 587 00:23:18,599 --> 00:23:21,101 They just said to come. 588 00:23:21,201 --> 00:23:22,336 [Tyler] Bro, we're here. 589 00:23:22,436 --> 00:23:24,004 Are you ready for this? 590 00:23:24,104 --> 00:23:25,339 Woo-oo-oo. 591 00:23:25,439 --> 00:23:27,108 -Welcome! -Welcome! 592 00:23:27,208 --> 00:23:29,175 Come on in. Come around. 593 00:23:29,276 --> 00:23:31,078 [bleep] A, bro. 594 00:23:31,178 --> 00:23:32,879 All of us are turned up to the max. 595 00:23:32,979 --> 00:23:34,548 We've had a good-ass time. 596 00:23:34,648 --> 00:23:36,950 We're thinking we're walking right into a club, a banger. 597 00:23:37,050 --> 00:23:39,153 I'm about to do the cha-cha. No. 598 00:23:39,253 --> 00:23:42,556 -Every couple find a pillow. -Come on in. 599 00:23:42,656 --> 00:23:43,857 What? 600 00:23:43,957 --> 00:23:45,726 We walk in this place after getting off this bus, 601 00:23:45,826 --> 00:23:48,596 we've been drinking and there's pillows all around in a circle. 602 00:23:48,696 --> 00:23:52,933 It looks very like, kumbaya. Are we doing yoga? 603 00:23:54,434 --> 00:23:55,636 What is this? 604 00:23:55,736 --> 00:23:57,538 I'm here to have a good time with my lady, 605 00:23:57,638 --> 00:24:00,474 but we wanna work on all these deep-rooted issues, 606 00:24:00,574 --> 00:24:02,576 so I'm glad the coaches are here. 607 00:24:02,676 --> 00:24:05,345 So strap in and get ready. Here we go. 608 00:24:05,445 --> 00:24:06,713 Can we take our shoes off? 609 00:24:06,813 --> 00:24:09,250 You can absolutely take your shoes off. 610 00:24:09,350 --> 00:24:10,784 I'm not taking off my shoes. 611 00:24:10,884 --> 00:24:13,554 [Michaiah] Welcome to this workshop tonight. 612 00:24:13,654 --> 00:24:16,256 You're going to be hot. 613 00:24:16,356 --> 00:24:18,225 You may be uncomfortable. 614 00:24:18,325 --> 00:24:24,097 But this evening, Dr. Mike and I are going to make you moan. 615 00:24:24,197 --> 00:24:25,933 -What? -[Michaiah] Moan. 616 00:24:26,033 --> 00:24:27,801 Moan? 617 00:24:28,269 --> 00:24:29,569 Okay. 618 00:24:29,670 --> 00:24:32,506 I'm gonna need more. Tell me more. 619 00:24:32,606 --> 00:24:36,677 Physiologically, through the lifespan, sex drive changes. 620 00:24:36,777 --> 00:24:38,311 When you fall in love, and none of you are 621 00:24:38,411 --> 00:24:40,347 in this stage anymore, you feel excited. 622 00:24:40,448 --> 00:24:42,382 You wanna have sex all night, right? 623 00:24:42,482 --> 00:24:43,484 All the time. 624 00:24:43,584 --> 00:24:45,552 -All the time. -Yeah. 625 00:24:45,652 --> 00:24:48,555 But then later in life, it is impossible for your body 626 00:24:48,655 --> 00:24:52,893 to get grounded and have that sex drive in the phase of life 627 00:24:52,993 --> 00:24:54,528 that you guys are in. 628 00:24:54,628 --> 00:24:57,631 So I'm gonna teach you tonight how to breathe, how to moan, 629 00:24:57,731 --> 00:25:00,868 to help you improve the intimacy in your relationships. 630 00:25:00,968 --> 00:25:01,835 You hear that? 631 00:25:01,936 --> 00:25:03,037 You're gonna teach us how to moan? 632 00:25:03,137 --> 00:25:04,371 Absolutely. 633 00:25:04,471 --> 00:25:07,008 This sounds [bleep] stupid. 634 00:25:07,108 --> 00:25:08,008 I don't wanna hear it. 635 00:25:08,108 --> 00:25:09,543 Oh, yeah. 636 00:25:09,643 --> 00:25:13,714 This workshop is about getting your moan out 637 00:25:13,814 --> 00:25:16,617 and how to improve your sex life. 638 00:25:16,717 --> 00:25:18,051 And I'm glad that we're doing this. 639 00:25:18,151 --> 00:25:20,388 'Cause it's something we need to work on. 640 00:25:20,488 --> 00:25:22,356 I don't know if I want to moan with them! 641 00:25:22,456 --> 00:25:24,491 [laughs] Oh, but we will. 642 00:25:24,591 --> 00:25:26,293 This is [bleep] stupid. 643 00:25:26,393 --> 00:25:28,929 I was keeping an open mind. 644 00:25:29,029 --> 00:25:32,432 Sean was like, "Uh-uh. This [bleep] is weird." 645 00:25:32,532 --> 00:25:34,501 My mom is about to be watching this [bleep], bro. 646 00:25:34,601 --> 00:25:37,204 I could feel his uncomfortable energy. 647 00:25:37,304 --> 00:25:38,905 I just feel like it was worded weird. 648 00:25:39,005 --> 00:25:40,874 You know what I mean? We're gonna to make y'all moan. 649 00:25:40,974 --> 00:25:42,009 Like what? 650 00:25:42,109 --> 00:25:45,579 Sean is definitely not happy about this. 651 00:25:45,679 --> 00:25:47,514 [Sean] I know I need to step out of my comfort zone, 652 00:25:47,614 --> 00:25:49,683 but I don't feel open talking about my sex life. 653 00:25:49,783 --> 00:25:51,552 I promise you, you're gonna take something away. 654 00:25:51,652 --> 00:25:53,553 Just keep an open mind, you know... 655 00:25:54,788 --> 00:25:56,623 I'm trying to, but this just sounds like a bunch of mumbo 656 00:25:56,723 --> 00:25:58,058 goddamn jumbo to me. 657 00:25:58,158 --> 00:26:01,194 [music] 658 00:26:06,833 --> 00:26:08,902 [music] 659 00:26:09,002 --> 00:26:11,572 We're gonna make y'all moan. Like what? 660 00:26:11,672 --> 00:26:15,308 This sounds [bleep] stupid. 661 00:26:16,510 --> 00:26:20,180 Sean is extremely uncomfortable during this workshop. 662 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,682 I feel like he's just gonna walk out at any time. 663 00:26:22,782 --> 00:26:25,853 I hope that he realizes that this is all supposed to help us 664 00:26:25,953 --> 00:26:27,454 and our relationships. 665 00:26:27,554 --> 00:26:29,089 I feel like he's getting to the point where he's, 666 00:26:29,189 --> 00:26:30,757 -like, defensive. -[Sean] No. I'm ready to bounce. 667 00:26:30,857 --> 00:26:32,159 Like, I just wanna walk away. 668 00:26:32,259 --> 00:26:34,527 I'm not open minded. And I don't want to be here. 669 00:26:34,628 --> 00:26:36,497 Like, my mom is about to be watching this [bleep], bro. 670 00:26:36,597 --> 00:26:37,430 You know what I mean? 671 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,002 So let's start from the baseline. 672 00:26:42,102 --> 00:26:45,473 This workshop is set up to take us phase by phase. 673 00:26:45,573 --> 00:26:47,274 You can lean into the power of the group, 674 00:26:47,374 --> 00:26:49,143 have us all feel comfortable. Is that fair? 675 00:26:49,243 --> 00:26:50,744 [Sean] I don't feel like myself. 676 00:26:50,844 --> 00:26:53,013 Moaning is not very ideal for me in a group setting. 677 00:26:53,113 --> 00:26:55,148 I can see how upset Jade is. 678 00:26:55,248 --> 00:26:57,083 She was getting uncomfortable because I'm mad. 679 00:26:57,183 --> 00:26:58,919 She just thought it was making us look bad. 680 00:26:59,019 --> 00:27:01,588 So I'm gonna try to stay and participate. 681 00:27:01,688 --> 00:27:02,922 -I'll give it a shot. -[Michaiah] Okay. 682 00:27:03,023 --> 00:27:06,260 Face back-to-back with your partner. 683 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:09,462 -Back-to-back. -Just don't fart. 684 00:27:09,563 --> 00:27:11,498 I would like to go front-to-front. 685 00:27:11,598 --> 00:27:13,601 [laughing] 686 00:27:13,701 --> 00:27:15,068 Reach your hands out. 687 00:27:15,168 --> 00:27:18,705 Try to caress your partner while being back-to-back. 688 00:27:18,805 --> 00:27:21,041 How does that work? 689 00:27:22,243 --> 00:27:23,844 [Dr. Mike] Your partner's sharing that same space, 690 00:27:23,944 --> 00:27:26,413 but when you're minding the kids and you don't make the time 691 00:27:26,513 --> 00:27:29,115 for each other, you feel each other's back, 692 00:27:29,216 --> 00:27:30,951 but you don't have that affection. 693 00:27:31,051 --> 00:27:32,520 -I like what you did there. -I really do. 694 00:27:32,620 --> 00:27:34,221 That went full circle. 695 00:27:34,321 --> 00:27:36,089 [Tyler] I'm trying to do it. It feels weird. 696 00:27:36,189 --> 00:27:38,125 I want to turn around because this is stupid, 697 00:27:38,225 --> 00:27:39,726 but I get the message. 698 00:27:39,827 --> 00:27:41,195 They're trying to say that when you're back-to-back 699 00:27:41,295 --> 00:27:44,230 and not facing each other, it's hard to connect. 700 00:27:44,331 --> 00:27:46,233 Turn around and face your partner. 701 00:27:46,333 --> 00:27:49,503 So this is the phase where you get to actually 702 00:27:49,603 --> 00:27:52,073 look at one another, 703 00:27:52,173 --> 00:27:55,008 to value one another, 704 00:27:55,109 --> 00:27:59,112 to see one another, to validate-- 705 00:28:03,416 --> 00:28:08,889 Me and Sean, we're not seeing eye-to-eye about the activity. 706 00:28:08,989 --> 00:28:10,924 Look each other in the eye. 707 00:28:11,024 --> 00:28:12,292 I just don't see the point yet. 708 00:28:12,392 --> 00:28:13,660 He's annoying me a little bit. 709 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,228 I want you to get out of your comfort zone. 710 00:28:15,328 --> 00:28:16,630 Even if it's not something ideal, 711 00:28:16,730 --> 00:28:18,732 it's like, do it with me. 712 00:28:21,102 --> 00:28:22,769 We're here right before our wedding, 713 00:28:22,870 --> 00:28:25,606 and I feel like this is our opportunity to work on us. 714 00:28:25,706 --> 00:28:27,274 All I can think about is how hot I am, 715 00:28:27,374 --> 00:28:28,375 and I just wanna leave. 716 00:28:31,879 --> 00:28:33,880 [Dr. Mike] Just imagine that you're having a staring contest. 717 00:28:33,980 --> 00:28:37,284 I can definitely tell that Jade is a little upset 718 00:28:37,384 --> 00:28:40,820 that Sean's upset. Hopefully, Sean can come around. 719 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,924 Honestly, we are all very uncomfortable right now. 720 00:28:44,024 --> 00:28:47,227 Sixty seconds of gazing. 721 00:28:47,328 --> 00:28:50,330 This is a challenge for some of you. 722 00:28:56,803 --> 00:28:58,805 That's weird to me. 723 00:29:00,307 --> 00:29:02,710 I don't think me and Sean had a talk about 724 00:29:02,810 --> 00:29:04,311 this slowing down of sex, 725 00:29:04,411 --> 00:29:07,714 but he's made comments, and it was rude. 726 00:29:07,814 --> 00:29:12,686 I'm happy he's participating, not happy he is just exploding 727 00:29:12,786 --> 00:29:14,754 with rude remarks. 728 00:29:17,157 --> 00:29:19,693 I've been uncomfortable since we walked in the [bleep] door. 729 00:29:19,793 --> 00:29:21,395 You live life together. 730 00:29:21,495 --> 00:29:24,165 But when is the last time you looked at your partner? 731 00:29:24,265 --> 00:29:26,533 Okay, tell me how that felt. 732 00:29:31,772 --> 00:29:32,906 That was a long time. 733 00:29:33,006 --> 00:29:34,408 How was that for you guys? 734 00:29:34,508 --> 00:29:35,776 All I was receiving from the gaze was, 735 00:29:35,876 --> 00:29:37,244 "Chill the [bleep] out." 736 00:29:37,344 --> 00:29:39,046 Oh. Whoa. [laughing] 737 00:29:39,146 --> 00:29:40,113 Damn. 738 00:29:40,213 --> 00:29:41,214 What were you getting from him? 739 00:29:48,722 --> 00:29:50,858 Like, we're not, but it's hurtful. 740 00:29:50,958 --> 00:29:54,194 That, to me, was like, so mean. It like, hurt my feelings. 741 00:29:54,294 --> 00:29:56,230 It made me like, pissed off. It made me sad. 742 00:29:56,330 --> 00:29:58,198 I had to jump out of my head to even participate. 743 00:29:58,298 --> 00:29:59,667 And now she's mad. 744 00:29:59,767 --> 00:30:02,569 I feel like that's a bridge that everyone 745 00:30:02,670 --> 00:30:05,639 in a committed relationship, you will cross that probably 746 00:30:05,739 --> 00:30:08,342 more than once. You have to talk about it. 747 00:30:08,442 --> 00:30:10,444 Outside, it seems like all you guys are so great, 748 00:30:10,544 --> 00:30:12,212 and so happy. And we're over here like, 749 00:30:12,313 --> 00:30:13,880 we're the ones about to get married 750 00:30:13,980 --> 00:30:16,216 and ours isn't perfect right now, so I feel like-- 751 00:30:16,317 --> 00:30:18,251 It's making us insecure and, like, 752 00:30:18,351 --> 00:30:20,253 are we making the right choice? 753 00:30:20,353 --> 00:30:21,622 Ain't nobody's [bleep] perfect. 754 00:30:21,722 --> 00:30:24,458 It's like this. You just gotta do it together. 755 00:30:24,558 --> 00:30:27,561 I see where the coaches are coming from about power 756 00:30:27,661 --> 00:30:30,631 within the group, because when you have issues, 757 00:30:30,731 --> 00:30:32,566 it's good to be able to talk to other people 758 00:30:32,666 --> 00:30:34,335 and know that other people relate. 759 00:30:34,435 --> 00:30:37,304 And you're not alone with any of your problems. 760 00:30:37,404 --> 00:30:39,807 [Michaiah] This is where the moaning comes into play. 761 00:30:39,907 --> 00:30:44,044 Ladies, straddle your partner. 762 00:30:44,144 --> 00:30:46,013 Hell, yes. 763 00:30:46,113 --> 00:30:47,414 Whoo! 764 00:30:47,514 --> 00:30:50,084 Baby, I'm a cowboy. I'm ready to be ridden. 765 00:30:50,184 --> 00:30:51,284 Come on. 766 00:30:51,384 --> 00:30:54,021 Ride me, girl, how you want me. 767 00:30:54,888 --> 00:30:57,792 I cannot believe I'm straddling Taylor right now 768 00:30:57,892 --> 00:30:59,326 in front of everyone. 769 00:30:59,426 --> 00:31:02,263 It's very uncomfortable, but I look around and notice 770 00:31:02,363 --> 00:31:03,931 that everyone else is doing it, too. 771 00:31:04,031 --> 00:31:08,135 So I'm trying my hardest to be a team player right now. 772 00:31:08,235 --> 00:31:10,737 [laughing] 773 00:31:10,837 --> 00:31:13,708 We're gonna take that belly breathing 774 00:31:13,808 --> 00:31:17,177 and breathe into a moan. 775 00:31:17,277 --> 00:31:21,248 One, two, three and release. 776 00:31:21,348 --> 00:31:25,418 [moaning] 777 00:31:26,553 --> 00:31:29,122 That was some held-back moaning, you all! 778 00:31:29,222 --> 00:31:31,091 That was a D minus. 779 00:31:31,191 --> 00:31:33,494 [Michaiah] That was restricted. 780 00:31:33,594 --> 00:31:35,195 I thought our moans were good. I was hearing the group. 781 00:31:35,296 --> 00:31:36,263 I thought we were doing pretty good. 782 00:31:36,363 --> 00:31:37,798 It was very organic. 783 00:31:37,898 --> 00:31:39,966 [Dr. Mike] Listen up, y'all. Only from the belly. 784 00:31:40,701 --> 00:31:43,537 [moaning loudly] 785 00:31:43,637 --> 00:31:46,740 [laughing] 786 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,043 Dr. Mike felt that. 787 00:31:49,143 --> 00:31:53,013 Did somebody just shoot a deer? Like, what is that? 788 00:31:53,113 --> 00:31:55,383 [moaning loudly] [laughing] 789 00:31:55,483 --> 00:31:56,716 Don't do that, please. 790 00:31:56,816 --> 00:31:59,186 It was like, a damn herder call for cattle. 791 00:31:59,286 --> 00:32:01,154 I didn't hear you at all. 792 00:32:01,254 --> 00:32:02,622 He said he was moaning from his stomach, 793 00:32:02,722 --> 00:32:04,959 but it sounded like he was moaning from his balls. 794 00:32:05,059 --> 00:32:08,229 He kind of was a little more powerful than me. 795 00:32:08,329 --> 00:32:10,163 I get what you want now. 796 00:32:10,263 --> 00:32:12,266 But what you did not hear was... 797 00:32:12,366 --> 00:32:13,834 [high-pitched moaning] 798 00:32:13,934 --> 00:32:15,903 That's all head. That's all a performance. 799 00:32:16,003 --> 00:32:18,672 You don't want your partner to perform. 800 00:32:18,772 --> 00:32:21,975 You want your partner to experience you. 801 00:32:22,075 --> 00:32:24,077 -Are you ready? -Yes. 802 00:32:24,177 --> 00:32:27,147 -Inhale. -Let me hear y'all. 803 00:32:27,247 --> 00:32:29,482 [moaning] 804 00:32:30,851 --> 00:32:36,156 [moaning] 805 00:32:36,523 --> 00:32:37,691 I've had sex on camera. 806 00:32:37,791 --> 00:32:39,259 I've been naked a whole bunch of times. 807 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,662 I'm not self-conscious on moaning. 808 00:32:41,762 --> 00:32:43,463 [moaning] 809 00:32:44,398 --> 00:32:49,002 [moaning] 810 00:32:49,403 --> 00:32:51,772 [laughing] 811 00:32:51,872 --> 00:32:54,574 I think that I have a pretty good moan. 812 00:32:55,809 --> 00:32:58,178 I haven't had any complaints about it. 813 00:32:58,278 --> 00:33:00,180 Thank you so much. 814 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,748 [Sean] Though I was mad, 815 00:33:01,848 --> 00:33:04,551 staring into Jade's eyes alleviated my mindset. 816 00:33:04,651 --> 00:33:06,086 How could I be mad when I'm staring into 817 00:33:06,186 --> 00:33:07,855 such a beautiful woman's eyes? 818 00:33:07,955 --> 00:33:10,624 When we're talking about sexual intimacy, 819 00:33:10,724 --> 00:33:13,594 if we can move from the chest breathing to the belly, 820 00:33:13,694 --> 00:33:16,830 then we actually can lean into the pleasure. 821 00:33:16,930 --> 00:33:19,032 [Dr. Mike] How often would you like to be having sex? 822 00:33:21,602 --> 00:33:22,936 -Almost every day? -Yeah. 823 00:33:23,036 --> 00:33:26,006 That is the high side. You guys are way above average. 824 00:33:26,106 --> 00:33:27,307 That's what I want. 825 00:33:27,408 --> 00:33:29,943 I'm a very sexually driven person. 826 00:33:30,043 --> 00:33:34,181 Maci has been very open about her high sex drive. 827 00:33:34,281 --> 00:33:36,717 I never would have thought that. 828 00:33:36,817 --> 00:33:41,054 At least a couple times a week would be perfectly fulfilling. 829 00:33:41,154 --> 00:33:44,024 -Where you at now? -Not that. 830 00:33:44,124 --> 00:33:47,027 -Taylor, where are you? -Few times a week. 831 00:33:47,127 --> 00:33:48,762 That'd be great. 832 00:33:48,862 --> 00:33:50,230 Me and Maci are definitely happier when we're having 833 00:33:50,330 --> 00:33:53,033 a healthy sexual relationship, so we have to make more time 834 00:33:53,133 --> 00:33:54,168 for that. 835 00:33:54,268 --> 00:33:55,669 [Dr. Mike] How about you guys? 836 00:33:55,769 --> 00:33:58,839 We probably have sex probably twice to three times a week. 837 00:33:58,939 --> 00:34:00,908 And then when we do, it's very rushed. 838 00:34:01,008 --> 00:34:03,276 It's not like we get a whole night to ourselves. 839 00:34:03,377 --> 00:34:05,379 It's like, damn, we got five minutes 840 00:34:05,479 --> 00:34:06,813 before these kids act up. 841 00:34:06,914 --> 00:34:08,449 We don't ever get to be intimate. 842 00:34:08,549 --> 00:34:09,784 If we want to get married, 843 00:34:09,884 --> 00:34:12,653 it is now time for us to focus on us. 844 00:34:12,753 --> 00:34:14,088 And that's something that we wanna work on 845 00:34:14,188 --> 00:34:17,257 and find more time where it's just me and you. 846 00:34:17,358 --> 00:34:19,960 It's nice to hear that Cory is excited to work on things 847 00:34:20,060 --> 00:34:21,361 in our relationship. 848 00:34:21,461 --> 00:34:23,663 We need to spend more quality time together. 849 00:34:27,668 --> 00:34:29,970 [Cory] Her whole identity has been being a mom. 850 00:34:30,070 --> 00:34:32,473 There can't be two kids in bed with us. 851 00:34:32,573 --> 00:34:34,541 And I also have a feeling that for the two of you, 852 00:34:34,641 --> 00:34:36,777 the frequency is not where you want it to be. 853 00:34:36,877 --> 00:34:38,545 Is that right? 854 00:34:38,645 --> 00:34:42,449 To be honest, sex to me means reproduction in my head, 855 00:34:42,549 --> 00:34:44,918 lately, that I'm, like, terrified of it. 856 00:34:45,018 --> 00:34:46,921 I'm scared of getting pregnant again 857 00:34:47,021 --> 00:34:48,389 because I'm not ready. 858 00:34:48,489 --> 00:34:50,991 I'm shocked that Jade is saying she doesn't want another baby. 859 00:34:51,091 --> 00:34:54,728 I think she means that she doesn't want one right now. 860 00:34:54,828 --> 00:34:57,565 If could just make a confession, for like, the last six months, 861 00:34:57,665 --> 00:35:00,234 I've really been, like, holding out on him. 862 00:35:00,334 --> 00:35:01,869 [gasps] 863 00:35:01,969 --> 00:35:05,940 [music] 864 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,641 Whoa. 865 00:35:13,681 --> 00:35:15,149 [Jade] If could just make a confession, 866 00:35:15,249 --> 00:35:16,450 for like, the last six months, 867 00:35:16,550 --> 00:35:19,052 I've really been, like, holding out on him. 868 00:35:19,152 --> 00:35:20,254 [gasps] 869 00:35:20,354 --> 00:35:21,522 Whoa. 870 00:35:21,622 --> 00:35:22,690 I'm scared of getting pregnant again 871 00:35:22,790 --> 00:35:23,890 because I'm not ready. 872 00:35:23,990 --> 00:35:26,927 My pregnancy, my labor was traumatic. 873 00:35:27,027 --> 00:35:29,830 [crying] 874 00:35:29,930 --> 00:35:31,598 I'm in so much pain. I'm shaking. 875 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:34,568 I worked so hard to get to 876 00:35:34,668 --> 00:35:36,170 where I want to be, like, physically. 877 00:35:36,270 --> 00:35:38,038 We have our wedding, we have our honeymoon. 878 00:35:38,138 --> 00:35:39,907 We have all this stuff going on where I'm like, 879 00:35:40,007 --> 00:35:41,374 "Do you wanna be pregnant doing that?" 880 00:35:41,475 --> 00:35:44,845 Listening to Jade talk about her fears of being pregnant, 881 00:35:44,945 --> 00:35:46,213 that's a hard place to be. 882 00:35:46,313 --> 00:35:49,649 So I feel for her right now. And Sean, honestly. 883 00:35:49,749 --> 00:35:54,021 Hearing that makes me understand so much more. 884 00:35:54,121 --> 00:35:56,190 You just gave him something great by being honest. 885 00:35:56,290 --> 00:35:58,358 I'm sorry for being selfish all the time. 886 00:35:58,458 --> 00:36:01,394 That made me feel really bad, but I understand it. 887 00:36:01,495 --> 00:36:04,631 And I'm not mad at her. I'm ready whenever she's ready. 888 00:36:04,731 --> 00:36:06,333 [Jade] I feel like there's a lot of pressure on me, 889 00:36:06,433 --> 00:36:08,335 and that takes the sexiness away. 890 00:36:08,435 --> 00:36:12,172 I associate pregnancy with feeling sad, 891 00:36:12,272 --> 00:36:13,874 insecure and lonely. 892 00:36:13,974 --> 00:36:15,109 When I was pregnant, 893 00:36:15,209 --> 00:36:17,511 Sean was having a lot of problems. 894 00:36:17,611 --> 00:36:21,015 And then also, after having Chloe, I didn't feel sexy. 895 00:36:21,115 --> 00:36:22,649 I didn't recognize my body. 896 00:36:22,749 --> 00:36:25,920 And I feel like I've done a lot of work in the last year, 897 00:36:26,020 --> 00:36:27,721 and I'm not ready just yet. 898 00:36:27,821 --> 00:36:29,756 Are you doing anything to prevent the pregnancy then? 899 00:36:29,856 --> 00:36:32,192 Just birth control, but look what happened. 900 00:36:33,894 --> 00:36:36,430 I know that you're terrified, but there are other ways 901 00:36:36,530 --> 00:36:40,534 to experience pleasure that don't include intercourse. 902 00:36:40,634 --> 00:36:44,338 Also, think about scheduling sex, not as a task, 903 00:36:44,438 --> 00:36:48,442 but as this is our time. Make the time. 904 00:36:48,542 --> 00:36:51,511 Each workshop I've done, I've learned a little bit more 905 00:36:51,612 --> 00:36:54,348 about my partner, and that's what this trip is all about. 906 00:36:54,448 --> 00:36:57,083 So I'm glad that we got the moaning and the intimacy 907 00:36:57,183 --> 00:36:58,452 talk done. 908 00:36:58,552 --> 00:37:00,887 I feel like I'm ready to hit the room, baby. 909 00:37:00,987 --> 00:37:01,955 It's time. 910 00:37:02,055 --> 00:37:03,824 You guys opened up today. 911 00:37:03,924 --> 00:37:05,392 You guys took a risk today. 912 00:37:05,492 --> 00:37:11,364 It is a struggle to make sure that the intimacy stays alive, 913 00:37:11,464 --> 00:37:13,734 so I'm really trying to take in the tools 914 00:37:13,834 --> 00:37:17,104 that they're giving us about keeping the spark alive. 915 00:37:17,204 --> 00:37:19,140 I wanna give huge props to you, Sean. 916 00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:20,440 And isn't it so interesting 917 00:37:20,540 --> 00:37:22,275 that the person who didn't want to be here, 918 00:37:22,375 --> 00:37:24,645 I think, got the most out of this workshop? 919 00:37:24,745 --> 00:37:27,448 [Sean] I'll tell you what I got out of it, communication. 920 00:37:27,548 --> 00:37:28,582 Yeah. 921 00:37:28,682 --> 00:37:29,683 [Sean] Though, I was uncomfortable, 922 00:37:29,784 --> 00:37:31,384 though, I didn't want to be there, 923 00:37:31,485 --> 00:37:32,986 it was for an opportunity to open up to each other. 924 00:37:33,087 --> 00:37:35,689 And I think that's the key to a successful relationship. 925 00:37:37,824 --> 00:37:39,660 [Jade] At the end of the night, Sean opened up, 926 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,161 which I'm happy about. 927 00:37:41,261 --> 00:37:45,099 But I do feel like his emotions came out in a way 928 00:37:45,199 --> 00:37:47,735 that I didn't like, and I wasn't happy with. 929 00:37:47,835 --> 00:37:50,804 So I feel like there's still some things that I wanna discuss 930 00:37:50,904 --> 00:37:52,840 that are on my mind for sure. 931 00:37:52,940 --> 00:37:54,942 [bottle pops] [cheering] 932 00:37:55,042 --> 00:37:57,377 [Cory] Workshop's complete, baby! 933 00:37:57,477 --> 00:38:02,883 Everybody have explosive sex tonight! Whoo! 934 00:38:05,319 --> 00:38:09,757 ♪ Ooh, she's so fancy and beautiful ♪ 935 00:38:09,857 --> 00:38:12,059 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 936 00:38:12,159 --> 00:38:15,296 Can I get a, "Oh, yeah?" 937 00:38:15,396 --> 00:38:16,897 Oh, yeah, big boy. 938 00:38:16,997 --> 00:38:20,634 I'm immature as hell. I couldn't stop laughing. 939 00:38:20,734 --> 00:38:22,669 [neighing] 940 00:38:22,769 --> 00:38:24,704 It's time! 941 00:38:24,804 --> 00:38:26,072 [neighing] 942 00:38:26,172 --> 00:38:27,775 [laughing] 943 00:38:27,875 --> 00:38:33,813 [music] 944 00:38:36,650 --> 00:38:39,486 During the workshop, Taylor and I discussed certain things 945 00:38:39,586 --> 00:38:42,990 that we need from each other. 946 00:38:43,090 --> 00:38:44,558 Is that door locked? 947 00:38:44,658 --> 00:38:47,995 And it's time to put it into action and practice. 948 00:38:48,095 --> 00:38:49,195 What? 949 00:38:49,296 --> 00:38:52,432 -Give them a good night. -Goodnight. 950 00:38:53,533 --> 00:38:55,469 We're gonna do moaning exercises. 951 00:38:55,569 --> 00:38:57,337 [laughs] 952 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,075 [laughs] 953 00:39:06,046 --> 00:39:07,881 [phone dings] 954 00:39:09,783 --> 00:39:11,318 [Jade] [bleep] 955 00:39:16,390 --> 00:39:17,691 [Sean] What? 956 00:39:17,791 --> 00:39:18,959 [Jade] He doesn't wanna go with the deal. 957 00:39:19,059 --> 00:39:21,428 My first house has been hanging over my head. 958 00:39:21,528 --> 00:39:23,830 We got an offer, so we're thinking, 959 00:39:23,930 --> 00:39:25,732 "This is done. We're gonna close." 960 00:39:25,832 --> 00:39:28,536 And boom, the buyer's not good with this offer. 961 00:39:28,636 --> 00:39:31,004 We were this [bleep] close. 962 00:39:31,104 --> 00:39:32,239 It'll sell when it's meant to sell. 963 00:39:32,339 --> 00:39:33,607 Do you know what I mean? 964 00:39:33,707 --> 00:39:35,809 I feel like you just don't understand, like, 965 00:39:35,909 --> 00:39:38,078 how stressful all these responsibilities 966 00:39:38,178 --> 00:39:39,379 that I have are. 967 00:39:39,479 --> 00:39:40,948 [Sean] No, no. I understand. 968 00:39:41,048 --> 00:39:42,449 [Jade] I feel like it's always on my plate 969 00:39:42,550 --> 00:39:44,285 because I'm the one dealing with it. 970 00:39:44,385 --> 00:39:45,652 I want to have a partnership, but I feel like 971 00:39:45,752 --> 00:39:47,254 we haven't had that for years. 972 00:39:47,354 --> 00:39:49,423 It was like me doing everything and him just, like, you know, 973 00:39:49,523 --> 00:39:51,691 just trucking along behind me. 974 00:39:51,791 --> 00:39:53,360 I want him to help in the areas that are 975 00:39:53,460 --> 00:39:56,964 really stressing me out. And I'm really frustrated. 976 00:39:57,064 --> 00:39:59,833 I have so much [bleep] going on. 977 00:40:00,934 --> 00:40:02,969 It's just, like, today, I feel like... 978 00:40:05,406 --> 00:40:06,506 I'm just not happy about it. 979 00:40:07,775 --> 00:40:09,276 [Sean] I'm sorry that you're still upset. 980 00:40:09,376 --> 00:40:11,312 I'm in my [bleep] head about it too. 981 00:40:11,412 --> 00:40:12,580 [Jade] See? You're still negative. 982 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,281 [Sean] I'm not trying to be negative. 983 00:40:14,381 --> 00:40:16,183 At this point, I'm just not happy with, like, 984 00:40:16,283 --> 00:40:17,450 your whole demeanor. 985 00:40:17,551 --> 00:40:18,519 I'm not happy with your attitude. 986 00:40:18,619 --> 00:40:20,187 Like, I'm just not happy. 987 00:40:20,287 --> 00:40:22,423 [Sean] I just wanna go to bed. I just want this day over with. 988 00:40:22,523 --> 00:40:23,790 Now I'm mad 'cause Cheyenne told me 989 00:40:23,890 --> 00:40:26,860 that you said at the little group thing 990 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,262 that we haven't had sex in six months. 991 00:40:29,362 --> 00:40:30,731 -You said that, not me. -No, I didn't. 992 00:40:30,831 --> 00:40:32,198 -You said six months. -No, I didn't. She goes-- 993 00:40:32,299 --> 00:40:34,368 -[Jade] I said--I was like-- -[Sean] When did I say? 994 00:40:34,468 --> 00:40:37,370 We're all in one house. We're all on one floor. 995 00:40:37,470 --> 00:40:39,806 And the walls are a little thin. 996 00:40:39,907 --> 00:40:41,275 She was like, I could have sworn-- 997 00:40:41,375 --> 00:40:44,177 You were literally the one that said that. 998 00:40:44,945 --> 00:40:47,381 Probably the last six months, I've really been, like, 999 00:40:47,481 --> 00:40:48,849 holding out on him. 1000 00:40:48,949 --> 00:40:51,652 No, I didn't. It hasn't been six months! 1001 00:40:51,752 --> 00:40:53,620 [Sean] You said, "Starting, like, six months ago." 1002 00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:56,624 And everybody else assumed it was six months, too. 1003 00:40:56,724 --> 00:40:57,725 You said it. 1004 00:40:57,825 --> 00:40:58,992 You said six months and I said, "What?" 1005 00:40:59,092 --> 00:41:00,193 You said six months. 1006 00:41:00,293 --> 00:41:01,895 I didn't say anything about six months. 1007 00:41:01,995 --> 00:41:03,730 [bleep] this. 1008 00:41:03,830 --> 00:41:05,399 [music] 1009 00:41:05,499 --> 00:41:06,900 [Sean] What the [bleep] just happened? 1010 00:41:12,773 --> 00:41:17,011 We are getting sexy tonight! 1011 00:41:17,111 --> 00:41:19,646 What would you need to feel comfortable 1012 00:41:19,746 --> 00:41:20,948 getting pregnant again? 1013 00:41:21,048 --> 00:41:22,283 [Jade] Um... 1014 00:41:22,383 --> 00:41:23,851 Well, I think this also goes hand-in-hand 1015 00:41:23,951 --> 00:41:25,619 with your commitment issue. 1016 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,422 I mean, the only progression from here is, like, marriage. 1017 00:41:28,522 --> 00:41:29,923 Right. 1018 00:41:30,023 --> 00:41:31,391 [Woman] I just heard from Mackenzie. 1019 00:41:31,491 --> 00:41:32,493 And she is coming. 1020 00:41:32,593 --> 00:41:34,128 [Woman] Her and her new black boyfriend. 1021 00:41:34,228 --> 00:41:35,662 -Hi! -What's going on? 1022 00:41:39,299 --> 00:41:45,205 [music] 1023 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,528 [music]