1 00:00:02,068 --> 00:00:03,637 ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:04,638 --> 00:00:07,107 [Jade] Previously on Teen Mom: Family Reunion... 3 00:00:07,207 --> 00:00:09,009 -My boyfriend's coming. -Where is he? 4 00:00:09,109 --> 00:00:10,210 He's on a work trip. 5 00:00:10,310 --> 00:00:12,446 Kayla's situation just keeps confusing me. 6 00:00:12,546 --> 00:00:14,248 Where's Kayla's man? 7 00:00:14,348 --> 00:00:15,716 -Give me a hug. -[Zach] Who the [bleep] is that? 8 00:00:15,816 --> 00:00:17,918 That's Kayla's guy. I told you she's not with Luke. 9 00:00:18,018 --> 00:00:19,419 Welcome to the family! 10 00:00:19,519 --> 00:00:21,489 [Cheyenne] Ryan, he's ready to party. 11 00:00:21,589 --> 00:00:25,158 Maybe slow it down and go focus on Kayla. 12 00:00:25,258 --> 00:00:26,660 I'm pregnant. 13 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,962 Ryan and I haven't really had much conversation 14 00:00:29,062 --> 00:00:32,432 about the baby at all 'cause we're not on good terms. 15 00:00:32,533 --> 00:00:33,567 [Michaiah] The ice bath represents 16 00:00:33,667 --> 00:00:35,436 the extreme conditions that exist 17 00:00:35,536 --> 00:00:37,471 in every relationship. 18 00:00:37,571 --> 00:00:39,873 At no point that it crossed my mind 19 00:00:39,973 --> 00:00:41,475 that I wanted to get out. 20 00:00:41,575 --> 00:00:43,176 This is the same thing for my relationship with Mackenzie. 21 00:00:43,276 --> 00:00:44,778 I'm in it, and I'm gonna struggle with her 22 00:00:44,878 --> 00:00:46,012 even if she's struggling. 23 00:00:46,113 --> 00:00:47,548 Welcome to this hypnosis workshop. 24 00:00:47,648 --> 00:00:49,816 I know that there has been a lot of hurt. 25 00:00:49,916 --> 00:00:53,353 I am here to tend to the human beings who are here. 26 00:00:53,453 --> 00:00:55,355 Cheyenne, what do you see here? 27 00:00:55,455 --> 00:00:58,192 I just feel like this is really forced right now. 28 00:00:58,292 --> 00:00:59,726 And, like, inauthentic. 29 00:01:03,330 --> 00:01:04,698 ♪ Here we go ♪ 30 00:01:04,798 --> 00:01:06,600 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 31 00:01:06,700 --> 00:01:07,901 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 32 00:01:08,001 --> 00:01:09,803 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 33 00:01:09,903 --> 00:01:11,371 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 34 00:01:14,841 --> 00:01:21,281 [music] 35 00:01:21,381 --> 00:01:22,616 [Dr. Mike] So you've decided it's over? 36 00:01:22,716 --> 00:01:24,818 Any sort of friendship is, like, off the table? 37 00:01:24,918 --> 00:01:26,487 [Cheyenne] I wouldn't call it that. 38 00:01:26,587 --> 00:01:28,155 I would just say I don't need anything. 39 00:01:28,255 --> 00:01:29,422 I'm not looking for anything. 40 00:01:29,522 --> 00:01:31,625 I don't need, like, an apology. 41 00:01:31,725 --> 00:01:33,360 [Jade] We're doing this workshop with Dr. Mike. 42 00:01:33,460 --> 00:01:34,861 It's going great. 43 00:01:34,961 --> 00:01:37,865 And then Dr. Mike decides to grab Cheyenne and Mackenzie 44 00:01:37,965 --> 00:01:41,635 to, like, hash out all of their past issues. 45 00:01:41,735 --> 00:01:43,570 But I just don't think Dr. Mike knows 46 00:01:43,670 --> 00:01:46,640 the depth and severity of all the issues 47 00:01:46,740 --> 00:01:48,541 Cheyenne and Mackenzie have had in the past. 48 00:01:48,642 --> 00:01:49,976 [Dr. Mike] Your words are telling me 49 00:01:50,076 --> 00:01:52,079 you don't want an apology, but also, your actions, 50 00:01:52,179 --> 00:01:54,415 your body is telling me that there is a part of you 51 00:01:54,515 --> 00:01:56,984 that really does not like this person. 52 00:01:57,084 --> 00:01:58,652 I mean... 53 00:01:58,752 --> 00:02:01,154 to be honest? No, I don't. 54 00:02:02,356 --> 00:02:03,390 I don't think that she understood 55 00:02:03,490 --> 00:02:06,027 the power that she had behind her words, 56 00:02:06,127 --> 00:02:07,494 behind going on live, 57 00:02:07,594 --> 00:02:10,063 behind doing all this charade of crying 58 00:02:10,163 --> 00:02:11,598 and all this stuff. 59 00:02:11,699 --> 00:02:14,334 So for her, it might've been a small problem in her life. 60 00:02:14,434 --> 00:02:16,436 For mine, it became a very big one. 61 00:02:16,536 --> 00:02:21,075 This hypnosis session has definitely taken a turn. 62 00:02:21,175 --> 00:02:22,709 I'm not apologizing here. 63 00:02:22,810 --> 00:02:25,479 I don't think this is the space for her to apologize. 64 00:02:25,579 --> 00:02:27,414 This is just really awkward. 65 00:02:27,514 --> 00:02:29,550 I don't know when it became couples' therapy 66 00:02:29,650 --> 00:02:31,285 for me and Mackenzie. 67 00:02:31,385 --> 00:02:33,320 I'm realizing more and more, you know, 68 00:02:33,420 --> 00:02:35,388 I'm, I'm still learning. 69 00:02:35,489 --> 00:02:36,590 I don't know how else to say that. 70 00:02:36,690 --> 00:02:37,891 It's just the truth. 71 00:02:37,991 --> 00:02:39,359 The fact that this was my mistake 72 00:02:39,459 --> 00:02:40,594 and she had to get involved, 73 00:02:40,694 --> 00:02:42,029 it kind of started clicking, 74 00:02:42,129 --> 00:02:45,398 that's where her frustration was with me. 75 00:02:45,498 --> 00:02:47,468 But just because it clicks does not mean 76 00:02:47,568 --> 00:02:49,136 I can say I get it. 77 00:02:49,236 --> 00:02:51,405 I can't look at her and say I know how this feels, 78 00:02:51,505 --> 00:02:53,440 but I am seeing it. 79 00:02:53,540 --> 00:02:55,509 I cannot change what happened. 80 00:02:55,609 --> 00:02:58,779 You are not the bad guy I made you out to be. 81 00:02:58,879 --> 00:03:02,850 I am genuinely sorry for the harm I caused. 82 00:03:02,950 --> 00:03:05,219 I hate you were brought into it. 83 00:03:05,319 --> 00:03:07,654 Okay. 84 00:03:07,754 --> 00:03:09,723 Your words are "okay" but the tone says no. 85 00:03:09,823 --> 00:03:12,359 What would you need to accept that apology? 86 00:03:12,459 --> 00:03:14,295 You keep using this word, "need." 87 00:03:14,395 --> 00:03:17,931 I don't need anything. 88 00:03:18,031 --> 00:03:20,567 I am okay. 89 00:03:20,667 --> 00:03:22,836 [Mackenzie] It started off so good. 90 00:03:22,936 --> 00:03:24,938 And then it just all went backwards. 91 00:03:25,038 --> 00:03:29,877 I am very uncomfortable for me, for her, for everyone. 92 00:03:29,977 --> 00:03:31,812 All right, cool, good work. You can go back. 93 00:03:31,912 --> 00:03:33,047 Thank you. 94 00:03:33,147 --> 00:03:35,483 [Cheyenne] Sitting here, doing this exercise, 95 00:03:35,583 --> 00:03:38,418 being put in the middle of everyone, 96 00:03:38,518 --> 00:03:41,355 and the way that it's going down, 97 00:03:41,455 --> 00:03:43,823 I'm just so uncomfortable. 98 00:03:50,730 --> 00:03:53,767 Walking into this exercise, I was really open. 99 00:03:53,867 --> 00:03:57,137 Walking out, I don't wanna see Coach Mike again. 100 00:03:57,237 --> 00:03:58,538 [sighs] 101 00:03:59,639 --> 00:04:02,709 Can we just, like, not do this, though, anymore? 102 00:04:02,809 --> 00:04:04,878 Like, keeps getting brought up 103 00:04:04,978 --> 00:04:07,348 and she keeps getting drug into it. 104 00:04:07,448 --> 00:04:10,951 It was my mistake, so I can work through that in therapy, 105 00:04:11,051 --> 00:04:12,887 or you guys can tell me you're pissed off. 106 00:04:12,987 --> 00:04:15,856 But she continuously keeps having to have 107 00:04:15,956 --> 00:04:18,158 these conversations that hurt. 108 00:04:18,258 --> 00:04:20,193 Yeah, let's move on. 109 00:04:23,997 --> 00:04:25,399 -Hey. -I just need a second. 110 00:04:25,499 --> 00:04:26,867 Okay. 111 00:04:27,734 --> 00:04:30,538 [Cheyenne] I have no idea what just happened. 112 00:04:30,638 --> 00:04:32,473 I don't think he knows the full story. 113 00:04:32,573 --> 00:04:35,141 But I think he overstepped. 114 00:04:40,814 --> 00:04:42,949 [Michaiah] Y'all are calm, cool as cucumbers. 115 00:04:43,049 --> 00:04:46,520 Take that to your next conflict, your next argument. 116 00:04:46,620 --> 00:04:49,256 The next time you feel scared, angry, 117 00:04:49,356 --> 00:04:53,994 you're gonna take this feeling and use these same skills 118 00:04:54,094 --> 00:04:56,463 when you're going at it with your partner. 119 00:04:56,563 --> 00:04:59,667 Ryan, how does this relate to you and Kayla? 120 00:04:59,767 --> 00:05:02,069 Well, we've been dealing with each other for 10 years. 121 00:05:02,169 --> 00:05:04,071 [Michaiah] Oh, so it's on again/off again? 122 00:05:04,171 --> 00:05:06,807 -Yeah. -What causes you to jump out? 123 00:05:06,907 --> 00:05:10,777 I would say it's a mixture of if I'm talking to somebody else. 124 00:05:10,877 --> 00:05:12,446 [Cory] Talking to somebody else? 125 00:05:12,546 --> 00:05:15,616 Your focus should be on your pregnant girlfriend right now. 126 00:05:15,716 --> 00:05:17,817 You guys already got enough stuff to figure out. 127 00:05:17,918 --> 00:05:19,953 Let's keep our focus on one thing. 128 00:05:20,053 --> 00:05:22,156 It's being young. Being young and dumb. 129 00:05:22,256 --> 00:05:24,258 And as we getting older, we start to realize 130 00:05:24,358 --> 00:05:25,993 we need to be stable. 131 00:05:26,093 --> 00:05:27,828 So have you decided if this is something 132 00:05:27,928 --> 00:05:29,329 that you want to stay in? 133 00:05:29,429 --> 00:05:30,564 We're still figuring out because 134 00:05:30,664 --> 00:05:31,632 we're trying to figure out the problems 135 00:05:31,732 --> 00:05:33,133 that we're working through, 136 00:05:33,233 --> 00:05:35,368 like the communication, the trusting each other. 137 00:05:35,468 --> 00:05:37,638 That trust is, like, gone. 138 00:05:37,738 --> 00:05:39,139 You gotta trust yourself with 139 00:05:39,239 --> 00:05:41,408 the things that are coming up for you 140 00:05:41,509 --> 00:05:43,477 that you are going to need to feel 141 00:05:43,577 --> 00:05:45,045 happy and fulfilled in a relationship. 142 00:05:45,146 --> 00:05:46,213 Yeah, I'm trying. 143 00:05:46,313 --> 00:05:48,682 My mind was in so many different places. 144 00:05:48,782 --> 00:05:50,851 I'm looking for answers to if we're gonna be together, 145 00:05:50,951 --> 00:05:53,453 if we're gonna have this kid together. 146 00:05:53,553 --> 00:05:56,523 And I just really wanna see if we can even communicate better 147 00:05:56,623 --> 00:05:57,791 just being here. 148 00:05:57,891 --> 00:05:59,393 [Michaiah] Okay, Zach, you're up. 149 00:05:59,493 --> 00:06:01,929 What are you gonna take from this ice bath and apply? 150 00:06:02,029 --> 00:06:03,631 -When I first got in-- -[Michaiah] Mm-hmm? 151 00:06:03,731 --> 00:06:05,065 --I wanted to get out. 152 00:06:05,165 --> 00:06:06,000 Immediately? 153 00:06:06,100 --> 00:06:08,335 I compared it to our relationship. 154 00:06:08,435 --> 00:06:09,669 I'm not getting out. 155 00:06:09,769 --> 00:06:12,038 What I saw was such a calmness on your face 156 00:06:12,138 --> 00:06:13,940 and in your body when you got in. 157 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,810 And you are explaining to me now that you wanted to get out. 158 00:06:16,910 --> 00:06:20,113 What I'm seeing, and I'm linking it to your relationship, 159 00:06:20,214 --> 00:06:22,683 is that sometimes you're not voicing 160 00:06:22,783 --> 00:06:24,418 what's actually going on inside of you. 161 00:06:24,518 --> 00:06:25,920 No. 162 00:06:26,020 --> 00:06:27,755 So you do present as, like, I have it all together. 163 00:06:27,855 --> 00:06:29,689 I know what I'm doing. Everything is okay. 164 00:06:29,790 --> 00:06:31,992 I'm fine, you're fine, we're fine. 165 00:06:32,092 --> 00:06:34,762 But there might be something else going on inside. 166 00:06:34,862 --> 00:06:36,097 [Zach] Michaiah's right. 167 00:06:36,197 --> 00:06:37,631 You know, Chey is always in control. 168 00:06:37,731 --> 00:06:39,200 You know, sometimes I'd rather not speak up 169 00:06:39,300 --> 00:06:41,067 to avoid the fight between me and Cheyenne. 170 00:06:41,167 --> 00:06:44,104 I need to just open up and actually be vocal about 171 00:06:44,204 --> 00:06:45,539 how I do feel, 172 00:06:45,639 --> 00:06:47,607 because it's gonna help this tub warm up. 173 00:06:47,707 --> 00:06:48,709 It's gonna be real comfortable. 174 00:06:48,809 --> 00:06:50,544 Right. So after this exercise, 175 00:06:50,644 --> 00:06:53,180 what I'd love to see you do is just continue to think about 176 00:06:53,280 --> 00:06:55,215 those things that you need to express to her. 177 00:06:55,315 --> 00:06:56,817 [Zach] Michaiah did a great job of 178 00:06:56,917 --> 00:06:58,752 breaking it down within our relationship 179 00:06:58,852 --> 00:07:00,253 compared to the ice bath. 180 00:07:00,353 --> 00:07:03,090 I feel like, you know, now if we have an argument, 181 00:07:03,190 --> 00:07:04,658 I'm not gonna get out. I'mma stay in 182 00:07:04,758 --> 00:07:06,126 and I'mma just think, breathe, 183 00:07:06,226 --> 00:07:08,195 and, you know, we gonna get through. 184 00:07:08,295 --> 00:07:10,030 [Michaiah] All right, guys, I'm so proud of you. 185 00:07:10,130 --> 00:07:11,899 You did a wonderful job 186 00:07:11,999 --> 00:07:14,168 making the connections between your relationship 187 00:07:14,268 --> 00:07:15,569 and this exercise. 188 00:07:15,669 --> 00:07:18,038 You'll be able to apply it when you go back into the house 189 00:07:18,138 --> 00:07:20,307 and go back home after this. 190 00:07:20,407 --> 00:07:22,776 Thank you so much. Let's go. 191 00:07:22,876 --> 00:07:24,511 Let's do that again! 192 00:07:24,611 --> 00:07:26,347 It'll make things so much better! 193 00:07:26,447 --> 00:07:27,847 [laughs] 194 00:07:31,084 --> 00:07:32,819 [Tyler] I don't think people get how cold that was. 195 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,455 I thought for sure I was gonna bail. 196 00:07:34,555 --> 00:07:35,656 [Michaiah] One, two, three-- 197 00:07:35,756 --> 00:07:38,091 [All] Ice, ice, baby! 198 00:07:41,628 --> 00:07:45,833 [music] 199 00:07:45,933 --> 00:07:48,035 Y'all got to do an ice bath? 200 00:07:48,135 --> 00:07:49,703 They're still out there. You wanna go get in the water? 201 00:07:49,803 --> 00:07:51,038 We were in there for 30 minutes. 202 00:07:51,138 --> 00:07:52,939 We got hypnotized, just so you guys are aware. 203 00:07:53,039 --> 00:07:54,208 [Maci] Yeah, we got hypnotized. 204 00:07:54,308 --> 00:07:55,108 [laughs] 205 00:07:55,208 --> 00:07:58,212 River flowing. I love Dr. Mike. 206 00:07:58,312 --> 00:08:00,647 Me too, and I don't really think he had any ill intent. 207 00:08:00,748 --> 00:08:02,382 No, not at all. 208 00:08:02,482 --> 00:08:03,850 [Cate] I don't think Dr. Mike was wrong 209 00:08:03,950 --> 00:08:06,386 for bringing the situation up. 210 00:08:06,486 --> 00:08:09,389 I feel Mackenzie and Cheyenne both feel like 211 00:08:09,489 --> 00:08:13,360 it's being too forced to have conversation. 212 00:08:13,460 --> 00:08:16,563 So I get why they are kind of getting upset 213 00:08:16,663 --> 00:08:18,065 with the whole situation. 214 00:08:18,165 --> 00:08:20,868 I get what he was trying to do, but it's just, like... 215 00:08:20,968 --> 00:08:22,203 it's already exhausting enough 216 00:08:22,303 --> 00:08:23,604 to talk about your relationship all day. 217 00:08:23,704 --> 00:08:25,238 Right. 218 00:08:27,074 --> 00:08:30,844 [sighs] Man, man, man. 219 00:08:31,678 --> 00:08:33,380 Mackenzie just walks right into it. 220 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:34,682 She doesn't even understand. 221 00:08:34,782 --> 00:08:36,550 And I'm just, like... 222 00:08:42,690 --> 00:08:43,690 The [bleep]? 223 00:08:43,791 --> 00:08:45,158 Chey is pissed. 224 00:08:46,893 --> 00:08:48,061 You know, I think Dr. Mike, 225 00:08:48,161 --> 00:08:49,630 he should've steered away from that situation 226 00:08:49,730 --> 00:08:51,198 with her and Mackenzie. 227 00:08:51,298 --> 00:08:53,100 I just don't think they get how uncomfortable it is 228 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,302 to sit around with a bunch of white people 229 00:08:55,403 --> 00:08:56,871 and I'm the only Black person there, 230 00:08:56,971 --> 00:08:58,405 and then it's like... 231 00:08:59,073 --> 00:09:02,009 People just don't understand. It's like, why do this? 232 00:09:02,109 --> 00:09:04,111 Like, what the--why? 233 00:09:04,211 --> 00:09:05,479 Yeah. 234 00:09:05,579 --> 00:09:08,081 I'm trying to explain to Zach what just happened 235 00:09:08,181 --> 00:09:09,916 and what I just went through. 236 00:09:10,016 --> 00:09:13,154 I dealt with the Mackenzie issue two years ago. 237 00:09:13,254 --> 00:09:15,556 We're here now, and I'm totally okay with 238 00:09:15,656 --> 00:09:17,123 having a conversation. 239 00:09:17,223 --> 00:09:19,993 But that forum was just not it. 240 00:09:20,093 --> 00:09:22,062 Nobody knows what it's like to be me 241 00:09:22,162 --> 00:09:24,165 and to be put on the spot for it. 242 00:09:24,265 --> 00:09:26,233 I was really uncomfortable. 243 00:09:26,333 --> 00:09:27,934 You want to know what the ice bath was about? 244 00:09:28,034 --> 00:09:29,669 Yeah, let's hear it. 245 00:09:29,769 --> 00:09:33,473 It was about getting in... 246 00:09:33,573 --> 00:09:35,809 versus being in a relationship in comparison 247 00:09:35,909 --> 00:09:37,678 and wanting to get out of that relationship 248 00:09:37,778 --> 00:09:39,647 because it's cold, uncomfortable, 249 00:09:39,747 --> 00:09:41,715 and this and that. 250 00:09:41,815 --> 00:09:43,950 And I went numb because I told myself, 251 00:09:44,051 --> 00:09:45,352 I ain't getting out of this [bleep]. 252 00:09:45,452 --> 00:09:46,553 I'm committed. 253 00:09:46,653 --> 00:09:48,522 Would that mean you got something out of it? 254 00:09:48,622 --> 00:09:50,590 I did. I really did. 255 00:09:52,592 --> 00:09:55,495 [Mackenzie] I want to take a three-minute mental breather. 256 00:09:57,164 --> 00:10:00,033 It's like I'm hurting people just by being here. 257 00:10:00,133 --> 00:10:04,338 I have never wanted harm. I just want to love. 258 00:10:04,438 --> 00:10:06,040 And... 259 00:10:06,140 --> 00:10:09,175 I've caused so much hurt. 260 00:10:11,211 --> 00:10:12,746 [Khesanio] Coming from Jamaica, 261 00:10:12,846 --> 00:10:14,515 we never have situations like this. 262 00:10:14,615 --> 00:10:16,584 I've never experienced anything like that. 263 00:10:16,684 --> 00:10:18,184 Mackenzie and Cheyenne, they're good people. 264 00:10:18,284 --> 00:10:20,521 So I, I, I do think it's time for the both of them 265 00:10:20,621 --> 00:10:22,122 to just, like, move on. 266 00:10:25,025 --> 00:10:28,995 ♪ Fire in my eyes Feel it in my bones ♪ 267 00:10:29,963 --> 00:10:32,333 ♪ No one's gonna stop me now ♪ 268 00:10:32,433 --> 00:10:34,502 -It's starting to hit me. -What? 269 00:10:34,602 --> 00:10:35,635 [Tyler] I don't know. 270 00:10:35,735 --> 00:10:37,204 -I wanna see my kids. -Yeah. 271 00:10:38,371 --> 00:10:41,174 ♪ This woman's mine This woman's mine ♪ 272 00:10:41,274 --> 00:10:43,877 ♪ This woman's mine ♪ 273 00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:47,514 This is gonna be a long eight days. 274 00:10:47,614 --> 00:10:49,282 Can I ask a personal question? 275 00:10:49,382 --> 00:10:50,317 Yes. 276 00:10:50,418 --> 00:10:51,351 Your pregnancy. 277 00:10:51,451 --> 00:10:53,153 I'm confused. 278 00:10:54,788 --> 00:10:56,657 [bleep]'s stressful. 279 00:10:56,757 --> 00:10:58,859 At the end of the day, we have our own feelings. 280 00:10:58,959 --> 00:11:00,994 And until certain things is resolved-- 281 00:11:01,094 --> 00:11:02,863 -Coach Mike. -Hi! 282 00:11:02,963 --> 00:11:04,164 Can I just start off by saying-- 283 00:11:04,264 --> 00:11:06,499 -Can I start? -[Dr. Mike] Of course you can. 284 00:11:08,168 --> 00:11:09,904 After the hypnosis session, 285 00:11:10,004 --> 00:11:12,740 I did not expect to see Dr. Mike again. 286 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,442 I just think he crossed so many boundaries with me. 287 00:11:20,547 --> 00:11:21,815 -[Zach] Coach Mike. - [Cheyenne] Hi! 288 00:11:21,915 --> 00:11:22,950 Can I just start off by saying-- 289 00:11:23,050 --> 00:11:25,519 -Oh, can I start? -Of course you can. 290 00:11:25,619 --> 00:11:27,421 When I get upset, I shut down. 291 00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,789 And I literally need to, like, breathe. 292 00:11:29,890 --> 00:11:32,593 Which is why I had to just walk away. 293 00:11:32,693 --> 00:11:34,461 After the hypnosis session, 294 00:11:34,561 --> 00:11:37,197 I was not excited to see Dr. Mike again. 295 00:11:37,297 --> 00:11:39,833 I just think he crossed so many boundaries with me. 296 00:11:39,933 --> 00:11:42,736 But everyone has a chance to apologize. 297 00:11:42,836 --> 00:11:44,672 I do think that you were walking in territory 298 00:11:44,772 --> 00:11:46,640 -that you just didn't know. -[Dr. Mike] I did not-- 299 00:11:46,740 --> 00:11:48,542 You were just like, human to human, 300 00:11:48,642 --> 00:11:51,712 which I can see and I understand the exercise. 301 00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:53,947 I only have, like, the purest of intentions 302 00:11:54,047 --> 00:11:55,483 for everybody here. 303 00:11:55,583 --> 00:11:58,152 And, like, my heart broke when I was walking away. 304 00:11:58,252 --> 00:11:59,686 I was like, oh no. 305 00:11:59,786 --> 00:12:02,323 From the bottom of my heart, I'm so sorry. 306 00:12:02,423 --> 00:12:04,058 Um, thank you for walking away from me 307 00:12:04,158 --> 00:12:05,659 and thank you for taking your space. 308 00:12:05,759 --> 00:12:06,927 It was not a setup. 309 00:12:07,027 --> 00:12:08,662 It was like, hey, let's just create a space. 310 00:12:08,762 --> 00:12:10,497 If there's anything that you wanna say... 311 00:12:10,598 --> 00:12:11,565 I knew this much. 312 00:12:11,665 --> 00:12:13,434 [Cheyenne] Which I could tell. 313 00:12:13,534 --> 00:12:15,736 -Oh, that--oh! -Yeah. 314 00:12:15,836 --> 00:12:17,838 I accept Dr. Mike's apology. 315 00:12:17,938 --> 00:12:19,640 I think that he didn't know what the [bleep] 316 00:12:19,740 --> 00:12:21,075 he was stepping into. 317 00:12:21,175 --> 00:12:23,310 I feel like the three of us needed to clear the air 318 00:12:23,410 --> 00:12:25,412 in order to, like, continue on this. 319 00:12:25,512 --> 00:12:26,780 [Ryan] I feel like Dr. Mike, 320 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,650 it wasn't his place to bring up the situation. 321 00:12:29,750 --> 00:12:32,286 If Chey wanted to allow Mackenzie 322 00:12:32,386 --> 00:12:33,987 to show that she's growing, 323 00:12:34,087 --> 00:12:36,490 it's really Mackenzie's job to prove that. 324 00:12:36,590 --> 00:12:38,792 It shouldn't be pressured onto anybody. 325 00:12:38,892 --> 00:12:40,894 This is actually more meaningful than anything, 326 00:12:40,994 --> 00:12:43,564 any exercise or, you know, like, whatever. 327 00:12:43,664 --> 00:12:45,499 I see you, I hear you. 328 00:12:45,599 --> 00:12:47,701 Dr. Mike came to apologize. 329 00:12:47,801 --> 00:12:50,704 I don't think that he meant it in a malicious way. 330 00:12:50,804 --> 00:12:52,539 I honestly just don't think he thought about 331 00:12:52,639 --> 00:12:54,207 what he was doing. 332 00:12:54,307 --> 00:12:57,144 I don't want this tension to take over the whole house. 333 00:12:57,244 --> 00:12:59,446 I don't really know where Mackenzie and I stand. 334 00:12:59,546 --> 00:13:01,382 But I do wanna diffuse the situation 335 00:13:01,482 --> 00:13:02,850 and just get past it. 336 00:13:02,950 --> 00:13:04,551 I'm gonna go to bed with my heart happy, 337 00:13:04,651 --> 00:13:06,087 so thank you. Thank you, thank you. 338 00:13:06,187 --> 00:13:07,722 -Absolutely. -Yeah. 339 00:13:07,822 --> 00:13:09,123 -Have a good night! -Thanks for coming. 340 00:13:09,223 --> 00:13:14,060 [music] 341 00:13:22,603 --> 00:13:24,738 The vibe of the house is just so down. 342 00:13:24,839 --> 00:13:26,874 So we want to do something to fix it. 343 00:13:26,974 --> 00:13:29,810 We're gonna go to a rooftop. We're gonna drink. 344 00:13:29,910 --> 00:13:32,580 Taylor, Maci, I know you leave tomorrow. 345 00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:34,648 Can't get out of this, so go get dressed. 346 00:13:34,748 --> 00:13:36,617 [Jade] It's your last hoorah. 347 00:13:36,717 --> 00:13:38,085 [Taylor] The last hurrah. 348 00:13:38,185 --> 00:13:39,353 I've had a [bleep] day! 349 00:13:39,453 --> 00:13:41,122 You're my friend. You have to come. 350 00:13:41,222 --> 00:13:42,822 [laughs] 351 00:13:44,457 --> 00:13:46,126 [Maci] We are leaving tomorrow. 352 00:13:46,226 --> 00:13:48,562 We're heading out for our last night in Colombia. 353 00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:49,997 This is gonna be awesome. 354 00:13:50,097 --> 00:13:52,332 Already feeling the tiredness for the flight tomorrow. 355 00:13:54,768 --> 00:13:55,870 [Cate] Did your mom ever teach you, 356 00:13:55,970 --> 00:13:57,304 like, hairstyles growing up or no? 357 00:14:01,709 --> 00:14:03,243 [Cate] Oh, I didn't know that. 358 00:14:04,511 --> 00:14:05,812 Like, I literally learned how to do 359 00:14:05,912 --> 00:14:07,815 a French braid on my daughter, like, two years ago. 360 00:14:07,915 --> 00:14:10,417 I, like, legitimately bought a mannequin head 361 00:14:10,517 --> 00:14:12,086 just so I could teach myself. 362 00:14:12,186 --> 00:14:13,987 [laughs] 363 00:14:14,988 --> 00:14:17,190 What, you think so? [laughs] 364 00:14:17,291 --> 00:14:19,526 [Maci] I love it! 365 00:14:19,626 --> 00:14:20,894 I love it! 366 00:14:20,994 --> 00:14:22,196 I am totally obsessed with my hair. 367 00:14:22,296 --> 00:14:24,498 I'm feeling like-- maybe like Princess Leia 368 00:14:24,598 --> 00:14:26,433 or, better yet, like Miley Cyrus. 369 00:14:26,533 --> 00:14:28,301 Thank you. 370 00:14:29,136 --> 00:14:34,007 [music] 371 00:14:34,107 --> 00:14:35,108 Cheers. 372 00:14:35,208 --> 00:14:36,577 [Tyler] The house is getting ready. 373 00:14:36,677 --> 00:14:38,245 We're about to go to some swanky rooftop bar. 374 00:14:38,345 --> 00:14:39,513 [indistinct] 375 00:14:39,613 --> 00:14:40,747 Let's put all the drama behind us 376 00:14:40,847 --> 00:14:42,116 and let's just have a good time. 377 00:14:42,216 --> 00:14:49,256 [music] 378 00:14:49,356 --> 00:14:50,857 [cheering] 379 00:14:50,957 --> 00:14:52,426 Wow! 380 00:14:52,526 --> 00:14:55,595 [music] 381 00:14:55,695 --> 00:14:58,531 Rooftop is so pretty. You can see the city. 382 00:14:58,632 --> 00:14:59,766 There's a DJ. 383 00:14:59,867 --> 00:15:01,602 And I think we're gonna have fun. 384 00:15:01,702 --> 00:15:03,336 Zach and I have an agreement tonight. 385 00:15:03,436 --> 00:15:06,540 He's supposed to stay sober so he can watch me 386 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,242 and my mouth. 387 00:15:08,342 --> 00:15:10,477 [hums] 388 00:15:10,577 --> 00:15:12,045 It just feels good to be out. 389 00:15:12,145 --> 00:15:13,847 Taylor and Maci's last night. 390 00:15:13,948 --> 00:15:15,882 We wanna send them off with a bang. 391 00:15:15,982 --> 00:15:19,586 This is for Taylor and Maci! Thank you for coming. 392 00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:21,922 We're gonna miss you. Cheers to you guys. 393 00:15:22,022 --> 00:15:23,624 Let's enjoy the night. 394 00:15:23,724 --> 00:15:25,392 [cheers and applause] 395 00:15:25,492 --> 00:15:28,461 Give me some Family Reunion number three! 396 00:15:28,561 --> 00:15:30,564 [cheering] 397 00:15:30,664 --> 00:15:32,299 I love you guys! Take care of each other. 398 00:15:32,399 --> 00:15:34,568 Hey! 399 00:15:35,335 --> 00:15:37,171 I feel like Mackenzie has done a good job 400 00:15:37,271 --> 00:15:40,474 at just avoiding me since doing hypnosis. 401 00:15:40,574 --> 00:15:42,009 But we're living together. 402 00:15:42,109 --> 00:15:44,511 This whole situation is just emotionally exhausting 403 00:15:44,612 --> 00:15:47,647 and I'm ready to be done with it and to just go forward. 404 00:15:47,748 --> 00:15:49,716 We can't avoid each other forever. 405 00:15:49,816 --> 00:15:51,652 Khes, Mackenzie, 406 00:15:51,752 --> 00:15:53,587 can, we, uh, huddle up over here real quick 407 00:15:53,687 --> 00:15:56,022 and just have a quick conversation? 408 00:15:56,123 --> 00:15:58,325 [Mackenzie] Cheyenne and Zach pulled on Khesanio and I 409 00:15:58,425 --> 00:15:59,860 to the side to talk. 410 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:03,931 And my heart is open to any conversation 411 00:16:04,031 --> 00:16:05,999 that needs to be had. 412 00:16:08,869 --> 00:16:10,103 [Cheyenne] I think in this moment, 413 00:16:10,203 --> 00:16:12,239 everybody is either looking at Mackenzie 414 00:16:12,339 --> 00:16:13,373 or looking at me, 415 00:16:13,473 --> 00:16:16,010 and they wanna see what's gonna happen next. 416 00:16:16,110 --> 00:16:18,011 I wanna make sure my delivery is good. 417 00:16:18,111 --> 00:16:20,647 I'm not good with this at all. 418 00:16:20,747 --> 00:16:24,451 [music] 419 00:16:30,223 --> 00:16:31,625 Khes, Mackenzie, 420 00:16:31,725 --> 00:16:33,494 can we, uh, huddle up over here real quick 421 00:16:33,594 --> 00:16:35,161 and just have a quick conversation? 422 00:16:35,262 --> 00:16:36,496 [Cheyenne] I think in this moment, 423 00:16:36,596 --> 00:16:38,465 everybody is either looking at Mackenzie 424 00:16:38,565 --> 00:16:39,767 or looking at me, 425 00:16:39,867 --> 00:16:41,836 and they wanna see what's gonna happen next. 426 00:16:41,936 --> 00:16:45,505 I think coming into this, I was closed off. 427 00:16:45,606 --> 00:16:47,574 I did not care to get to know you. 428 00:16:47,674 --> 00:16:49,777 And honestly, I didn't care to get to know you either. 429 00:16:49,877 --> 00:16:52,446 And I think after today, it would be wrong of me 430 00:16:52,546 --> 00:16:54,815 to be hypocritical and say, oh, I give people grace 431 00:16:54,915 --> 00:16:56,249 and I give myself grace 432 00:16:56,349 --> 00:16:58,051 and I learn from this and I learn from that, 433 00:16:58,152 --> 00:16:59,653 but I don't allow you to the space 434 00:16:59,753 --> 00:17:04,158 to give yourself grace or for you to learn. 435 00:17:04,258 --> 00:17:06,527 She is using the word "grace," 436 00:17:06,627 --> 00:17:10,264 and that word means a lot to me. 437 00:17:10,364 --> 00:17:11,899 My mom was full of grace. 438 00:17:11,999 --> 00:17:13,501 I feel like you can't be vulnerable 439 00:17:13,601 --> 00:17:15,669 with the other girls because I'm around, 440 00:17:15,769 --> 00:17:17,037 and I feel like at the same time, 441 00:17:17,137 --> 00:17:18,706 you're holding yourself back, 442 00:17:18,806 --> 00:17:21,842 which is allowing them not to get to know the real you. 443 00:17:21,942 --> 00:17:24,845 Before things went sideways with the hypnosis session. 444 00:17:24,945 --> 00:17:27,548 I did learn that I do need to let go. 445 00:17:27,648 --> 00:17:28,882 I have an issue with control. 446 00:17:28,982 --> 00:17:30,951 I like to control everything in my life. 447 00:17:31,051 --> 00:17:32,385 I need to get past that. 448 00:17:32,485 --> 00:17:35,055 I need to, like, learn how to release control, 449 00:17:35,155 --> 00:17:38,291 and that's within everything-- like, within my person life 450 00:17:38,391 --> 00:17:41,195 or the way I handle, like, my marriage. 451 00:17:41,295 --> 00:17:44,198 I think allowing myself to let go, 452 00:17:44,298 --> 00:17:46,700 forgive Mackenzie, and just move past 453 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:48,602 is gonna help me in the long run. 454 00:17:48,702 --> 00:17:50,770 I don't wanna keep carrying this tension with me. 455 00:17:50,871 --> 00:17:53,607 I'm ready to just free myself of it. 456 00:17:53,707 --> 00:17:55,942 So I'm gonna step out of my comfort zone 457 00:17:56,042 --> 00:17:59,113 and ask that you and I can have a clean slate 458 00:17:59,213 --> 00:18:00,714 and get to know each other. 459 00:18:00,814 --> 00:18:02,382 [Zach] I'm real proud of Chey for stepping up 460 00:18:02,482 --> 00:18:04,051 and making that move with Mackenzie. 461 00:18:04,151 --> 00:18:06,253 It takes a lot for her to get out of her comfort zone, 462 00:18:06,353 --> 00:18:07,921 especially within a situation like that, 463 00:18:08,022 --> 00:18:09,023 but she did it. 464 00:18:09,123 --> 00:18:10,156 At the end of the day, 465 00:18:10,257 --> 00:18:11,525 we're all more alike than we realize. 466 00:18:11,625 --> 00:18:13,593 But we have to break down those walls. 467 00:18:13,693 --> 00:18:14,995 Yes. 468 00:18:15,095 --> 00:18:19,499 I feel like a million pounds are lifted off of my shoulder. 469 00:18:19,599 --> 00:18:20,867 -New beginnings. -New beginnings. 470 00:18:20,968 --> 00:18:22,436 -Growth. -Yeah. 471 00:18:22,536 --> 00:18:23,937 I appreciate-- 472 00:18:24,037 --> 00:18:26,106 No, I am happy that you were open to the conversation 473 00:18:26,206 --> 00:18:30,377 and I hope that we can just move forward from this. 474 00:18:30,477 --> 00:18:31,545 Thank you. 475 00:18:31,645 --> 00:18:32,646 Mackenzie and I are talking. 476 00:18:32,747 --> 00:18:34,081 And I think we're finally at a place 477 00:18:34,181 --> 00:18:37,050 where we can move on and just forgive each other 478 00:18:37,150 --> 00:18:39,653 and not talk about this again. 479 00:18:39,753 --> 00:18:41,489 And I really do wanna get to know you. 480 00:18:41,589 --> 00:18:43,590 For me, it felt good because 481 00:18:43,690 --> 00:18:44,958 obviously, after everything, 482 00:18:45,058 --> 00:18:47,093 even if they don't become good friends, 483 00:18:47,193 --> 00:18:48,795 it was just a way to, you know, 484 00:18:48,895 --> 00:18:51,031 just, like, get past everything. 485 00:18:52,399 --> 00:18:54,268 I'm happy that Mackenzie and Cheyenne 486 00:18:54,368 --> 00:18:55,869 can put things in the past. 487 00:18:55,970 --> 00:18:59,005 Having the whole entire house get along and have fun-- 488 00:18:59,105 --> 00:19:00,640 this was the whole reason me and Cheyenne 489 00:19:00,740 --> 00:19:02,376 wanted to throw this family reunion. 490 00:19:02,476 --> 00:19:03,744 And this night is showing us 491 00:19:03,844 --> 00:19:06,012 that we have definitely turned the vibe around. 492 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,082 [cheering] 493 00:19:09,182 --> 00:19:13,253 [singing in Spanish] 494 00:19:18,391 --> 00:19:19,827 [Cory] Everyone's having a good time. 495 00:19:19,927 --> 00:19:23,530 We're in Colombia. I'm dancing. 496 00:19:23,630 --> 00:19:25,732 Five, four--come on. Three. 497 00:19:27,167 --> 00:19:28,736 [cheering] 498 00:19:28,836 --> 00:19:31,905 Mackenzie ass is full-on Electric Slide-- 499 00:19:32,005 --> 00:19:34,008 I don't know what the hell she used to do back in the day, 500 00:19:34,108 --> 00:19:37,210 but that girl was dancing her ass off. 501 00:19:37,310 --> 00:19:39,045 We've got the pony. 502 00:19:39,779 --> 00:19:42,349 That rooftop bar was kind of the first moment 503 00:19:42,449 --> 00:19:45,085 that I felt like I could be Mackenzie. 504 00:19:46,553 --> 00:19:49,022 [cheering] 505 00:19:49,122 --> 00:19:53,126 [singing in Spanish] 506 00:20:02,770 --> 00:20:04,972 Honestly, I thought about staying home. 507 00:20:05,072 --> 00:20:06,039 I know, right? 508 00:20:06,139 --> 00:20:07,975 When they say we're going to a party, 509 00:20:08,075 --> 00:20:09,710 I'm gonna say [bleep] no! 510 00:20:09,810 --> 00:20:11,145 I thought the same [bleep]. 511 00:20:11,245 --> 00:20:13,580 At this point, I'm just kind of, like, partied out. 512 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,249 And exhausted. 513 00:20:15,349 --> 00:20:17,517 -We're so lame. -I don't care. 514 00:20:23,757 --> 00:20:26,793 My god, the young guy is here and he's ruining us! 515 00:20:28,395 --> 00:20:29,863 I don't know why Ryan's drinking so much. 516 00:20:29,963 --> 00:20:32,132 I don't know if he's trying to avoid something. 517 00:20:32,232 --> 00:20:33,901 I don't know if it's 'cause he just got here 518 00:20:34,001 --> 00:20:36,270 and he's trying to show the guys he can hang. 519 00:20:36,370 --> 00:20:38,172 He's--you know, I'm the big dog. 520 00:20:38,272 --> 00:20:39,807 You wanna go shot for shot? 521 00:20:39,907 --> 00:20:41,308 No. Hell no. 522 00:20:41,408 --> 00:20:42,609 'Cause my girl's gonna hate me for that. 523 00:20:42,709 --> 00:20:44,678 She's gonna be like, don't do it. 524 00:20:44,778 --> 00:20:47,347 If I was in your shoes, I'd really [bleep] annoyed. 525 00:20:47,447 --> 00:20:48,782 -With him? -Yeah. 526 00:20:48,883 --> 00:20:51,318 I think that Ryan's avoiding Kayla 527 00:20:51,418 --> 00:20:53,954 because they have big decisions to make. 528 00:20:54,054 --> 00:20:56,790 He's not sure if he wants to have a baby with Kayla or not. 529 00:20:56,890 --> 00:20:59,460 But he needs to just deal with his issues. 530 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,595 A little awkward for me 'cause I'm just like-- 531 00:21:01,695 --> 00:21:04,064 -Where's my man. -Yeah. It's a little weird. 532 00:21:04,164 --> 00:21:06,566 [indistinct] like that too. Like, it's fine. 533 00:21:06,667 --> 00:21:09,470 But I feel like if I was pregnant, 534 00:21:09,570 --> 00:21:11,772 I'd be pissed the [bleep] off. 535 00:21:11,872 --> 00:21:13,307 Like, you don't need to be doing all that. 536 00:21:13,407 --> 00:21:14,842 Like, have fun, but-- 537 00:21:14,942 --> 00:21:16,510 And I'm like, I don't wanna create more conflict 538 00:21:16,610 --> 00:21:18,812 -when we already have conflict. -Yeah, I know. 539 00:21:19,980 --> 00:21:21,415 Thanks for grabbing me a glass. 540 00:21:21,515 --> 00:21:22,950 Yeah, grab a glass. 541 00:21:23,050 --> 00:21:25,886 [music] 542 00:21:29,990 --> 00:21:32,092 I hate to say that, but I think he is. 543 00:21:36,931 --> 00:21:38,032 Come on. 544 00:21:38,132 --> 00:21:39,766 [indistinct] 545 00:21:41,568 --> 00:21:42,669 No, I'm gonna sit on your lap. 546 00:21:48,409 --> 00:21:50,044 And he's just like-- ugh, acting like 547 00:21:50,144 --> 00:21:51,178 he was annoyed about-- 548 00:21:51,278 --> 00:21:52,646 [Taylor] He told Cory last night 549 00:21:52,746 --> 00:21:55,483 that he didn't want to be, like, on Instagram with her. 550 00:21:55,583 --> 00:21:57,151 Y'all are IG official? 551 00:21:57,251 --> 00:21:59,219 Nah, I don't really do the social media. 552 00:21:59,319 --> 00:22:01,755 -I know she's on there. -[Ryan] Yeah, she on there. 553 00:22:01,855 --> 00:22:03,290 What's gonna happen if she's like, hey babe, 554 00:22:03,390 --> 00:22:05,659 like, I wanna post you or make this thing public? 555 00:22:05,759 --> 00:22:06,826 No, I'm okay. 556 00:22:11,966 --> 00:22:13,267 Definitely a red flag when someone 557 00:22:13,367 --> 00:22:16,603 doesn't wanna post on someone's social media 558 00:22:16,703 --> 00:22:18,305 or doesn't wanna do pictures together, 559 00:22:18,405 --> 00:22:20,074 'cause you know a [bleep]boy loves to say, like, 560 00:22:20,174 --> 00:22:22,543 I don't even use social media like that. 561 00:22:22,643 --> 00:22:24,511 I keep my life private. 562 00:22:24,612 --> 00:22:25,913 Enough is enough. 563 00:22:26,013 --> 00:22:27,614 -He's definitely a hoe. -Yeah. 564 00:22:43,029 --> 00:22:44,431 Oh yeah, he's definitely a hoe. 565 00:22:44,531 --> 00:22:46,233 How many shots did you have? 566 00:22:46,333 --> 00:22:47,702 I don't know. I'm not counting. 567 00:22:47,802 --> 00:22:48,936 I'm just enjoying my-- 568 00:22:49,036 --> 00:22:50,170 I heard you were at, like, 10. 569 00:22:50,270 --> 00:22:52,773 As long as I'm controllable, I'm fine. 570 00:22:52,873 --> 00:22:54,742 He should be getting her water, making sure she's comfortable. 571 00:22:54,842 --> 00:22:58,712 Like, spending time with her, not [bleep] off. 572 00:22:58,812 --> 00:23:01,281 He's been with Cory and Zach the whole time. 573 00:23:01,381 --> 00:23:04,584 You know, me, Cody, Zach-- 574 00:23:04,685 --> 00:23:06,220 -Cody? -Cory. 575 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,355 -Yeah. [giggles] -Cory. 576 00:23:08,455 --> 00:23:11,458 You know? Hey, had too many drinks. 577 00:23:11,558 --> 00:23:13,160 You're never really around me. You're always with the guys. 578 00:23:13,260 --> 00:23:14,361 You're always doing your own thing. 579 00:23:14,462 --> 00:23:16,130 Yeah, and we're enjoying our time. 580 00:23:16,230 --> 00:23:17,565 Mm-hmm. 581 00:23:17,665 --> 00:23:19,900 When Ryan drinks, he gets a little bit more bold 582 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,902 and he really doesn't know how to watch his mouth. 583 00:23:22,002 --> 00:23:24,405 So I'm just hoping it doesn't cause an argument with us 584 00:23:24,505 --> 00:23:26,906 and that he can just hold it together. 585 00:23:27,007 --> 00:23:28,475 She's went through two pregnancies 586 00:23:28,575 --> 00:23:29,976 and had a horrible [bleep] time. 587 00:23:30,077 --> 00:23:33,146 Like, the least you could do is make her feel supported. 588 00:23:33,247 --> 00:23:35,549 Cory needs to talk to Ryan because 589 00:23:35,649 --> 00:23:37,818 I feel like all he's focused on is drinking 590 00:23:37,918 --> 00:23:39,186 and hanging out with the boys. 591 00:23:39,286 --> 00:23:42,122 And he has a girl that is pregnant right now 592 00:23:42,223 --> 00:23:43,457 with his child, 593 00:23:43,557 --> 00:23:45,659 and he needs to take care of his business. 594 00:23:45,759 --> 00:23:49,196 [music] 595 00:23:49,296 --> 00:23:51,164 ♪ Girl, I wanna do it Dontcha wanna do it ♪ 596 00:23:51,264 --> 00:23:52,433 ♪ You know you wanna do it ♪ 597 00:23:52,533 --> 00:23:53,767 ♪ Quit playing, girl, let's ♪ 598 00:23:53,867 --> 00:23:55,502 [music] 599 00:23:55,602 --> 00:23:56,470 ♪ Do it ♪ 600 00:23:56,570 --> 00:23:57,637 Get his ass. 601 00:23:57,737 --> 00:24:01,375 You grab his ass and tell his ass to calm down. 602 00:24:01,475 --> 00:24:03,644 I promised Taylor I would talk to Ryan. 603 00:24:03,744 --> 00:24:05,980 I know that I have my issues in my relationship, 604 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,450 but I can see the path that Ryan and Kayla are going down, 605 00:24:09,550 --> 00:24:11,852 and I want what's best for that baby. 606 00:24:11,952 --> 00:24:13,553 He has to have Kayla's back. 607 00:24:13,654 --> 00:24:15,856 Kayla already feels alone, I'm sure. 608 00:24:15,956 --> 00:24:17,224 So I wanna make sure 609 00:24:17,324 --> 00:24:18,893 she feels as secure as she can. 610 00:24:18,993 --> 00:24:20,360 And that's Ryan's job. 611 00:24:20,460 --> 00:24:22,195 I can only imagine what it's like 612 00:24:22,296 --> 00:24:25,065 with you being pregnant right now. 613 00:24:25,165 --> 00:24:26,800 You got that stress going on. 614 00:24:26,901 --> 00:24:30,304 You're sitting there like, dog, I got a baby on the way, 615 00:24:30,404 --> 00:24:31,739 mother[bleep] don't even know, 616 00:24:31,839 --> 00:24:34,474 give me a shot, give me a shot. I've been there. 617 00:24:34,574 --> 00:24:35,943 [Ryan] When Cory's giving me advice, 618 00:24:36,043 --> 00:24:38,512 it's coming from more of a genuine standpoint 619 00:24:38,612 --> 00:24:40,915 because he's older, he's been through it, 620 00:24:41,015 --> 00:24:43,417 and he's telling me, get your [bleep] together. 621 00:24:43,517 --> 00:24:46,186 Y'all are making probably damn near the biggest decision 622 00:24:46,287 --> 00:24:47,888 beside marriage in here, you know? 623 00:24:47,988 --> 00:24:52,059 Like, bringing a child into this life is serious. 624 00:24:52,159 --> 00:24:54,895 This is really some [bleep] 625 00:24:54,995 --> 00:24:56,797 where y'all gotta put time apart 626 00:24:56,897 --> 00:24:59,933 if it's these two weeks, whatever it may be. 627 00:25:00,033 --> 00:25:02,002 You gotta think about it. Think about that [bleep] deep. 628 00:25:02,102 --> 00:25:05,272 And the best thing you can be is true to yourself. 629 00:25:05,372 --> 00:25:07,374 I hope that y'all can come to an agreement. 630 00:25:07,474 --> 00:25:09,443 You guys can figure that [bleep] out, bro, 631 00:25:09,543 --> 00:25:11,678 you guys will be so happy. 632 00:25:11,778 --> 00:25:14,481 I feel like we avoided talking about the pregnancy 633 00:25:14,581 --> 00:25:17,317 because it's the biggest decision of our lives. 634 00:25:17,417 --> 00:25:19,787 I mean, who wanna talk about pregnancy at a damn bar? 635 00:25:19,887 --> 00:25:22,689 I mean, it'll work out for whatever's best. 636 00:25:22,789 --> 00:25:24,725 To me, no answer is the worst answer. 637 00:25:24,825 --> 00:25:26,493 I'd rather you tell it to me straight 638 00:25:26,593 --> 00:25:28,696 and be like, I don't wanna be with you, I don't want a baby. 639 00:25:28,796 --> 00:25:31,364 I feel I would take that better than avoidance. 640 00:25:33,099 --> 00:25:34,668 Aye! 641 00:25:35,402 --> 00:25:36,804 Give me my goddamn shot. 642 00:25:36,904 --> 00:25:38,005 Young buck. 643 00:25:38,105 --> 00:25:39,940 Go ahead, take that shot, young buck, go ahead. 644 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,344 [music] 645 00:25:43,444 --> 00:25:46,714 After today [indistinct] way too stressful for myself, 646 00:25:46,814 --> 00:25:48,449 Zach and I have come to this agreement 647 00:25:48,549 --> 00:25:50,818 that I could be the partier tonight 648 00:25:50,918 --> 00:25:54,721 and he would stay semi-sober. It's not working. 649 00:25:55,923 --> 00:25:57,290 -Hi! -What's wrong? 650 00:25:57,390 --> 00:25:58,925 We had an agreement. Two drinks, right? 651 00:25:59,026 --> 00:25:59,993 Oh my goodness. 652 00:26:00,093 --> 00:26:01,395 We had an agreement! 653 00:26:01,495 --> 00:26:02,963 What's y'all agreement? 654 00:26:03,063 --> 00:26:04,898 [Cheyenne] So our agreement is that he can do, like, two shots. 655 00:26:04,998 --> 00:26:07,501 [Ryan] Come on, alcohol watch tonight. 656 00:26:07,601 --> 00:26:10,137 I'm gonna drink. When I'm ready, I'll drink. 657 00:26:10,237 --> 00:26:13,073 Chey is going off like I'm just some type of kid. 658 00:26:13,173 --> 00:26:15,509 If Ryan offers three shots, I don't gotta take all three. 659 00:26:15,609 --> 00:26:16,710 I'm a grown-ass man. 660 00:26:16,810 --> 00:26:19,613 So Chey, just sit back. I got this. 661 00:26:19,713 --> 00:26:21,781 I can have a few drinks and I can be perfectly fine. 662 00:26:21,882 --> 00:26:24,618 But Chey should've talked to me on the side, in private, 663 00:26:24,718 --> 00:26:26,153 and not called me out in front of everybody. 664 00:26:26,253 --> 00:26:27,387 [retches] 665 00:26:27,487 --> 00:26:28,922 [Zach] Oh, hell no. 666 00:26:29,023 --> 00:26:30,224 Babe, babe, babe. 667 00:26:30,324 --> 00:26:31,926 You're gonna sit with-- Oh, you're gonna sit there? 668 00:26:32,026 --> 00:26:32,960 I'mma take this chair. 669 00:26:33,060 --> 00:26:34,428 Oh, wait, wait, take a picture of me 670 00:26:34,528 --> 00:26:35,429 before you talk to me. 671 00:26:35,529 --> 00:26:36,430 No, I'm gonna talk to you. 672 00:26:36,530 --> 00:26:37,697 And then take a picture of me? 673 00:26:37,797 --> 00:26:39,066 [Zach] You're demanding too much right now. 674 00:26:39,166 --> 00:26:41,168 You're this, that, and that's why we're here right now. 675 00:26:41,268 --> 00:26:42,402 -Me? -Yes. 676 00:26:42,502 --> 00:26:43,770 What did I do? 677 00:26:43,870 --> 00:26:46,974 You need to let me be a man and take charge. 678 00:26:47,074 --> 00:26:48,175 For one, we've never, ever-- 679 00:26:48,275 --> 00:26:50,111 You've never really had, like, an alcohol limit, 680 00:26:50,211 --> 00:26:51,645 so that was kind of new. 681 00:26:51,745 --> 00:26:53,381 And new to everybody. It was kind of embarrassing. 682 00:26:53,481 --> 00:26:55,082 Everybody's looking me and talking about, 683 00:26:55,182 --> 00:26:57,317 oh, he can take this many, he can take this many shots. 684 00:26:57,417 --> 00:27:00,220 -I'm a grown-ass man. -But we talked about it. 685 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:01,455 I know we talked about it, 686 00:27:01,555 --> 00:27:03,858 but you made it a thing right there. 687 00:27:03,958 --> 00:27:06,626 Okay. 688 00:27:07,895 --> 00:27:11,464 I just get this real stale-ass just...okay. 689 00:27:11,564 --> 00:27:13,099 Just okay? 690 00:27:13,199 --> 00:27:14,568 What the [bleep] you mean okay? 691 00:27:14,668 --> 00:27:16,603 No, you need to speak, verbally. 692 00:27:16,703 --> 00:27:18,839 Give me some type of, you know, talk back. 693 00:27:18,939 --> 00:27:20,474 -It's like that-- -[Cheyenne] [indistinct] 694 00:27:20,574 --> 00:27:22,376 Like, the way you directed me and [bleep] right now, 695 00:27:22,476 --> 00:27:24,111 it's almost like I'm your little puppet. 696 00:27:24,211 --> 00:27:25,579 I never look at you like that. 697 00:27:25,679 --> 00:27:28,382 Let's not do this right now. I ain't doing this. 698 00:27:28,482 --> 00:27:29,683 -Why? -I don't wanna do it right now. 699 00:27:29,783 --> 00:27:31,485 You're a little tipsy. I don't wanna-- 700 00:27:31,585 --> 00:27:33,587 I genuinely do not think that you're my puppet. 701 00:27:33,687 --> 00:27:35,089 I don't think that I speak to you like that. 702 00:27:35,189 --> 00:27:36,824 How are you trying to demand me now with grab this, 703 00:27:36,924 --> 00:27:39,326 okay, grab that, do--do this? Like, just relax! 704 00:27:39,427 --> 00:27:41,095 I'm trying to take you over here to tell you something, 705 00:27:41,195 --> 00:27:43,196 but you over here, okay, take a picture of me before-- 706 00:27:43,296 --> 00:27:44,565 Let me talk to you. 707 00:27:44,665 --> 00:27:47,701 I understand that you want me to release control. 708 00:27:47,801 --> 00:27:51,738 And we talked about it today in our session. 709 00:27:51,838 --> 00:27:54,942 Zach decides to tell me that I'm too controlling. 710 00:27:55,042 --> 00:27:57,477 I really want to just have a carefree night. 711 00:27:57,577 --> 00:27:59,713 I don't wanna have to think about anything. 712 00:27:59,813 --> 00:28:00,814 [sighs] 713 00:28:00,914 --> 00:28:02,082 I have to be receptive to it. 714 00:28:02,182 --> 00:28:05,386 You didn't be receptive. You just said, okay! 715 00:28:05,486 --> 00:28:07,454 You do not hear me saying sorry, yes or no? 716 00:28:07,554 --> 00:28:08,722 [Zach] You just said okay to me 717 00:28:08,823 --> 00:28:10,423 like you're talking to Mackenzie. 718 00:28:10,523 --> 00:28:13,994 -I am genuinely sorry. -Okay. 719 00:28:14,328 --> 00:28:15,495 Okay! 720 00:28:15,595 --> 00:28:16,630 [Cheyenne] Why are we bringing her up? 721 00:28:16,730 --> 00:28:17,931 'Cause it was so disrespectful. 722 00:28:18,031 --> 00:28:19,366 Do you not just hear me apologizing to you? 723 00:28:19,466 --> 00:28:21,268 I'm confused. 724 00:28:21,368 --> 00:28:22,502 You're not listening. 725 00:28:22,602 --> 00:28:24,104 [Cheyenne] Which is what I said. 726 00:28:24,204 --> 00:28:26,473 I said I wanna drink tonight, so let me drink, 727 00:28:26,573 --> 00:28:27,908 so you stay sober, so you don't drink. 728 00:28:28,008 --> 00:28:29,377 And then you get here and drink, 729 00:28:29,477 --> 00:28:31,212 so make that make sense. 730 00:28:31,312 --> 00:28:32,679 I'm the bad guy. All right. 731 00:28:32,779 --> 00:28:34,181 We gonna never do this. 732 00:28:34,281 --> 00:28:35,483 We go out, we both drink. 733 00:28:35,583 --> 00:28:37,317 So all of this is new to me. 734 00:28:37,417 --> 00:28:39,352 You think I can't handle my own [bleep]? 735 00:28:39,453 --> 00:28:41,388 You're not gonna answer my question? 736 00:28:41,488 --> 00:28:42,589 You're fine. 737 00:28:42,690 --> 00:28:43,690 You're not gonna answer my question? 738 00:28:43,791 --> 00:28:44,992 I don't have anything else to say. 739 00:28:45,092 --> 00:28:46,893 Disrespectful ass. [bleep]'s clearly crazy. 740 00:28:46,993 --> 00:28:48,461 [Cheyenne] I'm being disrespectful? 741 00:28:48,562 --> 00:28:50,564 -All right, all right. -Walk away. 742 00:28:55,669 --> 00:28:57,804 You think I can't handle my own [bleep]? 743 00:28:57,905 --> 00:28:59,306 You're not gonna answer my question? 744 00:28:59,407 --> 00:29:00,975 I don't have anything else to say. 745 00:29:01,075 --> 00:29:03,010 Disrespectful ass. [bleep]'s clearly crazy. 746 00:29:03,110 --> 00:29:05,545 I'm being disrespectful? 747 00:29:05,645 --> 00:29:06,981 Walk away. 748 00:29:07,081 --> 00:29:08,749 I thought you sat in that ice bath today. 749 00:29:08,849 --> 00:29:10,284 What happened? 750 00:29:10,384 --> 00:29:12,185 What are you gonna take from this ice bath and apply? 751 00:29:12,286 --> 00:29:14,988 I compared it to our relationship. 752 00:29:15,088 --> 00:29:16,056 I'm not getting out. 753 00:29:16,156 --> 00:29:18,626 Take that to your next argument. 754 00:29:18,726 --> 00:29:19,827 [chuckles] You got me. 755 00:29:19,927 --> 00:29:21,828 -You're sitting back down. -[Zach] She got me. 756 00:29:21,928 --> 00:29:24,098 -She [bleep] got me. -Sit in it! 757 00:29:24,198 --> 00:29:25,665 [groans] She got me, right! 758 00:29:25,765 --> 00:29:27,801 I just sat here and tried to apologize 759 00:29:27,902 --> 00:29:30,504 and you're not even open enough to hearing the apology. 760 00:29:30,604 --> 00:29:33,641 Because I'm over the way you're doing your da-da-da 761 00:29:33,741 --> 00:29:35,442 like I'm somebody else. I'm your husband. 762 00:29:35,542 --> 00:29:37,177 You don't do that to your husband, Chey. 763 00:29:37,277 --> 00:29:40,046 Where did my apology go wrong? 764 00:29:40,147 --> 00:29:41,448 I wasn't ready for that apology yet 765 00:29:41,548 --> 00:29:42,883 'cause I still have something to say. 766 00:29:42,983 --> 00:29:44,017 So then just admit that. 767 00:29:44,118 --> 00:29:45,252 I didn't know how to say that yet. 768 00:29:45,352 --> 00:29:47,254 So that's your fault, not my fault. 769 00:29:47,354 --> 00:29:48,656 That's my fault. How do we move forward? 770 00:29:48,756 --> 00:29:50,490 Say what else you have to say so then I can apologize. 771 00:29:50,590 --> 00:29:51,759 I don't have nothing else to say. 772 00:29:51,859 --> 00:29:54,494 -How do we move forward? -Okay, I apologize again! 773 00:29:54,595 --> 00:29:55,929 Now, do you wanna go back over there 774 00:29:56,029 --> 00:29:57,130 or do you wanna sit over here? 775 00:29:57,230 --> 00:29:58,499 -What do you wanna do? -I need a minute. 776 00:29:58,599 --> 00:30:00,734 -Okay, by yourself? -Yeah. 777 00:30:00,834 --> 00:30:02,202 I didn't sit in an ice bath. 778 00:30:02,302 --> 00:30:03,904 If they brought Chey out to that ice bath, 779 00:30:04,004 --> 00:30:06,040 I tell you, I promise to God, 780 00:30:06,140 --> 00:30:09,142 I'd give her an honest... 781 00:30:09,242 --> 00:30:10,544 Three, four, five... 782 00:30:10,644 --> 00:30:12,612 [bleep] this, I'm out! That's it. Five seconds. 783 00:30:14,882 --> 00:30:16,183 [sighs] 784 00:30:16,283 --> 00:30:17,752 [Zach] I could tell there's some awkwardness 785 00:30:17,852 --> 00:30:19,085 between Chey and Zach, 786 00:30:19,186 --> 00:30:22,322 so I'm gonna stay out of it and... 787 00:30:23,723 --> 00:30:25,959 Chey? Are you okay? 788 00:30:26,059 --> 00:30:27,027 [Cheyenne] Yeah, I'm good. 789 00:30:27,127 --> 00:30:28,628 What's going on? 790 00:30:28,728 --> 00:30:29,663 [Cheyenne] I'm fine. 791 00:30:29,764 --> 00:30:31,031 What's happening? 792 00:30:31,131 --> 00:30:33,167 Chey is crying in the bathroom and I'm like, 793 00:30:33,267 --> 00:30:34,635 what is going on here? 794 00:30:34,735 --> 00:30:37,270 Because the whole night is starting to just unravel. 795 00:30:37,370 --> 00:30:38,606 [Cheyenne] We get here, and it's just like, 796 00:30:38,706 --> 00:30:41,007 all the whole [bleep] talk went out the window. 797 00:30:41,107 --> 00:30:42,376 And then it's like you get mad 798 00:30:42,476 --> 00:30:44,144 that I said it in front of other people. 799 00:30:44,244 --> 00:30:46,614 I don't give a [bleep] about other people. 800 00:30:46,714 --> 00:30:49,115 Like, I wanna drink and be free and feel free, 801 00:30:49,216 --> 00:30:50,984 and I can't do that without knowing 802 00:30:51,084 --> 00:30:53,520 -that you're watching my back. -Right. 803 00:30:53,620 --> 00:30:55,356 [Cheyenne] And that's [bleep] irritating. 804 00:30:55,456 --> 00:30:59,059 He's like, you're talking about me releasing control. 805 00:30:59,159 --> 00:31:01,228 And he's like, then you're demeaning me. 806 00:31:01,328 --> 00:31:03,063 I'm not a man 'cause I can't make my own decisions. 807 00:31:03,163 --> 00:31:04,331 I'm like-- 808 00:31:04,432 --> 00:31:06,133 [indistinct] The same exact thing. 809 00:31:06,233 --> 00:31:07,600 [Cheyenne] You're not hearing me! 810 00:31:07,701 --> 00:31:11,439 I just feel like, you cater towards a lot of her needs. 811 00:31:11,539 --> 00:31:14,808 I don't know if she does the same to you. 812 00:31:14,908 --> 00:31:16,176 I don't know if it's like that. 813 00:31:16,276 --> 00:31:17,678 No, she'll cater-- I'm not even gonna knock that. 814 00:31:17,778 --> 00:31:18,912 She caters to my needs. 815 00:31:19,012 --> 00:31:21,214 I just think it lacks in some areas, that's all. 816 00:31:21,314 --> 00:31:23,617 Like, we would like to have a few drinks and unwind, 817 00:31:23,718 --> 00:31:24,719 and it's like-- 818 00:31:24,819 --> 00:31:27,321 I can't do that knowing all of you guys 819 00:31:27,421 --> 00:31:30,023 are the most [bleep] up in the room. 820 00:31:30,124 --> 00:31:32,292 No, I, I agree. 821 00:31:32,392 --> 00:31:35,062 It's the last thing I [bleep] want right now. 822 00:31:35,162 --> 00:31:37,697 Me and Chey, we hardly ever even argue. 823 00:31:37,797 --> 00:31:39,366 But if we do, we're definitely in the house. 824 00:31:39,466 --> 00:31:40,867 We argue away from the kids. 825 00:31:40,967 --> 00:31:43,937 So doing this in public, this is not us at all. 826 00:31:44,037 --> 00:31:47,375 [indistinct chatter] 827 00:31:47,475 --> 00:31:48,842 Appreciate you, brah. 828 00:31:50,244 --> 00:31:52,112 In my eyes, this fight was stupid. 829 00:31:52,212 --> 00:31:53,480 It meant nothing to both of us. 830 00:31:53,580 --> 00:31:54,848 We're here to better ourselves. 831 00:31:54,948 --> 00:31:56,483 I'm coming to apologize. 832 00:31:56,583 --> 00:31:58,352 So I wanna make things right. 833 00:31:58,452 --> 00:31:59,920 I think working on everything, 834 00:32:00,020 --> 00:32:04,858 it just feels like everything just shattered out of nowhere. 835 00:32:04,958 --> 00:32:06,627 I don't know. 836 00:32:06,727 --> 00:32:08,762 This is the last [bleep] thing I'm trying to do out here 837 00:32:08,862 --> 00:32:10,064 is do this. 838 00:32:10,164 --> 00:32:11,432 I'm not trying to go into this [bleep] 839 00:32:11,532 --> 00:32:12,633 with negative energy at all. 840 00:32:12,733 --> 00:32:13,967 No, and I don't want you to think 841 00:32:14,067 --> 00:32:15,736 that I don't trust you or the way that you drink. 842 00:32:15,836 --> 00:32:17,537 Any time we fight, it never lasts long. 843 00:32:17,637 --> 00:32:20,608 I can't stay mad at him. He can't stay mad at me. 844 00:32:20,708 --> 00:32:23,477 I will say that I am happy that you did not walk away 845 00:32:23,577 --> 00:32:26,046 and you talked to me, I'm just gonna say. 846 00:32:26,146 --> 00:32:27,581 Chey and I learned today, you know, 847 00:32:27,681 --> 00:32:29,650 we can't run from our problems. We need to face it head on. 848 00:32:29,750 --> 00:32:32,152 I think they need to put us both in an ice bath. 849 00:32:32,252 --> 00:32:33,120 -Together? -Yeah. 850 00:32:33,220 --> 00:32:35,656 -Naked? -Ooh, yeah. 851 00:32:35,756 --> 00:32:38,625 The best marriage advice we have is to argue naked. 852 00:32:39,726 --> 00:32:40,628 Come here. 853 00:32:40,728 --> 00:32:41,762 No, no, no. 854 00:32:41,862 --> 00:32:43,530 We're naked a lot. 855 00:32:43,630 --> 00:32:46,166 You don't get to just make up with me that easy. 856 00:32:46,266 --> 00:32:48,168 I'm still mad! 857 00:32:48,269 --> 00:32:49,936 I think I'm trying to have a baby. 858 00:32:50,037 --> 00:32:51,872 No, you're not! 859 00:32:51,972 --> 00:32:53,373 ♪ Before you say goodbye ♪ 860 00:32:53,473 --> 00:32:55,542 ♪ Before they turn off the lights ♪ 861 00:32:55,642 --> 00:33:02,082 [music] 862 00:33:03,217 --> 00:33:04,718 Right there, right there, right there. 863 00:33:04,818 --> 00:33:08,989 I'm so glad I can have fun with you and be myself. 864 00:33:09,089 --> 00:33:10,957 I love that about you. 865 00:33:11,758 --> 00:33:13,760 Let's toast to-- god, Maci, what is it? 866 00:33:13,861 --> 00:33:15,462 -Fourteen years? -No, I'll be honest. 867 00:33:15,562 --> 00:33:18,264 We've known each other longer than we haven't. 868 00:33:18,365 --> 00:33:21,201 Maci is one of my closest friends. 869 00:33:21,301 --> 00:33:23,270 I feel sad that they have to leave. 870 00:33:23,370 --> 00:33:25,772 Like, we do not not have a good time together. 871 00:33:25,873 --> 00:33:26,841 No, we always do. 872 00:33:26,941 --> 00:33:28,342 Even in the beginning. 873 00:33:28,442 --> 00:33:29,910 I'm glad I came. 874 00:33:30,010 --> 00:33:32,746 And I feel like as long as we continue to take these tools 875 00:33:32,846 --> 00:33:36,783 we've learned home with us, the possibilities are limitless. 876 00:33:36,883 --> 00:33:38,485 -[Maci] This is crazy. -[Taylor] Yeah. 877 00:33:38,585 --> 00:33:40,487 I think we already have a strong relationship. 878 00:33:40,587 --> 00:33:41,955 We've been together a long time. 879 00:33:42,055 --> 00:33:43,423 But I felt like after this trip, 880 00:33:43,523 --> 00:33:45,559 we learned some things that made us even stronger. 881 00:33:45,659 --> 00:33:48,796 I feel, um, blessed to just be able to sit here 882 00:33:48,896 --> 00:33:51,932 and just appreciate every bit of him, 883 00:33:52,032 --> 00:33:55,102 even if I wanna rip his head off sometimes. 884 00:33:55,202 --> 00:33:56,536 When we first got here, I felt like 885 00:33:56,636 --> 00:33:58,105 we didn't have time for each other. 886 00:33:58,205 --> 00:34:00,975 And now I'm leaving with a new understanding of my husband 887 00:34:01,075 --> 00:34:03,877 and our relationship. We're gonna make the time. 888 00:34:03,977 --> 00:34:07,314 I feel like I gained confidence in knowing that, like, 889 00:34:07,414 --> 00:34:09,082 when we reconnect... 890 00:34:09,182 --> 00:34:10,684 [both moaning] 891 00:34:10,784 --> 00:34:13,654 We're gonna do moaning exercises! 892 00:34:13,754 --> 00:34:16,723 ...I still like you and you still like me. 893 00:34:16,823 --> 00:34:19,392 -I love you. -I love you too. 894 00:34:24,331 --> 00:34:25,198 ♪ Hey ♪ 895 00:34:26,066 --> 00:34:27,301 ♪ Hey ♪ 896 00:34:27,401 --> 00:34:30,137 [music] 897 00:34:30,237 --> 00:34:32,139 ♪ Strut it, done it, make it hot ♪ 898 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,575 ♪ Work it, make that body rock ♪ 899 00:34:34,675 --> 00:34:38,279 [music] 900 00:34:38,379 --> 00:34:39,746 [Cate] The general mood in the house 901 00:34:39,846 --> 00:34:42,082 after last night with Kayla and Ryan 902 00:34:42,182 --> 00:34:43,750 is, like, awkward. 903 00:34:43,850 --> 00:34:45,018 I don't really know what's going on. 904 00:34:45,118 --> 00:34:47,588 As far as, like, relationship stuff, 905 00:34:47,688 --> 00:34:50,023 something is not right. 906 00:34:50,891 --> 00:34:52,025 -Here he is! -How's it going? 907 00:34:52,125 --> 00:34:53,227 [Tyler] Dr. Mike, good morning! 908 00:34:53,327 --> 00:34:55,929 How are ya? Good morning. 909 00:34:56,029 --> 00:34:57,097 I'm coming for you! 910 00:34:57,197 --> 00:34:59,299 -Oh, never mind. -Yeah! 911 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,735 -Is Ryan around? -Yeah, he's outside. 912 00:35:01,835 --> 00:35:02,970 [Dr. Mike] All right, I'll grab him 913 00:35:03,070 --> 00:35:04,271 and then you're gonna follow me upstairs. 914 00:35:04,371 --> 00:35:05,772 [Kayla] Dr. Mike comes in. 915 00:35:05,872 --> 00:35:07,074 This is our first therapy session. 916 00:35:07,174 --> 00:35:08,476 I'm a little excited 'cause I think 917 00:35:08,576 --> 00:35:11,345 we clearly need the help, but I'm also nervous. 918 00:35:11,445 --> 00:35:12,813 Ryan! Follow me. 919 00:35:12,913 --> 00:35:14,315 All right, Kayla, you ready? 920 00:35:14,415 --> 00:35:16,017 Sure. 921 00:35:16,117 --> 00:35:17,384 [Cheyenne] Good luck! 922 00:35:17,484 --> 00:35:19,687 Let out a big moan if you need to be saved! 923 00:35:19,787 --> 00:35:21,122 [laughs] 924 00:35:21,222 --> 00:35:22,689 [Zach] Gotta hit 'em with the Dr. Mike-- 925 00:35:22,790 --> 00:35:25,025 [long, deep moan] 926 00:35:25,125 --> 00:35:26,259 Thank you. 927 00:35:26,359 --> 00:35:28,095 There's something wrong with all of us. 928 00:35:28,195 --> 00:35:30,964 Those two definitely have a lot to work out. 929 00:35:31,064 --> 00:35:34,401 Probably the most out of everyone here. 930 00:35:34,501 --> 00:35:37,204 [Ryan] I am nowhere near ready for a session. 931 00:35:37,304 --> 00:35:40,875 My nerves started jumping. 932 00:35:40,975 --> 00:35:42,209 Come on in. 933 00:35:42,309 --> 00:35:43,911 [Ryan] There's just a lot of stuff 934 00:35:44,011 --> 00:35:45,612 that's, like, killing us both mentally 935 00:35:45,712 --> 00:35:48,549 because we don't know what we're gonna do. 936 00:35:48,649 --> 00:35:50,250 It's just scary. 937 00:35:51,518 --> 00:35:55,489 So I'm really here to help you, to help your relationship, 938 00:35:55,589 --> 00:35:56,957 and really dig deep. 939 00:35:57,057 --> 00:35:59,026 And what I noticed right away with the two of you 940 00:35:59,126 --> 00:36:01,494 just being away from each other downstairs 941 00:36:01,595 --> 00:36:05,365 is I'm sensing a lot of tension between the two of you. 942 00:36:05,465 --> 00:36:07,067 I don't think that it's tension. 943 00:36:07,167 --> 00:36:08,802 You know, I read body language for a living. 944 00:36:08,902 --> 00:36:10,404 This is what I do. 945 00:36:10,504 --> 00:36:12,872 Do you agree with her that everything's fine? 946 00:36:12,973 --> 00:36:14,041 I mean, no, everything's not fine. 947 00:36:14,141 --> 00:36:15,409 Not at all. 948 00:36:15,509 --> 00:36:18,379 My biggest problems is the trust 949 00:36:18,479 --> 00:36:21,281 and then everything that's put off, 950 00:36:21,381 --> 00:36:23,250 and then we come back and try to be happy 951 00:36:23,350 --> 00:36:25,586 rather than working through it. 952 00:36:25,686 --> 00:36:27,688 I have a hard time talking about my feelings 953 00:36:27,788 --> 00:36:30,190 and communicating things to you. 954 00:36:31,792 --> 00:36:33,260 You both have these wounds. 955 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,696 You've got a decade of hurts and resentments. 956 00:36:35,796 --> 00:36:37,898 But also, a decade of love. 957 00:36:37,998 --> 00:36:39,767 What made you fall in love with this man? 958 00:36:39,867 --> 00:36:41,202 What made me fall in love with you 959 00:36:41,302 --> 00:36:42,769 is I feel like you always backed what you said 960 00:36:42,869 --> 00:36:44,038 with, like, actions. 961 00:36:44,138 --> 00:36:45,505 I feel like you showed me you loved me. 962 00:36:45,605 --> 00:36:47,608 You would drive a hour to come get me, 963 00:36:47,708 --> 00:36:49,243 spend the weekends together. 964 00:36:49,343 --> 00:36:50,577 I just feel tied to him in a way, 965 00:36:50,677 --> 00:36:53,046 like, I haven't felt with somebody else. 966 00:36:53,147 --> 00:36:54,981 Kayla, I'm in love with you because? 967 00:36:55,082 --> 00:36:56,283 Kayla, I'm in love with you because, 968 00:36:56,383 --> 00:36:58,919 one, you've always been a great mother. 969 00:36:59,019 --> 00:37:02,289 You just do certain things to make sure everybody's all right. 970 00:37:02,389 --> 00:37:04,291 Do you have that part of you like she has? 971 00:37:04,391 --> 00:37:06,760 Like, there's this part of me that just can't let her go? 972 00:37:06,860 --> 00:37:08,495 'Cause you keep coming back to her, right? 973 00:37:08,595 --> 00:37:10,797 Ten years of keep coming back. 974 00:37:10,897 --> 00:37:12,833 So then, let's go a level deeper. 975 00:37:12,933 --> 00:37:15,202 I'm gonna have you do a little exercise, Kayla. 976 00:37:15,302 --> 00:37:17,337 I just want you to close your eyes. 977 00:37:17,437 --> 00:37:18,839 And let's just start with what I'm seeing, 978 00:37:18,939 --> 00:37:22,509 which is this posture, this I don't wanna let him in. 979 00:37:22,609 --> 00:37:24,578 And I want you to go to the place in your life-- 980 00:37:24,678 --> 00:37:26,947 where did you learn how to do that? 981 00:37:27,048 --> 00:37:29,249 Do you remember a specific memory? 982 00:37:29,349 --> 00:37:30,617 When you're a kid? 983 00:37:32,386 --> 00:37:34,154 Tell me about the memory. 984 00:37:34,254 --> 00:37:36,756 It's painful. 985 00:37:36,857 --> 00:37:38,959 How old were you? 986 00:37:39,059 --> 00:37:42,163 I don't know--I think six? 987 00:37:42,263 --> 00:37:43,397 What happened to you? 988 00:37:43,497 --> 00:37:45,665 Mm-mm. 989 00:37:47,567 --> 00:37:49,036 Was it abuse? 990 00:37:49,136 --> 00:37:50,003 Mm-hmm. 991 00:37:50,103 --> 00:37:52,472 -Sexual? -[Kayla] Mm-hmm. 992 00:37:52,572 --> 00:37:55,242 [Dr. Mike] So you learned how to protect yourself 993 00:37:55,342 --> 00:37:58,879 in an effort to protect all of the pain and the hurt 994 00:37:58,979 --> 00:38:01,415 -that I see in you. -Mm-hmm. 995 00:38:01,515 --> 00:38:03,750 Did you know that she's a survivor of sexual abuse? 996 00:38:03,850 --> 00:38:05,119 No. 997 00:38:05,219 --> 00:38:07,488 But in order to get where we need to be, 998 00:38:07,588 --> 00:38:10,357 that part of you that says, I don't wanna talk about that, 999 00:38:10,457 --> 00:38:12,426 we've gotta ask her to leave. 1000 00:38:12,526 --> 00:38:13,994 I feel like I have a hard time being, like, 1001 00:38:14,094 --> 00:38:15,195 vulnerable with men. 1002 00:38:15,295 --> 00:38:16,864 I need to feel, like, safe with you. 1003 00:38:16,964 --> 00:38:18,198 -Aha. -[Kayla] Yeah. 1004 00:38:18,298 --> 00:38:19,666 So that's where that hard shell comes from. 1005 00:38:19,766 --> 00:38:21,134 Mm-hmm. 1006 00:38:21,234 --> 00:38:23,036 [Dr. Mike] You've gotta talk about it. 1007 00:38:23,136 --> 00:38:24,604 You've never told him about that? 1008 00:38:24,705 --> 00:38:27,741 That is the person you need to tell. 1009 00:38:27,841 --> 00:38:30,244 When your partner has just disclosed for the first time 1010 00:38:30,344 --> 00:38:32,446 that she's a survivor of sexual abuse, 1011 00:38:32,546 --> 00:38:34,581 what is the thought inside of your head? 1012 00:38:34,681 --> 00:38:37,317 The first instinct was just, like, a...anger. 1013 00:38:37,417 --> 00:38:38,885 [Dr. Mike] Towards? 1014 00:38:38,985 --> 00:38:42,022 Just towards the situation of something like that happening 1015 00:38:42,122 --> 00:38:44,791 because this sadly relatable 1016 00:38:44,891 --> 00:38:50,030 because I've got family who's been sexually assaulted. 1017 00:38:50,130 --> 00:38:51,832 What was that like for you? 1018 00:38:51,932 --> 00:38:53,567 I just get really aggressive. 1019 00:38:53,667 --> 00:38:55,035 [Dr. Mike] Ah. 1020 00:38:55,136 --> 00:38:57,037 So for you, you do get angry too. 1021 00:38:57,137 --> 00:38:59,606 You get shut down. And you get angry. 1022 00:38:59,706 --> 00:39:04,178 Do you see what is at the core of this dynamic not working? 1023 00:39:04,278 --> 00:39:06,413 So instead of not talking to each other, 1024 00:39:06,513 --> 00:39:08,114 why don't you thank her for what she just did? 1025 00:39:08,215 --> 00:39:10,851 'Cause I want to acknowledge that this was important step 1026 00:39:10,951 --> 00:39:12,619 in the relationship. 1027 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,422 Look at her. Kayla, thank you for... 1028 00:39:15,522 --> 00:39:17,424 Kayla, thank you for opening up. 1029 00:39:17,524 --> 00:39:20,161 Thank you for telling me something that I did not know 1030 00:39:20,261 --> 00:39:21,829 that really hurt you. 1031 00:39:21,929 --> 00:39:25,332 And I what wanna do for that six-year-old girl in you is... 1032 00:39:25,432 --> 00:39:27,334 Give you the protection that you need. 1033 00:39:27,434 --> 00:39:29,503 Show you the love and affection that you need. 1034 00:39:29,603 --> 00:39:30,671 What do you need from him? 1035 00:39:30,771 --> 00:39:33,240 What do you want, Kayla? Be honest. 1036 00:39:33,340 --> 00:39:36,843 I think the baby thing is a big issue. 1037 00:39:36,944 --> 00:39:39,346 [Dr. Mike] Wow. 1038 00:39:39,446 --> 00:39:40,881 You're carrying his child. 1039 00:39:40,981 --> 00:39:42,249 Mm-hmm. 1040 00:39:42,349 --> 00:39:46,186 So, Ryan, how do you feel about having a baby? 1041 00:39:46,286 --> 00:39:47,922 [sighs] 1042 00:39:48,022 --> 00:39:50,391 -It must be hard-- -Yeah. 1043 00:39:50,491 --> 00:39:52,359 With 100% being all in-- 1044 00:39:52,459 --> 00:39:54,595 this is my partner for life, we're married, 1045 00:39:54,695 --> 00:39:55,662 we're a family-- 1046 00:39:55,763 --> 00:39:57,264 if that's 100%, 1047 00:39:57,364 --> 00:39:58,698 what percent are you? 1048 00:39:58,798 --> 00:40:02,203 How in are you in this relationship at this moment? 1049 00:40:02,303 --> 00:40:04,838 Honestly? Maybe, like, 60%, 70%. 1050 00:40:06,206 --> 00:40:08,441 She is carrying your child 1051 00:40:08,542 --> 00:40:12,112 and you're only 60% to 70% in. What is that like for you? 1052 00:40:12,212 --> 00:40:13,780 It's tough. 1053 00:40:14,548 --> 00:40:16,750 I feel like I'm confused. 1054 00:40:16,850 --> 00:40:19,119 I'd be very confused too. 1055 00:40:19,219 --> 00:40:21,355 Mm. 1056 00:40:21,455 --> 00:40:23,223 We all know that there are three options 1057 00:40:23,323 --> 00:40:26,394 when you are carrying a fetus, right? 1058 00:40:26,494 --> 00:40:30,697 So when you're pregnant, you can terminate, 1059 00:40:30,797 --> 00:40:34,634 you can adopt, 1060 00:40:34,735 --> 00:40:36,403 you can parent. 1061 00:40:36,503 --> 00:40:38,438 I'm sure that you both have voices in your head 1062 00:40:38,538 --> 00:40:42,409 that talk about all three of those choices, am I right? 1063 00:40:42,509 --> 00:40:44,177 I don't know, I just haven't really thought about it. 1064 00:40:44,277 --> 00:40:45,413 I've just kind of, like... 1065 00:40:45,513 --> 00:40:46,614 pushed it to the side. 1066 00:40:46,714 --> 00:40:49,883 Every single day, every minute, every hour, 1067 00:40:49,983 --> 00:40:51,618 tick tock, tick tock, tick tock. 1068 00:40:51,718 --> 00:40:53,587 I don't wanna talk about this [bleep]. 1069 00:40:53,687 --> 00:40:55,556 You've got to talk about this. 1070 00:40:55,656 --> 00:40:59,492 [music] 1071 00:41:09,202 --> 00:41:11,004 [Cheyenne] Next time on Teen Mom: Family Reunion. 1072 00:41:11,104 --> 00:41:13,573 We're in Cartagena. Come join the fun. 1073 00:41:13,673 --> 00:41:16,944 I am gonna pack my bags and I'll be over there ASAP. 1074 00:41:17,044 --> 00:41:19,680 I can't believe that I'm in Colombia right now. 1075 00:41:19,780 --> 00:41:20,915 I want another kid. 1076 00:41:21,015 --> 00:41:24,451 I'm really okay not having any more kids. 1077 00:41:26,720 --> 00:41:28,622 Ryan's been seeing somebody else. 1078 00:41:28,722 --> 00:41:29,856 Kayla-- 1079 00:41:31,358 --> 00:41:32,192 Kayla! 1080 00:42:05,926 --> 00:42:06,760 [music]