♪ MTV ♪
[Jade] Previously on Teen Mom: Family Reunion...
-My boyfriend's coming. -Where is he?
He's on a work trip.
Kayla's situation just keeps confusing me.
Where's Kayla's man?
-Give me a hug. -[Zach] Who the [bleep] is that?
That's Kayla's guy. I told you she's not with Luke.
Welcome to the family!
[Cheyenne] Ryan, he's ready to party.
Maybe slow it down and go focus on Kayla.
I'm pregnant.
Ryan and I haven't really had much conversation
about the baby at all 'cause we're not on good terms.
[Michaiah] The ice bath represents
the extreme conditions that exist
in every relationship.
At no point that it crossed my mind
that I wanted to get out.
This is the same thing for my relationship with Mackenzie.
I'm in it, and I'm gonna struggle with her
even if she's struggling.
Welcome to this hypnosis workshop.
I know that there has been a lot of hurt.
I am here to tend to the human beings who are here.
Cheyenne, what do you see here?
I just feel like this is really forced right now.
And, like, inauthentic.
♪ Here we go ♪
♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪
♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪
♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪
♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪
[music]
[Dr. Mike] So you've decided it's over?
Any sort of friendship is, like, off the table?
[Cheyenne] I wouldn't call it that.
I would just say I don't need anything.
I'm not looking for anything.
I don't need, like, an apology.
[Jade] We're doing this workshop with Dr. Mike.
It's going great.
And then Dr. Mike decides to grab Cheyenne and Mackenzie
to, like, hash out all of their past issues.
But I just don't think Dr. Mike knows
the depth and severity of all the issues
Cheyenne and Mackenzie have had in the past.
[Dr. Mike] Your words are telling me
you don't want an apology, but also, your actions,
your body is telling me that there is a part of you
that really does not like this person.
I mean...
to be honest? No, I don't.
I don't think that she understood
the power that she had behind her words,
behind going on live,
behind doing all this charade of crying
and all this stuff.
So for her, it might've been a small problem in her life.
For mine, it became a very big one.
This hypnosis session has definitely taken a turn.
I'm not apologizing here.
I don't think this is the space for her to apologize.
This is just really awkward.
I don't know when it became couples' therapy
for me and Mackenzie.
I'm realizing more and more, you know,
I'm, I'm still learning.
I don't know how else to say that.
It's just the truth.
The fact that this was my mistake
and she had to get involved,
it kind of started clicking,
that's where her frustration was with me.
But just because it clicks does not mean
I can say I get it.
I can't look at her and say I know how this feels,
but I am seeing it.
I cannot change what happened.
You are not the bad guy I made you out to be.
I am genuinely sorry for the harm I caused.
I hate you were brought into it.
Okay.
Your words are "okay" but the tone says no.
What would you need to accept that apology?
You keep using this word, "need."
I don't need anything.
I am okay.
[Mackenzie] It started off so good.
And then it just all went backwards.
I am very uncomfortable for me, for her, for everyone.
All right, cool, good work. You can go back.
Thank you.
[Cheyenne] Sitting here, doing this exercise,
being put in the middle of everyone,
and the way that it's going down,
I'm just so uncomfortable.
Walking into this exercise, I was really open.
Walking out, I don't wanna see Coach Mike again.
[sighs]
Can we just, like, not do this, though, anymore?
Like, keeps getting brought up
and she keeps getting drug into it.
It was my mistake, so I can work through that in therapy,
or you guys can tell me you're pissed off.
But she continuously keeps having to have
these conversations that hurt.
Yeah, let's move on.
-Hey. -I just need a second.
Okay.
[Cheyenne] I have no idea what just happened.
I don't think he knows the full story.
But I think he overstepped.
[Michaiah] Y'all are calm, cool as cucumbers.
Take that to your next conflict, your next argument.
The next time you feel scared, angry,
you're gonna take this feeling and use these same skills
when you're going at it with your partner.
Ryan, how does this relate to you and Kayla?
Well, we've been dealing with each other for 10 years.
[Michaiah] Oh, so it's on again/off again?
-Yeah. -What causes you to jump out?
I would say it's a mixture of if I'm talking to somebody else.
[Cory] Talking to somebody else?
Your focus should be on your pregnant girlfriend right now.
You guys already got enough stuff to figure out.
Let's keep our focus on one thing.
It's being young. Being young and dumb.
And as we getting older, we start to realize
we need to be stable.
So have you decided if this is something
that you want to stay in?
We're still figuring out because
we're trying to figure out the problems
that we're working through,
like the communication, the trusting each other.
That trust is, like, gone.
You gotta trust yourself with
the things that are coming up for you
that you are going to need to feel
happy and fulfilled in a relationship.
Yeah, I'm trying.
My mind was in so many different places.
I'm looking for answers to if we're gonna be together,
if we're gonna have this kid together.
And I just really wanna see if we can even communicate better
just being here.
[Michaiah] Okay, Zach, you're up.
What are you gonna take from this ice bath and apply?
-When I first got in-- -[Michaiah] Mm-hmm?
--I wanted to get out.
Immediately?
I compared it to our relationship.
I'm not getting out.
What I saw was such a calmness on your face
and in your body when you got in.
And you are explaining to me now that you wanted to get out.
What I'm seeing, and I'm linking it to your relationship,
is that sometimes you're not voicing
what's actually going on inside of you.
No.
So you do present as, like, I have it all together.
I know what I'm doing. Everything is okay.
I'm fine, you're fine, we're fine.
But there might be something else going on inside.
[Zach] Michaiah's right.
You know, Chey is always in control.
You know, sometimes I'd rather not speak up
to avoid the fight between me and Cheyenne.
I need to just open up and actually be vocal about
how I do feel,
because it's gonna help this tub warm up.
It's gonna be real comfortable.
Right. So after this exercise,
what I'd love to see you do is just continue to think about
those things that you need to express to her.
[Zach] Michaiah did a great job of
breaking it down within our relationship
compared to the ice bath.
I feel like, you know, now if we have an argument,
I'm not gonna get out. I'mma stay in
and I'mma just think, breathe,
and, you know, we gonna get through.
[Michaiah] All right, guys, I'm so proud of you.
You did a wonderful job
making the connections between your relationship
and this exercise.
You'll be able to apply it when you go back into the house
and go back home after this.
Thank you so much. Let's go.
Let's do that again!
It'll make things so much better!
[laughs]
[Tyler] I don't think people get how cold that was.
I thought for sure I was gonna bail.
[Michaiah] One, two, three--
[All] Ice, ice, baby!
[music]
Y'all got to do an ice bath?
They're still out there. You wanna go get in the water?
We were in there for 30 minutes.
We got hypnotized, just so you guys are aware.
[Maci] Yeah, we got hypnotized.
[laughs]
River flowing. I love Dr. Mike.
Me too, and I don't really think he had any ill intent.
No, not at all.
[Cate] I don't think Dr. Mike was wrong
for bringing the situation up.
I feel Mackenzie and Cheyenne both feel like
it's being too forced to have conversation.
So I get why they are kind of getting upset
with the whole situation.
I get what he was trying to do, but it's just, like...
it's already exhausting enough
to talk about your relationship all day.
Right.
[sighs] Man, man, man.
Mackenzie just walks right into it.
She doesn't even understand.
And I'm just, like...
The [bleep]?
Chey is pissed.
You know, I think Dr. Mike,
he should've steered away from that situation
with her and Mackenzie.
I just don't think they get how uncomfortable it is
to sit around with a bunch of white people
and I'm the only Black person there,
and then it's like...
People just don't understand. It's like, why do this?
Like, what the--why?
Yeah.
I'm trying to explain to Zach what just happened
and what I just went through.
I dealt with the Mackenzie issue two years ago.
We're here now, and I'm totally okay with
having a conversation.
But that forum was just not it.
Nobody knows what it's like to be me
and to be put on the spot for it.
I was really uncomfortable.
You want to know what the ice bath was about?
Yeah, let's hear it.
It was about getting in...
versus being in a relationship in comparison
and wanting to get out of that relationship
because it's cold, uncomfortable,
and this and that.
And I went numb because I told myself,
I ain't getting out of this [bleep].
I'm committed.
Would that mean you got something out of it?
I did. I really did.
[Mackenzie] I want to take a three-minute mental breather.
It's like I'm hurting people just by being here.
I have never wanted harm. I just want to love.
And...
I've caused so much hurt.
[Khesanio] Coming from Jamaica,
we never have situations like this.
I've never experienced anything like that.
Mackenzie and Cheyenne, they're good people.
So I, I, I do think it's time for the both of them
to just, like, move on.
♪ Fire in my eyes Feel it in my bones ♪
♪ No one's gonna stop me now ♪
-It's starting to hit me. -What?
[Tyler] I don't know.
-I wanna see my kids. -Yeah.
♪ This woman's mine This woman's mine ♪
♪ This woman's mine ♪
This is gonna be a long eight days.
Can I ask a personal question?
Yes.
Your pregnancy.
I'm confused.
[bleep]'s stressful.
At the end of the day, we have our own feelings.
And until certain things is resolved--
-Coach Mike. -Hi!
Can I just start off by saying--
-Can I start? -[Dr. Mike] Of course you can.
After the hypnosis session,
I did not expect to see Dr. Mike again.
I just think he crossed so many boundaries with me.
-[Zach] Coach Mike. - [Cheyenne] Hi!
Can I just start off by saying--
-Oh, can I start? -Of course you can.
When I get upset, I shut down.
And I literally need to, like, breathe.
Which is why I had to just walk away.
After the hypnosis session,
I was not excited to see Dr. Mike again.
I just think he crossed so many boundaries with me.
But everyone has a chance to apologize.
I do think that you were walking in territory
-that you just didn't know. -[Dr. Mike] I did not--
You were just like, human to human,
which I can see and I understand the exercise.
I only have, like, the purest of intentions
for everybody here.
And, like, my heart broke when I was walking away.
I was like, oh no.
From the bottom of my heart, I'm so sorry.
Um, thank you for walking away from me
and thank you for taking your space.
It was not a setup.
It was like, hey, let's just create a space.
If there's anything that you wanna say...
I knew this much.
[Cheyenne] Which I could tell.
-Oh, that--oh! -Yeah.
I accept Dr. Mike's apology.
I think that he didn't know what the [bleep]
he was stepping into.
I feel like the three of us needed to clear the air
in order to, like, continue on this.
[Ryan] I feel like Dr. Mike,
it wasn't his place to bring up the situation.
If Chey wanted to allow Mackenzie
to show that she's growing,
it's really Mackenzie's job to prove that.
It shouldn't be pressured onto anybody.
This is actually more meaningful than anything,
any exercise or, you know, like, whatever.
I see you, I hear you.
Dr. Mike came to apologize.
I don't think that he meant it in a malicious way.
I honestly just don't think he thought about
what he was doing.
I don't want this tension to take over the whole house.
I don't really know where Mackenzie and I stand.
But I do wanna diffuse the situation
and just get past it.
I'm gonna go to bed with my heart happy,
so thank you. Thank you, thank you.
-Absolutely. -Yeah.
-Have a good night! -Thanks for coming.
[music]
The vibe of the house is just so down.
So we want to do something to fix it.
We're gonna go to a rooftop. We're gonna drink.
Taylor, Maci, I know you leave tomorrow.
Can't get out of this, so go get dressed.
[Jade] It's your last hoorah.
[Taylor] The last hurrah.
I've had a [bleep] day!
You're my friend. You have to come.
[laughs]
[Maci] We are leaving tomorrow.
We're heading out for our last night in Colombia.
This is gonna be awesome.
Already feeling the tiredness for the flight tomorrow.
[Cate] Did your mom ever teach you,
like, hairstyles growing up or no?
[Cate] Oh, I didn't know that.
Like, I literally learned how to do
a French braid on my daughter, like, two years ago.
I, like, legitimately bought a mannequin head
just so I could teach myself.
[laughs]
What, you think so? [laughs]
[Maci] I love it!
I love it!
I am totally obsessed with my hair.
I'm feeling like-- maybe like Princess Leia
or, better yet, like Miley Cyrus.
Thank you.
[music]
Cheers.
[Tyler] The house is getting ready.
We're about to go to some swanky rooftop bar.
[indistinct]
Let's put all the drama behind us
and let's just have a good time.
[music]
[cheering]
Wow!
[music]
Rooftop is so pretty. You can see the city.
There's a DJ.
And I think we're gonna have fun.
Zach and I have an agreement tonight.
He's supposed to stay sober so he can watch me
and my mouth.
[hums]
It just feels good to be out.
Taylor and Maci's last night.
We wanna send them off with a bang.
This is for Taylor and Maci! Thank you for coming.
We're gonna miss you. Cheers to you guys.
Let's enjoy the night.
[cheers and applause]
Give me some Family Reunion number three!
[cheering]
I love you guys! Take care of each other.
Hey!
I feel like Mackenzie has done a good job
at just avoiding me since doing hypnosis.
But we're living together.
This whole situation is just emotionally exhausting
and I'm ready to be done with it and to just go forward.
We can't avoid each other forever.
Khes, Mackenzie,
can, we, uh, huddle up over here real quick
and just have a quick conversation?
[Mackenzie] Cheyenne and Zach pulled on Khesanio and I
to the side to talk.
And my heart is open to any conversation
that needs to be had.
[Cheyenne] I think in this moment,
everybody is either looking at Mackenzie
or looking at me,
and they wanna see what's gonna happen next.
I wanna make sure my delivery is good.
I'm not good with this at all.
[music]
Khes, Mackenzie,
can we, uh, huddle up over here real quick
and just have a quick conversation?
[Cheyenne] I think in this moment,
everybody is either looking at Mackenzie
or looking at me,
and they wanna see what's gonna happen next.
I think coming into this, I was closed off.
I did not care to get to know you.
And honestly, I didn't care to get to know you either.
And I think after today, it would be wrong of me
to be hypocritical and say, oh, I give people grace
and I give myself grace
and I learn from this and I learn from that,
but I don't allow you to the space
to give yourself grace or for you to learn.
She is using the word "grace,"
and that word means a lot to me.
My mom was full of grace.
I feel like you can't be vulnerable
with the other girls because I'm around,
and I feel like at the same time,
you're holding yourself back,
which is allowing them not to get to know the real you.
Before things went sideways with the hypnosis session.
I did learn that I do need to let go.
I have an issue with control.
I like to control everything in my life.
I need to get past that.
I need to, like, learn how to release control,
and that's within everything-- like, within my person life
or the way I handle, like, my marriage.
I think allowing myself to let go,
forgive Mackenzie, and just move past
is gonna help me in the long run.
I don't wanna keep carrying this tension with me.
I'm ready to just free myself of it.
So I'm gonna step out of my comfort zone
and ask that you and I can have a clean slate
and get to know each other.
[Zach] I'm real proud of Chey for stepping up
and making that move with Mackenzie.
It takes a lot for her to get out of her comfort zone,
especially within a situation like that,
but she did it.
At the end of the day,
we're all more alike than we realize.
But we have to break down those walls.
Yes.
I feel like a million pounds are lifted off of my shoulder.
-New beginnings. -New beginnings.
-Growth. -Yeah.
I appreciate--
No, I am happy that you were open to the conversation
and I hope that we can just move forward from this.
Thank you.
Mackenzie and I are talking.
And I think we're finally at a place
where we can move on and just forgive each other
and not talk about this again.
And I really do wanna get to know you.
For me, it felt good because
obviously, after everything,
even if they don't become good friends,
it was just a way to, you know,
just, like, get past everything.
I'm happy that Mackenzie and Cheyenne
can put things in the past.
Having the whole entire house get along and have fun--
this was the whole reason me and Cheyenne
wanted to throw this family reunion.
And this night is showing us
that we have definitely turned the vibe around.
[cheering]
[singing in Spanish]
[Cory] Everyone's having a good time.
We're in Colombia. I'm dancing.
Five, four--come on. Three.
[cheering]
Mackenzie ass is full-on Electric Slide--
I don't know what the hell she used to do back in the day,
but that girl was dancing her ass off.
We've got the pony.
That rooftop bar was kind of the first moment
that I felt like I could be Mackenzie.
[cheering]
[singing in Spanish]
Honestly, I thought about staying home.
I know, right?
When they say we're going to a party,
I'm gonna say [bleep] no!
I thought the same [bleep].
At this point, I'm just kind of, like, partied out.
And exhausted.
-We're so lame. -I don't care.
My god, the young guy is here and he's ruining us!
I don't know why Ryan's drinking so much.
I don't know if he's trying to avoid something.
I don't know if it's 'cause he just got here
and he's trying to show the guys he can hang.
He's--you know, I'm the big dog.
You wanna go shot for shot?
No. Hell no.
'Cause my girl's gonna hate me for that.
She's gonna be like, don't do it.
If I was in your shoes, I'd really [bleep] annoyed.
-With him? -Yeah.
I think that Ryan's avoiding Kayla
because they have big decisions to make.
He's not sure if he wants to have a baby with Kayla or not.
But he needs to just deal with his issues.
A little awkward for me 'cause I'm just like--
-Where's my man. -Yeah. It's a little weird.
[indistinct] like that too. Like, it's fine.
But I feel like if I was pregnant,
I'd be pissed the [bleep] off.
Like, you don't need to be doing all that.
Like, have fun, but--
And I'm like, I don't wanna create more conflict
-when we already have conflict. -Yeah, I know.
Thanks for grabbing me a glass.
Yeah, grab a glass.
[music]
I hate to say that, but I think he is.
Come on.
[indistinct]
No, I'm gonna sit on your lap.
And he's just like-- ugh, acting like
he was annoyed about--
[Taylor] He told Cory last night
that he didn't want to be, like, on Instagram with her.
Y'all are IG official?
Nah, I don't really do the social media.
-I know she's on there. -[Ryan] Yeah, she on there.
What's gonna happen if she's like, hey babe,
like, I wanna post you or make this thing public?
No, I'm okay.
Definitely a red flag when someone
doesn't wanna post on someone's social media
or doesn't wanna do pictures together,
'cause you know a [bleep]boy loves to say, like,
I don't even use social media like that.
I keep my life private.
Enough is enough.
-He's definitely a hoe. -Yeah.
Oh yeah, he's definitely a hoe.
How many shots did you have?
I don't know. I'm not counting.
I'm just enjoying my--
I heard you were at, like, 10.
As long as I'm controllable, I'm fine.
He should be getting her water, making sure she's comfortable.
Like, spending time with her, not [bleep] off.
He's been with Cory and Zach the whole time.
You know, me, Cody, Zach--
-Cody? -Cory.
-Yeah. [giggles] -Cory.
You know? Hey, had too many drinks.
You're never really around me. You're always with the guys.
You're always doing your own thing.
Yeah, and we're enjoying our time.
Mm-hmm.
When Ryan drinks, he gets a little bit more bold
and he really doesn't know how to watch his mouth.
So I'm just hoping it doesn't cause an argument with us
and that he can just hold it together.
She's went through two pregnancies
and had a horrible [bleep] time.
Like, the least you could do is make her feel supported.
Cory needs to talk to Ryan because
I feel like all he's focused on is drinking
and hanging out with the boys.
And he has a girl that is pregnant right now
with his child,
and he needs to take care of his business.
[music]
♪ Girl, I wanna do it Dontcha wanna do it ♪
♪ You know you wanna do it ♪
♪ Quit playing, girl, let's ♪
[music]
♪ Do it ♪
Get his ass.
You grab his ass and tell his ass to calm down.
I promised Taylor I would talk to Ryan.
I know that I have my issues in my relationship,
but I can see the path that Ryan and Kayla are going down,
and I want what's best for that baby.
He has to have Kayla's back.
Kayla already feels alone, I'm sure.
So I wanna make sure
she feels as secure as she can.
And that's Ryan's job.
I can only imagine what it's like
with you being pregnant right now.
You got that stress going on.
You're sitting there like, dog, I got a baby on the way,
mother[bleep] don't even know,
give me a shot, give me a shot. I've been there.
[Ryan] When Cory's giving me advice,
it's coming from more of a genuine standpoint
because he's older, he's been through it,
and he's telling me, get your [bleep] together.
Y'all are making probably damn near the biggest decision
beside marriage in here, you know?
Like, bringing a child into this life is serious.
This is really some [bleep]
where y'all gotta put time apart
if it's these two weeks, whatever it may be.
You gotta think about it. Think about that [bleep] deep.
And the best thing you can be is true to yourself.
I hope that y'all can come to an agreement.
You guys can figure that [bleep] out, bro,
you guys will be so happy.
I feel like we avoided talking about the pregnancy
because it's the biggest decision of our lives.
I mean, who wanna talk about pregnancy at a damn bar?
I mean, it'll work out for whatever's best.
To me, no answer is the worst answer.
I'd rather you tell it to me straight
and be like, I don't wanna be with you, I don't want a baby.
I feel I would take that better than avoidance.
Aye!
Give me my goddamn shot.
Young buck.
Go ahead, take that shot, young buck, go ahead.
[music]
After today [indistinct] way too stressful for myself,
Zach and I have come to this agreement
that I could be the partier tonight
and he would stay semi-sober. It's not working.
-Hi! -What's wrong?
We had an agreement. Two drinks, right?
Oh my goodness.
We had an agreement!
What's y'all agreement?
[Cheyenne] So our agreement is that he can do, like, two shots.
[Ryan] Come on, alcohol watch tonight.
I'm gonna drink. When I'm ready, I'll drink.
Chey is going off like I'm just some type of kid.
If Ryan offers three shots, I don't gotta take all three.
I'm a grown-ass man.
So Chey, just sit back. I got this.
I can have a few drinks and I can be perfectly fine.
But Chey should've talked to me on the side, in private,
and not called me out in front of everybody.
[retches]
[Zach] Oh, hell no.
Babe, babe, babe.
You're gonna sit with-- Oh, you're gonna sit there?
I'mma take this chair.
Oh, wait, wait, take a picture of me
before you talk to me.
No, I'm gonna talk to you.
And then take a picture of me?
[Zach] You're demanding too much right now.
You're this, that, and that's why we're here right now.
-Me? -Yes.
What did I do?
You need to let me be a man and take charge.
For one, we've never, ever--
You've never really had, like, an alcohol limit,
so that was kind of new.
And new to everybody. It was kind of embarrassing.
Everybody's looking me and talking about,
oh, he can take this many, he can take this many shots.
-I'm a grown-ass man. -But we talked about it.
I know we talked about it,
but you made it a thing right there.
Okay.
I just get this real stale-ass just...okay.
Just okay?
What the [bleep] you mean okay?
No, you need to speak, verbally.
Give me some type of, you know, talk back.
-It's like that-- -[Cheyenne] [indistinct]
Like, the way you directed me and [bleep] right now,
it's almost like I'm your little puppet.
I never look at you like that.
Let's not do this right now. I ain't doing this.
-Why? -I don't wanna do it right now.
You're a little tipsy. I don't wanna--
I genuinely do not think that you're my puppet.
I don't think that I speak to you like that.
How are you trying to demand me now with grab this,
okay, grab that, do--do this? Like, just relax!
I'm trying to take you over here to tell you something,
but you over here, okay, take a picture of me before--
Let me talk to you.
I understand that you want me to release control.
And we talked about it today in our session.
Zach decides to tell me that I'm too controlling.
I really want to just have a carefree night.
I don't wanna have to think about anything.
[sighs]
I have to be receptive to it.
You didn't be receptive. You just said, okay!
You do not hear me saying sorry, yes or no?
[Zach] You just said okay to me
like you're talking to Mackenzie.
-I am genuinely sorry. -Okay.
Okay!
[Cheyenne] Why are we bringing her up?
'Cause it was so disrespectful.
Do you not just hear me apologizing to you?
I'm confused.
You're not listening.
[Cheyenne] Which is what I said.
I said I wanna drink tonight, so let me drink,
so you stay sober, so you don't drink.
And then you get here and drink,
so make that make sense.
I'm the bad guy. All right.
We gonna never do this.
We go out, we both drink.
So all of this is new to me.
You think I can't handle my own [bleep]?
You're not gonna answer my question?
You're fine.
You're not gonna answer my question?
I don't have anything else to say.
Disrespectful ass. [bleep]'s clearly crazy.
[Cheyenne] I'm being disrespectful?
-All right, all right. -Walk away.
You think I can't handle my own [bleep]?
You're not gonna answer my question?
I don't have anything else to say.
Disrespectful ass. [bleep]'s clearly crazy.
I'm being disrespectful?
Walk away.
I thought you sat in that ice bath today.
What happened?
What are you gonna take from this ice bath and apply?
I compared it to our relationship.
I'm not getting out.
Take that to your next argument.
[chuckles] You got me.
-You're sitting back down. -[Zach] She got me.
-She [bleep] got me. -Sit in it!
[groans] She got me, right!
I just sat here and tried to apologize
and you're not even open enough to hearing the apology.
Because I'm over the way you're doing your da-da-da
like I'm somebody else. I'm your husband.
You don't do that to your husband, Chey.
Where did my apology go wrong?
I wasn't ready for that apology yet
'cause I still have something to say.
So then just admit that.
I didn't know how to say that yet.
So that's your fault, not my fault.
That's my fault. How do we move forward?
Say what else you have to say so then I can apologize.
I don't have nothing else to say.
-How do we move forward? -Okay, I apologize again!
Now, do you wanna go back over there
or do you wanna sit over here?
-What do you wanna do? -I need a minute.
-Okay, by yourself? -Yeah.
I didn't sit in an ice bath.
If they brought Chey out to that ice bath,
I tell you, I promise to God,
I'd give her an honest...
Three, four, five...
[bleep] this, I'm out! That's it. Five seconds.
[sighs]
[Zach] I could tell there's some awkwardness
between Chey and Zach,
so I'm gonna stay out of it and...
Chey? Are you okay?
[Cheyenne] Yeah, I'm good.
What's going on?
[Cheyenne] I'm fine.
What's happening?
Chey is crying in the bathroom and I'm like,
what is going on here?
Because the whole night is starting to just unravel.
[Cheyenne] We get here, and it's just like,
all the whole [bleep] talk went out the window.
And then it's like you get mad
that I said it in front of other people.
I don't give a [bleep] about other people.
Like, I wanna drink and be free and feel free,
and I can't do that without knowing
-that you're watching my back. -Right.
[Cheyenne] And that's [bleep] irritating.
He's like, you're talking about me releasing control.
And he's like, then you're demeaning me.
I'm not a man 'cause I can't make my own decisions.
I'm like--
[indistinct] The same exact thing.
[Cheyenne] You're not hearing me!
I just feel like, you cater towards a lot of her needs.
I don't know if she does the same to you.
I don't know if it's like that.
No, she'll cater-- I'm not even gonna knock that.
She caters to my needs.
I just think it lacks in some areas, that's all.
Like, we would like to have a few drinks and unwind,
and it's like--
I can't do that knowing all of you guys
are the most [bleep] up in the room.
No, I, I agree.
It's the last thing I [bleep] want right now.
Me and Chey, we hardly ever even argue.
But if we do, we're definitely in the house.
We argue away from the kids.
So doing this in public, this is not us at all.
[indistinct chatter]
Appreciate you, brah.
In my eyes, this fight was stupid.
It meant nothing to both of us.
We're here to better ourselves.
I'm coming to apologize.
So I wanna make things right.
I think working on everything,
it just feels like everything just shattered out of nowhere.
I don't know.
This is the last [bleep] thing I'm trying to do out here
is do this.
I'm not trying to go into this [bleep]
with negative energy at all.
No, and I don't want you to think
that I don't trust you or the way that you drink.
Any time we fight, it never lasts long.
I can't stay mad at him. He can't stay mad at me.
I will say that I am happy that you did not walk away
and you talked to me, I'm just gonna say.
Chey and I learned today, you know,
we can't run from our problems. We need to face it head on.
I think they need to put us both in an ice bath.
-Together? -Yeah.
-Naked? -Ooh, yeah.
The best marriage advice we have is to argue naked.
Come here.
No, no, no.
We're naked a lot.
You don't get to just make up with me that easy.
I'm still mad!
I think I'm trying to have a baby.
No, you're not!
♪ Before you say goodbye ♪
♪ Before they turn off the lights ♪
[music]
Right there, right there, right there.
I'm so glad I can have fun with you and be myself.
I love that about you.
Let's toast to-- god, Maci, what is it?
-Fourteen years? -No, I'll be honest.
We've known each other longer than we haven't.
Maci is one of my closest friends.
I feel sad that they have to leave.
Like, we do not not have a good time together.
No, we always do.
Even in the beginning.
I'm glad I came.
And I feel like as long as we continue to take these tools
we've learned home with us, the possibilities are limitless.
-[Maci] This is crazy. -[Taylor] Yeah.
I think we already have a strong relationship.
We've been together a long time.
But I felt like after this trip,
we learned some things that made us even stronger.
I feel, um, blessed to just be able to sit here
and just appreciate every bit of him,
even if I wanna rip his head off sometimes.
When we first got here, I felt like
we didn't have time for each other.
And now I'm leaving with a new understanding of my husband
and our relationship. We're gonna make the time.
I feel like I gained confidence in knowing that, like,
when we reconnect...
[both moaning]
We're gonna do moaning exercises!
...I still like you and you still like me.
-I love you. -I love you too.
♪ Hey ♪
[music]
♪ Strut it, done it, make it hot ♪
♪ Work it, make that body rock ♪
[music]
[Cate] The general mood in the house
after last night with Kayla and Ryan
is, like, awkward.
I don't really know what's going on.
As far as, like, relationship stuff,
something is not right.
-Here he is! -How's it going?
[Tyler] Dr. Mike, good morning!
How are ya? Good morning.
I'm coming for you!
-Oh, never mind. -Yeah!
-Is Ryan around? -Yeah, he's outside.
[Dr. Mike] All right, I'll grab him
and then you're gonna follow me upstairs.
[Kayla] Dr. Mike comes in.
This is our first therapy session.
I'm a little excited 'cause I think
we clearly need the help, but I'm also nervous.
Ryan! Follow me.
All right, Kayla, you ready?
Sure.
[Cheyenne] Good luck!
Let out a big moan if you need to be saved!
[laughs]
[Zach] Gotta hit 'em with the Dr. Mike--
[long, deep moan]
Thank you.
There's something wrong with all of us.
Those two definitely have a lot to work out.
Probably the most out of everyone here.
[Ryan] I am nowhere near ready for a session.
My nerves started jumping.
Come on in.
[Ryan] There's just a lot of stuff
that's, like, killing us both mentally
because we don't know what we're gonna do.
It's just scary.
So I'm really here to help you, to help your relationship,
and really dig deep.
And what I noticed right away with the two of you
just being away from each other downstairs
is I'm sensing a lot of tension between the two of you.
I don't think that it's tension.
You know, I read body language for a living.
This is what I do.
Do you agree with her that everything's fine?
I mean, no, everything's not fine.
Not at all.
My biggest problems is the trust
and then everything that's put off,
and then we come back and try to be happy
rather than working through it.
I have a hard time talking about my feelings
and communicating things to you.
You both have these wounds.
You've got a decade of hurts and resentments.
But also, a decade of love.
What made you fall in love with this man?
What made me fall in love with you
is I feel like you always backed what you said
with, like, actions.
I feel like you showed me you loved me.
You would drive a hour to come get me,
spend the weekends together.
I just feel tied to him in a way,
like, I haven't felt with somebody else.
Kayla, I'm in love with you because?
Kayla, I'm in love with you because,
one, you've always been a great mother.
You just do certain things to make sure everybody's all right.
Do you have that part of you like she has?
Like, there's this part of me that just can't let her go?
'Cause you keep coming back to her, right?
Ten years of keep coming back.
So then, let's go a level deeper.
I'm gonna have you do a little exercise, Kayla.
I just want you to close your eyes.
And let's just start with what I'm seeing,
which is this posture, this I don't wanna let him in.
And I want you to go to the place in your life--
where did you learn how to do that?
Do you remember a specific memory?
When you're a kid?
Tell me about the memory.
It's painful.
How old were you?
I don't know--I think six?
What happened to you?
Mm-mm.
Was it abuse?
Mm-hmm.
-Sexual? -[Kayla] Mm-hmm.
[Dr. Mike] So you learned how to protect yourself
in an effort to protect all of the pain and the hurt
-that I see in you. -Mm-hmm.
Did you know that she's a survivor of sexual abuse?
No.
But in order to get where we need to be,
that part of you that says, I don't wanna talk about that,
we've gotta ask her to leave.
I feel like I have a hard time being, like,
vulnerable with men.
I need to feel, like, safe with you.
-Aha. -[Kayla] Yeah.
So that's where that hard shell comes from.
Mm-hmm.
[Dr. Mike] You've gotta talk about it.
You've never told him about that?
That is the person you need to tell.
When your partner has just disclosed for the first time
that she's a survivor of sexual abuse,
what is the thought inside of your head?
The first instinct was just, like, a...anger.
[Dr. Mike] Towards?
Just towards the situation of something like that happening
because this sadly relatable
because I've got family who's been sexually assaulted.
What was that like for you?
I just get really aggressive.
[Dr. Mike] Ah.
So for you, you do get angry too.
You get shut down. And you get angry.
Do you see what is at the core of this dynamic not working?
So instead of not talking to each other,
why don't you thank her for what she just did?
'Cause I want to acknowledge that this was important step
in the relationship.
Look at her. Kayla, thank you for...
Kayla, thank you for opening up.
Thank you for telling me something that I did not know
that really hurt you.
And I what wanna do for that six-year-old girl in you is...
Give you the protection that you need.
Show you the love and affection that you need.
What do you need from him?
What do you want, Kayla? Be honest.
I think the baby thing is a big issue.
[Dr. Mike] Wow.
You're carrying his child.
Mm-hmm.
So, Ryan, how do you feel about having a baby?
[sighs]
-It must be hard-- -Yeah.
With 100% being all in--
this is my partner for life, we're married,
we're a family--
if that's 100%,
what percent are you?
How in are you in this relationship at this moment?
Honestly? Maybe, like, 60%, 70%.
She is carrying your child
and you're only 60% to 70% in. What is that like for you?
It's tough.
I feel like I'm confused.
I'd be very confused too.
Mm.
We all know that there are three options
when you are carrying a fetus, right?
So when you're pregnant, you can terminate,
you can adopt,
you can parent.
I'm sure that you both have voices in your head
that talk about all three of those choices, am I right?
I don't know, I just haven't really thought about it.
I've just kind of, like...
pushed it to the side.
Every single day, every minute, every hour,
tick tock, tick tock, tick tock.
I don't wanna talk about this [bleep].
You've got to talk about this.
[music]
[Cheyenne] Next time on Teen Mom: Family Reunion.
We're in Cartagena. Come join the fun.
I am gonna pack my bags and I'll be over there ASAP.
I can't believe that I'm in Colombia right now.
I want another kid.
I'm really okay not having any more kids.
Ryan's been seeing somebody else.
Kayla--
Kayla!
[music]