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[lively music]
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Hey.
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[Woman] Previously on
Teen Mom: Family Reunion...
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-Yeah, Mackenzie!
-Mackenzie!
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I am happily single,
but actively looking
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and having the best time
of my life.
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[Woman] Go, Bri!
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[Taylor] Jade looks so cute
with her veil and her sash.
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Maybe someday it'll be me.
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We've been together
six [bleep] years.
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[Jade] Do you feel like you're
wasting your time or what?
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Kind of.
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[Cheyenne] Do you see yourself
getting married?
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Eventually, yeah.
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That's why I've been with you
that long.
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I feel like that's not something
you want in your life
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and I feel like
I'm fighting that battle.
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[theme music]
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♪ Here we go ♪
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♪ I show up, you show up,
we show up ♪
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♪ Everybody gonna have
a good time ♪
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♪ I show up, you show up,
we show up ♪
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♪ Everybody gonna have
a good time ♪
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[Briana] She wants
to be married,
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she wants the ring,
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she wants to say,
"This is my husband."
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[Cory] When the time is right,
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the time is gonna be right.
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And I'm not gonna let the world
dictate when I feel like
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I wanna get married to my wife.
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I feel like I have to defend him
all the time.
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[Cheyenne] Tay, don't.
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Hey, no, no, no,
don't leave, don't leave.
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Go get her. Go.
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I'm trying to have a good night,
get lit.
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I'm used to this at this point.
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We've had a lot of these
same conversations already.
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So I'm just mad that we had
such a great night
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and now it has to end like this.
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Babe.
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[knocking on door]
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[door opening]
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What's up?
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[Taylor] I don't want
to talk right now.
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[Cory] Why are you irritated?
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She's trying
to speak her piece...
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It's just uncomfortable for us
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because it's like we have to...
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Because Zach and I co-parent
with Cory and Taylor,
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we don't wanna put our opinions
in their relationship.
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We can speak our piece,
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but we also need to shut the
[bleep] up.
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Ooh! Cory and Taylor.
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It is such a touchy subject
when it comes to proposing.
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[Cory] Where did this go left?
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[Cory] Babe, I am
committed to you.
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[Taylor] Bull[bleep].
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Maybe it's the alcohol talking,
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but I'm dropping some
truth bombs on Cory right now.
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And it feels great.
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[Cory] It's not.
I don't have five years.
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[Taylor] I don't have
five years, I don't!
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Zach and I are sitting
right outside
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Cory and Taylor's room.
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We can hear everything,
and it is not pretty.
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Cory's never spoke on
our relationship,
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how he feels
about our relationship.
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He's always left it alone,
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and I feel like we just put
our [bleep] foot in our mouth,
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speaking on theirs.
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That is awkward.
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They're right across
the [bleep] hall.
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[Taylor]
Oh, [bleep] a
promise ring.
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What am I, 16?
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If he gives me a promise ring,
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I promise to throw it
in the garbage.
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[Cory] What can I give you
to show you...
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There is nothing more
that needs to be said
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when it comes
to the marriage thing.
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I'm gonna do it when I feel like
I'm ready to do it.
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And it sucks
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because nobody else
can control that.
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I think that Taylor
is finally...
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-Voicing herself.
-[Cheyenne] Voicing herself.
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She sees everybody else
making [bleep] work.
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As she [bleep] should.
Find your [bleep] voice.
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[Cory] Babe, I'm in love
with you.
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You're the one that hasn't
expressed that to me.
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[Taylor] I feel like
I always do and...
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[Cory] You don't!
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[Taylor] Well, I don't
[bleep] care anymore.
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♪ Will you give it to me? ♪
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♪ I want it ♪
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[Tyler] I really like today's
Word of the Day.
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Me gusta. Get it?
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'Cause "I like it."
That's what it means.
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What do you want?
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I don't... I just want
some coffee.
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Me gusta my lovely wife,
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who's not really
a morning person.
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[Cate] Morning.
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[Cate] Morning.
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[Sean] Sleep all right?
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-[Cate] How was last night?
-[Sean] Fun.
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-Oh, was it?
-[Sean] Oh, yeah.
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[Sean] It was fun as [bleep].
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I knew everyone was gonna be
happy if they saw some titties.
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Is that what it was? Wasn't it?
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No, it was like a music video.
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It was like a music video?
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Wait, I thought
it was performers.
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-Like titty...
-Burlesque.
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Yeah, but they weren't
exposing anything.
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Yeah, burlesque, they don't
get fully naked.
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Yeah.
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[Tyler] They saw no titties.
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Hell, no, I did not freaking
miss out on anything.
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I love that bed.
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I love my night time.
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[Sean] Two guys came out.
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They called Mackenzie
up on stage at first.
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Oh.
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[Sean] And she [bleep] ran
up there,
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and then they all
did a performance.
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That's my baby!
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No, it was awesome.
I had a blast.
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That was probably
the funnest night
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of Cartagena so far.
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[Tyler] Good, I'm glad
I missed it.
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Oh, my God. [indistinct]
[bleep] Cory and Taylor.
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What happened?
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[Kiaya] What happened was
we were all down here
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where we were
all just drunk talking.
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I personally felt like that was
a conversation
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that Cory and Taylor
should've had
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in the private of them.
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Because they talking
about marriage
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and everybody throwing in
their opinions.
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That's a lot of pressure
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on a man and on a female.
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On the female because it's like,
"Okay, what's taking so long?"
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On the man perspective, it's
like, "Okay, don't rush me."
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I'm Team Cory and Team Taylor.
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I want Cory and Taylor
to both do
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whatever they individually feel
like is the best step for them.
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The way she said what she said
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sounded like she needed to get
that off her chest.
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What did she say?
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She feels like it's time
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'cause it's been six years.
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We've been together
six [bleep] years.
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I just feel like it's taking
too long for me.
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And at this point, I'm like,
"All right, [bleep] it."
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Okay, but I understand that.
I understand.
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But would you want someone
to do it because they felt...
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-No. No.
-Do you know what I'm saying?
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I don't want you obligated.
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I don't want you obligated
to marry my ass.
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No, no, but she feels that way.
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Six years
is a long [bleep] time.
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[Briana] She says, "What else
do I have to do?
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I'm checking all these boxes."
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There's nothing she can
or shouldn't do it.
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It's Cory. If Cory's not ready,
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he's not ready.
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I empathize with Cory a lot
with this whole thing
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because I was in a very similar
situation with Cate
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and I postponed our wedding
'cause I wasn't ready.
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You don't think
you wanna be with me
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for the rest of your life?
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I don't know.
I have a lot of stuff...
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[Cate] If you don't wanna be
with me
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for the rest of your life, then
you need to figure that out.
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We waited and it turned out
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to be the best decision
for both of us
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because we're together
still to this day,
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17 years later.
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So kudos to Cory
for following his gut
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and listening to himself.
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Marriage isn't a gift
you give somebody.
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for being loyal
for so many years.
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That's not how it works.
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It's a lot of pressure
for a piece of paper,
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-in my opinion.
-Yeah.
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Baywatch coming through.
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You look like
a lifeguard.
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Oh, a lifeguard, dang!
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Slow-motion, Tay.
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Tay, you gotta go hold
the red thing
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that's out there on the beach
and take a pic.
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[Michaiah] People!
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[Man] Michaiah's in the house.
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What's going on?
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[Cory] I need some help
right now,
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so I called Michaiah.
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I need a session.
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So I can get to the bottom
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of why I can't make
that commitment with Taylor.
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Cory, I'm here for you.
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Wish me luck, man, wish me luck.
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Glad you're hyped up.
We got some work to do.
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[Cory] I'm just gonna
grab a shirt
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and I'll be right out.
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Hopefully, when she
sits down with him,
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she'll talk some sense into him.
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All right, thank you.
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This is
the most important session
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that I've had here yet.
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I just wanna be open
and honest with her
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so then Michaiah has everything
that she needs
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to help me out
along this journey.
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How are you doing?
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Doing good.
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Last night we had some fun.
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We all got to go out.
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But at the end of the night,
things took a turn.
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What did that look like?
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[Cory] It's just me
back on the hot seat.
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Are we gonna get married
or are we not gonna get married?
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I feel bad 'cause it's something
I want.
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I already know
where I wanna do it,
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how I wanna do it.
It's all in my mind.
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I don't know
if she believes that
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when I tell her that.
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But the fear seems to be
one of the barriers
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that's keeping you
from getting there.
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I wanna know what the fear's
attached to, specifically.
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[Cory] It's scary
'cause it's like
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I'm with that person
for the rest of my life.
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I've never been around
a successful marriage.
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Just watching my mom
go through her struggles
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with my stepdad.
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And then my dad, he has
five baby mommas, right?
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I come from some [bleep].
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Is it still with you?
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Is it something
you're still holding?
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A big reason why I'm the dad
that I am
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is 'cause my dad was locked up.
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So I didn't have
a father figure growing up.
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So... [exhaling stressfully]
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And I feel like
there's definitely,
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I hold some sort of pain.
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Obviously, that's why
I'm crying.
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You haven't seen
a successful marriage.
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Right.
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But that same vision
that you were able
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to create for yourself
to step into
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a successful role as Dad
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is the same vision
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that you can use once you
refocus some attention there.
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So this is where the rubber
meets the road.
252
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You have your own vision
of when you wanna do it,
253
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how you wanna do it,
254
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when you feel
that you'll be ready,
255
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but if I were Taylor,
256
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but I would probably be
really confused.
257
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[Cory] Mm-hmm.
258
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But I think the biggest thing is
259
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I'm not being loved the way
that I wanna be loved.
260
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If you're not loved the way
you want to be loved,
261
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how can we get it there?
262
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[Cory] The quality time,
263
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I think we need
to find a babysitter
264
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to watch the girls
265
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so we can have that fun.
266
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'Cause I...
Okay, there it is.
267
00:11:01,927 --> 00:11:03,062
There it is. Okay.
268
00:11:03,062 --> 00:11:04,230
One of my love language is fun.
269
00:11:04,230 --> 00:11:06,098
So you want
that childhood wonder,
270
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-that adventure together.
-[Cory] Yes! Yes!
271
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I wanna feel love
and puppy love again.
272
00:11:11,837 --> 00:11:14,673
And we're just stuck
in this cycle
273
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of great teammates,
great teammates,
274
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doing a great job parenting.
Teammates. "Yeah! High-five!"
275
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If marriage is gonna be
like this,
276
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do I want it?
277
00:11:28,170 --> 00:11:30,239
[Cory] We're just
stuck in this cycle.
278
00:11:30,239 --> 00:11:32,441
If marriage
is gonna be like this,
279
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do I want it?
280
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[Michaiah] Some of the fear
281
00:11:37,113 --> 00:11:40,082
about stepping into
the commitment of marriage
282
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is because, "If this is going
to be what marriage is like,
283
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"I can't say yes to this.
284
00:11:45,121 --> 00:11:47,356
"If we get married,
can you guarantee
285
00:11:47,356 --> 00:11:49,792
"that these things
will actually be fixed?
286
00:11:49,792 --> 00:11:51,794
"And if you can't show me that,
287
00:11:51,794 --> 00:11:53,929
I can't do
that marriage beef..."
288
00:11:54,463 --> 00:11:56,565
Is that what I'm hearing? Okay.
289
00:11:56,565 --> 00:11:58,267
Okay, we're getting somewhere.
290
00:11:58,267 --> 00:11:59,669
We're getting somewhere.
291
00:11:59,669 --> 00:12:01,003
[Michaiah] We're getting
somewhere.
292
00:12:01,003 --> 00:12:04,306
So I'm glad I hit the nail
on the head with this.
293
00:12:04,306 --> 00:12:07,410
Oh, it feels good.
I feel like I'm being heard.
294
00:12:07,410 --> 00:12:08,577
You're understanding and just...
295
00:12:08,577 --> 00:12:09,679
Okay.
296
00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,380
Once I see her dive into herself
297
00:12:11,380 --> 00:12:13,916
a little bit more
and rediscover who she is
298
00:12:13,916 --> 00:12:15,251
and things, I just think
299
00:12:15,251 --> 00:12:17,720
it's gonna help
all those other issues.
300
00:12:18,754 --> 00:12:20,489
I can understand completely
301
00:12:20,489 --> 00:12:22,658
that you would want to wait
to see that happen.
302
00:12:22,658 --> 00:12:25,161
But part of the safety
in marriage
303
00:12:25,161 --> 00:12:27,763
is knowing that I don't have to
be perfect
304
00:12:27,763 --> 00:12:29,832
because when you
make that commitment
305
00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:32,768
down on your knee to say,
"I'm in it with you,"
306
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that it gives her the freedom
and the permission
307
00:12:35,738 --> 00:12:39,008
to blossom over and over
and over again.
308
00:12:39,008 --> 00:12:41,510
If it's conditional,
309
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that type of condition is scary.
310
00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:44,847
Okay.
311
00:12:44,847 --> 00:12:46,182
So let's do real talk, right?
312
00:12:46,182 --> 00:12:49,051
This is not a problem
that just you and her have.
313
00:12:49,051 --> 00:12:51,721
This is something very common
with new parents.
314
00:12:51,721 --> 00:12:53,389
It's not always going to be fun.
315
00:12:53,389 --> 00:12:56,025
You're making a commitment
that, even when it's dry,
316
00:12:56,025 --> 00:12:58,027
boring, the same day
over and over again,
317
00:12:58,027 --> 00:13:00,329
you may have to look
at that differently
318
00:13:00,329 --> 00:13:03,232
as not being something
that's scary or boring.
319
00:13:03,232 --> 00:13:08,304
It's something that is a part
of the safety of marriage.
320
00:13:08,304 --> 00:13:09,905
Fun looks different
321
00:13:09,905 --> 00:13:13,109
as you settle into the peace
of marriage.
322
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Hard question,
323
00:13:14,810 --> 00:13:16,979
what if this is
her line in the sand?
324
00:13:16,979 --> 00:13:19,882
If she's like, "Look,
I told you what I need."
325
00:13:19,882 --> 00:13:21,717
-Yeah. Right.
-"I need a ring.
326
00:13:21,717 --> 00:13:23,753
And if you don't, I'm done."
327
00:13:24,386 --> 00:13:27,523
Right away, I think
about my kids.
328
00:13:27,523 --> 00:13:28,891
I don't want that.
329
00:13:28,891 --> 00:13:30,526
And I don't wanna see that
for you.
330
00:13:30,526 --> 00:13:34,930
But I can see that
she's approaching that point.
331
00:13:35,197 --> 00:13:36,298
Yes.
332
00:13:36,999 --> 00:13:38,467
The pressure is on.
333
00:13:38,467 --> 00:13:39,969
I've gotta do more.
334
00:13:39,969 --> 00:13:41,403
You're at the deciding point.
335
00:13:41,403 --> 00:13:44,473
"Either we do this thing
and I commit to you forever
336
00:13:44,473 --> 00:13:46,342
or we go our separate ways."
337
00:13:49,044 --> 00:13:50,913
That's a lot to think about.
338
00:13:51,914 --> 00:13:53,315
I'm tired for you.
339
00:13:53,315 --> 00:13:54,717
I'm glad...
340
00:13:54,717 --> 00:13:56,819
I'm not jealous
of this position.
341
00:13:57,219 --> 00:13:59,455
This was an eye-opening session
for me.
342
00:13:59,455 --> 00:14:03,058
In a marriage, you're not always
gonna be fully satisfied.
343
00:14:03,058 --> 00:14:04,727
You're gonna have your bad days.
344
00:14:04,727 --> 00:14:06,529
It's not always
gonna be perfect.
345
00:14:06,529 --> 00:14:08,230
I wanna marry Taylor, I do,
346
00:14:08,230 --> 00:14:10,466
and I have the roadmap now.
347
00:14:10,866 --> 00:14:12,234
I got you.
348
00:14:12,234 --> 00:14:13,869
Thank you. Okay.
349
00:14:15,337 --> 00:14:16,338
[party music]
350
00:14:16,338 --> 00:14:17,973
♪ Put your drinks in the air ♪
351
00:14:17,973 --> 00:14:20,142
♪ Won't you toast it to me ♪
352
00:14:20,943 --> 00:14:22,778
[Kiaya] We gotta get away
from the couples.
353
00:14:22,778 --> 00:14:24,747
♪ Let's go crazy ♪
354
00:14:24,747 --> 00:14:26,348
Let's go, let's do something.
355
00:14:26,348 --> 00:14:28,117
Us three, please?
356
00:14:28,751 --> 00:14:30,452
Can we go somewhere,
do something?
357
00:14:30,452 --> 00:14:33,656
I knew, coming down here,
it would mostly be couples.
358
00:14:33,656 --> 00:14:34,990
And that's cool.
359
00:14:34,990 --> 00:14:36,392
But us single girls
360
00:14:36,392 --> 00:14:39,161
need a night on the town,
no couples allowed.
361
00:14:39,161 --> 00:14:42,264
We should go out and maybe
get thrusted on again.
362
00:14:45,034 --> 00:14:47,736
-Yes, yes. Yes.
-Maybe so.
363
00:14:47,736 --> 00:14:49,672
Single girls night in Cartagena,
364
00:14:49,672 --> 00:14:51,040
I'm definitely in
365
00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,008
'cause you never know
what's gonna happen.
366
00:14:53,008 --> 00:14:54,410
I'm down. You down,
you down, you down?
367
00:14:54,410 --> 00:14:56,011
So it's like we're gonna go
to the bar.
368
00:14:56,011 --> 00:14:57,446
But that first night
[bleep] me up.
369
00:14:57,746 --> 00:14:59,281
Shots, all of us.
370
00:14:59,281 --> 00:15:01,317
[Leah]
I need just a fun night out,
371
00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,319
but I don't wanna drink
like that ever again.
372
00:15:04,220 --> 00:15:05,454
Fire.
373
00:15:05,454 --> 00:15:11,193
[funky mid-tempo music]
374
00:15:12,094 --> 00:15:15,764
[Cory] Oh. Just the lady
I wanted to see.
375
00:15:15,764 --> 00:15:16,765
[Taylor] How was it?
376
00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:20,302
[Cory] It was just more
about the marriage thing.
377
00:15:25,808 --> 00:15:28,711
Let it out.
Let a good cry out.
378
00:15:28,711 --> 00:15:29,879
[Taylor sniffling]
379
00:15:29,879 --> 00:15:31,714
I know this is hard for you.
380
00:15:32,248 --> 00:15:33,782
[Taylor] I'm strained.
381
00:15:33,782 --> 00:15:35,251
[Cory] I get it.
382
00:15:35,751 --> 00:15:37,519
Boo-hoo cry all you want.
383
00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,456
I just got done
boo-hoo crying up there.
384
00:15:41,457 --> 00:15:43,259
You were gone forever.
385
00:15:43,259 --> 00:15:45,227
Well, I had a good session.
386
00:15:45,227 --> 00:15:46,896
I've learned a lot from
Michaiah.
387
00:15:46,896 --> 00:15:49,398
And I'm ready to put
these things into action.
388
00:15:49,665 --> 00:15:51,133
I love Taylor to death.
389
00:15:51,133 --> 00:15:53,969
And I love our family.
And I love our life.
390
00:15:53,969 --> 00:15:56,238
And I know
we can work through this
391
00:15:56,238 --> 00:15:58,007
and have that happy ending.
392
00:15:58,007 --> 00:16:00,142
One of the things she said
that I really liked
393
00:16:00,142 --> 00:16:02,778
was just like how I'm
waiting for it
394
00:16:02,778 --> 00:16:04,546
to be perfect to do it,
395
00:16:04,546 --> 00:16:07,182
but you're gonna go through
your ups and downs
396
00:16:07,182 --> 00:16:08,217
when you're married anyways.
397
00:16:08,217 --> 00:16:09,451
[Taylor] Does make sense.
398
00:16:09,451 --> 00:16:11,487
You wait for things
to be perfect,
399
00:16:11,487 --> 00:16:12,855
but nothing's perfect.
400
00:16:12,855 --> 00:16:15,524
I know, and I have
this perfect ideal
401
00:16:15,524 --> 00:16:18,060
of marriage,
and it's gotta be perfect,
402
00:16:18,060 --> 00:16:19,895
and my fear of it,
403
00:16:19,895 --> 00:16:22,097
and just this and that.
404
00:16:22,998 --> 00:16:24,500
And it's a lot.
405
00:16:25,267 --> 00:16:27,000
It sounds like
he's made progress
406
00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:27,002
It sounds like
he's made progress
407
00:16:27,002 --> 00:16:28,671
with Michaiah.
408
00:16:28,671 --> 00:16:30,539
[Cory] We got this, okay?
409
00:16:30,973 --> 00:16:32,908
-And I love you.
-[Taylor] I love you too.
410
00:16:32,908 --> 00:16:34,443
We been through a lot.
411
00:16:34,443 --> 00:16:37,813
So I'm hoping that
the next step is coming soon.
412
00:16:37,813 --> 00:16:39,248
It's about time.
413
00:16:44,820 --> 00:16:46,989
Guys, look at
Khes's shoulder.
414
00:16:46,989 --> 00:16:49,491
Dude, yo.
No, on your shoulder.
415
00:16:49,491 --> 00:16:50,693
It just fell.
416
00:16:54,430 --> 00:16:56,131
[Jade] I thought it was
a [bleep] lizard.
417
00:16:56,131 --> 00:16:57,666
I was so excited.
418
00:16:57,666 --> 00:16:59,568
[Mackenzie] Let me see if I can
find a picture of Gannon
419
00:16:59,568 --> 00:17:01,570
having lizards
hanging from his nipples.
420
00:17:02,838 --> 00:17:04,373
-Yeah, 'cause they bite.
-They bite.
421
00:17:04,373 --> 00:17:06,976
[Tyler] Like Ryan,
he [bleep] bruised me.
422
00:17:06,976 --> 00:17:08,444
-Look at it.
-[Cate] Who?
423
00:17:08,777 --> 00:17:10,145
Ryan.
424
00:17:10,145 --> 00:17:11,313
Why, what'd he do?
425
00:17:11,313 --> 00:17:12,414
He just keeps
grabbing my nipples.
426
00:17:12,414 --> 00:17:14,249
Ryan comes around all the time
427
00:17:14,249 --> 00:17:17,186
and randomly will grab nipples
and squeeze them, hard.
428
00:17:17,186 --> 00:17:18,620
And stares at you.
429
00:17:20,055 --> 00:17:21,790
It's [bleep] weird.
430
00:17:21,790 --> 00:17:23,325
Dude! It's not just me!
431
00:17:24,059 --> 00:17:26,128
Dude, why are you always
targeting my nipples, bro?
432
00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:27,830
That's a little sus,
if you ask me.
433
00:17:27,830 --> 00:17:29,098
He's always grabbing my nips.
434
00:17:29,098 --> 00:17:31,100
It's scary to me because mine
are super soft
435
00:17:31,100 --> 00:17:32,167
when he touches mine.
436
00:17:32,167 --> 00:17:33,369
No, mine is hard.
437
00:17:35,938 --> 00:17:38,273
Like he wants to hurt me,
and he did.
438
00:17:38,273 --> 00:17:40,876
If Ryan paid
half as much attention
439
00:17:40,876 --> 00:17:42,644
to his girl
than he does our nipples,
440
00:17:42,644 --> 00:17:46,315
he wouldn't have this many
relationship problems.
441
00:17:46,315 --> 00:17:48,784
-No man touch these boys.
-[group laughing]
442
00:17:48,784 --> 00:17:50,119
No man!
443
00:17:53,589 --> 00:17:55,591
No, no, no.
Five, you can't go on the five.
444
00:17:55,591 --> 00:17:56,959
You can't do doubles.
445
00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,061
[Mike] How's it going?
446
00:17:59,361 --> 00:18:00,629
Hey.
447
00:18:00,629 --> 00:18:04,099
All right. We are gonna have
a workshop upstairs.
448
00:18:04,099 --> 00:18:05,234
Everybody ready?
449
00:18:05,234 --> 00:18:07,036
-Yeah!
-Let's go.
450
00:18:07,036 --> 00:18:09,271
[Briana] This is
my first workshop.
451
00:18:09,271 --> 00:18:11,240
This is why I'm here.
452
00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,641
I've been through
many relationships
453
00:18:12,641 --> 00:18:14,476
and they all
have been very [bleep]ty.
454
00:18:14,476 --> 00:18:17,012
So, hopefully,
I will get the right tools
455
00:18:17,012 --> 00:18:18,447
to make better choices.
456
00:18:18,447 --> 00:18:20,582
[Mike] Everybody, come on in.
Have a seat.
457
00:18:23,052 --> 00:18:25,788
I see a tree
and then there's planters.
458
00:18:25,788 --> 00:18:29,358
There's paper cutouts that look
like apples and oranges.
459
00:18:29,358 --> 00:18:31,527
The hell do you got planned
for us, Dr. Mike?
460
00:18:32,461 --> 00:18:36,231
This [bleep] honestly looks like
a literal children's workshop.
461
00:18:36,999 --> 00:18:39,268
He do know
the kids ain't here, right?
462
00:18:39,868 --> 00:18:41,770
[Mike] Okay, so all here.
463
00:18:41,770 --> 00:18:43,172
What we're gonna be doing today,
464
00:18:43,172 --> 00:18:46,175
I've designed a workshop
that can benefit all of you.
465
00:18:46,175 --> 00:18:47,709
Sometimes, we don't recognize
466
00:18:47,709 --> 00:18:50,079
that the things that we have
been through in our lives
467
00:18:50,079 --> 00:18:52,514
have an effect
on our relationships,
468
00:18:52,514 --> 00:18:54,216
whether it's our fear
of commitment
469
00:18:54,216 --> 00:18:56,418
or fear of abandonment
or our anxiety,
470
00:18:56,418 --> 00:18:59,088
how all of those things
are related.
471
00:18:59,822 --> 00:19:01,356
This is the trauma tree.
472
00:19:01,857 --> 00:19:05,194
The roots of this tree
represent your childhood trauma
473
00:19:05,194 --> 00:19:08,363
and the fruit represents
your current behavior
474
00:19:08,363 --> 00:19:09,965
that you want to improve on.
475
00:19:10,566 --> 00:19:14,503
I want you to write
the one word or the one phrase
476
00:19:14,503 --> 00:19:17,239
that you wanna work on
in your relationship
477
00:19:17,239 --> 00:19:19,408
or your future relationships.
478
00:19:20,042 --> 00:19:22,611
What is the thing
above the ground
479
00:19:22,611 --> 00:19:26,115
that you see
that still needs work right now?
480
00:19:26,115 --> 00:19:31,220
[steady low-fi music]
481
00:19:31,220 --> 00:19:32,721
Khesanio, why don't
you go first?
482
00:19:32,721 --> 00:19:35,991
Tell Mackenzie what your issue
is now in your relationship.
483
00:19:35,991 --> 00:19:37,359
Me being too stubborn.
484
00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,261
-[Mike] Yeah. All right, good.
-[Woman] Wow.
485
00:19:39,261 --> 00:19:40,729
[Mike] And then hang that
on the tree.
486
00:19:41,263 --> 00:19:43,732
And, Mackenzie,
what is your issue
487
00:19:43,732 --> 00:19:45,000
you'd like to work on?
488
00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,301
Healthier communication.
489
00:19:46,301 --> 00:19:47,669
[Mike] All right, hang that up.
490
00:19:49,771 --> 00:19:50,873
Cory.
491
00:19:50,873 --> 00:19:52,741
I chose two words.
492
00:19:52,741 --> 00:19:54,476
Bonding and quality time.
493
00:19:54,476 --> 00:19:55,811
I wrote the same thing.
494
00:19:56,612 --> 00:19:58,680
All right.
Go hang it up on the tree.
495
00:19:59,781 --> 00:20:02,417
Me and Taylor
wrote the same thing down.
496
00:20:02,417 --> 00:20:04,686
We both want quality time
with each other
497
00:20:04,686 --> 00:20:07,656
and it looks like
all this coaching is paying of.
498
00:20:08,524 --> 00:20:11,226
-Ryan and Kayla.
-Trust.
499
00:20:11,226 --> 00:20:12,761
I said communication.
500
00:20:12,761 --> 00:20:13,962
I put teamwork.
501
00:20:13,962 --> 00:20:15,964
I do feel I rely on Jade
502
00:20:15,964 --> 00:20:17,366
for a lot of things.
503
00:20:17,366 --> 00:20:18,500
I'm going to independently
504
00:20:18,500 --> 00:20:19,835
put it right the [bleep] up
here.
505
00:20:21,103 --> 00:20:22,237
What I need to work on,
506
00:20:22,237 --> 00:20:24,072
I think just be more open
and trusting.
507
00:20:24,072 --> 00:20:26,175
And I'm very independent,
self-reliant,
508
00:20:26,175 --> 00:20:27,609
do it all myself.
509
00:20:27,609 --> 00:20:28,844
Hang it up.
510
00:20:28,844 --> 00:20:30,112
I wrote anxiety.
511
00:20:30,112 --> 00:20:31,580
I put being present.
512
00:20:31,580 --> 00:20:32,748
Kiaya.
513
00:20:32,748 --> 00:20:34,316
I wrote anger.
514
00:20:34,616 --> 00:20:35,684
Cate and Ty.
515
00:20:35,684 --> 00:20:38,220
-I wrote communication.
-Why?
516
00:20:38,220 --> 00:20:41,323
Because I just need
to not be so worried
517
00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:43,058
about how he's gonna feel
518
00:20:43,058 --> 00:20:44,893
if I'm struggling
with my mental health.
519
00:20:44,893 --> 00:20:46,228
I wrote bipolar disorder.
520
00:20:46,795 --> 00:20:49,498
I denied that diagnosis
for so long,
521
00:20:49,498 --> 00:20:51,433
but I think it's a way
of me just running from it
522
00:20:51,433 --> 00:20:54,069
and not wanting to identify
523
00:20:54,069 --> 00:20:55,604
myself with that.
524
00:20:56,338 --> 00:20:58,040
[Mike] Bri, what are you
working on
525
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,474
in terms of your relationships?
526
00:20:59,841 --> 00:21:03,178
For me, it sums up
to just daddy issues.
527
00:21:03,645 --> 00:21:06,081
I never really had
a father figure growing up,
528
00:21:06,081 --> 00:21:08,317
so I don't really know
what to look for
529
00:21:08,317 --> 00:21:09,651
in a partner.
530
00:21:09,651 --> 00:21:11,353
[Mike] How do you think
those daddy issues,
531
00:21:11,353 --> 00:21:13,755
do you let men in who maybe
shouldn't be in your life?
532
00:21:13,755 --> 00:21:14,990
A hundred percent.
533
00:21:15,591 --> 00:21:19,127
I don't know what a real man
is supposed to look like.
534
00:21:19,127 --> 00:21:21,163
I've never experienced that.
535
00:21:21,163 --> 00:21:23,398
[Mike] When we don't get
that love,
536
00:21:23,398 --> 00:21:25,367
we're gonna seek it out
in other ways, right?
537
00:21:25,367 --> 00:21:26,568
-Yeah.
-[Mike] Andy maybe it's having
538
00:21:26,568 --> 00:21:27,769
sex before you're ready
539
00:21:27,769 --> 00:21:29,838
or being with
or staying with a guy
540
00:21:29,838 --> 00:21:31,273
who doesn't deserve you.
541
00:21:31,273 --> 00:21:32,608
Good work.
542
00:21:32,941 --> 00:21:34,176
Hang it up.
543
00:21:34,176 --> 00:21:35,577
It was a little uncomfortable
for me
544
00:21:35,577 --> 00:21:39,114
because I'm coming into
this house a week later.
545
00:21:39,114 --> 00:21:42,584
But I was like, "You know what?
[bleep] it. I'm gonna be raw.
546
00:21:42,584 --> 00:21:43,000
I'm gonna tell my story."
547
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,353
I'm gonna tell my story."
548
00:21:44,353 --> 00:21:46,855
And, hopefully, me opening up
549
00:21:46,855 --> 00:21:47,990
in front of the group
550
00:21:47,990 --> 00:21:49,524
will help me get past
551
00:21:49,524 --> 00:21:51,093
all the things that
are holding back in my life.
552
00:21:51,426 --> 00:21:52,661
As you can see,
553
00:21:52,661 --> 00:21:54,296
there are those
relationship issues
554
00:21:54,296 --> 00:21:56,365
that we see on the surface.
555
00:21:56,365 --> 00:21:58,533
But the fruit
came from the roots
556
00:21:58,533 --> 00:22:01,236
that lie beneath the surface
of the tree.
557
00:22:01,536 --> 00:22:03,405
So now I want
all of you to think
558
00:22:03,405 --> 00:22:08,143
of the most formative
emotional things
559
00:22:08,143 --> 00:22:09,845
from your childhood
560
00:22:09,845 --> 00:22:11,113
or young adult life.
561
00:22:11,513 --> 00:22:13,682
These are the roots of the tree.
562
00:22:14,483 --> 00:22:15,851
What are your roots, Bri?
563
00:22:20,455 --> 00:22:23,392
These are things that
I've never spoke about ever
564
00:22:23,392 --> 00:22:25,994
and nobody knows in my family.
565
00:22:33,653 --> 00:22:35,254
[Briana] These are things that
I've never spoke about ever
566
00:22:35,254 --> 00:22:37,690
and nobody knows in my family.
567
00:22:38,725 --> 00:22:41,694
Nobody here knows anything
like this.
568
00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:44,530
So it's hard.
569
00:22:45,231 --> 00:22:48,501
My first one, being molested.
570
00:22:48,501 --> 00:22:51,337
as a very young child.
571
00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,606
[Jade] Oh, my gosh.
572
00:22:53,606 --> 00:22:55,608
We're so close and we've been
friends for years,
573
00:22:55,608 --> 00:22:58,478
and I didn't know
some of that stuff.
574
00:22:58,478 --> 00:23:00,446
And I feel bad for her.
575
00:23:01,614 --> 00:23:03,149
[Mike] I'm so sorry
that happened to you.
576
00:23:03,149 --> 00:23:06,419
What does that feel like to talk
about for the first time?
577
00:23:07,220 --> 00:23:09,388
I guess it feels freeing.
578
00:23:10,389 --> 00:23:11,824
[Mike] Bri, does your mom
know that?
579
00:23:13,693 --> 00:23:14,694
[Mike] Wow.
580
00:23:14,694 --> 00:23:15,995
[Cate] I can relate to you,
581
00:23:15,995 --> 00:23:17,463
because I feel like,
for the longest time,
582
00:23:17,463 --> 00:23:19,599
some of my friends knew
about my sexual assault,
583
00:23:19,599 --> 00:23:22,001
but my mom didn't know
for years.
584
00:23:22,301 --> 00:23:23,736
[Mike] It's more common
that you know.
585
00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:25,605
And when we actually
all talk about it,
586
00:23:25,605 --> 00:23:27,607
then you can know
that you're not alone.
587
00:23:27,607 --> 00:23:30,676
[Briana] It's hard because
I don't wanna tell anybody
588
00:23:30,676 --> 00:23:33,679
who it is because it would
break the family apart.
589
00:23:33,679 --> 00:23:35,314
But you're carrying all that.
590
00:23:35,715 --> 00:23:37,583
-That's not yours to carry.
-For sure.
591
00:23:37,583 --> 00:23:40,153
[Mike] How much responsibility
for you,
592
00:23:40,153 --> 00:23:42,321
for somebody who is a survivor?
593
00:23:42,688 --> 00:23:45,057
That must feel like
1,000 pounds.
594
00:23:46,125 --> 00:23:50,530
Um, my second one,
just being neglected as a child.
595
00:23:50,530 --> 00:23:53,900
I never felt like
I was loved enough.
596
00:23:53,900 --> 00:23:57,003
And then my third one
is just my parents
597
00:23:57,003 --> 00:23:58,571
fighting all the time.
598
00:23:58,571 --> 00:24:00,540
You deserve a new working model
599
00:24:00,540 --> 00:24:02,008
of what love looks like.
600
00:24:02,008 --> 00:24:03,609
'Cause I don't think
you've really seen it
601
00:24:03,609 --> 00:24:05,011
in your family much.
602
00:24:05,011 --> 00:24:06,946
Not at all.
603
00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:10,483
That was really good work.
604
00:24:11,117 --> 00:24:14,353
[Briana] I've always wanted
to tell my story
605
00:24:14,353 --> 00:24:17,757
and it was just
a very empowering feeling.
606
00:24:17,757 --> 00:24:20,193
Everybody in the house,
they have my back.
607
00:24:20,193 --> 00:24:22,328
I know they're not going
to judge me.
608
00:24:23,963 --> 00:24:25,097
Thanks for being so brave.
609
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,069
Khesanio, what are the roots
610
00:24:30,636 --> 00:24:33,172
of some of the things
that are an issue for you?
611
00:24:33,739 --> 00:24:35,474
[Khesanio] Losing my grandma.
612
00:24:35,842 --> 00:24:37,143
This one hurts
613
00:24:37,143 --> 00:24:40,112
because it was supposed to be
the best day of my life.
614
00:24:45,651 --> 00:24:48,821
Because, growing up,
soccer was also my life.
615
00:24:48,821 --> 00:24:51,691
And so the day that I played
for the national team...
616
00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,430
[Mike] How awful
to lose your grandmother
617
00:24:57,430 --> 00:25:00,032
on the happiest day
of your life.
618
00:25:00,032 --> 00:25:01,234
[Khesanio] Yeah.
619
00:25:01,234 --> 00:25:02,802
-That was tough.
-[Mike] Yeah.
620
00:25:02,802 --> 00:25:05,805
Watching Khesanio
being very vulnerable
621
00:25:05,805 --> 00:25:09,542
and hearing him cry
for the first time
622
00:25:09,542 --> 00:25:12,411
does make me feel
more connected with him.
623
00:25:12,411 --> 00:25:13,679
That was the first time
624
00:25:13,679 --> 00:25:15,648
I've ever heard Khes
open up about that.
625
00:25:15,648 --> 00:25:17,383
You did something
really good today
626
00:25:17,383 --> 00:25:18,651
by letting her in.
627
00:25:18,651 --> 00:25:20,219
[Jade] Khesanio was so new here.
628
00:25:20,219 --> 00:25:21,354
No one knows him.
629
00:25:21,354 --> 00:25:22,955
Seeing him open up,
I'm like, "Wow."
630
00:25:22,955 --> 00:25:25,725
That's how you know you have
a really good group of people
631
00:25:25,725 --> 00:25:26,959
that are really supportive
632
00:25:26,959 --> 00:25:28,928
to make someone this new
open up in front
633
00:25:28,928 --> 00:25:31,831
of a whole group of people,
in front of the entire world--
634
00:25:31,831 --> 00:25:33,466
-that's a lot.
-Good work.
635
00:25:33,866 --> 00:25:36,502
Kiaya, what are your roots?
636
00:25:40,172 --> 00:25:41,641
Kiaya is sitting
to the left of me
637
00:25:41,641 --> 00:25:43,943
and she is going through it.
638
00:25:43,943 --> 00:25:45,144
She needs help.
639
00:25:45,144 --> 00:25:46,512
[Mike] It's okay, Kiaya.
640
00:25:46,512 --> 00:25:48,047
This is a safe space.
641
00:25:48,047 --> 00:25:49,215
Um...
642
00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:50,850
Watching everybody else open up
643
00:25:50,850 --> 00:25:53,486
is really making me wanna have
that same vulnerability.
644
00:25:53,486 --> 00:25:55,488
I don't know
how much is too much,
645
00:25:55,488 --> 00:25:58,124
but I think I'm just about
to spill the beans.
646
00:25:58,124 --> 00:26:00,426
I've never told nobody.
647
00:26:00,426 --> 00:26:04,297
I was sexually assaulted
by somebody I trusted.
648
00:26:04,297 --> 00:26:05,765
I was 15,
649
00:26:05,765 --> 00:26:08,267
and I planned to give
my virginity to this person.
650
00:26:08,267 --> 00:26:10,202
And the way they handled me,
651
00:26:10,670 --> 00:26:14,607
I just felt like,
I felt like dirt.
652
00:26:15,141 --> 00:26:16,375
Never told nobody.
653
00:26:16,375 --> 00:26:17,843
So I hate men.
654
00:26:17,843 --> 00:26:20,179
They always feel like they have
a sense of control.
655
00:26:21,314 --> 00:26:23,215
I questioned myself
so bad, like,
656
00:26:23,215 --> 00:26:24,650
"Is this rape?"
657
00:26:25,151 --> 00:26:27,620
I told him that I wanted
to give him my virginity.
658
00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:29,388
So is it my fault?
659
00:26:29,388 --> 00:26:30,790
No, it's not.
660
00:26:30,790 --> 00:26:33,292
And did you give consent
at the time?
661
00:26:33,292 --> 00:26:35,928
-No.
-Then, yes, it was rape, okay?
662
00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:38,497
And, no, you did not deserve
to be treated like that.
663
00:26:39,098 --> 00:26:41,934
[Kiaya] To sit
in that trauma workshop
664
00:26:41,934 --> 00:26:44,070
and actually share
some of the things
665
00:26:44,070 --> 00:26:46,839
that I'm dealing with
that nobody else knows,
666
00:26:46,839 --> 00:26:48,741
it honestly felt good to me
in the end
667
00:26:48,741 --> 00:26:50,710
because I felt like
I really had that strength
668
00:26:50,710 --> 00:26:52,712
to do something that I did not
plan to do
669
00:26:52,712 --> 00:26:56,015
or something that I was
honestly guarded to do.
670
00:26:56,015 --> 00:27:00,019
[Mike] I see that warm,
sweet heart in you.
671
00:27:00,019 --> 00:27:02,688
I see her. I think everybody
in this room sees her.
672
00:27:02,688 --> 00:27:04,991
And they all wanna protect her
and help her.
673
00:27:04,991 --> 00:27:07,660
[Mackenzie] I think that
Kiaya needed that.
674
00:27:07,660 --> 00:27:09,228
She just let it all out.
675
00:27:09,228 --> 00:27:12,064
All this pain that she's been
holding in,
676
00:27:12,064 --> 00:27:14,800
and I just wanted to get up
and hug her.
677
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,402
What are your roots, Leah?
678
00:27:16,402 --> 00:27:19,338
Childhood abuse,
sexually as well.
679
00:27:20,072 --> 00:27:22,241
Later in life,
I would say divorce,
680
00:27:22,241 --> 00:27:25,244
the custody, going back
and forth with my daughters.
681
00:27:25,244 --> 00:27:27,580
How are these seeds
related to your fruit?
682
00:27:27,580 --> 00:27:29,849
I'm gonna protect me
at all costs.
683
00:27:29,849 --> 00:27:30,816
Yeah.
684
00:27:30,816 --> 00:27:32,000
With relationships, I'm like,
685
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,251
With relationships, I'm like,
686
00:27:32,251 --> 00:27:34,253
"You can't protect me
like I can protect me."
687
00:27:34,253 --> 00:27:36,756
So how are you going to start
taking better care
688
00:27:36,756 --> 00:27:38,124
of that little girl?
689
00:27:38,124 --> 00:27:39,258
I don't know how.
690
00:27:39,258 --> 00:27:42,261
To change that trajectory
from my daughters,
691
00:27:42,261 --> 00:27:44,063
I don't know. I don't know.
692
00:27:44,797 --> 00:27:47,199
[Mike] What would you say
to your younger self
693
00:27:47,199 --> 00:27:48,567
if you could?
694
00:27:54,407 --> 00:27:56,208
You don't have to
carry it anymore.
695
00:27:56,208 --> 00:27:58,644
I don't know. I don't know
what to say to myself.
696
00:27:58,644 --> 00:27:59,845
I have no idea.
697
00:27:59,845 --> 00:28:01,180
I think that's right.
698
00:28:01,180 --> 00:28:02,915
You don't have to carry it
anymore, right?
699
00:28:02,915 --> 00:28:06,419
What does she deserve
in her next great relationship?
700
00:28:06,419 --> 00:28:08,788
[Leah] Peace, happiness, love,
701
00:28:08,788 --> 00:28:10,790
and a place to feel safe.
702
00:28:11,524 --> 00:28:12,992
Most of the time,
it's very difficult
703
00:28:12,992 --> 00:28:14,960
for me to open up
in front of people.
704
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,896
But this is such a safe place.
705
00:28:16,896 --> 00:28:18,964
I feel comfortable
sharing with everyone.
706
00:28:18,964 --> 00:28:21,834
I'm really glad that I was able
to let it all out.
707
00:28:21,834 --> 00:28:24,336
Good work. Good work.
708
00:28:24,336 --> 00:28:26,138
[Cheyenne] Hearing Leah's story
709
00:28:26,138 --> 00:28:28,874
makes me understand
why she is so guarded.
710
00:28:28,874 --> 00:28:31,143
But her opening up to the group,
711
00:28:31,143 --> 00:28:33,546
all it does
is bring us closer together.
712
00:28:34,113 --> 00:28:35,748
[Mike] So, Tyler,
how about your roots?
713
00:28:36,348 --> 00:28:39,218
[Tyler] So my first one
was my suicide attempt.
714
00:28:40,686 --> 00:28:42,054
I was 11,
715
00:28:42,054 --> 00:28:44,990
and I think what was
so hard about it
716
00:28:44,990 --> 00:28:46,992
was because I was so ready.
717
00:28:47,893 --> 00:28:50,229
It's hard for Ty to talk
about his suicide attempt,
718
00:28:50,229 --> 00:28:53,265
but I also know
it's one of his traumas,
719
00:28:53,265 --> 00:28:56,068
so you have to talk about it,
even if it is hard.
720
00:28:56,502 --> 00:28:59,839
[Mike] What would adult Tyler
say to that little boy
721
00:28:59,839 --> 00:29:01,807
who is in so much pain?
722
00:29:15,638 --> 00:29:17,807
[Mike] What would adult Tyler
say to that little boy
723
00:29:17,807 --> 00:29:19,375
who is in so much pain?
724
00:29:19,375 --> 00:29:21,744
[Tyler] I just need you to know
that you're worthy.
725
00:29:21,744 --> 00:29:22,979
You're worthy to live.
726
00:29:23,546 --> 00:29:26,215
And you're worthy to experience
all the beautiful things,
727
00:29:26,215 --> 00:29:27,917
and you're gonna make it.
728
00:29:27,917 --> 00:29:30,386
Cate, you heal me every day.
729
00:29:30,386 --> 00:29:31,854
Every single day.
730
00:29:32,154 --> 00:29:34,991
You remind me
that I'm worthy to live.
731
00:29:34,991 --> 00:29:36,826
And I'm very thankful for you.
732
00:29:38,060 --> 00:29:40,062
It's inspiring to see how Cate
and Tyler
733
00:29:40,062 --> 00:29:42,198
are always there for each other
through difficult times.
734
00:29:42,198 --> 00:29:44,634
And Jade and I could
really learn a lot from them
735
00:29:44,634 --> 00:29:46,168
with our big day coming up.
736
00:29:47,503 --> 00:29:49,505
[Mike] Blown away
by all your work
737
00:29:49,505 --> 00:29:50,940
in this workshop tonight.
738
00:29:50,940 --> 00:29:53,209
These roots do not define you.
739
00:29:53,209 --> 00:29:57,013
Your roots came from your
parents and your grandparents.
740
00:29:57,013 --> 00:29:58,948
The first step towards healing
741
00:29:58,948 --> 00:30:01,150
is identifying and vocalizing
742
00:30:01,150 --> 00:30:03,586
what those roots
of your issues are,
743
00:30:03,586 --> 00:30:06,355
which you've done today
with such courage.
744
00:30:06,789 --> 00:30:09,859
And now you can change
what is hanging there
745
00:30:09,859 --> 00:30:12,295
and you can bear new fruit
in your lives,
746
00:30:12,295 --> 00:30:13,796
in your marriages,
747
00:30:13,796 --> 00:30:16,999
in your relationships
with your kids and their kids.
748
00:30:16,999 --> 00:30:19,368
So good work
by taking the first step
749
00:30:19,368 --> 00:30:20,903
and really watering your roots,
750
00:30:20,903 --> 00:30:24,106
and really coming to terms with
and nurturing
751
00:30:24,106 --> 00:30:27,777
the pain, the wounds,
of your inner child.
752
00:30:27,777 --> 00:30:30,479
[Cate] My main takeaway
from the exercise
753
00:30:30,479 --> 00:30:33,683
is just like, "Oh, wow, we all
have a lot more in common
754
00:30:33,683 --> 00:30:35,184
than we even thought we did."
755
00:30:35,184 --> 00:30:36,252
Good work.
756
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,722
[Cate] A hundred percent
you can heal.
757
00:30:39,722 --> 00:30:40,856
As long as
you're being vulnerable
758
00:30:40,856 --> 00:30:42,124
and you're working on yourself,
759
00:30:42,124 --> 00:30:43,559
you can change anything
about yourself.
760
00:30:43,559 --> 00:30:45,394
You just have to put in
the work.
761
00:30:45,394 --> 00:30:46,896
[Tyler] It created a bond
762
00:30:46,896 --> 00:30:48,798
I feel like I'm gonna take
with me forever after this.
763
00:30:49,231 --> 00:30:51,801
[Kiyah] God,
that was intense, bro.
764
00:30:55,304 --> 00:30:59,041
[music]
765
00:31:07,249 --> 00:31:08,651
[Mackenzie] You're always
holding me.
766
00:31:08,651 --> 00:31:09,819
Let me hold you, okay?
767
00:31:09,819 --> 00:31:11,387
Feel that I'm holding you.
768
00:31:11,921 --> 00:31:15,291
I may be 4'10",
but I can protect you too.
769
00:31:15,291 --> 00:31:17,126
I love that I have a man
770
00:31:17,126 --> 00:31:18,728
that is open with his feelings,
771
00:31:18,728 --> 00:31:22,832
and is open to let my love
come for him too.
772
00:31:26,168 --> 00:31:27,670
[pop music]
773
00:31:27,670 --> 00:31:29,538
♪ Good fun, good fun ♪
774
00:31:29,538 --> 00:31:31,040
♪ Hey, are you ready ♪
775
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,142
♪ Good times, good times ♪
776
00:31:33,442 --> 00:31:35,144
♪ We can rock steady ♪
777
00:31:35,144 --> 00:31:37,546
[Leah] We're going out.
We're all single.
778
00:31:37,546 --> 00:31:38,981
Yes.
779
00:31:38,981 --> 00:31:40,316
All the single ladies
are going out tonight.
780
00:31:40,649 --> 00:31:42,518
We need to lighten the mood,
781
00:31:42,518 --> 00:31:44,253
do something a little more fun.
782
00:31:45,321 --> 00:31:46,355
I'm excited.
783
00:31:47,089 --> 00:31:49,058
[Briana] It was a lot
for me to spill my guts out
784
00:31:49,058 --> 00:31:51,127
in front of everybody
in the house.
785
00:31:51,127 --> 00:31:54,663
But it feels empowering
to be able to do that.
786
00:31:54,663 --> 00:31:56,232
♪ Good times ♪
787
00:31:57,767 --> 00:32:00,302
Who knows what the night
is gonna bring us?
788
00:32:02,071 --> 00:32:04,540
♪ Let's go
Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪
789
00:32:04,540 --> 00:32:06,275
♪ Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪
790
00:32:06,275 --> 00:32:08,077
♪ Let me show you what I got ♪
791
00:32:08,077 --> 00:32:09,979
♪ Take it off
Make it hot ♪
792
00:32:09,979 --> 00:32:11,947
♪ Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪
793
00:32:12,681 --> 00:32:13,883
[Woman] [indistinct]
794
00:32:13,883 --> 00:32:15,518
[Briana] Oh, my God.
795
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,455
Hola, hi!
796
00:32:21,023 --> 00:32:23,592
We just arrived at this bar.
797
00:32:23,592 --> 00:32:25,027
I'm ready to have fun.
798
00:32:25,027 --> 00:32:27,396
Shots, shots, shots, shots.
799
00:32:30,666 --> 00:32:32,101
So how is y'all love life?
800
00:32:32,101 --> 00:32:34,437
Are y'all talk to anybody?
Are y'all celibate?
801
00:32:34,437 --> 00:32:35,504
I'm celibate.
802
00:32:35,504 --> 00:32:37,907
-Why?
-Just self-control.
803
00:32:38,340 --> 00:32:40,209
I didn't have that
when I was younger.
804
00:32:40,209 --> 00:32:42,678
I am celibate for
[squeaking nervously]
805
00:32:42,678 --> 00:32:44,080
a little over a year now.
806
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,681
It's so empowering for me
807
00:32:45,681 --> 00:32:48,517
because there was a time
little Leah could not say no.
808
00:32:49,285 --> 00:32:50,953
[Kiaya] I'm not
this type of female
809
00:32:50,953 --> 00:32:54,824
that gets that
emotional connection from sex.
810
00:32:54,824 --> 00:32:56,692
Sometimes, I just wanna [bleep].
811
00:32:56,692 --> 00:32:58,661
Does sex not mean more
to you than that?
812
00:32:58,661 --> 00:33:00,162
[Kiaya] Sex can be meaningful
813
00:33:00,162 --> 00:33:02,398
if it's with
a meaningful person.
814
00:33:02,398 --> 00:33:04,533
I've been in a relationship
for so many years,
815
00:33:04,533 --> 00:33:07,103
and now I'm just like,
"Let me just have fun."
816
00:33:07,103 --> 00:33:08,471
There's times I was like,
817
00:33:08,471 --> 00:33:10,005
"Damn, I shouldn't have sex
with this person"
818
00:33:10,005 --> 00:33:11,640
or "I shouldn't have a kid
with this person,"
819
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,142
but I did.
820
00:33:13,142 --> 00:33:16,545
Well, I like to [bleep],
so I don't know about y'all.
821
00:33:16,545 --> 00:33:17,913
[Leah] Me, Kiaya, Bri
822
00:33:17,913 --> 00:33:19,582
were having a great
conversation.
823
00:33:19,582 --> 00:33:22,318
You got a different perspective
from each one of us.
824
00:33:22,318 --> 00:33:24,854
You like
to have physical interaction.
825
00:33:24,854 --> 00:33:25,955
-Yeah.
-That's fine.
826
00:33:25,955 --> 00:33:27,556
Well, we're here in Colombia
827
00:33:27,556 --> 00:33:28,991
and we're here to party,
828
00:33:28,991 --> 00:33:31,227
so [bleep] all this sappy
[bleep].
829
00:33:31,227 --> 00:33:33,562
Let's take shots. [bleep] it.
830
00:33:33,562 --> 00:33:35,397
[Briana] Getting a little bit
of liquid courage.
831
00:33:35,397 --> 00:33:37,233
I see people dancing
to my right.
832
00:33:37,233 --> 00:33:40,336
I'm like, "Ooh, I wanna see
what they're doing."
833
00:33:40,336 --> 00:33:42,404
♪ [indistinct] ♪
834
00:33:43,439 --> 00:33:45,975
♪ [indistinct] ♪
835
00:33:45,975 --> 00:33:47,676
First time out of the country
836
00:33:47,676 --> 00:33:49,445
on a [bleep] rooftop
837
00:33:49,445 --> 00:33:51,547
doing champeta dance.
838
00:33:51,547 --> 00:33:53,082
♪ Hot, hot, hot, hot ♪
839
00:33:53,082 --> 00:33:54,550
♪ Tasty over the top ♪
840
00:33:54,550 --> 00:33:56,118
I'm living my best life.
841
00:34:00,556 --> 00:34:02,291
[Woman] Hey, hey, hey.
842
00:34:04,827 --> 00:34:06,896
♪ Keeping it spicy ♪
843
00:34:07,429 --> 00:34:08,998
♪ [indistinct] ♪
844
00:34:08,998 --> 00:34:11,100
♪ Uh, that's hot ♪
845
00:34:11,567 --> 00:34:12,835
Are you single?
846
00:34:12,835 --> 00:34:14,000
Are you single?
Are you single? Single?
847
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,504
Are you single?
Are you single? Single?
848
00:34:15,504 --> 00:34:17,573
I'm a single parent.
I'm a single mom.
849
00:34:17,573 --> 00:34:20,576
I don't have time
to be with my friends.
850
00:34:22,778 --> 00:34:28,584
Being here with the girls, I
wanna take full advantage of it.
851
00:34:28,584 --> 00:34:29,785
You take one.
852
00:34:29,785 --> 00:34:31,053
-I think he's handsome.
-I want him too.
853
00:34:31,053 --> 00:34:32,855
-We can both have him.
-Let's both have him!
854
00:34:32,855 --> 00:34:34,356
Whatever that means.
855
00:34:41,030 --> 00:34:42,298
[Kiaya] One of them was like,
856
00:34:42,298 --> 00:34:43,866
who's that man name,
Arnold Schwarzenegger,
857
00:34:43,866 --> 00:34:45,067
with them fat-ass muscles.
858
00:34:45,301 --> 00:34:46,936
Nice to meet you, Jonathan.
859
00:34:46,936 --> 00:34:48,170
Jonathan?
860
00:34:48,737 --> 00:34:51,473
And then there's this other man,
he look like Jesus.
861
00:34:54,977 --> 00:34:56,378
They were cute.
862
00:34:57,012 --> 00:34:59,014
Ooh, you love me?
863
00:34:59,448 --> 00:35:01,550
Oh, he loves me.
864
00:35:01,550 --> 00:35:02,651
Too soon.
865
00:35:05,387 --> 00:35:08,824
Mr. Jonathan was the cutest one
out of the group.
866
00:35:08,824 --> 00:35:10,759
I'm sorry. Just had to say it.
867
00:35:10,759 --> 00:35:13,028
And he thinks I'm sexy.
868
00:35:13,028 --> 00:35:16,832
But he doesn't speak
a lick of [bleep] English.
869
00:35:16,832 --> 00:35:20,536
How am I Puerto Rican and I
don't [bleep] know Spanish?
870
00:35:23,806 --> 00:35:25,474
Here, you try.
871
00:35:25,474 --> 00:35:29,044
So we're having a hard time
communicating with each other.
872
00:35:29,044 --> 00:35:30,746
English to Spanish.
873
00:35:30,746 --> 00:35:33,549
I can't understand anything
Jonathan is saying.
874
00:35:33,549 --> 00:35:36,418
We're literally using
this Google Translate.
875
00:35:36,418 --> 00:35:38,754
I see you in the front,
talking to your man,
876
00:35:38,754 --> 00:35:40,089
making hella conversation.
877
00:35:40,089 --> 00:35:41,357
I see Leah trying
really, really hard,
878
00:35:41,357 --> 00:35:43,726
and then it's just me and him,
dead silent,
879
00:35:43,726 --> 00:35:46,028
passing the phone back,
giggling a little bit,
880
00:35:46,028 --> 00:35:47,496
passing the phone back,
and y'all are like,
881
00:35:47,496 --> 00:35:49,932
"What the [bleep] are you guys
talking about?"
882
00:35:49,932 --> 00:35:51,734
Awkward.
883
00:35:52,801 --> 00:35:54,837
All right, we're all
bringing them to the house.
884
00:35:54,837 --> 00:35:57,439
Next thing I know, we were
all loading up into the van.
885
00:35:57,439 --> 00:35:59,541
And they were coming back
to the house with us.
886
00:36:00,075 --> 00:36:02,044
These men have no idea
887
00:36:02,044 --> 00:36:04,113
what the [bleep]
they're about to walk into
888
00:36:04,113 --> 00:36:05,481
when they come into this house.
889
00:36:05,481 --> 00:36:09,485
I'm just so mad at my mom
for not teaching me Spanish.
890
00:36:10,686 --> 00:36:12,221
♪ Oh, babe, beautiful ♪
891
00:36:12,221 --> 00:36:13,822
♪ Easy on the eyes ♪
892
00:36:13,822 --> 00:36:16,558
[Kiaya] We decided to bring
the party back to the crib,
893
00:36:16,558 --> 00:36:18,527
get in the pool,
and have some more drinks.
894
00:36:18,527 --> 00:36:22,564
[Women screaming]
895
00:36:22,564 --> 00:36:25,834
[Sean] Oh, [bleep].
They did bring dudes.
896
00:36:25,834 --> 00:36:27,469
-Brought some dudes.
-[Sean] Uh-oh.
897
00:36:27,469 --> 00:36:29,305
[Cory] I'm downstairs
in the kitchen
898
00:36:29,305 --> 00:36:31,774
and all I hear
are the three single girls
899
00:36:31,774 --> 00:36:33,275
come back screaming.
900
00:36:33,275 --> 00:36:38,981
[Briana screaming]
901
00:36:39,415 --> 00:36:41,350
And it is gonna be a party.
902
00:36:41,350 --> 00:36:43,385
[Leah] Shots! Shots! Shots!
903
00:36:47,189 --> 00:36:48,657
[Briana] He's so sexy, right?
904
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,061
[Kayla] Oh, my God.
905
00:36:54,297 --> 00:36:56,165
I see these guys
and I'm just like,
906
00:36:56,165 --> 00:36:58,935
"Who are these guys
in our house?"
907
00:36:58,935 --> 00:37:01,904
Get undressed.
Take your sneakers off.
908
00:37:02,138 --> 00:37:04,006
Take your shirt off.
909
00:37:04,006 --> 00:37:07,176
Hey, look at my man.
Isn't he cute?
910
00:37:07,176 --> 00:37:08,845
Who are these muchachos?
911
00:37:08,845 --> 00:37:10,179
Hi, I'm Jade.
912
00:37:10,179 --> 00:37:12,415
I wanted Bri
to go out and have fun.
913
00:37:12,415 --> 00:37:15,051
I think she took the fun
to level 10.
914
00:37:15,051 --> 00:37:18,654
Her little Colombian boy
is so cute.
915
00:37:18,654 --> 00:37:20,122
He's a Colombian Ken doll.
916
00:37:20,122 --> 00:37:21,924
He just doesn't speak
any English.
917
00:37:21,924 --> 00:37:23,159
When you look that good,
918
00:37:23,159 --> 00:37:25,328
do we really have to talk
the same language?
919
00:37:25,328 --> 00:37:28,197
It was nice to meet you guys!
Have fun!
920
00:37:28,698 --> 00:37:32,235
I'm really happy for Bri,
Kiaya, and Leah,
921
00:37:32,235 --> 00:37:34,370
but me and Sean are just too old
for this [bleep].
922
00:37:34,370 --> 00:37:37,106
We are taking our asses upstairs
and going to bed.
923
00:37:39,175 --> 00:37:42,511
Once we got to the house,
that was it for me.
924
00:37:42,511 --> 00:37:44,313
This guy tells me that he's
24 years old.
925
00:37:44,313 --> 00:37:46,382
I'm 31.
No, it didn't work out.
926
00:37:46,382 --> 00:37:48,918
So I feel bad he just left.
927
00:37:48,918 --> 00:37:50,353
And I went to bed.
928
00:37:52,255 --> 00:37:54,190
-[Briana] Come to the pool!
-[Kiaya] Get dressed!
929
00:37:54,190 --> 00:37:55,791
-[Briana] Come to the pool!
-[Kiaya] Get dressed!
930
00:37:55,791 --> 00:37:57,226
[Briana and Kiaya screaming]
931
00:37:57,226 --> 00:38:01,163
All I hear is yelling
and I swear I hear some guys.
932
00:38:03,733 --> 00:38:05,434
I don't know.
933
00:38:05,434 --> 00:38:07,336
But we're gonna find out.
934
00:38:07,336 --> 00:38:09,605
So that means trouble walked in.
935
00:38:11,140 --> 00:38:13,175
[Kayla] What the [bleep]
is going on?
936
00:38:13,175 --> 00:38:14,477
I don't know.
937
00:38:15,878 --> 00:38:19,448
Bri is over there, having
all the chemistry in the world
938
00:38:19,448 --> 00:38:20,850
through Google Translate.
939
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,222
Bri has her phone out
940
00:38:26,222 --> 00:38:28,691
and is just...
941
00:38:36,999 --> 00:38:39,568
Do your thing, girl.
Do your thing.
942
00:38:40,202 --> 00:38:43,072
Oh, my God.
He said he loves me!
943
00:38:43,072 --> 00:38:45,942
[cheers and applause]
944
00:38:45,942 --> 00:38:47,143
Don't get pregnant.
945
00:38:47,143 --> 00:38:49,445
He is gonna
[bleep] my ass tonight.
946
00:38:49,912 --> 00:38:51,681
Bri is about to win tonight.
947
00:38:57,853 --> 00:38:59,588
-[bleep] ass!
-[bleep] ass!
948
00:39:02,458 --> 00:39:04,727
[Briana] Now it's just me
and Kiaya in the pool.
949
00:39:04,727 --> 00:39:08,230
Kiaya, I could tell
she's not 100% feeling her man,
950
00:39:08,230 --> 00:39:10,132
but she's taking one
for the team.
951
00:39:10,132 --> 00:39:11,567
She's enjoying her time.
952
00:39:12,168 --> 00:39:14,103
And we're just vibing.
953
00:39:14,870 --> 00:39:17,006
It's just me and him,
passing the phone back,
954
00:39:17,006 --> 00:39:18,174
giggling a little bit.
955
00:39:18,174 --> 00:39:20,042
He was like,
"I'm going to your room."
956
00:39:20,042 --> 00:39:21,644
And I'm like, "Oh, yes."
957
00:39:23,479 --> 00:39:26,749
You guys are gonna
take these boys to your room?
958
00:39:27,116 --> 00:39:29,518
Maybe, Miss Boring Pants.
959
00:39:29,518 --> 00:39:32,355
This just doesn't sound
like the best idea.
960
00:39:32,355 --> 00:39:35,224
Bri is just ready
to go to Pound Town
961
00:39:35,224 --> 00:39:37,626
and I'm thinking,
"Let's think this through.
962
00:39:37,626 --> 00:39:40,196
Let's ask
for a background check."
963
00:39:40,196 --> 00:39:41,831
We don't know this guy.
964
00:39:41,831 --> 00:39:43,599
Oh, my God.
965
00:39:43,599 --> 00:39:46,102
I'm not drunk enough
to even watch this.
966
00:39:46,102 --> 00:39:48,104
Bri is always gonna do Bri.
967
00:39:48,104 --> 00:39:50,172
We're gonna leave to the room.
968
00:39:50,172 --> 00:39:53,809
I am obsessed with Jonathan
969
00:39:53,809 --> 00:39:55,478
because he's so fine.
970
00:39:55,478 --> 00:39:57,380
[Cory] [indistinct]
971
00:39:57,380 --> 00:39:59,315
Have fun, Bri, be safe,
use a condom.
972
00:39:59,315 --> 00:40:01,751
[Cory] We gonna hear " Culo !"
973
00:40:01,751 --> 00:40:03,886
And we went upstairs.
974
00:40:03,886 --> 00:40:05,287
♪ That's what I want ♪
975
00:40:05,287 --> 00:40:07,523
[sultry pop music]
976
00:40:10,459 --> 00:40:12,194
♪ That's what I want ♪
977
00:40:12,461 --> 00:40:13,929
♪ That's what I want ♪
978
00:40:14,764 --> 00:40:16,232
[Briana] We couldn't
understand each other,
979
00:40:16,232 --> 00:40:18,768
so there wasn't really much
getting to know each other.
980
00:40:18,768 --> 00:40:20,469
I didn't really want
to get to know him.
981
00:40:20,469 --> 00:40:22,671
I just wanted to go upstairs.
982
00:40:23,339 --> 00:40:25,174
♪ I take that flame ♪
983
00:40:25,174 --> 00:40:27,043
♪ Make it go hotter ♪
984
00:40:27,043 --> 00:40:29,211
Oh, you're naked.
985
00:40:31,313 --> 00:40:33,983
-[Man] Wrap it.
-[Woman] Wrap it up, sister!
986
00:40:33,983 --> 00:40:36,452
♪ Ooh, la, la, la la, la, la ♪
987
00:40:36,452 --> 00:40:38,220
♪ Ooh, spicy ♪
988
00:40:38,988 --> 00:40:40,289
[Kiaya] I go upstairs
989
00:40:40,289 --> 00:40:42,925
and as I'm walking
up the stairs, I hear,
990
00:40:42,925 --> 00:40:44,060
"Uh."
991
00:40:44,060 --> 00:40:45,628
No!
992
00:40:45,628 --> 00:40:47,396
[Kiaya] So I go up to the door,
993
00:40:47,396 --> 00:40:48,864
I put my little ear up, I say,
994
00:40:48,864 --> 00:40:51,000
"Oh, okay, yeah,
it's what I thought it was."
995
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,168
"They're [bleep]."
996
00:40:52,168 --> 00:40:53,803
Oh, [bleep]!
997
00:40:53,803 --> 00:40:55,571
[Briana moaning]
998
00:40:59,675 --> 00:41:01,877
[Cory] Wow, they went big
for this.
999
00:41:01,877 --> 00:41:04,413
[Woman] Next time on
Teen Mom: Family Reunion...
1000
00:41:04,413 --> 00:41:06,849
It's time to party
like we in the 2000s, baby.
1001
00:41:06,849 --> 00:41:09,385
We're on the same page.
We're keeping it, right?
1002
00:41:10,620 --> 00:41:13,256
You're getting emotional.
What?
1003
00:41:20,063 --> 00:41:30,340
[music]
1004
00:41:46,890 --> 00:41:48,925
[music]