1 00:00:07,540 --> 00:00:08,708 [lively music] 2 00:00:08,708 --> 00:00:10,143 Hey. 3 00:00:11,444 --> 00:00:13,880 [Woman] Previously on Teen Mom: Family Reunion... 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,083 -Yeah, Mackenzie! -Mackenzie! 5 00:00:17,083 --> 00:00:20,286 I am happily single, but actively looking 6 00:00:20,286 --> 00:00:23,590 and having the best time of my life. 7 00:00:23,590 --> 00:00:25,258 [Woman] Go, Bri! 8 00:00:25,258 --> 00:00:27,660 [Taylor] Jade looks so cute with her veil and her sash. 9 00:00:27,660 --> 00:00:29,229 Maybe someday it'll be me. 10 00:00:29,996 --> 00:00:31,931 We've been together six [bleep] years. 11 00:00:31,931 --> 00:00:34,000 [Jade] Do you feel like you're wasting your time or what? 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,368 Kind of. 13 00:00:35,368 --> 00:00:36,903 [Cheyenne] Do you see yourself getting married? 14 00:00:36,903 --> 00:00:38,204 Eventually, yeah. 15 00:00:38,204 --> 00:00:39,606 That's why I've been with you that long. 16 00:00:39,606 --> 00:00:41,508 I feel like that's not something you want in your life 17 00:00:41,508 --> 00:00:43,610 and I feel like I'm fighting that battle. 18 00:00:46,112 --> 00:00:47,547 [theme music] 19 00:00:47,547 --> 00:00:48,815 ♪ Here we go ♪ 20 00:00:48,815 --> 00:00:50,583 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 21 00:00:50,583 --> 00:00:52,152 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 22 00:00:52,152 --> 00:00:53,753 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 23 00:00:53,753 --> 00:00:55,622 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 24 00:01:01,227 --> 00:01:02,896 [Briana] She wants to be married, 25 00:01:02,896 --> 00:01:04,097 she wants the ring, 26 00:01:04,097 --> 00:01:06,566 she wants to say, "This is my husband." 27 00:01:06,966 --> 00:01:08,334 [Cory] When the time is right, 28 00:01:08,334 --> 00:01:09,769 the time is gonna be right. 29 00:01:09,769 --> 00:01:13,139 And I'm not gonna let the world dictate when I feel like 30 00:01:13,139 --> 00:01:15,408 I wanna get married to my wife. 31 00:01:15,408 --> 00:01:18,278 I feel like I have to defend him all the time. 32 00:01:19,212 --> 00:01:20,413 [Cheyenne] Tay, don't. 33 00:01:20,413 --> 00:01:22,449 Hey, no, no, no, don't leave, don't leave. 34 00:01:26,953 --> 00:01:28,788 Go get her. Go. 35 00:01:29,522 --> 00:01:32,725 I'm trying to have a good night, get lit. 36 00:01:33,126 --> 00:01:34,561 I'm used to this at this point. 37 00:01:34,561 --> 00:01:37,363 We've had a lot of these same conversations already. 38 00:01:37,363 --> 00:01:40,967 So I'm just mad that we had such a great night 39 00:01:40,967 --> 00:01:43,236 and now it has to end like this. 40 00:01:44,571 --> 00:01:45,939 Babe. 41 00:01:45,939 --> 00:01:47,807 [knocking on door] 42 00:01:47,807 --> 00:01:49,175 [door opening] 43 00:01:49,175 --> 00:01:50,577 What's up? 44 00:01:50,577 --> 00:01:51,978 [Taylor] I don't want to talk right now. 45 00:01:51,978 --> 00:01:53,313 [Cory] Why are you irritated? 46 00:01:53,313 --> 00:01:55,682 She's trying to speak her piece... 47 00:02:01,187 --> 00:02:02,589 It's just uncomfortable for us 48 00:02:02,589 --> 00:02:04,624 because it's like we have to... 49 00:02:05,358 --> 00:02:09,395 Because Zach and I co-parent with Cory and Taylor, 50 00:02:09,395 --> 00:02:13,099 we don't wanna put our opinions in their relationship. 51 00:02:13,099 --> 00:02:14,367 We can speak our piece, 52 00:02:14,367 --> 00:02:16,569 but we also need to shut the [bleep] up. 53 00:02:17,303 --> 00:02:19,572 Ooh! Cory and Taylor. 54 00:02:19,572 --> 00:02:23,343 It is such a touchy subject when it comes to proposing. 55 00:02:23,343 --> 00:02:25,378 [Cory] Where did this go left? 56 00:02:33,453 --> 00:02:35,288 [Cory] Babe, I am committed to you. 57 00:02:35,288 --> 00:02:36,356 [Taylor] Bull[bleep]. 58 00:02:36,356 --> 00:02:37,857 Maybe it's the alcohol talking, 59 00:02:37,857 --> 00:02:40,293 but I'm dropping some truth bombs on Cory right now. 60 00:02:40,293 --> 00:02:42,228 And it feels great. 61 00:02:44,130 --> 00:02:46,833 [Cory] It's not. I don't have five years. 62 00:02:47,300 --> 00:02:49,736 [Taylor] I don't have five years, I don't! 63 00:02:50,136 --> 00:02:52,805 Zach and I are sitting right outside 64 00:02:52,805 --> 00:02:54,007 Cory and Taylor's room. 65 00:02:54,007 --> 00:02:56,342 We can hear everything, and it is not pretty. 66 00:02:56,342 --> 00:02:59,546 Cory's never spoke on our relationship, 67 00:02:59,546 --> 00:03:01,014 how he feels about our relationship. 68 00:03:01,014 --> 00:03:02,582 He's always left it alone, 69 00:03:02,582 --> 00:03:05,485 and I feel like we just put our [bleep] foot in our mouth, 70 00:03:05,485 --> 00:03:07,387 speaking on theirs. 71 00:03:07,387 --> 00:03:08,621 That is awkward. 72 00:03:08,621 --> 00:03:10,557 They're right across the [bleep] hall. 73 00:03:19,866 --> 00:03:21,334 [Taylor] Oh, [bleep] a promise ring. 74 00:03:21,334 --> 00:03:22,502 What am I, 16? 75 00:03:22,502 --> 00:03:23,770 If he gives me a promise ring, 76 00:03:23,770 --> 00:03:26,539 I promise to throw it in the garbage. 77 00:03:27,407 --> 00:03:29,342 [Cory] What can I give you to show you... 78 00:03:31,911 --> 00:03:34,180 There is nothing more that needs to be said 79 00:03:34,180 --> 00:03:35,648 when it comes to the marriage thing. 80 00:03:35,648 --> 00:03:38,785 I'm gonna do it when I feel like I'm ready to do it. 81 00:03:38,785 --> 00:03:40,253 And it sucks 82 00:03:40,253 --> 00:03:42,121 because nobody else can control that. 83 00:03:42,121 --> 00:03:43,690 I think that Taylor is finally... 84 00:03:43,690 --> 00:03:45,592 -Voicing herself. -[Cheyenne] Voicing herself. 85 00:03:45,592 --> 00:03:47,694 She sees everybody else making [bleep] work. 86 00:03:47,694 --> 00:03:50,930 As she [bleep] should. Find your [bleep] voice. 87 00:03:57,537 --> 00:03:59,606 [Cory] Babe, I'm in love with you. 88 00:03:59,606 --> 00:04:02,475 You're the one that hasn't expressed that to me. 89 00:04:02,475 --> 00:04:04,844 [Taylor] I feel like I always do and... 90 00:04:04,844 --> 00:04:06,379 [Cory] You don't! 91 00:04:11,417 --> 00:04:13,987 [Taylor] Well, I don't [bleep] care anymore. 92 00:04:19,525 --> 00:04:21,828 ♪ Will you give it to me? ♪ 93 00:04:21,828 --> 00:04:23,596 ♪ I want it ♪ 94 00:04:28,868 --> 00:04:30,970 [Tyler] I really like today's Word of the Day. 95 00:04:30,970 --> 00:04:33,272 Me gusta. Get it? 96 00:04:33,272 --> 00:04:35,642 'Cause "I like it." That's what it means. 97 00:04:43,082 --> 00:04:44,550 What do you want? 98 00:04:44,550 --> 00:04:46,386 I don't... I just want some coffee. 99 00:04:46,386 --> 00:04:48,488 Me gusta my lovely wife, 100 00:04:48,488 --> 00:04:50,657 who's not really a morning person. 101 00:04:59,298 --> 00:05:00,000 [Cate] Morning. 102 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:00,433 [Cate] Morning. 103 00:05:00,433 --> 00:05:01,668 [Sean] Sleep all right? 104 00:05:01,668 --> 00:05:03,069 -[Cate] How was last night? -[Sean] Fun. 105 00:05:03,069 --> 00:05:04,504 -Oh, was it? -[Sean] Oh, yeah. 106 00:05:10,576 --> 00:05:11,744 [Sean] It was fun as [bleep]. 107 00:05:12,311 --> 00:05:15,014 I knew everyone was gonna be happy if they saw some titties. 108 00:05:16,182 --> 00:05:17,450 Is that what it was? Wasn't it? 109 00:05:17,450 --> 00:05:20,420 No, it was like a music video. 110 00:05:20,753 --> 00:05:22,488 It was like a music video? 111 00:05:22,488 --> 00:05:23,723 Wait, I thought it was performers. 112 00:05:23,723 --> 00:05:25,391 -Like titty... -Burlesque. 113 00:05:25,391 --> 00:05:27,727 Yeah, but they weren't exposing anything. 114 00:05:27,727 --> 00:05:29,896 Yeah, burlesque, they don't get fully naked. 115 00:05:29,896 --> 00:05:30,763 Yeah. 116 00:05:30,763 --> 00:05:32,131 [Tyler] They saw no titties. 117 00:05:32,131 --> 00:05:34,267 Hell, no, I did not freaking miss out on anything. 118 00:05:34,267 --> 00:05:35,968 I love that bed. 119 00:05:35,968 --> 00:05:37,103 I love my night time. 120 00:05:37,103 --> 00:05:38,404 [Sean] Two guys came out. 121 00:05:38,404 --> 00:05:40,239 They called Mackenzie up on stage at first. 122 00:05:40,239 --> 00:05:41,541 Oh. 123 00:05:41,541 --> 00:05:43,543 [Sean] And she [bleep] ran up there, 124 00:05:43,543 --> 00:05:45,978 and then they all did a performance. 125 00:05:51,217 --> 00:05:53,052 That's my baby! 126 00:05:54,353 --> 00:05:56,456 No, it was awesome. I had a blast. 127 00:05:56,456 --> 00:05:58,091 That was probably the funnest night 128 00:05:58,091 --> 00:05:59,492 of Cartagena so far. 129 00:05:59,492 --> 00:06:01,394 [Tyler] Good, I'm glad I missed it. 130 00:06:05,064 --> 00:06:08,067 Oh, my God. [indistinct] [bleep] Cory and Taylor. 131 00:06:08,067 --> 00:06:09,435 What happened? 132 00:06:09,435 --> 00:06:10,703 [Kiaya] What happened was we were all down here 133 00:06:10,703 --> 00:06:13,172 where we were all just drunk talking. 134 00:06:13,673 --> 00:06:15,441 I personally felt like that was a conversation 135 00:06:15,441 --> 00:06:17,543 that Cory and Taylor should've had 136 00:06:17,543 --> 00:06:18,811 in the private of them. 137 00:06:18,811 --> 00:06:20,313 Because they talking about marriage 138 00:06:20,313 --> 00:06:22,014 and everybody throwing in their opinions. 139 00:06:22,014 --> 00:06:23,549 That's a lot of pressure 140 00:06:23,549 --> 00:06:25,084 on a man and on a female. 141 00:06:25,084 --> 00:06:27,620 On the female because it's like, "Okay, what's taking so long?" 142 00:06:27,620 --> 00:06:29,555 On the man perspective, it's like, "Okay, don't rush me." 143 00:06:29,555 --> 00:06:31,858 I'm Team Cory and Team Taylor. 144 00:06:31,858 --> 00:06:33,926 I want Cory and Taylor to both do 145 00:06:33,926 --> 00:06:38,164 whatever they individually feel like is the best step for them. 146 00:06:38,164 --> 00:06:40,533 The way she said what she said 147 00:06:40,533 --> 00:06:43,936 sounded like she needed to get that off her chest. 148 00:06:43,936 --> 00:06:45,037 What did she say? 149 00:06:45,037 --> 00:06:46,139 She feels like it's time 150 00:06:46,139 --> 00:06:47,573 'cause it's been six years. 151 00:06:47,573 --> 00:06:49,709 We've been together six [bleep] years. 152 00:06:49,709 --> 00:06:52,545 I just feel like it's taking too long for me. 153 00:06:52,545 --> 00:06:54,881 And at this point, I'm like, "All right, [bleep] it." 154 00:06:54,881 --> 00:06:56,916 Okay, but I understand that. I understand. 155 00:06:56,916 --> 00:06:59,919 But would you want someone to do it because they felt... 156 00:06:59,919 --> 00:07:01,420 -No. No. -Do you know what I'm saying? 157 00:07:01,420 --> 00:07:03,790 I don't want you obligated. 158 00:07:03,790 --> 00:07:05,691 I don't want you obligated to marry my ass. 159 00:07:05,691 --> 00:07:06,859 No, no, but she feels that way. 160 00:07:06,859 --> 00:07:08,694 Six years is a long [bleep] time. 161 00:07:08,694 --> 00:07:10,563 [Briana] She says, "What else do I have to do? 162 00:07:10,563 --> 00:07:11,898 I'm checking all these boxes." 163 00:07:11,898 --> 00:07:13,699 There's nothing she can or shouldn't do it. 164 00:07:13,699 --> 00:07:15,401 It's Cory. If Cory's not ready, 165 00:07:15,401 --> 00:07:16,836 he's not ready. 166 00:07:16,836 --> 00:07:18,638 I empathize with Cory a lot with this whole thing 167 00:07:18,638 --> 00:07:21,541 because I was in a very similar situation with Cate 168 00:07:21,541 --> 00:07:23,910 and I postponed our wedding 'cause I wasn't ready. 169 00:07:23,910 --> 00:07:25,411 You don't think you wanna be with me 170 00:07:25,411 --> 00:07:26,612 for the rest of your life? 171 00:07:26,612 --> 00:07:28,514 I don't know. I have a lot of stuff... 172 00:07:28,514 --> 00:07:30,082 [Cate] If you don't wanna be with me 173 00:07:30,082 --> 00:07:32,151 for the rest of your life, then you need to figure that out. 174 00:07:32,151 --> 00:07:33,753 We waited and it turned out 175 00:07:33,753 --> 00:07:35,621 to be the best decision for both of us 176 00:07:35,621 --> 00:07:37,590 because we're together still to this day, 177 00:07:37,590 --> 00:07:38,891 17 years later. 178 00:07:38,891 --> 00:07:41,427 So kudos to Cory for following his gut 179 00:07:41,427 --> 00:07:42,662 and listening to himself. 180 00:07:43,029 --> 00:07:44,697 Marriage isn't a gift you give somebody. 181 00:07:44,697 --> 00:07:46,599 for being loyal for so many years. 182 00:07:47,567 --> 00:07:48,901 That's not how it works. 183 00:07:48,901 --> 00:07:50,469 It's a lot of pressure for a piece of paper, 184 00:07:50,469 --> 00:07:51,671 -in my opinion. -Yeah. 185 00:07:55,741 --> 00:07:57,210 Baywatch coming through. 186 00:07:57,476 --> 00:07:59,111 You look like a lifeguard. 187 00:07:59,111 --> 00:08:01,113 Oh, a lifeguard, dang! 188 00:08:01,113 --> 00:08:02,782 Slow-motion, Tay. 189 00:08:02,782 --> 00:08:04,684 Tay, you gotta go hold the red thing 190 00:08:04,684 --> 00:08:06,686 that's out there on the beach and take a pic. 191 00:08:08,087 --> 00:08:09,522 [Michaiah] People! 192 00:08:09,889 --> 00:08:12,325 [Man] Michaiah's in the house. 193 00:08:12,325 --> 00:08:14,327 What's going on? 194 00:08:14,727 --> 00:08:16,462 [Cory] I need some help right now, 195 00:08:16,462 --> 00:08:18,097 so I called Michaiah. 196 00:08:18,097 --> 00:08:19,265 I need a session. 197 00:08:19,265 --> 00:08:20,633 So I can get to the bottom 198 00:08:20,633 --> 00:08:23,736 of why I can't make that commitment with Taylor. 199 00:08:23,736 --> 00:08:25,504 Cory, I'm here for you. 200 00:08:25,504 --> 00:08:27,840 Wish me luck, man, wish me luck. 201 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,209 Glad you're hyped up. We got some work to do. 202 00:08:30,610 --> 00:08:32,478 [Cory] I'm just gonna grab a shirt 203 00:08:32,478 --> 00:08:33,946 and I'll be right out. 204 00:08:33,946 --> 00:08:35,948 Hopefully, when she sits down with him, 205 00:08:35,948 --> 00:08:37,950 she'll talk some sense into him. 206 00:08:41,087 --> 00:08:42,521 All right, thank you. 207 00:08:42,521 --> 00:08:44,757 This is the most important session 208 00:08:44,757 --> 00:08:46,125 that I've had here yet. 209 00:08:46,125 --> 00:08:47,927 I just wanna be open and honest with her 210 00:08:47,927 --> 00:08:50,596 so then Michaiah has everything that she needs 211 00:08:50,596 --> 00:08:52,765 to help me out along this journey. 212 00:08:52,765 --> 00:08:54,767 How are you doing? 213 00:08:55,334 --> 00:08:56,469 Doing good. 214 00:08:56,469 --> 00:08:58,137 Last night we had some fun. 215 00:08:58,137 --> 00:08:59,772 We all got to go out. 216 00:08:59,772 --> 00:09:02,241 But at the end of the night, things took a turn. 217 00:09:02,241 --> 00:09:03,376 What did that look like? 218 00:09:03,376 --> 00:09:05,311 [Cory] It's just me back on the hot seat. 219 00:09:05,778 --> 00:09:08,114 Are we gonna get married or are we not gonna get married? 220 00:09:09,048 --> 00:09:11,450 I feel bad 'cause it's something I want. 221 00:09:11,450 --> 00:09:13,486 I already know where I wanna do it, 222 00:09:13,486 --> 00:09:15,688 how I wanna do it. It's all in my mind. 223 00:09:15,688 --> 00:09:17,390 I don't know if she believes that 224 00:09:17,390 --> 00:09:18,357 when I tell her that. 225 00:09:18,791 --> 00:09:21,193 But the fear seems to be one of the barriers 226 00:09:21,193 --> 00:09:23,262 that's keeping you from getting there. 227 00:09:23,262 --> 00:09:27,266 I wanna know what the fear's attached to, specifically. 228 00:09:29,602 --> 00:09:31,070 [Cory] It's scary 'cause it's like 229 00:09:31,070 --> 00:09:34,440 I'm with that person for the rest of my life. 230 00:09:35,174 --> 00:09:37,710 I've never been around a successful marriage. 231 00:09:37,710 --> 00:09:41,113 Just watching my mom go through her struggles 232 00:09:41,113 --> 00:09:42,315 with my stepdad. 233 00:09:42,315 --> 00:09:45,551 And then my dad, he has five baby mommas, right? 234 00:09:45,551 --> 00:09:46,819 I come from some [bleep]. 235 00:09:46,819 --> 00:09:48,054 Is it still with you? 236 00:09:48,054 --> 00:09:49,155 Is it something you're still holding? 237 00:09:49,155 --> 00:09:51,757 A big reason why I'm the dad that I am 238 00:09:51,757 --> 00:09:53,259 is 'cause my dad was locked up. 239 00:09:53,259 --> 00:09:55,995 So I didn't have a father figure growing up. 240 00:09:55,995 --> 00:09:58,064 So... [exhaling stressfully] 241 00:10:01,634 --> 00:10:03,769 And I feel like there's definitely, 242 00:10:03,769 --> 00:10:05,738 I hold some sort of pain. 243 00:10:05,738 --> 00:10:07,673 Obviously, that's why I'm crying. 244 00:10:11,978 --> 00:10:14,046 You haven't seen a successful marriage. 245 00:10:14,046 --> 00:10:15,181 Right. 246 00:10:15,181 --> 00:10:16,816 But that same vision that you were able 247 00:10:16,816 --> 00:10:18,484 to create for yourself to step into 248 00:10:18,484 --> 00:10:20,419 a successful role as Dad 249 00:10:20,419 --> 00:10:22,154 is the same vision 250 00:10:22,154 --> 00:10:25,191 that you can use once you refocus some attention there. 251 00:10:25,191 --> 00:10:28,094 So this is where the rubber meets the road. 252 00:10:28,094 --> 00:10:30,463 You have your own vision of when you wanna do it, 253 00:10:30,463 --> 00:10:31,797 how you wanna do it, 254 00:10:31,797 --> 00:10:33,599 when you feel that you'll be ready, 255 00:10:33,599 --> 00:10:35,201 but if I were Taylor, 256 00:10:35,201 --> 00:10:37,703 but I would probably be really confused. 257 00:10:37,703 --> 00:10:39,171 [Cory] Mm-hmm. 258 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,875 But I think the biggest thing is 259 00:10:42,875 --> 00:10:45,745 I'm not being loved the way that I wanna be loved. 260 00:10:48,114 --> 00:10:50,683 If you're not loved the way you want to be loved, 261 00:10:50,683 --> 00:10:52,651 how can we get it there? 262 00:10:53,919 --> 00:10:55,554 [Cory] The quality time, 263 00:10:55,554 --> 00:10:57,189 I think we need to find a babysitter 264 00:10:57,189 --> 00:10:58,290 to watch the girls 265 00:10:58,290 --> 00:11:00,526 so we can have that fun. 266 00:11:00,526 --> 00:11:01,927 'Cause I... Okay, there it is. 267 00:11:01,927 --> 00:11:03,062 There it is. Okay. 268 00:11:03,062 --> 00:11:04,230 One of my love language is fun. 269 00:11:04,230 --> 00:11:06,098 So you want that childhood wonder, 270 00:11:06,098 --> 00:11:07,867 -that adventure together. -[Cory] Yes! Yes! 271 00:11:07,867 --> 00:11:11,837 I wanna feel love and puppy love again. 272 00:11:11,837 --> 00:11:14,673 And we're just stuck in this cycle 273 00:11:14,673 --> 00:11:17,109 of great teammates, great teammates, 274 00:11:17,109 --> 00:11:19,779 doing a great job parenting. Teammates. "Yeah! High-five!" 275 00:11:19,779 --> 00:11:22,481 If marriage is gonna be like this, 276 00:11:22,481 --> 00:11:24,050 do I want it? 277 00:11:28,170 --> 00:11:30,239 [Cory] We're just stuck in this cycle. 278 00:11:30,239 --> 00:11:32,441 If marriage is gonna be like this, 279 00:11:32,441 --> 00:11:33,976 do I want it? 280 00:11:35,711 --> 00:11:37,113 [Michaiah] Some of the fear 281 00:11:37,113 --> 00:11:40,082 about stepping into the commitment of marriage 282 00:11:40,082 --> 00:11:43,386 is because, "If this is going to be what marriage is like, 283 00:11:43,386 --> 00:11:45,121 "I can't say yes to this. 284 00:11:45,121 --> 00:11:47,356 "If we get married, can you guarantee 285 00:11:47,356 --> 00:11:49,792 "that these things will actually be fixed? 286 00:11:49,792 --> 00:11:51,794 "And if you can't show me that, 287 00:11:51,794 --> 00:11:53,929 I can't do that marriage beef..." 288 00:11:54,463 --> 00:11:56,565 Is that what I'm hearing? Okay. 289 00:11:56,565 --> 00:11:58,267 Okay, we're getting somewhere. 290 00:11:58,267 --> 00:11:59,669 We're getting somewhere. 291 00:11:59,669 --> 00:12:01,003 [Michaiah] We're getting somewhere. 292 00:12:01,003 --> 00:12:04,306 So I'm glad I hit the nail on the head with this. 293 00:12:04,306 --> 00:12:07,410 Oh, it feels good. I feel like I'm being heard. 294 00:12:07,410 --> 00:12:08,577 You're understanding and just... 295 00:12:08,577 --> 00:12:09,679 Okay. 296 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,380 Once I see her dive into herself 297 00:12:11,380 --> 00:12:13,916 a little bit more and rediscover who she is 298 00:12:13,916 --> 00:12:15,251 and things, I just think 299 00:12:15,251 --> 00:12:17,720 it's gonna help all those other issues. 300 00:12:18,754 --> 00:12:20,489 I can understand completely 301 00:12:20,489 --> 00:12:22,658 that you would want to wait to see that happen. 302 00:12:22,658 --> 00:12:25,161 But part of the safety in marriage 303 00:12:25,161 --> 00:12:27,763 is knowing that I don't have to be perfect 304 00:12:27,763 --> 00:12:29,832 because when you make that commitment 305 00:12:29,832 --> 00:12:32,768 down on your knee to say, "I'm in it with you," 306 00:12:32,768 --> 00:12:35,738 that it gives her the freedom and the permission 307 00:12:35,738 --> 00:12:39,008 to blossom over and over and over again. 308 00:12:39,008 --> 00:12:41,510 If it's conditional, 309 00:12:41,510 --> 00:12:43,679 that type of condition is scary. 310 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:44,847 Okay. 311 00:12:44,847 --> 00:12:46,182 So let's do real talk, right? 312 00:12:46,182 --> 00:12:49,051 This is not a problem that just you and her have. 313 00:12:49,051 --> 00:12:51,721 This is something very common with new parents. 314 00:12:51,721 --> 00:12:53,389 It's not always going to be fun. 315 00:12:53,389 --> 00:12:56,025 You're making a commitment that, even when it's dry, 316 00:12:56,025 --> 00:12:58,027 boring, the same day over and over again, 317 00:12:58,027 --> 00:13:00,329 you may have to look at that differently 318 00:13:00,329 --> 00:13:03,232 as not being something that's scary or boring. 319 00:13:03,232 --> 00:13:08,304 It's something that is a part of the safety of marriage. 320 00:13:08,304 --> 00:13:09,905 Fun looks different 321 00:13:09,905 --> 00:13:13,109 as you settle into the peace of marriage. 322 00:13:13,576 --> 00:13:14,810 Hard question, 323 00:13:14,810 --> 00:13:16,979 what if this is her line in the sand? 324 00:13:16,979 --> 00:13:19,882 If she's like, "Look, I told you what I need." 325 00:13:19,882 --> 00:13:21,717 -Yeah. Right. -"I need a ring. 326 00:13:21,717 --> 00:13:23,753 And if you don't, I'm done." 327 00:13:24,386 --> 00:13:27,523 Right away, I think about my kids. 328 00:13:27,523 --> 00:13:28,891 I don't want that. 329 00:13:28,891 --> 00:13:30,526 And I don't wanna see that for you. 330 00:13:30,526 --> 00:13:34,930 But I can see that she's approaching that point. 331 00:13:35,197 --> 00:13:36,298 Yes. 332 00:13:36,999 --> 00:13:38,467 The pressure is on. 333 00:13:38,467 --> 00:13:39,969 I've gotta do more. 334 00:13:39,969 --> 00:13:41,403 You're at the deciding point. 335 00:13:41,403 --> 00:13:44,473 "Either we do this thing and I commit to you forever 336 00:13:44,473 --> 00:13:46,342 or we go our separate ways." 337 00:13:49,044 --> 00:13:50,913 That's a lot to think about. 338 00:13:51,914 --> 00:13:53,315 I'm tired for you. 339 00:13:53,315 --> 00:13:54,717 I'm glad... 340 00:13:54,717 --> 00:13:56,819 I'm not jealous of this position. 341 00:13:57,219 --> 00:13:59,455 This was an eye-opening session for me. 342 00:13:59,455 --> 00:14:03,058 In a marriage, you're not always gonna be fully satisfied. 343 00:14:03,058 --> 00:14:04,727 You're gonna have your bad days. 344 00:14:04,727 --> 00:14:06,529 It's not always gonna be perfect. 345 00:14:06,529 --> 00:14:08,230 I wanna marry Taylor, I do, 346 00:14:08,230 --> 00:14:10,466 and I have the roadmap now. 347 00:14:10,866 --> 00:14:12,234 I got you. 348 00:14:12,234 --> 00:14:13,869 Thank you. Okay. 349 00:14:15,337 --> 00:14:16,338 [party music] 350 00:14:16,338 --> 00:14:17,973 ♪ Put your drinks in the air ♪ 351 00:14:17,973 --> 00:14:20,142 ♪ Won't you toast it to me ♪ 352 00:14:20,943 --> 00:14:22,778 [Kiaya] We gotta get away from the couples. 353 00:14:22,778 --> 00:14:24,747 ♪ Let's go crazy ♪ 354 00:14:24,747 --> 00:14:26,348 Let's go, let's do something. 355 00:14:26,348 --> 00:14:28,117 Us three, please? 356 00:14:28,751 --> 00:14:30,452 Can we go somewhere, do something? 357 00:14:30,452 --> 00:14:33,656 I knew, coming down here, it would mostly be couples. 358 00:14:33,656 --> 00:14:34,990 And that's cool. 359 00:14:34,990 --> 00:14:36,392 But us single girls 360 00:14:36,392 --> 00:14:39,161 need a night on the town, no couples allowed. 361 00:14:39,161 --> 00:14:42,264 We should go out and maybe get thrusted on again. 362 00:14:45,034 --> 00:14:47,736 -Yes, yes. Yes. -Maybe so. 363 00:14:47,736 --> 00:14:49,672 Single girls night in Cartagena, 364 00:14:49,672 --> 00:14:51,040 I'm definitely in 365 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,008 'cause you never know what's gonna happen. 366 00:14:53,008 --> 00:14:54,410 I'm down. You down, you down, you down? 367 00:14:54,410 --> 00:14:56,011 So it's like we're gonna go to the bar. 368 00:14:56,011 --> 00:14:57,446 But that first night [bleep] me up. 369 00:14:57,746 --> 00:14:59,281 Shots, all of us. 370 00:14:59,281 --> 00:15:01,317 [Leah] I need just a fun night out, 371 00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:03,319 but I don't wanna drink like that ever again. 372 00:15:04,220 --> 00:15:05,454 Fire. 373 00:15:05,454 --> 00:15:11,193 [funky mid-tempo music] 374 00:15:12,094 --> 00:15:15,764 [Cory] Oh. Just the lady I wanted to see. 375 00:15:15,764 --> 00:15:16,765 [Taylor] How was it? 376 00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:20,302 [Cory] It was just more about the marriage thing. 377 00:15:25,808 --> 00:15:28,711 Let it out. Let a good cry out. 378 00:15:28,711 --> 00:15:29,879 [Taylor sniffling] 379 00:15:29,879 --> 00:15:31,714 I know this is hard for you. 380 00:15:32,248 --> 00:15:33,782 [Taylor] I'm strained. 381 00:15:33,782 --> 00:15:35,251 [Cory] I get it. 382 00:15:35,751 --> 00:15:37,519 Boo-hoo cry all you want. 383 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,456 I just got done boo-hoo crying up there. 384 00:15:41,457 --> 00:15:43,259 You were gone forever. 385 00:15:43,259 --> 00:15:45,227 Well, I had a good session. 386 00:15:45,227 --> 00:15:46,896 I've learned a lot from Michaiah. 387 00:15:46,896 --> 00:15:49,398 And I'm ready to put these things into action. 388 00:15:49,665 --> 00:15:51,133 I love Taylor to death. 389 00:15:51,133 --> 00:15:53,969 And I love our family. And I love our life. 390 00:15:53,969 --> 00:15:56,238 And I know we can work through this 391 00:15:56,238 --> 00:15:58,007 and have that happy ending. 392 00:15:58,007 --> 00:16:00,142 One of the things she said that I really liked 393 00:16:00,142 --> 00:16:02,778 was just like how I'm waiting for it 394 00:16:02,778 --> 00:16:04,546 to be perfect to do it, 395 00:16:04,546 --> 00:16:07,182 but you're gonna go through your ups and downs 396 00:16:07,182 --> 00:16:08,217 when you're married anyways. 397 00:16:08,217 --> 00:16:09,451 [Taylor] Does make sense. 398 00:16:09,451 --> 00:16:11,487 You wait for things to be perfect, 399 00:16:11,487 --> 00:16:12,855 but nothing's perfect. 400 00:16:12,855 --> 00:16:15,524 I know, and I have this perfect ideal 401 00:16:15,524 --> 00:16:18,060 of marriage, and it's gotta be perfect, 402 00:16:18,060 --> 00:16:19,895 and my fear of it, 403 00:16:19,895 --> 00:16:22,097 and just this and that. 404 00:16:22,998 --> 00:16:24,500 And it's a lot. 405 00:16:25,267 --> 00:16:27,000 It sounds like he's made progress 406 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:27,002 It sounds like he's made progress 407 00:16:27,002 --> 00:16:28,671 with Michaiah. 408 00:16:28,671 --> 00:16:30,539 [Cory] We got this, okay? 409 00:16:30,973 --> 00:16:32,908 -And I love you. -[Taylor] I love you too. 410 00:16:32,908 --> 00:16:34,443 We been through a lot. 411 00:16:34,443 --> 00:16:37,813 So I'm hoping that the next step is coming soon. 412 00:16:37,813 --> 00:16:39,248 It's about time. 413 00:16:44,820 --> 00:16:46,989 Guys, look at Khes's shoulder. 414 00:16:46,989 --> 00:16:49,491 Dude, yo. No, on your shoulder. 415 00:16:49,491 --> 00:16:50,693 It just fell. 416 00:16:54,430 --> 00:16:56,131 [Jade] I thought it was a [bleep] lizard. 417 00:16:56,131 --> 00:16:57,666 I was so excited. 418 00:16:57,666 --> 00:16:59,568 [Mackenzie] Let me see if I can find a picture of Gannon 419 00:16:59,568 --> 00:17:01,570 having lizards hanging from his nipples. 420 00:17:02,838 --> 00:17:04,373 -Yeah, 'cause they bite. -They bite. 421 00:17:04,373 --> 00:17:06,976 [Tyler] Like Ryan, he [bleep] bruised me. 422 00:17:06,976 --> 00:17:08,444 -Look at it. -[Cate] Who? 423 00:17:08,777 --> 00:17:10,145 Ryan. 424 00:17:10,145 --> 00:17:11,313 Why, what'd he do? 425 00:17:11,313 --> 00:17:12,414 He just keeps grabbing my nipples. 426 00:17:12,414 --> 00:17:14,249 Ryan comes around all the time 427 00:17:14,249 --> 00:17:17,186 and randomly will grab nipples and squeeze them, hard. 428 00:17:17,186 --> 00:17:18,620 And stares at you. 429 00:17:20,055 --> 00:17:21,790 It's [bleep] weird. 430 00:17:21,790 --> 00:17:23,325 Dude! It's not just me! 431 00:17:24,059 --> 00:17:26,128 Dude, why are you always targeting my nipples, bro? 432 00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:27,830 That's a little sus, if you ask me. 433 00:17:27,830 --> 00:17:29,098 He's always grabbing my nips. 434 00:17:29,098 --> 00:17:31,100 It's scary to me because mine are super soft 435 00:17:31,100 --> 00:17:32,167 when he touches mine. 436 00:17:32,167 --> 00:17:33,369 No, mine is hard. 437 00:17:35,938 --> 00:17:38,273 Like he wants to hurt me, and he did. 438 00:17:38,273 --> 00:17:40,876 If Ryan paid half as much attention 439 00:17:40,876 --> 00:17:42,644 to his girl than he does our nipples, 440 00:17:42,644 --> 00:17:46,315 he wouldn't have this many relationship problems. 441 00:17:46,315 --> 00:17:48,784 -No man touch these boys. -[group laughing] 442 00:17:48,784 --> 00:17:50,119 No man! 443 00:17:53,589 --> 00:17:55,591 No, no, no. Five, you can't go on the five. 444 00:17:55,591 --> 00:17:56,959 You can't do doubles. 445 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,061 [Mike] How's it going? 446 00:17:59,361 --> 00:18:00,629 Hey. 447 00:18:00,629 --> 00:18:04,099 All right. We are gonna have a workshop upstairs. 448 00:18:04,099 --> 00:18:05,234 Everybody ready? 449 00:18:05,234 --> 00:18:07,036 -Yeah! -Let's go. 450 00:18:07,036 --> 00:18:09,271 [Briana] This is my first workshop. 451 00:18:09,271 --> 00:18:11,240 This is why I'm here. 452 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,641 I've been through many relationships 453 00:18:12,641 --> 00:18:14,476 and they all have been very [bleep]ty. 454 00:18:14,476 --> 00:18:17,012 So, hopefully, I will get the right tools 455 00:18:17,012 --> 00:18:18,447 to make better choices. 456 00:18:18,447 --> 00:18:20,582 [Mike] Everybody, come on in. Have a seat. 457 00:18:23,052 --> 00:18:25,788 I see a tree and then there's planters. 458 00:18:25,788 --> 00:18:29,358 There's paper cutouts that look like apples and oranges. 459 00:18:29,358 --> 00:18:31,527 The hell do you got planned for us, Dr. Mike? 460 00:18:32,461 --> 00:18:36,231 This [bleep] honestly looks like a literal children's workshop. 461 00:18:36,999 --> 00:18:39,268 He do know the kids ain't here, right? 462 00:18:39,868 --> 00:18:41,770 [Mike] Okay, so all here. 463 00:18:41,770 --> 00:18:43,172 What we're gonna be doing today, 464 00:18:43,172 --> 00:18:46,175 I've designed a workshop that can benefit all of you. 465 00:18:46,175 --> 00:18:47,709 Sometimes, we don't recognize 466 00:18:47,709 --> 00:18:50,079 that the things that we have been through in our lives 467 00:18:50,079 --> 00:18:52,514 have an effect on our relationships, 468 00:18:52,514 --> 00:18:54,216 whether it's our fear of commitment 469 00:18:54,216 --> 00:18:56,418 or fear of abandonment or our anxiety, 470 00:18:56,418 --> 00:18:59,088 how all of those things are related. 471 00:18:59,822 --> 00:19:01,356 This is the trauma tree. 472 00:19:01,857 --> 00:19:05,194 The roots of this tree represent your childhood trauma 473 00:19:05,194 --> 00:19:08,363 and the fruit represents your current behavior 474 00:19:08,363 --> 00:19:09,965 that you want to improve on. 475 00:19:10,566 --> 00:19:14,503 I want you to write the one word or the one phrase 476 00:19:14,503 --> 00:19:17,239 that you wanna work on in your relationship 477 00:19:17,239 --> 00:19:19,408 or your future relationships. 478 00:19:20,042 --> 00:19:22,611 What is the thing above the ground 479 00:19:22,611 --> 00:19:26,115 that you see that still needs work right now? 480 00:19:26,115 --> 00:19:31,220 [steady low-fi music] 481 00:19:31,220 --> 00:19:32,721 Khesanio, why don't you go first? 482 00:19:32,721 --> 00:19:35,991 Tell Mackenzie what your issue is now in your relationship. 483 00:19:35,991 --> 00:19:37,359 Me being too stubborn. 484 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,261 -[Mike] Yeah. All right, good. -[Woman] Wow. 485 00:19:39,261 --> 00:19:40,729 [Mike] And then hang that on the tree. 486 00:19:41,263 --> 00:19:43,732 And, Mackenzie, what is your issue 487 00:19:43,732 --> 00:19:45,000 you'd like to work on? 488 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,301 Healthier communication. 489 00:19:46,301 --> 00:19:47,669 [Mike] All right, hang that up. 490 00:19:49,771 --> 00:19:50,873 Cory. 491 00:19:50,873 --> 00:19:52,741 I chose two words. 492 00:19:52,741 --> 00:19:54,476 Bonding and quality time. 493 00:19:54,476 --> 00:19:55,811 I wrote the same thing. 494 00:19:56,612 --> 00:19:58,680 All right. Go hang it up on the tree. 495 00:19:59,781 --> 00:20:02,417 Me and Taylor wrote the same thing down. 496 00:20:02,417 --> 00:20:04,686 We both want quality time with each other 497 00:20:04,686 --> 00:20:07,656 and it looks like all this coaching is paying of. 498 00:20:08,524 --> 00:20:11,226 -Ryan and Kayla. -Trust. 499 00:20:11,226 --> 00:20:12,761 I said communication. 500 00:20:12,761 --> 00:20:13,962 I put teamwork. 501 00:20:13,962 --> 00:20:15,964 I do feel I rely on Jade 502 00:20:15,964 --> 00:20:17,366 for a lot of things. 503 00:20:17,366 --> 00:20:18,500 I'm going to independently 504 00:20:18,500 --> 00:20:19,835 put it right the [bleep] up here. 505 00:20:21,103 --> 00:20:22,237 What I need to work on, 506 00:20:22,237 --> 00:20:24,072 I think just be more open and trusting. 507 00:20:24,072 --> 00:20:26,175 And I'm very independent, self-reliant, 508 00:20:26,175 --> 00:20:27,609 do it all myself. 509 00:20:27,609 --> 00:20:28,844 Hang it up. 510 00:20:28,844 --> 00:20:30,112 I wrote anxiety. 511 00:20:30,112 --> 00:20:31,580 I put being present. 512 00:20:31,580 --> 00:20:32,748 Kiaya. 513 00:20:32,748 --> 00:20:34,316 I wrote anger. 514 00:20:34,616 --> 00:20:35,684 Cate and Ty. 515 00:20:35,684 --> 00:20:38,220 -I wrote communication. -Why? 516 00:20:38,220 --> 00:20:41,323 Because I just need to not be so worried 517 00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:43,058 about how he's gonna feel 518 00:20:43,058 --> 00:20:44,893 if I'm struggling with my mental health. 519 00:20:44,893 --> 00:20:46,228 I wrote bipolar disorder. 520 00:20:46,795 --> 00:20:49,498 I denied that diagnosis for so long, 521 00:20:49,498 --> 00:20:51,433 but I think it's a way of me just running from it 522 00:20:51,433 --> 00:20:54,069 and not wanting to identify 523 00:20:54,069 --> 00:20:55,604 myself with that. 524 00:20:56,338 --> 00:20:58,040 [Mike] Bri, what are you working on 525 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,474 in terms of your relationships? 526 00:20:59,841 --> 00:21:03,178 For me, it sums up to just daddy issues. 527 00:21:03,645 --> 00:21:06,081 I never really had a father figure growing up, 528 00:21:06,081 --> 00:21:08,317 so I don't really know what to look for 529 00:21:08,317 --> 00:21:09,651 in a partner. 530 00:21:09,651 --> 00:21:11,353 [Mike] How do you think those daddy issues, 531 00:21:11,353 --> 00:21:13,755 do you let men in who maybe shouldn't be in your life? 532 00:21:13,755 --> 00:21:14,990 A hundred percent. 533 00:21:15,591 --> 00:21:19,127 I don't know what a real man is supposed to look like. 534 00:21:19,127 --> 00:21:21,163 I've never experienced that. 535 00:21:21,163 --> 00:21:23,398 [Mike] When we don't get that love, 536 00:21:23,398 --> 00:21:25,367 we're gonna seek it out in other ways, right? 537 00:21:25,367 --> 00:21:26,568 -Yeah. -[Mike] Andy maybe it's having 538 00:21:26,568 --> 00:21:27,769 sex before you're ready 539 00:21:27,769 --> 00:21:29,838 or being with or staying with a guy 540 00:21:29,838 --> 00:21:31,273 who doesn't deserve you. 541 00:21:31,273 --> 00:21:32,608 Good work. 542 00:21:32,941 --> 00:21:34,176 Hang it up. 543 00:21:34,176 --> 00:21:35,577 It was a little uncomfortable for me 544 00:21:35,577 --> 00:21:39,114 because I'm coming into this house a week later. 545 00:21:39,114 --> 00:21:42,584 But I was like, "You know what? [bleep] it. I'm gonna be raw. 546 00:21:42,584 --> 00:21:43,000 I'm gonna tell my story." 547 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,353 I'm gonna tell my story." 548 00:21:44,353 --> 00:21:46,855 And, hopefully, me opening up 549 00:21:46,855 --> 00:21:47,990 in front of the group 550 00:21:47,990 --> 00:21:49,524 will help me get past 551 00:21:49,524 --> 00:21:51,093 all the things that are holding back in my life. 552 00:21:51,426 --> 00:21:52,661 As you can see, 553 00:21:52,661 --> 00:21:54,296 there are those relationship issues 554 00:21:54,296 --> 00:21:56,365 that we see on the surface. 555 00:21:56,365 --> 00:21:58,533 But the fruit came from the roots 556 00:21:58,533 --> 00:22:01,236 that lie beneath the surface of the tree. 557 00:22:01,536 --> 00:22:03,405 So now I want all of you to think 558 00:22:03,405 --> 00:22:08,143 of the most formative emotional things 559 00:22:08,143 --> 00:22:09,845 from your childhood 560 00:22:09,845 --> 00:22:11,113 or young adult life. 561 00:22:11,513 --> 00:22:13,682 These are the roots of the tree. 562 00:22:14,483 --> 00:22:15,851 What are your roots, Bri? 563 00:22:20,455 --> 00:22:23,392 These are things that I've never spoke about ever 564 00:22:23,392 --> 00:22:25,994 and nobody knows in my family. 565 00:22:33,653 --> 00:22:35,254 [Briana] These are things that I've never spoke about ever 566 00:22:35,254 --> 00:22:37,690 and nobody knows in my family. 567 00:22:38,725 --> 00:22:41,694 Nobody here knows anything like this. 568 00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:44,530 So it's hard. 569 00:22:45,231 --> 00:22:48,501 My first one, being molested. 570 00:22:48,501 --> 00:22:51,337 as a very young child. 571 00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,606 [Jade] Oh, my gosh. 572 00:22:53,606 --> 00:22:55,608 We're so close and we've been friends for years, 573 00:22:55,608 --> 00:22:58,478 and I didn't know some of that stuff. 574 00:22:58,478 --> 00:23:00,446 And I feel bad for her. 575 00:23:01,614 --> 00:23:03,149 [Mike] I'm so sorry that happened to you. 576 00:23:03,149 --> 00:23:06,419 What does that feel like to talk about for the first time? 577 00:23:07,220 --> 00:23:09,388 I guess it feels freeing. 578 00:23:10,389 --> 00:23:11,824 [Mike] Bri, does your mom know that? 579 00:23:13,693 --> 00:23:14,694 [Mike] Wow. 580 00:23:14,694 --> 00:23:15,995 [Cate] I can relate to you, 581 00:23:15,995 --> 00:23:17,463 because I feel like, for the longest time, 582 00:23:17,463 --> 00:23:19,599 some of my friends knew about my sexual assault, 583 00:23:19,599 --> 00:23:22,001 but my mom didn't know for years. 584 00:23:22,301 --> 00:23:23,736 [Mike] It's more common that you know. 585 00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:25,605 And when we actually all talk about it, 586 00:23:25,605 --> 00:23:27,607 then you can know that you're not alone. 587 00:23:27,607 --> 00:23:30,676 [Briana] It's hard because I don't wanna tell anybody 588 00:23:30,676 --> 00:23:33,679 who it is because it would break the family apart. 589 00:23:33,679 --> 00:23:35,314 But you're carrying all that. 590 00:23:35,715 --> 00:23:37,583 -That's not yours to carry. -For sure. 591 00:23:37,583 --> 00:23:40,153 [Mike] How much responsibility for you, 592 00:23:40,153 --> 00:23:42,321 for somebody who is a survivor? 593 00:23:42,688 --> 00:23:45,057 That must feel like 1,000 pounds. 594 00:23:46,125 --> 00:23:50,530 Um, my second one, just being neglected as a child. 595 00:23:50,530 --> 00:23:53,900 I never felt like I was loved enough. 596 00:23:53,900 --> 00:23:57,003 And then my third one is just my parents 597 00:23:57,003 --> 00:23:58,571 fighting all the time. 598 00:23:58,571 --> 00:24:00,540 You deserve a new working model 599 00:24:00,540 --> 00:24:02,008 of what love looks like. 600 00:24:02,008 --> 00:24:03,609 'Cause I don't think you've really seen it 601 00:24:03,609 --> 00:24:05,011 in your family much. 602 00:24:05,011 --> 00:24:06,946 Not at all. 603 00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:10,483 That was really good work. 604 00:24:11,117 --> 00:24:14,353 [Briana] I've always wanted to tell my story 605 00:24:14,353 --> 00:24:17,757 and it was just a very empowering feeling. 606 00:24:17,757 --> 00:24:20,193 Everybody in the house, they have my back. 607 00:24:20,193 --> 00:24:22,328 I know they're not going to judge me. 608 00:24:23,963 --> 00:24:25,097 Thanks for being so brave. 609 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,069 Khesanio, what are the roots 610 00:24:30,636 --> 00:24:33,172 of some of the things that are an issue for you? 611 00:24:33,739 --> 00:24:35,474 [Khesanio] Losing my grandma. 612 00:24:35,842 --> 00:24:37,143 This one hurts 613 00:24:37,143 --> 00:24:40,112 because it was supposed to be the best day of my life. 614 00:24:45,651 --> 00:24:48,821 Because, growing up, soccer was also my life. 615 00:24:48,821 --> 00:24:51,691 And so the day that I played for the national team... 616 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,430 [Mike] How awful to lose your grandmother 617 00:24:57,430 --> 00:25:00,032 on the happiest day of your life. 618 00:25:00,032 --> 00:25:01,234 [Khesanio] Yeah. 619 00:25:01,234 --> 00:25:02,802 -That was tough. -[Mike] Yeah. 620 00:25:02,802 --> 00:25:05,805 Watching Khesanio being very vulnerable 621 00:25:05,805 --> 00:25:09,542 and hearing him cry for the first time 622 00:25:09,542 --> 00:25:12,411 does make me feel more connected with him. 623 00:25:12,411 --> 00:25:13,679 That was the first time 624 00:25:13,679 --> 00:25:15,648 I've ever heard Khes open up about that. 625 00:25:15,648 --> 00:25:17,383 You did something really good today 626 00:25:17,383 --> 00:25:18,651 by letting her in. 627 00:25:18,651 --> 00:25:20,219 [Jade] Khesanio was so new here. 628 00:25:20,219 --> 00:25:21,354 No one knows him. 629 00:25:21,354 --> 00:25:22,955 Seeing him open up, I'm like, "Wow." 630 00:25:22,955 --> 00:25:25,725 That's how you know you have a really good group of people 631 00:25:25,725 --> 00:25:26,959 that are really supportive 632 00:25:26,959 --> 00:25:28,928 to make someone this new open up in front 633 00:25:28,928 --> 00:25:31,831 of a whole group of people, in front of the entire world-- 634 00:25:31,831 --> 00:25:33,466 -that's a lot. -Good work. 635 00:25:33,866 --> 00:25:36,502 Kiaya, what are your roots? 636 00:25:40,172 --> 00:25:41,641 Kiaya is sitting to the left of me 637 00:25:41,641 --> 00:25:43,943 and she is going through it. 638 00:25:43,943 --> 00:25:45,144 She needs help. 639 00:25:45,144 --> 00:25:46,512 [Mike] It's okay, Kiaya. 640 00:25:46,512 --> 00:25:48,047 This is a safe space. 641 00:25:48,047 --> 00:25:49,215 Um... 642 00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:50,850 Watching everybody else open up 643 00:25:50,850 --> 00:25:53,486 is really making me wanna have that same vulnerability. 644 00:25:53,486 --> 00:25:55,488 I don't know how much is too much, 645 00:25:55,488 --> 00:25:58,124 but I think I'm just about to spill the beans. 646 00:25:58,124 --> 00:26:00,426 I've never told nobody. 647 00:26:00,426 --> 00:26:04,297 I was sexually assaulted by somebody I trusted. 648 00:26:04,297 --> 00:26:05,765 I was 15, 649 00:26:05,765 --> 00:26:08,267 and I planned to give my virginity to this person. 650 00:26:08,267 --> 00:26:10,202 And the way they handled me, 651 00:26:10,670 --> 00:26:14,607 I just felt like, I felt like dirt. 652 00:26:15,141 --> 00:26:16,375 Never told nobody. 653 00:26:16,375 --> 00:26:17,843 So I hate men. 654 00:26:17,843 --> 00:26:20,179 They always feel like they have a sense of control. 655 00:26:21,314 --> 00:26:23,215 I questioned myself so bad, like, 656 00:26:23,215 --> 00:26:24,650 "Is this rape?" 657 00:26:25,151 --> 00:26:27,620 I told him that I wanted to give him my virginity. 658 00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:29,388 So is it my fault? 659 00:26:29,388 --> 00:26:30,790 No, it's not. 660 00:26:30,790 --> 00:26:33,292 And did you give consent at the time? 661 00:26:33,292 --> 00:26:35,928 -No. -Then, yes, it was rape, okay? 662 00:26:35,928 --> 00:26:38,497 And, no, you did not deserve to be treated like that. 663 00:26:39,098 --> 00:26:41,934 [Kiaya] To sit in that trauma workshop 664 00:26:41,934 --> 00:26:44,070 and actually share some of the things 665 00:26:44,070 --> 00:26:46,839 that I'm dealing with that nobody else knows, 666 00:26:46,839 --> 00:26:48,741 it honestly felt good to me in the end 667 00:26:48,741 --> 00:26:50,710 because I felt like I really had that strength 668 00:26:50,710 --> 00:26:52,712 to do something that I did not plan to do 669 00:26:52,712 --> 00:26:56,015 or something that I was honestly guarded to do. 670 00:26:56,015 --> 00:27:00,019 [Mike] I see that warm, sweet heart in you. 671 00:27:00,019 --> 00:27:02,688 I see her. I think everybody in this room sees her. 672 00:27:02,688 --> 00:27:04,991 And they all wanna protect her and help her. 673 00:27:04,991 --> 00:27:07,660 [Mackenzie] I think that Kiaya needed that. 674 00:27:07,660 --> 00:27:09,228 She just let it all out. 675 00:27:09,228 --> 00:27:12,064 All this pain that she's been holding in, 676 00:27:12,064 --> 00:27:14,800 and I just wanted to get up and hug her. 677 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,402 What are your roots, Leah? 678 00:27:16,402 --> 00:27:19,338 Childhood abuse, sexually as well. 679 00:27:20,072 --> 00:27:22,241 Later in life, I would say divorce, 680 00:27:22,241 --> 00:27:25,244 the custody, going back and forth with my daughters. 681 00:27:25,244 --> 00:27:27,580 How are these seeds related to your fruit? 682 00:27:27,580 --> 00:27:29,849 I'm gonna protect me at all costs. 683 00:27:29,849 --> 00:27:30,816 Yeah. 684 00:27:30,816 --> 00:27:32,000 With relationships, I'm like, 685 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,251 With relationships, I'm like, 686 00:27:32,251 --> 00:27:34,253 "You can't protect me like I can protect me." 687 00:27:34,253 --> 00:27:36,756 So how are you going to start taking better care 688 00:27:36,756 --> 00:27:38,124 of that little girl? 689 00:27:38,124 --> 00:27:39,258 I don't know how. 690 00:27:39,258 --> 00:27:42,261 To change that trajectory from my daughters, 691 00:27:42,261 --> 00:27:44,063 I don't know. I don't know. 692 00:27:44,797 --> 00:27:47,199 [Mike] What would you say to your younger self 693 00:27:47,199 --> 00:27:48,567 if you could? 694 00:27:54,407 --> 00:27:56,208 You don't have to carry it anymore. 695 00:27:56,208 --> 00:27:58,644 I don't know. I don't know what to say to myself. 696 00:27:58,644 --> 00:27:59,845 I have no idea. 697 00:27:59,845 --> 00:28:01,180 I think that's right. 698 00:28:01,180 --> 00:28:02,915 You don't have to carry it anymore, right? 699 00:28:02,915 --> 00:28:06,419 What does she deserve in her next great relationship? 700 00:28:06,419 --> 00:28:08,788 [Leah] Peace, happiness, love, 701 00:28:08,788 --> 00:28:10,790 and a place to feel safe. 702 00:28:11,524 --> 00:28:12,992 Most of the time, it's very difficult 703 00:28:12,992 --> 00:28:14,960 for me to open up in front of people. 704 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,896 But this is such a safe place. 705 00:28:16,896 --> 00:28:18,964 I feel comfortable sharing with everyone. 706 00:28:18,964 --> 00:28:21,834 I'm really glad that I was able to let it all out. 707 00:28:21,834 --> 00:28:24,336 Good work. Good work. 708 00:28:24,336 --> 00:28:26,138 [Cheyenne] Hearing Leah's story 709 00:28:26,138 --> 00:28:28,874 makes me understand why she is so guarded. 710 00:28:28,874 --> 00:28:31,143 But her opening up to the group, 711 00:28:31,143 --> 00:28:33,546 all it does is bring us closer together. 712 00:28:34,113 --> 00:28:35,748 [Mike] So, Tyler, how about your roots? 713 00:28:36,348 --> 00:28:39,218 [Tyler] So my first one was my suicide attempt. 714 00:28:40,686 --> 00:28:42,054 I was 11, 715 00:28:42,054 --> 00:28:44,990 and I think what was so hard about it 716 00:28:44,990 --> 00:28:46,992 was because I was so ready. 717 00:28:47,893 --> 00:28:50,229 It's hard for Ty to talk about his suicide attempt, 718 00:28:50,229 --> 00:28:53,265 but I also know it's one of his traumas, 719 00:28:53,265 --> 00:28:56,068 so you have to talk about it, even if it is hard. 720 00:28:56,502 --> 00:28:59,839 [Mike] What would adult Tyler say to that little boy 721 00:28:59,839 --> 00:29:01,807 who is in so much pain? 722 00:29:15,638 --> 00:29:17,807 [Mike] What would adult Tyler say to that little boy 723 00:29:17,807 --> 00:29:19,375 who is in so much pain? 724 00:29:19,375 --> 00:29:21,744 [Tyler] I just need you to know that you're worthy. 725 00:29:21,744 --> 00:29:22,979 You're worthy to live. 726 00:29:23,546 --> 00:29:26,215 And you're worthy to experience all the beautiful things, 727 00:29:26,215 --> 00:29:27,917 and you're gonna make it. 728 00:29:27,917 --> 00:29:30,386 Cate, you heal me every day. 729 00:29:30,386 --> 00:29:31,854 Every single day. 730 00:29:32,154 --> 00:29:34,991 You remind me that I'm worthy to live. 731 00:29:34,991 --> 00:29:36,826 And I'm very thankful for you. 732 00:29:38,060 --> 00:29:40,062 It's inspiring to see how Cate and Tyler 733 00:29:40,062 --> 00:29:42,198 are always there for each other through difficult times. 734 00:29:42,198 --> 00:29:44,634 And Jade and I could really learn a lot from them 735 00:29:44,634 --> 00:29:46,168 with our big day coming up. 736 00:29:47,503 --> 00:29:49,505 [Mike] Blown away by all your work 737 00:29:49,505 --> 00:29:50,940 in this workshop tonight. 738 00:29:50,940 --> 00:29:53,209 These roots do not define you. 739 00:29:53,209 --> 00:29:57,013 Your roots came from your parents and your grandparents. 740 00:29:57,013 --> 00:29:58,948 The first step towards healing 741 00:29:58,948 --> 00:30:01,150 is identifying and vocalizing 742 00:30:01,150 --> 00:30:03,586 what those roots of your issues are, 743 00:30:03,586 --> 00:30:06,355 which you've done today with such courage. 744 00:30:06,789 --> 00:30:09,859 And now you can change what is hanging there 745 00:30:09,859 --> 00:30:12,295 and you can bear new fruit in your lives, 746 00:30:12,295 --> 00:30:13,796 in your marriages, 747 00:30:13,796 --> 00:30:16,999 in your relationships with your kids and their kids. 748 00:30:16,999 --> 00:30:19,368 So good work by taking the first step 749 00:30:19,368 --> 00:30:20,903 and really watering your roots, 750 00:30:20,903 --> 00:30:24,106 and really coming to terms with and nurturing 751 00:30:24,106 --> 00:30:27,777 the pain, the wounds, of your inner child. 752 00:30:27,777 --> 00:30:30,479 [Cate] My main takeaway from the exercise 753 00:30:30,479 --> 00:30:33,683 is just like, "Oh, wow, we all have a lot more in common 754 00:30:33,683 --> 00:30:35,184 than we even thought we did." 755 00:30:35,184 --> 00:30:36,252 Good work. 756 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,722 [Cate] A hundred percent you can heal. 757 00:30:39,722 --> 00:30:40,856 As long as you're being vulnerable 758 00:30:40,856 --> 00:30:42,124 and you're working on yourself, 759 00:30:42,124 --> 00:30:43,559 you can change anything about yourself. 760 00:30:43,559 --> 00:30:45,394 You just have to put in the work. 761 00:30:45,394 --> 00:30:46,896 [Tyler] It created a bond 762 00:30:46,896 --> 00:30:48,798 I feel like I'm gonna take with me forever after this. 763 00:30:49,231 --> 00:30:51,801 [Kiyah] God, that was intense, bro. 764 00:30:55,304 --> 00:30:59,041 [music] 765 00:31:07,249 --> 00:31:08,651 [Mackenzie] You're always holding me. 766 00:31:08,651 --> 00:31:09,819 Let me hold you, okay? 767 00:31:09,819 --> 00:31:11,387 Feel that I'm holding you. 768 00:31:11,921 --> 00:31:15,291 I may be 4'10", but I can protect you too. 769 00:31:15,291 --> 00:31:17,126 I love that I have a man 770 00:31:17,126 --> 00:31:18,728 that is open with his feelings, 771 00:31:18,728 --> 00:31:22,832 and is open to let my love come for him too. 772 00:31:26,168 --> 00:31:27,670 [pop music] 773 00:31:27,670 --> 00:31:29,538 ♪ Good fun, good fun ♪ 774 00:31:29,538 --> 00:31:31,040 ♪ Hey, are you ready ♪ 775 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,142 ♪ Good times, good times ♪ 776 00:31:33,442 --> 00:31:35,144 ♪ We can rock steady ♪ 777 00:31:35,144 --> 00:31:37,546 [Leah] We're going out. We're all single. 778 00:31:37,546 --> 00:31:38,981 Yes. 779 00:31:38,981 --> 00:31:40,316 All the single ladies are going out tonight. 780 00:31:40,649 --> 00:31:42,518 We need to lighten the mood, 781 00:31:42,518 --> 00:31:44,253 do something a little more fun. 782 00:31:45,321 --> 00:31:46,355 I'm excited. 783 00:31:47,089 --> 00:31:49,058 [Briana] It was a lot for me to spill my guts out 784 00:31:49,058 --> 00:31:51,127 in front of everybody in the house. 785 00:31:51,127 --> 00:31:54,663 But it feels empowering to be able to do that. 786 00:31:54,663 --> 00:31:56,232 ♪ Good times ♪ 787 00:31:57,767 --> 00:32:00,302 Who knows what the night is gonna bring us? 788 00:32:02,071 --> 00:32:04,540 ♪ Let's go Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪ 789 00:32:04,540 --> 00:32:06,275 ♪ Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪ 790 00:32:06,275 --> 00:32:08,077 ♪ Let me show you what I got ♪ 791 00:32:08,077 --> 00:32:09,979 ♪ Take it off Make it hot ♪ 792 00:32:09,979 --> 00:32:11,947 ♪ Ooh, la, la, la, la ♪ 793 00:32:12,681 --> 00:32:13,883 [Woman] [indistinct] 794 00:32:13,883 --> 00:32:15,518 [Briana] Oh, my God. 795 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,455 Hola, hi! 796 00:32:21,023 --> 00:32:23,592 We just arrived at this bar. 797 00:32:23,592 --> 00:32:25,027 I'm ready to have fun. 798 00:32:25,027 --> 00:32:27,396 Shots, shots, shots, shots. 799 00:32:30,666 --> 00:32:32,101 So how is y'all love life? 800 00:32:32,101 --> 00:32:34,437 Are y'all talk to anybody? Are y'all celibate? 801 00:32:34,437 --> 00:32:35,504 I'm celibate. 802 00:32:35,504 --> 00:32:37,907 -Why? -Just self-control. 803 00:32:38,340 --> 00:32:40,209 I didn't have that when I was younger. 804 00:32:40,209 --> 00:32:42,678 I am celibate for [squeaking nervously] 805 00:32:42,678 --> 00:32:44,080 a little over a year now. 806 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,681 It's so empowering for me 807 00:32:45,681 --> 00:32:48,517 because there was a time little Leah could not say no. 808 00:32:49,285 --> 00:32:50,953 [Kiaya] I'm not this type of female 809 00:32:50,953 --> 00:32:54,824 that gets that emotional connection from sex. 810 00:32:54,824 --> 00:32:56,692 Sometimes, I just wanna [bleep]. 811 00:32:56,692 --> 00:32:58,661 Does sex not mean more to you than that? 812 00:32:58,661 --> 00:33:00,162 [Kiaya] Sex can be meaningful 813 00:33:00,162 --> 00:33:02,398 if it's with a meaningful person. 814 00:33:02,398 --> 00:33:04,533 I've been in a relationship for so many years, 815 00:33:04,533 --> 00:33:07,103 and now I'm just like, "Let me just have fun." 816 00:33:07,103 --> 00:33:08,471 There's times I was like, 817 00:33:08,471 --> 00:33:10,005 "Damn, I shouldn't have sex with this person" 818 00:33:10,005 --> 00:33:11,640 or "I shouldn't have a kid with this person," 819 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,142 but I did. 820 00:33:13,142 --> 00:33:16,545 Well, I like to [bleep], so I don't know about y'all. 821 00:33:16,545 --> 00:33:17,913 [Leah] Me, Kiaya, Bri 822 00:33:17,913 --> 00:33:19,582 were having a great conversation. 823 00:33:19,582 --> 00:33:22,318 You got a different perspective from each one of us. 824 00:33:22,318 --> 00:33:24,854 You like to have physical interaction. 825 00:33:24,854 --> 00:33:25,955 -Yeah. -That's fine. 826 00:33:25,955 --> 00:33:27,556 Well, we're here in Colombia 827 00:33:27,556 --> 00:33:28,991 and we're here to party, 828 00:33:28,991 --> 00:33:31,227 so [bleep] all this sappy [bleep]. 829 00:33:31,227 --> 00:33:33,562 Let's take shots. [bleep] it. 830 00:33:33,562 --> 00:33:35,397 [Briana] Getting a little bit of liquid courage. 831 00:33:35,397 --> 00:33:37,233 I see people dancing to my right. 832 00:33:37,233 --> 00:33:40,336 I'm like, "Ooh, I wanna see what they're doing." 833 00:33:40,336 --> 00:33:42,404 ♪ [indistinct] ♪ 834 00:33:43,439 --> 00:33:45,975 ♪ [indistinct] ♪ 835 00:33:45,975 --> 00:33:47,676 First time out of the country 836 00:33:47,676 --> 00:33:49,445 on a [bleep] rooftop 837 00:33:49,445 --> 00:33:51,547 doing champeta dance. 838 00:33:51,547 --> 00:33:53,082 ♪ Hot, hot, hot, hot ♪ 839 00:33:53,082 --> 00:33:54,550 ♪ Tasty over the top ♪ 840 00:33:54,550 --> 00:33:56,118 I'm living my best life. 841 00:34:00,556 --> 00:34:02,291 [Woman] Hey, hey, hey. 842 00:34:04,827 --> 00:34:06,896 ♪ Keeping it spicy ♪ 843 00:34:07,429 --> 00:34:08,998 ♪ [indistinct] ♪ 844 00:34:08,998 --> 00:34:11,100 ♪ Uh, that's hot ♪ 845 00:34:11,567 --> 00:34:12,835 Are you single? 846 00:34:12,835 --> 00:34:14,000 Are you single? Are you single? Single? 847 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,504 Are you single? Are you single? Single? 848 00:34:15,504 --> 00:34:17,573 I'm a single parent. I'm a single mom. 849 00:34:17,573 --> 00:34:20,576 I don't have time to be with my friends. 850 00:34:22,778 --> 00:34:28,584 Being here with the girls, I wanna take full advantage of it. 851 00:34:28,584 --> 00:34:29,785 You take one. 852 00:34:29,785 --> 00:34:31,053 -I think he's handsome. -I want him too. 853 00:34:31,053 --> 00:34:32,855 -We can both have him. -Let's both have him! 854 00:34:32,855 --> 00:34:34,356 Whatever that means. 855 00:34:41,030 --> 00:34:42,298 [Kiaya] One of them was like, 856 00:34:42,298 --> 00:34:43,866 who's that man name, Arnold Schwarzenegger, 857 00:34:43,866 --> 00:34:45,067 with them fat-ass muscles. 858 00:34:45,301 --> 00:34:46,936 Nice to meet you, Jonathan. 859 00:34:46,936 --> 00:34:48,170 Jonathan? 860 00:34:48,737 --> 00:34:51,473 And then there's this other man, he look like Jesus. 861 00:34:54,977 --> 00:34:56,378 They were cute. 862 00:34:57,012 --> 00:34:59,014 Ooh, you love me? 863 00:34:59,448 --> 00:35:01,550 Oh, he loves me. 864 00:35:01,550 --> 00:35:02,651 Too soon. 865 00:35:05,387 --> 00:35:08,824 Mr. Jonathan was the cutest one out of the group. 866 00:35:08,824 --> 00:35:10,759 I'm sorry. Just had to say it. 867 00:35:10,759 --> 00:35:13,028 And he thinks I'm sexy. 868 00:35:13,028 --> 00:35:16,832 But he doesn't speak a lick of [bleep] English. 869 00:35:16,832 --> 00:35:20,536 How am I Puerto Rican and I don't [bleep] know Spanish? 870 00:35:23,806 --> 00:35:25,474 Here, you try. 871 00:35:25,474 --> 00:35:29,044 So we're having a hard time communicating with each other. 872 00:35:29,044 --> 00:35:30,746 English to Spanish. 873 00:35:30,746 --> 00:35:33,549 I can't understand anything Jonathan is saying. 874 00:35:33,549 --> 00:35:36,418 We're literally using this Google Translate. 875 00:35:36,418 --> 00:35:38,754 I see you in the front, talking to your man, 876 00:35:38,754 --> 00:35:40,089 making hella conversation. 877 00:35:40,089 --> 00:35:41,357 I see Leah trying really, really hard, 878 00:35:41,357 --> 00:35:43,726 and then it's just me and him, dead silent, 879 00:35:43,726 --> 00:35:46,028 passing the phone back, giggling a little bit, 880 00:35:46,028 --> 00:35:47,496 passing the phone back, and y'all are like, 881 00:35:47,496 --> 00:35:49,932 "What the [bleep] are you guys talking about?" 882 00:35:49,932 --> 00:35:51,734 Awkward. 883 00:35:52,801 --> 00:35:54,837 All right, we're all bringing them to the house. 884 00:35:54,837 --> 00:35:57,439 Next thing I know, we were all loading up into the van. 885 00:35:57,439 --> 00:35:59,541 And they were coming back to the house with us. 886 00:36:00,075 --> 00:36:02,044 These men have no idea 887 00:36:02,044 --> 00:36:04,113 what the [bleep] they're about to walk into 888 00:36:04,113 --> 00:36:05,481 when they come into this house. 889 00:36:05,481 --> 00:36:09,485 I'm just so mad at my mom for not teaching me Spanish. 890 00:36:10,686 --> 00:36:12,221 ♪ Oh, babe, beautiful ♪ 891 00:36:12,221 --> 00:36:13,822 ♪ Easy on the eyes ♪ 892 00:36:13,822 --> 00:36:16,558 [Kiaya] We decided to bring the party back to the crib, 893 00:36:16,558 --> 00:36:18,527 get in the pool, and have some more drinks. 894 00:36:18,527 --> 00:36:22,564 [Women screaming] 895 00:36:22,564 --> 00:36:25,834 [Sean] Oh, [bleep]. They did bring dudes. 896 00:36:25,834 --> 00:36:27,469 -Brought some dudes. -[Sean] Uh-oh. 897 00:36:27,469 --> 00:36:29,305 [Cory] I'm downstairs in the kitchen 898 00:36:29,305 --> 00:36:31,774 and all I hear are the three single girls 899 00:36:31,774 --> 00:36:33,275 come back screaming. 900 00:36:33,275 --> 00:36:38,981 [Briana screaming] 901 00:36:39,415 --> 00:36:41,350 And it is gonna be a party. 902 00:36:41,350 --> 00:36:43,385 [Leah] Shots! Shots! Shots! 903 00:36:47,189 --> 00:36:48,657 [Briana] He's so sexy, right? 904 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,061 [Kayla] Oh, my God. 905 00:36:54,297 --> 00:36:56,165 I see these guys and I'm just like, 906 00:36:56,165 --> 00:36:58,935 "Who are these guys in our house?" 907 00:36:58,935 --> 00:37:01,904 Get undressed. Take your sneakers off. 908 00:37:02,138 --> 00:37:04,006 Take your shirt off. 909 00:37:04,006 --> 00:37:07,176 Hey, look at my man. Isn't he cute? 910 00:37:07,176 --> 00:37:08,845 Who are these muchachos? 911 00:37:08,845 --> 00:37:10,179 Hi, I'm Jade. 912 00:37:10,179 --> 00:37:12,415 I wanted Bri to go out and have fun. 913 00:37:12,415 --> 00:37:15,051 I think she took the fun to level 10. 914 00:37:15,051 --> 00:37:18,654 Her little Colombian boy is so cute. 915 00:37:18,654 --> 00:37:20,122 He's a Colombian Ken doll. 916 00:37:20,122 --> 00:37:21,924 He just doesn't speak any English. 917 00:37:21,924 --> 00:37:23,159 When you look that good, 918 00:37:23,159 --> 00:37:25,328 do we really have to talk the same language? 919 00:37:25,328 --> 00:37:28,197 It was nice to meet you guys! Have fun! 920 00:37:28,698 --> 00:37:32,235 I'm really happy for Bri, Kiaya, and Leah, 921 00:37:32,235 --> 00:37:34,370 but me and Sean are just too old for this [bleep]. 922 00:37:34,370 --> 00:37:37,106 We are taking our asses upstairs and going to bed. 923 00:37:39,175 --> 00:37:42,511 Once we got to the house, that was it for me. 924 00:37:42,511 --> 00:37:44,313 This guy tells me that he's 24 years old. 925 00:37:44,313 --> 00:37:46,382 I'm 31. No, it didn't work out. 926 00:37:46,382 --> 00:37:48,918 So I feel bad he just left. 927 00:37:48,918 --> 00:37:50,353 And I went to bed. 928 00:37:52,255 --> 00:37:54,190 -[Briana] Come to the pool! -[Kiaya] Get dressed! 929 00:37:54,190 --> 00:37:55,791 -[Briana] Come to the pool! -[Kiaya] Get dressed! 930 00:37:55,791 --> 00:37:57,226 [Briana and Kiaya screaming] 931 00:37:57,226 --> 00:38:01,163 All I hear is yelling and I swear I hear some guys. 932 00:38:03,733 --> 00:38:05,434 I don't know. 933 00:38:05,434 --> 00:38:07,336 But we're gonna find out. 934 00:38:07,336 --> 00:38:09,605 So that means trouble walked in. 935 00:38:11,140 --> 00:38:13,175 [Kayla] What the [bleep] is going on? 936 00:38:13,175 --> 00:38:14,477 I don't know. 937 00:38:15,878 --> 00:38:19,448 Bri is over there, having all the chemistry in the world 938 00:38:19,448 --> 00:38:20,850 through Google Translate. 939 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,222 Bri has her phone out 940 00:38:26,222 --> 00:38:28,691 and is just... 941 00:38:36,999 --> 00:38:39,568 Do your thing, girl. Do your thing. 942 00:38:40,202 --> 00:38:43,072 Oh, my God. He said he loves me! 943 00:38:43,072 --> 00:38:45,942 [cheers and applause] 944 00:38:45,942 --> 00:38:47,143 Don't get pregnant. 945 00:38:47,143 --> 00:38:49,445 He is gonna [bleep] my ass tonight. 946 00:38:49,912 --> 00:38:51,681 Bri is about to win tonight. 947 00:38:57,853 --> 00:38:59,588 -[bleep] ass! -[bleep] ass! 948 00:39:02,458 --> 00:39:04,727 [Briana] Now it's just me and Kiaya in the pool. 949 00:39:04,727 --> 00:39:08,230 Kiaya, I could tell she's not 100% feeling her man, 950 00:39:08,230 --> 00:39:10,132 but she's taking one for the team. 951 00:39:10,132 --> 00:39:11,567 She's enjoying her time. 952 00:39:12,168 --> 00:39:14,103 And we're just vibing. 953 00:39:14,870 --> 00:39:17,006 It's just me and him, passing the phone back, 954 00:39:17,006 --> 00:39:18,174 giggling a little bit. 955 00:39:18,174 --> 00:39:20,042 He was like, "I'm going to your room." 956 00:39:20,042 --> 00:39:21,644 And I'm like, "Oh, yes." 957 00:39:23,479 --> 00:39:26,749 You guys are gonna take these boys to your room? 958 00:39:27,116 --> 00:39:29,518 Maybe, Miss Boring Pants. 959 00:39:29,518 --> 00:39:32,355 This just doesn't sound like the best idea. 960 00:39:32,355 --> 00:39:35,224 Bri is just ready to go to Pound Town 961 00:39:35,224 --> 00:39:37,626 and I'm thinking, "Let's think this through. 962 00:39:37,626 --> 00:39:40,196 Let's ask for a background check." 963 00:39:40,196 --> 00:39:41,831 We don't know this guy. 964 00:39:41,831 --> 00:39:43,599 Oh, my God. 965 00:39:43,599 --> 00:39:46,102 I'm not drunk enough to even watch this. 966 00:39:46,102 --> 00:39:48,104 Bri is always gonna do Bri. 967 00:39:48,104 --> 00:39:50,172 We're gonna leave to the room. 968 00:39:50,172 --> 00:39:53,809 I am obsessed with Jonathan 969 00:39:53,809 --> 00:39:55,478 because he's so fine. 970 00:39:55,478 --> 00:39:57,380 [Cory] [indistinct] 971 00:39:57,380 --> 00:39:59,315 Have fun, Bri, be safe, use a condom. 972 00:39:59,315 --> 00:40:01,751 [Cory] We gonna hear " Culo !" 973 00:40:01,751 --> 00:40:03,886 And we went upstairs. 974 00:40:03,886 --> 00:40:05,287 ♪ That's what I want ♪ 975 00:40:05,287 --> 00:40:07,523 [sultry pop music] 976 00:40:10,459 --> 00:40:12,194 ♪ That's what I want ♪ 977 00:40:12,461 --> 00:40:13,929 ♪ That's what I want ♪ 978 00:40:14,764 --> 00:40:16,232 [Briana] We couldn't understand each other, 979 00:40:16,232 --> 00:40:18,768 so there wasn't really much getting to know each other. 980 00:40:18,768 --> 00:40:20,469 I didn't really want to get to know him. 981 00:40:20,469 --> 00:40:22,671 I just wanted to go upstairs. 982 00:40:23,339 --> 00:40:25,174 ♪ I take that flame ♪ 983 00:40:25,174 --> 00:40:27,043 ♪ Make it go hotter ♪ 984 00:40:27,043 --> 00:40:29,211 Oh, you're naked. 985 00:40:31,313 --> 00:40:33,983 -[Man] Wrap it. -[Woman] Wrap it up, sister! 986 00:40:33,983 --> 00:40:36,452 ♪ Ooh, la, la, la la, la, la ♪ 987 00:40:36,452 --> 00:40:38,220 ♪ Ooh, spicy ♪ 988 00:40:38,988 --> 00:40:40,289 [Kiaya] I go upstairs 989 00:40:40,289 --> 00:40:42,925 and as I'm walking up the stairs, I hear, 990 00:40:42,925 --> 00:40:44,060 "Uh." 991 00:40:44,060 --> 00:40:45,628 No! 992 00:40:45,628 --> 00:40:47,396 [Kiaya] So I go up to the door, 993 00:40:47,396 --> 00:40:48,864 I put my little ear up, I say, 994 00:40:48,864 --> 00:40:51,000 "Oh, okay, yeah, it's what I thought it was." 995 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,168 "They're [bleep]." 996 00:40:52,168 --> 00:40:53,803 Oh, [bleep]! 997 00:40:53,803 --> 00:40:55,571 [Briana moaning] 998 00:40:59,675 --> 00:41:01,877 [Cory] Wow, they went big for this. 999 00:41:01,877 --> 00:41:04,413 [Woman] Next time on Teen Mom: Family Reunion... 1000 00:41:04,413 --> 00:41:06,849 It's time to party like we in the 2000s, baby. 1001 00:41:06,849 --> 00:41:09,385 We're on the same page. We're keeping it, right? 1002 00:41:10,620 --> 00:41:13,256 You're getting emotional. What? 1003 00:41:20,063 --> 00:41:30,340 [music] 1004 00:41:46,890 --> 00:41:48,925 [music]