1 00:00:00,700 --> 00:00:02,035 ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:02,769 --> 00:00:05,205 [Female Narrator] Previously on Teen Mom Family Reunion. 3 00:00:05,205 --> 00:00:07,140 [Dr. Mike] When you're pregnant, there are three options. 4 00:00:07,574 --> 00:00:11,644 You can terminate, you can adopt, you can parent. 5 00:00:11,644 --> 00:00:13,880 I don't wanna talk about this [bleep]. 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,782 When my dad passed away, 7 00:00:15,782 --> 00:00:18,451 it hurt me more than I feel like he just up and left. 8 00:00:18,451 --> 00:00:21,287 This life [bleep] just really ain't been fair lately. 9 00:00:21,287 --> 00:00:23,656 I just feel so, like, defeated. 10 00:00:24,391 --> 00:00:26,226 Can we go somewhere, do something? 11 00:00:26,226 --> 00:00:29,028 Us single girls need a night on the town. 12 00:00:29,028 --> 00:00:30,597 No couples allowed. 13 00:00:31,865 --> 00:00:33,366 Ooh, you love me?! 14 00:00:33,366 --> 00:00:35,301 Alright, we're all bringin' them to the house. 15 00:00:39,672 --> 00:00:42,075 Maybe Miss Boring Pants. 16 00:00:44,244 --> 00:00:45,712 ♪ Here we go ♪ 17 00:00:45,712 --> 00:00:47,480 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 18 00:00:47,480 --> 00:00:48,815 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 19 00:00:48,815 --> 00:00:50,784 ♪ I show up, you show up, we show up ♪ 20 00:00:50,784 --> 00:00:53,219 ♪ Everybody gonna have a good time ♪ 21 00:00:56,890 --> 00:00:57,957 ♪ Yeesh ♪ 22 00:00:57,957 --> 00:01:00,160 [upbeat EDM playing] [moaning] 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,562 ♪ Lookin' good, yeesh ♪ 24 00:01:03,897 --> 00:01:05,932 ♪ Yeah, lookin' good ♪ 25 00:01:06,499 --> 00:01:09,102 I hear... [imitating moaning] 26 00:01:09,102 --> 00:01:11,371 They [bleep] for sure. They [bleep] for sure. 27 00:01:14,641 --> 00:01:16,476 [Cheyenne] I'll admit, I was nosy. 28 00:01:17,811 --> 00:01:20,280 I definitely heard some things coming from their room. 29 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,182 Bri is always gonna do Bri, 30 00:01:22,182 --> 00:01:25,151 and at least she got some in Colombia. 31 00:01:28,588 --> 00:01:31,591 [Briana] I could literally hear everybody outside 32 00:01:31,925 --> 00:01:33,259 behind my door, 33 00:01:33,259 --> 00:01:35,361 tryin' to, like, hear what's happening, 34 00:01:35,361 --> 00:01:36,963 giggling, whispering. 35 00:01:36,963 --> 00:01:42,469 So, I took a shower, we said goodbye, and he left. 36 00:01:45,071 --> 00:01:49,976 [funky music] 37 00:01:49,976 --> 00:01:51,811 [rooster crowing] 38 00:01:51,811 --> 00:01:54,113 There she is, look at her! 39 00:01:54,113 --> 00:01:57,116 [cheering] 40 00:01:57,750 --> 00:02:01,287 [Briana] I walk out and I see everybody just sitting down. 41 00:02:01,287 --> 00:02:03,456 It's like there was [bleep] popcorn and soda, 42 00:02:03,456 --> 00:02:05,391 and they're watchin' a goddamn movie. 43 00:02:05,391 --> 00:02:07,594 Spill the beans, Bri! 44 00:02:08,695 --> 00:02:09,829 Absolutely. 45 00:02:09,829 --> 00:02:11,798 Yes! Mother[bleep] right. 46 00:02:11,798 --> 00:02:13,399 Was it a good time? Yes. 47 00:02:13,399 --> 00:02:15,134 Are you ever gonna see him again? 48 00:02:15,134 --> 00:02:18,137 Probably not, and that's okay. 49 00:02:18,137 --> 00:02:19,806 I don't kiss and tell, 50 00:02:19,806 --> 00:02:21,474 I shouldn't even be saying anything right now. 51 00:02:21,474 --> 00:02:23,510 You literally told the whole world. 52 00:02:23,510 --> 00:02:26,112 I'm happy you had fun, Bri! 53 00:02:26,112 --> 00:02:27,814 Bye, you guys! 54 00:02:27,814 --> 00:02:29,349 Oh, this is his. 55 00:02:29,349 --> 00:02:30,750 [Cheyenne] Where? 56 00:02:31,851 --> 00:02:33,119 He left his underwear. 57 00:02:33,119 --> 00:02:35,154 He was naked?! 58 00:02:35,722 --> 00:02:39,792 Look at these little undies. Look at how cute they are. 59 00:02:39,792 --> 00:02:41,694 Whoo! 60 00:02:41,694 --> 00:02:42,929 Goodnight! 61 00:02:46,366 --> 00:02:49,168 [upbeat music] 62 00:02:49,168 --> 00:02:50,303 ♪ Check it ♪ 63 00:02:50,303 --> 00:02:52,772 [upbeat music] 64 00:02:52,772 --> 00:02:56,109 ♪ New thing, who this? Check it out, hot dish ♪ 65 00:02:56,109 --> 00:02:59,812 ♪ Bring around with a twist, put it on your wish list ♪ 66 00:03:04,984 --> 00:03:06,786 [phone dinging] 67 00:03:06,786 --> 00:03:12,225 [EDM playing] 68 00:03:12,225 --> 00:03:14,394 I'm wakin' up, Jonathan's been texting me. 69 00:03:14,394 --> 00:03:15,962 It was cool vibes. 70 00:03:15,962 --> 00:03:20,433 But yeah, whatever happens in Colombia stays in Colombia. 71 00:03:23,403 --> 00:03:28,308 [groovy music] 72 00:03:28,308 --> 00:03:29,776 [Tyler] What is this? 73 00:03:29,776 --> 00:03:32,178 I come out of the hall, there's underwear on the floor. 74 00:03:32,178 --> 00:03:35,682 I went to bed early last night, but somethin' happened. 75 00:03:35,682 --> 00:03:36,983 I wanna know what's goin' on. 76 00:03:36,983 --> 00:03:39,218 Tyler, did you see the underwear on the ground? 77 00:03:39,218 --> 00:03:40,520 Yeah, he left a souvenir. 78 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,021 It's like a Speedo. 79 00:03:42,021 --> 00:03:44,090 [Khesanio] Good morning, sunshine! 80 00:03:44,524 --> 00:03:46,492 -[Cheyenne] Hi, Bri. -Good morning. 81 00:03:47,260 --> 00:03:48,728 Are you gonna frame the underwear? 82 00:03:48,728 --> 00:03:50,063 No! 83 00:03:50,063 --> 00:03:51,431 [Tyler] I think someone got it in. 84 00:03:51,431 --> 00:03:53,032 Someone got it, someone got tapped. 85 00:03:53,032 --> 00:03:55,068 Someone was clappin' cheeks, someone was doin' somethin'! 86 00:03:55,068 --> 00:03:56,402 Something's happening! 87 00:03:56,402 --> 00:03:58,037 [Briana] Alright, I wanna sit on the couch. 88 00:03:58,037 --> 00:03:59,339 How was your night last night? 89 00:03:59,339 --> 00:04:00,974 -How was my night last night? -[Tyler] Yeah. 90 00:04:00,974 --> 00:04:02,575 How was your night last night? 91 00:04:02,575 --> 00:04:04,978 My night was great! My night was great! 92 00:04:04,978 --> 00:04:06,112 I never had a one-night stand, 93 00:04:06,112 --> 00:04:08,047 I never will have a one-night stand. 94 00:04:08,047 --> 00:04:10,316 I mean, I've been married to my wife for a minute, 95 00:04:10,316 --> 00:04:11,618 so I mean, yeah. 96 00:04:11,618 --> 00:04:12,752 I don't gotta worry about all that. 97 00:04:12,752 --> 00:04:14,420 -Do you have his number? -[Briana] Mm-hm. 98 00:04:14,420 --> 00:04:16,022 [Tyler] Are you gonna call ever, ever...? 99 00:04:16,022 --> 00:04:17,490 -He was texting me. -What?! 100 00:04:17,490 --> 00:04:19,392 Damn yo, that fast?! 101 00:04:19,392 --> 00:04:21,194 [Briana] Of course this happens. 102 00:04:21,194 --> 00:04:25,331 I just wanted a one-night stand, and this guy wants to come back. 103 00:04:25,331 --> 00:04:28,635 But we are almost done with this trip. 104 00:04:29,569 --> 00:04:32,472 So, I'm not looking for a relationship with him. 105 00:04:32,472 --> 00:04:34,140 I was just here to have a good time, 106 00:04:34,140 --> 00:04:36,109 and we succeeded in that. 107 00:04:36,109 --> 00:04:37,510 So, we'll see what happens. 108 00:04:37,510 --> 00:04:40,580 My girl Bri might be little unlucky with love, 109 00:04:40,580 --> 00:04:43,516 but that girl lucky with lust. 110 00:04:43,516 --> 00:04:46,219 I went to wash my hands, and I was touchin' towels, 111 00:04:46,219 --> 00:04:47,587 and I was like... 112 00:04:47,587 --> 00:04:50,390 I took out all the dirty towels, don't worry. 113 00:04:51,257 --> 00:04:52,425 I took out all the dirty towels. 114 00:04:52,425 --> 00:04:54,494 It was great, I had a good time. 115 00:04:54,494 --> 00:04:56,262 Are you gonna tell your mom? Be like, "Look..." 116 00:04:56,262 --> 00:04:57,463 Oh my God. 117 00:04:57,864 --> 00:04:59,799 I'm gonna text my mom, my sister. 118 00:05:00,266 --> 00:05:04,904 "I had a one-night stand 119 00:05:04,904 --> 00:05:06,739 and it was filmed." 120 00:05:06,739 --> 00:05:08,374 [Cate] "Figured I'd tell you now." 121 00:05:08,374 --> 00:05:09,475 [Cate laughing] 122 00:05:09,475 --> 00:05:10,677 I know Mama Roxanne, 123 00:05:10,677 --> 00:05:12,445 and she's definitely not short on words. 124 00:05:12,445 --> 00:05:14,047 So, she's gonna have a lot to say. 125 00:05:14,047 --> 00:05:15,982 [awkward music] 126 00:05:15,982 --> 00:05:18,351 My mom texted me back saying, "Briana, how?" 127 00:05:18,351 --> 00:05:19,852 With this emoji face. 128 00:05:21,721 --> 00:05:23,589 -That is so funny. -[Man] Oh my God. 129 00:05:26,559 --> 00:05:27,894 [Kiaya] This [bleep] gon' irritate me. 130 00:05:27,894 --> 00:05:29,595 Why the [bleep] my phone not workin'? 131 00:05:31,564 --> 00:05:34,567 Yo, why is my phone not workin'?! 132 00:05:34,567 --> 00:05:38,137 I wake up, and I have, like, six different missed calls 133 00:05:38,137 --> 00:05:39,439 from my family. 134 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:42,475 Right now, my baby is at home with my mama, 135 00:05:42,475 --> 00:05:44,977 and I have no phone reception. 136 00:05:44,977 --> 00:05:48,414 So immediately, my anxiety, it is through the roof. 137 00:05:54,687 --> 00:05:56,789 I'm getting tired of sweatin'. 138 00:05:56,789 --> 00:05:58,725 [Kiaya] I need to use the phone. 139 00:06:01,961 --> 00:06:03,463 Right there. 140 00:06:04,163 --> 00:06:05,498 [Sean] What's wrong? 141 00:06:07,834 --> 00:06:09,368 [Kiaya] That's, that's what I... 142 00:06:09,368 --> 00:06:10,503 [Sean] Yeah, alright. 143 00:06:10,503 --> 00:06:11,738 Time out, time out, take a breath. 144 00:06:11,738 --> 00:06:13,773 [Tyler] Use my phone. Who you wanna call? 145 00:06:17,910 --> 00:06:20,113 Hearin' that Kiaya is tryin' to get ahold of her family, 146 00:06:20,113 --> 00:06:21,314 it's kinda clickin' for me now. 147 00:06:21,314 --> 00:06:22,749 She's super stressed out about her mom. 148 00:06:23,249 --> 00:06:25,318 [Kiaya] I been goin' through so much [bleep] lately. 149 00:06:25,318 --> 00:06:27,887 my mom, she had to, um, she just picked up another job. 150 00:06:27,887 --> 00:06:31,624 And it tore me up, you know? It tore me up. 151 00:06:33,292 --> 00:06:36,129 My hands are shakin', I'm anxious. 152 00:06:36,129 --> 00:06:37,563 Yeah. 153 00:06:37,563 --> 00:06:39,866 You just need to relax, just chill. 154 00:06:39,866 --> 00:06:41,801 [Kiaya] I can't get ahold of my mama, 155 00:06:41,801 --> 00:06:44,837 and at this point, I'm worried about my mama and my baby. 156 00:06:44,837 --> 00:06:47,507 I'm just thinkin' the absolute worst. 157 00:06:48,908 --> 00:06:51,110 [Sean] She's clearly upset about somethin'. 158 00:06:52,512 --> 00:06:54,013 I'm worried about her. 159 00:06:58,518 --> 00:07:00,486 Hello? Hello? 160 00:07:01,020 --> 00:07:03,256 Hey, hey, I was startin' to freak out. 161 00:07:03,256 --> 00:07:05,458 'Cause I was gettin' missed calls from all of y'all, 162 00:07:05,458 --> 00:07:07,260 and I could not get in contact with nobody. 163 00:07:08,027 --> 00:07:10,263 I know, I'm just frustrated, I'm homesick, 164 00:07:10,263 --> 00:07:12,431 I miss Amour and stuff like that. 165 00:07:12,698 --> 00:07:14,233 [Tyler] Kiaya's shooken up, 166 00:07:14,233 --> 00:07:16,269 she's kinda just not settled right. 167 00:07:16,269 --> 00:07:17,837 And I'm concerned. 168 00:07:17,837 --> 00:07:21,607 Sorry, it's like I can't stop shaking, I'm nervous, like, bad. 169 00:07:22,141 --> 00:07:23,176 Um... 170 00:07:25,545 --> 00:07:27,113 Okay. I love you. 171 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,982 I finally get to talk to my mom and my son. 172 00:07:29,982 --> 00:07:33,085 He's alright, but there's no way I'm gonna enjoy myself 173 00:07:33,085 --> 00:07:34,687 here in Colombia 174 00:07:34,687 --> 00:07:37,623 if I'm so worried and so anxious about what's goin' on at home. 175 00:07:38,691 --> 00:07:40,026 [Tyler] Hey, hey... 176 00:07:41,527 --> 00:07:43,029 [Tyler] I know. 177 00:07:43,362 --> 00:07:44,697 Go take a walk on the beach. 178 00:07:45,131 --> 00:07:47,333 Kiaya's havin' anxiety, I know it's really hard, 179 00:07:47,333 --> 00:07:48,467 I've had anxiety my whole life. 180 00:07:48,467 --> 00:07:50,069 I feel for her right now. 181 00:07:54,006 --> 00:07:55,942 Well, I've gotten professional counseling 182 00:07:55,942 --> 00:07:57,143 for my anxiety, 183 00:07:57,143 --> 00:07:59,378 right now Kiaya needs that professional help. 184 00:07:59,378 --> 00:08:02,682 [tense music] 185 00:08:02,682 --> 00:08:04,016 [Tyler] You good? 186 00:08:04,016 --> 00:08:06,352 [Kiaya] I might go back and take a shower. 187 00:08:06,352 --> 00:08:07,887 Yeah, there you go, yeah, yeah. Do that. 188 00:08:09,121 --> 00:08:10,489 I texted Dr. Mike. 189 00:08:10,489 --> 00:08:11,824 -[Kiaya] Okay. -[Tyler] So, he's gonna 190 00:08:11,824 --> 00:08:14,727 come over and, like, just talk to you for a little bit. 191 00:08:14,727 --> 00:08:15,895 [Kiaya] Thank you, Tyler. 192 00:08:15,895 --> 00:08:17,396 I just wanna make sure you're good. 193 00:08:17,396 --> 00:08:22,535 [emotional music] 194 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,609 Back into our dungeon. 195 00:08:29,609 --> 00:08:31,878 [Taylor] I just want a whole bunch of toast. 196 00:08:31,878 --> 00:08:33,746 [Cory] Babe, that can be arranged. 197 00:08:33,746 --> 00:08:35,615 We've gotten a lot out of this trip, 198 00:08:35,615 --> 00:08:39,585 but the one thing I'm gonna miss is pickin' up that phone 199 00:08:39,585 --> 00:08:41,387 and orderin' room service. 200 00:08:41,387 --> 00:08:43,522 -Yo, gracias. -Thank you so much. 201 00:08:43,522 --> 00:08:45,057 Yummy! 202 00:08:47,426 --> 00:08:49,962 [tense music] 203 00:08:49,962 --> 00:08:52,265 You need to cook, relax your mind. 204 00:08:52,265 --> 00:08:53,900 Yeah, what's up with you cooking? 205 00:08:53,900 --> 00:08:55,568 [Kiaya] I'm about to go and cook, 206 00:08:55,568 --> 00:08:56,736 'cause I'm hungry. 207 00:08:56,736 --> 00:08:58,337 I know she's going through a lot, 208 00:08:58,337 --> 00:09:02,775 and I just hope that Kiaya can figure it out while we're here. 209 00:09:02,775 --> 00:09:04,110 Like, this is the point. 210 00:09:05,044 --> 00:09:06,212 Hi, Dr. Mike. 211 00:09:06,212 --> 00:09:07,380 [Dr. Mike] How's it goin'? 212 00:09:07,380 --> 00:09:08,581 Hola! 213 00:09:08,581 --> 00:09:10,516 [Dr. Mike] I'm looking for Kiaya. 214 00:09:11,684 --> 00:09:12,718 How are ya, Kiaya? 215 00:09:12,718 --> 00:09:14,320 [Kiaya] I'm good, how are you? 216 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:15,588 [Dr. Mike] Good. You ready for me? 217 00:09:15,588 --> 00:09:17,023 -[Kiaya] Okay. -Alright, come on up. 218 00:09:17,023 --> 00:09:19,558 [Kiaya] Alright, you guys. Sorry, I guess you have to wait. 219 00:09:19,558 --> 00:09:23,729 Tyler took it upon himself to call Dr. Mike over here for me. 220 00:09:23,729 --> 00:09:26,999 I can't let go of this stress about my mom and my son. 221 00:09:26,999 --> 00:09:28,200 I need help. 222 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:29,602 Okay. 223 00:09:29,602 --> 00:09:30,803 Alright. 224 00:09:30,803 --> 00:09:32,305 What you got for me? 225 00:09:33,406 --> 00:09:34,407 How are you? 226 00:09:34,407 --> 00:09:35,942 [Kiaya] Anxious. 227 00:09:35,942 --> 00:09:38,778 I missed some calls from my mom, and it put me into a spiral. 228 00:09:38,778 --> 00:09:42,481 Because she's, like, all I got, for real, for real, 229 00:09:42,481 --> 00:09:44,617 as far as, like, parents-wise. 230 00:09:45,885 --> 00:09:49,255 My dad, he overdosed from Fentanyl. 231 00:09:49,255 --> 00:09:50,456 Like a week before then, 232 00:09:50,456 --> 00:09:52,591 he asked me to go with him somewhere, 233 00:09:52,591 --> 00:09:54,393 to, like, to a football game or somethin'. 234 00:09:54,393 --> 00:09:55,895 But I was so mad. 235 00:09:55,895 --> 00:09:58,764 I felt like he wasn't what he should've been to me. 236 00:09:59,231 --> 00:10:00,733 I was selfish. 237 00:10:00,733 --> 00:10:02,635 I felt if, if I would've went to the game, 238 00:10:02,635 --> 00:10:04,170 he would have never overdosed. 239 00:10:04,570 --> 00:10:05,972 'Cause he would've been with me. 240 00:10:05,972 --> 00:10:07,606 Kiaya, you have to forgive yourself. 241 00:10:07,606 --> 00:10:09,442 It feels like you're angry at yourself. 242 00:10:09,442 --> 00:10:11,010 You didn't know. 243 00:10:11,811 --> 00:10:14,213 I know that if I go through this again, 244 00:10:14,213 --> 00:10:16,716 I just feel like that will be the death of me. 245 00:10:16,716 --> 00:10:18,351 [Dr. Mike] Yeah. 246 00:10:18,351 --> 00:10:20,219 [Kiaya] And I know that's kinda selfish, 'cause I got a son. 247 00:10:20,219 --> 00:10:22,521 How I'ma take care of him, I can't take care of myself? 248 00:10:22,521 --> 00:10:24,190 That's not selfish at all, be, 249 00:10:24,190 --> 00:10:26,759 because you are worried about your son. 250 00:10:26,759 --> 00:10:28,227 And there's this loneliness within you. 251 00:10:28,227 --> 00:10:31,397 And if you didn't have your mom, you wouldn't have anybody. 252 00:10:31,931 --> 00:10:33,799 Yeah, that's, that's how I feel. 253 00:10:33,799 --> 00:10:37,370 I'm so scared to be away from her at all times. 254 00:10:37,370 --> 00:10:38,537 Yeah. 255 00:10:38,537 --> 00:10:40,039 And even here, I get so... 256 00:10:40,039 --> 00:10:42,842 I, like, woke up, and I was kinda like, "I need a phone. 257 00:10:42,842 --> 00:10:44,043 I need a phone. My phone isn't workin'." 258 00:10:44,043 --> 00:10:45,778 'Cause she called me so many times. 259 00:10:45,778 --> 00:10:48,681 And it's like, I'm always on edge when it comes to her. 260 00:10:49,281 --> 00:10:52,418 Because every day when I get up and I see her go to work, 261 00:10:52,418 --> 00:10:54,887 four, five o'clock in the morning, it crushes me. 262 00:10:54,887 --> 00:10:57,323 And I feel like I need to take care of her 263 00:10:57,323 --> 00:10:58,457 before it's too late. 264 00:10:59,425 --> 00:11:03,329 Because I didn't get a chance to help my dad have a better life. 265 00:11:03,329 --> 00:11:06,932 Ah, a lot of that is stuff you can't control, 266 00:11:06,932 --> 00:11:08,601 because he's passed now. 267 00:11:08,601 --> 00:11:09,835 [Kiaya] Yeah. 268 00:11:09,835 --> 00:11:11,871 I'm not blamin' myself for the death, 269 00:11:11,871 --> 00:11:15,808 but that is why I live life very scared. 270 00:11:16,876 --> 00:11:19,745 Ah, so this anxiety I see in your eyes, this sadness, 271 00:11:20,413 --> 00:11:22,615 it's like there's this part of you that feels 272 00:11:22,615 --> 00:11:24,417 so fearful all the time. 273 00:11:25,217 --> 00:11:27,653 Especially because your dad was so present in that last year 274 00:11:27,653 --> 00:11:29,355 before he passed. 275 00:11:29,355 --> 00:11:30,623 You couldn't fix him. 276 00:11:30,623 --> 00:11:32,892 And that pain, that pain, 277 00:11:32,892 --> 00:11:36,529 that is why you are so clingy with your mom, right? 278 00:11:36,996 --> 00:11:39,565 Yeah, and I feel like I'ma fail. 279 00:11:39,565 --> 00:11:41,634 I feel like I'm behind in life. 280 00:11:41,634 --> 00:11:44,804 I feel like I'm the one that's supposed to 281 00:11:44,804 --> 00:11:47,006 make my mom never work again. 282 00:11:47,006 --> 00:11:49,809 I feel like I'm the one who's supposed to 283 00:11:49,809 --> 00:11:51,877 make her be stress-free 284 00:11:51,877 --> 00:11:55,047 and get her there 'cause she's given so much to me. 285 00:11:55,047 --> 00:11:56,000 You know, like she's always catered to me 286 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:56,949 You know, like she's always catered to me 287 00:11:56,949 --> 00:11:58,717 a little bit more than my sisters 288 00:11:58,717 --> 00:12:00,820 'cause my life has kinda always been 289 00:12:00,820 --> 00:12:02,221 more dysfunctional than theirs. 290 00:12:02,221 --> 00:12:04,223 And it's just like with all that she's given me, 291 00:12:04,223 --> 00:12:07,293 I, I know I will never be able to repay her. 292 00:12:07,293 --> 00:12:09,061 But I wanna feel a little close to it. 293 00:12:09,061 --> 00:12:11,497 And I feel so far away from that right now, 294 00:12:11,497 --> 00:12:13,265 and it eats me up. 295 00:12:13,265 --> 00:12:15,301 Feels like there's a lot of pressure you put on yourself. 296 00:12:15,634 --> 00:12:16,735 [Kiaya] Always. 297 00:12:16,735 --> 00:12:19,905 [emotional music] 298 00:12:19,905 --> 00:12:22,274 'Cause I always feel like a mess, you know? 299 00:12:22,274 --> 00:12:25,377 [emotional music] 300 00:12:26,979 --> 00:12:28,514 Feels like there's a lot of pressure you put on yourself. 301 00:12:28,848 --> 00:12:30,416 [Kiaya] Always. 302 00:12:30,416 --> 00:12:31,917 I feel like I'ma fail. 303 00:12:31,917 --> 00:12:33,986 I feel like I'm behind in life. 304 00:12:35,087 --> 00:12:38,324 'Cause I always feel like a mess, you know? 305 00:12:38,324 --> 00:12:39,425 I'm not happy. 306 00:12:40,392 --> 00:12:44,163 Dr. Mike is tryin' to really dig deep into my emotions right now, 307 00:12:44,163 --> 00:12:47,500 and I am a little bit emotional 'cause I'm really feelin' 308 00:12:47,500 --> 00:12:48,767 the pressures of life. 309 00:12:50,236 --> 00:12:53,005 I see how all these events in your life, 310 00:12:53,005 --> 00:12:54,607 I see how they're all connected. 311 00:12:54,607 --> 00:12:56,008 Yeah. 312 00:12:56,008 --> 00:12:57,843 I think sometimes you feel alone or angry, 313 00:12:57,843 --> 00:12:59,612 and then that inner critic tells you, 314 00:12:59,612 --> 00:13:01,247 "What the [bleep] is wrong with you?" 315 00:13:01,247 --> 00:13:02,548 -[Kiaya] Right. -"Everyone else is okay." 316 00:13:02,548 --> 00:13:03,916 -Right? -[Kiaya] Yeah. 317 00:13:03,916 --> 00:13:06,318 So, maybe you can just be a little easy on yourself. 318 00:13:06,318 --> 00:13:08,220 What can you give yourself credit for? 319 00:13:08,220 --> 00:13:10,289 [gentle music] 320 00:13:10,289 --> 00:13:14,093 I think I'm a good person. I think I'm a good mom. 321 00:13:15,060 --> 00:13:17,163 But other than that, I don't really know. 322 00:13:17,163 --> 00:13:20,499 I'm really used to, like, self-sabotaging, 323 00:13:20,499 --> 00:13:23,202 -or just givin' up on things. -[Dr. Mike] Yeah. 324 00:13:23,202 --> 00:13:25,671 There is a trauma response in you 325 00:13:25,671 --> 00:13:27,506 that is always monitoring, right? 326 00:13:27,506 --> 00:13:28,908 Yeah, always. 327 00:13:28,908 --> 00:13:31,143 And that's a very normal response 328 00:13:31,143 --> 00:13:33,279 that you can sort of rewire over time. 329 00:13:33,279 --> 00:13:35,214 But this is really, really good start, 330 00:13:35,214 --> 00:13:37,216 because I hear that that voice inside your head 331 00:13:37,216 --> 00:13:39,151 is no longer saying, "What the [bleep] is wrong with Kiaya?" 332 00:13:39,752 --> 00:13:42,755 I'm very aware, and, um... 333 00:13:43,322 --> 00:13:46,959 I should be givin' myself props for at least bein' so aware 334 00:13:46,959 --> 00:13:48,894 and takin' accountability of the things 335 00:13:48,894 --> 00:13:51,597 that I know is not okay to think like. 336 00:13:52,131 --> 00:13:55,067 So, I think on that, my assignment for you 337 00:13:55,067 --> 00:13:58,871 is to look for all the things that you are doing right, 338 00:13:59,405 --> 00:14:01,974 so that you can develop that confidence 339 00:14:01,974 --> 00:14:04,176 and know that you are worthy of love. 340 00:14:04,710 --> 00:14:05,945 [Kiaya] At the end of this session, 341 00:14:05,945 --> 00:14:08,480 I really feel like it's a lot of weight 342 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:09,748 lifted off of my shoulders. 343 00:14:10,216 --> 00:14:11,717 Ah, Kiaya, I'm proud of you. 344 00:14:11,717 --> 00:14:13,152 Thank you. 345 00:14:13,152 --> 00:14:15,521 Dr. Mike gave me the homework of practicing self-love 346 00:14:15,521 --> 00:14:16,989 and self-deserving. 347 00:14:16,989 --> 00:14:19,725 So, I think that is somethin' that I am gonna practice 348 00:14:20,159 --> 00:14:22,394 once I leave from here. 349 00:14:22,394 --> 00:14:24,563 Thank you so much, I do very appreciate it. 350 00:14:24,563 --> 00:14:26,065 [Dr. Mike] Oh, me too, Kiaya. 351 00:14:26,065 --> 00:14:28,334 ♪ Live and let's smile, smile ♪ 352 00:14:28,334 --> 00:14:29,568 Gracias. 353 00:14:29,568 --> 00:14:31,103 ♪ Good feelin' comin' to me ♪ 354 00:14:31,103 --> 00:14:32,972 Look at Cory flex in the mirror. Bro, I'm dead. 355 00:14:32,972 --> 00:14:34,206 [Tyler snickering] 356 00:14:34,206 --> 00:14:35,608 [Tyler] Where no one can see. 357 00:14:36,275 --> 00:14:38,744 -[Cate] Oh, my... -[Tyler] [laughing] I'm dead yo. 358 00:14:38,744 --> 00:14:40,312 That's great. 359 00:14:40,312 --> 00:14:42,648 Oh, nope, nope. 360 00:14:42,648 --> 00:14:43,782 Speed! 361 00:14:43,782 --> 00:14:45,551 [bleep]! 362 00:14:46,018 --> 00:14:49,088 Look at that, "Tennessee couple married for 69 years 363 00:14:49,088 --> 00:14:51,557 spend their last moments holding hands in the hospital." 364 00:14:51,557 --> 00:14:52,825 Oh, wow. 365 00:14:52,825 --> 00:14:54,059 -That's gonna be us. -I know, right? 366 00:14:54,059 --> 00:14:55,694 -I hope so. -I'm sad. 367 00:14:55,694 --> 00:14:56,929 I really don't wanna bury you. 368 00:14:56,929 --> 00:14:58,464 I don't wanna bury you, either. 369 00:14:58,464 --> 00:14:59,498 [bleep] that. 370 00:14:59,498 --> 00:15:01,200 Turn that down, Jesus. 371 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,135 [Kayla] Are you feelin' a little bit better? 372 00:15:03,135 --> 00:15:06,038 [Kiaya] Yeah, I feel a little bit less on edge. 373 00:15:06,038 --> 00:15:09,208 What's goin' on with Ryan, y'all good? 374 00:15:09,208 --> 00:15:10,743 -[Kayla] Yeah, good. -Good. 375 00:15:11,710 --> 00:15:13,979 You feel like you gettin' what you need to get out of it? 376 00:15:13,979 --> 00:15:15,614 [Kayla] Yeah, I feel like I learned so much. 377 00:15:15,614 --> 00:15:17,916 I do feel like me and Ryan are in such a good spot, 378 00:15:17,916 --> 00:15:19,118 And I think that's why I'm scared. 379 00:15:19,118 --> 00:15:20,619 'Cause I want it to last. 380 00:15:20,619 --> 00:15:22,288 Ryan and I know we're not perfect, 381 00:15:22,288 --> 00:15:24,323 but that's okay, because we made progress. 382 00:15:24,323 --> 00:15:26,225 What made you fall in love with this man? 383 00:15:26,225 --> 00:15:28,227 What made me fall in love with you is I feel like 384 00:15:28,227 --> 00:15:29,995 you always backed up what you said with, like, actions. 385 00:15:29,995 --> 00:15:32,131 You would drive a hour to come get me, 386 00:15:32,131 --> 00:15:34,033 and I feel like you show me you love me. 387 00:15:34,033 --> 00:15:37,202 And I love you because you're a strong woman. 388 00:15:38,037 --> 00:15:40,839 You take care of your family, and you take care of me. 389 00:15:47,146 --> 00:15:48,947 I don't know, bitch, I just feel the pressure. 390 00:15:48,947 --> 00:15:50,816 The timeline's real close. 391 00:15:50,816 --> 00:15:51,817 So, you wantin' it now? 392 00:15:51,817 --> 00:15:53,018 I want the baby. 393 00:15:54,053 --> 00:15:56,088 We still don't really have a plan with the baby. 394 00:15:56,088 --> 00:15:57,323 I'm very worried, 395 00:15:57,323 --> 00:15:59,224 'cause I don't know what he wants to do. 396 00:15:59,792 --> 00:16:03,095 [Kiaya] Well, I'm happy that you decided that, you know, 397 00:16:03,095 --> 00:16:04,630 keepin' it is the best thing for you. 398 00:16:04,630 --> 00:16:05,998 [Kayla] I need an answer. 399 00:16:05,998 --> 00:16:07,900 I need to know what Ryan's decision's gonna be. 400 00:16:07,900 --> 00:16:11,203 It will be hard for me to feel like I do not want this baby. 401 00:16:11,203 --> 00:16:13,172 I'm just hopin' for the best, 402 00:16:13,172 --> 00:16:15,140 but I'm preparing myself for the worst. 403 00:16:15,741 --> 00:16:17,643 I think I wanted the baby all along, 404 00:16:17,643 --> 00:16:21,280 but I was very scared because of how bad our relationship was. 405 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:22,948 But being here with the coaching, 406 00:16:22,948 --> 00:16:26,185 we've learned how to communicate in a healthy way. 407 00:16:26,185 --> 00:16:27,753 We've learned to break down our walls, 408 00:16:27,753 --> 00:16:29,455 we've gotten closer. 409 00:16:29,455 --> 00:16:31,957 I'd like to make a family with Ryan. 410 00:16:31,957 --> 00:16:33,459 It's crazy. 411 00:16:35,294 --> 00:16:36,462 ♪ Whoa ♪ 412 00:16:36,862 --> 00:16:38,130 ♪ Whoa ♪ 413 00:16:39,098 --> 00:16:41,433 ♪ Can you hear that fire ♪ 414 00:16:41,433 --> 00:16:44,002 [Briana] Damn, Nova and Stella are sick, that's so annoying. 415 00:16:44,002 --> 00:16:45,637 Stella's attached to my hip. 416 00:16:45,637 --> 00:16:47,706 Stella wants me all the time. 417 00:16:47,706 --> 00:16:50,509 I'm [bleep], Stella's like, "Can I sit on your lap?" 418 00:16:51,844 --> 00:16:54,680 I'm like, "Girl! Can I have privacy?" 419 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:56,682 Nova, she wants her privacy. 420 00:16:56,682 --> 00:17:00,386 What are you gonna do about her? She's so pretty. 421 00:17:00,386 --> 00:17:04,623 Every time I see her, I'm like, "Oh my gosh, that little chunk 422 00:17:04,623 --> 00:17:06,658 is like a model." 423 00:17:08,794 --> 00:17:11,830 -[Michaiah] Hello. -Oh, man... 424 00:17:12,297 --> 00:17:14,333 I literally asked Michaiah a few hours ago 425 00:17:14,333 --> 00:17:15,601 when would we have our session. 426 00:17:15,601 --> 00:17:18,804 Because Jade said that her and I would just vibe. 427 00:17:19,238 --> 00:17:21,106 So, who do you think I'm here for? 428 00:17:21,106 --> 00:17:23,709 But she couldn't be coming for me already. 429 00:17:23,709 --> 00:17:25,000 I'm excited, to be honest. 430 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:25,110 I'm excited, to be honest. 431 00:17:25,110 --> 00:17:27,479 -Let's go. -Alright, bye, guys. 432 00:17:27,479 --> 00:17:28,680 [Woman] Bye! 433 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,450 After texting my mom about my one-night stand, 434 00:17:31,450 --> 00:17:34,686 I did realize this is not why I came out here. 435 00:17:34,686 --> 00:17:37,289 I want to find the right person. 436 00:17:37,289 --> 00:17:40,893 I had my fun, and now it's time to get serious. 437 00:17:41,393 --> 00:17:43,495 This is, like, intro time. 438 00:17:43,495 --> 00:17:44,530 Okay. 439 00:17:44,530 --> 00:17:45,898 I'm nervous. 440 00:17:45,898 --> 00:17:48,434 I have a lot of internal issues that I need to work on. 441 00:17:48,901 --> 00:17:49,935 [Michaiah] Who are you? 442 00:17:49,935 --> 00:17:51,336 Well, I'm Briana. 443 00:17:51,770 --> 00:17:54,206 I'm 29 years old, I have two kids. 444 00:17:54,206 --> 00:17:56,241 I was born in New York, Brooklyn, 445 00:17:56,241 --> 00:17:57,876 and my mom moved me to Florida. 446 00:17:58,343 --> 00:18:01,346 My dad left when I got pregnant at the age of 16, 447 00:18:01,346 --> 00:18:03,849 he just totally disappeared because he was upset that 448 00:18:03,849 --> 00:18:05,050 I was pregnant. 449 00:18:05,684 --> 00:18:07,519 So... Yeah. 450 00:18:07,519 --> 00:18:08,954 [Michaiah] Okay. 451 00:18:08,954 --> 00:18:12,157 What I'm hearing from your story so far is a lot of transition. 452 00:18:12,157 --> 00:18:15,260 -Oh, yeah. -A lot of major life movement. 453 00:18:15,260 --> 00:18:16,862 -Yeah. -Going from being a teenager 454 00:18:16,862 --> 00:18:18,096 to being a mom... 455 00:18:18,096 --> 00:18:19,798 I'm a single mom. 456 00:18:19,798 --> 00:18:21,366 [Michaiah] Okay. 457 00:18:21,366 --> 00:18:24,503 This is the first time that I've been single for a long time. 458 00:18:24,503 --> 00:18:26,538 It's almost going on two years, I think. 459 00:18:26,538 --> 00:18:28,874 I haven't been, like, super committed to anybody. 460 00:18:28,874 --> 00:18:32,744 And, like, yesterday, that was a one-night stand. 461 00:18:32,744 --> 00:18:35,547 Hold, hold up. Hold... 462 00:18:35,547 --> 00:18:36,715 How was that? 463 00:18:36,715 --> 00:18:39,151 [Briana] Good, but I pushed myself to go out. 464 00:18:39,151 --> 00:18:40,486 And I'm glad I did. 465 00:18:40,486 --> 00:18:44,156 I want to feel like I can let my guard down, 466 00:18:44,156 --> 00:18:46,892 turn my brain off, and let somebody else lead. 467 00:18:47,326 --> 00:18:50,062 So, what about dating? 468 00:18:51,463 --> 00:18:53,832 -Trash. -How does that work 469 00:18:53,832 --> 00:18:55,801 with all that you have goin' on? 470 00:18:55,801 --> 00:18:57,769 Ugh, I hate dating. 471 00:18:57,769 --> 00:19:00,506 Bad picker, can't pick somebody to save my life. 472 00:19:01,273 --> 00:19:04,443 Somehow I always end up with insecure men. 473 00:19:04,443 --> 00:19:07,145 I don't know, I have a problem. 474 00:19:07,145 --> 00:19:08,814 [Michaiah] You definitely do have a type, right? 475 00:19:08,814 --> 00:19:11,884 But that type might not be what works for you. 476 00:19:11,884 --> 00:19:14,152 It might be what you want, it might not what you need. 477 00:19:14,152 --> 00:19:16,822 -Mm-hm. -You need a stable, consistent, 478 00:19:16,822 --> 00:19:18,757 present man in your life. 479 00:19:18,757 --> 00:19:19,825 Yep. 480 00:19:19,825 --> 00:19:21,493 Who's been that for you? 481 00:19:21,493 --> 00:19:23,262 Mm, zero people. 482 00:19:24,029 --> 00:19:26,598 What about your daughter's dad? 483 00:19:26,598 --> 00:19:27,866 No. 484 00:19:28,433 --> 00:19:32,404 I'm sure I've met men that were maybe good for me, 485 00:19:32,404 --> 00:19:35,941 and the first massive "Okay, maybe this could work", 486 00:19:35,941 --> 00:19:37,442 I self-sabotaged. 487 00:19:37,442 --> 00:19:39,144 -Mm. -And I cut off men 488 00:19:39,144 --> 00:19:42,080 without an explanation, without a conversation. 489 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:43,949 -[Michaiah] Mm. -Without anything. 490 00:19:43,949 --> 00:19:46,318 It's like, cold turkey, I'm out. 491 00:19:47,085 --> 00:19:49,821 What were Mom's relationships like? 492 00:19:49,821 --> 00:19:53,125 When she was with my dad, toxic. 493 00:19:53,125 --> 00:19:54,493 -[Michaiah] Okay. -And that's the only 494 00:19:54,493 --> 00:19:57,462 relationship that I saw as a child. 495 00:19:58,096 --> 00:20:00,666 I remember the last time I spoke to my dad. 496 00:20:01,700 --> 00:20:03,502 I tried recently, I found out where he worked, 497 00:20:03,502 --> 00:20:05,304 I went to go try to see him, 498 00:20:05,304 --> 00:20:07,139 and they said he didn't want to talk to me. 499 00:20:07,639 --> 00:20:09,942 I heard his voice on the walkie talkie. 500 00:20:09,942 --> 00:20:11,610 "I'm unavailable." 501 00:20:12,844 --> 00:20:14,046 [Michaiah] "I'm unavailable." 502 00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:15,647 Mm-hm. 503 00:20:16,548 --> 00:20:18,650 [Michaiah] And that seemed to be... 504 00:20:20,152 --> 00:20:22,754 So much of the story with men in your life, 505 00:20:22,754 --> 00:20:24,022 they're unavailable. 506 00:20:24,022 --> 00:20:25,223 They're unavailable. 507 00:20:25,223 --> 00:20:26,425 [Michaiah] Emotionally unavailable. 508 00:20:26,425 --> 00:20:27,993 It was devastating. 509 00:20:27,993 --> 00:20:31,330 And it kinda makes me not available. 510 00:20:31,763 --> 00:20:33,398 You took the words right out of my mouth. 511 00:20:33,398 --> 00:20:35,267 You, you should be in this seat! 512 00:20:35,267 --> 00:20:37,369 -I mean! -I'm a little self aware! 513 00:20:37,369 --> 00:20:39,538 [Michaiah] You are very self aware. 514 00:20:39,538 --> 00:20:42,574 Because emotionally unavailable people choose 515 00:20:43,041 --> 00:20:45,644 emotionally unavailable people. 516 00:20:45,644 --> 00:20:46,645 Mm-hm. 517 00:20:46,645 --> 00:20:48,180 [Michaiah] And there's a part of you 518 00:20:48,180 --> 00:20:51,883 that may be unavailable because of all of what you've seen. 519 00:20:52,217 --> 00:20:54,886 From emotionally unavailable partners 520 00:20:54,886 --> 00:20:56,755 and from Dad walking away. 521 00:20:56,755 --> 00:20:59,491 So then, the logistics of it come down to... 522 00:20:59,491 --> 00:21:01,860 -Yeah. -"Am I ever going to be fixed? 523 00:21:01,860 --> 00:21:04,129 Am I, is this ever going to get better? 524 00:21:04,129 --> 00:21:06,765 Am I really deserving of having better?" 525 00:21:06,765 --> 00:21:12,671 [tense music] 526 00:21:14,690 --> 00:21:15,558 -[Michaiah] Ask yourself... -[Briana] Yeah. 527 00:21:15,558 --> 00:21:17,460 "Am I ever going to be fixed? 528 00:21:17,460 --> 00:21:19,228 Am I, is this ever going to get better? 529 00:21:19,228 --> 00:21:21,330 Am I really deserving of having better?" 530 00:21:21,330 --> 00:21:23,332 I don't think I'm worthy enough. 531 00:21:24,434 --> 00:21:26,869 You are worthy of the love that you want. 532 00:21:27,336 --> 00:21:30,239 -Yeah. -It's a self-fulfilling cycle. 533 00:21:30,239 --> 00:21:31,374 -Mm-hm. -[Michaiah] "I'll grab 534 00:21:31,374 --> 00:21:33,209 the [bleep] partner possible..." 535 00:21:33,209 --> 00:21:34,911 -Yeah. -Who's going to reinforce 536 00:21:34,911 --> 00:21:36,312 that I'm not worthy. 537 00:21:36,312 --> 00:21:37,847 -[Briana] Yeah. -And then I can say to myself, 538 00:21:37,847 --> 00:21:39,148 -"See, I'm right." -Yeah. 539 00:21:39,148 --> 00:21:41,617 [Michaiah] So, it's a matter of rewiring the brain. 540 00:21:42,318 --> 00:21:43,486 That's gonna take some work, 541 00:21:43,486 --> 00:21:45,855 'cause I've felt this way all my life. 542 00:21:45,855 --> 00:21:47,457 [Michaiah] Mm-hm. 543 00:21:47,457 --> 00:21:50,159 This is gonna help you, and it might sound a little silly. 544 00:21:50,159 --> 00:21:51,894 -Okay. -What hand do you write with? 545 00:21:51,894 --> 00:21:53,329 My right. 546 00:21:53,329 --> 00:21:55,098 -Use your left hand... -Mm-hm. 547 00:21:55,098 --> 00:21:56,499 -To brush your teeth. -Okay. 548 00:21:56,499 --> 00:21:57,834 So, this, now, this is a brain hack. 549 00:21:57,834 --> 00:21:59,535 So, while you are training your brain 550 00:21:59,535 --> 00:22:00,837 to do something different, 551 00:22:00,837 --> 00:22:02,438 you're using a different part of your brain, 552 00:22:02,438 --> 00:22:04,040 different hemisphere of the brain, left hand. 553 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,310 You're also rewiring the thinking. 554 00:22:07,310 --> 00:22:10,947 Now you can move differently, act differently, 555 00:22:11,247 --> 00:22:12,815 once you believe differently. 556 00:22:12,815 --> 00:22:15,985 It can be that simple, through practice. 557 00:22:16,819 --> 00:22:17,854 "I'm worthy." 558 00:22:18,154 --> 00:22:19,622 I'm worthy. 559 00:22:20,523 --> 00:22:22,992 And you're gonna say it until you believe it. 560 00:22:22,992 --> 00:22:24,660 Okay. 561 00:22:24,660 --> 00:22:25,928 The takeaway from my session: 562 00:22:26,529 --> 00:22:29,966 I'm worthy, I deserve all the things that I want, 563 00:22:29,966 --> 00:22:33,202 and start to just love myself a little bit more. 564 00:22:33,202 --> 00:22:34,537 And once I can do that, 565 00:22:34,537 --> 00:22:36,839 I will start attracting the right people. 566 00:22:36,839 --> 00:22:38,841 Next thing you know I'm gonna have a ring on my finger, 567 00:22:38,841 --> 00:22:41,944 and I'm gonna get married, and we're gonna have kids. 568 00:22:46,015 --> 00:22:48,151 [mysterious music] 569 00:22:48,151 --> 00:22:49,952 [Cory] Come give me a debriefing, man. 570 00:22:49,952 --> 00:22:52,522 I woke up from my nap... 571 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:56,759 I've known about Ryan and Kayla bein' pregnant, 572 00:22:56,759 --> 00:22:59,629 but they didn't really know what was gonna happen. 573 00:22:59,629 --> 00:23:02,598 So, have you decided, like, what you're gonna do? 574 00:23:02,598 --> 00:23:05,168 'Cause listen, man, you got a lot on your plate. 575 00:23:05,168 --> 00:23:08,704 This trip is coming to an end a lot sooner than later. 576 00:23:08,704 --> 00:23:10,606 They have to make that decision. 577 00:23:10,606 --> 00:23:12,575 I feel like me and you have clicked, 578 00:23:12,575 --> 00:23:15,111 I like, like, hangin' out with you, 579 00:23:15,111 --> 00:23:16,312 gettin' to know you. 580 00:23:16,312 --> 00:23:17,813 I feel like our stories, we can relate, 581 00:23:17,813 --> 00:23:20,616 so, like, I just wanted to kinda take you outside of the house. 582 00:23:20,616 --> 00:23:22,852 'Cause I know that mother[bleep] can be stressful. 583 00:23:22,852 --> 00:23:25,655 I understand the fear of a broken family. 584 00:23:25,655 --> 00:23:27,023 I went through it, too. 585 00:23:27,023 --> 00:23:30,459 Are you okay lookin' to continue to live together or not? 586 00:23:30,459 --> 00:23:33,563 Our decision is if we can actually work through, like, 587 00:23:33,563 --> 00:23:34,997 our communicating problems. 588 00:23:34,997 --> 00:23:37,700 But have you thought about what you want? 589 00:23:37,700 --> 00:23:41,971 Yes, but what I want is, like, just to be happy. 590 00:23:41,971 --> 00:23:45,107 [Ryan] Cory, he's basically just tellin' me to, 591 00:23:45,107 --> 00:23:46,275 "Get your [bleep] together." 592 00:23:46,709 --> 00:23:49,078 So, I need to make the best decision 593 00:23:49,078 --> 00:23:50,780 for me, Kayla and the baby, 594 00:23:50,780 --> 00:23:53,349 and everything will basically fall in line. 595 00:23:53,349 --> 00:23:55,318 [Cory] I just want you to make progress. 596 00:23:55,318 --> 00:23:58,054 I mean, I think I know my answer. 597 00:23:59,155 --> 00:24:00,389 [Cory] Alright, boy. 598 00:24:00,389 --> 00:24:04,126 [upbeat music] 599 00:24:04,126 --> 00:24:05,895 ♪ I'm not quiet, not too shy ♪ 600 00:24:05,895 --> 00:24:08,497 ♪ Got my hair down for the ride ♪ 601 00:24:08,497 --> 00:24:11,734 ♪ I'll roll all the windows down ♪ 602 00:24:11,734 --> 00:24:13,736 ♪ 'Cause I'm wild and free ♪ 603 00:24:14,637 --> 00:24:18,074 ♪ Ooh, ooh, wild and free ♪ 604 00:24:18,074 --> 00:24:20,409 So, I'm lookin' through the fridge, and I'm like, 605 00:24:20,409 --> 00:24:21,544 "Damn, there's still, like, 606 00:24:21,544 --> 00:24:23,112 a lot I don't know how to say in Spanish." 607 00:24:23,112 --> 00:24:25,781 Like, that'd be a good thing to know, like, "How do you, 608 00:24:25,781 --> 00:24:26,949 how do you say?" 609 00:24:26,949 --> 00:24:28,184 I'm, I'ma look it up. 610 00:24:28,184 --> 00:24:29,885 "Como se dice"? 611 00:24:29,885 --> 00:24:32,188 Como, se, dice. 612 00:24:32,188 --> 00:24:34,290 Como, se, dice. 613 00:24:34,790 --> 00:24:36,325 -Good morning. -Buenos dias! 614 00:24:36,325 --> 00:24:37,627 [Tyler] Buenos dias. 615 00:24:38,194 --> 00:24:40,529 ¿Como se dice 'omelet'? 616 00:24:40,529 --> 00:24:42,098 [Mackenzie] Uh-huh, si. 617 00:24:42,098 --> 00:24:43,266 [Tyler] Sure. 618 00:24:43,266 --> 00:24:44,867 I didn't know that part, but si. 619 00:24:44,867 --> 00:24:46,636 [Tyler] Ooh, we don't have any cheese? 620 00:24:46,636 --> 00:24:48,170 -Ugh! -[Mackenzie laughing] 621 00:24:48,170 --> 00:24:52,642 [upbeat music] 622 00:24:52,642 --> 00:24:55,678 [Ryan] I feel like me and Kayla have come a long way. 623 00:24:55,678 --> 00:24:58,614 And after time to chill with Cory last night, 624 00:24:58,614 --> 00:25:00,750 I decided I wanna take her on a little date 625 00:25:00,750 --> 00:25:04,020 for a picnic on a beach, and talk about our future. 626 00:25:10,226 --> 00:25:11,394 [Kayla] You look cute. 627 00:25:11,394 --> 00:25:13,296 [Kiaya] Thank you, so do you! 628 00:25:13,296 --> 00:25:14,630 Thanks, I guess we're goin' on a date. 629 00:25:14,630 --> 00:25:15,965 -Uh-oh. -[Kiaya] Go to the beach, baby. 630 00:25:15,965 --> 00:25:18,467 You look super cute though, you fit the vibe. 631 00:25:18,467 --> 00:25:21,837 [emotional music] 632 00:25:21,837 --> 00:25:23,439 What's all this? 633 00:25:23,439 --> 00:25:26,309 So, I go outside, and I just see him on the beach 634 00:25:26,309 --> 00:25:28,644 with, like, little picnic setup. 635 00:25:28,644 --> 00:25:30,680 It was cute, I like that he put in the effort, 636 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,214 you know, he set it up himself. 637 00:25:32,214 --> 00:25:34,317 I know you've been havin' a long week and everything. 638 00:25:34,317 --> 00:25:36,619 Talkin' about a lot, um, makin' decisions. 639 00:25:36,619 --> 00:25:38,054 [Kayla] Yeah. 640 00:25:38,054 --> 00:25:40,189 So, just wanted some time to ourselves to relax. 641 00:25:40,189 --> 00:25:42,158 For sure, yeah, let's sit down. 642 00:25:42,158 --> 00:25:43,626 When you care about somebody, 643 00:25:43,626 --> 00:25:45,661 you just wanna figure out where I can do better. 644 00:25:45,661 --> 00:25:48,764 I know I need to change with the way I communicate. 645 00:25:48,764 --> 00:25:50,466 It's little things, but it's big things 646 00:25:50,466 --> 00:25:54,670 because it shows her that I can care. 647 00:25:55,304 --> 00:25:56,605 Ooh, it's hot! 648 00:25:56,605 --> 00:25:58,074 -How are you feelin', otherwise? -I'm happy. 649 00:25:58,074 --> 00:26:00,343 I think I told you that last night before I went to sleep, 650 00:26:00,343 --> 00:26:01,644 I was like, "I'm just really happy." 651 00:26:01,644 --> 00:26:04,680 I, I see nothing but good things for us, 652 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,415 hopefully you feel the same. 653 00:26:06,415 --> 00:26:07,616 No, I do, I mean... 654 00:26:07,616 --> 00:26:10,386 This, just this, what, past week or so? 655 00:26:10,386 --> 00:26:11,520 There's been so much progress. 656 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,855 I feel like we're in a better spot 657 00:26:12,855 --> 00:26:13,000 than we've ever been, and it's only been a week. 658 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,824 than we've ever been, and it's only been a week. 659 00:26:14,824 --> 00:26:17,059 Now we have the tools and the knowledge and the guidance 660 00:26:17,059 --> 00:26:18,294 that, like, we never had. 661 00:26:18,294 --> 00:26:19,495 Yeah. 662 00:26:19,495 --> 00:26:21,097 We've been getting happy and happier. 663 00:26:21,097 --> 00:26:24,333 So, I feel like it's time to find out what we're gonna do. 664 00:26:24,333 --> 00:26:26,335 What's next for our relationship? 665 00:26:26,869 --> 00:26:28,037 I mean, what's next for us is 666 00:26:28,037 --> 00:26:29,772 takin' all the tools we learned here 667 00:26:29,772 --> 00:26:31,574 and applying them at home. 668 00:26:32,141 --> 00:26:33,709 Like, I feel like we've learned so much, 669 00:26:33,709 --> 00:26:35,745 but like, the real test doesn't begin until we get home 670 00:26:35,745 --> 00:26:38,080 and we actually do the things that we've been talking about. 671 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,584 I feel like we should also find a therapist at home. 672 00:26:41,584 --> 00:26:42,852 I think that's a great idea, 673 00:26:42,852 --> 00:26:44,053 I would love to keep doin' therapy. 674 00:26:44,053 --> 00:26:45,921 'Cause I think we have so much potential, 675 00:26:45,921 --> 00:26:48,557 we just have to keep going. 676 00:26:48,557 --> 00:26:50,393 Yeah, put our pride to the side. 677 00:26:50,393 --> 00:26:52,194 Yeah, we're both very prideful people. 678 00:26:52,194 --> 00:26:54,530 But I feel like being here has taught us a lot, 679 00:26:54,530 --> 00:26:56,832 and there's a lotta more important things 680 00:26:56,832 --> 00:26:58,334 than just pride or being right. 681 00:26:58,334 --> 00:26:59,668 First, before anything, 682 00:26:59,668 --> 00:27:01,670 I wanna find out that we're on the same page. 683 00:27:01,670 --> 00:27:04,840 This reunion will be ending in a few days. 684 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,076 And we've really avoided talking about the baby. 685 00:27:07,076 --> 00:27:09,678 But time's runnin' out, like, we need to talk about it now. 686 00:27:09,678 --> 00:27:11,714 I feel like you've known I wanted to keep it, 687 00:27:11,714 --> 00:27:13,115 but I was just scared 'cause 688 00:27:13,115 --> 00:27:14,884 I wanted you to, like, be excited about it. 689 00:27:14,884 --> 00:27:15,951 -Yeah, but... -But... 690 00:27:15,951 --> 00:27:17,720 It was never a for sure answer. 691 00:27:18,888 --> 00:27:20,256 Now I know what I want. 692 00:27:22,591 --> 00:27:24,193 That means we're keeping it, right? 693 00:27:24,193 --> 00:27:28,697 [tense music] 694 00:27:29,373 --> 00:27:31,709 [tense music] 695 00:27:31,709 --> 00:27:33,344 We're keeping it, right? 696 00:27:33,344 --> 00:27:35,880 [tense music] 697 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,148 Yes! 698 00:27:37,148 --> 00:27:39,350 Okay, I didn't wanna feel like I was forcing you to. 699 00:27:39,350 --> 00:27:40,718 [Ryan] But I wanna know from you. 700 00:27:40,718 --> 00:27:42,953 Yeah, that's what I wanted to hear all along. 701 00:27:42,953 --> 00:27:45,623 We came to the decision to keep the baby, 702 00:27:45,623 --> 00:27:48,926 by seein' that we can grow together and we're open 703 00:27:48,926 --> 00:27:52,096 to fixing our problems when we get back home. 704 00:27:54,298 --> 00:27:55,366 You happy? 705 00:27:55,366 --> 00:27:56,567 [Ryan] Yes, I'm happy. 706 00:27:56,567 --> 00:27:57,968 [Kayla] Me, too. 707 00:27:57,968 --> 00:28:00,137 I haven't got this much stress off my shoulders 708 00:28:00,137 --> 00:28:01,305 in a very long time. 709 00:28:02,073 --> 00:28:05,743 I feel like we have a very bright road ahead of us. 710 00:28:05,743 --> 00:28:07,678 A lotta tension let go. 711 00:28:07,678 --> 00:28:09,613 We're gonna have a committed relationship 712 00:28:09,613 --> 00:28:12,149 and take care of our baby. 713 00:28:12,149 --> 00:28:13,784 Maybe it's just 'cause we're on the beach, 714 00:28:13,784 --> 00:28:15,586 but, like, I just feel at peace. 715 00:28:16,253 --> 00:28:18,522 And I haven't felt at peace for a long time. 716 00:28:18,522 --> 00:28:19,790 Life is good. 717 00:28:19,790 --> 00:28:22,660 I think Ryan and I wanted the baby all along, 718 00:28:22,660 --> 00:28:24,662 but I think we were just very scared because of 719 00:28:24,662 --> 00:28:26,430 how bad our relationship was. 720 00:28:26,430 --> 00:28:28,032 But being here with the coaching, 721 00:28:28,032 --> 00:28:29,800 we've learned to break down our walls. 722 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,335 We've gotten closer, 723 00:28:31,802 --> 00:28:33,337 and it really just brought us back to why 724 00:28:33,337 --> 00:28:36,107 we fell in love in the first place ten years ago. 725 00:28:36,107 --> 00:28:38,409 [upbeat music] 726 00:28:38,409 --> 00:28:39,844 ♪ Ah-ooh ♪ 727 00:28:40,344 --> 00:28:42,713 ♪ I work hard, play harder ♪ 728 00:28:42,713 --> 00:28:44,315 ♪ That's what you need, for starters ♪ 729 00:28:44,315 --> 00:28:47,985 ♪ I build empires, Gasoline, light 'em on fire ♪ 730 00:28:47,985 --> 00:28:51,122 I can't get over you in these jeans. 731 00:28:51,122 --> 00:28:53,190 We're having a sweet 16. 732 00:28:53,190 --> 00:28:56,160 Everybody is supposed to dress like the 2000's. 733 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,764 This party is in honor of those who missed out on 734 00:28:59,764 --> 00:29:02,299 their sweet 16th party due to being pregnant 735 00:29:02,299 --> 00:29:03,634 with a little baby. 736 00:29:03,634 --> 00:29:06,070 [Zach] Damn, I remember this [bleep]! 737 00:29:06,070 --> 00:29:08,272 I'm ready, I got my outfit, I'm bringin' out my Jordans, 738 00:29:08,272 --> 00:29:11,175 I'm bringin' out my big jeans, big tee shirt, durag. 739 00:29:11,175 --> 00:29:14,111 The only thing I'm missin' is a Jansport backpack. 740 00:29:15,112 --> 00:29:16,247 Oh my God! 741 00:29:16,247 --> 00:29:17,815 I can't take you seriously. 742 00:29:17,815 --> 00:29:19,984 [Jade] I'm feeling super nostalgic, 743 00:29:19,984 --> 00:29:21,485 this brings back so many memories 744 00:29:21,485 --> 00:29:23,587 of me just being younger. 745 00:29:23,587 --> 00:29:24,789 Young and dumb! 746 00:29:26,457 --> 00:29:28,092 [Mackenzie] It's me, Mackenzie. 747 00:29:28,092 --> 00:29:29,794 -[Cate] Who? -[Tyler] I don't know. 748 00:29:31,729 --> 00:29:34,198 Cate and Tyler have been party poopers lately, 749 00:29:34,198 --> 00:29:37,501 and someone's gonna have to drag them to the party. 750 00:29:37,501 --> 00:29:38,669 So... 751 00:29:38,669 --> 00:29:40,104 I'm gonna do it. 752 00:29:40,805 --> 00:29:42,239 Were you sleeping? 753 00:29:42,239 --> 00:29:43,574 Are you guys awake? 754 00:29:43,574 --> 00:29:45,242 Yeah, we just got done watching a movie. 755 00:29:45,242 --> 00:29:46,911 [Mackenzie] But, like, if you guys wanna hang out... 756 00:29:46,911 --> 00:29:48,612 I'm just tryin' to, like, snuggle, 757 00:29:48,612 --> 00:29:50,114 watch some trash TV in my bed. 758 00:29:50,114 --> 00:29:51,749 Sorry, Mackenzie. 759 00:29:53,350 --> 00:29:57,087 [upbeat music] 760 00:29:57,087 --> 00:29:59,390 ♪ Gonna blow up Blow up real good ♪ 761 00:29:59,390 --> 00:30:01,659 ♪ When they come, gotta hit 'em like they're hot, hot ♪ 762 00:30:01,659 --> 00:30:02,860 ♪ We gonna... ♪ 763 00:30:02,860 --> 00:30:05,830 Oh, wow, they did it big for this. 764 00:30:06,964 --> 00:30:08,732 [Mackenzie] Well, let's go get a drink! 765 00:30:08,732 --> 00:30:11,001 It is the 2000's, baby. 766 00:30:11,001 --> 00:30:12,837 I cannot wait for this one! 767 00:30:12,837 --> 00:30:16,173 I am so excited to see everyone's outfits. 768 00:30:16,173 --> 00:30:17,508 You look cute! 769 00:30:17,508 --> 00:30:18,709 [Kayla] Thank you! 770 00:30:18,709 --> 00:30:21,078 Me and Kiaya with a little thong. 771 00:30:21,078 --> 00:30:22,580 I was goin' for, like, Lil' Kim. 772 00:30:22,580 --> 00:30:23,848 That was the vibe I was goin' for. 773 00:30:23,848 --> 00:30:25,449 In the 2000's, 774 00:30:25,449 --> 00:30:27,117 everybody else was probably, like, in their teenage years, 775 00:30:27,117 --> 00:30:28,886 and I'm just learnin' how to walk. 776 00:30:28,886 --> 00:30:31,222 [Jade] Party people! 777 00:30:31,222 --> 00:30:32,256 You guys look so cute. 778 00:30:32,256 --> 00:30:33,991 [Cheyenne] Where the [bleep] is Bri? 779 00:30:33,991 --> 00:30:35,726 [Kiaya] I think she's just, like, sleepin' all day. 780 00:30:35,726 --> 00:30:37,461 [Briana snoring] 781 00:30:37,461 --> 00:30:40,564 [upbeat music] 782 00:30:40,564 --> 00:30:42,233 Okay, who had a sweet 16? 783 00:30:42,233 --> 00:30:45,703 [crickets chirping] 784 00:30:45,703 --> 00:30:47,304 No. 785 00:30:47,304 --> 00:30:48,372 -Okay, then! -Alright! 786 00:30:48,372 --> 00:30:50,274 So, sweet 16 for everybody! 787 00:30:50,274 --> 00:30:51,742 [Leah] I had a baby. 788 00:30:51,742 --> 00:30:54,011 So, at 16, Leah was gettin' it on. 789 00:30:54,011 --> 00:30:57,014 My veins are busted all the way down my legs. 790 00:30:57,014 --> 00:30:59,750 I'm missin' out on everything. Everything. 791 00:30:59,750 --> 00:31:01,118 You missed Homecoming Week. 792 00:31:01,118 --> 00:31:03,053 That's what sucks about bein' pregnant. 793 00:31:03,821 --> 00:31:06,290 I miss out. Cheerleading, games. 794 00:31:07,324 --> 00:31:09,193 Did you have a 16th birthday party? 795 00:31:09,193 --> 00:31:10,194 No. 796 00:31:10,494 --> 00:31:12,062 Well, this party's for you. 797 00:31:12,897 --> 00:31:16,600 Not everyone had healthy home environments that provided. 798 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,303 Sweet 16. This'll be a good night. 799 00:31:19,303 --> 00:31:22,006 [Kiaya] Kayla, what were you doin' at 16? 800 00:31:22,006 --> 00:31:23,874 [Kayla] I was sneakin' around with him. 801 00:31:23,874 --> 00:31:25,676 -[Cory chuckling] -We were bein' bad. 802 00:31:26,010 --> 00:31:27,678 What about you, Mackenzie? 803 00:31:27,678 --> 00:31:28,846 I was knocked up. 804 00:31:28,846 --> 00:31:30,347 Oh, [bleep]. 805 00:31:30,347 --> 00:31:32,316 [Mackenzie] There's the merry-go-round. 806 00:31:32,316 --> 00:31:34,752 -Uh, I don't know... -Will not fall that hard. 807 00:31:35,619 --> 00:31:37,655 [Josh] You're pushin' my manhood, man. 808 00:31:38,455 --> 00:31:40,324 [Mackenzie] I have to give birth to your kid, 809 00:31:40,324 --> 00:31:42,760 so I think you can do this for me. 810 00:31:43,294 --> 00:31:44,995 Hey, can she ride? 811 00:31:44,995 --> 00:31:46,664 Yeah, she can ride. 812 00:31:46,664 --> 00:31:48,332 Dang it, man, should've helped me out, 813 00:31:48,332 --> 00:31:49,600 you should've said no. 814 00:31:50,501 --> 00:31:53,571 [Mackenzie] What advice would I give my 16-year-old self? 815 00:31:54,038 --> 00:31:57,441 Use a condom, and especially don't have sex with... 816 00:31:58,542 --> 00:31:59,510 Idiots. 817 00:32:01,312 --> 00:32:02,379 What did you do, Taylor? 818 00:32:02,379 --> 00:32:05,416 I think I got my license and I got a car. 819 00:32:05,416 --> 00:32:06,650 Taylor got a car! 820 00:32:06,650 --> 00:32:08,152 Hey. 821 00:32:08,152 --> 00:32:11,655 At 16, what did you guys think you wanted to be? 822 00:32:11,655 --> 00:32:12,957 [Kiaya] I told my mama the jump, 823 00:32:12,957 --> 00:32:14,592 I said that I was gonna be on somebody TV show. 824 00:32:14,592 --> 00:32:16,961 Now, I did not think it was gonna be 'cause I got pregnant. 825 00:32:17,461 --> 00:32:20,164 It's still shocking that I'm about to be a mom. 826 00:32:23,467 --> 00:32:24,935 What did you do at 16? 827 00:32:24,935 --> 00:32:27,972 I feel really embarrassed by mine now. 828 00:32:28,572 --> 00:32:29,640 I wanna know! 829 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:32,476 Come on, come on! 830 00:32:32,943 --> 00:32:36,213 I'm hearing everybody talk about their sweet 16 memories, 831 00:32:36,213 --> 00:32:38,549 and I do not wanna share mine. 832 00:32:39,350 --> 00:32:42,353 My parents flew me and some of my friends to Hawaii. 833 00:32:43,887 --> 00:32:46,357 [Sean] Damn! 834 00:32:46,357 --> 00:32:48,092 This is awkward. 835 00:32:50,094 --> 00:32:52,196 [Cheyenne] Let's get the party started. 836 00:32:52,830 --> 00:32:54,365 I wanna do that video where 837 00:32:54,365 --> 00:32:56,100 it's like how people show up to the party. 838 00:32:56,100 --> 00:32:59,003 ♪ All this talk, and these wannabes wanna know me ♪ 839 00:32:59,003 --> 00:33:02,072 ♪ They be clockin' me, stalkin' me on the low-key ♪ 840 00:33:02,072 --> 00:33:05,209 ♪ I don't know you, you don't know me ♪ 841 00:33:05,209 --> 00:33:08,212 ♪ So, if I'm walkin' down the street, don't approach me ♪ 842 00:33:08,212 --> 00:33:12,216 ♪ Goddamn, yeah, 'cause we up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up ♪ 843 00:33:12,216 --> 00:33:14,118 ♪ Up, up, up, up (Yeah) ♪ 844 00:33:14,118 --> 00:33:17,087 ♪ Yeah, we up, up, up, up, up ♪ 845 00:33:17,087 --> 00:33:19,723 ♪ Up, up, up (Yeah) Up, up, up (Yeah) ♪ 846 00:33:19,723 --> 00:33:22,459 ♪ Up, up, up, up, yeah, we up ♪ 847 00:33:22,459 --> 00:33:24,595 When you do these, you can't help but laugh. 848 00:33:24,595 --> 00:33:26,263 ♪ Yeah, we up ♪ 849 00:33:27,398 --> 00:33:28,565 Alright, everybody. 850 00:33:29,900 --> 00:33:31,502 So, we have an announcement. 851 00:33:31,502 --> 00:33:32,836 [Sean] Okay. 852 00:33:32,836 --> 00:33:34,438 Ryan and I decided it is time to tell everybody 853 00:33:34,438 --> 00:33:35,673 about our decision. 854 00:33:35,673 --> 00:33:37,107 What we're gonna do about the baby. 855 00:33:37,775 --> 00:33:38,809 Here we go! 856 00:33:39,476 --> 00:33:41,912 It's about time, what's it gonna be? 857 00:33:41,912 --> 00:33:44,014 Obviously when we came in here, 858 00:33:44,014 --> 00:33:45,916 all you guys found out I was pregnant. 859 00:33:45,916 --> 00:33:47,251 But I think we've been pretty open, 860 00:33:47,251 --> 00:33:48,686 we didn't know what we were doin'. 861 00:33:48,686 --> 00:33:50,921 I hope everyone's excited for us. 862 00:33:50,921 --> 00:33:52,790 But we came to a decision. 863 00:33:53,457 --> 00:33:55,359 [Cory] Everyone's hoverin' around. 864 00:33:55,359 --> 00:33:59,430 You can see Jade and Chy kinda lookin' around, like, "Ehh." 865 00:33:59,830 --> 00:34:01,665 I just wanna know what it's gonna be. 866 00:34:01,665 --> 00:34:04,034 [bass-heavy music] 867 00:34:05,019 --> 00:34:06,654 [Kayla] Alright, everybody. 868 00:34:07,188 --> 00:34:09,390 -So, we have an announcement. -[Sean] Okay. 869 00:34:09,390 --> 00:34:10,791 [Kayla] So, we came to a decision. 870 00:34:10,791 --> 00:34:12,893 -[Sean] Uh-huh. -And... 871 00:34:12,893 --> 00:34:16,130 [tense music] 872 00:34:16,130 --> 00:34:17,965 [Ryan] We're gonna keep the baby. 873 00:34:18,766 --> 00:34:21,535 Congratulations! 874 00:34:23,204 --> 00:34:26,807 Knowing that Ryan and Kayla would like to keep their baby, 875 00:34:26,807 --> 00:34:28,342 I think that's great. 876 00:34:28,342 --> 00:34:31,112 I just don't think that I trust Ryan 877 00:34:31,112 --> 00:34:32,913 to be fully committed to Kayla. 878 00:34:32,913 --> 00:34:34,415 Time will tell. 879 00:34:34,415 --> 00:34:37,918 So, now that you guys have that decision, are you...? 880 00:34:37,918 --> 00:34:39,320 We're committed. 881 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,421 -[Cheyenne] You're excited? -We're good. 882 00:34:40,421 --> 00:34:41,756 -Yeah, we're excited. -[Ryan] Yeah. 883 00:34:41,756 --> 00:34:43,190 [Kayla] Yeah, we're together, together. 884 00:34:43,190 --> 00:34:44,892 -[Cheyenne] Yay! -No more whoring. 885 00:34:44,892 --> 00:34:46,694 [Sean] Finna be happier for you guys. 886 00:34:46,694 --> 00:34:48,195 Now kiss! 887 00:34:48,195 --> 00:34:50,297 Yeah! 888 00:34:50,297 --> 00:34:52,233 And that's how they got pregnant! 889 00:34:53,401 --> 00:34:55,836 And I just wanna say, uh, personally thank you 890 00:34:55,836 --> 00:34:57,538 to you three right here. 891 00:34:57,538 --> 00:34:59,807 They teach me a lot every time I talk to them. 892 00:34:59,807 --> 00:35:03,911 Cory has a kid with Cheyenne, and now Zach is married to her. 893 00:35:03,911 --> 00:35:06,147 They show you that two strong men 894 00:35:06,147 --> 00:35:07,715 come together and be happy. 895 00:35:07,715 --> 00:35:11,686 And Sean showed me you have to fight for the things you want. 896 00:35:12,253 --> 00:35:14,088 Congratulations, baby! 897 00:35:15,322 --> 00:35:18,125 Hopefully Ryan has gained a lot from being around 898 00:35:18,125 --> 00:35:20,594 other successful males in a relationship. 899 00:35:20,594 --> 00:35:23,197 I think this environment was positive for him. 900 00:35:23,664 --> 00:35:26,434 -Congratulations! -Thank you. 901 00:35:26,434 --> 00:35:27,568 [Cory] Yes! 902 00:35:29,837 --> 00:35:34,475 [upbeat music] 903 00:35:34,475 --> 00:35:35,576 ♪ Yeah ♪ 904 00:35:35,576 --> 00:35:38,979 [upbeat music] 905 00:35:38,979 --> 00:35:39,980 Zach! 906 00:35:39,980 --> 00:35:41,482 Cory! 907 00:35:42,283 --> 00:35:43,551 Hello? 908 00:35:43,551 --> 00:35:46,120 Alright, that's my wake-up call, I'm not coming back. 909 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,421 Good morning. 910 00:35:47,421 --> 00:35:49,457 -[Cate] Hey, girly. -Good morning, Cate. 911 00:35:49,457 --> 00:35:51,659 This is the earliest I've been up this whole time. 912 00:35:51,659 --> 00:35:52,993 Right? 913 00:35:52,993 --> 00:35:54,662 [Tyler] Bro, I think Cory's still in bed. 914 00:35:54,662 --> 00:35:55,696 He can't be asleep right now. 915 00:35:56,297 --> 00:35:58,365 He responded to me after I knocked on the door. 916 00:35:58,365 --> 00:36:01,502 I based this whole morning around the time he told me. 917 00:36:01,502 --> 00:36:03,938 So, last night Cory told all the guys to get up early, 918 00:36:03,938 --> 00:36:05,239 'cause we're all goin' on a run. 919 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,174 But he's nowhere to be found. 920 00:36:07,174 --> 00:36:09,343 Is he really sleepin'? Did he lay back down? 921 00:36:09,710 --> 00:36:11,078 No, he was in the shower. 922 00:36:11,078 --> 00:36:12,246 He's in the shower? 923 00:36:12,246 --> 00:36:14,248 He's not running after a shower. 924 00:36:14,248 --> 00:36:16,117 He showers before he works out. 925 00:36:16,917 --> 00:36:18,018 What the [bleep]? 926 00:36:18,018 --> 00:36:19,353 [Taylor] I know. 927 00:36:19,353 --> 00:36:22,790 Who showers before they run? That's crazy. 928 00:36:22,790 --> 00:36:25,025 See, I don't wanna play around standin' around in the sun 929 00:36:25,025 --> 00:36:26,927 -before we even run. -I know. 930 00:36:26,927 --> 00:36:27,995 [Cory] Yeah! 931 00:36:28,729 --> 00:36:32,266 What you got on right now? I can see your whole ding dong. 932 00:36:32,266 --> 00:36:33,634 [Cory] these are my running leggings. 933 00:36:33,634 --> 00:36:35,069 [Cate] "I can see your whole ding dong." [laughing] 934 00:36:35,069 --> 00:36:36,270 [Zach] There he is! 935 00:36:36,270 --> 00:36:38,339 Here comes Cory, fresh out the shower, 936 00:36:38,339 --> 00:36:41,442 Jheri curl juice drippin', chain on, 937 00:36:41,442 --> 00:36:45,312 spandex incredible tights, socks on the beach. 938 00:36:45,312 --> 00:36:46,881 What the hell you doin', man? 939 00:36:46,881 --> 00:36:48,849 [Cheyenne] Those look like my leggings. 940 00:36:48,849 --> 00:36:50,317 [ladies laughing] 941 00:36:50,317 --> 00:36:53,554 He said, "No, this is my time to shine right now." 942 00:36:54,388 --> 00:36:57,424 You gotta pay a subscription to get content like that from me. 943 00:36:57,424 --> 00:36:58,726 That was wild. 944 00:36:58,726 --> 00:37:00,528 [Cory] He's got a OnlyFans page, 945 00:37:00,528 --> 00:37:02,329 you wanna talk about running pants? 946 00:37:02,329 --> 00:37:05,399 I saw your butt cheeks next to the kitchen table! 947 00:37:06,867 --> 00:37:08,169 Alright, boys! 948 00:37:09,503 --> 00:37:15,442 [music] 949 00:37:21,415 --> 00:37:24,685 [woman singing in Spanish] 950 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,021 Waiting for my breakfast 951 00:37:27,021 --> 00:37:28,923 so I can eat and then I can go to the beach. 952 00:37:28,923 --> 00:37:30,558 [Tyler] I'm havin' fun with everybody, 953 00:37:30,558 --> 00:37:33,093 but I just can't wait to just hang out with my wife. 954 00:37:33,093 --> 00:37:35,229 And I got a date all planned out for us, 955 00:37:35,229 --> 00:37:37,031 so me and her can just hang out by ourselves, 956 00:37:37,031 --> 00:37:38,299 and I'm excited. 957 00:37:38,299 --> 00:37:39,834 [Cheyenne] You look so cute! 958 00:37:39,834 --> 00:37:41,235 Thanks! 959 00:37:41,235 --> 00:37:42,436 I wasn't sure about it at first. 960 00:37:42,436 --> 00:37:43,871 I told you, see? I told you, girl. 961 00:37:43,871 --> 00:37:45,940 -I told you, girl, listen to me! -You look sexy as [bleep]. 962 00:37:45,940 --> 00:37:47,474 We're comin' close to the end of the trip, 963 00:37:47,474 --> 00:37:49,143 and I just feel like we've learned, like, 964 00:37:49,143 --> 00:37:50,344 so much about each other. 965 00:37:50,344 --> 00:37:52,580 Now we get to go on a date! 966 00:37:53,747 --> 00:37:57,518 [woman singing in Spanish] 967 00:37:59,987 --> 00:38:03,624 [upbeat music] 968 00:38:03,624 --> 00:38:06,060 Look it, we got a little boat ride to our destination. 969 00:38:06,060 --> 00:38:08,162 Yeah, little boat ride! 970 00:38:08,162 --> 00:38:10,231 ♪ Hope you never get lost at sea ♪ 971 00:38:10,764 --> 00:38:14,168 ♪ But if you do, I hope to guide your way ♪ 972 00:38:14,168 --> 00:38:17,805 ♪ (Hey) Hope you never lose faith in me ♪ 973 00:38:18,439 --> 00:38:21,942 [Cate] I love just being on the water, in nature, 974 00:38:21,942 --> 00:38:24,778 and just being with Tyler. 975 00:38:24,778 --> 00:38:27,214 This is exactly what I wanted to experience 976 00:38:27,214 --> 00:38:28,682 in Colombia the whole time. 977 00:38:28,682 --> 00:38:31,719 ♪ There's room for everybody in the garden ♪ 978 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:35,956 ♪ I'm callin', just come and see me, darling ♪ 979 00:38:35,956 --> 00:38:37,591 [Tyler] Little secret island. 980 00:38:38,425 --> 00:38:39,260 Cute! 981 00:38:39,260 --> 00:38:40,694 [Tyler] This is us, baby! 982 00:38:40,694 --> 00:38:43,697 [Cate] This feels just so secluded and special. 983 00:38:43,697 --> 00:38:46,433 Tyler did a really good job planning our date. 984 00:38:47,868 --> 00:38:51,338 [Tyler] And these bracelets to represent love and commitment 985 00:38:51,338 --> 00:38:52,773 forever and ever and ever. 986 00:38:53,307 --> 00:38:54,909 Oh, are you recommitting to me? 987 00:38:54,909 --> 00:38:55,910 Yes. 988 00:38:56,677 --> 00:38:58,412 -Yes, to you, in Colombia, baby. -Aww, thanks! 989 00:38:58,412 --> 00:39:02,082 [Cate] Tyler and I renewed our vows six years ago in Hawaii. 990 00:39:02,082 --> 00:39:04,000 By the laws of the state of Hawaii, 991 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,251 By the laws of the state of Hawaii, 992 00:39:04,251 --> 00:39:06,120 I now pronounce you Maui-ed. 993 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,055 Tyler, you may kiss your wife. 994 00:39:08,756 --> 00:39:10,357 [Cate] and that was one of the last times 995 00:39:10,357 --> 00:39:12,326 that Tyler and I actually got to get away together. 996 00:39:12,326 --> 00:39:14,595 So, this is super sweet and super special. 997 00:39:15,496 --> 00:39:17,531 [Tyler] We came in here with a pretty open mind 998 00:39:17,531 --> 00:39:18,699 about, like, certain stuff, 999 00:39:18,699 --> 00:39:20,701 because I feel we've done so much work 1000 00:39:20,701 --> 00:39:22,703 it's like, I just wanna keep evolving. 1001 00:39:22,703 --> 00:39:23,904 Yeah. 1002 00:39:23,904 --> 00:39:25,406 You know, and just keep growing with each other, 1003 00:39:25,406 --> 00:39:26,874 because I think we've done... 1004 00:39:26,874 --> 00:39:28,776 Like, a really beautiful job of doin' it so far. 1005 00:39:29,476 --> 00:39:31,278 My main focus was just to spend 1006 00:39:31,278 --> 00:39:32,579 more quality time with one another. 1007 00:39:32,579 --> 00:39:34,782 Hard when you have a bunch of kids. 1008 00:39:34,782 --> 00:39:36,317 Yeah, I know. But end of the day, honey, 1009 00:39:36,317 --> 00:39:37,484 we're in chaos right now with being parents, 1010 00:39:37,484 --> 00:39:39,019 but they're gonna be gone eventually. 1011 00:39:39,019 --> 00:39:40,154 -Okay. -They're all gonna move out, 1012 00:39:40,154 --> 00:39:41,655 and it's gonna be me and you. 1013 00:39:41,655 --> 00:39:43,190 Even though Tyler and I have a very solid relationship, 1014 00:39:43,190 --> 00:39:44,491 there's always room to grow. 1015 00:39:44,491 --> 00:39:46,560 Every relationship is constantly evolving, 1016 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:47,895 even if you have a great one. 1017 00:39:47,895 --> 00:39:49,663 You know, one of the major things that I learned 1018 00:39:49,663 --> 00:39:51,498 as far as, like, when my mental health stuff 1019 00:39:51,498 --> 00:39:53,867 gets triggered and I'm not doing well, 1020 00:39:54,535 --> 00:39:56,637 like, sometimes I won't talk about it. 1021 00:39:56,637 --> 00:39:59,573 When I'm struggling, it's hard for me to communicate 1022 00:39:59,573 --> 00:40:02,376 those things, 'cause I don't ever wanna make it seem like, 1023 00:40:02,376 --> 00:40:04,211 "Oh, I want you to take care of me." 1024 00:40:04,211 --> 00:40:05,412 Maybe you should stop worrying about 1025 00:40:05,412 --> 00:40:06,981 being a caretaker or not for each other. 1026 00:40:06,981 --> 00:40:08,482 -That's our job. -Uh-huh, yeah. 1027 00:40:08,482 --> 00:40:09,984 We love each other a lot. 1028 00:40:09,984 --> 00:40:12,019 How about we just take the caretaker word out of it? 1029 00:40:12,019 --> 00:40:13,754 At the end of the day, I love you, 1030 00:40:13,754 --> 00:40:15,122 so it doesn't feel like a burden. 1031 00:40:15,122 --> 00:40:16,323 Right. 1032 00:40:16,323 --> 00:40:17,524 Relationship that me and Cate have 1033 00:40:17,524 --> 00:40:18,959 doesn't just happen over night. 1034 00:40:18,959 --> 00:40:21,428 We put a lotta work into this to be where we are today, 1035 00:40:21,428 --> 00:40:23,230 and we're pretty, we're pretty proud of it. 1036 00:40:23,230 --> 00:40:25,632 We have really been on a crazy-ass ride. 1037 00:40:25,632 --> 00:40:27,835 Yeah we have, but where we're at now, 1038 00:40:27,835 --> 00:40:31,372 it's like we can, like, authentically talk to each other 1039 00:40:31,372 --> 00:40:34,441 and say things, and, you know, just us havin' the kids 1040 00:40:34,441 --> 00:40:37,544 and the relationship that we have and stuff, like... 1041 00:40:38,012 --> 00:40:39,246 We're blessed to have it, 1042 00:40:39,246 --> 00:40:40,481 and I think our girls are also blessed 1043 00:40:40,481 --> 00:40:41,715 to be able to witness it. 1044 00:40:42,616 --> 00:40:44,385 Why you getting emotional? 1045 00:40:45,119 --> 00:40:46,153 What? 1046 00:40:46,153 --> 00:40:50,257 [uplifting music] 1047 00:40:51,850 --> 00:40:53,419 [Woman] This is the way to end a trip. 1048 00:40:53,419 --> 00:40:55,421 [Female Narrator] Next time on the season finale of 1049 00:40:55,421 --> 00:40:57,356 Teen Mom: Family Reunion. 1050 00:40:58,691 --> 00:41:01,160 [Man] You're gonna be here for the rest of today. 1051 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:02,528 -[Sean] Okay. -Okay. 1052 00:41:02,528 --> 00:41:03,762 Gonna do some sexy pictures. 1053 00:41:03,762 --> 00:41:05,631 What the [bleep] did I get myself into? 1054 00:41:06,432 --> 00:41:08,567 I felt that spark during this trip, 1055 00:41:08,567 --> 00:41:11,236 and I'm so excited to share this moment with you. 1056 00:41:11,236 --> 00:41:12,905 [Kiaya] Is this the moment?! 1057 00:41:13,639 --> 00:41:16,675 And now for us, there's only one thing left. 1058 00:41:16,675 --> 00:41:19,578 [dramatic music] 1059 00:41:20,729 --> 00:41:26,635 [upbeat music] 1060 00:41:46,856 --> 00:41:49,225 [music]