1 00:00:10,885 --> 00:00:11,761 Okay 2 00:00:11,845 --> 00:00:14,097 One time for the big girls In the crowd 3 00:00:14,180 --> 00:00:15,223 Hey 4 00:00:15,306 --> 00:00:16,391 Hear me now 5 00:00:16,474 --> 00:00:18,351 Go on, sis, yeah Show 'em how to work it out 6 00:00:18,435 --> 00:00:20,020 Mm-mm-mm! 7 00:00:20,103 --> 00:00:22,981 I don't know how this ball stays so moist, but it sure do! 8 00:00:23,064 --> 00:00:24,941 Thank you. 9 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:26,818 I think you're the first woman to ask me that. 10 00:00:26,901 --> 00:00:29,070 You know what I love about having a husband? 11 00:00:29,154 --> 00:00:30,989 Is having a husband. 12 00:00:35,493 --> 00:00:39,080 Oh wow. Why are all these pictures of Jade kissing in the booth? 13 00:00:39,164 --> 00:00:40,290 She's just a horndog. 14 00:00:40,373 --> 00:00:43,126 She said she gets it from her great-great-great-great-great-grandmother. 15 00:00:43,209 --> 00:00:44,919 It, like, runs in her family tree. 16 00:00:45,003 --> 00:00:47,088 But it looks like everyone had a really great… 17 00:00:48,882 --> 00:00:50,383 You still haven't talked to him? 18 00:00:50,467 --> 00:00:54,804 No. It's been 163 hours, and I have not talked to him, 19 00:00:54,888 --> 00:00:56,264 and I don't wanna talk to him. 20 00:00:56,347 --> 00:00:59,893 But it was my idea not to tell you, but you're not mad at me. 21 00:00:59,976 --> 00:01:02,604 Yeah, but you were protecting me, and… and he was like-- 22 00:01:02,687 --> 00:01:05,899 -He what? -He hurt my feelings. He ruined my day. 23 00:01:09,944 --> 00:01:10,862 I mean, 24 00:01:11,780 --> 00:01:12,822 I miss him. 25 00:01:14,074 --> 00:01:16,367 I do. I miss him sending me selfies every day. 26 00:01:16,451 --> 00:01:18,119 Asking me to delete them right away, 27 00:01:18,203 --> 00:01:20,121 "Because the government might be watching, Mave." 28 00:01:20,205 --> 00:01:23,833 Or, I don't know, "The iCloud, Mave." I don't even know what the iCloud does, 29 00:01:23,917 --> 00:01:26,044 but I'm still mad at him. 30 00:01:26,544 --> 00:01:28,838 You guys have been in an argument before. 31 00:01:28,922 --> 00:01:29,798 Yeah. 32 00:01:30,548 --> 00:01:31,966 Yeah, but not like this. 33 00:01:32,050 --> 00:01:35,261 -Are you afraid to talk to him? -I'm not afraid to talk to him. 34 00:01:35,345 --> 00:01:36,429 I am, like… 35 00:01:37,055 --> 00:01:39,891 I am just feeling very vulnerable right now. 36 00:01:39,974 --> 00:01:42,352 What happens when we have a hard conversation 37 00:01:42,435 --> 00:01:43,812 after a disagreement? 38 00:01:43,895 --> 00:01:45,230 We get closer. 39 00:01:45,730 --> 00:01:48,733 Then, my beautiful wife, 40 00:01:49,234 --> 00:01:50,568 maybe you should talk to him. 41 00:01:53,863 --> 00:01:56,366 Did you just rapido-fire me? 42 00:01:56,449 --> 00:02:00,245 Ew! I hate it when you're right. 43 00:02:00,328 --> 00:02:02,997 But I also love being your wife. This is very confusing. 44 00:02:04,332 --> 00:02:06,876 We gon' keep the good vibes 45 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,838 We gon' keep the good vibes 46 00:02:15,009 --> 00:02:16,094 Thanks for comin'. 47 00:02:17,345 --> 00:02:19,305 I… got you somethin'. 48 00:02:20,473 --> 00:02:22,183 That's for… that's for your feet. 49 00:02:22,684 --> 00:02:25,645 It's supposed to help with… with nausea and, you know, just to relax. 50 00:02:25,728 --> 00:02:27,313 And that's lavender. 51 00:02:27,397 --> 00:02:29,899 You fuck with lavender? Put that… It's a little roller. 52 00:02:29,983 --> 00:02:32,694 You tap it behind your… Right before bed, and you… 53 00:02:32,777 --> 00:02:34,028 How do you know about that? 54 00:02:34,112 --> 00:02:37,240 'Cause I got friends, and… and a nigga reads, okay? 55 00:02:37,323 --> 00:02:39,200 Okay, I was just askin'. 56 00:02:40,785 --> 00:02:41,870 Thank you. 57 00:02:42,662 --> 00:02:43,496 Look. 58 00:02:45,248 --> 00:02:47,917 I want to be involved, and I know it's your body. 59 00:02:48,001 --> 00:02:51,296 I know it's all that. I get that. It's… And you right. 60 00:02:51,379 --> 00:02:55,091 That's yours. Some of me is in there now, but it is yours. 61 00:02:55,175 --> 00:02:58,469 And I'm not one of these lazy-ass niggas, like… like Nelly. 62 00:02:58,553 --> 00:03:02,182 Changing diapers at midnight. I'm… I'm… I'm down for all this baby shit. 63 00:03:02,265 --> 00:03:05,226 If he needs somethin', I'm that somethin'. 64 00:03:05,310 --> 00:03:09,856 Okay? And if you want me there, I'd love to be there, and I mean that. 65 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,526 My plan was to have my baby in Central Jersey. 66 00:03:13,610 --> 00:03:16,029 My aunts, they got a whole system set up. 67 00:03:16,112 --> 00:03:20,283 There's always gonna be someone there to help me, to take care of us. 68 00:03:20,366 --> 00:03:23,453 We believe in the village, and my community is locked and loaded. 69 00:03:24,370 --> 00:03:25,622 -Uh… -Thank you. 70 00:03:26,122 --> 00:03:27,624 Did you say commune? 71 00:03:27,707 --> 00:03:30,627 It's a house of three generations, one shared checking account. 72 00:03:30,710 --> 00:03:33,504 -You call that whatever you want. -It's called a commune. 73 00:03:33,588 --> 00:03:35,131 It's commune-ity. 74 00:03:35,215 --> 00:03:37,550 It's… literally in the word. 75 00:03:37,634 --> 00:03:39,427 -Yeah, I see how you got there. -So… 76 00:03:39,510 --> 00:03:42,722 Look, this is my plan 77 00:03:42,805 --> 00:03:45,850 because I know I can't do it by myself. 78 00:03:47,185 --> 00:03:48,436 -What's your plan? -Uh… 79 00:03:48,519 --> 00:03:51,439 I don't… I don't have one plan. 80 00:03:51,522 --> 00:03:52,690 I got plans. 81 00:03:53,274 --> 00:03:54,400 So many. 82 00:03:54,484 --> 00:03:57,820 My cup overfloweth with plans. 83 00:03:57,904 --> 00:04:01,699 That's how many plans I got. I got the commune and the ity. 84 00:04:01,783 --> 00:04:03,409 -Okay, Khalil. -Yes. 85 00:04:03,493 --> 00:04:05,411 I believe you. That's awesome. 86 00:04:06,537 --> 00:04:08,039 I'd love to meet 'em someday. 87 00:04:08,790 --> 00:04:11,542 Mm-hmm… Yeah. 88 00:04:15,171 --> 00:04:16,547 Khalil, are you home? 89 00:04:16,631 --> 00:04:19,092 And if you're in the bathroom, just say bathroom. 90 00:04:21,844 --> 00:04:24,264 If you're still mad at me, you can say that too. 91 00:04:30,270 --> 00:04:31,771 -Hey. -Hey, hey. 92 00:04:31,854 --> 00:04:33,564 -Hey. Wait, hello? -Hello? 93 00:04:33,648 --> 00:04:34,732 I can't hear you. 94 00:04:34,816 --> 00:04:37,944 Why do you sound like you're in a haunted submarine or somethin'? 95 00:04:50,832 --> 00:04:53,209 -This is awkward. -It is. 96 00:05:01,301 --> 00:05:05,471 I brought you some Black-owned toilet paper 'cause… 97 00:05:05,555 --> 00:05:07,390 -You know I needed some. -Yeah. 98 00:05:07,473 --> 00:05:10,643 -Appreciate it. Two-ply? -Not with those pipes. 99 00:05:17,859 --> 00:05:21,321 I know we both said some, like, pretty hurtful shit at my wedding, 100 00:05:21,404 --> 00:05:23,489 and I was triggered. 101 00:05:24,490 --> 00:05:27,618 And I really wish we didn't do that. 102 00:05:27,702 --> 00:05:28,995 I hate it so much. 103 00:05:29,078 --> 00:05:30,705 I hate it so much too. 104 00:05:33,333 --> 00:05:35,877 -It's awful. -Like… 105 00:05:37,670 --> 00:05:39,756 I been watchin' you in these baby trenches for a year 106 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:40,840 trying to get pregnant, 107 00:05:40,923 --> 00:05:43,760 and I've been running from it my whole adult life, and… 108 00:05:44,510 --> 00:05:45,511 and then boom. 109 00:05:46,929 --> 00:05:48,681 The universe is a asshole. 110 00:05:48,765 --> 00:05:50,141 Who you tellin'? 111 00:05:50,725 --> 00:05:53,227 I shouldn't have said it was fucked up and that it ruined my life. 112 00:05:53,311 --> 00:05:57,690 I shoulda never said that to you. I know how much you want this. 113 00:05:59,692 --> 00:06:00,860 Mavis, I'm sorry. 114 00:06:01,778 --> 00:06:02,779 Thank you 115 00:06:04,155 --> 00:06:05,406 for saying that. 116 00:06:05,948 --> 00:06:09,952 I was thinking about it, and I was like, "Why did this hurt so much?" 117 00:06:10,036 --> 00:06:13,581 "And, like, why did I get so mad?" 118 00:06:13,664 --> 00:06:16,334 So fucking mad. 119 00:06:16,417 --> 00:06:19,504 And… it's because I'm jealous. 120 00:06:21,798 --> 00:06:26,803 I'm jealous of you. You get to experience something that I've wanted for so long, 121 00:06:26,886 --> 00:06:28,679 and I don't wanna be jealous. 122 00:06:29,347 --> 00:06:34,060 I wanna be happy for you. I'm going to be happy for you. I am. 123 00:06:44,487 --> 00:06:46,364 Yeah, well, these some crazy… 124 00:06:48,116 --> 00:06:48,950 Mm-hmm. 125 00:06:49,033 --> 00:06:51,494 These are some crazy life changes. 126 00:06:51,577 --> 00:06:53,746 -Oh my God, yes. -You know, you married. 127 00:06:53,830 --> 00:06:56,791 -I'm about to have a baby. -What the fuck? 128 00:06:57,458 --> 00:06:58,960 We're growin' up together. 129 00:07:00,002 --> 00:07:02,046 How… how are we adults but still growin' up? 130 00:07:02,130 --> 00:07:05,800 Listen, there is no world where I am not in your life 131 00:07:05,883 --> 00:07:07,343 and I am not in your kid's life. 132 00:07:09,095 --> 00:07:11,848 We're family. Okay? 133 00:07:11,931 --> 00:07:13,933 Okay. 134 00:07:15,059 --> 00:07:16,853 I really needed to hear that. 135 00:07:17,437 --> 00:07:19,397 You also need to get your apartment tested for lead 136 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,524 because how you gonna raise a baby in here? 137 00:07:21,607 --> 00:07:24,944 -Yeah, it's rustic. -Uh, no, we past rustic, bruh. 138 00:07:25,027 --> 00:07:27,029 Felt like you needed to hear that shit too. 139 00:07:32,869 --> 00:07:34,495 Ah-ah-ah-ah-ah! 140 00:07:34,579 --> 00:07:37,832 No kissing during the green-card interview. Separate. 141 00:07:37,915 --> 00:07:39,876 Makes you look like you're tryin' too hard. 142 00:07:39,959 --> 00:07:42,253 And… it's gross. 143 00:07:42,336 --> 00:07:44,672 Love is not gross. Like, who hurt you? 144 00:07:44,755 --> 00:07:46,591 It's not about me. Don't try to turn the tables. 145 00:07:46,674 --> 00:07:47,592 -Okay. -Okay? 146 00:07:47,675 --> 00:07:49,260 For the record, what's your name? 147 00:07:49,343 --> 00:07:52,013 Mavis "Bad Bitch" Beaumont. Okay? 148 00:07:52,513 --> 00:07:54,557 -What about you, buddy? -Luca Berrada. 149 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,017 Husband to the bad B. 150 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:57,435 Ah-ha-ha-ha. 151 00:07:57,518 --> 00:07:59,729 Question one. Who hogs the covers? 152 00:07:59,812 --> 00:08:01,981 -Oh, he does. -I… I do. 153 00:08:02,064 --> 00:08:04,317 I mean, it's insane how much he hogs the covers. 154 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,319 He's like a rotisserie chicken. Baby, it's a lot. 155 00:08:06,402 --> 00:08:08,362 -Explain yourself. -My feet get cold. 156 00:08:08,446 --> 00:08:11,449 -Why don't you wear the socks I made you? -My feet get too hot. 157 00:08:11,532 --> 00:08:14,368 -Then your feet are gonna get cold. -Make the socks less hot. 158 00:08:14,452 --> 00:08:16,704 Good one. Yeah. 159 00:08:16,787 --> 00:08:18,664 Hmm. Not bad. All right. 160 00:08:18,748 --> 00:08:22,710 -What side of the bed do you sleep on? -The side Mavis thinks is hers. 161 00:08:23,211 --> 00:08:26,047 I'm a woman. I could change my mind. 162 00:08:26,130 --> 00:08:27,215 How you doin'? 163 00:08:27,298 --> 00:08:29,258 -Wendy Williams. -That's right. 164 00:08:29,342 --> 00:08:31,844 That's not bad, but that's not who's in this interview. 165 00:08:32,345 --> 00:08:34,514 -But I will say, it's feeling pretty real. -Yes. 166 00:08:34,597 --> 00:08:36,516 So, on to the next question. 167 00:08:36,599 --> 00:08:38,643 -We are killing this, baby. -Oh yeah. 168 00:08:38,726 --> 00:08:41,062 You know, we can skip this one about kids. We don't have to… 169 00:08:41,145 --> 00:08:43,231 We are doing so good. Ask us the question. 170 00:08:43,314 --> 00:08:45,149 Just have you thought about having kids, 171 00:08:45,233 --> 00:08:48,444 and, you know, where do you see yourselves down the line? That's it. 172 00:08:48,528 --> 00:08:50,196 -We don't have to… -Yeah, easy. 173 00:08:50,279 --> 00:08:53,950 We definitely see kids in our future, and we are trying to have them. 174 00:08:56,118 --> 00:08:57,995 I… um… 175 00:08:58,496 --> 00:09:00,039 I don't know. 176 00:09:01,707 --> 00:09:02,792 I don't think so. 177 00:09:02,875 --> 00:09:04,252 You… you don't think so? 178 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:07,713 We've been trying for a really long time, and nothing has happened, 179 00:09:07,797 --> 00:09:12,635 and I'm really exhausted just, like, living in this emotional question mark, 180 00:09:12,718 --> 00:09:16,472 and I really wanna feel light and bright and happy. 181 00:09:16,973 --> 00:09:20,268 And I don't want to feel insecure at all. You know? So… 182 00:09:20,768 --> 00:09:22,645 I don't… I think I'm done. 183 00:09:22,728 --> 00:09:24,981 Yes, but why didn't you tell me? 184 00:09:25,064 --> 00:09:27,275 I don't think I knew till now. 185 00:09:27,358 --> 00:09:29,527 This is something we should be talking about. 186 00:09:29,610 --> 00:09:31,195 Well, we are talking about it right now. 187 00:09:31,279 --> 00:09:34,824 -We are talking about it at our interview. -This is not a real interview. 188 00:09:34,907 --> 00:09:37,660 -True. -But this is a real conversation. 189 00:09:37,743 --> 00:09:40,246 -Also true. -Okay. 190 00:09:40,329 --> 00:09:41,289 Hey. 191 00:09:42,373 --> 00:09:44,000 Mave, I'm sorry. I didn't… 192 00:09:45,167 --> 00:09:46,877 I shouldn't ask these stupid questions. 193 00:09:46,961 --> 00:09:47,962 No, it's not stupid. 194 00:09:48,045 --> 00:09:49,880 It's a really good question. 195 00:09:50,881 --> 00:09:54,552 I can't run away from hard conversations with people I love. 196 00:09:55,553 --> 00:09:58,139 And it feels so good to speak my truth. 197 00:09:58,639 --> 00:10:00,224 Give me that other hand, Berrada. 198 00:10:00,308 --> 00:10:02,518 We'll be singin'… 199 00:10:02,602 --> 00:10:04,895 Wow! Wow-wow-wee-wow. 200 00:10:04,979 --> 00:10:07,273 It's really hard not to make an MLK joke right now. 201 00:10:07,356 --> 00:10:08,357 This is my dream! 202 00:10:08,441 --> 00:10:11,068 I get knocked down, but I get up again 203 00:10:11,152 --> 00:10:12,862 You're never gonna keep me down 204 00:10:12,945 --> 00:10:15,156 I get knocked down But I get up again… 205 00:10:15,239 --> 00:10:16,741 Oh my God, these colors though. 206 00:10:16,824 --> 00:10:18,492 Don't put that in the dryer. It will shrink. 207 00:10:18,576 --> 00:10:21,037 Girl, this is so cute, 208 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,956 and if it look like I can fit it, bitch, I'mma get it. 209 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,791 -Babop! -That's what I'm talkin' about. 210 00:10:25,875 --> 00:10:28,085 I can add a hem on that to bless that high booty. 211 00:10:28,169 --> 00:10:30,129 -Thank you, girl. -Oh my God. 212 00:10:30,212 --> 00:10:32,423 This capsule though. It is giving capsule. 213 00:10:32,506 --> 00:10:34,759 You'd be lying if you told me these silhouettes were not 214 00:10:34,842 --> 00:10:37,720 singing to each other, and this orange! 215 00:10:37,803 --> 00:10:40,681 Did you take one of my Adderall? 'Cause you are focused focused. 216 00:10:40,765 --> 00:10:43,017 No, I just simply decided to stop wasting my energy 217 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:44,310 on things I can't control. 218 00:10:44,393 --> 00:10:48,022 Plus, the Essence cover party's coming up. No time for bad vibes. 219 00:10:48,105 --> 00:10:49,190 Honestly, I get it. 220 00:10:49,273 --> 00:10:52,068 I deleted one dating app, and my bacne cleared all the way up. 221 00:10:52,151 --> 00:10:54,111 Oh! Okay, that's a story. 222 00:10:54,195 --> 00:10:58,074 That is… That's almost exactly the same thing. 223 00:10:58,157 --> 00:11:00,868 Y'all, I figured out the denim harem pant. 224 00:11:00,951 --> 00:11:02,286 I am so excited. 225 00:11:02,370 --> 00:11:05,122 It just needed to be a lighter denim with a higher waist. 226 00:11:05,206 --> 00:11:07,166 Ba-da-bing, ba-da-boom! Ah! 227 00:11:07,249 --> 00:11:09,669 I'm on the one and the two. Let's go! 228 00:11:09,752 --> 00:11:11,045 So you in your bag bag. 229 00:11:11,128 --> 00:11:13,255 Yeah, I'm a different person when I wear fringe. 230 00:11:13,339 --> 00:11:15,925 Get down on it 231 00:11:16,008 --> 00:11:17,426 -Come on and -Get down on it 232 00:11:17,510 --> 00:11:19,512 -If you really want it -Get down on it 233 00:11:19,595 --> 00:11:20,888 You gotta feel it 234 00:11:20,971 --> 00:11:22,014 Get down on it… 235 00:11:22,098 --> 00:11:23,766 Welcome! 236 00:11:23,849 --> 00:11:26,060 Somebody went to Macy's. I know what that is. 237 00:11:27,061 --> 00:11:28,521 -Hey, Mave. -Hey! 238 00:11:28,604 --> 00:11:29,605 -Hey. -Uh… 239 00:11:30,314 --> 00:11:32,817 -Too much Burberry? -No, not at all. 240 00:11:32,900 --> 00:11:35,903 You look like Princess Di's umbrella that got invited to a cookout. 241 00:11:35,986 --> 00:11:37,905 Yeah? That's wildly specific. I can't unsee it. 242 00:11:37,988 --> 00:11:39,156 I was trying to coordinate. 243 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,243 I gotta go restock the food and start a new game, 244 00:11:42,326 --> 00:11:43,661 and I gotta check the playlist 245 00:11:43,744 --> 00:11:45,705 'cause I think it connected to Luca's Spotify, 246 00:11:45,788 --> 00:11:48,290 and nobody needs that much Enrique Iglesias ever. 247 00:11:48,374 --> 00:11:51,043 And, uh, before I forget, I got you something else too. 248 00:11:51,127 --> 00:11:54,255 -Oh, you got me somethin'? What? -Yes! Okay. 249 00:11:54,755 --> 00:11:58,259 It's your zaddy cap 'cause you're a responsible zaddy now. 250 00:11:58,342 --> 00:12:00,511 Thank you. Hey, thank you for this. 251 00:12:00,594 --> 00:12:01,721 You're welcome. 252 00:12:01,804 --> 00:12:04,098 You know, this is fun, but it's also important. 253 00:12:04,181 --> 00:12:06,016 We are here to help you 'cause 254 00:12:06,100 --> 00:12:08,436 you're gonna be raising this beautiful baby in a pencil box, 255 00:12:08,519 --> 00:12:11,355 and, boy, you have, like, one fork, and it's decorative. 256 00:12:11,439 --> 00:12:13,232 So I put forks on your registry. 257 00:12:13,315 --> 00:12:15,651 Well, actually, I'm movin'. 258 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:17,570 -What? -What? 259 00:12:17,653 --> 00:12:21,365 You are moving? Out of your place that you're living in right now? 260 00:12:21,449 --> 00:12:23,826 Same building, same building, just down the hall. 261 00:12:24,493 --> 00:12:25,619 Two bedrooms. 262 00:12:25,703 --> 00:12:26,746 -What? -What? 263 00:12:26,829 --> 00:12:28,748 Two bedrooms? 264 00:12:28,831 --> 00:12:30,958 What, are you a billionaire? That's insane. 265 00:12:31,041 --> 00:12:33,377 Okay, John Legend. What are you gonna do with all them walls? 266 00:12:33,461 --> 00:12:35,880 I don't know yet. Honestly, I just felt like it was… 267 00:12:35,963 --> 00:12:37,882 you know, time to gentrify my situation. 268 00:12:37,965 --> 00:12:39,300 -Okay. -Oh my God. 269 00:12:39,383 --> 00:12:42,094 -What? -Uh, my mom is cornering Imani. I gotta… 270 00:12:42,178 --> 00:12:44,013 -Hey, love you. -I love you too. 271 00:12:44,096 --> 00:12:45,681 -Come here! -Hey. 272 00:12:45,765 --> 00:12:49,393 That's not how you play the game. You gotta guess what's in the diaper. 273 00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:51,854 Now this is what real food tastes like. 274 00:12:51,937 --> 00:12:54,690 I think real food is when you prepare it yourself, 275 00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:56,901 which is what I plan to do for my baby. 276 00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:58,277 Not with that stuff you make. 277 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,155 You still gon' be out there selling cookies on street corners 278 00:13:01,238 --> 00:13:02,573 when my grandbaby comes? 279 00:13:03,324 --> 00:13:05,993 Uh… 280 00:13:06,076 --> 00:13:10,289 If by selling cookies you mean owning a catering business, 281 00:13:10,372 --> 00:13:11,457 then yeah. 282 00:13:11,540 --> 00:13:15,002 Somebody's gotta pay the real bills while his daddy pays his grandmama's bills, 283 00:13:15,085 --> 00:13:17,963 since… she don't know what a job looks like. 284 00:13:28,224 --> 00:13:30,810 What… what is goin' on over here? 285 00:13:30,893 --> 00:13:32,520 Imani was just telling me 286 00:13:32,603 --> 00:13:35,231 how my precious grandbaby is gonna grow up hungry, 287 00:13:35,314 --> 00:13:37,858 and then she read me for filth. 288 00:13:38,567 --> 00:13:40,319 -Imani? -I did do that. 289 00:13:40,903 --> 00:13:45,533 Look, I deserved it. I deserved it, but let me tell you what else she said. 290 00:13:45,616 --> 00:13:49,829 She said I could take the baby every other month to give you a break. 291 00:13:50,454 --> 00:13:53,457 -I know she didn't say that. -No, I definitely did not. 292 00:13:54,458 --> 00:13:55,459 But I could. 293 00:13:57,002 --> 00:13:59,129 -That'd be nice. -Yeah. 294 00:14:00,381 --> 00:14:01,632 That would be nice. 295 00:14:01,715 --> 00:14:02,800 Mm-hmm. 296 00:14:03,509 --> 00:14:05,803 Ma, what are you… What… what the hell are you doing? 297 00:14:05,886 --> 00:14:07,638 What? It's a menthol. 298 00:14:07,721 --> 00:14:09,807 She pregnant, and we inside. 299 00:14:10,391 --> 00:14:11,642 This is not the '70s. 300 00:14:11,725 --> 00:14:13,811 Keep lovin'… 301 00:14:13,894 --> 00:14:15,938 Is that too… That's too many. Oh! 302 00:14:16,021 --> 00:14:18,649 -Hey, girl. -Hey! 303 00:14:18,732 --> 00:14:19,900 You okay? 304 00:14:19,984 --> 00:14:22,945 -Yes, I'm good, I'm good. -Yeah. 305 00:14:23,028 --> 00:14:25,573 Just looks like you haven't stopped movin' since I came in. 306 00:14:25,656 --> 00:14:26,949 Oh, this is just how I roll. 307 00:14:27,032 --> 00:14:30,870 I wanna make sure everything is perfect because babies really… 308 00:14:30,953 --> 00:14:32,288 They understand vibes, you know? 309 00:14:32,371 --> 00:14:34,707 They like a good vibe, and that's what I wanna provide. 310 00:14:34,790 --> 00:14:38,419 Maybe you wanna, like, I don't know, sit down for a little bit? You deserve it. 311 00:14:38,502 --> 00:14:40,254 LOL, you sound like Khalil. 312 00:14:40,337 --> 00:14:44,133 He's always just like, "Mave, you gotta be kind to yourself." 313 00:14:44,216 --> 00:14:47,511 "Know what I mean, Mave?" It's like, shut up, Khalil. 314 00:14:48,637 --> 00:14:51,140 Oh my God, are you okay? Is it the garlic in the hummus? 315 00:14:51,223 --> 00:14:53,893 I told Tony, "Don't put so much garlic in the hummus." 316 00:14:53,976 --> 00:14:55,644 No, it was a hard-ass kick. 317 00:14:55,728 --> 00:14:57,813 Oh, okay, good. 318 00:14:57,897 --> 00:15:00,274 I think he likes it when you tell his daddy to shut up. 319 00:15:00,357 --> 00:15:03,068 -Oh, that's a sassy baby. -Mm-hmm. 320 00:15:04,361 --> 00:15:05,362 You wanna feel? 321 00:15:07,823 --> 00:15:10,284 Yeah. Yeah. 322 00:15:10,367 --> 00:15:11,744 Um, okay. 323 00:15:12,369 --> 00:15:13,537 Shut up, Khalil. 324 00:15:14,455 --> 00:15:15,414 I don't know. 325 00:15:16,373 --> 00:15:17,666 Shut up, Khalil. 326 00:15:18,876 --> 00:15:22,379 Oh my God! Oh my God! 327 00:15:22,463 --> 00:15:24,256 Shut the fuck up, Khalil! 328 00:15:24,340 --> 00:15:26,592 I wasn't even talking! Damn! 329 00:15:27,468 --> 00:15:29,345 Shut the fuck up, Khalil. 330 00:15:33,265 --> 00:15:35,309 Hello, little person. 331 00:15:36,769 --> 00:15:38,187 I love you already. 332 00:15:39,813 --> 00:15:40,940 Can't wait to meet you. 333 00:15:45,319 --> 00:15:47,655 Honestly, I am very clear that I wanna be a mom. 334 00:15:47,738 --> 00:15:51,075 Like, that's what I wanna be. I wanna be a mom, I'm also very clear 335 00:15:51,158 --> 00:15:54,828 that I do not wanna put my body through that shit again. 336 00:15:54,912 --> 00:15:56,705 I really don't. 337 00:15:56,789 --> 00:16:00,209 Mavis, you have choices that I can walk you through. 338 00:16:00,292 --> 00:16:03,379 Please walk me through all the choices. I need you to do that for me. 339 00:16:03,462 --> 00:16:06,256 Okay, well, I was just about to say that before you-- 340 00:16:06,340 --> 00:16:09,259 I don't mean to cut you off, but I just really wanna know, 341 00:16:09,343 --> 00:16:11,720 so please, please. 342 00:16:12,346 --> 00:16:13,722 Please just tell me. 343 00:16:18,227 --> 00:16:20,354 We have options here to explore. 344 00:16:20,437 --> 00:16:22,272 Dr. Terri, please! 345 00:16:22,356 --> 00:16:24,942 Will you just walk me through the options? 346 00:16:25,025 --> 00:16:28,612 I… I gotta be honest. You're very long-winded. 347 00:16:28,696 --> 00:16:30,781 You take a long time to get to the point, 348 00:16:30,864 --> 00:16:32,992 and I'm sitting here, I'm like, "Dr. Terri, 349 00:16:33,075 --> 00:16:36,662 when are we getting to the choices and the options you keep talking about?" 350 00:16:36,745 --> 00:16:39,498 It's like my eggs are drying as we're talking to each other. 351 00:16:39,581 --> 00:16:42,418 Girl, will you shut up and let me talk? 352 00:16:42,501 --> 00:16:43,752 Damn! 353 00:16:43,836 --> 00:16:46,588 I mean, I'm trying to be nice right now, 354 00:16:46,672 --> 00:16:48,966 but you making it hard for a bitch. 355 00:16:49,049 --> 00:16:52,594 'Cause by the time you let me get out a sentence, I'll be retired. 356 00:16:53,095 --> 00:16:54,471 Emphasis on tired. 357 00:16:54,972 --> 00:16:57,099 -Good Lord. -I'm scared. 358 00:16:57,599 --> 00:17:00,352 It's okay to be scared. 359 00:17:02,187 --> 00:17:05,149 Actually, it makes sense to be scared. 360 00:17:07,985 --> 00:17:09,069 I feel like 361 00:17:09,903 --> 00:17:12,948 having a baby is, like, the most natural thing a woman can do, 362 00:17:13,032 --> 00:17:17,411 but it's, like, the hardest thing for me to do. 363 00:17:17,494 --> 00:17:19,455 And it's so unfair 364 00:17:19,538 --> 00:17:23,250 because it feels like most of my life, I've been trying not to get pregnant, 365 00:17:24,043 --> 00:17:27,421 you know, with birth control, condoms, other holes. 366 00:17:28,130 --> 00:17:31,091 Sorry. I thought… I thought it was a safe space. 367 00:17:31,175 --> 00:17:34,803 I'm a fertility doctor, not a therapist. 368 00:17:35,721 --> 00:17:37,181 But, Mavis, 369 00:17:37,681 --> 00:17:39,600 this is a safe space. 370 00:17:40,601 --> 00:17:41,477 Okay. 371 00:17:41,977 --> 00:17:43,353 Because I need one. 372 00:17:44,396 --> 00:17:50,444 You know? 'Cause if we're really talking about me not being able to carry, 373 00:17:50,944 --> 00:17:52,279 then it's, like, 374 00:17:53,989 --> 00:17:57,576 how do we talk about, like, those feelings around that, you know? 375 00:17:57,659 --> 00:18:00,204 Like, will I feel… 376 00:18:02,247 --> 00:18:03,582 less of a mother? 377 00:18:04,083 --> 00:18:08,170 Or, like, less of a woman? Or, you know, like… 378 00:18:08,837 --> 00:18:11,006 There's so many things you don't think of. 379 00:18:11,548 --> 00:18:12,925 Like a birth story. 380 00:18:13,425 --> 00:18:17,179 I didn't even know, like, a birth story is, like, things people talk about, 381 00:18:17,262 --> 00:18:20,933 but everybody at Khalil's baby shower was talking about their birth story. 382 00:18:21,016 --> 00:18:22,726 "Oh, your birth story is just like mine." 383 00:18:22,810 --> 00:18:25,604 It's like, holy shit, what's gonna be my birth story? 384 00:18:25,687 --> 00:18:28,107 What's it gonna be? I don't know. 385 00:18:28,899 --> 00:18:32,986 Wha… Is it gonna be, like, hard, you know? Is that what I'm gonna say it is? 386 00:18:33,070 --> 00:18:37,074 It's hard and sad and fucking traumatic and expensive? 387 00:18:37,157 --> 00:18:37,991 Like… 388 00:18:38,075 --> 00:18:40,994 The goal here is to bring home a healthy baby 389 00:18:41,078 --> 00:18:44,373 and for you to be healthy enough to take care of that baby. 390 00:18:44,456 --> 00:18:48,085 It's nobody's business how you start your family. 391 00:18:48,168 --> 00:18:50,546 Dr. Terri, you know everybody gonna be in my business. 392 00:18:50,629 --> 00:18:53,382 And unless they're a pediatrician, 393 00:18:53,882 --> 00:18:56,969 you tell them to fuck off. 394 00:18:58,137 --> 00:18:59,138 Oh. 395 00:18:59,930 --> 00:19:01,014 Okay. 396 00:19:02,099 --> 00:19:03,684 I can tell 'em to fuck off. 397 00:19:05,185 --> 00:19:07,479 Why didn't you bring up that option earlier? 398 00:19:08,397 --> 00:19:09,565 Thank you. 399 00:19:09,648 --> 00:19:12,276 There is a house 400 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,904 Built out of stone… 401 00:19:19,449 --> 00:19:20,534 I'm here. 402 00:19:20,617 --> 00:19:21,785 Hmm? 403 00:19:21,869 --> 00:19:23,328 No matter what. 404 00:19:23,412 --> 00:19:24,454 I know. 405 00:19:24,997 --> 00:19:27,082 -I'm here. -Thank you. 406 00:19:30,252 --> 00:19:36,633 This is a place Where I don't feel alone… 407 00:19:39,595 --> 00:19:42,890 So, we… we just gonna sit here? 408 00:19:43,974 --> 00:19:47,019 You may as well come inside if… if you just wanna sit. 409 00:19:48,020 --> 00:19:49,646 Well, this is a first for me. 410 00:19:51,481 --> 00:19:54,359 'Cause, you know, it's not like… You know, we don't talk like that. 411 00:19:55,319 --> 00:19:57,946 But… I'm gonna be havin' a baby. 412 00:19:59,573 --> 00:20:01,033 For real? 413 00:20:01,116 --> 00:20:04,036 She a jump off, huh? You… you just like your daddy. 414 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,455 I bet she look just like your mama when she was young. 415 00:20:06,538 --> 00:20:08,916 See, this is why I… I shouldn't even have come up in here. 416 00:20:08,999 --> 00:20:10,876 No, no, no, you came to talk to Tariq Da Freak. 417 00:20:10,959 --> 00:20:13,795 -Then we're going to talk. -Nigga, stop calling yourself that. 418 00:20:14,630 --> 00:20:15,631 What… 419 00:20:22,221 --> 00:20:23,430 Look, I am… 420 00:20:24,389 --> 00:20:25,891 I'm tryin' here. 421 00:20:27,434 --> 00:20:29,102 I'm having a baby. 422 00:20:30,479 --> 00:20:31,813 And I'm thinkin', I'm… 423 00:20:32,439 --> 00:20:36,026 I'm hoping that when little man get big enough, I can bring him in here, 424 00:20:36,109 --> 00:20:39,613 and he can know his grandfather. That's… that's my hope. 425 00:20:40,864 --> 00:20:43,283 And I honestly don't know if it's a good idea. 426 00:20:43,367 --> 00:20:44,576 I know you don't. 427 00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:46,662 But I think… 428 00:20:47,204 --> 00:20:49,289 Man, I think it could be stupendous. 429 00:20:49,790 --> 00:20:51,959 I… I could be the grandfather 430 00:20:52,668 --> 00:20:55,295 to the father that you never had. I mean… 431 00:20:55,379 --> 00:20:56,838 Or some shit like that. 432 00:20:56,922 --> 00:21:01,009 I know you think that makes sense, and I'mma give it to you. It don't. 433 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:03,136 But I'mma give it to you 'cause I know what you mean. 434 00:21:03,220 --> 00:21:04,179 Look, man, 435 00:21:04,888 --> 00:21:06,765 a lot of people in here, 436 00:21:07,474 --> 00:21:10,978 their families don't fuck with them like that no more. 437 00:21:11,478 --> 00:21:13,522 But the fact that you fucks with me, 438 00:21:14,773 --> 00:21:15,899 I fucks with that. 439 00:21:17,150 --> 00:21:18,193 A'ight. 440 00:21:19,569 --> 00:21:20,988 -A'ight, man. -Yeah. 441 00:21:21,071 --> 00:21:21,905 A'ight. 442 00:21:23,615 --> 00:21:25,325 -We gonna try this. -Yes. 443 00:21:26,535 --> 00:21:30,038 -Don't mess this up. -I'm… I'mma try not to mess it up. I am. 444 00:21:30,122 --> 00:21:31,039 A'ight. 445 00:21:31,581 --> 00:21:35,127 And speaking of that, how's your… your… your friend, the big-boned girl? 446 00:21:35,210 --> 00:21:36,878 You bein' messy already. I just… 447 00:21:36,962 --> 00:21:40,007 I just asked you how the big girl was doing… 448 00:21:40,090 --> 00:21:42,634 -I asked you not to be messy. -You know what? 449 00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:45,345 Okay. I'm sorry. 450 00:21:45,429 --> 00:21:48,682 When I think about style, I think about intention. 451 00:21:48,765 --> 00:21:52,811 Clothes are never just clothes. They're communication. They're memory. 452 00:21:52,894 --> 00:21:55,063 Do you think they will allow me to take it home? 453 00:21:55,147 --> 00:21:57,566 Babe. No, you got the real thing at home. 454 00:21:57,649 --> 00:21:59,484 But also, let me ask. It's a good question. 455 00:21:59,568 --> 00:22:01,653 This is fire. 456 00:22:01,737 --> 00:22:04,990 It's so insane. Don't make me ugly cry. It's too easy. 457 00:22:05,490 --> 00:22:07,242 Oh my God, you guys. 458 00:22:08,827 --> 00:22:11,872 That's Bradley Ode over there. Bradley Ode. 459 00:22:11,955 --> 00:22:13,248 Oh, Bradley's the best. 460 00:22:13,332 --> 00:22:15,417 I love Bradley. 461 00:22:15,500 --> 00:22:16,585 Who Bradley? 462 00:22:16,668 --> 00:22:18,920 Bradley is a HSN executive. 463 00:22:19,004 --> 00:22:20,881 -Yeah, I knew that. -Oh, very dope. 464 00:22:20,964 --> 00:22:23,425 And I'm only wearing my own design 465 00:22:23,508 --> 00:22:25,427 with a guy that can put them on television. 466 00:22:25,510 --> 00:22:28,347 I'm cool, I'm calm, I'm collected, I'm relaxed! 467 00:22:28,430 --> 00:22:31,641 Thank you, and sorry that I went over time. 468 00:22:31,725 --> 00:22:33,226 Wouri Vice, everyone. 469 00:22:35,020 --> 00:22:37,064 Take your space, Wouri. 470 00:22:38,106 --> 00:22:40,233 And now our final stylist. 471 00:22:40,317 --> 00:22:42,986 Oh, I mean designer. 472 00:22:43,070 --> 00:22:45,489 Honored on our September cover, Mavis Beaumont. 473 00:22:45,572 --> 00:22:47,324 Oh my God! 474 00:22:47,407 --> 00:22:48,533 Give me some. 475 00:22:49,117 --> 00:22:50,911 You look the fuck good. 476 00:22:53,121 --> 00:22:54,831 Oh my God. Hi, everyone. 477 00:22:54,915 --> 00:22:57,626 Keep clappin'! I'm coming! 478 00:22:57,709 --> 00:22:59,503 Hello, hello! 479 00:22:59,586 --> 00:23:00,754 Thank you. 480 00:23:00,837 --> 00:23:03,340 Hi, everyone. Wow, um… 481 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,509 Oh! Okay. 482 00:23:06,009 --> 00:23:09,388 Uh, when I look around at this beautiful room 483 00:23:09,471 --> 00:23:12,099 full of love and light, I, um… 484 00:23:13,392 --> 00:23:16,603 I'm so happy to be here to celebrate with my colleagues 485 00:23:16,686 --> 00:23:19,773 and my coworkers and my chosen family. 486 00:23:20,649 --> 00:23:22,692 Thank you, Sydney, for this honor. 487 00:23:22,776 --> 00:23:26,738 It actually reminds me how long it takes to achieve your dreams. 488 00:23:27,614 --> 00:23:31,493 When you dream big, but don't look like everyone else, 489 00:23:31,576 --> 00:23:34,121 sometimes it feels like your dreams will never come true, 490 00:23:34,204 --> 00:23:35,080 but they can. 491 00:23:35,163 --> 00:23:36,665 That's right. 492 00:23:36,748 --> 00:23:38,458 You know, I used to do this thing 493 00:23:39,751 --> 00:23:43,463 where, um, I would always have to ask for somebody else's opinion 494 00:23:43,964 --> 00:23:45,799 about what's right and wrong, 495 00:23:47,092 --> 00:23:48,593 but… 496 00:23:49,094 --> 00:23:50,554 I don't do that shit anymore. 497 00:23:51,888 --> 00:23:53,056 I look within. 498 00:23:53,890 --> 00:23:56,476 We have to start doing that more often, you know? 499 00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,730 Intuition is the most powerful thing you will ever have. 500 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,275 No one can take away your intuition. 501 00:24:03,358 --> 00:24:05,902 Sometimes, shit, that's the only thing that fits. 502 00:24:07,696 --> 00:24:10,031 If you don't remember anything about tonight, 503 00:24:10,115 --> 00:24:11,366 please remember this. 504 00:24:11,992 --> 00:24:13,493 You need your people. 505 00:24:13,577 --> 00:24:14,661 Stay like a child… 506 00:24:14,744 --> 00:24:16,121 And the good ones… 507 00:24:16,663 --> 00:24:18,874 -I love you, K. -I love you too. 508 00:24:18,957 --> 00:24:19,875 You are a lifesaver. 509 00:24:19,958 --> 00:24:22,169 …oh, they show up when you least expect. 510 00:24:22,252 --> 00:24:23,920 Right when you need them. 511 00:24:24,921 --> 00:24:27,132 And in ways, honestly, you couldn't even predict. 512 00:24:27,215 --> 00:24:28,258 How was your day? 513 00:24:31,344 --> 00:24:32,554 You ready, baby? 514 00:24:32,637 --> 00:24:35,640 And sometimes, you really gotta go through the bad shit… 515 00:24:35,724 --> 00:24:37,142 It's okay. 516 00:24:37,225 --> 00:24:39,561 …to understand how good it can get. 517 00:24:41,396 --> 00:24:43,565 Oh my God! Cuddle puddle huddle, bring it in. 518 00:24:43,648 --> 00:24:45,859 But when you find your chosen family, 519 00:24:45,942 --> 00:24:47,986 life gets a little bit sweeter. 520 00:24:48,069 --> 00:24:50,530 It makes me so excited. 521 00:24:51,031 --> 00:24:54,034 They give you the power to celebrate the good stuff. 522 00:24:56,536 --> 00:24:59,873 And trust, there's gonna be a lot of good stuff. 523 00:25:02,542 --> 00:25:03,668 All my women 524 00:25:03,752 --> 00:25:06,796 All my women sittin' here trying 525 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,091 To come home before the sun… 526 00:25:10,175 --> 00:25:11,510 Oh my God. 527 00:25:12,844 --> 00:25:14,471 And all my sisters… 528 00:25:14,554 --> 00:25:17,140 Yes. Yes! Oh my God! 529 00:25:17,224 --> 00:25:18,683 That's me up there! 530 00:25:19,893 --> 00:25:21,770 -Who's there? -Oh my God! 531 00:25:21,853 --> 00:25:24,981 Hi, bubba! Hey, my love! 532 00:25:25,065 --> 00:25:26,858 -Look at that. -Wow! 533 00:25:26,942 --> 00:25:29,152 Hi, bubba. Look. 534 00:25:30,529 --> 00:25:32,239 And like I always say, 535 00:25:32,322 --> 00:25:34,824 it's not us that needs to catch up to the world. 536 00:25:34,908 --> 00:25:37,911 It's the world that needs to catch up to us. 537 00:25:40,038 --> 00:25:41,831 Thank you guys so much. 538 00:25:42,832 --> 00:25:43,750 Okay? 539 00:25:43,833 --> 00:25:48,421 Oh, let me tell you I am Superwoman 540 00:25:48,505 --> 00:25:51,258 Oh yes, I am 541 00:25:51,341 --> 00:25:52,759 -Yeah -Yes, she is 542 00:25:52,842 --> 00:25:54,761 -Oh yeah -Tell 'em 543 00:25:54,844 --> 00:25:57,264 'Cause even when I'm a mess I still put on a vest 544 00:25:57,347 --> 00:26:01,268 With an S on my chest Oh yes, I'm a Superwoman 545 00:26:01,351 --> 00:26:04,271 -That's right -Yes, I am 546 00:26:04,354 --> 00:26:07,607 -Said I'm a Superwoman -That's right 547 00:26:07,691 --> 00:26:11,278 -Yes, you are -Hey, yeah 548 00:26:11,361 --> 00:26:14,239 -Ah, ah -Oh yeah 549 00:26:14,322 --> 00:26:15,532 Yeah, come on 550 00:26:15,615 --> 00:26:17,617 -Ah, ah -Ah, ah, ah 551 00:26:17,701 --> 00:26:19,786 I'm tellin' you 552 00:26:19,869 --> 00:26:20,787 Tell 'em, girl 553 00:26:20,870 --> 00:26:23,290 -I'm super -So super 554 00:26:23,373 --> 00:26:25,959 -I'm super -So super 555 00:26:26,042 --> 00:26:28,628 -Yes, I am -Yes, I am 556 00:26:28,712 --> 00:26:31,256 -Yes, we are -Say what? 557 00:26:31,339 --> 00:26:33,258 -Yes, I am -Yes, I am 558 00:26:33,341 --> 00:26:38,638 -That's right -Yes, you are