- ♪ MTV ♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
- I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help
suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act.
Hold up.
- And you brought this to my place of business?
How dare you? What is this?
- [bleep]. - Oh!
But catching a player is not a one-person game.
- We all know he's been lying to everybody.
- Together with my relationship coaches--
- You have to say,
"I'm going to step up and do what's right."
- --and stealthy investigation team, we won't stop
until we find the truth.
- They think they slick?
Well, we slicker.
- Are you ready to see the footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up with the partner's
other lover. - Yeah.
- Are you willing to, like, team up with me, though?
Because I would like you to do this with me.
- Oh, [bleep].
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- Who the [bleep] do you think you are?
- Why the [bleep] do y'all got cameras in my mother[bleep]--
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Cheaters, beware.
- Don't play with me about my son.
- Your son?
- The truth doesn't cost anything.
There was a pregnancy scare.
- [sobs]
- But a lie could cost you everything.
- You got to fundamentally say, "I'm going to be different."
- You know I love you. - You love me?
Act like it.
- You've been playing with me for years,
and I ain't never did [bleep].
- We can't even figure out what the [bleep]
is going on in here.
- Tami! Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else,
because y'all [bleep] been played,
and that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
[funky music]
- ♪ Seasons change, and so does me ♪
♪ At my nose throw a punch if need be ♪
♪ Attitude change like, like I'm on a pivot ♪
♪ Please give me a minute ♪
♪ ♪
- Hello there.
How are you? - I'm good. How are you?
- You're not going to stand up and do the gentlemanly thing?
- I can definitely do that. - I am Tami.
Nikko, correct?
- Correct.
- Nice meeting you, Nikko.
- Nice to meet you, too.
- [laughs] Listen, you are very attractive.
I always acknowledge that.
I'm a sucker for a man in Air Force 1s.
- Thank you.
- [laughs]
- I appreciate that.
- I do want to hear all about you.
- OK.
I'm 30, just hit 30.
I do, like, big events around the country for eight
months out of the year. - Eight months?
- You know what I mean? - Eight months out of the year.
- What were you doing?
- Selling memorabilia.
- OK.
I tried to work in sales, and I just--
it's like, if you don't want [bleep], fine, I don't care.
[laughs] You know? - Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- I don't have it in me to, like,
just keep pushing, pushing. - I'm a little different.
I'm a little pushy. - Really?
- Oh, yeah. I work big events,
and I try to get the most money I can out of somebody.
- Gotcha, gotcha.
So where along the line did you meet Kara?
- I met her back in 2012 at a concert.
I saw her from a distance, and I was like, who's that?
Her friends were my friends, and my friends
were her friends.
- So you guys fell into kind of like the same circle
of people?
- Yeah, yeah.
You know, we're buddies ten years.
So I ended up going on the road for, like,
the last seven years and keep in contact here and there.
Then I finished my season with the events.
- With the events.
- And I went to Mexico on, like, a little vacation.
- OK.
- But she hit me up, and she's like, "Where are you?"
- I'm like, "If you want to meet me,
come to Puerto Peñasco."
So we went on, like, a little vacation for a month.
- Mm-hmm.
This is while you was still friends.
- Right.
- Was it that month that you guys crossed that bridge?
- Yes.
- Mm.
Were drinks involved?
- Hell, yeah.
- [laughs]
- For the first time in ten years, we hooked up.
Now we're just in love, you know?
I love her to death.
- Now, how long have you guys been actually a couple?
- We've been together for a year,
but really, we've been knowing each other for ten-plus years.
- Mm-hmm.
- We, like, got our own pad with the dogs running around.
- Oh, you guys live together?
- We live together now.
We're a family, you know?
- OK.
So this long, ten-year friendship
has now turned into, like, this year-long relationship.
- Yeah.
- Then tell me about why you're here.
- Well, she went to barber school,
and she ended up getting her--
- Her barber's license.
- Yeah, her barber's license.
And she's like, "Let's make a TikTok."
I'm like, "All right.
What do you want to do?"
And she's like, "Let me sit on you while I line you up."
- Oh.
- "OK, let's do it."
And she's all dressed cute in lingerie, and I'm like--
- Oh, in lingerie, too? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. OK.
Looking sexy as hell. I'm like, "All right.
Let's do it."
And it kind of went viral.
- Wow.
- Yeah.
- So she felt she had something then.
- Exactly. - Got it.
- I mean, do you want to see videos
of what she's got going on? - Yes.
- I'd love to show you. - I have got to see this.
- Yeah. Here.
Here's one right here.
- Yes, I sit on you.
I specialize in bald fades, straight-razor lineups.
I can give you a facial.
I can shave your chest.
I can give you a manzilian, and I can give you a massage.
OK, love you, bye.
- Well, what do you think inspired her to use this--
- Me.
- --method?
- She started with me, and she blew up.
- Mm-hmm.
- And then next thing you know, it's all going in her head.
- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
- She's got 100,000 followers on Instagram.
- So you think the fame of this changed her?
- I think it's the fame, yeah, for sure.
She's got, like, professional NFL players hitting
her up now on social media.
She's got all these athletes calling her.
And when I'm gone on the road and she's
not answering her phone calls, like,
what am I supposed to think?
It's, like, too much for me.
- And I was going to say, is it her changing
or-- follow me on this--
or is it your insecurity?
- Maybe it's my insecurity.
- You may be feeling like, she's sitting
on the laps of this NFL guy.
He could take her away from me.
- Exactly.
- But that doesn't necessarily mean she's doing something.
And if you're feeling insecure in any way,
there has to be something that's driving that.
[dramatic music]
- Sure.
- What?
- Maybe it's, like, something I did back in the day.
I don't know.
- What?
- Maybe-- yeah.
Maybe-- ever since I've been feeling like she's been up
to something, there has been this girl
that I've been talking to.
♪ ♪
- This has been happening while you were
in a relationship with Kara?
- Yes, yes.
- OK.
Was it sexually intimate?
- Yes.
- OK.
- But now she's got a boyfriend, another boyfriend.
- So she's moved on from you.
- She's moved on.
It's all--
- So now you're back on to Kara's side of things,
but you don't feel secure in your relationship.
- Yeah.
- Does she know?
- I told Kara.
She didn't like it, but we've gotten
past it that, and we moved on, moved forward from it.
- Mm-hmm.
- I want to marry Kara.
I want to raise a family, have kids one day.
And she tells me that's what she wants, too.
But if she's going to go around behind my back doing
all these things, she's not the woman for me.
- It's interesting that you want what you haven't given.
- What do you mean by that?
- You said, "I want someone to love me, that I can trust,
"that I know that has my back, that's not going to, you know,
disrespect me, cheat on me, do all these things."
And then you say, "I actually stepped out."
Those two are contradictory.
So going forward, make sure that you're
as transparent as you want someone else to be with you.
I have a team of investigators.
- OK.
- And what they do is, they go out, with your permission,
and they surveil your partner, Kara,
to see what she's actually doing.
- OK.
- I then sit down with you,
and we discuss that footage and how you want
to continue going forward.
If that's what you-- - That's exactly what I want.
- --would like for me to do.
- Yeah, I would love to do that.
- I would need your permission if you will allow us to.
- You have my permission for anything you need.
- Well, I'm just saying, I want to be
able to put cameras in your house to see
what's going on on the inside.
- Let's do it.
- OK.
And you're going to send me all the addresses and locations
where I can find Kara? - Yes.
- OK.
In the meantime, I want you to act
completely normal around Kara.
- She thinks I'm out of town right now.
- Oh.
Well, then if something's going on, according to you,
we'll be able to get it all in real time.
- Let's [bleep] go.
♪ ♪
[funky music]
♪ ♪
- So we have Nikko and Kara.
Right now it's day one of the surveillance.
We're at her hair studio, and we're
going to sit and wait to establish
a pattern to see where she goes and what she does.
♪ ♪
OK. Oh.
She just got out.
Who the heck's she hugging?
She's with a guy, a friend--
was that a client--
and is leaving.
Where's she going now?
OK, she's leaving.
We're going to go follow her.
But she's alone.
She looks like she's going into this marketplace.
Looks like a bunch of little--
looks like a food court, actually.
There she goes.
OK, I know what I'm going to do, guys.
This is a busy center.
I've definitely gonna change it up.
It's a female.
They notice stuff.
So I don't want to take any chances with her.
I'm going to put on this wig real quick.
[laughs]
This is a fun part of the job.
This is my purse camera, audio, video.
- She's networking.
Totally networking for her business.
♪ ♪
All right, guys.
Here she comes.
And she's off.
♪ ♪
Stay back a little bit.
Yeah, she's going back to her house.
This is her neighborhood.
All right, let's see.
So Kara thinks Nikko is out of town.
So I already set up cameras inside the house.
♪ ♪
And now we're going to watch her on my app,
and here we go.
♪ ♪
Oh, look.
She's calling someone.
- [groans] Jeez.
- She's staying in tonight. She's tired.
That sucks.
So that's one night of surveillance gone.
Not good.
♪ ♪
It's day two.
Back at Kara's house, going to see what the hell
she's doing today.
♪ ♪
Oh, she just got a call, looks like a FaceTime call.
She's fixing her hair.
Let's listen in.
- Who the hell is she talking too?
- You guys, we have something now.
She's planning a date with this guy tomorrow.
Let's call it a day.
♪ ♪
Day three.
We're at Kara's hair salon.
I can't go in there, of course, and get a haircut,
because she services men.
So I got Andre, who's part of my investigation team.
So I'm going to send him in with this key fob camera.
Ah, there he is.
Hey.
Andre, hey. How's it going?
- What's going on? - Thank you.
You're two minutes late.
- I know.
- But anyway, so I want you to put the key fob camera
down where you could see it.
- No problem, I got it. It's all good.
- Go. Go, Andre.
Get it.
OK, going in.
He's go-- he's in.
That's it, he's in.
- Ah, he's in.
Oh, my gosh.
- Holy crap.
I can't believe this chick.
- What's up?
- Who the hell is this?
- Service is over.
Oh, man, Andre.
Dude.
What the--
- Hey, man.
I'm going to need hazard pay, man.
My wife is on-- man.
Oh my god.
Then dude walked in, I'm like, who is buddy?
She said, "I don't got a boyfriend, I'm single."
- Wow, nice.
She's sleeping with this guy. - Yeah.
- She knows him for ten years.
- Wait a minute.
That's the dude right there.
- Who is this guy?
- I don't know.
- Andre, thanks, man.
- Good luck.
Let me know if you need anything, all right?
- Thank you. I appreciate you so much.
Thank you. - Any time.
[tense music]
- Oh, there she is.
♪ ♪
Looks like she's-- this is her neighborhood.
I think she's going back home.
So I'm going to sit here and wait.
If nothing, then we'll call it a night, but I don't know.
My gut's-- we'll see.
We're gonna just wait.
♪ ♪
Oh, she's-- oh, she's coming out.
♪ ♪
She looked like she was dressed up.
Oh, they're stopping right here.
Whoa.
[gasps]
He looks like the guy my decoy
ran into at the salon.
They're going into this club.
I got to go in.
I like the glasses for something like this,
because it's really good in low light.
♪ ♪
- ♪ Yo, them losses made me stronger, man.
♪ I made it out of the water ♪
♪ Thought that I was drowning ♪
♪ Look how people take advantage of you ♪
♪ When your guard down ♪
♪ I've been trying to show you I'm the one ♪
♪ And it's the right time ♪
- Hello, there. - Hey, Tami.
- Good to see you again.
- This is my partner, DJ Envy.
- What's up, man? - How you doing?
How you feeling?
Good?
- Have a seat on that side.
Thank you for coming back in,
because I told you once I got something from surveillance
I would call you in.
The reason that I have DJ Envy here is,
he is a radio personality, but more
importantly, he's an author.
And he has a book on relationships with his wife
of 28 years and can help navigate the emotions you
may feel from what you see.
- Everything that you could think of
when it comes to relationships,
I done been there, done that.
So I'm here to just talk to you man to man,
and we figure this out together.
So what got you to that point where you thought something--
something had to change, something that had to make you
feel a little funny.
- We've had issues in the past, you know?
Maybe she don't trust me.
Maybe she's trying to get revenge.
- You cheated on her in the past?
- Yeah.
- One thing I would tell you this,
and I'm sure Tami knows, once you break that trust,
it's never really getting past that.
- No, like I said, I think she's up to something, bro.
I really do.
- Well, I have to ask you before I show you.
If you watch this, it could potentially change the dynamic
of your relationship, friendship
with Kara forever going forward.
So I want to make sure that you definitely want to see it.
[tense music]
- I need to know.
- OK.
This was the first day of surveillance.
We meet up with Kara at her studio.
And so we follow her to a mall type of place.
So we send a decoy inside.
- Looks like she was soliciting clients for the business.
- Does she solicit often?
- I don't know.
- He knows that that's what she has to do for business
to get clients and all of that stuff.
I think he's clear on that.
- [sigh] Yeah.
- Yeah, but I do get the fame and the money thing, right?
'Cause once you get a little bit of it, that taste,
and all these people are paying all this money to get this
haircut, 'cause it's a lap dance haircut,
once that fame starts hitting and people are--
start complimenting you and--
it's a little different than when it's your boyfriend.
- Right.
- It feels very thirst trap-ish too.
- A little bit, yeah.
- She's gonna talk to her clients like that.
I just want to know what's going on.
- OK.
So we follow her to you guys' house.
- You reacting over that?
You and your girl could've got in an argument that day.
Let's see what's going on.
- OK.
This was the next day of surveillance.
- So--
- Did you recognize that voice, by any chance?
- [bleep] no, I don't recognize that.
- Does she have male friends? - Sure.
She's calling him "baby." [bleep] that.
- I call everybody "baby," though.
- I don't give a [bleep]. She's with me.
I'm the only one that she calls that to, you know?
- I understand.
- When somebody gets cheated on and they lose that trust,
it might take ten years to get over.
And I was in that situation.
I was a cheater.
I was an asshole.
I was insecure.
So I realized to sit back and just keep my ears open.
- I don't like this. What else we got?
I don't want to do this [bleep] no more.
Just show me what we got so we can get this [bleep]
over with.
Please, I just want to know.
- This is the next day of surveillance.
What we did here was, we needed to see what was going
on inside of her studio, so we had
a decoy book an appointment so that we can
see what she actually does.
- The [bleep]?
- She doesn't do this all the time?
- No, bro. Why she asking him to do the--
- Come in.
- That person brought her something to eat,
but then she came home.
We camped out.
She finally leaves, gets into a rideshare of some sort
and goes to meet the same guy that was at the studio
that brought her the food.
- Let me go find this [bleep] so I can end it real
quick and be done with her.
- Well, let me show you what else we have.
Now he's at your house when you're on the road.
- Now, he thinks you're her roommate.
- This mother[bleep] on my couch?
I've done so much for this girl.
I travel year round.
I'm the breadwinner in this [bleep].
- But this the thing, he thinks he's messing with somebody
that has a roommate.
He's in that house not knowing that you pay half those bills
or that you actually live there or that you--
that's your girl. - It's personal, bro.
It's personal. - That's what it is.
- It's personal.
- You cheated on her, and the trust changed.
- [moaning]
- [bleep].
[bleep] this [bleep].
- Oh, oh.
[dramatic music]
- [bleep] this [bleep].
♪ ♪
- Oh, oh.
- [bleep] this [bleep].
Y'all got me [bleep] up.
- [bleep].
♪ ♪
Get the [bleep] out of here, man.
Where she at?
- What she's doing is [bleep] up.
So let's go back upstairs; that way you can confront it.
And every option and feeling that you have,
you can give to her.
♪ ♪
- I think you have to see the process all the way
through, Nikko.
♪ ♪
- Oh my god, bro.
♪ ♪
Let's go.
♪ ♪
I don't know what to do, guys.
I just want to figure out what the next move is, honestly.
- Well, we have two options.
You can go and have a one-on-one conversation
with him.
You could ask him questions
that you don't have the answers to.
How long has this been going on?
When did y'all first meet?
- What's the other option?
- The other one is, my investigation team
can get back out there, and when they catch Kara
with this unidentified gentleman together again,
I can contact you, and then I will
come get you and take you so that you can have
a conversation with them.
- I want her to know that I know.
- That's called the Takedown. - That's the one I want to do.
Let's do it. - So you want to do Takedown.
- Yeah.
I-- I want to ca-- yeah.
- I will call you the minute that they're able to give me
some information. - OK. All right.
I apologize for the way I acted.
I'm sorry. - It's OK.
- It was out of character. - No, no, no.
- I'm sorry. - I understand.
I understand. - I'm just hurt.
- All right, brother.
- All right, I'll call you soon.
- What you think?
- I'm tired of the good white folks tearing up my office.
- [chuckles]
[light funky music]
- ♪ Can't we just talk? ♪
♪ Can't talk talk about ♪
- So the investigation team just called me.
- Mm-hmm.
- They have found Kara with this unidentified male
at her salon. - Really?
- Yes.
So, you know, I called Nikko and said, we're on the way.
- This is going to sound crazy, but what did he expect?
She's a star now.
- Do you really think fame changes people?
- Absolutely.
Absolutely.
You get money, you get fame.
You think you're supposed to be somebody that you're not.
- At the end of the day, she's still a cheater.
- She is.
He is too, though.
He is, too.
If they do get back together, got to throw that couch away.
- It's got to be gone.
- What's up, bro? - Hey, hey, Nikko.
- How you feeling, man?
- All right. How you doing?
- They are at Kara's studio.
So that is why we're here, to take you to have
that conversation with Kara.
- Do you think I should forgive her for what she's done?
- I think if that's what you want to do.
- I mean, I still love her.
But I don't want to be so soft to where, you know, I just--
she comes right back to me and I
let her just get away with it.
- There's a difference between soft and naive.
- Mm-hmm.
- Soft is fine.
But you're not going to be naive.
- We're here.
They are inside.
- So what's going to happen right now?
- Now, here's the thing.
Because we did not have access to her salon,
we don't have any cameras inside.
But the minute you get out of this van,
our cameras will follow you.
Envy and I will then be able to watch everything
that's going on, and should we need to step in,
we will do so.
- Let's do it.
- All right.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- Oh, boy.
♪ ♪
- It's big in there.
- It's big as-- yeah.
- What the [bleep] going on?
- Oh, lord.
- Yo, who the [bleep] is this [bleep]?
[bleep]... - What are you doing here?
- Who the [bleep] is this?
- Why are there [bleep] cameras here?
- Who is it? - Stop.
- Get your [bleep], and get the [bleep] out of my house.
- Do whatever the [bleep] you want to do.
- Who the [bleep] is this, Kara?
- You just look [bleep]...
- Man, let's do this [bleep], bro.
- Give a [bleep]? - What the [bleep]?
- You ain't [bleep]. You ain't [bleep].
- I'm the mother[bleep] man, obviously.
- [bleep] you. [bleep] you. - What are you doing?
- Hey, I'm talking to you.
This how you going to do me? What the [bleep]?
- The schoolgirl outfit has really [bleep] thrown me out.
Let's get on out of here.
- All right.
- Hey, Nikko. - [bleep] this [bleep].
Nikko, come here, baby.
- No, [bleep] that mother[bleep].
- Come here.
- Don't.
Nik, you're going to get me in trouble.
- Relax. Relax. - Get off me.
Get off me. Get off me.
- What are you doing?
- [bleep] go back to that mother[bleep].
Go back to him.
- Hello there, Kara.
- My name is Tami Roman, and this is DJ Envy,
and you are on a show called
"Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
Nikko came to me because he wanted help
to find out if you were being unfaithful
in your relationship.
- [bleep] play with me, man.
Got these cameras and [bleep] on me looking like stupid, man.
- After we put you under surveillance,
we found you to be unfaithful with this gentleman
who we don't know.
- Dante pays my bills.
I love Nikko, like--
- You love Nikko, but Dante pays your bills.
- Dante pays our bills, yes.
- Look, bro, let me talk to you for a second.
What's up, man? I'm Envy, man.
So let me explain to you what's going on.
So her boyfriend-- that's her boyfriend.
That's not her roommate.
- I thought I was her boyfriend.
- Nah, we actually been following her
and seeing everything that's going on.
How long y'all been together? - A year.
Damn near a year.
- You thought he was a roommate?
- Yeah. - He's not a roommate.
He's been with her for over a year.
- I always go to the [bleep] studio, all that, producer.
She's been, like, balling, you know what I'm saying?
- Mm-hmm. Where'd you meet her?
- [chuckle] I got my haircut by her.
- I can't believe you leave me for this [bleep] right here.
I'm going inside.
I don't want to [bleep] be here.
- See the [bleep] footage. - OK, come on.
Let's all go inside.
Envy.
Come on, let's go inside.
- Man, [bleep] this [bleep].
- [indistinct].
- We need to be able to have this conversation.
- Why are you doing this?
- That's just [bleep], bro.
- Listen.
- I'm not even [bleep] playing.
What do you want?
- I want to be with you.
- Then why are you doing what you're doing?
- Because this is my job.
This is what I do. - No, it's different.
- This is how I pay the bills.
- Now, Kara, I want you to understand that truth
is going to be necessary.
It is imperative in this moment,
because we put you under surveillance.
- OK, then you know it all, like,
what do you want from me?
Like, why do you need to hear it from me?
You saw the [bleep] footage.
- Well, because you were having sex in your house
with someone else. - No, I wasn't.
- We saw-- - In their house.
- We saw you, baby. - No, I wasn't.
- In my house. - We saw you.
- Yes, you were.
I know what goes on behind closed doors.
I know what it is.
That was more than what it is, bro.
That was more than what you usually do.
[bleep] you.
- I know what goes on behind closed doors.
I know what it is.
That was more than what it is, bro.
That was more than what you usually do.
[bleep] you.
- You cheated on me first, dude.
You cheated on me first. - We're done.
So be happy, we're done.
Be happy, we're done. - Come here.
Let me talk to you. - Go away.
- Let me talk to you.
- And everything I told you was true.
To the point she never got over the fact that you--
- No respect, homey.
I told her what happened, man. I apologized.
I was a man about it.
This [bleep] is going behind my back doing this [bleep].
[bleep] her, bro. I'm done.
- I know what it's like to have been cheated on
and then to have that feeling of like, get back,
so to speak.
So I get it.
- How could I forget that?
- The way he explained it to me was that once it was exposed,
he came to you, he apologized, he said what
it was, he cut it off with that person,
because he really loves you.
- I know that, but he's gone.
Like, I love Nikko, but he's on the [bleep] road,
he doesn't [bleep] me, he stays there
for weeks at a [bleep] time.
Like, I don't see my boyfriend.
- Have you had this conversation with him?
- Yes, I tell him all the [bleep] time.
Every time he tells me he's going,
like, I don't want him to go, like, that [bleep]
makes me hella [bleep] sad.
I don't get that emotional, like, support.
Like, Dante gives me that, because he's here.
- But when you say to someone, "I love you,
and I want to be committed to you,"
you have to understand that there
may need to be compromises and changes that are made.
- What do you mean?
- I'm going to be committed to Nikko.
Can I wait for him to come off the road and come back to me?
Not [bleep] somebody else on your couch
in the house you guys share.
- Are you ready to talk to me, Kara?
What's up?
- Come on in and join us.
- I want to know what's going on, man.
- I want to find somebody that really,
truly loves me and wants to be with me and only me.
I don't need to be with someone like her.
- That's the person that you should be
having that conversation with. - It's all good.
I'm done. It's over.
- What you got to figure out is what you want to do.
- I'ma go find her. Where she at?
- My name is Tami Roman. - How you doing?
- And-- I'm doing well.
Nikko came to me, because he thought
that there was some infidelity in his relationship with Kara.
- Why you've been lying to me, though?
We've been talking almost a year, you know.
She's my girl.
I asked her to move in, she was like,
me and my roommate signed a lease, all that.
- OK. - I ain't never saw this man.
- Bro.
A whole year this has been going on?
That's crazy.
- How long you all been together, man?
- A year. - For real.
The last year you've been coming to my crib
[bleep] her when I'm on the road.
How did you not know about me?
- You weren't never there, was you?
- Kara has been dishonest with you.
- How you gonna do us both like that, for real?
I feel so betrayed right now.
You [bleep] this man in my house.
- He doesn't know.
- So this is the dude you said when y'all were broken up?
- Yes, he [bleep] cheated on me.
- Why y'all living together, though?
What about the marriage?
What about all of that?
- I don't know, Dante.
I don't know.
- You know what I'm saying? We talked about that.
- Yeah, but like, I love Nikko.
- [bleep] them dogs. - Let me talk to you.
- This my heart you playing with, you kidding me?
Are you [bleep] me? - Let me talk to you.
- [bleep] dogs? - Let me talk to you.
I've been paying your [bleep] rent, man.
- You're heartless, you know that?
- You broke my-- - [bleep] you.
- You broke our trust, dude. - I don't give a [bleep].
- But do you see what you're saying?
- We're done. - I don't want to be done.
- Too bad. I'm going to go take the dog.
- You're not taking my [bleep] dog, dude.
- I will take the [bleep] dos. - No, you're not.
Then I'm going to go with you.
- Do you realize you say you love him
but you never apologized?
You never said, I'm sorry.
You just said, I did it, because you did it.
Leave it on the table today whether you
decide to stay or leave.
- I love you. I want to be with you.
I'm sorry I cheated.
I'm sorry.
Do you love me?
- No.
- Why?
- I don't [bleep] love you.
- Why?
- Dude, we're done.
- No, we're not, Nikko.
Like, stop.
We're not done.
Why are you doing this, dude?
Like, stop. Like, stop.
- Don't touch me.
- Stop, please.
I love you. - Stop.
Get off me, please.
- I'm sorry.
I'll never talk to him again.
- You'll never talk to him again?
- Let's all go out here, and let's wrap this up with Tami.
- Do you want to have a conversation with her
and be able to ask her the questions you want to ask her?
- I want to know some answers.
You ready talk to me now?
- Come over here, Kara.
- I've been paying you and another dude rent.
That's crazy.
- I don't understand why you keep saying that, though.
I don't bring home money?
The [bleep] you talking about?
- You bring home some money, yes, but--
- I bring home some money.
- What's everything that you paid for?
It's always rent, it's always rent,
but I'll be bringing her clients.
She'll be making hella money.
- It is what it is.
Dante, you can have her, bro.
- I don't want you.
- You don't want me? [chuckles]
- You provided for me a lot.
- Yeah.
A whole lot.
- But I love Nikko. - Come on, man.
You can't play with people heart like that.
You kidding me?
You don't [bleep] play me like that, man.
- I didn't.
- Man, [bleep] this [bleep].
[sighs]
- Do you feel like you'd be able to move past this?
- I don't know.
- You said you loved him.
You said you wanted to be with her.
- Now, Kara, you said, "I need him to be home more."
- Yeah, I do.
- "Because I spend a lot of time alone
and that's why I was with Dante."
But we heard you on surveillance say,
"He's going to be leaving, and I'm so happy,
because I'm sick of him, because it gives me me time."
- I don't know.
Maybe I felt like that when I said that, but I love you,
and I hate to see that I hurt you.
And if you stop going out of town, I will stop.
- Oh, did you hear that? - Wait, what did you say?
- That was a step in the right direction.
- What did you just say to me?
- I will stop straddling g-- I'll stop having sex--
- No, she could do that.
That's-- I don't care if you straddle guys that get hair--
- I'll stop [bleep] Dante if you just stay at home.
- Stay home and then she won't cheat on me?
- Stay home. Like, that's all I want.
- So I just got to be a sucker and just stay home all day?
I'm not doing that.
- I make a lot more money, like you don't--
- I don't care about the [bleep] money?
I'm talking about this guy, Dante that you [bleep]
cheated on me with.
- You have to gain that trust again.
If that means, "I'm gonna FaceTime you
when I'm away to make you feel comfortable," that's fine.
"If that means I'ma FaceTime you when I'm giving somebody"
a haircut to start back on that level
where you can trust each other,
then that's what you have to do.
But going back and forth and talking that money [bleep]
is horrible, because that money [bleep] means nothing.
That doesn't mean feelings.
- I don't know.
I'm over this.
- And you're not getting it.
- It's not any of your business.
Like, you brought these cameras into our lives--
- I'm gonna tell you why it's my business.
It's my business, because he asked for my help,
and what I do around these parts is,
I bring the truth to people.
And I want you to understand
money is not the end all be all.
You've got to want more for yourself
than what you are requiring for your happiness right now.
And you got somebody who rock with you, for real.
- Do you?
Are you going to go home with me?
[tense music]
♪ ♪
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- You've got somebody who rock with you, for real.
- Do you?
Are you going to go home with me?
I want to be with you.
- Bro.
- She's saying that she wants to be
with you, just like you said you wanted to be with her.
Dante and that whole relationship or interaction
was solely about the money.
She's proven that.
- I wish I could take it back.
He just offered me a lot of money,
like, I couldn't say no.
- Well, Kara, we just need to make sure that you're not
going to do this again because somebody
offers you a lot of money.
- If you stay home.
- You want to be with her, Nikko?
Truthfully?
- Yeah.
- You want to be with him?
OK.
- I just want honesty.
- Be honest with your man; be honest with your woman.
- Of course.
Yeah.
- OK, because ain't nobody excusing you.
You did cheat on her first.
You good? - Yeah.
- I'm not ready for all that yet.
I'm not ready for all that yet. - Stop.
- Stop, please. - Just stop.
- [sighs] - I'm sorry.
- Nikko, you got the truth; that's what I told you
I was going to give you, and I'm about to get up
out of here, but I did my job.
- Thank you so much.
- All right.
[gentle music]
- I need a drink.
- Sorry.
- I love you.
I'm sorry.
- Come on.
Let's go.
- I ain't know nothing about this, nothing at all.
I think that's what I'm more hurt about.
Like, you really played me.
I don't even know if she was lying about the rent,
you know what I'm saying?
I've been paying rent for her and this bum to stay there.
You know, I'm in love with her.
It's going to take some time to get over that.
But I'm definitely done with her, though.
- I love Nikko, but I'm a little hurt that
he [bleep] did this to me.
He's putting my [bleep] on blast.
Like, I literally could have to stop doing my job.
- I mean, my emotions went up the roof,
and I just can't believe what I saw.
It hurt.
You know, I'm just going to have to let my mind cool off.
If she could get past this and really understand, like,
what I want for our relationship,
then, yeah, maybe we can move forward and make
this [bleep] work, you know?
- Oh, boy.
They loved each other, and they couldn't
get past each other's negative things
that they were doing to each other to get to the love.
I just, you know, hope that she stops chasing the money
and they listen to each other, because they're not listening.
- She just has to understand there's more to life.
And at 26, sometimes it's hard to get
them to grasp that concept.
- Yeah. Let's get out of here.
- On to the next.
- ♪ Knew from the beginning ♪
♪ I be used to winning ♪
♪ Thought that I was slippin' ♪
♪ Thought that I was finished ♪
♪ Up on my [indistinct] from a distance ♪
♪ Just look at me now ♪
- Nikko, what's popping?
- Hey, Tami.
How you doing?
- I am doing well.
You know, I like to do my check-ins,
and I want to know how you're feeling.
- Right now we've been OK.
- You saying we have been OK,
so you and Kara are still together?
- Yeah.
We're trying to work things out.
- There she is.
- No, no, she heard me from the bedroom.
My bad. I'm sorry.
- Kara, let me ask you this.
Are you still being the stripper barber?
- Yeah.
- You are?
- Yeah.
- Oh, OK.
What about you, Nikko?
- He's leaving in like, five days.
- You are?
- Yeah.
- So, Nikko, best of luck to both of you
guys, and work on communication.
- OK. - OK?
All right, guys.
Good talking to you.
- You too. - Bye.
- All right, bye.
Cheaters, beware.
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again.
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing!
Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord.
Because I just might--
Oh, god, she's running.
--catch you in the act.