- ♪ MTV ♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
- You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
- I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- You brought this to my place of business?
How dare you? What is this?
- Ooh!
But catching a player is not a one person game.
- We all know he's been lying to everybody.
- Together, with my relationship coaches...
- You have to say, I'm gonna step up and do what's right.
- And stealthy investigation team,
we won't stop until we find the truth.
- They think they slick. Well, we slicker.
- Are you ready to see the footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up
with the partner's other lover.
- Are you willing to, like, team up with me though?
'Cause I would like you to do this with me.
- Oh, [bleep].
- Or take down both of them
in an undercover ambush.
- Who the [bleep] you think you are?
- Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my mother[bleep]?
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Cheaters, beware.
- Don't play with me about my son.
- Your son?
- The truth doesn't cost anything.
There was a pregnancy scare.
But a lie could cost you everything.
- You got to fundamentally say, I'm gonna be different.
- You know I love you. - You love me?
Act like it.
- You've been playing with me for years.
And I never did [bleep].
- We can't even figure out what the [bleep]
is going on in here!
- Tell me, tell me!
- Nobody should think they're better
than anybody else because you've all
[bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
- This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ I've been in my bag, I got LVs on my tags ♪
♪ You not tall enough ♪
♪ Your bank account not long enough for this ♪
- Mariah, how are you, love?
- I'm all right. How are you?
- I'm good. Thank you for coming in.
- You reached out to me because you said
that there might be something going on
in your relationship with Bobby.
So tell me about your relationship.
Take me all the way back to the beginning.
- We had met at an event.
- OK. - It was like a party.
- Was it in a club?
- Yeah. - Y'all met in a club, Mariah?
- Yeah. - OK.
- I was looking good.
And he saw me, and he walked up to me.
And he really wasn't my type.
I'm into like, dark skinned dudes,
and he was real, like, bright.
I was like, OK, he's still cute.
So me and him exchanged numbers,
we exchange Instagram.
- OK.
So after you guys exchanged numbers,
what was the first date like?
- So the first date, we had basically
just hung out at his place.
I mean, we was talking about our backgrounds.
And we come from like families that kind of like, separated.
So we kind of understood each other.
His dad wasn't there, and my mom really wasn't there.
- So you were raised by your dad?
- Mm-hmm. - Wow.
What was that like?
- It was great. My dad's my best friend.
- Oh, I love that. - So yeah, it was great.
- I really love hearing that.
So Bobby, he's a good listener?
- Mm-hmm, oh, for sure.
He's very sweet to me, you know.
In the beginning, he bought me flowers, roses.
- All the time? - Yeah.
All the time, because I love flowers.
So I told him that,
and then he just, like, went with it.
- Well, every time I see you, you gonna get a hydrangea.
- Right, literally.
So yeah, he's very sweet.
- So how long after you guys met
did you guys get together at his place?
- It was like a week.
- And how did that night end?
- We slept together.
- Oh, I knew it. I felt it in my spirit.
You gave up the cookies. - Yeah.
- OK, so in total, how long have you guys been together?
- Two and a half, three years.
- So how did it go from one week to two and half years.
What did that evolution look like?
- Actually, I got pregnant.
- Oh! - Yeah, I got pregnant.
- From that week? - Mm-hmm.
- Girl, no! Not from the week.
- Yeah, and we even had like made it official,
official during my pregnancy.
- And how old's your son again? - He's two.
- He's two, and you guys have been living together
as a family for the past year.
- Mm-hmm.
- So do you love Bobby,
or did the baby make you love Bobby?
- No, I love him. - OK.
What about him? You think he loves you?
- Yes.
He shows affection. He shows me that he loves me.
You know, when I get home from work,
he'll come home and give me a massage on my feet,
ask me, can he do anything for me, cook.
Makes it known that me and him are together.
He really is truly a good man to me and our son.
Like, but-- - So he's a good dad?
- Oh, yeah.
He's definitely a good father.
- OK, what about his family?
- Oh, I'm very close with his mother.
- So his mom really likes you? - Mm-hmm.
- Do you guys do outings together and all that?
- Yes, we sure do. - What?
- We sure do. - OK, I like that.
Now, is your child his first child?
- Yes. - OK.
- We just started talking
about potentially having another baby.
- Another baby?
OK.
Have you guys talked about marriage?
- Yes. - Mm, OK.
You know what, before I hear what went wrong,
I want to get more details.
What do you do for a living,
and what does he do for a living?
- I am a behavioral specialist.
- So you should be a good judge of character?
- Oh, for sure. - OK, and for Bobby?
- He is an artist, and he also has his own clothing line.
- He's a musician? - Mm-hmm.
- That's a certain type of person.
- That's a problem.
That's for sure a problem. - OK.
- There's a lot of beautiful women around him all the time.
He uses them you for his clothing line,
and they're in his music videos.
You barely see him because you just always see a woman.
- A woman, OK. - Always.
- Always around women all the time.
- Oh, for sure.
- Doing his thing, promoting something.
- Especially in the club, yes. - Mm-hmm.
- It's just that he uses that as an excuse
for a lot of things.
- OK.
- Oh, it's a part of my business.
But when he's home, and when I'm around him,
I feel so much secure.
- So then why are you sitting on my couch?
- Well, this was actually recent.
He had went in the shower for a second.
I went through his phone.
His phone just kept going off. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
And it was an unknown number, there wasn't a name under it,
no contact or nothing.
But it was a picture of a sonogram
and the sad face emoji.
And he sees that I have his phone in my hands
and snatches it from me.
As if I'm talking to him, you know,
he's doing stuff in his phone, you know what I'm saying?
So then he turned the phone around like, where, show me?
It's gone.
- I know this man did not try to act like you
didn't see what you say.
- Act like I'm delusional.
- Instantaneously started gaslighting you,
like, you tripping.
- Yeah.
- All of that are definitive red flags.
So I have to say, there's something inside of you
that really wants this relationship to work.
And what is that?
- Our son.
I want to keep our family together.
I honestly just want to know everything
before we make that step and get married.
I need to be sure.
Like, our family is on the line.
- That's a big statement.
OK.
All right. I'm gonna do this for you.
Where does Bobby go to escape?
- Either the club or his mama's house.
- OK. - Those are the places.
- The next phase for me is I sit down
with my investigation team and send them out
to start surveilling Bobby.
But what I need for you to do is act completely normal.
- OK. - All right, baby.
Well, I will call you as soon as we find something out, OK?
- OK, thank you. - Thank you for coming in.
- Of course
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- Tami got a tip from Mariah that Bobby
is possibly gonna be at his mother's house today.
So if Bobby thinks he's real slick, well, we slicker.
Let's hope that he's inside.
♪ ♪
Oh.
Looks like a gray vehicle that just pulled up.
There goes Bobby, right there.
He brought gifts out.
What is going on?
♪ ♪
I wonder if this is like, maybe the sister.
♪ ♪
They're pulling off, and we are right behind them.
OK, so we followed Bobby to a shopping center.
This is definitely not his sister.
They're holding hands the whole time.
I mean, it just look really romantic to me.
So it looks like they just walked
into the clothing store.
Let me just put this in here, y'all.
So on this hat cam, I have a camera inside of it.
This is gonna help me see inside of the establishment
without bringing too much attention to myself.
♪ ♪
- Oh, my God, they done ran up a $1,500 check.
♪ ♪
So it's a whole new day.
Mariah told us that Bobby is supposed to be at home.
But, y'all, we've been tracking him
from the house all day, and we're finna see
what the hell he got going on.
Smile, you're on candid camera.
Oh, wow, hold on.
Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute.
And this is not even the same girl from yesterday.
Oh, my gosh.
It looks like they just went inside a restaurant.
So we are finna go inside too.
I have my purse cam, and on the front of it,
we have a camera right here.
Let's go see what we got.
We're still following him, and he is alone.
On the Instagram, he was posting that he will
be hosting a party tonight.
So I'm headed to the club.
Let's go see what we catch.
OK, there he is, right there.
Wow, women galore.
That man was lit.
I'm just gonna sit and wait and see if he comes out alone.
[bleep], there he goes right there.
Hold on, wait.
So it looks like they're getting into his car.
Wow.
Oh, Lord, Jesus.
Wait a minute.
It looks like we followed Bobby to a residential neighborhood.
Come on, my boy. Damn.
Oh, wow.
And this isn't the same girls from earlier.
He literally just switched up females.
Who is this?
- ♪ All the pretty girls walk like this ♪
♪ This, this, this, this ♪
♪ Pretty girls walk like this, this, this, this, this ♪
- Hi, Mariah. I like a prompt sister.
I did invite relationship expert Coach Ken.
- Great to meet you. - Nice to meet you.
- Of course, you gave me permission
to have my private investigation team go out
and surveil Bobby.
Oh, Mariah.
When I tell you, child, we had a time.
Bobby be everywhere.
But they were able to follow him...
- OK, good. - And get some footage.
And so are you ready to see the footage?
- Yes.
- OK.
We followed him, and he ended up
at his mama's house.
And so there's a young lady that he met
at his mama's house.
Do you know who that is?
- No.
- OK.
OK, is he about to take her shopping?
- Pulled out the black card. - Are you--
- Took her shopping.
So he spent some bread that day.
- You do not know that woman? - No.
- Let us help you.
Let us support you right now,
and let's get through the process.
OK?
- We continued to follow him.
Here we go.
Can you tell if that's the same lady?
Because he done gave her flowers and a teddy bear.
He got all this stuff.
That's what he did with you when he first met you.
- Yeah, flowers every day.
- So they've had sex.
- She's special.
- What does she mean when she says,
"I hate that this happened."
- Oh, this is deep.
- This is something more.
- OK. - Oh, [bleep], he said it.
- Oh, my God.
- That's the ultimate disrespect.
It is.
But what we're going to do is, we're going to find out how--
how deep the disrespect goes.
- That was already too much.
- I get it, but we got to-- let's know it all.
- Let me play this last piece of footage...
- Let's know it all. - So I can get off of that.
We went on the social medias and saw that he
was gonna be out at a club.
We followed him, and do you know this woman?
- No.
- Did you just see what she just did?
- She was groping him. - Yes, she did.
So they ended up leaving the club together.
So he's all over her too.
Now we done see Bobby with three different women.
- Three different women.
- Now is this her place, or this his place?
Because he opened the door.
- That's our place.
- Well, where were you and the baby at?
- I've been over at my dad's house.
- You do not know that woman? - No.
- Seeing that right there, now, that done triggered me.
I've been there before.
You probably had sex with this woman in my bed
at my house where I have to lay my head.
- Yes, more than likely.
- If Bobby was right here, I'd just throw something at him.
He don't care about our son.
He don't care about our family.
He don't care about me, clearly.
- Now that you've seen everything,
you can either team up with the other women
and you guys go and confront Bobby together,
or what we like to call a takedown
and catch them in the act.
Which one would you like?
- I would like to speak to them though, the ladies.
- You would like to team up? - Mm-hmm.
- OK.
Now my issue is trying to figure out how
to get all of these women in the same place
at the same time.
But what I need for you to do right now
because I see that you're angry, and I feel you.
I'm with you, for sure.
But you have to leave here and promise me...
- I promise. - That you won't say anything.
- Because I want to know everything.
- OK. All right then, sweetie.
We're gonna figure it all out for you, OK?
- I appreciate it. - All right.
I'ma call you. - OK.
- That don't resonate to nobody but me?
- No, it does. - It's only me?
- No, it does. It does.
- You ever been called
a non-[bleep] factor in your relationship?
- No, I haven't. - OK, because I was.
Making other people feel valuable
and minimizing what we were supposed to have,
and then you get stuff like this.
That's why I'm upset.
I'm sorry. I'll talk to you later, Ken.
OK, I'm getting some drink.
[upbeat electronic music]
♪ ♪
- So I actually did speak with the investigation team,
and so they were able to, by way of this software,
contact all of the ladies, sending them a text
pretending they're Bobby, to get them
to all show up at this lounge.
And then we'll be able to monitor everything
with the hidden cameras that the investigation team
has already put into place.
This will be your opportunity to sit down with them
and have the conversation about their relationship with Bobby.
- Just remember, you need to know.
You deserve to know. You have a right to know.
- OK, all right, Ken. We're gonna get to the back.
Here comes one of the ladies.
Now, who does that look like?
- I can't tell.
- Bobby?
- There's no-- there's no Bobby here.
- Who are you? - I'm his girl.
Who are you?
- I'm his girl.
The only girl. - No, you--
- What's your name? - Mariah.
- Mariah who?
- What you mean, Mariah who? - Let her sit down.
- I'm his baby mother.
- Get her, get her. - Who are you?
- That little piece of [bleep].
- Hi, where's Bobby?
- Oh, you were ho number two?
- I'm a whole nother what?
- Hold on, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Who are you? - No, no, please.
- I done seen you. You [bleep] been irrelevant.
Who are you? - [bleep]
- I'm his baby mother. - I'm his girlfriend.
- We live together.
- Who is that?
- I'm Suge Knight, bitch. Who are you?
- Rainbow missing that [bleep].
- Keep that [bleep] on.
- She climbing over the table, child.
She climbing over the table.
Ladies, listen!
Listen. - Y'all dumb as [bleep].
- That's fine. - Hey!
Shut the [bleep] up!
If you want to disrespect each other,
I have no control over that.
But you will not disrespect me.
I am Tami Roman.
You are all on a show called
"Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
Mariah came to me because she wanted
to get clarity on her relationship with Bobby.
- Aww! - Mariah, sit down.
- You're mad. You're mad.
I got something you don't.
- Let me explain to you what's going on.
Mariah came to me.
She wanted to get clarity on her relationship with Bobby.
We put him under surveillance, and we had no idea
that we were going to find out that Bobby
was involved with all of you.
[dramatic music]
So let's try to get to the bottom of this.
What's your name, baby? - Nicole.
- That's Nikki. We see from the chain.
And this is Ashley.
What's your question?
- How long have you all been messing with Bobby?
- It's been about three, four years.
- Four years? - Same amount.
- Oh, four years for you too? OK, how about you?
- Three years. - Three years.
And you, my love, have been with him
the shortest amount of time.
- Oh, damn.
- Have you all been to his mom's house?
- Me and his mother are going out to brunch Sunday.
- So does she think that you are Bobby's girlfriend?
- She knows I am. I'm the only one, the main one.
- You can't be the only one.
- OK, how about you?
- I know his mama, his step daddy, his cousins,
his friends, his homegirls.
I know them all.
- Have you been to his mother's house, Nicole?
- I know the family, sweetheart.
- Listen, each one of you are involved with Bobby,
but the reality is, you're not blaming Bobby.
You're not making him take any accountability.
Mariah, when you came to Tami,
you came because you wanted answers.
And each one of them has been taking
his position because we all know
he's been lying to everybody.
- Did any of you ladies know about Mariah?
He's said he's in love with her.
They've been talking about marriage, having another baby.
- That's a lie.
He wasn't trying to have no baby with you, sweetheart.
You got pregnant.
You tried to get pregnant by him on purpose.
- You do know that they live together?
- They don't. - They do.
- Did you know that he had a child with Mariah?
- Oh, well, we just had a baby that I lost, so...
- What did she say?
- Did she just say she lost a child?
- Yes. - She just lost a child.
- Oh, so it was her.
- I feel like that was a traumatic situation
that you went through.
- It was.
I was only six or seven weeks,
and we didn't expect for that to happen.
We had just left the doctor.
We've always talked about marriage and commitment,
and, you know, it just happened, so...
- Did you send him a sonogram picture?
- He came with me to the hospital.
- But I'm asking this question for a specific reason.
- He came to the hospital with me.
I didn't send him a sonogram. So who sent him a sonogram?
- Somebody sent him a sonogram?
♪ ♪
[dramatic music]
- Did you send him a sonogram?
Because Mariah saw that sonogram photo.
- He came to the hospital with me.
I didn't send him a sonogram. So who sent him a sonogram?
Someone sent him a sonogram.
- Nikki, you're acting real shifty, Nikki.
Were you pregnant too?
Did you send the sonogram?
- Yeah.
- Come here, Nikki. I want to talk to you.
- While Tami's talking, listen.
- I want to find out answers about my man.
Where is Bobby? - Well, listen.
- Tell me about the baby.
- So we did not plan to have a child.
But we had a miscarriage.
But I mean, I don't want them bitches to know that.
- Let me ask you a question.
So you said you were pregnant, right?
- Yes. - How long ago was that?
- I lost my baby October 1st.
- October 1st, all right.
How long have you and Bobby been together?
- Three years.
- If you find out, when you talk to Bobby,
and you find out--
- First of all, his name is [bleep] Brion.
- Brion is his name?
- These bitches don't even know him.
Where is he? - He's coming, he's coming.
- What I'm trying to get you to understand
is this person that's in the middle of all this
has not even been truthful with you.
But you should want to get as much information as you can
so that you can address him.
- If I could talk to these bitches.
They're like on a [bleep] I don't know what.
They just keep talking, keep talking, keep talking.
- I receive that, and I'ma go try
to have a conversation with them
so that we can see if we can have this conversation, OK?
- Tell me about your connection with him.
- My relationship with Brion started about three years ago.
- OK. - He came to me.
- OK.
- And he invited me to spend a weekend with him,
and after that, we were inseparable.
- What did he tell you about Mariah?
- As far as I know, she get on his nerves,
make his life a living hell.
- Mariah, Nicole, let's try to have a conversation, OK?
- We've been in the same room multiple times,
and we've never had issues with each other.
We've been in his music videos, his parties, like--
- So why'd you pop off on me like that?
- Because I'm like, why are you here?
And why are you coming at me crazy?
You know me.
- Yeah, but I didn't know you to be like that.
- So y'all two know about each other?
- Right.
- So you both feel that you're in a relationship?
You can't hold her at fault for not thinking
or not knowing that you're actually in a relationship.
She's only going off of what she was told and vise versa.
And then to Mariah,
she was unaware of all of y'all, OK?
- Yeah.
- What if he was telling them the same thing
he was telling you?
Truth is, he's lost a baby with you,
he's lost a baby with her, he has a child with her.
- Where is he?
- That's the even better question.
- Where is the man of the hour?
Where is he?
- Nikki's texting Bobby right now.
And we're gonna get him here.
- Yeah, I just texted him. - Nikki already did it.
We're gonna get him here. I'll be right back.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- I got it going on. - Why are you laughing?
- What's up with all these cameras, man?
- I just want to talk to you.
- I ain't never been-- this some fed [bleep] though.
No, this is not fed. - Bruh, this is federal, yes.
- I thought she was just a home girl.
- Who? - I was just with you.
- She's a home girl, right?
- We all friends. What's going on?
- Friends, you have kids with your friends?
- Who's your friend? - Who am I?
- Who is she? - Who am I to you?
- That's the mother of my child.
- OK, and?
Did you not just tell me that she's [bleep] psycho,
she trapped you with the whole child,
that you never wanted to have a kid with her?
- When I said all that? - Oh.
- So he's gonna deny.
- We knew that. - He's gonna deny all of it.
- We knew that.
- Am I the only girl for you, yes or no?
- Listen, you are. You are cool.
You are--she's--
she is close to me, yeah.
- OK, so he can't answer any questions
because they're all firing.
So let's go. - And it's easy to--
- Yeah, let's-- - So what y'all trying to do?
Y'all trying to have a regular conversation?
Regular conversation?
- You want to know what we trying to do?
- Regular conversations? - Hi, Bobby.
♪ ♪
Let me tell you what it is. - OK.
- It's "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- What?
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- Hi, Bobby, how are you? - What's going on?
They tripping. - OK, are they?
- Yeah. - All right.
Well, listen, let me tell you what it is.
It's "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- What?
- Because Mariah came to us.
She wanted to get clarity about your relationship.
- All right.
- So we had our people surveil you to find out
that you were with Nicole, Nikki, and then there's
another young lady, Ashley.
- I'm not hurting nobody. I'm just listening.
- Yeah, I got dealings. I got dealings.
But we friends. - Dealings?
- Anybody I talked to or involved with besides Mariah
is dealing with business first.
- I'm business? - You know what I'm saying?
- Sit down, and let's have a conversation.
- A whole lot of business going on.
- A whole lot business.
- A whole lot of extra stuff that's going on.
- Bobby, I'm not gonna let you gaslight these women
and not take accountability for the chaos manufacturing.
- I didn't know it was chaos that was created.
- How could you not? - I didn't know.
- Well, if you are supposed
to be in a relationship with Mariah...
- Right.
- But you're seeing all of these women--
- Don't be acting like y'all ain't got no [bleep]
in y'all phone that y'all ain't talking to.
Come on, bro.
- Who am I to you? - Who is she to you?
- Brion, who is it? Brion, who is that?
- Somebody I care about that's a great friend of mine.
- A friend? - For real?
- So when I got pregnant, I was your friend?
- It ain't no relationship. Yes, yes, yes, yes.
She was a friend.
- We can't hear the answers if you guys
are yelling over the answers.
- She was a friend. - She was a friend.
Nothing more than a friend?
- Can I take my jacket off? - Please do.
Get comfortable.
- They got me a little hot up in here.
- Yeah, 'cause you gon' be here for a while.
- We'll talk to him, but you got to calm down.
- [bleep] serious?
- It can't happen like this.
Listen, listen, listen, listen. - For real?
Is he for real?
- Can I go over there with you because I can't hear.
Come on, let's go over here.
- That's fine, Bobby.
You can [bleep] these bitches. I don't give a [bleep].
- OK.
So let's have this conversation for real.
Listen, I get it.
I can respect a mother[bleep] that come to me and say,
"Look, this is what it is.
"We gon' [bleep] every now and again.
I'ma pay your bills."
- But y'all be saying that, but as soon as the guy
keep it real, then y'all are gone.
- You haven't, though.
So you don't know that to be true.
They all feel they're in a relationship.
- If you asked all of them besides Mariah,
have they been around Mariah, they would say no
because I keep her sheltered away from my music life.
Like, they understand the lifestyle.
- That doesn't make it right just because you
keep her sheltered.
I mean, you really have to process what you've done.
- I processed it.
But what I'm saying is, the whole like,
oh, we lovey dovey, being in a relationship,
and you just me and--nah.
You got to just let things flow and--
- No.
- Marinate into what it's gon' marinate into.
- Because people end up hurt.
All of them feel like they have a close emotional
and interpersonal dynamic with you
that extends past a friendship.
- Well, that's where they mistaken.
- OK, so we gon' go over there and join
the rest of the ladies.
And I'm expecting you to do the right thing in this moment.
- I got you. - OK?
All right, come on. Let's go.
[tense music]
Come on, y'all. Let's all come on around.
♪ ♪
- OK, Bobby.
You were having sex with all of them.
Is that fair? - That's fair.
- OK, did they all believe that they had
a connection, an emotional connection with you?
You led them to believe that as well.
- I believe so. - OK.
- We had one conversation about it, and that was it.
Right or wrong?
- It doesn't matter.
You just swept it under the rug.
- Do you think that that situation is why she felt
like she had a different type of relationship with you
and why she thought it was more than that?
- Yeah.
- I got a question.
This woman is still obviously hurt.
- Right.
- She has an emotional connection with you,
and she had a miscarriage, your baby.
All right, and she's still grieving that loss.
How does that make you feel?
- We wasn't trying to keep the baby.
She got a son. I got a son.
- I'm not talking about the baby.
Regardless of the baby, what did you say to me
the day before yesterday?
What am I to you? Are we working on a commitment?
Are we working towards long-term?
I want you, and you told me you wanted me too.
That was 48 hours ago.
- Some of the [bleep] she said, I did say.
- OK.
- But she's taking it in a whole nother form
of what I was saying.
- So why did you bring me flowers and a bear?
- That was an apology. That was an apology.
- You said you didn't want to lose me...
- 'Cause you felt like-- - And you loved me.
- You felt like I didn't care,
so I tried to show that I did care.
- But, Bobby, that may not mean what it means
to you that it means to her.
She really thinks-- - And I see that.
- You see what I'm saying?
- Bobby.
Is there anything you could say to these ladies
that might explain your behavior?
- I ain't come from no strong, like, male in the background.
It was my mom.
She was a hustler, three jobs, three kids.
So that's all it was about, like, seeing somebody
get money all the time.
And if love come, it come. You see what I'm saying?
Then I got my heart broken in sixth grade.
- Oh, God.
- A female chose another dude over you in the sixth grade?
- No, I'm talking about girls who [bleep] in sixth grade.
That's what I'm talking about.
And she's [bleep] three of my homeboys...
- In sixth grade?
- That I was cool with, and I caught them.
Then I move on to 21, 22.
The girl been in a relationship with her [bleep]
locked up the whole time we've been living together.
You know what I'm saying? Like, women do [bleep].
- I understand that you ladies feel like
you've gone through far more than that moment, right?
But what we're talking about now is childhood traumas
that shape us into the people that we are.
So when you talk about somebody who says,
"Every woman I ever been with messed over me,"
that creates a person who's not gonna be serious
about any woman that he comes in contact with.
- Well then stop coming in contact with us.
- And don't create women that become
that person because of you.
- Hurt people hurt people.
- I agree with that.
- This is a coping mechanism for Bobby.
Now, I'm not absolving him of what he's done
because it's wrong on all levels.
Now, the way he goes about that is wrong.
But at the end of the day, of any of these women,
is there one woman that you really care about,
other than business?
♪ ♪
- At the end of the day, of any of these women,
is there one woman that you really care about,
other than business?
[tense music]
- Mariah.
See, me and Mariah, it's like-- you know what I'm saying?
Like, I love her.
She got my son.
What we got is permanent, it's for life.
You feel me?
That's just what it is.
- Which then means, you're not gonna put her
in this situation ever again.
- Right.
- And, Mariah, can you be committed to him?
- Nah, I'm good.
It's too much.
I don't trust him.
- That right there is because this moment is happening.
- Mm.
So you've embarrassed her.
- Right. - OK.
- I'm embarrassed too.
- That woman sat in my office and said
she loved everything about you
and wanted to spend the rest of her life with you.
But this moment has hurt her.
And everything that you have put these ladies through,
you've got to change that.
You understand what I'm saying?
So what I was called here to do has been done.
And, Bobby, I'm thankful that we did it because now they
all have clarity and truth.
- Thank you. - I thank y'all.
I really do.
OK.
[soft music]
- This is crazy 'cause, like...
♪ ♪
I feel like a man could love more than one woman at a time.
And it's selfish, but it's the truth.
So being honest with myself, I was in love with all of you
for different reasons.
- I personally don't think that I'll do
business with Bobby anymore.
I think that's kind of sailed.
- I still need to talk to him.
Like, I'm still taking everything in all at once.
I believe there's a side of every story.
Even if that side may be bull[bleep],
that's for me to discern.
So I still want to talk to him.
- Am I going to entertain Bobby coming back in my life?
Probably not.
And there's no telling what else hasn't come out yet.
So I don't need that in my life.
- It is what it is. I'm over it.
Feeling upset, angry.
What really pissed me off was just about the two women
being pregnant.
There is nothing that he can say or do
that can make me take him back.
- ♪ I'm on the cage, I'm out the cage ♪
♪ I'm out the cage, I'm out the cage ♪
[FaceTime ringing]
- Hi, Mariah.
- How are you?
- I'm doing well.
We haven't spoken since that night.
I'm doing a check-in. What's going on?
- So basically,
me and Brion aren't together.
Right after the show, me and him both decided
to go our separate ways.
So yeah. That's what's going on.
- How is your son handling this situation?
- Like, right after the show, him and me been, like,
arguing a lot and stuff like that.
So he kind of hasn't been too much around.
But, like, they talk to each other
on FaceTime and stuff like that.
But, you know, he's still-- you know, our happy boy, so...
- But do you want to have a relationship with Bobby,
or do you like the single life?
- I'm not trying to be in a relationship right now.
I am enjoying just being single,
not having to worry about any extra bull.
- Yeah, totally understand.
Well, you're a beautiful girl, so when you decide to step out
back into the dating pool,
there would be no loss of options.
- Right.
- But more importantly, is there anything that you felt
you learned from going through this experience?
- After everything happened and, you know,
finding out everything, I realized
that I am very strong, I didn't break.
- I always saw the strength in you.
And if someone is not providing reciprocity for the things
you feel you're giving into a situation
or into a relationship,
you have to be woman enough to step away,
for your own mental health, and self-love, and self-care.
And you did just that.
And right now, all I see is a beautiful woman
full of strength who's gonna be a great example for her son
and who's gonna travel a road that is gonna lead
to the things that you desire, the desires of your heart, OK?
- Thank you. I appreciate that.
- All right. Bye, sweetie.
- All right, bye then.
- Cheaters, beware.
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again.
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing!
- Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
- Because I just might... - Oh, God, she's running.
- Catch you in the act.